We met on the beach in person, we've also skyped while he was working in uniform so he's definitely not lying lol. Thank you for your concern!|||Hi all! Kinda have been thinking for awhile and I just wanted some other ISFJ input for advice. I met an AMAZING guy and it turns out he's in the U.S. air force. I don't know much about all of that...|||Homophobia to be eliminated and people's sexualities to be accepted|||1. What's your age/age range? I'm almost 19!  2. Where are you located? (City, State, Country, Region) Massachusetts  3. What's your current occupation/job/career? Working at Victoria's Secret...|||Planning on working in sonography! (ultrasound)|||I only get super physical quickly with people I know won't work out (stupid really, I dont do it anymore), and take it slow with people I actually see a future with, so take it as a compliment I...|||Odd question but... From my specific partners, it's definitely INFP lol|||greatheights  I actually had originally guessed his personality type as ENFJ because he seemed so in touch with his emotions and those of others. Thank you for your advice, I'll keep in mind some...|||So, I notice a lot of hate on the ENTJs in the relationship aspect for ISFJs. I just started dating an ENTJ, and I feel like it's going really well and we understand parts of each other that not a...|||Emprize  We were easy communicators at first, but after a few dates and meeting his friends I realized that he's not compatible with me the way I would prefer. I slowly disappeared but I'm trying...|||I found this ironic because I came onto this thread right after just being on Tinder lol. I use it but it's not really serious. For me, the guys on Tinder aren't exactly... my type lol, so it's more...|||Are ISFJ less sexually permissive?  I'm very open to explore new things with my partner, but I obviously wouldn't do things I'm uncomfortable with. If it feels good, it feels good, so I'm up for...|||Huge mega nerd in National Honors Society and was in AP classes. Very perfectionistic and would stress myself out. But now I can see there was no reason to be so obsessed with good grades when I was...|||This entire post is what I signed up for. Screw ISFJ stereotypes|||Dear INTJ,  Even though we're stereotypically (in the MBTI world) supposed to hate each other, you are the most wonderful and amazing person in my life and I could never ask for a better best...|||Everything. Literally everything pisses me off lol. I'm like the freaking Hulk or something. (Am I becoming more of an ISTJ? Lol)|||My last boyfriend was ENTJ. I loved him to no end, but a situation came up and we couldn't continue seeing each other as much as we wanted to. I honestly didn't understand how we ended up as a couple...|||Ahhh I love INFJs! One of my best friends is one and my first boyfriend was as well. I find it really easy to get along with INFJs, because we seem to agree on a lot of things socially and morally....|||1. Personally, I don't like the stereotype that comes with the ISFJ name. That we're all fluffy, quiet, cute little babies who wouldn't harm a fly and all that other flowery crap. (This may apply to...|||I've only been in a long-term relationship with an INFJ and an ENTJ, but I really admire ISTJs and would want to date one if I had the chance!|||My main goal is not to cry over how much debt I'll be in when I start college in the fall :unsure:  But other than that, I'm going to try to practice playing the guitar so that I play better!|||I had a very similar experience a while back, but I actually did date them for a short time. From an ISFJ perspective, there's something obviously holding her back. No offense but there must be...|||Ditto..... This is so me it hurts|||I'm pretty sure if my family were to write one characteristic down about me, they'd put one word.  Stubborn.|||I don't know.. I don't really see that as stereotypical ISFJ behavior, but one ISFJ isn't like another. I think that if you already have to go on a website and ask a bunch of strangers what they...|||I live and breathe rock music. Most of its subgenres too.  Some of my favorite bands in no particular order: Red All Time Low Of Mice & Men Chevelle Blink 182 Goo Goo Dolls Green Day Seether|||How do I deal with heavy emotion? Well to put it simply..  I don't.|||Lol yes I have. It's difficult to keep to yourself and go your own pace when your family member is crazy about it and every conversation you have with them incorporates religion. I even tried to...|||I'm also planning on being a pharmacist! Everything about the career seems made for me|||Right now I'm currently living with my mom who is an extremely religious Mormon, so to keep peace within the house I pretend to be one until I move out in a couple months. I personally don't like...|||Passive aggressiveness. I tend to be hurt by others, letting anger build until the last straw, then it's lots of yelling and crying|||I'm a little in between about it. I'm all for equal rights between everyone, because we all deserve that. But some of the feminists (mostly the radical ones) take it to the next level and it's...|||I like it! I mean, I consider myself pretty weird in the ISFJ family since I'm not as flowery like the majority seems to be. But I think it fits many ISFJs! I like the other MBTI squares too :) ...|||I'm underage so I've only drank twice and I was in my house so it wasn't anything crazy. I just was curious to see what it was like. I don't think I'll be a big drinker when I grow up but more of a...|||Gender: Female Hair Color: Brunette Hair Style: Long, usually loose curls or straight Eye Shape: Almond shaped and big? Eye Color: Blue/grey Glasses: Only at night when I drive Personal...|||I'm probably too nice and too mean all at once. I'm nice to those who are sensitive and blunt with those who aren't. I never really worry about being nice or not because I don't care lol|||I actually did this to someone in the past. It almost is the exact situation really, but I was not in a good place in my life, so instead of trying to resolve it (like your boyfriend seems to be...|||I'm a bit on the same boat as you right now. A relationship of mine ended back in May and it's still making me lose my mind, because I so desperately want to get over him, but I always end up...|||Right now I really enjoy Chemistry, art, and psychology. Pretty cool subjects in my opinion haha|||Personally, I'm an honors student, in AP classes throughout high school and just got accepted to the honors college of the college I'll be attending next year. I think it's incredibly stupid to group...|||I'm joining the party late but I get really passionate about subjects like these, so I just had to respond haha.  I'm still a teenager (17 years old), so some may argue what I experience is...|||Hello lovely fellow ISFJs! I apologize if a thread similar to this has already been made, and I'm sure it has, but I'm curious to know your opinions and thoughts on this subject. As many of you...|||I feel kind of like the Hulk. I'm literally always angry, whether I'm aware of it or not. I hold in pent up anger all the time over almost everything, and once my body and mind can't hold it anymore...|||I define someone as clingy when they get TOO attached in a very annoying way. Someone who wants to know what I'm doing all the time and where I'm going and who Im hanging out with. Also someone who...|||Sorry this might be a bit long but I truly am curious and feel a little bad!! If you don't feel like reading though, just let me know your thoughts about your loyalty and if your limits can be...|||Weight and personality type are extremely unlikely to be related. One ISTJ I know is overweight, but I know another who is anorexic, and 3 who are completely normal. I don't think overweightness and...|||Personally I complain so frequently because I'm overwhelmed and it helps just bitching about it. Or, I'm trying to fill in awkward gaps in conversations and I complain about things I know the other...|||I'm curious if any other ISFJs can relate to this. I generally assume things about... well everything. I assume my friends don't have a problem if they look and act normal, or until they come to me...|||I'm not sure if I can really relate to this to be honest. I listen to the advice I'm given. In the situation, if my back was acting weird I'd listen to the person giving me information (whoever it is...|||Oh my gosh that's fantastic hahah I absolutely love Fall Out Boy and My Chemical Romance too, music is so important to me. I recently saw FOB in concert, never got to see MCR though D: We seem like...