'I have an ENFP buddy. The two most striking social differences between us are: I can thrive in a stimulating environment no matter if it's an emotionally healthy one or not - she can't stand...|||Why would an argument even need a winner Oo? Neither of the parties ever win an argument, the truth does - from my perspective. Of course, there are always the people too absorbed with themselves to...|||Huh, why would one want more P? I want more J to actually make some things done and finished ;P!  I see your point, though, but I have no useful advice by now.|||It doesn't need to be ESFJ, if a close person tries to show their values down your throat in any ways available (in ways that would naturally be deemed immoral if they did that to, let's say, an...|||zobot - thank you very much for the detailed analysis, too. It helped me to understand the American point of view. It's easier to understand the USA's reactions after you explained that wave of...|||I have only a few strong points there:  Germany - INTX I know a person who role-plays that guy quite believably by this characterisation, & finds it easy.  Poland - ENFP (though not a very...|||The region between Finland & Turkey, between Germany & Ukraine - is a geo-strategical point for large parts of three continents (Europe, Asia & Africa). One of the things behind the late peace...|||The region between Finland & Turkey, between Germany & Ukraine - is a geo-strategical point for large parts of three continents (Europe, Asia & Africa). One of the things behind the late peace...|||Huh, an interesting question asked, though. I don't think I've ever reached real hate. It would be very hard to do, with my sensitivity scale XD. I guess I would probably just accidentally kill that...|||theredpanda It's not my choice to live but it can be my choice to die, you say. I disagree. It's very easy to die. People die everyday in various accidents. Death is easy enough to achieve by...|||theredpanda - hey, that's exactly why every life, every damn minute matters - we make the meaning, we make the point for the generations to come, as those before made a civilisation for us to live...|||Feliks Łukasiewicz (Poland) from Hetalia series (anime & manga), I'd say. Though he wouldn't be exactly a healthy one - have you ever seen an ENFP with social anxiety IRL ><?|||Being sub would be boring. But being dom is boring, too. What I look for is straight-forward competition ^^.|||There was that one time when I had to exit the room to make a point about gossip. But all depends on how you define gossip - to me it's a repeated unproductive judging of someone's faults. Quite a...|||If the lectures are boring, you can bring the books that you are required to read for or that are related to the subject. Then you are learning the same, anyway - and it's faster that way. One the...|||The grass - exactly. The dungeon - old, only mostly symmetric brown bricks with scratches and stains; plus two small pieces of milk glass just to cover the light bulbs, as the room was too small to...|||Gringo - not just you. However my options are more... artistic. Like the grass (muted green vertically over old yellow) or the dungeon (too complicated to describe on side) or the...|||3w2-7w6-8w7, if I remember correctly. But... there isn't much useful information on Enneagram type 3 forum, so why bother?|||1. Analize but do NOT judge. 2. Friendship is sacred because it's one of most useful things to both sides. 3. Your country gave you safety, so do sth for your country in your lifetime. 4. Stick to...|||Huh. In my case it's not a sense of direction - that works just so so, as I can get lost in underground where is no direction of light. But I still can very easly make my way in a terrain I used to...|||sooner - there are observations that ENTP's say what is needed - if different things are needed in different situations and/or social surroundings, isn't being different in them just natural?|||Apparently I turn into an unhealthy INTJ, which I know thanks to PisceanReve's feedback and two strikingly familiar stories from this insigtul describtion of INTJ childhood.  What does cause me...|||I was raised to be a Catholic but it didn't make enough sense to me (however I like that love-to-everyone business) to engage in sharing some news that had no real data to support them, and some...|||If I call a person per friend, not buddy nor acquaintance - it means they're pretty close.  I have one close friend, currently. He tested as INFJ - I'm still waiting for him to come around...|||I had a history of being dumped into one or other grandparents care, until at the age of three I was subjected to a custody kidnapping (during which my mother nearly pushed me down the staircase...|||Sounds very familiar. My natural expressions vary in a way like Mr.Spock's would, so I play out in order to comfort other people.|||I had a functional biphasic cycle when I worked as a babysitter - slept 4-6h per night and had that 1.5-0.5h nap in the middle of a day and it usually worked great. But these few days when the...|||It is, indeed, the subject I do not talk much about.  Rainbow - a biological effect of a current hormonal mix in an organism, usually affecting person's thinking process, especially the...|||Yes. Sometimes people taste it and replay with mhmm, that's delicious! how did you make it? - I learned the hard way to not tell the whole truth by then. If they're not allergic (and I ask that...|||http://personalitycafe.com/entp-articles/741-entp-personality.html - find Lenore Thomson in part two and look at the last paragraph.|||psychswot - well, because we have a wee bit shorter attention span, maybe :)?|||Einstein - it's not pretending, it's a loud non-judgmental interpretation of behaviors - if we're speaking about the same phenomenon.|||I used to use it. Not the stuff with many rules to learn, mind you - no sense in learning much nonsense - but I could influence some of my relatives a lot trough the suggestions.|||Hey, psychswot, you can simply check these results if they match. I agree the test of cognitive functions is not very great - funny thing is, it would probably diagnose an Introvert better because of...|||I give a cold shoulder to a person when I can't get rid of them in any easier way.|||Since they are logically useful, my dear Einstein.|||Personally, I don't really care if I loose contact with an acquaintance - I have plenty of them, each time I meet new people I make new ones. But my buddies are a smaller group, and I have just one...|||Well, yes: I am all into useful ethics (but it may be atypical) - ones which help a person to remain functional and to live within society. These, of course, depend on what kind of people I am...|||Sirius Black, seriously? I think of him as more of a Fi user.|||PS Xee - did you also notice that the Doctor seems to compensate for what he perceives he did wrong with the Master, as a part of his relationship with River Song?|||I used to not understand fictional crushes.  http://images.zap2it.com/images/tv-EP00859795/dexter-jennifer-carpenter-1.jpg ...until I had one on detective Debra Morgan (Dexter). My, that woman is...|||Owfin - thank you. 1) ESFJs of course, I mistyped. 2) Thanks, I'll do that. 3) I know. Doesn't mean they won't be useful. 4) I just think ESFJs don't spend that much time reading things in the...|||OK, so I asked this question on ESFJs forum but as I don't really expect many ideas from them, I ask here, too:  I have ESFJ in my family who a few years ago got this crazy idea that she should...|||Uh, I tried chess, too - but I barely had anyone to play with.|||Dear ESFJs, I need your help/expertise:  I have ESFJ in my family who a few years ago got this crazy idea that she should befriend me. It would be OK, but the fact that she wants to get close and...|||I was born.|||Like with most introverts - I'm instantly interested of who they are, and in different perspectives they offer. But I would have a bit of problem with generalization, as there is only one INFJ about...|||DeductiveReasoner Chloerson and mkeath - call it a club, me too :D.  How people see me, depends on their own personalities and moods. If they are tired, they consider me downright irritating...|||SayMoi - I understand that you see the reason of your daily routines as a thing that matters to your acquaintances; I still think that one's reason of doing things shouldn't matter to others, as long...|||PisceanReve - it seems that once again I followed my hunch without enough of readied evidence - I'll replay as soon as I find enough data on INTJs, ok?'