'http://s8.postimg.org/x9cvnp7t1/2014_10_09_18_06_49.jpg  This was in a big plastic container all mixed up.  Yes I needed it sorted...|||but they're new. mitten condition      fun fact: im not selling any barbies|||Bondage Barbie too 4 u ~*freekz*~|||Buy my Barbies  I have a shit ton  I need to take the GRE  But has no monies  so buys the barbies on the ebays|||*hugs*|||I believed the first half of the OP. :laughing:  On the real though, that latter feeling must have been overwhelming.|||I teared up just reading that.    Who cares if it's just a book? Empathy is empathy. This reminds me of reading Lord of the Flies in sixth grade. Poor Piggy.|||Sorry if I missed all that earlier in the thread.  It's way too early to worry about this right now. You just started university, you only lived with her for two weeks.  If she's anything like I...|||I'm really sensitive with people judging me which is funny because I can be pretty judgey myself.  Yesterday I went to ULTA to try out lipstick and ended up getting a makeover because I guess all...|||Moonious, are you in college? What year? And didn't the school year just start? How long have you two been living together?|||Haha funny that the person above said INFx 4. I'm an INFJ 4 and this thread sounds like what my former bitch roommate would describe me as. (Not that you're a bitch. She definitely was though). ...|||felicitaciones!|||They were SNOWMEN! SNOWMEN! And I still got emotional. Ugh.    Werk.|||You don't have to give them your religion as the reason. I know where you're coming from, but you can just say you don't want to fool around with them and leave it at that, as other posters have said...|||Introversion is more about where your brother goes to recharge after a long day, for an example. If he's tired, does he retreat into his room or go out with friends? There is a lot to introversion...|||I cried about 20 minutes ago because it is 2 a.m. and I am sitting in bed next to my cat who is lying on his side, stretched out. He's resting his head on the bed but is also awake, just kind of...|||Also, OP, if you get with her, remember that your happiness depends greatly on what is actually happening, and not the happiness you feel from what could be, what you want to be or what should be....|||I think it's impossible for anyone to completely stop idealizing. I think it's possible for INFJs to idealize much less and stay INFJ, as long as they (we) can have that picture in our heads while...|||Slytherin is not a bad place!! Don't let Malfoy and Tom and all those other little shits deter you. Everyone always tests Slytherin at the bottom, and although it could often be true, there are so...|||Oh, absolutely. So many letdowns from this. To quote Billy Shakes:  Expectation is the root of all heartache.  Living in your head all the time can be very bad. I think it's very common for...|||I studied English, too. Ain't nobody got time to read when all you're doing is reading all the time.  If that makes sense. :wink:|||Everybody, make sure you are honest about the Receiving Gifts questions. It doesn't make you superficial. Read up on it, there's a lot to learn! It encompasses many things.  1. Acts of...|||This..was...just...the most beautiful thing. I have never seen better words to describe this feeling.|||Freaking people out when I ask them about their life goals, thoughts on religion and spirituality, how they understand and view themselves and how they perceive their thinking style, within the first...|||Because we love to live in our head! And often times our head canon is much more fun and valued than our life canon.  I can have a shitty day IRL but consider it a success if my head canon plays...|||I'm a special snowflake, short and stout, here is my handle, here is -  OK, just kidding. But it can be frustrating sometimes when I say things like, I feel like I don't operate correctly in the...|||FFX is SO EASY! Except for Braska's Final Aeon. I haven't played 6 yet but it's next after I finish 9.  FF7 though, I just didn't care about any of the characters. The story didn't pull at my...|||Final Fantasy VII was extremely underwhelming.  (And a complete joke after you get Knights of Round)     Also, I don't think abs are attractive. Or really visible muscles in general.  I like...|||Most people score Receiving Gifts as last. Don't let the test make you feel like getting gifts is materialistic. Read up on that language to see what it's really about. My best friends' is Gifts and...|||I hate this depending on who it is. Sometimes I secretly love it as an introvert.|||That goes into N/S, J/P and Type 4. It's hard to put that into just Judging/Perceiving.|||Yeah, but I don't think a Perceiver would make a coded list based on paint colors.|||Yesterday I created a Google Doc with all the names of the different acrylic paints I have. I have probably more than 60 so far and don't want to buy duplicates but I love buying paint. :tongue: ...|||From a few past experiences I've had, it's because they know I'm about committed, more serious relationships and am not down for flings or casual, short-term ones. Usually the ones who do this are,...|||Thanks @n0_d3N1AL! I'm supposedly seeing him tonight to settle the dispute so I will have to use this.|||You're right. It's difficult to temper this with talking to someone about a concern, if it's something I'm personally against, i.e. smoking. I'm trying to figure out how to bring up concern over...|||:kitteh:  http://s29.postimg.org/fvd6inlif/moogle_mini_cosplay_by_francescamisa_d6fzcha.jpg|||http://s22.postimg.org/sgt6m97gh/7624_Chocobo_Main_jpg_610x0.jpg   wark wark wark wark wark kwehhhhhh|||The discussion I had with him was a concern I had about how often he would smoke. He told me if it bothered me to let him know, and I did, and he became defensive. I think he doesn't want to be seen...|||Me: INFJ Dad: ISxJ Mom: ESxP  My parents married at 16 so they've been through a lot. My dad gets very exasperated with my mom's off-the-cuff planning and my mom gets frustrated at my dad's...|||It's hot outside today, huh?  Yes it's freaking hot outside today. It's Texas and it's August. Are we really going to talk about this?|||I'm never on time to anything.|||I seem to run into this issue a lot with someone in my life, who says that he listens to me when I say I am not judging him, but still gets the vibe that I am. I can say time and again that I'm not,...|||I like to do this to my SO sometimes as a form of teasing.  Babe can you hold this for me? No. OK I'm sorry I love you. *whipping noise*  Of course it's all jokes and then we just go...|||She's a 15-year-old girl. I was all over the place at 15 too and I have two degrees now. Being vague doesn't make her dumb, it makes her a 15-year-old girl who doesn't know who she is yet.  People...|||Worry about being taken advantage of -> Close myself off -> Feel like an asshole for closing myself off -> Open myself up -> Fall in love -> Put my all into the relationship/probably over-sacrifice...|||Hell yes, another Texan. Hey! I'm an INFJ from the DFW area. Welcome!|||The girls in this age group are much more sensitive and quick to jump toward self-harm. Joking about that is not funny, and it looks like you know that. Would it still be funny to you if one of these...|||South Park!!  And we're gonna top that with a little creme fraiche...oh, eff yeah.|||Not an ESFJ, but my best friend is. Sent her some texts about a stressful situation while she was in Colorado hiking. Didn't think she'd respond but she took the time (she is very loyal). Only when...'