'Eisbrecher! Glad to see them here :) Listening to Blue Stahli :D  https://youtu.be/t7OKs-zqxXA|||My fellow INFJ S.O. likes this also, we like the lyrics :)  https://youtu.be/l9VFg44H2z8|||So our second function, Fe, I'd like to ask/discuss. I've found some people say Extraverted Feeling feels fake to them, like someone just trying to soothe the crowd and appease people.  I think to...|||LOL yep! :)|||:)|||http://youtu.be/MRKz3bl178w|||I wondered if I'm alone in this or not. It is like I can close my eyes and see that the fabric of reality is completely fake and all things are energy. The older I get the better I get at 'seeing'. I...|||Still good advice, I was reading it in general going YES.|||The difference between I-inside out/your inner world of ideas and impressions or E-outer world of things and people (in regards to MBTI) is just where you orient your energy, because of popular...|||There are a lot of mistyped INFJ's online. That's why imo. Not that people are trying to be but they are confused about what MBTI means, and also agree with someone else that said more are online,...|||Of course the official test is better but barring that, what the strength of the pci or your scores mean is how sure you are or not of what you prefer. MBTI is all about preference, everyone does...|||That's actually really good advice, too bad I didn't hear that in my 20's, lol. I can definitely agree with that statement :-) .|||LOL. Sorry but that really sounds like your situation was completely that *person* and not type based. How are you sure that girl was even an INFJ to begin with? I had an ENTP obsessed with me but...|||There aren't the same amount of INFJ's as there are INTJ's, most INFJ's online are mistyped, as well as a fair amount of INTJ's. I think if someone is seriously angry by someone else saying that's...|||It's like a flash of sudden insight, sometimes it's within seconds, sometimes minutes, sometimes after about 20 minutes I'll get more flashes of details, that part is a bit random. Who they are...|||Agreed! I learned people will just deny it anyway and think you are a jerk if you point out who they really are. I just keep it to myself too and yep, they always do what I think they will, they...|||I always know. Right away and deeply, who someone is. I sometimes blind myself to it and make 'excuses' for them romantically because I want to be wrong. I'm never wrong though about who someone is....|||Also I do notice I connect more easily and often with other Intuitive's, I think we are all drawn to each other, so that's part of it also.|||I've met a fair amount in the field I work in (I.T.) but also, yes MANY are mistyped , same with INFJ's. I think an INTJ sounds more appealing to many people than an ISTJ. I don't see why, both are...|||That's great to have more good memories than bad, that's for sure :) aw, koala, nicknames are fun. Oh..well people say things during breakups they wouldn't normally, so that makes sense at least.  ...|||Yes, thank you for the correction, you really are right, that is a better way to word it and more fair. Yes, we do have more of an intellectual flair, I get along really well with INTJ's I think for...|||I didn't come to that decision lightly , it came from a place of real data. I didn't mean to offend, maybe a better wording would be 'not a fit for me with that particular person' :cool:  edit to...|||INFJ dominant function is Ni-Introverted Intuition. :)|||Funny you say this, this is exactly why I 'INFJ doorslammed' the ENTP I mentioned, unfortunately.|||I've met one ENTP and it was hard not to be attracted to him but he was a bit unhealthy. This had nothing to do with type, I'm curious about ENTP's personal experiences also, hence , checking it out...|||Yes..I'm a bit random, hehee well..glad to hear it then *runs and hides behind couch* :D|||Nafatali, of course *blush*|||First, yeah I know it's poetry and hi :proud: There was joke in another forum that if one were to write poetry for INTJ or NT types that it should be tailored to them, so I wrote this and a few INTJ...|||ENFP/INFJ is INTOXICATING. I see zero reason to fight it ;)|||ENFJ's are more 'chill extroverts' that I've noticed. I was mistyping myself as an ENFJ before I was officially typed, it can get confusing because how you see yourself and what you value (I valued...|||Nah, he was an ENFJ|||When you don't want to be because that would mean less people would understand you..|||Well I've dated about 6 INTJ's, I didn't know it at the time until the most recent ex. I didn't say the person was soul sucking, I said that trying to change and adapt is. After a year or more it...|||Yes. absolutely and all the time. (for me of course)|||Yes. absolutely and all the time.|||I meet more INFJ's than ENFJ's, it makes me wonder sometimes which one is more rare..|||http://youtu.be/AIjVpRAXK18|||Well I'll be able to tell in awhile more, getting MBTI Certified in November ;)|||I know one other, know about 4-5 INFJ's though, but they kind of gravitate towards my type of religion. I suspected my friend might be an NF and asked him to take test, was ENFJ :)|||My INTJ friend just said: Tell him its from an INTJ that wishes him only the best and that his purpose will come to him as he grows into it.     http://youtu.be/ZQNj3thCdco|||You did not go too far or say to much *hug* please don't ever think that telling others your thoughts will result in some kind of backlash, it does depend on where you say things but I think you are...|||How to get an INTJ to talk to you? Completely ignore them and be happy doing your own thing. The only downside to this is you will be into your own stuff and a bit annoyed when they finally do come...|||For me, if I'm not responding then it's always for a reason. I'm a single mom with a demanding job and I still find the time to respond to people so I don't buy anyone's excuse of being too busy,...|||I thought to PM you but then since you so openly discussed things it inspires me to do the same :) The more I use and believe in it the stronger I come to feel that my problems in reality are not...|||Oh so for me I got on functions test: By focusing on the strongest configuration of cognitive processes, your  pattern of responses most closely matches individuals of this type: INFJ  extraverted...|||Figure , oh great! I know what you mean a bit I think :)|||@etranger  I never did take a functions test. I'll look around for it, thanks :)  and Edit because: I question it because I get along with so many INTJ's, either I'm a super weird ENFJ (possible)...|||Thanks Figure, that's really interesting and I definitely understand where you are coming from. I've only myself met one other ENFJ and in a social setting so I didn't really get to get deep into...|||Thank you. I really appreciate your well thought out response. Hm.. the ENTJ and INFJ you mention as a comparison I find interesting because I know of an INTJ and his two sisters do not get along...|||I was wondering if any of you have personal experience with both, and which you prefer/get along with best? I tend to meet a fair amount of INTJ's and get along well, wondered if any of your...'