'I would say INFJ's, more so younger INFJ's do have this tendency. We have a vision of how we want our world to be, and are constantly trying to find a way to make the real world match up to it. More...|||I don't know your personality type, but if you are extroverted then I think this is a common issue to come across. I tend to shy away from asking people things (such as checking where where or when...|||If there was an obvious place for you to meet at that activity, then I don't think it's unreasonable for her to expect you to meet there. Also, she could just have left her computer on, and therefore...|||We love you too ❤|||It happens with other things too, but typology has it particular badly because your type is such a fundemental part of who you are that it is very hard (unless you have studied typology) to detach...|||ENFP: Stop worrying about things / trying to plan things, and just go with the flow.  While I think you're right that it's a problem that people don't realise different other people can be, I do...|||I'd definitely identify more with 'soft' than 'tough', but I don't really that most people fit into one category or the other. I certainly don't admire anyone who is totally soft or totally tough....|||Talking about our emotions certainly helps, as it allows us to sort out what they are. However, medium to long term the underlying issues need to be solved. Mediating is good, but you need to do it...|||Firstly, the 'girlfriend' thing is nothing. Just because you are his girlfriend doesn't mean that you aren't also his friend. He probably just didn't want to sound like he was criticising his friend....|||This blog is the reason I use tumblr.|||I. Can't. Do. It.  The thing that impresses me most about strong Si users is the ability to memorize song lyrics after listening to a song only once. It's crazy. I associate Si with a certain sort...|||Hmm, my 'best friend' is an INFJ. We don't really have much in common anymore, and sometimes find it hard to find things to do together (we're growing up, and doing different things), but the...|||I'm also like this! My school teachers would go crazy at me for not writing down my working out. Of course the reason I didn't was because I didn't have any. Currently considering switching to a...|||I often have a lot to say about what other people have to say, but can't come up with anyting on my own. It's the difference between Ne and Ni...  I also get (far too) worried that the other person...|||Of course I would! Why would I not???|||I don't believe in an afterlife, but I'm also not worried about dying. I wouldn't want to be concious forever anyway.|||I think it's more the fact that we don't get to pay for you. Which we like doing. A mature INFJ shouldn't have a problem with this though.|||I think all of these are true of me sometimes (much as I would like to think otherwise). Luckily most of the time I manage to avoid them :)|||When I'm in a good mood, I'm the ultra-calming, relaxed guy. If I'm stressed or nervous I can be the opposite though.|||ENFP father + ENFJ mother. Although they are divorced.  Step-mother, also ENFJ i think, and step-father something like ISTP.  Siblings: ENFP ENFJ and 2 x too young to tell, but I might guess...|||With regard to personalities it essentially captures that idea that INFJ's are good at enabling potential in other people (whatever that may be).|||This isn't mine, but INFJ Doodles is brilliant, and seems relevant here.|||I wish I had better advice for you, but I fear I am no better at these things than you. I think you are on to something when you talk of displays of love being unwanted or intrusive. I don't know...|||You only need basic feelings, but you need to prove it. Unfortunately people lie about these things, so simply saying that you feel a certain way isn't enough to dispel people's doubts. If you say...|||Well I certainly like to socialise more than that. 2-3 times a week would probably be more typical, and more than that can be handled if necessary. It is also the case that socialising with close...|||I haven't mistyped as INTP, but the tests (back when I couldn't see through all the questions) used to type me as ENTP. I think the Extraverted bit was wishful thinking (at the time) on my part (and...|||If he's anything like me, he's probably worried about bothering you (yes, even if it would be obvious to anyone else in the world that he wouldn't be). I'd be to the point and say that you want him...|||Hmm... I think they won't see this action as that much of a big deal in itself. But the fact that he likes to spend time with you in that kind of way, is comfortable with your family, etc is...|||Leading into it adds emphasis to it, and makes it more obvious. It also tends to make the person doing the telling feel better. I therefore try to avoid it unless I am deliberately trying to draw...|||1. MBTI does seem to be partially descriptive of human personality. However, it is not wholly descriptive, and it would definitely be wrong to ascribe definite characteristics to a particular type....|||As someone who was taken to counselling as a child, and then not taken back as I wouldn't cooperate, I would echo xEmilyx about treating them as an adult. I would also say that the essential problem...|||Actually, an INFJ T-shirt isn't a bad idea. If an INFJ does happen to see it, great! and if anyone else asks, well I get to talk to them about something I'm interested in, and they find something out...|||Yeah, but opinion polls are close to 100% accurate (people know who they support, and have no reason to lie), whereas MBTI tests not so much.|||I have also tested as ENTP on MBTI tests (and still do sometimes). The tests aren't so great :(|||The connection with ENFP's is AMAZING. Love the way they love life, and are interested in everything around them. Ne makes them interesting, and the F part means that they really care :)  That...|||I would agree with this. I think your idealism can be reminiscent of children who haven't yet seen anything bad in the world. Not that this is a bad trait. In fact, I would like to think that I could...|||I find meaning in helping people to be happy, and removing their suffering. Regardless of whether there is any 'point', people seem to want to live, and it seems to be worthwhile to help them to make...|||Why can't you compare the suffering of animals to that of humans?  You might be right that that of exploited children is worse, but that would depend on what was causing the animal to suffer. A...|||Hehe, that website is great :D|||Yes, but generally I don't spend as much time with others as I would like...|||Hmm... this is interesting. I'd be very interested to know how you guys do like to make arrangements for things... Would you prefer that I just called you and asked you if you wanted to do something...|||I find it very difficult to talk about my feeling to girls who haven't declared any interest in me (or it's not VERY obvious), but I love expressing them to people who I know will want to hear about...|||Nope, and to be honest, I struggle to see how anyone could think it was (I'd be interested to know, if anyone does have a good reason for believing this).|||All sorts of things. Lot's of people say they don't know (and sometimes they come back a couple hours later when they've thought of something). Lot's of people turn the question back on me, and ask...|||Don't I know it! I used to not do it because I know it makes some people uncomfortable, but I've found that as long as you smile and shrug it off if they don't want to answer then most people don't...|||Can't you see me? I'm right here in my chair!  Um.. but anyway, I like to talk to people, to find out what they are like and who they are. Unfortunately, not many people like strangers randomly...|||One of my best friends is an ENFP, and it does drive me crazy that I so rarely get to see her (although this is partly because we now live in different places for much of the year). I wouldn't ever...|||Hmm, my instinct would be to put this down as a mother thing. My mother (ENFJ) can get quite upset when I don't spend enough time with her (I still live at home, just), and she often communicates...|||Hmm, I think this is true, however I also think that a lot of my self image is based on what other people think about me, and how they react and interact with me.|||Hmm, that is interesting. Provides an interesting lens through which to see similarities between introverts and extroverts.  I got 46.'