'perfect sense, I know what you mean about it pissing you off, me and the guy that I was talking about broke up about four months ago, and I am still pretty attracted to him. and nothing he says...|||He does in fact open up a lot now, we've been dating for about three months and there was a lot of things that lead us to our relationship, between the death of his father and my  family issues which...|||I am scared to have children, but however.  my boyfriend and I have dicussed it, and I will have no more then two  so...one better be a boy, and one better be a girl :D|||I used to be a manipulative bitch, I'm glad that that has pretty much passed, I just pray that it doesn't come back. Because I never did it on purpose.. :( but I was quite the player during all that,...|||Yikes! I am embarrassed to be the same type as her :(|||the other night we had another really long talk and he is bottling everything thing up and beating himself up over it.  it's really hard to just sit and watch him tourture himself.|||we are completely confortable with eachother, we can talk about anything, and we can talk about nothing.    it's hard to explain, it isn't very often like I feel like I can tell someone...|||when we first started dating we just sat and asked eachother questions.  and he shared a lot about his dad with me this past weekend, I feel like that could be an opening, he shared a lot of his...|||I seriously think that infatuation and deep meaningful love is possible at the same time, and quickly...I found a way that it is possible somehow...Most relationships at the start are cuddling and...|||That's good to know because you think I would've learned to back off in relationships when I asked the INTP I dated to many questions. and it will bother me but I do want what's best for him, I will...|||Do they bottle them up always until they have a break down or does it very from guy to guy? Because I really want to help my boyfriend in someway, his father died about a year and a half ago and his...|||woot!  days like today I wear like, layers and bright colors, a yellow tanktop, a black one too, a bright blue shirt and bright pink eyeshadow  I mood dress I guess     HAHAHA|||it was, and I'm pretty sure that is exactly what it was  that and his lack of emotion to everything  the only time I knew he cared was when we cuddled after sex. and well, frankly it was sex,...|||Awwwww, You're sweet :)  thank you, I'm not really feeling the best and that made me smile.|||Sadly, and Fortunately   this is no longer an issue, we broke up a couple of months ago.   Guess I was holding him back, I am willing to bet that was part of it.|||Most times, I hate silence, like hate.   most times you'll see me with my ipod in and I can't even sleep in silence, I have to have white noise  a fan most times the only time I am okay with it...|||basicly, I wear the same thing black and white is normaly the way that I go, I have three pairs of shoes, one pair of off converse and two pairs of heels which, I also don't wear unless I have to, I...|||I was wondering if he just stopped thinking, and let himself just be. or if I was awesome xD  and he did in fact tell me that he loves me over the weekend    so I shouldn't be nervous about...|||I've noticed that the ESTP that I am dating has fallen pretty fast too :)  so maybe there is hope?|||Yeahhhhh.  this is a huge issue for me, I tend to fall hard and fast in the first couple weeks. it pisses me off because I know that there is a diffrence between love and infatuation. But I can't...|||it's so fun to tease, because if you move to fast and there is no suspence, then it isn't as fun xD  going crazy is nice from time to time too :)|||anyways, I feel utterly confortable around my ESTP he is fun to be around.  so you might want to talk to this girl further, ask her what is a matter with being your friend even know it might not...|||Well that isn't really true I think he just missunderstood (but honestly as I was reading it and got to the point where he found out she was an ENFP I wasn't surpised at all) Both my sister and I are...|||Shoot! I forgot The Princess Bride too fail!  that movie is amazingggg :)|||I am trying really hard to type my boyfriend; we've been dating for about a week and I am postive that he is an ExTP but I am having serious issues on if he is an I or a S what type of things should...|||1. Donnie Darko, I am IN LOVE with this movie, I enjoy movies that have twists and turns and you have to pay deep attention to what is going on  2.The Butterfly Effect, again, same reason the...|||I have often been told that I annoy people, but caffine tends to give me an electric shock and my silly swich won't turn off xD this is is when I am told I am annoying the most.  often ENFP's are...|||hahaha, Amen.|||hehe, I am really glad that I am not the only one who does that.  that makes me question rather I really do have a borderline I because I really don't care to be around people most times. I took a...|||haha, indeed it would.|||I think that my issue is that I get bored to easily, something else comes along and I turn around and lose people that I care about that way, again, a huge part is emotional control which I,...|||oh how I wish I loved freedom.  maybe it's just me, but I am a clingy person, I wish I wasn't but annoyingly enough, I can't really help it.  so infatuation overcomes me, and I thought that...|||the question is, that I don't know if I honestly have. I am unsure that it is possible|||I've found myself questioning if it's possible for ENFP's to really Love anyone.   I have truely Loved three people in my life,  an INTP, an INFP, and an ISFP.  But in some way shape or...|||I love kissing, I could do it all the time without never doing anything else.   but basicly, if you're in high school having sex screws your entire relationship (no pun intended)|||From a girls point of view, Horray for sensitivity! there are not a ton of guys in my life who have been the right ammount of sensitve. I either get pricks who are unsensitve, or whiney bitches...|||I am newly single, and am unsure as to if I am looking|||Meee too. I would've slept with so many people by now xD|||Ahhh! yes.  exactly, I mean, I said this out loud, in the middle of my class room that is EXACTLY how it is I need verbal affirmation too ugh, I hate playing a guessing game, I mean, the physical...|||It's about a guy who trains little butthead dogs xD|||Exactly! those are my exact fears. I tottaly understand what you mean|||I know forsure that I won't have kids pretty much at this point...  my mom found a blog about when I was fifteen,  I was NOT having kids then, sooo I'm pretty sure that isn't gonna happen xD but...|||I see the issue here, me and my INTP have broken up three times, and he always falls back for me and I don't know why. and I can't help but wonder how sex effects INTP's emotionaly...like, at first...|||*rubs temples*   It's just frusterating, I really care about him, the fact that I haven't seen him for a couple of days (he's sick) is driving me crazy.  I really care about him, but I can't...|||Sadly I do not want children, I never have, but it becomes more and more clear to me, that if I don't want to slow down no kids for me, but I am all but tottaly gay at this point, and if the woman...|||I'm starting to like...not care, I am tired of Bs here.  he doesn't often try to take a second to just stop thinking so damn much :dry: I know that he is a thinker for a reason, but ugh. I just...|||geeezzzeeee  how is your computer still working?  I have to be extreamly bored in order for this to happen, because my computer sucks for one, and for two, I get really REALLY annoyed when I...|||Update: we broke up for a small ammount of time though christmas, and got back togeather, he told his mom last night and today he looks extreamly depressed (I've never saw him like this before) and...|||The thing that bothers me about all of this, is that she wanted me to date him while she had a boyfriend, but as soon as she was single (give it about, three days after him and I started dating...|||Well, I left him...  she back with an old boyfriend two days later.  how pointless was that...:('