'https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X7VwNDbfAhI|||:D We adore you too!|||My favorite type of gifts to give are the ones that are unexpected and unprecedented. Not all gifts can be like this, but those are my favorite.|||My Evernote is littered with a million replies that will never fill the eyes of their intended recipients.  I even wrote an email this morning thanking a man who wrote a really insightful blog post...|||We should call mistyped people ‘INFJK’s, as in ‘just kidding’ :P|||Never discourage anyone who continually makes progress, no matter how slow. — Plato|||Hmm, well I can certainly create shirts with those colours! Unfortunately I don't think I can print anywhere other than the front of the shirt MooseAndSquirrel.  I like the design with a black...|||The artwork for my avatar was designed in a way that I could easily make t-shirts out of. Hrmmm, if only I could remember my Spreadshirt login.  What colours would people want for the shirt and...|||Sometimes I can appear calm on the surface but I'm just seething with unseen emotion underneath. Sometimes it's loneliness, but it's usually frustration or anger - and it doesn't always have a...|||INFJ male in a long-distance relationship here.  TOTALLY GUILTY of taking shell time when I'm back in my town and probably not contacting my She-NFP enough :/  There are weeks when being social...|||I'm INFJ male, 2w1 5w4 1w?  What handwriting style does it look like I have? (I'm also a lefty if that matters)  http://i.imgur.com/6DaBJ.jpg  There it is, spelling mistake and all! *ack* Well...|||What role do I fill?  I fill the role of confidant to a lot of people. I'm that old-soul, that timeless friend they don't need to keep in touch with day-to-day, but when their boyfriend punches...|||Slowly. Internally. Invisibly. Quietly. Utterly alone.|||http://i.imgur.com/nE9lg.jpg|||I had always been shy and it wasn't until this year that I learned how I could become less shy without also becoming less introverted. I had been trying to overcome my shyness by learning how to be...|||Here are some of the things I learned in 2012:  • sometimes it's more important to trust others than to be correct • your body image and your body are scarcely related concepts • eating a diet...|||http://i.imgur.com/2Mz2z.jpg|||In my experience, INFJ and ENFP - but two INFJ's making a romantic connection is rare because they're usually pretty shy. Like REALLY shy about initiating stuff.|||Thanks for sharing that, I've always felt that way about   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dl1MigdvWyo  Also, how do you feel about Clint Mansell's song Together We Will Live Forever:  ...|||The ‘friendzone’ is a concept invented in the mind of men who have resigned themselves to failure before even taking a chance.  What woman would want to date a guy too scared of losing a friend in...|||I am so sorry you had to go through that! You're not crazy, even your thinking and retelling of that shows you're capable of so much more depth than they will likely be able to see in you.  Don't...|||I'm not sold on the idea of a spirit guide or a guardian animal - but I've always felt like I had a lot in common with kittens:  x95 endlessly playful x95 have very retractable claws x95 enjoy playing...|||This is the firs time my avatar HASN'T been a photo of me :P I made an INFJ logo so it was more obvious where I was coming from now that I'm posting more outside the INFJ forum :)|||My BFF is an INTJ and she's dating another INTJ. I'd hate to be caught in the middle of one of their arguments :O  In general we seem to get along great and I highly recommend INTJ's as safe people...|||I designed my own yes, I feel that your avatar is a reflection of self - so for people that don't use original content I think that speak a lot about who they are ; )|||The way the thread title reads it sounds like OP has been hurt by christians in his life, not god. Everyone is responsible for their own actions, christians or not, you can't blame the actions of a...|||I'm responding directly to OP here:  Okay, storytime!  When I got to college Facebook had just opened up to allow schools where I live to join. It was a sheltered fun time, and the week I got to...|||Tell me more about this god, how has he revealed these things about himself to you?|||What if you met your soulmate, the person who you want to spend the rest of your life with - but they happen to be in a body the same gender as you. Does that mean you can never pursue an exclusive...|||I identify as: Male (with a haphazard dash of effeminate traits for balance!)  My sexual orientation is: Pansexual (on paper, functionally I've been heterosexual)  Did you struggle with your...|||Gold is such a weird metal. Wars have been fought, adventurers have chased it, alchemists searched for a way to create it, and miners have laboured to pull it out of the earth. It has been the de...|||http://i.imgur.com/7SHsp.jpg  So this is how Movember turned out. I don't even feel like I look like me right now, it's refreshing. Tabula Razor!|||x85searching for answers that don't exist|||Wait, so you're assuming you're not the only person alive?  What if everybody else in the world that exists is created in your head, by your head, to help you learn and reconcile the problems you...|||While intuitives may sit on the other side of a conversational and psychological divide from those who practice 'Small talk' as a form of animalistic greeting ritual, if that's indeed what is is...|||Don't think of small talk as a mundane conversation (it's not) or a lack of interest (it's not) or even a deflection from talking about deeper topics (it's not).  Small talk in humans fills the...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9PuAm7d0PA  Anyone not magnetized to extended periods of intense wallowing and/or chemically-induced lethargy -- or the idea of experiencing either one of the two...|||So far I haven't found the magic words :/  Any time I go to my parents house I have no 'shell' anywhere to retreat to. The room I'm staying in is used by them for other things so they're in and out...|||How many years into college are you?  If I recall correctly, college involves a LOT of non school-related person changes. Are you also leaving home and switching up your living situation, meeting...|||This is by no means a guide on how to lie to INFJs, but this explores some of the thoughts that will invariably pop up in his head the moment he found out you were lying.  We INFJs see right...|||Rehearsed.|||Anybody else doing Movember?  http://i.imgur.com/TRGTZ.jpg|||How could somebody truly love me if they really knew all of me / How will I let somebody see all of me unless I know they really love me?|||*gasp* you she-INFJs are bad :P  INFJ male & never ever!|||This a thousand times!|||HEIGHTS don't bother me, so long as I feel secure. I did get that tingling feeling like you're peering over the edge of a balcony when I was reading this thread though - but that's excitement and...|||I think our type gains significantly more understanding through being able to fit people into a metric than most other types.  I explain it like this:   There's this test that psychologists,...|||Well, I've always loved eating, and I've loved cooking more than ever since becoming vegetarian. I cook for myself and used to take a lot of liberties with recipes. Now I hardly glance at a recipe...|||INFJ Confessions - like a post secret for INFJs INFJ Confessions  INFJ Den - insight into what living as an INFJ means The INFJ Den  INFJ Doodles - hit straight to the core, sometimes funny...|||I somehow intimidate them into seeking my approval  • they think they have to please me somehow      (Bish pls, if you weren't what I wanted in a woman I wouldn't be dating you in the first place....'