Sygma, thank you!   Veripher that's good advice, and you're very thoughtful and eloquent for a 13-year-old :)|||What I'm getting here is that I should have maybe given him more space?? Have I moved things too fast?|||Thank you all!!   Well, I have a development... my ENTJ flatmate got fed up and told me to just cut the crap and ask him out via text. She literally dictated the text to me. So I did, and he seemed...|||Thank you so much @Illusio571, that's really good advice and I will try to follow it :) I was wondering, how do you think I misread the situation? Do you think he has feelings for me and I should...|||Hi guys...  So, there's this guy in my class who I think might be an ENFP. He is a bit eccentric, poetic, he's in a band. He has struggled with depression and I think is still dealing with a mild...|||Hi guys, I have a long quasi-relationship question for you....  So, there's this guy in my class who I think might be ENTP with strong Fe. He is a bit eccentric, poetic, he's in a band. He has...|||I have a few of questions for you guys. From my experience with you, you are super interesting conversationalists, unpredictable, funny and imaginative. Each conversation I have with an ENTP has no...|||Please delete this thread? thank you|||Thanks everyone, interesting how different all your answers were, but all of them helped. I need to remember that Thinkers are very different to Feelers (esp. Extraverted Feelers) in how much they...|||Haha thank you! You make me realise I was probably seeing things that weren't there. It's not normal behaviour for me, but if it is for ENTP's I'm fine.|||I'm not an ENTP, but perhaps I can offer some insight, as two of my good friends are ENTPs. I wouldn't say ENTPs were 'universal arguers.'   My friends do hold quite strong opinions on certain...|||There's this ENTP at my work. I always considered us pretty compatible, we seem enjoy each other's company etc. He's my senior and often pretty busy with projects, sometimes I have to work beside him...|||Hi   viperzz33, thanks for your message :) it was really interesting to read your perspective on crushes, especially about how you change your mind about people, and prefer not to make a final...|||Hi,  I'm a 22-year-old INFJ with a crush on a significantly older manager at work. He's an ENTP and probably the coolest person I've ever met. I'm for once not being hyperbolic. He is intelligent,...|||Thank you guys, that's very kind. Lunagattina such good advice about not overthinking but I'm afraid there's no saving me from that! And that's very sweet of you to say Xix.   I feel like he still...|||Hi all, thank you for your replies. @Aert you are totally accurate, this crush is settling in for the winter. @Winegums, how incredible that you've found this girl, I'm so happy for you. @Aelthwyn ,...|||Hello,  This is a super weird story, so buckle in.  I'm 21, one month into a waitressing job. My boss is like the total man. He is intelligent, witty, kind, incredibly driven etc. I should...|||Hello, it all sounds like a bit of a mess doesn't it. I'm sorry that you got caught up in it.   I think the best thing for them to do would be to talk together (sober, and as calmly and rationally...|||I get crushes all the time. But usually, some part of me is aware that I am simply crushing on a flat image of the person which I have pumped full of wistful imaginings. Now I have a crush which is...|||adultchildofalieninvaders It fascinates me that you are highly sensitive/intensely emotional, yet you say you are able to quickly analyse and act independently from your emotions. What do you think...|||Now I just want to make some observations of differences between me and my three Thinking family members. Obviously we don't represent the whole population.  - I get upset or overjoyed much more...|||Hello, thank you very much for all the responses.  A general reply:  I believe my sister was making this statement with regard to my mother, who is a dominant Fi user. It was not necessarily...|||Hello.  Yesterday I was talking to my sister, an INTJ with strong Feeling. During the conversation she said this:  'I have just as much/as strong emotion as you, and Thinkers have just as much/as...|||Hi all,  You have all been incredibly helpful. Thank you to everyone who gave input. Thanks especially to Fredward and Ryuujin76, really helpful posts.  I and my sister (INTJ) are not fans of the...|||Hello, I'll take a stab  Jane Eyre - ISFP/INFP Mr. Rochester - ISTJ/INTJ Marlin from Finding Nemo -  I*FJ I think (he's allowed his emotion to make him irrational; is controlling, anxious, afraid...|||Hi everyone,  I have a 19-year-old younger brother who has been typed as INTP. I think this is probably right. He is extremely introverted and go-with-the-flow, has a wicked sense of humour (very N...|||Thank you all! You lived up to my epithet :) Hurricane, thanks for the suggestion, I've seriously considered ISFP, but it just doesn't work - she's much too Intuitive for it to be anything other than...|||Hi lovely INFPs, can you please help me?  (sorry to stick that adjective in there I just really like this type)  So there is someone in my life I know and love better than anyone in the world and...|||Thank you for your reply, no it didn't lead to confusion! I have actually given a lot of thought to the ISFP possibility, but ruled it out.  I forgot to mention that she has definite Intuitive...|||@Alyosha: May I say you seem very well-read. I've only read some of Tolstoy's short stories and none of Dostoevsky's work, sadly. But looking back on his writing I can now see that Tolstoy is an...|||Haha I identify with that! Don't know if that's an INFJ thing or just a coincidence, but I often have an urge to express what's in my head so I go ahead and say a lot of stuff; it's only once it's...|||@Raain - I see what you mean in general. INFJs might prefer 'lighter' topics for their literature, but I would also argue there are many exceptions to those rules! INFJs can be deep and philosophical...|||This thread has some great thoughts in it and I hope a new post might get the ball rolling again.   To essentially reiterate what @dulcinea said, I think INFP writing would have more unrestrained...|||I am so close to my mum that I feel I understand everything about her, and I know she feels the same about me. But I simply cannot type her. I know that I am an INFJ. For a long time I assumed my...|||My two pence:  I'd argue Alan Davies is Percieving, I believe E*FP, perhaps ENFP And I have read Stephen Fry's autobiography and I quite identify with him. He over-analyses things and is...|||Hey chessio,  Yes he really is buddies with Sarah Millican! She went on his radio show quite a few times and they got on like a house on fire. Made for really entertaining listening, you should...|||Hello,  Read through all these posts and I'd just like to add my (far-too-thoroughly-thought-out) opinions:  Leslie Knope: ENFJ  I agree with SuperunknownVortex and HippoHunter94: she's quite...|||Thanks for the advice and ideas everyone :) I may consider asking her about her MBTI type but I think Aizar and FaerieLandsForlornt are right actually and despite initially seeming Intuitive she may...|||Yeah, moondog, I'm just the same. Terrible lack of responsibility. I wonder, though, if it's also a product of my upbringing - I never had to worry about money before I left home, and now I'm kind of...|||Hi everyone,  I've recently met an American NF girl and it's weird because I always assumed when I finally met another NF my age it would be an instant, amazing connection. But this one kind of...|||chessio - Thanks so much for your well-thought-out reply :) I'm always keen to hear other people's thoughts on my psychoanalysis! Yeah, I totally see your point about how he always has a point (lol)....|||Erm, I'm not sure whether you need this, but I just remembered another site that would probably make it easier for you, as I think you have enough insight to be able to type yourself. These are the...|||You're definitely not the only one, there are quite a few threads on this site about actors' 'types'. But yes, I find typing celebrities and just regular people very absorbing.  Okay - I don't know...|||Hi Wes, thank you so much for replying! I thought this post was a goner.  Your thoughts have been very helpful - in fact I came to a similar conclusion myself after watching a few more interviews....|||YOLOsodie, please try to work on the strength of your arguments before you go around telling people they are wrong. I'm not going to reply again because this is wasting everyone's time, but although...|||I hope it's okay to make a thread about just one celebrity. If there's a wider thread, please point me to it.  Charging on: I think Andrew Garfield is an unusually perceptive actor compared to...|||As an INFJ (female, sorry!) I confuse myself. Sometimes I really think I'm an extrovert because I get so much energy from talking to my friends. Then I meet a new person and can't look them in the...|||I think that anyone who has a natural capacity for acting is a good liar. I'm an INFJ and I find I can just convince people I'm telling the truth by playing a part. Morally, although I think I'd be...|||G'day, Second INFJ here. zethry I really like your ideas about teleportation, and the languages one is a great idea and would be high up in my ideal superpowers. When I first read your 'exact...|||I like to think of a strong Feeling function as a sort of gift that has been given to us which allows us to understand emotions, both ours and others, better than many other people. But having a gift...