Wow I truly can't answer any of those questions because I can't go back to a time where I didn't feel these things. I think I always felt like I couldn't be a burden to my mother. She had a terrible...|||Excuse me?? I paid for the meal! It was me, not him and it was damned expensive too. I expect him to show me some common courtesy. Oh you didn't like your food? Well you pay next time asshole. If I...|||Can artificial intelligence create intelligence? I don't believe that's possible. Intelligence is a biological trait obtained by millions of years of evolution. (I say millions because it has been a...|||Well I think ISFJs are just one of those types that want to settle down and get married as quickly as possible. So where is there room for personal growth? Getting married and having children are...|||Oh my god...this has been such an ongoing conflict between my parents and I. My mother is an ISFJ and she just doesn't understand how I could possibly want to live my own state, let alone move across...|||We're all confused. I think I replied to this late at night and misread the profile as INTJ. Oh well.|||Sometimes I feel like I'm damned if I do and I'm damned if I don't. If I share what's going on in my life or vent, there is a point at which I'm perceived as going to far. You're sharing too much,...|||The issue is that most other personality types feel more freedom to express their emotions and just vent. People are more willing to listen to them.  As an INTJ, I rarely ever feel like I can vent...|||Yep.|||My good friend has asperger's syndrome and he's, for the most part, a sweet guy. There are times however, when I would like to smack him for the way he talks to people.  Example: The two of us are...|||Why are people getting so offended?|||Did we read the same post??  No. I thought he was actually a she. Which is probably a larger error....  Did I miss something?? I thought the person specified that their significant other was...|||It's funny you should say that...  I think INTJs and INFPs have a very similar relationship as ENFJs and ENTPs. In socionics, they call this beneficiary relationships. One has what the other needs,...|||ISFJs are emotionally messy people.  I've only ever dealt with ISFJ women so I don't know what ISFJ men are like.   I think you have to look at the reality of your situation. He doesn't want to...|||Alternative rock, imo, tends to lean towards having an ambient quality. I think a lot of ITNJs appreciate this because (although we tend to see ourselves as practical and realistic) we truly enjoy...|||That's good that you have a group of friends. I feel like I've been struggling to find this for such a long time, I'm actually on the verge of giving up on that entirely. It makes me sad to admit it,...|||Their honesty doesn't bother me, it's their lack of respect that bothers me. I know what they think about other women, who wouldn't know that sort of thing??  The fact that they will say these...|||Awful awful dating experiences. I tend to be completely unimportant to any men I date. They are regularly crude around me because they don't seem to respect me. I have never been asked out by a man...|||I love you guys, but our relationships and friendships never last. At least this is the case for me, which is why I tend to give up on it quickly.  1. You're flaky. I can't deal with people who...|||I'm going to be 100% honest here. I absolutely hate being an INTJ female. There are various reasons, but I think the most obvious is the extreme alienation that goes along with it. I feel like I try...|||How about this...I feel like my friend treated me like I wasn't important, therefore I consider he behavior indicative of someone who is a jerk.  We're dealing with introverted feeling here, not...|||Am I the only person who prefers non fiction??  One of my favorites is a book called The Fives Points by Tyler Anbinder.  I also really enjoy a book called King Leopold's Ghost.  Another...|||1. My entire life experience has been pretty dysfunctional  2. I always tried to overcome dysfunction by thinking way way ahead of the game. This has helped me in many cases throughout my...|||I happen to have an INTJ friend oddly enough. She can be nice and friendly when we get together, but then she can also be strangely aloof and rude for some reason.  Example: My INTJ friend lives in...|||I always thought Andy Dufresne from The Shawshank Redemption was an INTJ.   Sherlock Holmes has always fascinated me.   Willy Wonka  As for INTJ female characters? That's a tough one. I always...|||I think you're over analyzing this and seeing things that aren't there. I can't read anyone's mind :/   Remember, they are introverts so they feel very calm and at peace with each other. It's not...|||Think about the functions: 1. Introverted Intuition 2. Extroverted Thinking 3. Introverted feeling 4. Extroverted sensing.  We see a dilapidated building everyday on our way to work. Our brain...|||I wrote the post at like two in the morning and wrote introverted thinking instead of extroverted. Please stop over analyzing.   I wasn't aware of the fact that we were in a classroom and I was...|||I have like two INTJ friends. Sometimes I find that the immature ones are a bit abrasive as someone else put it.   That being said, the two INTJ friends and I always have really terrific...|||I don't think socionics is really helpful. It's like the numerology of Personality Assessments.|||No...it's called I made a typo...Jesus..|||It's called a typo asshole. Seriously??|||Why probably? Could be an ISTJ...occasionally we are confused for each other. ISTPs as well.   1. My memories tend to be very impressionistic. They are really flashes of impressionistic things,...|||Hey, thanks for the reply! I'll go search for that video  I'm glad to be of help.  LOl, ah that explains it. You see, I live in the United States. So we are a very emotional, in the moment...|||Hey, thanks for the reply! I'll go search for that video  I'm glad to be of help.  LOl, ah that explains it. You see, I live in the United States. So we are a very emotional, in the moment...|||INTJs live in the clouds. Their heads are constantly in the clouds because that is where they do all of their imagining. We really can't help it because it's our dominant function; so it's an...|||Can I see this video??  What you're describing is not toxic shame, just...your one of the mill shame. We all feel it and it's natural to feel that when others are disappointed in us. It's a natural...|||Hmm. Maybe they're butthurt because you're being rude...Seriously??|||I'm so grateful social media didn't exist when I was in school...I can't imagine having to deal with that. Why would anyone want to be on display constantly? I don't get these people who put pictures...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8HBmtq0q_wQ  I made a short film when I was applying to film school.  It is a fictitious short documentary.  I've also done some photography, which is on my...|||I tend to do most of my thinking at night and I have this restless energy. Even when I know I need to get up early the next morning, I find it incredibly difficult to get up the next day. I'd rather...|||You're singing my song seriously...  My moods and self esteem have been like a roller coaster for my entire life. I used to think it was completely my fault, but I began to realize that I am the...|||No way?? How is there no way? The thing about Donald Trump is that he's perfectly capable of looking at things in a logical way, except that his Si gets in the way. The man is a firm supporter of...|||I've never actually taken a real IQ test, but just out of high school I scored around 150ish? I tend to score high in some parts and lower in other parts. In terms of reading comprehension, numerical...|||Hmm, as an INTJ I don't really know how to answer this question. It really depends on what one finds seductive. I think NT women can certainly go for this look if they really want to. If they want to...|||Whenever I take these tests I always score very high in Verbal/Linguistic, numerical, and, logical intelligence. Spatial recognition and kinesthetic always tend to be on the lower end....that...|||This is a trait that I do not relate to at all as I have extreme amounts of patience most of the time. I'd argue inhuman amounts of patience that 90% of the people I come into contact typically don't...|||I've been cast aside by too many ENFPs to even explore this pairing. It's great when they're into you, but the second they find someone else is the second they disappear.   Oh yeah, I had a friend....|||I'll take them old, I don't care! I sort of prefer being with older guys because I don't have to compete with their smartphones, comic book/dvd collections, or video game consoles.|||Speak for yourself, I will tolerate most glaring or irritating personality flaws for a friendly person to talk to. I think this might be why some of us attract the crazies or older guys.   I'm not...