'Hey everyone. Just wanted to give an update. We are still together. After working out this issue, it is no longer a problem. He was on a school-related extracurricular trip earlier this summer and...|||I know it had to be done, and I really do need to stand up for myself (I can't be a doormat, I can't keep holding others' needs above my own although often times it's well-intentioned), but at the...|||Update on situation: Saw him again for the first time in 1.5 weeks two nights ago. We talked about my ultimatum. I thought we had an understanding. Don't see him last night. Then, this morning I get...|||Honestly, I would have a lot more reservations and worries that he is sleeping with this girl if it weren't for a couple things:  1. Although when I first met him I totally thought he was a...|||Ahh, I'm worried that I portrayed this in a much more negative way than it really is! My boyfriend is not malicious. He means well and really does care about me, he just operates on a completely...|||Oh, and further: I try very very hard to be communicative. If I'm upset, after brewing over it for a bit, I tell boyfriend how I feel and why as much as I possibly can. I write him letters and texts...|||Hi guys. I know there are probably forums dedicated to how ENTPs and INFJs work in relationships, but I, an INFJ, am looking for some input on my personal problem.   I am dating a guy who I'm...|||My current partner is like... Beyond what I thought I'd ever experience. He is both exciting and comforting, he's physically attractive and we have similar senses of humor and taste in...|||I'm a freshman in college. All throughout high school, I had no romantic relationships. Any romantic interest I had in guys at my school was one-way and nothing ever came of it. On the first day of...|||Just to add on to what I said before, probably the thing that my parents misunderstand about me, while being a pivotal part of my thought process/personality, is that when I feel...|||I tend to do this (particularly when it comes to procrastination (which I am doing right now, whoops)) unless I actually give a crap about the task... If I feel like I inherently have something to...|||As an INTJ teenage female, I can tell you what I personally appreciate, which might apply to your daughter as well.  I value words of praise more than a hug. An occasional hug is nice, yes, but...|||I currently have romantic interest towards my closest friend's other friend, whom I have spoken to on a number of occasions, both in person and via phone/text. I'm always asking my close friend about...|||F'ing EBOLA! Yes, the disease is awful. We should've done more to solve the problem before it became this severe but people in western nations (particularly the US) are so near-sighted that they...|||I tend to be really moody and temperamental, which a lot of people (my own family included) take as a sign that I'm trying to be difficult or that I'm angry or whatever BS. Really it's caused by a...|||A female friend of mine, who I had put up with for a good five years, was on a different maturity level than I am and would often say things which made me uncomfortable or were meant to embarrass me...|||I'm into both. I want to study public health and become an epidemiologist and I have always loved science, but I also love the arts, particularly writing and music. I think that my appreciation for...|||I second the motion.|||Really? I tend to identify with and enjoy Chaotic Neutral characters the most. I think those characters tend to add a really interesting element to plot lines and can sometimes be something of a...|||I'm perfectly capable of socializing. I communicate well with adults, especially compared to my peers. I have friends and I enjoy spending time with them, but I often half-joke that I only have like...|||My school's guidance department has this all-in-one type website which included a personality test. I thought that the test there was significantly better than any free one I've taken online, and I...|||http://youtu.be/2CkzulICxL8  This song never fails to relax me. It's one of my all-time favorites and I never tire of it.|||Oh, so there's this guy in my AP chemistry class who I find appealing. While he isn't gorgeous, he's really intelligent, funny, etc. and he wants to go to the same college that I have strong interest...|||I think something that really stands out as having a God will provide message to me was this: My aunt, a converted Mormon, sent my family this decorated jar filled with Christmas scrolls which...|||I've never had any religious leanings. As early as kindergarten, peers would talk about church and the concept of heaven and I just thought it was so preposterous. My family isn't religious- My...|||87745   I even smiled a little.|||I'd say that we are intimidating AND many people are scared. If a man can't handle our intelligence and sarcastic wit, then he is all sizzle no meat and is not worth it.|||I think that hope is a necessary part of life because otherwise we would just be surrounded in extreme nihilism and cynicism which, in moderation, are healthy and necessary. Nothing would get done...|||I had to put a physical effort into NOT sobbing while watching Dallas Buyers Club in the theatre. The parts with Rayon (Jared Leto) made me cry like a babe.|||By 'manically depressed' I'm going to assume that you just mean depressed, not a sufferer of manic-depressive disorder? Either way, I'd choose to be the genius...|||All of the (few) INTJs I've known, along with myself, are bossy. Well, maybe it's not so much bossy per se as much as it is being a control freak. I know I'm guilty of it. I, too, get impatient when...|||I'm sixteen, and for the past couple years I have had this odd fascination with antibiotic-resistant bacteria and antibiotics. I just find it really interesting while at the same time being...|||The will to power- Just look at all of the examples throughout history which have shaped humanity. From Alexander the Great and Genghis Khan to Hitler and some of the great American presidents,...|||I generally do not like children. I find many kids to be really obnoxious and loud, which I just find very hard to handle. I don't think I want children of my own for many reasons.   That said, if...|||Oh, yes. I have awful phone anxiety to begin with. I'm fine talking to someone in person, but phone calls are just so uncomfortable for me. I have to plan out what to say beforehand if I need to,...|||As a gen Z INTJ female with very little relationship experience, and what little I have being overwhelmingly negative, I will give you my insight.   If I am interested in someone, I am generally...|||I would give myself a 7/10. I like a wide variety of foods, but not a lot of the 'normal' stuff. I hate cheese with a passion, I also dislike yogurt, sour cream, white bread (I only eat wheat bread),...|||Last winter, I started dating a guy I had met through a mutual friend. We dated for a couple weeks before I realized that he knew nothing about me and only liked the idea of me. I broke up with him...|||You should really apologize. Should I be worried about you?  You scare me. Can you explain it again? If you saw me at _____, why didn't you come say hi?|||I suppose this isn't just about one-sided friendships, it can be about any kind of dysfunctional relationship the rest of you INTJ's have, but that seemed to be a fitting title based on what I'll...|||As an INTJ female in her teens, I can safely say that I have absolutely no interest in having children. Maybe it's selfish of me (according to others, it probably is), but I just cannot see myself...|||I'm actually surprisingly affectionate with my cat. I've had her for the majority of my life and we are very close. Anyone who saw me with her would probably never guess I have any problem with...|||I struggle with this as well. My family has good intentions when touching me, but they still know that I don't like being touched.   One time, I was out with my parents and we were standing around....|||81088 This giant, tropical bat is somewhere in between evil and cute.|||I can read cursive writing and I know some of the basics of it, but it was only taught in elementary school where I live. Hence why the most difficult part of SATs is writing the statement about how...|||Oh, I never saw that! Thanks.|||What kind of handwriting do the rest of you INTJs have?  Mine is messy. Always has been and always will be, since I don't think it's worth my time to correct something like that. I'm a generally...|||EyesOpen- Wow, I can understand why you snapped. That's incredibly annoying and certainly does not prove any point except for your roommate being an ass, at least in that situation.|||I won't get into the Jungian type language, as I'm not as well-versed in it either. But as a T female, I know that I definitely do lack empathy. Thinking back to interactions since I was a very young...|||What are some things that trigger/irritate you? I know I have a great many. Sorry if this is already a topic; I couldn't find anything like it in a quick look around.      The sound of chewing,...'