'Even though I still feel a little hurt and rejected, I think I will do as you suggest and just throw my feelings out there. I really hate dealing with Feelings, ugh, but expressing my feelings is...|||Perhaps. Maybe I should up the ante? Whenever we go out dancing with other folks I get hit on by other dudes and I know he is watching, ISTJs are ALWAYS watching. I think maybe he is reluctant to...|||wow...THANK YOU for your this post! It was truly comforting, thank you!  Here's an update: Recently, he brought up the notion that we should talk. He basically said that our hanging out all the...|||Thank you everyone for responding, your insight has given me more things to consider. Thank you!|||How would you phrase it? Why should I be careful instead of asking bluntly?|||I've been talking to an ISTJ for almost 4 months. If we're not hanging out in person, we're talking on the phone daily. Not txt, but actual phone conversations usually initiated by him. He puts in...|||My sister and extremely good female friend are ENFJs My best male friend is an ENTP  My best go out and party-rock/hang on a daily basis friends are all Sensors, hands down. (NOBODY parties like...|||Are you currently in one? no.  What would make the difference in your decision to be in one or not? If the guy has everything i'm looking for in a mate. if i don't feel stressed around him and i...|||I understand what you're saying. I went to school for one thing and now i'm back in school studying IT (part of the business curriculum). I enjoyed the hands on classes where i had something to...|||My mom is an ESTJ. She likes to be wined and dined. I agree with the previous posts, PAY FOR THE DINNER, open doors, do the traditional things. My mom melts whenever my dad brings her flowers. She...|||My Indecisiveness.    That causes a lot of problems, like what i should change my career to, or what i should wear to work, or what i should order from the taco shop. I also think this comes from a...|||Dag. it looks like he needs to get his sh*t together, which is something he already knows. He probably needs time to sort things out by himself because he was confronted with reality. When i get a...|||I tend to think about 50 things at the same time when i'm alone...like what i'm having for dinner, where my life is headed, what classes i can take to further my career, what movies are on tv, how...|||Hmmm, so do you think that all that mess at the bar with Diana posted against him and him not turning her away (while he looks at me) and him kissing her hand could be an indirect way of trying to...|||Yes! thank you for your honesty ETG! I am a direct communicator and i respect when others communicate with me in a similar fashion. If only more guys prescribed to this school of thought :-/ Now...|||wow. this is good stuff. I can see how immaturity could spearhead this entire situation. I usually date older guys (i, myself, am in my late 20s) and i'm used to them being upfront and honest about...|||Can you explain this further? If you liked someone, why would he try to throw them off trail? Usually you try to get them to join the bandwagon, that doesn't seem to make sense. Help me understand...|||Thanks for your responses! I think he's an INTP for the following reasons (although now you all have me questioning this assumption):  - He tends to be a little shy while at work. It's a bit of a...|||this is an interesting question...  I do most of my socializing at work b/c i live alone. I also have two jobs- one with mostly older people, and another with people my age. After i moved to a new...|||hey, hey, ladies!   I don't wear makeup or jewelry. I think it's pointless and a waste of time. My best friends are guys. I've even had a male coworker tell me in response to a story, yeah, but...|||Yeah, not being able to focus has been the story of my life! I only truly focus when it's something i'm REALLY interested in and I feel like doing it. Other than that it is almost pointless for me to...|||I don't have a GPS. I'm a visual person and they are just too colorful and distracting! It's like watching tv when you drive. I also am good at hand-eye coordination so i want to match my movements...|||Mom (ESTJ): we used to clash like crazy when I was growing up! She wanted always tell me what to do and how to dress (with skirts, and dresses, and makeup like a good little girl) and i wanted...|||I've done both and I currently live alone. Here are the pros and cons of living by yourself:  Pros:  - You can do whatever the hell you want without considering another person's space or...|||I am so damn confused about what's going on (if anything!) and i need an objective analysis of the situation. I'll try to tell this story (it is a little long) without leaving out the relevant...|||I usually think arguing isn't worth it because I don't feel the need to convince anybody of anything and it is usually a waste of my time and energy, especially if a fool is trying to argue with...|||I live on the east coast, very close to the epicenter of the earthquake. I've lived on the west coast before and my immediate reaction was to get under a table or sturdy desk and I yelled to my...|||For the most part I don't let things bother me and i'm pretty cool headed; but, if you push me...and i mean really push, to the point where i can no longer let you get away with the unfair treatment,...|||I try to get as much work done in the least amount of time, making sure i mentally check off every task that must be completed. My ultimate goal at work is to have freedom to do whatever i want to...|||I dated an ESFP for a few years but it didn't work out. What it boiled down to is this: 1) He wanted to be around everybody ALL the time, we rarely had alone time together and when we did, he always...|||Masculine: I guess i'm not your typical sensitive female, i'm not very emotional. I open doors for people, fix my own electronic problems, and build my own stuff (when i have the materials).  ...|||Criminal Justice.   At first it was really interesting, but towards the end of my degree program the material got repetitive and boring, and i couldn't wait to get a job. Now that i've graduated...|||I understand where you're coming from.  What helped turn Christianity from a thought to belief was 1) going through a personal struggle where my only logical option, cause everything else failed, was...|||1. Whats ur type? ISTP  2. Where r u in the family tree? (e.g. Father, mother, Daughter, brother, eldest, youngest, twins) daughter, middle child  3. Do you act differently in your family than...|||We all know ISTPs and relationships are an interesting situation (to say the least), but are any of you Married or in a long-term relationship? Given our go with the flow moments, how do you manage...|||I work a desk job in the legal/corrections field. I'm looking to get as far away from that as possible to something that is less restricting.|||I'm considering quitting my present job to pursue a master's degree in graphic design, what specifically did you like? What did you hate? Why/how did it work well for your personality? I've always...|||I think there are a lot of people who fake empathy just to appear normal. I agree with most of the other posts, i don't really empathize with others, as my reaction is usually, that sucks or...|||It seems like she doesn't quite know what she wants. I've been in situations where i think a guy is awesome and i want to spend time with him, but after further consideration, i decide to turn away...|||Annoying as hell. I can't stand the ramblings on what everyone is feeling or how they are feeling and blah, blah, blah. That and spouting a bunch of ideas and feelings with no action; what's the...|||Yes! Me too! I usually get hated on by other females, female ESTJ's in particular. I get along quite well with males and maybe this bothers them. When I first started at a new job I kept to myself...|||I don't really go out a lot. Most of my friends live in different states, and my core party group has split up. It usually breaks down to who i'm around and where i'm at.  - At work: I tend to talk...|||26, mid-atlantic region.|||I absolutely love driving! I like having sole control of a machine that i can manipulate any way i see fit. I'm a beast on the road, awesome at parallel parking, and i can weave in and out of traffic...|||My best friend is an ENTP. We get along really, really well. He tends to say whatever I am thinking and is always down for spontaneous fun without getting too out of control. He gives great advice,...|||According to the personalitypage.com, ....ENTJ's natural partner is the INTP, or the ISTP. AN ENTJ's dominant function of Extraverted Thinking is best-matched with a personality type that is...|||I don't think we have an inflated self image. We are realists- we know what we're good at and we know what needs work. Like all other personalities we want to accentuate the good because it gives us...|||I don't know my purpose, but right now it is to find my purpose according to God.  I am in an early life crisis too cause i don't know what i'm supposed to do, but i'm thinking it's to use my...|||Yeah, it seems like he just wants someone to hang out with and be sex buddies. I think your strategy of taking it day by day is a good idea, so long as it doesn't develop into anything further (which...|||lol! I agree, its fun when you go with all your friends. I like to dance, so I don't mind going to do just that. It's annoying when some guys equate your presence at the club to you wanting to sleep...'