'My advice to this woman is to divorce him and find someone who values you more than television and what others think of him! I wouldn't want to be married to a guy who values what others think above...|||I really appreciate how open minded you two are! And I really appreciate you two understanding me in this regard. Night Queen, I think you are already a better person for being who you are! You both...|||I have to agree with you that the average person can make these topics very ordinary and supersonic mundane, like this Self-Pres guy who talked about his Phone Bill for about an hour in the most...|||I am still struggling to understand why you perceive the lists to be small talk? Are they too practical for you? I love practicality because I enjoy topics that is relevant to me and improving the...|||I am curious to know what are more interesting topics for you to talk about? When I think of small talk, I think of external topics that are meaningless to who the person is from within. Or just...|||Oh, sorry, I was not aware this was gossip. I thought this was a real fictitious problem of a legitimate concern of the characters in this story. Gossip is usually meaningless chatter about other...|||Sounds nice.     Are you worried about losing your connection with him? I like going deeper into a person. If I was worried about someone I am close to is having problems and not talking with me...|||Hi Fours, Four wingers and Friends.  I thought you guys may enjoy this topic, so I decided to post it here for you to see it. I know you guys have a lot to offer on this topic of being melancholy....|||656145Minimalism is a tool that can assist you in finding freedom. Freedom from fear. Freedom from worry. Freedom from overwhelm. Freedom from guilt. Freedom from depression. Freedom from the...|||Thank you for your kind words. I wish everybody appreciate that about me! I can relate to being intellectually lazy. Curiosity is a big part of my nature, and I cannot understand how some people are...|||I feel at home in nature. Feel connected to something greater...hmmm...is that feeling the oneness thing? Feeling one with everything? That is what I feel when I am in nature, especially when I...|||Yes, the truth bites you enough to make you aware of it. Did the link I shared with you in misidentifying 4s and 5s give you any insights on which is more like you? Your Feeling probably comes from...|||Do a little more exploring. Have you read the Beatrice Chestnut posts? That is a good source to look at. Fours are heart type who is more primarily a feeling type as Fives are head types who are more...|||I am the same way, but I am not thinking about any groups when I am that way. I am just inside of my bubble of my own little world.    I just know that many contribute Social to focusing on...|||Hi Everybody,   I figure it is my turn to participate and allow you all to see where I stand with these topics of conversations.    SP: I like these topics to be interesting and not boring in...|||Does people talk about closeness in that manner? That reminds me of elementary school...I like you, do you like me? Do you like X or Y? Hahaha! I view closeness and intimacy being synonyms of...|||I talk about the SP stuff because I think it is exciting that I can save over 50% or more on products! I don't talk about these topics in an ordinary and boring sort of way, of course. I know a guy...|||These are good speculative questions. Life after death is one of the subjects I am interested in, off and on, throughout the years. I accept that I don't know the concrete answers to these questions,...|||I agree, that is strongly Self Pres!!!! Minimalism is a Self Pres thing as well. I think it is sad that you are not meeting people who share this wonderful thing in common with you. A lot of artistic...|||Do you feel a sense of security when you are in a group of people who share the same interests as you do? Are you a part of any groups of people or friends? Family? Religious organization?...|||Asity   I do not understand how SP is your most dominant topics of conversation after reading your post about it. Help me to understand.  pwowq   I apologize for not having the link...|||Hello. I am a 9w1, and I have been know to have different personas in public and in private. In public, I appear more sociable and outgoing than I appear at home. I look like I am more fun than I...|||Hello I am a 9w1. I know the frustration of having too much stuff from my own personal experiences. I take stuff in, but I never go through them and get rid of them, which felt like a heavy load on...|||What core type and wing(s) are you? Which of these conversations can you relate to most? What are your stacking? I wonder what variant(s) that enjoys discussions about religion, politics and sex...|||Taoists expectations? I am curious to know more about this!! And about both of you two experiences with Taoism and how it impacted you guys lives Psyche and Typology Jesus.|||I am rediscovering Taoism and found that is the religion/ philosophy that I relate to most. Buddhism comes second. I was wondering is anybody else consider themselves Taoists too. I found out the...|||I do have a 1 wing, so this does play a role in my making major life decisions. Thanks for the reminder to focus more on what I want and desire...as a Nine, I am not sure what that is to where I can...'