分类：教育/科学-外语学习
问题：请求高人帮助我翻译短文Bothsideswantpeace,bu 
Bothsideswantace,butneitherfeelsithasanypowertostoptheconflict.Inpart, yresponsibilityforstartingit.Fromtheparents’pointofview,theonlycauseoftheirfightistheiradolescents’ eteensseeitinexactlythesameway,exceptoppositely.Bothfeeltrapped  In this article. I’ll describe three no-wBothsideswantace,butneitherfeelsithasanypowertostoptheconflict.Inpart, yresponsibilityforstartingit.Fromtheparents’pointofview,theonlycauseoftheirfightistheiradolescents’ eteensseeitinexactlythesameway,exceptoppositely.Bothfeeltrapped  In this article. I’ll describe three no-win situations that commonly arise between teens and parents and then suggest some ways out of the trap. The first no-win situation is quarrels over         unimportant things . Examples include the color of the teen’s hair, the cleanliness of the bedroom ,the preferred style of clothing , the child’s failure to eat a good breakfast before school ,or his tendency to sleep until noon on the weekends .Second ,blaming.The goal of a blaming battle is to make theotheradmitthathisbadattitudeisthereasonwhyeverythinggoeswrong.Third,needingtoberight,Itdoesn’tmatterwhatthetopicis–politics.Thetawsofphysics,ortheproperwaytobreakanegg–thepoin rbothwishtobeconsideredanauthority—someonewhoactuallyknowssomething—andthereforetocommandrespect.Unfortunately,aslongaslongasparentsandteenscontinuetoassumethatthey know more than the other ,they’ll continue to fight these battles forever and never make any real progress 
回答：双方都希望和平相处，但双方都无力去制止冲突。在某种程度上，这是因为双方都不愿承认引起火头的责任。从父母的角度来看，他们只会觉得子女们完全不合理。当然，青少年们的看法自然完全相反，两者皆落在这困局。

在这篇文章中，我会就一般青少年和父母之间产生矛盾，简说三个“双输”的论点，然后提出一些走出困局的方案。

一、锁碎的争议
为这些问题争议实在很无谓，这类的例子包括：青少年的头发的颜色或该多久洗一次头、臥室的整洁、衣著款式偏好、上学前不好好地吃早餐、在周末睡到日上三竿等。

二、指责
指责骂战的目的，就是让对方承认，事情变得糟糕皆因对方的态度差劣。

三、道理在我
话题其实并不重要——不论是政治、物理原则，甚至该如何打一个鸡蛋——这一切旨在是证明你是对的，其他人是错的。双方都希望被认同为权威——一个全知的人——从而可发施号令。不幸的事情是，只要家长和青少年都认为他们较对方懂得更多，他们定继续斗下去，而永无任何实质性进展。