'How is adding someone on social media needy?? It´s just friendly.  I would wait a little bit, till you get to know each other better though. Not right away.|||Ah, no. I´m quite the opposite. But, I think it has more to do with your Enneagram type. I´m 3w4. You are probably a 9.|||I´m a very fun loving person, I also consider myself to be quite a hedonist. I like to travel, go to parties, enjoy beautiful places, etc. I find that often it interferes with my idea of how much I...|||I have a friend who´s an INFP and I can´t see myself with him. He is too feminine for my taste. BUT, I have been attracted to INFP men that have a bit more masculinity to them. I find their emotional...|||I don´t think it has anything to do with predicting your actions. It´s a matter of self-discipline and responsibility, character, concern for others.....idk. I think ISFP would be far the worst in...|||One thing that I really don´t like is unreliable people. If we agreed to go somewhere or do something, than do it! I don´t like people who promise to do something and then they don´t or bail last...|||Yeah, she is definately introverted and going to parties is not exclusive to extroverts. I also go to parties and I´m an introvert.  Why I think ISTP? She is quite and private. She is not an open...|||Ah, yes, my driving instructor was also an ESTP, he was so temperamental and would yell at me sometimes. He once made me cry, but then apologized the next day. He told me he couldn´t sleep because of...|||Hey, guys! Do you sometimes find ESTP type too rough? My dance teacher I think is an ESTP and I think she is a good person, but I find her too rough and it sometimes makes me uncomfortable. She...|||I can be quite philosophical. Often when people ask me a simple question, I answer with some deep philosophy lol. I sometimes wonder if I´m INFP though, but I think I´m a Se user. Also, I tend to...|||@stathamspeacoat    thank you for your kind words! :)  @sicksadworlds   so sorry to hear that! :( I understand how you feel. Its good to know we are not alone. Try maybe to find some hobby to...|||Thanks for your replies, guys! :) My problem is that I´ve been unemployed for a long period of time and being financially dependent on parents right now is causing me stress. I also live with them,...|||Lately I have been very stressed and I have noticed that I exhibit strange behaviour because of it (maybe I´m even a bit depressed). I first withdrew a little bit, cause I´m not so in the mood for...|||She comes across as more quiet, she´s not loud. And I suppose ESTP would be better socially?|||I have a friend (a girl) who I think is an ISTP. She is in her early 30s. She is nice, but often exhibits behaviour that is socially weird, impolite or disrespectful. Is that normal for ISTP in their...|||I can really relate to the way she is. To cut and run is very typical for ISFP. We don´t like drama. For me personally it only happened with the ESFP girl that I was thinking about trying to save...|||I understand, but I think ISFP reasoning is not always totally rational. It can be one small thing that really hurt her and made her cut contact or more little things throughout the time that made...|||Well, usually if I cut people out of my life, I do it for good. So far it didn´t happen that I took them back, but they didn´t even try that hard. The thing is, I believe that people don´t change, so...|||heh, let me know when you find out :D|||Heh, good question. I just read 4w3 description, fits also.:/  What would be the main difference? I guess 3s don´t want to be that much unique as 4s?  EDIT: Basically I decided I´m a 3 instead of...|||Yes, I tend to idealize too. But, I come to my senses. Sometimes it´s hard. But I think the idealisation is mostly when you have a crush on someone but you´re not dating them. If you are dating the...|||I figured this is a rare enneagram type for ISFP. I first thought I was 4, then 7 and lastly I figured I´m most likely a 3w4. And I´m bored :D So, ask me anything :D|||I´m a songwriter, does that count? ;)|||brightflashes well, I can see both aloof and mysterious, elusive and mystical. Emotionally expressive? I would say not much, mostly when joking. But I think Fi can be like that sometimes too, no? If...|||Well, I can´t figure out one guy. He actually scored INTP, but I was convinced he is INFP. Now I´m not so sure. He comes across as masculine and confident and also a bit of a jerk sometimes. Other...|||How to differentiate an INTP and INFP guy? Does INTP appear more masculine? Would an INTP ever claim they feel a lot?|||Does anyone else feel a strong chemistry with the INFP type? Well, of course not each and every INFP, but it happend to me already a couple of times that I felt it, I don´t know how to explain it....|||Heh, they usually say Croatia. :)|||Donald Trump is an ENTJ. I don´t know how someone can think he is any other type. The ENTJs don´t want him as one of them, because he is *stupid* according to them, but he is not so stupid and this...|||Lol, why would you want to be more understanding towards bad behaviour?|||MBTI has really been helpful to me to understand myself and other people better, but one of the negative things I noticed is that I tend to justify someone´s bad behaviour as Oh, he´s just an INFP...|||INFPs always break my heart. :( I´m actually not sure if these two personalities would be the best match out there (for me at least) but it did happen to me that I had strong feelings for a couple of...|||He´s so fine. I say ENTJ.|||@Im FiNe your post made me feel really bad. :/ I didn´t mean to hurt him. I really didn´t mean anything with it, maybe only to slightly motivate. In my experience men are usually like that, that if...|||Yeah, I can see that my Se might come across as rough....Speaking of signs, I already posted a love song before on my FB in his mother tongue (and we are friends on FB) and captioned it so to make it...|||I think I officially don´t know how to deal with INFP men. Every time I try to motivate them I actually create the opposite effect. So, to recap: I invited this guy out 5 times, of which 4 times he...|||What did she reply? I don´t think you should start admiring her art cause that might come across as sleezy. I think you should apologize and tell her what you just told us here, it was quite...|||INFPs are the most confusing men ever. Period. I´m good friends with one INFP male and I know that they change their mind literally every 5 minutes....so what you describe is quite normal for them,...|||Thank you for your reply!  Yeah, ISFPs are not that great in verbal communication. If they asked me to write down the answers I would be much better. I think another problem might be that we are...|||Great! Let us know how it went! :)|||That´s interesting. Another guy that I know and I think he is also an INFP does the same thing. I basically met him only once in real life and he striked me as an idealist. He then found me on FB...|||Hi! For quite some time I´m trying to find a job, but with no luck. When I was younger I was actually quite successful working in the art and fashion industry. I´m now finishing my master in...|||Gender: female-unsure Age: 27-37 Intelligence: gifted Openness: early-adopter MBTI personality profile: ISFJ Closest alternative we found: ISTJ  Pretty good! Except for I´m ISFP :)|||As other people here said, you don´t have to invite her as if it´s a date. You can approach it in a friendly manner, like school friends hanging out. I think it´s quite normal for school friends to...|||Thanks! But, why is that it´s hard? I don´t know about your particular situation, but I´ve invited this guy out several times, so I think it would be safe for him to assume that I would accept his...|||You think he´s ISFP?  Well, because he seems very smart, hahaha. Kidding....well, I gave him the test and he scored INTP. But, I think he´s INFP. He´s very philosophical and idealistic. I don´t...|||He doesn´t seem shy. He seems introverted definately, but not shy. But maybe he´s shy with me. I don´t know. The thing is, as an ISFP I usually connect through Se. I don´t need that much talking,...|||Hey, guys! So I´ve been following your advice with this INFP guy and at first it went well. I was trying to establish some friendship. We went out a couple of times and talked a lot and he seemed to...|||I´m having the same problem with an INFP guy! He´s so passive! But, I´m afraid to make the move cause I don´t want to scare him off. I think he likes me, but he just stares at me, nothing else. He...|||BlueChristmas06 messaged you :)'