'Yes|||ISTJs in power due to their quiet, commanding presence...and really any SJ in the workplace, because I worry I can't deliver what they want and I'm gonna get in troooubbleee.  Among peers,...|||Yep, I've been asked this constantly through my life.|||Because...The way they look at you when they desire you... *eye flutter*|||I dislike that Fe doesn't seem to care about or recognize people's feelings in the absence of immediate stimulus - actually this is something I'd like to understand better.   I dislike when Fe...|||As a teenager I became overtly flirtatious and sexual when I was drunk, with almost anyone, for awhile. I recall at points getting pissed off when drunk, like I couldn't help it, but I think that's...|||I see the importance of staying involved with my community...but I don't relate to the so description and it is ridiculously easy for me to forget about caring for or nurturing the instinct. On the...|||Traveling is stressful for me because I worry about not having proper access to healthcare; if I didn't need medication I would enjoy it a lot more. However, I love the exploration aspect of travel...|||ESFJ 2w3 + ISFP 5w4 = INFP 4w5  MOTHER SIDE:  ENTJ 8w7 + ESFP 3w4 = ESFJ 2w3  FATHER SIDE:  I don't know|||I'm an INFP and my best friend is an ENFP. n_n|||As a 4, the feeling of being genuinely different is a consistent narrative in my head and I usually don't feel a need to show that I am different - in fact I try to hide it a lot of the time. I think...|||Sometimes I'm withdrawing because of attachment triggers, in which case it helps to know I am accepted and wanted. If I'm withdrawing because I'm depressed I just need some space, time and...|||This is late but I am 485 tritype and also sx/sp.|||The first test I got fearful avoidant with the general population, fearful avoidant with my dad, dismissive avoidant with my mom, secure with friends and secure (but nearly preoccupied) with my...|||Hm...My grandpa and Uncle are both Ns (ENTJ 8 and ENTP 7) and everyone else seems to be S except for lil ol' me. I've never had another INFP or type 4 family member. Growing up I just felt very...|||Sadly neither. )'-:|||1) Which functions do you enjoy having in common with a partner? If you prefer something else (eg: sharing a Keirsey temperament), what do you like?   My first thought as an sx/sp re: 'something...|||This is so cool.|||God, it's so nice not to have to check to make sure there's not fleas on my legs. Is it my responsibility to stop unhealthy patterns with my family? I ate way too much chocolate...I'm  not even...|||One reason would be that when we become attached to people, all our suppressed relational issues surface. Everyone experiences this, but insecure attachment causes problematic schemas to play out in...|||Rocko's Modern Life|||Everyone is annoyed by their own brand of nonsense. Not everyone is so self aware though. We can't accept in others what we won't accept in ourselves, and vice versa.   Also, ...like only they...|||I think these are great points.  And it totally makes sense that 4's are perceived as just wanting to be unique, because that's what is coming out on the surface - I do agree that it's at least a...|||NFJ and STP, my shadow types, are most intriguing to me. I'm just like whaaaaat. My ex-co-worker was an ISTP and I just tried to drill her brain for every little opinion of anything.   I'm really...|||I'm so glad you said this because I feel this with ENTPs, too. It is so strange.   It's like there is a blockage on both ends that makes it difficult to communicate what we want from the...|||ISTP - Quiet Expression of Disapproval for Dummies ESTP - Boundaries for Dummies  INTJ - Ceasing Talking When Other People Have Stopped Listening for Dummies  ENTP - The Many Ways In Which the...|||Sometimes when interacting with other INFPs I feel like they are passive aggressively judgmental about stuff and I'm like just shut up. Like Oh, you like horror movies? *ahem* Well I hate horror...|||6w7 for the guy and 9w? for the girl? I dunno?|||Temper tantrums, staying up too late and not paying attention.|||I think rigidity of thought in general guards against unsafe feelings - using personality theory to box outside the bounds of theory itself  might be a way of dealing with the anxiety produced by...|||In my life the people I've felt most myself around have been xNFP, xNFJ, INTJ and ISxJ. I've felt most stressed out around ESFJ, xSFP and also ISxJ.  Fe has a pretty dramatic effect on me in both...|||Haha. I do have an SP-dom friend who I would play MMORPGs with and I thought they over-focused on money/accumulating resources, like the game just became work instead of pleasure.   Since video...|||4w5 (485). I can behave aggressively when I feel upset during an interpersonal conflict, but I would not consider my general behavior to be aggressive. It is my understanding that I come across to...|||If that's how you feel then it must be true.|||I've always typed myself as INFP. I think I remember wondering for a short bit if I was an INTP when I very first learned about Myers Briggs because I was lacking understanding/knowledge of the...|||Look at meeeee|||If I criticized your generalizing statement I would be criticizing my own personality type and that would hurt my feelings too much :'(|||Aesthetic and emotional attraction can be separate for me. I am more physically attracted to someone as my emotional attraction for them grows, so there is definitely a correlation. But I can have...|||INFP  I like 3. Reminds me of story. I'd like to be there.  1 is a favorite, too. Aesthetically pleasing.    2 bores me. Not sure why. I can totally see the appeal and all.   5 is...|||Interesting! I am a heart type who is sx-dom and empathizes very well with the gut center.|||1) Gut  2) Reactive 3) Frustration 4) Id|||Infp 2/10|||Nice. I like these and that you went with something different for INFJ (I was totally expecting mind reading). I would be a little scared of having my own power, though. o_o   Every ESTP I've asked...|||They are equally likely to be superficial. Superficiality depends upon upbringing, subjective experience, insecurity, age and maturity (especially?), and other areas that do not affect an N or S user...|||In my lifetime I have probably been most bothered (on a value level) by people using Te/Si - in these 'offending' cases, I have felt emotional consideration to be vitally important in decision...|||Is is possible you enjoy being driven up the wall?|||I don't think it means that.   I mean to say that it's probable the data is skewed.  OCD is an illness that disrupts normal cognition and it is kind of offensive to view its effects as character...|||I lol'd|||I've never violated a traffic safety law.|||ESFP  “Thus, from the war of nature, from famine and death, the most exalted object which we are capable of conceiving, namely, the production of the higher animals, directly follows. There is...'