I don't understand it.  I've been in a long-term relationship before, cohabited, said the words leading up to this, yet dating again has bought this up a few times and resulted in the termination...|||I relate most to the Lannisters and Arryns, in theory. I've roleplayed being in a banner house in both houses. What can I say? I like to write.  I enjoyed the scenes with Tyrion and Bronn,...|||No, but then we're not in contact with most of them. My mother left hers as soon as she could and my father was effectively disowned by his.  Father: ISFP  Mother: ISTJ - I can't decide, it's...|||The more I think about it, the more I think loving yourself is being open to exploring yourself.   Your relationship with yourself can be akin to beginning a healthy relationship with others; you...|||I never understood it before either until a few years ago, here's how I see it:  Having little inclination to follow the crowd and instead doing what I thought made most sense or what I thought was...|||I've been thinking some more since I wrote the post above. Listing with tritypes is difficult, hence why I refrained, I think instincts make a huge difference. For example with the 3w4/4w3 example...|||No tritypes, this order is not specific and is mostly anecdotal, which happens to line up with the descriptions.  When healthy and older:  Types I like most: 4, 7 Types I like least: 2, 1, 3 ...|||Yeah, sure. Only if it's a lottery.|||hearmeroar101  I clicked on your profile. You're only 19. This seems a good period in which to figure out your strengths and weaknesses, it will come naturally anyway. Everyone eases into this;...|||hearmeroar101  Well, no, I'd find that funny then.  You've stated your reasoning in your post though; it would take someone who knows that or generally finds self-depreciating humour funny to...|||Ah I thought you mentioned them because they've factored in previously, are linked, and you see a real chance that you'll be affected by this situation mentally. It depends on what you meant by...|||The situation with his family seems accommodating, there's no problem being with someone who is of another religion or religion at all if you're not very religious and don't see yourselves being so;...|||Constantly? Ehh... How does that happen? That would be bothersome.  If you pointed things like that out every now and then, I'd find that hilarious - that example above wasn't loaded though.  I...|||I like quiet confidence, detecting that this person knows/is comfortable with who they are while also being open to new perspectives and pro-growth. These types of people can be mistaken as shy or of...|||All of them, but they could be adapted to any personality type :s  I suppose it's the interpretation and prioritisation that would make this more specific.  For me, the order is:  1....|||Green Girl  You answered your own questions. :tongue:  She maybe experiencing internal dissonance between her desire to connect or at least experiment with connecting, perceived lack of need to...|||Oh yeah... forget unsolicited advice, I get annoyed by questions as to what I am doing and why, I class a lot of everyday questions as obnoxious and interfering. It's made worse when you're talking...|||Most of this addresses asking for help but does touch upon unsolicited advice:  I take little offensively, it's definitely difficult to get to me, which renders most of the discussion moot. It's...|||More open? Yes.  Extroverted? Nope.  In general, I was always quite assertive and this could confuse people into thinking I was extroverted at some periods in my life until they observed me...|||xSFP   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOOy84fu2-k|||How many hours of sleep do you get?  - On average. - Yes, shut eye may count; the research is still relatively new though so elaborate in your reply.|||On Sundays, I'm more confused than ever. How confused is that? :confused:|||I read that all damn wrong LMAO.|||Kitaraah  ...1/10.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dioa5RpgPEk|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dioa5RpgPEk|||The whole concept makes me groan in annoyance. Why is it sacred exactly, because you share DNA and that comes with some sort of obligation for forced interaction and harmony? Well, all of that is...|||@lilysocks  The success of this interaction does seem to lie in how well formed their own identity is prior to engagement; or how I perceive this.  Your example was precisely what I was getting...|||I'm guessing you can relate to some of these too: have the brightness of your phone, computer, etc. way down (or use apps to control these, like I do), play music generally quietly, have pervasive...|||Mzku mjn_the_enfp lilysocks  To put this into perspective, I know I've had a good effect on some people's lives because they've told me so. It's the ones I hold close but are of a 'softer' or less...|||This thread: http://personalitycafe.com/infp-forum-idealists/876538-how-forward-you-when-you-like-someone.html  Yeah, the thread would suggest so but I think it would depend on whether the INFP...|||Lol, I was joking off the back of another thread. Of course it's possible.|||I always make it a point to take the test first therefore I didn't have any preference and it's one less way of causing the results to be biased. Any implications from the questions served as...|||Neutral.    Amused, mostly.    Competition usually implies there actually being... competition on strengths. In that case, I'd summarise by saying someone who is on your level.|||I can't imagine an INFP with an INFP. Wouldn't you just run away from each other, who makes the first move? It sounds good in theory, I'm sure, but in reality?  I couldn't date another INTJ, unless...|||INTJs, ever worry about the effect your mind is having on another person? Someone you care deeply about obviously, not strangers, and while you're healthy (or think you are) and not in involved in...|||I am an agnostic theist.  Essentially, I think there is potential for the existence of a supreme being however I don't think this is empirically confirmable; and it is a stance I no longer care to...|||Sounds like a words of affirmation love language or at least it must rate highly for him. Think of your tone, when it is especially bad, as being akin to him avoiding quality time with you for days...|||It's absurd when it is suggested only intuitives are interested in psychology, typology, etc. Extremely ridiculous. A bit like those questions in some MBTI tests that try to narrow down all video...|||http://i.imgur.com/7TlTREn.png  Enter the confessional booth.  http://img10.deviantart.net/41c2/i/2010/031/e/f/spainroma_in_confession_booth_by_wolframd.png  Tell me all your depraved sins. ...|||Wytch  XNTP  Messing. :laughing:|||The world isn't more divided than ever, they were playing polite all this time. /sarcasm - unless your idea of polite is extremely skewed.  Having too many children is annoying, fuck the arguments...|||XNFPs: Ne-Fi/Fi-Ne  XNTJs: Ni-Te/Te-Ni  The extroverted function for the XNFPs is a perceiving one, the extroverted function for the NTJs is a judging one; the latter is processing and...|||Exactly.  Just looking at your posts is tiring and I like ENFPs lol.|||Here are the main challenges I've noticed when communicating with ENFPs:  1. Bouncing from one topic to another; often this is due to being overwhelmed by too much data on one subject, preferring...|||Hahaha you googled her :laughing:   It's very confusing, particularly for people who are HFA or diagnosing women. It's difficult to say but I would think several conversations and more time spent...|||Doesn't the novelty/mystery/whatever wear off with a whole subforum full of INTJs? lol|||The number of times I've been called a weirdo for stereotypical N quirks... And then admired in the same breath from my Te influence LOL. Frustration, indeed.  I think that's the key word,...|||This.  ...So I won't start lol except for the one that came to mind when I looked at the thread title since I was just doing it. I have a habit of writing out letters/numbers in my mind with an...|||I have this problem all the time. It's given me a complex with one of my friends, where I devolve into repeating myself pedantically at times and observe this happening from inside my mind like a...|||That last part, it's that. I didn't communicate for a few months mainly because of this, it's there niggling away at me half way through what had started out as a good conversation. It's frustrating,...