'Thank you so much for your answer! In answer to your questions, she strikes me more as the person that is outside for the thrill and hands-on opposed to abstract concepts, but she also strikes me as...|||I know all we can do is speculate, but I have no idea where to start, so guesses could point me to the right direction.   -The first thing you should know about her is that you hear her before you...|||(Background: I've (18F INFP homeschooler with social anxiety) liked this guy (17, ISTP, well-liked public schooled pothead athlete) two years. In the first year we met, he had a curiosity about me,...|||Keep in mind that I forgot to mention this guy has a girlfriend (I think). I'm not trying to woo the guy, but I don't want him to hate me either.  I only just met him, but I have noticed that one...|||I get what you're saying. For the purpose of this post, I pointed out the points in which I was nervous I'd made a bad impression, so it was basically just my perception of his possibly negative...|||We had sort of met before at a get-together, where I had awkwardly misunderstood his question, and he later had decided to comfort me when I messed up on a game.  At this get together, at first he...|||**Mother:**  Adventurous, independent, and easy going, encourages her kids and others to be competent, and if you do something dumb or make a grammar mistake, etc she's going to tell you and not...|||Whoa, dude. I have so much respect for the way INTJs think, it's so objective and analytical to the point that it outsmarts most systems. But is manipulation truly necessary, regardless of being a...|||Oh my goodness, Daiz someone else I talked to about this said that! The parallels are hilarious. But I truly do hope, though, that he actually likes me for me and doesn't like me simply because his...|||First off TJ's, I'm sorry if this is super long or too sentimental, I edited the best I could without leaving out what might be important. I'm not trying to annoy anyone  I'm INFP F, and everything...|||Thank you for this. I'm sorry for presuming, I didn't mean to annoy. I find that a lot of my questions on here are attempts to understand people better but a flaw with me is starting out looking at...|||What would you say makes commitment and loyalty worth it to you, how can someone best accommodate an ISTP's need for freedom in a monogamous relationship?|||The kind of guys I typically fall for usually end up being ISTP s, and I'm just trying to figure out how to respect their nature and make them feel comfortable in relationships. Why do ISTPs hate...|||I feel like this thread exists somewhere but I couldn't find it, so here goes nothing.   Describe what your future kids look like, act like, what their names are, etc|||My actual style is completely different than what I actually wear.   I've never liked my weight, and I always feel perpetually broke even though I have an okay job, so I usually rotate the same...|||Dear OP,   this is one of the most heartwarming threads I've seen, thank you so much for starting it!   Dear Christian,   Whatever you're going through it doesn't define you. You're looking for...|||This thread is lit.   I agree with the posters that don't get an INFP vibe from the girl, she feels like an immature ISFP to me, but that isn't a founded opinion that I have, only a guess. I wasn't...|||The sound of my own voice, lol. I'm constantly singing to self soothe, or seal myself in my own world. But the song that I'm singing is a gem I found on my crush's spotify playlist. He dedicated an...|||I want to see an ESTJ react to the ESTJ roast session that is this thread XD|||This is such a cool thread, I can't wait to see what other people say. And I lost it when you said the INFP can be very nice but also an ***hole, because as an INFP I can agree that that than can be...|||I originally guessed my friend is INFJ, but honestly I'm not familiar enough with all of the types to make an accurate guess.  His vibe: So quiet, calm, gentle, laid back and mild mannered that...|||No problem. I meant how do you guys like your relationships to be like, like do you need to have lots of space and your partner be just as independent, do you and your partner need to adhere to...|||And also, how do you like your relationship dynamic to be, what are you like as a romantic partner?|||As a child-early adolescence: I suspected he was ISFP, because he was extremely sensitive and emotional, especially angry-though he hated this emotional side about himself, maybe even tried to...|||-His vibe is grounded, collected, and steady. You sense a matured intelligence but also a kindness, maybe even a playfulness  -He's extremely, unapologetically blunt. He has no filter, and people...|||I was just about to post this exact same question!   I'm INFP, we have guessed that my sister is ISTJ, my Dad's ESTJ and my mom is ENFP. My sister and I are legit just the introverted versions of...|||-that we dream and idealize so much that we have no grasp on reality or practical steps -That our emotions make us weak or even stupid, and that we're driven crazy by them to the point that our...|||Spell66 Actually, I don't think there is such a thing as a good person or a bad person. I'm obsessed with psychoanalysis, and I've found that there is good in people even when they do the wickedest...|||pwowq I get what you're saying, but how would letting a kid eat candy until he pukes himself to sleep make him feel better, not caring if he hangs out with criminals be encouraging, and condoning...|||Maybe I'm misunderstanding a lot of what you're saying, but My brain immediately heard what you said as, ISTPs don't even need parents at all, only partners in crime that daren't ask anything of...|||It's the typical stereotype that ISTPs hate rules and committment, but my question is do most of them always  break them when they feel uncomfortable or inconvenienced, and if so do they really have...|||The way you broke down the reasoning made a lot of sense and was really helpful   Yes, and I don't apologise. I am selfish -- the question only is whether more so than other people, or whether,...|||Vision  wild child road trip, driving towards the sun; or cozying by the campfire, watching embers mix with stars|||What would your ideal partner look like, act like, etc. And in which conditions would you be able to commit to them for the longterm/marriage?|||I've read lately that ISTPs decide in the moment what is moral and don't define morality by given predetermined rules, more by experiences and logic. Even though this contrasts with my Fi-ness, I...|||I've always wanted to try this. Anyone that loves animals knows that no two animals are the same. (Either that or I'm just crazy) I've always wondered what MBTI type my pet would have if he were...|||Speaking as an INFP, anytime someone doesn't know their type and INFP is one of the options, I mentally prepare for them to be an INFP anyway, because we are a type for possibilities, minds always...|||I'm an INFP, and the description was so spot on it was eerie. For some reason, though, the ISTP one stood out to me. I get tired of the stereotype that all ISTPs are the womanizing Hold my beer...|||I guess the description says it all. I've liked ISTPs all my life, but now I have opportunities to approach actual relationships with them, and I want to learn how to be the best significant other I...|||Thank you so much for your answer @lavendersnow it has really helped put things in perspective. I was wondering, do you think that he'll resent me now, or feel like I'm not girlfriend material  or at...|||And if so,  1.How do they like to be asked, and what is a sign of a green light to ask them out?  2.What sorts of dates do they enjoy, and what kinds of people would they enjoy it the most with?|||I'm an INFP, and I'm very emotional, but I understand that ISTPs need space to process their own emotions and to feel capable and figure things out by themselves. I never want them to feel like I'm...|||I guess I should be better at typing people by now, but this particular guy is quite a mystery.   He is introvert level 100. Barely speaks, always lurking in a corner, always in his thoughts, seems...|||One ISTP I know, when he was younger he said There is no such thing as bending rules. You either follow them, or you break them for selfish reasons. But then when he got older, his father said it...|||An ISTP and I grew up together for several years, I'm future oriented and he's present oriented. Obviously he hates to be told what to do, and I respect that. But if he's doing something that will...|||You make honesty sound bad and something to hide.  What you might find in many ISTP-ish persons is their lack of hypocrisy, ideals, beliefs and sugar coating.  I would like to ask you, answer...|||I'm an INFP, and something about ISTPs captivates me, every crush I've had for the past 6 or more years has been an ISTP or at least an IxxP, and even when it's not a romantic thing I still hold them...|||I read somewhere that sometimes ISTP's will do things that may seem flirty to other people when they think they're just being friendly. And there is also the possibility that a person can have a...|||My guy friend is an ISxP, more than likely an ISTP, and he's totally unpredictable, friendship wise. He can defend me in even the smallest of conflicts, yet turn on me in a second. He can be...|||Ben Aaron has the exact same, if not an extroverted version, kind of humor, personality, and mannerisms and facial expressions as my friend, and I'm just curious what you guys would type him as.  ...'