Tangles: A Story About Alzheimer's, My Mother, and Me
“The power of this graphic memoir is not that its story about a family dealing with Alzheimer’s is so extraordinary, but that it has become so ordinary. In her first book, Canadian writer and cartoonist Leavitt shows her mother agreeing to have her experiences with the disease documented because “[m]aybe this will help other families!” And likely it will, letting those experiencing the dementia of someone they love know what to expect, and to reassure that the tangled emotions they feel in response—anger, frustration, devotion, humor—are inevitable. Though this is primarily an account of the author’s experiences as her mother becomes all but emotionally unrecognizable, it is also a narrative spanning two three generations of complicated family dynamics. Leavitt illustrates significant differences between her mother’s closeness with her sisters and how the disease affects those relationships, and the contrasting tension between the author and her sister. It shows the strains that Alzheimer’s puts on everything—from the sufferer’s well being and sense of purpose to a loving marriage to the physical demands of caring for someone who can no longer care for herself. The narrative ishuman, honest, loving and occasionally even funny. “I created this book,” Leavitt writes in the introduction, “to remember her as she was before she got sick, but also to remember her as she was during her illness, the ways in which she was transformed and the ways in which parts of her endured. As my mother changed, I changed too, forced to reconsider my own identity as a daughter and as an adult and to recreate my relationship with my mother.”Not simply the story of a disease, but of the flawed, complex, intelligent people whose lives it transformed.” (Kirkus Reviews, Starred Review)“Not only a spot-on portrait of the dark comedy and vast sadness that Alzheimer’s contains, the book is a fitting tribute to Leavitt’s mom.” (Elissa Schappell, Vanity Fair)“Beautiful detailed drawings capture perfectly the joy, frustration, sense of loss, humor, and poignancy of dealing with Alzheimer’s. I welcome this book, as compelling, instructive, and yet enormously comforting too.” (Lesley Fairfield, author ofTyranny)“This is a really important book. I can’t get it out of my head...we should all own a copy.” (Rosalind Penfold, author ofDragonslippers)“Midge Leavitt begins showing symptoms of Alzheimer's in her mid-50s. Her handwriting starts to wobble, she loses herself in familiar parts of town, and strange, "blankety-blank" headaches shift around in her skull. Losing words and stories proves particularly debilitating for a woman who was once so enthused by them–with her husband, fellow teacher Rob, she "built a life of books and art and creativity". Leavitt responds in kind in this heartbreaking memoir, which follows her mother's gradual decline and her family's reaction to it. Her simple line drawings are rarely fascinating in themselves but they serve the story well, capturing facial expressions with subtle brevity and showing the subtext behind brave or cruel words as Leavitt's voice stretches from calm rationalizing to an anguished wail and back. Stark details–accounts of tidying up after a woman whose body is no longer her own and trying to communicate with a mother who can barely recognize her family–are married with warm, funny recollections of Jewish-Canadian life.” (James Smart -The Guardian (UK))“Sarah Leavitt uses the medium of comics to tell her story with more  economy and power than either words or pictures could muster by  themselves.  She brings a good eye for the telling detail--the small  observations that reveal larger truths--to her memoir of a family in  crisis. Tanglesis the work of a perceptive,  creative, and honest storyteller.” (Brian Fies, author ofMom's Cancer)“[Leavitt’s] drawings . . . put me in mind of Roz Chast . . . [her] skill, economy of line, and efficiency of vocabulary give you plot and interwoven characters, humor, pathos, comedy, and tragedy enough for 500 pages of prose.” (Eleanor Cooney, author ofDeath in Slow Motion)“Tanglesis simply a fine and touching book. As the rate of Alzheimer’s continues to increase as the population ages,Tanglesjoins Jeffrey Moore’s novelThe Memory Artistsand Sarah Polley’s filmAway from Herat the head of a list of illuminating and much-needed artistic responses.” (Ian McGillis -National Post (Canada))“The story has a definite place in the literature available to persons who have to deal with this terrible tragedy. The format (a graphic novel) is fresh and will appeal to the younger generation who are just beginning to come to grips with this crisis. Sarah describes very clearly many of the various problems that occur with each stage of the illness. She is very honest about her reactions and feelings as well as her attempts to cope with them. There are many lessons for others to learn but the biggest lesson is that it is OK to have reactions, feelings and frustrations that are not always “correct” as one watches a loved-one’s progress. I think that the graphic novel tells the story in a more vivid and personal way than most books could possibly do…I know from my years of experience that the novelwillbe very helpful to others dealing with Alzheimer’s.” (E. Prather Palmer, MD, former Director, Alzheimer’s Disease Clinic, Lahey Clinic, Burlington, Massachusetts)“Anextraordinarily moving and vividaccount, in text and cartoon-style pictures, of the life and death of an Alzheimer’s patient.” (John Bayley, author ofElegy for Iris)“Says Leavitt, “Our parents taught us, as very young children, that language, words, and books belonged to us, that they were exciting and powerful.” Pairing words with simply drawn, evocative line art, Leavitt has crafteda glowing, heart-wrenching memorial to the woman who gave her such a gift. Useful for anyone with an Alzheimer’s patient among family or friends, for health-care professionals, and for graphic arts programs as an example of how simple art can tell a powerful story.So far, the only published Alzheimer’s-related graphic novel—and highly recommended.” (Library Journal)