'http://thoughtcatalog.com/heidi-priebe/2015/04/heres-the-most-attractive-thing-about-you-based-on-your-myers-briggs-personality-type/]http://http://thoughtcatalog.com/heidi-priebe/2015/04/heres-the-m...|||Changed my mind about posting. :)|||Cute enfps!!!|||My last 2 bosses were my age and they couldn't understand why I didn't want to move up in the company. I just never want to be a manager. In my field of work, that's waaaaay too much responsibility....|||I think it's because I trust who the person says they are. I don't think they have ulterior motives. I trust myself and am an honest person so I think others are the same. While I'm good at reading...|||I only had like 2 b's. lol|||intj: cold in the outside but warm on the inside ... and sexy :-P intp: warm on the outside but cold on the inside ... heartbreakers :-( entj: warm on both the outside and inside ... narcissistic...|||I always identified with Maryanne from Sense and Sensibility. I know it's lame-o classics from yesteryear but I feel like my life is just like her life. Only I don't want to end up with Colonel...|||My old boss is estj and I would laugh at how similar she is to my best friend who are both the same age. But the thing is, my old boss could never understand me. My best friend gets me better than I...|||I could have written this question. I am also type 4. I definitely grieve the loss of the fantasy. It sucks so much when it doesn't work out. I don't think any of my potential relationships would...|||When I was young and very insecure I was a major people pleaser ... but only b/c I needed external validation for my self worth. The older I get and the more mature I get, I find that I really don't...|||My bestie is estj ... not sure how that happened. I like Ns as friends mostly. There's some kind of amazing connection that happens when we are together. i can spot an N just in body language. :P|||I trust everyone. I'm too open. I idealize and fall in love too easily. *sigh* I don't know how to change.|||As I said, the clue to knowing a projection has occurred is the peculiar feeling of intense fascination or obsession with a man whom she will feel is her ideal mate. He, of course, unless he has a...|||Hmmmm, very interesting. I will have to google that ...|||He says he always tests as intp but for some reason when he reads the descriptions he identifies with istp. We both agree he can't be defined! lol   He's really wonderful.|||He comes In a few days! I am soooo excited! :D|||In his defense he went through a horrible divorce and once even told me that he doesn't trust love. I think maybe he wanted to have me and liked the idea of it, but the reality of it would have been...|||True! :D|||All of the INTJ males that I have met (2 not including my father) have issues with verbalizing feelings. The first guy I was so in love with for more than 10 years actually finally rejected me -...|||I don't pursue the reasons because I don't think it's a problem. I'm just not for them and they are not for me. :)|||I have a weird dynamic with intj's. I think it's b/c my father is one. I am Daddy's little girl and we get along fabulously! So ... whenever I meet a male intj I revert back to almost being like a...|||Quick thinker here. Sometimes I say/type things and then have to back track or re-read to see if it makes sense. If I am talking I almost always have to ask: Does that make sense? If it doesn't...|||Wow! All of the signs are there. Don't think about it, just be a man and go for it. Don't hesitate and overthink things as you intjs tend to do.|||Yeah, sometimes. Then people invasively ask me for my thoughts bc I'm normally so carefree and bubbly. It's annoying because: A. I haven't processed them yet to know what to say or how to explain...|||lol ... comparing that answer to all the enfps. :P|||I agree .... tragicomedy. Hoping the ending will be happy though! *sigh*|||[QUOTE=Space Ryder;22523666]Yeah.   Like this:  419978  That's funny! I mean I've rented apartments where people have died in them ... but they aren't haunted and I definitely didn't tell them...|||lol!!!!!!|||lol! Do you mean a specific apartment? I have never heard of such a thing!!!|||End it. Sounds very, very unhealthy.|||I would go back to being 10 years old, not gain weight, confidently deal with the bullies, shrug off the lack of love and affection from my parents and pursue my life's dream of being a singer! :D|||huh?|||I'm the opposite, I think everyone likes me! :P  Of course I know deep down inside that not everyone does and that I can be annoying and obnoxious to some people, but I tend to read too much into...|||I'm definitely not a planner BUT if someone wants to make plans with me and I am already free at the time and I want to do it, I go unless in an emergency.   I haven't always been like this. I used...|||I compare myself to my male esfp coworker. He is A LOT more emotionally driven than I am. He is also REALLY into working out and making himself as attractive as possible. He's very attention seeking...|||I could care less if someone thinks I'm being fake or not. I know I'm not fake. I treat life organically, let things unfold. I never have a plan, I just respond authentically in every situation. So,...|||Nope. No one needs unnecessary drama. I wouldn't shun them, but I wouldn't make them a priority in my life anymore.|||Okay I had to think about this one bc there are not a whole lot of people I dislike. I guess if I didn't like someone they would see that I just tolerate them instead of being warm, friendly, open...|||I'm about to have the absolute most perfect date ever in 4 weeks! He is taking me to the Florida Keys and we are camping on the beach, going snorkeling, parasailing, jet skiing and kayaking!!!! But...|||I wear dresses and dress very feminine. I love showing my curves! :D|||Nope. Out of sight is definitely not out of mind! The love and caring will always be there, picking up right where we left off! Unless it was an awkward friendship/relationship and it was left badly....|||http://youtu.be/bxlLAdXypCY|||I used to play piano but I stopped.   I've been singing my entire life and actually went to school for it. Now I sing on the worship team at my church. :)|||WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 11 days?? I want to elope too! I think it's so romantic. :D|||I'm really good at reading others UNLESS it comes to attraction. I don't know why, but I suck at knowing whether someone likes me or not. I ALWAYS think they do! Which is CLEARLY not the case! LOL ...|||Can I answer 200 and be ok? It's just way too long.|||ixtj for sure!|||I actually like my negative traits. Is that weird?? I mean, it's certainly not convenient to be unorganized and bad with money ... but I am working on those things! I believe anyone can improve if...|||Really good advice! :thumbsup'