'As an appropriate addition to the post, I'd like to add that I cried yesterday in front of my boss while we were having a one-on-one meeting in which she spewed hot air about how great I was whilst...|||Healthy: play video games, walk in nature, use CBD for anxiety, hang out with good friends, journal about the issue, create a plan to improve the situation, light candles and relax  Unhealthy:...|||I don't cry often, but if I do feel like I'm getting choked up when others are around, I'll do anything to hide it. I think it's stupid and unnecessarily and somehow shows my weakness. I know that's...|||Anger has always been an emotion that manifests strangely in me, and I'm not sure why.  It takes a very, very potent situation for me to get angry, but I, like splint3r, can count on one hand the...|||Hahah... that's only because I was sitting on my couch! I counsel online, where people who'd prefer the ease of texting come for help. It's called Crisis Text Line. Text 741741... free help in crisis...|||I will have to say a tie between ENTPs, and INTPs. I'm an ENFJ, and I've alwaaayssss been attracted to INTPs. I love their depth and their inner dialogue, when they share it, it seems to go on...|||Haha, yep. That’s me. (Was I that terribly bad in that video. I'm so sick right now. lol) And thanks-- good luck to you, too! Counseling is great. I'm a volunteer (unlicensed) counselor, and it's...|||@Gilly, as convoluted as that sounds, that's pretty much how I feel. I have been leaning towards a certain long-term goal recently, and it's been gaining weight as the weeks go on, so I'm hoping I...|||Holy hell. I feel like everything I said was so awkward and didn't make sense. Haha. My sentence structure and thought process in this is terrifying. I'm so sorry. I was actually pretty sick for...|||It’s not that I’m not aware that I should make a goal, it’s just that none seem motivating or worth dedicating a large amount of my time to. Saying it out loud feels horrible, I’ll admit. What,...|||I had to get a new account. My old one blocked me. I added you. -Steph|||If I don't have an overarching reason, or cause, or goal to keep me motivated and working towards something, I find myself living in a dark place very quickly. Even if the bad times fluctuate and are...|||Yep. I'd do a short video. I'm pretty sure my Skype name is the same as my PC name.|||The title to this thread was so attractive to me... haha. I'm one of those people who list out my values and my personal mission statements and such. Personal development nerd, right here!   Also,...|||Does any other ENFJ feel the need for constant verbal affirmation in intimate relationships?   I'm having a slight issue. I've always been quite the independent and confident woman, but after a...|||Omg, please. You're killing me.   The hot Jesus look is just to die for... (no pun, no pun...)  397730397738|||You know that whole quote about fears actually being paper thin,  and that one step would push you clear through and passed them?  It's true.|||Oh.   My.  GOD.  Excuse me. Excuse me while I... I'm just gonna-- is this? The bathroom, right. I'm just... I'll... be right back............|||:hugs: Thank you.|||Um, well, maybe INFJs? :)  Or, I should phrase that differently. I find myself being drawn in by your sweet INTJ songs.   :)|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eilZug1R4Es  I've been on such a dance music kick... for like... three months now.|||I'm just feeling lost, un-tethered and vulnerable, like I've been thrown into outer space.  I knew all along it was going to require me to figure out how to use my space suit.  But for now, I'm...|||Oh, you flatter me, darling.|||Deleted because I got hyper self-conscious about my Anima.   :)|||I'm also... cursed? ...blessed? ...with the cute vibe. I used to be frustrated by it. I wanted my look to be hot instead of aw, look how adorable, but now I don't mind it as much.  It's also kind...|||I've always want to go to a convention as Snake from Metal Gear, in a cardboard box. With a cig.|||For me, that purgatory-- that limbo-- was far worse than hell. The worst part about it was that it was usually disguised as comfort.  As of less than 24 hours ago, I'm now going through the...|||I absolutely cannot believe this.  Scott Dinsmore (www.liveyourlegend.net), one of my role models, died a few days ago. He was doing what he loved, climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro and was hit and killed by...|||She was young and insightful. It's okay if two people grow together, so long as they don't grow into each other, intertwined.  A bamboo tree sits in the living room, on an end table;|||I  am      free.|||I'm breaking down. I'm giving in.   I'm dying so that I can live again.  I can barely contain all this pain and fear.|||Ah, certainly what @Broomhead quoted about the elves.  My two cents:   In any creative endeavor, especially with the written word, the blood on the page makes it real. If you want to connect with...|||What's that? You would like more? Of course. Here are two more of the dynamic Destiel duo.  https://40.media.tumblr.com/db709a9ec5e09ee97818c69c1e7592f1/tumblr_nuizj7PAXf1s9ea9io1_500.png ...|||Jensen Ackles: Like, I can't fucking even...  http://www.babyrazzi.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/BikbXQZCAAASnd9.jpg  Misha Collins: I'm actually tearing up. ...|||- How do you feel about this topic as a whole?  It's interesting. For the most part, I've always found confidence and modesty very attractive. If someone has a bit of a... power streak, it's not a...|||All of my friends are talking to me and making me realize what I need to do. This thing is the thing that I knew I needed to do even before they talked to me.  If anyone has liquid courage,...|||I'd like to know-- what was the hardest thing you've gone through in your life?  Was it a family event? A breakup?  A decision that needed to be made?  To love? To be vulnerable?  To speak...|||I like being able to pretend I'm someone else and then find myself as someone else. It's like you're pretending, you're pretending, and then all of a sudden... you've transformed.  That being said,...|||This is an INFJ forum. This thread should be in the hundreds by now. ;)|||Welcome back. :)  I echo The Anchor. What revelations bring you back to us?|||What You Are - DMB    Don't you know When you live life Then you become what you are|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRXZkdEj7YI  So damn appropriate.|||Yeah, I stumbled upon blogs here one day and was surprised myself. So, yep! Blogged it like the hip woman I am.|||Thank you!  I actually made a blog post to answer your question so I didn't completely derail the thread with my ramblings. :)  Hopefully within the next six months I'll be able to start the upper...|||Golden scales!   That is! I have a window overlooking the front yard. I literally work in a historic mansion that used to be part of what's called the Twombly Estate. It's a beautiful, beautiful...|||NomadLeviathan -- They give the Admin's real cups.  392258  Kidding... I bring in my own...|||This is probably going to sound like the cheesiest thing in the world (I'm so good at being cheesy, and honest), but it's like you can see the worlds behind their eyes. It's the vibe of multitudes,...|||Has any INFJ been in a relationship with a Sensor that can share difficulties connecting with that type, especially when it comes to deep, intimate and revealing conversations?|||Absolutely beautiful!  And I know this is so not 'MBTI'-legit, sensing type from facial features, but I just see some people and I'm like... yep, INFJ.  You have that vibe. :)|||When an existential question can tap your glass like a hammer and then pssssshhhhh!  I can't think about this right now! I need my sanity to work!'