'Apparently I was told by one of my bosses today that I don't interview well, as in job interviews (I still got hired for the position, as I had been working a different position at the same place...|||I've been having an intimate relationship with an ENFP woman 28 years older than me, and I think I'm falling in love with her. I have no idea what to do but I wish I could be with her without being...|||But we are one of the most loyal types, INFPs are the martyrs for causes they believe in. I think we'd be good at protecting information. I'd rather die than reveal someone else's secrets.|||I think I use it sometimes to appear less serious when communicating with people who might interpret my words differently than I intend them to. It seems to give the conversation a more casual,...|||Plato  The Symposium, a dialogue about the philosophy of love, is one of the most beautiful books I've ever read.|||Romantic Era - 1800s   http://youtu.be/0uxoKo2SYQQ  Rachmaninoff, Mahler, Liszt, Schumann, Brahms, Tchaikovsky... :).|||I love the academic world. I plan on staying in it for as long as possible, and hope to one day become a professor.  I think it's a fantastic place for INFPs, since we can study our passions...|||Can INFPs have casual sex?   I don't think I really can... physically, yes, but not emotionally. I prefer to fulfill my own needs if there's no emotional connection, but when I'm in caught up in...|||Thank you! It's my favourite singer, Kate Bush :). I think she is an INFP as well!|||INTJs very much :).|||Used to be... life gets in the way though.|||Even the ...ketchup with cucumbers... part?   Why, nice to meet you too :P.|||Apparantly I'm too intimidating that I don't get approached by guys/girls my age... I'm also really critical and idealistic... and mature for my age... and I often prefer books and ideas to people......|||I'm still hopelessly stuck in limerence and it's slowly tearing me  apart. Limerence is an addiction and it's ruining my life. It was a  wonderful feeling to begin with and made me an overall better,...|||I'm still hopelessly stuck in limerence and it's slowly tearing me apart. Limerence is an addiction and it's ruining my life. It was a wonderful feeling to begin with and made me an overall better,...|||This is absolutely brilliant. I also see Fitzgerald as an ISFP.|||I think that at this moment, confronting her or telling your parents might cause her to lose trust in you for invading her privacy. Have her moods or behaviour changed at all recently or does she...|||Some people just aren't very good at replying to things quickly :... Happens to me all the time and it's completely unintentional and doesn't have any hidden meaning. Usually I mentally respond to...|||I think that I have a type that I'm inherently attracted to, and gender just doesn't seem to matter.   Byronic Hero - Television Tropes & Idioms  Byronically, I've actually met more women who...|||Yes. It's a method of self-preservation for me. I don't trust very many people, nor do I connect with most. And I care a lot less about this than I used to, so I suppose I am a bit apathetic as well,...|||- Say one thing to someone and not suffer the (negative) consequences, what would you say?  I would tell the person I'm interested in my feelings. And assuming I wouldn't suffer negative...|||While I  canx92t have you, I long for you. I am the kind of person who  would miss a train  or a plane to meet you for coffee. Ix92d take a taxi  across town to see you for  ten minutes. Ix92d wait...|||Oh limerence, how I love and hate you. You make me act like an impulsive fool or an avoidant coward... I just can't win when it comes to dealing with my emotions -_-.|||Just started college last week. I have no friends :|.   I just feel so detached from everyone that I've met so far. No one has really clicked with me yet. And people always say that college is the...|||http://youtu.be/Hxd2-qmQix8  I've been feeling a bit out of it recently, so I've been listening to a lot of Portishead. It seems to help. I don't exactly feel depressed, but somewhat numb and...|||INTJ The Mastermind You scored 25 I versus E, 20 N versus S, 100 F versus T,  and 100 J versus P!   Your ideal romantic partner is known as the Mastermind.  As a  romantic...|||ENFP  65%  Extroverted, 37%  Sensing, 14%  Thinking, 62%  Perceiving|||This has really been bothering me recently.  It's frustrating because of how complex the whole system is, so it's difficult to not be a part of it or to change it in any way. I think the only...|||I would identify as pansexual. I think it's theufeff deepest form of sexuality because it transcends physical bonds. Pansexual is loving love.   Over the years I've come to realize that I don't fall in...|||I found this very encouraging and hope that it will become easier with time :)! Thanks for the encouraging and helpful reply! You're right, I think a lot of it has to do with being introverted,...|||I hate children. I work at a summer day camp for 6-10 year olds and it's slowly draining my soul away. Children are energy vampires. They literally suck the energy out of all the adults around them...|||Cognitive Process Level of Development (Preference, Skill and Frequency of Use)   extraverted Sensing (Se)  ************************************  (36.6) excellent use   introverted Sensing...|||http://youtu.be/3diz8I0AVVk Beautiful, ethereal...  I listen to this on repeat :).|||This article about desire vs. love just melts my heart: Jeanette Winterson|||This is a great article written by author Jeanette Winterson which highlights the differences between the two: Jeanette Winterson|||.|||Would it be possible for one's cognitive functions to somehow re-order?   Hypothetically, if personality were able to change, it would seem more likely to switch between types with similar...|||Does anyone else enjoy liking pages and constantly keeping your  interests updated? Honestly, it's my favourite feature of the site.   For some reason, I feel the need to compulsively keep track...|||Severus Snape.|||1. I would probably lie and then find an alternate way to pay for my  textbooks. Spending the money on something else was irresponsible of me  and I would hate to lose her trust (or for her to not...|||Gin & Tonic - clean, crisp, cool, and classy White Russian|||Drunk and making out with my pillow because it is too hard to stand and talk to real people :(. Mmmmmmhmmmmmmmmmm, shameless. Wish it was HER but I'm a bloody fool at the moment, Oh god, why am I...|||I love raves! Even though there are a ton of people, raves can be for introverts if you fully absorb yourself in the music and lights. It's not as draining or overwhelming as some may think, as the...|||I don't use pick-up lines. I usually just stare into the person's soul and try to send them telepathic love energy, silently hoping that they'll intuitively pick up on my feelings and reciprocate....|||Even if being homosexual was a choice, why would it be an illogical one?  Are you assuming that all INTJs look for relationships/partners solely to produce children? Because I'm sure a lot of INTJs...|||This might not be as exciting as some of the other suggestions... but since it's extra money that you can't decide what to do with, why not donate it to a charity that you support?  I like to...|||My life is defined by falling in love with fictional characters >.>  Severus Snape - Harry Potter Bellatrix Lestrange - Harry Potter Marla Singer - Fight Club V- V for Vendetta Rochester - Jane...|||I've been picking my courses based on how hot the prof. is (as well as ratings) since there are so many different time options for the same course.|||Can any of you INTPs come up with a riddle whose answer is basement?  It's  a bit unusual of me to ask for a riddle to an answer, instead of  the  opposite. It's part of our senior prank and I'd...|||In that case I would like to pose this question to INTJs: Can anyone come up with a riddle whose answer is basement?  It's  a bit unusual of me to ask for a riddle to an answer, instead of  the...'