'Nononono, there is NO link whatsoever. I mean, if it takes me 3-4 weeks to answer you probably don't mean much to me. But a few days is quite usual. I think if you want a quicker thing i usually use...|||I do this very often. And the one thing i can say is there is no correlation with whether i like people or not. I usually read the email but i very often kind of delay replying. Obviously if they...|||Last summer i did meditation for 3 months, daily. I used the headspace app. And though it felt comfortable on most days, on the days i was stressed or very emotional it did nothing for me. I just...|||I feel similar most of the time. I strongly believe i have the capacity to be loved and to love myself, and yet i still find myself waiting it out. Looking back in my early twenties i did not have...|||I'm currently doing online dating, and it's a bit tricky and yet it makes other things easier. I have some good friends who found their match through online dating so i have high hopes (but try to...|||I just subscribed myself on a datingsite. I think i have a dead wish :shocked:  It's a good thing i was prepared for many a strange thing. After just one evening i feel i can write a comedy show...|||To be honest it doesn't really sound so good. The move on-advice she's been giving you, sounds more like there's friendship potential than love interest. Plus, she's stuck at home with a knee surgery...|||You'd have to ask the guys i've been with i suppose :laughing: I tend to be very self-conscious and self-controlling, so the hardest part for me is to let go (to dare and let go). So the first time...|||Yes and no. It started as a witch hunt thread. Which is ironic because the OP in her post is indeed not showing Fe but rather Te with all the rules she put there. That thread is awful, but since...|||A lot of these things don't really point to INFJ or INFP, but just the fact that you ware an xNFx.  But there are a few things that sound more INFJ to me. Just one that doesn't seem to finish...|||Been diving into Enneagram with 3 books superlarge books i borrowed from the library. Turns out the tests are wrong (once again), I'm not a 5. I'm getting quite convinced i'm a 9.  Which might...|||it's always worth it no matter what the outcome is|||Te is a pretty powerful function, and i can imagine that Ni-Te is pretty good at figuring out how things work in general (including things like charisma and EQ) both by observation and 'studying',...|||Definitely not INFJ :) Clear abundance of Ne shining through.  But i agree with lage1234 we need a bit more to figure out Fi or Ti. There is inkling of Fi coming through now, but could be totally...|||Fi and Te is pretty clear on quite a number of answers so IxFP is a solid bet.  Regarding Se or Ne is a bit harder, i would be more inclined to say ISFP. They way you described the picture was very...|||I'm totally inclined to follow on INTJ.  There's intuition but it's very convergent. Even when you're explaining the picture you chose you talk about 1 possible meaning behind posting a picture of...|||This thread honestly made me cry. Guilty of all this and more, still trying to figure it all out (and still getting it wrong). Not giving up yet.   This ought to be mandatory literature for all...|||Not that easily actually, or at least not in the way you describe it. Sometimes my mind is obsessed with one thing i'm figuring out, and then it doesn't want to concentrate on anything else. For...|||I don't think there's such a divide, i can blend quite easily, and it depends more on the general setting than on the person.  In a massive group, it's slightly easier with introverts because they...|||Best friend for over 20 years: ENFP  Other fabulous mate (but no talking emotional fuzzy affairs: ESTJ) Best colleague in the whole world: ENTP|||(No need to get rude, a simple clarification of your question would have sufficed without that first bit, we were just trying to help based on what you seemed to be asking :(  )   For me, i...|||It works a little different with introverts... In MBTI what counts is whether your first extravert function is Judging or Perceiving. The INFJ's lead with a perceiving function, but we show a...|||Sorry to hear that. Big hug!|||It's clear that he doesn't want to talk about it (right now). So don't try that.  Just let him know that it's obvious that's something's wrong, and that if he wants to talk or text about it that you...|||Imissyoualready I tried to understand you're post as well as i could, it's clear that you're very upset. But one question, when all of this kicked off, did you consider it might not have anything to...|||Dear me,  You knew this was coming right? Obviously it hurts, but the evening was excellent while it lasted.   There's a storm brewing, and thunder and lightening are on their way. At least,...|||Sometimes yes. To be honest, MBTI helped so much in understanding how my brain is different than others. I used to have these times were i felt like stamping my feet and yelling WHAT DO YOU THINK...|||No, that would be a bit fatiguing :) When I'm really at ease i can actually be the loudest most impulsive person in the room.   I thought about this a few weeks ago, the best i can explain is...|||I'm not analyzing you. You asked what people were implying, I just explained.|||The one below    You seem to want us to tell you that it's not a good idea, so you have reasons not to really pursue, because you can't have certainty that it's going to be the perfect match. At...|||Aaah, ... mais moi, je vois la vie en rose! :laughing:     When other people speak freely, it can be liberating. But personally I'm careful. I think speaking freely can be scary. I think words...|||I know, it's so stupid. I'm not the most quiet or shy INFJ that exists, but typically i bounce of topics other people have started. Apart from my best friend, i often have no clue how to start on a...|||To be honest, i'm never quite sure what to think of these threads... Imagine we all say that INFJ-ESTP is a horrendous idea* will you stop persuing her?  You literally say: I want nothing more...|||How old are you? Not uncommon for INFJs to be a bit late to the relationship game at all.  The first thing to let go: the fear. I realized that way too late. In my early twenties there were...|||After this one, 5 more posts and i'm at 500.. *SHOCK*  Can't imagine that i had many interesting things to say though... :laughing:|||I'm not sure whether Ni can ever be turned 'off'. It's always there in the background, gathering info, piecing things together. The whole point is that it's quite unconscious. However i can agree...|||edit: and of course that got posted twice. life is against me.  https://allmyroads.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/calvin-and-hobbes-god.gif|||I'm losing the war against the musquitos!   Its 1-7 right now. They bit me 7 times and i only managed to kill one of them.  Life isn't fair.|||Yup! The list of people that are allowed to touch me is pretty short. And even then it usually has to be on my terms. If a hug is coming and i don't expect it, i actually start to back away. ...|||No problem, and you're welcome. A little space is good, but i think when it comes to infjs there also is such a thing as 'too much space'.  I don't know about other infjs but diffusing the...|||Hmm, that's interesting...  A little while ago i read some frustration in the INTP subforum that INFJs are always trying to read things between the lines that they (=INTPs) claim isn't there. What...|||I hate conflict. If it's the conflict of others, I will try to diffuse the situation (some call this meddling :)) But if i'm at the heart of it, i do tend to flee and swallow it all, until i boil...|||There's one thing that doesn't really add up with ESFP which is never carrying out actions. Thinking of a million possible things to do and not doing any of them is typically more an Ne-quality :)...|||Dominant Se's have a knack for knowing people and what is going on around them. That typically makes them the most exquisite sales people because they know how to approach people and can instantly...|||Dear self,  You're stronger than this, and you know it. Go read those peer messages again you got last week, there are so many people who like you for who you are, you don't need somehow who is...|||I don't necessarily do that last bit. Sure, some individuals have been door slammed and they will never come back into my life. But i've had guys before that i loved as friends but who wanted more,...|||OK,  xdae, here are my answers. I didn't read the other INFJs answers yet, so i'm not biased, so sorry if it's full of repeats.  Please give your own subjective standpoint: In general, do you...|||Ultr4 That's a tough one. I can easily see two options and have no clue which is most likely.  One: She misses you as a friend, and after some cool down period is really just trying to establish...|||Yes! So much so that i thought i was an INTP for years before digging into the functions and realizing that my Ti was not structured and systematic enough to be Ti, but more gutfeel based, and...|||Depends. When i was younger, i had two kinds of anger: the sudden inflammable type, and the slowburner. The first one came very sudden out of nowhere, was over after a few seconds and often left me...'