'Oh I have an INFJ friend. His eyes kinda light up sometimes, so I know what kind of spark you are talking about. I think we do the same. If we talk about something we like we talk faster,...|||I think what we look for depends on enneagram type, how confident and secure you are and love language. But I´ve just started reading about this recently so I´m not quite sure yet.  Oh and can...|||INTJ I admire them the most. They seem so smart, calculating, calm, collected, always one step ahead of you. Beating them in a discussion is impossible. They are a bit mysterious too, which I like....|||Green ^.^|||Why did it make you laugh? : P  Ok, thanks. Sorry for making a thread about it, I just wanna help him cause he seemed so lost. But if he takes care of it himself then all is good.|||Ok, so in my class there are two people I hang with. An INTP and an INFJ. All three of us are best friends. However, the INFJ seemed a bit troubled three weeks ago. I asked him about it and he said...|||I think my talent is drawing. And that´s about it. I have an eye for it, the lines and shapes are alive to me. If I draw when I listen to music it is as if I can feel the drawing and the music....|||Same here. I have an ENTP friend and he seems like a very deep person (when we are just the two of us we can have the most awesome conversations) and I somehow can´t seem to figure him out. Whenever...|||My best friends are INFJ and INTP. My friends are ENFP, ISFJ, ENTP, INFP and INTJ. My boyfriend is an ISTx.|||haha, waving hands right back at ya ^^ My friend went to their concert here in Norway (one month ago or something) and my god how I envy him.  Haha, same. I really like it. Also melodic metal, it´s...|||I´ve listened to Dream Theater, but never learned any of their songs. I know a lot of Evanescence on piano for some silly reason. Oh I love Dimmu Borgir. Makes me proud of being norwegian lol. Oh...|||Nevermind, did not see it worked out (ish) and replied to ur first post. Wish you the best of luck.|||I play guitar and piano. Played both for eight years, the piano is my absolute favorite. Tho metal and melodic, progressive rock, folk rock, heavy/doom. metal and so on is my favorite music genres....|||It can be a good thing also tho. I chose my ISFJ because he was so calm and stable and I thought he completed me. He was always there to relax with me, which is a good thing since I´m so energetic...|||Removing some of the text in order to keep this post a bit short : P     Well I´m not gonna drop him, what I´m actually doing is realizing this struggle and trying to understand him in order to...|||No problem. Ye, I get that some people find it hard to smile. Kinda extreme example but imagine someone having social anxiety, I don´t expect them to smile back at me. They find it hard enough to...|||Sure. Perhaps I was not specific enough, but I never thought anyone would read it : P Imagine yourself going to school every single day. You meet the same people, you always smile at them, but they...|||Dunno, these types of people. 1) People who doesn't smile with their eyes. True smiles go all the way up to the eyes, and I don´t like people faking a smile. Same goes for laughing. Don´t fake it, I...|||Kinda. Depends on how close you are to me. And what kind of relationship we have.  Friendship If you are gone for a long while, I´ll probably forget you because there is always something new and...|||I ignore them, avoid them at all cost and makes no effort to talk to them. If they text me I just ignores that too. However, if I accidentally bumps into them or something I´ll be extra friendly...|||Thank you : )  Can you please explain the difference between a toxic feeler and an okey feeler? Like, what is an okey way to deal with insecurities and what is a not-okey way to do so? I don´t...|||Haha, then this room will be first priority if we get this far.  I get your job-example. You can´t say nah, don´t feel like doing it. Luckily, you can say that to people in other situations. And...|||Dunno, my biggest problem is myself. I overthink things. But maybe this is not type-related and just me being me.|||Haha, thank you. I think that if we ever get so far as moving in together, I will give him a room like this. I want him to have all the space he needs and for him to feel free (I appreciate my...|||I used to find it hard when I was a teenager. Now I know that my personal well being is very important for me and my mental health (I overthink bad friendships and tend to take the blame for them). ...|||I know now, after what you explained that it has nothing to do with the person. And in that case I think the solution would be him having his own time out room for him to withdraw to when he feels...|||Can I ask why it is annoying? To me, if someone shows insecurity I see it as a golden opportunity for me to show them that I love them and support them and try to comfort them and make them feel...|||Ye, I also think it´s individual. I usually spend my days with friends (I have plans almost every day with someone) but wherever I am, I always miss him a bit and want to be with him : P And that´s...|||Ok. I´ll try to think of it like having to recharge your phone. Just that it is him who needs to recharge and not my phone. I can understand but not relate to this. Being alone sounds terrible to...|||See that´s one thing I like about the ISTx´s. They are said to be honest and straight forward about things. They don´t beat around the bush or play games. Ye, he is kind of like that now that you...|||(sorry for the wall of text) Thank you for your insight. And I don´t think gender makes a huge difference, so female opinion are appreciated too. Yes he does contact me in one way or another almost...|||So him being together with me and doing boyfriend-like things tho never calling me his girlfriend means he is serious? Also I know he turned down an another woman who was into him. He told her he...|||Kinda. He once took me to the beach 03:00 at night to go bathing with some friends. And he can come up with plans within one day and does not seem to mind being social. An another day when we were...|||So I´m an ENFP who is currently 3 months into dating a guy I thought was either an INFP or an ISTJ (he´s taken the test twice). However, when I read about ISTP´s, all I can think of is how this is...|||.|||Posted in the wrong forum, my bad.|||They say you learn better by writing by hand instead of taking notes on a computer, so I write by hand (dunno with other countries but in Norway we get MAC´s from our school to use as a learning tool...|||Dunno how to do this picture thing but I´ll try.  ISTJ (?)...|||Maybe we can conclude that what someone think of eye contact is individual and not type-related. I did not think of it before you wrote it, but he does not like public displays of affection either....|||I made it through 213 pages and just want to say that I live for this forum and it is the perfect mix of exaggaretion and gifs.|||I´m more like passive aggressive. Usually I hide it and ignore it because I dislike conflicts. If we are fighting I will usually calmly discus with you in a stern voice (when I was younger I used to...|||Not everything is type-related, so you are probably right this is not an ISTJ-thing.  Thank you, it worked out. And also, thank you for the help you other guys here. I really appreciate it.|||Nvm, I see you talked to her and it all sorted out and I dunno how to delete my post. Glad it worked out, wish you the best of luck. As I also can see, some people make the ISFJ-ENFP combination...|||May I ask what it is you feel others fail to understand? Sorry, did not quite understand what you meant there. I dated an ISFJ guy for one and a half year (they are awesome people so hold on to...|||Yes, I´ll make him take the love language test today. Then I need to learn his language and understand how to communicate love with him, both how I can show him I love him and how I can know that he...|||I know I want to stay in this relationship, I don´t need a list to tell me I love him. But thank you for the advice : ) And this is really helpful. I´ll have a talk with him today (as I mentioned),...|||Yes. First of all, I love him. As long as he can love me back, even cold water is enough. Second, I´ve always thought that there are plenty fish in the sea, but once you choose a man, you should...|||So, to quote both of you: Patience and get straight to the point. If I want change, be clear about it and have patience and you will be rewarded? If this is the case then I won´t end it. I just...|||I think the fear of being alone is quite common and valid indeed. I would say cursed actually. I don´t want to be an ENFP (no offense), it is so tiresome. But you can´t change who you are I guess.|||A good man is rare, but because I meet so many people it happens from time to time. I meet a lot of people whom I find interesting and would like to get to know better, but few of them are boyfriend...'