'It's kinda mellow.|||Well that was a kick in the head.  In a good way.  Point taken.  Hopefully, I will learn.|||I just realized that my tank top is on backwards.|||I go win a inflatable hammer balloon at a carnival and beat door-to-door solicitors on the head with it repeatedly until my nerves have calmed down.  :laughing:|||Do you want to be single?  Do you want to be in a relationship?  Why does it matter?  A lot of it probably has to do with the energy you give off that you are unaware of.  I have been told time and...|||You and me both.  When I go out and do stuff, just out and about in society, my mind is going a million miles an hour with analysis I can't stop.  Everything is a therapy session in my head.  :)  So...|||On the subject of Joss Whedon, I think if he winds up with the reins, he's going to channel Firefly into it.  This would be cool but I would just want Firefly instead.|||I'm feeling like I want to connect with more INFPs!!|||I think that it can work, if you want it to.  You both will have to learn how to understand one another's differences.  I would think that someone who lives in the moment could be a fun exercise for...|||You've got to check this out!  It's a real treat:   http://youtu.be/B_RFLoO0Q2E|||Hey everyone!  I came up with a question that I thought would be good to ask other INFP folks.  What are some thought processes / decision making processes you use to help you narrow down the...|||refugee - hahahaha.. that was quite something.|||Thank you, I really enjoyed your thought there.  Yes, there are many things in which art forms have taken the same formula and changed the details.  Songs, movies, books; something that breaks away...|||Holy shit.  See, this is why I knew I'd feel embarrassed for venting.  I should be thankful.  I will stop being bitter.  I also send you a hug and wish to tell you that my heart is aching after...|||I feel rather guilty that I seem to come here so that I can complain about something.  At the moment, this moment, I don't have many alternatives.  I just felt like getting this little bit of venom...|||Okay, I guess I better roll with my low, as well.  Today has been dower and draining.|||I so very much understand this!|||This made me laugh out loud and give a thumbs up.|||^^ THIS, THIS, and SO VERY THIS! ^^  Except I just posted a love song on what are you currently listening to.  :tongue:|||http://youtu.be/DWBYg-ZET-o|||I like how you said that when you were younger all your names sounded like elf names.  Do you remember any?  Tell me about Twoshoe?|||Don't get me wrong, I love a good looking guy... I love handsome.  Handsome to me is someone who has some of the lovely features of hot but with some imperfections that transcend them into works of...|||It's just an answer to the question on how people deal with heartbreak.  I figured I would share what I'm learning from the ache.  My heart isn't broken, but the same holds true.   :proud:|||I didn't at all, I think your advice is sound.  Women need to be careful about this sort of stuff.  Men, too, really.  Discretion is important, standards are important.    Thank you again.  I will,...|||I know what you mean and where you are coming from.    In my case it's of course, a bit more complicated than that.  There were circumstances that lead me to believe he and I were slowly working on...|||I agree with you.  Part of me is scared that it won't get better.|||*laughing* yeah, you're onto something there.  I need to stop keeping the channel open.|||Ouch.. I'm hurting.. I wish my pride could hold out so I don't feel like this, but honesty always wins... damn.|||Oh how ironic.  Well, so the guy I still love who I am getting over called me at midnight.  About an hour into the conversation, he managed to muster up a new fact: he slept with someone......... I...|||I'm a badass.  In other words, I'm safe, courteous, very attentive and drive defensively.|||The only thing I really have to say about this thread is, Souled In, you are funny!  I am cracking up with your posts.|||Hi, nosy INFP here who couldn't resist this topic when it popped up on the main page.  I hate to say this, but it's quite comforting to read your story and some of the stories of people who replied. ...|||I've gone through a number of heart aches, but I believe that I've only had one true heart break, which was my first encounter with love.  I was SO naive and was experiencing the conflicts of eros...|||Well I am printing that baby out and putting it on my wall, thank you, sincerely.|||This.. and I am now in permagrin mode.   http://youtu.be/RP4abiHdQpc|||Still on a Cat Stevens kick.  :mellow:   http://youtu.be/NPazGVuBXmY|||These were both lovely.  Perfect for enjoying some coffee.    I have heard Trouble before.  I love a good many of Cat Stevens' songs and I understand about playing over and over.  :)|||Well that gave me a good shoulder shaking chuckle.  Thank you.|||http://youtu.be/Q29YR5-t3gg|||Oh my god, I want to keep you in my pocket and carry you around wherever I go.  You are so adorable and cute!  Just sayin.|||I'm in!  -----------  Also here's a nice healthy helping of random:  I keep getting wafts of the smell of band aids.  Someone I am chatting with is also getting wafts of band aids.. like as if...|||@PerturbedPrufrock - Well that socked it to my heart and my gut.  Well said.  Well said.  I've pondered the idea of spending a day or even a date with the intent of reaching out beyond comfort...|||Match-making: MATCH-MAKING – From LOG To LIGHT | Modern Mechanix  In match-making, mechanical fingers have replaced human hands.|||There are too many amazing responses @kaleidoscope @ethylester @infpblog on here for me to really say anything else significant.    Y'all are just reaffirming!  Thank you!!!|||I sing this:    http://youtu.be/y7Gee3THtb8|||You, my dear, are echoing EXACTLY where I am.  The figuring out what makes you happy, part.  Yeah, this is a total BITCH to figure out right now, I hear you loud and clear.  And as @ethylester...|||OrangeAppled - oh snap, that was a gorgeous read for me.  Thank you, dearly.    --  Apparently I test 50/50 P/J when I am tired.  When I am fully present and able to answer more authentically, I...|||Luke, I'm echoing kaychivers here, you're on the money.  no homo. :laughing:   INFPSweety - I believe I am in a similar stage of life.  (33 here.)  A lot of assessing, realignment, reviewing the...|||Dude, thanks!  I think I do better with my eyes closed because I'm being extra careful not to mess up. *L*  Ooo, and a vent thread sounds delicious.|||Ok.. here's a dose of random thoughts for y'all.  I'm typing this with my eyes closed and my mind open.  I hope that what my gut tells me is true; that I am on the brink of a crucial existential...'