'This strikes me as an INTJ who doesn't know how to move things forward.  Things have moved to the stage where you guys are deciding if you want to be in a relationship.  The INTJ is likely pulling...|||Umm..I fart all the time amongst my male friends.  My ESTJ friend told me earlier this evening my last one sounded like a beaver swimming through sewage...lol.|||I still like my car.  Something about a sealed environment with just music and my thoughts really helps me recharge for the rest of the day.|||When I'm at the office, I usually don't eat.  When I do, I eat in my car.  I don't mind eating with others, I just don't eat much and when I do I like to use it as an opportunity to get away for a...|||I agree completely.  I would never reject someone because of their type.  I have found it is helpful within relationships and friendships, to understand why and how people are going act and respond...|||The thing is, is that I did tell her she was beautiful, gorgeous, cute, etc.  It was just..infrequent I guess and felt rather awkward saying it.  Part of me just wanted to yell..why would I spend so...|||-Listen to music -Research things on Google...then find the answer I find creates at least 2 more questions...then I find the answers to those...then I have more questions...so on and so forth...and...|||Thanks for the responses!  I am familiar with the concepts, but I am certainly no expert.  Seeing it written out makes it much more clear.  I tried to explain the MBTI to her, but she thought it was...|||So my ENFJ girlfriend just broke up with me a week ago.  It was due to my not showing enough affection..to the point where she asked if I was even attracted to her.  Which left me speechless...|||Slightly (or extrememly crazy) younger girls with childhood abuse/abandonment issues seem to like me.  I think that I am seen as a something stable to hold onto.  Much older women seem to adore me...|||An ENFJ girl asked me to teach her HTML and CSS..and picked it up with ease.  She is my girlfriend now.|||I have a ENFJ girlfriend.  We have come to an understanding that I will often base my decision and ideas behind logic and her decision will often be based off of her feelings.  I have found that if...|||That is what I'm thinking now.    Things have been moving at a rapid pace.  She invited me to go on vacation (late March) with her, her friend, and her friend's boyfriend.    I had a falling out...|||Jawz - Thanks, that is a possible outcome I did not really think of.  Waiting is seeming like a good idea.|||Thanks for the replies.  Normally I would agree with Iselia ..I'm quite good at saying screw it at potential relationships..probably too good.  I am extremely picky about those who I date and...|||I started going out with an ENFJ girl last June and it ended about two months later.  Basically we hit it off great.  We hung out a lot at my place and went out to clubs/bars on the weekend.  Things...|||It may be bothersome to her but not bothersome enough for her to bring it up with you.  The rolling over thing...it may very well be a non-verbal take a hint.  I have done things like that when...|||My roommate likes to wake me up by blowing pot smoke up my nose...  -_-|||I am extremely confident in my areas of expertise and am not afraid to stand up to my boss when I know he is wrong about things.  As far as being confident in the traditional sense (as in socially),...|||I cut my hair once a week to keep it the 1/8 length that I like.  I usually dress in jeans, plain t-shirts (no logos), long sleeve t-shirts, and polos.  My work apparel is clean, modern styles...|||ENTJs have been a mixed bag with me.  When they are cool, they are really cool..and vice versa.  gurlygurl Sorry to hear about your past.  I've been through some similar things (minus rape).  I've...|||Like most people, I found out that I was an INTJ by an online quiz.  A few years later, I attended a Myer Briggs workshop at my job.  We were given several tasks to complete while the instructor...|||^ ^ THIS ^ ^  Yeah, it's a little immature...but that's about it.  You can't understand how hard it is for a guy to just delete boobs off his phone...Anyways, I would think nothing of it.  You are...|||People that have That's just the way it is! as their final argument.|||Always happy to see another INTJ participating in the badassery that is motorcycling.  This is me where I am most happy:    http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6133/6024065360_daf1b7d558_z.jpg|||This is very true.  I am always the one being dumped...which is strange since I am a f***ing sweetheart! :D  I attribute this to being very difficult to get to know.  Girls my age simply do not have...|||Umm...whaa?...    Thanks for clarifying that...I envisioned a mini-relationship being like a few weeks to a month.    I am just saying that your post looks like one of those player's guides...|||Manipulating and ditching hundreds of men isn't good advice.  It is the result of a character flaw.|||1. Hybrid cars?  I do not mind the concept, but I am a major gear head and love feeling the engine roar when I hit the gas...so no. 2. Classical music?  yes 3. Tea?  iced tea, yes 4. Cats?  yes...|||I'm terrible at keeping in touch.  I hear about it from my mom all the time that I do not respond to her emails enough.  Then, I have an ESFP friend who calls me almost every day and talks for about...|||Dear ISTP best friend,  Let's go out, get s***faced, and wake up somewhere surprising!  Sincerely, Your INTJ best friend  True story.  ISTPs are fun.|||I would defintely +1 the 'more friends' idea.  I have been in this boat during middle school.  I was not the most popular kid and only had one friend (who was kind of an a**hole).  I was afraid to...|||That is great that it worked out for you.  I've always felt that we seem to be on completely different planets.  It all comes down to understanding and liking one another's differences as well as the...|||I take Kava Kava sometimes...I don't have anxiety attacks but it makes me super calm and relaxed.  I don't know if the effect would be sufficient enough to remedy severe anxiety.  It might help...|||1. What is more important to you? The ends or The means? The ends.  2. In your opinion, what is your biggest flaw? My inability to adequately put my thought process into words immediately.  I...|||I do not believe you can plug the device into the subwoofer input directly.  You need to plug it in to a receiver, which processes the audio signal and outputs the correct signal to the subwoofer.  I...|||Dear Virginia/DC Drivers,  Watch out for motorcycles.  My life isn't worth that text that you absolutely must send or that makeup you must apply before you get to wherever you are going.  You...|||I would definitely say ENTJ.  It sounds exactly like my ENTJ roommate.|||I'm not a fan of facts. You see, the facts can change, but my opinion will never change, no matter what the facts are.-Stephen Colbert|||Haha!  This is exactly what I thought of before I even opened the thread.|||I actually have a lot of expertise when it comes to weight loss/gain.  I have gotten a few of my friends into shape (2 of which are now Marine Corps officers).  Here are some really basic, yet very...|||All the ESFJs I've met/dated hate me :D  They hate my humor, my logic, how I interact with people, my lack of emotion, and my practicality over empathy.  It's kind of sad (them being the caring,...|||I'm reading reading a Cisco CCNA study guide...I've heard it has a crazy plot twist at the end!|||From an INTJ guy's perspective, I can see one of two scenarios:  #1-  He may simply need some time alone with limited contact.  I get this way sometimes even if I really like someone.  I am very...|||Wow...I need to find or be found by an ENFP...the latter is probably more likely.  So many pretty faces!|||I am outstanding...why would I want to be anything else?  In all seriousness though, I would be interested in being an ENTJ for a day.  I've always wondered what it would be like to be an...|||I seldom get bored these days...despite living alone.  It is difficult to be bored when you have access to unlimited information via the net.  When I do get bored, I ride my motorcycle, work out, or...|||I like a vast range of rock/metal/industrial/electronic music.  My favorite bands include:  Tool Metallica A Perfect Circle Nine Inch Nails God is an Astronaut Skinny Puppy Killswitch Engage...|||Mine's from the lyrics to my favorite song of all time:  Tool - Lateralus.  It seemed doubly appropriate since Tool is the ultimate INTJ rock/metal band in my opinion.  I'm reaching up and reaching...|||I am in this boat as well.  Although, ironically, when I am truly happy, I forget to smile and people give me the are you ok?/why so serious? inquiries.  Frustrating!  I am also often accused...'