'hahahahahaha. i just love my ability to read people and manipulate conversation. >:D mwahaha. it makes me feel powerful.|||i hope it went over well. :D for me, when i like a guy, i try to spend time with them as much as i can. i go out of my way to see them. i smile and laugh a lot when i'm around them. in the first few...|||when people are rude to me, i get EXTREMELY offended and i pretty much always fight back immediately. but if it's one of my close friends, i ignore it and sweep it under the rug. i guess i don't mind...|||oops i'm a little late on the uptake, but... this has been happening to me too lately. i kind of put it in the back of my mind and focus on my lasting friendships. and i bring in new people into my...|||i totally feel the same way. when i like someone, i try to talk to them ALL the time and see them as much as possible... but i'm not very outward about it. i let them do most of the work at first....|||who are you you're not welcome here. jk hi. :}|||talk to her as much as possible and tell her how you feel, always. make an effort to see her; she'll want you to take the initiative first. she most likely won't think you're smothering her so don't...|||ah that sounds horrible. /: i'm so sorry. something like this happened to me a few years ago, via internet of course. it really traumatized me, but also kind of pushed me towards people more. it made...|||i used to feel that way a lot. but now i'm surrounded by a completely different group of people and i hardly ever feel like i'm being used. i think that's what your friend needs to do. /: he seems...|||1. someone who is unreliable. like if i ask them to meet me at a certain time and they're ALWAYS late. 2. someone who doesn't take my help, or appreciate my concern for them. 3. someone who isn't...|||aw, no problem!|||there are plenty of answers to your question here :]|||a good sense of humor is extremely important to me. i mean... i laugh at a lot of things. but someone who makes me laugh will also make me happy. how could i not spend time with someone who makes me...|||i have an insanely high sex drive in case you were wondering. there should be no shame in talking about sex!|||appreciation, loyalty, and understanding. if someone is unfaithful to me, i will find out and immediately break up with them and not feel sorry about it. if someone doesn't appreciate me, i'll hold...|||this is awesome! i think i would much rather have the ability to solve any conflict, big or small.|||my boyfriend, an INFP has done lots. he's been in europe for 2 weeks but apparently he has a surprise for me when he gets back? eep. he's drawn me beautiful pictures. he's given me little gifts that...|||i just take a recovery day. i sit at home and literally do nothing. i sleep in, chill out, eat whatever i want pretty much. haha. i don't leave the house. when i'm overwhelmed and have lots to do, i...|||it kind of terrified me when i was a child, haha. i was easily frightened...|||hi, INFPs! i just wanted to say you all inspire [ha] to become a better person each and every day. i feel so comfortable around my INFP friends; i can talk to them about anything! i'm gonna stop...|||i want to be a clinical psychologist. making people happy and living to the best potential is what i breathe for. yep. :}|||i'm not necessarily a thrill seeker; i have a lot of irrational fears. i think my childhood had an extreme effect on this but that's a completely different story, haha. i like doing spontaneous...|||yep, i'm the opposite. i mean, i can only remember feeling that way with ONE person. it was really frustrating. but the ENFJ in me HATES conflicts so i resolved it as soon as possible. i have so many...|||yep, captain america so i could touch his body ALL the time... and i can have someone to protect me i guess.|||thank you so much, you guys. i'm going to try my best to be their friend but if it's too much for me to handle, i have to accept it.|||i don't think you're crazy! putting yourself in a feeling zone is great for performances [acting, musical, etc]. when you're singing a song, for example, you MUST put yourself in a certain feeling...|||i've tested as an ENFP and an ENFJ. my P/J is pretty much 50/50. and my S/N is fairly close, but i always test as an N|||focusing on something far away is supposed to make your pupils dilated. thinking about someone you love or hate... hm. try tensing your stomach as well.|||my appearance is extremely important to me! almost to the point of vanity, which i have to be careful of. you won't catch me dead in a pair of sweatpants in public. i love shopping for myself and for...|||hey sorry guys i hope i'm not too annoying yet. i have two friends who are extremely unhealthy psychologically and are always demanding attention. they're never happy and feel as if no one cares...|||i'm happy! and currently loling at the people who want to move to canada because of the ruling. oops.|||oh goodness. this is a rare occurrence for me. i rely heavily on intuition. i just continue to talk to them. i pick up on body language and tone of speech, like everyone else has said. or i just...|||yes, sometimes i feel like i think too deeply about certain things. but they're always like... meaningless. like television shows or movies for example. especially books. after finishing anything i...|||is it bad that the first person who popped into my head was ellen degeneres? yes. yes it was. haha.|||cuddling with someone i care about. :D|||i was actually an ENFP in middle school and early high school. i really wasn't living for anything; i just took my life day by day. i definitely wasn't as plan-oriented as i am now. i like outlining...|||i can read people like BOOKS. i can see their intentions, and i know when they're lying to me. does anyone else do this? and if so, what's a specific example? just the other day i helped my brother...|||i have an INFP friend who absolutely loves crafts! he's always drawing something new. he loves creating, whether it be visual art or even music. yay!|||i think the answer to all of those questions is simply fear: fear of the unknown. sometimes it's REALLY hard for me to step out of my comfort zone. like if i'm not completely at ease doing something...|||i have. i didn't come clean. the guilt still lingers. but the way i rationalized it is... sometimes a significant other [who especially doesn't take the relationship seriously] doesn't need to know....|||my friend's mom is a career counselor. she's always making appointments. she works at home. she even helped me pinpoint what i want to do! it's pretty low stress, though. she's a mother of 4 kids and...|||hey we like you too! we like everyone! :D|||okay okay okay with the movie theater thing, i think he was just being nice. i mean, that's what i would do in that situation with NO intentions of buying the person's sex or anything. he may be...|||1. so you can learn from the experience! it may not last forever... but you'll certainly learn a lot about yourself (what you want in a relationship and who you want to be in a relationship) from it....|||i'm sorry you're feeling like this. i think you need to sit down and physically WRITE your feelings out. make a list of things to do. make a list of people to see. most importantly, make a list of...|||people come and go, yeah. /: but i would confront her about it. be honest about your feelings. no matter the outcome, you'll feel MUCH better about the situation after having a conversation with her,...|||not gonna lie, TLC shows are my guilty pleasure. my strange addiction: watching my strange addiction. say yes to the dress? yes please. it's actually pretty embarrassing. haha.|||i was always getting into mischief. i bossed my sister around to do stupid things with me, like climb the creek in our backyard. i looked up to pretty much every adult in my life. but i definitely...|||career counselors find it useful! obviously, haha. my family is really into myers briggs, and so are a few of my friends. i feel like the general public wouldn't be as interested though. those who...|||being a leader isn't necessarily always for a large group setting; you can be leader of only a few people. :] you don't have to picture yourself giving a lecture in front of hundreds of people, haha....'