'Hey Queen, welcome back!|||Yes to this!! My INTJ coworker is my favorite for those same reasons. Also, my old ESTP roommate and I would have killed each other if not for the INTJ next door. :tongue:|||I appreciate it. =) Best of luck with your findings.|||Actually, I've never been able to pick one over the other, that's why I took the test in the first place. So now what? Can't I be both?|||I took the inventory quiz and I scored combo of Visual and Auditory. (6 on Visual, 6 on Auditory, 4 on Kinesthetic) There's not a poll option for ties...|||No, it's just that we did this already. =)|||You guys should really check out the INTJ and ENTJ comments. Hilarious.|||I would like to chose them all, alas. (Are these exclusive choices?)   If it has to be three, I choose Federalists+Liberalists+Academists. Government for order and maintenance, Rights for...|||I cannot agree more. I've only cut two people from my life, and they were cut because I cared too much and got burned. I cut to protect myself from further hurt. If I honestly don't care about...|||I'm disgusted that you made an experiment with someone's feelings and life. You say you care about her, yet you willingly manipulate her emotional state.|||Clarification purposes. =) If you don't mind saying, what did she do or say?|||Tell me, are you difficult to frighten or intimidate?|||Learned, huh? She was the first introvert I lived with, so it took some time for me to figure out how to read her. In the beginning, I think I steamrolled her with a lot of my decisions because she...|||I shared a dorm and an apartment with an INFP for two years. We had our differences, but I think we got along well. We never fought and are still good friends to this day.  Are there any particular...|||No, it's very Insecure.|||Excuse me, I never once called you a mess. I wrote What a mess. What, not Who. As in, What a messy thread. No need for you to so quickly victimize yourself.   That's fine. However, please...|||Haha, we are working and that's the problem.|||First off, I got to Page 9 and this jumped out at me:  I nearly quit right there. I'm serious. I got JuliaRhys's summon and I entered this with the intention of helping. I spent nine pages...|||No one's perfect, but it sounds like he's treating you well.    You're getting tired of how he naturally acts? If he never changes, will you still be satisfied with him as a husband?   It...|||First off: I second WickedQueen. I was reading the letter and thinking, fine, fine, fine, fine. I got to the last two lines and it turned into, Hold Up. What? No.    I don't care if he's...|||All my cars have been charcoal colored. It's shiny.|||How could this possibly be a bad sign?|||My advice for your situation: If you're a student, your teacher is your client. Give your teacher what she wants, not what you want to give.  You already said you know the best way to score well...|||Too late, he might be on her list already. He's certainly on mine for his idiotic comments in this thread.  Edit: Oh, this badly needs clarification. I'm not referring to MNiS. (Sorry, nothing...|||Are you asking because you want one and need a recommendation? You're in the wrong forum, honey.|||I only share close, personal connections with a small group of people, and among them there's only a handful who's words can cut me to the core. In the past, they've all been statements about my...|||Hm, I wonder if bookstores in Taiwan or Mainland China will have it. I fly there often enough, I'll keep an eye out. =)|||Ah, I liked 47 Ronin too! :D The Naked Traveler sounds interesting, I'll definitely check out the other books.|||For a strong Ni user? The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry. It's a classic, and I haven't met anyone who didn't like it.   I'd recommend the other books to ESTJs:  Life of Pi challenged...|||That's how I as an individual think.|||Did I ever say ignore? My exact words were go out of my way to be concerned and fawn over them. I wouldn't change my normal behavior: there's different levels of familiarity depending on each...|||Because you can't help it isn't an acceptable answer.   If I go out of my way to be concerned and fawn over them in the same way, I'll feel like we're displaying equal amounts of affection. I...|||Guilty because the relationship is unbalanced, and it's unbalanced on our end.|||Here's a few:   You're an Animal, Viscovitz! by Alessandro Boffa It was then that I lost my last certainties. And it is there that I finally found myself. But I didn't recognize me.  The Life...|||I'll laugh at jokes I think are funny. I'll laugh at things I find ironic. I'll laugh at outrageous behavior. I'll laugh at a good comeback.  I'm disgusted by physical humor.  We're not clones...|||ESTJs and the humor you enjoy?|||I'm quite aware, as my father is an ENTP. Practical jokes aside, you'd be surprised how alike our sense of humor is.|||It's still his stuff though. He probably respects you enough by not messing with your things and expected reciprocity. There is room for fun, but there's a time and place for it.|||The anger is not from what you took, but that you intruded in his privacy, took something of his and hid it. (and had the gall to laugh about it)|||Why were you dicking around in his personal stuff?|||She should choose the most well-adjusted, mentally stable one.  I don't know the situation, so I'm hesitant to be for or against the ESTJ. Do they have similar hobbies? Backgrounds? Ideals? Ethics?|||Absolutely. I'd want to know exactly how much time I have left. I think I'd roll with it. I'd make sure all the paperwork is in order and talk to everyone I care about. I'd quit my job, maybe travel...|||My best friend did. He had a blast playing intramural baseball and basketball. Sometimes they'd all go out together and get food after.   I don't really do team sports. I golf, jog and do...|||Kayness, you missed my point.  All I'm saying is that your proposed solution is not 100% guaranteed to work. Do I agree with him? Hell no. I love cooking, but if you tell me to get back in the...|||Unless he notices this sudden passive-aggressive behavior change. Good luck with the aftermath, because you will surely need it.  Don't forget he's got other options, like sending her to cooking...|||I'm not an ISFJ, but I often pulled some out to play. Does that count?  Finding friends Do: sit next to people you think seem interesting (and talk to the ones who sit next to you!) Do: join...|||Yes, I did remember. I'm glad you found it helpful! :D  With friends, I equate silence with being distant. If he does speak Quality Time, it'd be nice to send a few texts every now and then to let...|||My love languages are Quality Time and (strangely enough) Touch.   I'm big on one-on-one interactions because if done right, it's undivided attention. I love giving it, and I love getting it. If I...|||He is a product of his environment. My ENTP father was raised in a time when this was the norm. We are still having discussions (arguments) over why I am so resistant to becoming more gentle and...|||Honey, criticism for revealing clothing at work is not considered ridiculous. You were being unprofessional.  Here's my reasoning for liking/respecting people with fixed beliefs: They're...'