'I totally understand. I'm also strange and think reality is highly subjective. To my father, his reality is that the world is set by the 9-5 work clock. He has a hard time understanding that my...|||Questions (Y/N):  -> Often scatterbrained? N  -> Day-dreamer? Y  -> Wild imagination? Y  -> Go off on tangents? Y  -> Go from one extreme to the next? Y  -> Alternate: Found peace/balance?...|||Let's go Shamrock! I'm feeling all fiesty and I'm sure a poet like you would show me quite a time. :wink:|||I went through a similar situation curious, and it's taking me a very long time to get better. To be honest, it's only been in this past month that I've really started to shine after a few years of...|||I'd love to do that too, but that ends up causing more problems anyways. People get attached, drama ensues, blah blah blah blah. Ugh. *hugs entropy*|||I think it has a lot to do with the fact that people mistake as for extroverts. When we get quiet and mellow, it's not because we're down, we're just needing to withdraw back into ourselves for...|||Any time Zomboy!|||I often have the same problem - when I'm comfortable I am often a little too open with my thoughts or sometimes I let my hyper side come through.  In your situation Zomboy, I think you're doing the...|||You're right, I definitely picked the wrong place to post this! I'm very sorry, I'll remember to be more mindful next time. :blushed:|||Are you happy? Are you hurt by something I've done? Is the relationship what you want? What can I do to make you happier?  As an INFJ, he is not going to respond well to any of those...|||Ooookay so! This is all about you and not at all about her. Gotcha. You're probably going to go through with your plan anyways at this point, but I STRONGLY recommend you do not bother her at all.|||I know this is probably not the answer you want to hear but, I know for myself, when my nit-picky side comes out like that I'm not a happy camper with the relationship at hand. It also tends to mean...|||Okay ISTJ's! I want to know, for purely scientific reasons ;), how a person can intrigue/seduce you? What perks up your interest?|||I love INTJ's. Them and their super sexy logic!|||I personally agree with all the points that have been made so far by the other INFJ's.  If she means that much to you, I suggest you do the best thing for her and leave her be. Think of her needs....|||Oh you are trouble aren't you? Enjoying getting a lady all flustered!|||Oh my goodness! I am blushing like crazy tonight! Also yet another intriguing find...|||Oh my goodness! If you are trying to make me blush you succeeded!|||LOL! Okay now I gotta see that!|||Why hello there yourself! ;) I am very intrigued with Nyx!|||Hm, obviously slightly nerdy, that's a bonus. Sure, I'm game!|||I'm in the same boat with most of you. I don't find practical jokes funny at all, humour at another's expense is not cool.  For some specific examples... okay I'm waving my nerd flag here but... I...|||I agree with your post in a lot of respects, but not entirely.  For one, I do not believe it is impossible for men and women to be friends. I have had male friends that had no interest in dating me...|||Yeah that's what a lot of my guy friends/boyfriends have said about me too. I frankly don't think us INFJ ladies are that hard to figure out! But maybe I just take my intuition about people for...|||Well I'm glad I'm not the only one who has this problem! It's super awkward. It's worse when the guy is nice and you're terrified your rejection is going to crush him, which it probably is. I've...|||Well that was some extreme stereotyping... I'm going to admit right now I haven't always been a saint. I can't speak from the INTJ point of view, but I know as an INFJ we can, and some of us probably...|||I did the test twice, from different sources, and both times got INFJ, but I'm teetering on INFP. I read up on INFP, and realized what I want to be is INFJ. I know that sounds sort of weird, but the...|||You know you're an INFJ when your standards  for yourself are much, much higher than for anyone else. Yeah, I understand.|||I am the woman who is waiting for you to challenge me. I am the woman who knows when to talk, and when to listen. I am the woman who felt her heart swell when she found so many kindred souls on...'