'I'd like to think so, but the more I focus on them the worse I feel.  My need to make people happy turns it into an unstoppable force meets an immovable object situation. Like you said, not there's...|||I've recently found that the people I offend are normally just people I wouldn't get along with naturally, anyway. Talking to them is akin to walking on eggshells; I have to go out of my way to make...|||I didn't have time to carefully read this, but let me just say,  being in love with a depressed INTJ was probably the most emotionally painful experiences I've had with women. It quickly turned into...|||YUP EXACTLY :D  Sorry the reply was so late, university kind of absorbed my life lately.|||Think VERY literally, and just consider the exact wording of the question. ;D  I'm sure you'll get it.|||I'm mostly the same in this respect, but *before* I remove them from my life, I will go all out and confront them on their behavior, especially if I don't care about them. I won't really hold back....|||Welp, here goes nothing: (it may be more of a conundrum, if that's a real distinction :p)  A big rig weighing just barely 40 tons is about to drive over a bridge that can support *exactly* 40...|||After a quick search I didn't find any threads on this in the ENFP forum, so sorry in advance if this has been covered already.  Anyway, I'd like to know what you guys think of passive aggression,...|||bu-bu-but. I thought you would say there are 9 birds left. as in left alive. you never said how many were left on the fence! riddles, man, either you dont pay close enough attention to semantics, or...|||I think about how they think it's awkward and that makes me feel the awkwardness. But usually I never stop talking in the first place. :P My brother and I can be doing something together though, and...|||Rants are perfectly alright, here on the forums. ;)  The way I see it is that the mbti is abused to fit the corporate model, and it's used by human resources to justify it's existence. There's even...|||http://keys2cognition.com/index.htm is a good site to check- iirc the author has done research to find a neurological connection to the different cognitive types the mbti covers. He also offers a...|||Well darn. Let's just say it was the absolute wrong timing for both parties involved. Sad part is it really had potential. At least from my point of view...|||Its funny; my infj friend was certain I was infj too. She slowly realised that wasn't the case. Ever try to date an enfp girl?|||Well minus the infj part. Infjs have always been my go to friends.. and the infp/intp which ever she be is in need of alone time and such atm.|||Really though you just saved me typing pretty much the same thing. Sprinkle some passive agression on the women's part in there and you have exactly it.|||No I asked u first>:L|||ok besides whatever is happening in this thread.. I'd like to ask you about how you are with women life haha. PM if explicit detail is too much but the more information the better.|||People tell me I'm (4). but i feel like (1) and (2).|||Basically this, minus... uh.. actually no; exactly this.|||Holy shit I get sarcastic as heck and insult them at every possible opportunity.  But the person normally thinks I'm just teasing them.  Usually I don't like them because of how idiotic they are,...|||Yeah, this one day I found out I could get Rosetta stone for .... uh... a discount.. and ever since then I've decided I *needed* to learn spanish haha. As of now I'm studying it in college. Soon to...|||Yeah, somehow it's always the last song I've listened to.|||-If you don't like me like that, then why were you flirting with me?!?  -But I wasn't...|||The thing is I normally am perceptive of what other people are thinking; at least that was what I thought.  It was suprising to hear my friend say that. I will make overly blunt statements from time...|||My father used to say the difference between a gentleman and an ***hole is that the gentlemen intends to offend someone.  Recently a few people (more often than not, women) have taken me aside,...|||Because its a pizza box with a pamphlet for the Jehovah's witnesses inside. :p That tie doe. :cool:|||The end of The Pacific miniseries with Sledge had me down for the entire day D: Mostly realistic stuff is what bothers me when it comes to psychological horror. If its more supernatural-psychological...|||As an ENFP in the army, I know you'll be fine. Sure, you worry about being more decisive and focused on the task at hand now, but that won't be such a problem after drilling and training, over and...|||ENFP Personality Type Profile The first part of this has me down to a tee. :cool: Definitely worth the read.|||I end up taking on whatever vibe I get from the people I associate with. It's like an overactive empathy. Same thing happens if the person acts dismissive or condescending towards me... It extends...|||One of my best friends is ISTP and the other an INTJ.|||My trifix is 4w5, 7w8, 9w8 So yeah that's pretty cool I guess.|||If the brain were so simple that we could understand it, then we'd be so simple that we couldn't -Lyall Watson   Tempus fugit. -Vergil  And this paragraph of a quote: “Look again at that...|||So much this|||Interesting, very helpful post. Thank you for clearing that up! You get a thank.|||Well you can never be too clear ;)|||Well, at least you know what your problem is! Haha for some reason I get reoccurring tendinitis in my right leg...   I love running as well, and I have to say, there is nothing like running a...|||I am a freak accident INFJ who somehow transformed into an ENFP through the power of intense childishness and caffeine.   I bite, but only lovingly. :angry:     Spoiler- [My real name is...|||I'm mentally a child and once I get an idea I can't not follow through on it. Anyway; I love how you can Thank a post, makes me think you're telling the person 'Thank'. As in,  here is one...|||Yes way  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ux6krhn5994  My face then was basically the same as my avatar.|||Dannnng Go on stage and play guitar with them! Thats what one lucky kid did at the concert I was at!|||Most of my life I went to a tiny crappy catholic private school haha. I just hung out with everyone and stay away from forming a group. Didn't help when people would go out to do things; I was...|||Meeting people that like the things I like or who can get my random references ^^  Physical contact is always nice; like getting my head scratched :3|||I've had the pleasure of seeing chevelle live not too long ago, and, god, they're one of the only bands I listen to that I can say are even better live.|||I was just curious how common it is (or even possible) for a person to change types throughout their lives. For the longest time I've identified as INFJ, and it was only recently that testing has...|||WAIT EVERYONE LOVES CATS WHAT  haha cats are pretty great too; It's just that I have a cat allergy. :S  (I wish I could own a dog here ;_;)|||When it comes to judgement we have about as much spine as jellyfish.  Also, do you liek to go FAHST???|||That's when you do the burying, though. ;)|||Is it just me, or do all ENFPs LOVE dogs?  *I do* 161490 :D  They're like our archetypal spirit animal, or something. :crazy:'