'Your post really makes a lot of sense to me because I also feel like I need some sort of real meaning that I can touch and feel within me. I want my actions in this life to matter in the long run and...|||I feel like I have come to a breaking point in my life. Nothing is really wrong in my life and I should feel pretty happy since things seem to be going well for me. Yet, for some reason I get the...|||Public speaking is strange for me because even when I think I do horribly at public speaking, other people still understand the feelings that I am emoting while talking about something I care about....|||Still Alive By Lisa Miskovsky I have changed I have changed Just like you Just like you  For how long? For how long Must I wait? I know there's something wrong|||When your mother says to you one day,  You're just like your father.  And then the next few days she says,  You're just like your sister.  And a week later she says,|||I have finally fixed my voice mail and changed my password...only to find several voice messages left by my manipulative ex. It's almost like he wants to rub salt into my healing wounds. I haven't...|||Do not make any decisions until you have proof. You don't want to scare her off. The dream that you had was probably just your subconscious just telling you that you are feeling a bit jealous and...|||You can't really go off of these goofy false tests on the net. You have to figure out your functions and you have to study them to understand them. The test just gives you some possible types that...|||I think every person can become manipulative without really knowing what they are doing. Most people do it because they want something from another person. However, I think I can sometimes become...|||Honestly, I think you are experiencing a phase in your life where you feel like you don't fit into your SJ and SP environment and so you are trying to be something that you aren't. In other words,...|||http://ts2.mm.bing.net/th?id=H.4910969726043893&pid=1.7&w=301&h=168&c=7&rs=1  Personally, I think this is the type of video game that an INFJ or INFP would greatly appreciate.|||I can't believe I had let him back into my life all over again because I felt pity on him. And what does he do? He has sex with me, then dumps me like nothing. He is an insecure pig and I don't even...|||- You think you know everything, but you don't.  - I wish you would come out of that mask. I really hate how fake you can be at times.  - Why do people always have to be so fake?  - Life...|||Why can't all people be like that? :sad:|||I want to be understood because I have noticed that people tend to not accept things that they do not understand. In fact, people always seem to fear what they don't understand, which makes it harder...|||My INTJ mother is the only person who truly understands me. :sad: I have never met anyone else who has ever understood me. Not even my dad. Sometimes, even my INTJ mother has a hard time...|||I think you had gone through the same experience that I am going through now. My controlling ex-boyfriend had dumped me a month ago and I am still trying to get my self-esteem back. I won't get into...|||A part of me feels like the world is going nuts. Every time I see the news, it is always is filled with some sort of chaos. Sometimes, I feel like I am trying to become numb to it all, so it can't...|||Please, someone help me.  A month ago my boyfriend had dumped me and I am still devastated.He had dumped me because he wanted to control me and turn me into something I was not. He had manipulated...|||I donx92t know what to do anymore. Part of me just wants to know that he will be ok. I think that I have come to the realization that my ex needed me even more than I needed him.  The part that scares...|||When my ex-boyfriend and I were fighting, he had told me that he thought the valentine’s cookies that I made him were cheap and that I should have put more effort into them. It was so hurtful to...|||Why do I always have to be a villain to people?  No matter how hard I try, I just can’t seem to please everyone. People always seem to scrutinize everything that I say and do. I feel like I am...|||For me, it is nature. It is like waking up in the morning to find that the sun is still shining outside my window, lighting up the rich green tones of my room. I find it completely captivating when I...|||My Ex would usually get mad at me for not paying enough attention to him and typically he would say that I was zoning out, but I never even noticed it before until he actually said something about...|||I think that you can still find someone who is like you. There are plenty of people in this world. Someone is bound to also not be interested in physical attraction. Just keep being yourself and see...|||Dear Self,  You always knew that love was painful, but I don’t think you fully understood just how painful relationships can be. Your first lover is gone now and this is just your first lesson...|||Yes, my emotions will get the better of me from time to time. I got really emotional recently when my boyfriend (after being together for 3 years) broke up with me. I had really overeacted to it. I...|||I am finally letting my toxic relationship go. We were just too incompatiable for each other.I am also want to get rid of the pain, fear and blame. I am sick of blaming myself for the break up, even...|||It took me a while to finally accept the fact that my relationship was failing. I should have known that our relationship would eventually fail due to our conflicting differences and our...|||Dear Self, Please learn to accept the things that make you who you are. Do not ever compromise these things. Do not try to change yourself for another person.  Here is a list to help you learn how...|||Damn...I had no idea that someone would have us all on record. :laughing:  Watch out for this ENTP. He is on to us.|||I wouldn't say that no INFJ can entertain the 'what ifs' of a situation.  For example, I am an INFJ type 6w5. That actually makes me question the 'what ifs' all the time because I need to figure...|||I am actually thinking that this is getting far more heated than it has to be.  I have been reading the responses and I can say that the ENTP's do have a good point about how a person shouldn't...|||Spoilers! The Dark Knight Rises  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=enOHraf3LEk  And also this one from Batman Begins.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YpzKMr4fJwg|||Doesn't everyone deserve to be a little selfish sometimes?   Honestly, I have learned in my life that being a little selfish can sometimes be a good thing. My INTJ mother gets frustrated with me...|||Ok, this is crazy. I know this is crazy. It's completely insane. :blushed:  But, I think I am starting to become slightly attracted to my INFP college professor.  :shocked:I hope that I am not. That...|||I confess that there are times when I don't wish to be an INFJ.:sad:|||I confess that I get lonely sometimes.  I confess that I really feel misunderstood.  I confess that I really wish I could meet more people who are similar to me.  I confess that I really feel...|||Dear Self,  Your presentation was horrible today! You were so nervous and hardly any of your classmates understood a word you said.  Well, that figures. Stupid Ti function. :frustrating: ...|||Dear World,  You are filled with cruel beings that think too much and feel too little.  Sometimes I wish that some of these beings would have a little empathy, a little consideration for other...|||My parents decided to make me dig through trash today.  Yeah, pretty screwed up.|||I feel like I am treated like a dog sometimes...  :sad:|||Dear INFJ Self, I know that you’re becoming increasingly paranoid about your boyfriend lately, but please stop it.   You’re paranoid and scared that he will damage the trust that you have been...|||Yeah, I agree. I think this video explains the issue pretty well.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5um8QWWRvo|||Dear Stupid Teen Boys Who Were Following Me,  What is wrong with you? Don't you know how to treat a human being with respect?  Judging from the way that you and your buddies were talking to me,...|||Dear Hurricane Sandy(My Name),  You have taken my name and now you're reeking havoc in my area...  I have really grown a hatred of you.  Sincerely, An INFJ Who Shares Your Name  P.S. I am...|||Dear Boyfriend, I love you with all of my being, but sometimes I fear that youx92re becoming very intolerant with people who are different from you.   You say that Homosexuals should all go to hell,...|||I have learned that people tend to look at differences between people, rather than look at the similarities and connections that we all share.|||Dear Person Who Thinks That Sexism is Just a Part of Human Nature, Which Means That it Can't be Changed,   What planet have you been on? Sexism is not a part of human nature, since it is not...|||Why does the word 'relationship' always mean having a romantic interest or a 'significant other?  There are plenty of relationships that people have everday that aren't romantic.'