'No.|||It doesn't mean you're 55% feeler and 45% thinker, it means that you are 55% likely to have a feeling preference and 45% likely to have a thinking preference according to the answers you gave to the...|||Yes, I advise people take this with a whole salt lick.    Never had any more problems with romance than the average person, married twice and have happily been with my second husband for over...|||I wouldn't bother trying to conflate the two.|||Yeah, Chicken Little, I've been hearing about the various ways the sky is falling since I was a child and I'm an old bat now.  Good luck with that, though.  I can see the zombies won't catch you...|||:laughing:   Everything you wrote seemed pretty spot on to me but I got a particular laugh from this bit because I am so very, very guilty of it and always have been.  This is why I consider...|||The usual caveat that I speak only for myself and not for any other xNFJs...  If you haven't had any damage in your relationships with others by expressing your true views, feelings, or self, I...|||If it got to the point of a true door slam (and not what people sometimes mistakenly call door slams), hell no, there's  nothing the slammee could say to me because I am so profoundly disinterested...|||Hey, the zombies may be eating people but it isn't their fault.|||Never mind, other people already said it and said it better.|||Yeah, I do think it's mythical.|||The difference?  They're utter bastards.  Whereas we're self-righteous bitches.|||Many reasons, not least because usually the abused has been systematically broken down, gaslighted, and mind-fucked by the abuser over time and let's not forget the threats - which sometimes ends up...|||Yes, I am warm and friendly.  I'm a professional who's learned that style of interaction.  I consider it a good thing, the world is crappy enough that I don't need to be one more crappy thing other...|||Dario Argento's movies always creeped me right out.  They still do, in spite of the special effects being so dated.|||ENFJ   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7b3TNiPjQq4|||I observed potential romantic partners to see what kind of people they were, but that was along the lines of noticing if what they said was congruent with what they actually did, how they treated...|||I developed Ni+Ti fruit loops once, but I was hungry and ate them.|||I've read that sex does not release Oxytocin in men unless they're already emotionally attached to the woman.  I've also read that scientific studies claiming Oxytocin is the bonding hormone are...|||You weren't in the slightest rude and I apologize for giving you the impression that I might have thought you were.  Sometimes I can be overly succinct.  I advise that you don't compare yourself to...|||I would strongly advise you don't go by the other INFJs on forums.|||This behavior is common among people in general.|||It's traditionally been the dolphin, which is why the big INFJ list group community is Dolphin Cove.|||I've been with one for 23 years and the relationship remains romantic, deeply loving, and playful.  He is my favorite person in the world, knows me better than anyone, and is very nurturing and...|||I work as a hospice nurse for a local non-profit hospice, donate to the local food bank and local homeless shelter, and donate to some national charities.  I did volunteer work when I wasn't working...|||Huh.  I don't remember writing this…oh, wait!  It wasn't me!  Welcome to the development of your tertiary function, my fellow INFJ 6w5.  I'd guess I don't frighten people as much as you - social...|||Holy Deja Vu, Batman!|||Cookies are important.|||Your roommate is obviously not going to meet your needs.  Give it up and move on to plan B.|||Wow!  You were absolutely right!  I did not guess the jawdropping event that happened next.|||I don't know why, but it's probably for the best.  :tongue:|||You might find posting this in the Socionics forum helpful.  I personally don't relate to any of it, but then, I never do relate to Socionics.|||I pretty much have what I need to be happy right now.  The billion dollars could give me two things I'd really like - more free time to do whatever, because earning a living takes up a good chunk of...|||I'm sure some people find something of value in Socionics but, as I could never relate to anything whatsoever in the Socionics literature I read, it's got absolutely nothing for me.  I don't look the...|||At a guess, ISFP.|||Don't forget tribute.  It doesn't have to be gold - paper money is good too.|||I assumed I'd be in Hufflepuff but I, too, was sorted into Ravenclaw.|||Naïveté.|||Nope, I'm a touchaholic and always have been.|||Just a quick reminder as to how tests are generally scored.  The percentage you get on any function is not how strong you are in that function, but how likely it is you prefer that function.  For...|||Been with my INFP husband over twenty years, still passionately in love and never bored and according to him, he feels the same way.  *shrug*|||I'm okay with a message or phone call as long as it stays short and light.  I've got at least one person in my life whose phone calls tend towards the emotional dump and that's a bit much when I'm...|||Oh, sure.  Definite thread drift.|||Oh, well, as long as they make the most of it...    Maybe the INFJ is breaking up with the ENFP because he/she isn't the one.  Or because he/she is fleety.|||That's an interesting idea.  Let's flesh it out further.  Say I'm in the market for a new car.  In the first scenario, I choose several models with general qualities I'm looking for and in my...|||Once more, with feeling!  Although I'm just going to cut and paste from a previous post:|||I cannot deny that occasionally I've had someone chase me to try to catch me and eat me.|||I do drink.  That's why I'm partying instead of meeting people on line.  Slainte!     I do, but mainly I'm replying because I think your user name, WinterFox, is really pretty.|||Very INFP.|||I've always been comfortable around both men and women, it usually depends on the individual person more than gender.  In my experience, men and women are more alike than they are different.'