/-- If a differentiable function `f` is approximated by a linear map `A` on a set `s`, up to `δ`,
then at almost every `x` in `s` one has `‖f' x - A‖ ≤ δ`. -/
theorem _root_.ApproximatesLinearOn.norm_fderiv_sub_le {A : E →L[ℝ] E} {δ : ℝ≥0}
    (hf : ApproximatesLinearOn f A s δ) (hs : MeasurableSet s) (f' : E → E →L[ℝ] E)
    (hf' : ∀ x ∈ s, HasFDerivWithinAt f (f' x) s x) : ∀ᵐ x ∂μ.restrict s, ‖f' x - A‖₊ ≤ δ := by
  /- The conclusion will hold at the Lebesgue density points of `s` (which have full measure).
    At such a point `x`, for any `z` and any `ε > 0` one has for small `r`
    that `{x} + r • closedBall z ε` intersects `s`. At a point `y` in the intersection,
    `f y - f x` is close both to `f' x (r z)` (by differentiability) and to `A (r z)`
    (by linear approximation), so these two quantities are close, i.e., `(f' x - A) z` is small. -/
  filter_upwards [Besicovitch.ae_tendsto_measure_inter_div μ s, ae_restrict_mem hs]
  -- start from a Lebesgue density point `x`, belonging to `s`.
  intro x hx xs
  -- consider an arbitrary vector `z`.
  apply ContinuousLinearMap.op_norm_le_bound _ δ.2 fun z => ?_
  -- to show that `‖(f' x - A) z‖ ≤ δ ‖z‖`, it suffices to do it up to some error that vanishes
  -- asymptotically in terms of `ε > 0`.
  suffices H : ∀ ε, 0 < ε → ‖(f' x - A) z‖ ≤ (δ + ε) * (‖z‖ + ε) + ‖f' x - A‖ * ε
  · have :
      Tendsto (fun ε : ℝ => ((δ : ℝ) + ε) * (‖z‖ + ε) + ‖f' x - A‖ * ε) (𝓝[>] 0)
        (𝓝 ((δ + 0) * (‖z‖ + 0) + ‖f' x - A‖ * 0)) :=
      Tendsto.mono_left (Continuous.tendsto (by continuity) 0) nhdsWithin_le_nhds
    simp only [add_zero, mul_zero] at this
    apply le_of_tendsto_of_tendsto tendsto_const_nhds this
    filter_upwards [self_mem_nhdsWithin]
    exact H
  -- fix a positive `ε`.
  intro ε εpos
  -- for small enough `r`, the rescaled ball `r • closedBall z ε` intersects `s`, as `x` is a
  -- density point
  have B₁ : ∀ᶠ r in 𝓝[>] (0 : ℝ), (s ∩ ({x} + r • closedBall z ε)).Nonempty :=
    eventually_nonempty_inter_smul_of_density_one μ s x hx _ measurableSet_closedBall
      (measure_closedBall_pos μ z εpos).ne'
  obtain ⟨ρ, ρpos, hρ⟩ :
    ∃ ρ > 0, ball x ρ ∩ s ⊆ {y : E | ‖f y - f x - (f' x) (y - x)‖ ≤ ε * ‖y - x‖} :=
    mem_nhdsWithin_iff.1 ((hf' x xs).isLittleO.def εpos)
  -- for small enough `r`, the rescaled ball `r • closedBall z ε` is included in the set where
  -- `f y - f x` is well approximated by `f' x (y - x)`.
  have B₂ : ∀ᶠ r in 𝓝[>] (0 : ℝ), {x} + r • closedBall z ε ⊆ ball x ρ := by
    apply nhdsWithin_le_nhds
    exact eventually_singleton_add_smul_subset isBounded_closedBall (ball_mem_nhds x ρpos)
  -- fix a small positive `r` satisfying the above properties, as well as a corresponding `y`.
  obtain ⟨r, ⟨y, ⟨ys, hy⟩⟩, rρ, rpos⟩ :
    ∃ r : ℝ,
      (s ∩ ({x} + r • closedBall z ε)).Nonempty ∧ {x} + r • closedBall z ε ⊆ ball x ρ ∧ 0 < r :=
    (B₁.and (B₂.and self_mem_nhdsWithin)).exists
  -- write `y = x + r a` with `a ∈ closedBall z ε`.
  obtain ⟨a, az, ya⟩ : ∃ a, a ∈ closedBall z ε ∧ y = x + r • a := by
    simp only [mem_smul_set, image_add_left, mem_preimage, singleton_add] at hy
    rcases hy with ⟨a, az, ha⟩
    exact ⟨a, az, by simp only [ha, add_neg_cancel_left]⟩
  have norm_a : ‖a‖ ≤ ‖z‖ + ε :=
    calc
      ‖a‖ = ‖z + (a - z)‖ := by simp only [add_sub_cancel'_right]
      _ ≤ ‖z‖ + ‖a - z‖ := (norm_add_le _ _)
      _ ≤ ‖z‖ + ε := add_le_add_left (mem_closedBall_iff_norm.1 az) _
  -- use the approximation properties to control `(f' x - A) a`, and then `(f' x - A) z` as `z` is
  -- close to `a`.
  

Proof state:
case H.intro.intro.intro.intro.intro.intro.intro.intro.intro
E : Type u_1
F : Type u_2
inst✝⁷ : NormedAddCommGroup E
inst✝⁶ : NormedSpace ℝ E
inst✝⁵ : FiniteDimensional ℝ E
inst✝⁴ : NormedAddCommGroup F
inst✝³ : NormedSpace ℝ F
s : Set E
f : E → E
f'✝ : E → E →L[ℝ] E
inst✝² : MeasurableSpace E
inst✝¹ : BorelSpace E
μ : Measure E
inst✝ : IsAddHaarMeasure μ
A : E →L[ℝ] E
δ : ℝ≥0
hf : ApproximatesLinearOn f A s δ
hs : MeasurableSet s
f' : E → E →L[ℝ] E
hf' : ∀ x ∈ s, HasFDerivWithinAt f (f' x) s x
x : E
hx : Tendsto (fun r => ↑↑μ (s ∩ closedBall x r) / ↑↑μ (closedBall x r)) (𝓝[>] 0) (𝓝 1)
xs : x ∈ s
z : E
ε : ℝ
εpos : 0 < ε
B₁ : ∀ᶠ (r : ℝ) in 𝓝[>] 0, Set.Nonempty (s ∩ ({x} + r • closedBall z ε))
ρ : ℝ
ρpos : ρ > 0
hρ : ball x ρ ∩ s ⊆ {y | ‖f y - f x - (f' x) (y - x)‖ ≤ ε * ‖y - x‖}
B₂ : ∀ᶠ (r : ℝ) in 𝓝[>] 0, {x} + r • closedBall z ε ⊆ ball x ρ
r : ℝ
y : E
ys : y ∈ s
hy : y ∈ {x} + r • closedBall z ε
rρ : {x} + r • closedBall z ε ⊆ ball x ρ
rpos : 0 < r
a : E
az : a ∈ closedBall z ε
ya : y = x + r • a
norm_a : ‖a‖ ≤ ‖z‖ + ε
⊢ ‖(f' x - A) z‖ ≤ (↑δ + ε) * (‖z‖ + ε) + ‖f' x - A‖ * ε

Next tactic:
have I : r * ‖(f' x - A) a‖ ≤ r * (δ + ε) * (‖z‖ + ε) :=
    calc
      r * ‖(f' x - A) a‖ = ‖(f' x - A) (r • a)‖ := by
        simp only [ContinuousLinearMap.map_smul, norm_smul, Real.norm_eq_abs, abs_of_nonneg rpos.le]
      _ = ‖f y - f x - A (y - x) - (f y - f x - (f' x) (y - x))‖ := by
        congr 1
        simp only [ya, add_sub_cancel', sub_sub_sub_cancel_left, ContinuousLinearMap.coe_sub',
          eq_self_iff_true, sub_left_inj, Pi.sub_apply, ContinuousLinearMap.map_smul, smul_sub]
      _ ≤ ‖f y - f x - A (y - x)‖ + ‖f y - f x - (f' x) (y - x)‖ := (norm_sub_le _ _)
      _ ≤ δ * ‖y - x‖ + ε * ‖y - x‖ := (add_le_add (hf _ ys _ xs) (hρ ⟨rρ hy, ys⟩))
      _ = r * (δ + ε) * ‖a‖ := by
        simp only [ya, add_sub_cancel', norm_smul, Real.norm_eq_abs, abs_of_nonneg rpos.le]
        ring
      _ ≤ r * (δ + ε) * (‖z‖ + ε) :=
        mul_le_mul_of_nonneg_left norm_a (mul_nonneg rpos.le (add_nonneg δ.2 εpos.le))