1. Hybrid cars? Don't care 2. Classical music? Yes. 3. Tea? Yes 4. Cats? Not as pets for me, but other peoples cats can be cute. 5. ABBA? Not really 6. Steampunk art? Yeah I think I'm the one...|||Relationship cost/benefit analysis is deciding whether or not the 'flaws' of the other person are tolerable, and what are you willing to tolerate in light of their positives.  Everyone does this.  No?|||:bored:|||No thanks to whatever that is.  :shocked:|||Weird would be pretty subjective here, so can you give us examples of what you think is weird?|||Perhaps, but the notion that one person can fix things in any amount of time is a pipe dream.  Unless you live in North Korea or some other dictatorial country, governments put checks and balances in...|||I think not.  There are right wing or racist types in every group, but on the whole I've found INTJs to generally be opposite to those characteristics and critically oppose them.  I think INTJ are...|||Politically it depends on the issue/topic but I tend to lean slightly liberal as liberal agendas tend to be statistically more successful for overall citizen happiness and prosperity worldwide.. ...|||It's a generality.   No need to nit pick something tangent to the point.|||I explained this already.|||The consensus is basically you can use the tests as a guide, but through research of cognitive functions and self assessment you can truly have your answer.     For some people it really is the...|||Whenever I've felt that way, a new hobby to dive into has helped.    As far as fixing the loneliness thing, I don't know, and I don't think any advice really is helpful with that.  You can either...|||Generally speaking, the personality tests are neither valid nor reliable.|||She wasn't,  I've known her for years.  And your post here is pointless,  too.  If you want the thread on topic,  post on topic instead of whatever that was.|||I'm not sure I really asked for your opinion, and it surely isn't appreciated.  It's clear that I'm frustrated and that frustration has been building over the long time we've been here.  You are...|||He thinks he's funny and I find it irritating.  His little comments are often jabs at particular groups or people and that's not funny either.   I find blatant sexism disgusting.   I find blatant...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8XInIblwhI  I've always loved how she explains the electoral college :laughing:|||Just stop.|||Is there any chance you can stop following me around the forum like a lost puppy?|||What does that mean?|||It's not wise to ever assume anything these days.   In my experience,  if you think a woman is interested in you or if she thinks you're interested in her (regardless of whether or not you are) all...|||Why you would say that like it's a badge of honor is beyond me.  I didn't read the rest of your post because there is absolutely nothing you can say to justify your position.  It makes me wonder...|||Aren't you the one here whose been banned from the forum for a week for misogynist comments?  It isn't 1950 anymore,  it's not okay to treat women like it is, and don't give broad sweeping advice...|||How old are you and how old is she?  Why do you want her trust?  Does she have your trust?|||Wow.    Egalitarianism is in now, FYI.|||Yes, but you came to answer physics questions to a young INTJ.  Noble cause, indeed.|||Green Girl I'm a lefty too so it can't be that.   Also I love playing hearts!|||Depending on what city you live in, you can get the Amazon Prime app and have all your groceries delivered to your home.  :happy:|||My wife is the same way.  I generally remember everything if I've been there once and can usually find my way to places when I don't know where it is, what it's called or what city I'm in.  We're...|||True.  Derailing is not okay  :shocked:  :angry:    I don't think neglect has anything to do with INTJness - that's on topic.  Based on the people here, there are some well adjusted INTJs of both...|||Well thank you!  It was my first birthday with my wife, and my first birthday without my mom, so it was both good and sad at the same time.  I did actually get a few happy birthday's from our INTJs...|||No.|||megmento I think eyesopen gets the gold with her answer.   Wasting time is huge!|||The last thing I want to hear about is why I shouldn't be impatient about something.   That or why I should smile more or change my tone.    The best thing to do is ask questions and find out why...|||I have patience with people and give them a lot of latitude in many ways.  Once I've reached my limit, however, I'm done.  You may think that my patience was minimal, but in reality I had been giving...|||Not Nintendo.   Xbox One is more of an entertainment hub whereas PS4 is slightly better as a gaming device (graphics wise).  So factor that with which console games are only available for which...|||Unfortunately there is neither validity nor reliability with those tests.|||I couldn't help it.  Only because of the content in your post.|||My dad forgot my birthday.  Apparently my wife was irritated about it so she text him to remind him.  He finally gave me a call after I'd already gone to bed telling me that he forgot and I shouldn't...|||In my observation,  INTJs are very concerned with the principle  of things.  Much moreso than other types of people.|||Sounds awkward.   Are you just talking about a Skype group or actual voice/ video chatting?|||I'm married to a female INTJ who didn't think she had time for a relationship.   I prioritize relationships highly,  so I'm of the mindset that if you love someone you make the time and find a way...|||Mom - INFJ Dad - INTP  I was much closer to my mom.   We talked almost every day, sometimes for a couple hours.   Influence?  Well my mom definitely helped nurture my Ni.  Most of our...|||Red vines because milkshake straws.  Edit:  however,  if just eating them plain by themselves,  twizzlers have superior individual flavor.|||LOL wow.  I laughed heartily at that.|||I don't have two best friends,  so no on that one.   And just because someone is family doesn't imply any particular feeling I have about them.   For my wife,  yes.  All others,  likely not.|||I'm ecstatic and I don't feel guilty about it.   I feel like I can come back to the robot forum now without feeling like there's been a hostile takeover.|||If you had clarified you would have learned that I was commenting on the attitude and not the resume.  You not understanding my point is why your comment is irrelevant.|||So you were being condescending even though your comment was not relevant to my point.   Noted.|||How could that possibly be an inside joke?