'OP, the setting you've described reminds me vaguely of Northern Ireland or Scotland, though neither are warm or sunny year round. Maybe Southern Italy but as one who has been to Spain, the climate is...|||Rave: With every year that passes by, my efforts to become a more well-rounded ISTJ are paying off. I try to encourage other ISTJs I come across to do the same.  No rants today.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6XtG5SGL0Xw|||I wouldn't think it has much influence over say, like the environment, experience, maturity, and priority.|||Rarely do I ever get a sick on a yearly basis. I actively avoid sick people in my life even the ones I love. I can't be bothered to rendered physically immobile as there is too much to accomplish and...|||I'd say don't make excuses, seek closure, and become slave to creature comforts.  It's a temporary setback but at the end of day the mission is what's important. When you live for other people,...|||When it comes to most situations:  Never get yourself attached to a situation you can't get yourself out of in 30 seconds or less.|||I keep it simple. She has to be cute and pleasant to be around. Any other issues can be worked around.|||I have organized piles around my flat during the week. I devote time to cleaning once a week for a couple of hours. Everyone in my circle knows not to disturb me during that time.|||I liked that DOFP felt to me more like a sequel than a reboot. I loved First Class as well. The airplane scene with Charles and Erik was superb acting from McAvoy and Fassbender. I felt the tension...|||ISTJ.  Current occupation: I work as a broadcast technician at a station overseas.  Dream: To work as a vocational psychologist and get compensation for years of giving good advice.|||I joined the group. FYI, I rob banks on Payday 2.|||I hope for nothing.  I fear nothing.  I am free.|||Given if the huge amount of money was something I could replace in time, I'd take the money and then leave the wallet with the same amount of cash in another location. Start the cycle all over again....|||I am alone. Alone in my thoughts, my relationship, my job, my stage, and my world. When I sleep I can't dream. I die. I'm reborn. To live with no relation to anyone or anything again. Maybe I'm only...|||I like to cook for myself only. I don't really enjoy other people's creations. So dinner together is usually at a mutual agreed upon eatery.|||Personally, I don't get along with idealists and I don't like the friend to all living beings stereotype of INFP. If I found one that was maybe a bit jaded on the realistic side and still believed...|||I wouldn't.    I don't think I've ever pretended to love someone. Though, I have been with two women in my life in which I stuck around a bit too long after the feelings had long evaporated and...|||There's nothing wrong with being emotionally intimate with someone. Your feelings are making you confused. Until you can get them sorted out then you should keep the texting light.|||You ever think about possibly getting a mentor?|||The person who cares the least has the most power.  The situation appears to me as the guy friend is enjoying the emotional validation you give him without any strings attached (maybe physical...|||I think I'm more of practical romantic. Probably boring.  Not too long ago, an SO of mine pulled off an all-nighter for a project at work and fell asleep heavy after it was completed. I know her...|||Had a love affair with an ENFP that I don't think can be repeated...  However, the most steady woman in my life is an ESTP. I don't think the S really affects how she and I communicate but T vs F...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tj0rO7P6TH0|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zb4uKRs2Gak|||My advice to you is to understand how pacing and timing can help or hinder you, learn to sell your own brand of authenticity to a crowd, and of course how to shut down or power through taunts from...|||I don't catch feelings after the initial sexual encounter. I'm good at detaching myself in situations like that. I don't know about other types or even my own. A woman has to put work in before I...|||Nothing I do surprises me anymore. I am unoriginal in my suffering.|||I'm saying I DON'T care but I get annoyed at how serious people take my comments. I'm just expressing myself.|||Is there a better way to display apathy on this forum besides not responding? I have been attacked in the past on points that go against the grain. When I try to defend myself, I care too much...|||I had a dream the other night where I was only person on Earth to suffer the Rapture. It wasn't a nightmare.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JzZ-Mgi1My4|||It's not that important in my personal life because I have all types of debates with my co-workers. I don't need that same stimulation at home. Could be why I am warming up to an SP in my life at the...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U7-K0RcXB-0|||I don't think that is a common trait for ISTJs. However, this ISTJ is quite boastful though I only talk about facts. Whatever others may feel about it, that's none of my concern. I'm not the type to...|||If I can't use my personality type to be a robotic prick then I don't want to live on this planet anymore.  What is empathy? Empathy does not compute.  /sarcasm|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kIyuEP8Oqo4|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UYVWo7Pt8ps|||If we are wishing upon stars then all I want for Christmas is parents with a large bank account. I could've done so much more as a child if my family's funds weren't so limited. Actually, I'm a bit...|||Charles II of England. One of the more popular hedonists in history.|||Me: Can I ask you a question, Lord?  God: You just asked me a question, my child.  Me: Well, can I ask you another question then?  God: You just did.  Me: Fine! What is the meaning of life?|||Virgin or not, this girl seems like she's guarded about her sexuality. On the date you came on too strong and threatening which is why her guard is high. Wrong vibes, dude. You should have come off...|||No, I could never love a woman as much as I love myself. I would need a woman patient enough to hatch a good plan because in the end I have a grand vision I want to come true. Every day I'm working...|||True. Geniuses and savants aren't really attractive to me. I do appreciate their contributions though.|||You cannot negotiate desire. Always remember that. The other person either feels it or they don't.  In your case, you are blowing it big time with this needy behavior. From reading this, she more...|||I see where you're coming from and you're definitely right to disagree. I arrived to my conclusion from reading personal accounts about him from people who knew him and the limited amount of...|||http://media1.giphy.com/media/v9rfTQBNqdsSA/giphy.gif|||Dankeschön, ich schätze die herzliche aufnahme!|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0cC-7J_wi8|||I'm always curious about how to get that next dollar.'