'Wonderful! I've recently made my Tumblr, too. Some of the times I write down my thoughts and feelings, and I usually try not to reblog too much as I intend on making my Tumblr stay original. ...|||I wish you would say something that you feel positive about me as a person. It is one of the important parts about staying friendly friends with an ex. I know you are not good with expressing...|||I'd say the same like Absurdist.  And tense. If I weren't a sensitive INFP, I'd probably not worry too much about how the other person feels, but I do. I'm worrying about whether the other person...|||I am so angry at myself for ever falling for you.  I am so angry at you for ever falling for me.  I am so angry for the way things had to end up.  I want everything to stop, just go back in...|||Even though I'm genuinely thankful I just can't imagine myself jumping with delight (just not now anyway). I just hate the fact that people I care about have put up with so much crap for me. I know...|||Phlegmatic 29 Sanguine, 36 Melancholy, 0 Choleric, 57 Phlegmatic  Hail you who are Phlegmatic!  The stability to stay straight on the course. The patience to put up with provokers. The ability...|||http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_hMTEA59myUc/TO_19Xq-lpI/AAAAAAAAC10/rTv9m8fhDhw/s1600/pie.jpg  OM NOM NOM|||You are absolutely right. Thanks BlackLodge. You really do strike me as a cool guy worth getting to know. Hopefully we'll be able to get to know each other sometime!    Howdy! :happy: Did I...|||I realized I probably come off as slightly aloof on here. I've been lurking on PerC for a long time, thanking people's posts, but too shy to make actual conversations!  When I'm in a rut or...|||Our friendship has officially ended.  We can no longer fix it, or convince her that it is still fixable. This is for the best.       Wow.|||The other person got fed up last night when I vented same things because she didn't know what to do in that situation. What was beginning to be a refreshed friendship just got shaken all over again....|||While I enjoy being around NTs as my close friends and can't ask for the better, I can't help but have moments of intense alienation and loneliness every now and then.|||When I see certain (negative) qualities in other people that I think I might have but don't want to possess, I get afraid of myself. I trust myself to be a healthy person for some parts, but my...|||Talk about feeling like a idiotic jerk.  I recently learned it was all a complete and utter misunderstanding on my part. That I took things that were said a completely different way. I was being...|||---complete misunderstanding on my part--|||---complete misunderstanding on my part---|||---complete misunderstanding on my part---|||Just this.|||I have a hard time not to compare myself with him every time I see him. Myself, I don't have exciting adventures to share while he does. It does not make sense because it's nothing personal. Yet I...|||^   My physical appearance makes me come off as naive and innocent. And I make cute noises like teeheehee! and stuff. Most people might perceive me as a space cadet, which I am. But that's not...|||Weary.....|||Thank you so much. It made me smile.|||I would love to get drunken just for once in lifetime when I'm older. Surrounded by right people, of course.   Just be rebellious and adventurous for a little bit.|||Are you swimming upstream, in notions of blue?  Do you feel like your sinking?  Are you sick of the rain, after all you've been through  Well I know what you're thinking.  When you can't take it,...|||“It's great that you can listen and be a shoulder to someone, but what about when someone doesn't need a shoulder? What if they need the arms or something like that? You can't just sit there and put...|||Like Charlie from The Perks of Being a Wallflower|||I share inspirational stories/quotes/sites on the public sites not only because I hope they will touch people who may need to read them but also because I need to read them myself.|||http://i.imgur.com/Z4TlL.jpg  Not aware of oneself crying until taken aback by intense emotions because it all happens so suddenly    Yuki Nagato from Haruhi Suzumiya and Raven from Teen Titans...|||I don't want to feel angry or guilty anymore. I don't want you to feel angry or guilty anymore. I don't want anybody to feel angry or guilty. I just want to move on. We both do.|||hornet   What you just said sums up Si pretty much!  The cognitive functions are very complex, and I don't know if I can describe Si well. But there's a site that explains it much, much better...|||It makes so much sense! I've thought about that for a bit.   Yeah. You are right about Si. When close ones decide to stop talking or drop things out (for example) my first initial reaction is: But...|||How do you let go?  My INTJ told me she loved me--does love me--but we both knew being a relationship together wouldn't work out well for us, so we are letting go (we did get involved in a...|||Remorseful|||I am too naive for my own good. I wish I would have been exposed to many things when I was younger. I'm 17 years old, to be 18 on June 21, and this is my first time experiencing true drama with my...|||Inadequate and empty  ...it's been so long since last time I felt pure happiness and stayed in that state|||I had to sit on this question for couple nights because it's a really good question. I've never really thought about it. I'm definitely guilty for not being the one to maintain friendships often.  ...|||http://i.imgur.com/K9o2S.png|||Speaking for myself, I only need you to tell me, Alright, there is an issue I would like for us to resolve together. Whatever I say, it doesn't mean I'm calling you into question. I just want for us...|||antiant Thank you for the Accountability article. Even though it's meant for buddyhollyfan, I find it very helpful. I really appreciate that.|||I think it's more of the social rituals when people validate other people's emotions in this situation. One of the social rituals places value on treating people's feelings as important and creating...|||Reading their posts, I honestly don't think they're trying to put you down or threaten you with personal reasons. They are just as confused. What may come off to you as pushing for answers is them...|||I understand where you are coming from, and it's true that people do wish to be heard. It's hurtful when you hope others to validate your feelings, but you end up going against what feels like a...|||Of course INTJs can love someone. If not deepest and more intensely than most people due to their preference to straightforwardness and honesty. They are people too.   Just not in a way Feelers who...|||--------------|||When I listen to important people's stories or vents, I can't stop myself from absorbing their feelings and thoughts until they become like mine - sharp, real and painful. Even when I try to....|||Yes. I've been around Thinkers for the most part of my life. My father is an ENTJ, and my close friends are usually NTs. I admire and respect NTs. But when I emulate them for a long period of time...|||I remember writing a script for Drama class's project last year. It was really enjoyable and somehow mediating. To put yourself into a different person's shoes with different perspectives and...|||Thank you. I'm glad to hear it.  It's a family issue, and I've been more sensitive these days, but I'm certain I'll be better soon. :happy:|||I just can't seem to stop crying randomly for one reason or another. And I don't tell anybody.|||Never thought I would see you guys explain this particular issue in INTJ-INFP relationships so clearly. It was an exact problem that happened in my relationship with now-bestfriend INTJ a while ago....'