'Thank you very much. It's true, we never are, we are always becoming. :proud:|||During a high school assembly towards the end of my senior year, there was a opportunity for people to come up and talk about whatever it was they needed to get off their chest. I had been bullied...|||Officially became a vegetarian last year.|||I understand where you're coming from, and I know this isn't easy. I can understand that your mother is hurting very deeply. There is a lot of hurt here, and you are handling it heroically and...|||Well, I have different levels of anger.  1. Quiet, internalized. Usually fades and is forgotten. It normally doesn't get much further than this. 2. Quiet, passive-aggressive. 3. Shouty, tense....|||Even the criticism I specifically ask for can sting like a motherfricker.   Criticism shouldn't ever be confused for derision, that's how I feel about that sort of thing. If it sounds like she's...|||I totally see what you mean about ENTJs. My ENTJ friend is good at everything I suck at. It's truly admirable.  My boyfriend is an INTJ, and we tend to waffle about values and all that.  I've...|||I've been curious about figuring out what types New Zealand musicians Neil and Tim Finn are. I forgot all about it until someone asked The iNtuitive Musician about them, and he hadn't typed them. ...|||I keep them in a cardboard box that once held beer from a liquor store.  I met an INTP who built a bookshelf specifically for his books. I found that heartwarming.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jtZx9LNpAY  I bought new headphones. This was the album I chose to test them.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zc8hbSM1zVo  The stars are blazing like rebel diamonds cut out of the sun.|||Hey, I find myself drawn to you, and I think you're cute...but it's cool if you don't think I'm cute... Um, okay...I'll be over here.|||I've been praised mostly for my intelligence (academic achievements when I was younger, but people I run into tell me how smart I am all the time), but I've received a good amount of praise for my...|||It was enough to inspire a song for me. I'm scared to death of things we do in the dark.|||You're a really grounded and sensible individual.|||After hearing about the guy wanting to intentionally get swallowed alive by an anaconda, and the whole dollar store Evil Stick thing, I'm really disturbed and uncomfortable and terrified, and I...|||NTs mostly. I tend to spend time with people who are far more rational than I am.|||I really enjoy herbal blends with peach, orange, and raspberry. Green tea is my go-to, usually.|||First of all, I'm glad you're making an effort to reach out to us. INTPs aren't too bad, they got that Inferior Fe, which is great, you know, when they actually use it.   - Betrayal of any kind...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSWIfX_MNCY|||Good reading. I was wondering, how on Earth are we supposed to get along with an Fe/Ni type? That sounds exhausting.|||My current partner is an INTJ, and I can see why they would be great for ENFPs, but I am far too sensitive to deal with him most of the time. He's crazy in love with me, though.|||I walk most places.  I've never quite learned how to drive, even though I'm nearly 25. I have mixed feelings about finally getting my license and a car.|||I pick up others' quirks and turn of phrase...if I like it enough. I might also dress similarly to people close to me, but not in a state of wanting to emulate them, just because I want to be close...|||There's a reason why Penn & Teller are so popular, ya know.  Anyway, that was an absolutely beautiful love story, very moving and heartwarming. I've only met one confirmed ENTJ and she is drawn to...|||If I'm not at home or work, you can find me wandering around town/random neighborhoods on foot. I really enjoy walking.|||A red knit thermal henley, a slightly oversized forest green cardigan, bootcut jeans, and big clunky brown shoes. I'm wearing a green knit beanie, and my hair is down, which it usually is on my off...|||Being used like a toy is a big one for me. :blushed:  Other than that, I get really hot and bothered when someone starts speaking in a highly intellectual manner (the two types I'm most attracted...|||I had straight As all throughout elementary school, but I really began struggling in middle school and high school (until my senior year) even in classes I once truly shined in, like English. Home...|||Well, it's humanitarianism, nonetheless.  I do get irritated by people who showcase their do-goodery for pats-on-the-back and well-done-sirs, bringing camera crews to photograph their good works....|||I'm not an incredibly physical person, but I enjoy very long walks and hiking. I go through phases where I focus on workout routines and fitness, but the last time I did that was when I had no job. ...|||Purple. Specifically, all blue-toned shades of purple.|||I'm thinking the whole knowing what's going to offend them thing is Introverted Intuition, and studying the general mood of people to best address them is very much an Extroverted Feeling...|||I do this all the time, even when I was younger. My mom told me it was 'not socially acceptable' and to keep a private journal instead. I did that...until I discovered my mother was reading my...|||I don't fall very fast or very often, but when I do fall, I fall hard. I tend to fall for very detached, stoic, quiet people with hidden depths (maybe because I want traits like that in my own life,...|||I've always been incredibly sensitive. The word crybaby was often directed at me, probably heard it more than my actual given name.|||I'm so happy for you! I've always thought As long as I'm making some kind of difference, great or small, then it's all worthwhile. The day I stop making a difference or finding myself living to...|||This is exactly how I see it. I'm currently waiting tables...it's a means to an end (the goal is songwriting and performing music) - but I find ways to minister to the needs of others, including my...|||I'm starting to come to the place where I can accept myself as a beautiful person and not hate the person looking back at me.   I think I like my face...I might be out of my awkward phase for good....|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXndFmaZkwQ|||Yeah, I'm not as upset as I was before. He is a bit younger than me (I'm 24, he's 21) so maybe that might have something to do with it. I know age isn't truly indicative of a person's maturity, but...|||He's not an INTJ. He's an INTP.    It probably has everything to do with his religion and upbringing. Also, I'm getting a huge vibe of immaturity coming from him. To be very honest with you all,...|||I have an older coworker who talks to the INTP about me all the time. According to her, he says that he thinks we'd be good together and that he's always thinking about me, and that it's a good thing...|||Okay. I'm back. Same INTP as before, increasingly interesting situation.  So, everybody at work, for the longest time, has been saying that the INTP and I should get together. Both he and I skirted...|||I am in the same boat. Well, a similar one, at least.  I'm in a relationship with an INTJ, and I have been with him for years. I care very much for him, but I have had many doubts about the...|||Yes, this. This completely.|||[When coworkers are talking about something work-related:] Oh! Guess what I read yesterday about something completely unrelated to this... I also make terrible puns. I usually tell myself to...|||Feeling hopeful yet guilty. Also tired.|||It's about 50 degrees F and overcast today, and I couldn't be more happier.|||When I'm performing with other musicians, like when I was playing guitar in a band, it wasn't so bad. I also wasn't the lead singer or anything (lead singer was an ISFP, btw).  When I had to sing...'