'Jaime91 It seems to me that you are in need of control in regard to what you and your husband are doing on dates and holidays as a way of making up for a lack of control in regard to something else....|||Haha, I wish :P I have never been popular. I have always been a nerd who took school seriously and never did anything to gain popularity among the cool kids. :)|||Perfect! Thank you, Sapphire Sage! I placed them in this order: dgheafcb, which ended up being Fe-Ti-Ne-Si  Te-Se-Fi-Ni. Does everyone with a specific personality type have to have the stereotypic...|||TheJ I have used many tests. They all type me as F and J, but the E/I and N/S vary. Also I wanted to learn more about the cognitive functions, and I thought that if I wrote some examples of how I am...|||Sapphire Sage What do you mean dominant previewed or judger? Just J or P?|||Sapphire Sage I have gotten some feedback that say I use Ne instead of Ni. Do you agree? I'm actually now thinking I'm ESFJ, because I use Ne and Ti as well as Fe a lot. When I do tests my F/I and...|||Buttahfly I've studied Thea more now, and I know I relate to Fe, Ne and Ti. Probably also Si. I'm leaning towards ESFJ, but with a well developed Ne Ti maybe.|||Yes they do, but don't ESFJs do it more?|||You weren't offensive. To seem like an ESFJ is not a negative thing, thereby pointing it out to someone isn't offensive. I posted the scores to you, an INTP, because I thought it was funny that I...|||I agree that they are quite easy to tell apart. I have many INTP guy friends, and while I'm always reliable when it comes to appointments, they are not. They play a lot of video games, I do not. I...|||I know:) Ti-Ne-Si-Fe vs Fe-Si-Ne-Ti Not that different after all despite being complete opposites in the MBTI letters.|||deviantcode Funny enough, this was the resultat of my cognitive functions test yesterday :P|||@deviantcode This was Fe. ESFJs are more than Fe :)|||I think I'm ESFJ. I think this site is really interesting. However, my only reason for sometimes wanting to leave is the stigma and judgemental attitude that ESFJs seem to experience in here. It's...|||I think I'd prefer an NF over NT any day, if that's any comfort. Which it probably isn't, because I probably belong to a type that is far below any NF in popularity on this site. In fact I think it's...|||Hi Pinina! Thanks for your reply! I think you're right. After having learned a bit about Ne Ni and Te Ti, I recognise Ne more than Ni, and Ti a lot more than Te. I'm not sure about my ESE result...|||Yes, that's what I'm in the process of now. It's just that I haven't understood them all yet. Fe/Fi I think I understand well, and I can relate to both of them, but especially Fe. The list I...|||So it's been a year since the last post, but I'm still doing this :P I posted some facts about myself in a few groups to learn what kind of cognitive functions I often use (apparently it was Ne and...|||First: I meant that I think I am xxxJ Second: Interesting! So I seem to be using Ne quite a lot in general, then, based on both your answers:)  Thank you so much for helping me! Really appreciate...|||Thank you so much for your nice feedback! You make an excellent point. Of course it doesn't matter which personality type you fit into - you will always be an individual first with your own personal...|||That's very interesting, thank you!  I was quite certain I was judging, though, but I really appreciate other ideas. If I may, I'd like to give one other exampel I'd like to know the function of: ...|||I have a list of qualities I was wondering if you could help me place into a letter, a cognitive function or a personality type. Since it is not a very long list I naturally accept many...|||I have a list of qualities I was wondering if you could help me place into a letter, a cognitive function or a personality type. Since it is not a very long list I naturally accept many...|||I have a list of qualities I was wondering if you could help me place into a letter, a cognitive function or a personality type. Since it is not a very long list I naturally accept many...|||On a scale from 1-10 how:  1. Happy are you? 5  2. Socially skilled are you? 8  3. Lazy are you? 4  4. Emotional are you? 9|||247154 Drew my bosses as superheroes because just taking a picture was too boring :)|||I hardly ever cried groing up. Now I cry every now and then. If movies touch me, especially if someone in the movie gets hurt or very disappointed, I cry. But also sometimes from a happy ending (no,...|||Before knowing anything about MBTI, I had an INTP boyfriend. We got along fine mostly because we had fun, and could joke about the same things. Only problem was, he hurt my feelings all the time. I...|||I do that too! :D I'm quite often online, though my impression is that ESFJs mostly are out with friends. My problem is, I'm not really that popular :P Also, my E and S are quite weak, even though...|||Math has always been my favorite subject. Probably because it was logical and therefore easy, and also it involves a lot of tidying up (equations and such) which I for some reason have always liked....|||I can't answer your question. I don't know the types of all scientists, or even some for that matter. There may be none. That just doesn't prove anything in my opinion. Not being a genious does not...|||To change your sentence slightly: Also please point out the SIGNIFICANT contributions to the intellectual fields (look at Newton (INTJ) and Einstein (INTP)) YOU've made, to confirm the idea that YOU...|||I do not have to stroll the Internet for an ESFJ genius to reject the statement of ESFJs being stupid. It doesn't matter. You are not smart just because Newton shared your personality type. I wish...|||Are INTPs in general extremely judgemental and generalising, or is that just you as an individual? I am sure you don't know the type of every person you meet, and when you meet someone you see as...|||Thank you for answering me! And sorry I'm so late at responding to your much appreciated answers:)  He might be INTP, ISTP or ISFP as you have suggested. I thought maybe ISFPs had better eyes for...|||So, I have great trouble identifying my fathers personality. He took a test giving him XSFP, but taking a cognitive functions test the most dominant functions were Fe Ni Te Se (and then Ti Si Fi Ne)...|||Now I feel more confused than ever. Which personality types should I look more into? Or could I actually be any, from all the things I've written? Maybe I have NO personality :P|||Thank you so much, Grim! I think I am more externally focused, but I will try to be more aware of that in future situations. I have just bought my first apartment and cannot wait to have my friends...|||Grim Maybe you have a comment too? I heard you were good at this:)|||That's very true. Bad traits often come with good, though, and ESFJs are good to be around when you go through something sad and difficult. No judgement, only comfort. :)|||Thank you so much for your feedback:) You may be right. I wish I could find examples of how ISFJs and ESFJs wold behave in different situations so I could compare myself to them. With my friend, I...|||I am already considering it. But I'm still also considering ESFJ because when I hear a description of ISFJs being private and don't express themselves with ease that's not me. As I said I can open up...|||What do you mean by this? I know every personality type has every cognitive function, but when I take the cognitive functions tests, Fe, Fi, Si  and Te are alway on top. Ti and Ne are always amongst...|||Thank you for replying:) Sorry about the stupidity thing, it's just, I've read it so many places now. And those who defend the ESFJs say that they aren't stupid, just smart in a different,...|||Hi, hope someone can give me some insight as to which personality type I may be.   I've used to think of myself as an ESFJ, but lately I'm considering ISFJ. I have taken several MBTI tests, and my...|||This is why you dislike ESFJs? :)|||Hi all you sweet, sweet people. ESFJ here! Must be annoying disliking every tenth person you come across, huh? I've now read quite alot about my type and understood it's one of the least liked types...|||I got INTP, so I guess it works :) I'm ESFJ with a weak E :P|||I believe the meaning of life is nothing. I'm not here for any other reason than coincidence. However, it's up to me to make the best of it, and I am free to do so:)|||Haha, I'm picturing it:)'