'Hard to say how or when it happened, but at some point the scales tipped over and I started to trust that the more authentic me was good enough. I feel like I can make everyone like me if I want to...|||What matters, and why?  No other question really matters in comparison (ha)... :)|||My first assumption is that any person can achieve anything. That's my starting point. Then in the next step I consider the most obvious realities, and move the possibilities backwards, so to say. If...|||Annoyed and guilty that I'm not feeling more (for a girl)...  I've realised that it's most likely related to a bigger issue, like ADD. Gotta get on that.|||You seem to be lacking empathy, which might explain your view on people and also your post. Because of that I don't really feel like explaining anything, but you take care. :)|||Whatever the opposite of ENFP is :D  Sincerely, an ENFP|||Oh, but why judge all people based on a few? Sure, many interactions are boring and are unlikely to become anything other than that, but that's only a real issue if you act like you're interested...|||Hello fellow ENFP 9w8 SX/SO! :D  Well at first I just did a bunch of tests, and I got ENFP on all of them except one test that I didn't like much anyway which said INFP.  Then later when I...|||I think Wiz is onto something, because the reason I don't have a problem with this isn't that nobody ever tries to argue with me, but rather that when it happens it isn't a problem. :) And I hate...|||What do you do when someone pushes you over the edge?  Honestly, I don't think that has happened. It certainly might have since my memory is complete crap, but I really don't remember ever...|||Sure, you could focus on trying to ignore it, but this approach assumes that the truth is bad enough that ignoring it is worth the effort. It's not. The truth is actually not hard to handle. The...|||Depends how interesting the people we're talking about are, obviously. All people are interesting to me in the very beginning, but it varies how long it lasts. If there's a place filled with awesome...|||I want to help you, but ironically I completely fail to empathize with this type of embarrassment, which makes it quite hard. I basically thrive on awkwardness in social situations, and also the game...|||Wait, what? That happens? What's wrong with people sometimes?? :(  Thank you for this, as I think this explains a few situations I've had. Although, if a guy shows his emotions to you early on,...|||My mind is dying because of this. My creativity is gone. Thanks, people. :(  Now I posted this like it's a joke, but it's not, it's sad as fuck. This is why I have to start to really explore the...|||NIHM Best videos ever, both of them! I re-winded several times. Pure enjoyment. :D Thanks!|||I almost always have fun when I go out to bars nowadays. Walking up to girls always ends up being interesting somehow. Even if we don't connect at all it's still interesting. If I fail completely and...|||Don't like her either, but I had to look at an interview on Youtube to remember why. It seems like she's faking a lot and/or trying too hard all the time. And this was in an interview, so it's...|||This may not be relevant to the guy you're talking about at all, but when I was younger I often didn't even consider if a girl liked me or not until it was made perfectly clear. I was too focused on...|||Boom.  http://images4.fanpop.com/image/photos/22100000/I-am-number-four-Promo-timothy-olyphant-22127198-1333-2000.jpg|||Do what you feel like doing (regardless of your fears), and then move on if it doesn't lead anywhere, which you objectively should've done a while ago. Why should you put more time and effort on her...|||ENFP, but I do this all the time on this forum. If someone makes a thread asking for advice, then what I'm always thinking is that I don't even know them, so how could I possibly give them accurate...|||Interesting. I think to me it's mostly about the emotional cues, because not putting too much thought into someone's words is actually my natural inclination. Words can be said in smooth...|||I don't have an issue with it, but others might think I do. This doesn't mean that I always learn my lesson, but rather that I learn it when the lesson matters. It's rarely clear to me which action...|||People don't drain me, having to focus on things that are not interesting drains me. If a situation is boring then I want to make it more fun, either by somehow making changes to my situation, or by...|||I'm the last person that should try to answer, but also I don't care :D  A wild guess based on nothing but my own experience would be something that has to do with smiling. How easy it is for a...|||One issue I have with picking a career is that I always know that something better than the choice I have in mind is realistically possible, I just haven't come up with it yet. I then fail to accept...|||ENFP  Dating coach, or at least something with many similarities to that. I'm actually not sure if I need my dream occupation to be a paid one though, so my real dream is probably not definable...|||Woah! I... I'm afraid I can't play along. I love to flirt, but only when I see possibilities, only when I get a sense for the real chemistry, and right now there's no way I could have that sense. If...|||Yes!!! She's so amazing! :D I really love everything about her, and not just based on her acting but rather mostly on how she is in interviews and so on. I was gonna say she's been the only one like...|||I barely have any knowledge on this subject at all, but isn't this a case where you don't do it if you're unsure? In the same way that someone who's unsure if they want a tattoo or not probably...|||Don't have any celebrity crushes right now, but here are some pics anyway =) Love Odette Annable's dress so had to pick that one of her :D ...|||I can't allow myself to do much gaming anymore. Also trying out new games isn't as fun anymore either. The most recently released game I had a great time with is Assassin's Creed II which came out in...|||Go fuck yourself.  Never mind the above, I'm just sorting out the prudes. :)|||Being yourself isn't very normal (or that's what I believe is true in my culture anyway), and because of this I think I'm not that normal. However if everyone were themselves then I'd likely be quite...|||I don't know if a person is ready for a relationship if they think this way. This also seems like something that is easier to learn while still single, but maybe I'm wrong. One thing is certain, it's...|||What I tend to do with girls who are taken that I'm interested in, is to make sure that we're both aware that we both like each other. And when I say making sure I actually only mean intuitively,...|||Do. Do something. Do something that isn't easy. Do something that isn't the result of an impulse. Do something that makes you grow. Do something for someone else. Do something for love. Do...|||If you feel like you have to put in effort to keep the conversation going, or even feeling like you should keep it going whatsoever, then doing so won't be worth the trouble in my opinion. Say what...|||Hi and welcome! Wow I feel like I know you already!!!|||Olet hauska! Haluatko napatakupin kahvia kanssani joskus?  Heh maybe I will! Okay I've probably de-railed your thread enough now... =)|||Ooh, that's what you meant :tongue: Cool, hehe, well it's understandable because finnish is completely insane :wink: I really should learn a few phrases though, so I can flirt with finnish ladies in...|||LuckyWanderer http://img-2011-12.tapatalk.com/d/12/09/13/aqezu3a2.jpg|||jajaja :D okay, I'll believe you, cause ignorance is bliss  yep, gotta represent our country, and trolling is obviously the best way to do it!  I'm listening to Wheatus - Teenage Dirtbag now,...|||My listening patterns are way too random to even answer...  so SWEEEDEEEN!! :laughing: is all I have to say!  Okay, I'll link a song because it's so original and amazing and nobody will like it...|||I don't think I even want to go to bed early anyway. I only really care about how much sleep I get when the next day quite likely will bring opportunities to connect with women (that I either know...|||I don't know my opinion yet, so I will try to form it throughout the post, but it will likely change after posting as well. Thanks.  No action is wrong without context. True or false? I'm very...|||You problem is taking action, and thus:  Taking action = Success Not doing so = Failure  If we're talking about chatting up girls, then I may have had some regrets about the details of the...|||He's being an asshole, and you should ideally move on. If you want to make sure before doing that though, then you can send him a text where you tell him how he's behaving (like an asshole), and...|||Desolan Sure sure, I simply forgot about that because oil was on my mind, and the principle for me is 99.9% the same.'