'Anyone want to talk privately via personality cafe messages... I'm going through an emotional crisis right now and I don't have anyone to talk to|||My life experiences were very similar yours. My dad was very strict, dictatorial. And we moved around a lot, making it hard to make or keep friends at schools. Plus there was the shame of telling the...|||Worry :(|||Is there a correlation between INFPs and Borderline Personality Disorder?  Source: Borderline personality disorder - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia  Signs and symptoms[edit]  The most...|||I'm not a jealous or envious person wishing for a fulfilling life; whatever that means. I feel like a lot of people are slaves/tools to the system and addicted to their credit cards.  I feel like...|||I love my apartment. It is my safe place. When I leave my apartment, to go to work or do chores, I see them, the happy people; couples holding hands, families having fun. It makes me feel so sad...|||The other coworker is an ESFP, a Performer, an unhappy Performer, who wasn't happy with how his life was going; having the same guest service job and doing improve for very little money. And, I was...|||During the early days, I was very ENFP-ish.  outgoing, social, disorganized, easily talked into doing silly things, spontaneous, wild and crazy, acts without thinking, good at getting people to...|||I'm an INFP, and we can be quite extroverted in certain circles. So I started the new job and assumed everyone was nice and friendly, so I opened up a little more than I should, talked too much, made...|||No one wants me!|||I've been trying my best to break out of my shell and find some happiness in my life, but it is not working out.  At the new place where I work, I'm extremely extroverted, or was extremely...|||I feel so alone right now. I really need to talk to someone. Please!!!|||This made me laugh so much. I know!  I have a lot of experience of liking someone and not having that other person know. I liked the same girl for four years of high school (and I talked to her...|||No, not yet! I was going to email her. But I got scared. She did sign-up for something that I'm going to go to in a few weeks. Hopefully we will meet each other then.|||Hehe! So, I'm in a few Meetup Groups and a couple of years earlier I had tried online dating; and from analyzing my past experience with women I've noticed that a few INTJ women have, I believe,...|||I'm falling in love with an INTJ|||I'm falling in love with an INTJ|||I like it a lot!!! I'm just having a difficult time making friends; close friends.|||I'm in Chicago.|||I went to 6th grade, 7th grade, and college in NYC. I identify (or yearned for the city life for a large portions of my 20s).|||I'm in the Midwest.|||I just moved to a big city from a small town, and I'm having such a hard time meeting new people. I'm trying my best. I'm going to a lot of Meetups. I came here Feb 1. Yesterday was my first day at...|||I need to talk to someone!!! I'm in complete and utter despair!!!|||I just moved to Chicago from upstate New York. Are there any INFPs on this site from Chicago?|||Are we INFPs an acquired taste?  Some people like me for who I am, while others hate me with a passion.|||Does the club have a special handshake? :)|||Yeah, kind of. Yesterday really revealed a lot of hidden feelings.|||Feeling completely and utterly alone!|||Is Chelsea Manning an INFP?|||Yeah, the same with me! :)|||Thanks, for the great post! :)|||So I just finished talking with a friend, who is going through a lot right now. I tried my best to give the best possible advice. But, also, I knew that other than that there was not much else that I...|||I'm very grateful for the internet. I've been able to meet some great people, and make some great new friends. Romantically, on a serious long term level, I haven't been successful yet. But I have...|||Thank you to checking up on me! I've been having ups and downs. I've started therapy back up again. And I was able to get comfort by a few nice folks in the online community.  I really appreciate...|||I'm open to making new friends! One can never have too many friends!|||Oh man! I'm saving up to move to a big city. I hope it's not that hard in a big city for me. I've had a hard life (Think Good Will Hunting!) I need a nice, pretty woman; I need some stability and...|||If you go to one of the online dating sites, and put in a word search for either INFJ or INFP, then you may find some people who declare in their profiles that they are INFJs or INFPs. :)|||On second thought, I shouldn't. It took me two months last year to think up my profile. It's quite original. And I'm afraid of plagiarism.|||I'll send you a link via pm. :)|||I did something very brave yesterday. I got back on that horse called online dating. I've had a mixed experience with online dating; I've met a few awesome people, but I've also been completely...|||Why do I have such a hard time letting go of the past?  I'm 30 years old, but I can't let go of the growing pains of middle school and high school. I can't let go of the sister I lost in 2004. I...|||Last year, when the election was going on, I was watching the 2nd Presidential Debate with a group of friends, and I said: Mitt Romney has great blow job lips, but I'd never vote for him!  Some...|||Can I send you a PM?|||As nighttime approaches, my shear terror is kicking in again. I simply put my head to my bed, and put a blanket on myself, and the painful memories and feelings started back up again.  I need to...|||Can I send a PM?|||Yes, please!|||I desperately need to talk to someone!|||I felt uncomfortable with what I had originally posted here. So I deleted it.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SG_HH1FyUXc   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPe-0qqvYh8|||Last night, I was doing some INFP research, and I ran upon this 1995 Princess Diana Interview. While watching this interview, I found myself crying and identifying with many of Princess Diana's INFP...'