'You said nearest book, right?|||Make love, not war.|||I had to excise my INFJ ex-best friend from my life about four months ago for similar reasons. It sucked for a little while, but ultimately, I'm so much happier for it. Like me, you also deserve to...|||That was astoundingly accurate.|||Coincidentally, Bjork is an INFP.|||I grew up in a very conservative Christian household. My family and I worshipped Baptist churches every weekend, although we did not commit to a congregation until I was in ninth grade. I also...|||You need better friends.  And the ending to this movie was just... perfect.|||This film is so, so, so good.|||Last year, I had a nasty falling out with one of my (ex-)best friends. I was actually the one who initiated it. It sucked. I was actually so devastated that I couldn't cry; I could only tremble. I...|||I find this statement rather offensive. If normal is synonymous with heterosexual, does that make anything but heterosexuality abnormal? Such a binary approach is too limited. There are various...|||6. I can definitely relate to the story about the sensitive boy, never forgetting a moment of your past, and seeking an escape from suffering. Musically, however, the song is just so-so. I like the...|||Jekyll and Hyde, Les Miserables, Matilda, Spring Awakening, Ragtimeu200b, the list goes on.|||For whatever reason, all I can think about while reading this thread is Wrecking Ball.|||83. I feel like this is more of an S-versus-N test, though.   Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||I would encourage your child to report what he is experiencing to the authorities. The number for the Domestic Violence Hotline is (800) 799-7233. Child protective services will not ignore your son's...|||I'm 21. Two years ago, a stranger asked me if I went to her son's middle school. I rest my case.|||INFPs aren't sexually aggressive because we don't like objectifying people. We're also not the type to express our desires, especially if they conflict with yours. Based on those two observations,...|||Yes, I would have been quite offended. My sex life - or lack thereof - is my business. It is irrelevant to my masculinity, my social success, and, most importantly, who I am as a person. Your...|||I'd definitely cut down on the ellipses and change some names. Fred is fine, but Spacestrong is too much. World Decisions Towers and Glazed Duck Restaurant are also dreadfully cheesy. ...|||Never dated or married an SP but have dealt with a few ESFPs and an ISTP.  The ESFPs are nice people. A little extroverted and chatty for my taste, but fine people.  The ISTP, on the other hand -...|||My life is not a sad story. - Charlie, Perks of Being a Wallflower|||1. I am exceptionally intelligent. I mean, who else uses tutelage and zeitgeist in their writing assignments? 2. I'm quite charismatic. 3. I'm exceptionally nice. 4. I'm also a great singer....|||Hmm, this is a toughie. You purchased the house, so it is technically your own; however, for the sake of your family ties, I urge you to be respectful. Maybe Grandma has good taste! If not, then you...|||I've become really good at hiding it.|||Mother, ISFJ. Father, ESTJ.|||Hmm...  Perks of Being a Wallflower (the book and the movie) Charlotte's Web (good grief, I bawled after that one in fourth grade) Les Miserables (like, duh, doesn't everyone cry in this...|||I'm a vocalist, so I don't smoke anything. I'm also on scholarship at university, so enjoying illegal substances isn't the smartest idea.|||I am so awkward on the phone. #infpproblems|||Psychologist Number 5 recently suggested I might have Asperger's Syndrome. I've done some research on the condition, and some of the symptoms do seem to fit me (though it's supposedly an INTP...|||My reaction will just spring forward spontaneously. I'll gleefully say, Thank you! or You've made my day! If I'm speaking to a friend, then there will likely be hugs and I love you or I'm glad...|||I would share everything that is worth knowing. My best friends pretty much know me inside out. I like it that way.|||Yes, as I said earlier, the lying behavior is astoundingly unusual for an INFP. How could he sleep at night without a nagging conscience? Most of us would be tormented by the thought of putting up...|||Aw, stop it, you.   @Sun Lips, you and ToxicatedRose are quite right - we INFPs are not exactly quick to say how we feel about anything. It's often very difficult for us to just say how we feel...|||Greetings from the INFP Empire.  I have many high-quality friendships with INFJs. I care for them deeply, and the feeling is reciprocated. Nonetheless, I've read many complaints about the INFP-INFJ...|||I used to retreat to an imaginarium where I'd care and be cared for by all the inanimate objects in my life. I imagine them as benevolent to a degree I don't see in humans.|||As much as I like the exhilaration, I think I do need the woman who will give me rest.|||Yes, Peter knew. Peter also knew about Sam's mental state; he knew everything.    Not exactly. I have a lot of friends who are sexually active and am not bothered by that.  And did you read the...|||Thank you much.  The situation is so fucked up I can't even describe it. Peter called Sam right before he had sex to ask how to use a condom. Let me repeat that Sam struggles with depression and...|||I don't harbor anger for extended periods of time. There are too many other stimuli craving my attention. I suppose, in some regards, I forget and do not forgive.  There has been a recent incident...|||This is spot-on for me. My secondary schools placed a huge emphasis on debate, and, with a lot of Ne and a lot less Te, I would make speculations that could be readily be destroyed. Even outside...|||C&P'ed this from the INFP Vent Thread. I honestly just need to get this off my chest. Just respond in any way you feel appropriate.|||Pain from a stab in the back.|||I regret to inform you that this is a true story.  Everything hurts right now.  I post frequently about my two best friends from university, an INFJ   (Peter) and an INTJ (Sam). To say these...|||Functions aren't dichotomic, my friend. For example, Introverted Feeling (Fi) seeks virtue, justice, and internal harmony, whereas Fe seeks affection, expression, and external harmony. These two...|||You must know that there is nothing  higher and stronger and more wholesome and good for life in the future  than some good memory, especially a memory of childhood, of home. People  talk to you a...|||The bookstore will lead me to bankruptcy. #infpproblems This misogynist homophobe at work is driving me nuts. #infpproblems|||Absolutely! I think a purebred INFP (Fi-Ne-Si-Te-Fe-Ni-Se-Ti) is a very, very rare creature. My functional stack is Fi-Fe-Ni-Ne-Si-Ti-Te-Se, which essentially makes me an INFP/ENFJ/INFJ mutt. All of...|||Since we have an INFP Problems thread, let's start a more optimistic INFP Solutions thread! Remember, complete each answer with #infpsolutions.  When your friend says you're one of the most...|||Who Else Feels Really Appreciated at Work? Anyone Want a Free Barnes and Noble Gift Card? I'll Never Use It! How to Exploit Charities 101 BE A MAN - Why America is Full of Wussies and Gay People...|||Yes! INFPs love random acts of kindness.   @I destroy life I also adore my INTJ friend; you remind me of him. In fact, your username even sounds like something he'd choose!   As INFPs, we're...'