I am hoping that my innate characteristics that are making my twenties so difficult and painful, will come to the fore and make my life wonderful as I enter my thirties. I hope I and others find new...|||That movie always gets me. I see bits of myself in Amelie and I totally fall for girls with similar traits to her. Kind hearted, quirky, free-spirited, nice yet fiery when it comes to her values....|||Unrequited love version 3.0|||I am seeing someone I have a major crush on one-on-one for the first time tomorrow. I've known her for about 7 months now, started getting chatty the last couple of times I saw her. I've talked to...|||Holding in your feelings over someone for a long time is like holding in diarrhea. When it eventually comes out it's a giant shitstorm.|||http://i902.photobucket.com/albums/ac227/bryanningkho/Wall_zpscea25de5.jpg|||I too struggled with the idea of having to 'sell myself'. Most of the places I've gotten into have been purely due to results (uni) or people liking my work while temping through an work agency....|||I too struggled with the idea of having to 'sell myself'. Most of the places I've gotten into have been purely due to results (uni) or people liking my work while temping through an work agency....|||I usually communicate pretty well in written form, say over chat or messaging. The exception is when I fancy someone. Then my writing starts to become slightly muddled and I don't get across what I...|||To anyone who's ever shown support and compassion towards me on this forum, you have my sincere thanks. I may never have met you but the smallest things and even the simplest words mean so much to...|||I try to send signals, but more often than not I'll do nothing :blushed:. Well I'll do nothing til the point where I can't hold the feelings in anymore and I'll end up telling the person pretty...|||I don't want to be defined by my depression anymore. I don't want to be defined by an illness. I want to be defined by the person I really am, by what I love and by how I treat other people.|||** Character **  When someone has treated you poorly, there is a tendency for most people to reciprocate the poor treatment. I'm pretty sure I've been guilty of this at some point in time. This is...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yoEezZD71sc  Great commencement speech by Tim Minchin on life in general|||** Fuck you Depression **   While much more comfortable with the topic than in the past, I still really hate having to talk about depression. I hate it because it's not something people want to...|||I am totally crushing on an ENFP girl who works at my favourite quiet little bar. She's incredibly warm and just exudes some sort of ethereal beauty. Perhaps I'm idealising qualities about her, but I...|||Cutest thing ever? ENFP girl who comes up and sits next to me in my favourite quiet bar.   I think I only know two ENFPs and they are both just the warmest people in the world. They have some sort...|||81677|||Yam - I agree, it's the most accurate and poignant description I've come across so far. It's from a site called 'she runs from darkness'. I think the writer's name is Pearl.|||Depression is humiliating.   It turns intelligent, kind people into zombies who canx92t wash a dish or change their socks. It affects the ability to think clearly, to feel anything, to ascribe value...|||Funny I was just brooding over how much I hate mobs and I come across this post as the first thread that shows up on the perc homepage. I especially am sickened by nationalism and patriotism... the...|||When I see photos of people on this site, I often wonder how their voices sound... especially if I think a person is pretty :blushed:|||Tonight, I just feel like giving it all up. I know it'll pass, but I just wonder how did it become so hard to live a meaningful life? How did it become so hard to do what I want to do?|||Ok, I'll bite. Here's mine...  62514  See what I mean by babyface :blushed:. I'm going to be ID'd at venues until I am 50 y.o. I might have to pull it down in a few days because a little worried...|||Very pretty :) And you use the limited space of that closet so well... I have to learn from you. My stuff is crammed pretty randomly in a small apartment wardrobe :laughing:|||Totally agree with this one. I think it has something to do with introverted feeling being the Auxiliary. The couple of ENFPs that I know seem to have a substantial streak of shyness too.|||Which extroverted MBTI type do you generally think seems the most introverted?  Which introverted MBTI type do you generally think seems the most extroverted?|||I totally get this too! We don't have superbowl in Australia, but NYE is similar if you are in the right spot... it's one of my favourite times. And even though I'm not big on sports anymore, I still...|||Work has dried up all of a sudden and so has my revenue stream. This makes me a little bummed. It's like I spend all my time burnt out when I am working and all my time stressed when I don't have...|||That sounds great Eos_Machai. I wish that we had more open borders and less need to conform and comply to a standard, so that we could freely move around the world. Then I would definitely visit...|||Hmm... I graduated with an Education degree, but I'm way too idealistic to work in a school with my hands tied. So actually I work with kids still as a temp staff... sometimes in childcare and...|||I think eventually I'll probably end up with the same feelings that you have towards casual sex. I'd get over it. But yeah... at the moment I am too inexperienced and curious :blushed:|||I've moved four times in the past nine months and I can't find a lot of my stuff!|||Yes the environment I live in plays a huge part in determining my mood. And the general warmth of the household too as abstract as that may sound. I've been back at home for a month after coming back...|||Totally can relate to little things keeping my brain from getting in order! I wake up late and that ruins my motivation for wanting to do anything productive. My room is a mess and I feel like I...|||My mind is never empty. My mind is never still. It streams like a tap. It flows all over the place. It receives flows from all over the place, like tributaries feeding a river. Thinking and feeling...|||Male quiz show host about to ask the next question:  right... so I've got a hard one for you Katie|||Recently I really like to dance despite the fact that I probably look pretty retarded when I do. One time when I went out with my friends I was dancing like a maniac and it was really fun, though...|||Aww... I get that from time to time... except for the better looking thing lol (not that I have any problems with how I look though... but one 'bitchy' part of me does think I at least dress...|||I wonder if my first 'girlfriend' (if you can call her that) whom I had a weird/twisted on-off relationship with for 6 or so years was an INFP? I think she's definitely IxFP... just not sure about...|||haha, oh thanks. Sometimes I think I take things too literally. Like once my friend was joking about getting into a bar fight and everyone got the joke except for me:blushed: I was so worried that I...|||Hmm... so I finally decided to update my profile a bit and it turns out the default country of birth for me is 'black-private'. wtf?|||haha, you have the same sense of humour as my INTP friend.|||Ahh high school... it was so messy and disjointed for me... I missed out a lot of things then... on growing up. I think I am going through my real adolescence now! Meanwhile my friends are starting...|||congrats on motm @refugee!|||Geeezz. INFP women are seriously gorgeous. I don't have a photo on me but I'm 25 and apparently I have a baby face. It doesn't work for me... the only people I feel who glance at me are hmmm........|||Growing up with a single mother, I think I've been conditioned to feel guilty about wanting to pursue casual sex. I'd say that's changed for me only recently... say in the last 4 or so months. I...|||But I find cute girls gorgeous :tongue: Like the girl in your avatar is cute.... and feisty... dangerous holding that knife.:laughing:|||I'm picturing it now. Cute :tongue: I am pretty short too, especially for a guy lol|||I had a very long similar sort of relationship with a girl back in high school too. The same sort of things, texting, talking every night, flirty and all. But I was never acknowledged as her...