'Unpredictability can be interesting.   Unrelated: I haven't logged-in in awhile and I noticed my latest response in our message thread didn't go through. I tried a shorter one and received a...|||Agreed.  You might be feeling something that isn't there. ENFxs sometimes become upset on behalf of someone else, when that person doesn't care:  1 Does not care to correct problem. He may not...|||Yes, coloring correctly without damage is expensive. You need the right conditioner + shampoo + treatments, and should get it done by someone who is experienced and understands the chemical...|||Aleister Crowler vs Hitler. V for Victory. Interesting.  Magic in history were not called spells and rituals, but experiments and operations. They took a scientific approach.  Heinrich...|||I read your thread and it reeks of manipulation to me. Never worry about blowing a potential opportunity. If it is a real opportunity ask yourself these questions:  Why is he not being...|||Not like that at all.  I don't initiate ever in a romantic sense. With one exception.  Whom I knew for 2-3 years prior.  No, people approach me and if I'm asked to give out contact info (social...|||Sure, this is an interesting conversation. I sent a PM the other day, however there was a site error. It is showing up as sent, but if you did not receive one let me know.|||Somewhere in the public and get to know the person as friends. Discovering I'm interested is also a rarity. Often times I just don't get interested.|||I don't become interested in anyone unless I've gotten to know them well over time. My position is turning others down who approach me, which is typically in a non-work environment.  I work...|||Oh?       Has the thought occurred to you that these wasteful romantic interests were undecided? Two months of getting to know someone is not enough time to collect enough data to decide if...|||You're welcome. I believe you will enjoy it.     What do you mean by very rarely incorporates their own emotional reactions?|||I highly recommend reading  Zhuge Liang's The Way of the General. Kongming is frequently compared to Sun Tzu as a genius strategist. He was also an inventor (Steam Bun, Repeating Crossbow,...|||More questions were anticipated.|||What is unanswered that you wish to know?|||Curiosity of what inspired the question.|||How long do INTJs take before deciding to pursue someone, is a better question. Months or Years, you'll find in most cases.   Realizing interest can take time as well.     Is it better to be...|||I think I come from a completely different perspective. And I believe I just realized why. With 1 exception, I don't pursue anyone.  Usually people I don't know approach me. In the past I always...|||Many would be happier if they did. And on that note people should be honest about what they want and who they are. I know so many people (both genders) who will pretend to be this or that, like or...|||The problem is many people care too much about superficial things. Is sexual attraction important? Of course it is. But so is: Intellectual Attraction Complimentary Goals and/or goals that do not...|||Explain to them that they made you frightened when they honked at you. Outside of that, I would try to look inside yourself and understand why he makes you nervous. Understanding that is your first...|||She might not have been referring to only INFP's, even though the question is on the INFP board. She didn't say Are we INFP's attracted to monsters? Of course, she might have meant that, but we...|||I completely disagree on waiting for karma. (But not on waiting... see more below) Why? Because often a bully type or get-away-with-whatever-they-can, type of person will not stop unless someone...|||Yes, let him hang himself. Follow through with it.  He likely will not learn his lesson and blame others, but you can at least prevent him from harming others.|||When justified, absolutely! People who do terrible things to others and get away with it must be corrected. Otherwise they will continue to do those.  I did a 2 year plan that caused a business...|||Tell him that you love him and want to be serious with him and see if he feels the same. Don't feel short just because you don't have x degree. You want someone who likes and appreciates you for...|||I've never had a one night stand, nor have I ever been interested in one. It's a waste of time for me.  Now this isn't meant to demean those that do. I have male and female friends that enjoy...|||You're welcome. A good book that covers breathing, note control, and other vocal areas is Jaime Vendera's 'Raise Your Voice'.|||1. Accept this will happen and not worry about it. It's never a bad thing to do something to improve oneself. 2. Arrive at the gym in your gym clothes and only stash things like your jacket and car...|||I rarely ever get interested in anyone. From what I've read on these forums that is typical of INTJ.  For me women tend to approach and hit on me often for whatever reason and with 1 exception...|||I recommend taking vocal lessons as well for a few months. Doing so helped improved my speaking a great deal with business seminars, board members, etc.  1. Proper Breathing Technique:...|||There's been several threads on INFP - INTJ relationships.  For me, no E or S types. S types have too many communication problems. E types are too draining.  INFP is an ideal type for me....|||I've found that INTJs and INFPs have a tendency to be drawn together like magnets. But....  The big hurdle is one of the 2 being direct enough and having the other 'get' that the other likes them...|||Many men are assholes and either don't realize it's ok, don't care, or give in to pressure from other men to do it.  I've always found things like cat calling and going out of the way to touch...|||I agree. People should accept others for how they are. Many people suffer in life because they try to force themselves to fit a particular label or don't fit one. And many people belittle others...|||Being direct and blunt is the correct approach with an INTJ. He doesn't sound like an INTJ.     But it turns out her ENTJ was correct, Especially with the fake IMDB site. I agree that it's...|||I enjoy many forms of art. I'm a vocalist in a band, help with the sound engineering and post production, and have been slowly learning violin.  With the band I wrote roughly 50% to 80% or more of...|||Add some muscle and toning exercises in. If you don't have or can't afford a gym membership get a pull up bar like the iron gym. You plant it on the door frame and can us it to do pull ups.  Add 10...|||I agree, open communication is key in a relationship.|||The secret to accomplishing goals is to break them down into smaller ones. Start at your end goal. Then ask yourself. What is the step before that?  Keep doing this and you will get to where you...|||It's probably a combination of technique and air control. Air control makes a big difference especially when using grit or falsetto.  Minimizing the air flow escaping your body prevents your vocal...|||I've been learning violin. I also sing.|||My ex used to call me a robot. Sometimes she work call me beep, boop. I would tell her that I'm not. She'd ask me something like Well then how do you feel? And I'd say, Well right now I'm...|||*Silent Hill 2 *Homeworld Gitaroo Man  (Never beat this one on Master Mode. That Sandbone Trio. My brother did though) Actraiser 1 & 2 (Awesome music btw) A Link to the Past Super Metroid Mega...|||I studied a book on facial expressions years ago to help with the resting face. When I slip into it I constantly get asked things like Are you having fun? Are you sure? Are you ok? Etc.|||Yes it sounds like he is/was interested in you and maybe didn't think things would work out or didn't realize he was. INTJs, we are direct with everything except out own romantic emotions. And many...|||I tend to over-analyze everything and won't make a response until I'm certain it's the right response. Sometimes I'll wait hours, days, weeks, months, even years in some cases to make a decision with...|||I've never been physical with anyone I haven't had an emotional attachment to. Without one I don't see the point.|||Thanks!|||I disagree with the concept of someone being Out of ones league. It's not a good reason to not date someone. If you're worried about power just don't live with the person. For me it's about liking...|||That usually means they are interested but have a low self esteem and find themselves unworthy of you. Men with low self-images tend to believe they aren't good looking enough, don't make enough...'