That's very true for me, at least! I get along greatly with Thinking types, but I can't seem to think of them more than friends.  I always get stuck in relationships with Feeling types, but we end up...|||Have been too busy with work to log on.  Just to update, after our ridiculous conversation which ended with him telling me it's THE END, he texted me the next day to apologize for talking that way....|||Yes, I'm just going to start moving on and actually have already moved on quite a bit.  Manipulating and playing games or over complicating things isn't my thing.|||I think it's time to look for NT men.  I just took an empathy quiz from ENTJ forum, and it turns out I'm almost close to having asperger syndrome, and I just don't have enough empathy to deal with an...|||Def not interested in an ENTJ.  After ending a relationship with an SF, I'm starting to really appreciate my INTJ male friend!|||29... I'm actually ashamed of this score.  I thought I'd score more...|||Neither.  I analyze and take it as it is.  Past is past, and I should learn from it!|||So had a talk on the phone.  His reason for breaking up was due to my  being too harsh sometimes and mostly my not wanting to settle down.  So,  I apologized for being harsh and told him I'm willing...|||Thanks, Gurlygurl!  As an NT, it's really hard to understand ESFJ I guess.  I tried to talk to him after the breakup, but he's being very harsh and was twisting everything I was saying.  It's really...|||Been dating an ESFJ for almost a year now.  He started mentioning marriage and wanting to settle down with me about 5 months ago.  Things have been going very well, and a couple of days ago, my ESFJ...|||I'm hating myself right now for being an NT.  Right now, I'm feeling that I'm way too worrisome, over analyzing and not enjoying the moment.  I sometimes just want to switch off my thinking and just...|||When I have to deal with something with a lot of detail required.  My previous job was very detail oriented, and it made me feel like the most incompetent person on the planet.|||In order for this relationship to work out, there should be a lot of communication in order to really understand each other.  It's a fantastic relationship when two aren't involved in a deeper level....|||Like talking to a brick wall! It's a bad version of my SJ friend who is one of the most short-sighted person I've ever met.|||Did it on Excel, and I got 288...|||Why do I get a feeling this will never work out?|||I never play hard to get.  I think playing hard to get is the stupidest thing.  Probably she isn't interested? Also, I don't think ENTJ women are necessarily 'scary' or masculine.  I appear to be...|||I tend to judge a person briefly after getting to know.  A lot of people think I act judgmental, but what can I say, I've never been wrong.  When I interact with a person, everything catches my...|||Haha, can't agree more!  Being an ENTJ, I for one, do not like clingy people.  I also don't like being in a relationship with someone who likes guessing games.  Be communicative verbally.|||Usually, NF types can misunderstand me, but we tend to easily talk things through to work out.  So, I guess it's the SF types who I often have troubles with.|||Have an ENTJ male friend.  I personally get attracted to intellectual introverts.  I always thought of my ENTJ male friend to be too uppity for my taste.  Also, he is always ready to have a debate,...|||I'm definitely an introvert.  I immensely enjoy time alone.  But, I guess I get tested as an extrovert since I can be a life of party and am amazing at speaking infront of a huge group of people such...|||I emotionally connect through films and books.  I don't quite grasp the concept of emotionally connecting with a person and what it'd be like to be totally honest.  I can admire someone, like...|||The allure of I men.  I love myself some introverts.  There's something very sexy about them.|||I think it's fun romantically speaking.  It's passionate, somewhat intellectual, fuss free, and pretty much everything you'd look for.  But, it turns hell pretty quickly.|||It must be because I was in the exact same kind of relationship with INFP.  I was the world's biggest bitch to him, yet he couldn't get enough of me.  He found me very offensive but kept telling me...|||One year relationship with an INFP man, it was very abusive.  He thought I was the worst person in the world, and he told me so.  He constantly told me I was mean, bitchy, uncaring, cold, not...|||Being a pathological liar is for con mans and stupid people.  You are bound to get caught sooner or later lying about petty things.  It's simply not big-picture oriented to be a pathological liar.|||Too relaxed and unfocused for my taste.  Good match as in friends tho.|||I agree about ESTJs.  They seem to have much easier time getting along with people which I admire.  I'd make a terrible auditor.  I guess I just have to keep a faith in myself that my big picture...|||Good to finally hear some insight on this.  I was actually talking about strategy consulting. An ENTJ male friend of mine did not pass the first round of interview with one of the top 3 firms.  I...|||Haha, same here.  Can't agree more, and sometimes it hinders me from moving forward as I'm too caught up with the idea that I'm underachieving and be hard on myself.|||Yes, I think it kind of fits ENTJ personality.  Apparently no one has any insights on this. :(|||Do ENTJs make good strategy consultants? If so, I want to hear about your experiences, or why you think ENTJs are fit for this job.  Please share your experience in consulting industry!  I should...|||I used to be the person you described above.  I thought I was being helpful and nothing more by giving solutions.  Unfortunately, not everyone thinks the same or has same goals and outlooks in life. ...|||I need to get myself into a different mode since empathy doesn't come naturally for me.  I need to put extra effort on communicating with a person to try to show more empathy.  Honestly speaking, I...|||I don't really know anything about ENTPs.  Again, about this girl I know, she seems to be more caught up with social rules and laws much more than me and abides by the rule.  For me, if I see a...|||I'm not good with MBTI either, at all.  But, comparing myself to an ENTP girl I know, I think I'm much more verbal, blunt, out to get something and more of a risk-taker.  Overall, I exude more anger...|||Although I'm a woman, I send out strong signals that I'm attracted.  I'm not good with being patient figuring out if we are both interested or not.  I'd rather save myself some time and be direct. ...|||ENTP calling ENTJ strange. Hmm|||xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx|||No wonder I have hard time with women.|||Haha, it sounds like me.  Paranoia much?|||That sounds like a living hell.  I might only allow myself a day like that maybe once a year. I actually envy the fact that you can lead a kind of lifestyle you described above and not be depressed....|||I agree.  If a man hates his job, is not driven, and isn't doing anything about changing the situation for the better even though he holds a great job (I've dated one), I won't find him attractive. ...|||Found some articles.  What the length of your index finger says about you | Mail Online  If this is true, it explains my obsession for chess as a child.  Does this mean many NT women are likely...|||My left ring finger is about an inch longer where as my right one is half an inch.  I read from some news article weeks ago that it somehow only applies for right hands.|||Funny, I'm fantastically good at Monopoly.  I start off slow, and towards the end, everyone else is dirt poor left with no money.|||Hmm, I'm a little confused.   My score is:  Your Noble Score is 8  Your Socratic Score is 6  Your Reflective Score is 8|||Pretty much everything you said + quitting smoking + not letting SJ view on life and judgment get to me + becoming richer + proving to SJs in my life that I'm not someone with head in the cloud...