'Someone who knows what the definition of reciprocity is.  Someone who can look past my flaws.  Someone kind, that wants to build a life with me, and my kind of pretty.|||You know what sucks?  When a particular close friend tells me that I don't appreciate her as a friend and feeling like I don't feel like they're being good enough.  I've shown time and time again how...|||We're here, somewhere.  Me personally I've been living like Thoreau did back in Walden Pond.  Except, not in the woods, and having internet connection.  So really, not exactly like Thoreau did.  Meh....|||After I posted I had emailed the same question to two of my mates in Wales and in London.  The Londoner texted me back saying that one of the major reasons why is that so few writers (1-2 usually)...|||Ugh, I wanted to post a Doctor Who question.  But since someone already beat me to it, here goes another one.  I love British television!  But why oh why are their series always either 6 episodes...|||1. In an intimate relationship I'd like to spend as much time as humanly possible with her.  Having said that, I'd still like for us to have our lives separate from each other to do the things we...|||Lol.  In my earlier years I was someone people would come to vent to, ask an opinion, or just have someone to listen to.  I just got it my friends would say.    There really is a lot to learn...|||Dear INFJ out in Virginia,  You have become an important person in my life.  It saddens me that we can't progress into something more than friends for now.  You know the kind of man I am and in...|||Mine is normal, I think.  Often times, because I have a soft voice, I am asked to speak up.  It's unpleasant because it sounds like I'm yelling inside my head.  It's a sharp contrast to my normal...|||A couple of things.  Is that Effie from Skins in your avatar?  And that creepy guy from Buzzfeed is awesome!|||What is a dumb way you've hurt yourself? > Touching the barrel of a recently fired weapon.  Those things are hot!  What noise annoys you? > Specifically, this guy with a Harley in my neighborhood...|||I can attest to this.  My personal experience in dealing with depression and PTSD, I had to really have myself broken down before I could begin to work on getting through the trauma and healing.  I...|||A little bit of both, really.  In the military, we were taught to have situational awareness.  It came natural to me because I've always observed my surroundings, whether I'm aware of it or not. ...|||I hate that I have an over-active brain that seems to be working at light-speeds regardless of how busy I'm keeping myself.  Thoughts are an endless current with no ebb or flow.  It's not even...|||You rock the short hair very well.  :)|||Ah, no worries!  Glad that you were able to get over it.|||Were they friends or family of yours?  It's unfortunate that they would joke about you're being quiet, especially since you said they knew why you have yet to find your voice.  It's great that you...|||I forgot to mention Jebediah and myexplodingcat in my you're welcome post.  Newb that I am!|||I've been doing that my whole life it seems.  I didn't realize it is an INFJ quality.  :)|||I don't remember which Exorcist it was (possibly the first but I'm not sure nowadays) but there is one scene from the movies that led to me fearing hallways for a very long time.  They were at the...|||Would you like to talk about them?|||Thank you for that.  It's amazing how simple words from a stranger can mean a lot.|||Same boat as you.  Maybe struggling in different ways but struggling nonetheless.|||I've been away awhile but just wanted to say you're welcome.|||Understandable.  I personally don't care much for his private habits.  He's a good actor who has played some interesting roles.  Also, he's part of this site called HitRecord which has been a good...|||Not sure if this belongs in this thread but I didn't know where else to post it.  But here goes.  How do you feel about Aldon Smith's 9 game suspension?  Was it too harsh or not enough?  Personally...|||Yeah, I think a lot of them are projecting their own inner demons as a way to make themselves feel better.  I guess where I'm coming from, the guy friends I used to have would never question why an...|||Damnit Mr. Cafebot!  Where was my awesome greeting?|||I was born into a Roman Catholic family, but rejected it when I started getting serious about science.  Since then I've tip-toed the line between atheism and agnosticism but now I just consider...|||It's going to get serious so I apologize in advance.  To my best friend.  I wish you could have came to me before you did what you did.  Maybe you did, and I just didn't realize it.  Forgive my 13...|||Having spent the last couple of years weeding out unessential people in my life, I find that I only have a handful of people I can be around.  I've gone most of this summer not socializing.  Other...|||I would ask him why he did what he did and not come to me for help.  19 years later and I still miss the guy.|||I used to be so enamored with European women.  It was the accents mostly.  Having spent a good amount of time in Europe, I felt like I was in heaven being surrounded by all these women with wonderful...|||I have so much to learn!  I'm completely lost by everything you guys are talking about :/  But that will come in time.  The girl I'm currently interested in is also an INFJ.  She's probably the only...|||I've never cared for societal pressure.  Being a 32 year old single male, most of my high school friends are married with children or have a SO.  My situation has always been difficult because the...|||Oooh, do tell.  What happened with you and JGL eh?  Actually, it's from Bloc Party.  Its one of my favorite song of theirs.|||I don't take many pics, so these selfies were taken by request.    186354 186362 186370 186378 186386  Yes, I like beanies.  Never am without one for some reason.|||It's been awhile since I wrote something substantial.  This is something I wrote back in '12.  I’ll meet you in a place I’ve never been before Where skies are faded blue and suns dance in wayward...|||Thank you Jack!  This site is a treasure trove of information.  I've also read that my type is extremely rare.  It probably would explain why I always felt out of place.  lol|||Hello and welcome!  I'm kind of in the same boat as you, so hopefully you'll meet some interesting and wonderful people :)|||INFJ here... I've never seen Treasure Planet but I probably would if I did watch it.  Quick browse on wiki tells me Joseph Gordon-Levitt voices the main character and he's my man crush!  But yeah,...|||If you're apprehensive about being an officer, you can enlist and come out of basic with an E-4 pay grade.  It's not much, but it still beats being a lowly E-1/2.    Anyway, you really have to ask...|||500 Days of Summer and I agree with Natalie Portman.|||I have a bro-crush on Zhao Yun from Romance of the Three Kingdoms.|||I'm still on that World Cup high so I'm alternating between FIFA 13 and Football Manager 14.  Madden came out recently so I'll pick that up soon..ish.  Eventually.|||Heya SiennaO, thanks for replying on my little thread.  :)  Anyway, as I'm still learning about my INFJ-ness, I might not answer your question fully but I'll try my best.    When I'm interested...|||Whatever happens tomorrow, we had today One Day   People don't realize this, but loneliness is underrated. 500 Days of Summer  Clementine Kruczynski: This is it, Joel. It's going to be gone...|||Thanks!  Well, I can be your INFJ friend named Jeff.  :wink:|||This is just a little short blurb about myself.  I've never really felt like I belonged anywhere even though I've been involved in a lot of social activities.  It wasn't until I took the MBTI test...'