'Say some insightful stuff to someone who has hiring authority, Haha, could I say I had such imagination from time to time, pretending I am wise and cool. Though I think I should have more practice...|||But actually yourself are nevery changed. You are still the guy who you are. When you find you are not ENTP, maybe it is good. You have a better perspective of who you are.|||Sounds really interesting! To see different people, bringing a solution out of tons of information, and try to convince the contractor to execute the offered solution are really interesting! It gives...|||They say there are different postions in consulting companies. One is to meet with clients. They communicate for more information of clients and try to figure out the solution, and the other is...|||As an ENTP, I found it very difficult to perceive the deep emotions of  people and give an approperiate feedback to make them feel better. For me, when I found someone is in difficulty, the first...|||Have my thanks as your first thank received in the personalitycafe:)|||I like you. I still remembered your word  I never come to the world to punch the clock . It is very encouraging. :proud:|||Thank you very much for your kind suggestion. Hmm...maybe I should have a good thought about my career, it seems even less linear. :rolleyes:|||It must be cool to see how you persuade your customers and close the deal.  Your words really enlightened me. To make every meeting a little project to achieve. It sounds like seeing the whole set of...|||They say ENTP's life path is anything but linear.:)  process engineering--finance---technical marketing are awesome changes. I think for guys of other characters, they would rather move away from...|||I am so grateful about you. I learnt a lot from your posts!:happy:|||From my experience, ENTP is quite different. The careers& jobs designed in the society are usually not so suitable for the character of ENTP. I have some questions and I need to be enlightened.  ...|||From my experience, ENTP is quite different. The careers& jobs designed in the society are usually not so suitable for the character of ENTP. I have some questions and I need to be enlightened.  ...|||Revolution is not that romantic, and in most occassions, it is full of pain, bloodshed and terror. Unless someone really means it, and is willing to sacrifice everything he owns, even his life, it is...|||If you want to change, you can change it. Thought it takes some time:happy:  I was like you, and it really tasted bitter. You feel the sense of powerlessness, and you had no willpower to change it....|||You are so fantastic, and I hope I could have the similar life and persue the dream as you did!|||I love you story, it is really cute:tongue:|||I love this sentence, You were never born to punch a clock.|||Didn't mean to blame anyone. Instead of saying he is not fasinating, I prefer to say he's lack of experience. Romance is like a win-win business, it depends on two sides to enjoy the process. If one...|||Man, it is easy to let a girl to know you love her. It is almost written on your face. The question is how to let her accetp the love, and you two can start a romance.   I would say, frankly, you...|||Thank you for the post. It helps me know better about how NFs are brought up. Since I am an N type, so a lot of good friends of mine are NF guys. Some of them are males and some of them are females....|||Take the gentleman in my avatar as an example, he is an N type guy.   Hope it would be helpful for your judgement.|||The best and quickest way to tell a guy N or S is to look at his/her photos:  If the eyes are often in a lost focus condition, he/she is an N. If the eyes sparkle, he/she is an S.|||Yes! That is it!  It seems really a good choice to meet more people. I found she seems like fefueled after meeting with people, especially with life experience. I think it is really a good...|||Yes, time heals and makes many things. Meanwhile I would like to know if there is anything to do before the time does its work? I don't mean it is climb off the wall at once. I know she is not able...|||Thank you for the comment. It occurs to me that indeed my friend is not willing to face such conflicts in life. The first thing she wants to do is fleeing away. I think it slows down the accumulation...|||Thank you very much for the detailed explanation. Now I know much better how NFs function when they try to say no. NFs don't just refuse others by judging the request is reasonable or not, and they...|||You are such a kind people. It is not easy to understand NF's priority on the good relatioship with people around. I come to understand more from your answer. :happy:|||There is one thing that really concerns me is how you handle the situation as below:     Friends, relatives, you know, may not always be so kind hearted. Maybe they do not do it deliberately but...|||Yes, thank you!   Except I cannot find out where the THANK button is. I remember there was such a button.|||Thank you very much for your explanation!Yes, I would like to ask more questions if I could.:)  1. In your first answer, you said you would like to give an actual reason why you cannot do the task...|||I think genearlly speaking, there are two difficulties NFs would conquer through out their lives:  1. To face the reality other than live in self imagination or feeling 2. To face the confilcts in...|||I know you NFs are kind hearted and friendly guys. But there are always occasions which require people do give a refusal other than smile and accept with a bleeding heart. I have a good NF friend....|||1. Friend, the potential future is in your hands. It is you who uses your strength and your will to change the future  2. The future is always unknown, that is what fascinates us.      Use your...|||I think things may not be that bad as it seems to be.  1. First you said about it is a very important goal like a life goal you want to achieve.    But what on earth is it that ails you?   ...|||It is interesting to have such exciting life goals. I have to say it is weird but it is really interesting.   Actually we can also accomplish some real goal if we can train the ability to persist....|||Being smart is good, but it is not good enough. You need to learn to hang in by making more attempts.  Guts and persistence make a man man.|||Yes, absolutely. I don't speak Spanish though, I use translating software.|||Find some goals, starting with something small, and achieve it.  Gradually it will wash off the sentimental thoughts, just like your thoughts go though a wash machine.  If you don't want the farm...|||If you don't want to do it, just say No. If a man worth of loving, he will respect your attitude.   You are 32, that doesn't mean you devalued compared with the young girls.   Respect yourself,...|||My suggestion is to achieve more and goals by yourself,  rememeber to start from something small.  Gradually you will come to know the reaction between effort and good consequence is not like...|||I found myself very difficult to be grounded. I was easy to get exhausted, and easy to divert myself into exploring more possibilities. At that time, I was like a ship without an rudder. I took the...|||I think it has nothing to do with personality.   If you like a girl and want to start a relationship, then make it happen. Being home as a otaku is neither convenient to persue a girl you like or...|||To talk with someone is only a small angle to know a guy.  Trying to understand someone's real personality, you got to see how they act:  1. in a long term. Chinese old saying It takes a long...|||Every type procrastinates. Unless you find out what you live for. Or you are being chased by a bulldog.:laughing:|||I think for a while, finding it is really difficult to tell.:frustrating:  Maybe that is why Socrates put Know Thyself as a superlative wisdom. :rolleyes:|||MBTI is a very useful theory, and it is only a theory. It only describes part of the story, not all.   I like to introduce it to my friends. Not matter whether they believe it or not, I will make...|||If you really have what it takes to live in some foreign countries for several years, I suggest you have some try.  After experiencing different life styles and cultures, you will have answers...|||Be the change you want to see in the world.  Not try to escape.   In many other counries, people depict USA as heavens and blame the countries they were born for the reason they are not feeling...|||1. Accept worry self-doubt is only part of the emotion, it happens  2. Find the good element in the environment: Things are not that bad.  3. Make the decision what to do next  The three...'