'after all this time, INTJ is still on top of my preference in terms of relationships (and friendships too) lol but it's been hard to find one. Where can I find an INTJ? hahah|||Kirjuri Edisthgirb   Thanks for your insights :D I have contacted him again and we went out for lunch. Everything seemed normal like before and he didn't bring up anything about the cancelled...|||I have a huge problem with my INFJ friend, I hope you guys can help me since I don't know what's the best thing to do..  He's a very close friend of me. We would talk/text everyday on random -very...|||ENFJ must be fun to hangout with! I have only been friends with an ambivert INFJ and I wonder if it's going to be the same with you ENFJs!|||-Haven't been here for such a very long time. and I thought the confession thread was this one thread xD  It's amazing to go back.  I wasn't an active user who posted a lot but I used to check...|||I wonder why my romantic journeys haven't really turned out right.. This is getting frustrating for me and I'm such a huge feeler (we are all here...) I've expected too much out of nothing. This...|||HAHA I like how you say INFJ as our cousins. I do get along very well with an INFJ and we're best friends. A bit judgmental at times, but if it's in a good context, it can help us INFPs to grow...|||LOL :tongue: you're both introverted, so it's not a bad thing it's been 4 pages already. and looking at the dates, it's not that long at all.. don't be discouraged!  :cool:  it's normal to think...|||Haven't been here for a while and now it's already 4 pages :laughing:  How's it going though?    if the two of you aren't much closer than before, I would say to back away from this question...|||I'm interested in people around me. Since you two are in the same office that would be easier to take notice of what's going on around you two and talk about it (not gossiping ok lol)  Just don't...|||Cheap..|||Even just to swipe and look around?? I'm curious.. lol|||My brain is always 'on'.. to daydream.. Lol You may not really interested in INFPs since it's not on your list, but I have some free time, so I'll answer this :D  Te is not my main function, but...|||Sounds to me that he's just shy, and not confident enough in contacting you, since you said he kept apologizing for messaging you. But he still likes and comments your posts anyway, it means he wants...|||I don't think he had doubts about you because the two of you didn't have the same common interests. As an INFP, being together with people of different interests is interesting because we get to...|||Thanks, that's a really good point :) But when the feelings are too strong, it really bothered my thoughts and ended up feeling worse.. ah well..|||I can't decide which is worst: Feeling suicidal or wishing someone else's death|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gYSonDBAYls  The title means Let's end it here Yes, a breakup song Some of the highlighted lyrics because it's in Korean:   Feels..|||It is for me too, sadly...    SantaFox   Like I mentioned before, yes it's always been the same guy. Just some record for others as well..    Patience will be much rewarded then? lol|||I don't know who's in your profile picture, maybe your ex? But you looked so happy, and my heart hurts looking at it. It feels so stupid and I feel so stupid. But my heart still hurts.|||This.  I actually have the same thought deep down but to get this reaffirmed by someone else only makes it more convincing.. But to talk about my past experiences, maybe I failed a lot because I...|||As I had times before where I would think maybe I'm an ENFP, I still am sure that I'm an INFP, an outgoing one (sometimes) xD  The bold parts are both me, eventhough I'm more about meeting new...|||even when the signs are obvious, why do I still feel frustrated...? Is it about me being an INFP or him being INTJ or it has nothing to do with types at all..? Enlightens me please|||My ESTJ older brother always says to me that I should never initiate any contact to any guy, even if I like him, and to only answer when guys talk to me first. I found it impractical when there are...|||I'm so glad I've got transferred to a new office.  Although the pressure is bigger and I feel shitty most of my time out of a few hours there.. At least there's a Starbucks on the ground floor xD I...|||second this. But sometimes those validation are so subtle that I missed. But still, it should be extravagant no? lol xD|||I wish I could be stronger I wish I could be more positive, on every single things I wish I could be stronger by myself I wish I don't have to depend on anyone  I wish I could stop time, so I...|||XD I know I've been sooo weak and too apologetic!!! >__< I'm sorry (again) I will try again laterr XD|||Edit: I was too emotional, It wasn't appropriate. sorry|||sorry blank post|||Is it too much to ask you to be understanding of me, when I have given my understanding and trusted you. I don't ask you to always understand me, I just need you to understand that people are...|||Please be more sensitive about this! You're so heartless...|||Falcon5  Haha I remember when I nagged him to do the MBTI test and he didn't seem interested, he seemed avoiding the topic of MBTI. when I finally send the link to him, he said he actually done the...|||We have a lot of similarities in our interests so most of our discussions are something we're interested mutually. Well, sometimes he talks about something I don't really care, but I just nod along...|||Yep he'd been working until midnight last week and maybe still up until now. when he's quite free he would text me in the morning through the afternoon, but none when he's busy, which I don't mind...|||I have an ISFJ friend who I enjoyed talking to. He always seems like he's enjoying his time talking to me, like he always answers enthusiastically when we're in a discussion. But sometimes when I...|||Thx for the input! I will try to speak maybe one day when we're in the middle of long conversation     or can I say that you give excuses, say, to protect whatever relationship you have with the...|||Noble Tartis thanks for your insight.. I was pretty emotional when I wrote it and looking back at it now, it really is not clear on the context, it sort of looked like an emotional rant.. I'm...|||Thank you Green Girl SantaFox Dabbling very much appreciated  I'm sorry if I tried to generalize INTJs here... Never meant to say it that way.. Thanks anyway.. I don't think I'm able to confront...|||Do you guys INTJs really mean what you say? Would you put up a thoughtful smart excuse, so as not to be seen as a rude person? Are you also part of those people who drop signs subtly and...|||I'm an INFP and my older brother is an ESTJ. Total opposites. There are times when we fight and argue, most of them in a healthy way though..  Back in the days we got along very well, I was so...|||I was about to recommend a book for you, but nevermind, I forgot you don't read romance...|||Oh, I did send him a ping message asking how's thing going and he replied the day after texting with his usual style, as if nothing happened. well, nothing happened actually, so.. yeah nothing...|||ah, my opening up pace really depends how the other person reacts. Once I opened up in no time to an INTJ, but it had been light-years ago :tongue: I mostly read fictions, preferably those of Haruki...|||125. But the description doesn't suit me. It's irrelevant.... :unsure:|||I'm not, it IS messy :tongue: I'm too absorbed in unreality to tidy things up :laughing:    Whoa, I said the wrong line? :blushed: *put them on the ground* :laughing:|||My bookshelves so messy I just can't show it. :laughing: you have to wait until I open up slowly :blushed:|||Now go and recharge yourself :laughing:    well, I always thought he has enough interest in me, since we met on dating site (meaning he's looking for a gf rite..) but tbh, I don't know, since...|||Mostly I go what my feeling tells me first. Of course, we're INFP ;) But then as time goes by, I also have to consider what my brain says. Then I don't know which one to listen to: my heart or my...|||I've never met an INFP guy before.. well, not that I know of Would like to know what's it like to talk to one.  But that would be impossible, because we're shy and none of us would initiate...'