`ray` multiprocessing interference by torch import
Labels: module: multiprocessing, triaged

### 🐛 Describe the bug

torch import order can disable `ray` multiprocessing.

Ray will use all `num_cpu` cores, if `torch` is imported before `wandb`  (expected behavior)
Ray will only use 1 core, if `wandb` is imported before `torch` (unexpected behavior)
I confirm this by looking at system monitor.

For example, the following code will only utilize 1 core even though 12 have been specified:

```python
import ray
import wandb
import torch


@ray.remote
class TestWorker:
    def __init__(self):
        pass

    def f(self):
        x = 0
        for i in range(100000000):
            for j in range(100000000):
                x += i * j

num_cpus = 12
ray.init(num_cpus=num_cpus)

workers = [TestWorker.remote() for _ in range(num_cpus)]
print(f"n workers: {len(workers)}")

object_ids = [w.f.remote() for w in workers]
ray.get(object_ids)

```

However when I move `import torch` up by 1 line, it will use all 12 cores:

```python
import ray
import torch # this line is moved up 1
import wandb
```



This happens only when torch is installed throug Conda:
`- pytorch=2.0.1=py3.10_cuda11.8_cudnn8.7.0_0`

When just installing torch==2.0.1 through pip the issue is resolved. 



environment .yaml reference: 

```yaml
name: env1
channels:
  - pytorch
  - nvidia
  - conda-forge
  - defaults
dependencies:
  - pytorch=2.0.1=py3.10_cuda11.8_cudnn8.7.0_0 # including this causes described issues
  - pip:
      # - torch==2.0.1 # including this will fix it
      - ray==2.6.2
      - wandb==0.15.8


```

### Versions

ollecting environment information...
PyTorch version: 2.0.1
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 11.8
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Ubuntu 20.04.6 LTS (x86_64)
GCC version: (Ubuntu 9.4.0-1ubuntu1~20.04.1) 9.4.0
Clang version: Could not collect
CMake version: Could not collect
Libc version: glibc-2.31

Python version: 3.10.11 (main, Apr 20 2023, 19:02:41) [GCC 11.2.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-5.15.0-78-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.31
Is CUDA available: True
CUDA runtime version: Could not collect
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: LAZY
GPU models and configuration: GPU 0: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3060
Nvidia driver version: 470.199.02
cuDNN version: Could not collect
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
Architecture:                    x86_64
CPU op-mode(s):                  32-bit, 64-bit
Byte Order:                      Little Endian
Address sizes:                   48 bits physical, 48 bits virtual
CPU(s):                          24
On-line CPU(s) list:             0-23
Thread(s) per core:              2
Core(s) per socket:              12
Socket(s):                       1
NUMA node(s):                    1
Vendor ID:                       AuthenticAMD
CPU family:                      25
Model:                           33
Model name:                      AMD Ryzen 9 5900X 12-Core Processor
Stepping:                        0
Frequency boost:                 enabled
CPU MHz:                         2200.000
CPU max MHz:                     3700.0000
CPU min MHz:                     2200.0000
BogoMIPS:                        7385.64
Virtualization:                  AMD-V
L1d cache:                       384 KiB
L1i cache:                       384 KiB
L2 cache:                        6 MiB
L3 cache:                        64 MiB
NUMA node0 CPU(s):               0-23
Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     Not affected
Vulnerability L1tf:              Not affected
Vulnerability Mds:               Not affected
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Not affected
Vulnerability Mmio stale data:   Not affected
Vulnerability Retbleed:          Not affected
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl and seccomp
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Retpolines, IBPB conditional, IBRS_FW, STIBP always-on, RSB filling, PBRSB-eIBRS Not affected
Vulnerability Srbds:             Not affected
Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Not affected
Flags:                           fpu vme de pse tsc msr pae mce cx8 apic sep mtrr pge mca cmov pat pse36 clflush mmx fxsr sse sse2 ht syscall nx mmxext fxsr_opt pdpe1gb rdtscp lm constant_tsc rep_good nopl nonstop_tsc cpuid extd_apicid aperfmperf rapl pni pclmulqdq monitor ssse3 fma cx16 sse4_1 sse4_2 x2apic movbe popcnt aes xsave avx f16c rdrand lahf_lm cmp_legacy svm extapic cr8_legacy abm sse4a misalignsse 3dnowprefetch osvw ibs skinit wdt tce topoext perfctr_core perfctr_nb bpext perfctr_llc mwaitx cpb cat_l3 cdp_l3 hw_pstate ssbd mba ibrs ibpb stibp vmmcall fsgsbase bmi1 avx2 smep bmi2 erms invpcid cqm rdt_a rdseed adx smap clflushopt clwb sha_ni xsaveopt xsavec xgetbv1 xsaves cqm_llc cqm_occup_llc cqm_mbm_total cqm_mbm_local clzero irperf xsaveerptr rdpru wbnoinvd arat npt lbrv svm_lock nrip_save tsc_scale vmcb_clean flushbyasid decodeassists pausefilter pfthreshold avic v_vmsave_vmload vgif v_spec_ctrl umip pku ospke vaes vpclmulqdq rdpid overflow_recov succor smca fsrm

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] numpy==1.24.3
[pip3] torch==2.0.1
[pip3] torchaudio==2.0.2
[pip3] torchvision==0.15.2
[pip3] triton==2.0.0
[conda] blas                      1.0                         mkl    conda-forge
[conda] ffmpeg                    4.3                  hf484d3e_0    pytorch
[conda] mkl                       2023.1.0         h6d00ec8_46342  
[conda] mkl-service               2.4.0           py310h5eee18b_1  
[conda] mkl_fft                   1.3.6           py310h1128e8f_1  
[conda] mkl_random                1.2.2           py310h1128e8f_1  
[conda] numpy                     1.24.3          py310h5f9d8c6_1  
[conda] numpy-base                1.24.3          py310hb5e798b_1  
[conda] pytorch                   2.0.1           py3.10_cuda11.8_cudnn8.7.0_0    pytorch
[conda] pytorch-cuda              11.8                 h7e8668a_5    pytorch
[conda] pytorch-mutex             1.0                        cuda    pytorch
[conda] torchaudio                2.0.2               py310_cu118    pytorch
[conda] torchtriton               2.0.0                     py310    pytorch
[conda] torchvision               0.15.2              py310_cu118    pytorch


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