'I have absolutely no idea who Lemons is. Just hopped on here after several months away. I guess the bad thing about leaving is that I can't defend myself against false accusations! I don't think I've...|||This just reminds me of 'Sherlock'.  I'd have to say red pill!|||1) What type are you? ENFP  2) How did you get started in your career? (work your way up through a company, self starter etc.) I landed my first job in marketing right when I graduated from...|||I've been in love three times. First was an ISTP, second was ??? (thought he was INFJ at the time, but I doubt it now... it's possible he was just a very unhealthy INFJ, I guess) and third (current,...|||Frozen Free Fall. The iPhone game. Come to find out, it's an exact copy of Candy Crush, which I have always mocked the mainstream population for being obsessed with. I'm really very embarrassed now.|||Melatonin, wine, and sometimes Xanax. zzzZzZzZ  I am the epitome of a healthy individual.|||My rant isn't about finding a boyfriend, but rather, finding friends :[  I moved to a new city in September where I don't know a single soul. Because I work from home and I'm not a student or...|||Dear anonymous.  Your bragging is both hilarious and pathetic. I have been alternating between cackling and throwing up in my mouth a little bit. You don't have to prove to anyone that your life...|||I do full-time graphic design and marketing for a shipping company. I also do freelance graphic design on the side.|||It's really just a numbers game, as other people have pointed out in this thread. If your calories in < your calories out, you'll lose weight. The magical thing about this is that you don't have to...|||I know that, as an ENFP, it can be really frustrating when you can't connect or click with someone. If you're on the autistic spectrum, I'm sure you can relate to that even more than I can. For me,...|||Intelligence is attractive. Flaunting your intelligence like a peacock's tail is not.  I knew an INTJ once. We had a brief fling. He was ridiculous. He insisted on using this grandiose vocabulary...|||I really appreciate help that I've either explicitly requested, or clearly need. If someone tries to jump in and help me with something I really don't need assistance with and haven't asked for help...|||Luckily, I do have a wedding pinboard to refer to in order to easily answer this question... haha! Here are two weddings I love: A Whimsical Wooded Backyard Wedding: Eden + Daniel | Green Wedding...|||This was my thought too! Heh. I actually love it just for that reason... I get so wrapped up in my head at times that shopping is a great way to bring myself out and into the physical world, focused...|||Something my boyfriend once pointed out to me and I totally agree with is: Most women care more about their wedding than they do their marriage. I completely agree. The wedding is just the...|||Something I've learned over the years is that outgoing-ness really has nothing to do with extroversion. I've met extroverts who are extremely outgoing, and I've also met extroverts who are very...|||I cried this morning when I saw a blog entry with a series of photographs... a man's wife died from cancer just a couple of years after they got married, and he recreated their wedding photos with...|||could you change my name back to viva, please? 'preciate it|||I'm reading a book right now called Lovability. It talks about how the purpose of life is to love and be loved, and you can't do either of those things until you are an expert at self-love. ...|||Tridentus you're worse than me when it comes to worrying about the future, and that's saying something! I'm pretty sure every thread you ever start is pondering about something that could happen five...|||To an extent, I'd say yes. I am a spiritual / religious person, so my own experience is a bit different, but based on the same premise. I often find that the more in-tune I am with myself, the more...|||Absolutely not. Just like I never finish anything else I start.  I should work on that...|||Dyed my hair blonde 'cause YOLO  http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/65633_4647990553011_2055380278_n.jpg|||NICE! I have to ask, do you feel like you look different? I'm in the midst of some weight loss myself (18 pounds down so far) and I find that I don't feel different, but when comparing half-nudie...|||I'm aware of my own flaws, but I'm not complacent about them. Personal growth is really important to me - how can you improve yourself if you're in denial about what needs improving? Of course we all...|||My keys have been missing for a week. My roommate has been leaving his key under the mat and I've been using my spare car key because I know they are somewhere in the apartment but they are nowhere...|||Are you a parking ticket? 'Cause you've got fiiiiiiiiiiiine written all over you!  Yeah, that's the best I can do. If she's an INFJ, go for punny.|||Very good advice has been given here already. I've struggled with depression for years, but it comes and goes. I am emerging now from a rough patch that lasted through the winter, but my situation...|||I have met a handful of people. Some friends, some more-than-friends. (The latter is always an accident...) My current more-than-friend is a PerC member (and INFJ!), but it plays no role in our...|||Before I started dating or even thought about dating the INFJ who is now my boyfriend, he very explicitly told me that he equated love with sacrifice - that how much you would and do sacrifice for...|||I constantly want to be left alone. And then when I'm left alone, I breathe a sigh of relief and enjoy my aloneness. Twenty minutes later I start getting sulky and lonely. Then I proceed to WTF...|||I haven't gotten to the point where the smell bothers me quite yet, but boyfriend can't stand the scent of meat being cooked. I'll probably get there eventually too. When I look at it on a plate, I...|||Ah, yes, the woes of a long distance relationship. Been there, done that, and currently doing it, too!  Honestly, what helps me the most is staying in close contact with him when he's away. Phone...|||I am a vegetarian!  This is a recent development, though. I've toyed with the idea for years, but I finally bit the bullet a while ago due to the culmination of many different factors: a) I rarely...|||Can you change my name to little infinity please? Thank you!|||I'm motivated by:    The opportunity to help others succeed.  The chance to be recognized for my accomplishments.  The opportunity to exercise my creativity.  Being in an environment where I am...|||ENFP & INFJ  http://i.imgur.com/9eXbGHz.jpg|||I hasn't showed my face here in a while!  http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/542596_4244320181504_1236923553_n.jpg|||This might be my new favorite thread EVER.  I about died laughing the other day because I logged into Netflix and it told me this: We think you like cerebral social & cultural documentaries and...|||I guess you could say I have a crush on innovati  Dem eyes, amirite?|||When you grow to resent someone for not meeting demands you never actually told them about.|||For your reference - as an ENFP, here are some of the things I have been complimented on by INFJs:    They get the feeling that I completely accept them for who they are  I understand their...|||Just be yourself! The ENFP + INFJ dynamic is generally awesome. The whole point is that you shouldn't have to go out of your way to act in a certain manner or overthink your interactions. ENFPs and...|||Where do I even begin?  I learned that I have the freedom and the power to do whatever I choose, and I learned how to recognize that freedom and feel exhilarated because of it, especially when I've...|||It probably seems a little backwards for an ENFP to be asking how to make new friends, but bear with me...  I'm in a bit of a lonely place and I'm hoping for some advice, reassurance, or maybe just...|||I strongly believe that in order to have a successful relationship, you have to be completely comfortable exposing your true self to that person. With that said - I don't think it's worth it for INFJ...|||:shocked:|||ENFPs who have careers in the world of business... if you sit in a cubicle or at a desk all day... if you must wear heels and pantyhose and button-downs... this thread is for you.  Feel free to...|||I am way too much of a hopeless romantic to ever buy into the idea of forced love.  If anything about it feels forced, faked, pressured or inauthentic, it's not for me.'