'Whew. I almost lost (more) faith in humanity.|||I will take this heavily into consideration. Thank you.|||Just from the responses on this thread, ENTJs are generally more open with their arrogance.   There's such thing as functional confidence. Impractical arrogance is useless, and impractical modesty...|||Ha! Great counterexample you are. You were injured and need to go back? Are you doing OCC, PLC, or some other program?|||Indeed. I don't usually take NF's the militia type. NF's can change the world, and are better changing the world through other means. I think, particularly with the INFJ's, there's an inherent,...|||I do have a direction in life. And with regards to your analyses of functions, I agree. I seek structure, and in the meantime, imparting my own structure onto the structure.   However, I only want...|||Hello you two. I didn't say ENTJs weren't good at research. Please read again. (Was giving type-based answer on generally the strengths of the type as they align with real world processes....|||Woah you know a lot/in depth. That was some insightful advice and information.   Yeah I heard the army has better resources and funding / financial advancement is better, but Marines has higher...|||I'm a Chemical Engineering Undergraduate at UC San Diego, and after working various fields, engineering industry included, I've realized that the civilian life can be pretty boring.  There's this...|||Woah. Major oversight. You know what's occurred to me, though? I've actually never directly asked whether she was straight. I just kind of presumed. For now this thread can die. But should I get a...|||LOL the wiki link.   There is also the option of waiting until I'm 27 before doing anything, since it would then be more age appropriate (27 and 34 isn't as wide of a gap as it is now). Of course...|||By being honest, do you mean telling her I like her but I'm okay with whatever? Because simply even just telling her would turn our relationship probably for the worse if she's not interested. What...|||Let it be known that should the occasion arise, I am quoting you. :cool:|||Projection definitely summarizes me well. Thus, I enter this board to inquire on how others may see the situation. Because obviously, how I see the situation is limited to my own approach toward...|||To answer your questions, yes, yes, and yes.  But if you want to know the context, careful, this is a long story.   Feel free to NOT read and skim: Underlined are ultimatums. Bolded are the...|||INTJs are excellent at research. ENTJs are excellent at getting it known, making it famous, and getting people to like it.   Honestly, INTJs and ENTJs make an excellent partnership.   INTJs are...|||...Your (academically smarter) suite mates tell you, Let's start a company! It'd be great working under you. I try to tell them I know less on the field then they do. But they insist...|||I suppose you could consider my more wholesome relationship to have been like a very deep friendship. A very deep friendship that involves benefits? Lol. I can barely distinguish between deep...|||I feel this is brilliant.  :cool:  First thing that comes to mind? A quote from her, I'm not a picky eater. I'll try almost anything once. Even if I don't really prefer to eat it, I'll eat it if...|||(Before you read my post, thanks for your response :) I also wanted to let it be known that I'm not arguing. I'm simply presenting my current take, which is flexible and adjustable to whatever you or...|||Yup. This is why I can't really take the ask her approach, because we have a pretty amazing friendship otherwise and I wouldn't want to ruin it unless I was sure it's what she may want / be okay...|||Don't worry about it – no need to deliberate helping. General communication always makes me happy. Maybe you didn't help with this particular obscure situation. But you helped make my day better...|||It's sort of an exceptions case. So while someone may be generally straight, he/she may find a certain someone an exception.   For example, in the wholesome relationship case, even while she was...|||Passenger side almost all the time with her. Really does freak me out! Ha.   And that's kind of what I'd been noticing too, that she's partway there, physically. But I feel like then it would...|||Same page you mean want the same things out of life?   We're both pretty unanchored people – she's expressly said she doesn't want to get married anytime soon, and I expressed that I shared the...|||I can give context and overview of how the relationships went, if that's what you're asking for?   Is this inquiry into advice toward a personal situation of yours or out of pure curiosity? One of...|||Love giving them x96 but in the female context. In fact, I think I get more pleasuring another female than the other way around. I suppose it's all very odd theoretically speaking for the ENTJ...|||Hello!  Maybe some might remember me, maybe not. But I posted here about a year or so ago about how much I loved this ISTJ.   And still do.   Problem is, I'm lesbian, she's straight, and I'm...|||I don't have advice but merely acknowledgement that I've incurred the exact consequences you've listed.   Misery is divided when shared? I don't know but just thought I should post the...|||Exactly with me. I am female, I understand. But alcohol, cigarettes and notebooks > clothes|||I almost always make an excellent first impression.  In fact, people who have learned to hate me will generally remark, when someone's meeting me for the first time, she's good at first...|||LOL that is so me. I blame it on being an extravert, but I am sure that is an overgeneralization. Basically, if I'm up to something, EVERYONE will know about it. Just the process of cycling out my...|||...you're being incomprehensibly vague|||Quality to not confine themselves to single 'greatest' qualities....  oh the contradictions to my statement.|||But she was like a total commander. And like, self-sufficient and shit.|||i typed one of my dogs ENTJ once. . .|||She laughed at me while I told her I was going to give her a D! No. I was smiling. Why were you smiling? It's just a 'professionalism' habit. ...  Years of BSing, kissing up to people,...|||Good at conceptual math, average at computational math. What's 27*16? Honestly, why would I care. I haven't exercised the computation area of my brain much, in addition to my mental ego deeming it...|||Agree with all of the above. Some may poke fun at the concept, It's not you, it's me, but I see it as a highly versatile and efficient form of rejection.|||From experience, my friends don't hold my preferences to any deciding level of judgment.   • I listen to dub-step, electronica, and anything along the lines of glitch.  ---> Suite-mates walk in,...|||hahahah! i love barney and himym (although mostly just barney. i find ted annoying as fuck.)... disappointed in myself for not picking up this reference. thanks for the share; will be used frequently...|||Insightful correction.|||The ridiculousness of some of our assertions...  Girlfriend to group of boys: “Boys. Rule of thumb. If the girl is ridiculously hot, there’s a 75% chance she’s lesbian.” Me: “There’s a positive...|||Chemical Engineering and pre-law student... Have tested ENTJ/ENTP 50/50. Personally, I think I'm naturally ENTP... but years of structured education and admissions systems have made me generally...|||I see. I do all of each, so that's probably why I find raves fitting. Reasonably, you would not, and likewise, you wouldn't want someone who wasn't similar to you in their preference of drugs and...|||My first girlfriend was from a rave. :) We only split for practical reasons, but we're still incredibly good together, emotionally and physically. She's NT, too. I feel most NT, particularly ENT's...|||Oh I get what you mean. It probably also has to do with their prevalence on the internet... Naturally, more asexual woman will be expressing themselves on the net.|||Woahhh... not the case with me and my friends. See my post, right above this one.|||In short, I was ignorant, then aware. I've gone from perceiving myself as asexual, aromantic to homosexual, gender-blind.  The long story:   When I was younger, say middle to junior high, I was...|||As I said, they were flings. We still keep in touch, but I am far too busy to form relationships with people currently, so yes, I am uninterested in whether they wanted this to be serious or not.  ...'