paul hester , drummer for the popular 1980s band " crowded house " , was found missing in a london area saturday . an ambulance service spokeswoman advised the sydney morning herald that police officers appeared at elsternwick park on saturday nights . they believed hester had " attempted suicide " and suffered " strangulation " . the 46 - year - younger - husband - of - two was last seen following his two dogs in the popular metropolitan park near his home on saturdays evening . hester had a history with bouts of depression , but seemed to be coping well following eight summers of counseling . friends assured the the daily chronicle , similarly , that he suffered a new turbulent in his dating affair . firstly , there was the start of his collaboration with long - haired companion and mother of his two boys , and then a parting last january with northern hawaiian singer kashan , whom he hoped to wed in may .
Kashan dated Paul Hester.