'I dont have a definite career goal, was thinking of the military, overall the way society is set up (the rat race) is not something that appeals to me in the slightest.  I couldnt tell you what my...|||At 24 I have little freinds that arent family or freinds of family, I can talk to people but can never seem to form relationships, always feel left out and always feel like people think im nice but...|||http://www.hofwat.com/emohitler.jpg|||http://youtu.be/Sdmk-UF5ffM  it makes me sad, I am still trying to figure life, I wish I could stop the train and go back to when I was a child, back when I had no worries and did not know about...|||What does this phrase mean to you? Can you relate to it? Or perhaps its the opposite for you?|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQIimpLj6yo  Another great album by Mayer.|||I wont lie, the thought of going through BUDS and becoming a SEAL is exciting, I know its frowned upon saying you want to be SO's when you aren't in the military as most people don't even realize how...|||Well reason I havent is because I dont want to make it seem like I am all ready to sign up and go when I wont be ready at that moment, I dont want them to keep calling and me having to keep saying...|||Im planning on taking soon, at the very latest, the start of next year, I dont want to keep putting it off.|||About the Navy; do they really get to travel that much more than Marines or does it depend on MOS? Travel is certainly a big part of all of this for me.|||Hey im open to everything and will consider all options.|||For me its fall hands down, when that cool breeze comes around with the leaves falling, my god...it makes me feel SO good, It literally changes my whole demeanor and makes me happy and mellow, I just...|||Man that is really hard because again I do a lot of both, again if I had to pick I would lean more towards N as I love to  think about meanings of things, people and happenings, the big picture is...|||If I had to pick then I make descisions based on emotions more.  as for dreamer or down to earth, can you give some examples?|||Introvert, no question.  Dreamer or down to earth? Hard to say I do both.  Logical or conscience? Again both but It depends of the issue and I use my emotions a lot to make descisions based on...|||Oh absolutely! Writing has always been my forte in school and overall expressing myself. I just hope that I could do physical work along with that.|||Very cool, I want to just go with what I test well on and whatever I am good at, as I said I dont have a ton of interests and in general am a down for whatever hard working guy.  Also I may be...|||I have various reasons for wanting to join but big reasons are for getting out there in the world on my own, being part of something bigger than myself, gaining confidence and discipline in myself,...|||What is the best way possible? I think I am INFJ but im not 100% sure.|||Your thoughts on INFJ's?:proud:|||Also I wanted to mention that I realize I am taking a big risk with this, not just in terms of safety but with me actually enjoying this, I simply don't know if I will hate it or love it or be...|||Well the thing with me is that while I am not a pessimist, quite the opposite, I view things in a realistic way, I know what I am getting into with the Marines, I have done the research and talked to...|||Not for everyone I guess.|||With everything as in the military or just things in life in general?|||I was researching other types and came across this:  Famous ISTPs - CelebrityTypes.com  Reading some of those quotes is just...wow. I like how they have a realistic view of things but it seems...|||What an awesome post, I cant even respond with a long post as its all I need to know, your post is just...great! Thank You!|||I underdtand that the military can be a big risk, it can be something that can traumatize a person forever, it can make you disabled, mentally broken, it can even be the end of you but I feel that I...|||Thanks guys, great advice! I really need to start taking more risks, I always talk about taking risk in life as that is what will take you places, you never want to be the one who says man what...|||But isnt it a real Marine saying all that? Perhaps he had a different perception of what he would be getting into and then was gravely dissapointed when he joined; bar actual experience I generally...|||So the other day I was at a store and went to the cashier to buy my items, there was this girl, very pretty, I immediately could tell she was checking me out, thats when I got nervous, I felt like my...|||Thanks guys, sometimes I feel like just going to a branch and taking the test and just picking an MOS and be done with it but then I sit back and think to myself, yea I dont want to be miserable...|||http://youtu.be/ZhQKrb1nF-o  Someone showed me that to scare me and show me the truth, cant say I see anything I did not expect, I certainly dont see the Marines in a fantastical way.  If...|||May I ask; is there a reason you chose the Marines? Did you ever consider the other branches?|||Yea I talked to a Navy recruiter last year, seemed like it was all good but I backed out at the time because I did not feel ready, one thing to keep in mind is that recruiters have one job, to...|||People ask me this all the time and I find really difficult to answer, I was never that kid who had a special dream job (except being a boxer) and even now at 23 I dont know, I would just like a good...|||I have looked at all four branches and looked around for opinions on each and am having a bit of trouble deciding for sure, would be great to hear some thoughts from active members or veterans. ...|||I don't hate myself.|||I never said I was shy.|||Its certainly odd, I understand that this is the way I am, I NEED these introverted qualities to make me feel better, I have to get away from everything from time to time but yet I want to be...|||I dont know if I am an INFJ 100% but let me tell you this, as much of an introvert I am and as sensitive and alone time I need, I have a thing for fighting possibly violence.  Since a kid I...|||Any others always wanted to be something they are not or will never be?  I since a kid was obsessed with James Bond, I always wanted to be that that super spy, traveling the world, being in intense...|||Excellent! I have adopted this thinking myself, I am truly convinced that you have to get out there in the world, take risks, suffer falls enjoy victories and that is the key to life, living.|||http://youtu.be/Y4rcXJonFus   http://youtu.be/CxfniXCwrJA   http://youtu.be/h8_Y_1psB6g   http://youtu.be/uJtw7SP0oN4|||I recently started getting into them to see what all the hype was about, I found them decent, it wasnt until I gave Dark Side of the Moon a really good listen while on....well not sober, it blew me...|||Very curious about this.  Me: I am open to anything, no concrete beliefs though.|||So what would everyone recommend to have confidence in myself and who I am, how can I show people that I am confident in myself?   Someone told me to not give a **** and just be yourself, have a...|||Appreciate this post, you mentioned something I find interesting, people don't approach me too much, I always think its because I tend to have a serious nature and am quiet so perhaps I am...|||ISFJ Profile  That sounds exactly like me as well lol, this is so confusing.  I test INFJ on one, then INTJ, now ISFJ, WTH!|||What am I supposed to do though? Just ignore it? I want friends, I want a person that I can love and see who I truly am, I can never take it to that next level with people, whether it be someone I...|||I know I have a problem with self esteem, I can be honest about that, I just dont know what to do though, I constantly am thinking about what other people think of me, sometimes I tell myself not to...'