'Gosh I just love us ENFPs. I can second almost everything you say.  Yes I think we love knowing them so well that we know how they think/feel/react :-) Being in love with a best friend is both...|||Oh, sad to hear that.. :( It is also very similar to my experience. Hm.. It seems to me that when we ENFP fall in love for REAL, its really deep.. The next time you and I fall in love, it will be...|||oh this sounds exactly like me.. why are fantasy worlds so awesome? :happy:|||Oh hell!!!! You describe it so well, and although its so FRUSTRATING with ISTPs it's frustrating in an EXTREMELY sexy way. Is it just we ENFPs who love them, or is it any ISTPs out there who love us...|||oh, sorry, I was answering to someone else.. Im a newbie. Ill try again.|||I have just read The sevens sisters by Lucinda Riley, and LOVED it. It's a creative adventure, with exciting characters.|||One of my best friends is an ENTP, and I LOVE LOVE LOVE her :) She is creative, intelligent, smart, funny, carefree, spontaneous, everything I love!! Although I need more affection than her, shes...|||Hmm, favorite thing to do alone.. Be in nature, swim, or, the favorite, DAYDREAM :D Mostly I daydream about romance and love, but also about future careers, projects, stuff to tell people, future...|||Oh, my dad is actually and INTP!  And to tell the truth, although I LOVE him, I think it can be quite challenging. But also, when we DO have those good moments together were we understand each...|||oh, Im so sad to hear that :( Sending you a warm hug! Also thank you for sharing you insight. Actually I haven't really seen the link between not being able to be vulnerable around others, to having...|||oh thank you guys! :D   Blue Soul: I guess I just forgot the forum for a while.. And then I have actually been very sick for one and a half year (had an accident where I hit my head), but finally I...|||hello dear enfp people :)  I'm typical for ENFP when it comes to romance, I fall in love with everything and anything, I'm crazy for romance, but when it comes to fall in love for REAL, not just...|||gosh its been 3 years.. now I'm back on the forum :D|||where do we find you? ^^|||tried to delete post|||1) EXPLORE!!!!!! and be loved :) I think I prefer to give pleasure, and tease the partner, but when I receive I want it to be gentle and romantic ^^|||I love this thread! Were do I find an INFJ lover?? :happy:|||I'm sorry it didn't work out! You seem like an amazing man to me! :) And to me, part of being an ENFP spirit is the belief that the freedom of different lifestyles is SO important. Although I guess...|||With an ENFP, don't take it personal if we use some time to reply. It's just how we are. Also, it's not so easy to know when an ENFP is in love, because we are so warm and flirty with everyone......|||I agree with being very extroverted (Ne) and sometimes very introverted (Fi). Sometimes I shock myself completely, being the most quiet person, and sometimes I shock myself for opposite reasons,...|||Cinna: INFJ     Katniss: ISTJ Peeta: ENFJ|||Hello, welcome! :D  My father is an INTP :) Hope you'll like it here!|||Wow, thanks for reading my thoughts :D *sends a lot of understanding*|||Thanks a lot :) No I wasn't I was apologizing for not understanding what you meant with intro (I'm not english), but seems like I got it correct :D|||Originally Posted by JuliaRhys   lovelypink   Are you upset because people are judging you or are you upset that people want a straightforward answer you refuse to give?  MuChApArAdOx: I didn't...|||Thanks :) I don't use much energy on being offended, I'm just a bit tired of people not accepting that I can't answer them the way they want to. But the people who hang around me for a while quickly...|||Here is the thing: I was moving in with someone who by drinking meant drinking very much every week, and who already assumed me to be a Christian anti-alcoholic while I was more alternative in...|||In my exampels I meant that I were upset because people expected me go give straightforward answers, but I guess I also felt that they had judged me in a certain way before I answerd. If you get what...|||What you wrote in the first post is exactly how I feel. Thank you for putting it into words. You have a point, I didn’t mean that all judging was bad. But yes, I am probably a lot younger than you,...|||Hm, I was a bit unclear in my first post, I'll start answering now :)|||huiwcleon:  Thanks a LOT, I'll keep you updated!|||Thanks a LOT, I'll keep you updated!|||I love the ENTJ I know, but at the same time he can be so immature. I don't think he is an healthy ENTJ yet. Sometime he would be easy, other times impossible, shutting all hos good sides of being...|||One in politics (ENFP) on at school (INFP), one at a disco (ENTP) :)|||Okay, so this is a known sentence describing the ENFP. I know it counts for me. So I thought we could discuss in which ways we have felt this way :)  For example, if someone ask me if I'm a...|||Yes , mobile messages. Hm, so you wouldn't make an exception if it was someone you liked? And if you prefer phone i guess that goes for people you know a bit?|||What do you feel about text messages? For example, if someone you didnt know that well texted you to hang out, how would you react? Are you the type who always answer them, or the ones who easily...|||Wow, poor you... I don't understand how he could leave you alone in that way/not checking how you were when you dissapeared. I'm very concerned about making sure everyone of my friends have someone...|||My little sister is an ISTJ, and I know that she don't always manage to meet my emotions. I used to get upset about it, but now I don't expect her to give affirmation in the way that I do. When she...|||I write poems, dance, sing, , walk, listen to music, go into my Fi end let myself just lie there. Then I contact someone.|||Smile at us, listen to what we say (since we talk a lot more than you do) and ask an interesting question about something you know we care about. I would love this. A spontaneous, exciting...|||Thank you for helpeful insight and advice. About the green light, you are totally right. What would you recommend?|||Okay, thank you. It sounds logical. About the politics, great. (Not for you of course, I understand.) One worry less. And about the flirting; exactly! Isn't that what this thread is about? :D  ...|||What about us?|||Thanks for the wonderful answers. (No, just anything, but the sentence about a person's mind was amazing.)   What is romantic to you? How do you deal with crying people? How do you deal with it...|||That you aslo don't want grades to devide what to learn? But in the end, do you learn what the grades says you should (sorry, a weird formulation but you get my point) or what you want to learn? :)|||Oh hell, this was amazing. I loved every word. It sounds likely that you have this side because an ENFP is the perfect person to fill these needs. I look after the same thing. I might open more...|||Thanks for welcoming me so friendly everyone :)|||Success to me is to inspire others to bring out their potential, and to have inspiration that help me take out my potential :) To be free and loved with the ability to love. To change things for the...|||Wow, thanks for this wonderful answer :D It made me really hopeful. Mabye I will find the courage to visit him soon. But if I did, could I say that I've been wanting to talk to him at school but...'