'Hey, feel my sweater. You know what it's made of? Boyfriend material.|||You must go to confession a lot because it's a sin to look as good as you do.|||The best thing is having someone who cares about you and checks on you. You've got that down.  Other than that, good humor, good food, good stories.  If he's in the hospital for a few days, have a...|||Do you happen to have a band-aid? I scraped my knee falling for you.|||Good thing I brought my library card, cause I am checking you out!|||Baby, if you were words on a page, you'd be what I call fine print.|||I wish I were a tangent so I could lie next to your curves...|||I wanna live in your socks so I can be with you every step of the way.|||Are you tired? Because you've been running through my mind all day.   (I know tons of these but will try to stop with this one.)|||Do you have a map? Because I just got lost in your eyes.|||niss, it's been years since you wrote this and I read it today and felt such an appreciation for you! Thanks!|||I feel like I need to add something to my previous post. The only way I know of to keep from falling away, is to accept and live under, the headship of Christ. Jesus must be your leader over man. It...|||I agree with what you have written here. I have many thoughts on this but not enough time on percafe right now. I will try to share what I can today.  I have always believed that you cannot lose...|||You're so young at heart.  :-)|||That's funny! We are so in our own heads. If people only knew!  When I was younger I went over an argument in my head, about something I was going to ask my mom. I knew she would say no, so I went...|||Losers can be very charismatic or very focused while trying to win a woman. A woman may not know that a man is bad or narcissistic at first. The worst character traits aren't obvious right away....|||I enjoy a good debate because I find it exhilarating to engage with others who have strong opinions.  And with male friends in particular! Anger from the other side doesn't bother me in a debate....|||When I was a young adult, a man kicked a toddler to get him to walk faster in the mall, right in front of me. I yelled, Hey! and startled the man and he picked up the child. He and his wife gave me...|||My experience as an ENFP is that we are one of the most accepting of others' opinions. However, we do have strong opinions and passions we are comfortable expressing.  I would call us tenacious...|||This is such an important topic! The reality is that overwhelmingly abusers are relatives or close friends of the family. The parent at the sleepover, the church elder who drives the kids places by...|||Although it's over a year later and this issue was hopefully resolved, I wanted to add that it is possible to forgive someone without reconciling with them. Forgiving does not have to mean, give you...|||I have read many books more than once. Clive Cussler novels are my favorites, plus two other fiction authors, Jude Deveraux and Lavyrle Spenser. I particularly love dialogue by all of these authors....|||Harker, I caution you to treat others with respect here. In two posts you have called members stupid and lazy and put a negative spin on the enjoyment of reading books more than once. You have not...|||Thanks! Woo Hoooooooo!|||Welcome!|||Every post is hilarious and has an embarrassing ring of truth!  I haven't laughed like this on this forum in a long time!|||I know you asked INFJs but I thought I'd come uninvited into the thread and leave a few alternative responses for Moms or friends. Some might sound corny or silly but a good mood always helps. :-) ...|||I always feel good when my daughter tells me what she appreciates about me, personal things about my personality.  When she does something special like taking me to lunch or for ice-cream and she...|||It's possible that when you look down to change the radio, you don't see all that you would see normally. But even without that, stress can cause distracted driving. Is there any way to reduce...|||Amelia, this might seem an odd question, but are you clumsy? A relative of mine has the same problem, with having several accidents. She is also clumsy, an accident waiting to happen when she is...|||Clipless pedals!|||Please consider approaching the manager asap. Tell him or her that you are concerned she did not receive your availability from your manager (have a copy ready to hand to her.) There is a conflict...|||I can relate to your post. I was wise when I was young and I'm goofy now...and just the opposite some days!  I have had coworkers comment that people never seem offended by my questions and I think...|||That is a beautiful way to describe it all. Thank you for sharing that.|||That's a great idea for a thread! I hope ESTPs will answer!|||Same here.|||Yes! Routines are really hard for me too.   No problem following rules generally, but when someone is trying to oppress or limit me by their arbitrary rules, I feel incredibly frustrated and down.|||My experience with teasing is that the people who do it know it hurts a little but they like the discomfort. It's funny. Plus, if you seem to take it well, teasing tends to feed on itself and get...|||Wondering if I can bike up a hill that has six inches of snow. Might be trying this tomorrow.|||Thank you for reviving the thread! I think it's beautiful that you want to wait for the reasons you mentioned.|||A developed and mature person usually has some qualities of patience and won't trample on others. Socially acceptable behavior doesn't necessarily mean that a person is emotionally healthy. That's...|||It is possible to appear socially acceptable while being very unhealthy. It is called impression management-- managing the impression others have of you. Others besides your target, I mean. Having...|||You are saying that torturing and trying to kill others is healthy ENFP behavior? Did they appear to be normal, happy, lively individuals? Was there a sudden inexplicable change? Because acting...|||Yes, types do bad things. Several people have stated that any type can be cruel. No one is attacking you. You are not describing a healthy person, regardless of their type. Psychopaths know from...|||I don't want to minimize your feelings but cruel ENFPs are a rarity. Tenacious? Yes. Stubborn? Sometimes. Flighty? Sure. But try to destroy you? Not if we are healthy, we don't. What you are talking...|||Welcome!|||I have been a boss and also worked for both male and female bosses over the years. I have had male bosses who were friendly, trusted me with a lot, and allowed me to work to my strengths, and I have...|||The officer may have been a really extroverted and friendly guy, but even so, you were not there consensually. He may have wanted to put you at ease or he may have been looking for information that...|||I am an ENFP and I can tell you, I have a surprising sense of humor during sad times. My family knows this, and my siblings do too. It runs in our family regardless of type. My son is an ENFP and he...|||If you haven't done the book, why not do it? You won't be worse off and you may find it useful.   The link below is a series about jobs for people who don't sleep at night. Maybe something there...'