'I'm a hardcore INFP and I actually do well in the engineering field. I get to use my creativity, coming up with tons of ideas on how to approach all the technical problems, and I feel I add an...|||ForsakenMe This is such a great article. I didn't bookmark it before, and now I have been searching for it so I could re-read it! :D  But it's so sad that the INFP-ENFJ picture has disappeared...|||Wow. That was touching to read. Must be the best thing you ever could do - make tea, sit close to him, and not saying anything (no irony intended, I really mean this).- I have such a difficulty...|||I just realized something that's both ironic and a bit sad at the same time.  The situation where I feel the strongest desire and need to have someone really close to me, is also the situation...|||For NF girls only:  So before I start, I could say that I'm not a bit ashamed of being sensitive and emotional - it's one of my biggest strengths, and I would never even think about trying to...|||telepariah: I wish I could help you in some way.. You have done so much and shown an admirable patience and love. I can really feel how difficult it has been for you to not get your dreams respected,...|||Logic is often insufficient to help a lonely and hurt person. Logic tends to value results and knowledge higher than other people's emotions. The effect of this is that many 'strong leaders' and...|||I'd go for love - not a single doubt in my mind!  :)|||*|||I may mention my ninja ambitions 2 or 3 times, and if I conclude that you don't understand/care I will never bring it up again (unless you ask me about it). It would feel very nice to find a person...|||I feel sorry for the civilians. And I feel sorry for the soldiers.  Every death in a war is a tragedy. Even the Nazi soldiers were real people with real dreams and a real value.   A bomb that...|||What I say: Wow!! That's amazing! What I mean: That's so freaking awesome..seriously..that made a life-long impression on me and I will be dancing on clouds for days now. But if I show you how...|||I love this forum so much. Thanks for sharing, everyone!  :kitteh:|||A perfect description! I think I have experienced the same thing, but I can't remember what the color was like.  I can also become captivated by trees. Sometimes I disappear when I'm walking with...|||This is the fourth time it happens. I'm eating cereals before going to sleep, and suddenly time stops for me when I realize how beautiful the spoon is.   It's nothing more than an ordinary spoon,...|||Mercantilists,Pacifists,Academists  Science and education will hopefully create a visionary nation well prepared for the uncertain future. Pacificist since I want the world to be free from...|||This thread made me think. Sometimes I wonder if I would like to get back to my ignorant and 'innocent' state, the person I was before I knew about MBTI.  But I just realized that I've been typing...|||Padmé Amidala in Star Wars Episode II. *smiles*|||Coming in late, all the real girls have already been taken..   I'm a bit attracted to the little girl squirrel in The Sword in the Stone. She is cute, and she believes in lifelong romance! ...|||Without warning, my intuition suddenly generates a random thought that is completely offensive to me.  When my inner voice starts to verbalize the thought the following conversation arises: ...|||Talking about invisibility made me remember when I was in third grade (10 years old). The whole class was planning a surprise for our teacher (she was about to retire) and we were standing together...|||JASMINE Your last post brought tears to my eyes. THANK YOU!!!  I hope you realize that we are searching for women who are like you.   *NF group hug*|||http://d24w6bsrhbeh9d.cloudfront.net/photo/4129755_460s.jpg   hahaha. couldn't help myself.  ;D|||Hmm. I'm thinking about Lad and JASMINE (although I have a vague memory that Lad already has a SO).  Reason: Jasmine seems to have such a sweet personality, and Lad seems to be both imaginative and...|||INFP is like a bird. It will sit alone in its tree and tirelessly sing for you from a safe distance all day and all night.   If you put out birdseeds it will get excited and cautiously approach...|||Maybe someone will find this interesting.  I recently got a revelation about Ne.   It's a thing I have known about myself for at least 10 years (long before I discovered MBTI).  The thing is...|||Hello there. I just stepped out from the secure INFP forum to ask you a little question. Hope it's okay.  :)  How do you (INFJs) personally like adventures, travelling and going out on idealistic...|||Fairy Dust: I'm extremely afraid of debates and defending opinions (INFP trait - I can get trapped in Fi-Si-loops).  So I try to answer your questions with some I believe-points. Maybe that makes...|||Stamina of love. That is a fascinating wording (in a positive way).   Thank you again for this thread. It made me realize another aspect of God's multifaceted Love. It is both about stamina and...|||Thanks for the good questions. I try to elaborate, and feel free to ask again if there's still something unclear.  :)    Love towards the Son of God (worshiping God in various ways), is the basis...|||Interesting thoughts. It did perfect sense to me. I try to respond based on what I believe:  The Holy Land is the place free from misery, loneliness and the constant cycle of hurting others and...|||Why being me (male INFP) is difficult: There's so much inside me. So many dreams and visions and passions and longing for connection and so much life. But no one can see it. And if they can see it,...|||You Are Optimistic   You're the type of person who's always excited about the future. You think good things are in store for you! You hope that big things are to come, and you embrace change....|||This sounds so beautiful! I like the idea of going after your dreams without forcing everything to be 'perfect'. (because in 10 years, when you may have the money that's needed, you may have found...|||Absolutely!! Not only do I lose myself completely, starting to rock violently and doing all kinds of awkward movements. After a while, tears often flow from my eyes. I don't know why I cry so much...|||Thanks for writing this. I can relate.  Sometimes, in an attempt to connect with people, or in an attempt to describe my inner visions, I create a projection of my true inner self. This may not be...|||This is how the poem relates to me:  I am so often swept up in my internal world. Always seeking my passions. I love them more than anything. But sometimes I turn around and realize that there is...|||I get strong scores for 3, 4 and 5 and can relate to all of them. Especially 4w3, 3w4, 4w5 and 5w4.   When I first did an enneagram I was amazed on how accurate those four descriptions were (and I...|||Score: 30  10char|||I can relate to everything in your post. I'm also a 24-year old INFP Christian, and I struggle to find out how to reach my dreams despite my introversion.  I'm 100 % sure that we can change our...|||First. This post is NOT about supernatural abilities or spiritual gifts. (we could open another thread for that).   I remember that someone on this forum wrote that we INFP have the uncanny...|||Wounded Bird I know exactly what you're talking about, I've been in quite a few fi-si-loops myself and I'm deadly afraid of them because they can drain me of all my energy and last for more than 6...|||Let's see... Individualist. Don't follow the crowd. Novel ways of living. Challenge the norm. Don't trying to be popular or trendy...  How does this explanation prove that introverts are not...|||-I don't find you attractive, but don't take it personal. -You know, you're really annoying when you do that thing, but don't take it personal. -I have found that your personality is not compatible...|||That little P.S. may not be the intention though. It's not impossible that he'd be happy to see that you're still there when he returns from his extroverted mania. That is, if he is like me.   :)|||ThirdArcade I am very different from your INFP, since I haven't had any previous relationships.   But for me: I sometimes feel a bit 'ashamed' about my introversion. Like: GAH, I've been lonely...|||@Oh_no_she_DIDNT I agree with your post.     Yeah. It regularly happens that I see a girl who is completely stunning. She could be a model, an actress, anything. But when she begins to speak,...|||Please don't see this as an attack. I'm only curious to hear your answer.  :)  Would it be equally unacceptable to reject someone based on (percieved lack of) intelligence, temper, opinions etc? ...|||Hope my last post didn't appear bragging. I just wanted to say that I believe it's possible for INFPs to be exceptionally good at public performances. I think that NF is a great combination for...|||I'm a hardcore INFP. Still, I believe I can be very charismatic and that I have the ability to give killer speeches to lots of people. At least people tell me this all the time. Not that I would...'