From whatever I read in these threads, a mystic cross is not what is being discussed. I am an INTJ and have a mystic cross on both of my hands. It is a very clear sign and must not be...|||Yes it is correct that we usually judge people in less than 10 seconds when we see them. But from my experience, once the same person starts talking or acting/behaving in such a way which is not...|||LOL I see more irrelevant posts than anything. Guys if you don't believe in it, it is okay. But don't spam or troll the thread. This is not going to help anybody. Non believers will not get converted...|||That is interesting since I have gemini ascendant and I know a couple of extroverted NFs who do have a Sagittarius ascendants. But I have met many NTJs with scorpio, aquarius and pieces as ascendants...|||Anybody who studies/uses astrology is welcome to contribute. The last thing I want to do is to debate whether astrology is real or unreal and all that because that is not the purpose of this thread.|||**Content deleted**  I wanted to delete the thread, but could not find an option. Nobody seems to have any idea about what it is or was of much help, so I deleted the content.|||Btw I didn't ask what type your ex is. Also I didn't understand the last paragraph. Are you dating somebody else? Yeah ENFJs are not known to date somebody for short flings so this is unusual. But I...|||I deeply appreciate and value your advice and don't worry, I am not taking it to heart without considering my ex's persona in general. I did meet him and we spent the weekend together doing some...|||The moment I read your reply, it brought me tears. Thanks a lot, you have no idea how it has helped me. I read your reply like 3-4 times and every time I read it, it brings my tears uncontrollably. I...|||I need some help on understanding a situation. My ENFJ boyfriend and me had this brief relationship of four months where the last three months were spent on fights and misunderstandings. We cleared...|||OMG you just nailed it. The ENFP friend just does all this so much that sometimes I feel whether she is an esfp or not.|||The test results might not be accurate so I would recommend that you use your intuition to identify if he really is an ESFP. Other than that, MBTI analysis of a person has hugely helped me because it...|||Valid, but then again I am not doing any of these. :(   They have very highly developed sensor side to them but they are intuitive because they understand whatever abstract stuff I talk about and...|||They would always argue saying that the people skills they have can be used in social settings can help us in real life irrespective of what I value. And what I value is not valuable in making my...|||Recently I had made friends with some ENFP and ENFJ friends who find my 'zoned out' state to be pretty intriguing. Most of the time I am lost in thoughts, sometimes fruitful and sometimes random. And...|||1. When someone is trying to pronounce some difficult word and stammers or gets tongue twisted :D It is instantly adorable.  2. When somebody innocently and truthfully says something embarrassing...|||From my experience, the INTJs I know always dislike me at first. :sad: But since I have become conversant at using MBTI on people even without making them take any test, I instantly know their types...|||What do you exactly do or how do you respond? May be you are too nice with them and hence they misunderstand it as an interest.|||Thanks for being of some help about the approach. The problem is when something is bothering me, I lose my ability to be diplomatic and become confrontational. And he has admitted that he is scared...|||If I am honest with this, I will lose his honesty. The question is: which one is more important.|||Why is he sharing his 'such' kind of attractions with me? I remember telling him once that it is better if he doesn't shows me those as I get jealous. He is persisting after that.   I am too...|||Seeking relationship advice from INFJ males- Its been three months that I am dating my INFJ and he seems to really like me/my company. The only thing is, I don't know what he is feeling or looking...|||I don't know if these falls in the category of coolest/oddest/strangest, but some interesting and random things -  Secret societies-...|||First love- ESFP. I realized that until now, it has always been guys trying to hook up with me and all my relations were started like that (without me first liking or wanting to be with that guy)....|||You know you are an ENTP when-  1. For the FIRST time in your life somebody tells you that you are loving, caring, cute and a nice person. :shocked:   And that person happens to be an INFJ who...|||:shocked: I can't believed how this thread got severely derailed :blushed:  Only one or two people answered my questions. No more insights? Or are we really that expressionless?|||What I hate about being ENTP-   Our screwed up sense of priority. We engage in what is interesting at the moment instead of what is important even when we know the deadline and the consequences.|||I wish I could post some pictures of the NTs that I came across recently. It is interesting what their faces have to say. So far, from what I have noticed, this is how most of them appear-  ENTJs-...|||That's a beautiful picture and what it represents is even more beautiful. I guess that's the story of most introverts :P|||From my experience- You know your are an INFJ when you come out of your shell and crush your loved ones with breathless bear hugs. :happy:|||^ lol|||So you guys don't like it too easy? Also what power game? Please explain.|||I have dated an ESTP before and am dating one now. What I have seen is that as soon as they know that I am interested, they start playing games of looking busy/unavailable. Its not that they are...|||My only complaint is that it is ALWAYS me who approaches an introvert. It feels bad that the introverts don't find me interesting enough to approach. I don't like bothering somebody when they are...|||^ Yes, I give up looking for INFX. Since it is not easy to understand somebody's mood, it is too difficult to understand or approach you guys.|||but there must be a way to approach them? I don't want to scare them or anything. Usually even I am not very receptive to strangers.   Why don't you answer the questions you raised to make my life...|||To hang out with the women and date the men of course!!    But in real life?|||How can you be approached for dating in general if somebody finds/spots you?   NFs are usually difficult to find or identify because either you guys are not very open to strangers or you are hiding...|||The question is open for both genders. I have asked the same question in the NF forum also in a different topic.   1. Have you ever used a dating site? If yes, for how long or how seriously did you...|||I am not sure what general interests NFs usually have, so I wanted to know where they can be found the most (places, points of interests, occupations)? I know that people are scattered across all...|||Yeah I did take the test, but it changed every time I took. Sometimes its 8, sometimes 7 and sometimes 6. So I didn't bother to consider it seriously.  Well I appreciate your efforts to prove my...|||No idea. I am not into enneagram, etc.|||second that!!!|||Yes there are many NTs and NFs also I have met who are either assholes or dumbasses respectively. NTs, if rubbed the wrong way, either tend to behave like assholes or simply ignore you completely (to...|||Yes that is true for 'Fe's. Even I was surprised to find that out. They seem to be an exception as Fi users I guess (because there is nothing else I can think of that explains it).|||They are too afraid of not being liked. This is a single most factor that drives them from what I have seen. They want to be perceived as 'good', 'likeable', etc by EVERYBODY. They cannot accept the...|||OP- There is no rationale behind their behavior. From my experience, they thoroughly believe that they are good, sweetest and honest thing ever to live on earth. They fail to see their lies,...|||Can you elaborate this part please? I can use it in my real life. :)|||I have dated 'S'es and 'N's and I am discontent with both in general. I guess the problem lies with my expectations being too high.   And yes, 'S' are good to have fun with and everything. But...|||I live in a different country, so our salary standards are not as same as in yours. That's why quoting my salary will not give you any direction. In USA, what I have heard is that for freshers it...