'In the first moment, you could come to the conclusions INFP's are perceivers, because they like to perceive their environment and talk rarely. But I think, if you could read their thoughts you would...|||You have to decide and it's your decision (you don't know to where it will lead you and whether your decision turns out to be good or bad). But a quote of Oscar Wilde reminds me of your question:  ...|||Even if it's true, no INFP has to worry about it. Doesn't this statistic proof, that INFP are passionate and have their own value system which sometimes collides with the value system of society? And...|||I often saw you, helping someone when he/she was in trouble. Can you explain why you do so and which role the one you help plays in your life (I mean do you care about them or would you do it for...|||It's a very special kind of manipulation. Not real manipulation.   examples (I remember):  1. In a situation, a person did lie. ENFJ (angry) I hate, when people lie. You shouldn't lie. They...|||Because it's easier to describe feelings to people you probably will never meet in real life (so you don't have to fear anything). And you feel so much more accepted by people with common sense, you...|||much friends* = don't initiate the friendship (I think it's tiring to talk and listen a lot) less friends = I initiate, because I want to have some great friends too  *much friends doesn't really...|||Interesting. Never heard about it. But I'm not in facebook and got enough friends, when I want to do somethings. So I'm really just interested about the places INFP's like to be. Because I think...|||I can't give you any advise. I just want to say, I guess it's normal (for an INFP normal, every INFP seems to be a bit of idiosynkratic). And I guess INFP in general, sometimes are the ones who take...|||Yes, if I know more INFP's... And it's not a real problem (I've got enough friends in my life...), I just wonder, why so many people are INFP (in this forum for example) and they're so active here in...|||(I hope you understand it, it's kind of confusing) To the first one, what would you do, when you both are too shy to talk to each other? And what do you do when you know you will see the person no...|||Do you think, there is a place you can meet INFP's.  For example: parties Even though I expect you will not find so many there. Because I expect many of them have got HSP (Highly sensitive...|||Yes, your intention of an unhealthy ESFJ is right...   Ok, I thought about Fe, because he often expresses his feelings and you know what he is feeling about another person or in a situation because...|||So, I want to know which personality type the person I want to descripe is. Somehow, he appears very easy to estimate, but then something destroys this picture you got.  At first I thought he's...|||Ok, I understand what you mean, but don't know how to reply in short without being too self-observed not to bore you with the whole story, but I understand your point, I think I just don't have any...|||Ok I understand... I remember, I thought about it once too. So which reaction, would you like best? Should I try to get in contact to you (it's difficult, I don't see him anymore) and answer I think,...|||I don't like it directly. If somebody would ask, whether I want to drink something together or want to have a date, I would feel very uncomfortably, because I don't know the other one.  I like the...|||ok can be, I don't know anymore, I just found it on my computer. :D And thought may some other are interested to. And I know believe is the wrong term, but I didn't know a better term for... ;)|||Do you believe in INFP subtypes? Because I think the following is very interesting and it explains a lot; why there are so much different INFP's etc. Some are very emotional, others always helping...|||Maybe it's because of the appearence they have. ENFP's and INFP's are both very similar in their behaviour I think. They both can have very unconventional ideas, just the ENFP often express them and...|||Yes, you exactly described my feelings why I don't do it. But I still wonder why some people can talk about emotional stuff, for example this was the best/worst/ etc. thing ever happened in my life...|||Yes, I know my question sounds strange. I didn't know, how I should make it clear...  But I'm really confused and don't know how to solve this problem, so even if you don't have it, but can imagine...|||Sometimes people built up walls  not to keep others away  but to see who cares enough  to tear them down.|||In my life people doesn't respond, if they  ... find it annoying ... are confused, by long and very complicated expressed texts (that's the reason just special persons got them ;)) ... just got...|||:frustrating: so much work to do to until tomorrow  and try to get :happy: so I can do the work better (I really should begin with doing something of it... but I can't, I don't feel like working :D)|||I'm interested in the system and how it works, but I don't partizipate, because I'm undecisive in politics and they're way too controvers for me. Also I think I would rather vote for a president I...|||TyTy Yes, I understand what you wanna say with The conversation never run try and I got that feeling often by strangers too (I think I thought about exactly that when I said that I feel that it...|||Nowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing. -Oscar Wilde- Money isn't the most important thing and you should avoid seeing the world out of financial view.|||Well, I could relate to some of your opinions and it wasn't really dependent, if you said you have one or said you don't. Because sometimes when I get to know stranger, I feel they really would be...|||I want to know, because I think I don't have one... And now I got no one I can talk about the things I'm really interested in and no one I feel really connected to in a emotional matter.  I got...|||The Shining by Stephen King? Or is this different to what you expected? Because I really like the book and the film with Stephen King as director (the version of Stanley Kubrick wasn't totally me,...|||I don't know what I do, because I'm confused as you in such situations, but what always had helped best was to do something with other people, so I couldn't be so focused on me. They distract me. You...|||Yes, I am, but in a very introverted way...  And I think, it's because I don't talk about my emotions, because this would destroy the emotion itsself.  But I'm sensitive a few words can make my...|||What I really liked by reading up all your comments was that most of you seemed to be quiet (and unsocial) too and just after time got more social and being accepted...  feels like company to me. ;)...|||I can't help you with relationships, I just know the feeling of being together with ESFJ. I like it, but find it very draining to.   I think, INFP's and ESFJ are extremes to each other (mirror...|||btw it's just my way of dealing with it maybe many other INFP make it different... ;)|||I am curious of how you would deem an action that has affected you as wrong. I'm just interested in the actual process itself. Do you immediately decide on whether the action is wrong or right? Do...|||I never heard it, but it makes sense to me, because people often seem to get offended with my way of dealing something, especially in stressy situations...   I think the cause is that we make...|||I never got one. Reason: The boys falling in love with me, I didn't love. And it was a little bit strange, because most of them didn't really talk to me (and I don't talk much in general), I think,...|||I rather say I think, but not because I rather think than feel. I think, I do this, because people often disagree with feelings (not so much with thoughts, because thoughts got reasons...)|||Well, if you want to learn flirting, really, just do it, you maybe will be really bad in the beginning, but after time you realise how it really works, to inform is a good way too (like you do with...|||Well, I think I've got a poker-face but in another way. I'm always smiling and disagree not very often, except I know the other person well. But it's not really about play a different role, I...|||Oh this test was for me, Alyosha? Sorry I didn't recognized this... Well I will write on this, if you are still interested... ;) It sounds very interesting. nice idea I think I can see to what this...|||I think real pain is regocnized of your heart, these pains you can remember long time after it happened. So I think this is always caused by emotions in some way. The pain sometimes is so strong,...|||word -- I like words, even when it's not always so easy for me, to find the right ones. ;) deep -- because I like things, you can think about in a deep way. compassion -- I love the feeling I...|||Ok. I can't contribute much too it... But I got the same question, am I INFP or ISFP and I could relate to some you said very much and find your answer so interesting. But I don't want it to make to...|||I apologize very often about small things I did wrong, some people really are a little bit annoyed of, especially friends, but most of them find it yet cute, because it doesn't look like I'm thinking...|||I think, it exist. But I would say it's rare, that soul mates are nearly the same. In my opinion, it's more like being a little different and a little the same. Like two puzzle pieces. The one piece...|||My feelings. That I've got so much in myself and just show some superficial feelings to some persons and not always. Many people don't realise, how much feelings I have and how sensitive I am. I so...|||You know you're an INFP, when you recognize, that you are living in a complete different world than all others. But regardless don't want to change it, because the world looks much prettier from your...'