'https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v6HlbPvsKQ|||Ssshhh don't tell anyone.    http://onlypositive.net/image.axd?picture=2011%2F5%2Ftigers-kinda-kiss.jpg|||Lol. I figured manipulation has a negative connotation to it. That is why I also put influence in there. I have seen ENFPs use their skills by means of manipulation (negative) and as well influencing...|||ENFP's are prone to use manipulation/influence through using feelings. You know, make people comfortable to open up, share intimate stories etcetera. This goes much easier with people who have a low...|||Isn't sex an expression of love to him? Is it to you?  I have ENFPs in my life. Quite different ones, males, females, healthy and unhealthy.  So far I have witnessed an essential difference...|||In general: I like growth in a relationship, from both sides. Stagnation kills. The description of personalitypage on lover relationships does it in general for me, with some nuances on leadership. ...|||http://behappy.me/picture/adaptive/54346?product=canvas&p=1    https://38.media.tumblr.com/6bdd1f893e69867adaa7e59c826a8d37/tumblr_nekmnfTrDc1qakgn1o4_500.gif    Seriously, you are welcome.|||Yes, there is the possibility that unsecure and secure bond. From there, the secure attached can move towards the unsecure attachment, or the unsecure can become secure. Research has hypotheses that...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RrG4JnrN5GA|||Yes. The Fe dominants tend to feel misunderstood and disrespected when they are not emotionally met. It seems to me that they feel personally attacked and will attack your character for it. I...|||ientipi  Thanks for sharing. That is just amazing. Especially his final jazz performance.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxSaI9xNgIY|||You are welcome.   Ah very insightful. I understand that any type needs motivation and realization to get out of the rug. One of their incentives may be that they will be unable to achieve their...|||Thanks for your reponse ai. You sound like a very healthy ENFP. While I agree these are generalized and stereotyped, I hope to find answers for the intention of those behaviours to understand ENFPs...|||Thanks for your question. My interest is insight. I do not understand the page. The intention, the motivation behind the behaviour.  Ehm, I am not responding to your second question, since it is...|||I do not understand this part of the personality page of the ENFP. It is about the problem areas.   - May get involved with drugs, alcohol, or promiscuity, and generally seek mindless experiences...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3VjaCy5gck|||As researchers we record interviews. I got shouted at in one interview as the interviewee was joking: WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS INTERVIEW?! Scared the shit out of me.  The nice part of this all is...|||I think the discussion is over. The subforum is at this time a good first step towards more structure and a culture shift.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HdzI-191xhU|||You caught the joke. Let's share a cookie.|||If that is possible, than I would advice that. It is indeed much more efficient than merge and remove replies.|||http://personalitycafe.com/entj-forum-executives/57362-entj-relationship-advice-column-post-your-questions-here-340.html#post11822106  Thats the problem. Too much of relationship questions being...|||Alright, this is not only related to a special snowflake, but also to any other person who is unaware to the sub-forum rule of posting advice/relationship issues in the sticky.   That being said, a...|||My template for individual assigments is:  - Goal - Brainstorm - What ideas from brainstorm are pragmatic to the goal - Execute - Evaluate - Revise|||Ne.  My Ne is also quite developed, but needs to be forced (AKA brainstormsessions anyone?). I tend to use more Ni right after each Ne statement, like immediately: is that practical? If that makes...|||Thomas60  Yes to your deduction of the process.  I agree also with your regulation thoughts. The social reward could be that there are more replies from ENTJs. We have to discuss this with the...|||Thomas60  Yes. We could suggest that and hope this can be implemented fairly easy. Who has the highest effectiveness to get the thing implemented IYO?  Furthermore, the culture has been like...|||I see that is a perspective the ENTJs have. Although it is like saying: hey this room is chaos, but do not clean it, nor prevent it from clutter, because you have an issue with the mess.   Your...|||Close minded, judgemental.|||Asking advice on how to deal with the relationship questions to all ENTJs here. Since we have people still not able to find the sticky, should we not make a meme? And if so, what picture and text? ...|||Is that CPH4 from Lucy?|||Step on the gas. He should keep speed until he is able to reach the safety lane later.|||Argh, that would make me cringe too. So you would say there is enough passion between you and the questionnaire is at fault?   Same question for you bossy|||Lol, skittles. You are funny. Also, good points.  I agree with the redundant hierarchy introduction. I can only see a pragmatic benefit to a relationship with commitment, intimacy and passion....|||Hahahah. Well Canis, time to develop new... skills.  On a more serious note, is this the way these days to tell a guy you want to run away with him? What happened to that?!|||I think this model is merely trying to grasp a piece of reality, instead of becoming a theory of.. everything. Until another better model comes forth, this does great. That being said, do you have a...|||Let's not question your friendship with her.   The first step is to state your feelings about her behaviour to her. She is your bestie, so I assume she will try to understand them. Then, propose a...|||The theory caught my eye when I read my psychology book. It may present a good insight for ENTJs or NTs for that matter into their interpersonal relationships. From friends to SO.   The theory...|||http://memetogo.com/media/created/0ampkw.jpg|||Ehm, you mean I am the ONLY one competent out here?  Thanks for the champagne. What are we celebrating....?    Ah that time a year... ...|||Seeker  Congrats, you did it! Keep it up.|||So I am gone for a week.. I come back and there is a ban, multiple infractions and drama on the forum.   Not sure if FOMO or glad to have missed drama.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARgdBb2Go0w   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpmILPAcRQo  Oh.. those years of dance I had.|||Yeah good. What are the three best lessons you have learned so far?|||7-8 respirations|||@thomas60  Grats mate!! Send me the pics too. Curious!|||Meh, idiolizing and obsessive behavior sounds pathological to me. You do not mean those things in a pathological way and I do want to emphasize this.   Now, I indeed find characters intriguing in a...|||Better late than never. CONGRATULATIONS. Did you get toys for your porsche?|||Logically, what is the problem since you both have made up your minds.   Regarding him staying friends: he still has feelings for you. Strong ones. He needs a reset from those, and the ability to...'