'My birthday is on the 3rd of July.   Sun sign Cancer, Moon sign Capricorn and Rising sign Leo|||Early 90's :D|||Thank you for your response! :)   The other alternative was ESFP, and well, I don't really see him being one.|||I'm having a hard time defining my bf's type, he fits well the description of ESFJ but the thing that bugs me is that ESFJS are often described as organized people, and well, my bf isn't really what...|||What makes you guys fully fulfilled and happy in a relationship? What do you expect from your significant other?|||Sorry, I tend to take anything personally and blow up immediately (damn 468).   When I'm sober, if I meet someone I really like and can consider a relationship with, I'll take my time, make sure...|||What is your MBTI type? INFJ  What would you consider your deepest rooted fear? Growing old, failing at something important for me, being abandoned, not being true to myself, being humiliated,...|||It is true for me too. I have a very good clear-sightedness concerning others, I generally give good advice, but when it's for myself... That's an other story!   I'll definitely start a journal. I...|||Yes, I suspect that stress is at the origin of my problem. But the weird thing is, I've got no reason to be stressed right now. Maybe it is some kind of social anxiety? I'm gonna have to look more in...|||Thank you! Her and the Trishas are the best ;)    Wow, judgemental much? Did I even define in which amount of time? No, because that's not the point of this thread. I am a single woman, who...|||That make sense. With some people, I'm totally blocked, I have nothing to say when we are all together, so I become nervous and I drink more. But I share a lot with my friends, the same things I'll...|||It is one of my most important issues lately. I can be super quiet at times, but when I start talking... It's VERY embarassing, it's like I can't control it.  When I'm drunk, I can't stop talking,...|||Yep, here too! :)   I grew up in Paris, so I've seen it multiple times but I've visited it only once when I was little.  When the weather allows it, sometimes my friends and I have a picnic on the...|||It is a beautiful city indeed! And it's raining at the moment ;)|||I am currently in Paris at my parents', it's 27°C and with the pollution it feels even hotter. But I can't complain, it rained so much where I live these past few weeks.|||For a girl, Samsara, Sophia or Frances. For a boy, I like Seamus.|||Well, I don't relate very much to the description of ISFP, only for the artistic part and the interest for aestethics.   Then, I got pretty odd results, especially the 8w7. If I must be an 8, it...|||Type 1   Perfectionism||||||||||||50% Type 2Helpfulness||10% Type 3Image Focus||||||||||||||||62% Type 4Individualism||||||||||||||||||||86% Type 5Intellectualism||||||||||||46%...|||I'll check it out. Thanks for lightening me :)  The fears though... Hard to identify with only 3.|||Well, 468 is my tritype. That I'm sure too.  My trifix is 4w5 5w4 9w1, according to the Comprehensive Enneagram Quiz. Don't know what it worth though, I've never found an other test who determine...|||First test:  Id 60% Ego 47% Super-Ego 30%  2nd test:  Your brain is sliced... 39ID , 27 Ego , 24 Superego|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cH_rfGBwamc  Stuck for quite a long time now, since I continue to listen to it almost daily.|||1. Before you came to this site - Were you happy with your life? Did you think you were happy, but on reflection, probably weren't? Where would you be now if you hadn't discovered MBTI?  Well,...|||I think it is because the person doesn't know. But I'm not a 100% sure.   And I'd say xNTPs, I guess, as NTPS would seem weird.|||Hm, I feel you on this one. But you might scare the guy away by asking directly, maybe try some hints?   Us INFJs, and 4s as well, we like to feel that things come naturally. That's why we don't...|||Welcome to you too! :)   Yeah, sometimes I think Gosh, I'm too weird for a relationship.  Maybe because I didn't fell in love with types who could understand me correctly yet, but most of the...|||You're welcome! I don't have the chance to have any INFJ around me in the real life so it's always refreshing to talk to people who actually feel the same as I do :)  Haha I couldn't stay in a...|||Welcome :)    I'm exactly at the same point in my life as you. Working on my things. I love it. And as they say, do what makes you happy, and the right one will come along or something like that....|||It is a type of the Enneagram. There are 9. You should check it out, it is really revealing.|||When you notice each freaking detail/particularity about people and are, consequently, seen as a psycho :)|||Haha AMEN sister!   Concerning the INFJ/type 4 guy, as it has been said many times already, I think you should only go for the dinner first and then see what happen. If he has a good time, he might...|||I've lived in a big city all my life and I just moved out this year to a smaller city. It's less stressing, there are less people in the streets, it is relaxing for someone like me who hates crowds....|||I can relate to this quote. Literally, it put words on my thoughts.   Although, by loving humanity, I'd say that I love the virtue/feeling of humanity more than the concrete idea of the mankind....|||Idiocracy. Kind of prophetic in my opinion.|||I agree. Wait till college. Even if the potential damages on teenagers haven't been scientifically proven, they are scary enough. And from my experience, they can be real for some people.|||Yep, totally normal if you smoke pot. I started early too, but I don't smoke regulary anymore and I must say that the loss of memory only happen when I smoke again. So don't worry, you will recover,...|||Yep, same here. I remember when I was a child I prayed for 'being sent back to my planet', I think that speaks volumes.|||Reading your post just broke my heart. I know what you feel, I've been there too, mostly for the family situation, the never enough thing. Your mom, wow, she seems just like mine. With the mean...|||This is all the complexity of us INFJs. I can't really help you, as I haven't reached the point where I'm able to ignore criticism yet, but I'd say that you have to believe in your talent, and the...|||Personal ~  * Name - What do you preferred to be called? My name is Alice, I don't really have a nickname, since Alice is already a short name. I've chosen the username Beatrix Kiddo, as in...'