'My first bf was an ISTP, and we dated for like 1.5 years.|||I am definitely going to see one as soon as possible. I have other reasons to go see one as well.|||I have wondered about empathy myself. See the following link: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-empathic-brain/201307/inside-the-mind-psychopath-empathic-not-always  Also, I know I am...|||Gotcha.|||Why does being comfortable with yourself guarantee that you will become sociopathic?|||I am still new to the idea of sociopathy. I have been talking to someone I know that is a sociopath on and off. He said I was one. I think I have tendencies because of my parent. I can say that my...|||I was wondering if anyone on here is a sociopath or does anyone on here have sociopathic tendencies.   Due to my past experiences and one biological parent, I have sociopathic tendencies, so I was...|||I think one of my friends is also an ENFJ. However, my best friend is an INFP. I am not too close with people nowadays though.|||SO you want someone that is quite caring? I understand you.|||I do not know what you mean? I was controlling, but I realized that was due to my insecurities. I want to be in control of myself and actions, but I rather that a person could do the same. Or at...|||Why do you like being controlled?|||Why do you like being controlled?|||I am currently working at a college and at a retail store. I plan on finishing up studying mathematics, and then going on to start my career path towards becoming a mechanical engineer. I am looking...|||INTJs are like the most rare when it comes to personalities. My boss is one. I think she is only INTJ that I know currently.|||I see. I just tell people that I am not interested. My boundaries have only gotten blurred in close relationships, but when I am around strangers. I simple observe and go with the flow as long as...|||I see. That sounds like you were quite young at the time. We live, and we learn.|||So it was out of obligation?|||I see. Interesting. :)|||I do not know if I am really happy about anything anymore, but I do find enjoyment in things. I think this is related to a discussion I had about content being a hard high. I researched...|||This comment made me smile.|||Why is that? heh.|||I enjoyed reading this article. It makes me ponder a few things.|||I have already done the first rabbit hole. I am a type 3 with 4. I will check out the others today. Thanks mate.|||I will try this, and I will let you know how it goes. heh. I read into it last night online after reading your comments.|||I think i am just being difficult now. I really do not know how to follow my heart I suppose.|||But aren't humans prone to make errors?  I suppose I don't trust myself entirely. I have been undergoing some analysis of myself anyway.   Do you trust yourself entirely?|||But what about the mistakes that come from my following my heart and living in the present moment? Should I not have some plan of action. Heh. That remind me of Robert Burn's Poem To a Mouse. I...|||I can answer that question. I have perceived nothing in regards to myself until recently. I noticed that I was not as happy or content as I thought I should have been. I think balance is very...|||Sure. I would very much like to read your response about the rabbit holes. I am in a withdrawal stage now. I wonder if I am overdoing it. I just have not came to the proper conclusion just yet.|||It sort of makes sense, but I do not withdraw only when it comes to people. There are times when I just need to think and look at what is going on in my life to make a good decision.|||If I do not get me time, then I have a tendency to get irritated. I need time to process all that I have observed from people. I need time to charge my batteries.|||I studied Mathematics, but I plan on studying mechanical engineering after finishing up with mathematics.  However, what do you like to read about? What do you like to learn about mate?|||I think oversensitivity and insensitivity is all a matter of perspective.  Some people see things from a more logical standpoint, whilst others see things from a more emotional standpoint. One is...|||I actually prefer honesty over someone sparing my feelings. I am quite brutally honest myself. I am still learning how to use tact.|||Wikipedia Though the Keyhole Wicked The Picture of Dorian Gray|||I feel the same way as well. I am so grateful for the thread.|||I will try. Heh. He is not one who likes to be told what to do. Heh.|||This is the only reason I cry anymore as well. I do not cry much anymore. Crying seems like a waste of energy to me. I rather think of a way to get rid of the emotions that make me feel discomfort by...|||I suppose all I want is to accepted and for someone to take the time to understand how I work. I mean someone who really takes out time to truly get me and get to me. Also, I would like for people to...|||I recently learned that I do not like showing my emotions to anyone unless I trust them. I should add that I do not trust remotely anyone as of now. Specifically, I have had a horrible experience...|||Was she emotional prior to being open to logical solutions?  I have anxiety, so I overthink most things-especially negative things. I withdraw and I analyze how I responded, how I should responded,...|||No. I think I like to control others at times. I have been called controlling. Typically, when such event happens, I try to control that aspect of myself ironically. Actually, an INTP called me...|||I have an INTP or INFP friend that calms me. I like being around him. It is calming and nice, and I feel like I do not have to adopt his characteristics as much as I do with other people to obtain...|||I work with an INTJ, and it is wonderful. I like how we work independently. I do not like when people tell me how to exactly do my job, or when someone hovers over my shoulder. I like to have freedom...|||Anyone?|||I am an enfj. I have a tendency to do this as well. I was told by my roommate that asking why is childish. I find my inquisitveness quite charming.|||He is in his mid 20s. He has gone off on the tangent in the conversation at times. The weird thing is I observe him giving information to me. But he only gives the information that he feels will...|||o positive.|||Interesting. Thanks for the insight mate.|||I am not an INTJ. But I find that my thoughts are always in constant motion. I will admit it is overwhelming at times. It is mostly like that when I am around people and when I am stressed. My...'