'I am trying to find ways of putting distance between us, and looking at leaving the job anyways, so if I can get out of this job in a beneficial way, that will be all I need to do. But this situation...|||That was a thought, but at this point getting out might be my best bet, besides it is not like this is a job that fits me, it just pays me.    Yeah that is my fear, this person is well respected...|||I have heard my supervisors over time talk about how she has gotten people fired, if she were called in she would find a way to turn it against me is my fear|||per http://personalitycafe.com/infj-forum-protectors/64061-ask-infj-relationship-question-thread-573.html#post37182002  I don't know how to hand the stress of basically what amounts to a sexual...|||Can it be gripped in one hand?|||Fellow INFJs   I have a coworker who has been making uncomfortable advances at me, she has a reputation of publicly breaking down people who anger her among the office. Going to HR is not an option...|||Does it taste good?|||Personally speaking, I see it as a heightened expectations, especially in regards to the understand and depth of my partners. I also have expectations on a certain level of empathy, I have a hard...|||warweasel I must say I love reading the responses you give to some our of thoughts, I have always respected the INTJ thought processes having been around it most of my life (best friend is an INTJ) ...|||I think you were right to defend yourself, and it sounds like a group that does not respect differing opinions which is unhealthy in a group mind environment. My advice and it one I had to learn...|||I am grateful for my friends who have supported me the last few days, and for everyone who has fought through their own tough times.|||I was distant, there was a story my family loved talking about later in my life but apparently it was a problem when I was young where I was a combination of shy (would hide behind my grandfather's...|||Well you seem like a nice person so don't let others get to you,  if you ever need someone to talk to I am here to listen :hug:|||I am sorry to hear that, but Hello! :)|||Supportive families are the best! I got through so much thanks to mine.|||May everything go in his favor during his recovery. And remember you hanging in there is just as important|||Nope just dated the people who could not appreciate your true beauty. But getting let down is a part of life, that is about improving your beliefs in your value because it is not the many who let you...|||Is there any place in my city where I can meet someone with shared interest in deep conversation, or rather is there some kind of tool I can use to flag myself as someone looking for deep...|||My grandfather once told me the secret to life is tricking people in to feeding you, because food is the happiest thing in the world, better than love|||13 hour day. 13 hours of sitting here in this gray box. 13 hours of listening to voice mails hating every time I have to leave one. 13 hours of possibility of someone answering and forcing...|||I am so sorry! The best advice is accept your emotions, I know I struggled with how much more it hurt when my dog died than when my grandfather who raised me. Also know that it was painless way for...|||How many ways can one person step on my heart before I shut the damn door, I mean really this is getting creative.|||I pondered the purpose of life and was banned from church.|||Oh, I want to add the true purpose of the discussion, one of my friends is an INFP I do see them as selfish sometimes, I have done a lot of evaluating of Fi, and yeah I still sometimes see...|||Yeah I think the point I am trying to make is Fe is not so much about sacrifice of ideals and beliefs but about finding the best compromise to make everyone happy. This is not because while we care...|||Depends my mind like a lot have said is a mess, but things that are important to me are overly planned, detailed, and organized. but that is not every external detail, my room is a mess due to my...|||I know America has a stigma about people speaking fast, is that every I know I can't keep up with some languages but are there people in those countries who what people to slow down? I get that...|||I would never handle that situation that way, I would politely explain that I am vegan and offer to figure out a plan so we can enjoy the meal together, besides I tend to ensure that where I am going...|||Dear ESxP friend  I am not going to keep this game up, you want me to care about you, about us, but you never want to care about anything. You always put the burden of balance both of our emotions,...|||This has been weighing heavy on me, I have heard so much negativity around each case like this. What does it take for people to genuinely care about the pain, or the struggle, not just an outcome. I...|||Oh I get that they are never made at me the person, it bothers me that people hold that much hate in their hearts. Like I get it some times we push the realms of reason by calling our guests upward...|||I get it, that was not really directed at you but the general question people wanted to answer in the way they were answering, I have never been a fan of the finger pointed you sometimes see where...|||I wish I could enjoy a drink with out worry of emotional damage I could caused if I drank too much|||To be honest, in my case, show genuine interest, be willing to accept the answers I don't know and I am not up for talking about it right now, and be willing to step back if we show any signs of...|||I walked through the night looking for answers Following paths that the day did hide The shadows threatened to consume But why does the dark show more then the light Still I walk this path...|||Dear someone,  I am looking for you, I know you hurt, I know you are lost, possibly losing. I am trying to find you, I sense your pain, and I want you to know you are not alone. If you find me...|||double post bad connection at work :(|||Dear me  Keep fighting, this life is not you, you have accepted that but don't give up. Pain is not weakness, it is life, and you have done well in such adversity so far so please keep fighting. I...|||-unexpected change -under appreciation especially at work. to clarify this right now I am constantly reminded how my introverted skills are not useful to the company, and that I NEED to be more...|||Thanks, to be honest those are few and far between but they do weigh in on me. The majority of the time i sit in a gray cubicle calling people pretending to be okay with calling people on the phone,...|||hahah silly Danes!|||I grow farther discouraged every day I work my job (debt collector for a jewellery company) not just because of the constant phone communication, but how it shows me the darkness in some people. I...|||Normally I agree, as much as I hate FB and deactivate it is the most useful tool I have for staying in contact with people, and you can really control the content there of by simply controlling who...|||I don't get why people want to prove fake infjs as fake, rather than proving real infps are infps instead of INFJ, would that not be a better way is to help people embrace their true types instead of...|||I have no idea why I decided to work as a debt collector, this must be my punishment for not doing something I was called to do.|||I have been single for 6-7 years lost track of time, but I cope with with it by just flooding my mind with other things books mostly, I know this is just escapism and I know the nature of the break...|||That they did, I do not care but these finals my flyers left early :*( but least I can root for a hometown team in the NBA finals.... GO CAVS!|||Do sharks eat penguins?|||Dear me,  You can only forge connections with others if you let yourself do it! Not everyone out there is out to use or betray you, and giving up on trying is letting those few win.  Sincerly, ...|||Never met anyone who has claimed to be an INFJ personally, but I have met some people where both my intuition has suggested some people I know may be an INFJ, those people feel similar based on many...'