'Fair enough.|||If you feel you can make a plan that will let you and the future child thrive (and no, this doesn't mean white picket fence, a BMW in the driveway and private school education), then by all means...|||No, it's based on getting you to think it through rather than spoon feeding you the answers.  So, what's you answer to my question?    No, that would be you, as pointed out above.  But yes,...|||When people are in a relationship (a healthy one at any rate) there is emotional give and take that flows both ways.  A text message not only completely, irrevocably and callously cuts off that flow....|||Seriously?  You can't figure out WHY a two second text message would piss someone off?  1) it's quick, impersonal and dismissive.  2) it's impersonal.  There is no seeing the person. No tone of...|||Where these being directed to survey sites?  I had this happen to me and multiple forum sites.  I had to go into my Programs and manually uninstall a program called Webcakes.  Turns out the...|||Hey I could totally get behind that :)  I'm a good cause!  So I get one of those luxury cars, right? Hehehe    That's one way to put it.  She has...issues.  And spends a lot of time putting those...|||You dump on her.  She's not going to pay attention otherwise.  As for getting her alone, I wouldn't bother.  If you've asked to make time to have coffee (or whatever) so you can talk, and she...|||There is a person at my workplace that last year tried to make us all give up the $10 per person head office sense us so that was can have a staff Christmas dinner.  She declared that we should pick...|||When it waters down what bullying actually IS and why it's such a threat, absolutely.  When it result seen people rolling their eyes and ignoring victims of bullying because they are seen as yet...|||No, I don't.  I want him to THINK about what he's doing, what real bullying is and what is actually effective.    That won't happen unless I say something.  Here.  In a discussion forum. Where we...|||*sigh*  realistic [ˌrɪəˈlɪstɪk]adj1. showing awareness and acceptance of reality  2. practical or pragmatic rather than ideal or moral  3. (of a book, film, etc.) depicting or emphasizing what...|||Yes it is, because those that need to hear it, won't.  You're just a random username on the internet that they have no reason to pay any attention to. That's not being pessimistic, that's being...|||And you brilliantly missed the point.  Good show.  Are you going to accuse me of bullying you now?  No one has to accommodate shy/quiet people.  Like everything else in life, you learn to deal.|||Riiiiiight.  Sure they will.  Uh-huh *rolls eyes*    Call it a hunch. People who are, know what REAL bullying looks like.  It's not a difference of opinions on the internet.    Do you need me...|||So? You CAN learn things on the public bus too, doesn't make it on par with the established institution of school.|||Then get off your computer and go get involved with your local community.  That will do a lot more good than complaints on the internet.|||Yes.   v.  cried (krhttp://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/imacr.gifd), cry·ing, cries (krhttp://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/imacr.gifz)  v.intr.1.  To sob or shed tears because of grief, sorrow, or pain; weep.  2. ...|||Is Cycber bullying a problem?  Absolutely, when it moves into meat life events, such a social ostrisation or worse, instances of violence.  However these cases are downplayed because of the countless...|||Beyond being presentable and appropriate for the setting, not really.  I'm far more concerned with my level of health than with aesthetics.|||Are we talking in myself or it's role in how I relate to others?|||Ooooh!  Yes, exactly.  Yet that's how many people see it.  It's annoying and rather ridiculous.    My parents, well Dad thinks he and Mom did a good job of hiding their arguments.  I think his...|||Internet?  Please get out now.  The internet is great for research (sometimes) but it's absolutely dreadful for making a real human connection.  On the internet someone can pretend to be anyone they...|||Just stop, please.  You're getting all wrapped in your head about how you think things SHOULD be and can't see anything else.  That's not fair to yourself or potential future partners.  Every...|||Huh?  Why?  While people CAN choose to remain ignorant, nothing about being ignorant suggests that such a choice has been or will be made.|||Actually debate IS conflict at the most basic, since one person holds X position and the other person hold Y position which is at odds with X.  Hell, I'm inclinflict with you right now for...|||No, ignorance is a state of being, one that is entirely curable by the person learning about whatever it is they are ignorant of.  Willful ignorance is a different beast entirely and such people...|||The sexes have been misunderstanding each other since the dawn of time.  Mostly because they simply fail to TALK to each other.  If you have a question, ask.  If there is an action you don't like or...|||Monty Python for the win!!!! *SQUEELS*  Eh-hem.  Okay, back to the OPs question.  Yes.  I love a good debate, but when I'm in one I'm rather detached and objective about it.  This drives people...|||I have no doubt you have.  But I've met women who weren't that strong.  I've seen what being forced to keep an unwanted pregnancy does to them. Please note that this is not limited to women who were...|||I was raised by Atheists.  I'm a theist *shrugs*|||Why on earth would you feel guilty about doing what you need to do?  Someone might come along and start ranting about selfishness, but to be perfectly blunt YOU have to come first in your world.  If...|||Chaotic Neutral trending Good.|||Um...Explain what?|||Getting along with someone or not isn't related to type for me.  Instead it has to do with whether or not I think it's worth the effort. If I have a reason to (it's my boss, it's a client, it's a...|||I don't mind talking about my issues at all, as long as it seems appropriate for the venue and the other person actually wants to listen.  I don't push it if no one is interested.  But I do collect...|||When I WAS 15, I got along better with the adults than with my peers :P  I still want to throttle my peers on a regular basis.|||One could argue that any label is too simplistic because really, there's only so much you can condense things down without losing the inherent complexity.  Myself, I think the personality typing is...|||How often do you get out and socialize?  This doesn't have to be a big thing, you don't have to be going to house parties or some such, but social contact is very important when one is dressed.|||Okay, this is me talking out of my ass here, as I'm very new to this personality typing thing.  So what you're getting is my own experiences and understandings, which should be taken with a huge...|||Have you read anything I've posted?  Because I've been pointing out exactly what you CAN do.    Bad is Reena Virk who was DROWNED in my town by bullies.  Believe me, I get exactly how bad...|||Then you haven't gone deep enough.  Self examination isn't easy and it isn't comfortable, but it is very VERY necessary.    Been there, done that.  I can tell you from experience that yes you...|||1) Other people are outside of you (obviously) and as such they can't impact what you feel about yourself unless you allow it.  You have to CARE about their opinion for it to matter.  And if you do...|||Sounds like a nose job is the least of your concerns.  I'm not saying that to be mean, I just think you've got your priorities bass ackward.  The nose isn't what's stopping you from being able to...|||Yes. But not as what many seem to think it works.  It's NOT a give and take.  You don't put out good vibes and lo and behold, you get given a day pass to a spa or whatever.  Rather the law of...|||Are we talking sexual or in general?  That answer in both cases would be predominately sadist, but for different reasons.  Also, in the sexual context, I'm not a true sadist.  I don't do it because...|||Why WOULD I?  The whole point of this topic is what people choose to do with their lives.  Not post ignoring the points made to you.  There are plenty of people that enjoy sex and have no desire to...|||Yes I do. You back quoted it.  Yet here you are pretending it's not relevant.    Oh it's ever so amusing when people make assumptions about MY life ad MY body *snickers*  Honey, I don't HAVE an...|||Intimacy/bonding with one's partner.  Not to mention that it feels damned good when done right.  I'm not going to procreate.  No child deserves to be saddled with my medical history.  And there are...|||Nor are they pawns in your bigotry.  So do you tell single parents that they can't be effective parents?  How well does that go over?'