Init_rpc() errors when running the test code in the TorchPRC document on two different machines 
Labels: triaged, module: rpc

### 🐛 Describe the bug

I ran the test code in https://pytorch.org/docs/1.13/rpc.html on **two different machines** and got the following errors:

worker0:
python torchrpc_master.py
```
[W tensorpipe_agent.cpp:530] RPC agent for worker0 encountered error when accepting incoming pipe: eof (this error originated at tensorpipe/transport/ibv/connection_impl.cc:302)
[W tensorpipe_agent.cpp:726] RPC agent for worker0 encountered error when reading incoming request from worker1: eof (this error originated at tensorpipe/transport/ibv/connection_impl.cc:302)
```

worker1:
python torchrpc_slave.py
```
[W tensorpipe_agent.cpp:940] RPC agent for worker1 encountered error when reading incoming response from worker0: transport retry counter exceeded (this error originated at tensorpipe/transport/ibv/connection_impl.cc:478)
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/code/cityeyes/torchrpc_slave.py", line 7, in <module>
    rpc.init_rpc("worker1", rank=1, world_size=2)
  File "/env/anaconda3/envs/nerf/lib/python3.9/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/__init__.py", line 196, in init_rpc
    _init_rpc_backend(backend, store, name, rank, world_size, rpc_backend_options)
  File "/env/anaconda3/envs/nerf/lib/python3.9/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/__init__.py", line 231, in _init_rpc_backend
    rpc_agent = backend_registry.init_backend(
  File "/env/anaconda3/envs/nerf/lib/python3.9/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/backend_registry.py", line 101, in init_backend
    return backend.value.init_backend_handler(*args, **kwargs)
  File "/env/anaconda3/envs/nerf/lib/python3.9/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/backend_registry.py", line 360, in _tensorpipe_init_backend_handler
    api._all_gather(None, timeout=rpc_backend_options.rpc_timeout)
  File "/env/anaconda3/envs/nerf/lib/python3.9/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/api.py", line 82, in wrapper
    return func(*args, **kwargs)
  File "/env/anaconda3/envs/nerf/lib/python3.9/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/api.py", line 224, in _all_gather
    rpc_sync(
  File "/env/anaconda3/envs/nerf/lib/python3.9/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/api.py", line 82, in wrapper
    return func(*args, **kwargs)
  File "/env/anaconda3/envs/nerf/lib/python3.9/site-packages/torch/distributed/rpc/api.py", line 809, in rpc_sync
    return fut.wait()
RuntimeError: transport retry counter exceeded (this error originated at tensorpipe/transport/ibv/connection_impl.cc:478)
```

But the same code runs fine on the same machine. I want to know what causes it?

This is my code:
torchrpc_master.py
```
import os
import torch
import torch.distributed as dist
import torch.distributed.rpc as rpc
os.environ['MASTER_ADDR'] = '192.168.211.12'
os.environ['MASTER_PORT'] = '5678'
rpc.init_rpc("worker0", rank=0, world_size=2)
ret = rpc.rpc_sync("worker1", torch.add, args=(torch.ones(2), 3))
print(ret)
rpc.shutdown()
```
torchrpc_master.py
```
import os
import torch.distributed as dist
import torch.distributed.rpc as rpc
import time
os.environ['MASTER_ADDR'] = '192.168.211.12'
os.environ['MASTER_PORT'] = '5678'
rpc.init_rpc("worker1", rank=1, world_size=2)
rpc.shutdown()
```


### Versions

torch version: 1.13.1

cc @pietern @mrshenli @pritamdamania87 @zhaojuanmao @satgera @gqchen @aazzolini @rohan-varma @jjlilley @osalpekar @jiayisuse @mrzzd