'An ENFJ close female friend and an ENFJ boyfriend|||What are some qualities you appreciate in a person who you're in a friendship or relationship with?|||I think the point of this thread was to make one comment and keep it moving. But then again, INFPS are not that good at following the trend of things. It's really hard to hurl a hard insult at you...|||Yah from what I've read, INFP and ENFJs get along well. So things should probably progress naturally. I would say that you just be open with your feelings and be sincere and pay attention to the...|||Life as a type 1 can be cruel and a hell to say the least. All these   standards that I set for people will be a problem eventually. I am hard   on myself and others, but mostly myself. THen to be...|||Life as a type 1 can be cruel and a hell to say the least. All these standards that I set for people will be a problem eventually. I am hard on myself and others, but mostly myself. THen to be...|||What must be understood is that youx92re a brand, an entity, or corporation and you must see yourself as such. You have to understand your worth. Why would you let someone into your corporation and...|||My advice would to check out some of the introvert threads it might help with your socialization skills.|||Usually thats uncommon for ENFPs|||Great advice and insight xD|||What to do when two of your close friends hook up  Recently I have been accomodating but the time I spend with each one is being limited because of the developing friendship. I'm happy they are...|||You are the right person for me!|||I see the point of what you are saying. To me, every woman at the core want to be treated right and needs to feel secured in a relationship. Wanting financial security in a SERIOUS relatioshship is...|||So I recently found out that my friend is bipolar. It took her so long to let me know because as I read, people with this condition have a hard time accepting it.  Have you ever had a friend who...|||So a question was asked on a relationship forum, What is the point of a man' love if it doesn't equate loyalty?  Here is one person's response.  I agree 100% , there is no real unconditional...|||THere is absolutely nothing wrong with thinking you are interesting xD  Do other people feel this way about you as well?|||Has anyone had experience with partners who are bipolar?. If you have please do shed some light.  How do you deal with the mood swings? And keep from becoming resentful?... Do you ever feel to walk...|||Yayee Princess Diana! xD|||Playing hard to get can either mean you are playing games in the dating stage or are just making yourself seem unavailable or uneasy to get.  In the bedroom context it can be translated as foreplay.|||Your creativity causes you to seem abit abnormal, up in the head ;)|||The fact that he defended and protected you shows he is a person of character. Also that you could connect with someone on such a deep level shows that there is love, and it's not something that...|||I understand these emotions myself.  It's definitely not easy. There is alot of fighting off emotions. And the worst of all the pain is excrutiating. Not being wanted by someone is the worst feeling...|||How do I deal with this?  I basically write myself notes everyday. I don't let any emotion go unwritten. It's hard to deal with unrequitted love, but its even harder knowing that some times or...|||Do INTJs like being surprised. Like for birthdays and such.. or would they prefer to just know whats coming?|||Do INTJs like surprises?...|||Doing mighty fine thank you xD Right now I am thinking of how i will plan for school in the fall :) I am happy because I'm finally getting myself organized. Well somewhat..|||Try hello mate!... Howdy.... or take ^ advice and wait til the first day of class.|||Yes I identify. I have learned it's something that is not gonna change. I guess there is a different work and place for us on this planet. xD|||Well I guess it was over before it even started.|||Is there any hope for an INFP female in relationships.? I realize that I am the one sabotaging my relationship prospects because I have commitment issues.  Also all the guys that get close end up...|||What I'm trying to understand is how your leading type could be a 7, or even if it were a 4 or a 1, how are you an ENFP???.|||What I notice is that one can change overtime especially when getting to a healthier state. Sometimes an unhealthy type can come off as another type.|||I too understand what comes with social anxiety. I know what it feels like and how nerveracking it can be. I don't know how to get through it but I've realized that the only way to deal with it is to...|||Populist - Morale      Liberalist - Human Rights Federalist - Government's Rights|||Yah I understand the need for you to do things that way. I always want to be definite about things or to have things figured out that way I don't leave anything in question. I presume that might be...|||Yup I think I burn bridges faster than any one I know, you're not alone xD  I'm still trying to figure out why this is though because for me I just get caught in my world and don't feel the need to...|||Evil prevails and bad in this world continue to climb higher and higher.|||You're right but apparently too many people don't care about that. Nobody is going to look at your kindheartedness and goodnature when it comes to anything serious. It hurts that the world is a...|||I don't know if I should feel sad about getting the short end of the stick and getting stuck with an I instead of an E. I know yes there are good things that comes with being an INFP but still I feel...|||Sometimes I really despise my type. I just came from a group meeting that has potential to do some really great things on a larger scale, yet I am stopped by my stinking I. Ohk this is really...|||Because of my strong way of doing things I think people are intimidated by me, especially guys, except really I'm sweet behind all the hard exterior.|||Dude I get aggressive all in my head. Oh only if you could see all the imagery that goes on, but of course it's never outloud. Unless I'm alone of course ;)|||I think I know what you're talking about. Sometimes I make up my own words and people will tell me that made no sense. I might do, just because it sounds better or just adds more emphasis on what I'm...|||Do people become demisexual because they've been hurt so much.?.|||I'm willing to work through this.|||Try harder|||Annoying, talkative, and all up in your face!!!|||Just thought it would be cool seeing someone else with the same tritype. Except the orders are switched|||Maybe he's just hungry for some female part??...|||No worries, you're very much an INFP. I think it's just that some INFPs are not experienced enough, it might have to do with the experiences you've had or the type of background and family you grew...'