'I feel kind of separated from everything and everyone, more so than usual, and there's so much work on and too much to do and nobody will gain from it anyway, I've been feeling constantly lethargic...|||It's interesting about the finger ratios. Mine was 0.90 on the left hand and 0.91 on the right. That's more testosterone in the womb than the average male...|||Of course! I didn't mean to imply that. I was kind of going on the scenario of not being able to persuade them otherwise, having already tried. I should've been clearer.|||I'm a type 9, so I juggle trying to maintain peace between everyone with my hate for being involved in any kind of conflict.|||I believe it was someone on Perc, and I can't remember who, who once said something along the lines of: Everyone's entitled to their own opinion, no matter how prejudiced or wrong they might be....|||The side I try to never show is how selfish I am, because that's not a desirable characteristic. I mean, it's not like I'm always selfish or that I always do what I prefer, but there's definitely a...|||That's cute! Let him wear what he wants. Girls can be tomboys, so boys can wear 'girl' clothes. Shoes are no big deal. If the other kids didn't tease him, nobody's getting hurt.|||Well, Chickpea is one. Mostly in school my nicknames were banter-like and not serious (at least I hope haha): The Man, The Fat One, Thing, The Hobbit, etc.|||In The Last Battle by C.S Lewis, I think it has a good analogy in there, at the end. I can't really remember but it was something to do with a guy who was raised to hate Aslan (Aslan = Jesus) and he...|||1. How idealistic are you? Relatively, quite highly idealistic, compared to what I see from most people. I can tell the difference between ideals and reality, though. Ideals are the goal, I keep...|||I'm generally a cheerful person- as fun as it was to angst as a teenager, being happy is much much better, so I try to do so.  I figure, I'm always worrying if my friends are unhappy, so the least I...|||I'm not sure. I tend to vary between knowing what's best for myself and forgetting it, fluidly. I can't seem to work out any correlation of the timing/type of situation, though.|||I've noticed some of the ENFJs (myself included) are listed as gender neutral.  So, here's a gender test.  It's quite long, but different from the usual agree-disagree scale test.   Here's my...|||dear INFP friend, thank you so much. you have no idea how much it means that you can swallow your pride and apologise. seriously, I really respect that. and I'm impressed you could even tell that it...|||dear INFP friend, good plan, why don't you just insult everything I believe in? sigh. sincerely, chickpeaax.|||Sometimes I just really, really hate human nature.|||I do tend to think of things as being 'other people' and then 'me'. But that's probably because I do think differently from most of the people I know. They're constantly telling me I'm weird. It's...|||Pretty much this.|||I have a terrible memory in general, except for direction which I for some reason can remember perfectly (eg if I were to take a car journey I took once years ago I'd be able to remember the way...|||Sorry to be the one to introduce the TL;DR.  How bizarre is it that humans have this specific feeling for when they want to be with another person, like that makes no sense, there is no physical...|||I don't like showing emotion outwardly. It's stupid, I know, but I feel like a wuss.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFkzRNyygfk|||Dear all PerC members,  Happy New Year, ahead of time. Unless you're living somewhere where it's already 2012. I hope it's a good year for you all. New Year's resolution: spend more time here and...|||Dear life,  Slow down, please? I miss having free time.   sincerely, a chickpeaax who hasn't been on PerC for almost a month save for a few lurking occasions and is very sorry to have deserted...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qMXBUjm8tM&ob=av2e fun.- Be Calm  I've reclaimed the use of my imagination for better or for worse, I've yet to know but I always knew you'd be the one to...|||Welcome to PerC! We should get all the ESFJs to, I dunno, gang up and take over. Except we'd probably just end up asking people how they feel and then sticking to our own forum again, so hmm. I don't...|||I never talk about people behind their backs and when I hear other people doing so, I stick up for the person who's not there, even if I don't like them and think they're in the wrong- everyone needs...|||I'd say mostly A with some B (but not all- I'd ask questions but not give much solid advice because I could give awful advice. I'd ask questions that might lead them to finding their own decision.)...|||Welcome back!|||I'm sorry for disappearing! Of course it wouldn't be an intrusion! I didn't mean to disappear completely, I just have a very busy month but I'm still lurking and I'll be back soon! I'm sorry.|||Dear... I don't know, someone.   November is going to be painfully stressful and I have a lot to do, I didn't say before but I didn't have much time for the internet over the last couple of weeks,...|||What! This song has been in my head for eight hours and I come on here and it's been posted! XD|||Dear Mad World,  Get out of my head! You're driving me insane!  Sincerely, someone who has had the same song in her head for... eight hours, now.|||I miss you. It's ridiculous. You've been away for two days. I spend a lot of days away from you normally, but only now my mind decides to make me miss you? I don't want to be dependent on one person....|||strangely, I seem to rhyme it with 'on' when singular, and 'own' when plural. I never realised this until just now. That's a bit weird of me, right?|||Seriously, does everyone else enjoy 'deep' conversations? Maybe it's my Sensing side, but I hate it.  I think about 'deep' things near constantly, but when it comes to discussing them, everyone...|||Dear four male friends of unknown personalities,  I find it sort of funny that you're gossiping about people we know, while I'm watching football and police chases on youtube. Way to break the...|||Racism is one of the few ways to make me angry (Level 3 anger, as you put it in another thread).  Just reading about this is making my hands shake and that's when I'm nowhere near the situation.   ...|||Gonna be honest, I spend most of my free time on the internet. Very sociable, I know.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SY-c-_sZ8LI&ob=av2n|||I already knew what the ending was before playing it (a friend told me :/) so I knew what to expect... when I was near the end, I wanted to stop playing so that the ending wouldn't happen. But I did...|||Niccolo Machiavelli, you use so many smileys, it's amazing!|||Dear Aizar,  Thank you! That means so much to me. Thank you!!  sincerely, a chickpeaax who is getting a bit wobbly and seriosuly appreciating the people on this forum.|||Dear Jawz,  Thank you. So much. Seriously.  Sincerely an ExFJ who seems to have lost the ability to write proper sentences.|||I treat it as a joke, laugh it off. (or, you know, laugh it off internally if it's inappropriate to do so out loud).  I usually don't take anything personally and it's been said that it's...|||Dear Etherea, Jawz, Selene,   Oh my gosh you guys I'm tearing up right now and am so amazed that you care. Seriously, you don't know how much that means. Gosh.  Jawz, you guessed right. It was...|||tumblr.  that is all.|||Exactly. This is EXACTLY me.  Nobody gets why I don't allow myself to get angry. It's because I know I have to capability to destroy someone when angry.   They say Fe has a high threshold for...|||Nooooo. I'm a much worse friend than almost all of my friends are.|||you're so weird  thanks for being there for me  I'd love to see what goes on in your head. It must be such a happy place. (I always laugh at this, because on some parts, it is. In other...'