'I personally see Jesus as having been an INFJ. I think in modern interpretations of the time, we like to see him as a social butterfly. It wasn't his social skills though what drew people to him, it...|||Hello! Welcome to the website! :)|||I love INFPs too. :P I found out that I've only ever dated INFP's. :P|||ENFJ's,   I hope all of you are doing well. I'm writing to you today because I would like to know how ENFJ's have handled choosing their careers, which ones they tend to learn towards (what kind of...|||Hey guys, the date didn't happen right now. Thanks for all the advice, I'll keep it in mind for the future.|||I'm saddened by the lack of ENFJ's in this thread. :P   Anyway, I'm going to contribute to that and say that I feel my natural partner is the INFP. Though, I could see life being very enjoyable...|||I feel like as NF's, we tend to do just that. We tend to read into words and allow them to consume us emotionally. Personally, To an ISTP, the words love and BFF have very different meanings,...|||Thanks everyone for the help. The date is tomorrow, we'll see how it goes. I'll most definitely update you all. I really like this individual, I'm hoping it becomes reciprocated.|||I agree, simply proceed at this point and kind of go with the flow. I wouldn't even be against simply asking, though it make take some of the romance away from it all for the ENFJ.|||While I hate cats, the cuddling and cuteness of the photo is most definitely apparent. :P|||Yeah, I've been told that I have this amazing way to grab a crowd and focus them.  :P|||I most definitely delete everything for a fresh start. I have my own memories and recollections of the events. For me, getting over it means removing all reminders that aren't mental, and achieving...|||Thanks everyone for all your help. So far I've gathered some tips and I'm going to be:    Confident in myself.   Honest  Unforceful about conversations.. it's better to have no conversation than...|||I personally would really like to know what people think Ralph's personality is.   ENFJ?|||Harry - ISFJ Ron - ESFP Hermione - ISFP Dumbledore - INFJ Voldermort - INTJ Snape - INTJ Malfoy - ISTJ Professor McGonnogal (sp?) - ENFJ Hagrid - ESFJ Luna - INFP|||We've had conversations. We're going out on a date soon. I'm just worried about keeping his interest. I have never dated someone that wasn't an NF, I'm wondering if there's something I should do to...|||What kind of things would I tell him I'm good at? I feel like community service, teaching, and psychology aren't exactly intriguing to an INTJ. :/ They're very... ENFJish topics. Though I try to talk...|||Hello INTJ board members,   Firstly, I would like to thank you all for reading my post. I'm slightly nervous about this post, so please bear with me.   I think I'm really beginning to like this...|||Hey guys,   So, I was organizing my computer today, choosing my wallpaper, and I was wondering if ENFJ's had certain tendencies to choose certain types of wallpaper. And even if not, I was still...|||I don't see anything about the accompanying book, I could just be blind though. The book sounds great and I'll definitely add it to my wishlist.   Thanks so much!   Chris|||Thanks for this, I found some really interesting stuff. I'm going to attempt to see if I can't get my current job to fork over the money to get me certified so I can bring back what I gather to the...|||Well, to be honest, I'm hoping to get involved with Criminalistics. I'm currently aiming towards a Bachelors of Science in Criminal Sciences with a depth focus in Criminal Theory, Microbiology...|||I've been thinking here lately about double-majoring at my university through their liberal arts program. Through this program, I would be able to formulate my own depth study, eventually becoming my...|||Welcome to the forum.   I'm also a gay ENFJ, and I definitely think that a lot of your issues come with the bullying. I suggest you go out and find your community. Having people you can identify...|||Yep I am! :P   And thanks Kali.|||Damn, I'm left out. O_o   What about the other token gay ENFJ? *hint: ME!* :P|||I'm definitely seeing this happen with my immediate ex. :/ It's sad to see sometimes.  While it's not a sad concept to have fun with some alcohol, he's becoming someone who he isn't, and he's...|||I'm gay, I'm Cuban (but I look and speak like a complete whitey), I like to eat, I have a passion for nutrition and exercise, I love law and medicine, I'm a hopeless romantic, and I WILL save the...|||The library (or starbucks), with coffee and some headphones in (with low playing classical music) gets me into the productive zone. Either that or Adderall. :P|||My current job is moreso in the Marketing area, and then I have another in the medical field. At this point I'm thinking Law School AND Med School. And while doing the first one, I'll teach biology...|||I hope you're ready with a relationship with an ENFJ. We're no joke when it comes to love. :P   I can't speak for us as a whole, but for me, a relationship becomes who I am. Not physically or...|||Welcome to the forum! I'm an ENFJ, it's my job to bring you out of your shell. :P   Glad you're here!|||I'm sorry you're feeling that way. My natural reaction to any INFP that is feeling alone is to go to their aid, (you all are my weakness) but, my private message inbox is definitely open to you.  ...|||I'm not an INFP, but I thought I'd throw it in here anyway since I'm always glancing through the INFP section. :P   My home would be modern, stylish, but at enough of a distance from society to be...|||Thanks for all the advice guys. I'm not sure about the whole being good at moving on thing, but, I'm working on piecing my life together again. The pain is intense, but I try not to talk about it...|||I'm the Community Service Outreach Coordinator for my university. I give lectures and am in charge of outreach for community service events sponsored through the university.   I'm still in school...|||My ex fiance just got into another relationship.   We broke up three months ago.  We got back together three weeks ago.  He left me a week after we got back together.  And now he's with someone...|||I'm wondering if anyone else is like this:   Before deciding on establishing a relationship with someone, I think about what it could be, if I could see myself with the individual, etc.   I...|||Maybe I'm different, but, I'm not like that at all. It's been three months and I'm progressing at the pace of the DSL turtles on the Comcast commercials.|||Beer - Bud Light Vodka - Only if it's all that's around.   I know, I'm a horrible gay guy. No fruity martini's for me.|||ENFJ   April Taurus|||Does anyone know of where I might be able to buy some novelty items and whatnot that displays my type? I've trying googling, although I'm not good at it.   By novelty items I mean things like...|||Welcome to the forum! INFP's are amazing people. A few I know self-loathe a ton, however, to me they are the most amazing people out there. Value yourselves, you guys are the heart of my life.|||I'm in class, posting on here when I shouldn't be.|||Marry Me <3|||Welcome (and re-welcome) Andrew. I'm glad to call you by the name you feel most comfortable with.|||Welcome to the forum!|||I have no idea what's going on with me today. I'm normally pretty good about these sort of things. Earlier I spelled shut as shit and now invest as incest.  FML|||If I had the money, I would invest in another MacBook, except the Pro. Right now I don't have the money for that though. I'm going to need to use my MacBook as much as I can. I could buy an extra...|||Thanks. This along with the diet stuff that was mentioned earlier all seem like some good tools to help me get back on track.'