'So I was the crazy ENFP who last year at about this time was raging on and on about my issues with an INTP.  Let me say I dated an ENTP for awhile (terrifying) and now am dating an INTP engineering...|||Has Lamictal really worked for you otherwise though? I found it gave me pretty bad memory/concentration issues.|||That's fascinating I wonder if it's the chicken beforethe egg.... Also, what's a good way to determine between the traits and the actual disorder? Even though I was diagnosed, I'm still always going...|||What medication are you on?|||Interestingly enough, are a lot of ENFPs manic-depressive or come off as such?|||Yeah I used to think I was an ENTP because of this, but I'm definitely more heart over head! :)|||I cannot thank you enough for your help, like I said it looks like he started dating someone else and still wants to be friends. Weird..|||Oh I know about all that! :D I'm just hoping we CAN be friends again. How am I selfish? I'm asking so I can avoid that in the future :)|||Read this - Socionics - the16types.info - Four Quadra The description of the ENFP seems really really off, exactly opposite of what it should be.|||ESTJs?|||This may be a really ENFP thing to say, but that's part of what I love about it! PS, love your username!|||Hahaha it might be! How bizarre!  Maybe ENFP angelas are very alike :)|||We talked about being honest and he admitted he's dating this girl who we both know...she's really sweet, a bit demure etc, but a real pushover (has been engaged, had it broken off and is a real...|||I sent all of that to him and he's like Im glad you said what you needed to say.|||Interesting because he was going more for the motivational/making life better thing near the end, maybe that's the route to be friends with him again?|||The tough love thing is definitely something I feel like is the right thing to do. I may come off as tough doing that but I also understand it;s the best course of action.  I'm mostly just writing...|||I agree, ENTPs are bored with most people but when they find one person that they really enjoy, they will be with them to no end.  It's like they become cohorts or partners in crime with them|||I've got one in the ENTP forum, advice and perspectives are appreciated - http://personalitycafe.com/entp-forum-visionaries/145054-entps-what-they-out.html#post3681720|||I'm so sorry, I really apologise about the thread :(. I'm kind of still in a hurt place right now, but I'm sure I can delete it afterwards.  If I do want to be friends with him/close to him again,...|||I really apologise for the situations it sounds like both of you have been in. It's a really bad bad place.|||Wait can you explain the top part to me? Because I want to know what I did so I don't do them again...:(|||THANK YOU SO MUCH. That's what I'm doing and telling him that his behavior is disrespectful and I'm not standing for it.   You sound like you've had lots of experience with this..|||He's absolutely an ENFP. I know lots of ENFPs like him and his movies are driven by his idealism and values. Each of his movies is a moral play in it's own way, a teaching lesson of sorts. Anyone...|||Couldn't possibly disagree with you more, especially about Pulp Fiction. I also hate the characterization of ENFPs as people who make movies like a coming of age story with heart. Nah man.|||I'm a pretty logical and down-to-earth ENFP. Life of the party in a mild way, very good at making people comfortable and very accomidating in relationships while still being able to keep up the...|||I'm the same way. I wonder if other ENFPs are like this?  However I do like using hugs as a socially acceptable way to crash into people's personal bubbles. That's fun|||I would love to! How do I find out? I suspect 4w3 but...|||Is Naomi entj?|||Are you sure you're Enfp? Because we can be goofy/silly and I understand you completely aside from the hug thing, but it's less of an AHHH LOVE YOU thing, I'm more of just a non existent personal...|||I mean I can definitely whine...and nah by all means get it out my man!..,but I feel ya, I am not like this nor can I pretend to be. I am not empathetic|||One thing I've always wondered about me being an ENFP... I don't identify with a lot of ENFPs on here and irl. My overall experience has been summed up as them being incredibly optimistic,...|||same. I feel ya|||Let me know! I hate this meds stuff...so unpredictable and the changes it makes to personality are scary D:|||As a fellow ENFP, did you ever regain the fun manic side of you?|||Okay enough with all these cutesy oblivious ADD ENFPs....what about the dark and complex ones?? Come on, we're NOT all like that.|||We are weird..|||Agreed. Also, he comes off as arrogant, but I think it's just self esteem issues. He's not incredibly masculine and sometimes he protests too much. But...whatever floats his boat, ya know? Also,...|||I'm not sure if I EVER want to settle down...I LOVE that Sandra bullock quote though Another good quote from SATC no the less.... “Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they just need to...|||I just learned this is what I am...I want to learn as much as I can about it (I did a simple google search but...) How do we self-actualize? What are some ENFP 4w3 celebrities? What are our...|||Is Keanu Reeves really an ENFP? I can't tell if he's trying to be pretentious with his voice or not...and that wouldnt be very ENFP|||Interesting thought... Maybe with all this Christmas music, shopping, cold weather, and late nights out or what but I'm recently feeling super domestic. I never feel this way. For example, the other...|||Sounds like highly caffeinated is the way to go!|||What would you say the classifications for women are?|||Very true. What's all this talk about situation with ENFP?|||Dan - INFJ - YES Blair - ESTJ -or ENTJ...Or an ENFJ coming off as an ENTJ Rufus - ENFP Vanessa - INTP Jenny - ISFP Serena - ESFP Chuck Bass - ENTP (hardcore ENTP...I can't even imagine how...|||Yes very close.|||There's your problem...you only read that part! Honestly I don't haha, I'm very good at getting boys by myself :| unfortunately...|||I'm so glad seeing this thread because I feel like this alot! And even putting on the facade of charm is a REALLY hard thing...sometimes I'm able to grab a little of it but it takes forever and...|||You're definitely right...how do I find out what that is?|||I experience the weird 'OH MGJRIGJIREJG THEYRE ATTRACTIVE.  then inside...really small.....uh oh...here we go...'