Written by: Neneh Cherry C. McVey K. Barnes and J. Barnes. Call yourself a family man. Talking 'bout the families plan. To bring the sweet talk deep and down. Works better than an average pick up line. You put your woman out to pasture. On the promises you gave her last year. Peace and love is on your head. And the grass is greener playing 'round. Your family seed is what you spread. Chorus:. Buddy my friend. Who you think you fooling. Buddy my friend. And what about your woman. Buddy my friend. Who you think you fooling. Buddy my friend. I don't care what you do. But there's a hypocrite that lives in you. Cause if your woman gave her love. In the same way that you do. You'd feel a-way. You know you would. Chorus. Buddy my friend. Treat her that way. And you'll be X-D soon.