'How do you handle break ups?|||No I got him to tell me. I get it. Just wanted to hear it is all.|||What if he jumps into a relationship but still has feelings for you? And doesn't know how to tell you to back off?|||How quick are you to jump from relationship to relationship? Do you think it's an INTP thing?|||Curious though, even though we sit here and read things about these personality types and well INTP men won't make the first move normally and ENFP girls are very forward, it makes me really...|||I really just like buying all the heart shaped shit. I mean, I'll do it when I'm not in a relationship. Mostly, on Valentine's Day i just like to be happy. Because why not? Everyone is either bitter...|||I like holidays. Including these kind. Mostly because I like watching people make a big deal out of it. Or don't. I do always feel obligated to have some sort of plans.. never do. Oh well. Also...|||What's everyone's perspective on Valentine's day?|||So my brother is a very emotional ENFP. When he gets angry he loses it. I mean he's 17.   What do I need to do when he's this angry? How do I calm him down? How do I communicate with him to get him...|||what? i don't understand anything.|||what, @Eudaimonia?|||So normally by this time I'm freaking out and analyzing. Nope. No more. Hooray. Fuck him. Feels good to be back.|||i'm going to go and see how long i can just get off of this. i did it before and was totally over it. though, a lot of those questions were just about intps. only the last one wasn't. either way, i'm...|||Is there a way i can tell her to buzz off without causing huge problems? she'll be unprofessional about all of this. before, she said the drama was in the office, which is was because he's still in...|||Yeah. I've been making a list.|||yes. i am. but i need to keep a healthy relationship with both people as we work in a small city and will work together for the rest of our careers. and yes, i think she's stepping over the line. my...|||Effy, yes. Why it seems intps are hot and cold. Also, drama, making something a bigger deal than necessary.   If intps are not sure on a situation, will they ignore confrontation? When is a need to...|||In the case that she brings this up, how would I approach this and make sure she's not upset? How do I get her to know the real me and trust me? She is my boss. I respect her but she doesn't know me...|||thank you both.   i can see how she would protective of him. she thinks i'm full of drama, she thinks i'm promiscuous. she's wrong in both situations. she thinks she knows me. she doesn't at all. ...|||How often do you take someone else's opinion on someone you're dating seriously? And how do you handle drama?|||i just may. but honestly, what reason would there be? idk. as an enfp, i don't think of them as one to cause drama. in fact, both of my enfp friends don't cause drama. i don't know exactly how to...|||i don't know if they're cheating or not. it was a thought. they're oddly close. i think she's an ENFP. i'm almost positive. she does tell everyone about her and her fiance's business. and she tells...|||Hi enfps. I have a boss who is an enfp. She is constantly getting involved with a relationship that I had with her intp friend. She has told him to stay away from me and not talk to me, she has told...|||Okay, personal question. WTF is wrong with confronting people? seriously? i just had my fucking goddamn boss message me from this douchebags phone. as in respond to my what's up message because i was...|||If you found exactly what you were looking for in a mate, what would stop you from pursuing him or her?|||Say you have a one night stand. Would you be interested in seeing them again? If they interested me enough for me to go home with them, I would definitely be interested in getting to know more of...|||Observation: enfj, I don't care.|||How do you let someone know you're still interested but don't want everyone to know?|||I'd ignore your annoyance and still tell you.|||Question, INTPs. For what reason would you participate in small talk with someone who you apparently have no feelings for?|||Iamtp how did you both know it wouldn't work? And why didn't you try to go around the circumstances? did you talk about it before mutually I guess giving up?|||Oh, relationship in the work place? How many of you believe in that? Because I tots don't.|||When ending a relationship, how do you handle it if you see the person again? If you still have feelings but know nothing will happen for a while or ever, how do you handle the situation?  I should...|||companionship-y-thing sounds nice. like someone you could sit on the couch next to while both reading a book and simply interrupt with OMG LISTEN TO HOW AWESOME THIS SOUNDS and share your research...|||Well then...|||What would define a deal breaker for you? What do you need or want in a relationship? I really expected more answers. Whatevs.|||If you could change anything about your relationships what would it be? to make it perfect|||No. Another INTP.|||has any intp here dated another intp? how was it and what did you like or dislike about it?|||Well if you spend more time with him you'll know he at least enjoys your company. He won't put time into something that he doesn't think is worth it.|||She could always wait too. It depends on how long you've known him for and what he has going on. I find INTPs really prioritize and compartmentalize their lives. Women included.|||See, Iamtp, if he's not interested, what difference would it make if she stopped talking to him for a while? I mean, besides curing curiosity, it doesn't change how he sees or thinks of her, will it?|||Sucky.|||Guys and girls can't be friends. Someone always likes the other. And if the other is working to get closer, well then you have yourself a new relationship. I will now be backing away from my INFJ...|||wait, why are these romantic feelings so difficult to identify or deal with? I mean, I have the problem of answering the question Why do I feel this way towards this person. before giving myself to...|||Thank you  Seeker.  Iamtp thanks for the offer. But I'm moving on from this conversation and situation. It's too much time wasted and I have more important things to do than sit around thinking about...|||Truth doesn't hurt. You were just being an ass  passmethecookies. I agree with you. He's a douche for wanting to use me. But get a grip? Even you could understand the issues I'm having with this. I'm...|||And this is where you need to work on sensitivity.|||excuse the last post. i'm so fucking confused with this it's not even possible to logic myself out of this. i'm hungry and tired and disinterested. fucking emotions. i don't know why i try to think...|||Yeah I'm not moving. I'm actually pretty done with the confusion. I'm looking forward to telling the words we need to talk when he contacts me (considering the pattern, he will) and going off on...'