'search for INFJs Are Awesome on FB . It is a closed group with a community of folks who are INFJ.  I like the group very much :)|||Your Preferences: Introversion (I): |||||||||||||||||| 72.22% Extroversion (E): ||||||| 27.78%  Intuition (N): ||||||||||||| 52.94% Sensation (S): |||||||||||| 47.06%  Thinking (T): |||||||||...|||I love the Patricia Cornwell Kay Scarpetta series, and have been reading them exclusively for over 10 years.  I get bored reading pretty much anything; but these books keep me interested.  They are...|||well what happened to make you stop talking for awhile?  She doesn't know....do you?|||I have a do-gooder, over-protective neighbor whose poor little boy is the neighborhood weirdo. He gets to sit in his yard and watch all of the other kids around him have a good time; while his...|||^this  I used to bottle everything up...now I blurt it all out immediately....kinda funny really.  I think it comes in time with experience.|||oh noes! the dreaded double post!|||crap...this exact thing is happening to me right now, as a matter of fact....and I don't know what the hell to do, damnit! :)  I'm following my gut for right now. :confused:|||I think that everything we go thru prepares us for the love of our life... I think you should follow your gut, since you are INFJ.  Let the universe guide you...better to have loved and lost; and...|||this^^  I need my alone time to be stable. :laughing:  I am very sure of myself; and know myself too well, I think.  I choose not to be involved in most of the drama that is social.  I'd much...|||Hmmm; I think it depends on how they were raised...if they go hunting, fishing and camping all the time, perhaps.  If they are a boyscout; those types of things.  I know 7 year olds that have rifles...|||reserved = distrust reserved = only being able to count on yourself your whole life, why start now reserved = testing you, or just really doesn't care reserved = prove yourself to be...|||most of the things already mentioned...and my children... :tongue:|||I am not a loner, although I love spending time alone.  I need the alone time to recharge.  I enjoy spending time with close friends; as long as I've had a chance to recharge first. :P|||I thought it was awesome...long as hell; but a great movie...perhaps it's the indian in me?  lol|||lol! spot on here...except I've learned how to hand a jar over to be opened...lol; gotta make them feel needed somehow.  From my earlier post...I feel more masculine in my beliefs and the way I...|||lol!  Sounds like the universe is trying to tell ya something...I'd take those as a sign for sure!  For some reason, you are meant to hang out.  Be it soul mates; or just for now mates....lol|||Oddly, I find that I am more masculine in my beliefs and preferences.  I want to work, I pay the bills...I want to come home and put my feet up without someone nagging me.  LOL. I don't generally...|||You know, I don't know what the personality types of the people I know are.  I'm new to this whole thing...I would be interested to know what the types of some of my friends and ex's were; just so I...|||My mother takes anti-depressants, and has for years.... what I don't understand is this : She started taking them to help her feel better/feel more like herself.   now, she has to take them and 15...|||I believe that marriage is in your heart, and not on a piece of paper signed by a judge. I believe that anyone should be able to get away from a relationship that they are unhappy in without all of...|||INFJ here too... :) Howdy|||no; usually just the one time where they come out of nowhere...then I think about it over and over...lol.  What's reeeeeaaallly weird, is that I talked about this today; and after lunch one of my...|||They said at first it was SIDS, then pneumonia after the autopsy. She took him to the doctor the day before, but they didn't do a chest xray...  :(|||Graphic artist and packaging designer by trade...visual artist at home. :)|||All I need...is a little R-E-S-P-E-C-T.|||I would tell him how you feel.... doesn't make much sense not to.|||Well; he never said they were more than friends...just that he has fallen for her. They haven't gone to the other level yet... (how can you fall for someone before that? what if it's awful? jk......|||I know there are soul mates... but; there are more than one... I am on number two right now; and had to choose between soulmate number one, and soulmate number two. Someone being a soulmate also...|||wow...  I understand this completely. The dark side.... I am yes on all 5; at one time or another.|||yeah, that! :)|||the only way for me to get things done is to obsess about it....lol. Obsess about this, obsess about that. Oh my god!  There's a spec on the counter!  There's a water stain on the faucet!|||5'9  6' with my big shoes on...lol|||That's awful...I'm so sorry.  ok; here's one of mine...and the reason I always say something now...  About 3 years ago, something told me (weird) to call my childhood best friend, who I hadn't...|||This happens to me a lot.  I get a flash or a vision of something happening to me or someone I care about...and I pay very close attention to it.  I will avoid certain situations after or warn the...|||Thanks for the warm fuzzies! :)  Yay!|||well put!...I've actually had a stalker come out of one of those conversations...so I try to be careful now...lol.  I actually had to threaten to call the police.  Poor guy. Would have liked to...|||That's awesome!  Dead on!|||I am procrastinating about not procrastinating.  working|||I am the woman who is extremely hard on the outside; and soft as cotton on the inside. I am the woman who dares to be independent. I am the woman who wishes I didn't have to be.|||hmm; let's see... I usually go for the complete opposite of me, as far as introvert...usually pick someone who is extremely outgoing. Honest, intelligent, funny, loyal, old-fashioned.|||36....halfway to 72 :crying:|||I would be over it instantly... he would have to work VERY hard to get back into good graces...if ever. I would think...Oh, YEAH?  Well, put this in your pipe and smoke it!  lol|||Don't feel invisibile; in fact I feel as if everyone notices me...wants to talk with me; but is intimidated to do so.  I usually don't know what to say when/if they do, either...unless I'm drunk. :P|||holy cow...all I can say is wow  I can understand some of what you are saying, being a fellow INFJ  The rest is a bit irritating|||yes...all the time...can't even be friendly without sending the wrong message apparently|||Thanks for the welcomes :)|||:happy: new to the site; found digging around online for some explanation about my personality type...still working on finding my way around...I'm a noob; so be nice. LOL'