'AdroElectro I agree with intelligence, a sense of humor, and similar values. I understand what you mean by you just KNOW. It's just a certain type of connection. What I like is someone who you can...|||I try not to idealize a perfect partner in my mind, but I completely and totally do anyway. I just want someone to connect withx97someone who I can talk to anything about. Generally, more introverted...|||The heart of life by John Mayer.  Pain throws your heart to the ground. Love turns the whole thing around. Fear is a friend who's misunderstood, but I know the heart of life is good.|||Yesterday on Friday night I went to a concert! My usual Friday night though? Usually staying in, or hanging with family or friends.|||Kyusaku  Don't worry about what you said, I understand that you were letting your frustration out. I wasn't really offended, I just wanted to tell you that ENFJs really do commit, but I see that...|||I am an ENFJ, and my INFP boyfriend of a year and two months recently broke up with me. You sound a bit like him... But I want to tell you that while I see what you meant when you said that INFPs are...|||I have no emotion whatsoever!|||Thank you|||Thanks, I will try that for sure. I think it will help too. Unfortunately I don't live anywhere near a beach, but a bike ride is definitely doable. Also I should stop contacting him, right? He's too...|||I wish I had read this earlier. I did not realize that the inferior function is most likely responsible. I so want to help him, to let him know that I am here to talk. But I doubt he will talk to me...|||Well he has now given me that space. He broke up with me, because he felt that he was going to just hurt me worse than what was already happening. I understand yet I'm completely devastated. As...|||The inferior function... of course! He was and I guess still is under a huge amount of stress. But unfortunately.. He broke up with me. So there's not much I can do now. He is 17 by the way.|||Need help here, please reply to me!! As I mentioned before, my boyfriend is an INFP, and I made this thread about a year ago. I had noticed some changes in him. He was more distant, way less...|||Thank you :)|||I know... I completely agree...|||So I did this because I have been confused on my personality type. I got ISTJ... So, ENFP? I was torn between ENFJ and ENFP, I just couldn't figure out which one I am more like. Does anyone know if...|||Well what you explained is exactly what I mean on this thread, nothing offensive or bias. My point in the thread is that maybe N types communicate better with each other and of course the same with...|||With all people or just certain ones is the question?|||Well, I can communicate well with anyone too. I'm talking about nonverbal communication, and how it seems that I do that best with fellow intuitive types.|||This is something that I have picked up on. I am an iNtutive type (either ENFP or ENFJ) and I feel that I communicate much better with other intuitive types. Does anyone else feel this way? With...|||I am lurking because INTJs are very interesting and intriguing to me. I have many friends who are INTJs, and I think they are cool.|||INTPs seem to really think a lot of ENFJs. On here, and in real life, at least the one I know of. They tend to think the INTP and ENFJ match is nearly perfect. Why is that...|||Yes, definitely agreed. It's always important not to assume those things. And our reasons are different sometimes and things that are a big deal to me aren't to him and vice versa. It's definitely...|||Losing people I love, not being able to help, no one listening to me.  I also fear drowning, i mean I can get into water, i can swim, but i do fear drowning pretty bad  Spiders, wasps. With...|||Ah, i see. INFJ is what she claims to be. She's a very confusing person i honestly have no clue.|||I love this thread. I just wanna throw out what's bothering me, I can't keep it in i can't i can't i can't!!!  First of all, I have 2 papers to write and I'm worried they're gonna be crappy and I...|||It's not your fault why are you sorry? are you ok? why does that matter? don't be so hard on yourself why can't you decide for once?|||I have 2 friends and they are an INFJ girl and an ESFP guy. The ESFP guy really likes her, and he basically worships the ground she walks on. I don't think she is interested, but it's hard to tell....|||Ohh it's not that similar! I did not threaten press any sort of charges, and never said anything hateful to him, i actually cared about him and the whole experience was kind of hard for me. He backed...|||Oh I know! Reading about INFPs and ENFJs, I said the same thing. I need to get me an INFP. Then I had this friend take the test again (he had first scored at INTJ, because his answers were influenced...|||idk, up to you shutting up now I'm sorry i know this backpack has a hole in it, but i can't switch it for a different one because I'd feel bad for it oh, i can't because (insert terrible...|||Aww. I'm not an INFP but my boyfriend is. He had his first job interview a couple weeks ago at a grocery store. He was super nervous, he actually puked on his way there because he was so nervous. He...|||INFPs are very welcome here! and yes, it's true!|||Yes yes yes!|||Yeah, my boyfriend is too, the guy i described up there :proud:|||Oh yes, i completely agree!!|||Hello everyone~  I'm an ENFJ, and I know one INFP that I'm aware of, and we get along so well. We understand each other completely, and we could talk for hours and not get tired of each other....|||Right now at this very minute... Say you will- Foreigner|||No, he is an INFP|||For my current boyfriend and I, this is our second time dating. The first time, we didn't know each other well enough on a deeper level, he was too shy to make the first move, and I felt awkward and...|||I have never met a confirmed ISTP :unsure: I want to someday, they seem cool! I wonder if we would get along. I tend to get along best with other NF types. Like my ENFJ friend and I can talk forever....|||Yes, I think this is true!! I do that sometimes I think. I am VERY borderline j/p so that depends on who I'm around. Sometimes, if I'm around p's, I'll (not consciously) be more J, because I feel...|||There are stereotypical ENFJs though! But yes, i totally agree with you too about the energy thing :)|||I'm an ENFJ, and I would be pretty annoyed by that too. I don't think I do that. I think, from what I have read on here, ENFJ guys are different from ENFJ girls...|||Yeah, you would think an ENFJ would understand about flirting and stuff. I do get weirdly jealous when my boyfriend is alone with another girl. Only when they are alone though. Like if I'm there and...|||Yes, I am an ENFJ and I am also kind of shy. But i know I am an extrovert because of where I get my energy. Around the right people, I can be outgoing, but sometimes I'm quite reserved. I think it's...|||Me- ENFJ Brother- very INTJ Father- ENTJ(P?) My father is hard to type. He tested as an ENTJ, with 1% judging. But I have read about ENTP and he has many qualities of an ENTP. He also has ENTJ...|||I know one INTP that I know of. He pursued me once, and I did turn him down... I think he's a great friend to have around but he talks so negatively that I find it depressing. After I told him I...|||Well I do get a sense of guilt that is terrible sometimes, but not to the point of really harming myself, that's just a little too far and very unhealthy... The guilt that i get is more, like if i...|||My guess- ENTJ. I mean, the executive? haha. He's seems more extroverted than introverted, and a lot of business leaders, entrepreneurs, etc. are ENTJs! Also, consider ENTP...'