this is such a catch 22 |||I'm here! Although, I'm quite the terrible ESTJ-- my Fi developed so rapidly recently I might as well be a feeler...|||Yikes. I do not want power...|||Thank you SO SO much. This is what I had planned to do, and I spent time trying to see it from his perspective and all your thoughts were what I was thinking: consistency. As an ESTJ, once I can...|||Hi|||Thank you for your help in advance. <3  I had been dating an ESFJ since September. I've never felt this way about someone before even all my long-term bfs.  I wasn't myself in this relationship....|||We're very direct, open, and we hate dancing around things. We like things to proceed in a very step-by-step fashion. We always like to know where we stand with people and will tell you how we feel...|||EXACTLY THIS. I let other people lead and do things until things become chaotic then I take over because I can't handle the downward spiraling of chaos.|||My best friend is an INFJ, we've been besties for 12 years now. So just from my experience, the relationship is great! We've never fought or got into an argument. *knock on wood* My aunt is also an...|||Hmm... Perhaps you can try being less talkative? I've learned to listen a lot more and practice being more introverted. It's really not necessary to always say what you think/feel. One of my goals...|||Not sure-- but I really like Aziz Ansari humor. I tend to like things that are relevant to what I'm going through.  TV/Movies that make me laugh: Brooklyn 99, Fresh Off the Boat, The Goldbergs,...|||lol. I wonder if it's because I'm a female ESTJ and my interactions with male INFP has never happened the way you described. Perhaps, gender roles plays into this.|||I either write in my journal (usually realizations/processing, not usually mundane day-to-day task things) or just thoughts or quotes or poetry. Really depends on my mood. Sometimes one form of...|||Recently started dating an ESFJ guy. Everything has been super easy and fun. He embodies all the characteristics I'm looking for. He's been very open/honest about the fact that he got out of a 6 year...|||Thank you for asking first of all. I have a really weird one-- not so typical of ESTJ, I think. More so like an ENFP haha!  1. dinner 2. shower + brush teeth/floss 3. lotion + face moisturizer...|||Is that a deal breaker?|||this is everything.|||I don't want to make assumptions for everyone, but in my personal experience, yes.  In my life I've noticed: ENxPs tend to be more fluid and in open relationship/poly situations. NF types tend to...|||What do you guys do at night after dinner/before bed? What does your night routine look like? Do you have a bedtime snack? Floss? Do you read?|||This. :)|||I've never been withdrawn and uncommunicative! How interesting!!|||Communication with INFPs have always been very easy for me. We exchange ideas and converse like there's no tomorrow. Although I have to say, I've been misunderstood by INFPs that don't know me very...|||Where do you ISFPs hide tho? o.O Haha... I've only ever met one ISFP, so I can't really tell you-- BUT I'm curious as well.|||Definitely not. I would never forget if I was romantically interested. Plans/scheduling is REALLY important to ESTJs.|||Hell no. I think we're one of the most direct personality types. I find it really difficult to not voice how I feel. I also find it very difficult to omit/hide things.|||For me personally: Restlessness - This usually happens when I'm stuck in a group setting or having to converse with people that I cannot find common ground with (Ex: differing tastes in music that I...|||I would say we would be one of the most reliable types to stay in a long distance relationship. Once we make a commitment to something we tend to stick with it-- however, that's ONLY after we have...|||I think it's much easier if the female is ISTP and the male is ESTJ. The other way doesn't work nearly as well.|||Interestingly enough, I'm an ESTJ, got completely swept off my feet by an INFP after a break up with my ex of 7 years. I don't think this only applies to ESTJ, I think it applies to everyone--...|||double post -_-|||INFP  TMLT text you every single day but never make actual plans|||whoa yum|||INFJ!  TMLT: Fall in love and realize they aren't in love|||lol omg. hm... ENTP  TMLT pretend they don't care but really care a lot|||I can't speak for him, but as an ESTJ, I can explain how it works for me.  You have to pass our logic test FIRST before we will ever develop feelings for you. These checkpoints all have to turn...|||hahaha!|||Do any of you meet someone and automatically know what type they are just based off the feeling you get?  I met an INFP friend last year who reminded me so much of my INFP cousin, and I couldn't...|||Coffee blended with coconut oil + ghee. It's high in fat. SUPPOSEDLY good to start off the day with high energy.|||NUTELLLLLLAAAAAAAA!  As for the coffee conversation-- I've been drinking coffee drinks (like Philz mint mojitos or lattes), and I'm just intaking too much unnecessary sugar. Plus I don't want to...|||Yep. I don't understand that either. ESTJ/ISTP doesn't work when it comes to communication at all. I was with an ISTP for 7 years. I never once felt heard really. I just accepted it. And it confused...|||I LOVE green tea! I'm also partial to earl grey with milk + honey. Do you like earl grey?! My INFP cousin makes it for me a lot whenever we are having our endless conversations about life, and it...|||OH COFFEE! I really should ween myself off coffee tho tbh! >.<  I want to meet every type! I've never met an ISFP, so naturally I am SO curious! :)|||HA! The irony...|||Oooooh... *stuffs face* SAUCEYYY!|||Hi ISFPs. I'm dropping in to say, hello! Hope that's alright. I've never met one of you in real life, and I want to! So this is my compromise at the moment.  And to the lovely 2 ISFPs that invited...|||I will come join you guys for a bit! Thank you for the invite! ^_^ I do wonder where can I find 3D versions of you... hmmm...|||How does that look? Is it draining energy? I could never find common ground with ISTP except only when doing things or solving a problem. I find them to be lacking in emotional depth.|||What does this mean about INFP/ESTJ? I've known for a while we have the same functions in opposite directions, and I'm super close to both my INFP cousins, and recently one of my newer but super...|||Where can I find ISFPs?|||This is very true. ESTJ almost have an inherent need to know where we stand with people so we are willing to be completely direct and check-in. Not in a weird/obsessive way, but as a way of avoiding...