Yes in shot There are too many discussions going on without conclusion After one week both discussions have gone to a natural conclusion in my opinion I know its not the done thing but I think Ive been reasonable in my conclusions     I dont assert that your conclusions are unreasonable  Note that Im not familiar enough with the event to express an opinion regarding its inclusion  Im saying that its generally considered inappropriate for a discussion participant to perform a closure with a finding of consensus in hisher preferred outcomes favor  Such a task is best left to an uninvolved party if only to avoid the appearance of bias  We dont want people to question the outcomes legitimacy on a technicality or otherwise  I urge you to selfrevert and leave the decision to someone else