'pinkrasputin Thanks! I totally agree. I have that very physical connection you talk about with this guy! and I don't think I could have that with anybody else, which is a reason I don't want to let...|||Thanks guys for all your advice and such. I guess the main problem is that we don't talk enough to know whether I do click with him or not. I want that mental stimulation. We agreed to working at it...|||We talked about it, and agreed to making the relationship move intellectually. I guess some people take longer to click? And yes, well I wouldn't say he fits the general-definition of incredibly...|||ah, no. I'm from New Zealand, I was just born in India. I'm not even kidding when I said that ALL of our philosophies are different. Politically, we are both liberal. Which is fine until it actually...|||I meant I often get along with people who have similar philosophies to me. We relate through our thinking, it's easier for me to understand somebody when we think alike.   And no, he is very...|||I relate to people through philosophies. people who have similar ideas to me. Unfortunately, my ESTP doesn't.|||I read a fair few of them actually and decided to post anyway. I didn't think they were answering the question I had in mind. Sorry for being unclear. and also, thanks for replying despite the many...|||the straight girls? Okay I should have specified the problem a bit. All parts of this relationship are good excepting the mental connection. S's are experience orientated and N's are more...|||Can it work long term? or is his S and my N just too clashing?|||Yea I agree with you. Relationships should be effortless but do you think it's necessary to have that last component? Should it be included in what's important or not?|||Let's say there's 3 main components to a relationship. and Physical (sexual attraction), emotional (attachment associated with feelings) and mental (mental stimulation, challenges, conversing)  If...|||hello :) and welcome. Prepare to get addicted.|||I am an ENFP and I roll around on my living room floor like a dog. (sometimes WITH my dog.)|||a year and a half. first time I fell in love so it was all lovely and rosy but kind of rotting underneath. He lied profusely, including about other girls. I would say he was a xSFP. Sometime E...|||Get you completely. It's not always the attracting force for me if the hands are a particular way, but it is something I notice first on guys. Long fingers mean the guy is slightly artistic, if the...|||But it's so manly! so grizzly! Sometimes facial hair can get annoying. I'd rather not have my face scratched raw while he's distracting me with his amazingly passionate kisses. But chest hair, naw,...|||LOL.. yes well. It's all about personal preference :P I have to say, it is a complete turn on for me! only on cute guys though.|||I am an ENFP and I wish my green/blue aviators didn't break :( I also wish I had a large cupcake-shaped cake tin.|||ohmigosh! this thread is exciting! Gotta love chest hair on men! you can run your hands through it, a bit of manliness, AND its cushiony to rest your head on. Chest hair is sacred!|||I used to do that. Now I only really fit my dad's clothing :P Which I do occasionally steal. Don't know why but male clothing has a comforting feel to it.|||LOL ^ Skidmarks   Damn you man.. I want to google it now. But at the same time.. I'm bound to be grossed out. Just had dinner, I think I'll wait half hour before I go googling skin diseases :P|||I'm scared to google this.. but I think I might. The curiosity is taking over...  K done.  WHAT THE HELL. I'm pretty sure nobody with that kind of skin disease is going to donate their clothes :/...|||I like your hat dude. It is appealing to my ENFP personality way too well.|||hahaha! You know what.. bf's concern was the same. WHAT IF THE OTHER PERSON HAD A SKIN DISEASE?!|||hahahahaha. nooo It was my bf who asked!! Although, yea.. girls are far too intrigued by such useless knowledge.. It's not like they are going to go and get the same thing anyway. It's just for petty...|||MMMHHMM. I hear ya. I get into shit because I think something is wrong.. .no, nothing is wrong. usually. Sometimes, I do get it right. Thats the intuition speaking, but nowadays, I'd rather be safe...|||MONKAY!! (spelt wrong on purpose)  Who better in the animal kingdom to be an ENFP?? Monkey: bouncing off the walls (or trees), extremely interactive, sometimes dangerous, messy but also very...|||I got this one just today:  it's ok to take things literally sometimes, you really can't read between in between the lines, of a one word txt|||I'm going to try that!! I just tell them the name of the shop and yes, people judge you. Me theory is that it doesn't matter where I get my clothes from or how they cost or the rest. If i fall in...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lGne9-Nm0a0  Here's a friend's music piece. He plays amazing guitar. http://dl.dropbox.com/u/18275019/new%20idea%20wpiano%202.mp3|||Yea exactly! for me, it's like taking that one old item and changing my wardrobe in infinite ways.|||Kissing is totally deal-maker or breaker of initial attraction. Not the first date, but maybe the 2nd or 3rd. But it gives you a total, complete and accurate analysis of the chemistry!  I'm an...|||Here are some of my favourite motivational quotes:  Never regret: Your past actions (even the bad ones) define who you are today.  Hugs don't fix everything, but they cushion the pain, so hug...|||I love to go into those alternative shops, where you dig through piles and piles of unwanted clothing and find that one awesome retro piece of attire that somehow makes you feel a little more whole....|||2 comments above are sooo true!! every new year, I make the same resolution: this year, I'm going to write in my journal everyday. It lasts about a week >.<   I live amidst an organised mess.|||Minimalism, I like it! The part of colour coding I like is mainly the colour. Kinda a confused P/J.|||Family Guy! gotta love satirical humour :D|||DUH! I colour code my work, reading books, EVERYTHING. even my desk has post-its all over it :D|||Definitely INxx's. they understand you on a deeper level but aren't overhelming. ENFP's have enough spunk and outrageousness for both people. We need the quieter types to hypnotize us with their...|||You know you are an ENFP when you have a post-it addiction.|||I am the one who can share other's emotions without saying a word.  I am the one who gets up as late as possible in the morning.  I am the one who think about Pringles, completely out of boredom....|||The only girl wearing a bright pink jacket in a bus full of students all wearing dull greys. In the middle of winter. :P|||When you build stories and lives and whole parallel/fantasy worlds in your mind, purely out of boredom.  I make mine detailed, characters, flaws and traits and all. towns are detailed, people have...|||As a ENFP, I like ENTJ, it's a good balance of difference while having the same level of connectivity.|||when you often think It sounded better in my head after trying to excitedly explain it to someone.|||favourite cafe, at school, bookshop, in gardens'