'When someone walks up to me and tells me to smile...  https://m.popkey.co/9bdd8e/4VqvD.gif|||OrangeAppled Awww, thank you very much! Getting mentioned and quoted makes me melt...|||Yes, exactly. With NFs (also written xNFx), I mean every type with an NF in it, namely INFP, INFJ, ENFP, and ENFJ.|||Mel25 Haha, glad I made you laugh.  On a more serious note, though: I think your question can't be answered with a one-fits-all answer, because people even of the same personality type can turn out...|||A cat.|||twirler and Kenkao  Yes, exactly. Not saying that there is no pedestal or that we don't entertain (and enjoy) the thought that they are perfect (with all the flaws we are aware of).  It's just...|||Many of the INFP personality profiles will tell you that INFPs put their significant other on a high, unattainable pedestal. I would contend, however, that this is awkwardly phrased and it makes...|||I learned that in the depths of my soul there lay hidden the substance of the greatest of delights and the darkest of existential crises.|||Don't worry, no mention of cramps, blood or other body substances here...  Anyway. So, I'm not a touchy-feely person at all. I don't like hugging people, not even shaking their hand for that...|||For an INFP in love (or at least romantically interested), his behavior is quite abnormal and not typical for our type. INFPs would usually devote a ton of time (maybe a little too much) to...|||Poor 10th post on every thread page. No one ever wants to write you. No one ever reads you. Know that you're not alone, you're not forgotten. Yes, you are different than all the other 9, but that...|||On YouTube again, relentlessly searching for that one song that reconnects me with my core and then rolls down my cheek.|||Yes, that's true. ENFJs do indeed share personal stuff with many people and usually don't mind spending a lot of time with them. But it's unlikely that they would at the same time display the above...|||I'm a male INFP in a relationship with a female ENFJ. The following things might not be true for every ENFJ, but they certainly were in my case. I hope they help.  The biggest give-away that an...|||Same for me! I work part time which leaves me with enough time for things that really matter to me while all the bills are payed. I could work full time. My boss presses me to do so. But what's the...|||Yep, exactly my thought this morning...  http://s3-ec.buzzfed.com/static/2014-03/enhanced/webdr06/28/15/anigif_enhanced-21628-1396036535-13.gif|||Turns out that I'm sapiosexual. Now I'm afraid of ending up with a hipster girl.   But also kinda excited...|||Being an INFP and having it as your second last shadow function... hmm, that must suck! :laughing:|||https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-Xc_3bi3NHqs/UtbRsI9rhzI/AAAAAAAA8LI/z040RuqnSAc/w500-h300-no/nice+shoreline.gif ...|||INFPs aren't bait for controllers, no, dominant Fi is hell for them! :wink:  If you two don't fit, your decision was the best for you AND for him.  And you have clearly demonstrated that you...|||That's what helped me:  1) Find someone to talk to about it. I know that's difficult, because it means making yourself very vulnerable. But one of the main fuels of shame is silence about the...|||I think there are many advisers within me: ratio/logic, psyche and emotional needs, morals, expectations of other/close people, bodily needs/demands, worldview and mindsets, gut feelings, intuition,...|||I believe INFPs with well developed Te... - have left behind the victim identity - are not only sincere and authentic but also competent - don't only desire to make a change in the world, but...|||I hate when I have a fight with my imaginary wife and then feel down all day...|||I'm horrified at how quickly I can lose the connection to my heart, to the real core of who I am and what truly matters. There are so many ways to spend my time and I can get so caught up in the...|||Not exactly a photo but...  I somehow identify with this painting in a strangely intimate way, more than with any other painting I've ever seen. I feel like someone painted my heart... ...|||It's a quality that you care about your emotions.  Seriously, there are enough people out there who lack kindness but just don't care.   You might feel like you are not as kind right now as you...|||Something soothing for you guys...  https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-MWhtfm7ZToc/Uqh7DpohWrI/AAAAAAAANy0/b58lDU-pD5c/w600-h338-no/responsibility.gif ...|||TreeBob must feel very flattered.|||Once upon a time I wished upon a shooting star that this kind of INFP woman would exist. I barely deemed it possible, barely dared to hope. Now a dream has come true! Thank you!|||The perfect quote...  http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/1e/d3/53/1ed3539c6b800ac293536be96195aa5a.jpg|||Enjoy! :happy: (not all are animated)  http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8wcpsPgqz1rxlmf0o1_250.gif ...|||So many beautiful eyes here! :blushed:  Here is my contribution to all the eyeNFPness in this thread. :kitteh: ...|||I smile a lot when I'm nervous. It seems to ease the situation a bit for me and makes me appear less nervous to the person I talk with.   Then I play with my feet a lot. I mean I move them around,...|||http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m97egtpJ0L1rxlmf0o1_400.gif  http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8uj40YXuL1rxlmf0o1_500.gif  http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m80oyyfLEN1rxlmf0o1_400.gif|||I cried the first time I read this:   And I want to play hide-and-seek and give you my clothes and tell you I like your shoes and sit on the steps while you take a bath and massage your neck and...|||http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m95mp2eX4r1rxlmf0o1_500.gif|||Still waters run deep.|||But pleeeeease just keep us updated! This story is heart-wrenching and I want to know what's happening in season 2!|||I've done some experimenting with my trigger sounds lately, those that kindle fury (like chewing, slurping, sniffling, etc.), to try to find out how to not go mad.  One thing that makes a...|||For me it was important to realize that it's a disorder at all. I always thought it was completely normal and that everybody would feel that way, just that some people don't care that much when...|||Haha, I'm exactly like that! :laughing: I always get self-conscious and try to eat and drink as quiet as possible when there are people around who could hear me (of course not at a restaurant or...|||I've never heard of ASMR before but I just watched some youtube videos. It actually has the intentional soothing effect on me (in addition to a slightly awkward feeling at the thought that I watch...|||After reading those two threads I add: whispering (between other people in the same room but so subtle that you can only hear the s-sounds).|||Hearing people chew is one of the worst things I can imagine. It's not only that I can't stand it, I get extremely enraged by it and really have to pull myself together not to lose my self-control. ...|||My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. (Psalm 73:26)|||I usually have those self-revealing kind of conversations with people that I interact or have to interact with on a regular basis, may it be family, friends, job, etc. I find it very helpful to share...|||Oh my goodness, your story is tearing my heart apart!! :blushed: It's like one of those intense, heart-wrenching, drama filled love stories you read in some of the classics.  I really hope for the...|||Just came across this nice little adorable quote...  Reason is intelligence taking exercise. Imagination is intelligence with an erection. ― Victor Hugo|||INFP...  Yes, I already finished the paper last week. Unicorns don't exist. Is it hot in here or is it just you? Of course I got a sleep routine! Pride and Prejudice sucks! I trust...'