'desperately wish there was a moment every day where I could completely get out of my headspace.|||I have met several...but will limit this discussion to two extremes.   One female INFJ and I had some instant chemistry. But honestly when I look back at it, and things like the concept of empathic...|||The child in the crowd.   I told my father that my grandmother had osteoporosis (I had overheard the doctor when I came to pick her up). I was 15 or 16, maybe they (my family) didn't think I knew...|||Yes. You are not alone.|||Patience and persistence as well as putting yourself out there will help. It'll take time, it won't happen over night but I do believe in you.     If they've asked for a temp they are not...|||thelostxin  I have no idea what your degree is in. None. I don't know what you want to do long term either. I agree that following your heart is important there's a great amount of satisfaction...|||I am a Mechanical Engineer. Math was not always easy...but persistence is what made the difference, sometimes hours or days of struggle with it.   Some aspects of math felt intuitive, some very...|||I think ISTJs are certainly romantic, at least some of the ones I've experienced. I think there is an innate dedication to the nurturing and care of those who they care about, and a very a strong...|||I'm not an ENTP, but I do have some life experience with what you are describing.   When I was younger my mother often told me that the darkness that surrounded someone made the star shine...|||No, no such luck. Unfortunately she (ESTJ) seems to be, from an anthropological perspective, a more low context individual. Bummer. I do rant a lot and have only met one person in my life capable of...|||Direct at the female in an honest, clear fashion. Some things I would imagine are not totally clear, but could be easily clarified.|||How would an ESTJ (female) react to an INFJ rant? Particularly one of a romantic context... :-/....|||I'm posting this because I would seriously just like to get some insights not sure that this is the right forum but I am trying to understand some underlying cognitive processes here.   Alright so...|||No. I don't use the alcohol to leave the house. But sometimes to loosen up a bit. Mostly when I hit a club or social scene. Helps to stop the anxiety and still allows me the ability to interact with...|||I had two INFJ grandparents.    I cannot speak of either in the capacity of being a parent, because clearly the was not my father. At the point in my life wher I was able to evaluate his character...|||You're stubborn  Why don't you ever tell me what you're feeling?  In earlier years: Don't you ever get bored in your room?|||Define you and not you in the context of him. You are a completely seperate and unique entity. I don't think intelligence has anything to do with type. So...who are you? How do you behave? What are...|||Dear Milly,   It was honestly refreshing to meet someone who I thought was so different from the norm. I liked your quirkyness, the clean eating, the excessive use of expressive expletives and...|||Merry Christmas!|||I don't completely agree with Gerro. I think it's honestly fine if he wasn't nervous. I think that that is just something that more inexperienced INFJs exhibit. I say that because it might be that...|||riposte|||insidious|||@sinsandsecrets  Not trying to start an argument and what I really should have said is that I don't have the functions committed to memory, my familiarity with them is still limited and I haven't...|||I have to say that you really do sound better. I'd love to keep chatting with you and exchanging ideas if you're up for it. I understand a lot of what you are saying. Funny how dreams can be spawned...|||I'd love to see this answered as I have come across that issue myself. Pretty damn frustrating. Insights anyone?|||This is a really interesting argument. I have been forced to use and develop Te and Ti because of critical thought processes associated with becoming an engineer, just as I have had to develop my...|||How do I get an ENFP girl?|||Having one of those days today as it appears to be a recharge day... What a flippin' shame.|||I would have to say that I honestly believe the happiest moments in my life will be with my nuclear family; more specifically my wife and children (if I'm ever fortunate enough to have either of...|||Father: INTJ  Mother: ENFJ  Sister: INFJ|||sinsandsecrets   Hey buddy! It seems to me like you are progressing. What you are going through is normal and I genuinely mean that. It seems to me that there are some realizations that you are...|||sinsandsecrets , in the mean time here is something to meditate to http://youtu.be/hxhmSCq4V9M|||sinsandsecrets   Give me a day or so to catch up. I will read and I'm hoping for the best my friend. Thank you for your comment.   Remember this always: We all carry baggage, the only question...|||I was born to an INTJ father and ENFJ mother. Although my mother has professed her personality type through various tests, calling her a lower level ENFJ in my opinion would be most appropriate. If...|||Have no clue what you're enneagram is but almost any engineering branch outside of civil engineering will net you a pretty good salary and you will top out at 6 figs easily.|||5...peep the sig|||@thicks1  Mr. Thicks,   I am sorry that you find yourself under such present stress.  Death is a very interesting subject. I was your age when I lost my first grandparent. I don't know how...|||And you did that by doing what?|||PRICELESS!!!!!! ROTFL. You made my day right there...I have felt that way talking to my mother.   Dude c'mon, what do you like doing period? just explain.|||How sure are you that you are an INFJ?   So sure that until I learned about MBTI I was going out of my mind. I read some descriptions of INFJs and it seriously made me feel like there was a...|||Dewymorning you should show them your math so it makes sense to them ;-). I'm going to be lazy and watch :-P   For first example if 1%, then 99% of 30 would 29.7. Taking the sample size to be 30 we...|||Thank you for that statement, I really can't begin to tell you how mature that is.   As far as the redhead, not the way I would hope. This is a complicated story that transcends the bounds of this...|||sinsandsecrets Ok. Rule number one here is that while I want to try to help, there is a likelihood and certainty that I will fail you in some respect. There just is, and I likely will. I really...|||sinsandsecrets  Write it up. Be patient with me man. I will respond, I am in the midst of changing jobs right now so I have some homework I have to get done too. We can talk more. I am reading.|||thicks1   in addition to the response that I gave you, read this . You know my feelings on this. This is just another function. We can discuss other examples another time. We are 1% thicks, 1%...|||thicks1 When you wake I will have something for you. I will try, I think I understand, if I don't , please don't give up on trying to explain. For now dream wondrous things.|||thicks1 I'm on my mobile, can you explain a bit more in the mean time? I will get to a comp and write you your response. Smile my boy, you're not alone. :-).|||Can you answer  MonogamyIsLame 's question? I'm curious too..  I don't know how old you are but if I were an adventurous gal I would do the following:   I'd keep my clothes on but I might let...|||I support this. If I wasn't transitioning to the food industry I would totally do this. Rock on!!!|||That's right, push them broads aside...be the ringleader'