'i do the same thing. haha|||therrrrre ya go :) haha|||There's a part of my personality that i'm wondering about. It's the part of me that kindof leaps out of what would be typically me and goes for the opposite.   I recently went to  Las Vegas and...|||not exactly... i think we're very very... self-aware. we're very self absorbed.   i don't think we're like the typical narcissistic celebrity who only feels real in the spotlight and constantly...|||i would be bad in the business world not necessarily because i wouldn't understand how to maximize money, but because i would choose not to. i would rather operate with integrity and purpose and...|||fear :o  hahha|||i never wanted to be a dark infp, but i think i am now.  i used to be light, bubbly. i always had this kinda darkness in me that i've been referencing a lot in recent years... but on the whole i...|||the world would soon get the creeping feeling like it was missing something, but wouldn't quite know what. we (like every other type) keep everything in balance, and they'd miss the dreamers.|||^^ also yeah, good point.  i used to approach job interviews like i was this sad little slave girl who would nod and panic and agree to whatever they were saying, because i was desperate for their...|||you just have to do it and not think about it. ask the rational part of your brain if you have to do it for your longterm benefit, the answer is probably yes.  so once you know that, there is no...|||i'm walking or standing and i look up and become disoriented,  i'm anxious, it's mid-day and the birds are going somewhere and i should get a move on because i'm missing my life and i'm perpetually...|||... that's basically what i was trying to say, hahaha|||oh and again, i'm gonna reiterate that it sounds like she really *wants* to connect with you in this specific way, but she feels frustrated that it's not happening. that's my opinion on the whole...|||my opinion:  she really likes you and is bitter that she feels you don't have a natural connection and that you don't intuitively understand her. a lot of INFPs can't relate just by discussing...|||oh, also yeah! it's a first waking up thing a lot of the time.  like when i wake up and i see my pet bunny or someone i love next to me i'm suddenly OVERWHELMED with love. like i'm seeing them...|||I too have those moments.  Here's a picture I found the other day that kindof reminded me of it:   http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2foi5WCHi1qcjnaio1_500.jpg   it's scary how we just slip...|||I'm totally interested in this, but i'm relatively new and probably don't know what i'm doing.  But yes, INFPs make like ten thousand threads a day and it's gettin out of hand, haha. If anyone...|||when i went to prom it wasn't half as draining as i thought it would be. a lot of it was boring sitting around eating and listening to speakers and stuff. then when the dancing finally happened, it...|||i don't know. :( it's a very good question.  i guess we all get attached to keep us close to the ones we love, keeping an eye on them and taking care of them. and then when they leave we're left...|||oh nevermind you're talking about that other stuff. i thought you just meant that you had a stronger intuition than sensing in general, and were also introverted. i was gonna say yeah infps use...|||If anything, my inferior function would be Sensing, meaning my dominant  function is iNuition, and since I'm introverted that function would be  introverted, making me an INxJ  i don't...|||no relationship can ever work without trust. you need to talk to her honestly about whatever it was that she did or lied about.  i've done some pretty terrible things but i've also realized they're...|||i have good stories and bad stories about being drunk.  good stories: having a laugh, feeling incredibly happy, being really social and actually being the life of the party in moments (if you knew...|||i think displaying emotions is bold and brave, the opposite of weak. hiding it could be considered more a sign of weakness, if you think of it that way.  but everybody deals with things differently.|||I haven't, but my dad has done a few things. He doesn't make a living from being just an actor, he pretty much almost never acts anymore. He was mostly in plays and a couple of commercials and...|||I think there are definitely borders.  As INFPs we're especially driven to feel connected to the real core of others. We can get along superficially with people if we have to, but we don't bother...|||hahaha i read the first 5 words and burst out laughing. i'm very cat.|||pffft, oral sex is the bomb.|||i write for fun/release. my writing is sometimes good, sometimes terrible.  even if i had the ABILITY to, i don't think i'd become a professional legitimate writer of any sort (even though i...|||We like holding onto these feelings because they're exciting and give us drama and something to do with our time! You have a big ol crush on him and that's super exciting - until stuff like this...|||yes we do. we're idealists and so things fall short in our eyes a lot of the time, but we can't go on like this forever and so sometimes we find ourselves wanting to want something.   and...|||no dream, no purpose. 25 years old.  no idea.|||i'm only ever like this if i feel there is an unbalance between our affections.  if i feel i'm more interested in him than he is in me, holy shit. do i ever become a psycho. mostly...|||oh i have another one  -go to a totally foreign and borderline dangerous country all alone  no desire whatsoever. okay well maybe SOME desire. but not worth it. i'm too scaredycat.|||-go legit skinnydipping with a bunch of people (i've only half sorta done it) -fall in love again -get married -learn to play a song on guitar -paint something nice -make someone i have a crush...|||Opposite of a bucket list, this is a list of things you actually NEVER want to do and have no interest in doing.  a few of mine:  -skydiving -bullfighting  -doing hard drugs -mountain climbing...|||seattle peeps! i live nowhere near seattle but i recently visited there. it was awesome. :)  me and my friend ordered pronto pizza to our hotel room... and whatever that pizza place is that also...|||i'm getting chills just reading about them. i'm remembering all these little snippets of scary things from when i was little and stuff. oh god i'm not gonna be able to sleep tonight.     DEAR...|||WHAT THE FUCK that happened to my brother, too. hahaha...  i don't think it's abnormal for people to dream about slightly similar dream people... i've had lots of interesting guides in my...|||As soon as I utter a phrase my sincerity dies, becomes a lie whose coldness chills me.  she's saying she feels the desire to reach out, to be understood. but the moment she does (speaks), she...|||apparently this is not uncommon! that being said, i have no idea what it is. but if you google vibrating sensation sleep or similar words, you get a ton of results for people experiencing the same...|||i'm sorry but i can't really tell you anything. :(  other than when i first tried sleeping on my back it would give me nightmares. every time.  not as much now.  i wake up in panicked states...|||i don't know, i'm having a lot of trouble with this the past couple of days. i'm not sure what triggered it, i think perhaps a lot of reading about carl sagan and his wife and a quote by her that is...|||also, give yourself time to get ready whenever you're going anywhere. wake up extra time, have a nice leisurely breakfast, and don't always be rushing and stressing yourself out. i know it sounds...|||I would just give myself some perspective and then if I still want to be with him when i'm thinking clearly, then I can crawl on back to him. But at least give yourself the chance to distance...|||well this doesn't surprise me at all.  exactly my hand, exactly fitting for an infp, most beautiful but unfortunate hand...  yeah that all fits depressingly well.|||hmm, maybe. i was with someone for 5-6 years and it didn't wear off, but i can definitely see like, married couples not experiencing that same level of mental commitment. : depressing.|||re-reading your original post i see now that your main issue is just wanting to find someone like that already.  you seem like you've made your choice about waiting until you feel a certain...|||for the sexual urges, just masturbate if you don't already. honestly.  and for the fear of being alone, NO you're very silly, you are not going to be alone, trust me.  as for the rest, i would say...|||well i'll just delete this post because apparently it is not even a little bit relevant!  i thought this conversation was going to go a completely different direction.'