'I know that situation way too well. In all honesty I think you just got to be honest with her. In my personal experiences, I base a lot on my intuition hoping the person comes to me but not realizing...|||anything with chocolate and involving gelato sounds scrumptious :D|||Still though, my former crush is starting to notice me more (I think) so who knows maybe her leaving was a blessing in disguise after all. :P|||Aww thank u, I'm actually bi or well I define myself that now since I have had crushes on guys in the past. I will say I am more attracted emotionally and physically to females though ;P so yea I...|||Thanks guys! I really appreciate your responses. I called her, left a message saying I wanted to talk and left it at that. Regardless, I was a lot calmer after that and let go of a lot of anxiety.. :P|||You're completely right. There's a fine line between friends and more than friends. Once one person feels for the other, someone has to say something, or in general it's just hurtful ;(...|||I think it's hard for me also not to develop infatuation when something is mutual when I like someone a little. Since I haven't had any mutual experiences, it's completely easy for me to want that...|||Thanks guys, I think that's a good idea :)|||@ fatality- I'm actually bi but I loved ur comment anyhow :D|||Hey everyone, I hope your night is going well. I'm so confused on what I should do and I really would love to hear your advice as I'm pretty new to dating ( especially girls) and I want to be sure I...|||I was just wondering about ENFJ's and their experience with dating?  I feel as an ENFJ I want to put too many expectations or emotions into the situation. Do you? :cool:|||Helping someone with BPD is extremely hard. Just be sure to help yourself before them, because it is truly easy to get caught up with their emotions. It's hard to be friends with them but I think the...|||I just saw this video this youtuber posted. She's a frequent makeup and jewerly blogger and calls herself pursebuzz. Once in a very long while she has vlogs that relate to real life advice. This...|||I've heard the only way to survive in the word is to get tough especially in the work force. My mom worked in not the greatest neighborhoods at schools that were kind of poor that recruited a lot...|||I am horrible at flirting on cue!!! I always admire my ENFP friends for their ability to just go for it! I guess I flirt right when I start talking to them and try to see what they're interested in....|||[QUOTE=kiwigrl;2772798]Even just this morning I was sitting in my car, lost in thought about my current friendships and how genuine I think they might be. I have been let down a bit in the past few...|||I like to speculate but I do it more in certain moments when something grandiose or inspiring happens. I think I questioned and contemplated a lot when I was younger in order to define myself and the...|||Soo true!!! I always pride myself in going to a school that made me really culture savvy and being aware of differences. But really, when you're not familiar with the signals it can make it seem to...|||I'm mainly 1/4 German ( possibly more b/c both my parents have German in them) and  1/4 Czech. The only thing I know about the German temperament is that Germans are stereotypically passive...|||This is incredibly awesome I love having a fun way to understand this b/c my rm told me the standard way and it wasn't as fun yay for creativity! Thank you so much for posting this! :D|||Yes they do have single housing and I'm definitely considering living alone for that reason which might happen but then a/g I don't think I'd mind it at least not the first yr. :D|||I'm moving to a new state for grad school and will know noone when I get there. Most likely it'll be off- campus housing, but I've had bad room-mate situations in the past. Since I'll no longer be...|||I'm realizing the older I get the more I can't push my emotions away which also for now includes anxiety. Although I still kinda suffer from anxiety, I'm trying to get in that habit that I can...|||Why are you asking the INTP what he's doing? Shouldn't you know through your psychic powers?|||Today I was totally thinking of the scene in the Hunger Games when Katniss takes a shower in the training center and pushes all these buttons in which all these different oils and soaps and shampoos...|||I'm really bad at flirting, mostly b/c when I'm really attracted to someone I get scared and clam up :/ unless of course I consume alcohol mostly I have to be certain the person is interested before...|||BIG HUGE HUG   http://momeee.com/wp-content/uploads/10..jpg|||OMG THANK YOU SOO MUCH FOR POSTING THIS!!! but yea to answer your question I think your first guess was right that you might've told him that he should pay more since you did hit your head. But yea I...|||* Paris Jetaime-> weird but really cute film!  * Water Lillies-> awesome coming of age film!|||This may  help:   I also have fallen in the habit of procrastination ( like now). What really helps me though is trying to get myself in the habit of setting little realistic goals for myself which...|||I used to have harder time with fear of intimacy but I think I'm finally growing out of it yet I can still sympathize because I always tend to feel like I'm gonna lose when I try to confront people...|||I scored low on almost everything except histrionic which I got moderate, tks for sharing the quiz! :D|||http://cdn.mdjunction.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/hugs05-446cc35671126ad37759657dddf7c764.jpg  I agree with KC's post. I never have had a genetic urge to want to die but I...|||We talk a lot about how our families are and in general what we think about psychological or cultural things. I think though talking with thinkers at least for me helps me in the sense that my...|||I was thinking about this and wondered if it is just me:   but do you ever feel like you want to get emotionally involved to make sure someone is ok even if you're not close with a person? I was...|||1.How do you act around romantic interests?In person? usually kinda shy. I have to be confident enough that they might feel the same way because then it's easier for me to flirt without worrying...|||I am called shy a lot by my family making me think that half the time I can act slightly introverted when I don't know how to act in a situation.   I'm probably more patient than the average ENFJ. ...|||1. What brought you to Personality Cafe? My ISTJ rm introduced me to it. She posts more than me but as soon as I not only responded to others threads but posted some of my own I found I liked it...|||On a beach. I love the ocean and being near sea breeze :D   If you could bring one item with you to an island, what 2 items would you take and what 2 items would you leave behind?|||How do I maintain my individuality: By trying to continue to do things I love while at the same time trying to make sure others are ok. Sometimes I still try to balance this but for the most part,...|||Coming from a non- ENFP perspective, a lot of my friends are introverts which is always funny because in the past all of my friends were extroverts and almost always ENFPs. (haha).. I honestly like...|||ENFJ and Aquarius|||I'm definitely naturally protective and have been made fun of for it. It's a trait I like and don't like because it helps me show my caring side when I'm interested in someone yet at the same time it...|||I don't think it absolutely matters. I'm an ENFJ but there are times when I can act very P when I want to go somewhere that weekend and I'm just like hey do you want to do this and well as not...|||Ahhh.. * hugs!!!!*   As far as the identity crisis: I think I can partially relate to it. For a long time I thought I was an introvert or I wanted to challenge myself to be more spontaneous. My...|||I'm soo picky. It's funny because I always tend to think I'm doing something wrong after a while too but really I try to look at the positives of it. I realize my brother and I are similar that way....|||I think it's fun! It helps you really learn to have a photographer's eye and get some great shots. For example, when I was taking pictures for class, I ran across this couple in which both the guy...|||*You and your friend go on fb to type random people from photos because you both think it's fun!  * You start to type characters you watch on t.v. shows subconciously :D|||You want to be spontaneous but there's a little voice in the back of your head yelling at you for not getting as much as you planned done :D (haha)|||Wohoo! yay for blue eyes!   I'm going to a restaurant I've never been to for my bday :D hoping it's as good as the reviews say :D'