torch.jit.script produces incorrect gradients
Labels: oncall: jit

### 🐛 Describe the bug

I made a custom layer-norm implementation for Conv1d `(B, C, L)` ordering, and the gradients appear to be wrong under `torch.jit.script`. 

Here is a reproducible example:
```python
import torch
import torch.nn as nn

def ln_nb(x, gamma):
    mean = x.mean(dim=1, keepdim=True)  # (B, C, L) -> (B, 1, L)
    var = x.var(dim=1, keepdim=True, unbiased=False)  # (B, C, L) -> (B, 1, L)
    x = (x - mean) / torch.sqrt(var + 1e-5)  # (B, C, L)
    return gamma * x

ln_nb_scripted = torch.jit.script(ln_nb)

class LN(nn.Module):
    def __init__(self, num_channels, jit=False):
        """ Bias-free layer-norm with (B, C, L) ordering. """
        super(LN, self).__init__()
        self.gamma = nn.Parameter(torch.ones(1, num_channels, 1))
        self.jit = jit

    def forward(self, x):
        if self.jit:
            return ln_nb_scripted(x, self.gamma)
        return ln_nb(x, self.gamma)

# create dummy-input + grad from previous layer
B, C, L = 8, 512, 1024
x = torch.randn(B, C, L, requires_grad=True).cuda()
prev_grads = torch.randn(B, C, L).cuda()

# note: error doesn't appear until 2nd or 3rd JIT-ed function call.
for i in range(4):
    # version 1. (no JIT)
    ln1 = LN(C, jit=False).cuda()
    y1 = ln1(x)
    grad1, = torch.autograd.grad(
        y1,
        x,
        prev_grads
    )
    
    # version 2. (JIT)
    ln2 = LN(C, jit=True).cuda()
    y2 = ln2(x)
    grad2, = torch.autograd.grad(
        y2,
        x,
        prev_grads
    )

    grad_diff = torch.abs(grad1 - grad2)
    y_diff = torch.abs(y1 - y2)

    print(f"Iteration {i}")
    print(f"Output diffs. Mean: {y_diff.mean().item()}, Max: {y_diff.max().item()}")
    print(f"Grad diffs. Mean: {grad_diff.mean().item()}, Max: {grad_diff.max().item()}\n")
```


As an interesting aside, the bug goes away if my model is wrapped in `torch.compile`, even with `backend=eager`. I discovered this because my model would _only_ train when wrapped with `torch.compile` (Unless I disable `torch.jit.script`, in which case it always trains).  


### Versions

Collecting environment information...
PyTorch version: 2.0.1+cu118
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 11.8
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Ubuntu 22.04.3 LTS (x86_64)
GCC version: (Ubuntu 11.4.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 11.4.0
Clang version: Could not collect
CMake version: version 3.25.0
Libc version: glibc-2.35

Python version: 3.9.17 (main, Jul  5 2023, 20:41:20)  [GCC 11.2.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-5.19.0-1030-gcp-x86_64-with-glibc2.35
Is CUDA available: True
CUDA runtime version: Could not collect
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: LAZY
GPU models and configuration: 
GPU 0: NVIDIA A100-SXM4-80GB
GPU 1: NVIDIA A100-SXM4-80GB
GPU 2: NVIDIA A100-SXM4-80GB
GPU 3: NVIDIA A100-SXM4-80GB

Nvidia driver version: 535.86.10
cuDNN version: Could not collect
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
Architecture:                    x86_64
CPU op-mode(s):                  32-bit, 64-bit
Address sizes:                   46 bits physical, 48 bits virtual
Byte Order:                      Little Endian
CPU(s):                          48
On-line CPU(s) list:             0-47
Vendor ID:                       GenuineIntel
Model name:                      Intel(R) Xeon(R) CPU @ 2.20GHz
CPU family:                      6
Model:                           85
Thread(s) per core:              2
Core(s) per socket:              24
Socket(s):                       1
Stepping:                        7
BogoMIPS:                        4400.46
Flags:                           fpu vme de pse tsc msr pae mce cx8 apic sep mtrr pge mca cmov pat pse36 clflush mmx fxsr sse sse2 ss ht syscall nx pdpe1gb rdtscp lm constant_tsc rep_good nopl xtopology nonstop_tsc cpuid tsc_known_freq pni pclmulqdq ssse3 fma cx16 pcid sse4_1 sse4_2 x2apic movbe popcnt aes xsave avx f16c rdrand hypervisor lahf_lm abm 3dnowprefetch invpcid_single ssbd ibrs ibpb stibp ibrs_enhanced fsgsbase tsc_adjust bmi1 hle avx2 smep bmi2 erms invpcid rtm mpx avx512f avx512dq rdseed adx smap clflushopt clwb avx512cd avx512bw avx512vl xsaveopt xsavec xgetbv1 xsaves arat avx512_vnni md_clear arch_capabilities
Hypervisor vendor:               KVM
Virtualization type:             full
L1d cache:                       768 KiB (24 instances)
L1i cache:                       768 KiB (24 instances)
L2 cache:                        24 MiB (24 instances)
L3 cache:                        38.5 MiB (1 instance)
NUMA node(s):                    1
NUMA node0 CPU(s):               0-47
Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     Not affected
Vulnerability L1tf:              Not affected
Vulnerability Mds:               Mitigation; Clear CPU buffers; SMT Host state unknown
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Not affected
Vulnerability Mmio stale data:   Vulnerable: Clear CPU buffers attempted, no microcode; SMT Host state unknown
Vulnerability Retbleed:          Mitigation; Enhanced IBRS
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Enhanced IBRS, IBPB conditional, RSB filling, PBRSB-eIBRS SW sequence
Vulnerability Srbds:             Not affected
Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Mitigation; Clear CPU buffers; SMT Host state unknown

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] mypy==0.991
[pip3] mypy-extensions==1.0.0
[pip3] numpy==1.21.6
[pip3] torch==2.0.1+cu118
[pip3] torch-stoi==0.1.2
[pip3] torchaudio==2.0.2+cu118
[pip3] torchfile==0.1.0
[pip3] torchvision==0.15.2+cu118
[pip3] triton==2.0.0
[conda] numpy                     1.21.6                   pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torch                     2.0.1+cu118              pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torch-stoi                0.1.2                    pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torchaudio                2.0.2+cu118              pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torchfile                 0.1.0                    pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torchvision               0.15.2+cu118             pypi_0    pypi
[conda] triton                    2.0.0                    pypi_0    pypi

cc @EikanWang @jgong5 @wenzhe-nrv @sanchitintel