'First of all, I love this thread! Thanks!  I'm in a long term relationship with an ESTP (Four years and counting!). At the start is was hard. Really hard. There were times that both of us genuinely...|||Also, Britain really has a comedy goldmine.  http://https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3oH0ReL3Cew|||I don't always agree with my favourite comedians jokes. Jack Dee is hilarious, but I'm not so keen of making fun of people with OCD. Here is a great short act of his:  ...|||There might already be a thread out there about this, but who are some INFJ's favourite comedians? Or what are your favourite types of humour? Post below!|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7zaYkdHyIuQ|||Some digital surrealism by my favourite surrealist, Evgenij Soloviev. 401258 401266 401250|||I thought I'd share my playlist with you all. Bare in mind that the cover artists are integral to the reason the song is on the list. For example, Adam Gontier brings this heart wrenching rawness to...|||Hey INFJ's, you beautiful people that you are.   We are emotional creatures and I don't know about you guys, but I find a certain beauty in sadness. I'm drawn to it, like I'm drawn to deep anger,...|||Really? I suppose a lot about my typing is contradictory though. 4w5 and 5w4 results are also pretty contradictory. However, I have seen EII and INFJ paired up before, such as here for example:...|||Just for funsies. Also, sometimes there are some pretty strange parallels between people and their astrological signs. (:|||Hey fellow INFJ's!   I know when I discovered MBTI it was life changing and I had to know everything about my INFJ result. Prior to MBTI I was always doing personality quizzes, reading my...|||I just recently discovered that my enneagram type is 4w5, (my close second would be 9w1).  I'm an INFJ 4W5 with a close second of 5w4. However my third is 9w1, so we're not too dissimilar (:   I...|||Hey, hey!   I was just wondering who you guys think could be toted as INFJ's in fiction and in real life? It's always good when you find someone that you can relate to!  SPOILER WARNING! I...|||What I love about the INTP's in my life, and one in particular is their desire to understand. One of my INTP friends is dating another INFJ and the way they try to make sense of us is not only...|||I have a lot of friends that are INTP's, but it can be hard work! The biggest thing I find is that INTP's are logic based thinkers, and INFJ's are feelers. I don't want to speak for every other INFJ,...|||Hey guys,   I was just wondering how other INFJ's healthily cope with emotional pain? Such as unrequited love, break ups, betrayal... I don't know about others, but my current method of dealing...|||Hi all,   I was wanting to know what your thoughts were on a correlation between the INFJ MBTI type and addiction. I know that INFJ's in the Se Grip can over indulge in things such as binge...|||This is exactly it! But it always made them really mad and I would feel bad! Lol|||I used to play netball and I loved it. I was a great defence player and could play any defence position, I always in the A team. I even imagined myself in a career as a netballer but there was just...|||Two things, first: can you explain to me more about what it means to have Fi that is out of control?  Second, you're last sentence is very resonant with me. The situation has been semi resolved. I...|||Spot on. You've exactly described what I was trying to when I say that I feel the door slam in my heart. It's like my heart just seizes. No more emotional output.|||This is so interesting! There is a definite trend of Owls, Wolves and Bears!|||I always loved the concept of spirit animals and such like, like animagus' in Harry Potter! So I typed in Google What animal would INFJ's be? and there isn't a lot out there!  So I'll put it out...|||Could you tell me more about this? (:|||Definitely sweets. The first place I notice weight gain is in my face but I also gain weight very evenly .I just keep becoming a bigger and bigger model of myself. I'm getting enormous hip and bust...|||I've done this my whole adult life and other INFJ's I've talked to have done or still do it as well. I never had a term for it until I saw INFJ door slam described in a meme - it's not neccessarily...|||Holy moly, he is so sexy. I have been in love with him since i first found his Best-Of CD in my Dad's ute when I was 6.|||I would like some advice, if someone wouldn't mind?   I have PMDD (http://www.psychguides.com/guides/living-with-premenstrual-dysphoric-disorder/) which, the day or two days before my period I kind...|||Hello fellow INFJ's :proud:  How do all of you fare with the ol' door slam trait? I have had done some pretty epic door slams in my life, in fact I may be a little slam-happy. Its something I am...|||Hey fellow INFJ's.   I have this little.... quirk, shall we say, where loosing weight is kind of a nightmare. Not because its hard work, but because it takes over my mind. I obsess. No other word...|||Wow, ouch! You're entitled to your opinion, however I think you're confusing open relationships with polyamory. I don't want to sleep with just anyone when the mood strikes, its not even always...|||mystikro   You make some good points. It can feel a little out of control. I'm fortunate enough to have a partner who understands me - when we discussed it last night he said he always sort of...|||I'm an iNFJ.   I know that without a doubt in my mind and I don't think I need to prove that to anyone (though immediately I want to justify the above statement). Every article I've ever read on...|||I put on some really loud Muse in an attempt to override my thoughts. The theory was that if it was loud enough, I couldn't possibly keep thinking because I wouldn't be able to hear myself think. ...|||Purely out of interest and not limited to INFJ's - I was wondering what other people's nervous twitches were? I recently had a close friend observe that when I'm under pressure or trying to mask my...|||I'm on the Leo/Virgo cusp (23 August). Before I found out about MBTI, I found out there was such thing as cusp signs. I found the write ups and groups on the net about Leo/Virgo cuspians comforting...|||I have exactly this manifestation when I'm in the Se grip. I spend money of crap I don't need but I like and reading your post made me realise I do it for the exact same reason - I feel untouchable,...|||This sounds exactly like me and my two best friends! :D|||I have three best friends, the most I've ever had! Getting out into the real world was the best thing for me (: Two of them I met when I moved into my flat. They're a couple - an INTP and an INFJ....|||I was 3-4 and I remember climbing onto the haystacks in the hay shed and jumping off onto the bottom stacks, climbing a little higher each time. Even back then I needed a safe, quiet place and the...|||I got 80%. I think it was kind of easy though, like if you could even see the tension of their mouths or foreheads it would be a dead giveaway (:|||I think there is way too much negativity out there about ESTP/INFJ pairings. When I first found out about MBTI and looked up me and my partner's compatibility, it was all doom and gloom: You'll...|||ESTP's get stuff done and their whole energy is infectious! I don't see why everyone knocks on them so hard, all types have their flaws...   You know you're dating an ESTP when you leave it to them...|||I recently read about the Se Grip and I definitely struggle with this. 95% of the time. I was wondering if any INFJ's out there had any advice for avoiding the grip, what to do when in the grip, or...|||I don't really control my chameleonism... I'm a drama student and so almost everyday i project this extroverted version of myself and I think it might actually be the only reason I can pursue drama....|||Yup, I have this too! My hearing is fine but I almost always need things repeated. It's like, I hear the person talking but I either cant understand what they're saying or think I've heard them...|||I'm scared of be unvalidated by them! My best female friend is an INFJ and sometimes we are completely on the same page, but other times I almost feel like she's a little more INFJ-ish than I am! In...|||Some of what you said does sound a lot like me. When I used to look back, I'd wish I was able to punch myself in the face. I can see now that I was just messed up from emotional instability in my...|||Puntje   Definitely confused. In every sense of the word. Everything true about me was bottled and stamped down. I didn't trust anybody with the truest aspects of myself because I never felt...|||zosio913   This resonates a lot with me. I would connect to people, form incredibly tight bonds and then one day destroy them. I didn't know I was doing it at the time, but upon reflection - I was...'