'Enigma - Page Of Cups   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFSKjaKUSvg|||(Just a note: If an employee has an unhealthy attitude regarding authority, well, you can't really fix that... or, there's only so much that you can do to change your tone, and it's not always worth...|||Haha, I've had this saved for a few months from when I made some tweaks because the way that the results are presented annoys me:|||Way to Eternity (Hallelujah) (Ferdinando Díaz Chill Mix). The original artist is Enigma.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_3DkRjxCls  This one's title should be How to ruin an otherwise...|||Sounds just like what I do as a 5.  When I'm open about what I'm feeling it's more integrating toward 8, rather brash and all, the vulnerability becomes my obstinate strength and I don't second...|||Placebo - English Summer Rain (Freelance Hellraiser Mix)   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kRVq_rQoG1o|||Then, I wish for good things for you both!|||Shakira - Antología   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pWgVRK_Ggww  Oh my gawd. It's been so very long since I heard this old song and I didn't think much of it at the time because I sure...|||^ Makes me think of Moscas En La Casa by Shakira (MTV Unplugged version is the best), although post-love songs sung with the melodramatic anguish of an eternal burn, elaborated in poetry, are much...|||The funny thing is that the last one I listed applies to my marriage with an INFP, but only loosely. Which is why I waited until the last moment to mention it. Haha. Don't mind me, though. I would...|||Given that I've posted my response to this 4 years ago in the INFJ forum, I'll do my best to not repeat myself.  My kind of guy is one who, when I sincerely like him, he sincerely likes me back --...|||The Carpenters - Yesterday Once More (Club Remix)   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGYO8E26njo|||Sting - All This Time   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4LdUme7QZLY|||I'm glad that I re-watched this movie again after so many years. Movies are a bit like time capsules, like a forgotten and newly recollected treasure.  My soul hurts, and my face is raining.  At...|||There's really nothing to defend. Another person's judgment indicates much more about them than it ever could about you, or about me, or about whoever was the target.  Pay close attention, they're...|||Oddly enough, I wound up here nearly 8 years ago with the goal in mind of understanding some significant differences between myself and my then spouse, not even grasping what personality theory is,...|||No, I'm not competitive.  That's more in the realm of character traits tied to motivation as can be explained by Enneagram theory.  In general, an ISFJ is quite reliable, but that's not so much a...|||Introverted Sensation (Si) concerns itself with what's going on inside. Inside that one, particular ISFJ, mentally, emotionally, viscerally. It's all about that central experience within.  Some...|||I laughed at my ISTP boyfriend's sister when she said something to the effect of feeling bad for me because, She's the one who has to put up with you. more often than other people do. Had myself a...|||Piano cover of On Fire performed by AkinToMeatloaf (originally by Switchfoot)  I can't stand the lead singer's voice, anymore. It so quickly turns lazy and whiny, ruining the beautiful melody....|||I'm shaking my head, because the Type 2 Alarm just sounded. Enneagram type 2 issues. Not to be confused with ISFJ issues. I'm just gonna leave this here: ( https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-2/...|||To remember my emotional growth and everything positive that I learned from my personal involvement with a particular person-  yet simultaneously and perpetually, completely forget: the person...|||Aesop Rock - No Regrets   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=66_2PmAmiQg   Dan le Sac vs. Scroobius Pip - Waiting For The Beat To Kick In   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFuQ84-qsvk|||Tangent: This just sounds like a type 5 to me, disintegrating to type 7 when stressed (the planning), integrating to type 8 the rest of the time.   To suss apart whether it's Te/Fi or Fe/Ti you...|||Wait, what? What kind of food we talkin' 'bout?  I would imagine that you can offer a person something that you already know they really like, and be sure that they see that you haven't tampered...|||Oh, look. It's the plot of the movie Micki & Maude, except that nobody's pregnant and we're not laughing.  You don't need our advice. You know what the sensible thing is to do.    ^This. ...|||I'm type 5.  Nestled right between two reactive types (4, 6) so I do my best to be stoic, and to strike a balance between individualism and loyalty- not an easy negotiation.|||I want a mobile phone with a slide out keyboard so bad. My BF keeps trying to sell me on one smart phone or another while the whole time I'm thinking of li'l QWERTY keys to press into with both...|||Janelle Monáe - Sincerely, Jane.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xCzSZTkEMpo   She's done some pretty cool live performances of the song. I just start playing the live performance vid,...|||A mashup.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ORGCpKSbVWo|||Ladyhawke - Paris Is Burning (Cut Copy Remix)   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X7M6Nl5KQVk|||Cut Copy - The Twilight   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XLpMp7EQBBM|||Tripwire_Desire You can convince people that you have a boring job. You've yet to convince me that you're boring.|||Massive Attack - Group Four   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPy4Bz1jSSQ  :wink:|||Butthole Surfers - Whatever (I Had A Dream)   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eKGld15XNWo|||There's no such thing as something that bores you- by that, I mean that being bored is a subjective state.  If someone is bored while around an ISFJ that's merely a coincidence. No individual is,...|||The Shadows - Kill The Ice Cream Man   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DC6ZsiPUDig  :rockon:|||I'm listening to Kesha   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-Dur3uXXCQ  ...while superficially marveling at her freckles.|||Thanks for sharing more on the topic of Fe and Fi. My apologies for not being able to respond sooner to say that.|||R.E.M. - Endgame   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3dBqHJ8SFo   R.E.M. - Texarkana   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pfofi1u6zyg|||Ah, I haven't seen K-On. I'm an old fogie who mostly watched anime from the 80s and the 90s during the 1990s. :tongue:|||@Shanaflame  Mm, I can't quantify much. When I get a vibe, it's mostly my mind filtering different bits of information together until a recurring pattern stands out, but it's all based on my...|||Homura Akemi: The character for Akemi (曉美) means never give up.  Are there particular AMVs that you really like?|||Here's the vibe I'm getting: Introverted Sensing dominant (Si), ISTJ. Possibly enneagram type 9 (wing 1).  I identify with Homura, too, but in my case that's because I'm enneagram type 5, which is...|||I trust your intuition.  The actual explanations aren't absolute at this point in time, but the sense that 'something' is off is enough to warrant caution. Why not confront him? May as well give...|||What is Consciousness Good For?   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aN1OtS5nWmM  It took me a good 10 to 15 minutes at least to finally grasp the rational process that ultimately results in the...|||Ahhh. This is what that specific section of music in the song Guns For Hands 2:45 into it (time stamp 3:45) was reminding me of.  Yuksek - Tonight  ...|||Little snippets of thoughts happen as I'm laying in bed about to fall asleep, too lazy to find a pen and a page to write them down on, memory not good enough to retain them for when I wake up....|||TWENTY ØNE PILØTS - Hometown (instrumental) No vocals. Much better.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nAUce-Lc0Jo|||TØP - Hometown   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=La1QKaK5r-U'