'If all INTP's are like my ex I would let them run my life for a week.  I know things would be done according almost to the instructions I left, they would at least have been considered.  Either way...|||I had a little bit of a childhood, till I was 5 or 6.  After that I was old enough to realize that my father was an alcoholic and I had younger siblings to care for so my mother could handle dad. ...|||I exist I promise you! LOL! I am for sure an INTJ female.  I was unsure for a little bit but put up a short list of characteristics for friends to see which I fell more into to them.  INTJ beat out...|||I am curious if any other INTJ's or any other personality type have found they feel like a character from a book or a movie. Reading through my journals I realize I make a lot of references to Alice...|||PSTypes Enneagram Test ResultsThe Distribution of Your Scores   Type One:  29  Type Two:  7  Type Three:|||Since my dreams of being an evil genius  mob boss, or mob bosses girlfriend don't seem like they are going to come true I guess my ideal job would be a college professor.  I am currently a student,...|||I really want to take this one but is's $49.95 so I guess it'll have to wait.  I've gotten pretty much the exact same percentage results using the humanmetrics.com test everytime so I am pretty sure...|||I can see many reasons to have children, potential for future cures to diseases and such, carrying on the family names, perpetuation of the species, it can be fun, and even some just like it.  I do...|||I love cats!!! I love that they are independent but always seem to know when you need some love.  Then they curl up on your lap or by your side until they feel you are better.  They aren't...|||I often find myself wanting to tell the other driver they owe me like a hundred bucks for riding my ass, when in this situation.|||I am very much like the boy in the video.  It is not one of my favorite movies though.  My ex INTP had me watch it with him and was shocked I didn't like it. It just couldn't hold my interest.|||I thought the same thing! It seems that the older I get the more I think about it!|||Oh no! I love what I'm going into for sure.  I need my T qualities to balance out all the F's that I encounter.|||I can understand that.  I am in a program requiring a lot of F qualities that I didn't have when I started.  I think working on developing those is making it interesting to me.  I also love to people...|||Ni!!!    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QTQfGd3G6dg|||I'd like to second this!   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=239vHrwt8Rs|||I truly just love to learn! I don't usually care much about what it is, just so long as I am learning something!|||People who push their religion on you, people who do not answer phone calls or text messages in a timely fashion, and people who do not directly say how they are feeling.  My N is good, but it's not...|||I do notice a change but only that I become less introverted and more willing to talk and intermingle with people after a few drinks.|||I have been with a few married men, some I knew were married before and some lied to me and said they were either single or just a signature away from divorced.  I am not trusting of men at this time...|||I have noticed this among some introverts, mostly an INTP.  I myself try to interact with people but it's tough sometimes.  I usually seclude myself in my room with my headphones and laptop.  I work...|||http://youtu.be/H93cfICdtGI  Verve Pipe Photograph|||Dear INFJ community,  Thank you for your support.  I have decided I fit more into the INTJ group.    Sincerely, INTJ...former INFJ|||Having huge plans for the future that some of the people involved aren't ready to see yet and can't seem to understand.  I run into this a lot in my relationships but also with my school work.  Oh...|||You're not supposed to answer back?  Oops!|||If I'm alone I talk to myself a lot.  Not so much with people around but I am known to make smartass comments under my breath.  I think the reasoning for this is that sometimes things need said out...|||So as you can all see from my signature I have been under the impression I was an INFJ.  After many people asking me if I had taken the test and given answers corresponding with what I actually...|||I have been typed as an INFJ multiple times on the humanmetrics.com test.  I don't feel this is correct.  I really think, based on the explanation at the beginning of this thread that I could be an...|||Just Kitty?|||I have never cheated (I take that back, some might consider it cheating when I was in a relationship while separated and living apart but still not divorced.  It just hadn't been pulled together and...|||I keep taking it hoping to be anything with a T.  I want the F to go away.  I can't handle anymore more feeling! I just want to be able to think about things and not feel them.|||This post contains information about self harm.  If it bothers/upsets you, please move on.  I would really like some insight from other INFJ's though.   Is self destructive behaviors a common...|||I don't know that I necessarily believe in soul mates but I have very specific qualities I want in a romantic relationship.  I think it is simple but is proving to be complex because I cannot...|||I think this is a big part of why my relationships usually die around the 2 year mark, I let it build up and build up and then finally I'm done.  I not only reach for the stars I am trying to pull my...|||I think there are different degrees of the door slam, even more so now after reading that many INFJ's don't believe in it at all.  In the instance you described I can understand not being able to...|||Are you implying you are one of the toxic people? If the INFJ was not the one to end the relationships they do not find you to be toxic.|||Dear ex INTP boyfriend,  I don't think you realize the pain you have caused me internally.  Not only do I still love you and want to be with you forever, despite what I have said the last two days,...|||Based on the relationship I just got out of with an INTP there is no perfect love for this personality type.  I wanted nothing more than for him to love me for me and make a happy family and all he...|||I was in an almost 2 year relationship with an INTP.  He decided last week that he didn't want to move in together, dispite us talking about it since summer and would not be actually do it till June...|||I don't find this statement to be true.  As an INFJ I try to keep around the people who have touched my life and helped me through tough times but I am guilty of the door slam for sure.  I get to a...|||You scored 25 I versus E, 20 N versus S, 60 F versus T, and 100 J versus P!   I had been in an almost 2 year relationship with an INTP, who broke my heart Wednesday when he broke up with me in a...|||I catch myself doing it here and there. I'm sure I do it a lot without realizing it though. I have always, since I was little, been able to get people to do what I wanted done. As I get older and...|||I cannot get through a day without at least one cup of coffee. I do like a little flavored creamer and natural sweetener but the coffee taste still comes through in all it's glory. In my house coffee...|||I dunno. I have told him multiple times how I feel about this but it only seems to get worse. I guess time will tell.|||Being in a relationship with an INTP, myself an INFJ, it irritates me when they do not answer simple messages or phone calls.  I understand the reclusiveness, believe me I get it, but how difficult...|||I have moments all the freaking time! I feel like I've already done this day, and usually don't want to do it again! LOL.  I also have a bad habit of finishing other people's sentences or thoughts...|||Wants: love honesty caring openness likes to stay in most of the time but occasionally likes to have or go to small gatherings of friends and the occasional rock concert a love and appreciation...|||Family gatherings in my family suck! I hate to go.  I spend the days before to trying to figure out how I'm going to get out of it! When I do end up getting guilt tripped into going to a family...|||I cannot remember shit if I just hear it.  I have to take a lot of notes in class, sometimes to the point where I miss something else because I can't write neatly and quickly...it's one or the other...|||When I get into a funk I only want certain people to be around me.  I don't want advise from anyone unless I ask for it.  I want to vent and just have someone sit there and nod, possibly ask open...'