It's not like I panic if I have a crush on someone...I just have a minor heart attack :unsure:  It's not something people would expect of me because I look cool, confident and powerful, and I'm...|||At first glance, people usually think I'm really dumb because of my looks/image...I got stereotyped against a bunch at my hipster-ish uni because of this. It's nothing I really mind though, and...|||Wait, who's the ENFJ here, the old pal? In any case, I don't see much of a problem here...just enjoy the clicking and see where it takes you, you'll know when and if the time is right to leave your...|||Gee, you do seem to have it tough, I pity you :D   In all seriousness, mate, at least telling someone that you're only interested in fucking should be an easy thing in the 21st century. Just make...|||I am able to provide:  - an optimistic attitude that lightens the mood  - wacky jokes and wisecracks to put a positive spin on any situation  - a thorough and detailed analysis of any situation...|||Beards are nice but long hair is what really gets me going! In any case, hair is cool :)|||You scored 83.333 out of 100 masculine points, 56.667 out of 100 feminine points, and 63.158 out of 100 androgynous (neutral) points.  ENFJ female|||My sister is 11 years younger but she's an ENFJ 7w8 just like me...whenever I send her some other kind of personality test for fun she scores exactly like me, too :)  We're almost carbon copies when...|||I'm like that too! :) As soon as I see some random stranger being upset - anybody, anywhere - I would sooo much like to run over and lend a helping hand. Sometimes I might do just that, but other...|||Nice description, thanks! ˝Playful gentleness˝ describes well what I find so attractive about INFPs :)    I had this experience with an ENFP...he was nagging me all the time to tell him how I...|||Which type are you asking about here? :D   I'm not like this at all, I prefer to give people space to express themselves and try to accept everyone as they are...my Fe helps me adapt to all kinds...|||Oh yes, totally! This is why I need a lot of ˝me time˝...I can get completely swept up by the thoughts, feelings and energies of others. When I watch a film, I can feel what everybody around me...|||INTJ father (tested) + ESFP mother (such an obvious example she doesn't need to be tested, and I doubt she would care or have the patience for that anyway) = two ENFJ sisters who, I like to believe,...|||Emeraude - horrible J in the sense that tidiness doesn't come naturally to me, that I procrastinate all the time, act chaotically and spontaneously...most people would never say I was a J just by...|||My socionics results are all over the place, mostly ENFp and ENFj :)|||True, you can't make somebody like you...but, luckily for you, many ENFJs have a natural tendency to fall for INFPs!   In my case, it's enough for INFPs to just exist, and I'm smitten...ok, I'm...|||Yes, because it's hot, just like us :P|||I can also be horrendously chaotic, unorganised, procrastinating, hyperactive and simply all over the place...I always test high P and you would never guess I was a J by looking at me :D Also, I'm an...|||Don't mind the haters, dear! You probably have a special spiritual energy that your bf can pick up visually...or something like that. It doesn't really matter what it is, the important thing is how...|||Not yet...thanks for the tip :wink:|||Well, at least it made somebody laugh :D   I think he was an experimental ENFP in every way :D|||Gosh, I had this problem a loooot when I was younger!   I didn't want to talk too much about myself because I wanted to keep the conversation interesting for the other person...so this mostly meant...|||White and gold...no matter what I do it won't appear otherwise :)|||Lions all the way! :) Though maybe that's not my proper spirit animal as it might be influenced by the fact that I'm a Leo...but I identify with lions (and other wild cats) a whole lot :)|||Count me curious too! :) Would it be pure awesomeness, or would the similarity mean a lack of ˝excitement˝? Hmmmm...|||Never was really partial to elephants, though I think it's sooo adorable when a big elephant holds a little one by the trunk!!  http://atma.hr/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/parenting-30.jpg ...|||Hehehe, I totally understand, I never felt safe with my problematic ENFP too :D He understood me like nobody else, but all the rest was very...turbulent!   Now I'm finding myself attracted to more...|||Hmmm, me and my ENFP ex were totally opposite to this - he was all about feelings and creativity, I was more about logic, philosophy and analysis...being with him really opened up my heart and right...|||Exercise, meditation and dancing, just like everybody else :D   Pampering also works great...a hot bath, sauna or massage :)  If I'm really angry too, I'll put on some punk music and go crazy!|||Haahha, that pic of Spock made me laugh :)  Put together like that, the images are very vivid....nice work! :)   The Ni and Se pics spoke the most to me :)|||For me, sex can be a deeply spiritual and transformative experience...  ...or it can be just plain physical fun, no strings attached. I can swing both ways ;)  For a long time I experienced sex...|||I'm lucky to have never have any heroin addicts as friends, otherwise I most likely wouldn't be typing this today... 'nuff said  :confused:|||We have a huge talent for ˝selling˝ things, packaging them in a way that will be exactly what someone wants to hear...our strength is that we always adapt the message to the listener :)    For...|||Awww Kramer's technicolour coat, I would totally wear that!|||Awwww I like it a lot, especially the peace sign and flower! And it's in my favourite colour, too :)|||Anything as long as it's not ˝Giver˝! I find that such a horrendous name, makes us seem like doormats, sluts or both! :D  Many good proposals here :)|||My favourite look is hippy/boho/gypsy/psychedelic...bright colours, ethnic prints and a lot of paisley :D  I also collect vintage clothes from the 60s and 70s...have an entire wardrobe dedicated...|||You definitely sound like an ENFJ :)|||The abstract of my master's thesis is a strong INTP (99% I, N and T), while one of my random posts here is an ESFJ, it seems.  So, do I have a case of split personality, or does academic writing...|||Eat, Pray, Love?|||I agree with Happy about Nothing. ...my advice is to keep it genuine :)   Personally, I don't think there's anything creepy about messaging an unknown person on Facebook...and, hey, we all like to...|||I dated an ENFP for a long time and, even though I'm usually a great listener, sometimes he would really test my patience.   My J-ness makes me prefer communication that is succinct, to the point...|||ENFJ, as many as I'm allowed or until the browser crashes...|||I love the way INTPs mumble on and on about metaphysics with their heads down, too shy to even meet my eye...sooo cute! Or maybe it's just the INTPs I met :D   I don't think I've ever met a boring...|||We are profoundly shallow :D   Seriously, now, if I were to generalise, I'd say that ENFJs are often very profound people that hide behind a mask of shallowness on occasion...they are among the...|||No need to apologise cmooon, it came at the right moment...clearing up things from the past year and opening myself up to a happy new year and all that :)  What I learned? Above all, to trust...|||Well usually I feel I don't have much to hide anyway...I most often feel bubbly and positive, without any strong emotions :)   If I feel something and I'm aware of it (this can be a problem) I...|||I think...I think...I think that I'm in love :kitteh:  I have this huuuuge instant attraction to stereotypically INFP-ish men...but now, after a long and troubled relationship with a very sensitive...|||Before: it was very tough  Now: with the right people at the right moment, very easy  As an Eight with a strong Seven wing (or the other way around, who knows), I've always had this need to keep...|||Thanks for replying to my ancient post...we broke up a while ago, all this seems like another life now whoooaaa :)   It was a very difficult relationship, but I learnt a whole lot :)