'I am willing to go out of my comfort zone but not in order to make myself into a better person. The main reason to do so is to experience something that I would not be able to do if I remained within...|||right at this moment i wish that i had more time to vegetate!!! damn, its been so long...|||I am most definitely not into politics. Have been dragged into all this social justice stuff by my idealistic ENFP girlfriend. That said, I do have a bleeding heart.|||From what I have read the sexiness factor is gender specific and it is intuitive. We live in a world in which the female gender is allowed to express feelings and the male gender is allowed to...|||My flirt based on a recent find  So, I was reading Naomi Klein and the leap manifesto - want to collaborate on a personal manifesto? *then I put on my most endearing and winning smile and wait doe...|||Nothing more to add here other than that I think Figure, Catwalk and RexMaximus each got different aspects right. To summarize, the good parts are clearly all there N-N combination, I-E difference,...|||What exactly is insincere about his words and actions?  He is really not thinking too much. He may be tired of playing the game and wants to know if you like him or not so that the two of you can...|||I am conflict averse. But quite in tune with my feelings. Generally, if a person is close to me, then I hesitate to share my feelings. However, I have found that the more I acknowledge my feelings...|||Just finished Three Body Problem. A decent book, but not my best read.|||good point:-)|||interesting. this is exactly how she seems to want it. i generally tend to be the type who has no idea what the experience is going to be itself, but arranges the logistics as best I can to eke out...|||It seems though that i am using listening in a very specific way. i mean listening without solving. she tries to *solve* if its me who is doing the talking and when she is doing the talking I can't...|||This feels much more like an ENFP than her. It is almost like she wants to massage me to her point of view. Granted, it is quite difficult for two people to share similar frames of references. What...|||Haha, this was an interesting insight. I think it comes naturally to INTJs to *not* actually get in and help but to *stand* by. Its not that we are trying some deliberate strategy. It just seems that...|||What I am finding is that she has her perspective and finds it hard to simply listen when another person shares theirs when it differs from her. Likewise, when she agrees with someone she is equally...|||quite the opposite of me. There will be a few times that I will have an observation. sometimes i feel she doesn't get what I say but thats ok.  sounds interesting. but makes sense.   what does...|||my intuition is (after having known my ENFP for some time) that the judgment that you see can be treated as water of a duck's back. Unlike an ISFP or an INFP whose judgment will extend itself to...|||well, first of all just got to acknowledge that ENFPs are one of the nicest for INTJ's. I know its a generalization, so I will just say that for this INTJ the ENFP I am with is pretty cool. Let me...|||my ENFP girlfriend gets me shirts, interesting socks and surprises me with notes or cards. Sometimes the choices work and other times they don't but she doesn't get upset if they don't work. So, I...|||its all about hugs - as in xoxo. if you feel like it go for it. thanks and hugs to you.|||message therapy? hugs back to you twitch. its been a while since I hung out on PC. I need some PC hugs therapy.|||I don't like unsolicited advice and I have learnt to be very upfront about telling the other person when their advice is not necessary.  I do ask for help with relationship questions. Just from an...|||Does anyone have a mapping of the socionics type to MBTI types?  I am not looking for the mapping of INTp to INTJ - that can be found here - How to convert MBTI® type to Socionics type  if not,...|||Ni is an irrational function. So I would say that Te would be drawn to fields where the deciding factors are objective if they keep their Ni to themselves. I myself was drawn to a STEM field because...|||Naturally, I am not saying N's are not represented in STEM fields. Perhaps theoretical physics and Math are heavily represented by N's. Physics, biology and chemistry that heavily draws on Ni also...|||I am in STEM. However, my INFJ friend says that INTJs are drawn to stuff like policy. For my part I have observed a predominance of ISTJ, ISTP, ISFJ, ESTP, ESFJ in STEM.|||ENFP - mine is super caring. loyalty - haven't had a reason to mistrust even though can be flirtatious (i think she is flirtatious in an unconscious way). beautiful and has no problems acknowledging...|||fascinating!!! i guess you leave it to someone else to defend this beauty of the world against threats?|||i posit that it is the cycle of life and death that is beautiful. dead blooms and leaves add to beauty. road kill seems purposeless and senseless. i really really hate it to see dead squirrels...|||yes indeed!!! but how does one not look for answers???|||while i agree with what you say, it leaves me feeling dissatisfied. this is probably because i must control my environment and am constantly dissatisfied with the way things are. and then of...|||agreed. there is something very interesting about how beauty is really visualized, at least for me. when i am extremely tired after a hard days worth of work where I have made real progress, even a...|||naaaah, this doesn't make sense. there is just something intuitively not right about it. if i am tired enough, i can switch off the cognitive knowledge and just let myself perceive things as they...|||yeah, pretty good. funny thing about language. even that seems to help rather than hurt. listening to instrumental music provides the same level of satisfaction as music with words. but reading...|||what we know, we know. Why do we need faith for that?   so are you saying that understanding a garden in terms other than science offers a way of understanding ourselves in a deeper way? that...|||yes, I prefer that the interest in a woman evolve in such a way that it is obvious without any words and that it is mutual. on the other hand i have become quite comfortable with there being rules of...|||Are you saying that what you behold is more than sufficient? That you don't need heaven, life after death?  why do we construct myths and stories to help us through and navigate life? Why not just...|||just a straight up - i need to find food to eat, survive and procreate.|||I am starting to read The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins and came across this quote at the beginning.  Isn't it enough to see that a garden is beautiful without  having to believe that there...|||Pretty much anything non-classical and not live!|||and these were x-rated questions;-)  the problem is the worst case scenario here - i don't get what you want me to do and i see it in your bodily reaction. that would shred my self confidence. ...|||no. exactly the opposite.|||it could be that you are anxious attached and he is avoidant (Understanding Anxious/Avoidant Attachment). or just that you are anxious attached. you may want to lighten up.   a message or two in a...|||The main thing is (as with anything else) - what value is it to me?|||Its not a binary lie/truth. If I find them pretty, then I say so without them asking me to say so. If I find them asking for it then I do tell them that I find their features pretty. I find myself...|||such a provocative title, so little insight. thanks for the good vibes.|||i am fairly blunt when it comes to reality. Not so blunt when it comes to perceptions.|||as Greengirl indicated, the scientific method is question-->hypothesis-->prediction-->test. a scientist follows the scientific method. who then is an un, anti or non-scientist. certainly not the...|||One parent is an ESTP, so I had a lot of encouragement in the physical activity area. I did very well at sports, but I had to work really really hard at it. Even then I never stood first in any...|||cooking, gardening, watching movies/shows.'