'ah, i know what this is.  this is intuition.  the way to be able to put our intuition into words is by being in a state of openness and relaxation.  you cannot force or try or attempt.  these things...|||lol, sorry about the font change.  i feel the same way towards women.  i never make the first move because then i will worry that she doesnt really like ME lol.  i just cant deal with rejection so i...|||im preoccupied lol.  I agree with those results.  ive always been the jealous type :/  i tend to attract clingy women so i guess it works out for us that way lol.  our emotional problems kind of...|||well no question in my mind lol.|||Hitler was a type one there is no question about it.  he felt like he had  mission in life.  had strong convictions, very idealistic and thought the world and people should be like he wanted them to...|||i dont like to stereotype based on mere behavoir either.  but i would say that the pixie behavoir would contradict the first two letters of the INFJ.  introversion and intuition.  could there be...|||THANK YOU.  this is exactly the point i tried to make in one of my previous threads.  anyone who acts like a manic pixie dream girl but claims to be an infj has mistyped himself/ herself.  (or just...|||well, its no surprise. contrary to what many people believe on this forum, being an INFJ does not make you a good person.  too many people confuse personality type with morals.  morals and behavoir...|||ive always viewed money as a means and not an end.  ive spent many hours thinking about what it is i value most in life.  is it love? happiness?  pleasure?  and while i certainly value all of these...|||right, both men and women like sex.  and i can provide plenty of anecdotal evidence too.  men call it casual sex whereas women call it short term dating.  i just get angry when women pretend to not...|||i want to apologize because i wasnt that clear to begin with.  though i did clarify later on, but allow me to clarify again.  im NOT saying that feeling is either feminine or masculine.  im saying...|||delphi367, thats typical feminst propaganda.  and frankly offensive.  im also tired of this stereotytpe that men are dogs who only want sex, and women are these innocent little creatures.   its...|||googoodolls.  umm i just like to look neat and in order... whats feminine about that?  and as someone mentioned, don juan and casanova.  they were feelers but still manly.  my point is that a male...|||i agree with you.  I think people here misunderstood the point i was trying to make.  i wasnt bashing being feminine.  I was just trying to say that being the feeling type doesnt make one feminine....|||hey dont blame me!  i was compelled to write this after reading an INFJ description from a woman's forum.  it was obvious that they had no real knowledge or experience with MBTI (not saying that i...|||this is going to make some of you raise your eyebrows but ive always kind of admired the early eminem :D  i really admired his courage to just speak his mind even if it offends people.  ive always...|||Sorry if this thread sounds like im venting.  although maybe it is a little bit lol.  i really hate it when people THINK that INFJ is  feminine type.  its not.  on the contrary it would actually...|||you know what, at first i dismissed the idea that personality is in   any way reflected in ones physical appearence, but i cant help but see a trend in INFJ appearences.  including myself.  im an...|||I just noticed that usually the women who liked me first me were cholerics whereas the women I liked first were sanguines. im just wondering how I relate to other INFJ males in this|||lol, no problem :p well, I went pretty quickly into the courting phase.  but what difference does it make?  lol :P|||im an INFJ male myself and I noticed a certain trend in my romantic relationships and I was just curious if its similar to other INFJ males.  this thread will probably die soon lol, but  i thought it...|||well, i think it was God who drew me back into the faith.  i wanted to do my own thing, i wanted to determine my own life, but God thought otherwise.|||depends on what you want to try.  what is it that you wnat to do that is an obtacle to you getting married? by the way lol, im terribly sorry but i must point this out.  its actually spelled lose.|||i actually think the opposite is true.  i think the tri-type theory helps clear up stereotypes and misidentifications.  usually people mistype because they have traits from two or more types and they...|||although im slightly skeptical of the tri-type theory, as ive (and apparently others too) said before, there is something to it.  the mind is so complex.  the enneagram even teaches that everyone has...|||greetings from a Roman Catholic.|||the tri-type theory seems plausible.  we have three centers of intelligence and even though one dominates wes till have the other two, therefore ist not absurd to speculate that those centers have...'