1.11.0 distribution train different with 1.8.1
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## Issue description
**I use 1.11.0 run distribution and gpu use like**
| Processes:                                                                  |
|  GPU   GI   CI        PID   Type   Process name                  GPU Memory |
|        ID   ID                                                   Usage      |
|=============================================================================|
|    0   N/A  N/A     23723      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3    22143MiB |
|    0   N/A  N/A     23724      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3     1411MiB |
|    0   N/A  N/A     23725      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3     1409MiB |
|    0   N/A  N/A     23726      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3     1409MiB |
|    0   N/A  N/A     23727      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3     1411MiB |
|    0   N/A  N/A     23728      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3     1409MiB |
|    0   N/A  N/A     23729      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3     1409MiB |
|    0   N/A  N/A     23730      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3     1409MiB |
|    1   N/A  N/A     23724      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3    20841MiB |
|    2   N/A  N/A     23725      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3    22977MiB |
|    3   N/A  N/A     23726      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3    23971MiB |
|    4   N/A  N/A     23727      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3    13683MiB |
|    5   N/A  N/A     23728      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3    29723MiB |
|    6   N/A  N/A     23729      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3    16557MiB |
|    7   N/A  N/A     23730      C   .../hubo/install/bin/python3    19963MiB |

**but I use 1.8.1 gpu use like**
| Processes:                                                       GPU Memory |
|  GPU       PID   Type   Process name                             Usage      |
|=============================================================================|
|    0     36861      C   /data/hubo/install/bin/python3             27377MiB |
|    1     36862      C   /data/hubo/install/bin/python3             23477MiB |
|    2     36863      C   /data/hubo/install/bin/python3             24645MiB |
|    3     36864      C   /data/hubo/install/bin/python3             30633MiB |
|    4     36865      C   /data/hubo/install/bin/python3             21605MiB |
|    5     36866      C   /data/hubo/install/bin/python3             23303MiB |
|    6     36867      C   /data/hubo/install/bin/python3             28221MiB |
|    7     36868      C   /data/hubo/install/bin/python3             24285MiB |

I want to know how to set 1.11.0 make other gpu don't run in gpu 0
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## Code example

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- PyTorch or Caffe2:
- How you installed PyTorch (conda, pip, source):
- Build command you used (if compiling from source):
- OS:
- PyTorch version:3.9.12
- Python version:1.11.0
- CUDA/cuDNN version:11.3
- GPU models and configuration:v100
- GCC version (if compiling from source):10.1.0
- CMake version: None
- Versions of any other relevant libraries:


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