'Yeah my INTJ friend is in a relationship. We were just working together, and I've never met her. Found out we had some similarities and decided to grab dinner. Didn't think anything about it after,...|||Funny. I fell in love with an INTJ. Was that you? :tongue:|||That makes even more sense !!! :laughing:|||How do you know me so well? Have you been stalking me?  Hanging out with a fellow ENFJ'er, I think he nailed our personality well, and that is, the greatest paradox with ENFJ personalities is that...|||Had the same thing happened to me. Didn't realized I loved my friend as we spent a lot of time together and we just clicked. I just thought we're just close friends. Nope, had to re-evaluate my...|||Hello all,  Hope you're all doing well. Just wondering, is it hard falling in love or finding love? I would like to hear from males and females point of view. I'm 30 and I can count with one hand...|||Yeah I'm an ENFJ. I tried bringing it up and he denies that it happened and gets upset that I'm making stuff up. My dad is the type to tell everything bad about me, and everything wrong about him, he...|||Thank you. In some way I just want to detach myself from him and his side of the family. They don't have family values and put money as their priority in life. One of my aunts said i was useless...|||No but it's just annoying that I've been neglected by my dad for majority of my life and now that he figured I'm the responsible one, he wants me back. And I'm like no. You didn't think I was...|||Hi, how are y'all doing?  So this has been on my mind for a while. Growing up, I was not my dad's [ISFP] favorite kid child. He OBVIOUSLY favored my younger sister [ESFP] so much more than me and...|||I think you hit it on the head. I have a tough time respecting boundaries. Ugh......|||So basically you just ask them if you're being too intense? (I've been called both, more overbearing than intense). What is it with ENFJs and being too intense? I just want to know the person......is...|||Hi y'all how y'all doing?  So as many of you know, ENFJs can be overbearing. Has anyone ever been told that they've been overbearing, and if so, how do you control that? I've been told multiple...|||I couldn't see myself marrying someone who is SP or ST, too in the moment, and too narrow-minded (Yes I am blanketing the statement, I do realize that. I also have friends in those category (though...|||I fear that might be the same issue I had, but I'm trying to break away from that issue. It's been difficult coming from a family where materialism is the center of it instead of people. I just...|||My dad is an ISFP. My sister is a ESFP. They drive me insane. I had a classmate that was an ESFP, another one that was an ISFP. They both drove me insane!!!! Ugh....|||@Eggsies we'll talk more about it later as I am continually discovering myself. I'm going to work now. Sorry for the long forum, I was trying to find romance in the pov of ENFJ males, but couldn't...|||Oh okay I suck at reading between the lines in women. She said we'll see each other again, but I need time alone. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? UGH.... The last INFJ I dated, I asked her, and she was like...|||Thanks Antipode. Hmm....yeah INFJs...seems like she's not responding. I haven't texted since the weekend, and no reply. I guess I'll poke around, give a gift or something, surprise her with food. She...|||Oh and can I get an opinion on this. Is it bad to say I love you to someone? It's in my nature...Ugh,....I'm an ENFJ. I do it to my friends all the time (they're all guys, and they are used to it)....|||Sorry everyone, I was at work all day.    Yeah  I'm way too honest. But I just want to know the person, but I guess on a  first date, I can't expect them to be that honest since they probably ...|||Eggsies...to be honest, I really don't have any game....I'm a dork :frustrating:|||Hi everyone,  I'm getting more into the dating scene and knowing how crazy stereotypical I am as an ENFJ. So being male and trying to pick up someone, especially if she's introverted, how do male...|||Hi everyone,  Just an update. I haven't been sleeping well. I've been thinking about her and just different scenarios that could happen that maybe we can be together someday even though that...|||It's like that YouTube video... She has a boyfriend|||Thanks everyone. I haven't fallen in love in a long time. I'm really independent and do many things on my own. It's been a long time since I've given my time and attention to one person (last time...|||Hello fellow ENFJs,  I was trying to find a thread on this but couldn't. Hope you have all been well. Sorry I haven't been here in a while. Life got busy, REALLY busy. Anyway, I had a crush on a...|||Sounds like a song from Wicked...  I've heard it said, that people come into our lives, for a reason, to bring something we much learn, and we are led to those who help us most to grow, if we let...|||I have my close circle of friends that I keep, but I have many good friends that I have picked up along the way. I haven't had anyone been added to my close knit circle, but there are some of my good...|||Hello fellow ENFJs,  I was just curious as I was reading the morning personality report, which MBTI are in your close circle of friends, and what defines them as your close/best friend(s).   I'll...|||Has anyone interacted with ESFPs? I don't know how to act around them. I feel like they give the same kind of vibe as ENFJs, but the more I get to know them, the more I don't get them. Does any other...|||I'm still a virgin. I think we value sex at a higher level than others since it's like the ultimate form of love that we want to give to our significant other. So just continue doing what you do. I...|||Went through high school. Didn't seriously date...actually I would say that I didn't date at all. But college, I wish I had the guts to ask this girl out, who I loved dearly. Now we don't talk....|||I think the problem with ENFJs in general (or at least what I've been told) is that we are a chameleon. We are in tune with others and how they want to be communicated to, and that causes a problem....|||Funny. I used to be like that. I used to hang out with girls until the end of high school. And then in college, I hung out with exclusively guys. I actually liked the changing and hanging out with...|||I concur. I'm not the most stereotypical guy since I'm more in tuned with my emotions, but I don't care. I tell guys who need to let out emotion that I don't care since I'm the same way. And that I...|||Hey! I'm not manipulative....people just don't see it my way...:tongue:|||For me it's INTJs...but my best friend is an ISFJ and I have a crush on him...:tongue:|||That is very true....:frustrating:|||I live with an ISFP right now and honestly, I don't know how she made it this far in her 27 years. She and I work in one department in a hospital, and apparently, I was talking to other departments...|||One of those INFJs will probably be my soulmate. My best friend is an INFJ (sorta, he switches between INFJ and ISFJ, it depends on who he's with). Anyway, right now he's my soulmate, but I'll find...|||ISFPs are annoying. They're so needy and wanna gossip and do things that annoy me. They're so conceited and the only people the care about is themselves. They don't see social cues as well, and it...|||I lost all the school elections, and one of the organizations wants me to continue my position that I currently am, but without the title. I was like, wtf? You voted for the other person, and you...|||THIS IS SO TRUE!!!!!:shocked: IT HURTS SO MUCH WHEN PEOPLE THROW AWAY THEIR POTENTIAL!!!!|||It's funny that my best friends all moved out from the same area. It's crazy since we all moved out of the area and we're all separated. But at the same time, we make a lot of effort to know what's...|||Thank you sir. Funny, my best friend is an INFJ and he said the same thing to me, and I told him, out of all people, I give him the most love. LOL|||Ahh I see your point. I have very few best friends, but I do have a slew of good friends that I wouldn't be afraid to go to to talk about stuff either, but I wouldn't see them as best friends since...|||Actually, one of my friends thought that was a problem. I don't see people as numbers, because if I did, I wouldn't remember details about their lives and stuff. But I'm not an introvert, so I...|||It's true, although hopefully you'll find an extrovert who can penetrate your introverted bubble and make a difference in your life xD|||Why would you be jealous? I get along with NFs really well...! :happy: and you're an INFJ! So I would get along with you REALLY well.'