'When I said someone is child-like, it's a compliment. It means they remind me of who a person used to be, to do things genuinely. They inspire me in childlike manner. Makes me want to protect them,...|||I don't find many of my folks here and it's been several years. This community is too diverse for me. So far I only ended up lurking. Anyhow, hope you can find what you want here.|||INFP doesn't define who you are. That being said, I've found myself retreating from various situations on this forum, and all of them happened outside INFP forum. It's usually when I am being...|||I am curious about this as well :D  INFPs three questions:  1. Do you like, enjoy, or want to take the lead in relationships? (friendships, romantic, any)  In friendships, I don't like leading....|||Stop understanding all people as they all have different backgrounds. Your brain will burst into pieces if you try to.  Just like this forum. I am tired of making sense of it. Too many varieties....|||7, easy to pronounce, but still foreign to my tounge lol|||Nah, nuuh. I want both of us to have our quiet personal space, even when we are talking loudly about things we like. Definitely not outgoing type who prefers several companions.|||Joy, lol.  Actually last night I cried again and again to the point my eyes feel swollen. I was thinking of happy and grateful I am to know him. People might have thought I just broke up with...|||I've given up trying to figure out what being INFP actually means. I don't care if other people think of me being too rational, too cold, or too awesome as INFP. I know I am on quest of saving the...|||On your 20's, more and more friends getting married. So you started to question yourself, how does one make decision on that?  Marriage and falling in love are different things. Some people get...|||Yeah, that's what I think too. There are differences between visiting as tourist and to actually live in different culture. He brought up his deployment when I reminded him of cultural gap. Sometimes...|||Just be there when she falls. I think this is kind of things which people should learn on their own.  I am in the same position right now. I want to help my friend, but well, I still got nothing...|||If it's movie genre, then ABSOLUTELY. But.. oh, we aren't talking about that, are we? *scratches head*|||Oh geez, Dosto! Maybe you can consider myself as your new fan! :blushed:   Anyways, in regard of OP.. I've been there before. Despite of being tomboy, I only have girls as friends since I was...|||@Dosto Yevsky Don't be sorry, there's nothing to apologize. In fact, I am amused, lol  He actually has done service in military and visited several countries, like France, Spain, I forget where...|||Because that's indeed rational counter-measure I invented to deal with emotions I felt during adolescence, lol. I don't want it to happen again. I have no idea how to solve emotional matters with...|||This. lol  I think I can tell, but if I like the person back, I am worried if I am somehow biased, so I convince otherwise: that he doesn't like me, lol  I don't know. When it comes to love, I...|||Okay, I need some inquiry from some PerC fellas here.  I am from somewhere around Southern Asia, he's from US. We aren't exactly going out, but we do know that we like each other. It's a little bit...|||Most people say, you can't.  I personally think to actually fall in love is a decision, so I would say that it's actually possible. I'd take moving on case for example. Moving on from broken-heart...|||Before I answer the thread, is it really INFP thing? I think of those typical behaviors and mindset as self-esteem issue rather than personality trait.  I love this guy, but sometimes when I get...|||I wonder in which countries being virgin isn't a bad thing, besides in my country. I never really understand why people should worry about getting laid. Cultural values play part here, of course. I...|||I am not falling in love so that I can become your damsel in distress. I am not falling in love so that I can become your elegant graceful princess. It's only with you whom I can fall in love with...|||Women are able to protect men without devastating their men pride; men are able to protect women without implying women are fragile.|||I want to vent but I just can't. Sometimes I think venting makes you immature, .. ok, just a little bit then.   ..oh, my. It's just I'm used to tolerate people more so.. yeah, I will admit it makes...|||Haha, watching K-pop fandom, random shipping, and stuffs is always interesting. Reminds me of old days :laughing:|||Someone else on this forum reading/watching Monster?! :shocked:|||Finally! A concrete way to explain intuitive and abstract thought of process! :crazy:|||vinndi! Your avatar is totally hooked on me :D  Yeah, there is tendency, majority of INFPs choose avatar that would make them feel attached to their world, and they mostly have dreamy/idealism...|||I don't think I know enough about the options you are offering up there, however knowing INFPs most likely have similar preferences, I will definitely check and give them a try. Anyway, based on what...|||When this is the only place you understand why you make people upset about you and you are also upset about them, yet you are silently back to lurk, then you noticed you still need to rant it.|||..hm, do most INFPs get drawn to 'find the origin of their true selves' hence you tend to find them on such forum like PerC?  I found it hard to drag my friends here; and the reason why I attempted...|||Welcome to PerC, Anadalaya and hope you enjoy your stay :)|||Yeah, he will never know how much I am relieved for hearing any news from him! He will never know how much I've been worrying for more than two months! Yeah, we are just cyber-friends but if what...|||Hotspur, two more posts to reach 1k! :laughing: (Is that even necessary? Ignore me.. *lurks back*)|||What I like about you is your genuine feeling to protect the one who is most important to you, without abandoning those who are less important than the most one.   It's also common sense, in...|||I subconsciously put myself as youngsters you mentioned on your post which is why I thanked that post.   I know no shame..|||Huu.. :frustrating:  Twenty. Twenty. Twenty.|||And oh..   I think what people mostly call as hypocrite is merely contradiction within two different things in people which actually talk about two entirely different contexts that however hardly...|||#Vaan Vaan (I forget how to use that recent-added tag system)  Perfectionism does not exclusively belong to any particular group nor type. If you are interested (read.obsessed) at literature and...|||^For me, that depends whether I know them well or not. If I consider them close and I've given them enough trust, I appreciate any grammatical or spelling correction. But if that's from some random...|||I am sorry. I am sorry. I am sorry. I know what has been done can't be undone. I don't ask for anything. But I want to let you know, our previous conversations are always worth of my time. I have no...|||Dear cobalt, please stop slacking off and start working on your papers.. :cry:|||*CTRL+A the starting post*  ...|||Never say neverrr..? Doh!|||Why must someone enjoy something just because many people seem like to enjoy it? Don't people differ individually?  Anyway, happy venting, mom sparkles! :happy:|||^I still have hard time to follow discussion about how each cognitive function works out in our personality and such. Sounds interesting, but I am not able to grasp even the basic theory.. or maybe I...|||Wasn't a man formerly a lad? refugee was Lad, Hotspur was Lad; randomly picked name btw. That's quite a lot of fake accounts you have there, based on my conspiracy theory.|||To be honest, I still feel somewhat insecure when posting. I joined in August 2010 yet I wasn't sure if I could enjoy myself here so I sort of left this place for awhile. If I introspect myself...|||And why it seems like I am the only girl with different romantic notion? :dry: Ever heard about girls dreaming to be personal knight guardian of a prince? That's what I am talking about!|||That's not corny. I laughed at that one. Although now that I think about it.. yeah, that's corny - but, hell, like it matters to me!'