'Paul is definitely an INFP, and Art is most likely an INFJ.|||Noooo. INFP|||I too can't hide my emotions when they're very strong. Faking it until we make it is what we ENFJs sometimes do. I try to always be happy sometimes to make others happy. A lot of my friends tell me...|||Thank you very much. I'm sure things will sort themselves out in the future.|||I always pick friends carefully. They aren't my friend until I know them.  Alcohol was involved on the night she went off on me, but she was still pissed the next day and is still pissed. She's...|||In my life, so far, it seems that no one hears me. I will listen with such dedication to anyone, but when everyone is quiet for a little while, I start to talk and someone almost immediately...|||I'd wait. I'm sure most of us would. It's all worth it in the end when the expressions come out :)|||But it's not! Just express the feelings. We can't always know how you feel. You guys internalize way to well. Show us the Happiness!|||Then we can tear them down quickly and efficiently! :D|||If cuddles and snuggles are your layers, I think us ENFJs can out layer you :)|||I'm always down for that :)|||It's worth the patience and effort :D|||Not weird at all. Many woman want that kind of thing. You just happen to be more specific. We'd totally fall in love with your caring side and make it come out more. Or at least try to. And we would...|||I'm trying to balance that myself as well. It's true, listening too much can be an issue. You have a voice and it should be able to get a point or thought across :)|||Definitely confront her about it. She would likely appreciate you sharing your thoughts with her and would wanna solve any issues or questions you may have :)|||Listening is important. I too like to sit back and listen. My voice is never really heard in any social group so I'm starting to not bother. When you say she looks at you with intensity, what do you...|||Interesting teacher. I would get to know her more if I were you. And the only people you should care about what they think of you are people you care about. But even then, being yourself is way...|||We do that when we notice something amazing about someone or something. Such as their personality or something like that :3|||This is true. The ending can be such a relief.|||Perhaps they were driving and only took a glimpse of the text and forgot to actually read it and reply by the time they got to their next destination. Happens to me every now and then. Or perhaps...|||Being an ENFJ, in my opinion, telling her it in person would be the best. As long as you don't sound like you NEED to tell her. Like if you come at her and say it sort of abrasively, like you NEED to...|||I would not be the slightest offended. I would answer in full honesty. I second what Eggsies said, I would be flattered :D|||You are beautiful! And your about me I found to be even more intoxicating :)|||ENFJ guy here. I advise you just go with what's natural. Don't worry about personality theories. Categorizing things just makes the magic go away. Let it come to you. Do what you feel like. ENFJs are...|||We do things unconditionally. Knowing our generosity helps you is all we need to make us happy. Though we don't need anything in return, receiving something is always a joy :)|||I have 10 on the class scale. Swag is for dumbasses.|||Charlie is an ENFJ 2w1. He's quiet, shy, and unhealthy do to his awful past. Sam is an ESFJ And Patrick is an INFP|||*hug!<333*|||Personally, an ENFJ and INFP relationship is pure magic. My best and closest friend, like a brother or my other half, is an INFP and I've told him that if he was a girl I would love to him. He said...|||I'm in the same situation with an INTJ. She knows I love her and she loves me, but she says a relationship between us would never work.|||Honestly, with enough reality, ENFJs can be just like INTJs deep down. I have an INTJ who is purely objective. Him and I relate so much and bounce off each other with Different concepts, ideas, or...|||You and I are identical. We are exactly the same (based on all of this that you said about yourself). However I'm not fortunate enough to have an INFP partner and I don't mind being on stage. I too...|||This is all true. Very good answer my good sir :)|||What do you mean by playing with things around you? And I never act macho, ever. I don't know what to make of that, unless it's for humor, then I can understand that. Liking your energy, your...|||He likely is attracted to you. We ENFJs may be social and all, but often, when we're attracted to someone, we usually remain a tad quiet or awkward (relating to him acting weird around you). Don't...|||I know how that feels. It seems us ENFJ's have this common issue. We get lonely and it's hard to find one who could fit in the heart shaped hole. I recently disliked myself to thepoint of trying...|||1. Yes. Sometimes, all of our interaction with people can lead us to frustration, annoyance, or impatience with others. It happens.  2. Having energy is definitely common for us. We're such spunky...|||What's wrong?|||I'm sorry to hear that you're frustrated. I too hate having my questions unanswered or have people pretend if I never said a thing. So there's a type that you do not know that keeps ignoring your...|||He is probably loathing contacting her. She's probably a past entity that he just wants to forget and doesn't want to make contact with. Just make it more clear that he should contact her to get her...|||By all means, share away. I'm glad you're another ENFJ with the same problem|||Personally, I feel ENFJ's are the most misunderstood type. A lot of people say ESFP's are, since they claim they're not as simple as they seem. But honestly, no one talks about, acknowledges, or...|||To be unloved.|||I love your mind :)|||I mean, yes I help others to make me happy. But I don't do it just for that. I do it because the world needs more givers. The modern world has become so broken that any person who is selfless and...|||I love half-nakedness/nudism too! It's so liberating. And occasionally i like to be pampered-spas, saunas, massages, etc. Very occasionally though. Dancing and singing is one of my pastimes that I...|||I'm quite the optimist. Though I have been in dark places. I was deeply depressed for a year and a half, but I got out of it. A teacher helped me better understand myself and I was happy after that....|||I'm an ENFJ, and I can understand his position. We have an uncontrollable need to help people. It's our universal ability that cannot be changed. Past relationships are hard to leave, especially if...'