'I'm shocked at the level of insight and perspective you just hashed out. I have to ponder on it more... you sound like you're onto something, especially given that 3s are ACTIVE, success driven...|||How do you stay motivated in life? How do you actually apply yourself and not just observe/stare at a wall all day thinking? Do you struggle with any of these?  Help :laughing:|||Man. I'm sorry I am not old enough to have a legit viewpoint. I'll try to remain close to my age in thinking so I don't upset your stereotype.   So you are telling me that it's my fault because...|||Taking a philosophy course..... haha and it's not clear cut like that, at all. From what I've read, culture you grow up in has a massive impact on people's perception of right and wrong. Take Donald...|||I always find people who think like this, that relationships are trapping to them haven't really matured yet. And I do not mean that as an insult, but it's saying I don't want to care, or have...|||I was saying in general, not everyone. Ofcourse there would be thin people who worried about their weight anyway. But from experience, thin people (naturally thin) DO NOT worry as much as heavier...|||I'm surprised at all the INFJs here saying they are better off alone. I thought we thrived off of emotional connection? Especially when it comes to sex. When we are alone there's none of that.|||I feel like this is an obscure question because although an INFJ is more prone to eating healthy (it's our Se, and desire for perfectionism and so on) this question has a lot more to do with...|||Says the INTJ :laughing:|||I find ENTPs attractive (I think it's the intelligence side that's a breath of fresh air...and much more) but damn this thread, and finally your comment, opened my eyes to be cautious with any ENTP...|||I just bursted out laughing, thanks for the laugh.|||I'm not sure if I agree totally, because.. it still doesn't fit.. I can't see him ignoring/cutting off communication as a sign...he needs his space, but rather lack of interest... I'd have to wait...|||No, my thing was that he was taking space and not talking anyway... yet claimed he had affections. This totally throws me a curve ball because shouldn't someone with Fe, especially an ISFJ be wanting...|||530674530682530690   Just my face! (taken last night) :proud:. P.s. these pictures aren't my resting face, I look aloof or intense....like someone shot my dog, or I'm ready to shoot someone elses'...|||Oh golly, well I have a question for you ISFJs... as lovely as you are I have an issue with one!   So, I met a male ISFJ a few months back, we talked endlessly.. and he said he shared with me...|||Okay, so one of (I am assuming a lot of INFJs have this too) the problems I have is I procrastinate, I do not mean for an hour... I can procrastinate for an entire damn year... It is so...|||To cut to the chase, I use to be extremely... empathetic to the point I would do anything for my worst enemy. I've lost friends that were like siblings to me, and got into an abusive/controlling...|||I flirt with sarcasm, if he can take it and dish it back... that's my ultimate paradise right there.|||Very goofy. I am different though, I can be goofy everywhere in any situation, and it can be me being witty and sarcastic which is unfortunate because I've had people assume I'm on some sort of power...|||I find this puzzling, why do I have to be dating an ISTP for them to care about my happiness?  And you're right, I doubt we will be friends much longer... he shifts every time we talk, some days...|||Not besides that, and telling me he wants to speak with me throughout the day, but obviously doesn't actually do it. Along those lines.|||Exactly why one of the reasons it doesn't add up. I would never ignore someone's text for day(s).|||@Glyphs  Woah, Okay. We're not dating because it wouldn't be wise to do so. And I care for him, but this ^ as I mentioned above is like contradictory to me. I never need space from those I care...|||He's an ISTP, and an 8w7 and I'm an INFJ 6w5.   He often needs alone time, and if we ever get into a disagreement he needs space again. Recently we went a week without speaking because of a...|||I've come really close to an ISTP male friend of mine. I know, danger....... but I don't want to discredit a relationship/friendship just over him being an ISTP.  But I'm running into problems......|||Thanks for the input. I'll look into it :kitteh:.  As someone with anxiety, yeah I remain that it's offensive but I did not mean that in a way where I'm mad at you. Or that you're stupid. Rather,...|||Just because enneagram teaches such a thing doesn't mean it is the truth. Having anxiety I find it very offensive and I have seen others be offended because their family says the same thing. I have...|||That's an interesting take on how someone gather's energy. ESTP makes more sense maybe I'm completely wrong about ENTP.   About the ESFJ or ENFJ for colette you're right she does that but the...|||It's quiet offensive what you said. It's blaming the individual for their own fears because all they have to do is simply ignore it.|||I do that, the character feels like it has the same fingerprint it's so damn closely relatable.|||.|||There is no similarities at all to an ISTP. He could be an ESTP though. He's extroverted because an introvert would get exhausted by how much is going on in their family yet he's still running around...|||That's just a terrible answer. :laughing: If only.|||My point was how do you live without fear being the reason behind your actions? For Ps and CPs this will look differently so I was trying to give a precise example so someone wouldn't say face your...|||I also wanted to add that Collette being an Enneagram 2, she could come off similar to an ESFJ because of that alone. Therefore be an ENFJ that has Enneagram that looks like an ESFJ. Does that make...|||Shay totally agree, I just learned about enneagram and totally thought Shay was a 7 and Collette was a 2 (the relationship description for a 7 and a 2 is identical to them so that confirms it) ...|||CPs and Ps deal with anxiety equally, yes. They deal with it differently which is I stated how do you not REACT out of fear? The common remedy for anxiety is to do that which causes you anxiety.....|||I suffer from anxiety that's pretty bad, to the point of mental illnesses. I can't even leave my home some days. As we all know type 6's are the anxious type, more anxious than the rest. Phobics how...|||I feel you. Articulation comes so damn easy for them, by that I mean when they DO explain something it's like silk. I'll be over here forever jealous. :unsure:|||Yes I do. MBTI is just a form of explaining people but it only goes to a certain point.   As for this site, I treat it like fun :laughing: it's so damn amazing to be able to communicate with people...|||Ah I feel like I'm intruding but I'ma post anyway :kitteh:  1. Tarzan 2. Hunger Games Catching Fire 3. Mulan 4. Lord of The Rings 5. Harry Potter  6. Little Mermaid  7. X-men movies  8....|||Those things you listed make me really happy too. It's hard to say if it's an INFJ thing or an enneagram thing... or both. Enneagram 5's (which is your wing and my wing) feel satisfied when they...|||Or you could you have an addiction to self-control :wink:|||This is what should be in modern art galleries.|||I would say so. INFJs form deep bonds and things that mean a lot or help us it's very hard to let go.   There's tools out there such that can help. I haven't found that one thing that has just...|||Booyah! Lottery sounds like extreme fun.|||I-see-ghosts 183930      wylielise 183938|||183906 working on a Harry Potter piece. It's taking awhile for me to finish it since I don't know what it is.. but I'm not enjoying the process.|||Your serious and respectful input is refreshing. I have to prepare to be insulted multiple times before I get to a non-insulting post. Found it! :kitteh:|||All the time.  Right now I'm trying to find that spark so I can do things with passion. I hate the boring ol' life. :rolleyes:'