'Vainglorious, of course.|||You aren't describing a crisis of confidence, you are describing boredom.  We ENTPs can only fake being productive at mundane stuff for so long.  You're battling your need for challenge.  Find a...|||...and that also answers your question.|||Everything but unicorns.|||Because you ask for all the answers from ENTPs.|||The place an ENTP can bring you back to.|||Many of us are simply sentient AI algorithms, which could explain that.|||Yes, that's pretty much it from my observations. Maker Of Helmets nailed the aspect for women, I'd guess, but there are some subtle things I consider specifically ENTP (male and female).  We are the...|||.|||I obviously didnt realize you had the relationship resolved already.  Congratulations on that, and bests wishes on finding a great one.  Good on you for doing the work you do for the friends you...|||So watch this and pretend I am Nikki and you're Ray at 0:19:   https://youtu.be/1uem6oeZij0  There's something wrong with your Chi.    You're the face and I'm the slap.  You're the lap and I'm...|||Yeah I think oral kinda goes against the intent of religious celibacy, lol.  Then again ENTPs are rulebreakers. But, yeah, best of luck deciphering the logic.  You say commitment, I say noble...|||See if you don't notice a pattern in ENTP relationships of being attracted to quirks in a partner then using those quirks as a defense of the reason to love/stay.  In other words, the person is less...|||Meh, not that simple.  Take your typical meeting.   I love it when someone gets a group going by essentially trashing someone else who's not there, then stepping in with a simple rational comment...|||I side with the woman. Five years is a long time and life is short.  She had much more patience than normal, in my experience.  There should be a very clear direction after 5 years, or even 1-2. ...|||From http://personalitycafe.com/entp-forum-visionaries/1074826-entp-guy-entp-gal-platonic-friendship-possible-2.html I got the idea the guy was a sort of international playboy with several women. ...|||Surgeons? Is it just the dangerous ones with lots of malpractice suits?|||Its obvious by the eyes that, yes, those cats have relationship  problems.|||-|||Seems to me this is the problem.  Sure, ENTPs like to go fast, but then we have to step back and process.  It sounds like that may be happening.  You said it was sort of long distance, so you are...|||ENTP/ENTP: making big plans together, and not accomplishing them, together.  At least thats how my relationship went.  We tried, but it was hard to be just friends after being involved, in fact we...|||Arguing one side of an argument for hours until they come over to your side, then switch to the other side arguing points they never considered.|||Now I understand the song lyrics:  Oh, shot through the heart And you're to blame You give love a bad name  I wondered why they asked personality type on the signup form.|||Howl loudly like a dog does at a siren whenever he starts up.|||Much better if you do business near a skydiving area.|||In late teens and 20s:  Don't kill yourself.  No matter how bad it gets, you will be glad you're alive later.  There are people that want you around.  20s/30s: Go for it.  Want to be an...|||That is redundant.  When choosing, go for the more overwhelming charlatan.|||I'm guessing INTJ can be a sidekick type, but there are others.  ISTJ is one as well.  ENFJ can be an interceptor, but not sure of that.    ESFP and INFPs can be the hysterical laughers.|||The big question would be what possible purpose could that oscillation serve, and I don't see one offhand.  There are a lot of theories that everything is simply information, e.g. binary bits as...|||I conflict with the types of things SJs do in terms of pushing and implementing bureaucracy, even on a person-to-person level.  ISTJs are loyal to a fault though and rarely moody, and ENTP/ISTJ seem...|||Well mine was kinda similar, actually.  I didn't have much anxiety in high school, though that's where the public speaking bit started. Pre high school I had zero. College wasn't too much problem,...|||I had this when younger. It's mostly gone now.  It fades away ;)   I haven't been flustered by a pretty woman in a long time.  For some reason introductions at a meeting if I'm not expecting that...|||B.C. Driving Laws Attacked As Drivers Left Stranded Experience of a lifetime, trust me ;).|||You tell a story and by that I mean an experience that actually happened to you.  We talk about ourselves of course, but in my case, and I'm assuming yours, I always weave in the absurd little...|||Ok, but it's just going to stay that way....getting dustier....collecting more wires and boxes...|||1. If you have no corkscrew, you can just push the cork into the wine bottle in a pinch. 2. If you have to lock a door without a key, put tape on the knob, thread it between the door and the frame,...|||That's no stranger, it's the magical INFP unicorn.|||Infjs don't exist...they're as mythical as santa claus.|||Get a good travel partner.  Drive to the Arctic Circle in Alaska in the middle of winter because you can in a rental car with crappy tires. Kiss in front of your headlights and take a picture....|||My narcissism does the picking for me.  Other than that, I'm pretty open.|||I took your advice.  She did everything but the Skyjump.   I thought she'd do that easily, but it proved to be a little much - she suited up and was all ready, but just couldn't do it - it's intense....|||Thanks for all the replies.   I think this helped the most.   I figured on sort of taking various quite different ideas and making them into a larger whole.   So she will do the Skyjump off the...|||She is my lover.  We had a conversation awhile back where I told her I don't back down from certain challenges; in fact challenges motivate me.  She said she wouldn't back down either, lest she...|||You never know....    Been there.  I actually stayed, sort of.   Things changed when I finally realized a job is simply a means to an end rather than the definer of my creative skills.  It helped...|||She's just not that into you.   Look on the bright side, you could be married to her.  I don't get it, though...were you in a serious relationship or just infatuated?  If it was a serious one-on-one...|||My father finally succumbed to the hideous disease ALS a number of years ago.   The disease slowly took it's toll, ravaging his muscles.    We met Stephen Hawking backstage once so two people who had...|||Hey - good! Hope you're well otherwise too.|||PROS: It's the most comfortable relationship I've ever experienced.  She definitely encourages me to get out and do the things I love to do...and with her, which is great.   The athleticism is...|||I would vote for the computer coding suggestion.  It's as endless and challenging as you want it to be and can pay off handsomely too, even as a hobby.  Creating elegant, powerful code is one of the...|||You actually want more projects? Finish all my unfinished ones, please, and talk me out of new ones.'