'Ethical Intuitive Extratim - Wikisocion  This is posted elsewhere, but there are subtypes of ENFJ as well as gender differences summarized in the top link pages.   The former roommates deep...|||Ayup.  ;) Welcome.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D0F1fEQeWF8  For you!  Welcome!|||Coolios. Welcome to the forum!|||Hi and welcome! There's endless food for thought and discussion on these forums. You're going to really enjoy it.    My two cents on your personality typing:  When you write about how you think,...|||Update from my picture post long ago: I just found out that my mother is an ISTJ. No wonder she often has that long-suffering look when surrounded by ENFJ family. Heeheehee. I love her so much.|||ADORABLE. I want to adopt them like this:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lwGN73izZmw The sting is if a shy person comes across as standoffish. Sometimes I think someone is stuck up or...|||That's awesome! He must love you so much! I wish my grandpas were still around. I miss'm so. :sad: One of my grandpas understood me. We used to pull pranks on other people, build things together, and...|||Your grandpa sounds kinda lonely, or like he's pouring as much of himself into you as he possibly can. It's sorta cute. ENFJs have an on and an off mode. Around my close friends, I switch the E...|||I have nightmares about my teeth shattering while I'm eating, and falling out one by one. *shudder*|||180962 Me (ENFJ) on the right. The Boy (INFJ) on the left. 180986 My father and brother are both ENFJs. My mother is an I-something that I forgot. Having three ENFJs in the family often makes her...|||Of not finishing the things I've started, due to distractions. Examples: my novels, my masters degree, my journalism career. Of being shackled by debt in this economy. Of being a bad friend. Of...|||Respect their space. Don't treat it like a college dorm. Do not leave a mess in their kitchen, or trash in their vehicle.  Do not show up unannounced and uninvited on their doorstep.  Do not...|||I take it back! My INFJ friend just asked me to be his girl. Now I'm in a panic to research INFJs all over again so I don't screw up! :shocked:  One sign an ENFJ likes you is when they shoot you a...|||Laaawl. Ok, you win.|||I see some similarities with my INFJ buddy here. He's the only INFJ I know. I thought he was another type until he tested. In groups, he comes across as an E not an I. When I only knew him on that...|||Well, I find INFJs fascinating, so we're even. :D|||What CS said. Also, it depends on who is giving it to me. If I don't have a good connection to that person, then a romantic gift is regarded with suspicion. I will shove that gift into the depths of...|||I really sympathize with you, Seeker. Twice in the past I accidentally and on purpose ended up dating or very involved with someone to try and placate myself when I wasn't getting the person I really...|||I know! I was fighting this line of thinking all night tonight. All day, I was looking forward to seeing this person. And I got so worked up nervous trying to not gush and squee all over him, I sorta...|||I'm not the best person to answer this because I'm a control freak, super perfectionist 1w9. But for what it's worth:  1) A lot. The thoughts sneak in until I write them down or rationalize and...|||*LoL* Summery, you just perfectly described the relationship between me and my current INFJ bestie. His personality continually intrigues and confuses the heck outta me, but you just described...|||I agree. One time I was with another strong E type. It was like strapping myself to a roller coaster--extreme highs and lows experienced at hyper-speed. It started out addictive but got old fast. I...|||Yep. Cuz I agree with this:   It seems to me that your friend is testing your boundaries and trying to get a little attention from you, or being a little bit dominating. I think a comment such as,...|||The stories so far are so interesting!  I believe the event that made me the most angry, was when a family friend and youth leader at our church committed suicide. I remember the date. It was in...|||Daphne Du Maurier, speculative fiction of all types--especially Isaac Asimov and David Weber, lots of classic fantasy, mysteries and anything with a twist ending, Dickens, Shakespeare, poetry, nonfic...|||Do you have one? 171114 You know, a physical place you go to retreat from the noisy world and the demands of all the needy people around you?  Last night, I got back from a three day camping...|||1w9, the Perfectionist. :/|||Yum!!|||Yeah, your buddy could put off your questions indefinitely with vague or nice answers if he didn't appreciate you asking them, so there probably isn't any reason to worry about being to aggressive...|||I agree quite a bit with much of the above posts.    Not at all. The love you're talking about--piano falling from the 40th floor on your head kind of love, crazy Shakespearian love, obsessive...|||Musician's hands, soft rumbly voice, kind and patient, quirky, self-entertaining, playful, can bake cookies!  Caaall mi bebe!! :tongue:|||School systems and churches. I know at least three ENFJs who are teachers, and one who is a minister. You can also find them working in customer service, where their bubbly joy while serving people,...|||Thank you both! I'm going to keep that in mind and be patient with him. Maybe he'll get more comfortable around me and relax a bit. I got yo-yo'ed again today.  :laughing: If I keep getting summoned...|||Hey hey, confused ENFJ here for some advice on my INFJ buddy, if anyone would be so kind. ^__^;  We've known each other for a few years.  The past 8 months we got a lot closer though than we used...|||When two ENJFs date each other, are they gonna burn each other out? Too much energy and not enough direct communication? I'm curious.|||You guys are so insightful! Here's my view:  Yes, to the point where my friends and family crack up at me when they can tell I'm uncomfortable because one of my invisible boundaries or core values...|||Welcome, Villette! It's fun here, right? ^__^|||Sooo, I thought I'd report back in on how the date with that guy went and whatnot...It was a no go after all. On the night we were supposed to connect, I started getting odd texts from him. He...|||The fact that you're here for her now is probably more important than your having been out of the loop for a while. At least she's eventually told you some of the stuff she's been going through, even...|||Really?? Granted, I've met a lot of shy people online who aren't cool with groups, but I never expected most people to be that way. I've been in writing groups in chatrooms since I was fourteen. Met...|||Wow, I hear your frustration. :frustrating:  Trouble recognizing when a guy wants to get in my pants? Yep! I think they're being friendly, and that their come-ons are meaningless little white lies....|||Robert2928 This is all very true. I will try to keep it in mind.  Happy about Nothing.   Yeaah, similar comments I've gotten:  Wow, he's hot, but does he speak? Ugg caveman! He looks really...|||Hiking can be so loooonely!  94725|||The INTx's I've known love to lecture me for some reason. And they are usually surprised when I can keep up with them in the science and math department. I just get bored way before they do...Ooo, is...|||Bienvenue Valérie|||hihi|||Hallao! *hugs* Welcome!|||hey there|||^ Hi ^^ Thank you! It already yas ^^Bwaha, Pirates of Penzance!'