'So, im gonna be the first ENFJ that has the honor to unfold the mystery  of your beloved ENFJ. :tongue:Well..i  just give my honest opinion...but you know..i could be wrong. It's just how i feel...|||you can experience an incredibly warmth of her/his heart passing through you, and you feel as though all your burdens and worries were being lifted. You can't help but being thankful for his/her...|||You know your an ENFj when  - You bf had such a crush for some beautiful girl. You knew about it, tried to compete with him by getting her attention. The girl ended up liking you and you ended up...|||And i was searching for the match between ENFJ and INFP. The higher was the first person i've seen in this site. He always has had some words of wisdom. :tongue:|||Hey y'all..i happened to say NO today. And guess what...it felt GREAT. I used to have a hard time saying no to people and let them take me for granted. The real issue is i didn't have a healthy...|||Wow, so your gonna be a doctor. It's very impressive, yet doesnt surprise me at all. I mean your such an insightful young man, there is no doubt about it.   You know Shakespeare once said in his...|||*Hugs.  I hope you feel better now hun. Trust me when i say i know exactly how you feel. These things happened to me so many times before, especially when im a middle of an argument between two...|||I do it both ways. lol.  I can be really shy, my heart jumps so fast and all i can do is staring at him/her with a smile (a little creepy huh?). Or i can be a complete dork, which means im all over...|||I wanna meet you :tongue:|||Oh yes, i did that all the time. One thing it's because of our defense mechanism defense is strong. I do that to let my friends know that i have other special friends too.  Maybe we are not that...|||I appreciate all the insightful posts in this thread. I found them amazingly accurate on some degree.  Alright, i have problem bonding with people too just so you know. It's still a mystery for me....|||You know ENFJs hate warfare of any sort. We will try to maintain peace and harmony even after we break up with you. However, if we see no hope to continue the friendship, we will cut you out of our...|||No, your not the only case...we are on the same boat..lol..=) Alright, i thought it happened only to me. =P I noticed it when i was a lot younger that when i was thinking about someone, that person...|||Love is when you look at the person and you see yourself in their eyes. It's when you ask the person to paint your nails and they end up running away :tongue:. You cry and say i want my space, i...|||Really? so you know him in person that's y your sure that he isn't an ENFJ...it's deceptive sometime when you just see a person thru the internet i know. Like i sound really mature/even- tempered in...|||You are right. There is nothing to do with the past since im here in the present. There is no point to cry over spilled milk. I appreciate your advice. I will try to do it next time when im down...|||Thank you all for the support, that's all i need  <3 BIG HUGS I love how you replied to me. Remember, i wanted to share my experience to y'all. I was comfortable talking to you about it. I wasn't...|||hmmm let's see. It's funny whenever i jumped in a middle of an argument. Don't take me wrong, i have my opinion and i know who is right/wrong but i tend to let their feeling overwhelm me. I feel...|||First of all, thanks for uploading the vids..they are awesome. I love the first one though, he's such a natural actor with soft soothing voice. You know, i think he's enfj - shy extrovert. You can...|||I've been in a bad state of mind lately to begin with. Self-absorbed, self-centered, delusional, irrational, illogical. Sometime i think we humans are machine- like. You fully function when your...|||Well, congrats. You found your type after all :happy:how do you feel being an ENFJ?|||Okay.  Setting: You walk to a vending machine, put in coins, choose a drink. The machine vends your drink and gives you change. Question: Which one will you get first: the drink or the money?...|||To be honest, i don't even like small talk and im an extrovert. lol..i think it can be nonesensical and superficial sometime. However, when i need to, i can ramble all i want and people believe that...|||interesting post! i love how you put your thoughts into words. It's fastinating. Then i come to realize how thinkers make so much sense to me...maybe im a thinker after all. lol Cheer to all the...|||Try the Wisdom of the Enneagram (INTP should be type 5). It's an amazing book. Or the Personality Types - using the Enneagram for self-discovery|||I know right? haha. It happened all the time|||OMG you guys are wild...hahaha...i know i know, you dont have to prove anymore. Im an ENFJ, happy? lmao..a boring but lovely cuz of ENFPs  @Rube: wait a min...are you hitting on me? yes you are...|||omg...guys!!! it has nothing to do with this thread:crazy:maybe you should write a new thread about ENFPs' enthusiasm...*wink wink*|||:tongue:Since when this thread is about ENFPs's awesomeness..?|||I don't know what to say...it'd be corny to say..you completed my ideas. :crazy:Yes, i definitely think there is something bigger than we can ever imagine watching us from afar. I would be really...|||This comment hits home..you know what, your def right. We're known for being witty, considerate, caring and all...in fact, we are the extroverts who care more about the depth of our minds than the...|||I like my eyes and my smile. :tongue:|||Don't you just hate it when it happens? lol..im jk. It's cool though you know. I bet he would love to be your type once in a while. We all want to experience life through the lense of the most...|||lol..i'd say ENFJs are crazy but ENFPs are crazier in a cute sense though. I love your enthusiasm and free spirit. You type is the most flexible, joyful, full of awe and wonder at the beauty of life....|||Oh, yea. i saw a few people were asking about the same thing in ENFJ forum eh? and you said its more likely for an ENFJ to ask if he/she is an ENFP, because an ENFP are pretty sure that they are...|||I believe she's an INFP... What can i say about her?  Except she's so intellectual, insightful, and depressive.  Alright, the last part isn't that attractive eh? =P But i am such a huge fan. I...|||You guys...i need your help. It seems to me that although ENFPs and ENFJs are completely different types with different functions...but i can't help but noticing the similarity. They are all...|||Wow..interesting...lol ...how so?|||This is interesting. I know INFPs are very creative and talented people. You guys bring beauty to the world and remind us of our deepest humanity that which is most personal, hidden, and precious...|||Dear Acey,  Why do you keep looking inward to look for the self? Let go of all the self-consciousness. You don't have to see it to know it is there..It will always be there you know. Even though...|||'Cause we simply belong to each other!... It was originally written by the Vietnamese singer Ưng Hoàng Phúc. Well, I translated to you guys as a welcome gift since Im new here and i love you guys....|||Lots of people undermine the power of mindfulness agree. When we're completely mindful, we will find the world colorful and full of hope. The magical solutions for our problems will eventually unfold...|||so i heard..its such a shame that people can't tell it. It's geography-illiterate lol. Oh man..how much i want us all to meet together!!!!!|||Oh thank you Abstract for the helpful tips, i've seen you all around this forum and it's so great to have you here.  You know...i think your right on the we are the product of your own creative...|||Hey Geeklett,  Believe me when i say you will be fine. All of these hardship happened for a reason and what reason could it be? expansion. It's time for you to grow and develop new skills. So don't...|||im in canada..anyone in canada?|||Oh..talking about humor. :tongue:my sense of humor can vary from totally dry, typical to the extreme - nonsensical, crazy, sarcastic, over the top kind of jokes if you know what i mean...haha. People...|||Im a 3w4 but i don't think it's not uncommon for a ENFJ to be a 6 (6w7).  I guess they are very bipolar, moody, indecisive and temperamental. At one point, they can be genuinely nice, warm hearted...|||That calls manipulation darling, yes we all are manipulative but it's not to the extreme of hurting someone you know..  I myself of the you know you should be a marketer a lot too..i think the...|||Im Asian too and goddamit, your psychic. I heard alot about INFPs being psychic but this is good, man..tell me about it:tongue:'