'So, it actually happened..  604945|||Why, thank you :proud:  Though these are not my absolute favs, I posted them earlier in the thread.|||I havent's seen anyone mention these, though they were really good:  Drama: Anohana Tokyo Magnitude 8.0 Ookami Kodomo no Ame to Yuki  Comedy/Drama: Sakurasou no Pet na Kanojo Shirobako|||Actually I'm also learning the language :proud: It certainly isn't as hard as it seems, though I'm learning all by myself. I highly recommend starting with Kana Mind then using Human Japanese (both...|||I'm definitely an agnostic. As long as religion is all about giving faith to people who need it in order to enjoy their lives, it's fine by me. But I'm not sure the case is so simple most of the...|||I used to hate it too, but there's definitely nothing wrong about it and it's good that you've managed to come to terms with it.|||Well.. I never thought that my interest in depth is more important or in any way better than others' desires. We are different and I believe that their preferences are just as valid as mine.|||I prefer 1 on 1 conversations too. When I'm in a group other than my close friends, I'm hardly initiating any discussion. Maybe it's because I really don't like to stand out.|||Fancy meeting a fellow Hungarian - and an INFJ at that - here. (We are supposed to be rare, aren't we?) :cool: Uhm, I mean welcome! :proud:|||Ah, I see. Glad to hear it and thanks for clearing it up.     Well, I think there are circumstances for every type where they have it easier or harder than others.|||Well, I also don't make a habit out of simply going up to people and pointing out things I don't like, but if they inquire about my opinion on something, I always give them my honest thoughts on the...|||That's beautifully put, thanks :proud:    This too.  I was always drawn to that darkness (sorrow, melancholy, sadness etc.), but it's important to remain in control and don't fear it. Those who...|||I used to think that too. In the past, it certainly would've helped, but know that I'm more aware, I wouldn't want to be any other type. If I'd say that I've come to terms with being an INFJ, that...|||Yes! Every mistake you make, you have to treat it as experience (I simply call it XP, but I am a gamer :tongue2: ). You learn the most from your own mistakes, because it's painful and hard to deal...|||Glassland  Man.. So many things you wrote resonated with me.. Not being competitive, not being able to fit in, feeling I'm different and thinking that this is all because there's something wrong...|||It started off pretty good, but somehow I lost interest maybe halfway through the first season, and I never felt the desire to finish it.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Noz2Ja3o9zo  Edit: I've got more, but they are on the alternative (rock) side, not like the softer ones that were posted before me :listening_headphone  Edit 2:...|||This show is definitely my favourite (drama) series by far. I'm all for black humor and striking honesty, and this show combines both. My fav episode is still S01E03 (The Entire History of You)...|||Well, initially, I included metalcore and post-hardcore too, which are my favourite genres, but the poll is limited to 20 choices, so I had to cut down the options.|||Yes, and I believe that it's okay this way. I think it would make life easier for people if they just accepted this. At least based on my experiences. Since I started caring more about myself, I'm...|||I see, thanks for the heads up!|||I'd recommend Akame ga Kill! for survival, and for gore, Another and Corpse Party: Tortured Souls.  Though the last one might feel a bit rushed as it's a game adaptation in 4 episodes, but I played...|||Yeah, well, as the article puts it: genre, like onex92s personality type, is more a guide than a straightjacket, and wisdom is more readily found in the hidden nuances than in the broad strokes.  ...|||I mostly prefer drama and slice of life stuff, where the focus is on the characters.  My favourites: Kotonoha no Niwa (Most visually beautiful animation I've seen so far, with a pretty nice story)...|||I love it when it's overcast, just minutes before it starts to rain.|||Being the biggest music junkie I know, I was always interested in the relationship between the different personality types and the genres of music they prefer. I found an article trying to tackle...|||Catwalk  You're obviously more well-versed in this than I am, and I see that I've made some mistakes with this thread, thank you for pointing them out. I'll make sure to do better next time.|||Ahh, my sides.. :laughing:|||That would be my answer. In your example I wouldn't care how miserable I became as long as I knew that the other person will be happier without me. I'd just need to know that, and nothing else would...|||Very nicely put.     I agree completely. I find it sad and understandable at the same time, because I know how hard it is to be perfectly honest with yourself.|||Yes, you definitely do deserve that.    If you never ask, the answer is always no.    Well, I believe it takes courage to ask for help, because even if you don't fear rejection, it could be...|||It doesn't?    Cynical would be a bit harsh, but I get where you're coming from. I certainly think that people are motivated purely by self-interest but I'm not distrustful of human sincerity or...|||I'm also highly susceptible this way. If the roles were swapped, I personally wouldn't really care about receiving help. To be honest, I often find it hard to ask for it. I always felt more...|||So, in the end, you do get something out of it. At the least, you avoid feeling bad.|||This is awfully interesting. I honestly want to know why you're doing this. If all you get out of it is to cringe.. I mean.. What's driving you to do something cringey? It doesn't seem you like to...|||I've been there. It still occurs with me sometimes, because I'm really hell-bent on never letting anyone down. (Though I'm working on fixing this habit of mine..)    I meant all the possible...|||Soo, if I understand correctly, that acknowledgement that comes from you helping people must be so satisfying to you that you're even willing to go through the cringe. Or am I seriously off the mark?...|||My thoughts exactly. But I want to say that ultimately, I don't believe it to be a bad thing. One must learn to care for themselves before they can even attempt to care for others. I think that for...|||Yes, and in this case I think you help because you know that doing the act itself will feel good to you. Would you still help if you didn't know this?|||I have the utmost respect for the people you described. I would never question their vocation to help others. And to be honest, I don't think I'd care much if that company is corrupt, because nothing...|||I certainly will, thank you!|||I'm the same way. I don't measure what good will it do to me if I help someone, because it feels good to do so. But that's the thing I know. That it feels good. When I ask the question why do I help...|||Well, I'm really sorry to bore you :unsure:|||Precisely.  Well, in case of helping out friends for example, I'm not expecting anything else in return. I just do that because it makes me feel good. Like what you said in your last sentence. Of...|||I'm not trying to undermine people who put others before themselves (I am/was one of them), but..  If I really think about it, I don't think anyone can make such a choice that they don't believe...|||I literally don't leave home without my audio player, but I'm doing this too. Though sometimes I get so immersed in the music, I barely walk for minutes :tongue:|||Exactly. Only you can decide what's your purpose.  As for me, there's mainly two things.  Firstly, I like to gain experience and every single day I'm consciously putting in effort to better myself....|||Thanks for the recommendation, it looks it's right up my alley :joyous:  While I'm here, I'd recommend something too: Yahari Ore no Seishun Rabukome wa Machigatte Iru. Originally it's a light...|||I agree, maybe this is why I'm attracted to (heartbreaking) dramas.'