'Biology is real and it's effects are measurable and factual.   All shoulda coulda woulda arguments notwithstanding.  Your expectation of people viewing porn as if it's just animals is... ...|||Awww...  Yeah I'm sorry about that; it was shameless clickbait, I admit.   Well then we have 4 active ESFJ that we know of so far.  I should keep a running tally lol.   Maybe these are the seeds of...|||Congrats!  It's something you both have to work out anyway, so nothing ever changed there. You can always confirm what people think right now.  But even they can't figure out how they will feel...|||It's not that I disagree with introspection and self assessment.  I just disagree with internalizing criticism at face value.   A person's criticism is based on their perception of someone else, not...|||Precisely.|||No you aren't wrong.  This isn't an issue of personal liberty.  It's an issue of productivity. The degradation of performance that occurs when staff members wear overly revealing clothes is...|||Honestly, I see all types as equally valuable.  We couldn't do things without you.   But also, we can often do things much better, if we selectively ignore you first.   No offence lol.  I...|||Women who try to rip you down about your performance (kiss, sex, whatever) are not doing it because you sucked.  They are doing it because they think you think they sucked.  If they just thought you...|||I try not to look a gift horse in the mouth.  I definitely appreciate ENTJ social assistance.|||Where the hell are you? Would it kill you to visit a forum now and again like every other red blooded human being?  Ok, ok, my fault.  I took that too far.  I didn't mean any insult.   Just...  ...|||Hahaha so true.|||Speaking of coffee, you almost made it shoot out of my nose.  Hahaha   I am not fully convinced she is INTJ either.  There's quite a trend of wannabe INTJ girls on youtube - it's all the rage with...|||Sort of.  My mother bought a metric ton of interesting books for me to read.  My father always had interesting intellectual discussions.  I'm not sure what my mother is.  Perhaps ENFJ.  Maybe INFJ. ...|||It can be obvious, it just needs to be deniable.   A perfect example of that might be: You should totally ditch that other girl and come watch movies with me tonight :laughing:|||I like light BDSM.  But I'd be completely turned off if it intersected too far with S&M.  Mainly because it's just ugly to me.  Dominance/submission yes.  Leather zipper masks?  No.  Just no.|||https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/1e/ff/08/1eff0892415ff96ee4ebbedb9e0b56ce.jpg|||https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/3a/c0/90/3ac0900b7708991ae6671e0607d1c869.jpg|||Good.  She's had 5 years and nothing happened.  She isn't in his picture.  She's friendzoned.  But she might have a fantasy that if she can just keep all other women away, she will finally land this...|||Yup,  And to most people that inner war is seemingly invisible.|||OK.  NEVER believe what someone else says about a guy you are interested in, ESPECIALLY when you know they are interested too.   EVER. Ok?  Right now she sits in the middle and controls ALL of...|||Explosions of anger come from not dealing with anger as it builds, and failing to mitigate or exit the situation.  So it stands to reason that INTJs (who often aren't aware of the state of their...|||I'm triggered.  The real number is 15.|||Haha yeah.  When I made my post I was focusing more on the comedy of running from followers who are looking for a leader, which I've done on multiple occasions.  But on a more serious note, I can...|||Haha.  Well I will say you are probably safe from INTJs clinging to you like kryptonite napalm.  I can't speak for the other 3.   :laughing:|||We weaken your knees but simultaneously make your face go all veiny?  Nvm, I've probably been watching too many smallville reruns.   :proud:|||Interesting. I didn't realize our role was to ask meaningful questions.  Normally I just snipe when I see something stupid (in any forum, no offence ENFPs), and/or display some genuine affection for...|||https://www.google.ca/search?q=pedo+smile&espv=2&biw=1920&bih=990&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiCjcW_ybrRAhVX5mMKHYzWANgQ_AUIBigB#imgrc=_ :laughing::laughing::laughing:  Still..   I got...|||https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/d9/1c/e4/d91ce4bca1dc28546a3146beb083a07d.jpg|||All very good observations.  I watched a youtube INTJ assert that INTJ is like the warrior-spirit of an INFP.  We can develop STRONG ideals, but at some point we tend to act on them, forming...|||I completely disagree with the premise.  It's logically insupportable.  One does not invalidate one's nature by declaring it openly and honestly.  If a rock could speak and say I am harder than you...|||Heh.  I saw this thread and thought:   I used to dislike people.  Then I gave up.|||Socionics Intertype Relationships: Dual  ESFJ and INTj is a duality match in socionics.    This is reported as being extremely rare and unlikely to happen.   I wouldn't have thought it was an...|||Honestly, I get it.  I'm just having some fun with him.  Verbally sparring with an ENTP is like putting on gloves to face Chris Pratt while he's trying to have a Dance off, Bro! I get a kick out...|||All cats are white.   Betsy is a cat.   Therefore besty is white.   This would be a valid argument.  But unsound.    Edit:  Found a link for reference on the difference between sound and valid...|||First of all, let me apologize for editing after you responded.  I tend to be a bit perfectionistic.   I didn't notice your post until I submitted the latest edit.     You asserted.  You did not...|||I picked about 180 values.  Seemed right for me.  It said I would have to vote 45 times with 10 values and 190 times with 20 values, I spent a little extra time figuring out the formula was...|||Yeah I found it incredibly unhelpful. You can do anything  Great...  Thanks for the help.|||To be fair, in my experience with ENTPs (and I have VAST experience with ENTPs), they tend to have a double standard here.  They are often late.  But get testy when others make them wait.    But...|||Our function order (in general, of course) is Ni, Te, Fi, Fe, Se, Ne, Ti, Si.  But this is in general.  I tend to think that many of us develop a strong use of Ti in a positive way (aka, ILI or INTp...|||Well I'm late to the party now...  Clumsy, your post had me laughing pretty hard.  I'm still smiling.  While originally somewhat circumspect, I think we are glad you chose to descend on our forum,...|||Frustration with inefficiency is a manifestation of intuition.  When people use Ni, they are able to see the connections between things and between concepts.  The more they use it, the more they can...|||NTs tend to care more about the content of speech, than the vehicle within which the information is carried.  Function over form.  We care more about the data, than the container.  If you value the...|||Well, right you are.  I had assumed the info was gathered by online polls.  I didn't take the time to RTFM.  My mistake.|||Interesting.  I would think they are a bad estimate.  They are from a HEAVILY biased sample, and just about the worst place to gather statistics. This is after all, the i-NT-ernet, if you take my...|||ESFJ INFJ INTJ ENTP ENFP  ESFJ/INTJ is HIGHLY underrated as a match, imo, in MBTI at least.|||Yeah, if the question was who I would prefer to work with, it would be ENTJ any day of the week.  It's just a ridiculously productive duo, maybe even the most productive of any two types combined. ...|||I don't really think of my own type as 'my favorite' to begin with, so the disclaimer is unnecessary.  Others have said the same, which doesn't surprise me.    I'm glad you did.    My favorite...|||Do you love me? Yup Can you do something to show you love me? Right now? Please .... What? I'm thinking I thought you loved me I do|||It's easier for me.  My family spread out a long time ago.  All I have to do is claim prior obligations (to my easy chair, computer and a glass of scotch).  And visit them some other time of year. ...|||The best way I could describe it is:  I'm like Forrest Gump.  He just runs off and does his own thing.  He doesn't hate what others are doing with their lives.  He isn't judging them.  He likes...'