'You wrote this so beautifully. I think what hurts me the most is when I meet people who pretend like they care and then over and over and over again they prove to me they don't. Authenticity is a...|||Thank you for your kind words of encouragement! God bless you!|||Hello my fellow INFJs!  I know a lot of us struggle with feeling too different.    I am just curious if any of you have experienced a sense of belonging at anytime in your life, be it with your...|||First off, I have to tell all of you how enjoyable its been to read the meanings of all these avatars. I love it how each picture is like a clue about the person using it. Thumbs up to all of you for...|||Well, I have been single for a long time and yes, I have plenty of people raising their eyebrows and asking if I am a closet lesbian. I try to respond graciously that I am straight, but have yet to...|||When I first meet people, I am told I come across as friendly and exuberant. I have a childish and playful sense of humor. People are always saying I act all innocent and cute. My closer friends tell...|||Ha! Ha! Ni usually generates way more different ideas than the majority of the population holds to. You got the Ni quirkiness down well! lol. Many of us feel like the odd one out in a society...|||If I had a penny for every time my ESFJ sister asked me this when I'm deep in thought I'd be rich I tell you, RICH! hahaha lol.[/QUOTE]  Ha Ha! So true! Those darn ESFJs think everyone should have...|||5ft 2in. :kitteh:|||Hey, hope this helps! :happy: Unfortunately, I don't know how to post links so I copied and pasted this off of personality pathways' website. :blushed: They have very good articles on all the...|||A lot of people give me compliments on my eyes. I have to admit, I like my eyes. People often ask  What are you thinking? I hate that question! No way am I telling you that! Why? Because I am an...|||I am considering becoming a massage therapist. I like the idea of doing something that helps people. Knowing me I will change my mind by next week and decide to go to astronaut school. :crazy: LOL|||Thank you Vivid Melody! You took the words right out of my mouth.|||I have to say Christmas has always been my favorite holiday. It means a lot to me to be with those who are closest to me. Presents are nice, but I really don't get into that as much (unless handing...|||People who try to control or micromanage me.:angry: There are other things too, like people who are mean, critical, and inconsiderate. I have a long fuse, but once I get to the end of it, watch out....|||Enya. It is peaceful and relaxing.|||I was such an approval addict when I was little. I still struggle with it. I've always behaved like an angel. My Mom used to ignore me a lot so the only way I could get her attention was to clean the...|||I love naming random objects. My GPS is named Eileen. My car's name is Mr. Mc Guzzle. Lolz|||My best friend is INFJ. When I first was getting to know her, I felt intimidated by her ability to practically read my mind and give a completely honest opinion about whatever I was thinking. At the...|||Holly, I loved the video! Clearly the most campy music video that ever there was! The best part is when he sways/ marches in place while he is singing. XD  I love akward humor! My sense of humor is...|||I think I get along extremely well with other Ns. We never get bored enough with each other to default our conversations to the weather.lol. We have many common nerdy interests so we enjoy each...|||I've always struggled with feelings of emptiness, no matter how much I achieve, no matter how much volunteer work I do or how many classes I take, it always feels like I'm not living up to my own...|||I am the girl quietly observing from the back of a crowded room. I am the girl happily wandering all over town by myself. I am the girl who sings off key at the top of her lungs when her room mates...|||Find a dream, does the stress of being around people all day overwhelm you or is it your boyfriend's family that makes you stressed? Maybe a combo of both? I know for me, going out for big social...|||Apples with organic peanut butter and cinnamon sprinkled on top. So yummy! That's what I do if I am not up to cooking. Lol|||This year, holidays have been especially difficult. I've moved over two thousand miles away from family to get some much needed distance from all the drama, but now I don't know what to do with...|||I like to have the company of others from time to time, but I'm verry careful about who I allow to get close. I feel like I can't hang out just for the sake of hanging out. I need to be able to...|||Mom: ESFJ  :angry:  Dad: INTP  :laughing:|||[QUOTE=Ice Ghost;1837573]No, they don't have deeper interests. I would love to hear one musician write a song about the Theory of Evolution or the Theory of Relativity.[/QUOTE  This is why %90 of...|||Foot ball. It's sooo sooo borring! What's so great about a bunch of people clobbering each other for the ball? They never even make the goal before being stopped by the other team unless they have...|||Anahata, thank you so much for writing such a wise post! I needed to be reminded of those truths. Things seem very impossible in my life right now, but you are right that I do need to have more faith...|||Hi everyone!   I have been cycling through another one of my  Life feels so pointless when all I do is work and am barely able to pay the bills! kind of mood lately. I want to possibly go back to...|||Yes, I am always feeling isolated. Here is a sample below of what my friendships are like. No one seems to get my emotional intensity and my INFJ quirks. I HATE being told how to feel, but it happens...|||It certainly is quiet in here. Time to put out some free coffee and donuts.lol|||Hey there ENFJs! What makes you fall madly in love? :tongue: How does someone go about winning your heart?   Me? Infatuated with an ENFJ? Why don't be so presumptuous!    Apparently, I'm not...|||It amazes me how common bullying is in our schools. We need an anti-bullying movement to emerge in our schools and raise awareness. Underdogs, unite! LOL ( Not that I'd know where to start. I'm not...|||Unfortunately, I'm not what you'd call a healthy INFJ :-(  Hope this helped and good luck with your situation ;-)|||Funny you should mention this being an INFP because I had a similar situation with an INFP male. We mutually liked each other, but I didn't want to get involved with him. I was in a transitional time...|||I do a 180 degree turn when I see you walking in my direction. I get extremely quiet and shy. I act awkward and nervous. You can count on me tripping over something, knocking over an expensive...|||I guess I've always had an artsy hippy kind of look with the way I dress. I love thrift stores. I've never been one to follow trends. Sometimes I just like being a little bit dressed up because it...|||Who would have ever known we INFJs could be so evil? We could set out for world domination without anyone ever suspecting it.|||Okay. Here it goes. I feel terrible about this one. :unsure: I used to do babysitting for a wealthy family and one of the kids often acted spoiled, disrespectful and ungrateful so I purposely forgot...|||1.I love thunder storms. 2.I'm a grown up who loves kids shows ( I'm still in the closet about My little ponies) 3.I have a lot of health issues that only my closest friends know about. 4.I want...|||This thread is going to make me cry. :-(  I miss so many things. I'm tormented by perpetual nostalgia because I used to know simpler times and now that I'm all grown up everything is so complicated....|||- Giving sincere heart felt compliments - Smiling  - Knows just how to balance listening with talking - Helping others - Being generous and caring - Encouraging people to pursue their dreams -...|||Yeah, I truly agree with ya here. It is pathetic how my friends have to drag me out of my cave. I'd much rather sit around thinking of everything and nothing all weekend then go to the movies all the...|||Oh my Gosh!!! Yummy ENFJ guy? That term is so hilarious! I just about rolled on the floor laughing when I read your post. Thanks for sharing. Unfortunately my ENFJ guy was to old for me as well. He...|||I suppose it could work pretty well with an Infj/Infp pairing. One of my close guy friends is an Infp. I swear we have the coolest conversations on all kinds of philosophical, spiritual, and...|||Ha Ha. I just need to find a nice Enfj guy. I absolutely adore Enfjs! The only thing is I'm some what of a hermit so I hope the extravertedness wouldn't wear me out :-(|||Hmmmmm.....wish I could contribute some nuggets of wisdom, but unfortunately, like most INFJs on here, I have never been in  serious relationship before.'