Marriage Confidential
“If you’re coupled up—or want to be—you’ve got to read this.” (Glamour)“Haag’s well-researched provocative study will get you thinking.” (People, "Great Summer Reads")“The perfect book club choice.;. . . Free of the inflammatory politics and cultural baggage that usually accompanies the topic.;. . . It does make you reflect on modern mating habits. It’s fun.” (USA Today)“[A] fun, interesting read.” (TODAY)“Pamela Haag takes a fresh look at the state of our legal unions.” (More)“Fascinating. . . . Couldn’t be more timely or relevant.” (Huffington Post)“Provocative.” (The Times(London))“Throughout her initial analysis she is spot-on. . . . [with a] sharp, erudite style . . . Haag has her capable finger on the pulse of the American marriage.” (Publishers Weekly(starred review))“A startlingly honest and surprisingly funny account of marital discontent…. Avoiding comfortable bromides and rejecting the usual clichés, Haag reports on how married people really live these days…. This is one of the few books around with something new to say about the travails of modern love and coupledom.” (Laura Kipnis, author ofAgainst Love: A PolemicandHow to Become a Scandal)“Brilliant. . . . Marriage Confidentialis both laugh-out-loud funny and gasp-out-loud shocking, and nothing less than aFeminine Mystiquefor our time. Mark my words, your marriage will change after reading this book.” (Debby Applegate, Pulitzer Prize-winning author ofThe Most Famous Man in America: The Biography of Henry Ward Beecher)“In this timely and thought-provoking analysis of modern coupledom, Pamela Haag paints a vivid tableau of the ‘semi-happy’ couple. Written with wit and aplomb, this page turner will instigate an insurrection against our marital complacency.” (Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity)“The personal is political after all. This first big history of the marriages of the post-feminist generation tells a riveting story of how socially empowered women-including many who opted out-and their mates are still struggling to find happiness in their personal lives.” (Linda Hirshman, author ofGet to Work: . . . And Get a Life, Before It's Too Late)“[Haag] doesn’t shy away from controversy in discussing how some marriage ‘rebels’ try to breathe new life into their relationships. A candid and thought-provoking read.” (Stephanie Coontz, author ofMarriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage)“[Haag] wittily and meticulously explores what sets apart those who suffer quietly in their semi-happy marriages from those who take action-whether that action is working to improve the situation, splitting up, retreating to a man cave or having an affair.” (BookPage)“Marriage Confidentialis so rare, such a pleasantly charming pearl of great price . . . You learn something, but you hardly notice because you’re having such a good time.;. . . Flat-out brilliant.” (Washington Post Book World)“A fascinating journey through the evolution of marriage.” (Date Night Magazine)“I read it voraciously. . . . [Haag] is thoughtful, engaging, unconventional, and amusing.” (Bella DePaulo,Psychology Today)“The chances are, this book describes your marriage. . . . It’s also an entertaining read.” (Mail on Sunday(UK))