'The day that sex is simply physical my heart would go cold, the sky would turn grey, nature seem silent, the ocean just a puddle..  This kind of overreaction may support those who think...|||I understand having ideals shattered, wanting to help, not being able to, or help not being accepted. All that jazz..  Sorry if i simply reiterate, but as far as crushed ideals go, I've come to see...|||hahahahah!! :laughing:|||..*slowly shakes head*...I think who will lead between infj and infp has more to do with enneatypes and levels of health.|||FearAndTrembling RunForCover07  Wait a second... FearAndTrembling...RunForCover...Are you kidding me?!??|||hmm...I'm being anything BUT a reticent charm right now......feels good :)    Alright. I submit. :bored: I can't go on. I'm a lover, not a fighter. The battle is yours. INFJ lead  There you go,...|||New ideas to an ongoing thread? Pff Who needs 'em?|||It wasn't my intention, honestly. but now that I think of it..    Interesting|||I know the type. I've unfortunately only met insecure and over-confident INFJ|||Why? ..Did I?|||Still playing nice here. I promise I'm not about to beat you up   RunForCover07     Haven't read the rest of these comments yet, so maybe this has already been remedied.   I don't think you...|||You're so right. That's what I need to focus on as well. Deadlines are not my friend and no matter how good my work is or how good an idea I have is it goes unwanted, disregarded if people don't see...|||less capable person achieving more ...the cold sting of truth. This has been my experience with infj I know.      Now THAT'S a conclusion! Awesome resolve :)|||Hey ISFJs :)   I have a friend who wants to write a song for a girl he likes. I am not certain of her personality type, but I suspect that she may be at least an IxFx. I know for certain that she...|||Hey ISFPs :)   I have a friend who wants to write a song for a girl he likes. I am not certain of her personality type, but I suspect that she may be at least an IxFx. I know for certain that she...|||Overly complex? Perhaps...(I don't think so, I try to make things -like emotions- obvious by hinting and directing, everything but saying it out right. Darn extroverts never get it tho...hardly...|||*coughcough* not only INFJs get the friend-tissue routine|||Inspired by the recent INFP and INFJ: Who Takes the Lead? thread, I am now curious!   INFPs three questions:   1. Do you like, enjoy, or want to take the lead in relationships? (friendships,...|||Or perhaps a grand design if put to use effectively, focused somehow :)|||This...now this I agree with. I do want to caution you on your INFJ are not 'difficult', comment. That would be 100% determined by the individual. Some people, infj included, are scorned or...|||You're not neutral, sweetheart, you are also an INFJ|||Don't you think you're a bit biased?|||More skilled and diverse? How so?|||...You're trying to aggravate me aren't you.   I think our experiences are very different. Granted, I'm more assertive through text then anything else, but trust me I'm not a passive person when it...|||Wouldn't you say that depends on the individual. Take you and me for an example: you don't fit my shy, hesitant, please-accept-me view of infj. Do I fit your passive view of infp?|||Trouble is both infp and infj are introverted, so perhaps I'm not understanding what you're getting at And I'm never bossed around  (As much as I don't want to let you know it, I'm playing nice...|||man....I need to meet the infj you guys are meeting   *snickers to myself* too many impulse posts :tongue: didn't give myself a chance to combine them.|||Strongly disagree, besides the pairing being not so good. THAT we agree on. You'd have to prove the rest to me.|||*sigh* that's how it was...is for me now too    entheos I'm with you on this one|||pfff INFP takes the lead.   personal experience. -end-    and that's how it can get a bit frustrating when it perpetuates|||hahahaha :kitteh:You're doing great so far! I think you'll do just fine :) If anything it'll be us English speakers writing gibberish that will be hard to understand.|||I totally agree. It sure would stink if she's not infp...but the way I see it, if she's more willing to show immediate appreciation then she'll do so whenever she sees him next. At least if it's a...|||Fair point. I'll see if I can run this by him. It may be a little tricky on my end cuz he's already written it, just can't decide what to do with it (whether to go through with the full gift or not,...|||The card idea is cute :)  I don't think she's an hugs-and-kisses type girl (though I'm sure that was on his best case scenario list - personal theory) but what if?  Thanks for the input!! Trying...|||Yes, yes you are :tongue: and it's you're job thx!        .Coffee see there's plenty to go around :kitteh: Much love Lemxn, this is why I love INFJs|||hahaha yeah, that's what I told him  @holysouljellyroll and    @VertigoH We're very much on the same page ;)   @entheos Very interesting suggestion. I never thought of them listening to it...|||Eudaimonia  entheos  holysouljellyroll   Thx :) but I've seemed to confuse you :kitteh:   To clarify:  He asked me to preview the song, it's definitely positive  It wouldn't be live in...|||I too had a friend introduce me to mbti and I've NEVER had a personality test actually pin me, but just like you said, it was like me in words. Just from what you've said already you SOUND like an...|||I'm sure you will ;)|||Best wishes to you bro ;) It's admirable that you've got your head on straight. I suspect that's relatively rare among our type.|||Hey Rae!  I see you've posted several other times, but I don't believe you got a proper greeting! So, welcome :) from and INFP to a potential ;) Have you figured out which type you are yet? Guess...|||*tilts head* I'm not sure how I can help '-' ..|||You should've seen how frantic I was on my first post O_O You did well :) I expect this place will be grand to you in no time at all! Sometimes you gotta let out whatever's there and see what...|||I COMEPLETELY understand...so awkward right? It's a way to force interaction I guess. Get you out there, build confidence or something. Anyway, WELCOME :D I hope you come to enjoy this place as much...|||Hey :] I'm an INFP....so we're both Introverts awesome! You've been stalkin' around here longer than I have, but I've been revealed for several months now ;) I'm glad you came around. Enjoy yourself....|||Hey :D Nice to meet you too :) I hope you come to love it here as I have. I've only been on for several months but it truly is a place to discover yourself when used well! Happy posting!|||Hey INFJs :)   I have a friend who wants to write a song for a girl he likes. I am not certain of her personality type, but I suspect that she may be at least an INFx. I know for certain that she...|||Hey INFP buddies :)  I have a friend who wants to write a song for a girl he likes. I suspect that she is an INFP and I know for certain that she likes him too, but I need some feedback.   SO,...|||I have two guy friends that are ENFP, they both are very much like you,  ipixgirl, on this. I'm painfully aware of how good of catches they are and I must admit I've liked each as more than friends...|||Perhaps what INFPs imagine doing :wink: Oh, I'm sure plenty of INFP express their hearts artistically but I'm not sure if it would be welcomed. btw I'm sure this person likes and appreciates me too....'