+rem: Implement Quarantine piercing

 - Added refuseUid support in Akka protocol and EndpointManager
 - The AkkaProtocolTransport interface is now a first-class citizen in remoting and endpoint actors
 - The AkkaProtocolTransport interface is now a first-class citizen in endpoint actors
Merge pull request #1858 from drewhk/wip-3730-actorselection-friendly-quarantine-drewhk

Implemented Quarantine piercing