'Sorry for the mess but these are my favorite quotes. A few of them I actually could say I live by.   We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give.  The greatest weakness of...|||I'll give this a shot. Thanks for this, Just feeling really down and lonely, ( No pun intended from my name )|||Having some issues and feeling so wierd and incomplete and heartbroken over a choice I had made, Not sure how to deal with it and I could use some input. If you're willing to hear what I have to say...|||I took another test, I guess it updated to what I tested as after the 3rd or 4th time lol.|||I have an issue even opening up to my mother when I talked to her a while back. But how do you trust people so easily? My best friend of 15 years I trust him but not enough to open up to him. How did...|||I can agree with that, at the end of your statement We hide behind our intuition, finding truth in people before we reveal our true self. Do you really believe we can fully open up?|||I feel the same way. The part of not opening up is the hardest thing for me.. I can't even open up to my girlfriend of 1 year, I have so much things buried inside that I'm scared to tell people. I...|||I am a very closed off person, not sure if many of us INFJ are like this. I feel like I have a mask on all the time, hiding the real person underneath it. I seem to think people do not understand or...|||I seem to be struggling with the firstt part of your saying. My girlfriend seems to keep asking me to open up and let her see the real me, yet I can see right through her.Is it possible for us to be...|||Just a couple titles that I've read are more fiction, like James Patterson   The Woman's Murder club -all 11 Books so far! Very interesting, detail is what brings me in!  And my favorite book in...|||It's hard to pick what I want, my girlfriend and her family are amazing. I love everything about them... But I haven't had this feeling that I can't keep my eyes off this one lady at work. Like I...|||I love this work, only because I am a perfectionist. So every dish I send out has to look nice.. The job is ridiculously stressful. But I get paid decent which is why I stay. My girlfriend also works...|||I have been holding back everything, for about 2 weeks now? Somewhere in that timeframe it's all been hitting me.. I KNOW I can't tell her, she NEVER forgets anything, not even the most minute...|||I work at a Restaurant, I cook in the back, both Saute and Grill. It's ALWAYS BUSY. We did 14K in sales just at the dinner rush.. So it is stressful, Very stressful.. I just haven't had this go on...|||I can't tell my girlfriend only for the fact that I am unsure of how I feel, as odd as that sounds.. I've been with her for almost 9 months. She cried when she thought I was gonna break up with her,...|||So I've had a horrible day at work, haven't been sleeping much, consistently asking myself questions of all natures, What's going on?  I've been feeling somewhat empty, unsure, kind of emotional (...|||I mean this for you to take offense to it since you obviously have no idea what you're talking about. Cops are protectors and predators, it comes with the duties of the JOB they ENFORCE. Before you...|||Hey Mosh,   I tend to have some of the things you've mentioned in your post, putting others above myself ( I seem to do this ALL the time ) I don't see this as a bad thing honestly. As you had...|||Was typing very late at night, I fixed it. Sorry for the Mistake! I can't believe I didn't catch that myself.|||I'm currently with an INTJ and enjoying every minute of it!|||I'm here to hear everything you'd like to share. I'm glad you have an xNTJ in your life I feel that any INFJ should. It's what helps us relax and open up ( atleast from what I can gather from this...|||That's how I am already! I think long term, nothing is short term for me it's not worth it! I'm glad that it's working out for you I hope it's like that for me ( infact I seriously want it to end up...|||I was at the same point as the other person who stated the opening up factor. For me it was to have a deep conversation where we were both in deep thought and at that point we could open up to each...|||Well finally back onto here in my free time! Figured I'd give those of you who wanted and update ( if anyone cares anymore ) on how things went! Well for starters The meeting with her parents went...|||So I was browsing around and I stumbled across this thread: http://personalitycafe.com/intj-forum-scientists/27047-top-5-things-intj-women-prefer-men-other-women.html  I noticed that a lot of women...|||I choose to go out with her, we make the choice together which is nice. I connect with her on such a level most people can't understand, I enjoy the company and I love every moment of the time I...|||I had Crystal ( girl I'm dating ) take the personality test, she scored INTJ which to me was nice, but I don't understand why we both enjoy going out when we're both introverts.|||Extroversion |||| 16%  Orderliness |||||||||||||||||||| 90%  Emotional Stability |||||||||||||| 56%  Accommodation |||||||||||||||| 70%  Inquisitiveness |||||||||||||||| 64%|||I'm experiencing it in the recent few months. I've met someone who takes my breath away and the time I enjoy is so much more than I had ever had before.  Since this has happened I've seemed to...|||THIS IS EXACTLY what I was looking for! Thank you for the feedback.  I wouldn't consider myself clingy, But I REALLY enjoy her company. My best friend I live with I don't know his type YET, but he...|||We went on a walk around my neighborhood yesterday! Thank you for the feedback, what I'm really after here is something that's a common interest between both of us and I want to spice it up!|||I know how she feels about me, This post in general is meant to find out YOUR experiences and thing YOU'VE done. I want to know things that interest YOU as an INTJ. I don't know if you had read and...|||Hey guys hopefully I could get your attention from the little title up there. :p  I would love to hear some of your thoughts about INFJ's   Experiences/relationships - ( how they are/were ) ...|||The three most things I seem to get complimented on now a days are:  1. My humor ( ability to joke about anything even in a bad situation )  2. Writing *Poetical and Literary types*  3. My...|||NO! Her name is Crystal, scared me for a minute ;)  Hopefully she comes back to you, I could definitely see why you'd wait. She makes me feel like there's nothing else around me to worry about, and...|||Since some of you wanted an update on how my pursuit is going I figured I'd give you the latest on it!  Cooked her dinner last night, went very very well (she loved my cooking :) ) next big step is...|||I definitely will! It's been a long time since I've pursued someone, Hope this pans out for the best! I'm so beyond happy from tonight ahaha. :))))|||Thats how I feel! Like I can open up to her already and that's something RARE. I'm usually the rock I hear everyones problems/complaints.. She listens to me and understands everything, it's...|||It will go well, I meant tomorrow night, I don't know why I had put tonight lol. I think it will go well pending on what happened tonight :) Finally got a kiss after 5 weeks. :P|||I am working on it at the moment! We've spent quite a lot of time together in the past month or so. Since we're both introverts I would have thought we'd like our me time. But it seems for me I...|||All of those hit me about her. That's exactly the words to describe this girl, and a lot more.|||What are your thoughts on INTJ girls? Bad/good experiences/relationships? I'd like to hear about it. The girl I'm talking to is INTJ and not too sure what to make of it. I like everything about her,...|||I've been talking to this lady for about 3 weeks now and I'm still curious about her. Usually within about 3-4 days I've gathered everything there is (that I want to know of) about someone that I...|||I talk about this with a few people, but I feel everyone has a meaning, whether it's so love someone and be loved back or changing someones life with a talk. Some people were put here for a short...|||I'm content with being single as most of us seem to be as well. I only pursue people that interest me, which happens to be about maybe 2 or 3 people in the last 5 years. Hard for me to find someone...|||:P I judge myself for feeling like this. It's like I feel wrong about feeling the way I do but I cant seem to help it.|||Test complete! (restart)    40% ISFJ 13% INFJ 12% INTJ 10% ENFJ 8% ISTJ|||My little situation is along the lines of this, but not so simple to just open up at it at this point in time. ( before we jump to conclusions I am straight so it's not anything to do with that )|||I can totally agree with you on this, I'm afraid to take any leaps because everytime I do it's like I leap and fall straight down. I think only 1 person has seen me show my emotions and that's my...|||Bahaha, I got B- >:) I'm close but not as rare as you I suppose! I haven't seen any other 100% Introverts on here though :/'