'Found a really interesting INFP movie character while checking out old foreign films -- Rocco, of Rocco e i suoi fratelli (Rocco and His Brothers) is a true INFP, & enneagram Type 9, who becomes the...|||I don't drink anymore but did from age 19 - 30.  It definitely helped me to talk and dance with men at clubs and bars.  Alcohol inadvertantly gave me a gift -- my current husband and I met at an AA...|||Alain Delon: People go to the movies to dream, not to see actors with faces like their plumber.  103482103490103498103506103474|||All right, all right, all right.|||On a lighter note:  I regret that I'll never get to be a Cougar!  Been with partner for 19 years now and we are going for the dream - til death do us part.  Not sure I would bother dating again...|||My aunt and uncle married when she was 40 and he was 21. They are still together 40 years later. One thing though -- both knew they never wanted to have kids & never did.  I wish I could give...|||I changed from INTP to INFP on here.  I have always had close T and F scores.  My problem was, when I would go into long discussions on the INTP boards, I always felt (<the key word there - FELT)...|||Yes, I found like I found my other half.  (Me INFP, he ENFP).  Lasted 7 years before various addictions and total financial irresponsibility on both our parts ended it.  If you want something...|||Yes, yes, some of my best friends have been straight men.  What makes you think a straight man can't be your friend and at the same time want to have sex with you?  There was some mutual attraction...|||So I take the time to give on line advice to a 20-something woman as to why she should rely on her own brains and knowledge, not a man or her looks, to move ahead financially and I get the comment,...|||I am an INTP female with an ESFJ male -- and it has worked out well, but a lot of why is because he is balanced in a lot of ways. He has been encouraged to use T, not F, since childhood and likewise,...|||Internet stars. Who or what the fuck is a KERF? Who the fuck is Kath (the K of KERF) and why does anyone besides her family and friends give a flying fuck about her, her food, or her baby? Anyone...|||I asked a question, What replaces religion?, and someone on here called me a monster.|||Summary -- kid=inner world, adult=outside 94326|||^I'm really not exaggerating my back and forth between these two states.  And speaking of dreams (real sleep REM dreams), I think when I try to suppress my mind from wandering where it wants to go...|||^ I guess it is an INTP thing.  -- yes, you could call it a dream, but it's not always wonderful.  Sometimes constantly perceiving new things and then analyzing them and trying to fit everything...|||And this really isn't true, because when I shut my head down long enough to look around at the amazing real stuff around me, yeah, there's a huge world out there to experience firsthand, I just have...|||I have to block out times on a weekly calendar, and I do try to stick to the same sleep times, meal times, and weekday work hours. Then I list everything else I need to do on the calendar. I leave...|||Do any of you do this? You have the BIG PICTURE of everything in your head -- life, the universe, existence, society, history, etc. And it is fed by your constantly scanning intuition that picks up...|||Benjamin from Animal Farm.  And, coincidentally, Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh.|||What pisses me off - someone (who borrowed some money awhile back but refused to repay) who argues like this:  No, I don't owe you any money, because if I wasn't justified in keeping the money you...|||Being left out of the planning and development part of a project, then, when it's time to implement and the damn thing doesn't work, getting called in to figure out how to make it work and to clean...|||I looked back at my life and realized I am a Jill of all trades, and master of none.  I do have goals, but they are tied into my own interests and at my own pace, so my goals have not translated into...|||It's all about how she makes decisions.  If her feelings about something are so strong that she doesn't see reason, and sometimes might even get angry when someone makes a reasonable although...|||How unrequited love can torture your soul for ever: Liz Hodgkinson reveals how her doomed obsession with the man who took her virginity still hurts after 50 years | Mail Online Note:  I have no idea...|||Your overall percentile is 87% which means you scored higher than 87% of the people who have taken this test. The internet population tends to be more intelligent so your percentile might be higher...|||@Eps - I just find it pointless for you (not you in particular BTW, the general you; see, I even edit my responses in an attempt to be more tactful!) to have a relationship with someone with whom...|||An update:  my brilliant ENTP daughter is going to start at a charter cyber school after finishing half the school year at her current school in January.  This requires her to spend 5 hours a day at...|||I'll nominate ESTP - my husband - he has always just shook his head at my various personality interests (sites, books, etc.) over the years.  In general, the ESxx types.|||I am pretty sure Lieutenant Columbo is an INTP.  And the classic Columbo plot is a mastermind ENTJ who really has their stuff together going up against (and always underestimating) the somewhat...|||:happy:HI ALL!!!!  I just spent the morning washing the windows and cleaning the blinds, now clearing the windowsill for the autumn dried flowers and pumpkin arrangement I put out every year at this...|||To the OP - I would probably walk over and when you were done spinning the ride, say hi and ask your name, where are you from, what school, etc., checking out your apparent normalcy and whether or...|||TRUE, exactly, so by your own logic maybe you should re-think your earlier statement:  There are enough child abductions of both sexes that you really shouldn't give one gender more attention over...|||I am supposed to be studying accounting right now.  LIFO versus FIFO.  I wish I was more *STJ sometimes, I would excel at accounting.|||I am an INTP with an ESTJ. I was told my entire life that I would need a mate who was as intelligent as me or I would be unhappy. Well, I qualify for Mensa and have a BA, to give you an idea of the...|||Just wanted to chime in, many women behave this way toward INTP women as well.  Which, with our Fe inferior, can make us pretty paranoid sometimes.|||This is definitely good, thanks.  She is the oldest of 2.  Anyway, no medication for either one of my kids (at one time the school wanted my energetic son medicated for ADHD -- no.).  Taking her...|||I am just reading and absorbing your posts now, so I need some time to respond.  BTW, I am not here to try and win a debate, just here to get some insight into my daughter.  And I have.|||One ENTP.|||@Arjan - How did I bond with my kids? - well, just being with them almost all of the time. I worked only part time, 12 - 20 hours a week, when they were infants, and was with them full time...|||Of course I had to respond to this -- I do not see anywhere in my post where I indicate that there is anything I cannot stand about my daughter. I actually think she is brilliant and she's the only...|||Yes, you are right, he is very young.  I think I don't want to put much on his plate right now, just the basics: doing well at school, a couple of activities after school, and generally behaving and...|||Thanks for the link, it's pretty accurate as far as how my son acts.  What always trips up our conversations is my well-developed Ne goes off in directions that he doesn't get and has no interest in...|||We (parents) are pretty good about letting him do his own thing.    Just curious, did you get punishments like losing your X Box/Wii privileges for a weekend if you didn't fulfill an expectation,...|||Not sure if his school has wrestling, they do have a lot of sports.|||Hi -- My son is a 14 year old ISTP. Freshman in HS.   He failed last night to make a program for teenagers who want to be cops because he mumbled and gave one word answers at the interview portion...|||Hi -- so I figured that since I have a bunch of young ENTPs here, I might as well get some insight into how to speak with my daughter who is a 17 year old ENTP. She does nothing but argue with her...|||That's great if you like them without effort.  I had to learn to tolerate them.  I had 2 children, and honestly, I loved them when they were babies but as far as like - I did not find them the most...|||I'm a 5w4, hello sister!  When I used to go to a popular Enneagram site that I won't name here, most of the 5/4s, mostly male, typed me as a 4/3 soc/sx and would not budge from that no matter what...|||Thanks - I started looking at these a few months ago but got distracted, now I can take my time and read through all of the people's stories.'