'Dear ExTx teammate (whom I like, duh,)  The season is over and I’m not sure what to do.  I texted and asked if you wanted to play another game at the bar where we usually meet, but you said you...|||Although, you are correct, it wasn't my original intent, I try to appreciate a good ribbing when I get too self-absorbed in my own observations/general perceptions.  Lol!  And yes, LiquidLight is...|||Haha! I'm using this next time.  And I very much agree that I must be over-inferring, which is why I asked INFJ's what extroverted thinking is (and therefore what to do--how's that for inferring?!),...|||Here.|||Perhaps this is a form of stupidity, but I find that whenever NT's start a tirade about intelligence, I feel the need to sock them with their own stupidity--except I can only do this in person and...|||I enjoy always being surprised to find out how loved and cherished I am.  Seriously, it's always a shock every time someone comes out and tells me, and then like 5 people chime in.  It is always nice...|||All I can tell you is that my INFJ-ness has me strapping on my morality armor ready to take on this situation, ready for any kind of fight.  The fact that this is my go-to reaction, let me say:...|||...when you're mad that you're something so annoying as *human* and you catch a cold: a tiny little organism that wreaks havoc on your body, which you already have enough of a hard time acknowledging...|||As an INFJ, the fact that you'd be hiding (I'm sorry but people just stink at this--you'd be better off fooling me by being obvious: It can't possibly this simple!?!?!) and what you are trying to...|||Dear ExFJ co-worker,  So last Friday, somehow the subject of our fellow ENxx (I suspect TP) co-worker comes up and how all of his friends are getting married and he’s worried about it and you tell...|||...when after you see a man (I don't think he was her father) audibly smack a child's bottom and yell, Your mother doesn't want you! you immediately see every avenue you could use to terrify and...|||Sorry, cringing at bad grammar is all part of the charm! :wink:  But if you are asking where to find us, honestly, I'm looking for other INFJ's too and if they're like me, they are either at home,...|||...when you bake sweets that ruin store-bought foods for yourself and others, they are so good, yet when people ask you what your secret is, you can only answer, I get free-handed with the sugar,...|||Omigo-, this is so me when I was in school!|||I had a somewhat similar experience: in 5th grade, after my having moved to a new state that previous summer, school used to start with some 10 problems or something of the like, written on the board...|||Okay so after thinking long and hard--and then realizing that doing so is one of my biggest contributing problems, I've come to the conclusion that I've become overly introspective.  I became fixated...|||Dear xx(I suspect IS)TJ boss:  I must admit I'm immensely amused when you tell me that you were just talking about me--in a good way--and proceed to question my reasoning (which I understand, that...|||I admit I was miffed after reading this.  I was trying to explain that I'm trying my best to see things through another's eyes, but it's obvious that I am not successful.  Perhaps you are still...|||Namely, from my own experience, admittedly, so I'll use myself as an example.  Oftentimes the conflict--near constant conflict environment, to use your words--is my own perception.  It is admitting...|||Happiness 101(ish) I think #'s 1 & 2 most aptly apply to your situation (called life):  15 Things You Should Give Up To Be Happy | Purpose Fairy|||I've tried math to figure this out.  I gave dominant functions a value of 4, auxiliary = 3, tertiary = 2, inferior = 1.  I just used the plus signs to signify the grouping. (I dunno why, really.) ...|||I cannot answer this in the best way possible, as I cannot see you to read your body language (that's incredibly helpful for me to be helpful) but I will take a stab at it anyway.  Again, I believe...|||Delilah, I picked There's a chair in the middle of the room as an example of how confusing it is to me to say something that becomes so obvious, as soon as it is said--and then repeat it over and...|||LiquidLight,  Thanks for explaining the idea of a formula.  As I read your response, I realized that this may be why I do not understand Te, ultimately: why does everything have to fit an...|||This is my dad exactly.  If he can't figure out the weather by seeing it on tv or finding it on the internet fast enough, he'll go outside and report back an announcement to everyone that it is...|||That's just it though (maybe I didn't say it in my first post):  I'm trying to figure it out (Okay, are they irritated with it being there? Would they prefer it somewhere else? What's up with the...|||I'm asking INFJ's in hopes that one of you will be able to answer a two-fold question:  what is with my perception of the phenomenon that bewilders me about Te and please explain it in a way that...|||Dear girlfriend of my (male) dart teammate,  First of all, I had *no* idea from the limited interactions I first had with him that he was seeing anyone.  Believe you me, as soon as I found out, I...|||I had the exact same--immediate--reaction as superdooper: I want to give you a hug and let you know it's alright to try standing on your Fe legs; I won't judge!  That said, it would seem that you...|||I love anything that jars my Ni. Thanks for the post! :laughing:|||...you get awash with overwhelming feelings about other people's response to the newly elected pope--and you're not even a devout Catholic!|||At first, I was going to say no.  Children carry on genes to further the human race, but then I guess, from a purely biological standpoint, yes: so that we as a species don't die out.  Also, you need...|||How sad! :unsure:  Perhaps, ExTJ's would want someone to validate their unique existence and IxTP's would want... well, 'cuddles' comes to mind first, but more seriously: someone considerate of their...|||Isn't the latter universal?  Don't we all want what we can't have?|||For some reason I find this behavior immensely endearing! :proud:|||INTP's are lumped in this as well, but have you ever seen this?   http://www.enfpforum.com/enfpforum/Portals/0/MBTI%20Pics/Types/xntps%20dionoriders.jpg ...|||...you think of the book you reserved with your local library from a series you were reading over two months ago--and the next day you get a text message saying that it's in. (True story. I swear on...|||@LiteratureNerd, I hear you, sister:  Dear silver-haired, blue-eyed, presumably straight men,  Quit hitting on me. I eerily consistently get hit on by a lot of you guys, married or not, who are...|||Parents, in an attempt to understand their own child, badger their child with questions whenever the child is less than happy--which is understandable, really, but I just want to tell them to shut up...|||Dear (I'm pretty sure) ISTJ boss,  Thank you for once again reminding me why I dislike interacting with you.  I had no idea that you did the hiring for other departments in the company.  I mean,...|||I got Generous Thinker  Confidencehttp://personaldna.com/images/bar.jpghttp://personaldna.com/images/bar2.jpg  LowHigh 4...|||After reading this, I immediately thought, Once again, I'm told I need to be a writer, as *that* is what I did from a very young age.  Some months ago, I had taken a seminar on what I should do...|||This has happened on more than one occasion and it's not always a bad thing, but I am, again, 'absorbing' another person's personality.  A couple of people, actually.  And even more accurately, I'm...|||This might be TMI, but I am on my last nerve...  Dear horrible case of PMS,  You can... go someplace horrible.  I can hardly work, drive a car, stop pushing on pull doors, or not rip anyone's...|||Every so often, when talking with someone, you can hear the 'true' meaning or what the person left out or that the person doesn't understand in your head.  Example: Person A: Ducks are stupid My...|||Try adopting a new persona, so to speak.  One that pretty much expects that people will like you, naturally.  I've found that people very readily change their reactions to people *after years of...|||I don't know if other people do this because I'm too worried about people's reactions if I explained this out loud, in person, but there are times when I get the sense that some celebrity is about to...|||Dewymorning, I've done that for years! lol  I'm known (when I was in school, now at work) for organizing my food:   -M&M's and Skittles by color frequency/relationship to other colors (ie,...|||Every day.  I drive myself nuts with wondering about this. I believe it falls in line with the ever-present question of why? that is prevalent among Ni-users (or so I read somewhere...)|||This is me, exactly. :dry:'