'No replies?   I love ENTJs. I've known a few, and there is always some sort of initial attraction with them. I don't think I've ever gotten to know one very deeply to say more, but I always feel...|||I'm so sorry. It's so tragic and hard leaving a relationship that you worked so hard for. It just does terrible things to your mind and emotions. You sound like a strong person, and I hope you find...|||Honestly? Cut your losses while you can. I am doing the same with my ISFP ex, and it is hell. Your guy sounds really similar to mine minus some details. PM me if you have questions.|||As an ISFP, I've dated an ISFP... and your ISFP is way better at doing than mine was. Even for me, I had to learn to appreciate his lack of foresight, but it was hard. I am the...|||I think this thread is dealing with the ISFPs stackings. Is the ISFP a social, sexual, or self-preserving type?   Personally I am an SP/SX, so I highly prioritize my family over other social...|||Least compatible imo are INFJ, INFP, ISFJ, ESFJ. May or may not be compatible with INTP and ENFJ. I think we'd get along with ENTJs, ESTPs, ENFP, ESTJ, ISTJ. Whatever types I left out are ones I...|||This resonates with my ISFP-ISFP experience. Bizarre is exactly the right word.|||I am an ISFP 9 sp/sx. I am seeing an ISFP 2 so/sx. We are dynamically different, and it often feels like we have nothing in common. Basically all of our differences is a reflection of our enneagram...|||Exactly this. Parenting is a big deal, it's basically a life goal. If your goals and values are not compatible, there really isn't a real relationship. You need to have common ground to even begin a...|||Maybe bringing a new life into the world isn't rewarding to her. Maybe she'd prefer to adopt.   What sort of conflict arises? Are you trying to change her mind?  This goes back to her maybe...|||As an ISFP who doesn't want kids, I would say she's being honest. I don't think ISFPs are the type to play elaborate mind games. We're just honest upfront. If you want kids, you should probably look...|||Just saw it in theater.   Christian - ENTJ Ana - INFP  I originally thought she was an ISFP, but later leaned towards INFP because she's an Eng Lit. major who is also a romantic. I never read...|||Oh man... I have housemate troubles too, and I'm usually one to bring them up. My housemate now avoids me (I think - we didn't see each other much to begin with), but I really wish she would just...|||I am in my mid-20s, and I identify as an asexual and aromantic ISFP. It was weird realizing that others were puzzled by this as I was growing up, and I wasn't able to acknowledge/adopt these labels...|||I am especially nice at work and with strangers. Being nice works in my favor, it keeps me more or less invisible while still taking care of work and responsibilities. With those in my innermost...|||I think INFJs and ISFPs make good friends.  When it comes to smoothing things over between your INTJ father and your ISFP interest, I think primarily you could be a spokeswoman for your ISFP,...|||Apparently 4 years later I have a different perspective than I gave when I responded the first time. Your isfj friend is likely an enneagram 2. Definitely read up on this type as it will clear up a...|||I highly doubt you can come up with accurate results that isolate mbti affects on respiratory rate due to different lung size and blood pressure alone|||I take deep long breathes naturally, and I have a naturally very-low blood-pressure. Exhaled/inhaled 2x in 15 seconds.. this would definitely depend on an individuals activity level. Another ISFP I...|||They got engaged 2 days ago. :) Theyre super compatible.|||Maybe you should just tell the person. Sometimes that makes it stop, and if it doesn't, at least you did something about it. :) Gl.|||Realize that the person is probably on a pedestal in your mind and likely isn't as great as you imagine.|||I back everything ferroequinologist has said.   What prompted you to tell her that it's not a burden and that you don't mind? Did she ask?|||What's her body language like? Does she mean what she says, or does she say things because you expect her to? Your interaction sounds like the interaction between me and high-end extroverts,...|||That sounds like a highly Fe thing to say. The ISTP, INFJ and ENFJs I know are more likely to think this way, whereas the Fi users I know are more independent.  So no, that's not ISFP mentality....|||What you said right here is something that I can see my more ISFP friend saying too! It's really endearing and makes me wish everyone could see it that way. =] He's enneagram 2w3 I think... I...|||LOL same. I have a friend who is way more ISFP than I am, and around him I think I basically look like an INTJ. His first impression of me was as a manipulative mastermind... which shocked and...|||An ESTJ that I know very well can probably make it work with any type who she admires and who also appreciates her. She is currently seeing an INTJ man who deeply cares for her, and I think it might...|||I basically agree with everything said here, yay. >_<|||gemini sun capricorn moon virgo rising|||Hi PerC women practicing a specific faith,  I'm currently taking some Religious Studies courses at a California State University, and one of the classes is about Gender in Religion.  For one of...|||I admire you for managing to balance that split. It wasn't right that you had to go through that, but you made it through. Because you can't undo what has been done, you can do two things with that...|||Awww. This is so cute and idealistic. I know an ISFP male who does everything seemingly unplanned... I don't even get it, because I grew up with extremely J parents and friends and teachings that...|||How I react when I see someone's ennea type:  1: This person is probably way more serious than I am.  2: Warm fuzzies! Wait... 3: Sup 4: I automatically sense underlying pain.  5: How nerdy are...|||.|||Adding my personal thoughts to the discussion:  I feel like in any relationship, open communication is important if one is actually becoming codependent on the other. This doesn't mean an...|||I would speculate that ISFPs generally internalize more than they point fingers.  Not sure, but I've always felt that feeling it physically is something ISFPs are especially close with. I'm...|||I read up a little on your other posts, and I hope you're through with her.  As an ISFP, I loath being intentionally ignored. I get it when people are busy or simply doing other things -- I'll go a...|||I'm a 9. I'm a blow up and get over it type person. I think my Se and Te are fairly strong, so although I can experience strong anger all at once, I strive really hard to find any way possible to...|||Surrounding myself with good people brings me out of Fi/Ni because it offers me new input to work with and perspective to see from. Building a meaningful relationship can be hard and sometimes...|||I'm in the middle of feeling pretty crappy, so this looks like a thread that I need to visit. and do something about.  Hm...  I LOVE... the fact that I can choose to love I guess. The ability to...|||I've always had great interest in Near Death Experiences (NDEs), and after doing some searching, I've come to the conclusion that there is life after death, that the soul lives on. If I'm tired of my...|||I considered myself consecrated to God for a good portion of my life, probably until my 20s, until a friend I cared for challenged my faith in the goodness of God. This was an agnostic/athiest friend...|||If we enjoy conversations with each other, we probably have friendship potential. I tend to value the conversations that expand me and move me in ways that are important to me. If a friend makes or...|||Sometimes it helps for me to get my environment and surroundings straight. I'll get uber detail oriented with my room and make it so that there's no more improvements I could make to it. Shower. Then...|||Sound probably affects me the most. Sounds I love: birds, my sweet sweet pet budgie, music, and how someone's voice sounds. Then smell. I love the smell of my blankets, people I love, fresh scents,...|||Yeah. I don't get how people know. To me it sounds like people just take risks or chances? I've never been in a relationship for this reason. Someone theorized once that it's because we approach...|||The INTJ that I've posted about in previous posts is actually an INTP. It became clear after realizing the difference between Ni and Ne, Ti and Te. So... now I'm not really sure whether or not I know...|||She was just highly micro-managing, and had an insatiable need to dominate and be part of everything that was going on in the office. She was a very sharp girl and knew everything there was to know...|||I'm an ISFP, I'm really bad at staying angry... I don't really stew or dwell in the background. I usually have to hide until the anger goes away, and once that happens, I'm more than happy to keep...'