'Ey' verajessa! Sounds like you've been hurt really bad and afraid to try again at relationships. That's normal and I've known many people who have and are going through it themselves. The fear is...|||Hey Jddadio85! Sorry for the massively late reply! Can't believe how long it's been since I last signed in. =/ And I'm really happy to hear things are going great with you two. ^____^ Always nice to...|||Firstly I wanna say that I'm sorry you're in the situation you're in purpleviolet I do hope you find someone soon... I've known several INFJs and I find them to be people I can learn a lot from to...|||Jddadio85, wow, I'm really happy to hear that. =) I'm glad things are working out for you and your ISTJ and I want them to continue that way and to improve. ^____^|||^____^ No worries. Keep me updated.|||Nah, doesn't sound weird. To me anyways. He's an introvert. He's gonna want some time away from people at some point. I'm like that too. Even to family or to a girl I like or in a relationship with....|||Glad to know Mischief is doing better. ^____^ May he continue to do so.  In regards to what he didn't mention when you wanted to help out, I wouldn't worry about it. Maybe he found out his parents...|||Oh wow, sorry for the late reply. =/ Been busy with stuff to do anything else.  Uuhm... In this particular scenario I don't really see anything wrong with asking him if you could help out. From my...|||You're welcome Jddadio. ^___^|||I was actually wondering how it was going with you and your ISTJ. ^___^ And now I see you guys are resting your heads on each others' shoulder and sleeping at his house. Niiiiiice. XD  Whoa,...|||Ah man, having a good a time. I can only think of two people when I hear this. Being around people that are funny and bring you into conversations by sharing things with you is a sure way to have a...|||It's possible that he just took your words are information. And so he'd just think about it briefly and carry on. But, if he did get what you were trying to say, something's preventing him from...|||Hmm, I don't think so. Especially if he's tired of your ex.|||What the... An MP3 player? Yeah, I'd be confused too. I am ACTUALLY confused. What kinda music was on it?|||Hmm, that's odd of him... I agree with your decision.|||There's an emotion for a post like this. It sounds something like UUUUUUUH. Looks something like this ---> >_________>  An Australian spider bite? Dang. I would hate to be that guy's penis.|||Love this.[/COLOR]|||No, don't leave. Stay with me longer is basically what he's saying. XD|||Yeah I think he likes you as well. I'd only do stuff like that if I were into someone and was trying to get them to like me back. See if you could reciprocate what he does a little and see what he...|||I'm an ISTJ.  1. I can be extremely energetic and expressive. Which is something I strive to be as my natural self.  2. I understand feelings very well and I'm empathetic.  3. I've trained...|||Hi Hannah. Welcome to the forum. ^____^|||I like your sense of humor. I think you should keep trying. ^____^|||Nope, sorry bruh. I'm somebody else.|||Being safe a person. Meaning a person you feel comfortable being yourself around. Tolerance, patience and understanding are big parts of that. And being able to defend one's self.|||Keep it up dude! Don't let the negativity bring you down! Nothing POSITIVE will come from it. ;D|||Cool cool. Nope, can't say I know anything about it, but thanks for sharing. ^___^ Basically, hi and welcome to the site. =)|||Just know that it does take time to find compatible people. Why? Because when you've tried a thousand times with different people to make a bond and it just doesn't go according to plan, you learn....|||Welcome welcome to the foruuuum. ^___^|||Man. This is something I've been trying to do since I can't remember how long. I figured that if I could become fully conscious of my mind in the sense that I'm aware of every cog in my system, I...|||Welcome to the forum dude. ^___^|||Well, when you take the test, you're given your results in percentages. So I'd imagine that as you develop and grow, your percentages would change. Increase or decrease. You have something called...|||Sounds like you're already on your way man. ^___^ May more roads open up to you.|||*puts on shirt saying ISTJ in da house*  http://h.fastcompany.net/multisite_files/fastcompany/imagecache/inline-large/inline/2013/09/3017590-inline-sloth-no.gif|||You want to vent, but when you do, people get overwhelmed I guess? Then you go back to your original approach: not venting. But you can't seem to continue doing this anymore. Or for now at least. So...|||I move on. Aren't relationships supposed to make you happier? Healthier? How can you be happy with someone that doesn't want you? I would rather be alone than in a bad relationship. And you HAVE to...|||I'm not an INFJ, but I know what you're talking about. I can't be myself around others either. For different reasons though. Be yourself, but know the consequences. You've already listed some. People...|||I think you said what's causing it already. Worrying. You're too concerned with the future. Perhaps worried if what you want to happen will happen or not. Probably thinking about what you can do...|||Welcome. ^____^|||Lol!|||I think what I'm about to list is different to my type's stereotype. I'm not controlling. I let people be who they are and adjust myself accordingly. If I can't, I begin to distance myself from...|||What is it you're aiming for? Do you really believe you're a secondary psychopath? If so, is your goal to neutralize it? What are you hoping for? Congrats on the promotion though.|||I was laughing to myself reading your post till I got to the driving bit. XD --> 8| I'm like that too, not enough sleep is not an option for me anymore. I can't allow it, as much as possible.|||This made me lol. XD|||I get angry super easily and I get frustrated from trying to keep it to myself. So what I'd do is distance myself from people and anything that would tick me off. I start ignoring people, keep...|||Though I am not an INFJ, I remember I used to be like this. I remember thinking the same that my significant other should be okay with leaving me alone for a month if that was how long it took for me...|||I can move on easily. Mostly because if I break up with someone, I know exactly why. And if someone breaks up with me, I think it's because I'm not really what they were looking for or we aren't as...|||How to Make the Best Pancakes You've Ever Had | MUNCHIES  Going now to the grocery store so I can make some of these babies for dinner. *ridiculously loud lip-smacking*|||I dunno. It's weird. We don't really talk often (because she's always busy with other things), but when we do, it's like we're best friends. At times I feel like she loves me, other times I can see...|||Hey, are we into baking? =/ Like cookies and cakes and stuff. I like doing it. Got an ESTJ sister that bakes too. Any of us into it as well?|||I know, I understand. ^___^ Was just teasing. But yeah, it's a good question. Why ARE baking and cookies associated with ISFJs? =/  I wonder if other ESTJs are into baking actually. I got an ESTJ...'