'I have this terrible thing of avoiding eye contact and straight up ignoring the charming ladies that I cross paths with... I'm trying to start smiling more at strangers and maybe that'll translate...|||I'd love to give some pointers, but I'd feel bad if I just gave generalized ones. Anything you're interested in hearing about? Haha, thanks. It's a Pygmy marmoset!|||Hehe, thanks! When I saw this picture, I realized that I finally found my spirit animal!|||Eh, hufflepuff. Nothing unexpected lol. Fun survey though. Thanks!  Hufflepuff - 15 Ravenclaw - 11 Gryffindor - 9 Slytherin - 8|||When you're at a stalemate with your heart and mind, perhaps gathering more info and waiting are good options. Do you have to choose now? IF you can, you can table it and worry about it later. Talk...|||Actually... that sounds pretty cool haha. I've never heard of online Karaoke before! I'd be down to try it out! (I've only been Karaoke-ing once before and it was pretty fun)|||I have bad blood circulation so finding something that let's me go barefoot during the cold months of winter is on my priority list! Since I've been wearing Xeroshoes for most of the summer, I'm...|||Hrm! Interesting description! It's a bit confusing but looking at the ENTP functions would help, they are: Ne-Ti-Fe-Si.  But let's work with the INFJ alternative.  The INFJ is: Ni-Fe-Ti-Se What...|||I basically know next to nothing about enneagram but finding out what you value can help motivate yourself. Since I like doing stuff for other people, I tend to do better with group exercises and...|||I've been meaning to write a book so I'm interested in helping you get further in yours!  I tend to type people by first getting an overall feel of a type of person and then checking with...|||Xeroshoes all the way! Nuff' said. :D Shop Barefoot Running Shoes and Sandals | As Seen on Shark Tank - XeroShoes.com|||Ooh! If there was only one anime I could recommend, it'd be: Barakamon! http://myanimelist.net/anime/22789/Barakamon It's still airing but I love how much time it devotes to character development....|||Haha, I'd like to think that most people are overly insensitive!  FRIEND: The size or importance of the announcement determines the level of trust you should have in the future. I have a friend I...|||Based on the responses from the INFP's friend, it's possible that the friend got the queue. But I can't tell. I'm more straightforward and if what happened offended me, I'd be awkward and tell my...|||Thanks everyone for replying to this thread. It really means a lot to see all these responses and I'm sorry to hear that each one of us has (been) suffering with our own losses. Every post gave me...|||Sorry for the depressing thread but I'd really appreciate responses since I'm going through a lot, and I'm currently figuring out how I personally mourn because from what I hear, people mourn in...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HFuUTtF9s5M  Darn video gives me the goosebumps!|||UnicornRainbowLove: Great point! Thanks for bringing it up and I appreciate your compliment.   under skies: haha, yeah, that's a familiar experience! Good question, I'd say taking action can be...|||Um, yeahhh... I'm not a humanities major but there's been several times in my college career that I wished I just had a nice English class to buffer all of my technical classes. I've always enjoyed...|||1. Yes. 2. Depends on how much I want it. 3. Kinda. 4. I guess? 5. Only if I care about it enough.   It's hard to give examples of when I took actions recently because everyday is full of choices:...|||Wait wait wait... Engaged for EIGHT years?! What are they waiting for to get married?? a sign from heaven?? (I apologize if this offends anyone but from the people I know, they engage because they...|||My interpretation of what you just said: shark are people out to eat others a live in an almost eat or be eaten mentality or snakes as in people who when you least expect it, bite you. And becoming a...|||I definitely like Laeona's analogy! Too much stimulation can be exhausting! But I'm one of those outgoing infps. I have tons of friends at uni and I guess this all happened because in high school,...|||It may take more time and effort but I'd go with meeting up with them separately if I didn't want to worry about the state of both individuals. When I'm the host, I tend to just spend my time...|||It really depends on what your passions are and how you can actualize them. Some require a college degree while college degrees make it easier to actualize your dreams. College may not be for...|||I can't help you much but two points that stuck out to me was whether or not these people are actually infps like how other posters mentioned. I don't mean to say I distrust that you said they got...|||I really like Malcolm Gladwell's take on a good job: “Those three things - autonomy, complexity, and a connection between effort and reward - are, most people will agree, the three qualities that...|||I think that is the part that I always struggle with in terms of making decisions. In fact, I think it's the core of why I have difficulty with making decisions... It's that nagging feeling of regret...|||Productive? Nope. Tomorrow!|||When I want to talk to a stranger or an aquaintance... but don't because by the time I come up with the perfect topic to talk about... They're long gone :(|||I'd have to agree with a few of my infp peers that while I knew a lot of people and a random walk in the middle of the day I would be able to say hi to like 5 or 6 of them (as opposed one or two with...|||What you're describing sounds like extroverted feeling (unless you yourself highly value observing societal niceties). Correct me if I'm wrong but introverted feeling is more of having a greater...|||The whole joining clubs are a good idea, just make sure to put yourself out there. I've realized that part of my shyness at times is that I'm afraid people won't accept my awkwardness and overcoming...|||Hrm... not in my immediate family, but maybe in my extended family haha. I'm definitely of a different mindset than my cousins but they all love me all the same though I feel part of it is finding...|||I feel that for a time I was able to tell but that led me to being overly conscious of my actions and avoiding them as a result. These days, I just go with the assumption that they're just friendly...|||I honestly don't know if I'm answering your question >.< so I've answered it in a couple ways... hope it helps!  Unfortunately, I've been one to shy away from romantic relationships. I actually get...|||Hmm... it might be that I'm an outgoing introvert but I really love being around people, though that means that I need a day or a weekend to recuperate. So, yes lol I guess: I definitely choose to be...|||All of what I'm about to say is probably something you've heard time and time again, so I apologize if this doesn't really help you!   I'd say a great way to start is adding and reinforcing new...|||I personally favor character development and plot twists in movies. Crazy Stupid Love was awesome because it did that and provided scenes full of chaos too hehehe.|||I Need Fluffy Plushies? (I totally didn't just look through a list of p-words just now lol)|||I definitely agree that it can be hard to keep motivated with schoolwork as an infp. :( What works for me is study buddies. A friend and I literally studied everyday for a week together for a midterm...|||I have a license, and I passed the test on my first try. Driving to me does seem like a lot of responsibility. I don't really see how my friends love to drive! haha. It's more of a necessary evil. I...|||Lol, my teenage years... for the most part, I really enjoyed it. Fresh into high school, the high school XC coach (my 5th grade teacher) pulled me into XC and it was the best thing that could've...|||Hm... as a guy, I can attest to enjoy being around female companions partly because it's more socially accepted to be talking about emotions and I just talk with them more naturally. But, I have a...|||I'd have to agree with NoIdeaWhatImDoing. He could just be shy and may just need a gentle nudge or so :D. Don't be afraid of the possibilities of rejection! Ask him for tips on art, ask him to show...|||When you're working on quantum mechanics (not getting it and wanting to give up) and then you realize how much more easier life would be if you were a thinker... >,<|||When you realize on a Friday night that everyone's gone but you're just content with reading a book in your favorite corner of the house, sipping some nice hot tea (in a mason jar lol) :D|||When stimulus gives you possibility. possibility. possibility. POSSIBILITY!! haha, i'm sure someone knows what i'm referencing...|||I should be studying... but I'm procrastinating haha ><.|||Whenever I lead, I'm constantly taking input from the people I'm leading. If we need to find a place for an event, I usually put up a poll. Actually, I put up a lot of polls. But whenever I have a...'