'I just quit :-)  But the meditation's not a bad idea, either :-)|||You know what you want and deserve.  You shall find it.|||He could also have strong feelings for you, but yet not be willing to go balls-to-the-wall for you, like Dusty is saying (because he's too scared, or whatever else).  This is like the best ENFP trap...|||If you're lucky, when they figure it out, they'll be dying to share the laugh with you.|||Someone should sticky this for future reference.  :-)|||We will figure it out eventually... and laugh really really hard.  ...once the searing pain subsides.  Don't hold your breath.  :-)  Love,|||This basically sums up how we ENFPs roll, inside and out... if anyone's taking notes.  : )  Though I will add that we'll be patient in person too if we see that it's mission-critical. It's very...|||:-)  Yes!!!|||: ) You all definitely get a Nerd Trophy in my eyes.  : )|||^^You guys are having a Who's Nerdier contest, aren't you?  : )|||A lot of these posts explain what happens when you lack Fi.  How would you directly describe Fi and what it does for you? How it balances you?  thanks :)|||: (  You have a beautiful inner bad-ass, I'm pretty sure.|||Sometimes we NFs do that stuff.  But we might bounce back for you pretty quick.  We know it sucks, we just get stuck sometimes.  You are doing everything right by putting your foot down for...|||It's cute when you try to articulate feelings with facts.  : )|||Aw, jeepers.   : )  This one will stay with me.  Thank you.|||I know, you guys don't believe in anything until you see it.  And I know what you've seen so far is knockout punches and hot messes.  Just stay classy and if you feel like it, remember that it's...|||I don't even hardly have that and work is boring for me too : )|||It will be beautiful.  And the right pick will know just what it deserves.|||LOL!  Just take care to make a good pick.  : )|||It might sting, not gonna lie.  But if you're doing it right you'll get doctored up and snuggled afterwards.|||Sounds like a plan.  : )|||The eventual punch will hurt us more than it hurts you.  : )    You can have both, you know!  It's not like your logic would ever go away.  Doesn't have to be either/or.  Just sayin'.  : )|||Don't say we didn't warn you.  ; )  Love,  Emotions|||: )  [10char]|||Yeah she wasn't really doing her due diligence to unpack her feelings too well.  But your calling her out helped her do that, get back on track.  Props.  As a group I generally believe ISTPs to be...|||Well, it's both the pain of the truth, and the pain of feeling like someone we love doesn't understand or appreciate us.  Feelings are real for us, and when someone we love doesn't see them or...|||Dear ISTP,  We just love making you smile against your will.  We can't help ourselves.  Thanks for making our day.  Love,  ExFx|||Dear ISTP,  We do this when we are stuck in our own emotional stuff.  We need someone to acknowledge it so we can move on.  Sometimes you guys are not up for that job.  Sometimes we don't take a...|||Dear Logic,  You can't explain everything.  You are not a robot.  You are a human being with feelings.  We are part of your reality.    You can ignore us for as long as you want.  We will be...|||You have a lot of love in you.  You just don't always pay attention to that part.    But it's still right there.  Dear suspected ENFP,    It's how we love people.|||Dear ISTPs,  It's really sad to me when you guys don't notice your own impact, or don't notice or understand how people appreciate you, or when other people don't notice you.  But some do. ...|||It sucks to stare that terror in the eye, but once you do, you face what you want, and then you can evaluate whether that particular specimen is liable to cough it up!  I think it terrifies him...|||And they are often really good at faking it!  But in my experience they like being called out on it.  If they DON'T like being called out on it, then you are barking up the wrong tree.  I think...|||You guys crack me up : )|||Aw thanks.  A happy one, with lots of dancing and/or party games, where everyone can enjoy themselves and feel included and safe, with a good sense of humor and a minimum of blood and vomit.  : )|||SNAP!  For that I may have to disappear for a couple of weeks!!|||Yes!  Not a fan.    You boys have fun but treat yourselves with the respect you deserve.  I am pretty sure those 2 are not mutually exclusive.  : )|||Oh thanks!  ...EXCEPT (historically anyway) when it comes to My Own Self.  ; )  I just might have to miss this party and hear about all it later.|||Can you explain what this means???  :)  It sounds insightful but I don't understand yet!  Hanging on to my undies,  -C|||Dear N2Freedom,  I can't stop believing that you are really a closet ENFP who relies heavily on her T and has a fascinating penchant for getting s--- done.  I secretly take your instinct to listen...|||Dear ISTP,  Sorry... sometimes we have a SLIGHT tendency to overreact.  : )  You help bring us down to Planet Earth.  Love,  ENFP|||I hope you find ways to say all this to him... and to hear his response, too.    You are so classy.  You are a gem, too.  That's why he's stuck it out with you.  p.s. Don't you have a son? ...|||If they really like you, they'll never go far.   And when they come back they'll be very, very much back.  Such is how they roll.|||That's not really it.  Nobody would put up with that much B.S. just for that.  Don't believe us. Even NFs try to act tough sometimes.  : )|||I love your guys' bluntness.  I've been on the receiving end of it and it's helped a lot.  I think there are just different ways to roll.  They all come from caring.  I think you guys can also be...|||OK last thing ; )  I guess just imagine a person who cares very, very deeply for you.  He's full of this really deep and delicate caring for you.  But this makes him very vulnerable.  He's also not...|||This is going to sound crazy, but do you ever think of going for F w/o B ?  I think you're going to reply I want my B!  But if you really do care about him and want to see what's possible with him,...|||I am pretty sure he just needs to know that you're not going to try and hurt him, and that you'll be patient with him.  That you see when he's genuinely trying.  A lot of times they get ripped a new...|||P.S. but $5 says you'll hear from him again, either way. You always do!!  He'll be pretending not to care, tho.  C'mon woman, you know the drill!  You've been doing it for what, 6 months?  : )|||I think it took a lot for him to say so we're broken up now?  Just think about that.  It might help you get ready to eat some you-know-what.  If you want.  You present yourself as this badass...'