'Also, the reason why it's kind of important to identify what type you actually are is because you can't grow until you know what you actually are. I know, that's a very INFJ perspective, but it is,...|||Do you think Koyczan is an INFJ? I adore him. I've adored him from the moment I first heard his words.|||The male INFJ is the quiet, resolute guy in the back of the class who is secretly a knight inside, and who sacrifices everything, including possibly his own life, for the well-being of the one he...|||I was fine, thank you.  :P|||Neil Gaiman however, is a quintessential INFJ. Please folks.   I can see ENFP for her. Archetypally. If she actually took a test she'd be ENXP, for she uses thinking processes very facilely... and...|||RatherUnusual don't give up okay? My boyfriend and I met but before this he was like that (for reasons I don't even understand because he is wonderful). So don't worry. I know it sucks but you are...|||Ugh. I actually read all this garbage. I won't say anything more that is critical, because I used to be an evangelical Christian and I know very well how fixated you are on persecution.    What I...|||BAHAHAHA... aaaand the defence for the ISFJ is a good partner position is a nutjob.|||ESTP dislikes abstract description of ESTP/ENTP differences.  Says abstraction is a useless descriptorand attempts to boil the difference down to one concrete thing.  </troll>|||This ^^|||Try an activity. Jungle hike or something. She'll be with just you but able to be distracted if need be by practical things like a tricky path etc.  Basically as soon as you say you want to be...|||This is a good sign he's draining energy from you, I'm sorry to say. Relating intimately is energizing you: the person or SOMETHING is out of place and draining you.|||Yes we are different.  Well done for being thorough enough to effect an escape.|||It is best to have a no meaningful interactions rule with a BPD. In general they love and crave nothing more than revenge on those who call them out.   I won't be interacting with you further. You...|||Only when you can defend to me your bizarre, threatening actions and observed attempts to cause me deliberate pain would I even slightly reconsider.|||We maybe need to PM. Though given what we've all witnessed on this thread today regarding violations of explicitly requested internet privacy I'd have to -hah- caution you against it.   One off and...|||Naw. But I do see 7s as having a more tricksy vibe. Fox yeah. Monkey yeah. Unicorns aren't really tricksy.  My ISFJ being a man had some SJ boy gender roles in hand. I don't remember butthurt....|||Not at all.  But I shall rest assured knowing that your inner torment, as a BPD, is f*cking intense.   And that your relationships are themselves a g*ddamn nightmare as a BPD. That emptiness you...|||I HAD ASSUMED THAT SINCE I SPECIFICALLY SAID I WANTED IT PRIVATE I MIGHT BE SUBJECT TO GOOGLE CACHING OR SOMETHING BUT NOT THE WHIMS OF AN ACTUAL D**CHEBAG WHO WOULD THEN MAKE THREATS THAT I WAS...|||He doesn't deserve real revenge. He's just a sad little kid who causes a ton of heartaches. /sigh  Thanks for the share though. What did you do?|||It is explicitly disrespectful not to.   DO IT.  But thank you for causing tons of drama from the very beginning and no useful advice.   I seem to recall your very first post you said that I...|||I agree ^^|||If only my ISFJ could have been more spontaneous. If only my rock was more like a meringue!  Seriously though I see what you're saying; the much-touted ISFJ-ENTP relationships that work out are...|||Well you're a 7.  I like foxes esp kitsune. Ever wanted to be a magical fox?    Mmhmmmmm. Delicious hidden passive aggressions oh my!|||Ugh.  I'm saying try to make sense. Don't be a g*ddamn jerk in response.   Thanks for pushing a sore spot. Whaddaya think, that's cool? Highly disrespectful AND unhelpful.   F*cking...|||Yeah man. ENTP unicorn story...  Neither will I ever ISFJ. I laugh at the threads that theoretically discuss it.|||http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/07/04/ete6ydy3.jpg  Ah. Yes, here's me for any suitors who are titivated by my anger and angst and f*cking vindictiveness.|||I'm not seeing coherent logix in your post. I mean iNtuition logic not Ti or Te. I don't see a thread and I don't see how how what you are saying makes sense.   It sounds to me like you are having...|||Your doing it wrong; I was hitting on you there.   Don't ISFJ. Ooh just don't.|||I mean I never miss the possibility once something's over.   INFJs are the unicorns but I guess I have an ENTP unicorn out there.|||So I could commit to a Fi type with Te?  But have trouble committing to other types because there's no emotional hook?   Well. I do take a while to really fall. That's why I'm raging at this...|||INFJ.  Wait. I shouldn't say that. I had this TRANSCENDANT thing with an ENTP once for like... three weeks.  Then a miscommunication or ...I have no idea what and it just... evaporated.   So...|||Sorry. That was a bit ungracious. But I'm feeling ungracious.   But... go on...|||Well ya do remind me of an ENFP I once dated.   Not that I quite feel this way about you but it ended with me wanting to rip his head off.   Elaborate. I'm listening.|||Ahahahaha haha.|||Ugh, okay, you're a mystery, I'll bite. INFJ.   Stupid Ne....    This is condescending but I also don't get information out of it. If you suspect my way of testing limits is sh*tty or something...|||You're Korean. And? (All I get from your sig.)  I test limits constantly. My own and others. I do not trust help that comes with threats.   And superseding all of that, I do not need an Internet...|||Yeah well,  help by permitting me freedom of action within my own bounds.  I'm a g*ddamn ENTP.|||Yeah I don't even.  I'm sure there are good ESTPs but boy. Some of them.|||You can edit one to say double post. Is usual forum etiquette fyi.|||Listen?  Uh. You obviously have some problems because you think it is okay to play very overt and unpleasant power games with,  essentially, someone who is asking for your help.   But please try...|||Wow. Sociopathic. I'm... freaked out.  I am reporting that and I am reporting you for making sure I would see that post and then editing it so it no longer retained its original threatening message...|||I am in every way completely confused by MNiS AND FREAKED OUT.   Surely it is a violation of policy here to make threats like you're going down and not in the way that you think to another...|||Jesus Christ WTF. I saw your original post.    WHAT THE ACTUAL ****!?!? You are freaking me out completely.   Why on earth would you try to threaten me?   And for God's sake take that down....|||He was an INTP.   I've dated an ESTP. He did most of the above while explicitly taking my money and trying to convince me he was the second coming of St Paul. And tried to arrange threesomes with...|||Excellent idea,  I will post it here,  that will vent my spleen.   Of course I will have to delete it if I sent it in these words but you may have the pleasure of it for now.|||So firstly YOU did not do anything wrong. You didn't. They are at a time when their lives are changing and they are much, much less mature than your life events have caused you to have to be.  ...|||Au contraire. It would be satisfying. It's unlikely to be anything like a war.   He has no ammunition. I treated him like a prince so it's unlikely he could make me feel bad about anything. And I'd...|||Thanks. Yeah it was bad. I wasn't able to recognize how bad until after it was over. But part of my problem is that he is young and surely some of his idiocy is related to that. Although I have...|||I think you should trust me in my estimations. Bud. He's a douche and if you would like to side with him be my guest.'