'Two problems:  -pasting text or inserting an emoticon when editing a private message causes the textbox to automatically scroll to the bottom, which is really annoying in long messages. (I think...|||It also provides a higher quality of interaction to those who lack suitably interesting acquaintances/friends.    Tell me about it. :dry:  Just the other week my best friend randomly blew up...|||Who we comfort and nurse back to health?  (I think my Fi is showing...)|||I think you might be conflating whipping and abuse. Bondage (which you included above) and whipping can both be used for abuse or romance/sexual activity. The connection to romance is harder to see,...|||Fi thread is that-a-way.|||a) if only b) the irony of this sentence made me cringe|||So what you're saying is that it's easier (and more obvious to the ENFPs) if we wear skirts and dresses. I must try this sometime...|||Last week: Whether or not you deserve something is entirely under your control. (explanation)|||It's rather enjoyable, though not at all worth my time unless there's a strong emotional connection with my partner.     Speaking personally, very much so. Speaking objectively, IIRC it was an...|||As are you. :proud:|||I do, but reminders are always appreciated. :proud::cool:|||[deleted]   .|||Maybe you should just go with a chicken squawking, that way it'll look like some kind of running gag. :tongue:    No. He was a musician, so that makes you a groupie. :tongue:|||Here's the main difference between INTJs and ENTJs: the tertiary function. I think the tertiary function is the most significant here because we both possess Ni and Te in high levels, but the...|||Thanks for the recommendations, I'd heard some good things about Lamy. One question though: why is it that no-one makes fountain pens with retractable nibs? It's significantly faster than removing a...|||I was meaning to try one once, but it was a real pain to find a cheap one* in my area, and I never got around to buying one online. I currently use gel ink pens since they're so much smoother than...|||I have one ENXP friend who uses the Phantom of the Opera.  Also, the other day in a lecture I heard someone whose SMS notification is the sound of a Tardis. Mine is an instrumental version of a...|||It's the visual part. Can you visualize more than 3 dimensions? I certainly can't. The inference drawn from that is that if you have to visualise Ni, then you're limited to 3D.    16-bit audio...|||What kind of ringtones do you guys have? Also, what's the most interesting/memorable ringtone you've heard?|||People probably didn't believe this thread could exist here before we created it. Nothing is certain - you might as well try.|||Agreed.   I think this is why we may be unable to agree. I don't believe a universal truth exists - it seems inherently subjective. If there is a universal truth, it can exist only by being the...|||Then I suggest you get a fake driver's license. :tongue:|||What you were saying visual Ni. (Though I may have misinterpreted the idiom.) To expand, the idea of visual Ni means Ni is limited to forms which can be visualised. i.e. 3D. Since Ni is abstract,...|||I disagree with the definition provided. The OP's video stated that a bigot was someone who only got their information from critiques of the position. A critique is defined as a detailed analysis...|||Ni doesn't lend itself to visual representations very well. He seemed to max out on Ni, Ne, Si and Se (correct me if I'm wrong), so relying on the thinking and feeling functions, coupled with his...|||Anything of interest to me, anything intellectual but accessible (you're probably going to lose me if you start talking about history), and anything about ideas or systems.  It depends a lot on the...|||aawwww..! this is why i love intjs![/QUOTE]  Only an INFP would say this.|||I'm afraid I have bad news for you. ENFPs never grow up - they just grow slightly larger and gain driver's licenses.|||There are more important things than efficiency. Once your close enough with an INTJ, you'll often be allowed spontaneous hugs. But try any of those without the prep work and you're answer will be...|||In hindsight, it's the wrong approach. The aim shouldn't be to find the best candidate, but rather the candidate that meets your requirements. I think most INTJs would turn down the best if they...|||...are you expecting us to read your mind? Or perhaps not respect your wishes? I'm sorry, but this just seems contradictory.|||So what does your Fi sound like?   There isn't much that can be done if you are in different places. Still, I can't help but feel sorry for you - maybe I'm naive, but finding someone who you're...|||As I said, it depends a lot on the teachers. Some are decent people interested in education, others are petty people interested in power and a paycheck.|||Funnily enough, it's my Te that says this. My Fi is all I don't wanna and can only be placated  if I let it play for a bit.|||It depends a lot on the teachers. I've had similar experiences, and I think a lot of them were just happy to have someone interested in learning. People become teachers in order to teach, after all,...|||I don't do it as often as I'd like, but it works really well for me. My concentration improves significantly and my mind becomes much clearer. It does make me more introverted though, so my thoughts...|||I'm the same - I have a real soft spot for girls that are sweet, kind, gentle, friendly/sincere, or anything like that. There's just this sudden empathetic link that makes me do what I can to make...|||You do. That's why I'm working on a plan to harvest ENFPs and put them in a massive juicer. That way, I can enjoy freshly squeezed ENFP juice every morning.    Spoken like someone who has never...|||Things my Fi has told me: -Kill him! Just hurry up and kill him already! -You're being unrealistic. There's no way you're going to achieve that. -I hate you.  It's a good thing I don't listen to...|||It was sincere, and involved a level of analysis. Most of the compliments I get are superficial, which is disappointing. Taking the time to fully understand what I'm saying (or to understand me) is a...|||Consider how much money the average professional athlete earns. Now consider how much money the average robotics engineer earns. You'd also have the added advantage of driving interest in the STEM...|||If that's the response you're looking for, nudity might be more effective. A compliment is likely to get you a confused 'thanks', or a smile at best.|||And once you'd gotten the mail, you slipped them off, never to venture outside again (that day).   It's the corollary of Rule 34 - if you can think of it, there's a site dedicated to it.|||link|||From an INTJ's perspective: tell us about that time you tied your shoes|||There is nothing wrong with the planet. The people are fucked. - George Carlin George Carlin - Saving the Planet - YouTube  Human sacrifice. I miss that. - George Carlin|||I think a lot of us are just really sensitive to it, as well as valuing personal space. I'm always really aware of it when someone's touching me - it's like there's a siren going off in my head. As a...|||I kept waiting for the violin-backing to evolve into something more complex, but it never did. :( If it had something with a (neo)classical basis it would have felt way more powerful... Though I...|||Big breasted females need hugs too. :P    Depends on the hugger. And the huggee.|||Amusingly, I used to frequent that one before I came here. They seem a lot more imbalanced than the PC INTJs - I think the presence of other types has a positive effect on us. (Plus there are way...'