'First of all I just want to say thank you to all the amazing replies in this post. I really feel like my questions were understood and I appreciate the insights offered, and am grateful you all took...|||Thanks Dabbling for your thoughtful response. I can understand that and I like to think in an established relationship those things are likely to be easier. Once you've set the tone for the...|||Hi all, I apologize if I'm not doing this right, I'm actually back after a long absence and I've had this on my mind for a while so I thought I would start a discussion.  I'm an INTJ female, and I...|||Do you believe in destiny? Absolutely not. I feel it's a convenient way for people to take a back seat in their own life and with the short time I have I want to make the most of it, work my hardest...|||Popinjay: Okay, it might be a little worrisome that a lot of what you've described about Shadow Fe I feel does apply. There could be some possible issues concerning some past childhood events of...|||I'm an INTJ, and I was previously in the art field and still love being creative, but I couldn't stand the disorganized, completely subjective field that requires heavy socialization to get known....|||Could you enlighten me about what you mean concerning Fe? I'm not really sure what that is.  Also, I think that could be good, to be direct about what I want and to try a more casual relationship....|||My last relationship wasn't particularly burdensome overall. I did try to please him and thus went out and did things with him and for him that I wouldn't have done otherwise, but I imagine that's...|||My take on these:  1. If a romantic relationship ends badly, would it be easy for you cut all ties and never talk to your ex again?  I used to buy into the whole no we can still be friends...|||I am native fluent in French and decent in Spanish though I haven't really used it since school. I love languages though and have been teaching myself a couple here and there (a bit odd sounding, I...|||Lately I feel the INTJs can't say 'I love you'  one is absolutely me. Why are emotions so annoying....|||I would like to ask not quite for advice but I think rather more for perspective. I hope this is okay to post, I'm a little hesitant about sharing but in a place like this it feels safe and detached...|||Are we allowed to vent here? I feel like this topic has most likely been talked about (or not?). But lately I'm so tired of emotional people.  I don't know what it is, I feel like I was more...|||Aww thank you so much AhmenRah, I'm glad you like it :)|||Aww thank you :) And if you do let me know and I'll read it!|||Thank you so much CookieMonster! I'm glad you can see an improvement, I'm trying each time I work to make it as good as I can, which is hopefully better than the time before :P Thanks for the...|||Yea that's a good way to look at it <3|||WorldInk has some good points, I don't think any of the people I fully trust have morals that deviate much from mine (because I couldn't really see eye to eye, agree with or even like someone who was...|||Oh Kathryne that is exactly how I feel and view everything, you have described it perfectly! It's that mask.  And I do feel that we are adaptable, I can put on that bubbly mask when the situation...|||Thanks for the clarification. I was just curious when people around the forum say they know types in real life what they meant. Of course some may use it differently than others, but it seems like...|||Out of curiosity Isitso (and anyone else who replied here actually), when you share opinions about INTJs you know, or when you talk about confirmed or not confirmed, are you talking about people who...|||Trying not to fall asleep. I don't know why I'm so tired right now...|||I wish you the best of luck Heather. And I'm by far no expert in men or relationships, trying to learn what I can.   Perhaps it is tied to some sort of unconscious fear? It's the only idea I can...|||I have felt this in previous crushes and relationships, to the point where I was so infatuated with a guy I thought about him 24/7, missed him when he was away, couldn't stop talking about him, it...|||I only recently learned about all these types and I feel a bit strange about being an INTJ. I know that the comments in this thread are generalized, or perhaps more likely the opposite, focused on...|||For me, I'm not sure if I can explain it right but it's not an issue of trust. It's more an issue of seeing eye to eye. There are a limited number of people I do trust, and I do as many people in...|||Thanks Indigo :)|||Thanks for the comment, glad you like it. Aye I drew it all, trying to improve it every week :)  Thanks for the feedback too. I realize they all seem interested in her but trust me it's not all...|||I agree with this. Math isn't always easy, but once I figure it out I get excited, and solving problems can get really fun.|||Thanks for the welcomes all :)  I miss you too K, have you been well? We shall catch up soon! <3|||Haha yes he just told me about it a day or two ago~ It's great to see you here! *hugs* I miss you too! How have you been? I shall definitely send you a buzz on AIM. The webcomic is a work in progress...|||I'm the eldest, with two brothers 2 and 4 years younger. Very male dominated household completely focused on science (even my mother's a microbiologist!). Somehow I came out of that as an artist.|||Sketching some new characters of mine~|||I'm brand new here too, not entirely used to this classification myself, but it's nice to meet you, look forward to seeing you around.|||I will see what I can find, thank you :)|||I have not. I am exploring the forum at the moment, where would I find those?|||Well then the question becomes how do you define your temperament, from what types?  Perhaps a description of myself is in order.  I feel like I can get by in social situations without standing...|||My favorite subject was biology, and my most hated Sports. Probably would have pursued biology if I hadn't had trouble when I switched schools. Now I'm in art, but considering going back to biology....|||Maybe I'm overthinking everything too much :/ Well I shall leave it at that then. Thank you very much for your help.|||Hmm I see. Well I'd say I gain energy from contact that I value. Lose energy from contact that I don't, so small talk or chatting or daily interactions from people that I am not close to.  For ESTJ...|||Well the fact that I don't get along with most people and even though I can easily talk if I want to in social situations (small talk that is) I don't really get to know many, I have a very small...|||So that would definitely  make me an extrovert? From the individual definition of the concept I don't think if fits, but then I don't really understand the relationships between the different parts.|||Most efficient definitely.|||Hmm then that makes it tricky.|||I've been looking at them individually so I haven't sat down and looked through all of them.  And something just occurred to me. Perhaps my confusion stems from being immersed in an INTJ family? I...|||I have looked at ESTP, which is too competitive and just overall not really matching me. I looked at ISTP but I don't think I'm as territorial and inflexible. I have strong convictions but those are...|||I follow rules and guidelines only so long as I believe they are correct and the best path to follow. I would never follow a rule for the sake of merely following it.|||I considered ISTJ, but that description seems too cold and dedicated to duty to suit me. I do follow rules and guidelines but I'm not that strict about anything really.  I took another one and here...|||I didn't save the results, so I took it again and got yet another: ESTJ.  Cognitive ProcessLevel of Development (Preference, Skill and Frequency of Use)extraverted Sensing (Se)...|||I love frank and honest crit most of all, so do not be afraid about that. If I could not accept that how would I improve? I think an artist who cannot accept and follow crit won't be able to become a...'