DAGCombiner: Don't drop extension behavior when shrinking a load when unsafe.

ReduceLoadWidth unconditionally drops extensions from loads. Limit it to the
case when all of the bits the extension would otherwise produce are dropped by
the shrink. It would be possible to shrink the load in more cases by merging
the extensions, but this isn't trivial and a very rare case. I left a TODO for
that case.

Fixes PR16551.