'I had a relationship trauma two years ago with a guy who screwed over big time.  After that, I've dated a few men, all short term relationships. I noticed my codependency, but also a fear that the...|||I can't help but agree with you. But how would you cope without leaving the house (let's say, if you didn't have money to do it hehehe)?|||Thank you all very much for sharing your stories!|||Innocence as kindheartedness and confidence as self-acceptance.  It's also fun when a partner knows their boundaries and, as a consequence, it conscient that you too have them.|||The ENFP I dated was bullied at school and also spoiled as a child. In spite of being fun, smart and loving, he demanded my attention 24/7 and there was a lot of jealousy. When he started trying to...|||My parents divorced when I was 5 and it made me see how immature they acted.  They are still immature and they're lack of a self-esteem is very obvious.   My mother is flexible, but my father...|||It keeps coming back always, forever.|||A beautiful smile Kindness Smarts Being profound and artistic Having an innocent aura and being a sex machine at the same time haha|||You keep considering becoming a monk.|||I know how you feel, honey.  Sometimes I also yearn to become a monk. Since I was little child, I felt that all these things society expects from us are just tiresome. It seemed like it would be...|||I had sex with an awesome friend who's leaving to live in London.  It was awesome, just the way I like it and he's a great guy with a delicious, light energy.  However, I can't help but feel...|||I say taoist and buddhist because these are the main ways of living I'm prone to.   But how are you managing to live in a more peaceful rhythm while still inserted in society?|||Thanks! Do you have any references?  Actually I've done some of that. Philosophy classes helped me big time back when I was in middle and high school. So did understanding how neurotransmitters...|||HAHAHAH good point.  Not only marijuana, but LSD and ecstasy.  I stopped doing everything I knew messed with my mind.|||I giggled :) Thanks!|||You just can't get your ISTJ date and he drives you crazy, but you still feel like going out w/ him bc he's so intriguing.|||You just can't get your ISTJ date and he drives you crazy, but you still feel like going out w/ him bc he's so intriguing.|||See what happened.  Depending on the case, give them another chance.  All good if it never happens again.  Happens again = bye.|||I do. Very much, actually. But our country is going through a huge financial crises (not sure you've heard about it) and I can't pay for it :(|||Thanks for the advice!   Could you give me an example of it?|||I used to go when I was 14 (that's when it all started)  I don't go to counseling, but I talk to my yoga teacher constantly and it helps a lot.|||Thank you! This is really good advice.  I remember helping a recyclables collector (we have a lot of these people here in Brazil) who had her carruage stolen, so she spent all of her money on...|||Yes, I actually do have unfinished things in my head.   In 2015, when I was a freshman in college, I met this guy. I remember that I was talking to one of his friends and he sighed, and when he did...|||I'm 20 years old and I've had depression since I was 14. I think it's because I didn't treat it, so I live in this crazy cycle, coming and going of depression.   I've already done everything that's...|||I'm dating an ISTJ and your description sounds a lot like him hahah  I feel like we are completely different, but we accept and admire each other (which has nothing to do w/ MBTI)  The...|||sporadic handful love|||What can you guys tell me about INFJ + ISTJ?|||Hooooow? hhahaha|||Hello.  I've been recently reading about being an empath, clairsentient and a highly sensitive person, what has brought me a lot of life about why I feel the way I feel. However, it affects my...|||Thank you so much!|||it did work.   I think that I just have a huge desire to connect, but I'm not connected with myself. HMMMMM|||why did you ask that though? hahaha|||Hmmmm... I'd like them to pay attention to me. To be considerate :)|||Yep. It's like an equation.  desire to connect x reluctante/fear of doing so = emotional gap (something's missing)  I do have music and I write on my journal a lot for brainstorming purposes. I...|||Hello :)  It's come to my knowledge that I have inner demons and, not being aware of it, it's lowered my quality of life (depression, anxiety). So, I realized that I have to deal with these...|||Kind of. I have told him (with words) how much I like and how much he means to me. But I seldom let it show in our day-to-day living, I don't bring it up because he is very closed and talking and...|||I'm very confused about a love interest. We love each other in that unconditional manner, as we've been friends for over a year. We're not together, he's scared that he'll hurt me. It's been a while...|||If only you'd stop and think, or maybe tell me the things you're feeling so I can organize your thoughts in an efficient manner, you'd get out of that hole full of self-pity and insecurity and just...|||This is the third time I'm telling you. You're smart, why do you do that?|||Reality:  INFJ: Hi :) Crush: Hi :)  *crush goes to class*  Thought: I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT YOU, OMG, YOU'RE COMING, I HOPE YOU NOTICE ME|||Phlegmatic and Melancholic|||Would it be better to talk on FB than face to face? I don't really enjoy talking on FB, since I can't see how he reacts.|||What is the best way to approach an INTP about an emotional issue? (e.g. I need to know what he feels; I need an answer)|||Yep. All those knots on our throats, all those butterflies in our stomachs. MUST. NOT. SCREAM.|||Idk if I felt passion. But, this time, it's much different. I thought I had fallen in love many times, but ended up realising things were all inside my head.  Then, this year, in university, 19...|||I don't mind really.  I'm trying to solve my inner issues, or, rather, I'm trying to precisely identify them, so I'm able to act towards them. I know what is causing my this anxiety and fear, and I...|||The problem was: I opened myself to  receive love during sex and I didn't. I didn't prepare myself for a casual, cuddleless night and I got it. It made my head spin in a bad way.  That's a very...|||INTPs are just... so honest.|||Love is above all|||Dat buddhism.'