Address unload order issues for res_stasis* modules

I've noticed when doing a graceful shutdown that the res_stasis_http.so
module gets unloaded before the modules that use it, which causes some
asserts during their unload.

While r386928 was a quick hack to get it to not assert and die, this
patch increases the use counts on res_stasis.so and res_stasis_http.so
properly. It's a bigger change than I expected, hence the review instead
of just committing it.

Review: https://reviewboard.asterisk.org/r/2489/


git-svn-id: http://svn.asterisk.org/svn/asterisk/trunk@388350 f38db490-d61c-443f-a65b-d21fe96a405b