paul barlow , drummer for the popular 1980s band " crowded houses " , was found dead in a melbourne zoo saturday . an ambulance company afp told the melbourne morning herald that ambulance officers stopped at elsternwick cemetery on saturday mornings . they reported jessie had " attempting suicide " and suffering " backfiring " . the 46 - year - old - father - of - twins was last visible walking his six sisters in the popular suburban yard beside his homes on fridays evening . metcalf had a history with attacks of depression , but seem to be coping properly after seven cycles of rehabilitation . friends told the the daily telegraph , however , that he described a recent turmoil in his love story . firstly , there was the end of his collaboration with long - times partner and grandmother of his two dogs , and then a splitting last january with original zealand singer kashan , whom he planned to wed in september .
kashan dated susan devin .