'@thatgirlnextdoor   I have 3 speculations  1. You don't have that much in common. Friendship needs a base to start from, and that's typically a like interest. If he didn't get that from you, he...|||I look at self discovery in terms of understanding myself in bits and pieces as a way to understand why if not necessarily how or what. I go on crazy tangents because I see the world as one...|||Soulbreath There's nothing wrong with wanting to understand a piece of a puzzle, how it fits, what it brings to the whole picture. I actually think having more pieces to work with makes it more...|||A horoscope is purposefully vague so that anyone can project themselves into the description, and some personality type descriptions are the same way. Without an insanely long questionnaire (think...|||There are different kinds of mental health professionals - a psychiatrist treats the physical aspect and would be more likely to prescribe medication. If that's not something you want, then a...|||School If these thoughts are actively impairing your ability to focus and function, it may be something that needs therapy or medication to manage. You should talk to someone. This is not something...|||A few things make Kanye tough to type:  1. Stage persona - a performer in the spotlight and who they are when they're at home relaxing in their lounge-around clothes are often 2 very different...|||Boundaries are a necessary part of life, and a skill that takes practice. For your own sanity, you have to be able to separate your emotions from from other people and realize that disappointment...|||That's good. :) I married one.|||The direct approach is usually best for dispelling negative energy, particularly if it's based on something unknown to you. Ask him what's up and don't let him blow you off. Make it clear that it's...|||Don't stress so much. Get yourself to a place where you're happy being alone and if you meet someone, you meet someone.|||I believe that lust is a physiological addiction to another person. I do not believe that a long term relationship can be built only on a biological process. You have to have some common ground,...|||Starbuckskat Love is the mutual desire for each others' happiness and fulfillment. It's not about changing someone to fit a preconceived mold. It's about acceptance and support. Love is when flaws...|||@S_A_K_I_B Going on the assumption that she is an ENFP...   ENFPs like puzzles. If I had to guess, she's probably trying to figure you out. If you haven't outright snubbed her, she probably hasn't...|||Find fulfillment elsewhere for the time being while you keep your feelers out for a better career fit. Satisfaction and mental stimulation are often intertwined, but you won't always find them in a...|||It doesn't matter what *she* thinks about Valentine's. The ambiguity of going out someone on that day is not something most females would risk with something they didn't really like - unless it was...|||What I'm saying is, there is a better than average chance she's interested if you didn't specifically preface the date with just as friends or if you went just the two of you and not as a group....|||So... This Valentine's date... Did you go Hey let's go out as friends? Because that seems like a big clue that she's interested if not.|||I did everything but get that ribbon.  http://i.imgur.com/27o1m.jpg?1|||You're not ready for another relationship yet. That's okay. It's fine to take some time to heal, and you'll be more comfortable dating after you've done so. She was an important part of your life,...|||Fleetfoot  1. Keep communicating. Treat her as normally as possible. You don't always have to discuss her health concerns - invite her to do something with you or just socialize. Let her be the one...|||I don't even need to take the quiz to know  tactile > auditory > visual for me.   I learn best by doing, then by listening to an explanation, and then by watching....although often times, when I'm...|||SJMobley At their most basic, instincts are survival strategies.   Sexual types attract or repel others as a sort of screening process for mates.  Social types seek protection and power from a...|||ushirodaleo Not a guy or an INFP, but I might be able to help. :)  It seems to me that the biggest problem here is communication. Both of you have deep feelings and neither of you is very good at...|||ENFP protagonists are interesting because of how other characters relate to them. One of the more defining traits of an ENFP hero is the ability to change people. The ENFP is the dynamic force that...|||Have you spoken to them or HR about it?   When A Boss Takes Credit For Your Work - Forbes|||Polls like this don't come from nowhere. Let's hear the story.|||Blama As long as she chooses to stay in that relationship, it's a moot point. That choice may be because she really loves him or because it's inconvenient to leave him, but it's still a choice. No...|||Riggly MBTI is just how you take in and process information. Who you are as an individual is a lot more complex than that.   Being an ENFP doesn't mean every day is going to be sunshine, roses and...|||@treschanna When I was in high school, my sister became engaged to a guy she'd only known for a few months. The first time I met him, he put his arm around me and made a distinctively negging...|||XD My mom is an ESTJ, so sometimes I channel her.|||Zeptometer is the only one I can think of that's been active in the past few months... There were a couple more according to...|||There is a girl who sat next to me in one of my college classes. Brilliant girl, picked up the information crazy easy, but her tests did not reflect that. She would get 60s and 70s on every test,...|||Yea, but no place is fun if you're stressed out by a giant deadline sitting on you and you can't quite work up the will to just do it.|||A dedicated work space. Create a space that is just for getting things done. Nothing happens in this space except for work. No web surfing, no dawdling, no distractions. If you start to lose focus,...|||Neutral good|||Something would have been overlooked, and something else would have been overdone. There would be about 60 different flavors of soda, but someone would have to run out and buy cups or ice.|||It's not universal and there are probably a million different reasons. Why does anyone like anyone else? Common interests, like viewpoints on life, similar sense of humor, etc.|||@lackofmops Everyone has a button, even INTJs. For my INTJ husband it's road rage. For an INTJ I used to play video games with, it's drunkenness mixed with nerd rage. There's that one thing that...|||rubber_duck_dude It sounds to me like you're understimulated. Basically, you have a mind-numbingly boring job and your brain has checked out. Fast food is not exactly a thrilling mental challenge.  ...|||dcba  Avoiding temptation means setting yourself up so you aren't in a situation to act on it. Your brain does this thing where environment associates with addiction, which means that by being in a...|||Zelakon   https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&amp;v=McVXcWkezXA#t=90|||Zelakon     This. This so much.   As long as you cling to any hope that she'll change her mind, you're not moving on. You're putting your life on hold for a maybe that's already a no. Two...|||Love happens. It's not on anyone's schedule and there's no planning for it. That said, you already have the proof that it's possible for you. There are approximately 2 million women in the UK between...|||@Zelakon If you can date others while staying friends with her, then do so. If you can't, you need to cut contact until you are able to do so. As it stands, you're still waiting around for her to...|||dcba You are selling real, complete happiness with someone who will return your feelings for partial happiness because it's comfortable, safe, and familiar. You're robbing yourself of a family,...|||@dcba You're not crazy, you're addicted.  Love isn't logical. It doesn't wait for things to be convenient or easy or reciprocated. It sucks to be in that position.  One thing does concern me......|||Type is like a piece of fruit. Experience, environment, etc come along and chop it, mash it, put it in a crust or a cup, and you end up with pies, juice, sauce, and everything else you could possibly...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1zpf8H_Dd40  It's body language and controlling the self-image you project. Gauging a social situation and adapting accordingly is not intuitive or natural for...|||The definition of personality is traits that are consistent and stable throughout life, but people grow and develop over time. Think of personality as a plant. It starts out as a seed, grows into a...'