'I just cry it out, literally. After a good cry, I usually feel better. If it's something I can talk about, I try to find someone to talk to. If it's over something in my control (almost never!) like...|||INFJ (84% 84% 58% 63%) 2w1|||Repping Cancer :)|||Oh no, I blatantly asked. I hinted then asked then hinted then asked. then we fought about it lastnight because I made a comment that he didn't like regarding the fact that he wouldn't come....|||why waste your precious time? Even if you take it to the extreme- like someone kills your family member... what could it possibly help for you to seek revenge? your better off focusing energy on...|||LOL I'm just doing some moon astrology and put my birthdate in down to the time, it's scary how accurate some of the personality stuff is.. then there are some predictions, I'm just gonna copy and...|||the moment you stop caring about others' (ESPECIALLY STRANGERS) opinions of you is the moment that those people (ESPECIALLY STRANGERS) stop trying to get under your skin.  I used to be...|||hahahaha love them all...  glad to know i'm not the only INFJ who is has an extremely silly/corny/strange sense of humor. =]|||just needed a vent, feel a little better already even though I'm still upset.. oh well.|||ugh just when i think i'm emotionally balanced.. a plummet..  i have a show tomorrow and i just wanted him [bf] to come to it.. i had been hinting at it all week to blatantly asking him a few...|||^gah i'm such a stereotypical girl in some ways, its a shame the stereotypical girls never gave me a chance in high school bahaha|||cotton candy pink|||one of my INFP best friend's is more like an extrovert when he's around people, but he's stupid/silly/embarasses himself in large groups (which is part of the reason everyone loves him lol) but he's...|||lmaoo this thread is funny.. but uh my suspected ESTP boyfriend does know how to talk to ladies.. he doesnt really work any angles, he's just good at flirting =] and he prefers talking to girls over...|||I've been told I have an intimidating gaze also... hmm|||^your so pretty,Kelsey!! =]|||I'm assuming my eyes are quite beautiful, as that's what I've been told by a lot of people.. but let me see if I can find a photo.. ...|||Empathy is absorbing the feeling of others around you, particularly when they are in pain or sad.. You cry, I cry  Empathy is also seeing someone who is sad or in emotional pain and taking action...|||I think a big difference here might be that the introvert is extremely talkative/social in intimate settings (1-2 other people) and the extrovert is extremely talkative/social in large crowds of...|||NOOOO!!! one of my INFP best friends is definitely not a coward.. he was one of the only people to stand between me and my ex when I was scared to death my ex was going to hurt me.. he held him back...|||So I know there's a few threads like this floating around but I want one with active people on it.. people that I actually have been interacting with recently.   Feel free to post photos of...|||how the hell did hitler end up being an INFJ? aren't we the most compassionate? lmfao|||LOL this may be TMI, but the thing I admired about my boyfriend when we first started dating is how comfortable he was with no clothes on. I'm getting there, and I'm fine around him now definitely.....|||57... above average.. If I took this test a year ago, I'd probably have at least 10 points more? Only because I was much more emotional and sensitive back then.. I've taken efforts to kind of...|||Well I'm definitely an INFJ and definitely an introvert.. However, in the past year I've developed the ability to be more social and extroverted.. Basically, I don't crawl into my hole as often as I...|||I had a brief 5th grade boyfriend which was a joke and lasted a week. Had another such boyfriend my freshman year in high school, we held hands! (big deal I know) My first relationshit (not a typo)...|||I would say so. I have never been to therapy (went with my ex a few times, but that was about him.. not me) because my horses are my therapy. I used to sit in my gelding's (boy horse) stall and cry...|||My opinion is that every single person has good and evil in them. Sort of like the cognitive functions, these qualities can be introverted or extroverted.. They can be well developed or avoided. The...|||maybe i dont count, but I told my boyfriend I loved him the night I expressed my feelings for him.. I had been denying the fact for 6 or so months.. but I also knew subconsciously he wasn't a feeler...|||my boyfriend (suspected estp) would do something like that in high school. happy to say he has matured beyond that sort of behavior, but school is definitely not one of his strong suits! (and...|||never thought of it that way.. people definitely drain me after awhile..|||When I read the title, I thought the thread was going to be about how we might change our memories based on our perceptions of others' actions or events during the memory. For example, when in a...|||LOL i've always hated cats.. now that im slightly more mature i let the cats choose me, and i like the cats that do... i'm more of a dog/horse person tbh.|||I'm definitely not offended that you thought I might not be an INFJ, I just wanted to validate myself a little bit.. I could give you a list of INFJ-y characteristics I have, though I occasionally...|||Razare, I suppose your right!|||You may be on to something. A guy in my math class (I was a freshman in a sophomore math class) in high school used to make unrelenting fun of me for being well endowed (boobs, I mean) and I was in...|||True. but I never seem to get the attention that I want. (I suppose I mean that in past tense... since I have my boyfriend and he's all the male attention I really need) Very rarely does a good...|||I LOVE YOUR SIGNATURE. Sorry, flaming my own thread. but, I literally say that to every single person who asks what I mean. my boyfriend gets it too much.. but thats because he asks me at the dumbest...|||I've been told many times about how attractive I am, but since I was young I've pretty much refused to see myself in terms of beauty (externally) and am not one to say I'm prettier than ___ or even...|||LOL the guy in high school was weird because I gave him friends only signals, told him I only liked him as a friend, told our mutual friends (his guy friends who asked me how I felt about him so...|||A lot of valid points. I've always been one to try to understand people, but I'm not always sure that he has. I'm not sure what his type is, and couldn't even begin to guess- some people typed him...|||1. What is your view about love?  I believe you can choose to love people or you can fall in love. If you choose to love people, you love them despite their flaws or the hurt they cause you. If you...|||I'm sure this happens regardless of type, but I feel like most girls probably don't have to put up (or maybe it's that refuse to put up?) with guys developing feelings when you were clearly sending...|||OMG! I never realized it was an INFJ (well sort of did, but not to such an extent) thing to hate selfish, inconsiderate people! I always thought it was a learned behavior of mine, and not necessarily...|||Yes. I attract all sorts of weirdos, some not so bad when you get to know them.. others I realize i need to cut loose before it becomes an issue. I dont want to be mean either, but you should...|||I can definitely relate. I have been called selfish, spiteful, and other things I can't recall ATM. It's funny because I'm never selfish (until recently, I realized I needed to be a little more...|||I hate cops and have bad experiences with most of the cops I have come across. I know that it is an individual thing and I know some cops are nice people who do their job well. The rest of them are...|||I think the argument can also be made, according to the last paragraph of your Individualistic Doer: Love   that if a ESTP commits to someone who is their opposite (according to functions), they...|||I try not to nag, though sometimes I admit I feel there is no other option. Since he's been doing his own thing (without needing my nagging) I haven't been nagging at all.. My boyfriend has become...|||I'm sorry to hear that, but it sounds like you did what you could. It's a shame he didn't do his part as well. I understand being the sick one as I'm often given a similar attitude (though, most...'