'So important. I want people who can be real, open, honest, gentle, sensual. Starting another thread on this topic now...|||Haha! Yeah, don't worry, I don't go there any more.  What made you suggest this?|||Oh OK, well that destroyed that theory lol. Exhausts my brain trying to figure out the female mind.  Here's the video:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mD3QrCr5LP8  She's amazing that girl....|||Hello raja.infj,  An x instead of a normal letter just is a placeholder for any of the possibilities that could go there so ExFJ = {ENFJ, ESFJ} and xxFJ = {ENFJ, INFJ, ESFJ, ISFJ}.  I saw a good...|||Hey  Felix5, great to hear I am not alone! I'm gonna send you a PM. Perhaps we can help each other.  Edit: Sent a PM but browser kind of hung for ages when I pressed submit. It's in my sent folder...|||I'm so weird guys, seriously. Even for an INTJ I'm damn weird. Sorry. I think. Maybe I'm not sorry. I've no idea. Hope you're having fun at least. A great evening of molten chocolate and wine for you...|||rezo Yes and no. Yes in the sense of yes. (Profound sentence there). And no in that I'm seeing a truth that some of these people I'm talking to are not very impressive at all in the grand scheme of...|||Theories I mistook I don't have any friends to mean you didn't have anyone. This invalidates most of what I said as it pertains to you. If you have your family and acquaintances and you are happy...|||Dude, not having any friends is bad unless you live in Siberia or you're a monk or something. As a vaguely normal human being I would like friends I just don't like the shitty people I have around...|||It's OK thanks I already have a pair. Sorry to hear about your horribly mutated testes you have growing out of each rib.|||Have low self-esteem Be lonely Have remarkable and eye-opening experience Self-esteem go up significantly Realize everyone you know is whiny, needy, or manipulative pussy Have a couple of angry...|||If you're anti-anti-stupid then you are pro-stupid.|||This is how Catwoman was made?! :O|||But you look like such a nice girl!  *ahem* I would love to fart on you|||So when I read your comment stathamspeacoat I immediately thought of what Shiver said about it possibly being very common. Then again I think there's truth to what you say: if I felt completely...|||I'm sorry to hear you had that experience. I hope it hasn't affected you too much.  That's hilarious   mytinyheart. I think it does show how an INTJ needs to learn to appreciate other people's...|||Thank you Maybe. I see I can PM you now—and presumably everyone else—but this wasn't available last night. Maybe a delayed response in the system? Because I definitely had more than 15 posts last...|||OK so first thing I should say is that this isn't sizing up the whole person this is just sizing them up relative to the things I care about. They might be really good at other stuff but if I'm not...|||Also what are the ranks and what does this activity level thing mean?|||I have only 1 male friend and a number of female friends. I love my female friends and I have no qualms about having many female friends but sometimes I wonder if I have some sort of slight hang up...|||Hello INFJs,  I wonder if any of you have any experiences dating or being in relationships with INTJs. How did it go? What did you think?|||Thank you for the invitation TipsyBlg but I don't think this would be rewarding enough for me now. If you wanna PM me ideas/questions or something I might have a read and give you my thoughts but...|||Haha, well I think your plan is brilliant. Make some NTJ friends. You're not a psycho, you're just strategic. You're not the soft fluffy INFJ either though.   Also don't bother with what other...|||Haha. OK buddy. I'll tell you something: I don't disagree!|||I would say INTJ too. You’re attracted to this guy, right? Sounds like he has some good stuff.|||Figuring out what you don't like is an important step in figuring out what you do. I'm just gonna throw out a bunch of questions.   * What do you like to do for fun? (Don't say play computer games...|||Are you trying to make a comparison here?|||What are these plans you are making that freak people out?|||I'm feeling much clearer on this issue now. I have a feeling the subjectivity of this topic will prevent my new views from being unanimously accepted here I think I have found the views that work for...|||Thank you for your responses.  That's an interesting question. I hope the answer is no though because isn't it good for building trust or simply just a way to challenge yourself? Also I just like...|||I've been reading this book called Sex for Smart Women. It's basically a series of dirty stories from the perspective of a woman who is  well connected with her sensual self and enjoys it. Towards...|||NT :: noot NF :: niff SP :: sip SJ :: saj|||This has probably already been done but I made up some silly names for the types that are more like words  ENFJ :: enfooj ENFP :: enflip ENTJ :: enterj ENTP :: entap ESFJ :: esafarj ESFP ::...'