'718850|||^^^ bless ^^^|||No, I usually mean it in a tender way.|||We like each other from afar. Then, when we get closer, we don't. This is my experience with ISTPs.   I have two ISTP friend-acquaintances. One of them once told me you're useful to me and this...|||Lawl you sound like me when I think I'm such a manipulative charmer who goes around destroying people.  I actually hate it, and I do it when I feel like I have no choice (that is, often).  I'm...|||Narcissism 1.4 Machiavellianism 1.9 Psychopathy 0.8  Well, it's ok.|||He spontaneously admitted he lacks empathy. What magic trick did I do? (He might be kinda gay for me tho so it doesn't count.) I'm officially lecturing a nt about emotions gi v e me a fc ki n med a...|||The majority has this luxury, to be dysfunctional in ways they all together can pretend are completely ok. It's called consensus reality I think. Often I've made people angry because they expected me...|||Sad about my autism. Hopeless that someone is going to love me for who I am.|||A real life example from today:  I politely argued and reconciled with a neurotypical ISTP acquaintance.   He did something that overstepped my boundaries without knowing. I didn't say a word...|||A real life example from today:  I politely argued and reconciled with a neurotypical ISTP acquaintance.   He did something that overstepped my boundaries without knowing. I didn't say a word...|||I'm hypersensitive to manipulation and drama. I spot it from a 100 meters distance and even after dealing maturely with it I keep being secretly a n g e r y for the rest of the day. Uff.|||But wouldn't life become kinda... boring?|||Very true.|||I've done some very bad things. - manipulating someone and myself until we thought we loved each other - telling my parents to go die - destroying an ex friend with my anger  I feel a bit too...|||I am a INFP, and a writer. I have no INFPs among my favorite writers, while two (P.B. Shelley and Fitzgerald) were probably ISFP. I wish I had Se. Please keep going.|||I want to thank my INTP e5 friend for being such a healthy patient and nice person.  (My e5 ass: must be his 9 gut type. Yep. Must be a 259.)|||It is a very broad idea, but here I meant the part according to which real men are never vulnerable/victims of pain. The standard/acceptable reactions to pain for a man are 1) shutting up and...|||Also, if being stoic means repress until you develop suicidial tendencies I'm not sure I hold that value. If you share what you feel like sharing with a selected few without asking them to do the...|||Improving is like working out. It's tiring, and you need food and sleep, you need fuel to keep going.  Sometimes the fuel we need is the very thing we're trying to get with our efforts, and getting...|||To me Fi doesn't talk either. It's more like a pre-verbal force, like a magnet, which either attracts me to, or repels, things, people and thoughts: 715226  Once my Fi was wider. I felt sooner...|||ISFPs are maybe the type I quarrel more with in real life. Talking about those I know: their narrow mindedness keeps their strong sense of self from actual depth and wisdom, so when they express an...|||Tritype 458/548/845  Yep! Well thought out.|||Basic and vintage pieces.  If I can I choose cotton, linen, wool, silk, natural fibers.  298tj9er8v8 shades of beige, white, light gray. Some burgundy and dark green. A lot of dark blue. Sometimes...|||Well, a thousand nuns must be very scary indeed.|||Nah, it's just Fi burning bright with the strength of a thousand suns.|||I think we expect miracles from human interaction. I feel so much so it must be easier for others to understand me/I really need for others to understand me (supposition and need often mingle into a...|||I gave up my aspirations to pursue an academic career when I realized knowing the world was an escape from knowing myself.|||I may interpret this post as:  - against stereotypes within MBTI. Against the misuse of MBTI as something that reduces people to bidimensional human types and prevents or hinders their growth with...|||When I thought I didn't have values and I didn't take anything to heart because of all the sad and destructive things I was doing/experiencing... I stopped and wondered: where does this pain come...|||Thank you a lot in advance.  Personal concepts 1. What is beauty? What is love?  Beauty is truth, truth beauty. This is my honest sensation, not a theory or a value. Love is... I still haven't...|||I have a sort of big meta-value which is inner harmony. It's what keeps me grounded to the parts of me I can't master, just deal with.   When I feel I'm flooded with foreign emotions, thoughts and...|||ENNEAGRAM TYPE W/ WING: 5w6  TOP 3 MBTI TYPES:   1. INFJ 63% 2. INFP 16% 3. ENFP 6%  I'm usually given for INFJ or INTJ (which is in 4th position here) by online tests, probably because I...|||Don't worry: words don't define reality, they just look for it.|||Healthy and unhealthy are different for each of us, and look different on each of us, really. Once I was told I was soulless because I didn't display emotions when they wanted me to. Emotional...|||Why not both? (Why not both is often the best answer.) I find it pretty easy to figure people out by small hints, to the point of making some uneasy. At the same time I know it's just a series of...|||INFP; blue (in second position violet/purple and green)|||INTJs are my favorite type. I find their minds interesting, and their Ni reassuring and free of emotional mindgames. I like the cold elegance of their thoughts. We can be blunt to each other and...|||I've never met a 458 IRL but it might be so. Sx/sp as instinctual variant also has its importance. I don't know how other people find most INFPs: as a INFP myself I get them too quickly to find...|||I think we are born before, and will die notwithstanding, good and evil.  People are so much more than morality, just like an egg is so much more than its shell.|||According to a friend of mine, the long speculation about necrophilia I exposed while he was with his date cockblocked him. I really didn't want to but I still find it hilarious.|||For me friendship is the highest form of love. I need to love my friends, to be affectionate and always be there, encourage them, want what's best for them, and for them to call me at 3 am if they...|||I read your answer and thought mmm an intimidating INFP, so funny it sounds like m- Then I read your enneagram tritype and I got why.|||ENTPs! They're volatile in all the places where I'm grounded, and vice versa. Ne is what brings us close enough for me to find them scary, otherwise I'd probably just find them boring.|||That's so Ne-dom of you.|||You come back after a night with a group of sensors and feel very thirsty but you're not sure of what.|||AAD38  :)  It was true love but not for each other. More for each other's ideals and wounds.   1whoseeswithoutbeingseen  would you believe that patience and commitment only pushed us deeper...|||My ex-girlfriend was a INFJ. It started very well, continued badly and ended very badly. The viewpoint of an INFP who recognizes his responsibilities might be of some interest. It was a very...|||That true love can be evil.|||5w6  You're the Rebel! You see injustice everywhere and you want to shake up the entire system! According to Jungian psychologists, this type believes rules are made to be broken and is driven by...'