'This doesn't even sound like they ARE an ENFJ to me. Yes, we have a bad rep for being manipulative at times, but this sounds WAAAY out of the ballpark for us. I would definitely say that these...|||I agree!   Here is an interesting quote regarding ENFJ's satisfaction in general and with other ENFJ's from oddlydevelopedtypes.com,   The best we can say is that one study found that female...|||It's a little upsetting, but I live with 3 other people and we are making sure we lock all the doors all of the time.|||You are likely right. Just funny to think of them taking it because they wanted to play video games.      Thanks, that is really sweet! I will be ok though, and get one soon enough.|||Eeeep! Is it important that it has a beard? :wink:  Other than the elephant, it looks like most ENFJ's (so far) relate to birds or cats. Interesting...keep 'em coming!|||I did loose my saved games. Very sad about that.     A PS4 is $400! I don't have that kind of money to spend on a gaming system right now. I will probably get another PS3 after my next pay check...|||I completely agree! Respect and trust are vital. Hugs!  On a quite random other topic: My PS3 was stolen from my house today. They rifled through some of my drawers, but didn't take anything else....|||Wolves are wonderful in many ways! It is very fitting that you have Arya as your avatar! (Poor Nymeria.)|||Supposedly there is a huge satisfaction rate in relationships with 2 ENFJ's. I don't think I have ever even met another ENFJ in real life, but possibly...  Have any of you been in a relationship...|||The elephant post by littlebear (Thanks!) has got me thinking about spirit animals and if there is a pattern among ENFJ's.   Do you have a spirit animal and if so, which one?  I have always felt...|||I definitely relate to elephants! Many of these pictures make me go AWWWWW!|||I am fully aware that I do not need to sit there and listen to him and sometimes I do cut it short and leave if he starts going on and on. However, he is my dad and I don't see him very often (3...|||I just finished The Slow Regard of Silent Things and loved it!   I have a sneaky suspicion that some people will also love this novella and some will hate it. Cards on the table, I am already a...|||I love all of the Studio Ghibli movies! My fave is Howl's Moving Castle.  I don't think many people have seen, The Cat Returns, but it is a great one too!|||My dad is an ENTJ (I am 90% sure...10% an ENTP) and I love him, but he drives me nuts with seeming to have no clue about where I am emotionally in my life.   Now, keep in mind that I am in my 30's...|||I think it's a bit contradictory that it says I am narcissistic for SLOAN and then not self absorbed for Accommodating. Oh well. Interesting that it says stressed and rushed. I do feel like I...|||Goodnight! Sleep well and dream of beautiful places and people!|||I definitely prefer having sex when I am in love with my partner and they are in love with me. I don't think love is necessary to enjoy sex, but for me I don't see the point in wasting my time on...|||All teasing aside. My oldest friend is an INTJ and I have been seriously dating an INTP for more than 2 years now. I adore NT's! REALLY and truly.    I can definitely see the communication issues...|||They pick on us because they are smart asses. Also because they secretly love us.  ::Muhahaha!::|||Talks a lot.  Will Hug You.|||My 2 cents: Sounds like you are an INFJ to me, but do keep in mind that if you are going through a tough time in your life right now then that might be changing your answers to the tests a bit.  ...|||Well, thanks for saying we are awesome! That is certainly a nice start (flattery will get you...a smile and a wink) to a friendship. I recently realized that I have a lot of introvert friends, but...|||To me it sounds like a big time immaturity issue. Sounds like she's acting more like 18 than 23, but everyone matures differently. I can tell you that I was never that inconsiderate (I am pretty darn...|||277010277018277002  It's my ENFJ Face! The 3rd pic is clearly the best!|||Short answer: Yes.  Give it time and don't give up on relationships. I have had to remember over the past few months that ENFJ's feel things <i>intensely</i> and not all types are that way or are...|||@ cali    Awww INTP's, how I adore you! So, first of all let me say that I have been in a relationship with an INTP for more than a year and we are going strong. You sound really similar to him...|||ENFJ    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2yWZb3zXiA|||You have trouble singing along to most songs on the radio because you feel the emotion in the song and it chokes you up!|||My username is from an e.e. cummings poem and also reflects that I am rather complicated...|||George Bailey from It's a Wonderful Life!|||Finished Elantris by Brandon Sanderson about a week ago. I am currently without a book due to Christmas shenanigans and preparations.  I highly recommend Elantris, though! Especially if you like...|||Blue, Violet, Yellow  This was an interesting test!  :)|||I am frustrated with giving and giving and not getting back! It is ridiculous how the people in my life think that I will always be there for them, but they are so oftentimes not there for me when I...|||I agree that the eyes are a part of easy recognition, but I think the most tell tale sign is that we are truly interested in others and have an uncanny ability to sense emotions, even in strangers. ...|||Any sci fi/ fantasy fans out there? The main character Raoden in the Sci Fi book, Elantris by Brandon Sanderson.  I recently read this book and about 3 quarters of the way through was struck by...|||Honestly...those things totally turn me on!|||It can be very, very difficult to trust and to make yourself vulnerable to another person. I think that is always going to be difficult (it still is for me!), but you will never experience love...|||Awww! That makes me sad to think that we are all settling. Speaking as a self described hopeless romantic who is 33 this year and married for more than 10 years...I both understand where you are...|||Happy Halloween ENFJ's (and everyone)!   I thought it would be fun to find out if the ENFJ's are dressing up in costume or not and what your costume is, if so?  For myself, I am waaaay behind...|||I have definetely been called a hopeless romantic, and I can see how NF's would be the most likely temperament to be romantics. I think this is because of our high ideals and our focus on the...|||I would have to echo the other ENFJ's on this one! My #1 thing that makes me feel loved is time spent together doing something we enjoy together or just relaxing (and not when he is on a video game)....|||I am currently obsessed with the song Sleep Alone by Two Door Cinema.  I don't use iTunes. The majority of the time though...I mosty listent to music in my car and on my phone. I have pretty...|||Very good points! I think sometimes he is Waaaayyyy too much in his head.   Also, I have to say...doesn't EVERYONE like sex? I am definetely the dominant one in our relationship in that way and he...|||:laughing: Yes I have tried that and it works well! What I think works even better though is just being me and appreciating him for himself. I think my initial worry was partly fueled by his...|||I have a Master's in Psychology. I love helping people and learning how they tick :cool:|||It is my personal experience that any ENFJ and ESTJ relationship is going to need A LOT of blunt communication to work. It is difficult at times even then, at least it has been for me. I think this...|||I am left of center. In the US right now I think that both sides are basically close to the middle, but both want to say the other is far to the opposite side. We really need more than just a...|||Thanks for the warm welcome everyone! I will definetely take you up on that cappuccino. I loooove coffee!|||I think that Sensors in general are more practical and down to earth than are iNtuitives and this is why we clash at times. I know that personally, the disconnection really drives me nuts! Sensors...'