'The possible reasons can be polar opposites. You can't really tell what that is unless he tells You.  I'm ignoring 3 people at the time.  One, because I know he's very interested in me and I'm...|||INTJs placed third, yay :kitteh:  Yes, ENTJs, I'd like to date You too, but I can't find You anywhere even remotely close to me, so, well :sad:|||Dear ENTJ males  Do You even live in Poland? I've searched the net thoroughly and You seem to be absent from my country whatsoever.  Sincerely  INTJ girl|||I am so glad this thread made it into the INTJ forum. I remember first seeing it at the INTPs'. At the same time we INTJs were having a serious discussion about effectively communicating with...|||Ten characters.|||I have seen Death Note twice, but please do sth with this post for those who haven't. It's a huge spoiler.  Light is an INTJ, although I'd have to consult my Death Note Fanbook for details (I don't...|||I didn't mean to say that INTJs don't repress stuff, because they do... I mean, we do :wink: My point is that repressed emotions aren't the reason we are logical and value reason. We just have been...|||Answering the OP:  Why are the fictional INTJs calm on the outside and emotionally disturbed on the inside? Because the world sees us as that. I have met people who were absolutely convinced that I...|||ISTJ. That's as close as you can get to being an INTJ without being an NT, I think.  I love my personality. I'd hate to be anyone else. Well, the other NTs are actually quite good alternatives, but...|||I just noticed that ISFJ and ENTP are polar opposites.  My God am I perceptive! :tongue:|||Um, no. I have typed the ISFJ. The Sensor one :happy:|||Self-sacrifice? Leave it to the ISFJ!  INFP is totally sacrifice-prone, but they would never have the guts not the decisiveness of the ISFJ to actually do it. Although they'd probably think about...|||Well yes, I meant that she is at her best when she uses that awesome spell :)|||Yup, Inoue at her best :cool:|||Hahaha! Hehe, ekhem.  Do not feed the troll, that's all I have to say on this matter.|||I'm glad that I could help and I really hope You're not limerent :happy:|||@blackguard   I really don't feel this is the right way... I'd rather advise trying to... erm, it feels wrong to say it as an INTJ in the INTJ subforum, but... :unsure: like, understand your...|||Um... You get some character development? Personal growth? Maybe :unsure:  I'd be careful with the joys, though. Remember fellas, love is joy ONLY when reciprocated, if not, it's living hell....|||I know a couple of ENTPs, they totally do this, I can bear witness :happy:|||Dude... (no pun intended, but...)  Dude! That's what ENTPs do! :tongue:|||OMG.  I know I can't find anyone to share life with and I'm a bit bored but I'm almost totally unrestricted in the way of people-ties (save two or three close friends). I understand Your point to...|||If I can offer anything, I remember You from some previous discussions on this forum and You seemed very INFJish to me. I'd even call You the typical example of an INFJ.  This is not meant in any...|||day_dreamer  I don't feel bad being single in general, but I definitely see some benefits steming from having a relationship.  I want to feel like someone cares for me in a more intimate way than...|||I advise to quit online dating. Unfortunately, it is usually being used as sexual emergency or the last resort for desperate people. Not everyone there is like that, but definitely the majority, from...|||It seems to me that this was written by a person who thinks that only feelings, emotions, souls, empathy and inner child hold true value. This person must be really frustrated when faced with the...|||This argument is completely irrelevant. I always hear it when I say that children are stupid and make no sense. But you were a child too! Someone had to take care of you! Ha! What do you have to say...|||So totally true, all You've said there. I'm 23, so I'm not that different :wink: I'm just geting recently one of those phases I'm 23 already and I still don't have a boyfriend, what's wrong with...|||Yeah, but it's really frustrating. For some reason I come off as intimidating (like some of You have already described Yourselves) and I am rarely approached by guys. And then, just when I think that...|||My God, that link was hilarious.  It also explains why most people say/show me that I'm physically attractive, but no one actually pursues me romantically. If they do, however, it turns out that...|||Dralud  You're an INTJ, so I believe that we operate more or less in the same way. I've been there before and I can tell You what helped me. Basically, when I have a problem, I have to think it...|||Hey fellas.  First, I tried to search the forum for such a thread and nothing came up. If there is one, please link to it and I'll be done here.  I stated this in a couple of my posts, but I, a...|||Action Potential  What I meant is that many girls live in a world where the type of your skirt relates to your life to that extent even though in many cases there is no such relation. I really...|||Unfortunately, as has already been mentioned, many women encourage this. There are many girls who think that their good or bad luck depends on the lenght of their skirt (ex.1: I had a mini today so...|||Haha :laughing:|||INTJs dating INTJs?  OMG The Awesomness|||Well, I'm not pissed or something. I just don't like people labeling my personality as a disorder that I have because apparently I do not fit into the society. I don't have to be merry and outgoing...|||I know. I don't think You tried to offend me or anyone else. It's just that Your post makes our personality traits not normal, steming from an unhealthy relationship with the world. You also...|||I do think I'm somewhat special, but then again there are many people just like me so most probably in the end I'm not that special. I am a silent observer. I am active in the artistic fields...|||When I hear a love song, I always think: Heh, they make it sound so beautiful and what not, but it's just a natural instinct to fuck each other. Haha. I really started noticing how people glorify...|||The kids in elementary school were unpleasant (because I had best grades with no effort), but I didn't notice that much. My parents were hellish, trying to make me into someone I could not and would...|||lirulin: Oh no, I didn't feel discredited by Your post :) I just thought that compared to Your description about natural personality traits, mine was rather like I fell hard for an idiot, got...|||Having read the above post, I think I should probably clarify: right now the way I perceive love and relationships is because of the limerence (and somewhat of a trauma), but I'm not holding...|||Unrequited limerence. Lasted 2,5 years, took another 1,5 to kill it completely. I fought bravely and I won, though in the process I lost my innocence and faith in love and became a cynic. Changed my...|||*in a dreamy voice* Because we are so unique.  Ok jk, I just read the Enneagram Four thread about just how unique every one of them is. It's been a couple of weeks and I still think it's funny, and...|||Ahahahaha-StephenieMeyer-hahahaha.  Ekhem.  As for character development, do You know she actually believes that Bella changed throughout the books and is a completely different person at the end...|||It didn't bother me as much in Death Note as in some other productions. I think that DN, apart from obviously requiring the explanation, does it in more realistic ways. I can easily believe that L...|||It somewhat bothers me (but in a humurous way) when the characters do things just for the sake of the audience. Like explaining things to other characters. Well we're both intelligent and we've both...|||INTJ = I Need To Judge. 'nuff said.  It's not mine and everyone has heard it probably, but I think it fits me the best.  Something else? Uhh... Irony Never Tastes Jovial?|||I don't think he was nervous, it wasn't our first meeting just the two of us.  It seems he didn't go to the cinema to actually see the movie, but just to go to the cinema with me. He said he was...|||I have acquainted a guy who is a Master Of Smalltalk. I didn't mean to acquaint him, I swear! It just happened. He likes me, so he wants to meet me every now and then. It was ok at first, I got used...'