'11Words of Affirmation 10Quality Time 6Physical Touch 3Receiving Gifts 0Acts of Service|||Khan academy can teach math to anyone who has a desire to learn.  Otherwise, I'd rather save my money and use it towards something more meaningful, like a can of Dr Pepper 10.  Public education,...|||yes this happens frequently|||I have friends and family that are ESFP, INFJ, INFP, and ESFJ - those of which don't bother me too much.  The ENFJ that I know really does bother me though.  I don't know why the ENFJ bothers me...|||Words of Affirmation Quality Time  that's how I can feel loved  Great question, I love love.  Love is a wonderful thing.  It's not something that you can entirely wrap your mind or heart...|||I like to test people to see if my own theories on their behavior patterns are correct.  It's sad that 90% of my tests (which I'm sure other INTJs have found too) show that people are pretty...|||I usually tap my tongue to the top of my mouth in some kind of rhythm if I'm thinking - or grit my teeth in the same fashion.  This behavior effects my breathing as I use it to produce a secondary...|||INTPs are interesting enough to get me talking with them past the simple niceties.  Most have a lot that you can learn from - most of my INTP friends have taught me some valuable lessons in life.|||I don't know if Fs are blind to neutrality or not - this thread simply emphasized that they scare me (especially Fe's after someone posted Extraverted Feeling ).|||Just found this to be very wise.  Very well said.|||I think he was referring (albeit very abstractly) to degrees, equal degrees in 3 directions (2 to x dimensions) suggesting equal pulls of thought in various directions of motive.  That or he has...|||<3 my ISTJs  Remember - they act boring, but their feelings are unscathed.  Break through and you'll be the only one to truly understand them.|||Which is why I think most INTJs don't really care if people call us an asshole.  At least we're independent to say what we think and feel (when we do feel).|||Some things in life just don't seem as important anymore as they did when I graduated college - and not just the obvious things, but the large picture priorities and goals.  The funny thing is I...|||I'm ADD (previously named ADD w/o) and I hate myself 99% of the time - which apparently is a result of just being ADD.  Being INTJ, it's hard for me to meet my own standards and lead others when I...|||I feel awkward explaining to you (a woman) that being friends and dating are different.  (They are, right?)    I don't start dating and make the plunge to marriage (or sex) unless I know 100%. ...|||Bottom Line:  No, I don't wait and I didn't wait to see if it would work.  Once I see something I absolutely want and have a generally good probability of success, I move in for the kill.  INTJs...|||I love it when my ISTJ wife get's all serious about a topic/argument - it's quite attractive. :crazy:|||On a very rare occasion - when intuition/logic, research, talking, working things through simply fail and I'm really really pissed off frustrated, I give my wife a big gentle hug and sit or stand...|||I don't disagree.  TheMorrigan replied suggesting that it wasn't hard for all INTJs to be accepted as is, insinuating TheMorrigan has a experienced the contrary either personally or from other...|||I'd say seemingly emotionally cold and removed as to give the feeling of independence - but is strategically involved behind the scenes in their kids lives, and the kids keep finding evidence of the...|||Way too much text in the full quote to read, fully process, and agree to everything with.  However, the above statement within the quote is spot on.  If I'm 100% truthful on what I think 100% of...|||The abstract 'us' was understood (meaning exceptions taken into consideration).|||Not clothes - please... if I wanted THAT style, I'd be wearing it already Not tools - I buy things I need Not movies - I don't buy movies, and I don't like most movies people like Not books - I've...|||Because we're smart, driven, sexy, and serious - plus we make it look good :wink:|||Pure evil only has an appetite for souls and uses all that is consumed for nutrients - there is no waste thus no need to use the restroom.|||INTJ replying to another INTJ on this is probably just throwing gasoline on the flames to put it out.... but... here I go =P  It appears that many feelers either don't know they want this or very...|||As long as you don't act like you know something you don't or make grand (all inclusive/exclusive) statements - you should be alright.  Nothing fires us up like talking with someone who clearly has...|||The ISTJ's I'm friends/family with like true/real friends or none.  The amount invested for a true and real friend to their standards is quite high and have troubles making friends (unless they meet...|||I love ISTJ family/friends.  They have a hard time understanding that I use devil's advocate and argue till I'm blue in the face to understand their point of views.    2 INTJs in a room is called...|||Conservative Libertarian INTJ (Christian)  Afganistan: Should leave as soon as possible but only when the country is stable and the Taliban destroyed. Military Spending: Efficient spending,...|||1) What do you think (or know for certain) are your parents' types? ISTJ ESFP 2) How are your relationships with your parents? Great 3) How have their types affected your own life (education,...|||When the relationship is a choice, you don't see the differences as frustrating as you do when your parents are a different type.  My dad is ISTJ as well.  Somehow it was way different and...|||Yes, I think that's a J thing - maybe a TJ combination.  By definition, useless information is information I can't use.  INTJs and ISTJs love life applicable information - albeit we may define...|||First and foremost, I want to thank you all for your posts - I've read them over several times.  The overall message I'm getting is:  Step 1) Beginners Book: Provides an initial knowledge base....|||I'm still passionately in love with my wife (ISTJ).  I just find you guys so interesting - how can you memorize so much information and be so humble?  I also love how ISTJs try so hard to always do...|||If I like them romantically and are interested in pursuing a romantic relationship:  1) If they show that they like me, and it's a high probability of a positive response, I simply ask. 2) If...|||My wife (ISTJ) has expressed a very serious interest to get her graduate degree in Bioinformatics.  She already has an undergrad in Biology and needs to learn software development as it will be...|||Nah - your resistance just makes us more interested. :wink:|||All the ENFPs in my life I think are awesome.  At first - when they go on their wacky random explosion I'm a little taken back - but then it's just so awesome that I can't not pay attention.  It's...|||She's not talking about what you think she is I'm thinking.  It's not about the content of what you're saying or doing but rather the way in which you say/present it.  Remember, it's about how she...|||I like to be the hug distributer I hate getting hugs or being felt like I have to hug someone - at least initially.|||It's a shame the OP asked such an insulting question.  A thread labelled Do INFPs have the capacity to be logical? would probably go over just as well in the INFP section.   Do INTJ's have the...|||This is spot on - I hate being asked this question because I don't want to discuss what I'm doing AND the presumption that I'm angry actually pisses me off.  INTJ :frustrating: Thinking...|||Great analysis Elwood.  Feasible: capable of being done with means at hand and circumstances as they are  We are just as enthusiastic at discussing and debating feasible ideas/solutions as you...|||Haa haa - I ask this to my ISTJ wife all the time (and she asks me too).  Indeed do we misread each other frequently!|||Some people can't stand certain medicine, among them is reality - which we provide in spades.  No sugar for you - this medicine is going down now!    We think it's being nice actually - it's not...|||Code Geass was just that interesting, the fan service almost killed the anime imo but the story and character development was what kept me coming back for more.  I guess you could say that T&A is fan...|||You don't Have to do anything - especially pay for a test.  With that said, you really do sound like an ISTJ.|||http://img412.imageshack.us/img412/7568/cgrr07.jpg  Checkmate    Because chess is indeed fun with human lives.'