'Oh, you have to also consider all the other planets and not just your sun sign. Like, you could have your sun in Libra, but the other planets might not be in Libra. Plus, your exact time of birth...|||I'm so envious! I'm going there at the end of the year...to see the northern lights :D|||Haha yes, which is probably a good thing since I'm so disorganised and all. We actually had a conference and presented our research on the countries that we were allocated o.o  Yes, I agree with...|||Yeah, the people I'm going with are all J's haha. So they are pretty pedantic about planning this trip. That's why we decided to do our own planning and not go with a tour. But it's SO much work!|||I'm going towards the end of the year. We are planning everything by ourselves, which is proving to be quite frustrating.   If you want to do it cheaply, there are tours that you can take like...|||Wow thanks. That makes perfect sense! As an Fi user I can understand this and should be able to see where this is coming from. In the past I would've ignored this completely because the feelings...|||Thanks for the advice. I guess it's up to me to resolve this issue since it doesn't seem he's keen to do anything about it.|||Ahh I can see what you mean. Both ENFPs and INFPs have a tendency to idealise the person. However, with this guy, we knew each other reasonably well even in the short time we were friends and we both...|||Thanks. Yeah, I think that's exactly what happened. He told my friend that he felt that I didn't seem to reciprocate.  Why didn't you just ask her out sooner? Did you need to be certain that she...|||Thanks for the explanation. I'll take this as advice regardless. I believed that it was worth it, but he didn't know I did. I think he was scared and I tried to indicate that I was scared too, though...|||Thank you for this advice. I now know how dangerous it is. He was very flirty and his words seemed so sincere. Saying how special I am to him, that he could see us together in the future until we...|||True. Perhaps the problem was that he didn't like me enough?|||Hi ENFPs! Some questions so I can understand this situation.   I had an ENFP guy become interested in me and we were doing this dance for a few months. Apparently he couldn't tell if I liked him or...|||Sleeping At Last - Birdcage Religion   So slowly I'm losing who I've sworn to be a promise in pencil that years have made so hard to read. I’ve spent my life building walls brick by brick and...|||Hi, could I get my name changed to snaeha please?  Thanks in advance!|||Thanks for the advice. I've resolved to tell him how I feel. Hopefully it will go well. And hopefully I don't chicken out!|||Just wanted to thank everyone for their very insightful replies :)      Yeah, I think he is confused about my actions. Perhaps I do appear hot and cold sometimes, though I've been pretty...|||lol wait...is this advice for me? I'm female. And yes, we are very mature over 20 year olds.|||Let's just say he didn't tell me that he was ready.  I asked if he was over his ex and he gave a vague answer, no definite yes, more like a confusing answer that to me reads no. Though, as an INFP...|||Thanks for the responses guys. I think straight forward is the way to go BUT how about if we added another factor. Say the girl thought the guy wasn't over his ex. Though he says that he's ready to...|||This question is mostly directed to ENFP males, but some insight from ENFP females would be appreciated too.   Say there was a girl you were interested in and you were unsure of how she felt about...|||The funny thing is, even though he's attached now he still treats me the same way. I'm not sure if this is a diversion for other people or he's just a jerk.     No worries, I like learning about...|||Thanks for the insight into INTPs guys. I'm still unsure if he is one. Though if anyone is following and wanted to know the outcome to this whole thing. The mutual friend was interested in him for...|||haha. I thought you guys didn't place a significance on looks. Thought it was more a mind connection?|||hahaha I could never do this! And I think I can imagine his reaction D:  Thanks for the replies guys but I think my feelings for him have near gone away. I just realised this when I felt that maybe...|||Interesting. I guess it's true, about the comfort thing. We might probably just be best staying friends. I'm happy with that.|||The ENFP I was talking about earlier. They don't really get along....  Yeah I know he tells me stuff when he's ready. I try not to pry, but sometimes I just get the feeling that he wants me to ask...|||I was talking about a mutual male friend to him. He commented that that friend and I were talking to each other quite a lot. Then I asked him if he thought that friend and I were similar. He then...|||I don't really understand what you're trying to say? :/ I have tried to understand him. My attempts have been rejected. I've told him that I care about him and he seems to open up a bit more. I...|||Is it possible that a long term relationship could've softened him a bit?  He won't confirm his type and likes that he's hard to read. Manipulative no?|||Thanks so much. This was very helpful! =)|||Ok I'm confused. I think he flirts with us equally to the same degree with all three of us together. Probably with her more since she's quite extroverted. Bring in some other people, he flirts with...|||Thank you for the insight! Re the bolded, yes that is so true! I hate that little bit of hope that eats at me.     Thanks for answering! I think I act in the same manner. For some reason I do...|||Thanks, I'll take note of that! Everything helps :)|||Yeah, that makes sense. Which means, you've never furthered a relationship into something serious with someone who was initially a close friend? Do INTPs prefer being friends first before getting...|||I think ISFPs are more guarded than INFPs. I've known my ISFP friend (I think she's an ISFP) for nearly 2 years now and I still don't feel like we're close. However, it could be because I'm not...|||I'm curious, why is that?     I think he could be a very introverted ENTP.  I know he says things to gauge my reaction. He also asks me questions  that he already knows the answer to. He says he...|||Interesting....that makes a lot of sense actually.   Yeah, I'm formulating a scenario in my head to try to figure this out. I will ask him when I have the chance.|||Thank you. I think this is exactly what I needed someone to say to me. There are better guys out there definitely.      Would there be a reason for telling me that he liked her? I would think...|||Thanks.  I hate games. I think the best thing for me is to set some boundaries or something :/|||Thanks for the replies guys. Appreciated!   Thinking about this more, he flirts less when we are alone together. Flirts more if there are other people around. When we are alone he's more serious,...|||Yeah sure.   No, he is flirty even when she's not around. Before, he was a bit flirty with her too, but for some reason I haven't seen him interact with her in that way for a while.  I was a bit...|||Firstly, my friend is probably low on the I, or so he says. So he may be borderline ENTP if that makes a difference.   A few weeks ago he told me (very unexpectedly) that he was interested in our...|||Thanks, I'll take a look!    Hmm why do you say that? Is it because I said he was very adventurous in the physical sense? That's what lead me to believe that he may be an ISTP or ESTP. But he's...|||Not sure about the explaining thing, all I know is that he's good at explaining things than I am, or more that I understand what he's trying to explain! But yes, he does try to finish other people's...|||hehe yeah I figured you meant that. So there aren't many artistic ENTPs then?  My friend seems to place some importance on the meaning behind the art, but then again would see a piece of art and...|||Not even auditory art, i.e music?  Thanks everyone, appreciate it =) I was considering ENFJ for a while though he doesn't seem like he has very high F, he definitely makes decisions in a logical...|||Hi all, I'm having trouble figuring out my friend's type. Apparently he's ENTP (I made him take the test) though before he did the test I would never have thought he was ENTP. I was thinking more...|||Obernewtyn Chronicles right?    I think I'm a romantic.  But then I see all the mushy and affectionate displays that people engage in in real life and it irks me =. I think I just have different...|||There's an Aussie show called Find My Family that has the same concept! It never failed to make me cry =_= Also shows like Wife Swap (which was on a few years back). Isn't there another reality show...'