'Being in the military and having had to head a group a good number of times due to the current leader's incompetence I can attest to having to take lead unwillingly. When I did though, I always took...|||I'd say I was forced to develop my Fi more so than most INTJ's due to how I was raised and the things I've had to go through. I'm generally empathetic, open, and very aware of both my emotions and...|||After realizing I can only connect with others using a shared external activity, I've come to the conclusion I have to learn to interact with people for various purposes. Once I do make connections...|||Aspiring side job artist intj here. I draw quite a bit in my free time....when I have it. Right now most of what I draw is erotically inclined though|||It might be because ENFP's are closest to that essence of youth people lost in themselves growing up. Being the cynical intj that I am, the contrast between my mentality and an ENFP one is quite...|||I'm trying that as I speak due to your advice. I hadn't considered it. Thank you ENFP brother *virtual fist bump*.|||Drats and yes I am. 23.|||I'm cool with how you see things, but if you want to hide behind efficiency, inequality, and primitive affairs as a scapegoat for inaction and/or to validate a solitary existence, that's up to you,...|||I don't know... Even if it is a low chance of success it's still a chance. Let's say there's a 1% chance of finding someone compatible on any platform and a .001% chance to find the perfect person....|||shandyerx   That's too bad I'm in Cali. We could always meet up on the astral plane, might take a few weeks...or years though.|||Could use that ENFP energy right about now. Well anytime honestly.   Will provide resume and full list of credentials upon request. I hope you'll hire me as your personal INTJ.|||Yes and a definite no. Sadly that is the downfall of a superficial world, less opportunity for those who don't bend to it.|||It really depends on the maturity of each individual in question. An immature INTJ will analyze personal behavioral patterns to predict the intention of others to a close degree while an immature...|||I think that confidence comes from insecurity and the will to overcome it, the value placed on competence amongst our kind leading to self mastery, and installing mental fail safes to make situations...|||I think the biggest problem you have is that you're trying too hard to be the past you, all while heavily judging the current you for not living up to your pasts self's accomplishments. Just like a...|||Not an ENFP myself, but I'm currently in the navy and I have met 3 ENFP so far, 2 males 1 female. The first male ENFP was a great leader, didn't deal with pointless formalities, straight forward, but...|||A while back I got 5w6, but after retaking the test because of my mental shifts I got 4w5, which seems way more accurate.  Highly individualistic with a propensity for self expression...Yup...|||Regardless of where you are, be it school or home, if you are part of a society and reap its benefits, you have to play your part in some way. It could be through work or as simple as attending the...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rTKcYu0EDjE|||No for me. I live life to have a great death.|||I think many times people fall to anxiety and stress in dating because when there's a person they like they try their best to adjust themselves to meet the others preferences. This creates...|||I once thought of studying in illustration and graphics design, but it seems I'm too aggressive and value freedom in my creations way too much. Isn't the job market for graphics design low now?|||What does your small business partake in? And how do you like owning one? Perks and gripes?|||Currently I'm trying to learn survival tactics, the cultivation of an empty yet active mind, the art of fighting, the development and limits of the human body (for fighting), and the strengthening of...|||I think generally there'll be more issues with the INFP than the ENFP especially if the INTJ is a Te whore and lacks emotional intelligence, which I think is quite important in an INFP-INTJ match.|||So just as the title suggest what do you currently do for a living? Or if you're not currently working what are you aiming to become or accomplish?   I ask this because of general curiosity and...|||Hmmm.... It seems most of the time I'm kicking my own ass both mentally (I love finding and fixing my weaknesses. Seems everything I do like my attraction to gaming, anime, etc...leads to this.) and...|||Yeah leaving her alone for a while might help. Every time I seem depressed and bored it means I'm undergoing an extreme positive change and that may be the case for your friend there as well. Have...|||I take a nap when I'm troubled. I already have trouble finding things other than necessities worth spending money on and being upset actually makes that worse. I'm like a natural penny pincher.....|||I have a strong Fi but I think it most likely manifests with a stronger death stare and less shits to give to those asking for them.|||Firstly, if those encounters didn't matter he wouldn't actively be engaging in them in the first place. Secondly if he really did care about you and that you were the only one he fantasized about...|||Love is like walking around in life without a care in the world and you suddenly realize you can actually put bacon in your pocket. You may not know why you want it in there, but it makes you realize...|||Well I did talk to a broken INFJ for a while which felt pretty similar to a mental feedback loop if that counts.|||I'd rather a child be unborn than to have to be subject to prolonged suffering in a potentially uncaring world. Pro.|||I developed mine through my interest in art, fighting, and videogames. To improve Se? Shift your awareness from mind to the external world. Meditation can help quite a bit as it calms the mind and...|||Most of the time, yes, I am deprived of quality conversation. I believe it's because a great majority of people are in constant fear of the unknown messing with their little slice of heaven (their...|||One of the only things that can send me into instant bliss and contentment while doubling as a deep sign of affection towards my significant other.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4x5SAseoJI4&amp;list=PLZp4-7DLCLbiReVnMz07cHHCXMti-v_Vo  Do I win?|||I was given a broken family and appliances to tinker with growing up :). Haha seriously though something that requires them to nurture their creativity and problem solving skills legos or kenex, even...|||Coming from a guy with a screen accurate red ranger costume....It was. Seyaaa! *Fail flying kick*|||I'm pretty much a psychopath inside, got put up the mask to remain functional and not in jail...|||Power Rangers ----> Values for justice and peace Little Sister------> Taught me responsibility because I had to raise her Great Teacher Onizuka-----> Badassery through compassion, Help those in...|||You could throw some understanding into the mix. Make him take the MBTI test read his description, then yours, then a direct comparison to show him how you operate mentally. Tell him that because...|||Maybe when I get back to Cali, my misfortune is mostly because of my male centric occupation.  You're most likely correct, a lot of them do see me as their bros|||What did you expect from opening her up emotionally? Could time have fixed that issue or was it a standoffish like state where nothing was happening?|||Interesting so when it is threatened or stimulated you're are deeply affected by it, but defining it is difficult? I'm guessing it's because of the secondary Ne making it less tangible?|||Anyone here ever been in one? Know of one? How does it work?  So far I see it as two people caressing each other brains or a new type of masturbation.  Thoughts?|||Recently INFP's have piqued my interests quite a bit (because of Fluttershy) and I'd like to know a bit more about you guys. Since Fi is your dominant function and values practically drive that...|||Most of the hugs I got in life were from ENFP....males. Surprisingly uplifting AND platonic despite how it sounds. I'd prefer the female equivalent but it seems my life only attracts the male ones...|||I actually like to cuddle...'