The bulk of humanity is just evil.....I want my naive un cynical perspective back. *sigh*|||Ahhh how is it down there? I've never been but I want to. I'm no longer in Tyler now...moved to an awful part of the state. *gags*|||I feel kinda weird...I like *and AM* being structured, I have a routine, I like my stuff clean and organized. It does get messy but that's usually just when I'm in a hurry or too sick or tired *I...|||Oooo I do this too. Its weird, I used to not, then I kinda forced myself to learn to extrovert. Now I personally feel, I'm tired a lot and don't want to look tired so if I feel nervous/uncomfortable...|||I honestly don't remember what version it was, I was a kid, I just remember it being on the Disney channel or something like that, lol. Definately.|||I'm INFP and HSP :) so, I could understand how a lot of INFJ's might fall into this since y'all have a relatively strong Se? Correct? Even though I'm Si, I still am HSP, from what I understand its...|||Yes, I suppose that would be true, but being type 7 is an idea generating Enneatype, always looking for possibilities. What about the functions he prefers above? Si and Se?  *Confusing*  I...|||I have to confess I've never read pollyanna though I saw the movie a long time ago....:X|||Very wise words, thank you. But I don't feel like I'm tryping his persona, simply because we are both very authentic people. We both have personas and can see them in each other when we get around...|||He said generating. ??|||Ok I feel bad about it taking so long to reply, since you nice people bothered typing out a reply for me. I got sick with the flu for 2 1/2 weeks and was down. I read the above descriptions to him...|||Omgoshness I ha e to read all these now, it never alerted me that I had replies and I checked over a few days then got sick and *forgot* so glad I got some replies! Didn't think I would! Ok!!!|||Well I believ in Soulmates ;)....before we were married we actually started connecting, he has this paranormal psychic ability (though its toned down some now) where though we were seperated my...|||It happened to me. No joke, found me my INFP and we connect on all metaphycial levels. *bliss*|||I have tried to figure it out myself for a while now, and I (and he) can't really tell if he uses Dom Fi, or Ne. He thinks he is INFP because he doesn't see himself as an extrovert. We both can...|||Mother: ENFJ Father: ISTJ Sis: ESFP (half sister)|||Wow. Wow. Reading this was like indulging in a melancholy book of poetry. It was beautiful, albeit painful, for you. You write beautifully; its like art. And I have to say, after reading all of...|||Internally* not externally|||I suppose more or less. But even though I have Fi Dom and make my value judgements and interpretations externally, I still use Fe and am aware of social context and expectations and do my best to...|||Keep in mind, btw, her Enneagram type could influence how she came across. Fi is moreso a value judging tool than so much a motivator on how we act. My husband is also Infp, Dom Fi, but he reacts and...|||I hadn't really thought of that..thank you for bringing the societal thing to light. I guess that makes sense, women are expected to be emotional whereas men are not in society....so dumb. Ugh. ...|||This is just going out on a limb but I wonder if female dom Fe or Fi have higher unhealthy emotional states......hmm hmm hm|||Thank you <:) I do understand that those cases were probably where they were unhealthy. I can verbally lash out too, so I'm no saint.  Maybe its just parents, in general, lol  I will confess I...|||Please don't apologize for feeling this way. I also have and Enfj mother and she did the EXACT SAME THING to me. I look back on my teen years as living hell for me, all because of mother. She wanted...|||THANK YOU! I only wish there were more men who felt this way than not.  As a happily married woman, I can say sex for me, was saved for my one true partner and its beautiful exclusivity of a deep...|||My brother in law is an arrogant insensitive little prick that think all the other 7 billion people on this planet should see through his retarded eyeballs. He oozes self-righteous bullshit and I...|||I love traveling, its my dream, the problem is having the money to do it. Plan on going to hawaii in the near future. Haven't been outside the States yet, but it will happen. :)|||I listened to music and it helped get my thoughts a little clearer. Thanks for the advice, I will try it all in hopes of getting it more structured. I think a lot of it has to do with my confidence....|||So I feel I'm in a bit of a quandry.  In some ways I ain't typical Infp, I can be decisive, agressive, organized, opinionated, argumentative, outspoken, controlling...  Used to think I might be...|||I am so unhappy. I've been married for 7 mths and am having problems. My spouse has been lying and dishonest to me, and I just keep pouring my time and love into him. We moved to a tiny, ugly,...|||Best explantion I've heard by far and iive heard a lot. :)|||Dear oompah loompah,  Why did you wound me? Why did you share your grief with me, taking your pain and placing it on my shoulders until it crushed me? Why did you leave such huge scars on my...|||Stressed, confused, frustrated, hurt, sad, anxious, uptight, tense, concerned, uncertain, indecisive, boggled and COMPLETELY Overwhelmed.|||Great. We are squeezing things together by trying to have it all done in two weeks time, and now my fiancees shirt is backordered and there's no telling if it would be here in time. Life is grand!!...|||So I just set the date for my wedding, and in I suppose typical Ne fashion its 2 weeks away, and then learn my fiancee is being laid off in 2 weeks and has to find a new job. I just quit my job to...|||Wow you guys are great!! And so encouraging...I was insecure enough to not expect a reply.  Ectoplasmic: im working on talking to people more, starting to resort to internet convos more because I...|||Hey all,  I finally decided to post about this, after researching this site to the ground about others experiences, I want to know if anyone had some advice or has had similiar experiences to mine....|||Im lonely, and my fiance is in Penn, working. Its a gorgeous day out, and I took my puppy for a walk. Then the fatigue started kicking in and my body didn't want me to continue my slow stroll much...|||Numb. Lonely. Sad. Longing. Wishing. Hurting. Aching. Uncertain. Bored. Tired. Weary. Dissapointed.|||I wish I could escape even though im not being threatened anymore. Reactions from complex ptsd perhaps? Desire to flee everything that reminds me of my past....begin a completely new slate. If it was...|||Hey im almost 21 female infx, engaged, looking for some new similiar minded friends. :) if u are from the tyler or east texas area and possibly want to meet up let me know!! I don't have many friends...|||Im an infx and honestly am hungry for like minded peeples to be with. I was just curious if there's any inf's around the East Texas area that are interested in possibly maybe meeting up and making...|||So I've been working a lot more. And we hired some new girls, and I don't like them. They're snotty and ignore me a lot, because im a threat somehow. I know what im doing I feel confident about it,...|||So my fiance is off again...and im left alone with my dog in a messy app. Tired and sad. He's so mcuh to me...my inspiration, my happiness. Its so hard when he has to leave for this job of his. I...|||I might have a bit of a rant on thi thread, just because of having to deal with some pain regarding idealism.   Is there really any such thing as ideal? Granted if you believe in a higher power...|||I enjoy art/writing. But when I try and do it, I fall so short of my own expectations that it kills my inspiration. I want to create, I need to find my passion, my kefi. But...I would so rather be...|||I wish I had a twin....not identical though....that would make it hard for my uniqueness. Swimming is awesome!!! But being alone in activities where you don't know anyone sucks!! I wouldn't do it...|||The functions test was good, thanks!!!!|||Very helpful article, ty!!!|||After doing a functions test and reading others experience of Fe, I've come to the conclusion im still what I originally thought....an infp, hehe