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Josh Stepakoff  was 6 years old in 1999  when a white supremacist opened fire on  his  day camp at the Los Angeles Jewish Community Center.
 Josh  was shot in  his  leg and hip. The gunman wounded four others  and shot and killed another man a few miles away.
"I remember playing capture the flag and I looked up and I saw somebody who was holding something at  his  hip. I thought it was a power drill " Josh  now 24  tells his father  Alan  at StoryCorps. "And then  the next thing I remember is getting up from the ground and running as fast as I could."
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He remembers that right after the shooting  Josh  was scared of helicopter sounds and loud noises.
"I think it was hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that this was not normal "  Josh  says. "I thought everyone had a hard time sleeping over. I thought everyone had hard times in the dark."
One of the most difficult things for Alan  he says  was he could never assure  Josh  he could protect him.
"You know  I could never put my arms around you and say 'Don't worry   Josh   I'll keep you safe ' because I couldn't. I just thank God every day you weren't killed " he says. "I don't know whether you've ever envisioned yourself as a family man  married  children. Would you tell this to your child?"
"I go back and forth with that. I think about it a lot  " Josh  says. "I think about my child's 6th birthday and what that will be like for me. I don't know."
 Josh  has a bachelor's degree in psychology and is now in graduate school working on  his  master's in clinical psychology. Does  he  see  himself  counseling other shooting victims?
"Half of me says yes and half of me says no  partially because I almost think that I won't be able to differentiate my life from theirs "  Josh  says. "But nobody tells you what to expect after getting shot  and so the other part of me just so badly wants to be a light in someone's life when they think it's dark."
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What 'Don't Worry I'll Keep You Safe' Means When Your Child Survives A Shooting : NPR


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Move over   Tinder and Match . Millennials are hooking up and even finding love on Instagram . “ It ’ s changed the way people communicate  ” says Mary Beth Barone   a 26 - year - old comedian based in the East Village   who says men often message her on the photo - sharing network . “ There ’ s so much more access — you can see people ’ s lives so you automatically have something to talk about with them .” Here   six ways 20 - and 30 - somethings are getting Insta - mate . The thirst trap A post shared by Sabrina Zohar (@ sabrina . zohar ) on Feb 6   2018 at 5 : 42am PST Last week    singer Demi Lovato  was called out for trying to trap  her  prey   actor Henry Cavill   when  she  uploaded a sexy snap of  herself  in lingerie shortly after following Cavill ’ s account . Sabrina Zohar   who is 27 and the founder of clothing company Softwear   regularly posts photos of  herself  clad in lingerie   lounging around  her  swanky Williamsburg apartment . Male followers flood  her  with flirtatious comments   and that ’ s precisely one of  her  intentions with  her  “ thirst traps ” — pics meant to catch a love interest ’ s eye . But there ’ s more to Instagram flirting than just scantily clad pics . Zohar adds an “ authentic ” caption about self - love and empowerment to let  her  audience know she ’ s genuine .  She  recently uploaded a black - and - white photo of  herself  in a bodysuit   pantless   lying down on a shaggy rug with the caption : “ Love yourself first   the rest will fall into place .” Zohar   who ’ s single and has met a handful of first dates on Instagram   says such messages help  her  find the sort of men  she  ’ s looking for . “ If I wanna look for a mate that ’ s a bit more authentic   more real   more in touch with themselves   [ the captions ] will resonate with them so that they understand me more than   ‘ She ’ s a sexy girl just posting a lingerie photo .’ There ’ s more depth to it .” Baiting with a cute animal A post shared by Danny Visconti (@ dannyveee ) on Jan 2   2018 at 10 : 08am PST You don ’ t need to be perfectly ripped to get someone ’ s attention . Danny Visconti   a 32 - year - old television producer in the West Village   says the most alluring feature on his Instagram feed is his 11 - month - old rescue Lab mix   Clint . “ I ’ ll usually get a lot of responses just being like   ‘ Oh   my God   he ’ s so cute  ” says Visconti   who ’ s currently single but has been on a handful of dates with men he met on Instagram . “[ I ’ ll say  ] ‘ Oh   you know you can come meet him anytime you like .’ And then a handful of times they do .” The deep like Going into the archives of someone ’ s profile and liking a weeks - old or months - old photo is a bold way to express romantic interest . “ This is the Instagram flirting equivalent of making a mixtape for your crush  ” says Drew Wyman   a 29 - year - old entrepreneur who met his girlfriend on the social network . “ It ’ s obvious .” Sliding into the DMs Sending a flirty message to someone ’ s Instagram inbox has become a go - to move for many . ‘ Guys tend to be courageous about what they say ’ Dara Pollak   a food blogger whose @ skinnypignyc account has 84   000 followers   says she ’ s been flooded with direct messages from men in response to her photos of decadent burgers and cheesy pastas . “ Guys tend to be courageous about what they say  ” says Pollak   who notes that the best way to stand out is by being honest and straightforward while providing background on yourself . For example   a guy recently messaged her : “ I refuse to believe you eat all this and look as good as you do … but if you ever want to prove it   I ’ ll buy . Here ’ s my number .” Pollak was charmed   but says she ’ s currently not looking to meet anyone online . Stand out with a ‘ Story ’ Zohar says that uploading Instagram Stories — temporary posts of videos or multiple photos that expire after 24 hours — can more effectively grab someone ’ s attention than a permanent post . “ It ’ s because of the algorithm  ” Zohar says . “ Not everybody sees my [ permanent ] posts   but with the live videos [ it ’ s more certain ] somebody will see it .” Every time she uploads a Story of herself in her underwear   Zohar receives anywhere from “ 10 to 15 ” direct messages . Zohar says : “ It ’ s because people perceive I ’ m active [ online ] when I put a Story up .” Tag your way to the ‘ Explore ’ tab Instagram ’ s “ Explore ” tab   which shows a grid of photos from other strangers based on your network and interests   is also a meet market   according to kickboxing instructor Suki Komonaj   28 . She went on a date with a guy she found on the Explore page because he had similar interests in fitness and had some attractive workout pics . “ I ’ m always on that page  ” says Komonaj   who ’ s based in The Bronx and is currently single . To attract fitness - minded guys to her page   she uses hashtags such as # fit   # boxing and # fitthick to get on like - minded ( and like - bodied ) men ’ s Explore tabs . “ I wanna target somebody who likes to be in the gym like me   owning a business and such  ” Komonaj says .
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How to use Instagram to get lucky


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Nelson DeMilleâs new novel  The Cuban Affair  takes us on a hard-hitting adventure through modern-day Cuba and makes some memorable points about todayâs tense political situation along the way. DeMille has an incredible gift for perfectly capturing a characterâs voice and unique personality. His protagonist in The Cuban Affair is 35-year-old former US Army infantry officer Daniel Graham MacCormick  or Mac for short.
Originally from Portland  Maine  we meet  Mac  once  he âs become a charter fishing boat captain in Key West  Florida. We never fully hear about  Mac âs tour in Afghanistan except for some traumatic combat memories  but weâre told  he  has a Silver Star  two Purple Hearts  and shrapnel wounds  so DeMille makes it clear that  Mac  saw heavy action.
DeMille reintroduces Mac into some abrupt  heart-racing action in The Cuban Affair. The story is told from the first-person point of view and is an action-packed  rollicking tale. After heâs approached by a group of mysterious Cuban expats in Key West   Mac  gets talked into a top-secret mission to recover $60 million in U.S. cash and property deeds from a cave in Cuba that were hidden during Castroâs violent overthrow of Fulgencio Batista in 1959.
 Mac  feels like thereâs something fishy about the whole operation  but eventually signs on  enticed in part by a beautiful Cuban-American woman  Sara  who will be his partner for the mission. DeMille showcases his humor throughout the book  such as when Sara is talking  Mac  into accepting the mission. Theyâre out on  Mac âs charter boat and Sara tries to appeal to his sense of adventure and his sense of right and wrong  with mixed results:
âDonât talk yourself out of this   Mac . Thereâs a sayingââ Iâd rather regret the things I did than the things I didnât do.â â
 Mac   of course  ends up taking on the mission and getting  himself  in hot water after traveling to Cuba under the cover of a Yale educational tour then breaking away to get the hidden money. Things donât go as planned and the book ends up taking a few sharp zigs and zags as it rockets to its conclusion  but this refreshing  zany  and cynical sense of humor is a great recurring feature throughout the book.
Demille also doesnât shy away from the hard topics. Heâs uncompromising in his look at the sadness of modern Cuba and the empty rhetoric of its socialist revolution.  Mac  doesnât really care about what happened in Cuba and comes across as basically apolitical: He just wants to get the money and the girl.
There are complications  naturally. The money is buried in a rural cave in a heavily armed police state full of citizen informants and the girl has a boyfriend. Nonetheless  despite his focus on the basics and disinterest in politics   even Mac  starts to feel disillusioned after arriving in Havana and looking around at the state of things. âRevolutions usually replace one group of incompetent autocratic assholes with another  and the real losers are everyone else  â Mac  ponders at one point.
When  he  finds out about the food situation in Cuba itâs even more sobering. Sara explains to  him  that Cuba is basically half starving as they look around an organic farm:
Even as Sara and Mac traverse Cuba and get into big trouble  DeMille keeps the laughs coming. Itâs quite funny that DeMille puts a character called Richard Neville (clearly a humorous stand-in for himself) into the book. Neville is a bestselling adventure author traveling with  Mac âs tour group in Cuba to research a book and Mac notices Nevilleâs highly attractive wife (a real âlookerâ). Not believing she could really be into the grouchy writer   Mac  surmises she must be attracted to Neville for âthe bulge in his pants â his wallet  not his crotch.â
Neville and  Mac  also have a bit of a rivalry for Sara and a competing inside joke about Ernest Hemingway that is hilarious. As Neville takes photos in front of Hemingwayâs house in Cuba:
As  Mac  and Sara work to get the money they run into a citizen informer  or chivato. He tries to buy them off in return for his silence that he suspects they are up to funny business and explains how things really work in the Communist paradise:
In another part  Mac  and Sara walk through the nicest neighborhood of Havana and are shocked at what they see  which is outright hypocrisy:
In the end  The Cuban Affair manages to combine just the right amount of sassy and sad. It doesnât focus all on doom and gloom  nor does it pretend that everything is merely a joke. At its most profound âteachable moment â  Mac  concludes that life is messy and the truth about humanity lies somewhere in between optimism and blackpill nihilism.  He  concludes that human affairs are complex and paradoxical  alternately bringing out the best and worst in different individuals.
In  his  acknowledgements  DeMille mentions that  he  did personally go on a Yale educational tour of Cuba to prepare for the bookâRichard Neville  indeed.  He  also thanks various friends  family  and colleagues who helped and advised  him  on the book. One is especially telling  because it shows that this book comes from the source:
Iâd like to thank a man who I met in Cuba  and who gave it to  me  straight about contemporary Cuban politics  culture  and life. He wishes to remain anonymous for obvious reasons  but heâs given himself the code name âLola.â Thank you  Lola  wherever you are  and take care.
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Nelson DeMille Presents A 'Cuban Affair' To Remember