'Could you be with someone you love, who loves you back, if they were possibly interested in someone else and also possibly interested in including that someone else in your relationship?|||My treasure Hidden in my chest  Buried deep. They'd dive at me And cut it out If they knew. Make me walk the plank My sins strapped to my ankles, heavy. Hands bound behind my back With...|||Very true for me, unless I'm feeling huggy. I get in moods where I feel anxious and hugging is kinda how I seek comfort, I think. I hug a lot, depending on who I'm with and how much I care for...|||You know you're an ENFJ when: 1. You like the numbered lists. 2. You may have a preference for how many items are on the list based on number favoritism, and will strive to make the list conform to...|||Haha you're way better than me, my friend. My hobo attire follows me to class, the store, work (at my old job where they woudln't fire me for being ew), church activities (that don't take place on...|||I have an INTP man and we've not really run into a situation where he wanted me to leave him alone (yet), but I think I'd understand if he did. It might help if you guys discussed it when it's not a...|||All this talk about sharing has made me wanna share.   Also, Etherea I can't thank your poem for whatever reason, but that was beautiful.  ---- I need to breathe Can’t capture a breath It...|||I tend to shy away from posting old stuff because sometimes it doesn't feel like me anymore. But when I do, it's always kinda fun. Share a bit of who I was in that moment with someone who never knew...|||WanderingLucid  And PS  I really like your poetry, too. You manage to pull a lot of emotion from subtle places. I like it|||Oh my gosh, you are so sweet! Thank you! So much! I'm using a lot of exclamation points! I'll calm down, just a sec. That means a lot to me, really. Thank you again.   And you like Florence! You're...|||I'm kind of an interior design junkie, and I love home decor stuff. I like to work hard to make things beautiful. I enjoy being creative and making something that others like to look at.   However,...|||I know, that's why I can't find anything on it. I'm thinking he was mistaken. Is it possible for an ENFJ to have an Fe-Ne loop?If my Ne is more developed than my Ni?|||Hey guys =)  So I've recently been told that I may be stuck in an Fe-Ne Loop. I've looked for information about an ENFJ being stuck in said loop, but haven't found much. I thought to myself, Why...|||I used to be that way. It wasn't until I told myself that I won't know until I try, as far as being open in a friendship is concerned. Around the same time that I decided not to be so concerned about...|||Inspired but that's less than ten characters, so now you get this little extra bit|||I sometimes doubt because I believe I have a strong P most of the time, and therefore a weak J. And I often feel much more I than I am E. I know I'm a J, it's obvious. And I'm very clearly an E, as...|||I wonder if some of you struggle with detachment as I do. I feel like I don't often miss someone. I miss being with people, because...I'm an E and I like that energy from time to time. But specific...|||I have an internet friend that I've never met in real life, so we've never really exchanged gifts. But for my most recent birthday, he wrote me a letter about how much he appreciates our friendship...|||Lol that's the one question of yours that I wasn't sure how to address. I'm pretty fortunate. I've run into two or three other ENFJ women in your age group. I suppose I could recommend that you come...|||Howdy =) I think y’all INTPs are great, too.   I’m a 20 year old ENFJ and I have three INTP friends. I’m very close to all of them (and because I know such is not always the case, I’ll add that...|||I thought we weren't supposed to give sharp things to emo kids?|||I love when I can finally decide on something that is my favorite. I'm very indecisive and sometimes feel unfair for having favorites, but I get real passionate about silly things like my favorite...|||I typically pick up on how someone likes to be cared for and then give them that kind of care. If someone especially loves praise/compliments, then I speak my mind when thoughts along those lines pop...|||I'd say that Ne is more like a Bubble Wand =) Personal opinion. Great list! =D  http://bellsouthpwp2.net/a/s/aspaster/images/bubble-wand-1.jpg|||Haha no worries, the ENFJ forum can just get kinda slow at times. We tend to stay pretty busy.   I like your profile. But I've been told by both of the INTP males that I associate with that I like...|||Whenever I type a friend as an S, I tell them it stands for Super powers. I love all the stuff that they care about that I don't. It provides for interesting casual conversation because they will...|||I used to get frustrated sometimes as a kid and would want to just take whatever I was holding and chuck it. Or would think up something that I thought was clever and mean and want to say it. It's...|||Hmm. I have an INTP and we've grown pretty close. Really, close, actually. And I'm sometimes put off by his... INTPness. He'll seem to grow cold, or push me away when he decides that we're too close...|||When a friend tells you, I fight with all of my friends. I've been angry with all of them at least once. Except you. I've never been mad at you, ever, in all the years I've known you. What kind of...|||I can tune people out when I really just need to drop everything and figure something out, but it's difficult, and without shutting down, I can't work problems out as easily as I'd like to. And...|||22,700. Seems about average for my grouping. Just makes me wanna read more and take it again, though =)|||Haha hi! Welcome! Have you taken the Cognitive Functions Quiz we have here? Might show you where your levels are and help fortify your results from whichever MBTI test you took =) Or was it...|||I had been trying to figure out a way to say what you said in your  opening statement, but the words wouldn't come to me. You're wonderful,  and I agree completely. Gotta make him feel safe.   And...|||Hmm I experience this kind of thing most often when I read, and I kind of have to fight the way the emotion makes me ... I dunno, it's kinda like I start to think like my characters. I get pulled...|||I do get wrapped up in others sometimes and may find it hard to balance.   That bit about ensuring him you like his company... =) That's good. I often feel like I'm bothersome or unwanted around...|||Hmm, I know I can be inconsistent at times. I dunno that I'd ever be hot and cold with someone though. I focus on making people feel comfortable. Even with my closest friends and family, who I feel...|||Like a child who'll never grow up With shadows sewn to his shoes I stitch my soul into my clothes- Keep it close. Remind it that I'm warm And familiar Never grow shockingly cold  Or coldly...|||When you go to the gym and fall off of the treadmill... twice. And laugh at yourself for the remainder of your visit, and on the way home, and tell everyone about it, and post about it on Facebook......|||I have an INTJ father, and two INTJ friends and I love 'em all. I'm really fond of NT (so maybe that's where INTJs and I have the most in common lol) and you Scientists are good people, in my book. I...|||These are fantastic questions, and I've really been wondering about them lately. Thanks Jawz =) I dunno if I have any answers. But I have my thoughts thus far, pulled from introspection.   1. Why...|||You guys make me happy. I see your pictures and smile, and your comments make me feel right at home. Been away for a bit, and I missed this. You guys are just fantastic.|||mir  =) You just type their name as it appears on their profile, with the @ before it, no spaces and that tags them in a post   I'm glad I could be helpful    Exactly. I have an ENFJ friend...|||mir I agree with and relate to a lot of what Jawz and KC said. And I struggle with expressing my thoughts and opinions just as you described it.  I get very frustrated when someone asks my opinion...|||I have an ENFJ friend who has a crisis of morals and isn’t sure what the “right thing”  is. She’s kind of gotten involved with a coworker who’s been married a few times and doesn’t share her...|||Not exactly an ENFJ poster, but I think it may still be applicable:   27935|||Gah, these videos are amazing! Speeches, Slam Poetry, dancing, movie clips, inspiring songs, and Star Wars. I think this is my new favorite thread!   ...|||Poor quality, but it grabbed me and didn't let go.   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWUtywfwsMw&feature=related|||Dove's Onslaught Commercial   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=epOg1nWJ4T8  And there was a commercial made in the same format called Onslaught(er) which reprimands Dove for it's Palm Oil...|||penguinfrk  http://www.motivationals.org/demotivational-posters-3/demotivational-poster-69333.jpg|||What Am I Doing?    I never know what I’m doing.    Why don’t I ever know what I’m doing?   It’s not like I’m missing parts.   I’ve got everything I need to figure it out.   But, still, it’s...'