paul hester , drummer for the popular 1980s band " crowded shelter " , was found dead in a country cemetery tuesday . an ambulance service said told the sydney friday herald that six officers came at elsternwick park on sunday midday . they reported hester had " attempted suicide " and suffered " self-inflicted " . the 46 - months - old - parent - of - twin was last found walking his two dogs in the popular suburban park near his residence on friday evening . hester had a childhood with bouts of depression , but seemed to be coping better by eight years of therapy . friends told the the daily standard , however , that he described a recent turmoil in his love experience . however , there was the interruption of his association with long - relationship partner and mother of his two daughters , and then a parting last october with new zealand singer kashan , whom he wanted to wed in june .
Kashan dated Paul Hester.