'What part of the country has a more NF vibe?  I am looking for a place to move to.  My thoughts: I lived in Michigan my whole life.  I am beginning to think Michigan is an imbalance of SJ...|||So I am an INFJ, but I am posting in the INTJ forum to see our similarities.  I am really curious about the subconscious as I have noticed many Ni dominant are.  It seems like that is where we are...|||First I am writing this here to see if this a INFJ problem, or perhaps its just a human problem.    I have a great urge to feel the depths of the human experience.  The materialistic world...|||The ideas behind Buddhism makes me cringe, but seeing expectations die and becoming aware of reality hurts more.  I value people and life, thus I create expectations based on those values, the way...|||I dont know if anyone else it noticing this, but it seems like in the MBTI community, specially on FB, ENFPs and ENTPs seem to get a bad rep with relationships when it comes to commitment.  In my...|||As an INFJ, I am kind of guilty of that.  I use to give lots of unsolicited advice.  I would think about people and their problems, and just ponder and ponder on how they could fix them.  If a friend...|||What are your happiest moments?  What makes you guys the happiest.  And from your ENFP point of view, how does one become happy?  My happiest moments were when I was with good people.  On the more...|||So lately I have been stuck in obsessiveness thought patterns.  I am thinking back to how people have hurt me, how people are hurting themselves, pointless existential crap, etc.  My mind acts like I...|||I was wondering if people could give me examples of positive lyrics in heavy metal, which also includes death metal, power metal, or progressive metal.  You know, something about compassion,...|||I wanted to get my license the day I turned 16, but it was a Sunday so the SOS was closed so I got it the next day.  A month later I bought an old Honda Civc.  I felt like a god.|||I didn't read all of it, but this might work.  Look at your life objectively.  Look at yourself in 3rd person.  If you saw a guy who was in the same situation in life as you, what would you tell...|||People who live a meaningless pleasure seeking existence and that do it in the expense of others' well being.|||I had an INFP friend.  He wasn't very healthy and came from a bad family.  But boy, did I love that person.  I could just come over in my pajamas if I wanted to and not be judged.  And I had this...|||Here is a problem, a problem that at times where I put myself on anxiety medication just to emotionally pull through.  There are probably underlying reason why I have anxiety, but on the surface it...|||So I finished all of my exams.  So I have way more time to respond.  I just wanted to thank you all for the encouraging words.  And not only were your words encouraging, but the actions.  That you...|||age: 23 Function that needs work: Fe|||So I was going to post this in the sex and relationship section, but I just want to hear what INFJs to say.  Just to warn you this is probably going to sound immature for someone my age.  I just...|||It seems like he likes you.  There is a chance you might have to make some moves, because I know for myself I can be hesitant and will waste alot of time thinking of the right things to say.    I...|||I have been in one relationship.  I just turned 23.  It was a relationship with an ENFP.  We were both not as healthy as we should so our relationship was not healthy and we had different values. ...|||Two part question.  So I am wondering how INFJ's (which would include me) can find someone compatible to be in a relationship with.  What works best for us? The answer could very well be the same...|||So I dont know the technical definition of being cool is.  But what I think would be considered as a cool person is someone who doesn't care about others opinions and having that self assurance or...|||@userslon That makes sense.  I just did not know her boundaries.  I was kind of treating her how I wanted to be treated.  @Nafatali Yah, I think I was too committed and it frightened her.  Thank...|||So I use to date an ENFP.  And she was wonderful.  She always wanted to be inspired and wanted to go on to the next thing.  Near the beginning of the relationship she told me she was falling in...|||Is nostalgia not limited to Si types?  I am an INFJ, so obviously not.  But what is giving me nostalgic feelings time to time?|||Hey all you beautiful ENFP's!  What do you guys like to talk about?  I am looking for a general answer, not something specific.  I already know you guys probably like to talk about innovative ideas...|||I am an INFJ who enjoys meditation.  I atleast practice mindfulness everyday.  In meditation, my crazy cognitive patterns have no where to go and just starve and evaporate.  Then I can come back more...|||My top two highest functions is feeling and intuition.  However, growing up, I experienced how these things should not be used for any kind of reasoning, which is a shame, because according to mbti...|||surround yourself with good people, exercise, create goals and inspiration, eat healthy, get in touch with who you are, figure out your values, work hard, rest hard, meditate, participate in true...|||Meditation and a good understanding of how my thought processes work when I am in my highly emotional moods.  I dont act out on emotions as much, because I know I will go back to a more logical state...|||I am curious what countries are the best or the worst for an INFJ.  What countries admire certain INFJ traits the most?|||You have worked hard and long to do this, just go with it.  Just for a year at least.  While you are at it, pursue a passion on the side.  And maybe that passion will take off eventually.  But now...|||I think its the Ni and Fe combination.  We can create a personality with Ni.  We can look at someone's personality and dissect and make it to are own, than we express it with Fe.|||This might be bad advice, but I dont think it is important to do your calling now.  Stick with the medical assisting program so it all does not go to waste.  And than do your passions on the side, or...|||I thought Si dominant people would be more traditional, thus being more right.|||I smoked marijuana for only like a month. And it made me very emotional and detached.  I felt like it released way too many suppressed emotions.  And it was hard for me to function.  I started...|||I understand these things are really hard to put into words.  It is almost like the English words we use do not give these meanings justice.  It like saying the word love.  Its almost desensitized,...|||Like the title says.|||Your right.  I am a very sensitive man.  My skin is thin as paper.  My backbone is just a bendy straw.  I am an emotional wreck.  I am not a ladies man.  I try to be more charming.  I try to be more...|||In socionics, INFJs are INFps.  This is because perceiving is our top function.    Ni  (percieving) Fe (judging) Ti Se  But with normal MBTI, we are INFJs.  Because our highest extroverted...|||@DesertWind  You must not care at all about how you appear to others, which is fine.  It is just kind of inconsiderate to laugh at others.  @anapuna  That is funny.  I use to have long hair. ...|||When it comes to attracting people, i think one interesting thing about us as being introverted, is that we have the element of being mysterious.  So once we managed to become charismatic, we may...|||I am extremely crazy.  Only with the right people.|||That support is important.  It makes life more meaningful.  I am just wandering, why don't you have friends or support?    I guarantee you are. I use to do this, and wasted to much time.  One...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pu7S88e1O8k|||I use to relate to this, very strongly actually.  That feeling is not as strong, thankfully.  I learned to not care as much what certain people think if they make me feel like this.  This really has...|||I really do hate hurting people.  Its one of the reasons why I have never been in a relationship. However, you are not making too many mistakes, not enough to end your life.  Please talk to some one...|||To me this seems very true to our nature.  It feels great to connect with people.  And to talk about our unique ideas and ways of looking at things.  Its good for us.  It charges us.|||What is the most stressed type to least stressed?  I feel like INFJ is up there on most stressed.|||I have heard this alot.  INFJ Counselor | Oddly Developed Types    It just does not make sense.  I feel like we are very romantic. How does this happen?  Do we idealize too much?   Also I...|||It use to be horrible, but is getting better, because I practice meditation and mindfulness.'