'Lanausseusse thank goodness, yah a bit dark, but its all good :)|||... why do I always find myself here?... I hope it doesn't end like it always ends... :unsure:|||Your feeling are understandable, whoever this other person is I hope you realize you don't need ANYONE ELSE for your own happiness. It'll take a bit of practice but hopefully you'll learn to love...|||.|||lanausee I hate to point it out but I'm catching a suicidal drift from this post. u ok?|||Sadistic, but not completely egregious. I dont know you but I assume that other then this minor tick your a generally a decent human being. We all feel the urge to lay it on others at times. Next...|||i had this problem as well. I've have found it helpful to practice a sort of meditation when you see/hear something that you are about to absorb. I'm not sure if I'm the one who invented this but I...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D6CWBgLbrD4|||Also a new language. Sign (ASL or otherwise) is a good first second language. Learn to code (khanacademy.org is a good place to learn about almost anything) Read  start a small business invent...|||Guitar! get a cheap one and youtube will take you the rest of the way!|||I don't know if its an INFJ thing or not but I have the same problem. It seems I/we attract those who are hurting. All my friends have sort of used me as some sort of therapist monkey they always...|||We had to learn these in health class.|||Wanted traits 1. Intelligent 2. Funny 3. Compromising  4. Humble 5. Driven Turn off traits 1. Cocky 2. Selfish 3. Quick to anger|||INFP Type most likely to eat their feelings|||Friends with everyone yet, friendless.|||The prompt for an essay we are writing in my high school is...  Is there such thing as absolute truth or is there only perception?  I would like to get others opinions on it as I see it as a...|||the one that missed 4/5 days and still made honor roll/ the girl that didn't care about her apperance|||I do the same. Have a good week.|||Imma chick , also kidding. yet somehow im flattered ...or dissappionted, cant really tell which.:laughing:|||How's Friday? :tongue:|||Yes! That is the entirety of my relationships, and its difficult to distinguish whether its a help or a hindrance, I have nurtured many friendship in which I thought we were both very invested in...|||Describe the relationship between you and your parents.  and/or Think/write of a conversation you had with your parents that stands out in your mind as being an accurate reflection of your...|||you know what, I don't care your feelings!|||sorry , beg to differ. we have a lot of patience when it comes to relationships but a point comes in which your just done, and you'll say anything. I do agree tho that there are very few times when...|||Bishop was just playing, don't me discouraged.   Your parents spent a lot of money, if it takes re-teaching yourself everything you learn at school then that's what it takes. I do that for...|||When I find someone that is depressed and use chameleonism to help them out and they are to deep into the emotion to be pulled out, it leaves me in their position and deeply depressed how can I help...|||I have this problem too sort of. I seem to be more often disappointed,not because people have no sustenance or inter-feelings and thoughts, but because they ether don't know how to express them or...|||You could try the no-poo method of washing your hair. It stands for no shampoo, that sounds gross but you will use apple vinegar instead, a simple Google search will give you the details. Worked for...|||Thanks! i would tell my teacher but i would rather not be that student. no need for a pity party. I ended up kinda stealong a memory my brother and sister told me about so that fixed that. I guess.|||In art class this week we are making dimensional sculptures of a snapshot of a childhood memory. This should be fun and interesting but I seem to have a problem. All the memories I have from...|||I tend to take things to the extreme ,Yes.|||My best friend happens to be a INFP. From my experience, among the other things that make us very different, the one that stands out to me is the fact that they seem to concave into themselves when...|||I let the environment tell me what it wants to tell  me. If I need more, I obverse the people in the environment. People feed off the energy in the place whether they know it or not. When I have...|||Words, at least vocal words, don't work for me the majority of the time. Writing comes easily, but to say what I mean is difficult. I hate that I takes me time to process what I want to say for it to...|||Do you have a theory on life, the meaning of life, how/why humans do what they do?  Its quite a broad thread but never the less interesting (to me at least).   Try not to take put down a theory...|||I do that too and my friends also find it hard to deal with.they she me floating away when really I just want time to figure it out myself. When I fix it I'll  tell them about it and then it'll be...|||rarely truly angry, on that note, frustration comes with the territory. Stable infj's know how to only reveal a toned down version though.|||Mine is sound, but I didn't know it had to do with the personality. Everyone always thinks its really weird I cant listen to music without it being on the lowest setting and other things you wouldn't...|||The want to be different. Because we want to be different, We are different. Reality is perception. Everything else is just our subconscious giving us something to back up our own ideas with.|||I was scared.|||While living a day that feels like it has repeated itself for days, the meaning of a mundane sentence someone said to a stranger on the bus finally makes sense, on a life lesson level, and you add it...|||...When you tell someone what you truly think and it impresses/surprises/ freaks them out so bad you decide to to keep your insight to yourself from then on.|||maybe its just because I'm an INFJ but I don't do good with ENFJ's , everyone else seems to like them though.|||Dr. Spencer Reid (Criminal Minds) Sherlock and Mycroft (b.b.c. tv show 2014) Gregory House (House md.)|||Currently; The Rules of Survival, Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, and then will start Under the Mesquite|||holding people to high expectations and being continually disappointed. uggg emotionally draining.|||It seemed harmless because it has always ended with us laughing or giggling. I don't normally have emotionally reactive tantrums and try to not be a pain in the ass. I'm normally the one she goes...|||No she barely knows anything about it. I never talk about it. I sent her an email about it once just so she could do it too . She said she never got around to it and I dropped it. The argument...|||I have this friend, that I think or use to think of as my best friend. I've talked to her about things I haven't even talked to myself about. Which is saying a lot. So the other day we where...'