'yeah!!! you know exactly what I mean...|||ummm..... wow..... i was joking (and ummmm wow.....)|||maybe... but then again... maybe not.  i'll probably just post a totally naked picture of myself since everyone was so comfortable with my naked shirtless picture... LOL... i'm joking... maybe.|||hmmm... i wonder where the poster has gone?... and about those dreams....|||Thanks! and yeah... i'm not sure why the thread gotten taken into the direction that it did...  i appreciate your thoughts.  that makes sense.  i guess i just didn't put as much thought into my...|||That's really interesting... I'm interested in hearing more of your thoughts after you finish reading it... if you'd still recommend it, etc.  how it may have changed your perspective since before...|||Huh? ... Guys (girls).... I'm NOT NAKED.... Have you ever gone to the beach? a pool? a lap around a track in the heat of Summer? Guys take their shirts off....As I said before, my interests are...|||You brought up some really good points too.  (see my previous comment)  I think you're right on with your b.  comment.  So many people are looking for excitement rather than a relationship.  That...|||That's really fascinating... intellectual... So, do you want to marry me? jk.  You brought up some really good points.  I guess I'm into fitness because I'm into health.  So for me it is not about...|||No need to apologize... I just get so... what's the word.. MAD lol... when I learn about people (and more specifically, fellow INFPs) going through things like this with religion. It makes me realize...|||So you mention the phrase several times my dreams... what are your dreams?|||Good thoughts!  I didn't have anything in particular in mind... and I wouldn't ever complain like that face-to-face with someone I was interested in.  I guess I was just expressing my confusion......|||I think all religion is just plain illogical and bad.... and for the weak who can't think for themselves and develop their own spiritual insights (outside of religion). Imagine a world without...|||Thanks... that's a really good point... people ARE intimidated with deep thinkers and seem totally confused when they encounter someone who genuinely is a caring person. I think society has wrecked...|||Okay,  So.... I'm financially secure, great job (as in I make >$120K a year), down to earth, non-dramatic, confident, healthy, pretty decently attractive physically, in shape...educated... could...|||Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!|||Shame on those people. Their definition of a man is only what they know. There are many, many ways to be a man....and some are better than others. I think they lack balls because they have not...|||Best post EVER!|||ya... extroverts can be really obnoxious in that way. i guess just choose who you allow into your life more carefully. if you want only introverts and more quiet types...then make friends with those...|||NO! and neither should you! :angry:|||Yeah.... I definitely do.  part of me can be really, really emotional and warm with people.  but, sometimes and in certain situations, i become very non-emotional and almost cold to people.  in the...|||Amen!  INFPs (especially males) need to validate and encourage one another... whether it is a friend or a stranger or someone you recognize as an INFP and defend one another.  This all makes great...|||My sign is Leo..... :)|||Only you have the answer to your riddle.|||I think everyone is an individual. I think it is important though to talk about these things and to be honest when people ask. People think in definite labels, straight, bi, gay. If you say i'm...|||I think about that a lot.  How I wish I was born in another era, as so many other INFPs have said throughout this forum.  We would have been appreciated so much more, and definitely more happy...|||I hate talking on the phone too.  It annoys me.  I hate small talk.|||I think a lot of INFPs are either you're on my side or not when it comes to relationships/friendships and doors are closed when the person proves unable to stay on the INFPs side.  I do this a...|||INFPs can't be figured out!!!!!! haha|||When ever someone suggests a book and then ends up passing along their copy to you so you don't have to go out searching for it :laughing:|||LMAO!!!!!!.... How simple for the author of that article to think there is one way to define a type. Alas, another THINKER fails.|||Yes. It's just plain tacky.|||I think INFP males just need different things.  Most other male types could boil their needs down to sex. Or, I should say, if they are satisfied sexually, then they aren't complaining.  But, for...|||My favorite.............|||Very right brained here.  Good at left brained things, too.... But, left brained activities are learned as opposed to natural.|||I replied to your initial thread titled Need Help.  Did you see my response.  Hope you are doing better today.|||It's all very unfortunate.  So much greatness has been lost in society, and especially more and more every day.... But, not just because of media.  I think through so many corrupt institutions,...|||huh?  you quoted me but i dont follow your response in reply to what i said??:unsure:|||Everything you just described, I went through.  I think so many INFPs go through this. So, first, don't feel alone and stuck.  Just realize you are in a phase and that phase will change whether you...|||This is overly simplified and cliche... but because it is true.  and, it is vital (read ABSOLUTE! LOL) that INFPs do what they love and learn to make money doing what you love.  If you love to...|||Let me just say........the term moderate was a fantastic word choice...It cracks me up. :laughing:|||Summer reading is the best......because the books can just be light and enjoyable...pure entertainment. You mentioned a lot of deep and complex books, which I love too, but I wouldn't call them...|||Well, I think in general a lot of INFP men get referred to as pansies because of the common characteristic personality of the INFP male.  However, on the flip side, and for myself... I'm not a pansy...|||I'd say... probably to have sex with them (INFPs).  I know people always understand me a lot better in INFPness after sex because they see/feel/hear/smell/taste how passionate INFPs are.  I think...|||Aweeeeee.  Beauty is what you find inside.  One day, you will find your soulmate... Someone who feels so attracted to you.  Don't give up.  When you start believing and recognizing all the ways to be...|||You are more into metaphor than anything literal.|||Yes, and content! ;)|||Hi, Meta Maker. I just typed a long personal message, only to find after I click Sent that I can't send PMs to people yet since I'm new on here.  WOW!  Way to lose a message I put time into in...|||Hi there!  Thanks everyone for your responses.  So kind of you to read my thread.  Any way...   If there is still confusion, I think the confusion is, again, in the definition of myth. I think...|||Hi there! No need to apologize... It is a complex, deep subject.  If you are interested in a very thorough explanation of the concept, check out those books I mentioned.    In a literal sense,...'