'Oh, I used to be funny.  Haven't been particularly social these past couple years, but I can say once I get interacting with people enough and try to have fun in the conversations I can be quite...|||I completely forgot about boring conversations lol.  Thats like the majority of them.|||In conversation: No.  Outside of conversation, Yes.|||Having tried the opposite sex friend thing, I would not recommend it.  Casual acquaintances or group friends is fine though.      Women seem to handle it better, and seem to be 'completely...|||A psychologist once hypothesized that they would make a great couple.  In practice, opposites attract; but don't make great couples.|||Honestly the question should be:  How much together time should you have in a relationship?  To which my answer is you should probably meet up at least every three days, for at least an hour.  ...|||This, I have two examples from my life:  Girl One: came up and sat with me at lunch, chatted.  I ended up asking, What are you seeking with me, friendship or a romantic connection?  Girl Two:...|||I kind of wish this topic was a poll, as I dropped out of High School.  I am curious to see how many INTJs on here have dropped out.|||I imagine a red-pill thread would go like this one:  http://personalitycafe.com/general-psychology/595793-red-pill-what-hell-has-happened-our-society.html  Perhaps it could turn out to be...|||Opposite sex version.  Which I am still getting the short end of the stick as my clone gets to understand my experiences (of being male, having cloned my memories) and gets to figure out what its...|||I wouldn't say the red pill is biased against women, more that it's hard to stumble upon it if you aren't frustrated with dating/women.  So it ends up with a lot of divorced men in the comments...|||You have to use the faces.  :tongue:|||You could read into red-pill philosophy. The Rational Male* Dalrock (Christian).  It's not so much of a pick-up-artist** thing as one might expect, more of understanding how women differ and what...|||It is a little funny like that because: you do end up learning theoretical calculus in 2 days.:laughing:  Doesn't matter how much time I think I am wasting, everything still gets done on time.|||Lines like this:  Representatives of this type have a special relation to the course of time. They see it as the actually existing substance and know how to work with it. Their consciousness is...|||Spending all day playing a game.|||I have always thought we need to find some INTJs who like making memes so we can have some accurate ones.  I like this picture made by the mbti foundation: ...|||If someone is winning I do not play.  Spirited debate is one thing, this is another.  I can joke and tease, but once it becomes mind games I am out of there.    I was thinking the op sounded a...|||True indeed, we could go the way of John Calhoun's mice experiments.  With herbivore men in Japan and the slow rise of MGTOW in Canada, Australia and the US its entirely possible.|||This is an interesting sentiment although incredibly false.    In sexually dimorphic species the more powerful gender is the driving force of evolution (Male intelligence, strength, etc.), the...|||I wouldn't go back to it, but it is a lot easier for a new player nowadays then when I played.  Leveling is a lot easier and more fun than it used to be and with the addition of the raid finder and...|||- Becomes more abrasive the more individuals that duty requires be interacted with, especially if simultaneous.  (That is a hard to read sentence.)|||Here is what I do.  This doesn't work quite as well for long periods of time, and simply works as a rapid way to meet new people.  1.  Hi what is your name?  (The fun part is to see how long it...|||I have formed connections on my own initiative, although none of them  have really lasted and several of them ended very poorly.  The  interesting thing about it is:  all my lasting friendships were...|||From what I understand from talking to individuals of all ages, is that this statement knows no age bound nor gender bound.  The twats are just the ones you run into first when interacting with the...|||True.  I despise the idea that others would need to know how to handle me.  I figured it would be a more interesting way to ask the question.|||If you wanted everyone to have a pamphlet on how to handle interactions with you, what would it would say?  What are some misunderstandings other individuals have when dealing with you?  Do they...|||Did only female INTJs weigh in on this?  Can we get a male perspective?  (besides my own of course:rolleyes:)|||To put it succinctly.  This^.|||Stealing your idea mwahaha:  Most  ISFP ISFJ ISTP ESTP ISTJ ESFP|||I always find the paradigm difference between men and women in this regard to be fascinating.    I have never met a woman that would have a hard time getting a partner, where almost all the men I...|||I used to think that was ridiculous also, (Especially since most my female peers out earn me) Until I read a massive research report done by CONSAD.  For the most part disparities are from the...|||I once read on here someone saying that Ni is visions.  (I didn't quite agree at first, but as I read on it made more sense.)  Which is why Ni is described as visionary.  (Ni also corresponded to the...|||I always figured this was the INTJ theme song.  :tongue:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S65S1Ze-bJo|||Why delete?  Just think of all the valuable discourse that could happen.|||I think the feminist movement served it purpose and is starting to go a little too far.  We probably need a small men's rights movement at this point.  Or to just decide that we are all human beings....|||For his sake and yours.  Cut him out of your life, this sounds like a wretched situation to bear.  It is going to ruin his mental and emotional state.  INTJs may like to pretend that this kind of...|||Power?  Bleh.  Let's seek something more valuable, like serenity.|||Inferior Se mostly means that if I am doing something spontaneously (Rashly), I definitely need to take a step back and reevaluate.  Because as a dominant or auxiliary Se user will indulge and be...|||I used to know an female ENTJ who would say things like this all the time: Aren't I already the feminine half of the equation?; Shouldn't they be masculine?; Emotional Guys.; She used to talk...|||But.. but... the word sounds like something is grating on you.  Either way I don't think the meaning was lost through the misuse of the word.  I have noticed a tendency for xNFPs to believe their...|||INTJ -- The only true answer, other than the issue of becoming acquainted. INFJ -- Runner up, other than the issue of them being unable to find and how cautious they are. INTP -- Acceptable, I get...|||I have gotten along fairly well with the ENFPs that are my gender.  I won't even think about associating with INFPs of the opposite gender at this point; mature ENFPs are okay though.  Every ENFP I...|||This type of thing is why I don't like living with my family, or IxFPs.  Every clock in the house is fast, and they aren't all the same amount of fast.  This creates frustration for myself and my...|||I had this happen to me when I returned to an old place of employment this summer.  Everyone was so happy that I was coming back, I heard similar things from several different people and many...|||I am always surprised that people I have interacted with seem to like me so much.  I am also always surprised at the amount of people who straight up dismiss me, who wouldn't even give me the time...|||That is quite the dilemma.  And it doesn't really matter what you do, something will be learned either way.  Common motivational gibberish would be, Follow your heart.  If they are the one...|||I like how by the end you talked yourself into being an INTJ.|||Every time this thread pops up I just can't stop laughing.|||I suppose that is up to you.  I would take the question as being directed at the many individuals I bump into on a regular basis, although it could easily be taken as past significant others, family,...'