Exactly! Everyone around us tells girls not to get raped. As little girls we are bombarded with 'safety tips' to help us prevent rape(not going out at night, never going anywhere alone, walking...|||for me, i'm only flaky if it's not hurting others. If it's affecting other people in a negative way, if someone is truly relying on me then I would never back out.|||What the actual fuck? It's not women's responsibility to make sure they don't get raped. And no, they aren't asking for it if they are drunk. Please stop posting here because your words are an...|||no, because at the time I didn't realize what was happening, and I didn't realize the seriousness of the situation. I forgot about it for awhile and didn't think about it until a few years ago. My...|||I appreciate your kind words, but I think most women realize that not all men are like that. The scary thing is, not all 'nice guys' can be trusted. People tend to place rapists in boxes, equate them...|||When I was 4 or 5, my dads girlfriend was having a party. All of the adults were downstairs, and I was upstairs with her sons who were at least 4 years old than me. They had there friends there, and...|||Sadly, I think no matter where you live, women go through this a lot. That's why when men don't understand feminism, or talk about mens rights, I get mad because i've been experiencing things like...|||Ideas fuelled by intense emotion usually compel me to create, most of the time I write poetry or collage. Sometimes I will just be looking around me and will see something interesting and relate it...|||True, but experimenting is different then wanting to actually date girls. Also, bi girls are only more accepted because people usually don't take our sexualities seriously. Guy's think it's hot that...|||No, female infps and male infps both have their challenges. And i'm a female infp, and unless you're a super outgoing girl, most guys won't bother talking to you unless you're super attractive. I...|||I read because it's enjoyable for me. So if I don't enjoy a book, then it would be pointless for me to read it. Then again, there are some novels that, although I don't like them, keep me interested...|||Tired, burdened, hopeful, excited, annoyed, sweaty, Lazy|||I don't think it's an 'error' because most people don't base their feelings of love off of someone due to their looks. You can't fall in love with the way someone looks, you fall in love with that...|||The older I get, the less 'overly nice' i'm becoming. Before, like the other answerer said, I used it to navigate social situations and wasn't really comfortable with who I was, and wasn't...|||Wait, are you saying it's impossible for anyone to fall in love with a fat person? That's obviously not true, because it happens all the time, Haven't you ever found someone average looking, and then...|||Actually, no. Although on the surface I appear to be feminine(although my femininity somehow seems different from stereotypical 'girly girls') I often think of myself as having more masculine...|||I've experienced this my whole life. I'm not a loud or obnoxious person, so when I do manage to speak up in class the teachers will oftentimes ignore me, even if they can hear me. The one's who get...|||I am obsessed with Haruki Murakami, and his 'never let me go' is probably one of my favourite books! I will definitely check out the other suggestions you listed since you seem to have good taste aha.|||My mom says this to me ALL THE TIME, if I try pointing out her harmful behaviour, she will either start yelling or crying about how no one loves her, and how I don't appreciate all of the things...|||Why are you so quiet/weird? What is wrong with you? And like the other poster said, infps, at least in my own experience, are hyper aware of their shortcomings and flaws. So when someone else...|||...Ok, well your opinion of bisexuals has no bearing on my own sexuality. If I tell someone i'm bisexual, I expect my identity to be taken seriously, and not some ploy for attention because i'm...|||One's that invoke strong emotion, one's that make me laugh, cry, make me horrified, scared or feel personally for the main characters. I love a book that sucks me into it's world as if I were in it...|||I do agree, Esfjs can be very warm, caring and nurturing. But sometimes it seems fake, because they aren't always like this, only when you are on their good side and are agreeing with them about...|||Yeah, same. Although I love feminine clothing, it's not the stereotypical clothing that is 'girly', more of like something you found in your grandmas/grandpas closet that has lace on it lol. I adore...|||Although i am an introvert, I need to have an equal amount of socializing and time spent alone. If I don't talk to any of my friends for a few days I become really anxious and insecure, which is...|||I do agree that infps are good conversationalists, but not because we are more 'deep and interesting'. I think it's because we genuinely care about what people have to say. I know for myself, I love...|||I think a  lot of infps may have traits similar to some disorders, but I don't think it means that we actually have them. I think the difference is that although our behaviour is inclined to certain...|||I'm majoring in sociology, but generally i'm interested in most social sciences and I love learning about 'underground' history. I think Infps would be good researchers if we are researching...|||Yeah, I definitely agree that it is a symptom, not a disorder. At the time I was anxious and depressed following a bad drug experience which sort of made me take a look at my life and made me...|||I agree with you, because a lot of guys do have this attitude of deserving you, and if you don't give them more they will call you a bitch or just stop being friends with you. The reason why it's not...|||Wait, are you trying to say that what I said was dumb? Because you basically just agreed with me S:|||.|||I know you probably meant no harm in this, but i'm a bisexual girl and I cannot tell you how many times i've had that said to me. It's infuriating to not have your sexuality taken seriously just...|||In theory it sounds nice, but I don't think I could handle dating an infp. I have a few infp friends and although we like eachother it's hard for us to get close since we are so introverted. I feel...|||I love learning and intellectual discussions, just not about things that are 'pointless'. I think I lean more towards philosophical conversations, or things that actually have an impact on the world...|||Oh yes, i've experienced this before. It was actually quite scary, and I don't think it's a disorder unless it's a constant thing you know? It's like anxiety, something a lot of people experience...|||Sometimes I do question my sanity since i'm so 'abonormal' compared to most people, but really people who have weird interests and hobbies are the most interesting and fun to be around! So don't feel...|||Oh, sorry! I meant to disagree with the person who said that mbti should be used to generalize.|||I adore clothing and use it as a means to express myself. I love vintage clothing, hippie and boho inspired looks. I don't usually wear any outrageous outfits though. My clothing is pretty low key,...|||There is a difference between changing your behaviour slightly around certain people to form more of a connection with them, and completely disregarding all of your values just so others will like...|||I disagree with you. Although you can generalize to a certain extent, everyone is a unique individual regardless of their personality type. I am friends with 3 infps as well as being one myself and I...|||I'm very childlike, but at the same time very mature for my age. Sometimes I feel like a mixture between a 6 year old and a 80 year old all at once haha. I can act very silly and innocent, and other...|||This happens to me all of the time. It's like, people can't hear me or something, even when I say it really loud, or they're just intentionally ignoring me haha.|||Yeah this is true for me too. Sometimes I will be drawn to certain people without ever having talked to them, just because I can sense something i can't quite put my finger on. Like, I will just feel...|||What attracts me to a person is kindness, openness and a sense that they won't judge me and will accept me for who I am, (even if they don't understand me). As well, someone who knows who they are...|||I don't trust myself to drive, I get so anxious and I feel like i'm not completely in control of the vehicle. I'm just starting to practice driving and when i'm nervous I tend to speed up. But my...|||My cousin who I am really close to is Enfj, infp, my best friend is an infj, and my other two close friends are istp, and Es?p. My parents who I don't get along with at all are Isfj and entj.|||omg a similar thing happened to me when I was really young too! My babysitter would always make me rub her dirty feet, and she would take her shirt off and make me rub her back with lotion. This...|||If no one is taking leadership, I will usually be the first to decide something. But if there are others willing to take on the role, I will always go along with them, unless something they are doing...|||I take rejection horribly if I really care about or invested a lot of time in someone/something. Whether it be from friends, love interests, jobs, etc. I seem to take everything so so personally, and...