'Wow! I'm surprised that someone brought this post back to life after so many years!  Just a small update, if people are interested. My Relationship worked just fine after all. We’re still together...|||Wow! I'm surprised to see someone else with an interest in pharmacy. I think it's normal that you may be disilusioned after a year. They teach a lot of technical stuff and they don't really talk...|||Nah, me liking INTPs is a year round thing. I was just away from this forum for quite a while. Still with my INTP after a year. :)|||It's sad that you have to go through something like that. I don't know if you're like me, but when a relationship fails, I feel like the person is leaving with a tiny bit of my heart. It does get...|||LOL! I love it XD|||INTP: We can have interesting conversations and an INTP helps me see things from a different point of view. I connect with him on a level I can't really explain and understand, but when we clash it's...|||I like the way you put it. It fits well with the INTP's desire to explore endless possibilities.   You say normal sex is boring? I'm curious now.. Doesn't normal sex help your brain shut down for...|||I guess that's pretty close! Do you ever feel a bit lonely? I do... Most people around you must be of a different type. I can't type everyone I work with, but I can tell most aren't INFJs for sure....|||I really hope you get to experience that with a partner someday. Open communication and analysis is the best thing ever. It takes time, but I assure you it's possible.|||INTPs and curiosity? That's a given. I'm very curious too so I like that. It took a few months for my partner to really open up about more specific intimate stuff so I think your statement is quite...|||Not sure I need a second one. :laughing:|||I'm a pharmacist. The day I meet another INFJ who is also a pharmacist, I think I'll go into shock. :laughing: Why pharmacy? I feel like I can help people and be of some use. I'm just a little sad...|||Hello everyone!  I have a bit of a kinky question. I already know that most INTPs enjoy sex a lot. Don't we all? Of course, but you guys have a reputation and from my personal experience I know...|||This sounds a lot like me. I have always had good grades in school and I have to admit that it wasn't that hard for me to get a high score. I am an artistic person, but I studied medical sciences. I...|||Lad: It did struck my core. I don't think he is a bad person. I just cannot understand it and when I can't understand, I can't accept. I get the progression you are talking about. It makes sense but...|||Thanks everyone for your inputs.  I don't know how to add a spoiler to my message but anyone easily offended please don't read the rest of this. I'll give a little bit more details...  it's not...|||By the way, it's a completely different topic but I'm glad to see quite a few names I recognize on this forum. It feels good to see that some people I love a lot are still around. :)|||Hi everyone,  I haven't been around for a while but this is the first time in months that I am distressed enough to feel the need to talk about my feelings with fellow INFJs...  I have recently...|||I feel so lonely it's scary. Why do I feel that lonely? I just wish I could give a big hug and fall asleep close to someone who makes me feel safe.|||No need to search before making a thread since I'm not looking for a particular answer. I know there have been threads on this topic before. I don't really care though because my goal is just to get...|||For those who know, what's your Enneagram type?|||Does it make sense to you, fellow INFJs, if I say that I'm madly in love with love? I crave it, yet I hate it. It makes me feel so happy yet it hurts me so much it's nearly unbearable. I feel like...|||No, but it seems most of you just don't understand after all. The accident was in no way my fault. Again you go assuming some thing you have no idea about. I was hit by a driver who was speeding and...|||All I can say is gain some maturity and stop giving your opinion when you have nothing intelligent and insightful to say. What good did your post do? None at all. If you want to laugh at my behavior...|||I can see this has never happened to you. My whole car is wreckled, airbags popped out, the impact was rough. I ended up skidding across 3 lanes from the impact and it finally stopped once I had...|||What I read is you have no respect for me and you sure have 0 comprehension of how INFJs behave or who we are to be saying this kind of crap. INFJs are kind individuals who would give the world to...|||No, I just wanted a bit of compassion. I guess I might have been looking for it at the wrong place. I just expected a love partner to feel the yearning to do that quite naturally because that's my...|||I can see how you relate to my post because of what happened to you. Just out of curiosity, how did you finally snap out of it? Has anything helped you get through it?|||Hello!  Here is my advice as a pharmacist.  Being a Bipolar type 1, you have to be careful about antidepressants. Some antidepressants can cause what is called a switch. It can basically make you...|||Hello everyone,  I haven't been around much lately because my life has been going downhill a lot. I think I really need advice and insights from other people who might have gone through the same...|||Hello everyone,  Some of you might recognize me from my numerous previous posts in which I have been trying to gain a better understanding of my INTP boyfriend. For others who don't, here is a...|||Hello,  Yup and I can understand what you're going through. Trying to make changes in your life is difficult. There will always be obstacles in the way and it does get frustrating. I just hope you...|||relia:  I'm an INFJ in a relationship with an INTP. Here is what I think:  I think you get INTPs more than you think, but that's just another INFJ's opinion... He probably felt something intense...|||So, you basically buy peace even if you think you are right? I tend to do something like that because I hate fighting so much... I really feel bad about conflict. Don't you think it's not really...|||When I get mad at someone and fight with that person, I always feel like I should try to fix things as soon as they go wrong. I guess that is my J speaking here. I noticed that when I try to do that,...|||Hey everyone!  I'm looking for a fun game to play online with friends. I love MMORPGs  and strategy games. I don't like having the feeling of wasting my time  so I'd like to see some character...|||Hey everyone!  I'm looking for a fun game to play online with friends. I love MMORPGs and strategy games. I don't like having the feeling of wasting my time so I'd like to see some character...|||Hey MAP,  Yes, I have. Exercising has helped me feel more healthy and more at peace. The problem is, a few months after I started regularly exercising, my motivation dropped... I'm trying to get...|||@theorycraft: To answer your question, it does not happen often. In 3 months, it's the second time. Both times, we were very stressed by other factors. I think stress is just the catalysis. It IS all...|||theorycraft: Yes, we still talk frequently. He gave me the silent treatment one night, but pretty much went back to normal after I simply told him that I want to understand what he's going through...|||I think it might help if I give more details.   My partner is currently under a lot of stress because he has important exams to pass, is indebted, feels like he doesn't have that much free time...|||It's hard to do that because he feels guilty if I help him too much since he is in no position to reciprocate. He just won't accept my help...|||Hey everyone!  I'd like to hear what you have to say about how to deal with an INTP who has gotten emotional. For instance, what would be best to do when my INTP expresses that he feels mad,...|||My heart aches... Tears stream down my cheeks and I can't even control them. I feel so weary, exhausted, so sick of fighting for that little piece of happiness that always seems so unattainable. In...|||Okay, relapsing here... I was rather happy because my most immediate problems have been fixed, but here I am worried again about the future. My worries made my behavior switch from normal to almost...|||Hello everyone!  I started this thread in the INFJ forum but as usual, I'm interested to see what INTPs have to say about this as well.  I'm curious about your beliefs. Do you believe in the...|||No don't be! That conversation between the two of you was really interesting to read. I like that you are open and curious and that Kelsey has strong beliefs backed up by her own personal research....|||That's something I wonder... Can you imagine that nothingness? During a lifetime, we are always something even when we sleep or we are unconscious. We still have thoughts, dreams, brain activity ;...|||I'm really happy about that! It's great that this thread has been helping you. It sure helps me and a lot of other INFJs as well. Thank you!|||Hello everyone!  I'm curious about your beliefs. Do you believe in the afterlife? If you don't, what do you think happens after you die? Do you think human beings have a soul? Will some of us be...'