'This is so true for me as well. I think that's because we 'friend-zone' the acquaintances for some particular reason (e.g. people at work) and have decided that it's unlikely/it'd take some effort to...|||1. How can I tell whether she's single and will be receptive to my romantic gestures? If she intends to hide it away from you, you wouldn't know. My point is that there's no way to find out unless...|||I am not an INTJ but please allow me to comment :tongue: I've seen quite a few INTJs on the internet who are great writers. I've encountered a rolerplayer once, who I wrote stories with. It's...|||I'm in a relationship with an ENTJ guy. I find this particularly true.  I'm the only one he shows his vulnerability to and he talks about his insecurities with me.  That's how I feel I'm trusted and...|||benoticed omg could it be me?? I only have 1~4 close friends (those are people at work and an online friend I've known for years). I've completely cut off other people I knew when I went to school...|||Oh I'm being surrounded by sensors and judgers (mostly sensors) everyday. I wonder if functions could explain this (I'm still quite new to functions, so...)  I'm not so much of a miserable ball,...|||My sister is an ISFP and we get along very well. This might not be the same as friendships with them I guess? But well, she never ceases to amuse me lol very intelligent and the way we view things...|||Both situations happened to me before but I somehow don't enjoy the latter anymore... What you said is very true.  Hmmm when comes to think about it, it could also be that I've finally accepted that...|||wow spot on! I sometimes feel like I'm drowning in Fi, too, and I've been observing more than I used to. But I can hardly get back to all loud and :DDD even after that particular period.  hmm the...|||hmm not really. I've pretty much figured out what I wanna do and I still have lots of hobbies and things I wanna do in my free time. I mostly spend my free time doing things I like now.   I'm now...|||I don't know if it's a phrase or it's like that when ENFPs grow up (I'm in mid 20s btw), but I've become more and more introverted that I even got tested as an INFP twice (ok i know tests might not...|||Agree with iemanja. I cut all the connections, including a close mutual friend of us (any possible ways that remind me of that person tbh).  Making new friends and focusing on a hobby worked for a...|||I just finished watching Rupunzel and I loooove her omg  Sirius is one of my favourite characters but I can never figure him out. I think he's more like NT to me.|||Aww that's so sweet. I don't remember much being sensitive to my parents' distress but I was always next to my mum whenever she cried and I'd cry along with her lol   I was real naughty when I was...|||It reminds me of this chart I found.     Yeah thanks. I used to have doubts but my friends all told me that it wasn't my fault so it basically doesn't affect me that much now. But it's a bit sad...|||@lenabelle: Thank you so much for the advice and I’m sorry for the late reply as I’m usually very busy during the week x_x   It’s really helpful. I now understand more about the reasons behind my...|||I totally agree. I used to be more outgoing and could easily jump from one topic to another in conversations. I've now become more introverted that people even mistake me as an introvert :P I have no...|||It's become so natural to me that I think I do it even without realising it lol So I guess the only time that I'm not daydreaming is when I feel like living in the moment - interacting with friends.|||Oh bless this post. I actually started to doubt if I was an ENFP at all after all these time, and if it was possible to turn from E to I even though I knew it wasn't supposed to do that.|||Hi I'm the daughter of the said ESFJ mum and ISTJ dad. My dad is a bit suicidal after he's been bombarded verbally by my very unhealthy ESFJ mum, and as a daughter, I really hope that I can stop...|||Yes! omg I just hit my head on the corner of someone's open locker door at the swimming pool changing room the other day when I stood up from crouching down.  Speaking of not being aware of the...|||I always have the weekend all to myself and do things I enjoy ALONE after working for the whole week and perhaps sometimes socialising with my colleagues in the evenings on weekdays. I'd get all...|||Thanks a lot!  It seemed that she was a bit down during that period of isolation and cut herself off.  I brought it up to her when she reappeared and she said she wouldn't do it again. ...But I've...|||I made a new friend who I worked out to be an ISFJ.  She is surprisingly open in some aspects, like being honest about her feelings;(hm...how should I put it. She'd tell me that she's glad to have...|||Just started off my career as a legal clerk but I'm not sure if I could stay in this field for long once I'm familiar with my work. Well, I'm still in the learning process but I could already see...|||lol this post managed to make it smile when I was a bit down XD Good to know that I wasn't alone though! Let's seeeee  - I poked a 10 years old girl's eye (which were really dark and I was kinda...|||The test was long lol   All ENFPs for me as well. I don't have any ENFP friends though... I actually quite like Is :D|||I agree with almost everything of what others have posted.  There are a few that I wanna add: - people who try to make you jealous - people who take what you said too seriously and be critical -...|||The problem with being an ENFP is that sometimes our Ne sees too many possibilities that we can't really make up our mind to fix ourself into a particular field/thing. I'd say try the things that...|||I'm such a cry baby that I could cry over the silliest movie like Miyazaki's Ponyo on the Cliff by the Sea... I also remember Toy Story 3 before they fell into the furnace and Harry Potter DH1 when...|||Excuse me if there is a similar topic on the ENFP forum but I'm not that advanced in searching for posts so I'm not sure...  Anyway, ENFPs~ Are there any myer briggs type that you find it difficult...|||Yes. It's changed but she wouldn't know cause we don't really see each other.    If it's gonna be superficial, I think it's better to leave it this way :(|||Oh lol I don't think she'll admit her part in this though. Hmm I think it'd be best to wait for her to initiate it (if there'll ever be a chance) so it'd be easy to get things rolling again.    ...|||The problem is that I asked her what she wanted upon receiving the present; and once I got the reply that she wasn't changing her mind, I'd also told her straight up that I didn't want her anymore......|||In my opinion, friends aren't something that people could 'find' or come across with so easily when they want to, especially when they desire to know someone with specific qualities.  I think some...|||Oh believe me, I've also asked myself the same question and even my friends think that it's a good thing that I now have nothing to do with her. But I think it's because of the good times we shared...|||Yeah, I was also thinking that only time could change the situation as be both become more mature and perhaps be able to realise what we did back then. Do you mind me asking how did your friend...|||I was trying to figure out my career path and I thought why not take a personally test to understand myself more to see what really suits me? So I googled it and MBTI popped up. After confirming that...|||Dogs of course!  How can you resist a loyal, sticky, fun, adorable companion? But they require high maintenance...:( What about bunnies?|||The list grows as time goes on but Harry Potter will be my all time favourite. and Inception! Very inspiring.|||Spiderman or Batman?|||... an example of narcissism?|||I understand what you mean, don't worry :) We'd once argued about 'promises' and learned that I had to be careful with my choice of words. If she's really lost her trust in me, I don't see there's...|||I wish I did that...    Young ENFPs,  Parents' words aren't absolute. Have confidence in yourself and do whatever you think is best for you.|||Oh right. That makes things quite clear. I guess it was probably the present which gave me the wrong signal and left me hanging.   Thanks!|||Thanks for pointing it out.  So it's best left in the past I guess...|||Yeah, I know...that's the problem. I considered the possibility that it wouldn't work unless she is the one who reaches out first, which is quite unlikely. I've figured out a way to avoid conflicts...|||I didn't agree with the way she treated me and throwing tantrums so I demanded her to stop and she insisted that that was HER and I should just accept her.|||hmmm I see. And I didn't. I was just being demanding. Also, there was something that we couldn't agree on and she disliked me trying to 'change' her...|||Hi INTJs! I'm just wondering how firm do you usually stand by your words? Do you change your decision over time?  It's just that there was a fall out between my INTJ best friend and I.  I have to...'