'https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CBTOGVb_cQg|||To answer the subject of the thread - you won't.  You'll never know unless he knows beyond the shadow of a doubt (no hinting - be blunt) that you're actually, really and truly interested.  And then...|||I'll see your Tom Sawyer, and raise you some Ironman...   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5s7_WbiR79E|||Bleh.....  I need another drink...|||Ok, so who's ready for another rum and coke?|||I've made a career of it.  I've always been able to get computer~y things (tech term) to work, so I rode the tech wave of the '90s and did quite well for myself.  Of course, I still have to reset the...|||It's not a matter of whether or not people will (or can) change.  It's identifying the root cause of the behavior (our nature) singling out when it will strike, then trying to shape that response to...|||Certainly more than three....  To be specific on the question of how many layers - all of them...|||I drink and I meditate.  We're 1%, there just aren't anymore of us.  Choose your friends wisely, and only take on what you can suffer.  You are likely more capable than you can currently image, but...|||@Furgey, Do you know the parable of the scorpion and the frog?  Therein lies your answer.|||@INForJoking  Here's to drinking...  I'll hoist one (or many) with you anytime...|||Without first reading anyone else's comments (which I do always find fascinating) I find a restaurant I like and order food I either know I will like or food that I already know I like, then I have a...|||@warweasel That's awesome.  I've actually drank with Ron White.  Oh, yeah, random thought...   I need a dark room, some incense, and about an hour to meditate away today.  Alternatively, need...|||Ha, totally did that all the time....  534682  I remember it well.    I remember when M-TV was just a late night show and not it's own channel.|||Hell yeah, loved those drinks - especially the black cherry.      We didn't do Jiffy Pop, we had an old (new at the time) hot air popper.    534466|||I totally forgot about the red/black typewriter ribbon.  Very jealous about the Eagles and Rush.  I bet they were both awesome shows.    Loved all those shows you listed - of course you didn't have...|||UraniaIsis - been there multiple times.  I'll say something to someone multiple times, but it seems they only either listen or take me seriously when I get pissed.  Not a fan of that at all... ...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gspSxwjqZQ8|||Well, I was listening to The End by The Doors, but this is on now...  Not complaining...   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mrojrDCI02k|||Oh, here's another one - The TV Show That 70's Show made complete sense to you and you could identify who each character was from your childhood...|||Awesome - I'll be 47 next month.  Born in '69.  Still love saying that...    Aw, come on - far too easy - Party on Garth....    Hey Copper North, you could also get the TV guide out of the...|||- What are the small things that bring you enjoyment?     - seeing the trees I had planted budding each spring    - planting a garden and watching it grow    - a crisp and frigid January morning,...|||Funny, I had a former instructor and military friend tell me I have a pragmatic approach to problems.    I totally agree with Vunar, based on your answers to my questions, I'd say you are...|||LOL - that's awesome...|||Why?   Marv - Did you get a haircut?  Your avatar looks different.|||Hmmm, so let me ask you a couple of questions first...    1.) For the people you are close to, can you generally gauge their mood when you first see them for the day?  2.) When in a group, can...|||532146  Listen to Christopher Walken...|||532138|||Agreed, I don't have most of the details either.  Like I said, it's just a hunch, but I sense a great personal loss.|||I believe I fully understand, and completely agree.  I'm guessing stepped on and left for dead...  Just a hunch though.|||This popped into my head while looking at a different thread...   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZqmC1T9rukk|||No, unfortunately far too much to get done, but I feel like I need to.  I find myself doing short hibernations (only a few hours) until the next time I have to leave the house.  I think I would love...|||I would have to agree with Rebecca.M.  Towards the end of the clip, Bradley Cooper suggests that he's one step ahead of Robert Di Nero because he's already processed 50 different scenarios in his...|||Dear extrovert(s),        Please stop talking.  Even for just 30 seconds.  I'm so sick of hearing your voice and I can't concentrate on what I'm reading because it seems you don't know the...|||Agree with ctrlfeelings, completely from my heart (so, chest).  That's where I feel it first and strongest.|||At 46, just finished my masters degree in information technology.|||I generally agree with most of the previous comments.  Here's a pretty article I found on the INFJ door slam.  Its worth the read if are looking for some background (@jade.england.16101 - FYI). ...|||INFJ here, and I'm a Leo.|||Hello, welcome to PerC.  I think you'll find it's an interesting place.|||Hello, welcome to PerC.|||Hello, welcome to PerC.  You think your mind was hurting before... Take a look around...|||Hi Max, welcome.|||Hello, welcome.|||:welcome:   Welcome - some of us haven't been on here all that long, either.  I found out about this MBTI stuff back in August of '15, and found this site shortly after.  What keeps driving me...|||Ok, @Mschievious, I wonder if the the forward looking nature of INFJs is actually a defense mechanism to keep us safe from being drowned in the emotions of the past.|||Hey, Copper North, I have a deck that needs to be water sealed.  Any chance you want to burn some energy on that?  *smirk*|||529650|||One of my turns...   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I9YZS0TYv_E|||@NotAlone, never saw Saving Private Ryan, that's on my do not watch list.  Like others, I have no idea.  When I was growing up I watched a lot of movies, but none of them really had any kind of...|||Out and about this morning, and I got me some Oreo's...'