Hi, so I have a bit of situation I would like some advice on. In december I met this guy, he is about 2 years younger than me. He is a very sweet, happy and gentle person. Our first date was really...|||I love men that aren't afraid to be vulnerable.   Or better said: I love men that aren't afraid to show their vulnerability.  We are all vulnerable, most people just cover it up with a lot of...|||I don't think I ever consciously door-slammed anyone. I never really understood what people mean with that actually?  I have a tendency to stick to people way to long. Even when they make me feel...|||I would probably go for some very aggressive screamo. ;)  But this one is relaxing and sweet:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E7Mm6BtIs30|||Go home parrot, you're clearly drunk.|||Happiness and peace for the entire world.   If that's too much asked then just like NotAlone I could really use a pair of cozy socks. ;)|||I'm listening. How do I do that? ;)|||Yes this is annoying and exhausting. I want sex too. But I have to be strong haha I'll just end up getting hurt.:hampster:|||I obviously know that it's a lie. But if someone doesn't have the balls to be honest to himself, that is pretty sad. He pisses me off so much. I love it...|||Yes but why does he care? He was always telling me how he didn't give a fuck about other people and their feelings.|||I want more.|||I dated an ENTP guy for a while. Was all great and fun. After a little while he told me that he didn't want a longterm relationship right now, nothing serieus and that there were other girls. I had...|||Thank you for your optimist and motivational post.   I would really like to be more like you. But I'm afraid I'm not and I'm afraid I'm not a hot piece of ass either haha. I do try to go out with a...|||I'm from the Netherlands.|||My guinea pigs.  :octopus: http://i.imgur.com/sMKeWIb.jpg http://i.imgur.com/yl77IbJ.jpg http://i.imgur.com/r9aL6CZ.jpg http://i.imgur.com/AwafPKA.png  Oops didn't mean for them to take up so...|||For a long time I felt the same. At that point I became very depressed. I have always been there for the people dear to me (and even for people I hardly know) and for the first time in my life I...|||You have to get your head out of the clouds. Life is a bit boring, you have to try and find the beauty in it.   You can daydream about being famous, amazing, rich or powerful all you want. But you...|||I like to dress cutesy, I usually wear a dress. Sometimes with a bit if a dark/alternative twist. I like to dress unique, authentic but without attracting attention. So nothing too crazy or unique.|||I think I'm somewhere in the middle of all three scales.   I'd say that I'm more undersure but in other situation much more oversure. I'd say I'm careful but sometimes I really like to take a...|||Set realistic goals. If you shoot for the stars you will be disappointed, because you will never reach them...|||Make him feel comfortable and just ask him. I always feel encouraged to show my feelings when someone asks about them.   Good luck!|||If you don't want him exactly the way he is right now, you have to let him go. People do not change, or at least you may never expect people to change. You seem to have trouble with quiet a fem...|||I thought this was supposed to be a sarcastic treat? Not a place to talk about your sexual frustrations. ;)|||At your humble service my lord. Your wish is my command.|||http://img00.deviantart.net/fc0e/i/2016/110/9/3/unicorn_momo_by_shymori-d9zl03q.png :octopus:|||Hmm not today. Aks me tomorrow, maybe you'll catch me in a better mood.|||:lovekitty:|||You guys are funny. Stupid. But funny. ;)|||I tried that. No succes ;)|||I'd say a deer.  Or hello kitty. If that counts then definitely hello kitty.  :hellokitty:|||:hellokitty: If I do get pregnant. I'll drop off the baby at your doorstep.|||:sleepytime: http://i.imgur.com/X275fO2.png|||Hello there. I'm very sorry to hear you are struggling right now. If you're body and mind are telling you, you need a break. Then please take it. Otherwise you will only end up overworking yourself....|||Hi darling. I really feel you. For a long time I felt exactly the same. At that point I became very depressed. I have always been there for the people dear to me (and even for people I hardly know)...|||Is that how babies are made?|||You are most welcome. I feel flattered by your kind compliments. If I didn't know any better I would say you were flirting with me.|||If you could be a pinguïn or a strawberry, which would you be?|||Aah I love girly stuff. I really like the cutesy asian clothing style. Unfortunately I am a tall european girl and I'm not petite at all.   http://i.imgur.com/1PhTu9E.jpg     I would really...|||Haha not sure if joking or actually asking? ;)|||Yes exactly I don't even mind that he was seeing a million other girls. But he can't expect me to do everything the way he wants to. I think it's rude that he even't dared to ask that of me and I...|||I don't really know what you mean by this. Sorry English is not my first language.   I ment to say was my last relationship was a huge disaster. So I wanted to just do some dating, until I was...|||Thank you for your beautiful and inspiring words. I guess I just sometimes get jealous of insensitive people. Their lives seems to be so much more fur and easier. But I know that in the end you can't...|||Because I didn't want a relationship either and because we had fun together.|||Ok so I always end up getting hurt and I'm starting to get really tired of it. Rationally I know what I want and I try to keep my distance, but emotionally it just always seem to go wrong.   Half a...|||Darling don't worry. Young men might go after the really beautiful girls. But once they get a bit older they will lower their standards or just realise personality is more important. By the time...|||I do actually. :)  https://www.etsy.com/shop/shymori|||I like to sculpt tiny imaginary creatures and I like to draw. :blushed:  http://i.imgur.com/pI4OLW5.jpg  http://i.imgur.com/yQa87kH.jpg|||I have heard the same thing. I never thought of the people saying that as narcissists though. I always saw it as my fault, being reserved and not just opening up about my problems. Just because no...|||I can really relate to this. I'm sincerely interested in other people and that causes me to ask a lot of questions and end up listening most of the time. I really enjoy listening but I also find it...|||I feel lost too. But my friend, we are all lost. :)