Code change:
Several small updates, mostly to clean things up a bit, and align property names and such.
NAME - I think you're wrong: my understanding (and also the way the text is written - otherwise we'd have to change it in the API draft) was that Connection Properties can (and should) also be set on Preconnections, to give as much input as possible for Connection establishment. In the API draft, the Selection Properties in Section 5.2 can only be used on Preconnections: you can't ask for congestion control after establishment. You can't say that you'd rather have multistreaming support after establishment. But that doesn't exclude Connection properties from being usable earlier. Required minimum checksum coverage could influence choosing UDP-Lite vs. UDP. Bounds on Send or Receive Rate could influence the interface choice. The capacity profile could influence various things (and no, there isn't a matching Selection Property now - there is a per-Message override). So... I think that either you're wrong, or I'm missing something and the API draft heavily lags behind a decision that was made. I hope not!
NAME The API drafts says: I interpret this as only the Selection Properties influence selection and the Connection properties are used to further configure the connections according to user preferences. Otherwise what is the difference between them?
If you interpret it as you do, I think the text isn't clear enough (indeed it isn't super clear - in particular, "eventually established" is misleading IMO). Though, note that it says that Connection properties can also be used later. Regarding the difference between them: Selection Properties only make sense for Preconnections.
NAME - sorry lost this thread. But I saw that you have started cleaning up some Connection properties that had mixed Connection and Selection properties up in the API draft. Does it mean that we are now in synch and agree that only Selection properties are used in the selection and Connection properties are used for configuration (both during establisment and also after the connection setup).
NAME the other PR means nothing about what I said here: it only tried to address issue which is about a wording inconsistency in a specific property. You say that Connection properties can also be used during establishment - if you agree with allowing this, then why not allow to configure them as early as possible and allow them to influence selection? What's bad about having more information available that can guide the selection process?
NAME the problem is that the Connection properties are not expressed in a way suitable for selection. If they should also be used for Selection they would have to be reworked to be of type Preference. Otherwise I do not know what they mean for selection. What does it mean if I pick say a particular connection group transmission scheduler? Is it required or preferred? Most connection properties also do not look very useful to me for selection so in case there are some we need I think it would be simpler to just define a matching selection property.
NAME we're only discussing whether it's allowed to use them as additional input or not. I agree, some (like the scheduler choice) don't seem useful, but some do... generally we may not have good guidance on how they should be used by an implementation, but giving the system freedom to use as many inputs as possible is probably a good thing. Regarding the type, require/prefer//ignore/avoid/prohibit obviously works fine for a "wishlist" of boolean character: having something, or not having it. The selection properties are generally like that - except "Interface Instance or Type" and "Provisioning Domain Instance or Type" which are, well... wishlist-collections. Consider the capacity profile. Surely configuring this early can be useful input - e.g. if someone picks low latency / interactive, you may even want to put this traffic on a specific network interface! But if you'd want to make a copy of the capacity profile as a "proper" selection property, how would you do it? Apply require/prefer/ignore/avoid/prohibit for each of its values? Then I could say "prefer" low latency/non-interactive but "avoid" low latency/non-interactive, which would surely be odd. Apply the qualifier to the whole thing? Then it's about, e.g. "avoiding" to use a capacity profile at all. That's odd as well. I think it's in the nature of the current selection properties that they merely say "I want to be able to do this, and this is how important it is to me", which is different from configuring something. That's also why, as written, they simply wouldn't work for later connection configuration. Connection properties really are about configuring something, but I still say that being able to use them as early input is good. I agree that the implementation isn't super clear as they don't come with a require/prefer/... etc. qualifier, but then we just offer some freedom to implementers.
NAME I just pushed a commit that updates the selection and connection properties text, removing "connection" almost everywhere, but adding a disclaimer in the beginning that says that connection properties should be configured as early as possible because they can influence decisions made by the implementation, and "In the remainder of this document, we only refer to Selection Properties because they are the more typical case." Frankly I'm not sure this is better... but it does remove most of the "selection and connection" double mentions that you pointed out.
Fixed up branch building and resolved merge conflicts. I'll merge this in later today before the posting deadline.
Cool thanks! Sorry if I messed something up
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Thank you for updating this – looks good! just needs s/send-params/msg-properties/ and merging

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text: as a result of racing multiple transports or as part of TCP Fast Open. <ins> Final: when this is true, it means that a transport connection can be closed immediately after its transmission. </ins> Corruption Protection Length: when this is set to any value other than -1, it limits the required checksum in protocols that allow limiting the checksum length (e.g.  UDP-Lite). <del> Immediate Acknowledgement: this informs the implementation that the sender intends to execute tight control over the send buffer, and therefore wants to avoid delayed acknowledgements.  In case of SCTP, a request to immediately send acknowledgements can be implemented using the "sack-immediately flag" described in Section 4.2 of RFC8303 for the SEND.SCTP primitive. Instantaneous Capacity Profile: when this is set to "Interactive/ Low Latency", the Message should be sent immediately, even when this comes at the cost of using the network capacity less efficiently.  For example, small messages can sometimes be bundled to fit into a single data packet for the sake of reducing header overhead; such bundling should not be used.  For example, in case of TCP, the Nagle algorithm should be disabled when Interactive/ Low Latency is selected as the capacity profile.  Scavenger/Bulk can translate into usage of a congestion control mechanism such as LEDBAT, and/or the capacity profile can lead to a choice of a DSCP value as described in I-D.ietf-taps-minset). [Note: See also send-params-non-consensus for additional Send Parameters under discussion.] </del> <ins> Transmission Profile: TBD - because it's not final in the API yet. Old text follows: when this is set to "Interactive/Low Latency", the Message should be sent immediately, even when this comes at the cost of using the network capacity less efficiently.  For example, small messages can sometimes be bundled to fit into a single data packet for the sake of reducing header overhead; such bundling should not be used.  For example, in case of TCP, the Nagle algorithm should be disabled when Interactive/Low Latency is selected as the capacity profile.  Scavenger/Bulk can translate into usage of a congestion control mechanism such as LEDBAT, and/ or the capacity profile can lead to a choice of a DSCP value as described in I-D.ietf-taps-minset). Singular Transmission: when this is true, the application requests to avoid transport-layer segmentation or network-layer fragmentation.  Some transports implement network-layer fragmentation avoidance (Path MTU Discovery) without exposing this functionality to the application; in this case, only transport- layer segmentation should be avoided, by fitting the message into a single transport-layer segment or otherwise failing.  Otherwise, network-layer fragmentation should be avoided--e.g. by requesting the IP Don't Fragment bit to be set in case of UDP(-Lite) and IPv4 (SET_DF in RFC8304). </ins> 5.1.1.2.