Torch 2.0 import hangs forever
Labels: module: build, module: cuda, triaged

### 🐛 Describe the bug

Importing torch 2.0 after importing tensorflow hangs forever. This does not happen with torch 1.13. It happens both with cuda 118 and cuda 117.

```bash
docker pull tensorflow/tensorflow:2.12.0-gpu
docker run -it tensorflow/tensorflow:2.12.0-gpu

pip install torch==2.0.0+cu118 torchvision==0.15.1+cu118 torchaudio==2.0.1+cu118 -f https://download.pytorch.org/whl/cu118/torch_stable.html

python
```

```python
import tensorflow as tf
import torch
```

### Versions

```
python collect_env.py 
Collecting environment information...
PyTorch version: 2.0.0+cu118
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 11.8
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Ubuntu 20.04.5 LTS (x86_64)
GCC version: (Ubuntu 9.4.0-1ubuntu1~20.04.1) 9.4.0
Clang version: Could not collect
CMake version: version 3.26.1
Libc version: glibc-2.31

Python version: 3.8.10 (default, Mar 13 2023, 10:26:41)  [GCC 9.4.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-5.4.0-144-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.29
Is CUDA available: True
CUDA runtime version: 11.8.89
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: LAZY
GPU models and configuration: GPU 0: NVIDIA A100-SXM4-40GB
Nvidia driver version: 470.161.03
cuDNN version: Probably one of the following:
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn.so.8.6.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_infer.so.8.6.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_adv_train.so.8.6.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_cnn_infer.so.8.6.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_cnn_train.so.8.6.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_infer.so.8.6.0
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcudnn_ops_train.so.8.6.0
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
Architecture:                    x86_64
CPU op-mode(s):                  32-bit, 64-bit
Byte Order:                      Little Endian
Address sizes:                   43 bits physical, 48 bits virtual
CPU(s):                          256
On-line CPU(s) list:             0-255
Thread(s) per core:              2
Core(s) per socket:              64
Socket(s):                       2
NUMA node(s):                    8
Vendor ID:                       AuthenticAMD
CPU family:                      23
Model:                           49
Model name:                      AMD EPYC 7742 64-Core Processor
Stepping:                        0
Frequency boost:                 enabled
CPU MHz:                         3254.011
CPU max MHz:                     2250.0000
CPU min MHz:                     1500.0000
BogoMIPS:                        4491.68
Virtualization:                  AMD-V
L1d cache:                       4 MiB
L1i cache:                       4 MiB
L2 cache:                        64 MiB
L3 cache:                        512 MiB
NUMA node0 CPU(s):               0-15,128-143
NUMA node1 CPU(s):               16-31,144-159
NUMA node2 CPU(s):               32-47,160-175
NUMA node3 CPU(s):               48-63,176-191
NUMA node4 CPU(s):               64-79,192-207
NUMA node5 CPU(s):               80-95,208-223
NUMA node6 CPU(s):               96-111,224-239
NUMA node7 CPU(s):               112-127,240-255
Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     Not affected
Vulnerability L1tf:              Not affected
Vulnerability Mds:               Not affected
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Not affected
Vulnerability Mmio stale data:   Not affected
Vulnerability Retbleed:          Vulnerable
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl and seccomp
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Retpolines, IBPB conditional, IBRS_FW, STIBP conditional, RSB filling, PBRSB-eIBRS Not affected
Vulnerability Srbds:             Not affected
Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Not affected
Flags:                           fpu vme de pse tsc msr pae mce cx8 apic sep mtrr pge mca cmov pat pse36 clflush mmx fxsr sse sse2 ht syscall nx mmxext fxsr_opt pdpe1gb rdtscp lm constant_tsc rep_good nopl nonstop_tsc cpuid extd_apicid aperfmperf pni pclmulqdq monitor ssse3 fma cx16 sse4_1 sse4_2 x2apic movbe popcnt aes xsave avx f16c rdrand lahf_lm cmp_legacy svm extapic cr8_legacy abm sse4a misalignsse 3dnowprefetch osvw ibs skinit wdt tce topoext perfctr_core perfctr_nb bpext perfctr_llc mwaitx cpb cat_l3 cdp_l3 hw_pstate sme ssbd mba sev ibrs ibpb stibp vmmcall fsgsbase bmi1 avx2 smep bmi2 cqm rdt_a rdseed adx smap clflushopt clwb sha_ni xsaveopt xsavec xgetbv1 xsaves cqm_llc cqm_occup_llc cqm_mbm_total cqm_mbm_local clzero irperf xsaveerptr wbnoinvd arat npt lbrv svm_lock nrip_save tsc_scale vmcb_clean flushbyasid decodeassists pausefilter pfthreshold avic v_vmsave_vmload vgif umip rdpid overflow_recov succor smca

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] numpy==1.23.5
[pip3] torch==2.0.0+cu118
[pip3] torchaudio==2.0.1+cu118
[pip3] torchvision==0.15.1+cu118
[pip3] triton==2.0.0
[conda] Could not collect
```

cc @malfet @seemethere @ngimel