Kind and Gentle Barnstar  styleborder px solid gray backgroundcolor fdffe rowspan valignmiddle   rowspan  stylefontsize xlarge padding  verticalalign middle height em  The Random Acts of Kindness Barnstar  styleverticalalign middle bordertop px solid gray  Contrary to your username I award you this for being incredibly thoughtful gentle and helpful to a new user in your recent suggestions made in RFA comments  I can think of a few million ways that one situation could have gone much worse but I can think of no ways in which it could have possibly gone better  Well done