Oh, hell no!|||I'm really sorry to hear that you're hurting so much and that you've been having such a rough time with loneliness and the like.  I do agree 100% with InTheRockies, though.  My Christian advice...|||I'm guilty of whipping my phone out in public in an attempt to make myself look busy.  I seem to attract random strangers who want to tell me all sorts of things I don't want, or need, to know.  I...|||I agree with Blindfolded Miles and I like what you wrote, it was clear and non-accusatory. Personally, I like emails and texts because it gives me the opportunity to process and then clearly respond...|||I don't have issues with people setting boundaries. My concern is why they're setting a certain boundary.  When I care about someone I want to take care of them the way they want to be taken care of...|||Yes, I had noticed.  I never looked too closely into it though, so thanks for posting :happy:|||Jeremy8419 and InTheRockies  The way I understand it, there's HSP and there's Sensory Processing Sensitivity (SPS).  They're not exactly the same thing - one is the natural extension of the other....|||Great insight, great advice.  Double thumbs up - if I had a third thumb I'd throw that one up too!|||They always are :dry:|||I'm exactly the same.  It's hard to explain what it is or how it works, but the 'unspoken' relationship is so fulfilling. I feel like the people who have managed to engage me on that level are the...|||Yay! :happy:|||First, I'm sorry.  I really wish you didn't have all that going on :sad:  Second, I don't think you just get over childhood things - at least that's my experience.  It's like, whenever someone...|||Oh my gosh, that is so horrible!  I has tears :crying:  People can be so cruel sometimes it can be hard to fathom.  I'm so sorry all this happened to you xx|||This is me to a T.  I feel like I flip between to two depending on... something... haven't determined what said 'something' is...  I'm not sure if I'm predominantly one or the other.  I really feel...|||I'm like this.  There are a few people I know that are (at least from my point of view) inconsiderate of their impact on others and I always feel like I'm coming up behind them, smoothing over the...|||Most of the above - also, when I'm in a romantic relationship I blush A LOT.  He doesn't have to do anything or say anything.  He just has to stand there and my whole body will blush :blushed:  It's...|||Wow, everyone here has pretty much said everything that I have to say for myself.  I'll add that I'm always striving for the ideal.  I have a very strong and very fixed vision of how things should...|||It would seem blushing is contagious...  Do you think if we were all standing in a circle the pink would just go round and round like some kind of Mexican Blush-Wave?|||Stop, you make me blush...  :tongue:|||This is me all smiles... Hoping it won't come out humongous - I don't know how to shrink it :unsure:   290346|||This post is fantastic!|||My ISFJ friend is a real commandant for being on time - for everything!  If we're going to a casual social occasion like a party or a barbeque and I show up so much as 10 minutes after my specified...|||I wouldn't mind trying an ENTP on for size :wink:|||'You would do that'  'That sh*t only happens to you'  'You're too nice/trusting/naive'  'This one's a real sweetie'  'You're too judgemental, you need to learn to compromise'|||Yes, I get this frequently.  I also watch people's mouths when they talk.  I find if I look people in the eyes for too long my mind loses track of what they are saying, but if I look away I appear...|||This is my thinking exactly.  Also, I want to be loved and taken for who I am - not being myself would be counterproductive.    I second that.  I never try to attract men, I've always felt like...|||1. Blood transfusion. Save the patient or respect the families religious beliefs and effectively let her die?  Save patient.  2. The resume. Hope for the best OR destroy your competitor's resume....|||Haha!  I read all 34 pages of this thread and laughed my ass off the entire way through.  There's nothing like a good, heavy dose of bat-shit crazy to top off your Sunday afternoon.  Please, don't...|||I bet you're not :)  I've realised many of the people who do not appreciate me the way I wish they would simply don't value those things that I bring to a relationship.  It's not that they're selfish...|||I'm with you on this.  I haven't looked too closely at the whole 'Ideal Match' thing so I might be so grossly ill-informed that my thinking on this is completely irrelevant, but I don't see how you...|||Thank you for your input :happy:  I do know a lady who shares your views.  She'll attend the funeral of someone she's never met in order to support someone she knows even if they didn't expressly...|||Honestly, these people make me feel like I'm working in the Twilight Zone.|||Haha!  Great thread!  When charities call my phone and ask me if it's a good time to talk I politely tell them 'No, I'm sorry.  It's not a good time right now, but if you call me back at...|||Hi All!  I was trying real hard not to write a novel... as you can see, I failed!  I would love it if you would read the whole thing, but if you just can't bring yourself to do it I bolded the...|||Awww... That gave me the fuzzies...|||So that's why I can't stand half the people I come across?!...  Tonight, I sleep!  You, sir, are my hero.    I wanted to say something intelligent, but yea... it's not happening...  So I'm just...|||John 10:  4 And when he putteth forth his own sheep, he goeth before them, and the sheep follow him: for they know his voice.  5 And a stranger will they not follow, but will flee from him: for...|||This, actually, would be my ideal.|||Yes, absolutely.|||Yeeshburgers... I think I'm far too tired for this level of soul-searching, but I'll take a crack at it anyway...  I voted 'Someone who is more emotionally oriented, caring and compassionate'. ...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s2L7bARuMOY|||Merry Christmas and a happy New Year everyone xx  And Happy Birthday and Best Wishes to aHumanRenaisance!|||I agree.  It's all about perception which will always be vulnerable to inaccuracy for a variety of reasons.  In my experience, under-valuing Ni is unhealthy.  But I think the same thing can be said...|||This is very interesting - thanks Winegums!|||I couldn't agree more.  Thanks for your input :happy:|||Thanks for this, Stavrogin :happy:  I definitely agree that it's always there - at least that's been my experience.  But I got it in my head that my Ni saw things differently from other people and...|||Whoops, my bad.  Doesn't meme what I was thinking it memes lol  Never mind, carry on...|||Maybe this is why you find it so difficult to find a woman on your level.|||Maybe it's just me, but I think that's pretty clear...  She's telling you to keep doing what you're doing and don't worry about making her uncomfortable because she'll let you know if you do. ...|||:sad: