'Alright, I will finish the story  J     He never called me, which I guess me turning away in the car was a sign to him I wasn’t interested anymore.  We both seemed to move on with our lives.  I got...|||Sorry I keep getting busier!!!  Picking up from where I left off.   I was fairly confident this guy was an ENFP.  When realizing that his facebook page commented on how he was so confused about who...|||Okay.  I will update this.  I have been busy lately :)     Alright, I will move on to after high school.  We chose different colleges but similar colleges (both small and private around the...|||I can't believe it either.  I guess he was able to put on a façade that he has really happy when he really wasn't.  What was your favorite Robin Williams film?  I still love Mrs. Doubtfire.  He was...|||I think every season brings its joys as well as things we don't like.  I couldn't live anywhere that doesn't have the changes in the seasons|||My ISFJ mother always has trouble with directions.  Every time I go somewhere with her we have to take the same route or she'll get frustrated because she feels lost.  Me put me out in the middle of...|||Just out of curiosity.  Is grabbing a woman around the waist and pulling her to your side something you do with your female friends?  This ENFP male I went to high school with.  We weren't really...|||I have been wanting to get this off my chest for a long time.  I am still sorting through my thoughts.  I have to explain about 14 years worth of experiences, so I will break this up onto different...|||I was just recently told by a married man who I also believe is an INFJ that he wished that he was about twenty years younger and single because he really liked me and wished he could date me.  I...|||My fantasy came when I was 14.  It was funny.  I wasn't looking for a boyfriend.  Actually, I hated boys at that age because that was shortly after I was molested.  I made up my mine that I was going...|||What I thought was funny is how our 30 something year old pastor was going to have a class with people who were not millennials on why millennials aren't coming to church to find out the reasons...|||There have been a few moments in my life that I think are beyond coincidental....                                                                                                                      ...|||I know I'm not an ENFP, but I can't believe how much of this I relate to as an INFJ. -Get lonely at times (definitely.  Even though I'm naturally an introvert and very independent, there are many...|||Yes, I have always had body image issues.  Unfortunately, growing up I went through puberty early (so acne, body forming, etc. came early).  Also, my teeth were horribly arranged until I was able to...|||I can relate.  I always thought I would be alone.  Growing up, I felt alone because everyone (parents, teachers, classmates) held me on a pedestal.  I had to be the role model for everyone else. ...|||A.  No, everything happens for a reason.  If you mess with the past, you are messing with what is meant to be.  What is meant to be is better than what your expectations are. Q.  If you had the...|||There are times I feel lonely and then other times more fulfilled than others.  The more in my head I am, the happier I am.  Sometimes when I am more in reality and in a more extroverted mode, I feel...|||Even though I tested INFJ, I was 50% T and 50% F, so I guess I'm the best of both worlds :)|||Maybe I should provide some background to my post.  When I was in college, everyone at least accepted everyone, even if they weren't their best friend.  After graduating from college, this is what I...|||I'm 27 and never been in a relationship.  There is a lot of reasons for that which is a whole other post.  Hope do I cope with it?  First, I would rather see myself single for the rest of my life...|||I have noticed that when I went to college people seemed to be so accepting of others and comfortable in their own skin.  After graduating from college, it is like everyone has reverted back to...|||I haven't been told I am intimidating but I can see by people's reactions that they feel intimidated.  I think it is because I appear so serious and driven most of the time.  Once people start to get...|||1) Not feeling I need a relationship-I have been independent as long as I can remember.  Honestly, I don't know what it would be like to actually do something with another person or rely on another...|||I have a MBA.  I plan to pursue a PhD in Educational Leadership next year.|||Go back to school or work at a college as well as taking classes at the local library, dance classes, etc.  Many INFJs love school and love to learn. Go to church or another religious institution. ...|||I'm sorry. I met empathy not sympathy.  Sorry for the confusion.|||I think everyone to some degree can sympathize with others.  I had this conversation with my ISFJ mother and she said she always felt the weight of the world's problems on her shoulders.  What I...|||Honestly, I have been the exact opposite. I have always been a very motivated person.  It never really took much to motivate me.  Now, that I'm out of college, I notice that I don't seem AS...|||I'm almost 27 and I've never dated.  I also know another suspected INFJ who is almost 29 and she has never dated.  You're not alone.    Honestly, I'm grateful I didn't earlier.  If I would have...|||21.  We are either taken to a place where this no more suffering.  Where we will have eternal happiness.  Or we are taken to a place where the suffering is even worse than this world.  However, I...|||11.  When you can accept your flaws.  Realize you can never be perfect.  That there is nothing wrong with you.  To accept your insecurities, knowing that these insecurities and flaws make you a...|||Wow!!  These are some pretty heavy questions!!  I'll take a stab at a few.  1.  I am a person who wants to leave some type of mark on humankind before I leave this place. 2.  Yes, God is a being...|||The only dance I attended in high school was prom.  Even then I didn't stay the whole time.  The only reason I attended both years is because my mother gave me the speech on how she always regretted...|||I did very well in school.  One I loved to learn.  Two I had a goal.  When I was in junior high, I went to my cousin's graduation.  I watched the valedictorian give their speech.  I told my mom that...|||My real type INTJ (which I have tested almost borderline on the F and T). My ideal type ENTJ.|||Amen to this.  I always hated that people held me on some type of pedestal.  It drove me to absolute insanity at times and there have been many times I felt very lonely because I couldn't really be...|||The comments that people have said to me over the years that have been the most hurtful are the following (FYI I don't think just INFJs would be hurt)......  1.  You look weird. 2.  What's wrong...|||I love this.  Thanks for sharing.  I could really use this somedays.|||I love this.  Thanks for sharing.  I could really use this somedays.|||As an INFJ, I find myself getting disappointed in people all the time.  I try to remind myself people aren't perfect, but I can't help but get disappointed and even want to shut certain people out. ...|||I agree with Kyrielle.  Actually, I don't think people should be given a life sentence.  They are just going to die in prison anyway and we are spending a lot of taxpayer money trying to support...|||I always wanted to grow up in the 60's.  I have always felt drawn to the nonviolent protesting.  I wished I could have been a part of it.  Well, minus the drugs and the sex :)|||I probably have hurt other INFJs and other types because I can be opinionated and passionate about things. In one way that is good, but in another it is bad. I've actually made people cry when I get...|||I don't know if this applies to other INFJs but the hardest friendships I think are between INFJs.  I can easily develop a friendship with a secure INFJ.  However, finding a young secure INFJ is hard...|||Did that today!|||1.  Volunteering.  2.  Rainy Days.  3.  Eating (especially fast food or junk food).  4.  Ballroom Dancing.  5.  Listening or playing music or singing.|||1.  I have been through a lot (deaths, abuse, betrayal, threats, harassment, battles with depression, etc.) for being under 30.  Even though, I am only 26 (soon to be 27), I feel like I am 50.  Some...|||Things I find attractive in someone.....  People who wear glasses.  It is funny.  I have heard from people throughout my life that I should get contacts because I would be prettier.  However,...|||It depends on the week.  One Friday a month I drive back to my mom's house which is a little over two hours away and stay the weekend to see my dad who is in a nursing home, my grandmother who has a...|||I know the feeling.  I used to go to lunch with coworkers just to be somewhat social.  First, at times conversations ended up being slamming an individual or a particular office which I absolutely...'