'ISTJs, I would like to ask for your advice.  My father is an ISTJ.  He and I have never been at odds with each other, but there is a very poignant distance between us.  The summit of our one-on-one...|||My mother and sister are ENFJs, and I find them both very draining to be around.  My mother is extremely discomforted by anything that disrupts the harmonious air around her, and considering our...|||Fiscally conservative, socially liberal.|||Dear Boss Lady,  Don't schedule a meeting for an hour, then hold a 45 minute impromptu meeting afterwards to discuss what we discussed in the aforementioned meeting, then top it off by commenting...|||a) Work.  I pick up a lot of freelance design work.  Unless I am really strapped for cash, I won't pick up jobs that look like a bore.  I've got a day job, so I am not that worried about the money. ...|||This, 100%.  During the initial period of withdrawal, I feel like I am living in a haze.  If the situation is particularly bad, I might obsessively check the social media profiles of the person in...|||I can totally relate.  You can't force someone to love you.  It's not worth the energy worrying about it.|||Florida.|||Clothes and makeup are fun for me to play around with, and I consider it an outlet for my creativity.  I have no qualms shopping at thrift stores or clearance racks, but I only buy pieces I am...|||I can close my eyes and get completely lost in these tracks:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1B0wxjnmwOg   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bG_g5orphUU|||Reddit.  People who don't understand a meme, but they use it anyway.  Example, YOLO.  Its original intent was to be a sarcastic excuse for a bad decision, but I see people using it in a...|||7.  :)|||4754047541475424754347544  Marty McKitty and Gidget Widget, my furry friends.|||I have a lot of strong opinions, but I don't debate with people. The main things I care about are liberty, freedom and small government. As far as economics go, I don't understand it as much as I...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cdiY6kijYHE   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AVH6t7nwfc4   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o7_s9H0BRrU|||More often people who know me describe me as spunky.   My cute cuddly side comes out only for a few trustworthy people.|||Food: Romaine lettuce, kale, carrots, radishes, beets, cucumbers, snap peas. Grapefruit, apples, tangerines. Eggs. Milk. Beef, frozen fish, lunch meat. Vitamins. Cranberry juice. ...|||I turned to a few subcultures, in an attempt to figure out who I was.  Most of my friends in early high school were grungy potheads.  Being teased a lot in middle school caused me to become calloused...|||46227 Gustav Klimt  46229 Rene Magritte  46230 Francis Bacon|||Q1. Concentration Camp -- help kill your own child, or watch your child + an innocent man die as well. I could not kill my own child.  Q2.Emergency Affair. ATTEMPT (low %) to save your spouse that...|||1. 'Safe' genetic enhancement of your children. Will you accept the treatment? (Yes or No) Only if it were disease preventative.  Nothing aesthetic.  2. Inevitable disaster. Will it hit nearby...|||1. 6 year old boy and girl in burning build, which child do you save? Whoever was the easiest to carry.  2. Your romantic partner ends up being your half brother/sister. Options: Continue...|||I am a graphic designer/web developer for a small software company, and I supplement with freelance here and there.  I mostly focus on user-interface design, but I do print and stuff too.  Focusing...|||I worked an 8 to 5 during my first years of college at the local courthouse as a File Clerk in Small Claims.  Stuck in an office with a bunch of catty 40-something ladies, shuffling papers and...|||This just totally made my day.  Thank you!  :tongue:|||45710  :D|||Thanks! <3 :)  I used to dye those blonde streaks crazy colors, but by the time this picture was taken, I was looking for a design job post-college.  I am going to do the streaks again, but I am...|||45575  Old pic.    45586 New pic!|||I think I talk to my cats more than I talk to real people.  I would like to remedy this.  ... Although, I think I will continue to talk to my cats.  They are too cute NOT to talk to.|||I did a lot of theater work in my early twenties, and I have always had a great interest in horror move makeup and puppetry.  80's effects are the best - it looks so organic.  Computer animation is a...|||I got stuck living with an acquaintance out of pure convenience during my last four months of college.  My previous roommate up and left out of nowhere (gave me two weeks notice), and told this guy...|||I very rarely feel anger.  I feel like it is wasted energy to be angry, so I tend to turn my attention to books or artistic pursuits in lieu of lashing out.  Only if my personal space is invaded, or...|||I have resented my parents (ISTJ father, ESFJ mother) for years due to a lack of emotional validation.  The latest example was my college graduation.  They brought a guest I specifically told them to...|||Father: ISTJ As a child, his approval was everything to me.  I believe his high standards exacerbated my need to be perfect.  We bonded over creative activities, such as school science projects or...|||I know a few people who could be identified as a hipster on first glance, but they are great people and genuinely individualistic.  I also know a few snobs who follow hipster culture like a lemming...|||Oh my god, that shirt.  I want it.  You have excellent taste.|||D'aw, thanks.  I appreciate that immensely. :)|||The funny thing, is that she has never actually specified whether she was straight or not.  She was always very ambiguous when the topic came up.  We had some physical encounters in the midst of our...|||We had physical encounters, so I was not wrong in my questioning her sexuality.  I think she was curious and then took a step back.|||My intention wasn't to run off with her into the sunset.  I gave up on the idea of being with her years ago.  I honestly just want her to be happy and confident.  You're likely right - I think she...|||Aw, shucks.  <3|||Holiday traditions are nice, sometimes.  Christmas is fun because gift giving is so rewarding, but I dread spending time with my family because I am obligated to.  Halloween is fun because I can...|||An old flame walked back into my life recently - a beautiful INFP girl.  She was a romantic interest of mine for years, and despite her gender preference of men (I am not sure if she is straight or a...|||I stop eating completely, in most cases.  My anxiety gets the best of me and it results in an extremely sensitive stomach.  Even after the conflict has passed and I don't feel mentally anxious...|||Creativity and capacity for love.  I feel like I would be nothing without my creativity, and my creativity would be nothing without my feelings.  The feelings can make me feel a little crazy...|||Roseanne is one of my all-time favorite shows.  While I didn't grow up in a blue collar environment, I really identify with the characters.  I also love Married with Children, Party Down, Community,...|||I am 99.9% positive I would punch them in the face, right then and there.|||There are particular words and ironic phrases I really love to use.  When I am in a sarcastic mood, I use outdated phrases like the bees knees.  I also adopt slang that doesn't necessarily mesh...|||I was always terrible in school, despite being relatively smart.  I was very uncomfortable with the structure, and it didn't seem like anyone actually cared about learning.  Even a lot of the...|||When I am most relaxed or comfortable, I rub my bare feet together without realizing it.  I do this in my sleep when I am having good dreams as well.'