'luemb, I know that, and I appreciate the information. According to what I read, it's less but who knows.  I am not implying you do not have a life but since there are very few INTJs, I figure this...|||Working, in a pharmaceutical, Medical, Scientist research lab, University professor, cave(home), computer games. geeks, dating sites but you have to know what to look for.  Anything that is...|||Gibbs @ everyone has their likes. I find  awkward and clumsy cute.   Guys who are interested in me do things like that, another wasn't watching where he was going and hit a telephone pole. LOL.  It's...|||TrippedOnReality, yes,Dear   Ok, sure of course! <chuckles>  Thanks,  Janie:cool:|||I think he like you. Why would he tell you personal stuff and spend time with you. I think he's thinking about different things maybe it's your turn to show interest. Don't wait on a man to call you...|||Oh good grief, if you don't like them don't worry about it. We are not going to change either.  When you are young in age you have this kind of attitude, I will do what I please. Of course it isn't...|||Make him dinner with the child.  I am sure he will enjoy a home cook meal.  For the child something they like, something to make them feel special. My uncle did this with me(6-8 ) when he started...|||Let me ask what does this fabulous creature get in return?  Is the Perfect female only acceptable?|||Yes, it is so true. Your story is so lovely.:happy:|||I like them all, but if I chose one I would say SEX. Then service, Then more sex. LOL|||I don't like it either but we do have to be reasonable. People have lives.  I suggest asking when they may possibly call, telling them to call as soon as possible because I have something I need to...|||I did, first sight. I talked to him for about year but off and on. When I first saw him he was on a dating website.  I instantly liked him, but we couldn't meet until a year later.  When I first saw...|||(ENFJ)Yes, I feel this way but for different reasons.  You are unique and special no matter what. We are all hard on ourselves. You do the best you can and remember you are human with imperfections....|||You can have more than one, I do.  If you only could choose one, then this is the primary one. Otherwise, it will be easier for someone to make you happy. At least this is what I think.|||I agree, to a certain point, I still use logic,and experience. My thought process alerts by feelings and reminds me of facts I have pondered before if it's important.. I think about what I need in...|||That's so cute, i like it.|||Thank you! Superbly done.<sigh>|||ooh la la, I feel the same.  Come my sweet man and cry as I hold and caress your head and mane.   I am a dominant woman and was a tomboy when I was a child. I use to think why I wasn't more...|||I agree with you but you are wrong.  Obviously you understand, that's the point.  If you use a language with someone and they do not understand your word it is useless. Real intelligence is when you...|||here's an idea moron, kiss my ass.|||I love feminine type guys, gay or not. Either as a boyfriend or a best friend.|||Really? I share my stuff as long you take care of it. :tongue:|||You could say I love you guys , wear a t-shirt that states If I don't show emotions it's because I forgot them at home, use words, your awesome, beautiful, cool, you're no. #1, You're special,...|||Thank you so much.  It means alot to me for you to share your experience.  :happy:|||@Mr. X I understand your concern, but I didn't choose an INTJ because he is one. I chose him for who he is. :happy:|||Small talk is exactly that an opportunity to engage in conversation. You don't start a complicated subject because you are trying to figure out the person to see if they want to talk, or not.  Some...|||Anyone has any constructive advice?|||I can't be too specific, because we are all different but if it comes down to male and female, it's right.  I have no need to be sexist. I love men, just not the idiots.  Sometimes things don't need...|||I think it comes down to manners. I thought not paying attention was a woman's complaint of a man.  I heard that women are conditioned or innate to face each other while the men do things and not...|||Kristindork,  I am very sensitive, I hate it when I am discussing important things, but I like that I can put myself in another's shoes so I can help them out.  People in general don't care or...|||It is not fact if you don't have evidence to confirm it.  It is a good explanation, but since I don't believe in all parts of evolution like some, I do think there's not enough evidence. It is not a...|||the·o·ry ˈTHēərēˈTHi(ə)rē noun noun: theory;u2003plural noun: theories    1. a supposition or a system of ideas intended to explain something, esp. one based on general principles independent of...|||I disagree, woman develop sexual experience because they are horny.  Today's men, in most cases, are not attracted to wide hips, but thin anorexic type body and finally the silicone breast are...|||Hahahaha, I am not pressuring him. Well, at first i did, I blew up at him for leaving me all bewildered after our romantic encounter.  He did manage to tell me he liked and cared about me.  He does...|||yes, of course, I understand.  If he didn't want anything to do with me it would be logical for a him not to respond.  The fact that he does confuses me.  He was so tender and loving with me and ...|||I know he had a relationship before me and it's been about going eight months since the breakup. So I don't know.  He's 59 years old, but he doesn't act it.  He wants a relationship because I ask him...|||I don't play any stupid games, I think it's immature.  He doesn't tell me anything but he didn't tell me about anyways. We talked about what is present.  We have known each other for about a year off...|||He doesn't respond.  How hard is it to tell me yes or no.  He is a INTJ, because I asked him.|||Yes, I have but he doesn't answer? Twice. He answers other questions for the most part. He's a nice guy, we have talk before. If he justed wanted continue our friendship I would he would say so....|||Question: Why does a INTJ man pull away? As friends we talked well but once we consummated it.  He text me when I text him and he answers my questions but it's like he doesn't respond to hugs and...|||What do you mean detachment? Please give examples. TY|||I think if you have a list of qualities for a potential mate that's good but you have to consider other variables too.  We humans are not perfect and I know this doesn't matter to some INTJ's, but...|||No, not all manipulation is wrong.  For example, it can be used by a nurse, and she needs to get their patient out of the building but they won't go. Theres a fire, patient is frantic .  I think, ...|||I actually sent them a email today asking him about this.  Could this be a sign he is busy? Maybe he is stressing  and just needs time. I wonder if anyone else has had trouble with this.|||I meet this guy, and we are friends before we meet. Since then he seems distant.  He doesn't ask me questions but answers my questions except the emotional/feeling type questions.  There's something...'