'Oh man do I understand!  As an ENFP woman who has been in a relationship with an ISFJ man for the past few years, let me tell you I know exactly what you are talking about!  I love him so much but...|||There are people that randomly hate me.  Usually it seems to be out of jealousy or maybe they come into contact with my silly side and find me obnoxious.  If its people on an online forum they may...|||I have an ISFJ male friend plus more that I absolutely adore!!  He is the best! :wink:  Now that said we have some difficulties sometimes understanding one another and I think its due to personality...|||Complaining about me being late.  It's annoying, calm down.|||Yeah, I think you are probably right.  It's not like a super serious thing for me anyway.  I just have this kind of infatuation with him and it fluctuates- sometimes not so much.  :tongue: I do drop...|||Hmmm...points wrapped in jokes huh?  I will have to think back to all the things he has seemingly joked about..haha  As for being open and direct... despite being extroverted I have my shy...|||I might have to try something like that...lol  I made a comment once about there not being any good guys around here and he told me I need to move.  I don't think that was a loaded comment or...|||LOL, he does kind of flirt with me and has made some sort of sexually suggestive comments towards me.  He also calls me darling and stuff like that but its all in jest so its hard to tell.  He...|||I think I'd die if I told him and he flat out rejected me. :shocked:  It may be better never to say anything :unsure:  I would like some idea of what his opinion of me is first...so I'm looking for...|||I am totally infatuated with this INTJ guy that I only know online.  :blushed:  When I first read something about INTJ's and ENFP's being the perfect match and saw various INTJ's saying they wanted...|||I love your thorough posts Teddy!  I don't think you come off as obsessed at all.  You have a lot of insightful things to say, thank you!  I will probably even follow some of your advice!:happy:|||I'm sorry you feel that way!:unsure:  I think we are just really expressive with our feelings and it can come across as dramatic sometimes.  We aren't doing it to annoy anybody, just being real about...|||It IS the same guy Teddy and I loved your post! :happy:  I think you are right that I should tell him that stuff! I am an ENFP so I tell him all the time how wonderful he is...lol, but I wonder if...|||Thank you!  That is very helpful and I think you are right.  We have had a long distance relationship and don't get to see each other as often as people who have been dating that long often do, so it...|||We have been together about 2 and a half years.  He has told me some things but it can be hard to draw him out and he gets uncomfortable if you ask him too much. :tongue:|||I asked because my ISFJ guy...it seems like he doesn't tell me that much.  On the other hand, he is the person I tell like everything that I don't tell other people.  When I ask him about it he says...|||Are you kidding me??:shocked: My ISFJ guy is WONDERFUL!!:happy::happy: I adore him!:happy:   He has soooo many strengths! I don't know what I would do without him!:blushed:  He is a FANTASTIC...|||As ISFJ's do you ever really open up to anyone and share your deep down feelings or do you always keep them to yourself?|||Having been married to an INFP I will have to say our differences were really pretty big.  Someone recently described him as phlegmatic and me as dynamic so energy levels are definitely a big...|||Yeah, I'm definitely burnt out and still pretty freshly out of the relationship so I may change my mind eventually. :laughing:  I was 20 yrs old when I got married and 18 when we started dating...|||In a committed relationship for 15 years (and I felt like I'd been committed by the end of it!!) with an INFP.  13 years of marriage, 13 years of monogamy, only the first couple years were...|||I am a Virgo with Libra moon and Aquarius rising but I have always hated the Virgo descriptions!  I don't think they sound much like me at all!!:tongue:|||I'm not really capable of hate I don't think, even when someone hates me.  I always see their good points as well as the bad ones and it is almost impossible for me to hold a grudge.|||This is very helpful!  Thank you!:happy:  He always says he loves those things but sometimes I get to feeling otherwise or am unsure about his reactions.  He will go into lecture mode and I feel like...|||Well....I sometimes idealize commitment and think how I can be so committed...and later find out otherwise, so I'm not gonna say that is my strong point.:blushed:|||I have an ESTJ sister in law.  It took a long time for us to really get to know each other because we are so different...but we get along well mostly now and see a lot of each other.  :happy:  She is...|||So to turn this around a bit...what can someone do to make an ISFJ feel loved? :happy:|||Ha ha!  I was all confused too...LOL:laughing:|||How do you ISFJ's show love for someone you are in a relationship with?  What kinds of things do you do to demonstrate that you love them and how do you act towards that person?  Do you take the...|||I am feeling happy with my ISFJ guy again...LOL :laughing:  I just recently had a situation where I really needed some advice and of course he was the first person I turned to.  He's so rational and...|||My probably best female friend of all time is another ENFP!!  We are crazy together...LOL  One of my other very good friends is an ISFJ (female).  Some of the others I just don't know for sure what...|||I would love to see that link!!|||The guy I have been seeing has tested as an ISFJ and I will say that he does some of the above.  He is generally friendly and sociable and I would say a bit of a ladies man though they don't tell...|||I am enjoying reading all this, though I am not getting along too well with my ISFJ right now:sad:  I think its true that he lectures me and at times doesn't seem to enjoy some parts of my...|||Is it just me or do ALL these descriptions sound negative, for all of the SLOAN types?  I am an ENFP(type 7 Sexual on the Enneagram) and got this:  SLUAI  (3.9% of women; 2.9% of men) easily...|||:::giggle::::laughing:|||Thank you all for the warm welcomes!! :laughing: I feel loved <3:happy:|||Hmmmm...well, I have been in a relationship with an ISFJ and it has definitely helped me grow.  Sometimes that growth has been a little painful though:frustrating:  I'm kinda laughing at the pulling...|||I would love to hear more.  I have been in a relationship with an ISFJ for a couple of years now and boy have we had some arguments!  At the same time I absolutely adore him!!  He is so insightful...|||It seems like ENFP's are popping up on every conversation I see on here and I have been reading for a little while. (We're everywhere, where you least expect us, watch out!!  LOL)  Finally getting...|||Awww...well, I am sorry you feel that way and that you are going through a hard time!:sad:  He does seem to take lighthearted teasing super seriously and I like to tease, in a friendly way, when I...|||I've got it all...brothers, sisters, stepbrother, stepsister...10 altogether!:laughing:|||Well, that puts some perspective on it.:laughing:  I wonder how I should react.  I think I tell him how wonderful I think he is pretty frequently:wink::happy: but my gut reaction was to take it...|||About getting mad at you easy and being hard to read....  well, today I sent him some texts and was playing around with him thinking I was being funny and he got angry with me.:angry:  Wow.  I was...|||I guess the difficult to read part comes from him not being as openly demonstrative of his emotions.  I have some ISFJ female friends who are the same way.  They are GREAT friends though:happy:|||I have my BA in Psychology.:happy:|||Yay! You asked the question I have been wondering about, though I cannot give you the answer since I am an ENFP also. :tongue: I have an ISFJ guy friend and we have had some major ups and downs. I...'