'sry double post! >.<|||Ok this is going to be my last post. I think you have gone defensive mode on a lot of kind people who have taken their time to reply. I'm not sure if you have taken heed to any of the replies, but...|||I agree with the poster above. Your latest post screams entitlement. I don't wish to sound so harsh but you have to respect her decision. Whatever reasons she has for avoiding you, it's clear she...|||I've been playing the awesome stardew valley from steam. Love farming games!|||Your situation somehow feels familiar to me. But in my case, I'm the INFJ pining for an INTJ. I know how you feel. When you get your hopes high but it gets dashed everytime. It's a terrible position...|||Hey everyone,  I recently got into a conversation with a male friend of mine who had the impression that most women would scorn at the idea of a lab grown diamond because it's fake. While I...|||Ring. Japanese version. Nothing beats watching a long hair woman crawling out of the TV. Not even gore.|||INFP  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NLeDhKnZSYw|||This cracked me up. I LOVE durians.  To answer OP: I feel it to its very core. Cry if I need to. Shout if I need to (not at anyone of course). Its like in the movie Inside Out, you don't run away...|||Lay your troubles here For they will be heard Counsel shall be rendered To lift you from dirt  -the INFJness never dies with death.|||Blazy  Thanks. I'm in my late twenties.|||My first thought is, I don't want to meet this person in real life.|||No I don't but that's just me. I always caution against using the word needy to describe anyone. When someone text me asking me what i'm doing, my usual line of thought would go oh, maybe he/she...|||How do you guys deal with depression? Do you seek outside help? Or do you ride it out?   I suspect one of my INTJ friend is depressed. He is so jaded and has rejected society to the point he goes...|||Hi, I know this is quite sudden. I requested a name change a few days ago but i just realized that my current name is tied to other activities online and I really want to protect my privacy or...|||Better. I'm learning to accept what's not meant to be may very well be the best thing to happen to me. Still hopeful.|||Welcome to the community! I love huskies!|||The country I come from is notorious for hauntings. Mainly because so many died during the WW2 Japanese occupation. There are are a few beaches that were the massacre sites of thousands of Chinese....|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_B8H956-rg  Enjoy :D|||Just because he doesn't know doesn't make what you do O-K. Just because you are having fun only doesn't mean you're not wrong. Just because the sexting will never lead to another relationship doesn't...|||What helps you make rational decisions when your emotions run so strong? I usually ride it out. Let myself feel them to it's fulllest. In those moments I would feel like I'm flying inside the eye of...|||1. Yes. But more so in the past. I used to emotional eat when I was stressed. I have a fair amount of anxiety issues. Nowadays I try alternative methods to deal with it. Meditate, taking time out to...|||sayakacarys luemb Punniez txstats LTKodiak  Thank you for the detailed replies! I guess the one thing that really baffled me was the complete change in behaviour online. Perhaps he feels more...|||Not sure if this is the right place to ask this question. I have a male friend whose been consistently testing as an INTJ but somehow doesn't exactly behave like one? My gut feeling says there's...|||I would like to change my name to LoneBreeze. Thank you so much!|||A state of being; where there is no more unhealthy attachments, where my self worth isn't tied to validation from outside but from within.    Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||Melancholic, oscillating between acceptance and denial. But still a small sense of hope.    Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||Life is so strange sometimes. When you want something enough, you never get it. But when you turn your back on it, it creeps up on you and before you know it, what you wanted before is in your hands....|||Perhaps my tone was too harsh in my post. I am rather frustrated. But it doesn't stem completely from knowing what she doing is wrong (at least to me). I'm scared for her, because things like that...|||Hello everyone! I haven't been very active due to work commitments so i just lurk around.  Several months ago I posted a question about a friend who was emotionally cheating on her husband. The...|||For him to take back his words   Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||After going through an emotional rollercoaster earlier this week and coming to a revelation that I may have been mistyped all along. I am just glad the week is ending soon and I can unwind during the...|||Whether I should change my type display on PerC because I've been mistyped XD|||For the weekend to come quicker!   Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||I think being yourself just means not to try too hard. Go with the flow. But you need to watch what you say of course. Normally when someone tries to be someone they're not, its pretty obvious, at...|||I'm aiming towards becoming a Data Scientist.|||Is it too fast or it is not? Should I be spontaneous or should I wait awhile more? Gut tell me something!|||I attempted to read that book but couldn't get past the first chapter. Coincidentally, it was my ENTP best friend who introduced the book to me. She has since read it over a few times. Whatever's...|||If only the rain would stop. I hate having sand particles under my feet. Shouldn't have worn that pair of sandals...   Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||I took the similarminds jungian test and got INFJ too. But when I take the type test, I get ENFP. I think we shouldn't restrict ourselves to type but rather study each function to better understand...|||Hello everyone!   Anyone here from Asia or southeast Asia and live at these locations? I'm from Singapore and I'm curious about the demographics of this forum. :proud:|||stuck in a rut and trying to break out of it|||I want to have fried chicken but I can't because I'm supposed to eat clean. *cries*|||I've taken to assuming he's slightly mentally damaged. Hah. It might make it easier to swallow his weird inconsistent behaviour. Anyway, this has been an extremely enlightening thread. And I think...|||I've tried reading stuff from Eckhart Tolle but that made me just go huh?. To be honest, I'm not a big fan of self-help books. Might be due to the cynical bone in me. I like reading about people's...|||I agree discussion is very important. I guess I've been making too many excuses for his behaviour and have not taken the step to confront him. He's very good at what I call silent treatment where...|||Agreed. I never liked advice given by so called dating professionals. Human behavior is so complex, there's never a certainty to antyhing. When we make assumptions, its based on our own perspective...|||'Ghosting:' The 21st-Century Dating Problem Everyone Talks About, But No One Knows How To Deal With  Read this.|||har! I've learnt to deal with the message seen but no response thing. Sometimes I do that too when I have nothing to say. I try to give the other party the benefit of the doubt. Of course if it was a...|||That is very true. I find that if there's not enough affirmations I get slightly anxious? And again my Ne just goes on a tangent with all that possible reasons why i'm not getting affirmation. But...'