'I'm dating a guy that I'm about 95% sure is an INFJ, and the mushy stuff doesn't bother me.  Mostly because his mushy comes in the form of physical affection vs sonnets or pet names.  However, once...|||Now this makes me laugh!  I recently have come to terms with the fact that I might possibly have sex appeal and I'm not sure how comfortable I am with that.  When guys I think are super hot tell me...|||I feel like some people don't always see the potential in a particular relationship that I can see. I'm big on possibilities. I think that probably also has played a part in the on again, off again...|||I tend to be all over the place. I do the bohemian thing most of the time, but sometimes for work I'll go preppy in khakis, blouses, and cardigans. I rarely wear skirts or dresses unless they're over...|||I didn't see any recent threads about this, so I thought I'd start a new one. I have noticed that I struggle with dating. I'm 31 now and feel like I may be getting a handle on the way it all...|||I'm a terrible driver.  I get distracted easily and when I get to thinking about something I'll totally miss turns.  I'm usually late so I'm in a hurry all the time.  And I have no sense of...|||I dated an INFP for 2 years. When he was happy or felt secure in the relationship, he was extremely loving and I enjoyed being with him. But if I hurt his feelings in some way, he'd do exactly what...|||I've been in love with almost every guy I've dated longer than two months. And I've dated all types of guys. Of course it wasn't real love--it was loving the person that I could be with each guy if...|||I went ahead and initiated contact.  We'd already not been talking, so what did I have to lose?  However, he was extremely apologetic and only didn't respond because he'd handled things so poorly and...|||I forgot to ask if you'd be receptive to contact in my situation?  If so, how can I reach out without making it look like I'm playing games?|||I can't speak for all ENTPs, but I know I'm pretty confusing.  It takes me a while to figure out what it is I'm feeling and I have doubts like everyone else, but instead of pulling  back to sort it...|||I TOTALLY think it could work.  We did have a lot of fun and got along really well in a lot of ways, but we both had also come out of previous situations we needed more time to recover from.  Had we...|||.   He said the issue wasnx92t that he didnx92t like me, but that he just wanted to slow things down. If his behavior hadnx92t changed and we were just seeing one another less, I wouldx92ve been ok. It...|||I dated an ENTJ and the relationship went like this:  The night we met, I approached him. We talked, and at the end of the night I laid one on him. But the night ended badly and it was my fault....|||I'm an ENTP female, and I'm pretty sure the guy I just dated is an ENFP. I still really like him as a person, but I think we were at two different places in our lives (I'm older, and he was still...|||Is it wrong that I can't stop kiising you?   I was watching your eyes and could totally tell the exact moment you quit listening to my story...  I find you very easy to talk to.  You're...|||As you get older, it will get easier.  I went through an akward phase when I was a bit younger, but now that I'm in my 30's I don't have such a hard time.  Yes, there will always be people who don't...|||My friends all say they thought I was a bitch the first time we met. I grew on them though and now they're in love.|||Interesting. I had a blow out with an ISFP I'd dated. Well, he actually blew, I just stood there in shock. There was a lot of name calling and blaming and I couldnt figure out if he really thought I...|||I think he tried to do the quick escape thing by telling me he was going to put me in a hotel.  He said there wasn't really anything else to say.  I asked him why he asked me to come if he never...|||I thought he was worth it which is why I went 2300 miles away to see him.  However, now I'm torn.  If I use my head and look at the facts I should be super pissed and hurt and take what he said at...|||Wait a minute.  After reading through some of the posts by ISFPs about anxiety and relationships it seems to me that they do a good job of making others feel they're special, when really that's kind...|||BassClef, the only reason I thought the friendship thing would work is because nothing really bad happened between us--we just weren't dating anymore.  Of course that was before my trip  At this...|||I would really appreciate some advice.  I recently visited an ISFP guy that Ix92d dated for a few months.  We stopped talking when he moved.  I was willing to try the long-distance thing, he wasnx92t. ...|||So, I think what you're saying is that he invited me impulsively and then realized he didn't like me as much as he thought once I got there.  Then he felt trapped in his own space and sort of lashed...|||[QUOTE=WMDistraction;686249]I think there should be a warning with most ENTPs, especially when around ENFPs:  CAUTION: ONLY HANDLE IN SMALL DOSES[/QUOTE  Why is that?|||I'm adding an additional emotion question since you guys are all so fascinating to me :laughing::  Do you often feel anxious around certain people?  If so, why?|||Yeah, the last blow out I had with my ex went beyond where anybody else I'd known had taken things--like he just wanted to ruin me.  It's hard to describe.  Luckily the NT part of me knew that what...|||I wonder if it the gender of each type makes a difference.|||What do you feel like after you've had one of these episodes?  Have you ever gone past the point of no return with someone while angry?|||This is really interesting.  I asked the same question in the ENFP forum and it seems with them there's a lot of outward expression of feelings that they don't always understand,  while ENTPs don't...|||That's interesting.  I dated and ENFP guy who would kind of snap at me out of nowhere (at least it seemed like nowhere to me) and I figured out it was because I'd hurt his feelings in some way.  When...|||How do you act when you're angry?  Defensive?  Hurt?|||How do you act when you're angry?  Defensive?  Hurt?|||Yes, the communication differences seem to be a big issue.  But it's only in romantic relationships--my ENFP friends think my abrasiveness, or borderline bitchiness as they put it, is hilarious.|||I have a great ability to forgive. I tend to not take a lot personally, and my feelings don't get really bruised because someone acts like a jerk to me.  I don't put up with a lot of crap, and will...|||I'm always drawn to ENFP men.  We have SO much fun together.  But it seems like in the end, those relationships are the ones that end in total disaster.  Any ideas why this is?  Do I have to give up...|||I did leave the situation alone.  We were just randomly catching up after a few months of not talking.  I asked him if he was ever coming back home to visit and then he suggested I come out there. ...|||Hi all.  I'm an ENFP who went to visit an ISTP guy I had dated briefly before he moved across the country.  He initally told me he didn't see a point in my visiting, but a few months later he invited...|||I'm and ENTP female, and I do feel like I'm a romantic.  I think relationships are about connecting and I have no problem jumping into things if I think there's potential, but only if I'm positive...|||What do you think it is about your personality that is attracted to, or attracts them?|||Yeah, I don't see him being like that.  He's had a fair amount of long term relationships and it sounds like he stayed longer than he should have in all of them.  He also said he's used to psycho...|||Thanks so much for the feedback!  I'm going to go for it.  At least I'll know there aren't any lingering questions before we go our separate ways, and I'll be able to move on without regrets.|||No Arioche, we haven't had a really good conversation about this at all.  I'll admit I've been confusing as well, so I'm sure that hasn't helped.  I've never come out and said what I want either. ...|||I'm sorry if this is posted twice, but I can't tell if I deleted the first one.  So, when he made the comment I think it would be mean to spend time together if we're not going to be in a...|||So when he made the comment it would be mean for us to spend time together if we're not going to have a relationship am I supposed to take that as I don't want to be in a relationship with you and...|||Hi all. I'm and ENTP that failed at having a relationship with an ENFP. I think it was mostly because I didn't understand where he was coming from, which seems odd because we're technically cousins...'