'Oh my gosh Lysana, you and I are so much alike.  I am quite confident in my INFPness but I do have a well developed use of Fe. It is almost like I am two different people.  The social mask I wear is...|||I was thinking ENFP|||Snail, you are absolutely right about this....this is such an endemic problem...blaming the victim for being weak instead of the abuser for being a dick.  I mean I am thinking of all sorts of...|||LOL!  YESSS!!!  That is exactly how it is :)  Though lately I've been feeling bad because it is somewhat deceitful to be a bunny with a killer streak...you know?|||So interesting Lady Starbird!  You and I seem to have a similar use of the functions, that is cool!  I have an Fe mask as well, and would probably test as a 9 on the enneagram, though my true self is...|||Hmm...part of me thinks, if he likes you, he should make the move....I mean...in heterosexual dating rituals...that is the dance, I guess.  The girl makes it obvious she won't say no..and the dude...|||As others have said, it is incredibly draining, although in a weird way I seem to be good at it.  My father is an INFP and he climbed the career ladder and wound up running the organization he worked...|||Exactly, you don't find that often...go get him!|||I am like one of those dimorphic crusading/hermit-ing INFPs.  In my life I've had causes...and I'm crazy crazy crazy when I'm on a mission.  I can't believe the things I am able to accomplish, or how...|||Hello Axolotlet17!!!|||Well, that depends...if I like the person back, then no amount of positive signals will ever convince me ... until you know...it becomes obvious, like with varying degrees of nakedness or...|||Awww...this made me tear up a bit ENFP <3<3<3 One of my favorite people in the whole world is an enfp!!  You all have such amazing energy and ideas...I will >>ALWAYS<< support these :)|||Errrmmm...yeah.  Going the wrong way down one way streets is a favorite.  One time, I was pulling out of the parking lot and there was ice on my windshield that I was too lazy to clean off..it was...|||I also get accused of using drugs, especially marijuana (did I even spell it right?).  Mainly because I'm so laid back and things don't ever bother me...or sometimes when I make some random...|||These are great suggestions!  Thank you :)|||So, I'm quite solid in my INFP identity, although I can at times appear quite social compared to other INFPs. I think this is because I'm a teacher and the job has helped me become more extroverted...|||Here he is :)  Can you feel his personality?  He is so incredible and smart...and he knows it!!!  I call him Crazy Bird and his wife is Crazy Wife when I call them I call:  Crrraaaazieees!!! ...|||I also feed wild birds :)  Whoa!  These birds sort of picked me out though, well one bird in particular.  He is a mockingbird.  He was always really brave and kind of a show off, and I fell in love...|||I have known 3 other INFPs in x93real lifex94 besides myself and am curious about a pattern in these 3 people (one male, two female) that I will call x93anti-sexualx94.  Ix92m not talking about asexuality...|||LOL!  Great question....I drive a little like Clark Griswold  (haphazardly, distracted, but it seems to turn out ok in the end):    http://youtu.be/PhlR3vidvp0|||Oh my god!  I too am obsessed with jewelry making!!!!!!!!!! Seeing that I don't really wear jewelry, the hobby still seems to demonstrate a LACK of practicality on my end...but damn it...it is so...|||In front of a gym full of middle schoolers, I put on a fake cape, grab the microphone get the wave started by running in front of the bleachers.... LOL Is it any wonder I spend my summers locked...|||I only scored 62%, but I accidentally left one question blank and i couldn't go back, but...dude...I totally thought I'd score higher...LOL...maybe I'm growing????????? *crosses fingers*|||Ongoing: Not losing my keys Not losing my wallet Not losing my cell phone :wink:|||THIS made me LOL, damn that inability to remember mundane crap....why the hell is it so important in the real world anyways??|||Tell her about your infpness!  Hmmm...I have known a few infps First infp, male: we talked about physics, had the class together Second infp, female: talked about our childhood wounds  Third...|||I have an ex infp female friend who does this.  What makes it strange is that i am also an infp female and her behavior is perplexing to even me.  We had an intense, stormy, codependent dysfunctional...|||Yes, I am also the therapist.  My problem is that this has been the predominate way of relating to others, which is not healthy!|||I hear what you are saying, perhaps it is just semantics, but I actually think we are saying the same thing....you  think?    :proud:|||I read this sentence the other day, the woman stated in regards to her romantic relationships:   I hope to be wanted instead of needed.  This sentence struck a chord with me, a deep one.  I...|||I do not remember these imaginary friends, but apparently when I was a very small child (like around age 3) I had a couple of great imaginary pals...my mother tells me their names were Sissy and...|||Thank you for such excellent advice...priceless advice :)|||I am admiring your big brave testicles....right now...you are awesome.|||I'd love to find a man like my dad....he was an INFP/INFJ :)  I instead seem to draw my mother to me (she shows up to me in either gender).  SIGH....mom was/still is a nut job.  I turned out like my...|||INTJs are cool! Uh...um...off topic....sorry|||I was a computer programmer during my first adult lifetime. Worked for a few years at a tax software company until the corporate grind drove me out.  There are not a lot of girls, true dat. ...|||I've certainly been there.... :unsure:  I've certainly been there .... :unsure:|||IT'S A CHECK MARK! It was a check mark, right? People keep saying V shape, did I imagine the checkmark? Maybe there was a bird that I couldnt see that made it a void check mark....do you know that...|||Extra extra like....I wound up in a relationship with a narcissist...it sucks the life force right out of you and you don't even know it....there is a difference between self absorbed and...|||I idealize losing ideals...every hard point in my life taught me so much, some was bad baggage but most was a closer understanding of infinite truth.  Who I am, what the world is, how I fit.  I...|||I relate it to my ADHD Boy!!! Girl!! Birl!! Goy!! Actually my sexuality is kind like the song Boys & Girls by blur  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Unal15XOGoU&feature=youtube_gdata_player ...|||Yeah, my infp friend is a pretty amazing communicator.   I will brag about her any day!|||Whoa! I feel you! I have infp female friend with huge Fi, whereas for an infp I have quite a bit of Fe, in addtion to my Fi...I'm  weird.   Like you, I do not like to stay in the negative emotional...|||Well, there is a dating site based on personality type....I actually met my last unhealthy relationship thing there...but the site itself worked like a charm!  TypeTango Myers Briggs Personality...|||Yes I do this too....so I can relive the experience over and over again in my mind.|||I mirror people subconsciously all the time, sometimes I catch myself doing it and am like whoa! but it isn't manipulative, im not even aware of it most of the time, it's because I am genuinely...|||Hey enfj! Have you read this book ?   Amazon.com: Personality Types: Using the Enneagram for Self-Discovery eBook: Don Richard Riso, Russ Hudson: Kindle Store   This book gives insight into...|||You talk for 3 hours per DAY?  OMG....does he have a job or other social stimulation?  This would drive me nuts and I'm an INFP! Are you sure he is an INFP?  I mean even when I'm smitten I need to...|||What light bulb?  Go!:cool:  Awh...this is a repeat post....sorry...dunno how to delete! HELPPPPP!!!!! :)|||Vegan restaurants....animal rights organizations, volunteering at animal shelters etc...a number of vegetarian/vegan people are INFP.'