'I probably do resent him for making me feel so vulnerable. That's probably exactly what's going on....  But I have no idea whether or not I'm lying to myself about not having feelings for him. :/|||hahah I have no idea XD XD|||Okay. So, I met this really amazing, unique guy last month. He's adventurous, not afraid to break the rules, VERY open, artistic, and free spirited.   For the longest time, I wanted him to notice...|||Well, I don't go to a well known or even academically good college, quite frankly (money reasons..). But I've made peace with my situation.   In high school, middle school, and even elementary, I...|||I like your advice it's just that... despite the fact that I like him as a person, I'm not sure if I even want to be friends with him either. I mean, someone who says Don't disappoint me again....|||I only like this guy in a friend way, I definitely do not want to be romantically involved. ;_; I feel like if I keep seeing him, I'll get trapped into doing something that I don't want to do...|||No, I haven't seen him since Friday. I really hate confrontations more than anything, which is why I thought it would be easier to ignore him! :D Hahah..... but I think I'll tell him straight. *sigh*...|||HAHAH I totally get what you mean about making huge cognitive leaps. I feel like this guy is definitely a narcisstic/dominant or whatever, but there's something in the back of my mind that's like.....|||Thank you... I promised myself I would never get into that type of relationship and look what almost happened to me?? I feel slightly horrible...|||That's right!! I haven't even considered that he isn't considerate about me. :/ The question is... how the hell do I get rid of him?|||I agree with you! I didn't go to the party, by the way. I was at a car wash for 10 hours and I was honestly tired. So I called him after, and he was like, Don't disappoint me again. In a serious...|||Okay... this is a really petty problem compared to my other problems but I need someone to talk to. I NEED INPUT.   So, the other day this guy from one of my classes randomly starts talking to me....|||I can completely relate! It's always the people who are so open with me that I feel comfortable around. Or the people who are shy. XD It's so strange because a lot of people are inbetween those two...|||Haha - no one is trying to sell you anything. Check the video I posted on this thread - there's your context. I wasn't very clear in my question.|||But, I'm not talking about Freud's definition of ego.  This is the video that drove me to ask this question:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j15ypXq3Qy0  Based on this, Watts seems to be...|||Hmm... I like the idea that our personalities/egos are important - that they are essential components of what it means to be human - but an egoless state is also important. I don't agree that it is...|||LMAO this is hilarious! How have I not heard of this guy before???|||I mean, I always get upset when my life isn't like others'... it's so stupid! I feel like I'm always getting the short end of the stick. I always feel like I'm being pressured by society too. =.=...|||Strange question to ask on personalitycafe huh? :P  I was thinking about this question the other day when I was listening to an Alan Watts' video. He defined personality as an illusion that the ego...|||I ain't assertive ... haha HELL NO. But as I become older I find myself in situations where I have to be. And it's so DRAINING.|||Be aggressive...passive aggressive|||Thank you. Those gloating INTPs should read this.|||.|||Meh, if I felt like it I could answer all of those ... but it's midnight here and I really don't want to waste any more time on the internet...not that I won't be lurking around on this site for at...|||Okay, so I guess it's my turn.  Hmm... basically anything except for dubstep, jazz, classical music, and metal. I feel bad when I say I don't really like jazz... it's a truly beautiful genre of...|||;_; YAY, one of the few people who actually likes country... you're awesome! No one I know has the patience to listen to it :(|||I've always thought HSPs included people who were both sensitive to physical/sensory things and emotional things. I'm more on the emotional scale... and I'm pretty sure the test is intended to...|||Really? I didn't know it wasn't type related... I'm positive I am an HSP, but I have no idea what MBTI type I am. I was debating between INFP, INFJ, and ISFP earlier... =_= I can never figure it out.|||HA. DEFINITELY NOT.  For instance, I never told anyone about how I felt when my first broke up with me. I pretended like everything was fine.. and broke down one night.. And I made sure my folks...|||- My eyes - How I have gained SO MUCH confidence with my singing - my taste in music/ fashion (although I never have money to buy clothes...thankfully music is free ;D) - my ability to do well...|||I also get the WTF are you doing? and occasionally the Why are you loning it by yourself? Join us!   In addition to those I get: Stop saying 'I don't know' all of the time. Why can't you...|||Oh and Dubstep|||1. people who ask me why I don't say anything (that's not a problem as it was before.. but it's like wtf? I'm not saying anything because I either don't know you well or I don't have anything to...|||That's cool... I don't really know anything on the other personality types .. so this was helpful :D|||When I'm on top of my game.. I'm usually a D. But this week has been a total F. :sarcastic-thumbs-up:|||This has nothing to do with your post...but I noticed you're a fan of Hana Yori Dango. XD That takes me back...|||I don't even like Rush though..|||some song by Rush called Closer to the Heart... good old fashioned music streaming on my itunes from a station called RipRock Radio. haha ;D|||... I wrote a whole paragraph but then I deleted it. I don't really know how to explain this.   I mean this thought occurred to me.... that people are people and that they aren't perfect. And...|||Yep. The last paragraph of Anon's post. Definitely.|||I bolded the parts I can relate to. ;D|||oh god yes! When I get reprimanded by strangers I am pro at pulling out my stoic face.|||The guy I like said bye to me. But then I almost got into an accident on the way home. =_= fml|||i got silence on my radio.. let the airwaves flow..let the airwaves flow..|||Yeah... so I almost got into an accident today. Yep. I thought I was a great and confident driver but no of course something just had to go wrong. Everyone else I know (except for my mom) is a super...|||oh yes, I can relate strongly with that complaint =_= There was this super confident guy at my school who acted like this really nice polite guy, but he looked down on everyone who wasn't his friend...|||I loved his Not Cowed with Fear post.|||Damn, that sure is a long video. I've never seen that much snow in my life...|||yeah, I'm still not sure if I'm an ISFP... although I'm pretty sure I am. Here's my video. I tried to make it creative (sort of), and I don't talk in it...because I feel uncomfortable blogging to...|||I'll stop spamming, but here's my lastfm :) M_Mochi'