Awww, I was in the exact same position a couple years ago so I know how hard it is! You WILL get back up on your feet but it might take awhile. It kills me not to have a long-term plan too. I agree...|||I scored a 70. Not sure why it was that high because I am fundamentally ambivalent about Machiavelli. Reading The Prince, it occurred to me that although Machiavelli is right about a lot of things,...|||To be honest I think you might be an ISFJ. Not because INFJs can't be good with details - although I do think an INFJ would only be concerned with details because they are important to understanding...|||I'm very aware of aesthetics but I can't really say I care much about my own appearance. It seems like a waste of time I could be spending doing something else. Maybe later in life I will see more...|||Double post.|||When I experience conflict with someone I will usually avoid it for awhile. Then eventually it will become too much and I will explode at the person. I actually think being stressed makes it more...|||I like a lot of European movies which are obscure in America but I'm not sure they're obscure by European standards. I love French New Wave but that stuff is pretty well known I suppose. My favorite...|||I agree that she could be an ESFP. I have been friends with unhealthy EFPs before and it can be difficult with either type. Their behavior tends to be self-destructive. Healthy EFPs are great though....|||I would love it if my accomplishments were widely known. I don't want to be famous for who I am as a person. I don't even like people learning too much about me. In an ideal world everyone would know...|||Awww I hope you feel better soon. Being depressed is really rough, I know that from personal experience. When I feel myself getting depressed I try to stay busy. It's harder for me to be depressed...|||Bridesmaids and When Harry Met Sally are my favorites. I also enjoy older movies like Bringing Up Baby.|||I have to say, that does sound more Fi. FJs are usually responsive to the emotions around them. I know I am - I can't see someone crying without wanting to comfort the person. That said, everyone is...|||So far I've dated INTJs but I'd also date an ENTJ. Basically NTJs are my type. I find the Te to be helpful, and as Ns they have creative minds. ENTPs are just too flighty and I could never truly...|||I have a master number. :) 22. I don't know much about numerology other than that though.|||I love ENFPs! They're fun to be around and have all kinds of interesting ideas. I suppose some of them can be flaky, but it's not a universal trait. I wouldn't date an ENFP though, they're not my...|||I'm fairly ambitious, actually, and I like winning. Not that there's anything wrong with being less ambitious. :) I think most of the traits you are describing are ones that Ennea 3s have. If you...|||I find all the Republicans to be 100% repugnant, except Kasich, and I still wouldn't vote for him. I suppose it's unsurprising that I feel this way given that I am a registered Democrat and thus not...|||I'm in my mind a LOT, like to the point where it distracts me from doing other things. If I have nothing else to do I can literally spend an hour or more lost in thought, just staring off into space....|||I love cookies! Although I do prefer cake, pie, and brownies. But I love pretty much all sweets. If you're worried about the junk that is in store-bought cookies (like palm oil), you can always make...|||I have known several ENTJs. Some of them were assholes to be honest but one of them I was good friends with in college. We got along very well for the most part, although he didn't always appreciate...|||For me touch is #3... quality time is #1 and words of affirmation are #2. Can't remember whether service or gifts was 4th or 5th but neither are how I prefer to express or receive love. That said, I...|||I'm sorry your ex-girlfriend doorslamed you so suddenly. It was immature of her not to give your more closure. That said, I would love to hear her side of the story.  I dated an INTJ for more than...|||I'd probably be on my phone instead of reading unless I was planning on staying at least a half hour. Sometimes I don't like to read in public because it feels like such a private activity. It really...|||The one INTP I've been close to did not make me feel clingy. My INTJ ex kinda did though, at least until I learned to back off a little. I don't think I am very clingy in friendships most of the time...|||I generally like INFPs. My mom's an INFP and we usually get along well. I've had a few friends who were INFPs too and I found it relatively easy to relate to them. I do get along even better with...|||I'd want to be an INTJ and the runner-up would be ENTJ. Also, any kind of FP would be fine. I'd rather be an INFJ though! As I'm sure would most of us.|||I'm a 4w3 and an INFJ. I think 4s who are INFJs tend to be more FPish. There's a reason most 4s are FPs, although there are certainly plenty of INFJ 4s. I think I am unusually self-absorbed for an...|||For me I mostly practice my Se by being aware of aesthetics. I love art and beautiful things in general. I also bake a lot so you could try that, or cooking. It's very much an Se experience. Sports...|||There's really no need to go on the defense. I thought I made it clear I wasn't and am not trying to attack you. It was obvious you were speaking from your limited experience - I was trying to expand...|||I want kids, two of them. I'm not ready yet though, not nearly, even though I'll be 30 in a year. So I think I'll be having kids late in life. I know there will be a lot of sacrifice involved but I...|||I don't know maybe I'm the only one but I don't feel this way. I think I'm generally pretty good at selling people on my ideas actually, I use my Fe. I'm also in my late 20s though, so I have more...|||I think I use all four of my cognitive functions, but especially Ni and Ti.    That's interesting. Personally as an INFJ I don't ever use Si. :)|||See, I do care that most of the Ennea descriptions are negative. I think it makes it difficult to use Ennea to improve yourself. Also, I think the descriptions of 4s are extra negative. How is anyone...|||INFJ here. I used to narrate my life from first-person POV as I was living it back when I was a kid all the time and I still do sometimes. I'm not sure it has much with type, I think it has more to...|||INFJ. Progressive Democrat. Very liberal when it comes to domestic policy and especially social issues, slightly less liberal when it comes to foreign policy.|||Do you know her Enneagram type? She sounds like a somewhat unhealthy 2. You might want to look into that. It could be more helpful than Myers-Briggs. I am very empathetic and I feel horrible for...|||I'm not sure I can upload a picture because my books aren't really in one place at this point but I have a ton of them! Partly because I have trouble getting rid of books and partly because I can't...|||I agree that the description of 4w3s are quite negative! I definitely think it is possible to be a healthy 4w3. Personally I feel that an evolved person of our type is not so wrapped up in themselves...|||I think INFJs that are bad in bed need to work on their Se. Also, it sounds like you don't have much chemistry with your girlfriend and that you two aren't sexually compatible, even if she's hot....|||Awww, you guys are cute! Obviously you are not an entirely unbiased source but it does seem like she likes you. My advice it to wait a little while but not too long before making a move. She just got...|||Sure! I should have in my first post. I believe that some of my emotions are irrational. For example, someone says something that's not intended to be hurtful but I take it that way. This happens...|||I can be explosive in arguments. I wouldn't say I have a ton of them though, and most are with family members. I do get passionate about things so sometimes I rant, usually about political stuff. I...|||I believe that emotions are not always irrational, but they can be, and there's nothing wrong with that. However, we privilege the rational over the irrational in our society so generally when people...|||I'm an INFJ 4w3 sx/sp too... so yeah, we exist. I'm sure there are more 4w5 INFJs though. I actually think 4s are more likely to be FPs than FJs in general. Being a 4 and using Fe can be odd at times.|||Honestly, I think you should see a therapist. It seems like you could use someone to talk to. Don't settle for the first therapist you see; find a good one that can really help you. Also, I know this...|||Yeah, I definitely look at Amazon reviews pretty closely before I buy something. This is especially true of kitchen stuff (I bake a lot). With books it is less helpful as everyone's taste is...|||First of all, I do have a lot of sympathy for your situation. You shouldn't be with this guy though. A big part of your problem is you think you can't do any better when in fact I'm sure you can....|||I don't think there are many things that would make me turn to a life of crime. I think if a person wronged me or killed someone I care about and the authorities didn't address it I might take...|||It would actually be great to have someone to chat with in French! That would definitely help in a way Duolingo cannot. You may be more advanced than me though. But if you really do want to let me...|||Personally I really like INTPs! One my oldest friends is an INTP and we get along really well. I like the combination of Ti and Ne; the only thing that bugs me is Si. That's my least favorite...