'Ok maybe simpler questions...  (1)How would you react if your crush said to you sometimes I don't know if you're flirting with me or we're just very good friends?  (2)How would you react if...|||** New Question   I’m (female) sharing an apartment with an ENFJ (male) and am under the impression that we are falling for each other however after doing some research, I have realised that I’m...|||Funny thing is today he finally made it up to my level at work and said hi.  It was a weird awkward conversation.  Like when someone tries to chat you up but you have nothing in common with them? ...|||Any luck on your side? : )|||Thanks for all that info!!!  Makes me feel like I’m on the right track….  I find it funny that some people feel I have been sufficiently direct with him and others don't.  Regadless, I wouldn't...|||To be completely fair I have told him and he did understand - he even answered with this is exactly how direct you should be.  He is one of you and told me I was sufficiently direct - or is that...|||So for anyone still reading this theardx85.  Ix92ve FINALLY moved floors.  Within minutes of me moving, he was messaging me through facebook but it did not last.  I have not heard from him in a week. ...|||Funny I had an opportunity to tell him that although a woman may be interested in a man at a moment in time, if he chooses to friendzone himself as he’s not sure, the interest may not stay for ever. ...|||You know what never ceases to blow my mind?  Why people chose to follow / read / post on threads they dislike / donx92t agree with.  Similarly, when people follow facebook pages that support things...|||All office/work place romances seem to take much more time this is true. Risk is there and  that makes the egg shell floor much more apparent.[/QUOTE]  Well in his defence, although it sounds like...|||Mind blow – this really made me think.  It sounds like the kind of thing someone would say when they’re insecure about a relationship.  I’ve said it before when I knew my relationship was falling...|||I know and I’m sorry : S  I appreciate your help.  Ironically, you are finding it frustrating but he seems to be fine with it? : P  I thought INTJs were always in or out, never on the fence, when...|||Ok so funny thing is last weekend I went on a ski trip and there were of course many guts there.  I met one in particular with whom I clicked and law and behold he is ENTP (internet test….but I’d...|||Sooooooooo he's started telling colleagues he's dating someone (obviously whilst I'm close enough to hear it!!)  That can't be good news?  hahaha|||So two things I forgot to mention in my previous post: He did have a double take on Monday when he saw me talking to AA in the office.  He didn’t say anything but he certainly “noticed” that I was...|||No, aside from the fact I'm not intersted, his current gf has just had a baby.  I'm not a home wrecker : )|||I’m kind of feeling really relieved I told him.  In the past, when I’ve told guys I liked them I’ve immediately felt very stressed and as though they needed to confirm straight away whether they were...|||Confirmed not that bad!  I actually met a few guys on my trip this weekend which also takes the pressure off things.  I’m not ruling out WorkENTP of course but it’s good to spread my energy so I...|||Humx85.so I was away this weekend so I played the wait and see game and did not hear from him.  On Monday, first thing he did is ask me how my weekend went (he knew I was going away) and then went on...|||Ok so some of you may be proud of me.  After this big relationship conversation he asks me how things are going with me and how my “black dress” date went and I kind of said “so, so, might see him...|||So just learnt something interesting – WorkENTP broke up with his gf for two weeks about two months ago….just around when he started being nice to me again!  Now they’re back together….  He said he...|||This really made me think.  At few months ago I told some of the guy in the office that I was dating again, kind of making it official (I read somewhere that you have nothing to lose to tell people...|||Ok I see your point and agree.  In about Mar / Apr he called her his gf in front of me.  Later down the line we had a chat and he told me SHE warned him when they started dating that all her exes got...|||Glad I could help you see what you already have ;)  I have not slept in 34 years....|||:( :( :(|||About three weeks ago? He said it really sadly like he was worth nothing....it really surprised me.|||So I just brought a dress from the dry cleaners and IMMEDIATELY WorkENT goes “oh someone’s dating again – back on tinder? No your type of site would be more (he names a bunch of different...|||Ok consider it done.   Yes thatx92s the impression I get.  I have to say hex92s pretty good at keeping eye contact.  Thatx92s what attracted me to him initially as he didnx92t seem as shallow.    Yes...|||Sorry for the late reply I've been overseas sunning myself up (it's winter here!) and building on my tan ; )   That is soooo funny because I’ve just realised – I already do this ALL THE TIME. ...|||So during our lunch on Monday, WorkENTP told me he’s still seeing a woman casually however doesn’t like to tell everyone at work until it gets serious.  He has only told me – why would that be? ...|||It has in the past unfortunately.  I have a one year relationship with someone who I think is an INTP.  I asked him out (after which he’d admitted he’d been interested for months but didn’t ask me...|||Alright.  I agree with this - apologies if I'd seemed dishonest.  I like him and always have, even when I was seeing the ISFJ.  For me the fact that he hasn't asked me out feels like rejection (I...|||Hum....I guess I'm asking because I don't want to miss out on a great opportunity because I'm not seeing what's exactly in front of me.    I see this can be annoying to you as keep changing my mind...|||So on his first day back from holiday he asked me to catch up for lunch.    He asked loads of questions during the catch up, wanted to know about my new flatmate, the guy I was seeing and how my...|||As for WorkENTP - if every time I become more friendly with him he relaxes and is more friendly with me....that's probably all he wants, friendship!|||I ended things with the ISFJ because:  01/He was messing me around  From the start he was making plans and cancelling or delaying them consistently.    02/Not making a conscious effort to...|||Good idea!|||He asked me to slow things down (which, in his words, dating without so much expectation) which I tried to adapt to.  I took a step back, focused on myself (aka organised a few things with friends, a...|||So I’ve had a think about this….  If I put myself in his shoes I can see that he would definitely see me acting much the same with him as with the others.  I personally don’t feel I flirt but a lot...|||OMG still reading but I just LOLed so hard reading this....|||Thanks for the answer : )  I’ve kind of changed my view on things.  Early on when I posted the first Q on this thread, I was infatuated with him and just couldn’t think straight, which made me very...|||So firstly I will NEVER blurt it out in the way you want me to! Hahaha  I have already told him that I will not ask a guy out.  He asked why [not]? I explained “Because I’ve done it before, I’ve...|||I’ve been reading “Signs ENTP likes you” and the first sentence of number 8 really spoke to me: How To Tell If An ENTP Likes You (As Told By 22 ENTPs) | Thought Catalog  “A weird combination of...|||I will keep updating.  I get an email every time there's a post on this so if you don't hear anything for a few months, I might be busy (wink wink) but just post something and I'll answer.|||I see how you (and everyone) would think that but I don't take commitment lightly and I'm 100% with the ISFJ.  I wouldn’t even contemplate another man.  I am simply recognising his change of...|||All I have to say is:  Bhahahahahhahhaa  ;)|||So I’ve just received a PM that made me realise that perhaps some people may know what happens from now…..  So firstly I have not heard back from NorthENTP and as I know he’s stubborn, and I’ve...|||Thank you so much for your help EP through this whole process…   OMG this is an amazing point and something I hadn’t thought of at all.  And you’ve identified something that may have been wrong in...|||Hey so I took your suggestion and had a chat with him.  There's a full explanation of what happened here (on post 5):...|||So coincidently I did exactly this, even if I received your message after the fact! Hahaha  I explained that I’m happy taking this slow but raised (as nicely as I possibly could): A-I don’t want...'