'I'm inclined to believe that personality (i.e. MBTI) is innate.  Looking back on my little self, I think I was even more of an INFP than I am today at 27! And this makes sense to me, because with...|||This was awesome; thank you so much for posting it. her message resonated with me so well and even made me tear up a bit (a rarity).|||No, actually, I didn't start writing in cursive until after HS.  I'm not sure why, actually. I guess it was because I had enough trouble mastering 'print'. I would go through phases as well, changing...|||I would do this, too! (My best friend had the most beautiful and effortless penmanship. I was so jealous.) Only, mine never really improved much, dammit.|||I'm glad you created this post, DreamStepper, as I've been curious about this topic for a while only never got around to creating a thread.   I'm also pleased to find that most INFPs seem to have...|||*runs away* :blushed:|||I have... :(  I was 21 and engaged to my bf of 3 years. That summer, I'd planned a trip to Santa Cruz, CA to visit old friends. I was having serious doubts about our relationship and our...|||I love the song; it's catchy, moving, and easy to relate to. Plus, I think he's hot. I think it's popular, especially with the teens, because of the heartache theme, and there's something especially...|||Hmm. This is a loaded question for me. On one hand, since I'm a Christian (of sorts) I'd like to be a better one (e.g. be more self less, loving, kind, faithful etc.) but, on the other, there are so...|||thanks, infpaul, I wasn't aware of this but probably not many, right?? I'm an extremely nervous flyer, btw, but for good reason, I think! ;)|||(am I the only one who read this post, assuming the plane crash left no survivors (as they often do) and, therefore, the focus being about the depravity the world would feel?)|||I love giving thanks! I've been feeling pretty down and in need of advice and new perspectives lately so have been lurking like mad on here, thanking hundreds of posts. Receiving thanks does...|||27, 5'4 and slim.. I keep a relatively close eye on my 'figure' (I hate that word) and work to maintain it by eating healthily and doing moderate exercise, like yoga, a few times a week. I don't have...|||dann 's a glass-half-empty kind of guy. ;) that's fine.|||I agree. I've tested e7 before (along with 4,5,9,1 (!) and I'm totally on board with you, Maeve, on craving adventures/new experiences. Sometimes I'm all talk though, and spend more time and energy...|||Ah.. I see. Ok, yeah, I can definitely see a preference for Fi, then, and it would explain my ability to remain 'calm' when others freak out. I've also been called 'robotic' and 'unfeeling' because...|||http://youtu.be/JtH68PJIQLE  ::Crush::|||Interesting post..  I was raised primarily by my single father, minus a few years spent in foster care between ages 8-12. He was definitely inconsistent with his moods and behavior, extremely prone...|||Great points. I will say, however, don't be fooled by these woman's statements and take them at face value. I'm speaking as a woman and, therefore, feel qualified to offer this advise. We all have...|||Aw. :( This sounds horrible.. for you both! Yeah, casual sex isn't for me, for reasons like this. I would probably have done the same thing in your situation, though (the one-night-stand included)....|||so cute. :)|||Oh, ISFPs.. I secretly wish I were one sometimes.. so detailed, ornate, eloquent, graceful, etc.|||I think we INFPs often get into trouble using 'sweeping generalizations' (e.g. i won't change my mind & you're a close minded person) making our intent, therefore, misunderstood due to our Fi. Is...|||Yes. I've had a couple, but always felt terribly guilty, got emotionally involved (even though I didn't know them, really) and actually expected the guys to call me afterwords (which never...|||being a good friend, wife, sister college, i 'failed' (so to speak) at twice, but eventually want to get my degree playing/writing music|||You're an 'idealist', really? ;)  I think IcarusDreams meant what he said and I totally agree that 'true love' exists when it's mutual - romantic love, that is, between lovers. I have it, and it's...|||YESSS!!!  **EDITED** -- HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM/MARRIED ME!  Also, icing on the cake, he is so affectionate, thoughtful, completely supportive, and loves me loads. :)|||I can totally relate to this. I've been told the same by my friends, pretty much. They no longer of a funstigator since I moved away! :(    And this. I love cooking, and cookbooks, but never...|||@IcarusDreams - Yes, I do sometimes test Enneagram Type 4.. Having a unique style is very important to me and it's also my favorite form of self-expression. Facebook used to have a great MBTI group...|||42. Whether or not this test is an accurate assessment, I would like to be more empathedic.|||When I place a high importance on my personal appearence and am always getting compliments on how 'well put together and stylish' I am - although I disagree but wish it were true.|||I've listened to this song on repeat about a million times. so good!|||NeonBomb,  Thank you so much for your kind words. They were so uplifting. :) But, man, am I thankful for my husband. He is SUCH a blessing. Everyone deserves this love and acceptance and I'm so...|||ImnottheonlyINFP,  Thanks for sharing this with me. I'm sorry you're so unhappy in your marriage. I can't imagine how awful it must feel to be so disconnected with your spouse, the one person...|||I feel you, Kito! This has totally been me the last couple days. I keep saying mean and hateful things to my husband, that I know will make him feel rotten, but can't help myself. I feel like the...|||Thank you, NeonBomb for creating this post and for every one who shared their very personal experiences. basementbugs, my heart goes out to you and I wish you all the very best in overcoming your...|||What I really enjoy, though, is getting under the surface of the perceived perpetrator and working to find out who they truly are underneath. This takes some work, depending on the person (especially...|||Speaking of The Pianist (really great, btw), I saw The Piano for the first time recently and thought it was amazing. Anna Paquin won Best Supporting Actress at age 11.|||My dad (along with many family member's) was a super conservative Christian and I identified as the same until I was about 20, after I read, The Myth of a Christian Nation by Greg Boyd. I was amazed...|||Nice to meet you ImnottheonlyINFP - really enjoyed hearing about your family and I look forward to gettin to know eachother better. :)   p.s. I briefly dated an ENTP (oh and my dad was one too)....|||OrangeSoda - My question was directed at everyone but I'm always grateful for your insight. :) You know, I don't necessarily believe my smiling and being bubbly is a disguise, actually. I simply...|||There is nothing virtuous or admirable about “fakeness”, in itself, let’s be honest. I believe it’s a vice just like hatefulness, greediness, meanness, etc., and people should treat it as such, no...|||I completely agree. Often times, what I'm being criticized for, I already know to be true and say, yeah, yeah, I know I need to be better at this. I may also take criticism too well, at times, and...|||Gosh.. I think I used to be that person a few years ago, oddly enough (could my wise soul be dying?). The last few years I've felt pretty needy and, because I've moved around so much as well, there...|||@KindOfBlue06 - This is the most perfect love letter, everything I could ever want to hear and so much more. You're amazing. :) XXX|||purplelily - this was a cool test, thanks! mine were all artistic.. but my main code was ASI.|||So, you love it??? I, honestly, want that too!  I really really want to be a mom and raise my kids at home.. My husband, though, wants to wait until we're more settled financially, so it's not...|||or anything Lynch-ian, for that matter.|||Aw, see this is what I'm talking about! This is so so encouraging and I look forward to checking out your blog. :)|||I'm an idealist and for this reason I believe in marriage.   Ix92ll explain: Yeah, the divorce rate is really really high, and there are also many unhappy marriages that never end in divorce, but...'