Finding Myself
 This article is about the novel. For the psychological concept see identity crisis.Finding Myself is a 2003 novel by Toby Litt. The story is a comedy about friendship love hate and society in the English seaside town of Southwold and centers on the main characters female writer Victoria About (pronounced Abut) and the friends and relatives she has invited for a month.Finding Myself is the sixth novel by Toby Litt and published by Penguin Books.