'It gets to be pretty obvious the lifestyle differences.  Ne will quickly cause a broad range of experiences.  Ni will stick with a few.  But yes, ENFP and INFJ are the NFs.  Slightly more concerned...|||ENFP when you like somebody and you hint at it to them but it's also not really that much of a mystery.|||Ryder is probably more ENFP.  He's less invested and attached to the relationships around him.  When he cares about people, it's not an overt Fe.  I still can't decide if his bantering style is ENFJ...|||M. Gustave - ESFP Zero (Old/Young) - INFP Agatha - ISFJ Dmitry - ESTP Jopling - ISTP The Author - INFJ|||Joe does seem ESTP.  He's quite bubbly in his personality - something that I wouldn't expect from an ENTJ, am I right?  Ryder seems ENFJ?  He has a way of defending himself humorously and...|||Does anyone have any guesses on the types for the characters on Melissa & Joey TV series?|||I've only had minor experiences with a few ENFJs.  In one case, I often felt less confident being extroverted, especially around him.  In two other cases, I did feel more confident.  One of them said...|||I can't get a hold of my ENFJ friend.  We talked one time for fifteen minutes or so.  And now he seems slippery.  He smiles and greets me.  That's about it.  I don't know what's up with him.  At...|||I aim to touch the friends who are touch-oriented. :)|||With people who are friendly, patient, and childlike, yes.  :happy:|||ISFPs are more introverted I think|||You don't have to play introvert.  You just have to be you and determine that you want to interact, even just once.  If the interaction stays positive, the INFJ is probably going to put you in their...|||They are most introverted only in the sense that they are the most talkative of the introverts.  (INFP's are a close 2nd.)  They are not necessarily the most active socialites, except in their...|||Some experts say introverts should go with their most compatible introverts because they have similar social preferences for time alone and space.  ENFJs and INFJs complement each other and help...|||Yeah.  He's kind of fair when he says, You are also draining other people, though.  :)  An INFJ partnering with an ENFJ is going work very well.     Excellent!|||Me too.  I want to hug every ENFJ, too.|||Yes, I see this as well.  I'm sure other types think of all kinds of unique stuff, but what they mention out loud, when they say it, and how they say it  seem to determine whether they are Ni users. ...|||Crap.  I may be a bad friend.  But hey, I don't mention his name when I talk about him.  :frustrating:|||How do you tell that someone is an Ni user? :proud:|||What are your experiences with an INFJ?  friends?  romances?  I met this person who seems to be ENFJ.  When we're in class together, we chuckle about the same funny little things the teacher...|||I'm quite shy, and I don't think empathizing online counts as Fe.   I think I need to stay engaged with activity groups of one kind or another.  Fe isn't guaranteed to engage in these settings, but...|||What does this mean?|||Maybe somehow ENFP's and INFJ's, if they're being themselves, are just going to prefer being blank walls around each other.  Maybe it requires having someone around to help the reading process along....|||I guess some people turn into annoying people when they are soulless and soul-sucking.  I don't think I mind clingy people, as long as they're interesting - which is rare but they're out there.  :)|||Strangely, I kinda know how that feels: to be a friendly or warm guy and yet discover that a few of the people drawn to you you actually want to avoid.|||It's hard to put aside old interests, when I've gotten used to them.  The thing is, focusing only on those familiar interests are probably what is holding me back.|||Yeah.  Sucks.  Pretty typical.  Helps to have something in common to talk about, though.  Some people don't like to get personal.|||This happens often enough.  Some are just uninteresting to me, but some people are outright walled up.  They have a vibe of, I just want to stick with the people I know.|||The good thing about ADD is that it shows me what feels uninteresting pretty quickly, so that should help me hone in on what careers, hobbies, and tasks to develop.  But ADD also shows me the...|||I am of the opinion that chivalry, when naturally done, is a by-product of a full masculine life, which is nothing more than living by one's true rhythms.  As for me, I became confidently true to...|||When you were predisposed to conventionality in your youth, and, as you got older, you conventionalized your true proclivities, instead.|||When you feel masculine, but it is a truer form of it than all the others you've noticed.|||- Do my reading, listen to music, watch a movie. - Go to the gym. - Hang out with one of my couple friends for the whole night. - Work on my personal goals. - Visit family. - Post stuff on...|||You cling to the same routine and people for years.|||I'm having this conflict, too.  I get typed INFJ half the time, but a cognitive functions test shows that I'm higher on Fi.  I'm just like you, preferring order and cleanliness, but organizing my...|||Sorry about your sadness.  I am there, and I have been there.  Our minds and emotions can play tricks on us.  Sometimes, the best way to go through sadness is to feel it, hold a teddy bear, or hold...|||I had a pretty cool ESTJ friend.  We can spend a lot of time chatting and having fun.  It's cool that he's more organized, and I'm kinda messy.  I have lots of fascinating questions for him and can...|||I tested 4w3.  Kinda interesting.  I wonder if there are other 4w3's here.  Sometimes I test 9.  In the past I tested 6 and 5.|||Some people's lives are just too entangled in other priorities to meet their soulmate.  Maybe they weren't meant to have one?  It's hard to find someone who understands me, but yeah, it's sweet...|||Hard to admit, but yeah, huge doormat.  I don't have my own identity.|||Go on a long hike with an intimate friend.  Then, relax in each other's arms on the beach for hours.'