text: how about picking the right person for the job fuck fucks sake.  if you're good at what you do then fucking own it. if you act like you don't deserve to be there people will sense that and it will detract from every decision you make.nnpeople ask if you're the engineer because their exposure to the industry shows that its statistically unlikely that you are. people make small social assumptions every day its how we fuckign function as a society. if you see someone in a store wearing a black collared shirt and black pants you are inclined to think they work there. if people didn't make small social assumptions based on previous experience we'd all be wondering around getting nothing done too scared to say anything because we aren't sure of someones entire life story. FUCKING STOP OVER ANALYSING SHITnni bet all those guys who ask if you're the software engineer never ask you that question more than once. after that