'I get it. The fairy dust kind of disappears. I think with time the excitement comes back though, and even though you feel like you've learned your lesson the first time, you start to go through all...|||Good lord there's another INFJ in Brisbane? XD hello there!|||Music :) Playing violin requires so much coordination and attention to detail, you have to be in the moment.  And oh, hiking! Though not too strenuous, just enough to make me work ;)|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZs0_r3ROjg  Soldier on by Temper Trap :3|||It's what I want more than anything :)  I think once my insecurities are settled, and I have found someone I can reveal that side of me to, only then may I truly connect with them and be myself...|||I don't think I've ever brought anyone into my Ni  I think i used to give glimpses of that side of my to friends when I was a child, 13+ onwards though I was usually looked down upon, and they...|||HAHA!  Yes very true, very true.  But the whole world is made up of chemicals, and WE SHOULD EMBRACE IT :D *puts on hippie bandana and sways*|||Thankyou! It's not egocentric in the slightest, it's actually really very reassuring :) I'm so happy it's worked out for you!  This guy and I definitely have some sort of connection at this point in...|||Skipping the process and going head first for the result - that is very true!  I guess we can have such a romanticised and set idea about what could be that it sometimes it makes us highly impatient...|||I am turning 18 in a few months, and am in first year of university. So still a 'youngster' i guess! haha XD  I'm terribly sorry about how it turned out for you in that relationship :(  As i said...|||Wow.  Firstly, thankyou for your reply; it's honestly wonderful to know I'm not the only one. I've also realised I have had detachments whilst in relationships.  It must be a defence mechanism,...|||So I guess I'm hoping you lovely people provide me with a bit of guidance and reassurance :)  I hope you don't grow bored of my story.  So I got out of my first proper relationship a couple of...|||I have very dry humour apparently.  I'm always using a concoction of irony and sarcasm, and I pull it off with a completely neutral expression, so most people can't tell whether I'm being dead...|||Hmm probably on the fast end, especially if it's a hearty sort of meal that you can just shovel in XD  As a rule of thumb, the more effort that's been put into all the components and presentation,...|||Living in the life that the pictures paint ...that does not bring content  Living in the life that my mind creates ... that brings temporary relief, but it's not permanent  In it I search for...|||With starting new classes in Uni, I've found myself assisting those around me to start conversation in a few cases.  A few of us might be in a hall-way waiting for class to start and no ones talking,...|||I think there may be the dark side for the sake of irony.  We're supposedly saving the world all the time, sometimes it's a wonderful hypocrisy to practise the opposite.|||finding and reading this thread :3|||Oooo umm i like Jack Johnson and Lilly Allen, and LOVE Coldplay :D i went to their concert.  It was by far the most incredible show i've been to.  I'm located in Australia and there's this radio...|||... any sort of music that has any meaning in it.  <-- yes!!  I'm 17yrs old and I basically love any music that demonstrates talent and passion and musicality.  I usually drift towards Indie...|||60773  Bit of a crappy picture, ah well :L  Please analyse it! :D|||coffee|||to love and be loved unconditionally|||ESFJ's.  Depends on the situation, but man they can be darn right evil when they want to be.|||Staring off into oblivion, thinking about who knows what.  Must be disconcerting for 3rd party members :L|||I was just thinking, that as a child/young teenager I would come up with these fantastical stories and could write these novels for hours and hours. Now a few years later nothings coming to me : I...|||heheh well here's mine! Phew. Vocaroo | Voice message|||Perks of Being a Wallflower did it for me also; never cried so much in a movie.  Ever 0-0 Also when beautiful cinematography is combined with amazing music usually brings a tear :')|||I've recently aquired casual work as a sales assistant.  Gotta say, the first few weeks were soooo hard.  Just like you I had great difficulty putting myself out there (cheerfully and exuberantly...|||I think I feel relieved reading other infj comments here, seeing as I'm not the only one feeling a certain way...  Why do I never feel at peace? Why must I think of only the bad and the monotonous...|||Monotonous|||Slow to fall in love? Maybe. Slow to admit you love them? Heck yes.|||A little anxious and apprehensive... but also excited. All because I'm falling for someone :)|||arz you kidden mate?  Is an N, like, so naturally i is like so much smarterr yea?|||Unfortunately it's inevitable that you find that you can't, as you put it, 'keep up with your Fe'. It's explained in our INFJ description that every now and then we feel the need to take a break from...|||I love talking to you I reckon that overrides any typical compliment such as you've got a nice smile.  I mean, yes that's 'nice', but honestly, the fact that you love talking to me! Just, wow!|||Everything I'm looking for in someone! Witty, intelligent, fun to be around and oh so attractive ;)|||That's so intriguing! So you actually recall the entire scenario out in your head? You must have a brilliant memory.    I'm very similar with lecture's.  Unfortunately I can only remember a limited...|||ESFP's, you're always so bubbly and cute!! Honestly, there is never a time when you don't make me laugh :)|||Suddenly something happens to a close friend of mine... and well, it's like i'm carrying another burden on my shoulders.  HER burden.  And i can't escape it; it's part of my sub-conscience.  I want...|||It might be down to the INxJ thing but it may be predominantly due to other factors such as how much you know that person, whether you know they will act the same as they did some time in the past...|||Hamlet :D ... even though he's kind of fictional ... and dead.... he's a cool guy.  Kind of rambles on about the woes of life but he's got some valid points.  His expressions are also so dreamy =3|||I don't care I never say that.  It's usually a flamboyant saying that people say just to end a conversation or question, but it's so demeaning.  I DO care, so I just say I don't mind instead :p|||Really happy with the grades that i got back for a test  i did a few weeks back.  Guilty for feeling proud.  Feel worried that i'm being arrogant and stuck up|||Hello INFJ's!! :happy:  Dunno if this has already been asked, but what type of learner are you? :) aka are you a visual, aural or tactile learner?  And why do you think you are this type of...|||usually some place secluded from other people and cities or a place that holds childhood memories.  My most treasured places would be the beach near where my grandparents live and this rainforest...|||contemplate|||typical ENTP reply :P god i love you guys|||my god i swear we never agree on anything.  I say something - anything - and she takes it personally.  The other day i was rambling outloud how her sunglasses are great but I was going into how...|||Because you're emotionally extremely manipulative, and i see right through you *glares*'