'Greetings, fellow INTJs. Long time, no posts.   So, what lead to this was me asking if anyone who's going to college orientation at the same time wanted to meet up the night before for dinner or...|||Also, I'm sick of all the does this INTJ like me or is x type compatible with an INTJ and where do I find INTJ girls/guys. We don't know you. We can't tell you you're gonna have a magical...|||I keep like, meeting people. And they're cool. And it's amazing, in that moment. We're friends for a few hours, and then we're both gone.   I don't know if I want this to continue or if I want a...|||If by profile pic you're referring to my forum avatar, that's from Hyouka, but in terms of the Profile Picture (picture viewed in user's profile page) that'd be my face.|||Heyo, can my named be changed to EmbarrassedGhost? I used CaptainOfUnicorns everywhere from ages 13-16, and then my little sister decided to go by The Master Unicorn, which is simply too close for...|||It's embarrassing, and seems like wasted time, I suppose.|||One of the first thing people ask when like meet me is so do you like...draw? Apparently it's because I look like the stereotypical art nerd kid, whatever that is. They're correct. Art is my thing,...|||Very picky, but I used to REALLY like trying new things. I had an eating disorder so this still causes a lot of eating related anxiety, so safe foods include granola bars, fruit, and coffee...|||81, thought I was getting better about this. Ha. Though, a lot of this isn't fear, it's just being good at avoiding things.|||324785 This is my Aussie Shepherd mix Davy Jones <3  I also have a chow mix, a coon hound, a Shetland pony, a horse, 5 chickens and two guineas. But I don't have any handy pictures of them.  ...|||I do the same thing. And a lot of times, the emotions have to go away for me to process what the deal with them is.|||If your son is uninterested in romance, why are you pushing it?  Edit: Whoops, this thread is a bit old, ignore me.|||Answers: 1) Yes.  2) Also yes.   We are, in fact, human. And capable of forming crushes, crazy as it sounds. :)|||I think it makes people more at ease if you smile around them. People often comment on how I don't smile, my best friend's mom said it looks like she's being beaten every time she saw me, then...|||Surprises? Do not like. And receiving gifts seems just awkward, I don't know if I show enough gratitude so I freak out. But surprising others? I enjoy that.|||I get this all the time, from my parents. Still not really sure if they think I'm mean...?|||Well, if you sedate him no one gets cake.|||Walk The Moon, to drown out the noises in my head.|||Are you looking for advice in this area or are you asking if we think this INTJ cares about you?|||As other have mentioned, we're probably an obsessive bunch. Personally, I have OCD (though it's gotten much more manageable than it used to be) and have maybe become addicted to some behaviors in the...|||It's too hard to pick. I do think The Aristocats and Treasure Planet are underrated, however.|||Awful in school, and my favorite movie is The Princess Diaries. Why.|||Glad I'm not the only one :D  I'm not familiar with stacking, what is  that exactly?|||Am I the only INTJ who seems to be very needy/clingy (but not in a physical sense) with close friends?|||Asking what the kid's name is might solve it. If it's a name that could be either, just use the kid's name in the place of the pronoun.|||Online? My friends? Yes, all the time. Because I'm bored, miss them, or am simply curious.  Why's it creepy?|||Should you tell him? Yeah, if you want to. Just be like Hey man, I really like you. Blunt is good.  Last time someone I wasn't interested in told me they liked me, it didn't ruin our...|||Hm, why do I like anime? Good question, not quite sure. Maybe I just appreciate nice art.   Some favorites would be Hyouka, Howl's Moving Castle, and Tiger & Bunny.  I loved fantasy and scifi as...|||Bookshelves, a chair, and carefully hiding monsters, among other things.|||I've been wondering. Fellow INTJs, do you have a best friend? Have you ever had a best friend? What's your relationship with them like? Or are you just a loner?   Usually, my closest friends have...|||Have you found anyone you're interested in? If not, why is being single so bad?|||I know someone who apparently had a best friend online. One or two years later, he comes to find out they're a female INTJ. How they could have gotten that close without knowing that kinda confuses...|||Take a class, join a club, it may sound like an obvious idea but seriously, it forces people to meet and interact.   I was in a similar place, (not looking for a romantic relationship, but just to...|||My dad is an ISTJ. I can tell that usually he just doesn't understand me, but he's convinced it's because he doesn't understand girls, but I highly doubt that's the reason.|||Find out her love language? Long distance makes everything but words of affirmation hard, but maybe you can figure something out.|||My best friend is also an INTJ. We're kinda a thing. (complicated explanation, long distance involved.) Anyway, I'd say an INTJ with an INTJ would be great.|||Dad: ISTJ Mom: INFP Oldest brother: INTP Oldest sister: ISxJ Me: INTJ filled with teenage angst, likely due to being misunderstood by parents.  Younger sister: INFP  My three other siblings...|||Ah, I tried something relatively similar when I was about twelve, (a plot to become dominant in my social surroundings and make people like me) but soon it wore me out, did you not get tired of it?|||Just curious.   For example, I was (and still am, I suppose) incredibly shy. I met this girl when I was seven, we had the same name so our mothers thought we should obviously be  friends. The girl...|||Do I like chess? Yes, it's a pleasant pastime. Though I wouldn't be quick to say I view other people as my pieces, I do try to know their moves.|||As someone in a similar situation, I suggest asking her to see a movie with you/going for coffee/whatever for a little while, it may not make her really happy but if nothing else it can distract her...|||Love and romantic attraction are not the same thing, but to answer your question, yes, I have been in love. Romantic attraction isn't something I experience strongly, however.|||No, because being so miserable that you want to die, is well, miserable.|||I usually find INTPs to be pretty neat people.|||From very few people, and not when I'm trying to do something. On my way to make a cup of coffee? No hugs, please, I want my coffee.|||Houtarou Oreki, and he's either an INTP or INTJ, also I think there was a thread discussing this sometime last week.   I've been told by my friends It's amazing how much you just don't care.|||I've always been homeschooled/unschooled. The unschooling concept is mostly cover what you're required to, then study what interests you. I can't say I really enjoy school, but my situation suits me...|||I will share one fear that I have overcome. From the time I was 8 to the time I was about 11, nonperishable foods freaked me out so much that the idea kept me up at night. Like what if you were...|||I fear that I am a boring person, dolls, and being stuck in a coma but still having a conscious brain.|||Greetings, I've browsed the forms on occasion since a couple years ago after finding interest in personality types/the MBTI, but then I was like hey I guess I could make and account.  I like...'