'Cal is definitely, without a doubt, an NT. He searches for answers in a way that screams Rational. I think he's an INTP. I because he is observant, and thinks actions through before acting. N...|||Awesome article! :D I just have one question...and I could be totally wrong here. I just pictured Roo as more Ne, Piglet as more Ni, and Owl as Ti. That's mostly because roo is spontaneous and looks...|||Proud ENFJ here :D I'm trying to think of ANY ENFJ's I know at all IRL... Uhhh... Drawing blanks :|||Honestly, ENTPreneur, if I used your method of argument, you'd be frustrated too. P's take in information, sure, but they aren't committed or particularly punctual. J's, on the other hand, are...|||I'm a teenage ENFJ! Sure, I'm a guy, but still.  We are definitely very sensitive and emotional. We are very trusting as well, and forgiving to a decent point. People are our specialty, they're what...|||I'm an ENFJ, and off the top of my head, I have a close INFJ, INFX, and ENFP friend. The INFJ and I have awesome conversations, and we trust each other a lot. I feel like her reserved approach...|||I apologize in advance, but I'm tired, and have to say this. You've been involved in a number of threads I read, and you seem bent on making your type sound perfect. Really, you have such a huge bias...|||I think dreams tell you a lot about your subconscious, but they're tough to understand. I've been getting more and more dreams lately! And I'm getting better at recalling them. I love dreams :D|||Bob Saget and Oprah, apparently. I've heard people call Obama an ENFJ, but I don't believe it one bit.|||You had it right originally, extraversion vs introversion is conerned with how you get reenergized and where you focus primarily, the external world, or the internal. Extraverts can be shy and...|||I think eye contact carries a lot of unspoken meaning, so I'm sure to only use it fittingly. I love making eye contact, don't get me wrong, but I find that I'll also zone out while talking and look...|||I think it has to do a lot with who I'm with and what the conversation is about. If I'm around acquaintances, I'm going to be more reserved than a group primarily made up of friends. I think this...|||Aha, I'm definitely that way. I'll share tidbits here and there, but I'm far, FAR more interested in hearing about someone else than talking about myself. Part of it might be vulnerability. Another...|||Wow, this was all actually sort of entertaining to read! I'm an ENFJ (I hope too many of you didn't groan at that). I guess I can weigh in, if you'd like... First off, I couldn't help but smile when...|||You're probably borderline, but I think you lean more toward ENFP. I may be ENFJ, but I have a relatively high perceiving score, so I understand the confusion at first. I find what helps the most is,...|||Just as an aside, (don't mean to beat a dead horse), ENTPreneur, if you think J's are narrow minded... Wouldn't Fe, for example, contrast that? Since we're all about harmony? I don't think any...|||Just a lil' piece of advice... Enfj's are drawn to Infp's initially due to their introverted, unique personalities. But drunkenly proposing to lots of them in general might confuse their...|||ENFJ's are naturally in tune with other people. Our Fe makes us highly sensitive to them, and our Ni takes in signals and patterns they show. Consciously or subconsciously, we tend to reach...|||Well, I'm a male ENFJ, so there will be differences here... But, I agree that ENFJ/INFP relationships have LOTS of potential. Both are dreamers, so that gives you two a lot in common. As far as...|||Fe is...hmmm... Well, we know it's when the feeling function, which focuses primarily on creating and maintaining harmonic relationships, is directed to the world around us. As an ENFJ, this is the...|||Interesting idea, but there have been a few changes to the temperament-system. For one thing, a new temperament has been added: Supine. Supines live to serve, and are at their happiest while helping...|||This makes a lot of sense! Just wondering what the margin of error is for the development? I'm an ENFJ, and I'm a Junior in High School. Based on this, I should still be working on Ni. For some...|||As an ENTJ, should that be Fi? Sorry, just got curious|||I love all sorts of music, but my all time favorites are always packed with emotion.  This song, and its video, are beautiful, and really tie into our idealism. ...|||That's the Fe function for you. We are very aware of other people's thoughts and feelings, and can't help but want to please people, all the time. We focus a lot on maintaining harmonious...|||I'd have to agree with everyone, type is important, but not the only thing that's important. Common values are a must. Plus, as far as type is concerned, you should be able to feel when you click,...|||What is it that you want to know? The fact that we're both idealists already means that we have plenty in common!|||Good question...I think two extraverts would probably make a dynamic couple XD Thanks for the encouragement...funny, usually I go for introverts....|||1) Friend/Crush of mine 2) Small bird 3) We make brief eye contact before it flies away 4) Medium-Large 5) No! 6) Lots of chairs with lots of people in them! 7) Plastic 8) Pick it up for a...|||Thanks! That's the direction I was going in, glad to see that there's still hope for me!:crazy: I'm glad none of it involves the whole bad boy bullshit the internet tries to sell, haha|||Hi there! So, as the title says, I'm a completely hopeless ENFJ. You see, I've been crushing on a friend of mine for a long time now. Really badly. To the best of my knowledge, she's an ENFP...|||Glad to have helped, if only slightly. I hope, as I said before, that things turn out for the best. The fact that you're willing to go to her parents shows that you're concerned, and really do care...|||I hated middle school -__- But, I persevered. I had friends there, but looking back on it, I don't think most were as close to me as I thought they were at the time.  However, this isn't any reason...|||Hmm...well, my dad is an ESTJ (we always butt heads) Stereotypically, you can be viewed as strict, logical, goal-oriented, controlling, stubborn, and defensive This is in no way an attack on...|||http://images2.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20090129203960/8bittheater/images/e/e7/White_Mage.png  White mage!|||Oh, and as far as helplessness is concerned, I know exactly how you feel. I can't stand it, I feel guilty...but in reality, it's not our fault. My friend told me that I can't constantly worry about...|||I have a friend in a similar situation. I don't know her type, but she got involved with some random guy and he got her to give up all her values. She did drugs with him once or twice, and they have...|||http://img695.imageshack.us/img695/1813/desktopfep.png  Uploaded with ImageShack.us  I just love the water :)|||Hi! :D I'm a newbie too, but this forum is really fun! Welcome!|||How come you feel down? :sad:|||Hmm...I feel content (like the little emote says!) for the most part. Last week was hectic, with a meeting scheduled almost every day, and only 2 1/2 days of school to go to. I loved it. This week,...|||Ok, as far as what pisses me off about me... There's the basics that have been stated quite a few times (being a doormat, manipulation) Then, the whole not opening up completely...It's definitely...|||You're not insane! Although, I do have a few questions about whether or not your father really is an ENFJ. It goes without being said that we love having company and conversations (sometimes to a...|||Thank you all for making me feel welcome! :happy:|||Whelp, my mom is probably an ISFJ, and my dad is a definite ESTJ. Mom is easier to relate to, because of the feeling function. Still, she has a very pronounce eye for detail, and gets stressed out...|||Haha, now that you mention it, I do seem to have more female friends than male friends. What you said makesa whole lot of sense, as far as unloading problems, but i wouldn't go so far as to compare...|||I guess I can understand, it gets exhausting always being called on for this, that, and the other thing. However, I honestly don't mind being a doormat, it all goes back to one of our greatest gifts...|||Right, well, I'm new to the whole forum thingamabob. As stated, I'm an ENFJ (and proud)!!! So, yeah...Hi! Hopefully, this'll be a fun, educational, fun experience :laughing:'