'see, I would say fear that you do :)|||That you're asking means you're probably not INTJ :)  Sent from my D6603 using Tapatalk|||I think it's insecurity.  it's easier to be strong than smart - & when you're young, being alpha gets you laid as a bonus   Strength is expressed in many ways; not conforming & beating my own paths...|||In your response, you own you're opinion everywhere - thank you.  The only difference of opinion we have is that i don't think it is a limited subset in the general case - if so why the heck would I...|||I'm trying to sleep.  In Australia I have a Monday morning looming on me.  So I'll be brief.  There are many cases which are too obvious - like if you stub your toe, it's going to hurt.  In those...|||yes, I see what you're saying.  If you're truly interested then go back & re-read all the posts up to now & then come back & tell me why I would respond in the way that I did.|||I don't think you can get it.  Whatever I say you'll just argue with in a way that makes you feel strong & clever, but leaves you where are are.|||you're not understanding.|||anyone know how to delete a double post?  :(|||bentHnau, your answer totally repulses me.  You make no effort at conciliation or understanding but instead leap into defending your position by picking sentences out of context and finding a way to...|||Hello :)  To kick off my answer, I'll begin with the question: what is a friend.  Google to the rescue!:    By this definition, I have many, many friends.  However by my definition, I have...|||My fear is that my children have to live with the same small minded stupidity that is our world the same as I did.  My one hope for humanity is that it wakes up.|||Like every country, the vast majority of people are dumb fcucks just like you & me.  What I'm saying is that we seem to do better than many per capita anyway.|||I don't agree with you.  Australia bats way above its weight on the world stage.|||some things: * laid back, easy going, friendly, accepting, jovial, polite, funny, non-judgemental * mates will do literally anything for each other in times of need - it's just what you do *...|||See I thought the same as you.  Setting aside that we're all different, & all special, without dragging Monty Python in for a bit if a chuckle at ourselves, hearing the Personality Hacker podcast...|||aussie here.  Sort of.  I live in Sydney which, as any Aussie know, is somewhat not really that Australian :)  But I grew up in a coal mining town, & I've seen Aussieness at it's best & at it's worst.|||My opinion is that it;'s the same old story: those that can don't - not unless they have a really good motivator, anyway.|||Growing up we had a sulfur-crested cockatoo.  He was part of our family, & his cage was his home.  I think we project too much of ourselves on animals when making these kinds of judgements.  The...|||if the title had an r in it, it would be fantastic breasts and wehre to find them - The movie.|||I'm waiting for the operation.|||Do stuff with her.  What do you know about her?  what does she like to do?  what does she like full stop?  is she into you?  What I'm trying to spit out is that whatever you do, it should be...|||Why?|||it is so much simpler just to say that in my experience feminists are horrible rather than prove they are for everyone, especially when that's not what I mean?  & I'm not debating anything :)|||don't know really know.|||This meaning of this sentence wasn't clear to me.  What guidelines specifically?  I looked up implicit:     suggested though not directly expressed.|||so... do you actually understand what I was saying? ...  Did you read my last paragraph?  Why would you not bother with someone that thinks differently to you - this seems like a very impoverished...|||Thank you reckful.  I tried hitting Thank on your post, but it didn't seem to work.  I love that I seem to have hit on what Jung & Myers thought without any book learnin.  To me when congruence...|||This question has been vexing me.  In the Intuitive Awakening group on facebook run by the Personality Hacker people, I've asked this question in a couple of different ways & the response I've got...|||I like what you said because we agree :)|||I like what you said because we agree :)|||At an Authentic Relating meetup I attend we have a guiding rule that keeps the peace, own your opinin, which allows people with disparate opinions to co-exist peacefully whilst avoiding getting...|||Dude.|||Nice.  Speaks volumes for your character|||Fair enough.  So when you state your opinion and your experience as fact, how does one discern that from when you really are stating a fact?|||It may not really be for SOME INFPs but Authentic Relating absolutely is - trust me.  Besides that, some groups provide a safe place to desensitise.  Careful about speaking authoritatively please.|||look up a group called Authentic Relating, if they do a meetup in your area, go.  Cannot recommend it highly enough,  you'll love it.|||<sigh>  I don't feel like I've ever really had this.|||ho ho - I want to say you don't know smaller communities, do you?  But I won't in case you want to take it offensively, which is not what I intend :)|||I'm the opposite & can relate to what you're saying on that basis :)  the country is heaven to visit, but he'll to live in, for me :)  I think smaller communities are better for likable people - I'm...|||Yes - hence Skype :)  pm me if you're interested personally.|||I don't.  I related that because it'd what I've seen & heard.|||are you female?  I thought the gist of your post sounded like that, so please forgive the following if you're actually a guy!  so there's a theory which is a little politically incorrect & it...|||Very keen to make some infp friends.  Ping me if you live around Sydney in Australia, or if you don't mind Skype.|||Country towns are too boring, so I put up with the endless pollution, traffic & everyone behaving like they're the only people on earth & enjoy the convenience, variety and anonimity of one of the...|||all the time.  I feel like I've failed the other person by taking their time & not handing on the richness behind my ideas effectively.|||they look like graffiti to me.  I try really hard not to judge people that have them.  It isn't easy.  No offense intended - it's my problem, not yours.|||no suggestion.  Popular cheapens things to me.|||I can relate to feeling invisible.  Because it isn't very normal for me to contribute, when I do, I normally have to be rude & talk over someone.  Sent from my D6603 using Tapatalk|||there's a heap of females that identify with personality traits that are generally considered as masculine & a bunch of men femine.  In 2016, where generally you're a hero if you shag the same sex,...'