'This bullshit is why I am never consistently on here lol.|||I'm actually going for more practical reasons. Picking up my SO's new car and driving it back up north where we live. We're just making the best of it by visiting a few places on the way back....|||What you described sounds like me when I was a teenager. Very unsure, lacking in self confidence and maturity. This still happens to me sometimes, and it's when I'm anxious over something or am...|||I'm taking a road trip up the east coast sometime this summer!  But otherwise I'm keeping my head down and saving up for the impending school year..... :dread:|||I do admittedly have issues with perfectionism and rumination.  I find that the biggest issue is having to deal with emotion so often throughout my day, and 'needing' to compare myself to others....|||Sometimes I just don't notice I'm hungry. Or it's inconvenient for me to eat, so I just don't do it until I'm able. However I get super hangry and it's not in my best interest to put it off...|||Yes. This is why ENTJ appeals so much to me.   I'm not going to pretend to know how it feels to be an INFJ man, because I know it's a lot different. But even as a woman, I really connect with what...|||I relate so heavily to everything you've said here. :C Some days I feel like I'm in a good place and I feel satisfied socially and creatively, and other days I can't help but wish that I were a)...|||Sadly, no! Something way less exciting, it comes from the greek city Xanthi.|||I totally agree in all aspects! Its like ISTP took INFJ functions and stacked them in a way which makes them better able to handle life in general lol ugh.|||I find that whenever I become frustrated with a behaviour of mine, I tend to think to myself Damnit I wish I were ____ instead of INFJ! For instance, the two types that I admire most, and wish I...|||No, don't apologize. You aren't pathetic at all.  I find that when I feel like that, holding onto the extreme emotions and really feeling them out helps me a lot. If I'm able to really feel them,...|||I get the NT vibe a lot from her too, especially her candid videos... idek.  It's hard to gauge youtubers or celebrities based on what they WANT us to see of them.|||Missglamorazzi is a self-confirmed INTJ.  Source: https://twitter.com/missglamorazzi/status/307624517612740608 https://twitter.com/ByronTalbott/status/297803701555458049|||Te and Fi.|||I relate so deeply to this post :( I feel the exact same way most of the time.  Trying to work through it now, it's so hard. I wish you luck!|||My Mom is an ISTP, so I have a lot of experience with ISTP's.  I find that they come off as the most N of the S types (in my experience). Very thoughtful, very devoted to their work. But also very...|||I have heightened Si, so ISFJ. My bf is an INTP, so I use Ti a lot too...|||This is so weird. This is exactly, line for line, how I feel 100% of the time...  I'm kinda freaked out... I read it and felt like I was reading one of my journal entries.|||Hi, can my username please be changed to xanthi (all lowercase.)  Thank you very much!|||Yeah, Ni-Fe and the inability to articulate anything.|||I identify with a lot of what you wrote, and I often feel very out of place on this forum because my lifestyle and attitude are so different. Because of my undying Fe, I find myself endlessly...|||I've just barely looked into enneagram 9.. it's embarrassingly accurate. Honestly, I kind of broke down for a weekend after reading about it and never looked into it again. It's hard for me to face...|||Are you from Toronto? Just curious to know why you think it should be an option.|||You see threads about people encountering unhealthy types in the grip and advice on how to deal with them.   What about a type who has just come to terms with the fact that THEY themselves are...|||Here to ask the same question. I always wanted Steve Martin to be my Dad(?)  Did you see him in something you hated, or something? IDGI!|||Therapy has helped me in so many ways, since I was really little (9 y/o). I grew up viewing therapy as a positive experience, and it wasn't until I became a teenager when I realized it can be really...|||I've had nothing but positive experiences with therapy.  It breaks my heart to hear stories like this, in which doctors end up creating more problems. :(|||I like them both for different reasons.   S's are really good at life. They know what needs to be done and they get shit done, excellently. If I'm behind with my chores or bills, I can ask an S for...|||I think this is it. Especially in terms of religion. Generally, people who believe very deeply don't really care about the truth or logic surrounding it. If it's real to them, gives them strength,...|||Not INTP, but I did this 'test' out of curiosity and was really surprised at the result. I filled it out with the type of person that annoys me the most in mind, and the result ended up being ISFP....|||Have you ever read Quiet by Susan Cain? In the book she talks about how open floor plan office spaces are pretty much the least efficient way for an introvert to work. Extroverts on the other hand,...|||ENTP, ENFP, or ESTP.    It's a lot of feels. Overanalyzing things and worrying about how the most minuscule thing made other people feel.|||Best response in this thread tbqh.|||WOW, that is incredibly rude and awful. She must be really deeply unhealthy.   My boyfriend is INTP and he and I have had some issues regarding my high standards in the past. It's something that...|||Perfectly articulated!|||Supporting the death penalty is supporting murder. It's really that simple.|||XNXP  My favourite friends are INFP, ENFP. My boyfriend is INTP.  Edit: I think I'd really like ENFJ, but sadly I do not know any, intimately.|||Yeah, social anxiety is fairly common with INFJs! I used to have it really bad when I was a teen, but now in my 20's it is nonexistent. Diet and supplements played a big part in overcoming this,...|||I feel kind of resentful towards the fact that 9w1s typically never contribute anything, even though they so badly want to. That's one of the traits that really resonated with me, unfortunately. I...|||9w1 here~ Maybe finding other INFJ 9w1 types will make me feel a little better about the fact that I am one.|||I know a lot of people in your position right now-- fucked over badly by the educational system. Having gone to university doesn't really mean anything when they are so lenient with grades, and hand...|||Whenever I feel depressed, I check the following:   If I am eating properly If I am sleeping properly If I haven't seen my friends in a month If I am producing enough, creatively  When I am...|||When it comes to Ni, Fe, Ti, Se-- I'm almost positive.   It's when I read the stereotypes that I'm not so sure :/|||On a more positive note, though:   I've been with my INTJ for 6 years now. We have a very deep bond. I love him more than words can express.  I love hearing about successful and loving INTJ & INFJ...|||This was my immediate thought too :(|||Every ISFJ I've known has played the role of victim for attention and validation. Unfortunately, I think every ISFJ I know is unhealthy.|||Thank you everyone for your insightful replies! I really appreciate all of it. Really helpful.  I feel a bit stuck recently. Reading about MBTI and Enneagram has forced me to face a lot of...|||Yeah, hard to be in the moment with such weak Se, haha.   I try to concentrate on my breathing, specifically. And I try to smile more... eeerrgg. Good luck!|||:(  It's hard. Something I've realised is that what I believe is being true to myself, comes off as arrogance to other people. People always tell me after I've gotten to know them, that I come...'