'INTJ used logic, it's super effective!  Welcome :P|||Just chill and see when he shows up :) Why wait in agony? What creates this nonrelaxed moment for you?|||It depends on her level of intelligence, if she's just as smart as he  is, then it would be possible she's playing the same high-level game as  he is. If not, then he's just a fool who creates...|||Yeah, I worked in retail for 6 years. God people annoyed me there, but I always played mind games with them so I got my fun out of it.|||Let's see what a vent does for me, I don't think I ever did it before.  That  I don't show my emotions doesn't mean I don't feel. I'm human, I feel, I  just rationalize this into clear thoughts...|||PM me if you want. I'm a 21-yr old INTJ male.|||What are you afraid of?|||But it will come back if he doesn't take any action, so it would be a temporary solution?|||I mean that the vent was about being understood. That he seemed passive in his behavior and expected something to happen without doing anything to trigger it. Then it's out of the system, but the...|||Did you inform him/her before doorslamming that you did not like how they treated you? Because without warning that would be very unfair to that person I think. That's why I asked what exactly...|||No words to talk about it? You must have a reason to doorslam a person. What is doorslamming anyway? Just not talking to that person anymore or is it going out in a blaze of fury?|||Well, why wouldn't they be and why would they be? What makes you doubt?|||You have to get it clear with him that you can't deal with it like this. Tell him that and then sit down and have a mature conversation about his life's choices. And if it turns out you're...|||Then what makes you wonder if you're going crazy?|||Why do you wonder? Are you seeing things? :S|||macho  I do not find it easy to stop thinking. There's always something going on in my head. I do have a few circumstances in which the everlasting sound of thought fades and I'm in the present...|||This issue is highly trivial. What does it matter that people think you don't wash your hands? I thought it would be a more...interesting...issue. This is a non-issue. I'd say it doesn't matter what...|||double post|||To ask people questions and give them advices. To challenge myself and others. To help people see different points of view and get to the bottom of the things they vent about. Why do you ask?   ...|||What are you afraid of?|||299378  Why don't you trust people?|||Stop looking and start discovering. Before writing anyone off as not interesting, get to know them a bit better. Some things are hidden beneath the surface of the first impression :)|||Is there something wrong with being on the side?|||And what kind of counsel would you like?|||Poland is now moving into the third stage, a service-based economy. There are many jobs in Human Resources, Finance, Techonology, call-centers. The centre of it all is Krakow in South Poland. I...|||Typical, when faced with undeniable facts one retreats into oneself and goes into denial. The rationale makes sense, now the sense just needs to enter you. Why do you fight my rationale? Why do you...|||The whole Pisces INFJ thing has never been proven. Horoscopes have never been proven. While they are good fun, I fail to see the connection. Anxiety befalls many, this is not unique to the Pisces...|||jjcat73 Disclaimer: Also not a parent myself  A very tough situation, with many possible outcomes, some of which can be more desirable than others. I'll look at the main issue first: moving away....|||Why?|||@Schizoid @nichya SiFan  The data the thread provides will mean nothing, it will be biased and not worth anything in any way. What are you going to do with it even if there is a significance?|||Nothing, you have to know what you want to know. It's all up to you and your own expectations of life. I can imagine this frustrates you, because you don't know where to start. I think it all comes...|||You can't, just ask them to close it|||Is temporary good enough? I would go for a permanent solution that doesn’t involve as much whining on the internet. Something that I think that has no real benefits.    And if you put it on the...|||I don't have enough data to answer that question.|||Everything we do translates into our daily life. What we vent is in  our heads, and in order to develop it's important to get rid of these  toxic thoughts in our heads. I think venting can get rid of...|||Everybody has a long life story, actually our life story is exactly as long as our age. Your argument is invalid. You once wrote your life story in a thread and I remember parts of it. So what? What...|||You're a human just like everybody else here. What is the connection between I get horny sometimes and I am a compassionate person and I cannot love someone half heartedly.?|||Then why put it in a thread if you're not bothered by it? And what answers did you expect?|||I think that would not be weird at all. PA's are there to help people, and if they can do that even when they're not physically present that's means they're very good doctors. The situation is quite...|||You're not interested in women?|||It's a duplicate though, I'm not sure if that's very practical.|||I can vote No and I'm not even INFJ. Or maybe I am and I'm being mistyped. Maybe some INFJ's here are actually ISFJ's or INTJ's or any other type. Do you know? No. This means that, also because...|||She's talking about the assumptions you make about horoscopes and the methods you use to confirm your hypothesis. You want to see if  there's a relation between being INFJ and being Pisces. A noble...|||That's why I added the explanation|||May get through to him, softening him up with pity won't help him either.|||Oh please, stop being such a little bitch. Rare personality or not, you're still a human being that can adapt, you're a human being that can take initiative to get the life you want. Everything...|||If it's worth it in the end, then go for it. But if you're not sure why you're not splitting up...maybe it's time to think about it. And don't stay just because you don't want to hurt him, it'll do...|||I'm sorry to hear that. Arguing is never nice, especially when it's over a silly issue. Could you have stopped the argument from happening? Does he feel just as bad as you do?|||What part of what is off?|||You scratch my back, I scratch yours. It's how far you are to the 1000 post mark, you don't have it yet because you don't have that many posts yet. I think it appears at the 100 post mark.'