'You damn INFPs make it hard for us ENFJs. We're all over the place and where do you stay? Home, Library, secluded shelther... etc. Sigh...|||Thanks for the responses. So I'm going to take it that all ENFJs have ADHD. Have watched tons of TV and played tons of video games and ate lots of corn syrup as a young kid.|||Absolutely annoying. I hate when people complain about me being quiet and interrupting my line of thoughts. I really hate it when they especially think something is wrong or I'm thinking something...|||Hi all,  Its been awhile since I've been here. I've recently been diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. And it made me think. Could it be quite possible that most ENFJs have ADHD...|||It really depends on how you are around him. With ENFJs, you'll never know. Thats the beauty of it.  I personally have a tendency to get real shy around the girl I actually like and end up getting...|||Are you kidding me? I get bullied by INTJs, they have no feelings yo, always putting me down and never provide positive reinforcements :[|||Hey I'm actually going through the exact samething. I'm under a quarter system which is actually worse since everything needs to be done faster. I go to class, but everytime I come back to the dorms...|||this is also true. shes not a property and isn't owned by anyone. but if she moves onto you then go for it. but remember, if you do get with her, don't be surprised when you get the same treatment...|||if she already has a boyfriend.. why even stress about it in the first place. girls with boyfriends are like electric fences. you're a horrible person for even considering such prospects with her and...|||No. Don't just go with the flow, just ask her out and you'll find out if she was really trying to connect with you. and get back to us about what happens after that.|||Here's what I do, I tolerate the urge to speak up around my outer circle of friends. These people are just friends and acquaintances where I know they are the come and go friends. So I treat them...|||i like very much.|||I do the exact same thing. I always get comments that I'm a very meticulous thinker. Always searching for contradictions in all aspects of every individual from the things they say, things they do,...|||You sound upset. I was just trying to have fun. Please don't take the fun out of this. k thanks. :laughing:|||I can't believe you posted your response through a mobile device. lol|||Caution: Whoever made this thread and those that take it seriously are smoking too much crack. :bored:|||About your ISTJ friends, you should really hold back from expressing any sort of emotions around them. I hear ISTJs are one of the most socially difficult people to be around with. When you say that...|||what on earth? this is power of ENFJ male? pretty damn gay. go read my post about ENFJs and homosexuals.|||no worries.|||In this thread, we like to ramble on like a bunch of twelve year olds, now that's objective criticism.|||I disagree, I believe that objective criticism is necessary, but only when its coming from a valid source or someone I respect. I see people force objective criticism onto others, thats kind of when...|||not for you... lol jk.  but yeah. I was being particular about ENFJ because I feel this be our greatest nemesis.|||I agree. Perfectionism pays off, but if used the wrong way, it can be damaging.|||Hello, I just wanted to clear some things out because it seems like Perfectionism and Criticism has finally become a hot topic as our ENFJ section is starting to grow. I really want all ENFJs to know...|||Perfectionism is a sickness not an ability. Stop encouraging it, its disturbing, your lack of knowledge and my unwillingess to let this slide as misunderstood humor...|||So you want to feel superior and elitist over the average and normal people?|||I told my INTP roommate about what you said and he says Hi:happy:|||I used to be and still recovering from being a big time unhealthy perfectionist. A book called Procrastination by Jane Burka and Too Perfect by Allan Mallinger really helps you understand the Ups...|||I need details on the You use your usual charm and bag of tricks. What do you mean by that?|||This article is in no way against extroverts as people, or extroversion as a behavioural pattern.  Here, I am assuming that most extroverts would not even care to spend time reading too many...|||Because where I come from, being nice means you're gay.|||coudln't agree more with you on that one.   Thats why I got confused because on here it says ISTJs often work for long periods, devoting their energy to tasks that they see as important to...|||I never knew we revert to our unhealthy shadow functions during stressful times. I guess that explains a lot then.|||I'm an ENFJ and I feel the same way too. In fact, its exactly the same. I just took another myers briggs test and my results showed me as ISTJ and I came into this section and found a lot of things I...|||I'm sure a lot of us are aware of the notion of the bright and dark side of an ENFJ. We go through stages of depression as it escalates. We have trouble being alone and if kept isolated for a good...|||Theres no need to defend anyone here. I just wanted to make sense out of something that didn't make sense. Stop distorting the truth.|||Are you kidding me, I love all kinds of sports from football to basketball. I also enjoy sports that don't require a team like tennis and out-door rock climbing. I also plan on joining the water polo...|||I'm not too sure if ENFJs are easily influenced. Its more like, they naturally adapt to the situation the best they can but I hope most of you know whats good for you when it comes down to it. ENFJs...|||Do most ENFJs tend to be Homo-sexual? I've been noticing a lot of gay people in this section. I mean I'm totally neutral about homo-sexuality, just leave that to politics, I even have friends who're...|||I'm just wondering what the previous post meant. Also, let me undo your poor manipulated fallacy, being a healthy ENFJ or a balanced one has nothing to do with any of this, I just want to make sure...|||that made no sense, influenciable isn't even a word.|||This is why I'm uncomfortable around ENTJs. Theres two ENTJs in my frat. One is cool I like him, the other dude annoys the hell out of me. Long story short, he reminds me of a serial killer, he has...|||YES YES and Depends.  I easily take any task handed to me, but that would be the case a couple of years back. People with sharing and giving personalities should watch out for this. Don't...|||I notice how I easily get any type of girls. always bring out the best in them from the freaky-side to whatever I want it to be. uhhhh not bragging just saying. I'm ENFJ btw. I don't have to ask for...|||I never knew ENFJs were capable of doing drugs. :crazy:|||What area in LA are you at?|||We actually had this thread before. If you look at the INTJ section, you'll realize their section is very much alive. They even start social projects and experiments together over the forums.   ...|||but they were just done explaining to me that INFP and INTPs are similar. My roomies INTP he's pretty laid back.|||Well me being a male and all I can't afford to put on a :angry: to ward off attention.|||Thats exactly it! you hit the spot with the a) I feel like me deep down inside and b) I'm upset that I'm not me. Theres always this lingering feeling where I'm mad at myself but didn't know why,...'