'Ah, well I've never had the pleasure of the experience so I would have no sense of social timing in an environment such as that. And I only say take more time because if the poster here is a guy and...|||I'd have to concur with Antipode. I hate the common misconception that intimacy and empathy together is always tied to romantic or sexual feelings when it's not. Sometimes I am really kind and...|||Ok this is starting to make more sense. I sometimes will clam up when I feel like I may do/say something out of impulse to someone who didn't necessarily deserve it, because I was in one of those...|||Uncommon for who, INFJs, all introverts, or just anybody in general? Fight or flight sounds about right. I clam up when I cut contact with someone, and the longer it goes on the harder it is to...|||I don't know why I do it, but I often have periods in my life when I just either don't visit a place or talk to a person for a while. I guess I just have to check out from time to time. I usually...|||The 70s had some great shows. I also like some of their concerts from the late 60s, they used some different wacky instruments and it gave it a different sound to a lot of their songs.   ...|||I have had this too and still do. I am depressed because there are evil men in this world that seek to destroy the human race and make us all slaves. I wish I could just get on a boat and live on an...|||One of my favorite Dead songs   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAv71VbdkBc  The Annotated Jack Straw|||Yeah it's really taxing dealing with one customer after another. I ran my own for a while too, and worked for a private school. I'd rather be the guy locked in a server room running the mainframe and...|||Well I'm good at both arts and sciences. I use both left and right part of my brain equally.|||I was surprised to find that INFJ type was not really scientific or technology oriented because I've had a slew of computer repair jobs since I was 13. Computers are a huge part of my life. I've...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7dCqxIN1cc The Annotated Cassidy|||I know a guy exactly like that somewhere else online. Acts like a troll, loves attention. I always think people like that are pretty funny. You just can't take anything they say seriously.|||Ehh, don't come in another type forum and do a drive-by post like that. At least explain why you think everyone in here is lying, at least then I could respect your post, but as it stands there is no...|||Thanks, we're just regular people like you though|||Ha!|||I'm going to have to agree on that. Though I'm not extremely sociable in person right now, I still would prefer to meet someone in person, be friends first then decide if I want to pursue something...|||Sounds about right. I too can better express myself typing. For me it's not the rejection that makes me stay away from people it's the trust. Right now I only have one person in person who I trust to...|||You are really fascinating and I want to hear more of your thoughts.|||Interesting. I will have to read more into the other types.|||Don't be afraid of rejection from other types. We are all human, so lets not get so lost in types and labels that we forget we are all of the same species, made from the same matter that made this...|||Ok I'll say it. Are all INFPs generally so cute and adorable with such high energy? I don't know anyone like this :/|||Yeah I agree with Annabee. I'm nice and I care a lot about people in general, but I'm not so good at showing it or being so lubby dubby.|||It's nice to be on the other end of encouragement. It was really nice of you to come over here and comfort those in need. Thank you. I don't know if I've even met an INFP but if most of them are even...|||Though I did not like having to do that, I am glad for the experience. It taught me a lot about marketing tactics and now there is no way I can get manipulated by a sales person, not that I could...|||I feel that makes me a great and impartial mediator. I can feel both side's emotions and understand both points of view and respect them both. I may not agree with one side but I can understand.|||Can it be both? Sometimes if someone is sad about something I can become sad too and it's like being in their shoes. But I get what you mean.|||It can be pretty taxing to take on so many people's emotional needs you often forget your own.|||Yeah, it's one of those type of jobs. It's my second job so I'm really just starting out, needed something temporary to get me to where I wanna go, which would be a job with very low social...|||I listened to a few playlists of their live shows from the late 90s. I liked it. Looking forward to hearing studio today.|||To answer your question. I'm opening up everyday to a community of at least 100 strangers to me, a risk I am willing to take to help me understand myself better. I have in the past been kinda open...|||That is SOP for me when I talk on mic. I never leave if fully on or on voice activation. Always PTT.|||8-16 hours a month, nice. I always had that problem in relationships when the other person would complain I didn't spend enough time with them just because I'm not paying attention to them all day...|||And lets be honest, when we want to pick our nose or fart it gets real awkward on cam :P|||Grateful Dead (Live `78) - Estimated Prophet / Shakedown St. / Fire On The Mt / Sugar Magnolia    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uaQ1vXdf1Q0|||I was listening to some youtube playlists of Phish today while working on computers. It's good background music when you don't want to be distracted from a task. I'm gonna keep exploring them today.|||Being alone is f*cking awesome. Being in a relationship with yourself, I can kinda see that with myself. Doorslams are my ultimate way of telling someone I'm pissed and leave me alone!|||We're not Mother Theresa, THANK YOU!  I think any types can work together if both people take the time to understand each other's type, because when you don't understand your partner's type and...|||Everyone has their view on sex, it's neither right nor wrong. So please don't misunderstand me and think that I am trying to push my vision of sex on everyone.|||I love your personality already. Welcome to our community. You're artistic and scientific like I am, I'm sure we can have some great discussions and I'm looking forward to it.|||That's just how I am. I'm not holding it on a pedestal. I realized ultimately it's a basic biological function to reproduce. But I've had casual sex and it really isn't anything great for me. So I...|||Sometimes I do think about being with someone, because when I was I loved the affection and giving that affection. But I don't think about dating though. And I don't think about sex all time and...|||Pretty much. Also, can't speak for other INFJs but I'm not into dating people I don't know well or one night stands. Usually I'm good friends with someone before I start to have romantic feelings....|||Ha!|||I will have to look into these bands, I think I'll like them. Do you recommend anything to start with for Phish? Or will any random jam be a good intro?|||Seems about right. Police are suppose to serve and protect, not harass. They are suppose to be more morally upstanding than the average citizen, not less. I don't know if it's the power that...|||Well put. I've said it before, MBTI type should be used as a guide at best because anyone can have a quality that contradicts their type. I think it's kinda weird how people are objectifying the INFJ...|||I'd just like to say I in no way supported what Hitler did during the war, I'm just going to give an unbiased view on the matter of him being INFJ because I can do that.  That's interesting. It's a...|||Eh yeah, kinda.|||Gaming is one thing, it's more efficient to communicate orders/tactics then moving your hand off the mouse to type leaving you open to attack. I'm speaking more of when normally I would just text...'