'So.... stuck in a love triangle for the TL;DR. Good friend of mine and him are fighting over her. Wondering what to do.  Some back history:   Girl I met during my time with my Ex, we never really...|||wrong thread. Oops.|||That would be fine to write about. You should stress that these are red flags of a POSSIBLE problem and you need additional context as to why they are happening. Simply stating X = Y is ignoring alot...|||(Just a passing by INFJ wondering if he's a INTJ)  Just to add onto this, If you have some activity that you like to do, like reading, playing a certain board game, video games, card games etc....|||not that much of a minimalist. I would feel deeply saddened if my book collection turned into electronic form etc. While I adore technology and it's the focus of my degree - there is somebody about...|||No I fully expected this as well. was generally amused still. :P|||everyone can eventually feel cynical etc if they constantly get taken advantage of. I find anyone can turn into this, no matter what personality. Gullibility is not exactly a limited to a single...|||I agree J's would definitely be screwed if the plan falls apart.|||Either I'll be that Second in Command for the villain or I will be fighting with my group. Chances of survival... 40-50% I would think. Depends also on the types in the group. But, I would say I have...|||yes I know a variety of INFJ's, only one is in my inner circle. However even with any INFJ, there is a deeper unspoken connection I guess. Perhaps because we're in the same boat, doing the same...|||yeah I'll fully admit - I'm socially awkward and have poor small talk skills as well. If I have some basis for what they like/dislike or whatever, I can usually come up with random questions or...|||that could be it. Obviously since I am not there, my advice is not solid 100%. I can kindof gesture in a rough direction to go.|||you technically don't have him at the moment. Just to point that out. Yeah it's scary at first, but once you start asking - those butterflies will disappear. Not saying just go ask him out on a whim...|||Happiness:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_mTUMmJBXDw  Energetic:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rP2zA3lZk9Y|||Sounds good enough evidence to ask him then. Especially the first part.|||door slam, door slam, door slam.  From 15 seconds to 25 seconds. That's what I feel like life has been for the past couple of months. Something good happens... Door slam. I feel like I'm in a ever...|||someone once asked me a similar question and I responded with an answer very close to this.|||well you can always try to provide him advice in how to fix his relationship. In my personal opinion, INFJ's have a great tendency to know what to do, but they just aren't SURE if it's the correct...|||could always try to have your friends ask for you. Drop a line like So (your name) and ___ seem pretty close, anything developing there? I would pick a person who is naturally curious if able and...|||Junior in college - Technology Management. I enjoy heavily learning about how to manage/deal with people. I'm also getting minors in psychology, Business Administration and Robotics. Yeah, I got tons...|||was a virgin until 22. Then that girl came along we both fell for each other. no need to digress on what happened. :P If it happens, it happens. at the time, I heavily wanted to get laid - but I...|||I always thought he was a INTJ. *shrugs*|||sometimes... but nope. My solution: Have a signal for all my friends to use when they think a girl is obviously flirting with me.   Of course this doesn't work when I'm alone, but at least I know...|||I'm Ambidextrous.... but I typically write with my left if I have to choose.|||Yup same way here. Though I just keep plugging away endlessly in search of it.|||Yes I do develop crushes easily, though they usually go thru the grinding machine by the end of week (after I continue talking to the person) to determine if they are worth the leap in the long run....|||Natural: Somewhere there is small amount of traffic - but not a ton of people and remote. I'm not really that picky.   Mental: My head, whatever I can think up to suit my needs.|||A thing I would like to point out, something someone does naturally maybe good for a start, but someone who had to spend time learning over the long run will always supersede them. The problem that...|||Patton is one of my favorite all time dead guys. Also Rommel. I grew up where World War II was a big thing on the history channel and in my dad's books shelves, so I naturally fell in love with them...|||As others have said - Wolf. Threaten one of my own, I rip your face off. Hard to befriend, but once you do, you has a friend indeed.|||I would say relationship wise... if it happens, it happens. If it doesn't... that's ok too. Sometimes the best way is just to follow the current.|||Raised Christian. Hardcore Agnostic. That's right I'm a hardcore Fence Sitter.|||usually we either talk about it outright or silently thru body language till agreement is made. I haven't had many arguments where we weren't able to resolve it.|||Yup this is the same as I am with my INFJ best friend. Sometimes we don't even have to say anything and just communicate via body language.|||sometimes I can do this. Other times no. Depends upon the situation.|||Sun: Cancer (water)  Moon: Aries (Fire)   Ouch. this is a deadly combination. I feel sorry if someone had to face me with these powers.   Offensive: If I carry a battery with me, I can literally...|||interesting concept.... have you tried it out?|||Recent one - Nate, your a Quiet Lancer.|||my best friend and me often will sit there trying to read each other. Though I don't think it's more of an awkward silence thing. Just more of   Something is bugging you isn't it?   ****, We...|||Definitely not proud to admit it but yeah I can get jealous pretty easily. I guess I just go into defensive overdrive with my GF's, though usually it's not without valid reason. My Last GF left me...|||thanks, yours is pretty nifty too. including your siggie.|||woo avatar problem is fixed.|||Just remember, women who live together synchronize that time of their month. I've had friends who lived with their families who were all females and he just made himself scarce that week. :P|||It'll come back to bite your roommate in the ***. I wouldn't worry about it. Those situations always blow up.|||alright I guess I'll do that. Figured I ask first. Maybe I had overlooked something.|||hmm nope. I have my avatar set to show to everyone can see, and I've looked at every other possible setting. I have a high tech IQ hence why I'm asking. Cause I apparently can't figure it out. Does...|||I was the well liked nerd. I had friends everywhere. So at least I didn't get picked on often.|||I'll do it. What program we using? Skype?|||bittersweet. Not good nor bad.|||Rofl that's perfectly normal. Though a slight off topic question. I can see everyone's avatar but mine... is the forums suppose to be like that?'