'Well I would recommend talkingi than 4..practice for.being real when your nervous. For starters.. .. Out at a club so no doubt late I'll Have something more useful to say when I can sit down and...|||Yeah thanks for pointing that out. Maybe what I really meant.. Lol.|||nvm|||Im sorry that I dont really have much to contribute.. also I recognize that the following will likely not alleviate your feelings of uncertainty and for this I am sorry.  I have always been accused...|||hey, someone who has already been here. Thanks|||dupelicate|||this is an an embarrassingly accurate portrayal  of what happened.:proud:|||you started the op with the clear intention of using what you call conversational English and hence I have not one issue with your question. In my life I however frequently do find that people can...|||One of the problems I had in finding the best type fit was the description and presentation of the j/p dichotomy by no means have I spent an exceptional amount of time in study on this realm so im...|||lol I nearly had something to say about making universal claims that could never be validated.. but you already recognize this. carry on|||wow, funny how strong of an impression this made when I read it. Sometimes being dramatic can be so effective. Thanks. :kitteh:|||Im rather curious to know what you learned from this? having plans.. and other priorities in life is attractive.. but im not really sure I understand the desire to play the game.. to me. this just...|||I feel like pulling a Mr Rodgers.. I like you just the way you are.. one in 7 billion|||your hardly the  first person to ask this question.. mbti offers a kind of framework for understanding yourself and others.. something theoretically that enfj's probably could appreciate.. I think...|||projecting my voice back in time.. Im doing great almost one year ago|||hmm well  I have found that people have various levels of emotional  need regarding feeling like they are undestood/validated by others.. a person who is mostly unconscious of their own need for...|||also noticed that Etherea is now posting as an enfp..  Etherea now that I have your attention :tongue: im rather curious to know if there is thread regarding this decision...|||lets see. I joined.. ranted.. felt better.. left.. ranted.. felt better, left.. so given this history Ide say that I joined personality cafe so that I can act out an abusive codependency which can go...|||ok so looking over the history it appears I have been MIA for about.. 4 months or so.. and since It does feel rather much like barging into an old friends house without first calling to say hello.. I...|||Im certainly not here to dissuade you from finding a better way to communicate your boundaries regarding emotional disclosure. honestly, although I would feel somewhat rejected, stating simply that...|||I think its important that although we are playing with a  system of differentiation, to remember fundamentally that peoples needs are  very similar, physical, social, emotional,mental. making social...|||so your fundamentally unhappy that people who are not like you exist.. sorry no way to solve this..    honest and true criticisms are not alone enough or reason at all really.. to cause a person...|||I usually avoid threads like this since generally they are written by people trying to justify and use mbti to rationalize their personally negative stereotypes , see critical... however in another...|||what? I give light,friendly,supportive,full on, remorseful, loving and distant hugs, every day.. all depending on what the situation calls for.. Im not sure how trying to define the distinction in...|||the most precious thing any one person has is the time left remaining in their lives, I have a whole system where I try balance driving efficiently and safely out of consideration for not negatively...|||not an intj..  Fellow f dom here, girl honestly people oonly really learn from experiences, and its great that your willing to consider reconciliation, and I'm not trying to undercut That but, what...|||lol, while Its definitely a fact that it often easier for me to to communicate with women in general.. and I have some number as good friends.. I wouldn't describe there loyalty to me as being part...|||should I take it your trying to provoke a response? what is the point in expressing this?   there are some scenarios where this might not be taken as offensive special definitions.. perhaps...|||fun, some of the words in the last column in the second had certainly never before graced my eyes.|||with you on being nervous about medications, usually wont even take OTC.. Have to say I can relate to having partners become frustrated at me for having a naturally low labido.. and for me.. although...|||Welcome aboard, if anything were not shy.|||for a while I had a bit of an identity crises, I literally felt like something was very wrong with me for example not beinga able to honstly say I felt like color x was my favorite color.. in mbti I...|||This was a great laugh thanks, though Im not sure how useful it was to the OP.|||Yeah this is pretty close to how I feel about it. I|||= lol well.. interesting... sounds about right. I am always intruiged and attracted to the INTx's I love there minds, I have dated for sure at least 3... but things can be pretty hard on the side of...|||relationship question?|||this doesn't mean he isnt an  EXXX not that im saying he is.., it can be rather rude to constantly demand peoples attention.. or talk over them.|||for what is worth, feeling like it might be important to fit into the social role you assign yourself and that you behavior is consistent wit that role is also consistent with Fe. Your certainly not...|||I was trying to type myself as an I for quite some time.. the fact that nearly every profile casts extroversion as being outgoing/generally conformist/and somewhat shallow probably fits in here...|||I tried desperately not to conform to this in post 875... in the end I just couldn't help myself.|||while I cannot relate to the need to win wear the pants I think I do often come accross this way because, of the following as a caveat it actually might just be the connotation that those to...|||lol thats crazy talk.. Guess im actually with you on this one.. try explaining it to him the way I just did. Im really curious to know how he responds.  I suspect there is something else at the...|||sorry on this one im on your friends side  the technicality I dont understand how you seem to be missing.. is that language is by definition a social construct, language is symbolic, it exists as...|||never mind. its not really worth saying.|||Sounds like Fe. its possible your mistyped however what I think is most important in this case to point out is that human beings by their nature are emotional and people oriented mbti only effects...|||yeah, Fe is sensitive of how you are affecting others. talking about your personal feelings can feel selfish somtimes. and its hard not to beat yourself up in that case.|||lol yeah.. running a little low on sleep.|||derail? isnt that what the op is asking about?  a google search for internet slang, EXXP failed.. I take it you mean to say Except? I rather thought our posts were in agreement.. :confused: ...|||welcome milkshakes    this all depends how you are defining extroversion.. extroverted does not mean outgoing.. merely that you tend to be externally focused.just as introversion does not mean...|||Moved to rant section  edit: again..  this made it seem like I was ranting about infp's I wasnt feel free to check out the enfj rant section if your really that curious.'