'I can VERY much relate. In fact I'm in the midst of leading towards very concrete, life-changing decisions and quite frankly, its freaking the shit out of me.  Every day I switch off between...|||Definitely! I warn people not to. Its deceiving because I may be laughing but soon as I get a free second you are getting kicked, slapped scratched etc. Whatever it takes to get you OFF. ...|||I hate unrequited love!  Maybe its hot from a distance. But I dunno, when that infatuated, mesmerized side comes out in me I just want it to end! (or for that person to fall madly in love with me....|||Well, I do love you guys! But I dunno if I'm gutsy enough to meet people in real life :/ But for others who are comfortable with this idea go for it!|||Yes. Yes yes yes. Very similar story. I went through some hard times in my early teens. I grew up thinking I was this shy little timid introvert and then over time this crazy, energetic, monster...|||Really skinny guys. NO idea why, maybe I like the boyish look? Only in a non-creepy way :/ Also long eyelashes. sigh. And eyes. Blue or green literally makes me faint.   One thing I always loved...|||Hahah Yes. I concur with all above statements. The cycle for me usually goes like this, walking down the street, observe surroundings, daydream about what I observe, suddenly become aware that I am...|||I have definitely been told my standards are high, but I don't know how to lower them. It just feels unnatural. I've just come to terms with it. As long as they are not unrealistically high what's...|||I was trying to pitch this guy to sponsor a child for this charity I was working for....I asked him what he does. His response, so, I do nude portraits of my lady friends. Then he continued to show...|||I love secondhand stores. They carry awesome styles, not just whats in at the time. Most of my favorite items were secondhand. Just wash it and who cares? What you dont know wont hurt you :wink:...|||Hahah, yeah thats ENFP for you. I had the same issue with piano. When I started guitar I told my friend that she should smack me if I get bored! A good way to keep it interesting is keep learning new...|||I buy mostly vintage things. Anything I wear MUST reflect who I am. I get uncomfortable wearing something that isn't me. Almost like I'm faking. Also A lot of my clothing has very out-there looks....|||Sanguine Phlematic. Yay for being well balanced!  Thanks for posting:laughing:|||Introspective/Nostalgic:   Short Version:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NT9qMTX6c9k&feature=list_related&playnext=1&list=ML4oVf-d_DwKCuwlyLugfcxSizVDvXIjpg   I LOVE THIS SONG! I love trance,...|||Deadmau5 is cool. Ive seen him live a buncha times. Always fun XD  Heres my list, NOSTALGIC/BITTERSWEET   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Kh09MuIfIU|||GOOD LUCK!! I started teaching myself this past summer. Guitar is the best outlet ever, I regret not discovering that earlier.|||YES and YES :crazy:|||All you gotta do is pick up a guitar and learn to play some iron & wine songs. It's addictive. I promise.:wink:|||I suppose that makes sense. I often need time to really dissect and place my emotions. It really doesnt come easy for us ENFPs! But at the same time we NEED to understand them. Hence introverted...|||So, as ENFP I am aware that we are the most introverted of all the extroverted types. I have gone through many phases of introversion to the point that I was knows as 'the shy girl'. This was years...|||Hahah my thoughts exactly!  Hmm, I often get so involved with the stories in my head that Ill actually talk out loud to an imaginary person/make facial expressions reacting to my made up...|||Hehehehe yeah, thats what I thought:wink:|||This explains A LOT. So good at pulling people in and making them feel sorry for you too. Its sick. Oh and theyre amazing lovers.....damn you INFP's!|||So why do you hate us yet linger around in an ENFP question huh?! Its a love so strong that youre scared to express, so you define it as hate.  Yeah, you know the truth Drew...|||I know! It just makes me sad, I feel a strong connection to anything in nature generally so Id say thats probably why.    Hahah yeahhh noo thanksfully I am not a misanthropic freak :crazy:|||No I never kill insects. Nor do I let people in my presence...  In a worst case scenario I'll get a plate and a cup and transport them outside. Yes, I know....many people have made fun of me for it.....|||I am an ENFP and I am currently posting my 50th post:crazy: Many more to come!!|||I actually had a situation like this with an INFP. I found out from a friend that he liked me, but when I next saw him he was too shy to even approach me. I found it adorable to be honest, but...|||Woohooo!!! good job:laughing:|||Quality time (though that should be a given)  PHYSICAL TOUCH. Agreed. Its pretty damn important.  And words of affirmation are always nice:happy: As long as they arent fake that is.  ahhhhh I...|||I would definitely consider myself a non conformist. Ever since I was a kid something about becoming one among the masses just freaked the shiz outta me.  I admire individuality A LOT. I almost...|||Agreed, with everyone really. I guess I used to trust way too much and that got me hurt. SO now (at 21 also) I just dont trust. Though I feel I need a balance. Thats probably my main concern and...|||Haha what can I say im no good at doing the whole non ENFP thing..which is fine with me considering how awesome we are:tongue:|||ENFP is me. Its a big part of who I am, what Ive done. How can I not love it?! Because of it Ive learnt so many things and honestly we have the most fun anyways so who cares!!  Sometimes though it...|||Definitely unimaginative. More immoral. Boring. Conventional.....a world without NFs in general? whooo I imagine that to be like 1984 status:shocked: scarryyyy stuff|||Right that makes sense, and I am noticing a lot of people share this issue...but from what Ive read Enfps are often described as overly gushy with love, needy etc....maybe its a misconception because...|||Yes, thats what I've been hearing a lot lately. Problem is I don't know a single INFJ:sad:.   Oh well, his Ni should help him find me:tongue:|||Its true :sad: I had one close INFJ female friend, I have yet to meet a male INFJ...where are all of you?!? come to Brooklyn and be friends with this ENFP:tongue:|||ENFPs rock because we have a euphoric childlike energy towards everything yet a mature and deep insight. All rolled up into one...how is that not awesome!?:tongue:|||I'm an ENFP and I wish I could find a machine that could take in all my ideas and generate them into reality.|||Hmm, some people here have gotten seriously of the topic! Thats against the topic thread rules. Not cool.  Ps. that was my NON ENFp and obviously do not reflect my own views...heheh i cant go NON...|||hmmmm definitely an interesting theory but heres my experience with an INFP. We had a very strong connection, definitely beyond anything Ive experienced before, and our shared NF functions enabled us...|||Same here Tine, its not even so much that I HAVE done that, at least not in a longg time. I just knew if I shared my feelings it would be received like that, the trick is really to find someone that...|||That is me! I am always getting lost :unsure: Its frustrating but honestly worth all the revelations, thoughts, stores etc. I had playing in my head at the time.|||I ALWAYS wish I could go into other peoples heads and see whats going on! Sometimes I'm really just so curious to know how other people think...I feel almost trapped into one train of mind.   You...|||I feel ya. I very frequently don't feel I fit into this society, or more apropriately don't agree with its 'standards'. Way too superficial for my liking. Way too immoral. Peoples views are so...|||Hmmm, Gem stones. Like jade and amethyst etc/ random stones Ive found on various journeys.  Random trinkets from different countries..I have an abundant amount of useless crap from different...|||Hmm well thank you I really hope thats the case! I had begun to think i was a lost cause :crying:  Heheh I just needa find myself a cute INFJ an ill be good :laughing:|||Well yeah, Id definitely say in my situation I also felt very strongly. I just couldn't express so well. Or at all. Which was ironic when the person would tell me they did not feel I actually had...|||I want to know if any other ENFPs have experienced this. Ive noticed a trend in my relationships that really affects them negatively. Heres my conundrum; on the inside, I am a hopeless romantic...'