'All in Twilight  Have you read the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle or any of his other teachings? I ask because a lot of what you are saying it very similar to it.  Also, I really understood what...|||Wow. I really appreciate that you are willing to help me. This is something that I have been searching an answer for for quite some time. Without further ado here are my responses to your questions:...|||Here is my response to another thread about the greatest insults.   Some other ENFPs gave some really good insights already, but for me personally I have a few things. 1) To be called unworthy or...|||At the risk of Beanie not seeing the above post I'll actually put my stuff down here:  1. My drive in life comes from the desire to be the best I can be. I want to keep improving daily. My goals...|||Haha glad I could help. I have to say, as far as the 4 progression I can definitely relate to the 1-4 part. I'm not sure about the 2 yet though. Also, for some reason as soon as you said, It's...|||RAWR it makes me so mad just thinking about it. One of my other friends is like, that's just who he is.. **** that! No excuse to act that way. But, I can't get too upset about this, I'm trying to...|||Oh my God! This, this, and this! I remember one time I was telling my friends about how I was talking to new people and how cool they thought I was. Some thinker, judger type said, Yeah. Keep...|||I just posted here recently, but after some research I am fairly certain that I am an image type. For me, I have to admit I constantly find myself asking the question Who am I?. Or maybe it isn't...|||Thanks a lot. I really appreciate insight from another ENFP. On a side note, I've been looking into Enneagram type to help me with this even more.|||Jealousy. Insecurity. Any number of reasons really.|||Well since a few people enjoyed my last post. I thought it was time to bring out the big guns. This is my new motivator. Part II let's go!   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9z4Kft47kBM|||How do I stop thinking about that? And what if someone tries to get in my way? What if someone actually tries to sabotage my goals?|||It'd be great if you could elaborate more. :)|||Holy crap. If there is one post here that I wish all of the ESFJs would read, it's this one. That 1st part is so perfect and describes EXACTLY what happened.   Just one thing though, it's been like...|||Such a great post. I have to say that, personally, when I DO commit to something and am motivated about something is it powerful. I don't know how it is for others, but when I truly want to do...|||Haha. Well...yolo I guess. Worse case scenario we just don't end up talking, and that isn't too different from right now anyway.|||R u sure? I mean, I admit I have a tendency to do that, but still. I mean did you notice all the stuff in my above post. Did you see and understand all those concerns? Can you really tell me to just...|||Wait. This is exactly what I did last time, well almost. I walked away and literally did not talk to her for a long time. Was that the right response? I didn't know how to act in social scenarios...|||Damn, figures that I get here when you guys have already covered just about everything. :p  Well, I'm not sure how true this is for other ENFPs, but I remember constantly talking with my ENFJ...|||And if she does say no and I respond with the whole thank you thing, should I then suggest being friends? Would that be the best way to handle it?|||Seriously? It's just...I don't know. I figured it wouldn't work like that. I figured that she wouldn't want me to do something out of the blue. I figured that I should know whether or not she likes...|||Oh my God! I have been waiting for a topic like this for SO LONG! I listen to this EVERY DAY. It is the most motivational thing I have ever seen. Here it is:  ...|||To be fair, I only had to wait a day. But, I'm losing it waiting to hear your responses and your point of view b/c I have no idea what she is thinking and other ESFJs are my only hope at having a...|||Seriously? That's it? haha. I mean I was hoping you could at least tell me whether she was actually interested again or if she was doing this b/c it was some ESFJ thing.  Plus, we literally haven't...|||Btw, in case any other ESFJs see this, here is the link to my thread: http://personalitycafe.com/esfj-forum-caregivers/148066-need-help-esfj-girl.html|||As I'm finding out the hard way.|||AWESOME! Could you go to the ESFJ forum and respond to my thread? I am really confused about the way this ESFJ girl is acting.|||Are you sure? Well alright then. I appreciate the input. :)|||We are a bit of a rarity (8% of the population). Tbh I haven't met another ENFP in real life b4. I come here when I need to converse with like minded fellows. :)|||Seriously, I try posting on their main page, and maybe I'm being a little impatient, but don't you guys ever go on personality cafe at all?|||Alright b4 I begin I just want to say that I don't know 100% that she is ESFJ. She is definitely extraverted, a feeler, and a judger though and that leaves ENFJ as the only other type. I've known a...|||Thanks I really appreciate you helping me out. :) However, I already predict that neither of those responses will work for one reason. He is doing this to make himself feel better. If I show him that...|||OMG more amazing advice. haha. Also, I read something else about how the more we experience a situation, the less we care about it. I must admit it is not too often that I'm insulted. Maybe this is a...|||So many thanks for this, I just don't know. How do I steer clear? I mean most of the time I can just not go and talk to him, but he'll say hi to me in the hall and I can't just ignore him. In fact,...|||ENFPs are so cool and spontaneous and awesome!!! I was having such a bad week, but after talking to a few like-minded people, oh my god what a difference. I think that's our greatest strength,...|||Damn we ENFPs are intuitive lol. Yep, I'm really young (let's just go with under 21 for now :p)  As far as the not giving a damn thing...wow. I honestly didn't think it was possible for ENFPs to...|||Thanks man. It's...comforting to know that I'm not the only one who feels that way. :)  On a side note, how do you deal with cold rationals? Or people being insulting in that way in general? Being...|||Some other ENFPs gave some really good insights already, but for me personally I have a few things. 1) To be called unworthy or worthless. When someone tells me that I don't deserve something or...|||One more thing, for all you emotionally-stable ENFPs how do you view other people? To be specific, do you view certain people as bugs who don't matter (I.E. people who put you down) or do you view...|||It's really strange. Recently, I talked to my dad about a lot of my problems, every little thing that was causing me discomfort and that made me feel better. It's like a weight was lifted off me or...|||Thanks. I can't express how much I appreciate this. This one post really cheered me up a little. :)|||Why must the insults of others (even a single person whereas everyone else thinks otherwise) affect ENFPs so much? We care so much about other people, but that only causes us MORE pain. It sucks when...|||I heard about Ne on one of the tagged threads on either the ENFP or functions main page.|||Thanks a lot. I'll keep this in mind. :)|||Thnx this is good advice. I actually have noticed the sensitive spells getting shorter, which is a plus. As far as overcomplicating function goes, could you explain how Ne works then?|||Wow I know that I've heard some of this stuff before, but you just laid it out so well. That last part though. How do you know it's getting better?|||Hey guys. I just had an experience today where I was very happy and getting confident on a new clothing style, but one bad comment (from a jealous person) ruined my mood for the rest of the day. I...|||Lol alright I admit that's pretty funny, but now people have to go back a page to see what the topic was about. Oh well.|||I guess the above answers this. :(|||Oh boy, I've been figured out. :p But, in all seriousness it was one specific class. It doesn't happen often btw. (Or at least it is happening less and less. I have noticed that my confidence may...'