'I love the way you put that.  :laughing:|||I know exactly what you're going through. I've gone through it several times. I don't get how you can form a relationship with someone, then drop it like nothing at the drop of a hat. How can you...|||Yes! It's like that at my job! My asshole boss never seems to notice what I'm doing right (the bigger picture), but nags nags nags on insignificant things. He also assume too much for the worse. I...|||About my frustrations, mostly. They come out as metaphors a lot, even though I don't consciencely try. I write poetry without trying :laughing:|||This.|||I love the honesty here. I was in kind of the opposite situation you're in. I always wanted the NT-like people to notice me for my wits. I just didn't want them to think of me as another sheep....|||I work with juveniles and I use mind games all the time with them.. But it's for good. It's to help them. Works like a charm too. As for doing them in the dating game, why would you do that to...|||could you give me an example on how she makes you feel stupid?|||Oh. Well, I've heard INTJ's say their Fi sneeks up on them, and it makes them feel (no pun intended) like a child. I haven't fully developed an opinion on that. It sounds interesting though. I agree...|||If you're a male that doesn't look like a Calvin Klein model, good luck.|||You'd pobably have better luck posting this in the INTJ thread.|||Response to 1: Well, malpractice and sweeping it under the rug. They didn't want the county to know about it, they did end up filing an incident report, after somone said something. but left out the...|||Agreed, but I think I need to clarify: when someone administers meds to the wrong people on multiple occasions, and instead of calling the doctor, the clients are instructed to puke, and nothing gets...|||And that's what still baffles me about working in the non-profit sector. There shouldn't be a nature of business. We are here to help people! And that's the only reason I'm continuing my education:...|||The party incident, could you send me a link about that? I never heard about that. And the killing, are you talking about Euronymous? That was... Kinda planned. Not very well though...|||The whole concept of being dominant is really silly. Don't strive to be that all power guy. There is no guy. We all need each other. Just be yourself.  I'm more outspoken than most people I know,...|||Sounds like this kind of thing is common in group homes. Thanks for sharing. It definitely adds perspective.|||Good to hear that you found a better job! I don't mind incompetence, just as long as it's not coupled with unwarranted confidence (arrogance). That's my boss, basically. It's like, How can you be...|||Something tells me your supervisor got the message. Sorry about your grandfather and uncle.  :sad:|||I tend to get along with ESFJ's very well, It's the ESFP's I end up butting heads with. I live with two ESFPs, and an ESFJ, so I gotta a pretty good idea when I spot them, not that I consciously type...|||Things are very seldom, if ever, what they seem in the work place. And I have yet to  see anyone in a management position that is truely competent, and is actually fair. It's even worse in the...|||The only season I don't care for is summer-- too hot. Fall only last for like two weeks where I live, so I would definitely want to have a longer fall.|||I'm surprised that no one mentioned how horrible the music is... Because it is.|||This, basically. Emo is insincere and exaggerated at best. No one wants to be an outcast, it's just happens, and leads you wondering how you got there.|||Ditto.|||Kind of. I know I imagine long, detailed coversations, but when I try to remember them, it's like reading the summary at the end of the chapter in a textbook... Only, it's not boring.|||No worries. I think it's cute that you two are relating so well.  :wink:|||I used to go through zombie apocalypse scenerios, where I was my crushes 'night in shining armor'. I would plan out/daydream how I would save her, get weapons, etc.|||I know whatcha mean.|||Haha I get those too!|||Good luck with that.  :wink:|||57276|||I tend to go through scenerios in my head, like getting into a serious relationship with them, getting married, having kids, living together in a crystal castle in the sky, etc. I can't help it....|||I'm stealing this.|||... Like carrying a thousand pounds on your back, up a mountain, in a foreign country where you don't speak the language, yet you can still understand everyone, but they can't understand you.|||Resident Evil 6|||That's such an INFP response.  :laughing:|||Bullying, lying, fakeness.  All these stupid social/dating games people play, like when they purposely ignore you just to see what happends, or pretend to like you, then stand you up. I'm past the...|||Freshly brewed coffee.|||Stoner!|||We also like to speak for ourselves, thank you very much. >:(|||Mom- ESFJ; we get along well for the most part. She's the only one who truely understands me. Younger sister(17)- ESFP; I hate her 95% of the time. She makes me face palm... A lot. Older...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5a5fHMlb4V0|||Agreed. He's not saying anything new. I think he was trying very hard, perhaps too hard, to get your attention by sounding vaguely insulting, then keep it by forcing in humor. Whenever you take the...|||What do you mean?|||Speaking of sensationalism...  Morgan Freeman's brilliant take on what happened yesterday: TURN OFF THE NEWS - Democratic Underground   And the lowest of the low...  Amid Newtown tragedy,...|||something good post. I'm totally with you. I first heard what happened on an online artical. My heart sank. I like what you said about having a shut off button. I couldn't watch the news about it...|||Pretty sure this man is INTJ    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VFxN00yRvcI    If you imagine a thing happening in your head, you will make it happen - that is, if your willpower is strong...|||Awwww I'm sorry. The reason I ask is because You could really stare into someone's soul.|||I'm good at math, but not the hard kind.'