427746|||Can this please go viral ?  Very beautiful and well thought out. Made. My. Life.|||INFJs are very sentimental :)  It's the thought that counts. a gift that has an inside joke or memory or some sort is sooo special. I can't speak for every infj, but this is something to consider....|||What's the Se phase like? (If you're there yet) How Personality Develops Over Time  Are you more attuned to your surroundings?  What's your bedroom look like?  Are you still a perfectionist?...|||- Poem, has to be totally meaningful and from your heart. Not sappy :P (If this isn't good enough, add a gift card to her local bookstore)  - Every INFJ always needs a new journal.  - Take her...|||YouTube needs more MBTI videos. It's perfect. Great job, guys, keep it going!|||Fi mind= water slides and ski lifts Ni mind= tunnels and ladders  Ni is incredibly good at taking 'a posteriori' reasoning and building 'a priori' abstraction. (If I may put it that way)  It is...|||I'm not here to give personal advise, I am too young. But here's some things you can look into:  - Sound therapy; binaural beats, singing bowls, natural sounds, ect.  - Aura healing;...|||MBTI: INFJ Enneagram: 5w4, 594 Socionic: EII (don't know what happen there) Instinct: all too close together Horo: Virgo sun, Sagittarius moon Zodiac: rat Aura: Emerald and purple (i just...|||Imagine waking up in the morning a forgetting how time and space works. Imagine looking into some one's eyes and knowing who they are when they are alone. Imagine not trusting the sky to stay above...|||epic .|||Awe, congratulations ! Welcome aboard|||Welcome :) Have a lot of fun here|||Hehe, good to hear! Welcome aboard.|||Hello! Always good to have another ENFP on board. Beautiful avatar by the way!|||-Post post post, -don't be afraid to drop people a message -ask every question you can think of -make new keypals -Learn lots -and love who you are  Have fun, love !|||@sikamicamico  Epic advise, thank you.    I always appreciate a good definition of Se.|||Yeah, dude|||^This is brilliant . I agree from this perspective, symbolism is an art, and in many cases should be kept that way.|||I'm glad, love x) Being influence by others can only make you smarter and stronger, what's a painting with only one colour, one shade, one shape? As long as you embrace yourself, no matter what.|||I see! I use to overlook the little things too... but it's the subtle things that can reveal your true character!  On the outside we use the idea's of things to replace situations or explanations....|||Hello, ESTPs  Don't let this sound superficial to you... it's probably hypocritical...  But do you ever catch yourselves being too presuming?  For instance: My mother's an ESTP, (I'm 18, I...|||metaphor     metaphor    analogy (kinda)|||Melodic Metal:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q0_KiqFn4mU   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MeILznBMO8I  Synth/Alternative :|||Loving this! Thank you for sharing x)|||bloomingdepths  She is correct in a lot of cases. It's up to you to decide weather this friendship is worth the fight or not. keep an open mind, follow your gut. You're already doing everything you...|||This is our most ominous weakness. Conveying our inner world can be burdening, our ideas are so abstract and our third function often fails us under pressure.  I agree with  @Chris Merola : ...|||Hehe, I can share: I've never door slammed intentionally, But I' have been door slammed before.  She was a friend I met in the last year of elementary, we were extremely close. After the first...|||Absolutely. though, I've come to the point where I try to reason and help them avoid being embarrassed all together. Help them to feel more comfortable in any way I can. It's so an empathetic Fe...|||I was raised (By and ESTP) doing a lot of sports so I'm pretty good, at least skilled. I wouldn't call myself athletic, though. INFJs have Se, so most of us are bound to be somewhat active. I do...|||Gifford Maxim  Well thought out, brilliant! Thank you so much.|||Hey, hun! Finally diagnosed yourself, hey? x)  I'm the same, many tests would tell me INTJ. But, socionics tell me EII (Which is INFP in MBTI). So, I met in the middle. ;) Well, not really, I am...|||- tumbles off chair and roles away laughing at this entire thread -|||I use light humor in these cases. I think our enigma comes from our obsession of eccentricity, satire, and self protection all at once.  Embracing my jocular side frees me from self allusion and...|||I'd have to say the music, mostly.  I feel music with atmosphere and abstract composition can speak more than words ever will. Most of the time I end up changing the lyrics or pretending they're...|||That's an awesome way of looking at it.   I guess it's something that depends on the situation. I'll keep this in mind  Thanks again!|||Thank you bender477  That's a good quote. defiantly some thing to keep in mind.|||bender477 and Mina92  This is a characteristic I've been pondering. Am I too naive? or am I too judgmental?  Do you think it's healthy to teeter toward self protection, or social humanitarianism?...|||thatchadguy    Wow, so many people are saying don't even bother when it comes to this. though I really want to side with you. How do you think helping other would benefit us personally?   ...|||Your advise is wonderful, yet this certain part speaks new revelation to me, the way you've explained it. Makes sense of our functions.  May I ask you to elaborate Ni-Se? Have you had any personal...|||InsanityRemix  Untapped wisdom. Advise we will cherish for he rest of our lives.|||Beautiful !    Amazing quote, I'm keeping this forever.     I've read some where that we develop our functions in phases. Ni at childhood, Fe in Adolescence, Ti in 20s, and Se in 30s, until...|||Thanks for commenting!    I see this a lot with my INFJ father. defiantly rings true from my perspective.    That's too bad. How would you say we deal with these people? I don't have many...|||Yes, I've talked to others before.. every one seems to agree we should stay in the background and work from there, as a quiet leader.  About emotional involvement. I disagree now, subjectively. But...|||Ahhaa, thanks so much, this tells me a lot.    That's an excellent comment. Do you think Ni gets stronger as you get older? Does it ever get somewhat neglected due to more use of our other...|||You guys are amazing.  I've been on PerC for three-four years now (Since 15yo), and like most of you, finding my type was the best thing that ever happened to me. I've been able to learn so much of...|||I agree, sweet heart, involve a third party in those situations. Not so much as to 'lessen the battle', but to give you yourself more confidence in sticking up for yourself.  It seem she's only...|||Ooooh! Pick me ! Sounds like we have some similar interests ;)|||I got Hestia too ! High five !  (I think all INFJs will get her whether they like it or not)|||My mother's an ESTP, she's extremely productive and hard working. She could travel the world, solve the politics, battle terrorism with a pen, do an entire country's paper work, read a library, heal...