'Some people get turned on more by receiving then they do by giving. It's not evil or cruel, it's just the way some are wired. As long as your aware of it, and you aren't using it to hurt anyone, then...|||I like big butts and I cannot lie.|||I would call him walker5881|||Dear life,  I missed having you. We should keep this up.  Sincerely,  Me.|||I remember the first time someone called me intimidating. It threw me for a loop. I had never seen myself that way as a kid. I was shy and afraid of everything it seemed. Now I was being told that...|||I'm really happy to hear about your situation and where you've come Veggie. My ESTJ was incredibly damaging and hurtful to me, but the relationship helped change me for the better in the end. The...|||I have a friend who does this every two weeks or so. Then she talks, non-stop, for as long as I allow her to. I usually cut her off after 45 minutes or so.  I think some people feel they need to...|||Well giving off such a vibe should get me more cuddles. I'm not getting any so maybe I'm doing it wrong!|||I've been told this for as long as I can remember. I heard it again pretty recently from a friend of mine. She called me cute and handsome. I was just sitting there watching TV and I wasn't even...|||Hahaha. It was funny but I would get annoyed by that. I think you've given me the perfect reason to never visit England. Or if I do, to not speak to any of the English for fear that the conversation...|||I answer the phone for a living. It's pretty informal, but there are still some protocols that must be adhered to. For instance, a standard greeting and closing.  One thing that can really annoy me...|||Dear universe,  I already have enough issues with life. Please stop conspiring against me.  Sincerely,  A paranoid INFJ|||@__JeSsIcA__ For me, being rejected is like tearing out my soul and putting it through a meat grinder. This is because the build up I have to go through to get to a point where I'm exposed is...|||As an INFJ type 6, he sounds like a seriously unhealthy me. It's not you, he has insecurities he needs to settle before he can treat himself correctly and after that, he can worry about treating...|||To take a deep breath and let this develop instead of analyzing every little step.|||Dear me,  Relax. She likes you.  Sincerely,  Me.|||I've done this. I've even done it maliciously. But most everyone who I struck with this weapon absolutely deserved it. I have done it very rarely and always with cause. It can be absolutely...|||Being assertive was something I had to develop and it wasn't easy. It's much more natural for me to withdraw and pull away.|||Veggie said a lot that I wanted to say. I did some cheating when I was a lot younger (High School and up to about 22 or so) because of insecurities in myself and a lack of harmony I felt in the...|||Okay, okay. I'll just play with your kitty (no dirty) and not your INFJ.|||I'm glad you keep your kitty clean and I'm sure I will enjoy petting her! Can I pet your pet INFJ, too? He looks cuddly!|||I love cats, don't really enjoy coffee. Tea is nice though. Earl Grey with a bit of milk and lemon is glorious.|||Understanding.|||This is key for me and you said it brilliantly (like usual). When I realize that the loss of them from my life would be considerably painful, and when I know that their presence in my life is utterly...|||I can be very assertive and aggressive at times, but I don't see it as a negative thing. You seem to be describing someone who is insensitive, not necessarily someone who is aggressive.  I will...|||I love to play golf. It's like the ultimate introvert sport. Just me versus the course and the elements.|||I completely relate. I think it happens a lot because I'm usually buried inside myself categorizing thoughts. When my Fe is on, though, it's the exact opposite.|||Well, I do see what you're saying, but if I'm with a submissive girl, then pleasing me is what pleases her most, so both are satisfied. Although I do love going down on women. It's a really fun way...|||I tend to get more creative as the night wears on. A lot of my music writing happens as I'm lying in bed waiting for sleep to come and a melody pops into my brain. Then I have to get up and record it...|||I passed my test at 16 on my sixth try. Yes, sixth.|||Manly man hugs are among my favorite.|||Yes!!!!|||It's funny, I just dropped a girl for doing the same to me. I told her early on that I don't like mind games or playing around. If you like me, that's cool. If you don't like me, that's cool too, but...|||Meeting pixie85 and walker5881 and doing something totally awesome.|||I wish I could tell you that as I've gotten older (I'm 32) that I've found a way to moderate this attachment mechanism. That I can regulate it and only do it in a healthy, balanced manner.  But, I...|||My purpose has always been helping others. I feel a deep seated need to do so. I want to be there for them and to help them through things. I feel sometimes like I'm inserted into people's lives...|||I think it makes perfect sense. I pull back when I feel myself drained, too. It's a natural defense mechanism for me.  Sometimes, for me, it's important to tell myself, It's okay that others needs...|||Sometimes people like me with a strong intuition and a heavy feeling element to our personalities can seem almost otherworldly to those who are logical thinkers. You need facts to come to...|||Well, I added you as a friend, so you have made a new friend! Congrats!  Edit: Oops, forgot the rest.  Making friends is pretty easy for me if I just turn my intuition on and let it listen to...|||You said a lot here I want to comment on, but I'll start first with the bolded part.  For me, sometimes I have to worry about my needs and desires before everyone else's. It's okay for me to want...|||This has happened to me on several occasions. I'm a nice, sensitive, sweet guy, but sexually, I am extremely dominant. With the right partner, I can be very aggressive and have done lots of fun...|||*hugs* I could try complimenting your boobs or something. Don't girls like boob compliments?|||If a huge erection isn't a sign of love, then I don't know what is.  Dear boss,  Twice today you have made really stupid suggestions, both of which I have rebuffed with great arguments. You have...|||Sounds kinky!  I definitely do this. The truth is, I'm a happier person when the people around me are happier. It feeds something within me so I will always do it. It's an essential part of me. ...|||I was with a friend over the weekend and she looked at me dead on and said, You are so cute. Seriously, you are totally handsome and sweet.  :happy:|||I do it at least once a day. I have an extremely high sex drive, and if I don't orgasm regularly, I get really, really horny. Like can't even think straight horny.  I heard it described as Getting...|||Sometimes my job puts completely fucked up situations in my lap with little or no way to help the people who call. Obviously I can't comment on the specifics here, but it involves a homeless child...|||Just give him some time, but make sure you continue to show your interest for him. Be very soft about it. A text or two a day, nothing pushy. He obviously likes you, he's just unsure with himself.|||Because what if someday a patient walks in and says:  Well, doc, my gf is always making me feel like my tectum and tegmentum ratios aren't good enough for her. Like I should have more tectum and...|||Dear you,  I haven't seen your face or heard your voice in over 5 years, but you were in my dreams. There, I held you in my arms, and you craned your neck back to look into my eyes. Then you...'