'you know what you can do...  Show him a more accurate perspective. Tell him you think he's very loyal and wants to be in a good relationship, but he has been burned a few times. Don't tell him that...|||it sounds to me that he's an interior helpless romantic and going through some phase of denial.|||i love em. My cousin is one. She's freakin hilarious. I'm a big fan of their senses of humor for the most part.  I haven't run into many, and I'd like to run into more.  Most of the ENTP's i've...|||hopasha you have presented 2 views. In reason they are a contradiction. When feeling, it totally makes sense. I think that your fears are guiding you. You need to recognize them and let them go....|||well hello there pretty lady.    ;)|||lets get to the heart of this matter.   What are your fears about this relationship? and why do you think that you feel them?  what exactly do you think you feel about it all? whats the big...|||The position whether we think he is right or not about his own idea, is a funny place to be. Its like saying how God is unethical, when he may be the originator of ethics. Did I misperceive ethics...|||wot m8?|||Personally we need to think more local than more global. The higher up we get into global politics the more distant and less interested a politician gets for the people. Imo   Most federal policies...|||what if the INTJ read romantic novels and went out of his way to understand that your heart bleed for a bigger picture. And he had a heart of gold, and the midas touch. lol  can you sense my...|||Closure is necessary. If the person cheats, I crush her.   but seriously that's usually closure enough.  depending on the situation if it leaves me hurt, time helps. Whenever I've opened up to...|||riddler is more INTP IMO|||most of the interactions I've had with INFP's have been sarcastic. Like theres always been an underlying humor going on. Whenever I've had a conversation become more serious, the INFP has always been...|||mine is davidr232 or mr. rozay  HOLLA!|||sounds to me like you don't rule it out. Considering you were able to communicate well with the INTJ.    now you just need to find one that shares the same values as you huh.|||it sounds like you guys like each other. You just want more reaffirmation.   So...   I don't know how to help you.   I'm happy for you though... hopefully that helps.    lol|||love INTP's   ladies! HOLLA!|||I went and saw a doctor for that shit   its a hard knock life, but depression has physiological effects as well. Its good to get treated.|||Ni is more about perspective shifting and the flow of time.|||HI!  I'd like to hear more about your relationship with your husband. Whats that like? I myself fancy an ESFP lately so I'd love to hear your perspectives. :)  Welcome.|||Cool peeps. I'd scoop me up an ENTP girl myself if things were right.   My most common experience with them is a roudy sense of humor which I love. Since we both work in health the humor gets black...|||I remember when I was in school my mentality was always get in and get out. I was very good at school bUT it didn't rule me.   I also was never one to network for the sake of climbing the ladder....|||Sometimes we gotta look in the mirror I guess.|||Loyal, dependable, hard working, never give up. I like the detail oriented part. At times they can be more understanding of people then myself, but those are a rare breed of istj.   Things that...|||lerve ENTP ^^^  I have a feeling my boss is INTJ. She intimidates me and I feel like she stares through my soul. She is also much older than myself. I very strongly respect her and get an...|||Disturbia Man I always wonder how these posts turn out. I applaud the people assertive enough to post em but Damn. Even from my perspective if I was interested how the hell does one close?  Then...|||You'll have to excuse me I didnt notice this reply. Sorry.   Aside from that shit, what you've said on not taking a solid stance being a Marxist or capitalist is a similar view I hold. What I find...|||ISTJ: the guy us loyal to the death. He pushes me to try new things all the time: cycling, crew row boating, just random shit but it's always something physical. He keeps me in shape and has a...|||cercatrice it seems I didn't pick up on much of the big picture with your OP. I see now, that it seems the situation is that you are currently married. Prior to marriage he made this extravagant...|||I see. I didn't pick up on that.   Well as I look back at my posts I see a hypocrisy in myself in that I did exactly what I was against. Projection is what they call it I guess. And you are right...|||I forgot to quote yup my bad.   This is the lovely pattern amongst INTJs, we make claims that sound like they make sense but when we delve deeper it doesn't.|||He disagreed for the sake of disagreement. His argument to counter what I said makes no sense.|||Damn you even generalized to all INTJ's POV.   What I mean by evidence is a clear example that matches up with reality, vs it being an assumption you've made.     Im pretty comfortably INTJ,...|||Honestly I can only empathize and say ouch, what a shitty situation. Love is one of those things where in it everyone assumes they always win, but nope we can still lose.   I get the feeling not...|||There are many assumptions you've made I'd like to explore with you, if you don't mind.   What do you mean by experience itself not making people smarter, can you give me a good clear example in...|||So what if it's annoying. Emotions get invested still, which can create a bigger attachment.   I personally love a pursuit as well. Persistence can be fun if it's with the right person.|||Why not work harder and smarter? Experience makes people smarter worker eventually. The work ethic is an admirable quality.|||Ni when you work night shifts and are completely sleep deprived.|||Good point. Lets use nature as an example. Surely the OP's father may be displaying something else entirely and we are merely misinterpreting the situation.    Dolphins for instance will gather in...|||I'd say just be you. Stand behind your opinions and ideas. INTJ's are wrong all the time, and whenever I've been shown or proven wrong on something I come out impressed with the other person and...|||Well. He is your dad, and as you age and become more opinionated I'd think it's normal for this kind of stuff to happen.    isn't it?   Screw trying to understand him, I still can't understand my...|||You made everyone else feel stupid because they can't fathom something new in an already established system. I'd argue that they're the stupid ones.|||I hate to be the asshole, but Posh Eagle you're killing a good flow as soon as it gets ignited.|||What a bloody mess says the waitress|||then Tom, the man among the group known with small hands, pulls out a grenade.|||I think anything is possible, you being an nf would understand the most that people are individuals and have their own personality.   I think you just have to follow your gut. Do what you think is...|||I'd ike to echo a lot of the shit that was said by intjs   I can relate to the op in that I'm jealous of a lot of INTJs as well. Shoot, they're awesome, smart, funny, rare.  Lol I'm kidding. ...|||I've been In a similar situation. Excuse my delivery if it becomes vulgur to you, but for honesty sake I want to be clear.  His friend possibly likes you, but he likes you as well. In order to remain...|||My understanding of his work was that nietzche was a man that broke systems. He criticized almost every system or work in philosophy that he considered held some merit. His problem was that he didn't...|||What happens when you desire to have no desires. Does a life of passiveness and observance still involve the concept of power?  Nietzche is among top 3 of my favorite philosophers. He preaches...'