'I realised my loneliness when I read an article stating that even when we touch we do not make actual contact, I don't remember exactly but its something to do with a film of atoms/neutrons  I do...|||Looking back over my life it appears that serendipity has played a major role.|||A Lovely question. I have not been here for a few weeks as I have been looking after my mum who has early onset dementia amongst other things.   I have experienced emotional incest when I was a...|||I have put this in the debate forum but I would like a more balanced view from my fellow INFJ's  I have been trying to understand the suicide of sexual offenders before they have been convicted. ...|||drinking alcohol switches off your parental ago state. Have you noticed when people drink alcohol they appear to act like children, we find ourselves next to someone in bed the following morning who...|||There are no words to express beauty For me it is an unspoken sense of wonder, a childlike amazement, I stand in awe of beauty  as Rabindranath Tagore says It is as near to you as you life but...|||There is no evil. The evil you speak of is just human behaviour which only the righteous can call evil.  Good and evil are names we use when we don't understand human behaviour.   For one...|||I am not a master of time and space  “one cannot seek for what he knows, and it seems equally impossible for him to seek for what he does not know. For what a man knows he cannot seek, since he...|||a warm welcome Tal|||I had a similar problem yesterday with a different outcome  A car pulled alongside me, the woman in the car said she was lost and asked if I knew where a particular pub was. I said I had been...|||Kale, strawberry, banana, pineapple, Greek yoghurt, walnut and oat smoothies I originally started to make my own smoothies but did not realise how fattening they really are. I pretty much lived on...|||Just say these simple words: I can be there for you I do not know what to do either but I have been there,  and I came through  do not try to save her from working through her feelings. she...|||Anger will be the go to feeling when you are not getting yourself heard. Doing anger is easy if it has been the only feeling that you are used to using Being confrontational will only elicit anger...|||a problem shared is a problem halved we all love you you are kind, honest, open, vulnerable and most of all wonderful now take all those things, make them yours and enjoy life|||coming to terms with my insignificant existence|||why is Facebonk declining in popularity?  https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2017/may/02/facebook-surveillance-tech-ethics|||The Egogram test  I have not seen these tests here.  There are 4 tests if you want a comprehensive assessment, I have completed just the x93Egogramx94 test, the other tests are: Energogram, Drivers and...|||Dentists are bad people. I realised when I was a teenager that the dentists used a stainless steel pointy thing they call a “Dental explorer”  “Dental explorer” sounds like something Christopher...|||A warm welcome developer of cheese Its good to have you on board this great ship that glides aimlessly upon the oceans of our unconscious minds|||duplicate|||duplicate|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LmQZjKMcPcA|||To bear a ring of power is to be alone. This task was appointed to you. And if you do not find a way, no one will.|||I did one months training with Sandie Ritter, Psychosynthesis psychotherapist and Enneagram teacher (in the narrative tradition) in 2004. I found it a great experience. Sandie was one of the most...|||paper round to save up an buy my first pair of levi's|||I don't experience jealousy as such from anyone.  I suppose I naturally allow people space to be who they are so they don't feel jealous unless of course I hit on their girlfriends, which is never!|||Yeah E-books are rubbish.   this is what you can do with a real book:  You can feel a book when you are reading it, fold the corners over, be tactile, smell the pages, lay it on your chest when...|||I am sure I have offended people with my ramblings. And my god do I ramble!   After the period of editing the post is over I sit in a place of uncertainly, wundering if I have, written thongs...|||A warm welcome Karolina  I am sure you will have a great time here|||just my shorts,   and of course my bra and panties   men wear them too you know|||I used to have 5 cats, absolutely adore them  one of them would definitely have woken me up too.|||yourself|||Best friend ever although now ended.  Absolutely perfect friend  an unspoken acceptance Talked forever, felt the world together We both expected too much from the friendship It was one sided in...|||I agree  3 new avatars = 3 different personalities|||Ideally we would live in a should and shouldn't free existence or at least strive to live without should and shouldn't.    If you continually impose should or shouldn't on yourself you are...|||cool video and cool guy He does have a good point about the thousands of INFJ's I have only met one INFJ|||A warm welcome Dafne it certainly is amazing when we start to learn about ourselves we are wonderful|||There are positives to a life of mundane, I liken it to taking drugs for many years thinking that my life was full of rainbows and pretty things until I gave up drugs that is, and realised that a...|||apple and rhubarb crumble with double cream|||I have been thinking about working in a Vape shop|||What Do You Call A Deer With No Eyes And No Legs?  still no idea|||What do you call a deer with no eye?     no idea|||Welcome new INFJ.  My suggestion is:  you are a wonderful human being thats all you need to be|||BEING GOOD ENOUGH is all you can be  I have recognised though that being a perfectionist is part of the process. I put so much effort into doing something perfectly that it is bound not to meet my...|||You Are Moderately Open to Experience Your score for openness was 75%. This is in the moderate range.  You Are Moderately Conscientious Your score for conscientiousness was 58%, which is in the...|||You sound emotionally healthy to me. Your asking the right questions, in particular, the difficult questions that some people are afraid to ask of themselves.   And what does your boyfriend know...|||A warm welcome heirlooms  you have found the right place to find out more about yourself|||A welcome to Raksha INFJ  I hope you fun times here,  There are lovely people here to chat and discover the great wonders of yourself|||A warm welcome Artisticfreakzz   I loved 13 reasons why  Clay is not INFJ, Why? because he is nothing like me|||Good post and very accurate for me  I totally agree with the attachment style issue. This is much forgotten by us INFJ’s but is very valuable to understand another dimension to how we manage...'