'I would first ask why you want to dye your hair an unnatural color.  Why are you wanting to draw attention to yourself?  What emotional need that is presently unfulfilled, do you believe will be...|||I don't think you have an understanding of political views.  Democrats (left wing/socialists) support more social freedoms, and support more government intervention in fiscal policies. Republicans...|||Being his first relationship, he is still trying to process his feelings.  That alone can make him feel unstable.  It sounds like you are putting a lot more focus on your plans, and ignoring the...|||I make notes.  I am always thinking about 50 different things at once.  if I have a thought (or run across some info) that is useful for one of the 50 things, but I don't have time to deal with it...|||When an INTJ isn't happy with how dating experiences are going, their natural course of action is to withdraw and observe before acting further. (Observation, evaluation, action. Rinse and repeat,...|||As long as it is peaceful, voluntary, and honest...  Do we ban weightlifting or diet programs for body modification? Get real.  As long as people aren't forced to undergo involuntary procedures,...|||Then they do low income white kids consistently score better on tests than black kids from families earning over $75K?  Why do Native Americans living in poverty on reservations have higher IQ's...|||To quote Forrest Gump's mama, Stupid is as stupid does.  Just look at Africa.  The average IQ is 70.  That is borderline functional.  It's only a couple notches above a trained monkey.  For the...|||Root vegetables were typically known as the food of the lower classes of society.  Turnips, rutabagas, beets, etc.  Radishes, carrots, and onions have still retained some popularity though.|||Yes, I have a photographic memory.  I just ran out of film.  LOL  I think you are confusing genius with savant.|||That idiotic nonsense got quite a few folks in trouble in 2008.  They thought the value would always go up, and deflationary pressures caught up to them.|||Yes, but it is always evolving and adapting.    And just what are you planning on renting?  Houses?  Have you ever been around rental properties much?  Rental properties for income is a great...|||In school I had to do public speaking, so I can do it if I have to.  I just don't enjoy speaking.  On my business card, it gives my phone number and email address - text or email preferred.  I...|||No.  What do you think the BDSM acronym stands for?  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM|||That's a bit of a contradiction.|||It might help to define what BDSM is.  It appears some folks are just looking at the sadism/masochism aspects.  Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism.  I like the...|||It sounds like you viewed this relationship more as a competition with the ESTJ, instead of as a cooperation/connection with the girl.  That's a recipe for failure.  It almost sounds like you believe...|||No, it's not.    You are confusing hyperbole with fact.  Just because you call someone a genius does not make them a genius.  Being gifted or talented does not make someone a genius.  That's...|||Why is it that if you send a letter or an email complaint, folks want to play the emotion card and want to reply with a telephone call?  Is it too hard to send a reply email addressing the facts,...|||I don't believe anyone said that you weren't allowed to make a fool of yourself.  Yes, INTJ's get mad, but they don't (usually) make emotional arguments. (Much less air these emotional views...|||Let me get this straight...  A supposed INTJ having an EMOTIONAL reaction to trivial balderdash?  Seriously?  You gotta be $#!tting me.  Can anyone say drama queen masquerading as an INTJ?  A...|||Morn Why should government pay the unemployed, the poor, sick, or elderly, or for mass transit?  Those are NOT proper government functions.  The ONLY proper function of government is to secure...|||All of your definitions are wrong.  Go back to school.  (And not public education where you are mis-educated.)  I'm an anarcho-capitalist libertarian.  I believe there is no service provided by...|||Are you referring to social liberals, or classical liberals?  There is a BIG difference.  I'm an anarcho-capitalist libertarian.  In other words, I'm a classical liberal.  I absolutely detest...|||Nonprofits exist because of a major misunderstanding of the tax on federal income, aka federal income tax.  If people properly understood that the income tax was a tax on federal privilege,...|||No...I'm a cop killer.  LOL|||Ya gots 2 choices.  1) I'm a workaholic.  I live in a house by a road.  That's about it.  (I might tell 'em I likes to play wit bugs too.)  2) Hold on.  I gots to go get another beer/take a whiz...|||I don't have a problem with harmless practical jokes.  I've never gotten into practical jokes that didn't leave both people laughing.  When we were younger, friends and I might have tossed lit...|||Buford, Wyoming (population 1) might be a good choice of a city for an INTJ.|||Otherpower | Make Your Electricity From Scratch!  When it comes to prepping, it is important to remember that you can't prepare for everything.  The most valuable thing you can have is connections...|||I do some eBaying.  The biggest problem is buyers who don't read the listings.  I can advertise a reproduction, and then they get peeved because they didn't receive an original?  The listing clearly...|||I think you need to differentiate between an immature INTJ and a mature INTJ.  An immature INTJ will have great difficulties having a relationship with anyone.  An emotionally mature INTJ on the...|||You could tell him that you have been thinking about attending a therapy/support group and ask him if he would be willing to tag along so you didn't have to go alone.  And then, if he attends, he may...|||When I was 19 I fell in love with an ENFP who was gang-raped at age 9 and raped again at age 14.  She had severe issues, and after 4.5 years, I had to step back.  I was the only person she had ever...|||When you try to help someone who is down on their luck.  You hire them to do odd jobs.  You lend them money and let them work it off.  You give their family groceries.   ...and then they steal...|||Don't get me wrong - I don't have a problem with what you're doing here.  I'm just trying to point out that you're fishing in a pool with lots of little minnows....little kiddies.  (And we won't even...|||Do not do anything to someone else that you would not want done unto you.  Treat others the way you want to be treated.  It's that simple.|||I have a few questions...  How can the OP and an INTJ connect on Facebook?  Do any INTJ's actually do Facebook? Seriously?  I wonder how many real INTJ's began reading the thread, smirked, and...|||When a girl says this, it's usually a cue for the guy to start running...fast.    Um, I think I have already figured this out.  No need to learn your method.  Mine is working just fine so far. ...|||I would say that I became more militant as I got older, peaking in my late 20's.  After I hit 30, I seemed to be able to tolerate BS a little easier.  That's not to mean that I don't ever get fuming...|||When I was in my teens, I ran around with a group of guys who were in their mid to late 20's.  I have good friends that are 20 years older than me.  I don't have any good friends 20 years younger...|||Where did I say that marriage was as easy to break as an oral promise?  Please don't put words in my mouth.  Marriage is an internal commitment in your heart.  The paper marriage license, ceremony,...|||Insulting me does not make your argument any stronger.  I believe that you are maximizing the risks women face, and minimizing the risks men face, simply because you are a woman.  Your bias has...|||To me, those are two separate things.  For me, good conversations involves the other person actually listening to what I am saying, and being mentally able to stay in the conversation.  Some folks,...|||I disagree.    According to the cleanest and most rational logic, women should choose a partner wisely, and make sure she makes him feel loved.  In case you hadn't figured it out by now, having sex...|||Note to other readers.  Typical ENFP tactic.  Out of the blue random compliment based on feeling; the comment often inserted in a moment of tension as a way of diffusing rising emotions.  Yeah, a...|||I wasn't trying to come across as defensive.  I apologize if that's how you thought I was coming across.    The first sentence speaks volumes...it talks of stereotypes.  Stereotypes are...|||Something she said she learned from me was that the best way to help/heal yourself is by helping someone else.    When I was in my late teens and early 20's, I think the step-mother of a buddy of...|||The ENFP from post 17...  Raped at age 15...got pregnant. (First sexual experience.) Parents dropped her off to get an abortion...picked her up after it was done...never said a word after about the...|||I don't think it is a matter of type, but rather a matter of maturity level.  A mature person of any type can give you a lot of what you are looking for.  Of course, you may have problems with...'