'The stress points are, at the moment, that he feels he's changed. Since everything happened, his love for me also has changed. He's very wary of the words he says because with that relationship he...|||Yeah, I sometimes forget how controversial this is to others. Thank you for your advice.|||I'm just going to add: yes, this may make him seem like an asshole. But you have to trust me on this, the guy is really fucking sweet, he has no malice, he has a big heart, he has a head on his...|||You come off from a standpoint that seems to think open relationships are necessarily a sign of bad health. It may be in some cases, I don't think they have to be, and there's been countless...|||Guys, no judgment about the open relationship thing please. If you don't have anything helpful to say for my situation but to cast judgment, please abstain.  I was the one who offered to open the...|||I know that is is about an INTJ and a INFP, but as fellow Introverted Intuiter, with you guys having a better emotional intelligence than me, I figured I have nothing to lose by asking your advice......|||I value the people-smart ENFPs' insight on this, if anyone would please try to help me  http://personalitycafe.com/infp-forum-idealists/240617-please-help-me-save-my-love-infps.html#post6950305|||Sorry, but because time is ticking and I'm really desperate, I'm making a shoutout here for this post... ...|||My INFP and I are going through some rough times, after opening our relationship while my work schedule cut us off from each other. I also am burdening him because I'm myself in a low in my life...|||Like the most caricatural twenty years old, I sit with the same excruciating questions countless others before me struggled with. Our existence may be perceived through so many perspectives, some...|||I wish I could. Right now, nothing would reassure me more, than to gain the eyes which can recognize love.|||Man, this fucking blows. I can't eat and my muscle mass is paying the price for it.|||That's what I do. Always carry a sketch pad and pen with me at all times. Otherwise, I want to second Kathy Kane's advice. A lesson I learned is that it's no use to repress the gut. You have to...|||Kiss me, kiss me a lot As if tonight were The last time  Kiss me, kiss me a lot For I am afraid of having you And losing you all over again.  Kiss me, kiss me a lot As if tonight were|||Another case of I can't sleep, maybe getting it off my chest will help. Move along.  It's 5:45AM, been awake for over an hour. Sometimes in my sleep my heart starts to beat fast, I hear it...|||Mine also ended. You didn't have my back. You don't have my back you got nothing.  I seriously would never have believed this possible.|||I voted biology but I would have voted for astronomy if it had been there. Saw the other option too late.|||The history of thought may be summed up in these words: it is absurd by what it seeks and great by what it finds. - Paul Valéry|||http://i.imgur.com/MhnxXgm.gif  There's something uncomfortable about these animals wearing clothes and living in such a spick and span environment, but oh well, it's a motherfucking anteater what...|||Basically: stay away from me. I want none of that Fe+Si around.   Sparky11|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mjlS2-bZYWI  Bonne nuit :blushed:|||I get what you mean. I also strive for lifestyle perfection. I get in bits of steady working out, then an event shackles my life and bam, I stop for a few weeks, and on we restart. I live with a lot...|||You're thinking of yourself too highly  theredpanda if you think just you going around uttering boring crap would make anyone hate you. You're more like an annoyance that will be forgotten fast...|||amazing. the adventures of turkey man  My humour can be very visual at times.|||http://i.imgur.com/dIlVqhd.gif|||“When I was young, I expected people to give me more than they could—continuous friendship, permanent emotion. Now I have learned to expect less of them than they can give—a silent companionship....|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BGBM5vWiBLo|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcx5ACyIGQs|||Writer.|||All things are interrelated and interdependent; nothing exists in isolation. The entire universe is one ecosystem, similar to a spider web — if one part is touched, the entire net shimmers. As a...|||http://i.imgur.com/QzT8K5n.jpg  This taxidermy was found inside a late 19th-century French mansion which has been sealed up for more than 100 years. Via National Geographic.  Somebody commented,...|||I'll admit I take a certain perverse liking in shocking such social norms. I've had a relationship or two that were very confusing for other people, but like jeb713 said, as long as we're being clear...|||Woah, teach me your tricks.|||Enemy? Nobody deserves that title, it's too much honour. For those that are annoyances, it's just as   Jomama said. My attention is something I only give to the deserving. Unless I'm bored and I want...|||http://personalitycafe.com/intj-forum-scientists/178924-eugenics-what-your-stance-9.html#post4686428|||Saganx92s prominence made him the go-to person for the countryx92s most famous acidhead, Timothy Leary. On April Foolsx92 Day, 1974, Sagan and the astronomer Frank Drake visited Leary at the state mental...|||Read more: Why Carl Sagan is Truly Irreplaceable | Science | Smithsonian|||I agree, genetic engineering would be much better; in fact that's more what I had in mind when I employed the term eugenics. I pushed it to englobe this eventual possibility, but I shouldn't have....|||The point is that some if not most Muslim religious leaders are batshit crazy  Taneka Hinton and that's funny; this is not an attack on the religion of Islam per se as you may have been lead to...|||In the context of super-bacteria and super-viruses who become resistant to antibiotics, might eugenics not be a matter of survival at that point?|||This is the worst. May I add, people who ask you a question, tell you it's ok if the answer is X, and then get pissed off if you choose to answer X. I... hate, despise, am repulsed by this kind of...|||http://i.imgur.com/sVUAyU7.gif  Somebody didn't get the point|||Muslim leaders issue a fatwa against anyone living on MARS as there is 'no righteous reason' to be there | Mail Online|||It's in those times that i thank my genetics and my upbringing for making me mainly rational. I guess if I had been a mainly emotional person, I wouldn't be able to keep these feelings in leash, the...|||Just look at how easy this is. INTJs, we rock.|||Guu  Bah, I guess I indeed lacked empathy here. I wasn't trying to invalidate your feelings as much as support you in sharing your thoughts, independently of others. Keep them for yourself if you...|||My last best friend of a long time was INTP, our relationship was platonic. Male and female spooning while they sleep but without sexual tension? No one ever understood how we'd do it. But it did,...|||I met the INFP I was four years with at a Japanese fashion event I organized back when I was admin of the community forums. I saw him from afar, and my eyes burned, I couldn't look at him because he...|||Others above me have provided excellent explanations for you already. I also can go a very long time without seeing people I care about, but to me, their place in my heart doesn't shrink. I have an...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTu2tPyWp2w  This crappy dude someone asked if I liked or not. Why the fuck am I still listening to this, what are these choices, what is my life'