'I'm pretty sure I've seen the same study, or at least some with similar results. Also, there's some really good evidence that male and female aren't really a spectrum with one on each end, but that...|||Until I read this post, I thought Chloe was your child or something. :crying: My bad. :tongue:  I just got back to the forum too! So it would be silly of me to welcome you back. But welcome back...|||I think everyone has values. The difference is in how they act upon them. However, I have noticed that my boyfriend is less likely to act than I am when his values are stepped upon. However, that...|||As a psych minor, gotta be honest, MBTI is bullshit.     How people express their gender is up to them. Defining what is and isn't masculine and feminine is stupid, because that varies per...|||SkyRacerX I didn't respond to the list because I see it as pointless musing on a topic that I don't care about. How people define feminine and masculine is entirely up to them. You can't make a list...|||This is a weird post. Just because you don't think people's oppressions are valid doesn't mean they don't exist. Saying there are other things that result in a wage gap doesn't mean we should...|||I would like to tell mine. I'll try to keep it briefer than it actually was. :tongue:   Warning: cringe and feels (though he would say it's cute)    I met my boyfriend online in March of 2016....|||It depends on what country you're in, but I do believe that is illegal. And she very likely would have warned you. If you're very concerned, I would call up the hospital and ask for their records....|||Hm. I do feel as though there might be a practical limitation though - how far can the relationship go? I raise the question only because I've read accounts from people who are dating/in love...|||There already is conflict. When I'm paid less for being a woman, that's conflict. When I'm called a bitch while my male counterparts are called assertive, that's conflict.   I don't know who your...|||I think what's missing from this entire thread is the reasoning that 1) just because gender and sexuality shouldn't matter doesn't mean they don't and 2) you can't just ignore something that has...|||Psychopathy is also highly genetic and has physiological components - psychopaths do not feel fear the same way the rest of us do, they have lower physiological responses to stressful situations (one...|||Dear INFJ,   I'm glad you've enjoyed spending time with your dad, but I'm also (selfishly) very glad I get to talk to you for more than 20 minutes a day when he leaves tomorrow. I'm sappy and...|||I can only answer from experience, though I would guess this has a lot more to do with enneagram than MBTI. I will say how I think this relates to the INFJs I have known fairly well.   1. Insecure,...|||My boyfriend is an INFJ, and he came out of his (almost literal) shell to pursue me very straightforwardly. He told me he had feelings for me after about two weeks of knowing each other, and very...|||Antiparticle I didn't mean literally an open door, but glad to know you're trying it out and it seems to work for you :)|||I won't post a picture, but my boyfriend is very small. 5'5 - 5'6, 105~ pounds. Very slight frame, sometimes scruffy when he doesn't shave, cute big brown eyes!!, very fluffy hair because he always...|||Copy-pasted from boyfriend.  When did you have your first relationship (<20, 20-25, 26-30, >30)? < 20, like 16...?  What do you look for in a partner?  Ambitious, fun, has a good sense of...|||Usually about 8 hours, but this semester I've been getting closer to 7.|||1. Don't be rude to others. It makes for a bad work environment and makes it difficult for everyone else to do their jobs.  2. Don't be unnecessarily detailed/focused on shit that doesn't matter....|||I am newly cautiously optimistic about my job prospects. It feels like all my hard work is finally paying off. :)|||Amazing, summer, relocation  alternatively   Successful, nervewracking, self-motivated|||My boyfriend said he loved both of his first two girlfriends, and both of them said it back.   He says, I was more serious with B over A, but I think only because I was younger and more naive. She...|||Quizlet Quizlet Quizlet. Memorize the shit out of that motherfucker. Read and underline the textbook the night before each lesson so that class is review rather than learning, which helps your brain...|||Today I learned that even though forced networking sucks, at least everyone doing the forced networking knows it sucks, so I'm not alone. I also learned that I definitely should have gone to...|||This was in the Office, and I'm pretty sure Pam let Ryan cheat her out of $50. Also assumes you 1) have a reliable way of earning money and 2) won't somehow lose money instead.   Also, selling...|||My boyfriend said it to me within ten days of knowing me, but that's not really normal for him. I believe I'm the only person he says I love you to on a consistent basis, despite the fact that he...|||My boyfriend is an atheist/agnostic INFJ.|||My INFJ boyfriend doesn't like my two ENFP friends, so unfortunately I have nothing to offer here. I can offer my own $.02, which is that I like them because they are honest, often funny, and will...|||I'll try. :tongue: I dropped about ten hours a week of an activity I was doing, so I actually have free time this year.|||I didn't swear until I was 16, so I'm just trying really fucking hard to make up for it.|||Really hate when people are dicks for no reason. I've been nice to you for years, mostly because I felt an obligation than because I actually felt an emotional attachment to you. Don't be a douche to...|||He might already realize you don't talk to anyone else. But there's no reason asking for help would make him decide he doesn't like talking to you or doesn't want to spend time with you, unless it's...|||Well, thanks. I try :tongue:  He's an INFJ. That was actually what our first conversation was about when we met on an online dating site a year and a half ago, because he had it listed on his...|||AI is not actually artificial personalities, but merely artificial intelligence. It only ever knows what we teach it. Those movies about AI are highly inaccurate. They aren't going to grow...|||Where do you banish yourself to? Do you have a particular deserted island you like to go spend an eternity of solitude on, or do you have to choose a different exile location each time?|||I'm very glad my boyfriend found me before someone mean found him and snatched him up. He's so kind and thoughtful and caring, and someone could easily take advantage of him. :unsure: I still worry...|||My boyfriend got back together with his high school girlfriend after they had a mutual break up, but their relationship was fairly casual.   In regards to your specific situation, I would ask her...|||I mean, I did that... when I was 12. :rolleyes:  Not trying to be rude, but this does not describe me or the ENTJs I know or the ENTJs who all agree with the first post, and it seems silly to...|||lol what|||Agreed. Trump backed out of the Paris Agreement and has done a ton of other shitty things to the environment during his time in office. Here's over 20, and that's from May. He's done a lot more since...|||When I'm not away at school, my INFJ boyfriend and I live together, and he's by far the best roommate I've ever had. We're both very, very clean, but also pretty casual about random messes and not...|||My boyfriend's biggest competitions are with himself.   Let me explain. If he feels like he's failing at something, or like he can't succeed, he gets really frustrated, but he doesn't get over it...|||Neurologically speaking, dreams are most likely the result of your subcortical structures producing random pieces of input, and your higher functioning brain places trying to interpret it. You may...|||My boyfriend doesn't really talk in groups. He mostly listens. When he came to visit me recently, my newer roommates were shocked by how little he spoke. With his friends, he doesn't really seem to...|||My boyfriend regularly flies across the country to see me, even though he absolutely hates spending money. But he both spends the money and endures the six hour flight there and back just to see me...|||The fact that you've encountered it and perceive it as a pattern doesn't mean it is a pattern. We're pointing out that it likely isn't.|||http://s2.quickmeme.com/img/f7/f7a5e5acfc5e88de76b775a8866a1fb2fcf1b64ba05c28da6be3d45e9a8cf1c3.jpg  It is kind of weird that her boyfriend says that.   My boyfriend and I do somewhat reverse...|||:laughing:|||Only thread I could find was from 2011 and a closed poll, so. If you went to/are attending college, what did you major in? Feel free to expand on what/why.   I'm a computer science and history...'