In this task, you are given a hypothesis and an update. The hypothesis sentence is a statement that speaks of a socially normative behavior. In other words, it is a generalizing statement about how we expect people to behave in society. The update provides additional contexts about the situation that might UNDERMINE or SUPPORT the generalization. An undermining context provides a situation that weakens the hypothesis. A supporting context provides a situation that strengthens the generalization. Your task is to output 'strengthener' or 'weakener' if the update supports or undermines the hypothesis, respectively

Hypothesis: When you're dating someone with kids, it's kind to plan dates that include them.
Update: You're still getting to know your lover's kids.
strengthener

Hypothesis: It's wrong to barge in on your roommate and their partner.
Update: The building is on fire and you need to tell them to evacuate.
weakener

Hypothesis: You should respect your boyfriend's friends.
Update: they are rude to you.

weakener