'I'm good! Our house was unscathed :D   Yeah, they're pretty terrible atm. Maria is almost as bad as Irma. I sure hope she keeps away from Florida and it looks like she will from most tracking data,...|||She's perfect! Ever since she recovered from her surgery, she's been such a happy little camper with a newfound confidence - she thinks she's in charge of everyone and thing, even though she's only...|||Hi everyone! I've missed you!  So I dropped off the forum a few months ago as I got so busy with a big project and then had lost the habit of coming here.   Then, we had hurricane Irma sweep...|||I don't think anyone I know would call me serene :laughing:   But thank you, it's sweet of you to come here & compliment us. I shall bask in the glow even if I don't deserve it :wink:|||683258    Happy Birthday Snowflakey!!! :hug:     I have decided! You need some hamsters...|||Belly... it has to be my belleh in order to fall asleep.  But once I'm asleep for a few hours, I often turn to my side in either a slightly bent at hips (yearner), or very straight (log) position. ...|||683250     :angel:|||I read Nurture by Nature by Paul and Barbara Tieger...  I found it quite good and feel more confident about potentially typing young children in the future - everyone I've known matched their...|||Ohh Marv... Legumes are where it's at!      682610|||Really, all Si types seem a little squishy to Ni types.   Don't assume NFJs don't bite too...|||Oh yeah, I agree with you on tolerance thresholds... I'd also like to add that the other element of the same thing is practice.   I imagine it kind of like times of war... You have your normal...|||New update on Chloe post surgery:  Well, the surgery went well :D  The vet did not find the obstruction she expected to find... instead she found that what she saw on the xray was instead a very...|||I'm curious how we inferior Se gals in general deal with PMS moods?   It doesn't often happen to me, but when it does it seems to take me a good long time to realize that something's off. It's...|||When I was younger, it was always someone much older or younger than me (like my 8yr old 'friend' who was a very uniquely bright sensible girl... some kids are just amazingly more aware than adults -...|||Are we talking Fe or Te here?   You seem to be pointing out empirical scientific data that Te deals with.   I am pointing out moral data that Fe deals with.  (I am not suggesting that you use...|||Yup.  I agree with others, anything that breaks my focus can make me really irritated.  When people want to talk to me, I insist on reorganizing myself first. Only then can I be accommodating....|||Yeah... that's like those minimum possible investment people (MPIs). They're so busy either trying to portray something about themselves, or just meet the minimum interaction goal, that they fling...|||I'm not attached to emojis for my own satisfaction (like I don't care about receiving them), but I tend to use them more whenever I think someone may be confused about my intentions with something...|||Long? LOL, you haven't seen anything yet! :p  Welcome to the forum!   I'm fairly likely to use external means to write my messages, depending on the format of the place I'm posting.   For...|||AMAZING NEWS everyone!!! OMG!!!  Chloe is in surgery right now!!!  Some wonderful people called the vet and put down the money up front so the vet could start the surgery!!!  I'm SO SHOCKED and...|||Oh no, I didn't mean that you were condescending at all! I was just teasing you!  LOL|||Also, I see a few new threads in other subforums are completely gone too.  It seems to be ones created yesterday. :(|||Hey mods... we are losing threads left & right.  I mean, they just disappear - not moved. I was *just* typing out a very long reply to someone's Q on the INFJ subforum about their ESFJ...|||Congratulations!!!   Is it just me, or did the beginning read kind of like I climbed Mt. Everest / got a Doctorate, you know... high achievement?   Well, I certainly think it is the biggest...|||Thank you so much everyone for your compassion and commiseration.  I very much appreciate every reply and story and hand-hold here, I really needed them.  It means a lot to me and makes me feel...|||Exactly what I said.   How is a heart supposed to understand why money is more important than a life that is loved? How is anyone supposed to understand that?  Why do children still die in...|||I'll be hovering over the cake, pretending not to be bothered by so many people, while scoffing down all the desserts. Ooopsie, I didn't mean to eat all the eclairs, sorry!     Happiness!!! ...|||I get the head part...  My heart will never understand.|||I know this isn't type dependent, for our friends find it sickening too... but I just had to say:  Doesn't it seem deeply, completely, WRONG, when life is reduced to dollars & cents?  So every...|||... Just as long as I'm not again accused of running away... :rolleyes:  Then all is well :)|||Let's check this claim out...  We began with:       So, Ikusagami , amongst Stawkers statements & sarcasm, where was he asking me for further explanation?|||Not to rain on your parade, but:  As a prescription drug, I hope you are talking it under the guidance of a doctor.  Modafinil carries a hefty list of potential side effects, including fatality...|||Sangoire ... that's interesting!   You know, I really admire the amount of time & thought you put into your fella. You always have something well thought out to add, your insight is much...|||Stawker - I did address my issues with your points. You failed to comprehend. In every thread we have conversed.   My dignity most certainly doesn't rest upon remaining silent as someone makes...|||Yet more assumptions :rolleyes:   How everything makes sense to you + some assumptions pulled out of your ass + concern over my emotions... yup, you must be pretty deep into your shadow side.|||There's such a thing as entertaining an idea in order to consider it, without buying it.   Intuitives are usually pretty good at this, whether they be thinkers or feelers.   You seem to keep...|||Snowflake Minuet  I just saw this video on FB, and it made me think of you! LOLOL     https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uloc1iW-pgc|||According to google (lol), most people believe in a line of delineation between evil acts, and a state of being evil. The state is dependent upon a consistent history of significantly evil acts.  ...|||But how can it not be?  Megalomania, psychopathy, sociopathy, these are very frequently associated with those people who have committed atrocities and would be labeled by larger consensus as evil....|||Yes, although for me it's not physical.  Physical sensations from emotional discomfort are due to the brain sending out signals along the nerves in reaction to heightened emotion.  In order for...|||I've never seen quickly in any of the proper Sx descriptions.  I've seen it reffered to as a need, which confers a strong longing, perhaps inciting many to move quickly - however that's not an...|||Sx wants to get to know someone deeper... monogamy is the best outlet for that.  I don't think Sx is the cause of your problems... it's not exactly about sex.   Ne / Se are the causes.|||My real answer to this is waaay too complicated for me to even type out.  Suffice to say, it all depends. It depends, so much, my head could explode.  We're talking inferior Se here, so the...|||Guys, what's a hipster? Lol       I meant that evil is the result of a psychological disorder of some form.|||lavendersnow ... Huh??? I am a bit confused.  My opening sentence was aimed towards Zosios OP, and then I tagged you preceding my train of thought related to what you said.  I don't understand...|||It's not. I had that question myself when I first started looking into it two years back.  I did quite a bit of internet searching on this topic, and I came across some churches that use MBTI as a...|||I hadn't heard of that before, although I have read about the evil side of INFJs. It sounds a bit different than that (hitler, apparently).   The problem I see with  lavendersnow description...|||Harrr harrr harrr... de pirate lassie has found the truth!  Not a joke but still so funny!|||For the broader aspect of the question, yes I've dated Ts almost exclusively. I would choose a T over an F in the future, as it just fits what I need & want in a partner better.   To be picky...|||Ethanol , I thought you might want to weigh in with your perspective for obvious reasons :)'