'Seriously every guy I've been with calls me crazy and dramatic I have no idea what I'm doing wrong.  I get upset, literally explain WORD FOR WORD why I'm upset, and try to find a solution. wtf is...|||It's a fucking pun, idiot.  Like,I literally explain in in my signature. It's right there. Jesus, dude|||i came out of my mom's vagina. I guess that counts.|||is she an ennea 2?|||When I'm drunk, I lean toward my ISFJ SO and rest my head on his shoulder. It's very nice.|||You never really know somebody until you fuck them. It's a fun way of getting to know someone, and maintaining a close relationship. It's also a good trust-building exercise.  So yes, it's very...|||Envy- a reaction to lacking something (wanting a lover, spiteful toward people who have lovers)  Jealousy- a reaction to a threat of losing something (scared someone is going to steal your lover)...|||I really want to reply to this, but I tried typing out 4 different responses and now I sort of hate myself because I can't not sound like a hipster.  so here's the short version: rock isn't dead,...|||WEEB   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CO29Pz2Hw5w|||...is this a troll?|||1. I think it really helps as far as maintaining romantic relationships go. I'm more than willing to put forth a great amount of effort to make sure I really understand where my partner is coming...|||Ok. That makes more sense to me. Just because I've got an 8 fix doesn't mean I immediately go into rage mode. I also prefer calm, intelligent discussions lol. But if somebody does cross me with...|||This entire post is good, but this bit really resonated with me. People are quick to assume that any sort of emotional awareness or introspection is solely associated with feeling functions, when...|||See, this kinda thing annoys the shit out of me.  I'd rather have a good, one-time fight than just bail on someone. I hate lack of resolution, and there's always the chance of a misunderstanding,...|||I have trouble making friends, but will fight like hell to keep them.  They're usually introverts who socialize waaaaaaaaaay less than me, and as a result I end up annoying the shit out of like, 4...|||Depends.  Rap or Folk Punk? Yes. Lyrics are everything.  Shoegaze? No. Like, there's not point in even trying.|||29/50  Worth noting that my dad and my boyfriend are both on the spectrum, and when you're around that a lot, you unconsciously start to pick up aspie traits out of habit  Example: I'll be overly...|||25/50  right on the brink|||I'm very rigid when it comes to personal space/privacy. Territorial is a good way to describe it, I guess? People using my belongings without my permission, leaving junk in my car, looking over my...|||I'm aware of my anger, and I don't hesitate to be assertive about things if the situation calls for it. Aggressive (for lack of a better word) behavior isn't my first choice, but I'll resort to it...|||...why are we discussing ethics in an ennea 4 forum...  I'm reluctant to choose any option. Theoretically, yes, but I think there should be strict guidelines. I think the afflicted must be in a...|||Greetings, fellow Unicorns  4w3 ENTP here! 478 tho. Close enough???|||My own personal functions? or functions in general?  in general: Fi. Just...why  my own: Ne omfg it's so annoying it has no chill i can't focus on anything|||For me, it's more of an ehh I can be very skilled when I need to, otherwise I don't really care. And using said social skills takes effort, which I don't really like putting forth if I don't have...|||you should lay those sick rhythms down at slam poetry night and see how many people you attract then|||I totally agree. This is a controversial statement, but BPD is almost inherently toxic. That's basically part of the diagnosis, just like clinical narcissism. There's a reason they're both classified...|||Thank you for explaining my own disorder to me. I'm now completely convinced it's because I hold in my feelings too much and has absolutely nothing to do with genetics.  1. I differentiated between...|||No. I'm a hollow, shell of a man, with no depth whatsoever and want people to see me as such :dry:    Here's a more solid question lol. YES, I get very detail obsessed, particularly when it comes...|||inferior Si and I stress clean  so...yes|||.|||oooooooooh this is a really good question!!!  Although I'm an inferior Si user, I like to think my Si is well-developed.  Whenever I listen to music (especially songs that are new to me. which is...|||are you in school rn? Join a club or something.  Or take up a new hobby. That's what ENTPs are best at!  I have a struggle making new friends because I can't find people I click with, and I can...|||Se|||what. Did you even watch the show? For half of the first season, her entire character arc revolved around doing chaotic things just for the hell of it. That SCREAMS Ne dom. Think about the scene...|||Not to mention, a lot of mental illnesses (not all, but most) can be relieved, even cured, by therapy alone. Hell, the only cure for most personality disorders is DBT, not medication. A person with a...|||Come to terms with your feelings. Embrace them, let yourself feel them. Experiment with them, allow them to wash over you. Understand them, and eventually you'll come to accept it.  Usually. ...|||Step one: Take a long hot shower  Step two: Find your favorite bathrobe. Do your hair and makeup. Anything to make you feel sexy  Step three: Pour yourself a glass of wine. Or a glass of whiskey...|||Not really a fan of Fi users outside of xSFPs. Particularly INFPs because the self-righteousness gets really old, really fast.  I get along with xSFJs surprisingly well. ISFJs, once comfortable,...|||Neokortex oh wow guess which part of this list applies to me...babe.|||Mental illness is not comparable to learning disabilities or terminal illnesses. If they were, they would be classified as such. Not to mention, people who have abusive childhoods are statistically...|||Several of my friends have a tendency to bail on me when I'm in a depressive stint (which can last for months.) I get very angry when they do, but once I come around I'm finally able to see how...|||Controversial statement, but yeah: in a way, I think they are. Before y'all condemn me, I should probably preface all of this by saying I've got Bipolar II disorder and some other shit tacked on to...|||I always wonder why people feel the need to criticize others' threads while providing absolutely no input to the subject matter.   It looks like there's a bunch of xNxP eldest children in this...|||ENTP 4w3 sx/sp Eldest sister INTJ 3w4 sp/sx Middle sister ISFP??? Youngest sister (it's too young to tell her enneatype, but she's definitely Fi heavy)|||This...is utter bullshit.  Aspergers stereotypes are absolutely erroneous. People try and pull the aspies struggle with abstract thinking. If that were truly the case, aspies would not be...|||that's just it; I don't know how to turn that energy off. I just radiate it. I dated an unattractive guy for a while. I didn't have to worry about him being unfaithful, which was nice, but he could...|||THIS GODDAMN.  I'm kinda conventionally attractive tbh, so people assume that I'll be ok on my own, and that if they leave me I'll easily find someone else. And I've got an extravagant personality...|||I LOVE concerts/shows. It's really special when an artist sounds better live than they do on a recording (which is definitely a thing.) There's also a certain energy with live music that just can't...|||I'm usually pretty relaxed. My biggest frustration is being misunderstood/misunderstanding others.  I can tell when people are upset/angry, but they won't tell my why they're angry. I also get...|||They do the typical so blind things, but still have a need to contribute to society, wanting inclusiveness, etc.  Kinda skimmed through the whole thing tho. And nothing really stood out to me as Fi.'