'Hi Lucy, nice to hear from you. Thank you for your time to answer my question. I have another INTJ friend who's a female that doesn't like phone convos either. For the INTJ guy friend, the reason he...|||Thank you for your response Lucy. I really appreciate it. Its odd cause the 'L' word hasn't come up. Its been a mixture of talking online though we have met before, yet its been several months since...|||Hi there, thank you for your reply. I deeply appreciate it. Thanks- yes I get the idea of being incompatible. Its frustrating because in prior to this chat , many weeks ago the INTJ kept on having...|||I'm an ENFP and I realized a few days ago that me and an INTJ friend are attracted to each other. We chat online and we've been getting closer, till we both admit the jokey flirting on both sides...|||I'm an ENFP and I realized a few days ago that me and an INTJ friend are attracted to each other. We chat online and we've been getting closer, till we both admit the jokey flirting on both sides...|||Thank you very much for your advice! :) I hope you have a nice day. He's a cool person to talk to, and I look forward to meeting him on Thursday. :)|||Thank you for your reply. I appreciate it and I understand what you mean. I'm sorry if I offended you in any way. I guess I'm sort of always worried of making things uncomfortable so I do my best to...|||Hi there! I'm an ENFP and my friend is an INTJ. Although before I thought he might be an INFJ. He's really cool, we've been talking on fb chat and we talk about tons of stuff and he's been there to...|||Hi there, I know this is a years old post. Its odd, I googled this since I've been watching eps of the show and I am sent to your question. It's been years I know but I thought I'd try to answer it...|||Thank for your advice. I feel with discussing personalities, we prefer talking about things in relation to that but he's recently told me he feels the myers briggs is sorta putting people in boxes....|||Me (ENFP) and my INFJ friend have been talking during these days, from texting and messaging on facebook. Last night they told me some news in their life which they said they haven't told their...|||Hi Fenix, its always nice to hear what you have to say. :) Ah I'm sorry about the people that say rom coms are 'girly'. I think most people's opinions regarding movies are subjective. Thanks for...|||Hi there! Yeah I totally have experienced that. I still sort of feel it at times myself because I recently realised after doing my postgrad degree what I wanted to do. Also when I decided it- the...|||Thanks! That's so nice and makes me feel a little better. I say I always worry of being silly around people I don't know so well or people I really look up to. Btw he's a sucker for rom coms and...|||You make so much sense. Whereas with me I'm totally face palming because I feel I've acted so silly today. He spoke about having a cat and lol I asked if he could send me a pic of what his cat looked...|||Oh I see. Well my internet died last night but we texted from midnight to about 2am last night, he fell asleep and didn't reply till the morning :p I didn't say it cause I kinda felt like if a phone...|||Thanks for the reply. I really appreciate your time to answer my question. You're answer is really interesting. It feels a little like there are barriers he's trying to put down. When you mean its...|||Thanks for your reply and telling me what it means, much appreciated. Thanks for your sharing your views. I've known him for over a year and been talking more during these few months. Thanks, no...|||Thanks for your reply. - In terms of relationships we've spoke about it and he said he isn't in having them.  -I've known them for over a year, knew them in person then when I released an album we...|||Thanks for your reply. Yeah I know I kinda felt it was the same thing with meeting in person. What would you need to know about him?|||Thanks for your reply. Sorry what do you mean by SO's - I'm a tad confused :p And well from experience of having a lot of INFJ friends I know that some appreciate their own time. Its just I tried...|||Thanks for your reply. Well he did say he has had one experience where he spoke to someone and it led to confusion about possible romantic interest. I suppose that one experience is what made him...|||Hi INFJ's- I wanna say I love you guys so much! A lot of my close friends are INFJ's :D  However recently I kinda got a weird answer from an INFJ friend which confused me. Me and him chat...|||im scared of flirting haha. I made him a gift (a leather journal) a few weeks ago and said I'd like to give him a  gift I made (I give everyone I know gifts). He said he was really grateful but...|||I'm an ENFP and I met a worker who works on the subway tube. I think he's an ENFJ or ESFJ- But for me I get that NF vibe so I think he's an ENFJ. We spoke and struck up a convo and ended up...|||I'm an ENFP and I met a worker who works on the subway tube. I think he's an ENFJ or ESFJ- But for me I get that NF vibe so I think he's an ENFJ. We spoke and struck up a convo and ended up...|||well it happens after not hearing from my INTP guy friend I like for a while. Cause I presumed he was busy with studying and I hadn't heard from him. A mutual friend told me today that he was asking...|||well it happens after not hearing from my INTP guy friend I like for a while. Cause I presumed he was busy with studying and I hadn't heard from him. A mutual friend told me today that he was asking...|||Well with the INTP I know, he's spoken about wanting to be in a relationship and believes that a relationship helps to bring out the best in each partner. With your situation, I'm sorry cause good...|||I'm like the Frankenstein movies- I'm always coming back on this thread :p I've tried to research into INTP's, since I like my INTP guy friend and im in that stage of wondering if he likes me back....|||Does anyone ever hear someone say when your pretty stressed out 'stop worrying so much?'  I feel when I really care about something (or it be someone) and am especially stressed out about it- I...|||Thank you for your answer. These are some of my thoughts in my head right now: 1- I'm grateful for your reply. I really appreciate it. 2- I agree I am the one with the crush and from experience, as...|||I'm not agreeing with you cause you suggested it but genuinely yes- I like him for his mind. He has a great personality with his intelligence and humour. He loaned me his copy of his fav science...|||I've been picking your INTP brains for a while- for this I wanna apologise for my repetitive questions. The INTP I have a crush on is on a family vacation and so I'm in this awkward anxious phase of...|||haha he already said 'sure' to going with me when I asked him a few weeks ago. It's just trying to say it while he says he might also be busy. thanks for the reply|||thanks for your reply. How should I go about saying it? and should I expect a swift response?|||haha don't worry- I lost my scissors :p  but whats a way to say you like them? and should I expect a swift response?|||So I really like this INTP guy friend of mine. And I think he likes me (emphasis on I think)- my friends have said I should just tlel him I like him. I wanted to ask do INTP's tell someone they like...|||Wow you know a lot of people.   me: I just remember their names and say hi when I see them around :p  You flirt with people without realising it! - to which I say no! I was just trying to be...|||Firstly let me say although I'm not an INTP, I do want to say a few things to you purpledino. :) I can tell you really care about this guy. And sometimes (maybe its an NF thing ^^ ), but I know I...|||Thanks for your reply :) I spoke to him last night about star wars and today too- and we spoke a bit which was nice. I realised I need to initiate chat convo's with him- in the past I've thought he...|||Another question my lovely ENFP's. I joined personality cafe yesterday so I'm excited to ask a lot of questions haha. I'm finding this recently with myself. I feel like whenever I have a crush or...|||Dude keep your style. I just think people assume 'old' with 'hipster' sometimes. But I like to change 'old' for rather 'classic' :D I mean I know a lot of ENFPs have their own style in their...|||what do you mean delay my 'duty' I'm clueless lol|||Oh yeah and I did something a little silly. I wanted to send him a thank you text cause he got back to me about a question I had. I wanted to make him laugh and make him remember the last time me and...|||Thanks for your response. It's weird cause he seems so confident telling me facts and interesting stories, but the eyes are something unusual- how he can't hold eye contact. I take it eye contact can...|||Do any ENFP's have the experience of people calling them Hipsters? I feel I do and it makes me a little frustrated cause It kinda insinuates to me that I'm fake. And I like to just be myself :p|||I feel like during these weeks he's distanced himself though. He said last week he's going to be 'busy'- just wonder if that's an excuse or if he really is. He hasn't tried to talk to me, and when I...|||hey I love you INFP's! :) A lot of my good friends are INFPs. And there is that strong NF connection with them all.  But just to ask this question which seems a little random- but are you all...|||Intpee Thanks for your reply. :) what can I do to take more of an initiative? I have this feeling he isn't the initiator, cause I know in the past he's said he likes it if a girl tells him if they...'