'I used to think i was the beneficiary.  Hm.|||I read the type description for all four INxx types, and they seem to fit as they are (ie. j is J and p is P)  Does everyone/anyone agree?  Any thoughts?  Also, How to convert MBTI® type to...|||Aggggh why am I such an ISTJ? When I was all broken, I though the Si would make me stronger, but now it feels like I've dug a ditch to protect myself and got stuck in it.  My ditch turned into a rut....|||He's the best.  When I'm around him, I feel like we're almost mirror images of each other, but like I've forgotten to be that person that he is, because I was too focused on pleasing the Feelers...|||Thanks :D  *hug*  PS:  I have already realized the ridiculousness of the whole situation and texted him a rather tearful and apologetic text and called the whole thing off.  He said it was ok,...|||My usual list:  Meat (chicken drumsticks, chicken wings, or beef) Bread  Potatoes Carrots Onions  Apples|||Well at least I'd know he thinks I'm good company. :D  But yes, I see your point.  I think (expect, project, could be totally wrong) that he's tense enough about the whole thing that he might just...|||PS:  I just found out (on wikipedia) that to resolve a double bind, it is helpful to use a metacommunicative statement, which I think means to point out the double bind.  Ie. I should ask him: hey,...|||Grrr grrr grrr grr grrr it is so frustrating that I cannot decide if the fact that I'm curled up in a fetal position crying for most of the last two days is because I have not eaten and slept...|||Hi, I wasn't sure if you were talking to me, but I can't find anyone else whom you could be talking to, so I will reply:  No, we don't live far apart. I don't really know if he likes me. And I am...|||F*ck f*ck f*******ck f*ck f*ck f*ck I am falling in love with a guy who already thinks I'm not altogether very dateable, and so far I think I've been doing a great job of hiding most of my flaws from...|||I'm sorry, looking back, I was incredibly rude, and you were absolutely right to call me out on it.  I meant no offense, I mean I guess I was angry, thinking about my ex .... but I swear I didn't...|||Isis, who wanted me to report back :D, and everyone else who's been answering.  So, I called my INTJ last night. It was interesting. All in all, I decided to consider it a success, in that yes, we...|||HappyRedux   Was she INTJ? (based on your description, could be any of the introverts really)  I am an INFP, been dumped by an INFJ (some Fe is in there), and it sucks.  So if you want any...|||My guinea pig is either ISFJ or ENFJ.  I can't decide since she spends all her time alone, no other guinea pigs, so I'm confused about the I vs. E.  She's not mean enough to be an ESFJ nor is she...|||No, I want to be alone for a while (month or two) and I don't want him to think this means I'm not interested.  But if I show interest now, and then withdraw, he might become annoyed with the...|||I am making chicken soup.  Yay yay.|||I was recently thinking of becoming a researcher, asking people on the street questions sounds much better than selling them stuff.  But I have NO idea what the pay is or what the work actually looks...|||1) Is there anything I can do if I want to date an INTJ, just not right now, and I want to make sure he doesn't date someone else?  2) When I finally ask him out, how should I do it?     a)...|||:D :D :D Congratulations.|||I always figured that Liz was an INTJ.  Made more social by the influence of all the female feelers around her (is there any other T in the family, apart from Liz and the dad?  Maybe Mary, but that's...|||Ouch, I missed that completely.  Ti dominant, you say?  Se secondary?  But.... he's not enough of an asshole to be an ISTP!  (yes, such wonderful logic on my part)  Can we at least agree that Ron...|||I want my relationship to be perfect, you know, just right, I can see it in my head, how I want it to be, with me being the perfect angel who protects my loved one from all harm, and he in turn loves...|||1. Three Favorite Activities  Writing, reading, watching tv.  2. Place you feel represents your essence. Where would we find you? Whether its at the beach or in a library.  The library, but...|||I'm a leftie libertarian, but I vote right-wing in my country, because our left suuuuucks.  On the compass, I am about three down and three to the left of the middle.  Pretty centrist, really, but...|||Oh yes, perhaps it would be more useful to share knowledge as opposed to a traumatic personal tale, so here goes:  An INFP's approach to sex is described as such:  The INFP views sex as an...|||And with that comment from Entropia, I am off sex for another few months.    No seriously, I know only too well what you mean, I think sex is one of the most damaging and emotionally scarring...|||Er, have you considered the posibility that her guy friend is NOT her boyfriend? Why else would she use that strange way of phrasing it? Yes, she lives with him, but maybe they're just roommates? It...|||Ok, let's then narrow the conversation to hugs given by people of a similar age, social group and a decent level of cleanliness.  I'm sorry but as for the diseases... I can understand if we were...|||Ah, the INTJ. I think I'm interested in dating one.   (I wonder, is Rand Paul an INTJ with a moral project? Because that wouldn't be half-bad...)|||I suppose.... It can be very tricky in social situations, not to mention I don't think I have the kind of inferiority complex that would lead me into asking a romantic interest for permission to hug...|||Oh, I'm too scared to hug INTJs, they might take offense and complain about unwaranted touching or something. :-/|||Am I the only one who dislikes Se types?  All types with Se, the extraverts and the introverts.  I get along with Si types just fine, we mostly ignore each other for lack of anything to say.  I...|||I hate most social stigmas.  I hate the very idea of social stigmas.  Unless the person threatens you or others, there's no reason to think badly of them.|||I'm interested, but I'm going to wait at least until january.  I need more time to observe him, think it through, and deal with some personal stuff that I need to get out of the way before I start...|||Confession, I dislike most INFPs, including myself.  Maybe I dislike INFPs because they remind me of my own weaknesses.  It's just superficial anger, but it cuts sharply like papercuts.  It's not...|||I'm pro waking up by cuddling too.|||We never really talked about it, but I think it was because he wanted to have sex and I didn't.  I mean, we were teenagers, and on our second date, he gave me this small wooden statue of two people...|||Yeah, well, I think I can type based on a photo pretty well.  People used to do it on similarminds before it got all virused up and shut down.|||Faklubrejle: Lol.  I am an INFP, you cannot scare me by telling me that I smell great, nor by telling me I remind you of your mother (have you ever read LotR, that scene where Faramir gives Eowyn his...|||Yeah, for me, 8 hours of sleep is a must, otherwise I can't get up.  I literally can't. :D  I suggest doing something lazy and pleasant right after getting up, like cooking pancakes or...|||Do you know / can you guess her type?|||Hi,  Is there any way I can tell, from behaviour, if an INTJ's interest in me is more of a sexual kind (like a one-night-stand or a fling) or more of an emotional kind (like a long-term...|||Omg, type Ron Paul! INFP?  INFJ?|||In my homeland I vote for the right but if I were american I'd probably vote for the left.  Or, you know, Ron Paul. :)  So I guess another straight libertarian here, although with some leftie...|||Ok, now for the WHY:  I like movies that have a fairy-tale like appeal to them, and a story with a moral behind it, where the character undergoes a transformation, or I undergo a transformation while...|||Er... yeah.  I'm not really a movie-conaisseur, but based on what's on the TV and what's in the family's dvd-library, from english-language movies, I'd say.... The Magnificent Seven, Platoon (I...|||Cautious is good.  I had been under the impression you guys were just extremely picky, almost to a fault.|||I underestimate the INFJ in that they always seem so vulnerable and emotional, I seem to spend time both trying to match their emotionality and vulnerability and it seems I overdo it, and it doesn't...|||Thanks :)  I am starting to see the problem.  It seems I underestimate INFJs.'