'Well, MuChApArAdOx turned out to be a bit of a jerk (Their comment about all infjs are spineless whiny etc etc), but I still would like to try to help answer the question.    I think that...|||I feel like my issue is probably common for a lot of Infs.  The issue is the people pleasing combined with wanting to help and understand others, contrasting a high standards on the self leading to...|||Not really.  I tend to stay pretty calm.  I actually enjoy debating - IF the other person is not getting emotional.  I love those kinds of debates.  I'm also very open to being wrong so it doesn't...|||enfj?|||self-actualization.  close enough to 1 word I guess.|||Not sure what you mean by common knowledge?  But if you mean names, places, directions, etc.  then I am horrible at this.  Otherwise, I am good with more typical measures of intelligence like use...|||No I don't think I can.|||-|||-|||When I was a kid I had a big crush on Luke Skywalker and Ethan Embry (another blonde innocent looking guy).  *embarrassed* 277906  As an adult, hrm characters I think are sexy would be...  Eric...|||I guess I felt bad for the girl in blue.  It seemed like she didn't want to be there and the girl in red made her go.    Ehh, not sure what to say about the slip.|||Plans get cancelled last minute =  No this doesn't bother me usually.  Unless it's something I was really looking forward to.  Most of the time I am fine with it because I tend to feel a bit relieved...|||I like sharing my feelings.  But I have a hard time doing it because I feel I'm going to be judged and I don't trust other people to really understand.  Unless I am very close to them.    It's not...|||I would say that being able to crystallize my feelings would be it.  Before writing I usually am not sure why I am feeling the way I am.  But when I start writing it all flows out and then when I'm...|||When I try to PM you I get the message    Hch has exceeded their stored private messages quota and cannot accept further messages until they clear some space.   Quote me when you've cleared...|||Your MBTI - INFJ  Mother's MBTI - ISTP  Father's MBTI - ISFJ  Your astrological sign - Leo|||And I'd hoped that I edited fast enough so noone would notice.  Well it's more accurate :).|||troubled|||I haven't had any prophetic dreams.     But I have had a lot of fantastical dreams that seem cinematic and vivid with detailed storylines.  Aliens, fantasy creatures, turning into animals, flying,...|||delete|||Does this excerpt apply to you?  Yes pretty well.       When attempting to seek closure in a certain way, while the other person sees an alternative way to seek closure; how does this make you...|||No I don't think that I have a jerk side to me.  *adjusts my halo*  Seriously though, I most always maintain politeness to people regardless of their position.  If there is a time where I thought I...|||I have gone through the same thing.  I feel I have issues with my identity because I often see different sides to things.  It's yes probably a part of your identity like carolineatlantis said.  I...|||I am going through a similar issue with an INTP.  We've been together a long time yet I just cannot bring myself to end things.  I just do not feel passion for him and I feel incredible guilt because...|||Yes I am familiar with my dark side.  *Refrains from a Star Wars reference*  To me, you can see any person as good or bad.  In general, both externally and internally I choose to see the good sides...|||I guess I would think about what is causing you to not act?  What would give you the courage to act?  Is there anything you can do to make the situation safer for you so you can act?  E.g. when I...|||I have often read that there is a great synergy between the INFJ and the ENFP.  So I was wondering if any ENFP's would like to do a completely platonic voice Skype chat and talk about our lives,...|||Hmm, well once there was a lady (my ex boss) who I was doubly proved wrong about my gut impressions of her.  Initially I felt she seemed superficial (in her dress and mannerisms) yet I knew I did not...|||After reading your thread, I would peg you as maybe an ENFJ.    Because of how you said you spoke up to champion your opinions at times you definitely seem more extroverted.  Also I feel this way...|||I've heard some people claim with a passion that personality does not change: That if you tested differently, it's because it took time for your innate personality to mature, not that it actually...|||This is funny.  I've had this issue.  I guess I'd take option #3: Accept that you have limits and try to capitalize on your strengths.  Focusing on how you can't do this or can't do that can really...|||I have written in journals ever since I was like 12 years old.  I love them as an outlet.  I would usually write about whatever thing I am upset about, but sometimes it would be just ponderings about...|||IMO, if something has had an emotional impact, then it stands out in the memory.    I know this is kindof weird, but I still remember the day when I was 12 years old, looking into the reflection of...|||I definitely admire your (the ESTP's) charisma and courage.  You do not have the anxieties that I have and I wish I could be more like that.  I admire how you pay attention to the world and can make...|||I think that helping people can help.  Even if you cannot cure the world's ills, you can make a difference on a micro-level.  Imagine some of the people who went berserk having a difficult time, and...|||I feel like the thing that helps me the most is creating a plan.  Print out a blank calendar and write down what you want to get accomplished each day.  Being able to see on paper (or screen) that...|||If it doesn't I'm changing my answer.|||What a great poll and what wonderful little stories to read!  I went with Fisher King because you get to live forever.  Also, I feel that being able to leave the castle for a few days at a time is...|||I feel like she used to be a sort of rock or source of strength for you in some ways.    I guess what I would say to you is #1. The world is certainly not all cruel and cold.  There are lots of...|||ATTRACTIVE: Someone who can be honest and open: who can poke fun at my personality flaws, but they have a really good heart and know when it's too much and will do what they can to prevent me from...|||I'm making a career change now and am finishing off a computer science degree.  I saw a study that said that INFJ's were very rare in the computer science field.  Though interestingly there are a few...|||It may be not quite what you meant to ask but.. I've heard of people calling INFJ's manipulative before.    I'm definitely always wanting the other person to be happy, and I do not have the heart...|||Yeah, I've learned about myself that if I write emails or blogs or whatever at night time I will regret it.  I get the same way, and I often am embarrassed of what I said the night before or realize...|||For all those who said that this statements means that this is somehow Mickie's fault, you're wrong.  When people get broken up with and go through this kind of pain these kinds of reactions of...|||I would have answered: Not tatooed, but don't care either way, if it were an option.  Nothing wrong with it imo.|||Supersede,  Wow.  That was a bit much to read!  But I did, and you also are a great writer by the way.  I love how INTP's write so succinctly and logically.    I feel I have some insight here as...|||I think that we can't limit ourselves by type.  I'm sure that we all may have certain twists in our own unique personality that can allow us to fully enjoy what is outside the expected enjoyments...|||I also feel that I get a good feel for people without consciously knowing how I came across these feelings.  Usually it's because if there is an inconsistency in how someone acts, it sticks out to...|||It may take an ENFP to see your depth through your shell.  I have the same issues.  IRL, there are tons of people who never get to really know the real me even though I've known them for years.  It...|||Hmm, well I'm not looking, but I wanted to comment.  I get the feeling that INFJ's do value material-ness.  They want security so possibly may not be quite the right type.  I'm getting more of a...'