'Wow. I was actually listening to the radio about something like this and I feel that in relationships people change and we can't always expect people just be ok with certain changes -- especially...|||I'm definitely a homebody. I love to just grab a blanket and watch movies or read. If I do go out to hang out, it's usually just with a friend or two barefoot at the beach or the park.|||I'm not a fan of exercise per say, but I do feel better after working out. I take kickboxing classes and exerting all that physical energy is really mentally cleansing.|||Currently (well in August) working on a MSW -- trying to become a LCSW/therapist (if I can get myself together). My major in Undergrad was Psych with a double minor in Creative Writing and Philosophy.|||@IcarusDreams  So do you think it's possible that you could encounter a soul mate and it just not be the right timing (or what have you) and so you don't realize it? I think you have an interesting...|||I dislike the fact that I have to write in order to express myself -- it's kind of a gift and curse kind of the thing. If I don't write for a long time, I have like withdrawals because there's too...|||@IcarusDreams So are you saying that there are multiple soul mates that you may encounter during your life? If so, I can get down with that theory. If that's not what you're saying then...I'm...|||I'd be the one smiling at people as they come in as I sit on the couch and text (or in some cases, pretend to text) as I people-watch for the first hour or so haha. I'd really just stick to the...|||I believe you are destined to meet some people -- maybe even marry them but to think that there is a soulmate out there would just...eat me away inside. I think everything has to do with timing and...|||@ethylester I think it's funny how some people think plastic surgery somehow defies the aging process. They don't seem to know how terrible (and terribly obvious) they look. I love to see people age...|||It actually annoys me that extroverts are somehow seen as better. Like, uhh...I'm sorry that you need other people around you to be happy. Coincidentally, however, a lot of people don't know how much...|||Yes Lorelai haha, I am really terrible about being passive-aggressive especially to my boyfriend. He'll ask me how I feel and it's mostly just me agreeing with things because it takes me a while to...|||I think the only thing that keeps me pretty sane is writing. I actually HATE that I have to write alllllllll the time but if I don't get my thoughts out on paper, I literally start shaking because I...|||@Targus28 I honestly wish I could give you a hug right now. Not a 2 second, pat-you-on-the-back and go our separate ways kind of hug but a real effing hug. A hug that will soak up all of your pain...|||This is a really good question. I found myself thinking about it a few months ago (my 25th birthday) and before that, I never really gave age or aging too much thought. I guess it's partially true...|||4w5   This makes me seem extremely anti-social and always depressed. Although I do like to hibernate a lot and like to be (or am comfortable being) sad sometimes for no reason at all...I don't have...|||JustJac Thank you for that :happy: I'm just trying to find things that I can improve on -- and I definitely need to be more assertive, as opposed to passive-aggressive, especially when it comes to...|||Well I'd like to know what kind of things you learned from each other, if any. I'm sure that since you're still good friends that you've talked about different perspectives on things (maybe) in...|||http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lqx8duLT2J1r1zfobo1_500.jpg|||I'd be interested in an INFP male because we have so much in common but...I'd also be a little scared because I know difficult and complicated I can be.   Why don't you enlighten us on how to woo...|||http://img31.imageshack.us/img31/4591/9ga6bdjpg.gif|||Ok, I've got another one that a lot of people tend to hate but Sucker Punch ...also possibly off topic but still a good movie, Rachel Getting Married|||Well I wish you many run-ins with INFPs. I'd really like to meet an ESTJ, I think we could learn so much from each other -- or it could be a disaster.|||Well...I wouldn't think that how I look should be a factor on personality cafe. I like people to focus on the things I say, which is why I have the avatar I do (to me it symbolizes the inner beauty...|||This may have come up before but being that ESTJs and INFPs are exact opposites, I'd like to get their thoughts/assessments on INFPs...|||Someone ( kaleidoscope SocioApathetic ) tell me...  http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_lzPgrevQGd4/TEpcABGyXZI/AAAAAAAAAGo/xvFCk2B4Gqc/s1600/PuppyDogEyes.jpg|||...my interest has peaked (or piqued -- damnit)...|||What is your idea of amusement?|||I mean...what does being friends entail?   http://cdn.memegenerator.net/instances/400x/22418210.jpg|||indieandsoul aahhhh, you stole the words from my mouth. To add to that list, I'm going to go with:  - GREASE - Moulin Rouge - The Sound of Music - The Rocky Horror Picture Show|||Random page from one of my thousands of journals. Judging by the content, this was three years ago but my writing still looks the same.   Is someone doing a handwriting analysis?|||This Boy's Life and let's not forget, The Man in the Iron Mask! Yea...he has evolved into a righteous actor, he picks amazing roles -- Brad too!|||Ha! I just read the title of this thread and rejectedreality I too thought of Jeff Who Lives at Home because I watched it yesterday. I totally get his philosophy on life but I mean, I'm not a stoner...|||I LOVE TOM (500 D.O.S) but as an INFP, sometimes we can be a bit of a Summer Finn. We love to be loved and wanted but as Napoleon said, sometimes we're a little fickle. We love to just connect and...|||Ummm...  - When people try to sound intelligent and say conversate, it's CONVERSE!!! (If I had only one pet peeve that would be it)  - People who can't handle deep conversation / you know the...|||Umm...I'm going to with Regina Spektor, Hero. In my life, basically, I'll pull through anything because I'm the hero the story.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9fwMSOzijQ|||http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5ohk0Ze3g1r1c6jgo1_500.jpg  http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3tvpkiGc01rvk9xuo1_400.jpghttp://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m50v7vPqxX1rw0ca5o1_250.jpg|||I'm glad I got an INTJ opinion. I think you guys like to be the hero in the situation, like we're some poor, delicate, scatter-brained damsel in need of your help -- and we do need your help...|||Seraph114 -- I am grateful for your insight, as I can follow the truth in it. I suppose the answer is always balance and we are still working to find it.   Fiel -- Ahhh, you sound like me haha. This...|||His complaints are usually focused on how I always seem to be in a different zone, he never knows what I'm thinking (and when I tell him, he just says oh), and basically that I don't really notice...|||You know you're an INFP when...  - You get irritated when you're thinking intently about something and someone interrupts to say, what are you mad about?  - How you feel at the moment trumps...|||I have been in a relationship with a male INTJ for about 5 years now and I still feel like I'm walking on eggshells when I'm around him. I have yet to really relax around him. I don't know why I'm in...|||I'd be really upset if I woke up and was 100 years old, so option 2. Experiences give the best stories. I don't want to live like an old robot.|||The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake by Aimee Bender|||EVERYTHING haha  - Never Let Me Go - Swing Kids  - For Colored Girls - A Walk to Remember - Dead Poet's Society - Alpha Dog - The Passion of the Christ - Gia|||Laughter. Zoning out the rest of the world with a good book. Writing. Hugs. Park swings. Sunny days & cool wind. Silence.|||I'm going to combine a few I've seen and add to them:  - Into the Wild: has some really prominent philosophical theories  - Good Will Hunting: finding the courage to grow even if it means leaving...|||AHHH!!! I love (and hate) both of those movies!! No wonder you're married, you have great taste in movies...|||Frankly my dear, I think I just fell in love with you.|||I got Relations of Benefit (me being the benefactor). Isn't this a bit shallow? Basically if he figures out he doesn't need me, he's out. The only way it works is if I'm settler and he's the reacher...'