'I've taken a break from posting stuff on this site. Continued to browse  though and saw a few INFP posts pop up. Didn't want to make a post there  talking about myself so I've decided to make this...|||When they try to find the stupidest reasons to be near you. Yep... :mellow:|||I remember when my ISTP and I were having communication issues in dating stage that I offered to be FWB if he wasn't keen on having a bf/gf relationship. He did not like that. But did say that he...|||Yes. Definitely. For random reasons. For all sorts of reasons. Admittedly a lot being for selfish reasons.|||I second the not hiding your feelings bit. I learned that it got me into more trouble so I quit that and started being more straightforward when it calls for it. You have you're own voice, use it. ...|||I honestly couldn't say what my ISTP boyfriend likes about my specifically since he isn't open about stuff like that.I've been my usual self and am very clear and direct about my actions/feelings. He...|||Loneliness:  Never had a core group of friends. Still don't. I think I just learned to accept that. I have casual friends I go out with and that's enough. My boyfriend is who I mainly go out with...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pa3jyGj9NxI|||Before my cousin passed from cancer she always found comfort from seeing the volunteer dogs. She also often talked about owning her own pets. While our family is loving the constant attention would...|||I updated on a thread in the relationships board, but forgot about here. :tongue:  Was actually ready to end things earlier this week. I just didn't think we were moving forward enough to the point...|||I'm getting into culinary right now. More on the baking/pastry side of things. What I want to do with those skills exactly yet, I haven't found out.  I knew I wanted something... artsy I guess. But...|||I especially hate this. And then when they don't even try to say, Oh, but lets go on this X time instead. At least try to do something to ease the blow.|||Not sure if anyone is still interested in this thread, but I thought it would do me good to do some venting.  On a more serious note I think there's a very good chance that I will stop dating this...|||I don't live in my own home just yet (and since haven't been motivated to decorate my own room to my own taste). I do often imagine my dream home design though. I love the feel of a coffee...|||What an elegant fuck you. :tongue:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A_N_Fcz5Yaw|||Maybe marriage, no kids.  I'm open to getting married , but at the same time am not the traditional type. I'm not into religion either. Maybe a party if it ends up happening. Love the idea of...|||Is... is this sarcasm? :laughing: I'm really bad at reading tones online. Although my ISTP often shakes his head at me when I don't understand if he's being serious or not.   The first time I shed...|||Not entirely sure. All I know is that at a party I'm the one in the corner of the room playing with the dog/cat. :confused:|||All seems well. Better in fact. My needs are being met and as far as I know I've been respectful of boundaries. :proud: We're even planning a weekend trip together in a month or two (which really...|||*cringe*|||Well, we didn't break up. It seems that when I look needy he says that I act too 'relationship style' and right now he enjoys it, but doesn't want to lead me on. He doesn't want to see me hurt. This...|||Uh-oh. Looks like I had a right to be worried. He sent me a text saying that I'm getting too relationship style for him and that right now he enjoys it, but he doesn't want to lead me on. This sounds...|||I know I'm getting off-topic here, but can I have some input on this? I know that ISTPs need their alone time, but I also have a need for little things. He use to text me good morning/night if I...|||The best way I can describe this relationship right now is of cat and dog. I'm the dog who adores the cat and the standoffish cat likes the dog as well, though shows it in subtle, sudden ways in...|||Thanks for all the info you guys. :proud:  I've been feeling kinda insecure about our relationship for a few days. We usually see each other once a week due to busy schedules and plan the date...|||I believe it. It just takes some getting use to for me. :tongue:   Oh yeah forgot about games. He has a PS2 in his room but hardly uses it. Maybe I should go hunting for different multiplayer...|||I've done this before. Multiple times. Usually dealing with just the natural occurrence of losing touch.   Except for one where I did it intentionally. There was this girl at work. Single mom, all...|||True. I understand the response when it's for harder to answer stuff like when dealing with feelings. But when its stuff like this:  Me: I'm making some food. Want me to pack you a lunch? Him:...|||Feels good that I think I've hit most of those points to a certain degree, save for the traumatic experience. Maybe something that will happen if we keep dating later. :proud:  I've lurked topics...|||So, I've been dating my ISTP coworker for about seven months now. Off the bat I knew I was attracted already. I was the first one to ask him out. I'm actually pretty open with my feelings if I feel...|||I have a thing for certain beards. Does that count? :blushed:   But I have always admired hair that compliments the head shape of people in general.|||Found my old early teenage years diary. A lot of it was complaining about other people. A good chunk thinking about how they treated me/what they thought about me.  Such a pussy... So you don't get...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MgUwXssWgb4|||62845  This dork never fails. :proud:|||I wish I could do that. The closest I've done is Polymore clay and well... it didn't really end well for me. :blushed:     That does sound really odd. And I couldn't imagine myself re-gifting a...|||When I'm single I love the obligatory food + discounted goodies the day after. Although that's not the case this year. I plan on baking pound cake, cream puffs, Bailey's flavored marshmallows, and...|||Please stop that mindset of not feeling worthy. :tongue:  Gifts is my first idea even though you mentioned that he doesn't accept them. What kind of gifts have you been giving him? Are you skilled...|||It's... interesting. I only know one confirmed ISTP (male) who I have been dating for a couple of months. The description of the general ISTP is pretty spot on about him.  I originally found his...|||Summertime: Whoo! Got a steady part-time job! Starting school soon. I'm gonna be so awesome and focus only on me. :proud:   Few weeks in: I've gotten a crush on my coworker... crap... shouldn't do...|||IEI-0 :tongue:|||http://i.imgur.com/YsA96.gif  http://images.wikia.com/courage/images/6/6c/Freaky_fred.jpg  Screw. These. Fuckers.|||99ROOMS.COM  Best played alone in the dark. :wink:|||So... I watched Magic Mike last night...  I am so glad I don't have a penis. Would've been walking out with a boner.|||I was watching some documentary awhile back about animals in shelters. Could not watch anything after this scene where they placed a group of puppies inside a metal box and gassed it. They then...|||Here's the thing. If people don't like you for you (granted you don't have issues that would really harm others) fuck 'em. It's not your job to please others... unless it's lierally a JOB that you...|||This honestly sounds more like a self-esteem issue rather than not just getting along with people. How much can you say that you like yourself? If you've lost sight of yourself then of course this...|||Definitely had this issue(s). Everyone has their own solution to not being able to relate to people.  What helped me was to really enjoy being alone. That involved being okay with not having a...|||41727  You know me, I always like to savor the last shot before popping the heatsink.|||Eventually I'm going to get a really short haircut. Just a matter of picking the right time.|||I don't think badly of you. Everyone has their faults that they need to get through. The issues you described just happen to be them.   That said please focus on yourself. I've also made the...'