I have an IQ of 134. I'm not a genius, but I'm above average.|||Couldn't you just let me move on? Why did you have to gift me that at the time when i really, really just wanted to get over you?|||I haven't posted in this thread or in this site because I knew that most of the advice said by INFP members here made sense - that I had no chance in hell with the INFP I liked. So I tried to do the...|||Just an update. So I've tried to forget about her and just move on with my life, when she's again stuck a dagger to my heart by painting me a picture of my favorite character without any provocation...|||So how do you guys suggest I address this predicament? I laid my cards out on the table. I said that I honestly did not receive any of her messages, and that I sent her three messages in a week that...|||I made some posts regarding an INFP I was heavily interested with more than half a year ago. I believed she had a falling-out with me, although I didn't know why, and thought that she hated me for...|||I'm single at 24. And I still consider myself young. :)|||Academically speaking, I'm probably superior to a lot of people judging from my track record. But I suck in most forms of physical sports, and am not doing to well in the things I have little...|||I like posting in INFP threads because I seem to be attracted to INFPs and have first-hand experience with rejection from them. I find INFPs to be attractive because of their unique, geeky, and often...|||Not an INFP, but I've had the misfortune of falling in love with an INFP and only realizing it was unrequited in the first place. I realize that the lady I liked was an emotional chameleon: she was...|||I am in no way rich. I would also never brag about what I've done, because while I have my pride, I am not proud. It's not Sean, as well. But I may be led on. I don't know. I guess that's that. :) ...|||Jesus, no! I knew she would hate that. Because they had issues within their group I just asked for his phone number that I could give it to her. But yes, that was quite stupid of me. And she...|||I didn't check her out behind her back. It was posted on her Facebook. I just tried to act accordingly so that I didn't step on any mines. I asked her directly what she wanted in life and where she...|||Lad  She doesn't tell me anything. She neither compliments nor says bad about me. I actually have plans of just saying it to her straight because I don't ask her for anything, and just try to be...|||@Sily  @Hammerhand  I tend to overthink things a lot. Sometimes it's hard for me to stand back. She took an exam that approximated her MBTI on her FB. I'm floored. Four years, huh? I'm not...|||I tried to do a lot in three months and three months is a good amount of time. I'm really sorry if you weren't able to read it, but I tried to be exhaustive enough.|||I have had been afraid of taking the plunge and risking my heart for nearly 24 years, because I didn't want to be hurt. I didn't want to risk going out of my mental experiments, because while it...|||It's hard, not only for INFPs, for I think for most people. But sometimes they've got to be done despite the possibility of failure. Like, for example, yesterday I sang in front of a crowd for the...|||I am an INTP guy but I have been told by most of my friends to be quite effeminate even though I'm fully convinced of my orientation and my desires for women. I don't think it's solely limited to...|||It's me again. Despite my being hurt, I took your suggestions and waited. Yesterday was a major exam for her, because it was something she was very sensitive against (dissection). I just asked her if...|||I learned to stop being an asshole after I was one my entire high school life. I've excelled in the hard sciences and math, and am an avid writer, so that fits me. Somehow, however, I feel that I've...|||Exactly. Thank you for the succor. I wanted to let her know that I cared beyond the little chats and the small messages, and I tried it anyway. It's my first time putting my heart out there, so yes,...|||I guess I failed today. It hurts like hell, too. Well, she said she drank some tea, so I came by with a warm cup in the preparation she preferred. She didn't receive the cup. I think she was just...|||I prefer to die alone than to be with somebody I don't love. At least I won't be dragging anyone along with me, and my conscience will be clear that I tried to look for that one love without...|||I think that INFPs are guarded for the most part precisely because they are afraid of that rejection. I don't take that against them. As an INTP (hanging around INFP threads because I want to know...|||Good luck. God, I hope she's like you! haha Her text messages have this warmth to it recently that even someone as relatively insensitive as me could feel. She does send me a message after some time...|||I am an INTP, and I'm also interested in an INFP. I can't speak for most of my kind, but I can speak for myself. I think it's important that you find out what he's passionate about, and broach him on...|||I like a shy INFP but I'll take my time getting to know her bit by bit. I think I've sent enough signs that I like her, and she's been warming up to me for the past few weeks, but I don't know if...|||I should stop. But ironically, it's what I lack in that's telling me not to. You guys have all wonderful points, but my gut is telling me not to stop. Recently, she just messaged me out of the blue...|||Thank you for your replies. I guess I just didn't want to admit it. I could honestly say I'm not clingy or obsessive, however. I message her, and if she doesn't reply, I don't pursue the matter. I...|||It sometimes disturbs me not being replied to ... but then I try to think that there are other things that these people deal with that may disallow them from replying with speed. It still doesn't...|||After all this time, I'm still confused. So it's been more than a month now and I've already drank a bit of beer just to kill all expectation, as it's what really kills the hope of budding...|||Don't worry, I have had no doubts of being an INTP. I have had been atheist and gone through the stages of rebellion, but I have foremost discovered that parents need to be respected despite their...|||I would like to be her girlfriend, but I would like to be her friend first. I think they're different goals, but yes, it can be considered as an ulterior motive, I guess. It didn't come out as a joke...|||I have faith that I have been raised well, and raised never to toy with women. I am honestly confident that if I exerted myself, just getting into women's pants really wouldn't be difficult - but...|||Um ... getting into her pants seem so ... far away. I'm not even thinking about that, frankly. That's until after marriage.   And yes, these are my values. I'd try my best to be a good friend, and...|||I like you knowing that you're not the traditional girl. I like you knowing that you eschew most of society, that you prefer tea to coffee, that you like sitting alone watching movies instead of...|||So I wanted to set things straight with her and asked her if I offended her, after wanting to talk to her alone. She said that she was sorry that she was uncomfortable, but she wasn't offended. Then...|||I wish I knew where I stood with you. I think you already know I like you, but you've moved away so quickly; I simply would like to know if I still have a chance, because you'll miss out on a great...|||You got me. I keep on thinking of different ways of failure and it's really bothering me. Yes, I've become really anxious with myself. Thank you very much. It's something that's really quite...|||I know that I am pitiful, but I've thought about it and I'd like to keep on chasing her despite her shying away from me. I know I have little hope, but the fact that she still talks intermittently...|||People have told me that I'd make a wonderful partner. I think it's because I often take note of what I feel I need to and remember them, although I seriously doubt that I have the ability of being a...|||You guys were right. I asked her how she was, and she said she was a bit miffed with the chocolates. I asked sorry from her, but she's replied to my messages again, so ... even if I'll probably end...|||Thank you for your advice.   I think it's over. You guys are right, I think I moved too awkwardly, not having experience in this field, and she no longer replies to my messages. I won't disturb her...|||Reading through these posts, I guess we're quite similar with INFPs. I enjoy being alone most of the time, and while I love talking about complex topics that I enjoy, I'm often silent and don't...|||I have a question: sorry for the bump. What goes into your heads whenever someone who seems to be interested in you asks a question? She's gone once again into that state of not replying ... although...|||Yeah, I tried to write her good luck a week ago with a poem. I'm not sure whether she took it the wrong way, but I tried that, heh. I'll try to look for a good gift with butterflies. Thank you. It's...|||I'm not sure whether I've laid all my cards on the table as yet, but how do you create mystery? I admit that being forthright about myself has removed a part of that, but how can I re-awaken this...|||Thank you! I will most definitely try, even if I seem to have butterflies in my stomach from a lack of confidence!    Well, she broached the idea that she was boring and weird. I replied that I...|||Thank you. I'll try to change it up a bit once in a while, probably if she doesn't reply to a text of mine. We don't usually chat for long periods of time, because I only catch her after classes. I'm...