'Hi everyone! Took a little time off and feeling much better :)  So I have a quick question about dating & romance.   Have any of you found that when you go on dates, the guy/girl move really...|||Once again, I'm just amazed by this community and how helpful & kind you all are to a complete stranger. Every single post here has brightened my day. Thank you so much!|||Thank you to the members who have reached out to me over the past few weeks. That means so much to me :happy:  This is a really strange time in my life and I guess I'm just looking for some...|||http://troll.me/images/forever-alone-20/forever-alone.jpg  ^^ Me!|||^ marry  V snog|||I idealize people that I'm into romantically, because I want them to be something they're not.  Slowly learning my lesson :)|||No specific types, but any of the following traits are annoying: narcissism, selfish, rude, manipulative, fake, superficial, mean...|||My ENFJ first love was a narcissist. Absolutely tore me apart from the inside. The end of that relationship spun me into a depression that resulted in my becoming an INFP. I suppose maybe it's always...|||This probably isn't topic-worthy, but I just wanted to share it anyways. Instantly reminded me of all of you :)    Off to sleep now, goodnight!|||I'm not, because narcissists are the most obnoxious, unpleasant, manipulative people in the world. If I have a moment where I'm proud of myself / something I've done, I keep it to myself (or share it...|||I think love is the thing that keeps a person coming back to someone's grave ages after they're gone. A bond that cannot be explained, but something beyond powerful that spans life & death  I've...|||The H part is actually optional. It's not always hyper and jumpy, it's just having great difficulty concentrating/focusing on a task.|||I know exactly what you're talking about! You need to spend time with people who are:  1. Open-minded 2. Empathetic  Otherwise you will lose yourself in people who have strong personalities,...|||The best we can do is learn to conquer our demons, or better yet, learn to love them.|||I've adopted a new method of dealing with things that annoy me. I've come to terms with the fact that I will never have the guts/awareness to point something out exactly when it happens. So I process...|||Morbid topic, sorry! But I'm really curious if this is related to personality type.  I've never been afraid of dying -- I've been afraid of other things related to it, especially:    Physical...|||I've learned how to type people very quickly just be reading the personality pages for each. It's really fun when they take it and you're correct :)|||Dear k,  You can destroy a person, but you can never destroy their dreams :)  Peace & love jaxy|||1. Kindness is contagious 2. No one can control your emotions or your attitude except for you 3. Everyone is fighting a battle just as hard as your own 4. Kittens still solve everything ...|||Yup, everyone calls me an old person. I go to bed at 9 (by choice) and wake up at 6 (by choice), I dislike loud music, and I dislike partying. I think wisdom comes from adversity, and I feel lucky to...|||I use words to express how much I care about someone, so I guess it just means a lot to me when I hear it from someone else! Just like you clearly value actions more, so it means more when someone...|||Sorry to hear about this, Slightly... What an unfair accusation. I think the best thing you can do is realize this isn't personal. You're clearly a very compassionate, kind person (I know this...|||Any of you guys/gals on AbsoluteWrite.com? EXTREMELY helpful community of writers :) A great place to throw around ideas and get valuable feedback|||I sit at the computer for 6 hours and think about how I should write but then go on the internet instead and then spend the next 2 hours being frustrated for not writing anything.  Maybe I should...|||Same here! The maverick thing is new, and I've finally started to take pride in my dreamer/crazy side :)|||I used to just do it automatically (never aware of it) -- all I knew was that it felt good when people liked me, so the more I pleased people the happier I was. I used to be more of an ENFP. Once the...|||I'm Type 2 - so there ya go!|||Does anyone else suffer from this? Absorbing/mirroring parts of peoples' personalities when you're with them... It drives me crazy. It's great when I'm with people I like (people who laugh and are...|||I treat my relationships with the utmost care & respect. I love making gifts, planning romantic dates, and being emotionally supportive. When I go quiet and look down, it means you've done something...|||I think for some types it doesn't matter as much. But I know for me, learning I was an INFP was one of the most eye-opening experiences in the world.   I used to think I was crazy :)|||I think you're exactly right, but it's still frustrating. I look up to people who I admire, I don't mock them!|||This is a habit I'm trying to break. I'm so calm and peaceful when I'm by myself just thinking. I've got total control of my mind. But when I'm with friends or acquaintances, it all goes out the...|||Finding just one person to share adventure and kindness with makes me totally happy. Exploring nature, exchanging nice gestures, having someone to talk to, making each other smile... It's why humans...|||You'd make a fortune!|||:) All the best with your journey -- my thoughts and heart are with you|||Of course! Do you have a donation/paypal thing set up anywhere? I'd like to help, with or without the article|||LOL he just texted me to tell me he reorganized all of my kitchen cabinets, I think I've found my new favorite type :)|||Thank you both!! Great advice, and it all already seems to be spot on :) Another question -- I love doing little spontaneous/romantic things, like a gift or a surprise night by the river or...|||I think forgiveness is a beautiful thing -- anyone can change :) The problem is forgetting. Someone might be able to forgive a lie, but it'll take a long time for them to forget it.|||Hi everyone, INFP here :happy: I just met an ISFJ last week and he's really great! He's funny, kind, and so sweet. We've gone on a few dates now and things are moving in a good direction. I'm pretty...|||You're not bipolar, you just had the lovely opportunity to speak with someone who brought out the best parts in your INFP-ness. Someone who I'm guessing has more to talk about than their job, TV, and...|||Ever tried meditation? Give yourself 30 minutes each morning & night to clear your mind.   Just like every other part of your body, the brain needs exercise to stay healthy :)|||I'd definitely echo what littledeer said: medication won't get to the root of your problem. Healing without meds can be a slow and extremely difficult journey, but I think in the end you gain...|||OH Lol sorry, age assumption failure :P Dang it, getting married and having kids was supposed to be my happy life plan! Not as fun as I'm imagining?|||Fall in love, dream a lot, and leave reality for everyone else to deal with. It's boring anyways :)|||I used to be the WORST sleeper in the world, and melatonin really did help. I wish there was something to help me get to sleep faster though (besides sleeping pills of course), my mind never seems to...|||I just can't stop doing it. It's kinda painful. It really broke my heart. Traumatized me deeply. The edge of committing suicide.  Please delete her and don't look back. Nothing good will...|||Hey aeroplane,  Good luck, they should definitely be able to help. I'm so sorry to hear you've been battling this for some time now on your own. Don't worry about labels and titles -- all you know...|||IT WENT AMAZING!!!! Thank you everyone :D|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jSFLZ-MzIhM  2:18 makes me cry'