'How does ENTJ react to what may be perceived as rejection? Will one withdraw somewhat to process?  I might have accidentally and stupidly given him the wrong idea and he seems a little different....|||-|||Hmm yeah, I do have a strong feeling it was mostly the alone time thing.  So I did text him because I didn't want to risk calling him in case he was in a meeting, and you were right (of course you...|||Okay I think I will. And I think it should be good to bring it up to clarify and clear the air if he agrees to meet up? It was kind of not nice IMO that there was no update at all, I mean he should...|||Hahah stand-offish would be quite accurate.    True, except that I guess I expected him to at least update me regarding the airport trip, but there was nothing at all. I'm rather tempted to...|||Honestly I don't think I have the guts to tell him directly, I also prefer if he'd initiate it first. After all, don't ENTJs want to be in charge most of the time? Haha.    So you kind of knew...|||If I'd just eff'ed up with this guy. Can't figure out if I might have said something wrong, and if I did, which was that... argh!|||INTJ female  Most: ENTJ, INTJ, INTP Least: ESFP, ENFP, ESFJ|||Rofl it's very highly unlikely that I would do something so forward :laughing:   How did it start with the two of you if you don't mind me asking?  Yeah I agree, if he was too dominant I think it...|||Thank you for the kind wish :happy:  That's true, we do have similar views on r/s, long term plans and goals. Last night he was telling me about his staff who seems unable to formulate proper long...|||Okie cool. I'm just going to go with the flow for now and see how things develop.  Thanks for your inputs, much appreciated! :)|||Haha @ the last sentence.  Okay. He did take me to the airport last week when I was going back to my hometown - he had to wake up at 3am on a working day when he usually wakes up at 8:30am, is this...|||How fast/slow does an ENTJ male usually make a move on a female he's interested in? I know it varies from one to another, but is it going to be like almost daily contact or weekly...? I'm wondering...|||Socializing. So weird. Lol.|||Probably not but based on my observations of co-workers, NTs are the straightforward blunt types whereas the twofaced/fakes/backstabbers/gossipers/sycphants are not NTs. Our team is sort of split up...|||INTJ, backpack  Disposable latex gloves Antiseptic wet wipes Normal wet wipes Tissues Disposable masks Tiny bottle of liquid castille soap Cellphones Powerbank + cable|||So dangerous. Lol. Imagine you dropped the sushi... :eek:  Ah I am seriously craving for some now! Maybe I'll get up extra early tmr and get some.|||Lol.  I myself would love a Gibson LP! A strat would be pretty awesome too... And a Taylor 814ce. And I shall go back to my imaginary world where I own all these and more.......|||- have a twisted/weird/scary/dark sense of humor (and ideas) that seemingly only acceptable by our own kind - blunt and direct, no sugarcoating - hate incompetence and people who exhibit that -...|||I think it really depends on the person, but based on the NTs I know IRL... probably ENTP..  But then again, this is because I've yet to see him lose his cool/expresses his frustration in front of...|||Yeah, he did make a guess. You're right in that it's not something to be mad about and that it was a reasonable guess on his part. But it's the pattern that made me feel annoyed - as much as I was...|||If I'm really that cold and insensitive, not just as perceived by others, but really truly that way.|||Cream crackers dipped in coffee. Unhealthy, but, meh.|||Yeah, I've heard the patience is a virtue advice for this sort of issue from a couple of my friends too. Not really from people much older than me though (in this case I'm referring to my...|||Can't imagine how one can walk with an umbrella, chopsticks and food container all in his hands at the same time... lol. Walking into puddles is still less embarrassing than walking into a pothole or...|||I am in need of insights/advice, male INFPs, so please enlighten me if you would.  I actually typed a long post earlier but it wouldn't post and now it's gone. Ugh. I'll just try to rewrite as...|||Haha yeah, the list only sways a little bit for me. I still like him despite the cons. I agree with the time and space thing, I think this is what I need, I'm not gonna reach out anymore. If I see...|||Salmon sashimi. It's been a long while....  Steak sounds pretty good too actually.  Gah I'm hungry but it's raining outside...|||Why my cognitive function tests always come back sort of funny... not 'haha' funny, but you know... hmm actually I don't know if you know.  Anyway.|||Watching Haven.|||Dried chili. On its own. It's just too good!|||Yep, I acknowledge that I am human. And trying to accept the fact that it's normal to have these sort of feelings. Ugh I hate how un-human I sounded, but well, a new experience, so it is pretty......|||Haha I'm glad I amused you! The personal space thing, we both have this thing where we consciously keep everyone at a certain distance away physically. But yeah, we did have those moments when we...|||I suppose this may be like my first 'real' crush, that's why I'm feeling overwhelmed.  Trying to let it go slowly...|||Unlike most other females I guess. :p|||Stupid people. Stupid people asking stupid obvious/unnecessary/irrelevant questions. People with no manners. People who constantly interrupt when someone else is speaking. Cleaning up incompetent...|||another phone... another laptop, netbook maybe... after all, one can never have 'too many' gadgets. :p|||I think I don't flirt. Or, don't know how to, more like...  But for some reason... guys that I don't like in that way (as in I see them completely as buddies/friends) sometimes THINK I like them....|||To get inside his head. To understand him, see and hear his thoughts. To see how his thought process occurs. To find all the puzzle pieces and fit them together perfectly. To get inside his heart and...|||Nothing and everything.|||Yeah pretty extreme hehe.  Now that I think back about whenever I had my Ni telling me things, I always regretted when I chose to ignore cause something bad often happened. Taught me to trust 'gut...|||How do your friends act differently? I mean, what is so obvious? I'm genuinely curious :)  And well I guess that sealed it. Everyone says I'm INTJ. Hehe.|||My Fe is apparently very underdeveloped, so that will be on my to do list, develop it.|||Edit:  Thanks for thinking I'm not cold and calculating! I rarely get that. Lol. But when I do care about people, it is genuine, although it does not come that often. I care about family and close...|||Lol depressing. Well, wasn't the first time I've been told that ;)|||Hehe what I meant was, you have some sort of vision and you brush it off only to watch it actually happen soon enough.  E.g.  One day while I was driving back from out of town with my ex, I had...|||Someone to talk to.|||How stupid I was to believe that idiot. How stupid I was to ignore my gut instinct. How stupid I was for not seeing him for whom he really, truly was. How stupid I was.  Stupid!!|||I desire to be completely rid of this silly resentment. It's of no use, I don't even care about him. Just my pride is bruised I suppose.|||How long it will take until it's my turn. How I thought I didn't care anymore but I still feel resentment inside. How I wish I could talk to someone who's willing to listen and is impartial. Because...'