'https://www.google.co.in/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwjomb-H1IPMAhVCv5QKHYdLDmQQqQIIHTAA&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ted.com%2Ftalks%2Flinus_torvalds_the_mind_behind_li...|||I am an ENFP in a long marriage with an INTP man.  I can tell you a few things about these relationships.    The ugly: * INTPs tell the truth (as they understand) as it is.  The ENFP feels pretty...|||angelfish - you sure come across as a very empathic person. :)  Thank you for reassuring me.  I have been desperate to hear that I am OK. :D :D|||Bella2016 : Oh... I understand.  Didn't see this coming, though.  Lots to think about.  Thanks for the comment.|||I am so glad you wrote in, angelfish !  The social-strong qualities you have listed above surprise me.  No wonder then that I don't fit.  If these are considered to be 'good behaviours', then I...|||And I hope I don't come across in my original post as someone who is judgemental towards ISFPs overall.  That is not at all my intention.|||:-)  This is reassuring.  So, it is not a lost cause, after all.    Thank you, this is helpful.    This.  Thank you,  alittleflower .  It does make me feel better.  Like you said, the most...|||I am not pandering, but this group has been helpful when I have asked questions in the past.  So, I am back here. :)  I live in an environment with a large number of Introverted Sensing types -...|||Thank you for the very contained and calm response @cferguson ; I appreciate it. :)  Yes, I understand how the ENFP bubbling-over-with-enthusiasm response to INTJs can get ingratiating.  But you...|||LoL!  This *had* to happen, right?  This is the thing with the internet - it is hard to perceive correctly from written text.  OK, speaking of shame, I am not sure what you will feel when I tell you...|||He is an anti-tradition person, so that particular aspect of an ISTJ does not fit him at all.  He is thorough with following processes - especially those that he has put together.  The same level of...|||hmm... He had tested clearly as INTJ.  So, I am using that as the basis for believing that he is one.  :)  But the reason I wanted to know if INTJs could be this way was over the afore-listed traits...|||Hello.  A friend of mine who seems to be an INTJ somehow defies certain stereotypes of the type.  I am trying to find out if he still qualifies as an INTJ.  These are:  1. He doesn't read much,...|||OK, what else would you rather do?  (I am sorry, I missed putting in the None of the Above option in the poll.)|||People, one more question.  Sorry to bother, but I am trying to be as non-troublesome as possible to one of your kinsmen! :)  Should I just quietly back off or mention explicitly that I have...|||This is interesting.  So, in your ideal world, people don't ask for help and don't offer it to others either?  Every man an island, almost? :)|||Oh what an offer!  I am quite happily married to an Intuitive Thinker, thank you! :-)  I hope you find someone very nice for yourself - it can only help that you are so readily available! ;)|||Very impressively productive and sorted, I must say.  However, what I glean from this post as the answer to the original question is: * On short flights, you work * On longer flights, you take a...|||You are observant. :)  I am asking this for two reasons. 1) Behaviour of people on a plane is counter-intuitive to me.  When in a captive space, for a long period, with other people sitting at...|||Ouch... not nice, I agree! :)|||Odd question, because I am trying to understand our behaviour as people on a plane.  It beats intuitive logic a little for me - if people are in a relatively safe, captive space at *very* close...|||Hello ENFPs.  Can you help me with this survey, please?  How would you spend your time on a long-haul flight?  What would be your answer if it were a short ride?  Thanks much!|||Hello dear ENFJs.  Pray tell me, how do you like to spend time on a long flight?  Would you do something different if you were on a short flight?  Please answer the poll and post comments for...|||Hello! How do you spend time on a long-haul flight?  Would your answer change if it were a short ride?|||So tell me, how do you like to spend time on a long-distance plane journey?  What about a short-haul flight?|||Hello ESFJs!  How do you like to spend time on a long flight?  What about on a short flight?  Many thanks for your poll response and comment. :)|||Hello.  How do you prefer to spend time on a long-distance flight?  Would your answer be different if it were a short flight?|||How do you prefer to spend time on long flights?  Would your answer be different if it were a short flight?|||How do you prefer to spend time on a long flight?  What if it is a shorter flight?|||How does your type spend time on a long flights?  What if it were a short flight?|||Oh man! I am blown away!  Thank you, sincerely, ferroequinologist ! You have no idea how much sense you are making - to the point I am thinking you are probably right at my cubicle-side, watching the...|||Hello.  How does your type like to spend time on a long flight?  Would your answer be different if it were a short flight?  Please use the comments option to respond, after taking the poll.  Thank...|||How do you spend time on a long flight?  Would it be different from that of short flights?|||So, how does your type (INTJ) spend time on a long flight?  Would it be different if you were on a short flight?|||You are very perceptive to come to this hunch without any details whatsoever. :)  That's my guess too, being in the thick of things.  That said, what I am trying to find out is how the person became...|||@cypherpixy, Petitpelerin, IncoherentBabbler, Huginn : Thank you for taking the time to read the long post and reply thoughtfully.  Thank you for not being patronizing or questioning my motives and...|||If you are on a long flight, how would you spend time?  Would your answer be different if it were a short flight?  Please use post responses if you want to indicate the differences.|||If you were on a long flight, what would you prefer to do, ISFP?  If it is a short flight, would your answer be different?|||Survey time.  How does your type prefer to spend time on a plane?  Think of the longest plane journey you have been on.  What's your preference?  Would it change if it were a shorter flight?|||People,  Help me here.  Is it an ISTP thing or may be it is one individual in a particular circumstance.  I am trying to find out which one; and if it is a generic thing common to many in the...|||Hmm... I have got this feedback before from an ISFP too, ferroequinologist.  However, when I did lay out the problem point-by-point with factual evidence and a note for each point about how it can be...|||ISFPs, help me here.  Suppose you are in a job that requires you to do things in a certain way.  You aren't necessarily aligned with that, but need to do what you are asked to do (because, that's...|||Oddly, he found himself another job and decided that this place wasn't right for him anymore!  Oh well...|||I don't know many INTJs who talk non-stop! Actually, I don't know *any* that does.  However, on a topic that they are interested in, they can talk sufficiently.|||Oh yes, I forgot to mention that! :) Good point.  Do ENFPs ever completely forgive themselves?|||Do other ENFPs do this? In areas of disagreement with the other, the progression I have seen is like this:  Passive (Compromising, bending over backwards to please) --> Neutral (Cooperative,...|||And yes, an overlooked Fi in an ENFP is capable of mischief. Thanks for bringing this insight up. I hadn't realised, but it is very important, indeed! Thank you, Rainbow Catfactory|||Thank you, for the validation. :)|||INTJ women with ENTJ men seem like a good match - I know from two such families.  Very successful.  I have also seen successful INTJ man + ESFJ woman - no idea why or how this works, but these are...|||g_w : Thank you for your comment and commendation. :)'