'More like calling close to 10 times from 1 am to 2am, telling me it's your loss, taking a break from 2 am to 3 am, texting me at 3 am to tell me he expected more and then calling me a couple...|||So actually let me continue my story. He gave me a REAL explanation now.  Long story short: He expected me to either pay for everything or for him to pay for everything. Yes, all this chivalry BS....|||I've been MIA with my new job and everything, but I'm back for a bit of a shitty rant.  To preface, and I'm sure most of you can connect to, I'm really introverted. As a result, it can be hard for...|||You'd think INFJs with their Fe would be full of empathy :laughing:|||Rant: When you go on the INFJ forum asking a question to understand your INFJ friend, get a reply that you can't understand, reply with something to be cordial/hopefully get some clarification, and...|||My oh my. Sorry to have offended you. To be honest, I couldn't quite parse what you were trying to say so I tried my best to respond. No need to get your panties in a bunch. I won't bother you...|||I think the interesting thing is that the INFJ friend does this all the time. She asks you if you want to do something even though she doesn't want to do anything. I think it's mind-boggling that she...|||This is not a relationship question, but more of a why is my INFJ friend like this? question.  About a year ago my INFJ friend went on a spring break trip with her boyfriend and a friend from our...|||Honestly I would too, except I also don't want to come off as that clingy friend.|||I'd like to preface this by saying that I tend to get jealous and a little possessive.  From my experiences with FWBs (read: relationships that aren't relationships...), I tend to get a little...|||I 100% identify with this. I sometimes feel like just calling them out on it, but you know... :laughing:|||I think I used to be the same as you when I first started college (no matter how difficult the concept, I'd rather look for help online or just try to figure it out on my own). As I went through...|||Maybe this is a me thing, but when my friends and I set a plan to do something at X PM and said friends come to pick me up, I expect them to let me know that they're coming --- and not be completely...|||Go on vacation forever. :laughing:|||Wonderful advice. Every time I've been flaked out all I'm left with is a bunch of negative emotions and feeling of just wanting to yell at the other person for being such a flake. I've never really...|||Rant: I feel like this is the millionth time I've ranted about this very issue, but flakes... I hate them to my very core. I've been talking to this one person for a while now and we finally agreed...|||I majored in Applied Math and Computer Science in college... and while I liked math going into it, by the end I kind of got sick of it/much preferred Computer Science over math. I'm good at certain...|||Something my friend pointed out to me the other day - I'm somehow really good at remembering faces. Like if I've met you even once and there was something even just minor, but still somewhat...|||I only know of one ESTJ and she loves reading. But as an ISTJ, I hate reading... haha. I would much prefer watching TV or playing video games.|||Dear ESTP,  Y'all are so different from me, yet somehow I connect with y'all in ways that I would've never imagined. Thanks for bringing the fun into my life. Wish I could meet more of you~ ...|||Gender: male Age: 17-27 Intelligence: superior Openness: conservative MBTI personality profile: ISTP Closest alternative we found: ISFP  I wouldn't consider myself a conservative... went to a...|||I only give compliments when I 100% feel like they're warranted. For example, some people may give empty compliments or may only half believe what they're saying. I feel like I'm lying to to them...|||I love my ESFJ mom to bits and pieces, but sometimes she gets on my last nerve. I'm 22 turning 23 and sometimes she just nags and nags and nags me to do this and to do that, telling me to do things...|||If someone came to you and asked you to make a decision about something, what would your thought process be?  Think about it briefly (or perhaps long and hard depending on what the decision is) and...|||Rant: Went on a date with a supposed ENTJ and he just would not shut up about all the issues he had with people at his school. Just kept going on and on and on about the same damn topic for 15...|||Actualized type: ISTJ (who you are) Introverted (I) 69.7% Extroverted (E) 30.3% Sensing (S) 75% Intuitive (N) 25% Thinking (T) 63.64% Feeling (F) 36.36% Judging (J) 62.86% Perceiving (P) 37.14%...|||As a 22, almost 23 year old, I've never been in a relationship. Gotten close more than my fair share, but never hit the nail on the head for real. It's always had to do with the wrong person, wrong...|||I have a close friend that's an ESTP and when he likes a girl, he'll stick with her unless something really bad causes him to want to break up with her. I hung out with him a lot during the summer...|||This is interesting. When I was a kid I definitely felt this way. I just couldn't be bothered with some kids my age because they were just so immature. I fit in quite well with adults or kids a...|||An INTJ that wrecked me emotionally (okay, I'm being a little dramatic here).  We were kind of seeing each other over the summer but we knew that it wouldn't last purely because we'd end up in...|||I tend to be wary of tests that have 2-choice multiple choice... But I have gotten ISFJ several times before so this isn't horribly inaccruate, I guess.  50% ISFJ 22% ISTJ 8% ESFJ 5% ESTJ 4%...|||I have one ENFP friend who is incredibly outspoken. If he believes that something is right or wrong, he will go to great lengths to make sure that whatever's right will stay and whatever's wrong will...|||Me: ISTJ  Mom: ESFJ Dad: INTJ  Dunno about my grandparents though.|||There tends to be a stereotype of ISTJs that they're workaholics and neat freaks. As of late I've been a pretty bad procrastinator (maybe should work on that, heh...) and my room is the opposite of...|||As an ISTJ I somehow find myself needing to be cool in front of others. Like I don't have a shit kind of vibe sometimes. Not sure if other ISTJs feel the same way.|||Transfer over to my Ivy League ;) I'm sure you'd have a great time heheh|||Not really saying, but thinking: Why were you so damn late?|||How about ISTJ's? :)   (side note: one of my best friends in college is ESTP and we get along so, so well, weirdly enough)|||One of my past roommates is an ISFJ. We understood each other's needs for alone and quiet time and we both got our shit done when we needed to. But what differed was that she is an extremely caring...|||This has been sort of bothering me for some time now. A lot of ISTJs (or at least from the threads I've read on this and other forums) seem to be not clingy at all - rather, they hate clinginess. I'm...|||You find it really hard to compliment others (in a fake way like some people do, or even when you feel like it's true).|||...when you see someone you kinda know on the street and you actively avoid any interaction whatsoever.|||ENFP's... I have three great friends that are ENFP's, but there are just some things they do...  Two of them say some of the most random (yet oddly funny) crap that make them seem dumb even though...|||This. Haha.|||For the single ISTJer's out there (and the successful taken ones), where do go to meet people for more long-term oriented relationships? The bar? Between friend groups? School? Work?  (Also please...|||This. I pretend like I'm completely not into the person/am annoyed at them. If they talk to me, then I pretend to act really chill when I'm screaming on the inside.|||Hey y'all!  I wanted to ask fellow ISTJer's something of a relationship question.  2 weeks ago, I was using a hook-up app (open the spoiler below if you really want to know) and I happened to...'