'Dear Associates, thanks for bashing my ISFP-ness. Noot. We've known eachother for several years, and now suddenly everything comes out. I thought things were cool. But no. All of a sudden everyone...|||I connect being manipulative with being selfish/taking advantage of people for personal gain.  I do not see myself doing that. My consience gets too bad. I find myself apologizing a lot instead....|||Yeah, I'm very disorgainized, but now when I have a steady income I'm trying to get rid of stuff/buy necessary stuff/ be more organized.   I feel like I get so stuck in the moment that I don't...|||Yes I'm the same way. It's pretty exhausting.   Did you draw that btw? It is nice!|||I work with mentally unhealthy people, so it'd be good if I'm somewhat healthy. Which I consider myself to be. I feel calm.   When I was younger and more unemployed I was prone to be more...|||I think I'm acting more cold and uninterested. I might stop contacting the person I'm interested in. I might distance myself from them.  If I'm forced to be around the person I'm jelous of/the...|||I think that I've dated an ESTP. He was fun. I liked that a lot. I don't know what else to say? :P He liked me too but we wanted different things from the beginning. So I disappeared out in the...|||As many have said, I don't wanna fight about petty things. Sometimes I just lay low to see who'll take advantage of you and who will not. Why would you take advantage of someone? ¤%¤#&¤##¤#¤W|||Yes.  If something happened between you and him three years ago...and he truly had feelings for you, he might be over it now. If I truly like someone it's either all or nothing, now or never. It...|||Sweet!|||Dear whatever-your-type-is,  we haven't known eachother for that long. You seem to think that we should hang out every time we're both free. It isn't like that for me though. It seems like you...|||I always date younger men! I'm 29. The last two I dated was 4 years younger than me :tongue: When I was younger I always found guys 1-2 years younger than me more interesting than older guys. Maybe...|||Why is she with you if she doesn't want to be with you? For fun? I'd never do that. Because I would not have the patience to be with someone I didn't like so much.  Yelling is probably one of the...|||If someone does something that really goes against my values, then I'd drop them.  I just remember when I was a child, there was this girl that could not accept no for an answer when it came to...|||Dear ESTJ,  sorry my thinking is interfering with your talking!! Me sitting there quiet trying to read something does not mean I want to listen to you talk for another 15 minutes. The hardest part...|||left|||:( I'm going through the same thing.... It is hard to know what to do. So I've been dragging it out. Until it gets to the point where you have to see your friend's new partner. So you can either...|||How often do you stay up?  If I have not been forced to get up at 6-7 am several days in a row, which means I'll hopefully fall asleep around 00 am, then I'll stay up. I never go to bed by...|||Yes, songs.  Not so much the other two.|||Yesterday I had the chance to run into a person I really like and haven't seen in moths. But I intentionally left work early so that I wouldn't run into him :/ That's how I deal with people sometimes.|||With passer-by's, I keep my distance.  With people I have to meet regularly: try to get along with everyone. I categorize them: interesting/unintersting. Easy to talk to/not easy to talk to. People...|||You sound exactly like an ISTJ I know :proud:|||Thanks for the replies to my vague question. Sorry for not quoting you all.  I've figured that if I think it's a betrayal, then it's a betrayal. What is most annoying is that the ISTJ doesn't think...|||:laughing:  I'm going to sleep on it. Thanks for the replies!|||What is a big deal? Replying?   Yeah, it always feels like he's the one setting the emotional pace.  I've had a couple of conflicts with this one. And.. objectively speaking I'd say that I've had...|||Dear ISTJ,  Though our relationship went from good to bad and weird, you always text me in at least an hour after you've gotten mine. (I sound like a 14-year-old.) You're probably the only one I...|||ISTJs: Do you think keeping information from a person is the same thing as lying?    Maybe that question is too unspecific :bored:|||My mom is easy to figure out: ISFJ. She's taken the test also.  My dad is harder. He loves to talk to people, and always know someone wherever he goes. But on most nights he's usually just home...|||I think it could be an awesome match if the two individuals knew how to communicate. A lot of couples don't know how to do that.   And I also want to say that it's not your responsibility to fix...|||Good thread :happy:|||Look- Casual looking. Not snobbish. Or, he can also be you know, artsy looking. Taller than me. Bigger than me.  Speak- He should speak the truth :P I'm not up for a philosofical discussion after...|||Dear ISTJ,  I don't know if I'm in love with you or not. I think about you every day, and I usually go through our convesations for myself after we've had them. I can kinda understand what you...|||Can't remember! Why would I be mean to somebody?  I talk badly about people behind their backs. But I'd say it to their face too, if they'd ever show it. I feel good about it.|||Now I'm also thinking that. Because, in a certain relationship, we've established that we're just friends, even though we were going somewhere completely different with it in the beginning. And I've...|||I wish I could hire someone who could decide everything for me. I know nothing right now. Don't know what I'm gonna do with my job, living situation and some relationships.    Or maybe I do...|||I love you.  I don't like you.  Whoa, let's take some pictures of my face and put them on Instagram!|||For extended periods in my life I have not had a desire to be in a relationship. I think that's what's stopped me more, rather than fear. Well sure, it also means that I've taken distance from people...|||No thanks.:proud: Don't like plane rides and don't like rollercoasters.|||Dear people I hung out with tonight,  I keep my distance because you're not like my close friends. And yes, I feel a bit disconnected. And yes, I'm lying awake for hours having an Fi-spree. Now...|||Yey, I found this thread.   Dear extremely extraverted ADHD-person,  :dry:  I couldn't even be bothered to mask my feelings.|||Dear ISTJ,  You've randomly invited me over when I randomly had a time in need. The thing is, I have a lot of feelings and thoughts concerning this. It feels like you're only booty calling me. And...|||I am crap at varying my hair style. I often get too self concious if I try something new. :frustrating:   Wish I wasn't.|||Too tired to do 10.:kitteh:  What are your top ten songs, artists, films and places to go?  songs:  Sultans of Swing - Dire Straits    artists:|||Touché :P         I will look into all this later. Good night.|||You should do a thread like that :wink:|||I usually have a hard time falling asleep and I have a hard time waking up. Of course it helps to have good routines.. like getting up at 8 am when you have a free day. Which I try to do, sometimes....|||Dear ISTJ,  I hope my silence speak pretty loud!!!!!!! Kidding, I know you don't care about things like that. We both know what'll happen.    /ISFP|||Haha, sweet!:)  I saw some youtube-video of a girl with ADD. Everything got better for her once she started with meds... the only downside was that she got suicidal. It was a pretty comical...|||Ok! How does the meds help you, if I may ask? Do you recognize yourself in what I've written? :P|||It depends on what it is I'm gonna do.  When it comes to exersice I don't dwell about it, just do it. And when I'm doing it, I mostly focus on what I'm doing. I like that. Because I can be quite a...'