'sure it is. which pill did you eat? we CHOOSE to be brainwashed, because it's easier to deal with than trying to swim upstream.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7BuQFUhsRM  i don't think the...|||you can't go through life with that mindset. it will drive you crazy.|||yeah, so um, here's a pretty cool arrangement of the song this thread references:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OvYZMqQffQE  the kids have some talent...|||lol, go back and edit it! i find myself editing posts over and over and over. i'm a basket case. :crazy:|||i don't think that parenthood comes 100% naturally to ANYONE. that being said, you're still an ENFJ. it's just that we get more introspective as we get older. it's part of our Ti, which is directly...|||oh man, this is so true. i have a tendency to freak out at work over things that are beyond my control. and my ENTJ co-worker is always busting my chops telling me that my biggest fault is that i...|||i'm 3rd out of 4, but my 2 older siblings are 11 and 9 years older than i am. my little brother is 3 years younger. i was a surprise, but my mom really wanted another after her conversion. they...|||oh man, i think i could fill up the entire server if i posted everything i like. from Jam Bands like the Grateful Dead and Phish to the Beatles, to classical, to The Doors, to Hip-Hip/R&B (mostly...|||if it helps to put 2.5% into perspective, Canada has 30 million people. 2.5% is only 750,000. Toronto has roughly 2.5 million, which is 3.3 times that number. we're very rare.    you're a freaking...|||yeah, i'm with you on that note. i have WAY too much humility to have a big head. sometimes i REALLY struggle with what a wonderful gift i've been given, and just hope to high heaven that i'm...|||pretty much... we trust people implicitly. we ALWAYS see the good in people and focus more on their potential rather than how they might currently be. as a result we do have a propensity to being...|||i love you. *hugs*|||hahahha! i LOVE that!!!! sometimes i'll just go to the produce section and hang out til the thunderstorm comes!|||can someone PLEASE tell me what the hell is going on? this is like my 5th Sound of Music reference this week. i swear God is telling me to watch it...|||*big hug*   sweetie, i love you.|||pics, dammit!!!!! hahaha!|||i actually like that test better. with the 'yes or no' variety, sometimes my answer is 'neither' and sometimes it's 'both.' so it's basically flipping a coin. though i think there should only be 5...|||good thread.|||haha, i took that pic. though come to think of it, it's pretty much a standard pose for me too...|||cool, thanks. ok, here's my eyes. this was taken last Monday night at a houseboat party:  http://i778.photobucket.com/albums/yy67/lvbuckeye27/HalfshellBoatParty6-10eyescloseup.jpg|||that sucks...|||not sure if it makes me an ENFP, but this thread made me play salsa music and dance around my bedroom. lmao!|||holy moly. i had absolutely ZERO intention of coming off as self righteous. quite honestly i shrink from the comparison. it's WAY TOO HEAVY for me to handle. (i'm not religious at all. spiritual,...|||how do you do it? i've taken like 50 shots and they all look terrible. do you just crop a pic of your whole face or what? mine are blue... plus i'm all puffy from being out all night...|||i get annoyed, but i understand that it's a two way street. i texted a coworker twice last night. no response. i was annoyed, and eventually got in touch with someone else. funny thing is, my...|||*hugs everyone in the thread*   i love you guys!|||oh man, i had a nice response typed up, but it disappeared in a server time-out. doh!  Lullabyblossom, have him take the test again. the results are notoriously inaccurate. my first time i tested...|||thanks. that's pretty much what i was getting at. i'm exactly where i'm supposed to be. :happy:|||not a morning person at all, though its not like i wake up sullen or anything. i just prefer to gradually drift upward into consciousness, rather than be forced into it by an alarm.  alarm clocks...|||had a little moment today with the same chick i cried with on Tuesday. neither of us broke down, since we were at work, but it was close, lol...   a couple nights ago, i got into it with someone at...|||i had trouble finding my career. because my values are not the values of the world. i went to school for roughly five years, though not always full time. eventually, to me, it seemed stupid to go...|||actions speak louder than words, my friend. where is this change we were supposed to believe in?|||no offense, and if this is crossing far enough into politics as to be unacceptable, then i will delete it, but Obama is ABSOLUTELY NOT an ENFJ. bailing out the banksters from Wall Street on the backs...|||i've been going through this recently. it's only been the last couple days when i've actually been able to be myself around her... as for why it happens, i think it has to do with our innate desire...|||agreed. in my work situation, co-workers will come to me with a gripe or whatever because i'm more in tune with their emotional needs and feelings. so i'll act as the mediator and go to the ENTJ on...|||<--------jealous. i want to hook up with the ENTJ i work with. she's effin awesome.|||thanks. i'm sore all over. wow. i think my entire left side is one big bruise.|||i cried 3 times today. once when i saw my female ENFJ friend be wonderful to someone. it was so touching. next, when that same friend said something wonderful to me. (we both cried both times. and...|||i need to have a couple drinks so i can think.|||ashamed? HELL NO. we're some of the most wonderful human beings the world has to offer.   bad sterotypes are derived from interaction with unhealthy ENFJs.|||you know when you see another ENFJ commit some random act of love, are overwhelmed by the beauty in that person, choke up, tell them that they are wonderful, then THEY get overwhelmed, choke up, and...|||absolutely. but particularly between ENFJs and ENTJs. we're Yin and Yang.|||i cry. mostly listening to music. though if i read something truly inspirational, i'll break down. but anyway, it's love that gets me all choked up. maybe a better word would be yearning or longing....|||^^ exactly. and they can learn a thing or two from us as well.  :)|||did anyone happen to catch the eulogy of the John Wooden? what words did they use? selflessness, loyalty, drive, humility,  relationships, integrity, love. the VERY BEST coaches in the world are ALL...|||http://i778.photobucket.com/albums/yy67/lvbuckeye27/ENFJ.jpghttp://bighugelabs.com/motivator.php|||word. i'm in love with one. she tries to act heartless, but i can see right through that crap.|||get a healthy ENFJ to say it for you. ;)|||Selene, i signed up specifically to say thank you for your wonderful post. needless to say, it was a rather stunning revelation to be told by someone i've never even met that the person i've been...'