'Well, I have a strong belief (note I said belief) that he meant the behavioural end and all of this makes sense. I'm not sure if he reflected accurately on the chance that other INTJs were not as...|||I think in a general way of behaviour is what he was getting at more than logic.|||He has taken the 16 Personalities test that was long form. Either way, he bought the report and it was fairly recent (past year).|||tldr version: Will report back. Thanks.     Longer Version:  Not sure what to give for context. He just says whenever he is online he doesn't fit in? and then something about jerks. lol......|||Ok, not meaning to offend, but probably will. Discuss. Make fun of me. Whatever.  It's interesting. He is saying out of INTJs online he has found them to be mostly mean and jerks. I don't know what...|||It is easier to deal with deep emotions or passions when removed from the person for awhile, generally. This is why the no contact rule generally works. Your detox your brain, no longer giving it the...|||Likely to just cut it off, I think. Fairly direct, in my experience. But reading the rest of your situation just tells me he's dealing with a lot. Have patience.  But if they're dealing with new...|||So. I'm in another potential relationship with another INTJ.... the last one was troublesome, but then again, I had a psychologist (that couldn't diagnose, for obvious reasons) said that there were...|||I think this isn't tied to a personality type (previous comment), but rather a personality disorder. Seriously. These are huge red flags.|||Has therapy of any kind ever worked for you?  Better than not having any, if that helps. I would imagine myself worse off without it. I think some CBT is beneficial and medication to keep things in...|||What I like is ESTJ/ENTJ/INTJ/ENTJ types... so essentially TJs tend to do it. More commanding/advice giving do best with me. I need structure in the worst ways sometimes. lol|||Online dating sorrows. So, I've gotten past the first date threshold many times... normally I call it quits with the guy, except in major relationships now. Is it an INTP trait to hang on to...|||Quality time. What's the quote, if you are consider someone else over me... just pick them. Don't waste my time.|||So. I exist again. It's been awhile. I know I keep disappearing, but I don't know quite what to say, you know...  I've been doing reading on codependency and borderline personality types because......|||I'm going to question this assumption, and yes, I'm bringing back a thread from the dead in order to do so.... sorry, not sorry. :)  I don't like passive men and I never had. I walk all over them,...|||She is amazing design.|||More than fair comment. I didn't want to be too specific.  I guess so? Then I said that I didn't know where this was going while laughing about it. Kind of a mixed message... it was completely out...|||Hi guys. I always come to you for advice... although the guy ended up to be an ENTJ.  It's still pretty early on.... however, I think it has come to it's turning point of where it is going from...|||This is more of a confession. As a question, I suppose it would be How do I move forward from here?  ENTJs seem to like keeping busy; I'm not against that and I will never will be against that....|||I see you're currently banned for something and this is at least a week or more old, but I'll bring this topic thread from the dead and since someone else liked it, well, I guess I can say something....|||I read at the bar. Especially campus bars...great place to study and more relaxing. Sometimes I journal.|||I had a date with an ENTJ and I'm an INTP woman. Definitely for me. Seeing him again -- he asked me and pretty much had some future plans that he was telling me about... think he wants to include me....|||I adore ISTJs. Some day... some day....  I had an INTJ once that was unhealthy.... that went well till the red flags started to show. INTJ that is healthy may also be a good choice for myself or an...|||I would feel down about it myself. I don't do well with ambiguity in relationships or really important things. I think I know where you are coming from. For me, though, it's like Oh, he's...|||Yes. Yes you should. lol|||He wouldn't waste his time, so I feel that it may be because he wants to know what changed for closure or just curiosity... or maybe he may be considering, but it will be stubborn to move it even if...|||Hey... might have found an ISTJ online. I'm basing this off of my really unreliable gut feelings. I'm looking forward to meeting them, but there has been no date set yet, but he has offered to move...|||Yes and ISJ's specifically for myself. Sometimes you find understanding somewhere. It's quite nice.|||I got Thinking Introversion. Reading the other ones this one makes sense for me, but I know Anxious Introversion is second. I could have taken the pen and paper version that was on the Scientific...|||This first post may be of interest to some. Some really interesting descriptions... has all the types. Interesting stuff in cute infographic form (they were definitely going for cute). ...|||My entire profile is sarcastic and kind of witty/funny.   I also message first if I see someone of interest... but do it carefully and friendly with usually something slightly self depreciating...|||Ah, that makes sense, now looking at an egg. Hm. Didn't know it could be in that form like that. Know the words, know the combination of said words... just not in that form. Not sure if that made...|||I'll happily take this as a compliment... right? :proud:   I'm usually good at reading cues of interested in conversation or not and go from there with interests. I'm the talkative one if we get on...|||I didn't know that eggshells had calcium in it.|||Well, ISTJs and INTJs apparently. Those ones that have developed their feeling function parts of themselves at any rate. Always thought I would do well with an INFJ though, too.  Reasons? Generally...|||Gave this a quick glance.  You'd be shocked at how many people that prefer shorter writings actually enjoy writings from those that are giving them information or intel on how to move forward or to...|||I gave something that showed I listened to them (or in the case of my dad... he didn't want any gifts from me... probably because he wanted me to save money) and a personalized card. Very...|||I wish there were ISTJs on a dating site....  I did run into a IxTJ... probably a INTJ... fireworks... but wasn't looking for a relationship at the time. Think they wanted, well, you know,...|||That's actually pretty cute in some ways. When I'm really into something, it tends to show. I only seem to put up a front or become really shy when I don't know where I stand.  I don't want to...|||Might have ran into a healthy (well, healthy on the important parts, but going for the sensing experiences right now to burn some stuff out of his system, I think or to see what he really wants) INTJ...|||I feel I have some experience on this. Awkwardness either comes from you (likely) or the other side (if you can manage to read it). Sometimes it's because you have mentioned or they have somehow...|||Just felt like some new changes were needed. Let's just say that yesterday also helped with that.|||Could I get PeachyKeener please? :proud:|||I have decided on a new username. I'm sure you guys will notice when I have it.|||I just feel a change is needed, really. Hm. I don't know what significance I can tie to this one. Any trends that may have been noticed?|||If I wasn't so lazy I would actually do statistics on certain stuff. I'm good at assuming certain things, although, sometimes it was a case of really misjudged decision, with likely too much risk in...|||I prefer not to be kidnapped, but I may just willingly go with an ISTJ if they'd have me. :tongue:|||I verify information I'm not sure about if it's important... do ISTJs do it to every piece of information almost? :tongue:  For me it's the accuracy of the information. Sometimes I don't know where...|||This guy sometimes swears and The Back to The Future one is, well, I would say 14+, likely NSFW. Actually if you don't do swears at work, then it's NSFW.  This is still the funniest joke I've...|||Hello! :D'