'Sorry I know this post is a few years old but I was so happy to read it because it makes SO much sense to me.  Especially now that I realize I'm truly an ENFJ and not an ESFJ (I was raised by...|||ENTP for sure  :wink:|||Hi, I literally just saw this today. Havent been on PerC in a few months.  I might retire. I just dont think this forum is healty for me. :unsure:|||This was hilarious! !!|||Hahaha, Blue, you are just too awesome for words!!! *super hugs*|||I wouldn't say bitch, but you do seem a little self-centered.  Maybe you need a wake up call. No offense or anything.|||Master Wolf isn't jealous of all my admirers because we are just friends.  In fact, he's like a brother to me.  Ewww|||I wasn't?  I think it's because I didn't have a clear idea what I was supposed to do at first.  XD But I caught on.  I'm a quick learner.    So the next verse I want to sing the main part and then...|||It frustrates me when introverts expect me to read their minds or something.  :bored:|||I love making music with you.  I think it just hit me right now how fun that was.  Thanks!  :)|||I love you.  Just as friends, of course.  :wink:|||Dear ENTJ type 8,  What is your problem?  Why do you look at me like that and cringe anytime you are forced to compliment me on something?  What did I ever do to deserve being treated like this? ...|||Why is it so amazing to me to have someone stick up for me or do something for me?  Like, I get to a stuck point where I don't think I can take care of something by myself and then someone comes...|||Holla back!  You're quite gorgeous yourself!  :wink:|||Anyone up for chatting tonight?  Today is my Friday of sorts.  :happy:  Mibbit?  TC?  Let me know!|||D'awww....   Couldn't be the lovely car seat in the background, could it?  :laughing:|||Hello, again, fellow ESFJs...  http://i1243.photobucket.com/albums/gg546/HunnyBunny4578/8D09319A-F57C-4985-AEB6-82CBB7F2D7F3-387-000000345D4EB12F_zps379437f6.jpg|||I had a pretty crappy day at work today.  Anything and everything that could go wrong, did!  Luckily I was able to let a lot of it go.  But, man, days like this just suck the life out of me.  I...|||Can someone explain to me why ESFJ is an Elephant?  Because they have good memory or something??  :confused:|||I've said it before and I'll say it again....  Thanks INFPs for putting up with my presence and my posts.  **hugs INFPs**|||I'm bringing this thread alive again.  This should be stickied.  Ugh, I feel like such a BITCH today.  I don't know what my problem is.  There are certain threads that I really enjoy - except - a...|||MHO - but I think she created the problem here by having her boyfriend move in.  That creates an awkward situation to begin with.  Doesn't sound like this ESFJ is in a very healthy state right now if...|||Wow, Meeps!!  Good going! I think it's all the HUNDREDS of Hugs you doll out on a daily basis.  :tongue:  Keep up the good work!   ...|||Have you asked yourself why you are feeling nothing?  Especially if this person was one of the most important people to you? Maybe you are just in the denial stage of grief?  5 Stages of Grief:...|||This is GREAT advice. Thank you for posting this. You sound like you've learned a lot in life and have put practical and moral application behind it. You show maturity and growth in this post and I...|||I hear you and feel you.  For me, it's not like I act like a different person, but I'm so good at reading people and I'm so interested in others perspectives, that I try to be more like them, in a...|||A few, based on my opinion:  ENTJ - Bear ENTP - Cross between a monkey and a fox?  :laughing:   I'll have to think about this and come back for more.  :happy:|||Here's a good resource too:  Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder [Paul Mason MS, Randi Kreger]  I have an Ex who has...|||General question for any/all ENFJs reading this.  Are all ENFJs very positive people?  Most that I have met are very positive, glass half full-types.  :)  Also, what Enneagram are you?|||I have decided that I need to hang out in the ENFJ forums more often.  I relate so much to ENFJs and you guys are all just so, awesome!  :happy:|||I'm so sorry you are going through this.  I've been there.  *hugs* Listening to music and going on walks helps.  Also, surrounding yourself with people who care about you and keeping busy helps too....|||I'm TOTALLY like that, too! Although, every now & then I enjoy some downtime. :wink:|||Oh, I remember you now. You're the guy who told me about your fetish for wearing women's underwear.|||Maybe the better question is, who are YOU? :dry:|||Similar to me: I'm 2w3, 9w1, 6w5  I like to base personalities on cognitive functions.  Which cognitive functions you use most have more to do with personality than just E/I preference (IMHO). ...|||Dang, I always miss all the fun stuff.  :sad:|||My INFJ best friend introduced me and I was hooked.  I love learning about people and trying to figure them out, so learning more about personality psychology and self awareness really stimulates me....|||I can kinda relate.  I'm a 2w3.  Love the enneagram, btw.  :wink: Even as a two, I have a really strong sense of needing to feel accomplished and I put a lot on how other see me.  I relate a lot to...|||I hate my ex.  He just accidentally called me and left a 4 minute message on my vm of him and this girl he's with right now.  Even though I don't want to be with him and getting away from him was...|||Wondering if any ESFJs were like me as a child.   I remember being so dreamy, a lot more free-spirited than I am now, and I was very very sensitive.  I cried about everything.  Hmmm... In a lot of...|||Because ESFJs are selfless and giving and LOOOOOVE other people.  Plus, most ESFJs are good looking.  :wink:|||I vote ESFP. Lots of positive energy, fun, love attention, etc etc.|||Sorry I'm late to post about this, but I think you knew in your heart of hearts that this guy was bad news. My gut is always right - no matter how much I try to reason my way into something....|||Ahem.  I can go toe to toe with an ENTP any day.  Try me.  :dry:|||Tonight is one of those nights where I think it would feel good to just cry and cry...  (pmsisawesomenotreally)|||Anyone chatting tonight?|||I'm so obsessed with the song, Human Nature right now - including all the covers and variations on it.  Especially the cover by 2 Cellos. These guys are amazing.   http://youtu.be/CVOPGYygc5E|||So I was out to dinner with a group of people tonight and across the way I see a guy and girl on a date. You can tell they are on a date. You can see the tension, yet they appear to be having a great...|||YES!!  And those of you who were on TC that night have seen the proof when I had HORRIBLE hiccups and it worked.  It's really the only thing that has worked for me.   :crazy:|||Omg I just read this.  HAHAHAHA  Ok, so here's what happened.  I have been having a hard time getting to sleep lately, so last night I took one of my Ambiens (prescription).  It's been a long time...'