'Maybe you should first have a lot of not-fun by trying out a lot of different activities (even exploring sub-genres of some activities; for example I though I didn't like watching movies until I...|||I'm not negative, the world is negative, and you're standing by, watching it, approving it, spreading it and thinking how that's okay.|||Yes we can. And now I'm predicting that you're gonna realize in the future, that we can't really predict things.|||Funny how misfortune unites people better than fortune.  Hmm, there seems to be a lot of suspiciousness going on with this one. For instance, no-one wants to die, but everyone has different long...|||Well roundedness is a quality of it's own ;)|||I give everyone a chance, but I'm not sure if everyone gives me the chance XD  I have an INFP friend, he's cool, only drawback is that he's so busy. :)  Other than that, um dunno, how about...|||Ummm, shouldn't you know this by now?  Man, this sure makes my announcement I'm planning to make seem a lot less special - that I think I recently entered my first ever relationship with one INFJ...|||If an INFJ is anything, it's everything ^^  But if we must use labels, I recommend Virtue ethics - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia|||Alternate topic name: What do you do the whole day?  It just recently hit me that maybe, just maybe not all INFJs spent their childhoods (by this I mean up to middle school or even university)...|||As an INFJ I myself don't know what I'm doing in situations like these! I recommend just spending time with him and see how it goes...|||More doing things together and less talking and all is well XD|||Is the friendzone really that deterministic?  Generally, I think being nice to attract a mate is overrated. Nice is great if you're a Disney Princess, but come on, everyone should be nice to...|||If it's all a dream... I can do whatever I want, w00t!|||Took me a year of faculty to figure out I have an (female) INFJ in my study group (relying on my assessment here, no tests taken... that I know of). Though she laid low for the first year, now she's...|||Ugh, often. You have your answer, now go away, leave me in my cave.|||I was mostly loving my emotions, thinking them as the foundation of my being and the most authentic part of me. But lately I just wanna strangle them cause they make no sense.    How the hell am...|||I think INFJs, or anyone can be good at flirting. But flirting takes self confidence.  And self confidence is an another thing entirely...|||Usually I'm fine, but today was daydreaming about having someone with whom I can lie on a valley looking at the stars while only hearing their voice and talking to them for all night long...|||Hmm, I've never had those problems... although I never spoke that much so that must be it. Recently I started talking a bit more and in about half the cases so far it's just right, half I can really...|||A lot of people doubts tests, so I read things from this forum and think it more accurate to see if you find yourself in posts of INFJ people here, but even better than that are videos like   ...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=30J2qKXtNPo  Commie Berserk Golden Age Chapter I Egg of the High King BD 720p AAC 4E0448A9 - YouTube|||Too lazy for a long reply, but I just have to say I strongly agree with this, especially the bolded part... Although that is my solution for everything (relationship-wise), and, I think, more often...|||Not exactly the answer to your question (which I agree is quite interesting btw), but maybe this guy is a good start: Noam Chomsky - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia  Might as well say something on...|||I like the idea of some people here of talking one on one at parties, that actually sounds like an idea that could make parties really worthwhile! I'm just curious, what do you think what to do when...|||It seems to me you people know me better than I do XD    I think I already heard this, but I don't get why? Why are they a weakness? I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around the whole INTJ...|||I'm not sure about some pretty emotions, but I see them worked up about things that counter logic lots of times XD  I think they feel like everyone else, it's just they are so fortress-like, and...|||hmh, spoiler tag, great trick, great trick  Am I right that we're looking for negative things here? If so, I just recommended this thread a moment ago elsewhere. Peruse it at will.  Se displays?...|||What does cold on the inside mean? Everyone is emotional, right?|||Curiouser and curiouser... Well, I'm not sure I know what you're looking for exactly, but, everything has been said already (or will be soon, I can't imagine this thread not being answered). As...|||I'm glad someone relates too! That's something I forgot to put in :)  http://personalitycafe.com/infj-forum-protectors/85288-infjs-pickiness-socialness.html  Man, that thread has quite grown...|||Interesting... but why would you want to escape? 51585|||I would play games on my mobile and sleep. And drink sometimes.|||I'm more interested in why do you ask. :tongue:|||Weird phenomenon, which I too expirience. While that's true with friends & family, I don't get approached in more public-y places either, but here I think lies the difference because I think in those...|||Yes.  ...Wait. Was there something you wanted? :silly: :tongue:|||+1 for keeping a journal. I recommend it to anyone (well, type fours or INFJs mostly, and NFs maybe). Although I call mine that place I write stuff at and it's not just one place... getting...|||I haven't brought up with my pal, and that's one of the thing I'm agonizing about. Can't bring myself to do it, it's such an awkward situation.    My friend is 17, the girl and me are 20. I just...|||This is the closest to what I think I should do. It's just I think I should first talk to my friend, but I can bring myself to do it.    I don't know about him. I don't even know how much exactly...|||I'm not sure if I'm lonely per se, I just don't know how to fill my time and like people. I don't feel lonely but wish I socialized more. Does that make sense? Low self-confidence - me too. I'm...|||Not much to say I guess. I have a group of friends I hang out with (both in real life and Skype), four guys including me and one girl. Somehow me and the girl got to exchange... something like...|||Hi Katty Perry!  :tongue:|||I love this video! :crazy:|||Run in the opposite direction. When at safe distance - stare.   :laughing:|||I got into a stand-up comedian phase recently, and as far as I read on the nets most of comedians are either ENTP or ENFP. Are there any INFJ comedians? I'm interested to see how their act looks...|||Yeah, armored corps of peace, 7th love division :tongue:|||Skimmed through the entire thread and found no trace of Carlin FUCK YEAH.  Oh, we're supposed to dedicate this to someone? Well fiddlesticks. ...  Actually that could work... A toast, to my new...|||4197141972  Things they don't tell you - Imgur|||I'm curious as to what is this glorious destiny? Taking your life in your hands?  Serious love talk and then...  :laughing:|||Five... I think, but I still voted like that.  edit: Interesting how that's the most voted wing...|||What really helps me is a honest talk with someone. Yeah, I know it's hard, but I managed to find some people for that, too bad they don't have much time for me :(. Anyway, I always felt the need to...'