'So I am an ENFP and I have just started seeing an INFS, but we've had some history, pretty typical of an INFP/ENFP pairing.  For instance once we first started talking way back when in high school,...|||See yeah, I think we are wise socially, and we understand people without going on a lot. I mean, I'm basically just repeating what everyone else is saying, but personally, I'd like to think I get...|||So INFPs, short and simple - why would you delete your Social Networking Device?  I mean, Facebook asks you the same thing when you go and try to deactivate it - and TOTALLY guilt trips you into not...|||Goodness, this is so true about him.  There is nothing that matches him more than the bold up there.  He appears so relaxed, calm and collected, in any situation, but I know that on the inside...|||that's so crazy! That totally is how I am with other NFs! Well, NFPs in particular because NFJs tend to clarify what you meant for their own organization an categorization of it in their mind. I did...|||That was just the most INTJ thing to say ever, a space whale. I'm not offended, it actually made me laugh. But I can surely tell you that this whole thing wasn't just trying to get me to send  a text...|||YESYESYesyesyesyesyesyesyes! Finally. Icarus yes. Yesyesyesyesyesyesyesyesyes. I mean, I'm not saying all you other brilliant folks haven't encountered a profound level of understanding of the...|||Whynd, What I meant up there really was that it could become an issue if he continues his self destructive behaviors really. I would never ever ever ever ever want him to change who he is. EVER. I...|||Oh man. See I honestly have read what you all have said since I've last posted, and I guess I've been trying to work things out on my en with myself before I was gonna report back. Also, I was trying...|||Ok so I'm getting into the BBC modernized version called Sherlock, but you could easily use the rob downy jr flick for speculation as well. it perplexes me! His conflicting personality traits could...|||Woah, that is a creepily accurate description of me....  You know you're an ambivert when your more than content with your hot date being taco bell and netflix on Friday, but you're calling up all...|||IcarusDreams, you are very kind, and I appreciate that in the situation. My ENFP heart is sort of confused and tangled up. See, we talk about him ( or rather, Infps) over romanticizing and idealizing...|||Hahah ok, space whale. I'm not gonna lie. I don't understand your  response at all. I'm going to reread it, hold on...  Ok I'm gonna try to respond. He ain't no ulimate hustla, I'm tryin o figure...|||How much does this change the story if I add in that we were slightly drunk? However, when we actually hooked up, we were pretty sober and clear minded (or at least I was...)|||Haha! INFP, the hipster.|||gahhh!! Same with my INFP!!  See, my friend is really rather sweet, an he is such a good listener. Win he's with people he doesn't know he gets quite shy but he absorbs everything. When he's around...|||Oh goodness, it's good to hear I'm not the only ENFP with a huge fear problem. It's like a big black brick wall that stands in the way of you getting what you want. And you know, romance isn't...|||Fine, I'll n the enfp that agrees with you op! It's funny, I've been told wayyyyyyyore than once that my words are quite stream of consciousness. It's the worst in class though, because I raise my...|||I speaky the Spanish. English is my first language, but I studied abroad in Oaxaca, Mexico for a half a year, and it's my major in college :) it's starting to fade though with lack of use! Anyone...|||It's funny because at first it seems riocous that there is a certain LOOK that an ENFP has, but after reading through all these, it can't be coincidence... Can it? I mean, I'm tall, blonde, freckly,...|||Wow, I can relate completely with you! Even just the fact that I haven't joined a forum since I was 14! Haha! Well anyhow, I quite agree that sometimes I really just don't feel like I have anyone to...|||CynicallyNaive, ok, I can gather that having a one night stand is not typical for him, an that he struggled with it perhaps more than I thought he did - I have excepted that into my realm of...|||CynicallyNaive, I tend to believe the general consensus throughout this thread has been that he is closing himself off from me because I hurt him by not making it clear that we wanted more than just...|||Be an ISTJ.   Or an ENTJ.  Correct them. Tell them how blonde they are, insult their intelligence, that sort of thing.    Tell an enfp they don't care after that enfp just spent months and...|||Ok so I'm an enfp, bit his definitely sounds like me....! Like... To a tee! I wonder sometimes about my E... Anyhow, I like what someone up there said about logic. I try that but then it causes me to...|||Ok why is that btw? I'm an enfp, bit have the hugest conflicts with my ISTJs, wheras my infp friend never has anything negative to say about same istj friend. It seems like sharing an nfp would make...|||Awwww man. Honestly this thread has (not because I personally let what other people say over the Internet really get to me) causes quite a rollercoaster of emotions about the situation. The situation...|||Oh god (haha), do I love this quote.  I have another, I'm an atheist, thank god. -Luis Bunuel.  For me, I can't stomach a God existing.  It doesn't make sense that we would have one, and someone...|||* 1) Did he really understand you like no one else has? I wouldn't say he understood me better than anyone else has, but I would say that we had a crazy weird instant connection.  I would also say...|||Is that supposed to mean that you don't like the way that I'm going about this problem or something?  I didn't start this thread with the intention of trying to please you - although I appreciate...|||See, I don't really think anyone LIKES to disappoint people, but I honestly think some people don't even think about it at all.  And a lot of people don't even think about how they are disappointed....|||In my opinion, it is very possible to have a friend of the opposite sex that you don't have romantic feelings for. I have a best guy friend at college that I hang out wih all the time, alone or with...|||Oh god.  I feel awful now, seriously.  I never ever ever thought in a million years he actually was interested in my romantically all those years... I mean, I was quite attracted to him, and was very...|||Oh no.  I don't like this, because I didn't bring anything up after our hookup because I was afraid he didn't feel the same way, so I was waiting for him to say something about it!  When he didn't...|||It's good you mention that, IcarusDreams, because I know i did all I could to be nice and kind, and to try to impede on any non-talking that was going on between us.  I really can only just live my...|||I am just as excited to meet other ENFPs, and I've also realized that I haven't met many (if any at all) in real life!  MAybe it's harder for us to type people that are most like us though, so maybe...|||Youpullmethroightime, i am very aggravated because I just wrote a really long response and somehow my computer lost it :(((   But I will attempt to remember what I said! Basically I have given some...|||I think what you're saying is very true. I had sort of already decided that I would move on, and give him space. I am so not one to be naggy, and I hate seeming like I'm being pushy or whatever. I...|||I am going to attempt to reply to this, and perhaps process it at the same time. Averseaffects, you made me admit to myself that what we had wasn't really even a close friendship in the way I would...|||So my INFP friend told me that his biggest fear on the planet is of disappointing people. I mean, he has a history of his parents never being quite proud of him, but would you say as INFPs, this is a...|||Haha thanks :) I agree, it causes me too much pain and worry, bit for some reason I still believe in him an care about him, and believe that someone out there should care for him, because he...|||Ok, so I'm thinking it's more of a mixture of one and two - btw, holy crap it's like you've pinpointed him exacty!! He often gets so moody and deletes his facebook, then creates a new one, then...|||Hey guys, I'm a female ENFP, and my friend is an INFP, and where I usually would feel like I understand him ( with our core nfp, we have a wierd connection that I've always felt, even before this...|||And it blows because I feel like ENFPs just wanna love sooooooooo bad. We have such a capacity for it. We are just so able to quickly fall in love over and over, all the time. But we don't want...|||Sometimes I worry like an ENFJ though, I swear! (btw, NOT anywhere close to a J).   I mean, I guess ENFPs just want to love so muh, and we make up fantasies, an like the INFP have rose covered...|||Well howdy neighbors! How interesting to meet others like me (not just alike because of our similar thought patterns, fellow ENFPs) bit people who like to learn about themselves and others. This...|||It does feel good to know I'm not alone, and that I don't have to live to a certain expectaopn of what an ENFP should be, because then I don't feel like I fit anywhere. I guess I just fear rejection...|||I so completely know how you feel! I mean sometimes I wonder if I am an INFP just because I am rather shy sometimes in social situations and I spend a lot of time b myself reflectig and writing awful...|||oh my god I get that allllll the time! Or people tell me I should just think a little before I talk. I don't see why people think we're so stupid at first. It's really rather mean :( being a natural...|||stream of consciousness, is the best way to describe you What??? I can't tell when you're drunk or not. at first I didn't understand you at all. But then somehow I did, and I've concluded...'