'I suspect that he thinks he can do better. Whatever that means to him. You opened up a side to him and he wants to explore it- that's what we do, explore new things.|||Maybe not all your ancestors, but certainly some of them. Particularly if there is one of a different race/ethnicity than all of the rest. This technology is getting more precise every day. It leads...|||obesity is the great equalizer.|||Just don't end up like this woman-http://tinderdistrict.com/  Probably not a risk to an intp, but consider yourself warned!|||I think for intps, the main concern with Fe is controlling it so it doesn't point you in the wrong direction. The age thing is helpful- your Fe is going to be childlike all your life. There is a...|||Rock lyrics are your friend!  If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.   Under me, the change has come, she's under my thumb   I may be dumb, I'm not a dweeb, I'm...|||Are you having sex with this woman?|||Yes, as it is primarily concerned with the valuation of women. High value is given to young attractive white women and little to no value is given to all other women. It's basically the way Hollywood...|||Third world is actually a euphemism.|||That's fine, most women are SUPPOSED to feel repulsed at men being redpilled.   I just  wanted to comment on Cameron Crowe's work since that was brought up. Fast Times is incredible, if you ever...|||1000 guys doing the Say Anything radio bit: 999 times it's creepy, (maybe) one time it's sweet.    Best advice from that movie Find a girl who looks just like her (or even close), nail her and dump...|||He likes you, but it's creepy. Don't encourage creepy behavior.|||I hope your employer appreciates the sacrifice you are making for your job! 😺|||Why not do something with those cute female colleagues? From personal experience, it's pretty cool when you can actually have sex with a woman that you have pulled your pud to. And as long as your...|||That was a great post! Just a note, you probably would not have that wisdom from a <90 iq person. Or at least you probably would not have recognized it as wisdom.    However, it may have been...|||Good catch, how do they measure the oxygen without opening the bottle. Not that I understand how, but apparently it can be measured with UV.|||There are two people that I spend time with who are geniuses. One is an actuary who is able to make boring statistics sound interesting, the other is a biologist who works on the cutting edge of...|||It was meh for me. Meh|||It's a matter of degree.|||Perhaps you should take up a different instrument, I would recommend guitar. Or singing. Learning one instrument can just be  technical, and it is possible to be proficient without being musical. ...|||If anyone cares, the most interesting racial aspect of my life is how white and black people talk to me before and after they find out what I am. With very few exceptions, white people will...|||I have thought about this for a few days, and I still don't understand what you mean. Can you explain it?  Also, when you say looked down upon for long periods of time, are you saying me...|||Every thing I do is set to music|||sunlit, are you male or female? It makes a big difference.|||This is it! Most things in this world are not completely black and white. Even if a statement is 99.9% true, it means that there are exceptions. We don't want to give the Captain Pedantics of the...|||I'm saying that human evolution emphasized different traits in different races. Those traits largely determined how their cultures developed. And culture itself will influence human evolution through...|||I am having a quarterly business walk tomorrow. I trained one of my minions to give the presentation to the auditor. This will give him a more complete picture of how our department fits in the...|||Such experiments don't tend to scale up well. That child may behave like Japanese, but if you move the entire population (or even 10%) of Somalia to Japan, they will behave like Somalians, unless...|||[QUOTE=Rogers;37473354]Sillysaurus. What happens with a girl raised by wolfs? Does she learn to speak the human language, because she was born a human?[/QUOTE   I know that sometimes animals will...|||Why would you find that unequal distribution unlikely? Most other human traits are unequally distributed racially.  Remember that mbti is a creation of white people, to explain personality...|||Culture largely derives from race. Try to imagine Japanese culture deriving from Somalians.|||Yes, only in a multi ethnic society does it have any meaning.   Chris Rock's famous N***** routine, which  is basically about statistically normal American black behavior, also only works in this...|||Also, the dynamic of high iq blacks doing well really only applies to those black people living in societies of 100+ average iq people ( these are almost all white countries- China, Korea, and Japan...|||Re acting white:  stereotypical white characteristics are high impulse control and forward time thinking. These characteristics are correlated strongly with high iq ( not perfectly- see Bill Clinton...|||I can't help it.   I really can't.|||If you have deep thoughts about abstractions (such as ideas, groups of people, systems, etc) , you are more likely an intp. If you have deep thoughts about individual people and things, you are more...|||My wife said exactly that to me! 😍   Ok, so she didn't say it was beautiful and adorable🤔.    And she wasn't talking about my Fe..🍄|||This is a superb thread. I will add that the intp superpower of just knowing can be improved with practice. It's basically having faith in your own intuition. This works because, as one poster...|||Yeah, sorry about that. I cant remember the thread that came from, but the conversation was about lists of characteristics that they look for in a man.  What she said really stood out to me.|||Those are really good reasons that people have for not having children. And those reasons have been around since there have been people. Really, when HASN'T the world been fucked up for the vast...|||Hopefully this will make some sense. There is something I do, and other intps here have mentioned doing this sort of thing, so it may be an intp thing. It is finding a proxy for social interactions...|||Nerd alert ( as if this forum needs one!) :   I care about the Honorverse...|||nonsequiturme If you end up drinking with him, and have sex, please come back here and tell us how your relationship is complicated.  Your intp needs to learn not to tell women that he wants a fwb...|||Librarian, See, you already gained something. You  were prompted to clarify your thoughts.   And that is likely to be what you will experience with most intps. At some point  it will be...|||The parking lot story shows a history of incredible innovation and technical progress. Most of the technology that makes a parking lot possible was made by one group of people. It is unlikely that...|||I didn't think I would and then it happened.|||I have been in leadership for almost my whole working life. I like being in charge of my division/department. Lower level supervisors are usually horrible, so I can avoid working for them. Higher...|||I did not ever have a desire to have children. Perhaps if I made a lot more money it would be different. I did not want to struggle financially, I do not handle any  stress well. So children would...|||How many of us would be enough, or too much? What do you hope to gain by this endeavor?|||This fascinates me. Do you think that your husband did not really know how you are because you put on an act, or is it that he didn't really pay attention to who you were? As if he had an idea of...'