'Well you have two options.  1) Accept it, and embrace it (I know for a fact that there are some men and women who dig that kind of stuff). It is possible to be happy eating in excess, and to accept...|||Is there any stress in your life at the moment. From mentioning that you feel stressed out over not sorting your life out I can infer that you are a college/university graduate (or possibly a student...|||Well if it's any consolation, I went through similar thoughts and feelings back in January (around my eighteenth birthday no less...) and I will say that it has only been until recently that I could...|||If I ignore you, but see you often; maybe even seem like I'm trying to see you, but act like I don't.  If I look at you through the corner of my eye, but quickly look away embaressed; then that is...|||Fine :dry:, we'll have a nice candlelit dinner in the nicest restraunt in town, and we'll get a cake for dessert with THIS    one top in icing.   And I will refuse to call it a date.|||Yeah, we WILL get a room, and it will have blackjack and hookers (to help us play blackjack, since it's not as fun with two players).  And I would add forget the room, but it would probably be too...|||The day I lose all hope in love.  Lets say it's anywhere from 5 minutes to 70+ years from now.|||*swoon*  Sorry, it's just people talking about love gets me kinda hot and bothered (okay, kinda wrong choice of words)...|||I was originally writing a thread about solving problems, then it suddenly turned into this.  I feel like I have a pile of problems on my plate. However it feels like everybody wants me to deal or...|||I would like to have anybody interested in their future watch this video. Despite the sarcastic title, it is a very interesting talk.  Larry Smith: Why you will fail to have a great career | Video...|||I myself would major in English/Creative Witing (due to the advice of one teacher) and minor Psychology.  But I would rather ask you to list reasons why you want to into each field of study.  And...|||Gah, I didn't really mean that much when I wrote it. I guess I was trying to get someone who was an opposite of infpblog in a way (mostly in his way of being down to earth), and your name was the...|||As for myself, I was silent more than I talked.  I alternated between daydreaming in class and paying close attention to the teacher in class. I usually tried to find an isolated low-to-no traffic...|||IcarusDreams, you basically described what I was trying to say. We each have our own niche, INFP's in the world, and ourselves in this forum; just because not as many people can see it does not make...|||Sounds like a very negative first post. Almost makes me question his motives for posting...  1) The fact that you admit knowing little about the MBTI is evident. You base yourself as the template...|||The parts that I bolded describe the insecurities that all INFP's (I would even wager everyone) have. Nobody wants to share what they have with somebody who will crush it. All shy INFP's (which many...|||Don't smoke at all.  Sometimes I wonder life would be like if I did smoke, but I place that more on the level of what if I were a woman (and I am cisgendered if that provides any context).  I...|||Good plans ruined...|||I would like to say that you are a responsible person and that you have the choice and responsibility to choose how you alter your body or mind. But I can not.  It is one thing if it is escapism...|||The feeling in the world is when you're one of many friends to your one and only friend.|||Pointless fear paralizes me from having pleasant moments before they start. Yay stupid Ne...|||I do wear one mask, but it's not the one of extraversion, or of comfidence, or that of self-hatred. I guess my mask is extreme introversion.  I always hide what I want to say exactly what I want,...|||The ability for our fantasies to be physically here is non-existant.  ...Unless you imagine really really hard...  ...I'll be in my bunk.|||There was a time when I thought I had depression  Then I had a day where I lost it all  In a fit of confidence I made a wager  Then I finally saw who I was  Who the people were behind the...|||Tranformation into any form I choose, mostly to be able to fly; and other perverse reasons...  If that's too easy/boring, then maybe a personality reading ability, where I can be able to...|||Let's just say that our anthem committee have retreated into their houses embaressed that they have taken so long, and are now afraid that people will judge them for hiding.|||I would have to respectfully disagree. The crux of your arguement is the equation of sex to marriage, when the effect an intent of both are entirely different beasts. Sex is away of expressing...|||^ Kind of guy you should pass on :proud:[/QUOTE]  alienvomitsex don't shoot the messenger!![/QUOTE]  In a sense he's right, men are hardwired for looking for more physical attributes when...|||I refuse to acknowledge your title and declare our official government structure as an anarcho utopian socialist society.  Our official motto will be, whatever, and our flag will be decided at a...|||Exactly what OrangeAppled said, I have trouble with acknowledging value in myself. Mostly because I have not opened myself in such a way that others have been able to see what's good inside me. I do...|||Often when I'm on a bus, bored, I get in a musically creative mood where I try to write lyrics. Often times they are extremely poor lyrcs that just work as poetry and I delete them soon after. ...|||*strangers chatting to their friends, while you mutually ignore eachother's existence*|||Seriously, do it, I literally think it's a crime that nobody has piped up about it other than myself and Emily Riddle. Follow my recommendation to watch that one episode I mentioned, it will give you...|||Do you minding giving us some ways that your sister differs from you, with out using the word pretty or other words about how she is more physically attractive? I honestly cannot believe that looks...|||Okay, revisiting this;  I was definitely horny when I was thinking about it, and now that it's out of my system I don't feel too much attraction to her.  Also in comparison I have not felt...|||Only when it's goddamn appropriate, we don't need assholes fucking up this place due to bad manners.|||Here's my perspective on losing virginity.  If a chick cares too much about it, then she's too self-absorbed to give a second thought about how you feel about it.  The reason why the 'no sex...|||I think I have something like this...  But I have a feeling that it's just me being horny. (men :rolleyes:)   But yeah, I kinda feel bad that I have never felt something like this (or at least...|||I think that INFP's in a way are one of the types more inclined towards pleasure of some forms; but I think that's more of an xxFP type thing in general rather than an INFP. I would imagine that...|||That's adorable as shit. :proud:|||No Community fans here?  I would imagine that the off-beat nature of the show would appeal to many of us here. It's smart in a way that is on-par with arrested development (though an entirely...|||I was looking at your pictures and I was thinking how a headband, bandana, or some sort of accessory like that would look good around your forhead (not saying that you look bad without one, just...|||You forgot to mention that despite our warm climate there is relatively little sunlight, which tends to cause depression in some islanders. :tongue:  Also that libraries and coffee shops outnumber...|||How I have no friends/close friends I talk to often.  That I don't look as attractive as I think I do.  That I may think I know a subject more than I actually do, thus becoming 'that guy'. ...|||I woukd post but it looks like more people are talking about themselves than talking about games...|||I agree with you that arrogance is repulsive, I am not asking her to do such a thing, but rather guide her on the way to real healthy confidence. First I feel that I must explain the difference...|||All of these described the depression that accompanied me during the weeks around my birthday back in January. Only thing I would alter or add is 4. [precieved] rejection/rejection [of yourself],...|||That is not true, the biggest thing that determines attraction in 90% of all people is self-confidence. I have seen women unhealthily obese flaunting what they've got after years of low-self esteem,...|||I would imagine Shoegaze would be a popular genre for NF's as it's a very ethereal and dreamy sound associated so it's more about how you feel when listening than lyrical content.  Sigur Ros would...|||Maybe try going up to somebody who interests you and compliment them on something relevant (necklace, shoes, book, name), and then try conversing about said 'something' or other relevant thing. ...'