'A sense of purpose. It's easy to lose that when you're swimming in cash and you're so privileged you don't have to lift a finger.  Also, to love and to be loved. I'd rather be poor and surrounded...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AOJgpY-LEv8   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bpOSxM0rNPM   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qN7gSMPQFss  I'm a little obsessed with this band right now...|||I have no idea, but have you seen the DMX remix? It's a little NSFW but funny :laughing: I can't listen to the original without hearing DMX's voice|||Levar Burton's job on Reading Rainbow! I love books and I love kids. That show was my life as a kid :proud:|||Yes times a million. I love Game of Thrones (the book and the TV series), and it's easily my second-favourite show but I can't stomach the gory scenes. I don't know if there are any GoT fans here,...|||Hahahaha oh Lad  Orgasm is a bit of a stretch though, isn't it? :P|||Glee... -__-   Actually, Glee's interesting because I went from hating it, to liking it, to hating it again. I don't watch it anymore, but I do watch their song covers sometimes on YouTube. Guilty...|||Haha! That's why they never know what hit them :ninja: People don't really say aww when I'm upset with them. My death glare is that strong|||I know one INFJ male in real life and he's like the male version of me :tongue:   Our conversations are so easygoing yet intense, and we share most of the same interests (writing, reading, music,...|||Yeah, I agree with you on that. I'm definitely not dramatic when it comes to confrontations. I usually just send them death glares and give them the silent treatment. Very mature, I know :tongue:|||Are we a dramatic type? I don't know that many INFJs in real life, but speaking for myself, I'm a huge hypochondriac and whenever I feel a little sick, I always assume the worst (i.e cancer). Are we...|||* I didn't write this, but I saw it on Tumblr and I thought it was simply beautiful  It wasn’t as if you could simply head back to a time when you had heard her voice,  So whenever nostalgia crept...|||When I'm really tired: A minute or two  When I'm moderately tired but I have a million thoughts running through my head: half an hour to an hour. The downside to being a dreamer type :tongue:|||This. It's basically a combination of our introspective nature and our tendency to romanticize. Dreamers who love to create scenarios in their heads.|||Another obsessive planner here :tongue: When I travel, whether it's by myself, with my boyfriend, or with family/friends, there has to be a concrete plan for me to follow. Otherwise, I feel like a...|||This may or may not be helpful; I just thought it put some perspective on long-distance friendships: ...|||I sleep all day. Noises flit around the house-- garbage truck in the alley, rain, tree rapping against the bedroom window. I inhabit sleep firmly, willing it, wielding it, pushing away dreams,...|||177594  177602  177610  I love Tumblr|||Yep, it annoys me too. Granted, there are some things that are out of our control, like traffic, family emergencies, etc. But people who cancel on you at the last minute, or people who show up...|||My thinking process is like a never-ending stream of thoughts branching out into other, similar thoughts. My mind is a restless place, so it's always hard for me to fall asleep at night, even when...|||My dance style ranges from a white dad at a barbecue to a stripper whose rent is due tomorrow|||Yes, that's me, thank you, Opabinia :3|||Do you stutter your words around them or have trouble holding eye contact?  I don't stutter or have trouble holding eye contact. In fact, I get really flirty and our conversations become witty,...|||Does anyone else here hate summer? I don't know what summers are like where you live, but in Toronto, summers are really humid and sticky, so on rare days like today when it's raining and windy, it...|||I'm curious to see where people stand when it comes to season preferences.. I personally prefer colder days with a bit of wind and some sunny breaks. I love bundling up and wearing fall clothes....|||I'm all ears, UXDork.|||Question #1 Topic: Social Suicide Traits What traits do INFJs exhibit in a conversation that may compromise their social standing?  Game Version: Spoiler Version  Top 6 responses: 1. Judging...|||We're so used to taking care of other people's feelings and presenting ourselves a certain way around people that they get used to us being that way. When we're having a bad day, we might not want...|||I'm going to quote X-Men: Days of Future Past because there's a scene that we might find relatable as INFJs. In this scene, Xavier is talking to his future self, Professor X, and he's lost all hope:...|||Name a famous person you don't like. > Beyonce   Conversely, who's your celebrity crush? > Chris Hemsworth   What's the last thing you purchased? > Dry Shampoo  Give me a name you like for...|||Trolling aside, I believe that there's a possibility of other beings out there. In such a huge universe, there's no way Earth is the only planet with life.|||175938|||No worries, Glassland. I didn't take it as an insult, but rather a learning experience. I think the reason why it's so common is because some people tend to take things at face value, so they don't...|||Hahaha so true, I was a lurker for months before I decided to make an account :tongue:|||Because we're people pleasers and people walk all over us. We tiptoe around and avoid hurting other people's feelings, like you said, so we go unnoticed. To get noticed, you have to be more assertive...|||- There's no middle ground for INFJs. Every feeling is intense.   - We're discouraged by corruption but hopeful for a peaceful future.   - There's a 99% chance we tuned you out by daydreaming. ...|||Could I change my display name to INFJxSophia please?|||Thanks, FearAndTrembling :happy:|||INFJ isn't just limited to Counsellor. Just because you're an INFJ doesn't mean you're pigeonholed into being a protector or a counsellor.   On this forum, we're all introverted, intuitive feelers...|||Yes. This is me to a T.  I hate having to keep up pretences when I'm around people I'm not close to. It's tiring! My home is definitely my sanctuary, where I can just be me.|||If you take personality tests, you'll see a common type with each test result. I always get INFJ when I take personality tests, so I'm definitely an INFJ. Maybe try the same technique and see what...|||To me, prettiness is what you make it. I think prettiness and personality go hand in hand. Your looks could be a great addition to your personality, or it could be crutch if your personality is...|||I used to be anemic, Lemxn! It was the worst and I had to take strong doses of iron pills for two years just to raise my iron levels. I still have low iron compared to people with healthy iron...|||Oh okay, thanks. Also, this may be a dumb question, but am I able to change my display name from INFJDrifter to my actual name Sophia? I've been looking through the settings tab but I can't figure it...|||Good to know. How long have you had yours for? Some reviewers said that their nutribullets broke down after 6-8 months of use...|||I just bought the nutribullet after seeing you mention it and reading all the awesome reviews online. Impulse buy? Maybe haha, but it's just what someone lazy like me needs!|||Verbal hand job hahaha, so accurate :laughing:  It's the INFJ curse, isn't it? We're great listeners because we're polite to a fault, and we sometimes pretend to be interested in someone's spiel...|||I'm a goofball as well, Arctiko! I'm known as the comedic relief in my family   Let's see:  - I LOVE anime, and it all began with a little English dubbed show called Sailor Moon 16 years ago....|||YES to everything in this post.   And people are surprised when they hear that Hitler was an INFJ... This post explains why. I'm not saying your hate is akin to Hitler's, but he had a high platform...|||We're like the Oprah of personality types.   You get a thank, you get a thank, everyone gets a thank!!'