Hi Dave I see youre responding to Aronoels statement about not continuing discussion with me And youre right that I lost my cool though I do feel I had valid reason for doing so I wasnt truly looking to upset people by trying to get a more neutral lead but my frustration just came out in that moment I apologize for not being more professional If this were work that behavior would not have been appropriate at all I need to remember to always think of Wikipedia talk pages as more of a work place instead of sometimes as a forum   Im not sure when you all fought about the lead claiming femininity is entirely biological because I dont believe it has ever been that but I must have missed that discussion or part of it While your proposal for the lead is a good proposal in my opinion especially since it mentions the debate as WPLEAD says it should Id rather just keep the lead that is there now because it is clear that having socially constructed in the lead satisfies three of the main editors of this article