'More dead than before.  This place used to be more active.|||Hello,  am moving and giving too.  lol. This place is different than it used to be.|||We are the MOST awesome and loving of all the personalities.  But do not mess with our values or we will eat you alive.  hehehehehe.|||I got a message saying our passwords had been compromised.  Just stopping by to make sure all my INFP goodness is still mine.  lol. So how is everyone on here?  I guess all the oldies that used to be...|||I am getting ready to live a life somewhat like that.  I would need the internet though.  I have my hosue paid off and can live off near nothing so I may be able to pull it off.  Simple foods and I...|||I hope we don't have to wait until 2012 for the end.  This world needs a good cleaning right now.  And that is what it will be a cleaning of the earth not the end of the earth.  Instead it will be...|||Thank you, I needed to hear that.  Both my parents are now dead and I am healing over the pain they caused.  But that healing does not mean I am going to honor them in any way.  It does help to know...|||Ok guys, I don't bite and wont get offended if you answer my questions.  This is important that I get these answers.  Even if someone would just answer me privately I would appreciate any help any...|||I have an ENFJ supervisor and he is not so pleased with me at times.  I ask what I can do to please him but he will not open up.  I just would like to know what other ENFJ's would like to see changed...|||Great topic!  Yes, I have experienced it many times over in my life.  It leaves a scar just like any other wound but one can heal.  One may limp for a long time and one never forgets the pain but one...|||To understand why people are so cruel.|||I watch for content and could care less about number of post or thank count.  The number of post or the number of thanks has nothing to do with quality of post in my eyes.  I look for new information...|||I have my own style of organization.  Give me a week and a shovel and I can find anything among my belongings.  Where is the fun in having a special place for everything when everything can be...|||Gentleness in every way. Higher the intelligence the greater the attraction. High spirituality gets to me too.|||I relate to everything mentioned.  Right now menopause makes EVERYTHING bother me.  Even the sight or sound of some people gets me angry.  But that is hormonal and it will pass.|||I want to know as a child were you more of a follower or leader of conversations?  Also, I would like to know if you were allowed the freedom to converse like you wanted too.  For example the home I...|||Warning, INFJ's are so lovable they can and will steal your heart then run like crazy.  Then you never see them again.|||No, I don't suppress emotions.  They are to strong and they do come out.  I have tried ti supress them but that never works for me.|||I have a strong belief that one would have to be insane to act sane in an insane would.  I act totally insane so I must be sane.  Or maybe I am just insane and the world is really sane.  Now I am...|||We know but still nice for someone to admit it.|||That could be but I do voice what is on my mind.  Sometimes I think he likes doing things that upset me.  Why he does it is the question.  I think I am going to try to make myself believe he is...|||These are questions I would like to know too.  I have an ENFJ supervisor and he does manipulate a lot.   Sometimes I don't think he is manipulating for the good either.  I think at times he...|||That is ok, I would not take it as sexual.  I think I am understanding ENFJ's better every day.  I have one as a supervisor and I think I have him figured out.  I do love you guys though.|||A bunch of ENFJ's all in one location?  I am not sure the world could handle that much love.  That just may create a black hole that will suck in the entire universe.  Can an INFP crash the party?...|||Here are the steps I use for people like that.  1.  Put on a tough figurative boot. 2.  Go to so called friends rear end. 3.  Kick so called friends hard in the rear. 4.  Turn and walk away. 5....|||Yes Yes Yes|||Yes, I relate to that very much.  I have been this way all my life.  But life is painful and I have had a lot of bad experences with people.|||I have them too.  Intense emotions is normal for me and they do affect everything about me.  I would say to find someone to open up to about the emotions.  I also have learned to live with the...|||I would post a lot about natural treatments.  I vote to add it.  It would be good to see if there are trends in how the different personality types pursue health issues.|||My entire life has been a nauseating roller coaster ride going in and out of deep depressions.  The modern society is structured in a way that is not suitable for INFP's to really have happiness in...|||Thread?  Look at that!    *points in opposite direction, then stuffs white cat under coat and quietly walks away.*  I not needz thread.  I now have white cat.  :cool:|||Hello Leroy, I am one of the old INFP's.  I am 46 and will soon be 47.  Just be yourself is the best advice I can give to younger INFP's.  There are a lot of people what would like to see us change...|||I am an INFP and I am posting here because I want to know the answer to that one too.|||Actually, if the point of the thread is to derail it, yet we are only discussing derailing it and not derailing it then it is a failure because it has not been derailed just discussed.  So its...|||Everyone, that post in this thread will have to eat one of these.    http://www.kumukablog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/cuy.jpg  Thread derailed!|||I have tried that too.  Since I am a lone female I have to be careful doing that with men.  I have had men to even follow me home after getting into a conversation with them.  So I try to avoid that...|||Large butter beans.  I love them with just salt, butter and pepper.  I am addicted.  http://cdn-write.demandstudios.com/upload//4000/000/00/6/384006.jpg|||Has anyone found a way to stop people from giving us weird looks?|||Child molesters and those that support them.  Those things are not human.|||My Saturday to-do list  5:00 AM: Get out of bed 5:01 AM: Take shower 5:06 AM:  Brush teeth 5:08 AM:  Shave and comb hair 5:10 AM:  Cook breakfast 5:20 AM:  Eat breakfast 5:30 AM:  Wash...|||I have always felt that way too.  I hate it to no degree and it hurts to the core.  But I have noticed that most people look down on each other.  That don't make it right and it hurts INFP's more...|||I keep everyone at a distance on purpose.  I don't want close friends nor do I need them.  I have overcome problems that others could never to come close to comprehend.  If I can overcome these all...|||Animals are more human than most humans.  Of course it hurts when we lose one.  I lost a cat and it feels like my child died.  I know the pain of losing a loved one through death.  You have my...|||Thank you.  To be honest I am clueless as how I survived. I can remember thinking if I stood up for my mother then the two of us could stop my dad from being so abusive.  Instead it turned out that I...|||This is a very good thread.  I have a lot of defining moments in my childhood that made me the way I am today.  The one I am working through right now is my mothers abandonment. My dad was a...|||I do find most people are superficial and boring to be around.  To be honest I don't know how they feel about me.  I don't stick around them long enough to find out.  After thinking about the subject...|||I can't be found.  I hide in a my secret hiding place.  I can see you but you can't see me.|||I am not into this at all but I am Aquarian and am pretty odd and strange.  I don’t even fit in with the strangest INFP’s.|||From an older INFP.  What you young ones can look forward to.  For the last 10 years:  Bought my house Fell in love with an INFJ I learned that job success depends more on ass licking than...|||Did someone say free hugs????  I am taking this deal.  http://img.vmessages.com/hugs/1.gif  Now I will run away happy.'