'What do you mean. i thought Myers Bridds was a percentage of each letter, you could be only 50% extrovert or 90% Can't it be the same with F and and S?|||I think I might be borderline. It did come up in a test once. But most test tell me I am a ESTJ|||I don't deal very well with rejection at all. I like everyone to love me and I go out of my way to make sure that people do. But that only applies to people I want to befriend. If i hate your guts...|||Star Wars MBTI Chart | Geek in Heels  I found this on Facebook. Seriously what do you guys think? That's a bit extreme... but when I show my friends they didn't say NO WAY! I wanted to be...|||my picture is in my profile|||This is got to be the worse week of my life, after my brother's death|||It's all over now. THE WORTH THING EVER. don't even think about it|||Oh it's nice to read something good about us for once lol :)|||Oh I have mixed feeling about this. I HATE the marketing of Christmas and all the gifts exchange that goes with it. But I like buying present if i am not under pressure to do so. If i am please by...|||I would love not to have to lecture it would mean the world would be perfect for me. I rant a lot especially @ work. sometimes my colleagues tell me to shut up when i have gone too far or overdone...|||yes we do love, but not always express the love in the most obvious manner. example: I love my mum, I don't see her often because I live abroad. she has just spent one week with me. I planned the...|||Hi, I grew up with my single mum. I know my father and meet up with him sometime but he never contributed financially or emotionaly to my upbringing. Hence why I don't celebrate Father's. He always...|||I do enjoy a good deep discussion but like someone mentioned before you end up talking about death. At work I often trigger conversations or debates from something I say but I am rarely the one that...|||Maybe try to take on her chores, if she always does the cooking do it for example. Other way is to plan a day with her, like quality time and do something like a relaxing day spa, or just a massage...|||So reading all this, how do you go from being an unhealthy ESTJ to a healthy one?|||I love being busy. But I always plan some down time too (otherwise I get run down and ill). I do a lot of sport, mainly rugby, train twice a week then games on Sundays. Then I have to fit the gym,...|||I am/ was in a ESTJ ,ESTJ relationship. In a middle of a break up. Don't really know what is going on. I called it off although I was the one most attached. Arguments were frequents. I couldn't...|||I am not trying to offend anyone or be racist but I have been in the UK for a bit and dated a lot of English and foreign men. I have lived in France and in the West indies. I have friends of lots of...|||Same I never impulse buy and I like to buy random gift. I check my bank account everyday and keep a very good track of my finances. Always looking for a bargain, a refund or a discount :). Never pay...|||It depends on the situation. I have apologized in the past when I have gone too far (I am pretty good at hurting people with the truth and shake their confidence to the core) or  if i have made them...|||Very often, I will not back down of a heated argument, but later I might think about your arguments and if they are valid I will change my attitude. I always say that I love sales people, because...|||After 2 weeks of cheating on my boyfriend, i decided to call it off. its over. i am not better off, but he deserved better that this|||Day number 3 of cheating on my 7 months BF. I do like him a lot but i am obsessed by my Limerance object/ boss. One is real, the other psychologically satisfying. I hate being a cheat. I haven't had...|||my rising sun is on virgo and is very stong, i make list for everything, i love it|||I think homosexuality exists since antiquity, maybe as old as human history. so why wouldn't it be natural? maybe religious believes made us think that it is wrong. i don t think it is a trend. it...|||Especially in terms of friend. I have always chosen my friends, I am very suspicious of people choosing me as a friend because I think what do they want from me lol|||ha ha that always happens to me when my work colleagues go to the coffee machine and ask me if I would like a drink. Do I need the caffeine intake? I am driving far later? am I doing any sport? am I...|||Well I tried cut him off for 8 long months and I am now back to square one...|||I know for sure the outcome is not gonna be good. But how bad does it get?|||Maybe he should give you a to do list before he goes to work, and you can agree what you want to do or what you can't do. At leat like this he cannot be disappointed when something is not done. But...|||I am the same. something useful. I always have a list of stuff I need/ want but can't afford yet. So anything from that list. Clothes, accessories from my favorite shops. But I do appreciate a ...|||This is totally what I am going through with another ESTJ. Heart and mind are fighting all the time. I call them good and bad side. I want to be good and stay away (he has got a gf) but at the first...|||I know 3 male ESTJs|||Female here!|||I don't think lying is ever appropriate. Because one lie often brings more lies to cover up for the first one. I hate liars. I never heard anyone being thankful for being lied to. Everyone appreciate...|||I never used to look at thanks until now you have mentioned it. I just want to espress myself. But I do thank people if I agree with someone's idea or if they make me laugh and I have nothing to add...|||feel free to spell  check, english is not my first language|||So why would we limit the natural selection to suicide or mental illnesses? If we think that way then why giving medicine for anything? By then we would have been resistant to almost most form of...|||That does make more sense|||people that are able to make me do a 180 are: sales people and people I care about that can sell me what they are talking about. If you present something new to me like a nice glossy brochure and...|||I am quite annoyed by that comment. It shows a lack of tolerence. It's not like we have chosen our type. You are judging all of us on your perception of the world and your encounter of a few of us....|||I also think we takemuch longer to open up. Before I can qualify someone as friend there must be a lot of trust in place, which obviously takes time to build. So yes maybe at first we might appear...|||I knew someone would mention us :-)|||Wow, I am glad ESTJs are not on the list. I think the coldness is just a perception if you are a warm person. I have a ISTJ friend and he can appear cold but I like him like that. He does not...|||My best friend is a ISTJ and I have never seen any violence directed towards me but I have heard stuff from his ex. I think he wasnot very nice to her. I went on holiday with him recently, and...|||Off course we can change. If we realize we are doing something wrong , off course we cannot be hypocrytes and carry on doing it. I have doing 180s more than once in my life if I see that i am onthe...|||I just can't go throught this, whneis it gonna stop. I just want him out of my head, I want to be normal again. The thoughts are creeping our of nowhere! I was so down and low last night after having...|||Today was soooo hard. It took me all my willpower to ignore him. I had to text my friend so many times to stop me. But i id it:happy:|||Don't worry, I am sure you meant no harm, I was just shocked by my loss of control (being a ESTJ kind of the worse thing ever).  My life is busy, always. That leminence is in the background of...|||Ok, just read about it and the flood gates are shut now. It will go away and I am doing the right thing. And now I know there is no way in the world that anything can happen. And I am not the only...'