'What I mean by that is how can an INTJ befriend and ENFP (of opposite sex) without the latter becoming enamored? ENFP guys usually fall hard for me and I typically just want to be friends, at first....|||How do ENFP males prefer to be approached by interested parties? (And not just interested in a romantic sense, but, platonically as well)  I always find I instantly enjoy the company of ENFPs but...|||*reviving thread*  ...but I would say Hilary and Bill Clinton are you're classic INTJ/ENFP couple.|||Then who would solve all the great mysteries of the world?|||We try our best not to meet too many people.|||I've only met one ENFP male in my entire life. It was complicated, but we really got each other.|||This describes me (currently) extremely well. I imagine the INTJs you've dealt with were young (20's) and subsequently getting to know themselves better and struggling with the Ni-Fi loop or some...|||INTJ/ENFP relationships provide the most perfect and intriguing dichotomy for both parties involved. Mainly for the INTJ we find someone who genuinely appreciates us (all of our quirks and what...|||I don't think ENFPs can ever fall out of love with an INTJ, even if things don't work out.|||He doesn't sound very INTJ. We don't revolve on the attention of others especially when it's superficial. He may be ISTJ...or something else completely. INTJ's are known for ignoring the...|||Ah, but true INTJs love and desire depth in others and can't propagate a relationship without it. We can see through everything superficial and we read people obnoxiously well. So there's no fooling...|||I assure you that INTJs understand (and appreciate) depth in it's entirety and probably much much better than any other type.|||i love minecraft.|||all kinds! except country. Dubstep and any type of electronic top my list. I also really like alternative, classic rock, and 90's hiphop/rap. Honestly, a good song transcend genre|||haha i wish that were the case, he's 30...|||I was not aware. The only INTJ forum i frequent is intjforum.com|||I do use music to display emotion, but only for myself. I play guitar--I feel awkward/uncomfortable when people watch me play for some reason. Music courses through my veins-- I'd even go as far as...|||lawlz, being a former /b/tard i must say i do.|||No, i dont think that. I'm just better at hiding my emotions and more cautious as to who I share them with. Dealing with a moody iNTJ I'd say give them their space, but let them know that you're...|||...and i have the social intelligence and emotional maturity level of a 14 year old? Get real, you've obviously been butt hurt by some INTJ in your life and have taken a personal vendetta over the...|||lol I'm sorry, you must have been mistaken for there was never a debate. Clearly you're just a cyber-bully looking to make yourself seem cool, tough and intelligent over the internet. And good I'm...|||I actually did like algebra in high school, i guess it was because adding letters made it seem less mathy to me. And Statistic as well was a fun class for me in high school; I found the concepts...|||you cannot defeat an INTJ for even if we are wrong we can ALWAYS find a way to be right. It's a complicated process and I do not deem you worthy of such cause. Just know that your mind is not broad...|||i was never a fan of math growing up, but I've always found interest in science. I enjoy dissecting things and figuring out how they work. I'm currently a Neuroscience major learning all I can...|||I'm sorry, I wasn't aware that this was a competition...as i stated before i have better things to do than argue semantics. Why you decided to drag this on is beyond me.|||In my opinion it's our independence that sets off INFJs. They feel as if they'd die without other people whereas this is clearly not true and they'd rather attribute their own successes to others....|||Narcissism is a mental disorder; I'm a behavioral science major, i know what I'm talking about.  quoting the mayo clinic: Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental disorder in which people...|||i'd imagine he'd still be blue, but I'm not sure how you'd go about strangling a cartoon?? o.O|||ok, first off, no where was i bragging-- i was simply stating facts then all the NFs had to get all emotional about it. Someone asked me what i looked for in a partner, so i stated such.  secondly,...|||haha this is true. my sister is an INFJ and i've learned that walking away pisses them off more than continuing to argue with them.|||I'm just going to end this now because you fail to reason logically. I can find fault with every statement you make but would rather find more productive ways to spend my time. And there's more to...|||and who's to say i wouldn't have? how do you know that i wouldn't have been able to achieve these things if i lived alone on a secluded island? please inform me as to such...  and no that is not...|||yes, but i took it upon MYSELF to pursue such things. No one told me i had to be athletic or funny or smart...i simply wanted to be--so i did and am. Those aforementioned resources mean nothing if I...|||the fact of the matter is you and only you are directly responsible for who you are. As an INTJ i don't let others influence me. I've built myself to be exactly who i wanted|||lmao yes, actually i did. im a good athlete because i understand sports and workout. I'm smart because i understand complicated concepts and read medical journals, classic literature and philosophy....|||also i don't know how you could even come to interpret someone as either E or I over the internet...|||*what are  no im definitely an INTJ. i've never even scored E on any test i've taken. my dreams and ambitions? I want to be a surgeon; that's all you really need to know.|||i like efficiency|||... an example of jealous undertones?|||It's not narcissism when it's true.|||personally, i like guys who are very similar to myself such as: good looking, (very) smart, athletic and funny. Alas, there are not so many people of said criteria|||i prefer alone. things become too complicated when trying to match schedules etc etc|||You calling us dumb?:tongue:|||talking about feelings is always awkward with us, but we honestly appreciate having someone we can share them with.|||i loved building things when i was kid. legos and duplos were my favorite toys even lincoln logs were cool to me!|||you have to just come right out and say it. ENFPs are flirty people we INTJs notice this and, I know for myself this is true, I just cycle through oh he doesn't really like me he's just a nice...|||Well if he's distant and has stated he doesn't want a relationship right now BUT he likes you--I'd say he's just unsure of himself. He'll come around when he's ready. It's harder for us to jump into...|||haha sometimes i feel like ENFP kryptonite. we don't think we're sexy though. We're just being ourselves--I'm not sure what's sexy about that at all ^_^|||To digitalceremony:i would say he likes you. If he gives you the time of day and invites you to be one-on-one/alone with him that's saying a lot. We don't waste time with people we don't like. Ask...|||LOL unfortunately math is not my strong suit. Although, I'd be happy to take any science or philosophy question you may have(psychology included)'