'I think that it would very difficult to be honest. My father is an ENTJ (i'm an ENFP) and i know a few ENTJ's, so I know what they can be like, both healthy and unhealthy.  They place a high...|||@shedreamt  I think I know what you're talking about. I agree that guys are socially conditioned to be 'performers' or leaders (even in social situations). I think male confidence is valued way...|||1. I'm saying this to my 15 year old self:  You're a likeable, funny and intelligent person and any time you feel like you aren't, you're wrong. In the next few years you are going to feel like...|||I remember when I was about 10 or so I was staying at my uncle's house with my cousins. We were all sitting in a room downstairs and then suddenly a big cockroach scurried across the floor. My cousin...|||@shedreamt  Yeah I definitely know that feeling when someone appreciates your talents. I remember that my mother asked me to sing and play guitar at her 50th birthday last year. I initially said...|||Can you give an example? This sounds interesting :P|||Have to agree so much with these two. Especially the good night out one. An amazing night leaves me filled up for days!|||I had an experience the other day that got me thinking about the personal pleasures that ENFP's have.   I was put into a group for a college assignment. We decided to have a group 'meeting' to...|||Yeah i was bullied when I first entered highschool (12yrs old). People used to tease me about the length of my hair (it was like this, minus the pussy-slayer staredown...|||Yeah definitely when I was younger. When I was between 11-16 I was very easily manipulated and feared conflict more than anything. I still hate conflict, but dem NF values man.|||Yeah, I have to echo what the others are saying, you were just incompatible with this guy.  I'm quite a touchy-feely person in relationships, and the reason I do it comes from a genuine desire for...|||you're welcome!    I definitely think this is a good idea. Remind yourself that helping other people with their issues isn't your duty, it's just something that you should do if you feel that you...|||Brilliant post. You summed it up very elegantly.   @LostTheMarbles- It seems like you're someone who is significantly empathic, so naturally you are going to feel very drained by people who are...|||I'd just ask them to turn off the lights :P|||Conan O'Brien. I know there's been debate on whether conan is an NF or not. (i think it's a war between him being an ENTP and ENFP), but he's always seemed like an NF to me.   I have a lot of...|||Great thread.  1. You have the chance to meet someone with whom you have the most  satisfying love imaginable- the stuff of dreams. Sadly, you know that in  six months the person will die. Knowing...|||That sounds like a really nice thing to do! But i have to echo what some of the other people are saying about this:  If you like him (romantically) and you are trying to use this as a way for him...|||Exactly!|||Sure.  Being direct just means making your intentions (wanting to hook up) clear and being unafraid of rejection. It's easy for us to go 80% of the way with a girl by being fun and playful etc and...|||I used to be unsure of how to deal with situations like that too, but I eventually got past it.  In situations where hugging *may* be awkward or draw attention, i just dive right into it and almost...|||I'm can be very self-deprecating too, i just hate it when anyone else does it hahah  And it's never just me who gets pranked (i actually get fucked with very little by my friends), which is why i...|||This has always been something i've been pretty awful at. I don't know why, but I really struggle to laugh at myself.  I'll explain what i mean.  The other day i was with a small group of close...|||If it is a person causing the anger towards you, then you need to talk about it imo.  The reason you are angry (if someone has done something to you) is that you feel that one of your personal...|||Thanks very much for the posts in this thread, i really appreciate it :happy:|||did you snap out of it one day or did it just slowly fade away until it was completely gone?|||that is exactly what is is like. If you don't mind me asking, what are the thugs that you figured out since that period in your life?|||Hey guys, bit of a personal post here (I know how my fellow enfp's hate that so much)  I developed depersonalization disorder about 3 years ago after an experience with smoking weed. Basically I...|||aw don't say that! Of COURSE you will have sex with someone that you love! How old are you?|||Hey man, sorry that you've gotten yourself into this mindset. It sounds like you are feeling pretty shit right about now. :(  First of all, it sounds like you are pretty young (i think you...|||Yeah i've had one-night-stands before and they generally leave me feeling pretty empty too. I am also start to fear that they might want more then just sex and then i feel guilty for putting myself...|||I agree with @LostTheMarbles, there's nothing wrong with reaching out to others.  Keep in mind, there's a few variables with your situation. How old are you? what are the problems you are going...|||I'm not exactly sure what you're trying to say here?. (and it's okay  i'm not gonna take it personally) Thanks for the post though  @Mugino Shizuri Thanks a lot!      @laurie17I will do...|||@default settings   Thanks for the post i like this idea:     @Eustache   Thanks for your post too, i really appreciate the effort :)|||@ManWithoutHats   Holy mother of fuck! Thank you so much for putting so much effort into that post. I'm actually shocked lol (in a good way)    I have  tried to do this, but he swears that...|||Hey guys,  I'm a 21 year old ENFP and i have an 18 year old INTJ brother. We get on quite well and share a lot of the same interests (comedians, video games, movies etc). But my brother is VERY...|||I don't believe in a particular 'religious' notion of God (Allah etc) but i do believe that God, in one form or another, exists. I have no idea if there are 'numbers' of Gods|||Someone asks you something simple like   do you think not texting back after a full day is rude?   PERECEPTION/DON'T BE A HYPOCRITE INTERNAL DIALOGUE MODE ENGANGED  (inside your head) ...|||Like a baby...EVERY FUCKING TIME!   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qX9FSZJu448|||Great idea for a thread :)  I always listen to ricky gervais laughing when i'm down. It's like ice cream for the soul  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KwvCI6NOFls|||THIS. hahahahahahaha   Also,  What do you mean you want to wait until next week to skydive?|||A face to call home - John Mayer   yehhhhhhhhhhhhhh John Mayer!|||yay!|||hahah|||Why thank you, i knitted it myself :D  And in answer to your post,   Firstly, he liked you before he started helping you through your troubles, he told you and you didn't reflect those feelings...|||Hey guys,  I've been interested in MBTI for quite a while now and lurked for ages. I've never met another ENFP before (well, i've never been certain), and certainly not another ENFP guy. I seem to...|||Cheating is a big no-no for me. If someone cheats on me then they are OUT! I crush and ignore the feeling of giving them a second chance because it's not something i could ever really get over. ...|||-Feeling like you are being controlled by someone or something.  -People talking about me negatively and judging me behind my back and then finding out about it later|||Look, this thread is just a waste of time.  Simply put, you can only be one way if you want to succeed in the world. I'm not going to waste my time pretending to be someone i'm not just so i can...|||i think nickleback has some good songs|||Some great ones in this thread!  Everyone is talking about what an ass you made of yourself last night when you got drunk  Apparently you really creeped her out  You're such a hypocrite ...'