'I have dated a few INFJs, including my current partner of 6 years. I can probably answer some of your questions..  From a compatibility perspective, some of the pros and cons I observed were: - We...|||HGy - Can you share a few more details about the situation? What type of job is this? Is it high-skilled position that is heavily dependent on education and/or prior experience? Or is it something...|||Hi everyone - I'm back after a 3-year break and am happy to see that the forum is still alive and active. Cheers!|||so what's your point?  are you kidding?  when you say __ do you mean __ ?  .. it depends on how you look at it.  interesting..|||1. An intellectual equal 2. Understands me deeply 3. Growth-oriented mindset 4. Challenge. I don't respect people who don't stand up to me. 5. Engaging conversation   6. Sex|||+1 (entj 8w7)  It's a practical matter for me.  I'm not a materialistic person, and my greatest concern is around the freedom, independence, and opportunities to do what I want to do (and...|||I've always thought that it would be super interesting to date all the MBTI types (albeit not simultaneously), and I actually attempted to do this (for science :)) at one point. I was able to get...|||Interesting.  So, does it cost you *less* energy to interact with friends and loved ones than it does for acquinteances and strangers?  I imagine that this (energy management/rationing) is something...|||Mind control. On a massive scale.|||Your score was 91 of 100.   This puts you in the category of the high Machs, people who do not belive in the goodness of the world and that because that it must be manipulated, people who...|||Very accurate for me. I took it twice, and got: 8w7 5w4 3w4 8w7 7w8 3w4|||No.  For me, the N/S makes a much bigger difference than the T/F.  I have many NF friends whom I get along very well with, and I seem to keep on getting into relationships with INFJs (always have...|||Scruffy: This is an awesome thread.  It has really improved my understanding the enneagram.  Thanks!  At this point, I'm confident that I'm a 8x7 sx/so.  (The tests confirm this, for what it's...|||Looking at the motivation section of the sx/sp vs sx/so could be pretty telling. sx/sp: to know the heart, reconcile inner conflict, form a secure union. sx/so: to impact others, question...|||I'm an 8w7 sx/so.  My tri-type is either 8-7-3 or 8-5-3.. (I tend to score higher on 7 than on 5).  Is there a database of tri-type descriptions somewhere?|||I score as an 8w9, and think it's very accurate.  Although.. I also identify pretty strongly with 8w7.|||+1.  Spot on.  In my experience (with INTJ friends, co-workers, and romantic relationships), INTJ's tend to be more thorough than ENTJ's in planning and analysis.  INTJ's are also more conflict...|||The Narcissist :blushed: Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging  74% Attention-desiring 40% Other-directedness 56% Attachment-desiring 55% Emotionality 67% Romance-seeking 65% Range 98% Secureness|||ISFJ and INFJ is like night and day to me..  I've always clashed with ISFJ's at work and school, and don't have any as friends.  In contrast, I get along great with INFJ's, and have happily dated 3...|||I would absolutely beg, and especially if I see it as a temporary situation that I'll eventually be able to escape.  It's calculated begging. (Like retreating a piece in a chess game).|||I agree completely.  I've dated a couple of INFJ's, and in each case, they had been interested in me for quite awhile before I had noticed.  However, once I became interested, I began communicating...|||Intelligence, intuition, independence, ambition.  In addition, I prefer someone whom I can learn from (in some respect) and also teach/cultivate.  The potential for mutual growth is very important...|||I'm not angry, I'm just annoyed. :wink:|||I'll play.  http://i38.tinypic.com/t7o7yu.jpghttp://i37.tinypic.com/huqfk2.jpg|||This is a great thread.    Did anyone else notice that all of the (dominant and auxiliary) Te users bailed (lost interest?) after page 2? :)|||I <3 ENTP's.  I'm usually instantly drawn to them, and end up becoming great friends with them.  We can keep each other entertained for hours and hours..  In my experience, ENTJ's and ENTP's also...|||Heh, I've also had relationships with the only two INFJ's I've known..  I like INFJ's because they understand me and challenge me.  They are extremely thoughtful and caring.  They openly display...|||I definitely have a problem (kind of a problem?) with giving unsolicited advice.  I have such an urge to solve others' problems that I usually can't help myself.  This is something that I'm actively...|||I live in a studio apartment in the center of the city.   I prefer a modern, minimalist decor.   I actively remove unnecessary things from my space.   All of my artwork/prints are of people. ...|||This is interesting.  What about giving/receiving advice on our respective projects?  My natural inclination is to come up with solutions and help you solve your problems.  How would you feel if I...|||Rage without focus isn't a strategy|||You should think about why came to this forum in the place.  What were you seeking? What problem(s) were you trying to solve?  It's highly possible that you'll end up finding what you were looking...|||I agree.  Aldo Rayne is an ESTJ.   I recently started watching  Damages.  IMO it's an awesome show.  Very well written, with rich and evolving characters.  The main character, Patty Hewes, is...|||Your Type is: ENTJ  Extraverted: 56% Intuitive: 88% Thinking: 88% Judging: 22%  You are:   moderately expressed extravert|||I'm unsure whether either of these characters are ENTJ or INTJ.  I also posted in the INTJ forum..    I'm also fairly certain that Stringer Bell, my favorite character from The Wire, is an...|||which cognitive function test did you take?|||Mother: ESTJ Father: ISTJ Me: ENTJ  Looking back, this totally makes sense..   I've always felt/known that I was very different from both of my parents, but was still able to communicate clearly...|||.. copy/pasted from the confirmed and guessed thread:|||I <3 ENTP's and INTJ's.  We tend have very deep intellectual connections, and can keep each other entertained forever. I also get along quite well with ENFJ's, INFJ's, and ENFP's|||I start by determining the person's dominant (and maybe auxiliary) functions.  If I can either pinpoint the dominant function or determine the top 2 functions (but not their ordering), then I'll have...|||Both of these characters are contested as either INTJ or ENTJ.  What do you guys think?   Oren Ishii - Kill Bill http://img219.imageshack.us/img219/1604/kb6.jpg   Hans Landa - Inglorious...|||What do you think about Marlo?  ISTJ or INTJ?  and why?|||responded to the wrong thread.. sorry!|||The Wire is my favorite show.  Ever.  I agree with you that Lester Freamon is definitely an INTJ.   I feel that McNulty is heavily driven by Fi and Se, and thus I think he is an ISFP/ESFP.  What...|||Shaping the future.|||I'm almost exactly the same.|||Thanks to everyone for your responses so far.  As we can see from the interim results:  - INTP's and ENTP's are horrible people and should NOT be trusted! :tongue:  - Whereas ENTJ's are honest...|||Thanks everyone for your responses!  This is my first thread on PC and it's looking like a great success thus far.  You guys are truly awesome! :crazy:  I recently began dating an INTJ, and it's...|||This is pretty spot on.  I shouldn't have even bothered to bold items since they were almost all true.  SCOEI - (2.9% of women; 3.9% of men) not afraid of doing the wrong thing, speaks up...|||Good point.  It's certainly worth developing.  However, I feel that there are plenty of opportunities to practice as it is.  I'd rather encounter these experiences while doing something useful.'