It's all about quantity, not quality!|||I love Waterhouse's work. His work provides an emotional experience that can only be understood by those who are patient enough to study the subject's body language and the metaphors within. I think...|||I know four ENFJ girls at the moment.  Girl 1: We used to be close friends in junior high, but drifted when she went to study abroad. When she came back, she was for some reason super apprehensive...|||Hey guys! I've just invited 80 people to my place for a huge house party! NO CATS ALLOWED|||I'm an INFP, and I'm a huge self-confessed narcissist. And so is one of my other INFP friends. INFPs can be narcissistic as hell too. Its just that our (INFP) brand of narcissism can be rooted in...|||Existentialist  The  existentialist is a rare individual, an individual that values freedom  and takes responsibility for the...|||I know that in an ideal world, biological gender shouldn't be a reason for me to feel uncomfortable traveling to certain places. Japan is very safe, which helps with this weird anxiety I have about...|||So in a few weeks, I'm going on a backpacking trip through Shikoku, a large island in the South of Japan. For about two weeks. I've always been a bit scared to travel completely alone, as I am...|||yentipeee  I guess 'emotional' boundaries was the wrong term in this case. We set boundaries. For example, we would promise each other not to take the sexual relationship further than sexual - but...|||Vimerge  This sort of thing is exactly what this forum is for. The better you understand yourself and why you react or process things in the way you do, the more you can look at your individual...|||Vimerge  No one's here to ridicule you or your rough past, and I'm sorry you had such shitty experiences with shitty girls. I think what's problematic with both you and Elliott Roger is how you...|||There Goes My Gun - Pixies|||Double post.|||And I enjoyed every second of it.  I did find time to introspect and improve as a person from my casual sexual encounters, more than you would like to believe. I learned that certain people are...|||From my experience, casual sex was lots of fun, but only with the right people. It was hit and miss for me. Not because I would end up hurt or anything, but because I'd experience lack of sexual...|||Longing for belonging.|||Since I'm Japanese, here are some Japanese ones:  Cat: Nyaa, or Nyan Dog: Wan-Wan, or Kyan-Kyan (if it's a smaller dog) Mouse: Chuu Elephant: Paooooon Cow: Moh Sparrow: Chun-Chun Chick:...|||@Shameless Nation  I can see why people would be drawn to this sort of thing - all these beliefs offer the same premise - that there is more to our human experience than our biological, physical,...|||The extent of my introversion. It's the reason why it's hard for me to make friends. I don't trust most people enough to respect my need to be alone.|||Paganism as a concept interests me. Then again, religions that revolve around worshiping the individual self and his/her own body (rather than a god or multiple gods) interest me as well. Satanism is...|||Befriend and speak to people who are completely different from you in terms of personality. Let them coerse you into doing something that you never imagined ever doing. Embrace your alone-ness, in...|||I'm so sorry that people can be so horrible about something as trivial as physical appearances. The people who called you names surely had insecurities of their own, so if anything, you should feel...|||1. Is it a photo of you or not?  No.  2. Why did you choose the avatar you have?  It's a photograph by  contemporary photographer Alexey Galushkov. I love the composition and  the form of the...|||As ALittleSalt has said, I think that engaging in hobbies and interests that allow or demand subjectivity can do wonders. Go explore a new genre of music or art - or give yourself some time to do...|||ESFP, INTJ, ESTP, ISTP, INFP, INTP, in order :)|||I think it also depends on which type of INFP you are (referring to pearslug's 3 types). I for one, am never clingy with anybody, except for maybe my INTP. My philosophy of 'if it bothers you, don't...|||I currently know 3 INFPs, all very different from each other in many ways, but all definitely INFP (tested). Two of the INFPs are girls I know from college, It's not that I don't get along with them....|||This so much! I can't agree more.|||I didn't mean to say you're still literally a kid, I meant kid as in offspring. As in, the person who was born to your parents. The fact that you were born to them and raised by them is not something...|||So apparently, Tyrion Lannister is a True Neutral like myself. I'm so okay with that :laughing:  Bring me my whores and wine!|||I don't know if this counts as badass, but I'm planning on going backpacking all alone through southern Japan in June. It's a little college graduation gift to myself. I'll be hitchhiking, talking to...|||@Shameless Nation  Full-heartedly agree. Loving yourself first is probably the most important step. Loving yourself enough to not keep putting yourself through the same damaging relationships is so...|||@Whoop    I'm not sure if I personally agree with this... I think it depends on whether you're the type of INFP that happily learns from mistakes or is permanently traumatized by them. But even...|||ENTJ father. We barely understand each other. He's very conservative in all of his views, and thinks of me as a rogue hippie or something. When he realizes he agrees with something I said (which...|||I can usually brush off criticisms about things I do that don't necessarily hurt other people. e.g. about how 'eccentric' I am, how much of a loner I am, how I have 'bad taste' in things, or how I'm...|||Debating for the sake of debating here:  If a person who is proven to be guilty is convicted to spend life in prison, it is perhaps more reasonable to end their life instead of 1) Essentially...|||Wants, by Philip Larkin   Beyond all this, the wish to be alone However the sky grows dark with invitation-cards However we follow the printed directions of sex However the family is...|||True neutral, always have been.  I'm on nobody's team but my own.  If I do decide to take sides or be 'good' or 'evil', it is an internally influenced decision, and not because someone told me to...|||I completely understand this. People start probing at my personal space  only when I'm silent. I say throw them a bone, and let them nibble at  that instead of the lining of my personal bubble.|||I'm not even trolling or trying to be mean right now, I've just actually had this ridiculous hypothetical scenario playing all day in my head today while at work, and I couldn't stop laughing. Please...|||Mactheknife   Where can I obtain one of these shirts you speak of? I need something to match my 'LEAVE ME ALONE' forehead tattoo.|||Exactly this right here.  Saying people don't have the right to interact with you simply suggests a delusional diva mentality.|||I don't think anyone owns anybody, even parents don't own their kids. But I think that unless you've gone through some form of malicious and intentional abuse from your parents, it's a bit...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7XdYnh729IQ|||And a parent has no right to interact with the kid they worked hard to raise? We're not talking about friends from school here, but two people who obviously love and respect you enough to have gone...|||This.|||1. What is your enneagram type and instinctual subtype?  5w4 sp/sx, I'm in my mid-20s.  2. Which types have you dated, and what were their enneagram types?  These are all my 'serious'...|||Aaah double post.|||I'm not sure if this counts, but I quite frequently see snakes in my dreams.  A very common dream I have is of a shiny black snake (a black adder, perhaps?) coiling itself around my arm and soon...|||Lonely. I miss my peaceful, big, beardy bear of an INTP.  Long distance sucks so much.  I've also just eaten one too many oreos.