lemma collapse_modular (hu : a ∉ u) (h₁ : 0 ≤ f₁) (h₂ : 0 ≤ f₂) (h₃ : 0 ≤ f₃) (h₄ : 0 ≤ f₄)
    (h : ∀ ⦃s⦄, s ⊆ insert a u → ∀ ⦃t⦄, t ⊆ insert a u →  f₁ s * f₂ t ≤ f₃ (s ∩ t) * f₄ (s ∪ t))
    (𝒜 ℬ : Finset (Finset α)) :
    ∀ ⦃s⦄, s ⊆ u → ∀ ⦃t⦄, t ⊆ u → collapse 𝒜 a f₁ s * collapse ℬ a f₂ t ≤
      collapse (𝒜 ⊼ ℬ) a f₃ (s ∩ t) * collapse (𝒜 ⊻ ℬ) a f₄ (s ∪ t) := by
  rintro s hsu t htu
  -- Gather a bunch of facts we'll need a lot
  have := hsu.trans $ subset_insert a _
  have := htu.trans $ subset_insert a _
  have := insert_subset_insert a hsu
  have := insert_subset_insert a htu
  have has := not_mem_mono hsu hu
  have hat := not_mem_mono htu hu
  have : a ∉ s ∩ t := not_mem_mono ((inter_subset_left _ t).trans hsu) hu
  have := not_mem_union.2 ⟨has, hat⟩
  rw [collapse_eq has]
  split_ifs
  · rw [collapse_eq hat]
    split_ifs
    · rw [collapse_of_mem ‹_› (inter_mem_infs ‹_› ‹_›) (inter_mem_infs ‹_› ‹_›) rfl
        (insert_inter_distrib _ _ _).symm, collapse_of_mem ‹_› (union_mem_sups ‹_› ‹_›)
        (union_mem_sups ‹_› ‹_›) rfl (insert_union_distrib _ _ _).symm]
      refine' ineq (h₁ _) (h₁ _) (h₂ _) (h₂ _) (h₃ _) (h₃ _) (h₄ _) (h₄ _) (h ‹_› ‹_›) _ _ _
      · simpa [*] using h ‹insert a s ⊆ _› ‹t ⊆ _›
      · simpa [*] using h ‹s ⊆ _› ‹insert a t ⊆ _›
      · simpa [*] using h ‹insert a s ⊆ _› ‹insert a t ⊆ _›
    · rw [add_zero, add_mul]
      refine' (add_le_add (h ‹_› ‹_›) $ h ‹_› ‹_›).trans _
      rw [collapse_of_mem ‹_› (union_mem_sups ‹_› ‹_›) (union_mem_sups ‹_› ‹_›) rfl
        (insert_union _ _ _), insert_inter_of_not_mem ‹_›, ← mul_add]
      exact mul_le_mul_of_nonneg_right (le_collapse_of_mem ‹_› h₃ rfl $ inter_mem_infs ‹_› ‹_›) $
        add_nonneg (h₄ _) $ h₄ _
    · rw [zero_add, add_mul]
      refine' (add_le_add (h ‹_› ‹_›) $ h ‹_› ‹_›).trans _
      rw [collapse_of_mem ‹_› (inter_mem_infs ‹_› ‹_›) (inter_mem_infs ‹_› ‹_›)
        (inter_insert_of_not_mem ‹_›) (insert_inter_distrib _ _ _).symm, union_insert,
        insert_union_distrib, ← add_mul]
      exact mul_le_mul_of_nonneg_left (le_collapse_of_insert_mem ‹_› h₄
        (insert_union_distrib _ _ _).symm $ union_mem_sups ‹_› ‹_›) $ add_nonneg (h₃ _) $ h₃ _
    · rw [add_zero, mul_zero]
      exact mul_nonneg (collapse_nonneg h₃ _) $ collapse_nonneg h₄ _
  · rw [add_zero, collapse_eq hat, mul_add]
    split_ifs
    · 

Proof state:
case pos
α : Type u_1
β : Type u_2
inst✝² : DecidableEq α
inst✝¹ : LinearOrderedCommSemiring β
inst✝ : ExistsAddOfLE β
𝒜✝ ℬ✝ : Finset (Finset α)
a : α
f f₁ f₂ f₃ f₄ g μ : Finset α → β
s✝ t✝ u : Finset α
hu : a ∉ u
h₁ : 0 ≤ f₁
h₂ : 0 ≤ f₂
h₃ : 0 ≤ f₃
h₄ : 0 ≤ f₄
h : ∀ ⦃s : Finset α⦄, s ⊆ insert a u → ∀ ⦃t : Finset α⦄, t ⊆ insert a u → f₁ s * f₂ t ≤ f₃ (s ∩ t) * f₄ (s ∪ t)
𝒜 ℬ : Finset (Finset α)
s : Finset α
hsu : s ⊆ u
t : Finset α
htu : t ⊆ u
this✝⁴ : s ⊆ insert a u
this✝³ : t ⊆ insert a u
this✝² : insert a s ⊆ insert a u
this✝¹ : insert a t ⊆ insert a u
has : a ∉ s
hat : a ∉ t
this✝ : a ∉ s ∩ t
this : a ∉ s ∪ t
h✝³ : s ∈ 𝒜
h✝² : insert a s ∉ 𝒜
h✝¹ : t ∈ ℬ
h✝ : insert a t ∈ ℬ
⊢ f₁ s * f₂ t + f₁ s * f₂ (insert a t) ≤ collapse (𝒜 ⊼ ℬ) a f₃ (s ∩ t) * collapse (𝒜 ⊻ ℬ) a f₄ (s ∪ t)

Next tactic:
refine' (add_le_add (h ‹_› ‹_›) $ h ‹_› ‹_›).trans _