'I'm weird with respect to longevity of relationships as I test out 50/50 F and T...unlike most INFPs, when the relationship isn't working, I cut my losses and run. Also, after two divorces and...|||Itchy, scratchy tags in clothing make me nuts.|||Whatever, good luck.|||Public area of their shared space, not the dorm, silly! Actually, My error, I was under the impression that they at least had separate bedroom doors. The fact that their beds are in the same room...|||Why would I be kidding? This person is emotionally abusing Calvaire. She is being assaulted in the one place that should be safe for her.This is beyond insensitivity on the roomie's part. If she...|||Start a new Photo Essay Project. Take a Picture of each 'customer' (or just a picture of that side of the room with them in it) and put the print on the wall with the date and time scribbled in red...|||Just close your eyes, throw out your arms and take a big step!  Join a band Self-Publish your songs Start a new music project reflecting the 'renewal' you're experiencing now.|||Well, your older brother should be stepping up to the plate himself. And in this Century there is no excuse for never having had a job. If only to be prepared for what happened in your case (loss of...|||@Roze: No, you're not useless! You are AWARE of the problem and you are doing what YOU can to help the situation. That's all you can be expected to do, and much more than many others in your...|||I drew a self portrait of myself in my late teens - it had all my (self perceived) worst physical traits emphasized, and a huge wind up key coming out of the back of my head.|||One of the signposts of INFP is that we are focused on developing ourselves as individuals. That, to me, is the primary reason that you won't find many older INFPs who 'got it right the first time',...|||Like OrangeAppled, most of my hobbies also center on the arts:  When I was younger (up to my 30's), I read a lot of escapist SciFi and Fantasy, some biography and autobiography. Collected craft...|||OMG That's funny!   Why do Scotsmen wear kilts? A sheep can hear a zipper at 50 yards...|||It's like someone punched me in the chest and knocked the breath out of me. I deal in 2D and 3D art. I want to express this somehow but I think it would take me forever - or several canvases/pieces. ...|||You have hit upon the CORE difference between men and women. The classic quote is that 'Men marry women hoping that they won't change and women marry men hoping that they will.'|||Milky Way is correct for the most part. BUT I like Fantasy for the interpersonal bits, there's always more character development in the Fantasy genre. The SciFi that I prefer is also of the 'drop...|||I just don't talk on the phone that much. What I hate is you youngun's who will text me freakin War and Peace. After the third text in the same conversation I call 'em. Three consecutive texts get's...|||I used to work as a cocktail waitress and collected an impressive variety of 'bar jokes'. Now I can't tell 3/4 of them because you gotta be PC. The raunchy ones I can mostly still tell though, so...|||Yay Azure Bass! Goody for Chicken Tikka too!|||Low Self Esteem. Super harsh self criticism. Plus, I was never athletic, originally tall and gangly with skinny legs and arms. Once I filled out I got too much attention - more than I could handle,...|||It might be worth it to take it to a Geek Squad type place. They can often pull a LOT of info. But it usually costs about $500 to $1,000... but then, what's your past worth to you?|||I did poorly in grade school until they figured out I needed glasses, then went from C-D-F student to A-B. Classic case of she does well on tests but doesn't pay attention in class! I'm old enough...|||I chameleoned so well that I tested first as an ENFP, then as an ENTP - neither of which helped any, and finally as an INTP. Finally came to realize that I was taking the tests at work, and INTP is...|||How can one family member's life be worthless? Yes, he's been a pain in the ass all his life, but guess what? I finally got him to go to a doctor and he's bi-polar. Of COURSE he's been a pain in the...|||I am the one who desperately doesn't want to die alone, but figures it'll happen anyway since that's how most of my life has been.  I'm the one who cried at the dead bluebird that hit my windshield...|||Read the Freakin List! *oops! My INTP alter-ego got out, sorry!*|||Is my life richer in many ways for having lived it as an INFP?   Yes.  Would I have been happier as another Type?  Yes.  Would I BE another Type if I had the chance?|||You know you're an INFP when...you decide to take a break from physical relationships for a while and suddenly 15 years have gone by and you find you're doing quite well with just friends, family and...|||As long as the socially unacceptable bits are covered properly, I don't really care about the rest, though I do retire pieces that get stained or holes.|||Hello All!  You know you're an INFP when...you send out an email with a funny video and you get an email back that you offended someone with it and instantly send THEM an email back apologizing,...'