'Indiana Solo - this is a forum that is the better of several places to get a perspective from the ISTP. Of course, individual conscious choice negates preferences do a significant degree. However, I...|||Any ISTPs here in a relationship with an INTJ? I'm curious because of the ENxP/INTJ and IxTP/ENTJ paradigm that I'm considering.   I know that I feel affection for ENTPs and would not pursue...|||INTJs - do you have an ENTP friend, and the dynamic described as Each of them think the other is <i>their</i> pet.  I can't take credit for that assessment, as I read it somewhere else, but I'm...|||What's your Se like? Obsessive/repetitive? (!curiousity!)|||But I'm serious! I see a shadow on her face sometimes, and she doesn't make any playful political, socioeconomic, or biological jokes.  If I deliberately leave an opening, would you appreciate it,...|||I love you too...!  Do I need to worry when entps STOP being playful?|||I love my entp friend!!!  That is all.|||We're very good at tracing lies. We don't even pay attention to you - its your body language, the mileage on your car, whether you brought anything to give your relatives...   Did you find out...|||FOMO?  It seems interesting that he didn't understand that you wanted exclusivity. That sounds like a conceptual boundary that was completely jarring and not aligned with yours.   You see, it...|||If I may ask, was it related to attitude or opportunity or both? The pairing is great when it works, but I guess I'm asking about pre-meditation. At the moment, I'm completely open to a healthy ENFP...|||I agree with the above factors previously mentioned. Its important to remember that rationals will often look at feasibility and practicality as parts of any situation. I had someone recently suggest...|||Not at all. I've accepted the fact that I have emotions ><   With my entp friend, I've noticed that the guarded politeness and social appropriateness connects everyone in her world, so she's...|||Hello, I can definitely see that, but I can't quite express it. The next paragraphs won't really make sense.  Part of it is that Ti-Ti; my entp friend is playful on words/concepts. However, with...|||Protecting me (haha, from her father!) or protecting her values - thus distancing herself. Just a weird thought. I've met only one other guardian estj and what characterized her was a structured form...|||I was just scrolling up and read this - how does the paranoid manifest - self-questioning self-values?|||Normally there's a Ask a relationship question section, and in light of my subsequent post, I find it VERY amusing there isn't one in the ESTJ section.   I met a estj female; we hit it off on our...|||Apparently she just wanted to see the horror/reaction on my face. Seriously?  Her advice for a lot of situations I ask her about is very empirical - test the waters, etc. My position is based on...|||Sorry another ENTP question - we're friends and she (ENTP) licked my cheek. Nothing to be concerned about? Just typical playing between wolf-cubs?|||Manifestation of OCD/neat-freak in ENFP - possible, or / and anyone relate?|||Given the low percentage of the population, where did that statistical bias come from? You're remarkably lucky.|||What was the original question? I forgot. Scrolled back. Remembered.  It was about your correct interpretations of INTJs and meaningful relationships. That doesn't necessarily mean they're close...|||Where are ENFPs found if its a small town of ~200K-1M people?  The only one I've met so far was a stand up comedian, it was at a bar/club, and we ended up picking each other up. Would like to meet...|||What approach we like might not be realistic. Personally, I feel that having it direct and open is probably the best thing since we're quite daft with understanding or noticing these interactions. At...|||What are you mistaken for when the lighting isn't good, or there's just glance without sufficent focus? Are you named or labelled any pet names?|||We can do select, particular purposes as well. But essentially, in romance, there is very intense meaning. Have you been pedestal'd or imaged yet?|||I'm still trying to find time to really read your post... the kind of reading where you can actualy absorb it and try it out... thank you|||I wanted to re-post the ending: if anyone is unfamiliar, I posted last year about a stunning and amazing night with an ENTP female that I'll never forget.  ...|||I don't like to feel it, so I mostly disconnect by ensuring I don't have access to the data. As a personal example, I've more or less stayed away from my Family for several years now. I think what...|||Hello, I think this is an INFP or INFJ question, whether it comes from the wellspring of self-feeling or actual empathic field induction. (Sorry, those are the best words I can find to describe...|||I realized just at the end of my law degree.  I wasn't aware of anything that I liked before I began university. I was completely blank. I didn't have a plan. Those years might as well have been...|||If I had to describe the negative aspects of the ENFP, it is that they're always looking for what could be and never being satisifed with what is.  Corrolary to that, I believe I've experienced...|||They're very structured in their thinking. Think of precision to the ultimate extreme, even to the point of truth that is useless, such as one inconsistency in an argument. This can lead to fallacies...|||Has this progressed to where you've living in the same area?|||Oh that is so amusing. It looks like he's trying to control the situation.|||Apologies for the resurrection (brushes off the dirt). How did that go?|||ffs you enfps really think you can conceal your motivations are you serious you're leaking microexpressions, your actions are so obvious you're better off screaming it (at least we'd be distracted!),...|||You may want to recheck your scores. :)|||I do feel its more natural mainly because the two people are introverts; like the primary Ne interaction, we'd sit back and let them talk. However, I've noticed some benefactor or ascendent aspects...|||But while we're on that topic - remember the introversion/extroversion rule that Jung put together? Without logic and feelies together - which is a pretty good paradigm that most humans would be OK...|||Sorry; read as far as the first two sentences and needed to respond - we're OK we're cool, I'm just very curious. Like a bubbling happiness. Definitely not sad, discontent or anything. Slightly...|||That last is true, particularly if there's a task at hand. I think you've directly answered my question. I thank you from the bottom of my heart, because I now know I can throw the additional...|||Nice to know, but we've already been there :) We do have a lot of passionate debate between us, but I didn't really think we'd go back there, because if we did, there would be a lot of questions that...|||Anyone got a function theory on the clash between INFP and INTJ? Friends - maybe close friends - but the current position from her is that she feels I'm dismissing her opinion and she wants to grab...|||Feels like he's had some terrible relationships in the past. Pretending you're indifferent to the details by agreeing might help. We're often uncomfortable with who we are; we see the world in...|||For those of you dating or married to INTJs, I have a question of some urgency - what do you like and dislike most about INTJs?  For the INTJs who are curious, the reverse would also be useful:...|||More like a guided missile cruiser (with full logistical support and reloads) at your back.  I have a question: What makes ISFPs recognize situations and face facts? e.g. I'm being taken advantage...|||Not really, things came to a head and we ended up in bed. She snuck away at 4am, to simplify things. We apparently shouldn't be doing this because we're not in a relationship (which I agree with),...|||Hello, I can definitely contribute to this. Se is our inferior. In my perspective, its unsophisticated and overindulged. I don't know if I'll ever out-refine or develop it. Food is one of those...|||Thanks I didn't see that. I will repost there. I'm not sure what you mean by telling her what I'm feeling. She already knows what I've described.|||I keep getting into fights with an ex-lover who I think is an ISTP. This whole prose is written in a positive, not a negative outlook. I like her. I do not hate her.  Here's how the conversation...'