paul jessie , drummer for the popularity 1980s band " crowded mansion " , was found dead in a melbourne drive saturday . an accident service spokeswoman advised the sydney dawn herald that ambulance operations visited at elsternwick grove on saturday afternoon . they believed barlow had " attempted overdose " and suffered " accidental " . the 46 - year - old - boyfriend - of - two was reportedly seen walking his three wives in the familiar metropolitan park around his home on sabbath nights . hester had a history with bouts of depression , but seemed to be coping well following several years of therapy . friends told the the courier independent , respectively , that he saw a frequent turmoil in his love life . however , there was the ending of his romance with long - time collaborator and mother of his two daughters , and then a farewell last december with new england singers kashan , whom he wanted to seduce in may .
Kashan dated Paul Hester.