'The break up was mutual. She still has a lot of feelings for me and can't think of me as the one like she use to. I can't either it had to end. We just weren't right for each other in the end. There...|||Thank you littlehawk that's great advice ^.^  I have never been particularly emotional stable. I am prone to becoming manic and putting on different masks. How do I make sure that I stay myself?|||So recently me and my girlfriend (ISFP) of ten months broke up. We were becoming miserable and she lost feelings and became numb, and I was becoming increasingly depressed. She was my first real love...|||She thinks she is a complete failure that's why shes so depress like she will never amount to anything so why try. She cant see the guidance counselor to make a difference. Shes 17 so she cant be...|||I tell her I don't know what i would do without her and she say Why would you love me? I tell her why and she just brushes it off. I cant take her to the hospital its not to that point yet, she...|||My girlfriend is very depressed and says she doesn't want to live anymore. She has a history of hurting herself. Its her the beginning of her senior year and she has to retake some classes because...|||Mainly apathy  But then once and a while i get inspiration of the highest magnitude that makes me see the beauty in every moment and want to make the world a better place every moment, it makes me...|||This picture every time i see it, it makes me cry: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/7/71/PaleBlueDot.jpg/300px-PaleBlueDot.jpg  Thats earth from 4 billion miles away and the...|||Well my conscience has the nasty habit of kicking my butt when it is violated, also i have always felt like there is something missing from myself that i cant seem to find my whole life  so i want...|||So I'm trying to be a better person, but that means different things to different people so I just wanted to ask what you guys and gals think.  So here are my questions:  1. What do you think...|||I know how you feel (although i have laughed at a few Darwin awards in my time so I'm not completely innocent myself) when i watch stuff like that i am over come with sadness i cry pretty hard (which...|||(carefully looks around the room looks very nervous and speaks timidly) I just managed to figure out i am an infj (still not sure about the j part) but i think its true, I've spent the better part...|||I think I'm an entp but one that acts unhealthy. Any advice on a way of looking at life i.e. as a game, as a test , as some weird result of mother nature getting drunk one night and have wild...|||alright i have some new things to add please tell me what you think, it really helps because sometimes i decide to do stupid unhealthy things instead of smart healthy things so a different...|||Why thank you that means a lot to me, but the person i admire the most and in fact inspired me to give my best, is no longer talking to me (nothing too bad i just annoyed her and she wants her...|||I'm not sure but I think my adhd medication causes me to become very stuck emotional, and mentally. Does anyone else experience this? For example: I'm in a store with my dad He's taking a long...|||Very good point, life does need to be taken in baby steps not giant leaps, Still though stuck emotions suck ass, what further more sucks is that I keep getting too ahead of myself, oh my head is...|||That's right I'm a squirrel (on the moon btw) got a problem with that. Don't ask what happened lets just say don't make fun of people who look like they could be witches :dry:  But any-who I think...|||That was quite moving, I'll have to add that one to my life handbook, remind me of the lesson learned from it:  That we all just human beings, we have our problems, our achievements, our pain, our...|||I keep hitting stuck emotions, thoughts, and feelings that make me quite uncomfortable. I wish to break through to them but its like there is a wall there. and when i hit it i cant do anything, eat,...|||I'd love to :)    Ahh yes a very good point and one which I am striving toward. However I'm looking for what can only be described as detached amusement in my own life.|||I'm very interested in increasing my own self awareness, What are some techniques that have worked for you?|||well this one is a bit off topic but....  There are three things I am working on in my brain:  One: the very deep and profound realization that I exist, and in that one thought my emotions are...|||What is life?|||Well at this point I'm just kinda of going with, and discovering that my inside is not a whole entity, its a collage of so many different things, It actually feels right (and kinda of insane in a...|||That's great, when i get to a good point i think I'm going to type up all the stuff i learned and put it up here.  But i must ask how do we know the difference between a desire from within...|||I think the biggest block is trying to know how we should be, it gives us expectations of how we should think and feel, it blocks us from just experiencing us and the world around us. now don't get...|||I have not had it as rough as you guys. But what i can say is life really is how you respond to it, you can't chose what happens to you but you can chose how you respond to it. What i would suggest...|||Thats a great point of view,  we have met the enemy and he is us|||The next step is taking responsibility for my life, this is a good poem for that  Autobiography In Five Short Chapters  Chapter I  I walk down the street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk....|||Well i think entp are the sexiest thing ever devised by what ever created this world (both male and female) BUT you do tend to be flaky can sometimes not be serious ever When i try to be serious...|||Well i don't mind making of fool of myself, i look at as success of a different kind, so what if i cant dance you almost peed yourself laughing so that's a talent in my mind.|||Alone yes all the time, i even have entire music video routines setup in my mind in public... Well i try and its party crazy, part refined, part epileptic seizure|||Alright this is quite simple, take what your feeling right now and link to one of your favorite characters and pretend to be them, or even act like them if you like   Example: Right now I'm...|||To get better takes a lot of hard work, really its alot easier if you just take it one step at a time, next time you feel paranoid make the conscious choice to change. next time you think someone is...|||Oh yes I've been there quite recently too, my best advice How to Find Yourself - wikiHow|||I think the the simpler we make ourselves the more great we become, we stop worrying so much about ourselves and benefit greatly because of it.  Patience: Steadfast despite opposition, difficulty,...|||Ive decided to start anew with myself, and the first step to this is to build the foundation of who i am, I want to center my self on my principles, so I'm writing them down, their definition so i...|||When electron microscopes turn you into a giddy school girl.|||Okay im just so confused about myself at the sorry if i seem Crazy and not making sense, just a lot of things going through my mind, I do very much appreciate everyone insights, I wish I was a bit...|||Very true, you sir have just discovered being proactive.|||I just get so happy i jump around dance a little, just seeing someone I like sets me off.|||I'm sorry but I'm definitely an N user, the reason this is a dilemma of mine is i was reading a book about the different types as children and ENTP fits up until a few years ago, i never liked to...|||Well to be quite honest I can use my Te so well people could easily mistake me for an ENTJ or ESTJ. I'm actually so very good at business its kinda of scary how Machiavellian i get, like when I'm in...|||Thank you for your insights, GENIUS  I'm actually trying to do the same thing but what helps me the most is thinking in baby steps|||yes!!!! Lol|||Well to be quite honest its more giggling. and for my self right now I'm trying to move towards principle oriented and love is a very big one for me.|||oh thank you   i think i might be an extravert when i get around people i tend to get.... Crazy energetic  well i could be an entp who got so stressed that there shadow (isfj) came out and...|||well i could be an entp who got so stressed that there shadow (isfj) came out and dominated.|||Has anyone read the 7 habits of highly effective people? or read this article How to Find Yourself - wikiHow'