'I guess I am, but it needs to be more tightly defined|||My foremost desire is to get out of office/corporate culture at some point.|||Dear ESFJ,  It is disturbing how little you think for yourself.  Or even worse, how little you understand your own actions and feelings.  How have you gone through this much life being this way?  I...|||I'm pretty romantic.  As a previous poster said, romance usually is not grand gestures.  It's the little things that make the other person feel desired or valued.  I can't really describe more than...|||Intelligence turns me on too, big time.  I think one of the biggest misconceptions is if independence, intelligence, strength are good characteristics in women.  Of course they are, independence is...|||1) My girlfriend just texted me 2) Looking something up 3) Using spotify/music 4) YouTube 5) Browsing social media even though I'm not enjoying it (lobotomy boredom mode)|||No difficulty.  I feel more apprehension telling my parents I love them, which is something I've never been able to figure out (I'm not a teenager).|||Was a CPA/accountant  and did not like the work and felt trapped in monotony.  Now I'm in management consulting.  Seems great and better suited for me, but I'll wait until the new job shine wears...|||The tests are bullshit -- so based on life experience I'll say that I'm relatively introverted unless someone grabs my attention intellectually or with a certain refreshing authenticity and daring. ...|||Similar to   adultchildofalieninvaders, I am deeply cynical but also generally happy.  Seeing how trite and boring most things are just makes me appreciate my own eccentricity more.  I'm weird and I...|||Fighting -- in typical NT vs SJ fashion.  She'd been crying every day over the last week from our arguments.   Blunt jerks and sensitive illogical people do not mix, something I should have learned...|||Just got dumped for the first time last night.  Feels bad man.|||Wait, do you want this person to empathize with you or to ruin them?  If it's just to empathize, you don't need to do that.  Just tell people in the group the shitty things the person has done, your...|||Not to put too much vitriol in this, but Fe is kind of a pathetic function.  The best way for a Fe-dom to lose its power is for it to lose its support.  Fe is nothing without other people approving...|||Lol @ people falling for this|||Can't say I really relate to this.  I'm bored easily of a banal conversation, or a shared activity, but it doesn't mean I'm necessarily bored of the person.  My friends are mostly from childhood and...|||I had a four year relationship with an ISFJ and it was a passionate, sometimes turbulent, experience.  We could have easily gotten married, but her jealousy/insecurity issues among a few other things...|||I say less than a month.  Not because of the outdoor activity issue, but because you're already worried your interests aren't good enough for her.|||I strongly prefer introverts to our extraverted brethren.  I'm 100% cool with silence if there's nothing interesting to say at the moment.|||What is the hand gesture for lizard?   Edit:  Nevermind I looked it up|||ENTPs would be great teachers in my opinion -- at least the ones that can handle being a hypocrite.  Half of the rules and habits that you'll enforce are shit an ENTP would never do, and did not do...|||The best compliment I ever received was I know that you're 100x smarter than me, but you've never made me feel stupid|||This was a great post.  I'm about to be 28 and experiencing depression for the first time and I can say both of these things definitely contributed.|||Nerdy and somewhat awkward, if we're being real.  Not that everyone is like that, but that's my general assumption.|||Never typed one per se, but I find go-getter bossy people really annoying.|||I'll do the male version because I think men are way more tolerant of clingyness and neediness.  If done right it seems feminine and sweet.  At extreme levels it can be repulsive, but to reach that...|||I'm not seen as emotionless; I have a very expressive face.  If anything, people think I'm being more passionate and speaking with more fervor than I actually am.  People will think I really care...|||Sounds like you're more emotional than you perceive yourself.  It's not good to be repressed.  Let them feels flow.|||1. What do you do?  IT Auditor/CPA 2. Is your job your passion? Rate your passion out of 10 (10 being most passionate), and then describe. 1.5.  It is too tedious for me and the material does not...|||All ISXJ  it's kinda weird|||a gloryhole|||Good thing I'm not a sexual predator because I don't mind period sex at all.|||I love dogs and owning dogs but I'm also very into obedience training.|||I still want to know what kind of battle a boy challenges a girl to.  Were you gonna fight? Freestyle rap? Play pogs or  pokemans?|||What the fuck did I just read? :laughing:  I challenge you to a BATTLE|||I have never had this problem so I have no idea.    In my head, things only have the value you assign to them.  You will be dead and none of this will matter.  The most cliche shit in the world,...|||Oh come on, how are you too busy to trip every so often?|||If someone is boring and secretive, how would you ever know that they are an N?  Maybe they're just a run-of-the-mill boring ISTJ?  I never understood the ability to type strangers that are quiet. ...|||Should I be concerned? I answered very honestly.   290690|||Drinking --  Sure, of course.  I'll binge drink when I go out, which is not that often anymore.  Nowadays my drinking is usually limited to sharing a bottle of wine with my girl or having a drink or...|||I think it's like that Please be nice to me article thing says.  That was one of the most lucid points in that article.  I can Ne jizz on people all day and ramble for hours on end. But if it's...|||Overwhelmed, what a load of horse shit.   She should have left the house -- not you.|||I have sociopathic traits for damn sure, but I'm also certainly not one.  Too many feels/nostalgia/guilt/etc.  Plus I had a great childhood and almost no trauma, so I'm a lucky bastard.  If...|||Hell yeah, me too!    ....Oh :(|||Confession time -- I'm kind of a douche.  Not in a malicious way.  But I notice that when I'm really close to someone, I'm able to psychoanalyze them really well.  When I do so, and I notice...|||Does people pleasing behavior repulse you in other people?|||Oops, I didn't mean to type rugby.  I was referring to cricket.|||Doesn't rugby have more protective gear than baseball?  The leg pads and whatnot?|||I lol'd|||Stupid alert box.   Mine was something like 80 masculine, 40 feminine, 42 neutral'