'Peace and no more fucked up feelings.|||Mr. Meepers, awww, that is possibly the sweetest post I've ever seen here.|||Someone to watch a movie with me. Preferably someone who will put their arm around me and generally be awesome.|||I want him to want me. MAYBE HE DOES.  Also don't want to be sick.   Oh, God, I feel for you... :sad:|||Like I mentioned earlier, I prefer that kind of honesty, even though I might take it personal initially sometimes if what you say seems harsh. But it seems to differ between different ISFJs. I'd...|||Yeah, I guess it depends on how you define it. But the example he gave was something I'd be able to handle. :)|||I don't agree with you on this. At least not in this situation. I don't like every friendship to be like this, but I absolutely need a friend or two who will call me out on my bullshit and tell me...|||I'm thinking about cake. Blackberry cake and those damn delicious looking blueberry meringue things in the café at the museum I work at. Have to watch them all day...|||If you believe things aren't great with her boyfriend, all I can say is, be the best person you can be. Give her the possibilty to realise that she might be better off without the guy. It can be hard...|||An ISFJ can leave their partner for another person. I did once. However, the other person wasn't the only reason for me leaving my current boyfriend, he was more of a catalyst. I doubt an ISFJ will...|||I was gonna say this, but then I saw that you had already said it!  I'd definitely pick 7, and I'm norwegian. :)|||Hardly sounds like ISFJ behaviour at all, are you sure about her type? I've never met an ISFJ who was that inconsiderate of people's feelings, and rarely heard of ISFJs who threw temper tantrums...|||I loved it!! I was so afraid for one moment when Quill began his heroic speech after saving Gamora, but no, that was also hilarious.  Good observation about Thanos, though. I'd need to rewatch it...|||Yay, saxophone! How long have you been playing, and what kind of music do you play?   I study for a bachelor's degree in classical saxophone. I also play the piano and the violin (mostly folk music...|||If there were objective standards to maturity, there would have to be objective standards to personalities. That being said, I don't view maturity in itself as bullshit. Learning to know yourself and...|||I get along with ENTPs quite well in real life. Never had the impression they viewed me as simple. We usually have great discussions, where both parties can say what they mean without worrying about...|||Is Thanos xNTJ just because he's evil? :P we only heard him speak for about ten seconds...  I can agree with Rocket being ESTJ! He's all about his plans. Other than that I haven't thought much...|||I actually considered voting ISTJ, because the two ISTJs I know both come off as very sweet. I'm a little surprised more people haven't voted for them. They're cuddly (yes, they are! Both of them!),...|||Agree with a lot of the logic your post, but you don't have to be an iNtuitive to identify with the traits ascribed to Ravenclaw!|||This is well done. I wonder, though, how much correlation there actually is. What house you end up in ultimately depends on your own choice, meaning it has more to do with values than functions. Now,...|||I rarely speak in absolutes, but I'm inclined to agree for the most part. I always want to believe the best of everyone, so I will always want to forgive if it's possible. This means that when I...|||I liked most of your post, teddy564339, so I feel like commenting on a few things!   Yep. Reading this thread I get the feeling that a lot of the people who claim that they understand SJs don't...|||How ISFJ of you. :tongue:|||Oh God, I know. If there's no particular reason for it happening, and you never get true closure... That really sucks. I mean, sometimes friendships fade naturally, but when you want to keep going...|||The conclusion is the same for me; I will stop initiating contact. However, I really, really do not take the matter of losing a friend lightly. I will try to talk things over, even though I hate...|||Oh, the subtle ISTJ avoidance... Please just tell them, I've been subtly avoided by an ISTJ once, and it fucked me up. :P  What am I thinking about? How unfortunate that I should meet the best ENTP...|||Shut the fuck up, snoring cousin I have to share a room with for three days, I'm trying to sleep!!  (Though I miiight be thinking it...)|||Haha! Silly puns are the best. :D|||I'm intrigued by how much a non-SJ wants to convince the rest of the world that SJs are this and that.|||That paragraph was actually to explain why an SJ would talk about laundry detergent. It wasn't about laundry detergent per se. Should also be noted I don't spend my whole day talking about stuff like...|||Oh, by the way. For the record, if I was to discuss laundry detergent, it would probably be to recommend something I've discovered that works well or something. Laundry detergent isn't the best...|||This is better. However, I still don't agree that SJs are simple and plain, even if you don't mean it in a condescending way. Si is very much a complex function, though extremely different from Ni....|||Said the person who just stated that intuitives are more special than sensors.|||Sorry, you've got it all wrong if you think SJs are content to remain as they are. Sorry. That's just... not me or any other SJ I know or have ever met. Being an SJ does not mean dimwittedly...|||I don't care how you feel about this.|||I'm not extremely versed in enneagram and haven't pinned down my type yet, but I repeatedly score 4(w5) in tests either as dominant type or as number two in the tritype. Not sure it's actually my...|||Yeah, I kind of agree. I'm not against LDRs, but if I'm in one I will want to meet the guy as often as possible. If the distance is too great for that, if we cannot meet at least once a month (in my...|||Personally, I fall in love with the person, not the circumstances, at least to a certain extent. I'm open to long distance if I meet a person who's worth it, though I obviously would prefer to meet...|||1. Would you ever consider going bungee jumping/skydiving?  Maybe bungee jumping, if the opportunity presented itself to me, but I don't see myself actively seeking it out... Skydiving, I don't...|||My immediate thought was that you must have had that profile for a long time with a username like that. And I was right! :tongue:  I'm into rock, pop, classical, folk and soundtrack, including:...|||I'm perfectly aware of that, as I said in my previous post. But there are limits to everything. My impression is that OP's mother crosses the line in her expectations.  As for being around people...|||What you need to understand is that not everyone is like you. You talk about how MBTI is for personal growth, but it's also a great tool for understanding how other people are different from you. I...|||No problem, you didn't hurt me. :) I just felt the need to point it out, because the way you phrased yourself it could be interpreted that way.  I can understand why you would feel guilty about a...|||I would certainly appreciate if you stopped saying that she's 'SO S OMG' as if that is what makes her a bad person. It is not. Her being very S may well be a reason for some difficulties in...|||I know, and I laughed! :P|||Wait, what?|||google search history|||I wonder how some people can have such extremely strong reluctance against long-distance relationships. It's as if they fall in love with the circumstances, not the person.|||I'm fascinated by INTJs, I lurk in your forums every now and then. I just don't post here. :P|||I don't think they are. I love cuddling, kissing, holding hands... I do need my alone time, if there is a lot of cuddling in a short amount of time (like spending a weekend with a boyfriend) I will...'