You are a Benevolent Visionary.   You are a Visionary  Your imagination, self-assuredness, and knowledge of the world combine to make you a VISIONARY.  You have clear notions of how things...|||Positive: I can brighten the mood of entire groups of people just by being myself! I tend to be very optimistic and generally upbeat. I'm quite good at the understanding of other people too, and I...|||- That ESFJs are somehow stupid or incapable of having intellectual conversations. - That ESFJs all gossip behind everybody's backs. - That all ESFJs are 'fake'.  - That ESFJs all cry when...|||I looked at the time while reading this thread, and it said 14:14..  COINCIDENCE? I THINK NOT.|||I can't maintain eye contact for too long, because I tend to sort of drown into somebody's eyes and completely miss the whole conversation. I look around a little or, when in a group, I have short...|||ENFJ advantage: It's easy for me to understand and imagine 'where people are coming from', so to say, and I guess it makes people feel appreciated when I can understand them most of the time.  ...|||While I tend to have rather strong opinions about the topics you mentioned, I usually keep them to myself unless somebody asks me about it. I don't like preaching; it's not like anybody would want me...|||Oh dear, the gifs cracked me up :laughing: I love this thread!|||I always have these episodes where.. I suddenly fall in love with a certain spice of sauce, and then continue to combine it with EVERYTHING. Right now that's, eh, chilli sauce. It's pretty good.....|||I can see where the OP is coming from, and while I don't really agree, I feel that many replies this thread has gotten are unnecessarily childish. It's alright if you feel that the OP gives off a...|||If you were to ask her why she became so distant, there'd be a pretty large chance that she will either deny it or have some sort of excuse, like she was very busy or something similar. I have a very...|||1. Happy are you? 9  2. Socially skilled are you? 9  3. Lazy are you? .. 8 :unsure:  4. Emotional are you? 7  5. Book smart are you? 5|||I believe only unhealthy types lack empathy. My type, ENFJ, is a type that is considered to be empathetic, but let me tell you that an unhealthy ENFJ can be unbelieveably cold and cruel. Every type...|||Mother - ESFJ (easiest to relate to for me, we always try to solve each others problems.. really neat) Father  - ENTP (love his perspective, his humor, how he stays calm in every situation)  Older...|||Blue, yellow, violet. :proud:|||Answers are in bold! And yes, I'm an ENFJ.|||I'm Dutch myself, and I definitely think that ENFP fits the Netherlands the best. Open minded, innovative, friendly and enthousiastic, yet pretty laid back at the same time ;).   The only other...|||I usually smile in pictures, but it doesn't really feel like faking to me. Taking pictures is kind of a 'YEY, pictures!' moment for me, so I guess pictures just make me smile haha. I don't force it....|||My type: ENFJ   Longest conversation without break: ESFJ / ENFJ (mother vs. best friend here.. I'm not sure) Funniest to me: INTP, ESTJ, ENTP, ENFP Most reliable: ISTJ Adore: ENxx Non...|||I spend almost every morning just.. staring at my closet for roughly 10 minutes to figure out what to wear. My general taste is quite expensive and formal, and I suppose I take pride in the clothes I...|||I'm.. the type of guy who is one of the first people to start dancing, screaming: 'OH, THIS IS MY SONG,' every other song. I get even more talkative and random, until at a certain point I'm a...|||I.. think I'm quite a decent liar :x I just try to convince myself of my lies beforehand, so I can be a bit more persuading.  As a child, I was notorious for getting out of sticky situations, but...|||All the time! Generally, my mood is geniunely cheerful and optimistic, especially when there are more people. When I'm at my best, I can't help but tell my friends something along the lines of: 'I...|||I prefer taking friends out for dinner just to let them know I appreciate them. I think my friends deserve better than my cooking.. :laughing:|||Hmm.. I got 66 :)   Fair enough for an ENFJ male, I suppose, heh!|||I find myself attracted to any of the NTs, they're just so.. interesting. Their perspectives are just so different from mine, and they don't judge me for having different perspectives, which is...|||I'm afraid that I won't have made a difference for other people by the time I've grown old. There's so much I want to accomplish, and I know not everything is possible for me to accomplish, so I'm...|||Just a heads up, I've never been.. seriously or clinically depressed, I'm just using the term 'depression' for convenience really; it's just when I feel down and hopeless for an extended period of...|||Sorry, I messed up, double post.|||I honestly can't really decide. I feel like both types of people are searching for a way to feel better about themselves - braggarts try to 'appear' better than they believe they are, while people...|||I tend to imagine things or people to be far greater than they really are, resulting in disappointment alllll the time.   Though what I dislike most about myself is how anxious I can be around some...|||Thank you very much for your replies! I think sending the care package is a marvelous idea, I will certainly arrange that in the near future.  I took my friend out for dinner yesterday, and we had...|||Ever since middle school, my best friend is a ENFJ guy, just like me. He's had a pretty rough youth, with his parents not being completely sane and facing rejection after rejection from loads of...|||I can totally relate to your post, but it doesn't just happen in relationships for me.  Whenever I meet new people (potential friends, to be specific), I tend to imagine one of them to be the...|||I detect my own flaws far easier than I can detect the flaws of others, so that causes me to become incredibly self conscious, to the point of insecurity. From what I've heard I seem to appear very...|||Do you feel at odds with what society expects of your gender?  To some extent, yeah. It's mostly just in my head though; neither my parents nor the people I know ever expressed that they expect me...|||I am so slow.   I have been rambling and talking to you constantly today, and I couldn't help but notice you were acting unlike your usual self. Cold, even. I dismissed it and I just continued to...|||Everything about the Fe-ENFJ applies to me.   It just freaks me out how spot on the description is.  Thanks a lot for sharing :)!|||Yes, I've never felt so connected to people my age as the friends I've met on high school. As an ENFJ male, I thought it was hard to relate with a lot of other guys my age. That's when I became best...|||Thankfully I have never been bullied before. I believe I was pretty lucky with the schools I was on. I was incredibly outgoing as a child on elementary school, and I never hesitated to make a fool...|||I don't know whether this applies to most ENFJs, but whenever I speak in front of a group I tend to focus my view on one or two people in the group. I look around the whole group often (so I'm not...|||The reason I'm asking this is because I've recently started college. I get along fine with most people, and I feel comfortable with quite a lot of people, too. However, I tend to 'compare' the newer...|||I don't think I have experienced true love before (I'm only 18 though, so there's plenty of time!), but I have dealt with infatuation. I just feel incredibly attracted to certain people while I am...|||- When you go to a party with the intention of only staying two or three hours.. and then you end up being one of the last people to leave.   I can totally relate to almost every post in this...|||I scored 69, though I agree that the questions weren't that good most of the time. Ah well, it was fun to do the test either way!|||38828  Took this picture yesterday, I was about to head to a party so I went ahead and got a new haircut as well :) I just asked the hairdresser to surprise me, which is very unlike me, haha!|||I do like to take care of myself, but face masks are a bit over the top. I like having a nice haircut and in order to make my skin seem slightly shinier I use this one beauty product.. I take about 5...|||Anxiety: Is one of the most horrible feelings in the world  Baseball:Is pretty fun Coloring:Is cool Driving:Is something I can't do yet (because I'm 16 and I'm required to be 18 in Europe)...|||I believe I have some masculine essence traits, but I think my preference goes to the feminine side. I feel more attracted to masculine women so..I guess.|||Thankfully, one of my best friends is an ENFJ as well, so we sort of boost the whole group's mood together! But I discovered that whenever I'm feeling down (which isn't often, maybe once a month?),...