'Dear PerC,  ...Hi, I'm back after over 2 years away.  I really missed you, but I didn't realize how much until I came back tonight.  I just want to stay in this ISFJ support bubble for a little...|||Thanks for that. In living more and meeting more people, I've found those types of NTs and am very grateful for their patience and respect for my thoughts. This reminds me that I should try and...|||My boyfriend call my humor quirky and tells me how much he loves my quirky moments. The first time he pointed them out to me, I laughed so much, because the strangest things escape my mouth without a...|||When you're so tuckered out from dealing with multitudes of people at work that you can't bring yourself to go out to an event because you're socially drained.  This is me today. ISFJs have the...|||I'm feeling like June 4-12 is a great time to take off! :D|||My ISTJ is most definitely romantic!  We share very similar love languages, but I feel like I appreciate all of them with him. I'm 100% sure he's ISTJ, but we act really cutesy with one another....|||I get the you're cute quite a bit, but it's typically related to my petite size.  My boyfriend calls me quirky a lot, and tells me that he loves my quirky moments. It's mostly because I feel way...|||BAHAHAHA. This is too relevant to my life. I've encountered these situations way too often at my job and I cannot deal with them.  I might start taking improv classes as a way to better think on my...|||*rolls around*  Hello, friends! I didn't realize how much I missed PerC, but now that I'm back, I feel like I've been missing out during my absence!|||Also, I'M BACK!  So weird... I don't know when I stopped visiting PerC so regularly, but it's lovely to be back with all of you. Much more productive than browsing other forums IMHO.|||It's all about maturity levels on both sides of the relationship! I roomed with an immature INFP when I was yet an immature ISFJ. It was a taxing relationship for both of us, and imploded after a...|||Yay for ISTJ partners! :D *highfive*|||I have a very silly issue that I'm working through these days. For some reason, getting teased over certain things will either make me feel very defensive OR very paranoid and insecure. (I try not to...|||My brain is going a mile a minute, but I just wanted to thank everyone in this thread so far, especially teddy and RunforCover, for their contributions. I've been away from PerC for awhile and this...|||It goes ISTJ, ISFP, ENFJ(?), and ISFJ for me. Those are my most trusted friends, I believe, because of our communication styles and some coincidence in life putting us in close proximity.|||My experience of Si revolves around relating the here-and-now to things that I've seen, heard, and felt previously. In that sense, it's extremely logical, because I'll happen across a situation and...|||I sometimes wonder if I wasted my first kiss, but I know it's not something that can be changed now.|||Anyone into spoken word? I've fallen head over heels for Sarah Kay, and I've been trying to write some here and there, but who knows if I shall ever perform... *shifty eyes*|||I've posted a few in the ISTJ version of this thread awhile back, so here are a few quotes from there and a new one!      Compliments about my general physical appearance are rare and usually...|||I learned to handle saying no by looking at the bigger picture. If in the end, it would cause me to hold bitterness or resentment for having to say yes, then that would factor in heavily. If I was...|||This thread is amazing. I really have nothing else to add.|||Ran my first swing club meeting as president of the club! Then went home and went to sleep, because it was a Monday.  That Friday, however, I went to my first bar (with some not-that-close...|||Hello, @MissJordan.  I've been away from the forum for awhile, but I've studied the cognitive functions pretty closely and am willing to be probed! (Not literally.)  Here are some topics that may...|||Bahaha, I do the exact same thing with laundry. XD|||My room is wreck right now. Honestly, I have like zero counter space anywhereu200b. :'(|||Wow, what a powerful thread for me. I agree with all of you, and it makes me feel *SO* at home to have this community.  Don't mind me. Just catching up on my subforum. :)|||I'm terrified by the really really messed up people in the world - sociopath, serial killers, and the sort.  Ughhhhh. *shivers*|||Definitely!  I just wanted to share this video, even though it's been posted everywhere, because I think I benefit more from each and every viewing.  Brené Brown: The power of vulnerability |...|||Had a complete job search meltdown today. Still trying to recover from it. Today really really sucks.  Also, candiedViolet your post sounds SO close to something I'd write. Uncanny, really.|||Say Goodbye to MBTI, the Fad That Won't Die | LinkedIn  Hey, guys! Look, someone respected (or so I suppose) is calling out MBTI, just like what happens every other day here on PerC. :)  Yeah,...|||*bangs head against a wall* I'm going crazy watching my classmates update their job statuses on LinkedIn and just continuously coming up short somewhere somehow. Why can't I just land a wretched job?...|||Love people-watching, and love Humans of New York!  This one reminded me of ISFJs. XD ...|||The secret is pan-frying. Mmmmmm! :3|||Explains a good amount. I think my SO is both Sp first and Sx last, which makes it feel very comfortable for both of us.|||Maybe instead of colleges, try college activities. People don't really have experience with a wide array of colleges, but they do with activities they have found draw the type of people they enjoy...|||It's okay. We've all been there and we all learn these things over a lifetime.  It's probably already a bit overwhelming to you, but I'd certainly recommend delving into your Enneagram type as that...|||Today was not as good a day, but I will try.  1. NYC is still fun times around every corner. Saw some intriguing exhibits by The New School and Parsons today.  2. Boyfriend cuddle yes please! ...|||Thanks, lovely! Chemical engineering. Professors and deans have told us repeatedly since freshman year that this is the major (or set of engineering majors) that gets jobs, but that was only the case...|||This thread must live again!  1. Jogged for a good forty minutes or so today. Exercise makes me feel so accomplished, haha!  2. Grateful that my parents are letting me live at home till I find a...|||I've been away from PerC for too long! (Not doing much, I must admit.) Hello again, old friends. I hope to regain your acquaintance and friendship. :)|||Dating an ISTJ:  Openly -- Goofy sense of humor Extremely hard-working Skeptical of new things until proven effective/fun Organized Clean and neat  Privately --|||Dear World,  Someone please give me a decent job already. :'(  Sincerely yours, A Discouraged Recent Grad|||Not at all, I have a reserved optimism in people and hope to see good in whoever I encounter. I want to know stories behind the broken people and realize that we're not all that different. Sure, I...|||Hasn't happened to me again since I posted the thread, but I will be back if it does.|||Oh no! Sounds like an ISFP friend of mine, actually. She's so super thoughtful. Anywho, I don't really know what kind of advice to give about the situation - sorry. I'm sending all my best wishes to...|||@seapebble You make Si sound so foreign with the way you eloquently phrase your descriptions, but it feels so familiar to me at the same time.  This is terribly difficult to explain. I'll be back.|||I have a very good ISFP friend, and she's super into personality theory so we've discussed these things at length. ;D  I would say that we tend to look similar on the outside, but our views on the...|||I don't necessarily try to flirt, but part of my personality is engaging in playful banter which could be friendly or flirty. :P  I like when guys are willing to be playful back at me and become...|||Hey there!  I tend to meet people through my longtime hobby of swing dancing. It takes a little effort to put yourself out there, but the key is realizing that if you don't risk anything, you can't...|||Mm, I see! That is quite curious. Perhaps there are just an inordinate amount of them in your life! Hehe, I cannot know for sure.'