'This is NOT like me at all.  Just sayin'...|||Hello sub-forumites, I haven't logged on in a while.  Work has kept me busy among other things like Instagram and Twitter (my two new go-tos).  This thread is one of the top on the list of threads so...|||Pictures? Hmm.... I kinda like the anonymity.  I'll think about it.  I'm not that photogenic. I'm just a dude.|||IMO.... douchebag alert! douchebag alert! Seriously? Find someone who is a gentleman.  This guy is immature and is just playing around with people's feelings.  I say stick him in the friend zone...|||On the other hand, I don't like starting conversations with strangers.  Lately, I've noticed strangers talking to me first. Though I default as an extrovert, I don't find it necessary to talk to...|||I'm sure this goes beyond personality and there's most likely more to her story as to why she bahaves(ed) that way.  Anyone can have an angry disposition regardless of their personality.|||Zombie, you're one of my faves on PerC.  See, you're an ESFJ and I don't dislike you.    For the most part, ESFJs are peacemakers so we will default to the most practical and efficient way of...|||i'm really bummed my post looks like that. and when i tried to edit it, it wouldn't save it. i gave up. sorry Hunny.|||Thanks for the invite HunnyBunny.&nbsp; I've read ALL the post and feel caught up between you and Zombie and TheQuirkyGirl (who is ironically a dude who is former military).<br>Much like Zombie, I do...|||I'm back and here are my results.  First, I just want to say that I do not write like a 5 year old.  Writing with a mouse with my non-dominant hand is not easy.  Second, by telling me how to think...|||Hahahahahahahaaa.... This ESFJ is on time for everything else except for this (and work). Jk Jk !  I've had a full weekend/week of being outside and such and wasn't able to sit in front of the...|||As an ESFJ, I don't actually mind the I and T parts.  What I'm challenged with are the Ns and Ps.  I can deal and understand Ps.  I can lean towards that when my J game isn't on.  The N is a toughy...|||Let me respond second on a first-hand perspective, personally speaking... What kind of careers are they drawn to? I can't speak for ALL ESFJs but I am drawn to management, right now...because...|||Sounds like an ENFP I know.  It may not just be exclusively ESFJs.|||I think this whole thing is fascinating...in my experience.  What I don't like is how people use it for evil and not for good.  By good, I mean using the knowledge of other personalities to...|||Wassup wassup?  Let's do this interacting thing.|||As an ESFJ, I do not do well with confrontation.  The F gets in the way more than I like for it to.  However, we are quick to observe and quick to vocalize those observations.  Sometimes, it can come...|||Question:  What's Ne mean?  (I'm not too familiar with these) I think I scored lowest on that one.|||Yes.  We sense/feel things that's not usual and we want to do something about it. That's all.|||I like a lot of what other ESFJs have suggested.  Gentleness - that's the key for anyone, really.        Zombie touched a little bit on this but I want to expand just a wee bit more.  Perhaps, it...|||Interestingly enough, even though I'm a strong J, when it comes to my art projects, I don't necessarily finish them (unless there's a deadline).  But yeah, I also start to read a couple books at a...|||I find S/Js to be really really critical.  I'm an SFJ so I know. But do my criticisms require immediate vocalization?  Not always.  Lately, I've been preferring for other people to learn from their...|||I only drive if I have to.  I really prefer not driving. But to answer your question... 1.  Average driver 2. Not super fast, not super slow. 3. If I have to be aggressive I can be but not...|||I know when... ...my friends call, text, message, email me to see if there's anything going on tonight/this weekend because this guy always has somethng going on. (I'm an ExxJ, too) ...my friends...|||I (forgot this one) know I'm a J... ...when I find pulling weeds from the flower bed as time to relax right after doing an intense workout in the garage.|||I know... ...because when I planned the second annual snowboarding trip this year, I made sure to give the non-judgers tasks/food duties that were common and easy to find - like eggs. ...because...|||I gots this! I know I'm a Sensor when ... ...I can't stand seeing the CHECK ENGINE light on and I can't do anything about it right.now.this.very.minute.while.driving. ...love to count...|||i haven't ventured out that far yet, i'll check it out sometime and let you know.  any particular thread?|||Don't we all..?  Here's an observation.  It seems like ESFJ females seem to get a lot of flack versus ESFJ males.  And vice versa for ESTJ males & females.  Hmm...I wonder why that is.    It...|||Wow!  Am I in PerC? So many compliments to ESFJs...and ESFJ moms! Whoa!    On behalf of those ESFJs who've left the forum because of all the negativity aimed towards us, we thank you for your kind...|||Maybe he/she is not an ESFJ...or maybe he/she is stuck in adolesence...or needs to see a therapist.|||Yeah, I think the SFs and NFs butt heads in the wild anyway.  There will always be conflict.  But I assure you, the ESFJ will process and come back and try to smooth things out.  At least I do.  And...|||I think it's super easy to dislike someone when they can't defend themselves.  I kind of disagree with the TheUltimateSquarePeg's first theory.  I have my own baggage but it's nobody's business...|||my sister is also a mother and an ESFJ.  i hope my nephews appreciate her like you appreciate your mom. this is very encouraging.  thanks!|||we'll just let others rant about ESFJs ONLINE as their outlet because we realize others have a hard time doing this in real life.  so, it would be interesting to see the result of their telling their...|||Yeah, people tend to be real mean to ESFJs and ESTJs.  I can go either F or T.  Anyway, I've observed that other types tend to blame everything on their ESFJ mothers or ESTJ fathers.  They'll make...|||I Crossfit.  Since 2008. It's both humbling and exhilirating.  I love the challenge. I'm in my late 30s and love being able to beat someone in their 20s. Welcome to CrossFit: Forging Elite Fitness|||I don't think so. I think I'm practical and a realist. I wonder, though, if your question is based on a particular relationship.|||Ha!  No one would pick up the mess and take no credit for it... there'd also be no such thing as time management.|||I don't see this as an answer but active listening is a skill I'm learning. My ENFP friend loves to talk and sometimes that's all she needs...to talk.  She will talk my ear off (God bless her) and...|||I find it interesting that I don't venture out into other personality-type forums.  For example, why would I go into a INTJ forum or an ENTP thread?  But then I recall that it's the J in me that...|||Hmm...as an ESFJ, I feel very uncomfortable talking/bragging about myself. So I'll give it a try... ...we like people and think about how we can make them better (unless they don't want to).|||Hmm..Do I think people think I'm popular and do I feel popular?  The word popular brings me back to high school.  In that context, I am like you. I got along well with the athletes and the...|||I'll bite. Plus, I haven't been on here in months! I'm an ESFJ and I can say that I am guilty of helping without being asked.  It's the S/J combo that makes us so.  We sense disorder and we act on...|||Are you sure he's an ESFJ?  Most of the guys you describe reminds me of an ISTP/INTP and are engineers. I'm an ESFJ/TJ and my fixing skills are not exemplary.|||The F/J combo makes us passionate.  We really need to control the J part because it's what makes us stubborn and have quick decisions. Not that it's an anger issue as much as learning how to...|||The Civil Wars:  Live at Eddie's Attic|||I had a smirk while reading this, which probably means I relate to such behavior.    #13 is hilarious but true!  I think it's true because I don't want to have to act quietly around the house. ...|||Ahh...yes, I can see that by the progression of your life and shows, you would think that you are in The WannieTheSane Show.   Also, no worries about my being a figment of your imagination.  I could...|||Okay. I checked the DVR...and it wasn't there. ha!  But yes, all that to say, I remember the episode.  How about Happy Endings?  That show is ridiculously funny!  I definitely think it's generational...'