'You have a very pretty face!|||Men are better than women.|||I pick Snow White or Sleeping Beauty because they stand around not doing anything and looking pretty:)|||I need to tell you how I really feel.  (ensuing paragraphs of girly-man nonsense)|||I'm definitely not superior to anyone; however, if you seriously believe this BS about the sexes being the same, LOL|||Lol.|||Lay off, lady.  I know I expect women to be submissive, and it's actually the ones who are most submissive that I respect the most.  So you basically don't know what you're talking about.|||Subservient=/=disrespect Subservient=subservient|||Alfred Hitchcock: ISFJ George Lucas: INTP Steven Spielberg: ESTP Francis Ford Coppola: ENFJ|||He is a very obvious INTP.|||If that's the case, time to leave this silly forum!|||All intuitive dominants have shifty eyes.  It's because instead of being in the world, they're in their own head.    It is the most obvious outward sign of sensing dominants versus intuitive...|||ESFJs are straightforward.  ESFJ: How are you? Girl: I'm fine, how are you? ESFJ: Fine.  Look at this weather we've been having. Girl: I know!  So gray and gloomy. ESFJ: I was thinking we'd go...|||Warning: Successful person approaching; be on best behavior.|||No, love=love. Respect in and of itself=sterile.|||1. If a girl sleeps with you on the first date/a guy tries to sleep with you on a first date, for instance, do you put him/her in a not girlfriend material/sleazy box or lose interest in him/her? If...|||In-person would be much better; however, I would accept an apology email.|||Definitely.  And it may be less awkward for both of you.|||Fe is caring about other people, searching the world for values that we agree with and then enforcing them.  Just an overarching concern for the well-being of others.  Same as ENFJ. Si is taking in...|||And they wonder why there aren't many ESFJs on this forum!|||Don't go all PC on him, LOL.  EDIT: For anyone still reading this 2-year old thread...|||Well, that was stimulating!|||I didn't read all the posts, and I'm not sure I'm going to (had enough of this thread already).  My point is, as phrased, the post was incredibly condescending, which it was.  What was meant to be...|||I know what I read.|||More mature?  Do you understand how haughty and obnoxious that sounds?  I know this is the unpopular opinion thread, but geeze.  OK then.  I believe that those who do not believe in God, who are...|||I agree with this one.|||Catholic and very happy about it.|||Istj.  Drives me bonkers.|||I realize this is the hard way for you as an INFP, and maybe not what you wanted to hear.  But once it's done I guarantee you your relationship with this fellow will be right.    Until it's...|||Then I would rehearse.  Here's what I would like to hear, as an ESFJ.  This is what would work for me:  Fantasize walks up to ESFJ. Fantasize: I'm sorry. Fantasize starts to walk away. ESFJ: For...|||Because he has self-respect.    From my perspective, why be friends with someone who has clearly demonstrated the ability to be insulting to me?  Once is more than enough.  If you can't talk to...|||-We should go back to the 1950s-1960s, complete with clothes, music, women completely pre-feminism, and popularization of the classical music concert, art museum, opera, etc.  An aspiration to...|||I wonder why Why we like ESFJs is only 7 pages long, and this dislike thread is 107 pages long, even though they both came out in 2011.|||No problem, friend!|||Ask away!|||Tell me what you think!  Just knocked this one off this afternoon.  Moon River - Clyp|||Well, that was a very heartfelt post!  I'm sure if my mother could read it (an ISFJ) she would be quite flattered.|||Of course!  I dream all the time.  Common misconception.|||My father is an ISTJ.  He has good qualities, but cannot stand his apparent self-centeredness when it comes to disturbing other people's privacy and etc.|||Newt Gingrich was an obvious ENTP and he absolutely loved to debate.  That was his big strong suit in the 2012 campaign.|||I would think ENTJ fiction would be very long and winding, with many metaphors and complicated prose.|||I have no idea why.  My uncle is an INTP and he is a memorizing genius, as well as very warm in his own quirky way.  If people don't like him, that's their problem, not his.|||I don't think ESTP's get hated on most..I think that honor goes to my personality type!|||My brother is a true ESTP, and we get along great.  He is good-natured, and so am I.  We're both people people.|||Not at all.  One of my best friends is an ISTP and he is wonderful.  A real person, if that makes any sense.|||I have no idea why others dislike us!  In real life, plenty of people seem to like me, so I think it's the internet that's off and not me.|||When I'm really upset, having other people around sort of shocks me out of it and forces normalcy.    Being alone too long isn't good for anyone, in my opinion.  It feels unhealthy and depressing.|||The fact that you are introspecting on this topic leads one to believe that you type as ISFJ.  An ESFJ would not really care about this.|||I type as ESFJ and enjoy many different styles, such as: Classical, ragtime, jazz, easy listening (Dean Martin, Bing Crosby, etc.), 50s-70s pop, 70s soul, and retro country.|||Sounds like he is acting like the bigger person here.  I'm sure you realize you screwed up and your behavior as described is never the right way to respond to unwanted affection b/c it shows lack of...'