'Dear Anonymous,  Thank you for your help today - you are so right! I do need to truly believe I am worthy, deserving of love, kindness, respect and so much more. Please continue to help me to...|||One of the greatest wisdoms imparted to me was - They need your love the most when they deserve it the least!  It is, for me, the most rewarding experience life can throw at you (thus far - mine...|||Under 20's  Julia Bell ladybugnat  20's  Alysaria AyaSullivan BuckeyeENFP|||Yeah that's me!! I like to think I am fun - but firm when needs be. I cannot even begin to put into words what an incredible priviledge it is to be a dad! I'm always concious that I could be a better...|||Oh Yes!!! I can't hold regrets though as I would not be who I am now and have 3 beautiful children like I do now!! :-)|||Any of my 3 incredible kids to grow up and not love me :sad:|||Li'l ole England!!|||Yeah - since I was about 8. However I did 'give up' for nearly 20yrs after losing the use of one of my fingers in a rather stupid accident involving a frozen burger and a sharp knife and a crucial...|||1) Stop procrastinating and finish the songs I am in the middle of writing. Perform at least 1 of them at my next feature gig at the end of January.  2) Get a new job - the one I'm in has turned me...|||I agree with virtually everything that has already been said!  One of my favourite mottos in life is.....there is more than one way of cooking an egg...... :wink:|||I have been investigating Enneagram types a bit more recently and I have come to the conclusion that I am actually a 9 - not a 2.  I can totally relate to what the OP says. The other thing I would...|||..tell everybody else so that they can play too!|||Do you ever have those weird hypothetical questions floating around in your brain that you can't somehow solve? Lets see if we can get some answers - with the help of some weird and wonderful...|||Uh-oh! Here we go again!! Somebody pass me the flak jacket..... haha!:tongue:|||You are 57 % extrovert and 43 % introvert.  Independently of any order of importance :  You are strong-willed and active, your actions are determined by your own will, by the goals you settled for...|||Woohoo! so I'm not the 'eldest' ENFP, but I am currently the oldest male ENFP - does that still mean I'm 'The Daddy'?  :wink:|||Haha! Was a good read actually - was thinking of replying on it but thought better of it as it may have relighted the fire :-)  Oh Lord - I've become sensible(ish) in my old age....|||....off to read the 'whores and sluts' thread.....|||Mojo415  I have absolutely no idea what that symbol means!   Kitteh? Still don't even know what that emoticon means :blushed:|||I just want to hibernate and wake up when it's getting warmer and the world is coming back to life.....|||Just turned 40!! Does that make me the oldest ENFP? :shocked:  Whooo's the Daddy :cool:|||Enfpleasantly  I don't think you're far off! My enneagram is 2w1, 7w6, 1w9  Abstract Tan = Type 7 Violet = Type 1 Blue = Type 2  Well done you :-)|||Abstract Tan, Violet and Blue  And here is Violet - as it hasn't been posted yet!  Violets are the inspirational visionaries, leaders and teachers who are here to help save the planet. Most...|||Ok  - Where do I start?  My life is kind of in two halves - the first 20yrs and the second 20 yrs!  First 20 yrs. I was born into a family, with 2 brothers and 2 sisters, into a religeous sect...|||Haha! - but I thought they were getting out of a car - not a pidgeonhole....  I'm sure I read somewhere that all the clowns in America had to register their make-up to make sure it was unique -...|||I so need to find some females with bricks!!  I was only talking to a mate earlier today and saying I need to find my 'radar' so I can recognise women flirting with me!!  I went out last night...|||Hahahaha!!! This is so meee!!! I may have to take a while to get my head around the concept before making any kind of rational comment:laughing:  Oh and Slimpee - At first glance I think there are...|||Who  Have you performed any music in front of people?   I do quite a few open mic nights and have found it incredibly empowering to say the least! The musicians and people who make an effort to...|||Dear 3 anons,  No words could ever describe how much I love you!! Or how immensley proud I am of you!!  You are incredibly beautiful - not just on the outside - but inside too!  You will always...|||I think you might be in the right place........:wink:....welcome!|||November is never a good time of the year for me - start of winter, dark nights, less sunlight. It's like my body kind of goes into hibernation mode - I want to go to sleep and wake up in spring...|||Yes! Yes! Yes!!!!! Do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!:cool:|||....do not earn enough to do all the things I would so love to do :-(|||discovered Whisky Lullaby yesterday!!!! ( and yes I was crying by the time it had got to the end of the first verse!!)  I was playing a gig last week and a woman asked me if I could play it - Never...|||Of course! Don't know whether I could help though :-)|||I've never hit anyone in anger yet - never been angry enough to do it! Wouldn't know whether it would hurt them or not Lol.  I would sneer, look down my nose at them and walk away. They'd better be...|||A few month ago I stumbled across MBTI and found out I was ENFP. I then found this forum and was reading the ..I am an ENFP and I...thread. I was at work in the office and was merrily chuckling to...|||Brood, drink an old fashioned, and light up a stog :laughing:    Hahaha! Oh yes!! But that is me most nights! ;-)|||When I was 12-13, I got fed up with the teachers asking what the hell I'd written so I overcame it by writing in capitals! Still do to this day!! When I write fast it is just legible to the average...|||Yep! That's me! I'm too easily distracted by something else and can so easily forget I even received a text - then I feel really bad when I bump into them and remember:blushed:|||40 next month(yes the biggy - can't wait - PARTY TIME), but still feel exactly the same as I was at age 20 - except a bit wiser(in some areas) from the years of experience.   I think I will still...|||HaHaHaHa - sorry made me chuckle - maybe we should now change you name to MuChApArAmOrOn! What was the thread again.....?   I have wondered about entering the Counsellor/Therapist route myself - a...|||...read the first couple of pages of a thread, then skip straight to the most recent page - then work backwards:rolleyes:  Makes more sense sometimes - think it's from years of practice trying to...|||@aquavenae Sorry I'm not from anywhere as exotic as Texas!! - UK. I actually have considered whether there is a higher proportion of people who have escaped from cults being ENFP rather than any...|||[QUOTE=aquavenae;2913553].... (mega sheltered cult childhood, subsequent assimilation into the real world, christian to atheist, marriage to a mentally unstable drug addict, divorce) .....  Wow!...|||I have a love/hate relationship with it - if I know the subject well and can improvise on auto-pilot then I LOVE it. If not then I tend to be a bit more nervous.  I think there is an element of...|||ARRRRRGGGGGHHH!!!!!! Whilst reading the first 3 pages of posts I thought of at least 3 things that made me go Hmmmmmm...  except I can't remember what the hell they were now!!!!! ...|||Absofuckinglutely inspired!!!!!  Think we need to keep this thread alive so that we can all report back on what we have changed since reading this!!|||.......need to spend more nights in!!!(only managed about 6 since new year):shocked:|||As you spoke you must have known  It was a kind of homicide  I stood and watched my happiness  Drift outwards with the tide   On the dunes  On the dunes  (Homicide on the dunes)  It wasn't...'