'I have to second some of what's already been posted.  1. It's all about how you look at it, and naturally in your depressed state, your outlook is exceedingly negative. I get it. I've been there....|||Interesting. I read a couple of her other posts, too. Some interesting stuff on ISTJ-ENFP marriage. She's a bit more 'Oooh, glitter and kittens!' than I am, but overall I think she has some...|||I feel this way when I can actively watch my children construct new knowledge. When I see the lightbulbs go off in their eyes and they start asking questions and we talk about stuff and they make...|||Hello and welcome to PerC!|||Hello and welcome to PerC!|||Hello and welcome to PerC!|||Hello and welcome to PerC!|||Hello and welcome to PerC!|||Welcome to PerC!|||Welcome to PerC!|||Welcome to PerC! I love feelings. Feeeelings....nothing more than feeeeeeelings.|||Welcome to PerC, fellow ENFP!|||Welcome fellow ENFP! You will indeed learn lots here - the ENFP forum is a particularly friendly, understanding sort of place. I look forward to running into you there.|||Congratulations!!|||High school teachers don't know everything (said the high school teacher). When you stop to think of the many ways we use 'bear', it makes sense and only one of them has anything to do with a furry...|||Here's a good one I saw the other day: bear with me vs. bare with me. One asking for patience, the other is getting naked together. Pretty big difference.   It's one thing to have one or two...|||I read all the comments and he said he specifically left out all the positive traits of the ENFP male as it was a writing assignment on 'why NOT to date' and the follow up assignment was 'why TO date...|||I'm wondering if any of my googlenet ENFP friends also struggle with forgetfulness. I forget stuff all the time.    I have been known to tell stories about something to my friends/spouse/family and...|||Ryan - I have improved with age. I have learned through experience if I don't dive in and get er done, it might not happen. I had had enough of disappointing people and losing my stuff and wasting...|||I like ENFJ's :) Welcome to PerC!|||Can you clarify what you mean by 'finds it difficult'? Do you mean difficult as in 'I am experiencing roadblocks in my effort to accomplish this task', or difficult as in 'I f-ing hate this and you...|||Oh wow. I'm reading these and thinking 'I know, right? Omigod, yes! I totally do that!'. I get a job, am enamored for the first months, then start to lose that and think about the possibilities.  ...|||Ahhhhh. It took me ten bloody years, but I figured out this is when to just disappear. It's not about me, no one is mad, just fak off already and leave him be. He'll be back.   (ISTJ's - if you do...|||There have been 130 pages written on the topic over in the ISTJ forum. http://personalitycafe.com/istj-forum-duty-fulfillers/7682-istj-enfp-relationships.html It makes for a very interesting read. ...|||'I used to be indecisive. Now, I'm not so sure' - Someone Awesome  We spend money we don't have, on things we don't need to impress people who don't care. - Will Smith|||Check out http://personalitycafe.com/enfp-articles/10708-10-stages-depressed-enfp-37.html#post3782691. There is a lot of information in there on how people pulled themselves out of it. It's super...|||Congratulations, you prolific poster, you!|||Noooooooooooooooooooo! I'm really sorry to hear that. I don't think she knows what a gem she had! (BTW, Thank you for the update - I always wonder about the stories I hear and get 'involved' in, so...|||Tridentus, I am totally the same way. This has nothing to do with wishing anything, I just occasionally go over things in my head. I wonder how they are. I'd love to run into them and catch up - and...|||I disagree that the on again off again can never work. Sometimes all it takes is one or both of you coming to an important understanding (like it sounds that you have). Removing the rose colored...|||I love what my husband calls 'train wreck' movies. Everyone falls in love with the wrong person and it all ends tragically. Think Legends of the Fall. Well, maybe that one is more about the eye...|||Yay! Congratulations, friend!|||1. What is the MBTI personality of your partner? ISTJ  2. How long have you been married? 9 years (together 11)  3. How did you meet? Lavalife :)  4. What do you have in common with...|||I am so jealous. I don't even have a sibling, let alone a perfect partner in crime. That sounds fantastic - you guys are lucky!|||Ha ha, you have a point. I guess I imagine willpower to be a spot in the brain, so I imagine the spot in a gnat to be extremely small :)|||Yeah, I thought of that, but decided twins of any kind would be twins enough for my purposes. Even fraternal twins, like any siblings, will likely have similarities in physical appearance.  God....|||That could be anyone's picture timeline. I was the same. Cute baby, ridiculous in jr high (where, lets face it, we all made questionable fashion choices), getting better in highschool and now blend...|||I am looking for literal twins. :wink::wink: That way you control for genetics and physical appearance and see what the personality types are like.|||Speaking of willpower, do any of you guys struggle with it? Or the lack of it, rather?   I have the willpower of a gnat.|||So we got to talking in an ENFP thread about what ENFP's look like and there is debate surrounding the question of physical similarities and personality type. I am wondering if there are any twins...|||Isn't that more demeanor than appearance? I think the way people carry themselves, body language, facial expressions, etc are personality based, but appearance (what they look like in a neutral state...|||Uh.....yum!  I was thinking the other day, I bet you ten bucks Jesse from Breaking Bad is ENFP. I know, I know, Aaron Paul is not necessarily ENFP, but I think he should be the poster boy for it....|||Ok, confessions of a teacher here: You will likely never use it. Unless you choose to pursue a career in math or science, you will probably not ever need to know how to graph shit. Very basic...|||Wow. I would not have guessed what you look like based on your avatar. You don't look like a happy dancing reindeer sort of guy. Yes, I'd say you are rugged looking (and not the rug on the head type...|||Do we just trust you on this one? Is that you flipping a pancake?   When I think 'rugged', I think plaid jackets and facial hair. Curly chest hair that peeks up from the collar. Like an Italian...|||February, Pisces. I fit it pretty well. But then my husband is an ISTJ, birthday one day before and he fits a lot of it too. So there goes that.|||Yay! We have BooMonster AND TheWildOne?! Welcome to the club, friends. I learn tricks for how to navigate my ISTJ vicariously through all the posts on here, so I love the idea of more contributors.|||Greetings noob. Have no fear, this forum is exactly the kind of place for posts like this. I come here to explore the many facets of my ENFP 'diagnosis' and see how it is manifested in other people,...|||That was me and yes that about sums it up.|||People who complain about their 'lot' in life but do nothing to change it.'