'Fair enough, if that's how you want to look at it. Like I stated before, they were incredibly naive in their comments... However, they think those are things that would help us because those are the...|||For myself, MBTI serves as a source of self reflection and an opportunity to better myself. Therefore, when an opportunity to gain insight on what are things that I may be able to improve upon, I...|||I think this article is a lot more helpful if one views it as 22 people share one thing they think would make the intj they know life's easier  And it would probably help a lot of you negative...|||At the very least, it's good that you bail when you see that it's going nowhere. As far as a relationship with an ESFP would be, there is absolutely a lot of growth potential. I've dated one, and it...|||I think a large part of this is our tendency, as introverts, to look for fewer, but especially meaningful relationships. As much of a misanthrope that I am, I have a very large desire to have at...|||Teasing? No thank you. Mind games? No thank you. Playing devil's advocate? No thank you. Trying to push my buttons to see how far I can go? No thank you.  Maybe I take myself too seriously, but...|||Yup.|||Snow Patrol - Crack the Shutters Gorillaz - Melancholy Hill Arctic Monkeys - Wanna be yours Tegan and Sara - Call it off Elliot Smith - Between the bars Dan Auerbach - Whispered Words  These...|||How do I act? Really irritable and pretty ovbiously pissed off. I like to solve stuff like that asap though so I will...  1.Realize that I am angry/sad/disappointed/insert feeling here. 2.Think...|||Father - ISTJ Mother - INFJ Brother - ESTP  Myself - INTJ|||I love ENTPs! Get along really well with them, especially one on one (less so in large groups because they tend to be too hyperactive). They usually have really great insights which I appreciate and...|||Grew up speaking English and Hungarian.  I've been casually learning French (live in Canada) for years, trying to take it more seriously from now on.|||NFs (especially INFJs), xNTPS, ESFxs are probably who are most often gravitating towards me. ISTxs usually really like me/admire me once they get to know me, not so much in the beginning.|||YES. This has been pissing me off a lot lately. My silence is often a manifestation of either apathy, or a preoccupation of my thoughts. Just because I am silent does not mean I am mad or annoyed. If...|||I think it's definitely possible, just not what I tend to gravitate towards. Most of the sensors in my life are female friends of mine, but both my father (ISTJ) and brother (ESTP) are sensors and I...|||I actually work at a store that sells luxury sunglasses and still have yet to find a pair that I feel comfortable in. I do have a pretty big head though so that may be why I don't like any of them....|||Yup. I am probably the most self centered person that I know, but I am also the happiest and most satisfied with myself.   I think a lot of people who dont seem self-centered actually are, but...|||Executive. The four traits it attributed to my results are reflective, subjective, prepared, and skeptical.|||Both of those annoy me, but in my post I meant the behaviour through which someone tries to use their emotions as leverage for me to express emotions that I may or may not have. Usually they think...|||I can't exactly say where to find one. One thing is if you frequent places and see a friend group with a guy who's on the quieter side, and notice he only comes out every other week or even more...|||My parents and brother mean the world to me, absolutely invaluable. However, any family beyond that (except for a select tolerable few) are essentially meaningless to me. Everyone in my extended...|||Online, especially on this forum there are some atrocious INTJs.   IRL, I have experienced ENTPs that seem pretentious initially, but are actually very genuine people. ESFPs are probably the most...|||Hopefully this isn't too silly of a thread.   I was watching a film earlier today in which the characters were discussing their rooms and it got me thinking about how character's rooms are always...|||I was always horrific at math, but pretty decent at science. I took AP chemistry in high school and found it interesting enough to justify the challenging aspects. I do prefer liberal arts though -...|||How do you guys behave when you're angry? What types of things anger you? Examples are welcome of course. :)   Just posting as I've yet to see my ENFJ partner angry (its a rather new relationship...|||If you have agreed to be in a monogamous relationship and proceed to cheat on somebody - yes that is wrong. I do not think any of us are disagreeing with that. I think it's wrong because of the...|||I agree about it being both. The basis is in nature, however it is amplified through nurture.   For example, something I see with Fe users is that their familial situations either required Fe...|||I'm a bit confused by your original post, in that you don't make it clear what your conclusion is. I'm assuming that you are saying that INTJs (and ISTJs respectively) don't observe a set of...|||I'm an INTJ as well, but I'm in a relationship with an ENFJ.  I wouldnt say they're all that similar to ENFPs (but that might just be because all of the ENFPs I know are extremely annoying.) They...|||Sorry I didnt read your post but I figured I may aswell contribute what I know.   My ENFJ is extremely oriented towards keeping the peace. The only way that I can imagine an ENFJ as a villain is if...|||Pretty much echoing what others have said... I would say something along the lines of I think you are attractive, but I am not attracted to you.  As a female myself, and knowing a lot of females...|||I believe I am rather thick skinned. This can be attributed to a couple factors.   As I was growing up my parents were very critical. My INFJ mother would be very mean when she got upset, but would...|||I find myself doing this often. This is typically because when I get angry enough to engage in argument it's because I find what the other person is saying as ridiculous, or perceive them as stupid....|||Not a huge fan of animals, as I can barely take care of myself haha.  I like cats when visiting a cat-owner, likewise for dogs. I don't think I would ever get my own pet though.|||I also agree with most of the above! One thing you could do is ask any mutual friends what they think. My friend said that it was very obvious that I had interest in my ENFJ when we were getting to...|||Sorry if my reply if kind of all over the place, I want to cover as much as possible!  Regarding the text conversation you attached, I do think it is a little bizarre that she didnt exactly comment...|||I've been dating one for the past 6 months. I thought he was an ESTP until he opened up, and then it was like a lightbulb went off!  I think they're rather easy to deal with (I grew up, and still...|||Hi everyone!   I have been dating a man who I believe to be an ENFJ. I am trying to gain a better understanding of how his mind works.  The other day he was telling me that he is an incredibly shy...|||For the most part, I date extroverts - so I think a large part of it is the extroversion factor. Personally, I am a little irritated by NFPs, or atleast ENFPS (I have much more experience with them...|||Punctual - Yup, if I deem the activity/event important. I can't stand waiting for people or when people are late without a good excuse.  Self-Confident - Yes, I am very secure in myself. A fault I...|||If I am sad, absolutely - but only from my parents, brother, or boyfriend. If someone I do not request a hug/comforting from tries to hug me I will get irritated.   While content/happy, I typically...|||I do think it could go either way, and maybe he is still deciding whether he does like you or not. However, like an above poster noted, I think that him paying for the dates is a positive indicator....|||My mom is an INFJ, and I love her to bits. We fight a lot, and those fights usually end up with me apologizing (insincerely) merely to make her feel better. Fights often get ugly, as she consistently...|||Currently studying with a double major in sociology and political science. I plan to go on to law school.|||No, I haven't. I have definitely been infatuated with people, but it hasn't grown into love.   I am afraid that I may be rejecting the idea of love as I haven't seen it last in anyone in my family's...|||I agree with chanteuse. Personally, it would depend on the activity and how I perceive the other attendees.|||Agreed. I understood these as a result of a high school level education in sciences.|||It might be worth a shot to ask on reddit's r/Vancouver?  Goodluck!|||I'm originally from there, and spend school holidays there (BC). Studying in Toronto the rest of the time.|||How quickly do you all reach closure typically? I know it is dependant on many factors but I have realized that in cases when it was not my choice to end the relationship I have an incredibly...'