'I really think everyone has (and needs) survival strategies in dealing with the wider world. Some of those will be viewed poorly,  and that is another chapter. Use ones that are effective for...|||outlooks can/will change thru time, experience, circumstance, etc. hormones will color a persons personality (as in testosterone). all these things have to get into some level of generalization in...|||look at what you are really talking about; a sharp focus of attention, application of learning, reliable source of endorphin +adrenaline, safe release of emotion +energy, enough free-form...|||the author of the OP clearly has an axe to grind. leave it at that.   there are better things to do, than to wallow in the mud.|||91026  Grooveshark - Free Music Streaming, Online Music|||the game of life. -or maybe it should be called, the horror movie of life-  in order to win, all one has to do, is give yourself permission to change the persona you have been cast into. (or...|||O.M.G.   if you only knew|||90755  i have each memory preserved, but you may want to take a seat, it could take a bit to pull the exact one up for you.|||give them a moment to escape reality, (the one that is overwhelming at present) bundle them up, drag them out of the house, hit the nice coffee place, and visit your local museum/art gallery/main...|||firstly, i would tell them to stop playing at a game where they can't afford the stakes. 2nd, take a while to learn how people work +interact, in general, and the expectations of diff types and...|||ok try this on for size:  there are some tasks that simply dont engage your attention in a positive way... preoccupy that restless part of your brain (you know what i mean) give it something...|||88281|||An Early Frost. Out of Africa. Dead Poets Society. Torch Song Trilogy.|||the best way i can convey some hard concepts, and a few top ideals.  keep a positive/assuring/uplifting thought at hand, at all times..  to pull out at instant of uncertainty/fear that is counter...|||i have always said/believed, that fear is a poor motivator. (not by measure of outcome or expedience, rather in true costs) intimidation in this context, is me using fear to motivate some others...|||hi and welcome|||whats so funny ---->nothing what are you looking at ---->nothing what are you laughing at ---->it's not important tell me whats wrong ----->its fine you will feel better if you talk...|||in short, its burn-out, becuz of not being involved in or feel a part of, something grander where we would find meaning.|||we so want to rely on others, to validate us/ideas/feeling/all that. and to have somebody to lead or ensure responsibilities are kept up. we all do it, i do it... that will prevent being a whole...|||this is as well done and to the points as possible.. can only add that i loathe being spotlighted, or a fuss made, any of that where overly a center of attention.,, just embarassing/awkward...|||i was in a rural area, ordered the books, and did my own CBT program... though no feedback, and possibly completely wrong... seems to have helped.. i now only ever tell the dr's at clinic i have...|||thats pretty much the whole dilemma right there.. thought loops with no end.. obsessed with being in a relationship, then wanting our alone time/space, sabotage relationship, devastation, chase the...|||im not for sure if i want to bring this up, but, hmm lets see what happens... when i was 16, my best/only/friend shot himself.. 1982, that image is forever etched into my memory.. my dad had gotten...|||but it's a rock  Physical touch is the one! , somewhat, quality time.  Words of affirmation and receiving gifts both rank very low for me.  I am often, expressing of how I feel for others in...|||fwd: hi ---------- Original Message ---------- From: R -yahoo.com> To: n -netzero.net> Subject: hi Date: Sun, 30 Sep 2012 01:46:56 -0700 (PDT) -->2:46am local time  the  puppy has gotten all...|||thats sooo hysterical.. not to mention, my good friend had the album, and we would play out and quote from this all the time... *showing my age*  ohhh, such memories... mega cool.. peace.|||dog gammitt... had a two seperate nightmare night, again.. acting it out, sleep walking, and burned holes in the blanket, again... the whole deal all over, even after this latest tranquilizer showed...|||its anxiety, that simple... adrenalin, stress hormones, blah blah blah.. being where and how you are comfortable in theory puts you in a position of advantage, its that we are not in habit of/ or...|||everyone go by Change.org - Start, Join, and Win Campaigns for Change once a day, and see what petitions strike your interest. thats a start, then make one. send to your state rep. peace all...|||infpblog is awesome and productive as ever. right on...  in my teenie tiny corner of existence, i like the theory that its pretty much the same as always, only our knowledge of, and perception...|||i like joe vs the volcano ..... its cheery when ya feel down, some great lines and relatable moments, and the more times ya watch it, the more of the underlying metaphors you see and get.|||this seems fairly decent, again, put your face out there on several, be upfront of intent, ppl are where ever ya find em.. https://www.onegoodlove.com/  we all are social animals, and have some...|||we all have been in this negative/hopeless mindset at some point. as has anyone who is beaten on by society, or by some demographic different  suffice to say, it creates more problems than it...|||mostly how it grew /changed from the mindset and statement of where you started it a couple days ago. and the intelligence/intellect, soul searching , to establish, im at this point, anyone relate??...|||bring along space-bred chickens... that lay honeycomb shaped eggs, from carbon nano tubes in their feed....|||aha, dennys,,, back in the stone age, it was village inn around here...  i see food as a boring necessity, the same everytime, and there is far better things to spend money on... keep an industrial...|||usually, if there is no break or respite, i loose my temper, make a sceene, and then walk off. and it reinforces that ppl should back away and let me be. (and then i feel bad or embarassed, for being...|||thats a mental loop we get into. i sooo dont want to make the wrong choice, and run a list of pro and con, and but then which is really more weight or merit, all the facts (as far as i can actually...|||andrew  two quick things, first, look at the flock of support to anything/everything you post, that draw is ppl value you as a person.  2nd, look at all the interest and diversity of ideas in all...|||could well be the I hate you, dont leave me scenario... essentially poor/undeveloped coping skills.  the ppl here will have some insights, and as it plays out with some Q/A, get a closer idea|||im hoping you realize how shallow, insecure, petty,  follow the leader mentality, of 99% of LBGT community is.. no matter how much we declare otherwise, and to being so unique. on and on, all...|||you are in a rut. move to SantaFe, freelance work for the galleries and studio's. rent a casita in the foothills. see the opera.  there are more free spirits than can be counted. where is your...|||that is what i had said about not having two agendas.. you are desperately hoping, and lining yourself up to be, the next love interest. since that isnt to be, you settle for being the friend and...|||The coldness of the air, the clamminess of my skin, and the dryness in my mouth and on my face - continental inlands are not quite my native biome. Though I no longer have a home in Florida, I do...|||i over stepped bounds -sorry all..|||aha.. dont fall behind then :)|||http://www.woohim.com/wootags/hoover.png?time=1349232434 http://www.woohim.com|||my uncle lived in oak park, anything outside the beltway (ive seen) is nice/decent, well not so much toward joliet maybe. we had to go down to the train station when there. its all snobitude anyway. ...|||masterpiece classic.... upstairs downstairs.... they are replaying the second series here now, and the 40th aniv of first series.|||yes, i feel ya, been there and done it, ppl can be mega cruel.. it sucks, but that will pass. remember, there is 101 trolls online, and sites status wont prevent all. most (a huge percentage,) are...'