'i do get nervous with girls i really like, the thing is that im always very impulsive and tend to flirt very directly. Ive kissed a lot of them out of nowhere when i know shes into me. Im very...|||Funny how the guy who just said that hes a man because he fucked half the women on north america is calling other people misogynist. That you are more developed than other ENTPs here? Are you even...|||Big mouthed asshole. Its so brave to challenge someone on the internet. I would so enjoy to kick your old ass, but you probably are just some sad loser tryng to show off his manhood on the internet....|||You should get a medical check and then a psychological evaluation if its needed.|||Do you really struggle with this? Its weird, ive always found ENTPs to be very caring people in general. In fact i would even dare to say they are sort of people pleasers in some things. Of course it...|||You seem very bitter, did your early 20s suck or something? Oh believe me, the less of things i could care about is an old first world old frustrated guy telling me how i need to man up on the...|||i really dont even care what type a random person thinks i am, mostly because i study Jung professionally in a clinical setting.  And thankfully, im not in love with her, i just feel very sexually...|||Could you give a rational, theoretical reason why you think im not an INFJ, considering you dont even know me? Second, what does this have anything to do with the theme here being discussed? Third,...|||shes bisexual. HypernovaGirl Today she used seductive body language and called for my attention after i ignored her. I think she is just trying to play with me and i dont really like that. Ill...|||Thank you for your comment. I havent thought about doorslamming, im not really that emotionally invested on her to feel the need to completely shut her out of my life. I did think i could keep the...|||Thank you for your comment. I just find weird the idea of being ignored, i think that just saying she isnt interested would be easier, but i understand your point.|||very difficult. She is an ESFP with BPD. It used to be very negative when i was a teenager, nowadays our relationship has become more understanding, mainly because of my maturity and understanding of...|||Hello Perc community. I would like you hear your opinions on this particular case. Im a male INFJ with a crush on a female ENTP. We are both in the same college and ive known her for quite some time...|||Read Freud´s interpretation of dreams, it might answer your question|||Have you ever received psychotherapy or psychoanalysis?|||Do you have recurrent thoughts? The not attaching to the dog and repressing the mourning points to a possible explanation.|||Psychotherapy is the only job ive really enjoyed until now. Applying tests and general interviews are fun too but not as fulfilling as giving analysis/therapy.|||(INFJ male hiding in the bushes waiting for the INTP girls to get around so i can check them out)|||Not at all. ENTP and INTP women can have a lot of sex appeal, particularly to feeler men.|||Interesting post. One thing that comes to mind, Why do you keep getting involved with similar women again and again? If you are so sure of what you want from partner, why is it that you always date...|||271450|||moonlight02 i agree with all the comments before me but i would like to add something important. I think your case is one of unhealthy codependency and it could bring you more trouble in the future....|||the new album by battleaxe, Chinese potato chips and an ENFP girl <3|||im more that eager for the slam! xD|||Hello ENFP friends :) its been a long time since i post anything on this forums, ive been very busy!  But this is a special occasion, a possible macro historical event in my lifetime. Ive met a...|||you ENFPs are adorable! Sadly, ive met a few who struggle with the same problem, both male and female. The main issue is your own need for attention and recognition. You seek for it so desperately...|||sounds like typical INFJ self doubt. Give him time and be honest about everything. Try to bring him down from his own cloud|||stereotypes. It all depends on the individual.|||if arent able to take out your personality of your career then i dont think you will be able to be a good therapist. You cant impose your worldview on your patients and other individuals. About Jung,...|||being perfect is one of them. If not, just being a plain dick also works.|||Im not sure neuro is capable of fully grasping all the details of the human psyche. In fact, Neuroscience has not even explained the nature, origin and function of human consciousness. There are a...|||yes we are.|||Of course he does. Just tell him, take the initiative. Hes an INFJ after all.|||welcome! maybe you are a shy extrovert, ive known a few.  Welcome to perc! :)|||have you ever been in a relationship before? how old are you?|||discomforting knowledge. Its makes you great of character.|||you know what? i dont really care if women dig emotional men or not. I just want to be myself, im not changing or repressing anything in me just to please others. No person is worth not being who you...|||i am sorry if the post offends you. Is not our intention to sound rude, sexist or anything like it.  Ive dated smart, independent women with a good doze of femininity but at the same time tomboyish....|||Bexker you didnt get my point. Im a boxer and ex gang member. Im not coward or shy at all. I tall at least with 10 grils a day at college, the problem is not that i cant aproach them. The problem is...|||gosh, seems like nobody understands the point. Kind of used to it though.|||Dont you ever feel like you cant be yourself around others, specially women?  I find that the only way women pay attention to me is projecting an Alpha Male attitude and image. If i show myself...|||I just cant be myself and not be alone. Being myself is accepting loneliness.|||I love politically incorrect humor!|||welcome :)|||gosh, that was the shittiest date i have ever read about.|||people make MBTI a Dogma.|||I dont know why but i think you haven't read Freud enough. And about Jung, Read a book named the Aryan Christ, very well documented and confirmed by people who met him in life. It shows a much more...|||Jung based his theories on Freud, and both share the same as above. Those theories you describe are of different nature than psychoanalysis.  And about Jung owning Freud, depends on the case. In a...|||I think it would be more healthy for you to start understanding people and accepting them. Also, be more selective of the people you are surrounded with, it can help a lot.|||Read Freud. And yes, its without, not under. It refers to pulses (not instincts, that's another mistranslated term), repressed feelings, memories and pulses.'