'I just broke up with a male INFP. In short...NO! That's not a relationship I would ever consider doing again. INFPs are fine as friends, but partners? No way!|||I would have an amazing time listening to music with you. Your taste is awesome!|||1. The Beatles 2. The Rolling Stones 3. Fleetwood Mac 4. Cher 5. RuPaul 6. Pink 7. Evanescence 8. No Doubt 9. The Beach Boys 10. Joan Jett and the Blackhearts|||Zoidberg is not a feeler in the slightest. If he was, Fry would not have taught him how to fake love in Why Must I Be a Crustacean in Love?|||I'm basically both my parents inverted. Dad is an ISTJ, Mom is an INFJ. I have my Dad's function stack completely backwards, and the introversion and extroversion in my mother's stack is reversed...|||Mom is an INFJ. Brother is an ESTP. You nailed them both.|||My father is an ISTJ, and I absolutely adore him. He definitely has strong opinions, an equally strong yet black-and-white sense of what is right, and a strict adherence to the rules. Hard work has...|||I am naturally left-handed, but was forced into being a righty by a 1950's dad. There's a reason why, when I took up fencing and explained this problem to the coach, he put me on lefty. Honestly,...|||ENFP and Gryffindor, on both Pottermore and Warner Brother's studios.|||Yes, it is time to go. The moment political titles are thrown about, any hope of conversation is cheapened.  Rest easy, and may your forever live in the denial of your warped perspectives.|||Swede, let's leave this thread. thismustbetheplace seems to own this thread now, and I am not sure if it's a thread of which I want to be a part. ScientiaOmnisEs, may I suggest you leave with us?...|||You're very ignorant about welfare. It's extremely difficult to get. The state makes it purposefully difficult to discourage people from being welfare queens. I have dealt with welfare offices for...|||Again, school.|||I think child may start to be re-defined, especially if you're dealing with health insurance, which now lets you stay on your parents plan until you're 26 (and trust me, if you need extra...|||Hey, as terrible as this sounds, there's a reason why I advocated lying, sneaking, and cheating to get the medical help she needs. Part of why it went on for so long is because her mother refused to...|||Swede Thank goodness I brought you to this thread. You're just the breath of fresh air and kindness balanced with reason that the OP needs.|||OP's trying to get into school. That at least an attempt at remedying the problem, you must acknowledge that. Depending on the location, she can get the hell and gone away from her mother and develop...|||Being fed up with someone does not warrant years of ignoring a serious illness and/or alcoholism. No matter how angry one person becomes with another, the mother's level of behavior is inexcusable....|||If you have a parent with depression, you're odds are 2-3 times greater that you will have depression too. Mix those genes with the stress of living with your mother, and you've got one nasty...|||Honey, I feel your pain. My mother and I have been in the exact same position for a while now. Only recently have I been able to find any job, and it's been about 7 months since I graduated. Even...|||I used to think that INTJs were ideal for me, but as I get older, the more I find that it's not right for me at all. xNTJs in general do not suit me because I place a lot of value on ethical...|||ISTJ? No way. ENFP, through and through.|||They seemed pretty spot-on to me, but I did some modification for the ENFP section just because I am an ENFP. :-P|||I'd totally take the 4 hour a week for $40k job. With that many free hours, I could easily make up the extra income with other jobs at similar pays and hours. Add to it that I could throw more time...|||xxTJs and INFJs are the mot awful types for me to deal with. I have found the former either must be constantly manipulated to maintain good relations, or they try to manipulate me and I have to kick...|||I'm a true blue ENFP, so I can add to this. It's more than just wanting to accommodate others. We want to see, feel, experience, and know everything we can because we see tons and tons of...|||Please read my modifications to your list above.|||Lemme give you a hand:  ESFP--Very hard to put the breaks on them; good luck trying to stop their momentum, energy, and speed (think Lorna Morello) ENTJ--Incredibly cold, and falls apart when...|||Three of my closest friends are INFPs, and I am in love with an INFP.|||ISTJ Introvert(78%)  Sensing(75%)  Thinking(88%)  Judging(67%) You have strong preference of Introversion over Extraversion (78%) You have distinct preference of Sensing over Intuition (75%) You...|||Probably not, but we would serve an equally important role: caring for the troops who have returned home and acting as the guardians of those who were not fighting. Should any NF want to fight...|||Welcome to the sisterhood of ENFP!|||Wouldn't the lambs have to nurse for a little bit before they can eat grass? If such is the case, just wait. The old one will die by the time the young ones are done nursing.|||If they frequently belittle you and cannot accept you as you are, if they refuse to change a very destructive flaw, if they isolate you from the people and places you love, (obviously) if they hit...|||Honestly, I wish people would consider dropping their SOs more often. Sometimes, it's more destructive to stay with someone out of duty, family, or obligation than it is to just leave.|||This is eventually what led to my split with my last boyfriend. He was so adamant that he knew everything, his ways were the only ways of life, and everybody else around him was wrong. In general,...|||Yeouch. I'm sorry to hear that was your first time. No one should ever be raped, and that should never, ever be someone's first experience with sex. While I can't exactly say I understand, I...|||I don't think this has anything to do with being an ISTJ or any other type. One of my best friends and I refused to get involved with anyone from our school because we knew it would be a bad idea. At...|||Well, thus far, I've mainly ended up with INTJs and INFPs. I'm very happy with my current INFP, but my dating record has a lot of INTJs because the type is a cross between my two parents (ISTJ dad...|||I think it depends on the ISTJ, the ENFP, what type of relationship they have, and how they explain their differences. While I would never be in a romantic relationship with an ISTJ, my dad and I get...|||Be patient. Take your cues from him. Make sure he knows he's loved, and do little things for him that you know will make him happy. Keep your hands busy, if you can, so that he knows he doesn't have...|||Is there a free support group you can attend that could tide you over until you find one? I had a great grief group while I found a therapist to help me deal with a threat of assault and losing five...|||I think a therapist would be a good idea to start. Take it step by step. Build out a list of steps if you can. The first one should be finding a good therapist.|||Have you talked to your doctor about this problem? Try to see what (s)he has to say about it before taking further action. With your disorders, it's critical that you define what is learned behavior...|||I agree with Nafatali 100%. This practice is really good for working with our SJ counterparts. Take it from someone with an ISTJ dad. I have said to him before, Feelings are often a large tangle of...|||My current boyfriend is an INFP, and he's absolutely wonderful. Thus far, he's the best guy I have ever dated. In a lot of ways, I feel like he's a really close friend as well, and I can confide in...|||Hi guys:  Trying to figure out what to do about my INFJ mother. I've tried everything, literally *EVERYTHING* I can think of to make things work with her. For 23 years, we have had a very ugly...|||Haha, no worries. It's part of the trappings of the internet, and of the problem, But I don't see you as disabled. The latter, I actually wrote about in one of my blog posts for the hearing aid...|||I'm supposed to be deaf. I'm not. Need I say more?|||I've lost a huge chunk of my family, and I'm permanently disabled. I know all about loss. I came to this mindset after being told all my surgeries failed, and I would be hard of hearing until the day...'