torch.compiled model output gets overwritten despite tensor.detach()
Labels: triaged, oncall: pt2

### 🐛 Describe the bug

related to https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/blob/5ab1d2c2cc4e9c83b15c98974d6610a03322f40e/torch/_inductor/cudagraph_trees.py#L1889-L1893

at times when you would get this error, if instead of doing out = model(input), you do out = model(input).detach() to try to fix the error, you suppress the error message while not fixing the problem. Specifically the value of out will change if you run model(input).detach() again. you have to do model(input)+0 or something similar to actually fix the problem.

at a high level i think this bug is either 
A) about tensor.detach() suppressing an error message without fixing the error.
B) model outputs getting overwritten despite tensor.detach()
depending on whether B is expected or not.

either the error message should not be suppressed or the output value should function as expected.

@eellison 

### Error logs

n/a

### Minified repro

n/a

my own repro, try running with/without @torch.compile() and with/without .detach()
running as is should either throw the error message or give the same result as running without @torch.compile

@torch.compile()
def foo(x):
    return x * x * x

inp = torch.rand([2], device="cuda")
out = foo(inp).detach()
sum_val_1 = out+out
out2 = foo(inp).detach()
sum_val_2 = out+out
print(sum_val_1, sum_val_2, out2 + out2)
assert  sum_val_1.sum()==sum_val_2.sum()

### Versions

Collecting environment information...
PyTorch version: 2.1.0a0+git1dba81f
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 11.7
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Ubuntu 20.04.5 LTS (x86_64)
GCC version: (Ubuntu 9.4.0-1ubuntu1~20.04.1) 9.4.0
Clang version: 10.0.0-4ubuntu1 
CMake version: version 3.26.1
Libc version: glibc-2.31

Python version: 3.9.5 (default, Jun  4 2021, 12:28:51)  [GCC 7.5.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-5.15.0-1019-aws-x86_64-with-glibc2.31
Is CUDA available: False
CUDA runtime version: 11.7.64
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: N/A
GPU models and configuration: Could not collect
Nvidia driver version: Could not collect
cuDNN version: Could not collect
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
Architecture:                    x86_64
CPU op-mode(s):                  32-bit, 64-bit
Byte Order:                      Little Endian
Address sizes:                   46 bits physical, 48 bits virtual
CPU(s):                          96
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NUMA node1 CPU(s):               24-47,72-95
Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     KVM: Mitigation: VMX unsupported
Vulnerability L1tf:              Mitigation; PTE Inversion
Vulnerability Mds:               Vulnerable: Clear CPU buffers attempted, no microcode; SMT Host state unknown
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Mitigation; PTI
Vulnerability Mmio stale data:   Vulnerable: Clear CPU buffers attempted, no microcode; SMT Host state unknown
Vulnerability Retbleed:          Vulnerable
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Vulnerable
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Retpolines, STIBP disabled, RSB filling
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Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Not affected
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Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] flake8==6.0.0
[pip3] flake8-bugbear==23.3.23
[pip3] flake8-comprehensions==3.12.0
[pip3] flake8-executable==2.1.3
[pip3] flake8-logging-format==0.9.0
[pip3] flake8-pyi==23.3.1
[pip3] flake8-simplify==0.19.3
[pip3] mypy==0.960
[pip3] mypy-extensions==0.4.3
[pip3] numpy==1.23.1
[pip3] pytorch-triton==2.1.0+440fd1bf20
[pip3] torch==2.1.0a0+git1dba81f
[pip3] torchvision==0.16.0a0+e5bf7cf
[conda] blas                      1.0                         mkl  
[conda] mkl                       2021.4.0           h06a4308_640  
[conda] mkl-include               2023.0.0         h06a4308_25399  
[conda] mkl-service               2.4.0            py39h7f8727e_0  
[conda] mkl_fft                   1.3.1            py39hd3c417c_0  
[conda] mkl_random                1.2.2            py39h51133e4_0  
[conda] numpy                     1.23.1                   pypi_0    pypi
[conda] pytorch-triton            2.1.0+440fd1bf20          pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torch                     2.1.0a0+git1dba81f           dev_0    <develop>
[conda] torchvision               0.16.0a0+e5bf7cf           dev_0    <develop>

cc @ezyang @msaroufim @wconstab @bdhirsh @anijain2305