'What are you? A weakling? You're just going to sit there and take that? Don't be stupid. Get up and do it.  -esque type of motivation speech reminiscent of coaches in sports. I'll never...|||I do think your surroundings and society has an impact on how we grow to be though this contradicts the belief that your type is innate. People tend to mimic and take after others. This does not...|||My ENFJ was the same way. He was mild and didn't party, but... still exhausting. It's just the dynamics we had was too dissimilar. I am extremely introverted and even while relaxing with the ENFJ, I...|||I (used to) be best friends and had seven years of will they or won't they? dating/flirtationship/I-don't-even-know-what-to-call-it with an ENFJ. Long story short, I find that particular ENFJ...|||I'm currently in a (almost!) three month relationship with an ESTP/J. He tested as an ESTP but with 52% on the perceiving end. From my experience and from what I can see, he behaves much more like an...|||And I agree with you for that, and you've probably put it in better words. It is unfortunate, however, that this type of mindset of non-participation is far too radical among most Americans. A mass...|||Some people can argue that voting makes little difference. But the impartial mindset that some of you have -- believing that avoiding the election altogether does more good than participation --...|||Thanks for the concern, Iselia. ♥  A lot of things have changed since then. I'm not as bogged down with work, and I'm not as mentally stressed. I don't talk to the ENFJ anymore, and I suppose that...|||Well then, I suppose I will sound shallow. My utmost important love language concerns the experience/journey/memories. I forgot what it was called. My second is... you guessed it -- gifts.   From...|||I do original art and graphics though I have not done any one of them professionally.   s y n c h r o n e t t a . c o m  All of the graphics in there were designed by scratch (patterns included)....|||I've had angry outbursts before but that's when people have really tipped me over the edge. Usually, I'd just retreat or ignore it.  But in between my 'HULK SMASH' angry and...|||I usually work with digital, but my traditional skills are similar.   http://synchronetta.com/artfolio/complete/Bioshock.jpg http://synchronetta.com/artfolio/complete/Thanatos.jpg  And since...|||I go to reddit on a daily (perhaps hourly) basis. For me, it's a great source of entertainment and a wonderful cure for boredom or procrastination!  Admittedly, I don't really post and to be...|||Honestly, I don't even know how people would find me-- let alone, how to find INTP girls. I go to a community college so right when my classes are over, I leave campus. Otherwise, sometimes I'd stick...|||Thank you so much for your responses! I'm aware that I'm being stubborn; it's just difficult to move on when the slightest bit of hope still exists. I've decided for the past week that I will move on...|||Hello ENFJs!   I'll try to make this as short as possible without missing any good details rather than posting our exact long history. I have a good friend that is a confirmed ENFJ. I've known this...|||Thanks! I usually hear that a lot -- that I'll still look young when I'm older. XD It gives me hope, but sometimes I feel people don't take me seriously since I'm tiny. :<  Ahahaha I think I did a...|||For some reason, I am unable to laugh at the jokes made on the show. It's clever, but not subtle enough for me. Half of the time, it's as if the characters are just waiting to interject something...|||I am so bad at planning things out. I just go in and get what I need at the moment for the next day or two. :/ Which results in the need in going to the grocery stores frequently...|||http://img213.imageshack.us/img213/3457/bangsx.jpg  Picture was taken yesterday when I managed to cut my own bangs. :X So this is a posed picture. I'm pretty sure I look more silly when I'm not...|||Even though this is coming from an INTP, I think you're wonderful the way you are! :]   If you have wonderful friends with different functions and strengths, perhaps you can observe and imitate? If...|||I don't know where this thread is going, and I'm more of a lurker -- so I'll just post a few thoughts. Firstly, (and excuse my language), I get a lot of shit from fellow peers for being lazy and...|||I typically enjoy JRPGs and FPS games amuse me. :]  Favorite games: Persona 4, Final Fantasy VIII, Bioshock, Metal Gear Solid 3.  Currently playing Final Fantasy Tactics, Metal Gear Solid 3DS,...|||I'd laugh at anything that is witty and delivered wonderfully. The only reason I have for not laughing at dark humor is when I honestly know the person is actually that twisted/hateful or I'm in a...|||I dated my ENFJ friend for a few weeks and now we're still very good friends. We went through similar things. It is amazing when we are alone together but in any kind of social setting, I fade into...|||What kind of driver are you?  Okay, I'm about to make a left turn here into oncoming traffic -- is that okay? No? Well, good luck everyone! QQ|||Personally, I see her as an INFP.   Also, I'm probably one of the most materialistic INTP I've ever known. I enjoy vintage shopping, collecting materialistic stuff, and I love music about sunshine...|||I personally cannot leave the house looking natural. I always have eyeliner on. I admit that I'm extremely lazy, so I would just brush my hair until it's perfect and occasionally put it up in a...|||I'm going through this at the very moment. Apparently, I'm insensitive and selfish. Then again, he's an ENFJ, so I have to be more cautious from now on.   And like your friend, my past relationship...|||As a girl and as one with a developed J side, maybe I don't have much to say on this topic.   But you should just go for it. There's no hurt in trying. If she gets creeped out, then it's not meant...|||Personally, I get pissed off not too often but it's not infrequent either. More often times than not, I will either hide it or express it verbally in a normal tone. I usually only scream and have...|||I agree with this. I've been complimented all throughout my life because of my artwork. I used to tell people that I didn't believe it's true and it's undeserved, but that just makes others sad. In...|||D'awwww... I thank you on behalf of the other INTPs who also love ENFJs but haven't replied in this thread yet. :D  That's very sweet of you. I personally know two tested ENFJs and I think ENFJs...|||I need that poster -- and combustible lemons. Honestly, I wouldn't think it's too hard... for science.  http://img829.imageshack.us/img829/7027/combustiblelemongrenade.jpg|||Precisely this.|||1. What is more important to you? The ends or The means? The means.  2. In your opinion, what is your biggest flaw? Laziness and the inability to get in tune with others.  3. What do you...|||Those are quite blatant assumptions you've got there.   Not only did I had quite a hard time reading what you've written, I have to say that using big words is usually for the sake of accuracy....|||I've recently had a fight with my supposedly best friend who's an ENFJ. He mostly assumed my actions without questioning and judged me to be insecure, condescending, and et cetera. He insulted me and...|||I'm no expert, but I would have to say (through my observations), a big clue to whether one is an F or a T is whether they're able to empathize to a very personal level. I'm an INTP who is pretty...|||I can relate to ISTJs sometime. I did question in several instances whether I was an ISTJ. Fortunately, the INTP profile fits me almost perfectly while ISTJ comes in second with INTJ following...|||I've been called arrogant. I also sense that people think of me as a pretentious, judgmental individual.   I've had many people tell my friends that they find me intimidating or they feel as if I...|||My result looks so organized and somewhat contradicting... I don't know how I feel about this. (Which isn't surprising considering my result.)|||Your situation sounds so familiar to mines.   I've also known an individual for a long while (not nearly as long as 20 years. Mines have been going on for seven years now.) The only difference is...|||I personally love stories that are not necessarily open-ended, but are masterfully crafted in such a way that it is up to the viewer's interpretation what the universal message of the movie/book is....|||People assume that I have low self-esteem and had been called out for it.  I just call it being realistic. Then they also call me pessimistic.  So honestly I am not sure. I always thought that I...|||My situation is the exact opposite.   I can't seem to befriend women easily. It's not that I secretly adherent the idea of having more male friends than females. Though I can admit in my younger...|||Most of my vents/rants are subjective therefore rendering them petty and unimportant to me.   But in short, I mostly dislike people. I always find the means to see everyone's flaws and notice how...|||I know I'm not part of the majority but I love shopping.  I enjoy wearing nice tops, short dresses with leggings, or layers upon layers. I am more into the urban look with a feminine touch. And...|||I think it's a popular misconception that INTPs (or NTs in general) are not sensitive. While this is true in some cases depending on the individual, some of us are sentimental too.  Personally, I...|||Not really creative since it's not self-expressive, but here's a digital painting; a portrait of Zooey Deschanel from 500 Days of Summer. :]  http://img97.imageshack.us/img97/3224/zooeyt.jpg'