'You know, like someone you've known for years suddenly for some reason becomes short tempered, yells, and over all becomes verbally abusive or worse?. Sure, they may be stressed or have other...|||Noriko from Tokyo Story.  In her mind, she never did anything good, wasn't kind, nor caring. Only selfish and undeserving. She thought so low of herself that she just couldn't see for the life of...|||What do you do when your highest score is an 8, and your second highest score is a 5 for four different types?!  :shocked:|||Ahhh! You and I seem alike in this way. I get easily attached to others too, BUT, only after I've allowed myself to do so. At the start, everyone is at arms length. I try to take in the behavior of...|||My intent was pretty clear in the first sentence. How to cope. I've had friends come and go, and friends that I've known for 10 plus years that drop in and out of contact. I've never had a...|||I think it's possible he thought that. Also, I don't think it was a parent-child type friendship. That I helped him and worried about him when he was going through extremely painful times alone,...|||At the times, yes. At times, no. Part of it is I feel guilty for some of the truths I told him. Also, he isn't backing down. At some point I'd have to admit to a awful insult I didn't say....|||I wonder if there's any point in emailing one last time. I didn't get a chance to say my peace. As evident by his last email, he's gone away thinking it's all my fault, I don't know any better, I...|||I know. I do feel guilty and sad about a few things. It wasn't even a year ago he told me I was his best friend, so it's hard to believe sometimes. The last words he said to me, though they weren't...|||How do you cope, fellow ISFP's? I am unsure of this man's type...   Had a friend for 4 years. We never met. I'm in my 30's, he's significantly older, unmarried, has 0 family. No friends until...|||How to cope?  I had a friend for four years. We never met. He's older, unmarried, has ZERO family. No friends until recently. I've been married for years. Husband knows. Friendship has been...|||Say a I hear good friend telling me for a while that they need to get a camera. They don't have one. The last two they had broke, etc. They've been wanting to get one for a long time, blah, blah,...|||raskoolz, thanks for your reply. It helped a lot, believe me.    I know! I don't want to be bothered. More than anything it's how he has shown me he doesn't have to respect like he expects...|||Yes. Of course. This is something I understand. I don't care who takes a break. The problem is he doesn't SAY anything. He may think why I should I have to say anything? Like I told him, If your'e...|||Sorry this is long. I don't know if i have high expectations of people or what.  I have a friend of some years that talks to me a lot. For the last 2 years, we talk pretty much every day. We...|||Wisdom|||Sorry to hear this. By the way, him saying he can only go at the pace he's comfortable with is a piss poor excuse. No one, regardless of personality type, is going to have a successful relationship...|||Saying ENTJ's are bossy and uncaring could be considered a stereotype. But, as I've learned thus far in life, there are truths to every stereotype.   I can only tell you that the few I've dealt...|||Thanks to P, I am not a rigid SOB.|||Get over it.    Seriously, get over it. And honestly, it's nice that you recognize her potential    Well, that's her prerogative. Not everyone wants to be out there where everyone else...|||Yeah. I do.    Ultimately that's not the point. Wind Rises could have been nominated for best foreign film, but then it would have taken the place of another good foreign film that was NOT...|||Your Sun and Moon are in.... I forget what it's called. But reverse the placements of the two, and each would be in their best signs (the sign of their rulership).   As for me...  Sun & Mars -...|||Gemini sun Virgo moon Leo rising|||Yes. Lutheran.|||Guess I'll throw a wrench here.  Yes, I am a phone person. The phone rings and I see who it is. There is one person in particular whom I've had long conversations with. HOURS. Other than that I can...|||Not going to waste time with all kinds of advice (others are better at it anyway). He's an asshole. His friends (ganging up and teasing you?) are assholes too. Are they all like 15 or something? ...|||I have similar reactions.|||Have these fantasies persisted throughout your life?  Have you ever acted on these fantasies? Do you allow yourself to use these fantasies (even if you don't act on them) to help you get off...|||This is an interesting point of view, and one that I run into far too often. Quite honestly, I don't like it. Yes, if she has a problem with you because you are an INTJ, no, there is nothing you can...|||That is sad.  The typical INTJ arrogance has to stop. No one likes a snob, except fellow snobs, and no one likes them either. Learn to curb that for the future.  You need to talk with her and...|||Oh God! That is awful!|||Do your parents want you to leave and make your own life? I know they are not willing to kick you out, but do they mind you staying there, or are they looking forward to you leaving?  Is there a...|||OOOOOOOH! How long does it take you to trip that great Hitler 'stache?|||My. How Juvenile.|||Not really. Just wanted to make sure the F stood out, since the other three letters are the same.|||FOUND IT!  :proud:   85362|||Ahhhh. I am an isFp, and I know a good picture when I see one. Very helpful in an online conversation about fairly attractive males...  :wink:|||Where's the THIS THREAD IS WORTHLESS WITHOUT PICS! emoticon???  yeah.  :laughing:|||Hi!  How's life? who knows! How's love..... 'eh. Not bad.  The fam, 'eh. Work? No work right now. No art either. Passion? I don't know. It's usually never around, until it is, and then the...|||I think that if we heard someone else say negative things about themselves that were identical to the negative things we say about ourselves, we'd think of them the way your wife and kids think of...|||Yes. I am very hypercritical.  I spoke to an old man who told me people don't write because they're too pre-occupied with being a WRITER. In other words, I should write because I want to write, not...|||Grow up.  Seriously, how old are you?  I am a teacher but I am certainly not controlling or power hungry. And most of the controlling, power hungry, dictator like individuals I've met were most...|||You cannot murder someone while drunk if all the drinking actually made you pass out. Also, consenting to sex while drunk is consenting. Judgement is impaired, but you said yes. Until you say no,...|||I don't know if I deny. I don't think I do. I think I may begin to stammer, get nervous, talk too much, forget what it is that I should be saying, etc.|||A woman's consent is negated when she CANNOT or DOES NOT give it. Period.  Let's face it, plenty of women get smashed, have sex, and cry rape because otherwise their boyfriend/husband may leave...|||Oh My God you're a young one! I graduated high school before you even started kindergarten. Now I feel old!|||Gemini Sun (oppose Neptune) Virgo Moon (square Neptune) Leo Rising  Those negative aspects of Neptune impart Piscean traits to my personality in varying degrees, which can be a good or bad thing....|||No, not the only one. I can kind of relate, though I wasn't quite as bad as you. However, I would frequently find myself doing all my homework at the last minute, even when I had a full we to do it...|||I'm Lutheran and I'm pretty religious.|||Ordinary People (1980)'