'I over think situations because I hate awkwardness. I'm really bad at handling them. I guess you can say I want to handle a situation by making it as less awkward as possible.   And that's true, I...|||That's true. I really should. I think it's an ego thing too though. I don't want him to think he got to me enough that I'd need to block him and his friends. I told him once that he shouldn't be...|||I think I'm quite silly. I love getting a smile out of someone! So I think so?|||So I need some ENFP help! Because y'all be so amazing.   My ex and I broke up a little under a month ago. It took me a really long and hard time to get over him, but I'm at this point where I'm...|||I agree with viva. He REALLY does not sound like an INFJ at all. My best friend is an INFJ and she is one of the most affectionate people I know.|||I don't have any interesting jobs to share, but here they are!  College Jobs:  Student Assistance (3 months) Student Assistance (1 1/2 years)   They're title as the same thing, but they were...|||I'm kinda of a receptionist. I answer important phone calls and transfer them to the right people. I feel that ENFPs are usually pretty eloquent speakers. I was REALLY bad at first but when I got...|||I'm a cancer ENFP! I think some of it correlates, but the biggest thing similarities is that cancers and ENFPs are both very emotional--which I very much am.|||There are so many way to gain happiness. I think you're overthinking it. There is no specific goal that I have--different opportunities will arise to achieve happiness. When it comes, I'll seize it....|||Depends. I get really social and excited. But if I drink too much, I get too emotional. HATE THAT PART. But one reoccurring thing that happens when I get drunk is I lose my sense of balance. Standing...|||That would make sense. I'm a type 4 and I'm a hopeless romantic. I'm so infatuated with the idea of love.   As for the MBTI type, I chose INFP even though I'm ENFP. But reading descriptions on...|||I HATE to be so dependent on this, but it's the truth. I think I'm happiest when I'm with the person I love (though no one atm). I don't know why, but I'm do deeply attracted to love.   I am...|||1. Three Favorite Activities Recently, I've been really into blogging. I have a lot of thoughts and anxieties and blogging always seems to pput me at ease. I also really enjoy swimming. There is...|||I don't think I can ever forgive cheating and abuse. It probably has to do a lot with my childhood, but I find both things almost impossible to forgive. Never raise a hand in violence and never take...|||I'm not too sure, actually. But if I recall correctly, a close friend told me to take the online test during my freshman year of college two years ago. At first, I got ESFP, but that didn't sound...|||i hate to admit it, but i suffer from envy. i'm the jealous type too ):|||I think I need it to begin with empathy. It's necessary for me to get an emotional connection with them before they start blurting meaningless advice to me. But it can't end with empathy. It gets...|||LOL! I hate to admit it, but I think I get that sometimes. When I'm in that mood, it's time for self-reflection time. Sometimes solitude is the only cure. Give me an hour or two, and I'm back to...|||That sounds just like me! Perfect summary (: Just a few things I'd add to myself when I'm excited: Heart racing and high expectations. Inability to sleep when the moment is coming and active...|||Aww shucks, thanks! nope we're not related but you can say we're sisters! She introduced me to this site. We do get that we look alike a lot though!|||Go on a road trip! Go camping with a group of people and make a change! Help clean-up a park, feed the homeless, build some trees! MAKE MEMORIES! I'm planning to do just this during spring break...|||I love how I'm in all these pictures with you. Takes time away from loading my own pictures! <3 I'm second from the left hehe (:  And to add on!   Me and my lovable INFJ sister (who photobombed!)...|||I don't have a specific fetish. I just like it constantly ahaha (: ENFPs and our sex drives. Very true!|||1. What would be the ideal friendship be like for you? My ideal friendship would be someone who is there for me when I need them the most. It seems pretty easy to find, but trust me, it's not. It's...|||I don't think I mind being single, but I think I do prefer being in a relationship. I like that warm fuzzy feeling|||Nothing. Music kinda distracts me. And if it is playing in the background, I don't really pay attention to it. The only time I really listen to music is when I'm feeling exceptionally emotional. But...|||Yeah I agree. This is a maturity thing. It seems a lot like she's seeking attention. I've been through that phase--a long time ago. The best advice I could give you is to talk it out with her: sit...|||I hate to tell people to settle ): I really do. But I agree. Finding a balance is the key to it all. But if you don't think you can ever be satisfied with his feelings for you, I don't think settling...|||Aww thank you (: Totally gave me the biggest smile on my face :D|||Expectation is the root of all heartache   And it's true--especially for ENFPs I feel. We tend to glorify people and situations so we expect so much from them all. These expectations can never be...|||I'm exactly like you. I'm so easily distracted, it's amazing. I can't study with friends because their every movement distracts me. I can't have food with me because I'll just munch on it instead of...|||I'm adequately sporty. I used to be really into tennis and running. I feel really revitalized after a good run. It's getting me to start that's hard.|||RANT 1:  Why do people always put them down? I'm all for giving out compliments when I mean them, but when you don't take them, STOP FISHING FOR THEM. I have a friend, and goodness knows I love her,...|||Lucky Emery! LOL|||I was sensitive, loud and attention-seeking. I constantly sucked on my fingers and cried haha but that may just be me.|||Too cute! Merry __________ to you too!|||It depends on who it is and what they did. But I usually let go of grudges pretty quickly, though I am quick to get angry. But there are some huge grudges that I doubt I'll be letting go any time...|||Yes I have and I felt terrible after the relationship ended. When I was in a relationship with him (he is a ESFP btw), I never felt like I was good enough. In comparison to me, he was much more...|||passionate, enthusiastic, emotional, romantic, impatient...  and heartbroken (at the moment, and perhaps, for a while)|||Oh god... too much. I'm always the first to jump into my treat! Or here's 20 dollars! Return it to me whenever. That and my shopping expenses. I'm always going through different phases of...|||If they initiate it, then I love to! Or if they seem really friendly.|||-People. Only the ones I really love though. The ones that make me smile! -Music. The songs that touch your heart and you replay, again and again -Laughs. It's contagious to the sad heart....|||One of my closest friends is an INFP. It's pretty crazy how one letter can make two people so different. But that's what we are. Different. Since I only know one INFP, I'm going to base it off of...|||This pretty much sums it up! I always think there is something wrong with me. I put all the weight on my shoulders. People always told me that I love to love, and when I love, I do it pretty damn...|||I read somewhere once that an INFJ is the perfect match for a romantic partner. My best friend is an INFJ and we often joke that we're soulmates, but somewhere along the way, things got messed up and...|||My sister is an INFJ, but as a lot of INTJ tendencies. We get into a lot of arguments and one moment, we'll be buddy buddy, and the next, she'll say something to piss me off, so it's more like I...|||Wow! This must be a common ENFP problem. I'm the exact same way. Even if I really want to, it becomes too much hard work to continually text someone or contact them. I want to get out there, do...|||It depends on who it is I'm suppose to forgive.   Say it was my best friend. Because we've been through so much, I can forgive and forget just about anything she does, but knowing her, she'd...|||Wow!! It's surprising to see how many ENFPs have INFJs as best friends! Mine is too and she knows me like the back of her hand. I don't know what I'd do without her.|||I cry. My heart has been kicked, pummeled, ripped, stabbed--I'm bleeding.  I often think Why wasn't I good enough? What was wrong with me? Why couldn't it be me? But that is probably the...'