'I have struggled in the past with the barrage of negative thoughts and insecurities that you mentioned. One thing that works for me is I am trying to retrain my mind to not give into these...|||I don't love you INTJs. I don't know any of you on here well enough to say that to you. That would be a lie and I think you would know it. I do love one INTJ more than anyone else in this world but...|||I think that for me, I just have a sense of it being there. I try to feel where it is physically in my body and sometimes, I can get a sense of it's presence.   As for Fi speaking a language, if it...|||Museums can be so amazing. I get to see things and appreciate things that I would not be able to see without them. I love the presence of some things. I can think of some pieces of art that I have...|||No, I have never done this. In college, I knew a guy who never washed his clothes. He would just throw them in a heap on the floor and get more at the thrift store to replace them. At the end of the...|||http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-olP6uqkRtAY/T4f4Q-a9jYI/AAAAAAAAB5M/Y3MFTgppRFw/s1600/hamster_machine_gun.jpg|||This one has 535 thanks.  http://personalitycafe.com/nfs-temperament-forum-dreamers/5290-sensitive-needy-lonely-people.html|||http://waxidermy.com/anne/fernfabric.JPG  Fern likes to help me when I cut out fabric by sitting right in the middle of it. I call her my helper kitty even though she is the opposite of helpful.|||Vegan pot pie  710602  710610  Growing up, my mom used to make pot pie with leftover turkey from Thanksgiving. I haven't made a pot pie since I stopped eating meat. I made the crust from...|||Seems like kind of douchy beer to me.|||What if we had a resurrect really old threads day?|||Garmonbozia?   https://vignette4.wikia.nocookie.net/twinpeaks/images/7/78/Garmonbozia.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20100911035759 ...|||Congrats! I always enjoy reading your posts.|||http://www.factfiend.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/flintstones_L21.jpg  http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-xZHXxdZJrGU/VHD8EFJ_FlI/AAAAAAAAAqY/tF0lGXDqldM/s1600/The-Flintstones-007.jpg ...|||I was under the impression that it moved from rodeo to fashion more in the 70's.   http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-jf9xlvB3Xdo/TdNBAZJfPWI/AAAAAAAAIyc/L_myrN43nzI/s1600/VP.jpg  But aren't all chaps...|||This is some good vegan sausage. I use it in spaghetti sauce, sprinkle it on nachos and other areas where I want a more savory flavorful meat substitute.  ...|||Our cat is very anti social and doesn't usually like to be petted. She will allow it at specified times and at her convenience. I think she is overwhelmed by people and only lets me and my husband...|||This post so reminds me of my husband (INTJ). He has said similar things in regards to the kitchen. Especially the tupperware. It is organized in such a way that all the lids go one place and the...|||I will just use any paper scrap that is laying around. Sometimes, I will use the dust jacket but not often because I don't really like hardback books.|||Short answer= Tell him it is important to you and ask him to look into it on his own and come back and talk to you. Ask him to do it because he loves you and you want to talk about it with him. Don't...|||I think that in my life this has manifested in me not seeing the good things I have in front of me because I have been looking for and yearning for the ideal. It's not even something that I do...|||Love this! You are lucky that you can go to the waterslides with your mom.   The more I think about swimming, the more I feel like it's not just because I am an adult. The thing I miss most is when...|||Many things would fall apart without them.  https://www.boltdepot.com/images/Chrome/chrome-hex-nuts.jpg|||This reminded me of swimming. We have a pool in our apartment complex and I love to swim. It's all kids who swim when they get out of school so it is weird for me. The adults just sit on the chairs...|||Is it manifesting in a different area? I think that for me, sometimes when I am worried about my creativity, I am no longer interested in the form that it was taking. I am not advocating switching to...|||You should go to the fair and dress up. You can go not as you but as your alternative personality. Hide behind it and let a different side of your self show through for fun. Think about how the...|||https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/38/6f/af/386faf9322bae32f151b2f07b668919b.jpg|||I have done this with work before. I have become my work role and it was too limiting and narrow of a role to live in. It is hard to walk this line without losing or suppressing aspects of yourself....|||Car sales people are sort of weird. They are so chatty and when you don't engage they just get weirder. I think you are supposed to give in to what they want. I threaten to walk out, my husband takes...|||I like the INTP forum because they appeal to my sense of humor. They have a way of putting things that just makes me laugh. I know they can also be very serious but their brand of humor just tickles...|||This post reminds me of the craigslist missed connections section.|||A rain dance.  Worst thing you hear from your mechanic?|||Wait for it   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bxvcsF2VZDE|||Husband made us Thai yellow curry for dinner. It had tofu, sweet potatoes, onions, carrots and yellow squash. It was so good.|||Lakigigar  I was looking for salad recipes and found this for you. They look pretty simple and unfussy.  50- 5 Ingredients or Less Vegan Recipes â€¢ it doesn't taste like chicken  If you don't...|||They brag about how much bigger their unstuffed penis room is.   Things you don't want to find in your cat's litter box|||He makes better cupcakes than you  What is the best thing to pickle?|||Cat food  Strangest thing you could find washed up on the beach?|||My parents were both severe introverts and did not socialize much or have much interaction with others that i could observe and learn from. My dad did go to work but I never saw how he interacted...|||Lakigigar  This is one of my favorite pasta recipes and it is pretty easy to make:  Swiss Chard and Tomato Linguine with Balsamic Glazed Chickpeas - Thug Kitchen  I am going to suggest rice...|||I have seen that you post about feeling guilty about not eating meat for some time now. I think that maybe the thought of changing your eating style can be very intimidating and overwhelming. I think...|||One thing I would like to add to Lord Pixel's post about doing things is that not only do I feel good when I do things, gain competence in them but I also do not waste my time dreading them. I wonder...|||I worked at Target for my first job.  I remember having to wear the red and khaki outfit and people would come into Target in those colors and I would ask them for their employee card for their...|||A good movie about pet cemeteries is Errol Morris's Gates of Heaven.   I once visited my grandfather's grave with my parents when I was younger. I left a cookie on it because he had a sweet tooth....|||Lady Pirate this made me cry. So sorry for your loss.|||I was more thinking about maybe asking in the sex and relationships forum and not the INFP forum for better answers from non INFPs.   So I asked my husband (INTJ). It was fun to watch him squirm...|||I love how you bring up the putting your heart out there aspect. I think that some compliments are so unexpected that sometimes the person is caught off guard and immediately rejects it. They may not...|||How many people here get compliments and acceptance and then just brush it off? I am asking because it is something I have been guilty of in the past and is something that has come up a bit in...|||https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/5/5a/Jolly_green_giant.jpg|||I am a spouse but I have no idea what I am like. I know what I think I am like but my spouse might have a more accurate answer. Perhaps you would get a clearer answer if you asked the children and...'