'INFPs|||I love my kitty cat.  But I also love pretty much any animal so it isn't just cats. :redface:|||Honestly, I'm not even sure what you're asking here?  You seem to just give a description of your dynamics with her.  Are you wondering why it is that way?  Why she's hot and cold?  It could be...|||1. Finding work at this time isn't easy but it's entirely possible.   2. Start doing it now.  You can even put in your two weeks and request that no more work be given to you so that you can tie up...|||You seem really sweet.  I don't think it's really something one gets over.  Rejection hurts no matter what.  I think you just have to take it for what it is and choose to move on from the situation. ...|||The reason he didn't confirm is because he doesn't like you.  Trust me, he would have confirmed his feelings if he did!  He didn't deny because he didn't want to hurt your feelings.  ENFJs are...|||No, no, no, no, no.  I know that game.|||I'm considering going to veterinarian (DVM) route but not MD/DO.  The job satisfaction % for MD/DO scared me off big time.  Plus I rather cure sick animals than sick people.|||I can't say I do, sorry.|||I'm on here because I made myself a (too) stiff drink after work and I'm bored.  But I do like the Te in ESTJs it's just the Si that gets me.  FYI, ESTJ > ESFJ because Fe typically annoys the crap...|||And quite a few N types are actually S types that are mistyped and a few vice versa.  I think a lot of individuals are afraid to come to terms with themselves because of all the Sensor bashing on...|||My INFP ex tended to do poorly in school.  However, she was really smart and this was mostly due to her procrastinating until the NIGHT BEFORE maybe 5 assignments were due.  We fought a lot over this...|||Not INTP but close enough.  Expressing emotions is hard for NTs especially for the introverted ones.  Personally, I do see it as a weakness/vulnerable and I don't like showing it to other people.  I...|||Psychology and I regret it.  No job prospects at all and you have to have other skills to even be considered for employment.|||There are so many walls to get past.  I honestly don't even know how some people get passed them just that a few do.|||Manipulative.  Charming.  Eccentric.  Appearance oriented.  Sensitive.  Really don't like to be disliked/always want to be liked.  Curious!  Adventurous.  Reserved.  Sociable.|||Yes, I do.  Not very often, however, maybe once or twice a month.|||Replace the ps with ts.|||Do you honestly feel happy with the amount of feedback he's giving you?|||Wow I read this thread title wrong at first glance...|||pinkmatter sounds to me like you two aren't a couple anymore. I think he used to the I like alone time line to shove out without being straight up and honest with you. INTJs needs a fair amount of...|||Like, longing for the ex and missing them?  About a year.  I still think about my ex once in a blue moon but then I quickly realize I have zero desire to associate with her so that ends that trip...|||Try an INTJ. ;)|||Yep, you're an extravert.  Do the kid a favor and leave him alone.|||I understand the emotions perfectly.  You're very hurt and you give and give and give.  I think you think this is love but it's not.  I guess it's subjective, though, what love is and isn't but I'm...|||I'm Type A. Always worrying, always needing to be proactive.|||I'm all about kinky sex in relationships as it can be a lot of fun. However, your marriage is pretty unhealthy and classic codependency. It also looks like you two have nothing in common other than...|||Maybe she felt that way at first and changed her mind.  The only way to know for certain is to ask her.  Why don't you just flat out ask her if she still wants to be friends and why or why not?  Just...|||I'm pretty sure she does not return your romantic feelings.  I think she's distancing herself so that you can move on.  I don't know about her but, speaking for myself, I always cut off people who...|||I'm not really sure what you're asking.  How INFP men deal with T women? Thinker96|||Quality Time > Physical Touch > Acts of Service > Words of Affirmation > Gifts|||I love INFPs.  I'm dating one now and my ex was also an INFP.  They're so sweet, loyal, and idealistic.  God I just want to pinch their cheeks.    However, they can drive me absolutely mad...|||I'm INTJ and I always have an INFP around.  We seem to get along superbly.|||Wow that was a long time ago.  I forgot I even posted about that on here.  Well I guess I'll give an update.  We screwed around a couple more times and we ended up having a huge blow out.  He was...|||What he said.  xSTJs can get annoying with their this is how it's always been stuff but if you're responsible and do what needs to be done they're bearable.  My mother is actually ISTJ and she's...|||He is a grown man.  I don't care if he has a military mindset or not.  There's plenty of military individuals who do not treat their spouse like crap.  You're only defending him because you did the...|||You've got to be fucking kidding me.    So, he's emotionally abuse.  That's just as bad as being physically abusive, if not worse.  I suggest you seek individual counselling and not marriage...|||That's how my father is.  Now that I've got a job he expects me to buy him nice things and help support our family because he helped pay for my college education.  I personally think it's a very...|||My INFP SO tends to get jealous of other males who hit on me and is quite possessive of his food.|||I think you're trying too hard.  Just let it come naturally as you meet new people.|||:dry: Children of Lesbian and Gay Parents: A Review of the Literature ^ That's why you're called a homophobe.|||I think the INTJ-INFP match is good overall, but it does have its challenges.  Namely, INFPs expect a lot of emotional understanding and that tires INTJs out.  INTJs also may be too blunt and direct,...|||Mother- ISTJ Father- ESFJ Brother- INFJ  Maternal Grandma- ISTJ Maternal Grandpa- ISTJ Aunt- ExTJ  Paternal Grandma- ESFJ Paternal Grandpa- ENxP|||I would flat out say, I'm no longer attracted to you and we have to break up.  I know it would SUCK for the other person to hear that but the reason I'd say so clearly is so they'd know there's no...|||Atheist.|||1. Hybrid cars? Yes 2. Classical music? Yes 3. Tea? Yes 4. Cats? Yes 5. ABBA? Pardon? 6. Steampunk art? Nah 7. Wallabies? Sure 8. Honey? Nah 9. Calvin & Hobbes? Yes 10. Europe and...|||I talk to my dogs all the time.  I'm a huge animal lover so that might contribute to it.|||Here's another thread on INTJ thoughts on INFJs, although you wouldn't be able to tell by the title.  http://personalitycafe.com/intj-forum-scientists/145715-infj-here.html  For reference, I said:|||I want to donate my body to science.  I'll be dead so I won't care.  Might as well get some use out of my body.|||You sound unwilling to change because you're happy with yourself.  I think that says it all about your marriage and its pending status.'