Would love to hear more on others that are INFJ with an INFJ. Currently I've been finding a trend looking back that this has been my deepest of attractions. Currently sort of in one, but there are...|||Personally in my own life my deepest attractions have been to INFJ's, others have been a different level but nothing lasting. After 20+ years, I think I've found the INFJ the best match and those...|||Roanna, Thanks for taking the time to share your experience. I've been considering the breaking up but not sure how to go into this process. He's been more head over heals for me than I have for him,...|||Anyone have any experiences with starting a relationship with someone whose alcoholic and is trying to quit? What are the symptoms of withdrawl, detox and relationships? Are there any nutritional...|||Currently in an INFJ-INJF realtionship. Finally decided to take the plunge into a relationship after 21 years of not. I was intrigued the first time I heard him speak over the truck radio. He's more...|||I can relate to some of the above. In my teen years I went through 5 years of depression and did everything I could to make myself into a robot but that began to change in my last years of high...|||Interpretations are welcome. Let me know if it makes any sense, I thought it up while running.  Andropolis, a city that doesn't know time.  Where the grit of the earth is felt beneath ones feet...|||Andropolis,  a city that doesn't know time.  Where the grit of the earth is felt beneath ones feet  and the skies open wide.  A fetter has fallen There is angst amongst the heat.  There will...|||and that would be my hope is that the real attraction in me would be onto Christ Jesus, the author and perfector of our Faith.|||Very true.|||Thanks Dumaresq, appreciate it. Very interesting, never heard of it concerning political. I doubt my politics could drive someone aways, since I'm neither republican or democrat. Unless they had a...|||Yesterday another guy I've known for some time took the test and he's INFJ. Now I know of 6 or so INFJ and 3 potential. Mostly male. Wierd. The map is a nice reference, but unfortunately probably...|||Mysterie, thanks for your questions. To answer, in 22 years of dating after I became a Christian, yes I have gone on dates with those not of the faith, other countries that the culture doesn't...|||Anyone marry when they were older or found relationships a difficult thing to get into if your not married?|||Sunflower, my exact thought since I became a Christian and still my thoughts today. That's great that you continue that path. Its hard for me to understand how if one is devoted in faith and...|||Nihom, that's great. Its been that way with me for 22 years, but even after deciding that I wouldn't marry or date again something started some 8 months ago and has developed into dating this month:(...|||Was curious if there are any INFJ christians that have found dating and relationships difficult to get into because the attractions don't match your value system?|||This is encouraging to know shoreline. The guy I know has a long road ahead of him to adapt both physically and emotionally from a tramatic event that recently happened and will change his life...|||Belle, thanks for sharing. Its good that things have gotten better with age for you. And maybe encouraging to some other INFPs :)|||bumping this thread. I believe someone I've been interested in is an INFP, he's 52 but appears younger and very young girls seem to flock around him.   Some specific questions to get this rolling...|||For myself its been me looking outside myself, less self centered and more others centered. Being open to others ideas or ways of doing things, flexibility. Not running away (literally) from...|||Its been 5 months and I feel like I'm playing some kind of game that either will fizzle or could get dangerous. I can't tell what kind of person he is or what road I am leading myself into or at all....|||Driving into the parking lot, our eyes locked. It wasn't the first time.  Your movements hold me, as you laisez-faire your way to pick something up and open the door.  Although you won't make...|||You could be right, most of those that I've known for some years before they took the test and it made sense after. I've observed them years later and I still have found it true that they are INFJ. A...|||Just added about 6 INFJ's around Indiana and Tenn. I keep finding them when I ask friends to take the test, is this common?|||A very interesting read, thanks for everyones contribution. In the middle of a 3 month getting to know someone at work that may be ISTP...still not sure. But there are too many red flags that despite...|||Can I just be done with BAD attractions? Why can't it be simple, I close the door on dating, marriage and such. Plain and simple. The End!|||facebook is a mixed bag for me. Its a GodSend in that it keeps all my friends across the world I've met connected and sharing in one place so people understand my circle of friends and lifestyle....|||I think I might understand. I'm 41years old and had never fallen in love or allowed myself.   The closest was when I was 33-35 years old. An INFJ who pursued me a year and half later overseas after...|||IN response to the OP: most likely because we confuse and surprise even ourselves.|||Thanks niss, something I probably needed to hear. That's why I'm trying to keep neutral and professional because others are watching. I just wonder what he's been saying since there's been a lot of...|||Yes and I'm not sure why:( I gave up at 40 years old and decided not to marry to free my mind. But over the winter two new mutual attractions started and they seem all bad news for me. I can't seem...|||Thanks I wish it were that simple, I found out some things online that I'm not sure I want to move forward. Huge age difference, possible girlfriend and baby. He did get my phone number and texted 2...|||Thanks Drizz. These are all very useful. My specific situation I might stick out just to see if the guy is indeed IsTJ. He began texting me yesterday, 2 weeks after getting my number. This is three...|||Thanks thatchadguy for letting me know, the specific person I'm thinking of a is a sensor. And you thinking about it is a little sychronicity:)  Thanks vivid for sharing.    Thanks...|||Winter, thank. Its Chi sweet home. I think it fits me more internally. My internal world is far different than the exterior.   Very true GoodOldDreamer.   I can understand that. Yes, I...|||You know niss, very wise, I was thinking the same thing as I was driving home from work and just seeing it again pretty much verifies. Nothing works like a model #3467 when we are dealing with...|||Was curious of other INFJ that they can foretell what another person is going to do or say. And even when it could be borderline dangerous, you ride it out to the edge to see if its accurate.|||I probably should define the specific article or where I read something, it had to do with faithfulness or cheating on relationships. There's a current situation I know of that may involve and ISTJ...|||Thanks this is interesting. Especially the E part, but INFJ seems to be the most extraverted of introverts. I'm thinking the other types were developed from my surroundings, maybe travels, work...|||this one might be a little closer to results.|||In bold are the most appropriate. It was difficult, especially group three as I've never been in a long term relationship or married.|||Run, the witholding tears is totally me, even at the movies. Church worship is about the only place I might let a couple well up.|||Niss, that's cute:0 THe question was in general but it does have specific interest with someone in mind. I had read somewhere about younger ISTJ's being different and maturing better with...|||I'm not totally sure as I haven't identified that many INFP's, but last winter while one was a crew leader he seemed to always want me and an ENFP to take the lead in plowing. He basically repeated...|||What differences have you seen or experienced from when you were sub 30 verses after 30 years old? Or have you seen or heard of in other ISTJ's? Is commitment level in relationships any different?|||Thanks, winter some insight. I sooo get the same thing, if I don't smile or even if I'm half smiling others notice. The ones that are constantly on me to smile get me uncomfortable like I'm some wind...|||At times I think I'm pretty good at hiding my emotions or thoughts and others I feel like some of the harshest looks must come from me because of others uncomfortableness. Is it only intuitive types...|||Thanks Iva, my attractions have been a problem most of my life so in my mind he's got issues, I'm somehow attracted to guys that are filled with issues. Before I turned 40 I decided i was done with...|||Possibly, but my experience at a young age with a best friend taught me that you eventually end up liking them. For myself, there's different levels of friendship. I it gets to the poin of one of us...