avoiding repetition of reminders in case we disconnect
use a function instead of duped code when removing delays upon reconnect
Revert "use a function instead of duped code when removing delays upon reconnect"

This reverts commit 31534bf48c0340d9af207b95f0275edf0062684f.
commenting out some stuff to re-enable bot restarts
Move the delay_set to _start
we do not need anymore to delete delayed irc events, nor kernel ones