'Actually, I didn't want to admit it but I was drunk when I wrote my first post. I've killed a part of me in response, don't worry.  Maybe you do have a good understanding of F - but really; she has...|||After reading my post, I can see many mistakes. So let me try and rephrase. Apologies for the inconsideration I put to my words. (Amazingly so, in fact.) I jumped the gun on everything I said. Rest...|||Curious, who is from US and who is from UK? Different societies and all that; I can relate to certain mentalities to understand a little better.  Either way, who is moving where and for what...|||I've debated this for a long time. I'm from England and I've generally despised a lot of people that I thought were ESTP. However, I've been living in Japan for the past 8 months and I'm now dating...|||If you're worried. Give her a little more time; then just ask and give her a date you're free. Try not to hesitate about getting what you want. They also have the same right - and if they wanna...|||either or; sounds like he has a very well balanced T/F. Understands and appreciates both side of the coin in that respect. I wouldn't worry beyond that, actually. He sounds like someone I'd want to...|||I'm glad you noticed, although probably easily, the fact that he hugs you a little tighter and puts his head close. He probably just doesn't have the words the explain his feelings on it. To me, the...|||Love her. Insults me, Upsets me and will not stop doing what she wants to do unless there's something to make her think otherwise. She's incredibly nice to people, even though I think it hurts her...|||Yep. It has seemed to me, to be my life goal for a few years. I dream to have children. The reason I keep reaching is to be able to show someone a world in which they can ultimately control. I want...|||Cannabis is not a health problem. The problem is, that it promotes social values and attitudes which are unwelcome in capitalist based society.  I beg you to watch the video whilst listening to...|||If you're comfortable being alone for a long amount of time, then there's no problem. Most of my social interaction comes from work/school. After these, I just want to go home and chill, maybe with...|||Honestly, sometimes I think the enneagram is a better source of information for dealing with people. However, it seems to me like you're the one trying out all the new strategies to keep the peace...|||Don't care about the shit that is. Accept that shit, defend you're right to take control of that shit so that you can then enjoy whatever the hell you want to enjoy. Don't get pushed around, and...|||I think there's a reason to be concerned. How can an 18 year old know the true effects of such a possible(probable) life changing experience at a young age? I'm not saying an 18 year old can't think...|||I'm dating an ESTP girl. It's a blast. She's healthy, with a good sense of everything except me. She just knows I'm kind and I care about her very much. I'd only fault her on the fact that she really...|||I'm pretty sure I'm a Type 4. I did read a few Type 9 articles that resonated with me, but never to the extent that most Type 4 articles do. I'm also in agreement about the creativity aspects, I just...|||Haha, honestly - that's kind of what I thought. It went down a 'treat'. (oh, the puns!). I'm studying in Fukuoka, at Seinan Gakuin^^. What about you!?|||Dig a little deeper, learn who they are and what they like. Only shy people dislike questions, and I'm fairly sure that ESTP's aren't shy (They would happily answer your questions, I'm sure). I'm...|||I have a crazy theory on the link between cannabis and food. Honestly, I think that weed smokers always know it's the weed making them want to eat all the crap in their fridge, and because they know...|||I was a Japanese School girl. The outfit was my girlfriends and I am currently studying abroad in Japan... I mention this, because I normally hate the idea of dressing up at Halloween, but this years...|||Hesher.  Hesher is a loner. He hates the world and everyone in it. He has long greasy hair and homemade tattoos. He is malnourished and smokes a lot of cigarettes. He likes fire and blowing things...|||I don't trust myself with it because I've gotten it wrong a few times, just like everyone else. Although, I'm great at spotting if one person fancies another but if the spot-light is on me, I'm...|||My best friend is an ESTJ. He's a very socially-anxious person, which I think helped bring us together when we were younger.|||I dunno man, but Tom Waits is awesome, and you've just given me a song that I'll try not to forget. Cheers!|||Two very interesting articles, thanks for sharing :)|||It doesn't really bother me. I can emphasise with the people that share the same interests and hobbies with the media, because I suppose that the media can often be seen as blowing things way out of...|||Playful, nervous, excited.|||That is fantastic! You really made me smile, cheers Stephen! (It would make such a good avatar....... ;P)|||(Artist--> Song Title)  1.  Shpongle - Nothing Is Something Worth Doing 2.  Calexico - Victor Jaras Hands 3.  Parov Stelar - Catgroove 4.  múm - Dancing Behind My Eyelids 5.  múm - We Have A...|||Thanks for the chat ;)|||No problem Flora. I actually prefer the company of people above my age, but I can assume that this preference isn't shared both ways, especially outside of the normal family/social events. I even...|||I can vibrate my eyeballs... but I've met a few people that can do that. I like to smell people that walk past me, but I don't really do anything outside of my head. I just like to consciously sniff...|||Heh, yeah...and you're in Japan? It's where I'm heading in August if all goes well. Now this sure is a coincidence... huh!?|||The dancer is also great to watch. I think he is self-taught? He uploads a lot, anyway.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twqM56f_cVo|||I think it's nice to think about learning how to live happily for yourself, before you consider other people. If you can't make yourself happy in a sad place, then I don't believe you're as strong as...|||I'm from North-East, but I have just come back from living in Preston. And yeah, I've been kinda jealous of those state-side too... I just enjoy an adventure, I'll be honest. There is a nice feeling...|||It's in fact Wilson (and Leary) who I first began to develop an appreciation for, and then Mckenna (who I've just recently discovered); all in a steady tempo that I've been able to keep up with. I'm...|||Where!? I'm in ;) obligations don't scare me! (much)|||That seems like the most appropriate stance to take on philosophy to be honest man. You can't go too wrong if you're choosing your own beliefs. I suppose you can make a mistake from time to time, but...|||Some of these people hold several titles, but I'd put 'Philosopher' under each one, even if it wasn't their main living vice.    Timothy Leary  Robert Anton Wilson  Antero Alli  Terence Mckenna...|||I didn't know where to post this, so I thought I'd post it here.   My INFJ friend (and another) took magic mushrooms and he invited me over half way through the trip to make sure everything was...|||Hi Selene, nice to meet you. I don't know why you assume you have to save everybody, because you don't and you can't. You're also assuming that they want to be saved. Whilst this may be true in...|||Too many people.|||How is intelligence important to me?  Well going by this definition;  “A very general mental capability that, among other things, involves the ability to reason, plan, solve problems, think...|||You know you may be an introvert when you've decided to respond to someone in a very outgoing, almost fanatical and extroverted way just to outright express the feeling of boredom and despair you...|||Thanks for that video Teigue. I enjoyed listening to him speak about his writing.|||Enjoy dreaming, but make an effort to explore, to learn, and to understand the outside world for your own personal growth. Go out, experiment, and develop an interest in the negatives of society....|||Seems it's nice for people to defend themselves once in a while. INFP's really shouldn't have any reason to be so miserable; we're always able to defend our points of view it seems, or at least...|||Pretty Good Day|||- oops, I messed that up; failed to quote Mumbo Jumbo  Hate is the last thing I thought of, I completely agree with you. Although many people in this thread seem to agree that the author of the...'