'Never mind.|||Your brain doesn't ever change -- it's simple neurology. Your personality is your individual expression of who you are, and yes that can change quicker than the weather.   It's a great...|||People that think their type changes. Ever.|||Again, I can't reiterate this enough, it's a complete misunderstanding of Jungian type theory that results in the issues you brought up; you would be surprised how much Jung himself supported the...|||Audrey: Your avatar is full of win. That is all.|||Moral decay.|||A-freaking-men. It's like this for me at home, work... etc|||Imagine the relationship between and INTP/ESFJ. :P|||noxchi: Very glad to hear that your relationship is the bomb diggity LOL. Especially considering the difference in iNtuitives and Sensates; however, I can see how it'd work, in your case. The NP/SP...|||Yeah, I agree. I would have posted a similar message myself but I've seen that many people have covered it before me, LOL.|||I LOVE the former two. I don't know how an INTP can dislike them.  Okay, some INFJs who are unhealthy tend to just advocate for the opposing argument just to be argumentative, and then refuse to...|||I feel you, but I care much more about her being happy with life than with my little world. I can just go home and hop on the PC, forget about life, and wake up tomorrow wishing I can find another...|||No no no, I get you completely. I was having a conversation like that today, but it ended the opposite... she left, and I was alone in a large, empty room devoid of sound and cold. A haunting...|||I like one-on-one dynamics.  Depending on who you're with and the situation, you can set the tone. If you know the person you're with well enough, you know what kind of conversations you can have. ...|||No, because that would be the entire world. If not, America in its entirety would at least count (numerically speaking) for how many people in the world qualify for that statement.|||Well said.  I think that making big decisions with the existential knowledge that time is short is probably my biggest peeve right now. I can't tolerate even thinking about it, I feel so restrained.|||So glad to hear things are working well in your marriage; it is food for thought indeed.|||That's exactly it.  People don't understand how useful it is in a relationship. Nowhere in MBTI theory does it say you are supposed to be with a certain type, and nowhere does it say two types...|||Why I Would Never Date Based on MBTI   Do they just post to reaffirm themselves, or what? They read the title, instantly react, and leave a passing statement without ever trying to truly understand...|||You should always be seeking a woman out who is healthy and comfortable in her type (regardless of whether or not they know it). Relationships between Thinkers and Feelers can work just fine,...|||Three words:  The Ultimate Sacrifice.|||Debates.  JUST STOP TALKING and believe what you want, already... no one is going to change their minds, not on this planet.|||Maybe... or maybe you're a BioGhost :D   ...couldn't help it >.<|||I'm going to go out on a limb and assume you haven't ready anything the authors of MBTI wrote about it... like that it's dynamic, no one will fit their type 100%, and that you learn more about it in...|||ESJs in general, lol.|||I use thank as a like button, and because when I am on after work I rarely have anything meaningful to add to already well thought-out posts. Not enough energy to muscle out some rational thought...|||From what you said, he sounds like an unhealthy ENTJ. While I am sure that their assumptions on an ideal match assumes an ideal pair of people, this isn't an ideal world. I've found myself at odds...|||jennica : Being married to an INTP as a Fe-dominant type does indeed have some serious consequences. I am so short of emotional energy when she needs it the most.|||I have cried in front of others perhaps twice in my life, but the only time I ever felt better was alone.|||Yes, yes... I need that and don't get it either >.> being married to an extravert has serious consequences, especially the needy type.|||I just whistle it because I love it so much I want to synchronize with it.|||You'd hate me at work; I whistle a lot, mostly to ignore the crappy music, but sometimes because I want to hear some of the music I am composing (in my head) aloud.|||Expectations...|||No, you made perfect sense, and you're right -- studying psychology (as in this case, as a hobby rather than a professional pursuit) is a great aid in relationships, especially if you come from a...|||I don't mind country music, but when it's loud I'd rather be jumping off a skyscraper.  Hearing the same hit songs, no matter the volume, OVER AND OVER, repeated 5 times a night every night......|||Frankly, I'd rather have a narrower margin of people I spend time with than spend time around people who will be a bad influence on me.|||Stop quoting me. >.>   ;)    It's so good to see how I feel put into words... thank you xD and, yes, I hate it when even people close to me just reach out and grab my belongings.|||No, but like I've said before, it can be a helpful guide, some basic general advice to follow. I know many people who've married and divorced because they just don't understand some of the outlying...|||My wife, then. ESFJ :P|||And then when I DO feel strongly about something, WATCH THE HELL OUT|||In my every day life, I hate this with a passion.|||Yes, but we also like lists and comparisons (some of us...) so most just put their two cents in and turn away. I would have turned away but I never unsubscribed from the thread... I'm too lazy to do...|||You know, I watched that video. But it led to one that made me laugh and cry for a good 10 mins... I love watching funny videos when I'm tired xD  ...|||I get asked dumb questions all the time, then...|||It doesn't say that Thinkers are emotionless. You don't understand what the Feeling function really symbolizes.   And, by the sound of your post, the MBTI is very useful to you, because you said...|||My wife is an ESFJ, and every day it seems is a reminder of how polar opposite we truly are. We solve problems the entirely opposite way; she often causes more problems and extra stress, and then...|||Nope, that's me too xD|||Yeah, that's me as well. Makes people mad when they discover I'm not paying attention to their rant :D|||What I hate the most, is when the shoe is on the other foot and said Feelers are deliberately deriding someone. I try to defend them, or at least tone down the conversation a bit, I am not on...|||SOOOO me. >,<'