I have a friend who is a type 7 but is chronically at unhealthy levels and disintegrating to type 1. Me and my friends thought he was a type 1 since he calls himself a perfectionist and keeps a tight...|||When things get bottled up and stress levels rise, I get overwhelmed. I can't take it or do it. I have to over concentrate to get things done and get hypersensitive to the point where I snap....|||I send you a cyber {{{{hug}}} I think you need one. Hang in there, you will get through this all and you are strong. Don't worry too much about this limerence thing. I personally think it is...|||Making a necessary threat is quite arrogant in my opinion and I find it harmful. It is like feeling above the other and comes from a place of power instead of compassion. Now, I am not preaching...|||I am sure you are a good person but that is what I dont like about ESTJ behavior, the lying. My friend does this too and I cannot understand this and never will. Why not just be honest instead of...|||Love of my life is ESTJ. We are incredibly different but somehow the same in the middle somewhere. We no more have a relationship. There was huge attraction mutually.  A relationship with an ESFJ is...|||He may be suffering with OCPD. (obsessive compulsive personality disorder) You may like to read upon it here and see if it fits him.  OCPD info and message board: Obsessive-Compulsive Personality...|||I don't like Facebook. Too much forced interaction. I prefer sites like Linkedin which is a bit more reserved and distant in communication.|||LOL It's my experience that their Fe comes out when drinking...devilish.|||If I were in your situation what I would like best is to talk things through and get closure. Surpressing things would not work at all for me and I'd rather bring it in the open. So perhaps that we'd...|||Just wondering. Is exploring information like say collecting information from the internet a SE function?|||When somebody in the street passes by and catches your attention because you are inspired by the beautiful bright color of a coat and you would like to tell the person on the spot how much you like...|||ESTJ  He is the love of my life and the most difficult man I know. We are so opposite. Hence the bond I guess. Albeit unspoken.  I generally get on best with feelers, IF or EF. There's a quick...|||Me too, I am hardworking and quite perfectionistic. I love it when I am in the good energy action flow because if I don't work I will slow down and not get moved too much and will procastrinate. Like...|||I do not think I come across at quiet. Usually my voice is quite straightforward but I would hate to think it would sound harsh.|||Engage Processes in Tandem for Powerful Results Each of the cognitive processes can be used with its opposite in a tandem relationship (see page 20.) At first a process and its x93oppositex94 may feel...|||I have read somewhere that when Se and Ni (2nd and 3rd) are well developed and work well together it's possible to be in touch with these so called premonitions or the ability of being pychic.|||When I am under pressure of my inferior Te I have a lot of resentment and pent up anger going off on a rant. I am prone to snap more at the same time feeling numb. I sometimes feel if I am being...|||OH definitely, it's just a soup. But the fact that maybe you worked so hard and made the soup perfect would never allow me to tell you it is bad cause I appreciate your effort above all.|||Drea. Likewise. Neither can I comprehend it.  To not be affected. I think INFP/ISFP are TOTAL opposites of ESTJ's. And vice versa lol. Perhaps we are wayyyy over sensitive or perhaps my partner ESTJ...|||LOL  I wouldn't tell you anyway that it was bad even when you asked me, saves you time to clean up and polish your rifles :laughing:|||Wickedqueen, but I do understand what you are trying to say about the soup. It makes sense logically of course.  But how about if I came to dinner at your place and you made me soup. And then I...|||ESTJ won't apologize just for the sake of validating someone's feelings. ESTJ will apologize when the fact said we are wrong.  MMMmm..I have a real hard time with this. Of course it is all...|||Don't take offense to the sometimes stuff. We think out loud very often- its the E. If we are close to you, you can point out that we are being abrasive and we will reconsider how we are speaking. We...|||My ESTJ is the love of my life. Yet, we are so different. It comes down that we basically want the same things in life. Some great traits: very dedicated and loyal to his work and hardworking,...|||Gosh, I wish you were not so black and white. My love of my life is ESTJ but he can be so blunt and abrasive. Takes me sometimes a week to recover from. Totally dismissing my feelings. Ratonal and...|||I am not hard to get to know as I am quite open. I believe ISFP is quite extraverted. I do well with action, it is how I tap into my energy. As for opening up to others I have no problem with it as...|||Yes, I believe so. I have experienced premonitions myself. Personally I think maybe not as frequent as NP types which seem to be most common with psychic ability. (INFP and ENFP) I love this ability...|||You know when yoú are ISFP when beautiful colors make you instantly happy. When mixing and matching and finding the right combinations together with how things feel in your own hands give you...|||This Keys2 test was very coherent with what I have always come up with: ISFP I really like this test and love the lay out of it.|||I thought about this for a while. Envy is a human emotion, we all have it.  But envy like comparing myself to others is something I actually never consciously do. It's more like observing others but...|||Very interesting Lucky. I had actually never looked at it that way but now it makes sense. Thought provocing. Then ennea 4 is not in my trifix for sure. It's just that I wouldn't mind envy, it can be...|||LOL Inebriato, I was more focuued on getting him. And indeed, jealousy is only a waste ot time then lol.|||Interesting. Envy is one thing that is not a part of me, never was. I am not sure if envy is related to being a healthy person. (I am frequnetly not) I do have issues though but envy is not one of...|||thanks Seekjess, I get very much what you are saying and yes that's how I think it is too in a way. It seems to me in this situation it was him that broke the trust. I would absolutely point the...|||Yes, I have been thinking about that too. But as far as I can remember I have not let him down. I always tried to be open with him and then perhaps he could have taken that as negative feedback or...|||Hi, I have a problem with an ISTJ friend and would like to get some help and gaining some understanding. We usually get along nicely but lately this has not been so and I am somewhat puzzled and...|||Also I think ISTJ is a very good match when both healthy. I have many friends who are ISTJ's and I adore them. They fascinate me because it is so hard to figure them out. Gentle hearts with a...|||My dear husband is ESTJ. We compliment each other very well, he keeps me grounded. He is very good with finances which I don't really care about much. And he cares about economy and financial news....|||I am more at ease with intoverts. It's like I feel with extroverts like esfj's, their hearts are on their sleeves. It's too much for me. I like it when someone shows their love and kindness with...|||I become very creative and love the world. I feel a sort of bliss and am thankful. I don't neccesarily have to spent every minute with the person. It's just that I feel fortunate somebody unlocked...|||Just curious... I have read that type 6 with a five wing (6w5) is most common for ISTJ's , is this true?|||Thanks a lot. Do you feel guilt after you lashed out irrationally especially when you have the other person in high regard? Is so, how do you cope with guilt and how does it manifest?|||How about when you hurt somebody with word for these reasons? Would you apologize?