'Hm, I think it's been a bit too long since I first saw the series to recall the general personalities, but I may swing by the old characters and try and gauge it, yeah.|||The last anime that I watched? Well I've been re-watching Ranma 1/2 with a friend of mine here and there, but the anime that I most recently watched for the first time was Katanagatari a week ago and...|||Thanks for sharing, lemurs this is terribly fascinating to look at. Wasn't expecting MA to be producing so many women who aren't straight. New York and other cities mentioned do not surprise me, but...|||It's fine, you've written more than enough. :happy:  It's funny, I haven't seen too many people who are big fans of Smallville. I'm rather a fan of it myself. Clark Kent will always have a soft...|||EternalFrost: Oh I'm so on the same page as you. But at least we can appreciate the show for what it is now :happy:  KINGoftheAMAZONS: Lol I rather like us ExFJ's, too, though my appreciation more...|||Lol I meant 4, not 3. Whoops  Hahaha fair enough. Oh no, she screams ENFJ to me. Maaaaybe INFJ, but her way of operating is way too much of an extrovert. I think the only introvert of the group is...|||The thing is, it varies from girl to girl. Some avoid, others persist. It depends on things like confidence, extroversion/introversion, and knowledge of mutual attraction, and all that jazz. I think...|||Season 3 has been really on top of its game as far as pacing, plotline, and character development. It's too bad that the show had to wait until the last season to get it's act together.   Of...|||That's fair, cycling through them, I mean. I bet if you asked people on this site though they'd be more than happy to help type you. :tongue: People have fun with it and are pretty happy to help...|||Welcome to the site! Interesting that you tend to flip between the J and the P. I would look at their individual function stackings and see which resonates more for you. Either way, so long as you're...|||Kind of you to do for him, but not really sure what this has to do with the ENFJ thread :happy:|||I think Elsa may be INFJ, though she is a character I relate to a lot. It's difficult to tell because her character is one who has gone through extremely unhealthy isolation and development.  MLK...|||I would definitely talk with your friend about it. I know that I would be horrified if I was to learn I was doing something unknowingly hurting someone dear to me. I also recognize, since this has...|||<3 I'm glad that you've found a type that works for you :happy: I rather like those who are Fe-oriented as well, though I prefer them introverted as a balance.|||Lol what about Fe-doms?|||LOL no argument with anything you've stated. I do think it's more about the people, however, I wanted to pose the inquiry regardless because I'm curious to see what people think. I like to hear the...|||I'm curious, what are your enneagram types?|||Yes and no -- more that I know what I'm like when I'm head over heels for someone, and I refuse to commit/get involved unless I am thinking of them and only them. There's no if ands or buts and...|||It's funny as that kind of describes my relationship with my dad in reverse -- I'm glad to hear that you have a good relationship with your mother :)|||Absolutely. I really try and focus on just appreciating the friendship for when it was and what it was, and the fact that it had to come to an end did not make it mean any less. Of course that kind...|||Sweet, sensitive types are my favorite types. INFx guys are wonderful and I wish there was more of you, or easier access to you. And as people have been saying, everyone has a type. I look at my...|||Oh? That's too bad. I would think that'd be ideal, but I suppose it depends on the person and what they're looking for in a relationship|||While my 6 is the less prominent of my tritype (216) some of what you're saying I find that I can relate to, though the tone of it is different because of my prominent 2.|||This is a very fascinating piece that I can see having patterns of in my own life. I feel that I would like to do more research on the subject matter, however elements of it feel very true for me.|||Yeah, not to provide an obvious statement, but I think it's purely our extroversion that makes us less mysterious. We have more of a need to connect with others consistently, and because of it, we're...|||Possibly. Though, correct me if I'm wrong, I find people who are Fi can be more difficult with their feelings because of how they process them internally. Whereas people who are Fe I find more...|||I can understand that, though I will point out that ENFJs are the most introverted of the extroverts. :tongue:|||Wow. Black mail. Very much NOT legal.|||I'm simply curious, since ENFJs are Fe-Ni-Se-Ti and ISTPs are Ti-Se-Ni-Fe and are therefore using identical, yet in reverse order functions, why they are not paired up. There very well could be an...|||Seeker  *hug* Oh Seeker, I wish you peace of mind, of heart, and all the self love. Dote on yourself. Note all that is lovable about you, and keep doing it. Keep appreciating yourself. This day....|||Lol pretty much, as Stendhal says (though I wouldn't call it all bullshit). As the saying goes: don't fix what isn't broken.  For some, ENFJs and INFPs work really well. For others, not so much....|||I think that what you're bringing up is a very significant point. It is an issue with many people, and those who are more introverted, even more so.  The best thing I can think of is to act as a...|||Yes, these words are absolutely spot-on. I'm glad that you're finding a source that can validate your experience as well.  I've talked with my therapist and she has shared with me about men...|||I find this to be pretty common with ENFJs. I know there have been times I've contemplated my introversion/extroversion identity.  I think that video is pretty spot-on.|||Oh sweetie I'm so sorry :sad:  I dated an INFJ and went through some very similar feelings and patterns. The emotions going through you are so anxiety-ridden, and there's a fear, like your life is...|||When you leave a box is it for you and your own closure, or is it for them to learn from?  If it's for them to learn from, then it's not for you to do. You are not their teacher and it's not up...|||I agree with  FromFarAway full heartedly. In addition, I would point out that there are other people, other men, out there you can have such amazing connections with who are very much single. Of...|||Honestly I don't think you necessarily need to explain all of the above. Not being interested is a good enough reason. I think if you can convey to her I greatly care about you as a person, however,...|||B'aw being told you're crazy is no fun. The correct response should be wow, that's not something I personally put a great deal of emphasis on. That's so interesting that you do, what comes up for...|||If I am interested in a guy, being romantic is more than appreciated. If I am not interested in a guy, then his actions are uncomfortable, and if he persists, creepy.|||I definitely think the sooner you're able to move out, the better. I'm sure you're well aware of this already, but I think your mental health will be so much better when you're outside of such a...|||If I've been stressed for too long, yes I'll get sick if I'm not careful. Generally manifests in the form of a cold. Or at the very least, I may get canker sores. Also when I'm stressed I tend to...|||I mean I'm kind of quirky myself, so I do not know if I'm the best judge, but when I think of the INFJs I know, I don't think of crazy.  I think of caring individuals with big hearts who don't know...|||Do not block them. Recognize them. Love them. Cherish them.   There is a part of you right now who is in pain, and is lashing out in anger, grief, what have you, and that is the part of you that...|||Not to be redundant, but it's a little difficult to say without proper context. :tongue:|||This sounds so wonderful, I'm so happy for you :proud:|||My brother is an ENTJ and we get along extremely well. Always have. The only times we ever have disputes is if my feelings have been hurt, and while he may roll his eyes if he feels I'm overreacting,...|||Lol -- actually, now I'm curious because I get this a lot, do other ENFJs get told a lot I wish you were the opposite gender?|||I enjoy it a lot. I think the characters are well-developed, well-written, and even though many of them I wouldn't personally like if I were to meet them, all of them are just filled with depth of...|||Well I'll admit I have a bias in several regards: one, I think it's better when introverts and extroverts date; two, I'm rather partial to INFJs so I'm all about ENFJ/INFJ pairings :tongue:; and...'