dwc_otg: Call usb_hcd_unlink_urb_from_ep with lock held in completion handler

usb_hcd_unlink_urb_from_ep must be called with the HCD lock held.  Calling it
asynchronously in the tasklet was not safe (regression in
c4564d4a1a0a9b10d4419e48239f5d99e88d2667).

This change unlinks it from the endpoint prior to queueing it for handling in
the tasklet, and also adds a check to ensure the urb is OK to be unlinked
before doing so.

NULL pointer dereference kernel oopses had been observed in usb_hcd_giveback_urb
when a USB device was unplugged/replugged during data transfer.  This effect
was reproduced using automated USB port power control, hundreds of replug
events were performed during active transfers to confirm that the problem was
eliminated.