'Lose hope.|||INTPs gonna INTP.|||Sounds really nice. I hope it works out for the two of you.|||Added TigerFool to ignore list, so I don't have to sort thru his trolling in INFJ threads.  ____  On topic:  My feelings of shame are created by triggers which mirror traumatic moments and...|||Subject of death is always broader than just death. I feel that from perspective of Universal Consciousness, which we are all part of, our lives here are both very significant, for our suffering and...|||ITT TigerFella pimps his Internet Alpha Maleness at expense of OP.  The hobo I saw 2 days ago playing with a doll on top of a trash can was less sad than this.|||With what?|||I'm afraid in a lot of cases establishing boundaries while yours are being violated will result in you violating their boundaries. At this point the people who are more skilled at being unconscious...|||You never answered my question. What's an ESTJ doing in an INFJ forum?|||Eventually you'll have to face the music and figure out whether the upkeep is sustainable. Dealing with NEED could be an INFJ's worst nightmare.|||The Bitcher|||FIRST THIS:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jfDLkem6iEs THEN THIS:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ClvAvB6kPZQ  _______  ALSO THIS:|||Very much so.|||In the past few months I've experienced a frightening and sudden loss of creative drive. My baby project - roleplaying game - that I've been working on since 2006, on and off, has suddenly gone...|||Get Dr's Best PepZin GI on Amazon. It is an ingenious Japanese supplement (zinc carnosine) that has been clinically proven to stimulate healthy stomach flora and increase stomach wall repair speed...|||We are drawn to people in need of help, however we often have trouble differentiating between those who just need some inertia to run on their own, and those who will keep hanging on to us and take...|||I've scared away a fair number of women online before learning to keep the profiling to myself.   Hannibal Lector ruined it for everyone.|||When I was 21 I went to a psychiatrist who really really wanted to put me on Paxil because I was depressed. I refused. At that time I rarely experienced enjoyment of the moment, mostly trapped in my...|||HELL no, son.|||There are moments that come in randomly where I can feel other people, and know exactly what they're about to do in the next moment. Some would refer to it as being in the zone. It's a state where...|||I scored 100% introverted on MBTI, so...|||I can only handle conflict well when I attend the dojo 3 times a week. The physical connection reinforces healthy conflict management patterns in my head. I start thinking outside the box, become...|||I strap on a belt of explosives and break into their house...    ... wait, maybe I didn't think this one all the way through.|||Steven Seagal. Martial artist ;)|||Selflessness is part of our inability to separate others' feelings from our own. So essentially by helping others we're helping ourselves feel better as their energy improves and tortures us less....|||I had 2 instances of pervasive panic attacks which lasted for days if not weeks. It's a terrible hyper-realistic feeling, like I was losing myself. The glass wall between me and reality, the wall...|||Supervisors/managers?  I quit my career because I wanted to throw my manager out of the window. Like, REALLY wanted to. Like, would daydream about my fist flying in slow-motion into his disgusting...|||I am not sure what you mean by abrupt. I have problems around people who don't let me finish a sentence, and always seem to speak louder than I do. Somehow they will make a whole table-ful of people...|||After surviving extroverted social occasions I am often content to do exactly nothing for the rest of the evening and the next day just sit at home without even going outside for a walk.  More than...|||Neither of you is wrong. You both react to what you perceive as an attack on your inner process, with reaction being a reflexive attack on the other's inner process.|||@OP: There are 2 possibilities:  1) The guy is 23 (young) and hasn't yet learned to be straightforward in expressing his emotions. You revealed something that made you appear not-future-proof or...|||A disastrous experience I have a limited endurance for.|||I cannot answer that exact question, because it depends on degrees of intensity in a specific situation, among other factors.  That said...  This situation could be   1) part of natural...|||No, my INFJ song is   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HJcxU67LX2s|||I've been wanting to ask this... you frequently speak seemingly from an INFJ perspective, yet your profile says you're not an INFJ. What's going on there?|||The old man has a wife. The drunkard doesn't have a wife.  At first I wanted to give a direct reply but I think the story demonstrates the point.|||Terry Dobson's train story  THE TRAIN CLANKED and rattled through the suburbs of Tokyo on a drowsy spring afternoon. Our car was comparatively empty - a few housewives with their kids in tow, some...|||Don't let her see this thread.|||edit: changed my mind|||I managed to say sorry to be buggering you to a lot of people, until one of my martial art teachers told me that it really ISN'T a harmless mix of bugging and bothering.  Oops.  My excuse is...|||Eastern martial arts.|||Lady Rainicorn: Most people who are looking for dates or sex on the Internet are these for a reason. As someone said, the odds are good, but the goods are odd.  Those reasons vary wildly, and it...|||Because the risk of getting a potentially deadly lifelong disease is still way too high.  Even the errors aside, the chances of a condom breaking are at least 0.8%. A clean STD blood panel, though...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_an_YupJAI  Sorry, someone had to.|||One night stands get a lot less spontaneous when I demand that we both have an STD blood test first.  So no.|||Science fiction, plain fiction, action, and some dark things anonymously in deep hidden corners of the Internet.    I had an idea for a long time, but it's too outrageous and controversial, and...|||Easy. You're an   I N F (J+P)/2|||In my limited experience, INFJ<--->INTP are some of the hardest interactions to have. There are completely different wavelengths of thinking, the signals you're sending to your INFJ he's missing...|||http://i62.tinypic.com/25fli6b.jpg|||Same as any other person fitting the description of a sociopath, with the same potential for causing harm to other living beings.  Of course, a sociopath taking the Myers-Briggs test would likely...'