'Im either distant or intimidating  too perfect. but I have only been dumped once in which they told me Im very intimidating and hard to keep up with but really they were just insecure. I never...|||Soul Eater!|||This perfectly describes me. I am enneagram type 1 by the way! Thanks for such an accurate description.|||I dont hate the government at all. They give me my free healthcare and schooling. I apologize if my humor made you assume negativity on my part. But it is a lie that they make everything illegal for...|||I tell you I like you immediately. I don't like to waste time wondering what you think about me I wanna know. So I go up to you the next time I see you and either ask you out or simply tell you I'm ...|||ESTJ. He has a good heart that keeps me from going to the dark side lol. He is also my trusted business partner. My only friend I have ever had and will ever have. We both take loyalty to the extreme...|||8503085031|||hahahahaaahahaa :) you're funny!|||1. Fight Club 2. V for Vendetta 3. Moulin Rouge (Nicole Kidman) 4. Zerophilia 5. Perks of being a wallflower.|||I've been feeling exactly like this for over a year now. I still hang out with people but now I just play games with peoples relationships and lives. They don't even notice. I am no longer...|||High school was a blast! I was an honor student every other year just because I could. I was well known at school for a number of reasons. I sold drugs, I played soccer, I was in the marching band. I...|||I want a soulmate!|||Would love to get to know you and welcome David!!! Have a great day too! :)|||83051 my first boyfriend 83052 me when I was little!  83053 my little sister is my everything! We are adults now and she will still lay on my like that :) 83054 My first school picture.  I have...|||I'll be your friend but I cannot save you from you. But I will gladly talk to you and listen. I feel alone a lot as well. I know that I am not really alone. But I am aware I am different and I am...|||I don't cry as much as my other INFJ friends. They seem to let people know what they feel more. like I will feel the same way but will not show it.|||Let's just say I need a little destruction to balance out the positive things I do. I am all about balance. I have a very create and destroy way about me. Most people never see or notice it. It...|||40% The method actor 40% The cobra  10% The academic  10% Gypsy King  I act like all four daily. Just a different percentage of my time is used for each.|||Yea I know not all INFP's are like this. I was just wondering how to deal with an immature one . I was thinking maybe I just wasn't saying the right thing to them. Thanks alot for taking the time to...|||Thank you for responding. I have tried the a + b= c method without any emotion but they just don't get it. Also what I was after was results. The person I was dealing with does not pay their rent. I...|||Never been dumped. Also if someone wanted to leave me I would know and end it with them first.|||I just act like me.  I never criticize and always focus on the good. And I openly flirt and decide which flirting style they respond most too. Then play cool and then BOOM!!!@#!@$ Surprise attack!...|||I have a fear of falling. I am scared because I have trust issues. Also I have a fear of being stupid. Mainly because my father drilled it in my head to not be stupid.|||I'll be your friend!!!! :) for real!!|||Bruce Lee or Freddie Mercury.  Just have a lot of why questions for them. Whenever I heard them speak in interviews I would always feel something of importance.|||doing good is just apart of who I am. For a long time I didn't get appreciation for what I did. Most people just didn't know I was doing it. I don't need appreciation to validate me doing good. Now I...|||Fall. Spring is my second. I just love the way it feels and all the changes. I like to travel during this time.|||I love to fight. As long as its for the right reasons. I  love to defend people. I fought when I was younger and beat up some bullies. Now that I'm older I don't get to do a lot of fighting with my...|||Depends on the lie. Little stuff doesn't bother me but lying about the relationship I have with you can really grind my gears.|||Writing has really helped me to contain all the thoughts and feelings I have racing in my head all the time. But on the acceptance of myself. I know that I am very accepting of myself and that I very...|||I use to get so upset with other people that for awhile I lost all my morals and lived in the moment. This was fun cuz I was able to turn my feelings off but when it came back I felt horrible and...|||I dated an ESFP for a couple of years and now we have an open long distance thing goin on.  The biggest challenge is communication. We both get caught up in our careers and with whats in front of...|||Yes I believe 100% because I allow myself too. Now I do not follow any set religion. But I like the ideas of no judging and helping one another. God doesn't want us to be happy he wants us to be...|||patience, meditation, exercise and acceptance. That's what I did.  I started practicing them daily.|||Right here, while some where else|||80305 Love to run!!!!|||I adapt. but I notice I'm quiet when people are enjoying themselves. But I become talkative if the conversation is going nowhere.|||You're around immature types it sounds like. Actually I shouldn't assume that observation. But I'm an INFJ and I am very forgiving to the point that people are amazed at how I can forgive. I know...|||responsiveness|||Thank you so much for typing this. It was very nice to read. I have similar thoughts as well. I process the same way it seems. Never thought I would be typing that lol. Well hope you have a great...|||I like to read non fiction and life hacker stuff. I love to learn while I read. So I would recommend Forbes magazine and National Geographic. I also love The Onion Book of Known Knowledge.|||Debussy as well and I'm a bear :)|||Right!!! It kills me how people don't realize everything we do is a choice and if you want something to work you just have to try. But most people just like to think they're trying. Hope you have a...|||I'm a business owner but I also have another job where I work in a Cafe'. I do sales and marketing as well as prepping. It's an amazing job. It's just like high school I see the same 500 people...|||The way we're able to understand each other. We tend to be smart which I find attractive and we can be a total mystery. :)|||I get an awesome playlist going. Daily motivation on the berry. Working out and sex work almost instantly.|||I would try to understand you!|||I don't get why anyone would want to be an INFJ. Or why some people think the type is glorified. If you read half the INFJ threads you can see it's not easy. It does feel like a curse a lot of the...|||Business/Marketing and molding people. I try and want to use my business to help give people a chance to be something more.|||We both explain more to each other. Instead of just saying what we think, we also explain why and how we feel about it. The great thing is now it really gives us a chance to understand easier without...'