When do you plan to start your benefits?
Not sure I know what the best age is
Well there are things to consider as there is no one best age for everyone
I am going to be 62
You shold make the decision about when to apply based on your individual and family circumstances
yes
I need more information about the benefits that widows and widowers will get, or first tell me about the benefits that are available to them as they get older.
ok. For your widow, the benefit could start as soon as she turns 60, getting reduced benefits, or full benefits at the full retirement age. If your widow is disabled she could start getting the benefits at age 50 if her disability started before your death or up to seven years after.
Do you happen to be familiar with other things to consider?  What happens if I'm married and my spouse has a job?
You may be able to switch to their health insurance
I still need to find out about Social Security pay death benefits. Is it possible for a son to receive the payment?