I've been here before, asking this but heck, at least I've narrowed it down to two options this time!  I really do think I must be one of these.  Does anyone have a couple of questions to ask me that...|||...  others want to do something as a surprise for you, the best bet is to do it right in front of your face ...  you feel opinionated and assertive in your own head, but come across as sweet and...|||I identify with INFP in theory, but in practice, when I meet other INFP's, they are so quiet that I can't believe I am one.  I am quite warm and social and friendly, you see.  I am also intense and...|||Well, I don't know if my post will help much as I am unsure if I am and Fi or Fe user, but I have had very clear reactions to death and they are nothing to do with how other people are reacting but...|||Gosh, thanks for all those comments :)   So it seems INFP's have an easier time 'telling' ... would that be right, in general?  I struggle between ENFP or ENFJ or INFJ or even sometimes I...|||Hi there, it seems to me that NF's have the MOST trouble deciding once and for all which frigging type they are!    Why is that?  And is there anyone out there who thinks they can describe each of...|||Yup, me too - ENFP but with high use of Te and rejection of Fi - aargh!   This makes a lot of sense, simulated world, thanks. Esp. the disorders part - we all know, when we read disorders, which...|||Just have to say - you guys are SO COOL!!  I love you.|||I loved History, just so interesting and the teacher was hilarious, had some good discussions too.  I liked Chemistry, fascinating.  And English was great once we started doing poetry and...|||Hello eveni :)    You are looking to see whether your lead function - as an introvert that means the stuff going on in your head all the time - is logical deduction (Ti), or a more holistic/people...|||I love you God!  You are definitely an ENTP.  I am married to one and you are practically twins - that word play with the penis, p'ness, sick pigs thing just gave it away :)  In my experience...|||Well that would be nice and simple wouldn't it.  Trouble is, I don't get angry much and if I do, it is usually at myself, or just generally because I am feeling irritable and not at any one person in...|||Well I am definitely an introvert then.  Do you actually KNOW any people who would go down the street and start greeting random strangers though?  Have read some more infj stuff and am beginning to...|||Of course!  Another genius ... how can I thank you! :wink:  (was it the peanut butter that gave it away?)|||I think I might be an INFJ and I relate to a lot of your comments.  I have been called a realist by the most perceptive people I know, the others call me an optimist but that's because I will usually...|||These are surely the best questions yet, you are a genius ... Yes, I eat peanut butter, I have 5 kids, I can only think of celeb's I DON'T like, and your name would have to be Rumplestiltskin, right?|||Yes, well maybe I am talking about situations with relatives and people others introduce to me and who seem to like me ... Im just not a SHY to talk person.  I will open up about myself quite readily...|||well that's nice, thank you .. even after I said that when people get hurt, I get irritated???    So what 'type' do you think I am if not enfj?  I do think I am friendly and outgoing and...|||Thanks for all you said hasenj :)  I am a very friendly introvert I think, which means I get quite excited and talkative when with people, but will stick to one person in depth (if they seem to be...|||I have my family, beyond that, people I love from all over the globe (but don't see much).  And, everyday, just my family - grown up daughters and son plus husband - and one or two others that I fell...|||No, I don't think so.  I would try to explain my beliefs|||Well I do feel affectionately towards the people that serve me at the garage/grocery store etc. but don't exactly make friends with them, just smile and chat a little and feel connected, you know?...|||I would put others first, the tricky bit is more when there are multiple others and you have to choose who out of each of THEM to put first!  Me, I can wait/fit in etc.  When I mess up and cause...|||Thanks Jojo, I have read that thread and some fits but not all.  I do like people and am sensitive to people liking me I do despise conflict, but I like debate (when there is other people on my...|||When I am angry it is usually because I feel angry.  It is a fault of mine that I don't have strong reaction to other people's hurt, I tend to be quite detached from that in a wierd way.  Sometimes...|||I am good in social situations, feel quite comfortable though will usually start out talking to the person I know and move from there depending on who seems to warm to me.  If there is a mess, I...|||Hello confident and insightful ENFJ'S - can you tell who is one of your own?  Am I?  People on this site have typed me as INFP but I am not so sure and think I may be ENFJ ... would REALLY APPRECIATE...|||I definitely do this - it's really annoying!  I think it's because we assume everyone is trying to figure us out the way we instinctively figure other people out so we want them to be clear and to...|||I like the word 'plum'  - it just sounds nice!|||[QUOTE=Ineffable;673777]This has been posted on a few other type's forums, but I didn't see it in the INFP's forum. Sorry if it's a repeat.  What is your primary Love Language, as an INFP? ...|||No, no, please don't!|||Hello :)  I am a 41 year old INFP who got it right first time, I think ... so far!!  Though I wont take any credit for it, and it hasn't been an easy road!  I never sat and thought about what I...|||I didn't mention that part of the patterns I see in life and creation would be very much taking into account history, those who have gone before, the wisdom of the ancients!, good and useful...|||Let me help you with this.     I find that it is wisest in general when helping people discover sometimes uncomfortable truths about themselves to state what you think as questions or suggestions –...|||Okay, for anyone who has followed this and is interested in how I came to a conclusion finally (as finally as any NP can anyway) – I offer this.  It was because of the way I dress.  I just couldn’t...|||But did the video help/confirm with typing me?  I have to say I am still not sure (even though I DO understand it's only a GENERAL thing).  I am beginning to realise how annoying my confusion is for...|||Great!  I had to resist the temptation to take it again in a better light but I think the more I did it, the more unnatural it would get so ... :)|||thanks for this, have more to say later but gotta dash .. burnt the porridge already!|||Well craziness is a little relative isn't it?  I seem crazy to some, yet not to others. Also I get stimulated to craziness in the presence of certain others! But generally, I am a little more serious...|||This is now really confusing.  Am I an Fe or an Fi user???  I  So here is my video - it is shite, too dark and I didnt' know what to say but maybe it will help???  I am more confident than this in...|||Good question. I guess F people get hurt when you ''see' them wrong - we want you to see us, know us, trust our essential goodness etc. yet of course, we are as flawed and selfish and blinkered as...|||PLUS I am the oldest child of TJ parents so have probably taken on many of their values.|||Gosh, okay.  That kind of hurt -  you sound irritated with me?. Your reasoning is wrong though.  To let you in on what TRULY goes on in an nfp's mind (since you are so convinced I am ) - we WANT to...|||I suppose I think it means to sit and figure things out a lot - to analyse as objectively as you can and, combined with Ne, from multiple perspectives .. now i say it, I don't think that's right...|||Vocalist:  Yes, I will try that - thanks :)  ... okay did that.  Not infj.  I''m too waffly, would love the precise one liner but just can't do it! They seem very self contained, self controlled - I...|||Thanks Robopop - I have looked at the interaction style thing but don't know what the big 5 is - do tell! Interaction style wise there is, again, no clear and obvious one with me.  These days I do...|||''One line it''? What's that? :wink: No, I can't decide and never will probably aaargh but I HAVE decided not to drive everyone else crazy with it any longer ... the last thing I will do is  post up...|||Thanks pro-at-filing - very sensible and, well, pretty much puts the matter to bed .. when I put the vid up, will prob be next week now, then hopefully that will be it!! Yay!  Big thanks all :happy:|||Thanks Vocalist, that was really helpful :)  I don't think I am an  Fe type, based on what you've said.  I don't, never have, 'attached myself'' to people like that - Iam actually more detached...|||So ask me some questions Robopop ... what information do you NEED to discover my preferences????