'I think that that can absolutely be true of infjs, and we shamefully have much potential in that department. Not gonna lie, I am guilty of some unwarranted door slams, and maybe it may seem cruel at...|||A lot of people here seem to say for themselves that if they door slam someone, there is always a justifiable reason. However, to be honest, for myself I would have to say that that is not always...|||For me, stability and constancy is very important in a partner. So you are right in that she very well may be testing you to see if this is real. People make a lot of empty promises in the heat of a...|||This question was interesting to me because I have never really thought about this before. I think that I really do dream about the future more than the past, however . . . funny because I've always...|||I have, in recent years, begun to suspect that I am a little delusional.  I think that this is how I cope with the harsh truths of reality. I have always sort of despised the fact that I am a rather...|||It doesn't have any words, but sometimes feelings are not best expressed by using words ..    https://youtu.be/UXFWrVTqIko|||Maybe you felt so calm and peaceful because you were staring into the sun then, because you had your eyes fixated on something brighter. Optimism? Haha  I am curious if you had any theories about...|||This dream seems very strange to me because I see conflicting elements.  You are in a prison, so it is possible that you feel trapped.  But you are also lying in a big field - this represents more...|||This dream seems very strange to me because I see conflicting elements.  You are in a prison, so it is possible that you feel trapped.  But you are also lying in a big field - this represents more...|||Root: Underactive -56% Sacral: Underactive -38% Navel: Open 6% Heart: Underactive 0% Throat:Open 25% Third Eye:Open 50% Crown: Open 19%|||Complaining strikes me as something that is a very self centered and whiney thing to do.  Usually it is whenever I am dealing with problems of my own that I can't stand it the most though. ...|||I would say that when I'm around someone I truly have feelings for, I definitely feel awkward and nervous. And the stronger the feelings are, the harder it is for me to act natural and flirty. ...|||I understand what it feels like to have a busy mind :p I have had people lable some of the things I say as too complicated . . . haha. My mind is in a constant state of overanylizing the blood and...|||Haha. No, I suppose awkward wording. It is still there :)|||In order for me to really trust someone, there has to be a constant display of dependability on their part over a long period of time. As of right now, I would sadly say - I trust no one.  The...|||Psalm 73:26 My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. I had this tattooed on me. It has followed me throughout my life.|||I thought your ideas on parenting were very interesting - about control, determining who the child becomes, sleepless nights. There are definitely certain aspects of those things in parenting. While...|||It seems as though many INFJs struggle with a similar problem - fear of being a burden to others, and/or fear of showing any signs of weakness or vulnerability.  For me, I know that this is the case...|||I have maybe had my trust violated a time too many in my life. When I was younger, I was quicker to forgive and give people a second chance. As I grew older, it almost began to feel like an issue of...|||Humans are strange creatures.|||It takes a lot to make me angry, and even when I do get angry, I never let it all out. I have done so on one occasion or two and absolutely hated how it made me feel and the coldness and remorse that...|||http://www.buzzfeed.com/laraparker/cats-who-have-made-very-poor-life-choices?bffb&utm_term=4ldqpgp#.brwQQPL4Gg   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5uFxg-Q298  :kitteh:|||I definitely can see people's auras. Typically when I see auras it is more something I think of in the context of feeling, however, as opposed to colors. So I can feel someone's aura and feel the...|||I like that. That is interesting.You say a wall is there only when you need it to be, does it serve as a protection or support in a way? And I will have to try that memorization technique :wink:|||How funny because I was just pondering over why I am this way the other day! I get really weird if people simply ask me how old I am - I start acting evasive and playful because I really don't want...|||That's an interesting question! I've never really seen my mind or inner world as a room. My mind and inner world have always felt like an infinite space to me, maybe even a space that is outdoors or...|||Also this! This annoys me too.|||I have read INFJ hate boards, out of curiosity, :playful: and find most of the complaints to be from people who had a bad encounter with an INFJ or people who actually do not know INFJs at all....|||One would think that self confidence should really lean in one direction or the other - you either are self confident or you aren't - and then all the levels of such in between. For instance, some...|||This might seem strange, but I am a complete sucker for a man with tattoos and pierced ears. haha..Regardless of the little things, though, what really captures my attention is when a man has...|||I spent an unnecessary length of time mulling over what my confession would be, if I could confess one thing - so I guess there it is. I over think things a to a painful extent.|||Also, I just thought I'd point out that this fairly accurately describes what I have been feeling lately! Why do you think we may slip into that zombie mode with day to day tasks? It doesn't seem to...|||Lad Thank you! That was really interesting to read. You probably could've gone on further and I wouldn't have minded :smile: That definitely gave me something to think about..  Chris Merola. I...|||It is good to hear I'm not the only one :hugs: How interesting that yours seemed to have a trigger. That is something to think about - was there some kind of trigger for me? Thank you for sharing,...|||I was curious to see if any other INFJs (or really just anyone) have ever felt this way. I used to struggle with feeling as if I had entirely too much emotion - lately I have felt completely the...|||....Thank you. Love the quote. This actually made me feel better :)|||The most deep, complex, and sweet INFJ guy asked me out last night. The whole thing was kind of a surprise for both of us. It just happened. Everything fell into place so naturally. It was a really...|||I have discovered that the heart has a surprising capacity to heal. While bullying often feels consuming in the moment, and very painful, it never lasts. I just keep going. My instincts often tell me...|||I think I must be an odd mix of both. When I am fully comfortable in my situation and having a good time, I can display the ethical traits... where as when I am uncomfortable or around people I don't...|||203786|||I desperately hope that it is possible to find someone who can see all my layers. It feels like there should be. Without it, it feels as if something is missing.|||teanigami  You sound so much like me. I am also prone to constant migraines. I have one right now as a matter of fact.. haha.. I also have heart problems so I struggle with feeling overstimulated...|||teanigami  You sound so much like me. I am also prone to constant migraines. I have one right now as a matter of fact.. haha.. I also have heart problems so I struggle with feeling overstimulated...|||Vive   Thank you for sharing your story. It did not come off as lecturing at all and definitely helped me :happy: It is probably true what you say about it being all about perspective.... I guess...|||Lad  Interesting you say that most people probably don't even understand themselves, because I am constantly thinking that. Whenever I found out about my personality type and began reading about...|||Thank you for sharing that. Yes I understand completely how that feels. I'm not sure why some think we're fascinated by violence either......violence is.. painful. And the worst of it is definitely...|||I am an INFJ..and I have been struggling so much, especially lately, with just feeling so lonely, as if no one could possibly understand what I am feeling or going through, so I bottle it up and...|||This post explains me so well. I have been struggling so much, especially lately, with just feeling so lonely, as if no one could possibly understand what I am feeling or going through, so I bottle...|||My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Psalm 73:26|||Oh! I forgot to mention acting like you think you know me better than I know myself, and then proceeding to tell me I'm wrong when I make a statement about myself! That is pretty annoying to me as...'