In this task, you are given a hypothesis and an update. The hypothesis sentence is a statement that speaks of a socially normative behavior. In other words, it is a generalizing statement about how we expect people to behave in society. The update provides additional contexts about the situation that might UNDERMINE or SUPPORT the generalization. An undermining context provides a situation that weakens the hypothesis. A supporting context provides a situation that strengthens the generalization. Your task is to output 'strengthener' or 'weakener' if the update supports or undermines the hypothesis, respectively

Q: Hypothesis: You should not cancel on plans with friends without a good reason.
Update: Your girlfriend gives you an ultimatum

A: weakener
****
Q: Hypothesis: It's understandable to be mad when a partner doesn't involve you in decisions.
Update: The decisions are about something at your partner's work.

A: weakener
****
Q: Hypothesis: It's okay that not everyone grieves the same way.
Update: They have lost a loved one.

A:
strengthener
****