'NIHM While NIHM has her INTJ husband, I've got my INTJ girlfriend. Dating/girlfriend, I don't even know what to call it these days. I loved the way    Tridentus put the INFP/INFJ/INTJ bonding...|||For sure. I appreciate the response. She came back today. It's been 6 weeks and we're meeting at a park to go hike. Excited. Everything worked out as far as the long distance. The whole...|||Coffee shops, parks, libraries, outside, inside, lost in the woods. The better question would be how do you spot an ENFP? You INTJs draw me in very quickly. The stoic, lack of expression on your...|||Always loved and excelled at FPS's, but had a difficult time with Turok.|||I'm not sure what that means.|||Great advice. The one thing you said really stood out to me Keep reminding yourself that space for your INTJ means they will be happier, instead of taking it personal. I'm learning that. I feel...|||Haha, I can see how it could look like cat fishing. But speaking of reboot - she did mention at times she can get stuck and she almost becomes totally detached from reality. Like she is just going...|||She ended up calling me yesterday night. And you're right, and I know this - you guys don't like small talk. I can feel that. It will take time to get used to the lack of communication. After such...|||Was in the classroom today and about lost it. Was on the 15th hour and the mental fog and shear emotional fatigue started to affect every aspect of my being. I pushed through though and made it. The...|||I appreciate the responses. I got good information. She got in touch this morning. Onward and into the unknown we go.|||Here's to another ENFP/INTJ thread. I'm coming here because I really don't have anywhere else to turn who may understand at the level in which I hope to relay. Of course this is a relationship...|||How much weight have you lost? I've been doing 16/8 intermittent fasting for several days now. For me, it was less about weight loss and more about will-power. I don't want to be controlled by my...|||Of course that's solid. Are you asking because you are unsure or just updating on the awesomeness? If you are unsure - you'll be reminded everything's ok in due time - I go through that with my INTJ....|||Haven't seen you in a minute. Good to see you back.|||Keep writing stuff. That was quality right there.|||I should be going to bed. Going to type this in one go and fast, but with heart. I've been dating/bf/gf INTJ for a few months now. I saw her get off the bus to volunteer. I was like, who the hell is...|||For me, it would to be direct. You can be direct and want to hang out again. Like I had a really good time the other night, we should get together again. Or non-direct I had a really good time...|||Like others have said, all of this is pure speculation. Who the hell knows. It could be anything. But making out with someone and feeling those feelings would leave me to believe that a second sort...|||Shot at me or am I sensitive?|||I'm sure a lot of people who feel awkward inside don't show it on their face. You wouldn't know it. High school with the hormones, acne, and caring so much about image - glad I'm older.|||atamagasuita Weren't you ENFP not long ago? Or am I trippin|||ENFP to INTJs: -The ability to not talk when around one another and feel totally at ease - same wavelengths -I want to follow your lead  -I want to open that heart of yours -You ground us -To...|||Wait until she gets back to you? It doesn't sound like ghosting as she hasn't been on social media. If she's not feeling it, there's not more you can do, but if she is, she'll get back to you....|||I don't seek people-power. Or that's not how I view it. I guess I lead with my values and others either accept it or don't. Although, I feel like I'm convincing in my efforts as I believe I have a...|||Where does my understanding of what is moral or truthful come from? That's a great question. Functionally speaking, it comes from Fi. Since I was a child, protecting and being aware of the feelings...|||To be honest, your description of how you incorporate your Fe sounds a lot how I use my Fi. I will speak up when I feel someone is leading another down the wrong path. Usually this revolves around...|||I've been seeing an INTJ for little over a month and we just made things official last weekend. When I saw her for the first time, I was literally a moth to a flame. I saw her from afar and was in...|||Those who have Aspergers have been some of the most honest and genuine people I've met. They told things how they were and how they saw them. No sugar coating or beating around the bush. To me, this...|||I've always taken the good route when it comes to video games or characters in general - the knight in shining armor or what have you. I've never understood the people who go the bad route as I...|||I find this true of me too. I choose the person I want to be friends with and just make it happen. Something about their character entices me and lures me in. I'm friends with everyone, but it takes...|||I know exactly what you mean. But you said it yourself, trust that intuition. It's gotten you this far and it won't stray you down the wrong path either. Intuition and the heart are our greatest...|||Welcome dude. I also like the Sam Harris podcast. I love how he starts out each podcast with Welcome to the Waking up Podcast, this is Sam Harris...Ok - lovable robot.|||Remember to tread lightly on the stereotypes of personality types. If my heart is in it, I'm in it. And my only experience of this has been the recent girl I've met. We've been seeing each other for...|||Anger and desire? I like words like compassion for oneself, acceptance, and observing and letting go of resistance. Advising anger and desire to someones seems like the wrong path to go down.|||I'm with angelcat. I've never door-slammed someone. There's too many chances to make things right again and I let that space stay there. I don't like hurting people either. I've also never been...|||Loved this.|||Haha. Yeah, I like Te. He gets me places and makes things happen. Your Te might make you emo, but black eyeliner is cool. Slap that Te around!|||Coagulated Magic Just now seeing this. Interesting that you've come to terms with Si as this can be our most dangerous trait to fall into. I'm not entirely sure or understand exactly what it means...|||Welcome dude! Hope your time here is awesome.|||Hmm. Like others have said, I don't really get embarrassed. I'm a sociable free spirit in the sense that I will talk about anything to anyone. The dude at auto zone had long hair and I asked how long...|||Today I did something I haven't done in a long time. I did nothing. I came home from work, took a nap from exhaustion, made dinner, came back into my room, and found myself just kind of sitting here....|||It looks like us ENFPs are split on the exciting part. Personally, I get the party rolling. When me and the coworkers are eating lunch, I'm usually the one that gets everyone laughing. Usually by...|||I agree with Ultra Violet. There's a level of grounding that I found truly unique and special. There was an INFJ girl who I worked with who I'd see on occasion. The first time I met her, I felt so...|||I think what you describe is called 'FOMO' - Fear Of Missing Out. A lot of ENFPs I've come across share this trait. I'm less FOMO, but I definitely go into new ideas with high amounts of enthusiasm...|||Yes. As I've gotten older, I've gone from having crushes on girls who I thought were pretty and not doing much about it, to having interests in girls with whom our personalities have a peanut butter...|||I think ENFPs are natural comedians. Less jokes, but just a natural funny charm. No twitter handle though :frustrating:|||Your writing style is very emotionally connective. A kind of listening, non-judgmental, and warm connection. I bet if you asked the people in your life how they felt about your connection with them,...|||Hard work. Give it your 100%. Failure is not an option. 1st, 2nd, 3rd place. Work hard, play hard. If you're not first, you're last (lol). Putting in the right amount of effort into what you're...|||ENFP dude here. Screw em'. Your ex's 'too nice' suggestion was like a child in the kitty pool (filled with pee). Keep spreading that love. The right one will come.   As far as the rubber band...|||I'm in the untamed and wild ENFP look. Hardly ever use gel. I like running my hands through it front to back.'