'The trick here is to know what your values are, know what you're passionate about, and then find a group of people with those same values and passions. For me it's atheism. I'm very anti-religion and...|||First, you mean moot point. Second, having one child doesn't suddenly make sex irrelevant or more dangerous. Having any children when you're not prepared for them is bad. Thus the point of focusing...|||*yawn* First, the no sex thing is utter and complete BS. How about being safe instead? That's a better answer. Especially given our ofttimes impulsive nature. Also, study.  Mr, Ray did hit a home...|||I point out exceedingly obvious things in the most dead pan way possible. Take their beliefs and turn them on end or mock them extensively.|||The more I date, and the more I integrate typology into my interactions with others, the more I'm coming to find that NT+NF is probably a poor idea. I'm not saying it can't work, anything can work if...|||I understand what you're saying. The whole outside of time thing is something that I've heard in many churches over the years. God is explained to have always been. My point still stands though...|||Second time you've said that and I have to call you out on it. You say this, yet at the same time you suggest that's exactly what happened. God either just was, happened, or came from nothing. In...|||Ummm no. You should brush up on your terminology.  And, if you understood logic, you'd understand that it should be considered and then dismissed quickly.   That's cute... did you take a logic...|||As Missy said, it's a lack of belief. There is no reason to believe that a god, or anything outside of observable nature, exists. You should probably brush up on your terminology a bit.  Also, I'll...|||Partially. One of those books you should read is the bible. Seriously. Most atheists know the bible better than theists.   More so though, it's a way of thinking. Is there any place in life where...|||Well, quite a few people consider that relevant and eventually span it into the earth being only 6000 years old. You're right though, the bible is primarily there to deal with human interaction,...|||FTFY    Stupid 10 character limit. There, I've defeated you! HA!|||My current favorite is still: I'd call you a cunt, but you lack depth and warmth.|||LOL - That was a joke. :tongue: While I might think about making a point to introduce a couple drinks to ease comfort levels, I would never, ever, consider taking advantage of someone. It's simply...|||Yeah, I wish I had read this prior to the date. WOW... I don't think I've ever been on a date with someone so... closed? I mean, the conversation all night was great. She was just so wishy-washy in...|||Yeah, I'm totally getting easy going and slightly romantic as vibes. Good to know I'm reading properly. :wink:|||Going on a first date with who I believe is an ISFP this evening. Any advice is welcome. So far, from the little browsing I'm doing it seems that freedom is a big word around here. I'm not really...|||Having her take the test is probably the most simple way.  Especially if you're in a relationship, it's going to be difficult to judge the F over the T. Probably one of the simplest means of...|||Yeah, opinions and notes would be welcome. I'm flirting with an ENTJ right now and it's always nice to have perspectives.|||>>  <<  GET OUT NOW!!! SAVE YOURSELF!!!   >>  <<|||This is his way of determining if you're both ready to be in a relationship. If yes, go jump him and share intimate things and insecurities. If not, leave him alone. Love ya!|||Simply because the most devastating break-up I've ever had was from an INTJ and that's more or less what went down.|||N>n>n>f>n>n>n>f>t>t>t>f>t>f>t>f|||...and you're kinda cute... they may hump your leg. Just a little. Maybe try to grab your ass. Maybe.|||It's funny that an INTJ is asking this question... especially given the phrasing.  My last serious relationship was an INTJ. That is pretty much what went down. The bitch can rot in hell.   We...|||Butyou're an INFJ! And sooo cute! And sooo female. I want your hugs. Forever. And ever. And ever.  Also, can you stop watering the bushes outside your window so often? I hate cleaning the mud out...|||,,, ,,,  ...  So... hugs then? :mellow:|||Exactly. I have a very well meaning friend who is precisely this way with me. Sure, the concept they're describing may make sense on some level, but it doesn't have an application we can integrate...|||Well only insomuch as it's something you'll go through many times. Ignore the sensors; rarely will they have the tools required to understand what you're going through. They're probably the ones...|||Don't worry. Hang out a bit. It will help.|||Nonononononononono guys. No. Wrong. Bad ENFPs! BAD!!!!      Because they're sensors. Seriously.   We remember things in a completely different way. We associate feelings with memories. Want...|||Sorry, ghosts don't exist. Seek more help.|||LOL  A friend of mine was telling me the other night (with hand gestures) You're here. You need to take it down to here. You're an 8, you need to take it down to a 3. Where you are, where you need...|||Cease all contact and stay far away from him.|||You make me laugh, Jim.|||Yes, yes you are. *leers* :crazy:|||It's funny cause it's true. :crazy:|||Intelligence differs. I live with two ISTJs. Once is so very smart. The other... not so much. The smart one is very smart, but not quite as smart as me. So yeah, intelligence =/= type.|||You do like to cuddle, right? :crazy:|||I have no problems with boundaries. Mine are quite important to me. Most of the time. Sometimes. Well, once in a while.  Your boundaries on the other hand? They're silly. I'm going to show you how...|||That's a bit vague. What's the reason for the question? Would you like to bond, are you having a problem, trying to achieve something?|||It's nice knowing that someone knew exactly what I meant. We're so very willing to see all the good in people. I think it's one of the reasons we develop strong core values; things we won't...|||Indeed. Besides, once in a while, people deserve our dark sides.|||LMAO - If you think that's immaturity you haven't been in these forums long enough. That's playful banter.|||Is he your gardener? Pool boy? I'm not really into guys so I'd probably rather meet his sisters.|||It's OK. Use your brain enough and you'll figure out how silly the bible is. Perhaps you should read it That often helps.|||Add religion to that list, and yeah, pretty much. I connect all of them with a marked lack of intelligence and knowledge.|||Nice. I'm glad I wasn't the only one to say this.|||Projecting much? :laughing:|||Not by you. About the only thing you can do is lead by example, but good luck with that.  What you need to do is ignore her messes except for where they specifically impact you. Her dirty room...'