Dont worry too much about little ol me I know which admins to call if anyone gets too fired up and aggravatedaggravating I doubt Ill have any problems though for a long while yet I am grateful that you are choosing to message me on my talk page as it does help to just keep everything transparent and above board In regards to your request for comment on user conduct hope thats right the link is now a disambig page you arent really breaching any of the NPA guides but more treading a bit close to them While I mediate formally or informally I try to get everyone to focus solely on the content of the discussion rather than attributing anything to anyone when in a negative context or lighting but I dont really care much if it is something positive But thats me rambling a bit for you specifically it is saying things like None of the sources even come close to backing up what you are saying None of the sources you give say anything about a chase which could be worded instead to focus only on the content rather than a contributers proposed content eg The sources do not support the content being proposedadded The sources also do not mention anything referring to a chase Do you notice how the second is focused solely on the content and sources being discussed whereas the first is obliquely passing judgement on the users proposaladdition Minor wording semantics but nonetheless have a noticeable impact on discussions that are contentious or otherwise lively with comments I hope this helps allay your concerns as I dont really have a problem with what youre saying usually the biggest concern but I do have some minor concerns about how the message ismay be interpreted The other user has raised bigger concerns for me especially after seeing the diff above but they seem to have calmed down a great deal from where they were before I wont mention their name as you seem to desire at least a modicum of privacy but o felt you deserved an honest comparison of the difference between my concerns for you both Im trying to just help you and them reach a peace table safely without being blocked or sanctioned along the way If you have any further questions or concerns then feel free to reply or f you ever want to share any new articles discussions or user boxes message me or ping me Cheers