'To be honest I'm not entirely sure I'm an ENTP either, but I don't really identify with objective thinking.  I wasn't present on the forums for a while because analyzing my own type became boring and...|||Ok-- so I'm not all that emotional.  I'm pretty emotionally buoyant in that I rarely swing from one mood to another at all or let my emotions get the better of me.  I'm pretty warm even if I do...|||there is such a good story in this somewhere I have to write this|||I don't know what you're talking about.  I only date one type all the time ever on purpose to fulfill my Jungian destiny.|||LOL yes the sass is turned up to 11 with both of us around.  It's like verbal fencing.  The worst is when I don't get what he's referencing and I feel dumb. I hate that.  But all in all he's...|||I agree.  That's a lot like how our friendship is.  We don't need to see each other all the time but when we do it's like no time has passed.  We are both independent spirits like that.  There's this...|||Cesspool her name is Julie Delpy.  She's an actress/ director that I admire.  I've also been told I look like her.|||I am in my 20's and boy is this true.|||I never really thought of it like that.  He's modest that way.  I suppose if he really likes a girl, he's cryptic about it.  And very elusive.  I had a crush on him for a while, but he's too closed...|||_Observer_ oh sorry I should have clarified-- I wasn't talking specifically about you but about people in general.  Yes I do agree that there is an observable difference.  I was talking about less...|||Some of this is just bias I think. It's easy to be biased once you read all of the literature online about INFJs and ENTPs, or ENFPs and INTJs and so on.  It can be much harder to give someone a...|||Seriously.  This is a clarion call for all the NT women.  We need to form a coalition.  I am an ENTP and I thought for years that I was a feeling type.  After all, isn't it so acceptable and...|||This is the truth.  The *supposed* INFJ I know has a line of girls out the door.  Seriously, if there wasn't one girl pining about her love to him, there was another one reading a poem aloud...|||If INFJ men are unicorns, can ENTP women be the krakens of the sea?  We're pretty rare too:wink:  I've apparently met two and one is gay and the other is-- I'm pretty sure-- not actually an INFJ. ...|||I agree that she is highly ethical and compassionate.  I just think morality is almost a futile discussion in Westeros.  It sort of went out the window along with Bran when Jaime pushed him out of...|||johnnyyukon The Targaryens are moral?  They were known for being incestuous and generally mad as a result.  I'm not sure morality had anything to do with it.  I've also read a compelling argument...|||Not necessarily.  I just think my dad is a lot like Ned.  I've thought about sorting MBTI into Westerosi Houses but it's not as easy as a sorting hat.  The difference is that the characters in each...|||My dad is a lot like Ned so I would be a Stark child unfortunately.  EDIT:  If I can be a worg like Bran then this is ok.|||INFJ men make me feel... softer?  I don't know how to explain it really.  I just have less of a sardonic edge with them.|||with two hands|||This is the reason I think Ne doms and Ni doms go well together.  I am very good at taking my Ni friends out of their heads so to speak and allowing them to be themselves.  In my experience, Ni doms...|||A general rule is that if a guy looks at you pretty consistently he's probably interested.  Flirt and enjoy!|||It is simple.  Observe an Fe-dominant in their natural habitat.  Take notes. My mom is an ENFJ so this was like a daily lesson.|||We are also very good at evading your question.  It seems like you might come away discovering not much at all.  As for myself, I am a student in college and I'm on the verge of total freedom...|||I was an I/O Psych major for a hot second.  It was interesting.  I wouldn't recommend it as a major but it would be a cool career with lots of opportunities for advancement.|||I'm a writer so I can contribute something...  The best part:  the possibilities are endless.  The stories I generate are very convoluted and fun and unique.  For example, right now I'm writing a...|||TV Shows:  30 Rock Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt Basically anything written by Tina Fey (she is whip smart and witty) Firefly obv. or anything from Joss Whedon (an ENTP) Orphan Black (SO...|||Me: ENTP Mother: ENFJ Father: ISTJ Brother: ENFP?? He tested as one but Idk if I'm convinced.  He's got some strong argumentative tendencies but no tact with it and not very convincing, tbh.  He...|||I think we both agree here.      I don't think that's necessarily true.  But I see what you mean.|||I have to agree with maivilo , I think humanity is too complex a subject to be summed up in the life of a psychopath/ sociopath.  Certainly there is a lot to learn (hopefully from afar), but it is...|||Atla jeebus how many psychopaths have you met?  You must be some kind of psycho-magnet.  You might be interested in reading literature by Murakami.  His main characters usually deal with this sort...|||Guys.  What if she's using bomb-diggity ironically?    Clever girl.|||I know 4 ENFJs in real life.  One is my mom, and as I've said elsewhere, she's unhealthy and manipulative.  Another is a good friend of mine, and she's a doll.  She's very sweet and honest and...|||Starbuckskat I'm in college so I'm only around during holidays/ summer.  But after I graduate in May I'm spending a year at home to save up money.  I honestly don't know how I'm going to do it.  I...|||Also, if this helps, she fits all of the symptoms of a codependent personality.|||My mom is an ENFJ and we butt heads all the time.  Mostly, we miscommunicate.  I swear I try SO HARD to communicate clearly.  It isn't laziness, it isn't manipulation, it's just that somehow, every...|||I always think this is a funny question, and I'd be happy to answer this for you!  Yes, we do get turned on.  How depends on the girl.  What a world!|||I have a rule that I get work done early in the morning, chill out in the afternoon, and go out with friends at night. So maybe a third of my day is with people.|||@Moby I know 3 confirmed male ENFJs and they all seem painfully insecure/ domineering. Then again, I'm in college, so they may not have realized their potential yet.|||INTP, ENFP, ENFP, ISFP*, INFJ, ESFJ, ENFJ, INFJ*....  Hmm lots of feelers. I'm barely an ENFP though so maybe I balance them out?**  *these are my educated guesses **honestly my Fi and Ti...|||I'm imagining them all with lengthy dissertations...  If you know what I mean :wink:|||I really really like this thread|||I'm guilty of dragging friends out to go have fun.  But they never regret it.  It's always fun.  And I have FOMO (fear of missing out) too, but it's lead to some pretty fun adventures.  I love my...|||That is really interesting and it brings up another point about our identity.  Social media is another avenue for both expression and manipulation (they pretty much go hand in hand).  I think that...|||Well, that tears it.  There's always a past example of how nothing much has really changed.   P.S. I love all of the stock photos.  Here's my contribution  292074|||It's situational, and I don't go telling individuals how to live. I don't think I'm better than anyone for it (my rhetorical question was more of a tongue-and-cheek comment to my parents).  ...|||I  totally agree.  I feel as though people are becoming more passive in their connection to others.  As someone who desires intimacy with my friends, I feel very alienated when they are all on their...|||She reminds me of all of the humor in 90's films that I don't relate to at all.  I agree that she's pretty generic.|||I don't think you are being a pussy.  I think being alive every day shows immense and unbelievable strength.|||That's beautiful.  I read brutish as British and imagined Hugh Grant fumbling with that statement and I laughed.'