He's gone. You've lost. Stay behind. and count the cost. You try. You lose. You don't fall in love by chance. You choose. It's a decision. made over time. Should you take a risk. and start to climb. the steepest hill. only to find. halfway there. you've been left behind?. Choosing to love. is risking a lot. and trying to change. and to give all you've got. But don't pretend. it comes out of the blue. You take a chance. and see it through. and if it's refused. what can you do?. Continue hopefully?. Start anew?. Lick your wounds. Buy your booze. You won't get drunk by accident. You'll choose. Don't blame him. for refusing your bid. He didn't decide to love. You did. Learn the lesson. Take the blows. You didn't fall in love by chance. You chose. Play the sad songs. Sing the blues. You don't fall in love by chance. You choose