'What I'm talking about, is a position where you are sort of SUPPOSED to be empathetic and emotionally involved. My future clientel can consist of people who have just found out that they may never be...|||When looking at occupations that our personality type will be successful, usually jobs that require a lot of people interaction, empathy, and strong social/emotional skills aren't high up on the...|||When I first started dating my INTJ, for an entire month and a half we were sort of in this weird phase, where we were both excluaively dating one another, however no words were spoken about it....|||I'm not an INTJ, but I am with one, and he claims our relationship is the best he's ever had, and he's the happiest he's ever been with me. I'm an ISTJ.|||If you don't make goals that are concrete, how can you work towards them, then? Improving your life doesn't just happen, you have to have a plan to get to an end result you desire. Perhaps this is...|||I've read many things saying that Intuitives often have thoughts that are more future focused and oriented, where sensors focus their thoughts more to the present and the past. I'm wondering how much...|||In the distant (but coming up quickly) future, I have plans to move 16 hours away to another state to live in my boyfriend's home town. From research I've done, it has better job prospects, better...|||Just some late night musings...  I have met a couple of my SO's exes/past love interests, and a couple others he had described to me. I would say many of them have the same personality type, though...|||Why do INTJs all seem to dislike ISTJs? We're pretty awesome. You all seem like you'd rather eat shit than be typed as one of us!|||Thank you for all the replies! Most of you missed the 3-5 sentence blurb bit, but I'll see what I can do!|||I'm an ISTJ and I experience the feeling of love rather deeply. It's not something you need to question or analyze, when you feel it you know. Like trying to describe a color to a blind person, it...|||So, I notice on facebook quite a bit, lots of girls posting articles, pictures, memes, and the like, of why their certain personality types are awesome. Usually it isn't MBTI related, but it's almost...|||*  I see so many negative things said about this pairing. When there are threads made what's the most/least compatible type to you? ISTJs are usually near the bottom, or the top, respectively. I...|||I'm an ISTJ in a beautifully healthy and happy long term relationship with an INTJ. We are actually moving in together in June!  I'd say the best feature of this relationship is our ability to talk...|||We are not married! We are seriously and exclusively dating, however, for about a year and a half now. He was living with her when I met him! I in no way want to control what he does.  Thank you to...|||*  I'll try to keep this as short as possible. My SO moved up to where I live now in order to help out a friend, who's husband passed away in a tragic accident a few years ago. She was struggling...|||I'm still in the process of beginning my career, at my first year in Occupational Therapy Graduate program. I chose this profession for the security and benefits it will bring, but I also hope that...|||I'm a female ISTJ and have always had a hard time fitting in with my female peers, or even any feeling type. I've always been attracted to more masculine roles, especially when I was younger, in...|||I'm definitely not assuming the relationship would fail, I definitely don't want it to fail, everything is great. I just know that there is a very realistic possibility of it failing, because, well,...|||I was having a discussion with my INTJ boyfriend today, about cosigning an apartment lease with him. In the past, I've had an ex use my social security number to put a ton of bills in my name that I...|||Hey! Thanks for your reply. I don't know much about enneagrams, I tested at a 6w5 and he's a definite 8, slight wing 7. Thanks!|||Thank you for your replies, it gives me some hope that things may work out.|||Quality time (4) Then, physical touch (5) and acts if service (2) are tied for second.|||I'm an ISTJ, and I've been dating an INTJ for about eight months now. We are absolutely smitten with each other, and have been since pretty early on in the relationship. It is the most healthy,...|||I'm an ISTJ, and I've been dating an INTJ for about eight months now. We are absolutely smitten with each other, and have been since pretty early on in the relationship. It is the most healthy,...|||So basically, I have one friend. I've known her for seven years, and she's probably the person I'm closest to other than my significant other and family. I care for her deeply and would never want to...|||I like you and I think we would do great in a relationship together. Would you like to date exclusively? Try that...!|||Thank you for all of your replies! And yes, he calls me dear. I've taken to calling him hon. I'm an ISTJ myself, and he actually comes off as more affectionate than I, more verbally affirming...|||I am an ISTJ female completely smitten in a seven month long relationship with an INTJ male, who has expressed very mutual feelings. Right from the beginning I've always been honest with him that I...|||The reason I ask is, I am currently dating an INTJ who has a giant circle of good friends, even though he does spend most of his time alone. I am an ISTJ who is extremely introverted, and I have one...|||How would you view/place judgement on a person after just finding out that their social life is lacking, meaning, they have no, or perhaps just one friend. Would it matter?  What about in a...|||I did say something along these lines. Not the same, but something like Look, I'm really bad at figuring this kind of stuff out, so if you are upset with me about something, you have to tell me or...|||I did! Multiple times. Three times to be exact. After that, I realized he wasn't going to talk. He simply dismissed my question. Nothing is wrong. Even though something obviously was.|||I definitely didn't dismiss him. His feelings are important to me, whether or not I agree with them. I apologized, genuinely. But in my head, I did feel like He went through all of that, for that?....|||Yes, because I pissed him off on purpose, and plan on repeatedly pissing him off just for my own jollies.|||I didn't say or do anything to intentionally piss him off. Like I said I was unaware that I even did. It was trivial and silly for him to be that angry. And I didn't deserve the silent treatment when...|||Thank you so much! Your post has been very helpful. I hope you don't mind if I ask you a few questions. I've numbered some things you've said to reference my questions to!  1.) In this situation, I...|||My boyfriend (INTJ) and I have gotten into one of our first spats, sort of. Basically, he became angry at me because of something I said, but instead of being angry at me, he just sort of got pissy...|||Just boyfriend! No hubby! But, I've always felt this way. Long before I met him!|||I've noticed this huge gap in type myself, the T/F difference is one of the ones that most definitely stands out to me the most in people. It is difficult for me to get along with most F's myself, so...|||I actually love dressing up and having a job that requires me to do so. I act professional, it seems to be my default personality, sometimes even in leisurely settings, so the workplace feels like...|||Wow, that was really negative!  I'm sorry you've had such bad experiences with SJ's. I can assure you, we are not all simple, bitchy, and air headed!|||Sure! I'd love to. I'm currently dating an INTJ, so my answers might be a little biased toward them instead of NT's in general.   1.) What annoyed you most about any NT'S you've known? Perhaps...|||The response I've seen from the NT community regarding SJ's has seemed to gear towards the negative. My boyfriend is an INTJ, and he seems to adore me. Just wanted to narrow the general feeling down...|||Oh, yes! Definite yes to both of those things, heh.|||I have a few close friends, and while I do enjoy their company, I also find maintaining the friendship to be exhausting for me. My ideal friend would hang out maybe once or twice a month, and keep...|||I am quite fascinating! Despite the ISTJ stereotype of being boring!|||Eating a delicious meal until you are full. Back scratches Music, cranked up and loud (good music...) Sex|||It isn't that we don't have ideas of our own, or daydream about possibilities, because I do, it is that we would rather put our faith in systems and routines that have been shown to work, proven time...|||I have snagged myself an NT, and it has been the most exciting, fulfilling, drama-free, happy and committed relationship I have ever taken part in. I think they are pretty great.'