'Sorry to revive a dead thread, but thank you everyone, especially MuChApArAdOx and Paradox1987. I gave it a lot of thought, but ultimately I don't want to have to put on a suit of armor too much...|||Hi. Sorry, I'm a little busy to read through your entire thread right now (law school eats my life), but just an answer to your basic question--my ISFJ boyfriend of over a year is crazy enough to...|||My personality has changed dramatically since I went to law school. I've become so much more organized, I now plan everything, I calculate. I don't think I'm optimistic anymore. I'm just jaded. Yet...|||TBH I don't think my ISFJ cares about wastage of any sort: cooking, spending, etc. *tends to be much more cautious about these things than he is*|||I think it can work. I'm a ENFP/ENTP and I've been dating an ISFJ for ~9 months now and we've been getting along great. Though TBH I'm probably more soft-hearted and justice-oriented than the typical...|||I listen to all kinds of songs but generally I'm magnetically drawn to the overly optimistic / hopeful sounding ones like these below. (I've actually been addicted to all of the songs below for days...|||HAHAHA. YES IT'S AN ISFJ THING.  My ISFJ showers me... and my family with gifts even when I tell him it's not necessary.|||My ISFJ boxes (in metal cages) with his friends for fun. He's good at it. :)  Perhaps he's not your typical ISFJ.|||Haha... I know one of my ISFJs annoyances are when people don't say hi or smile to him.|||Yes my ISFJ was not quite depressed, but just generally sad before he met me. Now he's smiling all the time and is generally the happiest, most good natured person I know. Go figure. :)|||Hi, I'm an ENFP/ENTP dating an ISFJ and I'll try to answer this according to what we've been through...  1. Does it bother you if your platonic friend spends time with others or starts to get close...|||How would I react? Me: ...BRING IT! Let's see who'll die in the end.... ;) My ISFJ: Would probably take it as a joke and laugh / joke about it.|||Well I'm a ENFP/ENTP dating an ISFJ and all our friends and family think we're crazily compatible so I vote for that. Though to be honest our compatibility is much more than simply MBTI type (though...|||My ISFJ is probably more of a light masochist, only in a certain situation, if that helps any. :)|||My ISFJ is an awesome listener though I can kinda relate to what you're saying but in a different sense--he's not so good at responding.  So in that sense, it may be slightly unrelated but it seems...|||So this is what my ISFJ says...  Are ISFJ less sexually permissive? If doing things every day is less sexually permissive, I guess so. :P  Are ISFJ very monogamous?  Yes.  What are ISFJ 's...|||So I know there's a bit of a language barrier--but even if I look past that, I'd say don't go into this relationship.  Sounds like a fun flirting relationship, but a disastrous romantic...|||Here's my advice. Go befriend one of those ENFP-type people, the happy-go-lucky friendly smiley types. We love to give out genuine compliments. :) It's like our life.  Dating an ISFJ for ~6 months...|||MCRTS: Yeah you know, I can't figure out why there's all this bad rep about ENTP/ISFJ relationships. Sure I think it could be a disaster if the two didn't have the same ideas about things or same...|||ENFP/ENTP dating ISFJ for ~6 months here. :)  So far compatibility has been nearly phenomenal compared to all other personality types I've dated (INFJ, INTJ, ISTP, ISFP, INTP... etc.) I could...|||I'm not an ISFJ, but as an ENTP/ENFP dating an ISFJ what's been said is pretty much true.  This ISFJ has also helped grow a lot simply because he's so kind and his kindness makes me very willing to...|||I'm an ENFP/ENTP that's dating an ISFJ~ Though I look like an ENFP, I'm probably an ENTP because I need an logical explanation for absolutely everything, such as why this ISFJ is driving me so...|||I'm anywhere that's inspiring / hopeful / creative. :) I also love being around crowds of positive / happy people.  Concerts, dancing, fairs, karaoke, nature walks, art classes, trying something...|||Actually I used to score F on most of my tests, but now I score mostly T...  And the question of, do I use my heart or my head? I used to solely use my head and ignore feelings all together. Now...|||Hi :D  So I've been debating this forever. ENFP or ENTP? I test out as both, depending on the test. Both personality descriptions fit me. I also did the cognitive functions test and though I wasn't...|||Err... Actually I found out that person was an ISFJ after testing him multiple times haha. ...My baddd..  Most of the ENFPs here seem to love INFJs to pieces but I'm back to the I don't know if I...|||I went to a funeral service today for my teacher's husband. I didn't want to go, I didn't know him, but I went anyway.  My teacher came up to the podium and started describing his life. I expected...|||Haha. Maybe this isn't limited to just males. I know I really look like an ENTP to the world: calm, logical, unemotional...  But then if you see me with people I trust or behind closed doors you'll...|||Thanks for all the responses! It's really helped me understand this a bit more. I've probably been trying to understand / analyzing everything too much. :)  But going back to theory, I probably...|||Can someone please explain why my best fit personality type (INFJ), is the type I argue with the most? Theoretically, we should get along swimmingly! But when I meet actual INFJs (I've met about ~5...|||I just met another INFJ. :D I changed my mind. ILOVETHEMILOVETHEMILOVETHEM -squeal-  Been talking to this person for ~3 straight days now and for some reason I can't stop smiling. :) They're so...|||You're amazing!|||Umm.. how does it work? :|  Well maybe it's cause INTJs have this cold exterior and ENFPs can break through that. That and we have this cute, happy quality about us that is so pure.. *cough* I...|||OHMIGOSH. YES I DO. I do all of the above. :3 Skip, frolic, dance. I even sing and spin while doing all of the above. :D Oh yes.|||Well when I was young I was an INFP/INTP mix. Now I've just given up on being quiet and have become an ENFP/ENTP mix. ...Have I always been like a (how I read it) a little Disney princess? Why ye- I...|||...Well, I think I like them. I say that cause half of the ones I know drive me crazy. o_o  They seem to have the weirdest train of thought ever. But somehow... just somehow, I still really like...|||I'm just so happy! :D No, no I'm not drunk. I'm not high. I'm just happy, so full of life! So full of laughter! I was so sure this part of me had disappeared forever!  So... what good thing...|||What personality trait or personal obstacle do you struggle to overcome as an ENFP? ...I have cycles of sadness / depression. :| It comes and goes. I'm not sure if it's worse because of the monthly...|||Basically anything my ESTJ friend doesn't like. :P Anything weird or wacky like... that headband with a huge cupcake complete with candles and streamers... I thought that was pretty cool, honestly! I...|||When you feel so warm and full to bursting with happiness from suddenly realizing (again) that there's so much you can do to make the world a better place... There's so much you can do...|||No, they don't! (Intimidate me.)  But maybe that's cause I'm a borderline ENFP/ENTP? :3 I find they're one of the few types that can keep up with my thought process / heartily debate with me....|||My confession...  I wish my happiness tornado would keep spiraling up. <3 I love it. Keeps me motivated and happy~ All I really need is one or a few people around me I can laugh / be silly with. :D...|||YES I DO. :D I love feeling! It's great! Sometimes it's from sadness or happiness... usually happiness. :3|||Thank you everyone! I took your advice and I just took the whole day off for myself today. :D It was wonderful. Being alone without having any pressure really helped. :) .... *so happy it's...|||So a year ago I was all happy and chirpy. Then all sorts of things happened. :(  I started studying for an exam to get into school for half a year and basically locked myself up in a library for...|||Not being social (like going out and actually talking to people) for a while can really make me reclusive no matter what I'm doing. Sometimes forcing myself to go out and mingle and chat with people...|||Hey krwheel.  You are so incredibly insightful that it's almost terrifying. Though it's also intriguing... I only realized my own behavior after you pointed out all your gripes with ENFPs. Yes, I...|||Lots and lots and lots of talking! :D  Talking while walking. Talking after eating. Talking during some gathering... Or singing. Singing is good too.  So basically something where I can use my...|||RhoAlphaNuAlpha's post is right on. :D I can tell you pretty much that's exactly how it goes...  ISFPs ARE very affectionate. I love it cause I need innocent affection that doesn't have anything...|||Hey. :D  One of my closest friends is an ISFP and we both can't imagine our lives without one another. I'm actually talking to him right now and trying to figure out how to answer this question for...'