'I have gone from INFJ (shy; moody kid from birth) -> INFP -> ENFP -> ENFJ -> ambivertNFj/P (now)  Is it true that typing problems between 'I' & 'E' come from not having a stable home life?? I read...|||Contradictory as ever. Thank you though!  I appreciate it.|||If you have a chance, what does your book say about which types get along or not w 4? 0:)|||Thanks! I know sp 9s come in many shapes and sizes but the potential ISTJ partner (my dad's type probably) I would not go for. The ENFP/ISTJ example is apt because I'm ambivert but leaning ENFP....|||Hi, I'm wondering what a type 4 (more of a 4w3) would do well with romantically? What would type 4 not get along with? I think I'm not compatible with 1, 4, 6 (at least this many) My dad is a...|||Based on some helpful members of this site, I realized maybe I'm not an INFP as I had thought. Had tested as and thought I was INFJ for a few years before that, so I'd like to know my proper type as...|||Hi! I think that is a good plan but a former ardent religious zealot, I am not now and feel hypocritical going to church. :( I wish very much that I could do that though because I think only people...|||Why the drama?    What! You are a unique man, Termus123. I, for one, would be so red/ angry/ BYE if someone did that. It sounds like online dating where people list random traits and no one is...|||You're right! Spending time with healthy, supportive friends has helped me a lot in the last no-dating months. It's really been great and I'm expanding in what I want to, though still struggle with...|||Hi! Thanks for the comment and vicious circle is true. Thanks! So INFPs can meet Es- yay! Glad it's going well.     Hi! Thank you for sharing such a detailed, personal ideas for love and growth....|||Hi! Thanks for the comment and vicious circle is true. Thanks! So INFPs can meet Es- yay! Glad it's going well.     Hi! Thank you for sharing such a detailed, personal ideas for love and growth....|||Aww this is great! Thank you. I will keep on being me instead of changing/warping to fit some imagined person.    Yes, I can see it too! And yes even if I succeed short-term trying to cover it...|||LOL! Good to see I'm not alone. :] Why do you say ISFP is bad? I think they are bad for INFP though yeah.|||Just a *little bit* hehe :wink:    Based on the posts, I guess. It seems harder for people to offer something about attracting another person.  Alright, any suggestions?|||angelfish Thanks too.  Oh I do volunteering and I have never met some in this arena. Oh well, glad it works for you all. Yes, I'm starting to understand something this week: I can be whoever I am...|||I'm sorry to hear that. :( Are INFPs and/or 4s prone to attracting and staying in abusive relationships. Well 3 years is a long time to have baggage. That's frightful. I can relate. Age 18-21 (2-year...|||There are percentages and if you are close to 50-50, it seems like you are not so polar. Your kitty avatar is pretty cute btw.    People used to say dating is supposed to be good, healthy,...|||Yeah, I combat my fear of abandonment by engaging in many romantic relationships at the same time. Something that is incredibly hard to break but I need to be monogamous if I indeed want to find...|||^Keepin' it real. Yup, I am just frustrated that I don't heal. You are right. You are right. P.S. 3.5 months is a hell of a long time for me.|||Yes, sometimes I don't know if alone or with someone in the imperfect world is better because it needs to be an extraordinary person. Only found one and he was codependent, temperamental, phobic,...|||I am researching how to find a healthier, serious, fantastic partner.  Where? When? How?  Starting as an unhealthy INFP and 4w3. 22 years old. Introverted, idealistic, perfectionistic means I...|||Hi surgery,  ISTJ says duty fulfiller. Yes, that may be him but an atypical one. Interesting about INFP as empathetic yet self-absorbed. I grew up with two foreign parents in a community that...|||Dear surgery,  I love it! What you say is very interesting and, yes, Europeans seem to work to live, especially the French and I'd say Spanish fit into this as well. I hope I will be able to relate...|||Yes, living is hard some times. :ninja:  How would I do that-- make an Enneagram forum under a random subject listed above? New at this. Thanks for reaching out. Forums seem safe esp when everyone...|||Yes, I had a classmate of around the same age as me start up a discuss about his therapy that cured him of some big issues including romances. (He started on this subject himself.) 3 years really...|||FPx Thanks for the lemurs!      Yes, I am terribly afraid of being boxed up in pointless work. I have had internships at corporate offices where I felt like a small ant & it made me so stressed...|||Hi guys, thanks for the replies. And it's nice to know another INFP 4. ElliCat  Right now am in a bad (worse) state because of anxiety about wanting to take lots summer classes and stress...|||-Rachel Weisz -Halle Berry -Bruce Willis <3|||This is what I do and it's not working.|||I feel the same way as treehugger. I graduated last year magna cum laude and I feel hostile toward technology at times though I felt like I HAD to get a smartphone upon graduation.|||I am feeling anxious, depressed, lonely, no romance whatsoever, hateful of my critical, demanding father (this is a very bad feeling to feel) and need to get away so I'm moving to Spain in August. I...|||I think INFPs are too open. I am. I don't take time to make sure a person is a safe person because I need to talk about my feelings, problems, emotional upset. Do you have this issue? Are you just...|||Yo.  I am new as of today. As an INFP, just as I like to reassure others, I like to be reassured that: Yes, this will get better.  INFP symptoms  ...I'm trying to research how to change your...|||Yes, I feel this way. Since I was a small child I always thought of the *future* when I could *finally* change my appearance.  I'm female and have been obsessing about shaving my head for about 5...'