Yo, it is quite funny the standards and such. My favorite general was Hannibal Barca, it is said he didn't expect more of his soldiers then he himself would do. He slept with them on the same ground,...|||School sucked balls even now I am friendless. Someday I'll find someone nice. But yeah school is not for us.|||Dear Krentz, . At the moment of writing this message you could say I am very emotionally. I have given these things a lot of thought, and also your post. I decided to have a beer, I drink a bottle...|||I think you can never tell for sure, gotta go with your gut feeling probably. But it's a hit or miss.|||I wish I had the heart of a lion, but I don't think I have either of the two. I have the heart of a shadow, no one will notice except the one that casts the shadow. In other words internal feelings.|||I actually would agree with your defriending friends on facebook for that reason. But this might depend on the generation more, I mean I do not even use my facebook a lot. Assuming they are just a...|||Well my type is being depicted a lot of the time as a sensitive cry baby... So well..|||First off I might not be the best to give advice, if my words are a bit harsh. It's because of a disorder in my head...   But let's looky look at your situation, well school and such. I worried...|||@Reticent Charm   . Thanks a lot for your answer. Which is the problem I don't really think I can make everyone happy but I also think I do not really need ideals. Ideals do nothing for me if they...|||That would be me! Thanks a lot for your kind words, to reply to a post. Look at the post itself and it should say 'Reply with quote.' Does that help you? You can also look for the name and do a...|||If I was able to find someone I love and or trust. For now I prefer to not have sex unless I find such a person and she wants to of course.|||WanderingPoet,  . Thanks a lot for your reply. I am happy you can understand my way of thinking. As for demanding I stopped demanding I just find myself in a hard place. For instance I was on a...|||Thanks both of you! I will try and find a ENFP to talk with as lately I lost my best friend he got himself a girlfriend and forgot about me!   Also if a ENFP wants to talk please hit me up I am...|||Put kids in a world like this? Naah don't do to others what you wouldn't do to yourself. And I don't think I really would have made myself if I had the choice. Thanks mom and dad!|||I am an INFP, I would like to ask would you get along well with an INFP you think? They might make a nice adition to have each other as friends or something. I was thinking about this... Please let...|||I know it's not about that, but ideals are hard to keep... I mean if you have an ideal and you want to keep it, how did you set it why did you set it. Once you realise it's hard to have ideals...|||I have been an INFP years ago and when I retake the test I still am....  The problem is I used to have ideals and think it was important etc. But the older I am getting the more experience I am...|||Oops, Wrong tread. Not sure how this happened sorry.|||So I can read about the typs I narrowed down and skip the others in the books. I will reread them sometime though.|||Hi Boss,  Now I got the Facets and started reading. Right now I'm at the part with the holy ideas, where every type is explained as in what his or her holy idea is if I got that right. The thing...|||I found it funny, it did not make me laugh, but it's funny. Though I somehow feel sorry for the potato.|||Being a INFP does not mean anything at all. We all grew up different, as for me myself I would never go around calling myself intelligent or anything. I always am afraid I ain't competent enough, to...|||Thanks a lot Boss! I will cycle to the library and get a Palmer/RH book on my hands. Should be fine.|||As for saving, I was planning to buy a camera, but meh I will just do that around Christmas then, things can wait. Self knowledge is worth more than shooting pictures!   As for help, I appreciate...|||So now I got the two Maitri books, the Character and Neurosis and Enneatype Structures and Almaas's Facets of Unity. Also from the library I will get some basic books, like the ones that got adviced...|||It's hard to search for a soul, but I know exactly what you mean, but how do we get it straight, it's hard.   Thanks though, I will try to keep an eye on my ship. Specially in the rough waters. :)|||Thanks man! Character and Neurosis and Enneatype Structures, Almaas's Facets of Unity, those are the three I got. I will get facets first, the others I ordered from England so it will take a week or...|||Thanks a lot, I ordered a copy of understanding the basics, by that Riso and hudson dude.   At the library, and a test book. I'm kinda excited I should have it any time soon, till then I will check...|||Dear fellow users,   I was looking for it but could not really find it! I got really interested in this enneagram business.  So I wondered what is the good stuff to read for this? I tried to...|||I do not see Albert Camus on the list but quite sure he had one also! Also Kierkegaard and a lot of philosophers seem missing.|||There's fleeting happiness which is easy to explain, as for steady happiness. Honestly I think happiness is when you get out of bed with a good feeling, and when you go to bed happy for the next day....|||Melon, just melon!|||Hold your pokeballs!   Hello,   I'm Mark 20 years old, I live in the Netherlands, meaning I'm Dutch.  I like reading I read a lot, from philosophy, to psychology to normal books. A few of my...|||Thanks for all the replies til now! I'm hoping for more, but the ones I got are nice. It just seems hard to get that identity going.|||A long story about the past and now of a INFP.   Hello people,   First of all I'm new, and I always hate it to make a tread as a first post, when I joined somewhere new, but time issues. Second...