'KindOfBlue06: Honestly, I don't need anyone to take care of me. I have a fantastic job, own my own home and two cars. I'm not financially well-off by any means, but I've worked hard to get where I...|||I just listened to this and I'm going to go find more of his lectures and books. I'm also going to have him sit down and watch, there's some fantastic points discussed. Thank you for sharing this!|||I honestly never feel completely whole. The loneliness leaves too big of a hole. Don't get me wrong, I've dated many ... it seems like a million people. I usually never have a connection with them....|||I really appreciate all of the replies. There's honestly no one I could discuss this situation with, no one who would even understand.  He is definitely an all or nothing type of person, and I...|||Thanks, kismetie. There's definitely romantic feelings involved for both of us. Doing my best to be careful. After a night being entwined while we sleep, that wall I had around my heart collapsed. ...|||I'm certainly not innocent for sure! We all have our demons, some are just harder to let go of.  Good news, he asked me to take him to a detox center and I dropped him off the other day....|||Good advice. I can't really tell anyone IRL because then there's that judgement factor. Needed to be able to talk about it without having to then struggle with them looking down on him or me for...|||Thanks, Sangoire! Yes, I know co-dependence could be an issue. I do like to try and fix certain people, I do like the feeling of being needed and loved. I can be very hard on him, but I have also...|||I've gotten to know a particular INFP (I'm ENFP) and he's somehow gotten under my skin. In a good way. But, he's a mental and physical mess. Between struggling with depression and existential crises...|||I'm sorry. I had to giggle. Logical and emotional? Certainly not at the same time... lol.  Sarcastic, Disorganized, Clutzy, Hedonistic, Passionate|||Oh yeah! I had hypercolor shirts. THEY WERE THE BOMB. Lolololol.|||Guilty? No. I'm the type who doesn't go shopping until I am in desperate need of it. My problem is I need new things, but I hate looking for them. It's so ... tedious and boring. The thought of going...|||I love everybody, but only like a very few.  This topic is a great one. I am extremely sociable and love being around people. But when I go home, I am content to hang out with one person. If he is...|||I've been told that I have a horrible sense of style. Tye-dyes, cargo shorts and flip-flops WERE all of my casual clothes... until my other half made me go buy normal clothes. I guess I look trendy...|||Well excellent then. You can be my friend. I always need new ones. For some reason I have this terrible habit of losing them.  I know they're around here somewhere... ?|||No, we haven't. I haven't been on in a year. Got bored and started checking out the site again. You are quite amusing, I must say. :)  IRL, I only know one ENFP. I find it interesting to read what...|||Well Rube, if you like Stormswift, then maybe you'll like me too. I too, can be quite irresistible. Lol.|||I am having the same issue. I know that I'm an ENFP, because when it comes down to it and I'm trying to figure out a resolution/decision, I'll go with my gut hunch, not necessarily the facts. But...|||It is interesting on what different things attract different ENFPs. Personally, if you show too much interest, then it takes away the fun of the chase. And if you're doing the chasing, you might have...|||I picked up on this thread because I just started dating an ENTJ. I'm ENFP, but not the mushy kind. At times I wish I was an ENTP, but those tricky feelings come out more than I like. Lol. ...|||Wow. You sound like a young me. Your two posts hit something inside of me like no other post, and I'm over twice your age. Impressive. It can take a lot to move me. I'm a bit desensitized.  I have...|||At first, I become completely and totally smitten. I even do things that come across as almost stalking. I'll google their name, peruse their FB pages and try to find out as much information about...|||Reflecting on a day well done.|||When I get mad, I'll immediately stop talking. And if you are paying attention, my lips will purse and my eyes will narrow. You can see the anger oozing out of me. I can't hide emotions at all. ...|||I have an INTJ friend that was really into me and after a week, he decided we weren't a perfect match and now I'm just a friend (if MadScientist's post wasn't in March I would think it was the same...|||Hmmm. I am also one of those ENFP friends that come and go. I hang out with the same person for months on end, and I either get bored or find them irritating, and go hang out with someone else for...|||Trying to quit smoking, due to promise to my INTJ best friend, who swore to cut off contact if I didn't follow through. Bastard.  Not fair, he knows that is the only threat that will properly...|||Clairest, we seem to have some of the same traits. And your friend sounds like mine - and I do the same thing. We work together, so we have daily interaction, but I'll cut off the after work hangouts...|||Yes, I've been working on that one myself. Now, once I see that I'm not happy, the end of relationship is very imminent. I've learned not to hold on to something that isn't working.   Plus in those...|||I can handle the end of every relationship I've every been in rather well. But then again, for the past 18 years, I've only been dumped once -  and that was when I was 17. After that, well, I have a...|||I have a friend who is an ISFJ. Love her to death, but we don't see eye to eye on many subjects. We always have fun, and are both very silly, but our conversations tend to always revolve around only...|||I took the test when I was around 29 - so that's about six years ago. I may just have to take it again for curiosity sake.  After conferring with a friend of mine, who quite the expert in this...|||SCUEN: (2.9% of women; 3.2% of men)  not easily hurt, spends more time in group activities than solitary activities, comes alive at parties and in crowds, not very religious, would not want to give...|||Its interesting. I go through introversion periods myself. I hate being alone if its not by choice, but if its by choice, then I enjoy my quiet time. I read, watch tv, workout and clean house. ...|||Nope. Its a 16.|||When I took the personality test on mypersonality.com, I came up as an ENTP, with the T being 63%. But I took the full test about five years ago and it said that I was an ENFP.  Can a person change...|||I'm interested in getting some feedback from everyone about myself. I am considered an extremely bubbly person that everyone loves to be around. I'm loud, sarcastic, funny, and very friendly. I...|||I love dry, sarcastic humor. In fact, I love to bicker with people to see who can be the rudest and the funniest. I thrive on the dark side.  And my avatar represents the plight of my industry -...|||I'm pondering what outrageous thing I can IM my INTJ buddy so he'll yell at me. Quite fun.|||You have to leave the house to meet an ENFP. Once you're out, we're easy to spot. Look for the person in the center of a crowd.  The only reason I'm online is because the INTJ that I'm quite...|||I'm new to this forum. I've always been very interested in personality types, but only have just recently started reading up more on them.  Thought I'd give some background info on me ...  I'm...|||I am an ENFP and have an interesting relationship with an INTJ. Iniatilly, we got together because of an electric connection that both of us felt. Within time, we have slowed that down to a...'