avg_pool3d_backward fails on meta with grad_input parameter
Labels: triaged, module: meta tensors

### 🐛 Describe the bug


Code to reproduce
```python
import torch
#Working with cpu

t = torch.randn((2, 2, 2, 2, 2))
self = torch.randn((2, 2, 4, 4, 4))
torch.ops.aten.avg_pool3d_backward(t, self, 2, 2, 0, False, False, None, grad_input=torch.ones_like(self))

#Failing with meta

t = torch.randn((2, 2, 2, 2, 2), device='meta')
self = torch.randn((2, 2, 4, 4, 4), device='meta')
torch.ops.aten.avg_pool3d_backward(t, self, 2, 2, 0, False, False, None, grad_input=torch.ones_like(self))
```

```
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "<stdin>", line 1, in <module>
  File "/localdata/nicholasw/pytorch/torch/_ops.py", line 692, in __call__
    return self._op(*args, **kwargs or {})
  File "/localdata/nicholasw/pytorch/torch/_prims_common/wrappers.py", line 229, in _fn
    result = fn(*args, **kwargs)
TypeError: meta_avg_pool3d_backward() got an unexpected keyword argument 'grad_input'
```


### Versions

Collecting environment information...
PyTorch version: 2.2.0a0+git208fd1c
Is debug build: True
CUDA used to build PyTorch: None
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Ubuntu 22.04.2 LTS (x86_64)
GCC version: (Ubuntu 11.4.0-1ubuntu1~22.04) 11.4.0
Clang version: Could not collect
CMake version: version 3.26.4
Libc version: glibc-2.35

Python version: 3.10.12 (main, Jul  5 2023, 18:54:27) [GCC 11.2.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-5.15.0-57-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.35
Is CUDA available: False
CUDA runtime version: No CUDA
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: N/A
GPU models and configuration: No CUDA
Nvidia driver version: No CUDA
cuDNN version: No CUDA
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
Architecture:                    x86_64
CPU op-mode(s):                  32-bit, 64-bit
Address sizes:                   43 bits physical, 48 bits virtual
Byte Order:                      Little Endian
CPU(s):                          256
On-line CPU(s) list:             0-255
Vendor ID:                       AuthenticAMD
Model name:                      AMD EPYC 7742 64-Core Processor
CPU family:                      23
Model:                           49
Thread(s) per core:              2
Core(s) per socket:              64
Socket(s):                       2
Stepping:                        0
BogoMIPS:                        4491.60
Flags:                           fpu vme de pse tsc msr pae mce cx8 apic sep mtrr pge mca cmov pat pse36 clflush mmx fxsr sse sse2 ht syscall nx mmxext fxsr_opt pdpe1gb rdtscp lm constant_tsc rep_good nopl nonstop_tsc cpuid extd_apicid aperfmperf rapl pni pclmulqdq monitor ssse3 fma cx16 sse4_1 sse4_2 x2apic movbe popcnt aes xsave avx f16c rdrand lahf_lm cmp_legacy svm extapic cr8_legacy abm sse4a misalignsse 3dnowprefetch osvw ibs skinit wdt tce topoext perfctr_core perfctr_nb bpext perfctr_llc mwaitx cpb cat_l3 cdp_l3 hw_pstate ssbd mba ibrs ibpb stibp vmmcall fsgsbase bmi1 avx2 smep bmi2 cqm rdt_a rdseed adx smap clflushopt clwb sha_ni xsaveopt xsavec xgetbv1 xsaves cqm_llc cqm_occup_llc cqm_mbm_total cqm_mbm_local clzero irperf xsaveerptr rdpru wbnoinvd amd_ppin arat npt lbrv svm_lock nrip_save tsc_scale vmcb_clean flushbyasid decodeassists pausefilter pfthreshold avic v_vmsave_vmload vgif v_spec_ctrl umip rdpid overflow_recov succor smca sme sev sev_es
Virtualization:                  AMD-V
L1d cache:                       4 MiB (128 instances)
L1i cache:                       4 MiB (128 instances)
L2 cache:                        64 MiB (128 instances)
L3 cache:                        512 MiB (32 instances)
NUMA node(s):                    8
NUMA node0 CPU(s):               0-15,128-143
NUMA node1 CPU(s):               16-31,144-159
NUMA node2 CPU(s):               32-47,160-175
NUMA node3 CPU(s):               48-63,176-191
NUMA node4 CPU(s):               64-79,192-207
NUMA node5 CPU(s):               80-95,208-223
NUMA node6 CPU(s):               96-111,224-239
NUMA node7 CPU(s):               112-127,240-255
Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     Not affected
Vulnerability L1tf:              Not affected
Vulnerability Mds:               Not affected
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Not affected
Vulnerability Mmio stale data:   Not affected
Vulnerability Retbleed:          Mitigation; untrained return thunk; SMT enabled with STIBP protection
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl and seccomp
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Retpolines, IBPB conditional, STIBP always-on, RSB filling, PBRSB-eIBRS Not affected
Vulnerability Srbds:             Not affected
Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Not affected

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] numpy==1.25.2
[pip3] torch==2.2.0a0+git738106c
[conda] numpy                     1.25.2                   pypi_0    pypi
[conda] torch                     2.2.0a0+git738106c           dev_0    <develop>

cc @ezyang @eellison @bdhirsh