'I think so... Although I do possess some tomboyish traits and do not behave all that ladylike.   *locks her(?)self in bathroom to experience an identity crisis*|||Sorry to be a party pooper, but I'm a gal!|||Ouch ouch ouch. Butchslap!  There’s definitely some hurt going on around here but it ain’t my butt… Listen: These two ENTP’s come out of their shells when we interact, as they do when they...|||I know two ENTPs, who tend to be quiet with people they don't know well. This is due to series of misunderstandings in their past caused by Ne+Ti and the underdeveloped Fe. Both are in their 30's....|||No. To me it often translates as selfishness. Mysterious? Maybe. But what's the point of being mysterious, really? If it's used as a method of controlling people, then no thanks. Although Fe is also...|||This post is terribly late (at least I hope so), but as I'm facing the same type of problems currently, I'm giving my two cents here.  I have the so called monkey mind and as a 32 yo I'm still...|||I was in a relationship with an ENTJ for six years. We worked our asses off to make it work, but it didn't. I learned to ignore his insensitivity, but the biggest issues personality type wise lied in...|||Manticore You should definitely check out Tahdon asia! It's some 10 years old series, but it never seems to get old (watched it five times- the writer must be Ne-dom. I don't know about the...|||7w8 sx/sp here. Sx-dom works for me until I enter a relationship. Once the first weeks of finding out how we works pass, I start feeling dissatisfied. I'm so greedy of intense experiences that if...|||Ha! I'm a 7w8 sx/sp teaching 12-16 year olds. And killing it!|||My ESTP boyfriend wanted to post a picture of us on Instagram. He had taken the picture in the morning, and I looked terrible in it (needless to say, he looked great).  Me: Don't post that...|||Dear ESTP,  We've had an awesome start! Against all (almost all) written odds! Can we make this the love story of the century? I want to rub it in MBTI's face. Like that! And like that! And that! ...|||HOLYSHIZZY Yeah, that's about correct. :wink:|||I just met this smoking hot ESTP guy. I might want to pursue a relationship with him. I know the possible pitfalls of INFJ/ESTP pairing, but then again MBTI isn't everything. I'm 7w8 sx/sp and I...|||Do you know your Enneagram type? Sounds like type 9 problems. I was dating an ENTP 9w1, who had similar issues.  Hugs! :)|||Maybe it's about the fear of loss and potential pain in general. Not being able to handle the overwhelming painful emotions (guilt, depression). Fearing you've made a mistake and you have to end the...|||I'm glad I can help. :) Luckily, ROCD responds to therapy. Maybe even better, if you aren't prone to OCD in general.  Basically the ROCD brain is terrified to surrender to love and thus tries to...|||People can suffer from ROCD despite they don't have OCD. People with ROCD usually have heavy abandonment issues and they have gone through very painful relationships (parents, lovers etc.). After our...|||Cobaltius A lot of what you're describing here sounds like symptoms of ROCD. Is the term familiar to you?|||A smokin' hot INFJ by their side.|||Also works as If he really likes himself, he will understand and accept it. :tongue:|||Okey dokey!  Here are my best friends in no particular order. I defined best friend as someone I could (and would) call/contact anytime. ENTP 7w6 male ENTP 9w1 male ENTJ 1w9 male ISFJ 4w3...|||I think the result goes more along the lines of Enneagram (or something else) than MBTI. I'm 7w8 sx/sp :). Also my sun sign and my descending sign is Taurus. I tested twice (because I doubted I would...|||Dominance 41% Steadiness 28% Influence 26% Compliance 5%|||The article is mainly a load of bull attempting to shed a very negative light on INFJ's. Kinda harsh.|||Okay okay okay okay okay! God... I was speaking metaphorically. I meant getting outside of my head. Jeez... :rolleyes:|||Hooray! I'll go wait outside.|||Tzara Yeeeep! Come and get me.|||INFJ 7w8's|||Yeeees. I have this project of being more social (SO variant last in stack), because I wanna connect with people and get rid of being picky with people (I put very little effort in trying to get...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mH9wzBB9OIk|||Highly independent, mostly  Independence is natural to me, but I also overdo it as a defense mechanism. I dread being clingy or possessive and thus I act distant when I actually wish to attach more...|||Why did Sally cross the road? - Because she didn't wear a seatbelt.  Where did Sally go when the bomb went off?  - Everywhere.|||184914|||(l)e(t) go|||INFJ 7w8 sx/sp, hee-o'hoy.|||YES. For me it's not just thinking, it's like I'm working on various people in my head. I need to understand everything on the deepest possible level. My brain doesn't rest until I have a concise...|||174434|||Where'd it go?|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8VyzYbqRuFE  Lyrics go: It's a non-stop disco, Bet you it's Nabisco, Betcha didn't know  I go: It's a non-stop disco, back to Sibisco, bet you didn't know...|||Anthony de Mello builds his theory of love around this. Love is not blind, infatuation is. When infatuated, people typically discard or cannot see the unwanted or disgusting traits in their partner....|||Touché, André!|||D to the I to the T to the... You know!  Do you have a 7 or 8 in your tritype? I got plenty of both, and I think the drive to test your limits just to see if you can pull through a tricky situation...|||I just read an article claiming that emotionally stable / happy people don't get addicted to heroin. It actually makes them feel sick. :mellow:|||I don't think anyone could understand me (or anyone else) perfectly. My ISFJ friend understands (or tolerates?) me pretty well, although we're not that alike. She kinda knows who I am because she...|||Thank you. That probably helps. Now that I come to think of it, the ENTP's who have taken interest in me have been strikingly polite and sensitive. Like, where did you go? But that's ok. The more I...|||How does your Ne mesh with the need to merge in a relationship? I'm dating an ENTP 9w1 sx and his out and about -persona differs a lot from what he's like at home. It's like all Ne in the outside...|||I can't say I have a least favorite MBTI type, because MBTI type determines so little of one's personality. I find Enneagram more accurate factor when I think about which types I like or don't like....|||jdstankosky Thanks for reporting; that almost slipped my surveillance cam!|||Salad is always greener on the other side of the line.'