'Why do you think she's upset with you?|||One time I was having dinner with an INTJ, apparently the waiter forgot our order, so I said I would remind them about that. INTJ said he didn't dare do that 'cause he's worried people would spit...|||Most of what you said resonated with my situation. I would like to challenge you a little though: how do you know the girls who work themselves on you don't/won't want you to love them? (I have...|||(I change my mind, don't wanna be a stalker. Administrator, kindly remove this thread if necessary. Thank you! For those who are interested to help, you may PM me.)|||INFJs feel like they can teach EVERY TYPE to love again...|||Thank you, I also imagined that he probably was in a bad mood as well. He just told me he had been going through rough times lately. I never expected him to be so rude in the first place though,...|||There is a male friend and I believe he knows I'm interested in him. I asked him to do an MBTI test online (with 66 questions) and was tested as ENFP. I have got E and P from him too but am never...|||I am disappointed. <-- it's a bad feeling I regret for (having done something)... <-- I seldom regret|||I have met a guy recently and he is obviously E and P. My guess is that he is an ENTP. In an occasion (for a period of a few days), he was touchy to a lot of girls and especially me, such as wiping...|||Thank you for your advice. I've never expected getting real help about this from a male either :tongue: In fact, I tried to get help from a new male friend (when I felt really depressed last year),...|||That's how I feel now - I've talked to many people around me but I think they are/will get fed up at some point. I don't feel like talking to my family as well. But the issue I have is not a really...|||The question in my mind is stated in the title. Thank you for your answers.|||Of course, of course, of course I understand we have our little differences. Not all INFPs like INFJs. But I admit I'm very into him. And between the choices of him being a perfect asshole and...|||why do i feel so lonely????????????????? i cant talk to just anyone i see online, just to get a response it will make me crave for more, and hence feel even lonelier the boy i love doesnt love me...|||i'm now at uni, usually i eat alone unless i bump into people. it's just an hour, i see people at class again so it's fine.|||Yes! I like closure too. It's easier for me to recover quickly. And I feel respected too.|||a little update. as he didn't specify exactly why he asked me not to depend on him, i made him give me an answer around 1.5 weeks ago. he said there's someone else he liked at the moment. i was...|||(double posted)|||I'll tell you how i got over the previous guy.  I obsessed over him until one night someone else's profile picture on the online list caught my eye, and so i poured out to this new guy how unhappy...|||i hate this feeling! i don't know if it's just me romanticising, but when my best friend and sister tell me he's just not that into you / he doesn't like you, i can't...agree...wholeheartedly ...|||I'm depressed I feel like a truck running over me I'm falling|||My sister is an ENFP. We have worked as MCs before but it was terrible. She had some innovative ideas which were not appropriate enough for the occasion, but then we were still in our early teens so...|||Does any of your stories start with An INFJ girl was troubled with love, work and church. When she lied on the bed she couldn't help but cry. So she got up to IM her best friend but she was away....|||Ahh I see. Haha I'm not so sure about taking up the alpha figure, seems to go wrong every time I take the initiative. (Actually it has never gone right so maybe it's other factors :p)  One...|||Haha I wish I could, I think I'm not good enough :p I don't know if it's my motherly nature or what, whenever he displays an anxiety about his future (whether he could be a good performer) I so want...|||Here is something about him (or how he displays himself to be):  - music major - stubborn and even critical when it comes to music tastes - That is not attractive :/ or hmm could be better :/...|||this is sad enough :(|||Now my eye is in my avatar. I've been told by a friend, Your eyes make me don't know what to do!|||No. Never. End of story.  Nice to hear OP's interesting stories though.  [EDIT] oh maybe once, but that's because he's weird, and he hits on almost every girl in class.|||Not sure if anyone wants a bit of an update, that comes a bit late. I was triggered by a similar what should i do with this intp thread.  Anyway, 2 months ago a source told me he's gay. I did not...|||sesshomaru_haku, you know what, I feel you. I fell for an INTP a couple of months ago. We chatted/texted almost every day and then he became more distant at some point. Then a source told me he's...|||In class I think INFJs are the ones that need long enough time to process information and form a good answer. They may seem aloof at first but can get pretty friendly and warm towards people. I...|||Fluttershy seems more soft spoken than I really am, and I haven't watched enough to figure out all four preferences (but introverted and feeling are quite obvious, maybe perceiving too) but I can...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NQTjx94qKjY  oh and exactly this :p|||My nickname at university is Spring (as in season) but if you ask my mother or some people at church they'd probably say I pull a long face all the time. Quite a contrast there.|||cheese puffs! chicken wings.|||!!!!! i so want to protect them ohmygosh !!!!!|||Yes my mother tongue is Cantonese (one of the Chinese dialects)|||You can blame me on that because that is just a translation from what I was told :p|||This reminds me of an INTP who was tutoring a girl. The girl had done some maths correctly and asked the INTP, Ain't I a good kid? I know how to do all of it.  The INTP then was so frustrated...|||I didn't even have to post in the NT forums. I started a thread in the relationships forum and found out in fact they came after us!!!!!  Flawed logic is probably highly unacceptable to NTs, when...|||I once posted in the INTP forum. Yes they are sarcastic and frank, but that's why we are tested different!:proud:|||i could tear up in a church crowd, with my family beside me, feeling lonely...of course my mind has drifted somewhere else, alone...|||definitely YES!:laughing:|||If youre a virgin... have you ever had the opportunity to have sex? no. never been in a relationship, and no one has ever offered/suggested that we have sex. have you ever said no to sex when you...|||I grew up in a BUSTLING city and am still in it so I can't imagine living anywhere else...It's nice having a vacation in suburban areas with my relatives though. My ideal place would be somewhere...|||First of all, you are a loser if you think you are one. To me, a loser is someone who doesn't care. If you have your beliefs and values, I believe you care, and you can't be a loser.  As I myself...|||i think it's because we don't offend people easily :)|||I now declare this as one of my favourite quotations :)|||I am the only being whose doom...  I am the only being whose doom No tongue would ask no eye would mourn I never caused a thought of gloom A smile of joy since I was born   In secret pleasure...'