'This.|||I feel the same way about my INFJ best friend. I'm looking for her male counterpart. Let's swap. ;)  PS - that changeability in type proves he's an INFJ. SJs aren't chameleons and Nfs most certainly...|||I love INFJs. I feel like they invest the same amount of energy in the relationship (platonic or otherwise) as I do (which is a lot) and they get me. Plus it's like opening a never ending special...|||Precisely|||Yes. In my experience they very much DO enjoy being smothered. And enjoy smothering.|||Lol!! This sums me up too. Cept I'm pretty girly anyway. But it's intensified around someone I'm interested in.|||My one very serious relationship was with an INFP and I find that type fascinating. But the day to day part was hard. His collecting information and not commiting to a plan and following through...|||we are all different. Like any personality. Lol! But others describe us as either bubbly, energetic, loving and helpful or hypocritical, fake and bossy. I think that we can be a little of both....|||A connection to another person that knows no bounds.  Even when it's over, or never has a chance to start, it will always stay somewhere in your heart.  You will never be fully separated from this...|||What about other emotions? Like love (sexual or not) and fear and jealousy and happiness? Is this inability to show your emotions applicable across the board? This seems like it would greatly impair...|||It can be and has been done. In fact, I recommend it. My sister and her hubby are ISTJs and the only issue is that neither of them will ever Really understand their son if he is an ENFx like I...|||Irrational stupid freaking people Independent solid friends please Ivy strands find places I see five princes Insecure sensitive frustrated poodle|||Exactly!  This is the same as my dad (ESTJ) and my sister (ISTJ).  To me (ENFJ and a very strong Fe), it makes no sense and seems like they don't love me the same as I love them.  I know in my head...|||ENFJ probably. Just possibly ESFJ.  ENFJ - depending on how strong their J is, this type almost can't help giving advise. And it is almost always with the recipient's best interest at heart. They...|||ENFPs are super socially conscious and INTJs are really not socially conscious at all unless they have been really aware of and working on this weakness. You are on your way to recovery, but just...|||In any relationship I need to feel that the other person is trying to understand me as much as I try to understand, empathize with & accept them. This requires open heartfelt communication. I just...|||Don't feel like you HAVE to feel those things to be in love. For you, it probably won't be that way. Does the following sound hard for you? Wanting to spend your free time with someone Loving to...|||I know that ESTJs love and can love very deeply, but I still don't think it's ever the story book kind. The wild passion and thrills from head to toe at the mere sound of their love's name. My father...|||Depends on the person. As with all types, some are awesome & some have issues. I only know two confirmed ESTJs. One is someone I work under. She is very friendly and ROCKS at her job. The other is my...|||I am not so sure that ESTJs ever really feel that kind of love. In my experience, they tend to have more practical ways of loving. They are fiercely loyal and will safeguard their loved ones, but...|||See a doctor. Suicidal thoughts are not good. I take fluoxitine & see a therapist. For me, close family & friends work better than the therapist because I need to trust a person 100% before I can...|||Belle - INFJ Beast - ISTJ Gaston - ESTP (not sure about T - his logic is too off)  Maurice - INFP (I think INTx cuz he is def a thinker) Lumiere - ESFP (right on!!!) Chip - ENFP (I think so-or...|||Ok. This is tough for me to explain and may not be what's going on w/ her, but here's my two cents:  Sometimes we ENFJs can want the relationship with our hearts and not our minds. We crave love...|||My brother is an ISTP and so I know where you're coming from. We ENFJs aren't intentionally manipulative. That's why we seem oblivious. My bro & I are pretty tight tho, so don't give up on all of us...|||It sounds like she could be depressed. Depression radically changes a person's personality & behavior. Also, ESTPs & ESFPs can be very self-focused anyway. Depression can turn this into downright...|||Cheating Husband - LOL!!!! So true... So true...|||I love my ISTJ sister VERY much. But her ST drives me crazy & my NF drives her crazy. I try to understand and give her what she needs but feel that she cares less about my feelings than I do about...|||We ENFJs have a knack of putting people at ease & making everyone happy & appreciated & comfortable. It's something that is only a burden when we feel that we've 'wasted' our energy and support &...|||1. I've lived in Massachusetts all my life 2. I speak two languages fluently (english & asl) 3. I love peppermint ice cream. 4. I have a cat named henry 5. I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses (and...|||Just to be clear - I have absolutely no intention of ever asking him out again. In fact, I'm not even sure that I would open my heart to him again if he did miraculously change his feelings toward...|||I agree! ESTJs like introverts. Anyone who doesn't challenge their ideas, values or authority. My dad is an ESTJ happily married for over 30 years to my INFP mom (the one thing he has a hard time...|||Anxiety: happens  Baseball: don't get it Coloring: love it Driving: a chore Eating: yum! Family: love them!!! Grandma: 91 years old Hiking: beginner Ice Cream: peppermint Juggling: cool but...|||Anxiety: Baseball: Coloring: Driving: Eating: Family: Grandma: Hiking: Ice Cream: Juggling:|||It is hard to define femininity and masculinity because it can vary from culture to culture and even from person to person. It can also vary for the same person due to time lapse and/or chemicals...|||It is hard to define femininity and masculinity because it can vary from culture to culture and even from person to person. It can also vary for the same person due to time lapse and/or chemicals...|||What is your type: Your gender: Your culture(not necessarily race):   Do you find feminine women more attractive than masculine? What is femininity?   Do you find masculine men more attractive...|||This was the thought I had in the back of my head for the past 6 months. But I figured I was projecting my personality onto him because I tend to respond the same way to interest. But are you an...|||This cracked me up!! No, I'm not going to oogle him. I deserve to be adored and he doesn't so he's not worth my deep emotions. But he is a great guy and I'd hate to lose his friendship because I had...|||I want to talk to him but was not able to at first. Then I didn't see him for three months as I was away with family. Now I'm back and unsure of his reaction to me. I will hope that things work...|||Thank you for this reply!! It fits in so well with what I know of my INTJ friend and is that final push I needed to really be able to move on emotionally 100%!  I don't want someone to settle for...|||I am confident that this guy is not going to change and I've come to terms with it and hope to stay friends. But what has made you change your mind about someone?  I'm so curious because until I...|||In this situation both apply. It would be wrong and although there may be mutual attraction, there is no way that these two people could ever have a relationship. No matter which method was used.  ...|||Would it make any difference if you thought you could get the desired results even though you knew it was wrong? And in either situation, would you behave differently to this person? Possibly...|||Your type: ENFJ   Opinion: ENTP- I don't think I know any. From reading threads on their forum they are very stubborn & argumentative just to show their debating skills. Not a fan of that. As...|||I think it's great that u r able to deal with things by positive thinking. However, you P is so different than our J. Ps are able to handle change and surprises much more easily than Js. We don't...|||I don't know if I can claim to have come back out of this same type of situation entirely, but medicine has helpped. I didn't realize that I was depressed until I just had a melt down. But I felt the...|||Just wanted confirmation as this is what I already assumed. :o)  So, at the time, we both said we'd like to remain friends. But I needed time to process my emotions. Now I'm ready to be friends....|||As an ENTJ how would you act toward someone you were interested in if you felt that expressing that interest directly/overtly/verbally was inappropriate or unlikely to yield the results desired? This...|||About six months ago, an INTJ guy told me he wasn't interested in my romantically and didn't think he ever would be. Is there any chance he'll change his mind? We see each other about twice a week at...|||What part needs explaining?  We always feel that we know what will help the people we love. And we have to tell them so that they can benefit themselves. It's stubborn beneficiance rather than...'