'I'm with you.  My girlfriend is an ESFP and an engineer. She's the best of both worlds, an intelligent nerd, and a cheerful extrovert.|||Skeptic  0 weaker skills 2 Stronger skills (Not susceptible to the Sunk Cost Fallacy and You are good at seeing through tricky or deceptive arguments) 5 Average skills  Your quantitative...|||I don't see myself as self-centered in the moment. However, when I look back at certain situations, I sometimes realize I was being a self-absorbed jerk.|||If an INTJ is average, they are squandering natural talents and doing life wrong. ;)|||If you were any of these types, then you would just want to be some other type..|||Exactly. I've posted about it in other threads too. If you compared me to a psychologist, they would look like a genius while analyzing someone and I would look like a fool, not understanding people...|||...you constantly correct people in your head, but don't verbalize it to make conversations move along faster.|||He has a quote for everything.  350002|||Some guys love pushiness. Spineless women are not for me, lol.|||Great build. Mine was pretty close to that at first. I had the Corsair H60, but the pump failed, so I switched to air and never looked back.|||Built a few years back for multimedia editing, general usage, and more. Would be a great gaming machine with a new video card.   Ubuntu 15.04 currently Thermaltake Dokker Case Corsair HX650 psu...|||134-146 according to online tests a few years back. I've been in AP classes, gifted programs, etc. my whole life and it means next to nothing. I don't value opinions on my intelligence, as it is...|||I constantly subdue misanthropic tendencies. I have to remember no one meets my standards, including me, so I try not to hate everyone else for my deranged thought process.|||It doesn't get any easier. I've had a career for about six years, just earned two degrees today, and still feel lost most of the time. I think the trick to being an adult, is what you do about it. I...|||asap|||I read this a long time ago, and it seems to be applicable here.  Skip the Counteroffer When Resigning a Job to Make a Graceful Exit|||Correct. It's a very neat site. Besides that, check out Coursera and Codecademy (for programming).|||Again, the older you get, the easier it gets, just be yourself, and get out of your head. As we get older, more women realize they want a dependable, problem solver as a mate.|||I think I waver on the both crowd. I appreciate art and literature, but I excel in maths and science. Our types may give us a predisposition, but it doesn't guide our abilities and interests.|||We aren't all maths/science nerds...  There are many artistic INTJs out there. :)|||Job: Systems Analyst Studying: BAS - Informatics  Self explanatory. I analyze systems for the company I work at. It is a small business, so I have to do a lot of mundane things as well like...|||I was the same until about 19, then just started carrying schnapps to parties. At least I could stand being in the same area as people. There are other substances that help even more...|||I would say INTJ as well.  Reasoning: Gut feeling (Plus I would have answered many of the questions the same way.)|||It often gets around 110F-115F here in the desert (SoCal) in July and August, and I like it. Swimming, shade, cold beer, etc. Plus it really makes you appreciate it when the weather cools back down.|||Not sure. Not every INTJ has a plan for world domination.  (Well, mine hasn't been perfected at least.)  1. Unite INFJs, INTJs, ENFPs (ENTPs, maybe) 2. Buy large island 3. Start society 4. When...|||It has to do with creating a new Utopian society...|||Full of win.   I agree completely with your entire post  Blue Soul|||Bill Withers - Ain't No Sunshine - Depression/breakup (a lot of my music fits here I'm realizing) Mooney Suzuki - Alive and Amplified - Happy/on drugs Radiohead - Creep - Insecure/self explanatory...|||Great thread! I actually have songs for every emotion I want to feel/am trying to feel. It's kind of weird, but it allows me to tap into feelings.|||Right in the feels.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aoR0mGq_z2I|||Favorite colors:  333946|||It does suck, it is true, most go through it . It doesn't mean you have to be discouraged. You just have to find a happy place for the time being. I'm in major hermit mode now, (hanging with one...|||Not true. A few of the women I have dated, were this way. Things may not always work out, but there are many strong women out there that will take the lead if you put yourself out there to be hit...|||Except life has infinite expansion packs.|||Hermit mode engaged. It cycles, don't worry, just learn from those alone periods.    Ah, the dream. I'll take one of those models as well.|||A million times yes. Even people holding a smartphone. Seriously? OK Google, why is this person wasting my time?|||Most of that goes away with age/experience. Rejection sucks, but you will never know unless you try (this advice is helping me reinforce it in myself, lol). The part where you are hoping to have...|||Being bothered by or at social interactions? People do talk to me, I just have very little to say about whatever sport is currently on TV, or other mundane topic they are on about. If someone has...|||Personally, I don't really approach any stranger, man or woman. I don't want to be bothered most of the time, so I assume most others don't either. I don't think I've ever approached a woman first....|||It may pass the time, but you'll look back and realize that those things were fun. You just didn't notice it at the time.  Funny you are talking to people now, not in person, but still. You can be...|||When INTJs let someone in, or the meetups?|||Our cold exterior until we let someone in?  I'm gonna gate crash one of these. :) ENFP Meetups - Meetup Not sure where you are  LCH98, but may be worth checking out.|||It's hard, but you'll be ok. When I just get out of my head and actually go out among people, I finally do alright with women. Easier said than done, I know. I don't have many friends currently, but...|||I don't know if like is the right word, but I would listen to it. I can see myself working out to this, or while riding out in the desert.|||I'm far from being an expert, but the less you try the better, with women. Just get in your element, video game tournament, museum tour group, or whatever you are good at/interested in, that...|||Slice it up and dip it in chocolate fondue.|||Delicious? That's an adjective I've never heard to describe my personality (type), haha.|||Which field exactly? I have an AS for Computer Information Systems and one for Business Administration (kind of business focused). If I enjoyed maths more, I would have done Computer Science or...|||It happens. After my last breakup, I started jogging and weightlifting again. It may help you as well. Keep your mind and body busy, and everything else slowly falls into place.|||Very true, but percentages can be misleading. There are a lot of people in the world, and 2% sounds quite rare, while 152,000,000 doesn't sound as impressive. Point being, it's likely you may run...'