'What if I said no to saying no?   Haha just for shits and giggles.|||713730  Rainy weather=sweater and sweat pants.   Being comfortable is life. haha|||Dear INTJ,     The world has a lot to offer.  We spent our time well, watching the thunder storm from the shores of the beach. The best things in life aren’t things. To the perfect storm. Best,...|||Dear Female ENTJ Landlord,     I understand you feel strongly about something, but I am not your emotional trash can. You dumped garbage on me 4 times, I stated that if you made your decision then...|||Dear ENTJ,  Nothing can ever replace your spirit in my life! I fight every day and gain courage to choose the hard path because I know life isn't guaranteed. You are the reason I must live a life...|||I am a female ENFP (27) dating a male INTJ (30). I understand how you must feel, at the end of the day what matters is:  Are you okay with you?  I don't see my INTJ M-T because I need space of my...|||Dear 2016 me,   You were brave beyond belief. Shed the traits that don't serve you, remember the lesson.  Use your courage to inspire others to be brave.  Sincerely,  ENFP Version 2.0|||Would it be a different story if the INTJ asked: Why Not?|||AH. So CUTE! Did you make it?|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FslecgbAdo0  This goes out to you rude customer. I will cry, it will be out of my system, and then it's all over. It's a temporary thing. I'll make it through the...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FslecgbAdo0  This goes out to you rude customer. I will cry, it will be out of my system, and then it's all over. It's a temporary thing. I'll make it through the...|||Your hair is cute! I love the shades of pink on you!|||That's funny that you had the same argument. It's useful information though! I love learning new things. I'll have to try this out.|||Dear ESFP Boss,   I let you take the reigns and listened when you told me not to give a complicated answer to our client.  I watched as the confused customer got more confused because you gave him...|||:blushed:  What more can a girl ask for!? 706770|||Pretty!|||https://open.spotify.com/track/1oMTC7wvZCf7zeUpodLlQf But she said, where'd you wanna go?  How much you wanna risk?  I'm not looking for somebody  With some superhuman gifts…|||Lol if I saw you do all of those things, I probably would just remain quiet haha. Well yes INTJs do lead with Ni, which isn't expressed out into the world, so for me it was a surprise to see how you...|||Lol. This is also a misunderstanding. I had asked my INTJ to do the dishes, and he was fine with it.   My intentions are not to pick a trivial fight over placing the food into the fridge because I...|||Woah guys. I'm not asking you advice about the situation. I explained my interaction with my INTJ to see if the example what other INTJs would do in that situation to get to know that INTJ better...|||Lol All I see is *smile.* So would you not even help with the dishes, since I cooked in this situation? ^_______^|||That's an interesting perspective. So are you pretty open minded? It sounds like you are.|||Thanks for your kind words!|||http://imgur.com/a/yZv5x  Any thoughts?|||Are INTJs stubborn?   In my experience:   My INTJ refused to put the hot soup I made into the fridge.  I refused to back down, since I read this awhile back: ...|||Dear INTJ customer,   You've been burned by other companies, I won't assure you with words, I will show you in writing what we bring to the table. You will see.  Best, ENFP|||706018  Been dealing with crazy situations at work, so finally got a moment to just have a bit of fun.|||It feels right to do so. You just feel a deeper connection, I start sharing deeper thoughts and selective emotions until finally you are raw. I haven't told them yet, but it's kinda nice keeping it...|||Dear ISTJ,   Treat people like humans, and they will move mountains for you.  It felt good to tell you No, I won't help you.  I thought it was well deserved. I hope you learn a lesson, and if...|||Dear ENTJ,   I appreciate you so much more once I grew some thicker skin.  Thanks.   You made an impression on me.  -ENFP|||Move on with courage INTP. They lost someone that liked them, while you lost someone that didn't like you. I call that a win. Use it to enhance your red flag radar, who knows you might recover sooner...|||Dear INTJ,   From the depths of my soul, you have forever changed the way that I love.  No, it's not infatuation, as time goes by, you will now start to see the sides of me that have been locked....|||Yes it is reality. It's such a crucial part to the relationship.  Well see he likes dominating, however I'm not into being submissive lol.   I see well it makes sense, if both partners aren't...|||Any INTJs encounter a relationship with a partner that has different view of sex?  I have been in a relationship with an INTJ for five months, and everything has been amazing except this....|||Dear ESFP Boss,   Thanks for the reminder to take more action.  You taught me how to ask for what you want without overthinking about it. Let's combine the powers of present and future and build...|||I'll just say I plead the fifth for this one.  Hunches and predictions of people and situations are thrilling.  It gets me in trouble sometimes.  Hm.   So which do you value more? Actions or...|||Hm. You just cleared up something.  I am internalizing my strong feelings for him because of Fi; sacred feelings stay within layers, while he needs clarification on my feelings because he is also...|||When an INTJ askes if you love them?   This confused me, because I would think that it says it all in my actions.   I kind of disregarded the thought that it could stem from his insecurity,...|||Dear new ENTJ,   Yes, I spot you out from a mile away. I literally am excited to see how efficient you will make our office.  You thought that your traits sounded bad on paper? How about...|||You really gave a virtual wake up call. I had to reread your post twice, since you know... us ENFPs are always present.  Thanks for keeping me on my toes.|||687402 Himalayan Salt Pen Holder. I have a thing for office supplies.|||You could name it private network hahaha. Thanks for posting, I enjoyed all the posts so far about this ISTJ.|||Maybe just try sharing your thoughts?  I just like silence sometimes.|||He has received silent treatment in the past.   Your point on being consistent, is probably key. We've only been dating for 2 months, so not enough time to 'show' him that I mean what I say.  I...|||Hello there,       It's a bit of a cliche, every couple of years, I assess if a position has room for growth. I am currently a Senior Sales Executive at a Merchant Processing Firm. I have been here...|||I can't speak for all ENFPs, but there are layers that a select few get see.  Being serious is one of them.   I had to look up egregiously. You just increased my vocabulary.|||Ah yes, regardless of type similar life values does help with compatiblity.   Yes, agreed a good balance of all traits is necessary.  Haha, I am guessing that they will be confused a lot of the...|||Brilliant, redirect the question to him for clarity. I'll apply and assess muahaha. Thank you!|||My INTJ tends to ask  What's wrong? when I am in deep thought I have a blank stare.   I have already explained that I am just lost in thought, and said I would prefer What's Good?  Since the...|||Haha special fishies.  Yeah definitely they might bring out sides of you that you never knew existed. Can you scope out the 'energies' when you enter a room?  I can relate comeplete to this. ...'