[1/2] Use proplist instead of #change record

This commit lays the groundwork by translating the record into a
proplist.  A follow-on commit will cause the RPC workers to send the
proplist instead of the record.

It also converts the 'complete' tuple into a tagged proplist.

BugzID: 24236
[2/2] Use proplist instead of #change record
Refactor payload to simplify coordinator

Two things we're doing here:

1) We're unwrapping {doc, {error, Reason}} on the RPC side.
2) We're already suppressing the doc field on the RPC side so we don't
have to duplicate the work on the coordinator.
Report number of pending changes in shard

Also refactor the _changes accumulator into a record.

BugzID: 24236
Collect pending counts and report sum at end

BugzID: 24236