'A lot of these are really true. What would definitely clarify how an ENFP acts, however, is what kind of person the romantic interest is: if the interest is a casual acquaintance or a good friend...|||Ah, maybe I should've finished reading. But learning from past mistakes is against my moral code it seems.   This is unsolicited advice, but deciding what I want has always helped me make a choice....|||I'm still in the process of reading all the responses, so I can only hope I'm saying something new.   Anyway, I think it's a common misconception that we wear our emotions on our sleeves. At least...|||Not easily at all. I'm able to make acquaintances and friends easily, but even when I tell the friends who I know will not betray my trust and who I have known for a long time about private things...|||I'm into fashion and so I put a lot of effort into how I dress and try not to fall into school trends. Even though I switch styles all the time, I generally wear things just slightly differently,...|||Why not here? :)|||I only know one confirmed INTJ, my sister, so I'll just base my answer off her  Like: Natural Leader Responsible and competent There for you when it really counts (She won't listen to my rants,...|||Yaaas to this question.  Shingeki no Kyojin/Attack on Titan Fate/Zero Aldnoah.Zero Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood Tokyo Ghoul (S1 only) Noragami Zankyou no Terror|||I don't mind when people don't take my advice, even when it's solicited, because I don't regard it as a rule or the absolute right thing to do all the time. Most of the time I give advice and make it...|||INTJ only because my sister used to sing that song all the time and she was an INTJ.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1bacf5UWytg|||This cracked me up.|||I have many insecurities that have been exacerbated by a complex relationship with my mom. I am confident and happy outside of the home, but I often feel younger, insecure, and dependent with my mom...|||Have you read Susan Sontag's On Photography? It's very long, but you might be interested in checking out some of the passages, like the one on Migrant Mother.|||Lines from the same short story:  She spoke quietly now, as one does when sharing a secret between friends. And though it was meant to be welcoming, he felt like an intruder on someone else's...|||Definitely join a few clubs, especially ones for the long-haul where you can make close friends. Quality is better than quantity in essence.   Some of the best ones are the clubs in which you stay...|||My mom is an ISTJ (confirmed) and I cannot even begin to type my dad.   When I get along with my mom we're incredibly close, but in less than a second we can go to fighting and driving each other...|||Anywhere. I can be found in STEM clubs, poetry meetings, volunteering events, political offices, etc.   If you find someone cracking jokes to friends and looking slightly drunk in a nonalcoholic...|||I haven't read much on cognitive functions, so I'll speak from experience. When I'm in a place with other people I take on a seize the day attitude and socialize with strangers, but that doesn't mean...|||I'm a Chinese ENFP born and raised in America and I've never felt pressured to be reserved or timid. Even when visiting relatives in China I've never encountered an atmosphere like that. Maybe it's...|||Maybe take some time with him/her alone, like take him/her out to get coffee in a different environment and let your sibling know you're there to help.   If you believe he/she can do better, offer...|||I've had an experience like this. I've never gotten angry at anyone other than a family member, but when family fights it gets crazy. There's always this invisible line you don't want to cross, but...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNoMeKCn0x4|||Stop being late to everything Use the stylus for my phone Learn another language  Actually write the novel I have piles of scraps full of ideas, paragraphs, and phrases on|||I absolutely hate being micromanaged as well. It's kind of hypocritical then that I turn neurotic when I end up in charge unless I have full trust for the person in question.   I've been in a few...|||Playing a character and trying too hard to impress or becoming insecure and worrying too much about how others will judge them to be their normal outgoing self. In the second situation, you'll see...|||How common/uncommon is it to find ENFPs in the higher management and administration positions in corporations?|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nOHEuhJf7nA  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLYHc5_12NE  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qg6BwvDcANg  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9g7TJnJk48 ...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGWtF1AttTw  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zKy-Ucy5C2w  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HdzI-191xhU  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FyASdjZE0R0 ...|||ENFPs are all different people and even within the same type we will differ, but I'd agree with this. We're kind of weird in that being alone means being alone with other people in the room. If it...|||Definitely. I hold up my friends to certain ideals and I sometimes wonder if I'm doing the Jay Gatsby thing. It's not like I have particularly high expectations; I'd just like to be able to...|||I'm pretty similar in the way I respond.   I'm actually having a problem with someone quite subversive right now. The problem is, as long as someone doesn't outright insult me and to my face, I'll...|||You should meet my sister. I just found out a week ago that she was an INTJ when she sent me the 16 personalities test and told me to take it. I was like, girl, you are years late to the party.  ...|||Here's a question from an ENFP. I've never been to a school dance before, and Senior Homecoming is on the same day as a League Tournament. Speech and Debate tournaments can end pretty late and the...|||Can Chlorine be filtered out of water? Because the water in my house tastes funny.   I keep on forgetting my yahoo accounts/passwords, so here's a question.  Edit: I mean with the conventional...|||I've only met one other person I think is ENFP and I completely agree with you in that particular case. She seems to be constantly playing a character and I definitely was that person in 6th grade....|||http://http://personalitycafe.com/enfp-forum-inspirers/29579-common-things-said-enfps-164.html  I wear skirts and dresses all through the winter months. Then again, I do live in California and am...|||The feels   Just kidding, because that would just be...weird?|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WteF0j5gYGk|||First of all I think it was really brave for you to have that conversation with your boss and give him a copy of the profile.   I can't suggest anything more with how you might get some...|||Sign me up ;)  On a side note, have you watched Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt? Because that is a show that begs to be shared.|||Kaosrevolution  You remind me of someone. I shall think on it...  This will bother me for the longest time|||A bit scandalizing, but continue the desensitization please.|||This is basically a rant thread. For me, it isn't very cathartic if you don't get to say something that's on your mind too. Even if that thing is shared by others. I think it's better that way...|||What are we witnessing here?|||That was a lie.|||Thanks for the advice and flattering praise I shamelessly ate up. I usually just set qualifying statements, but since that doesn't deter her, I'll probably have to work up to that kind of honesty. I...|||Use of no true scotsman too (:|||I just want to point out that there's a lot of research currently being done on set point theory and weight. Maybe lack of exercise and overeating has led certain people to gain weight, but I don't...|||So did you ever consider the conversations and relationships you had with friends in high school somewhat lacking? And did you naturally downsize to a smaller group of close friends?|||I really want to build up an inner circle like yours, but I've never found someone who's willing to talk for a long time about things like politics, public debates, or personal issues seriously and...'