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system: You are Linda Allard, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Sharon Coyne about "Re: Holiday".

They wrote:
SC> LA>SC>         Right now, I don't know what questions to ask since the
SC> LA>SC> letter wasn't responded to and the other refused. I can't force
SC> LA>SC> me. I am open for as many suggestions as possible though.
SC>
SC> LA>Right now what I can suggest is maybe to get a "third" party involved,
SC> LA>someone who is neutral to both you and your birth father.  This person
SC> LA>approach him and tell him what you want or don't want.  It may be the
SC> LA>easiest way as this person could express why you want to meet him etc.
SC>
SC>         I thought of that from the beginning and sometimes wish I would
SC>         have done it. I have a friend who offered to do just that. I
SC>         guess she wouldn't be neutral though, but I know she would be
SC>         honest and trustworthy. The only thing I want is to meet him and
SC>         find out if he is indeed my birthfather. If he is, then all I
SC>         want is a chance to get to know him. I don't plan to try to take
SC>         him away from his family or get anything other than friendship
SC>         from him, and hopefully the rest of the family.

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assistant: On 03 Jan 97  16:29:22, Sharon Coyne said the following to Linda Allard:
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That sounds reasonable enough to me.  Maybe you should let your friend
intervene for you... You never know it just may do the trick..
Let me know how it all works out...
Best of luck.
Linda
system: You are Gene Mathews, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Mary-Ann Burns about "ADOPTION".

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assistant: (1) At the place of adoption, find out what judge processed yours.
(2) Write him a letter saying that you would like to have your files
opened and for what purpose (it could be for health history).
If he refuses to open the file, ask him to give you all the
non-identifying information in your file.  This can be helpful.  Usually
they will send you a file with the name either cut out or whited out.
This is when you begin to count the probable letters in the name.
Sometimes, they make a mistake and leave the names in.  This happened to
a case I recently helped with.  When you get this information, write to
me again and I will tell you how to proceed further.
system: You are Linda Allard, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Sharon Coyne about "Re: Got a call".

They wrote:
SC>         I was shaking so bad while talking to her and for a long time
SC>         afterward. She was very nice and understanding of my situation.
SC>         I will send the copy of the picture on Monday from a main post
SC>         office.
SC>
SC>         This may be it!!!! :-)

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assistant: I will keep my fingers, toes and mostly all else crossed for you... Please
let me know how it goes...
Congrats on a BIG first step... I'm happy for you!
Linda
system: You are Barbara Leonard, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Michael Holt about "Did you get a yearbook picture?".

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assistant: You should of sent your mother a holiday greether.... just a h
she may have begun to wish she
had acknowledged the call that was made to her.  Did Sherry make that call?
I have a short in my short term memory file.   :) :)      Well, gotta run.
How come you don't play any games on this board.  Lots of us are on the
word games;    scrabble  hang em high  tele hang (this one is pretty fun;
as the unknown word or phrase we have been using (kathryn & I are playing
this one).     The meeting on the 15th is supposed to have a speaker....
a therapist of some sort.   Having working with several therapists ....
sometimes it is "a sort".   :)     Well gotta run;  gotta to take David
to hockey practice.    did you move to the  fan?   Have you gotten robbed
yet?
BBL
system: You are Barbara Dermody, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "Tennessee Childrens Home Society".

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assistant: Hi,
     I am looking to talk to anyone that knows anything about the Tennessee
Childrens Home Society back in the 1950's.
Thanks
system: You are Lynn Gipson, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Sharon Coyne about "Got a call".

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assistant: SC:I told her I wanted to know him.
SC:It turns out that he died almost a year ago. :-(
Sorry to hear this.
SC:Also, she said
SC:some of my information wasn't accurate. I told her that my aunt
SC:gave me the information and it may not be accurate since it was
SC:almost 50 years before I was told this info. She seemed
SC:genuinely surprised that the second letter was refused. I
SC:really don't think that she knew about it. She asked me to send
SC:the copy of the picture so the family could see it and we will
SC:go from there.
This really sounds promising!  After all this time, it is good that
someone is interested enough to correspond with you on this.
SC: I was shaking so bad while talking to her and for a long time
SC: afterward. She was very nice and understanding of my situation.
I am soooooo happy for you.  And I sure do understand the shaking
part.  I couldn't stop for 3 days after talking to my son after 35
years.  :)
SC:        This may be it!!!! :-)
Sure looks like it!   :->
 * SLMR 2.1a * ... Blessed is he who can understand C.
system: You are Helen Chandler, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "Richard Theodore EVANS".

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assistant: I'm looking for the birth parent/s of a boy born in St. Louis, MO on 6-23-57
with the name of the papers for him "Richard Theodore Evans"  Would greatly
appreciate any help you could give me.  My E-mail is hechan@juno.com  If you
have suggestions, please let me know.
system: You are Helen Chandler, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "Baby girl Bently".

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assistant: Looking for birth parent/s of a girl born in Los Angeles on Feb. 14, 1961.
The name given then was "Baby Girl Bently--or Bentley--can't remember.  The
parents were univ. students in Los Angeles.  Please contact me at
hec@juno.com if you have any information or suggestions.  I don't really want
to make contact at this point--or maybe never--but do want information to
give my two adopted children if they should want it.
system: You are Shirley Norton, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "Genieve Childrens Home".

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assistant: I am looking for anyone who might have information on the old Genieve
Childrens Home that existed in the 1930's in Shreveport, La.  The Home was
located on Highland and Olive St. in 1930.   My sister was about 6 or 7
months old when she was left there in Dec. 1930.  She was born 1 June 1930
in Talor, La. Her birth name was Pecor.
Any help or information would be greatly appreciated.
Shirley Norton
Email:   shirley.norton@psl-online.com
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system: You are Sharon Coyne, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Linda Allard about "Re: Holiday".

They wrote:
LA>SC>         I thought of that from the beginning and sometimes wish I
LA>SC>         have done it. I have a friend who offered to do just that. I
LA>SC>         guess she wouldn't be neutral though, but I know she would be
LA>SC>         honest and trustworthy. The only thing I want is to meet him
LA>SC>         find out if he is indeed my birthfather. If he is, then all I
LA>SC>         want is a chance to get to know him. I don't plan to try to
LA>SC>         him away from his family or get anything other than friendship
LA>SC>         from him, and hopefully the rest of the family.
LA>That sounds reasonable enough to me.  Maybe you should let your friend
LA>intervene for you... You never know it just may do the trick..
LA>Let me know how it all works out...
LA>Best of luck.

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assistant: ould
and
take
        Well, as you may know by now, I don't have to do any of this.
        :-) That phone call was just what I needed to make my life more
        peaceful, especially after the second letter was refused. I have
        another letter with a picture going out as we speak. I will be
        on pins and needles until I hear from the niece again.
        Thank you so much!!! I still need a little of that luck though
        in finding out the truth.
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system: You are Joan Dawes, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "REUNION WITH RELINQUISHING MOTHER".

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assistant: As a relinquishing mother I have recently had a reunion with my son who is
now 36 - and it was a lovely experience.  I have gradually introduced him to
my other children and they have been very happy to meet him.  However my
husband, whom I married a few years after my son was born and adopted - and
who has known about him since we or our relationship became serious - does
not want to be involved with him in any way - to the point of him not being
welcome in my home.   Can anyone in a similar situation or who has been
through the same situation give me any advice how to handle this - whether
time will resolve it eventually?  I certainly hope so.
system: You are Michael Holt, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Barbara Leonard about "Did you get a yearbook picture?".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting Barbara Leonard to Michael Holt <=-
BL> You should of sent your mother a holiday greether.... just a h
BL> she may have begun to wish she
BL> had acknowledged the call that was made to her.  Did Sherry make that
BL> call? I have a short in my short term memory file.   :) :)      Well,
BL> gotta run. How come you don't play any games on this board.  Lots of us
BL> are on the word games;    scrabble  hang em high  tele hang (this one
BL> is pretty fun; as the unknown word or phrase we have been using
BL> (kathryn & I are playing this one).     The meeting on the 15th is
BL> supposed to have a speaker.... a therapist of some sort.   Having
BL> working with several therapists .... sometimes it is "a sort".   :)
BL> Well gotta run;  gotta to take David to hockey practice.    did you
BL> move to the  fan?   Have you gotten robbed yet?

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assistant: I'm not in the Fan.  I'm on Oregon Hill (!).  It's supposed to be worse
here, but so far the only real irritant is the kid across the street who
plays rap music on his car boombox.  Not robbed yet, but there's always
hope!
I've never played any games on a BBS.  I don't know why; I just don't.
No car, or I'd be at the meeting on the 15th (if I'm not working -- I'm
working at the Rite-Aid on Grace, if that's working: I hate it, but no
one seems willing to hire me for anything else).
Judi made the call to my birth mother.  I did send her a letter a week
later, thanking her for her patience.
... Played poker with Tarot cards.  Got a flush.  Five persons died.
system: You are Ronald Deal, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Michael Holt about "Just Read a Stupid Message".

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assistant: Michael I just read a message to you from a lady from the past. It seems this
person is very very bitter about the meetings. She said attendance was low.
That several of the backbones were no longer attending PLUS due to an Idiot a
lot of persons left and never came back! Then she states "contentions over
rules, money, and power"! Doesn't she realize that She was the idiot and the
main reason that most of the people left! Then she states "I get lots of
calls", I have changed my techniques", "I send them to do their own legwork",
"I held to many ungrateful hands". Boy is she bitter. But being she says she
no longer gets to the meetings maybe it would be a great thing for all of us
to come back and conduct the meetings like they should have been conducted,
in other words without conflict over the monies and who gets the credit and
who gets paid. Meetings were fun at first but you could see how a few would
never let anyone into their click. If you need my help Michael on anything
you know how to contact me. As you know we have been helping people search
for the last few years and have been pretty successful doing it on our own.
Chat with ya later. You need not answer this message in this format. If you
have comments feel free to leave them in my mailbox at the BIG DEAL BBS.
system: You are Ronald Deal, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Michael Holt about "Enlightening Message".

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assistant: Michael I just perused a message that was written to you. It seems the person
who wrote this letter sounds very very bitter about the meetings. She stated
that attendance at the meetings have been very LOW. That several of the
Backbones were no longer attending PLUS due to an Idiot a lot of persons left
and never came back! The she states "contentions over rules, money, and
power". I wonder if this person will ever figure out who the real Idiot was!
Those people left as I have heard due to the way the meetings were being held
and the way people that wanted to help others in the group were treated. Boy
is this person bitter but being they state they no longer attend these
meetings on a regular basis maybe some of these people who left will return
one day! If you need my help Michael on anything you know how to contact me.
As you know we have been helping people search on a regular basis for the
past few years and have been very successful doing it on our own. You need
not answer this message via this Forum. If you have a response feel free to
leave them in my Mail Box at the Big Deal BBS.
system: You are Barbara Leonard, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Ronald Deal about "Just Read a Stupid Message".

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assistant: Ron, are you so retaliating that you have to answer the same message twice?
What I write to another user; is not your business.  I am asking the
oderator
to go back and observe how you jump into other persons messages constantly;
without being asked.   Back in November; there were a couple of persons
chatting back and forth and responding to messages; and because you don't
like what they say; you rudely get involved.   Hopefully some of those
who seemed interested in helping others; as well as those who are looking for
support in their search will return so they can meet with success.
system: You are Sharon Coyne, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Linda Allard about "Re: Got a call".

They wrote:
LA>SC>         I was shaking so bad while talking to her and for a long time
LA>SC>         afterward. She was very nice and understanding of my
LA>SC>         I will send the copy of the picture on Monday from a main post
LA>SC>         office.
LA>SC>
LA>SC>         This may be it!!!! :-)
LA>I will keep my fingers, toes and mostly all else crossed for you... Please
LA>let me know how it goes...
LA>Congrats on a BIG first step... I'm happy for you!

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assistant: ituation.
        Will do!!! I haven't been around the last two days, but
        will be home for a while now. As much as I'm hoping that
        she says it is him, I'm ready for anything.
        Thank you so much!!!
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system: You are Sharon Coyne, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Lynn Gipson about "Got a call".

They wrote:
LG>SC:I told her I wanted to know him.
LG>SC:It turns out that he died almost a year ago. :-(
LG>Sorry to hear this.
LG>SC:Also, she said
LG>SC:some of my information wasn't accurate. I told her that my aunt
LG>SC:gave me the information and it may not be accurate since it was
LG>SC:almost 50 years before I was told this info. She seemed
LG>SC:genuinely surprised that the second letter was refused. I
LG>SC:really don't think that she knew about it. She asked me to send
LG>SC:the copy of the picture so the family could see it and we will
LG>SC:go from there.
LG>This really sounds promising!  After all this time, it is good that
LG>someone is interested enough to correspond with you on this.
LG>SC: I was shaking so bad while talking to her and for a long time
LG>SC: afterward. She was very nice and understanding of my situation.
LG>I am soooooo happy for you.  And I sure do understand the shaking
LG>part.  I couldn't stop for 3 days after talking to my son after 35
LG>years.  :)
LG>SC:        This may be it!!!! :-)
LG>Sure looks like it!   :->

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assistant: It does make me wish I would have searched sooner, but I
        can't take back the past. :-(
        I sent another letter with the picture, so now I wait
        again, but at least there is hope. I'm ready for anything
        though.
        hehehe I'm ok now. I'll probably be shaking again soon
        though.
        :-)
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system: You are Rod Plant, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "How to start".

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assistant: Hello, can anyone give me some info on how or where to start looking
for my birth family.  I've been informed by my adopted parents that
It's a very good possibility that I was a twin.  I need to find out if
I was.  I've always wondered who my birth parents were, but was never
bothered by it because to me my adopted parents are Mom and Dad.  But
now that I know I might be a twin it bugs me and I'd like to find out
if there really was a brother or sister I don't know about.  Thanks.
system: You are Michael Kirst, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "Offensive Greeting Card!!!!".

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assistant: Hello everyone,
The following information was posted in one of the adoption related Internet
mailing lists that I carry.  I have received the message's author's
permission to repost this information into other forums!!
The author of the original message found an incredibly offensive Valentine's
Day card yesterday, published by American Greetings.  Here is the text of the
card:
"SIS, even if you were adopted, I'd still love you... (open the card)
... not that  you are, of course. At least I don't think  so. But, come to
think of it, you don't really look like Mom or Dad.  Gee, maybe you should
get a DNA test or something.  Oh well, don't worry about it.  We all love
you, even if your real parents don't.  Happy Valentine's Day"
At the time of the original posting, the author did not have any e-mail
contact information for American Greetings (yet) but I suggest we all write
and tell them just how insensitive this card really IS.
This particular care is in their "Just my style" card series and the code on
the back is: 225AV 0837-42W
NOTE: I believe Wal-Mart, K-Mart, and Target all carry the American Greetings
card line.  It has been suggested that local stores be contacted and
requested to remove and return the offensive cards to American Greetings.  I
have obtained the following electronic contact information:
American Greetings On-line:
    http://www.greetingcard.com/emailform.html#top
    http://www.americangreetings.com   from this page, click on customer
    service at the bottom of the page to send them e-mail from their own
    home page.
Wal-Mart
    http://www.wal-mart.com
K-Mart
    http://www.kmart.com
Michael Kirst
f/k/a Christopher Lee Backus
Sysop of The Noble House BBS
system: You are Dave Mcdougle, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "Timmy & Alan Eytcheson".

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assistant: I am trying to find two of my wife's brothers.  Their birth names
        were Timothy Dale Eytcheson and Allen Wayne Eytcheson.
        Allan's birth-date is 29 March 1962 or 63.  Tim was born in either
        1963 or 64.  Both were born in Rochester, IN.  Their parents were
        Paul Eytcheson and Roseann ( Shirley ) Lynch Eytcheson.
        The boys were first put in foster care with a Mrs. Rock in the
ulton,
        IN area sometime in 1967-8.  We believe that they were both adopted
        by the same couple.  Their adopted father may have been a minister.
        Any information that may be out there would be greatly appreciated.
                        Thanks,
                                Dave McDougle
                                RR# 2 Box 180
                                Macy, IN 46951
                                219-382-2223
system: You are Mary Fuller, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Rod Plant about "How to start".

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assistant: Rod,
What state were you born in?  Have you registered with ISRR?  Have you
contacted the placing agency or was your adoption handled by an attorney?  If
you post more information, I bet some of us will have some suggestions as to
what avenues could be pursued.
-Mary