'I heard we were performing thread necromancy up in here, and I had just get in on the action.  I find androgynous ladies so undeniably irresistible, though I guess that just comes with my...|||I just...  I don't...  How do...  *slow calming inhale* ...I highly agree with Maybe's sentiment: You were born to be in Spam World. If you spent even just a small fraction of your time there,...|||Thank you for addressing this issue, good sir. I imagine it might be some time until the problem is resolved. I hope you find success in resolving the syncing issue.|||So I reuploaded my avatar, and it shows up again for me, but other people's avatars are still missing. I think I have a theory for what's going on: whatever happened on PerC in the past week or so...|||I don't know if this has been happening to other people, or just myself. But some people's avatars (including my own) do not show up in forum posts. All I get is such-and-such's avatar, which gets...|||Solo: Crowbar. Easy. Both ends of the crowbar can be used to damage zombies in different ways: the beak makes an excellent blunt instrument, while the tail end could potentially be used to stab with...|||I knooooooooow, so hard for an ENFP to eeeeever stop overthinking. ;P Like I said, just breathe, be your dorky self, give your boytoy some space when needed, and everything's gonna go buttery smooth....|||Alrighty, as I can see that this is your first post, let me just take this opportunity to welcome you to our cozy little parlor. I hope you stick around and chat with us more about whatever you want,...|||I'm playing a free re-release of a paid game called The Secret World: Legends. It's pretty solid, though with it being free, the system is skewed for things to be bloody expensive, especially...|||It's 2 in the goddamn morning and I'm in this limbo state between being tired and being not tired. First of all, it's hot as balls in here, so that's nice. Secondly, I'm terrified of a piece-of-shit...|||Good god, this timeline is depressing. I know some of it is only theoretical, but...oh christ.|||Hello ENFPs! I'm an INFJ that has undergone a series of trials and tribulations regarding online matchmaking, and have finally, finally met not only a potential date and new friend, but also my first...|||This is actually really helpful feedback. Thank you for your input, this will help me out greatly. I do take myself too seriously, and I think my manners force me to go with the how's it going...|||Good news everyone! I have returned to the Cafe after an extended break and life stuff happening. I wanted to create a follow-up to my previous thread on the same subject without bringing it back...|||An old friend from the past just tried to get in my pants, compliments me, then immediately insults me for being a gentleman. May have lost my temper a bit too. Lord help me from people with bipolar...|||Dude, seriously, this means a lot. Thank you for your wise words and experience, I appreciate it. :happy: Congratulations on meeting your husband. That's quite inspiring for me.|||Oh sweet Jesus, I'm really doing this, aren't I?  Well fellas, I'm doing it. My first online matchmaking thingie. Truth be told, I'm just doing this for some genuine human contact, something I...|||Narcissism- 0.7 (1 percentile)  Machiavellianism 2.3 (30 percentile)  Psychopathy 0.4 (0 percentile? Is that even possible?)  Machiavellianism test: 61 out of 100  Wow, I was not expecting my...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9u_v9H24PfY  Glory be to our lord and savior, Skeleton Man.|||They might possibly get my type correct. It's kind of hard for me personally to answer that, as my soul-swapping technique has been lost to time (ran out of human sacrifices to get it working right),...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4Fz_qZGs3A|||I have now entered this wonderful thread. Greetings all. http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-5Mni7bq4aco/TZ6PLewDbBI/AAAAAAAAAB8/CB5LMb4YblY/s1600/heres%2Ba%2Bnew%2Bchallenger.jpg|||INFJ says: I'm a magical princess from another dimension!~ https://49.media.tumblr.com/83094a8c4a6e842fcefdcc19ace01fa1/tumblr_nkbhv8yBTB1rl3vq8o1_400.gif  Because I needed an excuse to reference...|||Is that a picture of you? If so, you look absolutely delicious. Most supreme indeed.|||*slow applause* You'll fit right at home here. Welcome to the cafe, miss Hypatia.|||Everything about this song is so well done...   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=prwvUZSlIq8|||Daddy, why do we keep playing this weird game?|||Get out of the way, you're in the shot.|||Fair enough. Greek history isn't my specialty, so I wouldn't know. That's awful for a place dedicated to democracy and equality (supposedly).|||That's true, but then again Athens may have been an INFJ's cradle and domain. Depends on where you were in the empire.|||Fair enough. Aside from examining translated texts from those times to see others' reactions of Plato and what the Greeks valued in a character, the only real way is to have lived in that time....|||That is an excellent question! I would like to know this as well. In certain circles, Plato is regarded as an INFJ, and is arguably one of the most venerated philosophers in our time at least. Those...|||I understand. I'm imagining this as almost as a tree diagram, branching off from anger trigger to healthy/unhealthy, and so on. Thank you for your insight, it helps greatly. Is there anything else...|||nichya Thank you very much for your kind words. :happy: As an INFJ (or hell, just as a semi-decent person), I do want to help create a more positive atmosphere. Please, seriously, don't be sorry,...|||I see. I still feel very young inside with little experience, so this wisdom really means a lot to me. Thank you for this. In your experience, how would one channel these negative emotions...|||Guys, please stop fighting. :sad: I'm sorry, I set a bad example for INFJs, and I am ashamed for coming to you guys the way I did, but I never wanted things to escalate in such a negative manner. I...|||It's pretty difficult for me personally to balance being in a healthy place as far as my self-esteem goes and giving that up for the sake of other people's feelings. I've had a lot of experiences...|||Oh god, I knew it. :unsure: Regrets incoming. I still want advice from other INFJs about the bitterness thing for reasons outside the whole INFP thread thing. We'll speak privately. I don't wanna get...|||I have a question, and I'd like some advice and guidance. I thought about starting a full thread about this, but decided against it since I didn't want to draw that much attention to myself. As...|||So, apparently, my dad's truck is breaking down. Engine problems. So that's gonna be expensive and the whole family (the three of us) is stressing out a bit. Also, I made an ass of myself by getting...|||Okay, I did not say it was to get people solely to like us, I said it was to help people understand our positions, and let them feel safe enough to open up and we can do the same. There's a...|||Then what would you call psychological therapy? Is there something wrong with trying to help other people solve their problems? Some people genuinely need that guidance so that they can overcome...|||It occurs to me in my pretentious ramblings that I didn't talk about the original subject of this thread. :blushed: I think the descriptions for the INFJ type call out to a lot of social outcasts in...|||I think our definitions of manipulation are different in this case. You view manipulation as strictly negative. I view it (the healthy form, anyways) as manipulating an object. You hold it in your...|||Human interaction doesn't have to be pragmatic, no, but that's the constraints placed upon all of us in our society. We're not utopian beings, and we're bound to our individual sensations and...|||Okay, so full disclosure, I am probably going to sound like a reeeaaally big friggin asshole right here, largely due to my devil's advocate virus flaring up again and my own passionate personality....|||Oh thank god, I thought I was the only one :tongue: Yeah, I've got masochistic tendencies, so tsunderes are totally my jam.|||Hey asshole friends! Anybody wanna go beat up some losers?  Now, if you'll excuse me, I need to go scrub my memory with bleach and steel wool for typing that out.|||Can you elaborate more on this? Any particular examples to kick this thread off to a rollicking good start?|||Good...good...let the hate flow through you...   Yeah, this happens to me as well, on occasion, as well as for any type for that matter. Life happens and the status quo has to be changed, which is...'