'But even about the social aspect, difficulties reading social cues =/= feeling energized by being alone.|||Kind of like my relationship with online support groups. I notice I have some similar issues but different needs and coping strategies. I am not lke those who can isolate themselves and be happy with...|||Well developed ones are awesome. Less well developed... hu... they often jump to a totally radom conclusion, they accept it as if there were NO other conceivable possibility and act all entitled...|||Not much into videogames but I love tabletop games and RPG ones even better.|||I give a help in a forum about neurodiversity - basically because a friend of mine founded it & I like weird discussions of any kind^^ and well, one recent comment that got my interest was that there...|||I was the one who was bullied. I was younger than others, with control issues and the lamest social skills you can have while being E.|||Settling --> spending a lot of time with someone you actually don't like. Why ever?|||One thing that comes to mind - I like nice clothes, not usually expensive but peculiar and with a style I like; I have a theoretical sense of style... then when I actually dress myself I might forget...|||Try hard not to be too untidy... your cockroaches will be sorry but you'll be kicked off less quickly.|||Your shadow is showing. :)|||I somehow care about how I look but I can't bother following current fashion because I dislike being told what to do.|||I can be anxious or not, but mainly, I totally relate with the impression I've been changing too much that they're not even meeting the same person. Sometimes actually it annoys me that they are...|||I comment because I tend to get distracted otherwise. That said, if I am at the movie theatre and not at home I try not to be too annoying.|||I've never dated that much. While I like seeing people, it's very, very rare that I like someone so much that I want to have a relationship with him. As for physical pleasure I can provide for my...|||Okay this is an internet forum so one must mention aspergers from time to time. ;P I am interested in the topic because while being fairly outgoing I had major issues reading people especially when...|||Somehow, yes. But since staying in the office late makes you appear hardworking, I stay here and lose time and then do things in a rush so I am motivated.|||I try to get to know the person and see how it goes. There are a few rational criteria I even spontaneously consider in matchmaking (common interests, not a fuckup, compatible goals etc) but it's...|||Yay exactly. I don't buy the opposites complete each other thing. It's not job where you have to get all the tasks done, you have to be with the damn person and it's better you like him/her, not...|||And that is why having a SJ secretary (or such) is great. But for relatioships? I'd rather have someone I share interests and views with, than someone who tidies up my mess (and then is resentful...|||Being controlling is an ExTJ thing but an ENTJ would be less likely to choose a way because it has always been that way.  I guess a SJ could sell weed if it was typical of his group, e.g....|||Sure it's not SJ?|||I agree with you in disagreeing with the post.  I'd say INTJs are the best for intellectual relationships and INFJs and ENFJs are those who can wake up my human side... WIth INFPs I've had...|||I guess is the kind of feeling any type has when screwed up, and they call it inferior Si for ENxPs, NiFi loop for INTJs, etc. Basically one warps the functions to describe bad moods.|||I have troubles finishing things. AND since I have no common sense I try to write long novels anyway ^^. It's not so much that I get bored, rather than I am caught by new ideas and I can't resist.|||- Uberpopular social genius - nope, I am talkative and outgoing but I don't have those great social skills (although I must say, I started out very very low and actually improved by shameless...|||It really depends on the case. I often go out without planning but if I have friends coming from far away, events that do require reservation, holidays to book from work and such... well when it's...|||How do you notice Ne-dom? Are you referring to the signs listed in the site or you have your own reading? BTW the theory mentions naive eyes as a Ne sign, which I am not sure I agree with. ...|||Have you ever heard about this site, or anyway about this theory? Type Me | Cognitive Types As ENTPs do you recognize yourselves in the NeTi video?  BTW when I tried to submit some vids of mine I...|||I like INFPs! Just, I have to tell myself to be patient when they take their little hearts too seriously... it makes me eager to debunk you, guys, but since after all I like you I accept people are...|||Wow, I had forgot about this post :kitteh:. I have always enjoyed writing - good outlet for the too-many-ideas I can have. The thing is, I get very enthusiastic about a story I want to tell, then...|||I mean both famous writers and those of you who enjoy writing fiction.|||Had an ENTP BF. I was in love and he wasn't so it didn't work. Amazing intellectual connection tho, when we left the worst thing was separating my ideas for his (think to the packs of stuff you make...|||Since when lawyers *respect* the law? I thought it was about finding a way around.  <-- apprentice lawyer here.|||Maybe my favourite series. It's fantasy with very real and charmingly ambiguous characters. It's not Good vs Bad but a complex tapestry of destinies, whose outcomes are not predictable. The last...|||My distinction wasn't so much about E vs I activities (nor I can say which function I am using every time), but rather about doing something engaging as opposite to just wanting to shut down.|||Something more. I suspect we often stereotype Fe as it appears in Si/Fe users, i.e. stressing the tradition aspect.   Example: xSFJ: Christams gatherings are Traditional so I can't even ever...|||Usually you test high on Fi when you say i.e. that you won't compromise on your core beliefs. But well, almost anyone will have some beliefs that are not to be questioned, say, that raping babies...|||Apparently we recharge by doing stuff we like. If I spend time in satisfactory activities I am happier and thus motivated to keep on going.|||If I had a tiring day, unless I am 100% physically gone (=irresistibly falling asleep, sick etc), what I do to feel better is to engange in something I like - it can be meeting interesting people or...|||that is the point. I never get tired of interesting people, even tho I still need time for my creative work.|||Dunno, I can entertain myself pretty well for a while, the only thing is that I worry about ending up without interesting IRL people for any reason... been there and it sucks the hell.|||I happen to like metal. Also, post-punk/goth rock are among my favourits although I don't take the gloomy atmosphere seriously (I was recently reasoning with a friend that I assume being an INFP,...|||As a child I was too screwed to test. As a teen I was the argumentative clown who tries to fight about religion with the teacher because it's FUN! Also I could approach random strangers but it's not...|||How does a mature ENTP use Fe? I see that growing up I am being more aware of the strange fact people have their feelings (one thing that downplays my troll side a bit), but still I can't say I am...|||BTW. One of the questions at my interview was about an article I had no clue about; they asked me what I would have done if I had to deal with the case of the article such and such and me: I would...|||Actually I am infamous for getting the idea right, but then mistaking how to spell the address of the firm... or something equally ludicrous. :P  I got into Law because I was fascinated by the idea...|||I think somewhere we decided it is an ENTP thing.|||Now I look. I was thinking to join the INTP thing but then I didn't bother...|||Current Employer - a Law firm Previous one - another Law firm until they realized they weren't my only interest and that was baaaad. Education - BD in Philosophy, MD in Law. Note: where I live Law...|||I don't use the rating system not for a matter of principle but because what I like may or may not overlap with general perception; also, because once you don't suck physically I stop caring so once...'