Then you didn't read my OP. Go back and read why I wrote this in the INTJ forum. I think you had a gut reaction without evaluating the actual content of my words.|||I feel like high fiving the two with 1-5 people. Restraint! Well done!|||Not all visual communication has to be the exaggerated example I gave. I just used the extremes for the purposes of demonstration. There is such a thing as subtlety and tact. I grew up with an...|||I'm sorry if I came off that way, that wasn't my intention.     I didn't say even once that this was exclusively or mostly an INTJ problem. I think you need to go back and read it. You've read...|||I have my close circle of friends and don't have many friends outside of that circle. I get that. I'm not popular. But I have tons of acquaintances/connections that I can call on for favors at any...|||The way you talk about this, it sounds like you think sensors are just intuitives without intuition and intuitives have everything sensors have + intuition. What's your take?     Not all...|||By handicap, I mean it takes longer and more effort to deal with people day to day using words. I guess if you're only used to using words with the general public, it's boring, mundane and time...|||I used the extremes to make my point. Not all visual cues need to be broadcast at full blast, that would be the equivalent of being visually tone deaf. My fault for not realizing this was implicitly...|||By deep connection, I don't mean soul mates. Brief, passing but purposeful connections. The sort of connections that will get you into the backstage at a concert or your professor to help you...|||I think this ^ is a better way of looking at the world. There are so many ways of communicating and even if I'm not immediately a fan of how someone expresses themselves, I will adapt to it. I think...|||I didn't say faces always have to show emotion or be friendly. Obviously a blank face can be another visual communication form. I'm referring to the number of INXX's complaining about social...|||Not sure why you feel the need to mock me or why you're reacting defensively.   There are enough INXX's complaining about struggling to socialize in society and talking about social isolation that...|||If most of the population are sensors, wouldn't it help to avoid things like this by expanding your communication tools to include a wider visual communication vocabulary?|||Maybe it's not a problem you deal with but I am seeing enough INXX's describing issues that suggest they're not communicating effectively with a significant portion of the population that they're...|||I'm not hard wired to express thoughts and ideas using language. Doesn't mean I can't learn it and haven't worked on it.   If you need to communicate on some level with a dog or a toddler, do you...|||That's not what I mean. Visually expressive does not mean ditz or over playing it at all times. Your description of the ditz is someone who isn't effectively expressing themselves visually. Visual...|||This reminds me that I wanted to get motion sensor lights in my dorm. Otherwise, I didn't see it do anything that I'm not fine doing myself.|||And what of quality of connection? When you need to convince people who aren't particularly rational and not able to see things objectively, how do you reach them? Because there are a lot of...|||I see a pattern with INXX's saying they lack facial expression. Does that have anything to do with the disdain I see on here from some toward those who rely heavily on visual cues to express...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmap94TcDNs  I feel like playing but it's bed time.|||They don't make all of them NF's. There's too often a bias in the people typing that regardless of the characters strength, if they show universally human traits, they must be NF's.|||Have you experienced this at the college level as well?|||Still not ready to put those claws away, honey. Takes you way too long to cool off.|||I don't door slam. I speak up for myself and don't need to get that mad.|||You're so much nicer than me. I probably would've asked him if the ground was cold when he crawled out of it this morning.|||The question wasn't about who is coolest. The question is who cares the most about being cool. That has never been my goal and I don't see it as the goal of ESTP's. We're content to make enemies and...|||When he wouldn't work with me, I asked if he wanted to go to the TA and get a new lab partner if he thinks I suck so badly that he can't work with me. Not sure how he'd come to that conclusion given...|||Can't remember exact wording, but I did my best to word it non-blackmail-y. :proud: I've worked on this for months, he should be smart enough to see this coming anyway.|||Nope. I've got confirmation that he opened it.|||You keep coming back for me and saying I'm the one that doesn't drop shit. Cry me a river.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKp2CrfmVfw|||Depends on who it is. If I like and respect a person and they don't like me, I want to understand why. If I don't like them, I'd sooner jam a pencil in my eye and swirl it around real good than try...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KO_3Qgib6RQ|||You're presuming my grades aren't good? I already addressed this in my posts.|||The point is for students to learn to work together and the material. Not how efficiently it gets done. He has the option of getting a new lab partner if he thinks I can't do it. But he's failing to...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-I2s5zRbHg|||Of course the ESXP's care most about being cool. Except wait.. the ones on here trying to convince people they're cool are... ENTP's.|||I argued my point. You guys got your panties in a twist, took your ball and went home.|||Hadn't realized DP was so delicate.|||I've never tried beating the shit out of anyone. Sounds like fun.|||Do what everyone else does and steal shit or make it up.|||He's more entertaining left flying in the dark.|||He's articulated himself well enough that I'm comfortable passing that up. Thanks.|||Blow me.|||A. Oh no! My world will crumble now.   B. I've said it before. If I'm annoying, you don't have to keep coming back here.|||I don't appreciate complete strangers pulling my tale repeatedly and I don't put up with it. If I'd seen indication that he was joking back and forth with someone, it wouldn't have bugged me. I don't...|||Do you only make a point or disagree with people when you're butt hurt? You attribute a lot of things to me that I haven't said, thought or felt in your posts.     I haven't felt disrespected by...|||Not expecting a babysitter. You've said he's up to this shit all the time. So you're aware of it. But his behavior hasn't changed. It would appear as it is, things have been ineffectual. I'm a...|||I didn't think it was specifically about me and never did. I think we're missing each other. That type of humor only works if you already have a relationship with someone. If it was just a sense of...|||Are you sure they like it though? If the forum is particularly inactive, I'd suspect they don't like it. They just pass it up.