'...and I thought I was an ENFJ for quite a while.  I'm pretty positive I'm an ENFP now. So, hello friends :D|||Aww Mel I miss you too!! I still think that you're a closet ENFJ =P You should come back and join us.. haha.|||This thread is epic win|||Interesting.. I can definitely agree with the whole appreciating art and music and such.   Exercising as a stress reliever.. hmm, it probably is the best stress reliever for me, but I don't...|||I'm OBSESSED with puns!! I annoy my friends all the time.|||I just wanna quit thinking about girls for a while. So troublesome. So much baggage and drama..|||I love these RSA animate ones.. especially the Empathic Civilization:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7AWnfFRc7g  And Changing Education Paradigms:  ...|||I'm ridiculously happy right now. :D Thank God for music!|||Music is good for the soul.|||I don't have anything constructive to say, I just thought this line was hilarious. :crazy:  Good luck pink!! :D|||Probably a combination of what everyone has said already.  We are busy with real life, usually. And at least for me, I don't like to respond unless I know what I'm talking about (or can at least...|||Hehe, this is basically the BIG COLLECTIVE ENFJ HUG THREAD|||Thanks!  And I wish it was something that I could easily get over through positive thinking, but it's just gonna take time.. I actually don't worry about it that much during the day, but that's the...|||Crying myself to sleep every night is not fun.  I hope this doesn't become a routine.|||Let's see.. Took piano lessons when I was like 5 (quit after two years lol) so I had early music training.. and then played clarinet in band all throughout middle-high school, apparently I was pretty...|||Yeah.. if she's told you that she's had a crush on you before, chances are she still has feelings for you.  I would recommend you reply, but make it clear that you don't have feelings for her...|||http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v202/sharrkmaster/Myersbriggsvalentine.jpg  I thought this was worth sharing :laughing:  Happy Valentine's Day!|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZdLYohZTSA  THE ENDING TO THIS VERSION IS SO EPIC!!!!!  Been listening to it over and over for a while now :)|||Ok, I'll bite, so you don't get too depressed :tongue:  What's your favorite animal and why? :crazy:|||In short, no. I'm perfectly content with myself and my family and friends.   No human being is perfect, and in any relationship there are bound to be letdowns. So I won't rest my happiness on some...|||Hehe, nice! Most of my friends turned out to be NFs or NTs as well. 'Twas quite exciting XD|||One more:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ooTyuRd9zSg I loooooooooooove The Civil Wars! Debut LP is AMAZING.|||You guys sound like my ISFJ friend..  I'm busy, but not from working that much. :crazy:|||More like, what are you doing right?  My best friend is an ENTP and we debate and throw random stuff at each other all the time (metaphorically speaking, not literally... most of the time). It's...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2RKb3VNAOo Mumford & Sons rock my soul.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HudlpSIH1kU Smarter by Eisley. Great new song.. I'm addicted to it.  I could post tons...|||Yup, I was just trying to incite some strong opinions :)  The whole world is pretty much a mess. Needs a lot of fixin', and it's not just one generation's fault.|||True! There's always something that feels different when I argue or try to debate with S's. Haha, wish I could figure out exactly what it is..|||It seems like no one's really addressed this question directly yet.. So I'll try.  At least for me, all those signs that fateandmusic posted up are 100% accurate. Haha, if an ENFJ male is giving...|||Common values are definitely very important. Especially in NF's.. it's so important to us, I think, more so than the other types.  I honestly think I wouldn't get along very well in a relationship...|||It's only 'cause our generation IS the best. Haters gonna hate.|||This is true. But I also think maturity has more to do with it. I do think a lot of the people on this forum would agree that the INFP-ENFJ match is an ideal match (just do a search through the...|||Of the people I've met, ENFP is definitely the most bubbly type! But the ESFJs in my life can be pretty bubbly too. My ENFP friend is definitely the most spontaneous and wild though..  And not sure...|||Yeah, it can be tempting to try to create perfect matches out of types, but the reality is that people are too different to be boxed into 4 letters.   Try not to get too caught up on types and if...|||I saw that on Facebook. Ridiculous.|||But just imagine the joy if you got something great that you had never expected!! :P|||Oh, dang. That is disappointing. But I did see that you are a jazz pianist. That's awesome. Jazz is super fun to play :happy:|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dw3z9s99r64  AND WHOA WHOA WAIT, I just found this while searching for that on youtube:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01x0qxFyOls  !!!!!!!!!!!!! It's the same...|||You've recorded a CD? I wanna hear :P I'm a recording/music nerd, so I'm interested in that kind of stuff :proud:|||Lolz sorry, that'd be the silly ENFJ's fault.  Didn't mean to ruin your ENTJ serious party.|||The ENTJ I know must be really in touch with her F side or something (or just really different from y'all) 'cause she loves group hugs :confused:|||I couldn't have said it any better. Obviously pink has some experience with ENFJ friends :happy:|||It's okay. I'm always here for you if you need anyone to talk to :laughing:|||Seconded. Verbal affirmation is key. Even if you think that she already knows how much you love her, it'll mean much more to her if you say it out loud, and especially if you put the effort into...|||Yeah, this seems to be an ENFJ thing. I guess ENFJ girls do the same thing that ENFJ guys tend to do.. meaning have a lot of really close friends who are of the opposite sex. Not all of them are...|||Actually, the one ENTJ girl I know is absolutely one of the huggiest people I know!  Which kinda makes this whole thing about your type being slightly insecure about handling your emotions even...|||Awwww you ENTJ's are so cute when it comes to feelings :wink: :crazy:|||Well everyone IS different and we can't box ourselves into a 4-letter box :laughing:  For me, planning depends on the situation. I love planning if it's planning events and future fun things (and I...|||4- Wow, very impressive!!  5- I also have an addictive personality.. perhaps not quite in the same sense as you're talking about, but in other ways. I tend to get really into something (be it...|||You, ma'am, are amazing. :happy:|||Hmm, interesting.  And if something monumentally huge happens, you're bound to find out from friends/acquaintances anyway, right? :laughing:'