'What about when you hurt someone else?  Do you shrug that off easily?|||Gift certificate to Barns & Noble, Game Stop, or Shell.|||My ESFJ insists that she is right, even when there are demonstrable facts to show that she is wrong.  Why does she do this?|||Why not have that conversation, then?  Ask him why he thinks you'd wind up working at BK if you moved out on your own.  Don't argue with him, just listen.|||I know this will be hard for you, but could you try to listen to him to see if he has a point?  Would you get by on your own?  You say you don't care about housework and such, but what would it...|||You do this.|||I was going to say Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, but NO WAY is Pitt an NT.  ST Maybe.|||Bob Bradley, US Men's National Soccer team manager.  Stoic, wears a track suit to games, confident, goal oriented.  There was an article on ESPN recently that really confirmed it for me.  INTJ...|||That... or taxes|||This is more a function of age than personality.  Younger people, more idealistic, having less life experience will tend to be more left/libertarian.  Many become conservative when they start looking...|||I work in IT as a database admin, and I'm fairly successful at it.  I'm not rich, but I really don't want to be.    I have a master's degree, so educationally, I'm doing well.  I'm married and...|||I don't honestly see why a rational would engage in an open relationship.  It's a logical contradiction.  It's essentially friends with benefits.  A relationship, by definition, is one that is...|||First, I would take $20-$25M and invest it in such a way that it gained inflation+1-2%, and then live off the 1-2%.  For the rest I would establish a non-profit foundation that would look to help...|||Database Administrator (computer geek to most people)|||I think the 'N's bring vision and anticipation to the field, often making others better in the process.  My daughter is an 'N', and her best strengths (soccer) are vision and leadership.  Often, when...|||I appreciate an apology accompanied by action, either compensation or real personal change or both.  But words are just words.|||Yeah.  Possible tendency, but would require some serious damage.  No.  We just don't pay attention to them or express them often  No.  I can see how INTJs may be portrayed that way, but that...|||We hate being around all the 'ExFx's who do nothing but chatter and talk about nothing as though it matters.  It's boring and taxing.|||I played piano when I was young.  I can still plink, but only for myself.  I played baritone, trombone, tube through middle/high school in bad.  I learned to play some guitar as an adult (blues)....|||I want the absolutely heartless and absolutely principled folks in government.  I went ENTJ and INTJ, and the more extreme the better, as long as they are committed to a small but solid governmental...|||(We'll see how much of a 'T' you really are...)  I think this is more a Father/Teen issue, than a personality issue.   [/LIST]  That's because most teenagers (probably you included) put it off...|||I am unashamedly Christian, although I acknowledge that much of the Western church has appealed to Feelers more than Thinkers.  I think my faith comes more from my Ni than Ti, although they...|||I didn't know bigotry of this stench still existed.|||I have feelings... I can distinctly remember two different times when I felt....|||We're cool because we're always right.|||Thanks for the warm welcome, everyone.  I think I finally got my sig working...|||My sig?  Hmmm|||Revenge is for 'F's.|||(Imagine being INTJ all the time....)  I think I just become more INTJ... If that's possible.  Maybe some 'T' (normally 100%) gives way to a little' F', but my 'I' goes to around 150%.|||But it is nice to be able to tell someone that their rep was nice, but they don't know what they're talking about...  (Oops.. did my INTJ just show again?)|||I was depressed for a while when I lost my job for 4 months.  The stress was just killing me.  I was able to keep it down by distracting myself with MMORPGs, but it was frustrating not being able to...|||Thanks.. apparently, I am a Type 1?  Is that common for INTJs?|||LOL...    I do have to admit that for all the civility filters I create, those thoughts still go through....|||Thanks!  I shall.|||I would probably choose someone either with 'N' or 'T', not necessarily both.  'E' Would be nice, too.  ESFP would be good, just for the fun factor.  A nurturer would be interesting.|||The only time that happens is if there are 4 of us sharing a hotel room.  If there are three, the other two are sharing.    I sleep in my bed.  They get the couch or chair or floor or whatever...|||Yeah, another one.  I'm actually glad to meet some online, because I don't think I know any IRL.  (I'm an INTJ, I never know what to say in intro threads...)'