'wow. this nails it right on the head for an infp. . MEANINGFUL flirting? we can just be ourselves as we focus on the needs of the one we're flirting with (i mean, not that you cant be silly at times)...|||so funny! i use to hit those i liked too....didnt work for me either. i wonder why....now i just philosophize them to death...that dont word either.  lol|||perhaps you're asking the wrong question. . For me, flirting is easy, but the emotions and thoughts that accompany flirting (and i'm talking about someone who i am attracted to) are very...|||I've done that whole full time thing for years. sucks man....i crashed and burned....i swear i'll never take another full time job in my life. . i think part time jobs helps us NFPs get thru the day...|||oh. that's hard living with parents... .. i'm at my child hood home. (my parents died years ago). . its my sister's house now. they are cool. . but still.|||wisdom teeth are EXTREMELY hard to take care of....otoh, there are times when  health problems are emotional. and INFPs are rife for suppressing emotion. like we are the little jesuses of the world...|||i consider myself infp. but i also THOUGHT of myself as a strong thinker, logical etc...so though i'm Fi i think i'm Ti as well (definitely Ne)....but the thing for infp is not that they are logical...|||i noticed a lot of immaturity on this site. not from the young members, but from the ones who actually have years of experience with mbti etc....mbti is about healthy relationships. i think people...|||wow. that's heavy. maybe more heavy is how the heck you learned infp. (i guess like you said, you had to grow up). well, however you learned it i'm so glad you did. its so good to know YOU. ....my...|||tear jerkers yeah. . i try not to be sitting where people can see my eyes tear. . but then what to do with the tears dripping down? (kinda busted when you bring your sleeve up to wipe the face). ....|||welcome. I hate the tests too. I feel like I get better results looking at the profiles of various functions. I'm older, so I have a lot of behavior to compare with... though there are many people...|||it troubles me that no matter how hard i try to do things right, i have these very old habits that annoy the people i love, employers, etc (non-infp of course and probably mostly the Ts and Js). It...|||find the job you hate the least (it may take a very long time to get paid for the job you love)....part-time if you can afford it. Then get a plan to get into a job you like. ...idk. that's the best...|||because we deserve it?...sorta.|||welcome, i'm trying to learn the types as well. been trying for a year now...real fun, but very confusing....and thru PC i realized i was mixing up my T and J types when observing them (publicly on...|||i think jung would agree. he obviously believed in the types, but when it came to actually observing the individual he was against letting the type generalities bias him (if that is possible?)....i...|||hey welcome...what part of enfp dont you like.......i was married to a ixtj (i'm pretty sure but still knew at this) for years. just separated...that TJ FP clash killed us. if i had known about mbti...|||welcome . yeah, that whole honesty thing is overated....i think i just blew a job interview cuz of it lol......why are you depressed?|||you are always waiting for free time? ditto. i guess that's a classic infp thing.  and when i get free time at home i drink coffee during the day and beer by night. . . we are good at starting...|||i wish i had more understanding of disassociation (psychology mbti etc).  But i do have a lot of experience in christianity (not a doctor though).....i was into fundamental christianity for...|||cool thanks for the differentiation. . i need to expand my library (and head) asap.|||OP's gotta be P....you can call me ignorant. show me otherwise.|||what do you mean by J vs P doesn't make sense with MBTI?....I'm not sure if i'm T or F (cuz I'm on the cusp i guess)? would this be another example of something that doesn't make sense?|||well, yeah, i'm ignorant. That's why I joined. . i think there are a lot of ignorant people here. and TONS of people who aren't- people i envy for all these years of knowledge and experience..... i...|||i never had complete ownership of my mind. I was too busy trying to be a serous person......so true, i spent 30 years trying to be someone i wasnt. now in the wake of all the disaster (i myself...|||well it could be the s/t factor....but is this about S, T, J and my ignorance? i think my 1st comment came across VERY cocky. i in no way wanted to do that.  I usually qualify such inflammatory...|||i wouldn't know. i never studied personality types by jung :)....in fact i would have put money down that coy was a J...but now you agree that he is a s/t....are you SURE that's not J behavior?...|||its a mixed bag. i heard that something like 80% of arguments aren't even over a real disagreement.....otoh, i think INFPs 1st reaction is to assume they know.....so yeah, you're right. the best...|||duh, sorry, i thought you orinally posted J or P. mybad :)|||hmmm. . well, its just my opinion based on the information at hand. . questionnaires arent always very helpful. i never even finished one. Then again i'm an infp - I Never Finish Projects lol. ....|||i dont think i'll EVER be happy with a job....after many years in this infp shell, i'm convinced......its quite depressing. so i just do what i hate the least and try to make life less painful. . in...|||i didnt even know this book was out there. shows what i know. i must get! thanks!|||i smell a J lol :)|||you sound more J than P. .I'm a P and was married to a J...(i'd like to think i'm a J expert. but i am still sorta new to MBTI .studying it almost 1 year now)|||you sound more like an intp....i'm a INFP and i tend to hoard (especially books. 1000s! one of several complaints my separated wife had against me and she's a J- SOOOO not a hoarder). ...i dont sense...|||as an infp i think i am highly allergic to Js....(i think....i'm sorta knew at this). . and i dont suspect a HINT of J in you.....of course your personal description is a little short....i think Js...|||hey welcome derik1992. i'm an infp and  i think  i give my energy when i'm with people (any people). (i suppose it runs out quicker if there's a conflict etc involved). ...but i dont think enfps...|||hi ! i've had a very exciting 1st year studying mbti and i wasnt even on this forum....so i think you will have a real good time for many months to come...hopefully years.|||VERY cool post....that's why i joined P.C. - and why i'm on INFP forum specifically., i was tired of being destroyed by family, peers, church etc. . (of course to my shame i hurt a lot of people in...|||i just learned about mbti less than a year ago; but i'd have to say you are a classic infp...i represent myself differently to the public than to the private as well. . i use to feel chameleon-ish...|||you have some good thoughts....i think we need to be in the philosophy forum|||[QUOTE=yippy;19933218]polarity22 The answer to your question is: 42   lol. yes yippy. if numbers have anything to do with it, 42 would be a good guess (re: hitchhikers guide). 42 is the...|||yeah, picking at dry skin seems wierd. but that's what some animals do.. so i guess that gets at the core of what love really is : hygiene :)  i bit a girl once when i was 8. i've blocked it from...|||like Shameless Nation, nothing else makes sense....i never even took the test. I tried. But i got annoyed with it or something (of course I Never Finish Projects). ...so i just looked at the...|||as an INFP i think you could be right by choosing purple. . for years i've leaned towards purple as my favorite color. . (teal may be my 2nd runner up) ....mbti and colors? sorta cabalistic. i like...|||i believed those things too. for years. but now i know that this is part of our codependent nature. i think as INFPs we tend to be the yin side of the codependency.....but now that i understand...|||hmmm. . well,(i'm new at this) Blueflare said hormones dont change types. But you feel your T changed to an F; and woogiefox said people get their Ts and Fs crossed. But you also say you're...|||yeah, you are up against a lot....when i was 20 i was at a crossroad (subconsciously). NOTHING was working for me (relationships, school, jobs etc etc)....long story short: i became a christian, and...|||i think tetsuo shima illustrates my observation quite well (and again it is just an observation based on studies of the top natural endocrinologist in the world- therry hertoghe). Your drama,...|||only thought of it once after a divorce......in general, i'd say my INFP dreams and greener on the other side of the fence philosophy keeps me going....but it is exhausting.'