'http://sphotos-e.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/s480x480/306624_10151189654693360_1306709799_n.jpg|||Why do we promise the impossible? Why do we promise, knowing that we won't deliver, we will give fake hope and eventually hurt someone? Is this related to assertiveness and what assertiveness is...|||My friend recently said: You know, X's life is pretty boring. He's my age and all set up. The wife, the business, own appartment, stuck to one place. That's pretty boring.  What doyou have?, I...|||I try to avoid the meetings, where I'm not needed. Of course, sometimes, I cannot as at work you can never predict, when you need to provide perspective. Luckily, women can divide attention :) So,...|||IMHO running away from own thoughts is wrong. Problems should be solved. If one has a toothache, he/she can take painkillers, drink, meditate, run until achieving runner's high, concentrade on...|||http://a8.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/s480x480/577014_467510309936652_1337287033_n.jpg|||Same here. As for comparison, I obviously drink at parties. However, with alcohol it's a braver version of me (although a fighter in life, I'm quite shy in men-women relationships). Under drugs it's...|||I might sound opinionated but I have bad opinion about people, who cannot manage personal finances and constantly have debts. Indeed, some may be great strategists and financial planners, while not...|||If my friend didn't have that boring client, negotiations would last shorted, she wouldn't miss the evening train and die in a crash.  If I was more experienced driver, I wouldn't drive that day...|||x85small thing that could upset balances and knock down a line of small dominoes and then big dominoes and then gigantic dominoes, all down the years across time. Ray Bradbury    Have you ever...|||http://wpcontent.answcdn.com/wikipedia/commons/thumb/5/53/Zeichen_393.svg/220px-Zeichen_393.svg.png  German autobahn (130 km /h is recommended speed but there is NO speed limit as of this point)  ...|||Very true. Again, comparing myself to my ISTP (Se-secondary) dad and ex-, we like the same things but motivation is different. It's less important for them to challenge themselves and get better in...|||For me Te-Ni always was don't know what I want but I know how to get it. I wouldn't gather an army and motivate people without knowing the direction, at least in general and on intuitive level....|||Uhm, how do you know, the guy is intuitive, if you claim less problems with details?    I'm an INTJ, type 8, definitely not calm, I love adrenaline rush and experiences.  Crazy, risky, experience...|||http://a7.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash2/p480x480/75986_303431199744542_100002329949032_654282_568934124_n.jpg  Beautiful Switzerland, or Around Thunersee on a bike ...|||This actually makes me think, if I would be a good parent. I wouldn't be the one, who sets ambitious goals for the children to compensate for own fallen dreams or who is very demanding, but I would...|||Continued looking for the damn eye-liner (probably treated the question as rhetorical ;))|||From my collegue at work (two kids, aged 8 and 10):   The kids are so much into these new technologies. My son asked: Mom, what are you looking for? And I said: Eye-liner. He replied: I didn't...|||How important is action for you (= putting the strategy or goals into action)?  Thinking about the time spend, does thinking or acting dominate?  How important is immediate result, tangible and...|||Spacious, light appartment above 200m2, modern Scandinavian asceticism in furniture, with a nice view on mountains, on suburbs but with good connection to the big city center. And it should have a...|||Indeed, how the way one processes information, sees the world and plans actions (this is what MBTI describes) can impact sexuality? If there was any trend, all INFP men would be gay ;)|||I'm kindly reminding that INTJ is the most independent type and any push and direct questions will lead to go-to-hell.   Besides, the world will be too easy, if we could ask direct questions about...|||Although INTJ's might be less in touch with their feelings and more insecure about relationships, your description sounds like a bigger problem (unless, this is a sophisticated flirting or enjoyment...|||And this is what I'm going to buy...  http://i.imgur.com/j5AKa.jpg|||I keep this at my new desk at work. Anyone wants to beat me in sentiments?   http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/546426_296468010440861_100002329949032_637995_830701548_n.jpg|||Suspiciously happy at work :)   http://s18.postimage.org/y4hblp3bs/d28.jpg|||OMG... one should have a really miserable life, if sacrificing it is the best way to help the humanity.   My finance director used to say: before making an investment, consider, how sure you are...|||You judge, if this is INTJ-ness or pure idiocy :)   1h30min flight Geneva-Munich this Saturday ->  getting fascinated by a logical, clear, well-structured and actionable presentation about...|||I'm going to change my approach to 'fresh starts', had too many of them in the past, changing my life upside down and cutting all contacts.   Leaving home at the age of 17, going to study far away...|||In such moments I envy INFP's (and even more their extroverted fellows). They say it easily and it means less than INTJ's hello. When supply is too high, the prices go down...|||Not sure, if they all classify as existential but here are my favourites, the movies with big idea:   More known: Space Odyssey 2001, Clockwork Orange, Shawshank redemption, Closely watched trains,...|||I don't know what the reports say but before it's diagnosed by a professional, this is only a hypothesis. I see a lot of Aspie traits in me and I even score as Aspie in internet quiz but it took a...|||The guys from our sales dep. say: If you're winning all the time, it only means, your targets are too low ;)|||Old statisticians never die; they are just broken down by age and sex.   Excuse my professional humor ;)|||What are you staring at?   and   Why are you staring like this?|||Lunch conversation at work, or MBTI in action.   ENFJ: So, he left me and I received from him a very weird sms, saying: Learn NLP.[/I] Then I received an sms with a long quote from the Bible The...|||http://a7.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/s720x720/540480_315641258503406_152196238181243_845631_1607089563_n.jpg|||Haha, there's nothing better than high self-esteem. ESFPs don't piss me off. You're so different that I prefer just watch you from a distance, like a free surreal movie.    What really pisses me...|||My music teacher used to say: If Beethoven lived in XX century, he would play in a metal band. She was probably right ;) Some the my favourites.   Symphonic metal:   ...|||Russian-Polish bilingual => can understand also Czech and Slovak English (fluent) German (fair command) French and Italian (read, speak like a kid and understand, if you speak slowly)     Wer...|||You made my day :laughing:  Gonna use this picture as a desktop wallpaper. Probably at work computer.|||True. I don't know my deceased grandmom type but she behaved like a powerful ENTJ, like a freaking Maggie Thatcher. A head of a quality control department in a big cable company, wow grandmom. I...|||German music occupied my mind again. Even punks age gracefully there ;)    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eri6OhHyBik   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HyAumUa0uAg&feature=related|||Cognitive functions test made me an INTJ.   Before it was Sickness will surely take your mind, where minds can't usually go. Come on the amazing journey and learn all you should know (thank you,...|||OMG. You should only feel sorry for incompetent HR of your company (this is not a rationalization), so don't regret. They invested in hiring you, training you, your salary, etc. and now discover that...|||When I was a teen, I had an (absurd) thought about Jesus appearance. There was a TV program about life of other planets and they said that the life on other planets may look totally different from...|||Fine with me, any source of inspiration is ok, it's final outcome that matters. I'm an atheist but admire Vatican city beauty and good performances of Ave Maria. I don't believe in occult bullshit,...|||Some thoughts about Europe.   Switzerland, ISTJ heaven. A month ago there was a referendum, if work week should be cut from 40 hours to 38 hours (in France it's 35). Swiss votes no and it's...|||Ah... nothing, if regular loan (= bank decides whom to qualify and about the percentage). But I doubt it would work as regular loan, if someone studies too long and doesn't show the signs of...|||OMG. I'm withdrawing... Sure, people, who get their 4th degree and not working all that time (hello, 30th birthday), do this exactly to accumulate the knowledge and pass it to the society. Just a...'