Untangle cairo x/glib options

Fixes #19486.
harfbuzz 0.9.18
bind 9.9.3

Closes #20125.

Signed-off-by: Jack Nagel <jacknagel@gmail.com>
gtk-doc requires docbook-xsl to build

Signed-off-by: Adam Vandenberg <flangy@gmail.com>
orc 0.4.17

Closes #20132.

Signed-off-by: Adam Vandenberg <flangy@gmail.com>
epubcheck 3.0.1

Closes #20133.

Signed-off-by: Adam Vandenberg <flangy@gmail.com>