'Is it common for INTJs to have no friends? Not one established friendship, ever? (Besides family)|||Thank you lilysocks, this gave me a better understanding as to where he is coming from. Appreciate you taking the time to help.|||This sounds just like he describes himself....like his brain will no longer work. Its hard though, because we are in a new relationship. He works all day, then can't connect with me. I'm still...|||Thanks for your insight Jeb.  We've been together for 4 months.|||I'm not sure if these are an ENFP thing buttttt.... I say these a lot.  It is what it is I'm crazy, in time you will find out.  I also notice I say value and good a lot.  :)|||How do INTJs handle stress? Do you handle it well?   Dating an INTJ and the last couple days hes been under a lot of stress at work. I visited him the other night and tried to alleviate some stress...|||Is it common for an INTJ to try to 'appear' more playful and silly at the beginning of a relationship to try to win a potential partner? Just started seeing someone (an INTJ guy) two months ago and...|||Why don't most of you guys like giving hugs? I just started seeing an INTJ and he never hugs anyone and if he does its really 'detached' I'd say from viewing it. Nervous this guy isn't going to be...|||When you are really into a girl or guy but don't know that much, do you start stalking them via social media? Are you ok with mentally taking things as they come? Or does your mind want to solve them...|||I don't like to touch people that I'm not close too. Very private and careful what i encourage as an ENFP. Im independent and don't like clinginess. So, I don't even mean to do this but if someone...|||Thank you kindly for your response here. Do you happen to know of any good online sites that can help me understand Ne/Si break down. Im not too sure how that all works and would be interested in...|||Has anyone here ever dated an ISFJ? I just started having feelings for one. I don't know how I feel about it. I am sort of nervous! My last relationship was with an INTJ and though things didn't work...|||Have you ever dated one?|||So, you would't care they didn't share sensing with you?|||Would you ever date an ENFP?|||Why do you guys give the best dating advice??|||I just hung out with an ISFJ guy the other night. I hadn't seen him for years and the years ago I hung out with him I was always with other guys and never knew him on a deeper level. I felt an...|||Hahaha this was so dead on. I seriously felt like that puppy ready to blow up my classroom back in the day. I also come to conclusions much like the cat in the bowl !! Lol, dammit. I wish I had an...|||I enjoy ISFP's I find them very easy to have around and be silly with but, I don't work well with them.|||Anyone have any information on or links to types of variants?? Just briefly heard about turbulent/assertive types and was sort of curious about them.   Thank you|||265778 Love geeks!|||Pants are evil. They make me do evil things when they are on, like go to work. I tried picketing them once downtown but damn police got involved and then the dogs came and then the pepper spray, and...|||I can definitely relate. I'm similar, sometimes very extroverted, other times very introverted. I think this may be because I have a hard time balancing my life. So for six months I'm helping people...|||'Nonverbal' things said:  Talk faster.. Where is she going with this? That made no logical sense.|||You're so mature for your age! You're like a child. You are so calm. You're crazy. I love you. You're ridiculous. You're a dork. I have a weird child. You seriously don't...|||Wow! Got sort of hot in here reading that..sheesh..raw and powerful?! Maybe I'm like a child cuz all of a sudden I want to poke you. lol  Interesting....life must be hard for you though, to not be...|||After reading about the five love languages gifts, words of affirmation, acts of service, time, and touch I started thinking about your type. I wonder how many of you are physical touch? Are there...|||29 Explorer 22 Builder 23 Director  26 Negotiator   ~ Interesting|||I fell in love with an INTJ not too long ago but had to walk away due to personal reasons. First guy I have ever loved. (maybe last knowing me) It's been about the hardest thing I've ever done in my...|||This made me laugh.  I am on the fence about hiring right now. I'm really looking for a quality worker, sick of all these average Joes. I'd be interested in taking a look at your credentials.  ...|||You know, after I posted that comment I thought to myself...'Wait, I can get effed with. But only once and it would need to be by someone I trusted.   You ENTPs are evil. I wholeheartedly admire...|||This cracks me up that there is even a board like this! So messed up lol. Not sure if anyone already posted how they go about manipulating an ENFP, sort of curious now. Personally,...|||Wow, just realized the four types i posted where all the 'intellects'. That is so funny, Ive never made that connection before! I truly love those brain filled noggins!:laughing:|||catch my attention   INTJ (only type I've ever met that 'gets' me and are dripping with depth.) ENTJ (this type is easy for me to understand and the guys are usually pretty masculine and dominant,...|||Anyone else like this? I am indeed an ENFP, but barely made being one on E, F, and P and I scored high on intuition. Not sure if this explains why I am so business at work (appear more INTJ-like by...|||Sounds like this person paraphrased a Jake Handey quote. Jack Handey used to write for Saturday Night Live...he is well known for his one liners as a humorist. If you like this one, you should look...|||I think its admirable when people seek growth in their weaknesses. As an ENFP I try to apply logic to my feelings before I react and this has really helped me to be less sensitive and more objective...|||Is not showing restraint always a bad thing? I was admiring your type for doing it so naturally after you view something as fact. I perceive it as personal growth. ENFPs can care way too much about...|||Lol, thanks for the heads up. If she extended on it, i was going to move it elsewhere. My apologies.|||Lol, thanks for the heads up. If she extended on it, i was going to move it elsewhere. My apologies.|||I know it wasn't, just your lack of restraint is amusing to me. ENFPs are very careful how they are perceived, and their words reflect this. You guys make me laugh because its always straight facts,...|||You are a MIRACLE, and an ASSET to the church. (sorry, but I'm so excited to witness one of you!!) I really hope you make your way into bible college eventually... God created your type for a reason...|||Cue dramatic organ chord like an old-time soap opera I so heard this playing in my head while reading.   Thanks for more hope! Yea, not too worried about the competition ***casually wipes...|||Ha!     Do you find yourself divulging more information on here than you would in person?   I have an INTJ friend and he really fascinates me but he never talks much about things. He always...|||I agree. See, you guys are great.|||To be honest I'd love to date one lol but here, friendship. I value their insight greatly but the ones I know personally are not Christian and have a limited understanding of the bible. Theology is...|||Though dripping with sarcasm, I completely agree. Couldn't have said it better! Thanks for the compliment too ;)|||Gentlemen too I see. I agree with the awesome part, for sure.|||Really? There is HOPE Haha!!! Yea, INTJs seems to be the best suited for my personality...from actual experience. But, def sad to see they are the least religious (or so I have read) of all the...|||Welp, I asked for THAT one!  I think this question should be rephrased Why are women attracted to ENTPs? :laughing:'