'Funny you say that, last night I told my Dad that sometimes he needs to be patient with people, he can't expect to teach something once, and not even through example of actions, but through one nice...|||I used to admire my Dad for the same reasons, he does work very hard I will admit. But he is very very pushy when it comes to his opinions. If you disagree you're an idiot pretty much.  Like an...|||He won't accept weakness in anyone, he expects us all to be saints. He has this expectation on himself and his family but it's turned almost blind. I think he has wronged so badly that he doesn't...|||He's done the test multiple times and a few cognitive functions test.  What other time would you think him be?|||Okay.. now I think of it, as a child I was good at manipulating my Mum into buying me ice-cream.  This is actually true haha.  Seeing as you appear to be online, would you like to check out a post...|||When the ENFJ is at it's very best, we are like saints, and at our worst, we are the devil.  As an ENFJ myself, growing up with an ENFJ Dad was pretty good. We connected on most things and he...|||Yeah, I did this awhile back, I didn't get many replies, but most were not for the relationship.    [/QUOTE]Im inclined to see this more as an ego development issue.. not so much related to type....|||haha I can't hold a grudge to save my life! I kinda wish I could though, so I didn't keep on blindly trusting people!|||1. I am terrible at manipulation  2. I am SO disorganized 3. No one has ever made me a leader of anything.  4. I probably spend more time analysing people than trying to stimulate growth in them....|||I wanted to see if any of you could relate to my experience.   1. I felt as though we only worked while we were alone, the presence of others made him forget my existence.  2. I felt as though he...|||In my relationship with one, I felt as though we only worked when we were alone.  I know this sounds ridiculous, but when we were with people he ignored me and acted quite differently.  I felt...|||I couldn't be bothered reading all of this^ I'm not even sure if my late reply will be read, but here's my two cents.  For a J I am not very well disciplined at all, actually, see me as an ENFJ gone...|||I agree, and I think that while we are young are functions haven't really had the time to go too far from our first two, and there's so much inexperience to the world. My ESTJ ex would act mature and...|||Hmmm I think I liked his logic, and I'm sort of a wacked up ENFJ and don't really go around softening things up.  I'm really happy you said this could work, there is so much negativity on it. It...|||Question,  is it a bigger turn on if a girl is all dolled-up or natural?|||Honestly, I have days where I feel introverted and days where I feel extroverted.|||There was something I really wanted to ask and now I've completely forgotten. :(|||The ISTP I know goes on the internet and designs shoes.  I like the way he dresses, but I don't think he cares, he loves his shoes though.  Is this completely uncommon?|||I'm not sure if this is common for ENFJ, but I speak in metaphors a good amount of time also.  It's not exactly the metaphor, it's like the meaning of the metaphor had nothing to do what I was...|||This^ (y)  Yep, pretty much.|||So.. you guys are really misunderstood? Or just more straight forward with how you feel- so people think you are jerks?|||I pretty much can relate to everything you said kiwigirl.|||I'm the same! I won't start something unless I know I might actually do a really good job at it or I will be really good at it.|||haha awesome :)  Thanks for watching and replying!   You pretty much nailed the relationship I have with my INFP friend. I'll be trying to logically explain something to her and she will kind of...|||He is 18,  He has actually got a pretty rough home life and he isn't smart, like he is not a smart person, and he knows it.  He did terribly in school and I think feeling inferior to everyone and...|||haha, maybe I should have been a little more in depth about my question answering?  Thanks everyone for your responses!|||Hahaha, I'm exactly the same, I always get people to make snap decisions for me.. but then of course I don't agree with their decision. *sigh*|||haha interesting interpretations! Thanks!|||Oh! And always needing affection thrown at us.. if the ENFJ is well-developed enough we will already know how someone feels about us, we won't need it to be proven all the time.|||I only just read this- after posting mine.   Honestly, what I read about xnfj- Enfj especially, on the internet compared to the ones that I know, including myself, are only similar to a point. The...|||I don't mean to boast but -Complicated and unpredictable.. yet having their shit together.  We would be good friends haha!|||I think that there are certain things that turn people on that types can relate to.  For example, if you check the INFJ threads, they mostly say that intellect and humor turn them on.  However, if...|||Haha, yes! :)|||Oh, and thank you for sharing about your Dad.   Also, I could never marry ENFP or INFP. So you're a more accepting person than I am!!|||Thanks heaps for your reply!!! :)   It's really hard talking about yourself because there's soo much to summarize and no one is ever really going to fit it all in!   I think I have a pretty...|||0. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances? Other useful information includes sex,...|||Aww!  Alrighty, :) I'll chat to you for sure.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jLc2YDPxH9I  I had no responders in the ENFJ forum.   Any responses will be appreciated.   Also I would like to apologize for my opening-  Hi.  I'm pretty...|||Title says it all :)|||I know I'm ENFJ.. buuut, Mystery!  A mysterious guy is the HOTTEST. Especially if he seems dark or brooding.  I know that's weird, but there's something about the quiet bad guy that really turns me...|||Thanks for responding :)  I don't think I've ever been close to an ISTJ before. It would be awesome to meet one.|||Oh wow.   HI.  I scare myself.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jLc2YDPxH9I&amp;feature=youtu.be  If the vid doesn't work please let me know.   All replies will be much appreciated! :)|||Actually, I am REALLY interested in this type.  The ENTP I have been dating told me that he has a very big ego and that he always feel as though his opinion is more important.  He also said that he...|||I have been on a few dates with an ENTP and he really really didn't stop talking.  I actually felt like he didn't care what I had to say. As soon as I started talking, he would take over the topic...|||Have any of you experienced a relationship with an ENFJ, what were the good aspects and the bad aspects?|||Yeah he doesn't do that- I was doing that for him.  Stupid, I know.  I was making excuses for his behaviour.|||I am not an INTJ, but my best friend is, so I'm answering for him haha.   1. What is your sexual orientation? Straight  2. Do you regularly do drugs? (For the purposes of this survey, I'll...|||Yeah, I do thrill seek, however, my imagination can sometimes get the better of me and show me all of the worst possible outcomes the action could create.  I do thrill seek when I have some sort of...|||I am completely obsessed. I hate it! I can't just switch it off.'