'First of all... Oh my goodness. Thank you for all of the replies!  I think the problem is not that I can't FIND the right people, it's just that there aren't any of the kind of people that I connect...|||I feel kind of bad coming and posting asking for help again, but the truth is that I need it, and you guys always have answers. *deep breath* Here goes.  I moved to China in January. I live with my...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kf8BT3wbZSo   No shame.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kf8BT3wbZSo That's what I have to say to that.  As for my animals... I intend to be a zookeeper or work in wildlife rescue or biology of some sort when I get out of...|||I learned that to respect others, you have to respect yourself as well.|||You're right. I think I definitely have a better direction to head on this now, and I'm not so upset about it because I think it's not a random major loss of something, but just the wrong attitude...|||I.. I.. Can I have? Please?   And on a side note, anyone else have a thing for scruffy guys?|||And there's where I realize I've arrived at the wrong conclusion, albeit an important one.   I'm still not even sure how to get to my old level of empathy again. So far the most I've managed to...|||Thanks for that, Jay, it's really nice. :) Keep writing!! You put your thought to words very well.    I'm only 17, so apparently my TSH levels are all over the place as my thyroid dies (or...|||Actually I was diagnosed with hpyothyroidism last October. Wow. I'd have never thought that would be a cause for this. It sucks because even though I'm on medication, I go up and down all the time,...|||I think you're right. I really don't treat myself well at all anymore, and I think that might reflect onto how I act to others. I'm really surprised actually - I didn't think anyone would give me an...|||I live in China, and I'm going to have to agree, at least concerning Asians.   And I most definitely mean the strange awesome propeller-fleur-de-lis-bird-thing :D|||Not any other Asians?  Also I love your picture >:D|||For most of my life, I was completely un-self-centered and loving to everyone around me. I was who people came to when they needed help. But recently I've found myself feeling more and more cynical...|||I have... Two requirements, physically, for guys. Taller than me, and big enough that I don't have to worry about squishing them if I sit in their lap. I tend to fall for the down-to-earth nerdy...|||Ohhh, the joy of leaving others devastated and speechless in your wake...|||Yes yes yes!! Now we have to invade the other forums and see if it's just the ENFPs that get this enthusiastic ;)|||Yesss! <3! It's like you just lose yourself, I know the feeling :D I was having a discussion with a friend on what exactly dancing was, and we agreed that when you TRULY dance, you don't move with...|||Alright, thanks! I'll try and remember to look it up :)|||I can definitely relate to that. Even if my music makes me happy, it feels impossible to talk to anyone or REALLY interact if I have headphones in|||I don't know about you guys, but music isn't just music for me. I don't just hear a song and nod my head. If I have my headphones in, a bus ride can be a horrible cage, then 3 minutes later switch to...|||That's beautiful, wow! Could you tell me a bit more about Dave Matthews Band? I hear a lot of good things about them, but don't know much.|||Popping in a bit late, but here I am, and I'd like to say: Paradox's accusation of my mistyping myself rather unsettled me, and I felt kind of out of place and stupid after that, so I left and did a...|||I hear that ALL THE FREAKIN' TIME!!!!|||Maybe I'm a bit late on this comment, but I thought Christchurch was a strange religious sect, particularly one making fun of others... xD|||Hehehe thanks!!!|||I accidentally found a species of leaf (it was a butterfly garden) that it was attracted to and held it places (it would crawl from the leaf to my skin) and took pictures with my phone REALLY fast,...|||Suggestion I was referring to^  Honestly your needless harshness is making me want to run away, so I'm gonna do that. Byebye|||You suggest a lot of things. I suggest you keep your suggestions to yourself. But you won't listen to that, will you? Neither of us will listen to each other, I suggest we quit suggesting. We're...|||We being ENFP's, I was asking Don't ENFPs live in the moment? I see now that they don't - I did some research. Ok, you're right and I'm wrong, would you like us to feed you some more ego?  I have...|||Yeah I wasn't sure how to respond because I realized I'm not even sure what living in the moment is.|||Meh, I don't really feel the need to prove who I am. I already know I'm an ENFP. I knew a lot more about this all a few months ago when I was studying it all the time, but it's been a while.   Must...|||Y'know, I know a lot of homeless people, but they work at Renaissance Faires and it's voluntary xD   I get your point though. Yeah, it's messed up what some people will do.|||(Sorry I replied to so many threads you were in, weird coincidence)  No need to be sarcastic just because someone knows a little less than you.|||Well I'm sure if there's a problem a mod will notify me :)|||What events (large or small) in your life have caused you to reevaluate things? Gain a new perspective?   I moved to Shanghai China a week ago, and I can successfully say that I no longer find many...|||ENFP girl here, you'll find me on my PS2...|||I thought we lived in the moment O.o (On that note, I wouldn't change anything. I'd spend the rest of my life worrying that I shouldn't changed something else!)|||Thanks MuChApArAdOx, but this is a different question that that thread gave me. I specifically want to know the difference between people's fitting in in JH and HS. I pretty much the town...|||There is a pleasure in the pathless woods; There is a rapture on the lonely shore; There is society, where none intrudes, By the deep sea, and music in its roar: I love not man the less, but...|||I got this idea from marchhare in here :)  Ok so compared to each other, how popular were you in Junior High versus High School? What changed?|||Just enough above the bottom to raise an eyebrow at the 6th graders.|||My friends and I had a party on Guy Fawkes day this year, burned a paper Parliament, watched V for Vendetta, and the host read an epic speech about ideals and such on the theme of the movie. (We also...|||wat r u guyz takin about? i tipe jus fine      Oh goodness your words make me happy :3|||If I'm working or at school, I need... At LEAST a day. If I spend every Sunday for a few weeks doing something with someone it doesn't bother me. But if I have every Sunday scheduled with the same...|||I text to fulfill social obligations that otherwise would have to be filled by making actual contact with people that BUG THE CRAP OUT OF ME.  I tend to be an introvert hermit when it comes to...|||INTPs are great for video game discussions - all the ones I've met are huge nerds and love to debate :D  My two best friends are INFJs, and they are absolutely wonderful. Always willing to listen,...|||I honestly can't remember. Compliments have a hard time reaching me - I can be extremely down on myself. If I get a compliment, it doesn't make me happy really because I already believe I SHOULD be...|||Late night lack of judgement made me post this. Now I thought better of it and it's gone :) If a mod comes by, please delete this thread. Thanks!|||I'm too lazy to go through and answer the questions, but let me tell you... Learning about my dominant function, Ne, made a huge difference in my life. When people tell me something, I always want to...'