ceph: trim deleted inode

The MDS uses caps message to notify clients about deleted inode.
when receiving a such message, invalidate any alias of the inode.
This makes the kernel release the inode ASAP.

Signed-off-by: Yan, Zheng <zheng.z.yan@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
possible btrfs fix from chris