'I like cobalt. I dislike yellow.|||Perhaps you should speak to your therapist about your interest in sticking your heart in the food processor once again. Also, the part about being pathetic. There might be some more clarity for you...|||Age: 38 Gender: Female Country of residence: US Nationality: natural born US citizen Languages: English, some Spanish, some Latin Religion: Christian Political leanings: Anarchist (individual...|||+1 to the rest of what everyone else said. Run far and run fast.  My guess is he likes to control and you resisted control. Good for you.  My guess is he also likes to feel superior to those he's...|||JakeDK  Glad I'm working as intended. My bitch switch got flipped :)|||JakeDK  You can't make those 10s fall for you. I suspect if you really had attempted to talk to that 10 she would have dismissed you nicely or eaten you alive, depending on her mood.  The...|||Do it for yourself. Find something motivating for you, apply it to the situation, and get on it.  I've been procrastinating for the last week because I was overwhelmed by a project that is due this...|||Desperation is like wearing strong perfume when you have a cold. You have no idea it's wafting from your pores. It's not necessarily about your planned actions, but is in your body language, in the...|||Your first problem. You're probably coming off just as thirsty as those boys you're dismissing, but the difference is, you don't know it. You also mentioned that men who treat you poorly are...|||My online/gamer tag is orionelf, which was the name of my character in WoW. I'm forever mistaken as male online. I play video games, can talk about sports and cars, and all that stereotypically male...|||Oh, please do try this. If she's intj do tell us what she says. If she's entj, do have your next of kin let us know the funeral arrangements.|||I married an S. He also couldn't see things coming down the pike. I think sometimes he thought I was either magical or demonic with some sort of ESP. He had to have things spelled out quite...|||It's necessary because once a person engages in a relationship, another person or persons, depending on the structure of your relationship, are part of the decision making process. Only making...|||Oh, it's sacrificing independence. I've been married and I sacrificed my independence. It wasn't just how it worked and it wasn't just understanding I needed solitude. I don't know why I'd want...|||Te (Extroverted Thinking) (90%) your valuation of / adherence to logic of external systems / hierarchies / methods  Ti (Introverted Thinking) (90%) your valuation of / adherence to your own...|||Celibacy? I'm not wired to go for women, so I can't speak to that. I find most women annoying and the idea of having some chick in my ear all damn day makes me homicidal.   My best guy friend is...|||The older I get, the more I listen to my gut. If I hear that little voice in my head telling me something, I've learned to listen.  When I was younger, I'd dismiss my intuition and then have that...|||Not sure him being INTJ has anything to do with it. He sounds like a manbaby.  I dated a guy like this and have no clue what his MBTI was. He was immature, self-centered, and emotionally stunted. ...|||You scored 69.167 out of 100 masculine points, 48.333 out of 100 feminine points, and 53.333 out of 100 androgynous (neutral) points  Hetero Female INTJ|||You scored 69.167 out of 100 masculine points, 48.333 out of 100 feminine points, and 53.333 out of 100 androgynous (neutral) points|||Here are my best guesses at my family (I know mine. I've been trying to type them as best I can)  Me: INTJ Younger Sister: ENT/FJ Mom: ESFJ Dad: I/ENTJ (E when younger, I is super heavy now.)  ...|||I didn't test as highly sensitive, but there were some things that resonated with me.  I can't handle loud, harsh noises. I try to avoid fluorescent lighting because it annoys me. My space is too...|||I actually had a convo with a fellow INTJ about this last night. All we want is connection with that one person who is strong enough to accept all the love we have to give without freaking out. We've...|||I hate taxes. I hate doing bookkeeping type stuff, though I do it as a side gig for extra money.   Forensic accounting uses the skills in a problem solving way. I get to play detective, which is...|||I have undergraduate degrees in business, accounting, and political science.  Have a masters in public administration. Finishing a masters in accounting now.   I am aiming to finish the CPA exam...|||How to get an INTJ female:  Set a trap. Bait it with books, foreign films, and chocolate. Sit back and wait. Works every time.   How to keep an INTJ female (at least what works for me):  1) Be...|||1. I'm a Christian. No, I don't want to debate it. 2. I'm almost finished with an MS in Accounting.  3. I tend to get degrees in things I find interesting and will probably be in some sort of...|||I'm another one who won't get a tattoo. I know plenty of people with them, and as long as you enjoy it - well, it's your body. I have no interest in putting something on my body Ajax won't take off.|||It really depends on what you're doing.   I ran a business that had a fair amount of in-person contact. If I had only had to deal with the long term contract kinds of stuff and phone and computer...|||I live in Wisconsin. I just make sure I have sufficient food in case I get snowed in for awhile.   There are a couple of solar panel kickstarters I'm following more because I'm curious about...|||Accounting. As long as I stay away from taxes, I'm golden. I hate taxes.  I'm in school so I can transition to forensic accounting. I'm pretty sure I'm going to enjoy it.   Right now, I'm doing...|||Yes. Only once. I was in college and met a great guy during a really lousy time in my life. He was amazing and sweet and kind. I only wanted him as a friend and I could tell he wanted more. So I cut...|||You have put this far more eloquently than I ever could. Thank you.  I have recently decided to return to the Episcopal church. I didn't realize how much it suits me.*I find the rituals comforting.|||You are 5' tall and small framed. I am 5'6 tall and large framed.  That will cause our healthy weight ranges to be different.  Sorry you don't understand that.  Is it really that hard to...|||I can only report what it's like to be an INTJ with depression. I have no idea what an INTJ with ADHD or OCD would be like.   My brain is going and it's trapped in this body. My brain works fine,...|||I stopped reading Grisham when I realized they were all the same book. I was so sad. Same with Nicholas Sparks. My one shot at being sappy. I read one mystery series by Tamar Myers where she started...|||Don't be an asshole.  Advice to live by. 38 years experience.  The advice directly above mine?  Solid advice IMO. Knock it off. The more you post the less inclined I am to believe you are what...|||Are you entirely sure you're not ENTJ?|||You need meds. Stat. Damn.|||My death stare is my neutral in thought face. People say its intimidating. Not my problem. When I'm actually angry or just finished with you, my voice takes on this quality my friends call the...|||Can 50 Shades of Gray just die already?|||bleach the absolute shit out of your hair. Use manic panic virgin white or some other toner that will make your hair white. Use a silvering shampoo or semi-permanent silver dye. Make sure it's blue...|||People ask, I tell them. It's not a Nobel Prize. Some of my friends are into the MBTI stuff and we talk about it.   It was nice to know I wasn't the only one like me because I don't think I've met...|||Unite? Only if I can stay home.|||This sounds like me in a lot of ways. I am working on my 6th college degree and will be finished in August. I have worked in between some of them, but once I finished my last masters, I was really...|||I thrive on pressure. I handle it just fine, just don't talk to me when I'm working.  I try to avoid having a boss; however, when pressured by one I do the job efficiently and effectively and...|||I want to be a forensic accountant, so that's why I'm in school again. I don't want to research for my job, that's my fun time.  I wanted to be an astronaut quite strongly when I was younger and...|||Not sure I've ever been in love as it seems to be portrayed in society. Considering I've been married, that's pretty sad.  I certainly love and am loved. However, this in love thing doesn't...|||That day you had to tell your therapist you thought he experienced some schadenfreude when he thought you made a mistake earlier in your professional relationship?  That would be today. You're not...|||being  I hate PMS because it makes me batshit crazy. My menses are regulated now and I'm about 8 years post birth control pill, so that's good. I had a bad run-in with the Depo shot. I don't...'