'I don't recall door slamming anyone from my life. I kind of door slammed my ex the last time we tried to talk, but if she tries to come back I'm not sure if i'm cold/strong enough to ignore her. ...|||Sorry but do you really think that if someone is a last born they'll have something in common with you? If someone's parents are not first born then they cannot have anything in common with you?...|||Our dominant function (Ni) is a Perceiving function. The stronger your Ni is the more perceiving traits you'll have. I always test as INFP in those online mbti test because the strenght of my Ni...|||Hahahaha, this thread is so funny. I'm an INFJ and my mother is an ENFP and I have trouble dealing with her extroversion since I was a child. I'm extremely calm and she is the only person that can...|||I usually listen to classical music when I'm reading. If there is no background music I get lost in my thoughts and If there is a background music with lyrics I get lost in the lyrics. Classical...|||I have phobia of geckos. I can't put what I feel into words, I simply cannot be near geckos.|||I'm also an INFJ having trouble choosing a career. I loved physics at highschool and I never had any problems with math, so I thought I would be a good engineer. I have never been so wrong. I started...|||I wanna hear that explanation|||Mostly to satisfy my curiosity. I would like to be a clinical psychologist in the early years of my career so I can help people out, but after I get some experience I want to teach psychology at...|||The problem for me is that I don't have one big desire, I have two conflicting ones.  I'm currently studying Naval Engineering and my two desires are: Live abroad (1) and Study Psychology (2).  ...|||1. Supernatural (Seasons 1 - 5, after season 5 it's a shitty show).  2. Dr. House 3. The Mentalist 4. Dexter 5. Breaking Bad    Comedy shows: 1. Community 2. Friends|||My ex-girlfriend is an INTP. I could see it in her eyes that she was trying to figure me out and i'm sure that her curiosity is what kept our relationship going. Eventually she gave up and broke up...|||A few months after I've moved out of my parents house I started feeling homesick. I smoked a joint on my own, layed on the floor, looked out of the window and started crying. After i was done with it...|||I have two tattoos which i don't like anymore. I got them when I was really young and stupid, but I do not regret it. I've grown a lot because of them and I can say for sure that they've made me a...|||I can relate to that.   I'm currently studying Naval Engineering in University and i think i could easily get into the marine here in my country. I would do it for the safety i would feel though,...|||I enjoy being an INFJ, but if I had to choose another type I'd probably pick ISFP or ESFJ.|||Hell yes.   I've been observing and analyzing this behavior of mine for a while now, but I was not sure if this was an INFJ things. I can connect deeply with everyone in my circle of friends when...|||I question my sanity on a regular basis since I was a Kid.   When I was in third grade I used to question if I was the only real person and everyone else was just an illusion from my head. I also...|||What would the world be without books?|||Thanks for your post, but is it really worth watching L.A. Shrinks?  http://i.imgur.com/smHjEN6.png|||Nobody ever told me i have big eyes. I consider them to be average size and they're blue. A little bit bluer than the eyes in the post above mine.|||The simplest way to know if you're an INFJ is to ask yourself these 3 simple questions:  1. Do you use Fe?  If so, move to the next question.  2. Are you an Introvert? If so, move to the next...|||I'm not an experienced meditator or anything like that, but try to meditate 2-3 times a week.   The hardest part about meditating is to stop whatever it is that you're doing to sit there and...|||I don't like generalizations, so i will speak for myself.  Usually I'm not evil at all, but if you manage to piss me off (it's really hard) then i will become the most evil motherf*cker you've ever...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sf7dgGCprHc  My favourite band.  Their lyrics are insanely good, I wish you all could understand it (it's in portuguese :sad:)|||You have to understand that you are the one who gives meaning to your own life. I know how hard it is, i've been there, and the key to finding the motivation necessary to go farther is to do it for...|||I took the test again to answer you and got:  E 26% -----  74% I S 16% ----- 84% N T 42% ----- 58% F J 42% ----- 58% P|||- You have 16 types to choose from. Step 1: Determine if you use Fe or Fi. Those are the easiest functions to spot and you can rule out 8 types. - You now have 8 types to choose from Step 2:...|||Is that that for me? If it is, mention my name or quote my post next time so i can see the message quicker.  Yes, i'm from Brazil :P|||Don't fall for that.  The only way you can find someone that's really worth being with is if you are happy alone. Be the best self you can, follow your gut instincts and happiness will come with...|||Oi, também vou te responder em inglês porque é mais fácil pra mim.  When i was 14 my dad got promoted and had to move city. We were over a thousand km away from the rest of my family and I did not...|||My INTP ex used to reward me with sex when i did nice things for her, like going out with her friends :laughing:|||A quick tip that i learned in the book i posted earlier is to determine if someone uses Fe or Fi. These are the easiest cognitive functions to spot and if you can determine which one a person uses,...|||That's not what i meant at all. I believe women have the same right to sleep with someone on the first date as men (except my sister, she can't do that).   What i meant is that i see first date sex...|||Okay, I wrote this on notepad before reading the answers.     The desert i see has no end. Everywhere i look is sand and there is a small oasis in front of me (a small lake and a coconut...|||You don't know who I am|||If it's a first date with a person I already know well, it's a completly different story. I would definitely go for sex in this scenario.   I know not wanting to have sex in the first date says a...|||I've never met another INFJ in real life, but here at PerC i do feel some sort of connection with nearly everyone on this subforum :)|||Thank you very much Effy.  I guess this is what i wanted/needed to hear :/  ps: Skins is an awesome show :)|||When i first started having sex I was extremely insecure. The first couple times were awful, my luck was that my girlfriend at the time was very insecure too so we both laughed after.   I like to...|||It's kind of a confusing story...   Three months after we started dating i had to move out to another city to go to university. Surprisingly, out relationship actually got better. I guess she...|||Any tips for an INFJ trying to get back with his INTP ex-girlfriend?|||Yes, really.  I wouldn't want a serious relationship with someone who slept with me on the first date. I would not even try to sleep with you on the first date if I wanted something serious.|||There is a book called The Art of Speedreading People: How to seize people up and speak their language.  It explains MBTI typology in general, help you spot clues to identify someone's type and...|||Sonic Youth is my favourite band and EVOL was the first album of them i heard.|||Dream job: Clinical Psychologist and writter (yes, both) Currently studying: Engineering|||The title of this thread describes my life.|||My ex-girlfriend (INTP) says i'm over dramatic :laughing:  I like to put little i love you notes in her purse when she's not looking, I always pick up flowers on the street for her when we're...|||1. Have you ever considered suicide? I've considered suicide my whole life. There was a time where i considered it on a daily basis. It's not like that anymore, but i still think about it every once...|||Yesterday I had a fight with the girl i love and she told me she hated me. At night i decided to go out with some friends and get drunk to forget her. I got robbed by 8 guys on my way to the bar....'