I feel trapped by what people around me think of me.   On one hand the way I react and live is based off my interactions with people. And know that I have people who know me or at least feel they...|||I never get it when people tell me they would have needed to be on acid to enjoy some sort of psychedelic concert. If an experience is intense enough to give the appearance of being on drugs why...|||55317  This is me...very tired, in my favorite sweater.   I have such a love for good sweaters.|||Thank you all for the responses and the honesty in them. The advice you've given is quite sound. Hopefully if I give adequate time to the matter I can regain her trust. I just wish I could start over...|||A while ago me and my best friend/roomate had a bit of a falling out...it wasn't a shouting match but we recognized the problems in our relationship. A slew of them were my fault. I overidealized...|||So for the past year and a half or so I've been close friends with an INFJ. Roomates as well. Up until now we haven't really had any big problems except lately I've been going to therapy (it's free...|||So it seems to me that every time I'm in a group whether it's a friend group or for some organized program I seem to feel under appreciated. The group leader or group as a whole always seems to...|||Packing for college!!!|||Today, my best friend got back together with her boyfriend and I should be happy for her but its awful for me. I'm about to graduate from high school in a week and a half and all they seem to do is...|||I'm 17 right now  and about to graduate, I have friends, I mean its not hard to have friends at my school there are only about 18 people in the senior class right now so its very closely knit, but...|||Whiskeytown-Jacksonville skyline    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QcbGF2lo22Y|||I have not lost it, basically I'm intending on waiting until marriage which sounds naive and such but I'm happy with my decision.|||If there is a windmill can I become like Don Quixote. I would read a  bunch of books about knights, go insane, convince myself I am a Knight and run into the windmill because I think its a giant. ...|||Okayy  1. I would consider myself Christian Reformed  2. I guess I do sometimes, I mean I am currently in a small town in a rather conservative area and because of that I don't feel much direct...|||http://www.moviegoods.com/Assets/product_images/1020/186092.1020.A.jpg  Ohh Tommy Boy|||Blue steel, magnum, and la tigra    any zoolander fans?|||That we have a sick fascination with knowing what we do to piss off other people|||I am the one who can be completely aware and yet utterly clueless at the same time.|||http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y139/kooksta/OxfordFlats.jpg  I LOVE OXFORD FLATS!!! they are androgynous yet completely femenine at the same time and comfy by the way|||I really do love those oxfords I wish they would pop out of the computer screen and into my hands|||Sometimes Though most of the time I refrain from posting them for fear of people thinking im stupid. Im just a little turned off by being random because I feel like some people try to be random on...|||1. How do you feel when you're starved of emotional understanding.  Its hard for me to describe. Its almost as there is so much of an absence that it seems like I am full of emotional understanding,...|||I definately love clothes almost too much... I mainly want something that expresses who I am in a way that makes me feel confident, I definately dont want to start my day with an outfit that I feel...|||When you go into a state of semi depression over someone not replying to you and you compare how fast they replied to others to how they didnt reply to you. And you are convinced that it was...|||Books... especially old musty ones.|||Being shy, I just feel so pathetic at times becauses when Im with certain people i.e.  at my youth group I just feel like their is a wall between me and the people Im with and when I dont feel that I...|||I go online, watch old movies or tv shows, read, talk to my dog, or just look at my  clothes and try out different combinations for outfits ( and I know that sounds vain but its fun to do while...|||For the longest time my favorite color has been blue but lately its been almost a lilac purple.|||Wow I didnt expect to get so many replies. Thank you guys so much for all of your wonderful insights. You guys warmed my heart, and Im just so glad that I can come to this website and count on the...|||My ideal birthday would definately be shopping with my mom, for two reasons I get to spend quality time with my mom, ( some of the most interesting conversations come up while shopping) and I have...|||I think he pretty much fits the characteristics of an INFP. But what Im wondering is, what type is Hobbes?|||Dogs hands down, haha I even have my dog as my avatar (and not for the purposes of this thread I just really needed an avatar).|||Haha thanks Blackbird its pretty fun talking about cute childhood memories.|||Do any other INFPs suffer from paranoia, I dont mean constantly thinking people are following you. My question is do you other INFPs feel like you are constantly annoying others.  For example my...|||Oh I know what you mean about the ENFJ's they are absolutely amazing. I dont know where I would be socially without them, half the time I would probably be in a corner reading. They just have a way...|||Yes, Ive been thanked, Is it odd to be insanely happy over that? And thank you guys I know Im going to love it here.|||So Ive been with personalitycafe for a couple weeks now and I just noticed this intro forum. So I thought Id introduce myself with this thread. So hello everyone Im an INFP and Ive really been...|||HAHAh yeah I think guilt over tiny things is definately an infp trait. For example when I was a little kid I was playing outside and I said I love this tree (or something along those lines) then...|||Well I'm not sure. I mean one night I was just laying in my bed trying to get to sleep and I thought to myself who am I? And I had absolutely no idea, it was strange. So I guess I don't really know...|||Well I always wanted to be actress , and now I am hoping to make it as a biologist, Are there any other infps that really like science? Because I read that it was a stereotype for infps to not like...|||Here is the song  Lights by Journey.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M4QkTvK2OEw  Hope the link works.|||I needed one more post to be able to post a video so sorry about this empty post.|||Same thing here I should actually be writing a paper right now... you know I think im going to go ahead and ban myself from the internet now, how sad.|||Yeah we are really close, but she can be crazy sometimes and I think you are right about the whole waiting it out thing, Maybe she just needs time to sort out things in her head. Shes 12 too so shes...|||Haha I should be writing an essay instead Im posting on a thread about procrastination, how ironic.|||Yeah I think thats probably the best advice and she probably does have a lot of hormones right now. She really is a very sweet sister and I love her so much I just wish I had a bit more tact when she...|||Haha I think if I asked why should would lash out at me further. Shes a bit calmer now though... apart from sulking. I think she might have just been stressed, not sure why though, so she decided to...|||Details hmmm... she's 12 and Im not exactly sure whats going on. I had to reheat the food I made for her and then she refused to eat it. Now shes claiming that her whole life is ruined because well I...|||My enfp sister is in hysterics right now, do any of you guys know how I can calm her down?|||Im just wondering if its normal for infp and enfp siblings to argue a lot because my younger enfp sister is in hysterics right now, an d I have no idea what I have done. She claims that I was rude,...