'And he told me he is listeniby to the album he asked about and he is trying to get through the discography of my favorite artist. I thanked him for caring about music that means a lot to me and he...|||I encouraged him to work on his music when we hung out. He is having trouble making it because of his living situation. Today he sent me album art ideas, album title ideas, a poem and a 30 second...|||Same. I don't think it's the right time either. I think I get high from it but after awhile it makes me feel crazy and kinda ruminate which is unhealthy. Thank you so much dude!|||I think I explained that badly but he didn't actually being up past memories. What I meant was that he told me when we dated that he could be himself around me. And I'm just observing that he still...|||If I could get more thoughts and opinions, especially from the people that told me he does not like me...it would be great. I am still a little unsure. :(|||650017  I did look pretty juicy yesterday|||Just an update on my ex who I still have feelings for. I have other posts on our situation.   We hung out for 8 hours yesterday. He drove 30 minutes to pick me up and bring us to hang at his house....|||He has also told me that he is trying with our friendship. I got upset with him and told him that I am not a priority. That was unfair of me to say. He really is trying and I made him feel like his...|||Why do people keep telling me to cut ties when I have said that my instinct and heart are telling me not to. I refuse. So it's extremely patronizing to keep telling me that because it sounds like...|||Cognitive dissonance doesn't feel present in this situation for me. He told me he is open about talking about the past but I'm not ready yet. So that's on me, the closure stuff. But I am trusting my...|||He does care about me. He told me when we started talking again. He is sweeter than any guy that I've met. I don't feel like I'm being toyed with to be honest. And usually I know when I am being...|||He is inviting me over to his place to hang out in the evening :)|||Wanting reassurance is completely fine. And if you read the posts youd know that i have multiple mental disorders. Your post wasn't gentle and you didn't consider my feelings.|||I feel like I shouldn't have posted this. I feel worse from this honestly. I think it's a borderline thing. I know all of what everyone is suggesting and saying. And I'm not trying to push the advice...|||Thank you. I appreciate this. I am trying to be accepting. I am going crazy, but that's just a borderline thing. It is hard for me to stop ruminating and asking things over and over and over. It will...|||Okay. But I still think I have things to work on. I may have made him feel depressed. I wasn't making him happy that's for sure. But now I feel better so we have been happy around eachother. It won't...|||Wanting reassurance is not a bad thing. You are still being insensitive and invalidating.|||I have borderline personality disorder so my behaviors change. I understand deep down, but when my anxiety is prominent I will not see the light. I feel more reason minded. He told me he still feels...|||I am so sure of not giving up but people keep trying to discourage me and I feel upset. The discouraging comments have no value to them and they are insensitive and close minded. I feel depressed and...|||Assuming how I will feel about him is ineffective. You can't just tell me how I am going to feel. If he has moved on, why is he behaving this way towards me? He is still open to me.|||You are rude and inconsiderate and close minded. I did not ask an intp. You are insensitive and invalidating. And he has not told me he does not have feelings for me. Things are still open. You are...|||Ugh|||I am really hurt by the discouragement. I ask that people stop that because it does not help me  I am not giving up..we still have to hang out and there is still unknowns. SO STOP GIVING ME...|||Ugh|||Ugh|||Enfj lady that loves her ex boyfriend. Howdy. We only dated for 4 months, but our connection was unreal. Emotional connection because he is demisexual. So he broke up with me 6 months ago due to...|||Deleted threat because I do not like being discouraged. I do not like closeminded rude people.|||I think I responded okay?    Also, I am sorry if that sounded critical. I definitely am sad that I have to wait longer to see you, but the most important thing to me is that you do what you need...|||ENFJ here. Maybe? I'm not sure. I have multiple mental illnesses. Every test I take comes out with a different answer. Anyways, my ex is an INFP. We are currently friends and he knows I still have...|||I'm not sure what I am. I've had different ones each time I've taken tests. I have borderline personality disorder, anxiety, adhd and depression. I think I'm all over the place. Is there any...|||I don't have clarity on what I really am and it's bugging me. Every test I take comes with a different one each time. Does anyone have this problem?|||Yeah, I doubt you would! Neither would I. He just needs to figure his sense of value as a person by himself (or with some professional help). If you guys get together though, my advise is you can...|||Sorry forgot to explain. When my ex-cheated one me. I assumed it was my fault or something wrong with me, hence a character flaw with me. (not with her) This was totally unhealthy and illogical...|||If he knows you have feelings for him and he hasn't told you how he feels back, he's not feeling it. I really do agree with  tryingtodobetter about writing a letter and telling him exactly how you're...|||What if he will be too nervous and scared to tell me? He knows we have a friendship. He wants me in his life and as a friend, but he also knows that i still have feelings. I know He doesn't want a...|||I will next time! Sorry! How does not feeling worthy of someone correlate with the fear of being cheated on again?|||I'm really sorry! I didn't think about it when I was typing. Haha. He got therapy for a bit but stopped going, it may have been for financial reasons. I wanna see if he could get Medicare to cover it...|||He knows I have feelings for him. I think it's too soon for a letter of affection. I'm also 22 so lol. Same but my post is super overwhelming lol|||It has crossed my mind but I am afraid if I do it too soon that it would scare him away or have him become distant|||I am sorry that it's overwhelming to read. I know. He told me i reminded him of his ex before he started having feelings for me, so idk if that changes anything. I think he meant it in an artistic...|||I don't know if I'm officially friendzoned yet. But I'm not giving up on him!|||Hello. This is going to be just...reckless babble...because I am so overwhelmed by uncertainty and unknowns that it's hard for me to articulate this in a relaxed manner. Some things may be...'