'Can I please get my username changed to ananun? Thank you!|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NyMg-EhZ1Es|||Thank you!~ I hope an ISTP will come along & treat you right one day.|||Yeah, I'm not so sure what that is about. Maybe a compulsive behavior, dealing with the hyperactivity of ADHD could lead to impulsive thoughts & behaviors. Short attention span & spacing also, I've...|||This part right here, couldn't be truer. That is the major flaw of the ISTP I know, now that you say it he does come off a bit neurotic at times. I possibly don't notice as I'm considerably paranoid...|||My ISTP friend & I get on pretty well, there's no boundaries like there is with so many people. As you said, there are bound to be differences regardless of type. You have to decide if those...|||I understand that completely, which makes me feel more content knowing I've not been overwhelming him. We used to be co-workers before I quit my job, now I make it a point to go talk to him at work...|||Yeah, I decided since he's so private (especially emotionally), investing too much into figuring it out would only elevate the issues. I reassured him I won't push him out of his comfort zone to...|||Of course, I tell the people that I get close enough with to expect some complicated conditions out of me. Could it also be that your roommate might not have seen their behavior as unusual or...|||Hey all, this is my first time in the ISTP thread. Just a little background info, I'm an INFJ trying to find the best advice to give my ISTP friend dealing with depression, internal conflict,...|||I spoke with him last night, keeping in mind that I can easily make him feel cornered. Although it took an awful lot of patience & I had to simplify a lot of the things I was saying, it was received...|||I was typing on a laptop that has e & r missing from the keyboard. Screen is busted so it's hooked up to a desktop monitor, lots of cords coming out of it & the angle was weird, so it's not...|||I am a simple woman, I have an actual desktop keyboard for the first time in years. I can actually write my heart out without getting so exhausted. I will be very pleased with myself for the next...|||My main problem is trying to lure the ISTP out of his home to do activities, actually! I am well aware of his extreme introverted nature, so I try my hardest not to be pushy. Do onto others, ya know?...|||I was diagnosed with ADHD & put on medication while I was in high school. That was years ago & I'm still embarrassed to tell others I have it. I might say it in a joking way, hoping they will catch...|||I really appreciate your insight, I will keep it in mind so I don't get so let down in the future. I'm going to try my hand in going along with what makes them happy, to test the waters on if it will...|||Your whole post just summed up my basic struggle with this ISTP I'm friends with. We get along fine but there's not that connection there, like say with an ENFP, which is unfortunate because I want...|||What's your personal experience with ISTPs?|||Go for it & pray for godspeed.|||Lord have mercy, the ENFP & INFJ groups on facebook are comically terrible.|||OK, I have a happy vent for once!  My boyfriend is finally getting the divorce process started with his wife, it will be swift & painless for the both of 'em as they are both playing nice. This...|||Everyone pretty much summed it up but I'd like to chime in & say whatever you decide to do, trust your gut. It will save your life or at least stop things before they go down an annoying path. If you...|||I care enough for you to learn to work with your avoidant, irrational behavior. I just wish you were as interested in my mind as I am in yours. Mmm, beggars can't be choosers, I suppose?  Also, I...|||It always seems when I'm feeling good, everyone else is having a terrible day. & vise versa. Text me if you need to unload!|||Both.  Edit: What kind of domination are we talking actually?|||Can I have my username changed to tulipani please? All lowercase, thank you! :)|||Real quick before I K.O., I just watched a video on INFJ subtypes. In the comments someone mentioned the Discontented Harmonizer who use Fe/Ti, this might just be the answer to all my confusion...|||I'm looking into purchasing a graphic tablet for my computer, I can't get around drawing on my phone anymore.|||Ooh, those look good!  The main reason I know I am just an INFJ who's all over the place, besides every description relating more than any other type, I think I have worked on modifying my mind my...|||My type has consistently alternated between INFJ & INTP for years. To add more complication into the mix now, I just scored INFP! My results for T/F & J/P are always so close to being 50/50. I was...|||The best part of this site is that you can use it for whatever purpose, whether that's discovering yourself, other people or just having fun & making friends. Surely everyone is okay with venting,...|||Anyone up & want to chat? Feeling inspired & social.|||Thank you, the timing of your reply was well needed & I appreciate it :)|||Ooh, complicated subject that has a 50/50 of having a disastrous outcome. I have thankfully never been in this position specifically, most of my friends are currently in open relationships. ...|||I imagine I still have my moments. My initial burst into the social experience was introduced very late in life, around 15 years old, by an ENFP (typing as INTP at the time). When around his friends,...|||Hmm, trying this website out on mobile. Not sure if I'm doing anything correctly & this layout is very confusing. I'm that friend that knows how to code but can't figure out basic navigation for the...|||Only I could have conflict arise over simply telling someone I want to be friends with them. I have lost complete hope in anybody & must start learning how to manage loneliness. The impending doom...|||This too! That's exactly what I meant by entering uninvited. It almost creeps me out the way people will hunt you down just to play with you.|||If you're me you go MIA for a week or two & everyone resets themselves to appear friendly again.|||Wherever you go & whoever you come across today, please offer a little compassion. Lend an ear to an absolute stranger in need, don't appear so inconvenienced by someone else's struggle. Remember, we...|||People have spun me into a tornado. I've gotten to the point where I just want to laugh at how ridiculously unlucky I am, especially with people. Does anyone believe we are all destined to fail at...|||So how much have I missed? Life has been a little more hectic than normal, missed my fellow INFJ's!|||Terrible, do not recommend.  Nah, I'm a fluctuating INTP/FJ and I can back up your feelings of being confused. I am in the most serious relationship I have ever had and feel the same way you do. I...|||GAUDY, boujie, wait we're talking INFJ and not Jersey.  I kid, I consider my style a mix between chic, vampy, dramatic. I'm drawn to black, grey, white, cream, dark maroon reds, plums, cheetah print...|||That's what I was assuming, thanks~|||I keep my group very minimal. I don't associate with people I don't see as trustworthy friends, so I very seldom deal with my trust being broken. The times that it has been broken, though, I spent a...|||I see you say biases a lot, what exactly does that mean?|||One of the more popular paths I've seen people take is Ásatrú, which is a Nordic path. As for me, I have taken inspiration from Stregheria (an Italian form of witchcraft that is basically dead) and...|||I genuinely feel like there are a lot of sociopathic people that attempt to emulate INFJ's to appear enchanting to other people, in hopes of taking advantage of them. I wish I could learn to call out...|||The timing of my life is so whacked. Of course once I feel happy and motivated, everyone around me gets sick or uninterested in everything. Every so often though, when there are those days that...'