'As the title states... What are some tips/ideas to go about changing your own personality? I know, everyone's unique and blah blah, but I met this person who just blew my mind. I actually raised my...|||I've been singing since I was young. Now I even compose, and I'm still young technically - I'm 17. I'm able to match my vocal tone to the song, sometimes even identify what chord tone I'm singing. My...|||Big mistake. Never, ever tell someone you love them just because you pity them and want them to hear you say that. If you knew what women liked, you'd be honest. I made this mistake when I was 14,...|||Lonely. I haven't been able to talk to the girl I like for quite some time. :frustrating:|||As a composer, it's hard to choose a favorite! But maybe trumpets combined with horns in an orchestra. The Forte/Fortissimo sound you get with trumpets while they play a melody is just freaking...|||If I became an ambassador... I'd be pretty fat and lazy.  Sounds less than stellar. :proud:|||@sheisopaqu3  Crap. - I hate OCD :c good luck.|||Is this a thread where everyone has to say yes? Or can I say no? ^^  I'm definitely quite far from having no commitment, for example, I said I'd finish making the music for an indie game by...|||@Nicole Hobbs  I am very sorry to hear about your parents. When I was younger, I thought the very idea of a relationship is just silly, because I used to watch my parents fighting pretty much...|||Try looking at it this way:  Do you judge other people for every little thing they do? Then why would they do it to you? And if you do judge them, then does it matter? Did you cure cancer by...|||Meril  Haha, I remember that movie from a long time ago. Very adventurous and scary at the same time :proud:|||@lemondropG That's actually sort of what my grandma used to say: The highest proof of love is fidelity. Not sure if that makes any sense in English since I had to translate it. :proud:  By the way,...|||bubbleboy  Your avatar, from a distance, kind of reminds me of Ashton Kutcher. You should have no problems man :laughing:|||I don't see what's wrong with BDSM or any other thing you and your parter finds sexy for sexy time, personally. If the two of you are okay with it, then whatever. For example, I've never been into...|||@Nicole Hobbs  Because for people like me, marriage feels like the officialization of the commitment. Just living together feels a bit off, sometimes.  But maybe you wouldn't understand. It's a...|||@Dilldough  You're such a dilldough, lol. But seriously, he trusts you as a friend to support him, not laugh at him and his feelings. If I were in his position and you made fun of me like that, I...|||@Marsipan  Actually, I think it's best to keep changing ourselves daily. There are always mistakes in us that we should correct, and trying to stop yourself from changing will only let those...|||Well, I guess our relationship is pretty good. I mean, I hang around my parents everyday and I hug my mother before going to sleep. But there's a lot of compromise on my side since they are religious...|||Hey, sorry to hear what happened. What @JakeDK said was true and I think it's pretty good advice (or maybe a warning, too), but I just felt like I should nose in and express my feelings on this. I...|||@JaySH  No, it's simply what he believes sex to be. He's also saying that he doesn't mind other people's opinion on what sex is or isn't.|||Me too. :tongue:|||ForsakenMe  And that's how to not find an INFJ. :laughing:|||Anyways, regardless, well anyhow, etc. should all be in the same category, right?|||1) Bullocks, I can't think of anything as cool as the OP can.|||No lyrics. I'll just let this song's powerful harmony and melody speak for itself :proud:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nT4MOuozrfw|||Phal  Best second option ever.  But in my case, some reasons to live are: Stargazing, watching the rain, listening to music, loving the fact that you are conscious and can see the world around...|||Phal  But I hate chocolate :angry:|||Depends on a person's maturity, mostly. I can't speak for all INFJs obviously, but when I'm in a relationship, I prefer to initiate all the hugging, kissing and other naughty things. But that's after...|||How lucky we are to be who and what we are. Chances are that the exact same particles and scientific nonsense no-one cares about that make up our body, could have just ended up as a chair, water, or...|||When I'm wild:  Hiroyuki ODA appears out of nowhere   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJgR57GZDGw  When I'm not wild:  Every other time :kitteh:|||I like where this is going.|||Your friend is a douchebag.  I'm currently composing for a developer, he's fairly new but he's been coding and programming for 4 years now. He's also been drawing and doing pixel stuff for a long...|||the crow  Care to tell us some of the things you learned from it, friend? :proud:|||Sounds devastating. I'm in no position to tell you what kind of person you should look for, but still, I'd say someone similar. Not many INFJ women are interested in INFJ men, though, so finding a...|||@seitys  Yes. I sure as hell would feel tempted, but my preference would still be to fall deeper in love with one person rather than mildly with two.  Although the fact that they are both my...|||Well, @seitys , I'm not sure I see the point of saying Oh well this and that is natural. Aren't you conveying your thoughts through man-made machines? Is that unnatural? Don't you consider...|||I'm more interested in why INTPs tend to ask the strangest questions ever :laughing:|||That's a hard question, man. I guess the obliviousness has to do with the more inexperienced INFJs, as in, the ones who haven't had their heart broken yet. It sounds more like a maturing process than...|||I'm not sure about other INFJ guys but this is where you can usually find me :kitteh: (if you can...)  First and biggest would be in my room, or in an instrument shop, just staring at guitars and...|||jenecis  You're an Australian INFJ? Now that's a rare breed indeed! I know this because I dated someone there for three weeks (till she finally got on my last nerve and I had to end it... Shortest...|||Wow, so many atheists here!  Come visit the INFJ forums, we currently have 2 INFJ atheists (including me) and counting!|||Polite INTJs... I have actually met some, so I can definitely confirm that they exist! They aren't so affectionate but they're pretty cool. I don't know much about INTPs so I'll lurk their forum for...|||Jawz  Well I guess that makes sense. I'm glad OP found a source for the statistics though. There are many websites that just throw 1% - 5% randomly and it doesn't really make much sense to me...|||I've been to Singapore before, it's a beautiful city/island, but I never encountered anyone that remotely resembles an INFJ. Majority of them were businessmen buying connies at 711.  I made...|||Ah I see... I have a friend who's an ISTP, but she's Canadian. And she pretty much has zero interest in relationships, but she's capable of holding a deep conversation for hours and it feels like...|||INFJs and ENFJs make a good pair? I'm a bit interested in knowing more about why this would work but so far I'm more into personality incest. :frustrating: I've dated many extroverts but I felt most...|||HAL 9000  That pretty much sums up what I usually do, except I don't draw now as much as I used to :(  But for video games, I usually stick to older stuff, such as FF tactics advance or Chrono...|||emerald sea  That death glare has saved me countless times when I was much younger, usually from bullies and their attempts to make me do something bad, like smoking. I just laugh picturing how...|||Well, last Friday night I remember watching youtube videos like some Borat, Ali-G stuff, or watching a funny let's-play of a horror game, and sharing witty jokes I find online, with my online friends...|||Your best chance at finding an INFJ: Right here.  Sometimes, even I'm surprised when I look at INFJ pictures. Some of them look like tough guys, others look like super-annoying feminists but in...'