performance/write-behind: guarantee non-overlapping concurrent writes

Maintain a list of writes (either written behind or SYNC) which are
currently "in progress" (i.e, STACK_WIND'ed towards server) and hold
off any new STACK_WIND of write (either written behind or SYNC) which
overlaps with any of the "in progress" writes.

This is a guarantee which AFR's eager-lock depends upon (though not
strictly a write-behind requirement)

Change-Id: Icedd0b51b440366a906dc9223d62b7fd6ef2ca03
BUG: 857673
Signed-off-by: Anand Avati <avati@redhat.com>
Reviewed-on: http://review.gluster.org/4551
Tested-by: Gluster Build System <jenkins@build.gluster.com>
Reviewed-by: Raghavendra G <raghavendra@gluster.com>