'Me.  For me i will attempt to take interest in things outside of the ISTJ comfort zone.|||Exactly how i would do it.|||I jaywalk alot.|||I stopped right there. It really destroys our spirit when our close friends mistreat us.  If I were you, I would stop harboring hopes of a reunion.|||How far ahead do you set your clocks? normally 20 mins  Which do you prefer digital, analog, or other Digital  Military or Standard? doesnt matter  Do you always have a watch/clock on you?|||How do you discipline yourselves to stay organized and committed to projects (...and people..)?  people have high hopes on me and I work to maintain that high standards.  How do you resist the...|||win.... anyways i think one of the best thing about being a ISTJ is that we are extremely reliable.|||MY plan is probably be more social i guess. Over the past few months I have been extremely moody and unapproachable.|||thumbs up for caffeine|||It does now that u've mentioned it :P|||it did. which is why i stopped:crazy:|||whats your point? Dont ask just do 'Dont question the law/system if you follow the steps, you can't go wrong more talk, less done|||I once had one but my sis would look for it even after i hid it away :frustrating:. But now i prefer to talk to close ones to my emotions, works better i feel.|||truth..  :frustrating:|||Coffee, Friends whom I can speak to, basically just talk.  I think girls call it a gossip session?   when i'm alone, i just like to sit around to think/read|||absolutely hilarous!:wink:|||Initially I plugged a sort of time period for people to be considered close or special to me. Then I scrapped it after realising that its not the TIME, but the spectrum of events that we have...|||Being new in this forum, I already can't imagine the loss of Niss.  Thumbs up for an awesome father figure!|||Thanks for convincing me that i'm not the only weird one :blushed:|||I don't quite get the entire idea.  Tell me if i got it? Freedom = Birds (as they are free to fly without boundaries of visas and permits?)  :sad:|||Methodical, serious, factual  Outgoing, anything-goes, loafer.|||second this.|||getting out of my comfort zone to hang with that person and his/her clique (strangers? yikes!)|||Here's one:  When your statement is challenged, you instinctively refer to any related sources to validate it.|||nothing wrong with consulting your father.  If i were your boyfriend, I would have been disappointed that I was excluded in such a big matter. Since it requires a fair bit of financial outlay,...|||Im a deadpan kind of person.   I find myself restraining from joking when i'm around new people, not that I am a bad joker but i must be sure of their intellectual maturity before I start.  Sucks...|||actually the analysis given is quite true. Often i find myself putting my hands away when i'm in a big social group.   my lecturer for public speaking rebuked me for doing so during a presentation,...|||Cross my arms all the time when im getting abit annoyed when the debate is getting pointless (usually because i see my POV as superior :mellow:)  More often than not I put my hands in my pocket tho.|||its like you are in my head.:blushed:|||tough to quantify.  My current batch of close friends have known me close to 2.5 years at least, the longest being 12.  If one person is capable of having non-biased, open communication with me,...|||I would have just said an audible hi simply because the situation demands for it.  But of course, they should already know you're not much of a talker, furthermore, it doesn't seem like you are...|||Yeah I've always thought that a spiritual connection is always one in solitude.  perhaps that why im not cool with church :sad:. But honestly i feel there are many new and fantastic people waiting...|||Surprise surprise , im 19 and facing the same problems.  but you know what? I gave up looking for what I want. Im really trying to explore into religon. Issues throughout my life have been largely...|||Just curious,  who in this forum is a christian convert? why did you do it?  Personally I feel that I could use a purpose driven by faith but the realist side of me tells me that there are no...|||Its my personal anomaly I guess.  having to seek help is a sign of inability to me.|||if you are competent, you dont need help  echoes everytime I hit an obstacle.|||Books or in the bank!|||Yep.  Certainly the one's recieving my praise really knows what I mean.   But people who heard me giving it and doesnt know well enough? Well thats probably why i've not really given them a try,...|||Small talk and flirt is simply unnatural for me.  when i compliment someone's look , my friend tells me woah not bad! Sad thing is that i really meant what I say.|||Myself, I usually cant study alone unless im at home.  I do find myself occasionally studying better with people around me , irregardless whether they are my close friends or not. I find a need to...|||Thanks for the pep talk, mate. I feel much more at ease now!|||Thank you for offering your time to help|||IMHO,  when anyone has been told about some part of my life more than once, he/she must be a pretty big deal in my life.  Heck, we refuse to talk about ourselves all the time. They are one of the...|||maybe its just me then :frustrating:|||If i were her dad, i would just let her have my credit card and give her a spending cap  1) No restriction to gifts 2) Easy, no frills 3) Practical  of course i still feel that some quality...|||the gift cert is genius.  Chances are you wil never know what an ITSJ wants cause they are so private in nature, but imagine the endless potential in a simple gift card !!!|||again, i stress that when both sides dont feel the same for each other, the relationship is very likely to break down.  Today I just heard of a similiar ending, sigh|||or it could be just that ITSJs are cruelly blunt :frustrating:|||agreed.  a few more...  ITSJs love to keep things simple. If i could compress 50 sentences into 1, I will. ITSJs cant write narrative, at least for me|||This.  What a brillant way to put whats meant to be, will be.'