'I like that you are kind, as INFJ I find that I love you all easily, Its so natural to fit next to you and relax, enjoy time and not feel like i have to do things such as hold hands, and other social...|||I found that when this happens it may be that there is something seriously upsetting him, and he is laying out hints and you just are glazing over the top of them (actully pretty normal their hints...|||I am truly curious about this as well, me and a enfj i know are in the same place, though I still love him, and he appears to have feelings for me, I wonder if the possibility is there...|||I find it varies, depending on my moods. I am genreally a 50/50 because I beleive that it takes two to make it good. so I'll lead a little and then let them lead a little. Its the best way to find...|||I can understand, we are fairly resilient. I mean honestly we tough it out through so much crap. I personally don't care what they've done, if I love them I always keep trying even though it makes me...|||I am an ENFP and I love dreaming!!! I cant stand it when people tell me to stop living like everything will work out...|||I've only found one person I can't read and easily understand what he is thinking... And Oddly its this fact that made me love him.. But he always said I was mysterious and he ended up pushing me...|||It happens, I have deve3loped said wall already, and it ruined the best love i ever had because i became to afraid to let him past the wall... i seriously dont recomend it....|||Or my least favorite, I always feel like your hididng something.|||I wouldnt say I display my anger, most of it genrally stays internalized. But Only when I am deeply hurt by someone I love and feel so defensless I cant protect my self, do I actully go into a...|||why are eggs yellowish inside|||I hope for nothings, and am still disappointed.  Yes I find I have been hurt badly because I don't give up on people and I'm a very all or nothing person. I either don't care at all or I care far...|||What were you thinking!?!?!|||I wonder if my tarantula has feelings and if I hurt them by being afraid of her the whole first month I was given her? Maybe that is why she chases me through the living room...|||I think the true questions is, as opposed to do we care more what others think or do we let what others think stop us?|||Don't mistake confrontations with assertive... I hate fighting unless I feel the definite need to do so... But assertive. Letting my thoughts be known? Yes I do that every time I speak.. =-P We were...|||Hahah reading others is easy, figuring out motives, behavioral patterns, reasoning's, etc.. But somehow I can never convey myself to them in return... So maybe its more of a curse than a gift. You...|||I think it may be unusual for my typing, but I find I always feel disconnected from others around me. So when I never get a response from my shy attempts at communication I get quiet discouraged... I...|||I always result in being a chaotic neutral... in D&D and especially in life hahahah ironic|||Why does this thread scare you?|||I would not take it to hard, even well developed ENFP's tend to walk away from overly one sided relationships. me personally, when I feel that they have figured things out or learned what they need,...|||I am an ENFP and I can never keep track of anything 0.o|||I use a really wide sense for humor mostly described as morbid/ positive. Anything goes unless it is mean. I do tend to blurt sarcastic or stupid humor a lot though... so that may play into a good...|||I understand easily the flare and boredom that brings on FwB, but honestly it's just no good for me without the extreme connections. But I'm extremely picky.... I have had the whole FwB but it was so...|||hahaha I seldom allow myself to become angry in public but when I do... I'd run, I'm like hell on two pretty stilettos, and It's not a pretty hell. I can saddly garentee that.|||I would id give anything to have him back. I think of him all the time and honestly it kills me thinking he may not think of me at all.... But i was so concerned with protecting myself he pushed me...|||I found dating an INFJ to be ridiculous, he was super insecure and as such he ended up pushing me away, (not saying theyre all like this) so I find that it could be amazing, as long as you find a...|||THANK YOU! arg i am so sick of the typical enfp.... like are you serious.. i cant for the life of me figure out why i keep aquiering that result.. I identify much more with the descriptions for an...|||Im in agreeance, I find I identify more with an ENFJ, though I do have a sense of emotions. But as far as being open and such, im not.. Im fairly difficult to get me to let another into my inner...|||You have no idea how happy this makes me (= thank you, im so used to INFJs and such pointing out our flaws, like unpredictable=untrustable.. do you know how much it hurts having somone question my...|||Ive taken several Cognitive skills test and MBTI tests and keep getting ENFP. occasionaly an Unclear as such..   ENFP Extravert(44%)  iNtuitive(50%)  Feeling(38%)  Perceiving(11)%  ...|||I dated two of them, its accurate.. they have a uniqe way of shocking you when they finally decide to talk..|||I dated two of them, its accurate.. they have a uniqe way of shocking you when they finally decide to talk..|||I agree with Shakti, Ive been having that huge problem as well. Im stuck between ENFP and ENFJ, again depending on my mood I come up as either one frequently. I find I fit alot of the different...|||possibly I am fairly irrational in my choice of actions :tongue: quiet awful truly. I over analyze evvverything|||I feel hurt and betrayed and Im not sure why but I keep hoping for some ungodly impossibility that my INFJ (now ex) boyfriend will come back and say he loves me still. he started off so sweet and...|||Yeah tell me about it.. I fell for an INFJ and he was amazing and convinced me to date him (keep in mind i dont do romantic relations... I cant bear loosing people i care about.. Im allll or nothing...|||I have to ask. Is it such a bad mix? Im an ENFJ (my scores below) and i am very good at perception... I recently fell in love with a INFJ but we ended up breaking up. I still want to know if there is...|||i had a great realtionship with an INFJ, in the way that in the beggining he was sweet and kind and over time he grew more mean and kept pushing me away, due to the fact that he was a highly negative...|||I would have to agree, the irrationality claimed as intuition made things hard, as well as the interesting mood/persona changes... though i keep ending up with infjs =/|||What happens when the INFJ is so afraid of their own insecurities and fears that they push you away and give up? Why would he do that? we both came from abusive type relationships with exs and...|||Its not a matter of how to approach, the effort alone is worth the come commendation, and help them?  I fail to see why you would need to. You should look for one who is of a stable mind set. No help...|||Dear INFJ Boy      I wanted to let you into my world because when we met there was such a sadness in your eyes, and i know i should not date with the intent of helping others, but i did. You...|||The point is there, just describe yourself in a confident and open way =p maybe you are a sexy ninja beast'