'Indeed.  Gave someone a second chance and they went and did it again.  Would never give a cheater another chance again, no matter how much they cried and pleaded.  I tell them right up front now,...|||Someone mentioned that it's always whites that are blamed for racism.  There is truth in that, all kinds of people are racist, but white seems to be the first in every bodies mind.  At one time I...|||Ya know, if there where just a few citations on there I'd have been more than willing to read them, think it over and share my thoughts, but uuuuh....  I hope you just cut & pasted that list because...|||Amabelle, what you read about INFJ is not something that is written in stone, we aren't all alike and I don't think reading about our particular type will give you any more than a general idea at...|||Oh looky, there's that cute pair of words again everyone likes to throw around these days.  What cute lil word combo will be the next trend?  :)  There's nothing passive going on there, bub, I'm...|||Omg you are all thinking too much.  Let's go with what is most logical based on the limited facts we have available, that is she just wanted to someone to have sex with.  He wanted something further,...|||Nope, you're not the only one, but we seem to be in the minority around here.  I haven't looked a whole lot at the other forum ares yet, but there seems to be a little obsession in the ones I have. ...|||Ohh, passive aggressive, I love those trendy little buzz words.  :)|||I'm sorry this happened for you, but things got pretty extreme from how you describe, so there may be no hope of undoing it.  You know the circumstances, we don't, just going by the pieces you...|||Someone who sees through the tricks governments and media like to play?  Astonishing.|||I don't know, I wouldn't pay any attention to such people who would treat like that in the first place, neither should you.|||Next time you find a guy who's understanding of your issues, accepts you and is as great as you say, don't treat him in the way you seem to describe.  You can try to see if he'll give you another...|||Because some people thought up some test that pigeon holed me.  :)  Can there really be any other answer when you get to the root of it?|||You tell em, Rush Limbaugh!  Send them freeloaders back to where they come from!  Worthless beaners and their like stealing money and jobs from good people like you who would be more than willing to...|||SHIIISH!!!  Be quiet, Dork!  Don't ask questions, ya just gotta have faitha faitha faitha, Ooooooo ya gotta have faith.  Seriously, you should know better.|||There's enough in life without adding expectations of when you should flourish in one thing or another.  Just be.  As for functions, I'm assuming you're referring to what it tells you during test?  I...|||Lemmie start by saying I am not criticizing or jumping on your case, I just think there's a couple things that should be considered.  First, it took him two years to speak up and say he's interested?...|||NO.  I've been baking bread for about seven years and you don't want or need one of those, they are a cleaning hassle and waste of money.  Get a really good stand mixer with dough hooks (it's a...|||Since INFJs are suppose to be rare-ish then the odds of encountering another in person must be pretty low.  I've never found one, mostly everyone I've known is an extrovert to begin with, my entire...|||You chronicled how you arrived where you're at quite well, no need to defend yourself, you think and question things, which is good.  Anyone trying to discredit your views by accusing you of drugs or...|||I use to like this mormon girl, omg she was one of the cutest things ever, I swear.  Former general non-specific christian.  Nowadays it's Pastafarian if I feel in a silly mood.  Otherwise it's...|||Good god InsanityRemix, I thought my list would be long.  lol   list forthcoming......|||Antipode,  I have felt this way as well.  I remember going on trips as a kid and meeting people I liked and knowing I had a day or two and then would ver see them again.  I hated it.  I hate it as...|||Wow, there's some quite nice responses here, I gotta say.|||I'm sorry but I don't quite follow, maybe you can make it more clear.  You met him *today* and think he's cool, honest and all that, but at the same time (today) you're uncomfortable with him and...|||I seem to have a problem when looking at girls, whether I'm just checkin out or thinkin of askin out, that is they always know I'm looking and look me back right in the eyes.  Even if I'm walking a...|||That made me laugh.  :p  I have one kinda bizarre food allergy to an unknown ingredient in a certain kind of candy bar, so I don't have to worry much, but I do know where you're coming from, although...|||My spreading the blame spiel was called sarcasm, I think most everyone got that.  I was mocking your wild assumptions, you're not as great at pegging and labeling others as you think.  And there's no...|||So you finally decided to see a doctor...  Ask him about new 14hr Cialis....  When the moment is right, will you be ready?  lol|||Haa!  Look at this hand over here!  You'd make a great politician, just say something distracting when someone gets you cornered.  Blame?  Blaming what?  Blame myself for working too hard, my...|||They spend more because pharmaceutical companies and  hospitals are allowed to charge obscene amounts for treatments and drugs that cost much less in other countries.  As for the rest of what you...|||If I had to rely on others to make experiences meaningful then I'd have lived a pretty sparse and unhappy life.  I can relate to this for sure.  I use to spend all my time outdoors and wandering and...|||Dude, you are from the US so you should know very well that money does indeed buy health.  The only americans that don't get that are the ones that were born into a family of means, middle class who...|||Hear hear!  ::raises glass of fresh wild grape juice::|||Polls results vary by who and where the polls where done.  Hence most of them aren't worth much at best, horse feathers at worst.  Americans aren't divided so much as being fooled and mislead by...|||Son of a bitch, you beat me to it.  :p  Fine then, I'm from Cimmeria.|||Is that Cloud?  I have found (also read) the same thing.  I tried free sites and it was AWFUL, nothing in common and what they claimed to be looking for in relationship was just bonkers.  Of course...|||Thanks, but I think I need to find an introvert, someone who shares my hermit-like qualities and is generally content to ignore the world.  For that matter though, I doubt if there's a decent match...|||You're like an m&m.  :)  I use to think I was different, but the older of gotten and observed more of the stuff that others do and how they behave the less I feel that way.  Now I look at them in...|||Oh the thought has more than crossed my mind, I didn't come here with simply the idea of conversing with like minded people, I though maybe by some 1 in 6,000,000,000 chance I might find someone. ...|||Bringing it wholesale and by the truckload sometimes.  :)|||Easy.  At your local grocery store - there's one in every can of alphabet soup!  :)|||Oh if it's not a lack of self confidence somebody is bitching at you about then it's some other frivolous, petty and pointless thing.  I'd rather date someone who's a total ass hole than date...|||Where do you find it?  You don't.  :P  At least that's the way it's been for me.  I've never met one person like myself in my entire life, those I've been in relationships with have been very...|||Your loved one might not of died if they had access to medical care or other things they needed, which cost money.  I've dealt with injuries for many years due to not being able to afford to see a...|||Well that does suck.  No one should be pegged as automatically being smarter due to age.  And piss on social norms.|||Suddenly feel like I'm among aliens here.  Breaking hearts, wtf?  Soooo different form most of you guys.  Few friends, few relationships, and no one mistaking anything.  I've talked to coworkers and...|||Yes, I am totally against it.  I hate the fact that I can go out and eat delicious and genuine Mexican food made by actual Mexicans at a small hole in the wall restaurant.  My conservative Christian...|||You guys put so much faith into the labeling system that it's actually funny.  In a sad way.|||Gee, if you weren't a dude it could be love.  LOL!  Lack of money to get the basic things I need to be content has always been THE issue.  Also not being able to help people I care about bugs the...'