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system: You are Michael Kirst, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Peter Lane-Collett about "OZ echo".

They wrote:
PL> Is anyone aware if there is an Australian equivalent to this echo
PL> which seems to be inhabited only by those of the North American
PL> persuasion?

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assistant: Peter Lane-Collett wrote in a message to all:
To the best of my knowledge this is the only adoption search echo in Fidonet.
 Though I am not aware of any non-Zone 1 Echolist whichi would list the echos
in their respective Zone(s).
As far as the persuasion of this echo, one reason that it might seem to be
predominated by people of a North American "slant" is that up until this
year, this echo wasn't distributed outside of Zone 1 - North America.  It is
through the efforts of those who operate the Internet FTP distribution
systems that echos like this one can finally reach into Zones 2 - 6. :-)  I
have heard that some of the people in Zone 3 have come from either Canada
(part of Zone 1) or the United Kingdom (part of Zone 2).  Also, I'm sure that
there are people in Zone 3 that moved there from Zone 1 and/or moved to Zone
1 from Zone 3 areas.  This echo (and most others) are finally truely Global
in their distribution.
Perhaps you and some of the other participants in Zone 3 could share some
information about adoption record access (sealed/open, easily/hard accessed)
with the rest of us and vice versa...
BTW, Welcome to the ADOPTEES echo!!
Michael Kirst
f/k/a Christopher Lee Backus
Sysop of The Noble House BBS
system: You are Michael Holt, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Peter Lane-Collett about "OZ echo".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting Peter Lane-Collett to all <=-
PL> Is anyone aware if there is an Australian equivalent to this echo
PL> which seems to be inhabited only by those of the North American
PL> persuasion?

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assistant: There are on occasion messages from your land.  Each week there is posted
a list of BBSs posting; check that list on Monday to see who else in the
Antipodes might be posting.
... Pardon my language: I can't speak English; I'm an American.
system: You are Derek Henderson, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "Father".

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assistant: Hello everyone. A while ago I wrote that I was looking for my parents as I
was
put up for adoption before I was even born. Well, I did find my mother, but
she didn't want to have any contact with me. That's fine, ther's nothiing I
can do to change that. Well, I recieved a call from the cae worker at
C.A.S.the other day and she found my father. He is looking forward to meeting
me and I'm just in the middle of preparing a introduction letter for him. I
found out that I have an older brother and sister as well as a younger
brother
and sister. They are all half brothers and sisters, but to me it dosen't
matter.....family is still family.
I'm wondering if there is anyone here that has had a similar experience as
I'm
going through now. If so, could you write back....I'm not sure what to
pect.
Thank you
                                Derek Henderson
                                The Pentium Zone BBS
                                Sysop
                                Fidonet 1:253/116
                                GDS.NET 100:1019/5
                                (705) 748-3352
                                DEHENDER@FLEMINGC.ON.CA
system: You are Joan Schultz, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Cheryl Hert about "searching".

They wrote:
-> Joan, thanks for the info.  I already called that Bonnie McCann in
-> Sonoma,Calif.  Wasn't the right one.  McCann was her maiden name so i
-> likely she has gotten married (?)  I just haven't been able to locate
-> marriage ceterficate yet on her.  Hey, I would be glad to tell you my
-> investigative work! Right now it is kinda late and it might take some
-> So I will get on here in a day or so and let you know what I have don
-> Thanks again and i will be letting you know.

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assistant: I wish that I could have been more help.  I wonder if there is a way to
locate marriage certificates on the internet?
-
  Hey, I would be glad to tell you my
I look forward to hearing from you! :)
Joan
system: You are Tina Doak, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Jason Steele about "Hi there cutie...".

They wrote:
> Ok....You didn't call my board today but that's ok...:( I
> guess....
> --- Maximus 3.00
>  * Origin: The GeneSplicer's BBS, Las Vegas,Nv. (1:209/720)

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assistant: * In a message originally to Heaven, Jason Steele said:
What board???? I'll call .....:)  later, Tina
system: You are Mary Fuller, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Richard Haney about "20/20 Ireland".

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assistant: It was one of the best segments that I've seen aired on TV.  I was impressed
with the compassion shown towards adoptees and birth parents.  I thought it
was
made to sound like birth fathers took off and did not take responsibility.
That
might have been true in the majority of the cases.  For a few minutes I
wondered if I might have been born in Ireland and shipped to Chicago!  Most
babies remained with their mothers for a year or so which makes me think that
I
probably was born in Chicago.  I know first-hand though how Catholic
harities
and the Catholic Church can be toward those of us searching.  However, there
are other agencies and churches just as bad or worse.  It is wonderful that
some adoptees and birth parents are finally being reunited!
system: You are Mary Fuller, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "Sisters".

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assistant: Two sisters who were born in Maine were placed for adoption in Chicago.  The
oldest was born 4/19/44 and the youngest 5/30/45.  They lived with a
grandmother for a while in Chicago before being placed for adoption.  It's
believed they were probably placed before 1964 but that is not certain.  I'm
trying to help someone find these gals.  If anyone has any information, I'd
greatly appreciate hearing it.
system: You are Mary Fuller, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "Adoptee Searching".

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assistant: A female adoptee born on 1/24/52 in Chicago is seeking her birth mother.
Iroquois County, IL was the court of jurisdiction.  Anyone with information,
please let me know.
system: You are Mary Fuller, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "Might as Well!".

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assistant: While posting for others I should state that I'm STILL searching.  I was born
on 4/15/47 in Chicago.  Over a year ago I reopened my search in an attempt to
verify if a woman I've been in touch with for years is my birth mother or to
find the right person.  I definitely feel progress is being made.  But if
anyone would hold helpful information, I would greatly accept it!
system: You are Sharon Coyne, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Brent Hendricks about "Re: Arrggghhh!!!".

They wrote:
BH>  Sharon,  Havn't been around this echo lately and just dopped in and read
BH>your msg.  Thought I would offer you some words of encouragement!! :)
BH>  We all must take risks in our like, some are bigger then others, some
BH>necessary and others arn't.  Just remember you have more to lose inside
BH>you do not take the risk of mailing thoes letters then if you do.  I am
BH>that everything will work out one way or another (Somehow they always do).
BH>have faith in your self and in your feelings and GO FOR IT!!! :)
BH> Another suggestion is giving them to a close friend for them to mail....

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assistant: Thank you very much. :-)
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        I mailed the third letter I wrote about 2 weeks ago and
have heard nothing. :-( I was just wondering, since I forgot to
register it, if maybe someone else got it and threw it away. I
guess I'll never know. I do plan to write one more letter later
this week and include a copy of the picture of my birthfather with my
mother and his friend. Maybe that will make my first letter more
legit to whoever gets it.
 * OLX 2.1 TD * Don't count the days, make the days count.
-*- Opus-CBCS 1.7x via O_QWKer 1.7
system: You are Sharon Coyne, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Gerald T. White about "Arrggghhh!!!".

They wrote:
GTW>Re: Arrggghhh!!!
GTW>> GTW>he served in the Navy in the 60's in subs (doing Medical work of
GTW>>         I've seen it mentioned in here that you could contact the
GTW>> veteran's organizations for help on military information and
GTW>> possibly his present address if he if a member now. Try the
GTW>> Veterans of Foreign Wars.
GTW>I checked with the Dep. Of the Navy... They gave me one leed but it
GTW>out to be the wrong man...
GTW>I've seen every thing i can of hers..
GTW>as for most of the places... I've checked but my father to a lock on most
GTW>the info way back in the 60's and 70's.. and Privacy act keeps getting in
GTW>way...
GTW>If I could find out who handled her may be able to pass a message that
GTW>one step at a time...

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assistant: some
urned
        Sorry to hear that and wish you luck in your search.
of
th
        I'm sure you will find a way. It seems that most of us
do. Have you tried asking for someone to check a phone listing?
That is how I found my birthfather (?).
way..
        That is exactly how you have to handle it...one step at a
time. If you could find out who produced those shows, they may be
able to help.
 * OLX 2.1 TD * Whoever is happy will make others happy too.
-*- Opus-CBCS 1.7x via O_QWKer 1.7
system: You are Sharon Coyne, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Julie Marshall about "Re: Arrggghhh!!!".

They wrote:
JM>Good for you! Time has a way of going faster tomorrow than it did today,
JM>just keep busy. I know it's a time of anxiety... even fear, especially
JM>but knowing is better than not. I hope he does respond, but sometimes, if
JM>takes a while, it's a good sign too. To me that would indicate decisions
JM>be made, research, how to handle it, etc. Just think of what you would do
JM>you recieved a letter like that and what you would do and how long it
JM>take you to do it.
JM>A rather quick reply I got once from a letter while searching was a
JM>disapointment... wrong party. He was sad not to be who I was looking for
JM>not even able to offer help, but knowing no one who could even be in his
JM>family, though the name is fairly rare.
JM>So if it takes a while, there's better hope than if it's very quick.
JM>Patience is a virtue. I wish you well and speed you to a healed heart.
JM>... Walk with the angels, let them light your way. Peace & Love to you.

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assistant: o
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if
ould
        Well, it took me almost 3 years after hearing the news
for me to do the search. Like you said, there were decisions,
research and the question of how to handle it. I just hope he
doesn't take that long.
r
        I guess you are right. But I do think that I will get a
copy of the picture of him, mom and his friend out to him. That
might help out some.
        Thank you. Peace and love to you too.
 * OLX 2.1 TD * The return makes one love the farewell.
-*- Opus-CBCS 1.7x via O_QWKer 1.7
system: You are Sharon Coyne, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Derek Henderson about "Father".

They wrote:
DH>Hello everyone. A while ago I wrote that I was looking for my parents as I
DH>put up for adoption before I was even born. Well, I did find my mother,
DH>she didn't want to have any contact with me. That's fine, ther's nothiing
DH>can do to change that. Well, I recieved a call from the cae worker at
DH>C.A.S.the other day and she found my father. He is looking forward to
DH>me and I'm just in the middle of preparing a introduction letter for him.
DH>found out that I have an older brother and sister as well as a younger
DH>and sister. They are all half brothers and sisters, but to me it dosen't
DH>matter.....family is still family.
DH>I'm wondering if there is anyone here that has had a similar experience as
DH>going through now. If so, could you write back....I'm not sure what to
DH>Thank you

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assistant: wa
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meeting
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expect
        That is great that your father wants to meet you. I wish
you a happy life with him and hope your mother comes around too.
 * OLX 2.1 TD * Things are beautiful if you love them.
-*- Opus-CBCS 1.7x via O_QWKer 1.7
system: You are Patti Jones, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Gayle Licari about "VIETNAM ADOPTEES".

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assistant: Gayle,
     Did you happen to see the other message sent to me by another user?  He
gave a list of VN organizations that might be helpful.  Also, I have a friend
that lives in Walker Lake, and will e-mail him to see if he knows or can find
a Vietnamese Veterans Organ. that's in Reno........tell your friend "Good
Luck" in her search !!
                                          Patti
<you might also let her know that there are a Nurses listed as KIA's on 'The
Wall' in D.C. who died trying to airlift Vietnamese children out of Vietman>
system: You are Duane Towler, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Lynn Gipson about "Mich. laws".

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assistant: Lynn I did not even know about this.How do I go about getting the info.Like
what do I need to send them and other stuff like that.
system: You are Mike Gee, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Gene Mathews about "Aug 30 1968-baby boy".

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assistant: About a year ago i posted on here and a woman here in San diego
responded with all the info i needed I`ll look up the number and let you
know.
system: You are Peter Lane-Collett, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Michael Kirst about "OZ echo".

They wrote:
MK> Perhaps you and some of the other participants in Zone 3 could share some
MK> information about adoption record access (sealed/open, easily/hard
MK> accessed) with the rest of us and vice versa...
MK> BTW, Welcome to the ADOPTEES echo!!

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assistant: Michael, at 20:54 on Thu, Oct 31 1996, you wrote to Peter Lane-Collett ...
Hi Michael
I've not ever tried to find out anything about my "birth" parents and as far
as I know they've never tried to find me. I've never had anything that my
adopted parents knew kept from me. I know the basic circumstances of my
adoption and my birth parents and bear them no ill feeling as I could not
have wished for a better family. I also never had any problems about "who I
am" and therefore not felt the need to search out any other "family" I might
have. I would be willing to meet with them but would likely not actively
search them out while my adoptive mother lives. She told me that she wouldn't
mind and I said that I don't even consider them family but I think it might
hurt her feelings just a little if I did.
The only reason I might try to find something out is for medical histories.
Besides the state adoption laws at the time of my birth (late 50's) made it
then and now almost impossible to find out anything.
As far as I know, in some states there have been some successes where both
adoptees and birth parents have registered with organisations that help with
this sort of thing. I don't think there is any such thing as "open" documents
as all adoptions were handled by state adoption departments and not privately
run organisations.
One thing that is annoying is that a "birth extract", which is a birth
registry entry minus any information about parents, is no longer suitable for
applying for a passport.
Still I find the cho interesting reading and it may give me ideas in case I
ever do initiate a search.
Ta muchly!
Regards from OZ
Peter
system: You are Deeann.Hardy@Mdtnbbs.Com, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to List about "SEARCH: 1951-53".

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assistant: Errors-To: postmaster@mdtnbbs.com
Reply-To: deeann.hardy@mdtnbbs.com
Isn't is funny how you start a search for yourself or someone you know and
then people in the family or friends start coming out of the woodwork with
adoption stories? These are people you never would have guessed that lost a
loved one to adoption, etc... Well, now my mother-in-law just told me that
she had a younger brother that was placed for adoption and she wants to find
him. Below is his information:
He was named David Wheary at birth. He was born between 1951 to 1953 which
would make him between 45 and 47 years old today. He was raised for some time
with the family but the kids were all split up as youngsters and raised in
various households with David being adopted out to a couple. He was born in
Shamokin,PA (Northumberland County). My mother-in-law and her twin brothers
(Dorothy, Charlie and Harry) were all raised with their grandfather. The
other daughter (Louise) was raised by her dads sister whom they all called
Aunt Sis but her real name was Elmira Eurich (sp?). The bparents are named
Frank and Dorothy Wheary. Frank is deceased now and Dorothy is in an aged
home in Shamokin somewhere, maybe even deceased as well. None of the children
visit or are close to each other at all.
My mom-in-law REALLY wants to find her lost brother as do the others. Any
info would be greatly appreciated. Nothing else is known at this point.
Dee :-)
system: You are Richard Haney, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Mary Fuller about "Changes".

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assistant: I know that a lot of change has been made now from the
time of years by gone.
The treatment of the Birth Mothers and so on
but I know that these
system: You are Cheryl Hert, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Joan Schultz about "searching".

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assistant: I  am not on the Internet, so therfore I don't know if there is any way of
searching for marriage licences. If ther was, it sure would be helpful. let
me know if you find out.  Did you get my "detetcive work" story?
system: You are Rob Singerline, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Gayle Licari about "Re: VIETNAM ADOPTEES".

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assistant: Hi Gayle I hope you don't mind me putting my two cents in.  Another great
place to try would be the internet I'm surre there are web pages out there on
this subject and finding them should be easy with a web browser.
system: You are Derek Henderson, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Sharon Coyne about "Father".

They wrote:
DH>Hello everyone. A while ago I wrote that I was looking for my parents as I
SC> wa
DH>put up for adoption before I was even born. Well, I did find my mother,
DH>she didn't want to have any contact with me. That's fine, ther's nothiing
DH>can do to change that. Well, I recieved a call from the cae worker at
DH>C.A.S.the other day and she found my father. He is looking forward to
SC> meeting
DH>me and I'm just in the middle of preparing a introduction letter for him.
DH>found out that I have an older brother and sister as well as a younger
SC> brothe
DH>and sister. They are all half brothers and sisters, but to me it dosen't
DH>matter.....family is still family.
DH>I'm wondering if there is anyone here that has had a similar experience as
SC> I'
DH>going through now. If so, could you write back....I'm not sure what to
SC> expect
SC>
DH>Thank you
SC>
SC>         That is great that your father wants to meet you. I wish
SC> you a happy life with him and hope your mother comes around too.
SC>
SC>
SC>  * OLX 2.1 TD * Things are beautiful if you love them.
SC> -*- Opus-CBCS 1.7x via O_QWKer 1.7
SC>  * Origin: (Scouter's Haven) (1:129/186.0)
SC>

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assistant: ut
Thank you, I'm hopeing that it works out.
                    Derek Henderson  The Pentium Zone BBS
                    Sysop
                    Fidonet 1:253/2  GDS.NET 100:1019/5
                    (705) 748-3352
                    E-MAIL - DEHENDER@FLEMINGC.ON.CA
system: You are Deeann Hardy, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Adoptees message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to List about "search packets via e-mail".

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assistant: Hey gang!! I have ALOT of information that I would be more than happy to
upload to you on my AOL account (free of course). :)  I have written this on
my Packard Bell using a "write" program so if you don't think you'll be able
to read it, PLEASE don't ask me to send it ok? Until I get the new unlimited
time in December, I have to pay to do this after my free time expires. Also,
tell me what state you are searching in too. I have additional info on all
states. I found when I sent myself a file as a test, once I backed out of my
AOL server and opened up my file manager (download these on a diskette please
and there's ALOT of them) I could read them just fine but while I was on AOL
and looked at it, I couldn't read it. It looked like this...   1 1/4   So try
it that way ok? My AOL account screen name is  TRIAD2271@AOL.COM  Send me
your requests there and not on this list so we don't clutter up the list
here. Thanks!!!
Dee Hardy