'I think a possible first step is to realise that you intrinsically have traits that are invaluable. That as a person, you are good because of the things that you have done in the past, and the things...|||knowledge is power  hence.|||Hey cederbusch, sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time. I can relate to your statement that Especially if I get hurt, my mind plays it over and over again.  Your self esteem or...|||-double post-|||Yes, in a way. Personally I find it hard to think and feel at the same time, and so I only do one - usually thinking - in daily interactions with others and tasks. I suppose not being in tune with...|||Thank you  Chickin_Peck. This is just the answer I needed. :) x|||Hello all,  I have a question about forgiveness in friendship. If someone has wronged you, do you/should you forgive? What does it mean to forgive, when you meet them in future, behaviour-wise? ...|||1whoseeswithoutbeingseen :O *intrigued* please do explain|||Re: we know all about our physical anatomy from top to bottom - every muscles every cell - and yet we cannot extinguish certain tiny little 'monsters' that have plagued people for centuries? Hah. ...|||Wow. I certainly hope you remember this the next time you desperately need a doctor's help.|||Is there something that he is worried about that makes him change his mind so frequently?       - Could he be looking for some perfect scenario in life (which there is none)?      - Or is he...|||Personally I think both sides of the argument have validity.   The solution, from my perspective, is one that requires a middle ground, or proportion - i.e. to establish certain principles as to...|||hm... you're right. not too sure then. I don't see any other viable answer tbh.|||Same I agree that it is this: 693921  hint and solution:  hint: analyse horizontally  solution: for overlapping squares from column 1 and 2, remove the border in column 3|||I think that feeling can be called 'loneliness' - what do you think?   social connection (of an appropriate amount) is what creates happiness, and everyone (including Thinking types) need their...|||that they don't always follow rules|||yeah agree with most of the rest; drugs ain't worth it in the long run in terms of the health impacts.  figure something/some fun activities for yourself that helps you relax and unwind. personally...|||if both of you are indeed INTPs, one of you will have to muster up some courage to start the conversation. Else, things will continue to decline/stagnate. I know it will be difficult (because these...|||um, nope I've never heard of this idea before. from my personal experience of love i don't think i've ever thought about death of the other person, or the finiteness of life/the relationship, but it...|||-|||I presume they would work via reminding oneself of a belief or aspiration that they have (or would like to have); humans are forgetful and life is distracting and can be tough, I guess.  Eh; imo...|||yeah but if you look at the the timeline they have known each other for 9 years (i.e. since they were 13), and have been close friends since 6-7 years ago (i.e. since they were like 15). then OP...|||and this is targetted towards ?? :/|||lumpofcoal, can i give you a hug.   am really sorry that you've had to deal with this whirlwind.  If it makes you feel any better, intps are generally emotionally daft so on average, it is...|||Dreamuur Yas, emotional. At least, much more than before XD  In hindsight I think that the reason for my initial troubles with dealing with my own emotions is that emotions as a concept is hard to...|||I wonder if such behaviour can be explained by the functional stack? :rollseyes:|||I think showing that you care, like a text message that states so, will really be appreciated by your INTP. If he wants to talk about it further he'll probably reach out to you after that.   The...|||what your question seems to be insinuating is quite aggravating. care to clarify why you are asking this?|||I couldn't help but rofl at this, platorepublic. XD Thanks  xx|||Perfect <3 XD|||XD Ok, but not distilled water please. Distilled water doesn't have minerals.  Tap water is ok, but only if its potable. If it has high chemical concentrations that would kill you, it will prolly...|||Hey Bhathaway, thanks for posting here and I'm really sorry to hear that you are going through a challenging time.   I struggled with depression a few years ago, and now am recovered from it so I...|||Tbh it could be many things. You'd probably have to judge the situation yourself, based off the details;   Personally I have ignored people, sometimes deliberately, sometimes instinctually, and...|||Thanks everyone for your responses.    Koconnor3  BNB Madman I agree with you that humans in general live life in pursuit of happiness. My unease is about the implications that follow from the...|||I have been thinking quite a bit about emotions, their origin and role, lately. The question what are emotions for? often crosses my mind, and I'm not quite sure what to make of it. Are we supposed...|||Out of curiosity, what is your MBTI, OP? smt01  Relationships are complicated and nuanced so I daren't give any opinions. I do wish you all the best, and I hope things work out :)|||Was it horny?|||In order of love:  - Mass Effect trilogy (can't wait for Andromeda!!!) - Assassins creed series (the art + history *_*) - Harvest Moon DS, and Stardew Valley (the latter's mechanics is based off...|||News staff as in staff of news or new staff but spelling it 'news' instead because it is more fun and this is a forum :cool:|||hahah aww gross XD|||you've got to press the Ne activation button. It's located somewhere around your armpit.|||hmmmmm  no, but using violence on an individual level to resolve issues is bad and unjustifiable imo (unless in self defence to violent action. I lie more on pacifistic side of things) That said, I...|||I tend toward 1. Though imo integration and mastery are both needed if you want to push boundaries. Otherwise either of the two will still allow you relative success in life :)|||Yes. If you are looking for reasons there are many journal articles out there that discuss this and provide both sides of the argument in detail. You may be aware, waterboarding is considered a form...|||Since when were guys the default? :rollseyes:|||Heya. In my opinion it really depends on the tone; how that sentence was said.   I never thought about what we are and just did what felt right and what was right can mean anything from:  -...|||Like a cactus!  Like a pretty, pretty cactus.  You know, the healthy ones. They are also spiky. And green.  hmm.  Daniel Craig is hot.|||Out of curiosity, what industry and job type are you in? If you don't mind sharing|||yesyes, agreed with islandlight|||haha ok. that increases your list of eligible people by...   [mathematical equations]   12,533,220 people?   not bad.'