Title: cache in nfs error
Author: simplew2011
State: open

### Describe the bug

- When reading dataset, a cache will be generated to the ~/. cache/huggingface/datasets directory
- When using .map and .filter operations, runtime cache will be generated to the /tmp/hf_datasets-* directory
- The default is to use the path of tempfile.tempdir
- If I modify this path to the NFS disk, an error will be reported, but the program will continue to run
- https://github.com/huggingface/datasets/blob/main/src/datasets/config.py#L257



```
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/process.py", line 315, in _bootstrap
    self.run()
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/process.py", line 108, in run
    self._target(*self._args, **self._kwargs)
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/managers.py", line 616, in _run_server
    server.serve_forever()
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/managers.py", line 182, in serve_forever
    sys.exit(0)
SystemExit: 0

During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred:

Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/util.py", line 300, in _run_finalizers
    finalizer()
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/util.py", line 224, in __call__
    res = self._callback(*self._args, **self._kwargs)
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/util.py", line 133, in _remove_temp_dir
    rmtree(tempdir)
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/shutil.py", line 718, in rmtree
    _rmtree_safe_fd(fd, path, onerror)
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/shutil.py", line 675, in _rmtree_safe_fd
    onerror(os.unlink, fullname, sys.exc_info())
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/shutil.py", line 673, in _rmtree_safe_fd
    os.unlink(entry.name, dir_fd=topfd)
OSError: [Errno 16] Device or resource busy: '.nfs000000038330a012000030b4'
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/process.py", line 315, in _bootstrap
    self.run()
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/process.py", line 108, in run
    self._target(*self._args, **self._kwargs)
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/managers.py", line 616, in _run_server
    server.serve_forever()
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/managers.py", line 182, in serve_forever
    sys.exit(0)
SystemExit: 0

During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred:

Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/util.py", line 300, in _run_finalizers
    finalizer()
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/util.py", line 224, in __call__
    res = self._callback(*self._args, **self._kwargs)
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/site-packages/multiprocess/util.py", line 133, in _remove_temp_dir
    rmtree(tempdir)
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/shutil.py", line 718, in rmtree
    _rmtree_safe_fd(fd, path, onerror)
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/shutil.py", line 675, in _rmtree_safe_fd
    onerror(os.unlink, fullname, sys.exc_info())
  File "/home/wzp/miniconda3/envs/dask/lib/python3.8/shutil.py", line 673, in _rmtree_safe_fd
    os.unlink(entry.name, dir_fd=topfd)
OSError: [Errno 16] Device or resource busy: '.nfs0000000400064d4a000030e5'

```

### Steps to reproduce the bug

```
import os
import time
import tempfile

from datasets import load_dataset

def add_column(sample):
    # print(type(sample))
    # time.sleep(0.1)
    sample['__ds__stats__'] = {'data': 123}
    return sample

def filt_column(sample):
    # print(type(sample))
    if len(sample['content']) > 10:
        return True
    else:
        return False

if __name__ == '__main__':

    input_dir = '/mnt/temp/CN/small'  # some json dataset
    dataset = load_dataset('json', data_dir=input_dir)

   
    temp_dir = '/media/release/release/temp/temp'  # a nfs folder
    os.makedirs(temp_dir, exist_ok=True)
   
    # change huggingface-datasets runtime cache in nfs（default in /tmp）
    tempfile.tempdir = temp_dir

    aa = dataset.map(add_column, num_proc=64)

    aa = aa.filter(filt_column, num_proc=64)
    print(aa)
```

### Expected behavior

no error occur

### Environment info

datasets==2.18.0
ubuntu 20.04