What I understand so far is that I should mind my language in wikiland when making a criticism or complaint Whatever my personal temper about it might be it is not helpful to express that here and I should address the relevant issue in a sober businesslike manner following protocols in these things  That is fair enough assuming that others do likewise and I fully accept that I made a mistake in how I expressed my complaint about the editing of  which did  not actually help me at all nor resolve the issue at all It gets more difficult for me though when the very people who claim to adhere to protocols in reality subvert the protocols themselves and seek to punish me for something else that I am not guilty of That promotes  more confusion instead of clearing it up in my opinion