'A resounding yes!  We exist!  ;p hahaha...|||1)When you keep track of random data points* on your write-in calendar.    *e.g. how many stink bugs you catch and flush each day 2)When you correct your ENFP spouse's grammar and spelling while...|||WTF!  I came out IRON too... ???? Be afraid, be very afraid!|||Might I suggest a minor adjustment?  Perhaps: Frisbiatch would be more suitable in certain situations?  :)|||Your score: 51  Also, the ISTJs got some serious data analysis going on over there!|||I dyed my hair vibrant red when I was maybe 16 years old or so... My mom took me to her stylist and paid for it and told everyone, well its much better to encourage him to do this rather than for...|||This thread is ridiculous!  Your epic post exploded my brain!  That cute girl with a bright read fru-fru bike and a Love sculpture is an INTJ!  I am a magical fairy!  Er... Of course I can't type...|||I agree with you on the 1st point, but I'd rather not... haha... I'm trying to let sex just be some pleasant mutually beneficial experience shared by two consenting people (more like how two...|||yellow #5|||Many interesting perspectives on here, good thread...  There is a pretty good book that takes a good look at differences between communication IRL vs phone/text/on-line/human-machine by Sherry Turkle...|||A concrete example... Hrmm... I now know enough about MBTI / CogFun from reading around here to do a very coarse interactive Typing with someone in a short amount of time... So after watching some...|||Hahaha!  I should know better, a couple of my best friends I'm pretty sure are INTP and how we make decisions is the following: 1)  Someone proposes great idea 2)  Someone says, not it 3) ...|||Personally, I've been reprogramming my moral compass to undo cultural conditioning that tells me strict monogamy is the only right option.  Many folks have suggested serial monogamy which is...|||send text - so nonchalant: Hey, I was talking with our common friend so-and-so and she mentioned you're into <stuff>... In fact I'm also into <stuff> and will be doing <stuff> this weekend in the...|||I tried it but the software just said, An Error Occurred after I bothered to assign all 17 points... I guess if you have nothing nice to say, its better to say nothing at all (especially if you're...|||I just had a great tea-time talk yesterday with a gal I met through OkC who is also 7w6 though likely 1w2 and 4w5... We had *a lot* in common and over two hours went by in what felt like the blink of...|||Thats a good theory, but if we assume most users were born in western/european countries with tax years based on an annual calendar then the skew will actually be to have more births in December. ...|||Ahh, gee, life is fluid...  Recent memories tend to be feel more significant...  Though old memories make for a good practiced narrative... I'll be generous and give you two (2) single events! BTW...|||Ahhh boy...  There have already been some other posts here that possibly give perspective on why its okay not to have frequent sex.  Thats all fine if both partners are happy as was mentioned... ...|||Simple cure for getting over your crush?!  Listen to Oscar Wilde: just marry the guy! One should always be in love. That is the reason one should never marry. -Oscar Wilde  That might take...|||I studied German 4 years in High School and a couple semesters in college... I also enjoyed befriending the german exchange student girls!  Good motivation to study!  Anyone speak Esperanto? ...|||I do that a lot too, especially when I'm pondering important decisions that affect other people and trying to figure out why I feel a certain way and if it is better to change how I feel and continue...|||Wow... Unless I'm actively trying to do nothing (meditate or whatever) I'm pretty much always doing something or looking for something to do...  Even when I'm doing something I occasionally wonder...|||- sniffing the tickly bubbles off the top of a freshly poured glass of ginger ale - freshly brewed loose leaf tea with heavy cream dribbled into the mug - the feeling i got walking home from the...|||Spot on!  I love analogies and find them most useful to best explain what I'm thinking.  Yours is great!  I'll tell my wife she is a cactus tomorrow and see what she thinks!  haha...   I've tried...|||I should read this The Power of Now if I could really do that.  Just letting myself be is about the last thing I'm ever able to do unless I'm totally engaged in some activity that requires all my...|||Hey wait a minute, you sound pretty successful, are you sure you're not an ESFP?  haha...  Maybe just me, but don't ENFPs guys just dream about being with lot's of women but we're really too goofy or...|||Another likely 7w6er here.  I've done some reading but can't find the exact source, but the part that struck me was that despite sometimes being very on and typical ENFP feely we can dissociate from...|||I met an ENFP gal that told me a story a little bit similar.  She was working with a guy almost twice her age that was saying lots of nice things to her and made her feel good and she liked the...|||The Venus Feline Trap  stumbled into a ring of ornately carved rocks hidden in the thick undergrowth.  It walked into the center and as it looked up, a giant flying Kitty Kingdom dirigible filled...|||This thread just kept getting more and more ridiculous, but your subtle statement took the cake.  Now what will you do with that cake, I don't want to know.:shocked:|||Great imagery.  You make sulking such an active verb.  This is me and my ISTJ.  Even though we understand we have differences, we still don't understand them. haha...|||The whole I vs E thing can be a source of tension in a relationship.   I've mentioned this article elsewhere, but it is written by an introvert trying to explain to us extroverts what they're...|||Howdy new ISTJ and new ENFP folk!  Two of my favorite types all in one place, how exciting!  Have fun!|||Arguably, the format of PerC rewards smaller posts.  Because if you post a lot you become a robot and have a shiny name and people give you props!  We need an NT to write a script to figure out which...|||I'm moving away from the original thread idea and personalizing this towards the aim of your original question maybe:  It sounds like you want attention from him more than he is giving (due to his...|||Executive Summary:  Long posts make my eyes glaze over at first, but if there is good content:  it beats skimming tons of little posts.  + I like to breakdown my big thoughts into bullet points.  ...|||Okay okay, I have enjoyed the ENFP forum bunches!  Just a few shout-outs to some of our fine ladies: MuChApArAdOx - Your versatile personality easily flits between silly fun posts to serious...|||I'll answer this a little differently assuming your question is in regards to your ~6mo ENFP relationship...  This wasn't really solicited advice as such, but I'm assuming reading into the HELP!!!...|||Hah, I used to sing this bit around the house as a young teen and my mom would get mad at me and say, It does too matter!  I should contribute something:  The Like - He's Not A Boy:  He's not...|||Your comment triggered my random associative memory banks:  I recently read in a macleans magazine (I'm not Canadian but it has good articles imo) about how guys especially as they get older need to...|||TV just isn't interactive enough!  I did watch a lot of PBS as a kid (I liked to stay up late and watch Charlie Rose interview people)... In college I lived with 2 roommates and convinced them that I...|||I just got around to reading your post, I didn't think so much could go into a single hug really, but you describe an amazing experience!  Just a couple things I wanted to agree with you about:   ...|||When you're talking with your guy friend about the lack of emotional intimacy in a relationship, and he agrees that he just can't understand women, but you really meant that you are the one that...|||I just realized that I often have a minimum about 10 different tabs open at a given time...  I like to open things into new tabs to cue them up to read in the near future...  But sometimes I leave...|||When you sit down and make a graph with your age along the X-axis and the number of crushes you had that year on the Y-axis and it it peaks embarrassingly high around 18 years old and doesn't drop as...|||Creepy things:  +I too have a fear of swimming in the open ocean!  I was okay once when trying to surf as I didn't think of everything underwater, but once in California I freaked out when I saw a...|||Oooh, I enjoy those RSA Animate Videos!  They have a good one on autonomy, mastery, and purpose as intrinsic motivational devices important to work...  I've watched the one you sent a long time ago,...|||Of course I love to romanticize and idealize aspects of history so the idea of the French Salon sounds so great to me.  (have you noticed that ENFPs often like the idea of something more than the...|||You made the point I was thinking about, how the whole concept of structure in general isn't usually an ENFPs first thought...  So while life may appear easier for other types that might enjoy...'