'Thank you for your response!  Many things had happened this past summer before she left, but I can now say that I understand where I stand with her now!  Yeah, I`m really surprised at the lack of...|||Hey there! I definitely don`t want to upset you (or any ESFJ`s) by saying this, but I feel you might have some input to what I have to say...  I find it really hard to communicate with ESFJ`s.  I...|||Personally, I don`t think anyone is less than me based off of anything.  We are all humans and should be treated with the utmost respect and dignity.  Being a Christian, I hold certain beliefs about...|||I`ve talked to her friends, and they all like me! But even they dont know what mindset she is in for being in a relationship, since she will be moving 5hrs away in the fall.|||Ok!  So she has previously invited me along like I`m trying to see a show with some of my friends this weekend, would you be free to join? or when she had a theatre performance, she asked me if i...|||First, thank you for responding so quick! I really appreciate any feedback!  Ok, I reread it and this is my takeaway...  She did show displeasure about how her previous relationship ended, and...|||Both of us will be sophomores in college this fall, we`ve been friends on and off for a year.  The guy she had dated before, she had been close friends for 3 years (to my knowledge).  Distance?  She...|||Woah woah woah...I like an ESFJ, and her past relationship ended badly.  As in, he broke up with her around New Years and just dropped off the face of the earth.  Then he came back months later and...|||I would keep an eye on long term goals, that seems to be the only point that was brought up by Socionics.  So far, has there been any long term goals expressed by either parties?  Best of luck to...|||ESFps are more likely to use special rituals or other culturally accepted formalities when forming relationships with others. What that means is that the emotional proximity and relationship status...|||1.  I would think about how the decision would impact me,  and how it would impact my life short term. 2.  Group of friends, as long as we had stuff to do that kept us entertained and busy. 3.  I...|||Please keep this quiz forever, this is perfect :laughing:|||I seriously enjoyed that  :laughing: I got ESFP, of course :P|||Hmm, very nice.  I`m going the management consulting/quality management system consulting route.  Got to knock out that BBA real quick though!  I can relate to the drive of having a successful...|||You scored 79.167 out of 100 masculine points, 63.333 out of 100 feminine points, and 70.833 out of 100 androgynous (neutral) points.|||Dad and bio-mom was great, until right after they got married she started to go extremely religious and wanted to settle down.  They didn`t know eachother for very long and my bio-mom wanted to get...|||Myself: ESFP 3w2 Dad: ENFP 7w8 Bio-mom: ESFJ 6w5 Stepmom: ISTJ (no clue enneagram) Older sis: ISxJ younger sis: ENxP|||I know you are my complete opposite as an INFJ, but this completely resounded with me!  I`ve dealt with so many types, and I always get the feeling that just because there is an issue, anything we...|||Hmm...this happens to me too at the end (or my perception at least) of the relationship (or whatever it was at that point in time).  I can totally feel that repeated conversation point, I hate to...|||I am also an ESFP, who also does administrative work (BBA MGMT major) and I have a above average IQ.  ESFP`s get such a bad rap, since people think we want to party XD|||If I held a preconceived notion about the person already, then it might possibly be a cause for me to act.  If I didn`t consider them in that way, then it wouldn`t do anything|||I didn`t want to take away anything from the meaning of your previous post!  I think the worst people are not those who can`t articulate their feelings, but those who do have feelings articulated to...|||I apologize for pointing out that little tidbit of information, I definitely agree with you!  However, I`ve been burned by people who care much less about friendships/relationships than I do, so I...|||I totally get that, and I loathe people who cannot be adults and use words to describe how they feel. However... There are a good handful of people/MBTI types that are notorious for not handling...|||1. texting back more than 2 days later 2. withdrawal of invites to go do fun stuff at a moments notice, possibly leaving plans open enough that they leave room for convenient stuff to come up...|||I have a friend that is an ESFJ, but she told me she had an occasion where she was mistyped as an ENFP because of the Ne circumstance you were talking about.  Im just trying to understand how she...|||Do you think that someone should take this into account when dealing with an esfj in that age range?  Ive seen that mistype with my friend also.|||Don`t stop caring, but be a little more cautious of whom you give that care to.  If i told you I had an ESFJ in my life that I wish would care more, would you believe me?|||I`ve always perceived the ESFJ`s caring to be basic, as in they put all people on the same level.  Some people require less care, and some people require more, they just need to use caution with how...|||As an ESFP, my weaknesses would be organization and cleanliness, and I can forget to do mundane stuff on time, like laundry or taking out the trash.  But what I consider my biggest weakness I...|||Care with authenticity|||Daily: DB11 Grocery-getter: Focus RS Weekend car: 1968 Camaro SS|||ESFP  Lawful Good  Pretty true, either that or chaotic good|||1.) I wear contacts.  This is true 2.) Forget? About what? I don`t remember   We are all individuals, anyone can be promiscuous|||I keep running into you on this ESFJ topic...must be fate  I honestly really like what most people consider attributes of an ESFJ,  I really appreciate what their type, as well as other types,...|||:sun-smiley::sun-smiley::sun-smiley::sun-smiley:  Spot on!|||I`d like to back him up and say that I have noticed alot of the previously mentioned traits in an ESFJ that I know.  They have an idea of a perfect everything, and have this internal set of...|||Hello all! My friend heard me talk about Myers Briggs yesterday and she was curious what her type was!  She took a couple of tests (and got ENFP and ESFJ) , but she was curious what you all thought!...|||1) ESFP 2) If i care about what I am saying, then I take the time to spell you.  If im bored or not interested, it becomes u 3) Every day, more leaning to the side of every other day.  Usually...|||Yes, I am religious!|||Building on to that, my first impression of an ESFJ can be summed up to this: Very kind, very talkative (mostly about light hearted topics, nothing deep), and very...airy.  Almost in a...|||Girl i like is an esfj, what are the chances of me finding you over here XD|||I understand why I do it better than I can explain it, so bear with me! :D In my mind you are one of two people to me...my good (close) friend, or a stranger.  The grey area are half of the people I...|||I`m an ESFP and I hate having distant friendships...hmm|||[QUOTE=mcnn4;36053338]Answer to your 5 things: 1. adventures seem very Ne?  2. Definitely has Fe or just extroverted qualities  3. So very emotional? Fi? 4. Ne for sure 5. Risk taking behavior...|||I would`ve guessed ENTJ but your prof. was a giveaway :P  1. I love going on adventures 2. I love meeting new people 3. All the feelings, all the time 4. Not great at planning, very spontaneous...|||Hey there! Ive seen you around a good bit on the ESFJ forums, so would you please enlighten me on how to be the best kind of friend to an ESFJ? She stays extremely busy and im trying to leave the...|||110% sure. She was the one to introduce me to MBTI!|||Curious how things turned out!!!|||I actually just talked to her recently!  I was open and honest, and she explained to me that her and her family are involved in EVERYTHING.  Even when she is busy, she has friends at work, school and...'