'I can flirt on the internet, the phone, in writing ... its just that in person I really do not know how to flirt. When it comes from the soul (mind, will, emotions) from within me I can literally...|||Welcome! I come here often and read through posts mostly to remind myself that I am not alone and I am not a freak wondering through the world trying to figure out the best ways to survive. I come to...|||Embrace what you don't know instead of trying to be so sure of everything.  I've become more of a risk taker as I have gotten older. Not permitting myself to be controlled by fear - grasping the...|||When I get into a mode I go full force. Either I am on the go exercising, watching what I eat, depriving myself of all kinds of evils and am like a fanatic. Or I don't exercise at all. Its all or...|||THANK YOU! I needed to be reminded of all the good we do! LOL|||I am an INFJ 6w5 :) so nice to meet you! As I read through this I laughed out loud a few times because it is so me ... and then I (((sighed))) a few times because  .. it is ... so me. INFJ 6w5s...|||Not a one.|||I can't seem to remember eating when I was hungry .. .. seriously, what does hungry even feel like? I seem to be your classic emotional eater .. eating away at my emotions until I binge and...|||I saw a Youtube video where the woman said that our eyes are spaced farther apart than other peoples. Ironically thats how my eyes are as well. I started looking at other INFJ videos and they really...|||u200bhallelujah!|||I want one person for the rest of my life - but I need that one person to be experimental, playful, erotic, mysterious, adventurous, and just want to be with me and explore sex with me - Is this too...|||I love this because the mystery in your relationship is very erotic - knowing that you two have this mystery between you that nobody else knows about. As a female that is something I long for in a...|||You need to take a second look at and within yourself. And besides - sex is always awkward in one way or another.|||I don't get you? Who told you that you were ugly and awkward and why the hell did you believe them?|||Speaking from the youngest female in my family - u200bIT'S NOT THE BABY'S FAULT.|||A non-fun loving narcissist ...   I better jump on that boyhowdy.   LOL|||You know you are an INFJ if .... your life seems so dull that you have to come to a personality cafe and answer questions about how you know that you are an INFJ. Now that's pretty damn dull.|||I'm really getting into these International flicks with subtitles!|||A part of me really doesn't care what others might think. When I was younger it mattered - now it doesn't. And there is much anxiety with opening up to a new partner. It seems much easier to be...|||I was far to curious of a creature to not have experimented with sex. Men are beautiful creatures and to not touch them and explore their very being would defy the intensity of my INFJ soul. My soul...|||94105  God gave woman a clitoris - a small little bit of flesh with only one purpose - transcendent sexual pleasure. So how is it that some people believe God and sex shouldn't be in the same...|||TRANSCENDENT SEX|||I feel the exact same way and sadly have lowered my own expectations more times than not. Single, longing for a companion, yet can no longer compromise myself. Where does one go from here?|||u200bYa, this is what I was trying to say! LOL|||As deep as the person would permit me to go (as long as the topic was interesting to me) I find the soul to be  bottomless so depth can go on and on endlessly. The topic could be of many different...|||Have you found a thread about this rage? Do you think this more INFJ or other factors?    I have not found a thread about rage in the INFJ ... I've studied several things and found this topic...|||I don't consider myself a bully to the innocent - but I do jump in and will speak, fight, work, etc for those who can't (especially those who are being bullied) ... maybe I feel good to bully the...|||Wha??!  You have friends?!|||Mine already did.|||Never even heard of this movie The Prestige - will watch it ASAP!! Thank you :)|||93903|||I just watched this FANTASTIC movie called The Man From Nowhere  Genre: Action and Adventure~Martial Arts  This hard-hitting tale of revenge stars Bin Won as Tae-Sik, a former special agent...|||That would depend on what is deep within your very own soul. As an INFJ I will speak to you about what your soul is speaking to me about. It varies with each person, with the atmosphere of the moment...|||l9390193901939019390193901  Wanted:   Human male companion. Fun loving, tender hearted, masculine but not macho/cocky, sexy/cute but not promiscuous, has a paying job but not a work-aholic,...|||This seems to be the story for many. Ive been married and divorced twice. Not sure why but I dont even date anymore. I want a man - where is he? Tired of looking now I guess. Or ... maybe forgotten...|||93898|||i love you.|||Right now it is Cool Change by The Little River Band.     http://youtu.be/9bKwRW0l-Qk                                                                                                       ...|||I dream all the time and in color. I have my all my senses in my dreams. If I am reading I can interact with myself from my dream state like talking to myself READ IT OUT LOUD I might say to...|||I am LIbra as well. I am also Alice in my own Wonderland, Peter Pan, Robin Hood and anyone else I need to be I suppose. As for compassion ... just when I think I have grown in leaps and bounds in...|||I cry all the time. Not out of depression, not out of anything - just pure emotion. I cry when I am happy, tired, pissed off ... my cries are different as well. I let myself cry. Crying is very very...|||I have analyzed this until it has become almost lifeless to me. I avoid conflict but not because I am scared but because if it escalates I get really loud and then almost instantly filled with this...|||You made this place for me to vent so vent I shall. 1. Forums are somewhat frustrating for me and they really are not that much fun. BUT IM TRYING to get this all figured out darn it.  (ah.. that...|||You feel like you don't have a right to be sexual? ...... Wha?|||“So, do it. Decide. Is this the life you want to live? Is this the person you want to love? Is this the best you can be? Can you be stronger? Kinder? More Compassionate? Decide. Breathe in. Breathe...|||“Suddenly I realized that this inner processing was yet more of the same. I was still trying to control things by figuring them out, by trying more practice, by trying to manage how others might see...|||I have a high sex drive as well.  I too have been sexually curious and adventurous for as long as I can remember and I seem to live in a sexual wonderland most of the time meaning I long for this...|||I would get bored with that. As an INFJ I love to take control but not all the time. I want someone who can feel the flow and go with it. Submissive is one thing but cowardly is another. As an INFJ I...|||[QUOTE=Vivid Melody;3062470]Nonsense! INFJ females always remain fairy princesses even after the clothes come off.  It is highly impossible that they were INFJ's.  You must have been terribly...|||Absolutely!'