'To me, casual sex is as meaningless and boring as small talk. If busting a nut is all I want, I'd might as well watch porn. I really appreciate and enjoy sex if I know I can connect with the person...|||Don't watch too much television but Breaking Bad is the greatest piece of motion picture I've ever seen (even among movies and T.V. series). There were some parts I didn't like but overall, it was...|||Hello.  I've recently come across this girl ESFP girl whom I have a suspicion that she likes me. I'd like to know if any ESFPs out there can make a judgement call based off of the following info...|||Because a lot of them tend to think that they are somehow owed credit for the works of some historically influential INTJs, like Newton, for example. They think that just because they shared the same...|||As of late, I've been reassessing whether I am a Thinker or a Feeler.   The main reason for this is because - most of the time - I am relatively passive, even when I am annoyed or irritated....|||Well, she said she didn't have the time to study yet was out drinking with some friends the night before a test (not that she as going to pass) but I guess that would just fall under poor time...|||Sorry, but could you put the hedging bets meaning into an example for her situation? (Doesn't necessarily have to be true, I just want to understand what you mean by this).  And I've done this...|||I understand. But still, if not an A, AT LEAST get a C so you can receive credit. But it is what it is. Maybe she just had a lot in her life going on (I'm sure she did) but I think deliberately...|||Yep. Which is why I couldn't believe the results. I still dont see her as an INTJ. Her character is somewhat compatible but she doesn't seem to share that sharp distaste for mediocrity. We were...|||What exactly do you mean by hedging the bets? I think I know what you mean but I'm not 100% sure.   Yes, she has withdrawn a little. But, then again, we text a lot during her job hours so she...|||What's your reaction to someone, whom you've known for a bit and get along with good and know he likes you, who asks you a question like what I asked her (about why she isn't looking for a...|||Minor correction: She's an INTJ. I got her to take the test.|||If you believe she is toying with me, what could be a possible reason for preserving a relationship?|||The very first MBTI test I took gave two results: A primary personality type and a secondary personality type. My primary type was INTJ and my second as INFJ.  I've never been able to find the test...|||Just behave and don't post overly offensive material like that guy Snapple did.|||Perhaps I shouldn't have generalized but the INTJs I've seen do. They don't seem to be able to adapt or blend in with different social environments. Maybe its because they aren't mature enough or...|||Well, she's had to work a lot (she texted me that she had worked 11 hours while still at work) so we still haven't gotten together. She has two upcoming days off and I mentioned to her that I bike...|||Funny how life is. Turns out you were right. She actually is an INTJ. I got her to take the test. I was stunned to say the least.|||By the way, from at movie is that gif? I know it's from a Japanese anime film about demons or spirits of nature but I can't remember.|||The point of this thread is too subjective.|||The point of this thread was to try and get inside her head.|||She did. Ill PM you|||Then how did she guess that I liked her?|||What makes you think I haven't been aggressive? Just a curious thought...|||Thank you.|||See, I have friends and acquaintances that carry that mindset and don't get me wrong, they get lots of sex.  But that's all they get. I'm not interested in just sex. I've been around whores and sluts...|||Is it possible that you've surrounded yourself with whores and sluts for such a long time that you've come to the conclusion that all women are like this?  I'm not arguing against the Alpha Male...|||Tell me - do you prefer a meaningful relationship or cheap sex with a rotation of women (that you are 'friends' with) with the exception of the occasional girl from the other side of town?  I want...|||What intellectual pursuits are you referring to?|||No, I didn't think you were joking. I've met your type before.  A pussy? How so? Who is they? Are you generalizing women again or are you referring to a certain personality type?|||Woah, I had no idea you guys were chatting it up like is in here.  Okay hornet, then how could (or would) I have made myself more attractive to her, according to you?|||I also don't think of her as being number so-and-so out of three billion. I understand what you mean. But, she is entirely unique unto herself and I'm not looking for just any woman. If that were the...|||Like I said, I won't be keeping my hopes up. Nor is my intention, now, to somehow conquer her by trying to be her best friend or something.  I know how to put emotions behind me. I want to stay in...|||I definitely won't give up hope, even though I don't have my hopes up and I will be neutral to whatever decision she may make in the future (whether she wants to stay friends or explore a different...|||I want to let everyone know that I finally decided to let her know how I feel. I pretty much just texted her and told her that I liked her and that I wanted to know how she felt about me,  and that I...|||I see. I asked because you give good advice and I like how you advice, and some of your explanations, seem to fit. I say that not because I'm in some sort of self-denial due to the possibility that...|||Thanks! By the way, I can't help but ask: How do you know her so well (aside from being an INFP)? The affirmative-ness of your answers catches my attention.   For some reason my intuition tells me...|||[Disregard this post; I hadn't seen your previous one]|||Thanks! I really appreciate your advice. Though,  just one question, do you think if I go about 3 weeks without texting (our main way of communication) and decide to text her a week prior to the...|||Thank you, Larac. That was very informative and calmed my anxieties a bit. So far, I haven't confessed to her. To confess to her my feelings would mean that I've given up on her and have decided to...|||I know what the OP feels like. I enjoy the gifts that come with being an INTJ, but there are times when it feels like a curse.   I can compare it to having superpowers. Much like a superhero has a...|||You spend 24 hours a day weighing and evaluating the chances that a peer, of which you like, might like you back.|||Right. So what is it that makes you think she doesnt want a relationship with me? I mean, what details make you sway more towards thinking that she isnt interested as opposed to taking a neutral...|||One last thing, in the unlikely event that she does set something up, should I mention my feelings for her then and there or should I try to get to know her a bit better and facilitate another...|||Thanks for your kind words :) I will give her approximately a few more days. I wont text her until then. If she doesnt bring up the bike ride, I think it is best if I text her about it because she...|||Thanks. This sucks on so many levels but I guess it is something that needs to be done. I highly appreciate everyone's help!|||I see. So when I do tell her, what do I do afterwards? Do I still stay her friend or is it best to just move on and forget her (assuming she doesnt like me)?|||Wait, nevermind my post. You already did :)|||Thank you for the words of encouragement. BTW, could you have a look at what @Galaxies believes about her? Not because I want you to convenience her that she likes me or something (in an attempt to...|||The thing is that I didnt say anything mean or hurt her feelings. Im 100% sure of it. We have never talked about any truly political subjects that could potentially create a tear in our relationship....'