'I know two couples wich are ISFP ESFJ. So far so good! ;) So musicislife there is hope indeed! And me and my (not 'boy') friend, are also a great combination. We just 'feel' each other. He is someone...|||(Luckily) haven't noticed it yet with my ESFJ friends! I know three ESFJ boys, and they are just the best. I wish I had more around me! :proud:|||Exactly! Started as very good friends, because we can communicate very well, and than developed feelings. Exact the same things you name, is also what I liked about the ESFJ boy. And complementing...|||She doenst say she's not attracted to ISFP's, she says she hasn't got any experiences with them :)  I know a few ESFJ's and they are, just like musicislife said, very supportive, loyal and caring....|||Yeah I recognized he needs it a LOT. I'm dating one for half a year now and he says he has never been so happy because I appreciate him so much. He has never felt so good about humself. So thats...|||[QUOTE=lenabelle;2963645] The main way I can tell ESFJ from ENFJ is realism/pessimism. I tend to lean toward pessimism and see potential consequences for certain actions, which means I'm firmly...|||Hello everyone!   Are there any ESFJ's here who like/are dating/have a boy/girlfriend who is ISFP? I am really curious about the experiences!   I really like an ESFJ guy, we are exact on the same...|||They are.|||YESSS ESFJ's have VERY strong emotions! They can be totally happy or totally down just from one little sentence or something someone said. I've experienced it. They are great, awesome people, I...|||It is possible indeed she is an ESFJ. She sounds as a wonderful person! I think one of the most important things between you is that you have try to be open. I always find it very hard to open up,...|||Haha this is also a little ESFJ like :P Giving themselves compliments, on a modest way! I think to get the appreciation they wanted. But I like to give them this appreciation cause they are very very...|||Hey ESFJ Boys! Where are you?? I wanna see youuuu!! :proud:|||That's funny. Or weird. My brother is INTJ and we are like best friends. We get along amazing, ever since we were young. ISFP/INTJ in this case works great! Pity you and your father are not like this.|||All the time..|||ESFJ's tend to like me a lot. I do like them too!! :) But i want to hear from you ESFJ's :P|||It's funny you say this. They are not too loud for me! It's actually a good balance between too loud and too quiet I think :P Maybe it's diffirent cause i'm an ISFP girl. Maybe it's diffirent the...|||I also thought our match was ESFJ? Some sites differ about the match. I tend to like ESFJ's though.. Anyway, you say it exactly the way I feel it. People say: Give him a chance! or: Give me a...|||Could be.. He is ESFJ, so very caring. Personality is just PERFECT for me. But for some reason.. I don't find him attractive enough I guess.. I hate myself for thinking and saying this!! :( He...|||ESFJ's are very caring, Always helpful, warm-hearted - good listeners, good speakers :P, energetic, loyal.. I just love you guys|||I´d say ISFJ :)|||How often do you think about your goals and values in life? I don't. And if I do, it's very vague. Never concrete. I think about the moment and not much further, unfortunately. I do have some sense...|||Thanks m_dogg for your reply. But I am sure I am not in love. I could have him if I want, but there is something in me, a feeling, which says, I don't want him. Not now, not later. And about the...|||I agree. ESFJ's are AWESOME!!! I don't know what exactly it is, but I feel so drawn to you. You are all so kind, loyal, open-minded, funny, open, don't judge, caring, warm-hearted, and I can go on...|||People can never figure out what I am like. Sometimes they try to 'read' me, but 90% they are wrong. When people don't know me, they think I am quiet and shallow, but when they do get to know me, I...|||Weird, don't get it. Everyone has something. If possessive is everything.. I mean, they have really good harts. Maybe they come across emotional (which they are), but they are very warm-hearted and...|||ESFJ's are sweet, very caring, warmhearted, open-minded, don't judge, open, can laugh with them. Don't know what it is with them.. but I LOVE them!!!|||I would also say ISFP.. I at least connect very well with them!!!!! ANd they with me ;)|||I can get along with ESFJ's VERY well. I just love them! The only boys I really connected with, were esfj's.. So I do think I'm attracted to them. They're personalities match just amazing with mine....|||Doesn't sound ISFP like..|||I totally understand what you are saying. I have this too.. I like to have friends, but I don´t really really need it. I also don´t need to catch up with my friends every week. Once in a while is...|||They hate when people give up quick|||Should I? Or should I not.... Well okay than, here it is... :)https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/548807_277620212312391_360231944_n.jpg|||Like to see you all :)|||Hi Twigs, I totally agree with you. I have to say there are some ISFP's I know which are not very intelligent. But I don't think it has a lot to do with Type. It's just that an isfp would do less...|||Absolutely method A!!!!|||Nice introduction! :) Welcome!|||Welcome :)|||Hi there Amen :)|||Tine: SO TRUE!|||I Always say: Why do today, what you can do tomorrow?|||Welcome, I'm a newbie 2 :)  Hope, with the knowledge of the MBTI about yourself and with this forum, that you will understand and appreciate yourself more. You sound like an unhappy ISFP and I feel...|||All true, but I am very optimistic. More ISFP's agree with this?|||Blue Butterfly, I want to thank you for making this threat, because now people will get right answers, from a JW self. I'm a JW as well, and sometimes I get ennoyed of all the prejudices about 'us'....|||You know what so confusing is about isfp's? They are confused too! They mostly don't even know themselves what they think or feel. Do I like him? Or do I not? I notice this myself. Then a boy wants...|||I absolutley agree with you 100%!! A LOT of my friends are ESFJ's. I can get along with them very well! I love being around with them and I notice they do too with me. Understanding each other is...|||me 2. My father and my sister are ENFP. And I know a lot more. (too many in my opinion xD)|||I talk a lot with esfj's, we can get along very well. So I'm sure too they like to talk to ISFP's.  And overall they have better conversations with F I guess.|||At this moment not very cold :) It's still winter and its already 16 degrees. Not too bad :)|||Wauw Epimer! Thank you for your sweet message! That's a warm welcome!!!!! :)|||I grew up as a happy kid, worried about nothing, I had a lot of friends, but I enjoyed playing on my own or with a close friend most. I could play for hours with the barbies or something else. I was...'