Going with my gut:  Sterling - ESFP Lana - ESTJ Mallory - ENTJ Cheryl - Tough one, due to the insanity. Any of the IxxP types fits, but I think specifically ISTP or INFP Pam - ESTP Cyril -...|||Personally, I adore ENTPs, though I wish they used Fi instead of Fe. That said, Fe is much better for manipulating community feeling, and a developed tertiary Fe remains my interpretation of Obama. I...|||I'm an ENFP, 32, male. I still don't grok Ni.  All of the above examples make perfectly clear sense of the process in the abstract, but I cannot model it in my own brain or observe it in my own...|||ENTP. He utterly reminds me of my best friend, an ENTP.  I posit that Obama has intentionally well-developed his Fe and practised concrete and value-laden S language (perhaps with scriptwriters, et...|||People in my office think I'm a borderline serial killer: I'm irritable and snappy, consciously having no friends, quite unlike my 'real' life outside of work. This aggression is mostly because I...|||Eventually, always.|||Purple, black, silver, very dark green, very light grey paired with very light blue.|||This is exactly the place I occupy at present. I often lose the battle not to have to explain myself, but increasingly I care less and less about what others think. A new development in my life. I...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2KB8uqrzgI&noredirect=1|||Others are regularly annoyed with my avoidant tendencies. But screw them, they don't have to deal with the sensitivity, do they?|||Yes, I can sleep off almost anything, and it's my preferred cure to everything from hangovers to illness to being fired. That said, I often have problems getting to sleep to begin with, but then I...|||Yeah, this.  Probably once a year, if I'm lucky, I might cross paths with someone like-minded for a holistically passionate weekend (last year it was an ENFJ girl, mind-blowing...), but to friends,...|||I think, as painful as it is, leaving yourself open to hurt is how we grow stronger and wiser. They say each type can take their dominant function to a level the other types can not realistically...|||Yep. That's always been me.  My first love once told me that I was 'the kind of boy a girl goes to when she wants to have a holiday from reality, to live in the dream bubble of love for a while,...|||Yeah; I get drunk, shut my eyes and if I love the music, I'm a good dancer.|||Open-minded, diplomatic, humanitarian.  Shame none of those pay the rent. :/|||- 32 - Male - Straight - A gentleman doesn't tell.  I lost my virginity at 20, after having refused opportunities since about age 15. It was still too early, and she was the wrong person. I...|||This is interesting for me - most of my friends have been NTs, and they don't have soul or heart at times for me to go that extra step with my admiration. I've met very few NFs that I've recognised,...|||The thing I hate is how often suicide is dismissed as stupidity and my first reaction is how utterly shallow those kind of judgements must be.|||Have fantasised plenty, don't think I'd ever have the stones to go through with it though, no matter how bad things got.|||Death is that place your thoughts inhabited 200 years ago. Death is the space in your sleep between those few bursts of dreaming. Death is just permanent unconsciousness. Nothing scary about that,...|||Very powerful growth and success can be achieved, you have a lot to learn from each other's approach to life, but you're also going to clash about values. My ENTJ ex was very dominant, energetic, and...|||Yeah, kinda this. I know that, for me, to make a relationship work would take all my energy and exclusive focus on the relationship. I don't have the energy to hold down a job and to try to be a good...|||-Yes, an easily controlled, but not low, libido. It's not always high, and often surprisingly low when I'm in a relationsip, but it's usually high wherever it is a distraction, like at work in an...|||A trifling crime I had no part in. But you can see shades of what I mean when you feel abused in any way.  Unrequited love is bittersweet, you do get to fantasise at times about what could have...|||Ireland, the St Michel in Paris, Strasbourg, Barcelona, London, Venice and Bold Street in my hometown, Liverpool. I have to imagine Japan and Thailand, maybe Canada; perhaps I'll one day come back...|||Oh yeah, and this. I've always been a big city boy, a driver's licence is more of a cv-resume qualification than something I'd want personally.|||I'd say guilt and regret, but they fade over time, eventually ou can become numb to them.  It is, horrifically, possible to experience a deep betrayal, arranged to humiliate you publically, merely...|||Here in the UK, learning to drive is expensive and always done privately. I'm 32 and still haven't gotten around to it, though I've started lessons. I am terrible, which irritates me after about 15...|||I can't disagree with any of this, however it's pretty hard to actually attract the right kind of people when both you, and they, are so rare, leading to long stretches of loneliness and sexual...|||Music, or the first time you realise your love is requited.|||INFP men don't get the girl. But if we live true to ourselves and with a truly brave kind of compassion, enough of the time, then it's been my experience that, on random occassions and often without...|||I'd add that regular clubbing meant for me dancing intensively for hours a few nights a week, so I also miss it now for the exercise! I was a ridiculously fit 20-something, all of it through mildly...|||A-levels were along time ago for me now (the last year to do only what you would call H2s, no H1s...) but also I did English Lang/Lit, which I never felt strong at but managed an A without any real...|||I've always loved clubbing, though I need a certain level of alcohol to get into my groove, and the club has to play music I can really get into. If I'm sober, I pretty much have to enter the club...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NlXTv5Ondgs|||I want to do justice to your response, which, while not infuriating, is a little frustrating. My relationships to friends and family are marked by my guilt at either having to accept hand-outs, or...|||It's all very well and nice for the lucky INFP males, born with creative talents, money or a supportive community, but being told to be 'happy with who you are' isn't enough when the rest of the...|||So much. I totally get why us INFPs swoon for ENFJs, I'd follow certain ENFJs I've known over a cliff for the right cause. I have a harder time seeing the appeal going the other way though. :/|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbUfDXrWgbs|||It is possible but requires a great deal of honesty with oneself, which in turn needs a lot of initial calming distance and time.|||Anything heartfelt, anything important on the humanitarian stage, anything abstract, or anything darkly humorous. Don't insult people, and try to avoid the every day.  In general though, I think...|||Would you rather she said it feeling forced into it when she wasn't ready? Is hearing the words the only way you can feel love, or is it the only way you can feel secure in your relationship? There's...|||Do whatever will cause you to write more, and more, and more. For some, they rebel against criticism, and want to prove themselves; but I know if it was me, I would take it to heart and use it as an...|||An ambivert, as I tend to drift between extremes of extraversion and introversion for months at a time. Very, very N, or we won't like each other to begin with. F more than T, though a weak T is a...|||Unrequited love is fantasy love, so it comes naturally and deeply to INFPs. The authentic bittersweet feeling is positively addictive. I only escaped from it through harsh contact with reality, over...|||I was born a bad loser, but loving games has caused me to learn to fake good manners, the hard way, over years.  I rage over things that push my buttons, but I still have trouble forming it into...|||Ne derailment of Fe, picturesque! Ne is the thing I could never give up, best thing about life a lot of the time. Yay internet. x|||I'm not very introverted, I like socialising on my own terms. Anyway, might not suit your needs, but I'm a 32 year old straight atheist with a big place in Liverpool, England, and I'd love to meet...|||Why do you want to develop Fe?  You can't 100% extravert or introvert a function - whenever we're using F and we're not entirely alone, Fe is being used to. It's about the focus and attention you...