'I can apparently come off very much like an INTJ in certain modes (like interaction with a career counselor or potential employer), but at heart there were never any doubts in my mind that I was an F...|||Hehehehe!!!!! I'm glad!! ^.^ I liked the mental image and it made me laugh when I first saw it too!!! XD hehehe I felt like it fit somehow|||I've actually been on the other end of the spectrum!! Haha I've speculated from time to time about ENFJ-ness and Fe vs. Fi usage in myself! I think for me I feel mostly ENFP at heart, but I've found...|||SophiaMarie : ( *hugs from here too!!* I feel your frustrationx85 Obviously I canx92t know completely what itx92s like for you, because wex92re different people, but I know how it feels to be frustrated by...|||Itx92s so funny that you should post this now, because Ix92ve recently been re-examining and trying to work through things of a similar sortx85 I hate that you had to experience that, but Ix92m also grateful...|||Me neither :P hehe  I see/feel a strong affinity with and understand Oliver's character in a *lot* of ways, which makes me wonder sometimes if he could be an ENFP (messed up by the island...|||I don't know everything about those sort of things, and I don't think I necessarily think there's an automatic correlation, but I do find it interesting to toy with the ideas sometimes ^.^ I'm a...|||Has anyone seen or given any thought to typing the show Arrow yet?? (hopefully I haven't missed another thread for it if it's already been started XP) It's still fairly early since it's season 1,...|||It's definitely interesting. I think you're right about everyone holding back in ways to varying degrees, but there is something slightly different about the way we're discussing now... I'm not...|||ABSOLUTELY in my case!! And you described it *perfectly*!! And I think ideally I *want* to share that side of me with everyone, but I do hold back unless the person is deemed x91worthyx92 (not in a...|||Sometimes yes, sometimes no. XP hehehe  A lot of the time it really just is that Nex85 XD there are times I will change the subject on purpose thoughx85 if itx92s with someone I trust completely,...|||Haha!! I would probably think the same thing if someone said that about me!! XD I think that wording is perfect!|||Aww yay!! ^.^ hehehe I know I can be pretty long-winded (maybe why I tend to get along with INFJs? ;P) but the energy here is definitely infectious!! ^.^ I'm glad we all have PerC to engage!! And...|||I thought this was a *really* interesting question… I think from your description if I had to choose one I might have to go with body-oriented… I definitely cringe and *feel* things when thinking...|||That's actually kind of funny that you would post this!! I was just told the other day that I reminded someone of Lilly! Haha (though actually watching the show is still on my to-do list! :P)|||64798  : D (didn't turn out quite as smoothly as I'd hoped, but still XP hehe... plus all the other ones people have suggested look pretty good...)|||Omg this is amazing... I might've spazzed out a little when I opened this thread : D  edit: and I LOVE how they're grouped into themes/emotions!|||Oh heck yes. I had one career counselor who was *convinced* I was an INTJ because of how I came across in our meetings XD and I know I came across very task-oriented when I was younger when it came...|||Absolutely :P Hahaha too many to list XD and even in various stages of abstraction (like, the 'container' of the sentimental value could be an actual *object* like a ring, or it could be a movie or...|||This one seemed kind of ENFP-ish to me: He sat there pondering in the middle of the night Over whether it was possible to live two lives the one, the dreamer, could always be free to dream and...|||Awesome!! Thank you!! : ) And hey!! This looks familiar! 0.0 I think I've definitely studied/read pieces from here before, but never really in depth! *goes off excitedly to explore* ^.^|||Totally agree with this!!! Plus, I feel like I haven't read near enough poetry to even *begin* to do true justice to the question... I have always liked The Highwayman (Alfred Noyes), The Raven...|||Totally agree!! I almost feel like I shouldn't be putting forth all my needs/opinions etc...or like people won't see my beliefs/needs as credible, so I'll try and put them in a more passive/neutral...|||Hahaha!!! ^.^ I love that you tested as your 'work mode'!! XD I totally do that too... I was in an interview once with a career counselor who was very knowledgeable about MBTI and he asked what my...|||The best relationships I've been in hands down have been with INFJs! I love you guys!!! : ) I know the ENFP-INTJ dynamic is the famed one, but I haven't experienced a connection with an INTJ in the...|||I totally do that!! I've noticed I especially tend to switch into more neutral terminology when discussing a topic that is sensitive to me (like if I'm talking to someone about something that...|||Thank you for this : ) I feel like I'm still floundering around in the early stages of getting to know ENFJs, but I really like you guys!! ^.^ Can you elaborate at all on the acquaintance vs. friend...|||Whoa.   I listened to it once just the music and then watched the video, and you were right. Mind. blown. 0.0 hehehe  When I started watching the vid it almost reminded me vibe-wise of Panic! At...|||Yay!! ^.^ Haha oh I'm so glad you got it too!!! and that it made you lol! XD|||^this definitely caught my attention...it's something I've been trying to figure out  myself recently. Does the ENFJ really *want* to be around me or are they just being nice? How can I tell? etc :P...|||I know this is hella old, but I just came across it again recently (always makes me smile ^.^) and I wondered...  anyone else feel like this could be an adequate depiction of what life as an ENFP...|||Really??? 0.0 Whoa!!! I’m still trying to wrap my head around it… I’m always afraid if I make requests of people that they’ll resent me or think I’m burdensome : / but if they use Fe…   Oh man, I...|||Ohh my, this unfortunately (or maybe more so embarrassingly [for me]? :P) sounds very familiar… even the bit about being silent-but-agitated on the phone XP  BUT that could be a good thing in this...|||While I don't think I have enough of a knowledge/experience base to make a judgement as to my opinions on overall bests, I have found I really click *well* with ENFJs, INFJs, and ENxPs ^.^ usually...|||(I know in the Dear Anonymous thread it's hard to tell if replies are ok sometimes, so hopefully this is ok... but reading this made *me* mad!! :P Lol I feel like I'm totally behind you already and...|||I have seriously been meaning to reply to this for *DAYS* XD I love love LOVE this idea/your term for it and I can totally relate!!! And I actually appreciated hearing your backstory too. I feel like...|||I can definitely relate to this story! : ) Maybe not as directly to the ENFP-xSTJ line, but in terms of ENFPs undercover of sorts definitely ;P hehehe. I actually had something like that happen in...|||*waves back!!* ^.^|||Hehe!! Oh yeah, that's my intimidation act. I know I can be pretty scary ;D hehehe|||Welcome!!! ^.^|||LOVE this thread idea!! : ) (and what I've read so far!)  Remember that everyone you meet is afraid of something, loves something, and has lost something.  A friend is one to whom one may pour...|||Hello!!! ^.^ I love discussions!! Although I sometimes have trouble picking out where to start XD and I can never pick when it comes to ice cream/yogurt flavors... I suppose chocolate?? But then it...|||I'm a Christian as well, so I know where you're coming from in terms of discerning a not now answer. Your situation actually reminded me of a similar one between two friends of mine (also told not...|||Hm... I'm not sure exactly where to start with this one, because I tend to go to serious topics very easily if the conversation swings that way. I might be hesitant about taking it there because I'm...|||Yeah, I think personality for sure for me too... although I think it's ultimately the whole package (romantically, at least).   More specifically about personality, I've noticed I'll be highly...|||I'm actually not sure what types the majority of my roommates have been... probably in part because whatever types they were, they were unhealthy as all get out XP haha  My last roommate I'm...|||I think I'm a little confused on the *exact* question, but in terms of people trying to guilt-manipulate me in general? That won't receive a very good response ;P I hate to be manipulated  or taken...|||I know I'm just one person, but I don't think anyone meant to push or pry... : ) I think it's just assumed (on the internet in general lol) that if you put something into the public sphere, there...|||A Sound of Thunder!!! That was it! (thank God for google ;P haha!) It's a short story actually. Although I did see The Butterfly Effect when I was younger and found it intriguing as well. I keep...|||Omg...a Harlem Shake video of *pure ENFPness*??? XD EPIC.'