vdr: update to vdr-2.0.3
vdr-plugin-dvbapi: update to vdr-plugin-dvbapi-2be5e15
cxxtools: update to cxxtools-2.2. disable broken autoreconf
tntnet: update to tntnet-2.2. disable broken autoreconf. disable ssl
vdr-live: fix build with tntnet-2.2

this is my last contribution to vdr-live/tntnet/cxxtools
if it is still broken, feel free to revert or fix it