The background on her relationship started like thisnnWhile she was married to her st husband she was fooling around with the nut job that burnt her She got divorced  years later too long if you as me got married to nut job and had  son from him Around  they were fighting and both was arrested for domestic abusennWhy do I bring this up you ask We as black people need to take better strides to date better people and stay drama free  When you are messy with your relationships bullshit is going to happen  But we black folks love dramasmhnnThis woman did not deserve to be burned nor her car should towed but the warning signs were all there when she started dating this crazy dude A restraining does not stop nut jobs from harming you ladies and gentlemennnLike the old folks say think deep before you leap