'Indeed. My fiance (INTJ) and I corresponded through email when we met in high school. I had an inkling that it was developing into something more, and every now and then he was emotionally open and...|||I actually just posted about this on another thread before I even reached this one! In the past (even recent, yes), it was easy for me to mistake deep connecting feelings for romantic feelings. I...|||Thanks for sharing! I think one thing that can be really confusing to other types about ENFPs is that we have the capacity to care for a lot of people at once and treat most people like they are...|||As a kid, I was extroverted and enjoyed being around people. I also got into trouble a lot for mischievous behavior and rule-breaking. I'd sneak out of the apartment or head outside without...|||I'm not terribly sure I can say that there is much that sets me apart. I think for an ENFP, I'm fairly objective and quite pensive. I think that may be because my Te is well-developed. I'm good at...|||Thank you so much.|||Of course! All free to apply :) Also, not apply, just pm. It's not a job interview :D|||Hey all! I was piddling my way through the forums and types when I realized: I don't have a single INFJ in my life! I figured my life would be much fuller if I could find one (or a few) INFJ penpals...|||I don't think you're a coward. I do think that it is unhealthy to pursue someone who is actively avoiding you or not answering you, though. Maybe there is a reason for it, like he's going through...|||I'm sure they like you now. And if they don't, that's their loss, right? It takes a lot of chutzpah to admit wrongdoing and to ask for advice.  I agree with you about underdeveloped types. Most of...|||Hi! I used to have a close friend who I think was an ISFP. Back in high school we had a complicated relationship. I didn't realize how manipulative I was with her (it was unintentional), and...|||Same. It burns worse than a UTI. Why do you think that is? Do you think it's an ENFP thing, or just an extrovert thing?|||In my experiences, being an ENFP has its benefits. We're the kind of people that others want to be around for fun. The kind of people that employers want to smooth things over with irate customers,...|||Hi there numbtopain,  Halfway through what you're writing, and I promise I'll finish it all, but I have to ask you: do you feel like he respects you? I think that a relationship should be between...|||Thanks so much for saying this. I do agree with you, the pain is there. Eventually it becomes a dull ache and then fades away once you realize you can live an even more full life without fear of an...|||1. What is your current (possibly former) religion? 2. What would you choose your alternative religion to be? Try to avoid just changing denominations or sects.  3. Why? 4. Why isn't it your...|||I think the standards you set for yourself are good. If you feel uncomfortable going beyond the second date with other people, then I don't think you should push yourself to do something you find...|||Thanks for the response! It's a great forum, one of the more userfriendly ones I've seen. Hope to hear more from you!|||What do you mean by specifically first dates? Do you mean having multiple people on a date with you? It might become a bit complicated to form a relationship with multiple people at once.|||Hi! A good place to start would be the ISFP forum, which you can find under Community>Keirsey Temperament Forums>SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators.  Hope this helps!|||Hi PotatoPen! Welcome to the site! What type of writing do you do? I dabble in poetry and I've been trying to remain motivated so that I can finally complete a novel. I have a mass of ideas that...|||Hey, thanks! Feel free to pm me if you're interesting in more than small talk. I certainly am. The forum was a bit more active two years ago.|||Industrial/Organizational psychology. So you work with people in a workplace setting and with companies to make their employees more productive. I'm not currently on that track myself, though, but it...|||Hi, Sailor Star here. It's been months and months since I've been on this forum. Yet I keep coming back to it. ENFP, 21, f, just wanting to chat about anything from entertainment to adventure. I love...|||Haven't been on this forum in a while and decided to stop by, make friends. Honestly, feeling a bit lonely but trying to distract myself with games and music. The pool was closed today, so a bit...|||Hi! Thank you for your welcome! I love Sailor Moon. I used to watch it as a kid with my mother. Sailor Mercury is the most mature out of the Sailor Guardians, I admire that she is content with so...|||I really love your name. Aurora Light.  Anyway, yes it's good to be practical in order to achieve your dreams. I decided to become a counselor; there is a place in the area that allows counselors...|||Thanks! I look forward to the same. What are you up to these days, Hiimhere?|||I think Pinkie still remains an ENFP in my book. ENFPs can be organized in a way only they understand, and Pinkie displays this sort of chaotic organization. As an ENFP I can relate to her; I only...|||That's okay! Thank you and nice to meet you! I like your avatar. Reminds me of a music video I saw (The Shrine/An Argument by Fleet Foxes).|||K-Pax with Kevin Spacey. Honestly the best movie I have ever seen. I recommend it to you, if you're a fan of psychological thrillers.|||Hi there! I am Sailor Star, or just Star if you prefer (Yes, that is an homage to Sailor Moon^^). I am an ENFP looking to make some new friends. Currently a Psychology major at a local community...|||I've been through some absolutely crazy shiz. Seriously. Argued with my ex and he called me a terrible person (BK takes one to know one, dah-link), actually have a LDR now (which I SWORE I'd never...|||Where have you been!? D: I've been waiting for you :P|||What a strange coincidence; I am also an ENFP/INFP hybrid and a 4w3.|||What do you mean how he treats females on the show? I haven't heard about this! Is there an article you can link me to on it?|||1) It's a definite must-see.  2) My favorite has to be supreme. What about yours?  3) I don't know of any, but my aunt is an ISFJ? Guess we still have something in common, though.  4) Well....|||1) I have seen Friends and it was funny, but I haven't seen How I Met Your Mother.  2) Hm, no but I used to play violin. And I was good at it, but I gave it up because I got bored. I may be...|||Ooh, questions!  1) K-Pax, with Kevin Spacey.   2) Pizza, but I love Chinese and Italian food.  3) I types of any kind. I also have a habit of looking too far into things, so Ss are quite...|||1) Friends^^  2) Same here.  3) Yay! :P  4) Of course^^  5) I'm not terribly jealous. I'm not really into that, strangely.|||1) I like both because I have both. My cat's name is Oreo, and my puppy's name is Lucy (she's a muggin, a mini-pincer/pug mix). Cats love me for some reason, though.  2) I would probably talk to...|||1) Very well, my OCD friend. I shall fill in the empty spaces, for your sake.   2) Yes, I would fancy to try something new. :) I'll give it a listen. I'm listening to it now. It's pretty awesome....|||2) Ooh, electronica and dance. I enjoy that, too, but I don't really know anything on the topic. Music is music to me. If it sounds beautiful, then it speaks to me.  4) You're going to enjoy it. ...|||2) I love rock. Indie. I avoid rap and only listen to mainstream hits when I need to dance and feel good. Breaking Benjamin, 10 Years, Foo Fighters, Daughter, Mumford and Sons, and most 90's...|||1) Oh noes! Irony /and/ a pun! This is too much for me. Seriously, though, it tastes better in a fruit salad. With sugar.  2) No, I love breasts. Mine especially.  3) New things keep life fun and...|||Gah, I give up on the quote things. Too much work. Gonna number my responses and yours.  1) It's still bitter and not something I could eat on a daily basis.  2) Yeah. You're a J so you...|||They actually taste pretty good with sugar.     Yes, definitely not a fan. But that might be because I'm a control freak, and any instances where I don't have control over a situation is like...|||That's not the point of the statement; what I meant was that somewhere out there someone is relying on you, someone is waiting for you to touch their heart and neither of you know it yet. Things...|||Wow, those are beautiful eyes! They actually do look like ENFP eyes to me, but that's because one of my best friends has an eye color similar to yours and she is an ENFP. They have that wise look in...|||You know what I absolutely hate? I hate when someone says we need to  talk about something and asks you to meet them later to talk about it. I  hate being caught off-guard with things. Tell me what...'