'I think he's just looking for affirmation because he likes someone and doesn't know if he's gay or he likes the type and wonders if there are any homosexuals. There's also the possibility that he's...|||I'd say let them be and don't try to initiate something. Especially if it involves ANY kind of manipulation - it'd only make it worse. I get along with STJs at an okay level outside of my family, but...|||No. Just no. Unless you have a shovel and a body bag handy for one of those nights which are to come...|||No, I can't remember having identity issues... I can't properly describe who I am, but I have a feeling for who I am anyway. I have a personality and I'm expressing it to its fullest. When I was...|||What? Why does it matter who's the first? Are you sure you're his first? How old is he? Because right now it seems like he wants a relationship with you but he hasn't been in any, and ENTJs tend to...|||Being direct is the best way to talk to an ENTJ. Personally I hate indirect, it's annoying and it's a waste of time. You could just get over your need to be indirect and be direct for once - it'll...|||...If people see you as intimidating and you don't understand why.|||I love the idea of a debate (for the reasons mentioned by @MsBossyPants and others), however some people just purely piss me off. Most notably SFJs as they seemingly don't believe in facts. INTPs...|||I bet his claws are deep in his skin. :cool:|||They can be interesting until you talk for longer than 10 minutes. That's when it hits you - this conversation has been pointless for the last minute and it's not gonna change. The only solution is...|||No. Not at all. I used to be a bit shy when talking to a girl, but I'm not anymore.|||That's rare. I can't remember the last time I had full-on tears. Something that made my eyes water up... A couple of movies and maybe a song or two under certain circumstances. News - never. Someone...|||LOL, quite a thread past the first page.  As for the first page... I generally get annoyed by ENTPs and they generally get annoyed by me. Basically because they're trying to piss me off because...|||No.|||Already done most of the things on the list, didn't work. I feel  like I want something tangible and real, not something that I can read  or hear. I've had too much of that prior to feeling this way....|||They do not nor do they think I hate theirs. And yes, they are ISFPs, I'm sure of that. One of them actually shares something from time to time but to me it looks so on-the-surface that it doesn't...|||I was speaking with an ISFP yesterday and he was going on about me doing so many great little things and I thought to myself: so what? they don't matter. they didn't last long, nobody remembers...|||I've known one ISFP for months now - same situation. Another one for years - same situation. Another I've known for probably months - same situation. Should I go on? Unless the shell is decade-thick,...|||You sound almost exactly like me - that happens to me from time to time (couch thoughts) and I also (for quite a while now) don't have much control over my future. It felt like reading something I...|||DEFINITELY agreed about INTPs. Finally!   As for ISFPs... They seem kinda dull to me, most of the time. Rarely can I have an entertaining conversation with one. It becomes boring rather quickly....|||Well, maybe not as much giving up as losing the excitement or something close to that... It's hard to explain, really.  It's quite ironic with ISxJs actually - they complain about it yet they say...|||My whole life I haven't expressed my annoyance in short-term situations (waiting at the counter for example), as it changes nothing. Nor am I impatient most of the time in such situations, as I can't...|||Who the hell raw eats tomatoes + butter? WTF?!|||:laughing:  I have a friend like that.  She has the attention span of a cat.  She's easily distracted by anything and everything. Makes me crazy.[/QUOTE]  Oh hell, I hate people like that. I don't...|||I'm gonna provide you with a sharp weapon if you're coming here to take care of people like that.|||Joking part - yes! Sometimes people even see my behavior as condescending because they don't get that I'm joking and just having fun.|||I sense sarcasm. People do seem to think that ENTJs are not very expressive, or aren't expressive at all. I've actually heard people telling me that, and today I've read it in another thread. I...|||Why do people complain that they're tired every single day? Who cares? If you've been tired for the past 12 months because your job's hard, cool, doesn't mean you gotta cry about it every single day!...|||Sure. Sometimes. If you can call all of this spontaneous. Some of these things sound like something I'd do to just solve it, instead of putting it off.|||Her Fe IS a vampire! I actually said that today!  She is awkwardly faking the smile. How are you two getting along? 15 years is a looong time!    You look tired.|||When you talk. Gestures, face, tone of voice. Are you?|||Awww, thanks for vouching for me, haha!  Ah, you don't wanna hog 'em all just for yourself, eh? Hehe.|||Messaged more people, let me know if anyone else is interested!|||SarahBrave - indeed, thank you for your answer, it was a great read for my evening.|||belligerent - hostile, isn't that what it means? I never come off as hostile. People tell me I come off as nice, yet aggressive.|||I don't think I'm aggressive, but I do get told that my general demeanor is aggressive. The way I express myself. I don't know why.  Personally, I see some INTPs much more aggressive than me. They...|||You sound a bit like an ENTJ, kazoz. At least like me anyway. ENFPs seem very warm and easy to talk to, they seem genuinely interested in what you have to say and they DO like one-on-one...|||Just bumping, in case someone missed the post, since only one person expressed actual interest in a PM.|||Not an INTP, but I do find ENFPs really cool. At least with the little exposure I had to them, compared to most other types. Especially in real life.  The cool part is that they're always talking,...|||What would make you happy, when you're in that mood? Or maybe to not get into that mood in the first place? You sound almost as sad as an INFP! Hehe.|||Well what else am I supposed to say, I wanna talk to ENFPs. My mind is incapable of working on another efficient and rational solution! :shocked:    Sure!|||I would like to get to know more ENFPs in a more personal manner than forum posts, so if any of you are up for a voice conversation, let me know! I'm not up for recordings of any sort, I'm interested...|||Sounds like you choose people you get clingy for really carefully, but you do get clingy about the ones you actually form the bond with. I hope I'm not off here.|||INFPs seem to be from what I've read and noticed. Are you clingy? Do you get very attacked to someone? For example, I know 2 INFPs who are unable to get over their exes for a long time now.|||Weirdly enough, people tell me that too.|||kazoz I'm not really surprised, ENFPs are more people-oriented.|||Self-explanatory - what would you have to be doing to feel like you're enjoy every moment of every day? I don't necessarily mean long-term. I bet it'd be traveling, being on-the-move, meeting lots of...|||102. Thou shalt express your ideas with your actions, regardless of what others may think of you.|||Nighty88 Goals don't necessarily have to be people-oriented.|||That sounded like P/J play. Content is NOT good/enjoyable.'