'When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend? When did you lose your virginity?|||What do you do to build up confidence??|||I think you INTJs know what I mean.  We can be nice. We would accept other people's beliefs without analyzing them. We would be social, without hating small talk. We wouldn't hate humanity.  But...|||Maybe I'm wrong, but I agree that you need some creativity, a very small amount though. You make a website perform better, you get an idea on how to solve some bug, but at the end of the day, you...|||Maybe I'm wrong, but I agree that you need some creativity, a very small amount though. You make a website perform better, you get an idea on how to solve some bug, but at the end of the day, you...|||Well, I agree. But I would prefer teaching at some university or studying math or physics rather than having a repetitive job, be it an IT job (no offence).|||Well, that's what I'm afraid of. I don't want to have unrealistic expectations. I also used to dream that I will get rich by creating some cool software or website or something. Now I realize that...|||Actually, I like coding. But I'm not so sure that I would like having a job as a computer programmer. Even if I were to be a software developer, would I actually invent something like totally new?...|||Nowadays this field grows day by day. It seems like a good amount of youngsters are looking forward to a job as a computer programmer.   Maybe they make these visions that they will be the next...|||Which one do you find more important?   Of course, both are important. We can't really tell which one is more important. But I'm just curious about how do you feel about this right now (like from...|||Well, honestly, I think that many of those people that got good grades, were healthy, had a social life, didn't go to therapy nor did they worry as much. That's what I meant. Maybe in the long run, I...|||Json221 Can you help me with some tips about meditating? How did you start meditating?|||@LittleMermaid @Json221 Sometimes I wonder why I have problems that need to be solved before doing anything productive. I look at others that work hard, wheter academically or physically (losing...|||How do I stop doing it?  I expect some of you to say:   Your lack of interest in a certain subject causes this. Find something you enjoy doing.  But the problem really isn't finding something...|||What do you mean by more fun? How would you explain Se in your own words?|||Maybe I shouldn't worry. But I don't like to see others succeed constantly. I will not believe that they never waste time on the internet like I do, but I can't deny that they are always prepared for...|||Highly probable. Maybe I shouldn't worry.|||I post this here because I request your advice ENTJ people! :proud:    The last few months I've been feeling very hyper. I think it is Te. I feel very sociable, confident, even authoritarian and...|||Well thank you! I rarely find a motivational speech that is actually motivational.   I hate it when people shout at me to do this and do that, and still wonder why I am not motivated. Because I...|||I think my problem is not that I am the way I am, but the fact that I really hate myself.  I feel like I am not normal. I wonder how normal people can read a book silenlty, without thinking about...|||I already read various descriptions of these functions. But I don't really understand them.  Could you give me some real life examples of these functions in action?|||I am pretty sure that I use Fi and Te. But I am not sure about the rest. I don't know if I am INTJ or INFP.  I don't open up to a lot of people. But I am not sure if I have tertiary Fi.   I...|||I came to the conclusion that I live too much inside my head.  All the time I keep thinking about some hypothetical future scenarios. Like I imagine myself ten years from now, being rich.   And...|||Would exercise, good sleep habits, good diet help your mental state? Like concentrating better?|||And don't you hate yourself when this happens? Don't you wish you were normal and could concentrate normally?   Or maybe such a thing doesn't even exist. However, I see so many people that study...|||Ok, then what about reading a physics lesson or a math lesson. You don't skim. But when I do math problems for example, I get the same feeling of not concentrating just like when I read. It also...|||Many times when I read a book I realize that I didn't actually fully understood the last page I just read. It also happens during movies.  I think it's pretty usual. How do you cope with that?  I...|||@bethdeth   I'm pretty sure I am INTJ, because I have that leave me alone attitude at times. And I anger some of my friends (that use Fe, I guess) when I tell them that everything is ok, although...|||I would preffer you to explain the differences with some real examples, not with theoretical wikipedia jungian definitions. Thanks!|||I've had my musical periods during my teenage years. I used to listen to metal like System of a Down, Korn.   At some point I discovered Radiohead, and I know it may sound cliche, but it really...|||I'm usually introverted. I listen to music, I read. But after some time, I feel lonely. I want someone to love.   When this need is strong enough, I feel like I got a lot of energy, waiting to be...|||Could you elaborate please? I mean I get it, but what exactly of our NT nature would screw up a relationship? Did you have some bad experiences?|||We kind of connected emotionally some time ago. We talked and she would tell me about personal things, like insecurities or other personal matters. But, back then, I renounced, because she wasn't...|||Well I thought I would do that after I would tell her. I don't know. I think it's important to let her know that I'm not such a bad, cold guy. I want her to know that sometimes, although I seemed to...|||Sorry for double post. I don't know how to delete my post.|||Well, my first contact with her was a few months ago. But it wasn't continuous. At some point I ignored her, and I wanted to erase her from my mind. But, after some time, I started talking to her...|||Well, my first contact with her was a few months ago. But it wasn't continuous. At some point I ignored her, and I wanted to erase her from my mind. But, after some time, I started talking again,...|||Confessing your love to someone is a bit tricky to me.  There is someone I genuinely love. This person knows that I'm interested, generally. I don't know if she still thinks that. And that's...|||First of all, I feel that this thread is a bit unfitting, since I'm basically asking for dating advice on perc.  But, I seek help, and I know that this forum is very supportive.  So there is this...|||Well I see her only 5 days a week. So that's why.  You are right. Maybe I should calm down. But to me, a week seems so much time. I don't want to lose her to someone else.  Now, the reason behind...|||You are right, but now I really feel bad for asking her out. I feel like I ruined everything.   On the other hand, I just wanted to see her again, that's why I asked her out.  She's also very shy...|||Ok. Maybe not all ISFPs could relate. Maybe this matter is not MBTI related. But I am confused.  I started texting this ISFP some days ago. I'm pretty sure she likes me and liked me for the past...|||Well, I have the opportunity to speak 5 days a week, in breaks. There are not activities in common, so I guess that if we are going to do something together, it will be a date.  But I'm not sure...|||Yes, I know, I reposted this from the ISFP section: u200b So there was this ISFP who was interested in an INTP.   The ISFP was trying to start some conversations, but the INTP was going through a...|||First, although I appreciate your help (and that you took the time to write such an ample reply), I will try anyway. I'm pretty young, and I've been lonely for too long. I don't mind throwing myself...|||So there was this ISFP who was interested in an INTP.   The ISFP was trying to start some conversations, but the INTP was going through a depression, and love was the last thing he was interested...|||You kind of like a person and you believe that this person can understand you and will care for you in some special way that is different from friendship, so you want to get to know this person...|||Actually I wanted to know how does an INTP show love to an ISFP if he/she is not already dating him/her.|||Yeah, so the title kind of says everything.  I don't expect this question to be answered perfectly, because there are lots of situations. But I'm curious about your similar experiences.|||Who can be the last one to post on this thread?  Maybe somebody you have never heard of.'