''Cause you got it like that lol|||Well, INFPvsESTJ, did I ever tell you the story of how I first typed myself when I came to PerC? So I am truly the wifty-pooftiest INFP you could ever hope to meet, but I found PerC and took all the...|||smiling because I have found my way back to perc and I see that refugee is still here!|||Thanks for your thanks.  I want to address a few things you said: (I'm just not capable of doing that multi-quote thing.) >About getting the negative self talk out of the way ... I don't think of...|||so i have worked on this for years, and a few things seem to have helped. a big one is to stop negative self talk, like I can't believe I just did that, I'm such an idiot, no wonder no one likes...|||Dear ENFJs,  I need some insight re: one of your people.  (...I'm not saying the behavior I'm about to describe is typical of enfjs, but I need some feedback!) My best friend is an enfj, and an...|||I'm sure...  I meant to add a winky thing so as not to sound truly offended or offensive.|||Why do you feel the need to command someone to not express themselves the way they choose to?  Don't.|||There's a lot of resources on line about homeschooling.  I was seriously considering it with my daughter a few years ago. One problem is that some school districts have made it so that your parents...|||So many great answers already, but I will try to add something of value (maybe)... I am in the middle, in my 40s, and it's harder to avoid these thoughts of aging. When I was younger, the thought...|||Oh, Hi Nelly...  Baba Yoga here. Yes, I think you are every bit as glorious as me, and your habits are probably quite as dreaded as mine, whatever reason you grew them for!|||No, I definitely need to relax!  Sometimes my sense of humor is funny only to me. Esp. since I hit you out of the blue with it.  NO SHAME!  I'm happy you're here!|||Hypersensitive.. I mean about the flattery comment.   All meant in a friendly way.  Sorry if I offended!|||It's very cute, very enthusiastic, very energetic.   3 posts in a row, with a few words each. I like your style!  Now about that hypersensitivity...|||Yes, your description of the lounge fits my idea exactly!  sounds beautiful. Thanks so much for your reply.  More evidence that I found his type!|||deep breath  slow yer roll, baby girl lol|||flattery will get you everywhere|||Hello ENFJs, (I imagine you each reading this in a neat, clean, creatively decorated parlor) I just typed my best friend, tentatively, as an ENFJ.  We've been discussing this casually for a few...|||Now that sounds like my relationship with MY mom!  I'm trying to figure her type out.  We get along ok, but we are not too close either. PS ... ISFPs are amazing!  I wouldn't mind being one LOL|||yeah, my daughter is an ISFP and we get along great, very similar!  like spending time alone... together lol|||I know that at a young age it's not easy to get away from your family.  You can try to move away, but it's even more important to give yourself a safe space mentally and emotionally.  A journal is...|||OK, take a deep breath.  I am no expert on anything, but you sound like one who has been subjected to deep manipulation, and needs clarity asap. Getting clear on what your reality is, and honoring...|||My longest lurv relationship was with an ESFP.  He was warm and outgoing in the extreme, in public.  He couldn't walk down the street without making several friends out of total strangers... it took...|||Fi  93%          Ni  91%          Ne 90%          Si  40%          Se 37%          Te 37%          Fe 32%          Te  28% These are my results, and I have to say, the test felt pretty right,...|||Though these traits are inborn, I absolutely think nurture/society has as some effect of the development of certain qualities.  Especially for older people who grew up in a time when gender roles...|||holy crap if I drank a few coffees and played that on repeat I think I could probably clean my house in, like an hour|||me too.  I was also thinking that king triton from the little mermaid is a silver fox hahaha|||Well, truthfully, it's the general character more than the disney version of the character for me, as well.  I should re-read the book this summer. BUT I have to say, the 2003 film with jason isaacs...|||I always thought he had a kurt cobain-ish look.  Excellent choice.|||oh.... are you talking to me? I sent a friend request.  We have to go now.  We just broke the rules of the forever alone club (see page 1)  avatar is a william blake painting, night of...|||we stare deeply into each other's eyes.  eyes half close as we lean in towards each other.  mouths meet... lips part... and somehow, with his tongue, he manages to pass a million friggin dollars to...|||Wow, you handled my harshness-despite-my-almost-total-ignorance-of-what's-really-going-on really graciously ! I think I feel a bit defensive on her behalf about wifty plan-changing because I tend to...|||hahahahahahahahahahaahhaha     oh crap. I'm here too.|||Damn you!  Now I will have to spend hours reading back through the thread, trying to solve the mystery of who you are talking about !!! LOL|||captain hook, HELLO|||>You're an E and she's an I, so it would be hard for you to understand those times when she just CAN NOT answer the phone. >Sounds like you learned the hard way that some things, said jokingly, like...|||Yeah, denial... I can relate.  I thought I was an intp.  Because, when I test, I answer that I prefer using logic when making decisions.  HAHAHAHA right. I didn't even learn to think critically...|||No, I can't.  I have to do my homework first.  You're too sensitive!  Look at me!!!  TMI, dude.  I think he said I so wanna bang you [guessing what Bill Murray whispers to Scarlett...|||oh, so many. alexander, active chid, jamie t, little dragon, temper trap, silversun pickups, rufus wainwright, martha wainwright, arcade fire, the smiths + morrissey, smashing pumpkins, elliott...|||I do this too!  I see a lot of people asking why? and advising you to just feel your feelings.  But it's so automatic!  Especially with anger.  Your quotes are my exact thoughts!  For me, this...|||You swear an awful lot for a teddy bear   LOL      (not that I fucking mind)|||I believe that Magic is Art and Art whether it be music, writing, sculpture or any other, is literally magic. Art, like any magic, the science of manipulating symbols, words or images, to achieve...|||NEVER! lol|||I always think of amazing sassy replies... 5 or 6 hours too late lol. BUT I have found a great way to deal with rude people, and it even works when you feel yourself getting upset.  Just slow down....|||I am with you on this.  I consider it one of my greatest weaknesses.  I agree with so many people here, who have great attitudes about dealing with these sort of people.  But in the moment, I just...|||I'm sure many of us have been (or are) where you are... I know I have been there.  18 is a difficult age to feel like this because you may feel powerless to make real changes (like moving away from...|||No, I never heard that before.  It's photo booth.  It makes distorts my face and makes my already big nose kind of longer and pointier, but I'll still take that as a compliment...|||so peeled that fruit, rotten 'neath the skin|||Wow, very impressive.  I will check out your youtube channel!|||amazing infp faces!  I love them all!!! now to bring down the property value around here... (ps i know fake mustaches on girls are played out, but I just can't let it go)38314'