'https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F014bwnnRo0|||Being an INFJ and knowing some ENFJs, i find it hard to mistype :D   ENFJs are also insigthful, sensitive, Idealize a lot more than INFJ:s, are loyal and could very well be messy. I don't know what...|||For me, it takes two shapes: either too self-critical, lacking self esteem, too mental in the head Ni-Ti loop, getting more and more disconnected from reality, feeling like nothing matters, apathy...|||Chip, you seem to demonize male sexual instincts. In general, men are more visual than women. Some men are more visual than other, and some women are more visual than other women. Then of course...|||Finland-swedish INFJ here. I think there is a group, scandinavians on perc or something, but it's not really that active :P might as well form a new one|||I'm gonna recommend Mark Manson, his blogs as well his e-book Models. Really ethical and well thought out stuff - about the only thing in the whole PU community that doesn't rub me the wrong way,...|||Thought I'd join in after looking through half the thread =) I recently retyped myself from ENTP to INFJ.   I learned last fall how to smile in pictures :D These pictures are from my exchange...|||I hate it when my romantic relationships are in greyzones. I want them as clearly defined  as possible in my head, otherwise I feel like i'm in limbo.|||sexually speaking, dominant.. in general life and romance as well =)|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32udqal_lyQ|||76 Masculine 56 Feminine 55 Androgynous  Male, INFJ|||Thank you! :) Yeah, I do. Filled with melancholia about it right now, in a .. rough spot, i guess you could call it. She is an ISFP, the sensing/intuition  divide has become more apparent as time has...|||I disagree; Batman is best typed as INTJ. A really good (IMHO) argument for this is presented here: A Little Bit of Personality: Comment Response: Of INFJs, Principles of Typing and Characters that...|||http://th05.deviantart.net/fs71/PRE/i/2012/081/e/3/melancholy_mania_by_iplywittrees-d4tmkyc.jpg|||289834  Picture I drew of my GF 2 years ago =) haven't really gotten around to drawing after this.. maybe i should pick it up again|||“The story so far: In the beginning the Universe was created. This has made a lot of people very angry and been widely regarded as a bad move.” - Douglas Adams. This is perhaps my all-time...|||Just to chime in, as an INFJ MBTI i also recognize myself the most in INFp in Socionics (same functions). I don't really like any of the systems per se (too rigid and systematized in some way), but...|||Self-transcendence  Wisdom  Impact|||Yeah, met at least one confirmed INFJ, the boyfriend of my girl friends (who i think is INTJ.) Mutual understanding from the get go and really easy to communicate.|||Added, Helsinki Finland =)|||I'd say the author is obviously INFJ. Read his description of himself under I astrologer for instance. I'm quoting you because I agree with you; this post is not as such meant as a reply to you,...|||Menar man att rättssäkerhet är något som bör förbehållas personer som man tycker är trevliga?  Tongivande svenska mediers rapportering i Assangeärendet upprepar sakfel på sakfel. Och beskriver...|||But then again, if both people have the same information and the other persons reasoning is obviously flawed, why not begin by addtessing that?|||I'm at work now , on my phone, i'll write a longer post when i get home. I'm pretty sure womens studies are classed as a social science herein scandinavia at least.   Things they argue for, despite...|||So, what are the NT's views on women's studies as a science?   Has it got any credibility? Do you (as me) view it as a pseudoscience, trying to sound sciency but with no real solid evidence nor...|||I'm an ENTP and my GF is an ISFP, we get along fabulously. Not sure of her exes types though.|||Leat: Spot on analysis! Really good. I've come to the same conclusions when i've analyzed me and my ENTJ friend.  Your example of how an INTP would measure success is exactly what I myself have...|||And about the dating thing: where are you from? I'm from finland, we don'thave a dating culture per se. I don't date in the traditional sense. I invite the girl to some night club, and take it from...|||Wtf LawyersAdvocate, why not have sex before he knows it's not the only thing he wants?  Just having sex with women you find attractive is fun. Many times, it's what both parts want. If you for...|||GF is an ISFP, I'm a moderately social ENTP. It works just fine. My first GF was also an ISFP. I have a good friend that's an ISFP.  I also know ISFPs i don't get along with. The ones i do get a...|||Haha, entps are the masters of quickly rationalizing everything they do. As for acting deliberatly, rationally and with forethought, i would say the entjs beat us.|||Taller people are in general more intelligent. Better looking people are in general more intelligent. People with glasses (!) are in general more intelligent. Whites and Asians are in general more...|||Define rational ;)|||realize you're in love .. love (like the world and everything in it) is an illusion, a name, a signpost, we give to a bundle of feelings, a lot of different kind of feelings too.. :)   Falling in...|||Equating IQ with what you've learned is simplistic and flawed. Correlation between parent-children and identical twins grown up apart are kind of refuting that.  Or if you by learning mean growing...|||LeaT   Nah wrong. ENTPs also have a drive for changing things. ISFJs don't.   I don't generally mind generalizations, but that was a bad one.  On topic:   Kinda hard to judge from these. The...|||Yah thanks for correcting. Haven't written that much in English lately.|||1) Wouldn't tell her. Why upset her or make her sad? Nothing good can come out of it.  2) Wouldn't tell, heh. It would jepordize (Spelling? can't bother to check :D) the relationship and probably...|||First filter - good looks. I've been with beautiful girls before, and getting used to a certain standard makes it hard to go back, below my standard for a GF. I want a girl that makes my head...|||This is exactly how my Ne works. I've been trying to get my head around how a Ni-user would form patterns and read people, when their intuition apparently does not work in this way. My friend who is...|||Very common. I felt really strange and almost defective as a child/ early teenager. I had friends and craved social interaction, but i always felt a bit lonely and that i had to surpress many natural...|||Boss; i will then approach his behaviour by stating that entjs are more into personal development than ESTJ:s. You seem btw to have a similar attitude towards relationships as my ENTJ friend has. I...|||Ah, i must say i read your post a bit quickly and that your counterpoints were valid. Quoting out of context, which i apparently did, is not good form.   Him being an estj does not excuse crappy...|||Hume's guillotine. The difference between is and ought. Just because love isn't supposed to be conditional, doesn't mean that it really isn't conditional.    Did you read Dellai's post on page 4?...|||https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/303317_3148296674481_1778229865_n.jpg  Drew a picture of my GF , an ENFP, so i guess this technically could classify as soft-corn drawn...|||Great answers from delai.   To all of you talking about her husband being mean/selfish/whatever, what the fuck?  Staying attractive to your partner is very important in a relationship. I wouldn't...|||Ectomorph here, 176 cm 66 kg, toned , skinny by nature, very easy to lose weight, hard to gain weight.   Wouldn't call 176 cm tall though. =)|||my best friend is an ENTJ, the only ENTJ i know though. We get on great.|||https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/390984_10151040998515157_2084844163_n.jpg  https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/318845_10150289477731549_509437188_n.jpg|||I don't believe in any deities nor a creator nor a personal god that cares about us or is active in any way. My view of god is most like spinozas god or the brahman , as in , with god i mean...'