Well thank you Gilly! I *really* love the lady! :proud:|||Thanks guys! I think he's more likely to find interest in the programming/systems side of things. Even though his hand-to-eye coordination is really good, but he's not that practical, but finds...|||Update from the above 2013 post- we just went and got married!  628146|||Hello to you all! I hope you can help me with guiding a young ISTP stepson.  He is about to turn 13 and had the potential to be a lovely young man, however he is going through a period in his life...|||That.|||There's your gut instinct right there! As an INFP bloke, I would not have shown the level of interest he has if I wasn't keen on you. Even if you are wrong, just because you send him your number it...|||Just send him your number via a Facebook pm. Top it with some 'off hand' message like 'might be handy if you had my number?'. In his position I'd definitely want some kind of positive sign from you....|||I can really relate to that. My mum is an ISTJ and brought up 3 children by herself, I cannot fault her on fulfilling the 'duty' aspects of her role, but I cannot recall any fun in my childhood....|||0-17 years... single  19-27 years....single  27.2 - 32 years...single  36 - 41... single but have now been blissfully happy since meeting my partner 2 1/2 years ago, and will be getting married...|||Motorway driving used to put me on the verge of having panic attacks, it's that 'I'm committed now, there's no turning around' feedback loop thing. In retrospect that was probably linked to other...|||My gut instinct says move on, you're shutting down on her, she's trying to manipulate you.....if you're having these issues early on (when it should really all be fun) then it doesn't bode well for...|||I'd say I've got more adventurous as I've got older (I'm 42) but similarly to telepariah, I now spend more time assessing and managing the risks before I take them....whereas when I was younger, I'd...|||I'm with the most fantastic ENFJ that I met via a dating website a couple of years ago. She'd had a far rougher ride of the online approach than me and was about to give up.  All my previous...|||You have the power to make that transition happen. The societally accepted path to success is not for us. I am a middle aged white male who has achieved a modest level of this 'traditional' success,...|||my ears are bigger irl  93862|||I think the problem is that the concept hasn't yet reached the masses even on a subconscious level. It is going to take some serious sh!t to go down for people to adjust their mindset, by that point...|||need a break from earning money, a 40 year break should just about do it!|||Cleaning my ears with a cotton bud....I know you shouldn't, but hey! life's short!|||If you're messaging someone on an internet dating site and it's going well, try and organise a date within the first 10 messages or so. The whole reason you're on there is to date people, and you can...|||@telepariah It sounds to me as if you have done everything you can to bridge the incompatible issues between yourself and your wife, and it's still not working.  Nobody is at fault if the things...|||I had a relationship with an ISTJ for about 4 years and it was a lot of hard work. I would sight the T/F and S/N mismatch as the biggest problem areas. My P/J are pretty close so I'm not too bad on...|||Yes it did happen Molly! It went so well we've had another improptu one since as well! Our mutual NFness seems to be creating a very strong connection. Each date has been packed full of enjoyable,...|||Thanks reckless summer nights  the voice of reason speaks, I'm carrying on like some love sick teenager! We have a date booked for later in the week, I will reign in my useless over analysis and tell...|||Hello you lovely ENFJs  I had a really enjoyable date with a beautiful, intelligent, witty ENFJ on Saturday. It went so well when I dropped her off at her house (she mentioned I was the only recent...|||...said like a true INFP!|||Hi the @misstress002  My last long term partner was an ISTJ and I have to say the relationship was an interesting experience! ISTJs and INFPs can learn a great deal from one another, we have common...|||The truth is, if you've been through it and survived it, you are a stronger and better person     It seems that for INFPs this feeling can happen at many different points in their life (most...|||@mushr00m  Observations  oozing excessive creative juices and fuelled by quality sounds  sharp offbeat wit  looking to validate self identity in a world which is (in the main) contradictory...|||Thanks Nicali....it's done and dusted; pretty certain she was an INFJ, the conversation was easy but no real 'spark' between us. Interesting experience nonetheless.  edit...thanks for the tip...|||Interesting question. I'm not spiritual (though I envy those who are) but when my creativity is at its best I do feel as if I am just a 'conduit' for what's happening or what I'm producing. However...|||This old fart of an INFP is going on a date!  https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/--tezE4OXcZI/USXRgGV2pmI/AAAAAAAAFxA/rjgtZOlSCmc/s912/DSC07575%2520crop.jpg|||https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-Srt0NAUUDvE/USH4X2qF9kI/AAAAAAAAFvE/gjf_g1aeAvc/s640/02brunovsky_905.jpg ...|||What does this button do? (insert noise of roof sliding back), ah ha! count me in......make mine a peppermint tea!   ...|||I can identify strongly with that, my whole school life I was stuck in a system where success was based upon how well you could remember and regurgitate facts, sequences of numbers and correctly...|||Stop thinking, and start doing!  Take Isisx 's lead and get yourselves over to this thread now-...|||LittleHawk jessieahh refugee Tincan PumpkinEater can I just say what a great selection of music this page features so far|||An old oak close to my house has shed one of its major limbs. This tree must have stood for over 300 years, and in its bare winter state I can see just how many of the secondary branches are dead or...|||om nom nom nom!    https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-OdhDdoE8faU/UQ_1GajBOmI/AAAAAAAAFos/qyqfZAYxqcQ/s500/3725736150_c32578ec76.jpg ...|||https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-YnzgXTJ3qRY/UQ-uHF2N11I/AAAAAAAAFn0/sb5oN-rNArQ/s500/tumblr_mhopvusdzd1rtji2zo1_500.jpg ...|||Get a grip man :wink: ..you're an INFP; you'll forever be a child on the inside! Despite my middle age exterior, internally I'm an 8 year old boy the majority of the time!    What is it you...|||My best ever dumpster dive result was a professional camera tripod, just needed a nut and bolt to fix it.  I can't resist looking in a skip (dumpster) whenever I walk past one. I've also heated my...|||Not decrying single mothers here, but surely the whole family thing must be so much more rewarding with a partner? 2Thumbs snare yourself a hunky west country man! Looking at your profile page I'm...|||How's about I say kill the 2 billion, but I get to select those that will die. Who'd be first in line for the gas chamber? the guy who broking the deal of course. He could meet his grizzly death and...|||Hey mushr00m, I went to college with the guy who painted this, he was jolly decent chap too....watercolour artist | animal pictures | prints | cards by artist and printmaker Daniel Mackie &mdash; Home|||2Thumbs Take the following with a pinch of salt (I'm a bloke) but 36 is still pretty young these days isn't it? Lots of women are having children well into their 40s. Maybe take a more 'aggressive'...|||...and there's one thing we all want to know; the INFP + INFP love making....is it as phenomenally, emotionally, earth shatteringly amazing as we suspect?|||Don't forget that an interview is a two way thing, you need to find out about them as much as they need to find out about you, so ask plenty of questions and get the conversation going both ways! ...|||I am most definitely a loner. I work from home and live in a rural location with few neighbours. I do have several good friends who understand my solitary nature, and don't feel offended when if I...|||possibly the greatest remix album of all time   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nd7pIZcwVU8|||so is this going to be like a 'porn off' or a 'porn vs'?.......hmmm the bar has been set impressively high by your first round, but I'll not reveal my best moves quite yet......  ...