'When I read your post, I thought you were a man too... until I got to the end.  Somehow the voice in my head narrated in a mans voice.  Haha...  strange.  I have no idea.|||It's only irrational to you because you don't realize the nature of his intentions.  For him it's probably about getting some of his needs met by a female...  that's it.  So if you believe that's...|||I haven't read this entire thread yet, but...  It's not going to end on a happy note if you are into this guy.  When he says that you are going to hate him, etc. he means that he is committed to...|||I'm now over my strange case of boredom and glad that I flaked.  Maybe it's intuition, but it would be better if I'd get intuitive before I agree to plans.  :)|||haha that is SO accurate.|||What happens when it's a week later and the mood has changed?  :)|||Haha Nope!|||Good point!  I always end up having a great time and meeting all sorts of new people.  I hate going back on my word too...  I feel so flaky.|||My fiance has been working 7 days a week.  I'm sure this has something to do with it, come to think of it.  :)  I love to travel as well.|||I don't mind being a hermit at all.  But recently and for the first time that I can remember, I've actually become somewhat bored, with everything.  Odd.|||I've been getting worse and worse with this.  I'll make plans with someone and be somewhat excited, but in a day or less I don't want to go or see the person.  I don't even want to talk to them most...|||3896738970|||It is exhausting trying to be approachable and polite.  It's trying to be something that you aren't.|||accepting everything.|||I am so bad that I cannot work for anyone and have to run my own business.   For some reason when I first start a job, I draw to myself men that are trying to bed me.  Then they see that this will...|||I think I seem more collected than I am.  I'm actually extremely hurt.    What makes it worse is that he can't even have a conversation with me ....  I think it's that ISTJ silence thing.    It...|||I only get my nails done for work.  I get a mani and a pedi.  And I always do my lips.|||Actually my guy sounds even worse than hers!  And he is a dumb ass too.    :frustrating:    I will never make this mistake again.|||I find this to be very true.  I would hate to be on the receiving end of my wrath when someone messes with one of my people or me.   I have heard it's very scary to witness!|||Me too!  If they are anything like me, we should get along ....  right?|||wow!  Sounds like us.    Thanks for the post.|||lol  Me and my loose paper all over the place!   I can't keep a notebook, I have tons of them scattered and all disorganized.  It's awful.  I didn't used to be so bad.    I do the same thing and I...|||This is what I'm confused about.  I'm not sure if he feels bad about putting me through all of this.  I think that he doesn't or he wouldn't have been lying to me all along.  The more I think of it,...|||he has that passive aggressive silent treatment down.... for sure.|||I have to have most of my time alone.  I don't want to talk for days or weeks at a time.|||I am very much a give it all kind of person.  And yes, he does have that filter of not telling everything.  AND, he always says I'm a terrible liar, I cannot lie.  But that was a big lie too.   ...|||I think I may have something like ADHD.   I start to do one project and another one calls my attention and then another one and I get into a brain jumble about what to do.  It can be difficult to pin...|||yikes!    not good news.|||My bf is an ISTJ and I am an INTJ.  He isn't forthcoming with his emotions and can't have a deep conversation without very long pauses ...    Recently I discovered that he is a compulsive liar.   ...|||I think what if I were in a different stage of my life?    And I am very uncomfortable with being liked for being attractive.  I withdraw and never want to see the person that complimented me.  ...|||Being mad at myself for getting sick and missing a bunch of workouts.  Very counterproductive, but true.|||I'm wondering why I gave the lady on the phone SO much info....  she just froze up and couldn't handle it anyway.  I'm surrounded by incompetence.|||I'm laying in bed with  a sore throat, wondering if the guy that got a nosebleed all over my V gave me HIV last night.    :unsure:|||add to list:  Dysmorphia.    Also,  I was anorexic as a teen, after I gave up alcohol and drugs.|||I was diagnosed with PTSD.  I've seen many Psychiatrists, and I'm not so sure that I believe any of them.  I mean, you go in, tell them what's going on, and they diagnose you.  For some people, these...|||Every time that I have overlooked my first intuition with anyone, I have regretted it.  I try to trust, because I want to have someone in my life that I CAN trust.  But then I just end up resentful...|||EXACTLY!  I thought that I was the ONLY one.|||omg!  That is ME!|||I have also noticed in all of my past and present relationships that I behave emotionally like the man and in turn they behave more stereotypically female.    I'm very critical and people tend to...|||I didn't read this entire thread.  I'm an INTJ and I sure am different than everyone.  Less girly in a sense, but even more feminine in another sense.  People have always told me that they have never...|||Thanks Cookie Monster!|||Thanks everyone.  I still have to figure out the gold tipping!|||Another INTJ saying HI!|||Hi everyone.  I just wanted to stop here before posting anywhere else and say hello.    Interesting forum!    :happy:'