'http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ag14Z8sAk3Q&feature=related|||No.   Fidelity is about honoring your word and making a commitment to whatever agreement your marriage entails.   You may not be able to control who you are attracted to, but you can control your...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pvEj6Q4UDrg|||I was going to read this thread, but I'm just too lazy.  *shrug* Seriously - once I find an interest, I'll burn myself out on it. No lack of motivation. But, often I'm just content being relaxed....|||If the writer had any humanity left after this cynical series, they would adopt some sort of representative government. Better than dealing with insane inbred people, thank you very much.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bIGkICeZa-Q&feature=relmfu|||Strongly, agree, neutral.  Depends on the woman, really, and not a particular ethnicity. Though there are certain physical aspects I prefer, and even have difficulties without, it really is more...|||Hmm, my dreams are in color.   Sometimes they are lucid, but only really common if I've poked myself to see if I'm awake a few times during the day (a neat little trick).   They rarely, if ever,...|||It's been about 22 years since I read the series, so my memory is a  little hazy. However, Princess of Mars was first, and probably the best,  which is what the movie was based on. Gods of Mars and...|||I believe Maynard James Keenan is one:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j-_a7FzzGps  The deadpan you see is Ni-Ti. If you look at some of our own PerC videos, you see the same thing. Similar...|||Yes, but some people, while loyal, are more likely to show up at the door with a rabbit dangling from their mouth than do as you wish.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cesSRfXqS1Q|||A little fierce, energized, and euphoric.   It must be spring.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uvVTRqIgJ_0&feature=related|||When I give a shit:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A48VUvB6kWE  When I don't:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=55tbmDqyG6I&feature=related|||More goth opera please, thanks.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtnpjcG4-bc|||Hmm, usually there would have been some physical contact before that point and a lot of flirtation. If I'm comfortable and enjoying myself, and see that she is as well, it's no problem and just kind...|||Hmm. From my understanding, 9w1 is the pursuit of peace, comfort, and avoidance of being controlled by means of perfection. This is a bit different than I, who as a 9w8 tends to seek the same but by...|||^^ Nice, still listen to Mechwarrior 2 soundtrack sometimes on the way to work, wishing I was in my Atlas instead.  ...|||*shrug* I'm me. I do my own thing, and care little for labels, or how I fit into society. I stopped caring about such things long ago.  Sometimes people try and label me. More often as of late it's...|||Well, introversion is the largest factor out there. Obviously, extraverts are less likely to spend a lot of time in an online forum. This doesn't explain it all, though.  INFJ's, INFP's, INTJ's and...|||And there's a reason your wife left you, and that's because you're a problem.   She's a single mother - does an unemployed guy who fights with her and demands open relationships fill her needs?...|||Well, it would be a shame to deprive an ENTP out of his lack of self discipline. Wish I could help (actually I do find the idea oddly fascinating), but alas - neither of us are female.|||A perspective shifts, and suddenly one part of the persona emerges while another diminishes? Yes, I have grown very aware of this when it happens. It often surprises me how much of myself comes...|||Gemini Sun, Capricorn Ascendant, Cancer Moon.  I'm told that means that I'm friendly and sensitive, have an intellectual core, am rational and prudent, have a great affinity for nature, and focused...|||Well, what you say is true. If someone is honest, and cares about you, egos should be put aside. Pain is an illusion, and conflict, as long as it comes from the heart, is not necessarily a bad thing....|||Does Jello and/or mud wrestling count?|||Community->Member List->Search Members->Advanced Search.  From here you can search by Enneagram and personality type. Again, the stats I provided were for INFJ's who posted at least once, and had...|||*laugh*  First try I knew something was wrong, but couldn't place it. So I picked 4 cards, and being 2:30 in the morning, I still couldn't place it. 10 minutes of sleepy hnnh? then, oh, duh. ...|||Again, let me pull out some statistics - these are a month old by now:  Of the INFJ's on these forums who have posted at least once, and have shared their Enneagram type:  Type 1: 30 (4.8%)...|||As a side note -  Transgender man gives birth, becoming Britain's first 'male mother'  This at least reduces the need for reincarnation.  And sorry, you have not convinced me that a person...|||I was not calling her a monster. Again, I was saying that what she said was uncalled for, and that is true. Put your money where your mouth is is not a feasible approach in this situation.  I...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gSaH1yaRkzI&feature=related|||And yet you didn't attack the female in this same thread who said the same thing. No, you became exceedingly hostile because a man tried to put himself in a woman's shoes and tried to determine what...|||Yo yourself. Hey yourself. Doing good.. how bout you? ;)  Ni is like having Ne, except we're more boring and focus on things for days instead of split seconds.  We love us too! Hey, we have that...|||Well, if you're going to college, know that isn't the real world either. But, you'll find that the cliques start fading away a bit as people try to enter a new environment. Many hot shits find out...|||Yes, they do say that this reinforces particular ways of thinking to an extent. Just like consciously learning to speak more loudly will give you a bit more confidence over time.  I'm not sure how...|||Hmm, not sure about Eeyore being a 9w8. We're not usually negative people - though this might explain it:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NxCwfRVl1g4&feature=related|||Hmm, nice guys. Have to agree with another poster, nice isn't quite right. Nice implies ass kisser. Good men may succeed in the end, but it is a more difficult path - a path as difficult as the...|||I used to play funny mind games for kicks...  To a guy in an elevator: You know, I thought someone should warn you because it isn't right. We can all read your mind. Yep, that's right *nod* ...|||Dude, yeah. So, I was thinking.. maybe this spring we could head up into the mountains and work on our survival skills. You know, in case Obama is successful. I bought this man trap book, and it's...|||Visceral fat is associated with insulin resistance because it is the cause of insulin resistance, not the effect. Dyslipidemia is caused by excess fat in the liver, not by visceral fat.   Visceral...|||*laugh* Reminds me of a few months ago. I was just handed the management of a datacenter, and my coworker flipped out on me. You could at least appear a LITTLE bit excited!  I guess this is what...|||They're not as uncommon as you probably suspect. But a lot of young women have been educated counter to this in recent years, consider it a right, and haven't actually searched their soul to...|||Not especially. Endomorphs need lots of cardio - they just do. Reducing intake won't lose their fat deposits. A good diet will NOT remove visceral fat.  For the other body types, which have little...|||Don't forget there's two types of belly fat. One type is the standard fat that coats the muscle (subcutaneous). The other type is visceral fat.  Losing the first is a no brainer - you simply burn...|||Hmm, not with anyone right now, and not particularly looking.  However, I seem to get along best with ENFP's, INFP's, and INFJ's.  Enneagram-wise, I typically do well with 4's and 5's.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQJ60TZy9b4|||People I'd like to get to know, or who I wish to remain in contact with.   Perhaps why my contact list is usually less than 10 people. :P    Yes, terrible. I keep getting all your damned calls.|||^^   Has a very type 9 feel. Yes.  Tranquil, somewhat dark - but a light that shines eternal, yielding beauty. Alone, but then again not so much.'