'I find this with my partner, who is an ISFP. We've been together about 7 months now, and we're talking about moving in together at some point after Christmas. Ages ago I wrote this long thing about...|||I don't play the game.  I smile politely and let them have the glory, I say they are very good at whatever it is they aspire towards. Otherwise you end up in piontless competition or arguments all...|||What do I live for?  I live to supass my own and others expectations...I live to strive and to grow and to learn....I live to dream and create...  In a practical sense I want very badly to...|||I get on with my family pretty well, my mum is ENFJ and we've always had a good relationship. She's the sort of parent you could tell almost anything. We argue sometimes, and sometimes I think she...|||I was thinking of my boyfriend at the time. He's an ISFP, and he wants to be an auther. However there isn't much piont compairing Sylvia Plath to my boyfriend's writing style and saying all...|||I studied Sylvia Plath at school, and I have her journals as well as her poetry and The Bell Jar.   I would say INFP all the way, and defiantly an unhealthy type 4...I'm not sure about 4w5 though,...|||I get on well with animals in general. My dad used to breed show dogs until I was in my teens, so I learnt early how to behave around animals and how to make friends with them. I find animals...|||So my question is, how would I be able to tell if she were misdiagnosed?   The only way to tell is come off the Adderal for a while and see if she still has trouble regulating her attention. ADD is...|||I do think she is being condersending, she's basically telling you that you should be a Muslim house wife and throw away your career. Possibly even that not doing this is why you are ill, and it is...|||How have you learned over time to take a little caution? Any lessons learned from situations that went really well or really terribly?  I know I tend to get very excited about things and see all...|||Hello, oh people of the ISFP forum.  Ix92m dating an ISFP, and he really seems to compliment me perfectly. Itx92s wonderful really, and I wanted to share my joy with you all...well, not just that...I...|||I'm not sure what to read next, but on my to read list is:  Life Among The Pirates by David Cordingly Johannes Cabal the Detective by Jonathan L. Howard Changeless by Gail Carriger Emotional...|||I think of money in terms of the amount of things, of value to myself, I can exchange it for. I think of the t-shirt I want in terms of how many books I could get in exchange for the same amount of...|||I try to avoide killing insects, but I will if they become pests.   Yet I have a soft spot for spiders. I am a bit nervouse of them after a really big one fell on my head as a young child, though I...|||Oh, I think you have a pefectly good argument there, but you could also argue the existance of everything is proof of god. This relys on you beliving that a complex world with such laws could not...|||Some religouse people WOULD argue that is faith though, or belife. When I was in High School a church group came to give a talk to us, and they said that everyone had belife, and belife in god was...|||I'm agnostic myself...I do not understand how some religouse people or athiestist can have such strong and unyeilding belifes.  For example...some scientists are religouse, or became so through...|||I'm not religouse, so I'm not sure how good my prairs would be, but everyone in Christchurch has my best wishes and hopes for their safty.  I was just listening to a lady speaking to a news...|||-Go to a city or town you have never been to before, and eat cake while you are there (I will generousely let you choose which type of cake).  -Give blood    -Paint something (it doesn't have to...|||Similar situation for me in some ways. I had three years of near constant adversity during university, but I sorted it all out, dumped my ex and graduated...I was on top of the world...I'd finaly...|||Hi Mona,  I'm 21 and not really sure what I want to do career wise. Reading posts about slightly older people who are still confused makes me feel a bit better (you arn't the only one). It isn't...|||I've thought about it, mostly when I was around 16...though every now and then I will get the erge to just...run away I guess. Just open the front door and start walking, get on a train with no idea...|||My preference would be Quolity Time, closely followed by Acts of Service.   I can be pretty cuddly and the like, but I'm not really a Touch person, same with the Words of Affirmation. I just feel a...|||Wow...those were the only two? :laughing: I'm dyslexic, so that is pretty good for me.   I am obligated to piont out you mispelt, my mispelt name...but in very very tiny writing, so it is like I am...|||Verbale prostitutes, huh?...I find that rather amusing. I don't really get why most people think badly of barresters, well I sort of do, but part of my more favorable view it is possibly that I...|||My advice is to just try and be a good friend for now, and be weary of a repeat of the sort-of-not-acutually-a-date senario. I have a lot of male friends, and that could easily have happened with...|||What I do if I find I am obessing over things negativly (rather than the normal, and often useful ,short bursts of obsession with things like learning to knit), is I use a mix of methods.  I...|||How about acting? That's a very social thing to do, and you can normally slip into it late in the game.   With my drama group I joined two weeks before a show, I was just in croud scenes and helped...|||My ideal is a relationship:  Where neither person is dependent upon the other, both people are capable and independent, but both bring things that compliment the other person to the relationship. ...|||I ask you to imagine a world without the likes of Will Smith, Robin Williams, Steven Spielburg, Robert Downy Jr, President Obama, Ariel, Charles Dickens, nay...Dr Suess...  Imagine the disapearence...|||I like the tweleve dancing princesses myself.|||I dabble with painting and the like. I'm better than average but by no means of the standard to do a degree or persue it as a career. I do a mean water coloure, when the mood takes me. I've been...|||I enjoy collecting things a lot.  - Ventian masks...I really love these, I think I started collecting them on a whim in my teens. They are just really beautiful and myseteriouse.   -...|||I certainly do, not with books or films so much, though I get utterly absorbed into them and tend to lose all sense of self.   I have a fantasy world I first created when I was a child, using my...|||From an autobiographical short story I did for university:    Yes...*cough* that uh, that rather sums it up. :crazy:|||My short term memory is truely terrible, but that is the dyslexia.   Because I've always known it's a problem I have pretty good methods for dealing with it. I have a little glasses shaped dish at...|||I think Feminity and Masculinity are two sides of the same coin, and that everyone embodies both to differeing degrees. It is simply one side might be turned more outwards to the world than the...|||I lived in a house share while at university, but as most of my friends are guys, I was the only girl. I liked it that way, there was no bitchyness, though the house did tend to get messy pretty...|||challenging  invigorating   contentment|||Filigee will tell of some good things...  My best valentines I was taken to a Tea Room, I eat scones and drank tea from a daity china cup. This made me unbelivbly happy, especially as the building...|||What was your imaginary friend called (I had one too, named Lizzy), and what of these enchanted other worlds?  It sounds pretty awsome.  I was never a hero in my games or daydreams, it was always...|||Oh yes,   When I was very young my two best friends were boys. Our favorate game was called granny flare works, odd, you say. It was, oh it was. I took on the role of Granny, who was secretly a...|||LOL  Oh dear...now I am imagining a cravated man typing at a laptop, while louging in pillows and surrounded by a harem of scantilly clad women. Two of them are fighting over which one is his...|||You both look great Viva, and it's always good to have a theam. :wink:|||INTP? I think that's more the persona, than the person behind it. Ethereal strikes me as someone who feels things very deeply. Though not in a melencholic or floppy way.     I don't really care...|||I can most definatly relate to that.   I was actually talking about this with a friend not long ago. I was complaining I often felt nieve. She thought this was amusing.  Friend: Filigee, you...|||I...are you secretly my twin? I feel much kinship just now.   Has anyone else ever been caught wearing their socks on their hands, and giving them little voices?...normally:  Left Hand: don't...|||Yes I am from the UK, it's a really dire insult over here, parrel to racisim and homophobic slurs. It shocked me there would be a post using such language, because it's really just...yeah, you don't...|||Where I am it's normally used as an insult, especially against people with disabilities and with negative connotations towards them:    spastic - definition of spastic by the Free Online...|||The use of the term spazzing and such bugs me a little. I know this sounds preachy and everything, but I think it's a bit insensitive. It's a bit like using the word gay to mean bad, not intended...'