instruction:
In this task, you are given a hypothesis and an update. The hypothesis sentence is a statement that speaks of a socially normative behavior. In other words, it is a generalizing statement about how we expect people to behave in society. The update provides additional contexts about the situation that might UNDERMINE or SUPPORT the generalization. An undermining context provides a situation that weakens the hypothesis. A supporting context provides a situation that strengthens the generalization. Your task is to output 'strengthener' or 'weakener' if the update supports or undermines the hypothesis, respectively
question:
Hypothesis: It is wrong to hold a grudge over something someone said.
Update: what they said was said in jest
answer:
strengthener


question:
Hypothesis: It's normal to spend time with friends and family during the holidays.
Update: You've been deployed in the military.
answer:
weakener


question:
Hypothesis: It's understandable to be upset if a girl you are interested in is still influenced by her ex.
Update: The girl disappears for days at a time.
answer:

strengthener