'Do ENTJs that have been married a long time 'cheat' for thrills or escape? or do you only consider cheating or leaving for someone of significance to you? OR do you never cheat whatsoever, leave and...|||Personality totally makes or breaks the way they look and their cuteness. I don't like cocky, aggressive or bombastic personalities, but confidence, especially quiet steady confidence makes them more...|||My parents are/were not very education or dream oriented. They were more get a job, get a job and did not support my move toward college or any other move, for that matter. I wanted to be an...|||Did anyone reply to this?? I think you're spot on with Sidney and Max. Mario is ISTP, he's too reserved to be an E. Evgeni may be an ESTP, because he's mainly reserved in the US. He's quite open and...|||Sorry, but I do not agree with this. Every guy I've truly loved, I still have some feelings in there for him. Maybe it comes from INFP's always seeing good in people, and J's tend to end it...|||This may be similar to the other response, but for ME, it's 20% the information on which you are trying to sway and probably 80% the delivery of that information. I don't respond well to aggression,...|||I know this is an old thread, but an intriguing one. I'm drawn to other INFPs, for sure. They are people to whom we can connect, let our guard down with, engage and find inspiration and alchemy and...|||I just happened to be watching this, find it appropriate for your question. Hope it helps....  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6JR3_OtpJe8|||Never in a physical fight. In elementary school, I hid in the bathroom in terror when a bully picked on me, made fun of me. One of my friends had to come get me.                  My first REAL...|||One of my best male friends is an ENTP. We get along great, never EVER fight. We tend to both be so easygoing and see eye to eye on practically anything. He's more charming and outgoing than me. I'm...|||MY DOG SKIP!!!  I balled my eyes out while those around sat there stone faced. I loved it so much, but cannot bring myself to watch it again.  Roman Holiday, Brian's Song, The Notebook, War Horse,...|||Oh and I disagree totally with this Well, I can tell you that the person certainly doesn't 'act' like an INFJ. From this line alone, First, she's a very judgy person and refers to it as 'calling...|||I wasnt actually talking about INFJ's. I was talking about a woman who took the M-B and tested to be an INFJ. I was stating her actions, not INFJs. My description of her is not biased, but actually...|||Thanks to all you INFJs responding! and to anyone who does respond after this. You are restoring my faith. Your responses seem like how I would think and talk. i.e.|||Thanks. I appreciate your feedback. Your self descriptives sound more like I would think an INFJ is. Especially pointing out good AND bad in yourself--being hard on yourself.   Actually, I know she...|||OK, I apologize for what I'm about to write. I don't want to in any way offend other INFJ's, but I've worked beside one for well over 10yrs, and know her quite QUITE well. First, she's a very judgy...|||When people think you are unhappy, withdrawn, unsocial, mean, etc. Meanwhile you are complete opposite of that. If they would spend 10 minutes talking to you about you, they would totally change...|||One more thing. Chemistry, math, biology, etc are NOT next to impossible to us. It's just usually not a passion for us. Working in a field where you have a passion drives you to get up every day and...|||I read alot of the posts, and think there are tons of good points. I'm going to give a more literal example, my husband and me. Although when angry my ENTJ hubby is harsh, his personality and...|||I like mental strength first. Intelligence is a must, well... high intelligence. Although I'm usually attracted to extroverts, it has to be lighthearted, not aggressive or mean. I am attracted...|||Hallmark Xmas movies while decorating is what I've been watching.  One of my favorite movies is Roman Holiday. The meanings in it, the romance, the acting, the scenery. you will love it, if you...|||Anything is possible if you try. It's not the BEST fit for an INFP, goes against their grain. But any INFP can learn skills opposite of their natue and do them. I am in sales. I love talking to...|||When you're crying by the end of a touching commercial.....and people look at you with a blank stare, confused.  When you cannot understand how people say it's just a dog about an animal. All...|||We finally talked it out years later. To answer your question, young INFP's aren't exactly imposing or demanding. We kind of just respect your decisions and accept them. Now, I've talked to him and...|||My husband is Tigger and I am Pooh....most of the time. haha But this avatar reflects how we are together.|||What's a fake face of ENTJ? I'm just curious, because my hubby is ENTJ.|||I have related questions for male ENFJs who have had long lost loves....please reply with me in quote or somehow that I will see your reply. I'm not great at this forum yet, and I may not find your...|||Mostly listening to blah blah blah from my most likely ESTJ coworkers. ugh|||This is not in any order  --deadlines --bullies and gossips --animal cruelty and cruelty in general, senseless --limits --nonfat half & half --smoking right outside the door of a non-smoking...|||blood Right dare   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fVDGu82FeQ|||The ones I don't care for.....bossy, Alpha dogs - passing it off as protective due to caring. They also gossip and bully. When they bite, their jaw locks. Intense I myself find it difficult to...|||While some of us can do things and just never finish, many MANY writers, cartoonists, etc. are INFP's. They managed to finish. :wink: What I have trouble doing is juggling real life with writing....|||They talk too much. Too too too too too much. We get it!! We got it 85 sentences ago!!|||Cannot take direction and just do it. Always have to give commands back.  i.e. 'will you move that box please' ENTJ reply 'go make room for it over there'|||Arguing is not fun for everyone. :)  ENTJs can be exhausting.|||Thank you! I just want to be sure on my perceptions. If anyone else cares to elaborate, it's much appreciated.|||Another question.....  What are ENFJ's weaknesses, meaning things they cannot resist?  What are things ENFJ's would never forgive?|||I have a question or two please. This situation is complex and over many years. I'll try to stick to basics for the moment.  --Do ENFJ's make hasty decisions? I see they make decisions quickly, but...|||Leo sun, Cancer moon.|||Sorry, I know this is too late a post for your present. INFP's love love homemade presents. I would think ESTJs would much rather have a gift card or present from Sharper Image or THE latest popular...|||My observation is that what they say, no matter how they believe it is constructive or tactful or just stating a fact....they are blunt. They do not necessarily mean to hurt people, and they always...|||You're wrong! ha ha :wink: What I find exasperating about ENTJs is their constant need to tell us their opinion/judgement. Let it go..... breath....    Maybe we didn't ask you for the favor.  And...|||I disagree. I've been married to an ENTJ for many many years. He would make this type of joke to be funny. And I would laugh, because that is so him-the General, the King.|||The first time I took the MBTI I was an ESTJ, that was over two years ago. Since then I have taken it at least 20 time and always a ENTJ. But looking back I don't feel much different. I have been...|||What I have learned is that they are both good, honest employees, loyal workers. ESTJ just does as their told and follow orders well, understand the hierarchy.  INFPs have the good work ethic,...|||Most everything I read on here is true to an INFP. I just wanted to add a couple things.  any pointers on best way to approach you?    first, if you had a puppy in your hand, that's a magnet. If...|||Dreamers.  Insecure. Sensitive.   I always think of Jewel's song words...Please be careful with me. I'm sensitive, and I'd like to stay that way What others don't realize is we like and...|||I struggle with my ENTJ man. The judging and the drill sargeant in him is a bit much. He is charming when he wants to be.  My best male friend is an ENTP. He took this test for me. He's charming,...|||I like reading the stories. Thanks!  I'm more about helping the elderly and animals, but I've had a few encounters that I've helped. One was probably stupid--giving someone a ride. It turned out...|||It CAN work. It's not the best and requires LOTS of work. But it can.  In our case, I'm Pooh, and my husband is Tigger!! Though sometimes he's the Tazmanian Devil.  First, I agree with the...'