'Yeah, er, I fortunately am a bit too logical to waste my time on useless guys who just want to hook up, lol.   Making bad choices in guys and later trying to change their habits has never been...|||I've heard of that one a few times. Never read it, but judging from the title... I'm guessing it has the same problem this one did, lol.|||They definitely do! I'd settle for a simple one-page list of mistakes and their likely effects. Of course, that would reduce everyone's advice to a simple one-size-fits-all thing similar to what the...|||*didn't say anything about hooking up* http://31.media.tumblr.com/51b5652799044d26ecf045c973721a77/tumblr_mxx6phmOkT1sx6qfeo6_250.gif|||I'm sure I've heard that name somewhere before...   But nah, I've definitely never read Rousseau. :laughing:|||Oh my god, I am laughing so hard right now. :laughing:  MBTI isn't accurate. None of these things are. I think of them as somewhat-more-descriptive adjectives. Rather than having one simple...|||They had several classes together in high school, whereas we just had one together, and from what I remember they always did group projects together and things... So, yeah. They probably know one...|||I second this, so much.   A common misconception about INTJs is that we don't have deep feelings - but I think it's that we know enough about ourselves to understand that our feelings run extremely...|||There's a guy that I've been talking to. I've dated him once, almost dated him a second time but got nervous and went into hermit mode (i.e., stopped talking to him) before we could discuss it. I'm...|||Holy shit. My score is 29.  Authority: 7.00  Self-Sufficiency: 5.00  Superiority: 4.00  Exhibitionism: 4.00  Exploitativeness: 3.00  Vanity: 2.00  Entitlement: 4.00|||Well, my opinion as a female INTJ is that love trumps just about everything else. However, if I have to change my dreams - say, push traveling to the back burner to get married and have kids right...|||I'm not often angry, because I usually have the prudence to step back and observe the situation before it gets bad. Irritated, though? I'm irritated a lot of the time - and I guess it's probably...|||I second InSolitude and acidicwithpanic .  I do this so often my best friend has dubbed it hermiting (lol). Judging from the looks of these other replies, I'd say this is normal INTJ behavior....|||I'm eighteen. If I was looking for a husband right now, I'd be stunting any future personal growth/educational/success potential I might have.   Btw, I totally disagree with the if you want a...|||Either INTJs can be protective siblings at times, or I'm not an INTJ.  Whenever my two siblings quarrel with each other, it seems they run to me, and I get involved in working out their...|||1. Only when I think the person in question is worthy of my time. Usually it's people in my very large extended family that I'm more inclined to help. Otherwise... Meh. I dunno. I might pick up a...|||People who complain about their lives and do absolutely nothing to change them. They don't formulate plans, they don't put those plans into action... They just sit around and complain as if...|||1. No - at least not in my experience. If they were abusive, yes, but I've been fortunate enough to have had decent relationships in the past. If it ends with an argument of some sort, then I'd do my...|||I have two best friends leftover from high school. One of them sent me a Japanese music video and wrote little stories a lot with me (shared interests). The other and I used to take turns bringing...|||My sister called my meh smile derpy, actually. :laughing:|||It's not unrealistic. Or at least I hope not, because that sounds almost like what I'm trying to work toward.|||Dunno how these attachment thingies work yet, so the image might not show up. But yeah: My sister likes photography, and had me be her model for the day. Unfortunately for her, I gave up on trying to...|||Sometimes I wonder what the hell I'm thinking. I could do better than this: I could do better than this place, his tiny house in the middle of the woods, these one or two friends, this one guy that...|||Me: Goodbye, friend! Friend: Goodbye, [me]! I'll call you when I get home safely! Me: If you die on the way, come back and haunt me so I know whether there's an afterlife or not! Friend:...|||Exercise-wise, I aim for running anywhere from two to four miles a day (I've ran six or eight before, but that's rare enough that I don't think it deserves a mention). I do a lot of sitting because I...|||I learned to belly-dance a few years ago, stopped for about a year, and now I'm getting back into it (it's hell relearning everything). I also tend to dance around the house a lot, when I'm cleaning...|||Yeah, it's totally a book for ESFJs.   When I gave her the book back, I asked her why she recommended it - just out of curiosity more than anything. Evidently, she hoped I would read the chapters...|||I grit my teeth, get out alone somewhere, then describe my feelings to myself and decide whether or not they're logical, and what I'm going to do to solve whatever problems are causing my feelings....|||INTJ Female.  ISTP male. I believe it was due to the rampant sexual attractiveness of the type in question. Well, to break it down: The fact that he could fix mechanical things (which I can't do),...|||1) Failure. 2) Prospect of failure. 3) Sad or epic orchestral music, particularly if it includes violins or strong percussion. Dunno if this is for everyone, though.|||Thanks!  You're an ENTJ? We share three letters!  *cough*  Yeah... Identifying with other people, not exactly my strong suit, lol.|||Deist. I raised myself polytheistic (Hellenist) though - and I'm still pretty fond of that religion. I'm known to keep shrines simply for the going through the process of the ceremonies, for no...|||Oh, I'm the absolute queen of smalltalk. Do I like it? Not particularly. But I can do it - so I don't think INTJs are that bad at it.  And, for my part, I happen to have known several ISTPs who...|||Did guys find you attractive when you were in high school, or college?  When I was in high school, several guys liked me. I received several love letters, and several people asked me out. All but...|||So, my ESFJ mom suggested this book to me. I've no idea why I ordered it up, honestly: Maybe because I'm desperate to figure out how to handle relationships, and glimpsed Steve Harvey once or twice...|||Thank you, robotic-voiced MisterCafeBot who I strongly suspect may be automated...? Lol.    angelcarnivore I just took a bunch of personality tests this morning to get my profile filled out in a...|||Hiya!  Okay, I introduced myself with too much enthusiasm. Don't want to come on too strong, eh? :tongue:  Anywho: I've been haunting this forum for ages, reading helpful/entertaining threads...|||Dear ISTP:  Why is it that I always wait until months after I cut you out of my life to realize that I hurt your feelings, what I could've said to un-hurt them, and how much I actually loved you? I...|||Ah, I had this same problem after my aunt died.   What I did was: I just thought about it. I thought about it, thought about, rolled it over and over in my mind - until eventually I was so used to...|||Ah! I forgot to look at the functions. *facepalm*  Going by those... Still INTJ, definitely. I found a function-based INTJ profile that suits me perfectly.  You reminded me of something I...|||I'm pretty sure I'm either an INTJ or ENTJ, but I'm open to other opinions, if anyone has any.   So, to summarize myself in a nutshell (as best as I can).    I usually tend to think for a few...'