'Hi... so I'm an INFP  I'm like so working towards changing my P to a J.. what do I need to do yo|||diet|||Around company that I start to get settled with my face becomes relaxed. When I step out of the house to get to somewhere, I have an instant lack of facial expression. It's better to have a more...|||Factors like environment and life events have a toll on how I think marijuana is to be consumed. I know hiphop-based artists consume it quite often and it blends in with their brand, therefore it's...|||You know her more than all of us, but.. is she emotionally unstable? If so, then look into it! I try to stir away from personality types as much as possible if I know mental health is involved.|||independence (which begins now)|||atamagasuita I know :( I realised this as soon as I had to take my own issues into account. The feeling of losing someone can be like a challenge because of how unreal everything seems. However,...|||This might require you to search deeper into how you are thinking. Also finding another counsellor who can really give you the insight you need (not saying be dependent on professionals, but they...|||Be in the moment and discover what it's like, to take all your burdens and feel no need to fight.  See it as it is and don't think ahead, and don't ever forget to embrace everything that's said....|||My friend has just shown all signs of someone who is unhealthy. The sudden switch from becoming this passive narcissistic, manipulative person who's (sub)consciously feeding themselves mentally and...|||I hope so to! I know therapy can really help in these situations, even for those who are potential victims. I think my friend is investing her time into therapy as well, but I'm not too sure.. the...|||I once photoshopped their face and showed it, and they liked it. That's about it.|||Unbiased (figures) but lean more towards Pro-Life: I feel like most situations when a baby can be delivered and then either adopted or actually taken care of then why abort? I also understand that...|||Sadly on point :(  It feels like a years worth of friendship and connection has just gone because of the state my friend is in. She continues to pull and push me and was never like this before....|||I give criticism on behaviours and skill sets which can come across as judging, however I only do it for professional and emotional reasons. However personally, I'm really open minded :)|||It's recently happened to myself but I've also done it before however mine was more about jealousy and envy that caused me to react awfully. However I'm too interested in finding out motives,...|||One of those situations where you have to just apply forward thinking: let's say he has confirmed his feelings for you but obviously not said it in words but through signs and shit (might be his...|||I always thought Fi and Ti were moral and value based but used different methods: rational (Ti) and irrational (Fi). What's so nice about INFP and ENTJ is how their dominant and inferior functions...|||I'll add you on Skype then! (no video chats lol)|||T's do care, they just prefer logical/rational motives.|||I'd also say me but choose atamagasuita|||Anyone can flirt! I think some INFPs (well myself anyway) tend to use humour and childish behaviour when mentioning innuendos. I've never found the normal flirting to be of much interest to me, but...|||I'm a Type 4 and I do have some biased views that I stick by but I am quite unbiased towards people's motives and reasons.|||When you see the good in everyone because having an opinion sucks.|||Quite understandable! That sense of independency is desirable and when you grow up around family and friends who have a certain way of living and their values don't fit with yours, you'll want to...|||She has a fear of trust and attachment. Probably from her childhood (father) and/or past relationship experiences. She idealises love and connection, and when she finds it in the practical she's...|||Dimmsdale|||Still believing there's hope with connections because of how vivid the past experiences were. Is it wrong?|||Do you only find it to be non-reciprocated according to your own values and beliefs? Of course if someone does not embrace you the way you want them to, then it's one sided. I just wonder if an on...|||Try investing your time into studying Mindset by Carol Dweck. An understanding of the dichotomy between a fixed and growth mindset :)|||Amen.   I feel a strange connection to someone when they are suffering, but it's not the suffering itself that makes me feel close. I think it's the raw, dry, helpless form they represent that...|||Beauty is a quality that I find has a sense of duality - passive and bold. We embrace beauty when things are vivid, yet we embrace beauty when things are cloudy. Its connotation is so mutual that its...|||I understand the feeling of alienation when receiving negative reception, it cocoons you into feeling you are not ready to embrace the world and that one day you will emerge as this unique, special...|||It plays its toll in bringing values into how I understand things, but when my Te needs to help me embrace more pragmatic concerns then that's a biggie.|||It would be very nice to see a world where everyone uses physical interactions and not rely on the internet to stimulate them. However, for some even having physical interactions is a form of...|||Sorry :D I feel that INFPs values based on their Fi come into play much more with how they express love, compared to INFJ who's values based on their Ti may not? I don't really know how the value...|||I think with the Fe and Fi comparison, Fe feels the need to make love and affection harmonious for its own sake? It's why I can imagine INFJ's to be good counsellors - helping those but not letting...|||Mihael Willman yes it can. Depending on if your values are self indulged then what you logically work out will only benefit your ways further. Te in way is like an auxiliary when you need...|||Something I'll always notice with INFPs, and is what makes me grateful with the way INFJs can control this, is how our empathy and compassion can sometimes deny a form of love which disturbs,...|||I can consider different factors that contribute to your cycle of negative memories, some that are more cognitive based. Here is a cheesy scenario of each function:  Fiona the Fi walks into a...|||omg read Wittgenstein’s Beetle analogy! Not so similar but it involves a box and relates to my topic!|||Self-realization can become distorted because you limit yourself to seeing the potential of certain adopted skills and potential skills to be adopted. Our Te is a function for a reason you know! It's...|||Bruce Lee's analogy of water is less poetic than Margaret's! It's perf for this thread, along with your description.   If we really want to express our unique and special ways then like I said in...|||Work within the system not with the system.  Be in the world not of the world.  ^^^ Good examples of uniqueness when used positively and progressively. We only make it depressing when it confirms...|||Uniquely unique.. I like that. I came from a point of trying to explain that sometimes our cognitive thinking causes us to label ourselves as totally different from other people, which can be true in...|||I get judgemental and judgement confused sometimes hehe - we make judgements to conclude certain situations, whereas we are judgemental when firing shots to attack or a poor attempt of self defence....|||arwen7  Lakigigar I must've not made my thread that clear (or I did but people skim read it) :D  I like your passion btw  Lakigigar because I am also like that when I see such injustice and the...|||ENTJ INFJ ENFP  INFP   The first always stays at the top because of the logical/emotional dynamics that go on! They rest are all of an importance but if events take place then it's hard to...|||We tend to judge badly based on what we don't know, what we haven't experienced or what we have been taught. There needs to be a balance! Too much listening would mean you become a listener (duh)...|||It's like a defence mechanism that we are or aren't aware of - no harm in protecting yourself but there's a difference between that and shutting out. I also like to read up on Enneagrams when it...'