'I follow a phrase called I write how I want.|||I'm curious about other approaches to determine the functions and if there are diagrams or something instead of thinking about it myself.|||I saw a pattern in determining a type's cognitive functions by observing the type's 4-letter MBTI type. The two middle letters of the MBTI type will be the first two types of cognitive functions. I'm...|||Anadyomenos That's how I feel about Fe. It feels awkward and unnatural. I distracted myself and talking with my brother got me in a good mood, but I get really angry sometimes, especially if I think...|||I don't feel like this all of the time and wouldn't want to be apathetic. How can I develop Fe?|||I have been pissed off all day thinking about other people. My uncle makes fun of almost every person he ever lays eyes on behind their back which in itself pisses me off, but he also goes on this...|||Lol I saw spongebob and it was AWESOME. I generalized a bit. It's genres that I find boring. I don't understand and can't tolerate boring drama or fantasy fiction type stuff.|||My therapist is helping me find root issues and change my thinking patterns. And yeah, I guess it's possible she'd take me back, but she's not the type to dwell on the past. She didn't even seemed...|||Very beautiful. I will do just that. I experience nature intensely and love things like that. To me, the perfect day is doing that with someone you're close to, so I really don't want to do it alone,...|||An INFJ!!! *swoon* ... hello :)|||That's really sad. Sorry to hear that if you've been through that yourself. I have as well.|||Thank you Diligent Procrastinator|||Thank you so much Gifford. I wasn't expecting a personal reach for help like this. Where does one find an INFJ in real life? I hope you have a good day at work.|||AriesLilith very true, thank you. I'm trying hard to find self-love, confidence, and peace. I appreciate the advice.|||I don't think so. I remember having a really happy childhood. I can relate to your feelings though. I struggle with self-hatred and feeling excluded and not good enough. I hope you're feeling better...|||Gifford Maxim In reply to your continued post, all I can say is that was a genius post. Everything you said was right. My therapist has told me things along the lines of that, but the explicit detail...|||Thanks for your understanding. Mental condition is major depression, ptsd (the root of mood issues...searching desperately for a cure), and I haven't been diagnosed, but I experience symptoms of BPD...|||Gifford Maxim Thank you. I just resorted to a few shots which was stupid but this is such a hellish feeling. Yes, I will see her in the next life, but it feels so far away and there's no marriage in...|||I lost my infj girlfriend in october of 2014 due to my poor mental health. There is no one like her. I never knew someone like her existed before. Her looks, even with no makeup, was absolutely...|||Thank you all for replying. I was having a falling apart moment when I made this thread but am trying not to let these negative feelings absorb me again. HazelEyes147 yeah, I am seeing a therapist...|||It's extremely difficult for me to make friends. For now, these friends are all I have. Women find me attractive but I'm socially anxious and have a hard time putting myself out there, so I'm a bit...|||I thought I was INFP for a long time. I guess it's my strong Ni that led me to be falsely confident in being an intuitive.|||cardinalfire That is a great post. Thank you.   Yes, they are, except sometimes one of the guys' wife is around and she's the only one that never makes fun of me. Not sure what you mean though,...|||I made this post in this section not long ago, and for those who've seen it, I suppose this can be seen as an update.  I've always been made fun of and taken advantage of since about age 11 or 12...|||HazelEyes147 Thank you for the kind words. I wish I felt accepted by others. When I read I accept you, something clicked in my mind, like that's the issue. I never feel accepted. It was partially...|||I usually score from 130-140. Whether it's accurate or not, they can at least be kind of fun haha.|||I love it when girls are loyal and seek loyalty and long-lasting relationships. A lack of loyalty and trust is not something I can tolerate. I could go on about how much I hate boy-crazy type of...|||6'2! ...except I'm thin :rolleyes:  I can relate to the original post. Thankfully most women find me attractive, but I feel like my personality can be a turn off. I am a mellow person, and can be...|||Hmm, I saw someone mention The Book Thief. That is one movie I remember enjoying. In fact, I absolutely loved it. The snow, the touching moments in the end. That movie had the most beautiful visuals...|||This post is directed towards ISFPs. Do you enjoy movies, whether at the theater or at home? For me, I cannot stand it, especially fantasy fiction. I just watched the hobbit and slept through most of...|||I love learning. I've been buying books like crazy...now if only I'd read them lol. School is difficult and painfully boring though, so I struggle a bit there. I get good grades but the effort is...|||I haven't had a good experience with medications either. I have tried celexa and paxil and got nothing from them. I have decided I will never take antidepressants ever again because of the way people...|||I'm nowhere near confident enough to go up to a girl I don't know or barely know and ask her out (I have a bit of social anxiety). I have to take the friends first approach, and I barely ever make...|||I'm ISFP, but probably ESTJ. I'm a fairly mellow person and need another mellow person. I tend to fall for IxFx types, and my favorite is probably INFJ. They're deep, mellow, sensitive, responsible,...|||I am sorry if this post is a bit long, but please, read it, for the sake of humanity and kindness. I am very much in need, am seeking to change my life, and would greatly appreciate any helpful...|||SteepBluffs I'm doing both at the moment. Lots of exercise and reading. Confidence has always been a problem for me; I don't think I've ever had a healthy self-esteem.|||Do we lean more towards the nice guy rather than the bad boy? Most girls think I'm attractive but I've barely had much luck with women. I had a 1 year relationship with an INFJ girl but we met...|||I can't stop dreaming of my ex girlfriend :sad:|||Yeah, I should have mentioned this in my original post. My ex INFJ girlfriend found me too inexpressive. She said she often wondered what was on my mind, thought I was too mysterious for her to...|||Are other ISFPs private and inexpressive? What can I do to work on it? I find it hard to express emotions verbally, though it isn't as hard over text. I'm also really private and feel uncomfortable...|||Oh wow, those were good insights frayonka. I am feeling very confident with ISFP, especially since I see it in my roots in my childhood.|||Yeah, sensor still seems a bit strange, but I'm thinking it may be because of my Fi, high Ni, and dissociation issues. I'm still not completely sure, but I'm starting to lean towards ISFP after all...|||No way that's me. I had an INFJ girlfriend and she was the kind that writes lists for the grocery store, needs to have plans settled, very serious and decisive, and I was the opposite. ISFP sounds...|||I mean look at perceiving and judging descriptions. I never plan anything in my life and have always had the heart of a child. I just don't think it's possible.|||INFJ?? Why? No way. Judging is not me at all. I'm one of the most perceiving people I know. And my Ti is painfully low.|||Thanks, I'm starting to feel more confident with ISFP :D I hope it's right.|||This is the picture I chose: https://www.flickr.com/photos/boxed_fish/15757917029/in/explore-2014-12-04/lightbox/  When looking into this picture, the rich green grass reminds me of large fields...|||Haha, thanks guys. I thought Living dead may have been sarcastic, but I'm glad we're getting somewhere. I can answer some questions as Frayonka asked soon; I need to sleep for a few hours. For those...|||Are you joking? If not, why and how are you so certain?|||I was thinking ISFP because of my Ni and blamed the bad Se on my dissociation issues, but now I'm leaning way more towards INFP again, especially after getting these test results...'