'You are SO lame !! You are very easy going You are crazy! Where do you get this energy? You are deep You are fun to hang out with You are a goof ball You should work on being on...|||55130  & having what they perceive as a friendly debate  55134|||I am an ENFP and I have dated a male ENFP. Be blunt...but then play with it and pretend you didn't really mean it. Usually this drives guys in general nuts. It will get the idea in his head and he'll...|||Thank you, I will definitely say something. Appreciate everyone's insight!|||So interestingly... we never got too physical. He out of all people should know I'd be the worst person to rebound with...I don't sleep with people because of my religious convictions! We are...|||So, where do I begin? I am an enfp and I have known my istj guy friend since I was 17 years old (I am now 27). I still remember the first time we met...it was at my cousin's lake house in the summer...|||I hate their T. The ideal type is enfp, female...named Ashley|||Order them to do something mundane and chore-like in a moment of stimulated problem solving of an abstract concept|||I'm Wicked clumsy!! And I thought this same thing... figured it must be my under developed Si..But then my girlfriend, who is also a flipping klutz reminded my that she is an ESTJ and also stuggles...|||I go out with my girlfriends..shopping, coffee, drinks, out to eat. Or I play sports; golfing, shooting hoops, throwing a ball around. I need to always be playing...or learning something. If I'm not...|||Distance yourself from him. Know what you're worth! Far more than investing emotions into a taken man. If he wants you he will break up with his girlfriend and get you. If he doesn't...you will know...|||I can't spot one...but I can tell what they are once I talk to them for five minutes and conclude that this nut wont be cracked easily! And that I may never be the key holder to unlock who they are,...|||Presumably my opinion of 'good' people : )|||I hate plans!!! And I hate people who force them on me even more...|||I'm not saying we are perfect...to people that are jealous, miserable/unhappy, sticklers, we probably will have a harder time getting along with them. I wrote that in a playful way, and it may have...|||I am drained easily. I exert a lot of energy daily entertaining friends/working with people on projects at my job/playing on my sports teams etc. I am a ball of energy that just doesn't like to last...|||People are jealous of us! Or, we just annoy the living crap out of them because they are completely sticklers and/or unhappy and hate life|||Could be labeled that by the world but to me could be attractive as hell! Looks fade..the man or woman you marry could get into a car accident and become disfigured and left with horrifying looks....|||I don't struggle in that area either. I can say I am genuinely happy for people when they achieve success or have more than me. I usually enjoy assisting them to do so!|||For sure. The guys I have found the most attractive in my life where not necessarily attractive in a physical sense. I love a beautiful heart & mind!|||Us ENFP's love the newness of relationships...but less of the maintenance aspects! That's true for me anyways. Not only romantic relationships...all my relationships. I think when you meet the right...|||My First thought: She wants you. You got under her skin & she is trying to control her emotions so you don't knowr. At the moment, I have the reverse happening to me. I (an ENFP female) am crushing...|||Gotta love those beady eyes too|||Their muscles!!|||Sensor/J's played a part in my developing J...not my Fe.|||I am definitely an ENFP, it did suggest I was an ENFJ. I take into account nature verses nurture though...and growing up with a family of sensor work-a-holics. I believe this forced me to develop my...|||Your Cognitive Functions: Extroverted Feeling (Fe) |||||||||||||||||||| 9.38 Introverted Feeling (Fi) ||||||||||||||||||| 8.71 Introverted Intuition (Ni) ||||||||||||||||| 7.84 Extroverted...|||Viva: 4w3 7w6 8w9 so/sx Ace Face: 7w8, 8w7, 3w2 cue5c: 3w2 so/sp The King of Dreams: 9w1 7w6 2w1 so/sx Alysaria: 7w6, 2w3, 9w8 sx/so MusicBird: 7w6, 9w8, 4w3 Eerie: 7w8-1w2-4w3 sx/sp Finaille:...|||I guess different strokes for different folks..|||I agree, ESTJ's that are insecure especially. My sister is an ESTJ but has a good head on her shoulders...we are very different but she loves me for who I am and vise versa. My uncle is an insecure...|||I am posting this because I saw it in another types forum and to be honest it made me think. What do I like as far as relationships? What do other ENFPs prefer?? I get along with all types...but long...|||I have a friend who is an ENTJ. At first I didn't know how to handle her intensity!! And, didn't get her at all... But am happy to say we are now good friends.   She is very intelligent, confident,...|||I also have a best friend who is an ESFP that I have been growing apart from. She has chosen to go down the popping pills/drinking/sleeping around route, and I have chosen to further educate myself,...|||We do come off pretty surface-y. We also like to small talk, which I am learning a majority of personality types do not enjoy!!|||Oh, and I had a coworker for a short period of time that was an ENFP. She was really friendly, bubbly, warm, talkative, but also too open (told our office the first day she was there about her sexual...|||I dated an ENFP male. He was brilliantly intellectual, emotionally fulfilling, spontaneous, crazy, flexible, kind, down to earth, interesting, deep but equally sloppy, socially off, clingy, was not a...|||You're the first person I have ever heard say an ENFP is boring.|||The one ENTP I know is very wise. His passion and drive to understand and obtain knowledge is contagious and his enjoyment of life is refreshing. He is complex but simple. Stands out of the crowed by...|||too serious at work... Funny my boss always tells me to smile. I usually am pretty serious 90% of the time besides the 10% I am talking with my coworkers. There is a very clear line between work...|||1. Disrespect of myself or others 2. Closed mindedness 3. Intentionally hurting someone, especially those I love. 4. Judgmental people/hypocrites|||Conservative!|||Yeap. Have had a few in the work place...but the one I was thinking of is on my volleyball team. Really insecure guy on top of being a complete opposite of me. I get disgusted glares every joke I...|||Guys that wear funny t-shirts....attractive! It boarder-lines dorky but I love it :)|||It's interesting that you say that, from a male intuitive perspective. When choosing my clothes as a female I could put together something perfect to grab the attention of the opposite sex....but...|||I'm not determining what they look like, I am just saying the way we dress ourselves reflects the way we perceive the world and is how we are responding to it. I think intuitive types are less likely...|||Why doesn't anyone ever get a tattoo of hair on their head? That could be an alternative option if it caught on. It was somehow acceptable to start doing it at one point for eyebrows.. never looks...|||I think ENFP's would also be considered so-so. Most are not drop dead gorgeous (besides myself of course) but tend to shine from within. Our types are similar in we don't really care too much about...|||Just playin of course. But on a serious note, I visualize ENTPs only so-so in the looks category. Once you guys open your mouths (which is usually quite soon) you become a lot more attractive.|||I get worse with age. I am pretty careless in this area... but as a Design Consultant for a company I am forced to dress up and be fashionable every day. I would say out of all the other consultants...|||Soccer & volleyball leagues, any type of recreational 'fun' where I can run around like a little kid and get my energy out. I enjoy playing pool..and appreciate a nice drink on occasion. Not really...'