'I'd be shocked if the guy wasn't into you based on what you said, especially if your friends are seeing it too.  But, you also said he was engaged, she left, and he was really hurt by that. It...|||Well, we are sitting here trying to pick a wedding date and just logged on to PerC to see the date of the first message I sent her :) Then I saw the notification about this thread, haha.  To answer...|||I don't see how taking back someone who cheated on you is even a question for people. I've never heard of a relationship that was awesome before someone decided to break the biggest trust issue that...|||I see. I guess for me, I view programming small side apps or plugins as more true passive income unlike the kind of internet marketing and entrepreneurship that I know you and I are both more than...|||I'm curious why you say this, as it seems like programming is the perfect job for being location independent? Perhaps not if you work at Initech, I suppose, and I guess it also depends on the type of...|||I'm sure he is very genuine in what he is saying. And it is possible that this person is your soulmate or whatever.  But what is WAY more possible is that he is in the honeymoon phase and is...|||I'm guessing she doesn't really want your logic. She wants you to just be there as a shoulder to cry on. She doesn't want to hear the answer, she just wants to be emotional and feel accepted for it...|||I'm from New Jersey. I say Howyoudoin?, 1 word, and the expected reply back is Howyoudoin.  Now that I live in Texas, this happens quite a bit:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffUDDYYIX04|||Nope. I make it a habit to not think about my last ex; she is my ex for a reason. The other was long ago and I simply don't think about her any longer, because I also made it a habit to stop thinking...|||I can barely stand the mess, but I haven't had the desire to tidy it up and clear everything off lately. I imagine it will go back to being very organized this weekend though.  65664|||There isn't any job I've come across that screams HEY INFP PEOPLE! This job that will work for all of you gives you tons of time, freedom, money, as much interaction with other people as you want at...|||I used to procrastinate like crazy, and I think it is really important to understand the root of procrastination and why you do it.  Underneath everything, you are making the connection in your...|||Damnit, that caught me off guard and I'm at work. Luckily I think I stifled the laugh in time.  As for the original post, a lot of restaurant waste has creative uses. You don't know that it is all...|||Just had to say I really like your work. Very creative :) I didn't expect to like it so much when I saw the first picture in your gallery at a glance, but then I looked closer and kept going.|||It's ok to be your own person :) You don't have to fit every stereotype about what an INFP is. No one here does, and many people here are an enigma to themselves still. It's ok; it's all part of a...|||As Laeona posted in a much sweeter way than I will be, you have a choice here. The issue is about your attitude. Your first sentence puts it out there that you feel entitled to a job because you need...|||For me, it is freaking awesome being with my INFP.  For other people, it might be miserable.  It all depends on who you are and what you need in a relationship, and who the other person is and...|||Have you gotten on LinkedIn and networked with people in fields you want to work in? Introduced yourself to people who run the groups based on those jobs, and asked if they would take a moment to...|||I can totally relate to this. In fact my story is pretty much spot on. My parents divorced when I was 5, and I moved around a lot before settling down around 10 years old. I started to crack a little...|||Today has gone swimmingly. I installed a solid state drive into my computer, loaded Windows on it, upgraded all my software to the latest editions, and then capped the night off by watching my Devils...|||Over. Seeing it under annoys me, but I wouldn't say I freak out over it.  Luckily I don't have this issue as we removed our toilet paper holder since it kept hitting my leg, and the roll instead...|||I was a very big fan of this article when I read it a few days ago. I wouldn't say it is the entirety of what life is all about, but everything listed certainly is a harsh truth that you need to (or...|||I think long distance relationships only make sense if you know you have the means to meet and then possibly make it a regular relationship very quickly (within about 6 months at the most probably),...|||For the first time in 4 years working at my current job, I can feel my mind and body revolting against me and wanting to force me to quit.  The thing that scares me is I think unless something...|||Perhaps you should learn to pace yourself a bit? Saying Well this is just how I am and considering yourself hypocritical for thinking to do something different is silly.  There is no reason to...|||I think there is some mistaking of confidence with ego. They are two separate things.  Confidence exudes from you from your state of being. This is not to say that you can't fake it, but you also...|||I'd love to see them do the sequels around the Thrawn trilogy. That'd be absolutely perfect.  As for all the talk from everyone on the internet about Disney possibly ruining it, I'm trying to...|||You don't have to be a jerk to get girls to like you. In fact, while you might get lucky being a jerk and acting manipulative, you certainly won't find love that way.  I feel like there is a...|||It sounds to me like you simply need to develop yourself more. I think you will never be able to live with another person until you start attending to your own needs. At that point, it simply won't...|||Thank you for posting that. It saved me all the time. I actually have that video on my list of things to watch again soon, maybe now will be a good time.  For those that clearly have more knowledge...|||I think you should stick with the link listed above about supporting a victim of domestic abuse and leave it at that. You can't talk her into leaving him, nor should you. Sadly, she is going to have...|||That reminds me of The Man Show when Jimmy Kimmel would start talking to guys who came into the bathroom, saying stuff like You call that a penis? Not sure I could hold a straight face through...|||I don't mind the stereotypes, though I do think this forum gets filled with way too many Do all INFPs -blank-? I think many of those threads can be opportunities for other INFPs, especially older...|||I never really had a problem with the urinal, but it used to really bother me that other people could hear me when I'd be in a stall.  Then I realized: I never know anyone else in the bathroom 99%...|||It sounds to me like you are grappling with the same insecurities most people feel when they start to fall for someone else. The most important thing I can say is do not make decisions for her. By...|||Everyone should put headphones on and turn them up to max volume before listening to any of these. It's the only way to truly feel the raw power of all of them in my opinion.  ...|||You have asked this question so many times now. You know everyone's answers. The people responding have been both soft, kind, and nice, and they have also been straight-forward and hard on you...|||This one is up to you. You are going to have to follow through if you really mean what you say in that you will do anything to avoid a dead end office job; this includes working at McDonald's if you...|||Hey man :) 2012 has been insane. Laura and I spent the first 4 months busting our asses hoping to get out of Houston by summer but it was just too much too soon. Since we are constantly doing so...|||I am very anxiously awaiting my Samsung Galaxy S3 with AT&T. The phone cost only $150 upgrading through Amazon Wireless (I was eligible for the 2-year upgrade). You are limited to only 16GB onboard...|||It's ok to be you!  I can't say I totally understand this since I've never been in this position like others on here replying, but I think everyone has to come to terms with sexuality in some way...|||I've already met someone from here :) Would continue to do so, depending on the person.|||Love Doctor Who! We have a stuffed Adipose plush doll on our bed and a TARDIS coffee mug in the kitchen :P  Tennant is my favorite, not only because he was the best Doctor, but also I thought the...|||Ok, well if you have that down and understood it and actually did planning with it, why aren't you planning other things? Why not look around and memorize a big list of basic topics to talk about?...|||I would absolutely love to hear some of these stories. I'm hoping to be able to break away once I finally get past some debts and other things going on and try living on some work exchange places and...|||I'm sure a few INFPs will jump on me for this, but I really think you should go read The Game by Neil Strauss, or better yet The Rules of the Game maybe.  I'm not suggesting that you become a...|||This guy was in What the Bleep Do We Know? as well. If you haven't seen that, it would be right up your alley if you really enjoyed this.|||Making/keeping exercise part of my routine a few days a week and learning to program.|||Thanks everyone :) I had an idea for a script on a website I wanted to pull off, so I decided to delve into PHP finally so that I can at least get that under my belt considering I already do so much...|||After doing a little bit of searching, I wasn't quite able to come up with the answers I'm looking for and decided to make a new thread.  I know there are a few INFP programmers out there and I'm...'