'Again, it's not about whether or not it is wrong/right. It is a way for people to illustrate differences on a social level. The term exists and is used by many people and even scholars.   At the...|||Its a natural way of life. It's all about demonstrating dominance as in leadership; initiative; taking charge. It doesn't necessarily mean undermining or treating people poorly.  I will give you an...|||The point is simple- we are all sitting and posting on a personality theory site, which is deemed a fad and/or inaccurate by many. Yet, some of us are dismissive of the Alpha/Beta concept that many...|||This is quite dismissive and unfair to many others who rely on alpha/beta social theory in order to better relate/identify with others. I am plenty sure that there are many who don't believe in our...|||I am sorry, but before I contribute to this thread, I must say that it is out of pure laziness of those who refuse to even remotely entertain the Alpha vs Beta character traits. It is also many of...|||#1 You are going to have to take control of your own consciousness and bring about this enlightened awareness #2 You are going to have to redirect this energy and make it work for you- in order to...|||Ironically, these are the posts that enable certain INFJs to COME OUT of their state of depression because to them, one of the bigger challenges is actually finding other INFJs who aren't in this...|||A home but living among distant relatives.  Although I get along with many in the community, I have found that I can't be as open in order to not hurt any feelings. I had the impression that I...|||80/160..  I have a problem with that test because it simply gauges how you would react/respond to situations that benefit the outcomes of how YOU see fit. EQ is meant to better understand others...|||Same way she is addicted to his abuse is the same way she will become addicted to self-help guides. Don't even introduce that crap to her. Rather, introduce her to a professional who will sit her...|||Sorry but I really enjoy scenario-based questions and it is rare that I get to answer personality questions without giving myself up too much.. So, if you don't mind...  In response to bonus...|||I will try my hand at this game. Not necessarily to haven anyone define my type, however. I'm just in the mood to engage...  1. What fictional character do you most relate to?  I can't honestly...|||I am not one to undermine others so I would not necessarily label them as fake, but rather [a different breed] of INFJs.  These INFJs are in love with the idea of what the INFJ represents on...|||I will go with my own personal sense of what a good roommate would be- so if the shoe fits..  Someone who:  - doesn't always bug me to go out and hang with them - doesn't always have friends...|||I will go with my own personal sense of what a good roommate would be- so if the shoe fits..  Someone who:  - doesn't always bug me to go out and hang with them - doesn't always have friends...|||However crummy or salty at times your posts are perceived b others, you always seem to end them with perfect humor.. Always make me laugh, lol   A very unique gift you have- even if you aren't...|||At some point, we all reach our thresholds in whatever endeavors we are a part of. In the case of MBTI, we start off with all this researching, comparing types, distinguishing how our types relate to...|||It is no longer about me, therefore, it has become what I HATE to hear from others regarding their own selves.  This includes:  1- always being negative 2- always seeking group help but without...|||This is where it all starts. At this point, you need to be creating your own lane. However, there may be a part of you that is addicted to drama or, how far you can get without going so deep. It's...|||A note of condolence does not require a reply. A Christmas card does not require a call of thank you. A get-well card does not require you to call and/or email everyone who signed it.  Bottom line,...|||You sure you aren't at olive garden dipping pumpernickel bread into your pasta with tomato sauce? lol  I have never heard of chocolate biscuits though.|||Intuition is realizing that the OP, whether ENTP or not, is only pulling your chain... This dude does it all the time and poor people fall for it all the time as well. The OP is not asking a...|||I am about to get deep here- although this is not always the case.  On the flip side of having the need to lean on others, is that you seek validation in what you are feeling is normal and...|||What you are suffering from is called over-dependency. It's not necessarily a bad thing but there must be a balance. And not to be harsh to other posters but since you specifically asked for advice,...|||I also think this will explain a lot to those who have this desire to be either P/J types, but in reality, should well embrace their own..  IP - IPs are far more serious inwardly than they appear...|||This is the perfect video. Unlike most drabby folk giving only facts, she actually entertains with real life stories of how married couples both use their P vs J. She goes on to explain how P vs J...|||Now I know why liberals act the way they do. They keep being poked and instigated like some animal in a cage...|||StableSun35  You are spot on. I actually wanted to fill in that gap but that first post was such a blackout post that I rarely come back to these. It takes a lot out of me..  But to further...|||I believe we must put some context into all of this, especially for others trying to understand beyond our own personal experiences.  Some people in general just don't like crowded areas- no matter...|||One is made into an INFJ. If you are not fully executing all of the traits, you are then representing another type. And just as easily, you can UNbecome an INFJ...  How many youtubers do you see...|||Again,  He came by a couple days ago and you hugged, exchanged I love youze, and kissed how many times? Everything is right in front of you but it seems that no matter how many times you receive...|||Let's turn it up a notch!     Tofufu, you are doing it again. I am talking to you as if I am living your reality. You hyping yourself up and you don't even know this. You are trying to find resolve...|||I PM'd you back.  Remember, you said you would be open to getting back. As I stated in our message, you understand every aspect of your own faults and how they affected both him and the...|||#1 Realize that you came to an INFJ section looking for relationship advice. This means, you will be given deeper insight, especially from the INFJ male- since your BF is a male. There is no other...|||I am not looking for advice but just sharing my outward sensing process.  Recently, as most things occur with me, I have been putting things together. As a creative type, I don't think linearly so...|||My virtual ENFJ mentor, Greg Plitt.  Cut the fat out of your life!   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3KLs9e0Ldc4|||As a youtuber, you have a responsibility when using your voice to provide information that directly impacts the mindset and lives of people..    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQLHSWbW79Q|||You find this thread bizarre because you are a T for thinker. You proudly sport your INTP title, but seem to not want to respect the divided lines. You are not designed to understand the Fe emotional...|||Just like in real life, you have crappy loser friends- if you have any. Quality friends will motivate you and pick you up. Find people who are excited about life and actually DO things. If you don't...|||I'm pulling cards today and asking everyone- on a big picture level, how many INFJs actually care about this? We like to seek and recognize patterns, right? So, how many INFJs do you really think...|||Seeking patterns is easy, but execution is extremely difficult. However, execution is all the only option we have because there is no easy path in life.  Edit**  To go along with the theme of...|||Exactly how I feel. I can bring up a subject matter and they can break things down logically. Just when things start getting good and I introduce Fe for feelings and human aspect, they lose steam....|||I will have to get back to you in the morning after I have had my coffee.. Too much thinking tonight but veddy interesting!|||Nice!|||I am all about helping others perfect their craft. Don't be shy, whenever you want to brush up, just private message me and we can set a time/date. And I won't judge you either- if that puts you at...|||Can you do a virtual reading? You can practice on me!|||Marv,  you just messed up and don't even know it! All that you wrote is literally music to my ears! :yeah: We could probably spend days chatting about your travels and me picking your brain on...|||It's called competence breeding confidence. It's a process in which you have to learn to push past the point of dwelling. This brain-jerk is a result of revisiting your remarks after all the dopamine...|||Marv HIGHT CONTEXT ALERT!!! (you will have to fill in some of the contextual view points as an INFJ without me spelling everything out)  Let me first break down who I am in terms of the INFJ...|||Are you prone to giving unsolicited advice? Alternatively, if you tend to avoid giving advice, why is that?   2 For 1 Answer: I used to have a bad habit of this. But as with anything, you learn to...'