'I really want to try this, but would have difficulty accomplishing this plan because we see each other everyday! But I did partially try this today, because instead of talking as much as we would...|||Well my ISFP friend does display laughing, he's just very good at hiding it if it's a bad time to laugh. This always amazes me because I can't hide my amusement, if I try to stop laughing I'll get a...|||This made me feel all warm and fuzzy, hahaha. But yes, your point is what I'm thinking. At least the ISFP should be doing some chasing, especially with reserved girls like us. :)|||I really get this mentality because I'm also the same. I would rather people come to me, so I know they really would like to talk to me and I'm not imposing myself on them.  Now I am thinking of...|||Fizz, you're lucky you can pursue naturally, but I'm a bit more hesitant on these kind of things. I've never really pursued and have a difficult time putting myself out there.  It's like this ISFP...|||I noticed with my ISFP crush that I would always be the one initiating the conversation. For example he'd just be sitting in his desk brooding, but I can sense he wants to tell me about his weekend,...|||So you'd have to know for sure what the other person's feelings are before you respond?  This ISFP guy I like, I've been extremely close with for the past few months. We spend almost the whole day...|||Can you guys give some examples on how you hint?  I like this ISFP a lot, and I have no idea if he is hinting that he likes me more than a friend, or he just acts this way to close girl friends....|||This post just brought me a ton of insight I don't even know where to begin with the barrage of thoughts and questions I want to follow up.  First of all, you got it brilliantly on the Alright, I...|||Hi there, new ENFJ, it's so hard to type your name, thaitieuthu (thank God for copy-paste). What you wrote here sounds like my situation. Have an ENFJ friend which never quite made it to the romantic...|||I got a 112, satisfactory. Agree with someone who said that INFP's would score high on being able to sense other people's emotion. But as to controlling what you're feeling it'd be quite hard.   I...|||I think I'm one of the people who read too much in between the lines to the point of grossly assuming. Sometimes I get it right, sometimes I don't. I most of the time don't when it comes to ME,...|||I see, that's kind of surprising to me, actually. I've always gotten that line, I don't know if it has something to do with the first impression I give to people being at odds with who I really am....|||I was also gonna guess INFP. The flake and sensitive to criticism  ----> stereotypes of one, hahaha.   Sometimes the reason I do flake out is that the thought of going out tires me. It feels...|||IrisSylph, I think there are times when you meet somebody for the first time, and when you get to know the person better, they open up to you. And usually that person tells you Oh you know the first...|||I get you. I have a feeling it has more to do with her upbringing (very materialistic) than her MBTI. I've gotten along well with some ESxx's, so I'm pretty sure it's not the MBTI itself.  I have...|||My boss was an ISTJ.  Needless to say, as an NF, I felt stressed every single time I was at work. My only break was when she had to be in other countries. Quitting that job (which I've held for...|||In all my life, the person I probably could not stand the most was an ESFP. I don't know whether it was her MBTI type (maybe I just don't mesh well with the combination of E, S, F and P, but she's...|||Personally, I get on better with introverts. I don't think I can be with somebody who flirts for flirting's sake, I'd be hovering between annoyed and jealous all of the time. But I think she may be...|||I think I can relate to this. Compared to my sister who's an SP, at least, I feel very aware of the placement of my body parts. Okay, that sounded weird, but what I meant was, example when I'm...|||This reminds me of something I posted on an ENFJ thread:     You'd also want to see OrangeAppled's take on this ENFJ's and flirting. There's a number of INFP inputs on it.  I always think...|||I like this a lot. :D This is exactly how I work things out with my J friend. We discuss it after a week and we offer each other the best solution (after much running around panicking moments from...|||This is pretty much me as well. I first started with lists, but just ignored them. Never stuck to them.  I told my J friend of this dilemma, and he insisted on becoming my human alarm...|||I love the thought of traveling. When I was a kid, I used to fantasize of just walking in the airport and then just being miss independent and all worldy. When I was nine I think, I just carted my...|||Oh I have tons of notebooks lying around. I don't want to call them diaries (frankly, I don't know the difference) because I feel there's something very female-tween about having a diary. :p But yes...|||There are times I do say something out loud, it just comes out of nowhere inside my brain, and I don't even give a chance to think second thoughts about it, I just say it, and everyone laughs.  But...|||People with multiple adoptions are hoarding these INTJ's. :crying:  At least give me one? I promise to feed, shelter, water, give personal space, allow access to my library (with a huge globe,...|||Hahaha, I can totally relate to this. I would have to say that I never like scheduled things. There are some scheduled things that I have said yes to, but after mulling it over, I felt like I...|||This is exactly how my relationship with my INTJ friend pans out. When we have problems, we quickly have to share them with each other because he and I ultimately know that the areas we missed, our...|||I totally agree with this.  The old me would probably advise you to Seize the day, and ask him what his feelings are for you, you have nothing to lose, and it's better to know rather than think...|||Truthfully, extroverted sensors drain the life out of me. I can stand extroverted intuitives, but extroverted sensors, just one person at a time. I had this experience of going to the beach with two...|||I have a thing for pianist hands. Seriously, after the face, the one thing I scope out from a guy is their hands.   /perv  Sorry for straying from the original topic. I couldn't help but...|||For me, hugging is a big deal. I'm not a touchy feely kind of person because I do hate being touched by people I don't know that well. So a hug is pretty special, especially if it comes from the...|||Hey, our defense is ten out of ten, we shouldn't faint after a lame ESTJ Intimidation Move.|||This is how I feel.     I'm interested in your experience on STP's since I am dating an ISTP now... How exactly did you clash on values?|||If every MBTI had superpowers, INFP's would score the highest in DEFENSE.|||Related to the INFPPP's post above with NT's and NF's. Personally, the ones I've had a connection with were: INTJs and ENFJs.  The INTJ was more like me, in a sense that he was laid-back, and I...|||I would very much agree with this step. I realize that the times I do fall in love with someone is when I can see that they're opening up to me, and I know for a fact that this is something they just...|||Oh, if only.   Mine is any vehicle where I can stare out the window and enjoy the view. Cars where I'm not driving. But I noticed I like riding in buses better, since nobody tries to talk to me....|||The last line is something I also want to hear. fateandmusic's post was from an ENFJ girl's point of view, so I wouldn't know what are the signs of an ENFJ guy flirting for real. It's hard to pick up...|||I can pretty much relate with this. We have our close circle of friends, and if we're with others, we come off as pretty reserved... for me, anyway. So when I'm kind of closed off to people, they...|||I love making all sorts of pasta and stir-fry. And I obssess with chocolate, so my favorite things to do (not exactly cook) are dark chocolate truffles.|||I love this thread. The OP's view is exactly how I feel. YAAY for PCafe!|||I'm biased since it's the instrument I play, but do get a nice guitar. :)|||You're always welcome here and I like seeing your posts. :happy:   Anyway in response to your question, I deal with pain in the most stereotypical fashion, which is to cut my wri... I'm just...|||I remember reading it somewhere, not sure if it's here, that something about introverts, especially INFPs calm extroverts down. And that when we're with extroverts as well, we try to infuse some...|||I can fully relate to what everyone said here, even to Imagine's questioning our emo existence, yes, haha.   I pride myself in being a good listener to other people, that's why when I do want to...|||That example is all kinds of hilarious. Reminds me of my own experience with that kind of problem:  Me: I feel really down. Friend: hey why don't you read this link i have, it'll help you view...|||Yeah, that's me. I always feel like I have to lighten the mood by making fun of myself, making fun of the people, making fun of everything... Or could be my sarcasm and rapier wit they just don't...|||Well, you made me mull about all of this. I'm supposed to be getting some writing done, but I had to go back to PC to check this thread.  Anyway, I realized that you should be following what he...'