'I couldn't handle an ENFP partner. It would be far to chaotic/volatile etc. I would likely feel smothered (it takes very little for me too feel smothered by men in relationships). I need someone to...|||Exactly. I so highly value my reputation of being someone who is good and trustworthy, that being falsely accused of something would devastate me.|||I would have a serious problem. It would hurt my feelings deeply that someone thought I was capable of this bad thing I had supposedly done. I would do everything in my power to prove my innocence in...|||I'm a Pisces. So Pisces it's not even funny.....|||maybe not so much my friends, but in partners, I tend to go for the wounded types...I'm all my love can heal your wounds!!!! I guess I have a Savior Complex or something. Any other ENFPs like that?...|||Guilty. :blushed::laughing:|||and I accidentally hit E instead of I, so it's a tiny bit skewed....:blushed:|||THIS SO MUCH!!!!! YES! We once had an argument that LITERALLY led to me packing up everything I own and deciding to never come back. What started this terrible argument, you ask? She made chicken pot...|||Oh we got along fabulously when I was in high school and she was in complete control (straight A's, never acted out, never did a bad thing EVER). But even though I still live at home, it's not as...|||I guess all that's left is to decide how much you're willing to take. Whether or not this is a dealbreaker for you. If he's not willing to change, you'll just have to either put up with it or leave....|||An ENFP would walk through the woods ALONE!?! :shocked::wink:|||:( that is a problem. I'm sorry that he isn't more respectful of your opinions/feelings.|||Aww. Just knowing that there is someone else out there who has been in the same situation (freakishly similar, actually! WEIRD!!! HAHA!) makes me feel better. At least I am not a terrible...|||The timing of these conversations is very important, too. If you ask him to rephrase when he's already upset, he won't react favorably--he'll likely want to rebel, which is what it sounds like he's...|||OOOOOO!!!!!! Is this ok to do!?!?! I have been wanting to ask my ISTP if when he needs alone time he can just say, I need to be alone rather than, I don't want company. Because the latter makes...|||You're welcome. And I know it must hurt your feelings, but I doubt that is his intention. Try not to take it personally (very much easier said than done, I know). (((HUGS)))|||*SIGH* and I'm almost 24. I just wish she was willing to do something about it. I've recently started dating a man that I'm fairly sure she won't approve of (even though he's a great guy. She just...|||So are you saying that the 2 of you are basically cooped up in your room/apartment/house together all day, every day? If so, then I'd say he's probably just extremely overstimulated. He needs space...|||Anyone else having a bitch of a time with an ESFJ mother? How I wonder how many ENFPs were raised by ESFJs (it seems like it could be a common occurrence....I might make a poll). My mother and I have...|||I'm pretty sure he thinks you two are soulmates and he thinks he's biding his time until you figure it out or he changes your mind. I'd say you're probably fucked. Sorry to be so pessimistic, but my...|||ISTP (I'm in love...it requires a humongous font size, what can I say?)|||a little cheesy, but interesting. I'll play along :happy:  1. My boyfriend 2. a deer 3. we look at each other 4. big with a porch swing 5. no 6. colorful plates and table cloth 7. (I actually...|||awwww thank you. I am so happy. Seriously. I just keep trying not to mess it up. HA! :wink:|||My ISTP kissed me first...and it was awesome. We were watching a movie at his place, and he just turned to me, scooped me up in his arms, and kissed me. GREAT first kiss. But I'm sure he wouldn't...|||I think it must have been written about an ISTP :laughing:|||There are times when I see a look in his eyes that looks like love to me. I think he is beginning to love me, even though he may not have even realized it himself yet. But I don't care how long it...|||We've been seeing each other for a little over 4 months, but we work together and have been acquaintances for almost 2 years (he got my number and started texting me in August, we started hanging out...|||I sent him this one in reply.    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QjsjZWlRVvo|||A couple nights ago, my ISTP started sending me youtube videos of various love songs, including these 2:    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-5yKaj3kGrQ  ...|||Yep. It's never with malicious intent, and we don't really even view our behavior as manipulative, but it is perceived that way by others at times. I don't know what to do about that....:unsure: ...|||I don't think I know any NJ's, but that does sound like it would make for a very odd individual.....|||Sorry for hijacking momentarily (I seem to do that in pretty much every thread here....I am going to get a reputation....) :blushed:  My ISTP and I work together and I have had a raging crush on...|||I agree. And I would potentially be in big trouble with this issue, but luckily for me, I am insanely attracted to by ISTP guy. We are working on the emotional part (he is really trying and it is so...|||Our brains work the same way and we understand where the other person is coming from and vice versa. It's rare and wonderful to be understood in such a way. But I couldn't handle an ENFP romantic...|||I didn't vote in your poll because I'm not INTJ, but I got a 7. ENFP gets a 7!?! I guess we're not all warm and cuddly afterall.....*evil laugh*:laughing:|||You and I are the same on this--I tend to see it as more merciful (that word makes me sound conceited....) to just be up front with someone if I'm not interested, rather than string them along just...|||That is SO true. It's torture for us, especially if we are interested in you but don't know how you feel about us. We struggle with building up fantasies in our minds that often times have nothing to...|||This happens to us a lot, actually. Part of it comes from us being oblivious to reading your signs. But, unfortunately, if she said she just wanted to be friends when you called your movie a...|||My mother is ESFJ and we have some serious relationship problems. She is very manipulative and controlling, but with her weak intuition, she can't see it at all, so I see no chance of her changing...|||IMO a potential false positive mostly comes with an ENFP not being romantically interested in someone. If I like someone just fine as a friend, but I feel that he is interested in me in a romantic...|||ISTP is where it's at. :laughing:|||that's appreciated too. :wink:|||Oops. Yeah, it probably doesn't make sense, but we just manage to make ourselves feel really insecure about that. For me, the internal dialog starts, He didn't want to kiss me goodbye. Is he upset...|||this. :happy:|||oh yeah, I've totally hijacked this thread.....my bad! :crazy:  Nope, not SEX, but we have done things (bjs and the like). I'm pretty sure it's going to happen soon though. Sex is something that...|||You must be my sister because I'm pretty sure we have the same mom. I came over to this forum to get advice for my relationship with my mother, and this is almost my exact situation. Why is there so...|||We haven't fought yet, but we have had serious discussions about things that bother us. He is the most level-headed person I've ever seen when it comes to arguing. I am GREAT at keeping my cool until...|||Awww!!  What was your time frame with this--how long were you talking before you went to her house? When you asked her out, do you mean you started dating or you started considering her your...|||I almost always initiate the cuddling. When we're on the couch watching a movie or something I just take his arm and tuck mine in under his and we often hold hands, or I lightly rub/scratch his...|||LOL! Interestingly, we had our defining the relationship talk after we went to a bar and people repeatedly spoke to him and referred to me as your girlfriend. For example, we were standing next...'