Inspired by a recent book club thread here on the forums I thought perhaps we could unite in goodreads. Having more INFP friends on goodreads seems like it would help me discover more books I may...|||I'll join :)|||Breakfast: Oatmeal with apple chunks, vanilla extract and cinnamon, topped with honey, ground flax and chia seeds  Snack: Boost Vanilla pudding with All Bran Maple cheerios.  Lunch: Whole wheat...|||Susie left her home around midnight the night before the big storm. Hellfire was all there was. Huge flames dipping into the ocean like the nails of her birth mother. She was sworn to secrecy when...|||Hang on, I completed an SDI (Sexual Desire Inventory) questionnaire at one point.  My solitary desire score was 18/40 (or 45%) - includes things like desire for masturbation, fantasy and...|||Ya.|||Neil Gaiman Brom Rene Denfeld (for the one debut novel that's so well written I want to tear my eyes out) Isaac Asimov is shooting up the ranks Friedrich Durrenmatt for his plays Pablo Neruda,...|||If it helps, I have no clue how it happens either. I think you just have to participate or hang out in groups for an extended period of time. You have greater chances of picking up dirt if you're...|||I keep finding myself in situations where things somehow don't work out and the other person gets hurt which makes me feel awful (maybe I'm just easy to guilt-trip..). Now I find myself shying away...|||My stomach has been a bit upside down lately due to  illness so my diet has been drastically different for the past 4 months.  For some reason I really like bland food. Things like salted tops and...|||I like to be motivated by being left alone.  (also I understood nothing but the last line of the OP so idk if my answer is relevant)|||This is really good advice!|||I'd brace myself for the social hell, possibly detach myself from the affected community and hope that it won't affect any of my future endeavors. Just thinking about this makes me nauseous because...|||About a Boy (the show not the movie)  Merlin  Doctor Who  World's Strictest Parents (don't ask why, the transformations always get to my mushy heart)  Avatar: The Last Airbender and|||So do you like him or not?  Because he already thinks you want to date him, so that ship has sailed. If you want him to stop tell him very bluntly to stop, because I don't think anything less will...|||Yeah, be direct, the more awkward the better. INFPs are one of the first to appreciate honesty (especially honesty of feelings) and the last to judge for feeling whatever you're feeling.   If you...|||Alignment: Lawful Good ----- XXXXXXXXXXXXX (13) Neutral Good ---- XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX (20) Chaotic Good ---- XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX (15) Lawful Neutral -- XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX (20) True Neutral ----...|||I usually write poetry, not fiction but there are a few short snippets I've jotted down when I felt up to it. I'll see if I can find some.  Here's one:      Sketch 3       Bobby met Princey on...|||Authenticity is HUGE for INFPs so speaking your mind would probably be both appreciated and intriguing. Alongside that is being open-minded and open to discussion; it's not about winning, it's about...|||I have a love hate relationship with spiders. My primitive brain freaks out at the sight of a spider. They definitely make me uneasy and I would never purposely touch one. HOWEVER I don't have the...|||Fi: An extensive knowledge of my internal emotional life. Knowing how things feel, why I feel things, how I can navigate these feelings and what their consequences are. Basically an intuitive sense...|||Well look at it this way. Fi is all about prioritizing and sorting values based on how things make us feel. So yes, we're definitely self-centered, but that doesn't mean that those values don't serve...|||You might want to focus on giving yourself all those things you'd like to have from other people. Instead of striving to get other's respect and have other people care about your needs and problems,...|||I have to admit, there's a lot of joy in using your Ne to play around and create something with no practical purpose in mind.  You're an artisanYou feel happiest when you are  completely engaged...|||Mine are ISTP (father) and ISTJ (mother) as far as I can tell|||I'm resurrecting this thread because I want to hear more :D  I can spin pens and drumstick through my fingers, I've learned a bit of glow stringing, I've leaned to read tarot cards, I can whistle...|||No type necessarily comes to mind. Every type has different challenges but I believe with maturity and a willingness to make it work on both sides, any type can be a pleasant surprise.  That being...|||I get along with INFPs INTJs, INFJs and ENFJs.INTPs are also fun to hang out and have conversations with but I've never had one as a close friend. I'm also sure if ENFPs could calm down a little, I'd...|||same, although my best friend affectionately calls me a poopsicle when that happens :P|||You definitely should disclose your intentions. Just don't overwhelm her. If she's been speaking to you over a dating site and agreed to meet in person, obviously she knew that there was a chance you...|||I was actually a pretty horrible person at the time so I don't know about that..|||*cracks knuckles* hold my juice box.   gay bi dude loner loser goth emo|||I got INFP|||I'm stuck between INFJ and INFP there are points that are contradictory to each type though.  But that's not important. He seems extremely insecure and immature. If I was in your place I'd drop the...|||All in a day's work :P  And usually any time someone mentions something I'm majorly procrastinating on, they just end up giving me an unnecessary dose of stress which makes me avoid the task more...|||People usually make me stubborn instead of motivated. You'd have to go at it from a different angle.  INFPs are very responsive to the personal value of something, so you have to increase the...|||Johannes Cabal: The Necromancer by Jonathan L. Howard  It's about a guy who sold his soul to the devil in order to study necromancy but asks for it back because not having a soul is messing with...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MjlSvtivLP0  This is the ultimate melancholy song. (I don't know if it's been mentioned already, it seems very likely)|||I almost stepped on a bus to get to a meeting before deciding that I felt way too sick and turning around to go back home. :bored:|||No idea. They're definitely great as friends but there's a lot of variation within the INTJ group. I've never been in a relationship with one so idk how things would change in that situation but I...|||It depends on the person (I'm assuming you mean romantic attraction). If the person seems into me and I like them back, I wouldn't flirt, but I wouldn't try to hide it either. I will generally try to...|||I have not read all the comments left here because I really should b studying right now, so I'll make some pointers quickly (if you have any questions or need clarification I shall answer them later...|||It wasn't a very deep friendship and I recognized in him a state of mind that I had been in quite a few times where I would lose perspective of how much the relationship really served me and try way...|||I should add that I had a major depression relapse when I shut out the INFJ I was talking about. Granted, even after I made it out of that I didn't talk to him again. It wasn't the only factor, but...|||Regarding that I just ended up clashing horribly with an ENFP approxiamtely two days ago, I'd say that there's a huge difference between ENFPs and INFPs. I think it also has a lot to do with the...|||Both INTJs and INFPs share Fi, which may make it easier. In this case it would be the INFP who may need to restrain themselves. But INTJs have great communication skills when it counts so it eases...|||Interesting you should mention the age of a friendship. I find it doesn't work like that. One of the INFJs that came on too strongly at one point was my sister. I find it has more to do with how...|||Ah, to be honest I think that was just a feeling break. INFPs don't really talk and feel at the same time. If they do try to express something they're feeling in the moment, it's usually with more...|||Hey there,   A lot of the things you mention sort of anecdotal things that have been generalized to an entire personality type.  First of all, INFPs are also said to be perfectionists about some...|||You may be coming on too strong or getting attached to them too quickly. We're very perceptive of another person's attachment or dependence level towards us and it freaks us out big time. Completely...