'oh YES. That spells trouble in short order, esp when I'm repressing it out of shame or hurt.  I wind up deep-sixing, my feelings go away entirely, I turn into a ghost. The best thing for it is to...|||My ENFP twin says the same thing. She said she knows an Fe-primary at a glance because of what she calls the heat. She says the Fe-primaries feel like open furnaces or volcanoes.|||The immature ones have a way of deeply gouging other people with their angry fangs. That brings out my slapping hand pretty fast.|||Welcome and mingle //creepy Fe voice//  LOL!|||Wow, I'm not sure how great I am at giving advice on a function I use without conscious thought, BUT...  One of the best ways to start encouraging Fe development is paying attention to social...|||To be fair, I frequently refer to ISTPs as my shadow, and to ISTJs as my engima.  ISTPs and I usually get on like a house on fire, especially the ones with high Intuition. I had one for a best...|||Giver sounds like doormat. I've heard Pedagogue. Again, that sounds like a stuffy little man hiding inside the stacks in a library.  How about Body Snatcher? *grins*|||Cute girl!|||She and I are very yin-yang. I have a boatload of hot and typically male energy. She's very cooling. We're archetypal fire and water. I heat things up for her, she cools my hot head.   It helps...|||Nice ugly double standard you're nursing there, cowboy.   As an ENFJ, as a girl, I would care. You cannot hold someone AS AN ADULT IN AN ADULT RELATIONSHIP to standards that you yourself cannot...|||I know many identical twin pairs -- as an example, an ENFP/INTP pair, and ENTP/INTP pair. With identicals, the split is usually close personality-wise. :)   As an ENFP/xNFJ pair, Sis and I consider...|||Me (eNFJ) and my ENFP twin.   49692|||hahahah! So true! :)|||*steepled Mr. Burns fingers*  EEEXXcellent.....|||My sister informs me that I had the chilly irascibility of an INFJ and the temper of an ENFJ. I'm a hideous chimera.  Good times. :D|||Scottish, Welsh, Norman French and Hessian on my mother's side.  Scottish and Cherokee Indian on my father's.|||Good god.|||It's like a Vulcan mindmeld for me -- uncontrollable merging. The other person is mutually attracted, but usually terrified of me.   Or some emotional pyro with a masochistic bent who wants to go...|||I like the term 'rape-y'. It sounds INFP. lol|||C'mon over to the Dark Side. The villains are cooler anyway. *laughs* :D|||Yes. YES. So true. I don't have the OPTION of *not feeling*, so people gotta get out of my way.|||My anger manifests itself first in minor irritation, some pointed remarks. I try to get it under control, because that's part of being an adult and handling yourself responsibly, so what I'm about to...|||I like how this guy started a thread about forcing his love on us, and then gets banned.   BUT WE DIDN'T EVEN GET TO THE ROOFIE COLADAS!|||xNTPs, generally.|||Yes, I have an affect, you might say. Not on everyone, naturally, but it's difficult to not know I'm there, even when I'm silent. I'm in no way terrifically extroverted. I prefer to stand within a...|||I love this thread because she said rad. AWESOME.|||I know several ENFJ guys, but we've locked them in a closet for the safety of the world's womenfolk.|||My past history included ISFP, ESTP, INTP, ISTP, and ENTP. I've been pursued by other types than those listed, but it was one-sided.   I want an ENTP. I like the Ne-Fe.|||I'm glad you're enjoying yourself!|||I have an ESFP best friend!!! *hearts*   I've had to explain to my ENFP sister how her pain affects me. I take insults or bad treatment of my loved ones as personal insults, and I didn't realize I...|||Yes, I've been known to do this.   Also, to whip out my ISTP shadow like a shiv if I really don't like/trust someone.|||I find what I *can* be to others far more addicting. The emotional-psychic high we get off each other without even touching. It's the implications, the subtlety, like how far can he take this? I...|||My ENTJ best friend told me today that if anyone is cutting an ear off, it's for you. She was kidding, but NOT. That's either amazing or AWFUL. I haven't decided yet! :/|||I can get pretty high off the vibrations of others mingled with mine, but as to physical sex, I have to have a connection. Something like POW... otherwise it isn't worth it to me.|||I say this too. All the time, actually. :( I feel like a selfish hot-headed meanie most of the time.|||I'm not overwrought. :( Please don't say that. Please.|||My tits are not that big, but they are glorious. At least that's what the mammogram lady said today.     It's not an intellectual internet post without ad hominem in it.    Indeed. Say what...|||My ENFP twin sister has prepared me for this moment.  *ahem*  I despise kittens, handicapped people, justice, mercy, and honesty! Liars are awesome! Hypocrites excite me!  How'd I do? *grins*|||Oh man, I know exactly how this feels. :( I'm truly truly sorry.   When you have to make THAT decision, sometimes people don't understand just how far they've pushed you. When I cut someone off, it...|||You know what? Tell him to knock it off. Tell him you don't think it's funny, that you've respected his right to not like or own a cat, but you do like them and what he's saying makes you feel weird....|||Oh wow, where to start.  1. Passive-aggression and guilt trips - those will flip my kill switch faster than just about anything. Whatever you'd hoped to get from me is now utterly lost, and I...|||Because I'm Watson-y, so very very Watson-y. :-|||She's got me beat in the style and poise departments. : And the boobies. Alllllways with the boobies.|||JD seems like an extroverting INFJ. I would absolutely take him for an fe-intensive NFJ.|||Not meant to be. There *was* a girl. The fact that both your tone *and* your approach have not varied in a span of many many months, well, that's of interest.    There was no potential in your...|||Thank you for humoring me. :)   I find I have a good dynamic with my INTJ best friend, but I think ultimately, we're too similar. To that, I mean to say, we both have a boatload of Ni and our Js...|||We've crossed paths before, Adasta. Did you ever forgive her, the ENFJ that broke your heart? Whatever you've chosen, the bitterness of the old wound is still there in your words.|||I have an ESFJ friend, and when we talk to each other, it's like having some crazy Vulcan mind-meld. O.o BUT, I would say in a romantic sense, that would be a LOT of Fe-primary flying around. I mean,...|||How so? Perhaps the ones of your acquaintance?   Romantically, both of those types with an ENFJ would be disastrous. :|||If he's anything like Gael Garcia Bernal, I will tear his pants off right now. That's an INFP I can get with.'