'I want to be less apathetic, hopeless, and fearful of failure. I want to be more thoughtful, more knowledgeable, and more open-minded.  And I want to sleep with my neighbor. Constantly.|||I'm not sure. I'm just so used to zero tolerance being the hugest lie of the countless lies public schools spout.   EDIT: I wish there was more I could say, but I just start furiously ranting.|||Not.|||Ah! I see. I get what you mean here, and I've always found family dynamics interesting especially because people make it out to be such an important thing, but so many families are just groups of...|||I assume that most people actually have depth, but personal depth isn't  really something you share with strangers which is why you might think  it doesn't exist. I think that to see the depth and...|||:3 Welcome to the INFJ forum, where the feels run wild, free, and strong!||||: I'm not welcoming you unless you're an INTJ.|||Me and my SO. A corgi and a german shepard. One or two cats. Maybe a snake.|||I'm listening to nothing more often than I'm ever listening to something.|||I'm sure you're making the right call here, but I do feel the need to say that in time you'll probably need to forgive her for your own sake. Not in the sense that you ever take her back or try to...|||I was accidentally induced and born a week early as a result. OOPS I don't know if it was easy, but my mom always says it was the easiest pain to forget.|||It took a second, but this title really made me laugh.|||Not sure if I'm disgusting or just absolutely terrible. Tough call.|||Yep. I used to be all up in arms about how you drop a cheater like a bad  habit. I was raised this way. I heard about people staying together  after they cheated/were cheated on, and I just thought...|||Thanks for the post. XD And as someone that used to be Mormon (currently an atheist), I know quite well that there are just a ton of Mormons everywhere. EVERYWHERE.  e_e Your aunt sounds perfectly...|||Obligatory Sartre Quote|||I can be and often am super silly, but I have to work my way into it as I get more comfortable with people.  As I meet new people I'm very quiet and reserved, and then I devolve (or maybe evolve?)...|||The older I get, the less I like them. I can't stand getting together with anyone beyond my mother, father, and sister. I'm not sure if it's just because I'm in a phase, or if this is how it will...|||Firstborn.   Older by about nine years. lewl.  Capricorn.|||My SO and I sort of struck out into a really good path since this post (after a few hard knocks), and I feel like we're both a little better at accepting that the other person means what they say/we...|||One of my favorite INTJs|||If I go to bed at 9 or 10 is pretty easy to get up at 4. And strangely rewarding.|||Night owl. It's the only way I can happily function.  If I have to wake up early I prefer to be up by 4 AM.|||I look damn good with a goatee.|||Occasionally.  I'm 5'2, so when someone is intimidated by me it lights up my fucking day. I LIVE for those moments.|||Top 5 Characteristics: 1) Quiet Confidence 2) Ability to express emotions, doesn't need to be good at it, just needs to be able to do it 3) Intelligent 4) Good sense of humor 5) Works hard when...|||There were two specific things he mentioned, but I only remember the bit about practicing medicine. Perhaps the other was just general big business. To my understanding the sort of job he was talking...|||I'm majoring in Theatre Design and Technology, so LOL I'm sort of  useless on providing info for good majors over here in my dinky little  theatre corner. But I'll try to help.  History and...|||I screwed up royally recently, and it haunts me. I've been doing things, but at some level they all feel like a distraction.  However, I've been catching strong glimpses of how beautiful life can...|||I'm 19 and about to move in with three 24 year olds trying to figure out just the same thing. I'll let you know if they find us any shortcuts or some such.|||I dunno how I feel about the idea of needing to be friends first. Before my relationship there was a period of getting to know you, courting I guess you could call it, but we both went into it...|||I think that's a pretty spot on estimation of the best way for an INFJ to seduce someone. I'm all about trying to understand people, and I think I would say I have a particular knack for appearing...|||Well, can you blame me for trying?|||Fuck if I know. I am as alluring as a box of rocks. I talk like a dishwasher, walk with way too much tension held in my shoulders, and any attempts to be seductive always ended up with me feeling...|||Seriously? Neither is more important. You choose which is more important to you and that makes you who you are.  I will say this, being happy is a choice. It might be a hard choice sometimes, but...|||This, man. This|||I'm too lazy to look into studies and all that, but I will say that I feel the system works against my introverted tendencies, so whether it's healthy or not is sort of a non-issue to me.   I will...|||Well, fuck. Don't tell her that, because she will be all up on that shit.  But yeah. She's gonna just have to deal. She knows herself, and she knows she will live. If you WANT you can tell her...|||Fo sho', OP. Just admit who you really are and she'll probably run for the hills. Problem? SOLVED.|||Actualize one of my many ideas.   Ideas are for sure my thing, but I'm shit at creation, which is disheartening.|||I dunno if it's the same boat, exactly, but my boat is headed to the same destination all the same, I guess.|||Oh, oh. Do me next. Is my avatar NF-y?|||We'll call you Dr. Badass|||.-. Ain't fillin' in for nobody who is out drinkin' unlessin' you're providing drinks.|||Why do you always double post?  Because fuck the police, that's why.|||No way, man. I banish you from these lands and curse you for daring to call yourself whatever you feel most comfortable calling yourself. A pox upon you and your kind. Don't call us; we'll call...|||No worries, bro. I have way less posts than you.|||I can't remember when or why it happened, but a few times since I started high school and maybe once since I graduated I've felt like I'm completely separate from my body. It was like I was a...|||I'm good at thrusting, which is an awesome thing to be good at.|||The INTJs I know are actually more of the video game type.'