I was indifferent to zombies before the likes of Warm Bodies and In The Flesh came along and humanised them a bit more. Then it got interesting. Perhaps because then I related more to the zombies...|||I was telling my INFx sister how when I was talking to my INFJ friend tonight he brought up the fact I 'enthusiastically' expressed interest in drawing comics last week when he told me he used to...|||Oh, we have discussed it. I dislike the idea of leading anybody on or people not knowing where they stand. We click in the sense we have a lot to talk about so I went on a date with him when he asked...|||I feel like all the INFJs I know want me to give them something I'm not capable of. For a certain amount of time I think there is an illusion that I'm meeting their needs but in reality we're just...|||lavendersnow  I find your reply really interesting and you touch a lot on something I've been thinking about a lot lately because this particular INFJ is interested in me romantically and I think...|||These are some really interesting answers and I definitely relate to a lot of them.   For me, when I care about something, I'm always approaching it from a 'how can I be productive' perspective,...|||I was talking to an INFJ about his grandfather. He has dementia and has just been taken into hospital after some falls. He was telling me about it and then apologised for talking about 'depressing...|||I have to say that my favourite people to chat to and the ones I have the most interesting and stimulating conversations with tend to be those that I can go even weeks without replying to. Sometimes...|||If I don't enjoy a person to some degree I probably won't respond. Which is a pretty clear message.  I do have to say there has been a lot of times when someone has told me something and I either...|||Obviously. Places like this are just a different medium. I use them differently. That is all.   I never said I was going to dismiss anyone based on their aversion to SM. I said I was mulling it...|||It's not that they never do but it's a different vibe to what I get from places like this. Though that could totally be in my head. When I talk in forums like this I'm more aware of others. My social...|||Ah. I like that social media can be more like shouting into the void than somewhere like this where people are more inclined to reply and then I have to interact. I can be less coherent and nobody is...|||I guess you weird me out then. :'D|||Oh, I should have specified I meant my generation.|||People that don't use social media weird me out. Where do they unload all the thoughts they don't want to tell any specific person?|||I don't accept that.|||Oh, don't be sorry at all. Venting is good. It gets a bad rap but it's actually very important. The reason I asked was because I wanted to know how best to advise you. Sometimes I can start of...|||The deciding if the date is worthy part.|||An INFJ has asked me out on a date and says he has some ideas for a stress-free date. I'll report back when he tells me what they are so we can decide if they are worthy. (Kidding)|||I'm like a unicorn. Touch my horn! :proud:|||TechFreak  Ah, so rather than advice you're really looking to vent? I understand how typing everything out can really be cathartic and help process things.   If I was to give advice I would say...|||Why am I irresistible...  :dry:|||All I get from this is that you both seem on completely different wavelengths. There's obviously some sort of issue with communication. It's almost like you're speaking different languages.   From...|||WELL, he just asked me out on a date. So I guess I did something right. Haha.   We've only been talking - on a dating website - for the last week or so but our conversations have been like essays....|||I ended up making a joke, apologising for the joke, telling them I'm the worst at taking compliments and saying thank you. Totally smooth. :cool: He seemed to take it well though. :blushed:|||I'm not gonna lie. I came here to see if I could work out if I like someone. :blushed:|||That does sound really interesting and fun! Visiting a stable in general would be something I'd love. Getting to pet and feed horses would be awesome.|||I've been thinking. I think I attract people with strong fe partly because I'm disabled. This is a new theory though, so I'm going to have to develop it.|||I think you have a valid point and I would find his disregard of a pretty standard trigger hard to get over. Maybe I would feel different if it was something very personal to him but I'd still be...|||I think in a way we shoot ourselves in the foot with it because we basically poke at someone's emotions and then have no idea - unless we've worked on it - how to deal with those emotions or help...|||I guess a big part of it is second guessing myself and worrying that they're feeling more than what I realise or not. So I'm not sure how much of a deal to make it of it. It doesn't help that I tend...|||I'm thinking about all the things I could have done today but didn't. All the things I could be doing every day but I'm not. And how I have little to no motivation to rectify the situation.|||Yeah... how do I break it to them that I don't have any? Haha.  That's how I feel too. It's not even that they won't continue to debate, they don't even start them. I mean, I know that I'm right A...|||https://c3.staticflickr.com/9/8051/29416174810_94c29cdcf2.jpg  It's a me. :cool:|||Maybe part of the issue with the particular INFJs I've been talking to it's under the guise of potential romance and to them, disagreeing with me doesn't make sense when you could potentially be...|||That makes a lot of sense and also probably why I'm also a little bit in awe of their intellect. I learn so much from them, even if I might not actually hold on to the information for very long. I...|||An INFJ just told me I was beautiful in a really sweet way (I don't usually find things sweet tbh) but I'm not great at taking compliments and I don't know how best to respond. My natural reaction is...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rfo9VAQxmKI  <3|||I feel like people need to understand the difference between an emotional exchange and a factual/thinker exchange.   The two aren't always mutually exclusive but sometimes they are.   I can tell...|||Ah. In my local shelters you can't really volunteer like that unless you're properly on their books as a volunteer, if that makes sense. You can sometimes walk dogs though, so I guess there's that....|||I guess I would say it's not my favourite country. Just a country I want to visit most right now. Or somewhere I'd like to live for a bit.|||I took this yesterday when I was still under the impression I was an ISTP and low and behold I got ISTP. The results were clear, slight, moderate, clear... if I remember correctly. It wasn't a...|||If someone asked me to an animal shelter on a date I would ask them are they a masochist in all areas or...?|||When you're discussing how you lack the ability to form meaningful connections with the majority of people because you don't find the majority of people stimulating enough...   Me: The majority of...|||I'm Northern Irish, leaning towards British.   Canada! Home of ice hockey and generally just seems like a cool place, plus it's close enough to America without actually being America.|||Yeah, it's this for sure. My overall interest is in writing but what I enjoy writing about or certain topics that inspire me aren't constant. I guess that's where the issue comes in. Maybe I just...|||I think that makes sense and is probably why the blog posts I'm most motivated and inspired to write are usually the ones that benefit me in some way. Usually the ones where I get the warm fuzzies...|||I bet that's more common than you'd think.|||581906|||I'm still working on this. My room is full of unfinished projects that I may or may not get around to finishing some day. I also have a blog and find that I have spikes of motivation and inspiration...