Salesforce object creation behavior in CustomersDot

### Background

Via the integration with SFDC, Salesforce objects are created in CustomersDot following any self service purchases.  These CDot services that integrate with Salesforce use `Customer` (later to be renamed `User`) information stored in the CDot database like company name, first and last name, email, country, state, zip to create the Salesforce objects.

In https://gitlab.com/groups/gitlab-org/-/epics/8331, Fulfillment is looking at improving the data architecture of CDot, in particular the `Customer`/`BillingAccount` alignment.  We are focusing on simplifying the `Customer` model, and treating this more like a "User of the Customer Portal" (later to be renamed `User`), persisting mainly email address, first name and last name.  These `Customer`s (later renamed `User`s) would have memberships to `BillingAccount`s, which represent Zuora Accounts.  Much of the data that is pulled from `Customer` currently, could be pulled directly from Zuora (and potentially cached in CDot in later iterations) via the Zuora Account and the Sold To Contact for the `BillingAccount`.

### Proposal

Investigate whether CustomersDot can use the Sold To Contact from the Subscription's Zuora Account, instead of `Customer` (to be renamed `User`) data stored in the CDot DB, to create the appropriate SFDC objects (Account, Contact, Opportunity, etc).

Services in question:
- All services in https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/customers-gitlab-com/-/tree/main/app/services/salesforce
- [`CreateSalesforceContactService`](https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/customers-gitlab-com/-/blob/edf972ee51f37d98f23a0e38828e5c01d0f5ed3a/app/services/create_salesforce_contact_service.rb)
- [`CreateSalesforceAccountService`](https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/customers-gitlab-com/-/blob/99ecaa74572bcf1542b5ab9fadba3f410b402b18/app/services/create_salesforce_account_service.rb#L3)

### Delivery strategy

- [x] :one: Update the CustomersDot matching strategy to find an account within SFDC (https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/customers-gitlab-com/-/merge_requests/5970):

From:
- Find SFDC Account by CusomersDot user `salesforce_account_id`
- Find SFDC Account by CustomersDot user's Zuora Account `crm_id`
- Find SFDC Contact by exact match to the CustomersDot user's email -> then find the Account for the Contact

To:
- Find SFDC Account by CustomersDot user's Zuora Account `crm_id`
- Exact match with the Zuora Sold To contact email
- Find SFDC Contact by exact match to the CustomersDot user's email -> then find the Account for the Contact

Diff:
- **Remove:** ~~Find SFDC Account by CusomersDot user `salesforce_account_id`~~
- Find SFDC Account by CustomersDot user's Zuora Account `crm_id`
- **New:** Exact match with the Zuora Sold To contact email
- Find SFDC Contact by exact match to the CustomersDot user's email -> then find the Account for the Contact

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- [x] :two: Update the SFDC Account / Contact creation logic: https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/customers-gitlab-com/-/merge_requests/6151

From: Be based on the CustomersDot user's data.

To: Be based on the CustomersDot user's Zuora Account Sold To Contact data.

This change is added behind the `:create_sf_contact_from_zuora_contact` feature flag given:
- We might have to hand out validation for the changes working properly in staging to another team, possibly not related to engineering.
- Failures in the SFDC Contact and Account creation will impact revenue metrics.

Feature Flag rollout issue: https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/customers-gitlab-com/-/issues/5409

:exclamation: :checkered_flag: The flag is currently disabled for staging and production

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:eye: Extra context: https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/customers-gitlab-com/-/issues/4822#note_1166606063

Story points: 3.0