'I have to second this. Many people cannot be pleased. You always do everything perfect, and somehow they get pissed off because life is boring/drama is not. When you search for flaw, there it lies......|||Thank you. Ultimately, I've always been very intimate when it comes to advice for those few who are close. It's important for everyone, of every type, to support those they care about. I do think Ni...|||I got executive. Traits: reflective, subjective, prepared, and skeptical.|||It is true. For the most part, I don't care about people. I tend to size people up from afar, and too many people simply don't fulfill the standards to become a part of my life. So I aim to please to...|||My favorite INTJ characters are Erik from The Phantom of the Opera, Bruce Wayne from the Dark Knight Trilogy, and Kate Beckett from Castle.|||I get imaginative very quickly--- a lot of beautiful scenes tend to be completely imaginary to me. Things I want to experience, rather then have experienced.  Right now, when I think of the most...|||Yes. My parents are both Si users. My dad is an ESTJ, and my mother is an ISFJ. They were both very clear how they wanted my future to look like, and how I ought to act according to tradition....|||My wife and I have hot spots. Often, we spend the day inside watching TV and movies, preparing meals together, and playing games. When the weather is nice, we go onto our backyard deck to have some...|||I feel as if I am always out of touch with the physical present. But I also find experiencing the physical present head on, without my Ni filtering is depressing as hell.|||No one knows what surpasses death. It is better to take a life that you can sculpt into something better than to dive into territory that you may not be able to sculpt again... That's my personal...|||Yes, I would peg him for an ESFJ as well. You speak very fondly of him, which is nice. Good for you.|||I haven't watched the movie, but I have played the game. Judging only by the game, the protagonist is not at all an INTJ. I can see people mistaking him as such because he is stoic, and that seems to...|||I'm not entirely sure making decisions in games lives up to making decisions in person, because the people you are interacting with aren't real so it takes away the morality of the entire situation....|||I don't know. Does anyone ever just sit and think in plain words? It seems like too many people don't even know how to construct a proper sentence to think in words. I always thought imagination...|||My wife a punching bag? Oh, no. No, she is not. She's very strong-willed. A feisty one at that.|||I've only watched the movie once, back when it was in theaters. But from what I can recall, I think INTP would be the most fair typing for Alan.|||Please, don't be so kind. You can have him. I find no pleasure in even considering that I share a personality type with this character that has endangered the lives of everyone he has ever cared...|||Be herself, or commit to a lifetime of lies. Can you imagine waking up every morning besides a guy, only to maintain the mask you put on to impress him from day one? Unless you can put on a false...|||Did you ask him on a date? If you did, and he blew you off stop trying. If not, ask him on a date. If you do and he blows you off, he is not interested.|||I have constantly been in flux between INFJ and INTJ, but always come back to INTJ because of my clear use of Fi. While it is clear that I am an INTJ, I have to consider that my strong Fi utilization...|||Honestly, every ISFJ is different so I can't tell if this applies to you. But when my ISFJ wife is worried, I believe that if I were to go over every detail with her about whatever transpired/things...|||Honestly, in an academic or career environment, being surrounded by idiots is the most ideal because it gives you the capability of pushing ahead. Being surrounded by idiots always entails that there...|||Honestly, a student is a student, independent of personality type. A high school student could find the subjects he/she studies irrelevant to their life (depending on the teacher's style of teaching...|||I am an INTJ and I had a pattern. I silently admired a person across the room, analyzed them to see how they interacted with their environment to get a good idea of what kind of person they were,...|||I am going into a school administrative position this upcoming Fall. I just got married. I consider myself a very well developed, and healthy INTJ. Saying that, I am still very out of touch with my...|||Hell, no.  It is scientifically proven that INTJs can murder without a hint of remorse, too. Since they can't experience feelings. Very interesting study. Very very real study.|||Ellen Ripley and Clarice, I agree with thus far on this thread.  But, honestly, why is gender so prevalent? Personality is personality, and everyone in retrospect of the same personality have...|||Not really entirely convinced if this is an intuitive thing. I can't imagine someone thinking in words all day long, because that seems tiring. Also, wouldn't a lot more people be proficient writers...|||I am not in touch with Fe, because I do not use it.  In any case, Fe can be easily confused with Fi. For the most part, if you put a personality test in front of me I will get INFJ because I can...|||I do not use Facebook, but when you have a career you need to branch out through social media. I have 50 friends. All coworkers, family, and my wife.|||First, I think it is important to note that psychics do not exist. Therefore, clearly I am not a psychic. But when I meet people, I pick up a lot of visible cues from them to get a clear enough...|||Do you mean how to control the unhealthy use of Se? If so, I must admit that when I am at my worst Se always bites me in the ass. Since I tend to deal with my problems internally, I have overindulged...|||For some that are ruling out that she is an ISFJ simply because she's a poor representation, don't. Sounds like an unhealthy one who over analyzes situations compulsively due to a lack of confidence...|||You approach them and have a conversation?  I don't get it. You shouldn't change yourself to impress anyone. Just take it from where I suggested. There shouldn't be rules in developing long-lasting...|||I wasn't exactly a social butterfly in high school. I had one friend I was very loyal to, and when he decided to abandon me for a bigger group, I was alone because no one else really fit the bill for...|||It is indeed a majestic creature to behold.|||You have been quoted on that.    I am not going to sell the Honda Civic right away, because the luxury car is a surprise. But I am certain I will easily convince her to sell the old thing. She...|||Now that we are engaged, I want to surprise my ISFJ with a new car to replace her old 2001 Honda Civic. I've been looking for the perfect car for her all day and am between 3. I am looking for...|||I notice many times my ISFJ tries to emulate my behavior. We have been seeing each other for almost 7 years so obviously we talked about it, and she says she wants to act in a way that I would be...|||I was a very unsocial teenager. I never had more than one friend at a time, and we rarely hung out. I didn't keep many friends, because I thought there was little point due to the goals I did set. I...|||ESTP, ISTP, INFJ, and am about to marry an ISFJ.  Obviously, the ISFJ was my best experience. I was always most attracted to INFJs and ISFJs, however. Those with Fe as a second function.|||I know. I can be a highly amusing individual.    Don't fall into the mistake of generalization. The woman I am about to marry most certainly had to be on a fix up mission at a certain point in...|||They better be paying them enough to live happily ever after on their own personal island, because I do not understand the incentive of this at all.|||If she is cheating on her boyfriend with you, but is unable to leave her boyfriend then she doesn't feel as strongly and intensely about you as she says she does. She is simply eating up all the...|||Ok, so I shouldn't have to tell you that she can't be talking to her ex at all before it is the appropriate move? I may sound a bit controlling by saying this, but when we were still dating I...|||How serious is this boyfriend of hers? It really doesn't sound serious at all. But her writing love messages about her ex on Facebook does. I wouldn't move in right away, because obviously she is...|||I don't understand what you mean by this person being perfect for you. If you need to force yourself to be attracted to him, clearly that is an imperfect situation and thus he cannot possibly be...|||Corgis. Just corgis. I will get one next year, when I am married.|||I am generally extremely protective of the people I care about if they are being talked down to in front of me. I will advocated for them, without hesitation.  As for my sister, she has made many...|||Professionally? No. But if I am invited to a wedding, I don't tell my fiancée to go up alone either. There is no INTJ barrier that prevents me from dancing.'