Performance degradation on AMD + A800 when computation is small
Labels: module: performance, module: cuda, triaged

### 🐛 Describe the bug

Simply run torch.matmul on different machines, when gemm is large, we get almost **equal performance**.
However when it is small, **A800 + AMD is unstable and slow.**

Test Code:
```
import torch
import time
n_test = 10
rep = 10;
M = 512; N = 512; K = 512;
x = torch.randn((M,K),device='cuda', dtype=torch.float16)
y = torch.randn((K,N),device='cuda', dtype=torch.float16)
for i in range(n_test):
    torch.cuda.synchronize()
    t_start = time.perf_counter_ns()
    for _ in range(rep):
        z = torch.matmul(x, y)
    torch.cuda.synchronize()
    _t = (time.perf_counter_ns() - t_start)/1e6
    print(f'test-{i}, torch.matmul for ({M},{K}) @ ({K},{N}): {_t:.4}ms')
```


Testing results, M,N,K = (512,512,512):
**AMD + A800:**
<img width="872" alt="image" src="https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/assets/33060203/6f9e7953-3ffe-4d64-b2c8-934de190d80e">
**Intel + A100:**
<img width="694" alt="image" src="https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/assets/33060203/14d7a171-a55e-4d88-a974-7ae14462a4a2">


Testing results, M,N,K = (5120,5120,512):
**AMD + A800:**
<img width="883" alt="image" src="https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/assets/33060203/093c5e86-4c2b-4682-9fc6-d1637c5f0252">

**Intel + A100:**
<img width="677" alt="image" src="https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/assets/33060203/416f0f59-93c5-4096-9c8e-92573100f28c">


### Versions

**Intel + A100 env:**
PyTorch version: 2.0.1+cu117
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 11.7
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Ubuntu 20.04.5 LTS (x86_64)
GCC version: (Ubuntu 9.4.0-1ubuntu1~20.04.1) 9.4.0
Clang version: Could not collect
CMake version: version 3.26.4
Libc version: glibc-2.31

Python version: 3.8.10 (default, Mar 13 2023, 10:26:41)  [GCC 9.4.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-3.10.0-1160.66.1.el7.x86_64-x86_64-with-glibc2.29
Is CUDA available: True
CUDA runtime version: 12.1.66
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: LAZY
GPU models and configuration: GPU 0: NVIDIA A100-SXM4-80GB
Nvidia driver version: 470.129.06
cuDNN version: Probably one of the following:
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_infer.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_train.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_cnn_infer.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_cnn_train.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_infer.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_train.so.8.9.0
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
Architecture:                    x86_64
CPU op-mode(s):                  32-bit, 64-bit
Byte Order:                      Little Endian
Address sizes:                   46 bits physical, 57 bits virtual
CPU(s):                          128
On-line CPU(s) list:             0-127
Thread(s) per core:              2
Core(s) per socket:              32
Socket(s):                       2
NUMA node(s):                    2
Vendor ID:                       GenuineIntel
CPU family:                      6
Model:                           106
Model name:                      Intel(R) Xeon(R) Platinum 8358P CPU @ 2.60GHz
Stepping:                        6
Frequency boost:                 enabled
CPU MHz:                         3400.000
CPU max MHz:                     3400.0000
CPU min MHz:                     800.0000
BogoMIPS:                        5200.00
Virtualization:                  VT-x
L1d cache:                       3 MiB
L1i cache:                       2 MiB
L2 cache:                        80 MiB
L3 cache:                        96 MiB
NUMA node0 CPU(s):               0-31,64-95
NUMA node1 CPU(s):               32-63,96-127
Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     Not affected
Vulnerability L1tf:              Not affected
Vulnerability Mds:               Not affected
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Not affected
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl and seccomp
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; Load fences, usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Enhanced IBRS, IBPB
Vulnerability Srbds:             Not affected
Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Not affected
Flags:                           fpu vme de pse tsc msr pae mce cx8 apic sep mtrr pge mca cmov pat pse36 clflush dts acpi mmx fxsr sse sse2 ss ht tm pbe syscall nx pdpe1gb rdtscp lm constant_tsc art arch_perfmon pebs bts rep_good nopl xtopology nonstop_tsc aperfmperf eagerfpu pni pclmulqdq dtes64 ds_cpl vmx smx est tm2 ssse3 sdbg fma cx16 xtpr pdcm pcid dca sse4_1 sse4_2 x2apic movbe popcnt tsc_deadline_timer aes xsave avx f16c rdrand lahf_lm abm 3dnowprefetch epb cat_l3 invpcid_single intel_pt ssbd mba ibrs ibpb stibp ibrs_enhanced tpr_shadow vnmi flexpriority ept vpid fsgsbase tsc_adjust bmi1 hle avx2 smep bmi2 erms invpcid rtm cqm rdt_a avx512f avx512dq rdseed adx smap avx512ifma clflushopt clwb avx512cd sha_ni avx512bw avx512vl xsaveopt xsavec xgetbv1 cqm_llc cqm_occup_llc cqm_mbm_total cqm_mbm_local dtherm ida arat pln pts avx512vbmi umip pku ospke avx512_vbmi2 gfni vaes vpclmulqdq avx512_vnni avx512_bitalg avx512_vpopcntdq md_clear pconfig spec_ctrl intel_stibp flush_l1d arch_capabilities

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] clip-anytorch==2.5.2
[pip3] numpy==1.22.4
[pip3] open-clip-torch==2.20.0
[pip3] pytorch-lightning==2.0.0
[pip3] torch==2.0.1
[pip3] torch-tensorrt==1.4.0
[pip3] torchdiffeq==0.2.3
[pip3] torchmetrics==0.11.4
[pip3] torchsde==0.2.5
[pip3] torchvision==0.15.1
[pip3] triton==2.0.0
[pip3] tritonclient==2.30.0
[conda] Could not collect





**AMD + A800 env:**
PyTorch version: 2.0.1+cu117
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 11.7
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Ubuntu 20.04.5 LTS (x86_64)
GCC version: (Ubuntu 9.4.0-1ubuntu1~20.04.1) 9.4.0
Clang version: Could not collect
CMake version: version 3.25.0
Libc version: glibc-2.31

Python version: 3.8.10 (default, Mar 13 2023, 10:26:41)  [GCC 9.4.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-5.4.0-128-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.29
Is CUDA available: True
CUDA runtime version: 12.1.66
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: LAZY
GPU models and configuration: GPU 0: NVIDIA Graphics Device
Nvidia driver version: 515.65.01
cuDNN version: Probably one of the following:
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_infer.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_train.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_cnn_infer.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_cnn_train.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_infer.so.8.9.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_train.so.8.9.0
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
Architecture:                    x86_64
CPU op-mode(s):                  32-bit, 64-bit
Byte Order:                      Little Endian
Address sizes:                   43 bits physical, 48 bits virtual
CPU(s):                          256
On-line CPU(s) list:             0-255
Thread(s) per core:              2
Core(s) per socket:              64
Socket(s):                       2
NUMA node(s):                    8
Vendor ID:                       AuthenticAMD
CPU family:                      23
Model:                           49
Model name:                      AMD EPYC 7742 64-Core Processor
Stepping:                        0
Frequency boost:                 enabled
CPU MHz:                         1796.581
CPU max MHz:                     2250.0000
CPU min MHz:                     1500.0000
BogoMIPS:                        4491.50
Virtualization:                  AMD-V
L1d cache:                       4 MiB
L1i cache:                       4 MiB
L2 cache:                        64 MiB
L3 cache:                        512 MiB
NUMA node0 CPU(s):               0-15,128-143
NUMA node1 CPU(s):               16-31,144-159
NUMA node2 CPU(s):               32-47,160-175
NUMA node3 CPU(s):               48-63,176-191
NUMA node4 CPU(s):               64-79,192-207
NUMA node5 CPU(s):               80-95,208-223
NUMA node6 CPU(s):               96-111,224-239
NUMA node7 CPU(s):               112-127,240-255
Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     Not affected
Vulnerability L1tf:              Not affected
Vulnerability Mds:               Not affected
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Not affected
Vulnerability Mmio stale data:   Not affected
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl and seccomp
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Retpolines, IBPB conditional, IBRS_FW, STIBP conditional, RSB filling, PBRSB-eIBRS Not affected
Vulnerability Srbds:             Not affected
Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Not affected
Flags:                           fpu vme de pse tsc msr pae mce cx8 apic sep mtrr pge mca cmov pat pse36 clflush mmx fxsr sse sse2 ht syscall nx mmxext fxsr_opt pdpe1gb rdtscp lm constant_tsc rep_good nopl nonstop_tsc cpuid extd_apicid aperfmperf pni pclmulqdq monitor ssse3 fma cx16 sse4_1 sse4_2 x2apic movbe popcnt aes xsave avx f16c rdrand lahf_lm cmp_legacy svm extapic cr8_legacy abm sse4a misalignsse 3dnowprefetch osvw ibs skinit wdt tce topoext perfctr_core perfctr_nb bpext perfctr_llc mwaitx cpb cat_l3 cdp_l3 hw_pstate sme ssbd mba sev ibrs ibpb stibp vmmcall fsgsbase bmi1 avx2 smep bmi2 cqm rdt_a rdseed adx smap clflushopt clwb sha_ni xsaveopt xsavec xgetbv1 xsaves cqm_llc cqm_occup_llc cqm_mbm_total cqm_mbm_local clzero irperf xsaveerptr wbnoinvd arat npt lbrv svm_lock nrip_save tsc_scale vmcb_clean flushbyasid decodeassists pausefilter pfthreshold avic v_vmsave_vmload vgif umip rdpid overflow_recov succor smca

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] clip-anytorch==2.5.2
[pip3] numpy==1.24.4
[pip3] pytorch-lightning==2.0.0
[pip3] torch==2.0.1+cu117
[pip3] torchaudio==2.0.1+cu117
[pip3] torchdiffeq==0.2.3
[pip3] torchmetrics==1.0.1
[pip3] torchsde==0.2.5
[pip3] torchvision==0.15.1
[pip3] triton==2.0.0
[pip3] tritonclient==2.34.0

cc @ptrblck