I agree with the poster above!!  And I don't believe in it, love how we believe in it (in the West) is a social construct|||.|||Maybe I kept it too vaque. I did that to see how you guys would interprent my words. In my own case with ''The Ideal'' I mean the ultimate. Why not go for your dreams!! I believe that if you believe...|||Lesbian|||Can you relate? I really have this a lot... and (sometimes) I delay other things I want to do because I feel like I can't do anything yet because I don't have this ideal base or self-concept /...|||And what are your outlets for Ne than? On of my things is art, making something visual. Like make the idea's, concepts, abstract things, emotions visible. Somehow telling a story but not in a obvious...|||I mean by that I have to better myself...and work on some shame issues. I feel like I have to make more progress in my own life first for entering a relationship.  And I'm a true romantic, I want...|||Me too, I feel I'm not good enough for a relationship.|||And how do you find all the new friends? I'm curious how do you guys do that?|||I'm 3/4 Dutch and 1/4 Uzbek...  Not a country you here of everyday... My grandfather is from Uzbekistan|||Nothing here, I have to diverse taste to put like one song here :P|||Well, I'm the living proof it can be done ;-)|||Oh thanks for replaying! That friend also practices Wing Chun and he explained to me the difference between hitting the opponent with TKD or with Wing Chun. He said the later was center orientated....|||I thought teakwondo wasn't really about hitting in the face.... I did a bit of teakwondo with some friends of mine. They explained me stuff but I never took official lessons. At the gym I also tried...|||You have so many of these threads... similar like this one. Does it really help when everybody here says they same things over and over again...? And you also keep repeating yourself! I don't think...|||I do ^^,  Haha, I thought why not? Let's make a thread and see what happens...|||Hi, Flaming Bassoon :)   Do you like more girly girls or tomboys are also okay for your tastes?  Just curious.|||Haha yes cultural advantage here! ;-) The famous Dutch directness... combined with ENFP personality hahaha. Thanks for the sweet words Nicoloco90!  Well sometimes I wonder if I fit neatly in the...|||Haha, you mean it's difficult to be all these things at once? Like in one person?|||I also think it's an 4w3 or a 7w6 thing :-)  Like being really playful and not constricted by rules of gender...|||Haha anyway thanks for replaying.. yes I was hoping to find like minded souls hahaha :P In what way would you describe your sis as a tomboy? Maybe androgyny is an ENFP thing? But I would describe...|||I'm one too ;-)|||Haha funny, my ISTJ friend called me annoying today. He told me ''Just try to act normal''  I'm also too energetic and talkative for his taste.  He finds me funny but he can't handle being around...|||When I was a little kid I used to be really skinny, and my grandma was always complaining about that haha. Growing up I still was skinny but when I hit puberty i gained some weight, and my body...|||Try something crazy, out of your comfort-zone, to shake things up... that's what I always try to do. Gives me new fresh energy. And the energy gives me inspiration / a new perspective to purse my...|||So many nice pictures here :blushed:|||449162 Infp or Enfp eyes?|||449122449154|||I'm also Dutch|||Is it weird that I seek out rejection and criticism? That I'm attracted to those kind of people. If a person is nice to me, and believes in me, than I feel really strange, secretly I don't believe...|||https://youtu.be/KbEGaiR3MqE?list=PLYJK8XeB4SseD0f7qdC_c2SEpjuSNgzlE  Colony 5|||Hi there ^_~|||Just a femme lesbian ENFP ;)|||Trough this I realize that I'm just a ENFP who behaved like an INFP. In the sense that I used to be very shy and had low self-esteem. Which caused me to behave very introverted and withdrawn. But...|||This is an interesting analyze, I've been depressed for serval times, but when I feel like my normal self, happy, more self-esteem, feeling on the right track than I test ENFP. With my close friends...|||Love, attention, affection, hugs, kisses, sweet words, tenderness, connection, true feelings, lying next to my future soulmateXD Sorry haha I've become a bit obsessive with the idea of having a...|||I love this thread, about love^^ And I really love love!! hahaha in al seriousness I'm a hopeless romantic....and yes other people gave answhers like this I know, but it's true for me also. I'm so...|||awhh it's still in the same level, but I saw him again today! It actually makes me feel even more in love with him. But I know he just likes me, but not love or such things. I don't know, mabye I...|||I have the weird guys thing also... sadly... and I think I have some form of fear of intimacy and abandonment issues.. in the mix. Sometimes I wonder if I'm not making things too complicated and just...|||321538  I'm currantly in my nerdy state... not referring to my glasses I have those for a long time, I mean my hair, I'm letting it grow long :) I want to look more attractive(A)|||Nobody cares about the real me. They only like you when I am their entertainment...|||Yes I hate it... I just want to be myself and not put on a show. I feel so lonely because of it, like nobody knows my true self, and I also have the feeling they don't care. Or that I'm to strange to...|||Nothing... dwelling on negative thoughts and idealising the past times, and idealizing old friendschips and such...|||Psyduck describes me really wel, actually..    297570    An energetic being that revolves around the positive and the negative in the world. You hold your head to keep you balanced when things...|||Inspirational! I love it. And I'm glad you still can express yourself, even when depressed.|||Is this weird? I also have 'normal' friends...but when I'm also in depression mode I gravitate to these people. Sorry for bringing my own stuff up so much.|||My answer to this thread could be a tread on it's own... I wonder if other ppl would get in the same situations as I did... And what did they do to make themselves and their boundaries stronger......|||Yes i do, I have the feeling/idea that I have to make other people happy... and that I need to please them, do things for them. And I'm afraid to say ''no''. And the be clear to other people of how I...|||I did that in the past a couple of times... those were goth/metal concerts. I would much rather go with a friend than go alone to a concert/gig. I had to go by myself because at the early point I...|||I have this with drawing/ visual arts right now. I think its also good to have some sort of routine in it... for a bit. And try to have fun with it again, instead of trying to force yourself to be...