'^ Oh my you are right. Who really talks like that? It does sound pretty stupid.|||We've been together on and off for four years. We are long distance. He's always been wonderful to me. Very caring. But he's seeing another person. This is the second time this has happened with us.|||Well that's what it feels like to hear those words ouch.|||Well yes. He is exploring other options. I am yesterday's news.|||Please tell me your thoughts when a romantic partner says Dont despair. I have loved and always will love you, but this love must be fluid? Entp/infj interaction.|||It's so surreal to come back to this forum and read this thread. It's been over a year now, maybe getting close to two years. To anyone who reads this and is going through a similar situation my...|||INFJ's do you find yourself in the middle of conflict between two other people very often? I find this happening to me all the time and I get accused of not being loyal because of it.  I find it so...|||Sing in front of an audience. Loudly and reach deep into their souls. :)|||When I am in love with someone, I could cuddle and bond non sexually for the entire day.|||Good Lord I was too late in this post. Oh well. Never contact her again.|||Do NOT send the 25 page email. The only thing you can do is work on yourself and become complete and whole. One year is clearly not enough time to get your life back together after threatening...|||Still thinking about trust. Funny, the folks I trust completed are those who not lived perfect lives if you know what I mean. They have made major mistakes along the way. Maybe it's their humility...|||To get myself through a painful divorce (currently going through) and the financial ruin the divorce has cost us. To climb back out of the depths of all of this and become independant and to be happy...|||Over the years, trust has become a very interesting thing for me. I generally only know a small handful of people I trust completely (sorry I know that is sad) but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy the...|||Sabrina (Audrey Hepburn) Iris (The Holiday) Francis (Under the Tuscan Sun)  Seeing a pattern here as I write this. Poor saps. That is me.|||You're totally right - we do do that. I am going back to the INFJ forum with the other crazies where I feel at home :)|||An earlier post made me wonder about this...have you ever been able to be friends with a former lover?|||Tell my why I would want you to want to date me? x95*´¨`*x95.¸¸.x95 I'm a little quirky, but nice for sure.|||How long this difficult search for someone deemed worthy of the NT's attention and energy? Are you searching out others simultaneously?|||Tell me more about this figuring someone out thing.|||Im just curious. I'm not a young girl, but I do like someone very much, who is an entp. Around everyone else he is very talkative, but around me, he is very quiet. Hangs around me a lot, but doesn't...|||Hello ENTP's: I am curious. Do you ever find yourself real quiet around someone you like?|||Oh my God, we are like that. Except for the manipulated part.|||Auburn Hair|||I am so sorry you are going through this. I am just coming out of what you are describing. It has been about four months and I am now getting back into the world. It's been hard for me to put into...|||I have a fear of traveling across bridges (like Frog above). But I have forced myself to work through it. I breathe slowly and talk myself gently across them each time.|||I suggest you listen to MOGWOK. He gives good advice. I posted a similar thread about two months ago (INFJ ENTP) and took his advice (and others). I moved on and it feels good. Granted it was a very...|||Hmmmmm. the hardest part of school was recess. My stomach would be in knots not knowing if anyone would talk to or play with me. I would wait and wait for the bell to ring so I could go inside and...|||I enjoyed being single for a large portion of my life, because I loved to flirt and think about the possibilities of being with someone very special. Over time I realized my ideals were a little too...|||I am fascinated by you ENTP's. Tell me...which is greater...love or respect?...and do tell why.|||Thank you everyone. Yes, Mogwok he came back. I'm glad I have stayed reserved, yet friendly (as that is the kind of person I am.)  I won't give in (hard to do, but I will stay true to myself).  He is...|||Dear Male ENTP's (or females too I guess):  I just spent two horrible months getting over a wonderful year long relationshp I thought was over with a male ENTP. I am an INFJ. He literally...|||I like being around other people, but don't necessarily want to interract wth them. For example, I love being alone in a crowd - at a street fair, going to the movies alone, going shopping. I smile...|||Hello INFJ's:  I have been reading and posting things in this forum for a few weeks now. I have been going through some very very hard life challenges these last two years (leaving a spouse who...|||Rouge:   This sooooo often happens to me too. In the beginning I was accepting their requests, and then one day I noticed there were way too many people who I had as friends on fb. I went in and...|||Does anyone ever get a feeling that someone is evil when everyone else thinks they are great? Don't know why I feel that way about some folks, but I do.|||I'm very new to this personality type research and find it fascinating. Does anyone have recommendations for further study?   But here's the real question - how does everyone seem to know what...|||It was after the divorce, but not long after - maybe a few months. The marriage was over tho long before the divorce, meaning I was pretty grounded. Why do you ask?|||Those are horrible. Well written, but simply horrible.   I get what you are asking about people hating INFJ's. I think about that often and wonder why, because I honestly make my way through life...|||It is late night and it is again very quiet here. Here is something interesting that I would like to share about how we reconnected after all the years.   I was doing very well as a single mother,...|||And I am a terrible typist|||Smiling (thank you) I believe in time what he has done and what he has lost will haunt him far longer than physical pain.  PS I am still working on this quote thing so if it doesn't show up...|||I haven't completely trusted my gut instinct over the years. Sometimes I don't know if it is a gut instinct or something I've wanted so badly that it feels like a gut instinct.   I agree with...|||Are you seriously asking me if someone from our type is good at sex? We invented sex when the other cavemen were still rubbing themselves against trees. You know an ENTP figured that whole thing out...|||Very funny. Yes there is much in my life that is great. I have a beautiful beautiful 9 year old son who is very involved in sports. And I do have wonderful friends during the day. The hard time comes...|||Hello everyone:   Thank you for your wonderful advice and thoughts. I am doing a little better. At least not having to wear sunglasses to sheild the red eyes at work so that's a good thing.   I...|||For me, I get very creative. I make jewelry and some of my most beautiful pieces are the result of a sad, sleepless night. Another thing I do is visualize myself as the heroine of a book and write my...|||Actually, I am quite good at lying, but the guilt of lying keeps me from ever doing it.|||Wow and wow. I am getting some amazing insight to this situation. I am proud of how I have handled it so far. I have not given him much to dangle with. As soon as he told me about her (which by the...|||But torturing myself is what I do best. You are right though. And I will after I crawl out of this well.l'