'I've traveled alone and found it for the most part rather painful, in part because I don't seem to do well socially with the typical young traveler types you bump into in hostels and such... I'm the...|||I sometimes pretend I have telepathic/jedi mind powers...and I practise sending out magical, therapeutic thoughts or more frequently,  mind daggers meant to execute necessary retributive justice....|||Showers.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dPmBle0Dljw  Do you continue to see a friend you don't completely trust anymore or do you just politely reject invitations for as long as you can?|||Goes further than that. You clearly have a type. :)|||Celeb neuroscientist :p. Beau Lotto.... <3   https://youtu.be/2sDaJxJB0bg|||Awful day...but unlike the sharp panic I used to feel, it's a dull ache that reminds me of so many days past|||I'm not sure I know what love is... but I feel bouts of debilitating compassion a lot.   I believe traditional notions of love indirectly presuppose/depend on  a high degree of mutualness in...|||I suspect surviving experiences you didn't think you would helps. I'm also in my early thirties.  You learn about yourself and you steer your little raft a bit better in the open seas, out to which...|||Tolkien blamed our “soul mates” obsession on the Romantic chivalric tradition: “Its weakness is, of course, that it began as an artificial courtly game, a way of enjoying love for its own sake. . . ....|||I'm with you on that. I'm odd myself by local conventions and know I don't care about aberrance if there's good in it.  Problem is... sometimes we're dealing with pretty cold calculated hucksters.....|||Sigh. A bit paralysed even though part of me is beyond fear at this point. I'm not sure whether it's normal anymore for people to move to whatsapp from a dating site instead of asking you out...|||:do_not_feed_the_tro:|||697346  :crazy:|||Anne Elliott maybe... but I aspire to her inner strength. I know it's there buried under the more obvious disquiet.|||Maybe they've got nice tits or arses or something. Supposedly that can work irl... and the magic carries through somehow here... :p|||Teehee! Funniest thing I've heard in a while. So nice to use my smile-atron for real this week.|||https://youtu.be/eo2HnIlgpaQ|||No doubt. Still, if you are stardust, then all that is within... came from without. :ninja:  Reference: We Are Stardust?Literally|||I do doubt myself even  more than I doubt others. It's been a source of confusion and meandering down the wrong paths. However, I've tried several professions now and realise that some of the most...|||Hmm... makes it sound like Se can upend things or create volatility. Surely it can be integrated and so isn't purely fetishized.  Sorry for the necro, seems timely to revisit considering some of...|||It's non-existent. I've never been a going-out-and-sitting-at-the-bar kind of person and I don't really have anyone to go with. My only hanging out friend doesn't drink...and I think most times, I'd...|||Another theory:https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/jun/30/are-you-missing-the-third-option-oliver-burkeman|||Not sure about these things generally... but I happened upon this. Could be helpful:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xKXLPuju8U|||This on here already? :P Too many pages to check...   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=moxOBKMImd4|||Michael Shanks made Jackson extra watchable ...and particularly endearing. IMO, better than James Spader. Accidentally got into watching the series because of the last landlady.|||femur wisdom word flow electricity (but said like in the video - e-lec- tri- cit-tay  :D) wordsmith apocalypse carl poppa|||Your badass integrity = inspiring. :)|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g7iF1pPwq_w|||https://youtu.be/WJEvjsrfrWo|||In cases such as this, it's best to stretch your shadow Ne ... something like... tuck the bit at the dotted line into your knickers and then hold the pen between your lips (or something else, be...|||just wish I was a super genius so I could make my money effortlessly and then buy the treatment required so I never want for company again.   The dream = Not needing a job and not having to work...|||Only infatuation and me trying to believe I am in love. An essential component for me to be in love is feeling authentic acceptance and appreciation. I've been continually surprised by how without...|||I make friends very rarely and can hang out with people without ever feeling they are a friend. As a result, the one or two friends I do have, I do hold onto...and while I hurt easily from barbs...|||Ever so slightly hopeless and also ashamed for feeling so because I haven't worked as hard as I should have and also have some things going for me. Still it's hard to know what's unrealistic when...|||Generally, it involves being vulnerable. I've noticed Fe dom/ aux etc types often seem initially to be able to handle it but eventually, it's too real. :p I've never met anyone except Enfps (usually...|||When you're a giving, loyal person, people can sometimes take this for granted. Apparently, the large majority confuses inaccessibility with value... and sometimes, they need to chase and  get and...|||Your bond with Akechi is growing deeper...|||:P There seems to be a tragic minimum of one of this type of post a day, huh? Now I know for sure I'm not INFJ. I'm not that irresistible. :D|||Gosh, this is so true, I had to say something. I couldn't put my finger on it before but I realise that while they can seem with the kindly Fe to reflect back - dare I say it - more profound takes...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-5jF5jtMM_4  The brainstorming about the theory, not to mention the seriousness with which whimsy is entertained, strikes me as particularly INTP. Ti + Ne.  But I'm...|||I get that. Just agewise, it would be the equivalent of me being with someone my dad's age... and it would create a recurring visceral sensation in me that could negatively affect intimacy, and...|||I wonder if by the same token, we should be comfortably dating much older people... Twenty years apart etc...|||The clash of ideas is not weakness. Truth reaches its place when tussling with error. - a pretty wise dude that lived in harsher times.  It's better to debate a question without settling it than...|||Really good, Perel's advice (all her stuff) and I've intuitively always known it but failed to trust enough. Every ounce helps:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VLhMOr0AH8I|||If I ever cave and wake up one morning with a tattoo, I suspect it'll say this. The irony will be punishment on its own.  Meanwhile, I cannot wait to say this to someone, all straight-faced... ;D|||I resisted doing what you suggested till I hit a level of extreme frustration four years ago. It'll probably be a mixed bag as my experiences have been but the good parts will be surprisingly...|||Very much so for me too... It makes following a track towards a singular goal particularly challenging. Inevitably, I find myself not sure how to proceed and wasting a lot of time trying what I can't...|||I didn't very much as a child.... I remember feeling plenty within that I didn't know what to do with but it didn't ever spill out (literally).  I distinctly remember a day between 16/17 years of age...|||I seem to be doing this more of late, but I've found that there is a high risk of crying at airports while I do. >_<  More occasion to practise not caring about what others think, of course.|||I agree with Owtoo. I was far more awkward in my twenties, when everything seemed to matter. These days I brush off loads, in part because I have to recover quickly to keep going and also because the...'