'When people talk smack about me in a different language...right IN FRONT of me!...then lie to me in English when I confront them about it! Like, I may not speak said language very well, but I fucking...|||Ok, please don't unleash your INFJ wrath upon me. I'm an INTJ and I can't say that I've ever permanently doorslamed someone. We just drift apart. Please don't take this personally; I truly just want...|||The only problem is, I can't really tell when I'm being intense. It's not like I'm looking people in the eye either. In fact, I've notice that I actually avoid meeting a person's gaze during a...|||http://fc09.deviantart.net/fs44/f/2009/137/3/8/Vincent_Valentine_by_JocelynJEG.jpg Sorry, that's the first mascot that comes to mind when I hear INTJ...minus the guns. The first is us adapting to...|||Does anyone else suffer from this? When asked about my first impression, people often say that I come off rather strong or intense. Some people say they were scared of me or thought I was mean...|||Iselia I am flattered that you remember me as I have avoided PerC for quite some time now. We may be young, but we grow older as time passes. I am three and a half years older and I still love her...|||Ok, so this is a true story. Please don't try to talk me out of anything. I've made up my mind and have no regrets. I just want to know how you would feel if you were this special INFJ.  Special...|||This is my favorite short story.  http://i975.photobucket.com/albums/ae240/WhereIsNovember/INTJ%20Motivational%20Posters/intj-poster-2.jpg  No joke.|||I see your point. I was mostly just trying to emphasize my dedication, but I guess it came out wrong. Unfortunately accurate self-expression and communication aren't my fortes.    Again, I was...|||1. I hate being an INTJ because everybody hates me. 3. I love an INFJ who refuses to love me back. 4. I would give anything to become an INFJ, even if just for a day, simply so I could walk in my...|||I'm not an INFJ, but I'll take a whack at it. PLEASE correct me if I am wrong!  To find someone who will actually listen to you for a change To find someone who understands you when you talk with...|||Play the piano/guitar/drums/sing for hours and hours and hours and hours.....LITERALLY!|||http://gifs.gifbin.com/1237977351_how-to-commit-suicide.gif|||- working really hard on a special project and being under appreciated for my effort when it's finally completed - being continuously neglected by the one person that I love - being unable to...|||I never really stopped the self-mutilation. But I don't do it as frequently as I used to and I'm very careful about it. I tried overdosing once, but it just made me feel like shit, so I prefer...|||Ok. I didn't read the entire thread, so this may seem a little out of context but I just wanted share my story. Maybe you'll get something useful out of it. Maybe you won't...  I grew up in an...|||What? I seem to be lost with your logic...:confused:    Ugh, lucky you. I wish I was as straightforward in social situations as you are.   @Foibleful Thank you for your input but I cannot...|||Here's another one: every time I look in the mirror and then look away at something and back to the mirror again, I feel like there's going to be someone else's reflection next to or in place of mine.|||Ok. So there are a lot of weird things that I'm afraid of. I'll give you a few examples...  - Every time I put something in the microwave or oven I have this eerie feeling that it's going to...|||Ok. I'm stumped. I went to do some shopping today and encountered a  complete stranger that I was dying to compliment but I just didn't know  how, so I didn't say anything and walked away like a...|||Luckily for you my songs have no lyrics. They're purely instrumental. ;)     What? I'm sorry. Can you elaborate on that a little more? To me, 'small moments of vulnerability' seems a bit cruel....|||When you say eye contact, do you mean a simple glance here and there for a few brief, almost unnoticeable seconds, or like a deep intense stare...the kind that's long enough for having an entire...|||Writing songs...check. :wink:  I've written three so far...but I've yet to muster enough confidence to present them. :unsure:|||Last Sent: Ni hao! Ni zhoumo xinqiliu er dian ban mang bu mang? Ni xiang qu women de tongxue Bu Ruisi de jia wei xue zhongwen? Ta mama qing women chi wanfan.  Last Received: Tai hao le! Wo...|||Dear Reader,  I wish I was an INFJ. I would give anything to be an INFJ for a day. Is it wrong to hate who you are? Everyone says yes, but I ask why? To that no on can provide me with a sufficient...|||I've written 27 letters so far, but I will try to keep that in mind every time I write another one. :)|||Ok. Just curious here. What are some things that people do or that you wish people did that melt your heart (in a good way) and take your breath away? Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't imagine...|||Ok. How about 'Xiong Mao'?  Edit: TreeBob Thank you good sir! :proud:|||Talk with their eyes and actually understand me when I talk back...:unsure:|||Dear namechanger,  I would greatly appreciate it if you could change my username to Panda at your earliest convenience. Thank you for your time.  - Me|||Trust no one but yourself...nike ;)|||I mean no disrespect to others, but I'd like to keep these details to myself. It's a touchy subject for me.|||That's deep. That is very, very deep.|||I just wanted to thank everyone for being brave enough to contribute to my thread. I also want to shout out to all those people who reached out to me via PMs. Thank you for sharing your experiences...|||Please forgive my ignorance as I am not familiar with the jargon of cottonwooling. This sounds like a big misunderstanding. I am all for showing kids that the world is dangerous. That's what I...|||http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcT9Da38suPQrqaFkZxLWwzWxKEnIKGuvgrfB9m-xyWJribjAn8tzQ|||I'm not going to directly comment on the spanking subject, but I do believe that children should be raised with fear. It sounds awful, but fear keeps you safe, teaches you right from wrong, and helps...|||My cousin committed suicide. But I didn't really know him, so it didn't really affect me. Once again, my family gave me shit for being so heartless at his funeral. :dry:  I never jumped in front...|||It seems like misery is a side effect of being human. :rolleyes:|||http://i1066.photobucket.com/albums/u404/Picture_Pocket/TeddyBearQuote.jpg?t=1345441086|||NoelleShanice Wow. I've never heard of PTSD from a parent's experience. That's awful. It's scary how vivid your imagination can become. My mother always told me stories of how she and her family were...|||My father tried to kill me...so I guess we're even there. Hooray for the living dead! :crazy:|||Ugh, compliments. That doesn't compute. Brain malfunctioning. :frustrating:  @emerald sea Way to defeat the purpose of this thread. :dry:|||I don't think it's edgy at all. I feel the exact same way.    I used to take up self defense classes when I was younger. This is something that I've definitely been dying to get back into....|||Oh, you mean the fire extinguisher that looks like a thumbs up under the invisible sink, next to a sign that says Thank. Hmm...I wonder what language that is that means Fire Extinguisher....|||Ningsta Kitty Ugh, therapy. Been there. Done that. Multiple times. It just makes everything worse. :dry:  Telepathy, on the other hand, is fascinating. :crazy:|||Me too. But it will. My Ni is convinced...and my great friend already abandoned me. I'm not very superstitious either, but I do feel cursed. I'm a tragedy magnet and my career is centered around...|||@Kainita I haven't been raped yet. But I know my time will come. I just hope I'm ready when it does. I have been sexually assaulted a number of times though. I think you're a very brave and loyal...|||@Joseph That sucks. I can't say I relate to this kind of experience yet. I have experience with murder though. My grandfather was murdered when I was 6. But it didn't really affect me much. In fact,...|||ROFL! All in the name of Science! :laughing:'