big talk question card game: skip small talk, make meaningful connections - unique conversation starters, fun party icebreaker activity, useful networking, educational, and therapy tool - 88 questions big talk the big talk question card game helps you skip the small talk to make more meaningful life connections instead. it was created by kalina silverman after she made a youtube video where she filmed herself approaching strangers and skipping small talk to ask them the question: “what do you want to do before you die?” the conversations helped to build relationships she still maintains today. there are many ways to play; with friends old and new, family members, coworkers, classmates, teammates, clients, members of your community, dating interests, and even yourself.