'Do you think we stay single for a lifetime (or very long periods) because we look for soulmates rather than partners? Or we resign eventually and settle down with a closest decent person who will...|||When you meet a new person what impression does he or she get of you? Are you cold and laid back or lovely and cute?|||There is a thing... Maybe two. My Mission is to help people and be useful somehow. That's why I learn mostly practical skills to help people in everyday life. But at some point of my life I have...|||Not a bit. Everybody can fool me. If it happens because I try to love people and see their good side I don't know. Still I want to change it otherwise anyone can use me.|||If I had no mood for anyone in the world to be with I still would want be with you I miss Shaddie's tenderness I know you will decide right (when I was about to tell my mum about going to...|||Ok, it looks like you all really ARE good at reading souls :D and I am probably not paying enough attention to things around me. I mean - not the right things. Usually, I notice an ant carrying a...|||Hi guys  Anywhere I read about INFJ I see how good we are with insights in souls of other people, we know who lies, we make people to tell us their secrets... I fit in all INFJ characteristics...|||I can agree with INTJ but I know only one and he seems to be very T, but I feel it there even though.   I want to regain my motivation for loving unconditionally from conversation with someone,...|||What types do you think see things like us?|||Do you love unconditionally?  Do you put everything in relationship when you love?  What do you get back for it?  Is it worth it?  Is it something what people want? Or is it just something...|||I had tested them all :D|||I have 4 INFJ close friends and... well, we differ from each other vastly, but there is some kind of connection, an unique comprehension of things and people, which point up the other INFJ from...|||I can't imagine date and not being friends while that, however, that click thing is usually obvious from very first contact with someone. If the one is not supposed to be my BFF I will stay...|||Oh yeah, right hand dominant, left leg dominant (except for iceskating), left eye (actually I can change it when I want :D ) and probably right ear dominant|||unfortunately, right-handed :-/ I always wanted to be left-handed, unfair!|||32076 My cockatiel :)|||... and where do you use your Ni the most? What is the biggest advantage and disadvantage of introverted iNtuition?|||I don't judge people like that... I always find something too interesting about them... maybe I'm too clingy which keeps me from judgeing to be or not to be good enough. dunno. the other side of the...|||that's it! I always thought I have to deserve one's affection. It's a parenting thing and now I have to deal with it because I feel that way in every relationship I have. Thanks guys :) Sometimes I...|||Are we good enough for our loved ones? Do you feel like you cannot satisfy his/her needs and expectations or challenge him/her enough? I am afraid to fall in love with ENTP (I guess) who madly...|||I'm 21 and currently I live in a very Ti nurturing environment but what can I do to help my Ti to develop? Any ideas, experiences? :unsure:|||http://a7.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/227854_1722450741666_1250275911_31441597_437857_n.jpg  this picture made me to think about it. I agree that I am rarely bored, but maybe for my...|||you know, as people, partners, friends, companions... I love all the feelings I have when I see, hear, touch something, it comes exciting to me, but what for the others? Are we boring creatures...|||Well, now I know what was happening to me last few weeks before I ended my long-term and also long-distance relationship 9 days ago. It explains me a lot since I couldn't find a reason why it wasn't...|||Well, it is up to me to start :D  INFJ girl was born to poor parents as the youngest child. She didn't need many toys because she was able to play with everything she found. It didn't matter what...|||What is in our head? I think that I have about three or four different lines of events happening at the same time. Thinking, perceiving, feeling, sensing everything around or in a made-up world. It...|||Enneagram doesn't fit me very well, but probably I'm 6. Do you think that it has something to do with my competitiveness?|||Hey :happy: What is on your mind when you imagine a common INFJ with its stereotypes, problems, behaviour, preferences ect during his or her life - from early childhood to death.   (kind of toys...|||It hurts me... I am not satisfied with myself anymore and I think I am going wrong way, because I've never felt like this before... I was competitive, but now I feel bad about it, there is something...|||Yeah,the problem is that I usually think that I can do it but subsequently I fail and then this feeling comes... I feel not good enough, incapable and envy|||I have one older sister(31), but in fact she rather tries to compete with me. And according to this thread it seems to me that it isn't an INFJ thing at all, it looks like it's about me and my...|||I feel more like a very envious and jealous person :(|||Yeah, I am trying to do my best, but when I fail, I feel upset about myself. Why didn't  I do more, wasn't more skilled...?|||I know that statement  it's just a game, it's just a game or don't be stupid. wish him/her the best, don't be envy  I wonder if it has something to do with our to be always right...|||Are you competitive? want to be the best all the time and in every way? and if is someone even your friend better, are you upset?   I am bad person because it is hard for me to overcome this...|||eiddahs King?|||I feel that my relationship is an unavoidable part of me and my life. Whether I'm dating or not, I am in love all the time. I was thinking what if it is about that feeling of safety or I need someone...|||the same problem... hope is stronger, more dominant in some situations than intuition... but the optimism is the king, because it changes everything in my point of view. it misleads me ... it can'...|||lol, fantastical vengeance, that's it :laughing:  and also divine retribution, I was wondering if it exists in INFJ because I can feel it somewhere in me, thanks :)|||Yeah, I just think about it, but I don't want to realise, I don't want to harm anyone, but I feel bad about these thoughts I have.|||Hi, I am not sure whether somewhere here already exists a topic of revenge in INFJ but I wonder.... Are you sometimes so angry or offended that you want to revenge... maybe in small way like a do...|||I know one, but I am really not captivated by her :D I like being INFJ, but it is not satisfying me in this time. A problem is that now I regard my qualities as not good enough for anything. All I...|||it sounds like an reflection or deep empathy. Why did it start after 4 years of relationship?. I've never wanted to be  the best in everything.:sad:|||I told you this was gonna happen.  It's gonna be fine, relax...  What???!  I'm fine. :laughing:|||Hi, I recently realised my unconscious desire to be like my ENFP boyfriend and best friend in one person. I wanted to be popular, gifted, better or at least as good as he is in everything... but I...|||I have a good sense of humor but I'm not able to differ if someone is playing it at me or not... I take it too seriously sometimes. So for me, yes, it is common to take many things too seriously.|||I was growing up with boys and I had only one girl around my house, so I used play with boys their games.  Now I appreciate it because I have no problems to understand men... And yes! I like when I...|||Mom ESTJ Dad ESFJ Sister ESTJ  And I don't fit in there. I have to be adopted :D|||probably you are right.. maybe I should care about my gender role and its awesomeness :-D|||I love them. I was growing up between boys. I have only 1 friend-girl.  Once my older-married-sister said: I have no idea why men and women-so different people- live together in one household!!...'