'Yeah. Well the fantasy apparently is pretty hot in his mind based on my astute observations. And being an infp and all, fantasy goes with the territory. But he hasn't done anything inappropriate....|||I'm not. But if I was, I wouldn't admit it.|||I miss the old infp crowd from a few months ago before the site shut down and magically reappeared. I wonder what happened to all those 'old' infps. I much preferred this forum when there was a...|||---*yawn*---|||Data is not all it's cracked up to be.|||Quick reply: As an INTJ, it's not so much that I'm misunderstood - it's that I don't want to be understood (at least by just anyone). Understood?|||I scored 3 out of 40.  I've got my pathological tendencies.  But I guess psychopath ain't one of them.|||never.......|||Push is another one of my favorite songs. Rob's comments regarding feminist charges of misogyny in the song lyrics is interesting at the beginning of the video.   <object width=480...|||Yeah.  I was going to say, if you are looking for an INFP, see a therapist or psychiatrist.  They are often INFPs.  I dunno if that's appropriate either based on my experience.  :frustrating:|||hmmm.  I was thinking of getting a puppy after my divorce...and a infp to go along with it.  It might work.|||hahahahaha!|||Thanks for the feedback, Linnifae.  I'm out to lunch now...I'll check back later to see if anyone responds.|||Thanks for responding.  I thought no one would.   Yeah.  He does that too - he brings up stuff from LOOOONG ago.  It FREAKS me!  It makes me believe that he REEEEALY cares about me.  That freaks...|||Here are some lyrics.  Maybe not the best example because he repeats himself quite a bit.   Ever the Same by Rob Thomas  We were drawn from the weeds We were brave like soldiers Falling down...|||Yeah. I've read a lot of his lyrics - he's very in touch emotionally (as of course many singers/songwriters/artists) are...But there is something in his lyrics (I don't have them in front of me -...|||Does anyone know or think that Rob Thomas is an ENFP? He's one of my favorite performers - very intense, emotional and soulful. What do you think?|||HI INFPS - I was wondering if you've ever had the experience of someone (an acquaintance, friend, lover) who actually got mad at you or blamed you for knowing too much about them.|||Intps are cool. My daughter is an intp. We get along famously. We're very much alike so it's easy for us to talk. Since we're both introverted, we respect each others need for space. Quick...|||. You're kinda leaving out the image factor (and well... the intelligence factor, if I may be so bold) which eliminates intj as a possibility. Posted via Mobile Device|||Think of it this way, a hug isn't the worst thing you can do to someone. I've done this a couple of times myself out of spontaneous happiness, joy and pleasure with being with someone. It's been...|||I agree. The S and N are tricky. I wrote my post and then reconsidered...is Arnold really an NF? Or more of an SJ or SP . Maybe not NF because he's extremely macho. I also wouldn't think he's...|||Arnold is NOT an intj. He's not intellectual in the least bit. He's extremely concerned with image. I'd say he is an enfj Type 3 enneagram (social). His presentation of self is not unlike Brooke...|||Any type is capable of being selfish. Intjs are not any more selfish as a group than any other group. I've never heard of the selfish stereotype. However, I would generally say that intjs are not...|||I ran track in high school. I think I'm more drawn towards individual competition than team sports. I'm very individualistic and competitive against myself rather than others. I don't care so much...|||I experience the same thing. I cannot do small talk. It's not just an infp thing. Posted via Mobile Device|||Naaaa... INFPs are not going to come over here. We're safe from the wrath of the INFP. They're more afraid of us than we are of them. And we (intjs) are far more interested in them than the infp is...|||TORI AMOS ROCKS! Best in concert.  How many people can play piano and organ simultaneously in addition to singing?|||I just had a new insight on your comment. I think you are wrong about INTJs which may relate to your mother. INTJs consider what they think to be all the information before making a decision....|||INTJs do not change their mind about many things - especially if they're conservative.   You said that this is a very important issue. But why does your mother have to agree with you?  Knowing...|||That's kinda sad. I'm in the same boat.  But you're younger than I.  From my perspective you've got plenty of time.  Good luck.|||. I agree. Some NTs just like to hear themselves argue and establish intellectual dominance. They're not trying to resolve anything.  My ENTP husband who works in biotech IT is like that. He has...|||This is hillarious and so true. Posted via Mobile Device|||NT men will always try to make you appear stupid and inferior. NT men can be EXTREMELY insecure (as are many men). NT men often mask this insecurity with their intellectual bravado. I can't speak to...|||No. It just looks like where this thread is going.  My intention of posting was to get unto the head of an infp. I'm curious about what goes on in the mind of an infp when they're daydreaming.  What...|||Maybe they just don't know you very well. One must be perceptive to figure these things out. Maybe when an infp feels comfortable they let it loose? I dunno. I have the same problem. Posted via...|||Ha ha ha! I listened to Depeche Mode in high school. I even went to their concert. They were horrible in concert! The synthesized music just doesn't translate well live. My daughter now listens to...|||what would u like to have learned to prepare u for the real world?Posted via Mobile Device  Sorry...I'm having problems posting in mobile format.  There's nothing I could have learned to prepare...|||Posted via Mobile Device|||. True. Emotions are easier to identify and express as you get older. It's a healthy thing. It means that you are beginning to integrate your thinking and emotional sides. It can come as some...|||What I like about myself? What are my good points? I care. I care about others and I'm passionate about ideas. I'm strange. I'm different. I'm not like everyone else. I have a dark sense of humor....|||Resistance is futile. You will be assimilated. (Star Trek the Next Generation)  hmmmm. Intjs can relate to this one... Posted via Mobile Device|||The heart has reasons for which reason knows nothing. (Goethe or Pascale?)  Well I'm sure none of the intjs are going to like this one... Posted via Mobile Device|||Yeah...that's interesting. I read your responses to the rescue post. It makes more sense now. I can see how the attitudes towards dating, romance, sexuality (and relationships) in general can be...|||this is funny! I didn't realize (until recently) that infps could be kinky behind the calm exterior. The infp I know comes across as innocent but he really is not.    Random- you seem so 'out...|||Yeah... That sounds pretty infpish. Waiting for the right moment... But when exactly IS the right moment? Or is it just fear of rejection or not getting it right or fear that reality won't be as...|||Posted via Mobile Device|||I really don't like being an intj :( Posted via Mobile Device|||I agree with snail completely - especially the IQ part (read Stephen Gould's mismeasure of man if you want to know how these arguments are 'rationalized') Any book on the eugenics movement would...|||Posted via Mobile Device'