'@SleepIsForTheWeak   (((((((((((Happy for you))))))))))))) :sun-smiley:|||@jamaix first of all   ******** HUGS ********  I can feel your pain at accidentally offending someone despite trying so hard not to. You know this already, but despite perfect behavior people...|||I wish I had some great wisdom to share here but I don't. I'll just share my two cents:  1) When in doubt, communicate. Sounds like you and your boss have talked about things, which is great. But...|||I absolutely love and adore INTJs.   My SO is one, and our Ni-Ni clicked right away in a very deep tell me everything you've learned about the world kinda way.   A big part of it is that we...|||Hmm... I'll pass for now.   If anyone finds good tidbits, please share!|||I can totally relate!   The stereotype is that INFJs are great writers, but I'm such a better speaker, in person. My biggest problem is editing (and actually I make a great editor if I do say so...|||You sound INFP, to me.   My advice: forget the tests. Read the forums and you'll get a better feel for it.|||I don't mind repeating myself that much, but what I can't stand is being told the same thing twice. I'm like, I HEARD YOU THE FIRST TIME!   No surprise: patience is not one of my virtues. :kitteh:|||In yoga, the stretch should feel a bit uncomfortable but not painful.   Same is true here.  When pushing boundaries, have an exit plan.|||Based on the little info here, I'd guess INTJ.  My INTJ is really lazy and not particularly organized, except for the projects he cares about. And there are only 2 or 3 of those total.  What...|||Disagree.   Every INFJ I know is too picky to settle. They'd rather be alone.   I waited, and now I've found my INTJ soulmate (as you define it), and we're happy.   Don't give up.|||A bit non sequitur here, but why are you guys picking on the Roman?   Life is short. Enjoy the show.|||It Felt Love   How   Did the rose  Ever open its heart|||What a great question!   I have no idea, but there's an amazing Subreddit called AskHistorians you could post on: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians  Who's up for a field trip?!|||Same.   Too much people time = NEED alone time  I start spending more time in the bathroom, ha. That's the ultimate emergency exit when I need a second alone.   These forums are another escape....|||I have very think walls but don't put them up all the time. When I feel attacked, sometimes my walls come up so high I can't even speak to people I love - I need space to 'feel safe' and time to...|||INTJ  The I keeps me sane  The N keeps me interested  The T gives me a new perspective  The J keeps me sane|||I would pull out the hammer.  Look, you and your wife are constantly making comments about my size. It's rude and inappropriate and I've already asked you nicely to stop several times. I want to...|||YES YES YES YES YES  I find that my sense of humor is out of sync with most people. Here's what it looks like:  - Person makes a joke I don't find funny so I don't laugh and then they're...|||ENTP? Run away! Run away!   In all seriousness, to quote someone else in the forum, he found a new shiny.|||My INTJ boyfriend, especially if I want detailed advice  My ENFJ super best friend, especially if I want to be 'heard' and feel less alone in the world  My 2 close ENFP friends, especially if I...|||Before I found my people:  - Are you ok? - You're too sensitive - You over analyze things - You're too bossy - You're too nice - You make it too easy [i.e. don't play hard to get]|||Action oriented for sure. I have no patience for blah blah blah. Let's get to the point, make it happen, and move on.|||I don't do it intentionally but do notice correlations between personality type and writing style. For example if I see:  Hello there everyone!! I'm new to the ENFP forums and seriously need some...|||Said no INFJ ever. We're sticklers for authenticity and often have bleeding hearts.   Honestly, you don't sound INFJ OR INTJ. Actually you don't sound N to me at all. (Look at all you INTJs falling...|||My biggest weakness is getting defensive. And I'm really great at defending myself and my views in a very blunt Let. Me. Tell. You. How. This. Is. Going. To. Work. kinda way. It's effective but way...|||Try looking places where people aren't talking so much. Coffee shops, parks, bookstores etc. Even visually, if you scan a room, INFJs aren't the first ones you'll notice. We're generally not wearing...|||INFJ here. That's how I act if I like someone... but it's also how I act if I like someone as a friend and think they're interesting.   SO, if I were you I'd make my interest clear though text...|||INTJ for sure. Sometimes I seem more INTJ than my INTJ boyfriend. As a hostess I seem ENFJ and at the right, rare, kind of party I can seem ENFP. As a team with an ENTJ, we're unstoppable, and look...|||Nox, you are a Master. Nailed it.|||ESFJ mom  ISTJ dad  =  ESTJ sister   INFJ me    Yes, it was rough.|||I've never really related to the Enneagram. Couldn't figure out if I was a 9, 5, 2 or what.   Just took the test again and came out a 1 - seems right.|||I don't know about INFPs but I'm VERY expressive in both my face and body. It's hard for me to hide what I'm thinking and feeling - even when I'm daydreaming it's obvious. Usually, it puts people at...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BmErRm-vApI|||Surprised to hear about ENTP social anxiety. You guys seems so, I dono, smoooth.  Where I live there are LOTS of Ns, and the ENTP and ENTJs are like kings. A nerd mecca, really. I do still feel...|||Interesting to see so many INFJ's say math. I was always good with math but horrible with spelling and language classes. Math wasn't interesting to me though - I was always thinking, What's the...|||1) Names  - I know you are too but I'm even worse than that. 2) Spelling - less of a problem with technology, but still. 3) Humor - I don't get it.|||Yes, love is possible! I found love but not exactly in the way I expected.   Interesting to hear about other INFJ/ISTJ relationships. I almost married an ISTJ but broke it off after we moved in...|||My INTJ was SO awkward about affection when we first started hanging out. It's like he wanted to be near me but didn't know how to do it. *smirk*  Now he comes round regularly to fill his...|||Find yourself an INTJ friend or lover for hours and hours of entertainment--it never gets old!   ENTP will play this game too...when they manage to show up.|||I'm no MBTI expert, so take this with a scoop of peanut butter.  INFJ see ideas and systems too, but those ideas and systems are often focused on people and society. My INTJ and I love playing the...|||I never knew you till now, but here's a *HUG* goodbye. Happy exploring!|||What does that look like? Please share.|||Hadn't heard of it. I'm still not sure I really understand Se but I'm getting better at it, at least visually, for example by wearing more expressive clothes. When I'm stressed though I'll sometimes...|||This is like poetry. Tragic yet beautiful.|||I love that they love us too...even if they can't use that word! The Ni bond is just so strong and there's so much depth and opportunity for learning on both sides. (I swear I'm not trying to turn...|||@FallingSlowly Your rambling is much welcome. Nice sig and photo too. :)|||For the most part I absolutely adore INTJs and I'm lucky to be close to a few of them.   There are a couple INTJs in my life though that really get under my skin. One is married to an INFJ best...|||Here's one test: if you always end up being the responsible person, you're INFJ.|||...oh, I forgot to ask: is anyone else surprised how many people selected INTJ in the poll? I know that's true for me but I didn't realize it was common. I'd have guessed NFs would choose another NF,...'