I do not believe I have made outrageous violations of all three of those policies You may say that occasionally my tone has been less than wholly level and that this constitutes a form of mild rudeness However my point in this thread that there is also a different kind of rudeness  utterly ignoring those who question your actions and attempt to have a reasonable discussion with you I have legitimate concerns which I have set out at length in a responsible fashion Those concerns have been utterly ignored No attempt has been made to respond to them If I was wrong it should be a simple matter to demonstrate it The person about whom I have those concerns has simply deleted any attempt at discussion from her Talk page This is in my view improper behaviour not to mentio rude in itself Other than that I see reflexively defensive behaviour from what appears to be a selfsupporting clique of administrators