'Hello,  I'm getting credit for mentions for user SirenaChitzpoh, because my username is Siren.  Siren|||I get very attached in relationships.  I'm very loyal and when that is betrayed it is even harder for me.|||You will eventually be desensitized to a certain degree to all the stimuli the older you get.  And I agree with WolfStar - don't beat yourself up too much.  Your feelings are what they are -...|||God, ISTPs fighting amongst themselves - what has this place turned into?  What, did all the XNFX take a few days off harassing you?  If you do what society wants then society is controlling you. ...|||Here's a website:  Telecommuting Jobs & Professional Part-Time Jobs  They have a lot of work from home jobs - I don't know about the experience or education part, though.|||Invest your time and energy in starting to like who you already are.  Volunteer your time in some way - hospital, old folks home, animal shelter, etc.  Read books and articles that make you think so...|||Hi Bakedgoods!  Welcome to the forum.  I'm not into sharing too much either.  Just read a bunch and you'll figure out which are your favorite topics.  There is a General Psychology forum you might...|||Sorry - did you say something?  I was looking at the pic in your signature.|||I'm definitely an sx dom and this carries over into all my relationships, not just romantic ones.  I feel what I feel for people very intensely.  I really like them, really dislike them, or am really...|||Lance Armstrong is an INTJ??  Maybe an ENTJ.  I have always been interested in playing sports and keeping fit.  I played a few team sports in HS, but now do more individual stuff.|||Congrats Maddie!!|||So true.  My ex used to pet the dogs and then come and stick his hands in the food I was preparing for dinner.  I'm amazed the man survived our marriage.|||[QUOTE=flyincaveman;3309654]  You're not /raising/ him. You're /molding/ him. Slight difference. ;) We're pretty easy to mold, as we hold the shape well. The problem comes when you mold us into a...|||Did anyone say book a vacation to a place with no internet yet?|||Well, I really meant most people on PerC are against them!|||Welcome!  You're going to find that one of the stereotypes about INTJs is that we are all atheists.  Please don't be offended.  Most of us are totally against these negative stereotypes!|||NAKED POPCORN SCREAMING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!    FTW!!!!!!  Forgive the implied emotion - I'm drunk|||I love being naked.|||Yeah, let it go.  You say he's not the one anyway.|||I'm seeing it tomorrow - cant wait!!|||I'm a bit older than most on this forum, so have more experience dealing with this.  I'd have to say that I will allow those aspects of me that are relatively unimportant conform to the will of...|||I'm super snuggly with my SO.  But he's so darn cute, who could blame me?  I'll hug people I know we'll and care about.  But if I don't know you or like you, don't even think about touching me.|||F'ing bastard.  Good on ya for being proactive.|||Oh my God, this is so totally me.  It's like I wrote it.|||You're young.  You deserve better than a married 37 year old father of 2.  Even if he does leave his wife, are you ready to be their mom?  Find someone unattached who can worship the ground you walk...|||Thanks!  If I got credit for all the posts I wrote but didn't send I'd be a super member!  Introverts!!|||Dear ISTP boyfriend.  I love you more than I'll ever be able to express.  Dear PerC ISTP community.  I wanted my 1000th post to be here with you guys.  INTJ|||This is your cousins's best friend?  Why don't you ask your cousin if she likes you or not?|||I get nervous, shy, and feel awkward with someone I like, especially of we're alone.|||I find it amusing how so many ISTPS say this yet most never mention us as one of the types they like in one of those polls.  I love the way most ISTPS think and express themselves.  It's endearing....|||Dear ISTPS on PerC,  Please feel free to show your INTJ love.  I love hearing why you appreciate us.  I swoon around you.  Love and hugs,  Siren|||Being in a long distance relationship with an ISTP (and a 5w6 one at that), I understand this but hate it at the same time.  I need a bit more effort than he can give in this respect.  When we are...|||I have beet struggling with my Enneagram type for ages and I can see a bit of myself in many.  Can anyone explain the difference between a 3w4 and a 4w3?|||I would ask.  I'd frame it like hey, I was planning on giving that picture as a gift.  If you can't do it, that's cool, but please let me know so I have time to get an a different gift.|||You're welcome, best of luck.  I can't imagine any girl worth dating would be upset that someone preferred to get to know them instead of a one night stand.|||Traci was upset that you rejected her.  She doesn't yet know how to take it and probably doesn't get rejected often.  If you like her and want to see her again, text her and tell her you don't like...|||I have learned that there is not a whole lot in this life that is worth getting worked up about.  Things tend to work out by themselves without a lot of intervention by me.|||I never really got on with girls when I was younger.  I was always much more comfortable with guys.  The only way to get better at anything is to practice it.  So just put yourself out there and...|||I'm totally a J and I would rather be 5 minutes late than even 1 minute early.  I hate sitting around and doing nothing.|||I'm good in a crisis.  The correct thing to do becomes very clear and everything else dims in the background.|||Lol, no!  NECRO because this thread was dead and is now resurrected.|||Yeah, we do that.  We're tigers in the sack.  oh, and NECRO|||Sorry to hear that. Dusty.|||Tell him you can't be available all the time, but you want to stay in touch.  Set up a regular time to talk on the phone and then stick to that.  Check and return texts and emails once per day.|||Not to be argumentative, because you're absolutely right, but certainly it can't be the IT department's job to educate people on basic security measures like that.  At least in mid-sized to larger...|||I always thought the field of IT security would be a good career choice for someone IT minded.  There will always be hackers trying to steal info so job security is guaranteed.  And I would think...|||If you really do need the experience and want quick and easy access to it then the concept of an introductory rate is a good way to go.  It's win-win.  You get a bunch of people coming through the...|||Hummph!  I have an awesome sense of humor!|||Yeah I came to the same conclusion.  I hate that I can't freely express myself, though.  It builds a bit of intimacy to say what you like.|||I KNOW, RIGHT?  What the hell?  I tell my boyfriend (once) that I love it when he texts me and he stops.  I tell him (once) I love our weekly chats and he stops initiating them.  We're in a long...'