'Bars are still the best. Just make sure you go to the bar beforehand and check that it is quiet enough and that the lighting sets the proper vibe/mood.  Have one or two alternatives in case the...|||What is the meaning of this? About what are you asking us if we have any idea why it happens?  - Why does grey creates no emotions in people? - Why are your grandparents complaining? - Why...|||Picky indeed. Although I think I have a lot of people who are in my second circle of friends (they would be people I am content to see occasionally, whose face and name I remember, and who I have...|||I find most people are interested in the random stuff I read (news, science, ...). Generally my strategy is to isolate a victim at a social gathering and then feed them with this kind of information....|||Why did people derail this thread?!  I was going to rub my intimate parts while reading the answers people gave. Ah! :crying:|||Why do you think I (and the rest of us) should care if YOU like INTPs or not?  Are you trying to do some emotional blackmailing to us? Emotional blackmail INTPs? Are you seriously hoping one of us...|||You want do date some other guy when you are in an exclusive relationship? I don't think you understand what exclusive means indeed (neither did your guy, mind you).  On a side note, it is...|||Nyes.|||Yes, it's a sextant which was used by navigators.  It seems to me that it's more related to exploring than thinking - so it might not be the best choice. We are clearly one of the most...|||I hate babies but I think young kids are cool (5+ y.o). Now that me and my siblings are all adults and living our own lives, I can say that my parents are very happy to see us every time we gather...|||Yes, same. People complain(ed) I have no facial expressions and they can't say if I'm happy or not.  What's funny is to see how much it makes people happy when I actually have a genuine facial...|||I have done it for around 5 years but I'm poor now, so I have to stop doing it. I did software development from home but it didn't work as well as I had hoped in the end (it was a business that I...|||I do that as well, although not to the point of being prejudiced and closed (hopefully none of us do).  I will normally try to have a nice, polite chat with anyone who approaches me and I will...|||Because so many people say they never dated, I used Urban Dictionary (I know!) to get the definition:  Of a couple, to be in the early stages of a relationship where they go out on dates to find...|||As a European, Trump seems like a massive (bad) joke.  Heck, my mind can conceive people voting for Hitler - he was an asshole too, but not a clown, and the situation was particularly bad in...|||It's great in theory but as others have pointed out, it's just not practical.  I think the education system is being abandoned by society though for a variety of reason, as in: I have the...|||My point is that your moral standards aren't high.  YOU - as an individual - hold them in high esteem, because they are YOUR own moral standard, and so hopefully you value them highly. But by...|||I have high moral standards as well, they just don't necessarily care of casual sex as much as yours.  I think you really meant to say I have traditional moral standards, possibly religious...|||It's called Friends with Benefits.  The still want to live with me is bullshit, and guaranteed this won't happen for any combination of the following reasons: she will change, you will change,...|||To be realistically competitive with other people who only specialise, or to be proficient, you have to specialise in one thing unfortunately (not talking about hobbies here).  It's a bit of an...|||I can predict things people are going to say based on what they said in a conversation, and I often know the conversation is heading.  I have seen this mentioned many times in the description of...|||I hope he can still tell you anything and everything to do with a computer... Otherwise you are dating a jock!|||Women/men would generally say I am. Maybe 7/10 if I were to guess - so probably a hot-ish potato (though I suppose you have to like long hair, so I'm pretty niche in that regard).  Currently...|||You said it!|||[...][/QUOTE]We will tolerate your rudeness, because you look pretty.|||I need someone to suck my dick.  Beyond that, it doesn't seem to me that INTPs are particularly fond of relationships - whether it is friendships or romantic. We seem to be one of the types that...|||You are lying to yourself, and them.  I took a different approach and explained to people that I just never contact people usually, but that it doesn't necessarily mean I don't care.  It's worked...|||No, I can't relate to this, sorry.|||I agree with everything you said - essentially I don't think type should be the starting point at least.  That said, I'm not the OP, but I'd be interesting in meeting an INTP girl myself - maybe...|||They were scared: AAaaaaaaah!?  What the hell is ahh anyway - what was the intonation?  Better yet, drink and tell us what you did. I will tell you what I think as an INTP.|||This is so important.  People DRAIN me.  If I decide to spend some time with someone (because there are just so many interesting things to do in life rather than talk to people), then it means I...|||What's wrong with them in your experience? Genuine question.|||Your post made me laugh.  On the plus side, you can knit small jumpers for your cats. They will appreciate that.  Who the hell wants to meet INTPs anyway? You're probably not losing much. We're...|||I will reiterate what I said in my first post: I think you need to cut your losses.  Instead of wondering What could be if, just look at What is now. To me, it seems unhealthy.  Will the...|||I made the mistake ONCE of getting back with an ex girlfriend, breaking one of my core rules (never go back with an ex, because people don't change, because the problems you had in the relationship...|||Yes, when I'm drunk too (and when I've had time to energise).  When I'm drunk, I talk to random people, dance with random people, give high five to everyone, am killing it with women, laughs at...|||Job hunting is just annoying, boring, repetitive, dumb, full of bullshit. Give me your fucking job already, I know I'm more than qualified.  The worst in all this is that - for how hard you think...|||I'm glad I'm not at school any more (older) because it sounds unnecessary silly and complicated. To be fair, I was single and my hand was my best companion during school. No regrets, although I...|||I was in a similar situation with a (now) ex girlfriend... If he says he is busy on a specific weekend, just ask him when his next free weekend is, as you want to do something together.  Depending...|||I've got two tips:  - Drink alcohol, but this might not help for work  - When you talk to people, ask them questions about themselves. People love to hear the sound of their own voice, try to ask...|||Danced at 4am in the middle of the street when it was cold and snowing outside. I was coming back from a night out, drunk but happy.|||I suspect that what he means by You are innocent is It's not your fault what is happening right now, it's me and my bullshit... I need to sort some shit out..  I think when he says I AM...|||So you tell a guy who likes you that he should see other women. Then he sees other women, you get jealous and you tell him I met someone. Why is he distant now, I wonder? (I hope you made the whole...|||Just hang out with other weirdos then. It shouldn't be too difficult to find some.  I would say, though, that you might want to express yourself as you want more if you are worried about people...|||I've moved to another country... so I see my brothers/sister/parents once a year for Christmas.  I enjoy seeing my close family however the whole gift thing feels forced, especially when everyone...|||It's not hard, proof-based science... More of a pseudoscience or empirical science like economics/psychology are (as anything based on the observation of human behaviours will ever be,...|||Chill out people, we're here to talk.  It's clear that the rise of obesity is due to our more sedentary lifestyles and highly processed foods. You see it in pretty much every country that gets...|||My statement really has always been: If I agree that your belief is reasonable, then you agree that my belief is reasonable too.  While people will rarely disagree with that statement - they will...|||I've got a bit of padding (which I'm trying to lose - but nobody can really tell if I don't wear a super tight top).  I'm surprised of the results, I expected more overweight people amongst INTP...|||Good song, the full album is epic too.  Mechina - On the Wings of Nefeli https://youtu.be/9TisWoTVehc?t=18m19s'