'Specifically. Quantom Mechanics.  The theory genuinely excites and scares me.|||Hi everyone, Id like to share something today.  Its not really about any thing in particular, but an interesting thing ive learnt.  Well its about my first real smartphone which i bought about 14...|||I don't like tattoos or anything like that.  But I've always had a desire to have Only God Will Judge Me' tattooed at my back.|||I don't know if i want to be depressed.  But i keep making conscious choices, which lead to loneliness and eventual depression.  Depression is a part of me i guess.|||Unfortunately.  The most painful memory of my life.|||My facebook account has been made by my friend (by force), and my sis updates pictures.  Personally the whole idea seems a little pretentious.    The pessimistic me would describe it as a, self...|||From what you've described, the problem doesn't seem to be the personality type; rather the person himself.  INTJs may have trouble expressing their emotions, but that doesn't mean they do not...|||If its a good INTJ, you wont know.  I think the majority of the INTJs attempt to conceal their emotions, regarding people the like.  For me its like i want or expect someone i like to make the...|||Saturdays?|||Well you must be quite depressed then :p|||Student debts. :). Yes i have been accused of being an idealist.|||like to travel and having a care free existence.  But that isnt too realistic, not at the moment anyways.  Well if having a reaction to such things isnt normal, then it says more about our society...|||I didnt mean that i dont like to do things i dont comprehend ( as in i dont understand); it was more like things i dont agree with or dont like.  And im not sure having this feeling can constitute...|||Well my answer to my own question is rather bleak.  The more of think about this question, the more i realize how meaningless it all is.  Pursuit of things i don't fully comprehend or want anyways....|||Thats a very refreshing perspective. Thanks for sharing.|||OK a serious question.  What do INTJs want from life?  to me it seems as if the conventional things such as: social recognition monetary gains and etc are not that relevant to INTJs. So what...|||You mean the proverbial hell, full of intellectual zombies and everything I truly despised?  Well it was ok, i guess. :)|||You mean the proverbial hell, full of intellectual zombies and everything I truly despised?  Well it was ok, i guess. :)|||I dont think i have the patience or the actual sincere capability to make a commitment for a long term social connection.  Its too damn exhausting.    You have to mind what you say, become...|||My favorites include: Shaun of the Dead, Talladega Nights, Stepbrothers and etc (im a big Will Ferrel fan, except when hes doing the corny commercial movies).  Ok i saw 'in the thick of it' based...|||I prefer having experiencing new environments and meeting new people constantly.  I like the fact that i dont have to make real/long term connections with people.  This idea of disposable social...|||Beautifully put.|||Cowboy Bebop.  In my mind the perfect story.|||I appreciate gifts, and especially if they're heart felt ones.  The sketch idea seems very good, for an INTJ like me.|||I can understand what you're saying, and i felt a similar way before.  But i think there is difference between being happy with your lonesome ( which i genuinely am), and hoping to find a person you...|||Simple answer. Yes!!|||Ahh, so refreshing.  I can definitely relate to that.  Something ive been accused by almost everyone who has gotten to know closely or even remotely, is that I am arrogant and over confident. ...|||Time spent socializing? (2-3 hours a day) I spend more time developing plans to avoid socializing, than actually socializing.   I would much rather; prefer living in nature, than having to conduct...|||Never being truly loved.|||people mostly.  How uninteresting and unoriginal they all usually are.  And also hypocritical.|||INTJs prefer intelligent/though provoking conversations.  I can have a conversation with just about anyone, if the subject is interesting.|||Yes we do.  But not to the extent you are talking about.  I find socializing a very laborious and forced activity; however ive learnt to appreciate its benefits now(makes life much simpler). ...|||Cowboy Bebop.  Spike Speigal and also possibly Vicious.|||In a society where mediocrity is celebrated, and intelligent views ridiculed; its natural for a person to become detached.  INTJs being driven for perfection (or just logic) cannot accept the...|||haha, lover?|||I wish i could retire right now.|||I shared my experience in my intro ..Very dramatic ;)  The worst experience of my life was my relation with an ENFP girl (my ex fiancee).  That girl forced me to build our relation, even though i...|||Yes i think this is the most logical way to handle these things. I cant live with unresolved issues or ignore these things.  Have lost quite a few people along the way ( but to be honest, i think its...|||You can try to use logic and reason with them, if that doesn't work ignore them completely. They'd eventually think over the issue and come to reason.    Or they might not, and you'd lose out on a...|||Nicely put, and yes i agree completely.  Were a needlessly complex bunch.|||I love nature with a passion.  Absolutely love backpacking, hiking etc.  Something about getting lost and finding beautiful things.|||Did i feel that i was less mature in life, romance and career? Yes Only worked out the life part, im comfortable with my own personality now.   Romance is work in progress, but career is an issue. ...|||I really dislike them.|||I think that INTJs are very difficult to identify.  Like myself, i Have developed certain pseudo social skills to get by.  To spot an INTJ i guess you have to be a part of a conversation with the...|||Thanks for your response though, really appreciate it.  I think for her trying to make me an optimist was the challenge, and i actually was looking forward to changing for her (but i still knew, it...|||I know youre right, but the whole exercise for me was exhausting.  I think the biggest issue with the INTJ and the ENFP relation, is that the INTJs take things very seriously.  The only reason why...|||I know you're right, and ive worked on these skills quite a bit.  However I still over analyse the simplest of things, and hence over complicate them.  But once in a relation, it goes very well...|||Hello Audrey, welcome.  I completely understand the leadership aspect you mentioned.  Being a loner myself, i find it surprising that people come for my advice.    Its probably because your'e a...|||Thankyou everyone for the welcome.  I genuinely appreciate it.  Ok guys ive decided that this forum is pretty cool ( and that is a pretty rare thing for me ).  Id like to add some information about...|||I think about all the ways we are different, and how i would have to come out of my comfort zone.    If i really like her, then id try to jump in a conversation she is a part of, and hope that...'