'I tell you what's the cutest. lol.  He almost fed me spoilt food in his fridge cos he lost track of what was in his fridge. I suggested to discard the expired egg, & how about the chocolates which...|||ESTP can be so good to everyone. My ESTP greets and thank every bus driver, every waiter , etc. I never even notice their presence! I'm so impressed.   Yup, my ESTP showed his vulnerability to me...|||I have asked that, he did throw the question back to me. And it was more like, he wanted me to see for myself, what it is.  And we bumped into his colleagues and he behaved like I was his...|||he was just teasing me. cos  he got offended the first time that i tried to give him treat. and so he always is the one paying.  :happy: :happy::happy:|||We are still together!!  he is so gentle and devoted and sweet!!  I think he can be sentimental. I see gentleness in his eyes.  ESTP can be so gentle and sentimental ? Maybe his T and F are...|||My new ESTP bf lied to me about his age.  He claimed he was 44. He is really 54.  The facts didn't add up right eventually to me.   I confronted him with what i found and he tried to cover up....|||My favourite colour is not a standard colour. It is a particular shade of pink, with a tiny bit of orange mixed in.  It is called Coral or Salmon pink. Sometimes it is called rose pink.   Next...|||As predicted by you guys.....   yeah, i think Mr ESTP is falling for me. And I think i'm also falling for him.....|||TheMartyParade,  To me , kindness is being gentle & patient with me, giving me space, never saying cruel insensitive things to me, not critical, being encouraging and supportive. being sensitive...|||I have difficulty with my boss.  He is always barking rules must be respected!!! to the team. And I will in my mind think fuck you. Cos I hate restrictions.   He always bark  to the team...|||the chase is still on ......|||thx FireDell for ur reply.  Do you mean , hopefully he will tire of the chasing game with me and settle into a stable relationship?   So when he wants to settle with me means the chase is...|||Yup, I'm doing just that. Testing his patience. So far he's doing well. i myself need a lot of persistence too, to keep on holding my ground!!! Not easy.|||I won't sleep with him just to test it out. i'm too ISFP for that. I'm sure there are other ways to find the answer.|||Diphenhydramine wrote    Perhaps you misread or i was not claer .  He refers to himself as mine. You have to give your (his name e.g. Peter) a treat.   So he wants to be owned by me too?...|||Yes, I think he does like me.   He expressed happiness for me when I said I have found the apartment that I want to buy. And he said i have to give him a treat (small one, cos I am going become...|||Hi,   guess what? ESTP is still going strongly after me. And I allowed some progress.   And you are right. He really enjoys the chase and even proudly said to me, you girls like determined guys...|||So what happens after ESTP has gotten what he wants ?|||What are the signs that the ESTP needs to know he is progressing ??  Maybe I don't feel we are progressing because perhaps i'm looking for emotional connection and there is none. ESTP guys are not...|||As per my earlier thread, an ESTP is after me.  Many stuff I read about ESTP says that ESTP is insensitive and selfish  and also smooth talker.   The ESTP that is after me, indeed he is smooth...|||My ideal guy :  He is as smart as me (i'm very smart). Has a well paid job that he loves. He does not have to be very rich, but he must be able to live comfortably and have extra to pamper me a...|||Dear djarendee well is this a challenge for him?   I kinda suddenky growled dun touch there!' annoyedly and pissedly at him when his hand crossed a boundary yesterday.   He stopped but he was...|||I'm into both. I was into him the very first time i saw him and at that time, he hadn't even asked for my number yet.|||I think he is ESTP, because he is very domineering and pushy with physical intimacy. He can't stop holding my hand, can't stop kissing me.  He demands for kisses in return if I ask for any favours...|||hahahah.... what's the ENTJ like??? what does the ENTJ do ???|||what can ISFx do to stop that??|||I was treated like shit  all my life because of my ISFJ (super unhealhty) mom.|||you can love them if they are not your boss or parent or teacher.|||I hate him i hate him i hate him i hate him i hate him i hate him i hate him i hate him i hate him i hate him.  I hate him for micromanaging me. I hate him for constantly badgering me. I hate him...|||I've reached a point of my life, where I realised my relatinship with my ENFJ dad is seriously fu cked up.   I feel my dad and I are very emotionally distant from each other. We are sooo polite to...|||I think i'm dating ENFJ. But he could be ESFJ.  It was our 3rd date, and we got intimate. he asked me if i could give him a blowjob but i negotiated and gave him a handjob.  after that, he said...|||i just dated my second ENFJ guy. lotsa sexual chemistry. we felt comfy with each other almost immediately. the previous ENFJ , it was also easy to have a emotional connection.   and yes, I dress...|||ENFJ males are supposed to be rare....   but yet, i'm dating my 2nd ENFJ male.  Plus My dad's ENFJ. So that's 3 ENFJ males in my life.  I've gone with with AL 3 times so far. He is very warm and...|||on second thoughts, he may be an ESFJ. cos he's a worrywart, and he reacts dramatically to things. such that my colleague secretly say is he having menopause today? he has bad hair days , literally!|||possible.  cos today, i saw a dramatic reaction from him, when something didn't go as he planned and he reacted strongly and upsetly at a colleague. my colleagues told me that he can behve like...|||yes kinda.  i can sense he has a lot of nervous energy. it's as if disorder is a beast to be slayed. it's like a Fight or die response.   he can be stubborn.   and when things are not going...|||I like him so far. I respect his knowledge, his skills to organise, his confidence, his consistency, his straightforward honesty, his impartiality, etc. I'm drawn to his groundedness.   I don't see...|||i need to get more opportunities to observe him outside work environment to know. cos i have only lunched with him twice so far.   a six worries a lot. is his workaholism and wanting to keep tab on...|||If we use eenneagram, then I would say that he is likely to be a ONE. He's strict and fastidious and impatient.|||I think he is ESTJ or perhaps he is balanced. I have a ISTJ friend, this ISTJ is very calm and not very assertive, and become an account rather than manager.   But my boss seems to be very...|||I have a boss who is very strict. He goes by the book.   He is very  sharp. Powerful memory. Checks everything in details.   He would make me sit with him while he goes through the report in...|||I have cycles.  I have cycles when I don't meet anyone for a while, and then suddenly, I feel terrible !!! I would then start calling friends up and go on a social spree.  And then I would then...|||Yeah, I got a good ESFJ guy friend! There used to be some kind of attraction between us. but we're just good friends because of the age gap.|||Exactly 6 mths.   but i have helped him de-stress before. he has even expressed appreciation to me for the support that i've given him. he has also said that he feels comfortable with me and can...|||To update.  I decided to cook something and tell him that i would be delivering it to his place.  But he said, not today, i'm stressed and tired. would be late from work too.  I was sad and...|||My ESFJ good guy friend does not show openly the caring feel about him. He's abrasive and blunt!!  but i know he is caring deep inside him, which he shows to a few.|||Yes, I think he's really a great person. I'm very proud of him. I have never felt proud about any men in my life before.  Ok, i will get him to cuddle me and then i will communicate with him. Yes,...|||Thank you. You have given me courage to initiate meeting him more.   Funny, I sell too when I want to ask him out. Honey, i've cooked something nice. i cooked an extra portion for you. can i drop...|||haha, i guess i have to try harder than him. I used to buy my own food at public food courts while he got his own. Then once he wanted to get for me. I have turned him down. The next time, he...|||So far, he has  - paid for my groceries (he insisted) - always pick up the tab for meals (but in public food courts, i try to pay my own) - however the last time we met, he insisted on buying my...'