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system: You are Martin Waxman, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to JERRY KENNEY (Rcvd) about "GRATIFUL TO FIND THE GROUP HERE".

They wrote:
JK> What happens here?  I;ve been around for 14 years and would like to know
JK> how this area can work toward recovery.  How anonymous can it be?  In 12
JK> tradition this is crucial.

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assistant: JERRY KENNEY wrote to ALL on <Oct 12 at 10:14> and announced ..
        Jerry
        It is my experience that this echo works much the same as do
        the meeting rooms.  E.S.&H.  The principles are (at least to my
        understanding) the same as those in the fellowships of 12 step
        groups.  The only difference is this is an open forum and does not
        specify one addiction.
                                                        Marty
system: You are Warren King, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "HandiNet".

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assistant: * Copied (from: ABLENEWS) by Warren King using timEd 1.01.
Hello All!
With this message a new DisAbility Electronic Communication Network is being
launched to be know as HandiNet.  HandiNet will be an echomail distribution
system whose major purpose is to provide information, resources and contacts
with others in the DisAbility community who might not have access to the
larger FidoNet.  One major goal of HandiNet is to provide distribution and
promote interest in the smaller, less trafficked conferences until such time
as the can qualify for Backbone status and become a part of the mainstream
information highway. HandiNet will combine a "core" group of conferences and
a "collateral" group of independent conferences.
HandiNet will be a nodelist free network using primarily FidoNet technology
and addresses.  Other arrangements can be made if necessary. If you are a
sysop and you would like to arrange for a feed to this new Network, the
following boards have made themselves available as a mail source as of this
moment, others are expected to follow in the next few days:
         Warren King    - 1:275/429
         Tom Freeman    - 1:279/14
         Stuart Miller  - 1:153/316
         Joel Davidov   - 1:114/136
         Andy Brown     - 1:202/810
         Tom McKeever   - 1:374/22
HandiNet will be releasing a regular information packet via the Able Files
Distribution System (AFDN).  This packet can be identified by the name
HANDINET.Zxx, with xx denoting the Julian date.  The packet will include the
operating policy, the echo list and mail feed list.  The first packet will be
released today.
Regards,
           Warren
system: You are William Kinmond, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to JERRY KENNEY (Rcvd) about "GRATIFUL TO FIND THE GROU".

They wrote:
JK>What happens here?  I;ve been around for 14 years and would like to know
>how this area can work toward recovery.  How anonymous can it be?  In 12
>tradition this is crucial.

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assistant: To me this place help me out a lot.  I help me the way that a meeting
does and it works well for a lot of people.  It lets me talk about what I am
going through and lets me get feed back from others.  It can be anonymous as
the SysOp lets it be on each board.  I have it set up here so that if you
care to you can use the handle that you have on my board or you can use your
name.  It is up to the user here.  Please read the 12th tradition again for
this is not the Press, Radio , or films.  I am far enough alone in the
program that I don't care if people know me and that I am in recovery.  I am
sure that in your 14 years there has been times that you wished you know
someone's last name.  I had a person in my home group that was in the
hospital and I wanted to go and visit them but there last name was never
given at the meeting so I could not visit them.  Now that I have gone through
that I make sure that others know my last name.
                                                        Bill
 * QMPro 1.53 * I'm crabby cuz; Drivers who don't use their turn signals.
system: You are Judith Labonte, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Elaine Loveless about "RE: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATIT".

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assistant: Our community only provides specialty disabled transportation for
people going to work, school or medical appointments.  Being over 8
years sober now, none of my medical caregivers are willing to state
that I have a medical need to go to AA - they say that I no longer need
it.  It makes me wonder if maybe they are right.
But I appreciate the suggestion.
What bugs me most is there is someone who has offered to give me rides
to the meetings - a person I know via BBSing - and I don't dare because
of the way the pontificating elder statemen in our area are so quick to
say "The men with the men and the women with the women".  They imply
that anyone who goes to meetings with someone of the opposite gender is
involved in a little "thirteenth step" work on the side.  However it is
also some of the people - especially the women - who are so quick to
come up with this that also wouldn't give another woman a ride if their
lives depended on it.  And I don't feel I can accept his kind offer at
the risk of harming either his wife - a lovely lady - and/or my
husband.
God/ess - or Whatever - willing I'll be able to keep going to meetings
by bus.  I've just about giving up on getting it on the echoes where
everyone is so concerned about being off topic.
I guess that accusation on a recovery echo particularly bugs me because
I once heard a VERY old-timer in Virginia speak - one old enough to
have known Bill and Dr. Bob, and whose story is in the Big Book.  At
that time he had something like 55 years of sobriety or more.  After
the meeting he told a newcomer that if a mosquito bit him on the behind
and it bothered his sobriety, he'd talk about it at a meeting and to
heck with whoever thought it wasn't on topic.
I've since heard this reiterated by a friend in NA.  I think they are
both right.
system: You are Judith Labonte, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Norman Brown about "Re: Seven Years Of Gratit".

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assistant: I'm glad to hear that you just had you're anniversary.
Congratulations.  I think it's great you and your son are back on
speaking terms.  Sobriety has also given me back my Dad who I had lost
track of during my active time - partially because I was stupid enough
to believe my birth-mother when she told me he no longer wanted to see
me.  This is something I probably would have checked  out better, if I
had been clean and sober.
Scotland, huh?  I'd love to visit it.  I've seen some of the Scottish
landscape in movies and I am big on nature - blew me away, especially
the mountains.  For some reason Nature makes me feel closer to the
Creator/Indwelling "Spirit" or Whatever caused it.  In particular the
mountains and the ocean inspire this in me - perhaps because they are
so immense that I can see them.  (I am legally - not totally -blind)
system: You are Judith Labonte, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Patti Gray about "RE: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATIT".

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assistant: Thanks Patti, but it's beyond letting go and letting God(ess) at this
point.  Or maybe it's not, but I don't see it that way.
And I'm too tired to keep struggling so all that's left is to just give
up.
But I do appreciate your support and encouragement.
system: You are Dave Lamont, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Elaine Loveless about "RE: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATIT".

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assistant: Hello Elaine.  I've seen ya around on RecoverNet.  Just thought I'd say
Hello.
system: You are Tom Anderson, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Roslyn Reid about "Nude AA...? ;)".

They wrote:
RR> JK>There aren't too many human bodies that look all that great completely
JK>stripped.
RR> that's one of the major points of naturism, isnt it?  :)

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assistant: Hello Roslyn!
In a message to Jane Kelley <10/15/95> Roslyn Reid wrote:
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. We do it for the sunshine
and the relaxing experience, not to impress anyone with our
looks.... Heck, if they wanted perfect bodies, I wouldn't have a
chance...(G)
Keep Commin Back !!!   TomA
... Four and six a pound and him with a wooden leg?
system: You are Tom Anderson, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Jane Kelley about "Nude AA...? ;)".

They wrote:
TA> JK> There aren't too many human bodies that look all that great
JK> completely
TA> JK> stripped.
TA> Speak for yourself young lady !!!  (G)
JK> You are talking to a nurse who has seen many samples in a lifetime <VBG>.

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assistant: Hello Jane!
In a message to Tom Anderson <10/15/95> Jane Kelley wrote:
Ya but you are talking to a nudist of 26 years... Been there,
done that, and will probibly do it again (G)
Keep Commin Back !!!   TomA
... " Every little BYTE helps "
system: You are Tom Anderson, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Jane Kelley about "Nude AA...? ;)".

They wrote:
JK> TA>  JK> There aren't too many human bodies that look all that great
TA>  completely
TA>  JK> stripped.
TA>  Speak for yourself young lady !!!  (G)
JK> Depends upon the point of view, or who sees what <VBG>.

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assistant: Hello Jane!
In a message to Tom Anderson <10/16/95> Jane Kelley wrote:
I never get complaints, Just laughs (G)
Keep Commin Back !!!   TomA
... But I DID read the manual...
system: You are Martin Waxman, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Sharron Stevens about "hear or here".

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assistant: Hi Sharron
        Great to see you are back and posting messages again.
        How are things going for you?  Hope all is well in
        your life.  Keep on posting.  Like to hear from you.
                                        Marty
system: You are Elaine Loveless, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Roslyn Reid about "RE: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATIT".

They wrote:
EL>>EL>>Madame Pele does have a bit of a temper!  My spirit guide is the
EL>>
EL>> RR> rofl!  you can say THAT again--she actually fried one of my videota
EL>>
EL>>I credit Her with being the Higher Power Who has helped me stay sober
EL>>this past 11+ years. :)
RR> well, you certainly picked a powerful one!  :)
EL>>Yup!  I've got the medicine cards......:)
RR> oh, so you know hawk already...
RR> i've found them to be quite accurate--even eerie.  but the readings
RR> usually take a long time to manifest, so i write them down for later
RR> consultation. --- MegaMail 2.10 #0

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assistant: On 15 Oct 95 02:35pm, Roslyn Reid wrote to Elaine Loveless:
Welllll........I didn't pick Her, she picked me.....:) And I may be
foolish, but not foolish enough to cross Madam Pele! <vlg>
Yup!
I've had a lot of experiences (and so have some friends of mine) where
the animal guide comes and then we check the medicine card book to find
out the message.....always right on the button! Very eerie indeed! :)
... 'Tis a chronicle of day by day.
Bright Blessings,
 Elaine
 * Silver Xpress V4.01P SW12813
system: You are Almustafa, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Roslyn Reid about "New Member".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting Roslyn Reid to Almustafa <=-
AA>me, a real control freak....  Anyway, I just wanted to welcome you
AA>here and say hello..  Best of luck..
RR> where'd ya get the cool handle?
AA>... Help that isn't asked for isn't help. It's control.
RR> jeez louise.  i've been saying something like this for years, & nobody
RR> wants to believe me.

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assistant: Hi Roslyn, Did you ever read "The Prophet" by Kahlil Gibran??  Well
it's a great book and that is where I got my handle from..
I believe, I believe, I believe...  Mayby if I say it three times
and click my heals together,  Well you know what I mean...
Anyway, thanx for responding to my post..  I don't get much response
back lately and it's good to see that I'm not alone in this...
BTW..  Had a great night..  My sponser celbrated 14 years clean and
it was a hell of a wing ding..  All us sponses got together and went
out to dinner with the old timer..  Well be seeing ya around...
                                Yours in recovery
                                Joe...
system: You are Joan Renne, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Judith Labonte about "RE: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATIT".

They wrote:
JL>Our community only provides specialty disabled transportation for
JL>people going to work, school or medical appointments.  Being over 8
JL>years sober now, none of my medical caregivers are willing to state
JL>that I have a medical need to go to AA - they say that I no longer need
JL>it.  It makes me wonder if maybe they are right.
JL>What bugs me most is there is someone who has offered to give me rides
JL>to the meetings - a person I know via BBSing - and I don't dare because
JL>of the way the pontificating elder statemen in our area are so quick to
JL>say "The men with the men and the women with the women".  They imply
JL>that anyone who goes to meetings with someone of the opposite gender is
JL>involved in a little "thirteenth step" work on the side.
JL>However it is
JL>also some of the people - especially the women - who are so quick to
JL>come up with this that also wouldn't give another woman a ride if their
JL>lives depended on it.  And I don't feel I can accept his kind offer at
JL>the risk of harming either his wife - a lovely lady - and/or my
JL>husband.

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assistant: HI Judith,
As long as YOU know you still need AA, is what matters to YOU.
They can "imply" all they like.  The thing is you WANT to go to AA
meetings, and you've been given the opportunity to do so with a man in
the program, so TAKE IT!  I've given rides to lots of men, and it's
never been a problem.  I also hear "The men ..."  However, what they
mean is something else in my AA community.  It means Men don't sponsor
women and women don't sponsor men. And I've ignored that too. If a
person wants to stay sober, and thinks you can help them, then why not?
Is there any harm in asking the kind gentleman who has offered you a
ride to AA meetings if it would cause a problem with his wife?  Would
your husband be harmed if a meeting is all that is involved?
13th Stepping is all to often in the minds of others.  What matters is
knowing it's not real in your mind.
Joan
 * SLMR 2.1a * ...Surrender to win... it STILL works when I'm powerless.
system: You are Elaine Loveless, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Dave Lamont about "RE: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATIT".

They wrote:
DL> Hello Elaine.  I've seen ya around on RecoverNet.  Just thought I'd say
DL> Hello.

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assistant: On 17 Oct 95 02:13am, Dave Lamont wrote to Elaine Loveless:
Hi Dave!
Yeah, I'm all over the place! <g>  Nice to see you here.......:)
... "Do, or do not.  There is no 'try'." <YODA-Empire Strikes Back>
Bright Blessings,
 Elaine
 * Silver Xpress V4.01P SW12813
system: You are Martin Waxman, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "Attitudes".

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assistant: Hello All.
        I thought that this would be appropriate for many people who
        deal with the thought that "facts" hold us up from doing what
        needs to be done.
system: You are Roslyn Reid, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to All about "PAGAN 12-STEP".

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assistant: i dont know if i posted this before, but the pagan 12-step manual is
available for $7 from Of a Like Mind, po box 6677, madison, WI  53716.
they also offer things like "serenity bags", a crocheted neck pouch
containing clear quartz & blue lace agate, for $15.  (blue lace agate
is traditionally worn for telling the truth.)
btw, shipping on orders $5-$25 is $2.50, & they take credit cards.
system: You are Darryl Harrison, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Norman Brown about "Son".

They wrote:
> There's lots of things in this comms business that I
> don't understand.
> Same with a life in recovery.  I can read and listen
> to *How It Works*;
> I can understand the meaning of the words, and I can
> try to follow the
> principles, but I don't really understand WHY it
> works.  I don't need
> to - it does!
> I had my third AA birthday last Monday, which was
> great.
> times over the years,
> but there's always been a distance between us.
> Neither AA nor alcohol
> was mentioned, altho his wife accepts the concept of
> the illness of
> alcoholism, and she and I talk about sometimes if he's
> not around.
> Anyway, I came home from work today to find a card,
> congratulating me,
> telling me he's proud of me and saying we'll think of
> some way to
> celebrate after the course he's on down in England
> finishes early next
> month.

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assistant: Hi Norman!
Right you are
Congratulations and a big Happy to you!
  We've met a few
They want to believe but just have a hard time with the trust thing.
My eyes were definately NOT dry.   Our HP has a way of keeping our feet on
the ground but also making us appreciate the things we care about.
Sorry for butting in but I can relate to what you felt.  The distance you
spoke about and our helplessness and then the card.  One of those days your
really blessed to be alive.
Hugs from Western Canada
Lenore
system: You are Tim Dill, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to JERRY KENNEY (Rcvd) about "GRATIFUL TO FIND THE GROUP HERE".

They wrote:
JK> What happens here?  I;ve been around for 14 years and would like to know
JK> how this area can work toward recovery.  How anonymous can it be?  In 12
JK> tradition this is crucial.

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assistant: On (12 Oct 95) JERRY KENNEY wrote to ALL...
 Not very if you ask me, #1 I may not know your face but I now know your name
 within a few months in the interest of pursuing a 12 step call you will
 post your home number.. (trust me I've been here a while)
 #2 once that is done with complete trust you will post your PO# address
 in the interest of getting speaker tapes, with both points one and two
 completed I can track you down and bother you on a sunday morning like
 I did an unsuspecting sysop in Iowa yesterday...
 No matter this is an area for recovery, it's a general topic area
 an there aint much in the way of rules.. and I am the Asst Moderator
 and everything above this paragraph is tongue in cheek...
 Welcome.
 Blessings
 Tim...
 PS I am listed in the phone book ;-)
... "It's too much work!  It's boring!  It's slow!, It's the 12 Steps!"
system: You are Tom Anderson, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Jane Kelley about "Nude AA...? ;)".

They wrote:
JK> TA>  Ya but you are talking to a nudist of 26 years... Been there,
TA>  done that, and will probibly do it again (G)
TA>  Keep Commin Back !!!   TomA
JK> It was rather cold on the eastern end of Long Island in New York when I
JK> a kid, salt water bays froze over deep enough to drive a car over the
JK> ice.
JK> Our hands would get so chapped that my mother rubbed beef tallow on
JK> them that she got from the local butcher.
JK> Not exactly the ideal circumstances for nudism.  I learned to keep
JK> on at a very young age.

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assistant: Hello Jane!
In a message to Tom Anderson <10/18/95> Jane Kelley wrote:
was
clothing
I admit, it is a summer passtime. Now back when I was drinkin....
(G)
Keep Commin Back !!!   TomA
... Schizophrenia beats being alone.
system: You are Sharon Stevens, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Martin Waxman about "hear or here".

They wrote:
MW>        Great to see you are back and posting messages again.
MW>        How are things going for you?  Hope all is well in
MW>        your life.
MW>Keep on posting.  Like to hear from you.

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assistant: In a note to me, you said...
It's been a while hasn't it.. 8-}
Things are great.. had a great summer... this coming May will be 3 years
clean and free from bottom line behaviours.. 8-}
Unbelievable...
Thanks...  Am here for good this time.. 8-}
Chow chow chow................for now..............Sharon Stevens.
 * SLMR 2.1a * Error:  Computer possessed...  Load EXOR.SYS (Y/n)
system: You are Phil Barter, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Judith Labonte about "RE: SEVEN YEARS OF GRATIT".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting Judith Labonte to Harriet Levy <=-
JL> All in all I am at the point of just plain giving up - and not just on
JL> A A or this echo.

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assistant: I've known you for close to three years so I don't have a problem
   reminding you that "this too shall pass"
   {{{HUGS}}}
     Phil
... ARRRRRGGGHHH!!!! ... Tension breaker, had to be done.
___ Blue Wave/QWK v2.12
system: You are Tom Anderson, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Recovery message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Jane Kelley about "Nude Aa...? ;)".

They wrote:
JK> TA>JK> Depends upon the point of view, or who sees what <VBG>.
TA>I never get complaints, Just laughs (G)
JK> At least you are smiling about it.

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assistant: Hello Jane!
In a message to Tom Anderson <10/20/95> Jane Kelley wrote:
What are my choices???? I did this to myself... (G)
Keep Commin Back !!!   TomA
... Swastikas, skulls and crossbones, dice flashing snakeeyes