'Any help is great help. Never be afraid to ask for it :)|||Less than USD 30k after taxes. Do I win a prize, do I? Do I?|||ESTP: Lying, cheating, used projection when faced with problems, overall just unreliable, Mummy's boy. ISTJ: Ungenerous, calculating, Mummy's boy, needed to be trained on hygiene issues, fucked...|||1. That is a hard question to answer. Considering this is less than a year, I am unable to articulate something tangible other than him sometimes helping me out with work issues, teaching me to ride...|||Thanks, I just couldn't wrap my head around combating their opinions with objectivity as an attempt to invalidate their thoughts and thus their individuality; logic comes across as a personal...|||That's deep, could you elaborate? I'm having trouble visualising that. But I do know he wavers between meaningful logic i.e. God cannot exist because if he did we wouldn't need traffic laws and...|||I don't think of it as a slacker statement at all; being able to captain and manage your life on your own is fantastic. The exception is the people who wear it on their sleeve, and expect people to...|||He has fixed understanding/expectations of things and basically if you are on the opposite end you must be wrong. Has a need/expectation to check in on almost anything....which has its pros and...|||Thank you and I think you are spot on here : They act out because they are trying to make you react not because they deeply feel something.  And yes it seems my usually diplomatic methods of...|||FFS that part about not wanting to pull the finger out, then getting a bitch fit when told to get around their sh*t really sh*ts me. I've tried logical deduction; but the logic he employs is...|||Clever and thank you for your insight.  I am very fun and caring but I don't appreciate someone spending every other day, for several mins to hours, ranting about something he is unable/unwilling...|||My INTP is stressed out at work, but started finding fault in our relationship over (what I think are) quite trivial things. Got to the point where he accused me of making up a story/lying about an...|||Anyone experienced an INTP partner who is nitpicky, ranty and argumentative? How do you not turn almost every conversation into an argument about whose opinion is right/wrong/logical/illogical?|||The types who are irresponsible, illogical, ignorant and lazy.|||This is my process with things that appeal to my senses, and also which I think give me real satisfaction:  - When was the last time I bought it? Can I skip this instance and still pull through on...|||That's a hard one. I find that because I like doing things in a certain way with expectations of results already planned out, someone doing it differently and potentially upending the plans drives me...|||Do you find that you need to understand the root cause of a discomfort as soon as possible? I've noticed that if someone has had a misunderstanding about a situation with me (usually because I said...|||I've learnt to embrace them - especially if they don't interrupt my plans, only the people I like are invited, it is being hosted at a venue I love or will love, with my preferred menu and that it...|||Don't mind meeting new - interesting - people. I get fired up when the conversation is exciting and challenging, unfortunately I've been told a few times that people want to switch off when they are...|||Even better. You can't get rid of no matter how much you tried, even the Robovacuum runs out of batteries at some point.|||I thought we were materialised from diamond dust.|||<on the way to a wedding dinner>  The girls: So, RO we want to inform you ahead that this wedding will incorporate lots of entertainment...like cultural dances, KPop dances, singing. So be warned...|||On the fence. Ant's Life was good, and I think in the end it is the story line still that reels me in. Animation or not, if the story line is predictable or boring I'll just go bake a pie.|||INTP.  Pros: Teaches me how to relax and go with the flow (this is almost impossible for me, and I am secretly anxious by wasting the day away waking up late, cooking brunch, listening to new...|||Indeed, that is under the presumption that one didn't take their time to evaluate the other person. I'm coming from the standpoint that once a full evaluation is done, time is not wasted. Generally...|||I didn't type my mother; we're over the problems now, we get along fine. I don't talk about the hurt, but she's done a lot to change her responses and as I was critical in helping her overcome a...|||I'd like to see someone suck me off, simply because it would be physically impossible and I'm utterly unimpressed by superficial behaviour as an attempt to curry favours with me.  You're either...|||Don't:  1) Commit logical fallacy. If she is right, don't tell her she is wrong. She will lose respect for you very quickly and shut your opinions out.   2) Your last para suggests you have...|||1) ENTJs don't get intimidated by commitment. More often than not, we demand it. If something is good, it doesn't get too fast for us. In fact, you snooze, you lose.  2) My humble advice? Stop...|||Thanks, humbled indeed. As a marketeer, I live to give perspective. LOL.|||Sorry if my reply sounded like an attack. It was not. I caught on to what you were saying. I was simply venting my frustration - in extension to your argument - that these tests are mostly...|||#truestory 1: I was frustrated about the progress of a budding romance, where the guy wouldn't step up and pursue. My take on it was he simply wasn't interested and was lazy; everyone else opined he...|||Talk about the hot guys, point them out when you are out and say Damn, I wish I had him.  Then look at him, shrug and sigh.  That should be sufficiently clear.|||Step 1: I don't like this. I don't want this. Step 2: You can't make me. Please stop. Step 3: Really? Just f--- off already.|||I'd have to contend with that. I've said before that environment and culture have a strong impact on behaviours and I disagree that that all Te-doms disregard relationships swiftly. In my experience,...|||Enfp, estj.|||In my case, women are more vocal about enforcing the stereotypes than men. I live in a more traditional society and gender roles are still reinforced here, albeit there being more changes. Men who...|||Sorry you're going through that, I feel for you - had the same thing. I got flamed for it in the end because the knob was in the boss' good books (he's a flake like her). In the end, another...|||1. Being called a bitch because I'm right and aggressive and determined. 2. Being underestimated because I have an obvious chest. 3. Being called uncool when I shoot down a sexist comment with my...|||It's interesting that I can relate (as a woman) those same things I would do for my SO. I suppose these traits are less gender-relevant.|||HAHA I said Thanks! before in the past and the face on the guy....Visa moment.|||Your job is to say Alright darling.|||A: Oh uhh haha, you ARE FUNNY! Hey, what is that you are drinking? B: That's nice. Did you have a think about that question I asked about kids and marriage? C: That's nice. Are we going home...|||HAHAHAHAHAHA.  The SO and I were talking about the meaning behind Lionel Ritchie's Easy and how it could be useful in delivering a meaningful breakup discussion intro.|||That was fun! I got  Number of lives : Neutral Pedestrians > Passengers Upholding the law > lawlessness Avoiding intervention (more towards 'less mattered') Gender: Neutral Humans > Animals...|||I don't know if this will apply to your relationship, but my experience with INTPs:  - Can be very 'ranty' and has a tendency to go on and on about...whatever. It's not that I don't care, I do, but...|||10: Traveling with family and friends in a rented apartment, I was speaking to 'someone' in my sleep who asked questions who were were etc. I woke up to the noise of a barking dog at 3am, but we were...|||Yes, through personal spiritual experiences. As they say, I felt I was touched and have been spiritual since. I wouldn't say religious, since a lot of the dogma bewilder me but to each his own.|||Non verbal actions, mostly. I've only said it once first; I was young and stupid then, and rushed them as a method to get the person to commit. My bad. Almost on all other occasions it has been...|||Um mate you asked What's the best place to go looking for women with the traits I outlined as desirable?  You're welcome.'