'Your welcome.|||Ni - Next this will happen. Ti - It works this way. Fi - This feels good. Si - This smell reminds me of my grandma's house.|||Kind of like I earned more alone time points.     Have you considered that those closest to you might simply not know what to do with this new openness you have? The few times I have 'opened up',...|||Without any evil there wouldn't be good, so it's good to be evil sometimes.  -South Park Satan|||Described here is a solution to the OP that could land somewhere on the fun spectrum.|||Bookmarks are meticulously organized.|||3 observations about your post:    1) Willingness to consider a wide variety of types (honesty)    2) The strong desire to 'figure it out' (thinking)|||Probably because there was never anything wrong to begin with. I've jumped back into enthusiastic conversations with people months later as if I had just recently spoke with them. And the feeling...|||Hmm.... Now I'm wondering if you're my sister.|||Yes, those three. The amount of physical personal possessions is probably slightly less than the average person. Compared to my husband though, my areas look quite spartan. Hard drives are...|||Test|||For the most part, keep them to myself. Most people probably don't care and there's no reason to expect them to. From the receivers pov - For those that are close, I endure listening to their...|||Groups?! :shocked:|||Nonetheless, 'get to relax and watch' implies a sentiment about balance of effort...|||My ideal is to have a pared down physical library of books I consider to be most important with electronic copies of the technical books. If something is no longer relevant or of interest, I have no...|||Prince is the best.|||- Household chores - Following various Linux/programming related podcasts - Reading blogs about the above - Exercise - Maintaining the hot pepper garden - Cooking/Baking - Going out for Mexican...|||To eat cake, because sugar is shunned most any other time. I will most likely make it too, because I'm currently operating under the delusion that I make the best cake. My specialities are chocolate,...|||I do this also and know it to act as a 'shield' against stranger's demand for attention. Have heard like you're on a mission quite a few times.|||If he wasn't sociable with neighbors much to begin with, there's no reason to feel guilty.|||You see the big picture, and either they don't or are happy to be led by the 'queen bee'. If pushed, I would be aggressively defending myself with facts that the sycophants can digest in their tiny...|||Sad to you. My point was that he might not have felt sad, alone, and possibly not even aware he was dying.|||Wondering about the circumstances surrounding one's death to what end? Probably best not to bother. Very nearly did a few years ago from pnemonia and was so delerious that there are 15 days I can't...|||The answer here will be almost identical to my answer on reptilian's thread on social rejection. In general, consider traditions and social roles to be a useful reference for navigating the 'world...|||Thanks for posting the video. Found it to be an apt description of that kind of phoniness. In serious matters, just be positive isn't helpful and can appear either cruel or delusional or both....|||Triggered. As in I'm totally triggered right now (flippantly appropriating terminology from serious problems/disorders) Combination buzzwords. Staycation, mompreneur, manopause|||Mine probably aren't any stronger or weaker than most people's. There's no issue expressing feelings in some 'safe range' of intensity. The stonger the feeling on the inside, the less reliable I...|||Not at all, your post reminded me of the Oh my God, I'm so excited! all over reality tv. I can get quite excited on my own, but it takes effort on cue.|||LQ, yes, you're supposed to walk around saying how 'excited' you are all the time.|||Living with RBF Syndrome in a World of Smiles The Discipline of Delayed Satisfaction Some Women Are from Mars They Don't Wanna Hear It - Offering Solutions in a World that Just Wants to Vent Do...|||Are you suggesting that the fantasy itself becomes the 'goal'? A poor simulation of Te? Asking because I don't know about Ni-Fi loops.|||No, consider norms to be a useful reference for saving mental energy for other interests besides 'social things'. In most superficial situations, it's much easier to mindlessly follow the 'protocol'...|||Good question! That person couldn't elaborate on how they diagnose 'bitch eyes'.    That's probably most women at times, but have to agree, Scarlet's is the most convincing : )|||I'm stumped. Have never asked myself that question as an adult before. Similar related questions during childhood/teen years having more to do with insecurities, yes. People in general probably don't...|||If that statement is a half joke, then you seem to already know why you distract yourself. The 'loop' contains no (meaningful to you) personal goal in step 4. Once such a goal is identified, e.g....|||This quality can make one appear almost otherworldly, although I think it can both attract and repel. The appearance is confidence with less pretention (because confidence is not considered much),...|||Would say I'm more comfortable in a 'grounded' state. Maybe that explains the occasional intense physical exercise some INTJs describe.|||Experience what I suspect as inferior Se as not being (consciously) mentally quick enough if there are too many 'moving pieces' - participating in multiple simultaneous conversations, too many cars...|||Searched around for commentary, no luck. Now I'm wondering if they've been asked not to.    Of course. At the same time, you're a curiosity if you don't let yourself get boxed in. It's kind of...|||If everything around you was sweetnes and light, wouldn't you be suspicious?|||Yes, I would desribe those experiences as sexism. With the cultural baggage around females (what they are supposed to be, what their needs are) in general, INTJ women have a particular problem I...|||The memo in its entirety looks passive-aggressive.    Some might be elitist and not elite. There's no indication of a beautiful mind in Damore's strategy or memo. I just can't swallow the hype....|||Would agree with that, because things break.    It doesn't have to touch all parts of an organization. One of your questions raises a point (although you may have meant it figuratively) 'show us...|||Hard to say. I had infinite wishes, most of my time would be spent doing and undoing all these @#$! wishes all the time. Probably better to opt out.|||Fascinating - also don't do movies much... Now I feel only slightly less weird.|||Yes, a bit of a masochist that way.|||By assessment software you mean testing software right? Yep, that's something totally different. I was imagining that PiT meant blind skills/experience level matching only.     Well, you can't...|||Agree, there would still be a need for some kind of minimal interview. The system would work well not just for hiring, but for moving skillsets to different projects or positions as they come up. It...|||If that's true, he has a personal problem. Wish the term triggered would go away. The far left likes that one too.   LQ, just saw you're reply to my edit...|||That would be fair, economical, awsome, and possible to achieve! But would an organization like google relinquish cultural influence? Not optimistic. The idea is too enlightened.'