To obtain a VA-backed mortgage loan as a surviving spouse of a Veteran,
if i want to get these benefits
Okay. Another query regarding discharge statuses.  What happens if I'm discharged for dishonorable or bad conduct?
You may not be able to get any VA benefits.
You will need a COE Eligibility Certificate to demonstrate to your lender that you qualify for this benefit. Find out if you can get a COE. Please note that you will also need to meet the credit and income requirements of your lender to obtain a loan.
So if I need COE to qualify for this VA benefits, what is the procedure for requesting a COE?
This depends on whether or not you receive DIC for dependency compensation.
Can I get a COE?
You may be able to get a COE if you're the spouse of a veteran, and at least one of the descriptions below is true for them.
I ask you the requirements questions?
yes
Veteran missing in action?
not
Are you a prisoner of war prisoner of war?
yes