'I'm not sure, maybe as was said she just thinks you would get along with her sister? Maybe also if she does not want a relationship but wants to know you it is safer to spend time with you with a...|||I think that doing things you know you are good at, and giving yourself credit for it could help.  Like ArcaneSW20 said, be in your comfort zone a bit, but then try to expand out of it, and...|||I agree with some of the other sentiments, that trying to do something concrete and binding before you leave might not be the best approach. I think there are ways to express how you feel, without...|||Happy. Slightly hung-over.  I little light stress over the homework I ought to do right now.|||I just realized I send <3's to most of my close friends, but never ever to the boy I like, despite the fact that I've told him how much I love everyone. It is interesting how feelings of affection...|||Just spend time with him, I suppose?|||I think my fear of commitment comes partially from staying in relationships that don't work for me, and knowing I do that, so not wanting to start them. Also, though, it is like, if we are formally...|||Leaving the house helps me.  A small gathering of the right people would help me, too, I think. Not anything big.|||Oh yeah, all of those too.|||The ones I know are intelligent, sensitive, sweet, insightful and quirky. The one I am crushing so hard on is very considerate. He compensates for my fear with his understanding.|||Can I really have an honest, unscared, maybe-romance with this boy? He was sweet and reassuring in response to my fear, and I feel much better, secure in the fact that we are connected, and that we...|||I missed the conversation, and am too tired to find it, but the last paragraph seemed so wise. I just want to add that falling apart is almost essential to growth, because in falling apart, you are...|||I like them. I feel like they need a lot of low-level reassurance/acknowledgement. When I am well I find them very easy to get along with and keep happy. When I am tired, or unhappy, the energy to...|||Yeah. It makes it harder to make friends, for sure, and I worry about looking strange to them. What I've been learning, though, is that the more you do what you love to do, the more you find people...|||I am afraid of commitment, and also get jealous, so I pretty much just have to not date.|||I was very manipulative before I became conscious of it. Especially in relationships. I would make boys so insecure that I felt I could completely control them, and then get mad at them for being so...|||I just want to talk to everyone about this boy, and I know  to some extent I am using it is a way to avoid the things I don't want to face in my life. Also, I worry that I am just repeating my...|||It is perfectly reasonable to grieve such an event. Just because you know those sorts of things happen, and that it may be for the best, does not mean that you will not be emotionally affected by the...|||I am sorry. That sounds very frustrating. Being in a job where you feel undervalued, and disrespected is rough. I hope that something very fantastic comes up.|||My Dad is INFP, so if I really need an Fi fix, we can usually have a good talk. Dating an INTP, though, the Fi was much missed. I don't think it is a necessity for a relationship, but there is just...|||I put INFP and ENFP, INFJ, ENFJ, INTP, ENTP, and ESFP. I used to really love INTJs, but recently we have not been connecting. I used to have major problem with strong Fe users, but after a long...|||Okay, I am awake enough to give you more info, now.   This boy and I spent some time together last spring, and I had a crush on him, but suppressed it, because I was already in a relationship. I...|||bigotry Food that is too sweet When people are mean|||How old are you? I've found getting involved in my college community helps.  I don't even realize I am heading to the bathroom half the time. I just go into overload and end up there.|||Is this statistic listed somewhere, or did you just do the math? If you did the math, do you have the number of posts that have received thanks, or just the raw number of thanks (Which include...|||When I was a kid there was always somebody in my head watching and judging me. It was a source of inspiration. No more. Sometimes it feels odd, uninspired, but I am healthier this way. (tonight I am...|||I've been maybe five times. I don't like them because I don't dance, shouldn't drink, get overwhelmed in crowds, and enjoy quiet, one on one conversation. I usually find that I retreat to the...|||So hard, guys. I don't even know what to do. I just got out of something long. I need to be single, but the intensity is crazy-making. I've been with Fe users for years, and I feel like I've been...|||I guess I meant the relationship you are already in with her, just by being two people relating to each-other. I really don't know why men do that, though, so I've no way to make insight into your...|||I feel like fictional characters often get advantages of many functions, without the associated disadvantages. Sherlock is super-human, and maybe a type just doesn't fit him?|||That is a tough question. I am sure it goes back to insecurity. If I knew you better, maybe I could analyze the specific cause. I think the best advice I have is not to let yourself say that. When...|||I have pretty much the same advice, which is find a therapist you like, and can speak to. Good luck. Be as well as you can be <3|||Part of caring is genuinely paying attention to other people, determining what they need, and acting on that. There is no blanket way to care for everyone.  Some hints of types of behaviors that...|||I can't pull off FWB, but it always seems like it would be a really practical, simple situation. It just ends up more complicated when it comes to actually living it.|||I don't know you, but it seems like confidence is definitely a big issue that you have. I don't know if you do this, but I wouldn't talk to girls about the difficulty you usually have in...|||All of this talk about the sorts of attachments INTP's do, or rather don't, have in relationships is startling to me.  I've dated a few, and they seem rather attached. Sometimes more than I am. There...|||Tired, anxious. Worn out. Lonely. Loving. I need to do my homework. I just want to connect with people.|||I try to forgive as soon as I can. This is harder, if the person is my significant other, because I am worried about being re-wounded. I think it is possible to forgive someone, love them (anyone,...|||In a lot of ways life gets better after high-school, because you move out of your parents and become more self-sufficient, and in control of your own fate. I wouldn't be afraid to look for college's...|||How old are you? Could you take college classes in it, or just participate in communities that are into it? Maybe doing really well, and having it recognized by a group could help your confidence.  ...|||Okay, so just reoccurring, obsessive thoughts, like dwelling on the badness that happened between you? I guess I would try to assess what sorts of feelings, or expectations you still have of the...|||I've heard INFJ's complain of getting stuck in inferior function modes where images, tastes, or feelings are assaulting them. Other times they get very sensual. My sister practically molests her...|||Autistic Spectrum disorder really changes the way that a person takes in information and learns. If you just found out it means your learning opportunities have not been tailored for you your whole...|||Morbid how? Any compulsion to follow through on things?  It seems like you may have some generalized depression, too, just based on the way you phrased managing your duties. It seems like you are...|||I am currently taking a class called Species, Sex, Gender and Science Fiction We've read Frankenstein and The Island of Dr. Moreau. The teacher is painting a pretty strong connection between the...|||I had to do this. I was posting in the ones for INTx's and it just felt unfair.  I would say our tendency to over-analyze the emotional reactions people will have or have had to our behavior, or...|||Wangari Maathai MBTI ... No luck|||Good job on three months =-) It sounds like you've had some realizations since your relapse, which is good. Good luck with AA and with life =-)|||Arrogance, I suppose. Maybe a combination of the two. I feel like I've met some who do not respect others enough to consider what they are saying seriously enough to take it as evidence against their...|||I feel like they can sometimes suffer from paralyzing inaction, as a result of the fact that the ideals/standards they hold themselves, and their actions to cannot be met.   Also, arrogance.  ...'