'All I have to add to this discussion at this time is that as a male ENFP (Te tertiary, overdeveloped) I have been called by more than one person the most reasonable person they have ever met. I...|||Moves are for concrete people yo, iNtuitives just have processes. Here's mine.  Romantically interested in someone? K, let's do this: 1. Learn as much as possible about them at a theoretical level...|||Nice umbrella!  *hugs the cuddly NT*|||Kissing is awesome, and can be more intimate than sex in some ways. I can and have enjoyed making out for hours at a time, as long as I'm into the other person. Lip balm is a life saver.|||I can't really blame someone for wanting to simplify others in some way in order to attempt to more easily understand them. Regardless of whether the attempt is a good one or not, it has nothing to...|||Not being anti-SJ here, but I have a couple of close female friends who are SJs, both are objectively attractive and great people. I have never experienced the tiniest amount of attraction to either...|||Currently listening to one of my favorite finds on Soundcloud today.  https://soundcloud.com/babbit-1/painting-greys|||JR CG, sounds totally normal at that age for a male ENFP. I wouldn't worry about it and just go with the flow as much as you are able. Continue to learn about yourself and you will in turn learn...|||I can't hate other people. I can be impatient with them sometimes, but  Understanding -> Love -> Forgiveness.  That's what being an empathetic person gets you.|||Intelligence is sexy. That's what I think. Nothing to do with T/F.  There are many different reasons that different people are attracted to one another, I haven't found T/F to be a very useful...|||I feel that way quite often. It usually means I haven't been meditating enough. Meditation helps me live more in the moment. As an ENFP, being a slave to my passions is what keeps me moving. If I...|||I'm ENFP and I don't date. I have been on a couple, but never liked the structure of it.  I prefer meeting people organically. That way, before we're even invested in conversation, I can get a...|||Music is meaning :) never forget that there is always somewhere else to take it! Music, as culture, is continuously evolving and changing along with our species.  Glitch Hop. Electro Swing. Bass...|||I love sensors! They contribute to the variety of experience that is life! They have some of the sharpest wits, and can do amazing things, so cool! Many of my closest friends are SP's, and SJ's can...|||Here is an example of poetic musing from a state of deep trance without musical assistance. It may not be an everyday experience, the misspellings are predominantly indicative of phrasal shifts or...|||Oh yeah, conversation about things that don't interest me? Herculean effort required to pay attention. Especially in large groups where other extroverts may be guiding the conversation. My patience...|||My day has been spent attempting to understand and describe the love I find myself falling deeper and deeper into. It started 10 days ago with a 4+ hour conversation into the wee hours of the...|||Absolutely 100%. I have always loved music, and this is at least part of the reason why! Working with music so often now though, I often meditate separately in order to sort through what an ENFP...|||hearts don't need to have genders :)|||Man, I know exactly how you feel. That struggle definitely defines a solid part of my existence.|||I am sx/so, definitely attracted to so/sx. Dead simple and obvious to me. I do certainly utilize the heck out of <so> to search for love, but how else would you go about it? :-|||Remember also that some people are looking for different things in relationships. Maybe an ENTP isn't what you're looking for. the ideal personality match for me as an ENFP is supposedly an INTJ but...|||I am the same way. Debate doesn't count as conflict to me though. That is something entered into by people with a mutual understanding of what's expected of them behaviorally.|||depends who from! Anyone bubbly, warm or sincere (any of these is fine) then absolutely!  That's the caveat I would say, if you're trying to put yourself out of your own comfort zone to give a hug,...|||other NF's can be pretty feedback loopy for me, I like them best as friends, maybe very good friends, but an SO? That's never been what I look for in a relationship... too much overlap of wavelength....|||Oh you meant the TV guy... I thought you meant the Barbarian and was immediately confused. Pretty sure HE is an SP.|||Toristar  Just tell us you're lost. That doesn't bother us, we hear it all the time. If you ask for clarification on something, we'd be thrilled to tell you about it! Really, our rants for...|||This is a love language kind of thing. If you explain all that theory to the INTJ about the different projective/receptive ways that love is received and interpreted by different people, they should...|||Yeah what REGHO said. Probably the easiest way to determine one way or the other.  My mom is ENFJ and freaks out (or is at least very seriously concerned) about scheduley things all the time. Me, I...|||physically?  fit Asian women small noses expressive mouths long tongues the colour orange 3 specific hairstyles that have nothing in common with each other, and therefore confuse me. sharp...|||Haha oh man... I have responded to three proclamations of love just like this. What else do you do? Afterwards I always have to have a long philosophical discussion about my issue with those words...|||I agree with Sai, sometimes ENFP desires to use other people's reactions to judge ourselves can be detrimental, especially if we're hanging out with people who don't completely jive with our own...|||Thanks for all of this. The thing is, he doesn't consider himself depressed, because his philosophy is in line with his current emotional state: 'nothing matters... nothing exciting in life......|||Pillow He hasn't taken ex in years. He drinks occasionally with friends about once a month, but other than that he isn't on any kind of medication or drugs. He isn't exactly a negative person, and...|||I am writing this on behalf of my good friend who is an INTJ and came to me asking if I could think of any possible solutions for him. He reports feeling total numbness, apathy and disinterest in...|||Yesterday I was convinced I was composed entirely of animated mushroom chicken potato tomato Alfredo noodles, and I was trapped under an upside down bowl (actually the blanket on my bed) against a...|||Huh, interesting. I get the same way about any of that awkward kind of relationship humour where one of the characters acts against their own character in a futile attempt to please the other person....|||Anything well written with good editing. Those are the most important things. Generally speaking, the less fantastical everything occurring is, the better the writing itself needs to be to hold my...|||Yeah, that used to work for me, but now I am usually too good at avoiding stress to be able to employ it as a motivator :P|||For me personally, sex is a natural extension of intimacy, so if it wasn't happening that frequently with someone I was going out with, I would feel a lack of closeness in general.  If you can't...|||Haha ISTP's going to mess everyone up.|||I am truly happy in the arms of a loved one.  I am truly happy when I am dancing, my body representing the music in it's own language. With an ear for nothing but the music in my blood and not a...|||Hm. I have alot of introverted friends, and it's really easy to be around them. We form a nice balance. Being around other extroverts can be really fun, but if you're very different people, then...|||I realized early on that my success in formal education was often determined by my interest level. This was more and more noticeable as I got older. I mitigated the issue at the post-secondary level...|||Yes, a man and a woman can just be friends, though there is often some wrestling with varying levels of attraction at some point in time.|||Yes, I have talked about this with my friends, and they think one of the reasons I'm so attractive in social situations is the fact that I can talk about so many things, including other people, with...|||KuRoMi no, I mean exactly what Coccinellidae is talking about as well, but I don't feel it is a conscious decision. When someone points out another person's interest to me, I am both surprised and...|||Them: You know you're completely crazy/insane/out-of-your-fucking-mind right? ME: Yes! It's AWESOME!  What the fuck goes on in that head of yours?  You have so much potential. I cant wait to...|||From one mornings-can-go-die person to another, I wholeheartedly sympathize.|||Yeah I am still pretty oblivious almost all the time about this kind of thing. I think what bumblyjack mentioned about his roomate and how every girl his roomate ever talks to thinks that he's...'