'Hi TJ, You sound young, and I am old (52!) an infj. I've seen and lived some life. I personally implore you to pursue electrical engineering and work to be certified and get that job. You will have...|||I have never been to college, but if I did I would study for a job to walk into. This meaning a (even in this economy) job in fair or relative demand, then work for a few years, pay off school...|||Welcome, No, you are not too old, I am married and have a daughter, so anyone can interact here. Many people here are young, it's good to see so many getting a grasp of who they are early on. have...|||I just started reading A Higher Calling , non fiction ,WW2 era, sort of a combination of Valkyrie and Top Gun.|||I really seem to feel music go through me like gamma rays , and has  strong effect on me.  Even listening to what some people might consider somber music, is not to me. I listen to pop, rock , jazz,...|||I don't know if this is an infj thing or not, but it seems like when you are in your 20's you subconciously think that time will warp and take 20 years to get to your 30's and maybe another 20 to get...|||I still find it hard to raise my voice, or yell, I always keep my voice down and don't like talking on the phone in front of people, I guess I'm a classic Introvert, but it's still better than loud...|||That's funny, I am pretty sure my wife is an ENFJ, she doesn't remember what her test result was because she was forced into it at work as a team building exercise, but I'm pretty sure.|||Flags of our Fathers by James Bradley and Ron Powers, recounting the lives and of the men who raised the flag at Iwo Jima, should be required reading in high schools.... but it never will be.|||My wife must think, when I'm staring into space, that no thoughts are going on. She'll ask me if I've thought about xyz, and I tell her of course  I have,  I've thought about it now, from every...|||My friend at work was having the gang take the mbti test for fun, and he and I were infj's, when I found that out I started talking and opening up about how I think, and he completed my sentences,...|||That is very true for me, like I'm trying to gain knowledge/skills to help as much as possible anyone I know or don't know from some future event?! I thought I was the only one, thanks again!|||Way back when I was your age, I had low self esteem,  was self concious was not an initiator but a reactor, and had no regular girlfriend. ANY female who might pay any passing compliment, and I...|||It's funny, my coworker and I took the MB test and found we were the same, infj, then we started to talk more and find out we really related in so many ways it's scary, and revealed though processes...|||I had a cat for about 10 years back when I was single, they are very different from dogs, I just related to him, he needed his alone time, seemed to have strong insight, and even consoled me when I...|||I think metaphors are an infj favorite, I love'em here's a new one, Sometimes I feel like a combat vet answering cries in all directions, patching the bleeding, dodging bullets, moving on to the...|||I like myself, with all the flaws I sometimes beat myself up over, and like most infj's we are liked, often to our surprise. They always say  the greatest love of all is to love yourself, but...|||Greetings Gaboonviper: I didn't find  out I was an Infj until  last year, I've always been a bit lonely, and looking for that perfect friend, we don't want 14 acquaintances, we want a true friend...|||You'd like to shout,  you just wait there, in 2 hours I'll be back with the PERFECT response and put you back, way down, in your place!|||This is my Sunday music, some of it, I don't like to post video's, I let the artist be the image maker for my mind.   Don't know it this will work                             ...|||Sometimes, when listening to someone who is pretty down, you form just the right thing to say,you say it just right, and it lifts them up and out. Thats a pretty cool feeling.|||When you come with your own stairs and handrail so people can walk all over you.|||Welcome!, sounds like you've made good career choices, I'm a newbie, there is a lot on this site to check out.|||you all sound so young, but are making great choices, Waaaaay back in school, my  thing was art.  That's a pretty broad topic, but my other class I found interesting was psychology, and now looking...|||A couple of things I say on interviews, They ask: Where do you see yourself in 5/10 years? You say I want to be a very experienced,( Their Company) (fill in the job your applying for)! They seemed...|||I've known and worked with people with college degree's that didn't apply to their jobs.   My wife spent 10 years of her life going to school because when her parents divorced when she was a teen...|||Words For It  I wish I could take language  And fold it like cool, moist rags.  I would lay words on your forehead.  I would wrap words on your wrists. x93There, there,x94 my words would sayx96 Or...|||When I was kid riding my bike home with groceries (Vermont) I found  a baby skunk , no scent gland yet, and looked around for his mother, I couldn't find her so I put him in the bag and brought him...|||My favorite shows were the X-Files, Unsolved Mysteries, and Sightings. And I wrote a book Dark Highway , Utah's Strange Tales about local ghost stories, UFO's and monsters. Plus, like some of you I...|||Nah, your not any kind of jerk, you handled a situation with a beggar, always a time to be cautious, in a non hostile way. This happens to me plenty of times. I balance this in my conscience by...|||I once said something I thought might've hurt someone's feelings and was worried and glum half the day, later finding out he didn't even notice.(relief)|||Sorry, I have a sense of humor that's way too dry, it is especially bad on facebook or here. Thanks for the concern, I will try to remember to use an icon.:)|||I've had trouble with planners over the years, I always bought one as the ultimate act of hope, but then was guilty when each page wasn't full of action.  Now I simply buy cheap wire bound lined...|||You carry a pocket knife all the time so when you see something like a news story about a soldier returning home, or a person saved by a fireman and thanks them, you can explain your crying with a...|||I am wondering about  infj's, and their career/jobs.  Nothing about earnings, just what do you do? Do you like it? How long have you done it? I've read online about suggested careers, and wondered...|||You've got to speak up  ( I just did)|||If I say Hi to someone ( a stranger) I have literally forced myself out of my comfort zone to appear like a normal person.     I have taken a vacation day from work and not told my wife so I can...|||I don't know if this is infj, I have a broad collection of self improvement books, instructional how to , motivational etc. I always like to follow a procedure, until at least it proves to be...|||The car is a common zone out spot for me, also a supermarket line,but that one is intentional to avoid frustration over coupon hoarders and so on. I think very visually, and talk fast, but I have...|||Nathan Algren-(Tom Cruise) The last Samurai John Brennan-(Russell Crowe) The Next Three Days Atticus Finch for me too, he's one of my fav's|||I'm going to get all Jeff Foxworthy and say, you MIGHT be an infj if you talk in the car a lot, but you're alone! Who am I lecturing? no idea.|||Dauntless I like it all, mosaic impressionism!  It's good mood art, and beautiful, nowadays everyone worships ugly art.|||Player 2 has entered the game,   You got work,    Player 2 has exited the game|||I'm no expert on modern dating, but I think four months is a long time, INFJ's are not looking to hook up with 15 women, they are looking for the one.  If he's going to propose, he may plan a...|||Sometimes when I fly cross country at night, I look down on the small lights in towns, see a car moving, a single house, and wonder what their life is like, I'm from Iowa, what's that like?|||Hello I'm Dan, wake up please, ok, I'm an INFJ, so it's a big deal if I say hello to anyone, when I do I am literally forcing myself out of my psychosteel(TM) shell. I am almost 52, but can't...'