'It is too much fun trying to put your dreams into story format and getting the flat out response of you're mad! from the ones you confide in :wink:|||It is possible to be an introvert who can put on a good guise as an extrovert. I class myself as a typical introvert but I do have moments when I come alive in the environment and engage with...|||Tchyeah, those darned SPs adopt me as some sort of cute mascot lmao! :crazy:|||I got the job!!! Pretty much shocked...but fellow INFPs, you just gotta believe in yourself cause we DO rock! Also notes to read from do help you keep your composure. Chins up :)|||There's nothing wrong with you at all! I hate getting my haircut cause I can't really do the whole casual chat with my hairdresser. I honestly want to zone out and daydream for the long 45 minutes it...|||Pickup lines are corny and fake. Instantly set me at illease and most likely to make me back away quickly!|||*cringe* me pretending and failing to come across as a wild sporty SP type... 80500e.|||Being a victim is thrilling; playful intensity *spazz and drool*    Enjoy this too. My fantasies are either really cuddly comforting or wild slight S/M-y...:3|||My fantasies are ever changing but a common theme is adventure, romance and magic.|||You remind me of Florence Welch aka Florence and the Machine. Your username reminds me of her; ethereal, beautiful and spritely.  80425|||You're so quiet You're an epic distraction Awww you're so lovely...AWWW! Please don't faint|||Hehe, well me and my friend actually pieced together a Dora adventure once off the top of our heads. Totally random; she gets lost in Edinburgh Castle and eaten by a giant snake like in Harry Potter...|||Through the bad times, I usually think to myself that if I wake up tomorrow and the sky is still expansive and blue, the sea is waved and deep, the land green and alive, the sun strong; that...|||I have SOME internal shit together. Externally, I might as well be a hobo. But I'm fine with it. Being lost means you can find tropical oasis' and treasure beyond your wildest dreams. Or at least...|||I suck at interviews. Never a successful one yet. Nervous about one I have this Wednesday, but I'm hoping with experience and time I'm able to wing it and project the best side of myself. Confidence...|||Agree with all of these. Sitting about doing nothing but pondering everything is a great way to spend an afternoon imo; beats doing chores...and yeah, my bestie can get a bit annoyed when I make puns...|||Sometimes some people never get their shit 100% together. This is me; 20 and still not entirely on this planet. Drifting, slightly aimless but my brain amuses me so much! Plus going with the flow is...|||(on being invited to a Kings of Leon concert earlier)..I'm the most un-rock chic ever; why the invite? I can't believe this! Yet I'm soooooooo flattered! Heheeeyayooooh fun adventure! But... large...|||I definitely have to apply images to my thinking in order to understand what I'm processing. It's difficult to explain to other people, hence why I use metaphors an awful lot.|||Thanking you all for your responses and insights :) Variety seems to be the spice of life and romance, it seems... Personally, I'm very much drawn to ENTP and ESTP energies at this moment in time,...|||You know you are an INFJ (or even any NF type in general) when you have all these great fantasies panning out but in reality you are too shy to even be in the same vicinity as your crush :(|||@lampt that's great to hear, thanks for sharing :)|||SPs can be so exciting! Yes, I do agree with your comments on ENFP and INFP somewhat. LOVE them as friends but not sure we'd be compatible. Personally, I have a preference towards men with Thinker...|||Yes I think intro/extro relationships are very rewarding. Balance is made with enough differences to create growth in individuals. Personally I am more romantically attracted to gregarious bold guys....|||Yeah introverts are really attractive souls but extroverts; god, it's hard not to be amazed by their charisma.|||I have pretty bad spacial awareness...|||Delilah don't you just admire :happy: INTJ logic?|||Oh, the annoyingimated part..but I do what she does too sometimes and send texts as seperate spam rather than one whole message.|||Ditto...I kinda look around to see if there's someone else to direct the attention onto and involve in the moment, like oh, well 'insert name here' has a much cuter bag than mine *smile and pray...|||Aw that's a really sweet story. Glad it's worked out for you :) thanks for sharing|||I'm very emotional and masking them doesn't work; just creates a big volcanic mess. Concealing hurts, doesn't help, which is what I am trying to work on. I'm most at ease with my feelings when I can...|||^^This!! I understand everyone but myself!|||A chill ENTP is the dream; they *must* exist somewhere! I have a lot of respect for ISTJ's but like you said, I think the INFJ/ISTJ match would be more infuriating than blissfull...|||Yeah I definitely have a draw to those energies too. I think they balance us INFJ's out rather nicely; our opposites that we're intrigued by rather than flustered by :)|||Wow, these poems are BEAUTIFUL|||Recom hello Germany!|||Thank you for your feedback :)    Being open to possibilities is good! Any type can make a lovely couple imo.    Fair point. Romance and relationships in general are a bit of a mystery....|||Fictional characters are so hard to type! I guess only the writer truly knows their personality and motivations...|||Thanks for the reply, relax, I wouldn't kill you for having an opinion. *besides I don't think the INFJ forum would have the stomach for random brutal violence hehe!*   So you would say that you...|||I'm the female version of this. At high school I felt I was the ugly duckling. Plus with inferior Se I didn't have that innate instinct to engage completely with my surroundings and not stay within...|||I'm curious to what you all have to share on this subject. I'll chip in with my insights later on...:happy:|||Outwardly I get a little shy over compliments, blush, laugh slightly nervously and say the polite statutory thank you with a crooked smile. I'm pleased to receive them, truly, and internally beam...|||I do come across as really formal in email or letters in the workplace but then I've also been told my reports and essays for college have been surprisingly passionate and that I need to tone it down...|||Northwind nice to meet you :)|||Thank you, hey :) Omroberts you are right, you learn more about yourself by meeting others with similar thought and experiences. So glad to be here!      Thank you, lovely to meet you all, I...|||Actually funny thing is I'm originally from South London but moved all  the way up North when I was a child. Maybe it's time I come and visit  again :)|||*virtual high five back* thanks!|||Thank you for the response, I'm sure I'll find lots of intrigue and excitement on here :)|||I'm sure I'm a Fe subtype for these reasons: 1. Occasionally portraying shades of familiarity and impudence At times I have playfully back-sassed my boss. She's lighthearted and sunny in response...|||Just thought I'd introduce myself to the forum and site in general :)  Hello there, I'm Jen from the UK, Northern England to be exact. I'm 20 years old and female and an INFJ.   And that's the...'