'Masculine?  Me?   Not necessarily.  I walk with purpose (the transit march), and I prefer to wear Jeans, a pair of trainers and a fitted tee.  But I can be coerced into a dress if the occasion...|||No.  No he does not. 1. He can't be bothered, especially where you're getting clingy. 2. the effort. if he hasn't spoken to his family about you, that's an alarm klaxon ringing out right there. 3....|||We can get dangerously stubborn when contemplating, or thinking, and we hate distractions or other people butting in.  So let him think things through.  Let him know that you're there if he wants to...|||This makes me a Banther.  I'm silent but not a risk taker.  I'll laugh when getting told off, then let my potty mouth go nuts.  I don't think before I act.  I avoid conflict but if it's thrust upon...|||At home watching Netflix, probably a documentary on our subject of choice for the month.  Basically, we won't be on any dating site.  And if we do venture outside just look for the woman with a...|||1. It's more of a concentration face that the rest of the world mistakes for a I'm going to straight up murder you and bury your body in eighteen different locations.  Although even when I'm not...|||Probably because you get the job done. Just not to the company's specific guidelines.   People who stick to the rules hate ISTP's because our logic sees a lot of rules as a waste of time and...|||My username says it all! Anything where I can sneak about, and slit my enemies throats. The unseen silent shadow killer!  That's me.  And if there's a full on melee, I sling a couple of fireballs...|||Give her a chance.  It might be that she regrets the way she acted towards you and wants to apologise.    Go for a coffee and hear her out.  If you miss her, then I'm assuming (correct me if...|||501762|||Suggestions and help greatly appreciated and taken on board.  Thanks to all.|||You have no idea!  I have very little diplomacy skills, so your advice on tact will come in handy.  Thank you.|||fitting enough.  I might end up printing this and posting it over the house.|||I'm posting it here hoping to get some help.  So recently, My mum took the Meyers-briggs and came up ESTP (to my ISTP).  She's always the life and soul of the party, gets along with everyone,...|||I mainly get frustrated with my work colleagues who all have a penchant to suddenly disappear when there's actual work to be done. When that happens I get even more quiet than my usual quiet.  The...|||Life is not what people tell you it should be. Question everything. If it makes you laugh, laugh loud. Diet is the word Die with a T on the end.|||I am no exception either. I grew up in an undesirable area of London. Attended a very bitchy all-girl's school where the people who I thought were my friends turned out to be very two faced.  By the...|||This is a bit of a grey area.  What if the marriage is an forced, arranged marriage and neither of us are happy?  Would it still count if I said no, I wouldn't cheat? What if the long term...|||I've just started the The Skull Throne by Peter V Brett, after finishing a Song of Dragons trilogy by Daniel Arenson.  I'm a big fantasy reader, and the grittier the storyline the more I'm pulled...|||I have an unhealthy obsession with puns and playing with words.|||And don't get me started on getting ready for such an event!   If the dress code says casual I'm chucking on my jeans, a t-shirt and a pair of comfy trainers.  But if I have to Dress up. ...Nah,...|||Cat's obviously attempting to communicate with you.   The message is clear. Do not go to work.  Stay here and hunt stuff with me.|||I am exactly the same.  Same age bracket.  No offspring to bear my name into the future.  And only two relationships I can call relationships (the last one was a personal record for me of 3 years...|||This is me all the way. I'm normally the one in the corner getting drunk, and observing the people around me running a nature documentary style narration in my head. I'm hopeless at small talk....|||Yup.  I said it.  I know, I know.  There's another one. :rolleyes:  I've only just recently found out that I'm an ISTP, even though I come from a family of Judges and only a couple of Perceivers....'