When Kids Hurt: Help for Adults Navigating the Adolescent Maze
What's really going on in the hidden world of today's teenagers?To get below the surface, Chap Clark spent a year in a high school and interviewed dozens of students about everything from their families and social lives to their loneliness and insecurity. An alarming picture emerged: adults have abandoned kids to navigate the ever-lengthening and ever more difficult transition to adulthood on their own, and the results are devastating. Unable to cope with the pressures of expectations and hurt of abandonment, teenagers retreat to their own world of youth culture to survive, and few adults care enough to engage them there.Here Clark and Rabey sum up the provocative research, which was detailed in Clark's bestselling bookHurt, and lay out practical ways caring adults can have a profound impact on teens. This book is an essential guide for youth pastors and volunteer leaders, educators, counselors, parents, and all adults seeking to reach out to today's adolescents."WhenHurtcame out, it changed the landscape of youth ministry. InWhen Kids Hurt, Chap Clark and Steve Rabey have taken us on the next step of the journey--to helping us know how to respond to kids who have been neglected and, in Chap's words, 'systematically abandoned.'"--Doug Fields, pastor to the life development team, Saddleback Church"Chap and Steve have done us all a huge favor--parents and practitioners alike--by taking us deeper into the reality of adolescent brokenness while providing us with practical suggestions on how to move toward a 'fix.'"--Walt Mueller, president, Center for Parent/Youth Understanding"This book helps adults get inside the mind and life of adolescents like no other."--Jim Burns, president, HomeWord, author ofThe Purity Code"Chap Clark and Steve Rabey have captured the pain of adolescents better than anyone I know. The first time I read this book, I couldn't put it down."--Kara Powell, executive director, Fuller Youth Institute"This is must reading for parents and youth workers alike."--Wayne Rice, cofounder, Youth SpecialtiesChap Clark is vice dean for the School of Theology and Regional Campuses Master's Programs and professor of youth, family, and culture at Fuller Theological Seminary. He is senior editor ofYouthWorker Journaland the author of several books, including the award-winningHurt, andDisconnected, a book for parents.Steve Rabey is an award-winning writer and editor who has authored or collaborated on over twenty books. He is the editor ofYouthWorker Journal.