'I would have guessed ENTP, seems heavy Ne-Ti going on.|||Best of luck with trying to manipulate as compensation for being unliked, and trying to project your low self confidence. That friend of mine didn't do anything to get her back to me, he just made it...|||You don't have to envy my relationship to be downright pathetic.  Something tells me my former friend is worse than you though, simply because he's a better salesman at making destructive advice...|||I'm destined to keep messing up with her. I didn't even mention what I did that made her not want me to talk to her.  Unless someone could somehow direct her to this thread lol|||It was love plain and simple, we had a deep emotional connection but then I became obsessed with control after she felt a need to take an official break and fuck her other ex.  Anyway. You sound...|||It was more that I was looking at these interactions in a detached cause/effect kind of way, and didn't understand how it all worked until I saw it fall apart.|||This is what I meant by dangerously biting off more than can be chewed, it sets up unrealistic expectations if I'm gonna be that bold about making long term future plans, then any mistake is gonna be...|||So actually this all happened months ago, before she saw reasons to believe I was trying to hurt somebody. Once she saw that, she decided we actually weren't meant for each other. I tried convincing...|||I understand this may be going off on a limb,  But basically what happened was a crisis that had broken up ISFJ and me. Then a friend of mine had convinced me that if I wanted her back, I should...|||I won't ask about the details haha, but was there always more chemistry between you and him than say... you and some ESTP?|||Which types have you felt most attraction towards?  Is it knowing that the other person wants them to feel good, as much as knowing that you're allowing the other person to be pleased?|||What would he have to improve to be objectively the best?|||Oh come on now, you're just saying that. How could Ne possibly compare to Se in terms of physically reactive accommodation to your needs in the moment? Is it possible? I'm gonna artificially clone...|||So I'm getting that ESTPs are a hard act to follow in terms of raw focus, and reactivity to the partner, yet in multiple documented cases they might be in it for the recreational sport and not forge...|||If I may probe just a little further, what was so fun about the ENTP?|||I was curious to see if there was perhaps any anecdotal correlation between sexual chemistry and MBTI types of partners.|||My spirit is no match against the left-wing society|||Y'all aren't the enemy, pfff|||lol if only you understood the masculine mindset of how sex is war :laughing:|||Realistically, how is that going to actually happen, other than maybe after enough mental gymnastics to convince yourself that the king = some abstract concept within one's own solipsistic universe?|||Apparently I only like ruminating nostalgically, listening to music, and coming up with creative ideas. Chess and strategies are potential means to an end, I guess.|||Well, honing the instinct and focus into a particular environment, pace, rhythm etc. can be learned.  I certainly have odd Ne ideas... sometimes a little too weird for the other person|||Happy about Nothing.  Gilly  I'd genuinely be interested in learning how to be like your experiences, if possible :cool:|||That's what I want to know. Disregarding emotional attachment to the partner, I wonder if there's any way to be better than an SP in this area, what their weaknesses might be etc.|||He would keep wishing to modify the allowed-move-properties of his various pieces to optimise his strategy, find that that isn't allowed, and ask to start the game afresh  Read that somewhere. ...|||And what made it so? Female answers preferred.|||And what made it so? Female answers preferred.|||And what made it so? Female answers preferred.|||And what made it so? Female answers preferred.|||Statistically, ESTP-ISFJ relationships don't usually work out long term. Also, girls who live with their friends-with-benefits often end up in bigger messes than they planned for.  Side note-...|||Yeah but what I meant was, is a guy gonna compare himself not in terms of his sexual ability once in the act, but in the overall aura of dominance and ability to attract. I know that not all ESTPs...|||good vs bad subtypes|||Does it make you feel better to see yourself as the most alpha guy that a girl has been with?|||Do ESTPs bother to try one-upping the one who beat them? Or do they tend to accept it, forget it and move on|||Yeah they're not listed.|||Meh, INTJs don't generally break enough rules in my experience. Guess it depends on who though.  I like your undermining idea better than the dog shit one.  Now I need to find out why EJ would...|||-simple ways to get someone's home and/or work address (without asking), and realistic things you could do with that  -for starters list any career with an easily-formed work habit, that doesn't...|||I'm tired of all the Ne brainstorming that looks awesome in theory but ends up going nowhere.|||I know an ENFJ who broke into his ex's house to leave a strangulation cord. I don't mean to downplay the fact that I seemed nuts because I was at the time, but my actions were creepy at most. Time...|||That's why if you ever have a daughter, don't let her get drunk around guys who have game + irresponsible Se autopilot. Can't blame her for doing the abuse.    Compared to your state of mind, I'm...|||Bro have you tried to translate human relationship intricacies into Ti/convert to vector image? Am I going crazy and/or hyper-rational?   It longs for the past with melancholy, and pines for her...|||@Hibiscus Very interesting.  Okay here's the story time. What happened was that her previous sort of ex before me (let's call him ESTP), got her drunk enough to one night stand before she left to...|||Both types use Ti and Ni to the degree that they understand them, but INTP is Ti master and INTJ is Ni master.  INTP is much stronger at Ne and uses it all the time, whereas INTJ does the same with...|||ISFJ 1w9 ex girlfriend decided we weren't meant to be, after she learned how I dealt with anger. She seemed to give me a chance on everything else, but that was the straw that broke the camel's...|||Type 9 is my body triad, though. It might be no coincidence that I get more 9-ish after being more physical.|||1) I never take rejection personally. I'd feel more fucked if I had never done anything to make an attempt. There are also smart and tactless ways to go about courting someone, it makes the most...|||It's not very often that I access any truer deeper feelings about someone/something, aside from the more frequent shallow ego feelings such as fear or anger. But I've realized that those deceive and...|||I make sure to not react and then keep tabs on sarcastic INTJ passive-aggressiveness, so that the next time I'm alone with them in a room, I'll surprise punch them in the side of the head with zero...|||Hi, due to a dire period involving internet privacy I require my username changed to mental blockstack.  Thank you|||Live more in the present and realize that nobody else notices/cares about these things as much as you do.  I'm not sure exactly what it is you're trying to express with style, but I can say that it...'