'probably chiming in real late, but if he's an ENFP, or at least much more extroverted than you are and isnt taking the initiative, you should probably move on.  ENFPs are determined to get what they...|||In my personal experience, ENTJs are not my type at all. I admire ENTJs because they're usually determined and ambitious, and they never let anything get them down while they're striving for a goal. ...|||I resent that I'm an INFP occasionally because of my strong fixation on Fi, makes it hard to connect with others, but I do appreciate the high self awareness I get to experience. I think ideally,...|||I went out with an ENFJ twice, but he was just so obsessed with Fe, and being proper and normal and conforming to what dates were supposed to be like, it drove me mad. I also feel that a lot of the...|||I'm not an ENFP, though we do share Fi/Ne, but I definitely do this.  I would probably call it social experimentation in the most ethical way though, I tend to drop stories or ask for advice, say, I...|||I'm personally drawn to IXTX types, though the main bias seems to be for T's (theres an ESTJ somewhere). Probably because they hold deep secrets because they're T types and I find that a lot harder...|||Why I'm single.. There's another thread which is kind of similar to this but this is a little more specific.  INFPs can be quite dreamy and picky with people, especially because they're so...|||*are you choosing to be single?   I wouldn't say I'm 'choosing' to be single as much as it's just been a massive compilation of 'just not good enough', or 'it didn't work out'. As relentless SX,...|||For a while I was interested in an ESTJ, and we had a little bit of discussion about our attraction. I was quite forward with her, and I admired her brash straightforward personality, I wasn't huge...|||-How well do you normally handle break ups? I'm pretty self dependent, but of course, what would an INFP be if not indulgent in their emotions? I mope around a bit, emotionally try to distance...|||I've always unknowingly befriended N types, but in terms of kindred spirits like platonic soulmates/spirit animal type deals, I'd say INFPs usually always hit the mark and then INFJs are a close...|||I think after being involved with two different INTPs, it really depends on your INTP.   Depending on the extremity of their 'E' personas (if they have one) and since the functions are their Ti...|||maust I used to be exactly like your sister, kind of the 'those who burn brighter, burn twice as short' type thing.  The INFP's you meet are probably the ones who are more adept at blending in at...|||Describe the very first things that jump out to you in this picture. game art concept -art style wise- chiaroscuro   thought about that movie where the guy gets stuck between a rock and mountain? ...|||I think when you start overthinking what people are thinking about you, it becomes incredibly 'socially awkward'.  Coming from someone who used to become exhausted with conversation at school, I...|||Cantonese INFP, from Hong Kong.  Also I find that our caring and not really concerned about buisness/lawyer/doctor professions and unwillingness to be fake often drives us apart from 'asian'...|||Eh I've done it before, but it's more sentiment. Like I would feel bad, and I'd love to help them out, and the one person I dated out of 'pity' ended up being a half physical fling with disastrous...|||Unless I'm somewhat sure that I have a chance with the person I like, I literally will not approach them.  I guess if you can spot an INFP tracking down the person they like (usually I visually...|||SO as an INFP who's weirdly addicted to T's, I always feel insane frustration with dealing with them. So. Does any INFP have practice dealing long term with a T partner? I've gone through nearly all...|||Finally told the ISTJ boy I've liked for months that I liked him, to find out that he liked me too. Listening to bootlegs of my favorite singers in the best musicals ever. Having pad thai for...|||I'm not an INFP so forgive me. Yes I take care of my appearance but it really depends on my mood, one thing though - the way I dress must always adapt with my personality and I'm usually into the...|||Most probably an XSFJ leaning towards I.    My mom is an ENTJ and it's the worst thing to deal with. We don't argue THAT much (I'm more passive) but she seriously ticks me off when I'm stressed....|||I would say any extreme T, J or E would drain my energy, because S is the only type which can't drain me.... because that's the intake of information. J's are particularly fussy in terms of...|||oh YESS all the time. I see some awesome people on tumblr or at uni and i just wanna be all like.  we're best friends now. you can never leave.  but then sometimes i just don't because that would...|||haha! That's exactly what I'm learning.  Though I think it might be another year until he'll ever say we're dating or anything of that variant unless I get super frustrated and upset and push for an...|||-coughs-  SO I finally cleared things up with ISTJ boy. I got a little bit anxious, and so I wouldn't tell him something (and I know he loves knowing answers) and he kept persisting, and asking...|||Anger, frustration, stress, depression, paranoia and panic. I'm usually all over the shop, but the negative emotions really get me so I usually have to talk to someone to blow it off.  I'm not so...|||Listening to Broadway and neo-soul while I procrastinate sleeping and doing transcriptions for linguistics. Debating about writing stupid poetry about crushes and talking to friends and tumblr-ing. ...|||Depends how much it is, and how often I'm exposed to them. If we're talking general just arguments, me and my ex don't get along well if we talk for a long time, or on certain topics, but usually if...|||Lowering expectations. Dulling emotions (as someone else said.)  Usually it failed. Though in terms of relationships and life in general I'm generally quite jaded.  When I am sad though, I mope...|||I really don't have that much of a happy romance story. Nor do I have a partner at the moment. But I can tell many many stories of depressing failed relationships.   I don't know, what's...|||aha. we lie. evidently. good line. Alright, to get down to buisness. IF your INFP is anything like me, I'm guessing she's also having a ball of a time trying to figure out what the hell you're...|||Actually before my first relationship, I had never experienced intense sexual desire. After it, I kind of noticed that it became sort of need for desire.  I personally don't really like the process...|||I have to say, I probably agree with the subtle attacks. When I'm pushed to the edge, my anger sort of can't really be vented out at a quick enough speed, and if it's more complex, such as to someone...|||Honestly, being someone else is so normal. I've been creating and building myself based off characteristics of fictional characters, fanfiction and other people since I was young.  Sometimes I feel...|||I love spontaneity, but I also love cliches.  Going to an art gallery, or really interesting shops. Beautiful exquisite places I am a complete sucker for, cute little cafes, perfume shop decorated...|||Sherlock (Benedict Cumberbatch's quirks are my favorite. I even become more attentive after I watch it. Weird absorbing INFP habit?) Brooklyn Nine Nine (unexpected favorite) Orange is the New Black...|||I'm very much a fanatic about MBTI typing, but only because it makes me much more understanding of their behavior and I can adjust my thinking patterns to suit how they understand concepts and what...|||Well this is pretty much why I'm asking. For an ISTJ, I reckon to him it's not that big of a deal, but for me as an INFP, I get really happy about the fact that he's concerned. However, I'm a little...|||I keep a soft copy of a journal I've had since 8th grade, but I always switch up online blogs, tumblrs and little places I can just keep my opinion and drop it somewhere to rant it out.  Nobody...|||Dear ISTJ could you please please realize that I like you, and you're the best thing that's happened to me since I got a phone? I just want to spend time with you, get to know you more...  Cmon, I...|||Commitment phobe 10/10 accuracy. Can't be with one person too long, get too anxious. Normally relationships fall apart, maybe I lose interest, or the other person does.  I can't commit to people if...|||According to your questionnaire responses, your attachment-related anxiety score is 6.56, on a scale ranging from 1 (low anxiety) to 7 (high anxiety). Your attachment-related avoidance score is 2.27,...|||Well, yesterday he asked me if I was free and if I wanted to do something together. Lately he's been a little more concerned about me (such as offering to get rid of a guy who seemed to be hitting on...|||Make sure you keep an open eye out for anything that might spurr an INFP's interests.  For me, it's anime, shows, broadway/musicals, makeup, singing, even tumblr.  If you can get them exicted about...|||Do you want to get married?  I would, but I'm quite scared of commitment and I know, I am actually a shit girlfriend, most likely wife and don't even get me started on being a mother. I do however...|||I'm not a drinker, though I do love meeting interesting people at clubs. However, I went with a friend once and got mouthraped by an Italian guy on holiday (which was not fun, such a turn off,...|||I feel more comfortable with showing strangers I trust with my writing. There's something about the anonymity that just works, because my writing is such a personal subject. The only other people who...|||uh, i've always had more unrequited love situations and crushes than actual relationships (because I rarely act upon my deep seated obsession which would probably scare people away.)  I usually day...|||I used to be the type of person who believed in one soul mate, and only one person would be really amazing for me and they'd show up and I would just KNOW that they were the one. As I grew older, I...'