'Blue|||Yeah for sure, I tend to be able to pick up on peoples personality types/traits very quickly.  Also like you I get an overwhelming feeling from other NF's. The first time was my best friend who is...|||Back in the day (5 years ago) haha. I was mistaken for gay pretty regularly because of my pension to be close friends with women. Even gay men made this mistake!  I tend to become close friends...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xbg6g8xlbjo&feature=related|||I was just thinking about this very topic As I (a 27 year old man) watched all my favorite Disney films in succession. I like what neon knight said, Age is a state of mind.   I feel like I...|||I think I'm in love. This is a new feeling, I'm VERY happy :)|||as patn said what you are describing is a change in persona not personality. so even though you may act differently towards different people. internally you are still the same person.   Everybody...|||I feel that love is an individual experience and that even though we (English speakers) only have one word for it there are different ways to feel/experience love.   I don't know how to describe it...|||I think the best thing to do is to tell her what you're feeling and what you've felt.   I mean, How would you feel down the line knowing you had the chance to tell her but didn't?  I feel that...|||I just started lurking here after finding out one of my good friends is an INTJ. I guess I just want to learn more about you all as a whole because I think your type is awesome.|||Just my 2 cents but I think that INFP's aside from being polite tend to allow people to express themselves in a way that they are not accustome too. I've been told on many occasions that I am the...|||My advice, just ask I too have a tendancy to jumble my words till they no longer convey the message I want to send. The easiest way around that is not to worry and ask in the simplest way possible....|||I'm still slightly unclear what is meant by humanity. Do you mean kind acts, or Humans in general?   Personaly I believe that nothing is impossible, especially things that are positive. So yes I...|||very true. I just find more often than not a second rephasing is unnessasary. You are correct though, I shouldn't label her response to only mean one thing.    Either way she is as I assume most of...|||Just to add my 2 cents to this incredably long thread.  I just discovered that a friend of mine, who I've know for about 8 months is an INTJ. We have a great connection and friendship. Her and I...|||Thank you for naming your cell phone after me :)|||I know I'm peculiar for sure but not so much because of any particular habit or belief. More so I feel I'm just one step away from normal at all times.  I could give several examples of how I am...|||Not sure if you mean day dream or regular dream, but  I've had a certain reoccurring dream my whole life. It is like this,  I am walking through a sort of swampy wooded area in ankle deep murky...|||I too am the only INFP male I know of and one of only two other NF's I know.   I have to agree with decay153. I think identifying an INFP without having an already strong friendship and connection...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N9segVURDw8|||I have felt the same way my whole life.   Truth is though that most people admire me and enjoy my company.   I feel that the feeling you're describing is more personal dislike for yourself than...|||For the majority of my life I have tried to hide my feelings. I felt that it was selfish of me to share them with others since they too had problems of their own.   Now having talked to a friend I...|||I work out pretty much daily, not an excessive amount but I lift weights three days a week alternated with running. Right now I am 6'1 and around 168. It's taken me a long time to get there though....|||I'm sorry but I have no idea how to create them. I just stole it from our forum. But I hope you can find a way to make one. I'd love to see the ENFJ's around the world.|||I'm the same way. I used to be ULTRA-introverted. but now I can be very out going in public. though I have to be with people that I know well and am comfortable with. Otherwise I'm very quiet.|||San Diego, California. more specifically Oceanside a suburb of San Diego|||Yeah I imagine INFP's are very attractive to narcissistic/histrionic types as we listen and except people pretty easily.   I know what you mean about the club thing. I too avoided them for a long...|||as far as friends go.I have tons of them. I have had the  same group of friends since kindergarden so that I'm sure helps. Friends that I make outside of that group tend to be people who need a...|||Finally! http://i410.photobucket.com/albums/pp182/brendog10/DSCN0177.jpg http://i410.photobucket.com/albums/pp182/brendog10/DSCN0192.jpg|||Either way I appreciate it . Thanks :)|||Off to my first final. Two more days and I'll be ready to graduate!|||Just take it one day at a time. The fact is if your idealized vision of her is shattered there is nothing you can do about it. It's up to her to make you feel the way you did before. so don't think...|||So Awesome!!! Good one.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=41ohFqkhASU|||I think that all types think primarily about them selves first and others second. Not in a narcissistic way but if you think about it you should be your number one focus and you should strive to...|||Congrats!!!!|||Damn dude, This thread is intense. I wish the OP haddent used the word Pansy because I feel like that is really got this thread heading down hill. but. . .  I think that INFP's do tend to have a...|||Right on, yeah I'd say just give it some time. I would assume that after a while she'll wake up to who you really are.   However if she's making sentences like the one you used as your example I...|||How long have you been together?  I think people can become really confused about INFP's intense feelings. I have several friends that I've known for an upwards or 10-20 years who still sometimes...|||absolutely, that's what I kind of tried conveying later in my post. I'm just saying that people will take your warning less seriously if you aren't following it yourself or at least trying to. To set...|||It's pretty common I think for most people to give out advise that they can not or will not follow.   If you are giving out advise just to put the information out there then there is no real...|||Here you go!!! :)  INFPs|||I just tend to attract needy people. I am often to excepting of people's insecurities in general, so I guess it's natural. My last girlfriend had huge insecurities which really ended up ruining our...|||I accept death as an inevidable part of life. I believe in reincarnation more or less though so to me death is just a change in form.    I feel that once one dies their energy will be put into a...|||I have definetly gone through similar periods in my life. I do embrace logic and actively strive to learn things based on reason over feeling, as I know that in some cases learning through feeling is...|||That would depend on her personality. By which I mean if I met a Super hot girl who I thought was compatible with me then yes I'd date her. To me physical attraction has nothing to do with...|||Damn! I won't be able to make it. I'm graduating that day.|||I think with time INFP's will open up in these sorts of situation. Of course it depends on a lot of factors. It usually takes me a little while to get comfortable with any group of new people.  ...|||Good day. had a really good, deep conversation with my best friend which hasn't happened for quite some time. I'm  really stoked that we can still connect :)|||I totally agree, I've struggle with attentiveness. A lot of the time when I'm talking to someone my mind begins to drift off and although I hear what they are saying,and can usually give some...'