'Naw it's pretty subjective to the past with relationships.  For example, there are things I won't move past particularly with Romantic Relationships - things like:  Abusive behaviour. That they'd...|||Hi all,  I have been thinking on something lately, and wanted to see what fellow INFP's thought on this topic.   I have a friend who won't pursue a relationship with a girl because, in his...|||Welcome to the forums! And this is often an awesome place to learn new things about yourself.  Sorry if it was a somewhat confrontational start... We're friendly here, I promise.   :proud:|||I think this was a response to me...? Sorry if it wasn't, but no quotes so:   I don't see how you could ever explain consensual sex as being the other party's fault; no matter how worded. Sorry....|||Maybe, lets have a look...   How can you make the judgement that one party ONLY in this case had strong feelings at all stages of this relationship? I'm genuinely curious. Even if he was just...|||You sound like a wannabe victim, to be blunt. Though TBH you haven't really said much about what he's actually done wrong, other than he keeps coming back, and you keep giving into him when you're...|||It's downright scary; and it's wrong that we have the threat of our livelihood held over us when all we want is a chance to do what we're paid for...    Erg, sounds like you've had a particularly...|||You're very brave Amethyst...! Well done on finding the courage to stand up for yourself. Most of us encounter someone like this at some point in our lives, but it's hard to find you voice when...|||It's morning in Australia; and you've made my day. :tongue:  Regardless of if you're a troll... (likely) or there actually exists someone that unreasonably sensitive in this world (less likely)...|||That's a confusion of the issue. The issue is if you will likely cause heart-ache to him; and in turn feel guilty yourself with the thought of stringing him along, if I'm not mistaken?  The...|||Forget it; It's wandering off topic and I'm apparently hopeless at delivering a concise point in a debate type thread...  :proud:|||In Australia and other western countries; that's also illegal. Tasers, peppers spray, possesion of a knife without a reasonable excuse (usually has to be work related, self-defense not considered...|||It's off topic but...  ...In any society governed by a democracy; the people are governed by (or are supposed to be, given how democracy works...) Majority Opinion Rules. Majority opinion is...|||This is a useful thread for basic overview. Hope it helps...!  :proud: ...|||...that and a hug button. :proud: It feels odd to Thank a post where someone's pouring their gut-wrenching, pain-riddled story out on the forum. I get a distinct image of a crazy person getting off...|||If you watch the show and haven't seen the Episode / Read the books / Care about spoilers don't open this.  Oh man, I've been waiting like a gleeful little troll for what the audience uproar would...|||I was never one to hold a grudge.   My father; HE held grudges...   ...I'll always hate him for that.|||Dear INFJ,  Just, sigh. I hate your stupid Fe.    :P  (Jokes; I know that's not all that's responsible for her viewpoints...)  If we have IDENTICAL viewpoints and standards on morality and...|||I'm about two thirds of the way through at the moment, and I don't think I've ever related to a book character as much as Levin. (Read: A very socially flawed, confused, fantasy prone human being,...|||Flashback: Scrubs, Molly sings to her chicken salad sandwich...   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XEl88KeeuLk|||That was really interesting, thanks for sharing that mate! There's actually a lot on INFP's in there...  Some parts I found interesting, if it's too long for others to watch all of it:  00:13:11...|||I've often wondered if I'd have the nerve to use this, if it ever did become an eventuality. The common idea of the teleport is the breaking down of solid objects to a microscopic size, projecting it...|||Belua = Disfigurine.  Some of the others I haven't seen in a long while.    Quote: (He was coming up on Super Member:) Interesting that you mention the big 3000, I was actually thinking about...|||Thanks for keeping things fresh Happy. :)  Just one more thing on the mobile surfing; would it be possible to make embedded video posts to also automatically include the url hyperlinked beneath the...|||You're sad; but you smile! It not in your eyes...! Your eyeballs won't change; It's the muscles around your eyes...  You're dreams are sweet and obsessed, And you're overworked... You're...|||Confession: I've been waiting longer than I'm proud of to make the 10,000th post in here... ;)  Happy 10,000 - to one of the most interesting threads on PerC!|||And the ground beneath them did shift; and they felt the awakening of an ancient evil, one long thought dead. The original participants having scattered or fallen into legend, there was seemingly...|||I love this movie.   But I also love a good Community send-up... :wink: (I don't know if this will link right being on iphone but here goes...)   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e4WTkG4s0tU|||When I'm off in my head, musing about something totally separate to what's happening around me, I enter something of an auto-state where I'm actually very susceptible to things like this. Things...|||What a beautiful face, I have found in this place: That is circling all around the sun... And when we meet on a cloud - I'll be laughing out loud... I'll be laughing with everyone - I see......|||:unsure: No-one replied! We're a rude bunch arn't we? :rolleyes:  Struth, they sound Aussie as! Guess I have to watch it... :happy:  Naw, thanks for the recommend mate; I'ma watch tomorrow!|||Completely agree with what rbgj said, and to an extent I have the same issues with dealing with grief of others myself. For me it's that I can often put up a wall around potential emotional areas...|||...Has the background in this shot been altered in any way, or is it just a natural blur?  Reminds me of the vortex-effect dolly-zoom shot in FOTR, where Frodo feels the approach of the...|||No pun intended, right...?   :P  Girl: Avalon, as a girl's name, I've always liked. Boy: Thinking purely of him, I'd probably want to go something short and sweet, fairly traditional. Oliver,...|||Internally. A freaking, mute opera...|||I probably wouldn't believe them. Because for me it's engrained to account for peoples feelings, and it would be paramount to saying Your life-long inhibition no longer counts. Pretty enough to say...|||As a person with shameful hours of discussion on zombie invasions under his belt I'd have to say the answer varies, dependant on an important factor;  We talking something like Original Dawn of...|||Two very different answers to mine already, but I'll give my perspective.  I think this is CAN be pretty accurate of a healthy INFP. I can't speak to the NF temperament as a whole. I would say, for...|||It's how it comes across in my mind is all.   If I were to talk about a situation like this and seek advice; I seek a balanced answer by listing redeeming qualities and reasons why I'd want to stay...|||If you read through this, can you see that youx92ve literally not said ONE thing you like about her? Not ONE redeeming factor thatx92s making you stick by her? If this is really a fact finding mission...|||Ahh, Eponine, you tragic minx... :)  I would say Marius Pontmercy shows a lot of INFP characteristics... The language he uses in his songs smack of idealistic, romantic love... ;)  Had you been...|||Depends if you want a straight up Kangaroo ride or a sled pulled by Wallabies...|||Objection your Honor! Assumption of motive!  :happy:  That Lad also made a thread recently with various assorted moral conflicts; should I gather he's typing from his Iphone, whilst looking...|||I'd just like to say first up: I really hate people having a go at OP's... It's a pet peeve.   While I'm sure Lad can hack it, it discourages other, shyer people from starting subjects if they feel...|||Q1. Concentration Camp -- help kill your own child, or watch your child + an innocent man die as well.  Wouldn't take any part in killing of my child. The man is trying pull the mentality that the...|||Hey mate. Really sorry you're feeling down... :sad:   I know what it's like to be restless within yourself in life, while seemingly successful on the outside.   I would straight off give the...|||:rolleyes:   (I do hope those who are feeling down in here feel better soon. :happy:  )  In the sprit of what I think the OP's after here:  - being compassionate, through an advanced form of...|||No. Not anymore. I used to inwardly bemoan the tendencies of my head and my heart but Ix92m over that now. Ix92ve seen too many pricks out there to want to be anything like them, no thanks.  They donx92t...|||Benevolent Altruist|||Are there any concerns that you're aware of, either cuturally or with religion on his families part? That would be my first guess as to why his father is interfering. (Or do you know the reason...?)...'