'Usually, when I'm staring at someone, I'm really just spacing out or something in their direction without realizing it. That and sometimes I people watch for fun. So...don't assume. That could be...|||They don't guilt trip me with puppy dog eyes and they don't demand attention 24/7. I like the fact that they are independent and have calm temperaments. If I have to love something conditionally, I...|||I have always wanted kids and I've daydreamed about it throughout my life. I personally have a difficult time understanding women who don't want children much in the same way you have a difficult...|||You have to like the IT Crowd. Lol, j/k.|||Baahh, now I want an INFP. :(|||^ Same. Even if it didn't tire me out, it would feel like a complete waste of my time.|||My brother is an ENTJ and he gets angry when I analyze him.|||I may be more intelligent than someone, but they may have stronger social skills, are naturally athletic, etc.  There are so many different types of intelligences out there and to say one is better...|||I keep private information to myself but not out of fear or because secrets are fun. I've just always felt uncomfortable drawing attention to myself. I'm a highly self-conscious individual so...|||I get sarcasm and use it frequently. I also find myself laughing on the inside but I think that's an introverted thing more than an indication that I didn't enjoy the joke as much as the person who...|||Yes, thank you.  The answer is no.|||No and yes. Define world and define box, please.|||Welcome! Did you bring some snow with you? I'd love to have a snow fight right about now.|||How would you like to meet your partner? What would be the ideal scenario?   I'm at the library and he approaches me because I've just pulled out of my bag his favorite book.   How would you...|||I'm pretty girly, I guess. I don't know. It's not like I try to be. I don't really care about gender and I could literally live without one. I just have a tendency to like pretty things, make-up,...|||All human beings have emotions, they just express them differently according to their personality type. Saying a thinker has no feelings is like saying a feeler has no thoughts.|||Is that so? I'm curious now. -heads off to the INTP subforum-|||I don't understand myself. How can I expect others to?|||Hello there! We share some interests. It's nice to meet you.|||Hmm...do you at least know if they're extroverted or introverted?|||Introverts CAN work with people all day, it just wears them out. Dr. Cox comes off as being worn out and that's why he's always grumpy. Yes- he has to lead people but at the same time you can tell...|||I would suggest finding someone with a personality type more compatible to yours. For the feelers in your life that you're stuck with, like family members, you could try telling yourself that it is...|||Ugh...you'd hate me lol. I have problems with eye-contact. And smiling in general.|||If they have truly proved me wrong and I can see their point-of-view I usually say, Oh, okay! That makes sense. And I feel enlightened as well as a sense of respect of the person who taught me...|||I feel this way too, so I'm not sure it's an INFJ-exclusive thing.|||I can give a good silent treatment. I don't do it for amusement because I just don't receive satisfaction out of tormenting others; I do it because it's a reflection of how I feel. I'm so hurt, I...|||I like 'em.   I socialize more on the internet than in person, but I don't abuse it either. I lurk. :)|||I'm am the second oldest out of four.   Older sister - INFJ Me - INTJ Younger sister - ISTP Younger brother - ENTJ|||What I already give them now. Support, advice, unconditional love, etc.   You can't give a person happiness without violating their freewill. People choose how to feel (or more precisely, how to...|||I really appreciate it when somebody listens when I speak. REALLY listens. I feel like 99% of the people in my life are listening to their own thoughts and are concerned with interjecting their own...|||This is the problem. You're only interested in those type of girls. So don't generalize?|||I don't talk about a lot of my personal business because it's just that. Personal. Even with my own mom or my closest friends. I'm quite spiritual and I believe in a higher being, so if things need...|||I get told I'm too quiet.  Because society says being a chatterbox = being friendly/happy/kind, people tend to think I'm not too friendly, or that I'm in a really bad mood. It's a bit annoying...|||I am completing a study guide for my Cultural Geography class while listening to my sister play FFXII.|||I don't have a problem with Mutatio's post--his was a very human response to the situation and that's understandable.  But why are you mysogyistic, Mutatio? No judgment there, I'm just really...|||Thank you. I appreciate that. :)|||I think we need both types of people in the world, those who are ruled by emotions and those who are ruled by thoughts. It keeps everything in balance. I'm grateful that emotional people remind me...|||Thank you Sky. How are you today?|||Aw, that's sweet.  Any particular reason why you love my type?|||I agree with this. I think it's actually more difficult for extremely introverted girls to socialize, because society says girls should be great conversationalists. There are many quiet guys who are...|||Lol, I'm actually pretty good with internet hugs.|||That sounds wonderful. I can't remember the last time I've seen the sunset.  I'm painting on my computer and thinking it would be nice to have photoshop.|||Little bit, yeah.|||Thanks. :)|||Yes, very much so. Do you like watermelon?|||He's emotionally involved, I see. But...doesn't he realize he'll be hurt way more if he stays by her side as she abuses him than if he were to walk away from the get-go? Or is the typical nice guy...|||The inability to express myself vocally because my thoughts are too awesome for words.|||I'm Minty. I've just discovered through multiple online personality tests that I am an INTJ. For the most part, I think it fits but I'm open to other possibilities. I'd like to learn more about the...|||I wish for the strength to face the world in a more direct way. Instead of waiting for someone to ask me out on a date, I'd like to be able to ask them, for example.|||Shy, guarded, creative, deep, curious.'