'Congrats, Spades. You are just TOO awesome. And give a hug to Jeff for me. =D|||Congrats, girl!|||I am certainly the same way. It nearly seems like an insult, in that, of all the things about me as an individual they have chosen to remark upon my physical appearance, which is what I value least...|||I wonder too if the nature of the relationships is also a factor. Typically, a parent will halt any discussions with a child that begin to turn into a power struggle, whereas a friend is on more even...|||Welcome to the forum.|||Photographic Height/Weight Chart - 5'1 100 pounds  I'm 100lbs even.|||I wondering if there's been a shower accident.|||Mode, median and standard deviation for the age brackets would be telling as well since I think the age brackets create an artificial grouping that probably isn't reflective of the demographics, but...|||I wouldn't at all say that I'm boring and I've not ever been referred to as such that I can recall. I do get bored with people though, I will admit that. I enjoy a challenge to keep me stimulated....|||Congrats, knght!|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rrvk1bmTayg|||If the current state of the relationship fulfills the function he's looking for at the moment, then it is entirely possible that he might not see a long-term future in it while still deciding to...|||I really like that the house is semi-hidden and incorporated into the landscape, that it's the starting place of an epic adventure, that it's warm and cozy, that it's very tidy, and that it has many...|||Ahmenrah....I'm nearly the size of a hobbit....LOL Besides, refer to the description of the house...|||http://www.tenchford.com/_images/Hobbitvisit.jpg|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Zj55gaAgM4|||I used to be more prone to wanting things to be perfect, but I've relaxed this over the years. Now I am more selective in what I put a lot of time and effort into as far as making each detail just...|||Thinking about haters...fascinating lot they are.|||YouTube - Iron Maiden - Hallowed Be Thy Name (Live at Ullevi)|||Everything is pretty damn good today. :happy:|||I tend to feel like I am an observer and analyzer. So, particularly when I feel really awful emotionally, I tend to explore it with my mind. I listen to my self-dialogue and analyze what the basis is...|||I just saw this last night. It was pretty good. I didn't find it difficult to follow at all. At the end it was perfectly clear what was really going on. However, I will say that I found all the...|||1) Music preference?  Deep, meaningful lyrics and powerful sounds  2) Television preference?  Kill your TV  3) How do you handle failure?|||I enjoy black and surreal/absurd humour. People have already mentioned a few comedians that fit these genres (George Carlin and Woody Allen). I'll add Christopher Durang, who's play Why Torture is...|||YouTube - Iron Maiden - Can I play with madness (studio version)|||I'm bored. :( In fact, I'm so bored I don't even want to do anything - which makes no sense, but there it is. I think the logical thing to do is get up and do something...so here I...|||I only hang out with people on a one-to-one basis 98% of the time. I try to keep in touch with friends as best I can, but I find that I feel overwhelmed at times by obligations to hang out. I find...|||So after having said what I did originally, I find myself being ardently pursued by someone I suspect is an ENFJ. :shocked:  It's been overwhelming and I've had to ask him to back off a bit. Not...|||Typically I'm the pursuer and so I always thought that I'd like to be pursued. Recently, I met a guy that is strongly pursuing me.....I'm a bit intimidated by the role reversal tbh.|||My son is an ENTP. He's brilliant, funny, charming and an original thinker. He is also very annoying at times. What I have found over the years is that he has given me some of my greatest...|||I mostly wear: jeans, cargo pants, chinos, shorts, t-shirts, hoodies, cardigans, button-up long-sleeve shirts, tennis shoes, flip-flops, and pant suits when necessary.   I do not wear: dresses,...|||Whoohoooo! :happy:|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Udd-5g08U7o|||Other people have say that I think too much, but I think I think the right amount. I used to not be able to sleep sometimes because I'd be thinking too much, but I don't anymore. I just tell myself...|||http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3650/3325862580_ee4f3e5513.jpg  no me borres de tu vida, yo puedo amarte en silencio  ...|||Everyone has flaws, yet everyone wants to be loved. Perhaps the best route is to have compassion for others and the flaws that they have rather than out and out reject them completely. It could be...|||Sometimes all you can do is make sure your behavior is in line with your personal values. It feels great when you can exert influence over others and change a situation to make it what you believe it...|||You have to be able to talk things out. Conflict happens. Without the ability to discuss things nothing can be resolved. Yeah, I have no choice, but to drop it. It's hard for me because I hate to...|||http://mediatedspace.files.wordpress.com/2009/02/plenty-of-emptiness-76x76cm-20073.jpg|||I think the best way to handle it would depend on the person that is stuck on you. When people have had crushes on me that I couldn't reciprocate I broke all contact even when I knew it was really...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_mDUGGlEbnQ|||Welcome to the forum.   I think that all of us, regardless of type, could do well to learn how to better deal with manipulative and/or aggressive people. There are quite a few good books available...|||Pancakes.....not so much, but waffles, oh hell ya! :laughing:|||I agree. Also, we can be interested in nearly anything. Right now I'm very interested in people, social dynamics, psychology, human behavior, etc. Sometimes people get confused and say, You have so...|||Wow! :shocked:  I think I just had an encounter with an INFJ that was like this too. In fact, this is exactly how I would describe them. I was so shocked at how much they needed to self-protect and...|||I require a deep connection with a person who's character appeals to me and who's soul speaks to me. The relationship must serve a clear purpose and enrich my life in some way.|||If they are wrong, don't care, and want to hurt me then my shield of indifference is up. Think about it. There is no next move at that point.|||If you ask him directly, he will probably answer you honestly and directly. I would.|||Well said. We are just different in how we go about it and sometimes that can turn people off to us.|||Yes. It seems unnecessary and redundant to announce I'm leaving. What's more it would mean having to go through all the 'staged' conversation surrounded leaving. OK, I think I'm going to head out....'