'Game developing/ degree in literature not an option?|||OK, trying not to burst your bubble, but what I got from this is:  1) You like this girl and missed the chance of making a move at the right time. 2) You introduced said girl to your best friend,...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v4pi1LxuDHc  Had me at the opening line, looping ever since.|||I'm going to be brutally honest here and tell you what your INFP friend is saying may be true. Like I barely know you, but I get that vibe that that might be the reason INTJm is not making surer...|||[QUOTE=Shodan;32982625] If he already acknowledged you as a buddy I'd believe him, not letting you pay is probably just a guy thing, but showing up at your workplace is a bit odd... unless you work...|||Thank you for your input. Neither of them are on a substitute bench. I'm not meeting them up for attention, just friendly chilling out. One of the INFJs already knows about the ISTJ situation but I...|||Hi,  INTJ female here for some INFJ advice (preferably male).   I have been seeing an ISTJ guy for a few months long distance and lately having doubts whether it will ever be potential for...|||Sela,  Don't post on the video. It'll just make you look bitter. Asking in person is a good idea. If he does bullshit, you can mention seeing the video online nonchalantly and be like oh just...|||Sela  I'm guessing you've been in the INTJ forum and reading them up? I read a couple of your previous posts and here are some things I'd note:  1)INTJs do not go out of their way to see people...|||Sela if you need my two cents on reading your INTJs, I can probably give some insight as to what's going on. Sorry but I just got on this page so not sure of the dynamics? But I think the INTJ guy...|||Thanks for your opinion. I kind of backed down from the ledge because deep down I feel like I trust him when I ask direct questions and he gives direct answers. Like he could lie about the travelmate...|||Hi,  Would like some insight as to what is going on with this (ISTJ?) guy. I'm a female INTJ (feels INXJ sometimes). He says he tested as ISTJ in school but refused to retake the test online, just...|||Cheating is called cheating for a reason.  Someone is being deceived; cheated on, or hurt in the process. There is an imbalance and inequality in the individual's value within the relationship.  ...|||Maybe reposts your stuff to show that he admires and agrees with your point of view. Imitation = flattery.  Then gathering personal data and discussing with you to show you he is interested in you...|||I feel like ENFPs tend to hunt me down and won't let me leave :/ ditto ENTJs. INFJs, I am able to communicate with them fairly well but haven't met enough of them for a decided opinion.  Get along...|||Probably had 100 of these moments. Just held back for fear of repercussions/ energy loss/ person not deserving enough/ whatevs.  When an opportunity presents itself, probably good time to let loose...|||Probably was already irritated that you did not understand such a clear message (to him) on first try, and then being told after it's his fault that you didn't get it.  NO UR THE DUMB ONE likely...|||Thank you for bringing that up. I have fixed my initial post to include a link to chart yourself, so no need to expose public info here:) Should you wish to chart yourself for your own info, here is...|||I remember facing this same issue with every move I made. Elementary school to high school, high school to university, moving to new cities for work.  My most uncomfortable changes were probably...|||First off, if you are not interested in astrology and charting, please refrain from any nasty comments or sidetracking.  I view astrology charting as a hobby and I'd like gather more data to see if...|||Adding my 2 cents, it's possible she's playing that game where she thinks guys shy off at commitment, so pretends she isn't looking for commitment. This is the kind of stuff magazines tell you to do....|||Would like to know if there is good way to tell between genuine ENTJ interest vs. game-playing to smoothly reel someone in.  Are there things you would do/ would avoid on a first or second date? ...|||I can put it all past and just act like a normal friend if they are able to do the same (ie. move on or hide all traces).  I don't think a lot of people crush on me hard enough to be sure, but in...|||Interested in history when it relates to certain eras that I am interested in, and more so on certain topics within certain eras as well.  Eg. More for cultural systems and human mentality than...|||Do you mean cynical about particular people, cynical about society in general, or both?|||I don't feel feminine but neither am I a tomboy.   Traditionally feminine traits I exhibit: -high interest in make up, skincare, and perfumes (perhaps linked to high interest in colours. I rarely...|||Even my good friends often are oblivious about my crushes. Even if I like the guy, I can't be certain if they're just flirting around for fun or are actually interested. Guys who test waters  and ask...|||Oh g_w where is your He's interested list? Please link me.   Things I do when I'm interested but am unsure of reciprocation (99.9% of the time):  -act abnormally shy/ quiet. Brain goes blank...|||It depends whether you are attracted in return, right? Someone I'm attracted to = start analyzing if I'm not wrong about them having a crush or whether they're sincere. Observe and stalk.  Someone...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0fbA_agbrOg Discovered this in a CD shop yesterday and my inner emo is singing along.|||I went on a few dates with intjs/ supposed intjs before.   One guy was quite talky via text, and set up a little mental scavenger hunt for me to figure out when and where the date would take place....|||I think you tried your best.  If a girl likes you, she wouldn't give up that easily.  Don't invest emotion too early just because she's the first one to hit on you in a while. Probably better to...|||Would love to hear about said vendetta :D|||I would need closure in any kind of relationship/friendship in which I care, but what that closure is, only he can decide.  If someone has worn him to his lowest boundary, it's likely he has jumped...|||I also experience this. I call it the ol' mood swing.  One moment I feel like I'm top of the world, and next moment I am in the deep pits of low self-esteem and feel ugly, unwanted, underachieving....|||Thank you Lily for the insight. That's a trait I thought was more common for Feelers; imagining and issuing feelings to others that I have no control over. Come to think of it, I do that a lot and...|||Yeah, I don't let people cross me on monetary/ material losses if they are in the wrong, which is what these are, I think.  Would you say the same goes if the loss was more emotional than material...|||Thank you for sharing something so personal with us. I do think the worst part are the revenge fantasies. I can not care and cut them off with no problems coming from a logical standpoint, but...|||Would like to know what other INTJs think about revenge.   I've never really been able to understand those storylines where someone killed someone's family member and they spend their entire life...|||Poetry, lyrics. Hopefully an epic novel (published or unpublished does not matter) before I die.|||Not for me.  1) Stds, pregnancy risk. I've read up on abortion and it sounds very inconvenient. Don't wanna wreck my womb.  2) Connection takes time , and it takes security to feel safe in that...|||For me the answer depends:  a) as a zombie or as a ghost b) whether it is a permanent bringing back or like a séance session c) the thoroughness of my personal knowledge of the process and side...|||I procrastinate for 2 main reasons:  1) I perceive the plan to use a lot of time & energy in execution hence delaying, because once I'm on it, I don't like to stop in the middle. Stem of my...|||I don't like surprises. They have to be like mega awesome good luck for me to feel that it's actually positive thing. As in surprise! You won the lottery!  Sometimes, I've already seen the...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mtf7hC17IBM|||Most signs point to him wanting her completely gone etc. Personally, I don't deal well with severe stalkers who try to get into my shit.   The question here is: why did he add her on Facebook at...|||Read your whatsapp and previous comments.  Can see your respective reasons for not wanting to touch on long distance, fair enough. Would agree with previous posters about miscommunication and bad...|||Some Favourite books: Jane Austen - Pride & Prejudice/ Persuasion/ Sense & Sensibility Lucy Maud Montgomery- Anne of Green Gables series books 1-8 JK Rowlings- Harry Potter series Gillian Flynn-...|||Hey Lily is just trying to give you the down-low on how our type works. Don't lash out at her for having an opinion. Take a step back, she's not attacking you personally. She's saying our type tends...|||My take, guy feels bad about moving away and saw it upset you. Overcompensates by asking you home and snuggling, which in his mind isn't something he wanted to do. He was doing it mainly to please...'