Sure they can be friends. But in most cases one if not both want more than friendship.|||I would never cheat on someone I am in love with and loves me back. That being said I did cheat on my ex wife more than once. It wasn't about having casual sex though not into that I was seeking...|||Sadly I started drinking exactly for that reason. Now I do it because its delicious and good for you.|||Im very open minded to new things and ideas as long as they fit into my value system. Very closed minded to things that dont to the point of fleeing a debate or argument and possibly ending a...|||I am unbeatable at ping pong and foosball but I never talk smack. Just say good game and ask to play again drives my friends insane lol.|||I enjoy going go clubs on occasion but only as an observer. Actually I prefer a bar setting one with a croud but not so crowded that I dont have my own space. Live music is the key for me. A cold...|||I have 3 cats and I love them my male friends thinks it odd that im a single man with cats but I dont care what they think cats are cool they are sneaky and remind me of woman lol|||Good thanks for asking|||True and I appriciated all of you all's responses, opinions and acknowledgements. a lil understanding and a few kind words goes a long way even if if they come from faceless friends. Thank you all|||Fyi I tried that for a couple weeks a few months ago and it didn't affect her in the slightest all it did was made me feel like I was going to explode because I couldnt get my feelings out. The way I...|||Those words are important to me too and hopefully one day she will say them freely but they aren't so important to hear that I give up on the best thing in my life because I dont hear them.|||She does express her feelings to me in of her ways she even calls me love as a pet name not to go into too much detail about her personal life but she has been hurt by past relationships more than...|||I think she knows I have told her but its as equally uncomfortable for her to verbalize as it is for me to hear it so I just keep on telling her and she just keeps on giving me a kiss or responding...|||Not exactly what I asked guys but appriciated none the less. You dont always get what you ask for.|||Yeah well thanks anyway.|||Hope you are wrong. She is an ESTX she scores 50/50 on perceiving and judging.|||Just curious how many of you all have dealt with this. I have told my girlfriend that I love her once a day for 8 months and she never sais it back. I know she does love me we are planning on moving...|||Its weird for me it seems like all the relationships where the ladies loved me I didnt love them back and the ones I have loved truly didnt love me back. My current girlfriend of 9 months I love to...|||I have the feeling but on a much smaller scale. There are plenty of areas I haven't seen within a hundred miles of where I live. Hell taking a different trail in the woods not far from my house and...|||Dont particularly like cooking for myself but do enjoy cooking for my girlfriend really enjoy it when we work together preparing a dish.|||Given the thought you have put into this my guess is infp in a growth stage but im really new to the whole typing thing. I too am an infp but its easy for me to cross over to enfp given my mood or...|||Infp here with a very healthy libido. Im a lil more reserved probably when it come to initiating physical contact with my partners but im good looking enough that that hasn't been a problem for me....|||Infp my first visit to my enfp brothers and sisters but dunno why tho we have so much in common pretty sure im an introvert but it only takes a strong cup of coffee a monster energy drink ot...|||Reviving an old thread because the topic is where my head is at right now. I have mimicked others my whole life to the point of an identity crisis a few years ago im a 9 by the way. Like others I am...|||Good advice thanks all|||How the hell do you indent from your phone lol I cant figure it out.|||Lol didnt realize I was being graded.|||.......Ok so my ESTX girlfriend calls me up yesterday and sais she wants to get out of the house and go on a date. Im like hell yeah the chance to go to a pub get some good food and a few pints of...|||Somehow I ended up working in a federal prison. I effing hate it loud ass people  everywhere if I could go back I would have been a biologist or an archeologist or a paleontologist.  I spend all of...|||People who fail to plan for the future dont have a future. Maybe that's one of the reasons they got left in the past with only a handful of offspring from matings with modern humans living on to pass...|||Yes and at the end of my day too. Come to think of it quiet at all times of the day would be nice lol|||That's like asking a redhead if souls are delicious of course they are.|||Functioning light sabors its like scientist aren't even working on them.|||The sad part is only intuitives get the hint. Lol and they aren't usually the ones that cause problems.|||I use to have loud outburst when I was younger but never wanted to it was usually when I was backed into a corner not physically but verbally attacked for being different. I would be quiet taking...|||Lol I have a huge noggin too. One size fits all my ass dont know my exact measurements but I have to wear XXL hats or 7 7/8 fitted. Who else has big heads lol? hats|||Ok this might ruffle a few feathers given that infps are known to be more spiritual than scientific but. Well one of my favorite subjects of study is paleoanthropology.  I love biology and nature and...|||Honestly after giving it a lil thought I really do love being an infp and the crazy part is I dont have to wonder what it would be like to be another type. Myself and most infps in general are really...|||I feel the same way love who I am just wish I didnt have to stress over bills and whatnot.|||To me talking on the phone is so awkward even to people im close to. Im not much of a talker to begin with but throw on top of that you cant look a person in the eyes and read their body language...|||Lol a buddy asked me the same question the other day. When I was young before the internet I spent hours reading the encyclopedia Britannica my mother bought me. And watched star trek scifi movies....|||Was hoping to see more videos dont be scared people only everyone will be analyzing you lol|||Very interesting thread. I agree with the OP about rambling out thoughts while speaking vs. taking the time to think about just the right way to express your thoughts and feelings in writing. I...|||had to post one time before I could post a video. sorry this is a filler post the next one is good|||good thread|||couple more|||I have all kinds of weird shit I have made over the years is spurts of creativity.|||comments ready go lol.  Becoming a Person means the individual moves towards being. knowingly and acceptingly, the process which inwardly and actually is. He moves away from being what he is not,...|||I find it amusing that there are far more infps responding to this thread than estjs especially given it's in the estjs section. And here I am another infp asking the same question. I  am dating an...|||I respect you guys for not getting all worked up over some silly little sentimental thing. I wish I could turn it off sometimes lol.