FakeTensor detach() gives meta tensor other than FakeTensor under `torch._C._DisableTorchDispatch()`
Labels: triaged, tensor subclass, module: fakeTensor

### 🐛 Describe the bug

My repro:

```
import torch
from torch._subclasses.fake_tensor import FakeTensorMode
from torch.utils._mode_utils import no_dispatch

fake_mode = FakeTensorMode()
with fake_mode:
    t = torch.ones([10])
print(t)
print(t.detach())
with no_dispatch():
    t_no_dispatch = t.detach()
print(t_no_dispatch)
```


Output:
```
FakeTensor(..., size=(10,))
FakeTensor(..., size=(10,))
tensor(..., device='meta', size=(10,))
```

I feel like the expected behavior of detaching a fake tensor should be the same with/without `no_dispatch`, which is a thin wrapper of `_DisableTorchDispatch` as otherwise we cannot load fake tensors as parameters into nn.Module with `no_dispatch`.

### Versions

PyTorch version: 2.1.0.dev20230524+cu118
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 11.8
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Ubuntu 22.04.2 LTS (x86_64)
GCC version: (Ubuntu 10.4.0-4ubuntu1~22.04) 10.4.0
Clang version: 14.0.0-1ubuntu1
CMake version: version 3.22.1
Libc version: glibc-2.35

Python version: 3.8.16 (default, Jun 12 2023, 18:09:05)  [GCC 11.2.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-5.19.0-45-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.17
Is CUDA available: True
CUDA runtime version: 11.8.89
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: LAZY
GPU models and configuration: GPU 0: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3070
Nvidia driver version: 520.61.05
cuDNN version: Probably one of the following:
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_infer.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_train.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_cnn_infer.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_cnn_train.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_infer.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_train.so.8.9.0
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
Architecture:                    x86_64
CPU op-mode(s):                  32-bit, 64-bit
Address sizes:                   48 bits physical, 48 bits virtual
Byte Order:                      Little Endian
CPU(s):                          24
On-line CPU(s) list:             0-23
Vendor ID:                       AuthenticAMD
Model name:                      AMD Ryzen 9 5900X 12-Core Processor
CPU family:                      25
Model:                           33
Thread(s) per core:              2
Core(s) per socket:              12
Socket(s):                       1
Stepping:                        0
Frequency boost:                 enabled
CPU max MHz:                     4950.1948
CPU min MHz:                     2200.0000
BogoMIPS:                        7399.95
Flags:                           fpu vme de pse tsc msr pae mce cx8 apic sep mtrr pge mca cmov pat pse36 clflush mmx fxsr sse sse2 ht syscall nx mmxext fxsr_opt pdpe1gb rdtscp lm constant_tsc rep_good nopl nonstop_tsc cpuid extd_apicid aperfmperf rapl pni pclmulqdq monitor ssse3 fma cx16 sse4_1 sse4_2 movbe popcnt aes xsave avx f16c rdrand lahf_lm cmp_legacy svm extapic cr8_legacy abm sse4a misalignsse 3dnowprefetch osvw ibs skinit wdt tce topoext perfctr_core perfctr_nb bpext perfctr_llc mwaitx cpb cat_l3 cdp_l3 hw_pstate ssbd mba ibrs ibpb stibp vmmcall fsgsbase bmi1 avx2 smep bmi2 erms invpcid cqm rdt_a rdseed adx smap clflushopt clwb sha_ni xsaveopt xsavec xgetbv1 xsaves cqm_llc cqm_occup_llc cqm_mbm_total cqm_mbm_local clzero irperf xsaveerptr rdpru wbnoinvd arat npt lbrv svm_lock nrip_save tsc_scale vmcb_clean flushbyasid decodeassists pausefilter pfthreshold avic v_vmsave_vmload vgif v_spec_ctrl umip pku ospke vaes vpclmulqdq rdpid overflow_recov succor smca fsrm
Virtualization:                  AMD-V
L1d cache:                       384 KiB (12 instances)
L1i cache:                       384 KiB (12 instances)
L2 cache:                        6 MiB (12 instances)
L3 cache:                        64 MiB (2 instances)
NUMA node(s):                    1
NUMA node0 CPU(s):               0-23
Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     Not affected
Vulnerability L1tf:              Not affected
Vulnerability Mds:               Not affected
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Not affected
Vulnerability Mmio stale data:   Not affected
Vulnerability Retbleed:          Not affected
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Retpolines, IBPB conditional, IBRS_FW, STIBP always-on, RSB filling, PBRSB-eIBRS Not affected
Vulnerability Srbds:             Not affected
Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Not affected

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] bert-pytorch==0.0.1a4
[pip3] clip-anytorch==2.5.2
[pip3] CoCa-pytorch==0.0.7
[pip3] dalle2-pytorch==1.14.2
[pip3] ema-pytorch==0.2.3
[pip3] flake8==6.0.0
[pip3] functorch==1.14.0a0+b71aa0b
[pip3] mypy-extensions==1.0.0
[pip3] numpy==1.21.2
[pip3] open-clip-torch==2.20.0
[pip3] pytorch-transformers==1.2.0
[pip3] pytorch-triton==2.1.0+7d1a95b046
[pip3] pytorch-warmup==0.1.1
[pip3] rotary-embedding-torch==0.2.5
[pip3] torch==2.1.0.dev20230524+cu118
[pip3] torch-fidelity==0.3.0
[pip3] torch_geometric==2.4.0
[pip3] torch-struct==0.5
[pip3] torchaudio==2.1.0.dev20230524+cu118
[pip3] torchdata==0.7.0.dev20230524
[pip3] torchmetrics==1.0.1
[pip3] torchrec-nightly==2023.7.17
[pip3] torchtext==0.16.0.dev20230524+cpu
[pip3] torchvision==0.16.0.dev20230524+cu118
[pip3] vector-quantize-pytorch==1.6.30

cc @ezyang @msaroufim @albanD @wconstab @bdhirsh @anijain2305