'I love this, Ana ( :wink: )!  As you know, I so enjoy intellectual people, and I, as you, tend to prefer people who are OPEN to new ideas--whether or not they have a high IQ or a lot of alphabet soup...|||I'm close friends with an ESTP who I think has great fashion sense.  He doesn't care a whole lot about clothes, but he's willing to take risks with what he wears, which I think is a lot of fun.  He...|||Yes, I definitely relate to this experience!  If I want something very badly, I make it happen.  I find I am extremely strong-willed when I want something and can figure out what needs to be done to...|||Wow, I love it when people are attracted to me--whether they're attracted to me physically or to my personality.  It really makes me feel good to have positive attention and positive feedback from...|||What can be really hard for me to accept is when someone doesn't want to be fixed or to fix him/herself.  It makes me sad when I can see that there is potential for a person to be more balanced and...|||I believe people are born with the ability to seek goodness and to love others.  I also believe that when people don't use that ability there is a reason why.  I always want to understand what...|||Ha, you sound like my friend.  He prides himself on being sort of a chameleon and prefers to blend into any group of people he happens to be surrounded with.  I asked him to explain to me why he...|||OMG, I loved your story about the Wizard of Oz!!  I had the whole thing memorized by the time I was five and I used to introduce myself to strangers as Dorothy Gale.  I had a little blue Dorothy...|||I shower and do hair and makeup and everything in the same order every day, and there are actually times when I crave routine.  I'll experiment with it almost, like picking up a new hobby.  When I'm...|||Hahahaha--this is funny to me because I have a very good friend who is an INTJ.  I never believed him to be fake--in fact, one of the things I respect most about him is that he always seeks to be...|||It seems like several people said she might notice something's up but that she likely won't point it out to anyone.  But regardless of that, I only intended to address what seem to be your fears in...|||Based on what you've revealed about this situation, I don't see why this girl would make you feel unwelcome.  And I especially don't see why anyone else in the study group would make you feel...|||I disagree . . . I mean, I don't think you're being bizarrely obsessive, overly anxious, or melodramatic.  You were (?) limerent over this girl--by its very nature limerence is obsessive.  There's...|||I missed the beginning of the story . . . why on earth are you trying to kill your crush on this person?    And what is it you think she suspects you of--avoiding her or having a crush on her in...|||Yes.  Definitely.|||Escapism.  I have to remove myself when things get really stressful.  I go for a drive or to a place where I can be alone to pray.  Sometimes I will go shopping--that's my one addictive tendency.|||I'm tougher than I realize.  I'm also tougher than anyone else gives me credit for being.  I learned this about myself by enduring some very stressful situations.  I discovered I have a very high...|||I've always excelled in math classes because I love learning theories and I'm good at abstract thinking.  I don't enjoy the practical applications of math, however, and I'm not good at it either.  As...|||I know there is a God--I believe this with no doubt whatsoever.  I also believe God is a conscious energy connecting everyone, not just a force that operates randomly on the universe.  I was raised...|||Wellll, I'm not an INFJ, but holy shit do I rebound!!  I need the validation of feeling wanted, particularly when I'm at my lowest and going through a breakup.  It really helps me heal bc my...|||Two of my very closest friends are INFJs.  My relationships with them are two of the deepest I've ever experienced.  My INFJ friends are capable of a depth of understanding about themselves and about...|||Hahahaha--there are subjects that do this to me too . . . primarily money/finance.  Anything involving less conceptual information and more little mundane details.  I start to lose focus when people...|||I get this a lot--almost always from ENTPs!!  I happen to have several ENTPs in my life, and they make the same assumptions about me that you describe.  And I am intelligent--I have always been...|||I also live with depression.  I have for years.  I second/third Pink and Viva.  I will a lot of times bring a pile of work with me to a coffee shop.  This kills two birds with one stone.  It allows...|||Nice, when do you start law school?  And who was the other poster--I'd be interested in looking him/her up.    I chose to focus on family law, so my love of people definitely helps in many respects...|||I'm an ENFP attorney--anyone know any other ones?    Bc I don't.  In fact, sometimes I think I must be the only ENFP in the world trying to make it as a lawyer.  I find my career to be extremely...|||Hahahahahaha this happens to me every time my husband wants to talk budgeting!!|||Definitely have a tendency to over-share information.  But at the same time, I'm not running around handing out my social security number or account passwords!  Far from it actually--I'm pretty good...|||I've been told by many different people that I'm intimidating.  Seems to always stem from one of two things--either I'm coming across as really intense and passionate about something or I am too...|||I so agree with Limlight3 about wearing things that make me smile!  That is typically my only criterion when I am clothes shopping.  I don't usually shop for specific items--I just want to fill my...|||I LOVE being around people, but it takes a very long time for me to be comfortable enough with any one person that I will truly open up with them.  At the same time, while I am taking my time getting...|||I HATE talking on the phone.  If I'm going to talk to someone, I'd so much rather be able to SEE them!  I don't typically use the phone unless it's the only way for me to stay in touch with a loved...|||I can't figure out how to read you, and it really bothers me!  (Said to me by an ENTP)  You're really intimidating (Same ENTP)  I think you're really a natural blonde--are you sure you don't...|||Welcome--wishing you and your ISTJ the best!|||K, I'll send it.  Talk soon, too!|||Read an article today about lying and personality type.  According to the article, extroverts are much more comfortable lying than introverts; and intuitive people, those who can read others well,...|||Love your outfits!!!  They all made me smile--you have a cool style :-)  I love color and patterns too--and I love mixing unexpected things.  This is why fashion is so fun for me!|||Love them both!  What a fun ring!!|||LOLs, thanks for the laugh!!|||Fashion is my primary creative outlet, and I love to take risks with what I wear.  I don't try to define my style, althought I've been constistently described by others as classy and well...|||Hahaha--love you INFJs, too, Anahata.  You're the best!!|||Hi Everyone,  Been lurking around on the forums for a month or so and thought I'd finally introduce myself.  I consistently test as an ENFP, although for the longest time I was convinced I was an...|||You're gonna confront him???  I don't know, boo.  I think you'll really freak him out if you do.  He was really trying to let you down easy and not hurt your feelings, I promise.    Still, I get...|||Hey, Boo!  Found ya!  I know I'm not a true ENTP, but I sometimes masquerade as one, and, as you know, I am very close to at least one myself, so I will tell you what I think I know!!  Keep it...'