'Man expecting they can make rape joke.  Considering rape is really not a big deal and victims should just shup up and after all it's their fault?   Thanks for being a jerk! And if you are...|||Tired and excited! Also distracted!  I am moving out so packing boxes and this is a relief because I am so looking forward to be out of this nightmare of a houseshare. I need some time for myself!...|||But maybe that person didn't want their problem to be solved they just wanted to be heard and understood, as like the other offering empathy. Often I like to share what I feel with friends that...|||Thank you for your answer! And yes you totally get my point I don't think it's necessary to inflict pain in that case, I just want to express my honest feelings. I am also aware this person suffers...|||I don't think all INFP are this way. I think it also depends who I speak to. Sometimes I feel people want me to fit their way of reasoning and then it's rally hard for me to get my point across my...|||I had a question. I dated an INFJ a while back and we broke up in a not so great way it was very intense and a lot of tears were shed when it happened. I was really heart broken. A lot happened since...|||Thanks for you both! Yeah I think at the end laughing about it might be the best, because he is ridiculous and I feel the more I react the more he gets angry but if I laugh he won't be able to make...|||Thank you for your response. Well the good news is that in two weeks I am leaving the flat I don't know if this was said in my initial post.  I thought it would be ok in the meantime, but I am...|||So I am going to leave my house in 2 weeks but for the past month the situation with one of my roommate has gotten really bad to the point we were not even speaking to each other anymore.  Already...|||OMG so much emotions, I think I like it! *cuddle back*|||Actually yes! Only with women though and it seems you are one. so that's ok!|||Also I feel special that Drunk Parrot mentioned me|||what is this all about? Do I just have to be myself and through my emotions all around like confettis? I can do that! I just got my heart broken ehehe.|||Oh god I have to rewrite this cause half the post got deleted...  So I am confused with an INFJ girl I like (guessing her type). We met a few weeks back through a friend and went to a couple of...|||I relate a lot to this! If I was totally free with deadline and all, I would take some time to do projects so in a way I liek deadline because the constrains force me to make something. I have a lot...|||I will say it's complicated. When they are small ok, I don't mind, but I really don't like them around my space no. I can't really kill them though cause they freak me out so I usually find someone...|||Actually besides face to face interaction this one of the few I don't mind or even like. I hate messaging, facebook, text whatever... like way too much potential for misunderstanding and OMG so slow...|||I like theatre, I try to see how often as I can but I am quite broke. I usually support friends that majored in theatre and go see their shows/performances. I like experimental stuff too. and also...|||you are ugly you are dyke pretty much|||I understand why you would need to distance yourself from your mother. As kids we have little control towards our parents, the control we have is how often we contact them so it makes sense that if...|||I think usually when we don't know how to handle our emotion it's because at some point we were told that the way we expressed them was problematic. Then we learnt to repress them or started to fear...|||Do you ever have this feeling, as an INFP, that your emotions take over and sort of control you, so control how you see the world and you know it's not necessarily rational but it is what is. I can...|||Not an INFJ here but I wanted to ask if it's a typical INFJ thing to try to improve the situation? why do you feel compelled to do that?|||weird!|||It's probably (hopefully) not the end but it's not glorious: basically people are dumb (but we knew that after the 2nd election of G.W Bush Jr so... )  The Frankfurt School Knew Trump Was Coming -...|||Wow this is a lot to handle for one person. You talk a lot about your brother in this post, to me it seems that your feeling are mixed because a part of you want to cut contact and maybe you feel...|||No you are not a bitch, I think you expressed your reason for not wanting contact with him. i don't know your brother but if your relationship is so negative why bother? Sometimes it's as simple as...|||wow, your story is quite intense and honestly anyone in your position would feel so overwhelmed! I don't know you, but the way your write you seem to have a good emotional intelligence and be quite...|||it is quite a laughable election. it's quite sad because can we can this a real choice? But at the end you get the president you deserve. This debate had nothing of a debate anyway it was ludicrous....|||Yes you did, you just follow the discourse that is victim blaming re read your post and btw i'll report you. honestly take a look at yourself, see how you answer to many survivors of assault in this...|||I am really fed up with your own blindness towards your own rhetoric. Like victim blaming as its finest. Also sorry but comparing bullying which is still a big problem with systemic violance towards...|||It's not an easy situation. I do hope you find resolution in these and support and help if needed. The good thing is you seem to be resilient and have a good network of supporting friends, this quite...|||You nailed it, it's a good point. Also as I explained I thought, that Peter was aware that it seems to be an habit for this guy to prey on drunk girls.|||People like me? Yeah you are right victim survivor of sexual assault, deserve no respect in their opinion. I am not stupid, I didn't say you defended the guy, but that once again someone (not...|||Dude it has nothing to do with political correctness to call out the guy for what he did. Have you any idea of how often women who are in such situations are constantly blamed, because oh accusing...|||As a survivor of abuse I understand that considering it rape can be really difficult because there is a very negative rethoric about victims: they are broken, damaged goods and they asked for it...|||Oh boy I am really sorry that this happened to you. It is quite clear that even though you might have given consent in regards to kissing, you didn't give consent and apparently even try to leave, so...|||ahaha nice way to voice it! Well the thing is I feel that as soon this is ending then I have to dive into things that are also not so fun like dealing with my family and stuff... but I can also think...|||I feel overwhelmed angry and stressed! I have some exams to finish tonight and I just don't know where to begin I feel like I am climbing the Everest. I also work weekends so it's fucking hard and...|||Funny I grew up in France and I have literally no interest in moving back there at all.|||Ah, feels like reading me! So you avoid loneliness is that what you are saying? I think it's a fine balance also with sharing love about letting our guards down. maybe you can do step by step like I...|||So why do you think you need?|||I could have acted like you I understand you are annoyed. I think it's stupid to answer back if you knew it's bad why did you do it... well it's the point of making mistakes! Is he mister perfect?...|||Well of course, actually I think people bragging are often insecure because they need to prove how awesome they are, if you are confident you wouldn't do that. So you can be humble and stay realistic...|||ahahah I feel the same but I am not sure it's an INFP thing just an I am insecure thing. For example not feeling worthy or attractive enough for that person. Then it's hard to approach them on an...|||This is just a generalization, you can be a social introverts. You can be an INFP and go out to parties, now if it's not your thing that's a different topic. And there can be as many different...|||i am trippin on shrooms its soo nice you should try it! sooo much fun!|||I totally feel you. Honestly if people are good to me and hurt me once it's ok i will forgive if the apology is sincere and you seem to be sincere. I would not reconnect if there is constant arguing...|||You need to meet theatre people or performance / artsy people. Try to find the nearest town with a good art scene if you can't find that where you are... or move somewhere else if you can, like...|||I understand what you say so if I felt really bad and that I did something wrong it could be that at that point I feel the relationship is sort of broken. Or I could be ashamed and unsure how to...'