'Wait, glow-in-the-dark dinosaur onesie? Is an article of clothing even allowed to be that awesome?|||For what it's worth, my roommate is an ESFP, and I was crazy about another ESFP (didn't know at the time) last year, and we all get along swimmingly.  As far as my roommate goes, he's probably my...|||Oh boy! :crazy:  A couple years ago, there was a [fairly extroverted] INTP that I was pretty crazy about. She's a year and some change younger than me and she still intimidates me to this day. In...|||One of the most entertaining streams-of-consciousness I've read in a while. Loved it!  Do Not Send This Text by Brad Pike|||Love is that condition whereby the happiness of another is essential to your own. ~Robert Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land  I really like that quote, and I think to some extent, you can't...|||When I saw your avatar, it was immediate attraction and desire. :wink::wink:  In all seriousness though, I don't believe in love at first sight, but I do believe that first encounters can be...|||I think I'm NF > E > J. My J is quite weak; like shakti, I've tested ENFP before.    I think that's a reflection on how we associate with people rather than our cognitive functions. When I...|||Follow-up question: If you could have dinner with 3 people, any 3 people from all of history, all at one dinner table, who would they be?  I'd have to say my high school math teacher, one of my...|||Spot on. Happiness is not a zero-sum game; there is no fixed quantity of it in the world where if some people are happier others are worse off for it.  I used to really go out of my way to help...|||I don't think that discounts you from being an ENFJ. I certainly don't set aside time to introspect and do not absolutely need alone time to sort of reset my life and get everything in order, but...|||Good stuff, aren't the in-retrospect-I-actually-know-myself-damn-well moments great? And on an unrelated note, I like your writing style. It's entertaining. :tongue:  Anyway, this is kind of a moot...|||I cried watching this.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbk980jV7Ao|||*giggles like a 5-year old* :crazy: I'm excited for you!    1. On a scale from one to ten, approximately 92. And a half. 2. Become really close friends and, through this friendship, become...|||This past month, a really close friendship of mine developed into a romantic relationship. She makes me really happy! :tongue: http://i.imgur.com/t4T3iLi.jpg  http://i.imgur.com/XKiSzwP.jpg ...|||Flying across hemispheres to visit an SO at 17. I am floored! All of your gestures are so sweet (:  Do you guys think ENFJs develop their romantic side earlier than most people? I just finished my...|||This picture and caption makes me so happy. (: Welcome to the forums!|||Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows http://www.dictionaryofobscuresorrows.com/  Some samples that I like: Adronitis (n.) - frustration with how long it takes to get to know someone—spending the first...|||11 Quality Time 9 Physical Touch 6 Acts of Service 2 Words of Affirmation 2 Receiving Gifts  I think this is how I like to receive affection. I think I'm very good at using acts of service,...|||These weren't necessarily all done for romantic partners per se, but they were for friends who were close enough that I wouldn't object to a romantic relationship with them.  Custom pillowcase!...|||You know you're an ENFJ when sometimes, you just need a reason to get angry at someone, to not be able to forgive them, to push them away once and for all because you need to cut them out of your...|||I think smiling makes people look more attractive. (: We all seem to be pretty good at smiling with our eyes.|||Something that's come up for me recently is figuring out when I need to exercise some self-control in trying to build emotional intimacy with people.  What I've started to realize is that I am...|||Ahaha absolutely I'm having a great time! I'm not done with finals until mid-June (quarter system, not semester system...). Afterwards, I'm going to be doing research in social psychology lab where...|||Oh boy, I've been MIA for a while. College really takes up a lot of time. Here's some pictures of what I've been doing recently (and I have not a damn clue how to make them show up smaller, so...|||First things first, welcome to the forums! Allow us to shower rainbows and smiles upon you. :crazy:  With that said, I can entirely relate to your concern. I'm a psychology and computer science...|||There've been a couple ENFJ blog links collected here. Not all of them are tumblr blogs though.|||I read this interesting article about the idea of a soulmate and I wanted to hear what you guys think about it. The full article can be found here. The two most important paragraphs were the last...|||You don't necessarily enjoy going to parties and the like to meet new people, but when you meet new people one on one it's all HIII HOW ARE YOU LET ME LOVE YOU! :crazy:    ... or maybe that's...|||We smile as our heart throbs and invisible tears roll down our face.|||How did I not see this before? :shocked:  I've used Google Hangouts, Mumble, tinychat, and Skype with some level of success. If we could make public ENFJ chats a monthly thing that'd be fantastic....|||This quarter, I'm taking a class called Love as a Force for Social Justice, and it's making me think critically about what it means to be in love, different types of love, and how love is expressed...|||I don't believe in the existence of the one. I don't think there is one person who is our soulmate that we are meant to be with, where everything just falls in line and is great. However, I don't...|||When you ask someone about their day, you really want to hear all about their day!|||http://buttersafe.com/comics/2013-02-14-Falling.jpg|||This morning, a couple of the guys in my dorm and I got up at 6:30am, got dressed in formal clothes (tuxes, ties, etc.), practiced a quick a cappella arrangement of I Want It That Way, and then...|||Definitely not a professional, but I consider myself a musician!  I played piano for two years, then switched to cello for five years, then took up musical saw for fun. Never had formal vocal...|||I laughed so hard at the post, and especially this line. It's all SO TRUE. Thanks for sharing! (:|||I agree with you, but I'm not sure how this prevents a romantic relationship from developing out of a platonic one with a single person, completely independently of past relationships with other...|||I'm a little hazy about what you said there, but I think I got it. (Correct me if I misunderstood anything.)  I think many times you have expectations of what you want to see in a partner and have...|||On more than one occasion I've said to my best friend something along the lines of: Slap me, verbally and then physically if necessary, if I'm making bad romantic decisions. I will be mad at you...|||I was talking to a close friend of mine that was having trouble falling asleep, and we got to talking about the mythical friend zone and its implications. I've asserted on multiple occasions on this...|||This is a weird thing to ask of ENFJs, but I think some alone time would do you a lot of good.  It's hard when things aren't entirely within your control. Certainly, your family is in the wrong,...|||I consider myself moderately liberal (on the American political spectrum, anyway) when it comes to political views, but I figured if there's one place where a community can set aside all biases and...|||Hello hello!  How old are you? Turned 18 four months ago.  Where are you from? Born in Florida, raised in Michigan and Washington state, living in San Francisco Bay Area for college  How long...|||Starbucks!?! The Seattleite in me is excited. :crazy:|||65.  It seems the majority of us are in the same ballpark of scores (namely 60-70). It's getting me to thinking: is empathy something intrinsically ENFJ (you can't be an ENFJ without being fairly...|||Not really, it takes me about 3 minutes to get dressed everyday. I dress pretty much exclusively for comfort, taking into account what the weather's like and what I'm going to be doing that day....|||No regrets.  Those were the only two words my first girlfriend wrote in my yearbook at the end of the year, after we'd broken up. She doesn't know it, but I owe so much to her for writing that.|||What a thought-provoking thread!    Favorite color indeed is a go-to question I have when meeting new people, but thinking about it now, I don't actually ask that to people who are introduced to...|||This is true for me and a number of the ENFJs I know, but I don't know if all ENFJs feel this way:  You don't like excessive hugging because hugs carry a significant, implicit emotional meaning...'