SI-7899 Don't infer by-name types during, e.g. eta-expansion

Given:

    def id[A](a: A): A = a
    def foo(f: (=> Int) => Int) = ()
    foo(id)

We eta-expanded `id` and inferred `A = (=> Int)` to satisfy the
expected type set forth by the formal parameter `f`.

We really shouldn't go about inferring types that we can't *write*.
Our attempt to do so led promptly into a `ClassCastException` in the
enclosed test.

This commit:

  - drops by-name-ness during `inferExprInstance`
  - discovers the same latent CCE in pos/t7584 (now a type error)
  - compensates by using placeholder functions rather than
    eta-expansion and moving that test to `run` for good measure.