'I need to challenge myself to not let other people bring me down.  I need to learn to be happy on my own and care about people witout expecting anything in return. Also public speaking, that shit...|||Yeah, I know how you feel. I used to envy these girls who could so easily get a guy's attention without saying anything of value at all! Shame on them for not noticing me, the obviously much more...|||Hey! Wanna go on a date with me?       :unsure:|||We're natural lovers. :proud:|||I know all your weaknesses and I know exactly what to say to hurt you in the worst way possible -  and that is why I'll always I go to great lenghts to avoid these words.|||Going to a friend's house to work on a project soon and he suddenly mentions that we'll finish the evening with a movie-date. Lol, hope that doesn't mean what it sounds like it means. >< Also...|||Because I want to be the prettiest girl in the relationship. :rolleyes:|||I've been dreading every weekend lately because that's when I notice how lonely I am. During the week my calendar is full and I meet lots of people at uni, but no one ever invites me to anything in...|||Trying to analyze, predict and prepare for every possible outcome of a situation only gives a false sense of control and only makes you more insecure. Real inner peace comes from being comfortable...|||http://www.drunkt.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/OMSmU.png   Also, we're not all quiet wallflowers who like to sit in corners. Some of us enjoy a good party now and then!|||Wow, just reread this thread and realized how well it might apply to my current situation. I've recently been getting closer with an INFJ friend, both of us opening up to each other at a slow and...|||Thanks for the support @Dewymorning, @YourNameHere and @DerWahnsinn, that's so kind of you all! :proud: I never got around to asking him out though. Tried starting a conversation with him on...|||Tomorrow I'm gonna ask out the guy I've had a crush on for over a year. I'm writing it here so I don't back out. Can't understand why I'm so terrified, it's not like wanna see  a movie with me is...|||I'm determined to date an intelligent, attractive INFJ man, but damn, he doesn't make it easy for me! Says he's only had dates in the past because the girls have pursued him. Sooooooo out of my...|||Dress up as a pirate and sing them this song. When they ask you why you're singing it, tell them you're gay. And a pirate. But you're going to quit pirating, because you know it's bad to take other...|||Norwegian INFJ here! :proud:|||Paris, Texas  This movie is looooooooong and slooooooow and has beautiful landscapes and not particularly interesting characters. Sometimes the dialogue is brilliant and moving, but most of the...|||I don't know what you should do, but an INFJ who's completely comfortable around you, but never initiates anything, doesn't scream interested to me. If I like someone I might be hesitant to initiate...|||Well, you're the only one who can determine this of course. There are however a couple of truths I can give you. 1. You will find other guys who will treat you well and add stability to your life....|||Shutter Island  Why is this considered a good movie? Seriously, I'm curious. I found it so bland and lacking in suspense. The plot was obvious before the movie was halfway through (basically the...|||You are so right about this! I actually feel better and more optimistic already, just because I've become aware of that connection. Your situation sounds tough though. :/ Is there any chance you can...|||Why are people so afraid of saying stupid things? Why do we always strive to be perfect? I'm pretty sure that this is a ridiculous ideal to strive for. Not because perfection is impossible, but...|||I'm starting to realize that I probably have an anxiety issue and that this might be the cause of a lot of my physical pain. It feels strange to admit this to myself since I've just seen myself as...|||I think most people feel uncomfortable with prolonged eye contact. It can be a very intense and intimate experience. Normally I can only maintain it for a few seconds, but I'll make a deliberate...|||My wish: - That my health won't stop me from living my life the way I want to.  My resolutions: - Worry less. - Cook more. - Watch more movies. - Read more books. - Spend more time on my...|||Hey, another Norwegian, how fun! :kitteh: Merry Christmas to you and everyone else! :proud:|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7uyw5y_tHEM|||Ugh, I relate so much to the posts in this thread at the moment. I've had lots of stomach pain for six months and no explanation. My doctor thinks I'm exaggerating or have a mental problem (I don't)....|||Lol, I see so much of myself in this. I think it has all to do with expectations; If you don't expect anyone to be interested you'll miss the most obvious signals. Conversely, if you think you're the...|||I find the friendzone logic ridiculous. If I meet a guy and he fits the bill for what I want in a boyfriend, why should I care whether he waits two weeks or two years to express interest in me? If...|||I love Christmas! :proud:  But I'm Norwegian, so the big day of celebration for me is the 24th. It usually starts with me waking up and finding this (nope, I'll never get too old for stockings!): ...|||I think you should applaud yourself for having the guts tell him how you felt, even though it didn't work out this time. I wish I was that brave! And if you don't let this scare you off from trying...|||Fuck it, fuck it, fuck it. I feel like my body is broken beyond repair. Where did this intense pain in my arms and legs come from? :sad: How am i supposed to live like this? I don't want to go back...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-R6ma5JJBY&amp;feature=BFa&amp;list=AL94UKMTqg-9BoRLquFedTkORcQKK9ULND|||I've had a crush on a male INFJ for over a year, and last weekend he asked me...  to eat lunch with him! Yes, we've known each other for two years and this is the first time we've actually done...|||Only heard this from guys that like me. :tongue:  And I'm probably doing it wrong, because I only seem to intimidate attractive guys. Those I'm not attracted to are unaffected. :unsure:|||I secretely love reading PUA-blogs, thinking to myself that those tricks would never, ever work on me!   Not that anyone ever tries... :unsure:   :tongue:|||- I get paranoid and read too much into things.  - I feel extremely vulnerable and need lots of words of affirmation. - I can't ignore incompatibilites that might become problematic far into the...|||I'd succeed thanks to my complete inability to live in the moment. :unsure: I'd be happy to just daydream about two marshmellows until they were on the table. The promise would make me feel as if I...|||I confess that I dislike my neighbour because he says 'hi' in a really stupid way and tries to small talk with me when I'm in the kitchen. I'm a bad person. :unsure:|||Not so much at this point, no. I see it more as different people bringing out different parts of my personality. One moment I'll tell the rudest jokes in a group of ESTPs, and the next minute I'll...|||I eat daily, but I attribute that to growing up in a family of eaters. Now it's just a habit. :rolleyes:|||It should be possible to just find one doctor who's an intuitive out there. No, I'm not imagining my pain just because you couldn't find anything wrong by doing the exact same exam on me that my...|||I smoke.  Really, it might not be the healthiest habit, but it's the best way to meet people in a more quiet area of the party. And if I need a conversation starter I can always ask for a lighter....|||-Get a boyfriend. -Make friends with guys who already have a girlfriend. -Tell them you're into girls. -Meet guys who are into guys. -Make friends with ENF*-guys who already have a gazillion...|||^What she said.   Make her feel special.    That is all.|||It's a 16-hour long silent film in black and white about the development of a character.  No one has actually seen the full movie, but everyone agrees that it's very thought-provoking and artistic....|||I think you're partly right. Social interaction will always drain us in the long run, and we'll always need more alone time to recover than extroverts, but socializing with someone who stimulates our...|||I'm single and passively searching for a relationship. :tongue: Meaning I'd really love to have a partner, but I'm not actively pursuing anyone. I also know that it's probably smart for me to be on...|||Eat popcorn for breakfast! :crazy:'