'4w5. I am the opposite of aggressive.|||Another thought: If INFJs do tend to like people who are hard to get, it might have something to do with the whole perfectionist-about-romance thing. I know I've always had a disconnect between the...|||It's funny that everyone seems to be giving examples of shy people as hard to get. For me, the extroverts I get crushes on are the ones I really give up on. It's easier for me to become close to an...|||Quang has it spot-on.  As a 4(w5), I've found myself relating to a lot of type-2 things - emotional intensity, need to be needed, strong proclivity toward relationships and helping other people,...|||I think maybe the things that each type needs are also the things that they might eventually do well without. In terms of transcending the Enneagram and stuff? For example, a 9 might freak out in the...|||INFJ cisgender female  Masculine: 54.167 Neutral: 66.667 Feminine: 78.333|||Oh, PLEASE. I would LOVE to know what humans think. Humans fascinate me! All the darkness and secret beauties and vulnerabilities buried beneath the surface.... *creepy salivate* But I love animals...|||When I first saw the title of this thread, I almost laughed out loud, since I am the only 4 I know (as far as I know) and I really don't think of myself as intimidating. I do have a pretty strong...|||OMG the top two are both true for me. But I'm the opposite for the third. I'm left-handed (though kind of ambidextrous when it comes to sports) and mostly left-footed.  As for visual thinking, I...|||Absolutely 4.  Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing; a confusion of the real with the ideal never goes unpunished.|||Apparently I'm a Taurus.  Nope nope nope.|||If it's something tiny like taste in food or clothing, that's fine, I don't care, as long as they don't try to impose it on me. Basically the same thing if it's a book or something--I'm a fan of...|||- My INTJ friend, who I LOVE because I can talk to her about basically anything (except really heavy stuff), and while she might have a completely different opinion, she will still accept and...|||Cutting people out of my heart, but not necessarily my life, because I can tell that trying to have a meaningful relationship is going to be far too emotionally draining for me. There have been some...|||My best friends can't understand how I'm not an ENFP. To me, though, the difference between how I act when I have something to talk about (with them, everything) and when I don't (basically every...|||Only if it's genuine, and a deeper relationship is *very* likely to occur, and the other person seems to be showing some interest back. But it can't go on for too long. Also, if someone is chasing...|||'Cause I won't go out with someone if I don't have a major crush on them already, and I find it hard/terrifying to have a crush on someone who isn't basically my best friend, and if someone is...|||I believe that literally anything can be beautiful if you look at it right. Even the most mundane things, like a chair; even dirty or ugly things like a clump of dirt. Honestly, even ugly things...|||I'm not such a big fan of the idea of an afterlife being perfect because then I feel like it doesn't do justice to the importance and possibilities of this one, so let's take this one as...|||Intp|||Yeah, talking about all that deep and emotional stuff just isn't up my alley. Take all your heart-to-heart shit somewhere else.|||I want to grab someone's hand and run until we get to someplace where it isn't raining anymore, and we can lie in the grass and talk about things people never talk about anymore...|||What I mean is, how do you feel it? Do you get strong physical reactions? Or is it more of a mental thing? And also, would you say you like feeling emotions, or do you tend to shy away from them?  ...|||Staaaaaaaaaaaaare. Make awkward eye contact. Never talk to them.|||Social: 38/50 Self Preservation: 28/50 Sexual: 43/50   Yes, yes, yes.   I have this weird problem. I know for sure that my dominant instinct is SX; I relate to practically everything in it....|||I couldn't help noticing that you and your parents have the exact same Enneatypes as me and mine...do you think there could be a pattern there? My mom is a 1w2, my dad a 9w1. My sister and I are both...|||I haven't met that many 4s, but I'm almost positive my younger sister is a 4w5 as well. We get along pretty well for siblings. I think we understand each other but also understand that the other...|||My walls are painted pale blue. One wall is completely covered with poems that I cut out from a magazine I get every month. There's also a small framed painting of an eagle over a waterfall in a...|||Yeah, I'm one of those people who listens to sad music when they're sad. I guess I can tend to over-dramatize my emotions, so I always like music that amplifies whatever I'm feeling, even if it's...|||I mean, I don't enjoy shopping just for the sake of shopping, but if I'm shopping for something I'm really into and if I'm not having too much trouble with it, then it's pretty fun. Finding a store...|||Oh, hey, I found this: https://scontent-b-ord.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc3/1534276_262096143949851_1615332416_n.jpg Not sure how canon or reliable it is, though.|||Technically if I could actually speak to my younger self I wouldn't tell her anything, because it might change the course of my life so that I wouldn't even realize those things at all. I think...|||I'm starting to wonder if what other people call love is actually entirely different from that thing I said I wanted so much. Is it even possible for two people to feel the degree of connection...|||Nothing is real. The thing that people call reality is really just the collective idea of what the majority consider is the truth. We can't ever know for sure whether we or the world around us is...|||I always have stuff scattered all over the floor of my room (I don't have any well-lit chairs or desks and so I spend most of my time lying on the floor), but I can clean it all up in five minutes if...|||INFJ, bat:  This is a decidedly nonconformist creature, for as an airborne personality, the bat tends to look down at the conventions of the ground animals. And yet, since it is not a true bird...|||According to this, I'm an ISFJ. Close--my actual type is INFJ! Well, I'm not entirely sure about my birth time, so that makes room for that particular error.  Personally, I've never had very much...|||1. What does your introspection involve? Usually how I feel and why. If I feel a certain way (or don't) and it confuses me, then I start searching myself, trying to figure out why. I mean, it's not...|||I can't always remember my dreams very clearly, but when I do, they're almost always positive. I hardly ever have a bad dream. (Actually, I take that back--just as I was reading this post, I...|||I'm a 4w5 5w4 9w1 (I could be a 495 though, I'm not sure). INFJ, sx/so.|||I've always felt like that. It's kind of weird, but ever since I was 8 years old, I've been searching for someone I could truly connect with, which in my head took the form of a romantic...|||Pumpkin pie. Happy Thanksgiving!|||bad synonym  There's a thesaurus a few feet away, but I didn't feel like getting it.|||Trying to avoid writing the 6 journals I have to catch up on for English class.|||That's very interesting. I always considered myself to be more sensitive than most other people (I'm a 4w5) and also much more of a crier. But there've been multiple times when I felt like I should...|||Black Rock Shooter Attack on Titan Beyond the Boundary Hetalia Kokoro Connect  Also, Hyouka and Mirai Nikki have the best opening and closing songs.|||ONES: w2 Apdenoatis: 1w2 2w1 5w6 sx/so (probably) Vaan: 1w2 3w4 7w6 sx/so Arkendale: 1w2 6w5 4w5 sp/so - w9 milli66: 1w9 4w5 so/sp Pterodactyl: 1w9 5w4 2w1 so/sx Lightside perspicacious: 1w9...|||I have dark brown eyes and I'm an INFJ.|||I've read that too. I'm an introvert and apparently have an anxious attachment style, which I think is ridiculous. Introversion and extroversion have nothing to do with bad parenting--some parents...|||I would definitely say that Eren is an F. As for your theory of creators of shows or books making the characters opposite to their types, that's pretty interesting. I'm an INFJ and I love to write;...'