These are even cuter in person than they are online! The bow isn't too big. I love that they are girly but edgy at the same time. I'm surprised to hear others found them big.. they are a bit snug on me, I found the pair I got to run a little small. But, I think they'll stretch some so I will keep it. I have other flats that stretched after wear and got too loose. I like these a lot!