'Do you think that there should be sparks on a first date? If that's not a requirement, how many dates do you think you need to go on to determine whether there is a spark?  I have been on a LOT of...|||Casual dating is torture...i hate going on dates so much but i make myself do it because i figure if i don't i will never meet anyone! But after 10+ years of trying i really just want to never have...|||Casual dating is torture...i hate going on dates so much but i make myself do it because i figure if i don't i will never meet anyone! But after 10+ years of trying i really just want to never have...|||I am currently reading 1Q84 by Haruki Murakami. So far i am really enjoying it! I am not quite halfway through, and so interested in the two main characters, it seems that their two separate story...|||Has anyone been single for a really long time? By a really long time I mean several years. How did/do you cope with it? Why do you think you were/have been single for so long?|||I love documentaries! They are my favourite thing to watch when i am on my own.   Here are some suggestions...  Exit Though The Gift Shop - about Banksy, the British graffiti artist Jiro Dreams...|||Sometimes i say something like I'm thinking of [insert fun activity here]. Would you be interested in joining me?. and then if they say yes i ask them when would be a good time and make a plan to...|||I tend to keep friends for a long time, i have good friends that i have been friends with for more than ten years now! I tend to put a fair bit into maintaining friendships, making a point of...|||it's totally NOT sad that your closest friends are your family members! My sister is one of my best friends and it's awesome. Your family will always be your family and it's really nice if you can be...|||I have been on the for the last 17 years or so...except for maybe one year. I have PCOS and it is supposed to help with that, i tried going off it for a few months about a year and a half ago and the...|||I rarely tease people, only sometimes with people i know really well. I am afraid it will be taken the wrong way. Also i am uncomfortable with/sensitive to being teased except from people i know...|||I find it almost impossible to say no when people invite me to do things with them...even to the point that i feel bad if i have to say no because i already have plans with someone else! If i am not...|||My lunch at wok habits are similar to Kyrielle, i actually share a table with a couple of coworkers but usually have a book to read. once in a while i will have an exchange with someone, they will...|||I hate it when my flatmate has boys over and they leave the toilet seat up.   I also HATE HATE HATE the misuse of s for pluralisation and  's  for possession. For some reason it makes me...|||Hmm i am interested to see where this thread goes!   Sometimes i can be the most unjealous person ever. I am usually really happy for my friends when nice things happen to them, and interested in...|||I have had some pretty bad experiences with homesickness, and i know it can be a pretty terrible feeling! Even if you have chosen to be somewhere for very good reasons sometimes it feels really...|||I am so, incredibly sick and tired of being single. I haven't had a boyfriend in over ten years...i have had a couple of disappointments where i started getting involved with someone and then it...|||I will share my opinion if i think it has the potential to do some good, for example of someone asks me an opinion about a decision they have yet to make or maybe to stop them from doing something...|||Hello!  So, i want to do my masters starting next september but i really don't know what to do it in! I keep thinking that i need the adult version of a guidance counsellor. I thought that maybe i...|||I definitely get along better with girls...i have two really good guy friends but the rest of all my good friends are women, and pretty much for my entire life my friends have always been female.  ...|||I'm a Sagittarius with a Taurus moon and Virgo rising. I don't really remember what any of it means, my roommate looked into when i moved in with her cause she is kind of into astrology. I do...|||I pay a lot of attention to how I dress, i like my clothes to be interesting and cool. I make sure pieces work together and accessorize where appropriate...it's amazing how much difference a belt or...|||It sounds like you need some new friends.   My friends never bash me, and they never make me feel horrible. Sure once in a while a friend can say something insensitive, but that just happens,...|||I would make everyone a little more understanding and considerate. And i would make everyone smarter.|||Oh wow, i am so excited for you, and maybe a bit jealous. It's my ten-year anniversary of starting University, and I have been feeling a bit nostalgic about it all. I had a wonderful time in first...|||no problem.|||I was thinking about doing a thread, wondering if INFJ's are more likely to be cat people or dog people.   I love dogs, they are sweet and happy and loving and affectionate. I miss having one. Cats...|||I really appreciate the design and functionality of apple products, probably i am also a designer.   I have an iphone and i really, really love it. It's funny because i rarely every make or receive...|||I do the double checking thing too...i do this a lot at work, there is a lot of detail and i am constantly rechecking for mistakes. It's silly because i am actually pretty good at getting things...|||I think wayyyyy to much about money. I am trying really hard to save money to go back to school, and allow myself to spend very little money...i have a pretty tight budget and am pretty good about...|||Wow it is very interesting that so many INFJ's seem to be religious.   I am not religious at all...i really don't like religion.   I usually describe myself as an agnostic...i always hesitate to...|||I cry fairly easily, although usually i am good at not letting other people see it.|||Yes!   I really like relating to people one on one. It's funny, i felt like i was really growing apart with a friend of mine but when we finally got a chance to hang out one-on-one again after a...|||The Postal Service (I liked DCFC a a lot too, but i don't really like codes and keys...) Portishead Radiohead Mates of State Fleet Foxes Bon Iver (going to see them this week...woo!) Vampire...|||This is interesting...i didn't know anything about any of the types when i fist took the MBTI, so i am pretty sure the results weren't skewed!  Later on I tried taking a personality quiz online, i...|||I was going to say that i don't think i procrastinate too much...and then realised that i have been thinking that i should go for a walk for at least an hour now, and am still sitting at my computer!...|||I suppose i should be asking this question to more than just INFJ's but i still haven't ventured too far out of this sub-forum.  I was reading through the post What percentage of the INFJ's here...|||We never did typing properly at school. I use the middle fingers of both hands to type, once in a while the index finger like if i am typing er. I keep telling myself that i should learn how to...|||I love Emily of New Moon! It's one of my favourites...i don't like the last book the the series though, the romance part kind of overwhelms the storyline.   I don't think i have anything like the...|||I am reading Sex At Dawn...i think the subtitle is something like the prehistoric origins of human sexuality.   I don't agree with everything in it so far but it is definitely fascinating...if...|||I think i would describe myself as a social introvert. I really enjoy spending time with people, i definitely need people in my life and my relationships with close friends and family are really...|||Savoury things... Pizza! I love pizza so much, it's so delicious! Especially neapolitan pizza...mmmm All chinese food, but dim sum especially  Poutine Fried chicken Buss up shut Macaroni and...|||Dates are HORRIBLE!!! Eeven when they seem to be going well they always feel kind of awkward somehow. I think for me too it seems kind of unnatural to get to know someone only on a one-one-one...|||I wish i had more drive...i think i am smart enough and creative enough to do the kinds of things i admire other people for doing, but i find it hard to be motivated. I feel like more encouragement...|||I think i usually just end up doing what feels right, but there is kind of a process to it. I will have a feeling about a decision, but i will think it over and talk it over with a few people. This...|||I have never had a frenemy...to be honest i don't think i have had an enemy since like the 4th grade. There are always a few people that i don't really like but i am polite/friendly to,...|||I have the same username on OKcupid as i do on here...i have been creeping like a creepy creeper so i figured it would make me less creepy if i shared.   also if anyone has an opinion i would be...|||I think i would be terrible at being male! For better or for worse i tend to fit in to a lot of the stereotypes of my gender in terms or personality and interests.   It's funny, i have wished to be...|||I usually fall asleep fairly easily, i think it is maybe a few things...i don't drink caffeine in the later afternoon/evening, i go to bed a pretty much the same time every day, i am usually pretty...|||I am not usually shy, unless something happens that will make me feel awkward...like attention that i don't feel i deserve or if i say or do something that i think is stupid or embarrassing.'