'^^ If only housework wasn't borderline unbearable. :dry:|||I wouldn't mind someone complimenting me on my hair. I like it in fact, as long as it's genuine. If I can sense you're not being genuine I just get annoyed.   But a compliment regarding a well...|||I prefer mature men. I've had polar opposite experiences of the same function.|||Hmm...my physical appearance has to do more with my genetics than my personality. So I at least disagree with the physical description part.|||Useful if you like the pretty colors. As for the other stuff, don't kid yourselves. You can make any excuse you want, but you have to admit it's for the colors.|||I don't get why people are saying the INTJ forums are shitty for relationship advice when dealing with our own personality traits. Not all of us are socially damaged like others like to think. Cal...|||Yup. Best advice I can think of.   This guy sounds like a very insecure and unhealthy INTJ. I think that he has some personal issues he needs to work out first, and he hasn't learned to move on...|||I'd end it now or adjust. If you've communicated with your gf about your needs and she can't fulfill them, move on. Otherwise you're setting yourself up to be hurt, you and possibly her. Honestly if...|||Not necessarily if you're in a good relationship. I'm in one, but I didn't need to give up independence or self sufficiency in the mean time. Nobody's clinging to me and trying to drag me away from...|||1. I've noticed that I'm a lot more laid back in relationships than a lot of friends/acquaintances. It seems like more of the strong-willed women are very bossy and try to control their SO's at any...|||I'm glad I'm not the only one that has experienced that. It seems like asks me something along the lines of Why do you not like me? or Do you love me? or some variation of that often, especially...|||Not me personally, but I do have a rather weird and quirky sense of humor around people I'm close to.|||ISFJ wears manly casual stuff. ¬_¬ T-shirts and jeans, but still neat.  I wear my distressed jeans and he tells me I look like a hobo. He wears his pj's in public and I tell him it looks sloppy....|||How else would you represent nurturing? A fluffy pink bunny? Just be glad it's not a fluffy pink bunny.|||I dated an ENFP. He was too clingy and insecure with himself, and I lost respect for him. Now he's my ex.  So if you're not clingy or insecure, I don't see what's stopping you.  Also I tend to...|||I was acting like your bf when I broke up with my first bf. Like you guys the romance just wasn't there, and it turned anywhere from friendship to hanging out with my annoying 5 year old cousin. On...|||Letting him be is all and well, but relationships do require compromise. You can't just expect her to cater to his needs and have him do nothing. Sometimes we need to accept that the ol' Me just...|||I do subscribe to which is...sort of a fashion mag. But it has more than makeup and clothes in it. It also has health and exercise tips, some good irl stories. I do look at the fashion section and do...|||Can't stand house chores, yet I can't stand clutter. You'd think living with an ISFJ would help that, but alas. I pick up after myself so there isn't much reason to clean. Housework is just mundane...|||Look at profiles of INFP and ISFJ personalities and decide which one sounds most like you.|||I'm glad you moved on. I agree. You did your part. I just offered a hypothesis as to why he might be acting the way he is. Oh well.|||Gift cards for good stores to get clothes. I NEED some clothes. :( My wardrobe is getting raggedy.|||Nope. I hated kids. For the most part I thought they were incredibly annoying. They just reminded me how inept their parents were. Now that I'm a little older, I can tolerate them in small doses. But...|||Glad you took the high road and didn't do that. 0_0 Not only would that be very unprofessional, but also just incredibly bitchy. Not to mention that would be a terrible way for mending any kind of a...|||My ISFJ fiance is an insomniac for that very reason.|||Patience, patience, patience. It takes a LONG time to truly build a friendship/relationship with an ISTJ.|||That sounds pretty typical of a lot of types, especially introverted ones. God, I don't know how many times in high school fights were started because one of our friends started dating someone and...|||I don't get pissed off with holidays (except Sweetest Day, cuz it's pointless.) I actually like to have fun with them in my own way.|||I big colonial-style library with a bigass wooden executive desk where I can do my work in peace without having to worry about not having enough room.  Oh, and a baby grand piano.|||I don't like trick-or-treaters or people knocking on my door in general. I just make my fiance answer the door on Halloween. We don't get many trick or treaters.  But I do like Halloween. By no...|||Decisions, decisions...|||THIS. I swear to God if I have to hear one more thing about my fiance's brother's wife's precious little girl, I'm going to go postal. Oh yeah, she threw a ball. Who gives a shit.  But there are...|||I like IxFJ's myself. Extroversion either makes me jealous or taxes my nerves, Feelers are just so cute, and they sure as hell better be able to make a decision (I've been down that road before, and...|||People who don't want to take responsibility for their own actions.    Go take your blame game somewhere else, because I don't have time for it.   Oh yea, and people who waste my time piss me...|||I agree. They're definitely a no-bullshit kind of people.|||That sounds about right. It seems like all the ISFJ's I know have had tragic relationship pasts with people screwing them over somehow. It's understandable that they'd be very cautious going into a...|||I hear about that a lot. It seems ISFJs and INTJs make great coworkers and even friends, but things get a little more complicated when you take it to a more serious level. :/|||Here's what I've learned so far:  I don't know how long you guys have been together, but sooner or later you will have to come out of your shell and let him know that you need him. ISFJ's are the...|||I'd think that IxTx's in general have a hard time finding boyfriends/girlfriends. We have that independent vibe that tells everyone around us that we aren't looking, don't need, or don't want anyone...|||The other day I had a debate with an SJ over trends like distressed jeans. I personally like them, although there's a right way and a wrong way they should be ripped. This SJ I was talking to thought...|||In a way my dad is. Nothing really seems to worry him that much, and if it does he always seems calm about it. Maybe old age just makes people not worry about stuff anymore. :laughing:  But he...|||What I mentioned is probably more of an SJ thing, but yes, it is a little annoying as if I'm not capable of doing that simple task correctly.|||ESTJ's are the ones I always somehow manage to piss off and thus, nearly have my head bitten off. ISTJ's are less in-your-face, and at least they let me know quite plainly that they don't like me...|||IRL extraverts are considered to be more ideal. If I had a quarter for every time someone says You're quiet or You should talk more, as if it's some kind of personal fault.|||You had me running in the other direction at that sentence. I HATE vacations of any kind with a group bigger than four people, and THAT'S if we're all good friends. When people are there that I don't...|||1. Yes I was for nearly two years with my ideal type, an ENFP. Our relationship didn't work out. He was too clingy and insecure, and couldn't make a decision to save his life. I felt like I HAD to...|||You know when you're a sensor when you rearrange the dishes in a full dishwasher. Not because there's not enough room, just because there's a right way they should be arranged.  Sorry. Letting out...|||What do you mean by shy? As in not talking to people because you're scared to or because you're disinterested in socializing?|||http://dl9.glitter-graphics.net/pub/77/77299yq5j0qv7xb.gif  http://dl5.glitter-graphics.net/pub/600/600395iu29i0wkau.gif  http://dl2.glitter-graphics.net/pub/1951/1951862ztgi28hnqs.gif|||When you have quiet weekends that don't involve late night partying and socializing, and you end up having more fun.'