'I think it's healthier to accept a dry spell than trying to fake enthusiasm for someone because you are tired of looking. I know I have done that with disastrous results.  I had a thought. Maybe...|||I'm getting more confused as I learn about cognitive functions. I see Ne and Te in my stack and less Si. I love talking to people if they are authentic. I loathe small talk. In an ideal world I...|||I know your pain. I see an ENFJ make a room full of people brighten up and it is just so sexy.|||Well, this is personal but I hope it helps.  The thing is every child wants their parents together. EVERY CHILD! My son doesn't remember me and his dad living together but he cries for his dad with...|||I am seeing INFJ tendencies in my son- so I was wondering if any of you had an NFP parent?  Any advice that you wish your parents had for you growing up?  I recently noticed that his anxiety...|||If you miss fighting with the XNFXs then start your own war thread!  Also boooooooooo booooooooo *throws rotten fruit*|||I don't know about that- I think INFP and ENTJ are good for each other. It's not necessarily easy the same way others of the same temperament can be. I think it's like traveling- the more you travel...|||I agree about sleeping next to someone- it is the only time I will drift off without meaning to.|||It's time lapsed photos of sleeping couples :)|||Somniorum I am pretty sure I have seen some jobs paying six-figures for finger pointing while talking :P  sensei.of.slow I like to think we are special snow flakes ... but no not genius. It just...|||I promise I am not hitting on you- I have a penchant for them as well. They are that sweet spot between romance and sensuality. I hope this is kosher for this region of the thread.  Your lips drop...|||I have to submit design work to an ESTJ- I am new to design and the ESTJ is conservative with praise and generous with criticism.   God nooooooooooo more criticism! A condescending ESTJ on top of...|||So... you guys don't have a ENFJ porn thread but I was thinking this might be up your alley: http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-DuAjSV5CT0Y/UTq_e_og5lI/AAAAAAAAAbM/XA4_5ZVnXrs/s1600/old-woman-laughing.jpg...|||http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/10/10/article-2451782-18A7018300000578-180_638x473.jpg http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/10/10/article-2451782-18A6EF4400000578-881_638x519.jpg...|||I was interested in that as well. He said we had that region light up but we aren't as responsive to it. I think that we specifically don't have the same behavioral change toward the feedback.|||I like this exercise. I need to remember the good in other humans even if I don't see eye to eye with them. Each MBTI represents millions of human beings. That's a large group to discount based on a...|||Humility creates improvement :l|||In that case *hug*  I mean- they are just always good :)|||My own insignificance to others has helped me lose self-consciousness. If I make a huge fool of myself it doesn't really matter. I'm just a little bitty ant in a big world and someday I will die....|||I want to save it- I know it's not remotely likely.   I have very high aspirations and I'm going to try for them. Ugh. It's annoying and overwhelming when I think about how much time and work if...|||Weak in the knees- is it hot in here?   :)|||I <3 my INFJ- my chosen family :D  I will add, to me she is: Dedicated, fiercely loyal, a little judgmental sometimes, she has trouble when people make bad choices and she loves them (she will say...|||I don't want to ask questions... I want to be shown things.  I want to feel the oneness of the universe- the entire collective conscious.  I want to comprehend the nature of existence.  I want...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XXi_ldNRNtM  I am on an Alan Watts kick- this video reminded me of this thread.   You know the words but you don't know the music. I sometimes feel that way. The...|||Dabbling I apologize I should have said *Some at the beginning  It certainly isn't a majority of the time- but I have noticed/picked up on sadism from thinkers before. Anyway, it isn't THE...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fcPWU59Luoc This man soothes my soul.|||I think there are a few historical examples that contradict that.  We thought the earth was flat (plausible) We thought we were the center of the universe (arrogant and plausible lol)|||No- not at all.  I just thought it was classless.|||Well, probably because bullying releases dopamine in the brain and dopamine feels good.   Now, why we have a pleasurable neurotransmitter that gets released by harming another human..... that is on...|||I think there is a fair amount of time that we label something as logical when we actually mean plausible.   Even Te uses plausible.|||Literally!!!  Hehe.   Lately I've been successful at dodging attempts to engage in intense debates. Actually- I just stopped talking with one in the middle. I was like this isn't fun and I don't...|||Thinkers seem to get a kick out of being sadistic to feelers sometimes. I'm sorry :(|||attic it isn't so much that we use the more animal like areas more or less- it is simply that we use the newly developed regions just as much. I find it fascinating that ethics is a newer part of the...|||I tried to ask a question over in the ENTJ forum and I posted to the wrong thread....  One guy said there should be capital punishment and then they discussed that they wanted a moat filled with...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ny7toR-lc6k|||Damn- I just saw the first page of this thread you guys would have an exclusive thread.   Sorry about that!|||Is my type (INFP) causing an ENTJ to withhold feedback?  *now the details- I read the rules* I am working on a project for an ENTJ (we have discussed our types and even the fact that I am a type...|||Aghhh! Yes- this!|||I have has this happen enough that I now strategize interactions with the opposite sex as follows:  Angle your hips away from them slightly  Break eye contact at regular intervals  Try not to...|||I think people who admit they were wrong are the best- it's so hard to do. I end up admiring them more than gloating :) I don't really gloat anyway.|||Keeping it classy right...  ESTJs successfully accomplish a good deal of important tasks every day- from surgery to computer programming. They can also be quite hilarious when they goof off.|||If we could all have the secure psyche of the ENTJ...  Well the world would end... but it would end efficiently and no one would feel insecure  :)|||Hehe  Hand a thinker a warm emotion... they drop it   Try again this time in a subtly different way.... they drop it  Try a bunch in rapid succession... *plat, plat, plat*  Hrmmm|||I had a black horse who ran beside the car :) sometimes he was a Pegasus and sometimes a unicorn- I was always riding.  I remember the smell of my grandmas hair when I hugged her and how fragile...|||Racism, sexism, or inequality. I shame people for racists jokes. I'm not laughing because they aren't funny- really- not even ironically funny. I don't believe they are being ironic anyway. Ugh. ...|||It would look more legitimate if it had some numbers about the sample population. Having the reference of the sample size missing is a sign that it's not a valid study. There are so many bad studies...|||OK- I was thinking about it and... Da Vinci never completed the Mona Lisa There is a famous sculptor named Giacometti who never felt he captured what he was trying to (human frailty) I have a...|||Well, I think dissatisfaction can lead to greatness if it doesn't make you feel defeated.  Like iamken said- loving something and just spending the time and sweat to get good will eventually get...|||It was about 90 minutes I think. I only hit the INFP highlights :)  I looked for the slide show I found before but now it seems to be hiding. You may be able to find another video with better sound...|||If I knew you- I would totally show you my method for drawing. It is more precise than you might think. If you want to make something representational then you use your pencil to measure proportions...'