'So guys, I am here again. Everything is going rather smoothly with my ENFJ, but for the last week he has been super busy and stressed about everything. Well, I've just tagged along and endured it -...|||^@Allthelittlelights & ThirdArcade  Thank you, guys. :) You really soothed my feelings and everything went fine. You ENFJ-people are seriously amazing. ♥|||The ENFJ I mentioned earlier is now officially my boyfriend. :) I am so thankful and happy.  Tomorrow the holiday will start, I'll get to see my family and everything is pretty well overall.|||So! I am now the happy girlfriend of an ENFJ. We spent an amazing night together a couple of days ago and everything was fantastic and I was really, really happy. Before we did anything we talked...|||My crush told me yesterday he had thought about holding my hand during our evening together. Well, that is not as good as the actual thing, but hey, he has thought about it at least.|||Hmm.  So. I've been messaging this ENFJ guy now for three weeks straight and things are going rather well. We both initiate conversations, we message each other pretty much constantly, he asks lots...|||Well, actually this sounds pretty cool. :) I think it will work out a step by step - so thank you! ^_^|||So guys.  Last week I spent some amazing quality time with an ENFJ guy. We had fun, we talked together, we worked together. I made a nice surprise gift for him before he left the city for the...|||So, here we go...  I've had a crush on an INFJ-guy for ten years. I have had relationships during that time, but every single time my life brings me to see him everyone else seems vague and I've...|||Thank you for your answer, it cleared my mind out a bit. He might not be kissing me because I've been too clingy and he has so many other worries, too - because he still wants to have sex with me...|||Okay, so.  I've been with my ISTP for half a year now - first 5 months were quite happy, although sometimes he was more distant for a week or maybe even for two, and then he came back and...|||http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m18jt0zi9v1rp32b4o1_500.png http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4y3k0wkFv1rvm063o1_500.jpg http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mcp6qtpXu31r42qyuo1_500.gif...|||I usually love mornings, but sometimes I have to do evening shifts at work, so I won't get bed early. Today has been a great morning, though, so maybe the day will be good as well.    Aww. :/ Get...|||You could tryscheduling your work. I don't mean scheduling as in deadlines, but more like deciding forehand when you want to have little breaks and when you are going to work. For example, when you...|||I should read for my exams (it seems I should be doing that every time I visit PerC), but instead I've played Dota 2 for the whole morning, had a nice shower and relaxed. I had a though evening at...|||Memories.|||I just ordered three lovely corsets, so I'd love to get them already. Then again, international shipping seems to take quite long time, so I'll just have to wait.|||Freedom.|||Should you do something but you don't seem to be able to start? Are you lazily reading PerC instead of reading for those exams or going to gym? Are you stuck with a project and avoid even thinking...|||I'd recommend Tarsem's The Fall, it is glorious. Visually stunning, the plot is carefully designed and in a way it is a lighter version of Pan's Labyrinth, which I didn't like as much, though. The...|||I like sad endings, too. But mostly I love endings that are complicated the way the life is complicated, for example in The Hunger Games (won't spoil it, though) and Trainspotting, for example. The...|||Yup, this is in general the best advice I've got, I think. Instead of waiting and worrying I should continue my life and trust him to do the same and when we are together again, enjoy that time and...|||I've had that greener pasture problem as well, but now that I've been together with nine different boys during the last nine years it seems I'm starting to get over it. I know what I want (and...|||Well, I kind of understand that, because what is the point of giving gifts if you don't really think about whether they are suitable or not? Okay, sometimes birthday gifts and things like that are...|||Red as the Fall and the leaves she burned: you left after summer and never returned.  (I know it quite isn't an adjective, but you can use it as one.)|||I'm straight in the middle of INFP and ENFP, so this shouldn't be too difficult for me, but still - I don't think I had more fun if I pretended to be someone else than I am. Okay, sometimes I'd love...|||Oh, I've had 9 boyfriends in my life and not a single break-up has been easy or easily forgettable, even though the last two have been particularly bad: earlier, because I finally thought I had found...|||He is coming back next Thursday already. ^_^ Of course he'll leave again, but for now I couldn't be happier.|||My seafarer was supposed to be at sea for 4 more weeks, but he is coming back to me next Thursday already. ^_^|||66786 66787 66788 66789|||o/ I wish you have a better day in general. :)  I don't really want to go to work (though my workday is only four hours today), and getting out of bed was really, really difficult, but now I'm...|||In Finland we don't generally have small talk at all.|||...have been feeling a bit down for the last four days. Oh give me a break already, I want to be bright and happy and creative already again.|||I got ISTP and luckily my beloved is ISTP. ^_^ So yay.|||That's an interesting way of seeing it. :) I don't quite understand it (as I'm thinking completely differently), but I can respect your opinion anyway as it is the way you feel/think.|||Why? (No need to tell if you don't feel like you'd want to, though.)  I'm feeling lonely and a bit down in the dumps, but maybe it would pass if I'd start writing instead of procrastinating...|||Um, geisha balls, but just because my friend asked how to use those and I really didn't have any idea what to tell her.|||- A nice, warm bath. - A big cup of good tea. - Time to read something else than books for my exams. - Inspiration. - Most of all I'd love to be able to curl up next to my boyfriend and sleep...|||Mine is here, it's mostly full of little details and beautiful quotes and things I find inspirating with a dash of my personal thoughts and ideas. I'm an XNFP.|||Oh yes! All of those are things I've considered for my ISTP as well (for Christmas I gave him a gift card with various options containing megazone, catapult jumping, bungee jumping and so on so he...|||Why don't you? (If there is no reason, that's okay too, but I'd like to know.)|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&amp;v=JvxHPtEsmFc  I found this from the INFJ porn thread and started crying, so I had to share it here as well.|||Hi guys!  You have a topic for giving gifts, but what kind of gifts do you like to receive? My boyfriend is coming back from the sea after four weeks and I'd like to get something nice for him, so...|||I would like to write a novel for Camp NaNoWriMo, but I don't seem to able to get an idea. :/ I have a few threads I could follow but none of them seems to be interesting enough and I need real...|||I'm borderline ENFP/INFP and I'm definitely a Hufflepuff. And proud of it. (In a modest way. Um.)|||Having a day-off from work, spending time with my siblings, sunny weather, messages from my beloved seafarer, beginning of Camp NaNoWriMo and good big cup of coffee.|||Your advice made me laugh,  so it worked fantastically. ♥ Thank you! And I love cookies and  beautiful loneliness and kidnapping (oops!), so this was a perfect  thing.    AWESOME. ♥|||In true ENFP fashion, I feel like giving you a cup of hot chocolate, taking you to the cinema and sending you encouraging words. You will survive and everything is going to get better.|||First of all, what a lovely signature you've got! :) But yeah, you are right - talking to him is essential. Luckily we've done quite a lot of that during the last days (only in Face and via sms...|||Pet would be great, but currently I'm living in a small apartment with two other girls, so it would be a bit difficult to have one. We are going to get a dog in the future, though, so maybe it helps...'