'Getting laid off definitely did it. Besides that, I can't remember the last time I cried. I am known to cry if I am extremely angry, though (but this is also as rare as crying).|||INTJ lurker here (of course I'm lurking ENFP forums :happy:)  The same intense connection sure exists between me and an ENFP male. In fact, the first time around we weren't even ready for the...|||I definitely experience this, but the extremity of it has varied throughout my life. As a kid, it was horrible - primarily because parental/teacher authority is nothing more than do what I say...|||INTJ lurker.  I'm not sure what to offer you as concrete advice to fix this, but I have the same problem. I've been called a know-it-all, strong willed and, on those rare nice occasions,...|||There is certainly a difference between living somewhere and traveling there (or worse yet, just relying on an overall impression of a place without ever actually visiting).  I've been lucky to...|||When words of encouragement mean nothing (eg: You'll do great! I believe in you!) and you'd rather hear practical, rational advice as to how to kick ass at whatever you're about to do (job...|||1. Argentina 2. Italy 3. France 4. Colombia 5. Spain 6. Brazil 7. Germany 8. Peru 9. Bolivia 10. Chile|||It's extremely hard to say because reliable sources do not use MBTI as a true measure of personality. And I'm not sure any reliable sources have done extensive research on this with a large enough...|||Your relationship with your INTJ sounds like could be going great places, congrats!   I am dating my first ENFP and I can say I am very satisfied so far. Unlike almost all the pairings I've read...|||My first college class that I went to had a total of 715 students. That was more than 5 times the size of my high school- talk about overwhelming as a freshman!|||I certainly would in a heartbeat if all of my family wasn't against it and there wasn't a strong financial consequence. I still might, but... that's a decision I'll have to make.  You're on to...|||Refreshed, sure. Although, I doubt it will cure my wanderlust/make me feel satisfied. I'm worried it will do just the opposite - make me dream of living/work abroad whilst I sit in my depressing cube...|||Well, my finances are a lot better off than the average recent graduate. But I do want to be responsible with my money too. What do you mean by getting a job ASAP? Getting a job with benefits/job...|||Do most NT's think this way when it comes to dating and relationships? I, for the life of me, can't think about love purely from an emotional standpoint. Obviously it's never purely rational, but if...|||The average person probably doesn't think it's a huge deal, but recruiters and hiring managers I'd imagine are judgmental about this. Hence why they always are so big about explaining gaps in your...|||Right now my current obsession is teaching myself rioplatense Spanish and lunfardo slang. It's a very specific dialect of Spanish in Argentina.|||Can this be done in-between jobs later on as well without the resume gap counting against you?   And, how do you explain to dispassionate employers who work 9-5 everyday that you just had to leave...|||Here's some feedback, but I wouldn't say it's what you should use entirely for the application. Given that I don't know you or your goals, I can't elaborate on any of the questions. Good luck! ...|||You gave absolutely no effort to that. Give us your best BS'ed responses and then maybe we can give you more feedback.|||At first I chose my major because of a subject I was passionate about studying/liked, and then I picked a career field that I would like (that required graduated school). Then, my junior year of...|||Hmm. Yeah, I was envisioning doing soul searching now or while job searching before jumping into anything. I could take a temp. or contract job though I suppose. Finding it within a niche like this...|||accidental duplicate post.|||These are really good pointers for job searching long-distance. Would putting my willingness to relocate on the first line be better than the last? If I put it first, I could risk employers throwing...|||Numbers 1 and 2 are really good pointers for job searching long-distance. Would putting my willingness to relocate on the first line be better than the last? If I put it first, I could risk employers...|||There's a few jobs within your postings that are fitting, but I'm looking to work outside of academia in an applied setting. Almost everything I've applied for has been within business or...|||Talking on the phone. I jump when my phone rings because I'm never mentally prepared to socialize nor to respond to the many potential directions the conversation could potentially take.  (I'm a...|||So I should go about this soul-search before I even start creating my job search strategy?  I'm looking to go into business analytics and/or research. I already have a lot of research experience...|||In that case, do the abroad program for sure while you're still in engineering. Or, if you prefer, look into other program options. There are several out there. As for the engineering vs. psychology...|||Number 10 is one of my problems. I need to have experience before I'm able to even get any.  Other than that, the majority of those tips are common sense.|||I bolded some things to point out that you seem to know what you want, but you're afraid. I don't blame you, but it seems like you really do know what you want.  Based on what you've said, I were...|||I'm hoping to get advice from those who have done long-distance job searching both domestically and internationally. I have read so much about the topic online and have my resume perfected (including...|||Wait, no one has added to the list yet? Well let me be the first :happy:  The person who doesn't say much, but when he/she speaks, he/she either says something downright hilarious or very...|||Good for you!! That's a tough thing to do and a hard situation to deal with, but time will make it easier (I know that sounds cliche). Working out and doing other hobbies is good. When you start...|||This sounds identical to my last relationship (or really, a limbo state that never evolved into more); he was also INTP. You said it yourself: it's all or nothing. Your emotions will overwhelm you...|||Given your situation I would probably take the same approach. Sometimes prioritizing other things before loans is necessary or beneficial. Although, I do have to say that it feels really good when...|||I think I'm going to try that out this week! I've bought so many books on the dialect of Spanish I'm interested in and it feels pretty limiting. I honestly wish I was still living there because then...|||I've come to notice two main themes when it comes to giving advice about student loans. The first group will advice living like a student and doing everything to can to pay it off in full ASAP...|||I do a lot more flirting via text and Facebook than in person. If I like someone, I'll tease/flirt with him a lot via text.   Assuming the person I'm dating is receptive, I'll also start or get...|||Apparently I'm only responding to language-related threads today...  1. Your mother tongue: English. And I fully understand how lucky this makes me in certain circumstances. 1.1 Languages you can...|||Yo recientemente descubrí la palabra chepibe mientras estudiando lunfardo. Es una palabra graciosa porque la origen de la palabra es de che y pibe - dos palabras muuuy estereotípico de los...|||Leadership  Strategic/Strategy Circle back Touch base Look into  and any other jargon/BS rhetoric you here in the professional world, really.|||Favorite subjects: courses on research, statistics, psychology, sociology. I also really liked the thinking involved in the physics course I took in university.  Least favorite: Art, music,...|||Temporarily, sure. Although, sometimes years pass you by quickly whilst living the 9-5 work-life.  I've never stayed somewhere I truly didn't like for a long time. I tend to view all jobs as...|||I apologize for my super late response, I just got very caught up with traveling and other things going on so I didn't make it online too much. I understand having a strong preference for a real...|||ENTP men: Are you a cuddly person? Even with someone you've been dating for a couple months.  I've dated 2 ENTPs before one was the least affectionate guy I'd ever met and the one I'm dating now is...|||I wouldn't say I was confident in traveling alone before I did it for the first time. In fact, before I traveled alone, I wasn't really comfortable doing much of anything alone aside from grocery...|||The last two men I've dated were ENTP's, and one of my best friends is an ENTP. In all of these relationships, we've just clicked on a mental level. I think we connect with the NT similarity, and...|||Hi there! I'm a borderline INTP/INTJ (I've tested this way since I was about 12). I was very avoidant of social interaction as a teen; I didn't care about dating or even friendship outside of my best...|||Which one would you prefer?   Also, what kind of travel-related topics/writings intrigue you the most?|||It happens a lot to me, but I purposely don't give much effort so it's often times only awkward for them.'