Comparing a kid with a puppy shows how narrow minded n shallow she is I wish she could learn something from her seniors wives of famous actors but independent with well brought up kids like Sussaine  Gauri Khan 
Above all its a personal choice of each n every person to work or stay at home irrespective of their Gender
N who has decided the role of malefemale in this world or society Thats too silly to say that if one person tries to take place of other in a relationship there will be chaos Its a bond n understanding between a couple which results in harmony or chaos Mrs Kapoor if u wish to work n ur husband thinks of it as u taking his place then its ur problemdont convert your personal issue into a stupid public statement
A marriage is basically a partnership where husband n wife dont fight or rush into taking each other places but share all responsibilities together One or both might wish to work n share house responsibilities togetheror one might decide to work while other might decide to take care of house responsibilities You should not be making your personal decisions public in such shallow way