'Welcome callmeleigha!! :) It's always nice to have a new face.|||I've dated a few INTJ's and am currently in an amazing relationship with one! From my experience yes they like us. xD when we aren't being to loud or overly idealistic hehe.It is definitely...|||When I get dark, I read darker topics, I take joy from other pain, I don't feel connections, emotional response and empathy become lacking, manipulation becomes easy peasy, also prefer to avoid...|||This thread is just amusing!! Constantly being added to and updated. :D makes me happy to know others hear things so im not the only odd ducky ^.^|||I am currently dating an INTJ and have dated some in the past.Not intentionally! I am just drawn to them. I like how they stand out. :)|||Wasn't saying it was bad :P Just stating it can be beneficial.Actually all the INFP's I know and are aware of don't curse period!Is odd.Because to me a word is a word.Just matters the context.They...|||It's been tested and found sometimes the people who swear most often are the most trustworthy!Also swearing has been shown to relieve stress and anxiety.|||So, I am a newer person to this site.Obviously still trying to understand a lot!But what is with the talk of a sick or immature ENFP's? Have any of you ever been 'sick' or dealt with other ENFP's who...|||I am an F female and I can't stand crying.It makes me feel awkward.I hate crying myself, I hate seeing people cry.All of it is just erm um *pat on the back*  Are you okay?|||Perhaps.|||TaylorP feel free to message anytime!Besides support is nice for everyone :)|||Perhaps she just isn't ready.You mentioned she was scared?Also some ENFP's are afraid of perfection or what seems to be good for us.So stick around and try and bear with her.She is probably aware of...|||What happened? Is she ignoring you?|||Well thank you greatly for your replies! They are valued :) It is kind of rude in my opinion for him to cut me off. Especially after months of not talking. The problem became when he spoke to me out...|||TaylorP do you think maybe he couldn't handle it since a few days later he said he couldn't talk to me again?|||I'm curious.I followed the advice given.and moved on.But he reached out to me, and said me he missed me..|||Could not have put it better myself!|||Yes small dogs.I am terrified of them.Don't know why.|||I fear heights, getting drunk, being bipolar, people hurting me.And small dogs o.0 :unsure:|||That sounds correct actually.Seeing as he requested similar action.He asked I delete him from social media and such.But gave me a number to call one day if I am single and still want to be friends or...|||He's the exact same.Very strict in his moral code.Which I respect.Also you are correct it is hard to see all possibility end.|||But if it was me single, and he had a gf. No matter how much pain it caused I would still be there for him! I suppose that is what bothers me most.|||So I am sure I'm not the first to have this problem but I need help understanding it.Supposedly ENFP's and INTJ's make really great pairs.Well when I first met a particular one he seemed to have...|||Thanks!!|||Thank you for sharing, I understand more now.|||Maybe it's just my emotional attachment.But I find it hard to believe a person who says they love someone would drop them.Over a few words!But I suppose you could be correct.|||Snapple then why would he give me his contact info and say when I am single talk to him again?Also thank you for replying.|||register Thank you I found this very helpful!I just shocked by the abrupt end I suppose.But the arguing over it was mostly him trying to get a black and white answer.Where is I felt strongly in the...|||So I am sure I'm not the first to have this problem but I need help understanding it.Supposedly ENFP's and INTJ's make really great pairs.Well when I first met a particular one he seemed to have...|||I am very close to an INTJ and it's annoying obvious that he balances me.I rather hate to admit I need him. For explain just the other day. me  I can't do this work!!I need to explore!live!be...|||Anytime!|||Kittynip  very cute and clever!|||Also random observation it seems like mostly guys on this site.But random thought you know how like sometimes you can just tell the gender of a person by what/how they write even online?Only me?I...|||Become a personal shopper or secret shopper.Both are sweet jobs!|||I know I'm not INFP but I stumbled across this.I just want to thank you all.Reading these helped me see i'm not alone.Because I as well get punished still (i'm 17) for reasons often unknown.I also...|||awwwwwwwww.These are so beautiful.Each and every story!:blushed:|||I would propose totally.If I felt it was right.I mean really.If I like a guy enough to be fully committed and see myself settling down with him I would ask.Heck if he was a romantic I would get down...|||Meow.Um Emiebean is a perky lil thing.She is always happy and loving!Except in bad moods :3 hehe. Emiebean is super silly,loves painting, and PerC. Always she tends to babble a lot, kinda...|||oh!!!Well in that case be real with them.Tell them look your a great person.But your ego..is kinda big.watered down it sounds mean but you know your friend better then me.I mean I kinda get it,  when...|||Sai Mostly just listen.Or try telling them how great they are you know compliments (we tend to feed off those things :P ). But it could also be they just need space?Really depends how they are...|||Moby your comments just always seem to lift my spirits and make me smile. Also I inspireothers by talking to everyone.I'm fine with everyone and love talking to people.Not to mention how...|||My latest dream was a odd one.I was at a funeral and looked older say about 25/26 range.But when I looked in the casket it was me!But a child me.Or should I say me now.haha.It was just odd.ANd...|||Tharwen  Small things can be big things.Or just have meaning that draws a reaction.Also being hurt over little things I tend to (I can't speak for all ENFP's) overthink it and think of every reason...|||I saw it mentioned guys have a problem of being called to feminine. :/ I get called to masculine!Even if i'm in a dress.Kinda makes me sad.DO other ENFP girls have this issue?|||Hi|||Just how I get called childish ,I mean yeah I may be 17 a child by law.But tell me to grow up? It hurts me.Because I love how goof I can be.I mean yeah I'm serious too.I want to be a politcian or...|||I don't think anyone who settles down considers there partner a boring person?I mean others might but they certainly don't! Most people don't wake up and say oh I wanna find someone boring.To the...|||Thanks!haha. In truth when I feel awkward I meow wierdness ik.So Mr.CafeBot I must fit right in!huh? lol! Um whats up with the warning about a horny robot 0.o just curious.|||Hey people of PerC! I'm Emie!I've posted some.But realized today I never formally introduced myself!:shocked: gasp!My bad lol.I'm an ENFP.Ummm yeah.Hope to make some friends and participate in...|||Reading all these comments is throwing me into deep thought. :confused: I enjoy it.But it does not help my migraine!'