Collapsing of My Questions and Not a Reply to Them   You collapsed some of my comments but left TVHs reply to them addressing me outside the collapse  That was very confusing because TVH appeared to be replying to something that I didnt say      You want to start to get statements of agreement  So do I  But I cant start agreeing unless I know what I am being asked to agree with  If I feel that I am being pushed to start agreeing with things while having to unhide things to see what the agreement is I wont be able to agree  I dont think that I am being that difficult I just want to know what issues are the blocking issues  If I shouldnt ask what is being said to be horrible then why not hide the horrible comment rather than my puzzlement about it      If you were clumsy in deciding what to collapse then I understand  But if you think that I shouldnt be asking questions about harsh statements then maybe either the harsh statements should be collapsed or maybe I would prefer to see a more active style of moderation  Maybe I dont understand