'Sometimes I ask myself things like this when I get sudden feelings that don't make sense to me. If I'm patient with myself and choose not to suppress my feelings at all, even negative ones, honest...|||Sorry I derailed a bit, but my point is I put a lot of thought into flirting, although I usually take the direct route and continue observing for what to do next.|||personally, though I will have to read through the other comments to see if it's the same for everyone, I directly ask people at, easily accept rejection of such ideas, and openly compliment other...|||To address your P'ness: MBTI says we're J's or Judgers. But the truth is Perceiving dominates my life (I'm assuming it's this way for other INFJ's). The only way judging factors in is that I reserve...|||I'm usually daydreaming while I do my chores and the rest of my body is on autopilot. I'm not sure if I'm alone here (but I believe I'm not). I mean have you ever day dreamed you were on flying in...|||I detach and attach to other people in a very abrupt manner. I should learn to stop doing that though. It would be better for everyone if I just took things a bit (or a lot) slower.|||I come down with this a lot. I haven't found a cure for it.  Are there any things you've noticed? I tend to spend more and get out of the house more. I also tend to meet more people  Do you...|||I guess I like the being yourself bit a lot more. A lot of people hate it when I be myself. There are a lot of annoying qualities to me. I guess I dislike the fact that it turns others off or that it...|||Inner Strength|||Most things.  Perhaps there's an addiction to finding things to get addicted to - Then I will plead guilty.|||I do sometimes have those thoughts; but they aren't often. I mostly imagine things and I don't really mind if they would or wouldn't come true because I think of them as just thoughts. Some of the...|||I'll say my mom. Not that I'm a momma's boy or anything. That's my baby brother. He got most of his influence from Dad though IMO|||The article touches some points about both MBTI models; but it needs more depth. What I mean is it only explores some parts of the personalities being described; not all. That's my take on it.|||I'll say no for now... I'm not that ready yet.|||Nope... and I doubt they ever will... The people at work don't understand me either. In fact, I don't think that my best friend understands parts of me that I'd like him to. Sigh... My extended...|||Fall in love with someone who can make time stop - figuratively, romantically, and heck perhaps literally. That timeless feeling...|||INFP - and I was so happy when I thought that I was. Then I found out I was INFJ, but I guess I'm still happy. I guess knowing myself is better than upholding a title or being someone I am not.|||True. I'm hanging out with a group of extroverts, and no matter what they do, they seem to find something odd or peculiar about one another (I'm no exception of course, so I guess I mean I've become...|||I'm into drama and other such novels.  *Blushing; followed by awkward prolonged awkward silence and the sound of crickets*  That and I might sometimes read a few primers in my spare time.|||Sometimes, when you hang out with people who are different from you, you tend to find these differences to be too striking. Perhaps it's the people you're with. I feel the same way among certain...|||I hope you pass those exams. I too want to leave the same legacy in this world. Not Children... just make the world a better place and pass on from it afterwards.   Thank you for being a good...|||Hang-out or favor requests made by friends or others during times when I'm about to sleep... I find lack of sleep to be very uncomfortable for me. It seems to affect me more than most people. If I...|||I agree about the persistence part. Even if you've got the right brain structure for it, you're not going to get very far if you don't maintain an open mind and the diligence that's required.|||Growing up, I used to think I wasn't attractive enough or blah blah blah whatever things I see in my face. It kind of made me sad.   One time, in high school, I asked my mom if I looked ugly; as...|||Awkward:   Sometimes I don't pay enough attention. I'm sometimes... no often... oblivious to my surroundings and my mind's attention is directed to whatever thought occurs to me, which led me to...|||One day the vine wilted I forgot to water it the day before and the day before and the day before  And then... it was no more I cannot revive the dead vine that lays limp and frail because I...|||I believe in you too Not that you that you show nor the you that they see But the you that you are to me  Funny meeting someone online without a fancy picture just a mind, a soul, and a heart...|||I self council; but I don't think I can call it objective. I guess it's an objective, subjective mix. The internal council meeting I have with myself and the other aspects of my persona give me...|||I enjoyed your story Lad.  I remember this one time, a family pet (a dog with black hair) used to be nice to me... However I noticed the other dogs (its relatives) would somehow either ignore or...|||Chose the other option. I think I avoid social interaction after considering both situation and preference. Though this might seem like something an extrovert would say; I would more often choose...|||Sitting on the edge of a boat that sails down the winding river I cradle an empty stomach while overlooking the path to the future clutching it tightly in my arms with unwavering...|||I would probably say something like Interesting. and contemplate on it until my thoughts wander. When I get lonely, I tend to think about other things - an instant remedy to that lonely feeling. I...|||In all honesty... whomever I am around I feel like they think I'm weird; and thus I feel like myself. I can however alter my external presentation to suit the situation if I feel like it (I know it...|||Sometimes the mind has reasons in the unconscious. By that I mean that you have reasons for doing something but you don't always think of the reasons for you to do it. Sometimes by way of habit it...|||If you want them now, you might have to put more and more effort each time you try to look for your specific friend. I guess I used to want specific people in my life just so I would have another...|||True... sometimes sketchier men tend to get the girls before the other ones do.|||Grades shmades. Those are superficial ways of appraising a person. Teachers only use them because of their convenience in measuring how well a student is performing. I mean, you're not the only...|||I apologize for editing certain words so that they're in bold; but I want to present another option to the one you've pointed out (as indicated by the words in bold). If you want an opportunity to do...|||Well, I read about Keirsey's temperaments on the 16 personality roles (they correspond to the MBTI types in some way); and the one for ESTP falls under Artisans. I read they tend to have difficulty...|||Um... I'm a bit extreme... so if I were you, I might do something sudden... like... delete my character, avatar, city, file (or whatever you make in the game to play). After doing so, I would delete...|||It sounds appropriate for the occasion. Then again; I am not fully certain of your goals. I have a feeling you might like to reconnect with them because they are dear friends of yours. An INFP friend...|||I've been around for a while on PerC; and I can say we usually have this sort of topic. We have a few threads about finding one's path and career and how it's a struggle for most. It's interesting to...|||In my case, I wouldn't say just guys... I sometimes have difficulty talking to ladies too... it's more of a depends-on-whom-I'm-talking-to sort of thing.|||1. I don't think I can say I have good control over my thoughts... I don't necessitate that sort of thinking or feeling... it's just that whenever I start to feel like I want to do it (even if it's...|||Indeed. My hands aren't very INFJ either. Both of them are a bit too Extroverted Sensing for me lol|||This may have some truth to it... All the functions aren't perfect, and maybe this is one of the setbacks of Fi... But we all know how Fe can screw us (and other people) up as well, I believe....|||I've experienced this feeling before. I wouldn't call it love at first sight though. That may be because I attribute something deeper to love than anything a thought or initial expression will ever...|||I am guilty of living in the past... but I admit it makes me really sad to think about what could have been.  When I eventually get bored of that, I want to contemplate about anything at all. It...|||I am learning to lie; but only because it has a right time and a right place. That is not always... I believe having to always lie is going overboard.  Screwing people up secretly and laughing at...|||Ah... I get like that once in a while. Then I sense others don't want to talk about the things that I want to discuss at times... It's sometime after that I get really quiet and fade from their...'