'In all honesty, It's probably because right now I feel depressed. Overthinking and over analysing something that I couldn't have changed and my ultimate decision would have caused a major problem if...|||It's probably because I not long ago broke up with a girl I fell in love with (Rather fast, never felt anything like it). But i'm starting to go back to normal now. Who knew i'd get so emotional!?|||b) Stop worrying about things that don't need to be worried about. Be able to read people better, their emotions, their thought patterns and such.  I get anxious about events that haven't happened...|||0. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances? Other useful information includes sex,...|||Leave them free range?? as in, let them contact you? i'm lost :|||We never actually argued one from what I remember. We had a few very small disagreements but we pretty much both agreed on everything. I mean, we both liked the same flavour gum for crying out loud!...|||Dargh! I'm confused to hell about this one.  Anybody have any insights?  Right now i'm just like, but the personality tests say x and i'ts not working :@|||Hi there fellow INTJ. Just a word of warning, we're all sarcastic here.|||Rule #1. Don't get drunk and expect people to not take advantage, not everybody is nice. Rule #2. If either party are beyond it / drunk to excessive amount.. It doesn't take a genius to know it's...|||Thanks all. We do indeed have a very strong emotional connection, I love how she's always smiling and I really like her laugh :)  I do tell her to calm down, but I let her say what she has to and I...|||Just as the title says.. Any tips?|||If I buy something somebody, It's because I value them for who they are. Nobody will get anything from me without showing me they deserve it first.|||Genuinely though, where is the dating section? Seems like madness not to have one :O|||Thanks all, I appreciate the honest responses. It's good to know about face-to-face contact as I'm more comfortable with that myself. :D|||I did date a girl recently that I got on super well with. Had that spark straight away which is uber rare for me. However, she's battling a broken heart and she's not ready to date so kinda missed...|||Hi all you lovely ENFP people  Quick question; What makes you interested in INTJ's? I'm curious as to what it is that we do that you don't see in other types.  Do you prefer to do this inperson,...|||Nope, I don't really do Just because and Religion is like Geology is to Sheldon Cooper, Who coincidentally calls them the rock people. :P|||Some good suggestions. Religion though? I'm not religious at all. I'd find that pretty scary if i'm honest.  Maybe meetup would work?|||1. Tension? As in having to drive to the other side of the country, girls playing mind games or physical conflict? One of the strongest has to be breaking up with a girl I went out with for a few...|||I wish there were places in my local town but it's pretty small and doesn't have many places that you can relax in. Kinda sucks.  i need to find a place, I've been thinking about it a lot over the...|||Perhapse this question was better suited for a feely sub-forum rather than the INTJ one. I should have expected top-level sarcasm :P  I keep the abdullahs in the basement so she can't stay there.|||Why do i suspect you have a degree in psychlogy? :P  Hmmm. Most I enjoy though don't have females in or are not really local. Maybe that's me being Introverted idk..  Fire away, As long as...|||1. Is more of an Ambiguous question, For example, I'm after peoples experience rather than a thought process. I'm open to non-INTJ answers here too, being one, I'm after outside views.  4. I'm...|||Hi All  Hoping that there are some people out there that can say Done that and give me some solid Factual advice from their own life.  I'll give you a little background first then ask...|||I'm just surprised people actually took an interest, Usually I talk to myself :)|||You say: As much as I'm enjoying our talks, I can't help but think this is leading somewhere. Are you after friendship or are you after something more?  Unless you're really blunt: Are you...|||Curious.|||INTJ, Cancer.. Maybe I should just avoid myself? I'm pretty good at that.|||It's actually rather nice to know that people think of you, it just means to get to this level you have to open your eyes and reciprocate when people are attempting to know you. Takes no effort...|||Polyphia: Memory|||Very True.  IMHO, I disassociate myself with people that push me to this point, unless there is a long standing relationship of some kind, in which case I'll usually try and smother some words in...|||Depends how progressed it is really, but generally:  Never-ending thoughts that spiral out of control and make us even further unhappy. Waste hours just staring and being, not doing anything....|||He used to have a unique warmness to him.. Not many actors have that..|||That is very productive!|||aYoungWarthog  How old are you? (I ask because I may offer a better insight)  I've had my fair share of shit from girls.. and guys for that matter.. But girls will always fuck us INTJ's up more...|||Thank you olias That was a very insightful and helpful reply! As it stands at the moment we are still talking to each other via text, even though it's slown down dramatically.. almost overnight we...|||... Sundays (Sundaes) ...  :-p|||If she truly is reading me that way (And she would have to be very good at reading me as i give nothing away) then I guess she needs to determine herself if she' happy with me. I can't change who I...|||It's a very long spoon? I can eat days of the calendar with it :-)|||No idea. From what you've put though I'd say I'm a water>earth ?|||I'm available for banter.. Be warned I have a spoon!!|||I'm lost.. I haven't heard half of what she is into and she doesn't know anything yet of what i'm into, so... :-O|||I love how the Type 5w6 have a very similar outlook on it as I do.. Although I do have an overly exaggerated fear of getting a girl pregnant!|||Not exactly confident treating girls as objects, but I'll take a look at PUA!|||Yep. Then you look like an idiot.. Ironic since they're the ones that didn't get it haha|||I'm guessing the banter part is important in all relationship areas. Generally though I say something too witty and it goes over peoples heads. Puzzles me how they just don't get it.. ^__^|||haha, very true.. You must enjoy it a lot. Well, I think it's more of a symbiotic thing.. I'm after some information and you get a free coffee. (And possibly a bit of banter) ;-p|||^ insightful information to consider there Impavidus  Looks like you stepped on a pin though! That wasn't my intention.|||^ It's a shame I never put myself in real life situations to do this though! :-  Interesting that you just get what I meant.. Lots of people I approach are like: whaaaaaattt???? lol|||I'm Dating an ESFJ, and she's come to the conclusion that because we don't have much in common, she's not sure if it will work out..  I've known her 2-4 weeks.. Why would she think like that I...'