All ability to select a subset of events via request_raw_recipient_data_...

...export method

@dollschasingmen 

@ajcantu @linedotstar you can now use this gem within lumos_rails to pull the OPTOUTS only (much faster/smaller job) and thus you don't need to hit the DW.

One small caveat - silverpop only allows one data job to run at a time, so if you launch yr call when the big export is running, it will take a while.

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