'Let me try to answer your points one by one. (in bold)     I don't know the real situation, but based on what you have said, your husband appears to have an unhealthy obsession with money and...|||If your assessment of ISTJ is correct, pretty much every point listed here indicates the guy wants to initiate a relationship with you.   The rest have already pointed out other things, especially...|||Thank you for the kind words. Like AllyKat mentioned we prefer to stay out of the limelight, but we don't mind this.|||This is an honest guy right here. I would take every other post here claiming a 130+ IQ with a bucket of salt.    Sees past the ego of making an inflated claim and questions the validity of the...|||Not answering your question directly, but...... It is good that you want the best for your future kids, but it starts from having a good relationship. The effects of parental breakups, divorce, and...|||If the OP's assumption of ESTJ was correct:  1. ESTJ in question was just out of a breakup  2. It is not uncommon for people to rush into a new relationship right after a breakup 3. ESTJs have...|||Sorry, I don't quite get it - what is your point exactly? That we frustrate and piss you guys off?|||If said guy as ISTJ as you say, then based on your description:   The guy is very likely interested in you. If an ISTJ discloses personal stuff to you and spends a lot of time with you (especially...|||I have no first hand ENFP relationship experience to speak of, but this link might be useful:  http://personalitycafe.com/estj-forum-guardians/172099-female-estjs-enfp-males-2.html  Look for...|||Umm, yes, perhaps I do. Care to educate me more?   The guy stresses heavy on result and he like to use a method he learned in the past. That TE and SI. I studied Trump and how he does...|||My suggestion:   Try not to go by talking. There is very little in common to talk about at this stage. Just join her in what she is doing. Especially if it's something worthwhile like doing...|||Yes, thank you for stating the obvious.   Why not you please read the first paragraph of what I wrote. I'll reproduce it here for your convenience.     My point is, since we only see his...|||If I understand you correctly, Fi takes over temporarily and you're not quite like yourself means a sudden change? Seems pretty drastic. Here's a few possible triggers:  - If an ESTJ is going...|||Dude, you probably have some axe to grind with STJs. Check yourself: is everything you attribute to the mystical ESTJ villain accurate in nature?   Society is made up of all different types of...|||Do take note, what you are seeing about Trump and every other politician is their public persona. Everything else, like this thread, is just speculation.   First and foremost; we are looking the...|||I relate well to STJs. Not so well with SFJs though.|||Go learn coding. That's the easiest to pick up. Lots of Internet tutorials and jobs out there.|||Nothing much here, guys.     If AstralSoldier can put aside his / her emotions for a while, he / she will find that we've been indirectly answering this question.....|||Don't jump to conclusions. Also, please provide evidence to back up your claim.     You say that the post's questions were a means to establish a dialogue about ESTJ personality etc and compile...|||I guess a Matrix human farm kind of environment would be ideal for INTP society. You can think all you want without having to worry about action. Who maintains the farm, probably not a INTP.  ...|||I would suggest you read the ESTJ type description and other posts in the forum before asking questions. I'm not sure if you know how to Google, but these links might be helpful:  Portrait of an...|||Hard to say. We don't know the specifics of the situation.   How do you know your dad is ESTJ?|||repeat. delete.|||What do you consider as traditional?   Different societies and countercultures have different ideas of what they consider as traditional - be it from large beliefs to smaller things such as daily...|||The ESTJ and INFP characteristics are very different. You will have a lot of differences to work out. Is the love between both of you strong enough to work things out? Based on what you said, I don't...|||The same can be said the other way around.   We tend look for concrete proof - if there isn't, we compare it to our own store of facts and see if it matches. If not, it tends to be ignored as a...|||Move on. Don't waste more effort digging the hole deeper.|||I'm not sure if duty fulfiller and masculine goes hand in hand.....they don't always lead to the same thing.   I'm quite pragmatic. If I need to, I cook, I clean, I do domestic tasks, because...|||Read the OP's original question again. It is asking for our take on the relationship and whether he should attempt to restart it or not, not for a working model of the relationship.   Please...|||This is true among most ISTJs.   We are pragmatic, so if it doesn't matter to us, generally any option is fine within the required constraints. We would rather not have an argument over opinions or...|||Skydiving instructor with military guerilla warfare background: if the latter part is true, the guy is most probably a ex special operations force (SOF) guy. I.e. Navy SEAL, Green Beret, Marine...|||The ESTJ population here is few, and doesn't log in all that often. Compared to the ENFP or INFP forums, stuff here doesn't move anywhere as fast. Trying to hurry people up here is useless.   Would...|||Depends on what role. If both can listen to each other and work together, you can get the best of both worlds.   If it becomes that the ENTP sets unattainable goals and simply leaves the ESTJ to...|||1. Divorce doesn't always solve the problem, it creates other problems. This is especially if you have kids.   Maybe it's just an modern American notion to hope for finding the perfect person, and...|||Not that I can't see the logic, but I don't see the point in answering you.   You still have not explained why put 2 unrelated questions in the same thread (what the taboos are and why, and then...|||Please read your question again.   If you intended this as an open question, the first sentence is pretty straightforward and is enough. However, you then ask us what is taboo to us, and then...|||To becoming an honorary intuitive?   No thank you. Lol|||Ummm, I'm sorry, you might not want to find us for fantasy novels.|||Calm down people. Stop this useless fight.   We don't know this guy or anything about monalisa1710's interaction with the person. Is he really ESTJ? What's the surrounding context? We're all just...|||Sorry, I don't quite understand what you are trying to get at. Are you asking what are taboo practices to ISTJs, or are you asking a leading question to steer us down some predefined thought path...|||Depends on the situation - we normally ask the person to explain themselves.   There is a fine line in interpreting these kind of issues - either the listener doesn't get it because not enough Ne...|||If your description of this guy as ISTJ is accurate, then based on what you've described just now, this is a common pattern. My take on it:  1. The guy is interested in you.  2. He wants a long...|||A good idea would be to tell him directly what would be helpful for you. That would help greatly.|||Well well well. Can we keep this nonsense to the ESTJ clubhouse and not create random troll threads like this?|||Join a church. They are usually a lot more welcoming. That might help a lot.|||https://myownrunningstory.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/keep-calm-resistance-is-futile-7.png    Good. See you then.|||Of course. I may not have as keen an intellect as thou, but why let up the chance to troll?     Unless thy computer grows faces, thou wilt only see text. Thou wilt find this energy in the form...|||I won't repeat what the others have said, but:    I guess if the guy is a construction manager, he's a bit older than others. Regardless of type, life experience (which usually comes with age!) in...|||If the NT forum encourages abstract discussion with no practical significance is good, sure. Take the discussions there. I myself discuss these issues on the NT forum every now and then.   So why...|||Depends on what sort of relationship. We would treat a SO differently from a friend. In general, we do take responsibility over family. Friends - much less so.     You may want to check some of...'