Just curious if any other enfp or other folks ever get this way.. I recently broke up with my ex. I know my sadness is from loneliness not really.. Losing him. But I find Myself becoming increasingly...|||it's weird. I feel most.. alive? around people, but then I get in these moods where I'm like. I don't want to see a single person because they take so much out of me. I mean it lasts a few hours.....|||or am I completely killing all of that from posting this and trying to connect with someone :/ haha. but.. I am physically alone! and that is enough for me.|||I've been in a sort of 'dating' mode and have been meeting new people all throughout the week. connecting and searching for a connection with them. I know that's how we get our energy but do any of...|||the helping people thing is also a big deal. the job I'm at now I've been at for 5 years and I don't feel like I have any depth there or do anything to make a difference in anyone's life and it is...|||I can't find anywhere anyone's suggestion or experience as an enfp being an emt.. I'm just curious as to how I might react in the field because I'm seriously considering this job.  it's exciting...|||ugh!! this is exactly how I feel haha. everything goes great, thennnn... and I also just emotionally withdrawal after they confess their love or something. I do not know why. It's not on purpose. and...|||haha. I don't think it deals with me being immature. I'm quite mature for my age. I just think I'm afraid of settling, and once I realize, wow this relationship is getting pretty serious after almost...|||I am 22.. lol. I am starting to realize and think this as well. I think as a younger teenager or whatever, I was so scared of being alone that I was afraid to realize all the possibilities and stay...|||haha well this is my like 2nd 2 year straight relationship, and another was off and on for 2 years. ugh. it sucks. I feel like I'll never be stable! I dunno if it's me or if I just haven't found the...|||I feel, as time goes by.. it's harder and harder for me to stay in long term relationships. I'm always wondering, what if, and all this.. if I was with this person, or that person, or what if I was...|||I really like what you are saying, I feel that you really understand where I'm at in all this. makes me feel like less of a bad person. lol.. I don't want to settle but, I hate breaking up with...|||well not this weekend but last, I went out with my friends. like he told me to do. and when I came home late, he had locked me out of MY apartment that I pay for. my phone was dying. it was 40...|||Yeah when I talked to him about it he said he knew these things he just didn't know how to change them. but I'm more of an action oriented person. if I don't like something, I will try to change the...|||this is pretty much how it is for me.. lol. I've had the same job forever and keep moving up. he's had the same job but doesn't try to go anywhere with it.  BUT!!! update! I said something to him...|||so what'd she do? tell him to move out and grow up or what? lol. or were they not living together?|||well he's always been that way. I think I was so fascinated with him from the get go because he was so quiet and mysterious. I felt he was so deep and profound, and I love dissecting people and their...|||nice quote.. haha. good show ;P I think he's just unintentionally selfish. yesterday, for example, I forgot my lunch at home and had no way to leave. I texted him and he said 'I'm sorry'.. because...|||but I don't know what to do. I know if we start this discussion it won't end well. or he will 'try to change' but I don't want to change people. I'd rather them want to change themselves. because if...|||lol I can't get him to do much. I wanna go out with my friends. we do. when I bring him along, he doesn't talk to anyone, including me. I ask him what's wrong, he says nothing. but then later on...|||I've just been supporting and encouraging him from day one to try to get somewhere. he 'applies' at places, but that's it. it only does so much. and he is so set in his ways. fine with doing the same...|||I think he is too, but I do care for him, and he is nice. I mean he does have random asshole moments, like most.. people, i suppose. but overall he's just really laid back. I perceived his...|||I feel like it may be my enfp personality getting bored again.. as I often do but try to avoid.. ugh.|||my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. we live together. everything was fantastic and is still not so bad! he took the personality test and got an INFP so I was like, cool! we...|||haha! wow it's funny you said that. I heard him for the first time like.. yesterday?! ever heard of porcupine tree? or king crimson? and I like when bands can make a ton of albums that all sound so...|||I can't help notice a pattern in the love of the lyrics most of these bands provide. some of them, it's just for the amazing adrenaline rush from their sound. i.e. the metal bands. my whole body goes...|||I think this is the least accurate thing about me as an ENFP haha. I am sooo tidy! I clean every friday at LEAST! and I thoroughly enjoy it. I turn on some good music, and clean my whole apartment....|||that's how I feel! depends on the people. if I'm dragged to a party of a friend's friend or something like that, and the people get on my nerves.. I become cranky and very very introverted. I'll...|||I feel like I've heard or read a lot that enfp's are the most introverted of the e's. I like to party, but I do like smaller groups. I like being able to connect with everyone there.. and that's hard...|||I hate how I think too deeply about things and always wonder 'what if' or about the different possibilities. (i.e. the name..) lol.  wondering about how well or how poorly things could turn out make...|||Welllllllllll.. as an enfp myself, I had a boyfriend who cheated on me. it was long distance, 3 hours apart. he cheated on me with a very large girl addicted to crack with a baby, who was 4 hours...