'Having thought about this for a few minutes, I think that when I was younger I used to always try and preach my ideals to people, and  I really wanted people to see the world as I did and to...|||I'm an INFP male currently in a relationship with an ESTP female, and it is awesome, without a doubt the best relationship I've been in. It seems to be just one adventure after another, and we never...|||http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/numbers.png|||I don't think this is true at all, but I'm interested to hear your point of view. Could you elaborate on how you think peak oil has caused the economic crisis?|||I have a dysfunctional relationship with my bed.  In fact, we are barely on speaking terms, and I confess that I have been unfaithful. In 5 years I have had a relationship with 10 (!!) different...|||Yeah but I think a lot of N types (maybe Ne users especially) view deep conversations as an inherent part of socialising and it's one of the main reasons we might want to spend time with people, to...|||I hate capitalism, because it is at the root of most of the things people are talking about in this thread. Consumerism, worship of material goods. Constantly attacking peoples self esteem and...|||Also Thomas Hardy is great|||All INFPs should like William Butler Yeats. He is so one of us. Here are a few of my favourite poems:    I also really, really, like Leonard Cohen, who I'm pretty sure is also an INFP. Here is a...|||I don't think that's true at all. As far as consumerist subcultures such as goth are concerned, I'd say that we're pretty much the same. Depending on the country and city - eastern Europe will have...|||I don't consciously look for a reaction or go for gross out stuff/shock value sort of stuff, however I can be quite contrarian in my opinions and I think I do have a tendency to go against the grain....|||Whereabouts? My third photo is taken at the Ice and Snow Festival in Haerbin.   Also, you are very sweet looking, I like your dresses :-)|||I'm always torn between whether I should have a beard or not.  I think my beard looks ok here. ...|||Haha. Maybe my analogy with Peep Show was my Ne getting a little excessively carried away. I think my point was that INFP humour can be of a similar nature to the humour in the show, and when it does...|||I hate to say this, but I think that actually, it is pretty unlikely to date successfully without being a flirt. Especially for INFPs. For humans, our brain is like a peacocks tail. The playfulness...|||I've never seen a spirit. However! I did see a UFO once, but nobody would believe me... Everyone just thought, oh it must have just been a helicopter. But I swear to God it wasn't. I don't know...|||A good way to meet people is through a class. If you've finished education try taking a night class in something that you're interested in. I hear that these are actually full of people who are there...|||This isn't true. You are doing something wrong and you can change it. I've known some people who are truly repulsive and irritating who have still got married. And I'm not assuming you are either of...|||I'm just curious to know if there exists any MBTI societies in any countries/cities? Or even if there has ever been socials organised on personality cafe? I think it would be quite nice to spend time...|||Well, obviously there are a lot of differences between different INFPs, often depending on circumstances more than fundamental psychic structures. Maybe it depends a lot on the dynamic of your social...|||If they are an INFP, I can guarantee that they certainly are interested. But they won't show it, they will just take it for granted that you know they are thinking about your inner quirks. That you...|||I think Fe and Fi types have VERY different ways of showing that they care.  My best friend is an ENFP, so we are both Fi users. We are closer friends than any other 2 people that I know, and by...|||Aaah, ok! I don't think there is too much wrong with that actually. I imagined that it was like your 30 year old neighbour taking advantage of you or something! Sex play between children is actually...|||1 - Forgiveness - Making mistakes is the way we learn things and how we grow as people. I do not hold grudges against anyone, and strongly disapprove of people who do. If someone has done something...|||Wait, what!?!  How has nobody else commented on this yet!?|||- I am 23 years old - Male - Straight - Lost virginity at 17 - 16 sexual partners  - Judging by the poll, that's quite a lot compared to most people. (apart from 4 with more than 30! I'm...|||I confess that I do use MBTI when looking for partners. A lot of people here are saying they don't, but I suspect there's a lot of people just saying that because it appears superficially to be a...|||Very interesting. Where did you get this information from? Based on what you're saying, I would be interested in reading a little more in depth about the Mongols. Could you recommend a book?|||She doesn't sound like an ENFJ at all, she sounds more like a (very unhealthy) ESFJ. ENFJs don't tend to be too fussy about cleanliness and order unlike ESFJs, and I don't think any N types follow...|||OK, there's this girl I've been hanging out with who is also an INFP and I'm trying to work out if she's into me or not, or if she just sees me as a friend, and I don't know if an INFP and INFP...|||Heathcliff from Wuthering Heights could be an INFP villain?   Erik from Phantom of the Opera? Or Nosferatu?  They have to be tortured villains who are also victims I think. INFPs don't do evil...|||I'm an INFP.  Types I'm attracted to from first to last:  ENFJ ENFP INTJ INFJ INFP ENTP|||Just wondering how old INFPs were when they first had sex. Were you younger than most of your peers? Older? About the same? How did you feel about it afterwards? Were you in a relationship or was it...|||I'm in my 4th year for Chinese Studies. It's been pretty good, I got to study in Beijing throughout my 3rd year, but the final year is really boring. I want to study in more detail the economy and...|||I'm good when I put my mind to it.   A problem I do sometimes have is over-identification with the pieces, and I wonder if this is an INFP thing. For example, if some bishop is doing well I will...|||SKSK just failed at trolling|||I used to do a hell of a lot of drugs, drink a lot (I still do but not as much), be fairly promiscuous (as far as I could anyway) and did a LOT of crazy shit. I think part of it was just rebelling...|||How do INFPs generally fare on dating sites? I've considered trying them out before, but when it comes to writing about myself I always feel uncomfortable/silly about trying to sell myself and end...|||I don't mean places to find INFPs, I mean good places (or ways) for INFPs to make new friends and look for romance!|||ESTJs. It's not that I dislike them as such - even before knowing about MBTI, I used to teach myself to appreciate their worldview and see that they have valid strengths. I'm thinking of this one...|||Where are good ways for the INFP to meet people who could potentially be their soul mate? Conventional wisdom (in the UK at least) says that you should just go out clubbing to meet someone but as we...|||Well, the test doesn't really mean anything - since we all understand MBTI anyway we can just think do I want a thinker? Or a feeler? and the questions on the test are just trying to determine that...'