'Shame|||I am weird but I realize I'd rather be myself than someone who doesn't have an opinion/prefer to hide their opinions|||I do kinda like aloof guys who are a little less emotional than I am but at the same time who are honest and don't play games.|||I've felt this most of my life, the people in my family were very different and they had no idea who I am, so when I used to talk about things that interested me or my feelings, they'd either change...|||Because the one's I've met are manipulative and very judgmental about anyone who doesn't fit in. Also they play all sorts of passive aggressive games if they don't like anyone while pretending to be...|||Actualized type: INFP (who you are)    Introverted (I) 75.76% Extroverted (E) 24.24% Intuitive (N) 78.13% Sensing (S) 21.88% Feeling (F) 64.52% Thinking (T) 35.48% Perceiving (P) 74.29%...|||I think it is a real issue for some people and it makes sense why they would be frustrated. No man has ever expected me to be an ideal feminine image. I think it really comes down to individual...|||Weird, I think there're more posts about why people hate sensors or ESFPs than there're posts that actually show hatred towards them|||So I'm starting to doubt that this ESFJ in my life is abusive. But I don't know for sure if he's indeed abusive or its just our worldviews clashing. Can someone help me figure out how does an abusive...|||How can OP actually fuck MBTI? Its unrealistic. O.o|||I'd probably act like an ESTJ|||Good point and agreed. But there's also a thing about fitting in. Sometimes people try to appear more homogeneous than they actually are just to fit in. So perhaps from a outside perspective they...|||I agree, its not fair to blame everyone of a particular preferance (sorry it took me a while to post). Although I've noticed a trend in MBTI forums, someone vents about how the sensors they know in...|||What? You guys never daydream? Daydreaming is imagination.|||What do you guys think of those? Can you give me some tips about how should I tolerate them better?|||Entp|||^Please mention this to my ESFP brother. He always gets mad at me because I eat too much junk food and I'm not very responsible. I'm the adult here according to the description and he's the one who...|||You clearly misread my point, I was trying to point out that you can't generalise about a type just because you had bad experiences with a few of them just like I don't like to generalise because I...|||And its not a generalisation at all, right? I've been abused by some ESXPs in real life, so does that mean ESXPs in general feel they're socially superior to everyone and need to take out they're...|||I agree with your statement but yeah, its not really relevant incase of the group of people I mentioned considering they think I'm one of those people who try and hurt them while its something I...|||I don't know about their ability to understand others, the people I'm talking about think everyone including their best friends are stabbing them in the back haha (not type related). I don't think...|||Just wondering, is there anything wrong with not being deep? I know people who don't like to take life too seriously and would rather be out there making jokes than discussing theories or reading...|||There're different kinds of intelligence out there. The ESXPs I know have amazing social and concrete intelligence and I think these are important things to have. They don't have much of an abstract...|||No|||I always enjoy reading your posts teddy, you seem like a mature well rounded person. Unfortunately, the Ss I know irl tend to take their traits as granted and seem to think its the only way to be. As...|||Yes!|||That was awesome|||I am attracted to assertive guys but dominent guys are not for me. I do tend to fall in the passive side but I'm not submissive either.|||I wasn't talking about INFPs in particular. I was talking about my dad's opinion that either you totally conform or you don't conform at all. I do agree with your point though.|||Well an extreme example that comes to mind is wearing clothes. Most people do wear clothes and its generally considered as normal.|||I agree, conformity does have it place and adaptibility is one of the most necessary traits people should have. At times INFPs need to get out of their heads and know what's practical as well. What I...|||I'm sorry if I'm making a generalisation but are ESFJs usually very conformist? I was just talking to my ESFJ dad, we don't really see eye to eye on most things but anyway he said if I want to...|||^Yeah they are kind of weird. You just described my INTJ ex but he wasn't so reckless. He'd say things just to piss people off but he did have some ideals. The ESTPs, I don't know, maybe everything's...|||I didn't let his other comments slide because I wanted to maintain harmony, I let them slide because I thought they were just jokes and I didn't want to get too worked up over them. But last night...|||I want your perspectives on something. So I was talking to this friend right now, we were joking around and stuff then he said something that deeply hurt one of my strong ideals. It just really hurt...|||This and  this. Ne is actually one of my favourite functions. Seeing possibilites, making connection and trying out new ideas just for novelty's sake..fun things.|||I wish I knew what's its like to live without shyness/anxiety. I've always been painfully shy and anxious. I think I was born with a rather anxious temperment, my upbringing (type 6 parents) didn't...|||Oh I'm late but I'd definitely like to know more. Sorry about your dad.|||I don't know how much of us die when the physical body dies. But there's a function of physical body, hence it exists. The ego serves a function too, if we weren't afraid of our own death, we'd...|||I think there's really a fine line between idealism and realism. But I do agree that it should be done in some cases but not in others. Like, I have terrible social anxiety and I've always been...|||Life is full of surprises though, you never know when something new comes along. You might think everythings over but then something makes life worthy of living again. That, or I'm just reaally an...|||But we come here to live, not to die. Anyway I think a person should have ultimate control over their own lives but they should really really reconsider before taking their lives and it should a...|||I think ESFPs are fun people. They always come up with these activites and places to visit. They're also as disorganised as me. The ones I know are very paranoid though. They think everyone's...|||Actually, I don't see the point of telling someone who's suicidal that they're selfish for feeling that way. Its not like after hearing this they'll go, oh if that's the case I'll try being happy...|||Well the only way that comes to mind is discovering yourself which you will over time I'm sure. You have those traits within you too and many other unique ones. I was the same way when I was younger,...|||Don't even get me started about this ISFP I knew. I had no idea Fi has potential to be this ugly untill I met him. But yeah he was a very emotionally unhealthy individual. He either didn't bother or...|||School can be hard for sensitive children too (Fi doms specially), if she doesn't have supportive friends it can be harder. For me, home has always been my safe heaven. Outside home I'd have to...|||Because I was born this way? I'm really shy though, sometimes I wonder if I might've been some sort of an ambivert if I wasn't socially anxious. I find that I draw energy from both being alone and...|||Specific? I kind of have a hard time being specific (underdeveloped Si maybe). So okay how does Ne-Ti affect your social interactions, interpersonal relationships, work, everyday habits? There, as...|||This describes me when I was a child and still to an extent. I hated being told what to do, even the most basic things. My family being SJs, they would always tell me to do my chores routinely,  to...'