'I'm hoping to get some help, as this is causing me some serious trouble. I'm dating an infj. We are head over heels in love! Things are seriously great, except he tends to be hot or cold with me....|||I'm hoping to get some help, as this is causing me some serious trouble. I'm dating an infj. We are head over heels in love! Things are seriously great, except he tends to be hot or cold with me....|||I'm hoping to get some help, as this is causing me some serious trouble. I'm dating an infj. We are head over heels in love! Things are seriously great, except he tends to be hot or cold with me....|||Thanks for responding. :) I know we're not high on the list anymore. I just can't figure out why. I just kee thinking there has to be more to it than that. I forgot to mention the part about when my...|||Hi! I'm hoping someone can help me. Here's my story:  I have a sister-in-law who is an ESTJ. Last year, she had a baby. We got along fine up until then. I did get annoyed/hurt sometimes by her...|||Hi! I'm hoping someone can help me. Here's my story:   I have a sister-in-law who is an ESTJ. Last year, she had a baby. We got along fine up until then. I did get annoyed/hurt sometimes by her...|||Why thank you! i hope someone can help us out here.  But I think INFJ is a very good guess.  INFJ  INFJs take their energy from the inner world of thoughts and ideas. They prefer dealing with...|||I am a huge fan of James Blake. I find his music moving and deeply emotional. (And I might have a slight crush on him .)  After watching several interviews of him, I find myself trying to decipher...|||oh... and you can see him interviewed   here Sooner: James Blake Interview -  and here  BBC - Music Showcase  and also here  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2eUXeYGGWbg|||I am a huge fan of James Blake. I find his music moving and deeply emotional. (And I might have a slight crush on him :blushed:.)  After watching several interviews of him, I find myself trying to...|||my word, james blake is a genius. first time i listened to his album, it was meh. second time, i got chills. oh my that boy is incredible. step aside, kid a.   and if you like the wilhelm scream,...|||awww now i'm kinda sad for you. :(|||Exactly. While I'm not a completely realistic person, the majority of my mind's wanderings are based in reality. 95 percent of the time. I don't think I knew about the music thing. I have played the...|||mine is incredibly intelligent and impresses everyone he works with, so we live comfortably. i am with you - i'm so glad i have someone like him to kind of take care of me, since i'm so forgetful and...|||i, too was shocked. i have come to the conclusion that i am both. emotionally, i'm about 3/4 INFP. creatively, it's definitely ISFP. i'm definitely not as emo as some of the INFPs. not saying...|||They have one eyebrow raised at you like the are about to say something very sarcastic about you.   Because they are.|||hah! me too. and uuuugh is right. :) sometimes we are the ying to each others yang. other times we're toooo opposite. but it's all good in the end.|||oh, and speaking of movies, who's excited about the Tree of Life? looks like a beautiful, artfully-done movie. and looks like the mother character is INFP, father is INTJ. i can't wait.|||I realize this movie will look kind of like a matrix rip-off, but to me, it really isn't. matrix was all about machines in control of people's perceptions of reality. this seems to be more about...|||most definitely! if music doesn't make me feel, i don't get into it. i'm curious, do you also listen to certain music during certain seasons? i do that. i have certain music i pull out during...|||I really think I will appreciate her more now that I know her personality type . INTJs fascinate me, especially being married to one and having one for a father (how's that for freudian haha) and a...|||i'm so glad i found this thread! i'm kind of confused as to which type i am.   i re-take the MBTI test sometimes, and a couple of times i have gotten ISFP. Every other time, it's been INFP.   So...|||Ok, so i re-take the MBTI test sometimes, and a couple of times i have gotten ISFP. Every other time, it's been INFP.   So it has me doubting, for a few reasons/  Here are my strong ISFP...|||...Correct me if I'm wrong (INTJs don't have a problem with that haha) but basically you're saying that you don't feel the need to be acknowledged or praised for anything that you do? I just find...|||i couldn't have said it better. :happy:|||Despite working in an office, I do work alone most of the time. Thankfully, my current job allows me to plug in the headphones and listen to music or watch TV shows while I work, tuning out most of...|||oh you're right - he acts totally shocked whenever i get upset over it. he does love to fix things; he lives to work, so that's probably great advice. i understand that INTJs don't bother with people...|||So, does anyone else watch this phenomenal show? Love it! I tear up every week.:crying: it's just so relatable. all those complex characters.   So who has what personality type, do you think? I've...|||i find it fascinating that an INTJ (Jane Austen) would write romance. Maybe it was the day in which she lived? All of the societal pressure to get married. It was a subject every woman had to...|||when i'm talking to someone, i look at their face, not their eyes. it is only comfortable for me to maintain eye contact for more than about 10 seconds. then it feels too personal, or something. i...|||I absolutely feel that way. The circumstances have to be right and it has to be with the right people for me to come out of my shell too. And it has to be both. I was fairly sociable at work when...|||this makes so much sense, and saying So telling a person you shouldn't need compliments because I don't need compliments is like saying your psychological needs should be the same as my...|||Well, uh, the reasoning behind it all sounds very clinical to me.   But you know what? you started out your comment with a compliment on the thread i created! so whatever you're doing has worked....|||hahaha! i didn't even realize I typed that. but i like it better as Myers Briggs Personality Typer. it has a good (unintended) pun on the end. :tongue: oh geez...:blushed:|||I love a good, clean comedian. They are so very rare. Don't get me wrong, I have been known to chuckle at the dirty ones. But it's just so refreshing sometimes not to hear crudeness. I definitely...|||love this list.:laughing:|||best. song. ever.  i just listened to this. i love this man, and his quiet emotion in this clip. made me tear up. he's also an INFP, coincidentally.  Mister Rogers awarded 20 million after...|||awwwwwwww!|||Top 5 songs: Lakes of Canada - Innocence Mission Sing - Travis Exit Music - Radiohead Aeroplane over the Sea - Neutral Milk Hotel America - Simon and Garfunkel  Top 5 Artists:...|||this is the second post about this that i've read from you, and you just sound like you are going to burst if you don't do something to change your current setting. you can't live life like that! i...|||i love to have fun with my clothes! it's definitely part of who i am. feminine vintage and retro fashions are my very favorite, especially stuff from/like the 50s, 60s and 70s. like the author of the...|||infpblog, i'm in awe of how you have made your relationship with your INTJ so harmonious. it's inspiring. i don't even know where to start commenting! i do see some similarities in your narrative....|||HAAAH! i've never seen this guy!   confused people are hilarious. :)|||HAAAH! i've never seen this guy!   confused people are hilarious. :)|||goofy, inappropriate humor. also i find things funny that no one else in the room does.   the farting preacher - HILARIOUS!!  Russell Peters - he is the funniest comedian I have heard in years. ...|||I know what you mean! i didn't think i'd ever met another INFP. then i asked the guy who sits next to me at work yesterday if he'd ever taken the MBPT and he said yes, i'm an INFP! and i would have...|||most definitely. trees are so important to me. i will never live in one of those cookie-cutter neighborhoods that are devoid of trees. i even had a favorite tree in college on campus that i would sit...|||so it seems that you also maybe feel that your ISFJ kind of had this patient quality of taking care of you, of bolstering you when you got too emotional to handle something yourself. that's the...|||it's because if something ingenious or insightful (at least to us INFPs) pops in to our head, even if it's off topic, we HAVE to get it out or we will totally forget how we want to word it, or we'll...|||I am just fascinated to find out that two of my best friends, as well as my mother, are ISFJs. I just love them to death! They are caring, thoughtful, always remember things like birthdays, and do so...'