'If I have any Si - it's only there to serve my Fi/Ne. It's never 'on it's own' or a major factor in my decision making. I inform myself mostly through my Ne. If I were to chose from Si and Se - I...|||Sorry if my post above is a bit unclear... it's sometimes hard to speak precisely and clearly straight from the deep Fi-feeling...|||Hi fellow INFPs.  I decided to post here and seek your input, thoughts, shared experiences on this topic. I am observing lately in myself the inner need/urge to help others. When I see people...|||Hmm... you sound ISFP to me. ISFPs are very imaginative too as INFPs. but I just don't hear this big-theory picture exchange here as I do with my ENxPs.  From your other posts you remind me more of...|||INFPs talk more than ISFPs - especially when it comes to musing about concepts, ideas, wide-spread visions, connections they make between observations - we are just much more verbally stream of...|||This. How you both deal with it (together), not what she does. You sound as on a good track, all the best! :)|||Seems her motives is attention seeking. Clearly she seeks attention from your partner.   If she says she would have no problem sleeping with someone who is in a relationship - I would believe her...|||Calm, tired, with a hint of satisfaction.|||Disappointed. I feel so disappointed today by someone's actions. I don't even know if they recognize it. I have strong demands from myself. Unfortunately, I demand the samer of othes. I am painfully...|||Haha... so I see you've made a decision. So you are INFP. Happy to meet you and welcome to our INFPness! ;) :D|||For INFP vs ENFP thing you need to find out which one is the stronger one in you: Fi or Ne. There is no other way. If you're struggling to decide you might be ENFP- ENFPs deal even worse with not...|||I said ENFJ :P|||First of all, thank you very much for all the responses. There is a lot of interesting points and I need to ponder a bit over them.  Yesterday I decided to write this post as this was just after...|||That is a very good question. I think they see some of it, but not all of it.|||Hi INTJs,  I came here with the question that is not particularly related to INTJ, but I hoped that maybe some of you had a similar issue and could share your point of view.   I have a direct...|||I appreciate xNTJs and things they bring to my life a lot. I generally like working with them, surprisingly I experience it as a very easy match work-wise - but I need to mention that I have a very...|||Larch - through the connected universe, please accept my heartfeld I am sorry. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us.|||Yes, actually it is. But I've discovered it just now - I must have been meeting wrong ESTJs before :D|||I fail to notice Fi in Lorelai. To me she is all about Fe - her emotional outbursts, her rapid decisions, her lack of emotional boundries with other people. She gets manipulated by Emily (ESFJ) and...|||Couple of questions inspired bysome recent experiences and just from the to of my Ne... *couch* sorry, I meant to say: my head:) So: - do you often find yourself taking things too personally? - if...|||Incredibly, deeply, soul-breakingly sad.|||I've had couple of interesting/inspiring interactions with ENTJs through out different periods of my life, one very close ENFJ and two close INFJs. Some of them with a strong Ni.   I do know few...|||I don't know if that would win me over - it's getting there, but not quite there yet... ;)  Assuming that I do think myself that this product will help people in one way or another - I am much...|||In terms of functions only and basing it on other people using those functions: you've got this inspiring mysterious Ni that makes you quite rigidly define the goals (even if the goal is defined just...|||ziggySturdust  What  Rivulet said.   I also kind of think it's a bit easier when a partner you know and love already becomes disabled or when his body drastically changes. Otherwise all those...|||:)|||Double post.|||Rydark There are some ENTJs I highly value.   We are opposites, but can mirror one another in an interesting way - through Fi/Te. ENTJs tend to respond well to my little Te and help it work...|||? I know how I feel ;)|||Just the side note, but your description of her made me feel so relaxed :saturn:|||The reason I've had a Fi reactonand started disliking this guy was: 1. INFPs typically are good listeners and have an individualistic focus - meaning when they listen to you they want to...|||I feel too irrational for the outer world.|||Sorry for being F here, but I must admit - after those two comments I really honestly started disliking this guy. INFP or whatever personality type - that's not of importance here. It sounds bad -...|||I don't know if this is in any way universal to INFPs. I know it works on me, so I am selling you my darkest secret now ;)  ...try to complement him on something you think he should improve in....|||BTW - congratulations on new job!|||Just calmly. With thank you if there is something you appreciate. Wouldn't recommend commiting to something in case you don't know if you can do it. If you will and it's fine for you - than okay....|||Introverts/Extroverts - in what sense? In terms of feelings/feeling functions ENTJs should probably be considered introverts - Fi not Fe.   It's also very well pictured in ability to recognize...|||That's because you were listening to what you wanted to hear, not to what Peter was saying ;) Common INFP thing, we can get like that when we listen to our dreams more than to reality. That's...|||I don't think that INFPs can get any closer to understanding ENTJs by trying to relate ENTJs outer/inner workings to the way INFPs work. I know you see the shade of the inner Fi in those strong and...|||OMG i love you :blushed:|||1. Do feel like you have more emotions than most other people? I used to think they have as much as I do... :)  2. Are your emotions more extreme than other peoples emotions? (ie very sad or very...|||Thanks one more time! I must admit: I am still processing information and kind of trying them a bit during the interation with him - it seems you were right on so many points - although my perceiver...|||White River - I do need to disengage and be on my own from time to time. I believe it's also because I am working pretty hard and at work I need to push myself into more extraversion-requiring...|||pearslug - Oh wait - there is Ask a male INFP anything thread. You will find it on the first page. There might be other threads interesting to you too.|||:) I would say: go ahead and create one like that. Why not - some other types may want to ask us some questions not raled to relationships :)|||Thank you, you are so kind :)  Don't worry, please, it's nothing urgent.   There is this I(?)NTJ guy - I am sure of NT + J part - the I part is more what I am guessing here. He's been nice to me,...|||Yes, sorry, I see it's written unclearly. I meant: disengagement is normal for me. I need some space and time to re-charge my batteries etc. If I don't disengage for a longer period of time - it most...|||Green Girl - if this is of any help: in the feelers eyes attitude of this ISTJ seem very problematic and unjust. She is putting herself in the position of a judge. Is this justifies somehow? You did...|||Where from do you know so many things about INFPs?:blushed: And, more importantly: how does one get to the fluffy inner side of INTJ? I am fluffy myself, I promise, I won't do any harm (might do...|||Green Girl and Mbaruh - it's about INFP trying to understand INFP - INTJ relationship and how are you different from us. I haven't put it that way, because I wanted the question to be more clear (and...'