'I was in a bad place in my life at the time, but, thankfully, not bad enough where I let his words push me over the edge. However, I know that so many people are so deeply wounded by cruel worlds of...|||Flowers!   ^^^ And, yes, I love me some ENFJs. They can be a bit much at times, but gah, I love 'em.|||I was bullied for the majority of my life thus far. I was chubby as a kid, and I also spent my recesses reading in the corner and was always a favorite of my teachers, so I think I was an easy...|||I think the issue for me is that I'm in an office of all SJ's, and my ways of thinking are so dramatically different than theirs. I get really frustrated when I'm critiqued almost every day on how to...|||If I actually want to leave my apartment in my free time, I'll probably be in a coffee shop, my university's library, or laying in a hammock in a park. It takes me forever to work up courage to speak...|||Dealramh Go Deo by Clannad. I don't understand a lick of Gaelic, but it is such a beautiful song.|||I hate the stigma on women that they must have children. I think many women end up very unhappy because of wanting to live up to society's expectations. With that being said, I have the upmost...|||To see true equality among religions, genders, sexes, sexual orientations, races, ethnicities, nationalities etcx85 To reform education to make it accessible and affordable for everyone To end all...|||I had a professor in undergrad that really invested in me. I would go sit in his office when he was free, and we would talk about symbolism in books for fun. I was a really, really cool college kid....|||Since I was 16, I've suffered. I'm 23 now. I've sought counseling for it, but every time I've gone to counseling, I've had panic attacks, so I've stopped going. I have periods where I get better, and...|||I still sleep with a stuffed animal, and have a few more that I put on my bed when I make it in the morning. If any of them are positioned in a way that would be uncomfortable or fall on the...|||I just walked A Walk to Remember tonight. It was one of my favorite movies growing up. It is so cheesy, but it is so sweet. I related to Jamie a lot growing up because she didn't care about fitting...|||I'm laughing-out-loud right now, because I passed a turtle on the road today. I was going too fast to stop, and someone was behind me. However, I couldn't stop thinking about that turtle, so I drove...|||I am not sure if I can eloquently put my thought process into the words, because I'm not sure I understand it completely myself, but I'll try. I think the reason I can empathize with others so easily...|||I'm so glad I'm not the only one. I even mute the TV or leave the room if a commercial for a horror movie comes on. If I watch too much, I know I won't be sleeping that night. :frustrating:  I do...|||I think we are unfortunately in the same boat. The man I recently had feelings for is an ENFJ, and he talks in such beautiful language. And when we are making eye contact, I feel like he's seeing...|||When you're required to go to a social function for work and you spend your time playing with your supervisor's toddler all evening instead of making small talk with the rest of the adults.|||Thank you for this. I wrote it down in my journal. Hopefully it will resonate with me for a long time.|||Thank you, all. I very much appreciate your kind words and advice.|||Hey y'all. So- I'm not sure if any advice can be given on this topic, or if it something other INFPs deal with, but I figured I'd take a shot in the dark that some of you beautiful, insightful people...|||You hold in your emotions for a while after getting to know someone, and finally they all explode on them at some point- how much you love them and care about them and want to protect them and for...|||I think the problem with scoring an INFP is that I look for someone that shares my ideals or at least understands them. I've only found one person in my life that could do that, and he had...|||I was friendly with everyone. I was friendly with the popular kids, the nerds, the jocks, whatever group you can think of- I got along with them. However, I really had no actual friends in high...|||I absolutely want to get married. That being said, I haven't met anyone in my life that I see myself marrying. I'm not sure if this is a case of I haven't met the right person yet, or a case of there...|||I volunteered at the local hospital in high school, and I really enjoyed it. I rotated roles every few months, but I believe my favorite was bringing food trays to patients. That way, I was able to...|||Now I want a Samsung Galaxy.|||It took me until late into my undergraduate years to realize how different I was than most people. Someone said to me You know, you always keep me guessing. and it has resonated with me ever since.|||I am a terrible test taker. My GRE score was dismal, but I was lucky enough to get into graduate school because I can write a killer essay. I have a 4.0 after a year and half of course work. I hate...|||I am definitely straight as of right now, I've only been attracted to males. However, I would not be opposed to dating a woman if the attraction was ever there. I wouldn't like to think I'd miss an...|||Undergraduate degree in English, I am currently studying higher education in graduate school. Gosh, do I miss my literature courses.|||Depression and bulimia.|||INFJ, ENFJ, ENFP, and ENTP.|||I had one of my co-workers tell me that I live in a rainbow unicorn sunshine world a few months ago. I don't know about you, but I wouldn't rather live anywhere else.|||Empathy, introspection, and dreaming for days.|||:) Your Big Five Results|||-I had a professor pull me aside after class to tell me that he thought I was brilliant, and that I should consider graduate study. It was something that had honestly never even crossed my mind, so...|||My best friend is an ENFP. My other closest friend is an ISTJ.   The ENFP and I met when we were 12. I can go months without speaking to her (we are states apart now), but we pick up like we just...|||I would say I balance goals and relationships. I will be graduating with my master's degree at age 23. I plan work full time upon graduation, and to get a doctorate by age 30. However, I work in a...|||One of my most ingrained memories from childhood is the only time I made someone else cry. A little girl from my church invited me over to play, and I told her no, because my mom had already said she...|||Lord Huron. :)|||Coming from an INFP that is less than a year from graduating with her master's degree, it is possible to do well in school. I was able to motivate myself by looking as school as an opportunity to...|||My two best friends are an ENFP and ISTJ. The three people I trust most besides them are an INFJ, an ENFJ, and a fellow INFP.|||Oolong :)|||I like the sound of her music, and I like some of her lyrics, but I don't particularly care for the songs that are so materialistic.|||The second I get home from work/ class/ whatever, I put headphones in, and put on music. And I'll leave them until I have to take them out, like if I take a shower or go to sleep. I didn't even...|||My username comes from one of my favorite songs- June Hymn by The Decemberists. I also chose it because I was born in June. :kitteh:|||I guess I'm going to play devil's advocate. I have attended two institutions of higher education, (one for undergrad, and I'm currently at for graduate school) and they are both very not well suited...|||I don't have any wild insight into this myself, since I am a young INFP myself (22). I've been in graduate school for a year now, and while I love the topic I am studying, I hate the structure. I...|||I love my ESFJ friends, but I can't hang out with them for prolonged periods of time. They will want to spend all day together, and I just can't handle that.   ENFPs can be too intense at times...|||I'm a virgin that's never been kissed, but sometimes, I have some *ahem* lusty thoughts. I'm almost 23, though, so my hormones are probably quite upset with me.'