Socionics picked up on this.  They call it visual identification.  They have also thought a lot about intertype relations.|||So many agnostics and atheists.  It's so boring...so blah.    To the OP, the reason for our existence is to be happy.  When we die our spirit and intelligence lives on.|||My guess is that his behavior is caused by his upbringing.  I'm an INTJ and I tell my kids that I love them and I am affectionate with them despite being fairly cold and rigid with almost everyone...|||It is indeed bullshit.  I like ISFJ's.  If I was not married to an ESFJ I would probably be married to an ISFJ.|||I think polygamy should be legal but it should include all forms of non-monogamous arrangements.  Allowing people to form any sort of complex plural binding is not any worse than serial monogamy.  In...|||44977  There is not much happening on this thread so I feel an obligation to contribute.  Here is a picture of my wife and I.  She is an ESFJ.|||Je me debrouille un peu.  Mais je n'suis pas ISFJ.|||I thought you were going to be polyamorous with your INTP boyfriend?  My understanding was that you and him were both going to have lovers on the side?...|||The magnetic wankel.  42071|||Not from what I've seen.  I think you are a very effective communicator.  Also very interesting as well.|||Why do you like ISTJ's?  I mean, I respect them a lot, they are dependable, hard working, and solid.  But think INTJ+ISTJ would be painfully boring.|||I don't think there is anything wrong with it.  I hope that it works out well for you and that you find happiness.     Is your INTP going to have part time lovers?  What about your extra lovers, is...|||It's interested to see an ISFJ admit this.  I don't think monogamy is natural.  None of us just stop noticing others after marriage.  However, most of us have a need for love and security in our...|||Oh.  He sounds like an ass.  Sorry.|||This is fascinating coming from an ISFJ.  I've always viewed ISFJ's as very monogamous.  I can't tell if you have a craving for multiple lovers or if you are just frustrated that your relationships...|||Please don't expect him to figure it out on his own.  It's probably best to be blunt and straight forward.  Stand up for yourself and your needs by telling him what he said that you didn't like and...|||I'm a type 9 followed closely by Type 5 then 8 and finally 7.  I don't enjoy reading about type 9, it's irritating because only about 50% (maybe less) of what I read about 9's applies to me.  Common...|||The suspense is killing me.  I think he's just chicken shit.  He's taking too long, I think you make should make a move since he's too scared.|||I obtained a degree in statistics with a minor in math.|||This is what you call taking control?  This is just a story about two mice playing a game about who is going to talk first.  It's kind of funny.|||I've never seen anybody act like this IRW.  You were a little irritating on my thread but reading this shit on another thread is really taking me over the edge.   Seriously?!  There is no way you...|||Dating was one of the worst parts of my life.  I hated dating.  Trying to meet new people and make new conversations, it's tough.  The worst part of it for me was when I finally fell in love but she...|||I like ESFPs.  I think they are fun and sexy.  However, I can't spend too much time with them since they drain my energy and can say things and do things than irritate me.  Their method of directive...|||It's just fun to talk about.  Some people take MBTI a little to seriously.  The MBTI INTJ is kind of an asshole.  I'm worried that some of us start acting more like assholes after studying up on...|||The hygiene issue is the main problem with their descriptions.  I also don't like messy environments.  I really appreciate a clean house.  However, I find that their description of the INTJ gait...|||MBTI seems to glorify the INTJ describing us as the most confident, good leaders etc.  It's kind of nice to hear that but I think socionics brings us back to reality by describing us as independent...|||I know MBTI is not the same as socionics but many INTJs are also INTj/LII in socioncs.  Do these descriptions seem accurate to you?  I think these are 90% to 95% accurate for me.  I prefer these...|||I work with a confirmed ESFJ man, I think there is another ESFJ in the office too but he has not taken the test.   The confirmed ESFJ is quite masculine, he likes to exercise and look good.  He...|||What I want to know is if there has ever been and ISFJ who cheated on a spouse.  Is the ISFJ capable of doing that?|||It doesn't seem like a big deal to me.  This forum engages in typism all the time.  Even entire threads devoted to it like this...|||I am INTJ but also INTj in socionics and I married and ESFJ/ESFj.  The relationship was difficult in the beginning and it's really quite a miracle that we married.  If we had lived together first...|||I know two ESFJ's in successful marriages.  One is my wife.  We've been together 10 years.  It started out difficult with lots of misunderstandings but things gradually got better.  We are now very...|||He is crazy but I admit that I am entertained by him.  The thing about his type that I think is pretty certain is that he is extroverted and utilitarian.  So he's either an SP or NT.   He seems more...|||I'm glad it's working out for you.|||I'm not surprised that an ISTP does not think we are emotionless.  I agree we are not.  I work with an ISTP and he has a reputation for being tactless and brutally honest.  The ESFJ and ESTJ here...|||ESFP + INTJ = catastrophic failure!  This is coming from an INTJ who has been very happily married to an ESFJ for 10 years.  I really like ESFP's but I can only tolerate them for short periods. ...|||I've been told that I'm all or nothing.  Maybe it's a common trait in INTJ's.  I think we're stubborn in our ideas as well.  I'm a believer myself.  I firmly believe in God.  I can respect the...|||That's not an odd question.  Sounds like a valid concern about your health.  I've never heard of pinching the breast being super painfull though.|||Okay I concede.  People who spend a lot of time on forums are not necessarily weird or awkward.  I have to remind myself that most of you are younger and single.  That makes a huge difference.|||That's what happens when you are socially impaired AND extroverted.|||Sorry.  I'm sure you are smarter than me and much more talented in my ways.  Anybody that would pick an avatar like that is obviously very sexy.  The crowds are probably lined up by now to have a...|||I really should not say this but I'm going to.  This post gave me a boner.  Never in my life have I been so flattered.|||Wow funny OP.  I loved it.    We are only gods on the INTJ dominated internet forums.  In the real world we are often geeks and losers, virgins and socially awkward.  INTJs flock to INTJ forms on...|||It's good to know I'm not the only one.|||I'm surprised that nobody has mentioned socionics yet.  The primary emphasis in socionics is interpersonal relations.  If you are INTJ in MBTI then there is a good chance that you are also INTj in...|||Yes.  A fresh new start is good.  I get bored too.  We are moving next year and we are so excited to get out of our neighborhood and start over fresh with new people.    Lately I've been dreaming...|||I was bad at math as a teenager.  I think that was because I was lazy and never applied myself.  Half way through my freshman year of college I quit and took a two-year break, I lived in a different...|||You might be a pederast.|||My #1 frustration is that I think too much and do too little.  I want to be more of a doer and I want to be more productive at work and at home.|||I've been married to an ESFJ for 10 years.  It's been good, really good actually.