'I'm very conscious of all of my values. I just don't feel the need to tell people or make them agree with mine.   Two things I value are art and my privacy.|||It's good to hear you're okay. The hurricanes have been destroying everything and I'm hearing rumours there is gonna be another one. How are you?|||Both types can be 4w3s, but it is significantly more common in INFPs than INFJs - the latter appearing to have a more level presence among the enneagram types in various polls. Whereas INFPs tend to...|||When did you have your first relationship (<20, 20-25, 26-30, >30)?  I haven't.  What do you look for in a partner?  I want to be able to trust them and feel completely at ease around them, my...|||I think 4w3 descriptions really throw people off. You basically repeated everything I imagined would draw you to 4w3. People read 'I feel unique and that I've never fit in and have been understood by...|||Most of the things you have mentioned are generically connected to INFJs - they aren't very specific nor convincing unfortunately.  Also, the way that INFJs tend to be idealistic is not the same...|||The information you have provided is surprisingly vague and could be applied to most people.  I would take a wild guess and say:  Friend A: Not an INFJ, but an ISFJ Friend B: Possibly an INFJ...|||His constant attempts at trying to be eloquently poetic are a turn-off and they do feel natural - they feel revised and scripted. Just like most people I see making MBTI videos, parts of what he says...|||I almost wholeheartedly agreed with you until you said you relate to 2 thought patterns and desires mostly and to 1 thought patterns and desires when stressed. It's possible that if you're stressed...|||I agree with what has already been said. We don't know the situation so there's nothing we could give advice about.|||Sometimes I ask myself the same question - and others too.   I deal with many different mediums too. I practice Fine Art but I also write. And bizarrely enough, I almost never experience art block...|||Agnostic atheist.  I thank the fact this thread gives me a much needed break from saccharine religious INFJ threads.|||Not really, no. I don't think the majority of people I come into contact with deserve to know even that much about me.|||I hate double posts :(|||I've definitely had my worst experiences in life with people who I felt were 'threatened' by their inability to read me. These are mostly by other Fe users and ESTPs are a part of that group.   I...|||Unless it's something dire, like I don't understand completely how to do something at work or something that would affect others, not asking for help would be stupid in these instances.   But if it...|||That's not a shocker considering how badly you wrote this thread. Did you seriously expect better responses?   That's the most shocking thing of all.|||You're describing synesthesia. And yes.  Although some will debate how true a thing it even is.|||'Too logical' how? By that do you mean they don't enjoy the same topics that you do? Like creative subjects for example?  Maybe the culture of where you live is predominately that way, especially...|||I wouldn't.   Ever.   But that's just me.  In my experiences with ISTPs they sound similar to what you have said. They don't seem bothered when the relationship is actually going on but when...|||Most INFJs with practice are, yes. We're not perfect, but we're pretty proficient at it because Ni-Fe is very attuned to the subtle, non-verbal cues that people present in their microexpressions,...|||When I do remember my dreams, they are always surreal and never realistic so it is often easy to tell I'm dreaming at some point towards the end. Frequently my dreams are violent, gory or simply...|||Ah. Never been in love. But I am curious to hear what others have to say :kitteh:|||I can't honestly read all of that text. From glossing over, every sentence my eyes touched made me think INTJ.|||Their genuine, often child-like enthusiasm and wonder for subjects that interest them.  Their often high level of energy that feeds my naturally lower energy.  How complimentary and flirtatious...|||Do you have trauma connected to men that could be responsible for this feeling?  Or is there something you feel men don't give you, or alternatively do give you, in interactions that differs from...|||We probably realise things at different rates. Sometimes other people before me (especially if it's Se related and literally right in front of eyes). And sometimes I realise before them, but I don't...|||I have read your answer multiple times and I still can't fathom how you thought anything good would come of this relationship when your ex is still the primary thing blocking you from focusing on...|||I wouldn't restrict 'the one' coming into my life based on type. If they happened to be a type that, so far I've only had bad experiences with, so be it. So long as they make me happy. But I can very...|||I hope whatever awesomeness you have managed to stumble upon lasts a very long time then :laughing:|||LOL - accurate way of describing the Ti doms' interviewing tactics :frustrating:  Ti is such an experimental, poking-prodding, question-asking function that it can come across in an off-putting way...|||INTPs have a tendency to make me feel like I'm being interrogated or interviewed and it isn't a nice feeling. When you point it out to them, most of them don't realise it. Like, the vast majority -...|||Many of the things you are mentioning seem like an INFJ-INFJ relationship issue that is illustrated here: The other day we were out getting food, i felt this distance again and we were hardly...|||Are you aware of the things that help you when you're stressed/sad/need advice? If you have that tool-set in mind, you can tell her what will and won't help you during those times. Whether it is...|||Extremely so. I've always had a thing for highly sarcastic, self-deprecating and taboo humour. Humour that tends to make most people squirm makes me laugh. I'm much a fan of comedian Frankie Boyle...|||Siryl  TPs can be a dangerous one to go for as they tend to be intellectual but very lazy - so likely you will do all of the mundane things like cleaning, cooking, paying for the bills on time...|||I'm going to be completely honest with you.  I do not ask for help. People ask me for help.  I figure it out on my own because I refuse to risk looking like I needed help or looking helpless or...|||I've met quite a number of ENTP and ENFP people and it does make me worry, am I doomed to have the same relationship issues if I continue to be willing to let them around me? Despite their issues,...|||This is a weird thread. I don't think most of us struggle to find employment.|||I'm not a SJW, nor have I ever been that way inclined. Nor, do I have to agree with every political view you might have in order to be civil with you or anyone else. If you can only be friends with...|||I've never had a conflict with an INTJ in my life about them not liking people that I do, or vice versa. So I can't relate to your claim.   INTJs are not alien, nor are they difficult to figure out...|||I've never thought that hard logic wins an argument alone, but my Ti is not something I would sacrifice, nor ignore or devalue, for any reason. I respect my use of Ti just as I respect my Ni-Fe....|||God, 'dirty' is a good way to describe the feeling they give me. It's certainly not pleasant. Like there's something wrong with your very being if you're not processing information and coming to...|||I so relate to the conversations you have relayed - like majorly.  Among many reasons for conflict, I've found many of my INTJ conflicts IRL have happened because on the inside, INTJs can be more...|||I have seen your posts, but not enough about your personality to guess. I know more about events you have mentioned than anything else. If you want to have a more in depth discussion so that I can...|||I don't know you well enough to guess either way. If we interacted more, I might have a stronger opinion on the subject.|||No, but I can see why you might think so. I suspect INTJ - Te user at least.|||I have zero issues with adult jokes in children's movies. But yes, Frollo is a creep.  What leaves a bitter taste in my mouth is the Only beautiful people deserve a happy ending, feeling that the...|||My mum is an asshole sometimes.   Screaming at people while they're trying to work because you want attention like a toddler is absurd. Fuck off and do something with your life. You wonder why you...|||You put this so well.  Sometimes the INFP idealism I've come into contact with, more than not, is like I'm being interviewed for a position of best, most moral, most amazing person in the world. In...'