'Not really what you're describing, but I do know that I will think about someone i care about at least once a day in such a deep respect that I get the sudden urge to message them. Its a constant...|||Lost it at 20 to my first girlfriend. that was about 4-5 years ago now and we went our separate ways. I know that before that first time I hadn't really had any interest, but after you experience...|||I have experienced both intimate love-making and passionless sex, and of the two I find the intimate to be much more fulfilling even without a climax. I enjoy making my partner feel good and like...|||Introverted: 79% Intuition: 84% Feeling: 58% Perceiving: 74%  I'd say thats pretty damn solid. I've always been kind of close between Thinking and Feeling, though.|||I have a love-hate relationship with the darkness. On the one hand I love the feeling of being out at night, no sun shining overhead and only myself on the empty streets. On the other hand, though, I...|||Don't waste your time with jealousy; sometimes you're ahead, some times you're behind. The race is long, and in the end its only with yourself.  I also just recently re-read Oh! The Places You'll...|||Ridiculous|||I have qite a few ideas for personal gain, but I think we need a variety of small projects that can make money. I know personally I would lose interest very quickly with just one venture, but having...|||I think its a common misconception that voicing concerns and worrying are akin to complaining/whining. I know that I personally can whine, but its normally just me voicing my complaints or...|||It depends on what the small talk is about. For instance, if you want to talk about sports then no, no we are traditionally not good at discussing the sporty-ness of ball events. If its something a...|||I have been perpetually stressed for the past year and half going from finals through graduation to 3 different jobs, unemployment, new car, several moves including a major one across the country and...|||That actually really means a lot to hear that. Thank you :)|||Thanks for the response. I know these kinds of things usually don't seem quite so frustrating to most people but when I put forth the effort and then get ignored its more than a little upsetting.  ...|||I feel like no one wants to DEAL with me unless I'm being happy and outgoing. I've had a close friend on several occasions inform me that they don't want to be around people who are negative and that...|||I recently had to move because of  falling out with my roommates and now find myself far away from my friends and relationships. It hasn't been an issue thus far because I've been able to hang out...|||You always jump to conclusions without asking any questions.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n8Wx80TZ8OQ|||I just had to move and as I we were pulling boxes from under my bed my SO stumbled upon a bag of pokemon plushes. She found it hilarious that I would have those kinds of things. I just shrugged it...|||129. I'm not sure taking this at work with headphones in was the best idea, though.|||John Dies At The End (before you ask, no, there are no spoilers in that title) is by far my favorite book. Its a perfect combination of weird, lovecraftian horror and dick jokes.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=os0Z3mc8G8g|||I can't speak for others, but I do know I forgive much more easily than many others think I should. Its part of the curse of being able to see the potential in others. That said, there is a cut off...|||My fucking roommates have been the biggest children with regards to my announcement to move. I gave them 5 (though in all fairness my wording made it sound more like 4) months notice of my decision...|||Know what you like and don't be afraid to say it; treat everyone fairly and as equal human beings (I'll let you determine what the standard for that should be); and don't lie to yourself or anyone...|||Making out with a random person I just met at a bar. Just think about it makes me feel anxious, and I've already been drinking a little today.|||My T and F are ~1% different so its interesting being on both sides of this wall. In all honesty, though, I love INTPs. Their love of knowledge is by far the most wonderful trait a person could have....|||I know that high school was a rough time dealing with other people, specifically in that a shy nature would result in the more extroverted (and lets face it, developed) people poking fun. It...|||Its all in your head|||I am a cancer.   Grammatical humor aside I actually fall in line pretty close with the idea of what a cancer represents. Specifically, very closed off when meeting people for the first time,...|||I think I needed this more than I thought I would...|||Yep. My brain and I have some interesting back and forth, usually explaining what we already know and just reiterating it like some weird TV show trying to explain what was happening before the...|||I think its mostly about finding who you are. I don't think any of us really want to cause harm to others, but because of our understanding and ability to emphatically connect with others we have a...|||Travel. Sleep in hotels and live out of a bag, spending a couple months in one location before moving onto the next. I'd see Europe, Asia, parts of South America, Australia... just see the world and...|||We're all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars. - Oscar Wilde  “You see, Frank found out the hard way that the dark things lurking in the night don’t haunt old houses or...|||For the past 4 years I had been driving around a 1993 Honda Accord that was, for all intents and purposes, being held together by duct tape. It was my first car and I dumped more money into its...|||I just want to hear from her... some kind of message... I hate message blackouts, giving or receiving :/|||1) I am more patient than is reasonable. I have put up with manipulative exes, socially impossible acquaintances, and family members who probably shouldn't be allowed to hold the scissors they give...|||I'm making this post so i can get to 15 and be able to post links...|||The fucking mental state where we think everything is shit, that we're shit, and that there is something fundamentally wrong to keep us from being happy. There is absolutely no reason for it and yet...|||Finding some way to shut my brain down for a little while. Generally video games can help with that, but alcohol (to an extent) is another one. There is a bit of a dichotomy within myself where I am...|||I feel like I have an opposite problem where I find myself opening up too much. I need a way to vent my anxieties and I find that I use people as talking posts when i really shouldn't be sharing some...|||I bought new clothes yesterday and have been speaking with more confidence. I still think before I act but I am trying to be more sure of myself, even if I have no idea what I'm doing/saying. Its...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTJ7AzBIJoI   As for getting affirmation of love, as difficult as it might be you need to get it from yourself. Having others tell you that you're special and...|||I cannot decide if I'm jealous of people I care about having fun without me, or if I'm afraid of missing out and slowly becoming irrelevant. Even now I'm still being torn apart by my SO spending the...|||A concept that I'm still working to grasp is that love, in any form, is pointless without self respect. You may love someone more intensely that you could think possible but it does;t mean anything...|||I actually was thinking about this earlier today and was thinking David Wong from John Dies at the End may be an example of an INFP/INTP. He's definitely removed from reality, preferring to be by...|||I'm curious if anyone else has developed a way to pick yourself up when feeling down and, for lack of a better word, depressed. Personally I've found that giving myself a project helps to distract...|||I only started recently to realize the subconscious reasoning for my wardrobe choices. In high school I had a large jacket that I wore literally all year long (Spring to Winter) because I felt...|||I find that I have a tendency to never write anything down because the words just start forming in my head before I can even find a place to start typing or writing. If I've already written 2 pages...|||A couple of my favorites  https://38.media.tumblr.com/db7d2e95e03a91c47dd25717737d2e6b/tumblr_ndzd8hr0oC1ru0qsgo1_500.jpg...'