The Chocolate Conversation: Lead Bittersweet Change, Transform Your Business
[if gte mso 9]><xml> <o:OfficeDocumentSettings> <o:AllowPNG  /> </o:OfficeDocumentSettings> </xml><![endif]“Rose Fass is the undisputed master of organizational dynamics, and this book proves she has the bead on what it takes to transform companies and brands in these challenging times. The simplicity of her idea—that everything that matters happens ‘in the conversation’—is both essential and critical for success in a complex world. Read the book, join the conversation, and bask in Rose’s wisdom, as I’ve done many times in my career.” (Bob Greenberg, founder, chairman and CEO, R/GA) “My senior leadership team was formed through acquisitions, restructuring, and a compelling need to reinvent our business. We had a clear mission, or so we thought. Instead our team was fragmented and we needed help. In walks a dynamic, insightful woman asking us to definechocolate?! It triggered a conversation that led us to recognize that past victories would not take us into the future—and to instead frame a unified strategy and focused actions. We got the job done. When I assumed my next executive leadership role, the first call I made was to that same dynamic woman, Rose Fass, for my next ‘chocolate conversation.’” (Karen T. Cone, general manager, Worldwide Financial Services, Microsoft) “Rose Fass is a skilled practitioner of the thoughts, ideas, and concepts she writes about in this outstanding book.The Chocolate Conversationis not a pie in the sky reading. Her conversations with you throughout these pages are full of rich insight that will strip away the fluff and demonstrate that meaningful organizational change is rooted in multi-level, cross-functional conversations. Rose’s book underscores the old maxim: if you don’t like change, you are going to like irrelevancy even less.” (Thomas A. Kayser, author ofMining Group GoldandBuilding Team Power) “The Chocolate Conversationis a must-read and field manual for anyone setting out to change their company from the heart and hand of the master change maker herself, Rose Fass. Rose’s warmth and wit, down-to-earth style, and galvanizing authority is on every page.Run, don’t walk, to get your copy of this delightful and wildly informative book.” (Kevin Allen,founder and CEO, re:kap, and author of the WSJ best-sellerThe Hidden Agenda:A Proven Way to Win Business and Create a Following)“Rose Fass has written a remarkably rich book that carries the reader along swiftly, easily, and enjoyably from cover to cover. In just two hundred pages, the author shows her experienced judgment on to reframe thinking and conversations, and incites her readers to take action.” (Peter Koestenbaum, PhD, founder and chairman of PiB and the Koestenbaum Institute) “True brilliance is not about developing complex theories or pontificating about piles of research reporting out on what has already happened. True brilliance is about simplifying complex issues and harnessing people’s energy to change the world. In that light,The Chocolate Conversionis simply brilliant. Rose brings her experience, inherent intellect, and frankly raw talent forward in to this book. She is a strategist, motivator, and business leader. She brings clarity to chaos, finds solutions to big business problems, and most importantly drives and delivers results. Putting the tools delivered in this book into action will be the single most important business investment you can make in the coming years.” (Martha Delehanty, Senior Vice President, Human Resources, Verizon Enterprise Solutions) “I know Rose and, boy, do I know chocolate. 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