DistributedDataParallel doesn't work with complex buffers
Labels: oncall: distributed, module: complex

### 🐛 Describe the bug

DistributedDataParallel doesn't work with complex buffers, even when `broadcast_buffers=False`.

```py
import os

import torch
from torch import nn

torch.distributed.init_process_group(backend="nccl")
rank = int(os.environ["LOCAL_RANK"])
device = f"cuda:{rank}"
torch.cuda.set_device(device)


class Net(nn.Module):
    def __init__(self):
        super().__init__()
        self.register_buffer("complex", torch.tensor([1.0 + 1.0j], requires_grad=False))
        self.net = nn.Linear(16, 32)

    def forward(self, x):
        return self.net(x)


if __name__ == "__main__":
    model = Net()
    model = model.to(device)
    model = torch.nn.parallel.DistributedDataParallel(
        model, device_ids=[rank], broadcast_buffers=False
    )
```

Throws `RuntimeError: Input Tensor data type is not supported for NCCL process group: ComplexFloat`. But I do not need DDP to sync the buffer--it's a static parameter that I just want moved with the model when I do `.to(device)`. It doesn't have any gradients, it doesn't need any syncing, it will never change during training.

How can I get DDP to ignore this buffer?

### Versions

By the way, `https://raw.githubusercontent.com/pytorch/pytorch/master/torch/utils/collect_env.py` is missing; it should be `wget https://raw.githubusercontent.com/pytorch/pytorch/main/torch/utils/collect_env.py` (master should be main).

```
Collecting environment information...
PyTorch version: 2.1.0.dev20230416+cu118
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 11.8
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Ubuntu 20.04.6 LTS (x86_64)
GCC version: (Ubuntu 9.4.0-1ubuntu1~20.04.1) 9.4.0
Clang version: 10.0.0-4ubuntu1
CMake version: version 3.26.0
Libc version: glibc-2.31

Python version: 3.10.9 (main, Mar 22 2023, 11:20:39) [GCC 9.4.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-5.4.0-146-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.31
Is CUDA available: True
CUDA runtime version: Could not collect
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: LAZY
GPU models and configuration:
GPU 0: NVIDIA RTX A6000
GPU 1: NVIDIA RTX A6000
GPU 2: NVIDIA RTX A6000
GPU 3: NVIDIA RTX A6000
GPU 4: NVIDIA RTX A6000
GPU 5: NVIDIA RTX A6000
GPU 6: NVIDIA RTX A6000
GPU 7: NVIDIA RTX A6000

Nvidia driver version: 530.30.02
cuDNN version: Probably one of the following:
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn.so.8.8.1
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_infer.so.8.8.1
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_train.so.8.8.1
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_cnn_infer.so.8.8.1
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_cnn_train.so.8.8.1
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_infer.so.8.8.1
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_train.so.8.8.1
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
Architecture:                    x86_64
CPU op-mode(s):                  32-bit, 64-bit
Byte Order:                      Little Endian
Address sizes:                   48 bits physical, 48 bits virtual
CPU(s):                          64
On-line CPU(s) list:             0-63
Thread(s) per core:              1
Core(s) per socket:              32
Socket(s):                       2
NUMA node(s):                    8
Vendor ID:                       AuthenticAMD
CPU family:                      25
Model:                           1
Model name:                      AMD EPYC 7513 32-Core Processor
Stepping:                        1
Frequency boost:                 enabled
CPU MHz:                         3552.598
CPU max MHz:                     2600.0000
CPU min MHz:                     1500.0000
BogoMIPS:                        5200.14
Virtualization:                  AMD-V
L1d cache:                       2 MiB
L1i cache:                       2 MiB
L2 cache:                        32 MiB
L3 cache:                        256 MiB
NUMA node0 CPU(s):               0-7
NUMA node1 CPU(s):               8-15
NUMA node2 CPU(s):               16-23
NUMA node3 CPU(s):               24-31
NUMA node4 CPU(s):               32-39
NUMA node5 CPU(s):               40-47
NUMA node6 CPU(s):               48-55
NUMA node7 CPU(s):               56-63
Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     Not affected
Vulnerability L1tf:              Not affected
Vulnerability Mds:               Not affected
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Not affected
Vulnerability Mmio stale data:   Not affected
Vulnerability Retbleed:          Not affected
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl and seccomp
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Retpolines, IBPB conditional, IBRS_FW, STIBP disabled, RSB filling, PBRSB-eIBRS Not affected
Vulnerability Srbds:             Not affected
Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Not affected
Flags:                           fpu vme de pse tsc msr pae mce cx8 apic sep mtrr pge mca cmov pat pse36 clflush mmx fxsr sse sse2 ht syscall nx mmxext fxsr_opt pdpe1gb rdtscp lm constant_tsc rep_good nopl nonstop_tsc cpuid extd_apicid aperfmperf pni pclmulqdq monitor ssse3 fma cx16 pcid sse4_1 sse4_2 movbe popcnt aes xsave avx f16c rdrand lahf_lm cmp_legacy svm extapic cr8_legacy abm sse4a misalignsse 3dnowprefetch osvw ibs skinit wdt tce topoext perfctr_core perfctr_nb bpext perfctr_llc mwaitx cpb cat_l3 cdp_l3 invpcid_single hw_pstate ssbd mba ibrs ibpb stibp vmmcall fsgsbase bmi1 avx2 smep bmi2 erms invpcid cqm rdt_a rdseed adx smap clflushopt clwb sha_ni xsaveopt xsavec xgetbv1 xsaves cqm_llc cqm_occup_llc cqm_mbm_total cqm_mbm_local clzero irperf xsaveerptr wbnoinvd arat npt lbrv svm_lock nrip_save tsc_scale vmcb_clean flushbyasid decodeassists pausefilter pfthreshold v_vmsave_vmload vgif umip pku ospke vaes vpclmulqdq rdpid overflow_recov succor smca

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] mypy-extensions==1.0.0
[pip3] numpy==1.24.2
[pip3] pytorch-triton==2.1.0+46672772b4
[pip3] torch==2.1.0.dev20230416+cu118
[pip3] triton==2.0.0
[conda] Could not collect
```

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