'It's been awhile!  I've been thinking about how I'm far from a hopeless romantic and I was wondering if I was the only one? I feel like I used to be a hopeless romantic in my early teens when I...|||Thank you, really. Sometimes I just lose sight of when to draw the line because I care so much about others. However, I need to care more about myself. Thank you. I needed to hear what you said.|||Thank you. It feels nice to be understood. Thank you. I needed this.|||Thank you so much for your thorough response. I appreciate it deeply.|||It's been awhile since I logged onto here, but here's what I wanted to ask:  Is it okay that I am picking out who I want to keep in my life and begin segregation? I'm just tired of so many people...|||Te (Extroverted Thinking) (75%)  your valuation of / adherence to logic of external systems / hierarchies / methods  Ti (Introverted Thinking) (75%)  your valuation of / adherence to your own...|||Thank you, haha. I appreciate your input.|||That's fine. You have your preference in perceiving someone as your loved one. You're assuming that I'm implying my father's lecture as boring and driveling. Of course, I can't take it personal since...|||My father is an ISTJ (or so he's tested as ISTJ) and I was wondering if it's common among ISTJs to continuously lecture and ramble? My father doesn't necessarily lecture me because I've learned to...|||Mine is probably going to be the most boring story lol  Once upon a time,  There was a gal, she was an INFJ, therefore shesinfj.   The End|||Thank you. I appreciate that you took the time to let me know that. I hope my words have helped you, lovely.  Have a wonderful day wherever you are, and goodnight if it's already bedtime over...|||That's not true. You are not shitty. If anything, you are just as lovely, if not more. I know I don't know you personally, but I want to believe that you are kind -- I believe that everyone is...|||I'm sorry to hear that you had a bad day. Allow me to offer this: I'm always only a PM away if you need a friend!  That said, I'm glad that this thread made you feel better. I can relate to you on...|||I'm really happy to hear that my words were able to make your day a little better!  I hope the future days to come are wonderful for you. x|||I'm sorry you went through such a difficult time. I can only imagine how overwhelmed you must have felt, but I'm glad you've only gotten stronger from it.  I don't think crying is a sign of...|||It's okay, but it doesn't matter what personality type you are. Your personality type does not excuse the way you write and does not dismiss the fact that you can learn to word things differently....|||True, you could say feeling vulnerable and being vulnerable are different things. However, they are not COMPLETELY different. Why? Because they are directly related to each other. When you feel...|||But of course, and there's no need to thank me. I wholeheartedly agree with you. I hope that your world is twirled in the sunshine's rays today. x|||I'm glad my words have helped you. Thank YOU for visiting this thread. x|||You have your own perspective and so do others. You have your own definition of being vulnerable and so do others.  I am not confusing one for the other.  No where did I state that I was going to...|||You have all of my support, and the support of so many others. x|||I am open to people thanking me. I simply feel as though they don't need to thank me. Like what you've stated, I don't feel as though I've done anything worthy to be thanked -- I don't think people...|||I'm glad you agree with me and I appreciate the further points you've made in your commentary!  I feel like I don't have to add onto what you've stated. What you wrote was absolutely lovely. x|||You have no need to thank me. Rather I appreciate the fact that my words have helped you in some sort of way.  Thank you for taking the time visit this thread and write your post. x|||I could just set the prison on fire with an escape plan and let everyone die. 0-100 real quick.  Sarcasm intended. Or am I.|||Beautifully written. I agree with you, and I only hope for others to stop viewing vulnerability as a weakness. I feel like being vulnerable allows you to grow in so many ways -- I like to think that...|||Ah, thank you so much. It means a lot to me that you can say that! You have no need to thank me. Thank you for taking the time to visit this thread and letting me know what you've thought.   I hope...|||There's no need to thank me.|||I thought I'd just make a thread saying this:  Perhaps you're having a bad day, or maybe you're hurting, or life has been tough lately, but that's okay. It's okay because what matters is that...|||No preference. I don't like basing off friendships (this includes relationships) off the MBTI. You never know who you can vibe with. For instance, one may argue that an INTP isn't empathetic, but...|||Don't apologize if your English isn't so great! You have so much room to improve and I like to think that even people who are fluent in English still have moments where they go through grammatical...|||We already have so much in common!  I, too, love reading and anything creative and photography and writing! Photography is actually one of my hobbies.  Welcome and I hope you enjoy your stay. x|||My experiences so far lol~  (Face-to-face experience if we're friends):  Her: Can I ask you something? Maybe you can relate. Me: Of course you can. Her: Do you ever walk away from a...|||I try to stray away from basing my friendships off the MBTI because as a rule, I try to give everyone a chance and the benefit of doubt. You never know who you'll get along with, and just because...|||You should try introducing him to this forum! There are so many welcoming people here, and that includes his fellow INFJs!  If you could relay this message to him, let him know that he's not alone...|||I'm not a doctor, but I'm a student (like you) that's pursuing to become a psychiatrist or vet.  I don't have ADHD, but I do get distracted by the little things (like my phone... guilty). However...|||I don't know if it's because I notice the little things in people or if it's because my love language so happens to be Words of Affirmation, but here's what it's like in my shoes:  Personally for...|||Well, it is unintentional empathy. I just empathize without even thinking about it. Whenever I hear about someone's problems, it's like I absorb their pain - I feel for them.   When I'm emotionally...|||Thank you for taking the time out of your day to write me your message. I appreciate the content you had to share with me and you're not wrong. You do make sense.  I'm still on a difficult journey...|||Thank you for taking the time to write me your sincere and lengthy message. I don't necessarily think I'm resisting how I feel, but rather I'm just being myself - an over-thinker and over analyzing...|||Thank you for taking the time to write me your honest message. I'm glad we're not alone on this.|||I really can't put it to words, or I mean I can, but please bear with me.  I don't know if you can relate to me, but I have my highs and lows. Not that I'm bipolar, but more like... my emotions...|||I'm currently an undergraduate at a four-year university and I'll be graduating with a BS in Biology.   Lately, I've been feeling a tad bit unmotivated and losing sight of why I'm working so hard....|||So I found out my parents are ESTP and ISTJ, and it's so funny because a lot of things make sense now. It makes sense as to why they don't understand me, but I can understand them so well...   But...|||<3|||Ugh, I absolutely love how I'm not alone on this.   Actually, I have told my loved ones that! Everyone knows I'm not a touchy person and it's not my love language, at least for the most part they...|||Some days are harder than others, there are days where I don't feel tired and there are days where I feel more tired than other days. I'm not sleepy tired - it's the type of tired that no amount of...|||Yeah! I think it's 1. and a mix of 2.  As for 1, I think he realized that he couldn't continue feeling the way he did because well, circumstances such as school, distance, etc. As for 2, I never...|||Sounds like what he's doing! He's a very passionate person in what he does and he gets really stressed at school. I'm just tired of the distance he's creating because I enjoy being his friend lol! I...|||Definitely! I think that a lot of people just learn to do this as a way to get over someone.   Hmm, I see. I appreciate your hypothesis! I don't get to see this person in person often or at all...'