I can relate to almost all of what was said, yeah.|||This was one of the reasons the thread was started in the first place. INFJs have curious range of skills, if someone were to ask what am I good at, I'd probably stare at that person unable to...|||Pretty true. LOL  :)|||Okay maybe one or two things.   Also, please feel free to share on what you think you're especially good at.|||Except for the unwanted part, I feel the same way.   The more I explain, the more misunderstood I become. The less I explain, the more misunderstood I am as well. It's just frustrating and sad.|||I lost faith in people a lots of time. So how I dealt with it was to not have any high expectations of them in the first place.  But, strangely, when I appreciate them as who they are, then I have...|||I dislike conversations that often begins with 'Have you had your dinner? How was the trip to here? How's your studies?' By itself it wasn't bad, I use them too sometimes as a starting point to get...|||Very insightful. This will be useful!|||LOL ertertwert! I can relate to this man. There was so many instances where I knew what others are thinking but didn't show that I did, while inside it bugged the hell out. What's worse is that based...|||Why do you think that is for you?|||Well, there's people out there who has big trouble figuring me out even though none has ever told me that explicitly. Most, however, for whatever reason, perceived me as too much a nerd who's...|||Let's get a few off the top of mahead:  1) Once when I helped a friend see things from a different light about a big trouble he was having, seeing his face change from that from total anger and...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5xVHea5REzY  A dedication to friends|||Friends   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5xVHea5REzY|||I like to think as life as a great journey. There are many things in the world I am grateful for, but rarely anything more so than friends met along the way. Here's a dedication to special ones of...|||Just recently changed my mind, I don't find myself that amazing. But friends I appreciate, they ARE truly special.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HmlQNmBF4Wo&feature=related  Hopefully no one has posted this yet.|||I'm with Runescribe's mentor here.   Type Insights - Part 3|||Here     here|||No Runescribe, it certainly didn't come off that way.  I had big goals at some point in the past. Being mindful about how I didn't live up to those in addition to other values did weighed down on...|||This is true for me as well. I always felt that there's so many things about me that others just don't know about, even among close friends, that my strengths and talents are always eclipsed by my...|||I suck at relationship but it does seem she wanted you to go for her...but I don't know.|||There are plenty.  But what makes me feel happy about right now...is this strangely profound and serene sense of centeredness, after a day of hard work chasing something I think will bring eventual...|||You use MBTI type indicator to justify your behavior, which is not meant to be used that way. Types are preferences, strong patterns, but not all-descriptive of who you are, meant as a tool to...|||I may have quite a few things to say actually. It depends on what your current thoughts are, Prometheus, after seeing all the comments we've given you.|||I've this bud with ENTP preferences who has the same characteristic as you (succeeding against impossible odds), yours are probably stronger though. About impressing others, I knew it may or may not...|||Prometheus, I've never been through what you've been through, but it feels natural that you'd want to repay her in your own way, and I can see she means a lot to you.   Now you've gone to the...|||How long was it since the incident by the way?|||IMO, you must have reasons why you intend to meet her again...which are what exactly?    Because you want the feeling of she taking care of you again?   Just being friend with her? A genuine...|||An image to uphold - those are the words that I'm looking for. See my ENTP bud always had this vision of how he imagine himself to be, but never actually came close to achieving it. Even when pointed...|||Not sure about others, but I'd love to see you write in a very personalized way that is you through and through...just like how you would write in these forums. Communicating authenticity is really...|||Yes, I can definitely relate to the above points, anagrams.  In my experience with my ENTP friend, he was also trying to change me to his way of thinking, as he has always done so successfully with...|||It's not exactly related to the topic at hand. But I thought I'd chime in, might be insightful to some...  My best friend was an ENTP since young. He was quite the intellectual, we'd go on talking...|||When you realize you choose what to reveal, when to reveal, to whom you reveal to.|||YouTube - [HQ] Love Story Taylor Swift meets Viva La Vida Coldplay?Piano Cello?by Jon Schmidt|||Looking at your signature (100% J), I'm not surprised. Envy envy envy:dry:|||you ENFPs are great yourselves. the last ENFP that came along...boy was she special alright|||That's got to be the greatest compliment there ever was for an INFJ. :laughing:|||Sometimes it's like what you said. Sometimes the other way round is equally true...|||Ah, you've put it into words what I feel all the time. :wink:Another drawback for me with using 'to-do' lists is that I tend to do whatever items solely for the sake of completing them asap, so that...|||Here's another from the same source:  'The Tao that can be described is not the real Tao.'|||I always tend to find myself spending loads of time replenishing my energy, just to reflect, to think, alone, doing random stuffs of whatever comes to mind. I just lost track of time, being in sort...|||'There is no God, because there is nothing but God,'  Tao Te Ching|||In retrospect, I don't think my mom is unhealthy in any sense. She means well, and coming from a poor family background who values hard work and has experienced lots of hardship,  she tends to be...|||I'm always a sucker for themes like this    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VOIE0D7uUS0|||Dad: INTP Mom: ESFJ Sister: I/ESFJ Bro: ISFP  Rarely talk much with siblings. We kinda drifted apart a long time ago, there's just no connection there. Although my brother has the tendency to do...|||You know it's awesome when I first visit PerC and the very top post of the page is none other than 'INFJs are amazing...':blushed:  What a way to welcome a new INFJ fellow and make him feel at home...