fix ordering of shared library ctors with respect to libc init

previously, shared library constructors were being called before
important internal things like the environment (extern char **environ)
and hwcap flags (needed for sjlj to work right with float on arm) were
initialized in __libc_start_main. rather than trying to have to
dynamic linker make sure this stuff all gets initialized right, I've
opted to just defer calling shared library constructors until after
the main program's entry point is reached. this also fixes the order
of ctors to be the exact reverse of dtors, which is a desirable
property and possibly even mandated by some languages.

the main practical effect of this change is that shared libraries
calling getenv from ctors will no longer fail.
provide NSIG under _BSD_SOURCE (default) as well as _GNU_SOURCE

this fixes a regression related to the changes made to bits/signal.h
between 0.9.7 and 0.9.8 that broke some (non-portable) software.
fix a couple issues in the inttypes.h PRI/SCN macros

most importantly, the format/scan macros for the [u]int_fast16_t and
[u]int_fast32_t types were defined incorrectly assuming these types
would match the native word/pointer size. this is incorrect on any
64-bit system; the "fast" types for 16- and 32-bit integers are simply
int.

another issue which was "only a warning" (despite being UB) is that
the choice of "l" versus "ll" was incorrect for 64-bit types on 64-bit
machines. while it would "work" to always use "long long" for 64-bit
types, we use "long" on 64-bit machines to match what glibc does and
what the ABI documents recommend. the macro definitions were probably
right in very old versions of musl, but became wrong when we aligned
most closely with the 'standard' ABI. checking UINTPTR_MAX is an easy
way to get the system wordsize without pulling in new headers.

finally, the useless __PRIPTR macro to allow the underlying type of
[u]intptr_t to vary has been removed. we are using "long" on all
targets, and thankfully this matches what glibc does, so I do not
envision ever needing to change it. thus, the "l" has just been
incorporated directly in the strings.
feature test macros: make _GNU_SOURCE enable everything

previously, a few BSD features were enabled only by _BSD_SOURCE, not
by _GNU_SOURCE. since _BSD_SOURCE is default in the absence of other
feature test macros, this made adding _GNU_SOURCE to a project not a
purely additive feature test macro; it actually caused some features
to be suppressed.

most of the changes made by this patch actually bring musl in closer
alignment with the glibc behavior for _GNU_SOURCE. the only exceptions
are the added visibility of functions like strlcpy which were BSD-only
due to being disliked/rejected by glibc maintainers. here, I feel the
consistency of having _GNU_SOURCE mean "everything", and especially
the property of it being purely additive, are more valuable than
hiding functions which glibc does not have.
add _ALL_SOURCE as an alias for _GNU_SOURCE/enable-everything

reportedly this is a semi-common practice among some BSDs and a few
other systems, and will improve application compatibility.
fix regression in arm user.h that happened during big user.h changes
use alternate argument syntax for restrict with lio_listio

for some reason I have not been able to determine, gcc 3.2 rejects the
array notation. this seems to be a gcc bug, but since it's easy to
work around, let's do the workaround and avoid gratuitously requiring
newer compilers.