Hi fellow Singaporean:) but i'm currently residing in NZ.|||I am ADD inattentive- Self diagnosed. It is more of set of personality traits than a disease/ or disorder. Such a label doesn't really help much. But trust me, ADHD is a double-edged sword...We can...|||Learn from me, better to have said it early. I'm worse. 6 years. But I think its time to move on. I really pray that fellow INFPs will not fall into this vicious cycle.|||Thanks so much guys. It really helps me...all these advice- I really appreciate it, especially when I was feeling pretty down yesterday, But I guess I am fine now. Yes, I had been examining my...|||Thanks Zalla. really appreciate it. she is a really close friend. is this a bridge i should burn in due time, for my own sanity. they're visiting. should i be honest and tell her what i think about...|||Had feelings for an ESFJ best friend for 6 years. Told her last year how I felt. Was flatly rejected. We're still friends. And I'm still trying to get over her. She, and another best friend, were...|||If all of us just made a difference in just one other person's life, or even try to change ourselves first, we can make the world a better place.|||we're just not meant to be|||Its something I think about everyday, and also during my drives to and fro school....  The question I asked myself was if I had 4 hours, what would I do...Then, I realized, what was most important...|||3740237403 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIJ4DRSH63Y http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ReLllNkqcxw|||3739737398373993740037401|||With no rules and principles, All sail and no rudder, we are a ship that explores new territories, not bound by routes. Instead of fighting the wind, lets go where it brings us. The world was once...|||I have self-diagnosed myself to have ADD (Inattention)...I have trouble focusing, and my thoughts fleet around. But we have many strong points...that is our creativity...We have divergent thinking,...|||I've had the calling to do something about it, but I'm just afraid. There's something in me that feels weak and vulnerable, yet at the same time, the strong believe that I can contribute something...|||I've always felt that INFPS are the behind the scenes people...We're the glue for society. We provide empathy and kindness, and we play a far greater role that we ourselves give credit for. Ever...|||Let us all practise positively affirming ourselves. Say all the good stuff. Exaggerate it if you will. Say it to yourself everyday. Write a testimonial for yourself!  I am a male INFP, and I am...|||The people who bring about change...I believe are dreamers who have been awakened. They have the vision, and they work on it. Hence, capitalizing on what we already have...which is vision, we have...|||I do agree to a certain extent. Ideas without action is useless. But you can have all the hard work channeled to one area, but it is not positively changing things. Imagine a hamster running in a...|||Can we INFPs change the world?   Anyone here has that deep conviction inside you? Screaming out...Deep deep inside. That feeling of being born in this world, and growing up, feeling you do not fit...|||Listening to the lecturer lecture right now...|||I take delight when people call me crazy, or eccentric. I take it as a compliment, Becauuuuse, Aren't all the craziest people, the best people of all??? But do not call me stupid, weak, or any other...|||Do any of you have an inner voice which tries to keep you positive? Its weird, but I have  a melancholic personality, and I used to have very negative thoughts which ran totally wild when I was...|||I'm 22. I do feel like I am doomed for failure time to time, and it hits me pretty bad, but I learn to cope. One thing I learn is to be positive about every thing, learning to be grateful for...|||I fear that I cannot live up to my own expectations of how happy she should be, and whether I can provide that to her.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-QQJrIZaLsA&feature=related|||It better to have loved and lost then never to have loved before. Remember the great moments, treasure it, feel the hurt, and then move on. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. if not, smile, blow...|||I am going to volunteer at my local mental hospital end of this year. Excited as well. Hoping to gain an experience to gain entry to my clinical psyc programme like in a few years later. Tell us more...|||I think I was born an INFP. A very carefree, open minded, idealistic child who cared, while others my age I felt were somewhat self-centered. That was my early childhood memories. I was very happy,...|||I feel I have superpowers but no, they aren't beneficial. I feel I can see the future of humanity, but no I feel helpless, I cannot do a thing about it. I feel I can see things from many...|||I am a psychology student, I know what ESFJs are like, I know about MBTI, I know about the world of PUA, its advices which I know are true, but I am against, But I go against each and every one of...|||I feel like i have been carrying a heavy rock for years, walk over to the cliff, looked down, and take the plunge, hoping someone would catch me|||Still loving you|||I gathered my courage, and whilst hyperventilating, confessed my feelings to my ESFJ best friend yesterday night, only to have my heart ripped to shreds. It took me 5 years carrying this bulky rock...|||I like observing people, but when they turn and look at me, I dart my gaze away|||I think of. Her.|||I don't mean to hijack this thread, but this thread had been the most useful in helping me understand my problem. Kinda.  I am an INFP male, and I have been carrying a torch for this ESFJ girl for...|||This is depressing:(|||I feel ya. Its an INFP thing to be an empath. Empathetic to the people experiencing emotions around us:)|||Telll him!!! Gd luck:)|||I wish I could gain full control and power to drive my creative potential, dreams, steer in the right direction, execute my dream with no procrastination, no emotional baggage, and to never say die...|||I confess you thrilled me...but I'm just glad you're not from the same continent as me. haha|||I wonder if our perception are really valid. If we continue being ourselves, will the world really shun us like plague, or is it what we presume would happen. If I am now 21 but never grew up, and...|||No one knows the real me either. It hurts. But the real us will not thrive in this world, will we? If I were to be really myself, I'd show my weaknesses and all, who would accept them, apart from our...|||Never bothered much abt pop culture...I'm kinda anti-herd mentality. However, I love reading about the stories of success in these people, and what they stand for.|||I've thought of all three before at different stages of my life.   I used to be an idealistic dreamer kid who saw lots of hate and negativitiy in this world. I wanted to save it, protect it from...|||I tried dyeing my hair once with over-the-counter boxes. After making a huge mess in the sink, putting the goo in the hair, stoning an hour, my hair remained the same colour!|||weird means unique, which i feel is cool, which is great, which means we rock!|||I'm not weak and stupid, I just see no point in portraying myself to be strong, high and mighty and so much more superior than u are, though i really am inside.  I lost the game not because I am...|||Love to me is a dream, an ideal fantasy, that does not exist in reality. It might not be real, but i yearn for that other half who shares the same world as me and together we can live in limbo like...|||I'm not lazy, i'm actually slowly charging up my energy to make my inner dreams turn to reality.