that's not what i meant!: the smart, savvy guide to real communication  what if you could learn a new way of communicating that could instantly improve all of the relationships in your life? if you are fighting with your partner, feeling disconnected from your family, getting frustrated with colleagues and experiencing misunderstandings with your friends, you need to read this book. that’s not what i meant! is a punchy how-to guide that will help you to be clear about your message, listen with purpose and start creating workable, win-win relationships.<br> <br> <br>