'You're not even worth my time. Have a wonderful day.|||No there is nothing wrong with that. Actually your reasoning is why I like my villains. They generally have something that went wrong in their lives and they are seeking revenge against those who did...|||Don't worry Red, there's nothing wrong with that. Just listen to yourself. You said you can tell people's emotional status. That is a wonderful gift in itself. Give yourself time. You'll find the...|||That was me. At least have the respect to address the person you are talking to and not lump them all together. You did not simply tell us about that theory YOU claimed it to be true in your usage: ...|||Then why do people sacrifice themselves for a higher cause? Why did the Buddhist monks burn themselves during Vietnam? I've heard your point so many times before it almost sickens me. You are...|||I think he was reading a bit too much into your posts Tyler.|||Any job that becomes repetitive can really make me tired quickly. I like jobs where I'm actively helping people (mainly with emotional problems).|||The funny thing with me is I have to turn the music off sometimes because I get overwhelmed. And I don't really even listen to the music really loud. I generally have to be doing less intellectual...|||The female body is a thing of incredible beauty but I find myself attracted more towards the face than anything else. Most of the time, though, the girls with beautiful faces also have beautiful...|||The creation of symbol systems is merely a part of the way most NF's express to others (and themselves) what they perceive or intuit. For instance I used the symbol of the web to express my...|||Yeah I always felt sorry for them too. Especially the ones like Dr. Doom and Darth Vader. They had really crappy lives and always seemed to have the world/reality against them. I guess all of my...|||Yeah I never liked Superman or Spiderman either. Vader seemed almost like a force of nature, something powerful and unavoidable.    Exactly! I don't like a lot of villains but, like you said, the...|||Yep. Couldn't have said it any better. :proud:|||People are usually cruel because they are afraid of the pain that they, themselves, feel. They are driven too far by their egos to even consider to sit down and talk about it. So they like to take it...|||Yeah I can see that. Lex was put through a lot growing up. As for the friends, that's kinda another thing that irked me about the heroes. The villains always seemed to operate on their own and I did...|||When I was growing up and most kids would play as the hero, I would play as the villain. For some reason I would always gravitate more towards those characters than the heroic ones. Now, the thing I...|||Here are a few good examples: Today I was walking by the phone, and it rang. Instantly in my mind I thought it was my grandparents. It was. I had no reason to think it was them but it just came to...|||Amen dude. I can totally agree with that.|||Welcome sister INFJ!|||The thing is I seriously doubt that this individual is an INFJ. INFJ's particularly like to preserve the peace and be harmonious. This individual does not. Also INFJ tend not to show emotion to just...|||It's not really that I'm indecisive, it's just that I don't care. I'm apathetic about a lot of things in life except for the things I perceive as truly mattering.|||I wish I could be that way. However, having observed the behaviors of most people I know that I can only be friendly towards them. Not friends. Simply put the behavior of a lot of people (especially...|||Well I did pretty much the exact same thing. I've never really pursued much in life in depth. As my father says all the time about our family we are A jack of all trades, but a master of none.|||I've got a lot of people I know. But no one I really can call a true friend. It's similar to the topic of true love with me. I have yet to find a true friend and I seriously wonder if I ever will.|||Yeah I'm a health nazi though so I don't do comfort foods. Unless you consider apples, pumpkin seeds, and water comfort foods. Those are just my snack foods.|||I dunno. I'm not one to wish I could change a lot about myself. I mean my weaknesses are who I am. Even though they do limit me it's who I am. If I didn't have this weakness I would have that. Life...|||And you know for a fact this is an INFJ? I'm not doubting your story I've just never really heard of an INFJ acting that way. Chances are they've got a really negative personal life.|||Yeah I totally forgot to mention the high I get from working out. Good ol' endorphins have saved me many times when struggling through stuff.|||Naw dude your just expressing your F. For instance, like Decided, I enjoy emotional highs. But at the same time I'm a notorious speed demon. Going  fast gives me a pleasant feeling. That's just...|||Yeah I've been trying to do a lot of that lately. I get a lot of premonition-like impulses. Normally when I get these feelings I don't act on them but they end up being right. I'm really going to try...|||Thanks dudes. It's good to be here.|||Yes, I totally wish sometimes I could step outside of myself. I really believe that I have some degree of ADD. My thoughts are almost constantly going. Unfortunately, my thoughts can tend to be...|||Thanks sooo much Holly and Red Riding!  @ Holly: I've read a bunch of your other posts and they've been extremely uplifting for me. Especially the one on how depression doesn't make you a freak....|||All things are a progression of what has been. How could anyone not feel the way I feel, being who I am and having had lived out the unique experiences my life has had in it thus far? Yes, your focus...|||Yeah, I get that feeling a lot. I get soo worried that if I act in a certain way people will think that's how I always act or make assumptions based on that one action.  That must be nice to have...|||Not My Religion I donx92t want your religion. Ix92m hard enough on myself as it is. I didnx92t ask you to die for me. A noble ideal twisted by sadists and perverts.  I donx92t want your Yahweh. You...|||Thanks so much EvilByte! Your words mean a lot to me! I know I'm complaining a lot but it is just so hard. I've been holding onto hope for sooo very long. The only relationship I ever had with a girl...|||Searching, observant, sad, emotional, and wanting.|||I speak from experience: It is extremely hard. Especially when you become attached to someone when you've only just met them.|||I keep getting the feeling, based upon what I see and read, that my want of love is something that can never be truly filled because of the nature of other people. Do any other INFJ's experience...|||I see orange when I hear anger. Normally you would think red, but I don't see red. Also, I don't respect anger. So when someone is yelling at me I automatically become rebellious towards them.|||Yeah in retrospect I can see how I rushed romantic issues. It's just like you said though, I've never had a truly comforting relationship with someone so I want it so bad I kinda unload up front.  ...|||1. How are you today? Not good. Need a beautiful, smart, kind female in my life.  2. What are you thinking of right now? That there is no way I could possibly prepare for the Bio. Exam I have on...|||You know your an INFJ when you kill a snake when you were younger and cried about it for days. You know you're an INFJ when you put back a baby bird that has fallen out of the nest and the momma...|||Yeah. I NEED someone though. I was A-sexual for a period of my life (or I told myself I was). I was just fooling myself. I really need someone to hold and be intimate with. Will I ever get that...|||Good advice again. I just wish I could help a girl and show her that I want to be romantically involved with her at the same time. As for the overeagerness, I've had it explained to me like this: I'm...|||Haha thanks. All points were valid and well said.  But maybe I should clear something up. I started talking to her a few months before I even knew she had a boy friend. She started venting to me...|||Trying to find someone beautiful (outside and in) who wants me for who I am.|||Well I think it's because he provides a stabilizing force in her life. They first started dating right after she moved to my town (that was two years ago). I think she's afraid to leave him. And...|||Go ahead. I'm all ears.'