'My daughter says much the same thing, albeit far less eloquently.  And I don't disagree.  In her case, she needs to work more on her delivery than her reasoning or intentions.  I'm hoping tact is...|||That latter part has a very familiar ring to it, doesn't it, Aubbs?|||I wish I was well-versed enough on the cognitive functions to answer this, but I don't feel qualified there yet.  I'm looking forward to what others have to say about it, though.   It's interesting...|||I'm with you on this one.  And I've found that when I'm with someone who's insistent on knowing my every thought and feeling, I start to feel violated, crowded, claustrophobic, and just completely...|||Yes, well, sometimes that's the point, isn't it? :tongue:  As for the OP topic, someone who's male, intelligent, reasonably fit, not overtly emotional, and loyal would be my ideal.|||Hahahaha, you weren't kidding!  That's awesome.|||Obedient, eh?  You do realize this comes perilously close to describing a dog, right?  Hahahahahahaha, an obedient mate would bore you to tears in less time than it would take me to fetch the...|||Thanks, EmmaN!  Have fun and kick @ss on your holiday running streak.  Hope you had a lovely Thanksgiving, too!  :happy:|||I started Thanksgiving Day by doing this with my sister, like I now do every year (as of a few years ago), and, happily, my ISTJ daughter joined us this year:  4.748m Manchester Road Race in...|||This was really interesting.  They didn't even list the option we use around here for the long sandwich (unless I missed it). Sometimes we call them subs, but more commonly we call them grinders. ...|||You are absolutely right.  I think that's why I like to chime in on type-interaction threads with alternate viewpoints.|||You didn't suggest otherwise, so no worries.  My post was purely conversational, no rebuke intended.  :happy:|||You might be surprised.  I worked closely with a probable xNTJ and we made a great team and loved working together.  He was the team lead and I ended up kind of like his right-hand man, so to...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ga94wVeFBac|||Well, someone was feeling a little nihilistic last night...yikes!  :P   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7DFBM0xM-zs|||I've raised an ENTJ (my oldest daughter) and recently befriended an ENTJ from this site.  Everything I'm about to say is pertinent only to the two I know and is not intended to be applied to every...|||Here's a classic that will forever be among my Top 20 Songs of all-time.  Just absolutely freaking gorgeous.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fiEOB2O8eMs|||Who are you and what did you do with the real Aubbs?  Hahahahaha, you know I'm kidding.  Like anyone could ever get the best of you long enough to take your place, body-snatcher style. :wink:|||She definitely sees you as the alpha, so your offer is a welcome one.  Tomorrow, Raven and I are going Kizzy-less.  She had her fun today, and Raven and I have some training to do tomorrow.|||Mr Canis  Remaining 3.  The first two are of the running/hiking/biking trail at the park and there's something about the look of it that conjures images of the Headless Horseman chasing down...|||Went to Bluff Point with my daughter Raven (type ISTJ) and our dog Kismet (type Lunatic), and took some photos of this lovely place.  The dog was especially uncooperative today, so we weren't able to...|||Dear ESTJ,  You would have been 39 today.  I miss our talks and our jokes, your integrity and your zest for life.  I mourn for the potential you had yet to realize even as I marvel at the wonder of...|||Heard this on the way home from work today, and, I don't know, it just really got to me.  Just lovely and sad and moving.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iC8tP9Oo52Y|||Hahaha!  You are so right...not an ENTJ singing, lol.  This actually could be an INFJ singing...   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7I9-cvxXNC0|||Most of the time, when I read Aubbs 's posts on here, I'm both cringing and laughing simultaneously.  Which isn't a comfortable thing at all.  I'm not really sure how someone like me produced...|||There are few things in life that can infuse you with renewed optimism the way making a new friend can do.  Especially when it's the kind of person who makes getting to know them feel akin to finding...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N_49uyhBIpI|||Congrats, monemi!|||Today's musical obsession, and strangely relevant ;)   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GCdwKhTtNNw|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dtkbfkmW808|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTbZeTaEn0I|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C8QJmI_V3j4|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8OB28fTKSds|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCJpSumxYYo|||Here's another favorite (I warned you there were a lot):   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OmxiEvpwkwI|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xBIcZtrNb5I|||Oh, my god, I'm dying...I can't believe that's an actual song! Hahahahahahahahaha!   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Akx0Z0lb0Cg|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5djkVhLjw18|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Al9WmowJ3bQ|||Are you jelaous of other's lives?Being Too Nice...|||Hahahahahahaha...well, one good turn deserves another...   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8eXaXoUJRQ|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kS8SH5seD6w|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SotTAs9hEM|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o-0Oect0nVQ|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aEs3nmP_oSM|||And we come full circle, lol =)  And part of the reason I'm posting this link is because the youtube comment from Petra just made me laugh so hard that I'm literally crying right now.  Oh, my...|||I don't know what it is about this song, but I love it and I love singing it:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SaAAk-uSKhk|||Segue time! (But there's a link, so it's fair.)   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBnhWxvjdsY|||Well, that's depressing ;)    Dude, I wasn't trying to do ENTJ...I was playing off the edge part of your entry, smart aleck :tongue:  But in this new spirit of depressing, and keeping to...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4qlCC1GOwFw'