I haven't been in this *exact* situation but my best friend is a female INFJ and I currently have a bit of a mutual interest thing with a male INTJ (I know, I know, INFJs and INTJs are very different...|||i relate to a lot of this. especially the part about school.  i loved getting good grades and being the best, i guess that's my competitive side. i was a bit of an overachiever until i eventually got...|||and this is why I'm not keen on drinking around certain friends. oh god the potential embarrassment... but fuck it who cares if I embarrass myself? :D|||ESTPs, INFJs, ESFPs, ENFPs, ISTJs, INTPs, INTJs.   I have the most fun with the extroverted types and the best conversations with the introverted ones.  It's a broad generalization but it's true.|||ahaha that's awesome!  just when you think you've got ESTPs figured out, we start acting in unexpected ways again :p|||it sounds like you already know this, but he's totally into you.|||dang what a cold bunch. :p   I touch people a lot. my love language is physical touch so I guess that coincides a little with my approach to friendly touching (for example if I don't like someone...|||for me...if I'm flirting (lots of touching, suggestive jokes, etc) I'm probably not interested, because I do that with like EVERYONE. it's when I get really awkward that you can tell I actually have...|||i was literally just complaining to my friend about unsolicited advice.  yuck.  i try not to make judgments about types before meeting them though...hopefully i can meet some that break the...|||INTJs: i'm only close friends with one, but he's cool. we don't always agree but there's a level of mutual respect and understanding there. plus he's funny, that makes up for any issues.  INTPs: we...|||have lots of experiences. travel. find great friends. help people.  that's all pretty vague though, i don't see anything specific.  i just want to be happy and i tend to find happiness in god, good...|||whoa.  that's probably the simplest and best description of being in an Se-Fe loop i've ever read.|||ESTP female:  83% (or was it 87%?) masculine  45% feminine  53.333% androgynous|||ron is most definitely an ESFP haha.|||there's also christian universalism, in which you don't even have to repent (in the traditional sense) to be forgiven of your sins.  there isn't some weird demand for you to FEEEEEL sorry, instead...|||Your Result: Driver  91%   Let's do it my way. Desire to have control. Needs sense of obedience, appreciation for accomplishments, credit for ability. Key strengths are ability to take charge of...|||twinsies|||ENTP and ENFP.  like no guys, just because i can have an intelligent conversation with you does not mean i'm an intuitive.|||i'm a bit of both slytherin and gryffindor.  slytherin, because of the resourcefulness and determination (but i'm missing the ambition) and gryffindor because of the daring and bravery (but i'm...|||heeeey i'm an estp chick!  i like guys who are fun, outgoing, adventurous, witty, etc.  i'm bored by shy people or people who just want to talk about the same things over and over.  i'm excited by...|||my friend gave me a slytherin t-shirt :D|||I was fat.|||wow, I should try your method.  all this time I've been sacrificing virgins!|||I like INTPs.  We communicate well and we get each other's humor.  They can be a bit awkward, but nothing serious|||oh, sorry i didn't specify.  most definitely good. :)|||my stepdad.  he's totally changed my view on God, spirituality and the like...which is something that ultimately, really does matter and for me personally it changes the direction of my entire life.|||ESTP obv  get frustrated and try to remember never to debate with them again|||it bums me out a little (of course), but i bounce back in a heartbeat.  no lasting effect|||for me, it's both.  i'm intimidated *because* i respect them, and i get a little insecure because i feel like they're better than me.  but maybe i have the wrong definition of intimidating.  i'm not...|||a little...my best friend thought i was an ENTP before i told her my type, and i'm perfectly capable of having an intellectual conversation with someone.  it's just not something i enjoy doing for...|||sure.  i'd have to learn first, but i could do it.|||i'm just gonna leave this adorable comic here.|||why does it matter if there are any hard feelings?  it doesn't sound like he's a very close friend, or that you'd be losing anything special.|||all of these lol.    the middle one is weirdly specific, but like, it makes perfect sense to me because i know EXACTLY what you're talking about.  i was feeling really down one day and the only...|||i got ESTP back when i was 11.  took it again a couple years ago as a shy teenager and got ISTP, realized semi recently that i have more Se than Ti and more Fe than Ni, so ESTP now.|||dude, you're completely misunderstanding me.  i don't do that.  like, i literally started off by saying how much i like making others feel good.  that's not gonna happen if i'm rude or mean to them,...|||INFJ.  for opposites, it's weird how well we get along.  my other close friends are ESFP, ENFP, ISTJ, and INTP.|||i said pretending.  it's mostly in my humor.  so no, i don't mean being rude, pissing people off, or picking on them.|||partially, yeah.  i feel so great about myself when i make other people happy.  like, i may amuse myself by pretending to be a heartless bitch, but deep down it's awesome to know people like me...|||if the ESTP is actually an asshole, then no it's not your fault.  but generally, ESTPs are pretty charming and care about the impression they make on others (even if they like to pretend they don't)....|||geez, you seem to have very little respect for ESTPs in general just because one of them happened to be an asshole.    yes, i have REAL friends.  not heaps, but i have a few people who mean a lot...|||oooh, very true.  also motivations...Se doms would like travel for the sensory experience, Ne for the culture (?), Fe for the people they'd meet, etc etc.|||i don't fully understand the question but it seems kinda rude.  how is it possible we have friends?  we're fucking fun to be around and can be pretty loyal to those we care about.    do you think...|||generally yeah, SPs suck at planning.  personally i'm pretty good at it but that's only out of necessity.  if i actually want to hang out with my friends, i'm the one who has to organize and plan...|||wow, kudos to them.  i guess the reason i don't usually get along with them is because all the ESFJs i'm close to were brought up super conservatively, and that coupled with Fe-Si is a bit much.  i...|||no.|||kinda repetitive but lol, so ESTP  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABhDiXbUaBE|||hahahahahahaha no.  source: i'm an ESTP and i have ENFP friends.|||types that are strong in Fe?  noooo way.  most ESFJs and i are like oil and water.  INFJs and ISFJs are fine, but god, not the others pls.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkUFiP7SmO4