A Request from ElC and Myself   Hey Sam  Firstly and Ive repeated this to ElC if you want to discuss things or have an argument or the like thats fine but Id prefer you not do so on my talk page Please keep anything there only to relevant communications  Secondly ElC has some requests namely that you try to watch yourself and tone down language that he feels is unduly insulting and offensive Comments like This is BS or what have you seem to be what is at issue While both I and he acknowledge that tempers can run hot in user disputes  Ive certainly had my share  such behavior is not conducive to any sort of settlement and ElC would like that addressed as we proceed through dispute resolution Perhaps give the WikipediaCivility and WikipediaWikiquette articles a once over although I dont doubt youre well versed in their contents He and I both just want to keep the amount of personal comments value judgments subjective assessments etc down to a minimum  Thirdly Im posting a request for mediation right after this is complete You indicated before that you were amenable to such mediation and I operate under the assumption that this is not changed Let me know if it is as that is for obvious reasons quite important Otherwise check the mediation page for appropriate comments