'I think you need to meet my Wife... or maybe that's why she sticks with me... I must cook really well :cool:    I agree with you that it doesn't need to be always the same person cooking, but I...|||Nahh! Not this one. You never know the true outcome of your options. Even today, there may still be unforeseen consequences waiting for you, and these can be good or bad. Only time will tell.|||I wish time to freeze (except for me) so I keep doing my stuff without rushing nor being interrupted. 48h days for me and 24h normal days for everyone else wouldn't be bad at all, at least for some...|||Nonsense! Tradition should be bound to usefulness. Like covering your hair when cooking, using scrubs to do a surgery or communicating in a certain way (including body language). I'd like to to put...|||W: I've got a piece of cow on my tooth. M: Isn't it your gum? W: No! Its really a piece of meat. M: lol! W: What? M: You didn't get the joke! W: What joke?! M: I have a piece of...|||Yes it does, that's why I usually just nod my head or say something like Ok or Ahh. I didn't know that or That's right. I assure you conversation will end with most people.|||This can be me, depending on the day and context. It comes and goes in waves, and I can heat up and cool down very quickly, often taking others and myself by surprise (it was a lot worse when I was...|||Sorry, it isn't possible to have such a category. ^ Categorized as Humor/Speech act theory disregard/Misunderstanding the illocutionary act|||Immaturity, insecurity and delusion.|||1w9 (sp). At least that's what the test gave me, but from the description I agree: definitely more towards sp than sx.|||You'll clear up your head once you see yourself as a biological entity among millions, and not as a superior species with some special higher mission to accomplish. But anyway, it's always good to...|||No, not repeatedly. Maybe for another person, not for myself, and even for another person there's a thin line on my tolerance. We all have to get out of our comfort zones eventually, but I won't put...|||I don't know exactly what you mean. For example, I hate my hair groomed and with products. I just like to take bath, dry it with the towel and then pass my hands on it and let it dry naturally. Of...|||lol!!|||Please stop torturing the man. Enjoy while you can, you're not 20 any more. My Wife is an ISFJ and I can see some resemblance. I just hope she feels like you described in the 1st part. I already said...|||Sometimes I do, depending on the context, but I usually don't do anything about it. The effort it takes isn't worth it, unless we're talking about specific cases. like applying to a job, not wanting...|||So, he doesn't like you, he rejected you, and you're asking advice on wether he would prefer to be ignored or given some pleasantries (or being polite, I think this is what you mean)? What about...|||What if you just act natural, just like you FEEL like acting? Why ignore him and why be forcedly pleasant? I just don't get it! You really think you will be able to premeditate your behaviour without...|||I don't forget, unless my phone is off when my Wife rings me to remember on my way home. It just happens that my phone is off very frequently, and I keep remembering I need to charge my phone... in...|||Logic/math: 4.71 Self: 4.29 Spacial: 3.57  Curiously, I made an IQ test many years ago and the result was something like Visual/Spacial Mathematician (don't remember the exact words).|||I don't know what is the most beautiful song I've ever heard. I guess I'd have to go to classical/oriental music, but I rarely listen to it these days.  I just remembered these two, which I like a...|||INTJ - this trait is both our flaw and our strength.|||Well, I abruptly ended friendships in two occasions before, but these were nothing compared with your case (they were serious enough to make me blow my mind deploy hanger all over the place). In my...|||Yes. It affects my life positively. There's a saying in my country which can be translated as Better alone than with a bad company. This suits me very well.|||lol!|||I'd like to set patience and tolerance apart, as these terms are used interchangeably but have very different meanings.  So, that said, I'm patient (with occasional and short impatient bursts) but...|||I see poverty as a terrible waste. Waste of human potential on one side, and waste of resources futilely allocated on the other side.  Exquisitor I agree it isn't as simple as redistributing...|||I'll do it right next time.  It doesn't always work, but keeps me going and focused on my goals.|||I don't see anything related with ethics here. There is a demand for work and you do it. Where is the ethic questioning? Maybe your boss was referring an issue other than you finishing the work...|||I often fantasise with morbid/violent/gore scenarios. Always did since I was a kid, but it's not like I'm morbid outside (apart from occasionally spewing some dark jokes which make people raise their...|||That's an easy fix. Go to his manager or something, and explain the chair is used for the clients to sit and explain the problems, and that they are complaining about it. Be distant, cordial, and...|||I feel selfish and bad with myself for being so detached from everything/everyone, so I do my best to be altruistic, and then I feel guilty/revolted/frustrated for not putting myself first. Many...|||Yes, me too. But even so it isn't easy for her. She sees her feelings as being obvious to me, but they're not (I don't think they're obvious to herself either). At the beginning it was much worse, so...|||That's not how I interpreted the post you quoted:   The way I see this is that if there are signs that something isn't ok, people need to address those issues with honest disclosure, not by...|||Oh boy! You sound exactly like my Wife having a tantrum. Please don't take this as offensive and don't judge this post as me being inconsiderate of my Wife, but it happens from time to time. I just...|||This one made me think. My conclusion is that it's certainly true when you try to draw conclusions from an observational study. You can only draw hypothesis from those. Conclusions must come from...|||Rationalisation is always done on data. There's no other way. It needs a basis to start, whether that data is related with events, rules, beliefs, or other abstract concepts. The main difference...|||I also wouldn't like most of what goes into my head to be known.|||Right there! This is where we differ. I need to do the rest of the work so I can prove I'm right. I'm very sceptical of my own (or other's) deductions, no matter how logical they may seem. And I've...|||That's not exactly what I meant. I meant the plan isn't fixed, and so I rarely keep the same plan until the end of the project. It gets updated as I do the work and deadlines can't always be met...|||Yes, I can relate to this entirely. Keeping the initial plan to the end is another matter.    I do have this tendency, but the available time keeps me from dwelling for too long. This state is...|||https://www.discogs.com/K-Frimpong-His-Cubano-Fiestas-K-Frimpong-And-His-Cubano-Fiestas/master/309407  Current song:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkIUIOEhZMI&amp;feature=youtu.be|||Ho boy! I'm exactly like that! Yesterday my Wife needed a tupperware and found one full of cheese, smelling bad has hell. It happens that last week I bought the cheese, neatly put it in the...|||Yesterday I took the hot glass bowl from the coffee/tee machine and tried to fill it up with cold water (I wanted to make more tee). You can guess the outcome. How do you think I felt?|||Independently of he being an INTJ or not, it looks like you're working in an unfriendly environment, judging from the behaviour description you gave from other colleges. I don't know if there's some...|||If he's anything like me, texting is boring because there's too much to tell. That's why face-to-face conversations are much better. Emojis are not my thing, but hey, I'm not that young anyway, and a...|||I have two words for you: categorize and systematise. That is, organize your space in categories and then follow a system to keep them in the same place. You can pile them up in any way. The...|||I'm not competitive at all. I am who I am and I'm generally comfortable with that. However, I'm constantly trying to improve myself and smarter or more knowledgeable persons help me achieving it. I...|||IMO: INTJ's argue to get to a point. INTP's argue for the sake of arguing. They like to twist argumentation just to get the conversation going. I don't like that. Be glad you agree on most issues,...|||Yep! I know that feeling. It can last for weeks and make everyone around me go crazy with my absent/distant/cold behaviour. But then it goes away for the next n months.'