'How warm, present, funny, passionate, protective and caring INFJs can be.  How deep, creative and nurturing INTPs can be.  How clever, goofy and hospitable ISTPs can be.  How sweet, sensitive and...|||So I took your test and came out INFJ.  I'm back to the drawing board.  Sooo confused...|||With weeeeaak Fe, I'd say that can make us pretty judgmental, less empathetic.|||Yes, paper writing really can be daunting!  Especially if it is that thing you have to do.  Let's face it, school was designed by STJs.  It's just a little suffocating for free spirits.  I do enjoy...|||I fight the P, strong J tendencies born of necessity I think.  I would love to be more relaxed and p-ish...    LOL, dat Sanguine-Choleric tho. :wink:|||So I self type, and for years I thnk,  I'm an INFJ, of course I am.  Well boys and girls, sorry, I'm INFP.  (Esp. sorry ESTPs!) :rolleyes:  Some friends of mine say when you don't understand the...|||Oh, and also I haven't been able to pinpoint many INFJ females in fiction (popular fiction at least), which makes it harder to get a sense of our type across genders (makes a big difference).  Who...|||lostintranslationn, do you too ever get the feeling you would be best friends with these people if they actually existed?|||As we are very rare (In fact I don't know any other INFJs IRL) I enjoy seeing my kind deal with life in film.  I know all you other INFJs (and other types, still don't quite understand that) will...|||Also, as a secondary question for the audience, do any INFJ's need to feel emotional connection to their closest friends/SO, or are you OK with being the only warm body?|||Thanks for your input, I think you can't fully relate because of your T.  All my friends are thinkers and they pretty much draw a blank when I say things like swept of your feet, you know what I...|||It actually did also mean what, or who.  It wants to know, we are interested in both, my precious! lol ;o|||Do you like Thinker (intelligent, sharp sometimes even dark) humor, or would you say you prefer a more light off-beat sort of wit?|||INFJs:  Do you remember moments in your life of surreal, wild social happiness? Those people that made you say to yourself, I hope this feeling lasts forever. What people/person made that happen...|||Beautiful, exactly like pizza!|||Well, I can't disagree with that.  Good for you, keep being a beacon. :)|||Are you saying you don't have your own emotions?  It's like your just some sort a quantum equalizer for all the other energy in the room you happen to be, is that what your saying?  Huh. Oooo-k then....|||It is a beautiful sentiment, if somewhat cheapened by the vulgarity. You musn't be afraid to dream a little bigger darling. ;)|||You are correct, empathy is by definition an emotional response.  However, since this is considered the trait of a psychologically healthy person, I wondered if individuals with diminished emotional...|||...perhaps the most destructive quality of a narcissist is his/her lack of empathy.  Read more: Signs of a Narcissist | eHow  How would you define empathy?  Must it always be emotionally felt,...|||My interest is both in humanity on the whole and (ironically, lol) the individuals that comprise our race.  You can be interested in humans out of a sheer sense of scientific curiosity, fine, but I...|||Bingo and bravo.|||There is evidence to suggest that this disorder is rapidly growing in at least the American culture.|||This definition of Narcissistic Personality Disorder from MayoClinic.com may help...  Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own...|||Thank you, please feel free to set up a new poll correctly, I appreciate your input.|||I hear you girl.  Thanks for your balanced, mature and well-reasoned response. ;D|||And this is what I'm talking about.|||I wasn't criticizing his type.  Just as feelers can viciously express their offended Fi in untempered ways, I know thinkers that have told me that they are sometimes prone to not modulate their...|||Or, or it could just be a thinker who does not value nor respect their fellow conversationalist's emotional makeup.|||Conversational violence is the manifestation of fear.  This manifestation of fear is often rooted in ignorance of a topic, perception of coming harm or loss, rather than a legitimized belief.  People...|||That was good.|||I laughed.  Girls giggle.|||http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view5/2641935/david-tennant-laughing-o.gif GIFSoup|||Yup, he's a perceiver.|||Star Wars was also about restoring a Republic, a looser, honor-based system of representative and self-government.  That's gotta' make perceivers happy.  Of course, trusting a benevolent...|||Yes, the Star Trek government is an authoritarian model, but it is a confederation/democracy, not an empire.|||Some would say no, so maybe, maybe not.  But what the heck, they're seemed to be a correlation to me so I figured, let's run it up the flag pole and see if anyone salutes it.  So far, my theory is...|||Yeah! Same here guy, welcome to the big internet shrink couch!  Thanks for participating in my Extravert Envy thread too!|||I feel the same way about who.  Matt Smith's Doctor derailed the whole thing.  David Tennant was the best thing since Tom Baker... I don't want to go!! :'(|||Ah, Firefly, libertarian TV gold.  And, in the US, correct, most people are not intuatives, which might make them idiots. j/k j/k (no offense sensors, that's a little N humor there) :tongue:|||Please, this is how I live!  Thank you Linnifae!  Gah, I love these ENFPs more and more each day!|||I don't even have to imagine this one. I have several close ISTJ's in my life and that's SUPER trying.  He must have extrasensorthoughtjudged you too death!!  Cold as ice too, right?  I mean...|||I saw the trailer for this and was like, you, where have you been all my life!|||I knew a guy like you who was an academic reject, but he was so smart he made a fortune and never held a job he wasn't offered on a silver platter.  Enviable.|||Oh, duh! Sorry, I just saw your signature! ;P|||I see you're new to! Hello! :)  What's your MBTI?|||This is true, I or E is a polar scale, and I know what your talking about.  I guess I've been burned a couple times which should be embarrassingly, redonkulously obvious at this point.  Out of...|||Cool!  It seems NZ is the place to be for NFs!  I can't wait to visit!  I am going next year (God willing).  Curious, why didn't you like Thailand?    I find your commentary on other East Asian...|||I posted Argentina in a new, more inclusive poll/thread called INFJ relocation.  Please vote there!  gingerlefty|||77273  LOL, thanks for your input!'