# Talk:Simp

The part about "No Simp September" sounds like an incel's wet dream and doesn't have any additional information about that term.  — Preceding unsigned comment added by 46.253.186.82 (talk) 10:46, 5 November 2023 (UTC) 

Agree firmly. This is the preserve of Urban Dictionary.  Me.Autem.Minui (talk) 09:21, 16 September 2024 (UTC)

Since I made this page on December 16, there have transpired a rather byzantine series of page moves. Apparently, the strangeness goes back over a decade and a half. Before I give an opinion, I will outline the history (which you can currently see here):
In 2006, the article Simp was created by a pagemove to SIMP; in 2013 this became a double redirect when SIMP was moved to Strongly interacting massive particle. Some time after this, people got into a lot of kerfluffles between it being a redirect and a disambiguation page. This went back and forth for a while. Eventually, a RfD occurred, which concluded with "disambiguate". On April 10, it was moved from "Simp" to "SIMP" (GeoffreyT2000 moved page Simp to SIMP: Requested by Utopes at WP:RM/TR: Acronym, should be moved to the same title with all capital letters).
Anyway, by December, the situation was this: Simp was a pagemove redirect to SIMP, which was a disambiguation page. I wrote an article about the Internet thing as a userspace draft, at User:JPxG/Simp, which (after some irrelevant-to-the-issue bungling detailed below) ended up at the article Simp. 
Since then, it has had the lede rewritten no less than three times, and been moved to two different titles without any discussion beforehand. The first was of the content page from Simp to Simping, at which point the disambiguation page at SIMP was moved to Simp, citing the April 3 RfD as a basis to overturn the April 10 RM, and the second was a completely undiscussed move from Simping to Simp (person), which was accompanied by yet another rephrasing of the lede. This doesn't really make sense in the scope of the article -- I wrote it about a slang term, a behavior, and a type of person.

Note: I tried to move-over-redirect my userspace draft to the mainspace page when I was done. Unfortunately, this didn't work, because I guess there had been another edit since the pagemove. Oh well. This is where I do something stupid: I figure that the move-over-redirect will work if there are no revisions since the move, so I moved the redirect shell to User:JPxG/Simping, thinking it would work after that. But it didn't. So I just CSD'd the old redirect shells to prepare for a move to mainspace, which someone else did, and it was fine.
@AquilaXIII: @Uanfala: Is there a reason why this article shouldn't be at Simp as it originally was, and why the disambiguation page shouldn't be Simp (disambiguation)?
jp×g 21:22, 24 December 2020 (UTC)

Just adding my 2 cents to this debate. It should be called simp (psychological mindset), as a person isn't named simp, so why was it under person? It should be a parenthetical due to internationally, simp being known for multiple things, such as "Simp., a non-standard abbreviation for 'simplified', as in 'Simplified Chinese'", but not person, since its not really a person. Neon (Talk)  — Preceding undated comment added 21:47, 24 December 2020 (UTC)
I'm not sure that it's a "psychological mindset" either. The coverage that exists on the subject (it's a current item of controversy, so more is being written each day) describes a type of behavior people do online, a type of person who does this behavior, and the slang term people use to refer to the person. Arbitrarily limiting the scope of an article with a parenthetical title doesn't really make sense to me if there isn't a good reason for it (the decision to use Simp as a dab page was made several months before this article even existed, and indeed several months before most of the current sources had been written). jp×g 22:14, 24 December 2020 (UTC)
Update: The page is now back at Simping. jp×g 22:15, 24 December 2020 (UTC)
I moved the article to Simping partly because that was how the lede introduced the term. It's up to you all to decide what the lede should look like and whether the title should use "Simp" or "Simping" – this only depends on the article's content and spin. From my point of view, "Simping" better chimes in with existing article naming practice: we've got Stalking (and not Stalker), Flirting (and not Flirt), Bullying (and not Bully).  Once that issue has been decided, we can think about relationship to other topics: does this article have primary topic status for Simp, or should the dab page remain at that title? If the article's title should use "Simp" and it's not the primary topic, what disambiguator should it use?, etc. If the dab page at Simp is going to be moved, then we'd need another formal discussion (see WP:RM#CM). That's because the present setup is a result of a previous formal discussion – the one at RfD (the now reverted move to SIMP was a unilateral move that was requested at WP:RMT, and it didn't change the primary topic). Of course, the creation of this article substantially changes the situation, and that's one very good reason to have another discussion. However, we can't just override the previous one as the topic of simping was already considered at some length and taken into account when deciding to disambiguate.  In an RM I'd probably remain neutral as I weakly prefer the status quo, but there's definitely a strong cases to be made. Pageviews suggest it's simping that most readers are interested in when they search for "simp". Persuading editors of long-term significance may be trickier though. Another option is to go for WP:SMALLDIFFS (as most of the entries on the dab page are upper-case), but not everybody will find that persuasive either.  And btw, JPxG, your initial move of your userspace didn't work because you were trying to move it over a redirect that was pointing to another page. You can move a page over any of its redirects (if they don't have history), but you can't move a page over a redirect to another page). – Uanfala (talk) 22:58, 24 December 2020 (UTC) 
@Uanfala: @JPxG: I'm neutral to whatever the page gets renamed to but I moved it to "Simp (person)" since that matches with other terms that have different meaning like the one for "fan (person)". I personally am okay with whatever new name gets chosen for the page so long as it's not "Simping". People use the noun way more often then the verb and the noun is more widely known too. The word has also jumped to other languages like Spanish and French. It is very much used now in Spanish social media and YouTube as a noun and not verb. It would be confusing for non-English speaking users who will try to create a new page for this entry in another language and don't know what "simping" means since they don't know the language. I think it's better to change it to simp whether it be "Simp", "Simp (person)", or "Simp (psychological mindset)". Either one is good so long as the page is named after the noun and not the verb. AquilaXIII (talk) 06:22, 25 December 2020 (UTC)

Simp or Simp (person) seem reasonable. I agree that Simping isn't ideal. Benjamin (talk) 06:33, 25 December 2020 (UTC)
Simp (person) is the best - "simp" is what's referred to most commonly, not "simping". Elliot321 (talk | contribs) 04:02, 26 December 2020 (UTC)

@Sangdeboeuf: I think it should be short and succinct per WP:MOSLEAD, which is why I originally wrote it that way. The definitions quoted in it weren't given inline attribution because they're already given as quotes and cited to inline references -- I don't see a need to provide the author of an article and the name of the publication before supplying a less-than-one-sentence quote. If it's not possible to simply include that quote, it belongs in the body text; attributing a definition to Urban Dictionary does not make sense to me if that definition appears in multiple RS articles that endorse it. The notability of the claim doesn't come from UD saying that, it's not a WP:RS.
But your other edit, claiming that the term applies exclusively to men courting the attention of women, seems like WP:OR; there are plenty of sources describing the situation happening the other way around, and nothing I've seen says that it is always one way or the other. As for WP:WORDISSUBJECT, I'm not sure about the scope of the article being limited to the word; plenty of the sources describe it as a behavior, or a type of person, and aren't limited to the word itself (I think that might be a big enough issue to warrant an RfC rather than two people in a talk page discussion). jp×g 22:34, 6 January 2021 (UTC)

Concision doesn't outweigh the need to accurately summarize sources or use impartial language. Simp is notable mainly as an insult, so it's unavoidably POV to call people simps (e.g. a person "who is excessively deferential") in Wikipedia's voice, even obliquely and with qualifiers (e.g. "In internet slang"). Even wording that implies a given behavior is "excessive" is POV. The quote from Urban Dictionary requires attribution like all quotations, even (and especially) when cited to an independent source. Otherwise we're giving the reader a false impression of where the quote is coming from. Neither Gizmodo Australia nor Ars Technica appear to be "endorsing" the definition; they're just neutrally reporting it.Here are the first ten sources cited in the article, excluding the 1923 NYT blurb and  The New Partridge Dictionary of Slang and Unconventional English, which are self-evidently about usage of the term (my emphasis):  The focus of all the sources cited, even the opinion essays and especially the more reliable publications like The New York Times, is on the term ("niche slang", "a vocabulary word", "this term", "these epithets", "a relatively new term", "a divisive term", "the broader Twitch lexicon", "weird words", "a prime insult", "the phrase", etc.), rather than a type of behavior or type of person. Therefore the word itself is clearly the notable subject here. —Sangdeboeuf (talk) 09:18, 21 January 2021 (UTC)
Two additional sources, which are now in the first ten after some reorganization, contain more of the same:  The second source delves deeper into "simp" as a cultural concept, but overall the focus is still on terminology. —Sangdeboeuf (talk) 12:19, 21 January 2021 (UTC)
As regards the UD definition, attributing a definition isn't quite the same as reprinting it without endorsement, especially when the article proceeds forward as though the definition is correct (for example, Urban Dictionary defines a "dog" as a "furry potato": if a Jerkwater Picayune-Herald story about dogs mentioned this and then proceeded to talk about what type of soil was best for growing dogs, we could probably say that the JPH was defining dogs as furry potatoes).
As regards the POV issues, well, I think that this is inevitable in an article about a piece of online slang, (notorious for rapidly changing meanings). Usage has changed over time, and differences between articles written between 2020 and 2021 reflect this. There is a pile of sources in which some mention the word as a pejorative, some as a neutral descriptor, and some as positive or jocular. Some, at the edges of this pile (especially earlier ones), will talk about it being all one thing or all the other. But since none of these are the Académie Française (there is no organization which authoritatively dictates usage of the English language), it doesn't seem to me like there is a good basis for being so narrowly descriptive in the lead. jp×g 22:14, 4 February 2021 (UTC)

i would like to go more in detail on how its used online by teenagers and give  a more in depth response 2603:6010:FD05:D000:598A:E332:88F1:EF9A (talk) 19:50, 18 April 2021 (UTC)

 Not done: it's not clear what changes you want to be made. Please mention the specific changes in a "change X to Y" format and provide a reliable source if appropriate. 15 (talk) 19:59, 18 April 2021 (UTC)

i really need to edit this because i have to write a essay on this word and they said to write soemthing on wikipedia to help make this word emphasize and be superior to other. 2601:546:300:CC0:7846:5688:4B2D:76C8 (talk) 02:44, 31 May 2021 (UTC)

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The section doesnt has any reviews defending the term, and is mostly filled with criticism for the term, should it be renamed to criticism? Powering everyone (User Talk:Powering everyone)  14:54, 5 August 2021 (UTC)

No, per Wikipedia:Criticism. --Sangdeboeuf (talk) 23:16, 5 August 2021 (UTC)
I'm not sure what you mean by "defending the term"; there are plenty of people who think it's harmless, or accurate, or funny. The article does seem to have become strangely heavy with negative opinions, but retitling a section to "criticism" would probably make it worse. jp×g 19:54, 7 August 2021 (UTC)

I've just noticed a usage of the word "simp" in Baby Got Back (1992) which predates the 1999 Three 6 Mafia example currently in the Origins section of the article. The usage seems to be relevant to the usage discussed in this article...
Baby got it goin' on | A lot of simps won't like this song | 'Cause them punks like to hit it and quit it | And I'd rather stay and play
I think this example is relevant and notable enough to add to the article.
SloppyG (talk) 13:45, 31 August 2021 (UTC)

I also found another use of the word simp, referring to a man that is chasing after women, in the sing Play No Playa by Shawty Pimp "Breaking wimps, breaking simps, hoe drop that cash flow". 1999 was definitely not the first time it was used in the modern form. Noideawhatiamdoingohdear (talk) 22:02, 28 August 2022 (UTC)
The word "simp" was also used by The Pharcyde in their 1992 hit "Passin' Me By," in the lyrics, "When I try or make some sort of attempt, I simp. Damn, I wish I wasn't such a wimp." 2601:647:4D80:A9F0:B5A6:9878:11E1:50EC (talk) 00:46, 22 August 2024 (UTC)

I would like to add a very good example of a simp (a humayun) as i have met almost 10 Humayuns and they are all in my top 10 simps of all time, this must mean that most likely anyone who has met a humayun will agree and will have this example help them if they don't understand even after reading the article. Iwanttochangethewiki (talk) 17:15, 28 February 2022 (UTC)

 Not done: @Iwanttochangethewiki: It's not clear what changes you want to be made. Please mention the specific changes in a "change X to Y" format and provide a reliable source if appropriate. Troutfarm27 (Talk) 17:20, 28 February 2022 (UTC)

" The term existed for quite some time, but had a sporadic usage until it became widely popular on social media since 2019,"
Huh? I've seen more than one Harold Lloyd one and two reelers use the term, which suggests at least common usage in the mid to late 1910s. 
I have no experience how people are using it as an insult on internet message boards, but a wikipedia article referencing urban dictionary seems problematic. 23.28.56.171 (talk) 03:32, 22 July 2022 (UTC)

I think the statements about “simp” being offensive are… excessive? Its not incredibly offensive, and yes, if you call someone a simp with INTENT for it to be mean-spirited it will be somewhat offensive, but so would be calling them a fucking banana, ANYTHING can be offensive if meant to be. And i personally get called a simp somewhat frequently, and idk why it bugs people so much, cause if you ask them to elaborate, they usually are only describing you being a good person to a girl, whether you like her or not. So honestly, i think its fine. Also, if it changes the nature of my argument any i am afab, ftnb. 204.237.50.202 (talk) 01:32, 23 February 2023 (UTC)

I feel like the author of this article is mad at being called a simp Synotia (moan) 08:03, 22 May 2023 (UTC)

@Altenmann: Regarding this edit: the reference for the claim is not Urban Dictionary. The citation is to the references "Jones" and "Orland"; here is the article. What it actually says is this:

Urban Dictionary has a few more varied and colourful definitions. The top hit encompasses what the term has evolved into over the last year or so — “Someone who does way too much for a person they like.”
The reason this article phrases it in such a bizarre way is that, in 2021, someone insisted that the statement had to be attributed to Urban Dictionary and not Gizmodo, because the Gizmodo story mentioned Urban Dictionary. I was opposed to this at the time, but I did not have the stamina to keep reverting; perhaps we can form a new consensus to just attribute the quote to Gizmodo. jp×g 04:28, 9 August 2023 (UTC)

UD is not a reliable source. Period. Three key points from your quote above: 1: UD had several definitions, no reason to pick this one. 2: Gismodo picked it for us 3: basing on trends in urban culture (for which clearly UD has influence because teen dimwits abound). So Gizmodo ref is not so much about the definition, but about its effect on popculture. I will be not against the ref to UD, but only as a primary-source ref supporting the claim of Gizmodo or the likes. - Altenmann >talk 16:07, 9 August 2023 (UTC)

Elizabeth Taylor was fond of using this term in the 1960s.
Actually an Ad Lib dialog in dome movies. This, of course constitutes more verifiable proof of earlier use than originally stated. Totalce (talk) 22:08, 22 September 2023 (UTC)

Do you have reliable sources for that? The Crab Who Played With The Sea (talk) 23:55, 22 September 2023 (UTC)
I came here because I just came across an instance of this word being used in the 60s:
'You see?' Maudy said with scalding accusation to Chic. 'I told you so! The bastards have it in for us. We're the fall-guys in this. The lowest dupes on the ladder - the ultimate simps.'
- Philip K. Dick, The Simulacra, p. 207, Eyre Methuen Ltd, 1977 (copyright 1964)
In the book, there is a matriarchal figure, but the person speaking here does not appear from context to be referring to her. To me, it appears to refer to a useful idiot more than anything else. Lennartvdvelden (talk) 06:16, 6 April 2024 (UTC)
Tye above also makes intuitive sense to me, by the way - when I first heard it I just thought it was an abbreviated form of "simpleton". Lennartvdvelden (talk) 06:21, 6 April 2024 (UTC)

Hi can I get approval to edit so I can edit a wrong word AhMKDerb (talk) 08:14, 19 May 2024 (UTC)

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Please change `A definition of simp appeared on Urban Dictionary in 2005` to `A definition of simp appeared on Urban Dictionary in 2003` and change the citation for that from the Gizmodo article to `https://web.archive.org/web/20041024233602/http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=simp`. 
If you look at the web archive link above you will see the top definition from late 2003 matches the modern usage. The gizmodo article is incorrect because it is searching Urban Dictionary for `symp` which is a misspelling, and definitions for `symp` didn't appear until 2005. Msdrigg (talk) 16:04, 22 December 2024 (UTC)

 Done although I believe this is on the line for complying with WP:Primary Ultraodan (talk) 12:29, 27 December 2024 (UTC)

Simp means someone simple. Not all that specific rubbish about a man blah blah. Simple means slow in the brain and it's an insult. Like stupid or dumb. 2405:6E00:2420:73E7:65F7:8AC5:2C37:CC7 (talk) 06:47, 16 January 2025 (UTC)

I agree. Why these people think since the Internet is the best thing that ever happened beets me. I remember the old days before anyone knew that there is would be an Internet that the word or phrase simp is short for the word is simpleton. Meaning that one is a mentally challenged person or slow or on the spectrum. Where they come up with this Internet meaning is a simp sort of idea. You can't change the meaning of a word because you in were born in the 21st century. Give me a break people. Popsbarry (talk) 03:26, 7 February 2025 (UTC)

The word sympathy is not related to simp. Simp is slang for someone who is "simpering". Which is described as coy and overly ingratiating. 2605:8D80:422:749A:8CB5:F5F2:E32:A293 (talk) 00:15, 7 March 2025 (UTC)
 Not done: it's not clear what changes you want to be made. Please mention the specific changes in a "change X to Y" format and provide a reliable source if appropriate. PianoDan (talk) 23:37, 7 March 2025 (UTC)

I know that everything is misogyny today, but dont want to simp a man is misandrist then? 37.48.43.149 (talk) 16:49, 10 April 2025 (UTC)