'For once, I do not actually agree with the majority of advice in this thread, with the exception of one poster: cmouse79  We ENFPs overthink things easily and read between the lines, especially if...|||Kissing is like a 'quick' way to show you are affectionate to your partner. It feels nice.  It feels even nicer if you kiss your partner the right way and they get a big grin or smile on their...|||I must admit I did not read all of the posts in this thread, but here's my two pieces of pastry:  Whenever one of my INTJ friends overstepped themselves and hurt me or my feelings or offended me, I...|||A few things INTJs like to hear, according to my experience:   1) Any form of sincere gratitude: 'Thank you, <insert-name-here>!', or 'This is a big help, thanks <insert-name-here>!'. Especially...|||Currently working in the software development field, but branching out in a more managerial direction within that field.  As long as I can use my social skills and assets, along with my practical...|||Exactly this!  I just shift my attention from one set of friends to another. I think it is healthy enough behavior. You don't want to be floating around the same people all the time, anyway. So I...|||One of the hardest things in college to do, for some individuals, is getting out of their own shell and learn to meet new people. See if people from your classes seem agreeable enough to get along...|||The way we have it set up is that we get a room, en-suite, and we can indicate preferences about the type of house-mates we have regarding student accommodation. See if something kind of like that is...|||Your logic is interesting, but it does not add up. Especially on the drunk part. People are not as likely to suppress certain actions when they drink, unlike when they do not drink. The concept is...|||I always keep mine in check regularly, without much stimulus required (such as reading, games etc). Though if I have access to stimuli of choice, I'll listen to music. I find music to be the most...|||Equilibrium - Rise Again   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n6jy8_EN8xc  Only have the instrumental video on YT, but it will do... it's wonderful to listen to if you love your metal!|||Better internet, and for the next month to pass by. So many big things happening in my life at the moment. Lot's of big changes. It is kind of tricky to deal with it all. But after next month,...|||What you have to realize is that even the most introvert of individuals still require social contact. It's a fact. You are no exception to this rule.  It is important for you to surround yourself...|||Let's ignore the fact that the story is very scripted with no room for budging the situation as described, for arguments sake.   If you were on the receiving end, would you really want a person to...|||This concept takes a while to get your head around, but Maye is absolutely correct.  Don't go doing things you'll regret just because a relationship did not work out. You made a good decision to...|||I never said not to be a feminist or a career woman. Nor did I say that men feel threatened by it. :| I clearly stated You can have your own career, but don't let that be the primary focus. The...|||I think what cybersloth81 was trying to say is that if any form of feminism, even the vibe of it is portrayed on your dating profile, it can turn some people away. Because your profile is meant to...|||Excellent news! Except for the competition part. In what respect is there competition? A few more details would be useful if you want our advice on that.  I am glad that the date went well. Make...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TPjHUFe4AKk   Mmmm. Delicious. Love Devin Townsend.|||This is what happened for me. I was insured through the driving school which was included in the overall fee for it.  Just do it through a driving school, it avoids a lot of hassle, IMO.|||My sister is actually a sensory type. I have not, to my knowledge, met anyone else who happens to be a sensory type. So I cannot really answer that question effectively. Spending time with my sister...|||Quite often. I look around me, at the people who are apparently happy and successful in life. Feeling like they are all that, and then there's me.  These kinds of thoughts are upsetting. They keep...|||Exactly what this one here said. If I don't get intellectual stimulation once in a while, I feel like it's been a wasted day.  That's probably why I am attracted to people who thrive in...|||Exactly what this guy said. He owes you a certain degree of consideration when he is in a relationship with you, I think. You have to respect your partner, and they have to respect you.  I think it...|||What this post tells me is that you carry a lot of uncertainty within yourself. The solution is relatively straight forward, and I'd like to explain it my way.  The first thing I want to say, is...|||Based on the (limited) information and the responses people have given, it most likely is a case of a bad first impression either through profile picture, or possibly information on the profile...|||I'm not really the right person to ask. I don't really go out there looking for them. Maybe I *should*, but I don't at the moment. They are meant to be quite rare however, according to some results...|||Opposites attract, and there's just enough common ground to learn and grow from one another with INTJ and ENFP. :)  That said, I find myself stupidly attracted to INTJs. Apparently INFJs are a good...|||Not really sure how to feel. I have been in a feeling limbo for a while. Lots of transitions happening in my life, the majority which really f*cking suck beyond description.  Unsure how I will...|||Sunless Rise - Eidolon     https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WSWCr1VxBvo   Certainly a thing for those who like more melody in their heavier metal.|||Here is a question for you (or to any of the ENFPs out there), a question of a more serious nature.  How do you, as an ENFP, handle people who do not treat you with equal respect in any kind of...|||It most likely is a case of desperation from the guys. I am willing to bet you are not the only lady that they approach in this fashion on that site. You are most likely just another target to...|||My results:  Gender: male Age: 16-26 Intelligence: above-average Idea adoption: conservative MBTI personality profile: ISFP Closest alternative we found: ISTP|||IMO, I would purchase laptops from the MSi or Asus brand. They have a slightly better rep than HP or Dell.  The specs that were suggested by people are on point, and 15 inches on the screen is...|||I would not really label myself as the bubbly personality either, though my INTJ friend has slapped the nickname Glitterz on me. I have no idea why! lol... :P  Having said that, I just tend to be...|||I like it, but I don't love it.  1) I do software development. 2) Studied for 4 years, personally learning more in the workplace than I do at college. 3) I can create anything!  I am planning...|||I think that depends on the maturity of the INFJ themselves. They do care about making the world a better place, but I found that Locke has behavioral patterns to show he cares. Like at the start...|||Yep. All the time. I find it ultimately falls down on the fact that people are happy to point out flaws in someone. I don't think it matters if you are an ENFP or not, but since this is an ENFP...|||I don't think I'd want that much control, to be honest... but if I did, I would probably create a world where people would be more brave in general. And throw in the odd mythical creature here and...|||I'd estimate him at an INFJ, though it's a tough guess. Brilliant book series though, absolutely worth the read. One of the best fantasy series out there today, no doubt about it.|||I would personally enjoy it if my SO showed forms of affection. I would not go overboard with it myself, though. Holding hands, maybe the odd small kiss here and there, my arm over her shoulder, that...|||ENFPs are very friendly by nature to pretty much anyone. If we can resolve a situation with a smile, that's what we will do. If we can do that and make friends on the way, even better.  If he is...|||We ENFPs still have to self-reflect by introverting away from people. And the amount we have to do that depends on the friend. Some people are more mentally or socially exhausting. Now, don't take...|||I did chuckle a bit at this stuff, I won't lie. Because the behavioural and mental thinking patterns are so atypical of INTJs.    What’s the best course of action? (before, during and after) ...|||Count on it that he's distracted, based on the information that you've given, because:  1)  He lives in a nearby city. Guaranteed it costs time and money to travel from the one city to another....|||That's the best part about INTJs. They balance us out when it comes to pure logic and organizing things. We need our healthy batch of INTJs! *gives Poizon soda and a bro-fist* :D|||I've been called over-analytical because I like digging into details of things. It's for my own understanding and to really get a good grasp of said thing, whatever that may be. Lately been called...|||1) Words of affirmation go the longest mile for me. Anyone can be a liar, but the words hold true if the feeling behind them are true as well. It's like an open declaration which sends out a firm...|||You can actually ask an ENFP out without making it too awkward. We actually love simple things, and if you ask him out in a very simple fashion and just have a nice time, it gives you the perfect...|||It might have been said before. But personally in my chosen circle of friends, if you do not put an effort forward to try and maintain some form of contact with me, you automatically fall of my I...'