'I actually left the house and am glad I did, because I got to meet one of my favorite musicians (Roger Clyne of The Refreshments and Roger Clyne and the Peacemakers). Fan for 20 years, finally got to...|||I'm an agnostic atheist and a peaceful anarchist (voluntaryist), so discussing religion and politics can end up in heated debate if I'm not careful in my approach.  I do enjoy discussing both areas...|||It's been happening to me for years.  Usually I develop them on people I think are highly intelligent who have a bit of charm...college professors, doctors, etc.  But I've had them on friends,...|||Medical school. Should have gone.|||Missing.In.Action.|||Oh gosh, I dunno...I think I'm quite plain, but thank you. <3|||NOooo I'm too shy! I think he'd ask if he wanted to meet up again, which is why I'm confused.|||I'm an INFJ and cannot figure out this INFJ dude. grrrr  We started talking on OkCupid a few weeks ago...I saw that he viewed my profile a few times, so I initiated contact...he wrote about a...|||Mmmm.  Hard to explain my thoughts on this, but I totally get the original poster's question.  I'm a pretty detached person. Even when I'm in a relationship with someone and I allow them in and...|||Sometimes I think I might actually be an INTJ. I can't figure it out. I think I use far more Fe than Fi, though. Maybe INTP. I dunno. lol|||I've never been a warm & fuzzy person.  I'm empathetic...when a person's struggles aren't their own fault. If I've warned a friend that an idea they have is a bad one and they do it anyway (despite...|||INFJs ARE thinkers, but our sense of idealism and morality guides our thinking.|||The forum is working properly for me again!  602202|||I'm so glad I'm not the only one. <3|||I don't know...I haven't changed anything. Been using Chrome for years, and haven't added any plugins. :/|||I would have said something upfront. Sorry, I won't be able to do that, because I have plans with my family this weekend (and say what the plans are).  I used to let people take advantage of me...|||Thanks again for all your responses. I can relate to everything!  I can't thank posts. PerC is broken for me. :(|||PerC won't let me thank or quote posts (something is broken), so...thank you to anyone who has posted here.  I think you might be onto something,  umop 3pisdn... I DON'T care anymore, and that's...|||I have never - ever - claimed to be a warm and fuzzy person.  Yet, people expect me to be and get hurt/annoyed/angry when they find I am not. Maybe they assume that because I'm female, that I'm...|||I tried to thank you and got the error message again.  So - thank you for responding!|||I get an error message when I try to thank posts, thanks aren't showing up under my profile (even though I have a notification that I have thanks).  Just wonderin'!|||I have it sometimes, yes...I co-host a radio show and podcast (and was recently asked to host another podcast), and I'm a writer, so...I often wonder why the heck I have fans...what's wrong with...|||So, uh...I am 46 and have decided to stop coloring my hair, because it is all silver now, and I've been gradually getting the dark color removed...and I just got 5 inches of length chopped off....|||I agree...the chameleon trait has pros and cons, but overall? It's mostly a negative trait, in my experience. :/  Also, re: the psychic ability...the process takes too long (for me, at...|||One of my friends posted this on Facebook this afternoon. :laughing:  The Elusive INFJ  Theyx92ve been called a lot of things: The Unicorn, The Special Snowflake, The Oracle, The Protector, The...|||I can relate to this.  It takes me a long time to process things, and then the AHA moment comes, and I announce a decision, end a friendship or relationship, quit a project...and it blindsides...|||I can relate to every word of this.|||This is my favorite:  556906  I make it so strong that it looks like oil, and I add a little flavored creamer to it (usually Almond Joy, but I like a few other flavors too).  I can't stand...|||Aggressive behavior, neediness, selfishness, inability (or unwillingness) to respect boundaries...  I warn men that I am VERY introverted and do NOT like talking on the phone a lot and that I am...|||Okay.  I ended a 6-month long distance relationship with a man last weekend, and I'm annoyed with myself for letting the relationship go on for as long as it did, and I'll explain why.  We met...|||Ooh. I think you are onto something here...    My sister and mother are ISTJs and they always know things before I do re: people. I find myself constantly telling them You were right about...|||I LOVE this idea. I'm a bit embarrassed that I never thought of this! Getting it out of my head and on paper is a great idea. Might help me sort through the chaos and notice patterns earlier. :)|||Yes, exactly this!|||Block them.  I do it occasionally, mutual friends or not, and I'm honest about why.|||Nutella. Sweet, chocolatey, and a bit nutty.|||I have a personality trait that I don't like, and I'm trying to figure out how to improve it...and I'm wondering if it is an Ni thing, or perhaps an Se thing...or something else entirely.  This...|||No, because there's actually a LOT wrong with him. He's selfish, stingy, and kinda mean. I didn't waste my time telling him any of that though, because he's too arrogant to listen.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JLvFbBR4XOg  This song and video came out when I was a teenager. I still love the song, and think the video is one of the best ever made.|||I just ended one, and have NO interest in starting another one. Possibly ever. lol  This time around, I became aware of a major flaw I have, and I need to work on that before I can even think about...|||It usually makes me uncomfortable because I don't like hurting people.  I'll try using my talent for self-deprecating humor to repel them first. If that doesn't work, I'll say I'm not in the market...|||Confident, but wasn't always this way. Took years of learning to accept myself...flaws, strengths...all of it. And I'm still learning.  But overall, I know I'm a kind-hearted person (seriously, I...|||Oh, on this note...not sure about the rest of you, but I tend to be very tolerant of traits that really bother me in a person until they build up and I can't take it anymore. Then I have an epiphany...|||It's why I prefer to make breakups short and sweet. I'll usually say something like, This just isn't working or give some other brief explanation. But if they start questioning me...oh boy. I have...|||I'm in a life phase like this right now.  I want the best for humanity, world peace, etc...I'm very anti-war and all that, and have been quite the advocate for the underdog for my entire life. ...|||Oh, man. I remember this article.  I think he's been spying on me or has read my diary.  Strange timing, this thread, and this article...I broke up with yet another guy who had totally fallen for...|||I was too, when I was younger. Just wait. LOL|||Yes. Same here. I'm overly polite and quite accommodating, in fact...UNLESS.  I'm slow to judge - often, too slow - and end up looking foolish sometimes because others saw things in people that I...|||I do that too, and my best friend (INFP) tells me it's mean when she sees me in action. :unsure:  She says I brain ninja people sometimes. Oops.|||Oh snap!  Yeah, that's how I am. No sugarcoating. And I expect the same in return.|||I'm interested in trying mushrooms and ayahuasca (yes, with a shaman...one of my friends is one, but he lives far away).  I've used MDMA twice and really enjoyed the experience both times, but the...'