'Our relationship lacks depth. Sure, I'll do your Classics paper. I know you hate writing. You don't believe in love?! Don't do anything rash.|||Nor mine! Though I see how some could be. My Mom likes to shop but is generally very resourceful and practical.|||:) Thanks for the confirmation. Honestly, ENFP's often feel this way too. In these situations, our strategy is usually to try cling to whatever good nuggets are thrown at us and expand on them....|||Have you had dinner? Would you like me to make you something? Did you eat enough? Did you find out about _____? Can you call to confirm it with them? Please tell me you're wearing a...|||TRUTH! Especially everything about touch and quality touch, preferring to evaluate ideas instead of people (P), and arguing both sides of an issue. An aside, I totally freaked out my Nana yesterday...|||I love how you guys sometimes give us the benefit of the doubt.|||@monemi Glorious! You have infinitely improved my contribution. Let's conspire to do another sometime :)|||Continued…  This new person seems very sweet and funny. Happy you stayed?  INFP: http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ly63csP09h1r6bq34o1_500.gif  Wow. From the self-grooming, arm-touching, and...|||Continued…  All right. Now you’ve had a few canapés and imbibed a drink or two, or if you’re an ESTP:                 ...|||It’s Friday! Let’s see the types at a party : )   What introverts are thinking before the party: http://24.media.tumblr.com/2f8a2a7da4383cbcbc19b9260fa2e977/tumblr_mqp77eNW241rsyy48o1_250.gif ...|||Accurate. Break my heart, why don't you!|||You look like you need help with that.   Thank God for SJs and NTs!|||~Brilliant, beautiful, fascinating brains. Could talk to one for hours and not get bored. ~Actually very humane underneath. Though not touted for being the most socially aware types, INTJs at the...|||All the time :) As a toddler I would actually leave the room during movies when upsetting, violent, or embarrassing parts came on. My SJ parents thought it was hilarious.|||INFP http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0fr3ckqtk1qk1h5ao1_400.gif  INTJ http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m6f0yjbUv71qds29uo2_250.gif  ENTJ http://i.imgur.com/pIIPb.gif  ENFJ|||“No, I’ve never really thought about a Mars colony.” “Cuddle puddle!” “For all intensive purposes.” “Shopping is my anti-drug.” “Chaos theory? Boring.” “You’re going way over my head here.”...|||“Let’s hug it out.” “That needs more glitter.” “Wait. Slow down. I don’t get it.” “How can I make Comic Sans my default font?” “I can’t, I have cheer practice.” “I called you, like, 10 times.”...|||Pretty tidy and clean ENFP here! Admittedly, sometimes the ENFP spontaneity gets in the way of putting items back in their proper places before charging out in the world :) Nonetheless, a fresh,...|||1. I believe in objective morality 2. I live chastely (in keeping with number 1) 3. Cleanliness and order in my living space are important to me 4. So is remaining debt-free and financially secure...|||Dear ISTJ, I love you a whole lot. You are trying, for all of us, and I see it. Please keep moving on this path. I know it's not always easy, and you have so much on your shoulders. But we are all...|||The book Intuitive Eating changed my life! I was never really overweight, but carried an extra 10 to 20 pounds in high school-college. Learning to trust my appetite, body signals, and desire for...|||Thank you again niss :) ISTJ has taken it upon himself to get counseling. You are right, he had in many ways a very traumatic childhood. Knowing that his anger stems from fear, however, does not make...|||Thank you, Marie Claire, and I completely agree. This is not a romantic relationship, otherwise I would have been long gone.   Even so, what you say still applies. If he cannot keep his promise to...|||Awww, thanks, niss! It is heartening to hear that you and SWMBO were able to heal your relationship.  Unfortunately, in the intervening time, ISTJ blew up at me and said some very hurtful things,...|||Dear ITSJ,  Words can’t really describe how I felt after you called me yesterday. I was so surprised because I thought that conversation would never happen. Your honest and forthright apology...|||The 'I hate people' thread “Who else alphabetizes their kitchen cabinets?” “Kissing = overrated “Let’s all play a math game, post your score” (this one was actually stolen from the INTJs) How...|||Yes, because they are interesting!  Also, they tend to have the courage to fully be who they are, or at least to figure that out. In that respect, they are potentially more mentally and...|||How about an experiment? Instead of trying to make him different, try to make him happy. Sometimes someone needs to be give first.|||Congratulations, @Finaille! So very happy for you :)  As for me, if I am lucky enough to meet and marry the man of my dreams, who would be a devoted father, and whose judgment I respected, I would...|||Ooops, double post, see below.|||You just got me to dip my toe into the world of Socionics! :) Apparently I test as an INFJ there.     Hmmm, the page you linked to listed ENFPs and INFJs as Psuedo-Caregivers/Students while ENFJs...|||Me too! But the complete openness and acceptance that I naturally give to friends is more  demanding when it comes to exclusive romantic partners. It is scary for me to be inches from someone's face,...|||I apologize if it came across that I was implying you were insecure or “did not know your worth.” Rereading it, my tone was directed more to svrider3’s posts than what you had actually written. Glad...|||Don't give up on finding a satisfying relationship with someone you are interested in! INTJs are highly attractive people. Trust me, someone worthy wants you for you.    I see where you are...|||Awww, glad to hear it! I meant every word.     To give you the most P answer ever: on one hand, it does work, and on another, it is not ideal and could maybe use some adjustments.  First of...|||@svrider3, I'm sorry you are going through this. There seems to be a difference between the dating patterns of ENFP females versus INTJ males: INTJ males do not tend to start dating a woman until...|||Lol! Which brings me to my next one...   You are a dork. But a cute dork.|||Have we met? You look SO familiar.|||Buzzkill. Loosen up. Want to join the Mathletes? No, I don't remember you. Don't be a wet blanket. You would make a great Marine. Ooops, sorry, I'll try to respect your personal...|||Hey everybody,  Thanks in no small part to your helpful suggestions and sweet pep talks, I just got my driver's license!   It was kind of a straight up miracle :)  Everybody who posted here is...|||You sing, sing, sing so long, long, long (each note making a thrilling song).  please take a pause to let me in- and cause our duet to begin.|||Wash, tell me I'm pretty.  ~ENFP|||Dear ISTJ,  You are a good man who has worked extremely hard your whole life, in a way I am just beginning to fathom.   So much of my success is owed to your tireless efforts on my behalf. I love...|||Your boyfriend sounds like a really good egg :) so does your stepfather. It is wonderful that he told you how much he loves your mother; the men around us in our formative years really do inform our...|||My ISTJ father has said ALL of the above, and while he may not have verbally expressed the last one, I've always known he means it :)|||Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!  In response to small furry animals, little kids' antics, old people holding hands, a friend divulging an embarrassing moment (or long-held wish, or raging self-doubt),...|||You are so poetic! Are you ALWAYS happy?  What were you saying? You were laughing so hard I didn't hear you.|||You can't help but tear up in public when you think of a possibility that is lost to you, because a lost possibility feels like death.|||Oh my goodness, been there! Nostalgic music triggers tears :) even in the grocery store, even with mascara exposing your shame...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNIJBJytivk  This video and song = instant cheer. Here's to being young and alive.'