'It does seem that some INFJ males are pretty effeminate but I don't think it's the norm. They might just be a bigger portion of the scholarly, into-typology segment.  I, like you, am heterosexual,...|||I'm not convinced that even most INFJ's are steeping in internet or hiding in bookstores. The former of course appears so here on the internet, but I personally am a here & there web user and rarely...|||Not particularly in terms of personality. But I do find myself really attracted to a girl whose beautiful, feminine physical features are offset by a more traditionally male hairstyle or wardrobe....|||Watched this years ago and loved it. Just bought a copy & indeed- it's great.  Highly recommend it.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8AQ2GlTw7x4|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LNjTPZW7GCU|||For me stress arises from incongruity between imagined potential & reality. When they align, I relax.  No amount of attempted acceptance, mindfulness or focus in the present provides sustainable...|||Mystery-acknowledging, spiritual atheist here|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6Gtmzc2KZ4|||I don't know this supposed system well, but by that chart above, the gamma is king. Objectivity + self-awareness beats blind confidence and makes for a much more magnetizing, interesting, dynamic...|||I know you mean romantically, but, for starters- in platonic situations it doesn't necessarily take long. There are a few people I've really hit it off with or admired, even maybe somewhat...|||Anyone here there ??|||I am just right but I've yet to learn how to get what I need from others/the world.|||I answered this before but I will again  INFP x INTJ|||Yeah...    I want more in my life & I am one.       But like some folks said there's a lot of variation. Golden interpersonal escape ticket via INFJ is unfortunately a tall order.  Fuck|||I haven't ever devoted the time, or had the resources to wear anything too out there (since, to me, more avant garde style actually requires more attention to nuance). Lately I can often be seen in...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nImdNvyz6E0|||It hasn't typically hindered my ability to use what knowledge I have- I often have to just trust it's there & dole it out intuitively- but I know what you mean. It hasn't been an issue since my...|||It's a mixed bag for me. Where practical necessity is concerned, granted I've seen the message, I will promptly respond.  But, like some of you, I really resent smartphones in general, and would much...|||Hehhh. Most of that is partially true. But the good aspects far outweigh those elements for me. And dead-eyed is the opposite of how I'd describe those Ive connected with there.   I suppose it...|||At it's best it is a profoundly beautiful thing.|||There's nothing particularly oriented toward the skies, though I'm sure those sort of photos get taken. It's early history aside, it's basically just a huge gathering in the Nevada desert based on...|||bumpity bumpity|||No, but abstractly, the knowledge that there are others who work similarly to me is nice.    That's not to say that real relationships with other INFJ's might not help me feel more at home here....|||Anyone else here going to Burning Man this year ?   I'd love to meet up / hang with some other INFJ's there...|||These days I am very rarely, maybe never, actively disingenuous. That being said, in more situations than not, I do feel I am holding something back and not showing all of myself. I think I have a...|||Most of the type I think you're referring to are doing it in a self-righteous attempt to find identity in showing others how high-minded they are. But even taking that self-interest out of the...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWZNJ_7FVqA|||Anticlimactic, yes. The third segment didn't quite live up to the prior ones. But somehow I came away feeling it was really fuckin fantastic at the points it was in stride. Mostly due to the...|||Yes. I will not be able to keep living where I currently do for more than another year or so as it's overcast 80% of the time.|||None of that has anything to do with what you quoted. I disagree.|||Having been in the position socially/interpersonally of your INFJ friend, particularly in my more idealistic, less objective years, I'd put out a possibility that...... since certain INFJs are prone...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjgSHCGBh2o|||Prefer clear, blue skies generally but I do love rain. The in-between is what I find uninspiring.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNMjM8R5ZDo|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LhCzNXgBZE|||Yes. And unfortunately the remedy is not as simple as having someone around. Even if they're engaging, relatable, or affectionate. A deeply intimate love can alleviate it for significant periods of...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sudd9Sv2Bgg|||Have preferred my hair long since I can remember. The few times I cut it short were because certain girls told me it looked better. Never again. It's one of the few cases where I do believe an...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FJSxX95PH8o|||I'm not much of an mbti buff, love at least one ENFP, and am not trying to be contrarian, but since their virtues have been praised plenty...  I can see the affinity for rich outward experience...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJKvE3tMIPs|||I'm not the best one to ask, but to keep it moving...  1. Daniel Savio 2. Jussi Bjorling 3. Leif Edling 4. David Giese 5. Noomi Rapace   top 5 non-contemporary american country/folk...|||It depends if the truth in question directly concerns me, or would be practically useful to a person I care to help. If not, I will gladly omit unless asked, because it's trivial and worthless to...|||I'm the only child of an INTJ father and INFP mother|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vvRkJzVQBP0|||It is too bad, and it continues to get much worse, yes. But I don't think it's a new thing. Generally I'd say bigger budget or mainstream movies of the past, say, 35 years, have been pretty tacky and...|||Thanks man.|||Yes, I often feel like a permanent stranger. I don't understand why I'm predisposed to feeling as such, but the result is that my deeper being isn't readily reflected in, or harmonious with that of...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLpbq0O5h8I  really gets going in the second verse.... yeah|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9IimLb3b2U'