From www.dictionary.com: head·hunt·er  noun  1. a person who engages in headhunting.   2. a personnel recruiter for a corporation or executive recruitment agency.   3. an executive...|||I can relate to a certain degree, but I tend to notice it when it happens, and avoid sabotaging myself completely. The tendency is always there, though ;)|||I've processed some of my experiences being bullied in therapy, and I've worked with it on my own. (Mostly through writing my feelings towards it out.) My subconsciousness has processed a lot of it,...|||I don't think I have a problem getting into relationships - I just ended a 14 years relationship with an ENFP, and I'm already on my way into a relationship with a new ENFP. She is very cautious, and...|||Wonderful, seastallion ! Thank you! So now I know I'm Fe/Ti under pressure; my 2nd and 3rd function. That makes sense :)|||*Bump* Update: I applied today :)|||I'm currently looking for a new job, and consider applying for a job as a headhunter. Do you think INFJs make good headhunters? Pros and cons?|||I've worked my way through ESTP(!) at 17, ENTP, ENTJ, ENFJ before I ended up with INFJ. Now, at 34, I can say that I'm 110% sure about the N and the F, and about 90% sure about the J - only 75% sure...|||Come on; give us the functions now :D I also become unpatient sometimes ;)|||My parents are quite balanced, they are still married, and they have their good and bad sides like everyone else. I was bullied in school, but I think that I already was very sensitive, and that the...|||1) Distracted, impulsive, unrealistic in expectations, hasty, noisy 2) Rebellious and nonconforming, restless, self-centered, defensive 3) Withdrawn, retiring, dreamy, hardheaded, reserved 4)...|||They were born in a summer month (NO, December).  They wear glasses or contacts (YES, contacts or glasses).  They were academically advanced for their age (YES, at least I was a very early...|||It's not really that odd. It's statistics ;)|||I try to hold both perspectives - I do my own thing, I try to be as authentic and honest as possible; while I try to maintain a certain political consciousness regarding gender issues. In my...|||This is a lovely song - and a really quirky video   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbDMUijBP2U&ob=av2e|||I LOVE LOVE LOVE  Somebody that I used to know !!! Here's my contribution:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=34RYXXRynxE|||Welcome :cool:|||I'm a huge fan of alternative medicine - or complementary medicine as I prefer to call it. I would also probably use traditional medicine for serious problems like cancer, but I do believe that...|||I forgot to mention that the discussion is about values, love, spirituality and authenticity - after the Oslo bomb 22.07.2011 :happy:|||My writing is at least not about linear stories, and I probably wouldn't write fiction either. More like a stream of consciousness, reflections upon life, philosophy/biography - oh, I keep forgetting...|||I didn't notice this the first time i read it - OMG!!!! That qualifies for a doorslam in my world *shock*|||I would like to be a psychotherapist, both working with individual clients, groups and organizations. It would be fun to work professionally with MBTI or the enneagram for large companies, and...|||I fold :) And I use far more than 3 squares :) Don't see how this is type related ?|||If I don't do that, I become the drama queen some of the previous posters have described... What's worse? Full drama or grudges?|||I'm wondering how old is she? I've been manipulated by my exes as well when I was younger. (Actually while I was in a relationship with an ENFP...) He kept his heart warm and his head cool, and let...|||My father is probably ISTJ, but he has tested as INTJ once. Not much N to see - mostly he talks about food, career and encourages me to make traditional choices in my life. He's quite critical, but...|||I want intuitives for breakfast, lunch and dinner - and especially for dessert. I get bored when I'm surrounded by Ss (although SPs are fun for parties.)|||The video is in norwegian. My guess for her is INFJ, and for him ENFP. What are your opinions, based on body language?   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tGVb8Vt7vqw|||Thanks - I needed that ENFP hug >< I've always thought that I'm extravert, and I've always thought that the ENFP I'm dating is introvert - but I've been diving into functions lately, and I think...|||So... I've hear that INFJs and ENFPs are a good match, and I'm currently dating an ENFP myself. I want to hear from those of you who have or have had romantic relationships with INFJs. What are your...|||I was called Hitler at a party once, does that count? LOL My Fe sometimes explodes in somebodys face, not very often, but it's been known to happen. I also am told that I'm too intense at times,...|||And I thought MY ENFP acted strange... jeeez :)|||I prefer neither... but I would rather be a sadist than a masochist, and preferably only if the masochist liked being dominated :)|||32973 I painted this a couple of weeks ago, acrylic on canvas :)|||Would you ENFPs say that you only show your depressed side to the people you really love and trust? That you would prefer to be completely isolated with your 'dark' moods? And that I should feel...|||Yeah, it's difficult to know the difference between searching for words and searching for words when it's not her first language, I guess :)|||I prefer dialogue to debate, but I'm able to debate if I find it necessary. I used to do politics, but all the black/white thinking became tiring after a while.|||This thread is so relevant to me - trying to start a relationship with an ENFP myself... She's bought concert tickets for a concert this summer, talks about moving together, going on holiday together...|||You guys are P-ing in my thread - LOL ><|||Do you know her personally?  Thanks for the tip, got her on Spotify right now - great music <3|||I'm a complete coward - except from some occational speeding ><|||I write out my emotions too, sometimes in my diaries, sometimes anonymously on the internet (and cross my fingers noone will recognise the people and examples I write about). If I have the time and...|||I voted fire, as my sun sign is mutable fire (sag). My moon and asc are virgo, the moon being in exact conjunction to my asc. 1st house pluto, and a stellium in the third. MC in gemini. The horoscope...|||Were you bullied in school? - Yes, I was. Not by the people in my class, but every day on the school bus by people 2-3 years older than me.  What grades were you bullied in or were you bullied...|||Love these videos - why aren't they making more? Especially the discussion about the INFJ's lists of why relationships won't work was very revealing to me - and very funny >< I sometimes find it...|||Welcome! :cool:|||I can be very direct, flirt quite a bit - but I seem to move back and forth between being flirty and shy... I'm in a relationship (the start of it) with an ENFP. I found this video on youtube that is...|||*Hugs* Thanks for the welcome :D   Thanks :) I'm already fixed up, kind of. But it's with another woman, who is an ENFP. Can you imagine the amounts of emotions and drama of two NF women trying to...|||I've collected some NF friends over the years, 3 INFJs like myself and 1 ENFP. My ex is an ENFP, and my girlfriend is an ENFP. I see them as rare gems - and I relatively easily recognise when I...|||I think it's easier to communicate exactly what I mean in my mother tongue than in other languages I know (like english). I feel that the nuances sometimes get lost; or that I have a better...