I have been a vegetarian since I was fifteen. I am 38 now. As soon as I was old enough to say 'no' and get away with it, i stopped eating meat. I simply cannot stand the thought of eating anything...|||Very interesting. Let us know how it goes, I have always been curious about an infj/infj relationship.|||Learn to type people in the wild and then forget everything you have learned-she won't 'appear' to fit the type anyway.|||Oh, there has been plenty of speaking up. I think it is a case of 'we should not be together.'|||How long have you been with him and is he a narcissist? Mine is awesome in bed...but no caring the way I need. He cares the way he needs. We have been out to dinner 6 times in 15 years. He doesn't...|||4w5. the 462. I like other 4's and 2's, some 6's. The aggressive types (1,3,8) are hard to live with.|||Yuo are saying that as an INFJ,making romance easy. I am married to the INTJ, makes it difficult. It's going to be a long life.|||I am obsessed with personality theory! There is no one I know who is even remotely interested, so I am alone in this. I wish I could find someone in real life who knew anything about it. Also,...|||I have so many, it is hard to choose which is the least embarrassing to share. I am married, so fantasizing about romance is the only way I get any.|||I get hurt easily by careless criticism. Constructive criticism sounds different.|||I do care. Probably because I have become attached to my beauty and it has become a part of my identity. It is like being born with a trump card that you did not have to earn. Someday it will be gone...|||Yes. Fear of failure has kept me from doing almost everything that I have wanted to do all of my life. I am getting over it and learning to do what i want anyway, but it is terrifying! I am in my...|||Man, oh man do I ever get what you are saying.I have the narcissist intj husband. He has always been under the impression that he is right about everything...until recently when I got out the...|||Sounds like me...infj.|||I used to have a significantly hard time expressing my deep thoughts and esoteric-universal ideas. It has gotten easier the more I have bothered to practice as i have gotten older. I am now quite...|||I have learned to socialize over the past two decades, never could before, too shy and weird. I hear constantly that I am intimidating and unapproachable, so I have learned to develop a self...|||Leo sun. Scorpio moon, Leo venus, virgo mars, gemini rising. Absolutely dead on in who I am. Especially the Scorpio moon.|||I am an infj in an unhappy marriage for years. We are getting better but the cause of us getting better was that I have fallen in love with and  almost had an affair with an enfp- and I still want to...|||Where in the world are you meeting other infj's? i took massive amounts of psycology-never met one. I was involved in theatre,never met one. I live at the bookstore-never met one. How is it that the...|||I so wish you had asked this before I got married. I do wish I had gotten an sweet,mystifying,ENFP.|||I have been trying to start my own business and created a facebook to promote it but found I like to post and put up pictures as long as I can control the audience. I am also a model so agencies are...|||I am a curious mix of flamboyantly open (especially about sexuality-no prudes!) and clamshell closed. I tend to share a lot that others would NEVER share,but these  instances are meant to inspire...|||My older sister is an un-medicated manic depressive schizophrenic that has had similar problems, although she is 40 now so she is much worse off. She has gotten unhealthier and more destructive as...|||Joined because I am the infj and don't have any real hope of meeting another one in real life. Would love to see what another version of me is like though.|||He has an extremely high IQ that can match my own. We had deep fulfilling conversation and it was like our introverted intuition just sang. He reads my mind in a bizarre way. He tells me what I am...|||I used to think I could only be with an extremely attractive man when I was younger and fully expected this to happen for me. I fantasized about Mr. tall dark and handsome for my whole life, but...|||An infj 8? It sounds confusing-but perhaps there would be less consummate crying. Debate is fine with me as long as it doesn't get nasty.|||Never get over them. Wonder what could have been for years. Sometimes time will present a clearer picture of why it would not have been a good relationship, then I can let it go for good. If there is...|||I have been with an intj for years. He reads my mind, I read his emotions. I do not know how he can know what I am thinking when I am trying hard to hide it. He will come out and  TELL ME WHAT I AM...|||Addicted to a narcissist for years-getting better. Both of us.|||yes- I am extremely adept at putting people at ease when they first meet me or already know me. I am somewhat inappropriately honest about my life and it makes others want to be the same. If I am...|||I stuff, stuff, stuuf, then explode when the other person finally opens the conversational door to find out what is wrong. I cannot initiate an argument but once it has started , I can go BALLISTIC!...|||Absolutely. I have waves of feeling like I could be overwhelmed with emotion. The negativity of the world does weigh on me alot. I think of the injustice, torture, abandonment, meanness that others,...|||I have the deepest aversion to conflict of anyone I know. I have to run out of the room if there is violence on T.V, an argument between people, or if I suspect there is going to be conflict, I'm...|||You sound just like my intj husband. He actually uses his introverted intuition to accurately read my mind but he thinks he is just suspicious. His intuition is unbelievable but he is clueless about...|||I have always considered animals to be more higly evloved than humns. They are born with everything they need to exist in their environment, yet we are helpless without the knowledge of how to...|||I am an infj married to the intj. He is the only person who can match me intellectually (when he is not mentally working on his master plan while mumbling to himself and I am not reading about large...|||I was fairly promiscuous when I was in college and found it to be fun but UN-fulfilling. I have been having married sex for 15 years now and find it sufficient. My intj husband has his major control...|||I witness my intj husband talking out loud to himself a few times a month. It is brief and when he is planning in his head. He has no idea he is even doing it.|||Perhaps I am a good actress. Being a feeler helps... I can sense who needs help before they do.|||I am shy in social situations that are unfamiliar and around new people. I can drop my shyness instantly though if someones feelings call for it. I would rather venture out of my shell than have...|||I have been told I am intimidating and unapproachable for most of my life. I am friendly, but it is not a warm friendliness. I will be extroverted though if it helps to the other person to be...|||I love that! I am finding that it is very true. Your thinking affects your physical manifestation of happiness, i am seeing in my older age.|||I so wish I had an enfp. My sister in-law is one. It is a symbiotic relationship that was instant. If only she would spontaneously turn male....|||I am also working on deepening my intuition. I get your statement about almost being able to pull it up and take a conscious look. I feel I am on the edge of 'seeing' my intuition at times, as well. ...|||He IS burning and taking notice. He really does seem do be noticing now that the suitcase is out on the bed. He is being really good. We will see.|||he has agreed to see a counselor with me-this is a first for him. We had it out big time 4 days ago and he says he finally gets how sensitive I am and he needs to be really careful, etc. I need...|||I had the doomsday feeling all through dating my current intj husband,living with him for a year and then EVEN MARRYING  him.The feeling has never gone away. I thought it would, that I would get used...|||It's just a bad idea. My intj husband and I had the spark...but the reality sucks, badly.|||But HE needs to think so. And he is coming over today. Hope he had a nap.