'I have an ESTJ friend whom I talk to every single day, whether it be through text messages, FB, IM, occasionally phone calls. We have never met in person. He is very rational and logical, and...|||My ex used to say Get over it! to me all the time whenever I would tell him about things that had upset me. Without even attempting to understand, he would just trivialise and invalidate my...|||To the OP  I think I can relate to how you are feeling. I have similar feelings too, in that I've always longed for a close meaningful relationship with someone (not necessarily Boyfriend type...|||The one theme I find in common here with INFP's in regards to casual sex is: The spectrum ranges from not enjoying casual sex through to enjoying it. But with every case, with every persons opinion,...|||Hmm im really not sure how i would describe my fashion sense, but I generally like things that are nicely fitted, nothing too flashy but not boring either. Simplicity with appropriate embellishments....|||Ideally i'd prefer the temperature to be just right. But if i had to pick between a hot season and a cold season, i would prefer a cold season. I find it easier and nicer to rug up and keep warm in...|||I can't remember if I've posted in this thread or not. :-) But yup, I'm gay too. Only ever been in one relationship, but then again, Im not too sure if it was really a relationship or not because...|||In queensland here :-)|||wow so much has already been said, but I'll chip in..  Initially i never bought into the whole LOL thing. I thought it was a bit odd, considering if you did find something funny, you would just...|||I agree wholeheartedly with everything thats been previously mentioned. I can also empathise with the OP because I tend to do the same things also. In my case I think the reason i tend to embellish...|||As much as I appreciate traditional and historical designs, I would say my style would be more along the lines of simplistic modernity. I have a really big emphasis towards clean, smooth flat...|||If you liked them how would you react if they didnt say it upfront? If I had reason to believe that they liked me, but didnt say it, I would probably watch for all signs and continually monitor the...|||Like the OP, I do believe that we're able to feel just as passionately and strongly about our negative emotions and feelings as our positive. By default, I am a positive person, and hence justifiably...|||I have this really bad habit of saying Hey! instead of Hello to people. Its like I find Hello too formal and yet Hey! is far too casual. I need to find some sort of middle ground.  Usually...|||The reason i want to be able to disconnect the emotions from the physicality of sex is because I had some bad experiences that have had a long lasting traumatising effect on me. And so whenever I...|||Although I've tested as INFP, and even though the descriptions and behaviours of INFP's are scarily accurate, I've felt that the INFP type didn't quite encompass everything I am.   So I went back...|||Im not a very argumentative person, but when i do get into arguments, its one of the two reasons: 1) an attempt to make the other person understand a certain point of view. not trying to make them...|||I think a big problem with INFP's is that we have a certain ideal of what we would find attractive or of what perfection is. And yet when we look at reality, when we look at ourselves in the mirror,...|||Firstly i'll agree with all the previously mentioned posts.  From my experiences, once someone breaches my trust, it takes a very very long time for me to get past it. I had a close friend break my...|||I find i use casual sex more as a tool for purposes other than to simply receive pleasure. eg. a way to break the ice and establish some sort of emotional connection, for purposes of phsyical and...|||There were a lot of movies that i really liked but these are some of the ones that left a really good impression in my mind:  1) Stardust (my absolute fav movie) 2) Scott Pilgrim vs the World 3)...|||If im completely honest, to me, sex is nothing more than a 'tool'. Perhaps i feel that way because of the experiences i've been through. I've had casual sex before and it hasn't really bothered me...|||oh god, i've had so many embarrassing moments lol and my family is the type that never lets me live it down.  In primary school, I was sitting in class and i started getting a really bad stomach...|||You sir are quite similar to how i was. As a teenager like you, i was the kid that everyone liked, but nobody loved. I could socialise group to group and be accepted into any group, but i never...|||Well normally when im out with friends, every now and then i'll step out of the action for a bit, and either just listen to and digest conversation, or if we're partying i'll go and sit down myself...|||Yup thats me. Im quite reserved most of the times. i truly dont think anyone really knows the true me and what im capable of (good or bad).   Its funny sometimes, when someone thinks im totally...|||- Age: 24 - Gender: Male - Sexual orientation: Gay - Age when you lost your virginity: 21  - Number of Partners: 9  - Any thoughts, feelings or stories on the subject: It was an unplanned...|||Your Test Results  Your Sociotype: IEI -1Fe (INFp)  Other Possible Types     EIE (ENFj): 72% as likely as IEI.|||I think for me, it really depends on the social situation, as i think i tend to bounce between being ENFP and INFP. By default though, when im by myself, Im INFP.|||+1 with everything thats already said  Be approachable, show him that he can trust you. Don't ask him about something if you don't genuinely want to know about what he has to say. Be truthful. In...|||oh wow. That is the exact same situation I am in with a friend of mine. I've had a crush on him ever since i laid eyes on him, and early on in our friendship, I said it to him straight that I really...|||Ok so i've been thinking a lot lately, and wondering why I'm friends with or attracted to certain people. I'm beginning to think that a lot of the male friends that i have and keep in regular contact...|||Sorry to bring up an old thread, but i've looked into a lot of my dreams as well. For a few years i was pretty depressed, and i would have all these long complex and random dreams all the times, some...|||I think i might actually be in the minority here, and i hope i dont get judged for it, but yes i have knowingly cheated on my BF. But for me, i did it because it was more of a metaphorical slap in...|||Okay well im not a girl so i dont know how closely i can relate but a few things personally:  As an INFP, i really just want authenticity, genuineness and loyalty. I would rather you tell me the...|||*SECONDED* :-D  i use emoticons  A LOT for that exact reason :-p|||Ouch.. my eyes hurt. The suns so bright. oh look birds. they're making quite a lot of noise. They sound like seagulls. I like the beach. I really enjoyed that time that i went to that island. That...|||ENFP  Happy  Anxious|||For me it depends on the time of day and my mood. I can be upbeat and extraverted and outgoing depending on who im with and the social occasion. But apart from that, being extroverted is quite...|||I dont really have a problem with porn, but i actually find it a bit boring. The only times i would watch it would be when there seems to be an emotional connection between two people. Like when it...|||When i was younger, I couldn't bear having someone yell at me, especially someone who i looked up to or had authority. In both primary school and highschool, it wouldnt matter how big or small the...|||My biggest fear is being alone, and that everything around me was never real to begin with.|||I find that i question the motives of people when they're nice to me without any explicit reason. I wonder why they'd want to be friends with me and i wonder what i have to offer them. And then when...|||Yeah that sounds similar to me as well. When i was younger i used to be more confident, carefree, and outgoing. I would probably describe myself as that 'loveable annoying little brat who's always...|||When you're always hoping, wishing and imagining something to happen, instead of actually going out and making something happen.  When you actively search for books or films that will make you...|||Gay INFP male. Always kinda felt like the odd one out.|||Hmm its really quite interesting this thread. I'm an INFP and my boyfriend/friend/best friend is an ENFJ. We met through work and to be honest it was really more of a chance coincidence than anything...|||:-) hii i guess im pretty new here. not sure what to expect.|||I'm a Type 6 with 7 Wing.|||Im not going to lie. I think about death and dieing all the time. I wouldn't say i was suicidal, in the sense that I probably wouldnt attempt to kill myself, but i do have thoughts like i wish a bus...'