'They tried to diagnose my INFP boyfriend with this when he was a child because he ignored instructions and stared out the window a lot. Needless to say he doesn't actually have it.|||Butterfingers is my nickname :blushed:. I unintentionally: Hit people Throw things too hard at people Kick my boyfriend in unfortunate places Drop things Walk into things Trip Break things|||How do you feel you differ from other types in sexual terms - and do you have any anxiety about intimacy with new partners?  I'm answering this from the perspective of one who's had one partner. To...|||I've always connected with INFPs. ENTP are ones I always argue with, you might call that chemistry, but meh not for me. ENFPs are good as casual friends but too wishy-washy for long-term commitment...|||I still believe you're being slightly rude. Your phrasing is confrontational. There are trends when it comes to type. Impulsiveness and INFJ is not a typical thing.|||Woah down. I only meant INFJs are cautious. You ought really to explain yourself here.|||It's no secret that INFJs are hard to please. Goodness knows I've put my INFP boyfriend of 1.5 years through the ropes, but that's my screening process. I accept nothing but the best. I know people...|||61999  They always remind me of puppies. Adorable, sensitive, attentive to others, cute and easily distracted.|||Gryffindor. Fiery, impatient and passionate. Sounds about right.|||How emotional they openly are. INTJ always strike me as rather moody and grumpy instead of having tears and shouting.|||I'm absent-minded, impractical, impatient and private. These things would drive me mad in my partner. I need someone to pick up the slack when I fail to exist outside my head. Two mes would be...|||I love my INFP man :proud:. He is more wonderful than he realises.  Who says you can't get a relationship?! You. But is it true - no. Problem is girls who'll like you will probably be just as shy...|||Be selective of who's burdens you take on, is the best thing I can think of. Telling you to turn off your feelings for others is impossible. You just have to learn to pick and choose the most...|||Wandering.  Just generally being unsure of where my life is going in terms of career choices.  Lost. Would also work here.|||I have a hard time trusting people hence I do doubt my relationship sometimes. I get frustrated with myself because my boyfriend doesn't deserve to be doubted. Sometimes I don't think INFJs know how...|||I use a mixture of all of those. The favourites? Acts of service and quality time.|||Brilliant reading thank you very much. As a 1 who is definitely not an inflexible, neat-freak I quite agree with your findings.|||I find it peculiar how many INFJs love ENFPs. I find them to be too flighty and airy-fairy, not lifelong partner material for me at all.|||Every day, every hour, every minute, every second...|||Thank you for your kind words :proud:|||Know the feeling, I always appear cold, when I'm anything but.|||I find myself becoming more INFJ as I mature. I was INxJ until about the age of 16/17, very late I know.|||I'm in a eight month long sorta-serious relationship, not long-term, but I know he's the one for me so I hope my post is still useful. You're asking a lot here. INFJs are prone to seeing all sides of...|||You never really acted like a stereotypical teenager because you didn't see the appeal of it.|||From an INFJ perspective: I agree low self-esteem is quite possibly the biggest issue that INFPs have to deal with. Often they may descend into coping mechanisms like alcohol drinking or shutting...|||That people don't always act like I do. I therefore need to learn to compromise.|||Totally yes. Being in a group is something endure for the sake of others preferred type of socialisation. I prefer one-to-one. Being in group tends to mean I vanish into the background.|||Varies depending on who I with.   People I am not comfortable with:  Quiet, low voice Folded arms Crossed legs Like I'm closing in a myself Blank expression An element of awkward Avoidance...|||An odd one to choose but I love The Hunchback of Notre Dame.|||You need to use parts of yourself which are contrary to him to influence his behaviour. If an INFP is a healthy content individual they can project this contentment on to their partner. I know my...|||My insecurities and fears come out in my dreams. I once dreamed that there were many escaped hamsters in my kitchen that I had to capture. At that time in my life I had a lot on my plate in reality....|||I can be very judgemental I just don't let on that I am these days, a few years ago though...well I could be quite unpleasant if I thought someone was being silly.|||You agree to go to the pub with friends just to keep them happy, but end up sober staring into space waiting for a late enough time for it to be okay to leave while everyone around you gets drunk..|||I'm INFJ 1w2 and it is certainly a problem for me sometimes. I often become the friend people come to during hard times. Never am I the fun one to them. I find being invested in someone else's...|||I have been more easy-going since being with him, but I do sometimes worry I hurt his ego by being too overpowering.|||In that case I believe we can put it down to the patience each person has for one another. I don't have patience for some NT qualities so it's probably why my beliefs are as they stand now. If you...|||I got 87%, oh dear..Explains why I hate nightclubs.|||ENTPs tend to like me, but I don't return it. Their abrasive sense of humour doesn't work with my sensitivity. Sure NFs have chemistry with NTs but it appears many NFs wouldn't be satisfied...|||I'm bossy without even realising most the time. I usually see it as me simply being caring. :unsure:|||Have you ever been alone in a crowded room when I'm here with you - Dark Blue, Jack's Mannequin  I get this sensation a lot. I crave intimacy to be honest. I rarely want to be totally alone. Any...|||When no matter how many times someone has been a bad friend towards you still take them back in the hope that they have somehow changed...to then again be proved wrong.  You feel an affinity with...|||Sure can be true. Just depends how 'healthy' the person is. My INFP has gone through a lot to become the individual he is now. I didn't know him during the difficult times, but I am proud of him for...|||If it helps my INFP hates it when I'm too enigmatic. I don't always say everything that's on my mind and it leaves him curious. Sometimes curiosity leads to worry. An odd look and my face and he...|||Yes I do collect certain items. I have done ever since I was young. At the moment I collect beanie boos:  http://www.tycollector.com/boos/boo-images/boos-uk-2nd.jpg  See cute...and so appropriate...|||I think when one is with a male INFP they have to accept that they will never be the macho ESTJ that society expects. It depends entirely on what you're looking for from a partner. I am familiar with...|||I think an INFJ-INFP relationship is dependent on functional development. An INFP with overwhelming Fi would be too sensitive to the INFJ's often cutting sense of humour. Likewise an INFJ with poorly...|||I've been with a male INFP seven months. The connection was immediately there. There was something about him, a spark. It's hard to explain. We met through a mutual friend at her birthday party and...|||Nope. Sweet and caring for me please. End of XD.|||I wonder how we can deserve such a compliment. I don't want to disagree or agree.|||One of my best friends is an ISFJ. She's great, very loyal, caring and interesting to talk to. She's very similar to me I agree but I do notice the S/N divide significantly. Obvious as we all know...'