'I'm so glad there is a thread about this. I've pondered this phenomena for a very long time. I'm glad others have pondered this as well. (The phenomena is how memory existence/retrieval, if you will,...|||Over analyzing events and negative comments. I for one, am absolutely horrible at debating, and can honestly lose a debate even if the other side is wrong. Usually, this is because I don't want to...|||ISTPs are my absolute favorites, next to INFPs.    I have a friend ISTP, Tawana, and we just get along so great. I think its because she knows she can say whatever she wants about me, and I won't...|||I myself cannot -stand- esfps. I CANNOT. God. So infuriating. And all that spray tanning and tattoos. Like, what the fuck.  They're quick to snap comments and argue and cause drama, but not quick...|||Are you serious? Who are YOU to say what an ENFP should be?   I'm not trying to control her, but way to put your personal spin on something you have no idea about. I really wish ENFPs would listen...|||she said was she was sexually abused as a child, and thats why she has trouble paying her car bill because committment scares her. She lies and creates excuses out of everything so she never has to...|||ENFPs are a rocky road. Have an ENFP sister, she has a view of the world that isn't right, and she is kind of crazy. Have an ENFP boss, she's ok... I have an ENFP friend on another forum, she's...|||ewww i don't like the ipip neo or any of those tests that just say 'ur like 30% extraverted and 22% moody' etc. etc. etc. besides. MBTI is grrrrreat.|||Honestly, it'd be pretty shitty. But then again that goes for a world without any type. Even... -cringes- ESTJs.|||Well, I wrote a rap.   Away   I spend time trying to innovate I chase the gate, fraid it will close in my face. Walk faster, harder, and slower, contradicting my motives in order to go over...|||By inventing games like angry birds.|||I'm an ENFJ, with an overdeveloped/overwhelming Ni, and I tend to agree with INFJs more so in this regard, than my fellow ENTJs/ENFJs; thus why I'm posting here.  Do you really exist in this world?...|||I think we are talking about two things:  I am talking about JCF order of: Fe-Ni-Se-Ti | Fi-Ne-Si-Te  In this I mean that Te is our weakest function.   But at the same time, I agree with you...|||Actually, Te is our weakest function.  However, with Si, as our 7th function, makes sense just as much. Because with our 7th function, we aren't really sure when is the proper time to... put it...|||Put a badass cowboy smoking a lone cigarette as the main character.   Goldennn|||Someone who is there for  them, but one who doesn't judge, and isn't impersonal. But more importantly, someone real. Fake people disgust me (Me, the Fe dom), and I can't stand them. I'd rather have...|||No, my introverted thinking is completely inferior (read this article for reference:)   The Form of the Inferior - EFJs   But also, ENFJs in general need more quiet time alone than other...|||I've taken that test, I didn't really like it though because all the questions did was dissect the definition of a function, then ask 'do you agree with this sentence' basically. like, what. No I...|||Pat Robertson  and like   every single teleevangelist ever existed|||That's exactly what I'm talking about, haha!   So many times I just want to taste food, not eat it. I'd almost consider going bulemic (not serious) just so I could taste all the food I wanted, but...|||I hate inflicting pain, but when I am enraged, I actually enjoy it. When someone does me wrong in such a horrible way, betraying every aspect of me, I can't think of anything else but inflicting the...|||What's up ENFJs.   So tell me, how do you engage your Se? If you're not sure what that means, we use our tertiary function (Se for us) to 'engage' the world, its how are life is oriented. As Se as...|||No thanks, I outward (Ne) is less favorable to inward (Ni). I think all the beauty is inward, mainly.|||HAHA! I know right! Like, thats why I hate it when I can tell someone is attracted to me, so they come up and go hi but I'm a) not attracted back or b) not looking for someone like that, I get...|||Take that infps!!|||haha, I know, right?   Btw, at the comparions thing, even worse, you're comparing an Fi Ne Si Te (infp) with Fe Ni Se Ti (enfj). We're going to be opposites.  I think I already talked about...|||Can be an ass, usually are. But nice people overall, very stubborn, but usually stubborn for a very good reason (vs, stjs).    Bro is one.|||Frankly, stuck up and entitled.    But that is just my friends, and is no way a statement against all infps out there.|||I can kinda relate to that, in a sort of way, haha. Sometimes I'll do things JUST TO 'escape that box.'|||I love reading enfj personality descriptions, and i love reading jcf type descriptions.  I'm a type 2w3, so I don't really know myself at all, I sometimes think I do, but idk.... at the same time I...|||Maybe its just me being gay, or being an Fe dom, but I'm far from the ESTX version of manliness. At the same time though, I can definitely see what Hung is talking about, just can't really put it...|||Thats basically me, haha. Except I don't like family gatherings, so I do the opposite and say my card is the worst, so I can get out of it early. haha.|||Hah, you have horny as your mood.    I like.|||... :)  Hey, what else can I say?|||I love driving fast. And in the rain. The best kind, is the rain rains just right so you can have the windows down and none of it goes into the car.|||Hah, 600. Goes like this:  Bro wanna join perC? Tons of other ENFJs!!!!!  SURE!  -joins-  -makes 4 posts-|||Hi there ENFJs, and visitors from a world so similar to ours.  I'm here to make a topic about the restlessness we face in our lives, its meaning, and how widespread it is.  To start off, I've...|||As of this moment I'm signing a warrant to get you evicted out of my brain, this is exactly what my life is like, and thus you are a hazard to my mental health as you know my thoughts all too well. ...|||Enfjs are the opposites of ESTJs, one of the most common types, we are then second opposite to ISTJ, and then ESFJ. These compose of a vast majority of the population, so I think that alone can cause...|||I know about that site!  I am confused by what Greatest dissatisfiers were Promotions and Salary. means. Like, we wish we were promoted more/higher paid?|||Christian.   Pat Robertson is an enfj. yikes. my dad works for him as well. double yikes.|||I Know what thats like, 100%!!! (Gay enfj also :P)  One thing I've also noticed, is when someone is interested in you, you're not sure if they're just being cordial or something, or even if you're...|||I love this post. Like, I feel like I've know this post for years, and yet, love at first sight.|||I have very deep thoughts, But I won't really ever let you know. I don't like opening that kind of thing up to other people. I am also amazed by everything in the world, something I think I share...|||I hate hate hate hate hate being Fe dom/ENFJ. I have an ESTJ roomate and it causes so much conflict. For example, I divulge a lot about my life, and today I ws talking about bills and I didn't...|||so are all these enfjs against this one infp?|||AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA TOTALLY. Hah. ha. hahhahahhahahahahahahahahaahahhaha  ^^ (IRL JUST NOW)   My little esfj sister does that all the time. God. Just, all that stuff in general. Now frankly I...|||Another thing I noticed about ESFJs vs ENFJs are ESFJs are much more... on the lookout for danger in the environment. So they also tend to get more attention faster because they have to like... freak...|||YES YES YES YES  I get that a lot you must love being the center of attention Sam, you just being you are always taking the stage etc. But I don't really like attention like that, in fact, I...|||Yup.    Now the hard part for me is, once I realized I was incorrect in something, changing that mindset is very difficult. And its aggravating, because I know I'm wrong, but I can't like... For...'