CREATE TABLE table_name_43 (pole_position VARCHAR(255), date VARCHAR(255), fastest_lap VARCHAR(255), winning_driver VARCHAR(255))
Tell me the pole position for graham hill the fastest lap and winning driver of him on 30 may
    
SQL: SELECT pole_position FROM table_name_43 WHERE fastest_lap = "graham hill" AND winning_driver = "graham hill" AND date = "30 may"