'Hmmm... I don't really like the compatibility description btw 7 and 5 because of the whole lack of trust between them when they reach conflict. A 5 might be too emotionally closed off for me.|||Why so pessimistic?|||FacePalm, I don't have an Enneagram subtype in mind and actually haven't fully jumped on the enneagram bandwagon. BUT according to my research I'm a 7 Enthusiast, subtype social, and I think my...|||Also, do any of you know how to change a username? I hate mine atm.|||OK yeah now that I think about it, this is a stupid thread. Sorry guys. You all are too nice for actually responding. :) And as for online dating, it sounds nice to me in theory but ultimately, I'm...|||Why are you calling yourself a dream killer?   I want to date an ISTP because I think it would change my life for the better.|||I really want to date one of you guys, to be completely honest...|||let the haters drink their haterade. I don't recall asking for their opinions anyhow. then maybe we'll be ready for the bigger happinesses? hope so.  HAHA yes!!! Amen to that!  And thank you...|||I had a conversation with my sister over the weekend (last weekend) and she told me that I'm like this big blob, that I don't even know myself. It totally struck me like a rock, and I was so happy...|||I LOVE LOVE LOVE talking about love. I love hearing people tell me about their love lives, and I love hearing stories of people happily in love. Because it is such a fun and  beautiful experience!!!...|||Hi EVERYONE!  I miss this forum, it has certainly been a while.  I am excited to post for the first time in many many weeks.   How are you?  Specifically, is any one in love?  Do tell! :)|||This is a wonderful thread :)|||From my perspective, a double major offers more options in case I change my mind.  On the flip side, it takes up time, provides too broad a focus, more classes, more stress, and uses more money.|||Hey,    SO I'M FREAKING OUT. I NEED HELP WITH CHOOSING A MAJOR.. LIKE ASAP.   People, please help!!!  There's 3 options: Psychology, Sociology and Communications.|||Rippling, rippling, rippling, like a flapping overlapping of soft flames, soft as feathers, running to points of brilliance, exquisite, exquisite, and melting her all molten inside. -D.H. Lawrence|||What are your favorite awe-inducing, contemplative, fuzzy feeling, sexy quotes?!  I'll start!   the silence holds with its gloved hand the wild hawk of the mind. --R.S. Thomas|||Beautiful People by Chris Brown!|||-Get a job, find a way to make your own pocket money asap. Plan before your 18, on how you'll be able to achieve affording a living space and various expenses for yourself.  You can do it.   -Learn...|||Yeah definitely and Silentknight thanks for asking.   He was referring to how we became familiar with each other, really indiscriminately. The first time we met it was easy to talk till 2 and then...|||Awesome insight!! Very helpful!!|||GREAT advice, ardentauthor, I was so completely ITCHING to jumpstart something, and will definitely just kick back.  The thing that's frustrating is the whole retreat thing that he did (which i...|||lol good idea. how do you edit a thread??|||Ah yes, heat does rise. lol, well good luck in 110 degree weather! You must have AMAZING water slide parks.|||I know right?! There's a great view from up here, come come!! Bring a bean bag!|||Okay, I spend most of my cyber life on google. typical search topics are how to recalcify teeth, and get rid of skin discolorations, researching prospective universities and scholarships,...|||Omg, I introduced him to MBTI analysis, hope he doesnt stumble upon this post...|||So, there's this guy who is just absolutely stunning, and fun, smart, adorable.. all these amazing things! I'm so enamored by him.  My question is, should I tell him I like him? What should I do? I...|||That is so weird!! So do you think a thought loop for a thinker is the equivalent of a negative feedback loop for a feeler? I mean, what exactly is a thought loop?   I do have a lot of interesting...|||Wow, I really appreciate all of your personalized responses. The mere fact that you wrote with the intent of trying to make me feel better has completely lifted my mood. Thank you all so much....|||hello personality cafe,  I've been really insecure about being enfp. my doctor diagnosed me with depression and prescribed me with antidepressants. i've been trying to get myself out of it by...|||Hey,  Are there ENFPs in structured, high pressure, competitive jobs that are happy? Possibly because it offers a varied social life, and diverse experiences?   I just started college and have a...|||Just wanted to contextualize this post (like a typical ENFP would), I was thinking about this is because I was listening to music I really like and realized that the last time I heard it was with...|||I'm sure this is a very unoriginal thread,  but as an ENFP, gotta love reassurance!  Seriously, though. Why are we great at flirting and very sensual.. at least I think most ENFPs are good? ...|||I also wanted to clarify that this post relies on my assumption that ENFPs use their sensing function particularly when handling stress. Any thoughts on that would be helpful so that I don't make...|||I'm curious what you mean by T and F, because from what I understand ENFPs  thinking function is the tertiary Te (extroverted thinking), while the ENTPs thinking function is the auxiliary Ti...|||Mmmhmm, case in point.   Thank you for your insight.  Anymore would be helpful, as I wholeheartedly admit, I'm the type of person that tries to get everyone.|||Awww, thanks!  I'll be anxiously awaiting. No pressure, tho.|||Okay, well from someone who had an extensive relationship with an ENTP, I'll say that most of the drama arose from being together for a really long time. We both were enthralled by each other, and...|||I've been doing some thinking about my inferior function Introverted Sensing, and am curious how it plays out in the lives of other ENFPs?  For example, with me I really like to savor a good piece...|||Haha, thanks Bigtex. If anything strikes me as being out-of-this-world-amazing with this ENTP, I'll surely have you in the back of my mind.  I suppose this is just an instance of my Ne working...|||Hi, I was wondering what you mean by feeling that Ne isn't real and that Fi is our only true self? Are you referring to maybe being lost in your feelings, and being sort of thin-skinned? And, are...|||After going on a manic obsessive search on Personality Cafe about the irl compatiblities for ENTP and ENFP relationships, I have essentially been discouraged.  I've dated an ENTP before, for 3 and...|||Greetings from an ENFP. I dated an ENTP for 3 and a half years. This was problematic because he cheated on me during our relationship. He was very manipulative and able to hide it well. I was...'