'Dear INFJ gal,  I've never thought I'll fall in love and have someone fall in love with me at the same time. But you did. Everything you've done up until when I popped the question were your hints....|||Dear self,  A woman once said to you that you've a pair of kind eyes.  It was a revelation to you. But the bigger revelation is how this woman had a crush on you when both of you were 14 and sat...|||When my paternal grandma passed away, I didn't shed a tear at her funeral.  When my maternal grandma passed away (I was the only person at her deathbed), I didn't too. Both of them doted on me...|||I’d never imagined how profound an impact was watching the parental units parent the nephew. It can be a harrowing and therapeutic experience because the methods the maternal unit used haven’t...|||Dear self,  If you are an INFJ and with almost everyone you've met recently telling you how much of a deep thinker you are, what have they not realised or said about the depth of your emotions? ...|||TheseDays Sorry to hear about the meeting you had. If there is anything at all, you can find support here.|||The PC forum stuck a label on INFJs. We're not The Executives. We're not The Scientists. I think there is a reason for the label The Protectors.   Perhaps we should pause and think about who do...|||@TheseDays    Hans Christian Andersen is one of my favourite authors. There are some lessons we can take from The Emperor's New Clothes. Do we want to be the men and women in the crowd or the...|||Are there things you enjoy doing? If yes, maybe you can think about doing it with her.|||Having my intuition validated.|||The corporate world is skewed to the E's advantage. Like the world and society, no one should expect fairness and being treated with dignity or kindness. You may be remembered forever for being a...|||@TheseDays  I can identify with what you are going through. I've worked in five jobs during my career and where I currently work, my boss (female) told me a few times that I was too emotional. She...|||Dear self,  1. The need to prove yourself always will kill you one day. 2. One moment, you think you're good enough. The next, you feel the overwhelming sense of being crushed when you think you...|||When I was a lad, I rail at injustice. With all of that logic in this world, surely there would be at least one person who can see through the crap for what it is and stand up against it.   Then, I...|||Dear self,  You've stopped believing in the day when you'd fall in love with a woman.   But there are people in your life whom you love: your pop, your mom, your little sister and her kid.  ...|||Dear XXX,  I remember looking into your eyes when you exclaimed, I know this is a very unfair system. They told me how helpless you were. Being cynical, I could have thought for a moment you...|||With a score of 4, I've got the lowest score so far...|||Hi INFJian,  What you said describes me perfectly.  I gave a lot to friends who needed help, or at the very least, a listening ear. I remembered when I was doing my undergraduate studies in a...|||Have never won. =P|||ohnoezitsjoez @waldfeld: I'm 36 and I'm living perpetually in friendzone since the day I realised that women are attractive.  How am I feeling today? Sad and depressed. Alone and heartbroken....|||@bronzecrow: Thank you. Will bear your words in mind. I'm probably just at the starting point of a long, long journey. Scary in itself, but I guess I don't have a choice. But thanks again.|||Depressed.|||I come from a place where there is perpetual summer. But of the four, it's definitely autumn.|||Dear bronze crow,  I was on the verge of tears when I came to those words. I told my shrink tonight about my suicide plans, depression and then ADD. He wanted to work on the depression first but...|||Dear self,  Things you learnt today:  1. If a lass leaves you wondering whether or not she is interested, chances are... she isn't.  2. A cat as a pet has been upgraded from a want to a...|||You know what? Reading some of the posts in this thread just makes it more difficult (than it really is) in believing in the goodness of mankind. It makes it hard for some to think that the world is...|||InwardOh:  Thanks. This hasn't been the best of days for me. I will bear your advice in mind and revisit it when I do not have too much to deal with. =)  My apologies if this has derailed the...|||InwardOh:  Thank you.   I told him I was diagnosed with dysthymia, and said I felt well enough to deal with most sh**e being thrown my way. He explained that it was my choice but asked why I...|||My sincere thanks and appreciation to everyone who shared.  At this moment, I am experiencing high anxiety levels. I can't think properly (am trying to get things done at work), so please forgive...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_KYp4nUAqEs&NR=1|||Wished I could be like you. T-T  As for my username, it's a French word. It expressed how I felt most of the time in the past. (I prefer another word, but I reckon it's for another thread someday).|||She had to choose ... the day of my birth ... for our second date. Am revelling in this state of mind where two distinct voices in my head are arguing the merits of springing on her a surprise on...|||Dear ohTOMICho,  *Hug*  Sincerely,  Your fellow INFJ  ***|||Dear Angel,  Perhaps you are watching me right now. There is clearly a lack of expression on my face. But if you could look into my heart now, you will see that it's bleeding. Wave upon wave of...|||Dear someone-who-is-on-the-verge-of-being-shuttered-down,    You tweeted this without addressing this to anyone. But I know you are talking about me.  When someone says he HATES celebrating HIS...|||Dear anyone who understands,  It's easier to accept and work with mediocre leaders, but it is extremely harder to accept leaders who choose to be mediocre and still cannot be bothered.  Regards ...|||Dear boss,  Where is the leadership when you need a prod from your underling to get things moving? Do you feel like you deserve that pay cheque you get every month?  Sincerely,  Your INFJ...|||Dear self,  You get your emotions at an ebb when you don't get enough sleep. But you're so used to the thought that life seems to be more real when you are filled with sadness. Or that your empathy...|||Dear Cheer Chen,  You probably have no idea how your songs are a rich source of emotional solace for an INFJ who is feeling crummy this morning. It will be swell if you are an INFJ too.  ...|||Dear coffeebelle,  Hope you get a call and a great offer soon!  Regards  Fellow-INFJer|||Parts I can identify with are in bold.      GoodOldDreamer: I'm six years older than you are, am still single and feel like it's a long way way from ... finding someone who accepts me enough...|||I love it when people are genuine and say the words they mean, not just for the sake of small talk or just to conform. I love it when they show genuine emotions (especially sadness or anger when...|||... And then you feel bitterly disappointed when, in your hour of need, none of them could do the same for you. Or even if one decides to stick around, they won't want to do it the second time round...|||ppolly  Nice! Another fellow INFJ joins the ... guild. LOL Welcome and enjoy your stay here! =D|||coffeebelle  Thank you for sharing this. =) My heart and mind need this reminder, but my brain always refutes this with, After the dawn, the dusk will come. LOL|||Ditto for me. T-T  A have-never-been-kissed-except-from-me-gramps INFJ|||Dear Vitamin C tablets,  You rock. Except for a few small sniffles, you might have helped my creaking bod to drive out the darn viruses. I shall start stocking up on your comrades. Thank you.  ...|||Ormazd  Just watched it. Loved it.|||Dear boss,  You forwarded me an e-mail at 5.11pm, asking that I handle a piece of work. I checked the time stamp of the original e-mail. It says 10.45am. That e-mail states 4pm as the deadline for...|||Vivid Melody:  Down with flu / infection +1. T-T'