And so to avoid idealizing, you have to balance them out by remembering their frown, not just their smile, how bad they made you feel, the fact that after the lovemaking, you got lost coming down the mountain, argued like crazy and didn't speak for two days.
Как плохо вы себя чувствовали рядом с ними. Как после любви в горах вы заблудились в лесу, ужасно поссорились и не разговаривали два дня.