'I think this is a good start.  Both INFJ and ENFP are quite selfless into giving others their need. However, the obvious difference here under the heading of being selfless is that;  a. the...|||Usually I have a strong preference of listening to sad songs and let melancholy sinks in whenever I feel the blue is hitting me.  However, one exception is this song: If I Rule the World by...|||I remembered an INTJ poster posted this from INTJforum and found it quite helpful to distinguish the difference when I first discovered MBTI.   Here it is:  Fe is the lava that boils out. Fi is...|||The word bitter comes from the ancient Greek--meaning sharp or pointed. And as anyone who has been on the receiving end of a bitter person with a penchant for 'sharp-tongued' remarks knows,...|||Trying too hard to re-capture all of the scenes in my dreams and what I had felt from it (especially if they are inexplicably eccentric)--by typing out all of the vivid details on my smartphone.  ...|||Perhaps you've been jumping into conclusion too soon with your sugar-mushy-Ne?  I've often found some ENFPs do have a very strong 'gut' feelings via their hypersensitive-Ne, and along with their...|||Tough love was originally intended for adult drug addicts, not for general people still learning/going through hardships about life. More importantly, tough love used by parents at the mall for...|||I just thought of sharing these questions with PerC members (originally drafted for an ice-breaking activity from one of my ESL class).   Any takers?    1. How old would you be if you didnx92t...|||This actually reminds me of this quote by Lars H. Svendsen's from A Philosophy of Boredom:   A utopia cannot, by definition, include boredom, but the 'utopia' we are living in is boring.|||To be honest, there's nothing that you can do to make her feel better about herself on her own. I think for being a judger as an INFJ, we will just keep comparing with our close circle of friends...|||What if we stopped wondering our past regrets, missed opportunities, self-blame/defeats, from the past 10 minutes before posting on this thread?|||This clip always reminds me of Ni:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JVuUwvUUPro|||For some reason, I immediate thought of her eyes when I read your thread title.  http://makeupbyandilyn.com/artist/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/rooney-mara_GB1.jpg|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yOl7dCn94I  Data Waterfall represents an element of nature by using digital methods, and I love the idea of elements like clouds being commandeered for use in a...|||Take this for an example:  I usually have a pretty good idea of what I will be doing with a little openness for something I haven’ t thought of, but not much. What I do have planned doesn’t...|||http://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/736x/b3/88/03/b3880383b8fe4334d8741a8b8fc0b4d8.jpg  Perhaps the many moments when you have the most to say but don't know how to say it.|||Ditto.  I believe that attachment disorders first stemmed from having lack of trust in the other person.  When you decide to trust someone it means that you believe in that person's integrity....|||I have noticed that for most of my life I have felt this strong desire, almost a need at times, for those around me to understand what I am going through. This happens particularly with those I am...|||I'm good at picking out the right gift only to people who I'm very close to. Basically I always try to keep a little mental memo whenever I discovered something they really like (this is usually...|||It seems like you really hate small talk. Anyhow you're definitely not alone, perhaps not even in the minority, and yet I think the problem is many people feel guilty about disliking meaningless...|||Ne, Fi, Te, Si = ENFP Fi, Ne, Si, Te = INFP|||Most enthusiasm is stemmed from passion. When you find your passion,  it is possible you might lose some friends or offend family members.  You might get unexpected reactions, criticisms, and...|||http://i.usatoday.net/communitymanager/_photos/game-hunters/2011/12/05/infinity-blade2x-large.jpg|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzGuSZbFueQ  5 Centimeter per Second OST - Snow Station|||That's how I felt exactly. To people who I'm the closest, I always wish them the best. But you know how when some people just keep ascending in their career path while you seem to be stuck for quite...|||How about cat-tossing?      http://25.media.tumblr.com/d0850547028e66b687f6a90bb3320c01/tumblr_mu669sjrbr1skszago1_500.jpg|||I totally feel your pain. I once majored in BA and took me two years to change my major. Accounting, Statistics, and any number-related courses stressed me out to no end. Though I do enjoy learning...|||http://fc07.deviantart.net/fs70/f/2012/356/c/f/death_glare_by_sana24-d5os4sd.jpg|||It seems to me that you are seeking for exclusivity, while it's clear that she's probably not the type who are willing to cut off ties with ex-lovers for the sake of newly-found love.  You do have...|||This quote by C. JoyBell C. pretty much summarize my thoughts:  x93Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times,  relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should...|||Why Competition Among Friends Can Be A Good Thing by Jennifer Sanchez   Last month, one of my good friends got offered a new job. The company  was high profile, offering more money, and it was...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5bCShCcD3N0  From McQueen's 09 fashion show Savage Beauty|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2h2fdZ6XpR8  Beauty in  Motion III by Diana Vishneva    Mesmerising song too, btw.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-J2UZZ45BqU  What do you guys think of this?   And I'm still betting on ENFP at this point.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JeyZtGGWeLw  Windows of Culloden - Kate Moss hologram     And Alexandar McQueen showcase it for his opening runway show:  ...|||Interesting observation, I haven't thought about that.  Actually the rider (Nacho Figueras) is a famous polo player (I think he is top-ranked) and have been invited to famous talk shows (like...|||I've always amazed at how much beauty I have missed in the blink of an eye via multiple slow-motion frames. And here are two clips that really feeds well with my Ni-ness well, especially when it...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JhkZGqkIjPg  This MV is all about Ni...... and a sexy one.|||1. Wake up every morning with the thought that something wonderful is about to happen.  2. Often it's the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self.  3. 10% of conflicts is...|||http://www.hotcarszone.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/Creative-bike-Horsey-by-Korean-designer-Eungi-Kim-2.jpg|||http://www.absolutelyfobulous.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/animated-gif-art-1.gif|||http://www.neotechproducts.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/baby-scratching-head.jpg  Not that i haven't done it in the past, but i've seen other personality types do this too, so i just didn't...|||Dear @Noelle,  I know how frustrating it is to be stuck in a job when you truly hated it. I know that for sure it's difficult to make up your mind to quit a job under this unstable economic...|||http://glform.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/visionaire1.jpg  http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5272/5835793064_8624d23077.jpg  Stunning landscape, isn't it?  ...|||In the past I did play them myself to get what I want (or for selfish or self-protective reasons) until I matured.  Now, I usually do this (sometimes consciously or unconsciously) to avoid getting...|||I'm actually wondering what defines a Ne vision in aesthetic. I do notice one common pattern among ENFP--they have a keen interest on photo-realism with an artistic twist. I wonder if that does make...|||... NOT losing keys.  I swear all of the ENFPs I've encountered had lost keys far more frequently than other personality types (except INFJs).|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xhGlGZe9e1o  Yin vs. Yang   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBbWPqBo7MI  I hope the following people @Aizar @bubbleboy @Zech @emerald sea @Elinor Dashwood...|||This is absolutely breathtaking!!!! Thanks for posting this!!!!|||Education guess:   Introverted Ni-dom, Fi-dom, Ti-dom. (These types often have a preference finding a medium to express their inner-mind/-feelings)  Ni-dom (INFJ/INTJ) Fi-dom (INFP/ISFP) Ti-dom...'