'Well, I don´t think us ENFPs CHOOSE to date around and denying ourselves happiness because of that! We just (try!) to have high standards :-))|||Hehe, not sure how I`m going to take that, hehe :-)|||THIS is never boring .-))    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0X9fVYDgIZE|||Oh, my GOD! Impressed! Wish I was that settled at that age! Wish I AM that settled at the age of 35, hehe :-)|||I would definitely say so! I think my country displays a wide range of acceptance to how you are as a person, or how you settle your life. It`s just as ok to travel around the world and do some...|||Just stole this idea from the INFJ-forum, and thought it was a good idea to see how the opinions among my fellow fantastic ENFPs are :-)   So! I live in Norway, and from my experience this is a...|||:-))) Me too :-)) !!! Exclamation marks and smileys, that`s my thing, hehe :-)) !|||Hehe, nothing in my life is straight! Straight is boooring, one way or the other, hehe :-)|||Hehe! Whenever me and my cousin have an ENFP-festival (lots of wine and lots of music), we listen to those girls! Britney being the center of attention! And DON`T get me starting on boyband remixes...|||Oki, feeling inspired here (no SHIT!) I`ll give it a try! (After a few glasses of wine :-) )|||I`m not so good at cuddling, but I`m FABULOUS at serving wine or cocktails and putting  on the perfect music :-))|||With a few exceptions, my best friends are the ENFJs and the INFJs. The communication there is fantastic, even if I haven`t spoken to one of them for quite some time, it always feels like it was...|||When you were EXACTLY like this as a child!!!   Portrait of an ENP Child|||This is interesting! If my ex is an ISTJ, I would TOTALLY get this, but he tested ESTJ the last time, and then we`re supposively supplement.But one of my best girlfriends fit the supplement perfectly...|||Or when you find a practical solution to something, like getting the projector in the classroom to work for a colleague by looking sharp at the object, pretending that you have extensive knowledge...|||Sounds just lovely and fantastic!! And it doesn`t appear like you`re eachother`s anima at all. (Just heard from a guy here that ISTJ/ENFP are eachother`s anima, that you`re supposed to push...|||When you can tell after speaking to your friend with a new SO for just a few minutes how it´s going to develop, hehe :-))|||We ENFPs have to stick together!! That`s for sure since we are so unique, hehe :-)|||Yup! :-)|||Besides being a 100 % P, I totally see your point, and I `ve often felt like you`re saying, but maybe not allowing myself to express it the way you do, which I DEFINITELY should when necessary! My...|||Oh, yes!! I second that :-))|||Hm... Still a newbie on this forum, but am still eternally grateful to pinkraspuntin/The King Of Dreams because of the fantastic feel-good-thread about ENFP-men :)) Will NEVER forget that one :-))  ...|||Nice to hear this from an ISTJ. If I meet an ISTJ with this approach I wouldn`t run away instantly, hehe.|||Thank you, and YES it does! My primary love language is words of affirmation and quality time (both 12 points). And I LOVE giving speeches and communicate with words to other people :-)|||Wooord!! This is EXACTLY me!!|||Btw, I tested him again and he`s not an ISTJ, he`s an ESTJ, if that makes things better, LOL!|||Yes, indeed, I was able to have loads of fun! I have come to the same conclusion as you. This is not good for me, neither for him, because I kind of feel that it is my need of helping others that...|||Thanks both of you! I`m having this discussion with myself as we speak. It kind of makes me CRAZY! I wish this person had a simpler type for me to read and understand, hehe! I haven`t done it easy...|||Thank you, it does! But what if you are a bit confused with your gut reaction, like right now, I am because it changes several times during the day about that same matter. I am at a foggy place, and...|||Thank you so much for your constructive answer, I sense that I need to dwell a bit on your points to see how they can make an influence on my life. It seems very logic and sensible, though. I`m just...|||I see! I can also be late, but that`s not my weakest side, actually. My mom (she´s an INFJ) is late for almost everything, so just by trying to be opposite her behaviour, I`m almost never late, at...|||Yes! I feel very lucky, they are all fantastic people, and for some reason, most of them are single, which is BEYOND me, being beutiful norwegian women all of them :-)   So you are a med-student?...|||Just curious, being an ENFP and having several female ENFJs as my closest friends! We love each other and have that fantastic communication and connection. We finish each other`s sentences and...|||I`m not an ENFJ, but all of my darling girlfriends are, so can it be typical for a female ENFJ to have a gay ENFP best friend?? There isn`t a single type in the whole wide world that I admire more...|||As you can se, I have 100 % perceiving, and I notice that I need to work on my judging preference. But I do wonder HOW! I see a clear distinction between myself and my ENFJ friends. We think the...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WFWDLgkjAs|||Hm... Interesting answers! I do wonder why I have so few introverts among my friends. I forgot to mention my older sister, she`s an INFP and we also share everything, she`s a fantastic big sister to...|||My primary love language is a tie between words of affirmation and quality time. Physical touch for me is only something I like if I`m in a cuddly mood (like sundays), but not my primary need. But I...|||I`m kind of the same. Love hugs from friends and family, but not others. Maybe this is a myth that all ENFPs love hugs??|||YEAHH!! Let`s be!!   When you go to a bar and end up giving relationship advices to a bunch of strangers at the same time telling everybody that your own relationship history is totally messed up,...|||I just wonder about a few things. Are there any better frienship matches than others? And who do you spend most of your leisure time with? Is there a tendency to be spotted?   I am an ENFP and I do...|||Thank you for all support :-) Tonight it`s saturday night, not going to deal with the drama, just go craaazy with my wonderful ENFJ-girlfriends! There WILL be wine, there WILL be shooters, there WILL...|||Thank you for your honest answer, for me, it`s not that easy, my ENFJ-girlfriends say the exact same thing that you do! I`m just so confused, I`m seriously thinking this is the man of my life, I do...|||I`m a Ne ! Right now, I feel like being a Si Te Ni Fe!! Tired of all the signals I`m catching!|||Hm, where do I start, well, we met early this summer and we went like KABOOM, kind of stressful for both of us! Then I picked up that he has loads of issues regarding his childhood and developing...|||Sounds like my ISTJ, but HOW do you deal with it when he draws himself into his shell? (If your man does...) If I`m in a good mood and spirit, I can handle it quite well, but if I´m a bit down and...|||When you with extreeeeemly childlike enthusiasm tell your fellow master students about MBTI, and use oh, look, a bird! example to illustrate your personality type (with extensive body language and...|||And us norwegians are left out AGAIN! Well, thank God we have the oil in the north sea. And winter sports :-)|||Like, like, LIKE!! I feel like that ALL the time, best post here so far!|||ISTJs are the most fascinating of all the introverts in my opinion. Right in the middle of a whole lot of drama, don`t know where it`s heading. But I do get that minimum of appreciation I need to...'