'By the way, when we are seeing each other, he's often suggesting it, rather than asking directly.  For example, if I cook something and we talk about this over the phone, he's going to say Hmm,...|||ISFJ were more hands-on and practical than him|||Thank you for this very interesting post ! I am pretty sure he's N over S because he likes the theoretical part of his job better than the technical one. For example, what he loves about pediatry is...|||Honestly INfj was my first guess. But you guys are quite slow getting into relationships, tortured, complicated. And he doesn't seem to be. Or he's hiding it ? He really seems optimistic, positive,...|||hallo, wie geht's ? Na, ich bin gar keine Deutsche ! ;)   Theft, sorry, but you sound like you're typing him based on his job, not based on his personality. (ok I didn't put many details on his...|||Why do you think so ? I am interested in your thought   have I mentionned, he is not anxious at all by the way|||Oh no, it isn't. I like very much type 9. My best friend is one ! i meant, he could be a 9 but I don't really think so. The confusion comes from the fact that I am not a native English speaker and...|||Xenograft. I think ENFP could fit.  typing people with enneagram is much easier than MBTI|||If he were, he were more technical and better with his own hands. He barely can change a lamp and prefers to pay an electrician for that. beside he's quite considerate, pays attention to be nice to...|||I met an intriguing man.  i am quite sure, he's a type 2 enneagram. In the worse case, type 9 but I don't think so.  he moves on from relationships, even long ones very easily. Within a month or...|||Hey, 2 years later, I just want to say thank you for this post. You made a positive change in my life, ya know ? :)|||Ha, well, I've never dated a male INFJ (and don't really know that many), but my best friend is an INFJ and my boss is one as well.  They are DEFINITELY prone to worry and over thinking, but I tend...|||Fi types like ENFP could fit your description. Some. Fi types give the impression to have no feelings. They are so much busy with them selves ....|||Worry?  Me?  No.  Most of the time, I'm telling other people to stop worrying, because I figure it'll all work out okay.  I don't live in the past, now, or in the future.  I live in the...|||I totally agree with Alfreda.|||Ok well know you have 2 options :  -either you wait until he comes to you. But if you do this, then set a time when you don't wait for him anymore. And start looking at other guys at the same time....|||I was about to say the same than above. I think, you should stop to friendzone yourself with him. Put your relationship to an other level. Either he'll accept or not, but then you'll know. Tell him...|||thanks for that... i just dont know how to stop thinking about this entp guy...im wondering if he is really serious with me... and im afraid of having deep emotional connection.. cause im unsure...|||Totally same here. I guess, I am seen as cold professionnaly for this very reason. But in this case, i don't care. I care more when friends say i am cold at first.|||Pretty sure, there's no generalization possible here. It's an individual thing|||Yes, nothing ENTP in the description here...|||I just don't go....|||Someone recently told me that I can seem a little cold when you get to know me first. It surprises me because I make friends easily though, I am happy to meet new people, and I think, I try to smile...|||I couldn't agree more.... Funnily my best INFJ friend sees things exactly this way. She's an INFJ with high Ti for record...|||Well, they answer more when the poster is a male.... Already tried this too... :)|||my INFJ boyfriend looks a little ENTJish (but nice ENTJish with very good people skills.... :)) in his work place.  but when you know him well, you see there's nothing ENTJish about him|||Thank you guys for your answers ! It really helps.   I always had in past relationships control on my own emotions. I was the one who wasn't that much in love. And my SO was crazy about me. I was...|||Is it just awfull when you are in love, for your as well ? You turn out to be a different person. The confident ENTP turns out to be very vulnerable emotionnally, full of fears of rejection etc......|||Oh my gosh thank you for all this. My bf must be an INFJ as you describe it perfectly. He had one of those Fe moment last week. It was very draining for me to try to understand him when he was just...|||Thank you so much for this advice ! I see you know well ENTP/INFJ relationships then :)|||Wow ! Thank you so much for this deep and interesting answer ! This describes so well my relationship to my bf...  We don't have to make things work. It just works. First time it happens to me in my...|||OK that's interesting. I still have doubts which xNFJ is my bf. He has some characteristics of the 2 types.... I would lean more toward INFJ but not 100% sure... One thing sure, I need more to go out...|||A question  : the fact that an xNFJ prefers one/one relationships (even though he claims, he's social), is this a sign that this person is rather an INFJ ? Or do ENFJ also prefer 1/1 interaction ?|||Happy about my relationship to my INFJ !|||Sartre was either INTJ or INTP Camus might have been an INFJ or INFP i think.|||I am an ENTP involved with an INFJ. but maybe this isn't the right way around for you :)|||My boyfriend (apparently INFJ) and me (ENTP) -> I wanted to share this on our first conversation :  the first time we talked together a little deeper, he got impressed how intelligent I am (I am...|||This. Thank you for this. I was wondering which NFJ is my bf. He's clearly an INFJ according to this difference  (1 follow vision 2 help people). No wonder then why he's just a revolution in my...|||Hey guys, I think you are right. I talked about this with him. It sounds like as an ENTP, I am hard to read. I very clearly stated yesterday that I have feelings for him without him asking. I tried...|||My guy is sending me 2/3 texts each day on how much he's happy to see me again etc... If I were not into MBTI, I would find this a little too much. But because I know the MBTI, I try to respond in...|||GoodOldDreamer your answer is especially interesting. The thing about respecting bondaries in particular. My bf which I suspect to be an XNFJ is pretty like this. Even though i offer him to come over...|||I know there's a similar thread on the forum. But I wanted to take it to an other direction now.  I got the impression from the other thread that you all feel awkward with expressing your love in...|||A very close friend told me the other day how different my new bf is from the last one, which was very different from the last one, which was very different from the last one etc... She thought, it's...|||this is totally irresponsible and immature in my point of view|||So, do you mean that if an xNFJ is into expressing his feelings often like : I appreciated the time spent with you, I miss you, I am so much eager to see you again etc... and flowers etc...,...|||So you're a bunch of optimist people. Interesting !|||Thank you so much for all those interesting informations.  Yes in deed, it's a new relationship. You are totally right about this. Also interesting to note that ENTJ and INFJ could come across as...|||I don't talk about leaders personalities. For me Alpha are ambitious people who want to succeed in life. Not automatically leaders !|||Sure ! Females are welcome !|||Yes, I am wondering about this guy. Thank you for the video idea. I will check. He's very xNTJish in a professionnal environnement but I suspect him to be an hidden INFJ at heart. He even got an ENTJ...'