'There are 92 days left until I officially move to college. Naturally, I would like to take this opportunity to change and improve in order to ensure a better life in college.   Some...|||I'd engage in small talk if someone who I respect (like a teacher or something) initiated it. Orrr if a person who I wanted to get to know more initiated it.  Reasons why I don't like small talk:...|||Uhh... ways to differentiate INTJs (Or just me in particular, which may apply to other INTJs) from other people:  I'm either glaring or looking like I'm pissed off/sad when I'm not... this usually...|||I treat crushes as normally as I treat other people, with a hint of favoritism thrown in. When I was younger (like a few years ago, let's be honest), I would spend hours thinking about them (this is...|||I cried last weekend when I thought none of the colleges were going to accept me, which would mean that I would be incompetent (which in turn would shatter everything that is important to me)....|||Are you:      someone who gives gifts with the expectation that they'll get a service or gift that's equally, or more, beneficial in return.     someone who gives gifts but then later takes it...|||I boiled them in salted water... maybe that's why it tastes better than what you've had in the past?|||Lima beans taste like potato!|||Abscisse   Now that you've mentioned it, I completely agree! This can't be truer for me right now. I'm really obsessed with History at the moment. In the past two days I have read and taken notes...|||I almost didn't click on this because of the typo, but then I realized that a ton of threads have typos in their titles.  INTJs do feel (especially things that aren't superficial).  It really...|||Ugh sorry, I really tried... I tried hard to find quotes... I tried not to roll my eyes... I tried not to cringe at all the sucking up... I really did.  Here's what I found:  INTJ Appreciation...|||I'm like one of the people above. I don't procrastinate often, I decide when to do it. Sometimes that is right before it's due. It's usually right before it's due. I think there's a difference...|||I ask questions like they are statements.   I don't respond when people say meaningless things to try to get a response out of me.   I have a hard time being happy for people instead of analyzing...|||Where does one find people who like INTJs? Is there like a certain age when people realize that we aren't all that bad?|||If I give someone a gift, I expect them to like it (I get stuff people like because I know them and think through gifts) and then return the favor some time in the future. It doesn't matter how they...|||I would like to be immortal if I could be the ruler of the world from age 50/60 onward.|||I don't watch TV.|||Lol yup. I dream lucidly too... pretty much every time. There have been times where my dreams have been so realistic that I actually have done the things that I've dreamed in real life a month or so...|||1) Effectiveness (which makes me happy, which is why happiness is last) 2) Aspiration and growth 3) Accountability 4) Insight 5) Happiness   Being effective makes me happy, so happiness is...|||No, I'm not.|||I'm pretty cheap regardless. After I think of buying something, I usually spend anywhere from 1 week to months thinking about whether it's worth spending money on.  I don't do this with food,...|||Yes. I'd rather adopt though. There are enough kids out there already, but I'd probably have one of my own if my future husband wanted one. I would make them into a Superhuman. I wouldn't have kids...|||@ vaccine  Feel free to share your secrets ;)|||Experience. But I think you need knowledge from books to help you get more out of an experience, depending on what it is.|||I really enjoy eating the same thing over and over again for some reason. When I find a new combination of things that I like and are easily available, I'll only eat that for weeks, if not months, on...|||1. Why do you think you are INTJ? Because I've always felt different, misunderstood, and out of place in comparison to the people in my grade, who are older than me anyway. Plus, I felt that the...|||ESFP Extravert(89%)  Sensing(75%)  Feeling(88%)  Perceiving(56)% You have strong preference of Extraversion over Introversion (89%) You have distinctive preference of Sensing over Intuition (75%)...|||The inability to feel my emotions properly drives me crazy since I always feel like I'm acting or being insincere. It doesn't actually drive me crazy since I feel calm for the vast majority of the...|||Omg! Haha. I loved Roller Coaster Tycoon so much that I even started playing games just because it had the word 'Tycoon' in the name. I also played Neopets and had the exact same goals as you. I feel...|||If you get clay, get polymer clay. Colorful clay that you can later bake to create legit characters.  You can even get erasable polymer clay.  I'd recommend also getting fun How-To books for...|||It really depends on how you use the internet. I went through this phase where I used to play time management games all the time. I also learned the basics of how to run a business and how the...|||It really depends. I have a few sleep cycles:  1) sleep from 4pm-7pm 2) sleep from 9pm-2am 3) sleep from 2am-6am  I'm currently on sleep cycle 1 because I'm getting ahead in my schoolwork and I...|||A computer.  It's the best toy there is. I loved using the computer when I was younger.|||I can completely understand that it feels like you're giving a lot... because you are. The relationship will be rewarding if you get into one, though.  Good luck!|||Personally, the words I love you don't mean anything. I'd rather that someone show me rather than take the shortcut by saying I love you.  It could be that he is the same way and is unsure...|||This doesn't really work if the INTJ isn't interested in Physics, though. Even still, they'd probably look at you like you were an idiot.|||They'd have to understand reasons for my behavior but also force me to do things I wouldn't normally do. They'd have to be direct. They should be a complex person with goals and have the drive to...|||There're probably INTJs around you that you haven't recognized.  I don't ignore anyone who comes up to me, so you could probably go up to an INTJ. Chat, though? About what? You'd have to come up...|||How specifically do you INTJ's learn concepts?  It really depends on the subject. For math, I learn it through applying my knowledge to problems. For other classes like history, I learn by...|||My favorite fun activity is accomplishing things.|||This is a really tough question... all types have personality traits that I wouldn't mind having/would like to have. For example, I would like to be a better debater (INTP). One of my greatest...|||Hahahaha, that's hilarious! I will do that, just for the lulz.|||Thank you guys! This makes a lot of sense. I kind of knew that it was a bad idea, but I just needed confirmation that it truly was a bad idea.  The idea of selling my help does sound good but I'm...|||2014 Goals:  1. Learn to better control what I say to people. 2. Not waste time dwelling on things I know aren't true. 3. Tone up. 4. Actually study for IB/AP exams in May.|||I'm stuck between wanting to give all of my classmates my notes/study guides (since they've asked for them on several occasions) and not wanting to help them at all since I know that no one cares as...|||Question 1) If I heard someone talking behind my back, I would feel sorry for them. They need to belittle someone else in order to feel validation, and that says a lot about their character. I would...|||I don't think you should distance yourself from your friend. Find out the whole situation and ask your friend why she reacted in that way. After that, explain your view of the situation. I don't...|||True Neutral. I'm surprised I wasn't chaotic evil, haha.|||This is a good idea. Another great way to destroy headsets is simply by twisting the wire into knots so that the wires break internally.  Whatever you decide, you need to find a way to make your...|||Through observation, you should know what your brother's weakest point is. If you really have to, you can attack it.  When someone annoys or betrays me, I either take away whatever they depend on...'