'Oh, hehe. Thanks, buddy. (That's just me wanting to sound overly impressive and stately, as I do in my overactive imagination, but then settling for what the reality check jolts me with.)|||I guess I'm kind of theatrical too, in ways. In my head, my life has background score. Which really stops me from being able to think clearly in some cases. But I'm not the same Enneagram type. A...|||This is so interesting! Has anyone ever told you you'd make a good protagonist for a novel? (That is by all means a compliment) I kind of love observing eye-popping complexities. It's what I join...|||Um, INFJs are just cautious by nature when it comes to friendships. We're the slow kinds. I'm never in a hurry to make decisions. I'd rather be slow and steady than be regretful. Magic Key to INFJ...|||Hahahaha I still have difficulty making eye-contact when I'm sleep deprived. *facepalm*  But other than that, there's a vast improvement. Most of it comes from me not being self-conscious and not...|||Lad, you always come up with the neatest subjects for discussions. Kinda mindblowing.  Reading this makes me feel a little defective, hehe. I used to be very comfortable with feeling. But it just...|||Well, my answer would depend on the interaction.  Socially, intellectually, ENTPs are great. Good company. Quality conversationalists. They get to the point fast enough and see where you're coming...|||I tested as INFP in school (precisely, 11th grade). After the first year of college ended (this June), I realized I didn't fit the description anymore and got myself tested again.  I was the quiet...|||Oneyr I feel like the martyrdom thing ties in with the ISFJ mom business. I feel like her project sometimes (Project Progeny XD). They're very family oriented people. Me, I try to feel connected to...|||PandaLover Awww, so cute! (I find it very moving that everything that unleashes your Ursula has to do with injustice that affects more than just you. ENFJs are so giving and kind like that. Always...|||I hate that. Mine makes me feel terribly inadequate sometimes. Like there's nothing I could possibly do to make her happy. Your situation's similar in this aspect as well?   UXDork Hahahahaha I've...|||The best people are often so good what they do because of their insecurities. I was surprised to learn how much practice goes into composing a TED talk (because they come off as really informal and...|||My mom is ISFJ. She can get... pretty intense. And scary. They talk without a filter when they're angry. And when that torture ends, you have to watch them pout and sulk :angry:|||Hahahaha you have a death glare?! But you look so angelic in your avatar. And your name is Sophia (right?). That's such a princess-y name! I'm pretty sure people are just going, Awwww when you...|||I, for one, have definitely found myself guilty of jumping to the worst conclusions. It's not even cool. I wonder if I have a hyperventilate mode button hidden somewhere.  I do like to control...|||The way you write kind of hypnotizes me. It's all so well described. Wow. (I'm basically fangirling about your remarkable ability to express yourself through the written word here. I don't have...|||Oh my God. You're me in an alternate setting.  I used to do this so much. And it's fun, sure. But it makes me feel very lonely on the inside. So I do it less now. And the transition hasn't really...|||Hahaha, pretty neat logic. And you were so close I'm INFJ. (We're closet dreamers. At least I am)|||EclecticTeal; Vive  Jesus, I feel really terrible about the person I once was. My actions were truly an embarrassment to all of human intelligence. ...|||Hahahaha, the dynamic wasn't that bad. I was, at a point, a very resourceful friend and someone he was able to confide in a lot. But I went through an unhealthy phase in between, and I can't really...|||lilysocks I've found lots of solace in my INTJ friends. Maybe too much:sad: But then again, I find their curiosity so inspiring. In fact, I found myself feeling closer to one of my INTJ friends...|||Oh shit, I used to be guilty of the 'wants sympathy, unwilling to take corrective action' thing. Not anymore. I'm fed up of needing shoulders to cry on.  I'm sure it must be very draining to keep...|||In the spirit of playfulness:  http://i.imgur.com/rVLrxp2.gif    Getting serious: I don't know about you, but I find that people can never really understand this dichotomy unless they...|||ISFP: The Mall Rat ESFP: The Loud Ones ESTP: The Whooooosh ISTP: The Katniss Everdeens of this world  ISTJ: The...*dozes off* ISFJ: The Helicopter Parent ESFJ: Mr./Miss Bling bling ESTJ: The...|||Hermione Granger: She's badass and completely breaks stereotypes. http://www.teen.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/emma-watson-birthday-april-15-2014-hermione-granger-gifs-sorcerers-stone-3.gif ...|||Blondfire- Walking With The Giants  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Sn9b5GMxMI   Luzy Sorry, but I really can't tell *facepalm* Ah, well, here goes my opportunity to look like a psychological...|||I like games where I'm flying. This type of dreaming is called lucid dreaming, am I right?  Also, I like the chance dreams I have that end up being premonitions|||Well, does your current job have the potential to get you to a post where you may be able to get your hands on some mentally engaging work? If it does, then in my (very humble) opinion, you gotta...|||Temerity This is supremely interesting to read!  Um, I would say I'm an old soul. But that said, I'm not always serious. Barely, around others. I'm always the happy one. I don't think being...|||THIS POST IS GOLD. I AGREE. TOTALLY.    Hahaha, discovered that very recently. (But I'm only 18, so I'm excused for the stupidity. I guess.) It's all about self-nurturing, which I observe makes...|||I really envy the ENTP women the traits that allow them to not be consumed by a person or relationship. Makes them come across as being so much more secure and desirable as romantic partners. I very...|||So then you disagree with this notion that some people seem to have built up as per which xSxx types aren't considered that deep? As opposed to intuitives, that is.  Would you be inclined to share...|||That's awesome. I don't know too many ENTP women but the few that are known to me, and identified as that type, they have an admirable sense of self worth. Which I think all women should take a cue...|||1. Extravert (to balance my introversion. But not an extreme. I'd prefer someone social but also reflective) 2. Mature. Because immature people are put-offs in general 3. Funny. Humor is often an...|||Hi, MissAverage! Neat thread. So, anything, right?  1. What is your take on ENFPs? (based on experience, what you've read, etc etc)  2. Do you ever wish you were more organized? (since almost...|||I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you :) Hope it goes the way you want it to|||Hey, there! Welcome aboard. I'm sure you're going to enjoy this forum and all it has to offer|||I do feel bored, but not that often. To me, sometimes, boredom is a signal that I need to engage in a different kind of activity than I am engaged in at the moment. So, I do find that boredom has its...|||Hahahaha XD If you have a personal story to share about the ENFJ thing, then please do (if you're willing to, that is)! It sounds like something that would be funny/insightful. If that's a general...|||*FACEPALM*:laughing:|||Lumen_di_lumine You do sound INFJ to me. I've known some very peace-loving INTJs, but as  lilysocks mentioned, they do see the emotions of others as being outside the radius of their control, and...|||frozenmusic Helloooo, there! A big warm welcome to you.  I'm an Enneagram (did I spell that right just now?) Type 5w6 as well. I'm an INFJ, though. I hope you discover much more about yourself and...|||This was such an honest, vulnerable thing to admit that I want to applaud it :D  I'm learning slowly, to be the one that pats her own back and gives herself so much love that expecting more from...|||lapa It's not fake humility, okay? I'm just not capable of so much hatred. Or maybe it's the Fe, which you can obviously understand, softens things up a bit.  I'm appalled by how much you are able...|||lapa WOW. You attack my character. You attack Lyric's character based on two posts she wrote. And when I point this out, I am somehow making myself a victim?   I'm not saying that I wasn't arguing...|||lapa Excuse me? A sense of WHAT?  Firstly, I am not saying anything definitively in those posts. I use the word seem because I never claim to have empirical, factual evidence of you actually being...|||lapa I wrote the reply to Bugs in 3 minutes. I could not have figured out all those manipulative tactics in that much time. I wasn't trying to manipulate, rather, I was confused about something that...|||lapa I was not giving you any underhand insults. I said what I had to say directly. That I had a problem with how you sounded judgmental and callous with respect to how people felt. What is...|||Bugs When you say 'all' arguments, I hope you mean the ones with respect to type and function order and possibly the ones with respect to freedom of expression.  Because calling people immoral...|||Epicyclic Your friend's lucky that you're so concerned. And I'd love to help you help them, but to get a cure, first a solid diagnosis must be made. That is, what triggered these behaviors in your...'