Just to make things clear, my ex was 100% an INFJ.  She tested that way from MBTI and Kersey and pretty much matched the book description.  My best friend is an INFP and I work with several.  I have...|||Thanks everyone for posting.  This person does seem a little different, but as any of you who have been badly hurt in life know things that remind you of painful experiences can bring out a knee jerk...|||It's been a while since I've been on PerC but life has driven me back here. I'm hoping some of you INFJs can give me some help. I was married for 12 miserable years to an INFJ. She was very...|||I type him as a INFP.  I have a INFP friend who is pretty much Po in human form.|||Any Suggestions?  Looking to edit youtube vids.|||Ok, so as an ENTP I'm very prone to over thinking things.  I'm very proud of my small sliver of Iroquois ancestry (1/64th) and think it's shameful how most of America has just moved on without...|||I've found both ESTPs and ISTPs great people to do things with.  They're fun, spontainious and will take just about any date.  I've never dated either type though and I'm sure that could complicate...|||Have you ever meditated?  Settling yourself and breathing deeply helps with the stress.   Until your world moves on you are going to have a lot of stress.  You can't escape it, but you can deal with...|||I don't know your dad or the back story.  He may be really frustrated.  I'd say just be honest with him and tell him that before he can expect to have influence over your life he just needs to be...|||I have more thanks than posts, thank you.  How does that feel?  Fealing isn't rational, but it is judging.  It may use input but there's no method behind the method.|||Just google the ennegram.|||No idea, but it's worth a try.  Whatcha doing next weekend?|||Spa gift certs.|||Yup, we always have a comeback.  That's why she needs to understand you too.|||Your friend is probably an ENTP or an ENTJ.  I'd bet an ENTP.  Get her into MBTI, that will give you a chance to explain who you are as an ENFP.  NTs, especially young ones, have to think their way...|||in 10 years your major probably won't even matter, let alone your GPA.  It does give you a good headstart, but it's not everything.|||You cannot think your way through feelings.  You have to feel your way through them.  Turn you massive brain off and go with how you feel.  It's hard and awkward but very doable.  Drinking taught me...|||I was home schooled as well, but I don't really have any regrets about that.  I started taking college classes when I was 14 but never graduated with a degree.  I do regret not finishing my degree. ...|||ESTPs and ISTPs are both good people to do things with.  They're a lot of fun.  Just don't expect them to want to hear about how you're redoing one of Einstein's theories.|||Welcome to the party!  No jam here.  But people do occasionaly take jello shots.|||Yup, this is always a good idea.  You may even want to report it to the police.  I'm shocked everyone is taking it so lightly in your school relevent to recent events.  Odds are good nothing with...|||Just watch this  http://youtu.be/LjbvnlSXrpk|||Water, sleep and exercise.  I don't know anything about Candida, but probiotics help a lot of stomach problems.  Make sure you sleep 8+ hours a night.  Our bodies can fight a lot of problems, but...|||If you want a job at a major corporation get a 4 year degree in something usefull.  Doesn't really matter what as long as it isn't Pre-Revolution Pottery Techiniques of Reformist in West Virginia or...|||Try poking around google+|||To go to bed, wish granted.  I love myself.|||What, to be an EP I have to want to get things done on days I have nothing scheduled????  I tend to be overly focused but trust me I know how to waste a day off.|||Most of us drop out of college long before then.  It would really depend on the financial impact of the decision.|||I don't know you, so I'm shooting in the dark here.  But it may be a good idea to realize people can be your friend without becoming emotionally close to you.  You need both types of friends.  Take...|||If I had to bet - ENFP.  Have you tried a kiersey based test?  I personally think they are the most accurate.|||ENFPs always bring the party.  We never have enough of them.  Welcome to the Cafe!|||You probably should post this in the INFP forum.  You'll probably hear a lot of similar stories there.  You need to find a good friend to reinforce you.  One of my best friends is an INFP and we...|||You're probably in a very negative enviroment at the moment.  That kills the motivation of every INFP I know.  Find a place for positive reinforcement then plod on to victory in the other areas of...|||Join the chess club.  No, I'm serious.   I have several INTP friends and they do well in situations around other NTs.  Find a chess club, debate club, local dungeon and dragons club.  Anyplace you're...|||I was married to an INFJ for 12 years.  The thing I learned is she very muched needed someone to be emotionally close too.  You need to find that person in your life.  Don't try and ENTP, we don't...|||I had an extremely bad experience with an INFJ (Ex-wife) and although I find them very hot will never touch one again.  You want nice emotional order in the world and I'm a bringer of chaos.  Bad...|||We can never be strong enough to save our loved ones.  From what you've said you weren't a coward, you wanted to be there for him.  I hadn't thought about it in a while but I felt the same way when...|||It doesn't matter.  Really, it doesn't.  Over the next 10 years your life will be in flux a lot and things will keep changing.   Do what you want, where you want right now.  Follow your dreams. ...|||I lost my father when I was 21.  It will be 12 years ago on January 1st.   While the intense grief won't be there forever, the hole in your heart will.  No one can every be another father to you. ...|||Thanks guys.  I should mention my mom lives 15 minutes from me and I see her 2-3 times a week.  I do want to spend time with her.  It is just that I'm on edge around her because of this.|||It may be hard for you to follow a traditional law path and be satisfied.  The key is to know why you like something and what you truely like doing.   If you can find a way to fulfill who you want to...|||I'm having some issues with my mother.  I'm in my 30s and she is in her 60s.  I'm nearly done with a divorce and she has terminal cancer.  My father passed away about 12 years ago.  She is an ENTJ if...|||Something very different that the last date.|||ENTPs are interested in systems.  People are systems too.|||I learned this technique from a micro-managing ENTJ that it took 3-4 years to get out of my business.  Always stay focused on productivity.  Tell that manager how much you hate it when people make...|||It's cuz we're soo much smarter.  Ne first rocks the world.  They spend days, weeks, even years trying to figure something out and we Ne it in 30 seconds.  Just because we don't write down the steps...|||The funny thing is that Kiersy wrote about how Idealists (NFs) hate lables and things that divide people, so in hating lables you're living up to your own!  Now there are type haters, even here. ...|||And you're an INFJ at the moment....|||She does seem to rant like an ENTP, but she uses more sensor type wording so ESTP is possible too.  She is funny either way.|||Than go find another ENTP!  I have very developed Ti, so I can understand.  I use it in all my personal decisions and I tend to fixate romantically more than most ENTPs, but probably not as much as...