'I've sometimes wondered if Stephen Colbert may be an ENFJ since he's so outgoing yet he seems very friendly, charming, intelligent, caring and he also teaches Sunday school. He looks like the kind of...|||It's been a while since my last post but I couldn't resist something as fun as this one:  1. I love my husband very much and have been married for 15 years. He's also an ENFJ, hooray! 2. I was in...|||Your poster is right, I couldn't resist hitting the Mystery Can if I saw that, LOL!  There are too many possibilities of what it could be....|||not so aware of the intimate stuff that causes closesness  I think in this sense I mean the kind of intimacy that results from two people sharing what comes from their own private (internal)...|||Hmm, pretty much everything that everyone mentioned on this thread are things that really piss me off, particularly when it comes to bullies or picking on people who can't fight back. Bullies aren't...|||Hmm, I'm intrigued with what you've mentioned on your post especially since I'm an ENFJ with INTJ best friend who I greatly admire and hold in the highest regard. I've seen a lot of people comment on...|||After reading all of these comments, I can relate with most of the sentiments that are being expressed right now.  Lately, I've been feeling stuck in my job and it's been very frustrating because...|||Good morning!  We used to live in Baton Rouge and graduated from LSU.  I pop in the forum every now and then but I've been busy lately.  Regardless, welcome and enjoy.  And of course,  Geaux...|||You hit the nail on the head for me.  As much as I enjoy discussing various issues or deep thoughts, I don't feel the need to discuss them with just anyone and I've seen just how ridiculous online...|||I think the most frustrating thing for me is when I get into a quiet or melancholic mood that people around me can read my face like a book.  It's hard for me to put a mask on my face and that's when...|||I wouldn't say I'm a glutton or any of the other Seven Deadly Sins..uh oh, did I just hear thunder?  :shocked:  All kidding aside I enjoy good food and good times as much as anyone else but I don't...|||New Orleans is the Queen of Decadence and I am one of her joyous minions; it's definately a place where good food, good drink and good times are heartily appreciated. Havaaaaarti...my friend and I...|||I couldn't agree with you more.  Down time is necessary and vital to recharge one's batteries otherwise I find that I may get crankier and unable to fully function on all engines.  I can't imagine...|||Girly nite!!!!  I love your choices and may I please, please elaborate?!  (clapping hands excitedly), Red or green grapes, plump, seedless served with a generous wedge of sharp cheddar (or that of...|||I will say that she is very beautiful although I also lament some of the talent that has been presented of late.  Sometimes I have to wonder if these people aren't simply type-casted into the role...|||Psychic Third Nostril Enlargement....LMAO!!!  I don't even know what to say to that other than wow...but isn't it the Third Eye that should be enlarged?  :wink:  Also, I have a question about...|||I don't advocate violence or brutality but I read his book and I won't deny that it was interesting to read simply for reading's sake.  After having read his book, my opinion of him isn't that of a...|||I've often wondered if Che Guevara was perhaps some sort of NF.  I've read The Motorcycle Diaries and it's a fascinating book.  He was a bright medical student who really enjoyed the poetry of...|||One of my closest friends is an INTJ; she does have high standards but I can to a certain degree, too.  She can be very quiet at times but when we first met I noticed a few things about her that I...|||Yes, I appreciate my down time and when I have those moments when I prefer peace & quiet, I don't like being bothered.  I call these moments Enjoying my tranquility pool and when someone disturbs...|||I figured they had to be somewhat young and immature to behave this way although the same could be said of older people, too.  Frankly, they all sound bitter, obnoxious and generally unhappy with...|||I get what I call a vibe around people; a feeling or sense of what may be lurking beneath the surface.  I don't consider it a psychic ability but perhaps instinctual, a remnant of our...|||If I may ask, how old are these people because this sounds like the behavior of those who are very immature to be engaging in this sort of thing.  I've always despised bullies and I've experienced...|||I agree, the stuff that's on the radio is poopy to say the least!!!  Personally, I enjoy the old school country; those classic songs that you can tell they actually felt something when they sang...|||Last Christmas, I hand wrote a letter to my friend (who is an ENFJ, too), about my concern for her drinking problem.  She lives out of state so I don't see her often but I explained that I was very...|||Hmm, you mean kinda like this?:laughing:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MjXtHwl4lR0|||Wow, that sounds like me, too.  Even my super angry rants seem to be laced with a ton of colorful metaphors, profanity and dark, twisted humor that is kinda funny when I sit and really think about...|||Cool!  I love stuff like this but the only problem is that I'm usually in bed by 10:30 and I don't get up until 6, so 5am is a bit too early for me!  *sigh*  Why can't this be on a weekend?  :sad:|||(lights a cigarette, puff)...You know it's funny that this particular topic surfaced today because I had an incident happen at work today that really pisses me off and it's been a continuing problem...|||I couldn't agree with you more since that's exactly what I do.  In fact, I'm doing that right now to a friend since I get tired of carrying the friendship, so I'll readjust my perception and learn...|||Ugh, I've said this more times than I care to count!  I know that sounds like a Miss Know-it-all but when I observe patterns of behavior, actions vs words, trends, and all the other things that an...|||I typically don't show my temper to others and if I'm having a bad day, I tend to withdraw and appear very quiet around coworkers.  When I was a teenager, I had a very short fuse but that was due to...|||Hmm...I'm sitting here thinking about what you've said with regards to people being hard-wired a certain way and being unable to change those fundamental qualities about themselves and you're right;...|||If you don't mind my asking, what happened with the INFJ that left you traumatized?  I have an INFJ friend who I've noticed some troubling tendencies when it comes to her intimate relationships. ...|||Yes, Christopher Hitchens is notorious for his comments but he's brilliant, edgy, witty and razor sharp with his observations and we enjoy his brand of humor, too.  As a matter of fact, my husband is...|||You sound similar to my INTJ friend, she does the same thing with dark, self deprecating remarks that she doesn't mean either while doing the tearing down to remain humble thing, too.  What I love...|||You know, I've read all of your posts on this topic and you strike me as someone who is very intelligent, thoughtful and analytical which are qualities I admire in people, so I'm sure this girl also...|||This pretty much sums up how I feel about ourselves and our interactions with introverts.  And yes, it sounds like she's genuinely interested in you while having observed something that perhaps you...|||Thanks, I certainly try to give the best help I can!  Btw, that avatar of your's cracks me up!!!  I think another thing that captures my attention are pics like that since I'll remember them forever,...|||Cool, a fairy and bunny rabbit...for some reason that actually made me smile while envisioning pixie dust and fuzzy cotton tails.  :happy:|||Ohhh, I like the flower idea!  Personally, I would love a gift like that and I like to think I have a green thumb.  Plants are a gift that keep on giving!  Simple and not overbearing is the safest...|||I agree with the painting as a gift since that is very personal and I can assure you that I love gifts that reflect someone's thought behind it.  It says a lot to me when someone took the time to...|||Welcome!  :happy:|||Yes, it's easy for me to hold a grudge when someone pisses me off but as I've gotten older, I've worked on that since it doesn't do me any good to grumble about something stupid and it usually was...|||:laughing:|||Hmm, at parties we'll just tend to go with the flow, mingle, introduce ourselves, see what's going on, chit-chat with others and somehow we'll manage to find those who seem interesting and talk for...|||I agree with you 100%, Razvan, and I think most sane people would acknowledge the fact that whomever this guy is, he's off his rocker.  That's why I don't even waste my energy with folks like that...|||Cool.  I'm just speaking on our behalf and nothing more.|||*yawwwwwwwwwn*  Whoa, wait a minute...did somebody fart?  Well, if not I'm goin back to bed, call me when there's something important goin' on. :crazy::laughing: :cool: :crazy::laughing:|||Ok, I've read all of your posts on this thread and although you may attempt to convince us that you're not trying to be insulting, you mean to tell me that this comment doesn't do anything but that?...'