'Could you change my name to Azullade please?|||Could you explain a little more by what you mean about differences in the definition of relationship?|||Haha I agree, I have weak argumentation skills. However, the reason I appealed to your personal experience (or, rather, to anyone's personal experience) is to see if I could conjure up enough...|||Oh man, that sounds tough! I've read that INTJs tend to prefer directness, perhaps you should try talking about these things openly with him (unless you already have)? I can see how this can be...|||crferguson I like your optimism! Have you ever been/ are you in a long-term relationship with an ENFP? I got the information from the intjforum website. I can provide you with links if you'd like. :)|||I thought the death spiral was more common between ENFPs and ENTPs..? Maybe just NFs and NTs? Also, if you don't mind me asking, are you two currently together?|||The fact that you Nafatali are the only one that has responded to this thread makes me think that your experience is the exception XD|||Ok, sorry everyone if this topic has bored you to death now, but I wanted to get some insight from some of you INTJs.   I have read various threads from multiple forums about this ideal duo and...|||Hmm.. could you elaborate a bit more, please?|||You're right. I guess I'm just jealous of whoever gets to be the lover of a Buddha.   Haha that picture is gold! ;)|||Ahhh yes, your calmness. My best friend has a Buddhist nature. I love that. Unfortunately, I find these two types are more along the lines of brother-sister than they are lovers/soulmates. Haha if...|||Hello, all.  So lately I've noticed this massive bond that I form with INFPs. I haven't dated one, although, one of my best friends is INFP and if I were to find someone exactly like him, I would...|||SpankyMcFly I'm an ENFP and yes, I like meeting new people and doing new things but I also really enjoy spending time with one person, especially if its a romantic intrest/partner. The way I see it,...|||So I'm having weird doubts about my Ne lately, like I can't get it to turn on. I know it's the dominant function for an ENFP which makes me start to question whether I'm an ENFP at all ? I did get an...|||I guess they do, but I was referring to that forced kind of introspection that comes from being out of your element. I get self-reflective over various reasons, though, so I figured there were...|||I know this won't provide you any help with your problems, but honestly, I'm almost jealous that you're going through this self-reflection stage (of course, I am already jealous that you're in South...|||I'm debating on whether or not I want to try acid. Not many people have it in my area and I've finally gotten the opportunity to do it. What do you all think? Have you ever tried it?   I've never...|||How dare you! :shocked:     :laughing:|||haha love this song...   http://youtu.be/xzQvGz6_fvA|||Well then, we are in a perfect situation because I love learning another person's life. :)|||Good to know! Thanks for taking the time to answer all these. :)|||Haha I don't know why I assumed you would just randomly open up to me via the internet. I'll be more specific :)  What interests you? What do you usually think about? Are there any INFJ stereotypes...|||XperimntNterror Ahhh but I can't lurk by your house :P That's too weird, even for me!  Yeah, I just wish I knew how to approach you INFJ's. I keep reading about the awesome chemistry between our...|||For someone to chat with. C'mon peeps! :)|||I've yet to meet an INFJ irl.  What makes you so complex?  Where do you people hangout at so I can start lurking?  Hahaha feeeeeling stalkerish today. My apologies..|||Oh the vocals.. Perfect end to my day.   http://youtu.be/F8wqmh3KybI|||http://youtu.be/IgF9ApQ-YRQ  Goooodmorning (or hello, depends where you live :) )  Mission accomplished: This song makes me to dance.|||of Fire|||Friendship|||potential|||Heat|||ENTP or INTJ   lately been leaning more towards ENTP... I feel like a traitor!  EDIT: oh wait... just remembered I don't even want to get married... :P|||owls|||I desire to have a connection with someone. (I'm a bit frisky today so I also desire this encounter to have lots and lots of passion. What happened to all the passionate people?)|||http://youtu.be/Nd30xwa8nPI|||Strange connection but I'll roll with it..  pyramid scam :ninja:|||ringing|||Moop  To everything you said.. YES! Haha, those are my thoughts exactly (ok, maybe a bit better worded :laughing:)|||opportunistic|||ENTP's!!!   Haha, jk... Tom Petty|||Yeah, sad but true. I find it hard to draw the line between someone 'just being themself' and someone who really needs to get their shit straight. But, then again, who am I to judge? I guess as far...|||http://youtu.be/owNtZIn7L4A   So old, but still a good one IMO ;)|||Haha right? After I posted I realized how obvious the answer was.. Thanks for taking the time to answer anyway! :)|||betraying (or is that just mine?)|||Just curious. I've had friends who thought they could save [insert name] from themself but I wonder if this is actually possible. I tend to lean more towards self-generated change. What do you all...|||not limited to kids, let me assure you! It was either that or Bob Saget lol   intense|||chaos|||hahaha how can I follow that !  flush   (meant for you, person who uses my bathroom when I'm not here.. pleasant surprise when I get home.. anyway, yes, flush.. Please)|||Void|||What do you think makes people hate you? As to what you mentioned about people not initiating anything and it always being you, well, with that all I can say (from my experience anyway) is that...'