'Heartsick and conflicted, just like I have been for the last three years. I keep experiencing brilliant life opportunities and then squandering them with incurable mistakes. What I wouldn't give for...|||I've been going through a major identity crisis...for two years now. Is it normal for INFP's to completely lose sight of who they really are at some point later in life (I'm 34)? I was triggered a...|||http://youtu.be/2yUN6CsuVPw|||Well, that's the beauty of it I guess. He didn't do anything. He was just being himself and involved in his own life, taking ownership of his own feelings. I found that very attractive, and still...|||Hey, I'm in the same boat! ...only a few years down the road. Would you like a glimpse into the future if you stay on your current path? Feel free to PM me!|||It did, a little. It made my heart beat faster for about three hours. If you are very sensitive to stimulants, probably better find another way.|||I'm looking at the world through lenses of love.|||I don't know about shots helping, but I got through my exam anxiety by borrowing some adderall from a friend. I've never felt such overwhelming focus, there were definitely laserbeams coming out of...|||The right ones won't run away or be afraid of the intensity of your feelings. It may annoy them at times, be prepared for that, but it won't scare them away. When love does come, however, attempt to...|||I can say firsthand this is not true. My partner is an INFP that I met here on PerC and he is the sexiest man I've ever been around, and I've dated a lot. I can't get enough of him, ever, in any way....|||How do you all get through your depression? Is there anything someone who loves you can do for you or do you just have to endure it and wait until it lets go? How can someone be compassionate for...|||A recommendation from Hotspur.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xctIJ228cIw&amp;feature=share&amp;list=PLrjLL5K0GW  xuib6mhpM1g7Og-0taxg2IU|||I wish Des Moines was as cool when I lived there (not that long ago) as it seems to be now. Everywhere I look there seem to be creative thinkers and people doing innovative deeds.|||http://youtu.be/YaenB-_crmE|||I don't want to hear about it. Don't tell me more than I want to know. Drop it.|||This has not been a happy few months for me. I'm having a hard time finding value in myself as a woman or a friend or daughter. I know these feelings are the by-product of life change and growing as...|||I'm tired of people that want to be my friend and then reject, dismiss, or ignore me once they get to know more of who I am.  I reveal who I really am to so few, it's getting harder and harder to...|||I'm a member of all the intuitive groups on facebook. A while back I saw a post by a young guy probably under 20, telling in a very vulnerable way his story on battling with and beating anorexia. He...|||http://poorlydrawnlines.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/the-world-and-mr-duck.png|||You've always felt comfortable to me! :)|||Keep talking to us here!|||Sometimes even the people closest to me, the ones I love with all my heart, annoy the ever living crap out of me.|||It's Valentine's Day, which Ive come to think of as kind of another Thanksgiving. A day to give thanks for Love. All kinds of Love.|||I always feel a little sick to my stomach on Valentines Day, how the media has shaped it into something so sugary and superficial. I have always felt, single or not, a lot of pressure to do...|||I love this post and how you express yourself in general. You guys have an incredible time together! :)|||Amazingly enough, I sometimes find it easier to share personal information about myself on Facebook than here sometimes, as if I feel more protective of my avatar identity than my actual identity.|||http://youtu.be/9UUPEo849_s|||It doesn't matter how many times I watch this, I laugh every time. :)   http://youtu.be/9UUPEo849_s|||I'm not going to argue with you, but my curiosity is always piqued when someone says they think something is something and then show the something, but don't explain why the something is something to...|||It's not my news to share so I won't write names, but two INFP's that posted here frequently just got engaged (to each other)!|||Bump|||The best part of my day when I work under certain bosses is the five minutes I give myself to fantasize about how to tell them off in a clever way and satisfying way.|||I almost feel like we should have an INFP complaining thread. Some days when I'm feeling grumpy I just want somewhere to legitimately complain and not care who reads it or even if anyone reads it....|||It's been a while since I took a moment to proclaim my love for coffee.  I LOVE YOU, COFFEE!!|||This may not be healthy advice, but I used to be the same way when I was younger. In an effort to will myself into normal human interaction, I would dress my body up until I felt sufficiently covered...|||My friend (INFJ) has just met someone who she feels deeply connected to, and this is from an email she sent me this morning. It makes me the happiest person in the world that she has found someone...|||I remember seeing you go through those dark days. Wishing you all the best and as a fellow INFP, proud of you for taking control of your pain and seeing it through. :)|||I've spent most of my life ignoring my music talent, focusing on other things but regretting not seeing where my talent could take me. Last month I started taking opera lessons and I love it! I have...|||Every time I think I have life figured out, I realize I don't know anything at all and have to start from the beginning again. I'm starting to think I should just let life happen.|||When I get stressed and emotionally compromised, it's almost impossible to focus on things that would make me feel productive. I can get so emotionally overwhelmed that start to make mistakes on my...|||Once I get emotionally hurt or scared from a specific person, it is incredibly hard to bring myself back to the place where I can trust them again. It takes either a direct acknowledgement from the...|||I've been having a torrid love affair with Paul McCartney's Memory Almost Full this entire weekend! Such a great album!|||Some days I won't feel overly happy, but then I'll remember something from my past that will make me feel exceedingly happy and the wonderful consequence is from that point on I don't ever want to...|||84630|||Unfortunately I've seen this go the other way as well. Happy people turn bitchy and angry from having a partner.|||http://youtu.be/95LdEcte5os|||After many many years of posting here, I've finally hit 1000 posts!|||Went and basked in the glory of Wilco and Bob Dylan tonight. We had a blast, but I somehow captured Hotspur's I'm not happy face. ;)  79349|||This is nothing more than anyone in here has ever said before or will say again, but there are definitely times when I am feeling low that I do not want to be alive. Maybe not permanently dead, but a...|||Went to a family BBQ with lots of people I don't know, and even though I wasn't feeling very social, I had a great time sitting around a talking/laughing with people. I can't remember the last time I...'