'Put it this way, my parents have been married for close to 30 years and she still doesn't share certain information in regards to her feelings with him to keep from rocking the boat. I've found that...|||As an INTJ myself, I can see where you are coming from in terms of having a difficult time understanding ISFJs. I've never been involved with an ISFJ romantically, but my mother is one and sometimes...|||Haha. I guess I'm aware of what I am.|||I have an ISFJ mother as well. She's a 2w3, I'm a 5w4. Let's just say that we rarely ever see eye to eye. We love each other unconditionally and get along well enough, but can rarely be in the same...|||I'm a 5w4, but everything I like is entirely different haha. Very, very different.|||I love the books as well as the shows. I really love Asha Greyjoy and the Lannisters. Especially Tywin. Daenerys is a really annoying character and I hope she ends up to be like her father.  And...|||Do you not give a damn about causing collateral damage among others for the sake of getting your kicks and sating your whims? I'm going to count this as a two-part question Do you not give a damn...|||Maynard always struck me as very INTJ-ish. I'm glad I'm not the only one to think so.|||I don't really put much time in to studying. I never have. My plan of attack has always just been to pay attention during the lecture and do the readings/homework as it is assigned. Surprisingly,...|||I never have and probably never will feel any pressing need to fit in. Mainly because I never could be bothered by it. Some would say that I've always been too lazy to put any effort in. Plus I...|||If this makes any sense at all, I tend to feel the loneliest when surrounded by people. To deal with this loneliness, I usually just seek solitude. I doubt this seems logical to anyone. I guess I...|||Considered it. Tried it a couple times.    Never worked.|||Best: ISTJ Middle: ISFP Worst: INFP|||I'm a little curious to see how you guys feel about alcohol, so I thought that I would ask a few questions:  1. Do you drink? If not, why?  2. How often do you drink?  3. How old were you when...|||I just hit 1 and then the 30 second button on mine. I find it to be the most expedient way to do it. This is rare, though, as I usually microwave in a pattern of 30 seconds, stir, 30 seconds, stir,...|||That's it. I'm kicking your ass- Hank Hill|||Ugh, my people needed me and I failed to answer the call!|||I do that. More often than I'd like to admit. Plus, the weight of the textbook helps to flatten the cover again...|||Yeah. I get to typing at work and muddle the two. Thanks!|||Unless he has expressed in the past that he would be okay with surprise parties, I wouldn't do it.  From my perspective as an INTJ: If my significant other told me that he was taking me out to...|||Unless I see some sort of personal gain coming from it, I only help others that I REALLY like...|||While I agree with the above posts about not assuming she had feelings for you, let's say she did. She may feel like you have led her on and now wants nothing to do with you in order to protect...|||While I can honestly say that I stay my usual responsible self, I have to admit that I become very active and out-going. I CONSTANTLY want to be doing something devious, demand there be music...|||My ISTJ boyfriend is similar. He attributes to thinking back on it to his Se function.|||I'm gonna have to say it's definitely no fault of my partner. He actually should have a degree in sexy time skills. It's all me. I can't seem to get out of my head enough to just enjoy sex as it...|||Yes. This fits me almost 100%. I get more aroused thinking about sex than actually doing it. In the moment, I kind of get bored with it. Then afterwards, I think about how erotic it was...|||I'm going to have to agree with Persephone on this one. Unless you feel that you NEED TO HAVE this girl, disengage. Do you really want to deal with the games? Do you think they would stop if the two...|||I adore playing with makeup. I like to alter my appearance frequently to keep myself from getting bored with my own face. I like playing with color combinations and styles. I'll go from neutrals to...|||I guess I fall into this category. Other music is fun, but metal is really the only music that stirs my emotions.|||I was asked, but never had any interest. Believe it or not, I'm not really one to like all the attention. I think that's another reason that I didn't invest much into the above conflict. I just...|||Sadly, I've never had a true nemesis due to the fact that I've always felt intellectually superior to almost all people who have challenged me IRL. Most of my nemesis situations happened when I was...|||I'm just going to sit here and pretend that I never studied how to play it when I was a kid. I'm also not going to mention that nobody will even play chess with me anymore because I have a bad habit...|||I consider myself to be more spiritual. I believe in a higher being, but detest organized religions.|||I would agree with the inventory theory. He has certain responses and facial expressions that he uses specifically for certain social situations or when he is uncomfortable. Most people fail to catch...|||amen!|||Oh dear lord, bending a book at the spine. Don't get me started. Whenever I have a paperback, I don't even opening it as wide as I could to avoid creasing it. I have a friend who cracks the spine of...|||I personally prefer to just avoid situations in which I am STUCK with people. People in close-quarters annoy the hell out of me right off the bat. I don't think I could stand a roommate situation....|||As a child, I was raised in the same home as both my parents and my grandmother. I had no cousins around my age who lived nearby. We lived in a rural area, so my brother and I were the only kids in...|||1. The Fountain- One of my favorite movies and one of the rare ones that give me all the feels. Essentially, it's just a movie about Hugh Jackman trying to cure his wife (Rachael Weiss) of cancer....|||I think I fluctuate between the Scholar and the Lurker depending on my surroundings and the people in them. The more comfortable I am, the more scholarly I become.|||I wouldn't say my ISTJ is much of a Fe user at all. Nor does he really understand Fe. He just senses it. Then avoids it.|||You should see the ESFP forum. Almost all of them are Hufflepuffs...|||I lose my temper VERY rarely. When I do, it is quite bad. I try to keep a calm, level head and confront people in a cool and collected way. However, there have been a couple of times when I have just...|||Green, Gold, Orange, Blue.|||I mutter mental checklists aloud to myself sometimes. I makes them seem more concrete.|||I think I said that totally wrong. What I meant was more along the lines of what you said, I just didn't really relay that clearly. In the sense that there is no strict set of rules and behaviors...|||I think what bothers me about these threads is that they all pertain to individual tastes. They have little to do with being an INTJ.|||I have a horrible time understanding Fe. I feel as if it would be a recipe for disaster.|||Why in the world would I want an INFP?|||I can't help but wonder if you genuinely want children and a partner, or if you feel like it's an expectation placed on you by society that you have to fulfill.'