he's just not that into you: the no-excuses truth to understanding guys  <i>he's just not that into you</i>, based on the popular episode of <i>sex and the city</i>, educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. <p>reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, greg behrendt and liz tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "i'm in love with you and want to be with you".</p> <p><i>he's just not that into you</i> is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. it knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. the next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out", consider the glorious thought that maybe <i>he's just not that into you</i>. and then set yourself loose to find the one who is.</p>