'Discussions are always worth it. But I find this with so many INFP's. The no one understands me issue. Some INFP's assume they aren't understood, when in reality all it is is that someone like me...|||Yes, but I know the difference with someone being appreciative and someone being needy. Like I said unless I'm in an intimate relationship wherein i could tolerate neediness to a point, then it comes...|||retorts the one that has contributed by linking simpsons videos.|||Life exists because we were created. There are many theories as to our purpose. But no it was not an accident, we're not accidents or amino acids reacting etc. Find yourself and you may find your...|||By friend zone I mean, I friend zoned her and I couldn't get her out of that even though she liked me and her being older seemed to play a part in that. And yeah I wouldn't date a woman younger or...|||Well no it is not about my pride, it's purely a matter of what they draw out of me. A younger girl draws from me a different energy than an older one. And yes I am generalizing and I actually have...|||Oh, I see what you mean, basically she won't feel younger to me by then, I'm not sure it would make much difference though. And even at the younger age the competitiveness can be triggered, it's just...|||but you said i'd be 65 and she's 60, she's younger so there wouldn't really be that issue. Not in the same way. Also that is over 30 years away so it is hard for me to visualize what would happen...|||I am not sure, that's a very vague question, not sure which angle to answer it from.|||Yeah now a days it is messed up and probably many women are the care takers.  And as for me I haven't quite dissected why I find it unnatural, I just find her being younger adds to my perception of...|||Because he should be stronger,and she's the weaker vessel. Plus she is the one that has the ability to nurture a life inside her, and as a species it is built into our instinct to protect that aspect...|||In probably more cases than not men take longer to mature, so it is safe to assume it would be hard to find a man 10 years younger that is at the same maturity level. Even a 6 yr older man was so...|||personally a woman being older than me is a slight turn off. They can be up to  10 years younger than me as long as they are legal, and aren't immature little kardashians, or wannabe's. But in any...|||I am very not INTJ sorry.   Dang first impressions are a whole new level with you then.    Although I am skeptical about people, I usually expect that they have more to offer than to take away...|||Always look forward to your formulaic responses.   I am extremely forgiving, and I will forgive when there is an admittance that they wronged me with their lies, or whatever it is that broke my...|||no homo though.|||Honesty. The truth and nothing but the freaking truth. I don't care for sugar coating, I don't care for partial truth, partial stories, half truths, need to know basis. Tell me it all or tell me...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P8O4UA22pIo&list=PLlmzUMgbdjNmMlN77j8TPDkbBgfMhQc8w&index=5|||I didn't even have to read the entire post to realize one thing. He is looking for a better girl than you. In the mean time gets to keep you exclusively for sex, once he finds a girl, you're done...|||Just telling how it is, is enough to make them feel pedestrian.|||INTP and INTJ hugfest. Imagine a real life meetup of all intj and intp. And everyone has to hug it out.|||when in need of hugs come say hi to the beehive of intp's|||That's the problem with this kind of thing, you risk being kicked around like a ball, need to pick out the good advice from the jabs. I believe you had good intentions, but sometimes it's our actions...|||495154|||I didn't read all the replies so I'm not sure if someone already covered this. Not justifying his logging on to okc, but it would have been better if before assuming everything if you'd engaged him...|||as an INTP the most intriguing and interesting type for me is INTJ.|||Why do you want to know if HE likes talking to you? do you like him, or do you just like talking to him?|||Science is a vague term, but yes generally in some aspect I think it's not a myth but liking it isn't inherent to being INTP. Math absolutely. Math is truth.|||I know exactly what you mean, in that case i'd know it's not my business to know it all, but I can't be fully invested in offering my advice or opinions with out the entire picture so they probably...|||I agree and it's cool to hear someone else understand what this is about. I guess the problem is finding the right balance and timing for the other person to feel comfortable with the concept that...|||I won't ask again for a while, but yeah to me it's more of a reality check of where things actually are. Ultimately I uncover every thing under every nook and cranny, only until then I believe trust...|||I didn't bring it up, they did in relation to something else and when I pushed for clarification it was a lets not talk about this. So I let it go.|||This situation can happen in close relationships with someone, or with a potential significant other. It can also happen when told to work on something and all the details are not presented and I get...|||you're using an avatar I used to use when I felt an overwhelming feeling of nothingness. Felt like commenting on that.|||judgmental is a really vague word. Every single person with a functioning brain judges in some form or another. So I think you just need to take what he is saying the way he is trying to say it...|||The only INTJ I talk to regularly I debate with. The thing is, 95% of the time our debate turns into solving a problem. And usually we either solve it together in the end, or we invent some wacky...|||where are the back dimples. the ones right above the rear?|||I think INTP girls are much diff than the guys, and I think she might have found the puns funny, but didn't know how to express it so she commented on what she knew how to comment on. It might take a...|||flower of life. Geometric symbolism.|||I've only had INFP friends not partners. I found them as friends way too clingy. I suspect as partners it may be worse. However I'd probably be more tolerant in that case who knows. The connection...|||I've only had INFP friends not partners. I found them as friends way too clingy. I suspect as partners it may be worse. However I'd probably be more tolerant in that case who knows. The connection...|||I'll hug your dads|||I think all these scores are subjective. What we think of ourselves and the score we give ourselves is subjective. She could be stepping on my face and I can still give her a 10 and it makes no...|||I think someone else said it too, it depends on the person or people. Or where I am.   But generally I think I might come across as neither friendly nor cold. Maybe a 5.|||I thought you were a 10 with me though.|||thanks I have been looking through that and I can see intp and entp have the same functions but pretty much reversed I think.   As for ISTP, the entire description is really not me haha. Thanks for...|||so i just took the test again cause i have been having doubts. And I got INTP type A in the test I took.   however the reasons I doubt my INTPness is for the following reasons but I am not sure...|||Can't have it both ways. If a woman came to me and said that to me it's over right then and there. Don't marry or want to marry someone you don't have a full range of attraction for. It is not the...|||Has anyone seen the bodies? all i see is the same handful of body bags, and live people that don't look that injured.|||we're all messed up ;D'