'I have only fallen in love once.  I married her and even after we divorced 7 years ago, no matter how much I try to stop loving her, I still love her as much as I did when I married her.|||Well you may have met one of us. We're not these wild, gonzo people all the time. If I see someone sitting off on their own, I'll go socialize with them just so they don't feel left out. I can see...|||I would just like to interject that for some extroverts, like myself, it's not always roses. I do enjoy entertaining and just being myself...I find making people laugh to be a great joy.  But, there...|||Here is my porn that I LOVE when I'm already feeling upbeat and this takes it even higher:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=13mYOXESv18|||As I said in another post...I am anything that I want to be.  If I set my mind to learning something I can and WILL learn to do it very well.  I think the TV show The Pretender was about an ENFP|||I went to therapy right after I was divorced.  It really helped me to see the pitfalls of how I look at the world and how to avoid them.  I left still with issues, but then I knew how to deal with...|||The very premise of this excerpt is a fallacious argument. He asserts that any genetic modification is negative and can only lead to the decrease of intelligence.  If this was true and genetic change...|||Physiology =/= genetics.  I believe you're the one that has a very limited understanding of what biology is.  It has nothing to do with how the mother feels...though it has been shown that increased...|||Wow, what the hell is this thread?  The place for INTJs to NOT do their research and spout meaningless garbage?  There are PHYSIOLOGICAL differences between gay and non-gay people, there are some...|||Yup, it's like having a child that when it turns twenty and comes back home tells you, Geez Dad/Mom, you're fucked|||I was being a WEEEEEEE bit sarcastic :P  But yeah, God created us and we caught him by surprise and made Him change...only fair, dontcha think?|||And the truly funky part...God evolved WITH his creation :kitteh:|||Wow, just uhm wow.  I've seen worse trolls out of ENFPs...this is a conjectural statement with poor facts, invalid data, suppositions and circular arguments.  I truly find it hard to believe that...|||I've had my many and varied arguments with God but I find he's always there for me. When I don't find him or I feel disconnected from him, it's usually because I've done something that I feel guilty...|||Yeah, I know these feelings very well.  I can pretty much guarantee that you feel you were betrayed by someone that you opened your ACTUAL inner gooey emotional bits to.  Cause this is how I felt for...|||As I said, if you don't believe in equivalent exchange in a relationship then you should rethink that relationship. It's not a boost my self esteem for sex thing, it's a we both have personality...|||I know INTJs do not operate in the same way.  However, that being said, any relationship involves both give and take. Usually, each person has to change to adapt to the other person and if you do not...|||I am SOOOOOOOOOOOO stealing that for my signature! I LOVE IT!|||Well I just figured that a movie about your mind being completely taken over and subjugated might actually be a horribly terrifying thing for an INTJ :kitteh:|||Cetanu, I would say you're looking at it wrong. We do not enjoy vulnerability. When we talk about emotional unavailabilty it usually means the following:  1) We know you have emotions, we know...|||To be honest I would't blame him.  In my relationships I only accept physical contact when I'm 100% sure it's what my partner wants. If you're doing it simply to please me but you don't feel like...|||Interesting.  It goes to show how varied and subjective horror is. I found the movie only mildly entertaining and not horror based at all.  I actually find it difficult to find a good horror film,...|||I understand what you mean @Whippit but the belief in the truth has become one of my core values.  I'm in sales and I have been relegated to governmental sales where all of my sales are based on...|||I agree.  This kind of crap needs to be stopped.  There is absolutely zero place for this behaviour in ANY society.  I hereby post the following and agree 100% with it's message:  76734|||I love a good horror movie, that being said...the ONLY good horror film I have seen lately is Drag Me To Hell.  I especially love Harry's review of it at:  Harry begs, &#39;DRAG ME TO HELL again Mr...|||I must acknowledge where things are as part of the data set to try and find a way to change things to being more suitable. Now...my problem is I'm friggin GREAT at coming up with master plan...|||I learned that I'm not awkward in social situations when I learned to just be myself and not try and be what everyone expects of me. I don't care what they think anymore and I'm just happy and free...|||Good evil INTJ!  ty for validating my entire existence..now I shall go out and bestow the world with flowers, candy and rainbows!  All of which incidentally shoot out of my arse!|||The truth is outside of the halls of science at universities (and even some of them are suspect) there is very little understanding of science.  I swear the next time I hear someone say It's just...|||Awww, I feels left out of the thanks...now I must go cry in my corner :P|||I've read his book and the strategies are such that it would work on quite a broad range of personality types. And since a lot of what he does is designed to bypass logical thought and go straight...|||He may have problems, but unfortunately for women, his methods are actually quite effective from a psychological point of view.  I put this in this thread mainly to show the women here what they are...|||Part of it is the dating culture...just check out:  Roosh V  And just so you know I DO NOT advocate this kind of stuff.  I'm an ENFP and very good at reading emotions and if I wanted to I could...|||Actually I rely on my intuition quite a bit to make illogical leaps and get at information that I didn't know was there. It has rarely failed me and through reading here at PerC, I'm beginning to...|||Yeah, even I see the logical fallacies in the show and to be honest, I became emotionally detached when they killed his wife and now cannot stand the series.  I do inner monologue a lot differently...|||I wish I could of have known about emotional unavailability in my relationship with my INTJ.  I accused her of having a low libido and offering to get her help for that.  As you can imagine, that...|||Well it depends if you're talking relationship quality time or self quality time.  Hell, I LOVE a good book for quality time for myself (yes...I'm an ENFP that reads books <gasp>)|||Well I'm actually starting to feel finding this website was the catharsis for getting me out of my corner. It wasn't just the relationship but living in a society (Malta) where the societal norm is...|||I ask because I'm going to try and connect some logical points that we NFs kinda do naturally.  When you have had a pet, have you scratched the pet behind the ears or something similar, not because...|||And one last thing evilarchitect, I may currently be arguing from an NF's point of view currently but I'd like to help you with this entire situation and that involves not only assessing things from...|||I never suck.  I may lick and nibble...but sucking never...|||Sorry about that Sam...it seems indeed that the response has become excessive to a comment designed solely to facilitate insight into my point.  :dry:  My only reply to it was meant as a joke and...|||You can try swimming at the Great Barrier Reef with steaks strapped to your feet, at the least you should be able to manage bursts of swimming to match Olympic caliber.|||Feeling unappreciated is a big one for us.  Let me see if I can put it into a context that can be understood.  Do you now or have you ever had a pet?  Well bed time for me, I'll see your answer...|||The debilitation doesn't make you unique, YOU make you unique.  I know with Asperger's that the defining traits are predominately mental/emotional but that still doesn't define YOU.  Let me give...|||Hello, kinda new here but I'm an ENFP, little different than your INFJ..but I had a 6 year marriage with someone that I really feel was an INTJ.  When we Feelers get into relationships with...|||Which is probably where your fear comes from that keeps you from indulging in your extroversion. If you were an ENFP I would advise you to simply use your disability as a tool for furtherance of...|||How do you leave the building when the building is built of everything you value? Just in deciding to try and find another relationship I've already abandoned a large number of beliefs that I hold...|||Try again using super glue in the gripping hand? :wink:|||Thanks Leif, I stole...I mean borrowed...it from a friend of mine many years ago and have made it mine! :P  Sometimes I end up just staring at it and getting lost in thought.'