Cparker I dont know what you did after  but if anyone else has this kind of issue I would suggest you consider the lap band instead It does not require the drastic resectioning of your organs that is done in roux en ygastric bypass In the surgery you lose more than a foot of your small intestine that you cant get back and that is necessary if it is connected to the stomach in its normal position the area where that connection originally occurred is closed off by sutures the area of your stomach that is stapled creates a bifurcated stomach that cannot be reopened  it is completely irreversible This is a complete and permanent lifestyle and physiological change that should never be taken lightly See my comments in other comment sections on this page about about the difference between your pre and postsurgical life You will be on a diet for life  you will not be returning to your prior eating habits and as I mention above you may not even want to Your tastebuds will change Your nutritional needs will be reprioritized You still have to actively pursue the weight loss  it isnt that they cut your stomach down and you eat what you want and lose weight  that is not how it works at all You will be nauseated after the surgery  mine lasted for the two and a half months during which I was on pureed food only  I begged people to pray for me it was so bad but once I was back on solid food it went away That may have been unique to me There are many problems that occur with everyone but some will be unique to you My program made me do  months of supervised  calorie a day diet and exercise as much as I could with other conditions hampering me and prior to that my PCP and I tried a similar program ourselves So there is no trying it out  you are either in the program or not But I can tell you after almost a decade of obesity caused by medications I take for other conditions and to be honest exacerbated by overeating for the first time in my life also a sideeffect of those meds I have lost about  lbs in the  months since my surgery Seeing the scale keep going down and down is a good feeling With the surgery it happens quickly at first and then slows down with the lap band its just the opposite Make sure you are totally informed before you make a choice and choose your surgeon and their program wisely Do your homework Plus they have screening methods also to make sure you are not wasting their time You will be given a psychological evaluation  similar to having plastic surgery  to make sure you understand the risks the benefits the amount of involvement you play in your weight loss journey and if you are ready for it