'Dear Universe,  We had a fight last night.  But I think we communicated pretty well.  I think I am starting to get it.  Sure, I say that every couple weeks and then seem to creep back down.  But...|||I know that there is a dear Anon thread.  I have participated it in a few times.  I believe it to be a wonderful and sometimes cathartic place of expression in a safe environment.  What I want to say...|||I don't see my tendency for being honest as something that is too much or it being too honest.   My honesty, my diligence, my ability to read the play, call it how it is and stand up for those...|||Recant.|||Am I missing something?  You are upset that people derail threads (yes plural) where you constantly reiterate how important looks are to you and how you only like certain races of people when...|||That's a beautiful idea.   I would love to hear more about it.  What happened in the dream?  What happened that brought you back and experience the newborn sensation. Do you have any insights to...|||I take great pride in my level of affection.  Are there people out there that are a little weirded out by it?  Probably. But if I choose to have those people in my life as they choose to have be in...|||To The King Of Dreams I embrace you and squeeze you tight.  Thanks for being here, pal.   This is my whine... I posted in here 'cause I needed a hug.. My post got missed over.  Could I please...|||I've been all the colours of drunk in the rainbow of inebriation.    Happy Angry Loud Quiet Helpful Destructive Funny Sexy|||Hello my friends!  How are old are you?  33  Where are you from? Calgary, AB, Canada  How long have you been on Personality Cafe? I've only been here since January this year.  Not long at...|||Dear anon,  Not cool.  You should have either taken it with you or packed it and sent it to your friends with the rest of your shit.  I didn't need to find that sitting in a bag today.  That's...|||Sometimes we have to learn the most important lessons through a difficult and unfortunate set of circumstances..  I'm sorry that you have to endure this, but the lesson about learning that not...|||I reach out my arms to Mojo415.  I step in close and bring him in.  I wrap my arms around him and embrace.  I squeeze tight.  Be well my friend.  Have a great weekend.  It was good to see you.|||I used to hide behind my anger.  The anger or rage would manifest because of a deep sadness inside of me.  I have learned from many months of intense introspection that this was the case.  One of the...|||Do you find that your happier dreams are a better filter showing you who you are more than the nightmares are? Did you happen to look into your nightmare and what it might mean?|||I am going to do my best and not take offense to the fact that you said I was whining as that is a pretty degrading and insulting way of putting it.  I was preemptively disclaiming my thread as it's...|||I saw you thread name and only could think of a song from my youth  Shadowy Bangers from a Shadowy Duplex by Chixdiggit haha Welcome to the party!|||Hello my fellow Canucks! Welcome to PerC!  Hold on, it's gonna be a wild ride of discovery about yourself and others.  You're gonna have a blast or we'll catch you in the corner weeping to yourself....|||Because many of my dreams are very vivid and some have a lasting affect on me in waking life, I do tend to look at them.  I believe that ones dreams are not just simply a random firing of neurons but...|||I feel happy when I accomplish the trials and learning of becoming happy. Lame way to reply.. but it's the truth.|||Now, I appreciate that this probably isn't the first thread about dreams ever written in these forums.  It likely won't be the last either.  But I was looking to have somewhat of a conversation about...|||I hope that is what he wants as well, my friend.  You have a lot invested and your love for him is strong.  Be proud of that.  If anything, be truly proud of that. With this being a matter of the...|||Tinkerbell is the god damn cutest!  9/10 because she's not real.|||What a thread... I want to participate.. but I admit, it hurts.    What is infidelity to you? The lie.  The promise they made that they broke.    How much are you or have you been willing to...|||Your values are you own.  As long as they don't hurt anyone then people need to keep their objections to themselves.  They won't, but they should.  When people come at you about the choices you make...|||First and foremost.  I'm sorry.  I understand your pain and I'm sorry that you are having to deal with this.   My wife, who is not an ENFJ has done the exact same thing.  Reading your post was a bit...|||What an interesting thread.  I like it.  In my life what is my biggest problem?  It's me allowing myself to become complacent with my own capabilities It's continuing to take on responsibility...|||Dear Anon,  Tomorrow would have been our anniversary.  I write that without knowing what else to say.  The expectations of your return are gone.  I stare blankly at that sentence.  A thousand times...|||Writing Poetry Making Chainmail Drumming Making Pottery Perler bead art Teaching myself piano Knife making Knitting  I know it's more than 5.. but I am doin' a bunch of shit right now and...|||A very interesting thread.  I have thought about this passively for so many years of my life. I had always wondered the parameters around these actions in my life, but I never stopped to actually...|||That I need to let go  To steal from Cher_to_the_Z - That I need people and need to be around people a lot more than I thought I did.  That I need a fresh start.  That I am scared to death to...|||So, because only 2 of you posted in here.. this is directed at the 2 of you.  You don't find that since learning more about how others act/react your observations about others have changed? I am...|||....and I happen to like to do both.  The questions I'd like to pose to all of you are;  Now that you're aware of your type and are you're becoming more familiar with the notions of different...|||Thank you for posting and sharing. There was something you said that caught my eye and I wanted to reply to it. I am a very firm believer that there is no such thing as a negative emotion. Emotions...|||My friend is missing from that thread.... Looks like we got a mystery, Hardy Boys!|||Say whaaaaa?|||There is something that is more than what we think we are.  It's out there, it's right here.  You're touching it right now. It's something bigger.  Something that ties us all together.  Something...|||It would be as great as having cut up hot dogs in your Kraft Dinner It would be a magical as a wizard who conjures up Nachos It would be as beautiful as a unicorn doing a somersault.   None of...|||I find that the location of the physical manifestation of my emotions depends on the type of pain is taking place.  For example, heartbreak, well.. that happens right in my chest.  Right near my...|||I would love to see a Banned section of PerC.  Where we could wander through the proverbial halls and see those who were banned and the reasons why they were.  We could talk about it and giggle Oh...|||Dear Anon,  I find myself talking to you a lot.  Though you're gone, I still love you.  You told me to move on.  You told me you're done.  I still fucking love you.  I am hurt deeply that you chose...|||I feel sad because you don't know who that is... he's the greatest old bald man you'll ever know. I also don't know if my spirit points were based in sarcasm.  I choose to believe they were sincere...|||You can find us by lookin' for someone on the sidelines who is lookin' at peoples happiness and smiling ear to ear  You find us by locating a group of people listening to a single person and...|||Guilt. A steady, non ending stream of I'm so sorry.. I really shouldn't have done that and that was totally my fault Fucking guilt.  *sigh*  Good thread. Thanks for makin' it.|||I used to find it tiresome.  Then I realized that my people pleasing was an action to satisfy something that's inside of me.  When I realized that I derive pleasure out of it, it stopped being a...|||I constantly think about why didn't I do something sooner.  The only think I can of as to why is that I am scared of change.  And because of that lack of willingness to take control of my own life, I...|||I deserve my time in the spot light! My last post was skipped!  Kissing skeletons are awesome.  8/10|||6/10 looks like a fly that got squished by a newspaper! SPLAT!|||If I could thank this post 1000 times I would.    The owls are not what they seem|||Oh.. I'm sorry.. I was talking about Peanut Butter and Jam.. HAR!  I don't think I quite grasp the idea of switching from shadow self  to switching to Judging.   I wonder because when I took my...'