'Thank you! I look forward to connecting with others on the forum. It seems like many of the names have changed!|||I've learned to cultivate & appreciate my strengths and to acknowledge & work on my weaknesses. 4 years now. MBTI has essentially shaped my confidence and given me a great appreciation for myself and...|||Your Fi may need a bit more nurturing... but empathy is, imo at least, a key personality trait of any NF really. I have never met an NF that didn't have intense empathy.   Fi can sometimes bring...|||I'm going to marry my INFJ gf :wink: we are the same kind of crazy and compliment each other very well in that sense. It's electric!|||This forum saved my life years ago (late 2010/early 2011 to be exact). I found it at one of the lowest points in my life where I considered options that I most certainly can not relate to, but will...|||Thanks|||Yes, tense is ... not even the right word for me. Lol. I was at the airport last week and the girl sitting next to me while waiting for boarding and said... are you okay? she said I was fidgeting...|||Anything that corners me - that could be someone telling me I shouldn't feel a certain way. I will always stand up and defend myself.|||I'm 6 months into a relationship with a beautiful girl - who so happens to be an INFJ as well! Our passion and love is amazing together - it's ecstasy when we're together.   We tend to have a lot...|||Happy 420 all - if you are a recreational user that is! I smoked weed everyday for 2 years up til 6 months ago - best decision I ever made to quit!|||I did that with an INFJ girl. It paid off, but I have resentment from it and so maybe its not paying off after all.|||Being who I am is the best thing that's ever hapnd to me. In fact, I think it only gets better as we get older.|||The MBTI is a frame of reference for me - it's proven to be accurate in every turn of my life so far as i've tested it in real life application.|||I know she means well and does not have evil intentions, part of is my fault for putting up with a lot of it. I still continue to put up with a good bit I guess - but it's because I know she doesn't...|||Yeah - I know logically you are right but it's so hard to do that emotionally. It's so hard to just shatter the possibilities. I'm terrified of the regret.|||Well I always told her on the spot that if that's the case, then break up with me. And she would apologize profusely and say she doesn't mean it like that all.   So yeah anything is possible. It's...|||Anything is possible.   What I told her is she can lead him on... but it will not make him feel better long term, maybe temporary then she make his recovery getting over him that much harder....|||That's just the first bit of it. Some fucked up shit has been said to me. 2 months in she was still talking about being completely in love with her ex. She also told me 2 months in that the ring she...|||22.   I will do my best to be there, but I said above that I'm also going thru a really hard time in my life as of 2 months ago so it's just weighing a lot more deeply on me now. I mean, my life...|||She says he has no friends at all and his parents won't do anything about the drug problem, nor his sister - so she feels it's her job to step in only.   It is hard. I'm trying to be as selfless as...|||Fair enough. She has more people in her life than I have in mine oddly enough, I am much more selective in who I let in.   She used to say fucked up things to me like - if I could move back to his...|||I've been in a relationship for 4 months at this point with an INFJ. I've known her for years prior and we share a lot in common so align on more than one front - culture, values, ideas, interest,...|||Can relate to this entirely!|||Edit: realized my friend is ISFJ not ISFP so the comments are not relevant|||Well I landed myself in a relationship randomly (when I stopped looking - GO FIGURE!) because it felt right and the girl is amazing (INFJ) - it's been only a few months and things have been going...|||My current girlfriend is an INFJ - she's fucking awesome, everything I've ever wanted. She's going thru a hard period in her life but she's worth sticking there for... her negativity does hurt me...|||Well... I will at times (rarely) be extremely hyper focused on someone and work towards helping them improve themselves. I have matured since then and taken a bit of a step back in terms of intense...|||Was addicted to marijuana for 2 years - I smoked anywhere from 1-20 times a day, usually 5-6 lol. I quit (permanently imo) and have not touched it in 3 months now. Amazing to be back to who I am...|||Fair enough - well considering the population is generally full of more uneducated persons more than properly educated persons - there is likely many ENFPs out there who have not developed to their...|||Fair enough :) to each their own! It is a much cooler story your way :P haha. Online dating ended up not having any success for me - but I did meet a heck of a lot of cool girls which is nice.|||1. Does intellect attract you?  Yes  2. Do you care if your mate is smart? Have you ever dated down intellectually?  It's a requirement. I have never dated down, I need someone who can keep up...|||Well, I thought the purpose of online dating is for it to lead in to an actual date? For example, I met a girl on an online dating (ENTJ) and she was great, we talked online for 2 weeks - then of...|||This thread needs to be stickied - this is the true ENFP, not the damn stereotypical profiles. It's getting annoying now.|||One thing - I question the possibility of few hundred million ENFPs because of there were truly a few hundred million real ENFPs (not all the fake tested ones) then the world would be a much...|||Never been much of a cigarette smoker, I don't even see how it's addicting at all. I've probably had 100 cigarettes+ spread over the past 5 years and only randomly - never really bought any before or...|||ENTPs ENFPs - both are the coolest folk to walk the planet.|||I'd be open to it. I don't live on the east coast but it would be cool to meet other ENFPs so I'd be happy to make the flight.|||Congrats! The first ENFP girl I met was a few months ago and we had electric conversations. We bounced all over the place, it was truly... insane lol. I figured we weren't a good match though because...|||Your Cognitive Functions: Extroverted Intuition (Ne) ||||||||||||||||||||||||||| 12.69 Introverted Feeling (Fi) ||||||||||||||||||||||||| 11.94 Extroverted Feeling (Fe)    |||||||||||||||||||||||...|||That reminds me of the way my parents described me as a baby. I also didn't have a permanent grin, I tended to cry a lot I was told. And super, super moody and sensitive.|||Personally, I think that's not a good route to take. I think ENFPs can make amazing lawyers - in fact I was going to be one and I had many many lawyers recognize that passion in me. One of the career...|||Viva: 4w3 7w6 8w9 so/sx Ace Face: 7w8, 8w7, 3w2 cue5c: 3w2 so/sp The King of Dreams: 9w1 7w6 2w1 so/sx Alysaria: 7w6, 2w3, 9w8 sx/so MusicBird: 7w6, 9w8, 4w3 Eerie: 7w8-1w2-4w3 sx/sp Finaille:...|||Accounting for inflation, not much has changed:  What cost $.10 in 1962 would cost $0.71 in 2010.    Essentially, 71 cents today is the equivalent of 10 cents in 1962.   :happy:|||Oooh... this is going to be fun!!   For the record, I questioned my type and studied the functions in details and I'm an ENFP confirmed.  Also, the point is to discover yourself and if you are...|||My mentor of 5 years was an ENFJ - Fe vs Fi clash was more common as he would point out I made everything about me, me, me   I'm dating an INFJ girl and it's amazing, when we do clash its Fe vs Fi...|||Everyone has a plan in that sense, this is more about possibilities.... looking at a situation and realizing the potential hundreds of different outcomes. It goes much deeper.   If someone asked me...|||I think those test are inaccurate, as I've started working closely w/ people I know on typing them, I am finding out a large # of them are being mistyped.   One of my friends received ENTJ. He took...|||For the record, I don't think that most of those test are too accurate - well they are only as accurate as truthful as you are with yourself and everyone tends to project what they'd wish to be more...|||I've been here everyday! I'm not as active in posting anymore as I'm a bit fed up with the mistypes here. I have been talking to many via PM :) including OriginalChris. Send me a PM and let's catch...|||She knows her stuff! Listen to her :)'