'It's the second time you mention this and you're giving me the chance to address it. It's not clear what I mean.  It depends on the emotional state of the other guy.  If a woman sees that a man...|||planetanarchy  drmiller100  Wow... These stuff I did not know about 2s...  I'm gonna need some time to think.  In the meantime, let me just say that in one of these days I read that 8s...|||Haha! I like how you phrased it! How you picked those last words acceptance of love.  It feels like a trigger-happy solution. It computes alright... but it doesn't feel right.  What I thought...|||The previous post was pretty loaded. I've cooled down since then.  First, I'll be honest and say that 6 is a type I hope I'm not. This search of security seems boring and... pointless. Sounds like...|||I had to ask someone about this. He told me I've never seen you express your anger, but I have seen you angry and you left. And that's true. When I'm angry, I leave so that I can contain it. ...|||I have some stuff to post but for now I want something.    How do I determine the heart and head fix?  What am I asking is the two lists, like the one you gave me, but don't mention the...|||There are some persistent thoughts in my head for the past few months. Some of them go back a couple of years, and some where always in my head.  To me, it seems that I'm under a lot of stress, and...|||Wow. I now get it how that can be disorienting. This sounds like not having an orientation in life, a path.    And sometimes I just wish I could stop thinking, pondering, trying to figure out how...|||Thanks for the responce! Wow, it's been some time since I started this topic. I remember my anxiety when I opened it.  Since then, I've met a couple of ESTP girls in real life and I now understand...|||She wasn't valued! This is why she wants everybody to go her way. During  her early years, people she had close to her behaved in a way that made her (or her ways) feel dismissed. I'm getting a sense...|||Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that. She's older than you?  And, yeah, temperament or type doesn't automatically mean that you're a nice person. Let me rephrase what I said: its nice to have a healthy...|||Typo! I meant to write ESTJ.    Although I haven't typed anyone in my past or current environment as an ESTJ, I'm trying to find a way on how to manage a Conflicting relationship. While this is...|||Do you take this as criticism? Or an indication she doesn't get you? I do, and would if something like that was said to me.  Even if you don't, I do believe that not all people will get us. Not all...|||Dude you rock! Great answers. The you wouldn't believe me anyway could be a provocative luring technique to get you interested in something.    I have, logically, reached the same conclusion:...|||That's one of the things I'm trying to do. But to answer the question, because I've learned to repress my anger. And my emotions in general. For the last year or so, I'm starting to see that I have a...|||Yes, and that's not always a good thing. I have backed down when I was on the right because I was afraid I was beeing unfair to the other person.  I now make a conscious effort to place myself, my...|||Hahahahahaha!  I have nothing else to ask or say - at least for now. Your post was as elaborate as it can get. Thanks!  One thing I'm starting to notice about ESTPs and ENTPs is that they are...|||Victory seemed imminent, but then... :P    This is the only time when you have a fight with your wife? When you're the cause of a problem?  Because if not... you're telling me that she can...|||How does her rage looks like? I'm asking because I've been on the receiving end of ESTP outburst and although I got scared at first, it didn't made me feel miniscule. It made me engage and go louder....|||A fight takes place because I want something from the other person. I can end any fight simply by saying what I think, feel, and want from the situation, and convey how important it is to me. If they...|||Good luck :D Give me an update with the results.|||I was about to start a thread on this, and I might still do so, but this:    expresses what I think is happening to me, but I couldn't put into words.  If I stay detached from others and...|||That sounds more like luring, not chasing. And I agree, it's fun. And it's more of a challenge. Actually, it's seduction.|||Aww... Sorry to hear that :-/  Can I give an idea? Don't go forth so much. Go forth and then stop. And then go forth again. And then perhaps fall back a bit. Tease him. Show interest and then...|||How does you chase look like? Examples.|||First off, thank you for your replies!  It's mentioned a few times that it's best to meet in person. I also like to meet people in person for all the reasons that you mentioned. However, this is a...|||Hey all! :D  I'd like some tips, dos and don'ts, on how to message an ESTP girl online. Although she's a girl, men shouldn't shy away - there aren't so many ESTP girls on the board after all :P ...|||It's natural for vulnerable things to be heavily guarded.  The only thing I have found that worked for me is to let go, accept and then show my vulnerability. It's not easy to do, and I don't...|||Whatever I may think about the two systems or how I use their teachings, the message that I keep from this conversation that typology is not the be all, end all factor in determing the fate of a...|||Please don't take any of this personally. I'm only giving out information and personal opinion.  A romantic relationship between an INFP and ESTP is a bad idea. They're conflictors. This means they...|||The internal dialogues are, by now, a problem.  I will bring a person into my head and have a conversation with them. The person could be someone I know, someone I've chatted only but haven't met...|||She *IS* hot! Vivid face, great skin.  Laina - YouTube|||I'll take a lot of liberty as I interpret that, aaaand... I think you're trying to deny your needs :)  I'll continue with this line of thinking and say that denial is one possible reaction we have...|||Awww, there goes my plan for world domination :dry:|||It might be a bit late, but I can confirm the first 3. The last one goes away after point in the limbic-ness scale :P    Hm... Something around 60-65%? That's what the tests say.    Heh... I...|||I need to step outside (balcony perhaps) and start looking arround. The farthest, the better, and I need to start breathing the outside air.  Also, sleeping under the sky is an amazing experience!...|||Oh, yet one more thing that I get and have heard from an Se-dom. Sometimes I get this weight in my chest, a chocking feeling, and I need to look outside the window or get outdoors to relax.   ...|||I have no idea. That's the first time I hear. I don't really know about Enneagram yet. I'll keep it in mind though :wink:    Besides going Hulk mad? :tongue:  I'm good with body motor movement....|||Maybe. It's 1w9. Or maybe I've been repressing my anger for a very long time. I vote for the second :tongue:|||I can't locate the option to disable parsing of YouTube links. I want to do this:    [ url=http://youtube.com/... ]a nice video[/url]  but the forum keeps processing the link and embeding the...|||Yes, you did. I wasn't clear enough. I meant to say what are the differences between a limbic and non-limbic INFJ. E.g.: they behave like this or like that, it makes them like this, and so on.   ...|||@OP  When do you feel the most strong, confident, and energized?  when you make someone laught? when you're nurturing someone? when you help someone? when you stand your ground? (fill in your...|||People become crowds because they haven't became individuals. Individuals form groups that are connected by relationships and goals, not crowds that break on rocks like waves.  People don't want to...|||Oh, that's not about English, it's terminology. Inferior is the last function of a type. Trickster is one of the shadow functions. Check this out:  INFJ Archetypes|||Yes, of course.  What's your relationship to Se?  For INFPs it's the Trickster and for INFJs it's their inferior. I'm restrain my anger a lot, until it explodes, and I go into a physical rage...|||I'm thinking that perhaps we should throw some sympathy back at them: hey, what's happening to you and you react like this?|||First, thanks for your time :wink:  But... I take things very personally and get very easily hurt. So that makes me think I'm Fi dominant.  Since you're Fi dominant too, let me take this chance...|||First a question, what is the difference between a Limbic and a non Limbic type?  Now with the show.  Reading the four types I concluded that I'm all of them for a while and none for ever. I...|||1. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances? Other useful information includes sex,...|||I'm not certain of my type and you're taking me as a base point. But even if I was certain, I could be mistyped!  And that's not intented as a critisism. Just food for thought.'