Please reconsider taking a break   Its not just because of Sapphics loss of temper that Im suggesting a break although it certainly plays a part  I really think more progress would be made in arriving at a community decision supported  and enforced  by ArbCom as well as in getting the injunction lifted if the named parties all removed themselves from the situation  As for my comments about your son I did NOT mean to imply that his trying out to be a SEAL was important to you and nobody else  If Id meant that Id have written it that way  I dont like sarcasm or veiled insults and prefer the more direct variety  If Im not writing mean things to you then you can be sure Im not thinking mean thoughts about you when I write whatever I do write  I think in at least that one aspect of things we have pretty similar views and I definitely respect you for being able to shrug off insults  Im not posting anything to any of the datesrelated pages for at least a week Im fairly sure Ill be able to convince Sapphic to do the same and hopefully Locke Cole will follow suit  You can choose to keep posting but I dont think youre actually helping your cause by doing so at this point and you may in fact be hurting it  Most of the reason I picked the names I did is because we all seem to have a rather wordy  approach to things and were drowning out and probably scaring off other people who might want to voice their opinion  You dont need to reply here if you dont want to Im not trying to strike up a conversation I just wanted to let you know how I see things  Have a good day