'Well then. You're advising people to relax. I like that. Telling people to be themselves when one means to tell them to relax is cryptic and misleading however. It's much simpler and more helpful...|||Be yourself is the biggest load of bullshit ever. It implies that your character and mannerisms are pre-programmed and if you somehow deviate from your programming, s-y-s-t-e-m malfunction......|||You believe the fucking living shit out of them!!!|||I enjoyed CatchTwenty2wo's reply. I'm an ENFP and I'm incredibly hard-headed and stubborn. I wish everyone around me could see the positives more than the negatives in almost any given situation, and...|||From what I can tell, you're most definitely depressed. And if all ENFPs are alike in this regard, you won't know you're depressed till you're in so deep, you won't remember what it was like to be...|||I can't think of anything. The only subject I'm ever afraid of discussing is my emotions. Even then, I eventually go on a drunken emotional rampage, once every year or two. It's interesting what you...|||Absolutely untrue. I find that when I see people again after not seeing them for a long time, I'm often treated like a stranger by someone I consider a friend. The bonds I form with people don't...|||Strategy > Tactic. If I ever found myself legally bound by a US marriage certificate to a woman I no longer wished to spend my life with, I would change identity and start life somewhere new. The...|||I know a few ENTPs and I swear not a single one of them can control their need to fuck with people.|||I know exactly how my house is laid out and I can tell if anything is out of place, and it pisses me off when something is out of place. I have a specific place for everything. I get mad every time...|||It can stop, but it usually doesn't. Not just ENFPs but humans in general are typically programmed to dream of bigger and better. Only once you break the hold the material world has over you, can you...|||You sound like a profound person and you never truly know what is driving someone. The longer it drags on, the more someone will get hurt. Give her a day to make up her mind.|||I have yet to meet an ENTP who doesn't enjoy fucking with people on a regular basis. In fact, all of the ENTPs I know can't help themselves.|||I have several stages, that are different for people I share a bond with and people I barely know. Stage II only occurs if the issue was never resolved after stage I. Also, this only applies to...|||Do you regularly enjoy fucking with people?|||This is the part where I stopped reading. Do it. Travelling is fucking amazing. Working 9-5 is as boring as staring at a pile of horse shit. People will always want you to conform, but you know what?...|||Sex, drugs, alcohol, and lots of 'em. They help maintain the illusion that you don't need to be loved.|||I've never fallen madly in love at first sight with an INFJ. It usually takes a degree of pretense, conscious or otherwise for that to happen anyway, and INFJs are typically the most profound and...|||My entire life, I've always dreamed of being a better and better person. Healthy INFJs have this way of showing me that I have no clue what it means to be a good person. No frame of mind is quite as...|||The environment is capable of convincing individuals of any type, that you have to be a certain way in order to survive. And sometimes individuals struggle between morality and survival, but most...|||I find that ENFPs are typically excellent learners from exemplary education. If you have any confident and assertive friends or family, spend more time with them. You will subconsciously pick up the...|||Thank you to everyone who's shared their advice. I appreciate it all.    This post is by far the most helpful. It got me thinking deeply. I don't know. Proposing hasn't crossed my mind. I don't...|||Hi. So about a year ago, I met my childhood best friend for the first time in over two decades, and after one thing led to another, I ended up staying with her. She has a 7 year old boy who I'm...|||Assuming the exercise is out of the person's comfort zone. ISTP/INTP = Calm/Calculated Focus. ESTP/ENTP = Controlled/Calculated Frenzy.  There's also Enneagram Types to take into consideration....|||When you find yourself explaining to your boss why you suddenly had to leave on a 3 week holiday without taking leave of absence.|||^ Feels like a fish in a tree, every time he goes out into the real world. Also is probably contemplating suicide after his disastrous grammatical hiccup.|||Step 1. Stroke the ego. Step 2. Question ability. Step 3. Compete. Seems to work on competitive peeps in general.|||^ Probably has someone in their life who genuinely thinks they are a psychopath. That someone is probably right.|||We already established that people with high iqs will not necessarily give birth to children with high iqs. It's no different for height and looks. Also, height, beauty or even health aren't a...|||Incorrect. The maybe you suggest is the opposite of the maybe that's practiced in medicine.    Not necessarily. Perhaps you have yet to figure how you can help humanity, and this topic is your...|||My point exactly. You're contradicting yourself. On the one hand, you are saying the majority of people need to be weeded out as they are stupid, and on the other, you are suggesting that since they...|||Incongruent hypocritical troll with double standards. That about covers everything you said. The problem is, unless you're willing to reason out your argument and share it with me, I can't do much...|||Intentions are never in black and white, only actions are. I will give you something though. I did need to have my hand held for me to get on topic. I have a hard time backing down from confrontation...|||Like I said, I wasn't trolling you, but you're going to believe what you want to believe and clearly have little to no intention of backing up your accusation, so there really is no point in...|||It's difficult. I'm very good at dealing with emotions as long as there aren't too many, because I can only process so much at a time. When I'm overloaded with emotions, I feel extremely...|||It's no wonder you so desperately want to keep me around, when you're no more than a troll with petty insults in her arsenal. I suggest you address the one person who is politely trying to keep your...|||No, I'm not lost, nor was I trolling. I'm not particularly concerned with your desire for exclusivity, or your conditional acceptance of outsiders, or your rules. In any case, don't worry about me....|||Your initial response was more than enough evidence of the fact that I didn't psyche you up. I don't look for validation in others, but I appreciate the assumption. For a second, you had me thinking...|||What specifically is arrogant about giving birth? I'd give you a rebuttal, but your statement isn't specific enough.    So you agree that there is no guarantee that eugenics will weed out...|||I don't place a lot of value on typology. I was just trying to psyche you up into facing your emotions, because yes, I assumed you'd have an easier time taking over a country than doing that, and yes...|||The entire notion is arrogant. You think you or your equals have what it takes to decide who should get to live and who shouldn't.    And how exactly would you measure someone's intelligence? Do...|||You're not living up to the stereotype if you aren't licking your lips at what may be the biggest challenge you could ever face. Are you really going to let emotions keep you hiding behind denial or...|||Ti looks inside for processing thoughts. Te looks outside when processing thoughts. Te is more likely to agree with the environment as it's pretty much anchored to it, while Ti is more likely to...|||I'm sorry to burst your bubble but life isn't something that requires your consent. Your arrogance has blinded you to the extent that you've come to value the results of an iq test(incomplete and...|||IQ is a poor test of intelligence.|||Stimulate them emotionally and ENFPs are probably easier to manipulate than most other types. We tend to lose the bigger picture and focus on all the little things one at a time when we're...|||So basically people with characteristics you despise.  As for the topic, I only came in here to read a specific post resonpding to the OP. Eugenics is based on ignorance and will only breed more...|||Absolutely. Ignorance limits people more than anything else I can think of. Honestly and sincerely teaching people is perhaps the only way forward.|||It's not so much that I fail to learn a lesson, but rather that I believe there are always variables at play that I wasn't aware of the first time. The way I see it, I may do what appears to be the...|||I understand but disagree with you based on my personal definition of what a friend is and what a lover is. A lover is someone I have a mutually romantic relationship with, while a friend to me, is...'