'I am 24. I have had one relationship... it came out of nowhere and I think was me in a spot of desperation. it lasted 6 months until I broke it off because I finally realized I was trying to keep...|||I would say INFJs are very stereotypical introverts in that we really need our alone time and only have a small circle of acquaintances. (I can count my friends on one hand) That being said we can...|||As a 24 y/o INFJ male I would say you are not door slammed at all. You have to make us mad or despise you to get door slammed, it does not appear you have done that. I am terrible at making a move or...|||Hospitality management  INFJ  not the right job for me at all... but it pays the bills. I'd rather do something like environmental science or teaching/ helping people.|||I am a Housekeeping Manager. . . not that.|||I am Vegan now, so I would say I like my steak on the cow in a field mooing joyfully, but before I was a Vegan I prefered it medium-rare to rare.|||Do you test really high on introversion when you take the test. My introversion percentage is only moderately introverted. not to mention everybody is different and nobody fits a type perfectly...|||It would be fun to see what you make of this. :) what do they say about people who has 0 consitency about the way letters and numbers are formed?  ...|||I would say that is relatively correct. Most people who know me but are not close to me think I am an extravert. I generally describe myself to people as a social introvert. Though I am social in a...|||I have, in part, given up on understanding anything. Instead I have moved onto exploring things and learning everything I can about them. It doesn't matter what the answer is, what matters is to...|||I have one on a girl that I have had for literally 10 years and I am 22 now... kinda pathetic right? It is just not possible as we live a thousand miles apart and our lives are going separate...|||currently 0 though I have about 5 people that I am friends with on some level. And maybe 15 acquaintances.|||Money can buy some sense of security which security enables happiness. So indirectly money can buy happiness. there was a study that showed that after 75k a year you no longer gain happiness from the...|||Hospitality Management major,   Housekeeping manager|||There is a form of meditation which revolves around a similar concept. To make a very complex matter simple I will put it like this. As you meditate you don't stop your mind from thinking as most...|||welcome to the forums and yay INFJs!!! lol|||oldest of two|||la_revolucion I would go off on my teachers too! LOL I remeber one day, I can't believe I didn't get in any trouble, in 6th grade where I got my grade from my teacher and I was not at all happy with...|||That is better put than I said,  I should have said outwardly calm. Inside i'm cussing up a storm and punching the wall. lol|||That is scary such a random list to have so many similarities on and the also lack of follow through on them. When I was a kid my mom joked that I had a list of jobs I wanted that was 1000 pages...|||This is SO TOTALLY me. It kind of goes back to my renaissance man ness of myself. I want to learn about a lot of subjects and I do but I never get very far into any of them. I will learn enough...|||How calm are you? When I was a kid I was very not calm. I was easily irritated and would pitch a fit like nobody's business. In high school I changed completely and now that I am in a career I am...|||No I would not like myself. I am really judgmental. I make ridiculous jokes that just drive some people nuts. And I am just really difficult to understand and I can be standoffish in friendships.|||This is my exact sentiment. Some day I CRAVE being the best drummer in the world but then I remember that while I am not the best I can probably repair a plumbing leak, bake a cake, and tell the...|||You know what, thank you! I think you hit the nail on the head for me. I do care that I am understood but I think over all sometimes I just don't and it shows. It is a slippery slope to slide down. I...|||I guess being called a Renaissance Man in jest by many people I know might hint at me being a bit of a polymath . Though I don't really think of myself as that, I just call myself a jack of all...|||I hate grammar!!! I know proper grammar and I did really well in school, but I really really really struggle with applying it in everyday life. I am a bit of a grammar freak but I never use proper...|||I love it. Literally anything baking, welding, painting, building computers, building sound systems, sewing, cooking, you name it if its hands on I love it. I had a long talk with my career counselor...|||DeepDownImShallow   Great post! Reminds me of my metal thread I started. Love how it relates so well to this post, and a fantastic group at that.|||I hate television. I used to watch more than four hours a day in high school when I lived with my parents who had a TV. I never enjoyed it though. It was just something to do. I got to the point...|||Hi guys and gals,   I am wondering what your all thoughts are on technology and staying updated with it. I have a hand-me-down smart phone, no TV, and I don't want the newest and best anything......|||I started driving on farm land when I was 10. So I don't really remember to much of how it was. That being said I still hate driving to this day. I am completely comfortable driving I just don't...|||I actually want to get good at it. I hear it can really help you. I don't know maybe when i'm older.. As a way of life, I can actually respect that. Just don't know if its right for me.|||This is just my view on this and total speculation I hope i'm not going off the deep end here. I believe that was her form of protection. It is safe to hide behind books and logic and until she meets...|||stormelc we need somebody else on your side I feel like we are teaming up on you:-p    I have very limited interactions with people if I can help it. I find it a bit of a flaw in myself. I want to...|||I am on the fence with this I love meditating but if this gives you any indication I do not do it on a regular basis at all. I actually freaked myself out once meditating. I hated it and didn't...|||red means no LOL yellow means sort of (as in probably yes but I am denying it)  green means abosofreakinlutley  Black means yes but not a defining trait.|||Yes that! oh if you could as my roommates about my arguments. They think I am off my rocker because I have such bold statements and fantastic ideas, but I can't back them up in a way that they...|||No don't feel sorry! This is fun! I like the discussion and if I appose your view point it is because I think all angles need to be discussed/ explored.   While I agree with you that you can't type...|||@Perspicacious I Do have to agree sadly. Sexism and several other non desirable traits do tend to be rampant in the Metal community. I think that while Metal heads are a tight knit community there is...|||I can be dark but I have never been close to goth. I tend to internalize my own emotions and don't wear them on my sleeves for the whole world to see. I think Goths tend to be more sensing types and...|||I'm sure their is but I don't know who, if I tell the wrong person I might as well just have a meeting with the whole team. I personally feel he is an ISFP but not so according to him. He apparently...|||Well to add to my story of why I started listening to Metal was that in my sophomore year of high school I was in marching band and indoor drum line  Our Drum line instructor was a guy by the name of...|||I am an INFJ yet I am very logical and will stand up for something I am passionate about to the point of absurdity. While I use logic, I arrive at logic through use of my Ni if that makes any sense....|||INFJ Gryffindor! (every time I say it I say it like the sorting hat)|||shadowkissed not to derail the thread too much but Hermy where Hagger? warms my heart to no measure. It is probably one of the most touching parts in the book for me. There is so much emotion in...|||shadowkissed I am with you! Hermy one of us! She is what made me love the series...|||Sorry for seeming to quote everybody but you all make good points and have good thoughts!  I don the same. Metal is a destresser for me. If I get worried or worked up metal seems to calm me down...|||I hear people say that all of the time. I agree there are bands that I can't understand the singer but its mostly Metalcore or screamo. Truth be told I can tell you what most bands are saying for...|||Well I used Death Metal to be more universal but I actually have several types that I am in love with, Doom Metal, Folk Metal, Power, viking metal, thrash, and others. Basically the more powerful and...'