'I would strongly recommend not taking shortcuts.  I feel like whenever you're looking for something too specific you end up missing out on interesting opportunities.  That ESTP who's the life of the...|||Look out.. reisiger is giving hot takes!  Haha I kinda get what you mean with pop music, but I like it when it's earnest.  It doesn't have to be a grand idea as long as it's communicated well.  Also,...|||Maggie May have you heard this version?  I love both so I always bring up this version when someone mentions the song.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lr5w4dw8QC0|||I'm listening to the recently released Wave One of John Mayer's album The Search For Everything.  What's interesting is he's releasing the album in waves of a few songs at a time over the...|||First of all, I don't have advice to give you but would just like to affirm that your creativity and care in showing interest should bode well for you.  If she's not interested, it wouldn't be...|||When you need time and space to solve a problem because you have too many potential options going through your head, not because you're struggling to find one.|||It's not really so much antagonistic but more in a playful sense I can be a bit sarcastic and turn people's words around.  Recently I was visiting my parents, and my mother was talking about the U.S....|||I would say you're an actual musician...but maybe you just aren't a professional one (meaning that you don't make your living from it).  And same with you Sei35!  Just make your music because you...|||I've been self-typed as an INFJ, but have gotten results of INTJ and INFP on tests before along with INFJ...INFP makes no sense, considering the cognitive functions are opposite so I think it's just...|||Hey, welcome to the forum! I think it's never a bad idea to try and find out especially if you're serious about a relationship.  I have an issue currently where I'm interested in a woman who's 19 and...|||You know, it's interesting.  I have a voracious appetite for listening to new music, but it simply tends to influence me in writing/performing styles that I'm already interested in.  LIke I've wanted...|||Hey you weren't asking for this, but I have unsolicited advice and a rhetorical question:  Is there any harm in having meaningless friendships?  Sorry, I only replied because I remember also...|||Hey FacetedGlass,  Welcome to the forum!  I have several different music gigs at the moment.  I direct an ensemble and do additional accompanying for a church, I teach piano lessons, and I am a...|||x95 How do you feel about privacy in general online? Privacy around personality vs privacy around you as a person and your life (i.e. sharing pictures, things about your life, your interests, etc.)? ...|||1) So besides lying, in interpersonal interactions I can get angry about someone invading my privacy, mocking me when I'm trying to be serious, or making off-base assumptions about me.  I have a...|||Hey Nemo,  Thanks for venturing out of your anem-manem,manemanem-anemone to join PerC!|||Did you vote for Trump?|||Because thanking a post wasn't enough.  Perfect.  Your type is NOT your identity.  It just tells a little bit about how you process things; e.g. the order of cognitive functions.|||8675309|||Ah, okay that makes sense JayShambles.  Personally, I think my biggest obstacle is my idealism.    I often find myself thinking, You don't want to lead her on...make sure you're really interested...|||You can't kill the room...you're really creating your own room!    You're Mr. Know-It-All,  She's staring at her phone,  and even though you sit together you feel so alone.  It's such a...|||I feel like everybody's was more or less like this:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y0p3jn7ODuc|||I'm not really sure what you mean by this.  Care to elaborate?|||I would add that if you DO have enough courage to ask him face-to-face then that would be preferable.  Sure, it'll be awkward but then there won't be any filter to his reaction and you'll really know...|||Deleted.|||First of all I'm a guy.  And I'm not trying to censor your posts; I'm just pointing out that it's messed up.  It's like you want people to kill you, and that idea makes me uncomfortable.  Say...|||This is the second time I've seen you mention something about being killed, and it makes me uncomfortable. :unsure:  Why do you say that? Are you trying to be funny?  Is it an expression that I'm not...|||This is the second time I've seen you mention something about being killed, and it makes me uncomfortable. :unsure:  Why do you say that? Are you trying to be funny?  Is it an expression that I'm not...|||I've hurt a few people.  I've been thinking about my advisor recently.  I basically broke off contact with her after realizing I needed a new direction professionally.  I had been talking to her...|||Aletheia the Analyst was my 2nd ranked archetype...I definitely relate to this.  Particularly the part about reckless behaviors.  NO THANK YOU.|||I would ask the same questions as Haba Aba Daba Aba.   Xnfx I'm guessing this is the same man we were discussing on another thread.  If I had known that he was exhibiting jealous behaviors, then I...|||Glad to see that I'm not the only one.  I rarely engage in extraverted thinking, and the extraverted feeling is STRONG with me, regardless of what the numbers say.  Plus there's the whole Ni/Ti loop...|||Philosophical State          Physical:  Abstraction Rational: Regulation Emotional: Valuation  Test result: (In case they're hard to read) I/E: 66/34 N/S: 94/6|||I'm pretty confident that rock will come back.  So many teenagers that I know (I'm a teacher) are actually into AC/DC, Metallica, etc.  Maybe not exactly the metal that you're looking for, but the...|||Hm...I mean I've been going to birthday parties since I was literally a toddler.  I don't really have memories of those XD.  Are you more after a first adolescent experience or an adult experience?...|||That's a hard hypothetical for me to wrap my head around.  My longest relationship lasted about 5 months.  I do know that marriage is a commitment that I take seriously, so my guess is I would be...|||Oh yeah, fuck Donald Trump.|||I tend to recycle this advice a lot, but just because your cognitive type may influence your personality/behavior, what it really determines is your preference for thinking.  So while it's likely...|||mistakenforstranger No, I don't forget to eat, but I can ignore my urges for a while and sometimes willfully skip a meal.  This rarely happens though because I LOVE FOOD.  It normally happens when...|||I'm feeling a bit directionless at the moment.  I have 3 different part time jobs, and the one that I'm most inclined/suited for will not really support me.  I'm tempted to just throw all this stuff...|||I teach piano, and I encounter this intimidation a lot with teenagers and adult students.  I always remind them to try to enjoy the process and don't get too caught up in the performance.  Young...|||Wow, to anyone who has a friend that literally ignores you when you approach them in person, that is a lousy friend.  I have an ENFP friend who is also really well-connected and popular to the point...|||Welcome booyou!  What did you mean by saying I have a deep interest in music, but I'm not there yet?  Do you mean that you don't have a lot of training?  How do you engage with music?|||I'd likely be pursuing the NF female, but she probably wouldn't realize it until it's too late...I'd be trying too hard to walk this fine line between showing interest but not showing too much.  I'd...|||Some sense of direction in my life and a normal sleeping schedule (insomnia's a bitch).|||I think the following is all too appropriate:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uIwQnLd7Wbw|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5A0-u85aAYg  I know, this is a relatively low-brow comedy but I still love it and this is my favorite scene.  The characters are all just completely lacking in...|||not very interesting|||I've behaved like a know-it-all, and I really wasn't aware of it until a few years ago.  One of my closer friends (Most likely an INFP) in college said to me, Absolute_Eb, I admire you a lot, but...|||Wow.  I definitely felt the desolation/emptiness.  I thought it was interesting how the smoke leaves as in it dissappears, but it also leaves as in leaving a trace behind.  My only critic9sm...'