'Aw, where are you from? :)|||My mom's family is from Merida! I'm from the center of Mexico, though, lots of flowers in my city :) Where are you from?|||Oh, wow!!! It's been ages since I made this post, I thought it had been buried in the new messages, sorry, everyone, I'll write to you guys :O|||Now I want to live in Canada even more hehe, so many of you live in there!!|||I know this thread is old but... it's so sad to see Mexico only has one person, and that person apparently stopped using PerC! :P I'm from Morelos, México..  wonder  if there's any new INFJ from...|||Sorry, the snow scene will probably happen, seems like the movie will be almost exactly the same as the old animation. What I meant to say was that they could have kept the best parts of the movie,...|||I'm also excited, but at the same time I felt a little dissapointed that they didn't took the chance to make this live action closer to the original story. They could have kept all the awesome things...|||Ok, this feels a little pitiful, but as the title says, I was wondering if there were any INFJs from my country (Mexico) interested in making friends? Just in case someone appears... I just keep...|||The older I get, the harder it gets to make new friends I find it harder and harder to trust people, to trust their words and their apparent felings -some lost frienships leave deep scars I guess......|||Wolf ears and a tail, because my obsession with wolves is not weird enough *says with irony*|||The little prince, it was mandatory in my school, but I don't know if it's mandatory per-se. To me, it's a book you can read at any age and learn a new thing from it every time you read it. Simple...|||Did you ever felt all the things you said? Would you want me to keep fight for you? Do you ever miss me?... Guess it could be ressumed in: Could you be truly happy by my side?|||Those were some interesting facts about cats!  Lets see...  -The word for girlfriend in Chile is polola -Aloe vera is a great natural remedy for different fish problems. -When fishes start...|||Mmm... well, I don't know if this counts, but once I tried to do that deep meditation where you sort of leave your body and I actually started to feel my body go numb, so it scared me and i stoped...|||Ummm.... that's a hard question, because I have two options... I could go to Ireland, my all times favorite-dream-place, but... I'd also would like to move to a place where I knew I'd remain close to...|||I agree with you Eudaimonia, all he said were things I could have said, I love irony and sarcasm. Maybe i am inclined to see him  as infj because I'm smashing up everything he said through Wilson's...|||Well... I had an INTJ friend... and our relationship was pretty much like that.|||I feel you Artanis, it is very painful to see people backing away when you show them your innermost self U.U  if you ever feel like talking, you too girasole, do send me a pm, maybe we could start...|||Mmm... I guess trying to help them heal (their deep scars, fears, traumas, etc), make them see they are worthy, that they can trust some people, that they can count on themselves, that life is worth...|||You don't always have to take the first step, but you can try taking it a few times, don't you?|||Have you tried to make the first step and invite someone to do something with you outside school? If you did so, what happened? -Again, there are truly few people that really care about making deep...|||Yes, I always torture myself trying to figure out what I could have done wrong when something happens in a relationship, no matter how bad I was threated. Too often I end up justifing the other...|||ToxicatedRose summed it up quite perfectly. People can fall into stereotyping themselves and I believe it gets stronger if you pull a lot of similar people together. Another example I have noticed...|||Could you be a little more specific? Why do you think nobody wants to be your friend? What happens when you try to interact with people? Do you try to get close to them? Do you talk to anyone as...|||Wolfish|||I am sure you're not stupid, it's not to brag, but infjs are considered to be quite smart, you probably have a different way to learn and understand things. I used to get very frustrated because my...|||I think it more or less is, check out this quote from: INFJ - The Mystic  INFJs, when scorned, take it personally and retreat inward. They may obsess about the relationship and their role in its...|||I feel you Zieg, truly do, sometimes it is hard as hell to not feel constantly overwhelmed and second guessing yourself when dealing with people.|||I hope it is nothing serious.... I know how hard it is to see your loved ones sick and not knowing how to help them. Just be there for him... and try to leave what you can do in the hands of what you...|||Please--tame me! [the fox] said. I want to, very much, the little prince replied. But I have not much time. I have friends to discover, and a great many things to understand. One only...|||I SO agree with you in all the points you made, specially on this:   There are people who read my words and think I only have one perspective on it, which isn't true. I have dozens upon dozens...|||I agree with StElmosDream and toma, great advices. I also believe art is really helpful, any kind of art will help you express and vent your strong emotions or even the external emotions that are...|||ROFL I love how we are able to extract such meaningful things from such random outlets like a song about a tour deal to ride a bus around to perform *chuckles*  Awesome lyrics though, to me, this...|||Sweetish, all the things that you wrote recently really touched me. I have experienced this too. That darn idea of having enough love for both of us, of letting yourself be destroyed to try and heal...|||Totally know what you mean... But let us not loose hope, it would be sad to turn into the things we have been fighting to protect others from.|||That's great news Scootaloo, I am really happy for you!|||Yes _zac_ and OverwhelmedOne, let us hope... hugs for you both|||I am really glad you had such a good clossure, I hope one day she realizes what she did, for her own good. *hug*|||I know what you mean. Once my dearest friend started to talk carelessly about his health and joking around, when he knew my family has been through a lot of painful sickness and near dead moments and...|||So been there!!! No idea why sickness puts me to bed like I'm dying, it's really frustraiting.  And don't get me started on allergies...|||Just wanted to say ditto. I am not a missanthrope, I just deelpy hate the society we built...|||LyricalWhip Thank you for your beautiful words, you brought warmth to my soul and made me smile. Thank you.  Callisto88 I know how you feel, it is hard not to get the selfesteem shaken and trust...|||I completely agree with you, becoming cynical would only take away our own essence! And yes, inspite all the pain and frustration shared in here, it is a place filled with warmth.|||Indeed, but the bright part is, an overflowing heart can feel the sweetest of joys and tenderness as well. Though, I completely understand you, sometimes it just hurts too much. *hug*|||Marla_S what a lovely idea! To be honest I am a bit afraid, I kinda suck at introducing myself and am sure will feel like I left the most important parts out when I'm done tee hee! But here we go......|||T-T Thank you for such beautiful, comforting words. Perhaps you are right and we are just craving for that overwhelming love only God can give... It is not that we don't love to give without...|||I think for me, letting go is extremely hard, one of the reasons I found the idea of dating quite crazy, was because people often seem to date, get to know each other deeply and when things don't...|||OldManRivers, I always love the beauty and depth within your posts. I am deeply hurt, I wish so bad I could stop withdrawing because I can't imagine my life without this person, I feel guilty but I...|||I don't know about other infjs, I think it probably is a part of the IN, but I love ironies in life and light sarcasm as well, I can laugh about myself a lot too, but yes, you should probably avoid...|||Agreed, don't ever say/promise things you don't mean. INFJs know when you are lying or hiding parts of the truth.'