'You're get'n old!!! :tongue:  No, seriously.  Maturity can do this - especially if it's a healthy sort.|||So, don't say much until I've observed her enough? :laughing:|||I tend to find them through my hobbies, especially where I'm one of the youngest in the crowd.  Even then, though, I still feel lonely because there are certain things I can't connect with them on. ...|||Make sure you are hyper aware of any possible inconsistencies you may show and destroy them.  Make sure to distance yourself enough from the friends who are of your target gender.  Also be ready to...|||I have a Japanese background; but the family has been mixing for the last hundred years, so I don't look it.  This getss me looked at funny when I order plain white rice, actually drink soup, or eat...|||It really all depends on the lifestyle a person chooses - it's only foolish if they insist on not taking the following into account:    the requirements of that lifestyle  the consequences of...|||With my interests increasing the probability of being on the other side of this, it's good to know...|||It's all about the pretties!!! :shocked:  ... and if you believe that, I have some magic beans for sale!|||Your addiction to this fight will not decrease until either it stops triggering dopamine or you stop showing up ready to go.|||I don't spend more than an hour per week on the necessary effort and most of it is research.  I'm not keen on needing to travel more than 20km (12 miles) for a date.  The nearest next city over...|||Interesting, I've never had this issue with any of the INFJs I've dated - they were either at speed or I managed to get them there with little effort.  Actually, it was when I failed to do this that...|||Grab life by the balls and squeeze - really hard.  Like so hard your hand goes numb from loss of blood.  Nah, 27 is still plenty of time to wake up at - hell I'm doing it at 32.  That said, it's...|||I was about 5 or 6.  That said, I was also one of those boys who never bought into the idea behind cooties - always had a weird look for people who did, too.|||I get a girl either way; but the girl who looks at me and just hopes has a lower likelihood of getting me at all. ^_^|||I'm usually listening to music while I'm my most productive.  I also prefer something where I'm switching gears every hour or so, as opposed to every 3 minutes.  I do, however, have to change things...|||My interests cause me to bump into them a lot and then we kind of spiral around each other's gravity wells before circumstances pull us a part.  I know one INTP became more interested in hanging out...|||Clingy... a qualitative catch-all used to describe an excess of provided and/or requested affection beyond a partner's comfort - possibly also in an undesired form. Too bad it is almost never...|||I'd say get an actual sense of where his head is at before getting kissy, just to avoid actually complicating things.  As for not sharing everything, I'm not sure about everyone else, but I start...|||It fell into place while I was learning some Old Norse and the multiple meanings all resonated: hidden watcher, keeper of secrets, keeper of lore, secret protector.  Anyway, PM me if you want to chat...|||Or the king's conscience... ;)|||It's an interesting thought - we'll see when it happens.  Do you have trouble with people having doubts?  I happen to look in to new age things myself; I just like to keep a healthy dose of...|||That would require a high enough concentration of INFPs that share similar or compatible ideologies; and that's just to start.  After that, it's maintaining power while those whom are ideologically...|||I'm gonna +1 the youth hypothesis.  Being as sure as I am these days, you'd be experiencing saddle sores if it were me.|||angelfish, you make me smile.  I had to involve a professional to help unravel the mess that I had created from my own attempted introspection.  As for the litany, I was thinking of bringing it up...|||That would be fucked up scary!  I'd try it.|||What is your definition of love? When I've made it past he asphyxia and euphria to where their own problems can induce various levels of sphykma.  The desire to let them be and hold them close, and...|||I find I'm more aggressive than dominant - though I've spent a decent portion of my teen years as a leader.  I'm typically given the reigns of something because i get results and I am trusted with my...|||Sorry for the wait; too much craziness earlier in the week.    I also advise against fitting just for fitting sake - it's why I stuck with 4w5 for so long before confronting the naysayers (even...|||Some of us bite - some more often than others.  The problem with any general description of INFP is that it's usually picking up the E4 and E9, which are the most typical forms.  Being a 6, I have a...|||Sounds like a discussion I've had with my great-aunt.  Not sure I count as much of a role-model yet, though. ^_^|||This might suggest that I am more messed up than I'm hoping I am, as I could very easily see myself on the dark side.     Recalling some of the things I've done as a child, I hope so too; but...|||435561  This is too good! :laughing:|||Well, stupid needs to hurt eventually.  There are some that don't learn until their legs are broken, unfortunately.|||I've stabbed people with pencils, thrown chairs across classrooms - symptoms of being everyone's favourite toy.  I'm not so bad now; but I find myself secretly wanting a person to push me too far...|||Best friend from high school, youngest brother, great-grandmother, old college buddy, a current co-worker - I've had fun and frustrations with all of them, though not in equal amounts. They're...|||Sounds like the area I live in, but that can describe a number places.  I'm actually part of a club for astronomy and have only recently started paring a DSLR with my 5.|||I'd also ask if you've exploded on him at any point while the drifting a part was happening.  Approaching a discussion with too much emotion can cause them issues as it shakes their inferior Fe,...|||*wanders by*  *marks*  *wanders off*  =^.^=|||Ah, this.  I have no problems, so long as they still can understand that an individual is still an individual at the end.|||Sounds like the kind of situation where strategic use of the middle digit (or both) should be applied.  Liking a type, I wouldn't call too much of a problem; but expecting you to confine yourself to...|||+1 on letting him talk when he does.  Interruptions can break the train of thought and be rather frustrating - though I know some Es see this as selfish.|||https://www.ted.com/talks/emilie_wapnick_why_some_of_us_don_t_have_one_true_calling?language=en  Some of us have a calling we can eventually find - some don't.  Every trick I could find to work it...|||I wish I were reading the OP at a different time of year. I can see where the colours analogy comes from; but right now they seem so faded, despite there being clear differences.  That is more a...|||Learn body language, then get yourself out there.  Most girls will not directly tell you anything you need to know before you ask, so you'll need to learn to ask.  Maybe check into Toastmasters while...|||Late night chats about shared interests with an ENTP can make hours seem like minutes - I risked many sleepless nights with one as a room mate.  I think I scare away the ladies though. ^^;;;|||Try the gluing salt, but to your hands - that might help you. :tongue:|||Salt ring around the bed works better... ^_^|||This is why I'm settling on a space related subject once I'm back in school - it's the only thing I've been consistent with.|||Does it give you that confused face when you go cold? ^_^  On topic:  Yeah, looks like a decent amount of info has been given: stay if you're curious, or run if you're scared.  Either one will...|||... is a tired INFP.  I get comments on my organization all the time.  If only they knew the truth of the real mess going on; or the effort and time I put into developing habits that trick the...'