'First attempt failed. It got really bad, so we stopped following the rule, and went back to what worked. Three weeks later the manager tries again to put the policy in place, she failed to learn the...|||I have failed at all attempts at the light side solution, but I may be no good at it.   I am doing Work to the Rule, and letting the entire system break down. Letting it all fail I believe is the...|||I work at a computer repair shop, as the senior repair tech. I have a new manager who is trying to bring back a policy the district manager came up with years ago. It is a terrible policy, but I can...|||You are right, INTJs are inferior Extroverted Sensors. Extroverted Sensing always teams up with Introverted Intuition, but INTJs Introverted Intuition is more developed then the Extroverted Sensing.|||I am not sure if this was pointed out earlier, but one thing you might not understand about INTJs, is that we are not a judging type like the ENTJs. Sure our last letter is a J, but that is only...|||Male INTJ here. I always had a hard time trying to loose weight, I only lost weight when I had a more physical job, and would gain weigh when I got a desk job.  Three months ago I started eating...|||I have a similar experience, found out a few months ago that my body was resistant to the hormone insulin. Terns out having high insulin causes your body to try to conserve energy, and drivers you to...|||This is the key to the issue. Nothing else can be worked on until his depression or lack of motivation is fixed. Fix the underlying issue and then work on the other issues.  How you fix that...|||This is most definitely behavior of a INTJ in their late teens to mid 20s. An INTJ will start to develop their Introverted Feeling Cognitive Function in there late teens, and it won't finish...|||How are we to know if the king of Babylon, Nebuchadnezzar ll is a infj. There is not that much info about him, because he lived a really long time ago.|||I am trying to do more hiking, cooking, and reading. It can be difficult to break my old habits. Coming home and turning on the TV is so easy, but I know it is a waist of time.|||I am an INTJ in my late 20s. After work and on my days off I find myself watching TV, and browsing the Internet to recharge my energy. This has been my go to for 15 years, I believe it started as an...|||I believe this no emotional attachment to your ideas, is unique to INTJ. The rest of the temperaments have an emotional attachment, some at different levels. Some see being right as being better then...|||I have never had an attachment to my own idea or opinion. I have always been more concerned about having the correct opinion, then it being the one I came up with. If someone shows me I am wrong...|||I work as the senior tech at a computer repair shop. My boss knows the best way to do my job, even though he has never done my job before, and does not know the first thing about fixing computers. He...|||This is a very difficult subject to explain.  When I see clothes or home decorations I like, I know that I like them, but I do not know why. When I see something I don't like, I also don't usually...|||I have been working at a computer repair shop for the last few years. My job is fixing all the computers that come in. We had two old techs who were great at there jobs, but they both left in the...|||It might still work out someday, but right now nothing is happening.   My big issues is that I can't read her. It always seems like I am just seeing a mask, and only once in a while I get a glimpse...|||My mind can't get past that you are allergic to cats, but your family has inside cats. This tells me way more about your family then most of the info you provided.|||That sounds about right for a INTJ and INFJ. It sounds similar to me and a INFJ that I know, except we never got together.|||Because when things go bad, one person will try to stab the other in the back.|||I do believe in what you said.   My point started from the Is marriage an illogical option thread. That thread started with the concept that Marriage is out dated and useless. I took the opposite...|||I always heard the 50% statistic, and never looked to much into it. Thanks for the info.|||We don't really have statistics on breakup rates of those in a long term committed relationship (at least not that I know of). That makes it hard to compare them to people who are married. 50%...|||Took your suggestion and created a new thread for it.   http://personalitycafe.com/intj-forum-scientists/418194-sex-outside-marriage-illogical-counter-marriage-illogical-option.html#post13390242|||I made this post in the thread Is marriage an illogical option? Quality suggested it should be its own Thread. http://personalitycafe.com/intj-forum-scientists/417578-marriage-illogical-option.html...|||I would like to put forth a counter argument. No rational person would have sex with someone out side of marriage, because of the increased risk.  No protection is 100% full proof. Every time you...|||I am a male INTJ.  I have never dated an INFJ before, but I have been an acquaintance of an INFJ female for almost a decade. Out of all the people I know she is one the greatest mystery for me. I...|||There was a line of people who waited all night at best buy for the new iphone six. Some people were in line for the Iphone 6 +, and were told the night before that the store did not have any, only...|||I work in the IT field, and I don't own a tablet, or a smartphone. Except for my desktop computer, my house is mostly tech free. I think technology can be great thing if use properly, but it is...|||In socionics the p and j are switched in introverts. So a INFJ in MBTI is a INFP in socionics. If you are an extrovert then MBTI and Socionics are the same.|||I was great at corporate level tech support. You are dealing with other professionals, who are not emotionally invested in the equipment you are working on. They just called, because it is their job....|||My work keeps pushing me to the breaking point. Have yet to snap, but every day I get closer and closer.  I have 100 super important things that have to be done, and only enough time to do 60 of...|||I have a friend who is a ENFJ, and he was practicing a speech in front of me. He is a very good speaker, but I had some advice for him (I also give public speeches from time to time, and I am good at...|||This is very true. I have friends whose results will change based on who was with them when they took the test. Some people are more easily influenced by those around them.|||Well you just describe two different friendship I have had with female INFJs.|||I have to know someone for a very long time, and have complete confidence in them before I would open up to them emotionally. Showing someone who you are, and being rejected is one of the most...|||She kissed you, while living with her boyfriend, and they have a lease together? I would like to point out that this does not speak very well of her loyalty. Someone who is willing to cheat for you,...|||I love hiking and camping.|||Does the INTJ know?|||INTJ Here. I have known a number of great INFJs, but was never interested in them. Why I was never interested is difficult to fully explain, but I will give it a try.   When I talk to a INFJ for a...|||How old is he? No one ever gives the age of those involved, and that is a important thing, especially when it involves an INTJ in a relationship.  An INTJs introverted feeling does not start to...|||There is no mental thought process with Introverted Intuition. It is not something that can be easily described, or explained to other how to do it. It seems to me that Introverted Intuition is...|||Also note that Isaiah 14:4 says That thou shalt take up this proverb against the king of Babylon, and say, How hath the oppressor ceased! the golden city ceased! So the chapter is a proverb against...|||How you have fallen from heaven, morning star, son of the dawn! You have been cast down to the earth, you who once laid low the nations! You said in your heart, 'I will ascend to the heavens; I will...|||The title Lucifer appears one time in the Bible. From the context it applied to a king of Babylon, and not Satan. Lucifer - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia|||Lucifer in the Bible refers to a king of Babylon, and there is not much info about this dead Babylonian king, so I don't know.|||So much of what I do is a battle with the Mind and Heart, both wanting different things. I believe that the Mind is stronger, but the heart is more stubborn. Given enough time the Mind can cave to...|||What you do is, right away ask them If you had both of your hands cut off, and put into a giant pile of hands, could you find your hands?  If they try to answer your question then make a note...|||np. Glad I could help with understanding an INTJ.'