John Jay O'Connor III ( January 10 , 1930 -- November 11 , 2009 ) was an American lawyer and the husband of United States Supreme Court Associate Justice Sandra Day O'Connor , the first woman to serve on the court .
John Jay O'Connor III ( January 10 , 1930 -- November 11 , 2009 ) was an American lawyer and the husband United States Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O'Connor , the first woman to serve the court .