'my childhood was happy and filled with friends. as i grew up, i became distant and depressed. im getting better now. im actively trying to be less anti-social.|||my dad was drunk and a gambler, so my parents fought all the time. and my mom wanted me to be a cheerleader and do all these sports and be more social and it didnt want it and it was really stressful...|||1.) im 19 and moved 16 hours away from my parents 2.) not a virgin  3.) got plenty of friends, but sometimes feel down that i can't be as close with friends as other people seem to be. 4.) I LOVE...|||i have friends, we take pictures, we smile in them. i have  taken pictures of myself, where i smile, but thats just what i've grown up with, its normal to me. theres no story behind it.you may not do...|||I love this, i now think im your biggest fan :laughing:  just cant stop the way you feel, no matter how bad you want to. but still i always try.|||bwaa? i dont take it seriously at all, i was asking because i have a hard time understanding you by the way you word things sometimes. i care about opinions, because  what makes you say im...|||what do you mean i look like one. im not extroverted at all unless im trying. too much work for me. and i think i probably have a little feeler in me. occasionally. but not usually. i just  dont deal...|||my emotions make me act differently. i dont admit to emotions but they certainly get in the way of my thinking. it makes me look like a fool! i cant get my thoughts in order and nothing i say makes...|||and i think alot of us are really emotional . we just dont show it or think we are crazy for having the emotions, so we suppress them. i dont know. hm. i just know my emotions tend to come...|||I like projects! i get stoked on starting projects.. i just get over them very quickly.. i lose interest or find something more exciting haha|||ooh yeah u cant wait for it, it just sort of happens slowly. some people aren't even E, some just kick back and chill out.|||what? who is they? i have no clue what you are talking about.|||ive gotten pretty drunk and typed, and im never that bad at typing mr skycloud up there. it bothers me when people flaunt their drunkenness. -.-  I LOVE THE FUZZY MODE TOO skyline. i really hate...|||hey you guys are all type 5 enneagrams ! nice|||im terrified of getting hurt. im terrified of telling someone how i feel about them, when that feeling comes around.|||could be offensive, but im cool with it :D . i know were not ONLY intp. there are diff life experiences and conditions for each intp. but we can all relate on the way we pursue things etc|||skyline: i love drinking cause i love that my inhibitions go away and i just let loose and have fun! im an E when drunk hahah|||yeah! its funny that people can be placed into 16 groups and have the same thinking patterns for the most part. i love it! i've never had someone so like me to talk to its so exciting :D *enjoys* ...|||now that you've explained a little more , wolf, i can see what you mean a little better. i see you've thought it out and i know that i am vulnerable to this happening to me as well. i think all intps...|||the thing with the men we're currently calling 'nerds' are that they're too much like me i think. in a different way.. i don't like talking about comics and stuff, just life/philosophy stuff. EXCEPT...|||i have this exact issue!! ive gone throuh so many girl-friends. it just fizzles out. like i can't keep connected because i don't know how to conversate with them. they have nothing to talk about that...|||the thing is , wolf, if she sees you like that, she wont bother giving a second glance. when people look for partners, theyre looking for someone strong, and who can handle bad breakups and stress....|||I agree with all of that, but i def havent had the experience you had with relationships and emotions. youre not being very logical for an intp sirrr! you WILL have those feelings again ,it'd be...|||i've quit drinking because it tends to distract me from my goals and ambitions. too much living in the present, not enough dreaming and creative energy going on . :D but dang i love drinking .. ):|||when i get drunk i'm very witty. i crack jokes at everyone. i'm also very free-spirited and up for anything. like i'll be the first one to say let's go rope swinging in october. mostly i sit back and...|||this got off topic real quick. cerealously. just kidding. ;D|||i dont connect well with girls either. at all. 90 percent of my friends are male.(for the same reason as you. most of my guy friends have expressed interest in me at some point in time) the girl...|||I did that actually :D haha i had to go to a diff . hs my senior year. it was terrible not knowing anyone and everyone was all psyched up to graduate. i spent all my time in the art room drawing....|||i just moved to tennessee from nh and i am very lonely and have no friends here. yes an INTP is LONELY. haha.|||GAWW Cute ;D|||thats the worst attitude of all time !dont tell her you like her. make her like you.|||knowing another language would be nice. but only because i want to be an anthropologist. the rest is worthless to me. there are other things worth knowing .|||Aspen it is xoxox.|||i do that!! SO OFTEN .i HATE doing it. so much. its an awful awful habit for me. i try to be completely away from myself so i can be someone with no ties to myself looking in at my life. yep...|||oh dont let my post fool you. i dont think ive ever honestly told anyone my emotions. i ALWAYS break up with boys because i dont trust them enough to tell them my emotions. i just dont want to. i...|||oh thank you trope ive seen it in action now. I'm satisfied.|||just find it odd that it says thanked 6x in 3 posts under my name.|||Also i've been here before. Me personally at my job i need to be outgoing and I put on a front . I can be fun and social at work because it is work and i need to be there. I like to be like that...|||I'm not boring.i think we're judged usually as mysterious, and mystery is sexy. i'm the most adventurous person i know. and i am very creative and original. so PAH. and whoever started this thread ,...|||what is the THANKS  button for?|||intp's dont JUDGE hunnie ;D haha|||INCREDIBLE!!! i feel the exact same way as the girl who started this thread. i hide my emotions and they rarely come out for ANYONE even boyfriends. ( who often think im tough as nails and have no...|||they're both rare.  i think it is all just by chance. but hey wouldn't be an int if we werent splitting hairs right? heh. and i think its a veryyy good point that we ,as int women, DO need to tame...|||if intps ruled the world it'd be chaos haha. we think too much. we think in circles. we are in wonderland, but we should not be in CHARGE of wonderland.|||i think being an intp girl is really depressing. or at least it has been in the past. it's better now. but it's just hard. I think it's worth it because i know im not like everyone else and thaaats a...|||man i spelled interested wrong multiple times. haha i dont know if nerds know anything about me anyway. i was pretty to myself in hs so i didn't talk to much about my theories and thoughts unless...|||i sometimes get INTJ when i take the quiz, so im on the line between intj and intp. i think that intj/p women are rare because most girls end up getting sucked into aesthetic lifestyles. girls are...|||HERRRes th, thing. girls DO want guys that care for them. i do. i personally dont go looking. i wait to be approached. and i will be very impressed if a guy is brave enough to come sweep me off my...|||whats wrong with being an intp female? I'm one. i get along pretty wellllllllll.:wink:  also. how do i get my picture to show up . its on my profile but not like.. here.|||I agree. i can be uptight but really easy going.im very back and forth. hate it.'