'Wow! That's really cool! (after I tell them about themselves after knowing them for only a few minutes) Can you teach me that?! You're scary when your angry.|||Top 5 Characteristics 1. Loyalty to something that has great meaning in his life 2. Honesty, even when the truth hurts 3. Life's Student 4. Tolerant and believes in the concept of coexist 5....|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UE5vhrDnVZA|||ah no ... I've never entertained the thought of suicide. Blah! Makes one miss out on what's just around the corner.|||I disappear or isolate myself when I can't have my own space. My mind kicks in on the Thought Wheel and spins up all kinds of things until I snap out of it.|||yeah, for the past 2-3 years I've been hoping all existence would cease. Then we'd have no more corruption, hopelessness, selfishness, lying, manipulation, etc. I've lost hope in people I've tried to...|||What does one do when they find a local INFJ type at work, and you start talking about interesting things. Then they stop coming to work, call in sick, and don't reply to anyone's phone calls, texts,...|||Drowning I had one dream of that I recall. I was in a pool and no one else was around. In my dream my foot got stuck on something under the water and I wasn't able to release it. I remember feeling...|||Call me a little bit selfish; but when I go out of my way a lot of the time to help people with whatever I can, I would like some help sometimes too. Instead I end up resenting people because no one...|||Certainly ...   When I was in my teens, for example, I've dreamed about many ways of dying and felt every bit of it. I've no idea why I dreamed of dying, but name the way and I could probably...|||it's either or for me also. Either I throw a public temper tantrum and cuss everything out and tell the universe I hate it, or I close down and become disconnected. I wish there was a middle ground...|||I have several crosses on my palms.|||I think that being an INFJ throughout life gives us a different way of perceiving things. Life may not be AS traumatic as with other people experiencing the same thing, we just take it more...|||Well, it seems to be one of my mental habits to constantly think about death and mortality.  When I was in my teens, for example, I've dreamed about many ways of dying and felt every bit of it....|||I think that the idea of why we are here is a consequence that comes along with sentient consciousness. Animals (who have some level of sentience and consciousness) don't go around wondering why...|||I don't stick to the labels very well, but I do find my own thought patterns and behaviors in the INFJ and ENFJ posts.|||Personally, I don't believe in this ADD / ADHD thing. We all think differently, and we shouldn't be herded into thinking like everyone else. We function on a different level, that's all. Now if our...|||I have the same issues. And as for venting - if you can't vent here, then you can't vent anywhere. You're among those who sympathize. *hug*|||I have 3 facebooks ... one for one group of people, one for writing groups, and one for family and very close friends.|||hehe all neat answers ...|||hehe I like the volcano idea ... and the icon ...|||What if ... (I know, everyone's favorite beginning)  A person had a very old stone artifact that was used in ancient times for blood rituals. One day, they decide they don't want it anymore, but...|||yeah my imagination sticks its foot into the information mix from time to time. :D|||Today I finally told a few members of my family why I don't trust them with knowing me. Was it a bad thing to do? Basically, they twist whatever someone tells them into negative gossip, even good...|||when I was growing up all I wanted was acknowledgement and understanding. Never yell at an infj, we feel majorly injured and may not forgive easily and end up lashing out later when you least expect...|||biological: 46 years I feel: 20 years I think like a: 60 years I look: 35 years I act: 10 years some times, but mostly I act like I think ... 60|||I seem to hurt everyone who loves me ... shall I count the ways? Hell, I don't even intend to do it.|||Frustrated: money Anxious: money, family Distant: family Happy: best friend support Stressed: everything else|||my shadow side often lures people in until they trust me, then I seem to dissolve all contact and move on to a new person to discover. This leaves the previous person in a mess and hating me for it....|||the world is full of idiots that simply don't get it. All they seem to want is drama. I want real people with real thoughts and ideas, and who are able to discuss them without getting all emotional...|||even though you find the best forum around, you still find yourself wondering off to go do something else for a while before coming back in weeks or months later.|||Thanks all ... good suggestions|||I would love a library job. The work I do at the moment is temp work. A certain company likes me enough to keep calling me back every Quarter End (3 months) to help process accounting stuff. I don't...|||Hala - yes often. I feel the emotions of other people around me and often mistake it for my own until I stop to think about why I should feel a certain way. When I can't find a reason, then I know...|||I am extremely picky also. I look for intelligence, open mindedness, people who like discussing science, philosophy, and spirituality rather than petty gossip and Oh my clothes ... (prance about)....|||My personal family history has been with me wanting to have another family, because I never felt I belonged with the one I had. I've even tried severing connections a few times, but they keep tugging...|||I .. really ... liked that video. Transhumanism has been of interest to me for some time. Over the past years I've come to think that what humanity does to itself is a shame; we come to think of it...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HRerwXWTRjM|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wUZuV0xce3A|||LOL They already act like a married couple|||Hello ... I'm hoping someone on here could provide some insight on a mundane matter. Namely, I am looking for a job that I would fit best in (INFJ - sensitive to bosses that constantly change their...|||I used to mirror everyone around me and picked up on pieces of their personality. I don't so much anymore, perhaps I 'absorbed' as much as I was ever going to, who knows.|||one of my dreams is to finish off the remainder of my years hiking the Appalachian Trail. No money, have only what I need, be in the midst of nature, and take the trail North to South to North again...|||I've stopped trying to figure people out and what they want. They seem confused as to what they want from others. for example, they want nice people ... bu to be nice is also weak and they don't...|||I've been going through this as well, especially when I'm working. I find that social norms are overly greedy, self-centered, gossipy, rude, etc etc etc these days, and I don't like what I see. To...|||I usually wake up with a positive outlook in the morning, but by the end of the day I feel like I suck as a human being no matter what I do. Then I go to bed feeling like the effort of communication...|||I used to watch horror movies ALL the time. Now I'm desensitized and they bore me to death. Psychological thrillers though, they keep my interest. I like feeling the emotions produced in those. It's...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=00KM53yZi2A|||Kill ... the bird ... bad bird|||meh, screw spalling ... it's the idea that counts, right?'