I understand your predicament as an admin during such a situation but surely there is a much more constructive approach Also there are some points that you brought up that I must address I never reverted the posts on his talk page I never reposted my comments I wrote new sections Also everything that I wrote was written in a very civil and approachable manner and when I read his confrontational edit summary I even apologized if he believed there were any harmful intentions because there werent I even restated this by saying there werent any illfeelings because of the edits as I assumed good faith I believed I was very professional on the matter Also when I mentioned OWN it was in respect to WPUPOWN not WPOWN unlike you said above WPUPOWN states that a user does not own his user space and if someone in the community thinks it is constructive to edit the page he can do so despite the users desires I believed that if I didnt communicate my apologies he would continue to misbelieve my intentions I definitely believe that this is a good reason to post on someones talk page Also he wrote on my talk page first I am sure it is agreed upon the community that when someone posts on a user talk page he should be awaiting a response in his It cant be harassment when I was responding to his post on my talk page