'I am a little confused by the typical 9 characteristics.  What is this peace of mind that 9s unhealthily try to preserve? All that no-conflict/anger-9-talk seems too abstract to me. Are there some...|||I dont think so I think its because no other type comes close to extensive internet useage like 5s. Stuff like forums swarm of 5s and it makes sense that on a PersonalityForum its even more so.|||I see what you mean and guess I can relate. I'm a 7, but feel a big draw towards 5ishness. In a way I'd love to just withdraw and get lost in the depth of my mind - and I know I'm theoretically able...|||Delete Please. ~|||I'd assume your actual Enneagram type doesn't play much of a role here and that this goes for every E-Type the same way: I associate the feeling of integration with the feeling of childhood. What is...|||It just feels like the last resort. Like when you need help but cant directly ask for it so you become unhealthy-2ish by being pleasing & low-key manipulative or agressive to get certain needs meet...|||Definately INXX. INFJ makes a lotta sense I guess. I may go with 4w5 over 5w4, he has a little too much emotional charisma or however you wanna call it|||INFJ 1-4-5 sx/so INFJ 1w9-4w3-7w6 sx/sp INFJ 1w9 sp/sx INFJ 1w9-5w4-2w3 sp/so INFJ 1w2-6w7-4w5 sp/so INFJ 1w2-4wx-7wx sx/sp INFJ 1w2-2w1-6w7 sp/sx  INTJ 1w9-5w6-3w4 sp/sx INTJ 1w9-4w5-5w6...|||This indeed seems like great advise for more productive interaction, thanks. :)|||Fe Ni Se Ti vs Te Si Ne Fi  First there is the obvious S vs N clash. My whole family is pretty much sensors only so this has always been apparent and leading to feel different, but whatever,...|||Yea yea, as you can see this thread is older and my self typing was a little more all over the place lol I just recently settled on 9; dont mind this thread. Im gon check out your link tho cuz the...|||This sounds a little bit more INFJ-ish. Or would you say they're just similar in there position towards leading?|||3w4 5w6 8w9  Would be my guess|||I need you now, I know it's real The proof went down but you're crystal clear God knows I've got one try, no second chance I've planned too long, I demand a change Will never feel if I don't let...|||And I'm a social One. After almost half a year and many phasas of misidentifications, I'm finally at that point where I can say I'm dead sure and every doubt is just not wanting to face reality. I...|||Do they have it more difficult because they are Fe users and their 4ness is more based on their Ni, making it harder to find stability that feels real and meaningful?|||Tbh I've now come now to the conclusion that its the other way around. Fi seems to be a cultivated skill for me while Fe is never a chore to use. So, yea, I've learned some more about INTJs but it...|||Thats what I thought.   I guess you mean if I feel like my Ni is supported by Fe or Te? Well, if I could tell you that with certainty I guess I wouldn't need help here lol. But I assume its Te....|||Since I started getting deeper into typology I've always identified most with being an INFJ. However, something always seemed off about it so I never 100%ly run with it but rather just saw it as the...|||Okay I already figuered it out myself like I prohesized haha Its so 8. Kk this thread can get closed or whatever~|||Okay. After months of Enneagram study and self discovery I finally arrived: I feel as sure as I can be about typing myself. Or well almost. To be honest I could figure this rest out on my own sooner...|||This is sad as fuck but beautiful; made me finna realize I'm 100% E9. Thanks!|||This seems petty in a way but it feels to me like on of the most essential issues of Fives: being judged and I feeling like you won't be sure enough to defend it.  Can you relate to this? And my...|||Point blank how do you differenciate between a 5w4 and a 5 with a 4 fix? I'd like to know my tritype and my 5-wing. I know for sure that 4ishness plays a huge part in my Enneagram personality. But...|||Its E7, nevermind. :)|||They have a feeling of wearing their soul on their sleeves. But not in a way of being simple or easy to get, far from shallow, it's a unique kind of transperency in the sense of honesty. Its so......|||I know my gut and heart fix, which are 1 and 4 respecticely. I also know my instinctual stacking by know, which is soc/sex. What I feel like I dont know for sure is my fear type (as well as which my...|||I'm registered here since over a month now I think - but after months of research I'm finally clear and can say with 100% assuredness that I have found my true typing (and I'm a 6 so you know when I...|||Well, by studying and comparing Ni, Si, Ne and Te (in theory & praxis). I'd go with TJ over FJ right now but thats still something I got to figure out.             I also figuered out I'm E2 and not...|||Okay, I know now that I lead with Ni. I only have to figure out now if I'm Fe/Ti or Te/Fi. So yea, I'm either INTJ or INFJ. But thanks for the tip of being an ISFJ, that made me actually realize I...|||I know I know, I'm typing based on CF as well dont worry, although it may not seem like it I'm way past the state of MBTI profiles. lol When I say too emotional for thiker and vice versa I mean that...|||Flower Hat wow thanks for taking the time :)                                                                                                                                                           ...|||I've been studying cognitive functions to find out my typing a good time now. I'm at a point where I feel like I have a good grasp on what they are about and even how they feel when I use them - but...|||Care to share a bit where you got your knowledge from? Not because I'm doubting anything, but because that seems like pretty cool useful information for me  strawberryLola|||I mean balancing that playfullness, random fun loving ness, not taking life so serious but at the same time really caring about your life, other people, Fi values, emotions, ideas...  I feel like...|||Is it possible (for an INFP) to repress their Ne  or rather its development out of it being not appreciated/supported/understood, being around Sensors a lot, fear of appearing childish, weird, not...|||charlie.elliot:  Yea you hit it on the nail. Thats the exact same conclusion I came to after a little more research & soul searching. To be more accurate, Im pretty sure this was going on:  Type...|||I know this is probably a questions thats been frequently asked sorry lol. But I wanna talk about my specific case.  So to make it quick - I did identify with Ennegram 1(w9). This perfectionism...|||Because I dont really have that strong urge to defend what I think is right. I dont stand up for it, at least not more than any non-Fi would. I dont base every decision on what feels right, in...|||So I believed to be 4 but recently noticed I was just living in constant stress mode.  Long story short I lived a good bunch of my life like an unhealthy 4 rather than in alignment with the 1 I am....|||Okay, first, I'm going through some things right now (if you've seen my recent threads you're likely able to tell). Matter of fact I've been going through some things a long long time now. And I am...|||Aight, this makes sense to me. lol|||Thats what I'd say as well. Its just harder to tell with extroverted intuitives because, while in another way, they also seem really in the moment.|||Im crushing on a girl right now and Im pretty much 100% sure shes EXFP and while I'd guess shes an ENFP I'm not so confident in my ability to recognize intuition in others. The type description for...|||Made a thread on this yesterday for more information. http: //personalitycafe.com/nfs-temperament-forum-dreamers/1054754-fed-up-infp. html  So yea I guess I figured out my problem. I think I'm...|||Im a fucked up INFP and I just recently realised that when I really got into MBTI. I'm 19 years old, living with my parents, just kind of finished school. I grew up in a toxic environment for my...'