'I can honestly say that I only have two people, my best friend and my boyfriend, who truly know everything about me. They get me, and even when it's scary, I tell them my deepest, darkest secrets and...|||I had several wonderful ENFP teachers. They were fun and inspiring and I learned the most in their classrooms. One teacher even let my friends and I make a sitcom spoof of Belovedx85which I'm sure was...|||Time travel novels, movies, and shows always seem so cool! But when I think about time travel for myself, I get frustrated because life would be way lamer for a woman in any other time period. Guess...|||I wonder what type of person I would be if my only memories were of the dreams I have at night. Dreams are supposed to be our deepest subconscious, right? So maybe I'd be a really authentic version...|||When you're having a lonely feeling day but happen to run into 10 people you know and the people you are with ask you Do you know everyone?|||Here's an interesting question. If you were to pick your MBTI and you could be anything BESIDES an ENFP…Which type would you pick and why?   I think I would be ENTJ. They are some cool,...|||This is strictly out of curiosity, but what are your opinions on what makes a relationship work verses what makes one fail? What personal experiences have you had that make you feel that way?  ...|||I have put out more than a few literal fires while all my friends stand around looking surprised. I always thought it was so strange how it's harder for me to decide how to lead an obstinate group of...|||You might recommend therapy as well. I know a lot of people who cry out for help but are too scared to try therapy because of weird stigmas about it. The more people who advocate for it, the less...|||Sometimes I think I come across as too straightforward online. It's mostly a result of trying to be clear and concise…but I like the way this is put! I deeply hope things work out for the best for...|||Nonono, the people who don't think you're funny aren't funny ;). Very different.|||Funny. I would consider myself both of these things, and I'm an ENFP. Though perhaps I'm not career oriented and feminist in the corporate, cut throat, man bashing way you might dislike?   Or maybe...|||When my INFP and I first started dating he would shut down after arguments as well. I could always tell something was bothering him though and eventually I would create a safe way to address his...|||I suspect the people who say that ACTUALLY have no sense of humor  and because cute pictures: 127945|||Okay, assuming the OP had good intentions, I'll bite. Losers is a strange term to associate with INFPs. All the INFPs I know are very driven and have extremely high standards for themselves and...|||ai.tran.75 your uncle sounds wonderful. I hope to be a bit like him someday as well :)|||I feel like I have an excessive number of ENFPs where I live. Maybe the culture of the place draws ENFPs to it? Just move to Colorado :wink:|||Nope! Not unless the other person was super awkward about it. But hugs are pretty much in un-awkward territory.|||I recieved almost all of this exact advice from someone else today. It's nice to hear some solid and reasonable feedback. I get excited about starting new things but also nervous. Having a rough path...|||My best friend is and ENFJ. When we were younger I would have to tell her I needed space sometimes. It was never because I didn't want to be around her at all, I just needed more alone time. She...|||lol, I trust my friends much that if they all tell each other everything I don't mind. With my family it's a little different. They love me but don't understand me quite as well. I think I'm afraid...|||Do you enjoy other ENFPs? I just began working with a woman who has all the same interests and gets excited about the same things as I do. It's so much fun because it's like looking into a mirror of...|||I'm this way as well. I'll express things like we're happy or I'm a little frustrated with X but I very rarely bring my relationships up with my family, and if they do come up, I don't go into...|||Don't worry, it didn't feel like you were passing judgement. I was just trying to explain that if you form the right connection with a woman who says she only wants to focus on her career, her...|||Hm, I think the ENTJs I know fit into my life better (activities and social situations) whereas with the INTPs, I would have to make a little extra room for, but they might be immediately easier to...|||I think, as an ENFP woman, this easy to say and enjoy because it's HARD to focus on career and relationships at the same time…and it's very annoying as an independent woman to always feel as if you...|||119810Me and my adorable hedgehog :D|||Katfeatherfoot I definitely understand what you're saying. I've also done my share of dating with people who have been disrespectful and it sucks! I guess I think there's a line when you're getting...|||I don't know. My INFP was totally clueless when I was trying to get the ball rolling with our relationship. I did all the start up work (and emotional risk taking) and it paid off. I think there are...|||Don't we all hate being wrong ;). Don't worry about it at all.|||Thanks MsBossyPants,  I just graduated and am working at a restaurant, so not many mentor programs there ;) but I LOVE your suggestion of taking an evening class. It inspired me to look up some...|||A dash is generally used to indicate and. Sorry if I misinterpreted.|||I'm looking for a mentor in the field of marketing, journalism, or freelance writing...basically someone with experience who can help me get started on the right path. Unfortunately I don't actually...|||I'd say this is a great start. My guess is she's open to friendship, but making a real friendship takes work, so you may also have to be willing to keep asking her to hang out...a lot. I make...|||Huh, I'm trying to think what the INFPs I know would do. If it's been a really long time since you've heard from him and you're frustrated and ready to give up, I might just text him something like...|||I'm interested in which types are drawn to careers in writing, marketing, and journalism and how different types might approach these career paths in different ways. So:  1) What type are you? ...|||Nope. I've never been diagnosed with anything and I was always a good student/kid. I just wanted to make everyone so happy that I never acted out. I remember writing writhing journal entries whenever...|||I love this question! At first I often don't want them to know…probably because I don't want to act too fast and scare them away…and because I'm still figuring out who they are. If I like someone for...|||Honestly, if I'm really into you, I'm not going to act the same way around you as I do everyone else. What people might think is flirty for me is the only way I know how to interact with people (at...|||Oh my god I do all of these things. Including the outfits and crying bit! Lol, it's amazing how long a minor breakdown over nothing can take haha.|||Interesting, I feel very similar. I wonder if the NF makes us naturally good at commitment and the P makes us hesitant to put boarders and definitions around relationships. Or maybe both ENFPs and...|||Are you looking for long term relationships/marriage? Do you feel you're good at this type of commitment?|||Honestly, to the outside world I feel like I act pretty much the same way I always do. I'm a bit day-dreamy no matter what, so love doesn't change that either, it just gives me something to focus on....|||I find that, more often than not, people surprise me in a good way. Usually, the second I make a negative judgement, I learn more about them and what they've gone through and what they're passionate...|||Huh, good question. I think it doesx85sometimes. Sometimes I want to feel all the joy in the world and spread it and be free, which is what that picture symbolizes for me. Other times I want to be...|||Describe your ideal self :)|||Sloth for me as well. Especially if it's cold outside.|||Haha, how weird is that?!  As for the rest…interesting. Can I ask you a specific question? Would you want to get serious with her or would you think of her as marriage material if you thought she...|||This is the next step of action, but I'm looking for advice on how to best do this. I feel like we've had a lot of conversations where I can't communicate what I need well enough. He ends up asking...|||ENFPs generally do not lead anyone on for fun, because hurting other people is the last thing we want to do. We CAN, however, be selfish and continue a friendship even if we know the other person...'