'This is the type of attitude that disturbs me the most. Books are nothing more then literature. The meaning and value you place on them; sources of knowledge is not the same meaning I put on them;...|||Members inability to avoid personal remarks at the expense of the discussion. Attack the discussion, not the discusser.   Members taking attacks against their arguments as attacks against them....|||There are many threads about how we stereotype ourselves into our functions, but I have been unable to locate one on how we break them. Given that INTJ's are often stereotyped as not believing in the...|||HA! I have used all of those with absolutely no success. Perhaps as the OP implied; I am not online handsome enough. :cool:      ...it's probably because I'm an INTJ though. ;)|||Ask them a question.|||When people take a very private problem between others and make it public knowledge to the rest of the world to comment on. A quick way to get on my shit list.|||There's a distinct difference in naturally being difficult and doing so on purpose.   If you are confused, might I suggest just, and this might be a difficult concept for a lot of people; talking...|||I've been here two days and already encountered two members I feel compromised by for entirely different reasons. :dry: Not the best way to start.|||When it becomes clear that it isn't what you believe that is the problem, it's why you believe it.   When even foolishly considering the possibilities of something being true, it doesn't mean it...|||Sweet delicious irony; your delectable flavor never fully satiates my appetite.|||Could change depending on what your office enviroment is, but I'd suggest something along the lines of...  1. If you think I'll question it, briefly explain the reasons you want me to do something,...|||I'd apologize for the analysis, but you're in my territory so...  If he's an INTJ, you should be fine. I doubt very much he would remain with you for so long if he wasn't interested in you.  ...|||I'm not sure awkward is the right word I would use personally, confused makes more sense. I've been in more than one situation where people have mentioned it was awkward but that I brushed it off or...|||Considering he does pay my wages, I will explain myself a little more in depth since it's a requirement of the job. When people ask for my reasons, I'll give them; most don't care to. They will...|||Seems like you have a legitimate reason to feel slighted. Educators in general will tell you that each person learns differently. If someone isn't willing to work with you and your way of doing...|||This is why I hate civility; it is lying in the guise of kinship.   As far as the original question, no; they are not the same thing. Questions should always be taken literally. Anyone who has...'