'Yeah, you can spot them indirectly. Generally. Of course you don't see any functions directly if we're being literal, but... well you know what I mean.  Anyway.  I can't comment on Socionics. Had...|||Ooh, thread necromancy, someone forgot to check the post date :>  But!  One, Si doesn't show - it's introverted, not extraverted. Two, INFJ doesn't show Si, since we don't have it - our Sensing...|||NFJs are the most talkative types, actually, and when happy may be impossible to shut up. ENFJ is the most talkative... INFJ may need some time to warm up to people|||Ni-ght Owl.  Hoot hoot.|||For starters, stop being so negative about her personality. I'm confident that will help. You say that you want to help but all you do is put people down.|||That evil Vulcan =(|||O_o  Aw, sucks to be you man, 'cause even the male INFJs are girly.|||INFJ are actually naturally good at setting and maintaining boundaries, our challenge lies in communicating them. I have no problems being judgmental (I am a Fe user) but thanks to my legendary...|||Under extreme stress I withdraw from people, go to bed, and (try to) sleep. I just shut down, pretty much.|||If I would take this thread seriously, and reply that yes, I also have trouble with that, we'd have a paradox, and you wouldn't be able to take me seriously. I don't know what to do.|||Can't say that I do. Sounds depressing.|||Generally, yeah. Evil Ne users won't stay focused when I have so much more to say D:    Most of this is fairly typical for INFJs. You're right, you probably are one, not an INTP. At least, I...|||Unhealthy INFJ gets nasty, not thinky though. Won't look like INTP, unless you have a really negative view of INTPs.     I know some theories :p  One is that they like to theorize out loud and...|||Ne. You also give me a Thinky, not a Feely vibe, with all this theorizing that you do. Ti-Ne. Could you be INTP? If you don't believe you are, why not?|||I can't tell yet but recently I found this blog with lots of good articles about all the IN* types and the differences between them, seems like it may be of use to you? There's plenty of INFJ vs INTJ...|||Fish are food, not friends :(|||No, it is not. You can pretend to be something else, but, you're not it. It's not about behaviours, but that's the only thing these tests can measure so that's what they do even though it's highly...|||I picked 9 because there was no one else there yet.|||Choleric is where it's at! Crazy amount of Melancholic votes. That's so wrong.|||Absolutely, but it's also good to be aware of the other perspective. These typing systems do work with generalities, abstractions, stereotypes, but, as it happens, so does our Introverted Intuition....|||No, get in the box.  Some people make the mistake to think that a MBTI type defines a whole person. Or perhaps they're just afraid that it does.|||Oh. Totally sounds like the sort of thing I could say without meaning to be condecending or hurtful or even realizing it could be taken as such until a minute later. After all they're just, you know,...|||No thread necromancy >:(|||Haha. Yes, I over-reacted. Unpleasant memories. This is a huge red flag, though. Yes, she should communicate. If it doesn't get better, though... well, life's too short and precious for that.|||Entitled? I think she's being unreasonable only in that she hasn't dumped him yet.|||Regardless of your intent... there will be people there who feel like he does. I don't think you should do it.|||Hi. I'll add my thoughts =)    Generally, your strongest functions are the functions you trust the most, and the lower functions are the icky ones you push away. The way you describe it - logic...|||That's right. We're free, independent thinkers (Ti), and think independently we shall! I-iiif that's okay with everyone, of course (Fe).|||You're right - it doesn't make sense. I don't agree with the rest of your theory though! I now believe we don't have all 8 functions - we only have 4.|||Probably Ne. Want to start something but they keep going and going and going and going and going and going and going and going and SHUT UP :(|||I wonder. I actually wasn't aware that this condition existed, but it reminded me of a website I ran into a few years ago. I thought it was a bit odd that this guy was talking about picturing a...|||When your clothes no longer fit :]|||Is he married?|||Troll people, of course.|||That sounds horribly inappropriate for an INFJ forum D:  :disapprove:|||Random deep focused discussion that can and should be derailed. I... what|||I'm 100% fake, but nobody suspects anything.|||Short answer.... I don't.|||INFJs generally suck at staying in touch. Sorry about that. Give 'em a call. If they respond, it's not a doorslam :D|||Chocolate.|||Introverted functions don't usually scream... but you can have both Ni and Fi if, for example, you're an INTJ.  *dodges original question*|||Crystal ball says yes.|||It is not rejection, he does need space. When together his focus will be on you and that's draining. Too much and he'll simply shut down. It is not an option for INFJ - he needs alone time.  It'll...|||Ni and Se are opposites - they can't be used effectively at the same time. To boost Ni, reduce sensory input. Low light, quiet, etc. To give Ni a break and rejuvenate it, go do a Se activity......|||Well that's great because emotional responses aren't generated by MBTI functions. Fe has nothing to do with emotions either. It's a process of making decisions based on values that are decided...|||Done that for as long as I remember! Felt bad for the toys that didn't get played with. And if I lost one, I felt bad mostly for the toy, not for myself ;p Not just any object, though - mostly my...|||You're really too young to tell, but maybe you are. Consider looking ENFJ or ESFJ too. You're now at the age where your second function typically develops so if you've been using that Fe since many...|||Nah. Spend some time in the NF forums and watch how easy it is to piss one off ;) Melancholic does not describe NF at all.|||Ah let's see ... besides the usual calendars and mail and messaging apps and stuff I use:  2Day: A to-do list app. It's a list of things I should have done. Nextgen Reader: A nice and fast Feedly...|||Not having been in either situation I can only guess... but I'll do just that!  1) Duck. My response to threatening situations tends to be Flee. I create (physical) distance and once safe I'll...'