First of all, what she feels is totally normal. I'm uncertain if this feeling is ENFP-based, or if it can be found across the board, but what I know for certain is that it is something that at least...|||It takes a surprising amount to move me, usually art will do it. Art has always seemed in some ways more real to me than reality, or maybe I just let it affect me more. But yeah... I cried to at that...|||For me this question is complicated.  On the one hand I tend to be and really always have tended to be obsessively humble, to the point where it bugs me a little to even say that I'm humble....|||This is ridiculously true for me too! I hardly pay any attention to such things, it's just not something I care about, it's soooo routine, but it is so important too.|||Yeah I'd say just leave things alone until she's available. You don't wanna have any part of that, even if she were to fall desperately in love with you and leave her boyfriend, you've made an enemy...|||I think it's fantastic that you're seeing someone to help you sort out your feelings instead of not giving them credence. Your feelings are important, just as important and useful as your intellect,...|||Easy, My mom is an ENFP, just like me. Funny though because I don't always get along with her, however we speak the same language, she's disorganized, she VERY feelings oriented and she's definitely...|||Yeah... that's exactly how my last relationship went. In a month's time we could anticipate each other better than i could anticipate my best friend for 10 years. We had catchphrases and knew exactly...|||Well hold on now ethereal this forum is about people comparing their experiences to one another, not necessarily about getting over our problems. Most of the people posting here are just stating how...|||Nobody's too old for that, it'll be a sad day the day i find i can't tell the world just to shut up and leave me alone.|||Oki oki mr. ISTP, u win:tongue: Everyone loves music and its determined by the individual! Your logic impeccably trounced me:wink:|||Ok fair point, but I figure if anyone's gonna be really outspoken about their ALL ENCOMPASSING LOVE for music, it would prolly be the ENFPs, though I'm sure everyone does have a love of music.......|||Pie is definately good, the cake is always a lie anyway. Welcome kindred spirit!|||...Play on! That's insane that you have 70GB, I thought I had a huge library, but I'm not even halfway to your level lol.|||I love to write, and I've always been talented at it (what am I not talented at though? maybe modesty) however, I'm so easily distracted it makes it difficult for me to finish anything. Ironically...|||I've known another ENFP who intimidated me by being so many things that I wanted to be. It really challenged me to push to be my true self as much as possible.  :shocked: I have a short post?...|||Every ENFP I've ever met has had a deeply intense connection with music, including myself. And this means music in any variety. I mean really deeply intense. Rap counts as much as Broadway or...|||Yeah.... it was pretty much between Jasmine and Belle........ AGH the choices!!! Eventually, zexiness won out, sadly enough. I dunno, I shoulda prolly picked belle..... WHY do I stress about these...|||I totally know how you feel even as an ENFP, because even people savy people still have doubts in themselves, and that's all your problem amounts to.  First off, you know what people love? To talk...|||The most mind-blowingly awesome for ENFP job I've ever had was on a commercial as a production assistant. I'm currently doing everything I can to get into the film industry partly as a result. It was...|||Wow... I just read yer monster post there at the top of the page.......... and like lilsnowy, I'm really glad you decided to share so much of yourself with us. Honestly, my situation is even more...|||Ok, I haven't read all the other posts in between the first and this one, but Pink, I think I can give some really good insight. I'm in a very similar situation, except I'm the guy.  Also, I love...|||Am I the only one here who feels awkward when it comes to feelings... like sometimes I think they should be there and they're not? Or that they're much less intense than they should be? Perhaps its...|||I accepted the inevitable truth that, well, I'm smarter than pretty much anyone else, it just doesn't show up in my grades. Doesn't have a thing to do with the fact I'm a super genius. It's...|||Really? Really really? In your dreams your spiders help you? I soooooo ENVY you! Just to let you know, if some ninja-like guy shows up at your house in the middle of the night to steal your dreams...|||Yeah, I think more than anything though, ENFPs come across as gullible to others because we are eager and in the moment and we generally seem innocent. However, older wiser ENFPs tend to use this as...|||Sometimes having a slacker for a study partner is nice. As long as they show up and you're not like collaborating on a project or something, its always nice to have someone worse than you, at least...|||I have terrible long-term memory. Short term memory is great for me though, even within a week or two's time. I don't take notes in class because I get the general gist of it all and I can just...|||Te for me has become the way I attempt to make decisions, even though my natural form is to feel out the best result. This creates a sort of hybrid approach to my decision making, but also undermines...|||I feel more like Moby, except that I've come to realize that it's not that I don't dream, it's that I don't remember my dreams. I think it has something to do with how we ENFPs are soo here and now...|||I know it's kindly meant, but I've never seen leaping into someone else's arms do more than cause problems and destroy relationships. I think the second part of your response is far wiser. There's...|||It sounds more serious than it did at first, and it may very well be time to break it off. All I would urge you to do is first try really being honest with him about where you are at, and find out if...|||And yeah, sometimes, we ENFPs do love too much. But that too will pass. Rreally. I really do hope I've said something that makes you feel better. :wink:|||Honestly, I don't believe in incompatible people, only unwilling people, which at times might be legitimate. So coming from that I would have to say you two need to figure out how to work together....|||Aw man that sucks, I assume it's the one from your other thread. Saying one knows how one feels is kinda pointless with situations like these so I won't even try. I have been in your situation before...|||Thanks man for the advice and support for a stranger. And I too hope it all turns out. I figure heck, a year can solve anything right? I mean I'm like 21 so EVERYTHINGS the like MOUNT DOOM END OF THE...|||Well, Ivan, we are only five% of the population apparently, which makes us all really happy cuz we like to feel especially unique.  I totally feel you MissyMaroon. And I'm a guy. While I maintain a...|||Just so you know, my mom is the ENFP in the family, and even though it makes sense that she's more emotional, it doesn't stop my dad from blaming her for it. ISTJ's can be ones to assign blame, I...|||Oh, and btw, I've got an ISTJ dad too... he can be a pain sometimes, but he does love you, he just shows you through dedicated work, instead of superfluous stuff like... being generally nice lol....|||Oh my GOSH that's a long post, I can't tell in this format lol... shoulda paired it down a tad...|||ENFPs tend to take things personally in general. It's the F in us. So wakehopper I totally feel where you're at right now. I'm in pretty much the same situation, with my younger siblings getting to...|||Yeah,Sagittarius here. But there just doesn't seem to be much correlation. Not that I'm surprised, I put virtually no stock in zodiac. Honestly, is it just me or do zodiac descriptions seem rather...|||Long time for a post to happen, but here it is. I had to stand up to a best friend of 8 or so years on account of his gf breakin up with him. He wouldn't accept it, and I had to let him know that he...|||That sux Shurikun... hey this looks like fun lemme git in on it! So I always feel like I'm never the best version of myself, like if I was REALLY an ENFP or if I was REALLY crazy or if I was REALLY...|||Yeah, remember guys, we are ENFPs which means we are are own worst critics, evaluating ourselves and reevaluating ourselves so many times over that we feel totally awkward in situations that we would...|||K first thing I want to say, which I can tell by your tone you know, but just to remind, crying for any reason is not a sign of weakness. It's a sign of honesty, its our emotions telling us that we...|||I don't have a wealth of relationship experience to pull from, but I have grown up in a home where my mom was ENFP and my dad was ISTJ. Complete opposites, so I know something of differences. The...|||Thank you all so much, especially SuperunknownVortex and variableresults for their perspectives as INFJs. I really do care a whole lot about this friend, so much so that I'm willing to do what it...|||Yep dude that's totally natural. The type of people we are is the type that cares deeply about people, and focuses very intensely on anyone that we are talking to, ESPECIALLY if they are confiding in...|||The iNtuition, definately. We think randomly, without any discernible order, we make assumptions and intuitive guesses that are really right most times. It makes us incredibly creative and...