'You have a huge heart mytinyheart :happy:  Thank you for reminder of who we are! It was all I needed today|||Aww.. They do! It is always so hard on me to control the urge of caressing that rosy cheek:laughing:|||I know it, I know him well... I think I asked here for INFPs opinions because I hoped to hear something different  :sad:  I appreciate all your answers and support|||This really resonates. Exactly what I thought. Thank you|||I have said stop few times in response to romantic gestures, as well refused to meet him in one-to-one setting without our common friends.  I didn't think it was a joke, But I assumed he knows what...|||Of course! I believe I'm coming from the very different point of view than you see here: He was my friend, and I never felt, neither treated him any romantic way. I never flirted- I pretty conscious...|||Good to know, but it is romantic for him. He used to text me love songs, give teddy bears... I just wasn't taking it seriously. What does it mean to you full context?  Thanks for the advice- I'll...|||As socially awkward INTJ - I need your help dear INFPs.   I have an INFP friend, who was my shoulder many times. I really like him and I though we have great relationship. Well...  I knew he...|||As socially awkward INTJ - I need your help dear INFPs.   I have an INFP friend, who was my shoulder many times. I really like him and I though we have great relationship. Well...  I knew he...|||For me the feeling is mutual! The feeling of being able to be myself without the necessity of  watching every word, and without walking on eggshells is so consoling. Your open minds, full of fresh...|||Magnetic ENFJ- Huh? I would take one of any age! They don't want me though..  I see you took me wrong- I like old guys as friends, I'm not looking for a mate! LOL     They are always wise- so I...|||I don't know many of them: I have ENFP girlfriend - she is stable friend. I believe that we can nicely balance the small friendship breaks: her need for exploring someone new, and my need for some...|||I totally agree that  Fe-Fi differences are important. I hope it would be that easy thought! I feel automatically understood and connected to many Fi users. Then- attracted to many Fe users- just...|||It is a shared feeling- I do share it also, but I believe it is coming more from the uniqueness of our MBTI type. But- I love to attract old guys! They are fun, sweet, charming, safe, wise, I can...|||It is not something we do everyday- meeting in-laws  :-)   Prepare... Find out their likes and dislikes, Passions! Find a common grounds and focus on things you can like them for.  It will suffice...|||So try to look this way: Controlling emotion is our strength.   We have learned it for years, we KNOW it. People dont like when you tell them about weaknesses, not strengths.  So, when you call us...|||1. The lashing out- I can not talk for all INTJs, but I can lash out when some problem builds up for some time, and you touch it.  It may be something between me and you, but it may be some other...|||You think  that because you are  Fe user.  I totally agree with Statecraft Demystifier - when we are out of control - you should call us out. You look angry. Can we talk about it tomorrow?  -...|||:happy: Can not wait!   I believe I will like your NT style! I am NT as well  :happy:  I believe I know what you mean. I think it is incredibly hard to translate feelings into words, the way that...|||I'm polish too :wink:|||It is a song... Anita Lipnicka   Do you mind to share some of your poems?|||I knew/know only two ENTPs, so I'm looking forward to see what you are describing here- Very interesting observations! I would need to know more of ENTPs...   It is hard for me to even imagine what...|||That's how I see ENTPs- they are just perfect flirts! But they show clearly that this is just game, just for fun, sparing of forces between man domination over woman, and ( mostly:wink:) woman...|||This is spot on! Words of wisdom. Please continue|||One without the other is never good enough.  When you shoot for kindness- be wisely kind.  When you shoot for intelligence - do it kindly|||I'm still learning to accept it- definitely it is hard...   I believe that's the one of the reasons why people see INTJ as cold and non-emotional: When I see a big potential issue coming- I'm...|||Now I understand better why you are so great! Suffering ennobles? :laughing: Would you share how do you deal with it? I have ENFJ boss... I'm sure you relationship with your father is similar - with...|||I bet he adores you! I adore both my INFJ friends- They are not emotional neither dramatic, as INFJ filter Fe through N first. I find INFJs very  gentle and caring|||This is spot on :laughing:  As I value internal harmony I developed a system for this types of dilemmas. When my Feelings want something strongly, then my Ni takes over and calmly states: Brain,...|||INTJ forum and injustice?  ouch:laughing:|||It depends how healthy and open minded they are. Certainly we can learn some social norms and expectations. Some of them help us to develop our Fi better.   I have a hard time to find a common...|||Thank you Rozy96... You are such a beautiful soul! I believe that all 16 personality types possess great qualities and strenghts that make them unique- it takes very special person thought- too...|||This. Especially someone being unfair and shortsighted. Also- INTJ anger outbursts are never unexpected. For me the anger needs to build for a long time before being express,and  is not reaction...|||How the hell you got a picture of my mirror:laughing:  Love it :tongue:|||Thanks for those words. It really rings true to me. I believe that primary Fe users- when hurting themselves- are  just so focused on processing their pain, that they are not able to use any Ti in...|||Forced- huh? You used perfect word Booyou :laughing:  It is dangerous to force INTJ into something!  If other people would force me to be warm- they would get smiley Antarctic treatment. I'm...|||It depends.  With INFP and ENFP friends- you would feel my Fi- if we would be in one to one settings.    Generally- with a group of more people or neutral acquaintances: Well developed-Fi INTJ ...|||It is sad to hear, as I really like INFJs. I don't think you can make him a friend within a short time, we call friends people we can rely on, not the sweet talkers- if you are trying to be...|||I'm sorry- you are right.  1. I believe I have proven many times that I know who I'm talking to- so your statement, that you are not INTJ  is not necessary and disappointing 2. Answering honestly...|||Do you really doubt? how many times I have to prove myself?  ...  I know the answer... I don't need it.  It should be valuable to you What I need- is only open honest communication and mutual trust|||To understand your point it would be good to hear what does it mean to you?|||I have the same impression...   For me not-understandable was also waiting for someone loved ( or even expecting)  to be betrayed by existing gf/wife, with  purpose to be free|||Caring about someone's feelings, wants, thoughts, need and stated in the past needs is something else that caring just for idea of caring  Fe-type.   Honest talk would be nice. Or better- honest...|||I'm an old INTJ and I think you are incredibly wise for your age RexMaximus! You have much more information about the whole situation and a clear vision, and you should listen to your intuition. Like...|||It looks like this whole situation is hard on you... I feel for you...  I believe you have very good understanding of situation and you just need to get some distance first and prioritize what YOU...|||Happy about Nothing. -I really appreciate your response and your insight! It is so very helpful and I wish to talk to you and I don't know how... Let me tell you why:  ENFJ I'm talking about, knows...|||No worries, I know it takes time.  You'll be stronger and will do it one day! I'm sure you was thinking about your anxiety and depression a lot, and as you know yourself you know better than us how...|||I really appreciate your description about how ENFJs treat EMOTIONS -  I totally agree with it!   I had to take some time to understand why you took my words really different way that I intended,...|||GO FOR IT!   Block your thoughts, pretend it is not you, take chill pill, drink before, take a friend, do whatever you need and GO FOR AUDITION! any audition. YOU CAN DO IT!|||I see you are really down... though this may cheer you up a bit, this is a good description of ENFP ( ENFJ - in my opinion) man:  ...'