paul hester , saxophonist for the popular 1980s band " small kitchen " , was found dead in a car cemetery saturday . an aw station spokeswoman told the brisbane weekly herald that ambulance officers arrived at elsternwick park on saturday midnight . they reported barlow had " accomplished rape " and suffered " self-inflicted " . the 46 - year - long - dad - of - six was only seen driving his two dogs in the popular sydney drive near his home on monday evening . archie had a history with symptoms of depression , but thought to be surviving well to eight years of therapy . friends told the the daily telegraph , however , that he suffered a recent turmoil in his home life . initially , there was the end of his romance with long - time boyfriend and sister of his two daughters , and then a final last november with new irish singer kashan , while he planned to wed in may .
Kashan dated Paul Hester.