'I used to be self-conscious and reserved on the matter, but let's face it: I'm a dancing fiend.  I'm not professional by any means.  But once Gnarls Barkley reached my soul a few years back, it...|||lololol:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOqsabuuXL0|||Jack be nimble, Jack be quick, Jack needs more than a candle stick To gather astral airs; be sent To His full Enlightenment. In the sky, the maps fly by; In vision of a shallow eye, People...|||Okay, I got one:  I'll go entire conversations speaking only in lyrics/lines of poetry/quotes, or I'll even take on an entirely new character/persona.|||Oh my. At least I'm not the only one. D:|||This fits me better than any description I've read. Yet I always test as an INFJ???  What gives?|||^^THIS.  lol.  Also: When they refuse to seem incompetent in any way shape or form. Not one person is equipped to use all 8 letters naturally, so naturally, they will not be as effectively...|||^^This.  I very recently had to reject a coworker. I'm in a relationship, so I just right out told him so. I let him know I was flattered nontheless, but the whole thing was awkward and...|||You've all made fabulous, tremendous points that I can't ignore. As I hope you can understand, sometimes these things should be plain to see, yet I'm inside my head so often, I think sometimes I...|||That sounds very much like him indeed. He seems to think since I'm the one that's having trust issues with him and this girl, then I should either get over it or break it off. Even though my...|||mahha. Does thou knowest an INFJ heart well enough to woo it? ;];]   ... well, cus even I wouldn't know where to start.|||Well after we broke up with him telling me that he thought about it and he believed we jumped into the relationship too quickly, we went almost 4 months without any contact whatsoever. Mainly...|||That's fantastic advice. Thank you so much. It sounds more like where he may be coming from. When we last talked about it, he said that if I think it can work, then he thinks it can. But he...|||This is another conundrum I was having! Sensibly, I know he hasn't necessarily caused any red flags just yet, but I think I'm just sensing the flags coming and trying to get out of the line of...|||Hit the nail on the head. And it sounds like we have a lot in common. Mixed feelings are a bitch. But I believe you when you say I'll feel better once all is said and done. I got on without him...|||He's just easily my favorite person to ever lie to me. I have such a high respect for him and he makes me grow as a person  on levels other people haven't been able to touch. We were together...|||Thank you. Your post gave me a lot to think about. I believe it may be possible to trust him one day, but it will take a lot of work on both our parts. If his behavior continues the way it has...|||It depends on whether this girl really means nothing to him like he says, or if she means more than he's letting on like I suspect. Either way, you're right. There is a big trust issue. I'm...|||I still secretly pick my nose. :]|||So my ENTP ex and I have recently gotten back together. During the time we were apart, he had been seeing another girl. It wouldn't be such a deal if he hadn't lied about it. I had been seeing a guy...|||BLASPHEMY. My ENTP NEVER NEVER NEVER seems to want sex. I'm always the one initiating and IFFFF we even end up having sex, he's always done before I am. My self esteem is taking quite a nose dive,...|||I definitely do this. I think that maybe, in some subconscious realm, I do this to keep tabs on people (to see if someone will lie to me, etc.), but I definitely do it to spare their feelings on a...|||Sunrise  The martyrdom of a Dove, Whisper to the stars above. In the Morning  Light she died, so embrace the night.  The story that the Dove had told, Is the only one she knows: Like the...|||I almost always do this. lol.|||or seven times. D:|||WAKING LIFE   ....is the best movie ever. :]|||I'm currently with an ENTP and he's definitely such. I would absolutely recommend this pairing, assuming both parties are healthy versions of their types. I've never been so fascinated and inspired...|||I moved to a different state in the middle of my sophomore year. I guess you could say I was part of the iconiclastic crowd (i.e. Goths, punks, atheists/agnostics, debaters, artists, theater kids,...|||Very much so. Dying almost sounds more peaceful than the experience you speak of. But I always come out of it with a greater heart capacity, if you will. I know the process is grueling, but if you...|||I do like techno! But whatever genre it might be,  my taste tends to lean towards the following:  My Jammy Jamsies:  ~1200 Micrograms ~Alias ~A Perfect Circle ~Aphex Twin|||In a nutshell, I'm an INFJ that's been living by herself for two years. I'm used to living at my own pace and a big part of me really likes that. But at the same time, I haven't formed any deep bonds...|||You can rationalize this until you're blue in the face. But one day these excuses will no longer be enough to convince yourself. (I say yourself because you're certainly not convincing anyone...|||First, let it be known that I agree with most of this post. However, I must politely disagree with some aspects of it. Although finding someone else will distract you while the pain subsides, I...|||YES.  I can confidently say I've experienced all of those cycles and then some. I'm currently in the extroverted one right now. I don't much like it, but I can't seem to control it. I feel that...|||Dad: INTJ Step mom: ESFP (She's been my step mom since I was one, so I found her parental involvement worth mentioning).  My biological mom passed away before I became aware of personality...|||I'm exactly the same way. That might be why I'm so picky in choosing friends. haha. :]|||My ex ENTP and I loved each other before we were dating. And we started dating not long after meeting each other. We met in November 2008 and became official February 2009. I didn't even know what...|||Just a few days ago, I told a friend how I was going to do just that. :]  Check libraries. Unique Gift Shops. Music Festivals/Shows. Coffee shops. Art studios. I find myself wondering into...|||Check libraries. Unique Gift Shops. Music Festivals/Shows. Coffee shops. Art studios. I find myself wondering into these atmospheres all the time. Libraries: New age, self-improvement, art,...|||My ex ENTP was horribly afraid of spiders. He could handle frantic wasps and bees, no sweat. But dead spiders in the corner were an issue.  He eventually got over it after deciding a giant web...|||From my dad's side, I'm an only child, though I have a step brother that's 10 years older.  On my mom's side, I have a little sister. 7 years younger than me. :]|||I really like Buddhism, Taoism, Hinduism, and Egyptian religions. Anything of that nature keeps my head wrapped around all sorts of ideas.|||Yes, yes. He drank a lot of energy drinks and coffee regularly too. lol. I bet he was a 7. :]|||My ex ENTP could cheef those down like it was nobody's business. Except, once he knew I hated cigarette smoke, he was able to go periods of time without them. He'd come over smelling like it, but...|||haha. Whatever I was trying to say, I meant it as a compliment. And thank you so much for your words and time. With the current situation and the health of my psyche, It honestly couldn't be...|||All of you are really bringing me a lot of insight. Not just about him and I, but about life in general. Thank you for that. I hate to be a burden on anyone, and I especially hate sounding like a...|||He actually did say something like that while I was at his house last. He said he needed to get out of debt with his landlord and reconnect with old friends he's been missing. He said the word...|||Thanks. I might just need it.|||I think that's what I needed to hear. Thank you. It's helping with the closure. I still feel really bad about it all. He was the last person I wanted to hurt, and all the guilt/regret in me...|||Thank you for that input. I left him a letter after we broke up trying to apologize for the fool I've been. But he never did get back to me about it. I just had a feeling that it would be the best...'