'Physical touch, followed by quality time.|||You don't have to feel selfish. (:  We can just call this curiosity.  I'll try to match cog functions in a way that seems to make sense and see if we can't find a result that you ultimately may agree...|||I'm actually curious about the book; did you find it to be personally helpful?  It seems pretty popular, but I'd be really grateful if you could give a quick rating on it (if you have time!)|||It's not settled whether or not she wants to receive communication from him.  I'd say it's rather likely that she is probably curious though, and a letter is a fairly distant form of communication. ...|||I was going to say the same thing like everyone else did--that you could write one sentence and be done with it--but I changed my mind.  You sound legitimately worried, and this problem is -the-...|||My best friend is an ENTP, and she's a bitch.  She's pretty much my complement in every way and takes pretty good care of me for some reason though, so it works out anyway.  Unless she wants to...|||I know a very bright ISFP.  She has the emotional depth necessary to understand when friends need assistance, or when they just want to hang out, and she'll be the first one at your door if you call....|||1.) Infj's show their true feelings when they are alone when someone that  they can trust, where as the Intj's will hide their feelings all the  time.  This is common, but not absolute.  INTJs can...|||Like Kalifornia said, what kind of sensitivity are we talking about?  Sensitivity to depth of topics, types of topic, explicit content, personal stabs, or something else?  I do find that NFs tend to...|||I'm usually a bit skeptical about studies being very type-specific, since people can easily mistype themselves for a variety of different reasons (how others view them, what they would like to...|||No, no, and..no.  I like making more conservative connections that I can trust on a personal level, and I'm not a fan of huge (and usually messy) parties.  I could probably say some wide, sweeping...|||Making a long, thoughtful email is always putting yourself out there, so I'm sure the INFJ is attempting to be as open as possible (probably a bit unnerving and somewhat difficult for him too.) ...|||ISTPs are pretty fun to be with.  They actually want to engage in activities in greater depth than other Introverted types I find, but aren't obnoxious about it.  They just want mastery and exude...|||This really isn't to you since you're new, but I need to get this off my chest.  I always find posts like this weird because whenever an INFJ is withdrawn, it's taken rather badly..but when it's an...|||http://img571.imageshack.us/img571/9897/seaotter.jpg|||;_; Why did you post a picture, WHYYY.  (looks so delicious ... sob)|||It always helps to have a strong base to support your building blocks.  I don't know what's really harder for me, but I am more consciously worried/put more concentrated effort much more at the...|||My definition of a best friend?  Obviously, you--/gets shot  - - - - Friend stuff.  Best friend   Friends forever.  People I take care of.  People that take care of me.  Their existence...|||^ lol  I like nail polish as well.  And frilly dresses, girly skirts, and  ribbons. Anything that's a girly-take on vintage gets my attention.     Things that look cultured, like old books, good...|||I'm curious as to how other INFJs build their inner worlds, so here goes.   How do you organize objects, relationships, patterns, and thus, by extension, the future?  For instance, do you have...|||Yes.  Waffles are super delicious.  So are crepes.   Not so much a fan of pancakes, though, but I'm pretty sure it's because I've had terrible pancakes.|||LOL I love this.  I can totally see myself liking this too, dangit.  Way to put ideas in my head. :laughing:  I like reenacting projectile fights with people.  We both start with imaginary dual...|||^ Needs bear cavalry.  Awesomeness ensues.  I want a freaking tiger.  Or any huge, amazingly fast feline will do.  I won't take a flier on the sheer basis that I'd probably puke on the damn thing....|||Yeah, fair enough.  I sometimes think he over-trivializes his tasks and then gets buried underneath them later, but that's probably more a specific problem to him than ISTPs in general.  The...|||Thanks for the response.  I tend to be straight with everyone I'm with when it comes to work, so everything I've said here I've already said to him.  He did figure out along the way what kinds of...|||Wow, I was about to make a topic very similar to this.  Will thank OP after I'm done with this post.  I have an ISTP boyfriend who has a problem with procrastination.  Really smart guy, very...|||Man, I hate word technicality arguments.  It annoys me more because usually the people arguing with me about the word itself are usually _wrong_.  It always takes hours for them to even get the...|||Weird; I'd think that INFJ males would be even more sensitive to their partner's dissatisfaction.  I know my INFJ guy friends are pretty sensitive about those things, too.  INFJs are pretty good at...|||Uhhh.  I don't think this is an INFJ problem, to be quite honest.  It sounds like this is more of a parental issue.  I have an ISTJ mother that is ten times clingier and more pervasive than what you...|||And, you know, get lots of money if they win. :wink:|||Eh, I stay in touch with friends.  It's easy with some Facebook and AIM.  I'm usually on the receiving end like everyone else, but sometimes I do miss a few people a lot, so I'll just give them a...|||Oh my gosh, stay away.  That is seriously dangerous territory.  If you ignore him, he has the potential of emailing/texting/bugging you on AIM constantly.  And if he mentions your name as a defensive...|||I just got this from my boyfriend not one week ago.  It's not gender-specific.|||If people don't want to be open, that's silly.  I don't know why they chose to come to the forum, but you should PM them with fair warning that the forum is for healthy debate, not for some...|||I pay attention to people more than I pay attention to myself.  Respect-wise, it all just depends on who I'm dealing with.  If it's someone who I know to be a proven hard worker, a good person, a...|||I think I have a mixture of problems that people have previously mentioned.  I feel like I get that smack from the few people I put extra effort into.  Sometimes my parents, other times from my...|||I like to think I roll high on both intelligence and wisdom, with average constitution and poor dexterity.  Chaotic good.  . . .  Yep.|||I have gotten sick a few times when I was younger, but it was mostly because I was dreading things to a ridiculous level (impossible test, mean teacher, brown-nosing student who was a jerk to...|||Looking back, I'm pretty sure only two people mentioned they were in high school.  But wow, your high school teacher sounds awful.  I wouldn't care at that point either (what kind of teacher solves...|||To achieve perfection, I feel it's inevitable to slip and fall.  So I take like it is, and go for it.  If I lose myself in depression, I know I've already lost.  So, I let my frustrations loose when...|||It used to be extremely difficult for me to open up; I had to meet a very kind ENTP who got me out of my shell and made me talk.  Although I was good at opening myself up to old friends, it was hard...|||Doing nothing probably won't lead to happiness for everybody, either.  As you mentioned, happiness can mean different things to different people.  Productivity isn't just about expansion.  It's about...|||I've pretty much seen a good and bad example of every type, so I'm  pretty sure I at least get along fairly well with the ones who don't  want to cut my head off.     My best friends are mostly...|||This is my old cat, Pepper.  I got her from my best friend.  http://img213.imageshack.us/img213/7159/pepper.jpg  And I would love a Shiba Inu or a Corgi.  I'm leaning towards a Shiba Inu at the...|||You definitely sound like more of a P to me.  Mostly because of:  which I see more in my INFP friends than I do in my INFJ friends.  Both (including me) don't like making eye contact often, but...|||You fight and you win.  If he wanted help, he'd ask or at least not be such a prick about it.  And if he doesn't learn, makes an unhealthy environment for you two, and suffers under his own...|||My dreams are basically stuff that would happen in real life, except just different/meshed settings of places I've been to, people I know, etc.  It's all very realistic, but none of it actually...|||Exactly.  Laws are important, even if they are made by imperfect people.  Of course, it's all about making smart laws and making smart decisions instead of making too many dumb laws and dumb...|||I learn fastest and absorb more material when I'm under the influence of a strong feeling (extreme hatred, extreme love, etc.)  It's really, really weird.  I guess those things make me wake up and...|||This, so much.   Rouge, you are in my head.  What some of the ENFPs and ENTPs are referring to as liking everyone definitely sounds like being civil to me.  Type-wise, our definition of 'like'...'