'Please don't leave me a bunch of pity. More than anything I just felt the need to write my thoughts. Now that I think about it this should have just been a blog but whatever.|||Why can't women just be direct about not being interested?   Warning: Long and filled with me being a whiny bitch!  As some of you might recall I ended up asking a coworker out to which she...|||This evening I find myself wondering what the hell is wrong with me. Anyway on Saturday I ended up asking a coworker out for Thursday. She ended up turning me down because she has school that day,...|||Yes I've considered it but I don't want to decide that sense I'm only 22. Part of me likes the idea of total freedom. Then again having a family also sounds nice.  I will say I'm tired of the games...|||I would definitely say I had social anxiety when I was younger but I've mostly overcome this. I still over think social situations but i generally don't let it keep me from doing things. If anything...|||Skiing and snowboarding. Trail riding (dirt bike). Video games. Surfing. Hunting. Reading about stuff related to my hobbies. Learning how to fix things I use.|||Kind of sounds like me.|||My opinion is most of what you learn in college (and school in general) isn't very useful for most people. As for the stuff that might be useful they don't show you how to use it practically. This...|||I don't see myself as boring. Other people probably view me as boring though because I don't say much, I'm to the point, and I don't go to parties much.|||When I'm in group settings I find people try to prod me into talking, but with little success. In the end I tend to just sit there listening untill a topic I care about comes up or I feel something...|||My bad I missed the ten word rule.|||A penguin caught a fish in antarctica and then it was eaten by a polar bear. Satisfied from his delicious meal, the bear went to sleep. And bingo was his name-o. He had been given this posh name by...|||I didn't have much of a religious upbringing though I know my parents are christian. For a number of years I had a questioning belief. The more I thought about it there more problems I had with...|||Most stuff on History, Discovery, Military, or similar channels. No Reservations and the Layover. The Big Bang Theory. Top Gear. Two and a half men (not the same without Charlie though).|||F vs T has nothing to do with being nice. I've known people who I suspect are dominant feelers yet could be down right nasty over nothing. It all goes to show F vs T dosn't mean much in that regard....|||1. Hell no. There's 6-7 billion people on this planet of which about half of them are female. Even after narrowing it down to my age bracket and what I consider attractive there's still millions....|||I can't give the lady's what they want that easily. I have to see some in return. XD|||I have a text message stalker.|||It all comes down to being on social autopilot. If I don't care to deal with the person I try to deal with the person as quickly and efficiently as possible. I actually need as reason to give more...|||It drives me nuts.|||Im only able to pull this kind of thing off when I put myself in the mindset to do so before hand. The problem is it's just not natural for me to remain in it. More often then not i come up with a...|||I'll save the tweeting for the birds.   Actually this is the only site I post anything on. Never had myspace. No Facebook. No google+ or whatever it's called.|||To win the lottery.  Oh you said career. Im still trying to figure that out maybe a linemen (as in electrical). With the relationship part I'll have to get back to you on that.|||I enjoy going out to dinner with my family. Otherwise I see them as just another day.|||I wasn't big on sports until after high school. I wasn't a natural at it and was to lazy to practice, then I learned to ski. Anyway it dosn't need to be a sport. The point is for him to find an...|||I vote for leave it for the reasons others have given.|||Does he have any outlets such as sports, hobbies, ect. Basically anything he enjoys doing regularly that doesn't include such things as hours of playing video games, watching tv, or surfing the net....|||I second the let him make his own mistakes. Trying to help him avoid mistakes can often backfire anyway. If it isn't likely to ruin his life it's probably better to let him make the mistake and...|||I second the ISFJ though it's hard to type a person based on a description like this. Either way I say she dosn't sound ISTP.|||I hate eye contact. For me I find it a distraction from the conversation. When using it I have to think about keeping eye contact but not staring the person down.  In the end I say it's just one of...|||I don't recall the scores from the mbti tests I've taken. If I had to compare myself to the people around me though I would have to place myself at about 85% introvert. Most days I just don't feel...|||How about the teacher that expects you to write a poem. Those kind of assignments always pissed me off.|||Never been a fan of poems.|||This.  (10 char)|||My problem is I kill most conversations fairly quickly because I don't give people much to work with. Then theres the problem of not caring for a lot of people I meet.|||People who drive under the speed limit for no good reason. I can't tell you how often this happens to me.|||I don't do new years resolutions. January first is just another day to me.|||I think you and I know thats not the kind of movie I'm talking about.  There may be some exceptions besides these three that I can't think of but generally there total garbage. I actually can't...|||The only things I don't like about the holiday is the music, having to decorate, and the movies. Every year my mom watches all kinds of the terrible Christmas movies. You know the ones were some...|||Your campus too. Can't walk anywhere on my campus without steping in it. By the way BBQ geese kabobs with bacon tastes great.  Bacon yum.|||I feel it should be illegal. If a women decides to have sex she accepts that she could get pregnant. Sure you can use protection but no protection is 100%, so even with it you still should accept the...|||It's why I sometimes question whether my dad is an ISTP. He can get extremely anal about where you leave things. Some days he will just start moving your stuff and you come back and can't find it. He...|||You seem to be thinking yourself in circles. If I were you I would go out with her on a trial basis and stop comparing her to the ENFJ's. If it just feels right after a few dates then go with it, if...|||Thats a tough choice. I deffinitely spend alot of time thinking about and researching my interest's. At the same time after several hours to a few days of this I really need to get up and do a...|||Outside of my family the only people I regulary interact with is co workers. I've got some co-workers that I get along well enough to were I snowboard with them. Infact they invited me on a trip to...|||I agree with you that with the right person the conversation should feel natural. Having said that my question is how did you meet these women in the first place and what led to the conversations?...|||1. I don't know if I would say I'm attracted to people that fall under that category. In general though I prefer people who are laid back (while still being somewhat dependable).  2. I highly...|||I find myself in this same catch-22. The basic solution is obvious, but it's still a pain in the ass.  Then there's the added struggle (at least for me) of trying to find things to talk about when...|||The only current system I have is 360. My computers are not really up to gaming specs.   Having said that I play alot of the MW3. Also just got BF3 but haven't had a chance to play it.|||Basically what the rest of you said.   Buy a decent size house (2000-3500 sq. ft.) on several acres.  Then I would take off on a several year trip around the world starting in Europe and just go...'