'It is some blend of not wanting to live an ordinary or suboptimal life and wanting to have an impact on others.  H o w e v e r, I'm still shaking off my bad habit to procrastinate. I want to light...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9jNSwmEQ3s&amp;user=HalseyVEVO|||Actually, sorry, this is quite incorrect.  Plato's famous piece The Republic is an argument about Knowledge and a case against Democracy because the Democracy of Athens (the world's first...|||I propose you look at it this way:   ° When most people receive praise, it only takes one negative comment to cut through their current joy.  ° When a day is thus far going well, one incident or...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KuK2W5JgAZ4&amp;user=BakermatOfficialVEVO|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RhU9MZ98jxo&amp;user=ChainsmokersVEVO|||No, this is honestly really only the case in the US. Other English speaking countries enjoy using it with some frequency. Hard consonants make certain words more satisfying to use, particularly when...|||I personally am not aware of any narcissistic tendencies, if anything I am self-critical|||[Other Types are absolutely welcome]   Background:   I have happened upon a considerable amount of reading lately (such as this survey, blog posts on tumblr, and even some polls on this site)...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=feA64wXhbjo&amp;user=modularpeople  WHY HAS THIS SONG BECOME A MEME THOUGH???    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cbKmm_xAEro&user=All%20Ski%20Casino|||I sometimes get so deep in thought that I become visually detached from my environment. Every now and then I have moments where I come back to the world around me and realise that my eyes have been...|||We're not socially awkward!? :shocked:  :unsure: I guess it is only me...|||I would have to say... you need to be confident, initiate conversations, be a supportive figure, have some depth of character (in my experience INFPs tend to be well read and cultured individuals),...|||The best and purest path to connection is having a shared interest to talk about. The more passionate the better.   I think it is safe to say most people have interjected themselves into someone...|||INTJ, Male  Based on how quickly I connect...  Most: ENFP, ENFJ, INFP  Least: ISTJ, ESTJ, ESTP|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_w5jPT8LMF0|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vusqQJ56iIM|||With some regularity, PerC is now starting to redirect me to false Adobe Updates|||That was incredible|||You are new on Personality Cafe so you may be unfamiliar with the Forum Rules (linked).  Under Rule Number 1. Do Not Make Personal Attacks - Subsection Type-Bullying  Moderators Have Defined...|||Over the years I have become more capable of handling sudden changes, I would not say I have ever had a control issue though. The only thing I am still irked by is a last minute cancellation of...|||I am a Liberal Socialist (linked), I also avoid party affiliation.|||I think the baseline of friendship is a reciprocated enjoyment of company with maintenance, you need to stay in communication. If we like one another but do not really talk, or talk much anymore,...|||I am not sure if there is a type. The three most uptight people in my life so far have been an ESFJ, ISTJ, and ENFJ.|||I'm really excited for information to come out about Mass Effect Andromeda (N7 Day)|||Revisiting old episodes of The YoGPoD|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s3se8RL2144|||It is not a feature available to you anymore, but its listing in the settings remains in the site's coding.|||I am actually quite awful at maintaining eye contact.|||^ Honestly, that is some solid wisdom! I would definitely heed Antipode's words!|||I am going to probably come off as insensitive in saying this, but she seems to be acting ridiculously. I understand respect for personal space and a need for trust in a relationship, I praise these...|||I have been here for a while and I do not create threads without some resulting substance in mind. I would not worry about it, I think it is normal.   e.g. I once had a very complex thread I wanted...|||While I would appreciate the effort my partner went through and the idea behind it, I would personally find it unnecessary and a little bit frustrating to do just to be able to get my hands on my...|||I have never associated myself with the term Alpha because I do not see myself as being dominant or confident enough. ____________  When it comes to anything professional I certainly will take...|||I initially answered for: how does one humiliate me? To recap it is by providing instances of me being a failure as a friend, worker, human being, and not living up to my own standards. Because I...|||I fully agree with @Icy Heart, these should not be thought of as mutually exclusive traits. I deeply desire aspects of both of these qualities in a significant other.  ____________  I like people...|||I can take a deal of criticism and own up to my shortcomings, but if you know me on a personal level it is not too difficult to drive a knife into me.  I think I am most sensitive to failure....|||'Hei'   Please and thank you.   I realise a user of stranger status is 'hei' , all lowercase, I hope this makes my temp name change choice a nonissue|||Achievements were removed, lingering bits such as the notifications remain|||I welcome the Entertainment Plaza's presence on this site because I recognise it helps people integrate themselves into Personality Cafe's Community, as mentioned by many people here.   A presence...|||Oh, allow me to clarify.  I did not think you were being a boastful arse, no worries.  What is noteworthy about INTJs, whom as young adults tend to feel misanthropic, as they mature do tend to...|||Sure, this could have been because you are liked by your peers, that you have some charm. This is not to be flat out discredited. But there is more to entertain here.   ° You could not help the...|||I second the move of the Personality Test section to Spam World, if not its complete removal. I think many members know it has long been used as a cheap way to raise user post/thread count by...|||Enfp|||Safe Spaces have have been hijacked and turned into complete rubbish|||>//~//< Oh my goodness, I wrote Beth instead, my apologies|||I am sorry, but please let us not mix facts with personal feelings, there is little more aggravating. It is not clear that it has everything or anything to do with just the OP of that thread at all,...|||This proposal has been asked about a few times and already ruled on by the site founder.   http://personalitycafe.com/support-suggestions/522586-astrology-threads-some-other-things-3.html|||That's tough to say decisively, mate.   I prefer to be asked directly because I can otherwise be quite oblivious to romantic intentions. I do not want an interested person to become frustrated and...|||I would argue Beth has given you the most crucial advice which is to engage this girl by asking her personal questions.  Something of great relevance is your age.   I am certainly not aware of...'