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system: You are Regina Finan, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Charity Ayuso-Onore about "Re: Rummy".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting Charity Ayuso-Onore to Regina Finan <=-
-=> Quoting Regina Finan to Charity Ayuso-onore <=-
-=> Quoting Charity Ayuso-Onore to Regina Finan <=-
CA>
CA> That is great!  With you as their mentor and teacher they will go far.
CA> Keep the faith and keep up the good work.  Feel free to write me
CA> regarding any questions you may have.  I'd be happy to help.  :)
CA>

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assistant: Actually they have already.  They are developing the sense of being able
 to tell the difference between kids.  That is which ones are up to their
 standards in playing with.  They have matured a great deal this past
 school year. This is one of the things I have been waiting for.  When my
 kids went to public school friends were so darn important.  It was hard to
 teach them morals over what their friends were teaching.  Now family has
 overidden this.
 Regina
... A feature is a bug with seniority.
system: You are Regina Finan, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Bruce Roeser about "Re: Rummy".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting Bruce Roeser to Regina Finan <=-
-=> Quoting Regina Finan to Bruce Roeser <=-
RF> This is my first year of homeschooling and although I have made my
RF> own curriculum I still at times get caught up into what conventional
RF> teaching and curriculums are.  I'm learning too.  I know now that as
RF> long as it is a learning experience it is school.  Thanks.
BR> My wife, Cheryl, has been dealing with that same struggle.  She's
BR> beginning to loosen up on it now, but was very much trying to craft
BR> her schooling around a traditional approach.  We're to the point now
BR> where we realize that just about *any* learning experience can be
BR> written down as school time.  When I take my daughters out for
BR> tennis that counts as Phys Ed., etc.  It's all very legal,
BR> particularly when you keep some kind of portfolio of the work to
BR> demonstrate the learning.  Here in Florida, all that's really
BR> required is periodic testing and evaluation to "ensure that the
BR> student is performing at a level 'commensurate with their
BR> abilities'".  Now ain't that statement a bunch of double-talk?
BR> Fortunately, Cheryl's father is a child-psychologist and is
BR> qualified (and licensed)  to evaluate our daughter's progress; so we
BR> can trust that it will be a good evaluation.  (Dad is *very* serious
BR> about being accurate, even though with family).

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assistant: Of course, but that is the way the pub school system works.
 Well he should be.  It is for the interest in everyone around that any
 truth be known.  It also gives you the chance to see if a change in things
 need to be made before too long.
 Regina
... All I need is a Wave and a board to surf it on.
system: You are Alinda Harrison, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Manfred Ehrlich about "How goes it?".

They wrote:
>     Cyber School is a place where my wife and daughter goes so that they
> have contact with other kids and where Katie can take some classes with
> other kids.  Right now she is taking German.  They also provide support,
> lend books, and help with the state guide lines for home school
> education.

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assistant: RE: How goes it?
BY: Manfred Ehrlich to Alinda Harrison on Tue Mar 18 1997 19:36:49
Ah, like the homeschool office here in Tacoma :)
                                   ...peace...
                                   Alinda Sue...
system: You are Regina Finan, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Daveen Ehrlich about "Re: posts".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting Daveen Ehrlich to Regina Finan <=-
DE> I started off with the comprehensive curriculum also.  Now I have
DE> added several other things to it to make a more involved school day.
DE> I think I am going to keep my son home.  It seems to work better
DE> for him to not have to have as many changes in his day.  He has
DE> problems dealing with transition.
DE> We attend a homeschool resource center which keeps track of the
DE> kids and pays for curriculum.  It is through a nearby school district
DE> and has really helped with keeping us on task.  We have to record 20
DE> hours per week of school work and turn in time sheets.  We meet with a
DE> teacher every 45 days to go over the children's learning plans and
DE> modify them when needed.  We also keep some completed assignments in a
DE> portfolio kept at the school.  They have a computer lab there where the
DE> kids can use internet and lots of software.  It's a really good program
DE> for us. I have found it very helpful.  I can talk to the teachers there
DE> any time I need some assistance and they help out.  Katie has even made
DE> her own web page with a report she did on Mozart.  She will continue to
DE> add to the page as she finishes reports on other composers and the
DE> countries they were born in.  We have been enjoying unit studies right
DE> now and it has been working well for us.  I never thought I could do a
DE> unit study, but I find it very simple and exciting.

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assistant: I use it just as a base study.  Our finances will be straightened out very
 very soon and I intend on investing on other programs I liked, but could
 not afford.
 I'm kinda glad.  I don't like to push homeschooling on people (you never
 know what their circumstance may be or what they can handle) but I prefer
 it.
 I wouldn't mind more support from a district like this, but then again I
 hate people butting in so I may find this a little too restrictive.
 Regina
... A feature is a bug with seniority.
system: You are Regina Finan, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Cheryl Neitz about "Re: How goes it?".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting CHERYL NEITZ to MANFRED EHRLICH <=-
-> -> I am interested in what others have to face when it comes to
-> -> homeschooling in their state. I have been told that PA has one of
-> -> best laws protecting our rights. What do others face?
-> ->
->
-> Here, in WA state, you have to have a degree in something (they
-> pretty much don't care) and pass an extended learning class to be
-> certified in Home Schooling. Our biggest obstacle was my parents ...
-> they've stop bugging me when they see my daughter who is six able to
-> read 3rd grade material and is in the second (soon to be third)
-> grade.
-> Fred
->In PA you have to have a highschool diploma. We have a home evaluater
CN> that will evaluate my daughter at the end of the year. I keep a
CN> porfolio of mounthy work that she will look at the we turn her
CN> evaluation and portfolio in to our area school so they can see that my
CN> daughter did recieve an education. Is that how it goes in all states?

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assistant: Here in Michigan they don't ask you too.  But we do just in case a neighbor
 or someone complains that your kids are home and they decide to send an
 educational officer to the door.  You will then need to prove you do
 homeschool and what they are learning.
 Regina
... A feature is a bug with seniority.
system: You are Nancy Gray, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Cheryl Neitz about "Home Schooling".

They wrote:
CN>I am a mother of a 15 year old and am trying Homeschooling for the first
CN>year. It is very difficult. I would suggest to any one starting to start
CN>at an early age before bad patterns of study have set in. How do others
CN>deal with the change from being parent to being teacher? Is there
CN>something I can say besides "I am the teacher and if you were in public
CN>school you could not do that so you can't here."

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assistant: I homeschool a 15 year old, however we started 5 years ago.
   Just what sort of difficulties are you having.
   I stress to my daughter that it is her education and HER
   future.  I let her have some input as to what she would
   like to study, along with the required subjects. We also
   try to relax and enjoy the experience. We go on field trips,
   or maybe pack a lunch and go to the park and do school, or
   do history over breakfast at McDonalds.
    You might drop the " I am the teacher" and replace it with
   "I am your mother and I am interested in your getting the
    best education possible"
Nancy
system: You are Alinda Harrison, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Regina Finan about "Re: Hiya!".

They wrote:
>  Finacially we have had it rough.  Alot of people have told me to go back
>  to work and put the kids back in pub schools.  I refused and of course
>  they don't understand.  We moved into a low income area just to get a

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assistant: RE: Re: Hiya!
BY: Regina Finan to Charity Ayuso-Onore on Mon Mar 17 1997 13:50:04
Aside from the fact that your children are better off with you at home
teaching
them, there are many good reasons to stick to your guns here. Childcare is
ne
very important one. Most of the parents I know who work, insisting they need
the second income to get by, end up spending most of that second income on
childcare. Even if all the kids are in school all day, very few jobs allow
work
hours only during the school day :-/
Add to that the higher tax level for the combined incomes, transpotation
costs,
and more frequent take out food because of the exhaustion of trying to be
mother, housekeeper, and work an outside job too...very few of those two
income
couples actually come out ahead.
There was a time that I considered working to add income, back when I only
ad
a couple kids. All the jobs I was qualified for paid about $5 per hour, about
a
dollar or two above minimum at the time. I looked at that figure, factored in
childcare, ect and figured I would bring home about 10 cents an hour. I
decided
$30-40 per month wasn't worth the sacrifice my children would have to make.
Now that I have 5 (soon to be 6) kids, it would cost me money to go to work!
It's a struggle on only one income, but it would be either way. If people bug
you about "not having a job" just tell them you have one, it just pays in
ays
more valuable than mere money :)
                                     ...peace...
                                     Alinda Sue...
system: You are Regina Finan, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Ruth Beechick about "Re: Regina F".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting Ruth Beechick to Charity Ayuso-onore <=-
RB> This message is to Regina Finan, but I couldn't pull up any direct
RB> message from you, Regina. Only quotes in Charity's messages. I'm an
RB> eavesdropper on this echo.
RB> You say your ADD son will go on meds this summer, and I just wanted to
RB> input some information for you to consider. If the med is Ritalin, a
RB> better alternative may be phenytoin (PHT). For more information see my
RB> article on this in "Homeschooling Today" May/June 1994. This is much
RB> safer and probably cheaper because the patent has run out. Ritalin is
RB> pushed upon the doctors by the drug companies, and nobody is telling
RB> them about PHT. Many mainstream doctors don't take kindly to
RB> suggestions that are not mainstream. But if you are concerned about
RB> Ritalin, you may wish to look into this alternative.

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assistant: My first son was on Ritalin.  I will be looking at a few and we will see.
 I am concerned with several factors here.  One is his concentration.
 Second is his aggression he has a hard time controlling.  Third is his
 sleeplessness.  He does not fall asleep easily and will stay awake until
 late or not at all.  What ever we choose or combinations that must be
 chosen these are my main concerns.
 I use to get that, but they never sent it to me again after the first time.
 (Homeschooling Today, that is)
 Regina
... All I need is a Wave and a board to surf it on.
system: You are John Pilla, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Bruce Roeser about "Re: Rummy".

They wrote:
-=>> Quoting Regina Finan to Bruce Roeser <=-
RF>> This is my first year of homeschooling and although I have made my
RF>> own curriculum I still at times get caught up into what conventional
RF>> teaching and curriculums are.  I'm learning too.  I know now that as
RF>> long as it is a learning experience it is school.  Thanks.
BR>   My wife, Cheryl, has been dealing with that same struggle.  She's
BR>   beginning to loosen up on it now, but was very much trying to craft
BR>   her schooling around a traditional approach.  We're to the point now
BR>   where we realize that just about *any* learning experience can be
BR>   written down as school time.  When I take my daughters out for tennis
BR>   that counts as Phys Ed., etc.  It's all very legal, particularly when
BR>   you keep some kind of portfolio of the work to demonstrate the
BR>   learning.  Here in Florida, all that's really required is periodic
BR>   testing and evaluation to "ensure that the student is performing at a
BR>   level 'commensurate with their abilities'".  Now ain't that statement
BR>   a bunch of double-talk?

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assistant: TOPIC: Re: Rummy
Hi, we've been homeschooling for about five years now.  And we too have
chosen to home-school vice school at home.  We use a lot of literature in a
semi-strucyured environment with SonLight Curriculum.  Then you can go even
further out with the "Unschooling" approach, a little bit too looose for us.
BTW, we have four children, so less structured approach allows us to use
one-room schoolroom approach, and NOT 4 sets of math textbooks, four sets of
science textbooks, etc.
  ~ John
John Pilla
 * Evaluation copy of Silver Xpress. Day # 0
system: You are Mark Towne, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Cheryl Neitz about "EXCUSE ME".

They wrote:
-=> Saw your post to Sylvia and I wondered if I could comment.
-=> I do not know where you live but my community in PA has a
-=> homeschooling
-=> organization I have found very helpful. I found it through
-=> other
-=> parents that homeschool in my church. I live in a small
-=> (2000) town but
-=> I would say there is close to 50 children being
-=> homeschooled. They hold
-=> seminars telling what PA requires, the paperwork required,
-=> and used book
-=> exchange, and curriculum catalogues.
-=> If you would have access to anything like this you might
-=> find that
-=> helpful.
-=> Cheryl

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assistant: That is quite okay Cheryl.  I really appreciate your input.  There is going
to be a HomeSchooling Seminar (big one) out here in Denver this June.  I am
planning on getting the time off, to attend.
Actually, I can hardly wait.  Julia, is really fired up about it.  Bless her
heart,...she comes home from school, and I ask her how it went,...and she
says "not good".  Yet she makes very good grades.  I think she has a problem
with the whole school attitude, kids, etc.  She feels pretty stressed out.
Thanks for the input.  We are doing some asking and looking here now.
Mark
system: You are Daveen Ehrlich, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Regina Finan about "Re: posts".

They wrote:
-> DE> I think I am going to keep my son home.  It seems to work better
-> DE> for him to not have to have as many changes in his day.  He has
-> DE> problems dealing with transition.
->
-> I'm kinda glad.  I don't like to push homeschooling on people (you ne
-> know what their circumstance may be or what they can handle) but I pr
-> it.
->
-> I wouldn't mind more support from a district like this, but then agai
-> hate people butting in so I may find this a little too restrictive.

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assistant: I don't like to push things on people either, but if they ask I let
them know what I think.  I had a friend ask me about homeschooling the
other day and I told her that she could do it if she wanted to and I let
her know what I did.  She just wasn't satisfied with the public school
system and wanted to look at all of her options.  I will probably talk
more to her about it and I'm trying to think of a good book or tapes
that she could use to really find out more about it, but she is not a
Christian and I'm finding it hard to locate something that isn't
strongly bible oriented.
    I find that they aren't at all restrictive.  The teachers are great
and make a point to let us know that they are just a resource center to
assist us with our homeschooling and they don't at all want to interfere
with what we are trying to accomplish with our children.  I've been told
that if I don't like them being involved somewhere then just tell them
to but out.  I can take what they suggest and use it or just ignore it
if it doesn't agree with my way of thinking.  So far the program has
been very helpful.  They have gotten my daughter involved with writing
reports on the internet which is a place where I am completely in the
dark.  They help out with things that I don't feel real comfortable
with.  They really keep my daughters interest up and therefore make my
job a little easier.  She is now excited about learning.  I still have
to lead her through everything, but because she is still so young I'm
willing to accept that for now.  She may be quite ahead academically,
but she is still very young and I always have to try and keep that in
mind when I deal with her.  I always have to remind myself that she is
only six and still needs a lot of help from us.
                        Daveen
system: You are Alinda Harrison, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Daveen Ehrlich about "Re: posts".

They wrote:
> system and wanted to look at all of her options.  I will probably talk
> more to her about it and I'm trying to think of a good book or tapes
> that she could use to really find out more about it, but she is not a
> Christian and I'm finding it hard to locate something that isn't
> strongly bible oriented.

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assistant: RE: Re: posts
BY: Daveen Ehrlich to Regina Finan on Fri Mar 21 1997 07:36:43
Try the local school supply store. That's where I get most of my materials.
It makes it really easy to cater the program to our needs rather than a put
together curriculum. :)
                               ...peace...
                               Alinda Sue...
system: You are Marla Bilbrey, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Sharon Davis about "Charlotte Mason".

They wrote:
SD>Does anyone use Charlotte Mason method.  I have been researching it for
SD>some time and it seems to really speak to my heart.  I would like to
SD>get some opinions on it.

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assistant: I have her 6 volume series on THE ORIGINAL HOMESCHOOLING SERIES, got it
from CONSERATIVE BOOKS, either free, or a reduced price (maybe $8-$9.00)
to join the club.  Heavy books to read (not heavy in weight, but
thoughts <BG>). Mine are pen marked with underlinings and other notes I
have written on the margins.  I tend to do that with my books <g>.
I guess I don't use any of her "methods" per se but some of her ideas
made me stop and think.  Ever read any of Raymond Moore or Ruth
Beechick's books?  They also make one stop and think.
Alot of the Homeschooling "pioneers" all tell about taking time to get
to know your kids, suit learning to the child and not others views of
that child, use love and seek God's ways.
I liked Masons views of using walks to teach so many things.  I hope you
can find some of her books (if you haven't already) and read them.
system: You are Marla Bilbrey, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Donna Ransdell about "science ideas".

They wrote:
DR>My 4th grade daughter has decided that Science with Mommy is much more fun
DR>than Science with Mr. R (her public school teacher). Twice now, she has
DR>home with Science for homework that she does not seem to understand.

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assistant: come
Thanks. Enjoyed reading your experiments.  Every time someone takes the
time to post things like this, it gets my imagination going in ways to
teach my kids.  You have internet?  If so, Beakman has a place where the
kids can do interactive experiments.  My kids like Beakman, either on
TV, on cereal boxes, a science book we sent off for, kits from Walmart
or on the internet.  He makes it fun.
system: You are Marla Bilbrey, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Home Schooling message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Ruth Beechick about "Regina F".

They wrote:
RB>You say your ADD son will go on meds this summer, and I just wanted to

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assistant: You the -DR.RUTH BEECHICK-, as in the one I have many of your books
floating around here that I have read?  The ONE that helped inspire me
to try homeschooling?
If you are, I am SO grateful to you!   {{{HUGS}}} to you for all the
help I have received from you!
YOU CAN TEACH YOUR CHILD SUCCESSFULLY was a big help to me.  Showed me
how to relax and enjoy my children, which sounds weird to say, but I had
to learn about my kids after I brought my older two out of the public
school system.  I didn't know them like I thought I did, I just knew
what they were like after they hit the house after a day in school.  I
have found out so much about them, things that others were discovering
that I was missing out on.  You brought things down to a level I could
understand and go by.  Thanks!