'http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jCSe66pWNmc|||As an INFJ, accepting others comes naturally through empathy, but that creates more problems sometimes. You get the realization that people change, but they change slowly and iteratively. As a...|||ESTJ and ISTJ are the worst fucking types an INFJ could have for parents.....  ESTJ mom, so fucking controlling, trying to get involved in EVERYTHING in my life. I'm NOT like my ESFP sister, I may...|||ESTPs won't mature in our sense for a loooooooooooooong time, and quite honestly, I'm astounded by the few ESTPs who are actually in committed relationships before 30.  It really sucks for INFJs...|||I'd get bored people after awhile if EVERYBODY was an INFJ, especially if the world is lacking in Te and Se  The INFJ, with other introverted intuitives, are that special somebody you have in your...|||lol what, $100 for all your classes? impressive =]  I think for the PLUS loan your parents have to start paying that off almost immediately, it's almost like a monthly payment plan. Interest is...|||Also, if you haven't done this already, you can reduce your total cost of tuition by these methods:  1) Living in an on-campus apartment or dormitory and having a campus meal plan is usually more...|||Sounds like your State/school are skimping out on the grants, if you need to APPLY for them. And they give financial aid based on your parent's reported income. If your parents are making way too...|||haha yeah, I did consider the possibility that your post was a vent as well =]  On that note, why the hell can't I just meet my INFJ girl soul-mate right now and be happy for the rest of my life...|||You are here: The Venting Thread for INFJs|||It all depends on your people skills, your skill/willingness to work in a technical setting, and if you are very ambitious in terms of career/wealth.  Also for the last one, be aware of the...|||Spanish Teacher/Tutor Pros: You like it Job market seems relatively stable and easy to find a new job, although not too large 55k is good pay straight out of college, especially considering it's...|||As for business, you can either go the accounting route (less potential income but still high, less competitive work environment, stable, but math based) or something like finance for investment...|||What are your strengths in terms of subject matter and people skills? Also, what do you/have you enjoyed doing?  Btw, if you think Computer Engineering or Comp Sci is math driven, stay away from...|||What's your parent's household income on their 1040? What's your annual cost for room/board/tuition? Private/out-of-state or in-state school?  If I recall correctly, max limits for the Stafford...|||1. What is more important to you? The ends or The means? Ends  2. In your opinion, what is your biggest flaw? Inability to live in the moment at will. Key word: at will  3. What do you secretly...|||ESTJ and ESTP, then I could get jiggy with those INFP and INFJ girls, yaknow?|||If you are going to ask for advice, make it easy for us to glance at your question and understand what you are saying, not make us do more work.|||Yeah I do this too. People correct my metaphors alot because they aren't accustomed to metaphors used in verbal speech. I sometimes wonder if they think I'm an idiot :mellow:  Of course, the...|||I'm organized, but in my own way. An ExxJ might think my shit is disorganized (they usually do) but I know exactly where everything is.  With nonmaterial things (Not being late, planning my...|||You are correct in that GRE is required by any good engineering graduate/doctoral program in the US.  Are you aware of the SAT? The GRE is strikingly similar to the SAT in exam format, point...|||Blue, because I'm a guy, I have to like blue or green, or otherwise I'm a homo.|||For the high school job you had: Managers/employers don't care about high school-level jobs (cashier, stockperson, whatever). Only ones that they kind of like are ones that show you developed/have...|||+1  All you need baby|||If ~$150 each month is what you can afford in your budget for helping them, then I suggest doing this.  Don't give them the ~150 to help with their 'smaller' expenses. Instead, save it up yourself....|||Ni - Possibilities in my Mind's eye as opposed to whats right here and now or what I'm familiar with  Fe - Picking up on other's feelings through eye contact, facial expressions, tone, diction,...|||It's not quite clear who you want to help (your brother/brother's dad with the moving-out issue, or your mother with the grandmother issue), but from context it sounds like you want to help your...|||It's a great feeling because it's just a different experience from my normal Ni mindset.  I usually get it when I'm playing guitar or piano and I have to focus on getting the right chords or notes....|||One thing that I've realized lately is that as an INFJ I feel like I'm better in a 1-on-1 setting, but that's just my own perspective. In a group setting, others are fine with the way I interact,...|||I personally haven't tried any of these drugs, but I want to clarify that your characteristics seen with N's has more to do with J vs P than it does N vs S.  P's 'live in the moment' while J's...|||About 2 years ago, I've been thinking to myself I'm not like anybody else I know, is something wrong with me? Maybe some sort of personality test online will explain myself to me. So I found MBTI...|||Not only this, but the Fi-Te and Ti-Fe in terms of function order are 1st-4th, not 2nd-3rd. Much easier to distinguish. Because of this, INFPs and INTPs are worlds apart.  When you are alone, how...|||I learned how to type before taking those Proper Typing classes in grade school. As a result, I was used to my own way of typing.  What about you guys?|||Having a general goal (short term, long term, stupid, meaningful) and meeting it. The satisfaction of meeting a goal is how I 'feel' successful.  Personal goals for me would be continuing to make...|||I don't 'approach' people first usually. I let them approach, and then if I like them and they like me, we become friends.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_xFh7XFC_w&feature=relmfu|||Good shit, quick thinking|||You know you're an INFJ when...  After you go through a big experience (new boyfriend/girlfriend, lost your virginity, etc) you tell fellow INFJs on PerC before family and friends.|||I have one, on my left deltoid, just high enough to be covered by short sleeves.  It's a nice tribalized dolphin in black ink.|||Question about Enneagram, if I take the test and get highest choices for type 9, then type 1, etc. etc. and then get SO/SX/SP, does that make me 9w1?  I don't quite understand the format, I see...|||Nothing is really a 'bad' major, because unless your specifically studying for medical/law/vet/dental school, you will probably not end up with your first position being completely related to your...|||One thing, the banks are more lenient about not having a cosigner, but you can always apply to Sallie Mae and see if will give you a loan.|||No cosigner? How old are you? If you are like most other college students financially (not much credit history besides other student loans and a credit card or two) it will be very tough to get a...|||Hmm not husband, but I have been told many times I'd be a great father|||An AA is practically useless. In this economy it's even hard for a BS to get a job that corresponds exactly to his/her major.  1) If you know how to drive well and can drive stick, be a hotel valet...|||No MBTI basis, huh? ESTJ Relationships   Being young and being immature have little to do with each other. On the other hand, type/function determine the way people think and perceive, on a core...|||http://verydemotivational.files.wordpress.com/2010/04/129164721933303870.jpg|||How unperceptive =/  My mom is a healthy ESTJ in her 50's.  Despite the fact that she is my one and only mom, that I love her and we understand each other great (albiet I understand her more than...|||Did he seem to 'get out of his way to do things' around you, things that seemed like they were meant to impress you?  This stuff is more of a natural psychological interaction between ESFJs and...|||I think your boyfriend was 'horrible' because of his main Te, which dominated the style of his conversations, more than Si. I wouldn't date an ESTJ girl either, too cold and controlling.  Should...'