In this task, you are given a hypothesis and an update. The hypothesis sentence is a statement that speaks of a socially normative behavior. In other words, it is a generalizing statement about how we expect people to behave in society. The update provides additional contexts about the situation that might UNDERMINE or SUPPORT the generalization. An undermining context provides a situation that weakens the hypothesis. A supporting context provides a situation that strengthens the generalization. Your task is to output 'strengthener' or 'weakener' if the update supports or undermines the hypothesis, respectively
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Question: Hypothesis: It is wrong to hold a grudge over something someone said.
Update: what they said was said in jest

Answer: strengthener


Question: Hypothesis: It is rude to make someone wait.
Update: They were on time.

Answer: strengthener


Question: Hypothesis: It's acceptable to respect someone's boundaries when they don't want to talk about something.
Update: The other person is engaging in self harm.

Answer:
weakener