Im still not sure what youre getting at Its not harassment to respond to him on his talk page after hes posted on mine  I get that his desire is that I dont but he initiated contact on my user talk page so its natural to reply on his Otherwise I respect his request   If youre referring to my offer to help I did that out of a sincere desire to see him not repeat the mistakes Ive made in the past I benefited greatly from having a mentorship arrangement on Wikipedia and so my offer to him was to offer a more personal alternative than the typical dispute resolution procedures hes constantly getting into