'Hi there! I too am an INFJ & am actually currently applying to law school. Waiting to hear from Berkeley at the moment. Fingers crossed!|||Ohhh I had a lot of the same issues as you for a really long time. I solved mine by going on plentyoffish.com, waiting for a guy I was actually interested in to talk to me, and then being completely...|||Everything is better with you. The sun on my back feels like you. Wrapping me in your warmth. The stars in the sky mirror the flickering flame of joy when you take my hand, kiss my cheek, touch me....|||Ooooh cool cool. I've always been interested in astrology but birth charts are basically where my ability to understand reaches its glass ceiling, haha. Something about them is just really hard for...|||Honestly, I'm often the same way - it's better to be blunt with me. And I have been reeally blunt with him when it comes to serious relationship issues. I will say I get a little scared being blunt...|||I wish I wasn't such a naturally jealous person. Before I was in a relationship, I always thought I would be so sensible. But every time a pretty, single girl posts on my boyfriend's facebook wall,...|||I'm currently dating an ISTJ and am very very happy. He's not the most communicative person when it comes to his feelings, but he's good at expressing himself physically... :P It can still be a bit...|||Since I started taking Vitamin D supplements a couple years ago, my SAD has been faaar less damaging. For those of you who suffer, I highly recommend supplementing your vitamin D. It made a...|||HEY GUYZ TIME FOR MY QUARTERLY PICSPAM <3  https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/390243_315884721759736_100000146321970_1504999_1558693089_n.jpg Me (left) with my good friend...|||Traum I'm sure he loves you for who you are. Once I truly appreciate a friend, I love everything about them, even their flaws. I wouldn't worry too much about what might annoy him, especially when it...|||I confess that I think the pill is awesome. Yay, science.|||So, anyway.|||Soooo after all of that. We have sadly neglected someone in need!   I personally really appreciate most compliments, though I suck at showing it (usually something like aw, gee, thanks or uhhh,...|||Oh, I see. Weeell I think my ISTJ is usually pretty reasonable about that, too. At least not noticeably so, if at all.|||I'm currently dating an ISTJ and I have to reiterate that especially with him, honesty is the best policy, and if you really want to know something, ASK. Don't assume or try to read into things...|||-Slapstick humor: it takes a very particular situation for me to be even vaguely comfortable with laughing at someone else's pain.  -Pressure put on men in relationships for always being the...|||lightscent, I don't really know you, but... XD http://174.121.153.8/~artpie1/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/4231995857_2bc6e4f122.jpg|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m4sKc1IXBZ8|||Again, it's not like we're trying to be cool or play games. It's about internal insecurity. We're actually trying to just act normal but we over-correct. And while we may very occasionally make...|||Haha, I mostly didn't announce my return because it's not really a full one... working on senior thesis and other classes doesn't leave me much time for you lovely folks... :'( <3|||Oleas Yes yes yes we absolutely do this. It's usually because we're afraid. Afraid of rejection, afraid of looking too clingy. It's rarely about not wanting to be in a relationship or being...|||Lulz, same thing happened with me, except I didn't make some huge announcement about returning... :P|||My first relationship became official in early July of this year. I'm 21. So. Yeah.  I don't really like the phrase serious because it comes with a lot of baggage, but we're committed to each...|||I've always wanted my handwriting analyzed! ;__; <3 Sorry for out of focus scanning...  http://pics.livejournal.com/blue_phoria/pic/005cfww4/s640x480 ...|||cheshirejack, that's basically been my approach thus far and it's seemed to work, I just wasn't sure if it was prudent to continue using it for this next step. I think basically it depends on how...|||Lost in Oblivion. Thanks for your reply. (:  Oh, yeah, as far as the virgin thing goes... no worries there. I'm in love with him; I'm ready to have sex with him. I want to. There's been absolutely...|||cheshirejack, I've suffered from similar problems in the past, and I have to say, a lot of my issues came from not loving myself enough to acknowledge that I truly deserved connection with other...|||Arobberatsea, you are so pretty ;__;  Sooo I haven't posted on these here forums in a long time because I've been RIDICULOUSLY busy with thesis at my university. I thought I'd post a couple current...|||Almost 100%, though my right pointer is usually over n instead of j just because I use n a lot more, hahaha. Also I tend to hit spacebar with my right pointer. So I'd say like 90% with my own...|||AHHH thank you so much dahling! So kind of you to say. <3 I'm happy you're back, I missed you too! *hugs*|||Raaaahhh my turn to vent! Sexual frustration! To put thing simply I really just want to make out etc. with my boyfriend lots and lots right now, but we have no place where we're really in private......|||You know you're an INFJ when you somewhat begrudgingly reach out to your server at subway a little because he asked how you were doing... and by the time you're checking out, he says thank you so...|||Omg, everyone is going to want you to take them to prom. ;p What a dashing young gentleman!|||Oh, Vaan you look so handsome and charming! :) I love the vest. It suits you very well. Or, it suits a very pleasant side of you. :)|||Oh gee, you're too kind. ;p Thank you. Maybe third understudy in a total flop that runs for two days, hahaha... but I guess from what I've seen there aren't any other PerC INFJ actors, so I guess I...|||Haha, I know, I was just using the most extreme example. My point was, you're still growing and finding out who you are.|||I'll tryyy but it's gonna be laaamesauce!  1. Best Smile: Veggie, Ethanol, PlushWitch 2. Best Looking: August, eclipsethesun 3. Most Intelligent: So subjective! So I say... me. Hahaha. 4....|||Hokahey  How do you get into a relationship when you are unemployed? Online dating sites can help, though personally I'd stick with people who are at most an hour away from you, distance-wise. As...|||Aleksandr, Kaly has made some good points. I would just like to add that as far as the trust issues go... I'm not saying it's impossible, but it seems very unlikely to me that an INFJ would cheat....|||First watch this:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AJmKkU5POA  And then this:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjaZNYSt7o0|||The best thing to do is take action. Plan and organize, yes, but don't spend all your time with it. As far as picking what you want to do, go with your gut. If your gut tells you several different...|||SO IMAGE HEAVY OMG  In no cohesive order...  http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-ash1/v154/85/52/784045441/n784045441_1797138_303.jpg...|||Naw, not all INFJs are so sensitive when it comes to something like killing bugs or omnivorism. We might just have a higher concentration of uber-pacifists and vegetarians. (No offense meant at all...|||Hmm, see, I don't think it's just the way things are that you don't feel NTs. I dunno I'm having a bit of difficulty phrasing this, but it does seem to me like you might just be going into Ti mode...|||Yikes, someone needs to engage their Se! It honestly sounds to me like rather then using Fe, you're engaging in Ti here and cutting them off a bit, or selling them short, based on how you analyze the...|||Hmm. Are you sure she's an INFJ? Seriously. I don't know where you read that description of INFJs but I've never played the field, hahaha. Maybe she doesn't realize you're interested in her that...|||TreeBob, would you please sticky this thread so it won't get lost in the fray? Thank you so much! :)|||Well, texting can be a bit of a monetary concern if one doesn't have an unlimited texting plan... just a thought. I know I push my unlimited texting plan to the limit with my boyfriend, hahaha. ...|||Personally, I found a lot of great information on each of the types and their wings on this forum. If you go to each individual enneagram type's forum, there is a sticky thread (or two!) with...|||This was a fun test, thanks for posting it! Here's how I scored...  http://pics.livejournal.com/blue_phoria/pic/0057036g  I'm a 4w3, not a 4w5, I swear! Whenever I read descriptions contrasting...'