'+1 For the quiet area of a library.|||Not pretty. At all.|||For me, I identify the emotion. For example, if I'm feeling angry, I label it: Anger. I find that it helps to lessen the intensity of the emotion.|||Intellectual.|||Yes! One of us had to! (He was too intimidated by my beauty I'm sure.) :tongue:|||What is the best way of gently letting you know something that you’re not going to be too pleased to hear about? (Assume that there are conflicting views.)|||When I'm sad, I don't brush my hair.|||I pray to the chess god that my opponent doesn't see through the stupid move I've made.|||I like cheese. That is all.|||The only real valuable thing is intuition. - Albert Einstein  He was a smart man. Listen to him.|||I buy make up. Lots and lots of make up.|||Outwardly: Aww shucks. Inwardly: Hehehe.|||1. When what I'm thinking makes sense in my head, but then my Ni overwhelms me and I just can't seem to get the words out right. Arrgh. I want to be eloquent...!    2. When I get too emotionally...|||To me, creating the perfect love is NOT about settling for less than you deserve nor is it a projection of your ideals onto someone else. To me, it is about being the best you two can be, together....|||Yup. I got ESTP!|||Mum: ISTJ Dad: ESFJ|||I'll be your friend! *offers hand for you to kiss*|||'scuse me, STOP SENDING ME MIXED SIGNALS.|||This! :laughing:|||A 60+ year marriage :blushed:|||Hello Lover  Heelllooo lover, I think we should be together! I really really like you, Even though you are so poo. Do you even like me? We shall soon see. Stop being so damn great, Youx92re...|||As you do. :laughing:|||59050|||Sophia, I hate to break it to you, but I think we both like the same guy! Hahahaha! :laughing:  But seriously, believe me when I tell you I can relate...|||I still have no idea! :confused: This still needs to be resolved haha!|||Eh I'm only 18 but I need to stop being single NOW if I am going to be married for 60+ years... *shrugs* But who needs that anyway? ...What do you mean I'm an NF?! (Hahaha :laughing:)|||Oh me me!  INFJ here with ISTJ mum too! Idealism vs practicality is a major pitfall for us. Also, she doesn't provide me with the emotional support and affirmation that I need. However, we're both...|||I love INTJs! Witty, subtly funny and smart. They're underrated! :blushed:|||These silly ENFPs! :laughing:  I (sort of) gave up on this ENFP a little while ago because he became so awkward, shy and reserved around me that I thought he didn't even like me as a person! Ditto...|||ISTJ, anyone?|||Me too! I feel giddy when I buy makeup! Hmm maybe this isn't entirely 'un-INFJ' after all!  Also, I can't 'read' people to save my life. Oh, and sometimes I argue for the hell of it.|||I didn't mean it like that! :S  I was simply recalling all the times I was caught without an umbrella after school and got soaked as a result. XD|||My best friend is an ISFJ. She puts much more effort into things like preparing meals, buying presents and celebrations like birthday parties, for example, than I do. This is all from personal...|||Fair enough! :proud: Adelaide does spoil us with nice, predictable weather!  Ps. Agreed. Anything is better than humidity!|||Are we even living in the same city?! It certainly rains more than hardly ever haha! :laughing:|||Thank you! I'm already settling down! :D|||I get squirmy if I look into someone's eyes for too long haha! :laughing:|||Humilis Curator  I saw this song and thought, This is totally an INFJ song, and sure enough, you're an INFJ haha! We INFJs are hopeless. *sigh*|||I agree with what has already been said. From an INFJ perspective, a lot of the time I rant because I just need to let it all out. I feel a lot better after I do that. The best thing someone can do...|||Catharsis|||Note to self: Buy the fish food flakes.|||Isn't it always? *sigh*   Best of luck though. This might be your year!|||Don't make concrete plans because they WILL change, but only to make way for the pleasant surprises I would never have expected.|||YES! But I love the idea of snail mail more though. To me, it's more exciting receiving an envelope with a cool stamp on it haha! XD  Regardless, I'm in! So feel free to contact me. :)|||My ISTJ mother gets motion sickness too, as a passenger in a car. She gets these terrible headaches.   Not sure if this is related, but in crowded places where there are lots of people, or if she's...|||DaisyChain   Thank you for your reply! Wow!   1) It IS nice sometimes to have her push me to think things in a more realistic way, such as a thing called compromise in a relationship haha!...|||Okay so I'm not the only person who believes in The One! Thank god I'm not insane haha!! *phew* (This is why I'm so glad I found other INFJs!)|||-See another Cirque du Soleil show -Dye my hair red -Get into medicine -Have a summer romance -Obtain a bonsai tree -Find a pen-pal!  (Anybody...? Haha!:wink:)  That is all.|||Hi ISTJs!  I'm an INFJ and my mum is a textbook ISTJ.  I love my mum and the only thing I want is for our relationship to improve.   We can reach a compromise when it comes to little things like...|||The ability to scare people with the infamous INFJ death-glare haha!'