'My Mum is an ISTJ and can be brutal at times but I usually get along with her now that I've grown up a bit. I think there are types that I have found much, much worse. Basically anyone that will be...|||Rapunzel from Tangled, the Little Mermaid, Bicentennial Man, Pippy Long Stockings, Helga from Hey Arnold (she might have been an INFP though) and Sailor Moon|||Just came back from an INTJ/INFJ ENFP thread, and boy, a lot of them do not like us. I struggle with people not liking me, like I want to be friends with everyone. Its not really fair to judge a...|||Yeah, because I could connect it to my own life. Its not a very fun place to live though. Once I got medicated for my Bipolar and other things, I stopped being depressed most of the time. Now I'm...|||I say all the things I'm too scared/polite to say when I'm in a good mood. If someone criticizes me when I'm in a bad place, I will unleash fury. I also can't stand being around people in a good mood...|||Not as a child, but I occassionally get them now. A man in white robes, a floating head, a dude peering over his fence... why are they always male?!? lol|||I would say people prefer mature ENFPs to immature, underdeveloped ones. It's funny how some people are brilliant from day one, and others take their whole lifes to become pleasant people. I can...|||So, are you guys in a relationship yet? :octopus::octopus:|||I liked someone who was 21 or 22 when I was 25. It felt super weird to me. Funny thing is, he was probably more mature than me.|||Liking mutual statuses that hes liked will just confuse him and will look like you are playing games. Like he won't know if you actually enjoyed the status or were trying to impress him.  I think...|||What exactly is ''the chase? can you define what it looks like?  I think if someone is interested in you for three years and has to work to get your interest, he has been chasing you. You just...|||Hmm this thread is quite old isn't it? To be honest, I was joking when I said fight, fight. It was said in jest. I'm not sure where I heard it from, but its a common expression where I come from. I...|||I'm just worried that someone else will come along, and he'll fall for her, while wondering what is going on with you. It sounds to close to playing games. He is obviously into you, and it sounds...|||I think being in a relationship would be exciting! lots of firsts and you get to go on adventures together!  The worst thing is to not take a chance. In 10 years, you could still have feelings for...|||3 possible outcomes 1. He thinks you are playing games and gets turned off 2. Another girl comes along, and they end up dating instead, because you weren't upfront about things 3. You get...|||I think you should just ask him out and see what happens. Best not to worry about all of this. I know its easy to obsess, if you go on my profile page, you will see I have over 16 pages of threads...|||Really interesting read, thanks|||It sounds like he does like you... but, people get confused by ENFPs. I think we like everyone to like us, and we can come off as flirting when we are just being friendly.  I still think you should...|||If he's not starting conversations with you, or txting you first than he's either not into you, or he's shy. Most of my friendships are like that :'-(|||I think you hurt his feelings when you said that you didn't mean him. That's how I would read it, but I'm socially awkward, so may not be the best interpreter.  Anyway, I think you should go for...|||1.) Is there something that you've always wanted to do or have been  interested in?  Broadly, specifically, a journey, creation, vocation,  etc?  -Photography -Teaching -Travel -Books...|||I was mostly addressing myself. About 80% of the stuff I have posted on here is probably bullshit. I loved giving people advice, yet my own life was a huge mess- still single at mid 20s, did badly at...|||Thoughtful, weird, lonely, young, religious|||I will share some examples/stories because I don't know how good I would be at explaining things:  -When I was a toddler, I liked looking through books to see the pictures, and loved looking...|||Oh no! So many new posts to read through *inwardly groans*|||I think I hurt her. I have Bipolar, and I got really sick a few years ago and was posting inappropriate stuff online. She was the only one that reached out to me and tried to help me, by calming me...|||I think 6 years is a huge age difference when you are 17/18. They are at very different life stages. He probably sees her as being more of an older sister type, rather than a partner.|||Honestly, I was a dumbass for posting about something like this on facebook. Of course she would lash out, I was pretty much asking for it. Don't diss people publicly. Lesson learnt.|||I think its a bad idea. I tried talking to multiple people online for a while, and I felt bad because I was getting attached to one person and didn't want to talk to anyone else, because it felt like...|||Don't give people advice when your own life is shit. Don't trash people online or speak negatively about them, its recorded online forever whether its true or not, and the person won't be there to...|||Rereading this after all this time  A few years ago, I managed to make my trumpet teacher (a Fe user I think) incredibly angry by saying I'd rather be at a music course rather than his concert. ...|||Hopefully, it definately hasn't happened yet!|||*cringe* (at me)|||I love the purple dress! I wouldn't want to wear it for more than a few hours though.|||No, I have things I like, and things I don't like. I mix all my styles. When I listen to music, I don't listen to one genre one day, than another the next, I click ''shuffle'' then sing/dance along...|||This ENFP turns into an obsessed psycho. Bipolar, love and ENFPs don't mix.|||I was like that in highschool, but I doubt anyone thought I was ''very nice looking''.  The truth is, I got bullied heavily for three years, wanted to kill myself, didn't really have any friends...|||Haha, I wish I styled my hair more. To be honest I'm not very good at it. My hair doesn't look that bright or neat anymore, it was curled straight after it had been dried by the hairdresser. I am...|||Fair enough|||Again, a lot of assumptions being made here.|||?|||Sorry... I keep describing myself as 27, but I'm actually 26... my birthday is in a week!|||Thats true, but can you actually go from being cute to hot? I'm 27 and most people think I'm about 18. Until recently, I could pass as a 14 year old. You'd think I was short or something, but I'm 5'8.|||I don't think its possible for me to be ''hot''. I have always been described as cute, occassionally beautiful.  I am close to being flat chested, have small hips and basically no waist. I always...|||I am really surprised by some of the replies on this thread.  I thought ENFPs were dreamers, adventurous, manic pixie dream girls, old souls, young souls, people who march to the beat of their old...|||sweetraglansweater Maybe pink hair is not for you and that is fine. My sister says she loves my hair and that it really suits me, that I should keep it like this forever. My dad says he feels happy...|||I took myself on a date a few months ago. I feel silly, I giggled the whole time!|||I went and winked at like 15 people on the dating site, not sure what will come of it, or if I'm brave enough to take things further.|||People go on about how wonderful and liberating being single is, but its hard when you have nothing to compare it to. They say that being in a relationship is only worth it if it is with the right...|||I hope we get coupled up soon with the right people, or find an interest that completely distracts us. I am distracted from this most of the time.'