'Good call on Metallica, that's my favourite album by them.  Also:  Pink Floyd: Dark Side of the Moon, Wish You Were Here, Animals and The Wall (Yes, all of them :P)  Jethro Tull - Aqualung,...|||I can deal with the fact she turned me down. I just hope it doesn't mean she avoids me forever now. The group assignments we are working on still aren't over, however that can all be pretty much done...|||I just replied with a Okay then, thanks anyway.  I really like talking to her, and I was never talking to her just because I wanted to date her.   So yeah hopefully things can work themselves...|||I have no intention of showing hurt or ignoring her. Honestly I just hope that she doesn't continue to ignore me.|||Just for anyone who's interested. She's been avoiding me ever since I asked her out. So I sent a message suggesting a place and time to meet (this hadn't been decided yet) and got a No thanks. ...|||Sounds ominous :P  Thanks for the advice. It seems the best thing to do.|||I normally hate to bring back a month old thread, but I really need some advice again. You were all really good with helping the first time.  In the whole month it has been since I posted this I...|||I'm not an INFJ but I saw this thread and I feel the same as a lot of the INFJs here. Metal is a huge part of my life, but you wouldn't know it from looking at me (unless I'm wearing one of my band...|||I am bookish, but what drew me is the ability to help people. It occurred to me that helping people find information is something I really like to do. I am aiming for work in an academic library or a...|||I completed a degree years ago with a major in creative writing. So that fits with the artist thing I guess. I never used the degree though and after 3 years of retail (and a short stint in admin) I...|||That helps a lot actually. I do get the feeling she's the type of person who wants to get to know you first. That last sentence makes me feel a million times better too haha.    This also makes...|||Thanks for the help. I think my biggest problem is I am scared that if I don't come up with a perfect thing to do it's going to be a disaster; which of course is ridiculous.   I do like the...|||It's garbage.  I had never paid attention to the lyrics before but now that I have its potentially harmful if someone takes it too seriously. After dealing with insecurities myself I know that...|||I'll try to keep this short.   I have met a girl at uni who I get along with really well. I find I am very comfortable around her which means a lot to me as it usually takes me ages to feel...|||Yeah I've been told that to my face from someone I ended up being friends with. I try to keep it in mind when meeting new people, but there's not a lot I've been able to do about it unfortunately....|||I was actually going to start a new thread about this. But I'll post in here.  For uni my lecturer wants us to do an online MBTI test before the next class as it will be about understanding...|||Yes, it does seem to irritate people doesn't it haha.   Also I find it hard to explain things to other people as well. I seem to leave bits out but don't realise it, as I know about it so it's...|||I have noticed lately at work that my boss will explain something to me and I have no idea what he's asking me to do. I thought about it and I seem to have this problem with a lot of people. To me it...|||Excellent, I'm glad it worked out :)|||Agreed, I can't stand auto's. I refuse to buy one haha.|||My biggest problem with driving was my confidence. It caused me to panic a lot, which is obviously bad. As my confidence in myself got better, and I learnt that I should learn from my mistakes...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7OaHnj0wPc  I've been listening to a lot of 70's Prog Rock lately haha.|||Honestly, I think he actually is sick. Give him a call in a couple of days to see how he is. Don't text, he'll appreciate it more.|||People who act like that have insecurities I find. Best way to deal with it, is to remember that it's them that have an issue, not you.|||Actually it's interesting you mention earthy. As I've found that more-so in the last couple of years I've been wearing clothes with more earthy looking colours.|||That's a really good point actually Raichu. I hadn't thought of it like that. I've known enough INTJ's for example that I know they would need someone of another type to be ultimately happy.|||I find it interesting with Horror films as I absolutely love them. The worse they are the more I seem to enjoy them (unless they are stupidly generic). Yet I do seem to appreciate a properly well...|||These are all really good points. It does make sense that it's more your values and morals that need to be the same rather than an exact match in type.   I found it interesting that Malkovich...|||Yeah I totally understand.  I honestly don't have a heap of experience with dating/relationships but it's something I will definitely be taking note of in the future.|||Yeah so do I. It does suck being so sensitive. I guess I'm getting better but I still have to analyse something someone said to remind myself they didn't mean anything by it.|||Wallmaster, what is actually meant by values synchronisation?  Also to aconite good to hear it does work, I always find myself more attracted to ISFP type people (they may not actually be ISFP's...|||I was just thinking today about how the whole opposites attract thing being a myth, and I wondered; just how successful would it be dating your own type?  I understand there are huge differences...|||I admire the dedication to be honest. The thought of being like that myself freaks me out though haha.|||I find it very interesting that ISFP's are considered so affectionate and touchy  I am but only if I like someone romantically and I know 100% they like me back. Then I love doing it, it's how I...|||Agreed. With the right person I genuinely do not shut up.|||Wow, I didn't realise but us ISFP males can be dicks haha.  Don't read the long periods of no contact as him not being into you. We can just be extremely introverted. Also we go with the flow so...|||From the small amount of volunteer work I've done I can say it helps your self esteem immensly. Pick a cause that means a lot to you and go for it.|||Haha neither. Seems far too stressful :P|||Yeah you're right. It's their problem when you think about it.  I usually just laugh along and wait till it passes hah.|||That's really good advice, thanks. :)  Looking back on what I wrote it sounds a lot angrier than I actually intended. It was more a curiosity I thought would be interesting to talk about, but ended...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fz01PGyqFR4  Pink Floyd always gives me goosebumps. To me it's some of the most beautiful music ever made.   Having said that I do find it interesting that I am a...|||Pfff, as if we'd do something like that :wink:  Anyway welcome to the forum FirstQueen, I'm new myself but I have already found it is liberating to actually be posting here.|||Haha, I know exactly what you mean. It's probably good for us ISFP's to be friends with at least one Judging type, but I have experienced that conflict.|||Do you ever get people pointing out how quiet you are?  It annoys the crap out of me. The worst I ever got was Why are you so quiet? How the hell do you answer that? haha  Or you get people...|||I'm the same. People tend to think I'm weird; and if I try to act normal people can tell I'm putting it on.|||I understand what you're saying, but we need sensitivity too. It helps us empathise with people. Unless that's not what the question is referring to, in that case ignore me:P  As for my answers: ...|||I tend to like anyone introverted. Probably because I am such a huge introvert and feel I could relate better.  To be honest an introvert chasing introverts could be the reason I haven't had much...|||Left, but I don't like extremes on either side.  As I get older I actually find myself more tolerant of the right wing and even agreeing with them on occasion. However I do think there would be a...|||I think with concious effort you can favour traits from other types. I did read though it is not a good idea to work too hard on strengthening shadow functions (Ne and Ti for an ISFP) as it can just...|||I love witty humour, and it's something I try to use when being funny. Not very good at it yet. Either falls flat or doesn't make sense haha. I like to jokingly insult or tease friends also.'