Be passionate now, be at peace later. If you have something you could get passionate about, go for it. Peace is nice but it can be boring and offers no rewards. I have no passion and my life is...|||My biggest weakness is my bed, once I lay down I can't move for at least 10 hours and I usually don't go to bed until 6am...|||Thank you for this. Truely.|||Mother: ENFJ Father: ISTP Younger Sister: ENFJ Older Half-brother: INFP or ENFP?|||My mother.|||Copy and paste, and I used two.|||-Web comics -Lurking around this forum  -The health benefits of nicotine -The Singularity|||I'm feeling disappointed in myself. Also annoyed because I just had to use a g and that particular key on my keyboard is broken.|||Whether you are arguing for or against religion, I see it like this; I'm right, you're wrong, agree with me or you're a fool. Most people who hate religion tend to be just as preachy as those who...|||I would ask why.|||I do not argue with children. Grow up and try to have a debate without resorting to disrespect and insults. Then I will respond.|||You cannot disprove God anymore than I can prove it. Questioning is all we can do but we will never know because something like God cannot be proven or disproven, you say it's just a construct of the...|||What do you mean 'you people'? HM?  I'm indeed standoffish, but it's not because I want to be, I personally won't voice my opinion to someone who can't take criticism, I've never been called...|||Never study or do my work... I get distracted and forget.|||I never claimed that the desire was a conscious one, or I didn't mean to. If you are not consciously selfish, you are subconsciously selfish. As my father once said; 'Put a toy between two toddlers...|||You are entitled to your own opinion, I'm not offended. How often do you want to do something that offers no reward? Never. I believe you might think too highly of people, we do not just want to do...|||I wish I weren't an awkward idiot in the real world.|||Yes. I sometimes even feel the need to lay down. Nothing saps my energy quicker than emotions, I would rather do manual labor.|||It's complicated. Good or bad everything has some sort of selfish motive, but I didn't mean to imply we are purely selfish. I do mean to imply that underneath it all we are all a little bit ugly....|||No, I understand now, thank you. I never said people weren't good, they are just selfish, which I guess could be considered bad to most.|||So you agree? I am merely saying that is how our mind works. Your argument doesn't make sense to me... I apologize.|||But you are doing it because you enjoy doing it. Not because it's right. The pleasure in doing something you think is right is your motive. I also believe there are other motives you might just not...|||thewindlistens, you sir, are a liar, to me or yourself I cannot say.|||Selfish, I wish we were capable of being selfless but we always have ulterior motives when being kind, it's usually to score points with another person, God, society, whoever.  My desire to be...|||I like to be right and I like to argue. Most other people do too.|||Ha. I'll start one and charge a 10 dollar monthly fee. I will probably make a 100 dollars a month if I am extremely lucky.|||I wonder if anyone will respond?|||I can't talk to people, I'm awkward at first. I am way to detached from reality, all the time. I spend 80% of my day staring off into space instead of doing my work or developing healthy social...|||I don't fear death, I used to, but I would like to know what happens. If nothing happens and I just rot, what do I care? I'll be dead. If something does happen, awesome, assuming I don't burn in a...|||I have 2 friends, not really close to them. They got into smoking pot and drinking and it pretty much consumed their life and while I enjoy it from time to time, it isn't all I like to do or think...|||I can't be or have not been angry with anyone for more than a day or most of the time a few hours. Holding a grudge requires a lot more commitment and energy than I can muster. Forgive and forget, to...|||I can't handle energetic people, and they seem to always be happy. I hate it when they think I am depressed and have to approach me out of pity. Some girl once ask for my phone number and I later...|||Little Girl: Mommy! Some boy at school pulled my hair. Mom: Oh, honey, he must like you! Little Girl: Hmm...|||It really bugs me that people have this problem when I can't get a single girlfriend. I resent you all, but I get where you are coming from. :>|||Change the subject.|||Not crazy about mint. I like it plain when it's hot and with lemon when it's cold.|||I only drink green tea, but I love it, hot or cold. I don't have it as much as I would like... I should buy some tomorrow.|||Sometimes I will look back on conversations and wonder if I was unknowingly being mocked or messed with. Does that count?|||I know how to find out. Go die. Simple, right?|||We all don't know are selves as much as we think we do. Someone once told me that male Feelers tend to want to believe they are Thinkers. How much research have you committed to this?|||Thinkers and Feelers think differently, but they can be intellectually equal. Thinking as an inferior function does not make you less intelligent.|||I cannot prove it or disprove it. I would like to believe so, though. It is highly unlikely, I will give you that.|||The mind plays tricks, you have to remember all of the bad as well. The person you are talking so fondly of threw you aside without any remorse, she almost immediately started dating again, then she...|||It's funny how someone who dumped you because they were bored, accused you of not valuing the relationship.|||I feel your pain. My mother is the same way.|||It's been a few years since I've cried, but a few movies have had me fighting off tears.|||Is someone who can turn your friends against you and destroy your self-esteem with a song terrifying? Yes.|||This is terrifying.|||Introverts are probably all misunderstood. INTJs seem to be saying that they think differently than others in a way they can't explain. I think you all might have a problem understanding others if...|||Your post is more pointless than the one you are criticizing. Stay on topic. I am determind to learn more about INTJs and all I've learned so far is you all think you're right and determinded to let...