'http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hHJr07zU9Gk|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=450p7goxZqg|||My best friend is an INFP.|||I'm really into gaming lately:  I've just played Rayman Origins. It's soooo pretty, fun and relaxing. Except at the end it gets a bit too hard for me. But the cartoony graphics, the soundtracks, the...|||andufeff I've waited so long this love tearing me down   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RQCMtudobKU|||I think for a long term relationship, I'll need an NF. I have some ST-friends, well... two ST-guys I used to have something with. They have their own great qualities, but it's really difficult to get...|||You are my sweetest downfall I loved you first, I loved you first...   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p62rfWxs6a8|||I'm an INFJ and it's scary how you hit the nail on the head there (at least about me, I'm not going to speak for all the INFJs). I have this problem at times.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=crTYOryEFXw|||Well, this may be a silly tip, but I bought an extremely soft teddy bear when I was feeling down. I had quite a depression when I was 16 and sadly enough, I relapsed a few months ago. I'm seeing a...|||This is how I feel at the moment, two of my guy friends were being insensitive towards me:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=suaveqvlWP8|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zDNVTueV9TE|||Thank you so so so much for this.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=crTYOryEFXw|||What helped was that he just wants to go out and do things. And I try to tag along. I always worry so much, instead of just enjoying the fact that we have something fun planned. Afterwards, I had fun...|||Well, what I have learned of the ISTP-person in my life, is to live more in the now, not think just do sometimes... It's hard though.|||My former best friend did somes tests and mainly got INFJ out of it, but we looked into it and read up on things. He cleary is an INFP. One video on youtube really helped to make the distinction.|||At the moment? None. Over a year ago, I still had two best friends. The female best friend and me went our separate ways and now my best friend of 7 years kind of ditched me because he finally found...|||When you realize, you still have feelings for that ISTP-guy you dated 4 years ago, had incredibly drama breakup with (didn't speak to each other for a year), went camping with him and some friends,...|||Lol, I didn't know there were even some options, the first thing that came straight to my mind was: CHOCOLATE. It's sweet, it hugs you emotionally, it soothes... It fills up the emptiness you get...|||Affection|||Yup, I'm highly sensitive. I've known for quite some years now. I don't really like it, because in this society it kind of sucks being an HSP. But I also think it kind of sucks to be an INFJ in this...|||Oh, there was no real sex involved. He did offer to not touch and such, if it would make it easier on me to keep a clear boundary, so I don't think he was in it for the sex|||He was into me but then he got scared. So there's no possibility that when we both relax it turns out differently?|||To continue my story in the previous posts. He freaked out and said again he doesn't think he will fall in love with me. So we are now just friends. First I was upset about the betrayal, because he...|||The issue is not about saying I love you. The issue was if we were officially together or not. He's the one who brought it up, but also started to panick a bit. I panicked a bit too and suddenly it...|||And what is the best way for me to respect that? And my problem also is, when do I know he won't doubt so quickly anymore. I find it really hard to still trust him now.|||Why do I attract ST types, who then get drained by my Fe and Ni and then run away...|||Is it typical for ISTJ to doubt a lot? I needed my time in the beginning to open up to him, he really did his best so I could open up. I finally open up and now he's like I don't know if I will fall...|||I can't relate with being quiet. My Fe is all over the place at times. It used to be different though, I was quite shy and quiet. All the rest is very spot on though.|||It's not nice to kick somebody who's already down. He's not weak, he's hurt. And all people have their own struggles. And 0% attachment? That doesn't sound healthy at all. That sounds like a...|||*hugs*  I can only say, I'm struggling with something similar :s The only advice I can give is try focusing on yourself. That's what I do. Distraction, distraction, distraction... It's the only...|||Well, I tried giving logical reasoning and then I gave up.|||To heal.  Myself and others. Healing scars, making lost limbs reappear or even to healing an annoying zit on a date night :p|||My God, yes, yes and yes. I have the same thing and it's my biggest frustation|||I understood sadly enough, infjs often have to help themselves. Which is my problem, I get frustrated because I would love to have help of other people, but because nobody seems to really...|||Somehow I often get attracted to the shy, mysterious guy. I want to open them up like a christmas present, discover what's inside.|||What is you main goals in life? To survive. Or at least that's the feeling I have. To survive in a hostile environment.    What do you think about on a day to day basis? I think about soulmates...|||I was just trying to be comforting and said it with lightheartedness, because I once was akward with emotions too. You don't have to attack me like that. My intuition and thinking is just fine.  So...|||Aren't you guys overreacting a little? You make it sound like the world is going to end or it's the most horrible thing that could happen to you. Just relax and don't run away. :) That's the most...|||I also started my first job. And now I have a hard time finding reload time. The problem is that each morning, the moment I walk out of the door, it's 2,5 hours before I start to work and in the...|||Thank you so much for explaining. I feel like I'm finally getting somewhere understanding ISTPs. Or to at least know how to not step on their toes. I think going out with this ISTP is a good...|||I just started my first job. Been doing it for a month now. I work in the Customer Care department of a pharmaceutical company (concerning health and environment). The job is placing orders and...|||Now this is interesting! In what way could I tell a story instead of just sharing feelings? For me they same to be intertwined.|||Seems I did it again, by mentioning emotional stuff here. It's really remarkable, on an INFJ forum people would be empathizing and here it almost looks like I dropped the F-bomb or something :tongue:...|||Could you please elaborate?  Although I think I once scared an ISTP off with my Fe. Which hurt a lot, because it was about my abuse (I freaked out after we had gotten a bit frisky a day or two...|||I was wondering this. If I'm annoying when hanging out with an ISTP. I have the tendency to have Fe and Ni all over the place and ask a lot questions (why this? why that? how did you feel when..?...|||When I feel good, I smile, look people in the eye and joke around. The minute I feel though that that person is getting the wrong idea, I will stop with the joking around and such and tone it down to...|||I flirt naturally apparently. Laughing, looking them in the eyes and I love poking and hitting. A gentle touch. I don't decide, it's just what I start to do and I get all giddy. But I can only do it...|||I feel like I'm not appreciated, because of my Fe. The people who internalize everything and have introverted feeling, seem to be mysterious and interesting. Me with my Fe, my feelings all over the...'