'Whenever I hear of a potential ENTP/INFP relationship, I get that feeling of seeing yet another European general try to invade Russia. It's not going to end well. I pray you're able to defuse it and...|||Dr. Miller, you appear to be approaching the project of online dating with a relish characteristic of the ENTP on the upswing.|||When you start spending a lot of time (and sharing a lot more) with your guy friends at the expense of time spent with your main squeeze, you are emotionally cheating. I think you need to level with...|||It's gotten so bad in the US that I have people telling me that they think GERMANY has us beat in real terms of personal freedom. So this doesn't surprise me much.|||Yep yep yep yep . . .    Thank you for proving my point in a roundabout way.  See, take that energy and put it in the primary relationship and tell the side-guy that you can't talk to him. Think...|||Sensors and feelers and shit, oh my!|||I'm picky. When I'm not I regret it.   I'm picky in odd ways. I won't fuck stupid women. No matter how hot she is if she can't keep up her side of a conversation I'm not interested.  When I talk...|||We don't do well with ultimatums at all. I fell for it once and it was like Well there you go. We're married. Happy now? I'm taking a motorcycle ride. You can tell where that led.  I don't see...|||We're not really total sluts, or at least most of us don't intend to be.   It's just that of the ENTP's I know (and I've known quite a few, including myself) all keep their friends of the opposite...|||Yeah, that's how things work out best for us. I've noticed it's a gender-neutral tendency. Female ENTP's are frequently disappointed to find out that they can't bring their boyfriends along on their...|||ENTP, baybay!!!|||If ENTP's had always ruled the world, we'd have 7 billion largely poor people, most of whom are desperate and lonely. The world's economy would be dominated by a few companies. There would be wars...|||I run about a mile a day 3 or 4 days a week on a treadmill.  It's not one of my favorite activities. I am not sold on the benefits and risk-reward of running. I use it as warm-up or cool-down for...|||There are many words in this thread.  Here's another:  Yes.|||The answer is simple: Get with one reliable one and keep a few on the side, changing them out as needed.|||Yes. The worst part of being alone is that you're alone. That's also the best part.|||People who don't understand all the implications of their statements.  Because Ne can usually get there in a hell of a hurry for them, and make them look pretty dumb.  So the nice,...|||You think it's burnout but it's just life.   Just do stuff, try and be happy and you'll be fine.  Just about anything you do right now isn't going to matter when you're 40. Loosen up, hang out,...|||I agree with the statements.  But let's think this through:  If sex is just symbolic and a means to an end to the ENTP, it explains how we can intellectualize what's happening and not really...|||I think they are fascinating and I wish them well, just not on me.|||Academic achievement isn't at issue. It's the social fucked-up-ness that stays through adulthood.  Signed, a former homeschooler (4th grade through high school) with a sister who was also...|||Funny, quick-witted, brash and abrupt sometimes, no patience for deep emotionality, over-confident, inspires and enrages by turns.  Everything seems out in the open but still hard to get to know....|||Homeschooling.   People who isolate their kids for their most formative years and then wonder why they can't socially integrate. Pisses me off no end.  WalMart. Not many people seem to realize...|||ENFP's are good at making out and make good sex partners.|||Sounds like you've found each other.   In writing, even.|||My favorite is City-Data.com  Those are some really serious-minded people on there, most of whom think scorpions are going to kill everyone in the state of Arizona.|||1. Getting your point across? It's not simple. We really have to work at listening. Most of the time we're just pausing to respond. You can try the dialectical thing. Make a radical, exaggerated...|||I'm just a bit more talkative, musical, and horny. I'm the same person with the inhibitions turned down a couple notches.|||Malicious fecal distribution:   http://youtu.be/3tD4nmw1yZs|||Any of them. Just start.  Seriously, you can't go wrong. You'll probably have at least 3 careers in your life.   Start with whichever is most available and suits your fancy the best.  I...|||Yes, but mainly just to keep myself from lashing out. Usually better to do the soft-landing thing than to crash hard.|||Yes.|||1. You're going to mistake sex for love at least once in your life. Go ahead and get started. 2. If you're an unrestrained ENTP a good number of people already think you're a horse's ass. That's...|||http://youtu.be/HUV9eBWA9IE|||Because I can be listening to a Billy Squire video while chatting with a Turkish woman about the Armenian genocide, all while posting video clips to Facebook to people born after the music was...|||My advice: Give up.   You aren't going to find the perfect career. Your career is in the constellation of things you will do throughout life.  I've recently been released from my IT management...|||Everyone's experience is different, but I know that I at one time tried to be a typical SJ. It was what the world seemed to be demanding of me. I failed at it magnificently. That's how I became an...|||Everyone's experience is different, but I know that I at one time tried to be a typical SJ. It was what the world seemed to be demanding of me. I failed at it magnificently. That's how I became an...|||In a metaphorical way I agree. The world has changed. It's changed so suddenly and so dramatically that the old power structures can't yet comprehend it. And I don't think anyone really has a handle...|||When I'm doing something I do relatively well, the flow comes. For the most part that's writing and riding motorcycles. I'd really like to get paid for doing either or both. Flow is hard to achieve...|||Sometimes I'll post something on Facebook that will get the conservative Roman Catholics bashing the born-again Christian fundies, who in turn will piss off the atheist/humanistic gays, who in turn...|||You have come to bring us wood.|||I grew up around music since my parents were both professionals.   It's a hard way to grow up. I really wished they had been accountants who liked to play music on the side.  But when I was...|||We'd be the safest gang in the world because we'd just sit around talking about how awesome we are. Eventually the topic would turn to how cool we could be on other planets. At about 3AM the cops...|||I am resigned to the necessity of it provided it's understood by all that abortion is killing, and sometimes killing humans is expedient or even necessary.  In war, people kill other people who...|||Oh, I'd hang out here if I could, but I've been told I will very likely be moving along. It's partially because I'm not as much of a performer as I used to be, but the rain's going to fall on the...|||You know, I think I finally gave up all hope when I had a candid conversation with my boss who basically told me that I was on the next round of layoffs. He confided in me that his real ambition, the...|||I'd vote for Ron Jeremy or Tera Patrick, really.|||At one time I actually was diagnosed by a psych for this. There is something in the DSM about work-related lassitude. I'm sure I'm paraphrasing.  Anyway, I see references in online psych and...|||Just this:   http://youtu.be/Iq0XJCJ1Srw'