'I have always found the Myers Briggs labels to be confusing; especially the Judging vs. Perceiving. When trying to explain to people who are new to MBTI, that is the most difficult hurdle in my...|||Awww, Sweetheart! ((Hugs))  Why is it that you are feeling bummed? Is it really 40? Age is so relative and nebulous to me, it doesn't even seem real. Was there some goal, or place in your life that...|||This. So much this. Sometimes people (you, in this scenario) process internally a lot, and that is fine. But, when it comes to relationships, a lot of people need things to be communicated. You can't...|||I do this as well, but it's actually not romantic for me as much as it's just random. I find people that I have that INSTANT, electric connection with and....wow! It's like a roller coaster ride or...|||Wow. I was super angsty when I came to this thread, and I'm already feeling better, seeing so many wonderful things! Keeping it going....  (Just some of my favorite things :proud:)  602762 ...|||Question: If I had eaten a radish, would I remember? What if I'm not sure I've ever eaten a radish?|||Sometimes... I like to imagine I'm eating food with my mind. I may not be even craving at all, but it is so satiating.   Tonight: Pad Thai|||@einsteinlyk, I can't say I completely disagree with the folks here, but I just wanted to say that we've all messed up at some point. Every one of us has done something awful to another human being,...|||@cricket is absolutely dead on IMO!  Also, I would add that.... for me personally, nothing really can destroy the potential in that person except for repeated disappointments. Or even simply being...|||Um... I find this highly comical, jeb, as your comment was snarky to begin with.   Also, I got g_w's reference and thought it was funny! :kitteh:  I also wish we could all just get along; so back...|||I hate micromanaging.... hate is too mild of a word. I can *Not* survive in a micro-managing environment. Likewise, I can *Not* survive in the Blame rolls downhill type management environment,...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nMEHJPuggHQ  So amazing.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkeDBwsIaZw|||I hate these platitudes as well. They are trite and meaningless to me. Would you tell someone who broke their leg, Oh, I know exactly what you're going through, you should just be grateful because...|||Oh my. Now, I realize that I have insecurities. Everyone does! But do you ever run into a person whose insecurities absolutely make you crazy?!?  I can't stand it when people need everyone to be...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmKU14TRiho|||I've always been a clutter bug; as a kid my parents gave up on making me clean my room! I just make these emotional attachments to things or I see their purpose and it's hard for me to let them go. ...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9v8jLBrvug&list=PLnCpaW2iFGzhZjw7Zo7FxSmIlCOJmGvfY&index=2|||I love TV On the Radio so much.    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OaKVy-FlaUA|||I feel lost. And more than a little tired.  It's like, I summoned up every bit of energy I had to leave everything I knew for what was supposed to be a new beginning; and it has been! But,...|||Sometimes it strikes me how funny it is that some things about a person just never change. I always have the hardest time going to sleep at a good hour; partially because I absolutely love the...|||You've been given a gift, then! You have the contrast of being without to really relish the richness, the gift of it. When you do find that girl, I hope that you do make her feel like royalty, and...|||Uggghhhh, that's the WORST!!!! :((((( I feel so sad for you. :(|||You know what's super weird..... (and you probably won't even believe me because it doesn't sound real! And that's okay! It'll just be there, pinging around in your head until ONE DAY you try it.......|||They love being the devil's advocate. Actually, I don't think they can resist.|||People who don't know me at ALL: Are you always this sweet? To everyone, all the time?  Variations of: You know the most random information. My co-worker said it best, You're just like...|||That sounds like SO much fun! I love costume parties. I miss being in drama. My favorite part was doing the plays for the elementary schools every year; one year I was Dorothy and a whole auditorium...|||Wow! I've just been watching a BBC show The Buccaneers, and the main character Annabel I am certain is an INFP. I just heard the perfect INFP quote from her,   Sometimes, life feels so dreadfully...|||A bird doesn't sing because it has an answer, it sings because it has a song.  -Maya Angelou/Unknown|||Whew! That is a tough one, I'm a pretty extraverted INFP and ENTP's of the opposite gender have always paralyzed me in a way. Although, I am pretty sure I dated one at one point before I knew of...|||306378 306386 306394  :( Looking at cute pugs because I miss my PugBaby. Sometimes I think I never want to love an animal again. :crying:|||Blind post! I read the first page only. Hi INFJ's! This is my first time in your forum and this thread caught my interest.  Because.....  I have personally found INFJ relations rather confusing!...|||Yes!! I have found myself very unpredictable in this regard. There are some people I'm super close to and tuned into and replies are generally more frequent and I initiate more often. Especially if I...|||jazmein85 Hey, I'm feeling lost and disillusioned about turning 30 this year as well! Just started a new job and 2 of the 3 Dr's I work with are younger than me. I dropped out of college due to the...|||EyesOpen..... I think sometimes we INFP'S can be so in love with the novel,  the possibilities that when swept up and away by Ne, we don't realize what we're like at all.  Or, we have an idea, but it...|||Awwww!! One of my life long good, good friends is an ESFJ and I have made a kindred spirit best friend with an ISFJ that I love love love.  Sometimes ISTJ's are very eye roll worthy and can try my...|||I don't want you to feel ignored, but this really isn't enough to go off of. :unsure:  I could see all of those behaviors belonging to many different types---  my suggestion would be to look at the...|||Dabbling!!! Oh, friend. I could use a cup of tea on your porch. Haha.  Really I'm doing great! New state, new job that I love. After the first job here that I didn't. :unsure:  BUT I made some...|||refugee.... OMG I NEEDED THAT! LMAO!|||I was just puzzling on this today. I think if everyone knew exactly what I thought and how I felt all the time, the ish would hit the proverbial fan. I've always been very self reliant, considering...|||So, today I went to get a cup for milk out of my upper cabinet, and unbeknownst to me there was another smaller cup inside, and I realized with a distinctly familiar sinking feeling that it was,...|||Sometimes it's not until other people notice that I notice that I'm in that mode. I just started a new job and my co-worker notices a lot of what I do/say--- including the fact that I EXCLAIM That...|||I love Firefly! I'm re-watching it for the 2nd time, which led me to resurrect this thread to add my thoughts, I'd welcome thoughts/comments/criticism!   Kaylee- ENFP    But she knows it...|||When having the perfect vision of how something SHOULD be is so incredibly satisfying, but the effort it takes so deflating that you have to dig deep to make any of these visions come to life, and...|||Dabbling is the best and nicest and kindest and most diplomatic INTJ ever----- I think that INTJ's can be so wonderful. It's very true that our two types do have their sticky areas, but wow. When it...|||:blushed:  *shoe scuff*  Dawww......:proud:    I will say that when I was younger, I know I came off more insincere--- and sometimes when I'm tired I'll get sloppy and lapse back into it. I...|||The search for a painless existence is an illusion.  Better the pain that comes from a direct result of my own choice, made in good faith and hope for the future and tempered with as much wisdom as...|||Gah. :confused:  Sometimes I really realize how impossible I am.  Whenever I'm dealing with any kind of big decision/change in my life, I pull away from some people, and confide in others. The...|||I am about to make a huge life change. Like, everything about my life.... is going to change. The closer I get.... now that there is a countdown..... the less sleep I think I'm going to get....|||Celebrating differences! Exactly. Because I admire extroversion's ability to constantly express in the moment so much easier than I can! But that's what I love about well balanced and self...'