'Yes.  You will eventually make friends so long as you leave your apartment and associate with people.  Generally, adults make friends with people they work with, so that's a good place to start. ...|||If you don't know what to do, the best thing to do is to ask What can I do for you? or How can I help?  This indicates that:  1.  You're willing to help (support). 2.  You're allowing her to...|||Personally...  Immediate exposure to a damaging event (like an argument or insult) results in be being withdrawn, distant, uncommunicative, and prone to making irrational conclusions.  Prolonged...|||I get tired and cranky.  In large crowds of people or very crowded areas where I'm trying to go somewhere or do something (like get groceries or get to a door), I experience a kind of claustrophobia....|||1. I don't.  If you mean, do I feel as if I have various complementary aspects/dualities, then yes.  But then, everyone has those.  But duality doesn't mean one is exclusive of the other.  It just...|||I work as a graphic designer/communications specialist for local government.  It's close enough to my chosen calling that I'm kept generally satisfied creatively, I also get to entertain my desire to...|||I went through a similar experience with my parents when I told them I was dead set on becoming an illustrator and going to an art college.  They were concerned I wouldn't make enough money, that I'd...|||That's probably because he didn't want solutions.  He most likely just wanted a shoulder and an ear.  Helping doesn't always mean solving the problem; sometimes helping just means listening and...|||For me, there isn't a utopia, and if there was, I wouldn't want it.  Being in a place that is perfect is boring.  Life becomes static.  Instead of trying to make something that doesn't exist, perhaps...|||I like bitter-sweet endings.  These are endings where there is closure and some happiness that came at a great cost to the characters.  So, throughout the journey, there are tragic moments and happy...|||Refusal to give up on each other.  Everything else tends to fall into place.|||Existence is inherently meaningless and valueless because the ideas of meaning and value are subjective and are applied by an individual.  No one can make your, or any, existence meaningful other...|||pearslug I'm fairly certain that no one here is truly offended.  They're just being direct. :)|||Yes.  Instead of trying to solve world hunger or encourage world peace, I just want common sense to be a thing.  I want people to go back to understanding natural human behavior.  I want others to...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vFJ0CR9yQW8&amp;index=2&amp;list=PLcHOKlfZ6enPoHOd  9dP7Y4YGAlcCRZllI  That lonely sound at the beginning.  Just two notes going back and forth like a lonely little light...|||Military cut jackets.  And a brown wool scarf.|||I watch plenty of American Football, though I don't have any die hard loyalties to any team.  I tend to support the teams supported by my family and friends.  That said, I couldn't possibly tell you...|||You should go see a therapist.  BPD or not, I'm sure going will help you better monitor and improve your coping mechanisms (which sound like they might be poorly functioning if you're having panic...|||Things go south for me very fast when I've been chronically sleeping poorly.  This is in part because I'm bipolar, and any upset in sleep tends to bring about a nasty shift in mood (usually down). ...|||I've decided not to have children.  Do you feel having or not having them has made your life feel more or less fulfilled?  Not really.  I am just very realistic with my desires in life, and I...|||I will call people what they look like to me until notified otherwise.  If you want to be called something else or if I get it wrong, don't get butthurt about it.  Just correct me and be done with...|||[/FONT][/COLOR]Yes.  One of the things that upsets me most is to have my opinions disregarded, dismissed, or invalidated.  It either: 1) crushes me emotionally and I feel hurt; or 2) puts me on the...|||I suppose it's because most of my big, interesting thoughts are very nebulous.  Trying to phrase such thoughts, many of which are non-verbal (images, sounds, or textures) is difficult.  There's a...|||I handle criticism badly.  I handle critique very well.  Criticism is telling me something sucks without telling me why it sucks.  Critique is telling me something sucks and telling me why it...|||Because in many cases, it's the only way I can tell people about the things I think and envision.  It's the only way I can effectively communicate an internal perspective.  Since telepathy is a...|||1. For me it's like becoming obsessed with a new topic or fascinating idea...x10^23.  I can be incredibly intense (physically and emotionally), and to have that reciprocated is more than I could ever...|||Funny...  I tend to be slow when getting to know someone as friends.  That said, when I realize something about someone is just right and they think in some fundamental capacity like me, I move...|||I devour.  Unless I don't much like the food.  In fact, the slower I eat, the less I'm enjoying my food.  The faster I eat, the more delicious I think it is.  Regrettably, I've tried to put a brake...|||Places I enjoyed and visited in Colorado:  Garden of the Gods Manitou Springs  (Go to Marilyn's Pizza, the giant Dumbledore painting, and the actual arcade :D) Pike's Peak (just outside of...|||All right, I'll play along...  How Co-Workers See Me:  http://images4.fanpop.com/image/photos/16300000/Sheldon-Cooper-sheldon-cooper-16368554-474-317.jpg  How Family Sees Me: ...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eu-xFvLaE68  Yeah, guess who's watching Defiance...|||Something along the lines of general confusion and dismay.  Then, later:  A kind of low-grade indignant outrage on behalf of those injured.  How dare someone just attack without provocation.  I...|||Sometimes I get like this.  I'm certainly not one to grind something out every day just because I've tried to make it a habit to do so.  Throughout all my time in college, I was told that I should...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6ljFaKRTrI|||All right, after searching through the songs I know, this would be my theme:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mDkKyBU7GCs  Beginning at the line:  She is like a cat in the dark, and then, she...|||I guess I'll have to break it down to how I find music, and then why certain music sticks.  How I find music:  I can't say I have any particular routine.  A lot of new music seems to come in a...|||No, I'm like that too.  One night, I spent no less than thirty minutes trying to say goodbye to my mother.  She just kept...coming up with things to keep talking about!  And at every topic, I'd try...|||Mixed-Handed.  Where is that option? D:  I actually use the left and right side of my body relatively equally, though different sides are often required for different tasks.  Left:  -Write...|||The gifts are irrelevant.  (so shes not bored out of her mind surrounded by kids)  I think you have it pegged right there.  She hasn't seen you in a while, and kids' parties have got to be...|||57450  Rising and Falling    57452  Yggdrasil|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJFl_48EGCg  As I learn to juggle...because I can.  Though now I'm tired, so I've stopped for the moment.  It's surprisingly easier when listening to music.  I will...|||This is likely the case.  God is a metaphor for that which is inconceivable--the mystery of life and why it is here.  That's the real metaphysical kicker for anyone...Okay, I know how I got here,...|||No, I did not make my avatar.  It's a cropped down illustration of Darrell Anderson's depicting a Taheen from Stephen King's The Dark Tower.  I've used it for quite some time as I find his visual...|||When phrased poorly (from someone I don't know at all), like I want to slap them and childishly go, Don't tell me what to do!  When phrased well, like I want to beat myself up and then give great...|||Personal spirituality for me is more or less the same as finding one's personal mythology.  Finding the story of my life's journey and how my being relates to the rest of the universe.  There is no...|||1. No.  2. Plausible.  I'm inclined to say, yes, but only tentatively.  I find myself wanting clear evidence to support my claims, but in finding none, I can't quite dispel the notion that there is...|||That you are human and experience human emotions.  Which is why I've never agreed with the Jedi (or Booker T evidently).  Hate isn't inherently wrong or degrading.  It just is.  It's what you do in...|||55386  From Man Comes the Story of Man|||Yes, circles (wheels), spheres, spirals, and fractals all factor into my grand understanding of life, the universe, everything.  Those are generally the shapes I think in when I'm thinking of...|||I think that happens to a lot of (read: all) artists, actually.  As a child, they draw for the pure enjoyment of it, but as they get older and become more aware of the world around them, for some...'