Incorrect Error Message Ordering for nn.AdaptiveAvgPool2d with Incorrect output_size 
Labels: module: nn, triaged

### 🐛 Describe the bug

I've discovered an issue in the nn.AdaptiveAvgPool2d function concerning the order of error messages when an incorrect length of output_size is provided.

The code snippet below demonstrates the issue:
Here is the code to reproduce:

```python 
import torch.nn as nn
m = nn.AdaptiveAvgPool2d(output_size = [1,1,1,1])
m(torch.rand([3,3,3,3]))
```
The main problem with this code is that the output_size argument provided has a length of 4, whereas nn.AdaptiveAvgPool2d expects it to be of length 2.

The current error handling produces the following misleading message: "Input dimension should be at least 5". Only after correcting the input tensor size, the second error message, which correctly identifies the problem, emerges: "adaptive_avg_pool2d: output_size must be 2".


### Versions

PyTorch version: 2.1.0.dev20230622+cu118
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 11.8
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Ubuntu 20.04.6 LTS (x86_64)
GCC version: (Ubuntu 9.4.0-1ubuntu1~20.04.1) 9.4.0
Clang version: 12.0.0-3ubuntu1~20.04.5
CMake version: version 3.26.1
Libc version: glibc-2.31

Python version: 3.9.16 (main, Mar  8 2023, 14:00:05)  [GCC 11.2.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-5.4.0-152-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.31
Is CUDA available: True
CUDA runtime version: 12.1.105
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: LAZY
GPU models and configuration: 
GPU 0: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 2070
GPU 1: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 2070
GPU 2: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 2070
GPU 3: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 2070

Nvidia driver version: 530.30.02
cuDNN version: Probably one of the following:
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn.so.8.9.2
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_infer.so.8.9.2
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_train.so.8.9.2
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_cnn_infer.so.8.9.2
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_cnn_train.so.8.9.2
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_infer.so.8.9.2
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_train.so.8.9.2
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
Architecture:                    x86_64
CPU op-mode(s):                  32-bit, 64-bit
Byte Order:                      Little Endian
Address sizes:                   46 bits physical, 48 bits virtual
CPU(s):                          32
On-line CPU(s) list:             0-31
Thread(s) per core:              2
Core(s) per socket:              8
Socket(s):                       2
NUMA node(s):                    2
Vendor ID:                       GenuineIntel
CPU family:                      6
Model:                           63
Model name:                      Intel(R) Xeon(R) CPU E5-2630 v3 @ 2.40GHz
Stepping:                        2
CPU MHz:                         1224.656
CPU max MHz:                     3200.0000
CPU min MHz:                     1200.0000
BogoMIPS:                        4794.39
Virtualization:                  VT-x
L1d cache:                       512 KiB
L1i cache:                       512 KiB
L2 cache:                        4 MiB
L3 cache:                        40 MiB
NUMA node0 CPU(s):               0,2,4,6,8,10,12,14,16,18,20,22,24,26,28,30
NUMA node1 CPU(s):               1,3,5,7,9,11,13,15,17,19,21,23,25,27,29,31
Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     KVM: Mitigation: Split huge pages
Vulnerability L1tf:              Mitigation; PTE Inversion; VMX conditional cache flushes, SMT vulnerable
Vulnerability Mds:               Mitigation; Clear CPU buffers; SMT vulnerable
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Mitigation; PTI
Vulnerability Mmio stale data:   Mitigation; Clear CPU buffers; SMT vulnerable
Vulnerability Retbleed:          Not affected
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl and seccomp
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Retpolines, IBPB conditional, IBRS_FW, STIBP conditional, RSB filling, PBRSB-eIBRS Not affected
Vulnerability Srbds:             Not affected
Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Not affected
Flags:                           fpu vme de pse tsc msr pae mce cx8 apic sep mtrr pge mca cmov pat pse36 clflush dts acpi mmx fxsr sse sse2 ss ht tm pbe syscall nx pdpe1gb rdtscp lm constant_tsc arch_perfmon pebs bts rep_good nopl xtopology nonstop_tsc cpuid aperfmperf pni pclmulqdq dtes64 monitor ds_cpl vmx smx est tm2 ssse3 sdbg fma cx16 xtpr pdcm pcid dca sse4_1 sse4_2 x2apic movbe popcnt tsc_deadline_timer aes xsave avx f16c rdrand lahf_lm abm cpuid_fault epb invpcid_single pti ssbd ibrs ibpb stibp tpr_shadow vnmi flexpriority ept vpid ept_ad fsgsbase tsc_adjust bmi1 avx2 smep bmi2 erms invpcid cqm xsaveopt cqm_llc cqm_occup_llc dtherm ida arat pln pts md_clear flush_l1d

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] numpy==1.24.1
[pip3] pytorch-triton==2.1.0+440fd1bf20
[pip3] torch==2.1.0.dev20230622+cu118
[pip3] torchaudio==2.1.0.dev20230622+cu118
[pip3] torchvision==0.16.0.dev20230622+cu118
[conda] blas                      1.0                         mkl  
[conda] ffmpeg                    4.3                  hf484d3e_0    pytorch
[conda] mkl                       2023.1.0         h6d00ec8_46342  
[conda] mkl-service               2.4.0            py39h5eee18b_1  
[conda] mkl_fft                   1.3.6            py39h417a72b_1  
[conda] mkl_random                1.2.2            py39h417a72b_1  
[conda] numpy                     1.24.1                   pypi_0    pypi
[conda] pytorch-mutex             1.0                         cpu    pytorch
[conda] pytorch-triton            2.1.0+440fd1bf20          pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torch                     2.1.0.dev20230622+cu118          pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torchaudio                2.1.0.dev20230622+cu118          pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torchvision               0.16.0.dev20230622+cu118          pypi_0    pypi

cc @albanD @mruberry @jbschlosser @walterddr @mikaylagawarecki