'Broadly, to participate in social change and be a leader in some way. Specifically,  I have had this dream of being a mentor for foster youth and inmates. I thrive off of knowing I was part of...|||Interesting. I am new to the motivation tidbit. Mind elaborating a bit more on this?|||I have co-workers that point out that I stare off into nothing a lot/zone out. Most of the time, I am present and also go on  a thought tangent (like a walk in the park).|||Well, I commented on this thread many months ago. It's been a while since I have been on PC, however I have a better grasp on this topic *tips fedora to life experience*   Now that I have had time...|||Well, that's one way to throw you for a loop. What was your response?|||Who says we aren't? ; P|||-__- The beard life is tough to achieve!! I've been trying for a while lol. I think I'll stick to my imagination. And, I actually dislike wearing hats, so I'll pretend to wear one as well.|||435505 Like my new hat :P if you take the hat away, this is how I normally look when I'm thinking (seriously, I stroke my pretend beard)|||This sums up how I am with someone I start to like (read: more than friendship)  If I do not know you, but I think you are cute and I get the vibe that you and I can connect, I will intentionally...|||I don't know if I should ask, but what happened? I know this happened years ago.|||I went through some old writings and found this piece written a little over a year ago. I don't know what was happening, but it seemed to have made me write a rather sad piece.   I don't even want...|||Not a poem, but an explanation of my thought process when writing:  In the midst of my rain-like pattern of thoughts, there is beauty in the chaotic flow of ideas that conglomerate into an ocean of...|||Death lessons    The widow whispers laments while trembles caress her sorrow. Emotionally empty eyes water despite exhausted ducts.|||Ahhhh ok. Well, let's see what others did and if it helps you out.|||*sends to friend as explanation for my fumbling with words and quirks with ideas|||I'd to hear about this as well. Lol I'm just a college student about to take the next step into a career, so I know getting into a relationship is also around the corner. I'm neither expecting nor...|||Infatuation  Say, you passed a rose with a delighted look your eyes. We were groovin' for years, but the first had never end .  Could you feel the nerves crumbling your mind's routine,...|||I bolded everything that spoke most to me. You're right in that I do already know. I would say my dilemma is my hesitation that stems from actually speaking up. I am 100% certain about wanting an...|||@InTheRockies Wow...You know, sometimes it takes someone else to rake up my mental mess of ideas and pile it into meaning. You my friend, did just that. I like what you said and it's seems to be...|||No, I have not done this.   I've thought about telling her, but I  guess it's overcoming the hurdle of what ifs that plague the mind. It  would be much easier if I knew what she was thinking, but...|||Several things that confuse me about this INFJ girl that I'm close with. Honestly, I really do like her, but I feel like I'm getting mixed signals. I usually don't do anything out of fear that I'm...|||This thread hasn't been touched in years, so I rekindle the embers lol.  I came to this thread to see how other INFJ males flirt, because I have no idea what I'm doing. Honestly, the whole pickup...|||My ability to understand others skyrockets. I feel like everything is dizzying but it all makes perfect sense. I also get really quiet as I drift off into my own world. My friends always point it out...|||damn...You put into words that which I've been trying to formulate about this INFJ woman I know. The depth, love, and desires of this woman are beautifully woven just like the descriptions in the poem|||Wow...it's been almost 2 years since I created this thread. I'd have to say that I'm more involved in interaction and intentional actions towards developing my friends and co-workers. Something that...|||I guess my only opinion is that I think people should be who they want  and however they choose to do so. Being a man or being a woman boxes  your potential of being the best and redirects what...|||Top 5 Characteristics 1. Honesty/opens up to me/trust 2. Open-mindedness 3. Loyal/supportive 4. Patient/caring/empathy 5. communicator Top 5 Physical Features (based off of current and past...|||I am a Resident Assistant, I work and live in the Dorms with College students. This job is for undergrads, so I am also a student. This is my 2nd year on the job, which isn't too common, because it's...|||Flirting? Aha that's not my forte. In fact, I should specify that intentional flirting is not my thing. The more I try to flirt, the more self-conscious I get, and that causes me to crash and burn. I...|||1. I felt a thought I sought to feel; thought it real, no big deal.  2. (rough draft)  I fall with a sigh, drifting with ecstasy My heart stands to lead,|||Small talk is not always the best thing, but it's a stepping stone. You have to find connections, that's vital for any person. What makes a friend and partner different is the depth of connection and...|||Idk what it's like to have someone interested in me, because I'm oblivious. If someone points it out to me that a girl likes me, I'll tell them they're reading into too much. However, I'll be more...|||Not fustrating at all. It's intense: Much energy tumbling around in your stomach; A once stable state of mind cracked and trying to piece itself together, and a heart that thumps as if someone is...|||This whole thing is beautiful!!!!!! I'm currently on good terms with an INFJ female friend...and being an INFJ male, I'd say we hit it off real quick during our first time being alone. I know to act...|||LOL! I'm THAT type of guy. Then again, so is this INFJ girl that I know. In fact, this happened earlier today.  I went to the Dining hall earlier than usual to study and eat breakfast before a...|||212154  I'm the one in the Far right, the guy. I was trying to be all sexy and then I wanted to be somewhat creepy. Lol this is how it came out.|||So, Fun fact:  While a freshman in college,I had a dream  involving me and a Girl. It was a silent film and I had that feeling you  get when watching an intense movie. You're focused, because it's...|||When you spend a good 25 minutes just imagining the future. Specifically, when you really like someone, see compatibility, and know that things are going good. With Thanksgiving coming up here in the...|||Post I put on Facebook that's also suitable here:  About 1 minute ago, I was going to post about how everything has a  purpose. Please bear with me because there's a twist to this that I am  now...|||Overthinking is definitely an issue I've been trying to handle since early high school. Everything you said sums up that voice of reason in my head. I like what you said, because being in this...|||I'm not worried about the football player, because I believe in our chemistry. I'm just torn about what's going on with us. We had something stirring and it just slumped in a week. I've seen her at...|||Can anyone explain why I feel torn about this Girl I like? For a good couple weeks we didn't talk, which was expected for 2 busy students (work/school) at college. Initially, I shrugged it off and...|||What's some poetry without a little love? I found this while take a stroll down memory lane.  Misery  I'd rather be drunk and gone than sit in the maddening misery.  If darkness had a...|||the grass is greener on the other side? Well, give me the lawn mower and I will show you the dirt. The world seems lovely doesn’t it? Well, that’s until the filth is unearthed. Don’t let the...|||The past is your ball and chain. If it feels right, let it prosper. If your gut says no, let it go. I wouldn't start by going into this with the mindset of I want this to be a serious relationship...|||@blueandviolet  I am taking it that he is starting to like you and doesn't know how to handle it just yet, and, if you're feeling the same towards him. I would talk to him, if you're curious to...|||Hmm... Well, considering we haven't talked in 2 weeks and all we do is  smile to each other IF we see one another on campus...I think something  is up. I texted her, no response, so I definitely...|||The most recent role my gut feeling had was 2 years ago. I applied for a job at my college. I barely knew anything about it or why I wanted to do it. However, I applied and knew, with this feeling of...|||Yeah, I have a tendency to hold back, especially if I like you and really care about the future of our relationship (any type).   Trust is something that she's given me. We spoke several times...|||INFJ here!!! It's been a while since I've been active, almost 2 years.  Here is my current situation.  Backstory:  I  work at the college Dorms. Last year was my first year on the job.  Halfway...'