'Right now I have 3 or 4 (it depends on how often the 4th one and I are talking) close friends, but I will just talk about the two whose personality types I know for sure  My ISFJ friend and I are...|||This morning I realized that I officially have no romantic feelings for you anymore. I do care about you as a person and as a friend, but I need someone who is going to be there for the long haul. I...|||Mmmm challah bread sure is delicious!  Physiatry is definitely a vital field of medicine, and that's cool that you're interested in pursuing it. I know you'll find your way once you are in medical...|||I was just discussing this with another ISFJ friend of mine because it just happened to me 20 minutes ago:  You know you're an ISFJ when you feel guilty for winning an eBay auction because the...|||Since the museum is a Jewish museum, the activities are designed to teach about the diversity of Jewish people around the world, Jewish migration, and the actions of Jews during the Holocaust. It's...|||I have done a lot of things at museums, but acting as a tour guide or docent hasn't been one of them yet! I'm terrified of public speaking, and I feel like it'd either make me better at public...|||Howdy! ENFJs are really cool, and I was convinced that I was one for quite a while but realized that I was more of an ISFJ.  Interests: Art History, foreign languages (Japanese was my major in...|||I'm really sorry to hear about your loss, and I am glad that you seem to have other friends that support you at the moment.  Personally, her behavior seems a bit odd to me. Even though I don't...|||I think I'm a lot like Ann from Parks and Recreation. We have warm, quiet personalities and a strong sense of keeping things in order in the background. And we also have a dry, sarcastic sense of...|||That ESTJ you're talking about sounds pretty paranoid to me, or that they're just assuming the worse out of people. I am extremely flattered by random compliments and thank yous because they make me...|||Now that it's been officially a little more than half a year since I graduated college, I have been doing a lot of reflection on the past four years I spent there.   Honestly, college doesn't hold...|||Enneagram and Myers-Briggs are two separate theories, and as far as I can tell, there really isn't much correlation between the two. Myers-Briggs describes how an individual interacts with their...|||It's probably a combination of a lot of factors! Things like the social environment(s) that one was raised in, one's own disposition, the behaviors of parents, guardians, and other individuals who...|||This is just my opinion, but it seems like any Myers-Briggs can go together just because there's so much variability within each type. It just depends on the individuals within the relationship, how...|||A douchebag is someone who thinks that they're the cream-of-the-crop and disregards the concerns and thoughts of others; a selfish, sleazy asswipe.|||The only gifts that I consider returning are clothes that don't fit, and I usually get the same item but in a different size, granted that the store still sells it. Gifts are super personal to me, no...|||Some things I remember with near-perfect clarity, like you all above described with your memories. These tend to be significant events, ones that impacted me negatively, positively, and in between....|||As to be expected, I've modified some of these titles so that they say ISFJ instead of other personality types:  As an ISFJ I hate school Where does the arrogant and omnipotent ISFJ stereotype...|||As long as the house wasn't too big (so I wouldn't have to spend a long time cleaning it) and I was able to get good Wi-Fi service, I'd love to do that! The countryside is really relaxing to me and...|||This time I'm asking for advice about a different friend. I have since made amends with the friend that I posted about before!  When I was actively using Tumblr, I often used it as a space to vent....|||Going to the dentist is always fun because I hate the sounds of drills and picks scraping against my teeth. It'd be nice if they gave me earplugs because I probably wouldn't be so difficult. In a...|||I don't think that just because ISFJs use Ne as an inferior function, it doesn't mean that they can't be creative! It just means that we are less likely to fall on Ne, not that there's a complete...|||I guess they mean that Carlos Santana is an ISFJ when they list Santana, and probably not the whole of the band. Nevertheless, I do love Santana and Rhianna!  Even though I haven't taken piano...|||Would you care to elaborate, Personality Cafe user Satan Claus?|||I decided to pull up my Facebook profile just in case I forgot any films!  A Little Princess (1994) Edward Scissorhands Wayne's World Spirited Away Seven Samurai  Roman Holiday The Fantastic...|||I'm going to third everything that was said before me.  While I do think that you may have stepped over his boundaries by messaging him with ideas for dates after he said he wasn't ready, I don't...|||I can be forgiving... up to a point. I used to be too forgiving in my youth. I never stood up for myself when my friends wronged me, and I became a living doormat.   To this day, I am still...|||I can see him being a dominant or secondary Si user since he dwells on the errors of the past all of the time. Then again, he does tend to look at what happens to the Baudelaire children as...|||Since you said he has lots of clothes and shoes, maybe a shoe organizer or rack would be good? It would help keep him organized and you can find some pretty inexpensive ones.  Maybe I'm just a...|||I would rather break off all contact with you at this point, but I've been thinking about you for some reason lately. I am curious to know what you are doing, to see which of the two of us is having...|||Okay.|||Okay.|||A friend of mine just posted this Thai commercial (with English subtitles) on Facebook, and I think that it is the most ISFJ commercial ever.  WARNING: This display of generosity will probably make...|||Maybe I'm not the best ISFJ to answer this because I'm a lesbian, but I'll list a few general things.   I hate it when I'm trying to get to know someone that I like and I'm the one that's asking...|||Does she hide her feelings even when there's a big problem?  If you suspect that something is going on, I'd suggest asking her how she feels about X or Y problem. Sometimes I don't feel comfortable...|||How long have you been seeing each other? Has your relationship just begun or have you been together for a while?|||Idealists are definitely a needed force in the world because they help us move forward and evaluate the big picture. Having said that, I do wish that some of my idealistic friends would remember to...|||My friend posted this Harry Potter MBTI chart on Facebook. I checked through this thread to see if anyone had posted it yet, but that didn't seem to be the case. I thought that I would post this here...|||In addition to what I wrote above, I think my biggest vice is gluttony. I do tend to eat whatever is served on my plate or what I get at a restaurant, no matter how much food there is. It hasn't...|||I have OCD, and the main compulsion that I have right now is hair pulling too. I'm working my way out of it right now, but sometimes I slip back into it, especially when I'm stressed or I feel like I...|||I definitely experience periods where I feel isolated from everyone else and I can get a little narcissistic at times.  My Asperger's has always made me feel a bit isolated from people. A good...|||The only point that I agree with in this video is that the U.S. media and its society glorifies violence to an unhealthy level.  However, I tend to roll my eyes whenever someone argues that things...|||I'm a visual learner too, so I know how incredibly frustrating it is to read or hear something and be expected to memorize it.  I have no idea what kind of info you have to memorize, but is there a...|||It's a really awful Ouroboros of a dilemma, but I get mad at myself when I don't live up to my high expectations. Then I hate myself for being perfectionistic and being obsessed with perfection, and...|||I've actually talked to about 4 people who are mutual friends of my friend and me. Most of them say that she hasn't been talking to them much since graduation, so it's nice knowing that she's not...|||Thank you very much!  I do realize that I have to give her space if I try initiating contact and she doesn't respond. It is kind of frustrating though, playing the waiting game. But it's really the...|||I thought I'd go to the forum of my own type with this query.  I graduated from college in May of this year, and I've been in pretty good contact with my friends from college. I probably talk to my...|||While the online tests can act as a guidestone to figuring out your Myers Briggs type, they are pretty inaccurate because they rely on the superficial definitions and application of each function.  ...|||No kidding. Nearly every Fe-dom that I know is bossy in some capacity, some more than others. It's especially fun when my ISFJ friend and I boss each other around.|||I think I once saw a study on Myers-Briggs types and success in college which said that ISFJs had the highest average GPA in college out of any type. Even though these results might not be entirely...'