Embarcadero: Fix default link stack/heap flags (#13912)

Since commit c70beb4b (change the default borland stack size, 2003-05-05),
commit 1b572eb9 (remove -H flags, 2003-05-08), and commit 2d411398 (Stack size
in generated programs should be 10 meg, 2003-06-12) CMake adds link flags to
select a 10MB stack.  At the time this was for consistency with our behavior on
MS, but that was recently removed by commit 51af1da3 (Remove "/STACK:10000000"
from default linker flags, 2012-11-23).

Change our Embarcadero link flags to select the default stack and heap settings
according to the compiler documentation.  This is more reliable than leaving
the flags out completely as it has been reported that the linker does not
always use its documented defaults.

Suggested-by: Mathäus Mendel <contato@mathausmendel.com>
VS: Specify WinCE subsystem also for DLLs

This fixes a link error in VS 2005: unresolved external symbol
__DllMainCRTStartup@12.
VS: Specify WinCE subsystems correctly in VS 9 2008
Merge topic 'Embarcadero-linker-flags' into next

188b0e9 Embarcadero: Fix default link stack/heap flags (#13912)
Merge topic 'windows-ce-vs-subsystem' into next

cf82d1e VS: Specify WinCE subsystems correctly in VS 9 2008
8f4cae7 VS: Specify WinCE subsystem also for DLLs