'So me and a co worker (we are both substitute teachers) we flirted alot almost every day for like a month , alot of eye contact , he would nervously giggle at shit I would say even though it wasnt...|||Enfp,infp,infj, intj,|||Any genre?|||How do I get SJ in general to understand me? I get told I'm a weirdo a lot especially when they find out I'm sensitive and a big dreamer I don't want to get on anyone's nerves but also I  want to...|||22 don't want to age anymore|||I dated an istj it was horrible his Te clashes with my Fe(infj ): he would be too blunt with me he is not emotional at all and I am very sensitive. He would call me goofy, a weirdo etc..that S/N...|||Why cant I figure you out ? Why do I always feel like I clash with SJ in general? I sometimes feel like I'm being judged): I feel so vulnerable and not good enough...i clash with my dad(XSXJ) we dont...|||I can have casual sex as long as its mutually agreed that its only sex and no feelings involved. However it has backfired on me when I had feelings for the guy and he wasnt honest about his feelings...|||dont get discouraged keep being you someone out there does notice (:|||i have one on my nose, three of them are located below the belt area if you know wat I mean..|||I told him off and told him cruel stuff(I told him I hated him and wished he would die and I made fun of his moms death) which I'm not proud of I feel very deeply bad and I regret it I know I know...|||Yes I agree its quite painful didn't think I'd be way off on my feelings... us gals are a little at fault for idealizing so much but also its the guys fault as well for leading us on...what a sick...|||Thank you what you wrote to me really made me smile and cheered me up.... in fact it made my day (:|||Be nice about it I once had a lady problem and had an infection for a while some jerk was mean to me about it until I explained it was an infection...maybe she has a condition or something you never...|||How about INFJ? :p|||As Razare said, work on forgiving him in your heart - someone like that deserves sympathy as well, because they're lost and confused in the dark. They don't know what real love is.  And never...|||yes that is exactly what I did I idealized this guy way too much I always held back a little because I always had this gut feeling that he was hiding things from me and I ignored myself and wanted...|||thank you everyone for the hugs and the friendly advice (: I'm feeling way better today than I did yesterday! thank you thank you thank you from the bottom of my heart thank you!|||I'll try and not to blame myself although its difficult I'm extremely hard on myself. He told me I was fat, ugly, stupid, lonely and he laughed at me for letting myself get used ....I know I...|||What you described is almost identical to what I went through with my istj ex and let me tell you that unfortuantely things ended badly(his fault of course). Anyways best advice I could give: Be...|||Devastated and still shocked 2 1/2 weeks ago I found out I was being used and lied to ): I feel so sick that anyone would do such a wicked thing. I was so in love with him I cared so deeply I wanted...|||soft boiled, of course im trying my hardest to get over that ex(no contact ever again with him), just need positive perspectives so I dont have the wrong attitude towards istj's just need a little...|||Ok Im not totally serious my bestfriend is an istj and she is a total sweet heart..but how can an istj just cause pain on purpose and not feel guilty? It bothers me to know my ex istj used me...ugh...|||Im a big cry baby I can listen to a sad song and ill start tearing up. Movies, the news, tv arguements, etc I can cry easily. Its difficult to bottle in all the emotions I feel.|||Legalize so all the haters can shut the f up already...hits from my bong (; haha... Seriously though all the ignorance and sterotypes towards weed have got to go|||Their is nothing wrong with marijuana. I would never waste my time with anyone that has a biased negative view towards it. Its a topic that needs to be seriously discussed and taken more seriously....|||If he has told you are pretty more than once then I say yes he was hitting on you|||this is the cutest example ever (:|||My roommate and I were struggling financially eating bread and ham for a while...our istj bestfriend comes over with groceries for the week and she cooked us a yummy breakfast I was sooo deeply...|||My favorite are black and pink. To me black means elegance, mystery, melancholy, dark, intense,classic,. Pink reminds me of blushing, shyness, romantic love, fairytales..|||*im an infj* but thought maybe I could help, good luck (;|||This is difficult to think about my istj ex was very mysterious for me until this day he is a mystery for me. He would show affection in very subtle ways that had me over analyzing over and over...|||I can relate alot to what your saying but I wish I had the real thing though ):|||Ive only tried marijuana,salvia and mushrooms. Marijuana I smoke on a regular basis. I enjoy it highly if it gives me a peaceful , I have a preference for sativas. Salvia I have tried it only once it...|||I would just break dishes, mirrors, stereo,fans, etc.. and I once broke my brothers bedroom window not proud of it. Im better now though im alot more peaceful (:|||Thank you for sharing your personal stories with me..its comforting knowing everyone experiences a heart break. Sorry I took my time to respond back  on here it takes  alot emotionally to even talk...|||...hmm it took me two years to get over my first ex. Not that im trying to compare my current situation to a past relantionship but is two years too much time? Now im wondering whats normal and what...|||yeah I agree, it  also wouldnt be fair for a guy to be used as a rebound. Im going to take it a day at a time im starting to do better sometimes I want to rush it and get over it one day to the...|||Being jealous sucks its so emotionally draining im trying to be more logical but its hard I get that sick feeling in my tummy and I just want to cry when I get intense feelings of jealousy ): I keep...|||You dont deserve to be ignored no matter what he is going through . That is just plain mean and a bit selfish. Everyone deserves a decent good bye to come to closure. I agree he probably is trying...|||1) mainstream music(enough with the whole hip pop/rap scene, its shallow,materialistic and vain) I can't believe people can consider that their favorite music it just has no depth to it. Thanks to...|||Thank you all for the friendly advise so far Im doing ok ,I talked about it with my istj girlfriend she was such a good listener she didn't really give me advise ,she can't figure out my situation...|||I got 50 ): I wanted to score higher, its hard with just eyes, I rely on body language and tone of voice as well.|||I feel like a weirdo because I feel so emotionally needy and Ive come to realize not a lot of people are into sensitive people...I'm too sensitive, deep, insecure and shy...I even feel its too much...|||my ultimate goal was to be in a relationship with him we have so many bad moments as well as good. yes I actually did fantasize the day he would realize the effort I put into making it work but I...|||Im always changing majors first it was education(right now im a substitute teacher) my major is in criminal justice(i got older and criminal justice I love it but its too dark for me, im very...|||My bestfriend is an ESTP with a good developed Fe he isnt a manipulator I think maybe you have just met ESTPs with issues. Also I think maybe they can be misunderstood they are very talkative and...|||Yes I agree with above, high school are not the best years of your life. From my personal experience it was awkward and  superficial. Did have a few good moments like meeting my two best friends. One...|||Yardiff bay: its ok I really did realize I have major flaws in myself. It makes sense to me now he doesnt want me because of my flaws its common sense if he really wanted me the way I want him then...|||This made me laugh out loud hard! Thanks for the laugh!'