'Or perhaps you are looking at the letters too closely and not seeing the bigger picture.  I have two female ISTJ friends - both remind me of each other and both remind me of Katniss, although one...|||5'5, 125 lbs, hour glass but work/work chair is slowly gradually effecting that|||Katnis is absolutely an ISTJ.  One of my good friends is exactly like her, it's creepy.  She's very naive about most things but very intelligent in other ways, resourceful, loves putting things like...|||Wandering around the world, backpack on, er, back, meeting an assortment of unusual, philanthropic, idealist people from everywhere, helping save people's lives, mastering several foreign languages. ...|||Nope, never.  I have morals, strong ones, even though they aren't apparent to everyone.|||lazily extraverted, if that's possible.  require motivation.|||INFPs - crazy fun, tiringly unreliable  INTJs - moth to flames, very hot, blueish, crippling flames    Looked.  Hot.|||In all seriousness, I really do like to pursue, at least to a degree.  I like to put in some effort, mostly in the beginning so I don't lose interest, and then have you fall for me and do the rest...|||second that    We do...it involves expletives.|||OK, so this is an update on the situation that made me post my original question.  So, even though I wasn't able to react and defend myself right when I was slighted, I was able to say something a...|||I love the idea of having a standard line to say when you know someone said something possibly insulting but you cant process it right away!  Hmm...     Anyway, if you aren't ever offended,...|||Anyone else have problems standing up for yourself when the initial offensive comment or action is made?  I have absolutely no problem reacting quickly to help protect and defend other people but...|||I'm a Benevolent Inventor|||Haha, well, it's been more than two years since I originally started this post and, I can honestly say that you REALLY do realize that you learned A LOT of very important lessons from hard times. ...|||Ha!  I've misjudged TWO ENTPS as being INTJs before!  So weird.  I thought I was the only one to do that.  Also, makes me wonder if others see me INTJ-like sometimes too.|||Watch out for competing personalities.  Also, over analyzing.|||I'm BARELY in this age range but I am, and so in my case, I am still single and, after rough endings with the last few men I've dated, I'm ready for a break.  I will say that I've learned so much...|||Just saw this article and thought I'd post it to this thread, since we briefly discussed older women with younger men...  I can relate to Roberta (albeit, I only dated someone 6 years my junior)...|||...INFJs and INTJs.  Oddly, I get along best with them too.  X P  Like a moth to a flame.|||Good point, a lot of ENTPs probably understand people's motives.  I think I do too, but I also can feel horrible when, say, telling people that they have wronged me in some way, mostly because I...|||My mother just called me this, stating that she's always known me to be this.  Not sure why she waited till now to tell me.  Anyone else feel like an empath or have been described as such?  The...|||My favorite kind of eyes|||Yes, she does seem stressed and she has admitted that reorganizing relieves her stress.  I think that organizing things when stressed is common for a lot of people, regardless of type, but...|||Funny, when I started getting into MBTI, I pegged my INFJ best friend as an INFP.  It's not that she's dirty or messy, it's that she's always late for things, forgets things, forgets to tell me...|||Those are interesting points; the organized mess.  My boss can be very detail oriented, but it's not about things that most people are concerned with.  For instance, her desk is chaotic - piles of...|||I think that my current roommate and boss are INFJs.  I noticed a similar characteristic in both, that they constantly reorganize things in the house or at work.  They come up with a new way to do...|||One thing I noticed though is that I have a very hard time letting guys in and showing them that I really care.  This has been a complaint time and time again.  Anyone else feel this way?  I'm...|||I feel you here.  I kinda look like a barbie or cheerleader if you don't know me, but as soon as I start talking (or spitting, or laughing obscenely loudly, or cussing...), you realize that you can't...|||Hahaha, the fact that this is still even going on means that you are bothered by it.  I'm not trying to annoy you, just that I'm saying, lighten up and stop being rude and patronizing to women. ...|||You sure you're not really an ISTJ?!  hahahahahahahahahahahaha, again, not wanting to claim you as an ENTP.  So sad.  Also, Ms. Goodwitch is gorgeous, where are your glasses?  ; )  Um, if you want...|||Oh my god, you're pathetic haha.  I would rather not claim you as an ENTP.|||Oh man, so sorry you're hanging out with unattractive older women but there are plenty of hot ladies out there older than 34.  You're kinda ridiculous ha. ...|||I've given up on INTJs.  I only met one in person, fell in love with him right away, he then proceeded to put me through friendship hell for a year and decided he only wanted to be friends that made...|||http://www.google.com/imgres?hl=en&sa=X&rls=com.microsoft:en-us:IE-SearchBox&biw=1289&bih=1044&tbm=isch&prmd=imvns&tbnid=blaaeIIESkk9YM:&imgrefurl=http://blog.vh1.com/2008-06-06/roar-hollywoods-hottes...|||I'm a female, I can honestly say I've never had sex with a virgin, therefore I wouldn't be of much help.  But....  I'm a female, so possibly more in touch with my feelings than male ENTPs?  But...|||Yup.  I don't do it because it makes me feel young, I think I act young anyway which is probably why these young boys hit on me.  They have no idea how old I am and are usually shocked.  That said,...|||Ha!  Good luck.  My experimental phase has lasted a decade.  It is tiring and then you tell yourself, I'm ready to settle down and get serious with someone, I don't want to do this anymore, I just...|||Anyone else date people all over the place in age, personality type, looks, height, width, every other way possible?  I'm starting to worry that I am just a freak.  I've dated guys 11 years my senior...|||On average, I get 5 years my junior.  I've been confused for someone 10 years my junior too.  Most recently, I've been attracting men who are literally 9-10 years younger than me.  Not sure what I'm...|||Oh hell no!  It takes me several failed attempts to figure it out on my own before I make myself read the instructions.  My old INFJ roommates used to think that not reading the instructions made me...|||I have two ISTJ friends and used to have an ISTJ coworker.  From what I can tell, we get along very well in an activity or action oriented relationship, meaning that we do sports, dance, go out with...|||If you ever end up having a crush on a girl and you can't figure out why you both have stare offs and you can't read her, it's probably because she's your match.  Meaning she's probably an ENTP too. ...|||two more:  climbing gyms or outside climbing areas, grad school ; )|||I have an INFJ best friend and an INFJ boss, both female.  I may have an INFJ new roommate as well, so I think they are drawn perhaps to us as much as we are to them?  In my humble opinion, the...|||Soccer.  I love soccer : )  I'll be the one hacking at everyone's legs and cussing haha and then I'll flirt on the sidelines.|||[QUOTE=the3rdpower;1584721]Epic sex Jedi mind games Senseless hours of randomness 2x's the messy house 2x's the adrenaline junky syndrom  [QUOTE]  I'm validating most of these descriptions -...|||Also, I'm now confirming that there is a lot of foresight and stealth and coincidences involved in the wooing process hahaha.  And it may pay off.  ha|||is this from experience?|||bike riding trip with good friends during torrential rain that happily surprised us on what was the hottest day of the year, and during a time when my apartment's AC was broken.  it felt like a...|||he sounds great!  Oh weird, the entp that's pursuing me invited himself and a friend of ours to my house for a movie night, and ended up staying over till 4 a.m., after the friend left (nothing...'