English: men should never be vulnerable and women should never be bossy yada yada yada) since most powerful traits are seen to be masculine, if you are a woman there is perhaps even more of an incentive to define womanhood for yourself.
Igbo: nwoke agaghị ada mba ma nwaanyị agaghị abụ onyeisi ebe ihe banyere ike bụ nke atụnyeere nwoke, ọ bụrụ na ịbụ nwaanyị enwere ihe ndị ọzọ aga eji kọwaa ịbụ nwaanyị nyere gị