分类：教育/科学-外语学习
问题：解析一道高中英语完形，悬赏～阅读下列短文，从A、B、C、D四个选 
下列短文，从 A、B、C、D 四个选项中选出最佳选项。 When I was younger I thought that boys and grown men shouldn’t cry. Tears were a sign ofbeing 36 which a man isn’t supposed to be. However just last June I 37 that courage isn’t all about trying to keep all the paininside and trying to hide the 38 .下列短文，从 A、B、C、D 四个选项中选出最佳选项。 When I was younger I thought that boys and grown men shouldn’t cry. Tears were a sign ofbeing 36 which a man isn’t supposed to be. However just last June I 37 that courage isn’t all about trying to keep all the paininside and trying to hide the 38 . My 18-year-old sister had eloped 私奔 and then I saw how weak my father’s heart was.We were used to seeing him as a 39 father. For three days he wouldn’t talk. He would just sit 40 outside our house in the dark. Onthe fourth night I sat beside him and 41 him to tell me what he felt about 42 . It had been years since I laid my hand on my father’s shoulder as we have drifted 疏 远 further and further apart while I was 43 . That night though I sensed my father trying to 44 his pain I wanted him to be able to let it out. We had all cried over what happened except him. The 45 touch and my words “ Dad it’s not your 46 ” broke my father’s dam. 水 闸. In the darkness he began to cry. I 47 his shoulders shaking as he whispered “ 48 did I go wrong All I ever wanted was for my children to grow up 49 . Why couldn’t your sister wait” I understood then why he 50 to be in the dark. 51 being there he had hoped not to spare his 52 of a father’s pain. His tears 53 we hadn’t seen them before that night were there all the same. I saw his 54 that night when my father cried with my hand on his shoulder and 55 his pain. f oug51.52.53题的答案是C A D　请解释为什么选这个答案,最好将这几句话翻译一下
回答：上文说原以为男人都是不哭的，后来发现哭并不意味着软弱，然后举例说明女儿私奔父亲不言不语坐在暗夜里伤心，“我”作为儿子与父亲并不特别亲近，却终于忍不住安慰父亲让父亲哭出来发泄伤痛。

“我那时理解了父亲为什么更愿意呆在黑暗里。他不希望再让家人分担他作为一个父亲的伤痛，尽管那晚之前我们没看见他哭，他的眼泪其实一直都在。”

51 on 、of 可直接排除 by doing sth  通过做某事  for doing sth 因为做某事 呆在黑暗里跟不想让家人分担痛苦是不因果关系 

52 spare sb of sth 根据上下文有“和某人分享某事”的意思 A 家人 B 孩子们 C功能 职责 D 经历 经验

53 主从复合句 主句 His teaas were there all the same. 句中though 引导让步状语从句，从句也可放句首。