'Oh fellow INFJ's... I came to this post because I was second-guessing my character. It was a compulsive self-punishment, because I'm about to undertake some major self-empowering efforts in my life....|||Yardiff Bey Where do you get this strata from? Lots of thought here. Is this an original creation, or something based on Dante's inferno?|||Nex Are you doing better? Seems like you have the skills to handle it. I like how you said that you can whine all you want -- very true; more people should learn to handle malaise with honesty.|||We spend a lot of energy validating others; I think we deserve to recognize how to trust ourselves and that our anger is valid like any other's. Developing assertiveness is a challenge, and nigh...|||I let it out in music. Overt angst is appropriate in art.  For example, I offer Moot. This song displays both vitriolic and sophisticated INFJ anger....|||I like 'em a lot. I've one good INFP friend, and a few INFP acquaintences. People with INFP preferences don't seem to like labels as much as those who prefer INFJ, so perhaps that's why there are...|||lulz  170898|||I'm a sub.|||I have a non-exclusive fetish for glasses, and slightly magical looks, like they're part elf or hobbit or something. I like them medium built, obstinate, creative and smart. Cypherpunks are the...|||Disclaimer: Not an INTP, just like the type and want to share some luv to yas. :* The Living Rede (I'm a 16, my INTP partner is an 8.) We're both demi-hetero. The Ultimate Sexual Orientation Test:...|||Very true,     Shea. I like being protected socially, and will usually only get bold around a few trusted friends. I met my current INTP partner of 7 years while on a late-night jaunt to a...|||I'll also add some cautionary thoughts. If someone told me irl that they were looking to acquire INFJs for relationships, it would be an instant no for me. Watch your approach; all that literature...|||Well, this post is no guide, but I'll share some thoughts. We like to go to places like health foods stores, coffee shops and libraries, as well as most other artsy, bookish places. We tend to dress...|||ESFJ males tend to grow up into soldier-like men, and very good at being family oriented, I've read and noticed. One I know is a single dad, bodybuilder and nurtitional supplement rep. I also think...|||I've read that it's difficult to determine if someone prefers N or S until they are older. I might've been more of an IXFJ type as a kid, and thus changed or (more like) developed into my mature...|||I've wondered this too. I'm a survivor of multiple traumas. I think I was always an INFJ, however. I've read that some people are more likely to sustain trauma symptoms than others, but I haven't...|||When fights happen because sex didn't.  When sex is foreplay.   When I hate you very much is a potential expression.|||I will fight if provoked.|||INFJ here, chiming in because I'm with an INTP partner and have a good INTJ mutual friend. They are major competition for each other, and I think very respectful of each other, too. The INTJ was...|||My apartment smells like farts they do it so much. It's always the pets too, as I only fart musically. :P|||^Except this one. I'm good at timing em' too; very artsy-fartsy.|||There's no number I could have that would make a hill of beans to me in my daily life. Good luck with your test, OP, and the challenge you need it for. Sorry about the spat on your thread, but at...|||Hey, I've noticed you! Your profile photo is very nice, and as long as you're the one without the stubble, I'd say you certainly look like an INF. ;)  P or J, whatever, I'm happy you're here. Also,...|||Heyo! I'm newish here, and want to welcome you! There are some weirdos with strange comments, but most of the folks here are super cool. I like to use my Ti too, and am glad to find another who's...|||Welcome! I'm newish here, and find it quite lovely. There are some trolls, but there are a lot of wonderful posts too. My INTP partner especially enjoys the games. Have a good time!|||I'm glad I joined! It feels much better to participate.|||I used to be very devoted to both the Western and Chinese/Vietnamese horoscopes. I'm a Pisces/Scorpio rising; or a  Fire Rabbit year/ Fire Horse day sign. I lost my faith in horoscopes some time...|||Just awesome.|||Fool me once  Sporadic Aura, shame on you. Your assumptions are not what I was discussing, never were. Read up on what you like, kid. I'm not here to solve this for you.|||My statement is from a gender neutral perspective, and is a solid concept besides. I'm glad it interests you, as it's the truth, which also has little gender preference. I'm not being hypocritical to...|||^I wouldn't have sex with anyone but my partner IRL. Still, I have to agree with Daleks_exterminate that your avatar is very attractive.|||I apologize when I'm ready to take maximum responsibility. Usually it takes a moment for me to calm down after whatever I've done to feel clear-minded enough to figure out what's going on, and what I...|||Good thread idea, honesty is so important for development. I want to vent about how much I dislike it when others display petty envy of my ways. When others pick on me for being honest and...|||I find that they have a lot they are considering, and want to present the best for their interlocutors. Not a slow-minded type, IMO, but often so deep.|||What does needs more stirring mean,  Merihim? I can't tell what you're talking about. Please explain? I hope you weren't trolling me.|||FePa: The test is designed for the male brain, so you might very well be even brighter than that.|||ESTP's are good at handling the shittier shit life can serve with a smile. I've been through a lot of trauma and have relied on the ESTP preferences to survive, with good results. I'm more objective...|||Thanks, TootsieBear! (And Mr. CafeBot, lol!)|||Well, that stinks (@Epicglitch). It's a good thing that your dad stepped in. There's no guarantee a mother like that will change, but at least you tried. Now, you have both disappointment and...|||I'm new. This looks simple enough. I don't know if I'd even bother to answer if you'd asked something hard -- like what color I like.    It looks like many of us have multiple missions as we see...|||Hello,   I am a new member, and an old fan of this forum. I'm going to take a crack at this one because I have experience with INTP (my partner of seven years) as well as ESFJ (my older half...|||Hello all,   I am a former lurker joining today. I have been observing for quite a while, and am happy to introduce myself as your Ghost Rider. I am here to learn and be learned from. Thanks for...'