'This is my friend and I love her :)   http://youtu.be/hIGXOfRZGLw|||eh...not in my experience with INTPs. They are not bad...just okay.  best in bed (from experience and gossip with girlfriends): ENFJs, ENTJs, and ESTPs...|||Get curtains. They will do your bedroom wonders.|||-color and texture of walls (it's nice to see something other than white stucco)  -organization with careful choice of objects. i like minimalist the most.  -i hate IKEA furniture, so a lack of...|||What a novel hypothesis. Thank you. Looking forward to reading more...|||If you are committed to reality and truth, then this is the only right thing to say and do.  If you want to be a stronger person, then being vulnerable like this when the opportunity comes to you...|||Just with you or with everyone?|||Can't speak for others, but I can talk about my experiences.  Yes and no. That's probably not what you wanted to hear.  I think I'm pretty kind to strangers, especially people who don't usually...|||Thanks, I sent you a pm. I haven't told him....|||I haven't felt very re-assured about this situation until I read your post. Thank you.  By solving the problem, do you mean it was clear that abortion was the only option?|||bump|||I used to want a partner who was my opposite, someone who would balance me out. After many short- and long-term relationships, I'm seeing that many things I used to want don't work out the way I...|||Re-post:  Let's say the question of paternity was out of the way. For men, would you be blunt and suggest an abortion?  If the woman was on the fence but decided to keep the child and left...|||Aaand I took your comment a little too personally the first time. So thank you for clarifying and then following up. I really appreciate it!|||I will take it all in good stride. :)|||Not everything works perfectly or goes accordingly to plan 100%, even for intelligent people. Everyone gets some share of mistakes...|||...bump?|||Awww. *hug*|||Some more hypothetical questions to prepare myself...  Let's say the question of paternity was out of the way. For men, would you be blunt and suggest an abortion?  If the woman was on the fence...|||How often do you think fondly of an ex?|||I notice this too, for my farts. Not yours.|||Uh, I don't want to divulge on this forum. I would be more than happy to send you a response by PM if you're curious.|||My bad, I think it would be helpful to clarify... I would definitely take this advice with most INTPs, just not the one I met recently due to particular circumstances.|||Which is why I won't.|||It pisses me off that I initiate all the conversations...which makes me want to drop the INTP I just met. /end of vent|||I wouldn't jump to the insecurity card.  Maybe some INFPs are insecure, but young people of any type can be insecure. Older people can be insecure. Me? Nope. I'm not very insecure about anything. I...|||Both of these are so very true. Couldn't have said it better myself.  And boy have I left many INTJs hanging...well, all the types, really.|||Thanks for hashing out your answer with more details.  So what are the bare minimum criteria or wife material for you, personally?|||Hypothetical life situation, as an INTP:  If you were a 9 or 10 on the attractiveness scale (with 10 being the most attractive by your society's conventional standards), and you had many...|||To eventually be in the same city....|||Neither of you were open to an ldr?|||That does suck. It must have been a very special connection.|||I'm curious...how many times has this happened?|||How about....have you ever regret saying you didn't want a relationship with someone you really liked, and who liked you too?|||Have you ever regret not going after someone or a relationship?|||I'm going to go against the grain and give you some opposite advice. This is coming from someone with mostly NT friends.  Don't think too much about it. Maybe for 2 minutes.  Then call your old...|||This is a legitimate fear.     What would be going through your mind during and after panic mode?|||It was this.|||Oh wow, didn't expect to hear that. I thought my not knowing would add to the panic... so thanks for pointing this out. I know that this is what you would personally feel, yet this information seems...|||I liked the way you described the transition. I experience that too, for better or worse. I work and revise my thoughts, feelings, and actions based on what the other person or group has to say.  ...|||Anarchitektur, thanks for taking my question seriously. I like the sequence of automatic reactions and thought process. Well, not 'like' as in something I'd want to impose on other people. I...|||Female INFP here. Had a brief fling with a male INTP. It was intense and fun. We live in different states and don't keep in touch.  I might be pregnant and am making a doctor's appointment to...|||I am reviving this thread for more discussion!  I have made several good INFP friends (male and female) throughout my life so when I met this guy recently, I KNEW he was an infp. A couple weeks...|||The ISFJs I know melt my heart. They never fail to make me feel loved and included. They try to understand me by asking lots of questions about my life, even though they also admit that they can't...|||* Are INFPs loyal and long lasting friends (keep friendships for 10 years+)?  Yes   * How many intimate/best friends do you have?  More than I deserve :happy:   * What do you mainly look...|||Aged 17.9 and above please. :tongue:|||I'm laughing so hard on the inside right now because your comment made me realize how normal questions like that are.  How do other people do it? They don't ask, and assume there will be an update...|||I've experienced some variation of this closer with two ISFP friends. At the end of hanging out, they both ask me So what are you going to do for the rest of today/the weekend. I get the feeling...|||Hmmm, just because you don't feel like a good friend, or that you don't know what you're doing, doesn't mean that you are. If you are doing things that causes you to make someone tell you that you're...|||I only know three INFJs. One is female (I don't know her that well) and the other two are male, both of whom I know well. But I am not / have never been in a romantic relationship with either of...'