'People always comment on my walk, weirdly. I don't really notice other peoples' walks.. They must use Se more than I do (is that Se? Whatever the noticing details thing is)  I've had a couple...|||The word 'bubbly' always makes me cringe. Not that there's anything wrong with it, it just usually seems to imply shallow. Bubbles are empty. I was actually extremely shy and kept to myself when I...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X9t2M8-GBlQ|||Watching Ricky Gervais in interviews, he really seems like an f. hyper sensitive to what other people think, offending people, etc.|||wow! that's nuts. you really do put yourself out there, ha! i think i'm a 3w2. good question.. either a superhero movie or a scary one ;) or a comedy.|||Haha nice! I'm sure you're very fun :)   Yeah she really does remind me a lot of myself. i think she's more likely to want to 'experience' things, as you were describing, more than me. I don't...|||Interesting! :)   I took it and it says I'm a 3w2.. I do get a lot of Jennifer Lawrence comparisons though haha|||Hmm. I feel pretty successful career wise! Do you mean mega successful (i.e. famous, rich, etc.)? Personally I have big dreams and get very excited about them, but they morph. Let's say at one point...|||ha i do that story thing all the time..   i like smart humor, situational, mocking weird people (like in seinfeld or arrested development).. i'll take anything really. a lot of stuff out there is...|||Hey thanks! You guys are sweet :) I always walk away from the ENFJ forum feeling like I got a big hug ha.   Richard Pryor's awesome! I feel like we have a great representation in comedy. To answer...|||i do web/graphic design and stand up comedy|||i've gotten a lot better about being direct. i used to lead people on by accident, but i did feel horrible about it.   I wanted to make them feel like the most special person in the world. but at...|||LDS (mormon)|||i don't think i'll ever question my ENFJness again after reading this thread..|||I can feel someone really right for me out there somewhere (is my idealism showing?), but I haven't met him yet. I know when I do, I'll give everything to him, easily. But right now, it's very hard...|||If you find yourself analyzing a passing comment by someone you barely care about for the rest of the day.|||ha all of those are me too.  the first one! some people actually take to it alright, i'm guessing fellow N's. i'm counting on them seeing the randomness as charming.  this throws me off when people...|||i hate getting slammed with random bouts of depression. i'm usually hopeful and excited about the future but when this happens it feels like there's a wall right in front of me and i feel unmotivated...|||there's an interesting argument for Frank from House of Cards being an ENFJ http://personalitycafe.com/entp-forum-visionaries/148482-house-cards-personality-types.html  i didn't see it at first,...|||really? i'm blushing|||i was drawn to ESTP's aloofness. he was a big man on campus jock type. they're a challenge because they seem so in the moment and hard to pin down, like a butterfly. i felt emotionally unsatisfied...|||ugh thank you. you're not alone|||i'm a little too sarcastic and pretty dang deadpan. but like others mentioned i use it to bond with people. like i like you and we're close enough that i feel i can tease you.   but you're right,...|||If you want to give it another try, here are my tips; - Establish a friendship with them first so they can gain your trust and emotionally adjust - Get in contact with a observation or comment...|||it is my least favorite thing getting misjudged.   my least least least favorite stereotype is that we're not serious, not deep, or not smart. I feel like we're opposite of the three! drives me...|||i swear we're the same person, every post you write makes it weirder|||well i just broke up with my boyfriend. when he first came over to explain himself i was super understanding and nice.   later the next day i'm walking home and start to feel all of the emotions...|||-like above said, pretty easy to feel grateful generally -empathy, being able to see how someone else is thinking or feeling -knowing what to say and watching people start to feel better -knowing...|||good to know! :)|||yes!  on another note i don't like that i can't 'be in the moment.' i never really enjoy the present, most of my excitement and happiness comes from the anticipation of the future. which means i...|||uh Kelly is definitely not a T! haha|||you know when someone's telling a made up story and they can't come up with a random name on the spot.. i never understood that. Lying and improv comes pretty easy to me. i'm guessing that's an enfj...|||i just saw braveheart again and the film depiction of william wallace seems enfj to me|||i know you posted this forever ago, but that's funny, people compare me to her too!  ha i always relate to your posts|||when you're watching a movie:   you're usually pretty good at predicting the ending, even twists. you pick up every scrap of symbolism and foreshadowing sometimes i focus less on the movie and...|||we're pretty good flirts if you ask me! except when i find someone i have a big crush on. my social skills go out the window and i start saying stupid stupid.. stupid. things.  but yeah it is hard...|||yes! :)|||when i get depressed i turn into a weird inversion of myself. i get drawn to dark music and books and ideas. i also crave attention but without asking for it, if that makes any sense.   i hear, and...|||i totally agree with what everyone says about 'not wanting to be pulled out.' it's weird. when i'm depressed everything seems hopeless and pointless and i just want to stay in my little hole and...|||i've always thought of her as an enfj! love her  speaking of sassy and charming, 87093|||hahahah what the heck! talk about snippets of my soul.|||when you have a raging love for to do lists.  when you have to keep your explosive happiness and extensive complimenting on a leash for fear of being seen as disingenuous.  this only happens to me...|||ENFP mom + ISTJ dad= ENFJ me? :)   i wonder how much is nature vs. nurture.|||my mom's an enfp. so you might be an enfp mom is your daughter's friends all rave about how ridiculously adorable and cool you are.   you might be an enfp if you're at the wheel when your middle...|||this is how i feel! i think about myself in terms of how other people see me. it's so hard to see myself from the inside out. it makes it worse that i'm a type 3. which makes me all the more inclined...|||i don't put much weight (ha) in bmi either. at 5'6 my weight's on the higher end of average, but my measurements tell me i'm doing okay.  i like this thread actually! some justice to the curvy girls...|||some guys like to cast me as some kind of enigmatic seductive creature. they always say they can't read me, which is funny because i'm not that hard to figure out. show me you like me for me, and not...|||ENFJ 3w2. any others out there?|||hahahaha i think this all the time|||amen!'