'Hey INFP's.  So, I love you guys. You fascinate me. you keep up with me and challenge me and you maintain a beautiful level of mystery. You love contemplating and exploring just like me but from a...|||I find my best solution is to isolate myself. Which I know sounds depressing but it's not, I just am better alone beacause I stress too much about things haha.|||Completely agree! I do this all the time with school. I'll write a paper and explain the things people would never have considered, but go over the important contextual aspects and the other thing I...|||Very Well put! I totally feel this. Ever since discovering myself as an ENFP I felt like that I have to know everything inherently or I'm not living up to my full potential. My life is very driven by...|||Hey, I had a similar situation about a year back (a little more dramatic, people were kind of mean to me about it) and I felt lost as crap too haha. I felt like I lost everything I was because I...|||Hey fellow ENFP's!  Question for you guys, I have read and heard all this jumbo that we as ENFP's are really good at inferring the hidden meaning behind things. As much as I do think this is true...|||Thank you for your insight! It is frustrating having worked so hard but you're right its not the end of the world. Life is only consistent in its inconsistencies. I am too hard on myself I think haha.|||Thanks for your insight. I never figured that a double major was a bad idea, but it really isnt for everyone. I'm feeling a lot better today, I have a great support system. But thank you for your...|||So, I'm a third year student in a double major of Biology and Humanities.  The humanties side of my degree I've always been inclined to, I get pretty much all A's with the occasional B+, I really...|||I said something and he told me my energy is overwhelming and he doesn't have a lot of energy lately. But still considers me a friend and is sorry but it kinda seems like bullshit to me...|||Hi fellow ENFP's. I have this issue I feel is common to our kind, I care way too much about what other people think of me. I'm constantly trying to please everyone to make everyone like me which is...|||I also wouldn't be opposed to being friends with benefits again because the sex was awesome but I don't know if that is something he'll believe me on|||It started out as a strict friends with benefits thing for me too, but when feelings changed I told him.   What do you meann appeal to logic? As in explain why I acted how I did. I don't have...|||Also I forgot to include that when I went to visit him I was hanging with one of his friends he invited over just casually talking to him and we decided to go swimming, and when I went to change I...|||So, I have a friend, I think he is an ENTP and we met and did the whole song and dance and started sleeping together. He was a confident for me and we were really close, he would cook me dinner we...|||I also would like to make a point. I agree harshness is a reality of the world but when I was in a bad state (which DID turn out to be as a result of clinical depression and a serious case of bi...|||Eh sorry for bringing this all up again. The point was to show I just truly feel like myself again and don't care anymore! Reading hurtful remarks don't hurt anymore on here. I just thought some...|||For anyone interested in the final story, I asked him if he had the book , and he told me he did and that when he looks at it he thinks of me and it aches and that everything meant more to him than I...|||I think I'm in the grip of my inferior si and I've been trying to break free but it's so hard|||Haha thanks. I've been having a crappy day and you cheered me up a bit . I think I know deep down you're right. I just wish it weren't the case. You're pretty cool. And yeah that's pretty much it. I...|||I have a question for you. He once told me that he (while crying) loved me when he met me, has loved me ever since and will never stop loving me. Would my actions have made that statement false you...|||Haha I didn't expect that. Well I texted too much and tried to blackmail him and if I had just walked away he wouldn't have told me to not talk to him again, I can assume. Which is the big climax of...|||I mean I've got to the point of just feeling like whoever I was and have become because of it is either not who I am or want to be and I'm scared of being that person at this point if I go back...|||Hmm interesting. I haven't tried to talk to him at all and kinda gave up but that's good to know! I think he's actually more of an F user sometimes. Do you mean that he would have to come back to me...|||Yeah I'm away 8 months of the year for school and it helps me be happier but I don't know about them. It may be easier in the same city, and I'm still pretty reliant on them. I think moving out will...|||My dad is easier than my mom and I think my mother influences him more with the cleaning. In your case I would say (from my experience with my father) he admires my independence but only when I use...|||I'm an ENFP who is very typical ENFP. I don't like cleaning or doing boring things at all and I tend to spend a decent amount of time alone in my room for personal reflection. My mom is (I'm pretty...|||Okay, I've been having sex with an ENFJ guy since october. It started out for sure just sex, and I often told him I thought he was a cool guy, good friend and attractive but I wanted nothing more and...|||I don't know if you've explored a thread I posted that got out of hand at all, but my two cents following a failed realtionship with and ISTP is this.   I notice a lot of the issues you have with...|||Nope how do I stop this from continuing lol?|||GOOD GOD STOP. Stop. Just stop. It's done, stop. Take the advice that has been given to me here and work on yourself, and walk away from toxic situations. And stop. For the love of god. Learn the...|||Yeah I moved beyond taking anything personally a while ago. Now I don't really know what the hell is happening. It's kind of funny now but I think (unless someone has some sort of advice that they...|||I sent her a facebook message apologizing based on the assumption he told the truth in saying he told her. I don't know the girl and she lives on the other end of the country so really that's the...|||I think this needs to stop. I hope you do well in life and I'm sorry for hitting a nerve with you.|||I came for advice and got 50/50 advice and then whatever the hell has been going on haah. But honestly some it has been very useful.|||I wasn't haha. I told him many times even if he chose her he needs to tell her.|||My exact text to the boy in question leading to the blackmail  [ISTP's name] I get that you're busy but you have either shown up hours late to our plans or not at all, even though you made the...|||So are you.|||The truth I speak of is telling me (someone who he claimed to be his unofficial girlfriend all of first year his words not mine) that he got a new girlfriend when the old one was clearly still hung...|||Implying I'm going to be a vengeful murderer is not okay and you know that. You came here supposedly to help me, and I'm confident you know that doesn't.   As well, everyone handles things...|||Did you ever tell her to not talk to you?|||I wasn't sleeping with him I wouldn't let him no matter how hard he tried while he was in a relationship haha. And I dunno because I'm an idiot haha|||Haha once again me to a T. Funny how similar we can  be hey?|||ENFJgeek I've been thinking about it and I actually don't think he's an ENFJ. I don't know if that'll do that much but talking to him will help no matter what I'm sure! Thanks|||I fully agree. Yes some people were harsh and likely to a fault guilty but that is why I came here. Kudos.|||Ninjaws, Dakitty, JB Nobody: Seeing as we are all looking to defend my honor which was formally either established or smeared by anyone of you, I'm going to make an effort to defend it myself.  ...|||Haha that made me laugh thank you! I will not deny that a few tears have been shed but it's good to get both sides. Many points were valid. I actually made an effort to apologize to the girlfriend....|||Very true.|||Thanks so much ahh :) It is true but it doesn't excuse my actions. Maybe to some extent they were justified but I should have acted like an adult. None the less you are very right it was a learning...|||I wouldn't sleep with him actually. I guess I never clarified that. One time when we were drunk I tried and he told me he didn't want our relationship to start this way. He tried a few times but I...'