'It's better than prostitution.|||I would love to chat or Skype with an INTJ woman about her struggles with social expectations. As a female INTP working as a waitress I have become more and more defeated/unhappy because I cannot be...|||I do that too, so either we are both screwed up or it's a trend. My rage is a force of nature.|||This is the best argument against I've read so far. I can attest that trying to read an Intj's emotions is like trying to read russian, for me. Still, if you zoom out and look at the larger picture, ...|||Why?|||Intj-intp?|||I think I'm going to go with NTJs as well. I can't handle being with an NF because emotional outbursts are scary, I dont want to date an S, and NTPs are too much like me.|||I think two people need to be different enough for the relationship to stay interesting. In an ENTP INTP relationship the strengths are the same and the weaknesses are the same. There is no potential...|||Just cordially broke up with an ENTP. My thoughts on the INTP-ENTP pairing: no real mind connection. Too similar. We didn't really share interests, but if we had we probably would have burned up the...|||Way too serious, and therefore very fun to troll.|||H  I'm trying to do that. I just started waitressing. I like the busy times too but talking to people drains me. My SFJs boss is always telling to Smile! With your teeth! And I'm like You don't...|||My BF is an ENTP. He works at a sushi restaurant with a bunch of STJs who are always getting pissed at him for making air headed mistakes. Actually though he seems to be able to handle his inferior...|||Lol me too. Yeah I have an enfp friend irl and I go to him sometimes so he can make sense of my life for me. It sucks that feeling is my Achilles' heel because it makes human interaction difficult. I...|||I have negligible amounts of Fe and don't use Fi consciously. In other words, my emotions are subconscious. I basically have to meditate to tell the difference between hunger and heartbreak.|||Right?|||I just got through a period of grieving, started a new relationship (3 months), moved out of my parent's house, and yes it's summer. Could be any of those things I guess.|||I'm 3 months into a new relationship.|||Euphoria eh? *rubs chin*|||Yeah, actually, this describes it pretty well. An Enfp helped me with the word contentment too. Exciting optimistic contentment with goodwill towards mankind and randomly wanting to hug people?|||Lol I wouldn't likely know it emilia ; I can't distinguish emotions from one another. I only notice the physical manifestations, and sometimes people read my expression and tell me what I'm feeling.|||Contentment is definitely there, but I thought that was more of a lazy feeling. This has a buzz of excitement to it.|||Name that Emotion! I'm experiencing a feeling and I dont know what it is.  Symptoms: General goodwill towards everyone, including dogs Weird heavy feeling in my stomach It reminds me of when I...|||I'm experiencing a feeling and I dont know what it is.  Symptoms: General goodwill towards everyone, including dogs Weird heavy feeling in my stomach It reminds me of when I was a kid and my...|||' This would work. You're right, the second one could blow up in your face. The third one too, actually.|||weioo   Thanks so much! ^.^|||Some problems I've heard of with this pairing is that both the INTP and the ENTP think showing emotion is weakness, so communication about emotional issues or even being verbally affectionate doesn't...|||I, too, like to spend time with fiends.|||Haha this is so me.|||Ajentorange   325666|||The Hatter   Thanks for your thorough response.|||I'm looking for info on the ENTP-INTP pairing, but I haven't gotten much more than It's hard to mess up. This isn't often listed as an ideal pairing; why not? If you've ever dated an INTP, what...|||I can see how this would lead to an interesting conversation, but not to me giving you what you want. An ENTP I know will try to convince me to do what he wants (e.g. tell him something he wants to...|||How do you manipulate an INTP?|||So there isn't some kind of instruction manual for after one begins the relationship? I like to do my research before diving in.|||How do I sway ENTP cuties?|||What behaviors do you guys consider clingy? Just started dating an ENTP. I'm not a particularly needy person, but I'd like to know what to avoid.|||Thanks. ^.^|||This makes me curious. ENTJs:  As this is a rather personal question, don't feel obligated to respond, but... are you all typically sexually submissive? I read somewhere that people who are dominant...|||I mean you collective. Also it doesn't have to be in a romantic way.|||I don't understand. I asked, do you actively seek out those who need you and derive pleasure from teaching them?|||Do you seek out those who need you? I don't mean emotionally clingy. I mean those who are worthy of respect, but naturally weak where you are strong. Do you intentionally spend more time with them...|||I second this. There is no difference for me beween just living with someone and signing the piece of paper.|||Does the voice work on INTPs? I would imagine not. We don't like taking orders. Also, would one of you post a video of this phenomenon so I can see/hear what it's like?|||Dear xNTx,  Talk nerdy to me. :wink:  <3 Cordially, INTP|||265298|||http://youtu.be/nmy113gMds0|||I think I've perfected the leave me the hell alone vibe. I can be sitting in a crowded classroom where people are struggling to find a seat, and the seats next to me are empty because of my resting...|||Thanks for these. I actually started reading the Manual because I wanted an understanding of male psychology. Is that book true with NT men as well?|||INTx males approach relationships the same way I do. We wait for potential dates to come to us, then determine if they are reasonable, intelligent people and go from there. Most of us aren't...|||That's adorable, BIGJake111'