'I feel that I could be better about empathizing with others.  And I thought I would try to....but I think I'm at doorslam stage.  Or I will be if I let myself care anymore.  So caring less, and doing...|||Yes I have.  And apparently they have.  And yet they walk into an emotional disaster with arms wide open.|||That's what I'm doing.  I'm just venting frustration.|||I fundamentally disagree.  I think venting feelings anonymously versus destroying any good relationship I have with them is much better moral option.  And just because their behavior is stupid does...|||I agree with the shoulds.  I've just gotten worn down with being patient with someone to figure out their ambivalence.|||But solid relationships are built on some sort of rationality or they don't thrive.  And when you base it on mutual dependence it's kind of a problem.  People really need to step back sometimes and...|||Sometimes they think I'm a snob -- I've totally gotten that.  Sometimes they mimic me, act uber jealous, or talk over me so that I can't be heard (I know that was about inferiority).  I don't really...|||Those aren't the people I judge so much.  It's often people who are much more capable, who get into stupid relationships.  And act complete flabbergasted that the relationship is so irrational, but...|||I don't think I'm special necessarily, but I really work on trying to be an ideal in my life.  I feel like this causes people to feel inferior to me even though I do not believe they are.  Sometimes...|||And the other problem I have is just thinking that the best strategy is to keep it to myself, but it's repressive at times.... :(  I also actually think I know the reasons for it sometimes, like I...|||I wasn't really suggesting that I could see the future.  (I don't believe that that is possible.)  I do however think INFJ intuition MAY be able to recognize patterns so thoroughly as to be somewhat...|||David Bowie is not a pedo.  Jareth is a fictional/fantasy character not from our world, and not bound by our ethics.  Also, 15 was not an unusual age for a girl to be married even as recently as...|||So I have been trying to understand INFJ judgment.  I feel that this happens to me in certain difficult situations (i.e., I'm reading things into people's behaviors much against my own will).  There...|||It kind of amazes me how dark Jim Henson's movies tend to be.  He's not really just the all-sunshines-and-roses hippie you'd think...but perhaps most hippies aren't that either. :)|||I would advocate that this song is about seducing her.  I think it really seems particularly sexual in nature.....|||As The World Falls Down  There's such a sad love Deep in your eyes. A kind of pale jewel Open and closed Within your eyes. I'll place the sky Within your eyes.|||I recently got into Labyrinth again after having been away from it for awhile.  After seeing it again, I was surprised by a lyric that said As the pain sweeps through, makes no sense for you, every...|||So....I've been kind of having an issue.  I like a guy who is in a relationship, but I became emotionally attached before that relationship started.  The thing is he kind of seems ambivalent about...|||I feel like much of this kind of thing is intuitive, I would tell you to aim more for feelings than for strategy without specific instances.  Every relationship is an opportunity for trial and error...|||I think what I was suggesting was somewhat different than what you were saying.  Of course, I realize when I say the word seduce alarm bells go off, but there really is no better word for it.  I am...|||I'm guessing at the context here, but you could try Wanna help me do ________?  And then wait for them to finish their answer.  They might just be thinking out loud, and haven't gotten to the part...|||Well there are things in here that remind me of myself.  So just going on what I would do:   - I say flirty things like nicknames just to be fun and appealing, but people that I have had close,...|||Someone once told me that the kind of company I crave is that which stretches me personally.  So hence, I find myself frequently lonely because I feel like I can't relate to the people I'm around. ...|||I feel that I have the best luck finding groups of people working on projects to hang out with kind of useful.  I would avoid becoming too versed in any ideological-based group, but you could...|||Yep.  Until I learned about my personality type, I was very worried about this.  Growing up in a highly enforced social culture, my reluctance to socialize greatly distressed the Asian side of my...|||Flag I think is drier than Phoenix.  Partially the heat allows Phoenix to retain some humidity and I suspect that the number of swimming pools in the valley contribute.  But when it precipitates, the...|||Ya...Arizona has some issues, let me tell ya.  The heat doesn't help either...at least in Phoenix.  But I dislike Northern AZ being the opposite extreme. Yeesh.|||Valandis  I really like Utadu Hikaru, and Asian pop in general.  I'm always amazed by how beautiful the lyrics are, sometimes even abstract, the Asian music I tend to hear.  It's taken me a very...|||Awesome songs, guys!  I kind of want to make a playlist of these....|||Also....Idahoans in Arizona are always so nice....|||Some of my ancestors have their homestead in BC, but my dad's family is from Idaho....|||Anybody think they've got a theme song?  I found mine just a couple weeks ago.    Daylight by Matt and Kim.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WgBeu3FVi60  ...|||Just wanted to point out that that whole thing was pretty much a joke (except what was in parentheses).    I'm a pretty darn straight hetero female myself.  I was trying to use my identity in a...|||In your opinion, is the universe more chaotic or orderly? Identify, then discuss.  :happy:|||As an INFJ, I'm pretty cool that Ista and I will likely not be either lovers or best friends because of what has been stated thus far.  My idealism says that I really shouldn't want to limit my...|||clevernessofme  Wait a second.  Are you using Korean character crying faces or am I just imagining it?|||No, thankfully.  Someone up here showed me a picture of like 5 of them on the floor of their dining room in their house in Gilbert.  We get more weird-ass bugs that I would have no idea where to...|||I've heard this mentioned from several people that Shane seems arrogant. Somehow I don't think that's the whole story.     I have been told that I seem arrogant, but when I have been accused of...|||Wow.  Northern AZ here.  It's 37 degrees tonight....|||Whereabouts in AZ?  (generally speaking)|||So far, know I've been attracted to ENFP, and ISFJ.  There may have been an INFx, ENFx, and IxTx....I think...|||Spring where I live is gale-force winds and often persisting winter cold just prior to summer in mid-May.  Though this year, the wind and cold have lasted till even now.    Other than that....I...|||meted|||One of my closest friends is an INFP.  The relationship is bizarrely easy.|||atoms|||aster|||Stape|||loser (nothing personal) ;)|||Seals|||Also I feel that I should add, that I don't really find much of life really boring but am trying to recognize that that might matter to you.  The one ENFP I knew seemed to have a chronic need for...'