'OMG ... manipulated. Well played. You win this round.  Actually you win all the rounds because I will forget all about this in a couple of minutes =/|||ROFLMAO ... feelings time    LOL    I have no advice, but I love this thread. Sorry for your suffering, but thank you for the joy you have given me  :D|||That's a lotta text :unsure:|||I assumed it was meant to make some sort of sense ... somewhere ... lol :unsure:|||I'm an INTJ and I'm gonna confuse the fuck outa ya (cuz ur first comment makes no sense at all):   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DD9bDY4BEwk|||I watched it.  She has some very good points because most people do just procrastinate their lives away. But more importantly, it has nothing to do with age. People who do that, are just like that...|||Yeah, these are why I dislike talking to most people. If you ask someone what the proof is for their thought, they answer I ... just feel it! That's enough for me. They are too ignorant to be...|||Hahahah. This is the *exact phrase* I had in my head while reading it.  I didn't mention this (and go into further detail) even though I wanted to.   Having said that, I doubt saying so with...|||Lol  (this 'LOL' does not mean I'm not taking it seriously, just laughing at some if the situation)   1. if your text is accurate and not changed in a biased towards (which most people will tend...|||I think OP is getting too much flak here. Calm down people, by pushing OP, you just make him push back - that's now how understandings are passed on.   In no particular order:  1. it doesn't...|||Lol  Though for me it is a matter of principle, not a matter of ability to pay. Being coerced into paying, whether I could afford it or not would bother me just as much.  I hate how people here...|||Edward Bernays used the pioneering research of his uncle, Sigmund Freud (father of modern psychology), to use propganda which manipulates the public's subconscious. He was used when cigarettes came...|||This is so on the mark. There is no middle ground.  Technically you can say you don't know (this is not of contention and should not be - this is where most people arguing get caught up, but...|||lol can't help admiring your evilness  The whole concepts of god and religion are incredibly simple to understand, but people with brains and religious/god-believers should never meet since the...|||That is so true, and I get blow away constantly at how standard it is. They just don't even question it - its in movies, so that is the way life is to be lived :frustrating:|||People change very little, and very slowly if they ever do. Allowing for people to change can often take a very low priority since it is so rare imo.   With your example, I don't know if I would...|||Maybe as someone who has yet to enter the work force and support yourself, you have that luxury of not needing to save money for your future, but once you do, you then want to use some of it to...|||Can you expand on this.   I thought it would be more the (F)eeling aspect rather than the (S)ensing part that would give me the most trouble, since my life is based on ignoring most feelings when...|||Because it is nice to have someone around - a partner that is. Someone who you can say some passing thought to and they can do the same thing.  While not getting burnt out giving all your attention...|||wow. too much good stuff to comment on any of the individual points without turning it into a thread about your response. some I have learned and mastered already. some I have learned already, but...|||I do all of these  - always find problems why something wont work - sometimes find it takes time to find/explain why I decided they are problems - often don't find reason why things are good or...|||I never really thought much about this. I do really like to help/teach/mentor someone to improve in a way I know a lot about, and didn't really think about whether that was normal/common or not. ...|||Yeah, see that is exactly that I'm talking about - coming over and doing their own thing would be perfect. Don't know how to get to that point though...|||Yea it's possible that the ones where I didn't really have much of an issue with this just happened to be a more suitable personality type..|||Oh yea I guess I wasn't totally clear.  I'm not talking about when you first meet someone. Say this is after a few months of knowing each other and you both know most stuff about each other, but...|||Eh if you went to someone's house and they did their own thing, what would you be doing there?  Wouldn't you think: why did I come here if he isn't talking to me?  ?|||Meaning I can't have both a relationship and be comfortable and do my own thing while they do their own thing in the same place ?   Lol so my only choice is - alone; or - uncomfortable...|||When people meet and start dating, they talk a lot to learn about each other. Eventually when you live together, you can mostly just be in the same place but don't need to pay much attention if...|||I dunno if this would work for an ENTP, but for me (an INTJ), this won't work. I simply can't spend much time with an amazingly nice idiot. At least not enough for like a really close relationship....|||Agreed. Well it makes you not stupid, lets say.     Lol. You score extra points for describing accurately the comparable level of intelligence of americans.|||People for the most part are incapable of comprehending most interesting topics, and therefore their subjects are mundane and pointless. If you were an INTJ I would say it's most likely that you are...|||^^ let me know too. I'm in the same boat :dry:|||Hmm he could possibly mean when someon disrespects others, which everyone should avoid with (mostly) everyone else, much like lying which everyone should avoid with (mostly) everyone else, and if...|||I don't think more intelligent people are better at lying. I think it is the people more experienced in lying that are better at it. Obviously the total retards are more easily caught, but someone...|||yea love makes you blind to the incompatibilities. then after 3-5 years, the love wares off and if you didn't randomly happen to fall for someone who was compatible, things go downhilll and then...|||Lol this could be a long long list   Inability to analyse situations to really understand what is going on Emotional decision making Doesn't consider challenging the status quo Untrustworthy,...|||I think guilt initially is a gut feeling, which is not necessarily based on a logical reason, but I think as you learn to analyse whether the guilt makes sense and is deserved, it is useful because...|||lol you are projecting your own self onto others.  I never think about even the idea that I would lie, steal, or cheat anyone, and while I consider my intelligence nothing special, it is definitely...|||Meh I'm bored with other types coming in and complimenting us. We already know we're great. Having someone else say it doesn't add anything at all. It's kinda like pointless small talk.  I could...|||It has nothing to do with not being important. That a major misunderstanding of it.  The fact that he spent a lot of time with you means you were very likely important to him. INTJ's are both very...|||Yeah this can be a major sore point for me also.  I am ok if the other person that teases me is a very close friend and I know they care about me and are just kidding. Actually I kinda like it if...|||If he also used to mention how great it would be if we were in a relationship  Then I would say he was not at all fooling around, but I don't know if you brought up the subject and he just agreed...|||Edit: Shit. Original post is over a year old. Who is the tool that brings these old threads up when the OP is highly unlikely even interested any more.|||Happiness would have to come above all else, so I would vote 'Meaning' if there was one, or if I could somehow believe in one of the obviously bullshit meanings other people have that makes them...|||Agree that almost everyone is weird. Also agree that INTJ's are the nizzles. Or at least I am - dunno how I would feel if I met another one of me :rolleyes:       LOL A+ You should write...|||Are they married and with kids? That obviously means the end of living since - how much energy can someone have when everything you have (time, energy, money) gets sucked out of them by a group of...|||I would just stare at them with no response trying to understand why they are saying pointless stuff, much like any other person would respond to someone coming up to them and randomly saying...|||My ex seems like she was an ESFP, and while she was the nicest person I ever met, she drove me so out of my fucking mind with her emotion-based total lack of logic or ability to reason that frankly I...|||INTJ here  1. These days I tease and make jokes. It makes everything easier and more fun.  If they are just too shy, frankly I think it's best to just give up and find someone else, but in the...|||^^ Apart from being an annoying image, the most disturbing part is that I don't even know if that's a man or a woman. It either needs more or less testosterone that it currently has imo.'