Most millennials I know who smoke excessively usually have struggled with depression. I think it's unfair to be so quick to judge on someone's intelligence based on smoking.   If you think about...|||I agree with this. The two romantic relationships I feel like had the best dynamic with were Fe users. However, I don't think I can date an Fe-dom like myself. Fi users tend to come off as selfish to...|||I'm so glad someone made this thread because I noticed that people hype up ENTP so much on the internet.   Although it's not always true, my experience with an ENTP is that they are extremely...|||People tend to hate my dominant Fe here on the internet. ESFJs get a bad rep for Fe-Si. But I personally think dominant Fe is a super useful function in real life.|||I'm 100% sure that I am an ESFJ because I scored 100% on Fe and 80% on Si on a functions test.|||What you're saying is completely true. I think that we shouldn't judge cognitive functions in our MBTI lineup to be exclusive with each other. I took a cognitive functions test that tested the...|||1) Se-Ti?  2) This reminds me of an INFP or INTP I know 3) oooh, strong Te vibes 4) Ti or Fi?  5) ENTP??  I definitely think you are a xxTP but whether you use Te or Ti, Se or Ne is something...|||I find it so funny that ESFJs are one of the most hated by ENTPs.  I dated an ENTP for a year and I would say we had a really good relationship. I feel like our relationship was really passionate...|||So I know that ESTPs are action-oriented people being Se dominated. I'm an ESFJ female who's talking to an ESTP male and sometimes I have a hard time gauging his feelings about me. As an ESFJ...|||Yes, I unknowingly adjust myself to others and that is what I'm most comfortable doing. A healthy Fe user can sense the needs of others through this function and help their loved ones and also make a...|||As an ESFJ, I have sex in a new relationship pretty fast (I actually have had sex with the person before I even get in a relationship with them).   I'm currently with an ESTP guy and we had sex...|||I get what you're saying... I think.   So as an ESFJ, I am a heavy Fe user (Fe-Si Ne-Ti). I find that the biggest difference between Fe and Fi is that Fe users often do not know who they are in...|||As an ESFJ myself, I find that my mourning period is a lot longer than other types. I think us ESFJs are very sentimental because of our Fe-Si. Your Fe feels pain and empathy for others and your Si...|||I've been mistyped as an ESTJ. Besides that, I am a pretty solid ESFJ.|||I once talked to an ENFJ. I wouldn't say that the two types aren't attracted to each other. I was attracted to him at first because he was so similar to me. I felt like he understood me and I...|||I'm a female ESFJ.   Masculine: 59/100 Feminine: 72.5/100 Androgynous: 63/100|||ISTJs and ISFJs for sure.|||I think this thread is typical for an ESFJ to start. Using our Fe dominant function, we want to please EVERYONE. As time goes on, living and learning, many ESFJs do tend to stop trying to please...|||I'm an ESFJ woman who seems to be an NT magnet when it comes to men.   Any other ESFJ ladies have the same experience? The men I usually fall for are always xNTx. I think it's the logical side that...|||I was going to say you are either ISTP (from the reasons others have already stated) or I can make a case for INTP or ENTP. Since both have a low use of Si, it could be that your low Si is mistaken...|||ESFJs are only not well-liked on the internet where N's, T's, and P's dominate.   But I think that ESFJs are definitely one of the most well-liked in real life. People who are generally...|||This actually happened to me. I think ESFJs can let their environments constrict them because they are heavy Fe users. Unlike heavy Ne users who like to see possibilities in the external world, I...|||Based on her cognitive functions, I would say she's an ENFJ (Fe - Ni - Se - Ti)  Although it seems like her Ti is much more developed than Se. Without a doubt, she is definitely a Fe-Ni user. Her...|||Instead of trying to type my parents like I did before, I asked them to take the MBTI test. Although I thought my dad was an introvert at first and my mom was a thinker at first, their results show...|||I got ISFJ but have consistently scored as ESFJ on the test I've taken in the past.   I think tweaking for this test is to add a neither agree or disagree option (neutral). I felt like I was forced...|||How do you type Chad, Kelsi, and Taylor?   I think: Troy: ESFJ  Gabriella: INTJ Ryan: ENFP Sharpay: ENTJ Chad: ISFJ Taylor: ESTJ Kelsi: INFJ|||Black|||Answer to your 5 things: 1. adventures seem very Ne? 2. Definitely has Fe or just extroverted qualities  3. So very emotional? Fi? 4. Ne for sure 5. Risk taking behavior so maybe Se?   My...|||I am inclined to believe that you are an ENFJ.   I don't really think you are ESFJ. Although ENFJs and ESFJs are similar because both of them have the dominant Fe function, I think that ENFJs are...|||Hi there!  My two best friends are ENFPs! I love them and they love me. We get along so well.  It depends on the ESFJ (whether you are using your functions in a healthy way and interests etc). I...|||How do you all feel about ESFJs and ISFJs?   I have an ENFP friend whose closest friends are all xSFJs and I find that interesting.|||Going off of that, just be aware of ESFJ's feelings. We are Fe dominant so sometimes we do things to avoid confrontation or we are the ones who avoid you because we assume you don't like us etc. We...|||I don't think I can. I have an ESFJ male friend and before I even found out that we both are ESFJs, he was the opposite of what I would want in a partner. He's a great friend but completely not...|||This might be an ESFJ thing, throughout my teens and even now (young 20s), people who like me are usually admirers...  I get hit on randomly on the street, at the bus stop, or at a grocery store....|||What drives you to say ESFJ? I'm curious because there aren't a lot of ESFJs on this forum.|||Annie- ISFJ Dixon- ENFP Silver- ESFP Naomi- ESFJ Adrianna- ENTJ Ivy- ISTP Navid- ENFJ Liam- ISTP Teddy- ISTJ Max- ESTJ|||I think this is pretty accurate. I used to smoke weed a lot until I got in trouble with the law. But I realized that I really didn't like being high that much, I wanted to be seen as 'chill' or 'fun'...|||ESFJ  TMLT stock up on a food item because they're scared they won't have the opportunity to get it again any time soon but then the food expires before they get to it.|||I can affirm this as an ESFJ.|||Question one. Are you vegan or vegetarian for moral reasons? Is your bedroom messy? No and my bedroom is not messy.  Question two. Describe your ideal partner. Someone who listens and gives me...|||ENTP  TMLT change majors over and over again and take years to finish a degree.|||A question to all my xSFJs, how do you know you've tapped into our non-dominant Ti function?   I was talking to my other MBTI enthusiast friend and was saying that for an ESFJ which is Fe - Si - Ne...|||I find myself getting impatient writing on forums because there isn't immediate gratification. Also, the amount of time it takes to formulate a post would be easier if I just vocalized or expressed...|||You can't be ESFJ if...  - You only get into casual relationships. - You are not intrigued by gossip.|||Since I am an ESFJ with Fe dominant, I am very aware of political correctness. It's mainly due to consideration of how it may offend another person.   With that said, my best friend is an ENFP and...|||I'm an ESFJ and I am very good at drawing and a pretty good writer as well!  But I notice that a lot of the things I write and draw are of things that I've already seen. So maybe I'm good at the...|||Do you guys ever think about rekindling a relationship?|||Mom: ESTJ  Dad: ISxP (I think he is F in comparison to my mom, but he also may be a T)  Sister: ISFP (very close S and N)  Me: ESFJ (close F and T)  I find this interesting because my sister...|||Hi there! As an ESFJ I think that we are usually very prompt at replies and maintaining friendships unless there is a reason for us to not be prompt.   This may not apply to all ESFJs but for me...|||Do ENTPs typically get over a failed relationship really fast? I'm an ESFJ female who dated an ENTP male for a year and I find that even though the breakup was mutual, I, as an ESFJ, have a much...