'I love it!!!|||If I relied on mental notes, I would never accomplish anything in any way ever, hahaha. when I get to the door I will remember to take that paper with me to university. Door, paper. **walks towards...|||Yes!!! Writing stuff down in all those ways certainly helps somewhat. :D|||Thanks for the feedback! Great ideas but 12 years and 4 kids into a marriage and I actually have at least 3 or 4 bins full of papers and receipts and bills plus 3 or 4 drawers full of more papers and...|||Would you like to offer advice? Perhaps as an NT you can advise me on how I can work with my NT (INTP) husband to change things around here? If I bring a friend over to help me, I think my husband...|||Thank you for your advice! I have SJ friends who have offered to come over and help me but part of the issue is that my INTP husband, while he lacks house organizational skills as much as I do,...|||I hit Thanks but it's not indicating that it worked, so, thanks haha :)|||Yeah but that doesn't mean we like it!! :/|||I am posting here because I'm so frustrated and I need to rant and I don't think there's any group that would understand quite the same. I am unorganized and I HATE it. I can't just turn on an...|||We actually get along (usually) incredibly well. :)  This was really a vent about a specific issue regarding being with the family during family time.  You hit the nail on the head with number...|||I've done this at times and it helps!   What kind of things are you saying to him? Are these really important things? Is now the only moment they have to be told? Or can they wait?    I...|||It's not that he doesn't give a shit, he just, by default, goes to that mode. Truth is he did join the family after he saw my frustration (I left to breathe and post this, then went back to the...|||I do appreciate his need to zone out (though it took time at first, 12 years ago, to learn the difference between zone out and ignoring me.) Again, I learned and I give him plenty of zone out /...|||My husband of 12 years and I have 4 kids. Either of us may make dinner on any given evening, but when I make dinner most of the time the kids are running around and my husband is sitting at the table...|||a full night's sleep.  organizational skills.  a horseback ride.  my flute to be fixed.  anything soothing.|||Blood types. My co-worker and I found ourselves randomly discussing blood types and we wanted to check how common O positive is.|||Mommy, when I wear my sun glasses, everything is black, dark, warm. When I take them off, everything is white and cold. When I wear them, life is just better.  Mommy, I don't want to wash my...|||Arya Stark for me (A Song of Ice and Fire)|||(I didn't read everyone's response so I don't know if this was addressed in this way..) My INTP hubby thinks that I and E are often misunderstood. It's not really about shy or social, it's about (and...|||Can you elaborate?|||I happen to think INTP's are awesome. My husband of almost 10 years is an INTP.  I relate to the idea of feeling inferior though, my whole life I was considered intelligent, then I met my genius...|||Hhmm... let's see. I wanted to be a math/english/science/gym teacher for elementary school kids, a biologist, a horse trainer, teacher for the deaf, a massage therapist, can't remember what else. I...|||Haha, I don't think I ever thought in terms of being a Nice Kid or not. I wasn't against it, but it wasn't exactly a priority. :)|||Honestly, I have this problem also. I really think this is an FP issue! Although my tactic as a kid was to just try to sneak with not doing stuff. I never wanted to debate it.|||That's what I keep telling him! Do what I say, then talk all you want! He is going to have to try it and see, LOL.|||I suppose it's possible, and if it does, and if I'll need advice based on what he becomes, I'll post a new thread. For now, I'm just looking for guidance based on what he's currently like. :)|||If I leave him alone to accomplish any task he will quickly fade away into his own world in his head, which is fun to watch because he acts it out so to speak, but you see in his eyes he's not here...|||All I can tell you is that he's always exhibited very strong ENFx traits (when he was younger we weren't sure if he was P or J), and my ENFP friend loves just watching and listening to him because my...|||Most of the time it isn't a problem, it's when it's time bound (ie he's late for school) and he will not start until he's expressed himself with a 10 minutes speech. He won't talk while doing it, he...|||Do you have kids?|||I think i'm much stricter than your mom! The one rule she had that I need to get my kids to adhere to is putting away toys after they're finished playing with it. I try but they don't listen! My kids...|||I love it! Thanks! :)|||I know she's young but her being an ISTJ is so clear in every aspect of her personality, that I don't doubt it at all. My husband is an INTP. He's constantly trying to get me to sync my phone with a...|||..... Maybe I really should get evaluated. ....|||No, but I'm sure I have it, I don't want to go down that road though. I'm probably worse these days than usual because I don't get enough sleep and I eat too much candy and chocolate. All that...|||That makes sense, there are even days she makes her own school lunch, to make sure it's ready before she has to leave so she won't be late for school.     I like this, because I'm actually really...|||So I have an 8 year old daughter who is highly intelligent, very mentally organized, and quite responsible. I feel bad for her because I'm sooo not organized, it's hard for her. (I think it shows in...|||I'm so happy to find this cafe! Actually my friend found it for me, because I needed help with my ENFP son, and the advice has already helped me! (Someone else had posted about her ENFP son, and it...|||I totally relate right now to #3, and the thing is I feel guilty, I feel bad about not liking the person. She didn't actually say or do anything wrong, she's exactly what you described - nice gal,...|||I used to be really good at technical things, but then I married an INTP and he's a computer programmer so I just let him take over on all that stuff, lol, but I do work on the computer all day so...|||For some reason these two wouldn't load in the last post. You guys are all so talented, wish I had time to really learn how to do this, and to try more stuff than just pencils and colored pencils....|||I never really learned how to draw, but here are some stuff I've done since high school just for fun.  5822358226582275822858229|||You remember that other thread you commented on, Shale's 1st grader? Her description matches my son perfectly. He screams ENFP. He loves EVERYONE and sees the world in terms of good and evil and just...|||Also, he always liked that I *get* his very subtle sarcasm that goes right over most people's heads.|||I'm gonna jump in and comment because I'm married to an INTP for almost 10 years now. :) I think he liked/likes that I'm kinda silly and fun but intelligent and I know when to be serious, although...|||Hello! So I was hoping you guys could give me advice (more advice, I got a lot of help already from reading other threads!) on how to get my son to do what I need him to do!! He's a great kid, very...|||I'm almost 10 years (happily) married to an INTP. The biggest challenge at first was making sure he remembered to express his love, lol, but now he's very good at it. :)|||Also, I remember having trouble growing past certain things as I became an adult because I was afraid to change, since as a kid I was always so proud when people would say to me you're so unique,...|||I was originally mistyped as an N because as all my friends and family (who get the personality thingy) say I'm very N for an S :)|||HHmm... I don't think I'd really care who bought it, but why ugly? I'm sure cheap mismatched furniture can be gotten that's not ugly.'