'Apparently, I always flirt without even realising it. However if I am interested in someone I will just simply tell them. I'm very social and prefer to be myself. So even with one on one time I'll...|||Personally I'm not in favour of letting your cat outside (as in, outside to roam wherever) for health reasons for my cats and because my country is very densely populated so they could get hurt...|||Dear anonymous,  I tell you that I'm Ok, that I don't worry, that I know you'll be safe when you're on deployment. None of it is true. I am worried out of my mind, I am absolutely not Ok and I am...|||How old are these girls? During puberty everyone is insecure because of social standards and perception. As we're growing up we (hopefully) learn to love ourselves for who we are and accept ourselves...|||In my experience, people talk. Not to gossip or what not but because some things can weigh heavily on someone. You might want advice in how to deal with certain things. E.g. your ex may have had an...|||And I can't stop watching this video while missing my fiancé. Only 601 days left to spend behind the glass wall.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DRkgH7Uu-hA|||Dear Universe/Karma,  Thank you for giving me that break I needed so badly. Thank you for kicking off the series of events that led me to being happily in love and engaged. I have one favour to...|||I have a hard time staying focused on one game. It also doesn't help that the evil publishers tend to publish the games I like with only a few months between them.  I have managed finishing some...|||I was completely and utterly convinced that this is how it worked with the cows XD|||Dear Universe,  See, it's not hard being nice once in a while. Now where's this Spring time of the year that we've been promised eh eh eh?!|||Oh, sounds like fun! Hit me up =D|||I've been obsessing about Orcs Must Die! 2. It's a wonderful game with a co-op option. Something strangely satsifying about plotting the untimely demise of hordes and hordes of orcs.  If anyone...|||I'm usually up for a chat if I am not slaying hordes of orcs. Hit me up on Skype (lostara.yil) or on Steam (Lexi Snoot). Or, join me in the awesome fun of witnessing, and being the caus of, the...|||^ This... QFT.|||Dear Universe/Karma,  I've persevered, endured and tackled everything you threw at me for the past 16 years. It'd be nice if you'd give me a mothaffing break right now.  ktnxbai|||I can only speak from my own experiences and from what I've gathered on the forum so far. It's possible that due to her past relationships she's just scared of committing again. The fear of being...|||*prods INTJ forum*  Here's the mind of an ENFP child;  Cow that gives milk 66981  Cow that gives chocolate milk 66982|||Well, I tend to look for a way out of a relationship when I find that my SO gets close to me. I've been told I'm a tough nut to crack. I am unsure whether this is due to my extremely disastrous and...|||And I really need hugs in these sad sad times =(|||Love, the irresistable desire to be irresistably desired. So true...|||My job is creating order out of chaos, as a coworker so aptly put it. The thing is with this job, you basically have to be insane to like it. So I guess that fits with the ENFP thing =P Seriously...|||Me and zee kittah!  http://i175.photobucket.com/albums/w144/tattertaru/Fotos/545999_10150784302633760_1095245193_n.jpg|||When you're the only one who can see past the angry emotions and try to understand why someone did what they did. Only to then try and explain it to everyone else.|||Yeah, this thread pretty much sums it all up for me. I've found that the change from happy to withdrawn can happen quite suddenly and is a rather large drop which I find difficult to deal with. From...|||Dear Anonymous,  When we, all of your friends, heard that you committed suicide we all fell apart. You were so young, only 41 years old. None of us realised the depth of your despair. How that...|||D'awwr... All of the wuffles <3|||I'm a 'Resource Manager' as they call it here. Basically I'm responsible for the availability of field support engineers and resident engineers. It's quite interesting because you need to be highly...|||Dear Anonymous,  Damn you for bringing that back up. I wanted to stab you in the eye and punch you in the face for that. That's all.|||^ That.  Let me clarify my post. I do assume that there will be a modicum of common sense. If you suddenly decide to hop on a plane to go somewhere, yeah make sure you do have the money and can...|||Tridentus that's exactly it. It's a mindset and it just happens. Although I think ENFPs are likely the instigators of spontaneous actions and inspire everyone else to just go along with it.  xEmilyx...|||Or pen pal as in, instant messenger chats, PerC chats?|||The lyrics, the image, the remix <3  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zvkzBUUGR_I|||My dearest, you are simply amazing ;)|||Truthfully? I would approach that person just as a mission to make that person smile. There will be poking and prodding at this person to understand why they seem to not be enjoying themselves.  I...|||Tastes like triangle, smells like lemon and sounds like banana.|||Me me me me me! Add me!|||That is me... I will go hang my head in shame AND BE VERY EXCITED ABOUT IT!|||How did I not spot this thread sooner? =O  1. In which European country are you? Netherlands 2. What's your area of study/profession (doesn't have to be too specific) Resource manager for a big...|||You're very welcome! =D  Yes, I find that's how it works for me. It's like the whole poem is in my head already and just needs to find it's way to a medium of choice. Basically it's your feelings...|||CeresZal You have wonned a shiny gold intarwebs. I lol'd so hard XD|||La Petite Sirène Yes that is exactly what I meant. For me writing poetry comes from a very personal place. It's how my inner turmoil gets processed and finds it way out. I don't write that often and...|||Well, I have a hard time coming up with poetry on demand, so to speak. There was a short verse by Shakespeare that resonated strongly with me; My words fly up, my thoughts remain below. Word without...|||Allow me... Konigsberg  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYRlR_gV67Q  @Selecao Get a cat, it's wonderful. http://i175.photobucket.com/albums/w144/tattertaru/Mister%20and%20Swing/Swinginkrabpaal.jpg|||The social gatherings are but one of the favoured things to do. Everything else mentioned in posts above mine is accurate as well.    Yep, bookstores, gamestores, elecotronic stores and nature...|||I knew little to nothing about MBTI and tested myself with the online ones several times on different times of the day. Even done it backwards, pick the answer I would most certainly not do which...|||(O.O)  What is this Tumblr you speak of? =O|||ain37 Greetings and salutations! You've made the right choice, this forum is just lovely =D|||First of all, age is just a number. I think every ENFP here is as old as they feel and we seem to feel we're pretty young at heart =P  Where to find us; any place that has a lot of people. Parties,...|||Adamant that just made my week =D|||ERMAHGERD PUPPEH! <3  I totally dig your theme =D'