'Please, don't take photos of mundane, everyday moments that you'll forget anyway. In twenty years, it won't matter to you, or to the people you're with now. You'll even forget you have the photos. If...|||Another friend watched HTTYD2 today and was thrilled to tell me how my body language and personality almost exactly resemble Hiccup's. Made me overjoyed since a) hey, who doesn't enjoy having a...|||It sounds like the thing that prevents people from doing new things. Whenever this or that happens to me and I think back on it, it feels like being afraid of feeling happy.  “It is a risk to love....|||If I zoned out screens before sleep and started to write my dreams down, I'd be able to learn to have lucid dreams.  But do I want to?|||Although I'm an amateur photographer (side job, still studying), so my problem and a solution to it will have different forms in other fields, I'll try to be as general as possible.  How do you...|||To me it feels like you create too much pressure on yourself. You think about how great you should be, how you should impress her, how you should to most of the work. Exploring a romantic interest is...|||Everybody looks like they're already doing their thing, having their social circle, living their life. And I'm just sitting here, being consumed by envy and feelings of incompetence. I've always...|||It's been a while since I've come here. I've been at home for the past two weeks, more or less - no school, just finals, no one has the time to be with me or do anything worthwhile. After exams...|||An INFP friend of mine told me that she has been called desultory (is that a word? it popped up in the translator), she has to switch places and people often, otherwise she gets bored or depressed...|||I've seen lots of different INFPs - punk dudes, metalheads, girly girls, hipsters, weirdos, hippies; and even though I understand why we would be often associated with a bohemian lifestyle, it's...|||it's oddly comforting to visit this place every once in a while. hi, you quirky angels.|||I've been creating and I have a Tumblr blog now (it's as close to a proper portfolio website as I'm willing to go for now) and you might like it, if you look. And if you're Tumblr-positive, by...|||I apologize in advance for not being able to give you an idea, but I really have just an example that I think is very appealing - thatgamecompany (yes, it's actually called like that), the creators...|||I use my left hand for the spoon, sticks, pingpong and tennis, pen, holding stuff, can't think about others now. But I play the guitar, use the mouse and do other such things the way most people do....|||I've been kind of an ass recently, leaving listening at home and talking with people just for the sake of talking. Mishandling of reaching out to people. I forgot who I am. Need to step it up.|||Exactly.  This whole today's culture thing is just ridiculous. It's simple to figure out, once you watch TV or look at internet news for a while. In each part of history, you have the majority and...|||everywhere I go these days, I just see friggin' EnneaType Twos. Is there -anyone- out there that's interesting and fun to be around, but doesn't need to get married or have kids to feel happy?|||She's avoiding me. Definitely. No, maybe she just doesn't have time. Of course! But she still doesn't seem interested in being with me. But she said that thing about the... Are you sure that...|||One guy at a party recently asked me if I have any vices. The reason was that we were talking about substances like drugs and alcohol and taking turns telling everybody what guilty pleasures we have....|||Because of loneliness, I'm becoming a slave of my fantasies again.|||Holy shit! I didn't know this existed! Thank you so much!|||Now that's keeping it oldschool, no matter what. Check around if some old, bitter person doesn't have a jammer or something (which would be completely paradoxical, but funny nonetheless).|||I think we may be awkward on the outside and in our manners, but most of it is sincere, I just want to be with you and be interested in you and make you feel comfortable stuff, which is definitely...|||For the past few years, I've always been unconsciously measuring every person's worth against one another and making decisions heavily based on that. I'm concerned about it, not because of other...|||This is what I tell other INFPs a lot about - any am trying to work it out myself as well.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FlODxIJ2Hnw|||Do you ever start talking to someone and then find out that they put out a vibe so strong that you find yourself trembling with excitement, hungry with wanting to get to know this person more, hoping...|||I'm becoming more sarcastic and pinchy recently, almost like an INTP. I like it, but it may bring me sour looks and a potential slap in the face.|||My advice: do both at the same time. I'm pretty sure every university that's worth something has some kind of a student exchange programme. Sign up, choose a place you like, or just close your eyes...|||The concept of intelligence is weird for me. Or maturity, I don't know what to call it. People tell me that I'm more mature than people my age they know, that I've figured out things they have not....|||For me, it's so far worked like this - there may be a initial sympathy or antipathy based on looks, but it doesn't matter as much as people think it does, BECAUSE the more you know someone, the more...|||You mean curious and inquiring like she wants to see your soul? I always have that feeling around her that she's deep and unreachable, and if I don't watch out then yes, I sometimes start to think...|||Holy shit I'm in Norway!  I'm staying for a whole semester, and it's exhausting, frightening, colorful, different, raw and so so beautiful, because I choose it to be.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VvRVu78IHHo  So what's the point in getting your hopes up When all you're ever getting is choked up When you're coked up And can't remember the reason why you...|||DUDE. It felt like I could have written that post. I haven't read Dune, android sci-fi and other classics, but I'm slowly digging through the Witcher saga, to fill the blanks after I watched the...|||You keep telling me that you don't know how to help me. That I always have a problem, and that I'm never satisfied with myself. And you admitted that you don't know how that feels, that you don't...|||Yes, you probably are undervaluating your bright, smart, witty, sharp-tongued, cynical, sexy self into something less because you're afraid of loneliness, dissaproval and emptiness. Maybe you didn't...|||Pretty much the same here. Sometimes it bugs me that I don't know what happened in the most famous books, but the same goes for TV shows and such, so it doesn't feel that bad. What interests me the...|||Do you guys have a thing when you know that if you wanted to, you could sit somewhere, anywhere, look at it all, try to take EVERYTHING in (shapes of buildings, touch of leaves and bark, smell of a...|||I love it when people show how imperfect and broken and vulnerable and real they are.|||Fellow artsy INFPs, I'd like to ask for your help on this one. This is a friend of mine, she's an INFP, and I'm stuck with how I can take a portrait of her that would really show her personality in a...|||Yeah, I'll have to remember to do that, instead of being quiet. Thanks for your time. :)|||I guess you're right, I was mostly speaking from my own bad experience with people's low proficiency with emotions and empathy, which makes them (and me) too cold, pushy or stubborn. What I need in...|||It's probably been a few years since I've genuinely bought someone a gift from my own resources. It's weird - I don't like receiving gifts, so I don't give them either. But I'd probably give them...|||I've photographed some INFPs. Does that count? http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7439/9272925851_aafa4f3d21.jpg  http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7315/9196660517_fae8aa9eab.jpg ...|||start with this, and go from there. when I experience those states, I often feel like an idiot for needlessly feeling that way, when I can be doing something more productive or fulfilling, but it's...|||Yup, same with the leaving for a while to let stuff happen and then get back for more thing here. Except I love to meet new people, to look for that something, but definitely not in a direct way.|||Yeah, I agree with that, I can see it in myself. Also the fear tends to materialize itself when you find out that after a certain point, people start to get boring, at least for me. Like they stop...|||this. THIS. why does this happen?|||77374'