'- They're like people who baked a beautiful cake and want to show it to everyone in Instagram because they're satisfied about it. Look what I've done. I feel like I've improved! - When...|||That was not my intention I can assure you. I'm sorry if it came off that way. The question at the end is a genuine question, purely because I don't see EXTJs as being as sensitive as my own type,...|||If this was sports I'd treat it with the simplicity we treat a game of win/lose, but its not. Braggers are more likely to become unpopular if they cash their bragging rights too often in a social...|||Its the way they went about it that I find very amusing, almost silly, but no it doesn't irk me. I think Te's low self-reflection hits at my Fi's over self-consciousness, its impossible for me to not...|||What I meant is that the purpose of each function is essentially the same, to process information, but how they choose to go about it is different.|||I mentioned its the people irl in my first post. I never tried to convey that the entire type is the same way.   We can say the same for every other attribute, positive or negative, does the type...|||Yeah, thats the shit thing with asking a potentially negative question across the forums, negations are belittled as stereotypes we're feeding into, not that we could possibly have encountered it and...|||Work speaks for itself, thats the measure I went by. I posed the competence analogy as one probable but unlikely reason to me, but of course I don't wish to decide for them hence the question. (I...|||I'm still studying them, I did make a generalisation there.  I assume outside validation is sought in situations where one considers oneself to be incompetent/ inexperienced. Why would you seek...|||I've noticed the Te-doms I have interacted with irl to be self-congratulatory. Its usually subtly interspersed in conversation and regarding a past experience where they put someone in their place or...|||Second this^  I see it as two groups that diverge but are heading to the same destination.|||Kiss: ISTJ Marry: ENFJ Bed: ESTJ  Next: INFP, ENFP, ESFP|||Any examples of how you, an individual ENTJ defy your stereotype?|||Any examples of how you, an individual ESTJ defy your stereotype?|||Which Comedy Drama??|||Its helpful to keep in mind that Te doms (EXTJ) are difficult to please unless you do things their way. Nothing else works but the efficient way they know. Which might/ might not be right, but us...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uPy5igZJnVw|||Agreed! I don't relate to the over-flakiness in ISFPs, but every other personality has experienced so. Lol|||How old is the ESFP? If she's old enough to make decisions for herself then talk to her directly and convince her to seek professional help.|||I'm not a male ISFP but this feels like being bulldozed. I think you need to remind yourself that he is insecure about women because of his past hurt.   You reached your decision fairly early I...|||I would prefer an introvert child as they are comparatively lower maintenance for an introvert like myself, but I have no doubt that parenting regardless of the child's personality is WORK.  If I...|||I see a few possibilities  1. He is insecure about something.  2. He hasn't sorted out his feelings for you/ isn't sure about 'what' he feels and if its worth pursuing.  3. Did you enquire about...|||I love being around kids who are respectful and not too hyperactive/ uncontrollable. I would like to have children but not in my 20s, I have much to explore and giving myself time to live and grow...|||Well.. nothing worth a story telling session at all. Smoked weed once. Thought I was going insane when I saw my friends turn into HDR Instagram filters and cried bitterly... the rest is just as lame,...|||What makes me happy are threads like this lol..gives me a reason to reflect on good memories (usually) involving people I'm close to. And long walks.   Summers- swim in the sea In general- A good...|||Early on tried online tests, consistently typed as ISFJ (due to my own understanding of and bias towards hardwork and being organised, which were what I idealised at the time.) Spent a strange, happy...|||I click the bloody thank button and it doesn't show, I don't know why! But I can relate, lol. We seem to possess a childlike excitement to things that matter to us. No finesse to it, just raw...|||By 'romanticising' do you mean distorting these incidences, or replaying them and reliving the emotional state you might have been in?    I relive happy/ sad experiences then bounce to a future I'd...|||.|||Hi there, not INTP but I do feel feelings LOUD at every possible moment.. Whaaat I mean is I can empathise.   You are trying to get over someone you like and are obsessing over him as a result....|||Dear INTP, INFJ and ENFP  I hate not being able to see you in person any more :(   Waiting for next year already, ISFP|||Belly laughter with friends + family. Having this combo meet is a blast, and being the connecting link you tend to become the butt of jokes, but all in good humour!|||Isabella Rosselini and Audrey Hepburn for their elegance, their expressive faces and sincerity with which they live(d).|||Haha. We're a family of 4 too. And my parents are INFP + ISTP.  I honestly don't know (nor ask) about their sex lives, and I'm away from home. I assume SPs have a moderate to high sex drive *ahem*...|||That's terrible   ElusiveFeather Since you've acknowledged how her presence has negatively affected you, you're already half way to ending this... sour friendship. She might be a helpful person, but...|||You need to ask her if something is bothering her. Speculating here won't give you a final answer, and we won't be of much help anyway. She's the only one who can clear this for you.|||I try and recognise situations in which I'm more likely to be uncomfortable (and hence appear shy or reserved), and before engaging in it give myself a pep talk i.e. If all goes badly, I can just...|||Dad (ISTP) blunt and extremely chill, kinda balances out interacting with my overthinking Mother (INFP). My brother is ISFP so we understand each other quite well even if we don't seem to click. My...|||My immediate family is entirely Introvert Perceiver. Our favourite joke is planning ahead.  Because of my discomfort with hospitals/ clinics I've gone 3 years without visiting a doctor for ailments....|||More ESTP when drunk. More ESFJ when good high.|||This. I care deeply for the ones I know, but conversation seems to go either way. I've found them very open-minded when talking about social institutions but extremely wary of people, having been let...|||I can't help but feel that your avatar fits your reply (just a joke Scrooge, don't knock me down with your hammer)  Do you have a link to who made this law? Did the women soldiers collectively...|||I realize I should have given the context..  I can tell with certainty I am not insecure about myself. My feeling of being 'trapped' is an inability to articulate my feelings without it leading to...|||It's not a fight against men, they too can be victims of patriarchy. And feminism is a fight against patriarchy (from an inaugural speech)  I guess it's an obvious statement, I've always looked...|||Double post|||I don't create enough for it to truly affect me if I stopped :p I'd probably socialise more than doodling in public.|||It depends on the individual really. Sometimes it's nice to not have to think of the future (if youre not ready for commitment) and just enjoy the moment..|||Just adding to what   Bijouxx and   internalrealm said  From https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evolutionary_aesthetics  All known cultures have some form of art. This universality suggests that art...|||I've noticed that such experiences being so simple? on witnessing, I rarely share how strongly they affect me. My favourite, which I'm lucky to relive, is driving by the sea at a long curve on the...|||Fast friends were forgotten in the fast imagination. They never stuck together because summer felt free food. So they had to find fast food in Hitler's restaurant. Stalin wasn't allergic to barbecue...'