'3:24 pm - Saturday  I miss you  I miss you, I miss you.  It's always in my head; Your hands, how soft they are in mine.  Your eyes, their gentleness.  Your smile, Your touch, Your laugh.|||3:24 pm - Saturday  I miss you  I miss you, I miss you.  It's always in my head; Your hands, how soft they are in mine.  Your eyes, their gentleness.  Your smile, Your touch, Your laugh.|||Warning: Fragile. Will cry if tenderly kissed.|||My dearest ISTJ scientist,  You'll never know this, but you broke my heart the moment you walked into my life.   It was as though you came out of my dreams and into reality. You are everything I...|||the first kiss i ever had was when i was too young.  I dare you to kiss her! the knots in my stomach  were the wrong kind for kisses,   and i was too scared to wipe him off my lips.  i like...|||Usually ESTPs. Hands down, haha. I don't have a problem with them, but we think so differently that we tend to clash pretty hard.|||I have a fearful-avoidant attachment style.   I rated 4.72 on anxiety and 5.83 on avoidance.|||When I was younger, I would mistype as ISFP. As I got older and my values and interests narrowed down, that happened less, but I'd still mistype as INTP, ISFP, or INFJ. Now, the only time I'll...|||Usually INFP. Sometimes INFJ. Very different types, I know, but it happens.|||It's not that I want to be single, at all. It just happens to be... easier. I've got strong values and uncommon goals that I refuse to change for someone else. Whoever I date would have to share...|||Warning: Severe ADHD. Interact at your own risk.  Warning: Fragile.  Warning: Easily attached. Difficult to love.|||Most of the time, I would rather be alone and lonely than tolerated, even loved, by others and misunderstood.|||Flowers. They're delicate and beautiful.|||I did for a while as well when I was younger until I saw that it pushed a lot of people away from me. Then I just kind of took my tendency towards independence and ran with it.|||Yeah, I feel the same way. But it's good to know that the fear of committing due to the feeling of existential crisis will eventually fade. :happy: Though I do wish I'd understood that better when I...|||I agree. Unless I am sure about something upfront, the word no tends to vacate my vocabulary. I'd rather prevent the need to extricate myself from a relationship or situation purely because I know...|||I've realized that this has had a huge impact on my life. I fear commitment for numerous reasons, but I think it's rooted in a fear of losing the possibility of new things, of losing the...|||The first time I met a true INFJ in person, I quickly knew I wasn't one! Haha. It solidified my INFP status to myself when I met another one. I could see and feel the difference between Fi-Ne (INFP)...|||You have articulated the epitome of love and attraction, in my opinion. Though you were not looking for sympathy, I am sorry for your loss. Love of that kind that lasts is rare and beautiful.   I...|||Thanks for sharing! :happy: This thread is helpful. I thought I was a 4w5 for a while, but something just seemed off. After reading this and some thought, I'm preeetty sure I'm not a 4. :laughing: ...|||I am terrified of becoming someone I never intended  to be. I'm afraid that my dreams are too big. I am afraid that I will have to spend my whole life settling - in dreams, work, love, finances,...|||Prose poetry is allowed, right? ;D    How to love your anxious lover   1. There will be days so full of fear and pain that the galaxies you saw in her eyes will vanish. Suddenly you will see...|||I can be much more cynical and self-critical than I lead others to believe. I know this is not a good thing, but sometimes (like lately) I just don't care.   I'm slow to open up and reveal my inner...|||I was pretty shocked at your interpretation of the OP's actions. Though upon seeking to look at what you said objectively, I can see where you're coming from.   Something to consider is that she...|||I love the IDEA of opening up and falling in love, of having a healthy, intimate relationship, but when it comes down to it actually happening, I'm terrified. Keep in mind that my attachment style is...|||None. I've met a couple of ENFPs in real life, but I've yet to meet another INFP.|||At the moment, my mind is vacillating endlessly, and I hate it.    why do you use my name? why do you keep using my name?...  you're just polite. you're just attentive to detail.  for god's...|||Dear you,  I'd like to tell you how I feel, but I know that it is far too soon. I will do my best to be realistic, to take a step back when I'm getting too emotional, and to see you for who you...|||I.  my name sounds strange coming from your lips.   i don't know what to make of it; whether to keep you in my head, or let you see my heart, see the bundle of paradoxes i am|||I would rather starve. Hands down. I could never do such a thing!|||I'd rebel in a heartbeat. This is one situation where I might be angry enough to actually get violent, regardless of whether it endangered my life. I wouldn't put up with an authority like that! Haha.|||This sums it up pretty well for me, minus the first two things you mentioned. I'll add my experience as an INFP and try not to be redundant. XD  - It's like being able to fully see the world with...|||I have identified as a 495 for a while, but I'm beginning to question that. Here's my questionnaire. XD   Prerequisites  What age range are you in? 20-25  Any disorders or conditions we should...|||Pardon my lack of knowledge on this. Is it possible for someone to have their core and fix share the same wing, or would that indicate a mistyping? (ex: 4w5 core, 6w5 fix)|||1. I think it's based more on nurture than nature. I don't just sit in this constant state of anxiety. I am highly anxious when a situation triggers that anxiety, which causes me to relive previous...|||Consent given.   I don't even know what I am anymore, haha. I've tested pretty consistently as a 4w5 for my core type. I've also tested as a 6w? and a 9w1, but neither of those seem right to me. I...|||the first kiss i ever had was when i was too young.  I dare you to kiss her! one boy said to another.     the knots in my stomach  were the wrong kind for kisses.  my nose scrunched up.  a...|||You were a true gentleman, Through and through.  Polite, charming, and gracious.  You were a dream.  I could have danced with you all night.  You made me feel  Like the only girl in the room. ...|||Little brown faces and deep brown eyes Small, wrinkled hands that fit perfectly into mine  This is what haunts me.  I wonder if I'll ever return to you  If I will ever be able to express my love...|||Okay, thanks.|||Dear Self  Dear self, There will be days When all you can hear is, I need to kill myself. I shouldn't be here.  I can't exist.  I need to die.|||Dear ISFP(s),  Lately I've missed you soooo stinking much! I love your distinct, giggly, bubbly, explosive laughter. I miss laughing with you. I miss late night heart-to-hearts.   I miss you,...|||.... Maybe I wasn't clear enough.  I can't view the threads on the full website or on the mobile website.|||I can't see the threads on either skin.|||I should also note that I have no problem viewing threads when I'm logged out.|||I'm posting via my computer at the moment.|||I think it might be my phone, but I can't tell, and I don't know how I would fix it? I've tried deleting/clearing all of my history, data, etc. on my phone, I've tried switching browsers.... The...|||Yeah, that's how I felt about a good portion of them.  Still got a 29/36, so I guess that's not bad. :)|||Thank you! This actually means a lot to me, especially knowing you have an understanding of my struggle. Most of the time when people hear my story, they just give me a sympathetic look and say...|||Thanks! This is really helpful. Up until about a year or so ago, I had a really hard time differentiating between my ADD tendencies and my INFP-ness; they can be quite deceiving together in that way!...'