'teasing worked to get my attention. but what'll work better than flirting is, after achieving a friendship, entrusting her with things about yourself you wouldn't talk about as regularly. Start with...|||i would like a key that unlocked a door carved into a tree that lead to a shoot underground that would drop me into the sea. And there I would eat cookies with a walaby on an island where we'd be.  ...|||I distinctly remember being very infj as a young child -- as young as 3. introverted, intuitive (loved reading - yes, I could read when i was 3 - and was always daydreaming), feeling, and judging....|||mm, now, I can't speak for every woman (or INFJ woman, for that matter), but I'd rather the guy just leave me alone, macho or otherwise. Perhaps it's the introversion. Of course, if I were to...|||Hi! I'm Sharktooth, an INFJ, and I came to the INTJ forum because making a group exclusive to its members seems silly, staying in your own type's forum can get a little boring after a while, and I...|||What makes you awesome? Not just a self-esteem/ego boosting thread, but also to find what INTPs take pride in.|||This should be renamed What should one know if they wish to stalk INTPs?  Probably would get even better results.|||Hold them in, let squeaks out when appropriate (and when inappropriate not to -- e.g. someone dies, show some remorse; how if someone tells a joke, and it was funny, and you didn't let yourself even...|||You sound like a growing INFJ :) I think I've identified with each of those at least in one point in my life before.  And don't worry, you sound pretty J to me. Do feel like you're good about making...|||I love you.|||1. It's a time machine. When I daydream/get lost in my INFJ brain, oftentimes I find myself reflecting on things someone said or a laugh we shared or whatever. And sometimes I'll change the situation...|||INTPs? What are your thoughts on this:  I love you.  (Coming honestly from myself in full affection for the INTP mind)|||Only once, and I never understood it, because it was 6th-7th grade and I had never previously spoken to him and only had PE with him. Asked me out to every dance for two years (but the last 7th grade...|||My father, older brother, and younger brother are all ISTJs :) You'll have to remember that your INFJ romatic idealism most likely is taking over -- expecting/searching/working towards/longing for...|||Ideally, I'd rather not anybody know I need comforting. I still don't know what I'd want someone to say. Just give me a long, warm hug and don't bring it up in the future? <3|||Samurai Blur    Please marry me!  But seriously, I would love to find an INTP who knows Argentine tango. (This is my INFJ idealism getting way out of hand :P)|||xD I saw this and immediately laughed -- what a beautiful, silly ideal. It's not possible to 'make sense' of an INTP, they're too amazing for that.  But seriously, INTPs are very honest and...|||Some compliments are sweet, some overwhelming, some concerning and/or alarming. Any particular ones that have stuck with you?  you're face is a cross between emma watson and angelina jolie you...|||You're so cute! Come be a social human being! I can't understand a word you're saying *insert dirty joke aimed solely to unnerve me, just because they knew it would >.> those irltrolls*...|||1. What is your view about love? It's the best tornado to get caught in :B  2. What happens when you're attracted to someone? I try to convince myself out of it, though I've almost always failed. ...|||When listening to someone, I'll look them in the eye or at their face or straight past them or will look up and off to the side and nod to convey to them that I am listening. when speaking, I will...|||Name: Katlyn Age: 16  How were you treated as a young child? Were you supported by family or did you receive threats/critical remarks? Do you feel you received enough healthy affection (both...|||TELL ME WHERE I CAN GET SOME:tongue:|||when I was six, I wanted to be a writer. when I was ten, I wanted to be a scientist working for the EPA. That was my goal all the way up until I turned fifteen, and discovered writing again. Now I've...|||When do you feel vulnerable? Physically, emotionally, etc.? What makes you be vulnerable? I find myself always working towards conquering being vulnerable. It's like it's a goal -- how I dress, how I...|||I have! OHMYGOODNESS, so delicious <3|||mhmm, this is pretty accurate for me :) I'd add for myself 1. sports practices (cross country, gymnastics meets, etc.) 2. hiking, wandering around forests (huge tree hugger here ;P), 3. downtown...|||my little sister loves mozzarella sticks!|||This is spot-on! And I like what you said about the Se - I will hear on some INFJ descriptions that the INFJ doesn't like physical activity, etc., and I'm like, lol wut? Sure, spending 90% of the...|||yum, gum! hmm, what's your favorite (non-smokey) smell? My favorite is when it just first starts to rain, which makes getting caught in it all the more fun! :D  what about everybody else? I hear a...|||blueberries are amazing|||I like taking a hot dog bun and putting mustard in it and eating it dog-less. What's your favorite snack? (Doesn't have to be as weird as mine, don't worry:laughing:)|||This is different xD Yes, testing the water with light flirting = okay. Hypothetical questions are too easy to see through. If you can use the light flirting but still sort of hold a...|||dontdontdontdontdontdontdont no this is what creeps me out the most do not do this!|||You know the male models in the nordstrom magazines in business suits with their hair slicked back? It's incredibly attractive because it says, I'm mature and take care of myself. And that's...|||What is your Gender (all three are allowed): Female  1. At what age did you discover you were an INFJ? 15  2. What was your first reaction at this insight?  I'm judging? *instant worry that I...|||i know a male infj irl! and congratulations for being an incredibly rare kind of person :D|||O.o no, not healthy in the least. doesn't even sound infj, but if someone's out of whack, they're out of whack.|||Yeah, both things actually happened. The poem was one my INTP buddy had written (IDK WHY) and decided to show me in class. I had to put it down after the third line (because that was when I had...|||>.<;;;;;;;;;;;;;|||When I was younger (like 10) and started being entrusted with secrets from parents, peers, etc. there would be times I could, and times where it'd slip. As I've gotten older (lol 16 counts as older,...|||When people won't hear me out. That's the biggest one.   Or if someone's making me feel insecure or deliberately invading my boundaries - it absolutely grosses me out. Like a guy talking to me...|||I'm so sorry, I didn't know this would cause a problem! I wouldn't have started it if I did. You're right, I could've just looked it up, though the search bar doesn't always pull up what I want...|||Core values, yes. Some minor ones, lol nope, purely emotional.|||Drinking beverages.  Not even like spilling or something like that, I can manage the transfer from the cup to my lips just fine most of the time (will still accidentally snort something up my nose...|||I was watching the 1925 The Gold Rush, and I was having (still am having) issues typing his character, and Chaplin himself. What do you think?  Chaplin's Gold Rush character: Chaplin himself: ...|||I'll live in my own little world pretty much 24/7, so when I do something wrong, like embarrass myself, in my head in that little world I hope they'll think something else happened, and it'll act out...|||I am now adopting you as my second mother. <3|||writing is my greatest strength at the moment, and my work is something i'm very proud of :D finished a novel when i was 15, currently working on another, and am extra proud of my first college paper...|||I hope you know that I love you and you now have my respect.   Runnin' like a cheetah :ninja:'