'I've been in a relationship with an ENFJ for a year and three months.  It hasn't been easy for all the reasons mentioned above - we are both highly emotional and intuitive (which makes fights super...|||I wish people would see my silence as wisdom instead of having nothing to say, my kindness as strength instead of weakness, and my solitude as peace instead of stingy-ness.  I often wonder how many...|||An ENTP who I've spent a lot of time with wrote me, You're wonderful human being, sweet, sincere, honest, kind, funny, sexy....and quirky which I always think is endearing.  And then he broke my...|||I thought of another good one...  I'm sorry you feel that way.   *blood boils*|||This part is nice.  The whole time I read this I thought it was kind of sweet but also, So what do you do for her?  As much as she completes you.... I am also an infj and can see myself becoming...|||The way I envision ENFPs is constantly after the chase. Then once they have someone... they're kinda like giddy and omg omg - and then a few days, weeks, months later... Well what if they leave?...|||I confess that when I decided to come to Alaska, I was running away from things.    But now I'm coming home.|||Nailed it.  I took an inaccurate test my freshman year of college in a class with other people and ended up ENFP.  It wasn't until my junior year of college that my ENFP roommate, who knew me very...|||A) That wasn't your post, that was someone else's post B) It's so much more complicated than that and you're a doofus|||Unfortunately I've never stayed real friends with an ex/someone I dated who broke my heart.  This might be because the anger is always the last in the stages of grief for some reason, and that's what...|||I wasn't involved in this discussion haha. Leave me out of it.  And stop bragging about seeing girls naked.|||I feel like doing this is cathartic, as long as you're not expecting a response, an explanation, or an apology. It really helps just to... tell someone what they did to you.  If possible, without...|||Biting the tongue is a good skill!  In my experience though, the if they've really hurt me happens so easily, and sometimes without me even knowing it, that it's difficult to avoid in even the...|||I've found that conflict with an INFP is something I want to avoid at all costs, because they will usually say something extremely hurtful since they are so good at reading emotions and feel so...|||Your insecurity is a beacon You confuse yourself in its light The brain spinning weakness and strength in black and white until you're dizzy with the emotion I wish you'd be honest with yourself...|||I got all excited and was going to reply saying that my favorite color is pink too.  But then I realized you were just being mean.  HOORAY PINK!!!|||Some of my least favorite things ever said to me... Why in the world are you single?   I think you need to just get over it. You need to be more social. Why can't you just do _____ right?...|||The worst is when someone uses something personal, private, or painful that I have confided in them against me, to hurt me. Finding your most vulnerable areas and exploiting them. Well, that's just...|||Oh, gotcha, yeah most people on this thread have very deep-looking eyes!|||Crap! I hate you I'm trying to disable this now so people can't see it but I'm at work and YouTube is blocked.|||It's a new day!|||I disagree, some people's are hard and cold.  Nothing below.|||Recently this happened between me and an ENTP.  I finally ended up just walking away because I felt like I hit a wall in terms of what he could give me emotionally...felt like he was holding on by a...|||I don't belong in your memories and I don't belong in your heart That's so spilling over With all the broken pieces you've kept inside Hoarding pain in black and white as if it's got the ability...|||That is crazy, and so cool.  Yeah the way I felt about this going to happen, was like a nervousness, or a fear, and then another anonymous voice popping into my head and saying, Just wait until...|||I have to believe that there is a divine force, a higher power, or at least something that creates a rhyme or reason to the things that happen in the world, whether I understand it or not.  To...|||I did this the other day.  Just had a feeling something would happen, not based on any facts, clues, or evidence, and it did.   Freaked me out. Not the first time that has happened.  Sometimes my...|||You're right. Neither have I...   I guess what I meant by someone who makes you cry is someone who doesn't necessarily care that they make you cry.  If they stick around to fix it, that's...|||This seems unrealistic. :/  On topic, however, I think the most important thing I've learned is: The one who makes you cry is not worth your tears.|||HAHAHA. TOTALLY.  I can hear exactly.|||Perfectionism seems to be a common theme in the responses in this. That's valuable advice I can take and run with.  Accepting lack of control over circumstances changes worry, anxiety, depression,...|||Love this. Thank you!|||Maybe not, maybe so.  Thanks for the opinion.|||I've read this article before and I despise it.  It is ironic that 40 years of women’s liberation has succeeded only in  turning women into a commodity.  Something to be used up and thrown out. ...|||Some great points here.  Culture may have a lot to do with it, as does general sensitivity.|||Outlets... yeah, definitely.  I feel exactly the same. I love your quotes in your signature by the way.|||The personality page Portrait of an INFJ includes a statement that I believe is astoundingly true:  Life is not necessarily easy for the INFJ, but they are capable of great depth of feeling and...|||Feeling like I'm feeling too much.  Homesick for my family, the ocean, and stars.  Wanting to sink into clear open water and not come up for a while.|||Someone once told me...  Everyone in Alaska is either running from something, or hiding from something.  I think I'm a runner.  don't even pretend that your world is an oyster when you can't...|||We only live once   I lived to run from you   It brought me here   Here brought me there   And there drives me on|||You can't wait for me, you said, and no it isn't fair My heart's sore, a tangled mess Your eyes are blue as ever When I dream them after dark Been months and i can't forget you I don't know what...|||I was mad at him because of some stuff that happened previously, had already told him I didn't want to see him pre-flowers, therefore the flowers which would have been sweet another time came off as...|||Oh my god. So not the whole story.|||Oh coffee ... I wish I knew how to quit you.  (I wrote this while drinking coffee).|||I'm not really sure what she means by stating that you're always in your mind somewhere else...that seems more a problem that you'd have with her, not vice versa if we are adhering strictly to...|||I was talking about this with a friend the other day.  I don't think I'm attracted to dangerous men, but I get bored with men that I don't feel rival my strength intellectually, emotionally,...|||I may be working on an Indian reservation out of state starting June 11 actually, up in the air.|||Sounds fun. I'm in the Los Angeles part of LA. In grad school so I have finals until May 4th. I'll move down to OC after that until June, but I could come back up no biggie.|||I move from my stomach on the pavement, facedown.  There is no one around.  I move to crawl, arms stretched out, shaking. The sun hits my face.  I rock onto my hands, it hurts, the gravel...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=480Hw1Y2OrM  Like this song and video... which made me cry.'