'I don't know if this is the right place for this question, but you always give me the best advice. So I'll post it here to see what happens with it ok?  So I have a new friend in my life and we got...|||I recognise so much in this sadly enough. Not being aloud to have multiple thought patterns and that they think I am directly opposing if I disagree.... So much relate! The validation is good to...|||Dear obvious ISFP. I didnt even think I would like you. But I am so weak for your physical ways and goddamn prettiness. You are so present and I fell for that again - you told me how you wanted to...|||Please fellow INFJs tell me to let him go. To stop waiting. To stop re-reading stuff. To stop imagining him forgiving me and telling me I was right. To say he wants to be with me. Why is it always so...|||I felt EXACTLY the same way after just watching the trailer.|||Yeah, I don't get this either actually. I feel awkward when INFJ's do that. And somewhere in my mind I am thinking a real INFJ wouldn't brag about their rarity.|||I need to just write this somewhere because I feel so confused. I dated this guy and I was trying to trust him with my thoughts and he said he was very open to all kinds of ranting and I shouldnt...|||We tried to talk before I left, I said stuff in a Ni kind of way...he said stuff in a Ni kind of way so now I kind of know how it feels to be hit with Ni when it tries to talk in the moment about...|||Sorry, didn't tell you the whole story. He WAS in therapy - he isn't anymore. I don't know if this came from him or an idea from the therapist. But I would rather find out about his cheating from the...|||I think it might be the fact that I recognize stuff from myself in him. Ni for example. And I am ALWAYS attracted to Fi-types. I surround myself with them in love and friendship. But I don't really...|||Ok so this is some of the things I can think of:  - He is an engineer - C’mon! - He has this calm assertiveness that is so sexy, self confidence I guess. I see now how people misjudge it as...|||- This is what I have been thinking about since he told me. He has to let her go and he's not dating because he is in a happy place but because he is lonely. I can't be rebound girl or such... and I...|||Thank you lilysocks for your reply.  I didn't present reasons too why I believe he is an INTJ because I thought you guys would take my word for it. I can make a list if you like...? The most...|||Dear INTJ’s  I am sorry in advance for this lengthy post… I hope someone has the time to read it and help me with the questions I have…I've been going through this thread and INTJ behavior but still...|||Hi Alina No worries, I've been caught up to. Hope everything is alright with you. I tried to have distance from him. But something happened in his life and he was sad so he kept poking at my...|||Yes, this is what I am trying to do. But it is much easier said than done. Taking baby steps...|||Ok. Just for clarification. No one is harder on me than I am. I know what I have done wrong and I try and always evaluate my own behaviour and actions and I would not even be here if I had a clear...|||Yes, I told him in october. That just made him more secretive imo|||I see that you caught up with the rest of my posts. I have gone through my conversation with him.|||What sounds like an ISFP? :)|||It's such a mess and a blur and so many feelings and ways of looking at it all and it has been going on for to long. When I try and tell someone about it it just feels too complicated. This forum and...|||Thank you for your insights     Alina ! Always good and true.    Actually this is something my intuition has told me for a long time to do. I have been ignoring it. But once my feelings caught up...|||So what you're saying is that when he has told me: he has a hard time making his mind up. (Everyone could possibly be right.) But when he does make his mind up it is so important to him and he will...|||I dont know much about ISTPs or INTPs. But and ISFP tried to explain it in ways of they don't have any way of expressing their Fi in the way they feel it. Their Se is not verbal, and Ni isn't either...|||Well, body language is amazing so I understand the interest. I pick up on that because of my inferior Se but it is hot or cold and always more part of the whole picture not the details. This is...|||I listen a lot, I notice the little stuff about people. If I find you interesting I ask you questions. Try to figure out what makes you tick. I play extrovert, laugh, joke and act confident. Try and...|||They both confront each other very quickly as well. I guess they just need the emotional support before they do it sometimes. And sometimes I have to stop them from doing it because the confrontation...|||Interesting. I know a lot of ENFPs that feel this way, that they are the ones driving the conversation. I think this is where we connect. Since I get to know people with Ni and Fe I ask a lot of...|||No, I think you misunderstood me. I wasn't saying talking behind someones back was a trait for ENFPs. I said I thought they did it because they want to get along and be friends and because they are...|||I'm meeting my ex boyfriend this week and he tested as INFP. Haven't spoken to him in 8 years. Just remembering stuff that he has said that makes sense to me now. He once told me he has a hard time...|||+ AdroElectro  Well, I know they both talk about each other behind each others backs even when they are friends. I don't think they do it because they are mean but because they are extroverts...|||Hey ENFPs! I have a lot of friends with your type, I adore you guys!  So, I was thinking about a couple of things since I am wondering if some of the ENFPs I know are mistyped.  Sorry if these...|||I like this explanation, but can you put it in context? English is not my first language, so that would help.|||Ok so what we are describing is unhealthy bursts of Te I guess.|||Hi  TONY T You know what, thank you for being a bit harsh! Sometimes it's just nice not to try and understand everyone. The people you have met are complete douchebags and that's that! I have a hard...|||Just read in the ask and ISFP thread something that ferroequinologist wrote.   ISFPs, being introverted judgers, tend to not directly reveal themselves, and since our judgment function is feeling,...|||Well,   Isuckatusernames this forum actually has a lot of threads on ISFP-INFJ relationships and not a lot of them end well. We have totally different styles of communicating is the bottom line....|||Isuckatusernames If I could choose I would love to be friends with ISFPs. The mature kind hehe :) I just can't be to close to them.  And the description that Alina gives is lovely. My guy is not...|||haha I sincerely hope you are being sarcastic Isuckatusernames!|||I think I need to let it be. I think he will tell me he has nothing more to say, as he did before. The last thing I want is to go where he is, it is far away and I think it would just make things...|||So, just wanted to tell you guys what happened.   Alina   Grad0507 At the moment I feel like I am exploding with thoughts and don't have anyone to talk to right now, since it all happened yesterday....|||I know 2 ENTPs, one is my sister and we have a really tight bond! We understand each other so well. The other one is a guy which I've had some....things happen with... :) I currently work with him...|||At the moment I am just in limbo with my ISFP. Both of us holding on for some reason. I guess I am still waiting for him to love me again, as he did just 3 months ago. It's not fair, I am a coward....|||Kebachi No I wasn't pointing it at you, more in general.   I hope they will not take the thread away since it contains a lot of good information about ISFP INFJ relationships.|||Dear Alina I respect that you don't want to share about your situation anymore. But I just want to say that I would never judge you for anything that the heart concerns. I know how hard it can be...|||ferroequinologist Thank you! I also read some other articles over there at celebritytypes (that name really put me off at first) that where really interesting!|||haha ferroequinologist has answered a lot of my questions about ISFPs previously, I've even thrown my Fe on email towards him! :blushed: He answered the question I first posted in this thread...|||Alina Grad0507  One of the things we enjoy most is hanging out together in silence. But when I haven't met him for 1.5 years and we are sitting in front of each other in a restaurant it is not very...|||My ISFP told me when he was angry with me that he thought it was meaningless to chitchat like I do always talking nonsense (I do this when I get nervous, mostly in awkward moments of silence). That I...|||cyamitide  Yup, I know the function stack for both of us. But thank you for putting them on top off each other, made it easier to see.  Some questions arise: Ni doesn't express it self very...'