my marriage is almost dead and my husband doesn't get it.: when great guys are lousy husbands and you want to courageously re-engage with him  <h2>a startling title that you don’t have to hide from your husband! this book is for <em>each</em> of you, <em>to make your marriage better for both </em>of you. <br></h2><h2>this is <em><strong>not</strong></em> about <em>husband bashing</em>--it's about <em>relationship improving.</em></h2><p><b><em>my marriage is almost dead</em> </b>will help make a <u>good</u> marriage become <u>great</u>, a <u>struggling</u> marriage be <u>better</u>, and perhaps, <u>rescue a marriage </u>on the rocks. it's a book to <strong>create</strong> <strong>conversations</strong> with your husband that will move your relationship from poor or mediocre to wonderful and life-giving.</p><h2>69% of divorces are initiated by women. apparently, women often have a more accurate pulse on the marriage, and know when it's time to <em>pull the plug</em> on it. what if women used that wisdom to create positive change in marriage, long before divorce becomes the best idea?</h2><p>when you find yourself in the situation where: </p><p>-you know you love him</p><p>-he's fundamentally a great guy</p><p>-but you're struggling with the distance between you and...</p><p>-it seems he just doesn't understand how hard it is for you...then</p><p><strong><em>my marriage is almost dead and my husband doesn't get it</em></strong> is the book that will give you some ability to address the situation. </p><p>you may not be in trouble yet, but the pattern has been set--and now, unless something changes, it may be only a matter of time before the relationship is just a shell...looks good on the outside, but empty on the inside. </p><p>carolyn klassen, is a popular blogger, speaker (including tedx) and sought after therapist with 20 years of experience. this book is written out of her many years of work with couples in therapy. she writes clearly and poignantly about the pain women experience when their husbands hear their concerns without really "getting it". <em>my marriage is almost dead and my husband doesn't get it</em> will support and encourage you to take steps to create shifts that simply cannot be ignored.</p><p>klassen gives clear understanding, practical tools, and deep compassion needed to find the motivation to say, “i matter in this marriage too, and it absolutely needs to start working better for me". klassen writes to wives who know their marriage is deteriorating, and their husbands are oblivious. there are a lot of guys that are fantastic men, but don't realize that they are actually not-so-great in being husbands. </p><p>practical, inspiring, and supportive, this book creates a different space to ensure that you can make positive changes in your marriage. ironically, and also beautifully--when you are happier, your husband will be too!</p>