'Well, it's been three years since I posted this. What has happened since is this.  For approximately 18 months following this story, she continued to initiate contact with me in a variety of ways....|||There is an awful lot more to the story. I'll go into it but not at 2 am. Stay tuned.|||Like a moth to a flame I am drawn To touch that flame And burn If ever so briefly In an ecstacy Previously undescribed Thank you, my ENFJ|||Said the Moon To the Sun You are sunshine I am moonshine I only shine but for your light I am full when you set I am new when you rise Said the INFP To the ENFJ|||When you're in a hot, crowded court room and the judge call a recess. Yet you stay in the hot, now empty court room because it feels oh so good to be alone, not with the crowd in the much cooler...|||When harmony and honesty collide, which one wins?|||I miss my friend My beautiful friend It's just that... I'm sorry I truly am.|||91% INFP 3% ENFP 2% INTP 1% INFJ 1% ISFP  Not the least bit surprising, to me anyway :)|||My brother is a biomedical engineer in Cleveland. I wanted to do  aeronautical, then biomedical but my university didn't offer it at the  bachelor level. Ended up in electrical engineering, then...|||I started out in Engineering many years ago, hated it. This was long before I knew I was an INFP. Not people orientated enough. Switched to biology then medicine then Ob/Gyn. Can't get anymore...|||NECTRESSE Amazon.com: Jarrow Formulas Lo Han Sweet, 80 gms: Health & Personal Care The first one is available at most grocery stores, the second at The Vitamin Shoppe. I like it in iced decaf...|||I think it's very good. That's talent!|||Have you tried Lo-Han? AKA Monk Fruit. It saved me from what you are going through. It really got me off the sugar. Dropped 40 lbs. (Well that and a little stress) :)|||And look who's talking :)|||Almost all female. Been that way most of my life. May stem from a couple of abusive male friends I had as a kid|||Oh, she's being left alone. I don't have any intention of breaking up either marriage.|||I wish love and happiness could get here faster....for everybody  :)|||It breaks my heart to read about so many who feel they will never find their life's love. And here I've found it twice.  My wife has cheated death more than once. A few years ago she was in a car...|||My ENFJ friend says There are only two emotions in this world,  Love and Fear. I can't come to grips with this, one way or another. My INFP heart says it can't possibly be that simple. But if it...|||...When you become attached to the cars of the people you're attached to :)|||How true this is :/|||Thank you for your kind replies.  Oh I am absolutely devoted to my wife and nothing short of death will tear us apart. That said, my wife misses her quite a bit too. Recenly a phone call came to...|||Just as an update, I broke down and contacted her via text. She said yup, no contact what so ever. I said So this is it? Just like that? She says it's not forever, just for now. However long just...|||Kinda have to go to medical school to be an ob/gyn. INFP's cherish long term relationships and as such things like pediatrics, family medicine, psychiatry, and ob/gyn are perfect. I don't think...|||I've been an ob/gyn for 20 odd years. Perfect job for an INFP :)|||Hey take the plunge! You won't regret it. It's a wonderful business to be in. Especially for an INFP. Take my word for it. Let me know if you need any advice. I've worked with midwives for 20 odd...|||That's where things are headed with my wife of 27 years :(|||It just can't be any other way, can it?|||I , right now, feel better about myself physically than I have in years. I feel 20 years younger.  At the same time, I've never been more emotionally vulnerable and financially insecure then I am...|||When you won't unsubscribe to a thread because you don't want to hurt it's feelings :/|||Chapter 4  So I ask my friend, Can we meet halfway? Maintain a friendship, without the extreme emotional attachment that we had developed. I wanted to try, she thought better of it. I felt bad...|||Chapter 3 You probably saw this coming...  She told her husband, he wanted to leave her. She thought she might be pregnant (by him). He wanted her to have an abortion. She begged him not to leave,...|||It is real... Chapter 2 Then my friend turns my world upside. It started the day we found out my wife's bone marrow report.  She called and talked to the pathologist. No leukemia, only drug...|||OK I need to do this, not looking for advice, sympathy or criticism. (Although, any and all are welcome)  Chapter 1  This all started a year ago or so, she approached me, telling me that she had...|||My best ENFJ buddy isn't speaking to me. Waaah! Now I can't sleep. Can't eat. This is going to be rough. :(|||I am utterly and completely devoted to the one's I love|||Why would you say your eye's aren't interesting? I think they are lovely|||My ENFJ buddy has the spiciest, nutmeg eyes, that then turn minty, and finally ease into the tiniest bit of menthol. They are Beautiful!!!  OK let's hear it, all you INFP's Describe your favorite...|||You are certainly welcome, Luv. You must know we INFP's are a sincere bunch and appreciate sincerity as well :)|||A true artisan, Beautiful work!|||My room is spotless, but only cuz my wife keeps it that way. My desk at work, it's an archeological expedition. The layers go back in time :) (Basement and Garage same way)|||Omega 3's like fish oil capsules are supposed to work. St. John's Wort should reverse the withdrawal as it works the same way.  The best way is to refill the script and taper slowly over 1-2 months....|||That is oh so true!|||So do I, 'Specially if you'd smile :)|||:)|||I did the same for my ENFJ. Homemade chocolate and a snuggly card on her windshield. I hope she appreciates it :)|||Aw, that sucks. My birthday was 3 days ago, we must be close to same BD :)|||Dogs more than cats but love both. Can't have both, dogs ate cat :(|||Your welcome :) Now tell us about yourself, we INFP's want to get to know you.|||Yes, that's more like it. You are beautiful, don't need the extra layers for it to show. Those are some amazing, green eyes.'