'it's in the socionics description of an INFJ/INFP--affecting extreme elegance in dress and manner.  it can work for me and against me...sometimes i'm told i come off as polite and put-together,...|||yes it does :)|||so, you're a fop too ;)|||thank you, i think i may.    p.s. *ahem* it's never too late for you either ;)    i want to shake your hand right now haha ;)  thanks for the inspiration!  okay, i'm off to bed...good night!|||yay a kindred spirit--nice to meet you :)    yes, i think i would be happy in any profession where i would get to make people happy, and know that i was making them happy by providing a product or...|||i would recommend working and/or volunteering in both fields to see for yourself :)|||i'm a part-time chiropractor, part-time worker's comp reviewer, part-time natural beauty writer, and i volunteer at a local hospital and with an organization called girls on the run.  i'm thinking...|||awesome :)|||LiteratureNerd  do you look like Leela from Futurama?  http://images.wikia.com/en.futurama/images/9/91/Futurama-fry-leela-bender.jpg|||well said.|||***tosses a bucket of cold water on glidar's face, and then slaps him***|||HA.  i learned a new word today, thanks, Runescribe.  i also learned that i am that word (but the female version).    i over-dress when i am nervous *shrugs*|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmE57YE3pSc|||heh don't have the INFJ eyes, but i have the INFJ schnoz  :>)|||the E is def part of the framework for this theory...or am i starting to see the E everywhere b/c it's what i unconsciously look for now with my enneagram-colored glasses B-)|||achiever/innovator.  taken with a grain of capitalism salt (or would it be kool aid?), b/c this system is on the Strategic Business Insights webpage....  this is basically true for me.  i...|||usually when i am having bad thoughts before bed it is b/c i am feeling unsettled with something/someone in my life.    sometimes i can connect with my body, and emotions, and determine exactly...|||BOOKS:  i recently read the corrections by johnathan franzen and this paragraph made me misty:  And when the event, the big change in your life, is simply an insight--isn't that a strange...|||i agree.    i also agree with Runescribe's negative anchoring--  who wants to be with someone who agrees with them all the time?  you may think you do, but you don't.  you want someone with an...|||read, walk/run/hike--preferably outdoors, spend time with loved ones, practice yoga, stretch, listen to music, cook, nap, clean & organize, preen, lift weights, hunt and gather, volunteer, watch tv...|||wow, there is some amazing advice on here!  you know who else gives good advice? http://myhiatus.yolasite.com/resources/1737082.jpg Garth Algar: Let me tell you something about women, Wayne. They...|||i enjoy this forum a lot, but i also think it is a bit too negative sometimes.  i go to the philosophy forum when i want something similar, but less Fe-ish.|||yep, they can be so quiet and then they surprise you.  they have a silly switch, like ENFPs ;)|||i'm personally loving all the new avatars in the INFJ forum right now ;)|||i believe in the possibility of auras.|||ROY G. BIV, eh? nice ;)  yellow, violet, blue = green = crystal|||my insides and outsides are different.|||that's so true it hurts.|||LOVE the twilight zone.|||Epimer: i haven't had a direct interaction with you, but my first impression is that you seem kind and curious.  and i like your avatar :) i find it to be very dreamy, indie, and warm.  i'll have to...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDbyYGrswtg   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTBsm0LzSP0|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rYEDA3JcQqw  gives me chills.  i can't even imagine what her voice would be like live.  my head may explode.|||hey- is that samus?!!??  maybe it's a newer power suit than i've seen...anyway, she's rad, and pretty INFJ-ish!14944  p.s.  Hidden until activated.  <3 that, Hoka-hey-now|||8.  eight.  ocho.|||i agree.  a lot of how and why i'm adventurous has to do with my e-type motivations and instinctual stacking.|||i chase my passions, which has lead me to embark on adventures i haven't always consciously chosen.  otherwise, i'd like to think i'm pretty good at making anything an adventure, like Carmelina...|||i can't tell you what to do, but, however, i can tell you that finding a job can take a long time.  best of luck :)|||neither of my parents are INFJ's.    my dad is an ENFJ/P and my mom is an E/ISTJ.  my little brother is an INTP.  i've learned something different about life from each one of them, but i think i...|||<---burt's bees addict!  i like the pomegranate flavor. i keep tubes everywhere.  burt's bees is the bees knees (and it's mostly non-toxic!)  anyway, back to fashion...i like my look to be simple,...|||i love this thread!  i apologize now for how long i know this post is going to be!  if you can't do it in the NF forum though, where can you?  :wink:  my best girlfriends who are like sisters to...|||thanks for sharing, chinotto :)|||how dare you.|||no, i think of this thread as a way of saying thank you to others who's posts interest you for one reason or another.  that's how i used it anyway :)  it is only natural to want positive feelings...|||alternative title for this thread:  cast your votes for the PerC Prom Court!  jk i don't think the INFJ's who got love on this thread let it get to their heads, except for ertertwert, who posted...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ll7UFxqI2pM|||that quote helps me too, and i'm 27, out of grad school, and have been in the working world for 2 1/2 years now.  ugivemepuppies:  it may never go away.  people still think of me as the emo girl...|||1418714186  ally sheedy from the b-fast club.  i'm a 4w3 E-Type INFJ, so i actually relate to her both pre and post-makeover.  depends on my mood...  i'm gunna change my avatar.|||nah, i'm at work and i did a little giggle to myself when i read it--had i been drinking water at the time, i may have spat it out--i think you should be proud! ;)|||you should run!  just make sure you get plenty of fluids.|||back to the original post-  i am in a relationship with my job.  my job isn't just a job, it's a lifestyle, and it's my personal cause which i hold a deep passion for.  when things are going...'