Honestly, that doesn't sound like a friend I would like to keep....  But I guess you have reasons to call him your best friend and been through too much to just cut him out of your life. Obviously...|||feeling unloved and/or ignored for no reason, critisism, if others are down, when our freedom is taken (by rules, special situations)|||haha, that's so true...!xD|||haha, we're never really alone. :) whether that's good or bad is another question...|||welcome to perC! :D ( and don't worry, i'm pretty lazy too... ;D )|||yup, that's right ! everyone should feel comfortable. and once you got there (which will take a whole while), you have to keep it up... seems like full-time job to me. :tongue: we reassure and want...|||lol, this whole post confirms that ENFPs need to be reassured over and over again.  maybe we care too much about what others think, but then again that's not too bad, right... ? anyways, i'm one of...|||hello, jack, welcome to perC ! :D  i'm also looking forward for you to share your mind and join conversations.  it's always great to have someone new aboard, so enjoy your ride ! :)|||hello there fellow ENFP! :D enjoy your ride on perC !  oh, and i can't wait to read some of your new views. ;D|||first make sure she always feels welcome, because whenever there's an argument she'll need someone to talk to. communication is everything. (this advice was rather for your friend's boyfriend. xD) ...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BPKFfcomdZA|||welcome to perC ! make yourself at home ! :D|||indeed, forcing is not going to make things better. i know some Js who keep trying to make me actually use (and not only own) my appointment calendar. and they call me one hour before any...|||Enfpleasantly yeah, that's what i also think when i meet some js too! xD and after being confronted with that i also take some more time for things like this. it can be fun. but i couldn't do it...|||congrats ! :D  here's a big hug for you, dude ! *hug*|||haha, that might be the reason why some Js hate Ps so much... i mean maybe they are bothered by our unfinished look ? o.o i can imagine every J taking two little Ps by the hand and teach them how to...|||she said her boyfriend is ENXP, so i think it shouldn't be problem that we entered the discussion, right ? o.o i also think every response was important until now... or did i got the wrong end of...|||haha, maybe we're just too hot ? jk  it's pretty cold here at my place (oh, noes ! does that mean i'm minority ? xD), but pants are uncomfortable! sweat pants are okay though. everything as long as...|||hmm, i always thought that was a pro and a con for every relationship. i mean, everyone who is involved can be harmed, but they can also experient great feelings. or in the words of john green...|||oh, i do that too. if no one's around i draw or write.  today i found my old diary... i'm so stupid sometimes !! laughing about yourself is good from time to time. haha, we need to read them (i...|||that's good, hope is a good thing ! you can do it man ! :D *pats your shoulder*  or was that sarcasm ? oh... sometimes i feel like sheldon... .____.|||well i didn't knew about the double posting thing either ! xD  oh, i always blame the situation. there are so many factors... like the mood which can be influenced by the weather or the setting. or...|||oh, but as long as you have nice people around you who accept that panty-thing it's great too. :D and i don't think anyone here has made bad experience with that yet.   my fault ! i thought you...|||was that sarcasm ? if not... no need to thank me. :)  oh, i can understand you so well! xD but you should never blame your partner unless it was really his fault. maybe you can blame the...|||tbh, you won't like what i have to say, but i think you do have a problem. it doesn't have to be monophobia. monophobia means you're afraid of being alone, but i rather think you have a problem with...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xF5uvXV93hw  just discovered this band and i can't get enough ! ♥|||haha lucky you, enjoy your panty-freedom. indeed ! i want to live alone or with a SO too... for now i have to cope with my mom and her spontaneous guests. xD but soon i'll get myself a...|||lol! oh guys, guys. that's the reason why i love you so much ! xD i could never start this kind of thread .__. but i hate pants... or at least the pants i'm walking around with all day. as soon as...|||hello there ! it's always cool if someone joins us ! :D i hope you'll have fun and interesting conversations on here. welcome to perC! :)|||i'll give it a shot then! thanks for introducing me to it. (even if it wasn't your real intention xD) oh, it was ery interesting, i'll search for it! :D|||hello there, welcome to perC ! :D|||oh, no! i'm not. really, a big thank you for that compliment! it means a lot to me. :)  i was talking about your work. xD i wanted to see some of it, but i didn't wanted to push you at the same...|||ooh, that's too bad, i'd love to see some of your work.  but anyways, feel free. i don't want you to feel forced or anything... xD|||haha! why, thank you very much sir ! :) why don't you  post a pic too ?|||aww, i see. i need to play this game sometimes! :D ooh, don't say something like this, you're too humble. it's really beautiful! :) i once found a 'font-thread' here on perC. i'd love to analize...|||oh, i didn't knew this character... he looks mysterious... and very interesting. :D (is that a game ?) why not ? (haha, that's a dumb question since no one really likes their own handwriting... or...|||i had to think of cheeky vampire (do you know this series ? xD) when i saw your picture. :D and your handwriting is so beautiful ! love it !|||haha, thank you, you're a sweetheart ! i'm working on it. ;D i need so much more practise, i want to study art. so i have not much time anymore... >.<  oh. my. god. you are crazy, i mean,...|||no need to thank me, it was pleasure to help you! sounds like he already plays with the thought of being a couple ? maybe it's infatuation, but your relationship is also a strong connection and...|||oh, thanks! but i'm not talented, i began drawing when i was in kindergarten and i was awful. XD it was a long way to go. but, you're right. practise is the key. i should practise a little bit...|||oh, good that you mention him, he wanted me to show him a pic anyways. i hope he'll see it now... otherwise i'll mention him again.^^  yeeah, well i feel like i'm anime-trapped. xD i suck at...|||oh, i can relate too good with you. i've never been in a relationship because i never wanted to. but i can still relate. :) i'd never give up my freedom, but being in a relationship doesn't mean that...|||oh, i do ! love drawing, it's so relaxing ! :D i'm too lazy to scan any drawings up, so here's something digital. xD 61259|||nooo! i can't live in a world without hugs. ;___; and my heart is warm and real, not robotic at all. promise! >.< *runs after you*|||finding your balance is tricky, i guess others might think it's boring but i don't. i mean being balanced = being healthy. and how can you act out your potential the best ? right, if you're helathy!...|||haha, lol! since Ryaan is afraid of robots he won't eat me anymore. :P but probably he won't hug me either. :unsure: xD|||*tries to hug back but has no more arms* uuuuffff~! :blushed:|||somehow i want to brush my teeth again... :mellow:|||haha, i love hugging NTs for some reason ! xD  and i also hug people out of joy, i mean really, if you ever tell me good news you should automatically prepare for a hug ! (run NTs, run!)|||oh i just found something which might be very interesting for you...   There are just a couple of pieces of advice I can give you to help you in your quest....