Edited sentence: All of these programs ask you to step out of your comfort zone and push beyond your fears.As for the Qlink.Back rubs and confidence.By treating strangers as close friends we overcome our fears of friendship and intimacy.Everyone on Earth is on our team.Getting out those things that cause us pain is big part of healing.His UPW weekend is the introductory program, you can gain much from it, but so much more awaits if you use the whole program.I'm sure he still believes in the Qlink, since he wears it.If we exclude people from our lives we may be pushing away something important that our lives require at that time.If you haven't gotten your money's worth then don't go on.In most relationships there is a power disparity.It may not be on purpose or overt but it often exists.No one holds a gun to your head to sign up, but there is nothing wrong with asking for more of your business if you feel you've gotten your money's worth from the 4 day program.Partners are deliberatly separated to insure that both people get what they need from the event rather than what their partner wants them to get.Perhaps the best thing about confiding in strangers is leaving pain behind.Separating partners is an important part of most events.There are some events where partners are encouraged to participate together, but most often partners grow when they aren't hiding behind each other or holding each other back.Thousand of people have benefited from Tony's programs.Tony has a business to run.Tony still wears his as do many of his trainers and staff but he no longer promotes it.We aren't alone.When you confide in a stranger you often find we all share the same kind of pain.You can tell a stranger something with the expectation you'll never see them again.You never know when someone shows up in your life with the right thing at the right time.You won't do that playing it safe.You won't get that if you only work with people you know