'potentially the most dangerous man in the world|||wow this thread is old..|||After being on several dates recently that haven't materialized into anything, I'm starting to feel the same way.|||Are you sure he's not an INFJ?|||It's okay to be a bit weird or eccentric.  I use to obsess over trying to be normal.  The more normal I acted, the less I was accepted by those around me, and the more I use to beat myself up...|||I'm hot and cold even with my cat.|||My life is actually quite a lot easier than a lot of other's that I know.|||ask him a bunch of questions.  eventually he'll have to say something to avoid seemig rude.|||Me calling my coworker's wife (who also works at the same office), who also is newly pregnant.       Me: do u know derwin? joann: yes me: are you his....friend..? joann: yes i am his friend...|||I would want my partner to be happy, whether it's with or without me.  I don't feel entitled to anyone's company that can be happier elsewhere.  And I'm definitely not the type to hold on to someone...|||Offer still stands.|||What I've observed on these forums is a pretty obvious disdain for people that are mistyped as INFJs.  Take a look at the most thanked posts on this thread and you can see evidence of that.  I...|||Both are terrible.  If I were to choose I'd say my long term memory is better.|||Judging from how he's finding ways to talk with you and spend time with you, I think he's atleast exploring the idea of starting a relationship with you.  Unfortunately with INFPs, we kind of have a...|||Unfortunately, putting attraction above everything else hasn't exactly done much good in finding a partner.  I feel like the people that are in successful relationships are able to cultivate...|||wow this was an embarrassing thread.. (I made this 4 years ago.)|||I think we heal ourselves, which although true for me,is a bit depressing.|||Seems to be the case for me.  Until they find out that I'm nice to everyone.|||Without attraction, compatibility and complementary factors become somewhat..irrelevant.  Otherwise everyone would be dating their friends.|||I think he likes you, but may not know what to do at this point.  I think INFPs in general are very cautious about entering a relationship because we agonize on whether we are in the right state to...|||that's freaking awesome lol So that's what a happy INFP looks like!|||People respect you about as much as you respect yourself.  Given that INFPs are often self deprecating and have low self esteem, I can see why a lot of people don't give us the benefit of the doubt. ...|||I'm not driven by desire to succeed or to achieve anything.  The only thing that drives me is my quest to be a decent person.  This is the only thing that matters in my life.  I refuse to partake in...|||We definitely aren't the most hated type.  I think INFPs in general can get along with most anyone because of our avoidance of conflict.  I will say that INFPs are probably among the most...|||I find that the women that are attracted to me are either the assertive/dominant or the girl that wants to fix someone.  Neither type I'm attracted to.  I don't want someone to think of me as someone...|||Hey there stranger :P  I remember you from when I first joined PerC several years ago.  I always felt you were cheerful, intelligent, and wise beyond your years.  Look at the amount of thanks you...|||I think I take a lot of risks.  I've always wanted to go bungee jumping or sky diving.  At that velocity it would guarantee a painless death.  In terms of taking risks of the social variety, I'm very...|||LOL.  It's true.  I never know what thoughts those female dragons have inside their heads.  Very mysterious indeed.  InSolitude I see you have revealed yourself.|||I'm definitely guilty of this.  I think more perceivers are guilty of this, but maybe INFPs more so?  I don't know, but I know that for myself I am extremely lazy.  I want to get shit done, but...|||well this happened yesterday after I was stepping out from the mall and into the parking lot, a car drives up beside me, and a lady asks if she can have my parking space.  I said sure and proceeded...|||I was a very tame child.  I rarely cried or threw tantrums.  I also wasn't very needy. I remember playing by myself a lot as a kid.  I use to have these action figures that I would play with for...|||I was diagnosed as ADHD a few years ago (Inattentive).  I have a VERY hard time concentrating on anything really.  Even movies I find myself drifting off.  My manager also tells me that I daydream a...|||I think of myself as shy but other people think I'm pretty outgoing (sometimes).  What they DO think i am is awkward.  I'd rather be labelled shy.|||Stressed, angry, distraught.  I feel like I'm doing a good job at work but my boss had put on OFF track for our mid year review because of a couple of cases that I handled poorly.  I agree with their...|||I once killed a man.   I can see someones flaws and devalue them because of it.  The flaws can be frivolous, like if someone says i watch anything, I listen to anything etc.  I can project one...|||Trusting the vast majority of people is not truth though, it's a leap of faith.  And well, I actually do love Nietzche haha.  He was a pessimist for certain, but I appreciated his courage to have a...|||I give everyone the benefit of the doubt.  It's quite naive and I've been burned in the past, but what is life if you cant trust anyone?  I feel like the world is a lot different than it is in my...|||Pretty certain this guy has borderline personality disorder.|||I hope Donald Trump doesn't become president.  Though he'd shake up the political system, that is not a reason to overlook the fact that he is narcissistic asshole who knows nothing about politics....|||I'm actually pretty decent at flirting.  I'm not all that good at one liners, but I'm pretty shameless with eye contact.|||I typically do not get along with people very well. I'm awkward, which means that the more I interact with someone, the more uncomfortable I will make them feel, which in turn paints me as the office...|||I've been thinking about this a lot.  My ideal world is one in which case everyone has unconditional love for every one else.  That is completely unrealistic and has proven to had never existed, but...|||A moral that I hold dear is to respect other people's opinions.  I do not hold my own beliefs higher than anyone else's on the surface.  The world doesn't need to adopt my perspective on life.  But...|||I think the reason we seem inauthentic when speaking about something we dont believe in is due to our Fi.  When we dont believe in something, it feels forced to pretend that we do.  This,...|||When I'm fucked up that's the real me, when I'm fucked up that's the real me   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yzTuBuRdAyA|||My high standards means lots of failed relationships, and they almost always crash and burn because because I hold on to relationships way past their expiration date.  It's easy for me to let go of...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1OTWCd40bc|||I've been talking to a girl for the last few weeks.  We met a couple times. Got intimate once.  Well needless to say I started to really like this girl, but she just wanted me as her personal f*ck...|||For all you INFPers out there!  On a scale from 1-10 how:  1. Happy are you?  5  2. Socially skilled are you?|||Ever since I was young I would look to tomorrow,  hoping things would be different, somehow Now that I've aged quite a bit,  I realize that tomorrow brings nothing different than yesterday Now I...'