'hmmm. Well, from reading the thread it seems as if your enfp friend is toying with relationships and is perhaps manipulating the people in them to her/his benefit. I have heard the manipulation...|||Very much so. I think they sense our open heart and sincerity.|||My user name is a nickname given to me by my first love many years ago. While I'm married and it's been over thirty years I still get butterflies and heart thumps when I get an email or hear his...|||Ron Paul is my representative and I vote for him every time. First he is sincere and honest. Second he always votes no. I like that. He is also a obgyn. That may be why he has the stance he does on...|||Bangles version of Hazy Shade of Winter is awesome.|||All of the above.... not so much the are you high? in many years though. Sigh. Sometimes I think as I get older I hide my more quirky side until I know folks much better. Not the rambling on and on...|||Ditto ditto ditto...  I recently had to work with a ocd, man that was tough. It wasn't a life or death project and we couldn't finish it until a certain date anyway, but she was sweating it for 4...|||It kinda depends on the situation. But I generally will have a feel for something and usually I am right. So if I'm not worried that things will turn out ok, then I guess I would call that going on...|||I had something amazing to do today... not just get the car inspected.|||ultimate villain I could become? er...  808  villain I might actually manage:  809|||ENFP - The Champion You scored 75 I versus E, 20 N versus S, 40 F versus T, and 20 J versus P!  Your ideal mate is known as the champion.  My ideal mate is... ME!|||tree-hugger here. Spiders and all, wait, I camped in South Carolina once and the tree roaches were atrocious and I freaked. So, yes to the great outdoors and no to tree roaches!|||I am reading about two things here, I think. Lumping folks into categories and judging them. The first, I think, everyone does. I mean: she's blonde, wears jeans all the time, drives a VW bug,...|||Depends, if I love it I consume it whole. If it gets dull I skip around.|||Fun!  Let's see: a ballerina a Vet - but I had bad allergies My mom says I told her when I grew up I wanted to have kittens - not babies.  then a spy... what's better than that?  then an...|||I score as just below and to the left of the axis thingy... which is moderate, liberal, and libertarian sort of. Anyways these days, on current issues I would be liberal so I went with that. Of...|||No, because I tend to see other types as so limited and having so many boundaries everyday... ewwww! I couldn't handle it.|||that seems seriously skewed to me because if your values are different then eventually you're just fighting all the time.     Ok, but I always wondered, because I know some types, that what if...|||Ok, I've got two and of course they are diametrically opposed:  YouTube - Flogging Molly - The Worst Day Since Yesterday  YouTube - GLEE - Season Finale Performance - Over the Rainbow|||let's try this again: This song really speaks to that intensity thing for me, but then everything this man has written seems to be about my life.  YouTube - Billy Joel - I Go To Extremes|||bwhahahahahahaha!  I was going to say: define analytical! Oh but seriously. It drives people crazy sometimes. But I just can't stop, if I did I think I would have to be catatonic.|||Word! (that always makes me giggle)    Me too! Only I want to argue them to the ground and well then it gets messy. Problem is they usually can't follow my logic...  I hate getting distracted...|||Blonde, bouncy, artsy, compassionate, genuine (oh and I'm very very with you on the sarcastic but, of course, was attempting to be different).  This is fun!:laughing::laughing::laughing:|||making a plan at all! Drives my daughter wacky because my hubby is an INFP and neither of us like to plan...    This took me years to learn from the hubby.    waiting while others think about...|||Last time I was offended by a funny story was when a EMT was cracking folks up about the old large breasted woman they were loading on a stretcher and how her breasts kept flopping all over the...|||Money, if it's not for spending I don't think I understand....:shocked:|||It seems like ever since I was a teen, 77 or 78, this guy has been singing my life. So here is my theme song on the subject:  Ok, I can't seem to be able to figure out this embed thingy. Any...|||I could get my dog potty trained... my enthusiasm for the task just doesn't seem to make a difference!|||I would say that no, the rest of society considers us not normal, but not necessarily unhealthy. I am bipolar so there is some behavior overlap between the mental illness and the personality profile....|||I think it may be like a mind expanding drug experience: all things are possible and I can see how they connect and there are endless possibilities that I want to play with in every combination until...|||Sounds like she is using your itunes account... don't let her. Yeah, we are the kings of manipulation but you have her figured out. Make her earn it by cleaning up her stuff. Otherwise, be the man....|||The world is a difficult place for the perceptive/intuitive types and youth can be especially hard. To an ENFP everyone seems to see the straight line, while we say why not just jump off the cliff?  ...|||I have to agree, if you can't handle being just a friend then let it go. Find at least one new thing to do tomorrow! It will make you feel better. Hugs to you, because you will light someone's fire,...|||Hmmm, teasing people oh yeah. Animals... I could honestly cuddle an animal to death. But I can't ever remember teasing one...maybe because we had a little dog that was teased by the kids in the...|||I was in Bora Bora...|||and Toy Story was absolutely awesome! I just pigged out on being an artist for a week and I want some pancakes and bacon...|||my hubby is an INFP. Our councilor said she had never met another couple so connected and aware of each other.|||Virgo here. I have a question... what's your favorite color?|||I can see him as an ENFP, a mature one.  But I can't give any concrete facts to back it up. Just that he is big on the big picture but not into the details. Good at talking and has a great smile. He...|||Well, I'll have been married 26 years on July 28. That's  a very long time. I've guess I've been romantic, committed, and monogamous with him for more like 30. OMG! If I had my druthers it would go...|||I do not get enough hugs these days...  but if you hug me I will, for sure, hug you back.:happy:|||Dude,  I don't think you are that into this girl and she knows it. You are all down about her insecurities and already talking about breaking it off. She knows it, she can tell without you having to...|||This is rugged...  this is heroic! thanks!|||Hmm. Stress makes me crazy! I used to internalize my stress to the point of my body having to have a physical reaction to get it out. Odd rashes, swollen fingers, stomach aches, etc. I also sleep...|||My favorite:  http://i166.photobucket.com/albums/u81/cylonjoe/Funshine_Bear.gif|||My fashion sense? It's all over the place! My favorite fashions seem to fall into the old lady category. Which makes my daughter freak. So lately I've been trying to be more fashionable. But I love...|||So this!    And this!  I wish I could find some friends who want to talk about important stuff... the stuff I like to talk about!:crazy:|||and I feel like dancing. But it's 5:31 and it would wake everyone up... unless I use my earphones. Brilliant!|||when you get out of 4 tickets on charm and you honestly don't know how you did it.|||One of my very favorite fantasy authors is Robin Hobb. Start with Assassin's Apprentice. Neil Gaiman's American Gods is an awesome book, actually anything Neil Gaiman writes is an awesome book. Neal...'