'how do estjs want to have love expressed to them? what makes them  feel loved?|||N the Intuitive Function...but I also love being Introverted and Rational (T).|||wow...i was just referring to the law of economics! i never worry about being thought of like that...mainly because i don't put out. it never crosses my mind that someone wants to take advantage of...|||it is clearly not a supply and demand equation...we are in short supply, but i don't feel 'in demand'|||Wonder if I will meet intj's at this Board Game Meetup?  4TH TUESDAY @ ATHENS BURGERS - East Bay Board Gamers (Dublin, CA) - Meetup.com|||What about something like this? myers-briggs Meetups near Dublin, California - Meetup.com|||Sigh! I emailed him midweek asking how his week was going...no response.   Although we went out the past two weekends, he has not called/emailed for another date this weekend...and still no reply...|||Had an INTJ: INTJ date last Saturday night...when I asked him a technical question about the oil spill cap he called the waitress (I thought, oh, no...he is asking for our check...I have done it...|||good point. guess i was promoting the self-supporting feature.|||hahaha...AGREE TOTALLY...sickening! Get the two lovebirds OUT OF THE WAY of this great city shot!   wow...and i am a girl...it frightens me that i totally agree with this comment! Sex with...|||hahaha! well, i challenge any intj man to a relationship with me: an intj woman.  let's do a blog by blog of it and see where we get.   even if it has to be via im/em/phone/other...it is a worthy...|||hey you entj people...I love reading your messages...they are so intj-ish...except we don't actually do it or say it...you guys and girls are the GREATEST!|||First: you have to live, like, right next door to them, on literally on their path to/from work or they won't ever see you  Second: you need to give them a make-over  The one intj i did find on...|||I'm done with the other types.|||i think Software Engineers are INTJs, so I look for them on dating sites.|||I had to give up talking type when I responded to a query about why I got along with a professor that everyone else hated, and I said, because of his P-ness. I didn't get what I said for quite...|||hahaha...how TRUE! as they go: BLINK...BLINK...(as if they are looking at a person for the first time in weeks! as if a maniken in a shop has just spoken out loud) i guess they live by: if you know...|||When the adage:Better to be silent and have people think you are stupid than to speak up and remove all doubt makes you wonder why most other people speak at all.|||...or, to girls, i hope you don't talk like that on dates. no wonder you don't have a boyfriend|||...when you are familiar with having someone with whom you disagree's words continue in their (wrong) line of thinking while their mind is busy already seeing the fallacies (you have pointed...|||hahahahaha...well, I work at a place where serious intj's hang out, a research facility...and i was exiting a building today as a really hot guy was entering. I held the door for him. he said thank...|||Thank you, from all of us. But just don't REALLY hug us; remember: we don't do hug. We stiffen like those children that were kept in unattended institutionalized orphanage cribs for too long...and...|||cough, cough...it's not just intj guys who do that...as a woman, i agree i may choose to appear more open to criticism, especially at work, so my silence (apparent listening) is just plotting their...|||he was e. indian and his parents balked and told him he had to let them arrange a marriage. he still isn't married, they are at a stand-off at last update.   if i have to pick again, i think i want...|||Hyperspace was my favorite book in 1996. I was crazy about it. I couldn't get anyone else excited about it however hard I tried.|||you guys are all so hilarious.|||I have the book, 16 Ways to Love your Lover and it is about types...I really like it, as well. I also have TypeTalk at work, Just My Type (gee, I think that is what it is called, maybe, Are you my...|||no scientists are mad...it is a matter of perspective...they just get a little irritated now and then.|||Here is the way my istp asked me out. I was complaining (that i had to go to at&t and have them re-program my phone, and i was (genuinely) huffing and puffing and suffering about the thought of...|||Yes, i think we both overanalyze. However, I think, and I could be wrong. But I think that the entps blab it out in order to make sense of it. It doesn't matter to whom...just the act of blabbing it...|||You have got to man up and find a way to ask him out. Tell him you need his help on something...like finding a book on some topic or deciding on a computer and that means you need to meet him at the...|||for me, the secret formula is= apply alcohol and shake|||i LOVE that one!!!  by the way, i have given myself permission to reject all invitations. I say, i don't do things they say, What? and i repeat, I don't do things. Now other friends pipe in,...|||hahaha...well, i am probably the worst date ever as well, but what makes a date good and a relationship good may be different for me. Lots of chatter is probably good on a date...lethal in a...|||I decided to put INTJ as a keyword on the dating site i am on. That way, if someone wants an intj they can search for it. I did a search for INTJs and found a few. We are emailing each other. It is...|||I like coming home to...well, ME. Closing the door, tossing my briefcase, kicking off my heels, and being alone with, me!!! Me, me, me, me, me, me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am home at last where there...|||perfect! i can mute them! but...they were doing that thing to my leg!|||I am still wondering what the best opposite sex partner for the intj is. At this point, i think it is another intj.|||oh, don't worry, at least your victims can still speak. mine just slither away and others are left to check them into institutions so they can be fed by caretakers for the rest of their lives.|||what type is your husband and do you recommend that type? (if that isn't too intrusive of a question...lately i have been thinking i need to limit myself to only intj men...but how to meet him? break...|||i disagree, as i do with most of your posts...are you SURE you are an intj???   the one on the right looks like he has been crying...very emotional eyes...the one on the left looks sharp, well...|||Regarding the serious issue: it seems the other types have a dog thread; for example: what kind of dog do you have, what is the cutest dog, what kind of dog are you? We don't have one of those...|||he was an intp.  1. he showed mercy by trying to give you time to study; intj's don't have mercy. 2. intj's know that it can, at times, be all about points...screw knowing it.   bless...|||yes...intp's have no tolerance for unreflective comments, bs, bluffing or cockiness. intj's will knock you off your high horse just for the hell of it. intp's won't do that, they are not mean. it is...|||when you have a friend who calls you every year on your birthday...to remind you that it is your birthday.|||when i get called a bitch i really object...Don't call me a bitch...I am a fucking bitch!|||i'm sure the professor was an intp or an intj|||here is a portion of what i wrote for my online dating profile regarding what i wear and what i am like:    I am shy, but chirpy once I warm up. I like to have quiet time. I dress very nicely for...|||i like how unpretentious the intp's are. and they are really sweet.|||I think this is a pretty good combination. ISTPs are low  maintenance.  Just don't expect him to understand your thinking...expect him to respect your thinking. He will get your humor, and that goes...'