'I read this thread after a year. Wicky, your post makes much more sense now :).  Still having the same stupid problem, except I have just stopped caring.|||ISTJ, Hands down. The ideal boyfriend I want to date. :)|||I havent done a posting in a long time, but i wanted to answer this one. NO, please dont change yourself. Because I love ENFP guys, or guys that show emotion/tenderness/affection in general. Where...|||heh, i spose im a bad student for coming on here to check the postings instead of studying. in my case yes. i never liked school, couldn't care about learning unless it serves a practical purpose....|||I'm not an ESFJ but I do know three ESFJs- my mother,brother and former roommate. Kind of like what you described, they are distraught when people don't like them, always going out of their way to do...|||THANKS REZ :blushed::shocked::proud: THIS WAS FREAKING AWESOME ♥|||Really? Because the last guy I had a crush on[and still like, to be honest] was an ISFJ. I like ISFJs :)|||I was told that in school and by some ESFx friends. They don't understand that cold and heartless is more than just being all over the place with your feelings. Silly people don't realize that...|||Good luck with everything:happy: Hey, if he doesn't start it, you need to do it. One day, just give him a big hug and a kiss. Few boyfriends would ever say no to that:crazy:|||Ohh heyy;; Well I'm an ENTJ, and for me, I live by the Actions speak louder than words. So I understand where he is coming from. Don't tell him anything, just put your arms around him and kiss...|||if you dislike their personalities, they probably wouldn't like you in the first place. besides, if they love you they can't be that bad.|||it sucks =(|||same here. *jealous*|||i need more INFP friends -in real life- :crazy:|||Interesting, so this is how the other side feels. In my case, I'm the one who wants more-than-friends, and then hates it when people are close-minded to the possibility of dating me. I'd not be so...|||I'm jealous of ENFPs and ohh what do i do, everybody likes me.. Not fair. Seriously. :angry:|||All ISTJs are not like this. One of my closest friends is ISTJ. I don't know though, he may be a mature one. Aside from him, I've got other ISTJ friends and they're really nice. To conclude, it is...|||Damn right. It's not cynical, it's realistic. Thanks:happy:|||This is an inspiring story. My problem is though, that i DON'T want to like poeple :crazy:|||A Hero Lies in You, by Mariah Carey|||huhh? i like INFJs  maybe those people dont understand u oh, & welcome!|||ESTJ :laughing: Te+Si..no, it HAS to be done THIS way so, i vote ESTJ, rather than istj, bc estjs are more in ur face about it:crazy:|||then probably ENFJ. i mean, if i was on a project, id probably divide the tasks and stuff and then tell you guys to give me the work on time. the passive-aggressive..heh,screw that. id either be in...|||oh goodness  this sounds like something i might do, if i didnt get a hold of myself. she could be ENTJ..|||and they DAMN WELL SHOULD. well done.:happy:|||why is this thread still going on? *pokes* Like I said, just because most people aren't attracted to you[that's YOUR opinions, not mine], doesn't mean NO ONE is. Because, like i said, it narrows...|||that's not REAL love, it's fake love. be yourself.|||hey y'all i don't know what you guys are complaining about. INFPs are *sexy.* both men *and* women. then again, ENTJ or whatever personality I am if not ENTJ  women aren't too common either. it...|||If she doesn't like you, that's her problem. Don't sit around trying to figure out what she doesn't like because someone else will love you exactly for who you are. If they don't then that's their...|||You raise some good points. Well ENTJs can be creative too, I for one love art. But you are right about the criticizing. I am extremely critical of people. Some ENTJ females, such as myself, don't...|||RANDOMNESS is THE BEST.  and so is *fun* =D lol, i guess sticking to the law can help[but breaking the rules is fun!]|||huhwha? the ISTPs i know in real life are FUN.  mean? nope. more like Mr. Nice Guy, but badass and fun to be with. they live to break the rules, it's freaking awesome. that's my 2 c.|||they are forgetting that Se is our teriary/energizing function.|||very thoughtful of you to generalize. INFPs can be a pain in the arse, so can all types. but yeah, go ahead and single out ENTJ. jeez.|||yup, INFP during my misanthropic stage. i wouldn't be surprised if i was INFP now, but i dont have Si and Te is my first.|||I tell myself the first sentence every day, and you are absolutely right..people aren't worth all that time and energy. I guess activity friends is great. Like..people to go watch football with, go...|||I guess so. I need to stop expecting and caring so much, it's just difficult.I was a misanthrope for the longest time, and hate is another form of love. Really? Well maybe it does exist then..I...|||Apollo Celestio I don't know.-.|||Hmm, meditating..I tried it once but I lose focus really easily and get distracted and start noticing the littlest things around me. It's not very effective. Being hard on myself somewhat helps, but...|||Well I like myself I think..but there are a lot of reasons why I don't match up either.  I'm not giving up on myself, and you're right.  still...i kind of wish it would happen ._. thanks,...|||I don't like either of the options. The best thing is to not care. I hate these..feelings anyways, but ot caring is the best way to go. And if I do care, tell myself to stop being so silly.|||you got this part right =_= go XNTJ willpower ^_^|||this is funny! it all sounds nice, but that's what has started my problem in the first place.|||owlwaltz =/ i guess i give off bad vibes..not too sure how that works, but i can see what you're saying. i do accept myself though. mike but is guilt better than being vulnerable? guilt is...|||I wish I never liked people. Every time I do, I'm let down or proven wrong. Don't get me wrong, I do have friends, but that's only after..like 4 years or so that I trust them that much. I wish I...|||ENTJs can most certainly have self confidence issues, it is not something that is restricted to a certain type. ENTJs can also be  lazy, unmotivated, etc. It's def possible. In regards to type...|||I like something practical that I can use. Sentimental stuff like Hallmark things aren't bad, but practical stuff wins. Whatever, like hoenstly I don't really care, it is the thought that counts.|||Too stubborn is exactly why you love ENTJs. Admit it.|||You hit the nail on the head dude. Well done.|||ENTJs are not always bossy loudmouths. Besides, what's wrong with being a bit stubborn, somewhat loud, and opinionated? It's called being yourself. And bossy is called *taking charge*. If you don't...'