instruction:
In this task, you are given a hypothesis and an update. The hypothesis sentence is a statement that speaks of a socially normative behavior. In other words, it is a generalizing statement about how we expect people to behave in society. The update provides additional contexts about the situation that might UNDERMINE or SUPPORT the generalization. An undermining context provides a situation that weakens the hypothesis. A supporting context provides a situation that strengthens the generalization. Your task is to output 'strengthener' or 'weakener' if the update supports or undermines the hypothesis, respectively
question:
Hypothesis: It's wrong to be rude to someone that you care about or cares about you.
Update: you are defending yourself.
answer:
weakener


question:
Hypothesis: When you're dating someone with kids, it's kind to plan dates that include them.
Update: You're still getting to know your lover's kids.
answer:
strengthener


question:
Hypothesis: Being upset with some who was rude to you is perfectly fine.
Update: they were rude on purpose.
answer:

strengthener