'I wasn't sure anyone would remember me!  I guess this makes be rude +1 for taking another hiatus lol|||Oh gosh, no, don't apologize lol! I thought you were pretty spot on and still are pretty spot on with your opinion :) I appreciate your honesty. I know what I need to do in order to save myself,...|||I can definitely see this being true. I do enjoy being needed.|||*sigh* I fear the realization that he isn't the one for me. I fear a lot, to be honest. It's really lame.  I have always found myself attracted to people that I need to fix. Yet when I find...|||I've tossed the abuse word around in my head a few times. By definition, he is. He's emotionally and verbally abusive. The word on its own, though just sounds so harsh. My aunt is with a drunk, he...|||I'm not sure what his type is. I made him do the test once but can't remember what the result was. We know each other extremely well. He's brought me out of my shell in a lot of things. I never...|||Thing is, we never really had that honeymoon phase of our relationship. He's been honest with me and said that in the beginning, he was only with me to temper the pain of breaking up with his...|||As a nurse, I see family members every day struggling with the same things you are and it breaks my heart. Alzheimers & dementia is one of the absolute worst diseases there could possibly be. What...|||I feel so disconnected to myself in the relationship that I've been in for the last year and a half.   From the start, we've been living together. Talk about fast. I adore him to pieces, love him...|||I very briefly dated an ENFJ (learned his type a couple years after our brief romance) and it lasted all of a week haha. I'm an emotional, future-driven, hopeless romantic, but he was 10x moreso. It...|||I do this SO often. It drives my bf absolutely crazy. Why do you just stare off into nothingness so much?  90% of the time, I don't think about the fact that I'm staring but sometimes I'll...|||The last few are most recent - threw in a pic of my most loved tattoo for good measure :)  66163  66164  66165  66162|||love love love!  I have ball pythons <3|||Normally, this would be something that gives me a HUGE boost! Right now, I'm so fresh into being alone that it's bumming me out even more!|||Making eye contact and smiling is something I do a lot. If you can brighten someones day, why not, right?|||I know for me, if I'm interested, I make it well known.  If it got to the point where someone was telling me that having all the what ifs and no solid ground was draining them, I'd probably...|||The only thing that I can possibly relate to in that statement is the need for alone time sometimes. I'm not awkward around groups of people nor do I get anxious, but I do need to just be on my own...|||I can definitely relate to your fear of rejection and needing to know that feelings are reciprocated. I think they go hand in hand. A lot of the time, I can't outright say I'M INTERESTED IN YOU...|||I'm an incredible sap, so I understand perfectly haha. I could almost consider myself a pack-rat in terms of keeping things from old loves. It took me a LONG time to toss the old ticket stubs,...|||I'm turning 22 soon. I have the same ideals as you. I want my man to myself for a while before I have to share him with babies haha.|||I added screen shot pics to that post. Can anyone see them? If not, the post won't make any sense haha  edit: I'm awesome. Fixed it.|||He and I have never dated, but we've been friends for YEARS, and he's the one I lost my virginity to (hence the soft spot comment) a few years ago. We've always been close. Sex never diluted our...|||I don't think I've ever RAGED on anyone, really. I've raised my voice, stormed off and things like that, but I don't show anger much. For me, I get super quiet and I stew about it. If I'm at home...|||For the last...7-8 months, mine has been BAD. Like...terrible. Horrible. Gut wrenchingly BAD!  When my girlfriend, Trina had her daughter and I visited, oh boy. Baby fever over-drive. Then my...|||I've thought about the authority figure thing. My best girl friend as well as my uncle are just chomping to give him a piece of their mind. I'm more of a leave it alone and it'll go away person....|||I've had a lot of people ask me that haha.  I think part of it is my desire to own something so...nice. I think it's some sort of validation for me. It also has a lot to do with the fact that I'm...|||Indeed. I'm studying Psychiatric Nursing :D Anything that involves helping others is a solid choice for an ENFJ.|||Psychiatric Nursing|||ENFJ - Nurse|||Any thoughts?  I VERY briefly dated an ENFJ a couple years back. I ended it and he's still shook up about it. References things I said LONG ago, things I did, how I laughed, what I was wearing etc....|||I dated an INFP for about 7 months. We did have a connection, and think we still do in some senses (just not the romantic one), but our relationship since our breakup has been so hot and cold. Seems...|||Just wondering how many of you have kept old cards/love letters/notes from any of your ex's...or even their families.  I've kept EVERYTHING from the time I started dating my first boyfriend up...|||Yeah, I have to agree with Razvan about the criticism thing.  ENFJ's simply just don't like criticizing ANYONE. I know I hate it. No matter if it's constructive or not. An INFP who I was pretty...|||2 - I now own a brand new 2010 Dodge Charger SXT. So SEXY!! 3 - I GOT IN TO THE PSYCH NURSING PROGRAM!! Student loans just came through and I start school on May 2nd! 8 - Jay turned into an...|||Little update: This guy is CONSTANTLY trying to contact me. I'm actually getting really creeped out. He's called me from blocked numbers, emails, texts etc. I finally got a new phone, so he never...|||I can't NOT look people in the eye. I feel like I'm ignoring people if I'm not looking them in the eye when they speak.|||My mom is an ENFJ! We're super close.  When I was a kid, she was mom. Now, she's one of my best friends. :happy:|||Absolutely. That's why this is such a nice change for me. He went for the boobs a bit last night (4th date, really) but I could tell he was hesitant even at this early stage in the game. Super...|||Oh gosh, with guys my own age...I'm lucky if I can kiss for 5 minutes without hands wandering. Even with my ex, we never spent time JUST kissing. It made it all the more special with Nathan because...|||Oh, I was intoxicated all right!  It has been so so long since I just KISSED someone for that length of time without having their hands wander or clothes come off. I missed just kissing so much!  ...|||Hahaha, I kissed him and I will kiss him again and again! He knows I'm not a fan of smoking, and he made a point of having gum. I really couldn't tell the difference. He has good dental hygiene haha.|||That's exactly what my mom said to me before I came home tonight. She said that things are just falling into place so easily already. It has to mean something. You'll marry him one day, Melissa,...|||Thank you! :D I'm seriously so incredibly happy right now. Nothing could pop my bubble!   The chances of all of this coming together like it has, are so slim! Not only him finding my post on...|||that's a lot of rambling! BUT, to make it more discussion orientated, I'll ask a couple questions.  How much is too much of an age gap for dating, in your opinion? Nathan is 13 years older.  And,...|||What are the chances! :proud: I'm just going to copy and paste my posts from another site. I started the thread a couple days ago, so I'll make sure to put *** beside each new post***  So, I`ve...|||I find when I'm talking to strangers on the phone, like telemarketers or something, my voice is a bit higher in pitch than usual. Other than that, I don't really see a difference. I laugh more...|||In the last year, I've definitely become more independent with relationships. The contrast between my last relationship and the relationship I had during grade 12 is incredible. Looking back at my...|||Whether it be a person, your computer, cell phone, substances?  Have you ever recognized that your life revolves too much around something like this and made a conscious decision to either cut it...|||I went to College for my Resident Care Aide diploma. I've been working in nursing homes for 2.5 years now. I did a few pre-nursing courses in University. English, Psychology and Sociology. And NOW,...|||How long have you been together? Are your trust issues deep or superficial?  If you're just engaged, and haven't actually planned a wedding yet, I would really consider taking a step back and...'