'All I wanted to do was play video games most of my childhood :P I still play with friends every now and then but there is way better things to do in life.|||From your text it sounds like he's quite busy a lot of the time. You said he replied just minutes before midnight and I assume that means he was working until then, which is pretty late. Just coming...|||I'm growing some carrots in my grandmother’s garden with a garden olla. It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside when I fill it up with water, knowing this olla will keep the soil perfectly moist...|||Maybe it's both. Like a self-perpetuating process as long as we choose to nurture it. I like this idea because often I read portraits of INTJs and sometimes they make it sound like the reason we...|||windholms I can see how that would anger you. I feel for you INFPs dealing with us INTJs. When you put your emotions around us we're so clueless, we'll stumble all over them with our best intentions...|||Love was something I didn't understand early in my life. I just thought the only reason people would try to be nice to me was because they wanted something from me. I didn't start to comprehend what...|||I don't know what you're going on about but I guess I can tell you a little bit about how far INTJs can go. Today I told my sister that if she died I probably wouldn't go to her funeral. You can...|||Interesting question. For me I can sometimes get so focused on other things that I forget those I love. So when I see them it kind of catches me off guard. I've noticed the more I think about someone...|||a. You may be more or less Not that bad looking in everyone else's eyes but you can be assured, your Not that bad looking in his eyes.  b. When he first met you he probably didn't think you...|||Hate it.|||Main reason I take pictures is for documentation :P  I think there has only been one person that has bothered taking a picture of me in many years, it's thankfully rare.|||Waw I can relate to every single one of your guy's posts. It nice to know I'm not broken.   I've met a lot of people that I would like to be friends with but normally it fades because I fail to see...|||As long as they are organizing what ever it is to be more efficient, I don't mind.  My worst experience is when me and my friend were playing Minecraft and we had about 3 chests worth of valuables,...|||As an INTJ I have no sympathy for unfairness. However, I would love to hear your problems if you want to help yourself.  Apprentice said it just right though. Except I suggest you find someone that...|||Beat it with rationalism and logic until it doesn't hurt anymore. Not sure if it helps or it just goes away on it's own. :P   I've never had a messy brake up though, I'd rather have good relations...|||Way to boring. All my friends like it but I just get way to frustrated with the hook getting caught and the bait making a mess and the strings getting tangled. It's like a nightmare. I also don't...|||Doing something out of the ordinary like randomly walking over and talking to us would definitely catch our attention. Then you offer tea and cookies? If I liked you chances are I would slip away as...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xTGp753uXoY&index=14&list=PLc9tgpk5vcI2mpf6K26Qhs_A_i580TCoH|||My favorite is when someone suggests something that you know is misguided or uninformed. To politely get them to question their own thinking you simply saying Why?....|||Well I posted this because I wanted some honest opinions and I believe that is what you guys did so I appreciate it. I'm glad you will call me on my crap mehmehmeh, I shouldn't of used those terms. I...|||I must of mentioned it wrong because I don't think I came across as creepy or trying to hard. Because if anything she was coming on to strong and she even mentioned that I probably thought she was...|||Yeah I think you guys are right. INTjs are famous for not understanding the emotional side of things. It just seemed like she really went out on a limb to a degree I've never seen before and it just...|||CaptainAnon   Father/daughter was an example and your right the whole thing seemed like a mess from the start and would of never worked out. I haven't been able to explain all the details but it...|||Peace  Total understanding of everything.  Lack thereof|||Whoops delete this post|||I don't think you guys understand the type of relationship I'm looking for and doesn't have anything to do with sex so I don't know why you guys fill like I should wait until she's 18. The type of...|||I already do..|||I'm 23. There is this really cool event in our community that I like to go to where we do like 1900's dancing. We first met when she asked me for a dance and the first thing she tells me is that I...|||Thank you for your response, this was very encouraging. I fill like whenever there is a bump in a friendship or relationship and I try to do anything to help it, I just mess it up. We hardly ever get...|||I have this INFP girl that said she liked me about 2 years ago but she was like 14 so I offered to be like a brother to her, which she seemed really happy about at the time. I've seen her on occasion...|||Imbalanced quizzes, maybe. It could be that INTJs are attracted to this kind of environment and so it may seem like there is way more of us then there should be. However, I don't know why anyone...|||All I remember was being very disappointed about the supposedly important things in life so I spent most of my time in a video game, kept to myself, and wished everyone could leave me alone. It's...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eH4F1Tdb040|||When it comes other people's struggling emotions, we just do what we do to out own struggling emotions; invalidate them with rationalism and logic. However, I think we generally love to share our...|||You see a commercial advertising something you don't need but still managed to intrigue you, so you then vow to never buy that item.|||Well over 48 hours. Was programming a little video game over at my friends house as hobby. All I had at arms reach was mountain dew and chocolate chips. I remember trying to get this small section of...|||Umm, You should probably ask the ENFPs on their forum...|||All it takes is a beer and a theater commercial. :P|||I only know one NT, he's an INTP and my cousin. We have a great time playing video games together and BSing. Most of my friends are NFs though.|||Someone once said to to me, Find the most powerful thing in existence and worship it. At first I was like whhhhaaat but if you think about it rationally, it makes sense. If the universe is 14...|||Most of my friends are ENFPs, I think they are great! I never really like starting conversations but I like to talk for hours about things that are interesting. So having someone that always has...|||I'm always happy to re-explain a principle to someone because I know that principles are like seeds planted upon peoples minds. If their surface is poor and rocky the seed will grow a little and die,...|||Normally if I want something that's outside of my comfort zone, I just study absolutely everything I can about it until it's no longer outside my comfort zone...|||Why do I stay up until 2 or 4 o'clock in the morning almost every night? Even when I'm tired.|||Ah thanks for pointing that out. For my defense, it was 4 o'clock in the morning. But yes I need more practice. :P|||As an INTJ I know I have a hard time understanding my emotions and I absolutely hate when they overpower me. I have this INFP that out of the blue told me she liked me and I at first was very...|||I would be baffled but I don't really care. I have found my small group of friends and family that can appreciate what I have to offer. Any offence outside of that circle is good humor :)|||Nightcore - Words'