'-Early morning sunrise in the Winter, especially for a long run  -Dusk in the Spring when it's breezy, dreamy, ethereal...|||I've been told I have a thousand-yard-stare.  It's certainly not intentional but it makes people think I'm an a$$hole (which I always find out later after much social awkwardness).  Oh well:tongue:|||I constantly feel that way.  It's especially hard during conversations with people as I *always* feel like I am saying the wrong thing.  Couple that with what I have been told is my ever-present...|||Glad to hear others using music as a happy pill.  Give me a nice sunny day, a strong cocktail and some 311 on the MP3 player and that can defeat the most evil of depression monsters.|||Wow, I could have just copy/pasted your stuff in my own post.  Namely the STEM and social awkwardness.  I majored in Comp Sci. and have a job as a software developer...and I hate it!  All the rules...|||For Your Life - Led Zeppelin|||I do it everywhere, even during job interviews.  I tend to be very animated too.  I think I was supposed to be a cartoon:tongue:|||-A Player's Guide to the Ladies -How to Stop Being the Life of the Party!|||Jeans, t-shirts and Chucks for the feets.|||Man, you made me shed a man-tear at work when I saw his picture:sad:  Signed!|||Wiser words were never spoken.  I think you should talk to her, but be very, very careful about *what* you say and *how* you say it.  It could be that a vacation from makes you realize you want her...|||Running here, but it's only to stay lean.  I ran in high school and was never great but I'm glad the habit stuck with me.  (yay for pizza and beer on the weekend without the belly!)|||Me likes this thread!  I am *way* too childish.  I tend to stop to look at little, seemingly insignificant things and this greatly annoys other people around me.  I'll also do bizzare stuff like hang...|||-Aliens (director's cut) -Blade Runner (director's cut)|||-Differential Equations: The Definative Guide -Yes, it IS all in your head -Why feelings make you weak|||A steady 5-7.|||Morning for me too.  I workout in the morning and feel like I'm blazing afterwards.  Then the reality of my terrible job as a programmer creeps in and I'm spent.|||Depends on the activity for me.  I used to love camping with my friends when I was young.  I used to listen to the sounds of nature for hours at night, after everyone else had drifted to sleep.  I...|||I find small talk boring, along with meaningless or social minutiae talk (like gossip, latest trends, etc.  I find the how are you question particularly infuriating.  Short answer is that I try...|||I actually like it, provided I know about it first.  An uninvited probing though...grrrrr...makes Hulk ANGRY!!!  If it's invited, or a professional session than I view it as a way to improve myself.|||I love Batman, particularly how he operates alone (depending on which series you read...can't stand Robin/Nightwing).  I greatly admire how he had to overcome fear and tradgedy, then used it as a...|||I almost shed a tear when I saw your post. My wife is always critically evaluating me for menial things!!!! My wife is also the organizer, financial planner and general manager of our relationship....|||Your post made me smile:happy:  I had this strange thought of a little cloned me running around.  I wonder if you would get into a fight with yourself?  That would be strange!:tongue:|||I adore a handwritten letter!  I think it's romantic and it shows that a person wanted to really put some effort into their feelings.  It is really easy to blast a text off, but taking the time to...|||I will raise a fist in collective angst to that!  Seriously though, I understand that completely and sadly it has taught me to just keep my mouth shut.  I have never understood why people assume a...|||I am frequently told that I have a thousand yard stare.  I have also been told many times that I seem arrogant before I speak a single word!|||Dude, totally agree there.  I always get a bit annoyed and defend myself by saying that I just want to be the best I can be.|||You have a 1000-yard-stare.  No wonder people don't want to talk to you.  You look scary man! (said by...everyone)|||On a cool winter's day in 7th grade, I was trying to remove my sweater in Science class because the room was hot.  Somehow I got my arms tangled up and the teacher had to stop in the middle of her...|||This sounds cliche, but from personal experience I have found rigorous physical activity helps.  I do sprint intervals to detoxify.  It doesn't cure everything but it does make me tired and numb so...|||I completely connect with the attention fantasy, because I have seen how it opens doors for people.  This may stray from the topic a bit, but I have been told I have a 1000 yard stare which usually...|||The Krusty Krab pizza, is the pizza, for you and me!|||I have noticed that I (negatively) try to fit all my behavior into the INFP description.  For example, if I make a bad decision it's easy to just say, oh well, that's the way I am instead of...|||I have found that passion means something that you can stick with and lose yourself in.  I agree that passions can melt into whims, or even start out that way.  I thought I wanted to be in a music...|||He sounds just like me!  I have a Comp. Sci. degree and it was a horrible, slow crawl to the finish.  I was always slow at programming and usually wrote buggy code.  I've been a professional...|||I've bounced between ISFP and INFP when I take the test at different times or days.  Probably my mood, maybe?|||I get that *every* time I meet people.  If and when said people actually become friendly with me at some point later, they always tell me I seemed so snobby or cold.:sad:|||Yes, yes, yes!  That's usually how things go with me, especially the cycle part.  Whenever I think I'm getting a deep connection with someone, it ends up being superficial.  I'll ask the person to...|||I have a terrible time making friends.  Certainly my fault, probably because I am so aloof.  I usually end up with fair-weather friends.  The kind that only want to hang out when there is no one...|||I live my life based on them.  I've been on job interviews where I didn't get a good vibe about the environment, but took the job anyway...bad mistake in EVERY case.  I can also tell instantly when...|||Good point.  I worked as a computer technician to pay for college and I liked the idea of getting someone's fun machine back to them.  I also enjoyed teaching people things about computers when...|||chrisco333 Thanks, although I guess if I was really wise I would be doing something I love:tongue:|||Others have said, and I can confirm that passion is the key.  Don't make the mistake I did and end up in a career you hate just to maintain a lifestyle.|||I can empathize completely.  My passion is drawing.  Sadly, my degree is in Computer Science and I am a programmer.  I hate my career:sad:!!  Follow your passions!!!  Don't go to school with the...|||Go with what interests you the most!  If you dig writing or graphics you may like the Arts better than the Sciences.  UX/UI design is popular but you will have to get into writing CSS code which, for...|||:tongue: That's an understatement!  Corgis are cute.  I lived next to a woman who had two back in 2007.  They were like little furry low riders.|||Must...have...wiener dog!|||Wow, what an outstanding display of confidence!  Your skin is coated in a sheen of it!!.|||I am a software developer and I find it frustrating and boring. I majored in Comp. Sci. and did so because as a younger man all I wanted was money. After almost 10 years in the field I've realized...|||I struggle with self esteem on a daily basis.  I agree very much that finding a passion will help.  On the other hand, it can be a real soul crusher to find a passion and struggle with that as well! ...'