'---Background---  I grew up in a small 600 sq ft apartment with my brother, my mom, my dad, and my grandma (who eventually developed dementia). We were related by blood but I don't believe we were...|||Yes, I do this a lot. It has always somewhat embarrassed me. I would be listening to someone, and my brain just kind of uncontrollably stops listening for a brief moment (which always seems to be...|||Sounds like my behavior when I don't have an interest in someone. Unless I feel a click between me and the other person, I usually don't bother forming any kind of bond. In the case of when I'm...|||I was this exact same way when I was depressed/GAD. I didn't think anything of it at first cause I always had the habit of analyzing interactions between people or with myself but then when I became...|||Yea, I live in the USA. My video is probably the only real EVP known to man!|||Yes! I have an EVP that my friend and I accidentally recorded!  Link:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9bAYekGXSLU|||This is wonderful. Destroyer of Worlds INFJ face FTW|||That sounds awesome! Especially cause I love the beach. If I want any kind of light in my world, I have to force it to happen.|||Yes, all the time!|||The dark room is interesting in the sense that its both infinite and finite. A wall is there only when I need there to be a wall. I also have memories swirl around me when I'm reflecting on multiple...|||I've always wondered how other people visualize their mind/inner world and thought I'd ask some of you to share!  When I go inside my head, a physical form that represents my soul (and looks just...|||I've often thought I had ADHD but eventually learned to control myself by entering a routine. However, it got extremely bad when I developed GAD/Chronic Depression and started experiencing what...|||My reaction when reading this sentence:  IT DOES! YES IT DOES!! I SWEAR IT DOES!!!!!  Hate may be too strong a word. But they are definitely not happy to see you.  =|||Hello everyone,   I have recently been reflecting on the differences between dependency and attachment. I've come to realize that I cannot be happy by myself, and I depend on social interactions...|||I usually type my notes during class. But then it gets to a point (roughly 40 minutes later) where my brain just stops listening and I completely zone out for the rest of the class haha. That's why I...|||I want to try using Pomodore to enhance my overall attention span. I would like to keep working completely focused for at least 1 hr 30 mins. I think this would be beneficial for my classes since...|||This is an interesting reply. I used to do something similar but I could never maintain that level of attention and sensation simultaneously for very long (maybe less than 2 minutes). I'll practice...|||I spend too much time in my head. Probably like 80% of my time. Its gotten so bad that its really affecting my concentration and productivity. I could be trying to study and then 2-3 minutes later,...|||I saw both of these a couple of years ago. They're very good!|||Anyone have any favorite motivational videos? Share it!   I used to use anime videos of my favorite shows as motivational videos. I like this one right now: ...|||I can relate. I've felt fine to unhappy, and to the level of depression, 85% of my life. In my early years, I considered my life an air of melancholy. However, I was rather okay with that. It...|||Haha, I'm also from northern NJ! Jersey City area.|||People also consider me very warm and friendly. Mostly for the same reasons you have listed. No one has ever seen me as cold (as far as I know).  I'm also from NJ. Maybe it's a NJ-INFJ thing haha...|||The concept of knowing you are in the middle of falling in love is hard for me to understand. For me, there was no middle experienced. It was just one day feelings are normal, and the next day I...|||I feel in love once. I thought it would never happen. Now I wish it never had happened. It was the biggest mistake of my life and I'm never letting it happen again. Once was enough for me.  Are any...|||Cowardly|||260554 260562|||Nevermind :|||Thanks to an inferior Se and dominant Ni combination, INFJs can often make predictions that make them seem clairvoyant. Though I only realized the source of my psychic powers last year, I've been...|||I think telling him the situation with ISFJ's boyfriend would resolve this too but right now he's in no state of mind to openly listen. Also, ISFJ doesn't want to tell him because of how he's acting.|||Sherlock4869 We're all 23. I did take him to a coffee shop to talk. The location was a good choice. It made it much easier for me as well.   Dug  Thanks for the replies. I recently finished...|||So I recently made a new ENFP friend. He and a third female person (ISFJ) became friends not long before I joined their social group. The ISFJ has a boyfriend who doesn't go to school with us....|||Haha, I suppose it's because the character I create in my head that represents an INFJ based on how people perceive them (serious, mysterious, sometimes cold, etc) didn't match how I viewed myself....|||I guess its just that I don't think I'm as serious as everyone thinks INFJ are lol. I've met two INFJs and both of them were also pretty serious people.   Also, for Socionics, I got IEI (INFp), not...|||I feel like I'm unlike INFJs. Whenever I read about how someone perceives an INFJ, it never really fits me. Here is me:  I’m always greeting people with a smile. I consider myself very friendly and...|||I've been called someone's truest friend or truest best friend by at least 4 people, which is a lot for me. I wonder if this is a typical title granted onto INFJs by others or if its just a...|||Hahaha. I think I get this sick pleasure from scaring people. I just love seeing the look of terror on their face. Granted, I don't do it every minute of the day but if the opportunity arrives, I...|||I'm not sure if this is an INFJ thing, but for some reason, I love seeing emotional responses from people. I love watching people get scared and/or scaring them myself. This kind of sucks for my...|||Just out of curiosity, how many people have you door slammed/Houdini'd?  I'd say I've done it to about 13 people, and I'm 23.|||My best roommate in college was INFP. We would have a blast together. *sigh* Miss those times =|||Haha, yea I agree. I'm a scientist so experimental confirmation has been ingrained into me. My grad school example is actually a true story btw|||For a long time, I've wondered if I had some sort of psychic ability. There are times were I seem to know the unknowable primarily because I can “feel” something has happened. For example, I feel...|||Well, I guess it could be if you think about it from a conscious mind point of view. However, pattern recognition is more of a subconscious activity for INFJs. So basically it's what the subconscious...|||Hey! That reminds me of ....|||I had the exact same experience with my professors! In fact, I think that was what kept me away from A's. Same with speaking too. I need ample time to prepare and organize what I want to say. Public...|||Do you remember how you felt when you first realized you were INFJ? And by that I mean when you understood what INFJs are like and realized you are an INFJ. I remember it was basically an epiphany....|||Would you consider yourself to have good writing/speaking skills? A lot of what I've read online indicates that INFJs are naturally good writers and/or speakers. However, I think my writing sucks!...|||I have an INFP friend who said the same thing about his childhood (being alone and going against others) but I would have never considered that as an option as a child. I felt too outcasted already....|||Hello everyone,  I believe I might have done something interesting with my personality type and wished to share my thoughts with this community. I believe I might have changed my personalities type...'