Designated Daughter: The Bonus Years with Mom
"When my mother became a widow, I became a Designated Daughter--the sibling who  would try to take up the empty space that had always been filled by Dad.  Instead, I found my own strong space, and learned that if you walk beside your  mother when she needs you, you'll absorb her wisdom and her strength--which will  carry you as far as you ever need to go."--D. G. Fulford