'Sometimes I like to just doodle absent-mindedly in ballpen.  186474186482 Incidentally, this is how I would like to draw, if I had the talent or attention span. The artist's name is Jim...|||Your score: 12%  You are warm and empathic with a heightened awareness of social responsibility and a strong sense of conscience. You like to carefully weigh up the pros and cons of a situation...|||Yes. I am absolutely like this too, and similarly, I am easily the most absent-minded person I know. Like... ridiculously so, and for much the same reason. It also makes me really unobservant - I...|||First off, I'm really sorry that you feel this way. I can kind of identify on a lot of points, and it sounds like you're under a lot of pressure, mostly from yourself but also in a well-meaning but...|||LOL.  Your Total: 1   Between 12 and 15 is average. Celebrities often score closer to 18. Narcissists score over 20.|||Thanks for the advice, everyone. I'm really not religious, so I find it hard to pray for anyone per se, but I send them my very best wishes, for what they're worth.   Sometimes looking ing at cute...|||Ah yes, Copernicus' little-known Theory of Wangicentrism.|||True, I've lived in similar parts of Africa such as Malawi for example - but you'll often find that their conception of modesty seems somewhat contradictory from a Western standpoint. E.g. in Malawi...|||I've always had the habit of being attracted to guys who turn out to be gay... not sure what that says about me, LOL!  That said, I've always been more intensely attracted to non-physical...|||Also, anyone from Ireland will recognize this one immediately:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTo18xUHpxs|||I know it's a bit out there, but some of the most obscure/bizarre Monty Python sketches are the ones I love best.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Uvt83YWWWY|||I'm not talking about damn, I locked myself out of the apartment or going to be late for work -type crazy.  I've just been having a lot of days lately that make me feel raw with anger and...|||Interesting topic.  For me, personally, the difference lies mainly in my relationship with the person on the other side of the debate/argument. From extremely close family and friends I can...|||I was just going to mention Africa, actually. I worked with this organisation a little while I was in Kampala for my Master's research, and they do some really amazing work for the education and care...|||indescribable|||IRL? Debra Morgan from Dexter reminds me a lot of me in terms of overall behaviour/demeanour, minus the current existential crisis|||Yeah, I definitely still have one. My work involves a lot of phonecalls at the moment, and everyone and their mother knows I'm Irish. I don't have a *Cork* accent though, no-one seems able place me...|||I lived in Sandymount for a good while before I came to the Netherlands. Despite our cities' ancient rivalries (*snort*), I have a fondness for Dublin. :tongue:|||It's funny you should say this, because I was once engaged to an ISFP man, and based on my experience I'd have to agree with you. How we ended up engaged is a loooong story, but essentially I find...|||I'm in a relationship, and a very happy one at that :kitteh:  As for dating sites... I don't know, I've tried a few over the years, but I generally find the proportion of skeezeballs far too high...|||I'm kind of the same as you, @Hokahey, actually. Only had 2 partners so far because it has to be with the right person.  But again, with the right person, I'm a 10...million. LOL. Sex is an...|||Oh god :laughing: um... yeah. I have definitely cried at movies. And TV. And books. And plays. And Oxfam commercials.  I don't know, I guess I'm just very sentimental. But I get attached to...|||LOL, thanks!! I actually kind of annoy myself in that video.  speak UP, goddammit!|||I'm not sure if I'm a cat or a dog person, really. But goddamn do I love coffee.|||Pretty much this. Especially the affectionate part. I will go out of my way to send drunken texts to my friends to tell them I love them, and I basically will talk to anyone, about anything. I even...|||also, to add: if you're really worried, maybe ask a close friend if they think you consider others enough, but only if you're prepared for an honest answer. None of my close friends or family have...|||Personally, I don't think it's so much that we're prone to selfishness, as we're prone to having ridiculously high expectations of ourselves (and others!) - this can lead to a perception of normal,...|||Humilis Curator, I remember you indeed! Welcome back and congratulations on your recent accomplishments!! I'm glad you made it through such a difficult time, I can definitely relate... and thank you...|||awwwww. Well, I'm delighted for you that you have such a rewarding friendship. Those are to be treasured. :proud:|||I feel like this all the time. I get caught up in the conversation and reveal too much about myself, and then recall it and regret it later. I just get carried away because I'm interested in talking...|||Well, anger (at least in response to certain situations) is a healthy emotion, and you do have to find some way to deal with it. I rarely lose my temper though. Most of the time, when it comes to the...|||I definitely tend to go for other intuitives, I think. I find sensors somewhat too... literal? Or something. I mean, I've definitely dated sensors in the past, but in the long run I tend to feel an...|||LOL. I think you're being persnickety here.|||I wouldn't say that I'm overly quick to fall in love, but I do follow my emotions - that seems contradictory, but I'm highly selective in what I look for in a partner. I can't quite put my finger on...|||Jesus christ @cyamitide, I thought we'd moved past this what - two months ago?   Look - evidently, you have nothing better to do with your time. Fortunately however, I do, so I'm hopping off the...|||LOL - what wen said, I drink a lot. Drink brings my Fe out to play, big time. Once I have a few scoops in I will pretty much talk to anyone. If I'm not drinking - have something on in the morning or...|||I don't *know* I am an INFJ, partly because I believe that if you really are that determined to be 100% sure of your type you would probably need to have it assessed professionally. For me, I'm...|||The physical attributes I tend to find most attractive are largely tied in with the kind of more personal attributes I appreciate in a guy - contemplative, warm eyes get me every goddamn time. And a...|||LOL I don't think you really see enough of their *personality* to tell.    No, never thought of it as an option for me, no matter how much grad school costs... :tongue: I'm actually very...|||:proud: it's doing much better, thanks!! I hope you're good too.|||I really miss napoleon227 - haven't seen him around in a while, but I hope he's well, he was lovely.  INFJoshua seems like a really kind and thoughtful person, and I enjoy his blog posts. ...|||Too mainstream, even...|||Well, I am fortunate enough to have a small but very devoted group of friends. Friends are one area in my life in which I have been very blessed.  With that said, however, I understand what the OP...|||I think there's a crucial distinction between hipster culture - as I've seen it - and INFJs, again, as I have experienced them.  For hipsters, the essence of their self-expression is...|||I'm mostly silly, in person. I actually generally keep my reserved side for people with whom I am comfortable being myself. Most of the time, with people I don't know so well in particular, I often...|||Pessimism/apathy.|||Me too, I love Luna.  It's probably cliché, but Dumbledore was a huge favourite of mine. He sort of embodied a lot of the traits I appreciate in people.|||Pareidolia explains a lot of it, IMO - it's not so much that we have an innate drive to believe in God, more that we have an innate drive to attempt to make sense of the world around us, form...|||Sore. Everywhere.  Long trip, massive suitcase... ugh.|||What an utterly ridiculous assertion, on so many levels. I love it though; it's like the No True Scotsman fallacy re-invented, just for INFJs.  It shouldn't matter how it is articulated if you...'