'Slagasauras Yeah, I said all that self-love crap. I do take self-love seriously, and I work on it often. Over the past couple weeks I've made some good strides in that area, and I think I've come...|||Slagasauras I'm not offended, but the drill sarge way of motivation just really doesn't work for me. Tough talk and things of the sort.|||I've gotta say, I won't get anywhere with someone telling me things like, I better see you all doing your shit like you said you would. Report back when you've done adequate self bettering...|||I wish I knew better how to weather my anxieties and the situations that make them flare up!|||Asuzanne515 Yeah, I can't help you with the workcookies. :P Unless you can pretend they're all someone else's? I pretend that the cookies belong to my partner, and I can't take his cookies. Just like...|||Asuzanne515 I feel you on the cookies thing. I have my tall partner put the box on a super high shelf where shorty me can't reach them, and he doles out cookies as he sees fit. That way, I don't...|||I used to smoke every day, but nowadays I smoke much less. Maybe once a week, if that. I don't buy it anymore, so whatever I smoke tends to be off my downstairs neighbour. I learned through smoking...|||Does anybody else get super hung up about how things have been worded when they speak? I obsess over this at times, especially when I've got something important to say (i.e. big relationship...|||Stone Drum It certainly seems to be! Many, many have done it, it seems :)|||That's sort of been my experience, too. I'm still very much in the seeking minimalism boat.    What makes you say that? :)    Micro-apartments are pretty amazing. I especially like #5 and 18...|||Mature in what way, Stone Drum? I'm not sure I understand what you mean.|||I've had the dream of living in a tiny house for a number of years now, and there's got to be someone else out there who shares my enthusiasm for small-space living!  ...|||Haha, these actually made me laugh! :) I've got the biggest thing for beards though|||I'm happy that my doctor's appointment is today, and it's really looking like I'll get the green light to go back to work! I've been out for a week and a half for a back injury, and I've been bored...|||I was a bit of a night owl when I was a student, but the past year and a bit of working full-time has led me to go to bed around 9 or 10 most nights. My max is around midnight. The few times I've...|||I've been going back a few pages, and you guys are all so gorgeous! :3|||I would consider it.. it's been years since I've had a penpal :)|||At the risk of sounding really cheesy, I'm actually dating my dream guy :)  Dream in the sense that he's someone I've loved for nearly ten years. He's been through every hardship that the...|||I really don't have much of a sense of style. If it's comfy, and preferably not black, I'll wear it. I tend to go for solid colours over prints, but I've started adding a couple of printed shirts...|||I like circles :)|||There are four cats in my apartment. Two are mine, and two are my best friend's. We're both ridiculously in love with our cats :P A few years ago, I never thought I would be a cat person (I had dogs...|||behoopd.tumblr.com  I quite enjoy tumblr, actually. It can be a bit addictive; I'm certainly on it a lot less now than I used to be be. I post an equal-ish amount of personal posts and reblogs....|||Dear Love, I have never felt a love more strongly for anyone in my life until I came to love you. For years I have accepted that we were never going to be anything other than dear friends. Now we...|||I try to follow the if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything advice. Now if only my thoughts would catch up :P|||So many beautiful people in this forum! :3 <3  You can see me in my avatar :)|||Dating's... alright. I'm trying to focus more on just having fun than going on full-blown spousal hunt mode, as I tend to do. Currently dating a guy I met through rugby, who, on the outside, seems...|||If we're going completely materialistic, then my list is full of books, and has been for years. Moar books! :3  If we're going in the other direction, then I just want to find a way to escape the...|||I'm really glad my parents brought me up with the idea of not judging a book by its cover. If I had kept my first impression of my boyfriend, I wouldn't have gotten to know him better and find that I...|||My parents live in a small town, so it was likely a family-owned store. The bottle was about 40 dollars.|||My mum and I went grocery shopping once one year, and we had bought a bottle of Bailey's. Somehow, it didn't end up getting scanned in, and we left with it without paying. We only noticed when we got...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6uAYiiIMzA&feature=plcp|||Apologizing now for not reading any of the longer posts, especially after the trigger warnings, but I felt like I should post anyway.  I'm more or less convinced that it's impossible to permanently...|||For sure for sure our dear doctor John Watson :) as well as Silk/Prince Kheldar from the Belgariad/Mallorean. Neville Longbottom!|||Looking forward to seeing your video, Calvaire!|||Starting to feel better since visiting this site: The Nicest Place on the Internet  :) Helps combat the melancholy and hopelessness feelings.|||So my last college English class is a Harry Potter class! And I'm super excited and can't wait for the semester to start. But. I have this fantasy in my head of my prof and I becoming best friends...|||My avatar! :D  (I don't freaking know how to delete this post T_T)|||I've been a self-proclaimed Hufflepuff for years, but Pottermore ruined me! I got into Gryffindor, and I'm still trying to accept it. I mean, this means I need to buy a new scarf.|||I am, as I type, letting my flatmate build a zen rock garden. On my bum. Yes. The rocks are cold. And it's very hard to stay still enough so he can take a picture.|||I'm almost finished my study to be an early childhood educator (one year left!). I'm currently working full time in a daycare for the summer. Very fulfilling, but very hard, work. <3 When I graduate,...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hKluqcNee1Y|||So excited! I wanna write letturs! And be best friends, and all that wishful-thinking-getting-way-too-ahead-of-myself kinda thing. :) I can dream.|||As close as the terms I'm aware of can define, panromantic grey-a over here :)|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpunQZ4cUyI|||I've felt the same way, so I take long breaks from the site from time to time. I like the community here though, knowing that there are people here who understand some of the idiosyncrasies of my...|||I hate, hate, hate myself for practically giving up on drawing before I even give it a proper try. I have so many cute scenes in my head that I'd love to be able to put to paper, but I can't make a...|||Totally in agreement.  For myself, I don't mind where my penpal is located (although if you're in the UK, PLEASE talk to me :P), but for my own sanity I'd prefer someone closer to my age (I'm 21,...|||I've got a pretty common name, but the spelling is just uncommon enough to make me happy (though I've come across a few people before who spell their name Meaghan too).  Most of the time, I go by...|||Those bracelets are so beautiful, amethyst_butterfly! Do you sell any?|||I am so up for this, you have no idea! I will be a faithful penfriend <3 I'm the lame person who will spray her letters with body spray so that they're more pleasant for the recipient. :P But beware!...'