'I didn't mean your inferior function is Se, I meant it to the OP.   But I can see how it would relate to Te too.|||So true! People who don't have to put a facade fascinate me cause that's very hard for me to do, especially in public. Though at the same time I've met people who put a facade that they do not put a...|||YES to being in tune with all the crappier sides of life  I hate when people move along their day as if everything is okay and there is not a care in the world. Be in a great mood, that's fine....|||More often than not, I click really well with sixes. However, if it's my first time meeting the six and they're disintegrating into three (or they just don't trust me), it can be very hard for me to...|||As a four, I appear more like a shy, hopeless child when I disintegrate into two. I need someone to hold my hand, walk me through every little emotion or thought I am having, tell me exactly how to...|||**sees word heart**  **thinks back to 7th grade INFP best friend with a username that had heart in it**  **concludes you are an INFP**|||What does her being an ISFJ have to do with anything?  Have you tried communicating your concerns and giving her a chance to improve? You've invested in her a bit, so maybe it'd be smart to see if...|||The way you speak out to the open with no specific person in mind gives me Sp/So vibes.  Personally, I am overly concerned with what's going on outside of me. What are other people doing? What are...|||LOL no I totally understand. It's confusing cause it's pulling me away by acting passive and disengaging. Maybe you can picture it as me wanting to walk forward and I'm being pulled backwards. I...|||You're raising some good dogs LOL, but yeah :blushed:|||She's also an ISFJ though. But I bet it's cause she's comfortable with me she doesn't put up a front and pretend to care LOL.|||They would cause they prefer the same functions. And it's fun getting your inferior function activated (Ne for ISXJs and Si for ENXPs). Also you know about socionics quadras? Alphas, deltas, gammas,...|||I mean my mom is SP/SX and she does that a lot. Like I can open up and want to talk about something but she'll just give me a blank face. And I'm like did you hear what I just said? And she gives me...|||Aren't dual relations the best type? I love interacting with my duals ENTPs personally.|||Read SP type 4 descriptions though. Cause they're very very specific.|||An ENFP and ISTJ couple is Rachel and Greg from the Crazy Ex Girlfriend TV show.|||Agree completely with this. It's not necessarily about age, but the same stage in life. Cause each and every stage changes you, so being with someone not in the same stage can get problematic for the...|||Withdrawing is very immediate for me. Fours are reactive in that way. It'd be nice to have someone encourage me to do whatever task I have to do, but other than that give me time. In that way, it...|||What is this movement about? It's not that simple to achieve dreams.|||INTJ.   At the moment, it's...   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KGqmFJyo2wA|||When you're SO/SP and don't know if you can relate cause you don't want love... However, I can see myself relating. At least I can relate for when I'm on a search for new friends.|||I have a really good friend who is INFP type 4 SO/SX. Y'all are great people|||It doesn't change. And anyone can be SP/SX. And why are you unhealthy? Aren't we all? LOL  If anything, I'd say SP type fours have the healthiest attitude out of the three. They can look a lot like...|||A few years ago, I needed the most hardcore practical advice and total invalidation of my feelings to truly feel supported. Now I still appreciate some serious guidance, but only when the time is...|||I think it's important to point out, SP four is the counter subtype of the fours, not your typical four. SO is the most four-like of the three. Maybe that's why you're not relating fully. Check out...|||Damn I can see the SP/SX screaming at me now that you mention it|||The problem for the prototypical Sp/Sx is that their Sp will ultimately not be fulfilled once they venture into the depths of intimacy with Sx. That's why there's futility in the wait they can feel...|||Sx/Sp climbs into the belly of the dog for the heck of it, to energize it, to make things more upbeat. Sp/Sx climbs into the belly to make it heavy, slow and dull it down.|||I relate to that. And the thing that hurts is I really really do want to catch up. I'm just not fast enough.|||I hate being So/Sp. I feel like I repel people. I never word anything the right way and I feel like that ties in with that instinct stacking. Maybe not.   I just wish people knew how much I...|||Same mother different child|||Two going into four is usually positive, transformative. They don't really experience the downs in emotionality. When you're upset, do you get clingy or angry?  Edit: Influences. That's hard.|||Well I'm an ISFJ and I guess my 4ness is based on Si? I do hate the feelings I get internally.   Why would they have it more difficult? As an Fe-user as well, even if I'm upset, seeing someone else...|||Heard this song on the radio today and I was like DAMN this is Sx/So. The way it ruptures unapologetically. Is Demi Lovato an Sx/So?    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-MsvER1dpjM|||One of my favorite songs, what instinct would this be? Sp/sx vibe going on I think     https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dy9nwe9_xzw|||Funny Wildest Dreams is my favorite Taylor Swift song. Lana is very subtle, and pulls back at the right places for a sensual effect, but even changing nice to a color would keep the subtlety and...|||Honestly see way too many assumptions. The last thing I think about when I meet someone is who they know. I'm terrible at making connections or knowing the right people. SO for me is like...|||.|||Oh I get what you mean. Though I'm not a huge album listener, I relate to Lorde's album on a personal level. Maybe cause Lorde is an So/Sp type 4 too? Liability and Loveless in particular speak...|||I would say ESTP and ENFJ regardless of gender, and ESFJ guys.  The beta quadra (who correlate to adolescents) ESTP, ENFJ, ISTP, INFJ are pretty fit and healthy based on my stereotypical...|||I think appearance is very important for many people, and it's a huge insecurity area. So I understand wanting to prove beauty. But all levels of stupidity are accepted. You can be yourself and admit...|||The classic unsure between INFJ / ISFP|||Lmao oh god, this is what happens when you haven't been in class since May|||Interesting, I definitely can see that.|||Probably not for Sx/Sp. The thing is syn-flow almost barely realize that people feel like outsiders. Things just flow more smoothly. It's almost like if you're an insider, you don't know it. You...|||Honestly the so/sx I know literally get along with anyone. They truly don't care who you are, they can connect. Group dynamics is so beta in socionics, I think many types are beyond groups and go for...|||Why is Trump contra-flow?|||It's about internal sensations. And past internal experiences are very important to understanding the current one we experience. That's how I can best explain it. And if you're very attuned to what...|||For example, here's an extremely weird example. There's this song that makes me feel the same way coffee does, internally. Like a certain sensation in my stomach. And I'm able to connect the song to...|||They view themselves as born insiders though. They can rebel, but usually it's not in relation to society. More like at a specific person or event or project. Whatever group they pick to be in, they...'