ISPN-3281 Deadlock in non-transactional caches during rebalance

https://issues.jboss.org/browse/ISPN-3281

If the topology id on the primary owner is greater than the one on the
originator, send the command back to the originator with the higher
topology id.

should fix ReplicatedTwoNodesMapReduceTest.testinvokeMapReduceOnSubsetOfKeysWithCollatorAsync