'KOREAN <3 mmmmm|||No no no you guys, I mean as in the SOCIONICS benefactor/beneficiary. Also known as the request relationship. Not as a sugar daddy, good lord XD|||Hello, my fellow ENFPs! :D  What has your experience been like with ENTJs? In friendship and dating, specifically?  What was awesome? What sucked? What did you fight about? What things do you...|||Dear ENTJs,  What has your experience been like with ENFPs? In friendship and dating, specifically?  What was awesome? What sucked? What did you fight about? What things do you wish the ENFP knew...|||Can anyone give me some good advice on how to sustain benefactor/beneficiary relations?  Asking for a friend. *cough*me*cough.  It could be just general info or specific. In this scenario, it's a...|||1) Is the ENTJ/ENFP scenario doomed to fail, as a result of the relationship being a benefactor/beneficiary relationship per Socionics?   2) What are the signs to look for when seeking an ENTJ who...|||I am an ENFP, and I ..... have a one-way ticket to NYC on September 26th! Finally, my big move!! Nervous/excited!!|||Lol no way do I fantasize about marriage. Although I would like to get married eventually for the purposes of raising offspring. :P|||I definitely COULD see myself getting into a relationship with an ENFP though. It just hasn't happened so far. One issue for me is that I'm really high energy...so actually, I prefer the person I'm...|||I've only met one (known) ENFP who I found to be charming, a male. However, I myself am an ENFP, so perhaps it's an issue of not wanting to commit type-cest ;)|||Aahhahehehe. This post made me laugh. Such an ENTJ thing to say xD (Laugh in a good way, not a mocking way). LOVE, WHAT IS IT GOOD FOR?|||Also, I'd like to add: My life is FAR from perfect. In fact, it's pretty dramatic and shitty. But Idk what it is with ENTJs, it just always feels like I have THE ANSWERS for them. Maybe because they...|||Hello again ENTJs. This ENFP has taken an (albeit selfish) interest in the inner workings of your brain and/or psyche. :tongue:  Can you please explain to me how you personally perceive and utilize...|||Hey now, I wasn't calling ALL ENTJs lives a shitshow. My comment was only directed towards two specific ENTJs, both of whom I had a falling out with (one got enraged over some stupid political stuff...|||Got it! So it makes sense that my relationships/friendships with some ENTJs blew up. They did not like how heavily I use my Fi, and how I was trying to help them solve their shitshow personal lives...|||Where can you find out which types have the most potential for conflict? I don't quite understand what you mean by this: people who have the same function as their primary and quaternary/retarded.....|||Woah!! Super insightful comment. Thanks for contributing to the thread.|||Today really sucked. My life feels like one huge string of doctor's appointments. Trying to remember that it will get better soon....main issue is that while I'm sane on my meds, with the...|||Okay. Okayokayokay. Wow i'm glad PerC exists because I need to tell this to someone. I'm getting off the computer. I'm going to calm down and take a shower. And then I'm going to do something so that...|||I'm feeling really down right now. I need to stop watching stuff (Dr. Phil, namely) that triggers me. I feel anxious and also scared. I need to do something important quickly this weekend. Well, many...|||I absolutely do. Hence why I'm seeing a career counselor! To help me figure out which career I shall change to. :-)|||I'm very good at it. Mostly because I experience absolutely no fear, no matter how large the crowd is. I attribute my experiences in high school Speech and Debate to that ... attribute, of mine!|||I don't think that ENTJs are misunderstood.  I think INTJs are misunderstood, though.|||With INTJs, you are surprised by the intensity of their Fi.   With ENTJs, you are surprised by the intensity of their Se.  ENTJs understand people better, but care about them less.  INTJs are...|||On average, INTJs are much nicer and much deeper than they appear on the surface.   On average, ENTJs are much meaner and much shallower than they appear on the surface.|||ENTJs are definitely lightyears ahead of the INTJs in terms of being socially savvy, but also lightyears more likely to cause real emotional damage to other people due to inferior Fi.|||Thanks for your input but you totally missed the point of this thread.|||Yeah seriously. Thanks for having my back, Scarlet!|||it feels safer and easier to try to play dumb and convince yourself/let yourself be convinced by the party in question that something bad you think happened didnt actually happen. but that is not the...|||You're right Scarlett. I think I will just not have this planned conversation with him and tell him that I think we should take a break and leave it at that. I already blocked him on FB so that is...|||I hate to say it, but you're right. You're telling me what I already knew but didn't want to accept. Thank you. I will confront him with your exact verbiage when we talk on the phone.  He will...|||very wise and accurate advice.... maybe too accurate....ugh...*gulp* >.<  You're right. I really, REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY don't want it to be what I think it is. I really don't. Because if...|||And again, guys, feel free to verbally bitchslap me if I'm wrong here. :/ The reason why I am posting here is because I feel like I don't have other options. Being unemployed due to my illness for...|||Which thing are you talking about? The sleeping with me thing? Because yes, he really, actually did sleep with me when I was suffering from mania and didn't know what was going on. But I also was...|||Alternatively, I may try to re-define our relationship/friendship/whatever to something different. ENTJs are good at being explicit, so I think I will try to explain my point of view and ownership...|||Totally fair comment and thanks a lot for thinking about my well-being in this situation. <3 It means a lot. I am feeling a lot better, and I 100% agree with you. I'm going to be completely selfish...|||From an outsider's perspective: When my INTJ friends cook dinner for me, they are very happy if I compliment it excessively for being delicious. And those compliments are well-deserved, because all...|||I'm already quite aware that I'm not mentally all here right now so that's not a question, I guess what I'm asking for, if it's possible to know, what is this person's motivation. I keep freaking...|||We're not together, uhm, we slept together once. No he is not *my* psychiatrist, that would indeed be very bad. Considering how sick I am/have been I guess I'm posting this mostly because I can't see...|||Oh, I have just Googled BPD. No, I am definitely not borderline. I was just psychiatrically hospitalized for 5 days due to bipolar i mania/psychosis, and I've also been diagnosed with complex PTSD...|||If by BPD you mean bipolar, you are correct, I have been diagnosed with bipolar i. I am also extremely, extremely stressed out. :/|||ENTJ male and ENFP hook up, which was extremely morally dubious on the ENTJ's part since ENTJ knew ENFP was sick and how she was sick (ENTJ being a psychiatrist) and that her illness makes her...|||I am totally going to make this. Ty!|||Literally every professional mathematician and pure mathematics graduate student I've met has been an xTxP. Same with every person I've met who is REALLY into math.  Surely there are other types...|||Not helpful Mr. Stawker :exterminate: :tongue:|||THAT LOOKS AMAZING. Do you make the dough yourself, or buy it? I 100% want to make it!!!!!|||Here is my ENFP-trying-to-be-an-ENTJ picture from a few years back ;D  700297|||Ok. I'll be honest. Still hung up on an ENTJ. But...hey, it's making me think that perhaps I should change my dating strategy and look for another ENTJ to date, since the guy I'm currently obsessed...|||I can 100% relate to this! And is why I get along so well with (healthy) ENTJs. :-)|||Thought-provoking commentary,          Figure.   I'll be completely honest, at this point in my life, I find myself highly wary of male INFPs in particular. Every single friendship I've had with a...'