'they are wonderful. Seriously, this is my second ENFJ crush in a row. ARGHHH|||I was just browsing the ENTJ threads casually, minding my own business, but now I have seen that INTP DALTON.THOMPSON IS ACTUALLY ENTJ?!?!|||I really hope he doesn't think that being quiet and avoidant makes me comfortable; in fact, it really makes me wonder why I'm the only person in the room he doesn't treat like a normal person....|||ENFJs because I think they balance INTP indifference with how much they care about things...and not in the way an ENTJ would. ENFJs care about feelings a lot and stuff|||I act pretty introverted in the class I share with him (I'm guessing? It's hard for me understand introversion as an adverb because I only know of in its noun/adjective forms).   My close friends...|||I'm not in a romantic relationship, but when I think about the people I really love(2 people total), I would definitely love to talk to them at almost anytime (almost b/c introversion) about almost...|||he is so quiet in my presence! i have read the art of speedreading etc. so i really think he is an enfj, but if i based his type off 1 to 1 interaction i would guess intj.  is having someone dent...|||the enfj is around the same age.  hmm...that's helpful, but he makes eye contact with other people. do you feel more comfortable looking at those you know well?|||i think the one i know regards me as boring :|||why does the enfj i know avoid eye contact with me? i am prettyyyy sure i have not done anything to get on his bad side. he also tends to end conversation at these times when he breaks eye contact. i...|||what are your recommendations? (just the ones in your original post? A friend recommended Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead and I watched the first ~2 minutes but the cartoons were too outlandish and it...|||I feel the same way. I feel jealous when I see INTPs on here refer how they can only be friends with NTs etc. I don't make friends based on who I relate to, I just meld into an acceptable shape for...|||I'm not sure what your definition of person is: do you mean sense of self? In that case go read Antonio Damasio|||Me too! Due to being super skeptical of pop science(after reading a book recently about how easy it is to distort neuroscience) + disliking the layout/format/content of most magazines, a subscription...|||1. Nope. I'm not sure why, but I have an unusually strong sense of self. I can't really put who I am into words or anything, but it's never worried me. 2. Socialization is such a broad process that...|||Thank you tangosthenes...ok before I continue, let me just say that I have taken chemistry so I know about the basic form of an atom(both Lewis & quantum models). I understand you were just trying to...|||Do my fellow INTPs agree with this? http://inthecapital.streetwise.co/2013/12/03/the-best-presents-to-give-each-myers-briggs-personality/#s_intp-the-thinker_s  Honestly, I LOVE art supplies! They...|||Haziq Mir Thank you for your reply. I guess what I meant to ask is this:  If this is a property that oppositely charged ions possess, then why are there ionic bonds? Does it just have to do with...|||I doubt I'll ever get around to watching the latter but at least Doctor Who's huge fandom makes more sense to me|||I heavily skimmed through the OP's post, which is a pretty good indicator of my opinion on animal treatment: I'm sure that there are reasons I shouldn't eat meat but I'm too lazy/don't care enough...|||hmm...I think it's cool that us INTPs naturally possess some of these traits but I sort of feel like it's just some dead guy giving me a pat on the back for meeting his ideal personality traits. I...|||On one of Sparknotes's Chemistry review page things*, it states the following:  ...[oppositely charged] ions are actually repelled at small distances. To explain this observation, remember that...|||I'm not sure how others would rate my public speaking skills, but I have no problem with it. I may dread it, but that's usually because I didn't finish the powerpoint/poster/etc. for the presentation...|||Thank you for all the responses!  RoSoDude : It's chilling to hear your experiences because I had no idea that other parents could act so similarly...it's nice to know that I'm not alone :) ...|||yes...from me...many times...|||I'm well aware of how dead this thread is, but it makes me laugh because the ENFJ I know is soo hilarious and has literally joked about a teacher with terminal cancer|||Duh, home, but also church (gasp) and bookstores.     reading, drawing every once in a blue moon, imagining inventions, idealizing rationalized societies *deep sigh*    I have been approached...|||NT the DC, after seeing this post (along with your post on the flirting thread), I have concluded that you are a very awesome person|||I get very good grades because of family pressure (lots of SJs, overwhelming focus on success)|||ADHR26: I know! She can be so... *deep sigh* ...illogical about things.|||Kurdomintt: thank you, but I would like to not get kicked out of my house and then become ostracized by my overwhelmingly feeler family :)|||I've been listening to the Quiet audiobook recently. Merry Bookmas to you as well, good Sir *tips hat*|||Honestly, I don't get it all because:  1. Terrible special effects  2. TERRIBLE special effects  3. Unappealing plotlines  4. Boring characters (to me at least)|||This is what I have decided to do:  1. I will ask her to make a list of things she wants me to get done in any given day and ask her to not add to it at any time during the day, because it will be...|||Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them; sometimes they forgive them. - The Picture of Dorian Gray  Oour relationship has been like that ever since around...|||I have had SO MANY times when I question her stereotypes of people and she just refuses to change her mind that it's not even funny. I've given up on it because it's really hopeless - I mean she even...|||1. I have sort of asked her before, and she's basically said that my male siblings really should help out more with cleaning but she never guilt trips them over it (at least less with them than with...|||Girlinthedark Nope, she is never enthusiastic about things that are important to me. She's made it clear that she sees my introversion/lack of interest in ESFJ things as a phase that I will soon grow...|||This has a complicated answer...basically, my INTP-ness kind of prevents me from seeing what she would want to be done. For me, I may wipe down some counters, take out the trash a few times a week,...|||I wouldn't have defended myself because that's so subjective. That's like someone yelling in the middle of Times Square that the apocalypse is coming - no empirical evidence or logical thought...|||I don't correct my parents unless they say things I really can't ignore. I don't correct anyone, really; I usually keep my thoughts to myself, so I don't quite understand where your potentially INTP...|||aw das cute|||Well just so you know, I am VERY COOL.  I'm pretty easy to get along with, have a lot of interests, and basically live on the computer. I don't snatch attention at all-I'm usually simultaneously...|||Let's talk about A Mathematician's Lament you guys : http://www.maa.org/sites/default/files/pdf/devlin/LockhartsLament.pdf|||for the last couple days:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e09EMTgf3o0|||I am glad we have reached a consensus that FJ parents can rly suk|||*ignores all humorous, non-depressing posts on this thread* My ENFJ husband made me pancakes this morning :o|||I agree with the sentiment of I don't really care, but I need to care somewhat in order to function in society|||a little?  My mom has said multiple times that she wants to hold me back from going to college because she thinks I forget things too much/am too lazy to be on my own  also I have had to use...|||My targets and I stare relentlessly at each other until one of us leaves the room'