'So I'm a female INTJ who recently came across a male INTJ who I found massively attractive to me. This is a first for me since I've never been attracted to someone with the same personality type as...|||Jealousy is the most infuriating thing. So are feelings.|||Alrighty, so here goes. My cousin is an ENFP, and although we've been friends for a long time, last October we argued (again) and he hasn't talked to me since. We've argued before, but always made up...|||I'm wondering why my person won't message me. Which is ridiculous to my rational mind because I know he isn't allowed to...it just makes me *feel* neglected and unloved. Which once again I shouldn't...|||aha, you sound like my INTJ  father. He said Well, you know how it feels, I'm just better at everything than everyone else. (He was just telling the truth)|||Hmm...This post made me think... particularly about why I make art. I concluded that its because when I'm playing an instrument or working on an artistic project it takes my entire attention and I'm...|||Poetry and music are almost the only things that can make me cry. I particularly love Emily Dickenson. I've tried writing poetry but haven't stuck at it long enough to actually find a good...|||I can play the piano and ukelele...I started to learn the violin when I was younger by my parents couldn't handle the screeching..heh|||I was about to ask about that! Love the picture by the way. :) It takes talent to take a good picture. I'd know. I am absolutely TERRIBLE at taking pictures. I try so hard but always seem to fail...|||That is art.. my definition of art is incredibly loose and subjective in this case..|||Yes! I've never been a consistently artistic person, I always go through stages of productivity.|||I was looking around on the INTJ forum and was unable to find one that discussed artistic INTJs. (perhaps there is one, I couldn't find it) The truth is, unlike most INTJs I'm not a whiz at math. I...|||What about for me? O.O Its gonna be terribly suspicious if BOTH One of those faces again and I write our ENFP letters at similar times.. o.O Any other advice?|||^ This. :(|||Yes. I talked with him via messaging nonstop for about 5 months and we had brilliant dialogues... When he told me he loved me I cautiously replied I return it rather than saying I love you too...|||My verdict? That's how I'd go about it for sure...if I were a guy. All the INTJ guys I know have been pretty decisive about acting on a crush. Bide your time and get to know him a bit, we're...|||When inflicting revenge I prefer to inflict emotional pain. Screw with someone's emotions and make them wonder if you're doing it or they're in the wrong...Yeah, emotional pain is the best way to...|||Earth...its the most solid.|||I have the exact same friend, literally. One of those faces again and I are cousins and I've been having the same problem.. I eagerly await any replies and suggestions. Just keep in mind that I'm an...|||Well my dad is an INTJ and mom is an ISFJ and they're the most romantic and still-in-love couple I know after 32 years of marriage..|||This is the truth ^ Entirely. Completely. Accurate.  Bravo.. ;)|||You will find them buried in books and lurking in the shadows plotting world dominion.. }:)   By all means experiment on INTJ girls!! They're no doubt experimenting on you already, no joke. I once...|||Kallie is short for Kaleidoscope, I like the way the word sounds when I say it and I want to be a multifaceted always-surprising and colorful person..like a kaleidoscope. I shortened it to Kallie...|||hmm..the one close relationship I've been in with an ENFP exploded after a while, but he was a very unusually unhealthy case..partially because he was convinced he was unhealthy personality-wise. The...|||Sounds rational and all but for devil's advocate's sake...hardly very Christian.|||I believe it. You're startlingly similar to my ENTP but with distinct differences. For instance. You are much more competitive. 8 was very present in your communication, I tend to think that 7 is...|||I would agree with you that knowledge is more useful, and it does sound rather high and noble...but it is what motivates me and I prefer honesty to fabricated answers (aka lying and manipulation). :P...|||Don't ask you say, boy but that paragraph was quite theatrical. ;)   Trust is important. It is also devastating to lose. The natural gift of skillful deception is a double edged sword..  I do...|||Because that was pretty much the face I made! O.O|||I acknowledge that even stupid people are important...especially to use...I just can't seem to exert myself to please them. I have only so much social energy I guess. I pour myself into the ones I...|||I don't know how to pick and choose what to tell you about him to prove his ENTPness. He, like any of my friends, is a complex character that I know so much about that I can't simplify. I don't seem...|||I don't think all rules are subject to change.. There have to be some absolutes.  Create and sustain a relationship with EVERYONE possible?? Huh. I'd have said: Create and sustain a relationship...|||He already keeps them rather loosely...he's holding on with one hand while groping about with the other. He's not wild enough to snap anywhere that I know of... too rational.|||I have similar desires... for instance. I've never been more content with my father's process than now, and never have I had more reason to be discontent. Its because I did explore beyond the...|||Are you an 8 or do you have an 8 in your tritype? That sounds more 8ish than ENTPish to me...   To be fair he did try a different way than the rules the first time through, we even held hands...|||Hahaha...feeling types...   I know I would do it. Being as stubborn as I am...and to be honest I do have hope just because he is completely aware of these rules and his own family operates under...|||Hate you? Faceless internet person, nope... I'd have to know you to hate you. ;) I might decide to dislike your opinion though.|||Oh trust me...he's not the cowardly type. I was the coward.  I'd better mention this now. My dad? He's an INTJ too...yeah. Unbendable father of 6 (4 married with children), convincing him to let us...|||Christian: yep   Restricted from dating until 18: nope. Just...no dating. Its confusing. He's allowed to court me as soon as he is financially independent. Its my dad's program and complicated to...|||True... and that is pretty much what I have concluded: What will be will be. But sometimes it is nice to discuss it a bit and get new opinions after months of either ignoring the situation or...|||He's 16. I'm 17. (I usually avoid giving my age online and in person merely because people tend to take me less seriously afterward. I understand taking my age into the equation. Just please don't...|||Do you need any additional information to offer advice? If so, just ask...|||I am aware that you all put everything into a relationship, so do I. It worked perfectly while it worked, but unfortunately one thing is more important to me than him and it became an either-or...|||*question for ENTPs   How loyal would you say you are to a person you fall in love with?   Say...hypothetically that you fell in love with a girl and it was reciprocated but you could not...|||My ENFP (male, cousin) friend left me again. This time most likely for  good. That's fine, he was hurting me more than I was helping him. My  other ENFP (female) is too busy to talk to me half of the...|||I did initially, but then I realized that if you separate The Scientists from the science textsbooks and practicing scientists of various kinds and concentrate on what I believe is really inferred,...|||Lots of classical for me, but not exclusively...|||Christian (Reformed Presbyterian)|||Gooey insides. Eh. I lasted 17 years thinking I didn't have them until I accidentally fell in love...and then my parents found out and now I can't see or talk to him. :-/ WHOA FEELINGS! They...|||The only way someone can destroy me is to gain my trust and interest and then suddenly and without warning lash out. If there is any warning at all I will pick up on it and back away emotionally,...'