'Sometimes it's less about what is said, and more about the delivery. I don't think your joke was so bad. Maybe you have a deadpan delivery style and people not familiar with you thought you were...|||Yes, it is probably a hypothetical question too..  But your analogy/metaphor question example is in fact along the lines of what I mean. I don't however think that fabi expects/wants us to know...|||Lol. Thanks for engaging in dialogue. I am pretty sure that fabi has not found a camera on vacation and is wanting to know how to return it. I would  like him to confirm that, but he rarely answers...|||Interesting. Did you take fabi's thread question literally? As I assume everything he says is an analogy or metaphor for something else. I would ask fabi directly of course, if I didn't already know...|||Aizar Thank you for such a gracious and considered reply. It's always helpful to know where people are coming from.  On quite a separate note, I found it interesting how your experience of the...|||I do also think it's healthy to let go of people once a relationship has broken up. I remember a friend telling me a couple of months after my ISFJ ex and I broke up that he was trying to chat up a...|||I can imagine someone wishing their deceased parent or whatever could have met their spouse or children, etc. But, yeah, saying you wish your ex could see your new girlfriend is just weird, and why??...|||I'm not surprised you feel so wrecked by this experience. What a dumbass thing for him to do. I'm sorry this happened to you. Sometimes men [and women] can be morons. Not really type related. I just...|||Such a tease, and so cruel andy969 :kitteh:  I have a couple of good friends in Munich that I visit every few years.  Maybe when I next visit I will try to find you too. The single INTJ in Germany....|||While I was reading through your description of A, I thought she sounds like an ISFJ. Then I got to the end of that description, and you say that she got the result ISFJ, so I guess that's probably...|||Dear Ian  I feel so strange about your death. Although, we were barely acquainted, we were barely acquainted a long time; so you were a comforting fixture in my landscape, like a familiar brook, or...|||In what way does MP2 come across as INFP? Have you visited the INTP forum? His long posts are typical INTP, lol|||I am a little embarrassed by the label INFJ, so no I don't want people to know. I also consider it personal and private. It helps me to understand myself, and I might tell people I care about, so...|||LOL :laughing:|||The only ESTPs I can think of irl are my dad (who is a special case), and Donald Trump (who, I guess is also a special case!). They do not endear me to the type generally, but I don't have a problem...|||mp2 Your long post is very INTP like, both your style of analysis and desire to remain open to the possibility of being wrong. I agree with Vivid Melody  I love the INTPs, so I think this is a...|||hmm.. this sounds very INTP, fabi....  I like it though. It sounds great. Like INTPs (my favourite type) haha :P|||It's really difficult for me to believe that anyone could read all 16 MBTI types and relate equally to all of them.   What initially made you think that you are not INFP?  And why have you...|||I find you very entertaining, fabi. I still think of your painted ants analogy, and imagine all of us watching you, wondering where you will go next, and what you will get up to, lol  As for ant...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HpeF067Hx2Y|||Okay. I'm open to the possibility of people's type changing, for various reasons (although in theory it shouldn't). But if you believe this, it seems you should have even less confidence in your...|||julifizz already explained:   Why have you now changed your type to ENTJ?|||712042  712050  712058  712066  Lol, welcome to the INFJ sub-forum :)|||Thank you for sharing, fabi. I think it wasn't easy, because you never shared personally before, you only ask questions.  Love is complicated with all types in my experience. In your case, I'm not...|||This isn't a weird question at all. I do a lot of negotiation in my job. In writing more than face to face, so it's not just about body language. Sometimes I may feel that something is a bit off,...|||I had a friend similar to yours, cynical, socially awkward, hardworking [Oxford graduate]. She was my second oldest friend [of 15 years, best friend for some of that time, until we fell out earlier...|||It doesn't need to take forever to get to know an INFJ. I'm sorry to say, in some cases it will never happen with the particular person you like though, and it isn't necessarily to do with their...|||If you appreciate when we share our thoughts, and don't make fun of us e.g call us 'conspiracy theory nutjobs' ( Turi  ^_^), and you are honest about yourself, then over time we will trust you more...|||Such as...John Kelly Pushing Out Omarosa for âx80x98Triggeringâx80x99 Trump ?|||I've never been completely sure what it meant to have a 'morbid' sense of humour, except usually jokes about death could be described this way. I actually had to look it up, and now understand that...|||Hey Starsurfer, this sounds positive to me. However, I would suggest the following:   1. Rather than saying she can 'reach out' to you if she 'needs' to, I would just say that 'although you want to...|||If we must be eaten alive, we will of course do it with style:proud:)    It will be sung when it finds the right voice...    As most people are not polyamorous, you will probably do better...|||That is the most distinguished forehead and hairline I have ever seen; sharp as a razor, it will surely cut to the heart of its heroine of choice :laughing:|||You have been magnificent as always :blushed:|||I liked you better when you were a frog :tongue:|||Thanks for all these :)  I watched the videos i.e. got through the passions and virtues of all the types. It makes them sound different to the descriptions on the Enneagram Institute website (which...|||I believe she eats her prey, so she may get through to us all eventually. Please feel free to entertain us in the meantime, this will at least distract us from the now pungent smell of urination...|||If I understand correctly, the quote is not Fabi's own words (he has read this and copied this from somewhere else I believe - notice the difference in grammatical structure and style..) but would...|||Wow, okay, this is a lot to think about! There are so many references to Fe need for 'harmony' but I've never given much consideration to what harmony actually means, and if it means different things...|||Ah, well, thanks for popping by :) x  Yes, I don't think we can cope with too much excitement - we're still clearing up the mess from the last party you brought :smiley-cool13: .   But we'll be...|||:shocked:*gulp* oh dear Parrot , I really haven't seen him around for quite some time...  Crimson Ash Were you not already aware that Catwalk is universally loved by all NFs. <3 <3 <3:hellokitty:|||Oh Catwalk you are the only one who loves us today :hug:  I'm surprised an emissary has not been sent yet to the ENTP sub-forum, as they usually like us:unsure:.   But for now we are so pleased...|||I would find it difficult to think of someone 9 hours flight away as a realistic long term prospect, but then I don't know what this person's circumstances are, and whether he is able or considering...|||Hi   Starsurfer  As others have said, if your INFJ has come to a conclusion about your relationship, it may be too late now to change her mind; as the realisation that your relationship had no...|||:toast: :words: :ball:|||Ah, well maybe. I'd still attribute their desirability largely to dominant Fe though, based in your stated reasons. Dom Fe has a stronger drive to express feelings (open up), and avoid conflict (not...|||I do see where you're coming from Lavendersnow, and maybe also  zosio913 , but I think we do need to be careful about our Ti because it's not our strongest function. I think Ti should help us to...|||I see you are also a 1w2 SO. I wonder how much difference that makes. Surely the SO instinct at least, perhaps, makes you more able to tolerate the infj 'confusing' desire for harmony whilst...|||Hey, sorry, yes, the first Link wasn't quite the same. But if you look beyond the title the question content in the others are very similar, e.g in the last link  How do INFJ's feel about INTJ's...|||ENFJs are generally nicer. It's the dominant Fe.'