'Dear ENFJ Boyfriend:  I am SO glad I said to you what I said to you yesterday, because I meant it. You stuck by me during my hectic grad school days, so I can sure as hell stick by you during these...|||Person I Don't Like: Here is my entire life story, and also let me be sure youknow how important I am while I complain about what a burden it is to be smarter than everybody else.  (Ok, not a...|||To my significant other after randomly texting him a weird word completely out of the blue and forgetting why I did so upon hitting send:  I meant to say 'I love you,' but it came out as...|||Dear Unhuggable INTJ:  You realize that only makes us want to hug you more, right? :D  Bring it in, buddy, and feel the love, A Huggable INFJ|||Dear Self:  You are NOT getting sick. So what if your throat is scratchy, you have to cough, and you can only breathe out of one nostril? YOU ARE NOT GETTING SICK. I FORBID IT.  Cough,...|||I don't remember...I was a baby. :)  But if family photos are any indication, I was flippin' adorable.|||Dear Heavy D and the Boyz:  Seriously, what ARE you going to do with love now that you've found it?  Curious, An INFJ With a Nostalgic Love for 90s Hip Hop|||Dear Ghiradelli Dark Chocolate and Sea Salt Caramel Squares:  Let's get married.   Love,  A Typical Woman With a Chocolate Fetish|||That pressure is self-inflicted, I think. In my experience, people in the real world aren't terribly concerned if you match your MBTI type to the T. Here on PerC, yes, a lot of people are hung up on...|||Dear warweasel:  Yup, I notice hands on dudes. I can't quite explain my attraction to strong looking hands myself...it's weird. It's not even just the sexual implications...there's just something...|||Dear Desk at Work:  I try so hard to keep you neat and tidy. I really do. But somehow by midday you're so covered in stuff that I have to dig to find my computer keyboard/mouse and I have to keep...|||Dear Alarm Clock:  One of these mornings I'm going to turn you off via cartoon rubber mallet.   Grumble grumble, An INFJ Who Hearts Sleep|||I start worrying that all our periods will synch up.|||My boyfriend of almost 4 years is ENFJ. Known him for 5. He's awesome - extremely empathetic and genuine, very easy with people (which makes me a bit less shy in social situations), loves learning...|||Dear ENFJ Boyfriend:  I can't believe I randomly texted you the word nachos out of nowhere.   Since you replied with Sand-wedge. See? I can say random words too, I'm assuming you found this...|||I generally interview pretty well, and have been able to find work due to my work ethic and social skills.   Being introverted doesn't mean you can't be social. I've had to deal with the public in...|||Emotional? Yes. Emotionally reactive? No. I am not a ticking time bomb of feelings.   Emotions are private things to me. I don't take them out and dress them up and display them for all the world....|||Dear Tall, Dark, Extremely Handsome and Muscular Landscaping Dude at My Door:  Well, hel-LO.   Rawr, An INFJ Who Is Faithful to Her Man, but Certainly Not Dead|||I'm not sure I understand the intention behind a woman playing dumb, to be honest. Where is the self-respect in that? Do they not want respect from others? Do they not care about being taken...|||Don't worry. I'm that idiot who gets stuck in revolving doors. The trick is to laugh at yourself before anyone else does. :)|||I used to work in an office at a college and a student walked in and I swear to you this happened:  Me: Hello, can I help you? Her: My advisor told me to talk to some lady in some office. Can you...|||Nah, I tend to see that stuff as none of my business.   I know the standard complaint is that INFJs always want to change people to fit into our ideal, but eventually you just have to realize...|||Hrm...one of my best friends I've had since I was 11 years old (holy crap, we've known each other almost 20 years!) tests as ISFJ. I know there are differences between us, but never ones that have...|||Dear Honeybees:  Thanks to you and your pollinating prowess, I will have a lot of raspberries this summer.    Please continue to help yourselves, A Grateful INFJ Who Likes Raspberries|||Latest love letter text I sent to my boyfriend:  Dear ____:  Thinking of you naked!  Love, Me  I never said I was classy.|||VERY cool.   I'm an archivist, so I love old shit. Kind of goes with the job. :)|||I betcha Winnie the Pooh poos in the woods.|||I think this love of old homes is a common characteristic of a lot of people...it's not necessarily more or less common to INFJs, and it would be difficult to pin it down. Some people just like the...|||Well, as you all can see by my username, I totally hate books. ;)  I was actually the last kid in my class to learn to read at age 6. It was frustrating - I couldn't get it at all. And then one day...|||Dear Cat:  Because you opted to nap on your spot (one among several) on the back of the couch, I am now resting my head on your butt. Deal with it.   You're fuzzy, Your Sleepy INFJ Mom|||I really doubt you can limit this particular situation as an INFJ thing. It's how you present yourself to other people, and how much confidence you show when you speak. If you seem confident in...|||Dude, when is he going to realize that body glitter is sooooo ten years ago.   Seriously, he looks like a stripper from Reno with daddy issues.|||First rule of true/false questions: any question containing the words all, none, always, or never are, more often than not, going to be in the false category. I realize that's a gross...|||Is it just me, or is Meryl Streep freakin' adorable?|||Well, I agree that he's acting douchey. If he's trying to hurt you on purpose, then all you have to do is deny him what he wants. Pay him no attention, and if you are hurt, don't let him see it. ...|||Brains, hair color, sense of humor, sweetness, and , *ahem*...rack.   Not sure how to handle compliments on that last one. :-/|||I'm out of the loop on this alleged sub-forum hate (nothin' but love, ENTPs), but I can't stop cracking up at tge use of the word diabeetus.  It's the little things, guys. It's the little things....|||I'm the proud mom of an orange tabby. He's currently snuggling with me even though I tripped and accidentally spilled tea on him a few minutes ago. Now that's love!|||Well, aren't you sweet? :D  I'm lucky enough to have found an ENFJ man. The world needs more of you guys, in my opinion. Your positivity is infectious. :)|||Dear Cat:  Yes, I purposely did not give you the leftover milk in my cereal bowl because it gives you the shits. Get over it, will you?! Jesus, you're acting like I've deprived you of air. Sorry,...|||Five seconds after being introduced to someone:  Shit, what was your name? You just told me and I repeated it back to you AND I STILL FORGOT YOUR FREAKIN' NAME! It's ok. I'll just play it cool,...|||I've known people like that, though I never knew their personality types. There was always something just very socially awkward about how keen they were to feel part of the group. They did exactly...|||Dear ENFJ Boyfriend:  Ya knooooooow...just because I'm about a foot shorter than you, it doesn't mean I can limbo under a RUG.   But if that really is the case, then that means I win, doesn't it?...|||Dear Pre-Made Greek Salad from the Grocery Store:  Why are you topped with potato salad?  Eating you anyway, A Confused INFJ|||Dear Random Neighborhood Dog That Visited Me While I Was Working Outside Today:  You are very cute and friendly, and I'm glad I decided to stop working and throw a stick to you for awhile. You were...|||Dear Dishwasher Repair Guy Who Is Supposed to Be Here Sometime By 10:30:  After a rather fiber-licious breakfast and two cups of strong tea, I'm in a bind. Suddenly I fear that you'll knock on the...|||I loved an ENTP once.   ONCE.|||Dear Dried Mango Slices:  Where did you go, oh sweetened spears of delight?!  Longingly, An INFJ Who Just Ate You All in One Sitting|||Dear Best Friend's Sister:  Before you start going off on your manifesto on why the Catholic Church is evil, please try to remember that I come from a very Catholic family of good people who see...|||Exact same thing for me. Especially after reading this:  Inspiring Images From Boston - Business Insider'