'zKyuu  I guess my knowledge on infj interests are incorrect then. Sseems I need to expand my knowledge on infj types. What would be signs an infj is interester for you?|||I know some infj's. would these be indicators of a romantic interest for infj? Constant communication (infj initiating) Wanting to meet up to do a mutual interest and when not together ask advice...|||I thought if someone was happy in a relationship they would not spend time with someone else. Especially an ex when it appears feelings still remain. Thanks for your insight.|||Thanks again for your response. Meeting me quite frequently (which is her idea not mine) is a bit iffy to me. Especially considering we have dated in the past. Long distance was our down fall,...|||Thanks for responding. I was unsure if an INFJ would string someone long, since certain theorists state INFJ are loyal to the core. I do agree it  not fair on her boyfriend. She said he knows she is...|||Hi all.  I will try and keep this post brief and clear as possible. I met an INFJ woman approximately 4 years ago. For the first 2 years we dated on and off (ended due to complications like her...|||Thanks for your comment on this. A hidden agenda eh. I will distance myself thanks for the advice.  I was on and off with them for a couple of years. Never became official. They decided to unblock...|||Thank you very much for that intuitive insight. She told me they have been in the honeymoon period and still are. Well it is has been well over a year, I think that is too long so yes I agree with...|||@BenevolentBitterBleeding @Kirjuri  My apologies if I am going over the same thing. I've not spoke for a few days, she messaged me asking me about my training and how it is going. She brought up...|||Thanks for your response. I noticed flaws within the stories. It did not seem that serious. Especially after over a year, talking to an ex and not even met each others parents etc. Thanks for your...|||Thanks for your response. The INFJ said they want to be friends. However I think it is odd to spend so much time with an ex, when you do not see current partner as much. It is more logical to make...|||Hi all INFJ. I have a question for you all. I was dating an INFJ on and off for many years. The INFJ travelled and studied abroad so it did not last. They are in a relationship of over a year....|||Thanks for your comment. I specified I'm not friends with exes as it just dosent work for me. We agreed if either met someone the  we would leave contact altogether.   What you said does make sense...|||This question applies to INFJ females.  Is it a common theme for INFJ in young 20's that are insecure to play games?   I've had an infj female in my life for a fewith years. We dated but often...|||What about giving gifts?|||Ocean Eyes Unless it is personal experience dealing with an INFJ which makes me believe the type is complex.  She contradicts herself a lot then sulks once it has been brought to her attention....|||Thanks for the comment. It is more annoying being randomly ignored after communicating. INFJ are so complex, do you have a manual ;) ?|||HazelEyes147  Fair enough, we were seeing each other on and off but it seemed she always held back. I'm not the most emotional empathy person so perhaps this concerns her. We argued a lot though....|||That is very useful advice thanks :). It seems it is a let of anxiety and over analyses. This person I believe fears closeness, they want a relationship with someone, yet when they get close to me,...|||A quick question. Why do INFJ's, say they want to be friends but then blow hot and cold with you and enter a constant communication then ignore period?|||A person that does not bore me, is not a sheep and has a mind of their own and is intelligent.  I find relationships difficult to maintain as stated, most people bore me. As a guy you are meant to...|||Thanks for your post. She opens up to me regarding other personal matters and it seems there is only me she can confide in. Such as life choices and family personal matters. She said she wouldn't...|||Thanks for your advice. I am sure there are numerous things but I know she can become stressed and isolated regarding university work.   I imagine our on and off past and falling out does not help...|||Hey INFJs  To cut the story short, I've been on and off with an INFJ for the past few years, circumstances has prevented us becoming serious. Reasons for this are distance regarding university...|||Evening INFJ's (UK TIME it is the evening)  How is life for an INFJ (in particular female) in the early 20's regarding relationships? I find one close person to blow hot and cold with me. It is an...|||_Observer_ Been a couple weeks since I posted, you asked me to update you with the situation with the infj female.  She was me with another lass, few days later she messaged me. She wants to be...|||Thanks for your response, it was appreciated. She just keeps messing about. I ordered something for her before she went away, 1 min she wants it then she doesn't (she changes her mind) and it is me...|||INFJ are good nurtured souls. One of my best friends (male) is an INFJ and potentially a brother. My best friend assessed the INFJ female in my life and said it is not over yet. Yet she does not want...|||@Lemxn Thanks for your post. She said she will not meet up with me now since I declined the offer before she went away for a few weeks and says she doesn't see why we would. So guess I am stuck...|||Thanks for your response I shall take note of this. It would be nice to meet up even if it is one last time although I would have to be careful not to see what I want to.    It was a romantic...|||people say you are eccentric yet you know you are crazy and it beats being the 'social norm'. People say you over think situations and apparently there is no need, pfffft. When people moan about...|||I have a question for INFJ (preferably female) but any perceptions will be appreciated. Fell out with an INFJ female I have been dating on and off with for a couple of years. She's been away...|||Feelings can become very complicated, and as you rightly stated only you know how you feel. love does not always develop within a few months, the feeling can take several years. People often...|||Weapon calling. Thor :D|||Would it be possible to have a chat with an INFJ for advice on personal relationships and overcoming an obstacle? Private messaging would be preferred, thanks in advance.|||My current employment is like that on work night out, if you do not join you are not a man and are a homosexual and feminine.|||Someone as mentioned it in a previous post a while ago, but I get annoyed when people are unable to analyse consequence of their actions and are unable to understand the cause and effect. I have an...|||There are several things which makes you an INTJ (I would like to state I generally score I or E NTJ on tests depending which one is undertaken).  1. World domination has been at least a thought...|||Some interesting posts in here. I've known an ENTP lady for a few years now and we have always had an amazing time. We connected instantly and spend some time together. She seems to open up to me...|||Free cookies and a back massage that is awesome offer how can people resist?  I like INFJ but they do not seem to care for the ENTJ direct approach.|||@ENTPImmunologist  I imagine meeting rational gay males as you have stated is a difficult task, in England when people are open about their sexuality they change their image to one that society...|||ken07  Wow your post sounds similar to me as well, very interesting. I currently work in a recycling company in the warehouse department is micromanaged, I did a report on it at uni on how they can...|||I find INFJ's confusing when engaging in romance as friends it is truly awesome :). 1 of my closest friends is an INFJ and we have a great laugh and assist each other through the journey of life....|||@ken07 noted haha  @Dabbling I apologize for not explaining how life is for an ENTJ. I will keep this brief but provide sufficient information for you to develop an understanding.  Growing up...|||First and more important factor MBTI is a foundation to workl from the theory itself is not concrete as there are different level of mental health between each personality amongst social factors....|||I am the big spoon haha. So you're saying I should dominate behind close doors for these type of 'activities'? Interesting thought|||I was meant to put 'inefficient'.  Depends I guess each entj will be different depending on background and environment. In relationships I am very cut throat and apparently can be controlling. ...|||If a world domination plan was planned and executed effectively there would be no 'fall guy'. I grew up with NF's, my brother and best friend both INFJ have taught me to be more civil and understand...|||Haha I would question the test and the person that designed it. Good leadership is better as it enables good teamwork, bad leadership and individuals do as they please and pick what they want.  At...|||I'm glad to know an NT that's settled down so to speak, I know INTJ females are rare and find it difficult.   I've done research on personality type theory. Reading about MBTI, temperament sorter...'