'I like instructional manuals.   Cook books.  How-to books.    Lots of pictures = Good.    I read “Notes from my travels” by Angelina Jolie and enjoyed it.   It turned me onto UNHCR & made me...|||For what it's worth, I've never read anything you've written that sounded ridiculous or embarassing.  I read your question about dreamers.  I think I might've even answered it.  Compared to some of...|||I'm in a silly mood.  PerC is giving me an internet addiction  It's like computer crack  I might go get help  and just stop perc altogether|||I prefer instant mac n cheese over the real stuff.  Which is kind of disturbing considering it's powder cheese.  I blame this on commercialism and maybe even aliens.|||I'm glad you put this thread together.  Imagery art (drawing esp) is very important to me.  I still enjoy it.|||Can anyone relate? Yes.  feeling on display hits home for me too.    Are you good public speakers? I used to be.  I was in debate & model UN & theatre in high school and college.  It's easier...|||Then he needs to excercise more|||I'm the only INFP I know who does an INFJ doorslam better than most INFJs.    The people who have screwed me over... and I mean really really screwed me over... they no longer exist in my world. ...|||:mellow:  So.    :laughing:|||I don't think this is a silly question at all.  I think in the future there will be more idealists and dreamers than there are today.  Maybe that's because I'm an idealist.... :mellow:.   Someone...|||I'm not good with names either.  But  Oooo OOoo GUESS MINE!|||I'd rather be the good therapist.  My dream job would be a confession booth priest.   I like to solve emotional people problems because that's my niche.  Probably the same kind of rush an INTx gets...|||You're a dumb topic :wink: :laughing: .  Thank you for posting that|||Say personality cafe changed the thanks rules. They are no longer limitless.  Now they're like currency.   Part one would you give them away at every oppertunity, budget them out, or hoard...|||Welcome!!! I can get vocal if pushed to a point & can also suffer low moods too.  I've seen an array of mental illnesses (everything from OCD to severe depression & bipolar disorder) mentioned on...|||My heart goes out to you.  I'm sorry you've had nightmares like this. Maybe if you can clear the air with your husband about his highschool sweetheart the dreams will stop.  Maybe it has nothing to...|||You sound a bit like an INFP  If I could be anything other than INFP it would be INFJ.    BECAUSE I like the ordering of your functions.  It makes you more sane-er-ish.   Errr.... Rational maybe....|||In my experience it's not as bad as you would think.  Don't be afraid to take the leap if you’re considering it.|||Two thanks for every post?|||Personally, I'm one of those dull simpletons. :proud:  I'm just here for the experience. Wether or not it's random or only appears random or we have a purpose or no set purpose -either way I'm okay...|||Everyone who has something to say but is too anxious to hit send should just come dump it on my wall.  I love reading that stuff.|||It makes feel warm and fuzzy inside.   Sometimes I wish I could thank all of you twice.|||I hate that people can feel pain & wish I could help put a stop to it forever for everyone :unsure:|||Explain that for me|||1. Is it easy for you to maintain eye contact during conversation (in general)?   2. with some people more than others?   3. Are there situations where eye contact becomes too overwhelming for...|||I'm feeling really antisocial.  I wish I had a cave on a private island.  With cable.  And a big soft blanket.  Big fluffly pillows.  And a pantry full of cookies.  And really really cold milk.  ...|||1. Is it easy for you to maintain eye contact during conversation (in general)?   2. with some people more than others?   3. Are there situations where eye contact becomes too overwhelming for...|||I think ethylester and I were separated at birth.  I can wholeheartedly relate to everything she writes.  In this case I lost it at the same age.  In the same way.  Went through the same phase.  Got...|||Seriously this is what I think....No sugar coating...  Your dad really cares a lot about you he's just having a hard time understanding your vision.  He wants you to be successful and happy.  He...|||How good are you with dealing at conflict and criticism?  I hate it.  What's your way to deal with them?   Natural tendency is to internalize it and mull over it ad nauseum.  If it's a conflict...|||You sound like you're in a rut.   From what I know about INFJs you all have to retreat & recover from the world from time to time.  I wouldn't feel guilty about just doing the bear minimum and using...|||I agree wholeheartedly bellcs.  Well said.|||Well.... :dry:....  some of you remind me of INFPs sometimes ....sssssooooo.... where does that put us? I guess that means we're just all humans.|||1) for a mental squirk? Yeah 2) if so what kind? Body dismorphic disorder/related eating disorders 3) you can relate to it, can you then however relate to thinking you need to see one? Yeah.  My...|||Damn I'm wrong.  You're right.  We're a federal republic not a democratic republic.   I love you Absurdist, points for you.|||It's technically a democratic republic :happy:  I've heard some argue we're a republic that needs to move more toward democracy.  *sigh* I guess that means we're doing a good job of pissing off...|||Moderate.   Both sides need each other.  If we only have one hand on one side we're going to drop the ball.  One hand on each side pushing against each other is perfect.  That way the two...|||Thank you.  Haha... most famous artists don't think they can draw.  True story.  I'm sure you'd pick up on it (animae) faster than you think.  You should check out a drawing book or two at the...|||True.  Thank you Sedna90377!|||#129th reason I want to be an INFJ  http://static.howstuffworks.com/gif/tarot-card-1.jpg TAROT CARD Reading skills|||You're very brave to share your stories JangoScarlet.  Are you good at drawing?  This would make an excellent anime strip.  Your writing style fits that format.    I have lots of stories too.  I'm...|||Good for you for getting out there and seeing where it leads. :proud:|||... are you watching my thoughts or something :dry:... because I swear this is me and my behavior exactly.  To a tee.  Likewise faithfully married.   Likewise a romance imagineer.  It's just...|||Agreed with all of the above.    I'm actually kind of bitter about a radial design project I submitted in an art class.  When I was finished my teacher swiped it out of my hands and held it up for...|||I think it's easier to think it'd be the opposite gender.... until.... you put yourself in their shoes.   Then you realize it's actually pretty equally challenging & equally good.  I think it's...|||I can tell you're INFJ just by your face :tongue:.  I would ABSOLUTLY mind being single again.  That's why I got married.     It's the physical intimacy that keeps me hooked.  I'm a...|||Face your fears.  Plan.  Pack & Go.  Changing locations is powerful.  It really does broaden your view of life.|||I'm usually the one who thinks OTHERS are intimidating.  <- I've thought that about many of you.   People seem to have the opposite opinion of me.  I'm easy to approach but I get you're not as...|||... sexual grand master...? :dry:|||Sweet     Innocent'