My Mentor, My Guide: A Handbook  for Daddies and Boys for the New Generation (A Boner Book)
Blade T Bannon was originally born and raised on the east coast, but entered the Leather, BD/SM community in the early 80's while coming out in Los Angeles.  He then moved to Austin, TX where he continued his journey and later moved to Phoenix, AZ were he settled for 17 years.