'haha, I always think of it as needing to be literally hit over the head with a blunt object, as well :P|||Moving can drive me insane... My last move put me out of commission for about half a year. Stresses me out, but it may have just been the fact I don't like this city, and am unhappy to be back :P  I...|||wallow & drink|||Ask him out! As an ISFJ man, I need to be practically hit over the head. And I'm not sure if that's totally an ISFJ thing, or a male thing, or maybe just a human thing. I'm getting slightly better at...|||I flip flop... sometimes more with close acquaintances, sometimes more with strangers. Sometimes I'm mush in relation to either :P I'm normally pretty good with confronting situations full of...|||Man, I'm the opposite! At least if I'm taking the picture. if I look away, normally I just look fucked.|||I'll chime in. I am currently 22. Last week I re-acquainted with a friend, whom I've only met once before hand, and the rest of our interaction has been through facebook. With that being said, this...|||I used to a lot more. Now I'm trying to be quite honest. I agree with the bit about trying to not hurt feelings. I think when i would the most, was when I was at a unhealthy state... because it...|||I'm not sure the lives I lead that put me here, once livin now dead, but I cant escape it now, I really cant relate it now with the soft spots and my world view, going down the line just a strain of...|||I have ASMR, so the bit about having the letter rubbed on your back sounds fantastic lmao. With that being said, I would say I am certainly not touchy-feely... it could very well be an ISFj thing....|||angelcat - Yes, you summed it up nicely! also, in regards to your advice for Abbigailius , it seems as though you and I have very similar processes. I always feel I'm doing it the 'wrong way' (not...|||Sweetish - Nice write up. I stumbled across that one, and was thinking of giving it a go. Maybe I should check it out, sounds rather interesting :)  In regards to my little dilemma earlier, went to...|||angelcat - It's sort of a fear of failure... but to be fair, in most occasions of me sharing with people, they will love it ecstatically (so they say :P) and being appreciated is kind of a tough area...|||I think you both deserve to get together, but keep it an open relationship. She can keep with the guy she is already seeing.|||angelcat - Yeah, fair enough. I suppose my main problem is... 'Who' to  share with. But I guess that anyone could be a connection if you just  give it a chance. And you won't know if you don't. Your...|||Oh my god, please tell me about this. My biggest problem is what to do with my projects after I'm done them... I suppose perhaps this query of agents is an idea. What kind of novel is it?|||Hmm, good idea. Summer is going to be great. My main goals are to shoot some short films, write, and explore. Possibly find another job, but we'll see lol|||Thanks anyway Sophi ! We both agreed not much is playing. Gonna check out Kingsman. It's supposed to be pretty good.  I would like to see Listen Up Philip, quite a bit... Jason Schwartzman is...|||Sweetish - lol, I have the unfortunate problem of being completely incompetent in the dating world. But I'm just getting into it a little later in life than most (22 woot) and this is the third one...|||I haven't bled my mind to write it out on time on here in ages, must be the cages of my fat fancy smiles in a summer breeze holdin down tight the fort of my night fork and the pitch of a further...|||Sophi - Cool, I like those genres too. I like a bit of everything, but I find that I mostly gravitate toward films that just 'do their thing' ... Which is to say, slightly surreal or nonsensical....|||I haven't seen Intersteller. Probably should have caught it in theaters, even though I wasn't super interested... still seems like a film to see that way, plus I can go free >>  Currently, Magnolia...|||That's actually a good point, as well. I was religious through-out highschool. Hence, my late blooming in this area of life. It doesn't control EVERYONE, but there are certainly ones that will stick...|||I heard this one on the subway, the other night  You're a knob gobbler What It's a metaphor, for sucking cock. Knob gobbler  The way it was delivered made me lol|||I can't give you any advice. We, as people, seem to have the need to come to conclusions on our own.   But I will re-iterate most suggestions: move on. I am rather late bloomer when it comes to...|||Everything. though, to be honest I don't cry... I think the last time was when my dog died. A few years back, and up until that point, I hadnt cried since I was child. I sometimes wish I could,...|||oh, and as for accounting. I'm sure some people love it, all the power to them. But if that's what I did, I'd probably shoot myself through the face before my first pay check.|||Clean the GOD DAMN DISHES! jk, I ain't married|||do whatever you want. I'm a film-maker, and its unstable as hell. little bit o shameless spam, follow us on twitter (in my sig)|||Of course we are. Thought everyone knew that.|||I didn't have much difficulties.. I worked hard on it for the most part, and math came fairly easily, though at times was tough... With that being said, once I hit highschool, there was a point where...|||I listen to everything. I really think most people do... it's just there are certain clusters you're more likely to enjoy. For me, the main spectrum is 50s-70s, but I'll listen to orchestra, rap,...|||Slowly. No sudden movements, and try not to make any unwarranted noise. You can observe them rather easily this way. However, if you want to make contact, first get some trail mix and plant some on...|||Was scrolling down, then paused on your sig for a few moments. The fuck? looks cool :P|||Yes, no I don't know could you repeat the question?|||thanks lol, I'm sure there's some sort of answers in there, but I'm not sure either.|||Think of life as the clocks in wheels and tocks to the beatles. Form circled scars and believe that the wars over cars were fought for stars.|||It depends. It's a total mix of just doing it, and thinking for long periods of time on it.  I will doodle to come up with ideas to draw better, or I will think of what to draw.  Same goes for...|||cigarettes  lol, maybe not. I'd say film or writing, to which cigarettes is a by-product there-of|||It's: Super incredible  Correct?|||WELCOME I have great advice :)  Find out the one you want to do, that you can see yourself doing. Forget about the fear or anxiety with it. You can overcome this. For example, myself, I want to...|||Something to do with pancakes and coffee, comes to mind|||It's so odd, how the mind thinks on its own. Try some meditation. I find myself beging able to watch my thoughts go past, and only picking up on half sentances at lightspeed, its nuts|||To be honest, simply talking with someone who is genuinely nice. I don't really like gifts, I guess I do to an extent, but they can kind of make me feel self conscious lol. I like good food and...|||Stokholm - cool dude. The Sandlot rocks :D And the Departed is wicked cool too... seems Ive onlyu seen it twice, but it has a really cool feel to it. Also, Im not sure about my list, with your...|||write write empty mind find the times around the lines and bends and I dont know you ask oh Where it ends and I say oh  Dont ask me, ask Mary or Marie and the time ticks and the time tocks in...|||I have no advice, I am not a sensitive girl. However, I will say that depression turns me on lol. In the same way as you, that you feel you can somehow help with it >>|||Anyone seen The Holy Mountain? I just finished it. It is strangely beautiful, but also one of the most fucked up things I have seen.|||I'm gonna say INFJ. My brother, HOWEVER, with that being said, I would say that my interactions with him also yield the most understanding. Every once and awhile there's bickering or whatever, but I...|||InAName - Awesome, I rather think so :P. And i figure I'll add my 2 cents about the whole personality thing. We are on a personality site, after all :P I almost mentioned it in my first post, but...'