'sure... i had to throw in my 2 cents. Just couldnt help myself:crazy:|||I hate how conversations about religions/god/spirituality always end up going to a negative place... I think it is healthy to question these things.. including logic. Spirituality is embracing the...|||I have a few hopeful criteria -open mind -open heart -willingness to grow -ability to find happiness within herself -boobs|||When it comes to things like familiarity, change, and novelty I think your frame of reference and past experiences are going to have more to do with your adaptability than your personality. Change...|||When I am in the middle of an explanation, argument, or story and someone tries to interrupt.. or straight up starts talking while im talking. So disrespectful.|||No one said it was simple or easy... often times the other people involved can make or break how I feel about where i work, instead of jumping ship.. perhaps you should look for other employment...|||I honestly dont know... its a constant battle in my life. Im not a personality expert, just trying to find common ground|||When people mistake your confidence and enthusiasm for arrogance and being cocky...|||I do not know if this perspective has much to do with the enfp personality... perhaps frame of reference and the lull of routine has taken its toll on my Psyche. When presented with the idea of a...|||Sounds like you are depending on others for your happiness... spend some time alone (years if you have to) and find out who you really are. Men aren't going to help you keep believing. Don't dwell...|||I agree with this. If you really felt that way you wouldn't be here bitching about it. You would be out there trying to make a difference or whatever.  Stop!  Take a good hard look at what you...|||Little talks... in my ass|||A&W root beer|||the cooler the chick... the more attractive she becomes to me|||i play guitar and sing.... not great but i love doing it.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLgKA6TDEDc&amp;feature=share|||I know your pain all too well... its a slippery slope and seemingly impossible to climb out of. Understand that you are important and that you do effect other peoples lives... YOU decide whether its...|||Tired, productive, longing|||I can see how this behavior can be confusing... as for your original question : I think ENFP's male and female are protective over every aspect of their Image... i think that we put a considerable...|||F-ck it... I'm not going to feel like i did something wrong just because I did what I felt was right, if the girl doesn't understand that, then she just passed up on the best thing that could have...|||I apologize... but i could not make it through your entire post... its  SOOO long :) This last weekend I met a woman that rocked my world... if people were rain i was drizzle and she was a...|||I feel like timing has a big part to play in doing this.... ive messed up so many relationships with seemingly great potential by trying to do that too fast|||I was just wondering what your opinion of this ENFP male behavior is myself... only because you refered to it as an issue when it could be something more of a natural defense mechanism or perhaps a...|||When i was younger I had a hard time with masculinity. First of all i was really small in high school... other guys would assume that i was gay or whatever, and I would tend to have more girlfriends...|||very beautiful... I would do anything for such a thing|||I'm right there with you buddy...  this is what marked174 told me and I feel like it helped more than anything...  Yeah, that happens sometimes. It sucks but what can you do? It's not your loss,...|||I feel like I have an uncontrollable addiction to doing this...|||wow... thanks for pulling me back into reality, exactly what i needed to hear :)|||Im not going to go off on the situation right now... just wanted to know who else had someone that they connected with, I mean REALLY connected with, and thought that the other person felt the same...|||Being ENFP can be confusing sometimes... i dont know why we are in the lead... lol|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLgKA6TDEDc|||Yeah!.. totally uncalled for|||Yeah! Im also a cocky self-righteous bastard... Awesome post ^|||yeah, i just discovered them a few days ago... i cant get enough|||I heart this... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tg4CPaKzSUU|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4rz4I69mQMo|||I think you should trust your instincts... if your finding flaws in a person, maybe its because you have not yet identified what it is about this person that you really don't trust, or maybe you just...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPR3GlpQQJA|||Hey! Haters gonna hate ;)|||I was recently part of an uncomfortable situation related to this post....   I play bass for a modern blues/rock band here in west texas... and we were going through our set list and we were really...|||I relate to all of this..  and i think a big factor in the lack of communication and understand between ourselves and our peers comes from the fact that we spend a lot of time inside of our own...|||well... I dont know if its like this for all Enfp's or if its even enfp related, but I am really good at seeing things through other peoples eyes, or walking in their shoes (however you want to say...|||grass is always greener i suppose|||Yeah... I distance myself from people often as well, and I do think a lot of it is because of how im able to read people really well. When i start to go down the road your on (wishing i was someone...|||I dont agree that we can read minds or whatever... lol but we can however pick up STRONG vibes on the emotional side of things, and derive conclusions of what might be on their mind with very little...|||my buddy Michael wrote this song... we recorded it with a cell phone, turned out pretty good... reminds me of y'all   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmYA-iHoTW4|||this is my buddy Michael.. .we just recorded this off of a cell phone. turned out pretty good, let us know what you think    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmYA-iHoTW4|||haha.. yeah|||you obnoxious self centered asshole.... Stop pretending to be someone your not, YOUR 27 YEARS OLD!!! stop hanging out with 18 year old kids in hopes of getting some young girl to be impressed with...|||yeah... the cards are priceless to me, i could never sell them|||yeah, my father plays it too... we cant get enough of it, its like crack'