SI-7899 Don't infer by-name types during, e.g. eta-expansion

Given:

    def id[A](a: A): A = a
    def foo(f: (=> Int) => Int) = ()
    foo(id)

We eta-expanded `id` and inferred `A` to be `=> Int` to satisfy the
expected type set forth by the formal parameter `f`.

We really shouldn't go about inferring types that we can't *write*.
Our attempt to do so led promptly into a `ClassCastException` in the
enclosed test.

This commit:

  - drops by-name-ness during `inferExprInstance`
  - tests that this results in a type error for the reported bug
    (neg/t7899)
  - tests that a method with a by-name parameter can still be
    eta expanded to match function with a corresponding by-name
    parameter (run/t7899)
  - discovers the same latent CCE in pos/t7584
     - now that would be a type error
     - so we compensate by using placeholder functions rather than
       eta-expansion.
     - and move that that test to `run` for good measure.

Review by @adriaanm.

  - what about other uses of `inferExprInstance`
  - can you suggest a test case to exercise `adjustTypeArgs(tparams, tvars, targsStrict)`, which isn't covered.