'A slap across the face. Seriously.  ENFJs can be such self-centered melancholics when they feel like they are not universally adored for everything they do every single moment. They need to get...|||I get much more Fe than Fi from your description, though alot of the examples you bring up could fit most extraverted feeler (EF) types. Feelers in general are uncomfortable with conflicts and are...|||Well, as feelers it would be strange for them not to be oriented towards people. Being Fe-dominant would make them inclined to express their judgement. That they are cocerned with how other people...|||What exactly is it you assume women find unattractive about ENFJ men?|||Well, it's more difficult to point out something that is missing than something that is present. But in myself I would say that inferior Ti brings out a certain stubborness in combination with Ni....|||As you said, it's difficult to keep up a deep discussion with alot of people at once. Like Teddy Daniels, I prefer those discussions to be between four eyes and be fully focued on the person I am...|||The line between INFJ and ENFJ can be pretty thin at times, especially when talking about healthy individuals being in their prefered environment. I was convinced I was INFJ for a while myself, but...|||An example would be a temptation to pick on vulnerable people, when I am at my lowest. The same thing that I despise really.  Send me a PM if you want to discuss it further.|||catrabbit Maybe you don't have to shut off your Fe to cope, maybe you can use it, since it is your strength? Have you tried to emphasize with the person making you upset, seeing their point of view?...|||Please clarify, what kind of energy are you refering to and why would a strong Fe give you more of it compared to other functions?|||Looking for someone else to blame for one's own problems seem to be human nature, sadly. Even more so if someone really listens. Just remember that you are not responsible for his decisions, he alone...|||Personally, breaking up is not the worst part, but to see the other person disappear from my life is what I fear the most. I try to stay in touch with my past partners in some way if they are okay...|||Personally, I use tarot cards on occasion as a tool for introspection or meditation. Each card represent aspects that are present in just about any situation and can be a great help to see things...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5zey8567bcg|||That is another thing that makes you so fun to be around! :wink:|||Welcome to PerC! I am sure you'll have a good time.:happy:|||Welcome back!|||Welcome to PerC, I hope you'll have a great time!:happy:|||Hello David and welcome to PerC!|||As I mentioned in your other thread, I study physical therapy and can't imagine doing another profession!  You work very intimately with your patients, often for an extended period of time, and...|||I have a few INTJ friends as well and I greatly appreciate having them  around! They tend to be very perceptive and knowledgeable and are in general excellent at giving unbiased advice.  While I...|||Do you feel the same about other healthcare professions? I know nursing was mentioned at the last page and I study to become a physical therapist myself, which I've found to be very rewarding. Being...|||To me, looking after your appearance is about self-respect. I can increase my sense of well-being by taking care of myself, kind of giving myself a pat on the back. Living as a sloth for a period of...|||Congratulations Danny, best of luck!:proud:|||What exactly are you looking for when you look for information? Like tutorials and guides?|||ISTJ and ISTP has been suggested earlier and out of the two I have to say ISTJ is more likely. I can see Te-Fi much stronger than Ti-Fe in him. He also seem to be more here and now as opposed to...|||I get a strong Fi from you. You seem to have a strong set of ethics and morals which you use to judge the external world with and get upset when they clash.  Can't really tell if you are Ne or Se...|||esme23  Welcome to PerC! I hope it will live up to your expectations. :happy:  When it comes to your friend, don't fall into the trap of typing him based on stereotypes! There can be HUGE...|||I would say Se and Fi are the two strongest functions actually.  Se in the following: #2 - Quickly taking action with focus on the immediate problem. #3 - Also very here and now, focus seem to be...|||How is she when you talk to her otherwise and how old is she?  Some people are more comfortable being lead by someone in casual conversation, especially if she likes you and gets a bit...|||Correct me if I am wrong now, but I think most of your points are skills and abilities whereas the cognitive functions are about how you process and value information. You could find that alot of...|||Honestly, I am happy if I manage to pull that off in a week. Not just to the person of my affections, but to everyone I know combined!|||Welcome to PerC!  Nice of you to join us!:happy:|||Just curious, is there a reason for you not wanting to go to medical school, or is it just that you don't need any input on that?|||In English: Flowing, pure, serene, grotesque, falling, ringing.  In Swedish: Tindra (glisten), saga, klok (wise), öde (fate), hed (moor), klinga (ringing).  While I usually think English is a...|||It is a tough question to answer since there is so much more to a girl than her cognitive functions to make her attractive or unattractive... I think the functions are more likely to catch my...|||Considering my lack of sleep, I am impressed you could interpretate anything of what I wrote!:laughing:   But yeah, I really agree with you. Though I think it's easier than one would believe to get...|||dulcinea I can partly recognize what you are talking about in myself at times, especially when talking to someone I don't know very well who is a bit on the shy side. It makes it so much harder to...|||I am not quite following you. Experience of what? Getting hurt?    I apologize if I have missed something, but I didn't think this what about seeing multiple people at the same time? That is not...|||Don't count out the introverts! Most of them can be very welcoming as well!:wink:|||I see where you are coming from, but isn't it really just a matter of if the glass is half empty or half full? I can as easily say that I have never met a nice guy who didn't think he was a douche...|||Well, you could start looking up a few articles on the subjects you are interested in, or if you prefer, you can look up the what is my personality/enneagram forums and get help from people...|||Welcome to PerC!  I hope your stay here will be a pleasant one!|||Welcome to PerC!  Don't put too much faith in those web based tests, sometimes they do nothing else than confuse you. As you become more familiar with the different types you'll have an easier...|||Welcome to PerC!  Be sure to tell keep us up to date on your game!:happy:|||FiddleheadFern I really think you are on to something there! Like when you are sailing, you can't make the wind and weather change to enable you to follow that perfect route to your destination....|||I have to agree with everyone else, some kind of limbo-esque state is really terrible.  However, I do think there is a point when you feel bad enough to prefer apathy. When the negative emotions...|||This exactly.  I can really relate to the opinion that just dating is pointless and a waste of time, but in myself it mostly comes down to over-analyzing it. If you stop thinking about getting...|||Open question now, do you feel a necessity for an afterlife or a higher purpose in life?  Being born through chaos or some kind of accident suggests that we have made it to where we are as a...|||I would have guessed that I had a stronger Ni, but the teacher subtype fitted me like a glove.  The name is kind of fitting, I sometimes feel the urge to teach people to do things my way. Since...'