'My friends are trying to set me up with a girl whose a year older than me. Why does it feel weird? How are some people okay with? Is there a way for me to be okay with it? This has been bothering me...|||Are there any Entps who have a job dealing in computers i.e. computer programmer, computer engineer etc.?|||I consider myself a fast but cautious driver(hehe...Enfp contradiction). I get cautious when I think a cop is around. I am a very confident driver. I think I am very skilled. I never follow the speed...|||I honor you for opening up. Remember that these walls are negative thoughts or more like perceptions that you have about yourself. These negative beliefs are not true. I would advise to try cognitive...|||I actually see the word Beef in my head and then an emotion towards it, but just the word. After that I would see some faded picture of a beef with not so much quality. I have a feeling I have a...|||I know this question may sound weird, but what do you first see when I say the word beef to you? Do you see a picture of beef or....? After I get a few post answers I'll tell you what I see.|||Are you left brain or right brain dominant? I was just thinking that as I get older and my Te function develops I think more logically so I use my left brain more. Do you guys get that too?|||I'm mostly an audio learner and there are certain that I am a visual learner in.|||Hey you guys, I was just wondering if anybody here is interested in linguistics and is actually working as one. Anybody out there majoring in linguistics? I was just curious because I really like...|||Who said, when life gives you lemons make lemonade? I've been checking on google but couldn't find it.|||I'm with them. It's really weird because I was never able to explain it to my friends. They just never understood.|||I think that one my friends is ENFP and he can be annoying sometimes.|||Do some of your ENFP friends think your weird? or better yet do ENFPs think that other ENFPs are weird? because I have a friend who I think is an ENFp but everytime I say something that I think is...|||I used to do that go to every person and just overthink it as you put it.  Now I started this new system, but its a little hard. I tried just following thru with whatever comes first in my mind. It's...|||I feel like I'm the one out of all my friends who have an issue in making decisions. But I still feel like everyone has this issue of making decisions whether it be big or small. Is ENFp the only...|||Are all ENFP's the life of the party? I'm been seeing this line aassociated with ENFP for a long time. Is it true?|||Lol, shalom!|||whatever he said .|||I happen to be a Jew. You could know me. lol  I love people who are open to different nationalities and cultures.|||How could it be that Si is focused on remembering everything you see. I happen to have a good memory like I'll know my friends number even though I saw his number once. I think I just might have a...|||Enfj right here ! I never thought there were other people who think like me until I came to PerC and I am glad that I stumbled into PerC.|||As an Enfj, I fear that the my world of friends will fall apart and there will be no more harmony.|||Okay, I'm trying to figure this all out. How would I know if I'm using a Dominant function over an auxilary function. For example, I'm an ENFJ so I'm Fe dom but how do I know I'm not using Fe as an...|||Just throwing this out there. I just got an idea after reading all the posts. It looks like it doesn't matter how much time introverts or extroverts spend socializing. It looks more like how they...|||The thing is thats exactly what made me think that I may be an introvert because I am quiet around a crowd with other loud people.  I might as well add another question if a person is loud in a...|||I tend to do that too. It's also funny because all I have to say is one sentence and the whole conversation goes to different direction as you put it. I love PerC I get to find people who actually...|||Okay fine. I'll read, but most of the time I don't understand what's being said. Edit: Nevermind I got what I was looking for|||Okay Im a type 2 ennagram and I was wondering that maybe I'm EnFP becuase I test for Enfj but i dont know. I'm so confused:unsure:. So i tried trying to figure out what is my dominant function, but...|||I'll give this a try:  Cube= I see a blue cube sitting in the middle of the dessert.  Ladder= I see a red wooden ladder right next to the Cube. Flowers = I see a bunch of roses right in front of...|||As noche said just keep on talking them people like talking about themselves. I am not saying people are being selfish its probably just people know about themselves I guess. Good Luck!|||you know you are enfj if when you are left alone at home you blast music in the house because its too quiet|||I would rather be in a party then stay at home but I'm shy that's my problem|||This question has probably been brought a million times here but I'm just curious how many of you guys have friends who think that you are introverted? I have many friends who think I am...|||Hey you guys! I was just wondering are you actually introverted and like to spend time alone or is it that you guys are afraid to speak up because of what people might say? I am asking because I'm...|||when youre talking to your friend for a while and then you randomly say something in the middle of the conversation and they go,huh?.|||nevermind I just found other threads that helped me out.|||we try having a thread for functions, like You know when you are Ni when you... I don't if its been done. Sorry if it has. Okay onwards..|||i was asking more of what type of function is she using? If anything?|||well, my sister's is into dogs. So i was just wondering is there a certain which is more into loving dogs? She looks at dog pictures online and really wants one but my dad is allergic. so what type...|||Nighty- lol, thats exactly what I do when I'm around people. I always feel weird afterwards because maybe somebody noticed me doing it. Its good to know somebody else does it.|||I do exactly what you said. At parties I go to the lone or shy ones first and then work my way up. I try to get to know everyone. My birthday is a time to hang out . It means something but it...|||Im very good in math. I enjoy it sometimes but i can't take the idea of sitting at a desk all day. ughhh|||I mean trying to give attention to each kid and meeting all there needs. Making the right plan for them. Making them interested. Those type of things.|||Thanks man I'll know to who to go to when it comes up:happy:|||That gives me idea. It might make a good hobby for when I'm bored. Now what do i draw....|||I don't know if this is the right to say if people agree that would be goodbut I guess let things just be for a while till everything settles down after the birth and when times passes past the...|||Its very hard to get over it and the problem is that it happens all the time. I just take the criticism and cry about it on the side or I try thinking about something else.|||Its not that I hate art. Its just that I can't draw so I'm not really into it but I would probably learn if I had a chance.  P.S. I doodle does that count? :)|||I would for sure do that if it came to making people happy . :)|||Thanks for your answers u guys.  I really appreciate it . It put some of my confusion of what I wanna do in life in percepective because I like math but I don't want to sit in an office all day . I...'