'I see someone looking for freedom, trying to escape the life she's trapped in... Decisions that need courage to be made.|||You know you're a thinker... when you have the thinker sculpture as your avatar...|||Say one thing and doing another.|||No i don't, most people today only think of themselves, and they're so busy with their lives that they don't even have the time to notice others around them.  Not also.|||A friend : a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.  So i only have one, even if i know some people, they can't be defined as friends.|||The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why. - Mark Twain.|||Someone once said seek first to understand then to be understood, so you can tune your frequency button and then communicate in the same channel.  In your case, you seem a bit frustrated and feel...|||Today, just listening to a song made me cry, i wished i could pull my heart out just to stop feeling this thing and let my brain take control again. What a strange moment, good thing that they are...|||She seems to like the attention you give her, she has some sort of power over you. One (several) last word, sometimes, actions speak louder than words.|||She did the terrible thing, there was no need for you to apologize.  Now she has power over you by not giving what you want, an explanation to solve the problem, it's like a punishment.|||You know what you have to do to save yourself from another heart break|||Dear ISTJS Good to know there are people you can count on, will do what they say, be there when you expect. That's the way things are supposed to be but for some people, it's asking too much....|||Sorry to disappoint you.:proud:|||83573  Somewhere in Spain.|||I really like infps, too bad the few that i met online forget about people.|||She needs to go, so me and the rest of the family can be happy forever...  Did you actually thought about your brother, that he may like her style and love her?|||Difficult to find a win-win solution to that, if you put yourself first, the relationship will deteriorate, but compromise and act against your will may be worst for you in the end.|||Not expressing emotions, not feeling anything, but everything stay inside until it's full, and someday it must go out, in not so nice ways.|||I would like to see what the poster's relation had become.|||http://youtu.be/WQjPPTdAguE|||Read How to Win Every Argument: The Use and Abuse of Logic  from Madsen Pirie.|||The facts (being an intj), because in the first post of this thread, it is pretty obvious that she doesn't care about anyone, the cheating, the on/off loving, the loving while seeing someone else. ...|||Caring and defending someone who plays with people and their feelings...  I wish you'll never met someone like that.|||Crash is in my top  list of sad movies, i think i am more receptive to sadness than happiness, but don't know why and never wanted to.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hSH7fblcGWM|||It's the name of a queen, it's original and different.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0jXOpRlcKSU|||Maybe he's just frustrated because you are right, he's wrong, and he has no arguments.  ENFJ's main interest in life is giving love, support, and a good time to other people. They are focused on...|||Why do you want to be someone you are not, an introvert with extrovert activities? No surprise that you feel bad at the end.|||You seem like an F who seek revenge because the bad intj has made you suffer.|||I can't take so much compliments.  :blushed:|||Sandwich|||I never met someone who kept a promise, so i rarely trust somebody who makes one.|||https://ec.europa.eu/eures/main.jsp?lang=pt&acro=job&catId=482&parentCategory=482  Here you can have an idea of the salary you can expect in different countries across europe.  Even if your...|||The map is not the territory, just because they say that doesn't mean it's right.|||You can see if you have an option in your browser to enable plug-ins only in demand, in opera, it is in preferences, advanced tab, content section. It won't load the flash videos this way.|||I would really like to know some people in this forum, but i don't know what i could say in a first contact.|||I have hitchhiker's thumb, means i can bend my thumbs back to make a 90 degree angle.|||You have a high level of adoration for them, be careful because you may fall hard if you are wrong.|||We both have a point, i think we have reached the limits for this thread.|||If she's doing it for herself because she likes nice clothes, it is not.  Doing it for attracting men (and women) eyes, it is manipulating, because it fits your definition perfectly : have an...|||Laeona Always the kind words and good advice...|||Why didn't you asked him what he meant with his answer?  -that's not what I mean  -So what does it mean?|||It's obvious that she have found something in you that no one offers, you are the answer to her need ; you can't save her if she doesn't want to, she's in a hole at the moment and in the long run,...|||You know some, i can't tell the same. Support them, don't put too much pressure and let them do their own thing and you will be fine with them.|||I'm sure you have done your best to help the intjs get what they want, but i don't know if they have accepted, in this case, the best you can do is respect their decision, they are grown men and will...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xgcIpKL86Jk|||It's difficult for me to imagine an enfj spending time alone. The second part about intjs means persistence and determination, some good qualities.|||Is being able to live by yourself important to you? (meaning you are very independent in your life)|||Win-win seems the only option for you, it's understandable because we can achieve greater results. In case none wants to compromise, no-deal is the exit.'