'SP/SX/SO here.  I am not in a relationship. *Alone time = oxygen. *   I have a hard time setting boundaries i.e. breathing space, cos i want to spend time with the other person and i feel an...|||I agree that not developing the secondary function can cause problems.  I wasn't able to develop my Te until I was 29.   although, I wasn't a conspiracy theorist in the slightest, I felt defenseless...|||ha! that is true! I once worked in an office with all ESF's.  We processed felony paperwork.  They all decided that it was serious subject matter, but having fun and making the atmosphere light and...|||yeah, I know there are dating sites out there, I've been a member of match.com and i'm on a few free ones.  I haven't found anyone yet, so I figured it couldn't hurt to ask on here.  At least I can't...|||I've been reading Please Understand Me II, and it points out very well why INTJ's and ENFP's personalities work together.  Problem is, I dont know any ENFP guys.  take a looksie at my profile, if...|||as a general rule of thumb, I feel like everyone can see that I have a crush on said person, even though I'm not doing anything that would warrant that kind of suspicion.  So I try to act as cool and...|||There's a guy I kinda like, I think he is an INTJ/ISTJ/INTP not sure yet.  he lives 6 hours away from me, but our families live in the same town, which is where we met, my sister played matchmaker...|||my days vary somewhat, and I like it that way.   I usually wake up between 8:30 and 9:30 (i'm supposed to sleep till 9 to help my adrenal glands)  eat breakfast, maybe watch tv 10:00 - 11:00 take a...|||a question for discussion: I am interested in seeing if a theory might be true: or if anyione else has any theories about this: what are the rules?   how are they determined?  what things are...|||I understand what you mean.  what I said may have come across as...rude?  legalistic maybe.  I probably should have included that when I said that, I said it humbly, yet simply.  I have no intention...|||I don't understand why people think they have to get married in a temple or a church or whatever- can someone explain this to me?|||I agree, I don't think the government should be involved in marriage- but the idea and institution of marriage was created by Yahweh/God- not human beings, so the one who makes the rules gets to...|||I don't know what to do... everything seems to be going downhill ever since we hit the one-year mark. I'm trying to give him his space but I can't neglect my feelings as much as he wants me to......|||I came across this article, I don't know if anyone else has seen it, but I thought it was interesting because it contradicts the usual mbti theory I've read that say's the INTJ's dominant function is...|||my sister and I had one of those cheap pools, then it broke, and it left a big circle of dirt which was great for making mudpies with my mom's old tupperware.  I really wanted to be able to build a...|||my mom is an ISFJ enneagram 2>1>6.  She is codependent, pessimistic, and has low self esteem.  my dad is an INFP enneagram 9>3>6.  He is calm, quiet and a typical mediator type 9.  he has more...|||sometimes I go back and forth between do I prefer extroverts or introverts?  I know some extrovert guys that are just crazy all the time, and they exhaust me just talking to them.  and I know some...|||LOL, I had a craving for a Boston Creme Doughnut the other day, really bad.  I got a pamela's gluten free white cake mix, put choc. frosting on it, and poured vanilla pudding on top.  all together,...|||As an INTJ/P, I haven't ventured much into the SP realm, but you guys seem pretty cool.  the SJ system is really annoying!  I guess what ISFP's and INTJ's have in common is that we quietly live our...|||eh, sometimes people take too long to say what they are saying, and when i know what it is they are trying to say I almost can't help but interrupt, especially if they've started repeating...|||I've always been artistic.  I started out majoring in biochem/genetics but there wasn't much room to be creative - I would have had to go through grad school and be someone's lab toady until I could...|||I'm and INTJ/P  - I thought I was an INFx for a long time.  I am sensitive, but I don't really show it as far as emotions go.  I am sensitive to color, shadow, light, patterns, discrepancies,...|||yup.  on things I'm really interested in, I research for days, weeks, years.  I want to understand it in it's entirety.  the internet has saved my sanity.  seriously.|||i totally agree.  we can  have a wonderful sense of humor, be artistic and/or musical, humble, etc.  we rock.  we aren't robots.|||I'm an INTP/J.  I consider myself attractive, but never notice guys looking at me.  It's usually my sister that tells me hey that guy was checking you out!  and I'm like huh?  I think the misnomer is...|||I second that.  :)|||I know you are getting a lot of info thrown at you as to what it might be, so I don't want to get really specific on you in case gluten is not the problem.  But, if it IS, I had quite a few off...|||I know how you feel, believe it or not.  I have Celiac disease- a very common, yet very misdiagnosed disease.  I had the same terrible headaches and nausea like you, along with some other symptoms-...|||well I know that INTJ's are confident people, and I am confident in most areas of my life.  But when it comes to friends or relationships I'm not confident, and I wish I was.  I keep expecting my...|||I am a graphics assistant/editor for an antiques newspaper.  I *really* enjoy it because I get to use computer programs to be creative.  I get to combine left brain and right brain functions into one...|||I vary between INTJ and INTP so I wonder...  (I) 96%  (T) 85%   Intuitive (N) 55%   Judging (J) 64%  Perceiving (P) 36%   Oh dear, not this one!    ITNP-slow burn identity crisis These...|||LOL one time when I was in 5th grade art class the teacher was droning on about instructions I had already heard before, she was being annoying so I was talking to one of my friends, and she goes...|||hmm?  oh yes, yes...I daydream....compare, analyze, restructure, plan, hypothesize, figure out what to do when to do it and what steps to take to open my own underwear company, go through hard times...|||it really pisses me off when other other INTJ's act like they know everything-which they don't- and disrespect other intelligent people like me who believe differently than they do - especially when...|||I sometimes question why I was born female.  Would I be the exact same person if I was born a man?  I have a female body, not that I really care which sex I am. (I'm straight by the way) If I didn't...|||well, I once knew an ENFP who *tried* to be everything to everyone.   Understandably, he had a business and wanted his clients to like him.    however, I found it to be offputting, because he...|||Here's an example of something that happened last year:  I had made my computer screen orange for a few weeks at the office I worked in.  I craved lots of junk food during those few weeks.  seemingly...|||I just want to say that I grow weary of the idea that all Intuitives trust their gut instincts.  I take it to mean-and maybe I'm off-that an intuitive would have a hunch about what letters to pick...|||yeah...  a few years ago I read a book about HSP's (Highly sensitive people).  i think I'm one.  We get overwhelmed easily.  I also don't know if it's related to being a 5, but I have fears of...|||AH!, so the variable for introvert S types dominant function is T or F (according to the regular model).  This makes sense- and your explanation fills in all the holes.  Thank you very much! ...|||Thank you to all who have posted thoughts on this subject, it's quite interesting to read!  So here's another Q - this time for introverted Sensors:  I'm reading Gifts Differing an MBTI book,...|||I too think that being a follower of Yeshua has helped me work on developing my F side, and it's always good to work on inferior preferences, it helps us be more balanced people overall.  I think...|||Well, I believe in our Creator, and I don't think that it defies science and rational thinking in the least.  It's a *snobby* attitude held by many in the atheistic and/or so-called scientific...|||Hi all, I am trying to figure out my mom.  I have studied the enneagram and mbti theory, and I have 2 conflicting theories and I don't know which one is more correct:  The first theory I read...|||oh man, I could write so much about romance...  as a female, I get the impression that I'm supposed to know what romance is and stuff.  When I was little, I read the fairy tales, prince finds...|||I too had this problem.  I KNEW there had to be a solution, so I searched till I found it, and it's called the paleo diet.  Paleolithic Eating Support Recipe Archives  it's awesome.  I keep my weight...|||stupid slow computer sorry for double posting|||thanks!  you made my day :)|||am curious to see if there is a difference in male and female INTJ's (or any other type) in which brain hemispheres are dominant/preferred. I got this info from Whole Brain Thinking  Here is the...|||am curious to see if there is a difference in male and female INTJ's (or any other type) in which brain hemispheres are dominant/preferred. I got this info from Whole Brain Thinking  Here is the...'