'As I scanned through all the pictures, I saw yours and my heart leapt.  They're very pretty...   .|||Any cute ENFP girls around in SoCal (I live 20-30 mins from Disneyland) that want to fall in love with a hopeless romantic INFJ, haha.  =P|||I'm pretty sure my dad is an ESTJ.  My dad is a d-bag.  I can't stand how he does things or how he treats people.  So for me  INFJ and ESTJ is a big no-no...|||It's interesting thinking about the distribution of love between a spouse and ones kids.  I personally view it through the lens of my Christian faith and my calling to be a pastor.  Because of...|||Okay, you may be right but my analogy still stands.  If I were trying to get into peoples cars I'd go after the ones with the window down or the doors are unlocked.  Do you see what I'm getting at?...|||I think I agree with this guys point of view although not his method.  Let's take it to a different scenario.  Say you live in an area that has frequent situations where cars are broken into. ...|||I enjoy being in leadership mostly in areas that I feel competent in because I trust in my vision, strategy and abilities when I'm in leadership.  If I'm not sure of what I'm doing, I can still do...|||I'm fairly good at maintaining eye contact when I'm listening to what someone is saying.  I think of it as a way to show that I'm engaged and listening.  However, when I'm talking I tend to look...|||Haha, I remember doing this in high school as a sophmore or junior (that was what, 6 or 7 years ago? frick!) year and giving over 40 hugs.  It was pretty sweet.  I just wore a sign and went to...|||This.  FML.|||I've seen a common thread here in regards to this pairing, so I have to ask the question.  How do INFPs want to be comforted/counseled?  I think this would be helpful to understand in order for an...|||You say that like it's a bad thing or something... :crazy:|||I've heard really great things from this pairing from a hand full of people here on the forum, some of which are in a happy marriage.  Unfortunately, I'm in a similar spot as MetaCog, except it's the...|||Please don't turn my thread into an Apple vs whatever flame war.  I love Apple, but I love my service provider and how little it costs me to be with them, so I'm not going to switch to an iPhone. ...|||Yeah, I was going to say that doesn't do me much good if its for the iphone...  Sent from my SPH-D700 using Tapatalk|||I'm using tapa talk on my android phone and when I try to access a forum that is multiple layers deep like the infj forum within myers briggs and nf types it gives me an error. Is this a known error...|||I've typically heard from various ENFJ's that I know or have met that they prefer NF types.  They tend to get along well with us INFJs :happy:|||That last line makes me laugh because I have a friend or two that's totally down with that, haha.|||You aren't an ENFJ though...  OP: I would say that all that ENFJ's that I know of are rather affectionate people.  Perhaps your desire to serve and what not fits into your love language.  Have...|||Typically it's the same time wherever you go because of where you are in the world.  So it's 11:30pm in NY and 11:30pm in LA, if that makes sense.|||I already saw a few yesterday night before peak time tonight.  I bet you could see a few before 10:30pm!  Go check it out and see!|||The annual Perseids Meteor Shower is tomorrow (Thursday) night!  Typically it's best to view it from 11:30pm - 5:00am looking towards the North West. It is one of the biggest shows and is estimated...|||The annual Perseids Meteor Shower is tomorrow (Thursday) night!  Typically it's best to view it from 11:30pm - 5:00am looking towards the North West. It is one of the biggest shows and is estimated...|||I think she used to grow them together with her friends back home and what not.  I don't think she has been able to since she's been at school at the dorm, but now she move into a house right next to...|||Thanks for the feedback!  I think INFJs and ENFJs have a lot of the same humor and stuff.  The wiener idea for a card is hilarious.  I would die laughing, especially if it's from an ENFJ.  You ENFJs...|||So I have this birthday gift idea for an ENFJ girl I like.  Her favorite flower is an Amaryllis and I thought I would just get her something simple that ties in with that.  I would actually buy the...|||I just laughed out loud at this. I'm totally this way and I have no idea what to say.  I just don't feel like anything interesting happened that day.  if something awesome did happen, I'm pretty sure...|||I'm surprised he waits till the last minute.  Maybe his J isn't as strong as yours?  Just a thought! haha  I'm digging this thread.  I have an ENFJ friend that has a birthday coming up in...|||Aw, thanks for the encouragement!  I really appreciate it!  Writing is something that I really have a desire to do, I just fail at doing it, haha.  The blog forces me to do so in a way.  I'm a...|||Even if you tell them that you have feelings for them and they're not mutual?  Could that change too?|||Do ENFJs tend to have a very ideal picture of someone they have in mind/someone they have interest in and once they get to know them more, lose interest quickly?  I know INFJs tend to like someone,...|||Wow, that sounds pretty spot on to me!  Thanks for writing that all out.|||Do you guys mind if I flip this question around?  - What if you, the ENFJ has a friend and he/she ends up liking you, but you weren't interested in that person at the time.  How do you respond to...|||Oh, this thread was so enlightening!  I think I'm following, naturally doing all of those things in the lists of things ENFJs need in a relationship.  It's also reassuring to know that it's not...|||I've always been a hopeless romantic.  I can remember crazy obsessions and daydreams even when I was in elementary school.  I have no idea how or why I'm that way or if it's a bad thing for me, but...|||Thanks for the tips!  I love you ENFJs like no other.  You're fantastic  :laughing:|||I would agree with the stress leading to just barking orders lacking any personal connection or consideration.  It's actually pretty shocking when it happens not only for others, but me as well.  I...|||I've definitely opened up to an ENFJ, a bit more and faster than I would normally feel comfortable doing, but in turn I think she's opened up to me quite fast. She's still holding back for sure...|||how do you get them to open up and feel safe enough to share their feelings?  Is it just time and that proving that you're trustworthy and safe?|||I tend to make lists for the day/week so that I can cross it off and not feel overwhelmed.  I could keep it all in my head, but I want to prevent forgetting or feeling overwhelmed.  To visually see...|||I don't have a problem sleeping in front of people at all.  I used to take power naps at work in the break room for 15 mins.  I loved having sleep overs when I was younger (and now :crazy:)  It's...|||I don't know what that means.  I posted in that thread too.  I don't see why it's a terrible thing if I want to be part of the discussion.  If anything I'm just bumping your thread to the top so it's...|||The irony of your post and personality type...:tongue:|||I sure do hope a lot of you guys (well...ladies) get INFJ.  I love ENFJs!|||Have any of you guys checked out all those new Old Spice commercials?  Those are HILARIOUS!  I just love how random it all is.  It's great.|||I got an INFP, which is straight up wrong.  All my interactions with INFPs have been rather, awkward, forced, etc.  It requires a lot of work...  I really love ENFJs and I like ENFPs.|||Hi-larious|||I don't want to be a bummer or anything, but I have to say this.  While you may act more mature than some adults (I know this feeling) you don't really know what it's like.  I'm 24 now, and what I...|||Just thinking about this makes me realize that I'm a bit picky about my birthdays.  If no one acknowledges it or does something for my birthday like spending time with me, going out for dinner/making...|||Mine is I'm Gonna Give All My Secrets Away...  I post regularly and I hope some of you would interact regularly as well!'