If you manage to come to terms with her, somehow letting her know how it could work out, then it's fine. If you can't, she will be a terrible influence on yourself.|||I never cared about what others think, but that whatever I do is right or whatever I considered to be right. Otherwise you risk becoming superficial or contradicting yourlself. And there's no point...|||I've been through similar things. I started out freelancing, but I can't stand selling myself. Why can't I just wok? I eventually found a decent job and that's it. What's more important than that is...|||I don't know if I'm an INFP anymore. I now score as ENFJ :laughing:|||So...I'm back|||Not at all, don't worry. I'm from Romania, we're kind of neighbours :happy:|||INFPs are uncommon, but not that uncommon. In my small circle of good friends there are 3 women which are most likely INFPs and we get along great. Since we're introverted and daydreamers, it might...|||This page is about me and why everything I like is great.  If you disagree with anything you find on this page, you are wrong. Maddox rocks.|||I don't let most people know me too well because I'm afraid that my inner self is unlovable.  I'm afraid that next time I won't hesitate in putting an end to it all and I'll hurt those who I love...|||I was listening to a happy song and I just realized that although I have 10 or  so playlists for categorizing much of my music, none of them is  for happy songs :sad:|||http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f255/MirkAssassin/Funny%20Stuff/165664_587619244847_68601939_33579983_439916_n-1.jpg  Because I had to post it.|||Yeah, I love math, physics etc. I am very logical when there's no need for F, but F always wins otherwise. I like a good argument, but in real life I only keep it with just a few friends of mine who...|||Happy Anniversary!        http://personalitycafe.com/images/icons/vbactivity/achievements/reg%20365.gif  Been registered for a year!                          Achievement Earned on 08-22-2012...|||Perhaps he's in a lot more trouble than you think and he's being quiet so he won't burden you with his issues.|||@ThatOne That's one of the things I like about the INFP forum. It's such a peaceful place and people aren't arrogant assholes.|||Damn it. On the other hand, I can't say I've had many problems because of that. I come up as warm and friendly with women that I feel comfortable with, which might give the wrong message, but I've...|||I do believe in democracy, direct democracy, not the fake thing we have today. However, the whole point of democracy is having a say in the decisions that affect your life. Individual freedom and...|||I relate to all of them but this  I used to think that's the case, but in reality it's not. Most people don't give a damn about others.|||How do I look? Me: You look great What I really mean: You always look great and I'm not that good with clothes anyway Me: It's fine, but I liked the other one better. What I really mean: it's...|||Yup. Today I've also been called uncompetitive. It doesn't bother me at all because my nature doesn't stop me from achieving what I really care about and my values are different enough that I don't...|||If I were in his place, I don't think I'd stress at all either. I'm extremely laid back and optimistic. It has to be pretty bad for me to lose my hope and get overwhelmed by anxiety and when it does...|||You are a Naturalist Thinker      http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/leonardo/images/thinker_quiz/results/naturalist.jpg      Naturalist Thinkers:|||Feminism is the struggle for equal rights between men and women. Yes, I'm a feminist.|||The unadjusted gender pay gap doesn't take into consideration different professions. However, that doesn't make it less discriminatory. The fact that women tend to work in lower paid industries might...|||Why do you think the wage gap is misleading feminist info?|||I love ENFJs, it seems like all INFPs do. I do lurk on the ENFJ forum and I would love to see more ENFJs around here. Extroverts are underrepresented on PerC for obvious reasons.|||Type 4 is most common among INFPs and INFJs. Welcome!|||When somebody tells me that we can't change the world, I just get even more stubborn in my views. I think that social change is a natural process and that we have not reached the end of (political)...|||Somebody actually likes INFPs!|||I like warm and kind people very much. I tend to get along better with  the girlfriends of some of my friends than I do with them. I also sometimes  come up as trying to hit on someone when I'm just...|||Same here. I always look happy-go-lucky, even if I'm depressed.|||Romanian grammar sucks balls for someone trying to learn it. There is no standard way for plurals, declinations and conjugations are complex and follow no simple common rules (technically, there are...|||Why on Earth would you want to do something like that?|||My first language is Romanian and I'm also fluent in English. I know some French from school and can somewhat understand Spanish and Italian due to similarities with my own language. I wish I knew...|||I just ate one huge motherfucking watermelon. I'm probably going to explode.|||Bipolar disorder isn't deadly in itself and one can completely recover from it.|||I don't have a clue what a community college is.|||Or, to put it another way, pro-capitalists call me a communist, communists call me ultra-left and I call them both authoritarians.|||Haha, more like far-left/ultra-left, depending on who uses the exonym. The idea that libertarianism is right-wing is fairly new, I still use its original meaning that capitalism is inherently...|||I'm a libertarian communist/anarchist. The liberal vs conservative labels expose a very narrow range on the political axis.|||Fascism is defined in many ways, but most definitions miss the point. I consider it the opposite of socialism/anarchism. While socialism embraces class struggle as a way towards achieving a classless...|||I think most bigots want to feel superior and since they lack any sort of achievements that they can brag about, they fuel their desire to feel superior by considering others inferior instead. A...|||I guess nobody says I want to be more introverted, scatterbrained, overly sensitive and less decisive. Luckily for us INFPs, there are people willing to date us, for some reason.|||Technically, it's the gene that's selfish, not the person (I'm talking about Richard Dawkins's book). It for instance makes someone risk his own life (the person is acting selfless, against its own...|||I'm an INFP and I don't like competition at all. It's not that I'm afraid of losing, but I don't like the competitive spirit. It goes against my sense of harmony, which I need very much.|||The environment is probably more important than the personality. I do cuss, perhaps slightly more than the average. Cussing is very common around here, but it's considered impolite around family,...|||Things like this make my blood boil  http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&amp;v=NutFkykjmbM|||It only happened to me once when someone close to me hurt me very badly. I ended up lying about what I felt about her in an emotional outburst to make her feel as hurt as I was. I've beaten myself...|||I can't seem to find any username that I relate to, so I just use my nickname (short for my name, Ovidiu).|||I went to a physics college after high school and why I loved the curriculum, most professors weren't very competent. I dropped out once I was a senior and hopefully I'll go to some other uni next...