'Have y'all given people the impression you where crazy, have you been called crazy?  Allow me to elaborate.  Let say you get emotionally overwhelmed to where you lash out or get all weird on...|||Atlanta Ga.|||Personally,  I do avoid conflict for the most part. But there's a thing called a breaking point where all that is pushed aside. I can tolerate a lot of things but don't step on my toes.   People...|||I feel the same. I will admit that even though I am independent I do need some direction. At the same time I love to try out my own ideas and if I feel like I don't have that freedom I will not be to...|||Good question.  Still trying to wrap my mind around it. I take it as not letting things affect you. Accept it for what it is and forget about it.  Lately I have been practicing being in the...|||I just got done commenting on a post and it made me wonder what the world would be like if we where more common. Like ESFP's for example.  With us being emotional and empathetic I think the world...|||Well, like many INFJ's I always knew I was different. Misunderstood and all that good stuff. When I learned about the term INFJ I was like well that makes a lot of sense. Bare in mind that lately I...|||I try not to hate anything. Or at least not use that word. But I dislike that there is no fairness and justice in the world. Also the more loving and nice you are the more cards are stacked against...|||Well I guess all in favor of it being an INFJ thing to obsess and only being able to focus on one thing. The way I say we can either try to come up with a method to balance things out or find a way...|||Slightly off topic but last time I checked I was evenly 2, 4, and 9. Is this even possible?  Need to take it again.  But yea, I'm pretty sensative myself... wish I was less..|||Is having a one track mind a INFJ thing or something else?  I'm getting annoyed over obsessing over one thing at a time and neglecting other important things on my life.  How do you guys keep...|||I'm tired of having a one track mind and being able to only focus on one thing at the time. Either I obsess over work and be miserable cause I'm not doing anything else, or focus on myself and start...|||This was interesting.  11Quality Time 8Words of Affirmation 7Physical Touch 3Acts of Service 1Receiving Gifts|||I completely agree.  I go out my way to please and keep my woman happy and cheating is the most disrespectful thing you can do. By cheating basically what you told me is I, or what I sacrificed...|||The answer is simple. I don't deal with it. Door slam. I look at it like this. I'm a guy. If I can not cheat, why can't a woman. No tolerance for it what so ever. To me, sex is the most intimate and...|||I can relate to this. Being obsessed with one thing and spend days, weeks, even months focused in that one thing. Like right now my focus is to learn more, and better myself. I read countless...|||I don't know about everyone else but my personality type is pretty accurate.  I looked deeply into it and it described how my brain works. There has to be some truth to it. But I treat this kike I do...|||Talking to this girl (ESFP) everthing is great but she can be to spontaneous with things I don't like and its getting annoying. Sometimes shes to much for me.|||Lately I have been trying to get involved in different things. Stuff I always wanted to do. One of them is taking martial art classes.  I'm going to this Tae Kwon Do dojo today. Hopefully I will find...|||Thank you for your responses.  To add on.  In the act of sex I'm more concerned with with pleaser my partner than anything else. I would pay attentions to hits that she is enjoying herself and if...|||Thank you for your feedback everyone.  I can be quite obsessive also and an extremist.  Aside from smoking, If I really want something I get emotionally tied to it and have this laser like focus...|||I have a strong will but I haven't found a good enough reason for myself to quit smoking. Its both a mental and physical addiction.|||I can only speak for myself but, yes I do.  People that perceive me as naive don't understand my reason. It's not that I don't see what they see, in actuality I see more and whats bellow the...|||I'm at work and soooo sleepy. I want to go home :(|||Is there a particular way INFJ's could get over additions?   Personally,  I'm addicted to cigarettes and can chain smoke at times. I'd like to quit but I feel like I have an addictive personality...|||When....  You can sit out side for extended periods of time and have a blast inside your head while some other types might loose their minds cause they are not physically doing anything.|||Ok this a bit of a naughty thread but how do you approach sex? In other words are you in your head or in the moment?   As for me I'm more so in my head and paying attention to details since I'm a...|||Hi my beloved ENFJ's!  I have a brother who's an ENFJ and we have a great relationship.  I was wondering in what ways do you guys think ENFJ's and INFJ's could benefit from each others strengths...|||I have noticed a quite interesting phenomenon happen at times. I would get these random, what I like to call extrovert outbursts and not in a bad way. It feels like My Se function takes charge and...|||ENFJ's are cool, my brother is one and we have a great relationship. We are the closest to understanding each other. Just want to pt that out there.  But how does one differentiate between a...|||Thank you for the nice words of encouragement! :)  Not giving up. I don't think its in the INFJ to do so.  Stay awesome!|||I think if an INFJ gets beat up by the world enough, and get sucked deep into the abyss they can grow to resent humanity. I know this is a bit extreme but I believe this what happened in Hitlers...|||I have read some stuff about INFJ's and self esteem and I noticed some similarities.   Low self esteem could make you into a people pleaser, wanting constant reinsurance, and to be accepted instead...|||Are you feeling down on your luck? Misunderstood? The world is against you? We all feel or felt like this at one point or another.  This song touched my soul and even made me shed a tear. lol  ...|||Attentions INFJ's  This song will touch your soul. :)   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEClCAFjYHg|||Yup.. I know what you mean.  The thing is, it takes time and practice to master just one of these. But if you like me you want to do it all!  It feels like a curse at times. Passionate about so...|||When.....  You are asked a very simple yes or no question and you give a very long, complex, emotionally and morally driven 30 minute long answer.  Sorry no examples for now. Feel free to add one...|||Thanks!  Yea with me, I feel like I'm running out of time. Not only that but (I'm sure you can relate to this) the vision I have is so great and awesome that it would be a crime to deprive the...|||I know what you mean.  At times i feel like a contradiction and it can get confusing. I think It's cause of the ability to be a chameleon and adapt to situations, and even mimic people. I think we...|||Hmm...  I think this explains how I feel at times. For the longest I didn't know what was going on and wished I could just master and harness the feelings I get from that moment.  I wonder if...|||Hmmm..  You show more empathy towards your parents than I do. Even though I feel bad for them(trying not to) I will admit my feeling of resent towards them is stronger. Logically I'm not trying to...|||Are you asking why/how we grew to become INFJ's or what makes us INFJ's?  I don't know how personality types are developed just yet so I can't answer that but i can answer what makes me an INFJ. ...|||My story is similar to yours.  My mom is suffering from depression, skitzo effective, and bi polar disorder. Personally I think she has been misdiagnosed and is a Paranoid Schizophrenic with OCD...|||Hi,  I'm sure that the test wasn't accurate when it mentioned how developed my functions where. Wish it was so that way I would know. I need to get more familiar with everything and get a better...|||Thank you for your replies and contributions everyone!  It's much appreciated.  As many INFJ's, I always considered myself a old soul I have events that occurred and still occur to support...|||My biggest thing that would trouble me is I just don't want to die a nobody. My fear is dieing without figuring out, and fulfilling my purpose in life.  Let say I'm 80 on my death bed and looking...|||Religion tends to be tied to a particular culture to where it simply turns into a way of life. People within that culture aren't exposed to another, so they only are able to see from their own...|||I'm about to turn 27 and I have realized I have a long way to go before I fully get rid of my past baggage and flourish into the higher self I have always envisioned.  To elaborate on my question,...|||For me, if a friend or relative is feeling intense emotions I tend to get anxiety and also start to feel what they are feeling. It mixes with my emotions to the point that I can't even identify what...|||I love it when women find my native tongue attractive(Serbo- Croatian). Unfortunately not many do that I came across. I personally like Japanese and other Asian languages. Probably cause it sounds so...'