'I guess because humans=fickle does not mean fickle=no friendships/relationships. Humans are fickle by nature in one way or another. You're right that it's hurtful but if you're going to hurt whether...|||My cup of coffee is learning. There's a lot to discover in life. It's kind of like a dream. It's somewhat pointless but still very interesting. Life's the same way. If I'm going to die either way,...|||upbeat  You're right. I tend to falter when saying anything. I'll work on that. That's probably what I'm lacking.    INFPsyche  Thank you for this. I don't believe in myself enough and that's...|||What you described in the first paragraph literally never happens to me. Even when I'm quiet or don't care ._..  The second one also doesn't happen or I'll attract someone who eventually ends up...|||Ooo! I love psychology too. I understand. It's important to win people over, and it isn't wrong to do so. Awh thank you. I know quite a few people who are quiet and people respect them. I guess it...|||compulsiverambler  Thank you for sharing your experience (:. I'm glad it worked out for you in the end. It gives me hope. The way you described social anxiety is so accurate. I feel like I have no...|||I know but the problem is that I don't know what the right way is.  Btw, how did the books work out for you?|||Female INFJ  Thank you, I'll try that out. My one problem is... I'm afraid of what they'll say. :frustrating: I'm kind of scared they'll know I have low self-esteem (not that it isn't already...|||Do you know any INFPs like that?  It might seem unlikely but I know an INTP who is super charismatic so I hope I can say it's not impossible.  Anyway, I feel invisible a lot of the time. Nobody...|||I think poetic justice makes for a great story but shouldn't really be used in real life. Forgiveness is pretty hard for someone who has gone through a lot of pain. When people are in pain, it's...|||This is just my rant so I'm sorry if this wasn't supposed to be a personal thing.  I've been reading somethings and there seems to be this stereotypes that INFPs can't do anything. If it's someone...|||So far, I'm sure that I'm an INFP but I could be an ENFP. I used to score really high on Ne/Ni on functions tests and feeling came afterwards. I say used to because I feel like I just manipulate the...|||-Nonconforming attitude I don't know, I try not to be the one who tries so hard to be different. I don't necessarily stand out either but I don't like doing what everyone else does. Sometimes I wish...|||INFP - Taurus sun, Libra ascendant, leo moon. Sun in 8th house. Dominant sign is Aquarius. I think that suits INFP well since aquarius is independent, humanitarian, and non-conformist.|||I don't really think I'm a sensor. There's a notable difference between myself and sensors in person. I tend to focus more on the bigger picture, possibilities, future, underlying meanings, etc....|||Hello there! I'm confused about my type. I don't know if i'm an INFP or an INFJ. It's the J/P divide that confuses me. I prefer to plan things out, look before I leap, and am generally not very...|||Deleted because I realized I had already posted. Sorry ^^|||This was helpful, thank you (:. Thanks for taking the time to reply. I'm confused because I can't tell what I do. What I think I do might not be what I actually do. I voice my opinions, values, and ...|||I'm somewhat confused about my type. I can't really tell the difference between Ni/Ne and Fi/Fe. I thought I was an INFP until I started to read about some of the functions of INFJ. I started...|||Thanks! Don't mind if I do pop in sometime! Take care as well and make like a tomato and roll wit it. Translation: stay happy ^_^.|||DAW you just flatter me too much but thank you (:. I was talking about the I don't need to flirt, I will seduce you with my awkwardness picture. I don't think I've seen your home page thing, but...|||By the way, I love your picture. It's so funny and cute <3|||It's like you're me or something. TRUE, I usually eat too little but when you see that cookie sitting there on the table, mm who can resist that baby? I had problem with really bad acne because I ate...|||DAW you are such a sweet heart <3 you seem dayum cool as well :kitteh:. Thank you so much for this, I really appreciate it. If you could see me right now, I'd be smiling like a fool. :happy:|||Recently I've been doubting whether I really am an INFP. I would like if someone could help me choose. I've done a bit of research. What has been the most confusing is that if I believe I am a...|||AW thank you so much for this, I really appreciate you sharing this :happy:. I love how you love your friends so much, it's beautiful. It's interesting actually that you've met so many NFs. I've only...|||Sorry I know this is an old thread but I really just wanted to share. For me, criticism will hurt still but only very little. I think it's important to understand that although your feelings do...|||What did Jung say to the INFP man who had just made his new business site?  FiNe SiTe you've got there.  What did the INFJ kill his wife with?  With a NiFe.  What did the INTJ son say to his...|||I understand how you might feel and although I don't exactly know what she did, I can't exactly agree with you. Thank you for replying though, I do appreciate it :happy:|||Just curious but how do you guys find you have made your friends? For me, all my friends were made because I opened up to them right away. I don't know why exactly but I just felt like I could trust...|||I was just scrolling through this thread when I saw your eyes and can I say my GODNESS those are the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen. Can I has plz?|||When you think random thoughts such as:  D'awww! I love cats! I'd love to have one and I'd love it with all my heart and soul! But wait.. I know that I'll feel like I'll care more about my cat than...|||Or maybe you heard them wrong and they didn't say lovely priest but sexy beast. <3  (sorry I really had to say it)|||Hiii :). Here's my thoughts on it. First of all, NO ONE is unlovable. Everyone deserves and needs love and appreciation. Everyone has something endearing about them as I'm sure you have something...|||I wouldn't really say mask but different sides I guess. What really is the true us anyway? Don't we do all of these naturally? That's what I think but enough about that. I have the quiet, shy, sweet...|||I couldn't care about people talking behind my back even if I tried. I just never did. I can't even explain in words why I or how little I care.  I think maybe the way I think of it is that this...|||I think the trick is to know that at the very least, you don't dislike them back. It makes you feel all peaceful and zen inside.|||HELL YEAH! You go girl!  I have learnt this but not through experience so I still haven't put-in-to-practice-learnt it yet. If you know what I mean. BUT heres my take on it.  You know...|||My ex-friends would say I was selfish. But they failed to realize that they weren't meeting my emotional needs, and they were taking more than they could give. In a situation like that, it's normal...|||My ex-friends would say I was selfish. But they failed to realize that they weren't meeting my emotional needs, and they were taking more than they could give. In a situation like that, it's normal...|||Agreed.|||-MBTI -Self-improvement -Astrology -Aspergers a few more but I can't seem to remember them|||I read somewhere that we're academically successful and that things come easily to us.   For me, my grades are great. I'm lazy so I don't bother with homework unless the teacher is checking. That...|||Me definitely. People are too nice to tell me to shut up but jesus christ, a kidnapper could tape my mouth shut and I'd still be yapping on about my next obsession. That tape ain't gon stop me! ...|||I'm a taurus + an INFP. I'm on the taurus/gemini cusp so although I'm reserved, like relaxing, love art, etc. (INFP traits I believe) I'm also pretty jolly, bubbly, talk a lot (only with those close...|||(I don't know if this replied to the post or not so if it seems random, well now you know why.)  I don't really know whats going on here but I'd like to add something. I used to know an NT who...|||Maybe she just wants to be the rarest, the best, and wants to be perfect. I know because I'm like that too sometimes, trying to be something I'm not I mean.   of course none of that makes it okay....|||It's like you know exactly what I'm doing. Thanks for the tips (:|||This was wonderful and refreshing. Thank you (:|||INFPs might be called that sometimes, but we're still rational or logical. I often try to think things through, think about it rationally. Detach myself and my feelings so I can understand what the...'