'When I snap back at people without caring if it hurts them because I'm so frustrated I have no sympathy.  When I come out with a rational, logical, fact-based argument against someone's erroneous...|||Doing absolutely anything with ulterior motives in order to get the other person to do what you want, instead of what they want, is manipulative, yes.  Men have ignored me like this before, or I've...|||I'm so sick of your back and forth. You keep dragging me back in your life just so you can get rid of me when someone new comes along, or when I don't dote on you or worship you. It makes me so mad...|||I'm most quiet when I have something interesting to think about, or a big worry on my mind. Maybe read an article that's interesting to you before you go out with people you want to impress? Then you...|||I suppose it's also important to remember that there's a difference between 1) holding a lot of ill will towards a person, wishing them harm/unhappiness, and acting rude/mean to them, and 2) simply...|||Yeah I've heard of people using new science about the way gravitational pulls and seasons may affect brain patterns and development as a way to back up the Zodiac, but the way I see it is the science...|||It's not unreasonable, but it's not the Zodiac. Observations on brain differences made depending on when you were born, by comparing people's birth dates to their brain waves and then categorizing...|||If something bothers me during my time of the month, it's usually something that's always bothered me, but suddenly the issue overwhelms me and I can't cope any more. Something that I'll push down or...|||Haha, true. I just think it takes people and boils them down to a single, core motivation, then theorizes from there what they're like when they're better or worse, which has almost seemed...|||I've heard to take Ennaegram with a large grain of salt, since there's no scientific basis for its theories. It can, arguably, be compared to the Zodiac signs.|||I can definitely hold grudges, but they're quiet/passive grudges more than anything. As in: you did this, we can't work through it and you're not trying to earn my forgiveness, you're basically dead...|||Yes, I think I could do it, assuming I would stay relatively youthful and be mostly physically invulnerable. I believe that living long enough would change me into the sort of person who had the...|||ENFP hugs, to an INTJ:  http://i53.tinypic.com/a0jqlt.jpg|||I agree with nottie here, one or the other. If I like someone enough to fool around, I want romance since it's what turns me onto the physical side anyway. If you're my friend, you're my friend, if...|||It seems like the NTs are getting more love in here than the ENFPs! Hmmm... funny, I wonder why, maybe it is because one of those two groups is more comfortable with affection than the other? ;) ...|||I have an INFJ brother, a close INFJ friend, and a gay male INFJ friend. I get along with all of them quite well, my brother best of all. I've never dated any of them, haha, but I could see an INFJ...|||I've had this happen once or twice. The brain's way of helping you along, maybe? Who knows. They're the only dreams I have that feel vividly real and stay with me for a long time. I wake up and it's...|||Choose to be brave, knowing failure is likely. And then choose to be brave again, when failure comes. And then again...  That sounds like useless advice, but it really is the best.  If you need...|||When it comes to ending things, I find the only way to move on is someone new.  That said, I don't mean someone new literally. It's a bad idea to jump into a new physical/romantic relationship...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mvd_tvffGbc&feature=player_embedded  So excited for this new album. <3|||I've done a minor amount of cheating, never planned. Usually either getting together to do an assignment when we technically weren't supposed to, or peering around too much during a heavy...|||I think I know someone like this, but it's to the extent where he's mentally unhealthy and has issues at school, in his family and in his personal life. So guessing his personality type would be...|||Hahaha you know you wanted all of our minds to go straight to the kink on this subject!  Pleasure 1. My ability to turn any emotion or experience into artistic expression 2. Ability to move on...|||You're welcome! :)  I can see how your friend is over-reactive too, haha. But sometimes it's hard to see these things about ourselves, and as much as we want to help our friends they may not always...|||How is something that would make her feel better not productive? You see the problem as being the teacher's behavior, but maybe she sees the problem as only her emotion reaction.  It sounds like...|||http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5050/5301823032_f9aaeedb65_b.jpg  http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5147/5691303894_fc9eabd687_b.jpg  This photo (can't be downloaded)  and this one|||Kelly617 welcome to the ENFP side of things! :) I'm sure you won't regret the change, I know I didn't. I wound up here because of a stupid boy, but realizing that I was what he wasn't, and that I...|||I can see that, to a certain extent. But, assumedly you and I are healthy ENFPs, which is where the personality type is modeled from.  What if you had never felt you'd received the reinforcement...|||Seriously? Do you need me to find a specific post? And why, if I may ask? Do you believe, for some reason, that an ENFP is incapable of cruelty?|||marzipan01 I could bring up some examples, probably. But all types can be cruel. With an ENFP, I think it often has to do with either a) someone who they don't think jives with their personal values,...|||This especially strikes me as an ENFP trait, though it's not solely an ENFP trait:    I bolded your emphasis for... further emphasis, haha.  An ENTP might take the car ride purely to argue with...|||Kelly617 I think you're very much an ENFP. :) The test was less about which answer you picked, though there's a tendency towards one or the other, and more about why. These are both examples of how...|||I hate feeling abandoned. Not just rejected, but abandoned.  When you trust someone, show them as much of you as you can bear, seek understanding from them and try desperately to understand them......|||When a Man Hasn't Been Kissed, Jeffrey McDaniel  When I haven’t been kissed in a long time, I walk behind well-dressed women  on cold, December mornings and shovel the steamy exhalations...|||I have lots of issues off and on with anxiety! They only show up when I'm alone, and usually it's involving something I want out of a social/romantic situation (love, trust, safety) that I'm just not...|||I had this same problem. Here are some points to think about:  -feeling doesn't mean that you don't think - it just means you use personal values to do so -ENFPs can be cruel, intelligent,...|||Okay, inspirational types, here's my idea: post something that inspires you! A photo, painting, quote, personal biography, poem, song... anything!  I'll start:  http://i51.tinypic.com/260r6kh.jpg|||Have you thought about your dream wedding from a young age?  (my answer: hell no! even when I do imagine marriage, the wedding part is vague)|||I definitely have a need to be alone, especially when I'm upset or just thinking about something deeply, like making a big decision or considering personal growth.  I do like sometimes to go out...|||I really love animals a lot. I used to want to be a dog trainer, and I read so much literature on training dogs, animal behavior and psychology, etc. I dream up the dog I'll get one day sometimes......|||...and I wish I could live every life I imagine myself living.|||I know a few other ENFPs, or people I'm 90% certain are ENFPs. We're overrepresented in acting and the arts, and I take acting classes at an art school, soooo...  Comments:  -we're fun and...|||Yeah, ENFP morals apparently tend to depend a lot on their upbringing. I've got what I'm pretty sure are INFJ/ISFJ parents so the morals are all there, lol. I was the only one of my friends I knew...|||hahahaha I'll remember that the next time I'm having fun with my INFP friends. Note to self: practicing futility.  But yeah Tridentus, I feel like my xNFP friends just GET my ideas. And I can...|||Yeah, I think we're two types that are very likely to openly listen, take care of, and compliment our friends when given the chance. I LOVE my friends who listen to all my ups and downs, and I'm...|||Or we overwhelm you with annoyance. =P|||I've met a few other ENFPs and some INFPs through acting this year, and I've noticed there's an almost INSTANT connection. Eye contact that we both don't look away from, small smiles, hidden glances,...|||I Facebook stalk like nobody's business. I know SO MANY things about people who interest me, and who their friends are. And when they brings things up that I know, I'm really good at lying and...|||My story is pretty similar... I was a dreamer as a kid, and a big nerd. I loved books, and unlike most kids I adored my family - even as a teenager, I was never disrespectful, to my parents, although...|||I love to frolic. <3 Sometimes when I am feeling a burst of energy I'll take leaping skips out of a room. I also like to occasionally do a 360 degree spin, although they don't always end well. =P'