'It was actually easier for me to tell in terms of Fi/Fe. I was able to tell that I was an ENFP because the feelings that I did feel, I felt extremely strongly and were very personal and often linked...|||Omg yes exactly hahaha. I definitely admire her for being able to do all the mean things that I would only think about and consider. She's like the embodiment of my darker side... So relatable :D|||Aww thanks firelink :3 I definitely need to start coming on here more so we can have more of those discussions!!|||Really? Haha I'm glad to hear it! I had just always heard her typed as an ESTP, and she seems so pragmatic and to-the-point, moreso than most fictional ENFPs would be|||Whoops double post|||Somehow I relate to Scarlett O'Hara in some ways, despite her not seeming very ENFPish|||I tend to be ~10 minutes late for events that don't require me to be on time. Any more than that seems inconsiderate and I wouldn't do it - if there was a reason why I had to be late I would...|||I think the lower level people obsessions can be somewhat cured by just having a breather period away from them and with other interesting people, yeah. That's happened to me a couple times. What's...|||I definitely give too much weight to authority figures in my mind. I tend to resent them more behind their backs, but comply more readily to them than anyone else to their faces. Which makes sense,...|||I think ENFPs in general tend to be really flexible and just bend, bend, bend... but there's always a snapping point. And our snaps are terrifying because we've bent so much.|||I'm like.... 85.7% positive I'm a 9w8. I think I'm a bit more reserved than other ENFP on the forums seem to be -- I don't post nearly as often and I tend to lurk a lot. I think I read somewhere that...|||shoulderbladesss <3|||From what I've experienced, it irritates most ISTPs when pointless questions are asked, because the only reason they perceive for the question is some invasion of privacy. Which makes sense -...|||Whenever I communicate, I always tailor my words to suit the audience. So yeah, on forums I tend to give the minimalist answer|||You know you're an intuitive when you randomly notice a huge blister on your heel, and then realize that you've been subconsciously adjusting your gait for a week because of this|||Aww thank you so much! Somehow I managed to completely miss all these notifications :P But seriously, thank you! That means so much :) I really respect all the questions that you have and the way...|||Is an ISTP interested if they randomly text you after months of silence, when the two of you have no mutual activities and there is no concrete reason to talk?|||Helping other people - being able to connect with them on a deeper level and have discussions that cannot be had without a set of morals. These always remind me of how good I feel when I am sticking...|||One of my best friends is an INFJ :) She's great.  Likes: - We can talk about literally anything - We connect on a spiritual and emotional level - We are both accepting of each other's...|||If you get really excited when you first see someone (anyone), that's a hint that you're an extrovert -- even if once they start talking you get a little drained. There was a quote I read that was...|||Yeahhh, I get what you're saying. Like thinking about the risk and people's potential reactions that could come from it causes you not to take the risk? Even though the risk isn't necessarily risky...|||ENFPs have a very contradictory nature. We're able to appreciate practicality and idealism, we're capable of caring so much it hurts and two seconds later not feeling anything at all. We see so many...|||I think MuChApArAdOx has got it. (I love that username by the way!) ENFP really, REALLY dislike feeling obligated to like someone. If someone is trying too hard to get us to like them, nothing could...|||HAHA yes. I always have some innate sense of faith that no matter what I do, things will turn out okay.  ... And they always do. So, you know, it works out nicely.|||Personal stories, funny stories, possible explanations for a third party's behavior, ridiculous ideas and possibilities, feelings, debates|||As an ENFP, I can completely relate to the first half of that scenario. I think other people getting overly attached to ENFPs that are just trying to help them out, etc., is probably fairly common....|||I agree with all of the above. I do the same thing as your brother.  It's not that I don't like my family or don't want to be around them - I just need to introvert when I'm at home. I need...|||Hahaha I forget to wear shoes out all the time. Especially when I'm walking somewhere rather than driving.|||Ain't that the truth|||Oh man. I think ISTPs are SO sexy|||I agree a lot with what Pinkrasputin has said.  I think that for ENFP, when we're with people, we tend to be in the moment. So when she's with you, she's happy and everything seems to be going well...|||OP, I do the exact same thing.  It's either getting awkward and cold and distant and strange and I like the person for FOREVER, or I just develop a little crush and talk a lot around the person and...|||You eat an entire slice of pineapple pizza before realizing there was pineapple on it.  On January 12th, you realize that the Christmas tree is gone and you don't know how or when this happened.|||Haha I relate with the OP a lot. I'd usually rather listen to someone else share their story. A lot of the time I'll think of some story and I'll want to share it, but there never seems to be the...|||I can focus if everyone around me is focused and it starts off silent - then I get into the zone and I don't even notice loud sounds.  The real problem is getting me to start to focus. It's like...|||When you look at your friend's sound system on their car, and it says cd 15, and you accidentally read it upside down as SIP' before realizing that... you're reading it upside down and it's just...|||I don't mind people complaining/venting to me, but there is that line, where the person just whines about issues and never attempts to fix them, that irritates me.  I don't really complain to any...|||The most horrifying thing for me is how I somehow absentmindedly end up becoming the exact person that everyone in my life needs... and then I can't stay that person|||Hi I miss you a lot and I don't know why we're wasting our time not doing anything! ...I really, REALLY miss you.|||I'm good at English, Psychology, Philosophy. Those all come naturally to me and allow some degree of creativity, at least in my school. Plus they're interesting and usually relevant to my thoughts. ...|||Maybe it's just because I'm young, but whenever I'm rejected, I start to doubt myself majorly. Even if it's just a perceived rejection.|||Your type: ENFP Mom's type: ISFJ Dad's type: ESTP(?) Siblings' type(s): INTP, ESTJ Best friends' type(s): ESFP, INFJ, ENFJ, INTP Current/last significant others' type: INFP Type(s) you have the...|||Yessss :)  Like genres of music, but with people. I prefer thinking of it as what genre I am on a particular day, rather than thinking of myself as being an entirely different person.  We ENFPs...|||^ Agreed.  Being around different people and interacting with them inevitably influences you, and different people emphasize different aspects of your personality. I think this is natural, and it's...|||Hahaaaaa yes. And then I gesticulate wildly.|||I'm always friendly, but I don't make any effort to carry on a conversation. I really dislike small talk :S|||I would recommend asking the ENFP to meet in person again, and judging from there :)|||In my experience, with ENFP and INFP, there is a notable connection that is clearly felt by both of them while they are together if there is any spark there. If they are together and the same...|||I've felt it for ISTPs and sometimes INTJs - probably because they frustrate me so much trying to figure them out, and I am forced to throw all of myself in.  ISFP types tend to gravitate towards...|||As most others have said, it really depends.  If this was someone I had just been interested in, and it was just that nothing ended up happening, I probably wouldn't be too overtly interested...'