'I have plenty of friends and family who are Sensors.  I am quite fond of most of them.  However, I generally find that I do mix better with Intuitives.  This is especially true in terms of romantic...|||Nope... I am the only wild pig I've seen in AZ so far! ;D|||Well - I am not certain that Diva is such a nice word these days, throughout society.  Often, it refers to someone who is self-indulgent, self-serving, self-glorifying, and eschews any and all...|||I am not normal, and I am damn proud of that fact. ;)  Then again, I never met an ENFP who can be classified as 'normal.'  We are too much fun!|||This is a video showing how an ENFP is still very animated when performing, even despite attempting to be more subdued.  I am the one singing the solo, then singing with the quartet.  ;)...|||viva, you hit it right on the head. ;)|||Well... my experience as an ENFP in life has been somewhat different from what you are describing.  I am the one who will never give up on someone once I make a commitment, unless there is simply no...|||LOL... you're probably right. ;)  However, there is nothing wrong with the name, 'Selena.'  Be thankful your parents did not name you: 'Breezy,' or 'Moonshine.' (Yes, I know people with those actual...|||Historically, I have not found the end of a relationship easy to deal with.  I have only had to deal with it twice, as I never bother with anything that I am not certain has a chance of lasting. ...|||Smileygirl... I love that Avatar!!  I am an Opera singer, and it made me break out in a huge grin.  :)  Off-topic, I know... so here's my contribution to the actual conversation:  For me, the worst...|||I can talk candidly for the most part with my close ENFP friends, however... they are younger and less resilient than myself, mentally.  Additionally, having speny two-and-a-half years living...|||I also have an INTJ ex.  As with your experience, I had no idea that she was an INTJ, nor did I know anything about MBTI at the time.  I just thought to myself, Now this is an awesome woman... she...|||XD You are definitely my Mezzo twin, pinkrasputin!  I try not to fach around with them, either... ;P|||However, I have also worked with people of just about every voice-type who are... to be diplomatic... eccentric. ;)|||LOL!!!!!  XD  You have no IDEA how priceless this statement is!!|||Haha... I usually end up playing comedic roles or occasionally villains. ;)|||Haha!!! I like it! :)  However, I know a Coloratura Soprano who's a 3w4.  So, as expected, there are always variations.  ;)|||My apologies for the names thing... I didn't think about that.  But then... I am not overly concerned.  I didn't post any of their emails or phone numbers, etc... lol  A name can only get you so much...|||Oh, my good man... you've nothing to fear.  My sense of humor is vast and nearly all-encompassing. ;)|||XD  pinkrasputin... you are excellent!  We must perform together in the future... :)|||Answers to your questions, Swordsman of Mana: 1. I am a Lyric Baritone who can also sing some low tenor repertoire.  No offense taken, but it's a classic joke that tenors and sopranos are the...|||I am going to be me, and smile 95% of the time as I usually do.  If I don't find a woman who likes me for who I am, then I would rather be single anyway. :)  I know who I am, I am comfortable with...|||Well - my website is linked on every post I make. :)  I have a links section up right now, which I will likely remove before I send my resume and website out for the next round of auditions of...|||Well, you obviously have the ability to carry a tune, based on your videos.  The first thing I'd do is find a good voice teacher.  What I mean by that, is not necessarily someone famous, or someone...|||Yes, exactly that Book of Mormon! ;)|||Ah, Verdi... :)  This is true, there are quite a few of us in this line of work... but then, most people have no idea what MBTI is, and sadly, most people don't know much about opera.|||Thanks, Ace Face! :) I have been hiding on stage!!  Nobody expects an ENFP Opera singer! ;) (Also... for reference, my FAVORITE show of all time is a Broadway Musical called, Book of Mormon. ...|||To be honest, Eloise... I used to fight battles with Music Theory before I started attending a university.  However, that was simply because I had no training in it.  I honestly wanted to be a jazz...|||XDDDDD *pounding fist on desk with laughter*!!|||I finally made it back into my chair after reading this and nearly passing out... XD|||My occupation is rather uncommon, but seems to suit me very well as an ENFP.  I get to work around lots of people all the time.  My job is never boring or overly repetitive.  I do not sit in a...|||FYI:  There are enormous differences between an ENFP and an ESFP.  Probably best to read up on those types. :)|||Hmm... technically, I fall in love very quickly also.  However, it differs from some of what I have read here.  I always end up in a committed, long-term relationship if the feeling is mutual.  I've...|||Wow Jawz... that is rough!  Glad you survived! :)|||Sounds like a very unhealthy or very poorly adjusted ENFP to me..  I tend to be incredibly communicative with a significant other..  Personally, I ALWAYS respond to calls or texts from friends, and...|||Any game which involves at least one other person is fun for me... I am not a fan of 'solitaire' type games.  Additionally, playing real games with real people in real life is much more fun than...|||Best feeling I ever had in my life was when I was with an INTJ woman.  Other types just don't seem to do it for me.  This was true long before I knew that ALL of the women in my whole life whom I...|||Mythographeas,  Change is the only constant in the world.  Our vision of ourselves relative to the world is our problem.  We are technically a part of nature, but we try to live outside it - this...|||Mythographeas,  There is a great deal of assumption, and subscribing to what you have been told by society going on in your response to Whynd.  In fact, it's a phenomenally accurate illustration...|||You speak truth. :)|||To be clear, I was in a relationship with an INTJ woman for a couple years.  I am speaking specifically of making decisions based entirely upon emotion.  My apologies for not being specific enough...|||Being asked to make a decision based on how they FEEL about something, rather than what makes sense. ;)|||When it comes to putting experience, and/or knowledge into practice within a romantic relationship:  My ENFP tendency to follow whatever FEELS right, or what my heart WANTS to do, often leads to...|||I will say, without a doubt:  From my experience, there is no woman anywhere worth fighting over.  If she likes you and not him, she can keep a fight from happening, and likewise the other way...|||Yes, ENFPs love to make out, if my experience is any indicator.  It is a wonderful way to express your attraction to and acceptance of a mate, or a potential mate.  Also, I have found that once I...|||I find that it is much easier for me to motivate myself to perform mundane tasks if I have a partner or team to work with.  I love cooperating with others.  Even if the task is mindless and horribly...|||Absolutely :)  I am finished healing.  I am just being more careful than I used to be... I know that, because I am an ENFP, once I sleep with a woman... I am hooked.  Therefore, as you have said... I...|||No, they are not part of the vows at all.  Your story reminds me a little bit of my experience with my INTJ ex.  She did not cheat on me, but she did use me.  She used me as an emotional sponge, a...|||The door slam was a good idea in this case.  If he was an ENFP who actually cheats... that's not good.  It means his values are either not healthy, or he has given up on them.  In either case, it's...|||One of the mistakes many ENFPs make, is going for a rebound relationship right after they break off something long-term.  If you never give yourself time to heal, the past will continue to haunt you...'