'Welcome, and glad you decided to come back:0).|||Thank you for sharing, I'm sure he was a wonderful little guy and will be greatly missed.|||I'm so very sorry:sad:. I lost a special feline friend as well, though this was several years ago. If you don't mind me asking, what was your dear friend's name?|||Sincere|||I was actually one of the people who mentioned that love is not complicated.  I did not mean it in a literal sense, I meant it in terms of what appeared to be game playing on the part of the guy...|||Bolded: I agree completely.|||I know you can't just switch it off, if you are in love with him the way you say you are, then the trueness of love dictates that you can not.   The things that I have bolded above are what give me...|||@bolded: I can completely relate, really I can - I have been there. I have had unhealthy relationships, and fortunately, I am currently in a healthy one that I have been in for almost 15 years. The...|||@Bolded: I hate to say it, but it sounds like he is telling you exactly where he stands. Simply because he had you meet his mom and others from his past does not mean he wants to be in a serious...|||All of those things will change in time. And I can tell you, from my perspective, I think it's great that you know yourself, and you know right now is not the correct time for you to commit. Some or...|||I can't speak for other INFJs either, but I've been in a committed relationship with an ISTJ for almost 15 yrs. Everyone is so different.   Perhaps you are commitment-phobic because you haven't met...|||Not a guy, but my two cents - you told him no pressure, hold true to that. Regardless of personality type, if he is truly interested he will come back around.  Since it's really bothering you...|||Best to do it only if and when you are ready. You should NEVER feel pressure to tattoo. If you like you skin tattoo free,  I say enjoy it just the way it is.:wink:|||Wait...What happened to Eve? O.o|||I've heard this one used a lot. It's still cute though:o)|||I know this is an old post, but:  @Bolded: Hahaha...agreed.  I have a few, and plan to get more.|||@Bolded: I'm sorry, I'm not sure where you got this.  I mean, even if we were to believe the experts that Martin Luther King, Jr. and Mahatma Gandhi were INFJs, in these two men alone we see...|||And yet you continue to frequent this area of the forum. Where is the logic in that?|||I think it does.|||[/B]Nevermind, this answered my question.|||I don't have enough experience with NTs, in general, to gauge them as bullies. If they are inclined to be sliver tongued as you say, then I suppose I would see them as such.   Just curious, of...|||YouTube|||Is this about NTs in general or are you curious about how you might be perceived by those of us who are NFs on this forum?|||No harm done|||Second language, maybe...or really, really excited to start a new thread....  People make mistakes.|||Not being good enough. Pretty much every area of my life is under the dark cloud of this fear.|||INFJ 4w5 checking:0). I know this is an old thread, but what did you end up getting for the 4th item?|||Whispers in the Dark - Yanni   http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=FafjXK2Nvtw&amp;desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DFaf  jXK2Nvtw|||I'm the same way, but also with the self criticism comes the guilt for me.  If I allow it, I can easily slip into a dark place. I try to conquer those moods with self talk, and doing something...|||Hello Everyone,  I came here to learn, so far, I'm learning a lot:0)|||Morgan Freeman has this great quote from the movie, Driving Miss Daisy:  How you know what I see lessen you can see out my eyes...  Know thyself. Read, research, and know.|||ONES:  Apdenoatis: 1w2, 2w1, 5w6 SX/SO (probably)  Vaan: 1w2 - 3w4 - 7w6 sx/so  u200bArkendale: 1w2 - 6w5 - 4w5 sp/so  -  milli66: 1w9 - 4w5 so/sp  perspicacious: 1w9 - 5w6 - 2w1 So/Sp Cordial...|||http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=wmin5WkOuPw&amp;desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3Dwmi  n5WkOuPw|||The angel's name was Michael, my husband's name is Marc;0).  Stay beautiful and in love(or like), MetaphOracle.|||It's actually Ony. As in Ony is Sexy, only I just left it XC, instead of adding the 's' or 'e' or 'y'....kind of like a license plate...*crickets*.    So anyway, I'm glad you didn't take offense...|||I'm notorious for disappearing on my friends, it's not to test them, I'm just doing my own thing. I tend to get distracted doing things, I think, wow, I really should call/text so and so...  - go...|||I think it's lovely what you wrote, I really do - I couldn't help but snicker though. Not to sound suspicious, but how do you know she was an infj?|||I appreciate this comment, particularly the bolded. Thank you for pointing this out.|||I wouldn't let you throw me a party for me, I'd want to throw it for myself (no surprises that way). It would be a small party with few people I really like and trust.|||Ahahaha....I thought I was the only one who thought this way XD|||Double post|||@bolded: Don't be afraid, just cautious and aware. You seem like a very sweet person, but I have to be honest, I doubt this guy is psychic or whatever. He's probably someone who already knows you or...|||Yeah,  a simple, Hi, my name is *insert guy here*. I've seen your picture on *insert social network platform here*. I'd like to get to know you better....  The above would go a lot further with...|||I have no personal knowledge of any other 459s, but myself.. I'd like to think I'm pretty sane.    I suppose, though, the fact that I think I'm sane would cause some to ponder my sanity...  In...|||Yeah, seriously, the first thing I thought was, con job. This guy likes you, knows what you want to hear and is telling you just that. Personally, I wouldn't trust him, I prefer those who shoot...|||How much are you willing to share with me? That's how I determine how much I want to share with you. That, and I gotta believe that what you're sharing with me is real, not just some attempt to dig...|||For what it's worth, I'm infj, 459 with 8 wing or some such.  Close, but no cigar?|||I tend to feel like I fit in a bit more with a mixed crowd. All female groups make me a bit nervous, I just don't seem to know how to talk the talk.'