'(Please excuse if it's rough around the edges, it just came out of me and I wrote it this last hour)  When I look out in the world to find someone I'd like to be with, of course there's little...|||For me Ne is very funny and fun.   Someone will be talking to me and Something happens, let's just say theres a rock on the floor, I kick it and then jump to the Rolling Stones, and then start...|||First off for anyone that reads his original post, though it may sound preachy it isn't his intentions and he is just sharing his experiences.   Keep in mind OP, when you follow faith and a higher...|||I meant Peter pan as an example not as a reflection of maturity, that my life seems glamorous to everyone and those around me, and I do enjoy it and love it, it's my passion, but to never be able to...|||To explain further recently I have gone through traumatic incidents but was able to stay strong and take the steps necessary to heal everyone and remedy it, there's still a greater and much harder...|||She won't see a therapist, and I've talked to her about this many times. She says she wants my father back that won't give it a chance (I've talked to him asking to give a chance and says he doesn't...|||I came out just in time my mom was hanging herself and dangling, I was able to lift her up and get her down this happened last night, and I am so terrified and no one will help. My father just keeps...|||At first I was so conflicted to do so I just have never felt so weak before. If this makes any sense if I feel I'm not strong enough for myself I can not be strong enough for anyone else, if I can't...|||[QUOTE=yippy;107449] Now I am going to be very direct and perhaps a bit blunt. Stop this. You are destroying yourself. Essentially you are being too strong for your own good and in the long run this...|||Right now I'm having a hard time I'm always the one to be able to stay strong, never complain, and ever need help. I've become a very emotionally independent person over my life and this is the 2nd...|||So here are just a few example was curious if anyone else has this problem.  Lately it has been happening more and more and there is two types I have and just wonder if anyone can relate to them...|||So me and this girl just reconnected again. We've known eachother for a really long time. We keep falling out of eachothers lives then reconnecting.  We always have fun, I get all tied up and can't...|||MeasureYour score Relationship Avoidance:75.5 Relationship Anxiety:72.5 Attachment style:Fearful and Shy   At this stage of your development in romantic relationships, you tend to be...|||95% of the time I just let it go and accept what happens never really cared about school didn't see it that important but if I was in your position and needed to control it (good chances I'd just let...|||Wouldn't want to be any other way I love me and all who I am ups and downs, must suck needing a reason for everything and being all normal. 😉😂  Also remember that's my point of view on it, doesn't...|||That right there is your problem, she is thinking a relationship is what you're after because of that.   We build relationships off of people we connect with, the above post is a classic move I do...|||No, through my pain and suffering is when I appreciate the happiness. It's when I learn, it's a feeling I embrace and love depression is something I need to be happy.   I also think I could never...|||For me it's the following.   Shallow (What I find pretty on first sight)  -blonde -green/blue eyes -slim (not skinny, but not big, bigger girls give me the impression they just don't care...|||Benny and joon Blow Big Fish Eternal sunshine for the spotless mind A knights tale Legends of the fall Meet joe black Troy Se7en|||Now same thing if you guys don't mind, I gave it a bit before responding, keep in mind I'm not trying to cross any boundaries and I'm being sincere in the questions I'm about to ask. If you don't...|||I love it, and yes sort of I mostly wanted to see how other people explained their days and what they highlighted if they were positive or negative things, if they realized that they were making...|||Now if you guys don't mind, I gave it a bit before responding, keep in mind I'm not trying to cross any boundaries and I'm being sincere in the questions I'm about to ask. If you don't want to answer...|||Awesome to see other people's point of views, we are the same yet because of Fi we are so different I love it. Thanks for that bit of more info.|||Don't worry you have stances, I think because you're extroverted you just adapt a little and don't get all jumpy about it.  And don't worry about being aimless, life is an open sea and goals are...|||So I am doing something and bear with me as I want to try something out.    So my day began early, I had a stressful call from my Boss saying that I am now promoted as the last person had quit,...|||I guess what I take from this the most is the whole friendship/companionship thing.  I would love to have more connections with people, I feel alone a lot of the time which is okay but sometimes it...|||I welcome it, but never really initiate it. If it happens I'll be happy and accept it, but I'm not looking for it.  Change is something that is always happening for me without noticing it and I'm...|||Hope the answers above helped if you got anymore questions don't hesitate if I can some how help, I'd love to.|||Well I think everyone's FI works differently, because of what they hold dear to them.  Me personally I don't show emotion, I may show the occasional smile or laugh but that is the extent of it. I...|||Apathy is when you have finally get what you wanted.  Loneliness.|||Thankfully I've been blessed with persevearance and the strength to fight my demons.   I'm sorry for your circumstances, could never begin to understand your struggle, but I am ecstatic that you're...|||I'm sorry for that, I live in the real world to nothing but people stabbing each other in the back to get ahead of one another.  I must admit, I admire you for being able to be open to a therapist....|||You're an INFP, you most of all should know that it is impossible to truly understand a person.  You can understand enough to get an outline of everyone (even those more guarded) but you will never...|||Pulling from what I just posted over on a different thread, hope you guys love them as much as I love them.|||Such a beautiful song  If I may be so bold could I just say something Come and make me my day The clouds around your soul don't gather there for nothing But I can chase them all away  Why...|||That right there, all of that.   And be prepared if you have an ounce of sympathy. I've gone through a relationship where I was consistently being texted she wanted to be with me but I never asked...|||100% fully agree, the internet has been turned into what the real world used to be, people being open, talking to each other, interested in each other, because on the internet you can find a place...|||Oh man I admire your friends, I couldn't further pursue school, just couldn't do it. Feels useless paying a lot of money for a useless class I'll never need. That's why I just took an internship and...|||Guess might be me looking for the best in people, maybe I'm just to close minded. I don't think I've ever not had a goal to strive for, or something about myself I can make better. I guess that is...|||Oh jeeze GUILTY I'll try my best to explain what happens to me.  We are all talking in a group (Except me usually just listening and chiming in every once in a while) someone says Oh my...|||I can 100% relate to this without a doubt, a lot of my anguish was from actually believing the best in people instead of just seeing the possibility and their potential, leading to me hurting myself...|||When I have an upcoming major event I definitely rethink of any and everything relating to it that has happened to me in the past.   I think it's the best way to learn how to deal with situations....|||Just really depends on the type of failure.   If me barely passing classes is considered a failure to others, it's an achievement for me. I am not great at school and don't see it's use after 5-6th...|||So I always had these grand dreams, I still do in fact but I look at it in a different light I guess? I used to be optimistic all the time I still see the best in people but I have a different way to...|||I am the one who:  Has 20 (unrelated) tabs open on my Internet and will go through a quarter of the article of whatever till I look up and see another tab's title then get lost into why I had that...|||Man thankfully I never really got caught up in my goals and achievements.  Of course I have goals it's just I figure I'll get there just give me a minute as I go run off 3 miles in the furthest...|||How I could see myself doing it if I was to ever trust someone enough to divulge would be to bring up surface hints about it, if they seem intrigued and want to know more I'll dip in another toe very...|||I just started and deleted how I started like 6 times so I'm just going to go right into it.   First and foremost for my happy future is to get married. To someone who I can truly feel I trust a...|||It's hard to take everything on your own I know I've done it all my life and will never change in that fact, you will figure it out and get past it. You always have before, I know it is hard when you...|||I usually don't trust anyone with my worries because of so heavy they are on me I couldn't imagine placing it on my friend, not only for fear of it being told to others, or scaring them away, or...'