Now i'm curious.. Why do you think ENFJ makes such a great villain?|||Welcome!|||Welcome!|||Welcome!|||Welcome!  Every time I hear about someone being written as an ENFJ it's as the villian.. :crying:|||Welcome! What type/s do you lean toward as your type?|||Welcome!|||Welcome fellow ENFJ!|||Welcome!  Introverts can be social. They just need their alone time to recharge.|||Welcome!|||Welcome!|||Welcome!|||I'm willing to bet you have plenty of your own awesome.|||Can be but not generally a tend to be unless you're talking about an unhealthy ENFJ.  I tend to pick up on the feeling/preference of the people around me. It's not intentional, and it would...|||Maybe they're just clueless?|||I'll just say try not to blow up. It sounds like if you don't have this talk soon it'll drag out until you blow up anyway. So maybe now is better than later?|||So stupid was clever?:confused:|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YfjTZLxekig|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZpUYjpKg9KY   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=04F4xlWSFh0  :angry:|||Haha I was avoiding the word stupid.|||I won't argue with your motivation :)|||This was awesome! For an encore there's a link on the bottom for two banana slicers packaged together.|||Send a text or make a quick call, then stop. Let them respond when/if they're ready.|||Next time you run into something like this you could point out that misapplying one type of test to a completely different result is a better indicator of who the least intelligent person is.|||Efficiency is great and all, but a little fumbling shouldn't set him off. Going off in public being even worse. There's either something else, or he's very immature.|||You're describing a narcissist I had the exact same problems with. You have to put your foot down. It only gets worse, not better.|||So far I kind of agree with the not so healthy ENFJ..   What do you do when you procrastinate?|||When you buy a sleeve of plastic cups that you have 20 uses for, and none of them involve drinking anything.|||Welcome!  Happy trolling :)|||Welcome! So glad you decided to stop stalking and say hi. :)|||Welcome!  I hate leg day but I'll take it over cardio any day..|||Welcome!|||Damn Sheik.. Worst dinner ever!  I hope the food was still good, and you enjoyed the time out..|||Nice to meet you, and thank you.|||Nice to meet you. So far so good..|||Oops.. I read your post but somehow missed that.. All nice choices but I favor the first personally|||Watching the daycare issue sounds like you're punishing yourself. The self guilt trips aren't easy to deal with but having them doesn't really help anything. To be completely honest it sounds like...|||I've been down this road more than I care to mention.. Just continue doing what you do. Some people will get the wrong idea no matter what you do. If someone mistakes your empathy for romantic...|||Welcome! *looking about for a net to capture wild infj with*  What do you like to write about?|||Welcome!|||You're in the right place!|||Welcome!|||Welcome!|||Welcome! You'll probably find what you're looking for here. Could some of that bluntness be from all of that military time?|||Welcome!  I love history. What history interests you most?|||Hello, and welcome :)  I've never met a disagreeable person from Ireland, but then I haven't met too many.. Feel free to disagree :p|||Welcome and good luck :)  What prompted your interest in psychology?|||Welcome. I hope you get the rounded experience you're looking for.|||You were absolutely right to say no. I know the feeling, but sometimes you just can't say yes, and this sounds like one of those times. It also sounds like the family member was using you as a crutch...|||I love good conversation. I think its safe to say that is something ENFJs have in common. At the very least he's enjoying your conversation, and if he is an ENFJ then he probably already considers...