'Well, we're *reeeeeeeeeeeeeeealy* similar.  Often, the only person who gets my ENFP humor is my INFP friend.  And we can talk forEVER about anything.  But where I see the difference is in the little...|||As an ENFP, Ne is my life, so I can't tell you how to exercise it but I can tell you what ot looks like in action.   Ne listens in on a conversation and jumps to conclusions based on patterns that...|||I'm glad that my comment made sense to you...  Based on my two INFP friends, who I have watched crash and burn at times, it sounds like you are trying to use your T - but does it actually clarify...|||And while doing that, you need to put one hand over your mouth and say:   Red Squadron to Squadron Leader, target acquired.  Initiating launch sequence upon your mark... :ninja:    Heh.:cool:|||Oh, do I know from Ne!  My whole life is Oo - shiney! - but I stick myself in the WORST jobs (secretary, working for the federal government, then grantwriter... ugh!!!!)    While you are...|||I find that it is easier when I understand the point of the form, or know who it is going to.  That allows me some comfort with the tediousness of it all. I also try and do no more than 3 forms at a...|||Hoping I got this right, and much thanks to All in Twilight.  This makes the data much easier to use, and I know it must be frustrating to do this, having herded cats myself more than once.  :wink: ...|||Sorry- it came from a book a friend was telling me about.  It was some funky business thing that was trying to help people create a life plan using a business plan format.  Anyway, he said that this...|||WORD.   I just did a find your purpose exercise where you list 10 times in your life where you felt alive and fully engaged, and that will show your purpose in life.   All ten are radically...|||This thread passed awkward light years ago...  ...and that's why I love PerC.  :laughing:     63029|||Me + volume - any hint of shyness.  Last bender was a conference in New Orleans. First night, after a double vodka straight, I spent most of the night laughing and telling people my brain was numb....|||hornet  Thank you.  With all of my heart.  You are absolutely spot on, this is where I am right now, who I am right now.  I will meditate on what you've told me and use that wisdom well...|||Well, most people don't know their MBTI, but there must be some aspect of all these people that you find particularly attractive.  My guess is that it is the ENFP gregariousness that often tends to...|||As an ENFP who was married to an INTP, I would say it is a difficult relationship pairing. We had several sources of conflict because we both were very strong in our preferences. But the biggest...|||... be willing to totally ignore 'reality'.  I would love...|||And glitter.  Don't forget the glitter.    One day, I'm gonna bring the glitter to my all-male office and just watch them freak out.  No, wait, *PINK* glitter.  Yeaaaaaaah.  :ninja:|||I used to say that college was... but I can't anymore.  Because I am dedicating myself to making NOW the best time of my life.  And the same tomorrow, and the day after and the day after and so on.  ...|||I don't walk barefoot outside, but the minute I'm in the house - BAM!    I have a total love/hate relationship with shoes.  I love them, but I always whip them off when I'm sitting for a bit, and I...|||Daydreams all the time... check Constantly changing emotional state... check Difficulty in regulated environment... check Need for adventures... check  Sounds like ENFP syndrome to me.  ;)  My...|||Lol... funny enough I pretty much only wear pants, because I look better in them than in a skirt (I'm a touch on the fat side, and dresses/skirts make me feel like a frickin' Sherman tank!). However,...|||hornet...  I just want to thank you for being kind enough to do this.  It is very sweet of you to offer your services up like that, especially considering the emotional energy it takes to do a...|||Ooooooooo... **HUGS!!!**  *squeals with joy and SQUEEEEZES*   Hullo!  Welcome, greetings and salutations!  So glad you could join us, and I hope you have tons o' fun here.  It's always grand to...|||I deeply love the two INFPs in my life. They are a source of support and wisdom I so greatly need. I just hope that I can support and entertain them in return.  (After all that's what we...|||*waves frantically*  HI!!!  Glad to see another ENFP, and I'm looking forward to seeing you on the various threads.  Sorry to hear that you are now single. Been there, still single, but that...|||Have you ever noticed....  Loves ya, sweetie!  DUDE!!!!!  I did not say that. Seriously, I would never... oh... wait... ummm...  oops.  When did you tell me that? Really??|||I'm glad I'm so memorable, LOL.   (I'm sure, as in 'look at that loon over there...)    And I think everyone has the potential to be an asshole. (I know I sure do!)  I'm just particularly blessed...|||SQUEEEEE!!    Thank you AyaSullivan and HorrorHound!  I love all of these songs, especially Decepticon!  It's like a love child between Devo and the B52's - my life soundtrack bands!!   No, wait......|||Ok, so I go to New Orleans with my co-workers for a conference.  My boss decides that it is *VERY* important that we all have a good time and proceeds to insist we go out to the karaoke bar where the...|||When this is the logical, obvious response.  And reading it makes you giggle. Out loud. In public.    Also, just wondering: Are ENFPs the type that uses :kitteh:, :crazy:, :tongue: and :cool: the...|||Well, I haven't met any, but I like pretties, and I love men, so...     *sigh*     (And a coat!  You included a coat!!!)   But come to think of it, aren't most men actually glorious?  Or...|||Epic snap.  Hella snap.  Get out of my way or I will cut your heart out with a spoon because it's dull you twit and it will hurt more snap.    Unless the SJs get the joke in the last one and we...|||Oh my stars and garters... I'm sorry to be so late in responding!  I've been having an intense interaction with Real Life, and have been unable to get back to my much preferred Intarwebz...    I...|||Or, better yet... show me something I don't know about myself without me even asking.  This freaks me when my INFP buddies do it, but when my ESTJ coworker does this, I'm ready to hide under my...|||Assign a complicated, boring task to be completed in a silent room with no windows or other people and demand that the task be completed on a hard deadline according to very specific and arcane...|||I've never had a need to have children, and any time I get the baby urge, a trip to McDonald's takes care of it. My ex didn't want kids either, and he would have been a worse father than husband,...|||I avoid all the media shills and abort the entire 24-hour news cycle. I lean to Libertarian views, so I ignore most alternative sources as well. I figure what is most important is what I can directly...|||Many artists have fabulous careers without being more than a one-hit-wonder in the US.  I hope he does what makes him happy and doesn't chase after the US market just because he thinks he should.|||Isn't it amazing how that namey-thing is so important to people and they just zip by so fast...  and I'm just like Yeah, fine, whatever - let's get back to that really cool idea we were just talking...|||OOOOPS - forgot to squee about the video:   LOVE IT!!!!!!!!    It's all Gin, all day at work today, I'm tellin' ya.  :laughing:|||Hmmm, I wonder if the inability to remember names on first hearing is an ENFP thing, or just a 'Me, too!'.  I usually end up calling everyone 'darling' or 'sweetie' to compensate.  (Oh, the things...|||OH...   wow, I am so...   can I hug you??    *feels so honored and touched*   (INTJ sister says Yeah, touched in the head in the background...)    Thank you for putting more rainbow-colored...|||I love watching people doing silly things without feeling all self-conscious about it.  There is a famous story in the Bible about King David acting like a dancing fool as an act of worship.  I...|||Oh dear.   Everyone has been posting such pretty music... and I want to introduce you to my newest girlcrush, Gin Wigmore.  She does some pretty songs, but the songs I love are more... energetic. ...|||*Drags Lachesis out of hiding*    AWWWWWWW....   you so wonderful!!   *SMOOCHES and HUGS!*  *bounces and claps hands and sprinkles rainbow glitter in happiness once Lachesis squirms away...*  ...|||Wow - good timing on this thread, as anger is a huge issue and something I'm really trying to learn to control.   I'm also an Enneagram 9w1, so keeping the peace and keeping things light is...|||Oh noes!  I did know that and I forgot - I'm sorry!!!  :crying:       (so rude of me!)  Glad I got the 'spodey part right, tho'.  And you are super awesome yourself, no kinda perhaps maybe 'bout...|||How not-shocked am I, fellow ENFP and lover of all things colorful and 'spodey with a gooey, chewy center.  :cool:  Going to watch the video again...|||Oh I adore this song! It is my happy ENFP song/video.   Now I can see where one might OD on it, but I don't watch TV much or listen to commercial radio, so I control how often I hear it. Unlike,...|||Wow - this is a cool thread!  Hmm, who would I be...  I guess I would be very similar to Vlad Tepes, someone willing to do any damn thing necessary to make the world better/safer.  He fought the...|||I'm glad you feel you got your answer, and it's interesting to see the variation among one personality type.    This thread could be used as an example of how Love Languages work, especially the...'