g_w Disagreeing is not the same as dismissive, at least not for me. If I have hunch, I want it to be heard and at least considered. I can't stand it when I try to tell someone about something I just...|||If I was in a relationship and someone said what you said exactly as you said it, I would think that that would be great. I do get mushy over the person I like. I'm not one to text good morning and...|||I've been working a lot and then on vacation and just thought I'd rejoin things.   A lot of people say I have answered my own question. To tell you you the truth I think that all the time, so I...|||MisterD Thanks.  It's so nice to hear what I have been suspecting, although I still am uncertain about some things. I'm pretty attractive if I do say so myself, I certainly have endless supply of...|||Lesuhlee Haha, it's ok. Yes I do have his number, although since I moved I don't have any friends where I am. I can appreciate your directness, but I don't plan on doing anything tonight. I'm going...|||@leshulee You waste no time :tongue:|||Fair enough, I have been meaning to comb over thread...|||Very true, I don't disagree. I'm sure to an ENTJ mind this doesn't sound like a dilemma, so maybe I'm wasting our time.... for the longest time I didn't want to say anything because we worked...|||Ok, I've been venting about this guy all over the forums, mostly in the type 8's but he is an ENTJ as well. Basically this guy and I have had this thing for over 2 years now. The attraction is crazy,...|||Yeah I have a bad addiction to day dreaming. It really can get in the way of my getting things accomplished. I have been trying hard to curb that as of late. I'll let you know if I discover any good...|||My hair is all crazy colors and I'm very fashionable, I love the way I look, but I also wish I could just be invisible at time because I don't want all the attention. I don't want to change my hair...|||Am I the only one who thought, it isn't necessary to 'capture' my attention, just put that vibe out there. I'll pick up on it. Aside from what a lot of others have mentioned, I like to see someone...|||Well I am trying to branch out. I dunno what you wanna be pen pals about, but y'know, it was your idea so you tell me :tongue:|||It's cool, I too like you're avatar.|||Sure, why not? :kitteh:|||So has anyone read or familiar with the Japanese fantasy series 12 Kingdoms? If not let me fill you in real quick. It's this fantasy series about another world that is connected to ours. This other...|||Hi everyone, I joined this site in like September, I'm really not very social internet wise but I thought I would actually try and change that here. Well it was going well for like 2 or 3 weeks, and...|||Well I'm glad I'm not the only one. I won't be getting enough authority to have someone else do the dirty work unfortunately. Maybe I'm freaking out over nothing, since I haven't been promoted yet,...|||I am an INFJ that is possibly up for a promotion. I left a department a little over a year ago and now they want me to come back to it to clean up the mess that it has become. I know how things need...|||I'm a cancer too! I've often wondered if there is a way to determine the relationship between MTBI (and now ennegrams) and astrology. Like if I had someone's birth chart and I could extrapolate what...|||I am totally feeling you.  My personal cross to bear is my fucked up family and fucked up upbringing. I've had a lot of bullshit to endure, but if I could only pick one thing out of the many (and...|||Thanks everyone, I'm enjoying all the food for thought and there is a very pleasant atmosphere here.:happy:|||Oh yes I get that too, and if I like that person I think to myself x93just wait...x94 sometimes it really blows peoples mind, like if I go out with a coworker. The person I am at work is not the same...|||Hello everyone, I'm noticing that a lot of INFJ's see themselves as very sensitive, squishy, vulnerable types, but I don't really see myself as that. I do think I am very sensitive, but more in the...|||I feel like I am “crazy” to other people because of my strong intuition, I pick up things that other people don't seem to notice. Sometimes I just know when I am right, no matter how strong the...|||Don't contact him!   Break ups suck and they're hard to get through, but when something is over it's over, you'll only drag things out by contacting him. It's not about letting him know how you...|||Hello everyone, I am brand new to these forums, but very excited to be here. Normally I lurk on a board for a long time before I decide to say anything, not so today! I like to get a feel for things...