'The main thing I'd recommend is to make sure you're doing something you like. I could never go lift weights because I think it's extremely boring and the entire time I'm doing it I'm in my head...|||Anytime I'm doing anything repetitive at work I always enter some other land it seems, either looking into the future, past, or just thinking about some silly random things. Like making up funny...|||*stares into Ningsta Kitty's eyes as she curiously, skeptically looks back; I pull out and unwrap a banana without breaking eye contact, then proceed to eat the whole thing in one bite. The banana is...|||I'd totally do that with a friend I also believe is an ENFJ. She's amazing and I love to do things I know she'll appreciate, especially because she's one of my friends I know truly appreciates cheesy...|||I find that if my Ni-Ti agree then they make the bad feelings from an unsatisfied Fe seem justified, and with more practice, I'm more sure of my choices. I don't like disagreements or making others...|||soaking up life, at least trying.|||It's in philosophies a lot when talking about the human condition, which is suffering. It's an evolutionary trait. As a species we wouldn't be where we are if it weren't for that longing for...|||No worries. I just wish I knew more german. Mein Deutsch ist nicht so gut, which makes friendships difficult when they don't speak much english. At least most people do though. Friendships can be...|||so I've been living in Hamburg the past 3 months, and I plan to live here another year or so. Any advice??  INFJs seem to fit in with the society in many ways. It's quite nice walking down the...|||cried last night, and just a bit in general since last thursday when i found out one of my close friends drowned in a tragic boating accident on thursday while she was traveling in vietnam. she was...|||just paid $2.89|||here's my take on it.  Ni with science stuff: nearly everything in theory and reality for physics and such can be brought back to a couple simple laws of the universe. after learning about a new...|||then after i broke up with her she started CRYING. waaay too emotional for me brah. glad i got rid of her before it was too late. you want to head to the bars tonight and get laid?|||went through something very similar to this a couple years ago. i got so lost in my thoughts that i was basically a robot living out each day for the greater good i saw in my future. turns out i had...|||and p.s. all you youngsters on here, don't consider smoking until you're older and wiser. growing up is confusing enough without added layers of drugs. try college.|||there have been plenty of experiences in my life where my emotions and feeling people around me have skewed my perspective, and getting high is almost like a third person perspective on some events...|||1. Growing or now are you mostly friends with girls?  More guys than girls, but overall pretty even mix. I've gotten closest with girls though, whereas I've been most comfortable around guys.  2....|||great post! i can relate a lot a lot.  in my last relationship at least, i go in waves. sometimes i'll rely a ton on Ti and shrug life off, but there would be times that i would break down crying...|||I'm sorry to hear that, are you okay?  *she says some stuff*  Well I hope you feel better   Probably wouldn't play out that way exactly, but seems like she just wanted a tiny bit of...|||i hate big surprise parties or anything like that in which i'm expected to do or act some way, but i love finding notes and getting randomly picked up by friends for a fun evening.  and what about...|||http://silhouettemasterpiecetheatre.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/05intervention.jpg http://silhouettemasterpiecetheatre.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/01ouchouch.jpg...|||i'd make sure the person experienced as much life as they could handle, pushing them to go further and deeper than they ever thought possible, making sure they felt like they were living life to the...|||But we somehow get out of bed day after day knowing that, if only for brief glimpses, all of our effort and care and struggles create perfect moments that we're able to save others, and in doing so,...|||21 years plus a couple months for me|||B negative    Assuming INFJs just randomly occur I don't think you'll find much blood type/personality type consistencies. I feel like someone would have seen something already. That'd be a great...|||good advice vel, thanks.  i'm just dealing with the ending of a relationship in which we're both INFJs and possibly failed to see reality in many parts of the relationship. on one hand i keep...|||do you ever feel like you're a fake, illusory version your ideal self?  some stuff has recently happened in my life that has got me in a pretty reflective, depressed mood, and i can't help but feel...|||i'm mostly of the belief that there is no god, but that doesn't mean the world is meaningless. i've more or less settled upon the belief that the sum of life on earth equals god, and can be something...|||guilty, but not too much. i've never seriously dated an S so i can't say about that part.|||i don't remember making my friends that i had all through elementary through high school, seems like we just always were. and it's awesome. as for the one's in between, it was easy to make friends...|||I'm fairly sure I'm 7w8, though I relate to all of them now and again. When I'm feeling healthy and life me though, I relate best to 7w8. Any other INFJ 7s? Not quite exactly the 7 descriptions I've...|||definitely happens to me. happens even after i've started talking to the person. i'll think of all the crazy experiences we'll have, traveling together, what our lives could be like, everything. but...|||Well, this is my go at us in terms of myself and other INFJs I know:  INFJs are a constant flow of emotion stemming from somewhere slightly out of reach. In social situations the atmosphere greatly...|||first 'real' relationship at 16, lasted 3 months.   two months later met another girl who i had a strong connection with. lasted 10 months, ended because she was going to college.  dated off and...|||haven't been 21 for too long. pretty fun age though.|||i'd spend one day tripping, one day alone outside in nature, one day talking to strangers, then the remaining 4 days with people i love doing things that are fun. i'd eat good food the entire time,...|||I'd say just time. I can have good hunches as to whether I can trust a person, but honestly only time can do it. Time for me to know they aren't who I know they aren't, rather than just believing it....|||i love walks too. lately walks seem to be just as good at clearing my head, plus it's finally getting warm here and the sun beating down on a 60 degree F day feels amazing. i can get lost in the...|||Anyone else out there meditate, and how do you think being an INFJ affects that?  For me at least, as soon as the world stops I can become very grounded with my reality yet it almost feels like I'm...|||i am the guy who searches the dark parts of my soul to understand your pain better i am the guy who will make your night better when you are down on yourself i am the guy who will probably nicely...|||well, i'd say they all really describe me for the most part, other than organized. i can be, but rarely am. i'll have my days though.  sounds like fairly typical infj traits|||thoughts in my head:  is this conversation over? i think they're running out of steam... oh small break in speech... will it last long enough to start being awkward and therefore i can end it...? ...|||have to remember that chances are if you and so many others feel this way, think of how many girls out there are saying nearly the same thing? everyone looking for a meaningful relationship is really...|||Mom: ESFJ Dad: ISTP|||i'm imagining what i'll be doing later this evening, but that's boring.  i'm imagining bombing a hill on my skis. empty ski run, steep, smooth, i have long skis with sharp edges, i have a friend to...|||seems like i like almost anything that i can feel the flow of.  main stuff right now includes climbing, biking, skiing, long boarding, but i also enjoy playing random games of not serious...|||arrested development south park colbert show top gear the i.t. crowd no reservations  i don't seem to watch too much tv anymore though. no cable. hooray for internet tv!|||i guess i'd view it more of a memory tree. there's some things, like an image of a cat, that are so ingrained in my infancy, childhood, education, etc., that it is simply a 'well used' thought, so it...|||my favorite is the simple Notepad program with no strings attached. typing lets the ideas flow much faster and real time, plus the rawness of it makes it still feel handwritten more than using word...|||sometimes i'll be walking and i'll open my eyes a little wider than they have been in a while, and suddenly i'll get this strong emotion of complete acceptance towards the world and myself and i see...'