'okay, I will try. I have almost zero hope that I will make it through the whole 30 days but hey -- I'm good at starting shit.|||We are good teachers but not in the SJ school environment. That's the problem. I was almost roped into teaching high school math - when I saw what an absolute nightmare it would be (dealing with all...|||interesting. I sucked my thumb til I was 9, I think we talked about this once a long time ago on this board -- a lot of us were thumb suckers for a really looong time. Plus the picky eating etc. I...|||I might be the oldest woman on this forum, just stopping by for my yearly visit :)  This seems to change as you get older. Or depends on what line of work you get into. At this point in my life I...|||I don't call or text anyone, really. On facebook, I divided my friends into two lists, which I named acquaintances and  close friends. I put most of the people onto the acquaintance list. This...|||in the past I have struggled with thinking I was ESTP, but that's probably because when I hang out with an ESTPs I feel extremely comfortable, plus I can be really arrogant and stuff. But Ti always...|||i have a totally unrelated question regarding the OP:   people plan long holidays to Ibiza when they don't have a job?|||Define romantic.  To me, romance = let me drive his convertible and crash it into a curb. Or sex in a duck blind.  (It's official. I need to date an ESTP.)  But back to your problem: romance....|||haha, my IT guru ISTP friend sent me a message yesterday at work, asking me how it was going. I replied something like I'm sitting here thinking about telling this customer to suck my d***  ...|||My daughter does this. And this year, in the middle of third grade, she decided to quit doing her school work and hid all of her failing tests from me. (granted, I'm scatter brained and couldn't give...|||there are male INFPs! I've never met one. that would be interesting...  IRL i generally attract ENTJs.  Or psychos. ;)|||that reminds me, i really need to go back through here and find my pics so I can delete them. You wackjobs.|||this is why i don't ski. I don't have to be an expert at anything to lie on my boat and drink beer. ;P|||My 9 year old dd is ENTP I'm pretty sure. I've been thinking this about her for a couple of years now, and the older she gets the more right it seems. SO:  DD comes home from school with a big hole...|||I second carpentry. I am way more relaxed when I'm building something then when I'm sitting at work. I wanted to leave engineering for contracting, but it appears to me that the contracting industry...|||reeses, baby ruth, 100 grand, rolos, basically anything chocolate/peanut butter/chewy.  I ate ice cream for dinner every single night for the last 2 weeks.|||My boss is INTJ.  I think he hired me because he liked me and thought we would get along -- in other words I don't challenge him or give him any trouble, while he's busy planning his world...|||This communication freeze-up, or handicap, whatever you want to call it ?   I will actually get stuck trying to get words out of my mouth, and will start gesturing with my hands a lot. I swear to God...|||#1. procrastination/not getting anything done for days/weeks on end #2. isolation.  #3. that horrible horrible Ti loop that can't get out of by myself|||no the glass is clearly leaking and needs to be thrown away before it wrecks the tabletop. Cripes i hate that saying.  whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger <----- total bullshit.|||33.|||of course.  You'll still have your wallet when i drop you off.|||yeah i don't know what i was thinking, special forces is probably ESTJ territory -  HUAH!  :P  I'm a cave dweller, I have no idea what i'm talkin about!|||yes, alcohol! I'll be gentle. Or not.  :P|||Jesus. Drinking just turns me into an ESTP. Embrace your Se and stop thinking so much.  As far as making friends, I struggle with this. I say inappropriate things. Like this farmer that I work with...|||Duck. Honey. I will get you a drink and we can discuss our apathy. It won't hurt, I promise. *kisses*|||I don't try to flirt. The eye thing though...I'm not careful enough about what I stare at sometimes. Gets me in trouble.  I have been accused of leading boys on when i was younger. Mostly my...|||TRIPLE POSTING wheeeeeee!  Benja don't worry I am not talking about really fake DD implants. That would sort of defeat the purpose!  ha ha|||ok I should not imply that ESTPs are shallow and don't think deeply. That was mean and stereotypical. *slaps hand*  I'll say he was way more fun than I am. there.|||I KNOW! Here I am thinking about implants and going OMG maybe I really am in ESTP  but no. think of someone you know who is an ISFP, and decide if you really get that person.  I will be...|||^^ this  Also, all of my carpentry and remodeling/design work is based on what i find visually appealing. I love art. I just am not a Feeler.  this would be why I'm considering breast implants...|||follow up question then:  How do you feel about dinner parties/let's invite people over for dinner!  With like, appetizers and music and SMALL TALK.|||I hate it. I want to eat in peace, not sit around a table with family and talk. I can talk when I'm not STARVING  I think that is a tradition enforced by some other type.|||Everyone I know in IT support is on the verge of suicide/ulcers/younameit  fratz - this is why I refuse to move up the ladder and take on more responsibility. I already know that I would hate it....|||Now that I have enough money to save, I decided that stockpiling money in the stockmarket is not my style. It is frightening to throw money into something that doesn't feel concrete...that I can't...|||Don't hate. ;)|||in other news, I drank a margarita before grocery shopping last week, and the kids managed to get another wii game out of me. Because when i feel good, i don't give a crap even more than usual|||awesome.  also:  Maybe later - ask me after i drink this alcohol, otherwise no  or  Maybe later = if I'm not totally pissed off, that will depend on how annoying you are|||I only have one ENFP friend.  After 3 years of knowing her, I disregard 99% of everything she says to me. It's the only way to survive and still be friends.|||Okay I'm already drunk but here goes:  +1   imagine many years in the future, being forced to socialize with people you can't connect with.  It sucks  then again, if your SO is rich and is...|||Well that was rude.  You should have just walked away instead. Say you have to take a dump and you'll be back later.|||You know, rather than turn this into amateur hour, if you have serious theology/science questions there are a lot better forums to get deep information on that subject. (assuming you are for real in...|||--note on #3: my experience in the dance world dealt with both the people who do it for a living, own & operate studios, and the people who do it socially at least once/twice a week.  I'd say 50%...|||I'm sorry, what's wrong with breaking out the vodka? I have some blueberry vodka in the fridge calling my name!  Although I just cleaned out my kids bathtub drain because it was completely...|||laughing inappropriately while crying is totally normal. Don't other types do this? ;)|||Although she does come up with excellent ideas. Like the time I was wondering out loud how I could take a class without actually having to show up. And she said Well grandma looks a lot like you,...|||OMG my daughter is ENTP and the thought trains just make me want to cry sometimes. I can't yell at her like that, but I swear the day is coming when I'm going to have to tell how much I just DON'T...|||This is cracking me up because the only ESTP I know in real life built his own insurance company. He's rich as crap. Flies his own private jet, blah blah  Total salesman. (pot head too) :)|||Se>Ti It's like when I decide to eat a triple size sonic blast full of reeses pieces.    That will make you feel sick/fat/whatever--OMG SHUT UP THIS IS SO AAAAWESOME   Ti>Se  Is like today...|||35248  I would be a fun extrovert!'