The Shy Man's Guide to Success With Women
TERRY HEGGY knows about shyness. In high school he watched  silently as his friends danced with and dated the girls he wished he  had the nerve to talk to. Even though he did well in school, he  couldnt figure out what it took to be popular with the women. Even  his status as a National Merit honor student, a swimming letterman,  and a published poet did nothing to bring him closer to the dating  success he desired. Even the thought of talking to a desirable woman  brought on a cold sweat, butterflies in the stomach, and a depressing  foreboding of certain rejection. He felt that shyness was a curse he  was burdened to bear forever.After graduating from the University of Kansas with honors and a  degree in Journalism, the still-dateless Heggy was desperate for  answers. Knowing that one of his strengths was his ability to find  information and absorb it, he began to search for the answers to help  him overcome his shyness. As his research began to pay off, this shy  boy became more confident. His love life blossomed. He found the  answers hed wanted. He used what he learned to create a plan that  anyone can follow to fully enjoy the benefits of fulfilling  relationships.As Heggy began to enjoy all the facets of his new non-shy life, he  expanded his horizons to gain experience in numerous areas. He has  spent time as a Disk Jockey, a minister, a vacuum cleaner salesman, an  aerospace engineer, and a computer instructor. He has entertained as a  magician, musician, and filmmaker. He continues to swim, and was named  Colorado Masters Swim Coach of the Year in 1992. He lives with his  wife and 10-year-old son in Lakewood, Colorado.