'Oh boy, I am lazy compared to all of you :frustrating:  He he, but I am working on it, honestly, well, sometimes, when I remember, or can be bothered, or am not distracted by other things......|||Has anyone read any Jennifer Crusie novels?  Pure guilty pleasure but I am fairly certain some of her male characters are ENFPs :)|||You know youre an ENFP when you are giving personality cafe a rest but you need to keep coming back to keep your pet alive! :blushed:|||ENFP magic is right. Whenever I had coursework it would be last minute, but put me in an exam and I am on fire. I think I need the adrenaline kick it gives me, I do consistently 20% better in exams...|||I am an ENFP and I wish I could get the right balance between deep and meaningful and silly and frivolous.  And 'him', I wish he could notice all the potential for the two of us.|||I am an ENFP and I wish I could be better organised!  Today I am at work with chipped nail varnish, a t-shirt that isn't warm enough for the weather and, before I left the house, the red dye that...|||Oh my gosh, this ^^^^^ :blushed:|||Ooh, someone has an axe to grind.  The MBTI is not an excuse for bad behaviour, you may have tendencies due to your personality type but you are in charge of your behaviour. This means an ESTJ has...|||Hey, sorry you have had a bad experience, we can grow up and over time ENFPs get better at the commitment thing, hang in there :)|||Ooh, I dont think that is true at all! ESTJs arent evil, they might be people who are a little more on the bossy side but they are also loyal, devoted friends or children or partners.|||Thanks Llanis, and thanks to everyone else, I am still none the wiser. I don't think he knows I like him, I don't think he likes any of my friends, I think he wants to have a relationship but is...|||Definitely at social events I try to be the person that joins groups of people together e.g. Oh, you like cars, you should meet my friend Bob, hey, Bob, come over here a minute, this is John, you...|||I know! And Rube! lol|||girl :crying:|||You know, not a typo at all. And it doesn't mean the same over here. It means badly organised, same deal.  so :p to you smartass, he he, did I mention I am a pain in the ass?|||Ooh, interesting  Strengths Bubbly, fun, always up for a laugh Able to empathise with other people at a moment's notice Good at picking up other people's personalities and reading them well...|||Hey, I don't know if this post was referring to me, if so, I don't think if you read what I put that I was judging him. People in the UK don't have guns as a rule, and if they do they are not...|||Wow, it might just be me but he sounds like an idiot, whatever type he is he has messed you around and I'm sorry about that :frustrating:|||I think that bit is brilliant! The noise is great :)|||I have a lot of partially read books but if I really like a book I will read it almost non-stop, often missing sleeping to do so.  Books I love-  all Terry Pratchett, The God of Small Things, Bill...|||Who is the moustache dude?|||I think sometimes you guys can spend a lot of your time in your own heads and I like to be out and about and in bigger groups of people. I would rather have 10 people around for dinner and playing...|||Are they supposed to be like a story? I really don't get what it means. The one looks embarrassed, the other looks like he is stuffing his face, what is the message of it? That we have bad impulse...|||Ooh, I recommend the hair thing. i do that, relationship end normally means new hair for me, I let the hairdresser do pretty much what they want. And much less permanent than a tattoo!|||Bake bread. Seriously, it is brilliant, very soothing.  From scratch...  Do it|||Yeah, not really what I was looking for there, if you look at my suggestions they were all quite creative things, nothing heavy, otherwise I would have said ENFPs, what websites can you suggest to...|||I make sure that one of the first things I do on a Sunday is to look at this site  This site has some very clever, very funny posts. I don't always get them though, too much Maths and Computer...|||Yeah, I don't live in a country where people leave weapons in the corner of their bedrooms... I find it very disturbing. But that is a whole other topic, it was just what stood out to my eyes when I...|||If someone IRL told me that everyone liked them and they didn't know anyone that disliked them I would probably like them a little less for seemingly being a little arrogant!  I think that if you...|||I don't understand the top one, with the chocolate. :blushed:|||Iggy, Cat and Dog pretty cute :crazy: Rifle in the corner, pretty scary:shocked:|||When people burp or fart and then don't say excuse me, get some manners!!!!|||I don't like when the dry things on my plate get in the sauce when I'm not ready. Like gravy on my yorkshire puddings   And I don't like people who drive in the middle lane on the motorway when...|||Live authentically. If you get everything your heart desires but can't look yourself in the eye it is all worth less than nothing|||Totally! I read some posts on the ENFP forum and I am like Dude, get a little humility. I know we have a pretty cool type but you don't need to go on and on about how cool you are!|||IGGY, STOP POSTING PICTURES OF EVIL CLOWS. IT IS NOT COOL AT ALL! It freaks me out and makes me cross. ENFPs gone bad don't become like that at all, it isn't relevant and putting that much stuff up...|||I am an ENFP and I spent the day dressed as Cobweb the fairy from Midsummer Night's Dream at Chatsworth Hall (Pemberley in P+P!)  It was immense! We had a picnic, I baked the bread, and cookies,...|||Musikaman, the reasons I started the thread are many 1) other types have them and I have posted on them, seems only fair to hear other people's sides of the story 2) I am easily offended (see my...|||Ooh, I think people should be able to vent about what they find annoying here :)|||Oh my goodness that is beautiful! :crazy::crazy::crazy:|||I thought there was a thread about this but I can't find it!  I am all about the self-improvement so let's have some constructive criticism to help us out.  :crazy:|||I have a good ESTJ friend and he is hilarious, one of the quirkiest people I know. He can be a little fake-aggressive when he is talking sometimes but is a real sweetheart. Very clever, remembers...|||Especially if your name is Brian...  :wink:|||What do you do for your 9-5? If you have one I mean. I think that having to be sensible during the day means I do like to let off steam after work and at weekends. If you feel like in front of...|||I can see the logic, but the way it looks often is Oh my goodness, this group of people do not deserve the wonder of my conversation and it is better for me to be on my own than be subjected to any...|||[check's profile] Wrong continent for me :wink:|||So does that mean that you like but don't respect ENFPs then?  :crying:|||I am an ENFP and I have, on my left forearm a collection of freckles which make up a perfect 2 about 1/2 a cm in height.   It just appeared last year and I love it! It looks like someone drew it...|||You guys all seem to have an idea of having an 'ideal friend' and looing for people to fulfil certain things.  What are those things you are looking for in a friend? So how often should they call or...|||I think men in general (though this is a sweeping statement so forgive me if I am wrong for some of you!) believe that if they tell you they love you, that remains true until they tell you it isn't...'