'Yeah I've got to agree with this.  Ni+Fe exchange is likely to be the culprit.  But I'm curious to know if other types identify as much with this then, particularly those with weak Ni and Fe.|||I follow football (see previous post) and used to bowl in leagues.  Occasionally I'll watch different sports - recently went to a Blazers game and an OS basketball game.|||So it's a conscious process for you then?  There are times where I can say I choose to act a certain way, but in many situations it's automatic/natural.  Only when I notice myself sliding too far in...|||*Places a block of cheese firmly on head*|||I'm curious to know how common this experience is among INFJs: realizing that there are two sides of you in constant conflict with one another, creating variances as they attempt to balance out?   ...|||I actually think that those minority positions that people take would be majority positions if we were honest with ourselves.  But as the social creatures we are, we constantly seek reassurance...|||Yes to phone anxiety.  The underlying issue is social phobia.  It's a common disorder that often goes unrecognized and untreated.  Depending on my surroundings and mood, I can carry a conversation...|||Neutral good.  You are 50% Good. You are 10.3% Lawful.   Where do you find the detailed results? -Edit: Nevermind, apparently I took the wrong test.  I couldn't help but to laugh maniacally at...|||Nothing says you're single better than McDonald's on Valentines Day evening.|||I went to that memes website and I came across this ad, which I thought was more funny than any of the memes around it.  http://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/simgad/2836381453021817853|||Excellent approach.  Just be sure that what could be worse doesn't actually come to pass.  And don't let guilt take over after you find that you're doing so well in comparison.|||As long as you live in this world, it's impossible to get rid of negative cognition.  Do what you can to minimize it or, alternatively, turn it on its head and use it to be the best comedian you can.|||Here's one:   http://www.filehurricane.com/viewerthumbnails/1114200884936PM_motivation.jpg|||To those who have a valentine, best wishes on your special day.  To those who don't, welcome to the club.  Free beer for everyone (or whatever you prefer)!|||Listing off only the traits that I dislike actually serves to answer both questions:  Spiritual/Religious or in any way Socially Conservative Arrogant or Overly-Prideful* Prudish Superficial...|||Everyone is capable of doing those things, many people do.  There are likely to be underlying issues, yes.  You don't have to be the guy's friend if you believe it to be so toxic.  Giving him space...|||Describe life in one word:  What?|||Truer words have never been spoken.|||Hehe.  It really is that simple, isn't it?|||It's good that you are able to be honest.  In any case, don't underestimate what you are capable of doing.  That yearning you speak of is independent of any moral code.   Many people hold...|||It is possible to be both angry at the world AND listen to what others have to say, may I remind you. >:]  The rest is highly dependent on what show you want to see and what you're shopping for.  I...|||I'm sorry that happened to you, both in terms of the failed business and relationship.  Financial trouble doesn't help either.  If you feel as though you are about to hit bottom, it might be time...|||I applaud you sir.  You say it like it is, save a few fortunate ones that have truckloads of cash.|||Nope, none to speak of.    Talk to my mom's side of the family though and there's plenty of that.  Not so much karma, but Super Jesus types.|||That's ok, send them my way will you?  Seriously though, it's not that important to me that women have tats or piercings.  I don't have any myself.. yet.  Maybe when I have more money.    Dude, I...|||Ladies with a few tats and a piercing or two.  Banging looks, particularly from behind :P  Nice facial symmetry.  Seductive and playful eyes.  Hair is highly dependent on the lady in question. ...|||I have dealt with Social Phobia/Social Anxiety Disorder for much of my life.  I might go as far as to say AvPD.  I can empathize with your plight.  I've been to counseling, psychiatrists, average Joe...|||The social aspect has it's ups and downs.  Sometimes I prefer computer constructs.  :P  You're right, not everyone is in a guild or group.  It's tough to play MMOs in their entirety, however,...|||@chasingdreams   It's probably time to end this discussion because it won't lead to anywhere nice.  I've been in my share of conversations on this sort of thing.  But for my final post on this...|||I can be cynical with best of them.  You have good reason to be.  It might sound counter-intuitive, but this cynicism and distrust can actually lead to positive outcomes.  Just like you are saying,...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gAEeEWJdix8|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7YrIj4I7ecg  Oh where to begin.    We'll start here.  And it's also possible that a celestial unicorn prances around in the dead of space.|||I read the first part of your post and I was going to be like really?  Haha.  It's not much different from RIFT chat channel for levels 1-29.  Even worse than Barrens chat just because it's...|||Except that in order to be the most efficient in whatever role they play, ultimately, real people end up adopting predictable play styles and cookie-cutter specs.  Otherwise, no one wants you in...|||^^ This.  I was never in a relationship back in high school and I'm glad I wasn't.  Most likely he doesn't know what he wants either.  We INFX's tend to get sucked in too quickly.    Give yourself...|||It's apparent that most would like to think there is some kind of (usually pleasant) afterlife waiting for them.  What the hell is a soul anyways?  That word is tossed around like everyone has...|||In most MMO's I play, I tend to gravitate towards the Mage classes.  I play all classes, but I find myself making more Mages.  I wouldn't be surprised if this is similar for most INFJs.  There's just...|||Eh, I wouldn't try to find things to hate about INFJs if you ever want to get together with her again.    But really, more details would be helpful.  It sounds like she is no longer interested in...|||What kinds of things do your new circle of friends like to talk about?  What are their interests?  To avoid social awkwardness, you could spend most of the time listening, occasionally validating...|||Elder Scrolls ftw.  Skyrim is addictive.  I'll have to check out some of the anime suggested.  If the storyline is as good as everyone says it is, I suppose I could get into it.|||I think more than anything else, folks just want someone that truly listens to them as opposed to those who wait for their chance to speak at any chance they get.  I've met too many people that make...|||Fair enough.  I'd date a female gamer in a heartbeat.  Which isn't to say we'd spend the entire time gaming, but it sure beats the hell out of shoe shopping.  Hehe.|||I don't know about everyone else, but I read the news.    For those who don't, I think it's probably an information overload for INFJs.  To be specific, a flooding of negative news.  Murders (just...|||I don't think I could ever stop playing video games.  More and more women have joined the fray, and I could really care less for the girls vs. games dichotomy.  F it, I can multitask if need be. ...|||I've noticed a great deal of avatars and signatures that contain anime or fantasy related themes.  Can someone explain this to me?   I could never get into anime.  I like to play fantasy related...|||You will meet many people throughout your lifetime.  A majority of friendships will fade with time due to distance, differences, and loss of interest.  It is what it is.  You can make a bigger effort...|||The same thing that makes anyone attractive, I think.  Good looks and an awesome personality.  Specifically,  I can't answer for us INFJs as that would be showing my bias. :D|||Interesting take.  Speaking of choice and willpower, how's this for an idea: if you come off too strongly for someone, maybe they aren't suited to be your friend.  If they can't or are unwilling to...|||Snowflake.  Just like everyone else. >:]|||*Gazes around at everyone*'