'Itx92s hard for me to put this into words exactly, because my thoughts on this are still abstract. What Ix92m about to write is going to sound contradictory to what most people think of when it comes to...|||I without a doubt think there is a clash on a cognitive level because there is no shared cognition and the temperament is completely different. As an example, even though an INTP and INTJ don't share...|||I want to make it known that I don't dislike SJs generally. While SJs have a general sense to them, there is a big difference between an ESFJ and ISTJ as an example. I've actually been getting close...|||I dislike political correctness because it doesn't bring an objective balance to the table. You're asking people to only look at the positive traits without giving any regard to the potential...|||The biggest issue that I have with ESFJs is their constant need to criticize every aspect of your life. Even if you change that quality about yourself, theyx92ll still find a reason to hold it over...|||I'm 29 and kid free. I have no future plans to change that. I'm not a kid person and I enjoy my freedom greatly.|||I would agree with this as an INTJ who has a heavy use of Extroverted Thinking. I don't think passive is a word that I would use to describe myself or the people who typically interact with me. I...|||I think people have their own individualized criteria for what’s “good enough”. As you’ve stated already, perfection doesn’t exist. Perfection itself is idealistic and can never truly be obtained,...|||I had to read this a couple of times, because I wasn't sure of your angle at first. I do agree that INTJs should have a realistic understanding of what's possible in a relationship or what can be...|||I always find these kind of angles on personality types to make more sense within Enneagram. I wouldn't call myself a melancholic INTJ, because I do have a lot of drive and determination to be...|||I spend a lot of time trying to get to know who somebody is and how that’s going to work for me over a span of time. I’ve noticed that other people are comfortable following their attraction and then...|||665370    Highly intelligent and thoroughly unconventional, Strategists might be known to the people around them as “bookworms” or “geeks.” Although they couldn’t care less about these labels,...|||Here are my results:  653274|||When you get some time, look into an Enneagram 5. They integrate to an 8 and disintegrate to a 7. While I think it's possible for an INTJ to have a core 8, I would say it's more common as a fix. You...|||I'm going to bring another system into this. I find that INTJ Enneagram 1s fit the description of a perfectionist INTJ very well, but you'll find that your Enneagram 5 INTJs don't really care much...|||I would argue that this is the manifestation of inferior Ne. When this function is in the inferior position, it can have moments of being uncertain or doubting what could happen between A to Z. In...|||From what I've noticed compared to myself and my ENTJ friends, is that they value or need action far more than I'm willing to do in the beginning stages of making a decision. In fact, it's not...|||I agree with this. My Enneagram gives me a bit of an ENTJ vibe too (8 and 3 fix).|||I find physical touch or affection to be an intimate experience that is shared with very few people. It's an experience that I enjoy with a partner and is probably my best way of expressing...|||I'm going to bring in some Socionics. INTJs (ILI) and ESFJs (ESE) are relations of conflict:  The most difficult type of relations. Partners try to impose their own views on each other and don't...|||That would be correct, yes. This is something that Socionics attempts to revise in their system, as they theorize that introverts leading with a perceiving function should be considered perceivers....|||The general concept will apply, but for a more in-depth understanding you have to account for the switch in functions and temperament of course.|||You’re simply explaining the difference between an INTP leading with a judging function and an INTJ leading with a perceiving function. The reason why INTPs seek for answers comes down to their...|||I suppose this is where INTJs vary. If I were to attempt something and to not succeed, I would try to solve that problem until I found a solution. I'm far too competitive and perfectionist with...|||Can you elaborate on this so I can understand the context, because I even have a very different idea of how this works in INTJs. The if it ain't broke, don't fix it attitude is a quality I see in...|||Similar interests, completely different approach to life.|||I personally wouldn't make a investment in that if you're seeking more than a friendship with her. In fact, I probably wouldn't make an investment even if I was seeking a friendship until her...|||I don't hate INFPs and I usually get along well with them, but there is a quality about dominant Fi personality types that can get on my nerves, especially when it comes to talking about major...|||It's because these two types can usually sit down and explore ideas for hours. Both types lead with a perceiving function and spend more time abstracting ideas than forming conclusions given that Ni...|||It's hard for me to give you an objective answer here, because we're talking about individual values. In this case, as I said in my post, you can show your support by providing actions that show him...|||In my honest opinion, the key to not giving a fuck is knowing exactly who you are and what you expect from yourself. If you're worried about putting yourself out there because of what people think,...|||To be honest, I would rather have a partner who is more understanding than is verbally supportive. I suppose what I'm saying, is that I find words to be pointless and actions to be of far more value....|||It wouldn’t make sense for me to follow traditions with some holidays with me being agnostic. For example, you wouldn’t find me commemorating the birth of Jesus Christ on Christmas day, nor would you...|||I'm not going to be politically correct.  I've yet to meet an ESFJ that I like or let alone respect once I get to know them. I try not to dislike people just because of their personality type, but...|||My general family are sensors except for my sister and myself.|||Yes, I understand that. You're not approaching something that's too complex to understand here. There is a reason why I wrote what I did to you originally. I don't know why you don't understand that...|||I understand what you're saying, even after your reply since this, and once again I think it's full of shit. You don't really understand what you're talking about. If you're tired of people mistaking...|||I'm an INTJ and I was tested in my youth for Autism and I didn't fall on the spectrum, not even close in fact. What you're failing to see here is that there is a difference between selective...|||*Type 1* Action Potential: 1w9-4w5-6w5 SP/SO Daewang: 1w2-6w5-3w4 Femalegamer: 1-5-4 Iceblock: 1w9 Inheritance: 1w9 Jbking: 1w2-3w2-5w6 SP/SO Mindbomb: 1w9-5-3 SX/SO Obstinatesnoop: 1w9 SX...|||I can relate to a lot of things mentioned above, so I'll just make a quick list of how prolonged stress impacts me:     My naturally ability to problem solve becomes hindered and I start to...|||But I'm gay . . .  http://loreleijames.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/sexy-nerd.jpg  http://rs827.pbsrc.com/albums/zz200/Abbys_Road/Use%20Me/drool.gif~c200|||I can find this kind of humor funny, but I don't find myself using it that often. I'm more likely to talk about morbid things from a detached perspective, though.|||As an Ni dominant, I would tell people that I don't experience Ni as being time-based, because the concept of time doesn't really hold importance to me. Although, when I compare my perception to the...|||This.|||Your score was 16 out of a possible 50.   Scores in the 0 - 25 range indicate little or no Autistic traits.|||I've found that both of my male ENTJ friends can be sensitive and yes, even irrational, when you get to know them on a personal level. The one friend whispers when he's talking about his emotions out...|||Perfectly said.    I was going to write something similar to this  in-depth, but I couldn't bring myself to write a novel.|||I agree with this. He's getting all of the attention that he needs from you without having to actually commit to anything long-term. It would best for you to deal with your feelings now and...|||I was professionally tested for Autism and didn't fall on the spectrum, but I went ahead and tried this test anyways.  Your score was 16 out of a possible 50.  Scores in the 0 - 25 range indicate...|||Let's say it's because of your interesting questions . . .'