'Are you comparing me to Papa Lazarou?|||And femininity.    And... I used to think I wasn't keen on these things: ^_^  >.>  O.O  but I actually quite like them when they're accompanied by a genuinely friendly and playful personality.  I...|||You have butter in your hair and you like to dance with cows?  ME TOO! :shocked:  We should totally date.  :laughing:|||Danke, Sweetie. Wenn Ihre Liebe Sie verlässt, wissen Sie wem, um dich zu wenden an. I can' t glauben, dass dieses wirklich zu Ihnen, weil I don' zusammenhängend ist; t sprechen ein Wort vom...|||Sie haben wundervolles rotes Haar, mein liebes. Sind Sie, durch irgendeine Wahrscheinlichkeit und lauern auf diesem Gewinde, weil Sie interessiert sind, an, süße Liebe zu bilden zu meinem schönen...|||Hobos are magic, so be careful. :mellow:|||Actually, I think I'm busy that day.|||It's a date!    Does that mean you prefer to be with females, or that you'd prefer to be female?|||I can DEFINITELY see why it would look that way.  But I, for one, frequently change my mind about things, often because I am persuaded by those who disagree with me.  This rarely happens during the...|||Good.  I don't want to read your posts anymore.  I just don't buy into this idea that you have to be a bastard if you want to attract a mate.  I only need one girl, so I'd rather keep hunting until I...|||I don't see how finding men attractive for their utility is any less shallow than finding them physically attractive.|||What feminine features and qualities are you trying to tell me that I have?    Those aren't female qualities.  Empathy has nothing to do with being female.  Stop being informed by old-fashioned...|||Bee hive? :confused:|||Sounds great. :cool:|||Aha! You don't. :proud:  Whereabouts in the UK are you?|||I hate to be a nuisance, but none of you are dating me yet.  Could you sort something out? :mellow:|||The best way for an ENFP to take over the world is for them to team up with an INTJ.  :proud:|||Thanks, Hank. :cool:|||Thanks.  I have a good friend who I strongly suspect is of your type.  He's very caring, sincere and interesting.  Are you all like that?|||It's in the test section of the forum.  Know what I mean?|||Well, maybe you're the best I can do.  Would you be willing to shave your legs and put on a dress?|||Apparently I'm Suave, which means you should definitely date me...   The Suave Lover                       50% partner focus, 52% aggressiveness, 35% adventurousness  ...|||*humps your nostril hairs*  :proud::crazy::shocked:|||Jolly good show!  :tongue:|||Yep, we've all got fucked-up histories.  I take no personal responsibility for colonialism, though. :proud:|||Yes, well I'm a consequentialist, so I think that if a break is what it takes then that's what you should do.  I'm not an really activist myself.  I just discuss things.  I don't really do...|||I think I might like to live there, but I worry that there's something a bit selfish about going off to live in a commune when you could be trying to spread socialist practices nationwide.|||Oh yeah, of course.    I've been single for nearly 23 years, and it's getting a bit silly.  So I am now scouring the internet for a girl.  This thread is only newest part of my search.  I haven't...|||I'm not sure I can elaborate off the top of my head.  It normally starts with a debate about something quite specific, which goes on and on and on, until it becomes clear to my friend that my opinion...|||Well, keep talking to me and you'll soon realise that there definitely isn't an 'F' in my type. :wink:     How old is ungs?  Anyway, aren't elves immortal?|||Well, I harbour hopes for some kind of socialist utopia.  Cynical people get pissed off by that.     Sort of.  I never actually finished reading LOTR. :blushed:|||Cool, where will you study?    No, they're always throwing wet blankets over my ideas.    To be honest, I have no idea.  I know very little about Finland.|||Theoretical. My thesis will be about the objectivity of aesthetic values.    Yes, ma'am. :proud:    They aren't remotely cynical, and they seem to have the ability to see right through...|||I'm into a rut and my mind is occupied by getting out of it.    ENFPs and INTJs aren't opposite.|||No.  ENFPs and INTJs supposedly go well together.  That's why I'm here, and I went to the ENFJ place because some other test told me to.  I have no reason to think that the INFJs would suit me, so I...|||That's not real, is it?! :mellow:|||I am in need of a romantic attachment.  I am a 22-year-old heterosexual manboy who lives in England.  I'm doing a PhD in philosophy.  Date me please. :wink:  Or if you live far, far away (which you...|||Not a single ENFJ has commented on this thread.  I think I'd better hassle the ENFPs instead.  I probably prefer them, in practice.|||What?  :confused:|||You're an INTP... how come that message wasn't a thousand times longer??  :tongue:|||Balancing morality and love -- Who would want to do that?!  Maybe this is very bad, but I think I'd be capable of doing terrible things in the name of love.|||That's creepy!  Why do you have a photograph of me?!|||Well I think there's hope for me.  I've observed that happening between friends of mine, and I find myself relating to the rationalist but siding with the person whose feelings are not being taken...|||Well you haven't stopped talking to me, so hopefully I'm managing to cross that bridge so far.    Oh, I'm socially inept, there's no denying it.  That's why I'm in an internet forum instead of a...|||Okay, shexy.  :blushed:   (Nope... I can't flirt.)|||Oh, you're both here!  Freaky.  I can't remember how I found this site... I think I must have googled ENFJ.  I think jumping in at the deep end could work for me.  I can cope with conflict, so...|||Where were you expecting to see similarities?|||:wink:  I took some test that told me that my ideal woman is an ENFJ, so I have come here to see if I can find one.  Thought I might as well make my intentions explicit and see what happens. ...|||One tries to live off teaching wages and research grants.  The ultimate aim is to get a permanent teaching post at a university, and write books and articles on the side.  Something like that.  I'd...|||INFJs... what are they like?  I actually tend to find introverts incredibly attractive, but I'm pretty shy so I could do with someone to scoop me out of my shell.'