'Thank you, I never felt my troubles were bigger than anyone's. I understand that it would also feel that way for anyone when your problems hinder your ability to function at your everyday routine....|||My peers thought I was weird; I thought they were vapid.|||Attractive in what way? I'd probably ask. Or, I'm more likely to say something like, Beauty is in the eye of the beer-holder.|||None. Religion didn't work out with my personal principles, so I reverted to atheism.|||Agreed. The expert is not necessarily the man who has loved plenty of women, but the man who manages to keep one loving him for life.|||I'm one of those INTJs who kissed a number of boys a tad too early (at 14), because I did it out of curiosity as to why other girls my age were rushing to do it, but not because I really felt like...|||- Peanut butter, bacon, pancake syrup, and jalapeno peppers.   - Cheez Whiz, cheese curls, and garlic peanuts.|||Extreme pain causes me to be emotionless, and when I'm emotionless is when I perform most efficiently. I choose whatever pushes me to be at the top of my game.|||Most people you know fail to understand your penchant for acquiring information.|||Let's just say I made a stupid decision that could have been avoided a) had I paid attention to the numerous red flags I had already observed beforehand, b) because it's inherently wrong, and c)...|||Anywhere between Chaotic Good and Chaotic Neutral.|||You fall out of love with someone once you lose respect for them.|||I've been really sad for several weeks now -- okay, my depression has recurred -- but I can't really talk about it because it's my fault.|||On topic: Unnecessary noise.|||My husband and best friend are INFJs. Differences aside, it's never boring to be with them.|||I quit smoking cold turkey in 2007, and have been smoke-free since. However, I am addicted to coffee and the Internet, and tend to be obsessive with various interests.|||That person doesn't need to be dignified with any further response, because they only want to hear themselves talk by goading others into an unnecessary and irrational argument. ;)|||I'm not quite sure what your point is, other than to aggrandize yourself by lashing out with ad hominems in an otherwise neutral conversation, which seems to have somehow affected you on a personal...|||Probably because they are misled to believe that reason cannot co-exist with emotion and empathy. And probably because they're simply looking for the most convenient and self-aggrandizing excuse to...|||BECAUSE WE THINK IN ALL CAPS. ;)  ===========  When people fear your judgment of them, more than your anger at them.|||1. Most of the time I carry my problems alone. Even as a child, I had not been the type to ask for help for as long as I can manage on my own. So when I ask for help, that means I really need it. And...|||This. The good thing is that ultimately, both intelligence and stupidity can't be faked.|||45.|||When people message me to say that they think I have a lovely name, then misspell it.|||It depends on what feelings the loved one tends to elicit in me. There are those that have had no difficulty bringing out my affectionate side, and there are those that I liked having around but at a...|||Almost 5 days. My son was confined for pneumonia at the time and I rarely sleep when he's ill, until I've ascertained that he's out of danger. It's the adrenaline.  On the average though, I sleep...|||Yes, I do, and I don't look back.|||And a rather undescended ballsack at that.|||Small words, big ideas.|||Age: 37  Gender: Female  Languages: English  Religion: None  Political leanings: Humanitarian|||Murder, she thought. Dinner, she made.|||No. I find that I end up strongly liking people whom I am initially critical of, and the more I like them, the more glaring their flaws are to me.|||My son is diagnosed with ASD and we get along very well. Perhaps it helps that in childhood, I also used to exhibit several ASD traits but have never been diagnosed.|||With difficulty. And sometimes, with choloroform and duct tape.      It depends on the person and their capacity for self-reformation. And that's just the INTJ in question. (Contrary to popular...|||Yes. For the most part, I'm generally levelheaded and forgiving. But on the few occasions I've lost it I've broken a glass window, slapped a few people who've been extremely rude, slashed my arm...|||Even more so if you're referring to the IQ level, not the age.|||My self-esteem has plummeted lately. In spite of that, I'm still confident about the way I process and synthesize information.|||Hi. I would appreciate some advice from fellow INTJ's.   Although I tested several times as an INTJ, it appears that I'm one of the more emotionally sensitive and intense ones, mostly due to a...|||I'm gonna post all 1,537 of my latest selfies on all my 37 social networking accounts so everyone will admire how pretty I am -- for an introvert! Luv ya bae XOXOXOXOXO|||The angle of your right eyelid, maxilla, and pursed lips remind me of Ethan Hawke's.|||Vulnerability and onions.|||No, I'm not the only INTJ who [fill in the blanks].|||Perhaps I've developed a complex about not being pretty at around age 6. When my teachers told me that, I knew they were only trying to make me feel better about myself. I was fat and plain, and my...|||When people contradict their own principles to accommodate personal biases.|||I also welcome and even revel in cognitive dissonance. Usually in my case, the dissonance is accompanied by minutes of glaring into space while I reprocess my old beliefs vs new and conflicting...|||One that leads to even greater sex.|||When you're a female and people call you Sir in online discussions, despite a feminine profile photo, username, and gender indicator.|||If I were Rose, I would outdo my brother in villainy, the bumbling amateur.|||No matter how you try to spot us, we will spot you first.|||Today, I hate my maxilla.'