'You do know how to catch someone, not sure if I want to know your tools, lol :tongue:  How I am, that is complicated question to answer. It's somewhere between fine, and I don't have a clue who I...|||Enneagram is more focussed on fixations, like type 1's want to be perfect. Spiral dynamics and Clara Graves work focusses more on the type of communication capability/bandwith/style/perspective lies...|||Ikusagami  When you are sick, doesn't your nature temporarily change?|||Eefje:  When balanced, you can still ask the question of the orientation of the F and T attitude, and the archetypical role it fulfills. The work of John Beebe can be helpful in this respect. ...|||Why the obsession with sex?|||vhaydenlv  I get what you're saying, although for (b), I wouldn't be surprised if an ENFJ experiences because I intuitively know that my actions are having a negative impact on the other person so...|||I hope this doesn't disappoint you, but I'm not in a relationship with an ENFJ :tongue: I created this thread when my eyes were opened to a different way of looking at life and people. Being the...|||Deionara  If I may be so bold, did your relationship end recently? A story of relationship advice seems woven into your writing, and i'm just being a curious :kitteh:|||Can you give an example of losing it? (FYI i don't consider the current world sane, just curious about what's in your head)|||But what's the point of adding more fuel to the fire?|||*tickles ukulele and  Asity*|||As many people have already stated, the thread icons are a total downgrade, and the My activity thing also borders on the suspicious for sure. Haven't found a button to turn it off. And the privacy...|||In that case I can only advice you to cut your losses, probably much sooner than you have so far. People who stop communicating for months at a time are not worth it IMO|||But if it matters this much to you, why not create the reason to talk about it?|||Have you talked about it explicitly with the friend/family member?|||I'm doing both well and not so well at the same time.  In the typical sense i'm fine, but recently i had to sort let go of my type 1 perfectionistic drive. Which has left a void that is being...|||What, for you, is the difference between the healthy and unhealthy ones?|||MsBossyPants  The coffee argument is a good one, i'll try to remember that one, lol|||I'm not an expert, but I expect that having SSL is usually as far as it goes when it comes to encryption. And storing passwords in hashed form with a salt, in case your database ever leaks. There are...|||I'm afraid you're human *have another hug*|||The Impossible Girl  *dispatches a hug bot*|||VOI-M Visionary 75% Observant 56% Introverted 66% Identity: Motivating  Not sure what to think of the result, the profile https://mindtrackers.com/personality-types/voim-mediator-personality...|||Aren't INFJ's people who connect and unite groups of people? Understand what make people tick, and position themselves in a group of people, and then weave it together, like a sort of connecting pin....|||Aren't ENFP's supposed to frequently engage their Fi, to confirm their lives are lived according the values they hold? Like healthy engaging, understanding who they are, etc|||Ikusagami  Your change in behavior when sad could also be related to underdeveloped inferior function, or some other side effect of overfixation on for example Te. Ever looked into this?   ...|||mytinyheart  I have to agree with the boss lady, it's freaky when any group of people or instution, seeks to disempower other people. It's a big red flag as far as I'm concerned. Have you asked...|||@Professor Plum  Obviously the high risk logins get more special treatment, than random forum logins. That doesn't make me care any less, anytime you handle anything that is not publicly visible,...|||A hash would hide the plaintext password, assuming it was salted properly, but could still be used by someone else to login. Also putting the salt of whatever is used to store passwords in the...|||Have you ever experienced Te as a hollow shell? Doing things without reason, meaning or purpose? Going through the motions, but dead on the inside.|||There is probably work involved to enable it, but with the advent of letsencrypt, my impression is that the montly/yearly cost thing is a non-issue. And https can be combined with HTTP2, which even...|||I recently noticed this forum sends logins over plaintext, which for obvious reasons is not desired. Is there a reason this forum does not use https/tls encryption?|||Does this thread have a flat power structure? Or are there people here who dominate over the rest of the ENTJs?|||They put the Te-hammer on you? Or overdosed you on ideas?|||Have you ever been through such a moment? If so, was it a short or a long experience? What made you come out of it?|||People contact, a bit like Se can do people, but also nature connection.|||So this means you don't see an alternative?|||It's hard for me to give a universal answer about Ni, but I can try to describe my own situation.  Much of the information gathering is through Se and just happens without any conscious. Novel...|||What happens to an Ne-dom when they are alone for very long? Or in an environment that is without motion? If Se has the ability to connect to nature as an alternative to people, what is the...|||For all those lovely people that have actually useful information, could you also provide a bit of info on what the ESFPs in question are like? I used to believe that ESFP's were hedonistic party...|||Maybe :tongue:|||If you are unhappy, then that is sort of your subjective truth, and it's OK to say out loud as far as I'm concerned. The question is, what is keeping you from slowing down and giving yourself the...|||Falling Foxes  At the risk of overstepping my boundaries here. Life will always throw something at you, making mistakes is OK, the question is what will you do with that experience? What positive...|||Oh, you also didn't see the ending coming, lol  By the sound of it he is still in the close minded phase, I don't know how well you know him, but maybe watch something together that you know to...|||What context/situation did you have in mind when asking this question?|||Sangoire:  Originally i was responding to a typo you seem to have corrected already :happy:  Anyways, we all have our lessons to learn and experiences to experience. I like to believe that the...|||Assuming your information is correct, she does smell like trouble. I'd be careful of this turning into a wedge between you and your partner. Plenty of communication between you and partner. Get to a...|||Most people that are ~20 years old haven't had the chance to properly mature (IMO), in the case of the INTJ, this can be especially terrible, lol  From what i remember maturity is a pre-condition...|||What do you mean by SO LOST, even urban dictionary wasn't able to help me, lol  I never got into anime long term either, since watching it takes quite a bit of time, and I'm not into passive...|||Mick Travis  I haven't watched in quite some time, so i don't even know if i could bear to watch it these days. I can understand why it doesn't appeal.|||It does lack some nuance sometimes indeed, maybe consider ergo proxy, i remember it as unusual for anime.'