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system: You are Regina Finan, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Audra Mcmaster about "school".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting Audra Mcmaster to Regina Finan <=-
RF> trying to figure out what options you have.
AM> I have tried to get them to put him in some kind of special ed to help
AM> him with reading and spelling (he does great in everything else) all
AM> year long. They kept telling me that he had to fail before he could
AM> even be tested to be considered for it, so now he has failed the 1st
AM> grade because they continuously lied. She said he is extremely bright
AM> and is recommending for him to go on to the second grade and possibly
AM> be tested as a gifted child.
AM> What is wrong with this picture? The school does not want to pass him
AM> and I have every intention of fighting them on this because he is not
AM> a stupid child, they are just making him out to be.
AM> She then sent an inner office memo to the board that stated that David
AM> has had special tutors this year, that they have talked with him
AM> several times and tried to work with him and that we are not giving
AM> him his med. in the mornings and we are not sending it to school. Yet
AM> I send his medicine in an empty pill bottle that comes home with him
AM> every Friday empty.
AM> Well, I'm rambling. That is why I have chosen to fight this b---h all
AM> the way to court if that is what it takes.

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assistant: Yes they want your kids to flunk the 1st grade before testing them.  I
 remember the same argument.  Fortunately the teacher agreed there was
 some kind of problem so she asked for it and I insisted and got it.  But
 the results for them was his aptitude was higher than his IQ so they would
 not go any further.  The teacher's don't want to buck the system so she
 didn't insist and I was tooooooooooo stupid to not agree.  I thought these
 are professionals and they know what they are doing.  NOT!
 They have to cover their selves.  This is politics and of course that is
 how our society is now run.  You have the right to request his records in
 writing and they have a certain amount of time to give it to you.  I would
 sincerely look into these records as if they are lying to the board their
 is no telling what is in the records also.  Well you also have the right
 to dispute their claim and possibly have an independent testing done at
 their expense.  I don't know exactly how that goes, but it may be some-
 thing to look at.  Independent professionals may find that all he needs is
 special ed and not to be held back.  Possibly, if he is gifted than he
 is becoming too bored in the classroom.  Good Luck.
 Regina
system: You are Lawrence Dumas, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Audra Mcmaster about "Re: adult adders".

They wrote:
LM> Hello out there- I have been checking this conference out
LM> for over a
LM> year and I am wondering if there are any adult ADDers who
LM> would like to
LM> exchange experiences and helpful hints.  THANX
AM> You rang.....
AM> Hello, I'm Audra and yes I would like to share. Where would you like
AM> to start? I'm ADD and my son is ADHD so take your pick. I'm game for
AM> just about any conversation on either subject.

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assistant: * LINDA MORRISON was last heard rambling about:
     ROTFLMAO!!
     I am also an adult (36) with ADHD and am interested in conversing
     with fellow adult ADD'ers.  There seems to be a certain dichotomy
     on this echo between the adults with ADD and the adults with ADD
     children but it has been my experience that, if one listens hard
     enough, we both can learn from each other. My main focus was to
     discover helpful hints.  I suggest vey strongly that you ask for
     the NIMH file to be emailed to you. It is fabulous.  .......
     Wait a minute.... I have the file.  Thanks to Julie. :)
     I could email it to you if you don't already have it. My email address
     is:   lawrence.dumas@oln.com
     Welcome to the echo, Linda.
... Shooting electrons from Thunder Bay, Canada
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system: You are Lawrence Dumas, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Amber Floyd about "Re: Help!".

They wrote:
AF> Poor kid!  He need sypmpathy and nurturing, not abuse from angry
AF> and out of control authority figures.

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assistant: I tried to say this better but could not.  Go girl!
... God save us from all the people who want to save us.
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system: You are Lawrence Dumas, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to John Pummill about "Re: In Tears".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting John Pummill to Cathy Hettinger <=-
CH> it. Filling that is a million kids on Ritalin.  Why are
CH> people wary of the federal govt but somehow think the local
CH> school system is only trying to help- them?  Perhaps because
CH> of the genetic component parents of ADHD kids are often that
CH> way themselves and don't have the best coping methods for
CH> dealing with massive bureaucracies.  But come to think of it
CH> , who does? Cathy.
JP> Cathy, thanks for the reality check. With us in the middle of a
JP> battle with the above mentioned people it helps for someone to put it
JP> into perspective.

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assistant: The best approach with bureaucracies is to know your rights and
     insist that they be respected. This doesn't happen easily by
     being wary but is most effective by becoming familiar with the
     rules. That and ..... getting it in writing.
     We are not always in a battle with the above mentioned people.  95% of
     what they do is helping our children. It is the 5% that has to be
     changed. People with ADD are, sadly, part of that 5%. And sometimes
     it is a battle but mostly it is advocacy and "educating the
     educators". The Federal Laws governing the local boards seems to be
     the place of last resort for the times when the soft approach doesn't
     work.  Hmmm! To paraphrase Roosevelt, I think, "Walk softly and
     contact a lawyer." would capture the right perspective on this.
     When you reach the battle stage a lawyer or a social worker or
     other advocate is well advised.
system: You are Lawrence Dumas, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Mark Probert about "Re: Thank YOU".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting Mark Probert to Cathy Hettinger <=-
MP> CATHY HETTINGER was thinking about Thank YOU and keyed into
MP> cyberspace:
CH>Mark, Ritalin is in the amphetamine class - it is speeed.
MP> It is inflammatory, inaccurate, and misleading to refer to Ritalin and
MP> the other psychostimulant medications as "speed".  When used as
MP> directed, the psychostimulants do not produce the effects that speed
MP> abusers seek.

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assistant: <snip>
     Mark, I appreciate your clarification of this issue. Some people,
     even in my family, were confused about this and your information
     will help set them at ease.
... Keep on TRUCKING.
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system: You are Lawrence Dumas, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Amber Floyd about "Re: Thank YOU".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting Amber Floyd to Lawrence Dumas <=-
>> This is what I "feel" that Cylert does for me as well.
>> Thank you Amber.
AF> Lately Tam has really seemed to have EXCELENT breaks!  And thanks
AF> tou YOU, and all the other people on this echo that have helped me
AF> undserstand Tam a little better.

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assistant: I am also grateful to the people on this echo who have shared
     with me. I have a HUGE extended family and their response to my
     attempts at admitting to and then trying to address this problem
     have been less than I would have hoped for. I cannot adequately
     express how much I appreciate the support that I have recieved
     here.
     Ummmm.....! Whoever the moderator is.... a BIG thank you to you!
... Keep on TRUCKING.
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system: You are Mark Probert, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Amber Floyd about "Thank YOU".

They wrote:
AF>>> The street term "speed" pertains to methamphetamine. Ritalin is
AF>>> methylphenidate, with very few of the same characteristics as
AF>>> methamphetamine. For those characteristics that they share, the
AF>>> chemical actions are somewhat different.
AF>    You and I obviosly ran on differen streets.  Where I came from,
AF>if it made you move faster, it counted as Speed.  maybe that's
AF>because I hung out with druggies, not doctors.
===>Mark Probert<===

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assistant: AMBER FLOYD was thinking about Thank YOU and keyed into cyberspace:
Does Brooklyn of the 1960's count? Does the Army count? The street term
was originally for methamphetamine. Methylphenidate abuse is far more
recent. And methamphetamine is far easier to make in a high school chem
lab or a garage.
              email at MSProbert@aol.com
system: You are Mark Probert, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Audra Mcmaster about "Help!".

They wrote:
AM>Can anyone give me a copy of the actual federal laws for ADHD childen
AM>concerning school?
===>Mark Probert<===

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assistant: AUDRA MCMASTER was thinking about Help! and keyed into cyberspace:
I have the law, and the Memo from the DOE. It is long. I will upload
them as two messages entitled 504's, IEPs and ADHD.
              email at MSProbert@aol.com
system: You are Jim Loos, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Nancy Mcvicker about "Re: 50 tips for addults, p".

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assistant: Nancy,
      Do you have the entire 50 Tips For Addults available as a File...
I sure would like a copy:). Thanks,
                                    Jim Loos
system: You are Judy Pineda, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Ryan Williamson about "From Judy".

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assistant: Hell-o Ryan,
I am a 48 year old grandmother of seven and raising two. I had never
heard of ADD until my little girl was 3years old and I suspected that
she was hyperactive. We had custody of both children since they were two
years and one year old. Mercy Hospital in Aurora had an ad in the
newspaper that a seminar was to be conducted by a Dr. Phelan reknowned
for his work with hyperactive children. I registered myself and attended
but felt that since my little girl could sit through an hour of a Disney
video that I was mistaken. I wish now that I had followed my instincts
through, perhaps I could have helped way earlier. Some of the things
that I do naturally was good for my kids such as rules of the house. I
am very organized so that was good for them. My little girl writes lists
for herself and for me too which is a good habit because of the
distractability. Both of my kids know that each of them has a special
gift inside and if you read you will see that you have one too. My
little girl is very caring of others and my boy is very talented on the
piano. They both know that it was a lack of a chemical in the brain that
causes this problem and the drugs they take help replace it temporarily.
They know that the intelligence comes from them. I have more problems
with my girl in math, social studies, and science. We work on that
during the summer months. Tell me about some of the things that you've
gone through with your ADD. Perhaps the insight will guide me for my
kids. I'll write later. Nice talking to you Ryan.
                                       Judy
system: You are Kianne Hayward, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to John Pummill about "IEP Hell".

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assistant: hey there...i know this has nothing to do with the subject, but i was really
wondering what part of mississippi you are in?
Anywhere near Oxford?...jsut curious...
thanks
me
system: You are Denise Rounds, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Lawrence Dumas about "Re: Thank YOU".

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assistant: oops! I hit the wrong buttons, Lawrence. Forgive me, please.
Denise
system: You are Nancy Mcvicker, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Jim Loos about "50 tips for addults, p".

They wrote:
JL>      Do you have the entire 50 Tips available as a File... I would
>like a copy. Thanks,
JL>                    Jim

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assistant: I have it in 4 separate files, just as posted. But you can get the whole
list (and more!) from either of Ratey and Hallowell's books on ADD. The
first book is out in paperback: _Driven to Distraction_. The second
contains much the same material, but in a Q&A format, and contains other
lists, such as ways to help ADD kids in classrooms.
(Some offline readers have a "save" feature that lets you save and edit
selected messages.)
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system: You are Nancy Mcvicker, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Mark Probert about "Thank YOU".

They wrote:
MP>Shhhhh! It IS in the water. It is put there by the CHADD-Ciba-Geigy-
>Medical Establishment Conspiracy! <BG>
MP>                   ===>Mark Probert<===
>              email at MSProbert@aol.con

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assistant: Wait -- isn't the conspiracy run by the big bad Federal Government? Oh,
gosh, now I'm so confused! <snicker>
 * SLMR 2.1a * AIDS is a virus; Rush Limbaugh is punishment from God.
system: You are Nancy Mcvicker, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Ryan Williamson about "50 ADD Tips".

They wrote:
RW>I'd like to thank you for uploading the 50 Tips for ADD Adults, however
>I noted that #13 was not included within the text.   Wondered if you would
>upload that one... I've found it to be such good information that I hate
>miss any of it.
RW>Thanks!
>Ryan Williamson

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assistant: o
Thirteen? Uh... <sound of filing cabinet drawer being thrown open,
papers rustling, metalic bang as cabinet drawer is slammed shut, muffled
curse as tip of finger is sliced open by sharp corner of cabinet drawer>
Here it is!
#13: Try to help others with ADD. You'll learn a lot about this
condition in the process, as well as feel good to boot.
(Now I'll have to try and remember to re-edit my lists.)
 * SLMR 2.1a * Computer, run holodeck program Batezoid Babes in Bondage.
system: You are Martin Schaaf, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Amber Floyd about "Re: True Cause Of ADHD".

They wrote:
AF> ADD have a part of the brain that is underdeveloped.  In some cases,
AF> around puberty, it DOES catch up with the rest of the brain.

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assistant: _Underactive_ is the better word.
The brain scan evidence I've seen says that the brain doesn't really catch
p.
//.artin
system: You are Bryan Mcgoon, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Regina Finan about "Re: 6 Year Old".

They wrote:
RF> Don't be so hard on yourself.  It may take you just a little bit
RF> longer, You are trying to improve yourself, that is much more than
RF> most teenagers try to do.  As you become older you will find you are
RF> ahead of the game,  where most of the other young adults are still
RF> trying to figure out what makes them tic.

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assistant: Dear Regina,
        Thanks!  I am always very hard on myself I guess because I want to
        get better.  I don't have the world's best grades and I want to be
        a computer tech so I HAVE to improve.  Bout myself I hope one day
        I will understand myself fully but until then I'll keep trucking!!
        (BTW Regina your pretty cool yourself!)
        Bryan
... I lost my mind....Please watch where you step.
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system: You are John Pummill, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Mark Probert about "Help!".

They wrote:
MP> I guess there is nothing like fear to control a child.
MP> You need a FOIA at the state level to make it available. I
MP> would suggest
MP> you write to the board members individually, at their homes.
MP> As a former
MP> school board trustee, I can assure you that the message I
MP> got, when I
MP> got mail at home, was that there was some "editing"
MP> occurring. We wound
MP> up retiring our superintendent.
MP> Many people, me included, have the opinion that if a child's
MP> interactions are negative at home, then perhaps there should
MP> be
MP> consideration of using medication. The child is entitled to
MP> having
MP> positive interaction with his parents. What you are
MP> describing is the
MP> impulsivity of the ADHD child and this is something that he
MP> may need to
MP> have help in controlling.
MP> PRESS is better than networks. More people see it. And it
MP> motivates
MP> school boards.

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assistant: Depends on your definition of fear. Fear can be taking a group of children
to a prison for a tour (Project Aware, I was a peer counselor on several
trips). Do you not speed because you do not want to break the law or because
you fear you will get a ticket...
 I have this info on the system for obtaining it. Thanks.
 Nifty idea, but it is the principle that we are having problems with. I know
that all of the paddlings have not made his record.
 It is learning how to help him... At 30 this is my first real term
experience with children and I am learning...
 Finiky around here. A few years ago a man had lawsuits against the county
because they would not adapt to his handicapped son. A group was formed PEPIM
(Parents Educating Parents In Mississippi) and is viewed as a radical group
for the most part.
system: You are John Pummill, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Kianne Hayward about "IEP Hell".

They wrote:
KH> hey there...i know this has nothing to do with the subject,
KH> but i was really wondering what part of mississippi you are
KH> in?
KH> Anywhere near Oxford?...jsut curious...
KH> thanks

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assistant: It is about an hour or so south east of us. Our backyard is literally the
TN/MS state line, just out of Memphis.
system: You are Lawrence Dumas, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Regina Finan about "Re: In Tears".

They wrote:
RF> Ritalin, maybe they need to be.  Maybe not.  All I can say is if
RF> someone feels that my child may have a problem in an area, I am not
RF> too proud to check it out with a professional.  That is the only way
RF> you can determine if the teacher is right or wrong.

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assistant: Kudos for you dear! Good for you and good for your child.
... Catch the Blue Wave!
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system: You are Mark Probert, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Attention Def. message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Regina Finan about "Pycnogenol".

They wrote:
RF> MP> Pycnogenol seems like a pretty good product for about sixty
RF> MP> things or  so, according to Dr. Passwater. He seems to be a
RF> MP> pretty straight guy who  honestly believes in this. For those
RF> MP> problems, I'll try it. And let you  know. I am still a bit
RF> MP> skeptical about supplements as there are even  more studies
RF> MP> saying that anti-oxidant supplements do little. Some of his
RF> MP> articles were clearly written for sales. But, as I said, I'll
RF> MP> try it.
RF> Well, your a better person than me.  I refuse to take something I
RF>don't  know , understand, or unproven.  I would need some evidence
RF>that would  support the theory and then also what may be the side
RF>effects as well as  interactions with food, drugs and so forth.  My
RF>mother take a natural   product to help her sleep.  Can't remember
RF>the name, but it starts with  an M.  She has had trouble sleeping for
RF>years.  She says this really helps.  Well there has been alot of talk
RF>about this drug and so far I haven't heard  anything bad in the press
RF>about it.  But I am still skeptical.  However   you can try it and
RF>let us know what happens.
===>Mark Probert<===

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assistant: REGINA FINAN was thinking about Pycnogenol and keyed into cyberspace:
Your Mom takes Melatonin which is the identical chemical your brain
produces. As for my experiences with Pycnogenol, I can tell you that
there was nothing. I had read up on it, and had even found some mild
criticism of its use. However, as I am on no medications, and was fairly
healthy, along with my background, I felt pretty safe. The only thing
that got stung was my wallet.
              email at MSProbert@aol.com