I'm so glad I figured that out! I definitely believe feelings do need to be taken into account and weighed with everything else...but yes, I agree that in the end things should be based in fact.  ...|||It's okay, I worry enough for both of us.|||D'aww, I have a huge soft spot for men crying at sad/sappy stuffs. (Sad movie, groom seeing his bride, etc.) Like, I actually get gleeful about it. It's just so beautiful to see them lose it...stupid...|||Absolutely. Usually when the seasons change...and my depression lifts a bit...I have moments of pure euphoria brought on by smells, sounds and sights. Usually natural, and usually reminiscent of...|||Ahaha   Virgo...idk that I'm much help here. But I'll talk, accurate or not.   If it wasn't for the blocking-on-facebook thing, I think he would tell you if it was over.   ISTP's don't like raw...|||I'm good at reading people, but I get cocky, and then I read things wrong. And I'm just having a grand old time, I think you might be having a grand old time, and I say something with humor and...|||Hello beloved INFJs!   I come to you tonight with a problem. I'm posting with permission on behalf of Lita592. Lita is one of my absolute best friends, and is just pretty fantastic. She's the best...|||D'aww, I love you guys. <3 *hugs*|||1. I do love you! You asked me questions I want to answer, and that gives me the warm fuzzies in your general direction!  2. I answered this question yesterday on Google plus, actually! I'll...|||Sad...I really feel for him. But understandable. *shrugs*|||Any questions! Any questions are better than no questions!|||Sugarpeas!|||Questions people, questions!|||It seems there are pretty big gaps between female and male ENFPs, so I can only really comment to a point, but I get my feels hurt. Super easy. It causes me a tremendous amount of pain if I don't...|||I resent those.   :tongue:|||Thank my posts and start a discussion with me. I love it. And talk about yourself! Share fun stuff. I must say, one of my favorite ISTP traits is the *shares fun stuff* trait. I will usually...|||Oh holy crap, no.  I am incredibly self conscious and hard on myself and tattered inside...my feelings get hurt at the drop of a hat, and I take everything to heart and so, so personally. I read...|||I'm loving all this ENFPxISTP love around here today. <3 :blushed:    I'm having my dad bring home ground beef for cheeseburgers tonight. For obvious reasons. But then again, isn't EVERY day...|||Nobody ever replied to you! D: Well, I'm going to.  I think these are spot on! Although I'm still going back and forth between ISFJ and ESFJ for Chris. And (Spoilers?) since the emotion lord IS...|||Healthy ISTP's are no BS, straight shooting, fun to be with...mind always racing and creating like ours, but incredibly grounded. Help me stay grounded in reality. Which isn't ALWAYS fun, but they're...|||Thank you! >.<   I love INFJs and ISTPs. A lot. ISFJs are pretty cool, too, once you get to know them. :kitteh: I tend to be fond of people rather than types in general. Trying to get over my...|||There it is, then. Haha.  Free Jung + Enneagram Personality Test  This has been my favorite test by far. Even when I'm in my more withdrawn, introverted periods, I still test out ENFP. Which to...|||Jeeze, everyone here is so amazing. I was not born with anything approaching artistic talent, but I taxidermied a rat last month, and I was kinda proud of him in his crystal--eyed glory. I kinda...|||That's so weird. o.O  I'm not convinced we live in the same country.|||I think Japanese and Korean are crazy pretty. Leaning towards Korean. I only know a few worlds and phrases, but I connect to that language somehow...I feel like if I was going to learn a second...|||I'm a very new ENFP parent- and was parented by an xnfp as well-   Let's see.  My mother's shortcoming was definitely consistency. Nothing was consistent in my life except the lack of...|||Absolutely. My evenings are usually spent having a series of comfortable silences with friends.|||lol...where do you live? So I can stay far, far away...I hate being regulated on anything, you tell me my dogs HAVE to be schooled and have a stupid piece of paper to show it, I'm out.  -proud mama...|||Welcome. :kitteh: I'm surprised you have social anxiety when you're tucked safely behind a screen. I have social anxiety in person pretty badly, but I always feel safe here. :D Good on you for...|||It's a night for INTPs! :D That's a good thing. My dad's an INTP, so I'm a little familiar with you guys. You're great. :kitteh:  Welcome welcome! And get to posting. :D|||Amused me. :D Welcome! Get to posting!|||Haha, welcome, new INTP. :P We expect great things from you. :kitteh:|||Dear ExFx child of mine:   I'm sorry I'm not everything you deserve. I feel like I'm failing you every minute in my own self-absorbedness. I know when you're a teenager and you hear the story of...|||Familiar? Not really. It started the year I was born, and ended when I was 7. I was aware of it in the way you might be aware of any other piece of pop culture that doesn't effect you- 'lots of...|||I don't understand enneagram as well as I should, so I don't understand the 'wings', but I'm definitely a 2 as my main number thingy.  I thought you might be, too. ^-^ I'm pleased I was right.    ...|||I took some not half-bad selfies today. *shares*  http://i1356.photobucket.com/albums/q740/Ahtaeki_Akuti/2014-09-07_zpsca3dfe34.jpg...|||Thank you. :blushed:  Eh, I've talked about it till I'm blue in the face. I know I'm not telling you anything when I say I process by talking about something over and over until it finally heals...|||http://i1356.photobucket.com/albums/q740/Ahtaeki_Akuti/7041ea0fd6f7c6c819182efd09b2803f_zps7a3f0ef0.jpeg http://i1356.photobucket.com/albums/q740/Ahtaeki_Akuti/hug1_zpsb84807f8.jpg...|||As a teen, I thought facial hair was icky. Probably 'cause my dad's always had a full beard. As a grownup, I still think mustaches (on their own) are icky...but a full beard? Bring it. Go big or go...|||I don't know, I have pretty high tolerance for both.   but this:    I relate to that, but it's more like...I become obsessed with people I'm in love with. I used to not understand why that...|||*bear hugs back* I'm really glad that helped. I hoped what I was saying was what you needed, and not me just projecting onto your thread, haha.   I am okay, thank you. It's fresh...about 2 months...|||Dragon, all the way. I like the idea of riding a powerful, potentially destructive beast through the skies...I'm not a huge fan of horses. I love them, I've owned them...but I'm kinda over them.|||I spend my alone time with a close friend on Skype (voice), quietly doing our own things, every once in awhile showing the other something, or sharing a brief bit of conversation. Somehow this lets...|||*applauds* ^Yes.|||You just made me go all mushy inside. This is exactly why I surround myself with a few select beautiful, introverted minds. <3|||1. Do you ever actually get over that person? I don't think so. after dating several other people and having years pass, I'm gonna say no. I've finally come to terms with the fact we'll never be...|||You're not alone! I am with you there. When my mom left I went through this, 'can't trust people, therefore can't fully love people' thing. It's hard when people who you thought weren't capable of...|||Pssh, anyone that really knows you knows you aren't actually being mean! Of course it takes some adjusting, but I love your teases. It helps me be more playful and tease back. :D|||**hugs everyone**  Thanks for being xNFPs, guys.|||Psst...it's masturbation.  Yes, I gave this exact subject way too much thought. :kitteh:  http://i1356.photobucket.com/albums/q740/Ahtaeki_Akuti/Bioshock_infinite_lutece_twins_zps11fd2d06.jpg