'HAPPY (belated) BIRTHDAY, SpaceCadette !! You are one in a million. <3|||honesty is most important to me.  One of my life goals is to be true to me.|||Hey Ozzie :)  Don't know if this link helps or not, just thought to share in case you hadn't come across it before......at the end of the section 'ISFJ as lovers', there is a quick mention of types...|||Ozziechick1966 - you go girl! (to your last sentence of course.....!!!)|||As myself, I would be and am friends with myself (ok ok and enemy at times.....this is a learning process folks!).  As another person, I highly doubt I would come across as appealing based on...|||I am thinking your definition of 'friend' is quite different from mine.....|||you stupid stupid cow.|||TFP-have you tried discussing this with her?  Sharing your wants and concerns regarding the relationship?  Would you be willing to work on it if she was?  Or have things 'just' run their course for...|||Today I told my dad I am scared all the time, and that it gets to be pretty exhausting.  This was shared quickly, a couple of minutes before we went into a car dealership to look for a car for me (he...|||'Out of Africa' is one of my all-time favourite movies.....just as an aside.....|||sts06  I know, I was surprised too.  The common reason seemed to be they were tired of trying to type out messages, talking was quicker (some have the 'old-school' phones with just a number-pad and...|||I much prefer texting to talking on the phone......unfortunately most of the people I know are the opposite lol!|||Sitting very still, hoping the answer to 'What do I want to be when I grow up?' will hit me soon lol.  ;)|||Introvertigo  Thank you.  I do agree with you, doing what you love is key.  Unfortunately I am one of those that does not have a clear sense of what I love to do lol!  However as it is best to...|||I agree with Teddy, I like the financial stability and reliability.  Or should I say liked?  I took the leap and left the job I found boring and unsatisfying, that I had been in for the last five...|||I am the oldest (I have one younger sister), and sometimes felt older than my parents actually.  It was a really weird feeling.... :frustrating:|||Physical trait: Height is a huge factor for me now, and has always been the first thing I notice.  Personality trait: A sense of humour is usually appealing.  Where I am right now, physical...|||I miss myself.|||I stay up late b/c the mind won't let me go.  That and I am trying to avoid thinking of certain things.  Maybe an oxymoron, I know.|||Myself.  But don't tell me I said that....|||I bet you cheered him up!-and thank you for bringing that up.  I will do the same-if something really bad has happened to a friend who is far away, I will use that darned phone and get in contact...|||I'm with you on that one.  I am ok making small talk with new people, but actually making friends with them?  I am finding it a lot easier to make friends online, but I also need to make them in real...|||rose   I am curious-did dog listen?  :)|||Agreed.  I find it horrifying in this day and age when texts and Instant Messages reduce words to non-words, which seems to lead to many people ignoring the basics of writing in everyday situations! ...|||I made it through my last Christmas dinner with this company without crying.|||sts06  You are a wonder with words.  Thank you, and I agree.|||I am very scared/sensitive of being judged, and in my mind it happens often......  I also fear they are judging me as I judge myself.  It is not pretty.  :sad:|||I am 31 and am thinking I might need to go back to school to obtain a degree/certification/diploma in something I am actually interested in......I just have to figure out what that is.......|||vivacissimamente  I just felt clicking that thanks button wasn't enough.  Some of what you said really hit home with me in terms of how I feel-especially the 'Douche' statement at the end :wink: ...|||I hate you so much, I wouldn't be surprised if I am growing cancer because of it.|||Just wanted to share what I realised today:    I get embarrassed when I have to scrape ice off the windshield of the truck, and it makes a really loud sound that seems to echo through the parking...|||Medea  Done! :)|||Medea  Perfect!  I'll bring the yoga instructor/book/video-maybe that will help?!??!?!?  If not, we can always switch to booze.....  :crazy:|||Medea   :frustrating:|||Marvinteck  You raise a good point about tone being lost through online messaging, emails etc.  I grudgingly give one point to The Phone lol.|||The Disappearance of Alice Creed.  Interesting.|||My issue is trying to find clothes that fit, and that takes precedence over fashion unfortunately :blushed:   My INTP ex was great at fashion.  I miss that input lol.|||Happy  I am still giggling, thank you.  You don't have time for this!  Get back to the rest of PerC!!!!  :D  You did make my day, though.  Thank you.|||Ok I'll play.  What I want can not be given by anyone that I know really.  I want a certain portion of my memory erased.  And I want love.  Twu wuv.|||lols!!!!!!|||acey86  Thank you Acey for sharing, you put into words some of how I feel too, it is nice to know (although frustrating regarding the subject matter!) there are others out there that feel the same...|||hello317  jamescarrolls  check this out  PersonalityCafe - Announcements in Forum : ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers|||ISFJ female here.  I wonder if your yearning is not so much type but a universal longing: to love and be loved.  I think RyRy raises a strong valid point about self acceptance.  Learning to love...|||Just wanted to throw in my two cents.....First off I think Trigun worded the above wonderfully.  Secondly-Johnny it has been great seeing you around the ISFJ forum.  I LOVE that you are so open and...|||Thanks to you Liminality for sharing the Blake poem.|||for the record?  YOGA IS BETTER.|||Sorry Medea.  I laugh b/c I know it's true b/c I do that too sometimes, you just had the balls to put it out there.  :(|||lols!!!!!!!|||The dismissive attitude of people when you say/act/feel outside their tiny little boxed definition of 'life'.  Give me a break.|||Kind of like....waiting for the other shoe to drop?'