'People attempt to label anything as a disorder now. This is not a disorder, it's simply a preference. I would add that it's a preference held by the majority of people (myself excluded).|||I am ashamed.|||But it's not how women are. It's how PEOPLE are. And I'm not going to shy away from making a comment like that to a woman just because of someone else's mistaken stereotypes.  @emberfly: But I'm...|||So, @lilysocks, you're saying I'm supposed to like what she likes and participate in that with her? That makes a lot of sense, but I just wanted to make sure I understood you correctly.  Oh, and...|||Thanks for the insight, no thanks on the examples. She hates cheese :tongue:|||Also, just to clarify, it's not that I want her to change fundamentally who she is. I like who she is....from what I've seen so far. That's the problem. I want to see more. I'm letting her in, and...|||Wow. I had NO idea my question would spark such a discussion. I'm glad it did, however. I'm learning a lot.   I think it's a mix of 1 and 2, although I also tell her all the time that I'm proud of...|||If female INTJ's are so hard to find, why have I found so many helpful ones here? ;0)|||lilysocks My apologies, didn't mean to offend. I simply meant that I don't like being the one constantly having to deal with my emotions (which, if I remember correctly, is scientifically proven to...|||@mariekathrynh: Now that you mention it, she does tend to shrug it off when I call her beautiful, and she HATES when I call her cute, even though I mean it when I say both things. I hate low...|||Basically, I just don't like feeling like the girl in our relationship :tongue:|||How can I get an INTJ girl to talk more and open up to me more? My girlfriend is an INTJ, and I feel like something is wrong with me when she won't tell me what she thinks or how she feels about...|||Probably the 8 enneatype.  And I find INTJ girls to be kind of difficult at times. Maybe I'm alone in thinking that?|||I need an ENTP woman.....sigh.....|||Zoidberg is a character from Futurama. If you have not seen the show, then that is all you need know.|||In other words, Love>Sex, right?|||What about if you're in a group of 10, and only one person wants to do a certain thing? Would all the dissenting ENFJ's just go along with it?|||We should make a club for everyone who took this test, and got a result OTHER than what we knew ourselves to be.|||Well, if you're willing to fly, I could share :wink:|||kaleidoscope I've had conversations like that with an ENFP before, where I was the flaky/impulsive one!|||You know what I admire about you? You're not afraid to just be you. That's gonna take you places.|||I think I am going to start defining myself as both ENTP and ENFP, so here's a pic of me with my INTP best friend. He's awesome, and he's like a brother to me :smile:  82287|||I am an ENxP (I got heavily ENFP on a test recently, ask if you wanna know more), and sometimes I feel like people think I'm mentally retarded because of how I laugh, when I laugh, and what I laugh...|||69% enfp 7% entp 7% intp 5% infp 3% esfp  82286|||Fern: WHY ZOIDBERG????|||80918  In other news, I too am falling victim to an ENFJ's charm. I think she's actually bringing a little bit of shadow Se out of me, which I don't mind. We'll see where it goes.|||Exactly right. Furthermore, I am becoming increasingly aware that there is no such thing as the perfect girl, at least as far as physicality goes. I'm pretty sure the same thing goes for the...|||Odd...you probably figured out from my post, I sometimes feel defective outside. Ne vs Ni? Male vs Female? Or simply a personal difference? The world may never know...|||Geez, put the claws away. I think it's actually an N thing to want to be liked more for what's on the inside than what's on the outside, but I know personally, I'm confident that my inside is good....|||You went on the wrong section of Craigslist, didn't you?|||Meh, it might have just been the words and expressions he uses that gave me that impression. Plus his obsession with Hugh Laurie :tongue: But like you said, I don't know him as well as he does.|||Seriously. Douchebag level is over 9000.|||InsanityRemix: Wut.  warweasel: For some reason, I had the impression you were from the UK or Australia (I forget which). Is there American football in high schools there, or are you talking about...|||Out of curiosity, who is that in your avy?|||freezeframe: I decided to look at your profile to see if your avy was actually you, because that's a LOT of freckles. Saw your profile pic, and my jaw dropped. You're pretty :tongue:|||*hugs everyone in the thread*  Because all the cool kids are doing it.|||Haha What? I'm the biggest land animal? I'M FAAAAAAT! :blushed::crying:|||warweasel Nah. I love my parents.  So, I've got something to ask you all, and I think you can help me. I have this brother, right, and before he got into MBTI, I had him pegged as an xSTJ. A lot of...|||79748  That is all.|||Our stereotypical mate is INFJ, but any type can fall for any other type.|||79747|||NINGSTA! YOU GOT MOTM!!!!!  :happy::kitteh::laughing::angry::proud::shocked::cool::tongue::crazy::wink::ninja:|||Hawt. Srsly, a girl who can let her hair down and have an exuberant and foolish amount of fun is so attractive to me.|||Don't take it personally. A lot of people just might not know what to say. NF's have very strong opinions, and while it's awesome to come off so strong, it can also kind of stun people. Take their...|||*Tackle-hugs Ningsta*|||I feel like depressed people are at least somewhat controlling anyway. It's all about the insecurity. My ENFP wasn't as aggressive about it than other xxFP's I know, but I know that if she had her...|||Saki, you're stunning :happy:|||Yeah, I would never date another xxFP (at least not on purpose) without her being REALLY healthy. Not only because my most recent relationship (ENFP) ended up basically temporarily ruining my life,...|||77821  For you :happy:|||I've found it goes the other way sometimes too, Faux. Some NF's just expect other people to cater to them and be extra sensitive, just because they're NF's. Screw that, I treat everyone LIKE A...'