'I am fooled by them all the time.   They have an uncanny ability to hide all feeling to the point of conveying the opposite of what they feel...and i find this extremely offputting.|||To answer the question:  No....IMO.|||Good plan, Susanna.  I know exactly how you feel.   i pick up everything...like a fly strip.   and just a yukky.   I just want to be simple and sane and in the company of someone who is also simple...|||I'm definately TOO intense.   People feel me 15 miles away.   It's not fun knowing I'm sticking out like a neon sign while all the while trying to be invisible.  My emotions are so intense I have to...|||Hi Maddsmar,  Thanks for the response.  It's so nice to get a response.  Most of the world does not respond, is irresponsive, ir-respons-able.   I would focus on my strengths if i could locate...|||Lost in space as mentioned unless someone ropes my heart (not hard) by their simply connecting in an authentic way. Trite, fake, pushy.....are easily detectable and instant turn offs. Authentic, no...|||This sounds EXACTLY like the person who I have been attracted to ....who is constantly leading me to a certain point then WHAM>.....GONE.|||...............................................still thinking.............|||Not rude at all....realistic.   I appreciate the feedback and help.   I'll have to rid myself of the habit of falling for people who are not interested at all.  My wiring is not in...|||Hi Red Riding Hood,  I think it's totally INFJ to be a 'devout Catholic girl'.   We are all 'devout' in our inner search and your is as valid as the rest. In fact, you're not getting caught in the...|||I also get dizzy...but I think, for me, it always seems to coincide with having too much salt or too little blood sugar.|||Mind Marauder is right on. It's being extremely sensitive to vibes on a feeling level.....not really a power so much as a curse in most cases. We (humans) are far more transparent then we care to...|||From what I've perceived, ISFP's are very pragmatic and sensible and in the moment.  They are not into inner implications or scenarios, just really present to what is actual.  A quality I...|||I can tell you that he is hurt. I would do that only because something wounded me (we INFJ's get deeply wounded over what might seem inconsequential to another type sometimes).  In fact, it's so...|||Blamed for being the very opposite of what we are...because our facial expressions are so quietly plain...mistaken for aloof or even more ironic 'cold'....hahah...what a joke!!!|||Not always my favorite music but it is definately by and INFJ......me. Music page of reckless gents - MP3 music page on SoundClick  Songs about being a hypersensitivefoolishdoomed lover.  I...|||Hi reu,  Someone to connect to....bingo.    It's not as easy as I'd wish.  I go on crying binges from loneliness...it wreaks havoc in my self absorbed soul. Thank you for making me feel less...|||Yes. Both you and dizzygirl are right. I'm content to play it slow as long as it has forward movement. She is dead set, it seems, against hanging out in any way with me. I don't want romance..i'll...|||YES.   Your words I highlighted in blue hit the nail dead on.   Only there's also the fact of being in a tired stale relationship and also, being excluded from others because of it...along with the...|||The BFD about being normal is that I wouldn't be CRUSHED by feelings, incapacitated, paralyzed....from feeling rejected or snubbed....(common occurance).   normal folk are thicker and bounce back....|||I think I suffer hellishly because I am so narcissistic.   I am self absorbed always feeling others and how they react to me...always worried I'm disliked or under appreciated.   Makes me puke.   I...|||It's your purse....it doesn't match those shoes....:crazy: Just kidding...i can't for the life of me give an intelligent answer as to why a male with at least half a brain and one eye would not lie...|||I'm wondering if there's any token, gift, gesture that 'works' for an ISFP woman.  Probably stupid question as we're all a bit different in the details but i'm wondering if there's a nice...|||YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!    fuckin saps that we are!:laughing:  I mean it is beautiful but damn, my hearts desires are rarely met...and i'm soooooooo self centered because i'm soooooooo damn introverted...|||I thank you, sincerely, for your prayers.   I seem to have lost faith also but God is good and will not let my stupidity ruin the big party...i hope.  :dry:|||Hello and thanks for writing your honest feelings here.   No need to BS as time is short in this place.  You resent the implication?  Are you that invested in the type to actually feel resentment?...|||Hello and thank you for your insight.   I think you are missing the essence of my angst or i have not expressed it clearly.  I don't like being INFJ because I am miserable.  I am miserable because I...|||ster,  I'll get the response to you as soon as i have my 15.  gracias!  w|||That's just what I mean...you say you wish more ppl would just understand you...i say THAT is the problem....why can't i just not give a blither what they think and go on enjoying life. WAY TOO...|||What I'm saying is that I don't think these finer sensitive qualities are actually good.  They are out of balance and far too self indulgent IMO....i want to let go of myself and what I feel and just...|||yes, I try to adapt....it's one step up three back.   I'm a social invalid.  I hate it.  i want to not give a hoot about what people feel or say.  I want to feel EVERYTHING ALL THE TIME.  Thank...|||Not sure i agree that it's the 'me-est' part of 'me' but i guess i do hate myself most of the time as i see myself imprisoned in this personality that overwhelms and limits me TREMENDOUSLY.  Why...|||Hello,  I'm sorry that this will be a most unpopular thread but i have to say it.    I hate being and INFJ....I hate it. I am most definately one and am sick and tired of being so damn useless,...|||I'm afraid my intense awkwardness has ruined the whole thing.  SHe is most definately not interested.  :bored:  Thanks for all the insights anyway.|||ster,  Make friends first is great advice.  I'm trying.   I'm afraid I scare the #$%& out of her though.  She gives the impression that she's interested then WHAM...brushes me off like bird...|||Is this a recipe for doom or zoom?:shocked:|||Chelleblu, Thanks for the response.  'Concrete' is good to know.  Straightforward is what i was sensing was scaring person away but it's more likely my apprehension coming through. Haha...I've no...|||Greetings,  This is to ISFP women. :happy: I see you are VERY reserved with feelings (that's cool).  I see you are VERY big on freedom and not being imposed on (that's cool). I see you are VERY...'