'I feel like I say the same crap every time I answer one of these threads but one thing that I never really noted before:  If I really like you I want to delve deep down inside your head and bring...|||http://25.media.tumblr.com/3fd54683e7ae835ccac5f2437aeda96d/tumblr_mlxs8qjkxU1rg3x7ao1_500.png  This makes me laugh really hard every time I see it.|||You're not being genuine and it sure as hell isn't fooling me.|||Man, this thread.... I will never ever question my INFJness again. I feel like the threads on the main page in general today describe me to a t.  Yes, I speak fast and crazy when I am excited,...|||I can't function:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&amp;v=0pK8dplyTHM|||There is no definitive way I've shown my attractive for someone.  1. I bluntly feel comfortable telling you straight out because I think you may be attracted to me too. 2. You'll never know. I'm...|||INFJs, because of their strong Ni ARE thinkers in our own regard. If anything it sounds like she might not be an INFJ though it is true that we come in a sort of variety. I have been told that I was...|||I wish I had just thought this up but I am asking for someone... I'm more or less curious. I'd rather not divulge the more personal details about this matter.|||Yes, I do realize this may have been an overly-simplistic statement and appreciate your response. It personally upsets me when I see people in situations that are unhealthy for them and do not stand...|||Yeah... no offense but ISFJs seem to be okay with being manipulated/their spouse's puppets.|||Interesting. I'm truly curious if the same could ever go for a female ESTJ and a male ISFJ.|||I despise socionics but I would like to mention the fact my boyfriend is an ENTJ and I'm an INFJ.   So... it may be possible that an ESTJ and ISFJ relationship could work OKAY if the male is an...|||Yeah, I just assume that ESTJs would constantly try to control, undermine, and dominate an ISFJ :(... I just wanted to know if my assumptions could be correct in a romantic relationship!|||So, they are probably a horrid match, hah.|||Everything I've bolded rings true. I'm not quite sure about everything else.   If this is socionics, which I don't believe in, this doesn't mean much anyway.|||- What are 3 things that annoy you?  I'll answer with things that are currently annoying me: 1. People who don't realize how much power they have to change a negative situation they're in 2. When...|||I was curious about this type of relationship yet there doesn't seem to be anything on the internet regarding these two types being together intimately. Google actually kept trying to correct ESTJ to...|||I'm a leg shaker, my mom is a leg shaker, my ex is a leg shaker, my current boyfriend is a leg shaker...  I like it, especially because it means I'm burning calories without even thinking about it....|||I'm the eldest.  I have one younger brother, he's 16.|||So, I always say I'm a night person. My reasoning for believing I'm more awake at night has to do with the fact I have pretty severe insomnia, especially if I'm not sleeping next to my boyfriend....|||I was born in Nassau County, Long Island, raised in Suffolk County, Long Island from age 3-18, moved to Queens for college, and then moved in with my boyfriend in the Financial District of Manhattan...|||Ban Hammer?  I think it's funny that you've equated caring to introversion...|||I'm basically indifferent to Christmas. I'm indifferent to most holidays actually but I like the time off.|||I really don't dress any different and I'm not more than 102lbs.He's so Jekyll and Hyde.I still don't get how a person can go from putting someone on a pedestal and treating them better than they've...|||God, we just totally both need a vacation x_______x. We don't get to spend enough/barely any quality time together and I think that's also really hurting us. He's become so much more critical, even...|||You should really post this as an article somewhere. It hits so close to home... to the point where I sometimes questioned if we were the same person.|||Hehe, of course I've thought about the future, how kids will affect the situation, etc. The future is all I think about! I need a lot of my own space too sometimes and I know there are times where...|||1. Tell me what made your relationship with an ENTJ end...  or...  2. Tell me what made your relationship with an ENTJ last...|||Well, It's not like we haven't basically talked about it and there's a 95% chance that he knows I'd post something like this on here though he's not interested in joining.  I think what I'm...|||:(.  My dreams used to be interesting when I was a kid.... I don't know what happened.|||I'm totally late to this thread so what I'm about to say has probably been said already...I do feel I'm complex, and it's in ways I'm not proud of, it's frustrating.Everyone is unique, yes, but INFJs...|||Well we've been living out this relationship as if each other is the one so I definitely don't want to end this and today he told me he has no intention of ending it either. It's been so...|||This seems the most like what's going on with my boyfriend but it's already improved in the last few days. I've been around him a lot and it's mostly that he probably needs space so I'm going to...|||Is my thread not being responded to because ENTJs don't fall out of love? :tongue:  I'm so used to INFJs responding quickly because so many of us frequent the forum.|||I would actually prefer an array of answers. If I just wanted one generalized response I wouldn't have made this its own thread. I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice just yet.|||What are some signs that an ENTJ is falling out love/is not in love with a person anymore?  If you can, please give signs for both if they do or don't live with their significant other.  I'm just...|||Please answer yes or no (or whatever) to the following:  Do you make random noises that others find funny? No?  Do you dislike misleading things (ie. clowns, fake flowers)? I suppose in this...|||I've considered making a thread about this, or at least something similar.  I don't think I'm particularly beautiful or anything but it seems that men are drawn to me and yes, fall for me easily....|||When you're accused of not being current or contemporary enough.|||When you feel totally at home volunteering.  I've been volunteering at an Arts Festival and every time I recommend a great installation, help people with directions, etc it really fires me up and I...|||Welcome to Personality Cafe :D. I'm sure we're all glad to have you here as these are all so on point! I look forward to reading more posts from you.  -you occasionally are shocked that you're...|||I don't believe I've ever personally been offended by an INFJ but I know I've questioned some INFJs regarding their INFJ-dom. I also recently told a young INFJ that their lack of grammar irked me. I...|||Dad: ENFP Brother: ISTJ Mother: ESFP  I obviously get along best with my father. My best friend is also an ENFP. My mother and I don't get along at all but she is also severely mental ill and...|||This is... Hahahaha. I love this. Go INFJ-ENTJ relationships! It sounds almost paradoxical but it's true.  I still try to keep in mind it's the woman behind the man. Just to clarify before any...|||Hehe, see... us INFJs judge ourselves practically more than others. We are extremely self critical creatures and value the idea of treating others like we treat ourselves and expecting that in...|||Thank you for the honest reply. He's 25 but it's true that age is only a number... though he still is mature in many ways.   I know I need to work on my harsh-ness. I suppose I may come off a...|||Hmm, maybe. Any other ENTJs here get defensive? I know it's kind of hard to admit...okay, maybe very hard for you guys.  I think I'll do an enneagram quiz on him today for shits and gigs. I think...|||-Don't bore them  -Don't talk about meaningless gossip... (I've gotten so comfortable in the relationship I do it anyway but... I suggest you don't do it if you're trying to attract one)  - Have...|||This sounds way more like something an ENFP would do and I don't even think they mean to do it on purpose or anything! You're putting us INFJs to shame :(.|||Something I've noticed...  Do, yes: Be able to take blunt criticism   BUT...  You must be able to give good criticism in return that ISN'T harsh. This is kind of hard for me, I guess. I think I...'