'Welcome to the forums, Ms. Laura!  ESFJ.. I don't think we have many of those!  Make sure you check out their forums, I'm sure they'd love the company.  :)|||You know, everyone always says INFJ males are really rare.. but I know a lot of them, and there are a lot of them on the forums if I remember right.  Smells like a fallacy to me!  Welcome to the...|||I've noticed that you've been posting this in multiple places and I'm kind of wondering why.  Now that you've posted it here in the advice forum, I have to believe that you're possibly involved in a...|||I wasn't actually sure about the term semi-duality and had to look it up.  From the base definition I would say that this doesn't really seem like a good thing.  However, if I am understanding what...|||I think it kind of depends on what my other options are.. I'm currently visiting my family and I've tried to spend as much of that time away from them.  The environment is stressful and it makes me...|||Is there really anything wrong with being obsessed with sex?  XD   Okay, okay I suppose there should be some limits...   On a serious note though - I don't know if my personality type has a lot to...|||That description sort of offends me - I feel like you took a very negative stance of the type.  Even when you said loyal you followed it up with things like doormat.  None of that feels positive at...|||THIS.  I adore Within Temptation.  Interestingly enough, I like her live songs better than the pre-recorded.  Her natural voice just blows me away.  You should try some Rasmus.  One of my all time...|||Let's see - yes, I am a single mom.  I do live with someone however, and he does his share in helping me, but he's not really the attention giving type (even though he's an E!), mostly because he...|||Not like music from the 90s?!  Clearly you have not heard enough of it.  Cranberries rock though.  I grew up loving Ace of Base, you should try some of that.  :)  I've seen Meat Loaf in concert.....|||I am horribly fixated on effeminate men.  I adore pretty boys.  It's scary even to me sometimes.  They're just so... oh god I can't even think of the words.  XD|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ODdhNH0n8U|||Listening to music and wondering why I'm still posting when I should be doing something else.  XD|||Based on the responses, and my own experiences with people who have a hero complex, I don't think this has much to do with personality type.  I know an NT who has a serious hero complex, but I would...|||I don't know that we have a lot of parents on the forums, but I just kind of wanted to ask for opinions or advice in this situation.  I'm a fairly private introvert, and I have an extremely...|||http://www.boredstop.com/imgp/beautybeast.jpg    http://img541.imageshack.us/img541/8016/60561143535230435105030.jpg|||This is kind of a hard question for me because I've read so many books.  The first thing that springs to mind is Skylight Confessions by Alice Hoffman.  She's one of my favorite authors, and I was...|||The House on Sorority Row.  I love old school horror movies.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wCEK_04ep_Y&NR=1|||The Warrior Heir by Cinda Williams Chima and Fallen by Lauren Kate|||I dreamed about the high school that I went to.  It was not like I remember it though, and there was someone there who never went to my high school.  There was some sort of strange assembly going on,...|||Hm.  Interesting question.  I certainly have liked INTJs from afar, and actually dated one for awhile.  It isn't that they aren't attractive.. they are.  The issue, for me, comes when I try to settle...|||This is a really great thread!  I laughed a few times while reading through it.  :)  From the opening post - I found the breakdown very interesting, but like Trigun I can see where it isn't fact,...|||My musical interests bounce all over the place, but I feel very similarly to pretty much everyone who posted.  Whatever I do listen to usually has to match my mood, how I feel.  I can go from...|||This!  100% agree.|||I've begun categorizing myself more as an INFJ, but with some S tendencies, but I would say that I don't do this.  I actually tend to spend more time NOT talking, and doing the listening.  I do like...|||You can't delete posts after a certain time period, Mokona.    And just to point out that it's really not just Sensors, or SJs that shut people down - I live with an ENTJ.  He ALWAYS shuts me down...|||I know I'm a bit late to respond to this, mostly because I've been inactive for awhile, but I'd like to add my two cents.   I personally feel this is a people thing, and not an ISFJ thing - or...|||I should probably be trying to sleep.|||I did NaNo last year for the first time and I really enjoyed myself and met some great new people at the write-ins that I joined in on.  I'm in a new area this year, and I'm not planning on joining...|||Being a J, it's not really my place to answer this question - but I will say that I definitely hate rejection.  It makes me feel bad about myself, leaves me wondering where I went wrong, etc.  This...|||There is an option to buy it in the store, I believe.|||If you already have such an in-depth relation with these people you probably have other ways to message them.  Other forums, email, messaging systems.  There's no need to mess with the system that we...|||You know, I was pretty excited when Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs was announced - but I was kind of disappointed with the movie.  It was nothing at all like the original story.  Same thing with...|||I love kids' movies.  It's easy for me to be able to see them because I have a daughter, so I sort of have an excuse.  I have gone with a friend to see animated movies though - How to Train Your...|||I have always really liked A names for some reason - my daughter's name is Aeriel.  Don't confuse her with the disney princess, Ariel though - not her namesake.  :P  I'd like to have a boy some day...|||I'm reading The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger and I just started The Strain by Guillermo Del Toro and Chuck Hogan.|||I just took my daughter to see The Legend of the Guardians.  I was actually pleasantly surprised to enjoy the movie.|||I dreamed about zombies last night.  I was trapped in a school with a bunch of people I've never seen before.  There were some kind of evil dogs that were trying to bite us, and we were trying to get...|||Welcome to the forums.  :)  Your chosen career path seems very needed in times like these.  I bet you work hard!|||No worries, we're not a totally tough crowd!  If you need any help, ask.  I'm sure there are lots of us who can take the time out to show you around.  :)    Welcome to the cafe.|||I love INFJs.  :)   Welcome to the forums, Swedish guy!  Also, Netflix is a way to view movies.  It's actually pretty neat - you can live stream them on your computer, or order DVDs and view them. ...|||I think INFP guys are pretty fab myself.  Can be a little sporadic, but hey what's life without some spontaneity?  :)  Welcome to the forums.|||Welcome, not so new INFJ.  I'm sure that you've already found the forum to be a cool place, since you're still here and all.  :)|||I know a lot of people think you're an INFP, and it does seem to fit... until I break down the pieces I know about you.    With certainty, I'd say you're an Introvert and a Feeler.  However, I...|||Can we get this thread closed please?  It looks like three pages of people spamming.  If a master list is needed, have someone head it up - it should be ONE post with a listing of people and their...|||I agree with Rowan.  There's nothing really wrong with venting.  It can make us feel better and it can help other people see how things are affecting us.  I think it becomes a problem when it hurts...|||I felt this way a lot during high school.  I did a lot of pretending during those years so that I could fit in, but sometimes I would sit back at one of our gatherings and just watch people and...|||This statement, in my opinion, contradicts your belief that your psyche is hurting because of the decisions you're trying to make without hurting her.  It sounds to me like you're hurting because...|||I'm pretty sure you meant me, and not Midnight.. since he's a man.  XD  And yeah sure, as soon as you're legal!  :P  (oh man, I totally got owned by a previous poster... I'd hook up with you too...'