':O!|||In a couple of weeks, I will be turning 30.  That doesn't bother me so much.  What bothers me is I am turning 30 and I have never been on a date.  I can go as far as to say I've never gained the...|||This thread is unnerving.  I am well guarded, well hidden, and yet I find myself laid bare in some way on every page.  I cannot speak for other people (or other types), but why does it seem the...|||I was thinking more in terms of personality in general than vocation, but that is an interesting observation.  There are niches for both in the work world.  Another example of this would be trying...|||So there are two questions that have been burning in my mind for a while.  I will try to be as concise as possible with these, but no promises.  1)  Does the environment we are in or raised in...|||Dear K,  After a nearly two year struggle, I finally told you about the impression you have made on me this entire time.  And it turns out you are married.  I had lost the race long before I knew...|||Not really active in posting, but I still lurk :wink:.  Thank you for the mention and wishes, I am doing well, and I hope you (and everyone) is as well.|||http://img215.imageshack.us/img215/926/unti54645.png|||Dear colossal idiots I talk to every day,  When you ask me, Do I put my old password where it says new password?  That has nothing to do with computer knowledge.  That is a lack of...|||That I cannot control the birds.  And they keep eating the breadcrumbs I leave.|||I'm tempted to post the gif image of the horse dropping a deuce from Game of Thrones|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2FQO1fj1MJU  If only I could trade it all for just one thing.  sigh|||I am in the middle of this test with one friend.  We reconnected recently, and over the past couple weeks since the reconnect, I have initiated conversation and topics 9 times out of 10.  I'm...|||Dear universe,  Let me assure you that I use dear as a formality only; there is nothing about you I hold dear.  This latest event has proven to me just how reprobate you truly are.  This was a...|||Hmm I may give this a go if I can think of one worth telling :laughing:|||I know my earlier post wasn't really helpful concerning OP original intent and question.  I do bid OP good luck in his adventures though!|||Not to be a contrarian, but am I the only guy that merely bedding a hottie has absolutely no appeal to?  I certainly don't bemoan those who do, but casual sex never appealed to me.  There are...|||Vocaroo | Voice message  THAR IT IS, my Percy impression, saying some lines form the clip|||Oh dear lord I had completely forgotten about this.  the hour is late now, but i will make a note to do it tomorrow evening.|||Feeling that I am, and always have been, simply at the whim of an insurmountable malevolent force far greater than I.  It is hard not to see glaringly obvious spiteful intention in these so called...|||Vocaroo | Voice message|||I am going to slowly introduce her to the basics of the theory, for sure.  But it has been said over and over here (and i thought the consensus) that a type should be determined by your cognitive...|||http://img12.imageshack.us/img12/7809/funnypicturescatneedshe.jpg  'Allo lovelies.  OK so I have recently reconnected with my best friend in the whole wide world.  We have known each other for 12...|||This really depends on what is implied by fitting in.  I can blend into almost any group of people.  I can fit into several groups and demographs.  The problem is, when I am fully myself (my...|||I'm waiting for a Pandaren plushie.  PANDA PLUSHIE    http://skepticon.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/knapp01.png|||Oh come now, I just meant a spot of innocent fun.  These threads are always interesting, I meant no foul.  I wasnt referring to the type, I actually didnt even notice it.  The thread title made me...|||Dear K,  I suppose I should close this chapter now.  I hope I can be honest.  You are the most beautiful creature I have ever seen.  (I know that played a part in my captivation/enchantment, but...|||-Tell us what you do for a living and why you chose to study the field (or job if you never went to school). I work for state government on an IT helpdesk.  I chose this job because they would hire...|||http://img215.imageshack.us/img215/1305/41276438.jpg|||mfw  http://img832.imageshack.us/img832/9117/1338005054558.jpg|||Dear old friend recently reconnected with,  I do not regret our reconnection.  Not one bit.  In fact, I am very glad for it.  I just wish it could have been on better terms, I wish I could have...|||I lost ~6 years of my adult life (2002-2008) to self-delusion.  When I came to terms and laid it aside, I vowed to myself to never, as in my power, allow myself to be self deluded again.  If I saw...|||Dear Spider Sense,  You have been tingling all day, and not 2 hours after I post this do I find out why.  I suppose it was the most humane way of showing me the last year and a half has been...|||Dear Spider Sense,  Why are you tingling?  Sincerely, An intrigued INFJ with a pit in his stomach for no apparent reason|||I pick up on a fair bit of loneliness and hurt here, from drifters mainly.|||Dear Monday,  COME AT ME BRO.  I DARE YOU COME GET IT.|||haha thank you.  i guess i have, I am a bit of an odd one.  I was a tad spazzier there than i am in real life, but that is pretty much how i am.  I talk with me hands and face.|||I had to go to page 3 to find this thread.  3!  So in an effort to keep it alive and inspire (lol) more participation, I offer this.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75oUyPLEJcA|||I dont think the problem is finding INFJs but more recognizing them.  You are probably around them and never recognize it.  Maybe.  /shrug|||According to the infographic, I am an abominable amalgamation of each.  Im a... gerd.  A neek.  Geekerd.  Nerdeek.  I am both.  Just the way I like it.  #chameleon|||Dear winds of change,  What an unforeseeable turn of events.  I am quite curious where you leading me.  Well played.  I know what I expect you to do, and if you do it, that will be your tell,...|||mfw  the ending Hah!  http://img849.imageshack.us/img849/958/1342732713009.jpg|||http://img9.imageshack.us/img9/284/1342233189735.jpg|||I don't always double post, but when I do, I cover it up with a bad meme.|||I like this question.  this is a good question.|||Ideally: I would say the heart and soul of a person is what makes them beautiful.  The outside, eh the outside can change at the drop of a hat.  Why put any stock into something so changeable. ...|||A cliche cannot keep you warm at night.|||Dear everyone in the world since apparently no one can handle this,  I like flowers, and I improvise.  http://img690.imageshack.us/img690/2858/0723121012.jpg ...|||Hmmmmm lets give this a go...  First pic is being being a general dbag in a terrible hawaiian shirt.  Around 3 years ago...  The second pic is much older, around 10 years, and is where I grew up....|||I had never equated being focused on the future with trying to establish emotional intimacy too fast, but it certainly makes sense.  Thank you.'