'First disaster I remember is 9/11. Worldwide event I take to also include Y2K, so that's what I'd say. I'm May '95.|||Depends what I interpret the motives being. I've had some people do this because I was foreign and nonsensical to them rather from a place of true desired understanding. They wanted to make me make...|||I didn't know people could psychoanalyze me based on my favorite ninja turtle. I don't even know why I picked Donatello other than I was absolute shit at TMNT for NES and his weapon had amazing reach.|||Yeah, the thing is you can't mix mbti and enneagram at least initially. They weren't created to coexist, but are two independent ways to classify personality. It does bring a lot of insight when you...|||Tbh I think this pretty often, but it has an implied some in front of it. I second the above post.|||My original typing when I was... eh, 16 maybe? ended up being the real one. I've spent a lot of time doubting my personality type, enneagram more so than mbti but still, and in my case mbti was right...|||The problem I have with it is as a teenager, an insistence on being unique created many problems.  It was totally unnecessary and I did it all to myself, stroking my ego but feeling lonely, distant,...|||Certainty is loaded for me. I've just realized recently I'm a type 6.  How much certainty do you need? More than is possible to have, it seems.  Generally/in specific situations? Anything with...|||Just wanted to say you're not alone. I've had the same confusion and just recently switched back as well.  The problem in my opinion is as an Fi-user, my inner emotional landscape becomes a big...|||You don't want to go into this with me, lol. Or maybe you do since you asked the question? I'll make it brief in case.   I live in a fantasy world. Or at least, I used to. I spend more time in...|||I never saw the movie, but nothing about the trailer really interested me. I'm picky about portrayal of mental illness though too, so that part of her character puts me off. Reminds me too much of...|||The number five is blue, so I'd say blue. 5w4 is a nice blue-green though. 6 is orange.   This is just my synesthesia colors by the way; what is the significance of types having colors?|||My aesthetics aren't very 6-like at all, at least if tumblr enneagram aesthetic posts are anything to go by. I don't put any thought into it because if I was typed by aesthetics I'd be a 459 or...|||I tested the hell out of my parents growing up. I didn't become aware of this testing until my mom said something along the lines of expecting them to read my mind. I find the fact that I do this...|||The issue I see with INFJ vs INFP is usually when comparing the descriptions. The function stackings make the types seem so different to me, I can't imagine identifying as an INFJ based on that, but...|||Err, well, back in the day my three main WoW characters were a restoration druid, beast mastery hunter, and a protection paladin in that order, so your guesses were pretty close actually lol.|||How do you tell if you relate to 9 just because you're a 6 or because it's your gut fix? Or what about the difference between sexual 6 and 6 with an 8-fix? Never had a problem determining my heart...|||I honestly didn't know I had a problem with trust until I spent a night with some Riso-Hudson books and figured out I had absolutely no idea who I was before. But it brought me to tears to just trust...|||Cause not getting out of bed feeds the depression, so of course the depression wants you not to get out of bed. I've always thought depression was a very effective affliction, because it is excellent...|||I wouldn't wait 2 hours in that situation and would also ask at some point, but I've had a similar approach to problem-solving before lmao, if you could even call it that (no). It's like... welp, I...|||Personally the main difference I see is in our relationship to our image. 4w3's care about it a great deal, and sometimes less healthy 4w3s do things that seems very unfourish to me in pursuit of...|||Extraverted judgers. I can come up with many people of other types that I both get along with and don't get along with, or both at the same time like ESFPs, but I routinely have trouble with Te and...|||I'm either slow or medium. I'm not sure if I'm a slow eater or I'm just surrounded by people who inhale their food. When my dad takes me out for ramen or something, his bowl is empty by the time I'm...|||Every problem I have feels like it's caused by holding myself back in some way, yet my one desire in life is to be 100% myself and free to do as I please. Basically, I agree with HealerGirl, I often...|||I almost don't know how to go about this question because of the depth of connection I feel with nature. Hiking is one of the only physical activities I enjoy, but more than that, it's when I feel...|||I've been feeling a big push toward Si lately and I'm hoping to do more development in that way. Like, I've been experiencing a drive to learn from my mistakes and others with weaker Si are getting...|||I did once for my first novel attempt. I generally try to avoid doing that now though because I tend to fall into the trap of spending way too much time fleshing out the world the novel is set in and...|||I would say so, while I don't think my development of my Ne had any problems heh, in certain social contexts I will unintentionally hide my Ne a bit because my true self is a little too much for some...|||I didn't start doing it until some time after I moved out lol, I guess some people don't mind being in the same house with people and sleeping naked but I do. I wouldn't like to have to worry about...|||I'm cool with being liked lol, though getting my way has frustrated me a lot before because I have easily manipulated parents. It makes me have to make parenting decisions for myself essentially...|||I don't know if I would even try to put the word better on it. Some things I can do effortlessly, and I like to be acknowledged for my natural skills, but it would bother me to be acknowledged for...|||This is why I hate the 16personalities test lol.|||One   0, and I'm not being pessimistic lol unless one of my 5 internet friends is holding back some feelings, but then I never got around to re-coming out to those friends so the guys probably...|||INTP   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HQnC1UHBvWA|||This makes me think you're an xNFP. Your Ni description felt very Ne and your Fe description felt more Fi to me with your struggle between harmony and authenticity you noted. Your reasoning for...|||I have no achievements, warm and bright is just something my teachers always wrote in my yearbook and progress reports. I just interact with people with a contagious, good attitude and talk about...|||I'm one angry-ass ENFP. Of course, the thing is no one realizes that unless I verbally tell them I'm an angry person. I was an EXPLOSIVE kid though. I went to therapy for anger problems and defiance...|||Maybe not a general type, but there definitely seems to be certain types that aren't automatically attracted to us, like some of them respect us and some can't stand us. Although that's not really...|||I have grapheme-color, ordinal-linguistic personification, and some miscellaneous sensory mixups I get that aren't linked to a main type of synesthesia, like phantom flavors (I think triggered by...|||Worked at a Halloween store when I was 15 from September to the end of October.  Basically consisted of wandering around the store listening to the Time Warp. Second-favorite job. First favorite was...|||I think rationality is the mark of a mature thinker or feeler, not so much thinker vs. feeler. I think the ideal state of mind to achieve is wise mind: a balance of both the emotional and logical. I...|||-If I'm even wondering whether I should let go -If they've already let go -When not doing so would be a detriment your emotional/mental health  I guess the main example that I think of is a group...|||Yeah, I think I could have worded things better some time else, but it's likely the most honest truth I will ever utter. It's the only time I'm 100% unfiltered.|||I can't stand self-pitying behavior. I don't have a ton to say, just yeah, really repels me for a similar reason as Eefje mentioned, it's stagnant. Makes me feel like the person is dragging me behind...|||I would second  Lizbeth in the propensity to be stressed. I don't deal with excess stress really well, and I already feel swamped by my own stuff. I'm also very used to being used as an unpaid...|||Absolutely. I just recently realized my anxiety and depression came from over a decade of repressed anger. I'd see people get angry in real life and in the movies and have these crazy overreactions...|||I wouldn't consider my childhood problematic at all. With a background in psychology and human services, I think of ACE score, mine is a 1 while I would consider problematic more of a 4+ situation...|||Maybe there's a tritype link to this. Cause I've been gradually having less patience for people who are unstable compared to me the longer it's been since my unstable period. The more I distance...|||Pessimism isn't something I naturally lean toward unless I'm in the grip. I like to call myself a realistic optimist. I'm almost never optimistic to a fault, but I lean a tiny bit more toward...|||I actually think this is the main reason knowing I was an ENFP eluded me so long. This made me revisit my mom's type and now I'm certain she's an ESFP, which explains why I had ruled out ENFP for...'