'I shouldn't even be posting here, but I'll make an exception because this seems important,  Dear QuaQua  Your husband's personality type is no excuse for what he's doing. Sure, it's really hard...|||I'll post a salad of awesome things I stumbled upon during these last few days, plus a few from my favorites, so sorry for the huge post.  First this, I think it may be more INTP than INFJ, but...|||Dear Personality Cafe,  I almost lost someone very dear to me, and I just realized I need to sort some things in my life. I need to put my priorities in order and work even harder to make my plans...|||There's no perfect love for any personality type, but that's a dangerous mindset to put yourself in. Like you said he was probably extremely negative and unhealthy, and in that stage, any personality...|||Dear Northwind  Reading that while looking at your avatar somehow makes complete sense.  Amused, INTP|||You can't post that on a public forum.  Here, I censored it: (▬)(▬)|||Veggie  Ha, thanks, glad you liked it!  I have a few honorary badges so far, I'm collecting those. :tongue:|||Posters:   http://i.imgur.com/P00lDvb.jpg http://i.imgur.com/k7t1P2L.jpg http://i.imgur.com/NfmnYFO.jpg http://i.imgur.com/k1GTgbd.jpg http://i.imgur.com/OOTkTbj.jpg...|||I think that's an innocent statement. It was experimental, but it wasn't unpredictable. They've been dropping napalms from B-29s months before, which killed almost as many people as the atomic bombs...|||Sorry for the seizure-inducing post:  http://i45.tinypic.com/bdhq8.gif http://i50.tinypic.com/1h5ity.gif http://i46.tinypic.com/3169agi.gif http://i48.tinypic.com/3583zx0.gif...|||I should visit this place more often.  http://i48.tinypic.com/2vhyx06.png|||https://vimeo.com/59629693|||Dear INTJ,  Thanks for the incredible conversation. You're really an amazing person, and it's so rare to meet people like you, so I always appreciate whenever we have the chance to talk. It's funny...|||I'll post some performances and other random videos that I know most people don't usually appreciate because they can seem nonsensical or pretentious, but I honestly enjoy it and I can see an...|||Holding a grudge is feeling resentment, treating the person differently and maybe even looking for retaliation for something he/she did in the past. I don't do that, but I won't be innocent enough to...|||I forgive, but I don't forget. I don't mind people making genuine mistakes and innocent mishaps, everybody does that, but I'm good at seeing patterns, and when they don't learn from their mistakes...|||emerald sea I meant the behavior (although your post was a bit confusing), but thanks for clearing that up. Your explanation was really good and it definitely helped me to understand things better....|||emerald sea Not gonna lie, even though I enjoy being in this forum and feel quite comfortable around INFJs, that's still pretty confusing. :confused:|||I can relate to that. None of these descriptions will ever fit completely how we feel anyway, but there's a similarity between what you've said and how I've felt before that I suppose could be...|||Falling Leaves  I don't know if you've read this already, but maybe it will strike a chord with you:  On Si:    For INTPs under the influence of tertiary Si, this can generate a certain degree...|||I knew I was forgetting one:  http://i50.tinypic.com/102wkjn.jpg http://i50.tinypic.com/25oxs0o.jpg http://i46.tinypic.com/v401oy.jpg http://i46.tinypic.com/okpqpc.jpg Jonty Hurwitz|||I'm not sure what an Ni-themed artwork is, but I'll try my best:   http://i45.tinypic.com/ej616a.jpg http://i50.tinypic.com/t7jw5u.jpg Anna Gillespie  http://i46.tinypic.com/34htm9y.jpg Chen...|||I'm not an INFJ but here's my opinion anyway:  There are things which I consider essential for any relationship to work, like communication, trust, attentiveness, caring, compromising, etc. I don't...|||We can arrange that, but only because you came up with such cool names for our chocolate figurines! But you have to make one of yourself as well, we need a 'Sassy Jess'. ;)|||Dear NeonBomb  Bring the party and I bring the exotic country. While I'm quite a busy guy, if you ever visit Brazil I definitely wouldn't mind hanging out.  Sincerely, INTP|||emerald sea Hey, I've never said I allowed a copy of myself to be your personal chef... but for a small monthly payment we can talk. And with an extra 30% fee I'll throw in another copy to give you...|||Ha, 100% sure about that. I guess I have a feeler magnet because I've always been surrounded by them, which is why I appear to be more feely than other thinkers.   I'm not the engineer here,...|||I should've posted this earlier, but like I said the date itself is irrelevant. I still want to use the opportunity presented by this thread to show my appreciation for the INFJs here anyway.  You...|||http://i.imgur.com/mfyhbu5.jpg  Dear valentine,  You know I'd rather worry about having special days than celebrating special dates. Glad we're on the same wavelength about that.  :wink:|||I don't know what I'm doing here, I'm not even an INFJ.  Nevertheless, this is awesome:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QnOmrDzRrGQ|||They're not very good at hiding actually. Based on my experience and on the INTPs I know, they seem one of the most emotional T types, probably because of inferior Fe, but provide you spend some time...|||http://i.imgur.com/oVHYWHR.jpg|||Your post was just as confusing as your relationship.  You guys fought when she asked how serious you were because presumably you either didn't know or it was too soon for you to consider it...|||I haven't seen that before. What I usually see is must be enthusiastic, very communicative, good with people, etc, etc, which, while not a mandatory requirement for every job, if you will be...|||Ha, I figured that was the case, I just wanted to comment anyway, it's an interesting subject. And I can't help it, my mind is wired to find logical inconsistencies. :tongue:|||Despite the religious argument, which I consider harmless but simply doesn't resonate with me, I agree with the premise of the author. But the examples he used to prove his point were just awful. He...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MqoANESQ4cQ  This reminds me of a certain INFJ that is very dear to me. :)  And it also sounds like a Philip Glass song.|||:)  Btw, I quite enjoy post-rock (especially instrumental), soundtracks and more orchestral stuff as well, so feel free to send me a pm if you want to share some bands or songs. :proud:|||Try Gov't Mule if you like southern rock.|||http://i.imgur.com/uCpzipa.jpg|||It's probably an Ne thing, since I suffer from the same disease. But generally speaking, everyone enjoys novelty to some degree, Se and Ne doms just need more of that to be satisfied.|||Not really, only the more complex ones, because it's hard to see their details on the computer screen without zooming in, and sometimes they look similar to another character. But to me, it's a lot...|||Yeah, but at least the grammar is easy. My mother tongue is Portuguese, where a regular verb usually has more than fifty different forms with up to six tenses and three moods. After learning that,...|||I know we're not supposed to speak in other languages here, but since it was such a simple phrase I assumed there wouldn't be a problem. But anyway, you just look Chinese to me, that's why I asked. I...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6ABpjyc1Gs  Crazy sound! The traditional and contemporary instruments go really well together.|||Changeling 你是中国人吗?  Btw, if you don't mind me asking, what is that poster/calendar on the background with a sheep and something that looks like a deformed baby? Somehow it looks strangely familiar...|||Bonjour! Je ne suis pas INFP et je ne parle pas encore bien le français car j'étudie ça depuis seulement 5 mois, mais nous pouvons parler de types de la personnalité en anglais ou en français (je...|||Piano and guitar (mainly acoustic and electric fingerstyle). I can play bass too but I rarely do so, the frets are too large and it feels uncomfortable. Wish I could learn an instrument from the...|||http://i.imgur.com/8Ss4P8F.gif  Following your logic, if you end up having a bad experience with every personality type, you'll never pursue anyone ever again.  Let's hope that doesn't happen...|||He wanted to get intimate soon, you didn't. Now you want to get intimate (or not, maybe I'm reading it wrong) but he gave up trying. So apparently he's not the kind that likes to wait, and you're the...'