'I'm not really obsessed with anything but I've had cats in our family for the last 13 years and am currently caring for a kitten so it's a big topic in my life atm.  I have always been an animal...|||compassion creativity authenticity curiosity  I think many people consider honesty and authenticity to be the same thing, not surprised that those 2 are neck & neck|||thanx =) Only $7 +tip at the local Beauty School! It was one of the few bright spots in my week|||wondering how I got so overextended again. feels like my life has tightened up around me. wishing I had more space to grieve for my kitty. His ashes arrived yesterday but life keeps doing it's thing...|||new haircut http://ak3.okccdn.com/php/load_okc_image.php/images/16/150x150/558x800/41x28/300x287/0/15663430710580573281.jpeg|||I'm Gemini on the cusp of Cancer, Cancer rising. Looking at my full chart, with the major planets, I've found astrology to give an eerily accurate description of me, just like reading most...|||me too!! my friend stopped by and took my kids to her house for 4 hours so i could finish up my work|||oh Vivid Melody such sweet babies! life just keeps going, doesn't it? =) I was so upset that our new kitteh took my attention from Mal so that I didn't realize he was sick until it was too late, but...|||started the day hopeful, but I'm ending it horribly sad because our cat died.|||This is a pic of our sweet boy, Malcolm, who passed away today from a massive infection. He was turning 4 next week. We didn't know he was sick =( My kids are devastated, Mal was the 11 yr old's...|||a teeny kitteh curled up in my lap at the end of a day that's been too long|||my joy today was getting to hang out with only my Little Boy (Big Kid got momma time yesterday).   And remembering that school starts in one week - WOO!|||LookingGlass, verra nice! I love the work you did on the locks, makes me wanna touch them =)  Welcome Heatherdera!!  Hokahey - cute kitty, she needs to go to box-hab =)|||Oh, I totally do that, too =)|||here's mine - I nearly always have Firefox and Thunderbird open, and I turn off the monitor when I am not using it, so I just keep the desktop a very dark brown, since I so rarely see it. In this...|||the3rdpower that was really insightful. I don't know how much of it resonates with other INFJ females, but I feel like you get me. Wish I could find others who also do.   A lot of what you said...|||Aw, Maximus, he's such a cutie! ;-)  VividMelody, she really is rather Squee-able =) Her name is Ivy, as she was discovered in the ivy under my neighbor's house. My parent's dog is Bonnie - she...|||ack, the link from my album didn't work, but I tried a new one and it works now.  here's a few more - I'm trying to take a photo of here face every couple of days to see how she's growing. She was...|||Our new foster-kitteh, Ivy (she was found in the ivy under my neighbor's house) - she's just about 5 wks old now   http://www.rubelin.com/pics/ivy/ivy_day7.jpg|||I'm feeling rather content and am sending hugs and bebe' kitten snuggles to all of you!   My neighbors found a kitten under their house and I am taking care of it. We think the momma was moving the...|||feeling horrid for rejecting someone =( GAH! the world would be SO much easier to navigate if there was only mutual attraction!|||Earlier I was feeling energized and ready to take on the world but now I feel like a completely lazy bum because I ran out of steam after taking a shower (and an accidental nap). Took too long to eat...|||Beach with the kids and then home for quiet time sewing while they're with their dad.|||oh, so very much!|||Hmm, maybe I'd read that comment. FTR, it wasn't a negative thought about the hat, just a funny one|||I've generally been able to stay in control of my temper but I'm sure the kids from my neighborhood will never forget the summer afternoon when I was 12 or 13 that I went off on a very loud tirade at...|||SargeMaximus have you posted other pics with you wearing that hat?? 'cause my first thought was again with the hat but then I realized that I think I've only ever seen the pics in your sig and...|||I've noticed this a bit and it reminds me of these 2 articles I read recently about development of INFJs darbright.com/the-mystic-order-of-infjs/ darbright.com/the-mystic-order-of-infjs-part-ii/ ...|||INFJs hate inauthenticity and contrivance, so just the fact that you are purposefully creating scenarios that don't come authentically to you (calling late on purpose, etc) would make me smell...|||well, I can only speak as an INFJ mother, but I would NEVER be ok with this. I have always been highly stressed out visiting anyone's home that wasn't child-friendly and would try to leave as soon as...|||very spiritual, very not religious.  I don't exactly believe in God but I do believe in a spirit/force that binds life, and I believe in universal spiritual laws. I think religion is a man-made...|||Thanx =) I do have lots of support but sometimes I just need to scream a bit and get past the frustration. I try not to vent too much to my friends, since it gets me thinking about it even more. I do...|||I did =)  I've gotten messaged on OKC by other INFJs (and dated one for a while) and have noticed more guys putting it in their profiles, so I thought I might as well add it, since, if someone cares...|||completely frustrated trying to work with children yelling in my house, so not getting any work done and ready to quit trying. Sick of being a parent, sicker still of being a single parent, nervous...|||Considering that I can't even comprehend what an organized mind would be, I think I'd have to say nope, mine is not. Though, I can generally pull out whatever I need pretty quickly but there's no...|||These kinds of silvery/green/brown creek photos are my favorite ones of yours. It so magical the way you capture the water flowing in that instant.|||I can play a tiny bit of piano (took lessons in early grade school - my mother was very hard on me and I hated it), played clarinet for a few months in 4th grade and then flute for 2 - 3 years but...|||Hi back at'cha =)  I don't think I've answered any new ones lately. But, really, it doesn't matter if someone is a 99% match because if certain dealbreaker questions have the wrong answer, I'm...|||Not fair Maximus - BabelFish doesn't translate Gaelic =P  I wouldn't say I am secretive - I actually hate secrets and think they break down communities and relationships. I am a weird mix of...|||I pretty much test INFJ across the board, if you're going on my personal experiences but other people might see alternative types because I am also pretty balanced in most of my functions.  I can...|||I have a friend who is a love/soulmate guru (KathrynAlice.com - no affiliation except she's a friend and I love her) and her definition of dating is simply getting to know someone to find out if you...|||hmm, I can't relate to a single thing in that description - I do nothing sloppily (would rather do nothing than do something half-assed), have never had difficulties with understanding (actually have...|||Honestly, my dream life is pretty close to what I have now. All that's missing is...  - an amazing partner to share this life with me & my kids - another baby or 2 - financial stability &...|||So sorry =( Mine is generally situational and hormonal but a few things I try to do before it gets too tight of a grip on me is make sure to get enough sleep and exercise (both of which tend to be...|||I went in '03 with my ex and our son (who was 3 at the time) and camped with a large group of friends who are regulars (many of them are Black Rock Rangers now). It was an interesting experience. It...|||I'd say it's more of an evolving picture. There are parts that remain fairly constant, the things that others know of me and then there's the parts that I am constantly discovering and figuring out...|||AlphaX that totally looks like something I would write to guys or girls. I think it's the effusive Fe going on, and has nothing to do with sexual preference, it's just that effusiveness in general...|||GAH!! so gorgeous!! this is why I love Alaska (though only in the summer =) )     OOH, you were right here by me! Next time you come we must have an INFJ gathering st Disneyland! =)|||The friendship percentage is based on how many questions you answered exactly the same. I think it's really more like your clone percentage =) It's pretty meaningless for me, the match and enemy are...|||I think that it's more that we experience things similarly. There's a wide range of how we respond to the stuff that happens in our lives but the filters of how we experience it seems to be very...'