'Every time I try to meditate, I just end up falling asleep.|||She's an intelligent and driven person, and I can respect her for that.  It doesn't mean I'm going to agree with her on the issues though.  Unfortunately, I've seen too many people imply or outright...|||God, I was a dick 6 years ago...|||Let me ask my husband.  (He's not big on forums, haha)  For people to not be dicks|||These are phone meetings, which is tough, because I don't have this problem in in-person meetings thanks to body language and visual cues.   Also I don't think I'm an 8 anymore.  I think I turned...|||Why do people do this?  And then those same people complain later that you (okay, I) didn't contribute?  STFU.  Literally.    Anyone else constantly being talked over by the same few...|||Not at all.  Major kudos to you for taking action and learning it on your own.  You'll probably end up better at it than the average person, because they probably forgot everything they learned...|||For their sig, the T in INTJ could be a cross. :p  And despite what MBTI dogma on here may have you believe,  no, Christian NTs aren't 'broken'.  Last I checked, NT doesn't stand for Non-Theist.|||Lol.  If you happen to be my boyfriend, snuggle right on up!  Sorry I'm so bad at initiating and being so squirmy.  :P  If you're anyone else,  um...  sorryg2gIthinkmypetcockroachdiedToodles!|||Yelling at people in general is highly unprofessional.  I saw your other thread about your personal dramas with Julie, so I'm not going to sugarcoat this:  You need to get it together, fast. ...|||You're not there to make friends.  She doesn't have to like you, just as you don't have to like everyone either.   As long as she's not actively doing something bad to you, accept that nobody is...|||When you respond to BECAUSE I SAID SO with why do you say so?|||If you're a male, congratulations.  You've won the MBTI jackpot.  Any weaknesses anyone can come up with are simply things that bother the *other* person, and not yourself.  So lucky you.  May I be...|||I'm kind of similar...in that if someone tries to overpower/steamroll/disrespect me, I instinctively dish it back out twofold to them, because I'm not going to just stand there and be shat on.    I...|||The ones I hate the most:  It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year - way, way overplayed  White Christmas - overplayed, and depressing  Feliz Navidad - wtf.  So it's a Spanish-based...|||Re: the supposed bossiness  I've never known a bossy ENTJ.  I think to them, bossiness is kind of, been there, done that, got the t-shirt, started a clothing company of it and outsourced to China.|||Still can't think of the perfect thing to get my boyfriend for Christmas.  He's adamant that I don't buy things for him.  He wants me to either make something for him, or to think of a great date...|||YKYA Thinker when...  You inwardly cringe when customer service people (retail greeters, waitresses) use their customer service voice on you....you know, the high-pitched artificially bubbly...|||???  The most notorious hoarders I know are SJs.  Must be an unhealthy manifestation/use of Si.  The INFPs I've known have been just as bad in their hoarding.  But they hoard differently. ...|||lol, I see what you did there...|||I'll start.  The Christmas music!   And they sing.  And they sing.  And they sing, sing, sing!  :angry:  Every time I hear the incessant holiday music playing everywhere, it reminds me of...|||I'm moving, and I decided to recycle all my yearbooks.  My middle school and high school years felt like prison, and I have no desire to relive those memories.  Didn't really have too many friends,...|||When you're forced to pare down on your collection of books, is it an easy task for you, or is it tough to part ways with them?  How have you worked with/around this?   .....  I'm moving in with...|||How old were these people when they were telling you to shut up and go away?  Since you're only 17, I imagine that these were adolescents and kids saying that to you.    At that age, that's to be...|||Despite being half Indian (dot Indian, not feather), I have naturally dark blonde hair, grey green eyes... and super pale skin.    INTJ   Maybe I'm so pale because I'm not out exercising my Se in...|||Yup. Especially when we get in Ni-Fi loops.|||I cannot pull of sexy if my life depended on it.  I look stupid doing it, and always end up doing something clumsy.  It always feels weird and ridiculous.  I don't worry about it though.  If I...|||Well, from a utilitarian standpoint, it's pretty difficult to be maximally productive if you're constantly spending all your energy fending off bullies.    And it's harder nowadays to fight back...|||Once you're out of college, social life tends to become more coincidental than the distinct entity it was when you were younger.  You hang out with your co-workers for a beer after work, rather than...|||I don't want kids.  Never have, and never will.  I tried to convince myself to want kids, but I can't.  I have almost a visceral repulsion against the very idea, and I can only think of all the...|||I'm wondering if I require an abnormal amount of alone time, even compared to other Introverts.  In order for me to feel my best, I need to have at least 2 solid days per week of personal space. ...|||I eat when I eat.  I don't worry about remembering to eat.  If I was truly hungry, I wouldn't forget.  Of course, I'm 5'10 and 102 lbs, so take my philosophy with a grain of salt. lol|||These two things are the bane of my existence.  I can't properly focus on a task if I'm constantly being interrupted, or if I even anticipate being interrupted.  For example, in-depth project...|||Well...got back from our trip last night.    And it was a success!  Had a blast, and as for my INTJ...  Well, he wants us to move in together.  You be the judge.  lol|||So should I suggest we separate to get out of each other's faces here and there?   Because during weekends together, he wants to be with me 24/7.  I took a 10 minute walk alone while he was sleeping...|||My INTJ and I are going to France together in a week for 8 days.   Would this be bearable to an INTJ?  He suggested it, and seems extremely excited about it.    What are some tips to make this an...|||This seems more like an S thing than a T thing.|||Doesn't everyone do this..... ?   :x|||ENFPs  Ne - childlike wonder and curiosity and randomness Fi - raw emotions|||Oh, hello.  You've been replaced.|||I have actually made many more friends out in the real world than I did in school.  Don't even worry.|||Try San Francisco, too.  Best city in America to be a bum.|||I'm not clumsy, the objects were just in my way.|||76. Thou shalt disregard all commandments, including this one.|||I should charge you for every minute you hold me up to chatter.  Call it a consultation fee.|||This was the wrong section.  I posted this in the appropriate section, so this one can be deleted..|||Just wondering.|||Sounds like some pretty extreme impulse control issues.  If you haven't already done so, you may want to seek out professional help.  Undiagnosed ADHD, bipolar disorder, anger management issues, or...|||...|||Honestly I think being SP first kinda sucks.  If it's not controlled, it can lead to paranoia and worry.  :-/'