Hi, Dupin. I'm 19 and from New Hampshire :)|||Thank you so much for responding to this! I only just saw your reply. I really appreciate you taking the time to give me advice. All the best! :)|||Alright, so I've been trying this new thing where I go outside of my house...haha okay not really  but I do have a therapy appointment once a month just to check in with  my counselor and make sure...|||Thank you for all of your responses! You've really lifted my spirits; I don't feel like such a freak anymore :)  AwkwardDork oh my goodness, I don't know if you looked at my profile but I'm a 4w3...|||I try to use the word 'awkward' sparingly in my life but as I get older, I just seem to get more...awkward. I'll admit that I've sort of withdrawn from society- I have about 3 friends at the moment...|||I love ENTP's because they're typically just as hyperactive as I am but they're a lot less anxious so they mellow me out :)|||Tissue box throwing mixed with a high pitched scream.|||I'm the same way! What I do is pencil in something around the shape or face to adjust it. Like, a part of the grain of the wood of my closet door looked like a the profile of a skeleton and it always...|||There's no doubt in my mind that I'm an ENFP but I was wondering if this was common to the ENFP archetype. I'm always getting ahead of myself- so much so that I'll actually end up having terrible...|||Lately Ix92ve been in an introspective, thinking sort of mood and Ix92ve realized that Ix92ve always struggled with change. I remember when I was a little kid Ix92d cry every night about not wanting to grow...|||Thank you so much for your advice! I was honestly starting to worry that I wasn't an ENFP anymore just because of how negative I've become but you've given me hope. It's so nice to know that someone...|||Generally, I'm a very warm, friendly person. In fact, people tell me that I'm too nice. But I think that it's because of my ENFPness that I don't like people very much- I find that no one can really...|||@AyaSullivan I love your avatar! :)|||Unknowingly haha :) Most of the time, I just talk to people like I know all of their secrets. This causes a lot of problems...a lot of girlfriends don't like me. They don't realize I'm harmless :p|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTnq268y2ms  Lol but seriously:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9wFX0ewuWBc  This one is like flying unicorns farting glitter xD|||I've always found comfort in fellow ENxP's. My best friend is an ENFP and most of the guys I like end up being ENTP's. I've actually realized that I can type an ENTP just by looking at them- if...|||My 'status' changed a lot through high school. Sometimes I was the class clown, other times a social butterfly, and, towards the end when I was feeling a bit like ET, I was a lone wolf :)|||I was wondering if this was just me or if it's a trait that ENFP's share. I feel smothered incredibly easily. If a guy is pursuing me and he says all the right things (eg. your hair looks pretty,...|||When I was younger, I was really optimistic, open, friendly, and sweet.  Now I'm seventeen and, though I'm still all of these things, I'm more  guarded than I've ever been. My therapist says it's...|||I'm very much a dreamer and an idealist. That I know for sure. But  everything I want to do with my life is probably very unrealistic (I'm  sixteen). My version of a plan is that I'll keep working on...|||I'm very much a dreamer and an idealist. That I know for sure. But everything I want to do with my life is probably very unrealistic (I'm sixteen). My version of a plan is that I'll keep working on...|||I'm definitely an ENFP...maybe I just have really bad nerves? Are anxiety problems common in ENFPs?  Thank you for the in depth answer by the way :)|||When I was younger I always thought there was something wrong with me because whenever anything slightly out of the ordinary happened, I'd start shaking, my teeth would start chattering, and my heart...|||I don't mind that I don't fit in. That's always been a major part of my life and I'm actually kind of relieved that it is. What bothers me is that people treat me like I don't exist, like I'm not...|||Before I begin, I have to say that I'm definitely an ENFP. I fit the whole profile and was really excited (yet kind of disappointed) to find that there are millions of people like me in the world....|||I've never heard of it. What is it?|||Thank you for all of your replies! I didn't expect to get this many! :)  When I said 'friends', I just meant people I talk to to get through the school day. Everyone is like that at my school and...|||I don't know if it's just me or if it's a trait of ENFP's, but I feel like I'm a little too honest sometimes. For instance, when my friends are talking about someone who's not there, I'll stand up...|||I understand that the post came off as very negative to you and I can see why. However, I did list the traits that I love about guy ENTP's. I'm not going to describe how he was an asshole, like other...|||This is almost EXACTLY what has happened to me. I moved to a new school about a year ago and really hit it off with everyone at first. I made friends quickly and had such a fun time. But after 2...|||If I could get a tattoo, I'd probably have one too :) I don't know if it's an ENFP thing or if it's just a me thing, but I've always felt like I was born at the wrong time. i belong in the 60's haha...|||How did you know this? Sorry to keep pestering you but I think this whole personality thing is really interesting :)|||Wow, that sounds curious :) And me too! Haha people most often refer to me as a hippy, so I made my avatar a girl who reminds me of a hippy :)|||We're both 4s!! Haha I just realized that.  Oh yeah! That sounds about right. I have no idea what else it might be. Are some of the characters from the first season in the second, or did they drop...|||Haha :p Yeah, I noticed that too but I felt like we had a deeper connection than he did with other people (after all, I was the person he always came back to). And I think the whole of our ENFPness...|||Oddly enough, it was the same for me. He knew exactly how to talk to me, how to act around me, and he was so sweet when he wanted to be. SO sweet. He was really flirty, too, so that was fun :) And...|||It really stinks too, because their womanizing ways lead them into being heartbreakers! I think ENTP's are the hardest to get over. Right?! I love how quirky it is. I haven't seen the second season...|||Same haha. And yeah, it's one of my favorite shows! Tate is my favorite character :) This past week was spirit week at my school so people were dressed in odd fashions and I was skipping math and...|||One of my friends is obsessed with Japan and Korea. Really. She believes that her soulmate is a k-pop singer and she writes him letters about her life and always brings him up in conversation. If...|||Yay! Thank you :)|||Wow! Okay, here we go :) (And you're not a drag at all!)     Ix92m 16.   I was born with a disorder known as x93Ehlers-Danlos Syndromex94. To summarize it, EDS is characterized by thin, stretchy,...|||Oh yay! Here goes :)  Type 2w3 (The Helper, I relate to this because I kind of feel useless if I'm not helping someone and I feel great if I am. A lot of people know that if they need advice or a...|||I've been taking enneagram tests and looking through the descriptions of each enneagram, and it seems like I fit at least 4 of them, if not all of them. Is this a common finding?|||I'm glad someone gets it haha. This might sound a little weird, but did he brag about the size of his 'endowment' or his sexual conquests? Because that's what this guy did...all the time. It got...|||Wow. Thank you so much. The guy I'm mainly talking about when I say 'ENTP' (the one I have the most experience with) was all of these things and all of the good things I mentioned in the first...|||Thanks for replying; it's kind of cool how you can just state something about your 'people' haha. And I didn't mean to stereotype- I tend to avoid generalizing anything- but, honestly, every ENTP guy...|||Then maybe he wasn't an ENTP? Because he flirted a lot then (and so did every guy I labeled as an ENTP...). Even when he was in a serious relationship, he flirted with me and never even talked about...|||So I always love ENTP guys. It really stinks, too, because all of them (or at least the ones who I've met) have been kind of douchey. They're really fun and exciting and laid back and I love being...|||Hahaha just checkin' :tongue:|||I wouldn't say that I'm not charming...:) Just not charming enough. I'm typically more direct and idealistic- I'm too focused on my goals to pay attention to how I might seem when I speak or move...