'I look for patterns in things. If I can find a rule about a particular set of things, even if their relationship may be very fleeting, I will feel inclined to share it. :)    I want to see the...|||Help me end this injustice.   http://www.thepetitionsite.com/708/952/914/activision-blizzard-please-remove-guns-from-your-game-%22overwatch.%22/|||I have no desire to convert to anything.   If a belief system is what is required to make myself more effective than I will fabricate my own. Struggling to squeeze more motivation out of myself has...|||I know I have consciously drawn inspiration and hope from people, real and fictional, before.   I am seriously considering fabricating a character whose sole purpose is my own motivation... and not...|||Hello all,   I have recently been thinking that I am somewhat jealous of Christian types because I feel that they have a certain faith that they are walking God's path. I feel that faith is a thing...|||1- My current work is all in Java, but I'm diving into C as well to round myself out.  2- Guilty pleasure is the anime, Grimgar... which, aesthetically, is just wonderful.  3- The new daredevil...|||Shit, well I hope he's an adult about it.|||@OP  Ah yes, the strength and sensitivity tightrope. It's interesting to walk.  But I also love emotional things. Anime, music that drips with feeling. I am sensitive to these things, but feel...|||Fixed. xD  For me it was cotton candy flavored vodka at a women's college... Since then, I distrust alcohol that tastes good.  A little wine gets me in a playful and happy spot. Though... I...|||xlyka   May want to make an iron-clad rule about the second date being a video call. :kitteh:|||@Rebecca.M   Did you know that if you drink enough whiskey, eventually wine starts tasting pretty good :tongue: Problem solved|||“And at the word alone, Will felt a great wave of rage and despair moving outwards from a place deep within him, as if his mind were an ocean that some profound convulsion had disturbed. All his life...|||Hey @Mantra . How's it going man? Late to the party...  I like to think of this situation as like... the moment someone tries to stop eating sugar.   At first, it's really tough and you think...|||Has anyone made a doing calculus in Antarctica joke yet? (Y/N/M?)  I like to think that I don't let muh feelz dictate what I do. I'd like to think there is a higher cognitive level at work for...|||That really highlights the key to fighting unhealthy behavior...  If you cannot let go of fixation, the other thoughts required for health cannot slip in. But stopping the activity often isn't...|||Yeah... I tend to be more distant when it comes to love and that has both its upsides and downsides as well >_>  Seems to be coming back to that Sun Tzu principle, there are no strengths and...|||I have the strength of generating intensity.   So when I get really driven... I generate intensity and I would often burn out... slave drive myself so hard on it that I learn a hatred of it in my...|||Abraxas was a wonderful poster. He pushed a lot of boundaries. Very smart guy. And fearless in his theorycrafting, which I respected a lot.   I tend to think the number of cognitive tools......|||We do not engage in our dominant function (Ni) because we lack love or confidence. I imagine ENFJs do not engage in Fe (their dominant function) because they lack love or confidence. It is our...|||Oh hey, I'm not in trouble! :cool:  Kiss them afterwards as a Yup, that was me. Don't forget to take credit guys!|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u9Dg-g7t2l4  Okay, so doesn't this sound exactly like an Intuitive Feeler Complaining about society? Second vs. on is like straight out of one of those omg society...|||My very good friend threw a big 21rst birthday and invited far too many people so there were 50 or so people crammed into his back yard.   Not sure how the fight began but I saw a few of my friends...|||I'd say more internal logical consistency rather than truth.  A Ti user is consistent. A Te user is efficacious. Both could be judged as truthful within their prospective realms.|||They are irresistible due to their Ne-powered heavy cavalry.   You can never predict where the lancers will charge from as they spastically sweep all that is before them.   Only scattered pockets...|||Okay... so I had a huge post, but I deleted it.   I think things boil down to a few common principles. What you do for others should arise organically out of love. You and your partner should meet...|||Takes two to Tango, after all.   I understand the hesitancy. It is work, he can get hit with sexual discrimination. If things sour, you essentially are forced to spend time with your ex.  For...|||Yeah.   In withdrawal... D:|||Why, an expression of benevolent dominance, of course.  I remember the cat. It was the boss after Nihilus. I force choked it. :P|||I remember my younger days I would dive into lovers like a well.   Now... I will swim down a ways, but always with a line back to the surface :laughing:   I've learned my lesson.   @Airess3 ...|||Any INFJ without abilities in this area probably isn't having much fun or effective impact in their lives.   This is the skill set we posses.   We also tend to posses fairly rigid ethical systems...|||Because special has positive connotations. Weird has negative ones. I view both as principally similar and view both in a positive light due to the fact that different people tend to be interesting....|||Exactly. There's generally a best way to handle them. If it's social aggression, there's generally a fairly standard blueprint for dealing with it. (Ask for the exact intent of their statements and...|||Anime has always hit harder emotionally and been more philosophically interesting. There's that old joke that every anime ends with the world eating itself. The thing I love most about it is that...|||--something wonky with the editor--|||I think of that as like a handlebar kind of move.   Controlling the position of the other person's head by the hair is similar.   Just firm enough so they feel the power of it. :P    That...|||Great way to connect with someone.   I have a move where I hold someone too loose. When they squirm I incrementally start tightening until it gets too tight. Nice and slow and distinct stages. When...|||She was capable of producing very beautiful thoughts and ideas. She herself was very beautiful which did not hurt.  I enjoy the mentorship role and she was looking for a guide. And the sex was...|||Little things to make the other person feel loved or special in a cuddle. Like a light kiss on the back of the neck from the big spoon.   Does anyone have the bravery to talk about their best moves?|||Being Italian really doesn't hurt how much I like touch to communicate feeling.   Guys are a bit stiff with it, but I got in a good shoulder pat with a guy talking about how he got fucked over by a...|||Yeah figured it was you. Nice to see you still posting :)|||In a word: yes.     Keep it shallow for a bit, expertly hiding the fucking dismal boredom of it. try to deepen it up about some kind of principle of the matter. Get completely stone-walled....|||I respect a man who will engage in revolution for his principles. :kitteh:    Trump is a weird situation for me. The 8 in my loves his ESTP shit talk antics as a welcome departure from the normal...|||With discretion like that, we can keep my ego under 9000, Lad.   Very jelly about that thank to post ratio. :P  And... twasn't a PerC affair. Thankfully. Don't want to weird up the board with my...|||@Lad The suicidal/principled question has crossed my mind. Reading on Thermopylae and wonder why the last stand is so intoxicating as a principle to me in moral terms. I imagine perhaps that it is...|||Love the tone shift at 2:20.  Seen?  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HSPm1bBiN8Q|||Well, I personally use weird as a compliment in my own vernacular. I love weird/unique people because they tend to have a lot of integrity and follow their own codes which is something I have great...|||INFJ... Sustainability major out of a women's college.   She wasn't typical. She was a very forceful/aggressive 8 which I kind of took as a challenge. I love challenges... :laughing:|||Sometimes INFJs don't play nice. Slight differences in ideological principles and you have two ethical thinkers butting heads about what a moral world would look like. Stakes get very high xD  Some...|||Bump.   I think there's a lot of room for non-romantic connection apps. Could also do some interesting work attributing certain games to personality traits as a kind of meta-review.   I'm...|||Yeah. Went right off my meds. Keeping your Ni in check super responsibly making me look like a loose cannon ;(     You can achieve your dreams, Kane. You just gotta believe :kitteh:'