'Ha, well now I know. And I can never un-know it.|||What the fuck is the lurk mores?|||Either your tongue is swollen, or you're saying that I'm hung--which I'm patently not.   Or is this a variation of unnnnnfffff?|||Spring/Summer: -Predominantly casual dresses and skirts with simple, monochromatic tops. -Sandals, not flip-flops.   Fall/Winter: -Jeans of all cuts but typically darker washes.  -I've a thing...|||What are bad feelings, exactly? That's not a rhetorical question, nor is it a question I don't know the answer to.   I suppose I realized at some point that feelings are feelings, and are...|||I dabble here and there.  Currently I'm on a hip hop kick, artists along the lines of Atmosphere. Been jamming to Atmosphere radio on Spotify all night.   I also took a many-year long hiatus from...|||Who knows.  Speaking for myself, I hate dinner dates. With a passion. And if it's at a crowded, loud restaurant then multiply that aforementioned hatred by at least ten.  But even then I'd power...|||Most of the stuff I want is too expensive to request. Such as: A new drum kit, tattoos, hiking equipment, a new stethoscope, and...well that's all I can think of actually.   My family is pretty...|||No hablo Español....|||d'ailleurs, il y a beaucoup de différentes formes de la liberté.|||I read, think, test, and problem solve quickly.  It's only in social situations that I can be a bit slow. It takes me longer to process things that are said aloud to me. The exception to this is...|||Single and alone, without a single doubt. I've rarely been able to give such a firm, non-hesitant response.   This is something I don't understand. Why do people insist on stringing each other...|||I collected rocks for years. Would disappear into the woods behind my parents' house or wherever we were camping and go rock hunting. Kept them organized by type, then further subdivided by color...|||Appeal to their own selfish desires in some way.|||Merci.|||Still bored.  55526 In my natural habitat. Like my blur job, by the way? That's how those of us who don't have photoshop roll. 55527 In my parents' guest bedroom, for those who pay attention to...|||55520  Can't sleep, vanity taking over...|||I can't speak for Jersey. My first nursing job was in ICU and I got it before I even sat for the boards. I think about two weeks after graduation? But that's a bit of a rarity...it helped that I...|||Is college worth it for liberal arts majors?  Probably not.  Was it worth it for me, as a nursing major? Most definitely. Student loans are a bitch but my yearly salary is more than the cost of my...|||Much of my behavior is misconstrued as flirting. Things like touching my hair, laughing, poking fun, engaging in intellectual banter...if that's flirting then I must be bisexual, because I behave...|||No, I haven't lost it. It just changes form occasionally. Some days it burns down to embers but I stoke it by taking some time out for quiet pursuits and thoughts (and working out helps too).  I'm...|||I enjoy being single immensely, and find comments such as, Oh we'll find you a good man or Don't worry you'll find someone incredibly...well, insulting really. And absurd. But I shrug them off...|||It's in constant flux for me, outside of the answers everyone gives (kindness, intelligence, the proper set of genitalia, etc). The flux is there because I'm not out shopping for monogamy, so to...|||Whatever inferiority complexes I suffered in the past were due entirely to my upbringing, and the ways in which that affected my innate personality characteristics.  Nowadays I'm fairly indifferent...|||I agree with what DesertWind said, regarding conversational tools to use to relate to people. At least for me personally it's the closest I can get to outwardly sharing an emotional connection with...|||I don't get bored very often, and never when I'm by myself. I easily keep myself entertained as there's always something I'm working on, from small things like reading a book to large things along...|||Seven tattoos (all but two, one on each wrist, hidden from daily view), have had a lip piercing in the past, along with a clit piercing for a couple months.   I feel so disconnected with my body...|||Yes, I do that all the time. For instance, I have a date tonight and so throughout the day have been rehearsing. I try to stop and can't.   But it helps me discern when I find somebody genuinely...|||Yeah, I chase the dopamine dragon, too.|||Not a bad lookin' monkey.|||Neither. Indifference.|||Yes. I think it's an occupational hazard of being a nurse in general, but it seems to affect me more strongly than it does my coworkers.  Sometimes it's something that creeps up on me slowly and...|||I've taken the enneagram a couple times and each time was spread pretty evenly across the board. Can't even remember what the results were.|||I suppose, although I don't think it's limited to that.|||In that case...  It can pretty much be summed up in one word: Curiosity.|||Maybe he's distracted by over-use of emoticons.|||Is this female specific, or shall I chime in with what I find attractive in a guy?|||Yeah, I've put quite a lot of thought into that and have complete intellectual acceptance of it. Boundaries and whatnot. Accepting that I can't control how others feel or what they think of me.  ...|||Like nearly everyone else said, it's different for everyone. My personal perspective is this, though:  Commitment isn't as difficult for me as intimacy. Kind of a head vs heart sort of thing. And I...|||I've only been able to manage establishing new friendships through work. Our job is a bit of an experiential niche, though, which makes it much easier. Without that common ground/foundation I'd have...|||As a fellow Michigander I have quite a lot of affection for Grand Rapids. Such a cool city. Ann Arbor is too, but it feels more forced. And for every cool college kid you'd wanna hang out with...|||Confidence and direction>aimless wandering, however meaningful. By a narrow margin. That's just my personal opinion, as in, I function better with a confident sense of direction. Some people wander...|||It's something I need to work on, yes.|||Uh, let me dig back here. I guess if I had to pigeonhole my 16 year old self I'd say she was an anarcho-punk hippie. I was at a point where I still had steely idealism as to how the world ought to...|||All accents (almost) are sexy. It signifies novelty. I don't think American accents are sexy, but that's because I'm around them all the time. Well, that and because they probably just aren't anyway.|||The key for me and ESFJs (or ExFxs for that matter) seems to be to enjoy each other's company in relatively small doses. I have one good friend I can confidently peg as one, and her and I have a...|||I don't think humiliation is harder for introverts by definition--as in, Oh no, people think I'm stupid--but because it implies that the spotlight of another's attention is focused rather glaringly...|||I don't know any other INTJs, but speaking from experience it seems people get some form of joy out of provoking me more than other people. Perhaps it's the confidence/arrogance I allegedly exude...|||Yes, but I have an olive complexion, and it tends to come with the territory. They're not awful. Probably no one but me even notices.  Not sure how this is an INTJ thing.|||I wish there was an attached transcript of that video. I can't focus on disembodied voices.  But, in regards to what you wrote I commiserate 100%. 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