'The need to be alone mostly, and the need to be understood.|||It's easy, if you want him, chase him. You already denied his desires to be in a relationship with you, so it's normal he's playing hard to get now. If you think the troubles are worth it, go for it,...|||I don't make friends :laughing: Every friendship I have lasts for a short period of time because I very quickly find myself drained and bored. If I manage to find a few people I like to be around...|||Like people said here, doorslam if very lucky :exterminate:. With me, I'd probably screw their lives a bit so they wouldn't have the nerve to ever look me in the eye again, but I am a prideful...|||I am quite easy to hurt in the feelings department. Besides that I lack interest to be social (as it drains me dry in a few hours) and I get easily jealous/nervous. I don't know if it is fitting...|||I tend to have lucid dreams more than often, and sleeping is one of the best things ever! For every type actually.  For me as far as I can tell, if I have a nice dream I'll feel refreshed and it...|||INFJ's are introverted by nature (hence the I), but yes, I am not a fan of public areas and I don't have a friend group (I just have individual friends), but when I was in one back in highschool, you...|||Emotions do have their dose of rationality, after all you can (almost) always connect how you're feeling to something that caused it. it can be interperted differently (same situation causes...|||Depends on the argument, if I am right and the other person denies I'll probably not explode but leave some nasty words behind, one probably will connect the other, at least in my mind they do...|||SoulSpark  Thanks for your advice, I appreciate it greatly. I got to talk to her yesterday about our relationship (especially because she's a bit clingy and easily jealous even though she won't admit...|||SoulSpark No, she isn't as far as I know (and if she was she'd probably tell me). That is one thing that in order to convence her, I'd have to imply she needs help, help she nor I can give, and it'd...|||That's true, I had self esteem issues and seeing people with them just...makes no sense in my mind. When I had issues, they made sense to me, once I began working to solve them on the long run, they...|||Sai I had depression and suffer from mood swings (for reasons I'd rather not explain). Yes, a part of me preffers alternative girls, and when I see someone who's going through something similar to...|||Thanks for your words, and thanks to everyone who replied, you guys are awesome :happy:|||This thread will cover some relationship issues I've been having recently, I need opinions because I feel like soon enough I'll have another breakdown if this keeps up.  Long story short, I am a...|||Phlegmatic definitely, the other three simply piss me off too much.|||If you think you're broken, then you aren't broken enough.  Everything's just dust and stars.  Discover the shape of the person within you, and strive to achieve that inner integrity. ...|||In my opinion (not experience), you have nothing to lose. Due to the distance, if you don't win her over soon someone probably will.  If she likes you to a certain degree, she'll accept the...|||In need of more food|||Well...I'll let my favorite bands speak for myself:  Angels and Airwaves  Plus 44  Blink 182  Falling up, Green day, Eminem, There for tomorrow (I'm in love with Waiting tbh :kitteh: )...|||Hi there! No friends? Join me in the friend request :laughing:|||Not any longer, even I know I'm a tad cold and cruel when someone manages to tickle my spine. Life goes on, I don't care what others think of me, I simply live my life as I want, pushing the toxic...|||For me...FF XIII, Persona 3, Disgaea 4 and just finished Mogeko Castle...gf made me play. Unless you like having horny pikachu's chasing your skirt (and having 99 panties to steal :3 ) don't play it!|||...You kidding, right? These are the kind of things only you can do, no one else. Don't write words down, the words you remember are the ones that are meaningful, practice, practice,...|||You perhaps fear that commitment will chain you down. It's just speculation at this juncture, though. Do you want to change though? That's the one matter that's relevant, not the insight in itself.|||Well...depends on the damage, and how much he, as a person, has been hurt before.   I remember the first time I was ever damaged on an emotional level. I probably looked really down, because the...|||Wow, Fredward, you don't go around asking people those questions without buying them steak first :wink:|||Sorry, double post :dry:|||I think everyone has a limit for socialization that's different from the rest. I can spend about thirty minutes talking with a group of friends, after that they do the talk :laughing: I get too tired...|||All you need to find the right path in life is attitude, everything else comes later.|||I'd regret...not treasuring my close friends as I should've.|||The Count of Monte Christo by Alexandre Dumas.   Although you are not quite as vengeful as the lead character of the Count of Monte Christo, you can relate to his plight. All you want is to be...|||Personality and MBTI don't align dot by dot. If you take 100 (in this case male) INFJs and analyze their personality, there are certain traits that'll diverge. Moreover, you have to know if he is an...|||Well, I'm straight, and I like women, that I can assure you :laughing: I NEVER; NEVER LOOK FOR A SHALLOW RELATIONSHIP, no matter how cute a girl is I won't fall for her (I don't look for one night...|||First, it depends on the culture. Here my friends have a impudent way of treating each other, however, they are the best friends anyone could wish for (I'm dead serious :laughing:). Less mannerisms...|||If you're climbing a mountain, obviously you are aiming for the top. But let's not forget to enjoy the view.|||I think what's socially acceptable is meaningless, it is a creation of ours. And so are those barriers you speak of. I can see you are someone introverted, really, really introverted. Meeting new...|||Well, I'm glad I could at least make you laugh, and give some insight on the matter  freud   Honestly, I'm just happy I was of any help :happy:  Just follow your heart, for as corny as it sounds...|||http://afremovart.com/image.php?type=P&id=20079  http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lc4h3mjkNO1qc8dsno1_500.jpg  Been in my head since 87...dem moves :laughing:  ...|||Values aren't any good if they aren't strong, at least the core values. Talking about them doesn't mean much, it only means anything to the person who has them. This is quite a subjective thread...|||Maybe some other INFJ here can answer you objectively in 5 words or less. I'm not of such kind, and your friend is an odd fellow I must say (please don't punch me to death, my mom would be mad...|||I find it amusing when someone thinks they have me figured out honestly, I only show very little of me in social situations and to teachers, so when someone thinks they know all about me, they are...|||Hi there.      Welcome on board! Be sure to give the robot a cookie :wink:|||Hey, my posts are really low too :happy:     Besides, I did not say much. About INFJ male/ INFJ female relationships...I'm not sure about it. Being the same gender I can imagine them being amazing...|||Uhh...the difference between males and females are covered in anotomy class :tongue:     But seriously, males by nature aren't as sentimental as females, it has been like that since we lived in...|||The fact he knows you noticed it is important because it shows you genuinely care about him (in our friends list, it adds as an extra star :tongue:), and when I'm upset and someone notices I find it...|||Talk about creeping, I had these two girls stalking me for about a year. It was the oddest thing anyone had done to me until now. They'd follow me around school, watch me eat all the way across form...|||I have to agree with Vinnie, often a person's eyes are all I need to know them. Normally when someone's gaze is cold, or uncaring, their eyes will show their confidence while when it's a bit more...|||I tend to like an ending that makes sense, happy or not. Depends on the story really, I just finished reading a book that had a bitter ending (the book's name is Baltasar and Blimunda, if anyone's...|||Thank you Pupazzo :proud:     You are awesome.'