'That is what I want to do, but that would make me look like the smaller person. I am going to be the bigger person and tell her that I'd like to put an end to this tension so we can move on past...|||Right, I can understand this. I thought of that once before. Infact, i have looked at this in many different angles. So much of them that Im practically obsess. Her parents are different from mine,...|||Oh and just an update: so it turns out that she is still in my Spanish class, but her aunt passed away yesterday. She sits across from me and we were supposed to be playing a game with the people who...|||Hahaha, I enjoy this comment. It's demanding, but hilarious. Though something that I probably wouldn't have the guts to do.|||I agree with this comment. The ISTJ that I know is sort of like this in a way. He and I text all the time and our texting conversations usually end up sort of like your example. For example, he will...|||I have made the mistake of fully ignoring her. This for me is natural. The first time I start ignoring someone it most likely turns out constant. Then my behavior becomes continuous and it becomes...|||My method= ignoring them.  I never express my anger through verbal abuse to anybody at school. The only time I use verbal abuse is at home. You will never find me cussing or anything dumb like that....|||Too bad I won't be around when that day comes; I'm outta here.|||Amen sister, amen. I totally agree with this. Infact, it could probably be my motto.  I try not to stoop down to someone elses level. It isn't a good stragety and there are better ways to deal with...|||By the way, why would she be angry at other people? That is the one thing that I don't understand.|||Oh, wow. That is powerfull.   This deal is really sick and I just want out of it.   Yes, telling someone confidentially would be nice. I don't need her to have even more excusses to give talk...|||Yes, BlissfulDreams she sounds very much like my friend and the situation that this happening. Thank you for sharing ^_^ I know, it seems very twisted the way she is behaving. The problem is though,...|||Some have noticed her odd behavior. She is showing signs of anorexia.|||So basically I have this so called friend. We used to be really good friends back in fifth grade, then we fought through middle school. I apologized to her in seventh grade and then we were talking...|||Successfully Dealing with Controlling, Aggressive and Difficult People in Your Life - Associated Content from Yahoo! - associatedcontent.com|||What is the best way to deal with jealousy or her as a jealous friend? Does her being jealous give me a reason to try to make the relationship work out? What is your best advice for this type of...|||See, the problem is, like someone said earlier on in this thread, that communication isn't the problem. I've tried to talk to her countless times, thousands at the least (not literally). But to me,...|||Okay, I don't know about the whole car thing. In general, your description of a friend sounds terrible.  How to Ditch a Frenemy | eHow.com  An article I found ^^|||I don't think that she will confront me. She is too busy giving me the 'death glare' and other unproductive things that are not getting her anywhere. I want to put an end to this.  The last thing...|||Good.      Yes, I think it might be the best way to deal with her. Though she can't stand being ignored; she doesn't like it. So when I ignore her neutrally but have light conversation with her...|||Oh my gosh! Thank you for saying this!   I really appreciate your advice and it really is helping me see things in a better perspective. I need to start seeing things differently with her.     ...|||I remember this piece of advise for years to come.    That is very powerful. I like your aggressiveness  :wink:   The problem is that we don't have very good communication. She won't ever...|||I am friends with someone, but my initial purpose is to stop being friends with her. At the rate I am going, ignoring her and not acknowledging her presence, she is not taking it very well. I need to...|||That is your opinion Turquoise Sunset. But rather, next time, choose your words carefully. You may consider that I am uneducated of this topic, and thus have never heard any discussion about it.|||I can totally agree with this. I feel the same way.     I am like this also.    You're last sentence in this paragraph makes sense to me. When I'm with a group of people I can easily get away...|||Not to be offensive or anything but reading your post came as a surprise to me. I've never really thought about someone questioning their gender before. I think it is obvious to tell your own gender...|||Just try not to get into any arguments with him, and don't try to bring up or talk about anything that will cause something like that to happen. And if it does than just tell him that you are sorry...|||I am like this sometimes, but not always. It just happens on those days that something has happened to me, and then when someone asks me about that specific something or how I am doing and I start to...|||Thank you very much ^__^ your information is really helpful  At times I am very indescisive (Spelling?) Ehh, I am too lazy to look.|||I began to ponder this at school one day. I was deciding on whether or not judgers, because they are used to schedules, wake up early, set their clothes out the night before or have a specific outfit...|||Hello ^__^ and welcome to the forum|||Good question...  I wasn't making a point on my last post,  I just like that idiom... It sounds cool XD|||Yep, pretty much.|||Oh, well sratch that. It does kind of make sense. Our brains don't think A person can't be the color blue so they must be referring to something else everytime someone says (Put a persons name...|||The term 'blue' is a common word that is used to describe someone when they are feeling down.  I am an NT and if someone said : Ashley is blue than I would get the gist of it. I wouldn't think...|||I don't believe in horoscopes, lol, but I used to. I don't think it's very accurate. I read once somewhere that someone made up horoscopes and now it is one of those things that people write about in...|||I need people to listen what I have to say, my philosophies, opinions and observations while taking me seriously at the same time. That is what makes me happy as an INTP. I also love hanging out with...|||I am the same way. I will open up if I am in a group setting where everyone is involved and focused, but if I am voicing my opinions in front of people that I don't know I become very aware of people...|||My writing is good stuff?!?!?! :D|||Thank you :D|||You are very welcome :laughing: I am glad that I could help.   Though I did not fully give advice to your own concerns (which are written on your very first post in the beginning of this thread)....|||I find things a little bit more interesting here than I do outside. No biggy.|||Also, you still think that you've got it all together... Positive thinking!! Though you have detected the problems about your relationship (Lifestyle, colleges, friends, etc.) You haven't gotten to...|||Basically it's your choice here. You can either keep dating her or break up and find someone else. No one else can make the choice for you, only you can. Because I can sit here and come up with a...|||Awwws, that's very sweet. :)    P.S. don't ever say that, there are plenty of other fish out in the sea.      You're not changing for the worse, only for the better, that's good. But she...|||You should defiantly try it then and see how it works out. It'll take the stress off both of your shoulders because I know for a fact people stress about dates and how they could go wrong or how they...|||Yeah, I think it would work out great! And it's such a bummer for couples to always spend time with just each other and they leave their friends out of it. It takes out the chance of getting to know...|||Aw shucks, well I'm sorry that my suggestion wasn't in your playing feild. But I'm glad that you read it anyway, and thank you for doing so :) Well, that sounds like an effective date, very positive,...|||I totally agree with this. That is what I tell people who are in relationships for a year. Wake up, smell the coffee and realize that there is also someone who likes tea, you've just got to find them.|||Since you claimed: That she dislikes (hates) your ideas. That suggestion ^^ isn't something that will take a lot to plan either, just set a date and send out invitations, either through handing them...'