prompt: I was most taken aback to learn that someone was not who I thought they were. It was more a statement on how I chose to see them_comma_ rather anything that was their fault. A good lesson.
utterance: Well_comma_ in a sense. But to be fair_comma_ I may have had my own "vision" of who they were and held them to that standard -- not really seeing them for who they were. I have to accept some responsibility for that_comma_ you know?