'17 years old INTJ reporting.|||In the beginning of the friendship I'm usually kinda cold, then getting warmer as the relationships proceeds and then getting cold again. I think it's because I have really high standards on people...|||I procrastinate usually to the last chance before the deadline hits unless the task/project is really riveting or I have something to motivate me that makes me start doing it on time and maybe add...|||I do this all the time and when I'm watching with my friends/family, I'm usually talking about my thoughts, and it's completely fine to me since I can easily focus on the movie and the conversation...|||INTJ personality can be quite hard to communicate with sometimes, so I'm pretty sure many INTJs have some kind of shell around them to alter their personality around other people. They can also be...|||I think ability of thinking makes humans unique from other animals but isn't that pretty much about it? And it depends on a person too, some people think very little and their animal side is...|||I'm not rude nor arrogant, like most INTJ stereotypes show, I actually try to make the counterpart feel comfortable in conversation instead of being super blunt etc.|||Pretty much nothing. It's actually all about how you put your mind into it. Yes, there are lots of arrogant stupid people, annoying repetitive situations etc but if you think that's just how the...|||Yes, I think so. I only lie in situations where it's absolutely needed, like getting away with something. In normal conversations I'm 100% honest all the time. If the person is really sensitive about...|||Flirting in movies and series makes me feel somewhat uncomfortable and usually laugh because I see no meaning in it. I think it's some kind of play? Saying puzzling stuff that makes you seem more...|||I guess? Adults probably considered me more stupid that I was since I asked about every little thing even when I might have known the basic concept. I've always been perfectionist about knowing...|||I think I'm still as childlish as I was at age of 5. Asking about every little thing, questioning everything and being overall curious about everything in life. I've always been pretty much like...|||I thought the reasons come first, then the feels. I've never come across that kind of situation, first I go through the reasons and thoughts, should I feel this or that concerning this thing? and...|||I think I'm most certainly asexual since sex doesn't fascinate me, make me feel anything but discomfort and I don't see a need for it. Human sex really just reminds me of any other kind of animal sex...|||Hi Nesty, nice to meet you! : D I hope you have a great time and that you find new people to talk to.|||Haha, I had the same thing, stalking the forum first for awhile before joining. Hope you enjoy your time here!|||Welcome to the forum, I hope you find it as nice as it seems and that you get to know more people and find out more about personality types :)|||If this is the same thing that has been happening for me, I'm really happy. I don't know anyone else with these experiences about periods of understanding life and I'm really glad you shared your...|||When I'm upset or stressed, I hide it until I get to be alone and then I try to do something to end that uncomfortable feeling or mood. And I'm usually long time by myself, just thinking about that...|||I don't think many people are gifted starting from birth, they make themselves talented by trusting themselves and practicing endlessly. You can become gifted too, if you really want to. At least...|||Wow, I really know the feeling. In my family I never really learned how to show love or attachment. I like my family very much but my parents were never really anything lovey-dovey and if something...|||Haha, to me it might be the vice versa. I usually suggest things to my friends but things that they suggest are usually something that I just don't understand/like. I would like to like their...|||I know the feeling. But usually when this happens to me, I just ask something like so we are friends, aren't we?. I'm not too shy about it since I already think that the other person is my friend...|||I can relate so much to this. I value my friends but hanging out with them feels as important as watching a new episode of some series or playing a videogame. It's just another fun thing to do. And...|||If you want someone to care, you have to care yourself. I mean if you want friends just because you are feeling selfish and want to have person who finds you before you die in your apartment,...|||After I found out my type, I felt relieved since I could finally accept that there are people like me, people who think and act the same way. It has made some things more simple since you can view...|||I'm currently playing LoZ: Skyward Sword. I have liked it so far, the controls are smooth and scenery is colorful yet a little bit repetitive. Though it could never beat Twilight Princess.|||Currently reading Bernard Cornwell's The Pale Horseman. It's the second book of the series; it's alright but the narrative is somehow unreachable, there's not enough depiction and characters are...|||Have you tried to look for your goal through other things? I mean, tried some (new) things and found out that you enjoy them? If you really want passion in your life, you shouldn't just keep worrying...|||I know the feeling. You could try to motivate yourself to study those things by your own etc. or if that feels impossible, can't you just quit? I mean, what's the point being there if it's not worth...|||I agree with this. Whenever I feel overall really confused and stressed, little moment just calming down with breathing helps a lot! It makes everything feel more clear and simple and affects the...|||School always felt like a duty to me, nothing fun with that. I liked some classes like English and arts but rest was boring and felt unnecessary; I was just thinking where do I need this...|||Hi. I can identify with this a lot, and to me there's nothing wrong for asking support on a forum from the same type of people, especially if there's no that kind of people around you. I too feel...|||Ronanne; it's a great thing that I'm not alone with this, hope you begin to understand better other INTJ's and have a great time at the forum with them and with other people too!|||Haha that music video will play in my head next ten hours, it was quite awesome. Thanks both of you! o/|||Studio Ghibli's movies are truly great masterpieces! I have watched their movies my whole life and I have a bunch DVDs that I have collected through the years. I still don't have Nausicaä though,...|||Hello! I decided to join this forum after reading threads unregularly for couple weeks because I'd like to share my opinions with others and read and comment what other people say. I'm also...'