'http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mokC24vTPI|||There's two triggers for this phenomenon I've noticed:   1. Over-empathizing in a social situation  2. High Stress, ENFJ will mimic type that resolves stress reaction most efficiently  1. When...|||Whenever I've attempted a drastic change in lifestyle, there has to be a catalyst. The last time I attempted this It stuck. I'm in a super-stressful spot right now, moving my business to a smaller...|||Hearing stuff like this gets my intuitive juices flowin!! As an ENFJ I can't see anything wrong with some in-depth analysis especially if I'm so actively engaged by the person talking. The only thing...|||Had my good friend tell me something so so similar to this today. He's been dating this girl for 6 months and all the while she's still waiting for her ex that joined the military a year ago. But...|||miss-anne-THRAH-pic =)  Hearing people try to pronounce scientific names makes me warm and fuzzy inside =))) +2 if they try hard|||I indulge in intelligent discussion and bouts deductive reasoning with people like this. I've noticed people get defensive/change subject when met with theoretical or highly technical conversation....|||Hello!   Don't be worry about if your personality type fits your career, It's a rough guide. I'm an undergraduate biological sciences major, and with my plan for a masters in Biochemistry and...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gbXa2DvVViI|||Every day, at about 70% of people based on if their body language is smile receptive lol.  I should try smiling at 100% of people and make a statistic on how many smile back.|||This is a psychology question that is debatable as well as subjective. There's a current theory that 50% of personality is from genes, and 50% from environment.  It's my opinion that environment...|||Formula for meeting suitable ENFx:  1. Talk to everyone 2. Of those who respond, enthusiastic talkers are likely E 3. If they talk about things that aren't simply eliciting information you've...|||MBTI / Enneagram? She's an ESFP to the best of my knowledge  What's special about him or her? We dated in highschool and I was her first everything, and she my first real love. I could tell you...|||My childhood stimulated my Ni more than anything, as I was shy up 'till graduating high school. Now I need social interactions on a daily basis to keep level. I have my brother and business partner...|||I notice this behavior in myself, however it usually manifests by harming my personal relationships rather than myself.|||Interesting theory you got there, I share the same. I actually started a commercial Compost Tea business a year back, and we want to make our first international market South Africa. We could lease...|||Spiderman was my favorite as a kid. He's a bit reckless for a superhero, I liked that about him. I would imagine myself web slinging freely through the city, or finding witty and amusing ways to...|||My skype sn is Adhokk, just like my forum username. You might see me pop on from time to time, feel free to shout at me =P|||Well here's my perspective as a business owner. My Idealism makes it so every action I take is one taken to realize my ideal of a successful business. I choose employees because I like them...|||ENFJ, I argue every day with my ENTJ brother, we're the most opinionated people we know. Interestingly enough you wouldnt know unless you were very close to the ENFJ, as they prioritize your feelings...|||What are your interests and hobbies? Most of the time nowadays I'm absorbed in my developing business, but that in itself has become my life's passion, everything about it interests me =) I still am...|||Hello Prince, I had a similar revelational experience to yours. Self discovery is such a broad topic that most people swim into a sea of problems, feelings, thoughts, ideas, and preconceptions...|||I had a friend just come back from the WWOOF program, definitely a life-changing experience for the better. If you don't mind posting about your experience while you're there, I'd love to hear about...|||well, not like much, because outside the organs is sterile. Inside organs smell would be based on reactions taking place: Stomach- like vomit, Intestines- microbe by-products like methane and...|||I have some lofty expectations of my life but here goes:  ...Founder of fortune 100 company  ...Marry my best friend  ...PhD in virology (and subsequently develop T-virus =P)  ...Master...|||Developing your Fe requires practicing: Conversation, body language, noticing social queues, empathizing  and other aspects of social interaction. These are simply ways Fe manifests in reality, to...|||Like HaN said, there are flavors of morality when it comes to manipulation, the intent decides where it lies on the spectrum. I'd describe constructive manipulation towards a friend as the best way...|||restraining order should be last resort, it nullifies constitutional rights and shouldn't be used lightly unless you're being stalked or seriously worried about bodily harm. You may not think much of...|||I'm stuck in a similarly opposite position as OP. I'm starting a business, and while I'm happy that my professional life is progressing and stable for the moment, I have no time to pursue romance. So...|||I love the coffee bean picture, I worked at a coffee shop for 5 years, so stuff like that makes me smile =P|||1. Happy are you? 7  2. Socially skilled are you? 7- I'm always improving my skills, I'll replace the most interesting man in the world in my later years =)  3. Lazy are you? 4-I try to get...|||I'm an ENFJ 7w8. I definitely know when an issue needs to be confronted, whether I act on it or not depends on if confrontation will benefit me. If it's someone I care about I'm very confrontational,...|||my spiritual journey is an introspective plunge into my mind for understanding of the universe. The inside of my mind is an unexplored universe of its own, and I feel a lot of ENFJ's can't appreciate...|||How are old are you? 21  Where are you from? Bay Area, California  How long have you been on Personality Cafe? 1 month  Other forums you frequent other than ENFJ forum?|||just reading the forums here could give you a bit of knowledge and the courage to get there.   Half the battle as far as I'm concerned:...|||haha Spastic with the large volume of EDM music being produced by at-home producers I'd say 80% is boring =P I feel most people get into EDM by one genre or another thats similar to something they...|||Ah, but you got my implied meaning, and still felt the need to correct my grammer? I don't need any sources personally, as I'm not terribly interested in the subject. But it would be helpful for...|||Sounds like he's an ENFJ. most of your description highlights the Feeling bits of his personality.|||We could use some sources. There's no logic in saying one thing is right or wrong without objective data to back it up. any input? here's an article on the relationship of neural plasticity and its...|||dd|||Milk, you'll need to talk to him about the F stuff! If he's even bringing it up all you need to do is listen. If you keep showing your impatience with his relationship talk he'll stop, and you'll...|||We need an NT to come explain neuroplasticity =P I too think this is a misunderstanding of what the concept is. From a quick wiki peak:   It's more a concept of how the cells of the brain can react...|||I'll never stop playing Starcraft, but I dabble in Diablo. I play Starcraft 2 ladder as Terran, and feel it's the most adaptable race for on-the-fly strategies. What other some other N's SC2 races,...|||Seattleites have much better coffee than Sbux to choose from! My time at Sbux actually got me really interested in starting a purist/elitist espresso bar based out of a catering truck. I wanted a...|||You may have to succumb to a moment of deep empathy in order to gain some insight into what he's going through. Sounds like he has regrets with his life I wish I'd done this... and that's why he's...|||I've had problems communicating casually with ppl until I left highschool. It does take willpower to implement social strategies because you're going to fail or feel awkward after a conversation has...|||Attention, and cute little reminders of mutual love =) she should be willing to go out of the way for me, cause I would build a rocket to the moon for her. Snuggles and sharing her feelings with me,...|||ya know, as an ENFJ I've always thought family would be the most important to me. I'm only 21 but when I do have kids I would pour my life's energy into raising my family and connecting with them....|||I'm ENFJ and I notice when I start drinking I flip on the Fe and go talk to pretty girls I otherwise wouldnt haha|||Hunny, I don't benefit from talking myself up. I feel better from realizing the problem thats causing my negative feelings and coming up with solutions, just knowing my options and that my problems...'