'Yep.    In the beginning, we had near constant intellectual discussions---he wanted to know my opinion on everything. It was a little stressful, only because most of my friends wouldn't go that...|||I had to think about this for a while.  I'd say the most easily recognized symptom of sadness for me is exhaustion. If you can imagine having a stone in your chest, weighing you down as you walk...|||If I wanted to hook up with a stranger, being a girl it'd be pretty easy. I'd go to a fraternity house in something low-cut, get/act drunk, and that's pretty much it. You really don't have to try all...|||I've always hated this about Pro-Choicers. The lack of scientific backing they put into their arguments gives me a headache, and I find myself just not being able to debate with them anymore. If they...|||I've had to live with an both an ESFJ sister and college roommate. I think the biggest issue I have with them is their tendency to talk a lot, but other than that, if you haven't managed to get on...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmFp0I8AZqw|||I feel like such an child saying this, but I have an intense fear of being around emotional outbursts, so if someone raises their voice, bawls, has a panic attack, or makes violent physical gestures...|||Starting posts and then abandoning them? This is a constant for me. Ever since I went away to college, I've found I'm unable to type my thoughts out as easily as I once could. It's quite frustrating...|||Are any of you INTJs overtly nice? Meaning, you can't help but feel bad for and watch out for others---giving most people the benefit of the doubt.|||Laugh tracks.  The ones who make Facebook shrines to their relationship and/or frequently post about how bad their life is trying to make everyone feel sorry for them.  People who judge everyone...|||I'd rather elope, but in reality know I'd never be able to go through with it. I like my family too much. It's not that marriage isn't important to me, I just don't like large ceremonies, or people,...|||-Atheism: Agnostic Catholic.  -Vegetarian and veganism: No  -Pansexuality, Bisexuality, or asexuality: Straight. I'm actually not a big fan of all these new sexual titles. I mean, do I really...|||What a jerk. I try to avoid treating others badly, but I think shunning people who do stuff like that is reasonable, lets them know their behavior is unacceptable.   Though, it's also very...|||1. Deciding to teach myself Japanese when I was sixteen, then Russian when I was eighteen... because I was bored.  2. Fossil hunting, obsessing over trilobites and placoderms, things that went...|||So I have an INTJ of whom I'm having a long distance relationship with. We got to spend the winter break together, but he left for college a couple of days ago and the last night I saw him he even...|||What can I do for an INTJ that's really sad?|||I go on a two to three mile long walk every day to meditate. It's impulsive, I can't think straight if I'm not allowed to do it.  I also enjoy hiking and biking out in the country when I have the...|||I suffer from delayed sleep phase syndrome, which essentially means I'm nocturnal---more than just a late night person. I like that I get to be alone, but it's also constricting. Sometimes I wish I...|||My high school psychology class took the mbti test with twelve participants, only two claimed to be sensors (pretty sure I was the only N in the room). My vocations class also took it, and about half...|||My ENTJ brother randomly decided to be a vegetarian from when he was seven to eleven years old. I never understood why, but because I didn't eat all that much meat myself, he kept trying to convince...|||I have two male INFJ friends. One of them thought I was keeping secrets long before I had anything to keep. The other is new and thinks I'm completely transparent, even now that I do keep secrets. ...|||Are we mysterious?   I've been told by several peers that I'm hard to read or complicated.  But it's not just the comments, there are some individuals dead set on getting me to reveal my...|||I've always gone for INTJs, even before I knew what an INTJ was. But I'm generally attracted to functions different from mine, so I could see an INTP falling for an IxFP----Fi especially always...|||I'm taking an antidepressant now, but I forgot to take it for some five days back in September and it caused me to become delusional. I swear it effects everyone differently, but in equally terrible...|||ADD was the diagnosis, but yeah, I have it. They decided I had attention problems when I was four. The real issue was, I couldn't be disciplined, because I always saw the things adults told me as up...|||Though I tend to feel things very strongly while listening to music, I always found crying over songs to be kind of difficult. That's probably just my tendency towards things though. I don't cry over...|||That would explain a lot. Your kind isn't very emotionally open are they? He's been super sappy with me ever since we started hanging out, but whenever things get too intense he ends up pretending it...|||Would an INTJ ever cuddle someone they didn't like?   Mine doesn't want to call what we have anything more than platonic, but then everything he ever does suggests otherwise. We're quite...|||Are most INTJs super physically affectionate?   I've really been feeling the Fi-Se with mine recently. We'll be having these deep intellectual discussions, and he'll end up cuddling me for five...|||When I got my wisdoms extracted at seventeen, I refused pain killers. But that was more because I was pissed at having to be put out with anesthetics and undergo a surgical procedure. It wasn't bad....|||INTP, 22  I don't really think aspergers is connected to being an NT.   All of the really intellectual NTs I've met are eccentric and harbor intense hobbies, but they also have really good...|||What specifically do you find confusing?  Also, types generally don't work that way. I understand what you mean though. If you've read into the cognitive functions, you could re-word it and say...|||I look for people with opposite functions. Mixes things up. Particularly, I like the Te-Fi combo. Te makes me feel organized and safe, Fi just seems more genuine.    ENTP, ESFJ, ISFJ---All of...|||I think I can be practical when I want to be. The issue with conflict is, I love to debate and I'm happy when people voice their opinions, it's just when they start getting emotional I draw a line....|||This isn't the case, but I understand where you're coming from. One of my best friends (an ENFP) is suicidal and has frequent panic attacks. I never know what's going to set her off and it's very...|||I've know this friend since we were thirteen, and a little over a year ago I figured out she was suicidal. Really, I don't know much what to do except make myself available to hang out when she needs...|||I'd say I probably get a lot more of this crap than most people do. I have ADD, so throughout school I've been forced to go to learning support for help and accommodations, and those places are often...|||I can be kind of passive sometimes and I feel like I have to explain myself to nice people, meaning, they're not aggressive.     Thank you for being so understanding. I was worried people would...|||I've asked him more times than I can count to stop digging at my personal issues, and he's refused every time.  I've tried asking nicely, indirectly, given subtle hints, told him flat out that I...|||I have really bad anxiety, the kind that can cause constant physical symptoms like nausea, headaches, shaking, and sleep deprivation. My friends all know about it, not because I want help, but...|||I typically know someone is an INFJ when they're deeply interested in getting me to open up. Why do you do this?|||The one that has multiple panic attacks a week yet denies there's anything wrong with them. Or the one that gets anxiously latched onto their inferior Si to the point where they won't try new food....|||I have a thing with an INTJ as of recently, and while I don't think they mind unemotional women, from my understanding, they like the sensitive and supportive ones.   Now, I'm an INTP yes, which is...|||I don't much understand what people mean when they say breakdown. Couldn't that mean a lot of things? Some people call an anxiety attack a mental breakdown, others use the term to describe a fit of...|||I have three younger brothers and one younger sister.  One day when I was out kayaking for a family reunion, I told my youngest brother and cousin (both only five years old at the time) that there...|||I usually don't want or expect the same things most people do when experiencing strong negative emotions, so it's always been difficult for me to know what to do when they just drop their feelings in...|||I usually leave when experiencing strong emotions, never having the energy to explode/deal with people at that moment.  When sad, I feel like I can barely move (much less go into hysterics). When...|||There are a lot of things INTPs will do in the pursuit of knowledge, but paying $650 to access a sugar daddy website? What sort of tests could he possibly be running? It's highly likely he has a...|||Someone said it. I actually find the probing to be fruitless though. Even if I give in and tell the INFJ what I'm thinking, there's a huge difference between hearing and comprehending. I feel super...|||Look into the cognitive functions.   For INTPs, these are:  Ti - Personal logic. INTPs are constantly analyzing everything, because we obsess over accuracy. Our opinions are well thought out. ...'