'Interesting that you mention this because this approach has worked in the past for me, now that I'm thinking about it (I feel slightly guilty admitting it, but his distractability does work in my...|||I know what you mean. For me it's so visceral and I feel like I have to do something to make it stop. It's extremely aggravating when it becomes an expected behavior, like you're the dumping ground...|||I feel you on this one. It can be very frustrating when you live and work with said individuals too, where by association you're forced to endure their varying moods. They may (probably) have no...|||If doofy is adorable, I'll take it lol.|||Not sure why but it was rather easy putting these in order. Based off of personal experience:  1. INFJ :kitteh:  ENTP all over the place INTJ crazy in an awesome way INFP <3 ENFP hyper  INTP...|||You didn't say anything about no kidnapping! :tongue:    On a serious note though, I don't think it's a personal flaw to want to be reclusive, and I hope your friends are lenient and understanding...|||I voted more than a month because why the hell not? I don't know you! Haha. I have an INTP roommate, and compared to him, I don't go out much more than he does. I think I'm more motivated to go out...|||My closest friends hardly seek me out and vice versa, which is the way I like it. I'm not interested in hanging out multiple times a week every week, and to request this of me is too much. It's just...|||This is great information to know. I think your INFJ friend and my INFJ friend share that commonality, as we're always requesting the INFJ to come hang out, only to be let down when he (at some...|||Dear INFJ friend,  Your work schedule sucks. You always have the intent to come hang out but hardly ever do. I get it, but INTJ misses you. He told me this directly, which is a rare admission...|||I know exactly what you mean, my mother is the type of person to hold a grudge and I could never understand why growing up. She never knew that I kept a very firm stance on objectivity lol, I would...|||I voted genuine. I'd like to assume that a genuine person is also going to be stable and intelligent (in some form, hopefully). I had issues with being genuine myself growing up, so as an adult I...|||I like jewelry that isn't flashy or heavy. I like dainty watches. I make my own necklaces with pendants I find at Michaels (the have a good selection). Costume jewelry can also be cute and...|||Aren't they freaking amazing?! Solid, charismatic, dependable, humble - just to name a few qualities of my INTJ. What you describe is eerily similar to what I'm experiencing in this relationship atm....|||Novel ideas and under 25 - it's most fulfilling.|||You never know :laughing:|||I used to be like that, but I stopped caring about putting on a face and pretending I'm not emotionally affected by certain things. I'm not always happy-go-lucky. Shit happens and I'm not going to...|||ISTP was cool for a while - individualistic and rational. But he morphed into a self-centered, emotionally constipated jerk.  ESTP was hilarious with a quick wit and a self-motivated achiever....|||I can maintain long-term relationships easily, it's a matter of caring to and having a level of adaptability.|||Interesting article and site, though I don't relate to all of those attributes listed.|||I know an INTJ who was in a relationship and lived with an INFJ, and he reported that they never argued. He did say however that the INFJ bottled up and wouldn't discuss problems with him. They...|||Repeat offender? Eeeek.. I personally wouldn't forgive somebody for multiple slights. This guy sounds like a doucher.|||Every time I see your sig gif I piss myself    I wear diapers now, thanks a lot.     I also second Hitler. Imagine how irate he would be LOL|||You can definitely be my guy's friend! Welcome to the forum cutie.|||Don't go the revenge route, you're better than that. Yes, he screwed your trust over and then lied about it to cover his ass, for whatever reason(s) (he may not have developed enough personal...|||I think to some degree it does, personally speaking. Mostly it assists me in taking a step back from the seriousness of reality, allowing me to assess it from a comical standpoint.. therefore I'm...|||Exercise or smoking weed usually does the trick. They both put me into assessment mode, but I REALLY let go when I'm stoned.. why did/should I even give a fuck in the first place?|||I'm straight. I've recently discovered that I find masculine ladies attractive, but not sure to what extent or why.|||^^ I'm similar to this as well. Social distractions tend to slow my eating down, otherwise I eat quickly to get it over with. Having to consume food several times a day is annoying.|||I reread As a Man Thinketh by James Allen this morning. 28 pages of awesomeness.|||I care much less when high lol.. take your time sir, I'm in no hurry today|||Eh.. time is a funny thing. Typically I get agitated when it's wasted because of somebody else but I really have no problem wasting it myself (such as daydreaming) lol. I think it's partly because I...|||On top of the video being awesome (I'm halfway through) ^^^ this made me LOL. Thanks for the post!|||I never felt I belonged to a group entirely, and even when I had a strong affinity towards a group of people it was never enough to create a long-lasting bond to the group itself. Throughout high...|||Yeah I've definitely struggled with saying no and telling people straight up that I'm not interested in them in a romantic sense. Only after X amount of bad experiences have I realized that it's...|||In love, behavior is completely childlike, goofy, playful... I can justify this teasing with a big wet smooch afterwards!   Though behavior can be neutral at times as if the individual is a...|||Patience and kinky toys.|||Hug it up and ask how it's going.|||Interesting.. my INTJ buddy told me almost the exact same thing the other week. Do you generally enjoy it when others pull you out of your head and into the moment?|||For me, audio books are useful when the eyes/hands are busy with monotonous tasks, and text is better when full attention can be devoted to reading. There isn't really a preference on how the...|||Totally agree with this :tongue:|||People don't generally piss me off, but their closed-minded thinking, incompetence, inefficient methods, and lack of dependability can be disappointing (or frustrating) at times. More often though...|||Commas ftw! Haha.   Most noticeably for me, Ne = potentiality of many ideas to spawn from perceptions gathered in the external world.   Some of these ideas are straight ridiculous (no boundaries)...|||I never sought out anything to collect. If it's not of any use to me it tends to get thrown out.. with the exception of daggers and notebooks/documents.|||I was always a cocky smart-ass, but now I have the evidence to prove why  :wink:   Welcome to the forum btw!|||Shadow functions come out when you're under stress. You may have your own reasons for not doing drugs, but don't project those reasons onto somebody who does choose to do them.. they might not be the...|||Thanks alfreda, the same goes for you too. Sayonara 2012!|||Manipulation was useful in the past, and I never thought it was wrong or felt guilty using it. It's an easy tool that promises results. Over time I've grown to prefer natural social interactions and...|||Based off of my experience - ESTJ (Te, Si) for sure. ESFP (Se, Fi) comes in second.|||Save your tears dear :tongue:, it's not so bad. Just another adaptation.  I had my wannabe Se moments as a teenager, but now realize it is way more fun (and less stressful) to just be my...'