'I haven't read posts past this one (i.e. other responses, so sorry if I'm echoing) but I think the answer as I was reading is: be yourself! And if someone doesn't like it, INTJ or not, then oh well....|||:)   I basically had wondered whether there was some sort of schizophrenia component going on. I'm glad to hear you are doing better.|||Hmm well then my thoughts are:  1) Ask her in person because messaging does not seem to be her forte at all and she basically said as much. Could be an excuse for avoiding the question too though....|||Read this and then a few questions popped in my head: how did you ask - method and content? how long ago?  I mean, my first thought is - maybe they just don't want to. But it really depends on the...|||This may have more to do with enneagram as well, or just individual personality flavors. It really depends on the situation and topic for me. In most cases, I don't really care to argue about...|||1) I am sure I've met an ISFP sometime but I honestly don't know how I'd spot one or if I know any for sure. So, no idea.   2) I'd really rather do nothing. I really don't feel any special...|||My ESFJ mom does the same thing. I do not love that sort of weirdness. If she talks about that kind of stuff, we end up fighting because I can't keep my mouth shut about how it isn't true and she...|||For casual friendship type of things - SO FUN! I like that they can find weird rabbit holes to go down and I will gladly follow them for a bit through all of the ones they find. It's like being in a...|||Needs deodorant? ;P  ::edit:: wellp, I just realized I read aromantic summer as aromatic summer ..hence my reply. So, I didn't read what you wrote in the entirety of your post correctly at all....|||Same here (same fires too? lol I mean, basically the whole west part of the US is on fire) and had the moon and ash too. I don't know how far I am from the closest one, I think about an hour away....|||Might be worth just saying directly - I care about our relationship and I don't want to lose contact with you again. You know that I respect your decision and I really struggled over whether to tell...|||You done killed me. :laughing:|||I would want to know but I may or may not go back and visit. That part I wouldn't be able to predict. This is a hypothetical for me so that's the closest my answer could get.  :edit: I guess if I...|||I guess this is an example of what's a big deal to people or not..lol really the only thing that made it difficult was actually physically placing parts, screwing things in, seeing where things push...|||It might be 5 minutes of simple work but I know when I go in to look at shit like that, nothing makes sense to me, I can't get things back together correctly because they slip around and stuff, and...|||Twice in one month! We are winner!|||Oatmeal bar! And smoothies. :P and hard boiled eggs for protein.  Now I want breakfast.|||As a school employee, I really can't complain - my schedule is really nice having a good chunk of summer off and all....but having all that time off just to come back makes it more clear than usual...|||Never have. I really don't like the feeling of not being in control of my faculties much. I get anxious about it so I'd probably be quite anxious on drugs like that. I don't have any mental disorders...|||Reading this gave me immense glee. Giggly insides. I enjoyed :laughing:|||Was anybody here raised in more sensoric environment? How did it affected your personality?  Eh, not really. We were a mix but I think my dad's vibe was more influential in the house and he's N...|||Instant, free teleportation to anywhere I choose.  Like others said, I tend to wish for things that are on the impossible side. Otherwise, I make things happen. I think if I wished for things...|||lol hey, I didn't make it! Use away :P|||I am the same way and would have backed down, especially with that source coming from a government website which tends to be pretty accurate. Sounds like maybe just a stubborn person vs. an INTJ...|||Ooooh I love gyros...is there a certain way you season/marinade the beef for that?   I suppose I could google it. Never thought to make my own at home!|||Yup, discovered the ignore list for the first time yesterday. It helps a lot :)  Go to settings--->edit ignore list (one of the options on the left side list) and then type in user name. It will...|||:laughing::laughing::laughing:|||lol yeah, I'm pretty sure 90% of my INTJ-INTJ relationship is being goofy af together and he's the instigator.|||Yeah, had a long-term crush INFP person. We had a really nice friendship and kind of a magnetic vibe with each other. Lots of understand without saying things moments, especially humor...we could...|||Current: INTJ and it is swell Ideal: ??? I never really had a specific MBTI type in mind. Probably INTJ or ENTJ. Maaayyybbeee a stable INFP.|||If it was info that was related to me, then I'd be insanely curious internally. Otherwise, I don't really care - they have their reasons and it's not for me to dig into. I also don't deal with...|||This thread right now..   https://media.giphy.com/media/4pMX5rJ4PYAEM/giphy.gif|||I answered about my family make up on the ask INTJ thread. Basically, INTJ dad, ESFJ mom, me (INTJ), ISTP sister, INFP sister.  I'd say my family is 3/10 dysfunctional. As for what other people...|||I am the oldest of 3 girls. I get along really well with my sisters, we've never really had any serious fights or issues. My ISTP sister (middle) and I are especially close, we lived together for...|||I don't even know how to use tumblr. So, no. ? lol   I guess what you're asking is if I molded myself to fit the INTJ description after I tested as an INTJ. I would say, no, I did not. I answered...|||Unrelated to prior posting, just related to thread topic:  - it's all gonna go wrong paralysis. I don't like. :/ Hoping to get a work visa within my profession to work in/move to the UK. The...|||lol well I am a female INTJ with a male INTJ and I can assure you I'm not some uptight bitchy manipulative person who performs power plays and has no softness to me. In fact, I'm pretty sure the...|||:shocked:  But also lol you sound like me. I remember random detailed things about people I have seen around but don't know as well. Have had an awkward time or two.|||Ehhhh I *could* but I think I'd feel a little like bllaaaahh if I had to pander to their special little way they accept/want apologies. If it was a one time thing and I could tell that apologizing...|||We tend to get along and have a connection at first, but then inevitably end up in this weird cycle where they have a lot of, IMO, idealistic views of life or situations and I just can't validate/go...|||Pretty much never. I can't even recall a time where I was like ..AND THEY DIDN'T EVEN SAY SORRY. I don't think I think/care enough about apologies. As others said, I suppose changing behavior is...|||I do a variety of grape eyes of surprise but mine goes with an oop! :P|||I try to avoid them for the most part. If it's a topic or thing I really enjoy, I'll deal with it but other than that, no. Like the state fair where I live is a big deal and everyone's like omg you...|||Saw this similar one floating around the internets the other day...made me laugh:  699138|||So far, not really. We're both INTJs and kind of at the same pace/vibe so when we have spent large amounts of time together it's felt pretty ok. We have some similar interests that we can do together...|||:sad:|||I concur that this is something everyone does.. cost-benefit is generally why people choose to do things at all, whether it's conscious or not. A situation/action/direction either rewarding enough...|||1. What wakes you up most mornings (alarm, pets, kids, etc.)? During the work year, my alarm. During summers off, my body's natural sleep cycle. If my window is open and I'm awake enough to hear...|||Depends how busy the vacation was and who I was with. If I was totally on my own for the vacation - yeah probably at least one check-in or text a day, if not more. If I went somewhere special,...|||Interesting..yeah, I can't separate out like that. Like, I don't even note people's attractiveness in general at all...it doesn't even register across my mind. My INTJ SO does, he'll comment on a...'