'Yeh i bought it up on the call before, and he did say he doesnt even know hes really doing it and hes just like that and people have gotten annoyed at him before.  Yeh id agree with the view on...|||Well i do actually believe this. I take some responsibility. My life needs improving, my self belief and confidence etc. If i had worked harder up until now to improve those things, maybe my friend...|||I have had issues with feeling suspicious about people's true intentions in the past. Mainly because when i was younger i was used alot, and taken for a ride and probably do suffer from low self...|||Exactly, its not about thinking 'He owes me something, he owes me a friendship and to be nice'. No. Its not that AT,ALL. It's the obvious avoiding behavour. Another example is his food would go off...|||I'm asking for people's advice, perspective really on this. I have a friend who i go out with alot at weekends drinking. The weekend just gone, he was DJing at a club for a night. He asked me to come...|||I think you're onto something with the high standards/perfectionist thing. He does appear that way. The first day he moved in he painted the whole room white again, even though it was fine. Kinda...|||So i basically have a 2 bedroomed apartment and i rent out the spare room. I've had lodgers for the past few years.   I moved someone new in about 4-5 months ago. I made an effort in the few month...|||Thanks man. Yeh it would be interesting to talk to another INFJ alike too. I'm not a skype but im on Facebook, ill send you over a PM.|||Thanks. That gave me some great insight and clarity.|||I think ive figured the main cause to most of my problems, and its confidence. I'm paralyzed and gripped by uncertainty, fear, because i lack confidence in myself. I figured it kinda looks like...|||The weight of a stone is different here on earth than on our moon :)|||Thanks for your reply. I'm glad to hear from someone who's been through the same thing. I feel exactly the same about big things, atleast i KNOW i have to focus on THAT, and i have focus, without my...|||I can relate to the artwork thing. I started not enjoying music so much when i started getting gigs where i had to find and play music that others enjoyed, not so much that i liked.   I've tried...|||Ill try to explain what goes through my head when i try to focus on one thing. Say i decide right now, for the next 3 months, to just focus on what i enjoy, what i like doing, which is making music....|||I was wondering if anyone else has been through this and can maybe give me some perspective/insight on how to get out of it.  Right now i feel stuck, confused, overwhelmed. I know that i don't want...|||So i came across a dating article the other day, was reading the comment section and some guy was talking about Fe And Fi. From what i take from his comments, and i may be taking this in a negative...|||The feeling in my head is definitely something to do with the Warts. I had the same feeling on Citalopram years ago    I've heard about this. Bi Polar does run in my family, my Dad suffers from...|||Hey guys. I started talking St Johns Warts last week to try and life my mood just a little as i have just started a new job. 6 days in and i feel worse, my head feels like it's 'throbbing', like its...|||For the single Mums 241210 My sincere apologies.|||Pritty much agree with everything you've said. Too many young women who are not fit or ready for children having kids/don't even know who they are themselves in this world. I know, I was brought up...|||You have some valid points. I agree different women are attracted to different things/have different values etc. Maybe I'm just fighting being myself right now, and its making things worse.Feels like...|||I think the word you looking for is balance (I agree), and yes, i would agree i have maybe swung too far over to the left from bad experiences, im aware and i am working on it.  I have a hard time...|||Well no, not technically. Every human is fundamentally trying to always feel better, than they do at any current moment. INFJs get pleasure from helping others, and seeing others happier. You are...|||Look, all this really depends on the context. Sure, i'm polite and nice to people, ill offer if people want anything from the shop, for example who i don't really know. If a stranger is in trouble,...|||I guess you could call it 'Healthy Nice Guy' and Unhealthy Nice Guy. The unhealthy nice guy is perceived as 'nice' on the exterior, but is riddled with insecurities, unhealthy way of dealing with...|||We've obviously had different experiences throughout life. I use to be that guy, and got walked over. All i'm saying is being perceived as a nice guy, opens you up for alot of exploitation. Its a...|||@Ob -  Thanks. I do make the first contact, but the problem is i don't match with anyone i fancy. I mean, they're mostly women with kids, or women i don't find attractive. I have recently grew my...|||What is it with me and attracting mostly single Mums on dating sites? Any other people have trouble with this? It's like im giving off this easily malleable, nice guy vibe that i carn't stand! I...|||I'm from Warrington too!|||For what purpose do you want to study psychology? Help others? Satisfy an interest?  Out of the 2, what would you say you spent most of the day thinking about?|||For years i chased a dream, a dream to make music, that connected with others, that lifted people up through rouge times, like it did for me. Music was something that got me through hard times in...|||Eric Prydz and Deadmau5 :)  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ySJEu4is1kY#t=65|||Thanks! But I'm still a little confused. How do the letters INFJ (For example) Relate to the first 4 functions o that type? For example, the Ti and Se are both Thinking And sensing, but INFJ includes...|||Hey guys, wondering if someone could help me with a few questions i have about MBTI. I'm trying to understand the functions, but i'm failing to understand how say the four letters, INFJ, are...|||Look up chromium tablets, they might help you. I'm getting them delivered tommorow. There ment to help people with carb cravings and depression. Take a look into it. Its helped alot of people...|||Anyone?|||This mindset limits growth, in my opinion. What your saying is, if i want to be a more empathetic person, because i value that and expect it of others, and myself, i shouldn't try to be more...|||Find yourself, what does that even mean?  I believe in finding out your strengths, weaknesses, values, wants as a person can help on your path, but the term 'Find yourself' just kinda makes no...|||Anyone here got this type of depression? Only just found out about it tbo, my doctors or therapist never told me about this. I think i've suffered from depression since i was a kid.  I generally...|||Do you guys think this is a normal reaction and this is what working hard is? I.e, something everyone experiences when working against something they don't want to do, or something else? I think we...|||Unbelievable amount of stress throughout  my body, feels like I'm going to have a heart attack any moment. Pains in my chest when working towards something i don't really want to do. Like right now,...|||the_BLOB   Thanks. I’ve been on anti-depressants before. 2 types. Just made me feel numb, with no feelings at all. Didn’t do anything for my motivation/energy levels.  I’ve been to countless...|||Thanks for the replys. Appeciate it. I think right now i am completely overwhelmed with debt, struggle to find work and loneliness. I'm trying to take steps this week to re-prioritize. Hopefully...|||Weird. I came across a blog that more or less has alot of the same lines used. Its like the author used alot of what was put in that original typologycentral thread for her blog post that was only...|||I'm not sure where to begin. Kinda reaching out here for some advice, maybe even some help on identifying what problem/problems are causing me to constantly be in the zone of unhappiness in my life....|||Not sure where to begin with this vent. Life just doesn't seem to get any better for me. It's like i love having no foundation in place what-so-ever.   Started a new temporary christmas job last...|||This comes to mind reading your post.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VHWUCX6osgM  Follow your gut. If you think it was the right decision it probably was. Just don't do a me and be out of work...|||Sadly, this is me down to a tee : )|||It's great your trying to improve yourself. You might not clearly see the improvements, but others will. Keep that up. As for finding a partner, i would recommend to stop trying to find one. You need...|||The most difficult personality type I've ever dealt with is an INFJ.  Bob McAlpine of Type Resourcesspecifies the ISTJ as a DYNAMIC OPPOSITE of the INFJ.  Between these two patterns, all eight of the...'