'Seriously, there is no excuse for cheating.  EVER.  Break up with the person if you feel desires that strongly for other people.  Be honest.  If you need to be in an open relationship, then be in...|||Growing up I wanted a couple of children.  I went through a phase as a teenager where I was convinced I didn't want any and never would.  Eventually I decided I wanted to have children someday, but...|||Just finished Child of Light, adorable!|||Arrogance and indifference in the face of absolute sentient cruelty is unforgivable.  I can't release a grudge until the guilty have expressed deep and genuine regret, and when found incapable of...|||Mine is 7, has been since I was very young.|||I don't think I do this, mainly because I recognize that no two relationships are the same.|||Anxiety, agoraphobia, PTSD, depression.  I say upbringing/environment/perhaps medical history and inherited illness, etc. would be the thing that would determine whether or not an INFJ is pushed to...|||-Introverted -Loner -Too passionate, everyone finds it overwhelming or intimidating -Temper, which comes out for reasonable reasons, but people who don't believe in anger at all are constantly...|||214962|||So, instead of getting sucked into anothers agenda, you forcefully suck them into yours...which is hidden?  That's strait up manipulation and has nothing to do with being diplomatic.|||-Excellent listeners > :kitteh:  -Patient >:confused: I try to be  -Supportive with a strong desire to x91do the right thingx92 >:kitteh:  -Gentle|||Being aware of things others are unaware of...makes one aware of conspiracies aka hidden truths.  I'd find any INFJ without conspiracy theories...confusing.  Just because others can't see it,...|||Haha!  Love the way you put this.  That is exactly how I work vs the INTJ I know and with a better comprehension of Te vs Ti, I definitely get it.  I am INFJ after all!  Thank you for helping clarify!|||I'd definitely say I use Ti and the person I was speaking of who is INTJ uses Te, so that definitely clarifies!  Thank you so much!|||Here it is:  When I first started taking the tests I would get INFJ 90% of the time  and every once in a blue moon, INFP.  These were consistent results for  years.  I very solidly related to INFJ...|||When I first started taking the tests I would get INFJ 90% of the time and every once in a blue moon, INFP.  These were consistent results for years.  I very solidly related to INFJ and never doubted...|||I can relate to that.  Perhaps feelers are more susceptible to a quicker developing drop in immunity and to a physical reaction to stress than others.  I find I almost always feel physically ill...|||Personally, my parents indifference to my struggles and suffering and their selfishness and my mother's lack of motherly love, or any real love at all.   In the bigger picture, the state of the...|||I have experienced exactly what you mentioned here.  I can't count the number of times I felt intensely about something that someone else did not and was told I am crazy.|||Yes, stress weakens the immune system.  Prolonged stress can cause all kinds of medical issues.|||Same here.  I adore horror movies, but as you said, semi-realistic horror really runs a heavy toll.|||This is a really good point.  It's also the only downside I can imagine.|||Both...but more often than not, I'm  craving sweet.  I suspect that has something to do with the addictive  qualities of sweet foods.  I've certainly known people who  weren't keen on sweets (mostly...|||Primary Color: BlueSecondary Color: Violet|||I would want to be immortal, so long as I could still kill myself.  Like in vampire stories, they can still die via decapitation and wood stakes, blown to a billion pieces, burned, etc.  I wouldn't...|||My mum liked alternative music, but I remember hearing a lot of Tori Amos, Tracy Chapman and Kate Bush.  My father had some random records I would listen to like The Beach Boys and The Rankin...|||The only cartoon I like these days is Adventure Time.  The rest seem hollow and lacking a certain appeal they used to have.|||Nope.  I only make my bed properly after I wash my sheets and blankets.  Which is about once a week, anyways.|||You get a better lather if you put the soap onto a dry hand and then wet, than you would putting the soap on a wet hand (where some will slip away with the water) giving you less soap to wash with in...|||INFJ + INFJ =)  Best friends for 15 years.|||I spent over a decade rolling my eyes at what I'm about to suggest...but having finally given in and tried it after 15 years of failed therapy, hospitalizations and medications....I can say this...|||UUUUUGGGGH.  So close, but so far...is the most accurate statement I can come up with.  Intellectually everything was quite good!  Emotionally, absolute disaster!  I tried to make a relationship work...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yxdBmH-SyPM|||This is an unproductive and rude response.  You'd have been better off not saying anything at all.|||Truth.|||Telling someone in a hospital they are fucked without them asking if they are, would be purposefully cruel...and if they ask, they deserve honesty.  I would want honesty, I hate fake and I hate...|||People are terrified of reality and what they don't see.  When you point things out to them that make them doubt themselves, or feel even remotely negative, you are automatically labelled a bad...|||Why does anyone need to be anything other than honest?  Why should anyone have to pretend and put on a fake face, to please someone else?|||Substance in general, unique ideas, character development, non-cgi special effects, intelligent and creative writers, proper casting that is not based on looks and/or popularity rather than talent...|||Finding someone I really connect with is the hardest part.  Finding someone who is compassionate about my extreme anxiety and agoraphobia and who understands loner, introvert behavior is the next...|||-Sunlight/light orbs -Brilliant displays of colour -Scents and sights of Autumn -Fitting perfectly against another's body -Being comfortable enough with someone to hold eye contact in...|||I like to colour with gel pens or do a really thorough cleaning/re-organization of my place when I'm really anxious.  Yard work can also be useful, if I'm not too nervous to go outside.  I know...|||Do you think being an INFJ was connected to your anxiety?  It's good to hear you've since improved, I've actually gotten worse over the last 10 years.  I'm always happy to hear someone has come out...|||I'm trying to find out if there are a larger number of INFJ's, opposed to other groups, that suffer from anxiety.  I'm not sure if being an INFJ contributes to my crippling anxiety and agoraphobia,...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ru2GAwIqOAM   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8L4LwjD5L-k   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i5ufgkJ-uVE   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WINDtlPXmmE|||Extroversion  ||||||  30%    Orderliness  ||||||||||||||||  62%|||Siren Calls by White Prism on White Prism EP - Free Music Streaming, Online Music, Videos - Grooveshark  White Prism|||Personally, I can not take juvenile behavior in adults if it gets to a point where I feel they are irresponsible or ignorant towards the well being of others, emotionally or physically.  Beyond that,...|||I believe it should be legal.  I've also smoked weekly and/or daily for a decade now, I believe absolutely that it saved my life.  I don't think I could have bared this planet without it.  I've gone...|||I went outside today and one of my trees had bloomed with pretty little flowers that filled the yard with a lovely floral scent and that made me happy :)'