/-- The measurable Vitali covering theorem. Assume one is given a family `t` of closed sets with
nonempty interior, such that each `a ∈ t` is included in a ball `B (x, r)` and covers a definite
proportion of the ball `B (x, 3 r)` for a given measure `μ` (think of the situation where `μ` is
a doubling measure and `t` is a family of balls). Consider a (possibly non-measurable) set `s`
at which the family is fine, i.e., every point of `s` belongs to arbitrarily small elements of `t`.
Then one can extract from `t` a disjoint subfamily that covers almost all `s`.

For more flexibility, we give a statement with a parameterized family of sets.
-/
theorem exists_disjoint_covering_ae [MetricSpace α] [MeasurableSpace α] [OpensMeasurableSpace α]
    [SecondCountableTopology α] (μ : Measure α) [IsLocallyFiniteMeasure μ] (s : Set α) (t : Set ι)
    (C : ℝ≥0) (r : ι → ℝ) (c : ι → α) (B : ι → Set α) (hB : ∀ a ∈ t, B a ⊆ closedBall (c a) (r a))
    (μB : ∀ a ∈ t, μ (closedBall (c a) (3 * r a)) ≤ C * μ (B a))
    (ht : ∀ a ∈ t, (interior (B a)).Nonempty) (h't : ∀ a ∈ t, IsClosed (B a))
    (hf : ∀ x ∈ s, ∀ ε > (0 : ℝ), ∃ a ∈ t, r a ≤ ε ∧ c a = x) :
    ∃ (u : _) (_ : u ⊆ t), u.Countable ∧ u.PairwiseDisjoint B ∧ μ (s \ ⋃ a ∈ u, B a) = 0 := by
  /- The idea of the proof is the following. Assume for simplicity that `μ` is finite. Applying the
  abstract Vitali covering theorem with `δ = r` given by `hf`, one obtains a disjoint subfamily `u`,
  such that any element of `t` intersects an element of `u` with comparable radius. Fix `ε > 0`.
  Since the elements of `u` have summable measure, one can remove finitely elements `w_1, ..., w_n`.
  so that the measure of the remaining elements is `< ε`. Consider now a point `z` not
  in the `w_i`. There is a small ball around `z` not intersecting the `w_i` (as they are closed),
  an element `a ∈ t` contained in this small ball (as the family `t` is fine at `z`) and an element
  `b ∈ u` intersecting `a`, with comparable radius (by definition of `u`). Then `z` belongs to the
  enlargement of `b`. This shows that `s \ (w_1 ∪ ... ∪ w_n)` is contained in
  `⋃ (b ∈ u \ {w_1, ... w_n}) (enlargement of b)`. The measure of the latter set is bounded by
  `∑ (b ∈ u \ {w_1, ... w_n}) C * μ b` (by the doubling property of the measure), which is at most
  `C ε`. Letting `ε` tend to `0` shows that `s` is almost everywhere covered by the family `u`.

  For the real argument, the measure is only locally finite. Therefore, we implement the same
  strategy, but locally restricted to balls on which the measure is finite. For this, we do not
  use the whole family `t`, but a subfamily `t'` supported on small balls (which is possible since
  the family is assumed to be fine at every point of `s`).
  -/
  -- choose around each `x` a small ball on which the measure is finite
  have : ∀ x, ∃ R, 0 < R ∧ R ≤ 1 ∧ μ (closedBall x (20 * R)) < ∞ := by
    intro x
    obtain ⟨R, Rpos, μR⟩ : ∃ R, 0 < R ∧ μ (closedBall x R) < ∞ :=
      (μ.finiteAt_nhds x).exists_mem_basis nhds_basis_closedBall
    refine' ⟨min 1 (R / 20), _, min_le_left _ _, _⟩
    · simp only [true_and_iff, lt_min_iff, zero_lt_one]
      linarith
    · apply lt_of_le_of_lt (measure_mono _) μR
      apply closedBall_subset_closedBall
      calc
        20 * min 1 (R / 20) ≤ 20 * (R / 20) :=
          mul_le_mul_of_nonneg_left (min_le_right _ _) (by norm_num)
        _ = R := by ring
  choose R hR0 hR1 hRμ using this
  -- we restrict to a subfamily `t'` of `t`, made of elements small enough to ensure that
  -- they only see a finite part of the measure, and with a doubling property
  let t' := { a ∈ t | r a ≤ R (c a) }
  -- extract a disjoint subfamily `u` of `t'` thanks to the abstract Vitali covering theorem.
  obtain ⟨u, ut', u_disj, hu⟩ : ∃ (u : _) (_ : u ⊆ t'),
      u.PairwiseDisjoint B ∧ ∀ a ∈ t', ∃ b ∈ u, (B a ∩ B b).Nonempty ∧ r a ≤ 2 * r b := by
    have A : ∀ a ∈ t', r a ≤ 1 := by
      intro a ha
      apply ha.2.trans (hR1 (c a))
    have A' : ∀ a ∈ t', (B a).Nonempty :=
      fun a hat' => Set.Nonempty.mono interior_subset (ht a hat'.1)
    refine' exists_disjoint_subfamily_covering_enlargment B t' r 2 one_lt_two (fun a ha => _) 1 A A'
    exact nonempty_closedBall.1 ((A' a ha).mono (hB a ha.1))
  have ut : u ⊆ t := fun a hau => (ut' hau).1
  -- As the space is second countable, the family is countable since all its sets have nonempty
  -- interior.
  have u_count : u.Countable := u_disj.countable_of_nonempty_interior fun a ha => ht a (ut ha)
  -- the family `u` will be the desired family
  refine' ⟨u, fun a hat' => (ut' hat').1, u_count, u_disj, _⟩
  -- it suffices to show that it covers almost all `s` locally around each point `x`.
  refine' null_of_locally_null _ fun x _ => _
  -- let `v` be the subfamily of `u` made of those sets intersecting the small ball `ball x (r x)`
  let v := { a ∈ u | (B a ∩ ball x (R x)).Nonempty }
  have vu : v ⊆ u := fun a ha => ha.1
  -- they are all contained in a fixed ball of finite measure, thanks to our choice of `t'`
  obtain ⟨K, μK, hK⟩ : ∃ K, μ (closedBall x K) < ∞ ∧
      ∀ a ∈ u, (B a ∩ ball x (R x)).Nonempty → B a ⊆ closedBall x K := by
    have Idist_v : ∀ a ∈ v, dist (c a) x ≤ r a + R x := by
      intro a hav
      apply dist_le_add_of_nonempty_closedBall_inter_closedBall
      refine' hav.2.mono _
      apply inter_subset_inter _ ball_subset_closedBall
      exact hB a (ut (vu hav))
    set R0 := sSup (r '' v) with R0_def
    have R0_bdd : BddAbove (r '' v) := by
      refine' ⟨1, fun r' hr' => _⟩
      rcases (mem_image _ _ _).1 hr' with ⟨b, hb, rfl⟩
      exact le_trans (ut' (vu hb)).2 (hR1 (c b))
    rcases le_total R0 (R x) with (H | H)
    · refine' ⟨20 * R x, hRμ x, fun a au hax => _⟩
      refine' (hB a (ut au)).trans _
      apply closedBall_subset_closedBall'
      have : r a ≤ R0 := le_csSup R0_bdd (mem_image_of_mem _ ⟨au, hax⟩)
      linarith [Idist_v a ⟨au, hax⟩, hR0 x]
    · have R0pos : 0 < R0 := (hR0 x).trans_le H
      have vnonempty : v.Nonempty := by
        by_contra h
        rw [nonempty_iff_ne_empty, Classical.not_not] at h
        rw [h, image_empty, Real.sSup_empty] at R0_def
        exact lt_irrefl _ (R0pos.trans_le (le_of_eq R0_def))
      obtain ⟨a, hav, R0a⟩ : ∃ a ∈ v, R0 / 2 < r a := by
        obtain ⟨r', r'mem, hr'⟩ : ∃ r' ∈ r '' v, R0 / 2 < r' :=
          exists_lt_of_lt_csSup (nonempty_image_iff.2 vnonempty) (half_lt_self R0pos)
        rcases (mem_image _ _ _).1 r'mem with ⟨a, hav, rfl⟩
        exact ⟨a, hav, hr'⟩
      refine' ⟨8 * R0, _, _⟩
      · apply lt_of_le_of_lt (measure_mono _) (hRμ (c a))
        apply closedBall_subset_closedBall'
        rw [dist_comm]
        linarith [Idist_v a hav, (ut' (vu hav)).2]
      · intro b bu hbx
        refine' (hB b (ut bu)).trans _
        apply closedBall_subset_closedBall'
        have : r b ≤ R0 := le_csSup R0_bdd (mem_image_of_mem _ ⟨bu, hbx⟩)
        linarith [Idist_v b ⟨bu, hbx⟩]
  -- we will show that, in `ball x (R x)`, almost all `s` is covered by the family `u`.
  refine' ⟨_ ∩ ball x (R x), inter_mem_nhdsWithin _ (ball_mem_nhds _ (hR0 _)),
    nonpos_iff_eq_zero.mp (le_of_forall_le_of_dense fun ε εpos => _)⟩
  -- the elements of `v` are disjoint and all contained in a finite volume ball, hence the sum
  -- of their measures is finite.
  have I : (∑' a : v, μ (B a)) < ∞ := by
    calc
      (∑' a : v, μ (B a)) = μ (⋃ a ∈ v, B a) := by
        rw [measure_biUnion (u_count.mono vu) _ fun a ha => (h't _ (vu.trans ut ha)).measurableSet]
        exact u_disj.subset vu
      _ ≤ μ (closedBall x K) := (measure_mono (iUnion₂_subset fun a ha => hK a (vu ha) ha.2))
      _ < ∞ := μK
  -- we can obtain a finite subfamily of `v`, such that the measures of the remaining elements
  -- add up to an arbitrarily small number, say `ε / C`.
  obtain ⟨w, hw⟩ : ∃ w : Finset v, (∑' a : { a // a ∉ w }, μ (B a)) < ε / C :=
    haveI : 0 < ε / C := by
      simp only [ENNReal.div_pos_iff, εpos.ne', ENNReal.coe_ne_top, Ne.def, not_false_iff,
        and_self_iff]
    ((tendsto_order.1 (ENNReal.tendsto_tsum_compl_atTop_zero I.ne)).2 _ this).exists
  -- main property: the points `z` of `s` which are not covered by `u` are contained in the
  -- enlargements of the elements not in `w`.
  have M : (s \ ⋃ a ∈ u, B a) ∩
      ball x (R x) ⊆ ⋃ a : { a // a ∉ w }, closedBall (c a) (3 * r a) := by
    intro z hz
    set k := ⋃ (a : v) (_ : a ∈ w), B a
    have k_closed : IsClosed k := isClosed_biUnion_finset fun i _ => h't _ (ut (vu i.2))
    have z_notmem_k : z ∉ k := by
      simp only [not_exists, exists_prop, mem_iUnion, mem_sep_iff, forall_exists_index,
        SetCoe.exists, not_and, exists_and_right, Subtype.coe_mk]
      intro b hbv _ h'z
      have : z ∈ (s \ ⋃ a ∈ u, B a) ∩ ⋃ a ∈ u, B a :=
        mem_inter (mem_of_mem_inter_left hz) (mem_biUnion (vu hbv) h'z)
      simpa only [diff_inter_self]
    -- since the elements of `w` are closed and finitely many, one can find a small ball around `z`
    -- not intersecting them
    have : ball x (R x) \ k ∈ 𝓝 z := by
      apply IsOpen.mem_nhds (isOpen_ball.sdiff k_closed) _
      exact (mem_diff _).2 ⟨mem_of_mem_inter_right hz, z_notmem_k⟩
    obtain ⟨d, dpos, hd⟩ : ∃ d, 0 < d ∧ closedBall z d ⊆ ball x (R x) \ k :=
      nhds_basis_closedBall.mem_iff.1 this
    -- choose an element `a` of the family `t` contained in this small ball
    obtain ⟨a, hat, ad, rfl⟩ : ∃ a ∈ t, r a ≤ min d (R z) ∧ c a = z
    exact hf z ((mem_diff _).1 (mem_of_mem_inter_left hz)).1 (min d (R z)) (lt_min dpos (hR0 z))
    have ax : B a ⊆ ball x (R x) := by
      refine' (hB a hat).trans _
      refine' Subset.trans _ (hd.trans (diff_subset (ball x (R x)) k))
      exact closedBall_subset_closedBall (ad.trans (min_le_left _ _))
    -- it intersects an element `b` of `u` with comparable diameter, by definition of `u`
    obtain ⟨b, bu, ab, bdiam⟩ : ∃ b ∈ u, (B a ∩ B b).Nonempty ∧ r a ≤ 2 * r b
    exact hu a ⟨hat, ad.trans (min_le_right _ _)⟩
    have bv : b ∈ v := by
      refine' ⟨bu, ab.mono _⟩
      

Proof state:
α : Type u_1
ι : Type u_2
inst✝⁴ : MetricSpace α
inst✝³ : MeasurableSpace α
inst✝² : OpensMeasurableSpace α
inst✝¹ : SecondCountableTopology α
μ : Measure α
inst✝ : IsLocallyFiniteMeasure μ
s : Set α
t : Set ι
C : ℝ≥0
r : ι → ℝ
c : ι → α
B : ι → Set α
hB : ∀ a ∈ t, B a ⊆ closedBall (c a) (r a)
μB : ∀ a ∈ t, ↑↑μ (closedBall (c a) (3 * r a)) ≤ ↑C * ↑↑μ (B a)
ht : ∀ a ∈ t, Set.Nonempty (interior (B a))
h't : ∀ a ∈ t, IsClosed (B a)
hf : ∀ x ∈ s, ∀ ε > 0, ∃ a ∈ t, r a ≤ ε ∧ c a = x
R : α → ℝ
hR0 : ∀ (x : α), 0 < R x
hR1 : ∀ (x : α), R x ≤ 1
hRμ : ∀ (x : α), ↑↑μ (closedBall x (20 * R x)) < ⊤
t' : Set ι := {a | a ∈ t ∧ r a ≤ R (c a)}
u : Set ι
ut' : u ⊆ t'
u_disj : PairwiseDisjoint u B
hu : ∀ a ∈ t', ∃ b ∈ u, Set.Nonempty (B a ∩ B b) ∧ r a ≤ 2 * r b
ut : u ⊆ t
u_count : Set.Countable u
x : α
x✝ : x ∈ s \ ⋃ a ∈ u, B a
v : Set ι := {a | a ∈ u ∧ Set.Nonempty (B a ∩ ball x (R x))}
vu : v ⊆ u
K : ℝ
μK : ↑↑μ (closedBall x K) < ⊤
hK : ∀ a ∈ u, Set.Nonempty (B a ∩ ball x (R x)) → B a ⊆ closedBall x K
ε : ℝ≥0∞
εpos : 0 < ε
I : ∑' (a : ↑v), ↑↑μ (B ↑a) < ⊤
w : Finset ↑v
hw : ∑' (a : { a // a ∉ w }), ↑↑μ (B ↑↑a) < ε / ↑C
k : Set α := ⋃ a ∈ w, B ↑a
k_closed : IsClosed k
d : ℝ
dpos : 0 < d
a : ι
hat : a ∈ t
hz : c a ∈ (s \ ⋃ a ∈ u, B a) ∩ ball x (R x)
z_notmem_k : c a ∉ k
this : ball x (R x) \ k ∈ 𝓝 (c a)
hd : closedBall (c a) d ⊆ ball x (R x) \ k
ad : r a ≤ min d (R (c a))
ax : B a ⊆ ball x (R x)
b : ι
bu : b ∈ u
ab : Set.Nonempty (B a ∩ B b)
bdiam : r a ≤ 2 * r b
⊢ B a ∩ B b ⊆ B b ∩ ball x (R x)

Next tactic:
rw [inter_comm]