'Thank you, I might :).|||Your dynamic sounds really nice and healthy, and I feel sad when I realize that we probably don't have that. I wish I could recognize my SO in the efforts that yours make, but I can't.|||I'm battling with wether or not I should reply to your answers, and I've decided that I should. You're being quite blunt and insensitive about this. I've been with this man for 7 years with both...|||Oh I have many times. Many many many times. Why do you think I'm in a relationship only to change him? I never said that. My question was if it might be possible for an ENTJ to become more in touch...|||Thanks, yeah it's clear that we cope very differently with our problems and I respect that. My problem is that he quickly gets rude as soon as I express that I feel sad or anxious, because he feels...|||As an ENFP I often feel that it's hard to get the emotional support I need from my ENTJ partner. When I start talking about anxiety or express sadness over a lost family member he tends to get...|||Yeah I can definetely relate to the surge and desire for something else, something more, anything different and new... Usually I grab a glass of wine, satisfy my self-loathing with a cigarette and...|||HAHA! Kill 'em with kindness! I do that too ^^.|||But I don't think that being F neccessarily means that you have to be sympathetic and compassionate, it just means that your actions are largely based on your emotions and not on logical conclusion....|||I write poems, lyrics and short stories, so I don't sit for very long to write. I usually get struck by inspiration and start writing what seems to be pouring out of my pen (sorry if that sounds...|||I always get pangs of anxiety after a shopping spree, so I buy clothes and make up VERY rarely. I usually get stuff like that for xmas or as a birthday present :P. I kind of feel like it's a waste of...|||HAHA!! This is actually WORSE than me!! :P|||I think it's a ten out of a ten on the messiness scale... I have clothes lying everywhere, books and study material on the floor, labcoats on the kitchen floor, clothes stuffed into my bathroom...|||NO! :P I focus on how they make me feel. I like clothes to be comfortable rather than trendy for example, and I can't be bothered to put on make up on a weekday. I much rather sleep another half hour...|||Haha cool! It's a small world ^^|||You may very well be right :).|||Yes certainly, but that doesn't make it less painful.|||Thank you, your analysis is probably head-on. It seems like many intraverts feel misunderstood in a family full of extraverts, and it makes me sad. I mean we love her, value her, and ofcourse we want...|||Wow, this is eerie how similair this sounds to our situation. We really have tried to listen to her, show her that we mean well and that we just want to be a part of her life, but she just cut us off...|||Yeah, that's my fear. She has tendencies to get involved with men who wants to save her, and she wants to be saved by them, and then she kind of abandons her own ideas and values for his. Maybe it's...|||Thank you, that is comforting to hear. I really miss her.|||Okay, thanks for your respons. She's in her mid-twenties, but we went through some tough shit during our childhood, and I think her inability to cope with it made her regress in some aspects. I tried...|||Hi! I have a sister who is an INFJ. She severed all bonds with our family, due to reasons we can't comprehend, after meeting this other INFJ and moved to his country where they are now living in...|||What!! No way!! How come?|||Yes I do, absolutely, but that insecurity often motivates me even more these days. Makes me want to prove to myself and to others that I'm capable, so I run in head-first. It doesn't always work...|||Brno :). Where in Europe are you from? :)|||I'm from Sweden, currently living in the Czech Republic, raised in England during the first part of my childhood. I would like to visit Japan for the food and subculture and the Galapagos islands and...|||Hi! I'm just starting to work on my diploma thesis where we will modify rabies virus, transcribe and translate the rabies RNA and then incert cDNA into E.coli plasmids to produce viral products. Then...|||I wish for something but I'm not sure what A different time, a different place I can feel it in my gut The faces, the places the trips and the treats I've walked these streets again and again...|||I was never like your daughter, I frankly think she sounds horribly rude. My parents would have slapped that behaviour out of me if I ever talked to them in that way. I do get offended because you...|||I think the completely destroyed her argument-part might be why she got upset... She might have thought that you could playfully debate this particular topic, and felt run over when you bulldozered...|||Whaaaaat have you released an EP?? What kind of music do you make?|||I can't listen during a boring lecture, my mind leaves the conversation instantly! If someone asks me about what the lecturer just said I just have to tell them 'dude, I'm not even here...'|||I've found that cooking and drinking beer while listening to music makes me feel better :p. After a while I start dancing around, having an awesome time alone in my kitchen :P. Also watching a...|||I'm getting a feeling that you're trying to tell me that what I experienced actually was my fault and that I was projecting my feelings on my mother. I told my story in a balanced and mature way,...|||God yes!! I seem to go between extremes too. I've been like an INFP for a long time now, never quite got out of a long depression in my teens, but I'm starting to feel a lot better now, getting in...|||I had a similair relationship to my now boyfriend ENTJ, and I just flat out told him that I had feelings for him and that I wanted to be with him. Took him a week to think about it, and then a long...|||I have an ESFJ mother and it was hard growing up. She exploded over what she percieved as an attitude, and it would scare the shit out of me, because I didn't even know what I was having an...|||I hear that many ENFPs experience it hard to decide on a job and enjoy it, but I'm not like that at all. I just decided that I would become a vet, and I just decided that I would finish vet school...|||I don't think so at all. My experience is that they love to debate and quarrel, and respects you when their point of view is challanged by a good argument. But loyalty yes, indeed very important ^^.|||I have several close INFP friends, and also my father is INFP and we have so much fun together! I think we attract each other, great minds think alike ^^. I LOVE INFPs ^^.|||Male 70,8/100 Female 60,5/100 Androgenous 65,8/100  But I would just like to add that this is perpetuating the gender rules for men and women. Who is to say what is more masculine and what is...|||Dear certain ESFP, Stop trying to control everyone, and stop trying to impose your values on everyone! I don't want to do yoga, it pisses me off! And I know meat used to be animals, but so was that...|||Yeah I've been jumping from relationship to relationship since like forever. I have NO patience at all. It's important for me to connect to someone, to feel close to someone, I guess that's another...|||Wow. You sound like an amazing parent!!|||I wrote some stuff, but changed my mind, so I chose to remove it since I couldn't delete the entire thing.|||I've suffered from periods of depression, anxiety and eating disorders since I was 8 years old ><.|||Well I've been meaning to clean my apartment for two weeks now... So not at all I guess :P. But usually I clean the apartment as a form of cleansing ritual after a passed exam :P.|||Mjez I noticed, but that doesn't mean it's not true ;)|||I didn't even mention that, because I think actions speak for themselves, but naturally, INTJs are HIGHLY intelligent and competent people ;).'