'Haha yes! That is definitely a principle that I can get behind.|||I promise not all religious people are judgmental or hypocritical x) But I totally feel you on not having great experiences with the ones who are not so nice...not fun :/ But I've even met...|||My heart goes out to you after reading your post... It really bugs me when girls aren't up front about their feelings - and being an INFJ is no excuse or exception. If you don't return someone's...|||First, let me say that - Ethanol - your thoughts were so eloquently stated and your INFJ-analysis was very astute (I know you're an INFJ so it should naturally make sense, but I am also and I don't...|||[Bump]|||Then I guess you would fall into the category that isn't mostly lol. However I have to say, I haven't met many N types who aren't drawn to other N types in general. Is it that you just don't have a...|||Haha, no I've never heard that saying. And no worries, I didn't. It was a genuine question. But I think any kind of narcissist, attractive or not, would do something like that. And you can't tell...|||Whatever, you entps approve so hard ;P lol (mostly)|||First of all, what makes you conclude that an attractive person would have narcissistic tendencies? Do unattractive people not have those tendencies? Rest assured, this thread was created purely out...|||ENFPs are all sorts of loveable wacko. I know a couple and our conversations always involve witty remarks, irony, and hardcore belly laughs. I love it. The only qualities I can foresee not liking as...|||My definition of intuition - Knowing something so assuredly without knowing how or why you know it. Doesn't necessarily mean there's no logic or reason behind it. Our subconscious works behind the...|||Nice hair also!! I bet it looks good in a bun :hypnotysed:|||Hah, I heard that Obama is ENTP. Fitting. x)|||Nice hair!! :D See, you get it.|||Maybe she dashed your affections to pieces because your hair wasn't long enough..... ;P kidding lol Sorry man that sucks. :( Don't vegetate on the couch *too* much.       I've gotten high...|||Beautiful! You and the painting both.|||424314424306424322  Do I look like an infj?|||Long hair on guys = Beautiful.  Doooooo it.|||Amen. Seriously. It sucks when we have to learn this the hard way, but I feel like every INFJ does... we idealize. See past the red flags that are flying so flamboyantly in our faces, simply because...|||Thanks for sharing all this! Btw, I've heard lots of good things about INFJ/ENFP pairings so it sounds like you're on to something there - especially since you say your core values are the same which...|||Oh I have no doubt in your spreadsheeting abilities! I did see that one you linked to... It went straight over my head. haha. Didn't understand a thing :hampster: Not implying that I'm afraid of...|||Oh I have no doubt in your spreadsheeting abilities! I did see that one you linked to... It went straight over my head. haha. Didn't understand a thing :hampster: Not implying that I'm afraid of...|||Lol, I highly doubt that x) I'm sure there's plenty of people with split functions that just have no idea...   I'll be honest, I haven't spent much time studying cognitive functions other than the...|||Very true. Good analogy... Yes, then I suppose my Ti is extremely well developed. I know I'm an INFJ but sometimes I test as INTJ, and the tests that show percentage it's always like right in the...|||Ah! I'm following you now... yeah well of course my idealism forces me to stick with something less realistic haha.      I've actually been hearing this preference from INFJs a lot recently. If...|||Hmm, I don't think I would agree with this. Most INFJs I know would pick the Fe answers. We usually are very people oriented and will concern ourselves with the feelings of others over concern with...|||You cannot have understanding without communication. Understanding is the result, not the means. So if you are not able to convey your thoughts and feelings to one another successfully, then...|||Haha, I'm not saying Iron Man is my role model, but as personality goes he definitely had the ENTP down quite classically. As for Steve Jobs, he is definitely not someone I would point to as a...|||Haaaaaaaaa! This thread is cracking me up... Love it. Well here's my two cents from the other side....  1. How to get an INFJ female to trust and open up to an ENTP male? (Don't get lazy and just...|||I have no idea. She seems like a happy lady though.|||Oh I was being sarcastic, haha. I don't personally think INFJs are characteristically flighty at all. But who knows, I could just be projecting. Maybe I'm an exception to the rule...But I must not be...|||I've been finding this as well. One of my best friends is an ESFJ (I think, definitely an SJ at least) and I'm finding it really hard to figure her out lol. And I think she feels the same about me.|||Haha! A wanna-talk-about-it-all, I love that!|||I can't quite say for certain. He does blab a lot about himself haha. But I don't know him too well yet because we've only talked a few times. But the conversations we've had do tend to lean towards...|||Ok so here's the weird thing... I know for a fact that I am 100% INFJ. No doubt or question. I've taken multiples tests and gotten INFJ every time and everything I read on INFJs resonates with me...|||lol I bet! They don't seem to take rejection from INFJs too well...|||Haha, well apparently not all ENTPs like us! Apparently we're flighty and awful people ;P|||Aw that sucks I'm sorry dude : And as an INFJ I cannot agree with that saying!!! lol Loving something/someone means loving it and squeezing it forever and ever and ever until it dies and then we die...|||So, does this mean that ENTPs have trouble keeping close friends? Are you just constantly cycling through new people? Because well, the way I see it, when you have a close friend you tend to know how...|||Ah, so you're saying it's being emotionally flighty.... I don't really think that's a quality commonly associated with INFJ. We tend to be very dedicated and loyal. However if our values or morals...|||Definitely S. I knew after your first bullet lol... An INFJ will talk abstract with you for hours and feed off of it. Any N will. There's no such thing as an N who doesn't enjoy...|||That's very true I do agree, people don't take the test properly many times. I do have a friend who's taken the test 3 times and got a different answer each time. But she hasn't been instructed on...|||I totally agree 100% about having similar goals/values being more important. No matter what types you are as long as you're dedicated and patient, you can make it work.|||Another point for the INFJ/ENFP pairing!! :) No, thank you so much for sharing, even if it wasn't about an ENTP. I want to know about relationships with all types! It sounds like you guys have an...|||Haha, oh you know... Insane in the membraannnee.... INSANE IN THE BRAIN!   See -  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zAlNrtcPCLw  I don't even know how I know this honestly.|||I have a sneaking suspicion that many people mis-type themselves. So when people say that they know a lot of INFJs.. I don't really believe them lol.   Anyway, I do feel like an immature INFJ would...|||What exactly do you mean by emotional bauble?|||INFJ/ENFP pairings are seeming to be close contenders with the INFJ/ENTP pairing as far as preference goes I'm noticing. The relationship seems to be very endearing... anyway thanks for sharing that!...|||Haha I feel like we're in the same boat - I think I know what I wan't...but not really at all   Also I have the same problem I think with ESFJs that you have with ISTPs. I am drawn to them...|||^^ This exchange made me LOL   It's super true, ENTPs like to socialize so if you're not socializing, you won't meet them. And I've seen the whole I'm bored with you, moving on thing in action....'