'My mom is ESFJ. She's probably a type 2. My family is very mellow, and my mom is the one that holds us together. If it wasn't for her, I probably would never see my brothers. She holds weekly family...|||angelcat um...no? Like I had a thread back when I first joined...which was like two years ago lol.|||Yes, I do too lol. Generally I don't mix friends, but in this case, since I'm trying to be friendly with everyone, it's a little different. It's nice in a way, to have a group. I still tend to hang...|||johnson.han.3 it was a simple change, really.  I decided instead of staying in self pity, to seek out some friends. I started attending a bible group I had heard of, and became friends with the...|||I don't know about ENFPs, but I was friends with a P type, and the thing I found difficult was not her indecisiveness, but her lack of communication. I don't mind doing something spontaneously, but...|||angelcat I took a look at the link you gave. As usual my results made no sense. -_- I've never been very good at studying these functions, but as I looked over the ones listed, I repeatedly got 3...|||Thanks for replying SnowSun. :)  At the time I had posted this I was at my wits end, but I'm doing much better now. I realized I was uncertain about the Nanny jobs because they were a little out of...|||Your welcome lol. ^^|||A comment on F vs. T I might be wrong-I'm not as well versed on the functions as some people on this forum are-but this is the way I've come to understand it.   A person using Thinking will weigh...|||When I tell stories I tend to over exaggerate, especially in the heat of the moment, but I usually will back track and say, Well I'm exaggerating a little.   I used to be a compulsive liar as a...|||So this past few months have been hard on me. School was tough, I kind of got depressed in the middle and almost failed my classes, and I didn't have any friends to speak of.   My good ESFJ friend...|||Aww this thread is so cute. Please keep us updated on how everything goes! Like if you take him to lunch or anything. ^_^|||J types. I can't handle P types. When I make plans, I make plans, I can't deal with people who change their mind an hour before we are supposed to meet. :/  other than that...I'm mostly friends...|||It can also be paralyzing, when you see too many options and aren't sure which one to choose, :/|||Oftentimes after reading books by the same author, I can start predicting how the book will end by the third one I've read. Movies? I can pull out who will die immediately. The reason is because it's...|||Sweetish oh, they are definitely interesting. When they get in the same room they can't shut up lol. I kind of hoped they would get together, but it doesn't seem to be going that way. Like I said, I...|||Uninspired Username well then, if we were going by food type alone I would be an ISTP :th_love:|||Lol. The Cookie Monster. Nice. I found this image-not sure if I would call it accurate, but it sure made me hungry.  321602321602321602|||emberfly yes, I think your right, that the fear of the unknown can be a trigger for SJs. I realize you didn't mean anything negative by saying we lived in a shell, and I'm sorry if it came off that...|||Haha what an old thread. I love how it got hijacked by other types somewhere in the middle.|||ooh congratulations! :D And that's really sweet of you to get her a car. I choose...the Audi A4 2015! And please keep in mind I know absolutely nothing about cars, I am only choosing from an...|||emberfly   I just want to say...I know this guy who is probably INFJ, and he is weird lol. Like one night our group was sharing favorite movies, and it was like, Iron Man, Gladiator, Toy Story,...|||Marla_S I'm not sure why, but my computer messed up when I was typing. I meant to say I've learned to ask her to clarify. Thanks for the advice though.  I seem to do much better with her when we...|||I hate my current job. I've worked there 4 years, and I've burned out on it. The only thing I liked about it was the people I worked with, and they are all leaving. I'm considering getting a Nanny...|||Perusing or persuing? I'm not a big fan of perusing guys myself lol.|||I have recently become acquainted with a person I believe to be infj. She might be intj but she is super careful about other peoples' feelings so I think she is infj.   She is one of the smartest...|||yes, generally I prefer smaller groups, or hanging out with people one on one. The thing that drains me most are people I don't know that I have to interact with, or tension/conflict. Thanks though,...|||thatkillsme that's why I haven't changed my username pic in forever lol. I'm always afraid no one will know who I am...|||Sweetish I've been meaning to tell you for a while how much I like your username picture. :)|||Sometimes I wonder if I'm an extrovert. I go for weeks wanting to hang out with people, and visiting friends. Then a week like this one rolls around, and nothing makes me happier than a quiet house...|||I thinks it's really cool you were able to find a place that fit you, and that also let you use your social work knowledge. I don't think that aspergers is related to any specific type, however I...|||(1) We are not doormats.Actually, I think we have a fairly hearty constitution. :) I for one am very good at saying no (but that could be because I'm a middle child). Also, when descriptions say we...|||If I watch a sad movie or one of those save the starving children commercials I can feel empathy. Actually, I like to watch sad movies on occasion when I want to feel sad.   For real life...|||Waft. It just sounds....gross.|||SnowSun Sounds fun! I got to go to Kenya last year, I hope yu have a great time.any place in specific your going to, or is it still in the planning stage?|||It will work out. :)|||It's funny actually, most of the SJ's I know are creative. My two ESFJ friends both loved drawing. One prefers comic book style drawing, while the other prefers realistic. I myself like photography,...|||@angelcat I'm hoping to make things for American girl dolls. I've looked on etsy, and quite a few people are successful at it. I have to find my niche though. Currently my crafting skills aren't good...|||angelcat oooh, so your a novelist then? I want to get published one day. :) Right now I'm still working on the craft though, and getting things finished.   My goals this summer is to make money for...|||It's a middle school, so 6th-8th grade. I'm getting my degree in elementary ed, but I like working with kids in the older range (think 5th grade or so) so I don't mind working with middle school. The...|||I'm curious to know if anyone else makes summer goals. If you do, what are they? I think summer is a great time to press reset and pueruse some lost and forgotten hobbies/desires. What's your list...|||NorweegianGuy I'm the same. I've come to learn I do much better with short term tasks. I can enjoy the process, but often I enjoy the end result a great deal more.|||I work in an after school program and make most of the lesson plans. I try to make them fun and interesting as well as educational, but it's so disheartening when the kids show absolutely no...|||@bob_toeback your in a difficult position! I haven't seen any movies recently myself, but I hear insurgent got some pretty bad reviews, so I would say avoid that (unless you guys are fans of the...|||Jimmers aww that's so sweet. :) I wish I had a childhood sweetheart like that.|||bob_toeback I haven't seen those sadly. :/ what kind of genre do you like? I prefer scifi, action, and kid movies (like How to Train Your Dragon). It makes me happy to see such a diverse cast of...|||Oh, good morning everyone! It is beautiful out where I am and I'm in a great mood. :) I wish everyone a wonderful day. I don't normally do this but I am going to attempt adding a picture. Edit** if...|||Haha, I hate it when I get different results! No serisouly, I've gotten INTJ, ISTP, ISTJ, ISFJ. And I'm like-I am NOT an INTJ! The problem is my T/F scores are so slightly different. And apparently...|||nichya aww thank you. :) I stole it off somewhere. I like calm pictures like that. I like your avatar too. Are they detectives? The cat looks like he's holding a magnifying glass. Is it Alice and...|||Nothing's really going on the ISFJ page, so I thought I would drop in and say hi. :)'