'My older brother is an INTP and I love him dearly. He's probably one of the biggest role models in my life... but I would never tell him that. His ego doesn't need feeding and I don't think he'd know...|||Apologies for the semi-smirk. I rarely smile in photos because it looks a bit goofy! :laughing:  699858|||I'm trying to see both sides to this, but it's hard when I agree so strongly with her opinion. The other girl is selfish. She is a shitty friend for abandoning her best friend for a boy that she's...|||For someone who has spent a majority of her life with male friends, it's... oddly comforting to be living with six other females. Don't get me wrong, I love those boys back home, and it took me a...|||Should've known things were getting too good to be true. Saturday night would have been amazing, but the universe always has other plans. There better be a damn good reason for this, universe.|||I - Moderate N - Very F - Slightly to Moderate P - Very|||I watch Geordie Shore and I fucking love it. Their one liners and commentary makes it so worth.|||I want to be friends with you. I do. But you infuriate me with how up-and-down you treat me. Can you just move on and get over this, please?|||What happened to that drive for change, that enthusiasm for life? At what point did I go from confident and energetic, to moody and withdrawn? I've been thinking too much and doing too little....|||They're wonderful, caring, and devoted friends that have always had my back and were prepared to stand up for me: even when I wasn't around to witness it. Their loyalty is super appreciated....|||....Why|||100% agree.   I've got a life to be living, adventures to be having. The need to constantly communicate and reassure them becomes a hindrance, especially when there's other real things drawing my...|||In theory, heaps of people might think they're capable, but remember that there's always individual circumstances and situations which complicate long distance relationships.  I've been in a long...|||Dear B,  There are so many things I want to say to you. Proud, frustrated, brutally honest things that would absolutely ruin our friendship. Starting with: you are a coward. A dishonest, selfish,...|||Dear P,   I don't know where to begin, possibly because I don't understand how I feel. You were chosen because you were unavailable: the words temporary never had to be said, boundaries never had...|||Yep, I've messed around with Tarot cards before, and found that you really just read into them what you already know (but had yet to acknowledge). Like the Zodiac signs (and MBTI), they're not...|||I know things like your Zodiac sign and even MBTI aren't actually that useful as predictors of personality. That the accuracy is mostly due to confirmation bias and the Barnum effect, and you...|||My god we're a friendly bunch, aren't we.|||She is definitely interested in you! Seems to me like the wouldn't still be napping comment was meant as a joke, not a rejection.|||That's possible, actually! Go into your About section and change the privacy on your settings for your birthday to Only Me.|||I'm feeling too shy to change my profile picture on Facebook. It needs to be done, because it features my ex and it just sends the wrong message. I've moved on with my life and it'd probably stop...|||It irritates me to no end when I cannot figure myself out, above anyone else. I am not sure whether to be impressed or concerned with my apathy as of late. Perhaps I can be more rational than I ever...|||Happier news: I'm determined to travel, and I'm determined to do it alone. I've found some ways that I can achieve it after (and hopefully during, if all goes well) study, even though NZ laws about...|||I swear boys have some built-in radar that detects when you've stopped thinking about them. What are you playing at, hm? Whatever feelings I have for you aren't exactly overwhelming; you're just...|||I know certain European countries aren't considered prude-ish, but is it normally to the point that they have no shame?   The only people I know who don't give a crap if you walk in on them naked,...|||Is that because I am pretending to be unaware, and letting him believe he's in control? Or is there another reason?|||You're a monster :confused:  Does knowing that you're an alcoholic open up the possibility of taking a step towards control, though? Surely those who are aware of their alcoholism are more likely...|||Is it still considered being deceived/manipulated if you know that it's happening?   Don't fall for that shit Bumfuzzle, he's only after one thing. Except I know he's after one thing. I know that...|||If the only thing that held us together was your belief that I was incapable of making mistakes and that yours weren't also relationship ruining? Then I'm not the only hypocrite here.   At least I...|||Befriend someone tonight that I've never/rarely talked to before. I'm going to that party to socialise and I'll be damned if I ain't leaving without at least one new buddy!|||I made the mistake of looking through old photos on my iPod, completely ignorant of the fact that I had ones of my ex. Not just Snapchats filled with innocently cute remarks, but photos with romantic...|||I love this so much! It's a natural kind of positivity that just enjoys life for what it is.|||Gossiper, in my eyes, is just someone who discusses personal information about another- normally with someone unrelated to the event- whether knowing it to be true or not true.   I'll be honest,...|||I had the same thoughts! That plus we'll get some good memes out of him.|||So, I'm the type of person that likes to look for the good in unfortunate situations. I thought it'd be interesting to hear other people's positive interpretations of any bad experiences (whether big...|||I wish I understood reactions and feelings in the moment haha! But nope, gotta take a time out and assess/analyse the situation (and myself) to figure out what's going on.|||What type was your last relationship? What caused the break-up? What did you learn from it? ESFP. We broke up because we'd been together from a young age, and didn't want to look back in ten years...|||Well, Drunk Bumfuzzle made out with four guys in one night at the clubs on Saturday.   And while hooking up in clubs is normalised and encouraged amongst my peers, I've always felt guilty about it...|||Ah yes, emotionally detaching yourself is probably a little easier than a break-up haha! Distancing yourself and distractions are definitely still viable answers :)|||Oh yeah, that's always a problem haha. I don't know many people who can just switch that off immediately! It does require a bit of willpower (and it can be hard at first), but you'll be better off...|||That's when blocking comes in. And if that's not an option, then completely ignoring them works just as easily. You can't control their actions but you can control yours.|||Applying for jobs waaaay out of my comfort zone will either end really good or really bad... and knowing me, there's a high chance of it being the latter hahah. Though I've always wanted to learn how...|||It's probably about time that I stopped delaying and introduced myself!  I'm an INFP from New Zealand, with an obvious habit of putting exclamation marks at the end of sentences (periods just seem...|||I'm in the process of moving on from a break-up myself, so have I got a wall of text for you *rubs hands together*   The first step: cut all contact. Don't message them. Don't ask about them. Don't...|||Hi and welcome to the forums! What hobbies/activities do you enjoy? :)|||Welcome to the forums! Hope you enjoy your stay :)|||Welcome Andy! Look forward to seeing you around the forums :happy:|||I'm generally perceived as someone who doesn't like physical affection (false)/people invading my personal space (partly-true), doesn't like discussing personal problems that are emotionally intense...|||Seeing him face-to-face for the first time since we'd broken up surprisingly wasn't painful. Our conversations kind of just fell back into place, we hugged goodbye multiple times, and things didn't...|||It's hard to tell you what's going on, without hearing the other person's side. Everyone has their flaws and I'm well aware of the holier than thou vibe that you're talking about, but just remember...'