I decided to come back to this post. I wasn't in a very good state of mind last time and I tend to be quite hard on myself when I'm down.  What I'd actually do in that situation is just approach...|||Certain.|||I can't.|||Thank you for taking the Creativity Test. The results show your brain dominance as being:    Left BrainRight Brain 41%59%   You are more right-brained than left-brained. The right side of...|||Exactly. Interfuckingact you scaredy shitbeards.|||Hello, fellow INFJ. Welcome!  From what you've shared, if you're not an INFJ, I'm not either. And I'm quite certain, though open to information.|||from my experience, I'd say that's a bit of a generalisation. But I am not at all unfamiliar with female friends becoming enamoured with me. It's a terrible situation. Especially when we both know...|||A Regina Spektor album, no doubt. She encompasses all that is woman to me, with pretty, whimsical melodies, blunt and scathing critiques of incompetence, purring, heady eroticism and roaring displays...|||Making friends with males is almost impossible for me. They all seem to me to be incredibly insecure and childlike, using infantile deception to further themselves in all areas of life. I'm wise to...|||Answering honestly, I'd have to say I approach very directly to break her defences down then keep my eyes open for an entry point and pounce on it. Did I mention that I'm an unhealthy INFJ? :P|||answer below|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=if-UzXIQ5vw  Losing My Religion - R.E.M.|||I'm in the mood for sharing.  Got about half an hour, then I'll be on tomorrow. If there's anyone out there who would like an opportunity to pick my brain, go for it.  There should be more...|||Pleasure and pain are equally beautiful when in contrast to nothingness.  There is no sensation that is not wonderful on a backdrop of nothingness.  Think about that.|||I came from nothingness. At the end, I'll go back to nothingness, forever. This is certain.   What happens in between is a holiday. It's the only thing that's malleable, that is unpredictable, that...|||For me, the problem in such a situation is that I know that it's not their fault that they feel the way they do and I feel the pain they won't allow themselves to feel. I tend to clumsily try to...|||The Internet.  http://img.gawkerassets.com/post/8/2012/12/full.jpg|||This is just an educated guess, but perhaps it might be beneficial to make clear your intention to pursue her.  :wink:|||Vocaroo | Voice message  eek|||I started reading them a while back when, on a whim, I ventured over to the dreaded sci-fi/fantasy corner of my local library and was intrigued by the blurb of Assassin's Apprentice. Quickly, I...|||It's a shame most people don't know that you're so resilient. Your enemies are, unfortunately, invisible to them. Type 4 - five!   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cIE0wTFg364  :ninja:|||Being able to learn anything is great. Being unable to decide where to focus my attention is not.  My bullshit detector is a godsend.  I like that I have such high standards for myself, even if...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5favl2Qtx0  http://sensesofcinema.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/image004.jpg|||If an INFJ is being 'cruel' to you, I would suggest listening to them more.  Personally, I would never be 'cruel' to one person because of being wronged by another. It tends to happen when someone...|||In my experience, yes. Even INTJs. Sorry guys.  That said, when I'm not on form and I'm more absent-minded and insecure, I'm no more than a curiosity to an INTJ or a bore to one familiar with my...|||These too -   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpbGdqzUmA0   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m4_fREMTX6Q   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BdSO3pXnzcY|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_B5dh15l8W4   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQzCGdO9yJI   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rScqTO-zZVs   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uuf_FxpuOGU|||Who? What? When? Where? Why?   Me. This. Now. Here. Unknown.   Why unknown?   Unknown.  ...|||I'd guess the INFJs who usually find themselves are the ones who have been knocked down a few pegs. I remember being like you but I got hit where it hurts when I fell in love with a girl whose...|||Rather.  Yeah I just watched it. Admittedly, I didn't get it until the very end.  Scary stuff!|||I want to respond to this, but I'm drawing a blank.  Ah well, it's the thought that counts...|||My fiancé is an INTJ.  Until we met, we never found ourselves.  The amazing thing is we are completely different, and yet we are somehow kindred. Wherever we differ, we can bolster both ourselves...|||Empaths :rolleyes:|||It doesn't sound like you're doing alright.|||I do the same thing, except now I tend to avoid personal appeals, especially public ones. This is because I am mindful of the next level of anger.  When, having poured my heart out, my...|||Mine tend to come out in rants.  I've shouted - on several occasions - that if I had been born in another time or place, I would be considered a very important philosopher and that scribes would...|||Ah yes. There are some men who are attracted to mature, intelligent women.  There are the ones who stalk, capture and suppress them for sport and the types who watch from the shadows, yearning for...|||I disliked how the teachers would rather make me out to be insane/dysfunctional than admit that their brand of education was simply not adequate. Okay, so the other kids didn't have any problems, but...|||Doesn't #3 cancel out the first two?|||You have latent leadership qualities and the instinct of the herd is to keep them latent to stop power shifting to you. I'd advise being more dominant. Maybe change how you hold yourself. Chin up,...|||Although this appears to be out of nowhere, he has been thinking about it for longer than you would like to know. In saying that he still loves you, he is trying to spare your feelings so that he can...|||http://i.imgur.com/ktu0Me5.jpg|||Vocaroo | Voice message|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6S_1oXnWS4|||I'm Ravenclaw according to Pottermore. I got Slytherin last time.  But I want to be Gryffindor... :confused:|||My Dove  I wish, my love, that I could write a song to make you feel All the things I want you to; a song to help you deal With all the shit life throws at you; a song to let you heal; A song...|||Great example of empathy in action there.|||When you realise that the reason why everyone hates you and no one understands is that you're actually the messiah and everything suddenly makes sense. If only the sheeple would wake up and hear your...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dlr90NLDp-0|||Thanks for the replies. All very insightful and interesting.