'https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PLAaiKvHvZs|||51 :o|||I went through a break up some months ago. We were together for 4 years and I had planned my life around that relationship. I wasn't the one breaking the relationship as you might imagine and all our...|||ENFJ Puns so many puns.|||Well I personally don't go that much for attractiveness in general but I can see you have the will to change that and that's good already. May I ask if you want to be with them in a merely sexual...|||Sorry, not an INFP but I'm really into post-rock so I had to post :<  Going to leave this here and sneak out D:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=usHC-O1BPCM|||Welcome!!!|||wrong thread D:|||That doesn't sound very ENFJ I think x3 I'd never act cold towards a romantic interest. Those just get my warm side I think. When I like someone that way all I want to do is to just straight to them...|||Not really, I'm mostly a guitar player with a bass obsession, I'm the person who ask for the bass to be louder or at least more relevant. I like trying new instruments and sometimes add them to a...|||Guitar mostly :O But I can add bass, glockenspiel, harmonica, drums and ocarina.|||AHAHAH I'm sorry but I'm laughing so hard. It really IS a plague. I never thought that was possible.|||Mostly because of the sound. If there are lyrics I'll obviusly consider them but I listen mostly to Post and Math rock so I don't care too much about words.|||HII! :D And welcome!|||I have two INFJ close friends and I never though of them as naive. Actually I take them very seriously though I notice non-NF friends don't seem them that way usually. I don't really know why it is...|||this. Actually, why shouldn't they be cooler? Pollution is a big deal, if people can avoid it is better isn't it? It's not like people don't have cars, at least in my country, but if you live...|||What if ignoring them had a side effect of slightly messing with people around BOTH of you.  Let me try to get some pratical example. If X if constatly trying to get on your nerves, provoking you or...|||Welcome!!!|||Hi there fellow ENFJs!  I was wondering how do you deal with direct conflict within the groups you're in.   When I feel like someone doesn´t like me that much and starts to bother me a lot I just...|||Welcome! :)|||Isn't the way you see yourself also a part of your personality?  I am very close to two INFJs, one of them with very low self esteem, amazingly pessimistic over pretty much everything. On the other...|||ENFJ blue, violet|||Sorry, not an INFJ but as an ENFJ I can kinda relate to this. If I'm getting your point right, I think low self esteem is transversal to all types. I do have quite a low self esteem and I'm a people...|||the friend says welcome D:  HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII! :DDDD|||I don't think it's an INFJ thing more than just social behavior.  Maybe you have something good that makes other people jealous. Maybe you're pretty, or smart, or get along with people they want to...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gFBBc1tSHmo|||Welcome :d|||Welcome! :D|||Welcome!!! :D|||Welcome!!!! :DDD|||this is so true|||I don't know if this can be considered compliments but here are some things that make my day: -Well done. -Please don't ever stop doing what you're doing. -I wish I was able to love something...|||I think I notice 2 different behaviors when I drink a little too much (I get fairly happy with less alcohol than my friends bit at the same time I never get really really drunk, probably because I...|||I've walked away from ESTPs and they're really hard for me to get along with.  Also ISTPs, I kinda feel like my energy is being sucked by them the longer we're together but I can understand them and...|||damn... >_>|||Friendly and very fun to read :) It's a nice forum envoirnment!|||INFJs are probably my favorite type. I notice some behavior difference if we're in a group of people or just the two of us. In more private environments they usually take the lead and talk, I like...|||I agree with CursedSoul.  Actually recieving things, objects, or whatever doesn't make me that happy. I really enjoy when people DO stuff because it means they're actually giving me their time, and...|||Thank you for welcoming me!!! :)|||Yes it is, sorry for confusing you D: !   Thank you!! :D|||I think she might be romantically intersted in you. Maybe she said she wouldn't flirt with you to try to get some feedback. I'm saying that because I do that a lot and only with people I'm...|||Thank you! :3|||Hi there! *waves*  How you all doing? I've been lurking around the forum for some time and I think it's time for a proper introduction :< I'm Ri, ENFJ, and I'm really interested in pretty much...'