'her songs sound like the kind of things my INFJ might want to say when under some pressure, like if she were to vent about relationships trying to explain it to me through her journal but never to me...|||Okay simple question. What is romantic to a pretty independent 25 year old infj female who works alot and goes to college?  She is super private and introverted. She is always super busy and...|||I like mature infj idealism, it's not loud and obnoxious. Its personal and all theirs. You actually have to ask to hear about it unless they see you being a jerk.|||[QUOTE=sand_at_your_feet;1773737]A lot of valid points. I've always been one to try to understand people, but I'm not always sure that he has. I'm not sure what his type is, and couldn't even begin...|||OMG... I'm not INFJ ... ESTP here, but  had to chime it to an old post here. I love the above exchange. Dear god its true lol, my INFJ has had some creeps looking to have her and I like to toe the...|||Okay upon reading all of that other long ass post about you and him + this one, I have a couple of things to add though I'm not sure how much of this you will want to hear.  While ESTP/INFJ...|||Lol it made me seem like a dark brooding deep poet... Chicks thought I wad complex and cute but sexy. Of all the chicks that tried to fix my hurt my infj and her tough live were the only ones to...|||I say try it. My relationship with my Infj is only about 2 years long too. Not sure what adive I can give aside from don't nag him. My infj doesn't nag me, only person who understands how mugch that...|||In my shadow I let things get too personal. I get distant and sensitive and angry. I burn bridges and get lost in thoughts about the future and how it will suck. I over indulge in food and get stuck...|||Infjs make amazing gfs in my experience, I've come across some misconceptions about infjs. :  1. They don't actually cry at the drop of a hat. They are sensitive not crazy... Well not that kind of...|||I used to tune into her show. But I'm a lesbian so I never called in. Everyone in this world has an opinion. It our job to take the good stuff out of all the shit. I was a child raised in an abusive...|||I'm an ESTP I suppose, and I'm going with an INFJ now for a bit. She thinks I'm sensitive ... And cute. :rolleyes:   Idk where she gets this stuff, apparently she digs my tomboy-ish ways and...|||My app won't seem to let me thank a post, no computer... So thanks, good post. :cool:|||Dear tiff, We love each other okay, so let's stop pretending that's not the case. I'm not running or going anywhere with out you, so quit being distant and cranky. I know this distance is to protect...|||Being direct is good, tell him you don't see him that way. Don't give excuses, my infj gf didn't think it would work because of a handful of lame excuses that made her just seem scared.   I made it...|||That sounds about right, I can make things happen, take the lead if needed... But I don't like to step on them that don't have it coming and I'd rather not be in a position of power.  them that lead...|||Oh how I love the chase :) well put|||Well, actually my gf is an infj and we make a pretty fucking awesome team. Sure I've picked up a few good tips from observing her, but I've never wanted to be her type so much as I've liked to be...|||I get ESFP from her, she seems like my older sis. My sis is tough and rebellious and a 4.|||Took a test but I think it was wrong. I was also really really unhealthy when I took it. : shrug : never gotten around to retaking it or changing it.|||BWAHAHAHAHA thats the funniest post ever.   Ok now my two cents on this:  ESTPs do what they think they need to do to get the results they think are best. Every situation will call for different...|||i think most of us just want a mate that matches us.. other wise we do get bored... its not that we stop caring, its just that with out alittle excitement here and there we get so TIRED of the...|||i don't think i ever grew out of the phase as a teen where you sleep a whole lot when you can. if i have stuff going on i'll stay up for upto 2 and a half days at most if i have to. if i dont have...|||i dont want to ever have meaningless sex, and when i get bored in a relationship i do my best to fix that before breaking up.. I NEVER cheat. I see where i could cheat, but the point is my...|||Different, I talk about stuff in real life but not in the same way. IRL it depends on who I'm hanging with, but someone once told me that when they met me they thought I was gonna be mean and kinda...|||I'm flip flopping here... Between a very public death where I could get a message across, or by myself on a race track in a fast car while heavily intoxicated and having the time of my life just...|||I love introverts, I like being the only Extrovert in a group of introverts. Maybe I like the attention, most introverts are excellent listeners and are pretty dang chill.  What I like about...|||You can strike up a conversation with just about anyone, anytime.|||I watched D.E.B.S. last week I think or maybe the week before. Basically a romantic chick flick that is a spoof of spy/secret agent type films. Its alot of fluff and silly jokes but fun all the...|||then yeah no real point in selling atm, but if it ever get pretty long and you want to consider selling it its actually a pretty fun experience lol. hell i filmed it and all my friends signed my head...|||i am afraid of something as stupid as heights,  it stops me from going on the the tower of terror or other rides where you fall... i've been on those rides to try it out, i didnt enjoy it. i much...|||Well sometimes I do think about my emotions, sometimes I dont think about them and I just... feel them. but only when I'm with my INFJ and she kinda brings me to that point. Mostly though she helps...|||nope, i can only really speak for myself though. i'm tomboy-ish and i dont care to attract that sort of attention with out me actually seeking that kind of attention. my infj gf shows some light...|||So true, I may not be angry at you forever or hold a grudge, It may even seem like I'm exactly the same as I was before. However you can bet I'll keep it in mind so the next time you are gonna do the...|||if all else fails, read the directions ....thats a very true quote for me, it is for many estps. i only came here at first because i was interested in an infj... i had done everything i could think...|||Well to me its like when I play video games like mass effect or fall out... or anything that has a gradually progressing story. I get to develop this character and On the fly make up its lines and...|||While I game Anything from video games to Table Top RPGs such as D&D, I also enjoy playing pool at this coffee house down town. They have good drinks and there are always alot of girls around.  We...|||I'm curious If anyone else on here likes D&D as in Dungeons and Dragons Or any other Table top RPGs such as Modern or starwars. If so share some of your best gaming experiences.   One of my best...|||Not sure people tend to sell over a foot so its hard to tell... maybe $100? it also depends on the health of your hair and the color. so like I have brown hair but when I sold it I talked about the...|||Well you can't really tell in the picture but my hair was about 2 feel long and really really thick, also I don't really color it or do anything like that to it... just wash and brush or comb it. I...|||http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t120/J_DelMar1987/Mobile%20Uploads/me-1.jpg  Thats me with my hair long... about 6 months before I cut it all off. ...|||When you get a taste of racing a really fast car and drifting on a track while listing to some good  music... and now you're hooked.|||I agree I think being with my INFJ has kinda been like miracle grow for my soul. I don't know that many people are ready for this kind of experience in their lives, but when you are its a pretty...|||what if you're not sure whats causing this, or you cant realy take away what is causing this mess.?|||Hey welcome, this place is pretty cool and rich with info on all types. Kick your shoes off and make yourself at home ;)|||:) Gee Moby sometimes I think some folk just like to stuff the meaning of love into a little box and say inside this box is how you love, if you do not love this way, then you cannot love. I get a...|||while I agree being nude is fun, I like my comfy jeans and a fun T. I save the nude for when I am alone or with someone umm.. special *cough* lol.   Anyway, I know I've never worn anything that...|||Well I have dyslexia and I'm an ESTP, but that doesn't really prove anything. Still I think it is interesting how learning disabilities work. For example when I took an I.Q. test that was timed I...|||HEY! sorry to be off subject I just noticed your signature. CN ay? lol I have to ask is this D&D related? Please say yes!  And yeah my dad is always trying to get me to be lady like, but he isnt...|||So true I would hide in stores too :proud: they all thought I was lost, I kind of was but not really. I could always find my way around places by talking to people and what not. I loved exploring.'