I really like INTPs. I get along pretty well with them, more so than with the mythical ENTPs. But the texting first isn't gonna happen. I mean I still get nervous texting my platonic best friends...|||Well, I did play soccer in middle school and I was always on defense. But really all I did was kick whoever had the ball so I wouldn't say I was a great player by any stretch of the imagination.|||Lose sleep, write crappy poetry, waste time on tumblr, hide in my room, watch tv, eat junk food, listen to music, lie on my bed while staring at the ceiling and having ridiculous conversations with...|||I gotta say, we Ni-users tend to be pretty good at typing too.|||It's going to get better. Don't hurt yourself; it won't help anything, I promise. You'll make amazing friends. There are people who care about you. You're going to have some really great experiences...|||Yeaaah, he likes you|||*shrugs* You seem cool. Good luck.|||Don't get so hung up over the labels! Put yourself out there, talk to people, relax.|||You don't lack connections because you're social-last; you're typed as social last because of how you interact with the world right now.  The social instinct has more to do with social norms,...|||Sorry for your loss. The feelings you describe are quite normal. Grieving is a long, painful, confusing process. I haven't lost anybody who was really close to me. My grandma died a few years back,...|||Sounds fun, can I bring a group of fellow Ni-using INFJs?|||I wouldn't say they make more sense, but I can relate to them and understand where they were coming from. That's the thing about horrible people- they're still people, they're still human, and...|||On a scale of 1 to 10, you're a 9 and I'm the 1 you need.|||I don't know, maybe stop referring to everybody else as big-boobed bimbos first.|||Yes, one disintegrates to four. However, that will look like an unhealthy four. The four in your tritype represents how you deal with the heart triad issues when healthy. Enneagram connections are...|||It usually irritates me, but I don't often confront people about it because it's just not worth it.|||I love math. I'm indifferent towards science. *jazz hands*|||I really, really like people. People are fascinating and intriguing and they bring out my better side. While sometimes I think I'd be cool sitting around alone all the time, I've come to realize that...|||I don't have any pets, but I'm really good with cats that I meet. They're just like other people to me, with feelings and personalities and attitudes.  I agree with Lemxn. It's amazing how much eyes...|||Ooh, thanks for posting those! Very interesting stuff. I definitely relate to 9 and 3 again, but also 2 and 6. Some of these things are pretty universal though. I mean, who doesn't want to be loved...|||Here are the childhood messages for anyone who's curious. (found them here) I relate to Nine and Three most, which makes sense for my type.  Unconscious Childhood MessagesType One: It's not ok to...|||I don't know if it's possible ahaha|||... not really This kinda sounds like an over-emotional, almost unhealthy INFJ... maybe one who's more in touch with their Feeling?  I mean, some of this is pretty accurate:  creative, smart,...|||I'm a Sagittarius and the descriptions for it are very rarely accurate at all. I'm an Ox on the Chinese horoscope and that one's significantly better but other personality typings are muuuch more...|||Hmm, the following are the ones that I think fit me:   Manipulate people to satisfy their own desires (sort of- I wouldn't say manipulation, but subtle persuasion/tricks maybe...?)  Make...|||Interesting stuff. I perfectly called the highest and lowest ones before I saw it. I don't know why it's so small here; you can see it full size on the linked page. 86537  (source)|||I know the Ni-Ti loop has been discussed to death, but I've never seen any mention of Fe-Se for INFJs. Personally, my Ni-Ti loop is pronounced when I'm feeling extra lonely and dark and cynical....|||9w8 5w6 2w3 I feel like a bundle of contradictions. I can be calm and reserved or stubborn and opinionated. Generally I'm pretty chill and easygoing, but when I need to I can get down to business...|||When I'm with certain people, I can really come alive and make everybody laugh. I always know what goofy things to tell my best friends to cheer them up.  But usually it's just badly executed puns.|||Ooh, that's rough, I'm sorry you're going through that.  It's entirely possible that you could have depression, but I can't tell you for sure since I'm not a medical professional.  As for being...|||I don't want kids. I'm very awkward and uncomfortable around little kids, and I have no desire to deal with pregnancy and childbirth. And the idea of taking care of someone 18+ years is really...|||Hmm let's see.  1. The absolute hatred of trying things for the first time where others can see. I often find myself terrible or else taking a long time to learn things that are common skills and...|||Yeah, compliments are awkward. I think it's just an average human thing.|||Yes! I'm pretty honest and blunt myself. I can usually tell when people aren't being honest, and it bothers me. Life's a lot easier when you stop worrying about what people think about your opinions...|||Those traits are pretty common among J's and P's, but you have to remember that those two letters are tied into cognitive functions.  INFJ's functions are Intraverted Intuition, Extraverted Feeling,...|||Type 1. It makes no sense to me at all.|||I have an ENFJ brother and he's pretty much the coolest person I know. I also have an ESXJ sister (I can't figure her type out exactly and it drives me crazy!) and we get along alright.  I think...|||Do you idealize marriage or reject it as an social institution? I definitely don't idealize it. I get annoyed when other people idealize it and think of it as the ultimate goal in their life....|||Thanks for responding and getting that list! I get really nervous posting threads on these boards because everybody else seems really intellectual and pulled together and I'm over here trying to...|||I was thinking about this the other day... Each type has a core fear and a major vice, which are probably related but still distinct. Are you more likely to give in to your core vice or fear? Which...|||I prefer Enneagram because it's much more helpful and it's easier to relate to other people with it. Enneagram can help you figure out things like integration paths, what your biggest temptations and...|||hmm interesting idea! as a 9w8 I'm connected to 3, 6, 2, and 5, meaning my blind spots are 1, 4, and 7  and that is totally spot on!|||And has it changed over the years? When I was younger, I was always quick to believe anything that my family or friends would tell me, mainly because I trusted them and didn't think they'd lie to...|||Oh, there's so much more to it than just fitting into one type! You have your core type and a wing, plus your tritype, plus integration and disintegration points. I like the Enneagram because it...|||Thank you for this! I have an INFJ friend who once told his sister that he could spend his whole life hanging out with just INFJs... except for me. :dry:  I'm pretty sure he has no idea what he's...|||speak for yourself ;)|||I would notice, but act like I hadn't and everything was fine. I'd sort of keep an eye on him/her to make sure they didn't try anything weird though.|||I've had the same conflict before. I think the INTP vibes come from tertiary Ti and/or Ni-Ti loops. I don't know enough about you to help much, but that's just something to think about. The main...|||1. What's your type, tritype and variant stacking? If it's tentative, feel free to state that.   9w8 5w6 2w3 sx/sp  2. When you procrastinate, why do you do it? Think about this deeply. The...|||I was hoping to read about some of the other types too =/ oh well