'Just because I think/act differently than you, it doesn't mean that either of us are wrong.  Calling me dramatic or overemotional is not helping you win me over.|||That I can't just automatically flip a switch and trust you just because you're forcing me to|||Pet Peeves in General : Disrespect for others, Entitled Attitudes (expecting to get something from someone without earning it or giving back), Gossip (especially in the workplace), using/taking the...|||Ice skating might be fun for a winter-time date, it could be an activity you learn together or one that you could teach each other. I'm a sucker for activities that create bonding or fun memories.|||I deactivated mine last Spring and I don't miss it. It just became overwhelming at times, and it seemed like most of the people I knew were merely trying to one up each other, and would make up...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zRSSfw97XY   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cvnk_DSUq3E   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_20CTa043IA  What's on my playlist today. Kajada, thought you'd...|||That's seriously one of my favorite go to songs! It's actually one of the few I can replay multiple times without getting irritated.|||That's exactly what's beginning to terrify me. I've grown and matured and just because he may be jealous or feel that he missed out doesn't mean that it's MY problem. I'm not compromising on these...|||I think you discovered the levels of my thinking pattern regarding all this. First, I tried to figure out where he was coming from and what his pattern of thinking may be different from mine and...|||ISFP and started out in Early Childhood Education, then switched to Legal studies. Received an Associate's as a Paralegal. Working at an accounting office and a group leader in an elementary level...|||ferroequinologist & Ajaz  It feels like textbook narcissism right? When I first started this thread, I thought I was the one that did something wrong by having boundaries, but now as this thread...|||You and I are on that same plane of confusion. He won't even give me a straight answer when I ask him directly. He's said he doesn't know, or tells me that I SHOULD KNOW or that it's something I...|||In communicating, I've suggested compromising, I've tried suggesting that he approach me differently and explained how I am when it comes to logic/emotion. He immediately took it the wrong way and...|||I'll have to look up that blog. I've read about healthy boundaries and I agree fully with what you've said. I didn't fully trust him yet when he started digging at me. I don't know what spurred it,...|||It's nice to hear your perspective as a different personality type. I really understand what you're saying and during the beginning of all of this, I truly didn't mind telling him about my past and...|||Kajada  We must have grown up in the same era. LOL Some of those are my go-to songs as well. I always said that BB and TDG need to tour together, would be the best concert ever! I also love...|||I keep seeing that phrase thrown around on here. I really need to look it up to find out what it means and determine if I've been in one or am getting myself into one.|||Kajada  You realize I'm going to be blasting that in my car at some point today? I'm totally a 90's brat too, been listening to a ton of Goo Goo Dolls and Matchbox 20 lately. I have to throw in a...|||I wouldn't worry about that. I've never seen any of that type of red flag from him, but I'm sensing more emotional manipulation and narcissism. I'm literally on the edge of fight or flight, and...|||Been so hyperemotional lately. Zoning out any time I have a quiet moment and stressing out the rest of the time. Just want some peace and quiet alone instead of catering to everyone around me.|||That's the conclusion I'm getting at too. I've tried everything from my side to repair what trust may have been broken but I'm starting to realize that I was focusing on the wrong problem. I'm...|||ferroequinologist  Exactly. As soon as I open up, this is what happens to me. Even though he claims not to judge my past mistakes, he's trying to take advantage of what he now knows. (Even after I...|||ferroequinologist & Ajaz We talked again last night and I discovered that he's jealous of my past because I lived out some of the things that he's always wanted to. He's upset because I didn't feel...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FJa2Pc1ufjI|||ferroequinologist & Ajaz  You guys are probably right. Especially about the checking out without blame thing. It crossed my mind at one point too, him trying to look like the victim or something. I...|||LOL, I was just agreeing with you about how most of the cars are riced out. I wasn't saying these two in particular were. I'm just partial to Mazda and Nissan. :wink:|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3JZRBVaAJF0  What I'm listening to currently. I love acoustic versions of songs.   ...|||632154  632162  Definitely Riced out but I'd still take either of these or a GTR. Only time I can listen to any F&F soundtrack music is when I'm driving.|||What sucks the most is that when we're good, we're great. But it's like ever since he started digging for dirt, it's gone downhill way too quickly and I don't think it has much to do with WHAT I told...|||First, I loved the Tokyo drift soundtrack! LOL And the paint color affecting the horsepower? HAHAHAHA!!!!! Totally reminds me of those people that put the stick on vents and cheap park bench spoilers...|||Thanks to everyone for their insight. I just feel at a loss now, wondering if he really wanted to get to know me or try to knock me down a few pegs. :sad:|||Ultio  Well, I spent the weekend trying to talk to him and he flat out told me that he didn't care about my emotional ties to the things I had done or that my emotions guide me. Pretty much...|||I used to play NFS underground 1&2 all the time. Carbon was okay too but never played the Most Wanted series.|||I think a lot of the time, I deal with conflicting emotions. Kind of like the head/heart playing tug of war. Sometimes it's more than one emotion at a time which gets overwhelming, like I'm drowning...|||The red spirit  Great, you've reawakened my urge to play NFS now. :smiley-cool13:|||Ajaz  Like I said, I was rebelling in my youth because I didn't like having to fit into a box. I felt like I was different in a sense and was sick of everything being planned and structured for me...|||ferroequinologist  What you've said has resonated with me on a core level. I'm one of those that got good grades in school because I simply memorized the important answers or the discussion points....|||As an ISFP, one of our main problems is that we fear criticizing or hurting others. So it's extremely tough for me to confront any issues that I have without the crippling fear that he'll get angry...|||Ajaz  I'm not saying I disagree with you. I believe in being honest too. However, when do the questions cross the line and become invasive? I can give a rounded number to the amount of people that...|||You totally get me! This is exactly what I've been experiencing internally throughout this entire ordeal. I really just want to be accepted and feel fully loved, especially since I started peeling...|||It isn't that I don't want to communicate with him, it's more along the lines that he seems only interested in the facts and logic of what I've revealed but refuses to discuss further when I tell him...|||I can definitely see what you're getting at. Strangely, compromise comes easily to me in all other aspects of my life, but this is like being a fish out of water. Maybe if I can persuade him to read...|||I really think I do, even though I've never been fully diagnosed. Doctors tend to think my diagnosis is tilted more towards depression than anxiety and I don't agree, nor do I like antidepressants. ...|||I was reading about the asking/sharing theory before and I can see where it fits in here. I think directed at me, he's more of an asker but he has already volunteered information without my asking or...|||As a child, my favorites consisted of Disney movies of course. :smile-new: I also remember the Disney channel original movies that they showed on the weekends.   As an adolescent, I started getting...|||I'm new to the forum, but have been typed as an ISFP as long as I can remember. The main reason I decided to join and post on the forum is the hope that maybe I can get some much needed insight into...'