'Hi,  My parents are ENFJ-ESTJ and their marriage is awful. I have just found this and this is spot-on, it actually explained a lot. They argue all the time and just can't get along at all. I'm...|||You're mistaking an ENFJ for an ENTJ.|||edit|||Out of curiosity : are they aware that they're considered just a wild fling/fuck buddy?|||I never stated I would let him cheat on his girlfriend with me. Where did you get this from? What I said is that I wanted to officially date him, not becoming his mistress. What I meant with him...|||Because you made it pass as if I was the one initiating all this. I'm not. My fault is that I fell into the trap, though. Also, I got what you said with his other relationship not being an issue if...|||Thanks, this is what I thought too.|||Thank you, I'm taking what you said into accounts. Definitly. I have so many doubts about this guy, even though he's being very nice to me. I think I needed to read this to believe it, as I'm too...|||Hey, me again.  I think I've just found the perfect boyfriend material. I actually met this ENTJ one year ago, had some sort of love at first sight syndrom and things went wild immediatly. This guy...|||Dear ENTJ,  When exactly did I fell for you so hard? I hate feeling so much confused.  Sincerely,  Your beloved INTP girl|||Thank you for worrying. :) I think I am fine, no worries. Sending you a pm to explain.|||Dear ESTP,  And to think that I first mistook you for an ENTJ. I probably projected my ideals on you. I had no idea you were taken. I won't tell your girlfriend that you cheated on her with me, nor...|||If that helps, I've seen my ENTJ friend interacting with some fake, obnoxious attention whore. While he secretely despises her and laugh at her, he shows her his polite side. One of his friends is in...|||Arakkun,  Madman,  Mr Canis,  ouchies,  Piyush,  Quang+,  Remcy,  SilverFalcon,  themaraudingtimelord,  Xenss.  Hi to those people who visited my page.|||Definitly Inumuta from Kill la Kill. Look at him being full INTP :   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-JLnxQxKKk  I mean, this is so hilariously accurate that I suspect the scenarists to know...|||I've bought a pdf from here that was extremely well done and exhaustive.|||These are very shallow reasons to type yourself as an INTP. Any type can need their alone times. As for seeing everything from a logical ways, hopefully any type can do that. You see my point. A...|||I can't deny this.|||Not saying any of those things are incompatible with being an INTP but based on this, the vibe I get from you and all of these Do any INTP [insert random activity]? threads you constantly open, I...|||A large part of INFPs are enneatype 4, and 4 crave for authenticity. Other types, not so much.|||Think so? I just love that city. Paris is boring.|||Not a problem, I'd only have to study another year in England to validate my degree out there. Both systems aren't as different as you may think. Or I could join an international company and work...|||Hmm. I'm hanging out a lot on this sub-forum. The INTP sub-forum is cool too but it is pretty much like interacting with my mirror images, while ENTJs here provide me with some insight I didn't...|||Yeah. Truth be told, I'd like to practice in London. I'll try to find a way, but most likely France.|||I am extremely happy with my job as a fashion model. I'm soon to become a lawyer and I think I'm going to love that too. INTPs have a hard time dealing with a boring job, but we're pragmatic enough...|||Those socionics intertype relationships seem so narrow to me. So many things have to be taken into account that I find it impossible to define one single pattern for a relationship. My dad is an ISTJ...|||Quoting myself from another thread but I guess it fits there too.|||My dad is an ISTJ (either 2w1 or 1w2 with a strong 8 fix, or an 8) and he is way more dominant and controling that any ENTJ father could ever be. Mother is an ENFP 8w7.|||You should take a look at the enneatype 4 sub-forum, we have plenty of similar threads that might help you.|||I don't think my love for precision prevents me to build an intuitive understanding of a foreign language while I am still learning. It's just that I won't be satisfied until my level in said...|||Since the forum is all broken, I came wondering on your land.  I have never dated an ENFJ but I am close friends with one. We get along just fine. He has a lot of insight, he is way more idealistic...|||No worries, I know you want to help me and I didn't think you were an always right smart-ass at all. I don't know if I seem angry or something, but this isn't the case and I didn't take your...|||I agree with this, and this is fine by me.    Is that really how ENTJs can be? Playing with people's feelings? I guess anyone can be an asshole but most ENTJs I've came accross seemed pretty much...|||This is interesting that you point this out because I didn't realize that other people would feel that way if I showed them how bad I felt for hurting them (even though I obviously wouldn't want to...|||myGTI We're both 22.    I wish I was a bit more like you because I am certainly unable to pursue someone I like, out of fear of rejection and being vulnerable. I am confident in most other areas...|||That's a great advice that I am keeping as well. Thank you MsBossyPants, you're a wise person and I often enjoy your posts.|||And here I realise how dense I am when it comes to figure out that a male is attracted to me. I pretty much expect them to friendzone me and thought he was only doing this as a joke. Is that the...|||This is eery because I was in this exact same situation, and I can totally relate to your state of mind. I don't think this person is worthy of your time. Look at how it is pissing you off. You're...|||Same here. I have tons of INTP friends and most of them are passionate about their chosen field and hobbies. Some of them have music as a passion, one of my best friends is a brilliant painter and...|||Now that you mention it.. :laughing:|||Rofl, I get this a lot but I am not asian at all. However, sometimes it makes me wonder if I do not have any asian ancestor. Could explain the resemblance. I have slightly slanted eyes according to...|||Holy shit. I didn't expect that. I slightly mentionned a guy I was attracted to during a conversation and he didn't say anything. I am feeling extremely bad if I hurt his feelings doing so. I guess...|||This hold some truth but that's absolutely not how you initially phrased it. My biggest crushes are immuable things, though. Let's not forget that I am a 4, and 4 are easily fascinated people....|||Broken link. :( I wanted to see you!    Then I guess you hit a chord of INTP girls. :D What I see in that staring is a warm emotion.|||Pics or gtfo. :cool:|||You look great! Dunno why I have always loved asian features so much.|||Am I proving your point solely because I disagree with you? As for a proof that I am not right or don't make sense about my claims, I have yet to see it.   This quote was the reason of my post....|||I have known this ENTJ 8w7 online for 3 years, I met him in real life once and he wants to see me again. He has been immediatly fond of me ever since we met, I have no idea why. I get a different...|||Dear ENTJ,  I know how dear I am to you and that it's the reason why you are constantly teasing me, but this is not always as fun as you think it is. I know that all you want is to impress me, but...|||I am telling you that I can relate to being obsessed with all sort of things and yet you're stuck in the narrow opinion you've built over INTPs for whatever reason.'