'This thread needs more posts! It's the best :)|||Haha that's awesome :)  What about your avatar?|||Hi! I'm curious, what does your username mean??|||You're overthinking it! There are dozens of reasons why he might have not offered an alternative time and no amount of logic will yield an answer. It took me many years of frustration to finally...|||You remind me so much of myself I can't understand why I haven't come across your posts before. I suppose it depends on what you're looking for. If I met someone that could keep up with me and wasn't...|||Yes yes yes!! My life would be so much easier if more people understood this.|||Haha yup, stubborn and manipulative sounds about right :)|||Ditto|||Okay!    Should say I'd rather travel or I prefer to travel and there should also be the word be before able.   The word focusing has one s, not two.|||If poor grammar bothers you then why does your post have four grammatical errors??? :)|||I was involved with an ENTJ girl once. I had never felt such a strong connection with anyone. But we both brought so many complications with us and there were so many trust issues and power struggles...|||Haha we should write a psychological thriller.|||Aww...thank you!|||I generally believe that people should not try to force their advice or help upon others and meddle or try to make decisions for anyone but themselves. However there are obviously some extreme...|||Hmmm, that is kinda weird. I can see how an ENFJ might be a magnet for those people. Do you think there is some pattern you've created that is causing it?|||We can be a lot more lonely than we appear though...|||Well it's true for me. And I like your exclamation marks...  How sure are you that he is ENTJ?|||I agree.  I think ENTJ's are more reserved because they don't like to let themselves be vulnerable. I'm not as outgoing as most ENTJ's, but for me I very rarely take the initiative to connect with...|||Oh good, I'm sure you can help me with my ENFP situation then.  Being independent is definitely an ENFP trait. Which is good because ENTJ's are just as independent.|||Of course I'm right :P  I think based upon what you have described things are going pretty well with your relationship with him and you should hang in there and be patient.  I actually recently...|||Why do you say it is going too slowly? You have to understand that his slowness in moving forwards with your relationship does not mean that he is not interested. If you try to rush things and ask...|||You ask good questions :)  I don't see why he would hold that against you...it's not your fault that people gossiped. And while ENTJ's can hold grudges for a very long time, you will always know if...|||It's too soon to tell. Right now I miss both my ENFJ and my INFJ, but I have enough going on in my life that I'm not miserable.   Those sound like serious promises...but obviously there is always a...|||Define committed to. Earlier this year I was very interested in an ENFJ girl. I thought about her constantly and was very committed to doing everything I could to eventually start a relationship with...|||For me if I really like a girl, I prefer that they initiate at least as much as I do and it would take a lot for me to think they're coming on too strong...but if they are too strong or pushy too...|||Well I can describe how it usually works for me. Sometimes it takes me a long time like over a year to develop feelings for someone. Other times it can happen quickly like just a couple weeks. A...|||It sounds like he is interested in you. Most ENTJ's would not intentionally lead someone on. I would suggest talking to him about your concerns. Being an ENTJ, he should have no problem giving you a...|||You're such an ENFJ :P Good at anything you put your mind to, but terrible at asking for help or letting people see that you could use their support. Sometimes you just need to take off the mask and...|||Because you're an ENFJ :b   But it's ok to be someone else every now and then :)|||It's not crazy or selfish. I've been in the situation you're in a couple times. I sort of am right now actually. But spending time with friends and keeping myself busy makes things a lot better.|||I have never dated an ESFJ, but I have often been surprised by how well I get along with them. I'm not sure what it is that draws them to me. I think a relationship with them would lack the depth of...|||I knew it!  :tongue:|||Now look what I've started :b|||*hugs*  You are not a weakling. There are far more words that I've never let out. It isn't easy to open up when things feel so intense. It gets easier though.|||*hugs*|||*hugs*  You remind me of myself :) I like uptight straight laced people. Especially ENFJ's :P|||Nyfiken! I'm so sorry. I hope things get better for you. Message me!|||I'm sorry :( I'd love to talk if you want to. *hugs*|||Haha that was my 2000th post apparently. So consider yourself lucky Happy about Nothing. :P|||Well I really hope things get better for you soon. I definitely don't think you're a failure. :)|||Yeah that can be really difficult. I've gone through a similar thing and my life is still a mess because of it. You always overthink what people will think about your actions and how you affect them,...|||I suppose they can by bitch-like occasionally, but my ENFJ friend is the kindest, most trustworthy, and caring person I have ever known. And if they are manipulative it's almost always for your own...|||I don't have someone like this right now. But I definitely think an ENFJ would be the ideal MBTI type for someone for me to be completely open with and share everything with.|||You probably know how to get him to talk to you again better than I do. Maybe just be persistent and hangout around him or tease him until he decides to talk?|||Well you're lucky to have found each other. I hope it works out for you. You seem to have a much better idea of what you want than I do haha.|||He's probably frustrated with how difficult the situation is between the two of you and all of the disagreements. I'm sure he wants the same happy fun teasing that you do, but remember, he isn't as...|||But maybe if you have to remind yourself to be happy, that you're not really happy? It's natural for ENFJ's as well as other types to become unhappy if they are alone for too long. In the past what...|||I like these questions. I'm not sure how useful my answers are though. I guess for me I have to be busy and work on stuff in order to be happy. But work alone does not bring me much happiness....|||Lol, fine I'll change it.   freezeframe Can I copy yours?? :D|||But it hasn't been a month yet :P'