autocast not consistent across different GPUs (A100 and RTX A6000)
Labels: triaged, module: amp (automated mixed precision)

### 🐛 Describe the bug

I train and inference a classifier using autocast. Result is different accross diffenent GPUs (same .venv, code and data). 
The result on A100 is much superior than on RTX A6000.
Not using autocast with `ctx = nullcontext()` on RTX A6000, gets the similar result to A100 with autocast.
I get no torch warnings on either machine.

```python
ctx = torch.amp.autocast(device_type='cuda', dtype=torch.bfloat16)

#training
with ctx:
    logits, loss = classifier(X, Y) 
#inference
with ctx:
    logits, loss = classifier(X, None)   
```
P.S. This has cost me one month of my business time.


### Versions

Collecting environment information...
PyTorch version: 2.0.1+cu117
Is debug build: False
CUDA used to build PyTorch: 11.7
ROCM used to build PyTorch: N/A

OS: Debian GNU/Linux 12 (bookworm) (x86_64)
GCC version: (Debian 12.2.0-14) 12.2.0
Clang version: Could not collect
CMake version: version 3.27.4
Libc version: glibc-2.36

Python version: 3.11.5 (main, Aug 25 2023, 23:47:33) [GCC 12.2.0] (64-bit runtime)
Python platform: Linux-5.4.0-149-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.36
Is CUDA available: True
CUDA runtime version: Could not collect
CUDA_MODULE_LOADING set to: LAZY
GPU models and configuration: GPU 0: NVIDIA RTX A6000
Nvidia driver version: 530.30.02
cuDNN version: Could not collect
HIP runtime version: N/A
MIOpen runtime version: N/A
Is XNNPACK available: True

CPU:
Architecture:                    x86_64
CPU op-mode(s):                  32-bit, 64-bit
Address sizes:                   46 bits physical, 48 bits virtual
Byte Order:                      Little Endian
CPU(s):                          64
On-line CPU(s) list:             0-63
Vendor ID:                       GenuineIntel
Model name:                      Intel(R) Xeon(R) CPU E5-2683 v4 @ 2.10GHz
CPU family:                      6
Model:                           79
Thread(s) per core:              2
Core(s) per socket:              16
Socket(s):                       2
Stepping:                        1
CPU(s) scaling MHz:              46%
CPU max MHz:                     3000.0000
CPU min MHz:                     1200.0000
BogoMIPS:                        4200.03
Flags:                           fpu vme de pse tsc msr pae mce cx8 apic sep mtrr pge mca cmov pat pse36 clflush dts acpi mmx fxsr sse sse2 ss ht tm pbe syscall nx pdpe1gb rdtscp lm constant_tsc arch_perfmon pebs bts rep_good nopl xtopology nonstop_tsc cpuid aperfmperf pni pclmulqdq dtes64 monitor ds_cpl vmx smx est tm2 ssse3 sdbg fma cx16 xtpr pdcm pcid dca sse4_1 sse4_2 x2apic movbe popcnt tsc_deadline_timer aes xsave avx f16c rdrand lahf_lm abm 3dnowprefetch cpuid_fault epb cat_l3 cdp_l3 invpcid_single pti intel_ppin ssbd ibrs ibpb stibp tpr_shadow vnmi flexpriority ept vpid ept_ad fsgsbase tsc_adjust bmi1 hle avx2 smep bmi2 erms invpcid rtm cqm rdt_a rdseed adx smap intel_pt xsaveopt cqm_llc cqm_occup_llc cqm_mbm_total cqm_mbm_local dtherm ida arat pln pts md_clear flush_l1d
Virtualization:                  VT-x
L1d cache:                       1 MiB (32 instances)
L1i cache:                       1 MiB (32 instances)
L2 cache:                        8 MiB (32 instances)
L3 cache:                        80 MiB (2 instances)
NUMA node(s):                    2
NUMA node0 CPU(s):               0-15,32-47
NUMA node1 CPU(s):               16-31,48-63
Vulnerability Itlb multihit:     KVM: Mitigation: Split huge pages
Vulnerability L1tf:              Mitigation; PTE Inversion; VMX conditional cache flushes, SMT vulnerable
Vulnerability Mds:               Mitigation; Clear CPU buffers; SMT vulnerable
Vulnerability Meltdown:          Mitigation; PTI
Vulnerability Mmio stale data:   Mitigation; Clear CPU buffers; SMT vulnerable
Vulnerability Retbleed:          Not affected
Vulnerability Spec store bypass: Mitigation; Speculative Store Bypass disabled via prctl and seccomp
Vulnerability Spectre v1:        Mitigation; usercopy/swapgs barriers and __user pointer sanitization
Vulnerability Spectre v2:        Mitigation; Retpolines, IBPB conditional, IBRS_FW, STIBP conditional, RSB filling, PBRSB-eIBRS Not affected
Vulnerability Srbds:             Not affected
Vulnerability Tsx async abort:   Mitigation; Clear CPU buffers; SMT vulnerable

Versions of relevant libraries:
[pip3] numpy==1.24.4
[pip3] torch==2.0.1
[pip3] triton==2.0.0
[conda] Could not collect

cc @mcarilli @ptrblck @leslie-fang-intel @jgong5