'I'm currently rooting around in the forum, looking for a place to rant. I think this thread is as good as any!   I have a friend who asks me to go with her to a bunch of events and stuff that I do...|||I got Reformer (VDI-S).  Nature: 53% Visionary Tactics: 77% Diligent Energy: 68% Introverted Identity: Supporting  Interesting -- thanks for bringing it to our attention, Steadfast04 !|||But... everyone's mom is ISFJ, are they not?!   :rolleyes:|||Oh hey, inregardstomyself! How are you today? Asking for a friend, huh? Are you asking for your bff Rose?   :wink:|||I look 12!!!!!!!!! :D :D :D -ISFJ who is being a big lurker|||How I recognize Fe in myself... I care soooooo much about how things that happen affect other people's feelings. I want to make sure everyone is feeling okay all the time. My most-used phrase when...|||After a break-up I need SPACE! No contact with my ex -- just polite distance and time. I need to turn my attention back to my own life and regain energy, sense of hope, and purpose.   I've been...|||I've experienced most of these struggles, but right now in my life being assertive, being overwhelmed with conflict, and stressing over the uncertainty of the future are what I'm dealing with. I want...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eT70RUV_9rw&list=PLZovIqon2N4KLOh4sSI27PHBJb0p1_1t3  Angel Olsen's album Burn Your Fire for No Witness  :blushed:|||I read through this and went to go thank it only to learn that I had already thanked it. :rolleyes: Hehe! I've been decluttering and reorganizing my closet space and storage boxes over the past few...|||This is a rant from an ISFJ who's trying to find the right sort of person to date and settle down with. Erm how do I put this.... My last three romantic relationships have been with NF types, and I...|||I've been known to make others wheeze with laughter and to make beverages (or in the case of my brother one time, soup!) come out of their noses. ;D|||Yes. This. I keep reading that S outnumbers N out there in the world, and I'm like... anecdotally in my life, NO! I am surrounded by N's. I really do appreciate what they bring in the way of...|||I just wanted to say that I really appreciate this thread. This is stuff I spend a lot of time thinking about and trying to figure out for myself, so it's helpful to read perspectives from other ISFJ...|||Haaaaalp!   Assuming they have not been severely censored in their upbringing, INFJs are generally happy to share their feelings and perspectives. In fact, given the right opportunity, INFJs will...|||I'm sensitive to hearing criticism, even if it's not directed at me. Hearing people level a lot of criticism just wears me out!|||Type 6: When they are being ‘testy’, support them with genuine reassurance to ease their anxiety rather than trying to win the argument.  This is so accurate! Just last week I discovered that I...|||ISFJs are cuuuuuute!  522121 Favorite musician = Kaki King  522129 Mini golf on the side of a mountain  522137 Me and my cat, Indigo. We hang out!|||Sure, I'll bite!  1. What's your age/age range? 28 years young  2. Where are you located? (City, State, Country, Region) Tennessee, USA  3. What's your current occupation/job/career? Admin....|||The album Dopamine by BøRNS|||Are you.... OVERWHELMED by all the possible things I could be referring to? :laughing:  I mean like I'm doing nothing at work and then all of a sudden four different requests come in at the same...|||Is anyone else feeling easily overwhelmed?|||Kate Bush's The Dreaming   https://youtu.be/JWy8nONlh_Q|||I love that you've been posting more recently, teddy564339!  About the whole 6th sense about other people and not being able to translate that sense into valid arguments -- YES. Omg yes. I...|||I can attest to both the statement about healthy INFJs expressing love and to the challenge of emotional exhaustion.  I've been in a relationship with an INFJ (who is moderate in introversion and...|||It's been quite a while since I've had a long flight. On the short ones, I either read a book the entire time or just zone out and think/daydream.  I usually travel alone; I don't know under what...|||Who me? Oh, I don't have a question. I just popped over to say that I'm in a romantic relationship with an INFJ, and it's amazing. She's amazing!  :proud:  Carry on, friends!|||Aw, man! I wanted to like you, slothpop. (It's okay, I can get quite annoyed by xSFJs as well.) Off topic, I really appreciated something you posted in the Type 6 forum about feeling equal in...|||Haha! You know you're an INTJ when you doubt whether the people who claim to be are INTJ are, in fact, INTJ? ;) It does seem to be a popular type to talk about somehow. I have at least one confirmed...|||My mind is really so boggled by this right now. Where are these supposedly common sensors?? Almost EVERYONE around me is an N! I'm starting to think it's because my interests are relevant to the big...|||Dear ISFP,  You are my best friend, and I love you sooooooo much!!!!! Sorry not sorry about being so mushy today. :kitteh:  Love, ISFJ|||When your friends from different parts of your life are all around one table, enjoying each others' company, and you feel the highest delight over having brought them all together!!|||My thought was, I bet angelcat replied to say she doesn't drink. I see you, girl! :tongue: Good, stay out of trouble.|||I think about this often, and honestly I have absolutely NO idea which type I would get on best with in a romantic relationship. I've dated an INFP, ENFJ (so many difficult differences for me), and...|||Usually fairly happy (although I can be sad depending on my emotional state going in) and verrrrrry chatty. Any thoughts that I've been carefully suppressing the urge to say out loud around people...|||People making statements about me/my personality, especially in a group setting, like they know me when they really DON'T. One coworker said, You're such an INTJ; you just want to work at your...|||I may have been primed by seeing angelcat's comment first, but yeah. The BMW. I like my sedans kind of sporty (and you can quote me on that).|||Haha johnson.han.3 that was a funny reply.  thatkillsme When I first joined PerC, my avatar was a cute little chameleon. I have since morphed into the gentle young stag you see before you now....|||Ugh, double-post.|||Thanks! Yeah, I wondered right before signing up for the class how helpful it would actually be. I can organize information (plot) all day long, but will it actually help me get the thing written? In...|||Everyone's responses sound so fun! This summer I'm going to do a bit of traveling to a couple of places I've never been, continue to reach out to people to develop friendships, continue to work on...|||Hanging around some types, comparatively, I seem like a pessimistic grumpus. Around others I have the best social skills. How I perceive myself can change depending on who I'm with, it seems....|||Shoegaze, YESSSS!! Good stuff! My friend introduced me to this song, you might like it:  https://youtu.be/r1ll91YBdVE|||lizw47 It appears that you arrived before Spring! I'm sure it will be along shortly... ?|||Welp, here are some photos of this ISFJ...  293162 It snowed in late February and again in early March this year. Snow days are rare where I live!  293146 Silly!|||So dainty!!|||Thank you, WhateverLolaWants. That's interesting, I dated an INFP, and when it was over she moved on really fast. I actually thought we were still kind of in the gray area until she told me. Then of...|||I like to label things and people and put them in boxes. I know it might feel limiting to some of you, but it gives me a sense of order and peace of mind.|||I don't listen to pop music, and I have pretty particular tastes. I like a lot of ambient music -- music that acts as a soundtrack to my thoughts and the world when I'm driving or out walking. And I...|||So, I just got out of a romantic relationship. I've dated about 4 or 5 people total in my life, and after those relationships ended the other person has found someone new to date before I have. I...'