Урок 2. Relationships
Предмет: Английский язык, 11 класс

Конспект урока

Английский язык, 11 класс

Урок № 2. Relationships

На уроке мы:

узнаем слова по теме «Взаимоотношения между людьми»;
научимся использовать в речи идиомы по теме;
сможем выражать жалобы и приносить извинения.

Task 1. Here are the words but the letters are mixed up. Write the correct variant.

1. ights at fstir ovel-

2. shiprelation at a orkw

Task 2.

1. BUILDING NEW RELATIONS

2. RENT A GRANNY

3. CARE AND SUPPORT

4. KEEPING FAMILY TOGETHER

5. PLAYING FAVOURITES

6. GOING OUT TOGETHER

7. FAMILY VIOLENCE

8. DIFFICULT RELATIVE

Of course, as your children grow, marry and have children of their own, it is not that (that) easy to spend each holiday together. Be flexible and either alternate holidays or pick a few specific holidays where the entire family will be together. Sometimes it sounds like an overwhelming feat, especially if you have a large family, but as I said, children, even when they become adults, need those special occasions and traditions and they will go out of their way to make sure they happen.
If you are lucky enough to have a sister, you already know that is a special bond unlike any other. Many factors can affect your relationship with your sister as you get older, however, such as age differences, geographic location, new family responsibilities - even sibling rivalry!
If your sister-in-law is much younger than you, then it will be very easy for you to win her over. Little girls love spending time with their big brother’s girlfriends, and you’re this little girl’s big brother’s wife, so she’s going to be elated to spend time with you. Play together with Barbie dolls, or ask her to help you decorate some Christmas cookies. Become her friend, and take an active interest in her, and she will love you forever.
When parents are surveyed on the subject of favoritism, nearly all respondents say that despite their best efforts to the contrary, they have favored one child over another at least occasionally. “I see the frustration and behavior problems in our oldest child resulting from the favoritism their father shows our youngest child,” said one parent in response to a recent Vision survey on the topic. “It is a very serious problem in our family.”
A new "grannies-for-rent" service in Poland brings together elderly people without families, and people who miss having real grandparents. A local University for the Elderly set up the programme, which aims to benefit people from all generations.
Unfortunately for many, home can be anything but a safe haven. Men and women alike may find their home a fierce battleground. For children it may be where they are most vulnerable to assault, misuse or deprivation, ironically at the very hands of those who have a duty to safeguard and nourish them. Even the elderly may have reason to fear those who should be their caretakers.
Parents give an enormous amount to their children, and as a result they’re extremely invested in them, in helping them grow and thrive. They look out for their interests, stay up with them when they’re sick, clean up their messes when they’re sick - all of that investment helps the child grow and feel secure.

Task 3 Underline the correct item.
1) Although Patrick works long hours, his family still takes/remains priority over his work.
2) Mary rarely agrees / approves with her friend's (friend`s)views, but this doesn't (doesn`t) affect their friendship.

3) The swarm/flock of bees that had gathered around us at the park spoiled our picnic.

4) Tony is of Italian generation/ origin, but he grew up in England.

5) As a teenager, Stella had a strange taste in clothes, so she was picked on/ brought up quite.

Task 4. Fill in the gaps using the appropriate form of the word in the box.

Olga’s family is 1)…. and they spend a lot of time together. 1. friend

2)……is not a problem with her, because she does not have to 2. private

3)…..her room with anybody. Her parents are very nice to her and they 3. sharing

4)…have problems in 5)…. . Sometimes she want (wants) to gain greater 6)…… 4. rare

It happens that her parents and she has 7)….views on when she can do 5. understand

some things alone. But on the whole the climate in their family is 6. independent

8)…..and they never quarrel with each other. 7. difference 8. please

5. Match idioms with their Russian equivalent

1 blood белая ворона

2 trousers очень дорог кому-то

3 black sheep родственник

4 apple руководить

Task 6. Choose the correct word.

1 Mrs. Jacobs is always involving/interfering in things that don't concern/worry her.
2 He's always making/picking fights with his neighbours! It's difficult to make/have friends with him.
3 My cousin really gets/puts on my nerves! He thinks he knows everything!
4 Josh is always showing/telling off and saying how good he is at everything.
5 It's usual/typical of him to put the fault/ blame on others.
6 His parents are extremely pleased/enjoyed with his progress.
7 Sue is very popular/famous with her friends.
8 Our mum gives/takes good care of us. We are close/near to her.
9 I've got a great connection/relationship with my brother. We never have/make arguments.
10 When John makes/gives a promise he never takes/breaks it.
11 My parents didn't allow/let me stay out late when I was at school.
12 She always depends/relies on her family for help and support.
13 His grandparents don't approve/agree of the way he dresses.
14 Her parents object/refuse to her staying out late.
15 I don't really know/recognise Steve. We smile and say/tell hello but otherwise we stick/keep to ourselves.

Task 7.

1.To go out with

а) Not to live or work together any more

2.To hang out with

b) To become smb’s husband or wife

3.To break up

c) To spend a lot of time in a particular place or

with particular people (informal)

4.To make up

d) To be no longer married to your wife or

husband

5.To get married

e) To become friendly with smb again after you

have had an argument

6.To get divorced

f) To have a romantic relationship with smb

Task 8.

Frequency of Cheating.

Relationship cheating is a very common occurrence. If you haven’t experienced it yet, there’s a good chance you eventually will.

I found it difficult to track down good cheating statistics. Slightly more than half of all married people will cheat on their spouses at some point in their lives. Men apparently cheat more often than women, but the gap isn’t huge.

Most of the time cheating does occur, the other spouse doesn’t know about it, with women being in the dark slightly more often than men.

That’s if you’re married. If you’re in a committed relationship but aren’t married, then I’d imagine that the odds of cheating are even higher. Partly I say that because cheating is more common when you’re younger and becomes less likely as you age.

The big game-changer here is the Internet, which makes even 10-year old stats seem very dated now. Recent surveys suggest that most people have flirted online at one point or another, that when people spend time in chat rooms they’re usually motivated by romantic interest, and that about a third of adults have had real relations as a result of a connection that began online.

In the USA alone, tens of millions of people cheat on their primary relationship partners. Most of the time when people cheat, they hide it from their partners, and they usually succeed in doing so, not because they’re so great at keeping secrets but mainly because their partners fail to recognize and acknowledge the telltale signs.

Statistically speaking, if you get involved in committed relationships or marriage, the odds are better than 50–50 that you’re eventually going to cheat at some point in your life. And you’ll probably hide it from your primary partner, and you’ll probably get away with it.

Of course you can decline to join this group if you desire so. However, there’s still a good chance you’ll end up in a relationship with someone else who’s a member, and you probably won’t know. Or you’ll know, but you’ll retreat into denial about it.

1. People cheat each other often enough.

1) True	2) False	3) Not stated

2. Women are less cheaters than men.

1) True	2) False	3) Not stated

3. People always know when they are cheated.

1) True	2) False	3) Not stated

4. Cheating is very typical for teenagers.

1) True	2) False	3) Not stated

5. The Net made cheating more difficult.

1) True	2) False	3) Not stated

6. Online relations are a good beginning for future dates.

1) True	2) False	3) Not stated

7. Most people hide the fact of cheating from (from) their partners.

1) True	2) False	3) Not stated

8. People never know why they cheat on (on )their partners.

1) True	2) False	3) Not stated

Task 9. Fill in the gaps

В13

В14

В15

В16

В17

В18

You set the boundaries in your _____. If those boundaries are crossed and the other person can’t seem to take the hint, you have to assert yourself to restore balance.

For example, if you value your ____ and a relative insists on frequent ___ drop-in visits, that may be a bottom line for you. Or if your mother-in-law keeps turning you into barnyard animals without your consent, you might feel it’s time to put a stop to it. The first thing to realize is that it’s ___OK to satisfy your own needs. A relationship that makes you feel violated isn’t ___.

Correcting problematic relationships in a physical, external world sense is ___ straightforward. You must clearly define the boundaries you’re comfortable with, let the other person know what those boundaries are, and then enforce them.

RELATE

PRIVATE

annouced

(ANNOUNCED)

PERFECT

HEALTH

FAIR

Task 10.

Choose the correct response.

A: Oh no! You spilt the glass of water all over me!

B: a. I`m so sorry. Please accept my apologies.

b. I`m really upset to do this.

2. A: How about going to the theatre tonight?

B: a. Yes. I wouldn't like to.

b. Sounds great, but I'm afraid I can't.

3. A: I`m afraid I have a complaint about the meal. It's cold!

B: a. That's unfortunate!

b. I do apologise, sir. I`ll take care of it, right away

!)

Task 11.

You are going to read a magazine article in which four people talk about their neighbours. For questions 1-3, choose from the people A-D. One article is extra.

1) has a neighbour who interferes in their social life?

2) got something different to what they expected?

3) had to get used(привыкать) to a new reality?

A Alex

They say “good fences make good neighbours”, but this doesn’t apply in Mrs. Beasley’s case. Edwina Beasley has managed to find a way of sticking her busybody nose into my business, though I barely speak a word to her when she starts asking me personal things. She’s even taken it upon herself to find me a wife! Imagine my shock, when she knocked on my door last Sunday, in the company of a woman I’d never seen before and told me: “This is Mary Allen, dear, I’m sure you two have a lot in common, so I’ll let you get to know each other.” And then she left, almost certain that Mary Allen and I will name our first child after her!

B Helen

Don’t get me wrong, I love animals. Be it feathered, furry, two-legged or crawling, I simply adore all creatures. Except one: Mr. Watson’s poodle, Lulu. Though Mr. Watson is a great neighbour (neighbor), Lulu gets on my nerves so much that I’m seriously thinking of kidnapping her and secretly replacing her with a more tolerable look-alike. Not only does Lulu steal my newspaper every morning, she is also very selective with my friends. Whenever I have friends over that she doesn’t like, she will stand outside my door barking or howling for hours if Mr. Watson isn’t home to come and pick her up. I know you’re supposed to “love thy neighbour (neighbor)”, but do you have to love his dog too?

C Lucy

The truth is I grew up to believe that our neighbours were also our friends, all of us sharing our joys and sorrows as they presented themselves in our small but closely-knit community. Unfortunately, this was not the case in the big city I moved to. I realized that trying to be friends with your neighbours and be there for them in times of need was not always welcome when my next-door neighbour (neighbor) told me to mind my own business and stop trying to control other people’s lives. All I had done was knock on her door to see if she was alright on a night I’d heard her crying out loudly!

D Chris

I know you can’t really choose your neighbours, but I thought that I had chosen the right ones when I decided to move to a nice, peaceful street where mostly elderly people resided. What I hadn’t thought of was that these wonderful, friendly people, who mostly kept to themselves, had children and noisy grandchildren who visited on Sunday morning. Worst of all what I didn’t know was the same, seemingly quiet senior citizens would be having band practice every Saturday morning in the house right next to mine. I’m really having second thoughts about this neighbourhood!

Task 12.

Underline the correct item.

1) Mary rarely agrees/approves with her friend’s views, but this doesn’t affect their friendship.

2) Jane and George got married in the States, so many of their ancestors/relatives from Scotland found it difficult to be there for the wedding.

3) Tony is of Italian generation/origin, but he grew up in England.

4) They wanted to have a very small and quiet wedding, so they only invited members of their extended/immediate families and very few friends.

5) He’s always making/picking fights with his neighbours! It’s difficult to make friends with him!

Task 13.

NOUN

VERB

ADJECTIVE

trust

trustful

secure

secure

privacy

-

private

extension

extend

extended

care

Caring, careful

share

sharing

comfort

respect

respect

tension

tense

defense

defensive

confidence

confide

-

individual

discipline

disciplinary

(mis)understanding

understand

independent

difference

differ

household

household

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РАЗБОР РЕШЕНИЯ ТРЕНИРОВОЧНОГО ЗАДАНИЯ 9

Fill in the gaps

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В14

В15

В16

В17

В18

You set the boundaries in your _____. If those boundaries are crossed and the other person can’t seem to take the hint, you have to assert yourself to restore balance.

For example, if you value your ____ and a relative insists on frequent ___ drop-in visits, that may be a bottom line for you. Or if your mother-in-law keeps turning you into barnyard animals without your consent, you might feel it’s time to put a stop to it. The first thing to realize is that it’s ___OK to satisfy your own needs. A relationship that makes you feel violated isn’t ___.

Correcting problematic relationships in a physical, external world sense is ___ straightforward. You must clearly define the boundaries you’re comfortable with, let the other person know what those boundaries are, and then enforce them.

RELATE

PRIVATE

annouced

ANNOUNCED

PERFECT

HEALTH

FAIR

Это задание базового уровня, проверяет владение способами словообразования. Чтобы правильно выполнить задание, ребенок должен знать суффиксы и префиксы, характерные для разных частей речи. Для начала необходимо прочитать текст в целом, чтобы понять его общее содержание. Затем внимательно прочитать первый фрагмент, содержащий пропуски попытаться определить, какая часть речи нужна, чтобы его заполнить. Определив, какую часть речи необходимо образовать, постарайтесь вспомнить суффиксы и префиксы, характерные для этой части речи.

Лексические единицы, изученные в данном уроке: Relationships, friendship, family relationship, romantic relationship, Acquaintanceships, relationship at work. Black sheep, trousers, apple, blood. Complaint, apologizing.

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