'If I ever feel the urge to vent, I often feel like I need to phrase my thoughts in the appropriate way depending on the person or only tell certain problems to certain people.  When you vent to...|||You are stronger than you think you are. I know that sounds incredibly cliche, but it sounds like the environment you are currently living in fuels a lot of stress that is causing you to feel like...|||I feel like this pretty often. But, it generally comes in phases relating to how much stress/anxiety I've been feeling. Including just stretching myself too thin by spending too much time interacting...|||yes, most definitely, all of this. Of course, only if she chooses to pursue this. Which, I hope she would...just in case it could happen to anyone else in the future.|||She really needs to file a complaint with corporate. Either by calling the hotline, or sending a letter. The important part is to be assertive and clear. Perhaps you could formulate a draft for her?...|||I didn't finish reading the rest of this thread.. so I could be missing other insight...but what you're describing to me is exactly what I went through during my college years. It didn't make me...|||I always feel like I'm open to making new friends. Talking to different types of people is really the best way to explore other ways of living and to gain inspiration for your own life. When I was...|||I don't think the OP meant that being an INFP was weird, maybe that she so happens to be surrounded by people who are different than her and she is glad to know she isn't alone! Though i do agree...|||I'm actually confused by this. So..she's out in public, alone, ordering food...and then she takes her plate and hides? And then returns with an empty plate? lol..what is this hiding? How is she...|||So I don't think there's anything wrong with having some cognitive dissonance. I think it is important to be reasonable and set boundaries. It's healthy to use both compassion and logic to figure out...|||I'm going to just put out there how I think to see if it relates to the theory. First of all, of course, it depends on what the other people's values are and who the people are. If the value has...|||I'm not sure how helpful highlighting the enneagram descriptions is,  because a lot of the things in the descriptions you can apply to different enneagram types. What you need to focus on is core...|||What's pretty clear about the thinking preference?|||I don't think 4 because I don't sense much pride in being different. I sense a lot of frustration. 4 could be in your tritype, but I wouldn't think about tritype right now because it makes things...|||Typewatch Enneagram|||yeah sorry, I just copied your questionnaire and color coded things that stood out to me. Green is mostly Fe things. Purple is enneagram 6. I don't really see 5 and 4 too much. Definitely not 4,...|||I think your questionnaire reminds me of somewhat of myself when I was younger.  As an INFJ enneagram 6, I usually test as an INTJ. I find the feeling questions on the tests stupid and pride myself...|||I did not see the thread where the INTJs were mean to you, but the fact that you thought comments were mean and unnecessary shows Fe. Fe is about the WAY you communicate with others. You're awkward...|||Basically, whenever you talk of trust, security, and anxiety, I think enneagram 6. Enneagram 6 is a strong head type and the most anxious of the types. They can be suspicious and not trusting, but...|||This might sound rude. I intentionally just spoke as directly as I could because the last time I did otherwise people couldn't really get to my thoughts. Anyways I filled this questionnaire out. I...|||To me, not much in your questionnaire seems particularly thinkery. I see a lot of enneagram 6 though.|||Aw but last question presents the greatest moral dilemma!  If the snake is a biting snake, I choose toad. If the snake has it's teeth removed, I choose snake.|||http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lzvhuaFkHI1r3zat8.gif  Congrats! Secret uncovered! But now everyone knows about the site and I feel like a dirty cheater using it. ...OH WELL.|||Ah, I always liked Epona's song. But I think that's influenced by the happy feeling I got from the ranch with horses running around.  My favorite game is actually Ocarina of Time. It was the first...|||Ace Face Would you ever be maced in the face for 20 dollars?  Which would you choose: Macing some unwilling participant in the face and earning 20 dollars, or macing yourself in the face and losing...|||http://i149.photobucket.com/albums/s68/mantis217/shaun%20of%20the%20dead/66f7423e.gif  Whoops, that must have been how he became broken.|||http://i81.photobucket.com/albums/j221/faevailovecali/Chaoskid2010%20Tumblr%20Junk/GTFO_DeathStare.gif  http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQnGptw5uPNNA8uj4-Oa3fFs1vbrgLNmptHmzV4WmLo2XbddBKTrA|||You =  http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSOhkSW5aTFX9pgsylUeTQQAtkKv_zsXczoG2Bf2JqcaJ_DoWz4  Professor Plum|||http://assets.scumbagsteve.com/hashed_silo_content/813/640/69d/resized/wanna-fight-me-bro-just-let-me-grab-my-gun-582316.jpg|||http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Y_ODcECzxGQ/T4sMKffGa8I/AAAAAAAAA88/LnQ8Dvynqbg/s1600/michael-scott-no.gif  Well shit.|||See, right here I needed an image that conveys the feeling/idea of: Oh sure, just downplay the fact that you have a STASH which demonstrates your experience and knowledge of the greatest most...|||GIFs though, that's an advanced technique. That's how you know Miss Scarlet is a pro.|||So, I've always wondered how people of the internets have a gif or image comeback to everything, no matter how obscure. How is this done?? Do you guys just have a stash of gifs/images organized into...|||Okay image.  So I enjoy helping people for multiple reasons 1) Sometimes I just like to feel special 2) Problem solving is fun and interesting 3) I see great potential, think the person is awesome,...|||1w9 vs 1w2 So the way my morality works is that I will examine practical situations. I think they usually involve social situations and whether actions are right and wrong. It can be a struggle to...|||PlushWitch Rim zallla Julia Bell Okay, I am writing so much that I am going to do 3 separate posts so 1 doesn't seem so overwhelming haha.    Hm not sure what you mean by internal disruption of...|||PlushWitch if you're around can I ask you for your help figuring out my wing and tritype?|||What sorts of things do you wish you cared about?|||Right, that's what I thought.  Julia Bell or anyone  Do you know any other 6w7's on this site or 6w5's. Perhaps they can help me distinguish..|||Inconsistency in my own behavior causes me to troubleshoot and feel anxiety. Inconsistency in others can be irritating depending on the person and how it affects me.  I'm fairly certain I'm a 6....|||I'm assuming you meant can't carry the same standard/principled ways? Nah I usually don't feel resentment. I'm more concerned about how I live my life and less concerned about how others live their...|||Julia Bell funcoolname  Alright, I'm going to be lame and do spoiler tags, just because if someone else decides to comment I don't want to sway their opinion hah.  I am fairly certain I am a 6. I...|||Hey hey hey. So I'm 99% sure of my core type, but not at all sure about the wing. I'm also not sure about my tritype. Stackings? No clue. I'd like to progress more with this Enneagram thing, so I'd...|||In addition to what Kyrielle said about the importance of not feeling guilty, I do think every now and then you should just force yourself to accept an invitation. I am also very picky and there are...|||How did you come off as a jerk?|||I was trying to explain my thought process when it came to morality but there were so many ifs and buts and complexity that I confused myself so I'm going to have to think about it and come back...|||haha, ah okay. Yeah, I had some trouble with typing socially unacceptable as well. Okay, how about this.. I've seen some people explain Fi as subjective morality and Fe as objective morality,...|||Hm, okay. So what does it feel like to have the external harmony vs internal harmony disrupted? Are you saying a Fe user would feel, this is just not something that is socially acceptable to be...|||Yeah I am 99% sure I'm an INFJ, but still struggle differentiating between Fi and Fe, so I like reading threads like this. Reading it theoretically, it all makes sense. I'm like, oh yeah I'm totally...|||Haha, thanks. See, I feel confused by this because I do both. I have basic values that are Fe, I think, but when there are dilemmas or something is tricky, I do the Fi thing. Or perhaps it's a...'