'For now, I've resigned myself to the idea that they're just wonderful sex partners and sometimes friends.  INFPs, in terms of partnering, are succubi to STJs. We love their strength and competence...|||I am so proud of you, dammit. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~   I know it is hard but try not to take her criticisms personally as it sounds like they're not going to stop. Just keep trying your best and put...|||I keep secrets from people I love. When I do, it due to embarrassment or not wanting to upset them. It's not necessarily a trust thing.  Just support your sister in her personal endeavors and let...|||Someone who simply adores me, makes good decisions day-to-day (doesn't gamble, do drugs, drink excessively), and is someone I find physically attractive. I'm attracted to people who are pragmatically...|||I think this has to do with simple attraction + INFP tendency to idealize. Another less fanciful type would note that they find a person attractive and move on. An INFP would be more likely build a...|||They're not sure. They're faking it in order to maintain identity. People need identity so they will brandish a particular set of views, even if they're not so sure they're right.   Ex. Religious...|||Remember - I wanted to marry you.|||They are so different.   ISTPs can be incredibly callous, yet generous and jubilant when they're feeling successful. This capriciousness makes them more complex - to put it kindly - than ISTJs.  ...|||You've determined that you have no interest in serious relationships and only like relationships in theory. Further, you've determined that this is a predetermined identity and therefore deserving of...|||I stopped reading around the second line of text. You have barely read my response. Nowhere did I state or even suggest that materialism began in the 1700s. I said that fixation with poor-chic and...|||It is possible that all desires for a material thing are because we have subconsciously associated that with status. The effortless look of hipsters was deeply status consciousness - as were other...|||Save her from the evil man she is likely with!!!|||Daaaamn, sign me up for this guy.|||D:  Guy is an emotional f*k around. I would cut all contact.  You're starting arguments is due to your feeling very emotionally dissatisfied, but unwilling to let go of the idealism you've...|||I am not physician so can't tell if you need treatment or what treatment you need.   However, I am no stranger to unhappiness, emptiness, pervasive and impairing anxiety, or feeling...|||I enjoy being catcalled. They can't help it, I'm frikking hot.  That said, I'd probably feel differently if it occurred constantly or in a culture where women are negatively judged for...|||She just not that into you bra|||What the hell - just stop communicating with this person completely.|||I've come to the conclusion that their isn't a perfect type for any type.  The perfect person for an INFP is someone who loves them, is willing to work through conflict, and wants similar things in...|||I tend to pursue men who are emotionally unavailable.   I'm going to fix this by lowering my physical standards a bit in order to find a spouse, whilst keeping side bitches. :cool:|||Man, I just want the description of this person to mount me!  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~  The traits I find sexy are not often the traits I appreciate in a human being. Sex appeal is how a guy...|||I ask people where they grew up and where they live all the time just to make small chat. That's irregardless of whether I'm interested in them or not. To me it's just the basics of keeping things...|||On the bright side, you're loved by an XSTJ which is fantastic because when they say Call me if you ever need anything - they totally mean it.   However, it's clear this guy has huge commitment...|||If you are going to do something, just fuckin' giv 'er|||University/college relationships are transient. And in general, modern relationships are transient. Idealistic types have difficulty coming to terms with this. The most long-term relationship you're...|||Prior to European contact, Native Americans had political lives just as complicated and horrifying as any other group of human beings on the planet. No one was free. The group decided social mores...|||1) What kind of life do you want to live?  Small apartment, 40,000 income.   In Canada a 40,000 income is considered low-ish (due to our high taxes and high cost of living but livable. I want a...|||Unfortunately, yes. I've been most attracted to people who are a bit withdrawn and grumpy.  I think a lot of people are. It's the thrill of making an unhappy person happy.  Now that I've grown...|||I'd sooner be mistaken for an ISTJ that an ENFP.|||I have tried Dutch bread! I like it more than most bread but still not that into it :unsure:...but if i had to choose a bread and it was there, that's what I would choose!!|||Wow!  Um, I don't have an appetite bread or pasta. And I'm not convinced that rice was ever meant for human consumption.   I do enjoy sourdough bread, but I don't stumble across it often.|||Guy is a psycho coward and he was def. into you.|||The bulk of what I eat at home:  White Stilton cheese, of various fruit varieties. Fried or boiled eggs with hot sauce. Steamed vegetables with butter and salt. Watermelon. Anything drenched on...|||This is exactly the relationships dynamic between me and my STJ.  I can tell you that she brings up these small issues and it feels like she's attacking it is because she's strongly feeling...|||This person sounds so lame and gross.  Was this someone who was interested in you romantically, perhaps?|||People who bully (and most people have at some point in their life) do so because they feel painfully helpless or inadequate in some way. When I began bullying during late elementary school and...|||Because when INFPs look in the mirror the have a Kafke moment and when INFJs look in the mirror they pose and smile.  You're like airheads with a taro deck, some weed, and a Sam Harris book.  JK....|||Neither do we revel in absurdity. It just kind of strikes us.  but rather find humor in humanity's absurdity. It's sardonic/satirical in nature.   You essentially defined absurdism, but then...|||This whole damn thread has reminded me why I love being around ISTPs. They love absurdism, just as INFPs do, but do it in a way that's dark and 100% funnier.|||I'm sorry you fell in love with an a-hole. It happens to the best of us.  Don't be friends with ex's. There was a reason you broke up.  It's great that you see you're fault in a relationship...|||Profound aversion to reality.|||1. Woman OP is speaking about did not know if he was using his real identity.  2. Woman was likely very startled that OP is not a student and skulks around the campus cause it's my right.  3....|||Dezir   BTW, if OP isn't a troll, this will be the second facility he's been cautioned to away from by the police. And, just like this time, it was everyone fault but his.  Are you beginning to...|||Did you read the part where he went out of his way to find her on FB by searching for her college affiliation? Because he didn't know her name? Yeah. You don't just stumble across someone unless...|||The problem with adjectives that describe people is that they're entirely subjective. Everyone has a non-verbal idea of what handsome is. It cannot be described through brown eyes, tall as you...|||I'm not certain what you're asking. Perhaps about whether INFP men meet traditional expectations of men.  Potential pros of INFP men:  Are individualistic Stoic and often poker faced Want to...|||You can find us in our rooms clutching a teddy bear and logging on to PerC. Maybe start randomly knocking on doors and asking if there's a sensitive introvert at home.   My advice to ENFPs and...|||This person makes you feel insecure and I would suggest you cut all ties with him and start dating new people. Online can be a great resource if you have good pics and a light-hearted profile.   It...|||Please promise me that you will never message a woman that you don't now on social media telling her where and when you last saw her in real life. That shit deserves and instantaneous call to the...|||It doesn't matter what your intentions are. You made someone extremely uncomfortable to the point of being scared. Being a chick and going about doing your shit (college, work) alone is hard. We are...'