Implemented SO_RCVBUF tweak and documented it.

Hi Leon,

please have a look at this patch for inclusion in the next release of AnyEvent::Handle::UDP. I needed it :-)


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I found this patch useful during the development of my Net::Statsd::Server module. It drops UDP packet loss dramatically and beats the crap out of the nodejs version of the statsd daemon :-)