'being a vet myself. But a submariner... I can't say i'd be much help. However.... Def talking to people who have exprienced similar situations as you can help alot. Surely, a rape victim and an iraqi...|||lol infj's tnd to bully themselves. We dont rly need to pick on other ppl...|||lmao... i'm just gonna leave this alone.   thanks for having your own opinion. thanks for sharing it.|||i have noticed something in experience with super douches. Public humiliation works wonders on them. The best way is when you can make fun of them and yourself in front of others so that there is no...|||I LIKE THIS CAUSE!!!  but i dont think this will work either. But def... A method of sterilization. Or just focus on those starving ppl *here* who are dying all around us but we are too busy...|||i was a infp for one test. But i have a causes to share if its okay...  My cause is green living. But i take it a few points further... Survivalism. Prepare for the day the system melts down......|||i tell myself i'm a genius and that im unique and that however i'm doing whatever is exactly the way its supposed to be done.  it doesnt matter if its true. I dont usually believe it for long...|||LMAO! You pretty much found our secret hide out. He keep to ourselves alot.   you've probably met us before but didnt know you did. We r diff ppl in public then we r in private. Sometimes... Polar...|||i should point out the irony in your post. what your saying is that even though it is my nature to do what i do (meaning thinking about humanity at large) is what i shouldnt do because it goes...|||thanks Azure Bass... Perhaps, as Collectve83 suggested... i need to ask myself why more...   and i certainly hope i find what i'm looking for too... Whatever the hell that may be.   It (what i...|||i try to make it easy.... I thought the question marks would make it easy to figure out what i was asking. I am certainly losing my touch in the form of written communication.|||i dont think anyone actually read what i wrote... Lol... Oh well. Another dead thread!|||i don't bother dealing with ppl like that. My mom is a major negative critic of mine.  she watches tv all day and when she sees me writing she's like... Thats not a real job. I told her... The...|||lol I wonder if the question is a little too broad?  like r you wonderng if we identify with it? Or how we feel about it? Or do you you have something specific your looking for to discuss about the...|||lol  nice...  thanks for that! Guess i'm reviving it! Haha... Oh well. What i said is still valid.|||WHOA! Slow down with assuming that all infj's are like that!  the truth is... *anyone* can becoming controlling. Given enough hurt pain and negative experiences.... Everyone is capable of...|||hmmm... I guess thats as good a reason as any. I tend to do that too. I used to defend kids in high school who got picked on alot... Anywho... I wish i could help more but the situation seems likeeee...|||sweet! Just the reaction i was hoping for!   Wish you well!|||Hmm... Does anyone else make dcisions based on the greater good of humanity?  not sure how to rly put that into words...  but i was asked whether i strongly agreed down to strongly disagreed...|||My teacher asked the class whether we strongly agreed, agreed, no opinion, disagree, or strongly disagreed about the following:  ppl who *know* they have a disabling or terminal hereditary/genetic...|||Nice to meet you!  And congrats on your return from the center of the earth! :p  hope all is well in there! :p what am i talking about? Ur an infj!  you're built for that! Lmao...  anywho... I...|||lol SILENT... I hope you werent bitching about me in all that. Honestly, i was rly just joking that *one* time i kinda sorta talked to you on my thread.   not that i feel guilty or anything. I...|||hmm... Maybe you should find him on facebook and ask him. If it was that serious (to him it musta been) he probably still remembers what you did. Then you can tell us!|||my ex and i went to a movie theater to watch a movie. And we r the only ppl in there. And so my gf... Always the lil rascal... Reaches into my pants and whips me out.  She plops me in her mouth......|||lol... I'm not an infp... But i like to think im close enough. Lol   here is what helps me.  i automatically assume she totally doesnt like me at all. I get it in my head that she wil nvr give me...|||i am a middle of the road 5' 11...|||if he always turns away when you look at him its cuz he was staring at you. Lol  But your best best is to just ask him cuz we can see everything in your soul except the fact that you have a crush...|||i hate our generation of hedonistic selfish brats. Thats probably why my last gf was 56. and i'm 28.   it didnt work out though... she turned out to be almost as flakey. and i just couldnt handle...|||aww man... This is like so just half the story! I wanna know what you did beforehand! Maybe you were talking to a girl he liked.  Idk if this holds true or not fr anyone else but i used to *hate*...|||Rah Meqqah  well, i'm black, white. And puerto rican. So it may not come as a suprise when i say:  this was my chosen rap name/stage name. But then, i nvr did want to *actuall* be on stage so i...|||well... Far be it for me to buck the wise words of other infj's but...  screw that... There is nothing wrong with trying to be the best!!! And not excepting less!  however, we do have to let it...|||yeah... I think you should evaluate why you rly want to help her?  i think what you've written tells more about you then her. Not saying that you are anything like her, just saying that the things...|||LMAO! First... I must say... Souled In... Omg... Definately.  with the only exception being when girls say no. that was a bit too much i'd say. I actually have the opposite experience to that....|||i'm an infj with a type 7 enneagram. Lol hear that is pretty unique.  And it explains why i argue myself to a standstill in nearly every case. Lol  i also think i'm a genius. I just haven't...|||excellent Meow... Now thats some worthwhile reading!  i have no concept of the world outside of the us, but my intuition... Lol... Tells me that yeah... The us education system *is* a joke. And as...|||wait... That guy wasnt my type! Screw him.... Lol|||lmao.... Not the kind of responses i was hoping for. Poopcicle.  Hmm... I was hoping to discuss whether the college experience is of actual merit or not.  my choice to go to a stupid college...|||oh.... And please please please!  We kindred spirits here... So would you please be so brave, yet again, to keep us informed of the stutus of everything??!!  i personally think you are...|||Personally, as a hopeless romantic... You have done exactly what i wished i could have done all those years ago.   holy jesus, bless your heart!  i'm not even religious but seriously... That's...|||oh... Ok. I won't lie then and be perfectly frank. I think the other guy was better to help you. Cuz i think we speak different languages completely. Lmao...   As for the last part. About holding...|||to continue... (my phone has a char limit...)  Maybe that could be useful to someone else in here?  another thing is... And this was my original idea til it got sideswiped by my previous...|||hmm... I certainly feel the same way, as i expect we all do as INFJ's.   I personally loathe compliments. Especially physical or sexually suggestive comments from the opposite sex. I just don't...|||i'd love to help and feel rly rly special doing it, but i unfortunately don't understand the question. What is it that you want help with?  can you say it a wee bit clearer? Or bluntly if you...|||Alright. This will be my first thread so please flame me to the maximum extent so we can get it over with quickly...   i'm sensitive!  anywho... I attend the university of phoenix in phoenix,...|||lol non-INFJ's opinions...  as for not labeling... Everyone labels. Even the certain someones talking about not labeling ppl is labeling those that do label in a round-about fashion.   we judge....|||oh yeah. Curious brings up a good point about not going just to see her.  I could said this a whole lot clearer... Ugh mobile phone editing sucks!  anyway,  about the meeting... You could also...|||yeah... I'm a guy. But my advice is valid and in line with the women here. You're dealing with an INFJ, so you should ask her those questions.  you see how some of these girls are getting ruffled?...|||By the way... I dont think ruthless is actually the right word for it... I think coldblooded would be more accurate.  But when we are happy... Mmm... Its a wonderful, magical experience for all...|||first, i am kinda suprised you know so many INFJ's... crazy...  but to reply to that i would say hell yeah we'd hide the hurt! if you have been cut out of our lives, you dont *get* to see how much...|||i tested as an INFP once or twice... But my gf rly is an INFP... And she has awesome hair and beautiful eyes! :D   sry for intruding on y'alls party like this... had to rep it for my lady! woot! ...'