'In the times I was put in leadership roles I think I was a great leader.  But then again I never volunteer myself to be a leader unless I feel like the team is in trouble.  Its weird because I see...|||yes i go to an ivy. never underestimate the power of name recognition.  you may pay a ton for it but if you're pursuing a career n business it is 100% worth it.  the networking opportunities are...|||My dad is ISTJ and we do not get along.  It feels like every conversation just turns into an argument. Now my parents are divorced and I live with my mom and I probably interact with my dad maybe...|||Apparently I am picky.  The only check list I have is  -Attractive -Laid back -Good sense of humor -Charismatic/charming  Apparently that's too much to ask for...hence the unbearable...|||This is really morbid but when I was a kid all I would have were lucid nightmares until I was about 12.  Seriously...I never had a regular dream until I was 12--there were only lucid nightmares. ...|||just took this test called colorquiz.com.  basically you choose from about 8 different colors and depending on the order in which you pick them, it articulates your emotions.   gotta say, my...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iYiqZemVpsQ|||no this does not apply to me.  I have some of the best friends I could ever ask for.  I am very content with my friendships    sorry...but what the fuck are you talking about?  Be comfortable...|||I notice that most INTJs here are pretty content with solitude.  That's true of me too--I consider myself pretty outgoing for an introvert but I still like my alone time.  I just can't shake this...|||...that's exactly what I said  love your sig pic btw|||If he's smoked weed before: Doing half an eighth your first time is highly recommended.  The high of shrooms on this dose is not overwhelming at all.  Its like being really high on weed, with high...|||I consider myself an extroverted INTJ.  I go out and party and I like to meet new people, but after this I need at least a days worth of alone time or I get pissy :angry:|||1. Do you drink? If not, why? Yes 2. How often do you drink? 2-4 times a week 3. How old were you when you had your first drink? Don't really know how to answer this one.  My parents always let...|||WOW someone sounds bitter.  He just likes this girl and is trying to figure out how to win her over.  Why is everybody giving this guy shit?  Jesus, no wonder why we have such a bad rep for being...|||...what exes|||Hell no.  My brother is an INTJ too and we fight all the time.|||Just out of curiosity.  If you're not INTJ please don't answer the poll, but feel free to post.  I'm 20 and I've never been in a relationship.  I know INTJs are a little slow in the dating scene so...|||Honestly you should just come out and ask him or else you will be waiting for forever for him to make a move.  Just be really straight forward.  Tell him that you like him and you want to know how he...|||yea but...that's hard :blushed: especially because I would be acting on my feelings and that is something that I am not accustomed to.  I think I'm gonna try to go about this crush differently. ...|||lol well good for you.  I haven't even gotten to that stage.  Nobody ever gives me a chance.  Forever alone...:crying: lol    :angry: INTRUDER ALERT!!! INTRUDER ALERT!!! :angry:|||LOL I know!  It makes me feel like a creepy weirdo stalker sometimes   But how do you keep yourself from making these expectations?|||lol see i cant get past 5 because they are always smart and interesting. The problem this time is that I really doubt he is interested in a relationship, but then I do 3 and convince myself that he...|||21 views and no replies... Hmm I think this means I'm a weirdo for doing this :frustrating:|||I do this thing when I have a crush and it aggravates me to no end.  If I start thinking about them my mind goes into super INTJ mode and I concoct all these scenarios where they either ask me out of...|||Its funny, I have a lot of friends and the vast majority of them are extroverts...I'd say like 80% are extroverts.  But anyway my best friends are ENFP and ENFJ.  I have another really good friend...|||Mostly money.  But also  -I didn't know what I wanted to do career-wise and they had a unique degree that I could do a lot with  -I liked the culture of the school (work hard, play hard) and I...|||Absolutely.  I've never been in a relationship but I already know that physical intimacy is a big deal for me.  My top love language is touch.  On another note...ISTJ?  Ugh.  No offense but I had a...|||In what point in your life do you think you'll want to start looking for a serious relationship?|||oooh this could be interesting.  dont mind me creeping here...|||Yea my ENFJ roommate cracked me wide open within a month.  I'm an INTJ...I have that shit on lock down but she just makes me feel so comfortable talking to her!|||lol thats more than i could ask for.  thanks :)|||whoa whoa whoa if I wanted all this analysis I would have posted this on the INTJ forum.  I wanna know how you feel about us ;)|||lol i just meant that i find you attractive|||oh stop, you're making me blush  we don't take compliments very well you know|||Just curious.  My new roommate is ENFJ and she is the shit.  So fucking funny and the bluntest girl I have ever met.  We clicked instantly, but apparently (according to the INTJ forums) I'm supposed...|||Do you find it easier to hug somebody you only see as a friend rather than a romantic interest?  Definitely a friend.  Although I will only initiate the hug if they are touchy in general and I am...|||Weed is a psychedelic.  And its great.  So are psychedelics :D|||:happy: well hello there|||I am definitely INTJ but I like socializing with a group of people I like.  As far as parties go, I can be content alone at a party if I know my friends are there.  I just go around and people watch...|||No offense, your friend seems like a selfish asshole.  I am an INTJ and we can be cold.  If I think a relationship is going nowhere then I can end it immediately.  But there doesn't seem to be any...|||lololol thanks for responding.  I really wasn't leaning towards either possibilities--him liking me or not.  I'm just not good with these things so I figured I'd ask what his expectations were. ...|||LOL.  No I didn't really see it that way.  I mean I think the smart ass remark right after was in response to me being seemingly cold about him cumming too quickly.  I dunno I guess I thought he was...|||Hello ENTJs.  I am an INTJ and I have a rather long, complex question.  It has two parts so if you dont want to read through the second long part then please just answer the first question.  1. ...|||nononoono not alter...enhance trust me, you get some very interesting/creative ideas.  i HIGHLY recommend no pun intended lol|||Haha yea it's like that!  I mean don't get me wrong I ALWAYS pay my debts first.  I'm never in debt.  I'm also good at saving, but I'm just very bad at denying myself things that I'm interested in......|||True to a certain extent.  If emotions aren't involved, this is 100% true.  But personally, I do not tell my feelings to someone who asks unless I'm REALLY close to them.  I can think of about...3...|||So I'm getting my first paycheck for my summer internship tomorrow.  I have to pay back my mom and my friend so I'm pretty much already out $100.  I don't know what it is about money.  I mean I...|||What comes to mind is I REALLY liked this guy and he totally blew me of at a party for another girl and I was super drunk so I left the party and the tears just came.  I forced myself to stop though...|||Oh my god.  This.  The worst!  Just close your mouth when you eat god I hate this more than anything in the world.  I avoid eating with my dad/mom as much as possible because its just so gross and...|||I absolutely HATE when things are left half open.  Doors, cupboards, anything I hate when my dad rips off only a half of a piece of paper towel so I'll rip off the remaining half and throw it in the...'