'Coulda been better|||Hello and welcome from a fellow INFP.|||Thank you, Sei35. And the same goes for you. Feel free to message me anytime. :)|||https://youtu.be/bum-_HklFic  All right, why can I not embed a frickin video?|||I'm the opposite. The sun energizes me. Well, only when it's warm. If it's sunny and below freezing, all bets are off.  I often wonder how much more productive my life could have been if I'd been...|||nicoloco90 Good luck!|||WickerDeer The moon really was beautiful last night. I went out for a while (downtown Olympia, in Washington state), and the clouds cleared for the first time in a few days, and there it was, just...|||WickerDeer I'm with you. I just want to write stories about people fucking all day. Ha, and I do! hahaha.  I'm on a self-imposed Trump Moratorium. I'm sick of hearing his fucking name or seeing his...|||Hello infpstarwarsnerd97 and welcome!|||Hello Aspiringwriter! And welcome to these forums.|||Welcome, pau576!|||Welcome! I also like  https://www.16personalities.com/ but as said, there are many many more that might help you narrow it down.  PS--Your personality type doesn't define you. And it's not a...|||Let's Give It A Twist by Fitz of Depression  These are two of my favorites from that album.   https://youtu.be/fYkMeXtJ6iA?list=PLVgiHwjbmfYC0sdLyVW41hN8He1-w32me  ...|||Witch of Oreo :tongue: Somebody was bound to do it eventually. Hahaha|||butterflyeffect I don't think it's ever wrong to open up to somebody or try to connect with them in some way.  I've had similar experiences, of course, and in at least one instance, the other...|||Been reading through this thread and I'm intrigued by it.  I don't know if other INFPs do the doorslam but I never have. But probably because I let so few people in. Actually, I don't let ANYONE...|||I don't have any advice, although, honestly, I wish I did, because you sound pretty low.  I don't know that you're broken and I don't know what is reasonable to expect.  But I will say this:...|||Awesome!|||I've said before that starting a relationship was like having a big cabinet full of fine China, and each time one of your expectations is dashed, you whip out one of the dishes and crash it into the...|||I've taken about a dozen different tests but always come up with INFP. And it's always slightly disappointing. I think I'd rather enjoy being an INFJ. Or an ENFP. Or maybe ISFP. Yeah, that one would...|||I am very reluctant to open up to people and don't do very well or very often.  For me, though, it's not really a fear thing. But could be. Who knows. Maybe some subconscious survival mechanism....|||Edit. Whoops. Double post. (My whole...fucking...day...has been like this. Goddammit. And it's still only 10:30 AM!)|||Well...let's see. Spent the week reeling from heartbreak...and now it's manifested itself as an intense grumpiness. Or it could be just that the weather is changing and a warm wind is blowing and the...|||courageous_soul  Good luck! We're all rooting for you!|||courageous_soul  If you have to, write him a note and hand it to him on Monday. I'm too shy to talk to you, but I'm interested. Put your email address or phone number in it. It might even be to...|||Trying to find something intriguing enough to get my mind off of other things. So far, it's been an utter failure. :unsure:   Fuck it. Guess I'll just go get drunk.|||Well, I do shower every morning. (Otherwise I wouldn't wake up.) So I guess there's that. :P|||I enjoy participating in a lot of sports, but don't particularly like watching them. Except occasionally. (I have gone through periods where I was passionate about different sports though--hockey,...|||One word at a time. :tongue:  (Sorry, I know you were asking a serious question and expecting a serious answer, but I just couldn't resist. :unsure: )  But in all seriousness, I'm sure the way...|||Welcome fmcla|||This thread wasn't anything like I imagined it would be...and for that I am disappointed.  What the thread actually contained, however, more than made up for it. (The disappointment, not my...|||And me. Haha. I guess we're gonna need another happy-go-lucky type in here to balance my negativity out!|||I don't wash my hands EVERY TIME after I pee. Especially in public restrooms where they just have those warm air hand dryers. I hate those things. Whenever I use one I just imagine all the bacteria...|||Dear lorrid.  My romantic experience with an INFJ was...well, pretty wonderful. I'm sorry yours was so tumultuous and unpleasant (well, except for the tons of amazing sex, of course.)|||katierose  I'm not really one to give advice. Mostly because the only firm conclusion I've ever come to is just this: I don't know shit.  But the secret is, NEITHER DOES ANYONE ELSE! We're ALL...|||Elduria   Thank you. For both the welcome and the offer. I really do appreciate it. :) But it wouldn't be right for me to unload my troubles on a kind but unsuspecting good Samaritan. haha.  But...|||I don't have any life-altering secrets. If I did, I'm sure I already would have been exposed or confessed years before any blackmailer could get to me. Guilt alone would already have altered my life...|||I don't know what he is, but I found this thread hilarious. I wouldn't want to be associated with him in any way, either, even tangentially.  I'm pretty sure he isn't an INFP, though. hahahaha.|||Okay, I guess.|||I sometimes fantasize about walking across the country. Right from the edge of the Pacific Ocean here in Washington state, to the Atlantic in Maine. Taking only what will fit in a backpack (mostly...|||651778  The How Introverts Make Friends one is one of my favorites.|||Thank you, Bl0bfish.|||butterflyeffect  Nah, I don't want to reveal too much on a public forum.   But you nailed it, all that emotional turmoil and self-flagellation.  France would be nice. (Well, unless Marine Le...|||Well, damn. You sure do know how to put a fella on the spot. I guess it's my own fault for being so...evasive...in my original post.  All right. So here goes. I live in western Washington in the...|||Aisle.  Used to be window, but planes have gotten so cramped lately, I have to be able to escape my seat and stomp around.   Moo shu pork or taco truck?  Edit: huh. must have replied to the...|||I have a folder full of landscapes that cycle through. Someone pointed out to me that almost all of them feature roads. Small country roads, rural highways, paths in the woods, that sort of thing. I...|||Sleeping used to be one of the few things I was really good at. Went to bed around 9:30 or 10, woke easily as soon as the light entered my window, even in the summertime. When I was a kid, I was the...|||I think you should go a step further. Really make the experiment interesting. All cell phones and reading materials were confiscated. There aren't any windows. And the room is ROUND. No corners to...|||Your Scores:  Auditory: 40% Visual: 40% Tactile: 20%|||Hello Stasii. Hope you have a great day too. (For the record, school really was a waste of time. :laughing: )'