'Except if it's paired with Fi, like ESFPs.  They love to control others to improve their feelings and associated self-image.|||NFs can get hurt by other types, unlike how an NF could be hurt by  another NF.  It's a matter of self-preservation.  SPs like to run away from relationships that NFs want to cherish, SJs can suck...|||I've been acting out against abuse lately.  I'm tired of being treated badly and expected just to take it.  It's worse whenever the people that I care about don't support me and just jab the knife in...|||Maybe you're an INFJ.  Fi is a shadow function for INFJs.|||I try to stay away from inviting people over or scheduling events, because I don't like getting let down.  I'll go along though, 95% of the time, if I get invited or asked out.|||You make great points.  I think I'm too sensitive, because I can pick up someone's use of a function very quickly. And unless I have something in common with that person, it's hard to work past a...|||Here's a linky ( What Color Eyes Would Your Children Have? ).  Press Click to begin and then How is eye color inherited?.  On the right, it shows that blue is never dominant, green is dominant...|||I say she's an ISFP.|||Over-aggressive Ti... hmmm... I guess that's why I've been called harsh.|||I find that I enjoy interacting with those who use the same functions as I do (NiFeTiSe).  And  I brush off someone if they're using Fi.  I usually think they're just trying to be selfish or...|||Ok.  Well, brown is dominant, so that makes it a default color.  My parents have green and green-hazel eyes.  From what I've read, green + green can equal brown.|||Yeah right.  Whatever...:dry:  :tongue:|||It's not that hard to figure out.  If an NF tends to overreact, then they probably will.  But if they don't, then they probably won't.  Duh...  :tongue:|||Lord of the Rings  (I could have been sleeping in my bed... not the theater seat.)|||What's wrong with brown? :mellow:|||OMG!  The whole 'switch-a-roo game' is emotionally frustrating, since it takes so much energy just to go outside the house. :blushed: I find we can deal with it by: being the leader and sticking to...|||I've been thinking the same thing...|||No.  Selfishness isn't a factor.  Giving to others is about them- Fe.  I worry about being selfish whenever I'm borrowing a friend's book or asking for a piece of someone's pizza... hurting or...|||Career change?  Find a nice lady who needs you to take care of her house and kitties.  That's what I need. :tongue:|||Ok... Lol! :crazy:|||You're just arguing to argue.  *yawn*|||If you don't believe in an unbiased heart, then you've never been rescued by an NF.  For many NFs, there are no repayments or kickbacks owed.  We just give (blindly) and that's it. Call it empathy...|||Typical... :bored:|||I'll second that! :happy:   ETA: I find that ISTPs are physically attracted to ISFPs, ESFPs, and ESFJs... until they lose interest and get annoyed or bored.|||...by enhancing other functions.|||Rouge, it's called having an unbiased heart... and it's beautiful.|||I do not believe that peoples' personality types (overall) change, unless under extreme circumstances like experiencing a psychological illness.  So, forcing a cognitive change is like trying to hold...|||I agree with you.|||It wasn't a spelling error.  You used the wrong word, twice.  There's a difference.|||I understand what you're trying to say, but teaching by example or teaching at all is a terrible way to orient a relationship. I've been there was ESTPs, and it just made me angry.    I had...|||It's too, not to. :confused:  We are egocentric. We love ourselves. We have way too much pride ... Hmmm.  No thanks.  I think I'll just stick to introverts.  I find them genuine.|||Here.  Let me answer. What a waste!  Why the eff should I have to save anyone in a romantic relationship?  What happened to love being the emphasis?  My mom had said something along those lines...|||Socionics.com says their hidden agenda is: to be loved. :shocked:|||Or maybe she doesn't like bold letters??? :wink:|||ISTPs are dolls.  They're adorable! :crazy:|||So are all of these questions part of a homework assignment?|||If I could go back, I would have done engineering and said **** off to all of the sites that say that INFPs, INFJs, and INFps make sloppy engineers.  I'm much happier figuring things out than...|||I like the challenge of math and science.  There are so many Ah Hah! moments... :crazy:  I've done my share of art, too.  And I have a BA in a foreign language. :proud:|||Exactly!  I miss my entire family right now.  My friends from back home, too.  Thankfully, I went out with my sister last night, and it was wonderful... like something out of a movie. :laughing:|||Awesome! :tongue: She's scary, because she lets what's inside out.  I'm not a very calm person inside either.  I have a lot of drive and with it comes intense thoughts, feelings, and emotions.  ...|||What exactly do they mean by Household Income???  Households can vary greatly!|||Deep, deep, down, to the deepest point of my inner self, I feel like this:  YouTube - Fiona Apple - Sleep To Dream (Live)   I tell you how I feel, but you don't care  I say tell me the truth,...|||Yep!  It's easier to cut them out of my life.  Where are the scissors? :wink:|||OMG!  She's an ESFJ.  I agree with my mom on this one. :wink:|||I find myself being a people pleaser.    I was called selfish so many times by my mother that I think pleasing people is a form of 'corrective behavior'. :unsure:|||Isn't it true, though? :crazy:  The best is how the Extroverted Thinkers text.  They're so funny...  You won't get a text from them for long periods of time, but whenever there's something going...|||From what I've noticed, ISTPs move horizontally through careers.  They sort of spread themselves out over an area of work, and try to learn a new skill set, technique, or job associated with what...|||No.  If you scored a 6 for Type 9, then that should be your basic type- since it's the highest score.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CiFH3XDeq4I&feature=related  INFJ? :blushed:|||OMG!  I love this song...  It's a little soft, but I would love to leave everything behind and walk out into a field barefooted and watch fireflies swarm.  It would be intoxicating!  And then maybe...'