'I have always liked drawing. I sometimes like to draw really ugly people. It's interesting. But beauty makes me cheerful though. Beautiful sceneries, architecture, art. Nature. I don't know if this...|||Someone expresses their love for me and I,  thinking that love is a waste of time because I don't see us as a good match in the future (Ni), become a jerk. :rolleyes:|||I usually think I am, because ever since I was a toddler, I heard people talk about things that were obvious. It seemed like things were not obvious to those people, so I would be surprised, even at...|||Hi everybody :happy:! What are your thoughts about the phenomenon of gossiping? I think it's mostly boring and unnecessary. Although I sometimes enjoy it if I'm finding about an unexpected story, I...|||What if marriage is a social construct and Married at first sight fails because of that reason?|||I can only speak for myself. To me, I take pride in the INTJ-badge. Having been criticized from the moment I was acknowledged for being smart by kids, my family and acquaintances alike, it feels...|||My development is the same. I was a pro at sarcasm, got into trouble for it,  and then I felt it to be a bit passive aggressive.|||I think ENTP + INTJ must be a marvelous pairing, although I have never been in a relationship with an ENTP.|||I think her behaviour is quite low, and if people follow her lead, they are even worse low lives. I don't know them, but I know this type of person and their thinking level is quite primitive.|||I quite agree, although I think not everybody is trying to undermine people who stand out. I think that most groups have a few gate keepers who feel justified to bully people that stand out, because...|||A lot of people state that they use sarcasm, but not a passive aggressive style of communicating. However, I found some sourced on google who found sarcasm to be a form of passive aggression. Is it?...|||dafuq :shocked:|||You assign meaning to my words. It's an efficient answer. I could write a long story that would come of as more sympathetic, but the message would be the same.   It could be the case that a person...|||How do you feel about using sarcasm and/ or being passive aggressive in normal conversation? I have used those communication styles in conversations I had in the past, but found that people did not...|||Honestly, all kinds of people have shown interest. And I have shown interest in a great variety of people as well. I do think introverts like me better than extraverts in general.|||Furthering social harmony and profiting from being seen as nice.|||I have little empathy as well, because I cannot put myself in the shoes of somebody like that. But I do sympathize.|||I probably wouldn't really retire until there's no other way, just like my gramps, who kept working on his business into his 90s. He is a great rolemodel to me :happy: .|||Someone who complements me I think. An extraverted person or a socially succesful introvert, who looks great (not gonna lie). And is not scared of my opinions and my rants of thoughts, but is able to...|||I'm the bassist of a band that is rising in popularity as we speak. I love being on stage. At first, it was hard. But now I have one clear purpose on stage; entertaining the public, by all means...|||I think that groupthink causes mankind to celebrate its greatest victories (inventions after inventions, discoveries after discoveries) as well as its greatest evils (war, bullying, animal cruelty).|||Funny, I had a similar experience. In my Princeton guide to dinosaurs, it clearly states that birds are dinosaurs. So I said this to a a fellow student after a lecture. She just did not believe it,...|||I think this vapid idol worshipping and mindless following of the cultus of celebrities is better than worshipping and blindly following something more dangerous, like an evil dictator. Still, I...|||A small village in a winter wonderland.|||Thank you Ermenegildo, I never looked at it like that. So, if I understand correctly, their behaviour could be a sign of empathy. I witnessed that the ENFJ's that I know are very specific about who...|||Hey everyone :happy:, I am an INTJ and I have a question about some things. I know 2 ENFJ's. I find them difficult to understand, there might be a possibility that they are unhealthy. But they...|||I think some success will cascade into more and more success for me. I may get tired of people and then I may start pushing people away. But I am determined to not repeat mistakes like that :happy:.|||The unthinkable has happened. I developed a crush on an ESFJ I often come across.  -This person is in a relationship with somebody else -This person's  way of thinking is entirely different from...|||I'm a bit ambivalent about love. It is something I eventually strive for and hope that it will get on my pad. On the other hand, I am currently not interested in it at all. Because of past...|||For myself, I prefer written messages, because I read faster than I listen.  But, as most people aren't like this, and won't follow written language (most people just don't read letters and...|||I think it's nature. I've always been introverted and thoughtful, just like my grandpa before me.|||I don't know how to deal with it. People in groups are often irrational and biased. One on one, they seem susceptible to logic, but in herds, they forget about logic. So tell me when you find out....|||Pervasive groupthink|||-Try to be properly groomed (don't know if you're allready doing that) -Pay attention to what is being said in conversations. Say something once in a while in a group of people to show      1) that...|||My question is fairly simple. Sometimes I have a vision, a good idea. But this idea is blocked. Not by logic, but my emotions; people are feeling that I may be too strong or something. Especially a...|||I did not like about a third of my teachers, I did not care for about half of them and the rest of them I found to be really kind :happy:. I usually thought of them as some kind of babysitters (Why...|||Stupid, but harmless fun- thread.|||I'm disciplined about diet and exercise, especially diet. I am interested in food :happy: and the nutritional value of food items. Lately, I've been exercising rather lightly, but I have to get off...|||I would advise not to generalise like this. I know 2 INTJ girls. One is selfish and sneaky. The other is lovely, witty and funny. Both look very feminine.|||Say Hi, find out what kind of science major she is doing, be interested in that (even if you have to force yourself) and go talk to her about that. Perhaps ask that question you mentioned and be...|||l|||a|||Yes. Caesar!|||1) Tried it once, when a friend invited me to play. My team won, but I just kept running into the enemy, because I did not know what I was doing. Afterwards, one of the other people was whining that...|||I know some people who play League of Legends. Whenever I watch them play or watch excerpts of the game, I always find the game to be completely random. The characters, their abilities, the art style...|||I like building railways in Minecraft. I'm not sure if that counts...:tongue:. I have always liked strategy games in which one builds and improves a (historical) city. Making it flourish and...|||Put people with aspergers and people who test as an intj under a CT-scan and find out.|||No offence, but he sounds terrible :crazy:.|||Yutyrannus, a huge feathered dinosaur.  http://www.earthintransition.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Feathered-dinosaur-yutyrannus-1-040512_thumb.jpg|||http://vignette1.wikia.nocookie.net/walkingwith/images/8/8d/WWBBook_Macrauchenia.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20140111084535  Macrauchenia'