My name is mark.
I'm an alcoholic.
My dad was an alcoholic too.
Now I'm a mechanic.
I've got a baby on the way.

I am athletic.
My favorite drink is coffee.
I live in the big city.
I am an artist.
I have a dog.

My name is Mark, I work on cars and drink a lot.

I've been a mechanic my whole life and have a wife. I didn't start drinking until I met her.

I am terrible at working on cars and I drink too much.

[Speaker 1] Hi I am mark, I work on cars and I drink too much. How are you today?

[Speaker 2] Pretty good. I am terrible at working on cars and also drink a little too much.

[Speaker 1] I've been a mechanic my whole life but only started drinking when I met my wife.

[Speaker 2] Does she not approve of your drinking?

[Speaker 1] She did for a while but she had to stop when we found out shes pregnant.

[Speaker 2] Congratulations! Do you know if it's a boy or girl?

[Speaker 1] Don't know yet but I don't make enough money to support a family being a mechanic.

[Speaker 2] Does your wife have a job?

[Speaker 1] She has a good job and makes a lot more than I do.

[Speaker 2] Do you have any other kids? It sounds like you'll be okay financially.

[Speaker 1] None yet but my first one is about ready to pop out in a few weeks.

[Speaker 2] That's exciting man! You should be just fine. I'm sure you'll make a great parent.

[Speaker 1] Thanks! I think I need a drink.

[Speaker 2] Haha. I'll pour one for you when I get home.

[Speaker 1] My wife and I discussed it and we want to wait until our child is born to find out its gender.

[Speaker 2] Why would you want to wait? How will you prepare for a baby if you don't know what to buy?

[Speaker 1] well most items aren't really for just one gender, aside from clothes i guess. Do you have any kids? You might have some experience here!

[Speaker 2] I do have kids. I didn't know the gender of 3 of them before they were born and people decided to buy what they wanted. I ended up with like fifty dresses for my son and nothing but overalls for my daughters haha. I knew the last one was going to be a girl. Luckily we saved her brothers dresses and she had stuff to wear.

[Speaker 1] oh wow! Yeah, i guess with gifts it may be better to know the gender beforehand. I'll have a think about it. How old are your children now?

[Speaker 2] Well the boy turned 18 last November and he's still living with his mom. The older girls are like 23 and 26 if I remember right. They don't talk to me much. Part of why I drink all the time. But my youngest daughter is about to be 16. Her mom still lives with me, and I am trying to get better for them. I am still thankful that my older kids mom let me have all the dresses when my daughter was born. We had saved them just in case, and she never had another kid. You should be excited though. Babies are blessings.

[Speaker 1] I am really excited. My wife has been wanting a baby for years now, I wanted to deal with the alcohol before we had the baby however. I understand what you say about why you drink, we all have our own battles to face with this kind of stuff. I feel like im in a better state now, not long until the baby after all!

[Speaker 2] It is not easy to deal with a newborn and drink. I would advise getting it under control as much as possible. But after they get big enough to sleep through most nights, it isn't as hard to get in some drinks. Once they are teenagers and always running off with friends, it is easier for sure, because instead of waiting until after bedtime, you wait until they leave and then just sink into the bliss of not knowing your own name. Blah. I need to stop drinking.

[Speaker 1] Yeah, I'm completely ready to just dedicate my life to our little bundle of joy!! I'm planning in getting some kind of support if things get too bad for me. Have you even thought of doing the same?

[Speaker 2] I have. I dont really know where to start. Or have anyone that would be a good sponsor. I just need to stop buying the stuff.

[Speaker 1] Yeah it is difficult. Perhaps if you're struggling with money you could set aside an amount every week you would normally spend. Lock it away if you have to.

[Speaker 2] Yeah. But I have nobody to help me DO it. Like thinking it is all easy.

I do not have any other kids, but my wife is due to give birth to our first born in a few weeks. I do not know whether it is a boy or girl, and I do not make enough money as a mechanic to support a family. My wife has a good job and makes a lot of money. It doesn't matter what gender my child is.

I am terrible at working on cars.

I have 4 children with two different women. I am a heavy drinker. I am estranged from some of my children.

[Speaker 1] I already went to one meeting and it was great; it really made me feel strong for my baby to be. It would mean the world to me, and I'm sure your kids, if you just gave it a shot, man.

[Speaker 2] I want to but I am afraid to. I wish that I had a friend here who could go with me. It's great that you went to a meeting and are getting help.

[Speaker 1] I can understand. I felt that way too at first. I was scared of any idea of change. But I'll gladly go with you to your first meeting if that would make you more comfortable? It may take you a couple meetings until you find one that is most suited for you, though.

[Speaker 2] That's so nice of you. It really touches my heart, to be honest. I've felt so alone with this problem and also am afraid of change like you mentioned. I don't mind checking out a few to find one that really resonates with me.

[Speaker 1] I go every week, twice a week. So, whenever you are ready to give one a try, just let me know! No pressure! I know how it can feel. I had to get to an absolute rock bottom before I would even consider it, and it's still hard, but I'm coming up on 6 months sober myself!

[Speaker 2] I'm really impressed. I feel like I'm at rock bottom and it's overwhelming knowing where to start but I'll reach out to you when I'm ready. How is your wife doing? The baby should be here soon. That's exciting. I love my kids even though I don't get to see all of them. Hopefully, that will change.

[Speaker 1] The wife is doing great, and honestly, probably a lot more now that I've put the bottle down. I'm able to really focus on work and my life at home, and her needs. She knows this isn't easy for me, but I can tell she really appreciates how hard I'm trying. I know how much you love your children, but I'm sure if you can make some progress on the drinking you'll be able to find ways to spend more time with them. You are not alone; many of the fathers in my groups deal with very similar issues. Maybe you could reach out to one of them for advice?

[Speaker 2] I'm glad to hear that, man. I'm sure your wife is so much happier now, especially knowing you're there for her and the baby. Part of my motivation to get sober is because I want to be able to see my kids grow up, all of them. Nice to know I'm not alone. Are you excited about the birth? Are you going to have a home birth or go to the hospital?

[Speaker 1] I'm excited, scared, nervous, overjoyed, and pretty much every other feeling I can imagine all at once! It's a lot to handle sometimes! But truthfully, more than anything, is the anticipation to finally see my baby for the first time. We are going to do the birth in the hospital, just to be safe. My wife has had a couple health conditions in the past, so we don't want to take any risks. The doctors do not expect any kind of complications, though.

[Speaker 2] That's good. I feel it's safer to have backup in the hospital just in case, especially if your wife has had some health issues. I'm sure it will go smoothly though since the doctors don't foresee any issues arising. I was so excited when my first child was born. I loved being able to be there in the room and to give all my support. I wasn't a true alcoholic then, just drank socially. Losing my job started a downward spiral.

[Speaker 1] I'm really sorry to hear that, but I can understand. Are you still currently out of work?

[Speaker 2] Yes. I'm getting unemployment benefits right now, but, I'd rather be working. It gave me a sense of purpose. Some days I feel lost and like I'm just floundering around. I need to make a change somehow.

I used to be a heavy drinker. I am a responsible person; I wanted to have my drinking under control before having a child. I have considered getting help for my drinking problem. I go to meetings twice a week each week. I am 6 months sober. It's still hard.

My wife is doing great. I am able to focus on work and family and her.

I am terrible at working on cars.

I am an alcoholic. I am overwhelmed by getting help for my drinking problem. I don't have anyone close to me to help. I don't have any friends here who would go to meetings with me.

I have felt so alone with my problem. I am afraid of change. I would be willing to check out a few meetings.

I am at rock bottom. I love my kids but don't get to see all of them right now. I want sobriety partially because I want to see my kids grow up.

I was very excited when my first child was born. I was in the room to give support. I wasn't an alcoholic then, although I did drink socially. I lost my job after that and went downhill.

I am on unemployment. I would rather be working because it gives me a sense of purpose. I feel a bit lost and am floundering.

[Speaker 1] My wife has been put on bed rest until the baby comes and I am so nervous!

[Speaker 2] Oh my goodness, that sounds so scary! How is she holding up?

[Speaker 1] She's really nervous, too.  The doctor told her that he was concerned about a premature birth, and that's why she's been put on bed rest.

[Speaker 2] I'm glad she has people looking out for her and I know your presence makes it easier for her to get through it.

[Speaker 1] Things had seemed to be going so well and then we were thrown this curve ball.  Since this is our first child maybe we're overreacting.  But it's definitely thrown me for a loop.  I've been really tempted to start drinking heavily again, though I know that wouldn't help anything.

[Speaker 2] Definitely try and stay away from the drinks. Try going for a run or lifting weights instead. I've found that helps me a ton, especially in my most discouraged moments. And it's naturally to afraid for your child and your wife. This is a huge moment! Y

[Speaker 1] Yes, that's a good idea to get some exercise.  And I need to keep going to meetings.  The meetings have helped me be more aware of the thoughts and feelings that start leading towards drinking.  Stress is obviously a big pitfall.

[Speaker 2] Oh absolutely. What I'm learning in the meetings is that what really causes us to drink is unprocessed negative emotions and our discomfort with them. It's a struggle, but if we can learn to deal with those in a healthy way, that helps a lot.

[Speaker 1] Were there any complications with the births of any of your kids?

[Speaker 2] Two of my kids were premature and one was born with the umbilical cord around his neck! That last one was especially terrifying. They are all healthy, now, though, including their mothers. I really hope that they allow me to see them again when I get clean.

[Speaker 1] Wow, that's both scary and also somewhat reassuring.  It's scary to think of what all could go wrong, but reassuring to hear that there were issues with the births of all three of your kids but they're all healthy.

[Speaker 2] Absolutely. I think where I went wrong was not having any purpose and not asking for emotional support. That led me to drinking and causing problems with my kids and their mothers. Just make sure you have a support system around you and that you have meaning in your life and remember why you chose to be sober and you'll do just fine. It'll be a challenge sometimes, but it'll be better than where I am currently.

I used to be a heavy drinker. I am a responsible person; I wanted to have my drinking under control before having a child. I have considered getting help for my drinking problem. I go to rehab meetings twice a week each week for my drinking problems. I am 6 months sober. It's still hard.

I am so excited about the upcoming birth of my child. I am scared, nervous, and overjoyed. I can't wait to see my baby for the first time. My wife has had health complications, so we will have the baby in the hospital. She is on bed rest to deliver the baby. My wife is nervous to give birth.

I am terrible at working on cars.

I am physically active and work out often.

I was also an alcoholic and attend therapy sessions for it. I cannot see my kids until I have completed rehab for my alcohol abuse. I am not in a stable position due to my alcohol abuse.

[Speaker 1] My wife delivered a healthy baby at 3lbs 2 oz.! Everything went well.

[Speaker 2] That's great.  Was it a boy or a girl?

[Speaker 1] We had a baby boy. How many of your childrenare boys?

[Speaker 2] I have one boy and three girls.  Do you know how long until the baby can come home?  Don't they have to be at least 5 pounds or something?

[Speaker 1] Yes, as close to that as possible. The doctor said that as long as he continues to thrive and grow, we should be able to bring him home in 4-6 weeks. Wow! 3 girls? That must take a lot of patience at times.

[Speaker 2] Yeah, they can be a handful since they're so close in age.  A lot of fighting and crying sometimes but they get a long pretty well.  I know the first one is brand new but do you want more than one eventually?

[Speaker 1] Given my wife's health issues I'm not sure that we will try for another one. This is truly a blessing, but I think in the future we will be more open to adoption or fostering.

[Speaker 2] That's an admirable endeavor.  So have you picked out a name for the little one?

[Speaker 1] Brian after my wife's father. We gave him the middle name William after my father. What are your children's names?

[Speaker 2] My girls are Brianna, Allie, and Nicole.  My sons name is Avery.  None of them are named after family members now that I'm actually thinking about it.  Are his grandparents still around to appreciate the gesture?

[Speaker 1] They are although my wife's father is very ill. He is currently on hospice, and lives with us full-time. We are looking forward to him spending what time he has left with Brian. Your children all have very nice names.


I get tired of people calling me a'ginger.

'I work hard to support my family.

I'm thinking about quitting my job.

I like old punk music.

I like to cook out on the grill on the weekends.

I am a vegan.

I love animals.

I used to be a veterinarian, but I quit to travel abroad.

I sing for a living.

I like to blog.

I might quit my job. I don't get to spend enough time with family. I work a lot for low pay.

I like old school punk music.

I was a veterinarian, but quit. I like to travel.

I am a singer. I am a blogger.

I like folk music.

I have a dog. I like to hike.

[Speaker 1] Hi! What have you been doing today?

[Speaker 2] Pretty well. Getting warm here. How are you?

[Speaker 1] I'm doing ok. Thinking about quitting my job.

[Speaker 2] What makes you want to quit?

[Speaker 1] I work long hours for low pay and don't have enough time to spend with my family.

[Speaker 2] I used to be a veterinarian but I quit to travel so I say go for it!

[Speaker 1] Thanks for the support. What do you do now?

[Speaker 2] I just started singing for a living, and I have my own blog.

[Speaker 1] Thanks for the support. What do you do now?

[Speaker 2] I just started singing for a living, and I have my own blog.

[Speaker 1] Nice. What kind of music? I like old school punk.

[Speaker 2] Folk music, a lot easier to do without a band.

[Speaker 1] Makes sense. What do you like to do on the weekends?

[Speaker 2] I hike a lot with my dog. What about you?

I like old school punk music.

I am a singer. I am a blogger.

I like folk music.

I have a dog. I like to hike.

[Speaker 1] Where is your favorite place to travel?

[Speaker 2] My favorite travel destination that I have been to so far is the Maldives, but I am going to Bora Bora soon and i have heard great things. Do you get to travel often?

[Speaker 1] No, i barely have enough time for my family as it is with my dang job.

[Speaker 2] That is the worst when you work so hard and it just doesn't work out the way you want. I hope you can find a job with better hours and pay so you can spend some more quality time with your family.

[Speaker 1] Yeah its a bit of a struggle right now, I have to take what i can so we can survive comfortably.

[Speaker 2] What kind of work do you enjoy doing maybe you can find something that will suit you better.

[Speaker 1] I always wanted to get into woodworking as more than a hobby. I may have to just take the plunge and do it.

[Speaker 2] Maybe you could do something like that from home. Create your work and sell it to local people or online.

[Speaker 1] Yeah that is kind of what i was thinking. Hows your folk music going? Did you get a band together?

[Speaker 2] That sounds like a great plan. Yeah we are all getting together next we to iron out all the pieces so hopefully we will start creating music in the next few weeks.

[Speaker 1] Please tell me when you guys are gonna play, id love to come out!

[Speaker 2] Oh that would be amazing. Thank you for the support much appreciate it.

I like old school punk music.

I don't have the time to go to vacations because of my family.

I like doing woodworks.

I am a singer. I am a blogger.

I like folk music.

I have a dog. I like to hike.

My favorite Travel destination is Maldives. I am planning to go to Bora Bora.

Me and my band is planning to create music next week.

[Speaker 1] I heard Green Day's music recently. I forgot how much I loved the band. What's your favorite Band ?

[Speaker 2] Good question. My favorite band is probably Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young, but I like Mumford and Sons out of more recent music. What other punk bands do you like besides Green Day?

[Speaker 1] Nirvana is definitely the next one that comes to mind for me. I love a lot of the 90s rock and grunge music.

[Speaker 2] I remember when Nirvana got big! That was an exciting time for sure. Have you been able to see any acts in concert lately?

[Speaker 1] No, I have not recently, but I would love to go see some more live music again. What about you?

[Speaker 2] No, I've been more focused on performing and recording myself lately, but I always try to see some local acts when I travel. Speaking of which, how's your mood been about your job?

[Speaker 1] Not very good, there is practically no work life balance, I feel like I am always turned on when it comes to my job.

[Speaker 2] I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you can make a decision about whether or not to stay with your job before too long. What do you think you would spend your new free time on if you quit?

[Speaker 1] I will probably devote some more time to my woodworking hobby, but I am hoping to have another job lined up before I quit my current one.

[Speaker 2] That's probably the smart move. I made the mistake of quitting my vet job before I figured out my next step, sadly, but it's given me a lot more time to work on my musical hobbies. How serious are you about woodworking?

[Speaker 1] I am pretty passionate about it. I have a nice little setup in my garage. At the moment I only make things that I want to make, but maybe at some point I will turn it into a 2nd source of income.

[Speaker 2] Oh, that's great! It's always a plus when you can make some extra income off of something you enjoy. I hope my band and I can accomplish the same with our music someday soon

I like old school punk music.

I really enjoy Green Day's music. I love Nirvana and 90's rock and grunge music.

I would love to go see live music again.

I am passionate about woodworking. I have been thinking of making it a second source of income.

I am a singer. I am a blogger.

I like folk music.

I have a dog. I like to hike.

My favorite band is probably Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young. I like Mumford and Sons.

I am focused on performing and recording. I see local acts when I travel.

I previously quit my vey job. i did not have another job lined up. It has given me more time to work on music.

I would like to make some income with my music and my band soon.

[Speaker 1] I have been thinking about our last talk and I think I want to try to sell some of my woodworking projects and see if I can cut my hours at work.

[Speaker 2] Oh that's great news I'm so happy for you! Its always best to follow your passion! Have you made anything good recently?

[Speaker 1] I made an adorable elf man that I love. Thinking about making a serious of them. Kinda like garden gnomes. Do you think that would sell on Etsy?

[Speaker 2] Cool! That sounds so great. Personally, I'd love to buy one, I love elves. So if I'm any indication, I think there's surely a market. Have you sold any of your work before?

[Speaker 1] Not really. When I was younger I used to make them as gifts, but I think I am much better at it now. What kind of elf would you want? The one I made was a female painter with a smock on, but I would love to get ideas from other people to really expand my work.

[Speaker 2] Oh wow, there's so much scope for a series with those. I'd have to think more about it but i'd love a chef or a librarian. How long do they take to make?

[Speaker 1] Yes! Loving these ideas already! It depends on the size. I can make 2-3 4" ones a day, but I think it would be smart to do some large ones as well to make the big bucks. Those can take over a week depending on the amount of detail.

[Speaker 2] Wow I was imagining it would take weeks to do even small ones, you must be really good at it! I think this whole idea is such a good move for you. But yeah definitely make some big ones too. I'm sure etsy would go crazy for them. How did you come upon elves as a subject matter for your craft?

[Speaker 1] I was just tinkering around. I have no affinity for elves...well, until now. They are cute and it is nice to be able to personalize them for people.

[Speaker 2] Yeah the possibilities are completely endless. But yeah elves are great. I can imagine detailing the faces must be hard though?

[Speaker 1] I think I may need to start looking at random images of faces online to really be able to provide some variety. I am one to get stuck doing things a certain way. It may take me longer, but would be worth it.

[Speaker 2] Oh completely, I used to paint and I always got stuck on particular faces. But yeah I think as much variety as possible would be the safest bet on etsy so you can make sure you're making enough to cover what you would have been earning at work.

I like old school punk music.

I am not in a good mood about my job. I don't have good work-life balance. If I quit my job, I would like to have a new job lined up first. If I was not working as much, I would do more of my woodworking hobby.I have been thinking of making it a second source of income. I want to sell my woodworking projects so I can cut back my hours at work.

I haven't really sold any of my woodworking projects before. I have given my projects away as gifts. I can make 2 small elves a day but think I want to make larger ones as well.

I like to make elf men that look like garden gnomes. I am thinking of selling on Etsy. I did not have a previous affinity for elves but I like them now. I want to look up different elf faces for inspiration so that I can provide variety.

I am a singer. I am a blogger.

I like folk music.

I have a dog. I like to hike.

I love elves. I would like an elf man that is a chef or a librarian. I used to paint. I recommend creating a variety of elves.

[Speaker 1] I created an Etsy account and listed a few of my woodworking projects. Just sold my first one. I didn't realize Etsy took a percentage of the sale.

[Speaker 2] Wow congratulations. I guess all online services took some of the percentage. How much did they take?

[Speaker 1] It's a 5% transaction fee and another if you use their site for processing the money.  I guess it's not terrible, but I may have to raise my price a little to account for it.

[Speaker 2] Yeah that would be a great idea. I have never used Etsy though. Can you sell music on Etsy too?

[Speaker 1] I believe so.  There are just things like medicines and weapons that are forbidden.  I think most of the time people sell homemade goods. I bet you could look into something like bandcamp?  I know it came up when I was looking at, mostly, independent online selling marketplaces.

[Speaker 2] that's amazing. I'll probably check it out. I might try the artist Spotify version for my music. Did i tell you I'm recording in a studio next week.

[Speaker 1] Oh wow!  Are you excited?  Do you have some tracks already worked out when you get there?

[Speaker 2] I'm definitely excited, We are making a new one it's more like a Collab. We have been talking a lot online working things out and finally decided to work on it next week.

[Speaker 1] Is the style you are playing also folk?  I feel it's a lost art form and we could use more voices reaching out to the youth of the current age.

[Speaker 2] Yes and I just love folk music. We really need folk music back but i guess mine is a bit modern version of it. Any plans for live concert again?

[Speaker 1] I would definitely attend one of yours!  Would it be for all-ages?  I would love to take my family to one if we have any time.

[Speaker 2] I wish i was performing soon but i asked generally and yes it will be for all ages once I'm famous. Maybe you will start going to concert again after mine. :)


I will be going to college next year.

I study neuroscience and volunteer in a research lab.

I am working on becoming an eagle scout.

I work at a fast food restaurant.

I like to eat ice cream.

My favorite hobby is scuba diving.
I've been to hawaii three times.
I'm a us marine veteran.
I have two pet snakes.
My wife and I just got divorced.

I am training to be an eagle scout.

I volunteer at a research lab.

I just divorced my wife.

I have two pet snakes.

I am a veteran.

[Speaker 1] Hi! How's it going?.

[Speaker 2] Hello, not good I just divorced my wife.

[Speaker 1] Oh no! So sorry to hear that! I'm only going to college next year.

[Speaker 2] It will be okay, I have my two pet snakes. What college.

[Speaker 1] Not sure yet, but I want to study neuroscience! What do you do?

[Speaker 2] I love to scuba dive in hawaii when I am not working.

[Speaker 1] Awesomeee! I'd love to go to hawaii. I could work on my eagle scout training.

[Speaker 2] I have been there three times, what is your training?

[Speaker 1] Oh, I'm working on becoming an eagle scout! I also volunteer at a research lab.

[Speaker 2] That is awesome, could build something for veterans?

[Speaker 1] Maybe! That would be cool, are you a veteran?.

[Speaker 2] Yes I am, I know of several eagle scout projects for veterans.

[Speaker 1] Awesome, I'd love to hear more about that.

[Speaker 2] I know of a project that help dispose of american flags correctly.

I am training to be an eagle scout.

I volunteer at a research lab.

I just divorced my wife.

I have two pet snakes.

I am a veteran.

[Speaker 1] Tell me the name of your snakes.

[Speaker 2] Thier names and Hansel and Gretel - after the folk tales. I was always intrigued with that story so that's what I named them. Do you have any pets?

[Speaker 1] I do not have any pets. I have always wanted to scuba dive. What was your experience like?

[Speaker 2] I was a little nervous because of all the training and equiprments, but the guides I had in Hawaii were amazing. Once I got under the water and adjusted to breathing through the air tank - it was really funny. I can't even describe the beauty.

[Speaker 1] I really hope that I get to go one day. I can't even imagine how amazing that would be.

[Speaker 2] You will love it. Once I did it the first time, I was hooked. I even want to do that thing, where you go into a steel cage and sharks come out. I find marine life so interesting.

[Speaker 1] I think that would be amazing but I am so scared of sharks so I don't know if I would do it!

[Speaker 2] That's understandable. Apparently, I am a bit of a thrill seeker. :) I am sure you will be studying about fear/emotions in your Neuroscience classes next year.

I am training to be an eagle scout.

I volunteer at a research lab.

I just divorced my wife.

I am a veteran.

I have 2 pet Snakes named Hensel and Gretel. I like Hensel and Gretel Folk tales.

[Speaker 1] I saw an interesting documentary about shark diving, they are not attracted to the blood in the water. Did you know about that ?

[Speaker 2] No, I had no idea. That'll make me feel much safer when I go diving. What are they attracted to then?

[Speaker 1] I've heard sharks have a good sense of smell.  I was surprised to hear that it wasn't the blood since that's what you typically see in the movies etc.

[Speaker 2] I had no idea. That's so interesting! That makes movies like Jaws completely different in real life. Does that make you any less worried about sharks when you go scuba diving sometime?

[Speaker 1] Yes, it gives me some comfort but not much.  It's always when we approach the summer months when you hear about increased shark attacks.  That's because the seal population has increased and the food is plentiful.

[Speaker 2] I didn't know that about seals. O

[Speaker 1] Oh yes, the seal population is high on the east coast.  There was a report on the television the other day about a huge shark located off of Cape Cod, Massachusetts.  They try to tag and track the sharks so they can keep their location known.

[Speaker 2] That's so interesting. You have a lot of knowledge. When you study neuroscience, are you looking to do zoology and research with animals or are you looking to work with humans after college?

[Speaker 1] I looking to work with humans.  It's so fascinating.  I hope some day I can help cure neurological diseases.

[Speaker 2] I prefer animals to humans, but that's just because they are easier to get along with most of the time. :?) That's amazing what you're planning to do, though. There are so many terrible diseases that we can't cure yet.

[Speaker 1] That's a funny comment.  I'm chuckling.  Yes, if we put our minds to it, I bet we can accomplish many things regarding diseases.  It's amazing over the course of the years how we've come up with many vaccines to eradicate infections diseases/viruses.

[Speaker 2] I know, right? We need to get all the research done that we can. I'm using the GI Bill to take some neuroscience classes next year. I can't wait!

I am going to college next year. I want to study neuroscience.  I would like to cure neurological diseases.

I am training to be an eagle scout.

I volunteer at a research lab.

I do not have any pets. I have always wanted to scuba dive. I am scared of sharks. I saw a documentary about shark diving.

I will be a little less scared of scuba diving because of knowing that sharks aren't attracted to blood in the water.

I just divorced my wife.

I am a veteran.

I prefer animals to humans because they are often easier to get along with.

I will be using the GI Bill.

[Speaker 1] I went to lunch today with an old friend and it turns out he is a professional scuba diver and wants to take me along with him!

[Speaker 2] Oh no way! I love to scuva dive! Where do you dive to? I normally go to Hawaii to seek those types of thrills.

[Speaker 1] I'm not sure; my friend said they'll let me know. Hawaii sounds awesome. What makes you want to go into neuroscience?

[Speaker 2] It's something I've always fancied trying. I really love that sort of thing so want to give it a try. How do you plan to try and cure the neurological diseases? It may help me with my classes.

[Speaker 1] Well, it's not that simple. It's science. You have to learn as much as you can, what's been tried before, what can be tried differently. I'd be fine with helping you, but let's wait until your classes start. When will that be, by the way?

[Speaker 2] It'll be some time next year. Thank you for the offer to help! I think you should try to do some scuba diving... it's actually a lot of fun!

[Speaker 1] Like I said, I'm waiting to hear back from my friend. Was there a job you wanted to have when you were in high school?

[Speaker 2] I am a veteran so I just went straight to the army after high school. What about you?

[Speaker 1] Thanks for your service, by the way. I always wanted to do something in the sciences, but my experience in the research lab really sealed the deal for neuroscience. I've been into that kind of stuff since I was a kid. Being out in nature for Eagle Scouts probably fueled it some, too.

[Speaker 2] No worries. That sounds a lot of fun, I wish you good luck with your studies! How is your volunteering at the lab going?

[Speaker 1] Oh, it's going great; thanks for asking. I'm going to need that luck. Once you finish yours, we can compare humans and animals. Think you'll study marine life or a different type of animal?

I am training to be an eagle scout.

I volunteer at a research lab.

I decided to study neuroscience after working in a research lab. I was an Eagle Scout.

I just divorced my wife.

I love to scuba dive in Hawaii. I have been to Hawaii three times. I find marine life so interesting. I am planning to go shark diving in the steel cage. I am a thrill seeker. I will study  Neuroscience classes next year. I am an Army veteran. I completed high school.

I will be using the GI Bill.

I am interested in studying neuroscience. I will begin studying neuroscience next year.

[Speaker 1] How are your pet snakes doing?

[Speaker 2] Not too bad. One of my favorite things about Hensel and Gretel is the fact they're low maintenance. Ha!

[Speaker 1] Apart from being low maintenance; what do you like about having snakes?

[Speaker 2] I've always been a reptile fan. Guess it's the science nerd in me. The way the look, the way their bodies work, their temperment...they're just cool to observe.

[Speaker 1] You make them sounds so fascinating. Will you take them with you to your college dorm?

[Speaker 2] I'll be living off campus, so absolutely. How about you? Are you staying in the dorms?

[Speaker 1] I'm glad your taking them with you. My mum wants me to stay in dorms. But I think I just want my own place, less drama and more freedom that way.

[Speaker 2] Yup. My parents wanted me to do the same thing...for "that experience". To be honest, I don't want it. It'd just be a distraction!

[Speaker 1] Same. I want to go out with friends but then come back and chill when I have had enough. How did you convince your parents?


I am moving to another state next month.

My favorite football team is the chicago bears.

I went to a very strict high school.

My father used to be the headmaster in my school.

My siblings are all older than me.

I like to draw landscape scenery.

I enjoy walking walking in the nearby parks.

My favorite movie is the dark knight.

I work as an english teacher.

I volunteer at a homeless shelter.

I live in Ohio, but I'm moving to Florida.

I went to a very strict high school. My father was the principal.

I have an older sister.

I have some really great friends.

I volunteer at the local food pantry.

I like in the U.K. I have been to Florida a few times.

I like sports. I'm not really into American football.

I teach English at a U.K. school.

I am an only child. I like making friends.

I do some charity work at a homeless shelter.

[Speaker 1] Hi! I live in ohio but, I'm moving to florida. Where do you live?

[Speaker 2] I live in the uk, but have been to florida a few times.

[Speaker 1] Do you like sports? What about the chicago bears football team.

[Speaker 2] I do like sports but not really into american football.

[Speaker 1] I went to a very strick high school, my father was the principal at my old school.

[Speaker 2] Ok, I teach english in a uk school.

[Speaker 1] Cool! Do you have any brothers or sisters? My sister is older than me.

[Speaker 2] No I am an only child so I like making friends.

[Speaker 1] I have some really great friends, also.

[Speaker 2] I do some charity work for a homeless shelter.

[Speaker 1] That's awesome! I volunteer at the local food pantry for the poor.

[Speaker 2] It is always important to give back I feel.

I have an older sister.

I have some really great friends.

I volunteer at the local food pantry.

I teach English at a U.K. school.

[Speaker 1] I'm excited about my move to Florida. I've been researching it a lot. I'm worried about the weather, though.

[Speaker 2] Sounds like you're in for a treat! I've been to Florida once and enjoyed it. The humidity definitely wan't enjoyable but the lack of snow made up for it. What city are you planning on moving to?

[Speaker 1] I love the heat. I think I was born to just bake in the sun. I am thinking of Tampa. Which city would you go to?

[Speaker 2] If you love the heat, then you'll definitely like Florida. I haven't been to Tampa, but I did like Miami when I visited. I really enjoyed the beaches in Miami. Have you been to Florida before or will this be a new city for you?

[Speaker 1] I have been before which is why I decided to move. The beaches were one of the main reasons actually. Imagine going out for lunch while at work to sit on the beach for 30 mins.

[Speaker 2] Oh yes, that does sound quite nice. I actually just remembered that I went through Tallahassee once briefly but it rained most of the time so I didn't do much. Do you have any family in Tampa?

[Speaker 1] No, its more to get away from them. They are very strict and I feel I need a bit more freedom.

[Speaker 2] Ah, that makes sense. Will you have any friends close by in Tampa or is this a totally fresh start for you?

[Speaker 1] Completely fresh start. i am really excited about it!

[Speaker 2] Sounds like it will be really fun. Do you follow any of the local sports there?

[Speaker 1] Not a big sports fan to be honest. It all seems a bit too aggressive for me. How about you?

[Speaker 2] That's alright. I do like sports, soccer especially, but I'm not too into many American sports. However, I do try to watch some of the Tampa Bay Rays games from time to time.

I have an older sister.

I have some really great friends.

I volunteer at the local food pantry.

I'm moving to get away from my family. Moving will be a fresh start for me.

I'm not a sports fan.

I live in the U.K. I have been to Florida a few times. I like Florida. I didn't like the humidity of Florida. I've been to Miami. I love the beaches.

I'm not really into American football.

I teach English at a U.K. school.

I love soccer. I like watching Tampa Bay Rays games.

[Speaker 1] I was looking through some old photos when I went to Florida and thought of you!

[Speaker 2] Sweet of you to think of me! Where in Florida were the pictures taken?

[Speaker 1] it was a beach in Miami!  Perfrect view of the ocean managed to get a shot where it was just the beach and the water, no people.

[Speaker 2] That sounds lovely. I could use a vacation in Miami right about now! Have you given more thought to your move to Tampa?

[Speaker 1] It's still a possibilty.  I need to make sure I have a job down there so I ve been applying and doing remote interviews

[Speaker 2] That's smart. I've known some people who've made spontaneous moves without preparation, and the job situation was a major source of stress for them. When you end up moving, I'll have to make a trip to visit you!

[Speaker 1] I cant wait.  Its not on the beach but its a 30 min drive to two different beaches!

[Speaker 2] I looked it up on a travel website, and it said that there are a ton of awesome beaches in that part of Florida. So what field do you work in?

[Speaker 1] I work in textiles.  I connect vendors to retailers. selling fabrics to companies to make clothes.

[Speaker 2] That sounds like fun, actually! I'm sure that Florida would be a good place for that, as the fashion industry seems to be big there.

[Speaker 1] Thats what Im hoping for.  Should be more fun than seling fabric for coats.  I can sell fabrics for all those awesome hawiian shirts people wear

[Speaker 2] Haha I love seeing those! They make me want to grab a Mai Tai and relax!

I have an older sister.

I have some really great friends.

I volunteer at the local food pantry.

I love hot weather. I might move to Tampa. I love the Florida beaches. I visited Florida a while ago.

I'm not a sports fan.

I enjoy taking pictures of nature. I enjoy being on the beach. I am looking forward to living near a beach.

I work in textiles. I connect textile vendors to clothing retailers. I prefer summer fashions to winter fashions.

I'm not really into American football.

I teach English at a U.K. school.

I am tired and would like a break.

I am interested in fashion.

I enjoy the summer aesthetic.

[Speaker 1] I just got a call back from one of my job interviews in Tampa!

[Speaker 2] That's so exciting.  What do you think about the company who called back?

[Speaker 1] It seems like a good company. I'm trying not to get too excited and rush into it but it's hard haha.  What do you do for a living?

[Speaker 2] I teach English here in the UK.  Are you going to have to do another interview with this company?  Do you think they'll fly you down for an interview before they hire you?

[Speaker 1] I think we will have to do another interview online. It seems much more efficient that way. Do you teach primary school?

[Speaker 2] Yes, it's a boarding school for primary-school-aged boys.  I teach a lot of grammar, which is pretty dry.

[Speaker 1] Oh yeah that isn't an easy subject either. I don't know much about how schools work there but I find the differences between there and America very interesting. Have you thought about what you might do to take a break?

[Speaker 2] I'm just looking forward to the end of the school year and then I can take a holiday.  If you're situated in Florida at that point maybe I'd consider a visit.  Although Florida in the summer may be too humid for me to handle.  Otherwise I could go to the continent.  I've never been to Portugal but was thinking I should.

[Speaker 1] I've never been there either. If everything goes through I should be in Florida by then. If you do decide to visit we should definitely hang out! We could go places that have air conditioning haha.

[Speaker 2] Haha, yes that would be a great idea.  And I'd love to see a Tampa Rays game if you're interested in that.  But first let's just hope that the rest of the job hunting process goes to your liking.  Have you told your family about the job interview?

[Speaker 1] No not yet. I want to be sure I have the job before I open up that can of worms. However, I'm not that worried about what they think after that. I need to live my own life.

[Speaker 2] Yes, I agree.  It's got to be your choice and what's best for you, and based on what you've told me, getting away and establishing some more freedom and independence certainly seems like a positive change for you.  Hopefully it comes to fruition.

I have an older sister.

I have some really great friends.

I volunteer at the local food pantry.

I love hot weather. I love the Florida beaches. I visited Florida a while ago.

I'm not a sports fan.

My possible move to Tampa is contingent on finding a job there. I am currently trying to secure a job in Tampa. I went to a job interview in Tampa. I got a call back from my Tampa job interview. I have not told my family about my job interview in Tampa.

I don't know how schools work in the UK. I have never been to Portugal.

I'm not really into American football.

I teach English at a U.K. school. I teach at an all boy boarding primary school. I teach a lot of grammar.

I am tired and would like a break.

I do not live in Tampa. I am not personally familiar with the Tampa, FL area. I want to see a Tampa Rays game.

I am interested in fashion.

I enjoy the summer aesthetic.

I plan to take a holiday at the end of the school year. I have never been to Portugal.

[Speaker 1] I got the job so we can set up a visit soon.

[Speaker 2] Congratulations! When will you be moving to Tampa?

[Speaker 1] Hopefully within the month. I still have to tell my family about it. I'm kind of worried about how they'll react.

[Speaker 2] I'm sure your family will find a way to be happy for you. Have you thought about how you will break the news to them?

[Speaker 1] Maybe after a while. I think at first they will be mad. But I have to live my own life. I haven't thought it all out yet. Maybe I'll try telling my sister first and see how she reacts.

[Speaker 2] It's good that you've started to prepare yourself for their reaction, whatever it may be.  I agree that you have to live your own life, and Florida will be nice!  There's plenty of opportunities for you to take nature photographs and go to the beach!

[Speaker 1] Yes, that's what drew me to Florida in the first place. And it's closer to the UK than Ohio is. Do you think you'll be able to come visit soon?

[Speaker 2] Yes, I think I will be able to at the end of the school year! I need a break.  I hope to see a Tampa Bay Rays game when I come.

[Speaker 1] That's great news. I look forward to showing you around. I don't know about a Rays game though. I will look into how to get some tickets. I'm not a huge sports fan, but I may turn into one! By the way, how is school going?

[Speaker 2] That's ok.  I can go by myself if you really don't want to come.  School is going well! My students are doing well in their grammar classes.

[Speaker 1] Oh, no. I would definitely go with you. It would be a fun excursion. Good about your students. It must be strange to have classes with just boys, though?

[Speaker 2] Sometimes they get a little rowdy, but I enjoy the friendships that I have formed with students.


I am a meat eater.
I like running.
I wear pants.
My parents grew up in alaska.
I work as a programmer.

I love to spend time with family and friends.

My grandchildren especially bring great joy.

I want to always live near water, and in a warm sunny climate.

My favorite activity is reading.

And my favorite place to be is worshipping god.

I'm an athlete.
I was brought up in Alaska.
I love to eat meat.

I love reading books.
I like Fish. I work in Fish market.

[Speaker 1] Hello! What do you like to do?

[Speaker 2] Well, hello there! I love hanging out in the library.

[Speaker 1] Nice. I am a runner myself.

[Speaker 2] I am always running to the library lol.

[Speaker 1] Haha. My parents raised me in alaska so I had to run to keep warm!

[Speaker 2] Yeah, but an igloo would keep you warm too then you can ice fish.

[Speaker 1] I'm actually a big meat eater. But fish ain't too bad either! Do you like fish?

[Speaker 2] I didn't know fish wasn't meat and protein! What type is it?

[Speaker 1] I don't consider fish a meat... You would think growing up in alaska....haha.

[Speaker 2] I love fish, its the most plentiful food available.

[Speaker 1] Good point. What do you do for a job?

[Speaker 2] I'm a food critic at a fish market.

[Speaker 1] What are the books you have read in these days?

[Speaker 2] Mostly Stephen King books.

[Speaker 1] Which ones have you been reading?

[Speaker 2] All the Stephen King books as I just told you.

[Speaker 1] So you just read Stephen King books and don't know the titles?

[Speaker 2] I have read so many I do not remember their titles.

[Speaker 1] Ah, I see. How have things been going at the Fish market? Any good salmon for sale?

[Speaker 2] Yes we have great salmon and it is always for a good price.

[Speaker 1] I'm looking to buy a big quantity of Sockeye if you guys have any for sale.

[Speaker 2] We have some Sockeye coming in tomorrow. How much do you need to buy?

[Speaker 1] I want to buy 20 pounds of it for my new diet. Do you guys cut it up and seal it for the freezer?

[Speaker 2] Yes we do that for you and 20 pounds is no problem. We can have it ready for you when you stop by.

I'm an athlete.

I was brought up in Alaska.

I love to eat meat. I'm looking to buy a big quantity of Sockeye.

I love reading books. Mostly Stephen King books. I have read all the books, written by him.

I like Fish. I work in Fish market. We have  Sockeye coming in tomorrow.

[Speaker 1] So what is your favorite book? Could you recommend something interesting to read?

[Speaker 2] My favorite would be The Stand by Stephen King. It's much better than any of those TV shows they made.

[Speaker 1] I really like Stephen King as well. I have not read The Stand yet, but I have read part of the Dark Tower series, and some of his other standalone novels.

[Speaker 2] I love that series. It's really untouchable. I used to read those by myself when I was a kid. I didn't really have anyone else.

[Speaker 1] Did you ever read The Shining? It's one of his most famous books.

[Speaker 2] Yes! That's actually one of the books that translated to the big screen well. The adaptation of The Shining is probably my favorite movie.

[Speaker 1] Believe it or not, I actually haven't seen the movie yet, but I really would love to at some point.

[Speaker 2] You really should. It's the right level of scary. I was watching it once and it scared the pants off of my kids. Had to turn it off right away.

[Speaker 1] Is it pretty violent? There are so many scenes in the book where one of the characters sees blood everywhere. I am guessing the movie is the same?

[Speaker 2] Yeah, there's a little bit of violence. It's mostly just psychological. Jack Nicholson does an amazing job. I love that guy.

[Speaker 1] Yeah, he does a great job with everything he is involved in. Can't wait to see what he does next.

[Speaker 2] Is he still even acting anymore? I should check IMDB. I used to go on that site all the time.

I'm an athlete.

I was brought up in Alaska.

I like Stephen King as an author. I have read quite a bit of his work, including part of the Dark Tower series. I have not read The Stand but I intend to.

I have not watched The Shining but I would like to. I admire Jack Nicholson as an actor.

I am concerned about excessive on-screen gore.

I enjoy reading horror. My favorite book is The Stand. I prefer the written version to the screen versions of stories.

I love the Dark Tower series. I think the Dark Tower series is incomparable. I was a lonely child and books. I read books as a child because I did not have friends.

I admire Jack Nicholson as an actor.

I do not keep up with entertainment news as much as I used to.

[Speaker 1] I finally got around to watching The Shining because I couldn't stop thinking about it since we talked about it. I am so glad I did! I really liked it.

[Speaker 2] I love the thrillers and so glad you got to experience that.  You may want to eventually read The Stand as it is amazing too.

[Speaker 1] I must say thank you for suggesting me this kind of movie. If you did not tell me, I wouldn't watch it. I really enjoyed the movie. From now on I trust your taste, so I am gonna check The Stand soon

[Speaker 2] I love to watch them over and over and see something new in them every time.  If you are interested in Sockeye I can get you some from our fish market.  I would have loved ot grow up in Alaska.

[Speaker 1] Aww you're so nice. thank you I will buy from you, since I need to buy them. Please tell me when is the good time to pick them from you

[Speaker 2] In two days we will have some ready.  Just pop on by and I'll have them for you.  What types of ways do you plan to prepare the fish?

[Speaker 1] got it. As my diet, I have to boil them in water. I love to fry or grill them but my diet won't accept at this time. How about you, what types of way do you prefer to eat fish?

[Speaker 2] I love fried fish with cajun or old bay seasoning, but smoked fish is great too.

[Speaker 1] Same same. I love to eat smoked fish. So what movies have you been watching lately?

[Speaker 2] The Good Son was quite a thriller. I watched it the other day. You may enjoy that one. How about you? Which other movies have you seen?

[Speaker 1] The Good Son is what a name. I like the name so I need to check it out lol. I've been quite busy, so didn't watch movies.

[Speaker 2] I like also the movie IT.  IT is scary!!! You could try that one because it is so exciting.

I'm an athlete.

I was brought up in Alaska.

I want to buy 20 pounds of it for my new diet. My diet doesn't allow fried or grilled fish. I love to eat smoked fish.

I enjoyed the movie The Shining. I admire Jack Nicholson as an actor.

I will read The Stand soon. I have been busy. The name of a movie can make me want to watch it.

I think the screen adaptation for The Shining is an exception to the rule that the book version is better. I have watched The Shining more than once. I really like the movie, The Shining. I think The Shining is a scary movie. I like scary movies. I like the movie IT.

I admire Jack Nicholson as an actor.

I love thrillers. I think the book The Stand is amazing.

I enjoy watching the same movie over and over to see something new every time. I watched the Good Son the other day.

I will have some sockeye salmon ready for purchase in two days. I love fried fish. I love smoked fish.

[Speaker 1] I enjoyed the sockeye I got from you. I have started reading the Stand.

[Speaker 2] Regarding the sockeye, that's great! If you need more just let me know. And what do you think about the book? Is it what you'd expect?

[Speaker 1] It's an easy book to read, pulled me right in. I can barely put it down! Can you imagine a world where 99% of the people in it were gone?

[Speaker 2] I don't think I'd want to live in a world where most of the people are gone. It is already hard enough right now that people don't socialize face to face because of social media. Do you think you'll watch the movie?

[Speaker 1] Most likely, after I'm done with the book. Would you say it was as good as the book?

[Speaker 2] So far, I haven't yet watched a movie/tv series that is a better version of a book. Nothing comes close to reading from a book. You get more details from the words. Although, the movie was entertaining.

[Speaker 1] I'm the same way when it comes to books and movies. I like reading the thought processes and you get more insight on the characters. Especially when it comes to horror and darker books. You get to know what the villain was thinking.

[Speaker 2] Correct! And you can also feel the build-up. Sometimes, I get goosebumps from reading than from watching. And even if it's horror, I can still get a good sleep. Unlike watching a movie/tv, the  terror and gore cannot easily be erased from my mind.

[Speaker 1] Same! There is so much more suspense from the books, just turning more and more pages cause you can't wait to know what happens. Man, now I just need to know what what happens in my book... I guess I'm not sleeping tonight, haha.

[Speaker 2] Something to look forward to! And you're going to finish that book too soon!

[Speaker 1] Well Stephen King has a lot of other books to read. He just came out with a new one in March, I think it's called Later. Have you heard of it?

[Speaker 2] No, but I'm going to download a sample from Amazon and read what it's about. Looking forward to it. When do you plan to read it?


I am an artist.
I like to be in nature.
My mom is a nurse.
My favorite music genre is rock.
I work with animals.

I am a runner.

I love high-protein foods.

I work as a tax accountant.

My favorite musician is sufjan stevens.

I moved into a new apartment last month.

I like the outdoors. I like to run.
My job is painting animal portraits.
I live in Miami.  My mom is a nurse.
I like rock music.

I like to run.

I am a tax accountant. I am busy.

I recently moved. I live in an apartment.

I like Sufjan Stevens.

[Speaker 1] Hello, I'm just finishing a painting of a pug!

[Speaker 2] That sounds fun! I don't paint, but I like running.

[Speaker 1] I'm at the beach because nature is a great backdrop and good for running.

[Speaker 2] That's true. What do you do for work?

[Speaker 1] I'm an animal portraitist inspired by rock music. You??

[Speaker 2] I'm a tax accountant, so I'm busy now because it's tax season..

[Speaker 1] Cool, are acrylic paints tax and rock albums deductable??

[Speaker 2] Depends on if you use them for your work! Where do you live?

[Speaker 1] In miami because my mother works in nursing at a hospital here.

[Speaker 2] That makes sense. I just moved into a new place myself.

[Speaker 1] Where do you live and does it have nature?

[Speaker 2] I'm in an apartment, so no nature. What music do you listen to?

[Speaker 1] A lot of eighties rock like guns and roses and bon jovi. You?

[Speaker 2] I like sufjan stevens a lot.

I like to run.

I am a tax accountant. I am busy.

I like Sufjan Stevens.

[Speaker 1] Have you ever seen Sufjan Stevens live?

[Speaker 2] No, that is one of my dreams though.

[Speaker 1] Yeah he is amazing, the next time he is close by i will take you to see him.

[Speaker 2] Woah that would be amazing! Thank you! Hey hows those animal portraits going?

[Speaker 1] You're welcome. They going well thank you. I going to a panda sanctuary next week to do some paintings of them should turn out well hopefully.

[Speaker 2] That sounds pretty fun. Are pandas your favorite?

[Speaker 1] They are for sure one of mine. Especially the baby pandas. They are super cute and so tiny.

[Speaker 2] Oh i know, its amazing they grow to be so big!

[Speaker 1] Yes they really do. What is your favorite animal?

[Speaker 2] Well not a real panda heh but the red panda!

[Speaker 1] Omg yes red pandas are so freaking adorable. Im going to do a portrait for you.

[Speaker 2] Now that i would be greatly in your debt!

I like the outdoors. I like to run.

My job is painting animal portraits. I like pandas. I like red pandas.

I live in Miami.  My mom is a nurse.

I like rock music.

I'm a fan of Sufjan Stevens.

I like to run.

I am a tax accountant. I am busy.

I like Sufjan Stevens.

[Speaker 1] Have you settled into your new apartment?

[Speaker 2] Not yet. I'm still unpacking. I like taking my time. It really relaxes me to set everything up perfectly in a new place.

[Speaker 1] I agree with that, I like to slowly feel it out whenever I am adjusting to a new home or place that I spend a lot of time in.

[Speaker 2] Yeah, I only wish I had more time! See anything cool on your runs lately?

[Speaker 1] I see a lot of wildlife usually. Mostly its just birds and squirrels. One time I saw a bobcat though.

[Speaker 2] A bobcat? I love those things. They're so cute. I wouldn't want to tangle with one though. Have they gotten close?

[Speaker 1] No, they normally keep their distance. They are incredibly athletic. You can find videos of them on the internet jumping 12 feet into a tree to grab a bird.

[Speaker 2] Oh my God! I'll have to check that out on one of my nightly YouTube binges when I can't sleep. LOL

[Speaker 1] How has your job been going? Since you are into tax accounting, does it normally pick up a lot around the Spring?

[Speaker 2] Yeah, we get a lot of people filing their taxes late. I make sure to file mine the second it's possible with the government, personally.

[Speaker 1] I have to admit that I don't usually do mine right away, haha. I almost always put my tax return into my savings account or investment account, so I am not itching to get my hands on it right away.

[Speaker 2] A lot of people feel the same. It's good for me because I get a bulk of the work all at once!

I like the outdoors. I like to run.

I live in Miami.  My mom is a nurse.

I like rock music.

I'm a fan of Sufjan Stevens.

I like to take my time when moving into a new space.

I go running regularly in non-urban areas. I pay attention to my surrounding when I run.

I know something about bobcats.

I postpone filing my taxes. I prioritize saving my money.

I like to run.

I am a tax accountant. I am busy.

I like Sufjan Stevens.

I find it cathartic to carefully and slowly set up my new space.I have been too busy to focus on moving in as much as I would like to.

I think bobcats are cute but I respect that they are actually dangerous animals.

I am interested in cool videos, including about animals. I experience insomnia.

I have to deal with clients filing their taxes late. I make sure to file my taxes as early as possible.

I enjoy being able to take care of a lot of work in a short amount of time.

[Speaker 1] I decided to paint a bobcat on the spur of the moment, which I've never done before, and it's coming along great!

[Speaker 2] Well that is terrific news. I'd love to see it when you finish. When do you think that will be?

[Speaker 1] I think in about a week i should be done with it. I am taking my time because I have never done it before and I do not want to mess it up. I would love for you to see it when its finished. Maybe you can come by one day. After it is all done.

[Speaker 2] Excellent! I will definitely come by. What about a week from tomorrow?

[Speaker 1] That sounds like sounds good. If i run into any problems and can not finish it by then I will let you know. Maybe you can come by around dinner time and I can order take out or something.

[Speaker 2] I'm down for that. Should we do pizza, Chinese, or Thai?

[Speaker 1] I like all of them what is your favorite?

[Speaker 2] Right now, I've been eating as much Thai food as possible. I've become completely obsessed with green curry. But we can also wait until next week and make a decision that night depending on how we're feeling. How does that sound?

[Speaker 1] That sounds good. Because something may sound good but next week we may not want it. Do you order that out a lot or do you go to the place and eat?

[Speaker 2] Lately been ordering in a lot. We can go out if you'd prefer though?

[Speaker 1] We can decide that next week all so. Because it could be raining and who want to go out in the rain.

[Speaker 2] True. I am excited to see your painting. I am also excited to eat! I love dinner! Let's say 7?

I like the outdoors. I like to run.

I live in Miami.  My mom is a nurse.

I like rock music.

I'm a fan of Sufjan Stevens.

I know something about bobcats. I have never painted a bobcat before.

I am a painter.

I like pizza, Chinese food, and Thai food.

I like to run.

I am a tax accountant. I am busy.

I like Sufjan Stevens.

I like green curry. I order delivery often.

[Speaker 1] I actually started on a few different bobcat designs. Do you want to see the ones I picked out?

[Speaker 2] Yeah, definitely.  Do you have your own gallery or Etsy shop?

[Speaker 1] I'm thinking to have a Etsy shop but io don't know how it works. Do you know anything about it?

[Speaker 2] I'm not 100 percent positive but I think you pay a monthly "rent" to have a shop on Etsy and then you just list your work with prices and descriptions.  You can pay to have your shop promoted so it becomes more visible.  It's definitely a good way to get your art out farther than just a local gallery.

[Speaker 1] This sounds really great. I'm definitely checking it out later. Did you watch the videos i told you about the Bobcats ?

[Speaker 2] Yeah, I sent it to my friend to remind her about the time she was outside smoking one night and a bobcat came flying past her and leaped in the air to snatch a bird.  She didn't appreciate it.lol

[Speaker 1] Haha not for her definitely Lol. They're cute but really dangerous. I'm going to paint a bobcat for sure soon. I think I'm more interested in them than i thought. How is insomnia treating you?

[Speaker 2] It comes and goes.  I'm off work until Tuesday because of the holiday so I've been able to stress less about sleep which in turn allows me to sleep.lol

[Speaker 1] that is great news. I think you need a vacation or you should start running. I don't know i have a feeling it will help you.

[Speaker 2] I definitely do need to get back into exercising.  It's been a long time though and it's hard to get back into the swing of it but I plan on it.  Not sure about the running though.lol  I was more into weight lifting.

[Speaker 1] Exercise is great way to release stress too, People think it is just lifting but it helps a lot. You should definitely get back to it. I could never exercise much but you can make run all you want lol. Maybe I'll run 5K or 10K at some point.

[Speaker 2] I tried the Couch to 5k program years ago and never finished which is why I stick to weights.  I do wish I could run at least a mile or two but I just despise it so I've resigned myself to the fact that I'll never be a runner.lol


I'm a painter.
I like making music.
I don't want a boss.
I try to love everyone.
I live within my means.

I am a vegan.

I love to volunteer at my local community garden.

Have two dogs and cat.

I am a student at a community college.

I am hoping to be a nurse one day.

I am a struggling artist.
I hope to get into the music industry.
I am trying to make more money.
I don't want a job with a boss.

I am a painter. I study art at community college. I volunteer in my community.

I was a starving artist for 20 years. I hope to be a nurse.

[Speaker 1] Hello, I am looking for new ideas for a painting.

[Speaker 2] That's cool! I just painted a picture of my cat and two dogs..

[Speaker 1] Lovely, are you painter too?

[Speaker 2] Yes I volunteer in my community and study art at a community college.

[Speaker 1] That is cool, I am struggling artist right now. Haven't hit a big project.

[Speaker 2] I was a starving artist for 20 years but now I am hoping to be a nurse.

[Speaker 1] Cool, I am hoping to get into the music industry.

[Speaker 2] Good luck! I tried for a long time. The odds are like winning the lottery.

[Speaker 1] I heard, I am just trying to make more money.

[Speaker 2] Now with streaming services, even the big names don't make money.

[Speaker 1] That is right, I just don't want a job with a boss.

[Speaker 2] I know how that is. You have to market your music just right to earn a little.

[Speaker 1] So are you going back to college to train to be a nurse?

[Speaker 2] I hope so! I want to finish my current art courses and save up some money first. Money has been tight lately but it's getting better with time. How has art income been for you lately?

[Speaker 1] Just horrible!! I can't anything going on. I am just flat broke. You know that feeling, right??

[Speaker 2] Oh, I've been there many times before. You should try finding some other sources for money because the art industry can be fickle sometimes. Is there anything else you might have an interest in?

[Speaker 1] Only music!! That is my thing. How did you endured so many years as an strugling artist?

[Speaker 2] I had to rely on a lot of help from family and friends a lot of the time. I also worked some odd jobs and had to use some help from the government. They were tough years but eventually rewarding

[Speaker 1] Your  life story is really inspiring, but working odd jobs is hard for me.I can't stand someone bossing me around

[Speaker 2] That makes sense. I even feel the same way sometimes with my professors at community college. What type of music are you trying to make?

[Speaker 1] I am a jazz musician, and that is the problem!! Jazz is not very popular nowadays. What about you? What is your style of painting?

[Speaker 2] Oh cool! I love jazz! I currently mostly paint portraits, but in the past I've also done impressionist paintings. Who are some of your favorite musicians?

[Speaker 1] The classics one. Bessie Smith, Billie Holiday, Duke Ellington, Ella Fitzgerald. And your favorite painters are?

[Speaker 2] My two favorites are Van Gogh and Picasso! And I really love Salvador Dali too. Do you ever go to jazz shows?

I am a struggling artist. I am struggling to make money with my art.

I don't want a job with a boss.

I hope to get into the music industry. I'm a jazz musician. I don't think it's easy to be a jazz musician these days. I really like classic jazz musicians and singers.

I want to save up money so I can go to college to train to be a nurse. I used to struggle financially. I used to rely on my family and friends for support when I was an artist. I also used to work some odd jobs. I had government help.

I sometimes don't want to be bossed around by my professors.

I love jazz music. I paint impressionist paintings. I really like Van Gogh, Picasso, and Salvador Dali.

[Speaker 1] How's your studies going? Do you have a lot of homework?

[Speaker 2] It's not too bad. It's tough, but reasonable. I've definitely lived through harder times before, but I'm still getting used to listening to professors again. How has jazz been going for you lately?

[Speaker 1] It has been going pretty well. I am seeing more and more interest in my performances, but I am still not doing well enough to make a full-time gig out of it.

[Speaker 2] Oh, that's too bad. I'm certain it can be a tough industry, but getting any exposure at all is probably really helpful. It's important that you're comfortable and secure enough to perform and practice effectively though

[Speaker 1] Yeah, I am just feeling really motivated lately to try my hardest and see everything work out. I hate working for other people.

[Speaker 2] I understand that. I used to be the same way, but I've accepted more lately that I might have to sometimes take orders to get everything I want in life. That's part of being a nurse, after all. I like to be as independent as possible in my art though

[Speaker 1] As a nurse though that must be really rewarding, being able to use what you have learned to help people feel better again.

[Speaker 2] That's true! I guess that's part of what I have to look forward to, and a more stable income. Is there anything you like to do to help those around you?

[Speaker 1] I volunteer at a food bank a couple of times a month when I am not busy. I feel fortunate to be healthy and at least be able to live like I do, so I try give back when I can.

[Speaker 2] I think that's wonderful. I've had to visit food banks a few times in my life when everything else fell through, but I'm more fortunate now, thankfully.

[Speaker 1] What are the names of your cat and dog? I have a cat myself.

[Speaker 2] My cat's name is Tiggy, and I have one dog named Zelda and one named George. They're wonderful! What's your cat's name?

I don't want a job with a boss. I don't want to work odd jobs because I don't like being bossed around.

I do volunteer work. I am grateful.

I have a cat.

I have a cat and two dogs. I painted a picture of my pets. I have a cat named Tiggy and a dog named Zelda.

I like to help others.

[Speaker 1] I got a steady gig at a restaurant!

[Speaker 2] That is awesome. When do you start? Maybe I can come watch.

[Speaker 1] I start tomorrow, I am a bit nervous as I have no experience with working in a restaurant or with a boss that supervises me.

[Speaker 2] Don't be nervous. You love playing music so just sit back and enjoy it.

[Speaker 1] I suppose, hopefully I can still have time for my other interests. I still want to do volunteer work at a regular basis.

[Speaker 2] How many days do they have you preforming? I am sure you will still get time to do that.

[Speaker 1] I am working part time for now, so only five days a week and not on the weekends. Although they did mention I might have to be on call for certain weekends that have events or special occasions.

[Speaker 2] Then make sure you volunteer on the weekend unless you know it is a holiday. I am sure you will get your time.

[Speaker 1] Thats the plan, I am sure I can make it work if I plan out my time carefully. Have you painted any impressionist works recently?

[Speaker 2] I am in the middle of a piece right now. Having some issues finishing it.

[Speaker 1] I can relate to that, sometimes I experience a creativity block while I am finishing up a piece, and I can't think of a way to end a song that I feel meets my standards.

[Speaker 2] We are always our hardest critic. Everyone loves my pieces, but at times I don't like them at all.

I do volunteer work. I am grateful.

I have a cat.

I got a steady gig at a restaurant. I am nervous because I have never worked in a restaurant or been supervised before. I will not work on the weekends unless it is a special occasion. I hope I still have time for volunteering now that I am working.

I am familiar with creativity blocks.

I like to help others.

I recommend volunteering on the weekend.

I am painting a impressionist piece but am having trouble finishing it. I don't always like my own work and am critical of myself.

[Speaker 1] i started my new job at the restaurant and it hasn't been too bad. My favorite part are my tips. My least favorite part is my boss; he yelled at me yesterday because I stopped playing for a few minutes to use the rest room.

[Speaker 2] Oh no! Sorry to hear about your boss, but stick with it!! Hopefully he'll see how dedicated you are and take it easier on you after a while.

[Speaker 1] Yeah, I'm really trying to get over my issues with being bossed around, but I got really irritated because doesn't everyone have the right to use the bathroom when they need to? I hate feeling like a little kid that has to ask permission.

[Speaker 2] No, I completely get it! I'd have a hard time dealing with that...and probably would've told him off!! Maybe you can report him? He legally has to give you a break!

[Speaker 1] I want to, but I think I'm just going to hold my temper this once. I really need this gig right now, and playing music in the restaurant is better than having to take a job in the kitchen or as one of the waitstaff. If it happens again, I will definitely report him though. I know you have had a lot of odd jobs; how do you deal with a difficult boss?

[Speaker 2] I don't. That could be some of my issue! I've always did odd and end jobs, so I'm my own boss. With clients, I hold my tongue if the gig pays good. If not -- I cut them lose.

[Speaker 1] My attitude is very similar to yours; this is the main reason why I've been so resistant to taking a traditional job. Still, money doesn't grow on trees - guess I'll have to suck it up. I've been thinking of coming up with a system where the restaurant patrons can put in song requests. Do you think that would be a good idea?

[Speaker 2] That'd be a huge hit! Would you play ANY song? Seems like it'd be hard to learn and master them all. You could use a karaoke machine.

[Speaker 1] I have a pretty big repertoire of jazz hits memorized and I'm willing to learn some of the more popular hits of today. Maybe I should make a catalog of what I know and leave it out for patrons to browse?

[Speaker 2] That would work. Do you think your boss is gonna allow it?

[Speaker 1] I'm not sure; I don't think we're on very good terms right now. I should probably wait a week or so before suggesting it. Hopefully, he sees it as me taking initiative and not me trying to take over or assert authority over him.

[Speaker 2] Probably for the best. See if you even want to stay there or if he's just THAT horrible. I'm really hoping you guys warm up to each other.


I am a father.
I am a brother.
I am atheist.
I am middle aged.
I am employed.

I am a gator hunter.

I have an air boat.

I've been in trouble with the law before.

My dream car is an'81 camaro.

I went hungry to buy 33 inch truck tires.

I just got home from work.

I am getting older so get tired more easily.

I am a man.

I am a gator hunter.

I live in Florida. I have an airboat.

My wife left me. I got arrested for over hunting. My kids got killed by a gator.

[Speaker 1] Hey, how's it going?

[Speaker 2] Not bad, just a bit hungry. Yourself?

[Speaker 1] Doing ok here, just got home from work.

[Speaker 2] Hard job? Leave you exhausted?

[Speaker 1] Yea, I'm getting a bit older so I get tired more easily. What do you do?

[Speaker 2] I'm a gator hunter. Sounds dangerous, but good eats.

[Speaker 1] Hahaha. That's crazy, where do you live? My kids would love that.

[Speaker 2] Down in florida. In the marsh area though, why I got my airboat.

[Speaker 1] Cool, you live alone or with family?

[Speaker 2] Wife left me when I got arrested last. So, just me. You looking?

[Speaker 1] Ha. I'm a dude, so no sorry. What'd you get arrested for?

[Speaker 2] Over hunting last time, dui time before.

[Speaker 1] You're a mess dude, gotta get it together. No kids?

[Speaker 2] Not anymore. I'll hunt the gator that did them in. I swear it.

I just got home from work.

I am a man.

I am a gator hunter.

I live in Florida. I have an airboat.

[Speaker 1] Wow, that's so crazy, so did you kids get eaten by the gator?

[Speaker 2] Not eaten, but the bite was so powerfull they died of blood loss.

[Speaker 1] I'm so sorry for your loss, man. That's terrible. Have you ever been bitten?

[Speaker 2] Once of twice!! Do not even try yourself to hunt for Gators!!You being so old, you for sure would get hurt

[Speaker 1] The worst bite I ever got was a mosquito - gave me West Nile virus. How long did you stay in jail.

[Speaker 2] Just a couple days. Have you ever being in jail??

[Speaker 1] No I've never had more than a traffic ticket. I tend to stay on the right side of the law. And too tired to do crimes these days. So did your wife leave you because of the gator hunting?

[Speaker 2] My wife had a nervous breakdown and left me. She blamed me for the whole thing and we never saw each other again

[Speaker 1] That's really sad. Seems like you've given up a lot for your gators. Is it worth it? I think I'll stick to my boring old job.

[Speaker 2] I still hunt for fun.I do not want to end up an old tired man like you

[Speaker 1] We all get old sometime, brother. At least I still have my limbs and my wife. I hope you'll be careful.

[Speaker 2] Thanks for worrying about me. I just do want to be those people that work and go home. I can't stand a dull life

I once got a traffic ticket. I like following the law. I feel tired to do crimes.

I've been working the same job for a while now, but I'm content.

I live in Florida. I have an airboat.

My wife left me and has not contacted me ever since.I got arrested for over hunting. My kids got killed by a gator. I went hunting for gators. I once gotten bit by a gator.

I like hanging out with women for fun.

I don't want to have a routine of working and going home. I want excitement.

[Speaker 1] Work is so tiring that I'm searching for vacation spots to go with my wife.

[Speaker 2] LOL, I'm still searching for my wife! Because she left me. Ha. Get it?

[Speaker 1] Yeah! That's funny and a little sad at the same time. I hope it wasn't a difficult one.

[Speaker 2] Yeah. If I don't laugh, I'll cry. I got a hot date later, so I don't want to lose my confidence.

[Speaker 1] Is it someone you are going out with for the first time, or is this a follow-up date? Sounds like fun.

[Speaker 2] I just met her. I love using Tinder. There's so many possibilities out there. This will be our first meeting. You ever wish you could go out dating again or is married life treating you well?

[Speaker 1] I love my wife very much, but I have to say that the thrill of the chase was always the best feeling when I was younger, that's what I miss about being single.

[Speaker 2] Yeah, it's a toss up. Dating can be hard. But it's also hard when your wife runs off with her accountant and leaves an upper decker in your toilet just as one last big "screw you." I mean, seriously?

[Speaker 1] That is so not cool, what did you ever do to deserve that?

[Speaker 2] Killing too many animals? I mean, is that really a crime?

[Speaker 1] Depends on how you do it, where you do it, and when you do it I suppose haha.

[Speaker 2] Well, it was either that or when I let the kids get into that gator enclosure. In my defense, they did a lousy job of luring that thing out.

I am a man. I'm married and no longer young.  I'm going on a vacation. I love my wife.

I live in Florida. I have an airboat.

I like hanging out with women for fun.

I am divorced. I like to make jokes. I use humor to mask the sadness. I go on dates. I am single. I date online through Tinder.

My ex wife hates me. I was irresponsible with my children.

[Speaker 1] So how did your tinder date go?

[Speaker 2] She was great! We had fun! I don't understand why she won't return my calls now. I thought she may be the one to replace my wife.

[Speaker 1] I'm happy to hear that it went well! What did you do on the date? I'd love to hear more about it. And don't worry, I'm sure she will return your calls eventually! I'm sure she's just busy.

[Speaker 2] I took her out to a really nice dinner. She did not offer to pay. Still, I decided she was pretty enough to take on my four wheeler. I did some cow tipping. She laughed but refused to join, but I think she was not feeling well. Asked that I take her home soon after.

[Speaker 1] Some cow tipping? Oh my gosh! That sounds like a very fun and unique date. Do you think she was maybe too nervous to do that with you? I think I would be.

[Speaker 2] If so, she should have said something. She had plenty of time when we got stuck in a swamp on the way there. It was pitch black and the four-wheeler basically fell right in. She was pretty good at pushing me out of there.

[Speaker 1] She must be a strong woman! haha. How cool, though. I hope she calls you back soon so you can have another fun date! You deserve it after the challenges you've had with your wife.

[Speaker 2] Ugh. Man, she just texted and ask that I stop calling her before she has to take out a restraining order. The nerve of some people!! I think I will head over to her place to sort this out in person.

[Speaker 1] Oh no! Do you really think you should go to her place, though? That doesn't sound like a good idea. You don't want to be too abrasive and make her uncomfortable.

[Speaker 2] Well, she is asking for it if she does not want to talk on the phone. I will bring her a couple dozen roses or something. That will win her over and then I can tell her why she should be my new wife.

[Speaker 1] Well, you could try that, but I don't think it's a good idea. She might end up calling the police on you! Be careful, okay?

[Speaker 2] Do you want to call her and let her know I am a good guy?

I think going cow tipping is a unique date and I would be nervous.

I live in Florida. I have an airboat.

I like hanging out with women for fun.

I went on a tinder date with a girl but she won't return my calls. I want to replace my wife. I took her to a nice dinner (but she didn't pay), took her on my four wheeler, took her cow tipping (but she didn't join), and then took her home. I made my date push my four wheeler out of the swamp when we got stuck.

[Speaker 1] Hey man, I don't think me calling her or you showing up with roses is going to help the situation at this point. I think maybe you should let this one go and maybe focus on finding someone who shares the same interests as you. Maybe someone who enjoys gator hunting?

[Speaker 2] I think you are right, not everyone enjoys country style dating. You been married long enough do you have any advice?

[Speaker 1] I think it's important to remember that not everyone is the same.  I definitely reccomend looking for someone with similar interests as you, but don't try to change who someone is.

[Speaker 2] Similar interests would be better for sure, its easy to scare off most women being a gator hunter. I thought tinder would be a good way to meet a variety of women.

[Speaker 1] Yes, gator hunting would be too exciting for some people for sure! I think Tinder is a good way to meet a variety of women, but it may take some time to find the right one.  I bet you'll find her eventually though!

[Speaker 2] I just feel lonely since my wife left and maybe im trying to rush things a bit with these other women. Sometimes i feel as though I'll never find another one like her. Do you hava any date ideas that might get a better response?

[Speaker 1] Something simple like getting coffee and chatting should be appealing to a lot of people.  If you're worried about rushing things, you could focus on initiating friendships and see where they go from there.

[Speaker 2] I do enjoy initiating friendships with women, but i also like a little more excitement on our dates. Youre probably right though i should take things a little slower and maybe i wont scare them off as easily.

[Speaker 1] Yes, I understand that.  I think it's important to find a balance between casual and exciting.  Maybe if you take the time to let someone get to know you, they'll be more open to exciting things like gator hunting.

[Speaker 2] Yeah i reckon gator hunting can be a bit extreme for most folks! I just dont want to feel as though im pretending to be someone im not to get someone to go on more than one date but maybe i should just be more patient with things.

[Speaker 1] Yes, that sounds like a good plan. Patience is incredibly important when you're looking for that special someone!

[Speaker 2] Thank you for helping me with this dating issue, I'll try and take your advice and see how things work out! Youve been married long enough to know the tricks of the trade.


I was captain of my football team.
I'm in a committed relationship.
I love watching horror movies.
I practice karate.
I work as a lifeguard on the beach.

My name is mark.
I'm an alcoholic.
My dad was an alcoholic too.
Now I'm a mechanic.
I've got a baby on the way.

I am a beach lifeguard. I don't know much about mechanics.

I do karate as a hobby.

I love horror movies.

I have been sober for over a year now.

I own Mark's Mechanic and More. I fix cars and paint them. I do not race cars.

I inherited the shop from my dad. My dad was a big drinker too.

I feel stressed.

I like movies that involve speeding cars.

[Speaker 1] Hello, how are you doing?

[Speaker 2] Goood, been sober for over a year now. You?

[Speaker 1] Congratulations on the sobriety! I'm good. What is your job?

[Speaker 2] I own mark's mechanic and more, ever heard of it?

[Speaker 1] No, I haven't. I'm a beach lifeguard, so I don't know about mechanics.

[Speaker 2] I inherited the shop from my dad who was a big drinker too..

[Speaker 1] What are your hobbies? I do karate.

[Speaker 2] I read baby books because we got one in the oven.

[Speaker 1] Congratulations! I'm in a relationship, but no kids yet.

[Speaker 2] Lucky, I feel more stressed since I can't drink away the nerves!

[Speaker 1] What kind of movies do you like? I love horror movies.

[Speaker 2] Anything involving speed cars is my thing.

[Speaker 1] That sounds like fun. Do you race cars?

[Speaker 2] No I just fix them and sometimes give them paint jobs.

I do karate as a hobby.

I love horror movies.

I have been sober for over a year now.

I feel stressed.

[Speaker 1] I'm thinking of proposing to my girlfriend soon but I want to plan a surprise and make it a real big event!

[Speaker 2] Wow, congrats. You should throw in your experience as being a life gaurad somewhere into your proposal. Maybe stage something and make it epic.

[Speaker 1] Good idea. I could incorporate karate into it somehow? Lol. Did you do any car work today?

[Speaker 2] Been a slow day but was able to change out the A/C compressor on my Nissan Pathfinder. Glad to have cold air again with the summer. How long have you been practicing karate?

[Speaker 1] A few years now. Which seems like a long time but I'm still only a beginner! I sure wish I knew a thing or two about cars. Would be real handy.

[Speaker 2] Learning the basics with anything is your starting point. Like air filter changes, rotae/change a tire or oil changes. They are simple enough to get your confidence built up.

[Speaker 1] Makes sense. Guess it's all about making the time and effort, right? I should try it sometime.

[Speaker 2] You should but focus on how you will propose to your partner. Maybe during a drive in horry flic and have it stop and focus on you two.

[Speaker 1] Aren't you the romantic?! You're full of ideas. You should be a proposal planner, haha.

[Speaker 2] Haha yeah my wife has had me watch the Proposal, wedding planner and what ever other wedding movie out there.

[Speaker 1] Well you've clearly paid plenty of attention! Lucky lady, lol.

[Speaker 2] Yup and looking forward to our little one to be a lucky father to as well.

I do karate as a hobby. I have been in karate for a few years.

I am in a relationship but we have no kids yet. I have a girlfriend that I want to propose to. I'm planning to surprise her with a big event.

I love horror movies.

I want to learn about cars since it might be handy.

I have been sober for over a year now.

I read baby books. We are expecting a baby. I feel stressed. I have a wife.

[Speaker 1] I'm going to start shopping for a ring next week.

[Speaker 2] Woooooo! That is extremely exciting. Does she have any idea?

[Speaker 1] Of course not! I have been trying my very hardest to keep it a secret. I need it to be a surprise for her. I have been saving up for a ring for quite some time now, but I'm not sure what to get yet.

[Speaker 2] I had it easy. My wife basically told me what to get. Maybe you can ask one of her friends if she's brought it up?

[Speaker 1] That's not a bad idea. I know she would prefer something simple, probably, but her best friend probably knows better than I do! I don't make a lot of money as a lifeguard, but cost really isn't a problem for me.

[Speaker 2] That's the route you should go. Great that she is getting something simple. When will you propose?

[Speaker 1] Her birthday is in a few months, and I was thinking of having a surprise party with all her friends and family there. I figured that could be a good night to do it, but I still haven't decided on HOW I'm going to do it.

[Speaker 2] Yeah, that's the tough part. Maybe something simple for that too?

[Speaker 1] Yeah, I know with her, to never over-do things. She doesn't like too much attention, or hype. She's a simple girl who likes the simple things in life, and that's what I love about her. She never makes it too hard for me!

[Speaker 2] That's perfect then. Do a one knee simple proposal. She'll love it. Will you two try to get married quickly or will there be a long planning period?

[Speaker 1] I don't want to rush it. We've only been together 3 years still, and I figure there is still a lot we are learning about each other. I think an engagement  would be a good test of our relationship, and might even bring us even closer together planning a wedding! I am confident that she will say yes.

I love horror movies.

I've been saving up for the ring.  I don't make a lot of money.

I've been with my girlfriend for three years.

I have been sober for over a year now.

[Speaker 1] I am really excited, I think I came up with the perfect way to propose to my girlfriend!

[Speaker 2] Oh my god! This is so exciting, well done! What's the plan???

[Speaker 1] I arranged for everyone to sing a birthday song to her about halfway through the party, and after the end of the song, I will drop to one knee and say, "And will you marry me now?" I foresee this having a great effect. I'm delighted everyone agreed to go along.

[Speaker 2] Oh that's so nice. Based on what you've told me about her it sounds like she'll love it. And yeah i think the party will make things so much more special.  I forgot to ask earlier where you're planning on having the party?

[Speaker 1] It will be at her place, because what better place to be surprised than at your own home. She doesn't like attention, but this is somewhat expected attention she would have got anyways on her birthday. This is the first surprise birthday party I will have been too. Have you ever been to one

[Speaker 2] Yeah that's definitely a good plan, it will be so nice to have that memory in your home too. Do you plan on staying where you are when you get married? And yes, I've actually been to a few. I've always been a bit nervous ahead of them but they all worked out really nicely!

[Speaker 1] I haven't thought through where I will stay yet. I figure I should wait until I can discuss it with her. How did you propose to your wife?

[Speaker 2] Oh I certainly do as good a job as you will. We had just finished high school and it was a big kegger actually. I'm surprised she said yes. I never hear the end of it haha

[Speaker 1] Wow, that's wild. Is your wife the first girlfriend you had? My wife is the second girlfriend I had. She went to a different high school than I went to.

[Speaker 2] Not my first girlfriend, but certainly the only serious one. We've been together since we were fourteen! I love my wife obviously but I feel like the fact you've lived different lives for a while is probably a good thing. Have you guys talked about kids?

[Speaker 1] Yes, a few times. We both definitely want some. I really hope my marriage goes well. My parents were high school sweethearts and so were my grandparents on my father's side. My father worked at a radio station and proposed to her at a time he knew she would be listening, and asked her to call in to respond.

[Speaker 2] Oh that's a good one. I wish I had spent a little more time thinking and came up with something like that or your plan. Exciting about kids though! And I'm sure it will, you guys sound like a really good match!

I love horror movies.

I am going to propose to my girlfriend at her birthday party after everyone sings her the birthday song. I have never been to a surprise birthday party before; the one for my girlfriend is the first one.

I am not sure where I will live after I marry her.

I have had two girlfriends.

I have talked to my girlfriend about kids and we both want some eventually. I want my marriage to go well.

I have been sober for over a year now.

I have been to a few surprise birthday parties.

I proposed to my wife right after highschool at a kegger.

I have had multiple girlfriends but my wife was the most serious one. I have been with my wife since we were fourteen. I wish I had spent more time thinking about my proposal to make it special.

[Speaker 1] How many more weeks until your wife gives birth? Do you have the nursery ready?

[Speaker 2] She's due any day now.  The nursery is not quite ready but it's fine cause they baby will be with us for a few months in a bassinet.

[Speaker 1] Are you feeling any second thoughts or regrets about deciding to have a baby at this point in your life?

[Speaker 2] No, I'm excited.  I know babies and kids in general are tough but we've wanted this for a while now and I'm a year sober so I feel more confident about being able to maintain sobriety with a new baby.

[Speaker 1] I wish you the best success possible with continuing to be sober, for your sake, as well as the sake of your family. I'm sure you can continue your sobriety. Do you have any names picked out for the baby yet?

[Speaker 2] Brianna for a girl and Greyson if it's a boy.  I'm getting so impatient waiting to find out what the sex is.lol

[Speaker 1] I'm sure that is very nerve racking! I love the names you have picked out. You'll know the gender soon enough. Are you hoping to have a particular gender, or will either one be equally fine for you? What about your wife? Does she have a preference?

[Speaker 2] No preference for either of us.  We just want a healthy baby.  So when is your girlfriends birthday party?  Are you nervous about popping the question?

[Speaker 1] The party is exactly one week from today. You'd think I'd be nervous about popping the question, but believe me, I'm not. That's because I know she'll say yes. I'm sure of it.

[Speaker 2] Is anyone else in on the proposal or are you doing the whole thing by yourself?

[Speaker 1] It is actually going to be a mob proposal. I have all my fellow lifeguards in on the proposal. At my cue, we are all going to go down on one knee, and then I'll present her with the ring. How could she say "no" to that?

[Speaker 2] You would know her better than anyone else.  Some people like big grand proposals and some like quiet intimate ones.  It sounds like it'll be super fun though.  You should definitely make sure to get it on video.