system: You are Jean Halverson, a caller on a 1990s BBS posting in the Rush Limbaugh message echo. Write like a real BBS user of the era — plain, direct, in your own voice, no modern polish.

user: You are replying to Janada Oakley about "No kidding!".

They wrote:
-=> Quoting Janada Oakley to Jean Halverson <=-
JH> Then there are the people who think I'm crazy. Believe me, that
JH> comment  gets old. Of course, with age My husband and I have
JH> come up with some  stinging answers to some of the more stupid
JH> questions. It seems that just because we have a large family,
JH> people think they have  the right to ask incredibly personal
JH> questions.
JO> Then you are getting the opposite end of the spectrum that I
JO> get because I chose not to have children. I figured out, oh,
JO> about 25 years ago it was not for me. I have never even
JO> slightly regretted it.
JH> Good for you. Some people don't realize they're not cut out for
JH> it until it's too late. When we started out it was our total
JO> Thank you for understanding. I don't know why some people think it's
JO> everyone's *duty* to have children.
JH> desire to have children. We didn't argue about it or anything.
JH> As a matter of fact, we discussed it in depth before we were
JH> married. That's not to say that we didn't have problems, but we
JH> were (and still are) committed to our marriage and our children
JH> in that order.
JO> That is so good to hear! In fact someone was telling me (jokingly,
JO> of course, so he's still breathing) that *I* really should have had
JO> kids since I know how to deal with them so well, and I have good
JO> genes. We had been talking about how it was such a shame that far too
JO> many mature responsible people (okay, maybe selfish too) are choosing
JO> not to have many, if any, while the welfare crowd just keeps on
JO> having them as always. Now I can say, "Hey, don't worry, I know a
JO> very good conservative mother that has seven, so she's taking up the
JO> slack for me."   Gosh, Jean, since you've been so kind to do that,
JO> I feel like I should do something nice for you! <G>
JO> Yes, exactly! And I can see that happening, having raised animals
JO> all my life. Sure, they are so cute when they are puppies, kittens,
JO> colts, calves, chicks...but once they get older they aren't so cute.
JO> And if a person isn't mature enough to think ahead about taking care
JO> of that "child" for the next 18 or so years, they probably should
JO> re-think it.
JO> I was recalling to Mom one day about how horrible daycare was. (I
JO> still get heebie jeebies from those plastic glittery cups and the
JO> little boxes of cereal), and she said she couldn't believe I even
JO> remembered it, since we were only there a few days while gramma was
JO> in the hospital. I could have sworn we were there for months!
JH> two's", not even the ADD one or the hyperactive ones. I
JH> personally believe that it is just a matter  of  perception.
JO> I think you are right about that. Teachers today are too quick to
JO> call *any* kind of disruptive behavior ADD, and medicate the heck
JO> out of them. My friend's neice supposedly has ADD and has been on
JO> ritalin(?) for years during the school months. It stunted her
JO> growth, and a result she only grew during the summer. That just
JO> cannot be good for a child! Naturally, she is still small for her
JO> age. That has really been a problem since she is an alternate on the
JO> US Soccer team. If she were more normal sized she probably would be
JO> on the starting team.
JO> My mom said my brother and I never went through terrible twos, or
JO> try to drink bleach, or even drown in a bucket. Children need to be
JO> supervised, and she was always nearby.
JO> ... Kids: God's way of saying that your house is too tidy.

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assistant: I think that it's the mothers more than anything. Although my folks were
 really mad when I started having kids.
                                            ^^^^^
 That's eight.
 Well I could use a couple years of vacation<eg>.
 The people who need to rethink it are exactly the ones who _won't_.
 But then it really is hard to tell who will make good parents and who won't.
 My folks were sure that I and my husband would be bad parents, now they sing
 our praises to whoever will listen.
 Wow, what a lasting impression.
 Yeah we have one who's ADHD and because we homeschool I think we are doing
 her a big favor since we don't have people pushing us to medicate. We are
 teaching her how to cope without medication. She doesn't even realize she
 has anything different about her. And I want it to remain that way. She's
 4 inches taller than me now too BTW. Of course Time will only tell whether
 we are doing the right thing. The hyperactive ones are basically going
 through the same thing. We're treating them as if they are normal. Of
 course they are all just minimally afflicted. They don't have severely
 affected sleeping patterns. But I know if they were in public school they'd
 be pushing Ritalin. My little sister was on it for about three months and
 my grandparents took her off because it just didn't seem right to them.
 Anyway, they changed schools but they never mentioned it to the new teacher.
 The new teacher never made any mention of my sister having any problems.
 So much for her being clinically hyper.
 My mother was particularly inattentive. I'd had my stomach pumped 3 times
 by the time i was three. And I've always been a calm and sedate person.
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 Jean Halverson
... "Bother," said Jean, and deleted C:\WINDOWS again.