'Well, can you give us some examples?|||I feel that most things in life come from practice.    Practice thinking about how amazing what you have or what you do or who you are.  The reverse also holds true, if you practice negative or...|||I work long hours so that I can afford to pay someone to look after the things that I don't have time for because I work such long hours.  - chaseut|||I live because I do not like the alternative.|||Bullying is a serious matter in the workplace.  Get help, ask your HR department for advice.  Understand that the bully is solely responsible for their actions.  You've done nothing to provoke this...|||A museum, a hammock in a shaded glen, a cliff to dive into a crystal clear pool, a wooded lake for canoeing, and of course BBQ!  ahhh... maybe that's just me.|||Set a goal and pursue it with ruthless abandon.    Even if you don't achieve what you originally set out, the lessons you learn and the things you will accomplish will get you farther ahead then if...|||I have a tendency to take charge.  Though I am quite assertive, I am not necessarily an aggressive personality and they are different (thus the paradigm passive aggressive).  My approach is more...|||Boromir (LOTR)  I know the way the novel portrays him, but I was always sympathetic to the character.  He had the desperate burden of trying to defend his world in a slowly losing war.  When I saw...|||Live and enjoy life.|||C'mon now.  You guys, along with male INFJ's do not exist.  We are pigments of Happy's imagination.  :crazy:|||Relatively recently, studies have demonized excessive TV watching at an early age, from 0-3 years as one major contributing factor.  Do you guys know if you watched a great deal of TV when young?|||The things that we are gravitated to do, are also the things we are trying to escape from.|||Some of us would never reveal openly (by acting or mentioning) that we are of a certain personality type.|||I've always marvelled at how little correlation there is between age and maturity (depending on how you define maturity of course).  But understand there is no substitute for experience and that...|||Hi,  The messy J's I am referring to are actually SJ's.  Go figure!|||As much as it is a Hollywood movie phenom, I love seeing acts of heroism.  Not the kind meant to display some act of strength or cool factor, but rather a pure act of selfless courage.|||I've been thinking alot lately about people who tend to keep their lives and environments neat and organized and if the functions J and P have anything to do with it.  Let me preface the question. ...|||I retract what I just wrote.|||...and you have 3 daughters?  Frankly Rune, you should be teaching us what it is to be a man.|||Hi Rune,  Great post.  Very honest, takes alot of guts to open up like that.  Guts that I myself don't have.  I have looked over your website and the list of impressive accomplishments.  You are a...|||If this is a school situation, consult your teacher/counselor/principal.   If this is a work situation, address the issue with your manager or HR.    You do not have to endure this on your own,...|||When everyone is happy.|||I can vouch for this.  I am a 3w4, and I do identify with it.|||Dad Man!  Protector of the neglected, abandoned, and unwanted !!!  (my cape would double up as a diaper change mat)|||I couldn't imagine my life without children.  It's hard hard work.  But I have reached a depth of feeling I did not think possible.  My experience anyways.|||Give what you can.  Don't feel pressured to give anymore than that.  Question Alice...  Anything else going on that might be driving this topic?|||I have to admit, I'm rather bland intellectually.    ps you spelt uninteligent wrong.|||When I was a kid, all I had was a stick and a ball.  You said you txt'd her this info?  :blushed:|||(Opens arms wide open)  I love you You love me  we're a happy family  with a great big hug and a kiss from me to you.  won't you say you love me too|||I don't think she knows the Barney I love you song.  Maybe someone could dig up the Youtube link?|||I love you You love me  we're a happy family  with a great big hug and a kiss from me to you.  won't you say you love me too|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I5NAPZp2w-o   Trust me on the sunscreen.|||Oh man, well I would just have to meet up with Zalithian so I can buy him a shot of scotch.     Maybe I can introduce him to some very attractive xSTJ, professional women!|||This is a great thread, I hope that the more senior members of this forum contribute!|||Are you a Marine Myjazz?|||There is an INFJ meetup group in Toronto.  Google INFJ Meetup Toronto for more info.|||Seems to me at least that we might have differing streams of INFJ's.  Those who seek to guide others, help through addressing the person directly.  Those who are more activist bent, protecting...|||Protector or poo disturber, really depends on who you ask.  I don't relate to mystic, but I don't discount it.|||What's your Name?  Just call me chase.  Actually everyone calls me chasenuts.  Maybe I should change my username...  Where are you from?  Toronto, Canada  How old are you?|||I inflict my venting and judgment on you poor forum folk.  Outside of that, I don't reveal a thing.|||I don't usually encounter people who baldface lie these days, unless I'm attending a conference where the executive are presenting (:laughing:).  It's much harder as it is moreso an omission of truth...|||Years of working in a large corporate environment is getting me there.  I've seen, heard, and experienced things that you cannot believe.    Either I find a way to coup with it, or jaded, broken,...|||Wouldn't it be cool to close this thread or let it die?|||Sorry, I've been on a really high and mighty opinionated streak lately.|||I would have to agree.  The ESFJ I know would not appreciate being treated that way.    We intuitives do not have the market cornered on reading people.  Many ST's are extraordinarily observant...|||I think I could beat my CEO out on a mathematics test...|||You make us sound very snobby?  Pretending to be interested in something you are not, using the term menial?  I don't know, sounds disingenuous?    Have I misunderstood you?|||A very good friend of mine is an ESFJ and he has a heart of pure gold and I trust him implicitly.   I personally would gravitate toward them if I could find another one, but I would surmise many of...|||I really think that the only way to know is to talk to one, particularly if they are very introverted + shy.'