'As I've mentioned, the awesome thing about select Chicago suburbs is that, much like New York... They're all walkable. Yes I live in a suburb of the third largest, most industrialized concrete jungle...|||So, funny story about this:  My mother, back in 2006 when this show first aired watched the Pilot episode, and was like, Andrew! You have to watch this with me! He's just like you!... I blew it...|||Haha. I do it alone so as not to be a bother to others. I have gone with girls before where they grab about 5 different tops and come out and ask questions like does this make my back look weird?...|||What I love about Chicago is that it's not a cliquey city. Are you kidding me!? There's 10 million people in this metro. I have lived in other medium/large cities and it's almost as though people...|||Glassland This is why I work in the heart of downtown then take my train back to my retreat. I think I would love to live in the city someday though. I guess I feel as though my tastes are perhaps...|||Touching? Why... Thank you. It was just a burst of creativity I had one random morning.  Re: city vs. rural, this is why I got this conversation going... Because, you see, as I am riding my train...|||Interesting! I could maybe see this, given the functions as well as the fact that I think my exterior does look confident to many (especially when I'm in work attire). Thank you. :] happy Friday.|||Hmm... So I look more sure of myself?|||The beautiful thing about the RIGHT suburbs of Chicago is that they are very much like the city- quaint, within walking distance of a train stop, very non-suburban esque. My area in particular has a...|||I live in Chicago, and this is how a lot of my weekends look. SUPER quiet, relaxed, INFP'y all day... Pick up my dry cleaning. Take a nap... Call a friend, and then go out for casuals at a loungey...|||Here are a few neat murals I bought recently from a local etsy artist:  123986123994124002|||Greetings, everybody.  Thoughts of the evening (because, you know, as an INFP I'm never thinking...) :  Where are we at our best?  I've been wondering this lately, as I notice how I respond so...|||Thank you for this. This is beautiful and made me teary eyed... I guess knowing that there is somebody else out there who feels as much as I feel... Whose entire day can be changed by the smallest...|||What is this thread and why am I @ mentioned in it?  123490|||jondmike   unsustainable... I feel as though this word definitely describes the situation at its best. And you're right - he is definitely a unique type. It's not a bad type, and it's definitely...|||... This is why I feel as though we don't post as much:    http://youtu.be/ytgh9HMEprs  Thoughts?|||I'm a client-facing banker.|||I believe in love at first sight. But this wasn't that. This was more like... Good boy meets bad boy. Bad boy uncovers something about good boy and good boy is touched. And the rest is history.  ...|||Thank you for looking out for me.   Having a natural guard up (This is the part where I may be confused for an INFJ and I look and feel like one), I like to play 20 questions and know everything...|||As an INFP, I see celebrities differently -- I don't necessarily idolize them, I see them as equals...  For example: I am (told) that I am an attractive young man. The only difference between...|||RunForCover07 ... That's sweet of you. :] Thank you.  Go to the INFP forum. It seems as though for every bad date (or two) there may be a good one...|||So, as I was just describing to my friend on here via PM--  So, I met a tall, handsome ENFJ man yesterday. 30 years old. Kind of looks like Calvin Harris. ... The spark was ELECTRIC. I have not...|||Would you be mad if I told you that I do love the attention? :unsure:|||RunForCover07 ... All these gay NF's deeply analyzing me. I'm going to land a boyfriend out of this deal!   ^_~  anyway, I do understand what you're explaining- and thank you for taking the time...|||So what does that make me? INFP?|||I don't necessarily disagree with your thought process. However, I have seen myself pretty low before, and, if I can sustain happiness this way, I won't put up too much fuss.  I am lonely. I wonder...|||_Observer_ ... Medicine.  Ok, its time for bed.|||You're too kind. Aww. Feel the NF love.  ... No, I don't know what you mean by Why do you go to a psychiatrist - you should be the one charging...? In any event, yes, I am tired. However, I don't...|||Funny you ask.   A lot of people ask me what I think about myself, including my psychiatrist yesterday. She said, Andrew, what do you think of yourself when you look in the mirror?  Me......|||I'm doing some reading and analyzing as we speak - It's literally a 1% preference. In reading about the functions, I sound a bit more sensitive and fluffy than the hard 'J' types. Yay, fluffy. Like...|||Agreed. Thank you. It was very uncomfortable. I was honestly thinking to myself at one point, Okay, I don't even know your middle name... and I'm sitting on your bed. ... This is great. Just great.|||... You don't think I am which?|||:O I strike you as genuine & classy? :]|||Veggie  OOH. Watch this one. This one is juicy... My hair is super short, though:   http://youtu.be/wTFFcYwlDRs|||... I'll ask you a weird question. Well, not a weird question, but a question nonetheless. Can you tell if I'm more Ne or Ni in the video? RunForCover07 thinks I'm INFJ, but I religiously test INFP....|||I feel as though it added the NF emphasis you all needed to truly experience how I was feeling in that moment after that experience :]|||Reply to First Point: He lived at home while he was still in college, however also working 4 jobs. I think this guy just had WAY too much going on for me.   Reply to Second Point: The house had no...|||I have an accent?? What kind of accent?  I'm from Chicago. lol.|||Oh, my! ... I didn't know that I was 'fancied' :O|||As an INFJ/P (whichever I am -- still sorting out those details), to me a good date looks like this:  - meet up casually at a coffee shop...have a nice chat. From here, it will go one of three...|||NIHM  I have no idea what type he is - I am an INFJ.|||UXDork NIHM ... So much for the Awwwww the poor NF guy was put in a super awkward position for him!, huh? :P  I've had a few hours now to cool down and reflect and think about really happened......|||UXDork I felt as though it was extremely disrespectful to put me in a situation like that-- Most anybody 25 years of age with common sense would know that it would make nearly anybody feel...|||UXDork ... Okay, the errands thing was the least of my worries. The rest is what was EXTREMELY uncomfortable.|||... And so he needed to drop his beat to shit BMW off to get new tires, so I followed him to the tire shop, dropped him off, then he started listing off ERRANDS that he wanted me to drive him to... I...|||O_O   http://youtu.be/_WGGZhzNMDE|||So, I sent out my invite (for my birthday party), it was Saturday night and all of my best friends and I had a blast. But, now I want to get myself a little something for myself for my birthday, and...|||I don't quite understand... What did I miss?|||I do little things that are not extravagant, yet, I know do not go unnoticed. For example, if I notice that my colleague seems down, I won't necessary sit them down and ask for a Dr. Phil session......|||Interesting. I think my mom says it quite well when she says You're pleasant as long as it's sunshine and flowers in your world... Lol. It's kind of true. I think that when we feel stressed out, it...'