'Indeed. I've been at uni most days until late anyway...  OOO. I'm sure you're looking forward to that!|||This is indeed no lie. It has been a while (due to my inactivity on skype and here, I guess) now! :happy:|||A Gen Z forum would be lovely.|||A standard:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6pdyiK5kziw  Contemporary:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XP1LVZa_9qw  Esperanza... (more upbeat)|||The other day:   Parked in town and paid for parking. Gave a lady (who thought the ticket machine took notes and had no coins) 50c for her parking. Went about my business.  Headed back to the car...|||Those feels. She picked him over me.   I hope it all works out for you *hug*.|||meowwwwwwwmeomeowwwwwwwROOOF|||Amazing post and very informative, thank you x100!|||How I do it is:  Sit upright, and in a comfortable position (helps me not fall asleep), Eyes closed (limits the amount of interference I get to what's already inside my head), Focus on the...|||Does anyone else out there partake in daily meditation?  I'm relatively new to it myself and have only been doing it for a few weeks, but I've been finding that clearing my mind for 20 minutes a...|||Small Robin Tunney man-crush (Teresa Lisbon from The Mentalist) which I have had for *ahem* a long while...  ...|||*provocative immature teenage giggle*|||Incredibly well put,  Caterpillar Caterpillar.   I know this is a rant (and fair enough, nothing like a good bitch about how we suck at women, right?), but it appears that you [OP] haven't so much...|||You too. For sure, give me a while to get settled in and we'll make it happen!|||Dear 2013,  Come at me bro. I'll shred you. (famous last words :tongue:) This is going to be a year of firsts, a year to remember.  Yours in anticipation, Me|||Trifle is fantastic. :proud:|||This was me too, in a way. I thought I was INTJ for a long while until I read up on the difference between Te and Ti and realized something wasn't quite right... My Ti was and still is very strong,...|||I agree with everything said here. Another program I'd recommend similar to VirtualBox is VMWare, which I use myself (there should be a free trial available).   On a related but unrelated note,...|||My helicopter parents are being shit (removed the c word...). Won't let me go out tonight on one of the rare occasions where I'm actually invited to something. No justification. I have a big fuck-off...|||Awesome. I'm looking forward to actually being able to study indepth what I'm interested in, instead of wasting my time on other crap :frustrating:.|||There's a few different ways that I would play this if it were me:  1) Don't reply. Perhaps you could later offer an explanation as to why. 2) Reply, but ignore/stop replying if he brings it up....|||I agree. Speak with your actions as loud and as obvious as possible so that there is no mistake (most guys don't do subtle... I'm one of them).|||Yep. Finished forever... onto uni where marks are more indicative and scaling exists!|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j5C6X9vOEkU Happy birthday, internet stranger! :kitteh:|||Bah! NCEA :dry:|||Very interesting thought and anecdotes, thank you for that! That would make some sense. She also has a best friend who is like her extroverted double - maybe that's all she can handle of herself?|||Ugh. I wonder why :sad: We've been through a lot together (a few months ago she actually promised we'd be friends no matter what) and she's a fellow INFJ. Guess it's time to stop putting any effort...|||I can't tell if one of my lady-friends is avoiding hanging out with me or not. She's working full time at the moment, but something tells me if she really wanted to chill, she'd make the time. I...|||How does one know that a person sees a colour exactly the way another does? What if red looks different to you than it does to me? Is a colour more than just something visual, does it provoke a...|||Yes! This is me too. As a result I more often listen to instrumental music. Nothing wrong with some vocals over the top, but I'll still be listening to the rest of the band in the hope that they're...|||I also don't look or seem like a metalhead. I heavily appreciate bands like Meshuggah/Periphery for the atmosphere they create, and their rhythmic complexity; I enjoy trying to suss out what's going...|||Indeed. It's both V and M (which is really weird) - the music school. I'll have lectures on both campuses. I love Wgn... apart from the winds :tongue:|||Tga in BoP, if that helps. Nice, I'm moving to Wgn next year for study :happy:.|||Tga. Yourself?|||Look, another kiwi! Hi!|||http://i1151.photobucket.com/albums/o621/kbdryo/selfielol_zpsa9f5eb6e.jpg Bit spotty at the moment :ninja:. Yay or nay on the stubble?|||She'll get it, don't worry about that. Sounds like a great idea!|||All things come to he (she) who waits.  There's nothing wrong with starting a little later! The careers and successes of others are often of little relevance to you (even if she's your younger...|||Something really strange has happened in the last two weeks since my final day of classes at high school (even though I'm still on exams). I feel like just about everyone I know is starting to both...|||It's warranted meaning the kiss?  How it worked for me: I drew her in for a hug, we hugged for a bit, then as we pulled away I paused for a bit where our heads were parallel, and went in. ...|||I knew that it would be something I remembered forever (with my first and only girlfriend, now ex)   It took me a little while for me to pluck up the courage to go for it once we got there   I was...|||Wow, it seems we are quite alike! It's such a nice feeling to know that somebody out there can personally identify with me, and even see in me a little of themselves. Wow.  Thanks! I take pride in...|||Totally - I was meaning in public as well, forgot to put that in. It's very strange, glad someone relates! I'm not sure if I'd even say I was afraid, which makes it even weirder. Which topic are you...|||I feel like I am intimidating on the outside. I'm rarely, if ever, approached by others, even some of my closer friends. I have to initiate contact 90% of the time, which I very much hate.  It's...|||I definitely do speak shyly, it's pretty rare to get me pumped up enough to speak without erring on the timid side. I'm not sure what my triggers for being more expressive are just yet, but it's...|||I feel so disconnected from my body. My speech feels so clumsy - the voice I hear in my head is so far different to the one I project.  I trip over my words often and accidentally slur some into...|||To my two most favorite friends,  Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your friendship. I am so much more grateful for your companionship than I will ever be able to express in words, and...|||It's so frustrating having everyone telling me how well I performed, while I stand there, all smile-y and thank-y, knowing that I could have done much, much better.|||Much like  @Aizar, I simply ask Is everything okay?. I try not to push too much if it's a no, but I do make it clear that they're welcome to talk to me if need be. They're usually happy that I'm...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u-n0y9s4NyY  *cringes and presses post*'