'My boyfriend is an extrovert and he's amazing. ^__^ I don't hate extroverts. They're interesting. They do however get tiresome after a while of contact, and i just need a recharge my social...|||If they're unloading on you, they trust you're ability to handle it and trust that you won't judge them. :) I don't complain to just anyone. They have to be resiliant kinds of people for me to shake...|||I sent people to the principle's office. Teacher's pet can do no wrong! *insert evil laughter* >:D  INFJ. But honestly it was because i was quiet and did my work and made friends with the teachers...|||Welcome to PerC!  Lots of people are available to help discover your type and chat about life. ^___^  Have fun around the forums. :D|||Welcome fellow INFJ to PerC! There's lots of 4's here (though i am not one of them). :)|||Welcome! The INFP subforum here is relatively active so I hope you can connect with all of the frequent posters there! ^___^|||Welcome to PerC and have a wonderful time! ^__^|||You may just be an intellectual INFJ then! The fact you don't care what other people think and feel meh about society just solidifies it. ;) I kid.  Do you relate to Fe in some way? Fe can make...|||I am an INFJ in the Architecture profession. I am working on becoming a Registered Architect (2020 yeaaaaahhhhH! lol). Also 3 semesters away from an M.Arch degree.  I like my profession a lot. I'm...|||Have you discussed your plans with the college to see if it's possible to do an 'independent study' of sorts to fulfill the requirements? It can get a bit tricky if the college isn't aware of your...|||It's wonderful that your employer accepted your request of reducing your schedule to better yourself. Most workplaces actually do prefer their employees to better themselves, especially if they're...|||6w5, INFJ.   I learned a long time ago that I literally cannot learn through reading a textbook. I am also a slow reader. I have difficulties comprehending what I read for the sake of...|||You came to the INFJ sub-forum to seek advice on wooing a married woman and we all pretty much told you 'no don't do it' in some form or manner. You can go about doing what you wish, believing...|||The intimination i feel relates to my enneagram and my own anxiety disorder. Usually with higher authority (supervisors, critique judges, professors, etc) that can impact my comfort and security....|||You'll only get yourself heartbroken if you continue on with your fantasy.  When I love someone, i do not at all allow anyone else in. I am a one person at a time lover and no amount of fluffing...|||Haha, thanks! ^__^  I mostly have architecture, psychology, history, philosophy, chemistry, biology, art, a bunch of dictionaries. I also collect recipe books too! The only thing i'm missing is a...|||Oooooo. Um.  1. 6w5   2. To accept and embrace spontaneous occurances and change without freaking out by loosening the reigns on myself and be okay with being a little uncomfortable and not...|||Hello and welcome back to the forum! I'm new to it, but it's cool to know it's been around for a while! :)|||Welcome to PerC! :D  My enneagram is still kind of floating too though i know i'm somewhere in the vicinity of my tritype. I believe there's a number of type 2's roaming the boards.  Have fun...|||I collect textbooks....   ANYWAY...  Welcome to PerC! :D|||I'll be sleeping after watching a movie from netflix or something.  Wish i could go with my bf to a party he's going to, but... he's still hiding me from his friends cause they're loud in-your-face...|||1. Lose weight, i have 25 pounds to go before reaching my goal, been on this journey since 2012, and it's been a rollercoaster. 2. Not fail any of my remaining courses so i can graduate in December...|||My friend from college said he was an infj for a little bit and i was all yay i have an infj buddy but then he turned out to be an intj. *dramatically sobs on a fancy couch*  Besides that... I...|||Guess i'm strange because i don't relate at all to the article, despite being born in 1991. Maybe because i was raised by parents who were born in the late/last years of the boomer generation - they...|||1. I can be a bit too honest, and tell it like it is. Sugar coating is reserved for touchy subjects unless i'm irritated. 2. RBF. I don't look approachable. I mind my own business when out and...|||She smells fishy. *red flag alert*  Sounds like she's not as interested in a relationship she thought she was ready for. Sadly this does happen. I think talking to her about it and seeing if you're...|||Everything is indeed connected in some way, shape, or form. We're all vibrating molecules of energy in this vast universe. What we do personally changes the vibrations around us and creates a ripple...|||1. No. You're not doomed. Maybe young. Lots of people find their love in their late twenties and early thirties. So don't fret. My mom married my dad at 30, and had me at 32 and my bro at 35. My dad...|||A couple of days... maximum five days before I start bugging people via text.|||Our personalities are a mix of MBTI, enneagram, and personal experiences. No two individuals are alike. Sorry you are feeling hurt. Please know not everyone acts that way.  I'm cold and serious on...|||*not an enfj*  My exfx doesn't touch his phone for hours and it spikes my anxiety. But it's mostly because he's busy. He gets a little grumpy at me when i'm flailing at his phone, cause he's not...|||*strugglebus* http://cdn.smosh.com/sites/default/files/ftpuploads/bloguploads/0913/infomercial-fail-measuring-tape.gif  *f%#> it*|||The only way to know if your hunch is right is to get to know him better! ;)  I'm dating an ExFx, he's an interesting person to me and can't get enough of him. Lol. EF's are quite a force. If he's...|||I don't trust any person that gives me bad vibes. I deal with that by not trusting them anyway and moving on with my life. If they wish to be trusted by me they'd have to prove my intuition and gut...|||The medical field needs business people in order to function properly without tanking. So my two cents is to find a business job in the medical field. This way you're using your talent for business...|||I am an INFJ female and i'd like a family someday, but not immediately. I have to set myself up nicely (career, finances, marriage, etc) before i feel ready for that adventure. I do want to get...|||If I really thought about it, I do mirror others. I project what they're projecting onto me. This isn't to say I don't know who i am or that i'm not comfortable with myself. I just find that with...|||It is a wonderful experience to find out you're not alone and there's others out there that are in the same 'realm' or on the same plane as you. It feels nice. It's really what you do then after...|||Cliques and being in one are overrated. Legit. You'll learn that someday. Better off with your two closest pals than several aquantances that'll disappear after the school/activity is done. Been...|||O_O I just realized after watching the cheetah video that I do pick one to go after... usually the most cuddly, they're slower and easier to catch. Like locked focus target, dating one guy at a time,...|||Not everyone sees the world that way though. MBTI is not you. It is a tool to utilize for self discovery of yourself. It'd be like someone comparing their skin color to a Pantone paint color palette...|||Well if you're feeling lost, this is the perfect forum to be at. There are many people who are good at recognizing cognitive functions through writing. There's a whole subforum area just for figuring...|||Trying to type my boyfriend who's not interested in taking personality tests, but i don't want to be that person.... So far... ExFx  :confused:|||I remember when i was younger and at a garage sale with my mother and i saw a pair of small teddy bears and wanted them. My mom told me i could only take one. It took me 30 minutes and a few...|||Woot! I felt quite alone as an archi INFJ. Now i know i'm not! Lol. Love your project! I too had to make things out of materials.. mostly foamcore, wood, and paper. :)|||Drunk Advanced Yoga.... when I can't even do beginner yoga without a great deal of mental focus while sober. Need I say more? lol.|||You'll certainly find your calling as long as you put effort into it. If you only sit in a dark room for the rest of your life, you won't get very far. Have to go out and literally DO things. Whether...|||No.  I'm not doing my job for the money, or fame, or the fact my projects may live longer than me. I am in my career choice because it makes me happy, content, and satisfied. It fills my need for a...|||For me I can walk through my memories like they're slow motion museums. I can recall details if I roam around it for a while. But I seem to remember memories that have more significant amount of...|||I'm surviving depression by balancing my hormones (via birth control). Seriously, I was out of whack because I was literally out of whack. As a result, I only have anxiety to deal with these days,...'