doc: dgram: reword dgram.Socket#send() docs

Make it clear that the address argument is not really optional and fix
some Engrish and long lines while we're here.

Fixes #6433.
blog: Post for v0.11.8
doc: document node signal handling

Partly lifted from uv.h, partly from observation of node.cc.
doc: Correct and add several items

Several names/urls were out of date, and some really
awesome stuff was missing.
doc: encoding is ignored if input is a Buffer

NOTE: it wasn't in 0.8

fixes #6386
crypto: unbreak build with no-NPN shared openssl

Unbreak the build when linking against a shared version of OpenSSL that
doesn't support NPN (Next Protocol Negotiation.)

Fixes the following build error:

  ../src/node_crypto.cc:140: error: no member function
  'AdvertiseNextProtoCallback' declared in
  'node::crypto::SSLWrap<node::TLSCallbacks>'
  ../src/node_crypto.cc:147: error: no member function
  'SelectNextProtoCallback' declared in
  'node::crypto::SSLWrap<node::TLSCallbacks>'
src: remove container_of, use CONTAINER_OF

CONTAINER_OF was introduced a while ago but was not used consistently
everywhere yet.  This commit fixes that.

Why CONTAINER_OF instead of container_of?  The former makes it crystal
clear that it's a macro, not a function.
build: make v8 use random seed for hash tables

Upstream V8 as of commit v8/v8@4bc70e8 uses a fixed seed of 314159265
for hash tables unless instructed otherwise.  Tell V8 to keep using a
random seed.
npm: Upgrade to 1.3.14
Merge remote-tracking branch 'ry/v0.10'