'I broke the windshield.  With my foot.  When I kicked it.|||But you understand that it's more for him than for you, right? Are you okay with that? I could never get over that aspect of Te dom. It may be effective but I can see right thru it and I'm not...|||Damn, that was good.|||No quote, no reply.|||This topic was done a looooong time ago and yet attacks keep coming...why?   enfpeeved understood just fine...message received by the person to which it was intended, she even explained it.  This...|||Lol..and then there's that.  That might work on intps you know (I doubt it) but it doesn't work on me.|||Wow. Just wow.   Surely, I thought someone would pick up that I was alluding to him being a drug user.   C'mon..there's not enough oxygen in this room.|||I sure do love this and would like to think more people process this way.|||Ah, I see. Still teasing out the differences between Fe and Fi. I definitely fall in the latter category but my standard of what's acceptable is just usually a lot lower than other Fe...|||Isn't how would you feel if.. a Fe thing? Do Fi dom/aux do that too? Just wondering..|||LOL...I just told her to man up and grow a pair so she could be the kind of person someone would respect and you heard blaming the entj??? i can't...|||This right here is likely why he's not that into you. He can treat you however he wants and it's okay. When you start respecting yourself and develop some self-esteem things will change. Entjs...|||Right. Context is key.   I.e. That she allowed it negates underhanded or nefarious motives.|||My lexicon defines it this way:   Use [verb yooz or for pt for mof 9, yoost; noun yoos]  verb (used with object), used, using. 1. to employ for some purpose; put into service; make use of: (to...|||It depends on your definition of use. I see that it is different than mine.|||This is exactly what happened to me. As soon as he took to action it became a irrevocable SNAFU.|||You don't realize men and women are coming from completely different places when it comes to romantic relationships even if they're of the same type.  ........ Also, when I said he is using her I...|||Nope. Not game playing, an opportunity to reevaluate feelings. Either way, breaking it off is still the right thing to do since he doesn't want a relationship and she does.|||Absolutely. Its an opportunity for him to discover how he really feels deep down in her absence. Since he's getting what he wants with no work involved, it isn't really that valuable is it? Creating...|||The best chance you have for him to take you seriously is to break it off, no explanation. But I've already mentioned that..and I'm starting to sound like a broken record.|||If that's how you understand it, I'll leave it at that.|||He is using her for what he wants whether he states it or not and she allows it.  Ending the relationship by no means correlates to a continued one and that outcome should not be anticipated but is...|||You are the problem. Why do you keep letting him use you like this? If he wants a friendship, act like a friend and not a girl that lets a man keep using her all up. If he has been honest by saying...|||We don't do plans. If we're pressured about it: sit back, grab some popcorn and watch it get infinitely worse.|||It's our super power :exterminate:|||^agreed. no more 8's for me.|||The 'intp version' of this is not fun (for either side). He pushed me into a game of one-up and I had to crush him. I didn't want to deflate and defeat, but he left me no choice. He started something...|||I will do that, thanks.|||So true. You speak intp.|||No, there's no question necessarily. But I still can't wrap my mind or heart around this. I would be so tempted to just try to excuse the behavior.  It hurts so bad. I'd never hurt this bad over an...|||I thought he was such a good person. Now I'm not sure if it was all just an illusion. I really believed in him. I still want to. There's a saying: When someone shows you who they are, believe them....|||Haven't they all died off yet?   ...Perhaps they need a little assistance :th_Jttesur:|||My unsolicited statement in reference to the above is: nothing is more endearing to me than Fi at work for others in an ENTJ. It's their most respectable quality and wins it instantly.|||My feelies got developed too, due to being exposed early in life to large amounts of irrational, unreasonable, raging histrionics and being forced into grip experiences for most of my life.|||Agreed and....    I'm dead:laughing:|||wait, you're good with special but not general?|||Not familiar. One is 5th Element:wink:|||After noticing uncanny similarities, a thoughtful friend suggested I check it out. It was like looking in a mirror.|||As long as they have a cat we're good:ball:|||I can't do TV either...mostly just for background noise.|||Right. They're usually wrong and not just a little wrong...like, a multiverse away wrong.:confused:  The MBTI is listed in descending order...just about everywhere, even here. INTJ -> ESFP|||You've just proven my point.|||I can count on one hand the movies I've actually enjoyed.:bored:|||I can't stand movies. I mean I REALLY can't stand movies. So boring.|||I've yet to have a good experience with an infj. I had one as a therapist once and it was torture for me. She couldn't keep up at all. Their imagination fills in a lot of things they just can't...|||I don't watch the Star Wars either.|||:hugs:|||Hey man, whatever floats your boat:kitteh:|||I quit reading after this post because she NAILED IT.  OP is very immature and not ready for any kind of serious relationship. He's delusional. There is no perfection (OP included!) and it will be...|||Most end up with INFJ/Ps. What's to wonder?'