'i have the need to feel wanted, but not really needed|||im not really fond of the cheesy romance, but the whole ISTJ thing made the whole movie XD|||Yes but, when it comes to any relationship that strong we still make time, not brush off.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XM6gDIPAsXg|||While watching The Adjustment Bureau, i realised that most of the people in the Bureau are ISTJ's. its quite funny now that i watch it. Of course we arnt the main characters but its quite funny to...|||i get antisocial.....|||This is not an ISTJ, at all. Period.|||Just saying this happens to me too. I notice that alot of personalities will come to ours with there problems, and that can be because we are trustworthy to talk to, or we are kinda the perfect...|||Im an ISTJ female with a INFP boyfriend. and really the only problem area we have is to do with emotions. I can come off as too harsh and cold, and i sometimes see him as overdramatic and...|||Work, Eat, Sleep, Payday,  Work, Eat, Payday,  Work, Payday,  Work Money Sleep die.|||Souls are hard to come by now a days ya know? :wink:|||emotion i guess. we are oblivious to how harsh we sound sometimes.|||Most of my family are feeler types, we were raised in a very unhealthy dysfunctional enviroment. My Father is very manipulative and does anything to get his way, and my mother has severe anger...|||Loyalty, and frugality|||Lol its true im and ISTJ female, my boyfriend is a INFP, he says he does all the crying for me.  When im upset i just busy myself with alot of work, and drown out any emotion.  I guess me getting...|||Hello, im an ISTJ female and my boyfriend is an INFP.  My boyfriend can get really emotional sometimes because he thinks im being Cold or im Pushing him away, i have no idea how to comfort him...|||Hello, im an ISTJ female and my boyfriend is an INFP.  My boyfriend can get really emotional sometimes because he thinks im being Cold or im Pushing him away, i have no idea how to comfort him...|||I would have laughed to, whether thats good or bad, that is hilarious. i dont think something like that ever happened to me though lol:proud:|||1.) Yes, its amusing at times because i sound like sherlock holmes to other people, 2.) OOOOOOOOOOO yes, im super hard on myself|||I was raised with an INFP mother, I did have to become aware that some of my comment were hurtful, but all of them were neccessary and important. So i had to word them differently. I slip up quite...|||Ive always worked pretty good in a team atmosphere as long as we got the work done. I always kept everything as a proffessional relationship. Whatever you have to do to get it done, get it done. It...|||I like it! :shocked:|||Paint Sculpt Photography Sketch Watercolor All art basically Dance Learning Culture and Languages Video Games Ect Ect|||ENFP Males have been hard for me to deal with, they are a very fascinating group of people. I dont think its a very good match. Very different group from us...|||I cant cry in front of people|||Just out of curiosity, What is your intrest in ISTJs? (Im the investigative type i must know XD).:kitteh::tongue::kitteh:|||Curious about how much differences between ISTJs and ISFJs in fashion sense. :happy:   1. Do you like to wear a cap? HATE IT.   2. What brands of running shoes/sneakers are your favorite?...|||As you guys are getting deeper in your relationship she becomes unsure. Im an ISTJ female, and i know in most relationships im hesitant to go to deep into because we wil basically be dedicating our...|||we never needed to ;p|||I feel like this is important i read those word quite often but still i have no idea of what it truly is   1 how do you know your unhealthy ? When you start messing with other peoples heads 2 does...|||If they cant hold a conversation|||I read that ISTJ's view relationships as a necessary part of life and when they find someone they get attached to they make the commitment for life and don't really question it and/or won't be the...|||I dont know he kinda sounds like hes in between. with a little bit of INTJ in him.....Mabey hes an INTJ|||ahem....Sweety you cant handle us even if you tried. Im the school secretary.|||o yes, and things that we done to hurt people or failed to protect makes us feel like shit. Not in the moment that it happened, but when everything crashes on us at once. Including people that hurt...|||O and dont overdo it with embrace, because then we feel your pity. and really not tell you anything, we dont like looking down upon. It pisses us off|||I am an ISTJ, i will try to answer how i was able to deal with mine. -Tell him if he needs someone to talk too he can talk to you. (If he trusts you he MIGHT tell you little things here and there)...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IKb1iYH2UqU  I HATE THIS SONG, but its stuck in my head.......   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1anxnA7Zwc  This to........|||i have 20$ i dont carry coins, i put them in a jar.  Only one Credit Card And no pics.  My wallet is the most boring in the world|||me + hugs = bad juju|||we will eat your soul.|||No, if anything im the complete opposite|||In relationships no, im too busy being independent for that. I could care less what he does. Never accused of being controlling, but have been accused of being distant and emotionally unavailable...|||ISTJ PARTY!!!! even though i hate parties......i would still like to meet all of you. :)|||Unfortunately yes, but i have to be careful sometimes because it can really Screw them up and change there life. It's a game to me, yes. But if the game gets to big, i have to cancel before i win, to...|||hahaha that's sweet, we defiantly appreciated it. :)|||Google will take over the world one day...i do prefer the mastermind|||Bathroom because its small Hate the Kitchen because there's so much more to do.|||I am defiantly not a feeler, my INFP mother would laugh at that. I think it all depends on the environment your brought up in or how you are raised, maybe even experiences that we go through.|||No, absolutly not. Even if i do get married i am going to be bringing money home. Definatly not in our unpredictable economy...'