'Just say no.|||I think it depends on tonality; however, if you felt scared, I would listen to that.|||I hope you curbstomped the jerk. That's terrible.   Not for nothing, they sound like an ESTP, at least very similar to the ones I've known. If nothing else they definitely sound like a toxic ass.|||Yeah. Gotcha.:)|||Who likes shitty one sided relationships?  Sounds like you're trying to figure out how the relationship is relevant to past and future relationships in order to get some gain off a shit situation.|||One guy lured me out with jokes about jetpacks.|||Honestly? The odds of finding one in the wild decrease as technology makes it easier to never leave the house. You are much more likely to find one online and lure it out to a neutral location to...|||Hmm good point. I'm honestly not sure. I mean, outside work the only times I really leave the house are when I have a social obligation (read:friend dragged me out) I'm hungry, or there's some thing...|||Honestly, since I bought my kindle and many of the bookstores closed, (not at the same time, I swear) I have really reduced my time spent in  bookstores and libraries. I still go to coffee shops,...|||Amazon hasn't made their delivery instant enough yet for physical books. And Kindles are still new. Also when you are addicted to books you tend to go where they live. Not everyone's lair is optimal.|||This weekend, you would have found me at a geeky traveling exhibit with my best friends(INFJ & INFP). Though generally when I do leave the house, it's at the suggestion of my best  INFJ. I spend a...|||You may wind up with far too much firsthand experience of the awfulness of people, particularly all of them. Then spend six months or more feeling even more alone and apathetic (if you don't move...|||Fair enough.|||Are you trying to say that INTPs are, via the internet, more susceptible to the Matrix/hive mind? Or are cyborgs?  Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G730A using Tapatalk now Free|||...and having believed the adage, promptly crashed into a tree.   Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G730A using Tapatalk now Free|||It's important to bring pen and paper, but you cannot underestimate the utility of napkins and cutlery. Useful for eating, stirring coffee, carving rudimentary diagrams etc. And napkins can be used...|||In my experience a funny joke or picture is a great low pressure way to start. It releases both people from having to do the really boring inane small talk dance and get right back to being awesome.|||@Janette Establish positive experiences and patterns and know that generally, wandering INTPs find their way back to you. Especially when you keep the door open for them. It may take a while for an...|||Acting/Singing/Performing is just a natural extension of all the mirroring/hiding in plain sight I do on a day to day basis. I used to do a lot of it growing up, (don't ask me to dance though,...|||I drink about one cup of coffee a day to keep away the caffeine headache monster. I no longer recall why other than to keep away the monster and a tiny bit of enhanced coherence in the morning. I...|||Clearly they merged together into a super unified being. They're probably floating in space contemplating the cosmos and this last message is the echo from their psychic-wifi before their uniqueness...|||In the vein of Dog Days... hmm maybe P!nk's F**kin' Perfect. Also pretty much the entire soundtrack to Prince of Egypt, especially Deliver Us and If you believe, but the vocals and instrumentation on...|||I tend to cry whenever I hear Florence and the Machine Dog Days are Over. And during epic movie trailers and movies. It's like a perfect moment of sound can just evoke this powerful moment and...|||I think that the desire of the INTP for more friends is not necessarily a desire to be extroverted but rather dismay that most people are not more interesting to them. When I was younger I tried to...|||Maybe have also have questions like describe x (a concrete physical item) and y (an abstract principle).|||The following is really just spit balled Ne explosion ideas and I apologise for getting my Ne all over your beautiful Ni. Because it is wonderful and I love it.   Do you think that subject...|||This is quite cool. I'm just wondering if there is a reference/map to what we are presuming the various 'clock' positions signify? Like which eye movements are related to external stimuli and which...|||Actually, I started using emoticons and attempting to smile because many of the Fs in my life kept leaving feeling bruised and pissy after speaking/txting with me. They thought I was mad or...|||Sometimes I wish we had emoticons in real life... then I realize that we have this thing called facial expressions. Not sure it is worth it. :)|||I'm not an F anything and I feel that the tone of her post was fairly aggressive than what was called for. It's not a matter of disagreement or agreement, rather I feel that the way it was worded was...|||I'll just go with my original point which is that just in terms of pure language and semantics, that is not the definition of a snob. Particularly absent the social context of the action. I guess I...|||I guess I don't know where the idea that INFJs think the sun shines out of their asses is coming from? Because I don't think that most INFJs subscribe to that notion. Other types and other people...|||I know this is really late to the party and I'm glad things are going better with your mom, but from what you've reported of her behavior and my own experiences with an ISFJ mom and an INFJ best...|||If the INFJ is at all snobbish (which I don't agree with) it is only to their benefit. Why should the INFJ be unselective and open themselves up to all sorts? Given that they are Ni major, this is...|||Maybe it also has to do with the personalities of the people you are around. Multi variable interactions?|||Yeah, not awesome at all.|||Do you ever feel like it is hard to find someone because your outer persona, the INTP ability to mirror, doesn't match your inner life where you would interact with a SO? Because the people I can...|||My last boyfriend was an ISTP. Our breakup was weird too. I think ISTPs are confusing because I think we're connecting and I eventually realize that there is no communication happening. We broke up...|||I think it is the lack of smiling. I have to consciously make myself smile. Otherwise I default to intense thoughts face.|||My problem is that when I do see people I don't know how to meet them, and having met them how to become friends with them (or more) without coming across too intensely. Are there guys out there...|||I finally joined a dating site. It is driving me crazy. At least on the dating site, I'm pretty sure when people want to talk to me it is with amorous intent.|||I'm surrounded by Fs (both SF and NF) and it can be exhausting. How do you pull out of a death spiral exactly? I'm so tired. Ideas?'