'Sounds like you are doing something like anthropomorphizing a computer that doesn't necessarily have agency.   This is how I would distinguish.. Is it a command that the computer spits out when it...|||Want to know a secret? We all create our own value, and meaning or we buy into what others believe. You are smart and understand this which is why you struggle with it, so realize meaning is a...|||We are not rational animals, but rationalizing animals..|||Because they are ways for us to connect with others in an indirect but awesome way.   We as humans invented dance and music to connect with one another.|||It's anthropological.  There are basically two loves. One is romantic and tends to last around 5 or so years, long enough to rear a child through the rough parts. Usually couples stay together...|||Sure, men and women can be friends.. But how we define friendship is the crux. So when we say, just friends. That can mean a couple that broke up and are just friends, but know one another on some...|||How do you become friends with people you don't really know? And your A,B, C either or's are pretty limited. You believe that, ether a person believes they can be friends with the opposite sex or...|||If my name means fearless then no..   But, if my name means courageous then yes.|||Good thing he was wearing that khaki shirt and everything matches.|||Don't even focus on happiness as an end or you will end up rat racing for things, and reasons that aren't even your own.   Instead, you should focus on living the moments you spend with people, and...|||Haha, I'm average :) 26/36  Figure a test like this would have footage rather than an instance of a photograph. Might be a better way to test?|||Seeing right through you|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhgcComAyRA  Strongly Admire Deydey|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBkw2vtW6AE|||We have very different definition of what friends are.   There are acquaintances that we all call friends, whom we dispose of. At various places of difficulty we give up because the person is too...|||ENFP's are great.   But, really you shouldn't seek out types, just let the people fall where they will.   Use your judgement to determine whether people are genuine and consistent. Lots of people...|||Kinda personal but I'm more a virtue theorist/ categorical imperative follower wannabe.   A way to think about honesty and about right and wrong can be determined by virtue, rather than rules. ...|||Case by case basis.  After a betrayal is one of the best times to think about who your most consistent friends and loved ones are.   If people other than them betray you, it's no real loss. ...|||The thing is about Rihanna and most major mainstream performers are more types of conglomerates for mainstream to eat up. When you think about it the whole persona is boxed into certain packages to...|||Am I the only one who thinks celebrity Crushes are kinda silly?  Really, on an existential these feelings are ascribed and not my own. level.  Isn't it odd, and kinda gross to feel about people...|||Haha, looks like most aren't differentiating Crush and simple attraction.   How do we know who these people are that we supposedly have Crushes on? And, are those your true feelings or are they the...|||Nope, for me it doesn't happen.   Question, would you still like her the same if you found out she didn't write her own music?   I guess even INFJ's fall for celebrity.|||Maybe it has to do with how honest we are with ourselves or how we process friendships vs. love interests?  I went through it with a particular lady who I really enjoyed being around, we had a...|||I think it's possible.  If people go into friendships without extra motives.   Usually there's some attraction though and someone ends up getting hurt, when closeness and connection get confused...|||Be careful with timetables man. The thing that happens sometimes if we aren't careful is we put ourselves on paths of self fulfilling prophecies.   There has to be fight in you. I read this a few...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R5N3kQfNaPE|||I agree about people becoming comfortable in their own skin and in different situations. But it's not like there are social pressures for extroverts to be comfortable alone time, or to recharge...|||All of those things, Justice, Mercy and Grace are really contextual.   Justice is more about concepts of right punishment for some crime. Based on ideas like prevention, punishment, rehabilitation,...|||According to the video INFJ's are like Stuey from Family guy after Brian got drunk and drew all over him? :laughing:|||Yes I totally meant Jackson Galaxy. I think he's an interesting cat btw... But he is a pretty unique person.|||Whats frustrating about this is that the hegemony of, normal is defined by extroverts. It's not that introverts need to come out of shells, it's that we have to grow comfortable with who we are in...|||Long thread, but a lot depends on how we define, nice guy.   There are certain guys who tend to get friend zoned. These are the guys who agree with everything she says, who constantly seek...|||I absolutely adore dogs and consider myself a dog and cat person.   But, I was a cat person before I was a dog and cat person.   I recently had a conversation with a friend about how unattractive...|||It would be less superficial, but also less fun.   It wouldn't necessarily be quiet, a LOT of songwriters are introverts. It's just the extroverted pop stars who sing them.   Think about music...|||Really? I believe the way our intuition and logic connect get us to a point where we develop hypothesis.   What would we have without hypothesis?  What medicines and breakthroughs would we have...|||I think those emotions are often sorta mixed?  While a lot of us say we love people for who they are, and it's true we do love them that way, there is always room for improvement.   There is a...|||Process it out.   What's great is that she made that assumption about you, and now you are in a position to show her what you are assertive about.   You don't need to now talk about being...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xDj54ZdJw_w|||Another interesting aspect is how we take criticism so personally and the ways we deal with our emotions.   Obviously in the Military there are times when criticism is just sort of part of the...|||Military certainly isn't for everyone. Have to be careful with using exceptions as standards though.. Not everyone who joins is going get brainwashed. Often even the elite units act similarly in...|||My experience was of some of the best and worst times.   The weird thing is.. Regardless of politics, you grow close with the men and women you serve with and go through everyday life with in the...|||153746 dime drop|||My rationality exactly. :)|||Well that's the thing with the nature of atheism, agnosticism and faith.   Agnosticism leaves open the possibility for God through our current overall greyscale cosmological ignorance. Atheism...|||What's weird is reading what you say, then seeing the comic on the bottom.   If what you say is true then an INFJ would likely go with a comforting lie to get along with those he loves, but it's...|||As guys we have it rough admitting we are emotional.   For me at least from the time I was a kid I recognized these concepts of young male stoicism being linked to manliness. Those attributes were...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g0N_hd0drIc  The one and only|||I think a lot of us are kinda hybrids just like we are psychologically.   I'm into Strength Training and into Game of Thrones.. I joined the Military and played D&D. I was into school and played...|||You would probably get along famously with an INFJ. My sister is an ENFP and we have an amazing relationship.   You will find INFJ's doing the things they love.. Helping people.. Being in...|||Environmentally tan, and blue.. I tried to pick both :)'