@54-46ThatsMyNumber true! i'm going to stop thinking about it! i'll just wait and see how this unfolds... the coincidences are unreal. there just hasnt been an actual situation where i was able to...|||so believe it or not, bumped into him again! this time, i went to preclin to finish my project, and he walked in from the same exact entrance to do a workshop 5 minutes later. i just went in on my...|||oh gosh!!! guys i bumped into him again today!!!!! this time we made eye contact for maybe a second or so, and then he just moved to the side and turned around...hmmm maybe he is noticing and is just...|||so i'm a first year dental student, and have been seeing this third year dental student everywhere. it feels like i always bump into him. it's to the point where it feels bizarre!  i don't have a set...|||Thank you! I really appreciate all the encouragement. I'll try to keep this thread updated! :)|||He has, but it was another funny video...and not much else. I think I'm about to leave this situation as is, and if it goes somewhere, cool, but if it doesn't, whatever. Can't waste too much more...|||Nyte Beanytoes INForJoking. guys, i think this guy is an INTP. any advice?!|||@Nyte Wow!!!!!! The Ni-Ti loop is something that is SO me. I've read a bit about it, and feel like maybe I will be able to catch myself more! Thanks so much for pointing that out to me!   All of...|||so, a while back i posted this thread http://personalitycafe.com/infj-forum-protectors/747993-why-isnt-he-answering-back-am-i-overthinking.html  since then, we had several conversations, etc, and...|||haha, you made me laugh; i completely agree with you! i was just giving him the benefit of the doubt. but i won't text him now, he either wants to talk or he doesn't. his loss if he doesn't. :)|||Thank you so much for your response! I think I'm going to give it a few more days to see if he messages me and then confront him. He posted something up on snapchat about how he had a bad day...|||okay update! so we've been talking on and off for a few weeks i guess; sometimes more than others. it's been pretty good, i guess. we have yet to meet up, bc whenever he's busy, i'm not and vice...|||Aizar Istdet thank you for responses. they help keep me level headed and that's exactly why i posted here because i know you guys know how to do that! i got a little impatient. but he actually...|||so i met this guy recently on a dating website (something totally out of my comfort zone), and it took me a while to actually talk to him, but we eventually started to talk. he even texted me first...|||I am fortunate enough to have so many loving and supportive people around me (both friends and family!)  I was referring to romantic relationships because sometimes I get a little impatient and wish...|||This is exactly what I want. You put it into words so perfectly!! I agree with you both!!! hopebeat & AstralSoldier  I was just saying that I hope it exists out there because it scares me when I...|||babies. children. elderly people. family.   adventures. nature. autumn. flowers. rain.   rollercoasters. thrills.  art. painting. interior decorating. photography.   true love. love stories....|||If it doesn't line up to my expectations, is it really the real thing?   I don't have many expectations; just to be genuinely loved and to be happy. I don't want to be in a relationship where I'm...|||I've come to the realization that, even though I think I am lovable, it is hard for me to imagine someone ever loving me the way I want to be loved. I don't know why I am thinking like this, but it's...|||my summer relaxed look...|||@Pseudonymity and @Chris Merola  Wow!!! Thank you for your insight!! You guys are seriously like family, and every time I even slightly miss him, I will come back and read this because I am sure...|||Ahh! I thought I was the only one! This drives me nuts!|||Wow!!! Thank you so much for your great words!!! They give me so much hope. You sound like a great guy, and I hope you find your princess one day. Perhaps, I will find my prince too. :)   I know...|||@TwinSoul  Oh my! Did we become friends with and date the same guy?! I know this sounds terrible, but it makes me feel a little less crazy knowing that someone else is going through/has gone...|||got a haircut! needed a change so i decided to try bangs....277569|||It was him mostly dependent on me, so I will be keeping away. He doesn't deserve me.|||@TwinSoul  EEEK!!! I'm sorry this is sooo long! I guess I kept writing without realizing how long it got!   Absolutely. I don't think you should let him back into your life. You remind me of...|||TwinSoul Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Your relationship with your friend is very very similar to mine. He made me go against my own core values. I felt ashamed of myself.  I...|||you'd be happy to know that i did exactly that.|||thank you so much for your insight!!! i cannot tell you how much i appreciate it! not surprisingly, almost all the things listed for emotional abuse and cycles of abuse echo with this situation. but...|||thank you! you are far too kind! <3|||It's been an exhausting few weeks.|||yes, of course i do! & yes it does, even though i did talk to my mom, but she doesn't know everything. otherwise i'm pretty sure she'd find him and give him a lesson he'd never forget. but i also...|||johnson.han.3 thank you for your kind words! i usually don't put up with people like that either; this guy has been a special case and one that i have struggled with; but i have finally ended it and...|||Hi! I've taken the test several times and I always get INFJ, but I'm borderline on the sensing vs intuitive. I've debated this before, and after reading many many descriptions of the types, I feel I...|||Wow!! I have to admit I'm a bit overwhelmed with all the support and responses I've received. Thank you all so much!!!!   @alharaca  I don't think I will ever add him again now. I've given him...|||hi guys!  it's been a while since i posted, but i put myself in a situation i previously promised myself i would not let myself get into. and now i need some help, or just another perspective, i...|||Thank goodness I'm not alone. I've gotten friends tell me that people were interested in me; but thought i was intimidating and unapproachable! I don't think I'm intimidating or unapproachable at...|||Do a lot of you guys get people telling you that you were initially a little unapproachable, like before you guys became friends?|||deleted post|||Had a party to go to today.|||spent my valentine's day working. hope you guys had a lovely day.  93486|||met my childhood best friend today :)|||Does anyone else have a ridiculously hard time saying sorry when you know it's not your fault? I don't know why I would always say sorry for the slightest things when I was dating my ex, but for...|||yes i did!|||well hopefully this will be the last time i will be venting about my ex-boyfriend. even after explicitly telling him I did not want to talk to him ever again, he texted me again a few days later with...|||yay leather jackets!|||It seems like we are dealing with similar monsters. Just let go completely and be at peace with yourself. That's exactly what I did. Hope everything gets better. This person does not deserve you and...|||I can't express how thankful I am for you guys. That's exactly what I am going to do. I will just say no next time no matter how hard it is sometimes. This person actually tried talking to me again...|||IM SO ANGRYYYYYY! about the issue i posted above. but i can't get over it.. i feel usedddd.