Some assorted fixes for the 4.1 release notes:

* Added release notes for secrets.yml and mentioned it in the highlights
* Added release notes for Mailer previews and mentioned it in the highlights
* Added release notes for Module#concerning
* Removed mention for AV extraction from the highlights
* Rearranged the major features to put highlighted features first
* Various improvements and typo fixes

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Merge pull request #13346 from chancancode/release_notes_etc

Release notes fixes [ci skip]