Torch  model compile error  "/usr/bin/ld: cannot find -lcuda"  though cuda is installed via run file
Labels: triaged, oncall: pt2, upstream triton

### 🐛 Describe the bug

I have installed the NVIDIA driver seperate and CUDA seperate

libcuda.so --> is provided by the NVIDIA Driver and is here

```
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcuda.so.525.105.17
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcuda.so.1
```

libcudart.so --> is provided by CUDA Runtime and is here 

```
ld  -L/usr/local/cuda/lib64/ -lcudart --verbose
attempt to open /usr/local/cuda/lib64//libcudart.so succeeded
```
and it is linked to CUDA 12.0

```
ll /usr/local/cuda/lib64//libcudart.so
lrwxrwxrwx 1 root root 15 Jun  6 21:14 /usr/local/cuda/lib64//libcudart.so -> libcudart.so.12*
```

All this is fine and as expected

I have given the LD_LIBRARY_PATH 

```
export LD_LIBRARY_PATH=/usr/local/cuda/lib64
sudo ldconfig
```

I am able to run a model in GPU. However when I run the torch.model.compile it links against  `libcuda.so`. From my understanding it shoud be able to work also with `libcudart.so` ; but I am unable to set any environment variable or flag to let torch to use this library

Sample Code

```
import torch
import torchvision

print("torch version is ",torch.__version__)
device = torch.device('cuda' if torch.cuda.is_available() else 'cpu')
print('Using device:', device)


x=torch.ones(1,3,224,224).to(device)
model=torchvision.models.resnet50().to(device)
compiled=torch.compile(model)
compiled(x)
```

Ouput

```
python test_cuda.py 
torch version is  2.0.0.dev20230202+cu116
Using device: cuda
/home/alex/.local/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/_inductor/compile_fx.py:89: UserWarning: TensorFloat32 tensor cores for float32 matrix multiplication available but not enabled. Consider setting `torch.set_float32_matmul_precision('high')` for better performance.
  warnings.warn(
/usr/bin/ld: cannot find -lcuda: No such file or directory
collect2: error: ld returned 1 exit status
```





### Versions

Collecting environment information...
PyTorch version: 2.0.0.dev20230202+cu116
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 11.6
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Pop!_OS 22.04 LTS (x86_64)
GCC version: (Ubuntu 11.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04.1) 11.3.0
Clang version: Could not collect
CMake version: version 3.25.0
Libc version: glibc-2.35

Python version: 3.10.6 (main, Mar 10 2023, 10:55:28) [GCC 11.3.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-6.2.6-76060206-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.35
Is CUDA available: True
CUDA runtime version: 12.0.140
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: LAZY
GPU models and configuration: GPU 0: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3060 Laptop GPU
Nvidia driver version: 525.105.17
cuDNN version: Could not collect
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
Architecture:                    x86_64
CPU op-mode(s):                  32-bit, 64-bit
Address sizes:                   48 bits physical, 48 bits virtual
Byte Order:                      Little Endian
CPU(s):                          16
On-line CPU(s) list:             0-15
Vendor ID:                       AuthenticAMD
Model name:                      AMD Ryzen 7 5800H with Radeon Graphics
CPU family:                      25
Model:                           80
Thread(s) per core:              2
Core(s) per socket:              8
Socket(s):                       1
Stepping:                        0
Frequency boost:                 enabled
CPU max MHz:                     4462.5000
CPU min MHz:                     1200.0000
BogoMIPS:                        6388.26
Flags:                           fpu vme de pse tsc msr pae mce cx8 apic sep mtrr pge mca cmov pat pse36 clflush mmx fxsr sse sse2 ht syscall nx mmxext fxsr_opt pdpe1gb rdtscp lm constant_tsc rep_good nopl nonstop_tsc cpuid extd_apicid aperfmperf rapl pni pclmulqdq monitor ssse3 fma cx16 sse4_1 sse4_2 movbe popcnt aes xsave avx f16c rdrand lahf_lm cmp_legacy svm extapic cr8_legacy abm sse4a misalignsse 3dnowprefetch osvw ibs skinit wdt tce topoext perfctr_core perfctr_nb bpext perfctr_llc mwaitx cpb cat_l3 cdp_l3 hw_pstate ssbd mba ibrs ibpb stibp vmmcall fsgsbase bmi1 avx2 smep bmi2 erms invpcid cqm rdt_a rdseed adx smap clflushopt clwb sha_ni xsaveopt xsavec xgetbv1 xsaves cqm_llc cqm_occup_llc cqm_mbm_total cqm_mbm_local clzero irperf xsaveerptr rdpru wbnoinvd cppc arat npt lbrv svm_lock nrip_save tsc_scale vmcb_clean flushbyasid decodeassists pausefilter pfthreshold avic v_vmsave_vmload vgif v_spec_ctrl umip pku ospke vaes vpclmulqdq rdpid overflow_recov succor smca fsrm
Virtualization:                  AMD-V
L1d cache:                       256 KiB (8 instances)
L1i cache:                       256 KiB (8 instances)
L2 cache:                        4 MiB (8 instances)
L3 cache:                        16 MiB (1 instance)
NUMA node(s):                    1
NUMA node0 CPU(s):               0-15
Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     Not affected
Vulnerability L1tf:              Not affected
Vulnerability Mds:               Not affected
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Not affected
Vulnerability Mmio stale data:   Not affected
Vulnerability Retbleed:          Not affected
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Retpolines, IBPB conditional, IBRS_FW, STIBP always-on, RSB filling, PBRSB-eIBRS Not affected
Vulnerability Srbds:             Not affected
Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Not affected

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] mypy-extensions==0.4.3
[pip3] numpy==1.24.1
[pip3] pytorch-triton==2.0.0+0d7e753227
[pip3] torch==2.0.0.dev20230202+cu116
[pip3] torch-tb-profiler==0.4.0
[pip3] torchaudio==2.0.0.dev20230201+cu116
[pip3] torchvision==0.15.0.dev20230201+cu116
[conda] Could not collect

cc @ezyang @msaroufim @wconstab @bdhirsh @anijain2305