'HI all, I'm an INFJ whose brother has just lost a very very close friend of 26 years. My brother looked after him (the friend had motor-neuron disease) for the last 3 years and was with him right up...|||wow, if i was into  guy and he did that he'd be history, INFJs are true romantics, didnt you know that? Valentines day of all days, how could you? Doh!   quote: Really, it sounds like you're...|||IMO what you are 'suffering' from here is a typical enneagram 4 thing. I have it too to some extent,  or did, the enneagram really helped me. As soon as i realised that the 4 feels flawed, deep down,...|||interesting topic for me, as i had a plan while back to 'pitch' myself to an INTJ who runs a business. He employs about 30 people. I had in mind to become his 'apprentice'  and learn all aspects of...|||Hey, hint to gals who baulk at mascara; get your lashes tinted! that's what i do, about every 3 weeks if i'm in caring mode... you can then do the lash curler and clear mascara if you want, but lash...|||I don't drink very often at all nowadays but will get tipsy now and again, usually a social occasion, but sometimes just at home alone i will have a glass or two. I have a family history of...|||the ESFJS in my life do the following: ummm... endlessly bore on about trivial crap, could be about some random person/event and they will go into endless detail so then he said, blah blah, then i...|||Fi.  I'm not a mindreader. I have upset INFPs and ISFPs and to this day i dont even know what I did or said to make them turn off me. Even whe i ask, they wont say. It shits me no end.|||i would say i'm all three, depending on the circumstances.|||1) 'op-shopping' (thrift shopping) i always say even if i won a lottery i would still do this!  2) playing loud music while driving, preferably countryside driving, i always have big selection on...|||embedding doesnt work for me, i dont see any button for video, but anyway:  The Seekers (live, 1999) - When the Stars begin to Fall - YouTube|||I'm sending one to John Cassavetes up in heaven :)|||random selection, many omissions  Lee Ingleby  in 'Nature Boy many INFP male actors including Sean Penn, Philip Seymour Hoffman, Heath Leger, loads more...  the guy who plays Quin in Homeland...|||when i was a kid, my family would go for picnics in the countryside; it was typically a river with 'bush' (woods, forest) all around, maybe a gorge....so anyway, quite a few times I'd find myself...|||Dear INFP. for the first time in 4 years you get NO VALENTINE FROM ME, nor ever again.  over your endless passive aggressive crap, and i hope you do turn up tomorrow just so i can blank you.|||I just saw the most beautiful film, a documentary, that I cant stop thinking about.  It's called   THIS WAY OF LIFE   and was made here in New Zealand.  I'd been very keen to see it after...|||I don't think my sex drive is that high these days so I'm probably a demisexual?  One of my preferences is for sex outdoors, in nature setting.  Have tried many things  and agree variety is good to...|||smart (well i topped my class all through school with little effort so maybe...) creative (work in creative fields, always have)  an eccentric   Not sure why I get called eccentric.  I don't ...|||ESFJ mum, and sister.....meh, can barely get along unless i keep it reaaaaalllly superficial. . Even after i have explained to them the difference between introversion ad extraversion they have no...|||'The Windhover' is one of the few poems I've ever memorised by heart, first heard it on 'the Waltons '!  i like many many poets but i urge all INFJs to check out Rainer Maria Rilke especially in...|||HI all, Whilst I am not exactly losing sleep over this issue, I wonder if any ENFPs can advise? thanks. Well i have this ENFP male friend, not a close friend exactly, but we have a lot of mutual...|||I had to doorslam an ESFJ a year or two ago for similar BS. No regrets.  In the  last coupla weeks Ive had to do same to a pushy bossy overbearing ENFJ who decided that im some kind of pushover that...|||i read a good method to try for ppl that test ad get differing results each time. Try answering the test (i used this one) Personality test based on C. Jung and I. Briggs Myers type theory  and...|||years Ago I loved the french film 'Rendezvous by Andre Techine, I think it came out in the 80s and starred Juliette Binoche and Lambert Wilson.   I also enjoyed the 2 of the '3 colours' trilogy...|||well I went out with an ENTP and although he wasnt ideal boyfriend material, we got together cos of having intense and vibrant conversations from the minute we met. He is UBER-intelligent and madly,...|||just watched 'Brideshead revisited'  again...so good except for the crazy BAD ending! haha  'The Forsyth Saga' with Damian lewis as Soames was fantastic!|||I just pushed a couple of films onto a mate to watch, both fantastic IMO 'American Beauty' was one, and 'IN My Father's Den' was the other, but these are just chosen from DVDs that I own (not many)...|||well I'm realatively new to MBTI and I'm relying mainly on me typing them, and sometimes years after, but  have had serious relationships with at least 2 INFPs and fell hard for another but it went...|||my mother is ESFJ and our relationship has always been rocky. she likes to micromanage my life (at MYAGE!!) my ESFJ sister i fell out badly with, twice now, and i still find she wants to argue over...|||I love Tiramisu too, or any soft squishy desserty thing. I like fudge too. I try and avoid these things for the most part, like just not buy them, and i usually dont even keep sugar in my very sparse...|||speaking as a well into middleaged woman, never married, no children (by choice), and only 2 pretty lame relationships in the last 15 years, yes I am thinking I am bound to be alone. It used to...|||sad topic for me...well I was really really keeeeen on this INFP guy i met 3 years ago, from the second i met him, it was like POW!  to cut along story short, i made a massive hash of pursuing him...|||Ok well I'm dog mad and I am onto my third poodle of my life. She sleeps in my bed, as did the others , i try and take her everywhere with me. She's scruffy and I groom her myself, (she don't wear...|||the only person I would ever want to swap lives with,  Tilda Swinton,  turns out to be INFJ, she's my big girl-crush :)  (OTOH I never could stand Nicole Kidman, go figure!)  i have massive...|||lots of INFPs on that list afaik, Cobain, Depp (?) et al. but thanks|||my dad is INTP and I'd be surprised if Jung was INTP; Jung's interests and topics were so BROAD.... arent INTps meant to be more narrow in focus/interest?  another thing; Jung's writings really...|||in New Zealand, cant see any other INFjs here, but would love to meet up if you are here, ay kiwis :)|||ive been in volved indirectly in a lawsuit brought by an ENTJ...he has a cause, has kind of cast himself as a knight in shining armour that has ridden in and rescued some guy that he thinks has been...|||awww, this reminded me of something that happened a long time ago...my INFP ex BF phoned me in another country, out of the blue, crying, and said i just want things to go back to how they were...|||PS the girl you feel guilty about from the past, why not write her a letter (as in not expecting any reply) and just tell her the truth; that you feel bad still bout how you treated her. Dont expect...|||wow, i can also relate to much of what you've said. I was in a similar headspace for maybe 18 months of the last 2 years and have been in various similar circumstances at various times. here's my 2...|||well, i can let mess pile up at times but after a while it really gets to me, looking at squalour, so Ill have a big cleanup and feel fantastic , i try and have a place for everything and to be more...|||Stephen Mitchell's translations of Rilke are amazing too and I'd highly recommend Rilke to all INFJs  thanks for the pointer anyway, will check it out. i enjoy the I Ching and Jung was right into...|||I cant say making friends was a problem in childhood, and I still am friends with my besties from high school days; they live away from me but when we catch up its always just taking up as if we saw...|||media beat-ups over s**t that really does not matter!|||I have recently discovered the joys of gardening... also, drinking great coffee, reading/browsing all kinds of books and magazines, op-shopping (thrift-shopping) I never tire of this, not only for...|||i have felt for many years that as humans we all have both good and evil in us. I feel that introverts look at themselves and see that, maybe more than say, some extrovert types would.  It's like,...|||Gotta say i do know one ESFJ guy aNd hes a doll, would help anyone, seems a decent human being. Having said that i loath 4 ESFJ females. Really hate them. Manipulative, gameplayers the lot of em, and...|||Lordy, just watched 'real housewives of orange county' omg they seem to be all that is worst in ESFJs!!!!! Ugh,|||Damien Lewis, actor, anyone? man he floats my boat! Hahah'