'Dear (ISTP) Yeti, We're into our 5th year as a couple, married for a year and half, and I want you to know that I love you. I need you and I trust you. You're the strength I lack and you don't mind...|||My (ISTP) Yeti: A fart is a message from a turd....I'm coming out.|||Never mind.|||removed|||Dear Yeti,  We've been a couple for nearly 4 years, and our one year wedding anniversary is coming up soon. I love the journey. I love and respect you more than you'll ever know.  Pookie|||Dear Yeti (ISTP),  There are two of you. I love both.  The INFJ who was created just for you.|||If an ISTP notices you, and subsequently makes contact with you, he/she is at least a little bit interested.|||Here's a huge list of INFJs and Enneagram types: http://personalitycafe.com/infj-forum-protectors/106435-gargantuan-list-infj-enneagram-types-27.html|||That's exactly what I have to do...every...day...of the world.  About 97% of my customers are the greatest people on earth; but even some of those just don't bother to read ALL of what I've...|||Bumping this thread, because I'd like to hear more.  I've struggled with this problem my whole life. I'm much better at writing than speaking (big surprise there, huh?). With pen and paper or...|||Dear Online Customers,  Insert rant that I would be ashamed of later, even if it is virtually anonymous.  Sincerely, Irritated INFJ who will grit her teeth, pleasantly smile, and respond to you...|||Note to self: You're not funny. Things that seem hilariously funny when you're drinking, really ARE NOT FUNNY. Stay off facebook, stay off your phone, don't talk to ANYone after the third beer. How...|||Drinking...sorry.|||Dear Yeti, ... The INFJ who loves you|||INFJsx92 Dominant Function: Introverted Intuition (Ni)Intuition  is generally considered a subconscious process. It is often contrasted  with more conscious types of rational thought. Because Intuition...|||INFJs’ Dominant Function: Introverted Intuition (Ni)Intuition  is generally considered a subconscious process. It is often contrasted  with more conscious types of rational thought. Because Intuition...|||Makes perfect sense.|||I agree with @Daniel Heckert's post almost entirely.  Much of what you ( bluemorpho84 ) have explained sounds a lot like my ISTP husband, i.e. not hearing from him when you're apart, very little...|||@Cinnamon83 - I didn't take anything you said in the wrong way at all. I was just giving a little more information. The reason I post here amongst ISTPs is because I want straightforward feedback. I...|||I understand what you're saying, Cinnamon83; and honestly, I'm quite a bit like that myself. I indulge my younger son in allowing him more gripe time than anyone else...I don't know why I do that...|||I've heard that INFJs are the least J of all Js :) Not sure how true it is across the board, but for myself, it's true.  To answer the original question, though...no, you can't be both at the same...|||As an INFJ married to an ISTP, I can see many similarities between us. There are definite differences, but in some ways, we're almost identical. I think this is especially true as we age and we begin...|||My ISTP husband is an excellent bass player (not just in my opinion but in the opinion of his peers). Anyway, his grammar is nearly impeccable, and he's written lyrics from time to time. He's good at...|||Good reading. Thank you Thorweeps|||Dear JB Nobody,  BUSTED!  211410  But in my own defense, I'm usually posting about my dear ISTP husband (aka Yeti). So :tongue:  The INFJ Who Haunts You|||Oh no, didn't mean to make you feel that way. I just find it very odd behavior for an ISTP. However, an unhealthy ISTP may act completely out of character. I haven't studied up on the how the shadow...|||Not sure why that would be, it's very unusual.|||Doesn't sound like an ISTP to me, but I could be wrong. Every one I've known says exactly what they mean, and almost always do so without apologies. That's one of the many things I love about my...|||Crazy enough, it just might work :) Seriously, your post reminds me that ISTPs are problem solvers, and sometimes you all create problems just so you have something to fix! Ok, but to apply what...|||[Insert description of problem in as few words as possible]  After having explained the above problem to Yeti, he minimizes it. I leave it alone.  Months later, I still have that problem, and now...|||Dear (ISTP) Yeti,  It's not the end of the world if someone knows you better than what is comfortable for you. My (suspected ISTP) brother used to say the same thing, You'll never know me. But, I...|||Dear Yeti,  Sometimes, I feel like a chihuahua trying to take on a St. Bernard.  Sincerely, The Oompah Loompah who loves your grumpy ass.|||Thank you. After almost three years, we tied the knot. Most of the time, it's like being married to my brother...who looks for ways to piss me off. But I can't live without him. He's my baby.|||Dear Yeti,  Your acts of kindness are never random. They're well thought out and intentional. Our friend, who now owns your leather jacket, and our other friend, who now owns your Lone Wolf pin,...|||My sweet husband posted this on my FB wall :P  136225  Hell, the fact that he posts anything on my wall makes me feel special...haha!|||Not going to go back and read everything I've said before (and I've probably already said it at least once)...if he/she makes time for you AT ALL, EVER...he/she has some level of interest in you. ...|||Yes.|||Dear Yeti,  Fairy tales aren't so much the end of the story, they're moments within the story. Here's to enjoying the moments.  Your friend, your sister, your wife.|||Odd. I say the same thing about my ISTP. We're a lot alike though, so it shouldn't surprise me. He gets me, though. We're both quiet by nature, but he knows the difference between my peaceful quiet...|||Dear ISTPs (and those who love them):  After nearly three years, my Yeti and I are married. Just thought a few of you who remember me would like to know :)  Your INFJ friend.|||Bleh... :P  I ended up marrying him instead of myself, so it all turned out great...haha!|||Dear Yeti,  Thank you for saying No to the guy's invitation. Probably would've been fun tonight, but...tomorrow would suck. (Not to mention all the dollars that would be involved).  Your lil...|||My ISTP has a big heart for animals. I do too, but it seems a little strange that he would care so much about them.  And yes, @Earworms, my ISTP has always taken things one day at a time too. I...|||I completely understand. It wasn't until he told me that he wanted to marry me that it really sunk in how much he cares. He's said and done other things that I knew at the time were HUGE for someone...|||Somewhat new. He asked me to marry me in November. We're planning to be married in May :)|||My son is an ESTP and he loves to cuddle. Fiance is an ISTP, and he frkn hates to cuddle.|||^^^this. :/|||No.  My ISTP doesn't, but I guess that doesn't speak for them all.|||Dear ISTPs,  This post belongs elsewhere, so I've moved it.  INFJ|||Dear @n2freedom,  Your friend, Jorji'