'oh and I'm definitely right-brained|||I'm more comfortable with approximations than INTJ's, and I have thought about being an INFJ because I do feel very deeply... but I think this is just a contrast to my ESFP friend who's emotions are...|||people tell me my driving is reckless and frightening. I don't get that... I don't take any risks, I just... go fast...|||I usually keep my energy up by picking  a rather unnoticed looking corner that is in the perfect spot- not creepy and loner, but not social butterfly. That way, most people who walk over I actually...|||Does any ENTJ have any experience romantically with an ENTJ and how did that turn out?|||very true. although sometimes the T/F balanced types throw me for a loop.|||The methods I use are slightly different, I've found that a fellow N is much easier to label than an S. My rule has become, when in doubt, S. And I've almost always been right. For T/F .... I...|||I used to have that problem with roads. I still describe them with landmarks instead of primarily with names. I have that automatic INTJ tendency to leave my shoes, purse, keys etc in the same place...|||I like dressing up too... actually I usually stick out slightly because I dress pretty boho. I can't help it. Everyone else wears the most ridiculous things.|||need. I am eternally grateful to my mother for not allowing me to eat what I wanted to eat for breakfast at six (something involving a bucket of sugar per scoop), instead she gave me what I NEEDED...|||I test as INTJ/ INTP too, but I figured out that its because among my dominant p friends I've learned to chill out and just have fun. Left on my own or with slightly j or x friends I take a more...|||.......I must admit that sounds like an excellent beer, and particularly INTJ suited.  but, you get my point. I used to have a few of those friends. hey man what are you doing tonight?...|||...would you really want a grown man drunk at 1 in the afternoon to be your friend? The most intelligent conversation you could have would be swapping favorite beers and their flavors.|||thats very true... I realized this as I profiled my distant great aunt or somesuch a few minutes ago. Conversation went smoothly.|||When a guy walks up to you in a public place and asks you on a date and you just stare blankly, measuring his features, which are obviously perfect, but you fail to be physically attracted (there is,...|||If someone asks what you are thinking about you come up with a completely different topic of discussion just so you can avoid the hour long explanation that would accompany.  When you give them the...|||I'm actually a student worker in the library. My majors are philosophy and history...  I just really wish I was a professional assassin. At least for a day.|||hahahaha... oh well in that case I own about a dozen. sweet. I even have one that warns people away on my unsociable days.|||I'm a professional assassin/bounty hunter. Its hard work, but weeding out the lesser of the human race is a noble enough profession.|||I would second the Eye of Providence idea if it weren't for those damned freemasons. I certainly wouldn't want them taking the credit. hmmmmm.|||awwww.... Its cute how your need for attention is fulfilled in this forum.  However, I'm afraid I have a very short fuse for people like you. Have fun critiquing. It is at least amusing.|||Same with the idea of needing a logo by the way.  .... so what you're saying here is no one in this post who desires a logo can be INTJ?  you're ridiculous. That's alright though. Forums...|||haha... you're using Helpful Member as cover for being a complete ass.   and as far as You're using a blatant declaration of an arbitrary personality type as a substitute for actually having a...|||well I guess because you say so I MUST not be an INTJ. After all, its IMPOSSIBLE for a female INTJ, to desire a t-shirt that displays her type. I guess they'll go off the market soon, since REAL...|||hey now. I had no idea there was an INTJ shirt. or shirts if you please.|||Omygod i'm buying one of those shirts|||She was female... with a LOT of security issues and affirmation needs.... we are no longer friends...|||I can relate to you on the confidence issue. I never thought I exuded confidence at all, but several people have told me I exude confidence to the point of coming off extremely arrogant.  After some...|||I get that all the goddamn time. I've even been called a lesbian (jokingly by a preppy target ad). I dress very bohemian-esque and tend to show only my T side. I do not look butch at all, so that...|||yeah I definitely don't relate to the description I think I'm more INTJ but occasionaly IXTJ|||HAHHA. thats hilarious. I've had similar experiences with people, one of which comes to mind was quite recent.  My EXFJ friend wanted to come over to show me her car, only I KNOW it won't be to show...|||well I'm a student worker in a library hah, DEFINITELY not a career. Yes, more or less you find A LOT of weirdos and S's in the library. I'm 90% sure my boss is an esfj.|||how funny. I had an INTJ female friend who asked me nearly the same thing when I quoted statistics that INTJ women were rarest, then INFJ men.  She got very defensive and irrational. maybe this is...|||yes but I can stifle them. most times I acknowledge them and measure their rationality.|||feign sickness. You can explain when you know them better that it was to save any hope you held for a future relationship with them.  hahah... When I have too much social contact and I'm extremely...|||When I'm ready for another social situation, I'll either make it known or take people up on the offers of the past few days. haha.  Most of my friends have begun to understand my warning signs of...|||I think for a young INTJ I have an especially deep but introverted f function. Such as, harmony is extremely important to me, and unfriendly conflict (v. healthy debates/arguments) stress me to no...|||SoCal unfortunately|||haha... well I know a few ISTJs and they are coincidentally all involved with law enforcement. Hm.  I tend to drive like a crazy person (because I'm usually thinking about something else) and break,...|||I regularly break too many laws to be an ISTJ|||no I don't think so. But I was just reading through the ISTJ profile and it actually really annoys me....|||I'm twenty and have similar difficulty in relationships.  For me it got worse... but I also became MORE introverted and T, sooooo....   I would say there's the occasional doomed female INTJ. But...|||Is there any dependable sure fire way to tell if you are INTJ v. ISTJ  I was certain I was an INTJ, but some recent occurrences have been causing me to rethink and a personality test even pointed...|||oh okay makes sense. Yeah, good point.  The root of my question comes from looking up the symptoms and observing that a lot of those occur in my life, although most of them not to the extreme extent...|||definitely not what I'm saying.  I'm not saying INTJ's have BPD inherently, I'm asking if there seems to be a predisposition.  Comments are very much appreciated, as is constructive criticism....|||Well my aim is to determine (as far as I can) whether the disorder SEEMS to show up more with the INTJ because of their extreme personality (such as: an INTJ not exactly taught to handle emotion...|||Do you (fellow INTJ's or people who have known or know INTJ's) find that Borderline Personality Disorder is more common with this type than others (personal experiences appreciated), or not so?|||AHAHA...  have a friend ESFP... well... friend until she went off the wall and became such a complete F that nothing coming out of her mouth relates to the english language.|||I found out earlier our family has a genetic disposition on both sides. Lovely.  I can happily report as far as getting out that wil be happening next month, and provide a needed reprieve from my...|||that would have been nice. If I would have mentioned masturbation at the table they would probably crap their pants. or tell me its unladylike. it would help to mention they are both extremely...'