'from the little that you offered, sounds exactly like me. and just to be clear, i dont think im making up for the fact that im not a feeler rather than i simply express things this way because thats...|||again, dont take this personally, but its much more likely for confirmation bias to be affecting your perception than empirically constructed/double blinded/triple blinded/numerously...|||I don't mean to be offensive but high intelligence is Empirically Not correlated to mental disorders in general. what I forgot to add is that mental disorders correlated with high intelligence is a...|||Please reject these two premises because they are arbitrary abductions/inductions. If those are your experiences, focus your above-average intelligence on working through them, have some discipline...|||so when your friends took the mbti test, what measures did you take to counter-balance confounding?|||man, this thread is so juicy. i'd call myself an 'anti-theist' (rip hitchens) yet i would never make such a contentious thread, its pointless.   but since im here...The idea of religious pluralism...|||im betting there was once an intj-like person that made an enfp-like person feel very inferior. it happens a lot.   also, many people secretly want to be cold and calculating like House.   this...|||you are right. i had actually meant to make an edit to that mistake (but edit function wasnt working at the time) to say that religion was the first form of philosophy lol.  edit: didnt realize...|||one year i went to alaska to hunt wolverins with my uncle. we used 12 gauge shotties and blasted upwards of 50 wolverines. they kept attacking my cousins lol!|||btw dont miss chinese philosopher Lao Tzu|||philosophy is considered to be the first form of science. Ii think it is a very good supplement to a possible expertise and/or your own character. If you like it that much by all means major in it,...|||it doesn't happen just from negative instances either...|||happens all the time, i try to just accept it and move on|||ask exactly what you suspect?  OR  1. gather info 2. create hypothesis 3. test hypothesis (ask a science teacher for ideas if need be) 4. gather data 5. analyze 6. conclude|||omg, i use to love pharcyde. this was the first song i ever heard from them.|||doesnt sound like an intj to me, but thats not much info to go off of anyways.   on the other hand, i have a friend that use to try to get me to hangout all the time and wouldnt really respect the...|||so glad you said that for me. you smart intj you.|||im trying to reconcile your post with the yin yang symbol in your sig lolol|||something like sitting up straight can have a profound effect on aesthetic. which is to say, pics or liezzz....|||pics please|||i second what bast said, im in a similar position and currently looking for some new people whom i can relate with. that said ive spent a lot of time in the past with xSxJ. they are fun but i usually...|||this seems too late but this is too fun  1) Do you like tea? Specifically hot tea  Yezzzz. early grey, darjeeeeeling, green tea (no matcha), jasmine green tea  2) Do you often think about...|||Feist  Currently: Joan as Policewoman Marina and the Diamonds My Brightest Diamond Kings of Convenience First Aid Kit & Feist|||curiosity, thinks before talking, and sits on face|||i think you did okay. its what i probably would have done. moments like that i do not have the capacity to think of something polite yet assertive. i just start fitting an essays worth of character...|||i prefer Morgan Freeman to narrate but this is pretty accurate and affirming, thank you|||LOL       yea, run something tragic on your system. crash it. really hard.|||ah i see, maybe it will ease the transition from ME to Vista?|||your introverted intuition is using too much processing power. set 3-4 priorities, scrap all other processes. your quad-core processor sounds like it can only handle maximum of four tasks on each...|||no i meant role reversal for venting.   however, that does remind me of something i always do for fun with my mom. you know moms always has 'sayings' that she always repeats? sometimes ill quote...|||try a role reversal. do you ever vent to her? sometimes when we see a person go off on something we feel the same about, we naturally go the other way.|||1) I'll tell her I bought the textbooks. I would also like to add that I would not have spent it on other things in the first place lol Is rejecting the premise of your question an option?   2)...|||everyone should be free to define their own version of a soul-mate.  a friend of mine likes to bring up a good point in the harry potter world. harry and hermoine are quite the match for each...|||im going to try pigeonholing what some of us has said.  i am really turned on when someone can talk and relate in a self-exploratory kind of manner, treating one as an object to itself. Sort of...|||mmm what is there to say that hasn't already been said...  its definitely not just an INFJ thing. I think all types can fall victim to the extremely rigid romance pathology that Disney princess...|||the hardest drug i have done is coke, twice. my lowest point in life was when i was smoking weed for 2 years 24/7. your thread makes me wonder if i would have even tested out to be an INFJ if i did...|||wow...and I thought I ask for a lot.  I only look for a couple of things now-a-days besides a basic physical attractiveness.  1) Feeling strongly about issues that concerns other people 2)...|||Like a couple of people have mentioned above, I too become a little more cheery and joyous when I drink. Sober, I tend to have more filters in my expressions. A huge factor in my drunk behavior has a...||| Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.  Mark Twain I do this^ very well.   what I don't do very well is: not letting my quest for individuality...|||you missed the part where i expressed that i am different from most of the people in my social circle and that changing friends is hard. if you feel that you and the girls you know are contrary to...|||thanks for resonating. but now you got me thinking of the two ENTJs that i have dated whom were too underdeveloped. And then this INFJ whom I had a chance with but seems to be incapable of...|||well, why i would want to keep someone i am attracted to in the friend zone is to see if our companionship can withstand the test of time. Also, things like values, beliefs, and life goals are not...|||Forgive me but your questions seem a bit vague. It sounds like you are asking out of a personal premise yet the wording is very broad. Therefore, I'm going to offer a meta point here.  I don't like...|||I practically pull my hair-out sometimes/all-the-time because i feel like in social situations i can be so dysfunctional, awkward, judgmental, and most of all, self-conscious. Ironically, i have...|||There's gossip, and there's analytic sympathetic gossip.|||back in high school i would only listen to indie hip hop, and given the nature of indie music, i shared the same music taste with VERY few people. to vent this frustration, i would memorize an entire...|||the giver, in the most literal sense, is always in such a power position that allows one to exert energy. the benefactor in turn have a power position in the sense that there is an affect on the...|||I have a fear of people taking things I say the wrong way. For example, I like to say sure in the affirmative and in a serious tone. People often think I am being sarcastic which bugs the hell out...|||This is a bit vague of a question for me. I dated two bisexuals. Its irrelevent to me whether they are straight or bi.   That being said, both of the them had strong emotional issues. << Does...|||This is my bane right now, ive made a little progress though. I have a coffee shop that I frequent where I am familiar with a few regulars and employees, I go there to read but it also serves as an...'