'I am an INTJ and I have always wondered what real ENTJs think of us. Having been lucky enough to find an ENTJ, I soon understood I enjoy talking to her. She is one of the few people I know whom I...|||My only friend in real life once told me that I am, as a person, cruel and that she is afraid of me. She says she hates me correcting her mistakes every time. She tells me I shouldn't act as if I...|||0bl1gatory Catwalk HeadofHudet Yes, common sense does exist in the way it is defined. But my question was whether it exists in the way it is used today. I prefer to use the term common knowledge...|||It is always interesting to hear other people's dreams. I also want to know how the various scenes were in detail.|||I think it does not exist, mostly because it is not really common.|||I know how you might be feeling. I too do not value things that people normally value in life. Many say that I am weird because of that. Some even go to the extent to saying that I am mad. I value my...|||Welcome to PerC.  I am an INTJ too, and I don't have many friends yet. By friends I mean people to talk to. I am most of the time lonely. I liked your introduction however. It bothers me a bit that...|||Morn Green Girl Paradox07  Taking into consideration the descriptions of Ni and Ne that I have read, I came to the conclusion that I am a Ni user. I do not use Ne, and even at that time I did not...|||Morn  Let's not discuss my personality here. That is not what the thread is about. Green Girl, I might just be using my shadow function.|||Tkae  I find studies easy, but I have a lot of trouble in learning regional languages. I have to spend most of my time studying something that isn't worth my time. (This too is a defense. So is it...|||I cannot even go out and interact with people. In real life I have no friends. I have no wish to interact with people in the real world.|||Thank you for your advice. It helped me a lot. Going to a college is better because that would, as you said, be a wonderful experience.|||Don't mind me say this but my physical age cannot really tell how mature I am. You might probably say that I am an arrogant INTJ who is like that because he always is first in class. You are right,...|||I asked them to give me a chance to prove myself and they agreed to see how I perform till the school reopens. Our vacations are going on right now. But now they have created an idiotic concept of...|||I am in 8th grade and will be going to 9th grade soon. I do not want to go to school. That is because I think school is useless. Though I go to school, I do not learn anything there. I can understand...|||Objectophilia. But what I feel towards my house is not objectophilia.|||I wonder what is weird in this though...|||I thought that this is common. I have never considered this as weird. If you think that this is weird, I am actually more weird :smile:|||I am sure I am not an ISTJ. I studied about this a bit and I am sure that I have no Si traits. I believe it might be a Ni trait though because Si users probably won't be able to personify an object...|||Yes, absolutely okay. I like being this way. It is a lot more better than being surrounded by people. I hate being with other people, but on the internet it is alright. I have a lot of other things...|||This term exists in American English too, doesn't it?|||I wonder, who gave this a five star rating? I think that this thread keeps on going off-topic... But I appreciate everyone who replied.|||Vunar  When I said that, I meant if he would be a real person he could be able to speak. Not just a wall or something like that, nor just an imaginary friend, but a real breathing person. I do...|||Meltedsorbet  I had a similar experience with my house. I live near the sea coast. There are a lot of winds here lol As a child, I had to live here till the age of 12 because of some family...|||I read it a month ago. It was enjoyable, but I don't think that it describes us so well. As I remember, one or two of them were not like me... I don't believe that all INTJs can be exactly the same....|||I always do that. That is one of the best ways of improving oneself.|||Vunar Green Girl Terra_  I just noticed that I made a mistake in the title. This should have been the title- 'Falling in platonic love with one's own house'; I interchanged two words as you can...|||I have that problem often. I sometimes hope I had friends with the same interests, but I don't think I can socialize that well. Most of the time, I think that they get bored. I hate it... It gets...|||I wonder, is it common? I somehow really like my house, but not sexually. If I ever have to stay at any one of the other houses my family owns, I cannot hold back my tears. My house is a bit old, and...|||They make me feel as if I am not an INTJ. They do not do us justice and paint a image of us that looks not much like us. Ever seen how many people seem to hate us because of that image?|||Yes. I have my future planned, but not in detail. Like what profession to pursue if I am unable to be successful in this one, what if I am not successful in that too, etc. Things like these are...|||I started to talk when I was about 2 years old. Before that I could speak, but only easy to pronounce words and not sentences.|||I'd love to, but I am not sure if I can be of much help either. I have written some poems in what was supposed to be my native language, and so far no one has been able to give me a satisfactory...|||UnicornRainbows  There are possibilities that he is just open to you. An INTJ can be emotionally expressive sometimes, but I am not sure if one can come off as warm. For example, some people say...|||I don't normally give advice to people on my own. They have to ask me or I get confused whether they want help or not.  I don't think it is possible for someone to be oblivious to the fact that I am...|||Got 5.  Not at all like me. MBTI= more accurate  I have never believed in numerology but decided to take this for fun. Now I do not even want to believe in numerology... Seems nothing but a myth.|||Black, red, blue and white. Not white that much but it always adds a sense of purity to a picture in my opinion. Maybe I am wrong... Red and blue add a touch of colour along with their complementary...|||When someone tells me their name, I forget it in just a minute or so. Some try to degrade me by continuously asking me what their name is. I do not even remember the name of my relatives. Sometimes...|||What I meant was unromantic love in general, like the love you feel towards someone of your own family, so I found your reply helpful. But it could also include romantic love...|||For me love was the rain that made the snow in the forest in which I was hiding melt lol But losing it now is not an option. Your earlier post helped me a lot. ''The more we think, the more we...|||I have had the same experience with my dog. I think that they may understand through our body language. FPs just cannot understand us... I once refused to one and she got angry lol   I think that...|||Dabbling  These are the facts. My Fi tries to take control over my decisions, not my Te. Then the Ti steps in and I start to think subjectively. My Ni tells me that it is useless, that I won't be...|||What is it and how to get out of it?  I think that I always get stuck in this loop. I begin to think in a different way. I know that I just need to bring my Te back, but my thinking pattern does...|||I was reading a thread in the INFJ forum where some claimed that emotions like love needs to be nurtured. I did not know that!! It is a new thought to me so I would like to hear what you have to say....|||Hi Abhi and welcome to PerC!  I joined this place just a few weeks ago and so far it has been peaceful and fun. I hope it will be the same for you. The moment I read the topic, I decided to reply....|||Vunar  I did it on purpose to see who will read it and to prevent people from reading it who think it is a waste of time. I just wanted to see if someone is truly interested. I am really sorry if...|||I use Anki since its more flexible. As for remembering kanji, I think reading helps a lot. Grammar is hard to understand though.   It is surprising that you have heard of Laputa. Not many people...|||Thank you :smile:|||I use all the reliable resources I find to study. I use books most of the time. My favorite band is Laputa and I like The Gazette, Matenrou Opera and Scapegoat. Have you heard about Laputa before??...|||I appreciate it that you do not find my posts boring. Maybe they are not that boring...'