'YES! YES! YES! Everything you said! They don't give a fuck because it's all about them. Sometimes we get people in asking for discounts on the cheapest things and I'm like, what the fuck, are you...|||It happens when I'm feeling shitty. So I work for a second hand shop and we constantly getting people in asking for discounts. It drives me nuts, especially when I know they don't need it. Trust me,...|||Angaliene I definitely know the thoughts I had about my father were not normal... however, I am alone on this one. As I said before, I was discussing these thoughts with a friend of mine. He told me...|||Oh really? Wow! Interesting article too. :) Thanks for sharing. I guess you are right! The thoughts I had were different from the intrusive ones. Less random, less full on and more what if, I guess....|||Question 1: For all Is, how do you overcome your shyness when you know you need to step outside yourself and be social? Ix92ve been working in customer service for ten years so Ix92ve had to overcome...|||I really like INTJs when they have a good grasp on their Fi. :> The Ni + Fi combination is pretty dope. I've met an INTJ who has allowed me to see their sensitive side and my God, it is the sweetest...|||I'm very good at hiding my anxiety but other emotions? Not so much. It's pretty obvious when I'm angry or upset. I wish I could conceal it better but I can't help it... however saying that, when I've...|||Woah! Seems like I missed out on a lot over the past few days...  I honestly have to completely disagree with you FearAndTrembling. Everything you have said has not helped me in the slightest,...|||My anxiety has never been this bad before. Everything makes me cry. I'm having more bad days than good. I broke up with my ex nearly three months ago and while it wasn't a good relationship, I miss...|||Itx92s interesting to see how common intrusive thoughts are! I wish people would talk about it more. .. I guess the taboo nature is discouraging. For a long time, I felt pretty crazy that I would event...|||((I only say NSFW because of the violence/sexual content. I don't know. I could be wrong... plus I don't want to shock anyone, haha.))  I sometimes have really intrusive thoughts many of which are...|||I'm 24 and I go through phases where I completely despise people, sometimes even my friends and family. I think about all their annoying qualities and want nothing to do with them. Anything that they...|||Marriage to me is quite terrifying. I can be extremely dedicated in a relationship but marriage? I just don't believe I could do it. It's just to set in stone for me, too damn concrete for me to...|||157618  Sorry for the double post but thought I'd upload another one... with said fringe! <3|||Woooow! That is so fucking uncool. I'm sorry your family is being so close minded and disrespectful... also, I didn't realise that music was bound by skin colour? *rolls eyes* Punk is punk. It can be...|||157506  Kinda recent. I have a fringe now but I still like this photo of me. :>|||YES! People talk about these adorable, cuddly INFPS and I just think, uh, so not me at all!. It's rather frustrating and sometimes, I wish I was that adorable and cuddly INFP. I often come off as...|||You and me both! I've never even got into a fight. Haha. Or intentionally emotionally destroyed anyone! :(|||So INFPs, like the title says, do you scare people by just being your usual self?  I have been told by a fair few people that I scare them. It always surprises me because I -know- that I'm a very...|||I feel you! Sometimes, I have these wonderfully witty thoughts racing through my brain and yet, when I go to speak, they come out in a horrible mess! I'm also quite a dreamy individual with a head...|||I don't doubt you. I just don't enjoy the feeling of extremes so frequently. I am finding it very difficult to find a middle ground... at least, a middle ground I am satisfied with! :( It's very...|||I've recently been diagnosed with Bipolar and I've been finding it very difficult to manage. In fact, I am beginning to wonder if I am indeed an INFP or it is the mania. I only say this because I...|||I love the gym! It's a place where I'm not anxious and truly at peace. I used to fret about the people around me but now, I do not care. I enjoy weight lifting the most. The feeling you get after a...|||Of course there is hope for you... but really, you shouldn't be looking for a TYPE of girl. You should be looking for someone you can click with. You don't want to come out as superficial. Anyway,...|||Seems like I'm too old skool. Haha! It's interesting to see all the comments. :) I'm the opposite. I like handshakes. I've always done them. ;p     I can understand that! ;) I use both of my...|||Do you think it's unlady like to shake another woman's hand, though?|||I only ask because the other day, I offered my hand when I'm introduced  to another girl my age and the look on her face... she looked quite  surprised to say the least. I've also met other girls my...|||Oh yes! This is me all over, sadly! Especially when I'm in bed, that is when I am my worst for obsessive thoughts and over analysing. It's horrible and I find it somewhat crippling. I try to stop the...|||I loved reading all these responses! Thank you very much.  Even though I said that I appreciated the concern, there are some days where it does irk me. It also makes me somewhat paranoid. I start...|||I highly doubt this is an INFP thing but I just felt like posting here because I'm sure there are some peeps who can relate. There are times, especially at work, when I'm concentrating and someone...|||Hey guys! I'm back since not posting since... 2011? So about three years. Woah. Long time. Thought I'd give this another go. I don't think many of you will remember me. It has after all been a few...|||After what seems like forever, I finally have time and read ((properly)) all these great replies. Thanks a bunch for your thoughts and such! It was very interesting to read.   Sorry it took me so...|||... this relationship pairing must be endlessly discussed within these forums! So forgive me for bringing up a rather common subject.  I've entered a rather wonderful relationship with an INTP. We...|||I'm still learning how to stop being overly nice. It's rather annoying considering that I can't keep up the niceness. I usually blow up in the end and people wonder what the fuck is wrong with me......|||I'm quite reserved and find honest difficulty. I don't enjoy hurting people's feelings, mainly because the consequences are often a bitch to deal with.   I'm trying to be honest... as my dishonesty...|||As an ENFP, I enjoy art and craft/book shops... quite a bit! I'm there most of the time, wondering amongst the terrifyingly expensive paints. Even though I can rarely afford it, I can't help but look...|||Mind fucks can be pretty scary... mainly because I have no control... over anything! My emotions are let loose as if they were wild horses. There's nothing can control them and it's terrifying! I...|||I don't think I could ever hook up with a woman. I don't like softness... though not all women are soft, haha! Saying that, if I ever happened to meet particularly cute Transman and he asked me out,...|||I don't think it's personality related... all types can enjoy it!   I like to have the occasional doobie but completely refuse to do bongs. They are a total mindfuck.|||My confession:   I'm actually terrified of loving someone/entering a relationship. I believe entering a relationship will make me less of an individual and lose my fierce independency. I hate it...|||Hmm. Interesting... I think I understand.   Haha, you are right. I know 'me' best better than anyone. Childish moment there, forgive me. Hurr hurr. I honestly think deep down, I am an ENFP but...|||Well, Lulz, this thread is about me and not about you. Sozzles...  however, I'm not the right person to ask. I still have yet to understand all the cognitive functions, plus their shadows and how...|||Ah, right.  Well, I do feel a need to be nice to everyone because I want them to like me... but that can get tiring and then, I become standoff-ish and difficult to approach. It definitely can be a...|||Exact quote from today's douchebag. There was a silence between us and the conversation went a bit like this... he was a stereotypical ESTP, just for your information.****  Him: Awkward silence....|||Ah man! I've been so damn busy with work but thanks guys for replying! It's really interesting reading all these threads. Ohh yeah... sweet.    I don't like expressing my emotions. I don't like...|||My boss says I'm a wackjob. A lot of people think I'm weird!   Who DOES that? Whenever I have told them one of my stories... I can barely remember the shit that comes out of my mouth.  If you...|||What thirty year olds you been eavsdropping/talking to?   The only guys I ever find interesting are 30 years plus! (Usually)  What a silly thing to say, indeed. ;)|||Fantastic post, Urtehnoes.   I do want a connection with the community. I do care what people think of me, especially appearance wise (Appearance is everything. People judge from a blink of an...|||Hey guys!  This question has no doubt, been asked a million times. I took the MBTI and the Cognitive Test (on PersonalityCafe)... low and behold, I received ENTP for both. I retook both tests and...|||Oh man, oh man... too many people have thought I was madly in love with them! Arrogant bastards, I say... but no matter how many times I say I'm not in love with you, they never believe it! C'est...'