I find users with Fi and Ti quite attractive. I don't understand how someone with Fe can actually be attractive? Fe makes people focus on the other person's needs and stuff and that makes them appear...|||Haha. I really don't think I can stand another like this one. But yeah, I'm thankful too that you could give me such an accurate perspective. I wasn't able to let go because I didn't know if I was...|||I did. I stopped completely. It'll take me a while to heal, haha.    I wouldn't have considered this perspective in a million years. It makes so much sense. I know this was stupid, but I had...|||I have been frank with her from the beginning. What you say makes a lot of sense. I just stopped talking or replying to her messages completely now. Thanks. I guess I came to the right temperament to...|||Thanks.|||Hey, guys,  I met this ISFP(not N) who didn't want a relationship because she said that her past ones had hurt her. We ended up staying friends and I didn't mind that. But one day, she sent me a...|||Hey, guys,  I met this ISFP who didn't want a relationship because she said that her past ones had hurt her. We ended up staying friends and I didn't mind that. But one day, she sent me a text...|||Haha. Each of those is the equivalent of running a marathon for me.|||I was watching this kid's show called The Last Airbender.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=02FkMr21xOA  A guru teaches the kid that there are seven chakras and that they all flow into each other...|||I feel that, sometimes, even if our intuition is right 90% of the time, we never know when we're wrong because we cannot perceive how we can be wrong. I've been in the grip of Se for a long time and...|||I'm not an NT, but if anyone's curious. 1. I'm usually aware of my environment and I don't speak more than I need to. But I do meet the occasional interesting person and get carried away in...|||Wow. A lot of good advice on this thread.|||I can relate to this a lot. I think it's because we naturally tend to place value on things that are physically beautiful. I don't know if it's the same for you, but I tend to categorize things based...|||Ah. Okay. I see it now.   I've made quite a people uncomfortable by projecting my idealistic view of them, on them. Focusing on things that makes us happy instead would make relationships more...|||Thanks for this. This is pretty much me right now and I guess I need to grow emotionally. But sometimes, I can't help it, because I tend to lose interest in life when there isn't something...|||Haha, I'd like to know that too.|||I've noticed that my life tends to revolve around the person I like. Everything I do, has something related to it. If I watch a movie for instance, I try to pick up things which might impress them....|||Glad to help :happy:  I think that should be fine, I have a feeling you might manage it well.|||I think you would be helping her a lot. I usually get a rush when I talk about my pent-up feelings and it gets quite intense and uncontrollable inside. But that state has made me bond like crazy with...|||She is lucky to have you.   I'm still going through a similar phase and can identify a lot with her. It's quite hard to express who we truly are, because we're scared about how people will perceive...|||This is from my perspective of temperaments. Feel free to add whatever you feel and correct me wherever I might be wrong.  The four temperaments: The guardians, artisans, idealists and rationals....|||Welcome. It made a huge difference for me too. Hope to see you in our forums :)|||Haha, at least that helped clear my doubts if I was an INTJ. :) :) thanks|||That would be the super power.|||I think I'm pretty sure now that I'm not Si because I really really hate repetition and routine. I find them absolutely mind numbing and usually escape from activities like that.And I usually get...|||I think INFPs smile from the inside. INFJs reflect other people's smiles most of the time.|||I'm not sure why. The combination gives me a feeling of something that has been untouched for a long time and looking at it could tell me about the people who lived here and the type of life they...|||Haha, namaste to you too :) and let me know if you ever need help with anything. I will be glad to help too.|||Ditto here.|||Haha, me too. I think it's because I could always tell what they were planning next and would frustrate them by blocking them XD XD.|||Haha, thanks for looking into my post.  https://www.flickr.com/photos/alco251/21067616135/  I tend to like pictures like these because they tend to calm me. The mix of old metal and nature always...|||That's true. I just wish that there would be someone to reciprocate the same way.    I'm pretty much in the same boat too I guess.    You have been invaluable to me :) :)|||Hmm. Should I post more pictures descriptions to make sure?|||Repeated|||What if you try to know if you're a dominant judger or a perceiver? That might help clear things up a bit.|||Haha, this is exactly how I feel.     Not to sound like a dreamer,  but I wouldn't want anything else if I could find a person like that.|||Haha, you know, the ones in movies like Pretty Woman, The English Patient. :) :)    I assumed that I could get close to anybody I wanted and could get the kind of relationship I was looking for,...|||I think so. I feel it makes me quite dependent on people and kinda needy.    Yeah, a romantic relationship. The movie kind haha.|||Haha, I just meant to tell you to try as many types of strategy games as possible.  I think     AverOblivious hit the nail on the head. Every type gets tempted to develop their tertiary. It's...|||Actually, yes. I feel that I cannot live without fantasizing a perfect relationship or idolizing somebody.|||Hey guys.  Just wanted to know if craving a relationship was something normal or if it was confined to XXFJs or just me haha.|||Haha, I'm pretty sure most of us do. My question was whether you're good at any of them :) :P|||It might seem so at first glance, but they key to knowing your temperament is finding out what you can't live without. I do enjoy freedom, knowledge, etc, but I absolutely cannot live a life which...|||I don't think so. I would rather feel that I had more opportunities than the rest to turn my visions into reality.|||The temperaments are quite different. Each temperament has core needs which they can't live without. Artisans(ISTPs) cannot live without freedom or an ability to make an impact. Rationals(INTPs)...|||1. Wreck-It Ralph. 2. In The Land Of Women. 3. Pretty Woman. 4. Sleepless in Seattle. 5. The Notebook.|||:) Thanks. You've been a big influence on me. I really hope I will find someone like that too. I wish you the best for all your endeavors and your advice is much appreciated.|||Haha. Glad you were able to enjoy it too.|||Thanks. I think I need a little confidence in my own judgement too. I think I'll start off with small steps till I gain confidence in my judgement. Thanks for the encouragement. Its made a big...|||Haha. I've been in the same situation quite a few time XD XD