'Jess: ENFP Nick: ISFP Schmidt: ESTJ Winston: ISTJ CeCe: XSTP|||hmm i think i'm lacking in all three.... we'll see if i improve this. thank you for the advice! much appreciated.|||how do i make sure the entj likes me as a person?|||So I see two opportunities for my benefit, given the tendencies of ENTJs.  A) You look for things to IMPROVE. To help get better. *****Do you think I can convince my ENTJ acquaintance to be my...|||The fact that your sister wins chess gives me hope! I think I'll try the game.   Perhaps the fact that you might like speaking in a concise and to-the-point way is an obstacle when you are...|||P.S. Believe me, I really do want to meet a stable ENTJ. They have interesting qualities but obviously the ones I met--had issues perhaps unrelated. But the occasional stalking thing really does...|||Hey, I appreciate the detailed review of my post. Here is my revision:  THE ENTJ CHARACTERISTICS: Likes people to keep up Steamrolls by accident Has unintentional cold stare of doom and...|||according to the newspapers that they appeared in, they are based on research. you could also try googling each item to see if it is linked to research|||Lol, I'm glad you like my comment about ENTPs.  Well, thanks for the dating advice. I'm already getting myself in trouble by typing him before I know him. He makes me nervous, nonetheless, so I'm...|||i freaked out about him being entp so i asked to talk to him on skype first. he actually seems like santa claus or a teddy bear...kind of jolly and simple. he likes cooking and building. i don't...|||Wow, you guys scare me a little bit.|||Haha, anyways. I was thinking since I last posted on this thread, that I know ENTP's better than I thought. I just remembered that two of my really good guy friends (online friends, of course, or I...|||I'm actually so innocent I don't know what the game is and what it looks to not play the game. Please explain?|||So I met an ENTP online and he asked me out for this Saturday. He has no idea that I know that his is an ENTP but his hyper energy, his interest in a myriad of music genres, his suspiciously high...|||haha, i appreciate the good-humored criticism. i'm open to meeting nice ENTJ's, just bummed it hasn't worked out|||This post explains my experience, I think. I am supposedly INFP, but I tend to be more emotionally distant than the people I know. It is actually kind of surprising to see a person who seems to use...|||Dear ENTJ,  I wish we could be friends but you're too controlling.  Bye, forever, INFP|||ENTJ's don't have the same values that INFP's do. The former like to control people...|||I'm in INFP who wonders why I don't associate with ENFJ's. Perhaps this is because I am very argumentative and I be misleading/evasive/flat out untruthful with people I dislike. It bothers me to be...|||Technically, as an INFP, I would fit the girl-next-door, wouldn't hurt a fly, type. So I am wondering why I don't meet any ENFJ's in real life or why they don't seem very interested in talking to me....|||kmatrixg; Your post explains a lot about the guy I know. I find it interesting to notice the gap the you pointed out: the distance between what I think to be good communication (talking about what I...|||@mr rozay; All right, so even though I sent those two emails already, I'll post the new brief message to the dating site. I'll keep your advice on other plans in mind. : )|||Okay, I'm going to be too meticulous and run this email process by you.  What I've already said on gmail:  2012/2/11 <n@gmail.com> Hi, Thanks so much for the dinner. It was really nice meeting...|||mr. rozay; you put into words what he seemed to think: he seemed to just want to hang out to communicate there was nothing on the agenda. This type of attention was just so different from what I'm...|||Alright, that explanation helps me understand a lot. So if he asks are you leaving now? and I sort of make it seem more diplomatic by saying people at the house will wonder where I am, (which is...|||Do you think I should say, in so many words, I think we're clicking and on the same wave-length, etc.? I would normally shy away from expressing this, but perhaps that's what I should articulate. ...|||Is there a way that I can tell him I didn't mean for him to be heartbroken?  I don't have his Facebook or phone number. I could try messaging him with the online dating site where we met.  ...|||Thanks, your advice is really helpful|||adverseaffects; No, he hasn't replied. I guess it's only been two days so far.|||Some of the items on the list are rather specific, like following Roubini, visiting MOMA, and eating tumeric. I'm surprised--and impressed--that you've done almost everything.|||Play words with friends Eat turmeric Take Tae Kwon Do Get news from Al Jazeera Read about TED Go to a literary festival Read Joshua Foer's Moonwalking with Einstein Learn a language Eat...|||I really don't like being an INFP, because I feel like I can't get anything accomplished or decide what I want to do. I'm easily swayed, overwhelmed, over-enthusiastic, or hurt. But I think that...|||I very briefly dated an ENTJ and I also have a parent (somewhat estranged now) who is an ENTJ.  *I think only INTPs and INTJs should spend time with ENTJs....you have to be extremely quick-thinking...|||The part about the restaurants and music was a quote from an entj i know.|||So do you see any use in MBTI or how do  you apply the test results? I see your point about the behaviorals (aka being enthusastic does not mean you're ENFP) but I am not sure what to make of the...|||ahaha, no. that's a direct quote from an entj's website. i just removed the proper nouns so that you can't google search it.   to prove my point that he's entj, his latest post is happy valentines...|||haha, is this a criticism of my lack of tailoring my question to the correct thread? i don't exactly know what i should use advanced search for, however.|||Do you mean that the do you want to do something again sometime email is weird and/or off-putting?|||AWWWW, liddle baby! ENTJ's are surprisingly sentimental:  memories are often strongest when associated with food and music (6th birthday) - got a music album and breakfast at restauarnt with my...|||I am looking to find ENFJs, but I am not sure where to find them and how to identify them. I would also like to know how to approach ENFJs and express my interest in getting to know them.|||lol this is such an accurate picture of an ENTJ. when i saw an ENTJ walk in the door I automatically thought his arm posture and standing posture looked like a TRex, and my friend thinks the ENTJ's...|||Hi, I am an INFP and ENTJs are attracted to me like vultures to carrion. It's kind of an exciting game but I had to take the fire escape because I got so close to getting controlled/manipulated. It...|||p.s. If I masquerade as an ENTP, will the INTP like me?|||INFP wondering what INTP thinks of me post-date - Enlighten me to the workings of your type I am waiting to see if an INTP wants to go out again. He seemed pretty disappointed that I left the last...|||I am waiting to see if an INTP wants to go out again. He seemed pretty disappointed that I left the last date early. Which was surprising to me, given that we spent 3 hours on first time date. I...|||Do you like INFPs? OR INxPs?|||Hi,   I am an INFP in Myers-Briggs and also Type 5 in Enneagram. I am currently interested in meeting ENFJs, ENTPs, and ESFJs. From experience, I also get along pretty well with INTJs, since I can...'