'Hi All,  I'm sorry i've been absent for awhile.  In fact to those among you who I speak with personally... i've been a terrible friend these last few months and for that I am truly sorry.  I was...|||In terms of politics:  ENFP = Lefty Revolutionary ENFJ = Benevolent Dictator  ENFP's are extremely concerned with the individual and aren't afraid to tell you about it or to tell you to fuck...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjaZNYSt7o0&amp;feature=relmfu  OMFG and... repeat.  The other music videos are amaaaaaazing as well.|||Married one... didn't work out haha.  She's super cool but always had to be alpha... when someone tries to make me their bitch I have to be alpha.  It didn't go well.|||Lol now you're just buttering us up.  Whatever i may be I just do what I feel - unless I'm forced to be corporate...  but really even then I have a hard time keeping my thoughts inside haha.  I had a...|||Do you have a plan?  Without a plan it's only a wish my friend.  Without a timeline a plan is only a dream.|||Shouldn't there be a question about age in there as well?  A lot of people here are just too young to have finished highschool and there probably is a strong selection bias by age/type for...|||Oh man... probably clerical work - organizing things, making lists, shuffling paper around.  Ugh.  Great thanks.. now i'm gonna have nightmares tonight. Thanks a lot buddy!|||Bah your Fi is not my Fi.    - you identify more with collectivism than individualism  - you are most comfortable in hierarchical structures  I identify more with collectivism because I care...|||47279  Well I can speak to the first one... and it's not the cotton socks.  People often say that ENFPs are very supportive.  Well my friend in order to be supportive you have to be SUPPORTED! ...|||Hahahah +1.  Anyone who says they haven't practiced their How YOU doin? is a liar and probably does a terrible How YOU doin?|||Wool or cotton?    Oh so glad you asked... Wool hands down.  It maintains it's shape over time, breathes in the summer, is surprisingly warm in the winter, silghtly water repellent, better for the...|||I don't feel that I connect with almost anyone but I'm always looking.  I can read emotions like a book from across the room.  I always know who likes who, who hates who, how people feel about what...|||Bwahahaha I don't give a damn.  And frankly it kinda has to start with some PDA if you're going to get someone to a room with you ;)    I guess I could try the Excuse me miss but I think you're...|||Ugh I'm sorry Pink.  I had that problem with my ENTP - she always needed to be the center of attention and got really angry when she wasn't.  After so many years she actually started saying that I...|||Emotionally yes.  I also generally more enjoy the company of women in small groups and men in large groups.  I like to talk about my feelings.  Hmmm I'm also a damn good cook.  I like taking a girl...|||47270  under something like this: 47272  Gotta rock the funky socks ;)|||+1 lol.  I bring my tablet to do some writing.  Sometimes I don't really want to talk to anyone I just like the energy of a crowd haha. I sometimes stop into this one bar on the way home, eat dinner,...|||Thank you very much :)  I have to remind myself of this sometimes as well haha.  I really do think it's just as simple as saying CHARRRGGGGGGGEEEEEEEE!|||Well there you go haha.  You decided you wanted something, figured out what you needed to do, and you just did what needed to be done.  Life really is that simple I think :)  Fear, depression,...|||Personally I think it's better to be subtle unless you're stalking a shy guy who just will never make a move.  Little touches, complimenting mundane things like his glasses, holding eye contact a...|||Makes sense and yeah I think that does have a lot to do with it.  I realized by way of what I really wanted and was not getting that I might just not be compatible with anyone on the other side of...|||Please don't be offended if I think that's adorable :)    Well it sounds like you have one strategy that helped you to initiate positive behavior.  For my part all of the stuff I was ranting...|||Haha well I think that most of us still gush uncontrollably.  It's very difficult not to when I like someone.  As a man it's easier because I can just ask a woman out without any associated taboos. ...|||DanAtWork - YouTube  Some random shiz on there but quite a bit of trance hahahaahahaha :)    Bro-hug!  @jbeck1999  lol yeah I'm spending my life looking for those connections.  They're so...|||OMFG LULZ hahahahahaah  good to see you KOD hahahahahahaahah|||Hahah YOLO indeed.  I think that the concept of personality incest maybe what turns people from the concept.  Like if you're attracted to people who are definitively like you you're being a...|||Haha yeah that's what I've been finding.  So I was with an ENTP for many years and we made fantastic adventure partners.  And I easily fell into using my Te and Fi to become the person that our...|||Oh god yeah when I was a kid and getting in trouble a lot a string of counselors/therapists told me to not try to think through my emotions so much... um...  ok I'm feeling you asked me to explain...|||Battlestar Gallactica (best TV ever in history) How I Met Your Mother Star Trek Deep Space Nine Bones Breaking Bad Parenthood Farscape ---- (shit i watch from my pc more often than any of the...|||Thanks Naughty!  It's great to see you!  I only stay away because I love you guys too much haha.  It was getting in the way of me reinventing my ish.|||It does make sense hehe.  I've actually become instant extremely good friends with an ENFP 8 recently and we are WAY too similar to have long term viability.  Out of all of the people that I've met...|||So those of you who have been around awhile and have better memory than me may remember that I said I wanted to date NF's... so that's what I've been doing haha.  They're not the most common people...|||Get so full of wonder, love, and amazement that I feel like popping... I want desperately to share this with everyone but often can't manage to haha.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZvSgLHWR16o&feature=player_detailpage|||Regarding the initial post - don't process too much man.  Just roll with the good.  Seriously.  Otherwise you'll get stuck in that am I being my authentic self?!?!?! ish.  The answer to that...|||Yeah I agree - though I think it's more of the women's preconceptions if I may be so bold.  It's not so hard for me I think because I'm a bit of a cocky 8 most days haha.  Most women don't see the...|||47104  This is what I look like when I recently did something rotten.... not sure what that was hahahaha.|||Mmm I'll start by saying this:  I was married for 11 years but was a total dog from the age of 13 before that up through 22.  I'm back into dating now for the last few months and haven't had trouble...|||Haha oh man i've been gone a few months but I see that the ENFP/INTJ love fests are still going strong lol.    I know one confirmed INTJ who's dating a friend ENFP of mine and they seem to get...|||Hi Cher,  I hope that this helps.  I have been in many ruts though I've found what works for me after 33 years of this and that.   ...|||I solve problems through brainstorming, unless I've encountered something similar before.    I do tend to make things more complicated up front, but I tend to find the optimal solution.    I have...|||Get baked and dance to dubstep with my dog... little furry bastard's got moves son.  :)|||Some great responses in here.  I hope that these two suggestions might be helpful:  1)  Try talking to someone about the subject matter.  As an extrovert I derive energy and motivation from...|||Hi All :)    I've been missing some of you folks but had to stay away for awhile because PerC tends to keep me up late and gets me saying weird shit to people IRL. This ran contrary to what I...|||About her?  Mmmm maybe she's giving you a cautionary tale?  I don't tend to bring other people's embarassing moments up, but I make A LOT of jokes about my own!|||I like the cheese choice hehe.  But I would also like to submit: the all the crap in the fridge stew.  Among my close friends I am known for being able to make a delicious meal out of anything.   ...|||Well there's philosophically ignorant and then there's subject matter ignorant heh.  It's the philosophically ignorant that I get really pissed off about. I agree with you, however I cannot always be...|||Both posts are true for me as well.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=grxL5umOE6g&feature=related'