'This is what I was thinking.... people in relationships actually have more sex than single people. Seems these so-called betas are far and away the winners.... The thread title was clearly...|||I take it to mean they saw my post and probably actually like it to a degree. I don't have people who like everything I post, so I don't think most of them like stuff just to be polite.  I don't...|||My mom - iSFJ 6w7, probably sp/so -Both loyal to those we care about deeply, but I'm less interested in people. -Both adhere pretty firmly to what we believe in and will make personal sacrifices...|||Seems like a people pleaser and rather gabby. Seems extroverted in the books too, although I admit I never read them much and it was many years ago.  Being dreamy and idealistic doesn't equal INFP to...|||Book character doesn't seem INFP either.|||It's a matter of their image not built to socially impress or at least, not most people. Their image is typically one of someone who is outcast, a loner, misunderstood, rejected by the masses who...|||I get frustrated with these common tendencies in Fe mentality:  Not owning their own feelings but needing to frame them as something objectively right. Making their desires and needs into some...|||Making calls was harder for me than accepting them, but I used to really be scared of the phone. I'd have to work up courage to make phone calls, preparing myself mentally and emotionally. I think...|||I just want your extra time and your....mwah...mwah....mwah...mwah.....mwah....KISS!  Quality time and physical affection are my top two. Acts of service is third.   Words don't mean a lot. I...|||And rocking it with some red pants to boot :D|||Aw thanks. Very sweet. I particularly appreciate how you weren't remotely patronizing. No patting on the head like we're bunnies. :tongue:|||I think ISFP as well.|||Well I've eaten chapulines - grasshoppers from Mexico. They were roasted with chili or lemon. You can just snack on them alone or put them in a salad or quesadilla. They taste like sunflower seeds in...|||Watched about half the season. Moves slowly and is already cancelled, but it was pretty interesting in some ways. I thought the main character Jean (played by Naomi Watts) is a very clear example of...|||This sounds so much like me I almost question my core type...|||Hm, I got different results this time. I usually get INFP for both actual and preferred type.  And no, ENFJs are NOT my attraction type :rolleyes:  Actualized type: INTP (who you are)   ...|||I fear getting overwhelmed with strong emotions and it can keep me from doing stuff, but it's more often related to people and social situations.   I agree with others saying that sometimes it's a...|||I voted Fe because I clash with FJs the most in recent years.   I do clash with TJs sometimes and Te is a close second. Nonetheless, I find I can express myself more openly unless their inferior Fi...|||Because?  In the enneagram the passion of the 2 is pride. It's part of the trait structure that Naranjo asrcibes to the two.|||So do I :cool:|||https://i.imgbox.com/LWQlM41J.jpg  https://i.imgbox.com/B7rygEKK.jpg|||Is that a pick up line?|||Well, people, not just men, will generally notice attractive people. Women may be subtler about it.  However I have read studies about pair bonding and a sign for men is that they instinctively...|||I can very much relate to this, but I don't feel guilt according to other people's perceptions.  I will actually feel ANGER if someone tries to guilt or shame me and I feel I've done my best to...|||cafe latte  cinnamon bun  iced coffee a cake pop  baked chicken carrots mashed potatoes  perrier|||I have the opposite experience. I tend to be the dominant personality when I interact with an ISFJ.  I can't really say much with such few details, but my guess is simply that the INFP feels...|||Plausible but more likely ENFJ. ENFJs mistype as introverts a lot, I notice.  The most mistypings among INFJs are ISFJs and ENFJs. 2s are so closely associated with extroversion that it's likely the...|||M(63%) O(73%) H(90%) W(77%) D(57%) E(63%)  Primary type - haphazard   Im an aesthete, what can I say. I took it twice and scored vital before, which may be more accurate. I'm not so...|||If she is very unhealthy, it's possibly the shadow ESTJ side. Honestly though, this isn't usually how INFPs go bad.  Not ever struggling with self esteem is....totally unusual for even the most...|||We recently had a thread that touched on this in the INFP forum.... Soulfully gives a wonderful description below of how the INFP idealizing of a romantic partner probably pans out. I'm just quoting...|||Yes this is why they hate me, haha. But I have noticed that their passive aggressive fallouts only affect me if I care.  And their hurt feelings face is just guilt tripping to push you back in line....|||Just be honest. What would you advise a friend?  This is what I would say, I don't really want to go. But you guys have fun. That's it. Your response about not doing a dinner is fine. If you...|||I definitely second The Body Keeps the Score.  These may not be totally relevant, as they are not about abuse, but I liked them because they weren't gimmicky, didn't reduce people to stereotypes,...|||I can do that for about a weekend when I have travelled with my ENFP friend, who is like a second mom to me. Because the only person more disorganized and flakier than me is probably an ENFP. Yes, I...|||Iced coffee with milk  grilled pork wrap with rice, onions, lettuce and bell pepper from a Greek cafe  2 bowls of salad (leafy greens, bell peppers, carrots, broccoli, balsamic dressing) 4...|||Cafe latte  Pork in New Mexico style red chile with whole beans and a flour tortilla  A mandarin orange  in n out cheeseburger and fries  a bowl of cherries|||Half an onion bagel with about 1 tbsp cream cheese  Coffee with a splash of half n half  New Mexico style chili verde with chicken and veggies   watermelon chunks  an orange cinnamon bun ...|||1. INTP - how I often test, very borderline T/F 2. INFJ - I don't really relate to them as real people, but many of the descriptions suit me just as well as the INxP ones. I even think some INFP...|||What about the INFP 5s? I suspect 5 is as common if not more than 6 for INFPs...  I like your 9 write-up. I think some 9s mistype as 4 because their type is not given the complexity and depth of...|||Born the end of 83. I have memories starting in 1986 or so. I hardly remember a full year more than a few years ago... stuff feels very hazy.I have to really stop and think about what happened when....|||Maybe I'm getting old, but it all seems the same since about 2005.  I agree with those saying that early 90s and late 90s were very different, but the past 15 years or so have felt very stagnant...|||I basically consider Ti a mentality that focuses on forming and refining a technical construct of how things work or what they are. For ISTPs, this tends to be more about literal mechanical systems...|||iSfP Hard to tell if T or F preference since Fi doesn't look like most people's concept of feeling much of the time. Sounds like more of the ISFP in the background style than chart the course style...|||Dante Scioli I agree that my description sounds like an ENFJ and that's even what I get on those ideal partner type quizzes, but in reality..... NOPE.  I have an ENFJ e2w3 pursuing me right now and...|||Lord Pixel based on that first paragraph - go get yourself an ISTJ lady! :wink:    I'm a little worried now.... :unsure:|||Yes, I do prayer and meditation everyday. I do spontaneous praying throughout the day, but I also set aside time every night for more deliberate prayer and meditation. I also read scripture (meaning...|||It gave me Cao Dai. Not accurate and very illogical chart. For one, I got to that result by noting I don't believe in an afterlife, and then the answer key says this religion is about rejoining God...|||The essence of the dynamic I want is:    Us against the world kind of loyalty/unity  Bonding at the root  Synchronicity  Collaboration  Creation  Protects my feelings  Mutual Healing|||The some ecards stopped being funny nearly a decade ago, once people started generating them for themselves and it just sounds like complaining and not anything clever or even shock humor.|||Yes, they use the word arrogant. It's in another language, but the best translation is arrogant. I would say he comes across as sure of himself and determined, not superior.     I see the...'