'Pro-life|||I am married to a major feeler like yourself, he's ESFJ.  He says the exact things you said about your SO. We are difficult to get close to and we are very slow moving with sharing our inner personal...|||I'm not one to just sit and talk, it gets boring after a while. To be honest most friendships I enjoy with other girls are around doing things together.|||She could be an ESTP.  I was never shy with adults as a kid but that could be more nurture than nature.  I can also see how an 8w7 could come across a little more reserved than a 7w8 ESTP.  It would...|||Chelsea Handler  -  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwRl9TEnukc Ronda Rousey-  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7kpFqGqALI  I think these two girls are ESTP.  My BIL always tells me they remind...|||The fact is growing our Fe and Ni means we are maturing as ESTPs.  My mother is an INFJ so I had a lot of Ni/Fe influence in my life and I believe it's done me a lot of good to learn from her. If in...|||Warm/Affectionate Confidence Honesty Hard-working Fun/Outgoing Non-controlling Can handle my live-in-the-moment ways/accepts me for me|||Guy Fieri -ESFP 7w6  Giada de Laurentis - ISFJ 1w2 Paula Deen - ESFJ 2w3 maybe ESFP Alton Brown - INTP 5  Rachel Ray - ESFP 7w6 Robert Irvine - ESTJ 3w2 (image conscious and in-charge)  Ina...|||rawr_sheila 65762|||Is it the actual communication that is causing the strain?  What is the conversation you need to tell her about?  I'm just curious because you said she keeps putting the blame back on you so...|||I'm still learning.  I seem to get it by reading and then observing people in real life.  I can see the functions in others but have difficulty explaining it theoretically.|||Fe in an ESTP is fixed on the attitude of the other person  This is what I meant when I said I'd be more focused on his attitude. We would want to find out the reason he said this; his intentions and...|||In awe in a good or bad way?  I'm curious if I explained it clearly. It was late and I was tired.|||The big yellow one is the sun. That's all I got.|||Antisocial Personality Disorder|||Both ESFP and ESTP are hands on.  Not sure how you are defining externally efficient; could be taken as Se or Te. Everything in your post reads like you are an  ESFP.  Especially the bi-polar...|||This is why my BFF is ISTP.   She truly gets me and I get her.|||I think this is it.  Especially if you are an E3.  I think he's just watching you for a reaction.  Others have mentioned a crush but I don't think that is it.  We don't cackle at people we have...|||Yes we are very fast paced.  We wouldn't want it any other way.     Well I am married to an ESFJ, E3 sx so it doesn't surprise me that you really like ESTPs.|||1.  I've been out of the dating scene for years but when I was single I would definitely be aggressive but I didn't chase.  I prefer to be chased after.  I dated a lot though.  2.  For me I think my...|||My best friend is ISTP.  She is very curvy, seriously she has the most amazing butt; it's beautiful.  She likes girly things and can go from sporty to dressing up really well.  I would say she is...|||Yes it had gotten to the point where I didn't even want to come into the office.  It's my company. lol She had become such a downer and totally squashed the happiness in the office.  Unfortunately...|||I think the friendship between these two is great but the everyday, whether working together or marriage is stressful for both. I had an ISFJ assistant and I felt like I was walking on eggshells...|||I find everyone says this about those who don't communicate like they do.  An ESTP will speak out of real life experience and this seems random to an NT.    I know ENTPs who are just as blunt as us...|||Have you thought about narrowing it down to temperament first.  Whether or not you are an idealist, guardian/traditionalist or artisan/creator/experiencing? That's a good starting point.|||I have 3 teenage daughters, none which are INTP.  Where are you not connecting with your ESTP mother?|||Conversations I have to work way too hard at. Being alone as other have said. Also, sadness and boredom drain me.|||I might quickly skim it to get the gist of the instructions if it's something that can't be changed. And I agree with Benzoate,  I won't read for electronics, software, computers, etc.|||Yes, I've bought used and new. My ESTP friend is a wholesaler so many years ago I bought a really nice used Expedition from him and it was so easy.  I just simply told him what I wanted and my...|||Exactly, I am in no way butch but I don't mind being the one who makes others laugh with my obnoxious humor and I like to compete but never in a nasty way.  I just enjoy the game.  Especially in...|||We are most like a stereotypical man's personality.  I usually get the, Your personality is not like other girls, from both men and women.  I'm really feminine in looks but not in the way I...|||This thread is unfair.  God forbid people judge me on my teenage years.  We take longer than others to mature so you probably don't want to get too involved with this young ESTP or go ahead but just...|||There are a few who think I am asking because I'm worrying.  I don't worry much about anything.  Matter of fact, she doesn't show any signs of rebellion and it seems you INTJs are only going to buck...|||Carmine Ermine  The only time I went over to my shadow functions was when I was very unhealthy.  It was my reaction to feeling that my life was out of my control.  In attempt to gain control I...|||My husband tells me I can work at the airport sniffing out baggage.  Not always a good thing to be able to smell everything.  I have a lovely gag reflex that goes along with my despise for bad odors.|||I am not sure what you are going through but I sure hope it all works out for you and your little guy. In my experience with knowing other 8s, I've noticed that they will go one way or another...|||@Berdudget  I test 7w8 and sometimes 8w7 but either way my 8 definitely makes itself known.  The good news is that your little 8 has you as a parent.  My mother is INFJ and it's very helpful to have...|||I had my 14 year old take the test and she came out INTJ which makes complete sense as she practically eats books.  Like many posts on here, she can also appear as an ISFJ female however she does...|||I've read ESTP is the rarest of the Sensors and I'd have to agree.  I've seen a lot of mistyping here with young college age people who have no idea who they are yet.  To the OP who is looking to...|||Lying is not nature but more nurture/character so I don't think any specific type is MORE prone to lying.  I agree with the rest, we are actually brutally honest which usually gets us in trouble.|||It takes a lot for me to get angry.  I think that is more of an ESFP behavior. I would say any kind of disloyalty or lying is at the top of the list.  I also hate passive-aggressiveness.  If I feel...|||Nessie, do you realize you just had 6 argumentative posts in a row by yourself?  Good God woman,you've turned this thread into a shit show.  Please go join your fellow ENTPs who enjoy this sort of...|||Yes what is your career or career choice if you are a student, as an ESFJ female?  How about any ESFJ males here?  Well, I am the only ESTP woman I know IRL.  ESTP are the rarest type of the...|||Exactly what an ESFJ man would say.  My mother in law said when my husband was a child and everyone talked about what they wanted to be when they grow up, he'd say married with kids. lol  So the...|||Well I was speaking of my ESFJ husband and friend's husband.  He cooked and cleaned for himself in military and college I suppose.  Not to say they can't, poor choice of words on my end, just that...|||I know two ESFJ males.  I think an ESFJ girl is into her looks, make-up, body image as well as the ESFJ man.  Both guys are very groomed,  much into keeping their bodies fit and conscious of their...|||You look just like an ESFP guy I know, even the face your making in the photo.|||Well, I like SJ because someone has to be organized in the relationship and I admire their responsibility.  My SO is ESFJ actually.|||Jung Explorer Test  Actualized type: ESTP     (who you are)                                                                               Extroverted (E) 72%...|||NF usually assume we are not well because we don't discuss what's going on inside of us.  However, this has nothing to do with being unhealthy.  It's our natural state therefore not a problem for...'