Edited sentence: 'They’ll go back home with you and say, ‘No, no, no,’ and if you’re an American, you’ve been trained to respect the ‘No,’ because you’re afraid of sexual harassment or date rape, and so you fail over and over.Ames spoke about his sex life in Moscow during an interview with The New York Observer in 2000: "'Russian women, especially on the first date, expect you to rape them,' said Mr.But it took me a while to learn you really have to force Russian girls, and that’s what they want, it’s like a mock rape