'Blind optimism, Hypocrisy/double standards Infidelity/Dishonesty in relationships Emotional manipulation Hedonism|||When I dislike something, I want to be away from it. However I don't see disliking the world/society as being dark.|||I'll be sarcastic and tease you relentlessly|||Why would anyone want to worship a sadistic tyrant?|||Besides work, I hardly ever leave the house. However when I do meet someone I like, they don't like me. But I still end up pining over them.|||Not when you are in love with the person|||I think so... well I am always forgiving to those I love and also try and see the best in them even when they are being complete a-holes.   I am also very accepting of people's flaws.|||Yeah I think I asked the wrong question.But it does make me ponder sometimes how much he actually respects his own religion.|||Don't worry, I have never considered that.|||Selfish, manipulative, fickle, arrogant - list goes on|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8U6Cij1mSU  At the moment, this.|||the scorpion by megadeth :proud:|||Even if I could I would be betraying myself at a fundamental level and probably wouldn't feel worthy of love at that point. If I did do that would I still be the person they loved?  That's the...|||Update: He recently asked me out on a date and I stupidly said yes. We had an awesome time as usual, but then towards the end he told me he couldn't commit to me. I must be the world's biggest idiot.|||I keep getting my heart broken by the same guy. Awesome, huh?   He just came by to pick up his Christmas presents and to give me mine. He didn't even bother wrapping up mine... he also had his...|||Yes, took back a cheating ex.|||I am currently working as a mental health professional, something that I am not too happy with.  I don't have a dream job as I am not overly ambitious, If I had to choose something then it would be...|||I do the same esp if I am physically attracted to them.|||Only from those I care about.|||Honesty and loyalty- most important  Can't stand players (currently being played by an ENFP)|||Can't stand any of them. Although I have recently joined POF....|||Feeling stupid, weak and used. Keep getting played by the same person. Only got myself to blame for it. Sigh|||Friends - yes  Lovers- no|||Stay on my own and enjoy the taste of freedom.  Wouldn't be too bothered about staying alive.|||It's the total lack of respect/consideration that gets to me. Plus the deception and manipulation.|||Have no idea. I always end up falling in love with the scumbags, thinking that they are godsent.|||- Being emotionally manipulated/led on by people I care about.  - Infidelity -the mental health system dictating what is healthy and unhealthy thoughts/behaviours -hypocrites who adopt the...|||I have an unhealthy obsession with violence. I think just prefer physical pain to emotional pain|||I was told by my love that : - we shared a unique connection - he has never met anyone like me - he could never like anyone the same way as he likes me  However, a few days ago he told me that...|||- Falling in love and knowing that the other person only wants you around to fill up the gaps in their day. -Being emotionally manipulated/led on|||See, I feel the same way. Don't give a flying fuck about what the world thinks of me, however I still crave the acceptance of those I love.|||That hurts more than heartbreak itself.   I wasn't even together with my guy. He told me he couldn't date me because of his religion- he's a christian. I said that was okay because as an INFP I...|||I wasn't even together with my guy. He told me he couldn't date me because of his religion- he's a christian. I said that was okay because as an INFP I understood the importance of values and...|||I've just joined the heartbreak club today.  Is it really better to have loved and lost? I beg to fucking differ!|||I'm exactly the same! I hate oral presentations so much! Rather write an assignment than do a 10 minute one. I've got one coming up on Wednesday. I'm really dreading it.|||Yup, blind to reason|||I hate being manipulated by those I care about. But then again, they are only able to do it because I allow them to.|||I understand your frustration since I've been led on by an ENFP too.|||The crap thing is, we never actually got together because of his christian beliefs. But this isn't the first time we've fallen out. He tells me no he can't be with me because of his religious...|||I have fallen out with my ENFP guy who is on the same course as me at university. I've been struggling so much to put on a brave face around him yet he's going around laughing his head off.  Seeing...|||What's a SJ?|||Haha! Not the last guy. He couldn't date me because of his religious beliefs:sad:|||Haha! Not the last guy. He couldn't date me because of his religious beliefs:sad:|||I'm the opposite. Aw why are you always so happy? I'm not. If you look closely enough, you will realise that my smile never reaches my eyes.|||They usually like me back but just don't want to get together with me. That's even more frustrating!|||What are the visible/tell tale signs of a heartbroken ENFP male?|||cute schopenhauer picture!|||This is hard, I don't think I love that many things!  1. Philosophy 2. Family 3. Food 4. Maverick thinkers 5. Animals 6. Meaningful relationships 7. Sleeping with the telly on 8.|||I'm usually quite mean towards people I like (teasing and emasculating) :frustrating:|||Deception/infidelity in relationships Oppression/Coercion Hypocrisy/Double standards Emotionally manipulative people Hedonists Authority Psychiatry (depriving people of their liberty, doping...'