'I do this but my violent reaction is to give them very dirty looks.  But I am not INTJ. Only close. :)|||Was it for me? Oooh Because then I would feel special. I'm sending you an email soon.  I remember what your last name was. And the one before that. And I don't remember that one you had for,...|||I don't. Sometimes that's the only way to release it, I think. Specifically when we are like this:    Giving in to the pain, I think, has the same effect on me as walking barefoot through the...|||hahaha I totally understand this.|||I have a whole brother and a whole sister. :)  I'm the oldest child. I like being the oldest child except that my sister was 6 when I went to college. I think we understand each other better than...|||I love this.  Really.  Because I feel it.  It's as if it's written to me, but as if I'm feeling it at the same time. Does this make sense? It's like what I tell myself.|||No, I've always been this way.  I notice almost immediately when a guy likes another girl though. I've freaked out a few guy friends with this ability before. One guy used to make me guess who he...|||I'm clueless when a guy likes me. Or maybe guys just don't like me. I'm not sure. Sometimes I realize it five years later.|||My gut instinct has never been wrong, but I consider my gut instinct to be a very rare thing. There are things that I sense sometimes, but they are sometimes wrong. But once every couple of years or...|||I'm not sure that I'm going to say that her attacks are legitimate. But I can see myself in them, which makes me think that some of what she writes about can be characteristic of INFJs in a sense....|||All of this sounds as if it could easily be your enneagram. The INFJ is not always the peacemaker, but the 9 usually is. Hopeless romanticism could be INFJ or a 4 in the tritype. I'm aware that not...|||288  Have fun with that testosterone, boys. I'm going to bed.|||288  *sigh*|||288  Still not sure why I'm here.|||288  Disregard my siggy while I'm in this thread, okay?|||284 This could get boring fast.|||282 ...................|||Although if you have both a 9 and a 4 in your tritype it could make you resemble INFJ a little more than the average INTJ.  Have you compared Te and Fe descriptions?  I have a 9 and a 4 in my...|||hahaha That's like my best friend and her Dutch husband... except... I'm 5'4 and I know she's at least a couple of inches shorter than me!|||There is no such type as 9w4. :P|||Physically, I think my type is based on height. I have never been attracted to a guy taller than 5'8 or shorter than 5'5  Is this strange? lol|||I'm not sure if I have ever met an ENFJ before. I think I have though, and I got along with him very well. I wasn't attracted to him at all though. Everyone liked him, and I'm more likely to go for...|||hahaha Kevin, you said it better than the rest of us. It's the only thing that's missing in most of our lives.|||I'm pretty sure I've never been attracted to a guy who's full of himself, but to each his own.  :wink:|||Wow. I come off completely differently depending on my surroundings. I can come off as very outgoing and happy or I can come off as very soft-spoken and quiet. I can come off as self-confident or...|||Museums! Libraries! Coffee shops! Water parks!  My four favorite places. You picked two! I also like solitary walks, but not solitary vacations as others do. I think I would not know what to do...|||This thread amuses me because I had a conversation a few days ago on another thread, then I saw this yesterday.  Conversation I had on thread, INFJ girls, what are you attracted to...|||I agree.  And that's the second thing that tips me off that a guy is INTJ. The first is the depth in their eyes.  It's quite amusing too. One sat next to me in the coffee shop a couple of weeks...|||After finding out my type I just started to note or be aware of the ways in which I acted like my type and the ways in which I didn't. Once I noticed which ways I leaned more towards INFJ, I started...|||I've never been there myself. I've known a lot of Dutch people as well and I do think they speak English better than others I have met. Your accents are easier to understand, at least. I've been told...|||hahaha Yes, I have this issue. It's a serious problem when I'm feeling with a person who is depressed, because then I begin to become depressed. :P And my best friend in the whole world lives in...|||No no no. Too hairy is gross.  I should edit and say that old school British (1800's?) sideburns can be sort of hot at times.|||I'm not a facial hair kind of girl. I do enjoy some nice sideburns from time to time though.|||SLN and Btmangan - I pretty much related to your entire conversation back there.  Has anyone noticed that most of us in this thread are INFJs?  Has anyone considered the possibility of breaking...|||When I'm spacing out people think I'm angry or sad. hahaha|||Not so hairy. But not one of those guys who shaves and waxes his chest and flexes his muscles all the time. Gross.|||I think it could easily. Here's the problem: racist ideas were considered common knowledge at the time. Many, probably most, people believed that certain races were superior to others. I have read...|||Darkstar reminded me of my unending love for Lifehouse. hahaha  My favorites now are Storm, Disarray and Learn You Inside Out. But I really love most of their music.|||Doesn't mean that I drink the stuff! Most of us don't, actually. On rare occasions I drink decaf.|||I put some college, but your question is legitimate.  In some surveys/polls, some college can imply that only a portion of the education was completed and that you are not currently in school....|||What the hell?  hahahahahahaha  Best comment I read today. Thanks.|||He just doesn't want to think you are the same type as him. This is obvioiusly an enneagram difference. You are so INTJ.  haha|||Aren't you, like, seventeen?|||^ I have the same symptoms when my anemia is bad. Coffee does make it worse for whatever reason. I really can't have any caffeine at all.|||I like the first quote because it amused me.  The second of your quotes, not so much. Why? Because the second quote is entirely Western. It is like Western society to think that our way of...|||I'm wondering if it would look more like me if you mixed the Silent, Straight-Laced Gem with the Megaphone. That probably won't make sense to most of you. hahaha... But I think the combination kind...|||I also remember trying to make wings out of fabric. I had a plan in mind to jump off of my roof and fly. Then I realized that was a bad idea so I decided that I could fly if I jumped off of the...|||I prefer to call them INTJ.|||THE SILENT, STRAIGHT-LACED GEM This girl is rather shy, quite studious, probably pretty conservative, and usually somewhat attractive in a sort of clean, traditional, classic way. Sometimes, her...|||I wonder if part of it is because most of us are uncoordinaded and not so much into physical activity then.  I'm not a big fan of sweets, but I don't eat well other than my gluten-free diet that I...'