'Sure, I didn't mean to imply that they weren't, but now that you mention it, my original post sounded really douchey (just went back and changed it).  What this guy did was really immature, but...|||Hesitated to post this because the husband in question sounds like a huge jerk, but this approach to analyzing relationship issues definitely resonated with me:  http://i62.tinypic.com/n4fdsk.jpg ...|||Trying to get four people together who live in three different states (travel time to destination up to 6 hours) is such a headache... it's been about a year since the first proposed date and we're...|||Will do!|||INTJ: alcohol recreationally a couple times a week or less (bars/clubs sometimes, but usually just chilling with my boyfriend at home; 1-2 in a night, never more than 4), tried coke once (I was...|||http://oi49.tinypic.com/2a5ggg3.jpg|||Great answers! Thanks, guys. :happy:|||Yes.  honey. leave his cheating ass.  I've been there (not the exact situation, but strung along all the same)--when I broke it off I was bitter, fuming, couldn't trust men for a while, and...|||Best decision EVER.  When I studied abroad I lived in a dorm situation with 35 other international students. By the nature of study abroad I had something major in common with everyone (interest in...|||I've always tended to have a small, close group of friends, but over the past year my tight-knit group of several years has slowly dissipated due to big life changes (moving, new jobs, marriage, grad...|||When you deliberately throw out remarks in an offhanded manner about pointless life details as a means of humanizing yourself.|||Pretty much everything Imperatrix said! Presenting yourself well is a lotta damn work. But I've had some fun with it, too, and seeing myself in the mirror looking put together and well-dressed is...|||I LOVE BOOKS SO MUCH. Up till yesterday I had 18 books checked out, most for final papers, 6 for fun. If Interlibrary Loan were a man I WOULD MARRY IT. Because any man who can get me English...|||I criticize your unconscionably vague monosyllabic criticism.|||G - 92 R - 98 H - 83 S - 54  I'm pretty indiscriminately chivalrous (I feel guilty otherwise!), which, I think, has helped a lot of people, but also been taken advantage of a few times. (Not...|||Happens to me pretty often! It's great in a discussion, but I've noticed if everybody's goofing around and I'm characteristically quiet but try to jump in, people stop laughing... buzzkill. People...|||INTJs got that one a few times too! :crazy: I'd say of my type: Most likely to kill a (dangerous) stray animal (if nobody else was willing to). (unless I'm off the mark? fellow INTJs?) ...|||Makeup? 2 concealers, foundation, powder, blush, eyeliner, mascara, clear mascara (eyebrows), brow pencil, sometimes highlights/shadows... unless I sleep too late. Doesn't look like I have that much...|||My roommate was an immature XSFJ. In conversation, smooth sailing, pleasant company even, as long as we didn't, you know, talk about anything. It ended disastrously; she was insecure, spiteful. I...|||The repartee!  ENTP: Honey chicken = amazing. Me: Excessive green concealer = zombie. ENTP: Zombie = amazing. Me: That too.  Every thinking-of-you text is a thinly-veiled challenge to a verbal...|||So some dude had the stones to sit down next to me and demand I start a conversation, as he was weary of always having to be the one to break the silence. (Imagine that.) I was, evidently, the...|||18,000 children starved today, but thank heaven God delivered my friend's car from costly damage when she slid into a snowbank!  ...I still haven't come to terms with the fact that there's no way...|||I just trampled a guy without meaning to by hitting on a major insecurity :/ He got really attached really fast, then got grabby, which was a level of emotional and physical intimacy I can't deal...|||Uncertainty gets me every time! When I'm not sure how to tackle something, like a complex thesis, I'm more likely to put it off, which only makes it harder since I'm pressed for time when I finally...|||Your Aspie score: 33 of 200 Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 175 of 200 You are very likely neurotypical ...|||Going off of HollywoodK8, I think other ways type could impact someone's weight is extent to which they're concerned with their appearance and/or health as well as lifestyle. I don't know that much...|||Thanks for this thread, I was thinking about this the other day!  I love you ENTPs, but I'm well-acquainted with one who's very immature. It's painful to watch him hurt and frustrate himself and...|||Time American Machine Best Classes British Found Night Till Actually|||Ehh. Neutral. When I was put in charge of a group of children I tended to be more bored than anything if it was going well.  My sister's six years younger and I've volunteered as a camp counselor...|||Do you think they were, necessarily? If she had authenticating information they might not have been any the wiser. But I'd say ask a legal counselor; some organizations provide free assistance.|||Everyone, thanks for the insightful feedback!  agokcen - Think you're right about that. don't get me wrong, I love ENTPs, and this experience changes nothing! ♥  vel - ...Oh. Um. That actually...|||Fuck.  I don't know the specifics of your situation, but you're absolutely justified in taking legal action for credit fraud if you choose to.|||Username: Colombina's a stock character from commedia dell'arte, a form of masked theater from 16th-century Italy. She's often the only functional intellect on the stage despite being a woman,...|||I'm not an expert, but my academic writing is very strong and I've been developing my nonacademic style.  For starters, just read a lot. My dad read to me as a kid, I read at or above my level in...|||In a social setting, more unapproachable than intimidating, I think. Up till I decided to start giving a damn about how people perceived me (after about a semester of college), I noticed a weird...|||Learning INTJs are one of the least religious types doesn't surprise me much :S  I have never understood how people who claim to be so utterly devoted to their creed can have their faith shaken by...|||For me, depends on the intent & level of intimacy. Actually, I'm fine with casual physical contact, if that's all it is! When I was in Italy I thought the little shows of warmth among friends in...|||This situation looks... pretty bad from my vantage point. I'd appreciate an ENTP perspective! :)  So: my ENTP. We met. We clicked. It was pretty much amazing.  Then he asked me if I had feelings...|||Taking my husband's name wouldn't bother me. I like my family name and my clan history's pretty cool, and I have no problem with hyphenated surnames, but I think having one would be a little...|||Emotions kinda suck sometimes. :mellow:  I've wasted a lot of time on things I would've been better off without, and could have distanced myself from earlier if I'd been able to overcome my...|||Same here. Then it gets awkward and so much for that friendship. :/  When I was younger almost all of my closest friends were boys. Now I have a few more female friends than male, though I often...|||I've tried establishing a strict routine but my daily schedule can be somewhat unpredictable, so I try to fit in workouts 6-8 days out of 14 for flexibility. I warm up with a 5-minute run and do...|||I kinda like this aspect, you don't see that versatility in most types.  Oh also, forgot to mention-- I admire the ENTP tendency to have impressive rhetorical skills. Before I realized what was...|||I like their offbeat sense of humor & how everything seems to come easily to them, and their quirky charm :tongue: Despite being laid-back in social situations they can be crazy ambitious and have...|||I don't think I'm doomed, though I'll freely admit to almost unrealistically high standards. I think my biggest issue is that I'm insecure about expressing interest when I'm attracted to someone;...'