'my boyfriend is a INTJ and he wont hug anyone except me, unless someone is dying.. and when he leaves for bootcamp.|||no they should imagine their 90 year old gma having sex! haha... i know men are physical creatures, and its in their genetic code to size women up. but there is a difference between looking, and...|||I know sex is important to me, and we've talked about it quite a bit. He is very open minded, he only has two soap boxes, no sex before marriage. And men divorcing their wives makes him really...|||The one who I thought was a ISTP who was a marine and stole panties?! OH GOD NO! Not him!!! LOL! No this guy is different, and I guess we've been dating since NOV 12th, but officially Dec 23rd....|||Well... I could, yes. He can't. He has a really restrictive moral code called no sex before marriage. And I don't mind having a stable sex life, or living on base. In fact I have always wanted to...|||The title of this thread sounds like some weird sexual encounter.|||I travel for fun... and want to take aviation classes or go to cosmetology school.|||Yeah, but whenever I am with someone in a relationship, I get approached more often. So me wearing a ring will probably only make it worse now that I think about it. Oh well, I guess we all want what...|||yeah, wouldn't it be nice? hopefully when i get married it wont be so bad...|||Hey, hey! Hold it up... Not ALL ESTPs are that way :)  My boyfriend and I looked at engagement rings yesterday, we're getting married in August of this year. When he first brought it up it freaked...|||INTJs are quite funny, I like Dexter Morgan|||a lot of times i lose interest in arguments.|||I value:  A thinker! I love people who aren't effected by what everyone says, or thinks about em. I like people who can just be themselves, and not give a fuck. I really like sensual people!...|||Emotions? What emotions?! I'm just playing, well sort of. I suffer from PTSD, so I rarely feel too much. And when I am having a really shitty night, I usually remember my traumatic experiences,...|||How old were you when you got married?  How long did it take you to want to marry the person?  What MBTI type did you married? And what enneagram type were they?  Are you divorced, and if so......|||haha i saw that, and i totally agree!|||oh god yes.... i was once told my mind was as filthy and corrupt as a us marine..|||Thats interesting. I worked at a electronic store, and there were a lot of INTJ men there. But hmph, environmental sciences is the well for INTJ women... I have only met one INTJ woman..|||really 4 at one work place? may I ask what you do because INTJ women aint that common bro!|||Well the person also said that this trait can be used for good, like maybe in my career I should do something where people need acceptance, but they'd also realize I have boundaries (because I do)....|||1.  Are ESTPs generally secretive?  Do you not tell things or purpose or  not think of telling or what? I am fairly guarded, I don't talk about very personal things with most people.   2.  Are you...|||he could be a ISTJ, they stay in unhappy relationships all the time...|||you're getting awfully defensive. and you type an awful lot to be a ESTP.|||I smoked for two years, smoked 2 packs a day. One day I was sick, couldn't breathe very well, and said fuck it, I quit! The only thing that I really had a struggle to let go off was narcotics, but I...|||I <3 INTJs. They are grounded, they see the bigger picture, and are generally great at explaining things.|||I started smoking two hours before newyears, and quit at 12am(: Other than that, just eat healthier, workout more. Same goal every year.|||*gets popcorn and eats it*|||I find ENTJs scary intense. I don't like being around a lot of them because the intensity of how they say things. They get under my skin for some reason.|||Okay seriously we aren't your friend, you know your friend better than any of us do. Why? Because she was your friend a couple of months ago right? So mope around, think of what she'd probably react...|||Yeah I am often called mean too. One of my friends said that if she didn't know me, she'd probably think I am the most insensitive bitch ever. >.< Idk what the common ESTP friend is, I have a lot of...|||ISTJ who not, who cares! Just try!!!|||Just do it and see what happens. What can you loose? A friendship you already don't have right now? My friend did the whole, im gonna write you off over txt, when we've been friends for 12 years. I...|||Well a friend and I were talking about this. And he thinks its because my mom was schizophrenic, so I had learn to adapt very quickly to whatever mood she was in. And in that I have learned to be...|||Well thats cool, never met a INTJ who was into the health field. But ya know, do what ya want :P|||An INTJ nurse?! No wayyyyy! Welcome :proud:|||This subject came to me because when I was taking the enneagram test (the one from the ennagream institute website that cost $10) , and one of my good friends called while I was taking it. I went...|||I think the only other ESTP I met was my old boss, he was really cool. We got along pretty well. He cracked me up, whenever he had a one night stand, everybody knew. Come on! Hurry up guys, I need...|||I always make the move, except with the ISTJ I am with now. And let me tell you, I have only been turned down once by a guy. And it was because he lied about being single, and was really engaged to a...|||my boyfriend is a ISTJ, and he wont have sex until hes married...|||I have a friend who is a INFJ, and most the time she drives me effin' crazy dudddde|||lol! i dumped him last night, and then i asked him if he'd give me another chance. he likes to plan everything and it drives me crazy! and he kept talking about marriage. i think he will loosen up...|||scratch that, me and the ISTJ boy got back together, he is ecstatic.|||My greatest fear is to be helpless/incompetent. Being independent is my #1. priority.|||I just broke up with my ISTJ boyfriend, I dont think he will be taking it well. I said I'd offer him my hand of friendship, but it may be unwise. He said not right now, but maybe later. Distance is a...|||im addicted to oj! people at my old job cracked jokes about if I had orange juice that day, lol.|||THEN I MUST BE THE FREAKING COOKIE MONSTER! I am always making people lulz. If they dont laugh, they shake their head, or they shake their head and walk away. But most people laugh :P|||i dont know if he is a estp, but i wouldnt waste my time on him. he sounds like a jerk from what you've said.|||HAHA! I <3 you. I bought a $60 delta shower head like 3 months ago. Ohhh man... I'ma be getting busy with mister clean for a LONNNG timeeee.|||I just hope he helps me keep my p in check!|||According to this site ISTJ Relationships the ISTJ and ESTP are natural partners. I am currently dating a ISTJ, and sometimes I find it hard to understand why he likes me so much. I am...'