'Extrovert your intuition|||Here! Another former INFP Globechatter. I was soooo sad to see it not there any more.|||I find Western philosophy to be far more enabling than Eastern types. Eastern philosophies seem to be more oriented towards escapism, rather than self discovery. I realize that much of Eastern...|||Oh, and some books I would recommend...  Why Marriages Succeed or Fail by John Gottman. The guy can predict after a twenty minute recording of a married couple whether a marriage will succeed or...|||Well, I didn't read anyone else comments, but here's my $.02  Stay married. I know it sucks, but I have to give that blanket advise. Research shows that most people who have unhappy marriages have...|||I've had some really great times with ISTJ's, my best friend of many years is ISTJ. My girlfriend is ESFP.  I have a good ISFJ friends. I'm often attracted to ESFJs and  one of my favorite people...|||My ENFP experience is like lalalalela's. a lot of excitement at first at the discovery that hey, this persons like me, except crazier!  I hung out with a season and she was great. We had a good...|||I've definitely noticed the closed mouth quirky smile. And usually with the head tucked down, almost turtling.|||Oh, and another thing, remember, INFPs are healers, and one of the big advantages of being able to build and strengthen souls is that we can self heal. Of course like everything the theres a trade...|||Sometimes I feel slighted. There are some real serious advantages to being an INFP, like the deep affectionate way that we can connect to people. The trade off is that we just simply can't function...|||Yes. I hate to brag on myself, but I'm the best interrogator in my unit. Why? Because I'm real with people, I don't care how bad you are, you come from somewhere, if I connect with that, I can win...|||Hey, this isn't an anti-war thread. It's about being awesome, so if your not awesome...yeah.  But if INFPs ran the Army, there would be no wars. We would win ALL conflicts without fighting. It's...|||I just figured out, well just recently figured out, that with all my INFPness, I'm freaking sweet! I mean there are some really great people out there, but our traits give us some pretty amazing...|||LOL, you guys crack me up.  I usually am more like the rest of you, people watching just sort of happens. I kind of wanted to be able to go into a social setting where there are people I will...|||I know that we have some people watchers here, I was just wondering how you prefer to go about it.  I like to find a corner of a room that gives me the full view of the people. I then try to narrow...|||No, absolutely not. Not directly. I do get easily flustered, way easily flustered. I'd say I'm pretty stable emotionally.|||Chawklet...  I just want to know how you define scared, as in scared to say whats on our mind. Obviously you don't understand how empathy works, otherwise you would realize that we avoid conflict...|||Fantastic explanation. We live by what we believe, and we believe nothing we're told.  What Chawklet doesn't realize is that she's deriding the effects of four letter typing on a personality site...|||Your wrong. We just seem unstable, see, most people believe that you have to FIT in normal society to be considered a functioning individual. Actually INFPs often rank really high on intrapersonal...|||Yes, we're the ideal personality to have. People want to be us, and think like we do. Unfortunately for them they also want to date, do well in school, and be successful in their jobs and social...|||whoever thought that INFPs were the sweet gentle ones obviously never met one! I think all the INFPs on this side tend to show a genuine care, but can sure bring out their fangs when in comes to...|||Holy shit Snail, you amaze me, you are one smart MFer! What have you been reading lately?|||Yah. I wish I had more than just ideals. I'm not knocking anyone for looking, Lord knows I like my naked women. Vices are what vices do, It just sort of changes your perspective a bit when you know...|||Your certainly right. Strippers make the choice to start dancing, and people may want the emotional detachment. I certainly agree that if people want to choose to go to those establishments it should...|||I don't think we can really control our actions directly, only the situations we can put ourselves in. The toughest hardened terrorist needs only a few quarts of water poured over his mouth before he...|||Excuses. This is an area where I just don't have a lot of tolerance. It's not apology and excuses you need, it's a change in  values. I would never make this post because I would never be paying a...|||You paid her for an F'ing lap dance? She almost starts to cry and you can only think to confirm that her only worth is the objectivity of her body.   Fuck strip clubs. When was the last time you...|||Flew to Chicago to see them dye the river green.|||Of course this is all assuming that there is a conformity to non-conform to :) I don't believe that society has any real structure, so my not fitting in is relative to there being something to fit...|||No, editing wont be necessary. Shai Gar has a way of looking at the world that is unique to him. Perhaps he has experiences that shape his personal view. He is obviously quite intelligent and is...|||It just seems like a person who is a lover of peace will try to bridge gaps of understanding, but I'm not getting the impression that you really understand what I'm saying, am I in error in assuming...|||I resent being labeled as hyper violent. I think that it's awful short sided to put the blame of PTSD onto basic training and Boot Camp. I know soldiers who are addicted to pain killers, who suffer...|||Yah, I don't know. I mean that stuff works great when you know exactly who the enemy is. Like if they were yelling to kill Nazi's or Japs or something where the enemy is wearing a uniform and you...|||Oh sure, no doubt! I'm not saying Mormons have it all, but any group of people that is inwardly determined is going to be  the best. It's not the training that makes you the best, it's what you bring...|||I wasn't knocking Marines when I said Mormons could beat them. I was being honest. I think anyone that has enough determination to keep knocking on door after door and getting rejected and made fun...|||Oh yah, I  never saw a stress card when I was there. But sure, you  could work the system. You could go to sick call every day until you were chaptered out. You can be a total pussy, you can in the...|||Sorry pal, combat is combat. There are good Marines, but there are also shit Marines, just like in the Army. Your uniform isn't what wins battles. Careful how you knock Guardsman, I've been on both...|||If I can look at them and tell the difference between mine and hers...they're good. All boobs are good. Let me reiterate this, ALL boobs are good.  There are so many ways for a girl to be pretty...|||Boot Camps not that bad. I was combat MOS before transferring to MI, my OSUT training for combat engineer was every bit as tough as what the Marines were getting, plus we were two weeks longer. There...|||LOL, looking for love. :tongue:  Welcome welcome. مرحبا كيف حاالك؟|||Good suggestion, if you give me a sentence relating it to the NF experience, I'll put your sentence in the description. (no big though, if not I'll just through one on there).|||Thanks guys, I'll get these into the list...in the morning...so...tired. :bored:|||Think of the long list of terms for falacio vs. cunnilingus. There seems to be an endless way of describing oral sex administered to a man who is far more likely to orgasm from vaginal intercourse....|||I don't know, should we add his book to the reading list :crazy:|||LOL. I love when he talks about Way, way back, when I used to live in Seatle... How far back is way back for a nine year old?  That's pretty good, I wish I was writing books at nine. :happy:|||Well, there are some people who regret their decision. It is a serious business, and a very serious job. If you can't handle dealing with stress and pressure, and being told what to do, you wont do...|||water under the bridge man.|||That's alright, I don't really need the money ;)|||Yes they are.|||I'll tell you what, sign up for the Army, get me my 2,000 bucks and I'll get you all the experience in the world. I'll get you so much experience you'll understand too why it's so hard to talk about....'