ISPN-2699 Transport object factory propagates Ping exceptions

* Changed the way response header is changed so that all values are
read as soon as possible, hence reducing the chances of sockets being
left with unread data in case of any exception.
* Use generics properly in Apache pool object factory implementation
for Transport objects.
* RetryOnFailureOperation now invalidates a Transport object in the
pool if a TransportException is received. This is necessary so that
those Transport objects that are invalid can be destroyed and hence
any sockets left open can be closed properly.
* Cleaned up references to InetSocketAddress and replaced them with
references to SocketAddress.
* Parsing related errors should invalidate transport instance since
often these are the consequence of previous errors. This way, next
time a client sends an operation to the server, a brand new
connection will be used.
ISPN-2699 Fix compilation error in the Spring module
ISPN-2537 LockCleanupStateTransferTest fails randomly

LockCleanupStateTransferTest assumed that once the tx is done on one
remote node, it's done on all of them (and on the originator as well).
ISPN-2817 Create a locate() API on the Java Hot Rod client