'If a man (definite NT, possible ENTJ) says we should get together agian after a date, but then communicates rarely (once every two weeks) and has not made those plans yet, is it safe to assume that...|||Moonious: 29|||Sorry I was looking at an old page I guess!   Moonious: 29|||flourine: 24|||Breed|||Am I dating an INTJ, or a man with some other personality? Here is what I have to go on: I should preface this with the fact that I did inform him that I want to take things slowly, sexually. He is a...|||Greet|||Creat|||SLap her butthttp://personalitycafe.com/images/smilies/1/wink.gif[/QUOTE] Definitely not how I want to be treated by a stranger man.|||Best: that depends on the circumstances, but just being honest with her will be best. INFPs LOVE the unaffected approach, so just be blunt, but maybe soften it up a bit if your bluntness is totally...|||This is exactly what I wish to happen to me. I can't see how it could backfire. If she likes you, she'll be thrilled. If she doesn't return your feelings, you hopefully will know right away. The only...|||Haha I was expecting just that reply; just wanted to be sure that you all are as honest as I hoped. Thank you!|||Just wondering: If an NT tells me that they enjoyed talking to me, after a first date, what   should I expect next? Nothing? Anything?|||Matte|||The original post is pretty accurate for INFPs as romantic partners, I think.|||If you built an ENTJ in a lab, for what job/career/work would that ENTJ be most fit?|||pissy|||I recently thought that someone was autistic...and later found out that he is just an INTJ.|||I am listening to the whirl of the washing machine, the cracking of my joints, the clicking of my keyboard, and to a documentary about Bill W.|||Thank you for all of this! You're helping to bring back a lot of great memories of my SJ friends, and empowering my genuine desire to love SJs more! There are so many great qualities about people...|||Great point! I find a special dimension of friendship in the SJs of my acquaintance, too! I hadn't thought about that in a long while, but it's so important to remember all of the great qualities of...|||Ah! I see. But the SJs I've had trouble with are peers. To be fair, after getting go know them better, they and their quirks became endeared to me, and vice versa (I think!), so we are all better...|||Interesting! I'm not sure I understand what you mean by equal. Equal in what sense or in what way?|||The SJs I've known do seem to be confident that their ideas and plans are the best or only right way, and that is a dangerous road to tread, I agree, but I wonder if it is simply because,...|||I am happy to read that!|||Sorry, I should have clarified in my op that when I use the term Gaurdians I am referring to Keirsey's temperament, which includes all four SJ personality types.  Hmm...In my experience, no one...|||My personal experience has been one in which I have formed acquaintances or friendships with some people whom I at first had difficulty appreciating and getting along with (and vice versa), and then,...|||Hmm...I'm not sure that I've ever met an ESTJ. I should clarify that when I say Gaurdian, I am refering to Keirsey's temperament, which includes all four SJ personality types. Sorry about that!|||Ok, I totally understand this! I do the same thing: trying very hard to listen and be interested, genuinely, and if that's not possible, to appear interested for their sake, but my mind often still...|||Hahahaha Thank you. I take it as a major compliment. Yeah, the movies are pretty great, but the book is absolutely bloody brilliant.|||I am not prideful and prejudiced when it comes to the SJs, the Guardians, the Protectors, or what ever you want to call them. Really I'm not. They have so many valuable qualities. They have...|||I loled. I think they provide a different sort of satisfaction, conversation and sex, that is. Good conversation has the potential of satisfying the intellect on one point or another, or at least...|||May I ask, are you an ENTJ? I suspect so from the description that you give as your direct, bold, and efficient way of handling potential romances. Yes, to particular people it would be tremendously...|||What is described in the linked post definitely reminds me of my experience with an INTP, but this description fails to mention how sharp their intellects are and how substantial their arguments...|||The voice of John Lee, reading the Count of Monte Cristo.|||I think I understand, and I agree, that stating one's love seems too stiff or formal; but not so if a declaration of love arises from a passionate impulse! That, to me, is romantic. I suppose it is...|||I too started out as a pre-professional biology major. I later switched to a humanities major, but it took me a long time to do so, a lot of reassessing of my goals. It also took a few miserable...|||I think that we humans are often at the mercy of our subconscious, particularly when it comes to romantic relationships, however much we protest that we freely choose all of our actions! I do think,...|||Each person is charming in their own way, and for some, awkwardness is adorably charming. I can attest to this truth, as I have before been charmed by the adorable awkwardness of some people!|||Thank you for sharing. Your experience, I think, sheds light on a past experience of mine. The only INTP guy who's ever befriended me always kept me guessing. To this day, I don't know in what way or...|||Thanks for sharing! I have read elsewhere that INTJs show their love by innovating ways to make their Love Interest's life easier or simpler.|||One person's experience: I do sort of try to have an idea of what I'm going to say if it's a business phone call (like for a prospective employer or interviewer for for some other official business -...|||I find myself fantasizing about being in the spotlight, sometimes, but I almost immediately shudder as the idea occurs to me. The idea of being in a position of leadership in which I have to...|||You know you're an INFP when...  ...you need to give yourself a pep talk just to make a phone call or write an email.   ...you are a PRO at procrastination, but when it gets down to the wire,...|||chocolate mug cake with walnuts topped with rocky road ice cream|||I want to know how you have wooed, are wooing, will woo, or would have wooed your ideal romantic partner or your real life romantic partner? Wooing and pursuing. How's it done, NT style? Walk me...|||I think that urbanization is a good thing for those who freely choose to live in urban areas; however, if the condition is imposed on a population, against their will, whether by swift force or slow...|||I definitely agree with the above:  Spencer Reid of Criminal Minds Rust Cohle of True Detective  I love INTPs, by the way! :)|||Some faves:  Being There Charade Sabrina The Princess Diaries Harvey  Um...yeah. That's all for now. I like many movies. More, later.|||As a female INFP, I think I'd suit an ENTJ quite perfectly with my easygoing, affectionate nature, my emotional depth and maturity, the liveliness of my mind, my spirit of curiosity and adventure,...'