'Don't get so caught up in a fantacy about your relationship being better that you forget to enjoy that it's good the way it is.|||I don't take revenge on someone who has wronged me, but I sure have fantasized about it!  I'm always plagued by the thought that this could somehow come back to bit me in the ass and I usually come...|||I think that on a personal level mercy is a better response to a wrong done.  However, I think that a judge in a courtroom should seek justice above mercy because he wasn't the one who was wronged. ...|||I'm feeling the same way about my very strong SJ MIL at the moment. :dry:  If you find something that works let me know!|||Selfishness, particularly of parents with their children.  Remember folks, you made the choice to bring them into this world, now your needs come second to theirs.  When my husband leaves one ice...|||LOL!  Yeah, that over thinking, just kills me too.  I think that's why the decision to have a baby was conscious, but the the actual making of a baby was semi-accidental. :tongue:|||I can sympathize with the lets get moving mentality, especially when I'm feeling pressured about studying for an exam.  Most of the time though, when I'm with my friends I really enjoy the chit...|||I wanted to be a mom since I was a little girl.  I had been married for about a year and a half when I got pregnant with my first.  It was a semi-conscious decision.    I had been thinking that I...|||If I'm being irrational the only thing to do is stand back and let me be irrational.  I have to calm myself down, the people around me can't do it for me.  Now, after I've had my rant I really like...|||I'm naturally a night person.  I used to stay up until three or four in the morning and sleep until noon.  Now I children who get up at six, so I've become a morning person by necessity:)|||My avatar is where I want to be right now.  I should be in that hammock, somewhere in the tropics.  I'm all done with winter already.  :dry: I hate the cold.  I haven't really thought about what I...|||That's a really good idea!  I took all of those classes when I was in college :)|||-Take my children on a vacation (not just a long weekend away) -continue loosing weight (only 10 lbs to go!) -get the house organized -paint the back rooms  Wish -for my husband to get a job...|||It seem like you're obsessing about something you have no control over.  You need to stop.  Now I can sympathize with constantly thinking about a past relationship and not wanting to let go, and you...|||This seems pretty fitting.  Although, I would not consider myself easily hurt or offended (or if I'm am I can talk myself out of being offended by looking at the situation from another perspective),...|||1) Playful 2) Funny 3) Sensitive (but only with me or those he's close too, otherwise...) 4) Strong and not given to emotional ups and downs (a man's man) 5) Independent 6) Protective 7)...|||Arizona, USA|||A teething baby, all I want to do is sleep!!!:frustrating:|||I'm a compulsive planner.  I'm most relaxed when I have at least a rudimentary plan in place so I can see if something is going off track.  I can usually go with the flow when some things don't go as...|||My socks have to match, otherwise I obsess about it to the point it's hard for me to leave the house.  I think that's why I love flip flops so much :)|||I'm seeing a pattern with INFJs walking fast.  I've been told on numerous occasions that I'm quick on my feet or to slow down.  I also prefer a casual yet classy style of dress.  I don't like to...|||Chocolate, the darker the better.|||My husband is ISTP.  Our communication is pretty good most of the time. When we actually have the time to delve into a topic we're pretty good at getting our points across so the other can...|||I walk a mile with pleasure, she chattered all the way But left me none the wiser for all she had to say I walked a mile with sorrow, never a word said she But oh the things I learned from her...|||The only question I really had trouble with was the sewing question.  If neither had been an option, I would have chosen that.  Sewing just doesn't excite me at all. :tongue:|||I met my ISTP husband at church ten years ago.  We've been married for five-and-a-half years.|||I enjoy shopping only when I'm in the mood and looking for something specific. It's pretty rare that I go to a store to buy something just because.  But, I will say that I can spend hours in a...|||Constantly!  I used to think I was crazy, then I found you guys!|||I read Assumptions That Effect Our Lives recently.  Very good book on how Greek philosophy has effected the mindset of most of western culture and the effects it's had particularly within...|||I don't watch a lot of TV these days but shows I've watched in the past are  Reba Dharma and Greg NCIS Scrubs Criminal Minds|||I have very few friends.  I have one friend, that is quite a bit older then me, and I know that I she will be there for me.  The other is an extrovert of some sort and I find it hard to connect with...|||This seems like such a ridiculous question, but I frequently forget to eat.  I usually don't even feel hunger pangs.  I don't notice that I'm hungry and need to eat until I start to get grumpy and...|||I can definitely relate to this.  When I drink I just tend to get louder and say stupid things, but I'm never going to be the girl with the lampshade on her head :)|||blissfulpeach,        I can sooooo relate to this.|||I'm definitely more visual than verbal.  I remember in collage I would get so much more out of reading my textbooks than the lectures because I could take the time to translate the words into a...|||I like coffee as long as it tastes nothing like coffee.  It's got to have cream and sugar, or better yet, a flavored coffee creamer.  I cannot stand cats though.  I use to have cats growing up and I...|||I can be messy and disorganized, usually due to lack of motivation.  However, I can only let it go so far before I can't stand it anymore.  Then I get stressed and I have to clean or I can't function.|||Getting my three year old to sleep. :tongue:|||I don't want to get up!  I'm going to bed at 8:00 tonight.|||I used to thumb them during my breaks when I worked at a store that sold them I forgot my book.  I can honestly say that I have never purchased one though, nor will I ever.  Such a waste of time and...|||I think the major problem with spanking is that a lot of parents don't understand how to use it properly.  No amount of spanking will make up for a lack of instruction.  If a parent has not taken the...|||I like these useless threads.  By the time I get on the computer I've been dealing with children, the house, and life in general all day.  Sometimes (not always, but sometimes) it's nice to be a...|||I can totally relate to this!  I still remember my first phone number from when I was in preschool and my address at the time.  This was 25 years ago.|||I go back and forth about whether or not I need to shave my legs today.|||I am not a natural dancer either.  I took a dance class at the local community collage a few years ago and did ok and really enjoyed it.  But I do lack the natural coordination to dance really well. ...|||1. My children 2. A clean house 3. Helping other people 4. Singing 5. Rain (living in a desert this is always welcome:)) 6. Finishing a project 7. Family dinners 8. Decorating my house 9....|||I'm pretty good at remembering the lyrics to songs.  In fact the first few times I hear a song, I concentrate on learning the lyrics.  For some reason knowing the words lets me enjoy the song even...|||I had a dream on Thursday that my MIL's dog attacked my son and he and I had to hide in the feed shed to get away from her.  It was very Cujo-esque.  Anyway, the next day she got out of the yard and...|||I'm a terrible driver.|||I do tend to over think things, especially in a conflict or with my children.   If there is a conflict, or the possibility of a conflict, I will go over every detail of what was said (or what could...'