'my mom is xNFP, my dad is INTJ, and i am INFP. their types together are kind of funny to me, but they have similar interests and worldviews so it works pretty well. they still clash sometimes (often...|||well, depression, anxiety, and adhd will do it. so will some of the medication used to help treat it, but fortunately there's other medication that helps with that! ha. for most of my life I haven't...|||wow excuse you buddy, pretty sure that's not what T means. do your research. that is literally the grossest assumption people make about T and F preferences.|||I definitely see this having happened between me and INFJs, and also between other types and INFJs. I hold myself to the standard of things not being resolved unless the wrong is made right (through...|||as with a lot of J's: basically as a P, I get bothered with how J they can be. I want judgements to be more open-ended with room for adjustment, and my INFJ friends like to come to conclusions about...|||I haven't had many relationships (of any kind) with guys outside of my family. half my interactions/relationships with men have made me uncomfortable, and the other half just didn't last, with a...|||I made over 100% on an algebra test I was really unsure about, and I got to leave class early today!!!! I've been doing bad with college for the past couple of years but now I'm finally getting...|||music is the best for wallowing; but if I'm really distraught I'll journal, text my best friend (she does the same thing, so I don't ever feel bad about doing that), and very rarely I'll write little...|||I'm not any of those by nature but lately I've been having to push myself in that direction to keep myself motivated. mostly I really don't want to be miserable in life so I have to make a general...|||sometimes i go a little overboard with my feminist feelings, I'll say something and then later I want to kick myself in the face for it because it was too extreme. (also, I'm a middle-class white...|||oh my god this is the story of my life in the past few years. i actually did pretty well in high school, although i was diagnosed with ADHD about halfway through my junior year. I went on medication,...|||I've gotten better at it as I've gotten older. I'm usually able to roll with things, but if I really need something I will make myself heard. Sometimes I feel like maybe I am a little selfish about...|||I am usually more like the first, but when I am in my area of confidence (the visual arts) I am more like the second, having things to say and not being afraid to voice my opinion. I'm definitely not...|||Haha I gave up on the majority of pop music a while ago. Not my sound at all. I'll listen to the classic rock radio stations when I don't have a specific artist I want to listen to, but I've been...|||Wex92re the same. We share the same history, the same heritage, the same lives. Wex92re tied together beyond any untying. Man or woman, it makes no difference--wex92re human. We couldnx92t escape from each...|||My INTJ's are great at helping me make sense of things, whether it is by listening to me talk about my problems and then telling them back to me in a more logical way, or by asking me the right...|||OH  MY  GOD  I love bugs, I really do, they are super cool and can do lots of neat things and I love caterpillars with their bunches of short stubby suction cup feet, they tickle and are soft...|||I'm sure I don't know, but I'm also sure I'm going to keep trying. I love stories. They make my life better, and they stay with me, become a part of me. I want to give back and create. I have always...|||Lazy and slow and just nice :) I usually get to spend more time with my family, since nobody's at school or work.  Alternately, during the schoolyear, my Sunday depends on where I am. If I'm at...|||omfg yes I loved that movie because Hook looked like Barry described him in the book and he was SO attractive!!! Eyes the blue of forget-me-nots... usually Hook is made to appear undesireable but...|||AAAAAAAH YES!!!!! YES GO YOU!!! It seems true that society is kind of set against us, and it is different for male and female INFP's. I think it is hard for us both, except that this type is more...|||I mean, I can understand the parts about not answering her phone/pretending it had died (I do that sometimes... heh) or not wanting to tell anyone she was leaving (sometimes this stuff just doesn't...|||I don't understand why it's bad for your bra or panties to be showing if you can wear bikinis to the beach and the pool. I know it's situational, but I still don't get why it's a big deal, because...|||Just Like Heaven by The Cure|||The only time I've been drunk so far, I was looking at a food porn blog (read: really incredibly delicious-looking food blog) with a friend and I kept saying how I wanted to have sex with that food.|||So, I have always been fascinated with the idea of keeping a journal, but usually I wind up more fascinated with the appearance of the journal than with the content I put into it. When I was younger,...|||Pretty much. This kind of thing happens to me ALL THE TIME, but moreso when I'm stressed or running low on sleep. Great thing about it is, I derive much amusement from these instances. I literally...|||OH MY GOD I'm not sure if I've ever been well acquainted with an ENTP, but you guys sound so cool. I mean, I love INTP's, and I'd like to date some Extraverts. Hopefully she will like you a lot too....|||I just ignore them. Afterwards I feel horrible about it, but if I really don't want to be around them, sometimes I just get this really cold attitude about them and it steels me toward them enough to...|||I hate baby creatures! You are worthless. You are incapable of changing. Color (and, by extension, anything Lisa Frank) sucks. Libraries are horrible and they should all be closed down....|||Sir or Madam, I don't mind ;) You are most welcome.|||Another thought- while I don't want to be protected, I wouldn't mind being defended. If someone protected me, it sounds like they assume I couldn't handle it at all, but if someone defended me it...|||you and me both!|||Yes! Very open to interpretation. Not that this is taken advantage of very often :P|||Haha I am exactly like all of this. I've come to enjoy being an observer too, but there's still those times when it just feels awkward :P It's so funny when you leave things like that and all of a...|||I have sometimes wished I was INTP too, they are pretty cool. I have heard this called T-ness envy, and you should definitely say that out loud, because that makes it even better XD   I'm sorry...|||Can I just say, I love the title of this thread!!! Friends everywhere! Yaaaaaaaay! Hello new INFP babies!|||Oh god. Sometimes I get a creeping feeling but I usually try to dismiss it because it is just a feeling with little evidence and it has been wrong before. Romantic/flirting stuff seems so very gray,...|||At college or at home, the places I will go when I don't want to be at home or in my room are pretty much the same: friend's place, library, coffee shop, park/pretty-outdoors-place. At college,...|||I can tend to use more words than I probably need to, just to describe exactly what I mean :) Especially online, since I have more time (+ thesaurus) to think up the right words.|||Heheeee my problem has been, I get addicted to certain sites. I went from deviantArt to tumblr, and I've been stuck on that one for a while- it's a thing where I constantly feel a need to see if...|||I would rather not have people protect me, in general. I want to know the truth, and deal with it in my own way. Plus, and this might partially be me feeling like I have something to prove, it could...|||Worst movie I ever saw was the film adaptation of Eragon. I had to start laughing halfway through, it was so terrible. Take every fantasy fiction stereotype and mash it all into one movie, and you've...|||It's funny- I don't feel very confident with most people, but I always try to maintain eye contact when talking to someone. I think I got the impression at an early age that keeping eye contact was a...|||For me, that has a lot of movement in it- and seeing it in person is so different, because the one I saw was HUGE and there's all the textures in it...  There is not much visual art I don't get....|||I love to sing, always have :) When songs come on and I know them, I almost automatically start singing along. I just iwsh more songs were closer to my vocal range :P|||I totally do this sometimes, but I don't feel like it means I've turned into an ENFP temporarily. Not to say it's not what's happening with you all, but it seems like rather a jump for me.|||Can we just talk about what we love about Neil Gaiman? I think he is maybe an INTP but I personally love INTPs and I think he has done so many things that are just magical. I also really wanted to...|||37510  no party nope no no|||Well clearly the INTJs are hiding from the ENFPs, because everybody knows ENFPs are crazy hug monsters who ooze feelings from their very pores!   maybe not really but I like to imagine this is half...'