'The following weird paradox. In one way, the MBTI can help us to behave more humanely, while in another way, it seems to dehumanize us.  https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=6LbVY7VmQ7Y|||NO. The ENFP male lovez them INTJ galz cool, stoic, rational, composed!!!  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8C8uRunjXk&list=UUPP_rQyrlkraRaBucvOrxtw|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8C8uRunjXk  Female INTJ- male ENFP interaction from a male ENFP point of view! Not entirely on topic but still insightful I think... Yes I am promoting my vid ;)|||Yes I consider him to be one of my closest friends. We have been friends for 12 years now. I met him in college. We consistently meet eachother, every two weeks on average.   How are the ties with...|||I am an ENFP 2w3. My best friend for years is an INTJ 7w8 as well. You guys resemble eachother even physically. I bet you must be speeding on your career track! He always probes me about emotions, of...|||Dear Being, Have you told the neurologist about the mold? Might it not be nonprogressive, acute demyelinisation in that case? The mold-seizures (+demyelination) relation might be coincidential, but...|||Dear Being, I wish you the most favorable outcome.  Note that in some cases demyelination laesions can be acute and even their occurence transient, for example when athletes exaggerate on their...|||Oh God, is that the female INTJ way of asking her male target to marry her??? ;) Okok: Knittigan, after all we've been through, mostly good, would you marry me?|||find an ENFP. Enfp females are not that scarce. good luck.|||That sounds more INTP than INTJ to me (Fe)! I get your point. The thing is, however, once you know MBTI and see some patterns, it is very hard NOT to take it into account, whether it be in romance,...|||Congratulations on your marriage! I hope I did't offend you by asking that question.  No worries.  Everybody gets a payoff for being on this website. Everybody has an 'agenda' or intrests for that...|||Given your answer on question 3: If I may ask: are you really married such as your profile suggests? :) I think you have a beautiful job.|||Goed om een Nederlander tegen te komen hier! Lekker bondige man! Leuk! :)|||If we may know: what is your area of study? You are refreshingly neutral :)|||Beautiful Italy! Tell me, was the meetup with the PerC member as expected? Did you experience the MBTI compatibility in real life? What was the physical distance between your places of stay?|||Europeans...Reveal thyselves!|||Welcome to the N H K...uh European thread, Hikikomori-des. Pretending being in Germany is almost good enough ;). Why Germany?|||We love you too Mzansi|||Very true. We unconsciously make associations, and thus use stereotypes as a starting point. (cfr. the mental shotgun). But, the brain is lazy and doesn't think further in many cases. We hold...|||If you are from Europe, please post in the European thread (check my activity). If not, well... .  I am an ENFP but I need a lot of alone time. I can relate to what you are saying about physical...|||Brussels is beautiful. Yep, I screen everybody ;). Me Antwerpen represent! You sound like you have a healthy diet! Keep it up ;-)|||I asked the two questions purposefully in a tricky order. 1) Your answer here clearly indicates extraverted feeling (Fe), the second function of the inFj. In contrast, inTj's are introverted...|||Our concern for our own authenticity (Fi) overrules social convention (Fe). We can be 'harsh' or 'blunt' or 'too honest'. But can you really be 'too honest'? You are merely 'honest'.  Combined with...|||Again, it is just speculation. INFJ and INTJ are quite different (Ti vs Te, Fe vs Fi). Altough you slightly pop your eyes on one of your pics (Fe), you wear black all the time, you hold a motor...|||technogremlin You radiate peace|||we ALL LOVE PEARS|||Thanks my idealistic fellow Belgian. It's the posters that make this thread great indeed. Vlaanderen of Wallonie of Brussel? :)  Edit: *drooling at your macaron* I had one today actually... Edit...|||Another Belgian! An INTJ even. Goeiedag/bonjour. Member since 2010 and still no friends. I am intrigued. From what region are you, Walloon, Brussels, Flanders? Me Flanders, Antwerp.|||Thanks for sharing. Of course you are not Greek. You are Hot.  Where are you 'really' from, if you would like to share. Btw you give off a very 'T-ish' vibe. I don't know why. It is speculation...|||Man, you are going for the dream job! Hope the games design works out well for you! What (type of) games do u prefer? Me Call of duty (all of them incl zombie mode, Tekken (all of them) and...|||Come to Belgium, the land of CHOCOLATTE. I love spaghettis with big meat balls.|||Thanks, my man. I hope the thread takes off after a while. Yeah, Let's start a new Eastern Bloc and declare the cold war ;-). Good to see the Europeans emerge a little here on PerC.|||I LOVE WINEGUMS! And what's a knoedel brot ? :) Does it mean you are yummie ?|||Nice mate! Perhaps a love story in the air! Without any further details, what country is she from, if I may ask? I hope it takes off well!|||Hi there European resident,  Have you ever wanted to get to know a fellow European on PerC, and NOT by chance?  Have you ever wanted to talk about European/local topics (policy,...)?  Have you...|||True, but I would like to add: except if the flattery comes from the person that already has your intellectual respect ;).|||This is an interesting question. The danger of it is that if you use this info to seduce somebody, it is going to wear you down in the long run. You prefer to speak S, an INTJ N.   If you just want...|||Hey Ceres, what's with all the dominating ;)? Calling us minions??? You know an ENFP does not like to be dominated. Altough we like strong personalities.  Btw, INTJ's and ENFP's are usually so...|||War is not a durable equilibrium.  I think any issue can be resolved with diplomacy.   If all else fails, there's rock-paper-scissors.|||Here in Belgium it is legal. But not every doctor wants to do it. There is, beforehand, an ethical/medical committee that evaluates each case separately.  In extreme medical (biological)...|||I agree with you on this. This tat artist Kat von D has actually launched a concealer on the market to temporarily hide tats. Behind all the ESFP-yeah I am laid back, I've seen the world, we're all...|||An ENFP perspective:  I love both INFJ's and INTJ's in my life.  But with INTJ's I can be more myself. They understand Fi. The INFJ's I know are a bit obsessed with harmony. Anything I say that...|||My analytical INTJ brother, you seem to 'not see' the simple agreeableness in this picture :). I love INTJ's|||What exactly gets bigger when you click on it? ;)|||Why you endure? Just say you are busy sweetheart.|||The way you portray INTJ women turns me on ;) ! Where are my INTJ b*tcheeeeeez?|||You are being mislead by language. The verb 'to be' is not like 'to walk'. 'To be' does not indicate an action, even tough it has the form of a verb which usually implies an action. Being dead is not...|||Welcome|||Refrain from using terms like empiricism and rationalism loosely like that. These are technical terms with a specific meaning. And not paramount in this discussion.  For the fans: okay, originally,...|||This is actually you using your Te ;) Te spots and tries to eliminate contradictions'