'Under Trump Specials, Paddy Power also has odds for Trump stating a belief in aliens and also a bet for him making Area 51 open to the public. Surprisingly there isn't a bet for Trump actually...|||Visionary. People are more likely to fully engage in something if you are able to inspire them, and if they have bought into your vision and made it their own. Using an authoritarian approach works...|||I remembered reading about oddsmakers here regarding a possible Trump impeachment with 50/50 odds. Paddy Power now has it 6/4. Also, Jeff Sessions is 4/6 for resigning or being fired. And, if anyone...|||Digestive  Yeah, sounds like he's just protecting his feelings then, especially if he ends up caring more after having sex and he knows you're going to jet later on.|||One of my favorite books! Quite a compliment, assuming she wasn't referring to the painting at the end! :wink:  I would say I feel younger than my age. I'm 44, but feel more like mid-30s. Most of...|||Since you guys are casually dating, he could just be multidating. I also don't understand the parental meeting if it's casual and only a couple weeks. Seems weird, I wouldn't read too much into that....|||A few months ago. I don't take many selfies. 647410|||You're right, I don't totally agree with you. I think of sympathy as feeling pity for someone.|||soft.cynosure  You've already told him what bothers you, and you said he continues to do it. So stop being friends with him.   Another option would be to not make such a big freaking deal out of...|||No, it's been consistent over time!|||100% agree. I have plenty of empathy. But I don't have much sympathy because that means I'm ok with someone not doing anything to make their situation better, when there are actions he/she can take....|||Dear ENFP,  When we parted ways, you went to the wrong parking garage. You have no sense of direction.  ENTJ|||Sx seems like it's the energy we put out there, which may or may not have anything to do with sex (although sex is important to me). I sometimes feel like a guy, although physically and in my...|||My ex-husband was an ENFP and he was anorexic in high school. He had difficulty controlling his impulses with food as an adult. I don't know that it had much to do with him being an ENFP, probably...|||This ^^^^^  He's insensitive, but so what? Why should his communication style change just for you when it seems you are not willing to change the way you perceive what he says? He's not even your...|||1.Networking: I just do it, more out of necessity than anything else. I don't totally love it. 2. I will ask for help if necessary but usually it's not, so I don't. 3. I'm sure a depressed ENTJ...|||Enfp istp estp enfj intj|||Oops, I accidentally clicked the Reply button several times. Sorry folks.|||Yes, I let it go quickly too. But the tone can make people feel like it was actually a much bigger deal.   And anyone who goes around asking Do you know who I am? is just a jackass. If you have...|||Totally agree that allowing physical touch / invasion of personal space means I'm interested. I usually don't let anyone come near me if I don't like them that way.  Might be different for the guys...|||Yup. It's like I can hear people's jaws dropping when they see it. Most people have no idea we have a sentimental side.|||I used to get angry a lot but at some point I decided to pick my battles for my own sanity. I'm with you on sticking up for those who are more vulnerable. I had a situation like that recently where I...|||That's great! Glad the date happened and had a happy ending. I don't think most ENTJs hate hugs. We love to be affectionate with people we know and like. :sentimental:|||He obviously likes you, but a long distance relationship may not be what he is looking for. Do you know what I mean? If you're cool with something kind of casual and won't get easily attached, then...|||She was preparing for what I assume was a big move, so I'm assuming no long-term possibilities for you both, but she likes you enough that she didn't want to hurt your feelings, so she agreed to the...|||I would just let him have that space that it sounds like he needed. He just needed some time to mull over whatever you had disclosed. He made a statement about contacting you the next day, so that...|||That job transition happened a while back, like 20 years ago (I feel like such an old lady now!). But I know how you feel about the difficulty in following a manager's lead when you're pretty sure...|||The percentages seem ok for ENTJ, but I disagree with the Seeking casual sexual encounter bit. ENTJs are, by nature, long-term planners and something that isn't likely to work out for the long-term...|||Yes, I'm a humanist.  No. I usually have a few personal goals, and they are dynamic. I don't have many absolutes in terms of goals. Or anything else, now that I think about it. Had a huge ego. I'm...|||Not really. I liked school because I love learning and my social skills were always decent. At work, I wouldn't say it was an issue necessarily, but one of my first full-time jobs after college...|||Most companies will ask you some questions from your resume, mostly about work experience. Then they will ask you situational questions and these may be harder to prepare for. Tell me about a time...|||24. I'm not on the spectrum, but maybe I need to work on my Fi a bit!|||I love how the very first question is Are you weird?. All NTs are on the Yes side of the chart, of course. :laughing:|||I totally agree with you. The problem is the gerrymandering that has occurred over the past 20 years. Redistricting helped politicians get re-elected, but it also means that there is less diversity...|||I think being an 8w7 is more likely to be the issue in developing close relationships easily. Seems like 8s don't like to be vulnerable because that's weakness, and you have to be strong to survive...|||Dear ISTP,  I'm amused that you tell me you miss me by asking me first, then say Duh when it's time to reciprocate. Maybe you miss the sex more than anything else. I just take it as a compliment...|||I'm ENTJ 8w7 SX/SO so I get what you are saying. I have a few very close friends. ENFJ (romantic life confidante), ESTJ (daily grind conversations, manager to manager), ESTP (activities like...|||The INFJ's feelings are probably going to get hurt sometimes. ENTJs are just not very in touch with feelings and can say things that come across as insensitive at times, when they were only being...'