'I have a strong distrust of doctors due to past experiences and -for the majority- their complete stupidity. Homeopathy and other alternate ways of looking after oneself work for me, so that's what...|||Gotye (Wally De Backer) strikes me as INFJ.|||Depends how I'm feeling, and after dying my hair purplish a while ago I realised I suit more colours than I thought I did, so I've been slowly branching out on the colour spectrum.   Overall, I...|||That is bizarre, scary and creepy. Hopefully that was your last encounter with her...|||I came across Gotye, an Australian musician/singer/songwriter about a month ago, after seeing the music video to Somebody I Used To Know, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I went on to look up his other...|||My boyfriend's an ISFP, he's the only person I can be relaxed and myself around completely, and we have tons of fun. We occasionally have communication issues, but they get sorted easily. We're both...|||I work in retail, and over the past two weeks had to work on the front register. I have no caring for stupid, immature, lazy people at all at the moment.   But in general I choose not care if it's...|||Always wanted to be able to, and was part of a circus troupe thing my school did as a kid, but failed at it miserably and ran around on stilts instead.   I still want to learn though, hopefully I...|||I don't donate, I give gifts and such freely especially to those I care for, but I refuse to donate/give money. Especially to anything medical/health related, those make my blood boil.|||It's mostly negative/sensationalism (if that's even a word .. :[ ) which I don't really care for, and the facts are almost always skewed. If I read a news story, I keep that in mind (also I live in a...|||Leonard, then Amy. Leonard, not sure why, I just enjoy his character the most, possibly the way he pokes humour at things, but also understands social requirements. And Amy, I love her humour too,...|||No one can tell when I'm joking except for my boyfriend, and even then sometimes. I dunno, I've alsways been a huge fan of the tell a joke with a straight face, and only those clicked in will...|||..I would actually be quite taken with that, getting to share the experience of growing something that only you and your significant other would see and experience, and then the beauty of the flowers...|||That was adorable!|||I adopt other peoples strong emotions at times, though it's usually stress that I adopt. Christmas became something I did not look forward to because my parents would be quite stressed on the day,...|||I haven't enjoyed reading this much in a long time, thankyou everyone!|||Invisibility was the first thing I thought of, that happens to me all the time too.   In school there were two instances where I was sitting on a table, and a guy flirting with the poplular girls...|||I have a young python trying to strangle my hand to death. Do I win? ;-P  I can understand how Hitler could have been an INFJ, which seems to be different to how most people feel about it, that's...|||Overall, Es who think that I care about what they say, or want to hear what I have to say (which is nothing) just because I walked into the room.   Actually, I haven't found a type per se that...|||I think I've known three INFJs.   One I'm definite about, because I recognise so many of the mannerisms, speech patterns, etc in myself. Plus he can mind read and admits to having very few select...|||Confidence and enthusiasm is key. I scored a job recently and I KNEW I was going to get it (it was a group interview, less than half of us were going to be employed). Cater to whatever seems to work...|||I get bored as soon as I know how to do something.  I've described that in myself before - particularly to do with artistic things and jobs. I learn how to do everything, be the best I can at it,...|||I thoroughly enjoy teasing/witty banter so long as it isn't purely superficial - I need to be able to see that the person isn't just the class clown, that they have real maturity/respect behind what...|||I enjoy RPG/adventure/puzzle games, the adventure puzzle combination especially (unless the puzzles require insane amounts of brainpower and not just abstract thinking, then I get mad and never look...|||I used to do it all the time, I used to get so caught up in it that I'd eventually feel like I was caught in a tornado (in my mind) and had to stop and sift through myself and get myself back. Now I...|||This isn't a fun thread :(   There's only one instance that stands out in my mind:  In year 5 at school, early in the year I was sitting at a table with two other girls, girl A's mother had...|||Dear Self (this was originally written to go in the Ask an INFJ relationship question thread, but in the end I'd sorted myself out enough to not post it there)  I've just made possibly the...|||I've forgotten a lot of my childhood as well, some of the worse parts I worked really hard to remember when I was about 18 because I realised that while I knew what went on in those years, I didn't...|||I relate to what most people here have said, though I only share it completely with my ISFP boyfriend, I share it a little with my mum but not much, she gets kind of freaked by morbid humour and...|||Dear ISFP Guy.  I hate how you can put things off until the last moment sometimes, it really drives me bonkers. I mean, you haveno idea how close I get to going plain crazy and have to pull myself...|||Lost in Oblivion  Thanks for that post, I found it very helpful!|||I tease people to see where their boundaries are when I first meet them, and to see if they can hack it. It's a sort of a way of seeing what sort of person they are and how they react to certain...|||Possibly a friend I had is at his core and INFJ - but over the past few years he's been slipping into ISTJ to cope with the world I think. Something about the eyes, we used to connect in an amazing...|||The Invisible Truth See-ers|||Been there, done that, though mine was early at 18-20. My health, friends and most of my family failed me, and I withdrew from the community into myself to survive. Spent a lot of time self...|||Overall intuitive - but ethical definitely shines through now and then randomly. Very interesting that there's subtypes, it makes me feel not-so-weird when the ethical overrides.|||My inability when it comes to sports, even running. I feel like the biggest idiot, I'm just not coordinated enough to pull it off evenly mildly gracefully.|||I hope it goes well for you!|||Well, I used to be like that, a different person with everyone. I realised that I was a different person with different people because I wanted to please them and get along with them. I took time to...|||Dear Mum,  I just realised today that you've been abusing my need for a grounding person in my life. You've sabotaged a potentially great relationship in the past for fear of losing me, that I...|||My experience is yes to all that. I start insulting people playfully, in a semi serious way when I get stressed. I start seeing harmless and pointless flaws in things, and can be overly critical,...|||Annihilatron  I love that song - this would have to be close if not my INFJ theme song.|||^ I've had a zombie apocalypse dream too! It was more Day of the Triffids in style though.   No, any saviour style fantasies I've had consist of me being like the enigmatic passerby who says...|||I'm sick of having nothing to do!|||My suspected INTJ brother hates it when I look at him, even in passing, because he feels so exposed because of the way I can read people (this was even before I realised I could read people well - as...|||Dear self,   You've taken multiple enneagram tests, and almost everytime you get a different result. First 6, then 9, then 3, then 6 again. You don't relate to any of them even remotely though. You...|||Being in love    - simply being near the person you share you love with.  The texture of paint.  Making the first mark in a new sketch book.  Being in nature.|||I think there's two kinds of lucid dreams - for me at least. There are those that happen when I'm not fully asleep, and the dreams are of things I'm thinking about, pondering, stressing over, etc,...|||Dear self  Why are you so tired!? This is just ridiculous! Wake upppppp you've been falling asleep since 3 this afternoon! Maybe you should try getting more than 6 hours of sleep for once. You're...|||Check notifications.  Sift through the INFJ forum - open anything that looks interesting into tabs and look through them, type some replies - then intentionally close the tabs before I post most...'